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Text Any textual data included in the document Oklahomans for Equality History Project For many years in June, which is LGBTQ Pride month, Tulsa’s downtown streets and parks were awash in a rainbow of colors with a sea of the beautiful diversity of humanity assembled for Tulsa Pride. But it wasn’t always that way. Think about a time when Pride didn’t exist – a time when many of you weren’t yet born but when a large number of our LGBTQ community WERE here, trying to live in a world that didn’t acknowledge their humanity. LGBTQ people existed, but pride did not. Being gay or trans meant living in the closet for fear of losing one’s family, job, religious affiliation and home and being ostracized – and even jailed or institutionalized – for living openly. Beyond those outward realities, LGBTQ people often were self-loathing, longing to change their sexual orientation or gender identity so they could fit in with society and live in accordance with what society said their God demanded. But throughout history, some gay and trans people have stood up to challenge the status quo and say, “We’re OK just as we are.” Accepting ourselves was the beginning of Pride. Oklahomans for Equality’s forerunner organization, Oklahomans for Human Rights, was organized in Tulsa as a chapter of an Oklahoma City-based organization in 1980, and a handful of Tulsa’s gay men and lesbians came together in 1982 to organize and produce Tulsa’s first Gay Pride Week. In its May 26, 1982, newsletter, available in the OkEq History Project archives, OHR called it “Tulsa’s first major commemoration of the beginning of gay liberation,” the Stonewall riots of 1969. Events included a picnic and festival at Chandler Park; softball games at Manion Park; beer busts at local bars Tulsa County Mining Co., Tracy’s New Edition, Tim’s Playroom and Zippers; a screening of the “Rocky Horror Picture Show” at the Brook Theater; Gay Day at Discoveryland; Gayskate at the Rinky Dink Skating Rink in Sand Springs; and a benefit drag show. The next year’s Pride Week Picnic, held at Mohawk Park, drew about 300 people, according to OHR’s July 1983 newsletter. Records in Oklahomans for Equality’s archives show that the 1983 Gay Pride Week Committee’s total income was $1,910.66, while expenses totaled $1,473.83, bringing the organization a $436.83 profit. Those early Tulsa Pride events didn’t involve parades and were relatively low-key events in out-of-the-way locations. In contrast, it costs anywhere from $150,000 to $200,000 to put on today’s Pride events. OHR became TOHR in 1985, when local activists formed the nonprofit Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights and separated from the Oklahoma City organization. The annual picnics continued, and it seemed that perhaps greater visibility and even acceptance had come to Tulsa Pride in 1994 when then-Mayor Susan Savage proclaimed the week of June 19 through June 25 that year “as Gay & Lesbian Pride Week in our city.” Tulsa’s first Pride march came in 1997. Without closing the roads, marchers traveled one-half mile on Edison Street from Gilcrease Museum Road to Owen Park, where a picnic was held. Participants also listened to music, and community organizations and businesses offered information and merchandise at booths. The second Pride march, in 1998, saw about 150 people march from 15th and Main streets to Veterans Park (now Dream Keepers Park) at 21st Street and Boulder Avenue. The 1999 event was the first parade that involved street closings and police escorts. Tulsa’s first Pride parade went from 38th Street and Peoria Avenue in the Brookside District to 31st Street, then west to Riverside Drive, and then north to Veterans Park. With the political and social environments of the times, it took Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights quite some doing to acquire a permit for the parade. The Tulsa City Council delayed a vote on the permit twice before finally approving it. In the meantime, one councilor, Sam Roop, had proposed and then dropped a resolution stating that the City Council did not endorse the June 12 parade. The Tulsa World reported that Roop had been concerned that approval of the parade permit “might be construed as an endorsement of the ‘gay pride agenda.’” In the end, he joined the other councilors in unanimously approving the permit – but not the “lifestyle.” Tulsa World archives record that Councilor Darla Hall said that "the gay community is not before this council tonight so that we can stand in judgment of their lifestyle. They will appear before God for that, just as we all will answer to God for our lifestyles. I only pray they are as prepared for that day as they are for the parade.” But with the parades came increased visibility. The keynote speaker at a gala hosted by Tulsa Oklahomans for Equality and the Cimarron Alliance, as well as the grand marshal of the first Pride parade, was U.S. Rep. Barney Frank of Massachusetts, who brought with him increased media coverage of Tulsa Pride. Big names were also included in the next year’s Pride, which showcased as gala speakers and co-grand marshals Olympic diver Greg Louganis and Col. Grethe Cammermeyer, who had successfully challenged her dismissal from the Army for being a lesbian and who later worked for the repeal of the military’s Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy. That same year, 2000, the Rev. Dr. Mel White, founder of Soul Force and author of “Stranger at the Gate,” spoke at the Tulsa Pride Week Interfaith Service. Activities related to Pride were growing in number, too, with film festivals, book discussions, high school gay-straight alliance showcases, Council Oak Men’s Chorale performances, PFLAG parents panel discussions, art shows and a NAMES Project AIDS memorial quilt display included along with a parade and festival during Pride Weeks by the early years of the 21st century. By 2001, the parade route had shifted to Cherry Street, with step-off at 15th Street and Utica Avenue and the conclusion again at Veterans Park. Archives show that the annual parade continued along that route until 2009, when it ran through the Arts District and ended at the Diversity Festival’s new location at Centennial Park (now Veterans Park), at Sixth Street and Peoria Avenue. During those years, paradegoers mixed with athletes and the crowd watching Tulsa Tough bicycle races in the Arts District. TOHR changed its name to Oklahomans for Equality in 2006 in advance of the opening of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center – OkEq’s permanent home – in February 2007, and in 2011, the festival was moved to Fourth Street – Pride Street – and Kenosha Avenue in front of the Equality Center. In 2014, the parade route shifted to start at Boston Avenue United Methodist Church, 13th Street and Boston Avenue, still ending at the Equality Center. The annual Rainbow Run’s inaugural year, with a 5K race and a 1K fun run, was 2014. The timing of Tulsa’s Pride parade and festival changed in 2024 to October to avoid the extreme heat of Oklahoma’s summers and to coincide with LGBTQ History Month and National Coming Out Day, Oct. 11. The Equality Gala and other events still take place in June. Inclusion and acceptance have grown along with Pride, with some push and pull, advancements and backlash, along the way. This year’s events this fall are expected to draw nearly 70 parade entries, with a crowd size along the parade route estimated at 10,000 and attendees at the Pride festival projected at 26,000. The Oklahomans for Equality History Project encourages you to learn more about OkEq’s history by visiting our online archives at history.okeq.org. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data Article Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data Article Text Any textual data included in the document The Oklahomans for Equality History Project remembers with pride the U.S. Supreme Court opinions handed down on June 26 in various years that made monumental strides in the quest for equality for LGBTQ people. We think June 26 should be National Equality Day! • On June 26, 2003, the Supreme Court struck down state sodomy laws across the nation in Lawrence v. Texas. • On June 26, 2013, the Supreme Court killed the Defense of Marriage Act in U.S. v. Windsor AND overturned Prop 8 in California. • On June 26, 2015, the Supreme Court made marriage equality the law of the land in Obergefell v. Hodges. • On June 26, 2017, the Supreme Court ruled that all states must provide married same-sex couples the same "constellation of benefits" and recognition afforded to heterosexual couples. The OkEq History Project’s archives remind us of how Tulsa acknowledged all those cases and rulings. June 26, 2003 The Spring 2003 edition of the TOHR Torch, the publication of Oklahomans for Equality’s forerunner, Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, noted that Oklahoma was one of only four states that still specifically criminalized same-sex sodomy at that time. The others were Texas, Kansas and Missouri. The Arkansas Supreme Court had overturned that state’s same-sex sodomy law the previous year. The U.S. Supreme Court was expected to issue a ruling in Lawrence v. Texas in June, and an article in the Spring 2003 Torch announced that Lee Taft, Lambda Legal regional director in Dallas, was to discuss the case at Fellowship Congregational United Church of Christ in Tulsa on April 14. Lambda Legal had represented the two defendants in a criminal sodomy case and led the case through appeals. “Battling for years in the Texas courts, we sought to overturn the criminal convictions (which made the two men registerable ‘sex offenders’ in several states) and to have Texas’s law declared unconstitutional,” Lambda says on its website. “When the highest court in Texas eventually refused to even hear our arguments, we convinced the U.S. Supreme Court to take the case. In a stunning victory, the highest court in the land found the “Homosexual Conduct” law unconstitutional and established, for the first time, that lesbians and gay men share the same fundamental liberty right to private sexual intimacy with another adult that heterosexuals have.” The ruling overturned the June 30, 1986, precedent of Bowers v. Hardwick, in which the U.S. Supreme Court had ruled that states had the right to criminalize sodomy on the grounds of public morality. The TOHR Torch noted that “sodomy laws (were) used to justify discrimination against lesbians and gay men … in every day life; they’re invoked in denying employment to gay people, in refusing custody or visitation for gay parents, and even in intimidating gay people out of exercising their free speech rights.” The Lawrence ruling set the stage for later advances in the struggle for equal rights under the law, with each case building on those that had come before. The Summer 2003 TOHR Torch included an article from the History Project outlining the history of sodomy laws, with a focus on Oklahoma, where in 1890 the pre-statehood territory’s Legislature had codified its sodomy law with a penalty of up to 10 years in prison. The relevant statute, Title 21, Section 21-886, refers to the crime as “the detestable and abominable crime against nature.” State courts made consensual heterosexual sodomy legal in 1986 but retained the right to prosecute consensual homosexual conduct. That Summer 2003 article noted that “Oklahoma’s law has become legal justification for firing gay and lesbian teachers, administrators and school personnel, nursing home workers and others. These Oklahomans and other gays and lesbians are therefore required to choose between their livelihoods and their ability to be open about who they are. As a result, gays and lesbians in Oklahoma are deterred from seeking political and social change.” With repercussions like those, it’s no wonder so many gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Oklahomans continued to live in the closet. The Lawrence ruling made it possible for many to come out of the shadows and was a major building block for the legal victories that came later. June 26, 2013 Ten years later, two huge advances in the quest for marriage equality came out of the U.S. Supreme Court on June 26, 2013. The July 3, 2013, OkEq eNews reported that on the evening of Wednesday, June 26, 2013, more than 400 celebrants gathered at a Decision Day Rally at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to celebrate that morning’s Supreme Court rulings on both the Defense of Marriage Act and Proposition 8, making same-sex marriage legal in California again. The group heard from attorney and OkEq board member Mike Redman and the plaintiffs in the Oklahoma marriage equality lawsuit, Mary Bishop & Sharon Baldwin and Sue Barton & Gay Phillips. “There was a champagne toast and a fabulous wedding cake from Merritt's Bakery,” the article says. The eNews article shares photos from the Decision Day Rally. Oklahomans for Equality Board of Directors President Angela Sivadon, center, and her now-wife, Mary Robinson, serve wedding cake to the crowd at the Decision Day rally in 2013. The overturning of DOMA meant that the United States government would recognize any marriage – including same-sex marriages – recognized by any state. It did not, however, force states to recognize same-sex marriages. That fight was left for other cases, but, like Lawrence v. Texas, United States v. Windsor was a fundamental building block for those that followed. In California, the nation’s largest state, marriages of same-sex couples had been legal since June 17, 2008, after a May 15 ruling by that state’s Supreme Court. But a group of people, known as the proponents of Prop 8, gathered enough signatures to put Proposition 8, a proposed state constitutional amendment, on the ballot. Prop 8 was to define marriage as between only a man and a woman and to stop the same-sex marriages. When they went to the polls on Nov. 4, 2008, more than 13 million Californians voted 52% to 48% in favor of the state question. No more same-sex marriages were allowed – at least for the time being – but about 18,000 had already been solemnized. The resulting amendment was challenged in court in Hollingsworth v. Perry, and on June 26, 2013, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that the proponents, who defended the constitutional amendment after the state of California refused to do so, did not have standing – or the legal right – to defend the case. Therefore, the Aug. 4, 2010, ruling of U.S. District Judge Vaughn Walker that Prop 8 violated the U.S. Constitution was upheld. Same-sex marriages began again in California on June 28, 2013. June 26, 2015 Marriage equality was achieved for all the land on June 26, 2015, when the U.S. Supreme Court ruled in Obergefell v. Hodges that marriage is a fundamental right that is guaranteed by the U.S. Constitution to everyone, including same-sex couples. Oklahoma had achieved marriage equality through the courts a year earlier, but all the states that still did not have marriage equality were required at that time to authorize and recognize marriages of same-sex couples. Oklahomans for Equality proclaimed in its June 30, 2015, eNews that “at long last, there is no such thing as ‘gay marriage’ – now it's just MARRIAGE!” The eNews article shares photos from the Marriage Equality Celebration Rally that OkEq held at the Equality Center that evening. Attendees at the Marriage Equality Celebration Rally on June 26, 2015 – the day the U.S. Supreme Court made marriage equality the law of the land in the Obergefell case – give attorneys Don Holladay and Joe Thai, front left, a standing ovation. Holladay and Thai, along with attorneys James Warner III and Jeffrey Fisher, represented the plaintiffs in the Oklahoma marriage equality lawsuit, which they had won the year before. June 26, 2017 The U.S. Supreme Court followed up exactly two years later with a ruling that clarified for states that didn’t yet get it what it had meant by marriage equality in 2015. Its ruling in Pavan v. Smith would establish that all states must provide married same-sex couples with the same benefits and recognition they afford to heterosexual couples. The plaintiffs were two legally married Arkansas same-sex couples, the Jacobses and the Pavans, who had conceived children through anonymous sperm donation. The state refused to list the wives of the birth mothers as co-parents on the children’s birth certificates, citing a state law. The U.S. Supreme Court ruled that the law was “inconsistent” with its Obergefell ruling. “When an opposite-sex couple conceives a child by way of anonymous sperm donation – just as the petitioners did here – state law requires the placement of the birth mother’s husband on the child’s birth certificate. … And that is so even though (as the State concedes) the husband “is definitively not the biological father” in those circumstances. … Arkansas may not, consistent with Obergefell, deny married same-sex couples that recognition,” the Supreme Court wrote in its decision. The Oklahomans for Equality History Project encourages you to learn more about OkEq’s history and the history of our rights by visiting our online archives at history.okeq.org. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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Every Tuesday from 4PM - 6PM LGBTQ+ Consumer Rights and Protections July 16th SAGE x CFPB x FTC Virtual/Online Session Dates/Topics: July 16th, 2024 - Retirement and Long-term Financial Planning Hosted & Presented By: '1,l FEOEIIAI..TRADEC~SION ReportFraud.ftc.gov cf -- Offlolof-orEduatlon f Join this free three-part webinar series for a ⚡ discussion of consumer rights and protections in housing, retirement, and end-of-life planning. Learn about your rights in the marketplace and how to spot, avoid, and report frauds and scams. This series is hosted by the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Federal Trade Commission, Securities and Exchange Commission, and SAGE National Resource Center on LGBTQ+ Aging. Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), and the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) for a free webinar on retirement and long-term financial planning. Speakers from the three agencies will talk about how to protect resources from scammers, steps to becoming a financial caregiver, and information on investing and avoiding investment fraud. September 17th, 2024 - End-of-life planning and your consumer rights Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on end-of-life planning issues. Speakers from FTC and CFPB will speak about: how to shop for funeral services with your consumer rights in mind; your options for longterm care; protections when it comes to nursing home debt collection; and how to take control of your finances after the death of a spouse or partner. 4/29/26, 12:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Register Today In Memoriam Iln Merrnoriaurn Timothy (Tim) Linus Dickmann Dec. 18, 1967 - June 24, 2024 Bernd (Eric) Oehler Dec. 08, 1942 - June 7, 2024 Bill Young Born Day - May 21st 2024 In Memoriam Submissions click on the name to view obituary, if available. OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-cr- HEALTH -ci=-crCLINIC CulturallyCompetentCar•forthelGBTQ•Communlly Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. 4/29/26, 12:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ASEXUAL A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based 4/29/26, 12:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM .,,,,,_ WE ARE NOW OFFERING TULSA 6?1TI-R6CI5T Support Group Rwhlt.e·letl2roupforpet:rsupportandeducationaboutsyst.emicracism -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. lut Thundau of ~-lllonth at the Dennis R. 11111 tiq1lalltg C8ntar mElllst.7--1:Ml Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. 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Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social 4/29/26, 12:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. ------ opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS 7484 .;.. Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. lriJ FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Fruity Pebbles Fruity Pebbles is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 13 to 17. ?⚧❤?????????? Every ✨Saturday from 1PM to 5PM✨ Fruity Pebbles gives youth opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutual- 4/29/26, 12:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... aid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack/lunch is provided. For questions, please email shay.brewer@okeq.org for parent/guardian enrollment. This group meets every Saturday of the month at 1pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGALA ID~~ SERVI CES .,. = QKlAIIO .. . .<, l ,_C, ............ 71 ~ Gender L Correction Clinic 94290, . . . . . . . . . . . . . JulieLGofeewithl.egalAidSeMcesof Ok lahomaisavailablefordropindiscussions rngardinglega l issUf!!o. --- ...,.....,,......., .. c.MbllNellEquallty,TulSa.OK74129 Lawyer in the Library Oklahoma !or Equa lity Law Center ishostingaclinicfornameand AnorneyJosh Paytonandhisteam wi nass;stthosewithnameand Qendercorrec1ions. can·1 ma kelt inpen.on?contac1 inlottokequalitylaw.comtoschedu(e a consultation by Zoom. a.,, wcond ~ y ofrt,e .--'-M _,._,m _,._~_,_"'.., """-·- -- - -...... momfl from 5,:39f'M' ,0 7PM DMnisR.Neill Equality, TulSa, OK 74128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS Denn,sR Nc1l1Equat,ty Tulsa OK74128 OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all 4/29/26, 12:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS A social o,ganlzation for mature-minded GayandBise,ualmeo. A .o,;._ orv-r,iation for ma1Urernlnded gay -,Id bisex1Jc1l men to ftUbllshlriendshlpandwpport lhroughsoclallnlef'ac11on 71 ,-,._...,r---,.,,°' AttendNs musl be 21 l'N;,. o r ~ - - - - .__.,,_7NllioPAM Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 , OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm 4/29/26, 12:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t ih SERVICES O F OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGAL AID t ih SERVICES O F These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy 4/29/26, 12:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. '"'• Get help- applying for A • center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Are you a young adult experiencing homelessness or housing instability? S upplemental : ~!~~--i:;ce P rogram No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: Call toll-free to l (877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. 1. 2. alerts across the country. Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: You may qualify for the Tulsa Higher Education Consortium 's Rapid Rehousing Program. Program requirements include: • Being ages 18-24 • Experiencing homelessness or at-risk of homelessness • Interested in enrolling or currently enrolled in one of the 9 col leges and universities that are in the Consortium contact a Tulsa Higher Education Consortiu m Housing Navigator by emai lin g Complete this form to be connected to a Housing Navigator: jjones@tulsahighered.com / sbrantley@tulsahighered.com ~ TULSA HIGHER I ,1.;1 1 1EDUCATION Learn more a, buogertceeok o~/reso11cresKoap/ ~ I I ~ - li-..l HUNGER * FREE n CONSORTIUM OKLAHOMA www.tulsahighered.com OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked THE DENNIS A. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER WWW.OICEQ.ORG 918.7&13.&1297 Starting Saturday, May 25th The Dennis R. Neill Equality will be opening at noon on Saturdays This week with OKEQ 2024 Remember The Removal Bike Ride We wish all cyclists a safe trip on the 2024 Remember The Removal Bike Ride. The cyclists started their journey from the New Echota Historic Site and are making their way back to Tahlequah, Cherokee Nation, Oklahoma. This is an annual bicycle ride of nearly 1,000 miles commemorating the forced removal of Cherokee people from their ancestral homelands. The riders departed from Georgia on Monday, June 3rd. ?⚧?❤????????????? One of the riders is Shawna Baker, the first openly lesbian on the Cherokee Nation Supreme Court and an OKEQ Trustee. Shawna Baker Interview 2024 Tulsa Pride 83 United x FC TULSA Shout out to 83 United, they showed PRIDE this past Saturday at the FC Tulsa vs Sacramento Republic FC with the OKEQ Rainbow Pride Flag! "83 United is an independent supporter group uniting all fans of the USL Championship side FC Tulsa. Together we serve a mission that is twofold: cheer the boys in black and gold to victory and grow the game we love in the city we call home." Join them in section 115 for the 2024 season for the best party in downtown Tulsa!" www.83United.org 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ?⚧ HAPPY PRIDE MONTH OKLAHOMA?⚧ Tulsa Pride may have moved to October but we're still celebrating PRIDE all month long!! Check out these PRIDE events that are happening around town and some of the Pride events that benefit Oklahomans for Equality! We wish everybody and our community partners a FUN, SAFE, and LOVING month of PRIDE and we hope to see y'all at the Be Your Own Masterpiece Equality Gala on June 22nd! " ?⚧?❤????????????? For more information visit www.okeq.org! ?? HAPPY PRIDE MONTH OKLAHOMA TULSA ?? Who doesn't love Huffy? Now he's supporting LGBTQ+ people too? Even better. A portion of all sales will be donated to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma to support the LGBTQ+ community! ?⚧?❤????????????? Show your Tulsa pride and celebrate love in all its vibrant forms with this limited-edition tee! Our iconic mascot, Huffy, takes center stage, reimagined in a dazzling rainbow of Pride colors. This comfy classic features a durable 100% polyester front for bold graphics, while the cool 100% nylon mesh back keeps you breezy. An adjustable snap closure ensures a perfect fit, ready for cheers, adventures, and everyday Tulsa love. PRIDE WITH HUFFY 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Your reigning 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya. ?⚧?❤????????????? f ⚡Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed decor! We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. ?⚧?❤????????????? SPECI --..~· ENING UIUI UII "' . COME EARLY FOR OKEQ BUSINESS MIXER . PRESENHD WITH OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY Birdcage Screening with Circle Cinema and EBA Mixer Thursday, June 27nd, 6PM Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK Presented with Circle Cinema during Pride month! A portion of ticket proceeds will benefit OKEQ. Film at 7:30PM, and come early for OKEQ’s Equality BusinessAllianceMixer in the lobby starting at 6PM - with free popcorn samples and a cash bar. Tickets for the film are $11 Circle members, $13 nonmembers. 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ MEMBERS ARE ELIGIBLE FOR A DISCOUNTED PROMO CODE. VERIFY YOUR MEMBERSHIP BY EMAILING KAO.MORRIS@OKEQ.ORG TO RECEIVE YOUR PROMO CODE. The Equality Business Alliance (EBA) exists to strengthen 2SLGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa Community. The EBA is held every fourth Thursday of the month. The EBA provides a directory of 2SLBGTQ+ online at OkEq.org. EBA is an opportunity to network with like-minded businesses creating professional environments where 2SLGBTQ+ businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. About the film: In this remake of the classic French farce "La Cage aux Folles," engaged couple Val Goldman (Dan Futterman) and Barbara Keeley (Calista Flockhart) shakily introduce their future in-laws. Val's father, Armand (Robin Williams), a gay Miami drag club owner, pretends to be straight and attempts to hide his relationship with Albert (Nathan Lane), his life partner and the club's flamboyant star attraction, so as to please Barbara's father, controversial Republican Sen. Kevin Keeley (Gene Hackman). ?⚧?❤????????????? BIRDCAGE TICKETS Andy B's PRIDE Fundraiser Friday, June 28th, 3pm-11pm Andy B's Bowl | Social 8511 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK Join Andy Bs for a Pride fundraiser on Friday, June 28th, from 3pm-11pm. Join 2024 Tulsa Pride, King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya for an evening of bowling, food, drinks, and fun. Guest will receive a $5 game card and 20% of sales will go to The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ?⚧?❤????????????? Be sure to let them know you or there for the OKEQ Pride fundraiser. 1censingbyConcordTheatricals . cc,£,\f\NS EATINGAQU, S \..,V"' June 28 & 29 'ICJte Written by: Evan Linder & Andrew Hobgood B&Z PRODUCT IONS in collaboration with 5 Lesbians Eating A Quiche June 28th & 29th, 7:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK In 1956, the Susan B. Anthony Society for the Sisters of Gertrude Stein organized their annual quiche breakfast. The event took place in an idyllic town, and the "widows" were eagerly waiting for the announcement of the society's prize-winning quiche. However, the event was interrupted by the sound of atomic bomb sirens, and the "widows" were faced with an attack on their town and way of life. What will they do in response to the threat of communism? 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... '''" AMERICAN TMEATRE Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre 621 E4th ST Tulsa, OK 74120 Allpr1c111h11 to.1rd,th D1nt1isR. N1il1(41HlitrC11t1r '9 918.804.2907 8 americantheatrecompany.org (9 atc@a tctulsa.org 5 Lesbian Eating Tickets ALL PROCEEDS from ticket sales go to the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. If you're looking for some entertainment, 5 Lesbians Eating a Quiche is a production you might be interested in. It won the Best Overall Production award at the 2012 NYC International Fringe Festival. The show is packed with hilarious laughs, sexual innuendoes, unsuccessful repressions, and delicious discoveries. It stars Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Rooney, Vivica Walkenbach, Amanda Nicols, and Erika Reider. ?⚧?❤????????????? TahlEquality's 10th Pride Picnic & June 29th & 30th, 12:00pm Norris Park 400 N Muskogee Ave, Tahlequah, OK Get ready to join us for Pride in the Park on Saturday, 6/29, with the kick-off at 12pm with a drag show at Ned's (18+ with valid ID) later in the evening and a campout on the river. Sunday 6/30, there will be a float trip, more details to come. The events will be family-friendly, except for the adult after-show at Ned's. Let's celebrate our 10th anniversary with s'mores, hotdogs, families, and good humor during June LGBT month! ?⚧?❤????????????? Please stay tuned for updates and RSVP on facebook to stay up to date for all things TahlEquality. TahlEquality 10th Annual Pride Celebration Pride Month with The Tavern All Month of June The Tavern 201 N Main St., Tulsa, OK Join us in celebrating Pride month at Tavern on Main St. with our special cocktail, the Pride Paradise. ?⚧?❤????????????? For every Pride Paradise (Acai Margarita) and other select drinks purchased, we will donate $2 to the Equality Center. The Tavern will be donating $2 from each of the following drinks: Pride Paradise (Acai Margarita), Non-alcoholic Pride Paradise, glasses of our Rotating Rosè of the Day, and Neff Raspberry Pride sour beer. The Pride Paradise is made with either Cimarron Tequila or Boval Mezcal, Fair Acai Liqueur, Agave, and Lime. The Nonalcoholic Pride Paradise contains Acai Juice, Lime Juice, and Sprite. ?⚧?❤????????????? The Pride Paradise is made with the finest 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 16 ' I - ,. ,.. ,. - "".., -~ "' ~- - https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ingredients and is available both with and without alcohol, so everyone can join in the celebration. Your support helps us make a difference. Cheers to equality and inclusion! ' I The Tavern Special Events FREE HIV TESTING 71 Get culturally competent care for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community at the Dennis R. Neill FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, June 25th, 4pm - 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Know your status today! Every Tuesday from 4PM - 6PM Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, June 27th, 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Then and Now takes the audience on a historical journey of the Broadway musical. Join Larry Gray, Jill Lingle, Alyssa McGuire, and accompanist Tracy Watson as they bounce back and forth through the history of their favorite Broadway tunes with a couple non-Broadway performance pieces added for fun. Also – featuring original artwork by Pamela Watson. Then and Now will journey from the waters of Dames @ Sea to the French Revolution; from Pajama Games to Untitled Show; and from Charlie Brown to The Bridges of Madison County. TICKETS Blended Saturday, June 29th, 12 Noon Oklahomans for Equality 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This peer-led support group is for parents in ono-traditional households (step-parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents etc.) Free childcare is also available! For more information email 2022blended@gmail.com A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is fo r parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Free chi ldcare is also available! Please join us at NOON on JUNE 29th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2O22blended@g!Ill!il&2m • LGBTQ+ Consumer Rights and Protections July 16th SAGE x CFPB x FTC Virtual/Online Session Dates/Topics: July 16th, 2024 - Retirement and Long-term Financial Planning Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), and the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) for a free webinar on retirement and long-term financial planning. Speakers from the three agencies will talk about how to protect resources from scammers, steps to becoming a financial caregiver, and information on investing and avoiding investment fraud. f Join this free three-part webinar series for a ⚡ discussion of consumer rights and protections in housing, retirement, and end-of-life planning. Learn about your rights in the marketplace and how to spot, avoid, and report frauds and scams. This series is hosted by the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Federal Trade Commission, Securities and Exchange Commission, and SAGE National Resource Center on LGBTQ+ Aging. September 17th, 2024 - End-of-life planning and your consumer rights Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on end-of-life planning issues. Speakers from FTC and CFPB will speak about: how to shop for funeral services with your consumer rights in mind; your options for longterm care; protections when it comes to nursing home debt collection; and how to take control of your finances after the death of a spouse or partner. Register Today In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Il111 Meimoriaurrn Bernd (Eric) Oehler Dec. 08, 1942 - June 7, 2024 Bill Young Born Day - May 21st 2024 In Memoriam Submissions click on the name to view obituary, if available. OKEQ Programming OKEQ -ci=-«r- HEALTH -ci=-«rCLINIC Culturally Comp•Unt Car• for th~ lGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow Library DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ::;;.."7,;:7:.:-:;::,::.:::,~., 71 ASEXUAL AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA 6?1TI-R6CI5T Support Group WE ARE NOW OFFERING ~'F/RN -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. laat Thursdau of BV81'U_fflonth at th8 lllnnia R. lllil Equalitu C8ntllr IIElltst.7-ta Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma Alys.saBf)oantwithLegalAidServiceso! Oklahoma will be assisting the LGBTQ+ _ 71 lfyoubelieveyouVebeeoavictim ofhouslngdiscrimination,please callherat9 18-238-165&,oremai l herat,lJ~~g GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP The Gender Support provides Theseservicesareopentoe,,e,yon• rega,dlessofir,comeandare available throoghouttheStatetor LGBTQ+persons a,..,, .........J' of lne ;:::: '=;;;; m"";;;: ;",;;;; '"'";:::: fai;-"= ::::,;;;;.:., "'-•;:::: lated _ ;,_,oo_, - - ' Monett from 12PM- 4PM. support,educa tioo,andsocial opponunitiesfortransgender First-timeinterviewisrequiredbe!ore attending your first meeting Ptea,;econ!act918-743-42Q7 71 ~ ~"'"- ~ fnlnt 7'Wf09flM DlnnltR.NellE(pM,llty,Tuba. OK7◄12& Dennis R. NeiU Equality, Tul$.a, OK 7◄ 12& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. ------- You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS 7484 .;., Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Fruity Pebbles Fruity Pebbles is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 13 to 17. ?⚧❤?????????? Every ✨Saturday from 1PM to 5PM✨ Fruity Pebbles gives youth opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutualaid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack/lunch is provided. For questions, please email shay.brewer@okeq.org for parent/guardian enrollment. 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This group meets every Saturday of the month at 1pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGALA m ~, SERv1ct:s .... =ii 01<1A HO.\IA, l sc. --................. 71 Gender L Correction Clinic 9Q9 . . . . . _ . . . . . . . _ JulieLGoreewithlegalAidSetvicesof OklahomaisasailablefordrOl)indiscussions re<,ar<linglegalissues. Denna R. Neill Equality, Tulsa. OK 74129 Lawyer in the Library Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center is hosting a clink for name and ,__,_~_,._•=-•-~-'-"'-"""- -- - - - - AnomeyJoshPaytonandhisteam willassistthosewithoameand genderc01Tections. Can'lma keit inperson?contact infof>okequalilylaw.comtoschedule a consultation by Zoom rwr, s«ond Wedr,e,scayof rhe ,no,,tt,frv,nS;JSPMto 7PM Dennis R.NelUEquallty,Tuls.a,OK74128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS ( OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS Asociatorganizationformatu re-minded GayandBise,ualmen 71 Ato,;ll,lorganizationlormah.1..rnlnd9dgay-,,dbisex1,1;1l,....,10 ftUbllshlriendshipand$UPl)Ol't llvvugt,10Ciallni.rac1ion AttendNs must be 21 YN~ or l'wwy---,n-c..,,o1 _ _..... ... _.,,_7NlliofPM Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 , OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRIJ&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGAL AID t h SERVICES O F OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID t h SERVICES O F These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. \11£'1 Get helpapplying for • • :~!~~\i:;ce Are you a young adult experiencing homelessness or housing instability? S upplemental P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espai'iol You may qua lify for the Tulsa Higher Education Consortium's Rapid Rehousing Program. Program requirements include: • Being ages 18-24 • Experiencing homelessness or at-risk of homelessness • Interested in enrolling or currently enrolled in one of the 9 col leges and universities that are in the Consortium contact a Tulsa Higher Education Consortium Housing Navigator by emailin g jjones@tulsahighered.com / sbrantley@tulsahighered.com Complete this form to be connected to a Housing Navigator: TULSA HIGHER EDUCATION Learn more at buogertceeok oq,/resourceslsoap/ CONSORTIUM - li-..l HUNGER • FREE n OKLAHOMA www.tulsahighered.com OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm New Programming OKEQ Youth Programming Saturday, April 6th, 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK OkEq is excited to have the return of weekly Saturday youth programming at the Equality Center! The program is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 12 to 19. OKEQVOUTH PROGRAMING Every Saturday from 1 to 5 pm will involve opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutual-aid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack is provided. For questions, please email youth@okeq.org Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Friday, April 12th, 10-11.30 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Nestled in the heart of Tulsa, Oklahoma, Zen Recovery Inc. stands as a beacon of hope for those navigating the complexities of addiction. Led by women and LGBTQ+ individuals, our 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization offers weekly gatherings known as "Zen & the Art of Whatever Works," providing a safe haven for individuals seeking solace and support on their journey to sobriety. With a focus on harm reduction and mindfulness, our meetings, held every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month, offer a space for individuals to explore their struggles and triumphs within a community of understanding and acceptance. As the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance, we pride ourselves on our commitment to radical inclusivity, ensuring that all voices are valued and heard. Join us at Zen Recovery Inc., where compassion reigns supreme, and the path to healing is paved with courage and acceptance. Special Events Rising Stars Saturday, April 6th, 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Saturday, December 2nd at 3 PM Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of each month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Coronation XVI - A Night in the Halls of Valhalla Saturday, April 6th, 7 pm Renaissance Hotel 6808 S 107th E Ave, Tulsa, OK You can purchase a ticket for $100 that allows you in earlier for a formal dinner. If interested, let me know, and I'll send you the ticket link. This is our biggest annual fundraiser of the year. All funds made throughout the year go right back into the LGBTQIA+ Community here in Oklahoma. This is a formal attire event. You'll see and meet Drag queens from all over the US and Canada. We are an international 501c3 non-profit organization. Check us out at impcourtok.org Bill W. and Dr. Bob April 11th-14th Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK It is a powerful and often humorous play detailing the events that led to the creation of Alcoholics Anonymous. BILL W. and Dr. BOB Written by Samuel Shem & Janet Surrey, Directed by Paula Scheider, Sponsored by Hippie Chick Heart Featuring: Dara Renee Allen, Kim Li Carlson, Marc Carlson, Mark Ingham, DeeDee Huffman-Jones, Zero Steiert 1st Annual Multi-Cultural Celebration Spring Festival & Market Saturday, April 13th, 10 am-6 pm Marriot Southern Hills 1902 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK We welcome ALL Artisans and Entertainers, Indigenous, LGBTQ2IA, Alternative, Hispanic, African American, Gothic, Pagan, Disabled, Autistic, and MORE! NO HATE SPEECH ALLOWED! A CHILL ROOM is provided for those with SENSORY ISSUES! This event is ADA-compliant and has plenty of parking. Vendor Form 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Marriott Southern Hills Ruffin Event Center 1902 E 71st Street, Tulsa Oklahoma Saturday, April 13th 10am ·6~m Shop with SO+ Local Artisans Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland & John Wooley Celebrate Henry Mancini's 100th Birthday Thursday, April 18th, 7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Thursdays in the Rainbow Room welcomes Janet Rutland back to Lynn Riggs Theatre on April 18. Rutland will be joined by author John Wooley, and together they will celebrate the 100th birthday of Henry Mancini, with music and narration about the talented composer’s life. Musical accompaniment by Scott McQuade and Jake Erwin. TICKETS Little Blue Lip Sync Friday, April 19th, 7-10 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Enjoy a fun evening of professional drag performers, AND root for your favorite novice lip-syncer! Feeling extra? Join us in the sync! The winner of the novice contest receives a $100 cash prize! All proceeds benefit the LGBTQ students at the Little Blue House at TU. r Blended Saturday, April 20th, 10 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This peer-led support group is for parents in non-traditional households (stepparents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc. A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP Free childcare is available! This peer led support group is fo r parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com. Free childcare is also available! Please join us at 10am on April 20th at OKEQ! For questions, email ~@gm..ai..l&2m Two Spirit Fest Saturday, April 20th 12-4 pm WOMPA 3306 Charles Page Blvd, Tulsa, OK "2-Spirit Fest" is a three-day event open to the public, celebrating diverse artistic expressions deeply rooted in traditional cultures. Attendees can look forward to musical performances by both local and non-local artists, captivating video installations, dynamic drumming and dancing, an artist market, and an insightful panel discussion. 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For a detailed schedule and additional information, please visit Twisted Arts’ website at: https://twistedfest.org/twospirit Funding for this program has been generously provided by a grant from Oklahoma Humanities (OH) and the National Endowment for the Humanities (NEH). It is important to note that any views, findings, conclusions, or recommendations expressed in this program do not necessarily represent those of OH or NEH. Muskogee #Creek family, this one's for you - see you during festival season! ?✨ ✨ Pride Bingo Saturday, April 20th, 6.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, April 20th Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment. Featuring performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy and special guest performers Sasha Turrelle and Sean Tylr Davis Doors open at 6:30 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride Additional Bingo Cards can be purchased at the door for $5. You can buy tickets at the door. Please get your tickets before they sell out! 18TH ANNUAL HEARTLAND TRANSGENDER SPRING SOIREE a MUSIC JAM 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam Tuesday April 30th-Monday May 6th ALOFT Oklahoma City Quail Springs 13111 Highland Park Blvd, OKC, OK Welcome to our 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam May 2-3-4 THE PURPOSE FOR OUR EVENTS: They are designed for the first time out tgirl, to provide them with the real life experience of being out among others like us, in a safe and affirming venue, for an extended weekend. That said, our events are not play parties or is sex part of our events LOCATION AUJFT OICLAHOIIA crrY QIIAL SPRMS 13111 Highland Park Blvd OKC Phone: 405-849-5577 WHO IS INVITED: All transgender women and men: transsexuals, transvestites, drag queens, drag kings, fully feminine or masculine crossdressers, plus spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends, and Mistresses, Sirs, and BBC who love girls and t-men like us. TRANSPORTATION: Rides to or from Will Rogers World Airport, Oklahoma City Amtrak Station, or the Oklahoma City Greyhound Bus Station can be arranged with Uber, Lyft, or taxi PET-FRIENDLY: The Aloft Hotel Quail Springs is a pet-friendly hotel. Please get in touch with the hotel for their pet policy, and please make sure to clean up after your pet. Hotel offering your special group rate: Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs for USD 112 per night plus tax If you would like to book your group rate for our 2024 HeartlandTG Spring Soiree, you can reserve from this link. The group block expires on April 19, 2024. Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs A Marriott Bonvoy Hotel Phone: 405-849-5577 Toll-Free: 1-888-236-2427 Contact: Hanna, Hanna_olsenxd@yahoo.com or Lindsay https://fetlife.com/users/2281123 ---------- 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Il1111 Meimoriaurn Raymond Johnson August 4, 1948 ~ January 16, 2024 In January 2024, Ray, aged 75, passed away. We remember Ray for his talent with the violin, his infectious smile, and his valued presence as a member of the OKEQ Seniors group. Rick Spring October 10, 1943 ~ January 24, 2024 Richard Kent Spring, Jr., a long time Okmulgee resident, passed away on Wednesday, January 24, 2024, in Tulsa, Oklahoma at the age of 80. He was born to Richard Kent, Sr., and Ruth Lucille (Anderson) Spring on October 10, 1943. Rick had many interests and passions, but he truly loved traveling in Europe. He took his family on a Rick Steves tour in 2001, and returned on another Rick Steves tour with his daughter, her husband, and son in 2017. He enjoyed several other Europe trips throughout the years as well. Rick loved spending time with his grandson, Spencer; driving to Oklahoma City weekly to see him for many years. And he rarely missed happy hour at Dee Hennigan’s house. Rick served in the United States Navy and was a veteran of the Vietnam War. He returned home in 1967, and in 1970, married Carolyn Morgan. After spending time in Stillwater for university, they moved to Houston where Rick worked for the Parks Department. They left the Houston area and returned to life in Okmulgee in 1978. They had a daughter, Morgan, in 1979, and a son, Evan, followed in 1982. Rick was a lifelong member of the Episcopal Church of the Redeemer, serving on the vestry for decades and wearing many hats along the way. Rick is preceded in death by his parents, Kent and Lu Spring and his sister, Kay Schmidt. He is survived by his daughter, Morgan Harris, husband Graham, and grandson Spencer of Oklahoma City; son, Evan, of Norman; nephew, Wes Schmidt, and niece, Judy Schmidt. Whether it was as a teacher, a social worker, a community volunteer, or through helping other veterans access their benefits, Rick spent his adult life serving others, working to give folks a hand up and access the resources they needed to live a better life. The family would like to extend special thanks to the Dale K. Graham Veterans Foundation in Norman, Oklahoma, for helping Rick navigate the Veterans Administration benefits process. In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to the Foundation to help other veterans get the benefits they’ve earned. Donations can be made here: https://www.dalekgrahamveteransfoundation.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -ci=-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -ci=-f- CulturallyCompetentCareforthelGBTQ•Communlty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up 111111 1111111 1111111 IIII Aces Committed ASEXUAL Equality _ ,,.: ...~=~"_:,;, 71 T..C.., 0.,_,,,.__.._ A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA S?lTI-RSC::I5T WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhltt:-letl 2roupfurp£ersupportandeducationaboutsyst:.emicr-acism .,#F'1RN -CAREGIVER- 1a8t1hffldau of l!"ll'll_lllonth at t.ha 111nnia R. lllil Equalitu Cantar mElblt.7..,_ Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Affirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP Th is peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com Blended Brought To You Bi The Letter B Join us for our monthly peer-led support group, a safe and inclusive space for parents in nontraditional households! Whether you're a stepparent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, we welcome you with open arms. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. This month, our meeting will be held on the 4th Saturday, and starting next month, we will consistently meet on the third Saturday of each month. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) We're eagerly looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences with you! f GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP TheGende..Suppor1 provides suppon,educa !ion,andsocial opponunitiesfortransgender First-lime interview is required before alt efldingyourlirstmeeting PK!asecontact918-743-4297 71 Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7◄ 129 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AlyssaB.f)'antwithLegalAidServiceso! Oklahoma will be assisting the LGBTQ+ _ 71 The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. lfyoubelieveyouVebeeoa>'ictim of housing discrimination.please callherat9 18-238-165&,oremai l herata!~~Theseservicesareopentoe-ite,yon• rega,dlessofincomeandare available throughouttheStateto, LGBTQ+persons ~ .........,of ,ne ,_= _m""- ;"-"""- fai_ - "= _ ;.,, _ -•_••~ _ ;•-•oo-• - - ' AtonM from 12PM-4PM. DlnnilR.Nell~,TulN. OK7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. SCOUT TROOP GREEN COUNTRY BEARS 7484 ..., Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. <rr • Grupo Trans en Espanol 71 Free HIV Testing Every Tuesday from4pm-&pml elizabeth.oni,....,eq.o,g ______...., ... __ Ungrupodeapo)'Opa,ramujeres 1ransgene,'oene5P<'i',ol DeonisR.Neill~uar __.. ,..._,..itimo; - - Tulsa OK7412& 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Grupo Trans en Espanol FREE HIV Testing Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Jamm Outt ~ c:==:i Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. OKLAHOMAN FOR EQUALI TY 621 E 4TH STREET TULSA OK 74120 This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. 8 JAMMOUTT E==i EVEI\Y2N0 &; 41'11 MOND AY ~ 6:30-7:30PM This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. t Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGALAID ~ SERVI CESo• = ~ Q1<lAIIO .. . .<, l ,_c, JulieLGofeewithl.egalAidSef'vlcesof Oklahomaisa,ailablefordr<>11indiscussions ............ 71 regardinglega l iss...,... ~ .. Gender Correction Clinic 94290, . . . . . . . . . . . . . --- ...,.....,,......., c.MbllNellEquallty,TulSa.OK74129 Lawyer in the Library Oklal'loma !orE:qua litylawCeoter AnorneyJosh Paytonandhisteam wi nass;s11hosewi1hnameand Qendercorrec1ions. can·1 ma kelt inpen.on?con1ac1 inl~kequalityiaw.comtoschedu!e a consultation by Zoom. ishostingaclinicfornameand a,..,, wcond w.dnnday of rne gender m arker changes. momfl from 5:39PM' to 7PM ~----------DMnisR.Neill Equality, TulSa, OK74128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... from 10AM to 1PM I Denn,sl! Ne,U£qua lay Tulsa OK7412& 91&.r- 34297 OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS A~orv-,iation lo,matu,._ mlndedvayand bisexual men to fttabllshfril'ndshipandsuPPOM Asocial0<ganlza1ionforma1u,e-minded GayandBise, ualmen 71 through10elalln..,ac1'on AttendNsmustbe21yNrsO<~ 1w,y_--,n.nc,a,,o1 _ _ _ _ _ , ---fnlm1Pllltoff"M Sin Fronteras Tulsa Area Prime Timers Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. ~ Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRIJ&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Veteran Support Group Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. The purpose of the group is to provide muchneeded support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Fridays 10-11.30 am We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction focused, mindfulness based, & radically inclusive. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LEGAL AID t h SERVICES OF LEGALAID t h SERVICES O F OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: Learn more at bungerfreeok or_g/resources/soap/ - ~ HUNGER FREE nn OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Eddie Carreno - Member at Large Board of Directors Zoe Brett Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Staff Andi Gunter - Operations & Health Clinic Manager Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Olivia Cotter - Administrative Coordinator Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 16 Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Cydney Williams Yonah Sienna Jasper Grace Fallon Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:37 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/44855bc199011f49ef4639cf2638be50.pdf b6b3bd41cc564c5b13661cbbd589400b PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm OkEq Security Funding You may have noticed a familiar face at the Equality Center these last few weeks of December. Through limited and restricted funding, OkEq will benefit through mid-January from the presence of a Security Officer during our standard business hours. Suzy S., (She/Her/They/Them), has over a decade of direct security experience, is CLEET certified, and holds specialized training in mental health intervention and substance abuse. DONATE TODAY! As a member of our community, they also bring deep understanding and compassion while serving OkEq in an environment that is wholly affirming to their own identity. The only piece missing in this incredible partnership is the capacity to fund the role as a permanent one. One of our main initiatives over this year has been to increase safety at the 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Center. In operating one of the largest 2SLGBTQIA+ focused human rights organizations serving Oklahoma, OkEq staff and volunteers often find themselves as the target of threats, vandalism, and having to navigate crises. From within our walls is also the work of pushing back against anti-2SLGBTQIA+ legislation and social policy, while threats against our communities are on the rise and intensifying, according to the latest briefings from the Department of Homeland Security. Tulsa Pride 2023 was also a stark reminder that even after decades of activism and celebration, we still face very real and present dangers. We all deserve safe and affirming spaces, so we are reaching out to you, our community, for help. Keeping OUR Center secure and welcoming to all we serve can be met through a one-time recurring commitment and allow OkEq to provide a permanent post for Suzy. The current costs for a twelve-hour shift are $360 dollars. Will you help? Use the link below to donate now, or drop by the Center at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120, to donate in person. Thank you, Dorothy Ballard Executive Director | OkEq Volunteer Opportunity: Become the Welcoming Face of OKEQ! Are you passionate about serving your community? OKEQ is seeking enthusiastic front desk volunteers to be the welcoming presence at our center. As a front desk volunteer, you'll greet and guide guests, handle phone inquiries, and assist in distributing essential resources. This role offers an exceptional chance to engage with our community and make a meaningful impact. Front desk shifts typically run for 3 hours once a week, with opportunities for more involvement if your schedule allows. We currently have openings during the following times: Tuesdays 9 am-12 pm Wednesdays 9 am-12 pm 12-3 pm Thursdays 12-3 pm 3-6 pm Fridays 12-3 pm 3-6 pm 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Saturdays 12-3 pm 1st & 3rd 3-6 pm 1st & 3rd If you can dedicate some of your time and want to join our dedicated team, please email Olivia at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Make a difference and be a vital part of our community at OKEQ! Special Events STORYTELLING ROUNDTABLE Discuss the Impact of Food Insecurity & Hunger on Your Life! Storytellers receive: • $150 Check or Gift Card after W-9 is received • Mileage reimbursement • Childcare reimbursement • Transportation if needed • Lunch and snacks • A safe space to share stories & create community 18+ & 2SLGBTQIA+ ONLY! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, January 27, 2024 10 AM - 3 PM CST Limited Space Available Apply Here by January 10: hfok.org/Jan27Roundtable 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... HUNGER • FREE OKLAHOMA Mancini Plays Mancini Thursday, January 18th, 7.30pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Vibraphonist, composer, and band-leader, Nick Mancini headlines January's Rainbow Room. All ticket proceeds will benefit the Mancini family's medical bills for their son, Max, who was born with HLHS and still faces another major surgery as he turns 1 year old. Come join the vibe! TICKETS Wonderland is Real, A Reading Supporting Women in Recovery Friday, January 19th, 7pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK TICKETS Come and immerse yourself in an evening of powerful storytelling as we celebrate the strength and resilience of families in recovery. Join us for " Wonderland is Real" a reading supporting Women in Recovery on Friday, January 19, 2024, at 7:30 PM. This event is a fundraiser for Women in Recovery, an intensive outpatient alternative for eligible women facing long prison sentences. Blackjack Rewrite Company, with the support of Oklahomans for Equality, bring you a fundraiser for the Women in Recovery program at FCSOK. "Wonderland is Real" by acclaimed playwright and Tulsa-based artist Carlyn Flint will be presented as a staged reading at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th Street, on January 19th, 2024, at 7.30 pm. Through the literary magic of a very different Wonderland - this time seen through the eyes of a young boy in the midst of pain and loss, we aim to 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... explore themes of resilience, growth, and empowerment in a family undergoing a journey towards healing and self-discovery. Join us for an unforgettable night of connection, support, and inspiration. Together, we can support Tulsa's families and encourage a space of solace and community, providing a platform for their voices to be heard. Don't miss out on this incredible event! "Wonderland is Real" is directed by Dionne Lambert. The cast includes the talents of Jason Chunu, Christian Stubblefield, Kimberly Martin, Andrew Smith, Kathryn Hartney, Maria Pita Carmona, and Courtney Meadows. This reading contains mature and sensitive language and themes. Atlas Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, January 25th, 1-5 pm Atlas School 15 N. Cheyenne Ave., Tulsa, OK SCHOOL Oklahomans for Equality is kicking off the new year to showcase Atlas School. Please note going forward the EBA meetings will be held the last Thursday of the month. Atlas School, formerly Holberton School Tulsa, is a software engineering vocational school dedicated to training the next generation of Tulsa's tech workforce. Our campus started classes in 2020 and has since graduated over 100 students. Our current programs are all 20 months long designed to prepare anyone, regardless of previous experience level, for technical and professional success in a career in software development. If you are interested in seeing if a career in tech might be for you, reach out to us at www.atlasschool.com! Atlas School is located at 15 N. Cheyenne Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103. You may reach them at 918.392.5530. The evening will include a brief overview about Atlas School. As food and beverages will be served, please RSVP so that we may plan accordingly. You may RSVP by calling 918.743.4297. Drag Show Pug Rescue Fundraiser Saturday, January 27th, 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is proud to present Drag Show Pug Rescue Fundraiser! Join us for an exciting evening of 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tickets will be available at the door TikTok Twitter Youtube Facebook Instagram entertainment and compassion! Only $2 grants you access to various activities like bidding on silent auction items or meeting and greeting adorable pugs. This event is perfect for families and people of all ages, and the best part is that every penny of the proceeds will go to Homeward Bound Pug Rescue & Adoption of Oklahoma. Be part of a great cause and have fun at the same time! TRANS ADVOCACY COALITION OF OKLAHOMA PRESENTS: STATE-WIDE COMMUNITY SURVEY Are you an Oklahoman whose gender identity, expression, or experience is different from the norm? Are you 13 or older? We want to determine community needs for financial and other support programs. Please fill out this survey and send it to anyone else you know! httP-s://t.ly/EEO mo STATE OF LGBTQ+ AGING ft _ 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~u * Refute Tlr 8e /tAuiriRe! Sal(Jie I ~' Advocacy & Services for LGBTQ> Elders Were fu se to be invisible This research study focuses on learning more about LGBTQ+ people aged 50 and older across the country, including their experiences, needs, and resiliencies as they get older. The information you provide about your experiences will help us to identify what kinds of healthcare and related services may be important for LGBTQ+ older people from diverse backgrounds. You are being asked to participate in the study because you meet the following criteria: You are aged 50 or older, and you identify as LGBTQ+. If you agree to participate in this study, you will be asked to complete a onetime survey that may take 30 to 45 minutes. This study includes only a minimal risk related to potential psychological discomfort when discussing sensitive matters related to your health and life experiences. Participation in research is voluntary. You may choose either to take part or not to take part in the study. If you decide to take part in this study, you may leave the study at any time. No matter what decision you make, there will be no penalty to you in any way. You will not lose any of your regular benefits, and you can still access services the way you usually do. If you have any questions about the study, please contact Dr. Jason Flatt, Assistant Professor at UNLV at 702-895-5586. If you wish to ask questions about the study or your rights as a research participant to someone other than the researchers or if you wish to voice any problems or concerns you may have about the study, please call the UNLV Institutional Review Board at 702-895-2794. TAKE SURVEY WEARE HIRING _____ _ 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Require men ts: • High school diploma or equivalent required. • Knowledge of community resources of targeted LGBTIQA+ population • Experience working with the targeted population • Pay begins at $36,729.76 annually tu lsa-health.org/careers ~ ~ TULSA HEALTH n l W Department In Memoriam Iln MemoriWTI 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Michael Duncan died December 31, 2023 after an extended illness. He attended Central High (class of 1988). Michael enjoyed all forms of rock music, and loved to tell stories about working at Cain's Ballroom or the Chalkboard Restaurant. He used to manage a local pet store near 11th and Memorial. He is survived by his best friend, Bob Lawrence, and his beloved tortoise, Gaw-ke-la. A celebration of Michael's life will be Thursday, January 11, 2024 at 1pm at Fellowship Congregational UCC, 2900 S Harvard Ave. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-5p Wednesdays - 9a-5p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. Thursdays - 9a-1 p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin of Ofclohoma will be assist'.ns . LGBTQ+ cotM1unity with fair hoosms- scour rrzooP l1S1 COV1"1ROOP 15 OPEN TO ALL GIRL.5 ANO 5 TRAN5/NON81NARY YOIJTI, 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ff€RY TffU/UMY OF Tff, MONTff oop"' .;.. !JI Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... interview. Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Brougbt 1' 0 YOlll Bi 1 T 1lt1J~ lL@;f t@;r -~~~ ~~~~~~ 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ m:r::!J@JO@!O@QJJ§§~~ "iJ"QJJ[b,§£ "iJ"W@=§l:PO~D"iJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. @r@rncfil®lf ~Dlll])I]XIDrffi @lf®Dnl]) Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY ARS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 21 ~ https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&s first and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Grupo Trans en Espanol Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM. | Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. QTULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get help applying for 1~ S upplemental : ~!~~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds ooe e s e Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:25 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/840970525b655997aa0f15b0d36cc84b.pdf e0525db691a8e979bf4bfe49661e3d05 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm Special Events AFFIRM Caregiver Thursday, January 18th, 6pm Oklahomans for Equality WE ARE NOW OFFERING .,fFF/RN -CAREGIVER- 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK AFFIRM Caregiver is a 7-session group program designed to help parents and caregivers build the confidence and skills they need to best support their LGBTQ+ youth. FOR ALL PARENTS & CAREGIVERS OF LGBTQ+ YOUTH I All people who parent and support LGBTQ+ young people are welcome, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents. Thursdays, 6 pm Meet and Greet: January 18th, 6 pm This group will have a blended option. We will meet in person on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will have a Zoom open simultaneously for anyone unable to make the in-person meeting; we encourage in-person meetings as often as possible! Space is limited, so please reserve a spot as soon as possible! 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Mancini Plays Mancini Thursday, January 18th, 7.30pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Vibraphonist, composer, and band leader Nick Mancini headline January's Rainbow Room. All ticket proceeds will benefit the Mancini family's medical bills for their son, Max, who was born with HLHS and still faces another major surgery as he turns 1 year old. Come join the vibe! TICKETS Wonderland is Real, A Reading Supporting Women in Recovery Friday, January 19th, 7pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Come and immerse yourself in an evening of powerful storytelling as we celebrate the strength and resilience of families in recovery. Join us for " Wonderland is Real" a reading supporting Women in Recovery on Friday, January 19, 2024, at 7:30 PM. This event is a fundraiser for Women in Recovery, an intensive outpatient alternative for eligible women facing long prison sentences. Blackjack Rewrite Company, with the support of Oklahomans for Equality, bring you a fundraiser for the Women in Recovery program at FCSOK. "Wonderland is Real" by acclaimed playwright and Tulsa-based artist Carlyn Flint will be presented as a staged reading at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th Street, on January 19th, 2024, at 7.30 pm. Through the literary magic of a very different Wonderland - this time seen through the eyes of a young boy in the midst of pain and loss, we aim to explore themes of resilience, growth, and empowerment in a family undergoing a journey towards healing and self-discovery. Join us for an unforgettable night of connection, support, and inspiration. 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Together, we can support Tulsa's families and encourage a space of solace and community, providing a platform for their voices to be heard. Don't miss out on this incredible event! "Wonderland is Real" is directed by Dionne Lambert. The cast includes the talents of Jason Chunu, Christian Stubblefield, Kimberly Martin, Andrew Smith, Kathryn Hartney, Maria Pita Carmona, and Courtney Meadows. This reading contains mature and sensitive language and themes. TICKETS [!]. CCSD Diversity and Inclusion Hiring Fair Saturday, January 20th, 10 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK ID SCAN ME Are you interested in a career with CCSD? Scan the QR code or visit https:// recruitment.ccsd.net/ for more information. Welcome to the CCSD Diversity Hiring Event Thank you for yo ur interest in a career with CCSD! Please scan to fi ll out an int erest form. For more information or to apply, visit recrui t ment. ccsd.net Pride Bingo: 80s Saturday, January 20th, 6.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, January 20th, as we celebrate the 80s era with some amazing hits. Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment! Featuring performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy and Kitty Marie Legacy, with special guest appearance by Pastel. Hosted by Scrappy Legacy | Doors open at 6:30 PM. Equality Business Alliance Mixer 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... E UALITY Thursday, January 25th, 6 pm Atlas School l 15 N. Cheyenne Ave., Tulsa, OK Business Alliance EBA MIXER Atlas SCHOOL 1 okeq.com/eba Atlas School, formerly Holberton SchoolTulsa,isa software engineering vocational school offering 261-month programs for a career in software development The Equality Business Alliance exists to Oklahomans for Equality is kicking off the new year to showcase Atlas School. Please note going forward the EBA meetings will be held the last Thursday of the month. 7HRSDAY, JAM.JARY 257H I 6Rl-1 15 N. Cheyenne AIIE', Tulsa, OK 741$3. Atlas School, formerly Holberton School Tulsa, is a software engineering vocational school dedicated to training the next generation of Tulsa's tech workforce. Our campus started classes in 2020 and has since graduated over 100 students. Our current programs are all 20 months long designed to prepare anyone, regardless of previous experience level, for technical and professional success in a career in software development. If you are interested in seeing if a career in tech might be for you, reach out to us at www.atlasschool.com! Atlas School Tulsa, OK 741613 918.392.553& Atlas School is located at 15 N. Cheyenne Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103. You may reach them at 918.392.5530. The evening will include a brief overview about Atlas School. As food and beverages will be served, please RSVP so that we may plan accordingly. You may RSVP by calling 918.743.4297. TULSA EUlTI-RGCI5T Support Group Rwhite-ledgroupforpeersupportandedurationaboutsystemicracism la8t Thursday of ~_lllonth at thB lltnuri8 R. 1llil Equality Cntar 621 E'Iii st. 7-uPIII Cratiq asafa space and facilitatina support. Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, January 25th, 7 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Bducation and social opportuitia fur all individuala 11181rina to divat l'rmn sustamic racism in thair daily liva Ull..:.c.-=.::i.":;.r::: ~~ OkEq is excited to onnounce the return of weekly Saturday youth programming at the Equality Center! The program launch is OkEq Youth Program Returns! Saturday, January 27th 10 am-6 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa OK OkEq is excited to announce the return of 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ,,saturaay, Jan. LI, ror LC3~ llllA+ youth oges 12 to 19. weekly Saturday youth programming at the Equality Center! The program launch is Saturday, Jan. 27, for LGBTQIA+ youth ages 12 to 19. Facilitated in partnership with CREOKS, every Saturday from 10 am to 6 pm, it will involve opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutual-aid organizing, and, of course, socializing and fun! Participation is free, and a snack and a lunch are provided. Sign-ups open inperson and online Friday, Jan. 19! For questions, please email youth@okeq.org. Drag Show Pug Rescue Fundraiser Saturday, January 27th 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for an exciting evening of entertainment and compassion! Only $2 grants you access to various activities like bidding on silent auction items or meeting and greeting adorable pugs. This event is perfect for families and people of all ages, and the best part is that every penny of the proceeds will go to Homeward Bound Pug Rescue & Adoption of Oklahoma. Be part of a great cause and have fun at the same time! Tickets will be available at the door. TikTok - Twitter - Youtube - Facebook - Instagram OkEq Town Hall Monday, January 29th, 7 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Please join Oklahomans for Equality on Monday, Jan. 29, at 7 pm for our second quarterly Town Hall meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Our Executive Director Dorothy Ballard will share updates on staff, programs and services, upcoming events, and current financial standing and milestones. Time will be reserved for an open forum to facilitate community discussion. We hope to see you there! 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rising Stars Saturday, February 3rd, 1 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. WEARE HIRING Requirements: • High school diploma or equivalent required. • Knowledge of community resources of targeted LGBTIQA+ population • Experience working with the targeted population • Pay begins at $36,729.76 annually tu lsa-health.org/careers 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 20 ~ TULSA https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... HEALTH n l&I Department In Memoriam Iln MemoriWTI Michael Duncan died December 31, 2023 after an extended illness. He attended Central High (class of 1988). Michael enjoyed all forms of rock music, and loved to tell stories about working at Cain's Ballroom or the Chalkboard Restaurant. He used to manage a local pet store near 11th and Memorial. He is survived by his best friend, Bob Lawrence, and his beloved tortoise, Gaw-ke-la. A celebration of Michael's life will be Thursday, January 11, 2024 at 1pm at Fellowship Congregational UCC, 2900 S Harvard Ave. 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dr. Robert Thompson, age 88, died on January 7th, 2024. Rosary will be held at 7 pm Friday, January 26th and the funeral mass at 10 am January 27th at Holly Family Cathedral. Dr. Thompson earned his Ph. D in Communication Disorders at the University of Oklahoma Health Sciences Center, and has been a prominent professional in eastern Oklahoma in pediatric programs. He specialized in autism (ASD), Selective Mutism, and language disorders in Pre-K children; he used play therapy techniques and involved parents and caregivers in diagnosis and treatment. His professional history included Director of Speech-Language and Audiology at Tulsa Children’s Medical Center (16 years), consultant at Children’s Medical Center at Hillcrest MC (5 years), and consultant to the Pediatric Department at the Cherokee Nation W. W. Hastings Hospital (12 years) in Tahlequah. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-5p Wednesdays - 9a-5p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. Thursdays - 9a-1 p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 20 a https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... y & oe cDo aid a· o ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up .. ASEXUAL FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Aces Committed . Equality Aces Committed to Equality is an activist support group for the Asexual community in Tulsa, Oklahoma. ~ / I A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin SCOUT TROOP Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. 7484 ..;. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program for youth. Support Group for Partners of Transgender 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 20 Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 20 Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Brougbt ,,Jo Yollt Bi Tjlt1J@ ll~tt~r ~~~~ ~~!:."'!:."'~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... women, who are always welcome! For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) 1n ontera X OKEQ 0~@)0~0@!10§§~~ 7J"l10[b§& "iJ"W@=§lP0~0"iJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. ~ OKLAHOMAN FOR EQUALITY ~ 621 E 4TH STREET TULSA OK 74120 ~ AMMOUTT ~J . PM 4'1'11 MONDA\' EVEI\Y ZND !li 6:30-7:30 ~":'.'.'; r' 1 - - " - - ~ - --- 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Game Night Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ---- --- - ---- f GENDER ~ SUPPORT GROUP 1 \ The Gender Support provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex i ndividuals. First-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact 918-743-4297 71 £wry Wednnctay of the month from 7PM to 9PM Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. OKEQ SENIORS QKEQ Seniors is a daytime program for retired or free individuals aimed at improving the quality of life of elder LGBT adults. 71 TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS A social organization for mature-minded ~ Gay and Bisexual men. / A social organization for matureminded gay and bisexual men to estabtish friendship and support through social interaction. Attendees must be 21 years or older, I Ewr,y - - - -- - NC'Oftd Tuesday of n. montll from 7PM to 9PM 918.743.4297 OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. GREEN COUNTRY DCI\D~ Relationships Outside the Box 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 20 Green Country Bears is a social group that identifies as "Bears· https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 71 Dennis R. Neill Equa lity, Tulsa, OK 7412(5) For more information, contact Daniel Gouvion at daniel.gouvion@gmail.com Every second Thursday of the month from 7PM to B:3&PM Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. 918.743.4297 Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ~ OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&s First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Grupo Trans en Espanol 71 Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans genera en espar\ol. cada pn,,,.,. y ciltimo;u.,v.s _ __ _ ____. dolmn Opm-a,,m Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Contacto: elizabeth.ort iz@okeq.org 91&.7,3A297 Grupo Trans en Espanol Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM. | Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 1 Get help applying for S upplemental : ~!~~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:26 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9db000f47569cfe1b51aef5fde3241b6.pdf 137de3fe3b782c3576f3ac2288917621 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm Special Events AFFIRM Caregiver Thursday, January 25th, 6pm Oklahomans for Equality WE ARE NOW OFFERING .,fFF/RN -CAREGIVER- 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK AFFIRM Caregiver is a 7-session group program designed to help parents and caregivers build the confidence and skills they need to best support their LGBTQ+ youth. FOR ALL PARENTS & CAREGIVERS OF LGBTQ+ YOUTH I All people who parent and support LGBTQ+ young people are welcome, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents. This group will have a blended option. We will meet in person on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will have a Zoom open simultaneously for anyone unable to make the in-person meeting; we encourage in-person meetings as often as possible! Space is limited, so please reserve a spot as soon as possible! For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, January 25th, 6 pm Atlas School UALITY Business Alliance 15 N. Cheyenne Ave., Tulsa, OK l EBA MIXER Atlas SCHOOL The Equality Business Alliance exists to support businesses in t he Tulsa area that 1 okeq.com/ eba Atlas School, formerly Holberton School Tulsa, is a software engineering vocational school offering 219-month programs for a career in software development Oklahomans for Equality is kicking off the new year to showcase Atlas School. Please note going forward the EBA meetings will be held the last Thursday of the month. 7H.RSDAY, JAM.JARY 257H I 6FM 15 N. Cheyenne Ave, Tufsa, OK 74103. Atlas School, formerly Holberton School Tulsa, is a software engineering vocational school dedicated to training the next generation of Tulsa's tech workforce. Our campus started classes in 2020 and has since graduated over 100 students. Our current programs are all 20 months long designed to prepare anyone, regardless of previous experience level, for technical and professional success in a career in software development. If you are interested in seeing if a career in tech might be for you, reach out to us at www.atlasschool.com! Atlas School Tulsa, OK 741193 918.392.5538 Atlas School is located at 15 N. Cheyenne Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103. You may reach them at 918.392.5530. The evening will include a brief overview about Atlas School. As food and beverages will be served, please RSVP so that we may plan accordingly. You may RSVP by calling 918.743.4297. Support Group Rwhite-ledgroupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicracism laBt Thursday of Ml'II_IDonth at tha DlnniB R. Dall Equality Cnt8r 821 E'ltk It. 7-l:3IPIII support. atucJ.m aru18:aiand facilitatina . . l'arall Cr8atiq 1111'1 Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, January 25th, 7 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. individuals llllkina t o ~BUBf;8mic racism in thair daily lives u:.::.....:::i.i-::.r::: OkEq Youth Program Returns! Saturday, January 27th 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~~ OkEq is excited to announce the return of weekly Saturday youth programming at the Equality Center! The program launch is '>Saturday, Jan. 27, for LGBTQIA+ youth ages 12 to 19. 10 am-6 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa OK OkEq is excited to announce the return of weekly Saturday youth programming at the Equality Center! The program launch is Saturday, Jan. 27, for LGBTQIA+ youth ages 12 to 19. Facilitated in partnership with CREOKS, every Saturday from 10 am to 6 pm, it will involve opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutual-aid organizing, and, of course, socializing and fun! Participation is free, and a snack and a lunch are provided. Sign-ups open inperson and online Friday, Jan. 19! For questions, please email youth@okeq.org. Drag Show Pug Rescue Fundraiser Saturday, January 27th 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for an exciting evening of entertainment and compassion! Only $2 grants you access to various activities like bidding on silent auction items or meeting and greeting adorable pugs. This event is perfect for families and people of all ages, and the best part is that every penny of the proceeds will go to Homeward Bound Pug Rescue & Adoption of Oklahoma. Be part of a great cause and have fun at the same time! Tickets will be available at the door. TikTok - Twitter - Youtube - Facebook - Instagram OkEq Town Hall Monday, January 29th, 7 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Please join Oklahomans for Equality on Monday, Jan. 29, at 7 pm for our second quarterly Town Hall meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Our Executive Director Dorothy Ballard will share updates on staff, programs and services, upcoming events, and current financial standing and 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... and milestones 0 milestones. Time will be reserved for an open forum to facilitate community discussion. We hope to see you there! Rising Stars Saturday, February 3rd, 1 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. In Memoriam Iln Memoriaunni 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Michael Duncan died December 31, 2023 after an extended illness. He attended Central High (class of 1988). Michael enjoyed all forms of rock music, and loved to tell stories about working at Cain's Ballroom or the Chalkboard Restaurant. He used to manage a local pet store near 11th and Memorial. He is survived by his best friend, Bob Lawrence, and his beloved tortoise, Gaw-ke-la. A celebration of Michael's life will be Thursday, January 11, 2024 at 1pm at Fellowship Congregational UCC, 2900 S Harvard Ave. Dr. Robert Thompson, age 88, died on January 7th, 2024. Rosary will be held at 7 pm Friday, January 26th and the funeral mass at 10 am January 27th at Holly Family Cathedral. Dr. Thompson earned his Ph. D in Communication Disorders at the University of Oklahoma Health Sciences Center, and has been a prominent professional in eastern Oklahoma in pediatric programs. He specialized in autism (ASD), Selective Mutism, and language disorders in Pre-K children; he used play therapy techniques and involved parents and caregivers in diagnosis and treatment. His professional history included Director of Speech-Language and Audiology at Tulsa Children’s Medical Center (16 years), consultant at Children’s Medical Center at Hillcrest MC (5 years), and consultant to the Pediatric Department at the Cherokee Nation W. W. Hastings Hospital (12 years) in Tahlequah. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-5p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Wednesdays - 9a-5p who are 18 and older. Thursdays - 9a-1 p Fridays - 1p-4p If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! a y & oe cDo aid a· o ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 1 1 1 11 1 11 1 111 1 1 1 1 11 11 11 111 FREE HIV Testing Aces Committed Equality ASEXUAL Aces Committed to Equality is an activist H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin SCOUT TROOP Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. 7484 SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based [ program for youth. Affirm Support Group for Partners of Transgender People We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Lawyer in the Library Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 17 housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Brougl1lt 1'10 Yo11i Bi ,rjt1Je l(_,~tt~r ~ ~~~ ~~ !:,,' !:,,' ~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 17 Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. UA Y 621 E 4TH STREET TULSA OK 74120 Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the Equality Game Night 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ---- --- - ---- GENDER ~ SUPPORT 1\ GROUP 71 The Gender Support provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex i ndividuals. First-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact 918-743-4297 Every Wednftday of the Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 74128 918.743..42'7 month from 7PM to 9PM Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ♦ OKEQ SENIORS /I I OKEQ Seniors is a daytime program for retired or free individuals aimed at improving / the quality of life of elder LG BT adults. --------- I ' Dennis R Neill Equality, I TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men. 71 A social organization for matureminded gay and bisexual men to estabtish friendship and support through social interaction. Attendees must be 21 years or older Ew,y ucond Tuesday of monffl from 7PM to 9PM _ _ _ _ __ _ _ _ __ _ _,. n.. - Eqallly. Tulu, OK74128 918.743.4297 OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Relationships Outside the Box Green Country Bears is a social group that identifies as "Bears· Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ~ OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S first and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Grupo Trans en Espanol Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres transgeneroenespaRol. ~ Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. -- / I CMMprinwry ciltimo jwws - - - ~ .... Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Tulsa TTRPGs Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org 916.743.4297 Grupo Trans en Espanol Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM. | Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org Equality Alliances 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Tl II C' /\ 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I V L...;;JI""'\ RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get help applying for 1~ S upplemental : ~!~~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 877 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: r ■l~r ■l r ■l~r ■l 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds ooe e s e Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:27 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/80bed91df12dfc5b2d41d8f40823963e.pdf a5acb652b67326f6882122a913e348c1 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm Special Events OkEq Town Hall Monday, January 29th, 7 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Please join Oklahomans for Equality on Monday, Jan. 29, at 7 pm for our second quarterly Town Hall meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Our Executive Director Dorothy Ballard will share updates on staff, programs and services, upcoming events, and current financial standing and milestones. Time will be reserved for an open forum to facilitate community discussion. We hope to see you there! 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... WE ARE NOW OFFERING AFFIRM Caregiver Thursday, February 1st, 6pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK ~FF/RN AFFIRM Caregiver is a 7-session group program designed to help parents and caregivers build the confidence and skills they need to best support their LGBTQ+ youth. -CAREGIVER- FOR ALL PARENTS & CAREGIVERS OF LGBTQ+ YOUTH! All people who parent and support LGBTQ+ young people are welcome, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents. This group will have a blended option. We will meet in person on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will have a Zoom open simultaneously for anyone unable to make the in-person meeting; we encourage in-person meetings as often as possible! Space is limited, so please reserve a spot as soon as possible! For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Rising Stars Saturday, February 3rd, 1 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. QUEER WOMEN ' S COLLECTIVE Queer Women's Collective: February Meetup 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Wednesday, February 7th, 5.30-7.30 pm Bar 46 107 N Boulder Ave, Tulsa, OK BAR 46 107 N . BOULDER AVE WEDNESDAY , FEB . 7TH S:30-7:30 P . M. Anyone feeling like ‘HOW are we planning for February already?!’ (Yeah, us too) Let’s have a drink about it! Please join us to hang with our friends over at Bar 46 - play some pool or ping pong; beers, cocktails, and mocktails will be available for all! We can’t wait to see you! As a reminder, this is a queer, trans, and non-binary inclusive gathering. Allies are welcome, assholes are not! ~ Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, February 10th, 12 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK RRFMTulsa A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Tulsa Really Really Free Market Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ Blended Saturday, February 17th, 10 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc) . Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com ..... Join us for our monthly peer-led support group for parents in non-traditional households! Whether you're a step-parent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, this group is a welcoming space for you. We'll meet on the 3rd Saturday of each month, starting February 17th, at OKEQ. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 - https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ffnll website. Looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences! C~tr! iee>ut Ce>e>kr~s }ie>US~ 1?ffty Come stock up on your stash of Girl Scout Cookies! P.O.C. Brunch 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sunday, February 25th, 12-2 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for an unforgettable experience at the Annual POC Brunch at noon on February 25th! We'll be serving a delicious breakfast, along with bottles of champagne, mimosas, and much more! You won't want to miss out on the electrifying performances by the best Black Drag artists in town, including Sasha V. King, Drevion Dior, Nalaa Jade, Robyn D. Fierce, Londenn D. Raine, and Scrappy Legacy. Get ready to indulge in a day filled with great food, drinks, and entertainment! Mark your calendars and join us! All are welcome. TULSA EUITI-eeCI5T Support Group Rwhite-ledgroupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicracism Int Thlll'Sday of BVll'II_IDDnth attha DBRnia R. llail Equality C8nt8r 821 E'ltk st. 7-l:DIII Cr8atiq a safe and facilitatina support. education am18::at • • for all individuals sakina t o ~sustemic racism in thair daily liva Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, February 29th, 7 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. u::=.r:::i.":;.r:::: In Memoriam Iln Memoriaurn 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dr. Robert Thompson, age 88, died on January 7th, 2024. Rosary will be held at 7 pm Friday, January 26th and the funeral mass at 10 am January 27th at Holly Family Cathedral. Dr. Thompson earned his Ph. D in Communication Disorders at the University of Oklahoma Health Sciences Center, and has been a prominent professional in eastern Oklahoma in pediatric programs. He specialized in autism (ASD), Selective Mutism, and language disorders in Pre-K children; he used play therapy techniques and involved parents and caregivers in diagnosis and treatment. His professional history included Director of Speech-Language and Audiology at Tulsa Children’s Medical Center (16 years), consultant at Children’s Medical Center at Hillcrest MC (5 years), and consultant to the Pediatric Department at the Cherokee Nation W. W. Hastings Hospital (12 years) in Tahlequah. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-5p Wednesdays - 9a-5p Thursdays - 9a-1 p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! a cy& oe cDo aid a· o ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Aces Committed . . Equality Aces Committed to Equality is an activist support group for the Asexual community in Tutsa,Oklahoma. 71 A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program for youth. 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R Neill Equality Tulsa OK 7412@ A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com 412& 91& 743 4297 Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! TULSR SSTI-RSCI~T Support Group last Thursdau of 1!_1181'11_fflonth at the Dennis R. Reil Equatitu Center 621 £'Ith st. 7-B:30PD1 Creating a safe space and facilitating support. education and social opportunities for all individuals ~ki!'I t o ~ fi:om sustemic Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Brought To You Bi The Letter B A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Monthly on the last Thursday. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Amanda Gould (she/her) rHousin of Oklahoma will be assistins the LGBTQ+ community with fair housins- Equality Game Night Fair Housing: Legal Aid Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming -------- - Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP The Gender Support provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender andintersex indlviduals. First-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. SCOUT TROOP 7484 ... 71 Every ~ Y of,,_ Please conta_ct_9,_8--7 4-3 -4-29_7 _ _ _ _ _ month from 7PM to 9PM Dennis R. Neill Eq uality, Tulsa, OK 7412& 918.743.4297 Gender Support Group SCOUTS TROOP 7484 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 19 The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Green Country Bears is a social Grupo Trans en Espanol Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres ~ trans genero en espar'iol. / I Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org a,m,,,;,,,.,- y&Htimo )w,vn - --------- ....... ~ Dennis R Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 74129 911.743.4297 Green Country Bears Grupo Trans en Espanol We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Free HIV Test:ing Every Tuesday from 4pm - &pml O(j:::!][Q)0@:10(2)0:::DI::§ 1:3 ~:; "u'~D:,§& 'D"W@=§~O~O"u' FREE HIV Testing IndigiQueer H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris H, B g OKLAHOMAN FOR EQUALITY 621 E 4TH STREET TULSA OK 74120 JAMMOUTT § 6:;o:r;oPM I www.o1'.E.Q. --r Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This program is for ages 13 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. i . Gender L Correction Clinic Oklahoma for Equality Law Center is hosting a clinic for name and 1 Attorney Josh Payton and his team will assis t those with name and gender corrections. Can't make it in person?contact info@okequalitylaw.com to schedule a consultation by Zoom. OKEQ SENIORS £wwy H'Cond We-d'nesday of the .,..-'-'"-'•-•-m-"-"-"-"'-"-'•-'·________. month from 5:39PM' to 7PM I Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& I 914.743.4297 Dennis R Neill Equality Tulsa OK 741261 I Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 clarity until we have an answer. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. i..._ TULSA OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY ~- TULSA~ 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... AREA PRIME TIMERS A social organization for matureminoea gay and bisexual men to establish friendship and support A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men. /1 _ _ _....J 74129 through social interactk>n. Attendee$ must be 21 years or older, ""'7' NCondTl,ncfa,yof •mont11 from 1Pllfto 9PM TTRIJ&S First 11nd third S11turd11y of the month from 12noon - 6pm 91L743.4297 Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa TTRPGs A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Alliances 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get help applying for 1~ S upplemental : ~!~~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaf\ol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:28 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a6a9c6b9cb368d22875e0c68297abc9b.pdf b83ad5e9fd6c0a2ae751a5b318898ac4 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed, Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm New Programming AFFIRM Caregiver Thursday, February 8th, 6-8 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK WE ARE NOW OFFERING .,fFF,RI, -CAREGIVERFOR ALL PARENTS & CAREGIVERS OF LGBTQ+ YOUTH! AFFIRM Caregiver is a 7-session group program designed to help parents and caregivers build the confidence and skills they need to best support their LGBTQ+ youth. All people who parent and support LGBTQ+ young people are welcome, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents. This group will have a blended option. We will meet in person on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will have a Zoom open simultaneously for anyone unable to make the in-person meeting; we encourage inperson meetings as often as possible! Space is limited, so please reserve a spot as soon as possible! For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org r Blended Saturday, February 17th, 10-11 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2Q22blended~g~ TULSR a~TI-~aC:I5T Support Group Aat1-lldrr1Qfw,m-su,,-tllllalltui~Nllts,stni:l'm Join us for our monthly peer-led support group for parents in non-traditional households! Whether you're a step-parent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, this group is a welcoming space for you. We'll meet on the 3rd Saturday of each month, starting February 17th, at OKEQ. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. Looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences! Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, February 29th, 7-8.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Special Events Queer Women's Collective: February Meetup Wednesday, February 7th, 5.30-7.30 pm Bar 46 107 N Boulder Ave, Tulsa, OK QUEER WOMEN'S COLLECTIVE Anyone feeling like ‘HOW are we planning for February already?!’ (Yeah, us too) Let’s have a drink about it! . BAR 46 107 N. BOULDER AVE WEONESDAY,FEB.7TH 5:30-7:30 P.M. ~ ~ RRFMTulsa Tulsa Really Really Free Market Help Girl Sco"t Troop 7484 meet otAr Cookie SQles GM1s 1 Please join us to hang with our friends over at Bar 46 - play some pool or ping pong; beers, cocktails, and mocktails will be available for all! We can’t wait to see you! As a reminder, this is a queer, trans, and nonbinary inclusive gathering. Allies are welcome, assholes are not! Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, February 10th, 12-4 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ Girl Scout Troop 7484: Cookie House Party Thursday, February 22nd, 6.30-7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join Troop 7484 of Girl Scouts Eastern Oklahoma on February 22nd for the Cookie House Party! Enjoy some cookies and support Troop 7484! At 621 E 4 1~ Street; T.. lsa, Ok 74120 Scout Troop 7484 meets every Thursday from 6:30 to 7:30 PM, giving you the opportunity to make friends, learn new skills, and have fun. To learn more about Troop 7484, contact our dedicated Troop Leader, Teresa Marler, at gseok.troop7484@gmail.com. P.O.C. Brunch Sunday, February 25th, 12-2 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for an unforgettable experience at the Annual POC Brunch at noon on February 25th! We'll be serving a delicious breakfast, along with bottles of champagne, mimosas, and much more! You won't want to miss out on the electrifying performances by the best Black Drag artists in town, including Sasha V. King, Drevion Dior, Nalaa Jade, Robyn D. Fierce, Londenn D. Raine, and Scrappy Legacy. Get ready to indulge in a day filled with great food, drinks, and entertainment! Mark your calendars and join us! All are welcome. 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ACLU OF OKLAHOMA ADVOCACY DAY 2024 Monday, February 26, 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd Oklahoma City, OK 73105 As the ACLU of Oklahoma enters its 60th Anniversary of protecting the civil liberties of all Oklahomans, we are so excited to present our 2024 Advocacy Day! Join us on Monday, February 26, at 9 a.m. at the Oklahoma State Capitol for an advocacy day that we hope will empower you to use our collective power to make legislative change. Registration is required. This event is free and open to the public. OKEQ will be facilitating transportation to the Capitol on February 26th. If you send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org expressing your interest in securing a seat, Olivia will confirm your reservation on the bus through email. Rising Stars Saturday, March 2nd, 3-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to assist you in bringing your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. In Memoriam Iln Meimoriaurrn In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 12 -:&= er - https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -:&= er CulturallyCompetentC•reforthetGBTQ•Communoty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ASEXUAL ACognitivellehaviotalTherapy-<>ased prog,amtor1()Ulh A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Affirm A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! TllLSR GilTI-RGCI5T Support Group AwhiU-ledgroupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystllmicracism laBt ThUl'ldau of IVll'll_fflonth atths DBRnia R. 1llil EQUllitu CBRtlr Broiigltt irjo Yollll Bii If1J e IL~ t t ~ r ,____.__.__,~ rj ~~~~~-- 621 E~ st. 7-uPIII Cratiq asafa space and facilitatina support. Bducation and IIOt:ial opportunitia for all individuals lllllldq . . to divat r . l'rom systamic Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Brought To You Bi The Letter B A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Monthly on the last Thursday. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) rHousin of Oklahoma will be assisting Equality Game Night Fair Housing: Legal Aid Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/tulsaequalitygaming ---------· -- Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. ----- f GENDER ~ SUPPORT 1\ 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... uHUUP heGenclerSUP!)Or'lprOVl<le!I 5upport,education, andsocial opportunitiesfortransgeoder andintersexindividu.als First-timeinterviewisrequiredbefore an ending)'Ollrfirs1 m~1ing Pleasecontacl 918-743-4297 71 llw,y _ _ _,,o1_ monffl'"""7""1to9PM DennisR.NeiUEqu.a!it)',Tulsa,OK74129 Gender Support Group Scout Troop 7484 The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Grupo Espanol Trans en 71 elizabeth.ortizl>okeq.org ________. - -- Ungrupode apoyopara mujeres transQeneroenespailoL udaprime,- y..t,._}wwa DennisR. Neill Equ.ality, Tulsa,0K 7412' Green Country Bears Grupo Trans en Espanol We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. 0[,:!]@0@l0@11DIBIB~~ 'iJ'l1DCb.§& 'i:f'W@=§~O~D'i:f' FREE HIV Testing IndigiQueer 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and twospirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Lawyer in the Library Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic Oklahomafor Equa lity LawCenter ist>osting a clinic fornameand 7 Attorney Josh Payton and his team wil!assistthose withnameand geooe<corrPCtions. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org -- -----Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. OKEQ SENIORS Can'tmakeitinper,;on?contact infol!>okequalitylaw.comtoschedule aconsu ltationb)'Zoom CllffY M'CondW--yoflhe __,._,,._,m_.,_ •~-'"-• = ______. _,,.from5:38Plll'to7PM DennisR.NeillEQ.Ul!lllty,Tuls.l,0K7.. 12& Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in Denn1sR Ne,llEqual1tyTuls.a OK7412& OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. , TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA :r:rour.~ 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ..,.., ■ 71 - - - - -- ~ _ _ ,,_,..,.IJPM Asoclal0<ganlzatloof0<mature-minded GayalldBise,ualmen. AttendNsmus1be21yea,so,-~ .,_,._..,~of First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa TTRPGs A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. HOPE Testing Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. OTULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENT ER A C TION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. APROG-= CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0]14 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: Learn more at bungerfreeok or_g/resources/soap/ - ~ HUNGER FREE nn OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm The state of Oklahoma’s legislative session is kicking off, and we need your help! More than 70 hateful bills have been filed targeting the rights of 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families. Let’s send the message that love is stronger than hate. Support OkEq and our life-saving programs by donating toward our goal of $100K by Valentine’s Day today! Donate Today Exciting News Alert! ? Magic City Books and Saturn Room have spread love and support this February! In the spirit of giving back, they've pledged to donate a portion of their profits until February 14th to OKEQ. It's the perfect opportunity to indulge in your favorite reads or sip on delicious cocktails while positively impacting our community. Let's spread the love together! ? 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 14 OF ALL SALES SUNDAY 2/11-WEDNESDAY 2/14. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ... day-Wednesday to Oklahomans for below for more Information an c New Programming WE ARE NOW OFFERING -4"1RN -CAREGIVER- FOR All PARENTS & CAREGIVERS OF LGBTQ+ YOUTH! AFFIRM Caregiver Thursday, February 15th, 6-8 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK AFFIRM Caregiver is a 7-session group program designed to help parents and caregivers build the confidence and skills they need to best support their LGBTQ+ youth. All people who parent and support LGBTQ+ young people are welcome, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents. This group will have a blended option. We will meet in person on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will have a Zoom open simultaneously for anyone unable to make the in-person meeting; we encourage inperson meetings as often as possible! Space is limited, so please reserve a spot as soon as possible! For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Pride Bingo Saturday, February 17th, 6.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, February 17th, as we celebrate love and pride! Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment! Features performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy, King Mykal Khrystian, and Tiffany Paige Doors open at 6:30 PM All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride Equality Business Alliance Monthly Mixer Thursday, February 22nd, 7-8.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK The Equality Business Alliance exists to strengthen gay-welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: • Providing a directory of gay-welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; • Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and • Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The Equality Business Alliance fosters the sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services and strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and community. 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... EBA networking mixers are usually the last Thursday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, please email EBA for more information. All EBA Events will be listed on our website and Facebook Event Page. Please plan on joining us! . . ........ ..,......,..__ .,_.._..._ ... _. ......, ,.. ..... b«"'JJ li o11alOi11i 11 g- l::xp"ri"nce• .......... _ . _ M _ , . . . _ _ _ _ _ • • ... _,w_ •• TULSR S?lTI-EiSCI5T Support Group Awhite-ledgroupforpmsupportandeducationaboutsyst.emicracism Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, February 29th, 7-8.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. llllt 1huradau of 1!."8"11.IDonth at thB lllnnis R. llail Equality C8nt8r mE'llist. 7-l:DIIII Cr8atina asafe spa and fldlitatina IIIQIIIOrt. Bducation and sacial opportunitin for all individuals llllkina ta diVl8t from systlnlil: racimn in tllair dailg liva °!:~~~==.'='='= r Blended Saturday, March 16th, 10-11 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com Join us for our monthly peer-led support group for parents in non-traditional households! Whether you're a step-parent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, this group is a welcoming space for you. We'll meet on the 3rd Saturday of each month, starting February 17th, at OKEQ. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. Looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences! Special Events OKEQ Seniors: Pizza Party Tuesday, February 13th, 11.30 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK nvcn At OKEQ Seniors, we're all about celebrating life and community. Join us as we share laughter, stories, and the simple pleasure of enjoying 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... delicious food in the company of friends who understand and support one another. Un.I::.'-' SENIORS ??? Don't miss out on this opportunity to connect with fellow LGBT older adults, advocate for our rights, and promote positive images of aging within our vibrant community. Let's come together to enhance our quality of life and spread love, acceptance, and inclusivity! ??? ??✨ See you there! ✨?? Help Girl Sco1At Troop 7484 rneet 01Ar Cookie s~les Go~ls! Girl Scout Troop 7484: Cookie House Party Thursday, February 22nd, 6.30-7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join Troop 7484 of Girl Scouts Eastern Oklahoma on February 22nd for the Cookie House Party! Enjoy some cookies and support Troop 7484! Scout Troop 7484 meets every Thursday from 6:30 to 7:30 PM, giving you the opportunity to make friends, learn new skills, and have fun. To learn more about Troop 7484, contact our dedicated Troop Leader, Teresa Marler, at gseok.troop7484@gmail.com. Jo ir'\ 1-ts on Febru.a(j 22"" fr om. 6:30 - 8:00 P.M. for o•r COOKIE HOUSE PART Y! At 621 E 4" street; r.1,., OK 74120 Tulsa Health Department Community Listening Sessions Saturday, February 24th, 12-2 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK HELP US SHAPE OUR FUTURE Join us and .share )'QUr insights to shape the Tulsa Health Department's upcoming Strategic Plan. Your input matters to us! Meals prcMded." Participants will haw a chance to win a g ift card. 18+ only. Dennis R Nerll Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Saturday, February 24112:00 - 2:00 pm (Event Center) Be a part of shaping our future! Join us in contributing your valuable insights to developing Tulsa Health Department's upcoming Strategic Plan. Your input is highly valued! Plus, enjoy complimentary meals* and get a chance to win a gift card. Unfortunately, limited spots are available so you can secure your place now. You must be 18 or older to participate. RSVP by scanning the code or calling 918.595.4061. *Spaces are limited, so registration is required. Scan to RSVP or call 918-595-4061 •space is limited. Registration required Visit tulsa-health.org/strategicplan to learn more. Improving health in Tulsa County together. P.O.C. Brunch Sunday, February 25th, 12-2 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for an unforgettable experience at the Annual POC Brunch at noon on February 25th! We'll be serving a delicious breakfast, along with bottles of champagne, mimosas, and much more! You won't want to miss out on the electrifying performances by the best Black Drag artists in town, including Sasha V. King, Drevion Dior, Nalaa Jade, Robyn D. Fierce, Londenn D. Raine, and Scrappy Legacy. Get ready to indulge in a day filled with great food, drinks, and entertainment! Mark your calendars and join us! All are welcome. 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ACLU OF OKLAHOMA ADVOCACY DAY 2024 Monday, February 26, 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd Oklahoma City, OK 73105 As the ACLU of Oklahoma enters its 60th Anniversary of protecting the civil liberties of all Oklahomans, we are so excited to present our 2024 Advocacy Day! Join us on Monday, February 26, at 9 a.m. at the Oklahoma State Capitol for an advocacy day that we hope will empower you to use our collective power to make legislative change. Registration is required. This event is free and open to the public. OKEQ will be facilitating transportation to the Capitol on February 26th. If you send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org expressing your interest in securing a seat, Olivia will confirm your reservation on the bus through email. Rising Stars Saturday, March 2nd, 3-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Saturday, February 3rd at 3PM ✨ ?⚧❤?????????? Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! ?⚧❤?????????? lW Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to assist you in bringing your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! ?⚧❤?????????? Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. You may be a la,gel ... Bui you don •1 have lo be a victim! Wotluhop Don' t Be A Victim Workshop Saturday, March 9 th 2024 12:00 - 3:00 PM Dennis R. Neil l Equal ity Center 621 E 4th Street, Tulsa OK 74120 No Cost ... It's FREE i Instructors: ~ Wear comfortable clothes to move in. Water and some snacks available. The workshop will : Involve group discussions on experienced situations and possib le avoida nce techniques Utilize Krav M aga martial 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... arts for physica l situations. Aria Lynn Chase M ike McDougal Don't Be A V1ct1m workshop sponsored by DarkHorseDoJo.com & Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In Memoriam In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-cr- HEALTH -ci=-crCLINIC Culturally Comp.t•nt Car• for the lGBTQ• Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! The OKEQ Library System now has more places for 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Aces Committed Equality A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Affirm A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! TllLSR EUlTI-eacieT Support Group Rwhite-led2roupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicracism I.alt Thursdag of 1V81'11_1Danth at th8 Dannis R. lllil Equalitg Cantar 821 E'hi st. 7-l:OOPIII Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) rHousin Equality Game Night Fair Housing: Legal Aid Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/tulsaequalitygaming ---------- · Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. ------- - GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP TheGende<Su!)!)Ortprovides support,education,ar\dsoclal opp0rtunitiesfor1ransg,eoder First-time interview is required belotl.' 71 Please contact 918-743-42117 E-,..........,.,,.0,.,.. _..,. fnrm 7PM fO 9PM DennisR.Neill[qlJa(ity,Tu1$a,OK7412$ '1t.743.4297 anendingl'Ollrfirntmeetlng SCOUT TROOP 7484 .;. Gender Support Group Scout Troop 7484 The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 918.743.4297. GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS Green Country Bears Grupo Espanol 71 ____ ____, ... Trans en __ l!'lizabeth.orti~eq,org Ungrupoc!eapoyoparamujeres trans~oenespallol ,;..a.,,,.._.,111mno;,- Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 74128 91&.7'3A297 Grupo Trans en Espanol We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. <>r ' Free HIV Test:ing Every Tuesday from4pm - &pml 0Cr:!J@□~□@0=1J [3[3~~ 'iJ'OdJ[b,§& "IT'W@=§[;'DO~D"IT' FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and twospirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Lawyer in the Library Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic Oklahoma 10< Equa lity law Center Is hoStir,g a cl;nic tor name and 7 A!le>ml"fJoshPaytonandh isteam wiUassistthosewithnameand genc!ercorrections. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org -- -----Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. OKEQ SENIORS Can'tmakeftinperwn?contact inlo$okequalitylaw.comtoschedule a consu ltation by Zoom. n.r,,Meond W!Jdn,nday of me - -'"-"'"-•m-••-~-'"-'""'-•- - - - - momhfl'om 5:381'Mf07PM O..mis R. ~ill EqU.1lity, Tutsa, OK 7412- Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. , TULSA TTRP~s TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS Asocia l organizationtormatu re-minded Ga,,JandBi sexu.alrneo 71 .---- OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY 11vvu,;it,10Ct.l ln1e,11etion AttendNsmus1be2lyearsor ... _..,,_,,.. ...... .,_,._,.,~of First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm ,.,,. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa TTRPGs A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Veteran Support Group 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners LEGAL AID SERVICES OF Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • t tz. = LEGAL AID SERVICES O F • t tz. = OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. QTULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling APROG-OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Jl t'1 Get h e l p . supplemental applying for • • ~ ~!;~\i;;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espariol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/soap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:31 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a02177560d9099c0c64655e827b5bbc4.pdf b366f0d9f601344207e979c9e15b070a PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm ? A Heartfelt Thank You, Tulsa! ? Dear Tulsa Community, We are thrilled to announce that we have reached our goal, thanks to your fantastic support! Your dedication and generosity have propelled us forward, and we couldn't have done it without you. Each contribution, big or small, has made a significant impact, and we are deeply grateful. As our lights shine brighter tonight, we want to express our sincerest gratitude for standing by us every step of the way. Together, we have achieved something extraordinary, and we're excited for what the future holds. Thank you, Tulsa, for your unwavering support and belief in our mission. Here's to many more milestones together! With heartfelt appreciation, OKEQ staff and all those who make the center run New Programming WE ARE NOW OFFERING .,fFF,RN -CAREGIVER- FOR All PARENTS & CAREGIVERS OF LGBTQ+ YOUTH! AFFIRM Caregiver Thursday, February 22nd, 6-8 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK AFFIRM Caregiver is a 7-session group program designed to help parents and caregivers build the confidence and skills they need to best support their LGBTQ+ youth. All people who parent and support LGBTQ+ young people are welcome, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents. This group will have a blended option. We will meet in person on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will have a Zoom open simultaneously for anyone unable to make the in-person meeting; we encourage inperson meetings as often as possible! Space is limited, so please reserve a spot as soon as possible! For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Support Group Rwhitr:-ledgroupforpeersupportandriucationaboutsystr:micracism Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, February 29th, 7-8.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Creatina asafe spa and facilitatina support. Bducation and social -•nitin for all individuals aakina to iviit1rom sgstmi: ramm in thBir dailu Hva U:.:C."-=-:=.i::,r;:,=- r Blended Saturday, March 16th, 10-11 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for our monthly peer-led support group for parents in non-traditional households! Whether you're a step-parent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, this group is a welcoming space for you. We'll meet on the 3rd Saturday of each month, starting February 17th, at OKEQ. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step paren t s, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences! Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended~gm ail.com Special Events ~= ,-.; ADULTS SOCIAL • : ... ~ T: :SA Feb 20th • • ' '<..:J' = OKLA.HOMANS FOR EQUALITY PM •• • Adult Socials Tulsa Tuesday, February 20th, 7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK Join Beyond The Spectrum OK and the Autism Foundation of Oklahoma for an unforgettable evening of connection and celebration! This month, we're thrilled to partner with Oklahomans for Equality at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a special event! Get ready to unleash your creativity with cookie decorating, indulge in delicious treats, and engage in meaningful conversations. Plus, we're honored to have autistic therapist Lindsey Vendeventer, LCSW, leading a community discussion and Q&A session. Whether you're a supporter of equality, passionate about autism advocacy, or simply looking for a fun and inclusive event, this is the place to be! Register now to secure your spot and join us for an evening of connection, celebration, and learning. Let's come together to spread love, understanding, and acceptance in our community! 'Pump Up the Volume' - Benefit for OKEQ Wednesday, February 21st, 7.30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK Presented with Twisted Arts, the classic coming-of-age film is back on the big screen with all ticket proceeds donated to Oklahomans for Equality! For more information or to make an additional donation to OKEQ, visit OKEQ.org. One night only, tickets at regular price. OKEQ has been serving LGBTQ+ Oklahomans and allies since 1980. Thank you for joining Twisted Arts and Circle Cinema in support of their fundraiser to keep the doors open for this vital community resource. About the film: In Arizona, an introverted and insightful teenager, Mark Hunter (Christian Slater), finds an outlet for his viewpoints through shortwave radio. Broadcasting as "Hard Harry," Hunter uses his pirate radio show to rant against the injustices and hypocrisies taking place in the area and in society in general. Hunter conceals his off-air identity, but a determined student (Samantha Mathis) discovers the truth, while Principal Creswood (Annie Ross) seeks to shut down Hunter once and for all. About Twisted Arts: Founded in Tulsa, OK, Twisted Arts was created to highlight local, national, and international 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LGBTQ2S+ artists through year-round programs which include an annual fall film festival, monthly film screenings & performances, an LGBTQ2S+ youth filmmaking Summer camp, members-only sneak peeks, access to year-round short films, special events, and private screenings with directors, actors, and other queer media icons. Visit TwistedFest.org for more Help Girl Sco1.tt Troop 7484 meet 01Ar Cookie S~les Go~ls! Girl Scout Troop 7484: Cookie House Party Thursday, February 22nd, 6.30-7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join Troop 7484 of Girl Scouts Eastern Oklahoma on February 22nd for the Cookie House Party! Enjoy some cookies and support Troop 7484! Scout Troop 7484 meets every Thursday from 6:30 to 7:30 PM, giving you the opportunity to make friends, learn new skills, and have fun. To learn more about Troop 7484, contact our dedicated Troop Leader, Teresa Marler, at gseok.troop7484@gmail.com. Join u.s on Feb r u.~tj 22".i fr o 6:30 - 8 :00 P.M. for oor COO IE-HOUSE PARTY! At 621 E 4 th Street; T.ls•. OK 74120 UALITY Business Alliance l EBA MIXER TheEqualityBu5inessAllianceexiststo Equality Business Alliance Monthly Mixer Thursday, February 22nd, 7-8.30 pm Isla's Kitchen 404 E. Archer St., Tulsa, OK Join us for our Equality Business Alliance Mixer with Isla's Kitchen on Thursday, February 22nd at 6 PM. ????????? Isla’s Kitchen (pronounced ‘eye-luhs’) is a charming Southern-themed restaurant offering a range of new Southern, creole, & low-country cuisine, all served with a generous helping of Southern hospitality. ?⚧❤?????????? 1W EBA networking mixers are usually held on the last Thursday of each month from 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues to meet prospective clients, expand your professional network, and support the LGBTQ+ community. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you want to host a mixer, please email EBA for more information. All EBA Events will be listed on our website and Facebook Event Page. Please plan on joining us! Tulsa Health Department Community Listening Sessions Saturday, February 24th, 12-2 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK HELP US SHAPE OUR FUTURE Join us and 5hare your insights to shape the Tulsa Health Department's upcoming Strategic Plan. Your input mattefs to us! Meals pmvided." Participants wi11 haw a chance to win a gift. card. 18• only. Dennis R Nell/ Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Saturday, February 24112:00 - 2:00 pm (Event Center) Be a part of shaping our future! Join us in contributing your valuable insights to developing Tulsa Health Department's upcoming Strategic Plan. Your input is highly valued! Plus, enjoy complimentary meals* and get a chance to win a gift card. Unfortunately, limited spots are available so you can secure your place now. You must be 18 or older to participate. RSVP by scanning the code or calling 918.595.4061. *Spaces are limited, so registration is required. Scan to RSVP or call 918-595-4061 •space is limited. Registration required. Visit tulsa-health.org/strategicplan to learn more. Improving health in Tulsa County together. 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... P.O.C. Brunch Sunday, February 25th, 12-2 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for an unforgettable experience at the Annual POC Brunch at noon on February 25th! We'll be serving a delicious breakfast, along with bottles of champagne, mimosas, and much more! You won't want to miss out on the electrifying performances by the best Black Drag artists in town, including Sasha V. King, Drevion Dior, Nalaa Jade, Robyn D. Fierce, Londenn D. Raine, and Scrappy Legacy. Get ready to indulge in a day filled with great food, drinks, and entertainment! Mark your calendars and join us! All are welcome. ACLU OF OKLAHOMA ADVOCACY DAY 2024 Monday, February 26, 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd Oklahoma City, OK 73105 As the ACLU of Oklahoma enters its 60th Anniversary of protecting the civil liberties of all Oklahomans, we are so excited to present our 2024 Advocacy Day! Join us on Monday, February 26, at 9 a.m. at the Oklahoma State Capitol for an advocacy day that we hope will empower you to use our collective power to make legislative change. Registration is required. This event is free and open to the public. OKEQ will be facilitating transportation to the Capitol on February 26th. If you send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org expressing your interest in securing a seat, Olivia will confirm your reservation on the bus through email. Rising Stars Saturday, March 2nd, 3-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Saturday, February 3rd at 3PM ✨ ?⚧❤?????????? Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! ?⚧❤?????????? 1W Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to assist you in bringing your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! ?⚧❤?????????? 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0 Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. ,>.=:>· : .. . • •,• { I SIGN UP:WWW.OKEQ.ORG - You may be a la,gel ... Bui you don•t have lo be a victim! Wo,luhop Don't Be A Victi m Workshop Saturday, March 9th 2024 12:00 - 3:00 PM Dennis R. Neill Equal ity Center 621 E 4th Street, Tulsa OK 74120 No Cost... It's FREE i ~ • Instructors: Aria Lynn Chase M ike McDougal Wear comfortable clothes to move in. Water and some snacks available. The workshop will : Involve group discussions on experienced situations and possible avoidance techniques Utilize Krav Maga martial arts for physical situations. Don't Be A V1ct1m workshop sponsored by DarkHorseDoJo.com & Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In Memoriam Iln MellTioriaurrn In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Aces Committed Equality A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Affirm A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I UlllH ~.1·~·.-.. ~l.i~iiiiil'~' Support Group Rwhite-ledgroupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicracism Bro11tgltt '11Jo VOllt Bi Tjlte Let:ter 1 last Thul'Sdau of ~ _month at tha Dannia R. Dail Equality CantBr 621 E~ st. 7-Qllffl Craatiq aaafa space and facilitatina support, aducation and social opportunjtiaa for all individuals mlrina to divat l'rom sustamic racism in their • lives Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Brought To You Bi The Letter B A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Monthly on the last Thursday. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) rHousin Equality Game Night Fair Housing: Legal Aid Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/tulsaequalitygaming - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - . --- Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. --------- 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... f GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP TheGende<Supponproyides s upport education.and social opportuni1ies for1ransgend,er andln1erse,individuals. First-limeinterviewisrequiredbefo,e a tteodingrourfir,;tm.,.,ling. Please contact918-74 3-4297 71 SCOUT TROOP 7484 .;. rwwy...,...,.o,.,,. mondl from 7PM ro fPllf Deonis R.NeiUEqua(lty,TuLsa,0K74128 Gender Support Group Scout Troop 7484 The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Grupo Trans en Espanol 71 elilabelh.Ol'li?~eq,org ___ ...-- Ungrupocieapoy,oparamujeres trans{lfflefoenespai'lol ____. c:..-~yultiono~ DeonisR.NeillEquality,Tuls.a,OK74128 Green Country Bears Grupo Trans en Espanol We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ◊r ' Free HIV Test:ing Every Tuesday from4pm - &pml 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0[,:!J@:l0@10@11D§§~~ 'i:f'l1Dl1a§& 'i:f'W@=§~O~D'i:f' FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and twospirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris i J~~. 9.~2: 6:30-7:30PM §. • Lawyer in the Library Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org - - --- - - - Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. f Gender L Correction Clinic O klahomafor Equality l.aw Center Is hostir>g a c(i ni c for name and 7 Anomey Josh Payton and his team will assisttt>o,;ewithnameand genoe, corrections. OKEQ SENIORS Can'tma ke i tinperson?contact i nfo9>okequalitylaw.comtoschedu le a consu ltation by Zoom. ~ w,;ond w - y of ,,.. __ ,,._,.,_m•-""- "-'""-•_ _ _ ___, mon#ifrom5:3flPMto7PM Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 1• 12& Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so Dcnn1sR Nell\EquahtyTulsa OK7412& OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 14 soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~ TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS 71 UI\LI\MUffll\lU tUK t\lUI\LII J TULSA TTRP~S A so,;_, orp,iation for ma1Uremlnd9d g.-,and bisexual ,....,.10 ftUbtlsh friendship and wppon lhrou9hsoclal ln1eraction AttendNsmus1be21ye~or~ Asocia l organlzationformatu re-mioded Gay and Bisexual men. .,_,._..,~of _ ____, _ _ ,,_7"1111iolJPM First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa TTRPGs A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGAL AID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services = Health Outreach Prevention • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF = 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. HOPE Testing These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. QTULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENT ER A C T ION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. APROG-= CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 118771 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP speciali sts call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Learn more at buogerfreeok org/resources/soap/ HUNGER • FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Staff Andi Gunter - Operations & Health Clinic Manager Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Olivia Cotter - Administrative Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:32 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c8fe18a0150ae4c2450123fdfec4cac7.pdf fd78d487e1eb8efb9b561d1c9cbd5f74 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm New Programming WE ARE NOW OFFERING .,fFF,RI, -CAREGIVERFOR ALL PARENTS & CAREGIVERS OF LGBTQ+ YOUTH! AFFIRM Caregiver Thursday, February 29th, 6-8 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK AFFIRM Caregiver is a 7-session group program designed to help parents and caregivers build the confidence and skills they need to best support their LGBTQ+ youth. All people who parent and support LGBTQ+ young people are welcome, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents. This group will have a blended option. We will meet in person on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will have a Zoom open simultaneously for anyone unable to make the in-person meeting; we encourage inperson meetings as often as possible! Space is limited, so please reserve a spot as soon as possible! For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org TULSR S?lTI-EiSCI5T Support Group Rwhitr:-ledgroupforpmsupportandtducationaboutsystr:micracism ,u' [] Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, February 29th, 7-8.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Laatlhuraday of ~_lllonth at thB Dannis R. llBil Equality Cantar llE~st.7-UPIII Cratina 1111'11 BU(lplll't. ~-8:atand flcilitati..Ill far all indlviduala 888kina to =='8aumia1c raci8m in tll8ir dailg liva u:.:c:.r:-::=.i;r:=::::.- r A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Please join us at 10am on March 23rd at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@g!!JAi..l&.Qm Blended Saturday, March 23rd, 10-11 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for our monthly peer-led support group, a safe and inclusive space for parents in non-traditional households! Whether you're a step-parent, nonbiological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, we welcome you with open arms. This month, our meeting will be held on the 4th Saturday, and starting next month, we will consistently meet on the third Saturday of each month. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We're eagerly looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences with you! Special Events Rising Stars Saturday, March 2nd, 3-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Saturday, March 2nd at 3PM ✨ ?⚧❤?????????? Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ?⚧❤?????????? Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to assist you in bringing your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! ?⚧❤?????????? lW Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. ARCHMEETU L . . - - - -l'IANftt6TH 5:30-7:30 PM YELLOW BRICK ROAD PUB 2630 E. 15th St. Queer Women's Collective Wednesday, March 6th, 5.30-7.30 pm Yellow Brick Road Pub 2630 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK We’re headed back to our favorite little dive bar for the March meetup! They have assured me that Tony will be even more adorable than usual (if that’s possible) and the beers will be extra cold. ?☘☀? Tulsa, OK 74104 We can’t wait to see you! ❤ As a reminder this is a queer, trans and non-binary inclusive gathering. Allies are welcome, assholes are not! You may be a la,gel ... Bui you don •1 have lo be a viclim! Wo,luhop Don' t Be A Victim Workshop Saturday, March 9 t h 2024 12:00 - 3 :00 PM Dennis R. Neill Equal ity Center 621 E 4th Street, Tulsa OK 74120 No Cost... It's FREE i Instructors: Aria Lynn Chase M ike McDougal ' Wear comfortable clothes to move in. Water and some snacks available. The workshop will : Involve group discussions on experienced situations and possible avoidance techniques Utilize Krav Maga martial arts for physica I situations. Don't Be A V1ct1m workshop sponsored by DarkHorseDoJo.com & Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1st Annual Multi-Cultural Celebration Spring Festival & Market 2024 Saturday, April 13th, 10 am-6 pm Marriot Southern Hills 1902 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK We welcome ALL Artisans and Entertainers, Indigenous, LGBTQ2IA, Alternative, Hispanic, African American, Gothic, Pagan, Disabled, Autistic, and MORE! NO HATE SPEECH ALLOWED! A CHILL ROOM is provided for those 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... with SENSORY ISSUES! This event is ADA-compliant and has plenty of parking. Vendor Form Pie Day Cabaret Thursday, March 14th, 7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Fearuring songs from l+',1itr1'H , S 11•1't'11q Tmld, T/,c Great Britisli /11,b, OjJMusi,11/, and MORE! Sam Briggs is proud to present "Pie Day Cabaret," coming to Tulsa's Lynn Riggs Theatre on Thursday, March 14! A star-studded cast is whipping up songs from Waitress, Sweeney Todd, The Great British Bake Off Musical, and MORE! Pi(e) Day never sounded so sweet! SAFE PRAYER SERVICE JOIN US FOR S.I.P.S. on Wednesday evenings at 7:00pm. It's a zero pressure, affirming prayer time for our 2SLGBTIA+ friends, families, and allies. Wherever you are on your spiritual journey, you are welcome here - come just as you are. Wednesdays at 7:00 pm CHURCH OF THE HOLY CROSS - EPISCOPAL 9309 N 129th East Ave Owasso , OK 74055 www.CHC EP1SC0f'AL 0R.G Pride Bingo Saturday, March 16th, 6.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, March 16th! Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, enjoy delicious food, and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment, and compete in our Best Sunday Bonnet contest. Features performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy, Aurora Morningstar, and Alistair A.D. Summers. Doors open at 6:30 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam n Merrnoriaurn Nex Benedict Our hearts are broken for the Oklahoma 2SLGBTQIA+ community and for the family, friends, and loved ones of Nex Benedict. While we are still learning all of the facts surrounding the death of the 16year-old Owasso student, we are certain that every student has the right to a safe learning environment, free from deadnaming, misgendering, outing, and violence, as well as appropriate medical care. The persistent, vitriolic legislation and rhetoric being championed by our state leaders are breeding animosity, inciting violence, and harming the queer community, especially our youth. As we grieve and acknowledge this loss, we are reminded of the work yet to be done because our lives depend on it. Nex Benedict and the countless 2SLGBTQIA+ teens like them deserve better from our state and medical facilities. They deserve the chance to fully be themselves. They deserve to grow up. Rest in power, Nex. In Memoriam Submissions 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Programming '=&=' cf OKEO HEALTH CLINIC '=&=' cf CulturallyCompetenrC•reforthelG8TQ•Commun,1y Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ASEXUAL ACognitivellehavioralTher"l)y-<lased prog,amtor1()Ulh A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Affirm A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! TllLSR SI1TI-~SCI5T Support Group Rwhite-ledgroupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicracism Int Thlll'Sdau of IVll'II_IDOnth at tha DBRnia R. 11811 Equalltg CBRt.lr Bro11igltt irjo Vo11t Bi irJlf1Je l~tt~r ____,__.__,~ ~~~~~- 621 E'Iii st. 7-1:mll support. au:aJon aru18:aiand l'acilitatina nitils for all individuals8!18ki!'lto ~fl:omsystBRtic Creatilll 1111'1 Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Brought To You Bi The Letter B A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Monthly on the last Thursday. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) rHousin Equality Game Night Fair Housing: Legal Aid Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/tulsaequalitygaming - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - . --- Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. --------- 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP The Gender Support provides suppor1.education,aOOsocial opportunitiesforlransgeooe< andinterse,indivlduals. Fir.;Mime interview is required belorn anl.'<Klingl'(>Urfirntmeeting. Pleasecontact 918-743-4207 71 SCOUT TROOP 7484 .;. rw,y..........,.,.ol,,,. _..,.,,_7PMrofPM Deflnisll.NeiUEqua(ity,Tu1$;1.0K74129 Gender Support Group Scout Troop 7484 The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Grupo Trans en Espanol 71 elizabeth.0<1iza>o1<eq,org ___ ____. - -- Ungrupoo:ieapoyoparamujeres Green Country Bears trans~roenespallol CMM,..._ y lkrimo }w'lfl Dermis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 74128 91&.7'3.A297 Grupo Trans en Espanol We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Free HIV Test:ing Every Tuesday from4pm - &pml OCr:!J@□@l□@M §§w ~ "iJ'(!d)Cb.§& "iJ'W@ = § [;e)Ow □lJ 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and twospirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris TULSAOK7 4120 ~ 8, JAMMOUT EVEll \' 2ND &, 4.'l'll MONDA 6:30-7:30P l ~] Lawyer in the Library Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic Oklahoma lo, Equa lify Law Cl.'llter is hosting a clinic fo, name and 71 - -"-""-•m-••-~-'"-•- ----- Anomey Josh Payton and his team wiHas.sistthosewithnameand geodefcorrections. Can'lma keitinpernon?contact inlo$okequalitytaw.comtoschedu le a consu ltation by Zoom Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org -- -----Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. OKEQ SENIORS ~ wcond Wedrwsdly o f tt,e ,,_frvm5:38PM to7PM DennisR.NeillEqualify, Tub.1,0K7412$ Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to Denn1sRNe1ltEqua!nyTulsaOK741W OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Socialaodwpportgroop!orl!OO-traditiooal Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. ~ A l""'lir- A P"'lr.TR f i r - OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... At1CA t""t1.11VIC TIMERS TTRP~s A social C>r9Mizatlon for maluremlnclecl gar and blsexual men to ~tn.ndst,ipands.upport ___71 ... lhrou,;ihsoclal in1er...::tion Asocialorganilatlonformature-minoed ~and8isexu.almen .... AttendNslnU$lbe21yearsoroldel: ___. .,_,._.,T--,. _..,. ,._,,.. ol First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa TTRPGs A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGAL AID t ti. SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the • LEGAL AID t ti. SERVICES OF = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... most at-risk. 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. HOPE Testing These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Jl t'1 Get h e l p . supplemental applying for • • ~ ~!;~\i;;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaf\ol: Learn more at bungerfreeok o~/resources/soap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Eddie Carreno - Member at Large Board of Directors Zoe Brett Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Staff Andi Gunter - Operations & Health Clinic Manager Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Olivia Cotter - Administrative Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Cydney Williams Yonah Sienna Jasper Grace Fallon 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:33 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8058e2ba94e1e5798ad061fe2f0c1454.pdf 7c16148f8ec2c80deaa1ce41da834ce1 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm OKEQ Open Board Positions Do you want to help shape the future of Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ)? Are there any valuable skills, lived or professional experiences, and/or different perspectives you possess that you think OKEQ needs as it evolves to meet the needs of the communities it serves? This is your chance! We are seeking new people to join our Board of Directors or Board of Advisors. Applications will be received online until 11:59 PM CT on Friday, March 8, 2024. You will hear back from the Board Governance & Development Committee no later than Monday, March 18, 2024. We currently have limited spots available, but anyone not selected for this round will be considered for any future openings. These positions are volunteer roles. Members are not paid and dedicate their time and expertise to support OKEQ, its mission, and its collective purpose. Members of the Board of Directors generally serve for 2-year terms and members of the Board of Advisors for 1-year terms. If selected to serve on the Board from this round, you will be filling the remainder of an existing board member’s term in accordance with our by-laws, so your first term may not be the full length of time mentioned above. General Expectations for Board Members: • Attend monthly board meetings. • Participate in at least one board committee. • Participate in and attend special events and functions throughout the year. • Actively contribute to the Board from your lived experiences, knowledge, skills, etc. to help • further OKEQ’s mission and operations. • Attend and/or sponsor the Equality Gala. • Volunteer for the Tulsa Pride Festival. Additional Expectations for Members of the Board of Directors: • Personally contribute at least $500.00 annually OR procure at least $500.00 in direct contributions from others and/or in sponsorships. Our Commitment to Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion: We know that to achieve our goals, fulfill our mission, and realize our vision, we need to include individuals with perspectives drawn from a wide range of backgrounds, skill sets, areas of expertise, and lived experiences to help us avoid decision-making that could diminish the impact of our work. We are publicly recruiting for board positions to ensure that we move beyond our immediate networks and honor our ongoing commitment to creating a board that is diverse in its composition, inclusive in its culture, and equity-focused in its approach to how it views its mission, its work, and the communities it serves. New Programming WE ARE NOW OFFERING .,fFF,RI, -CAREGIVERFOR All PARENTS & CAREGIVERS OF lGBTQ+ YOUTH! AFFIRM Caregiver Thursday, March 7th, 6-8 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK AFFIRM Caregiver is a 7-session group program designed to help parents and caregivers build the confidence and skills they need to best support their LGBTQ+ youth. All people who parent and support LGBTQ+ young people are welcome, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents. This group will have a blended option. We will meet in person on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will have a Zoom open simultaneously for anyone unable to make the in-person meeting; we encourage inperson meetings as often as possible! 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Space is limited, so please reserve a spot as soon as possible! For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org OKEQ Youth Programming Saturday, March 9th, 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK OkEq is excited to have the return of weekly Saturday youth programming at the Equality Center! The program is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 12 to 19. OKEQYOUTH PROGRAMING Every Saturday from 1 to 5 pm, it will involve opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutual-aid organizing, and socializing and fun! Participation is free, and a snack and a lunch are provided. For questions, please email youth@okeq.org Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Friday, March 15th, 10-11.30 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction focused, mindfulness based, & radically inclusive. r Blended Saturday, March 23rd, 10-11 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Please join us at 10am on March 23rd at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@g!DIDl&Qm Join us for our monthly peer-led support group, a safe and inclusive space for parents in non-traditional households! Whether you're a step-parent, nonbiological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, we welcome you with open arms. This month, our meeting will be held on the 4th Saturday, and starting next month, we will consistently meet on the third Saturday of each month. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. We're eagerly looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences with you! Support Group Awhitl·ledgroup for pm support and &ducation aboutsyst.emic r.1cism Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, March 28th, 7-8.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. 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L . . - - - -t'IAHett6TH 5:30-7:30 PM YELLOW BRICK ROAD PUB 2630 E. 15th St. Queer Women's Collective Wednesday, March 6th, 5.30-7.30 pm Yellow Brick Road Pub 2630 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK We’re headed back to our favorite little dive bar for the March meetup! They have assured me that Tony will be even more adorable than usual (if that’s possible) and the beers will be extra cold. ?☘☀? Tulsa, OK 74104 We can’t wait to see you! ❤ As a reminder this is a queer, trans and non-binary inclusive gathering. Allies are welcome, assholes are not! You may be a la,gel ... Bui you don•t have lo be a victim! Wo,luhop Don' t Be A Victi m Workshop Saturday, March 9 th 2024 12:00 - 3:00 PM Dennis R. Neill Equal ity Center 621 E 4th Street, Tulsa OK 74120 No Cost... It's FREE i Instructors: Aria Lynn Cha se M ike McDougal ~ Wear comfortable clothes to move in. Water and some snacks available. The workshop will : Involve group discussions on experienced situations and possible avoidance techniques Utilize Krav Maga martial arts for physica I situations. Don't Be A V1ct1m workshop sponsored by DarkHorseDoJo.com & Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Pie Day Cabaret Thursday, March 14th, 7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Fc~ruri ng songs from W ,1itn'H , SwN'lll'Y Tmld. T /,c Grmt Britisli B"b, Ojf M usital, and MO RE! Sam Briggs is proud to present "Pie Day Cabaret," coming to Tulsa's Lynn Riggs Theatre on Thursday, March 14! A star-studded cast is whipping up songs from Waitress, Sweeney Todd, The Great British Bake Off Musical, and MORE! Pi(e) Day never sounded so sweet! Pride Bingo Saturday, March 16th, 6.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, March 16th! Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, enjoy delicious food, and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment, and compete in our Best Sunday Bonnet contest. Features performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy, Aurora Morningstar, and Alistair A.D. Summers. Doors open at 6:30 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. REMIX Genre-Fluid Cabaret I e i March 21st, 7.30 pm J7✓REMIX'\:-- 1 Thursday Oklahomans for Equality "1.a Genre-Fluid Cabaret / • _ • • • 1·· ll ! ... ~ , . I1a roclit•~. ImIH•rsoI1.1l111ns.. and !(!'Ill"(' d)s11hona THURSDAYS IN THE RAINBOW ROOM < 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ~ Get ready to mix things up at REMIX - a night of music, parodies, improv, and other shenanigans on March 21, 2024! i , , ·· MARCH 21 l~ 7:39PM ·i_ LYNN RIGGS THEATRE ti- -~ , @OKEQ , ~ \_., "" IJ4':.. 1st Annual Multi-Cultural Celebration Spring Festival & Market Saturday, April 13th, 10 am-6 pm Marriot Southern Hills 1902 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK We welcome ALL Artisans and Entertainers, Indigenous, LGBTQ2IA, Alternative, Hispanic, African American, Gothic, Pagan, Disabled, Autistic, and MORE! NO HATE SPEECH ALLOWED! A CHILL ROOM is provided for those with SENSORY ISSUES! This event is ADA-compliant and has plenty of parking. Vendor Form 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 15 Dancer, Actress &~ o e https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... _oet, Aut o]i& Artj~ @)WH SPElliNGWILLOWPllODUCTIONS COM WHERE MUSIC, AND ART CONVERGE IN A SYMPHONY OF CULTURAL CELEBRATION SAFE PRAYER SERVICE JOIN US FOR S.I.P.S. on Wednesday evenings at 7:00pm. It's a zero pressure, affirming prayer time for our 2SLGBTIA+ friends, families and allies. Wherever you are on your spiritual journey, you are welcome here - come just as you are. Wednesdays at 7:00 pm CHURCH OF THE HOLY CROSS - EPISCOPAL 9309 N 129th East Ave Owasso, OK 74055 www.CHCEP1SC0PAL.0R.G In Memoriam Il111 Me1moriaurn Vernon Leon Jones Vernon Leon Jones, 88, of Tulsa, Oklahoma, left this earthly plane to be with his late partner Phil Wiley, on February 5th, 2024. He was born in Oklahoma, on May 3rd, 1935. As a gay man, born and raised here, Vernon's chosen family is vast. He is survived by Hayward Jones, Nekesha Jones, JaKobe Jones, Sue Davis, Fred Hilliard, Arlowe Clementine, Mason Thomas, Rey Thomas, and so many other individuals that claimed Vernon as their friend, family, and elder. Vernon was an active learner, even in his later years. He was always working to understand the world around him and was eternally hopeful for a better world. He was a strong advocate for marginalized peoples and was particularly committed to Queer and Black Liberation. 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Vernon was a clear Taurus. He was intelligent, dependable, logical, honest, and generous. Vernon spent most of his life focused on making his community better. He was a holder of receipts. A maker of spreadsheets. A true community historian and archivist. Vernon was dedicated to making people safer, both in his career in emergency management and his activist work in the fight against AIDS. He was not a stranger to controversy and was unrelenting in speaking his truth and the truth of the people he loved. In the years before his death, Vernon worked hard to ensure that the legacy of LGBTQ activism in Tulsa was properly recorded and preserved for current and future generations. His substantial archive is now housed in Oklahoma State University's Archives. This collection will be witnessed by researchers and community members for years to come. Vernon was a connector. He worked hard to bring people together and was always willing to give someone support that needed it. Even in his death, he is connecting individuals over their shared love and respect for him and his life. Vernon fought hard for his community and the legacy of his late partner Phil Wiley. Anyone who knew Vernon was graced with stories of Phil's life and legacy as well as their love for one another. In lieu of flowers, we ask that you remember Vernon by learning something new, taking a stand on social issues that are important to you, and keeping his life and legacy alive through storytelling. Gregory Paul Spencer Gregory Paul Spencer was born in Pawhuska, Oklahoma on October 18, 1958. He passed away on the evening of February 22, 2024, at the early age of 65 after a very sudden decline in his health with his grandson Tristin Reeves and his wife Amanda and their children by his side. Greg was preceded by both parents Frank and Isla Spencer. He is survived by his seven siblings, sister Judith Vaughn and her husband Donald of Lake Helan, FL., sister Linda Spencer of Bartlesville, brother Mark Spencer and his wife Diana of Bixby and their children and grandchildren, sister Margaret Bouvier and her husband Michael of Bartlesville and her children, sister Bernadette Spencer and B.J. Hargrave of Essex Junction, Vermont. and her son, brother John Spencer of Forsyth, MO and his children, and brother Eric Spencer and Gerard Cloete of Cape Town, South Africa. Greg is also survived by loyal friends and extended family. Greg has left his earthly life to soon leaving behind his daughter Kathryn Chambers and husband David of Bartlesville and their children, sons, Steven Spencer of Kansas City and Everett Spencer of Pawhuska and his children and grandchildren and his beloved Bayley. Gregory spent his younger years in Pawhuska, left for college and came back to teach and make a difference in his community. In 1987, he led the local vocational carpentry class to start renovations on the Constantine Theater where he left his handcrafted talent of the detailed masks of comedy and tragedy proudly displayed at the entrance. He also seen the need and was the Mayor of Pawhuska for a term. Later in life, Greg continued with his passion of carpentry and construction which brought on a long-time friendship with David Baker and many others that will miss him dearly. His love of the arts was shared when he would entertain and light up a room with song and dance. Greg recently found the same love for pipes that his father had and opened Bayley Pipe Shop and Museum where he proudly collected varieties of beautiful pipes, his carved Meerschaum collection was his pride and joy. Greg never met a stranger and always knew how to carry on a good conversation. He will be deeply missed. Nex Benedict Our hearts are broken for the Oklahoma 2SLGBTQIA+ community and for the family, friends, and loved ones of Nex Benedict. While we are still learning all of the facts surrounding the death of the 16year-old Owasso student, we are certain that every student has the right to a safe learning environment, free from deadnaming, misgendering, outing, and violence, as well as appropriate medical care. The persistent, vitriolic legislation and rhetoric being championed by our state leaders are breeding animosity, inciting violence, and harming the queer community, especially our youth. As we grieve and acknowledge this loss, we are reminded of the work yet to be done because our lives depend on it. Nex Benedict and the countless 2SLGBTQIA+ teens like them deserve better from our state and medical facilities. They deserve the chance to fully be themselves. 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... They deserve to grow up. Rest in power, Nex. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -=,=- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -=,=- Cultur•llyCompetentC• re forthetGEITQ+Commun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog ASEXUAL Equality Ac""CommittedtoEq"3tityisanactiv~t ·- "'71 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Affirm A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! TilLSR SilTI-E?SCieT Support Group Rwhite-ledgroupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicracism Bro1rngl11t ,.,Jo Yollt Bi irjlt~ Let te r 1 last Thursdau of ~_manth at th8 Dannis R. lllil Equalitg Cantar 621 E~ st. 7-l:DIII Cr8atinll asafe space and facilitatina support. education and social -•nitin for all individuals ~!II t.o ~ sust,Bmic 1i:om Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Brought To You Bi The Letter B A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Monthly on the last Thursday. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) rHousin of Oklahoma will be assistins Equality Game Night Fair Housing: Legal Aid Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p - Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/tulsaequalitygaming ------------ . -- SCOUT TROOP GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP TheGer>derSUPl)OMprovides suPJ)O<'l,education,andsocial opponunitiesfor1ransgender First-!imeinter-iewis,equiredbetore atteodingyourfirst meeling. Pleasecontact 918 -743-4297 at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. -------- 7484 ..., 71 ~ ....... ,.o1 ... momflfnJm7PMro!JfW DennisR.NeiUEqua!ity,Tulsa,OK74128 Gender Support Group Scout Troop 7484 The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Grupo Trans en Espanol ________ ... __ l'li zabeth.ortizOokeq,org Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans~oenespa,~ ~ /I .__,,,.._,111m,o;,- DeonisR.NeillEquality,Tulsa,OK74128 Green Country Bears Grupo Trans en Espanol We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. r • Free HIV Testing Every Tuesday from4Dm -&Dml 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OCr:!J@O~O@Odl§§~ ~ 'IT'OdJ[b, § & 'IT'W@ = §[)e)O~ □'IT' FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and twospirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris E==l JAMMOUTT ~ 6~;a:r;oPM ~ ]Jill~.."....... 'Q{{~\\ -..-111 Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center ist>osting a c!inic fornameand 7 Attorney Josh Payton and his team wiUassistthosewithnameand geooe<corrections. Canlmakeilinper.;on7contact Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org -- -----Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. OKEQ SENIORS infof>okequalitylaw.comtoschedu le aconsu ltationb)'Zoom Cl/ffYM'CondW-yofltN ,,_.;."-""-'m_.,_•~-'"_'.,.,_ ;..__ _ _ __, monfflfrom5:38PM'to7PM Denn1sRNe1UEquahtyTulsaOK7412& Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 15 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. ~ TULSA TTRP~S TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS ::::;".:::::.::,:.:: ntablllhfrieodshipandMJPPOrt Asocia l orgaoizatioo!ormature-miooed Gayand8i51!xualmeo. OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY 71 .,._.,,_,.., . Pflll lhnlugh10Clal lnte.acUoo. AttendNsmusl be21 yearsoroide!: .,_,._...,Twsefayof First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa TTRPGs A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Alliances uality Community Partners LEGAL AID SERVICES OF Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • t tz:. LEGAL AID SERVICES OF = • t tz:. = OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. JIS'1 G e t h e l p . supplemental applying for • • ~ ~!;~\i:;ce P rogram 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at bungerfreeok o~/resources/soap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 11 OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Staff Andi Gunter - Operations & Health Clinic Manager Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 15 Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Eddie Carreno - Member at Large Board of Directors Zoe Brett Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm New Programming OKEQ Youth Programming Saturday, March 16th, 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK OkEq is excited to have the return of weekly Saturday youth programming at the Equality Center! The program is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 12 to 19. OKEQYOUTH PROGRAMING Every Saturday from 1 to 5 pm, it will involve opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutual-aid organizing, and socializing and fun! Participation is free, and a snack and a lunch are provided. For questions, please email youth@okeq.org Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Friday, March 15th, 10-11.30 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction focused, mindfulness based, & radically inclusive. Support Group Awhitl-ledgroupforpmsupportandeducationaboutsystemicracism Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, March 28th, 7-8.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. LIit lhursdau or ~ -lllanth at the lllnnia R. 11811 EqUality C8nt8r &Zl E~st. 7-8:Dllll Craatina a safe spa and facilitatina support. education and social opportunitia for all individuals 888kina to divat frllm sustmi: rm:ilm in their dailg livaa u:.=:.r:-:==.i::.r:::=.- Special Events 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Pie Day Cabaret Thursday, March 14th, 7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Featuring songs from W11itn•ss, Swtr11..y Toi/ii. The Gm11 /1ritislt /111~'1' Ojf Musirnl, and MORE! Sam Briggs is proud to present "Pie Day Cabaret," coming to Tulsa's Lynn Riggs Theatre on Thursday, March 14! A star-studded cast is whipping up songs from Waitress, Sweeney Todd, The Great British Bake Off Musical, and MORE! Pi(e) Day never sounded so sweet! Lynn Riggs Theatre Thursday, March 14, 2024 I 7:30pm LOVE LIES BLEEDING Friday, March 15th Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK Friday, March 15 – Thursday, March 21 Synopsis: New from A24, see Kristen Stewart in a new LGBTQ+ neo-noir thriller. From Director Rose Glass comes an electric new love story; reclusive gym manager Lou falls hard for Jackie, an ambitious bodybuilder headed through town to Vegas in pursuit of her dream. But their love ignites violence, pulling them deep into the web of Lou's criminal family. Tickets Trailer Pride Bingo Saturday, March 16th, 6.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, March 16th! Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, enjoy delicious food, and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment, and compete in our Best Sunday Bonnet contest. Features performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy, Aurora Morningstar, and Alistair A.D. Summers. Doors open at 6:30 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. I ~· J7REMIX'\!-'1 ~ a Genre-Fluid Dlbaret J , • . , • · r· , Ll ... ~ ~ ~ . I"' rod it•~. 1mpl'rso11.1tmns.. and !-(t•nn• d~sphorrn < ~ ~ f THURSDAYS IN THE RAINBOW ROOM Get ready to mix things up at REMIX - a night of music, parodies, improv, and other shenanigans on March 21, 2024! MARCH 21 7:39PM ,;_ LYNN RIGGS THEATRE t" .~ , REMIX Genre-Fluid Cabaret Thursday March 21st, 7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK @OKEQ ~ \,, .,T . l:..'14-~ Still Here, Still Queer Saturday March 30th, 6-10 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Come join us and DJ Dec, Nakita Fierce, Ace, Londenn Davenport Raine, Scrappy Legacy, Band Bronco Henryetta, and MC Brett Jeffries and Special Guests for a Fundraiser for TACO & OKEQ at Oklahomans for Equality on March, 30th 6 pm-10 pm all Ages!!! Music, Food, Vendors, Silent Auction, and Drinks!! Sponsored by Twisted Arts! li'iIB ~ I love who I am, and so should you, Trans Visibility!!! TlflSTED ARTS Scrappy Legacy Mr. Trans Oklahoma 2024 Trans USA National Pageantry 1st Annual Multi-Cultural Celebration Spring Festival & Market Saturday, April 13th, 10 am-6 pm Marriot Southern Hills 1902 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK We welcome ALL Artisans and Entertainers, Indigenous, LGBTQ2IA, Alternative, Hispanic, African American, Gothic, Pagan, Disabled, Autistic, and MORE! NO HATE SPEECH ALLOWED! A CHILL ROOM is provided for those with SENSORY ISSUES! This event is ADA-compliant and has plenty of parking. Vendor Form 18TH ANNUAL HEARTLAND TRANSGENDER SPRING SOIREE & MUSIC JAM 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam Tuesday April 30th-Monday May 6th ALOFT Oklahoma City Quail Springs 13111 Highland Park Blvd, OKC, OK Welcome to our 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam May 2-3-4 THE PURPOSE FOR OUR EVENTS: They are designed for the first time out tgirl, to provide them with the real life experience of being out among others like us, in a safe and affirming venue, for an extended weekend. That said, our events are not play parties or is sex part of our events ,. LOCATION ALOFT OICLAHOIIA CITY QUAL SPRMS 13111 Highland Park Blvd OKC Phone: 405-849-5577 WHO IS INVITED: All transgender women and men: transsexuals, transvestites, drag queens, drag kings, fully feminine or masculine crossdressers, plus spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends, and Mistresses, Sirs, and BBC who love girls and t-men like us. TRANSPORTATION: Rides to or from Will Rogers World Airport, Oklahoma City Amtrak Station, or the Oklahoma City Greyhound Bus Station can be arranged with Uber, Lyft, or taxi PET-FRIENDLY: The Aloft Hotel Quail Springs is a pet-friendly hotel. Please get in touch with the hotel for their pet policy, and please make sure to clean up after your pet. Hotel offering your special group rate: Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs for USD 112 per night plus tax If you would like to book your group rate for our 2024 HeartlandTG Spring Soiree, you can reserve from this link. The group block expires on April 19, 2024. Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs A Marriott Bonvoy Hotel Phone: 405-849-5577 Toll-Free: 1-888-236-2427 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Contact: Hanna, Hanna_olsenxd@yahoo.com or Lindsay https://fetlife.com/users/2281123 ----- STATE OF LGBTQ+ AGING Ju SAGE works to achieve a high qua lity of life for LGBTQ+ older people. To help do so, we are starting A NEW NATIONAL SURVEY every other year to better understand the current experiences needs, and resi liencies of LGBTQ+ older people in the U.S . WHO • If you are 50 years or older AND identify as LGBTQ+, we want to hear from you! • WHAT 30-minute survey on line or over the phone WHEN Now Open! Re/1.f ~ To- 8e /1A.uisi.He! ~ Visit the link to start the survey! https://www.sageusa.org/SOLA2023 Trans Men and Women Online Paid Research 2 hours: $200 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 17 ~111'-JI - BGNG RECRUITING https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... WE NEED YOUR HELP WITH OUR IMPORTANT RESEARCH Big Bang Recruiting is inviting both trans men and women— to a paid in-person public opinion study We will discuss challenges and concerns that this population in our society face today. Participants will receive $200 for a 2-hour discussion. WHAT IS INVOLVED? Please answer the questions below to see if you would be a good candidate for this study. The demographic questions are asked so that we are sure to get a mix of different ages, gender, ethnicity, etc. Answers are used for that purpose only. Your responses in the group are reported in aggregate and no personally identifiable information will be shared. HOW TO HELP: 1) Participate yourself. When you fill out the preliminary survey we will contact you immediately if you meet the research criteria. 2) Share this with your friends/family that you think will qualify and be interested. Please contact me with any questions: Hannah Hardin, Project Manager 918-978-6594, hannah@bigbangrecruiting.com, https://www.bigbangrecruiting.com SAFE PRAYER SERVICE JOIN US FOR S.I.P.S. on Wednesday evenings at 7:00pm. It's a zero pressure, affirming prayer time for our 2SLGBTIA+ friends, families, and allies. Wherever you are on your spiritual journey, you are welcome here - come just as you are. Wednesdays at 7:00 pm CHURCH O F THE HOLY CROSS - EPISCOPAL 9309 N 129th East Ave Ow.mo, OK 74055 www.CHCEP1SCOPAL.OR.G In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0 eimonru11 Raymond Johnson August 4, 1948 ~ January 16, 2024 In January 2024, Ray, aged 75, passed away. We remember Ray for his talent with the violin, his infectious smile, and his valued presence as a member of the OKEQ Seniors group. Vernon Leon Jones May 3rd, 1935 ~ February 5th, 2024 Vernon Leon Jones, 88, of Tulsa, Oklahoma, left this earthly plane to be with his late partner Phil Wiley, on February 5th, 2024. He was born in Oklahoma, on May 3rd, 1935. As a gay man, born and raised here, Vernon's chosen family is vast. He is survived by Hayward Jones, Nekesha Jones, JaKobe Jones, Sue Davis, Fred Hilliard, Arlowe Clementine, Mason Thomas, Rey Thomas, and so many other individuals that claimed Vernon as their friend, family, and elder. Vernon was an active learner, even in his later years. He was always working to understand the world around him and was eternally hopeful for a better world. He was a strong advocate for marginalized peoples and was particularly committed to Queer and Black Liberation. Vernon was a clear Taurus. He was intelligent, dependable, logical, honest, and generous. Vernon spent most of his life focused on making his community better. He was a holder of receipts. A maker of spreadsheets. A true community historian and archivist. Vernon was dedicated to making people safer, both in his career in emergency management and his activist work in the fight against AIDS. He was not a stranger to controversy and was unrelenting in speaking his truth and the truth of the people he loved. In the years before his death, Vernon worked hard to ensure that the legacy of LGBTQ activism in Tulsa was properly recorded and preserved for current and future generations. His substantial archive is now housed in Oklahoma State University's Archives. This collection will be witnessed by researchers and community members for years to come. Vernon was a connector. He worked hard to bring people together and was always willing to give someone support that needed it. Even in his death, he is connecting individuals over their shared love and respect for him and his life. Vernon fought hard for his community and the legacy of his late partner Phil Wiley. Anyone who knew Vernon was graced with stories of Phil's life and legacy as well as their love for one another. In lieu of flowers, we ask that you remember Vernon by learning something new, taking a stand on social issues that are important to you, and keeping his life and legacy alive through storytelling. Gregory Paul Spencer 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... October 18, 1958 ~ February 22, 2024 Gregory Paul Spencer was born in Pawhuska, Oklahoma on October 18, 1958. He passed away on the evening of February 22, 2024, at the early age of 65 after a very sudden decline in his health with his grandson Tristin Reeves and his wife Amanda and their children by his side. Greg was preceded by both parents Frank and Isla Spencer. He is survived by his seven siblings, sister Judith Vaughn and her husband Donald of Lake Helan, FL., sister Linda Spencer of Bartlesville, brother Mark Spencer and his wife Diana of Bixby and their children and grandchildren, sister Margaret Bouvier and her husband Michael of Bartlesville and her children, sister Bernadette Spencer and B.J. Hargrave of Essex Junction, Vermont. and her son, brother John Spencer of Forsyth, MO and his children, and brother Eric Spencer and Gerard Cloete of Cape Town, South Africa. Greg is also survived by loyal friends and extended family. Greg has left his earthly life too soon leaving behind his daughter Kathryn Chambers and husband David of Bartlesville and their children, sons, Steven Spencer of Kansas City and Everett Spencer of Pawhuska and his children and grandchildren and his beloved Bayley. Gregory spent his younger years in Pawhuska, left for college and came back to teach and make a difference in his community. In 1987, he led the local vocational carpentry class to start renovations on the Constantine Theater where he left his handcrafted talent of the detailed masks of comedy and tragedy proudly displayed at the entrance. He also seen the need and was the Mayor of Pawhuska for a term. Later in life, Greg continued with his passion of carpentry and construction which brought on a long-time friendship with David Baker and many others that will miss him dearly. His love of the arts was shared when he would entertain and light up a room with song and dance. Greg recently found the same love for pipes that his father had and opened Bayley Pipe Shop and Museum where he proudly collected varieties of beautiful pipes, his carved Meerschaum collection was his pride and joy. Greg never met a stranger and always knew how to carry on a good conversation. He will be deeply missed. Nex Benedict February 8, 2024 Our hearts are broken for the Oklahoma 2SLGBTQIA+ community and for the family, friends, and loved ones of Nex Benedict. While we are still learning all of the facts surrounding the death of the 16year-old Owasso student, we are certain that every student has the right to a safe learning environment, free from deadnaming, misgendering, outing, and violence, as well as appropriate medical care. The persistent, vitriolic legislation and rhetoric being championed by our state leaders are breeding animosity, inciting violence, and harming the queer community, especially our youth. As we grieve and acknowledge this loss, we are reminded of the work yet to be done because our lives depend on it. Nex Benedict and the countless 2SLGBTQIA+ teens like them deserve better from our state and medical facilities. They deserve the chance to fully be themselves. They deserve to grow up. Rest in power, Nex. Rick Spring October 10, 1943 ~ January 24, 2024 Richard Kent Spring, Jr., a long time Okmulgee resident, passed away on Wednesday, January 24, 2024, in Tulsa, Oklahoma at the age of 80. He was born to Richard Kent, Sr., and Ruth Lucille (Anderson) Spring on October 10, 1943. Rick had many interests and passions, but he truly loved traveling in Europe. He took his family on a Rick Steves tour in 2001, and returned on another Rick Steves tour with his daughter, her husband, and son in 2017. He enjoyed several other Europe trips throughout the years as well. Rick loved spending time with his grandson, Spencer; driving to Oklahoma City weekly to see him for many years. And he rarely missed happy 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... hour at Dee Hennigan’s house. Rick served in the United States Navy and was a veteran of the Vietnam War. He returned home in 1967, and in 1970, married Carolyn Morgan. After spending time in Stillwater for university, they moved to Houston where Rick worked for the Parks Department. They left the Houston area and returned to life in Okmulgee in 1978. They had a daughter, Morgan, in 1979, and a son, Evan, followed in 1982. Rick was a lifelong member of the Episcopal Church of the Redeemer, serving on the vestry for decades and wearing many hats along the way. Rick is preceded in death by his parents, Kent and Lu Spring and his sister, Kay Schmidt. He is survived by his daughter, Morgan Harris, husband Graham, and grandson Spencer of Oklahoma City; son, Evan, of Norman; nephew, Wes Schmidt, and niece, Judy Schmidt. Whether it was as a teacher, a social worker, a community volunteer, or through helping other veterans access their benefits, Rick spent his adult life serving others, working to give folks a hand up and access the resources they needed to live a better life. The family would like to extend special thanks to the Dale K. Graham Veterans Foundation in Norman, Oklahoma, for helping Rick navigate the Veterans Administration benefits process. In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to the Foundation to help other veterans get the benefits they’ve earned. Donations can be made here: https://www.dalekgrahamveteransfoundation.org/donate In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- CulturallyCompetentCareforthelGBTQ•Commun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ::;;.;.7,.:::7:;:::,::;;::,~., 71 A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com •eog.,., ;.. - , 1 n... _ . , , : 1 .,.,,.,,....,k><><>LO!I. AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA EltlTI-RE1CI5T WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhitl-led2roupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicr:icism -,IFF/RN -CAREGIVERwtlhursdau of ~ _lllanth Affirm Caregiver at th8 IIBnnia R.llail EqUaDtg Clnt8r AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. • asafe and facilitatina IUPPlll'li, Cl~and":a.Qll'tUaitiafurllll individualsllllllina t.11 diVll8t l'rmR suatamlc raciBm ii tuir • liva 11Elllst.7-l:30Plll Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org - 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Bro1rngl11t A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP Th is peer led support group is for parents in nontrad itional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). '1rjo Vollt Bi irjlt~ Letter 1 Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com Blended Brought To You Bi The Letter B Join us for our monthly peer-led support group, a safe and inclusive space for parents in nontraditional households! Whether you're a stepparent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, we welcome you with open arms. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. This month, our meeting will be held on the 4th Saturday, and starting next month, we will consistently meet on the third Saturday of each month. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) We're eagerly looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences with you! Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AlyssaB,yanlwithlega lAidServicesol O~lahoma will be assisti119 the LGBTG+ _ _,_= _m_oo_ i!Y -'"'-"'-air- •oo _ ,_,.,_.,._. _ , .,_,,_, = _ 71 _ lf youbelieveyou'vebeenavictim olhousir,gdiscrimination,please callhefat 918-238-t65&,oremail heratjlj~~g Theseservicesareopentoeve,yooe regard lessof incomeandare available throughouttheState for LGBTQ+ perwns n.,y Wednnday o f ~ _,. Mont,, from 12PM- - · De!IIIIIR. . . . Equatlty. Tutsa.OK7412& Equality Game Night Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/tulsaequalitygaming ---------- ---- --- - --- Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. f GENDER \ SUPPORT GIRL SCOOIH.S.A. -,A,...A 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... r,e,.,.,.,....-:,u~ - uHUUfJ First-timeinterviewisrequiredbefore anending)'OUrfirst mee1ing Pleasecontact918-743-4 2117 support,education,andsocial opportunitiesfortransgeoder andinter.;ex individu.als 71 IE:Wq...._,ol_ monffl,..,.,.7PMto9PM Gender Support Group Scout Troop 7484 The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Grupo Espanol Trans en _______ .. __ Ungrupodeapoyoparamujeres transQeoeroenespaflol 71 Con1acto: eUzabeth.ortlzl!>okeq.org ua,llrlmw,..trfmo.Jwwa Dennis R.Neill Equ.ality, Tulsa,0K7412$ Green Country Bears Grupo Trans en Espanol We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. rn,~J@:>□~□@11D CB§~g 'iJ'!1DCb.§& 'iI'W@=§~ □ ~ □'iI' FREE HIV Testing IndigiQueer 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and twospirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Lawyer in the Library Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic Oklahomafor Equa lity LawCenter ist>osting a clinic fornameand 7 Attorney Josh Payton and his team wil!assistthose withnameand geooe<corrPCtions. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org -- -----Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. OKEQ SENIORS Can'tmakeitinper,;on?contact infol!>okequalitylaw.comtoschedule aconsu ltationb)'Zoom CllffY M'CondW--yoflhe __,._,,._,m_.,_ •~-'"-• = ______. _,,.from5:38Plll'to7PM DennisR.NeillEQ.Ul!lllty,Tuls.l,0K7.. 12& Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in Denn1sR Ne,llEqual1tyTuls.a OK7412& OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. , TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA :r:rour.~ 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 71 --r-- - - - ~ __ Asoclal0<ganlzatloof0<mature-minded GayalldBise,ualmen. ■ AttendNsmus1be21yea,so,-~ ■ ..,.., .,_,._..,~of First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm ,,_,..,.IJPM Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa TTRPGs A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide muchneeded support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Fridays 10-11.30 am We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction focused, mindfulness based, & radically inclusive. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners LEGAL AID t h. 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SERvicEs OF Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing :r - SERvicEs OF :r - OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. ,,,. Get h e l p . supplemental • • ~ ~!;~~i:;ce applying for Program SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaflol: r:,~r:, r:1':K.lr:1 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Learn more at hungerfreeok ocg/resources/snap/ - ~ HUNGER nn OKLAHOMA FREE 11 I II OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Eddie Carreno - Member at Large Board of Directors Zoe Brett Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm New Programming Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Friday, March 22nd, 10-11.30 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Nestled in the heart of Tulsa, Oklahoma, Zen Recovery Inc. stands as a beacon of hope for those navigating the complexities of addiction. Led by women and LGBTQ+ individuals, our 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization offers weekly gatherings known as "Zen & the Art of Whatever Works," providing a safe haven for individuals seeking solace and support on their journey to sobriety. With a focus on harm reduction and mindfulness, our meetings, held every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month, offer a space for individuals to explore their struggles and triumphs within a community of understanding and acceptance. In March, our meetings on the 22nd and 29th extend a special invitation for connection and growth. As the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance, we pride ourselves on our commitment to radical inclusivity, ensuring that all voices are valued and heard. Join us at Zen Recovery Inc., where compassion reigns supreme, and the path to healing is paved with courage and acceptance. OKEQ Youth Programming Saturday, March 23rd, 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK OkEq is excited to have the return of weekly Saturday youth programming at the Equality Center! The program is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 12 to 19. OKEQVOUTH PROGRAMING Support Group AwhiU-ledgroupforpeersupportandedu~tionaboutsystemicracism Every Saturday from 1 to 5 pm will involve opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutual-aid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack is provided. For questions, please email youth@okeq.org Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, March 28th, 7-8.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. last Thursday of IVll'U_month at the ll8nni8 R. ll8il Equalltg C8nt8r 821E'llist.7-l:30PIII Cratina asafe spa and facilitatina support. Bducation and social opportunitia for all individuals saakina to divat l'rom sustmic racism in th8ir dailu liva u:.:~~~==.i::.r::.=- 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Special Events OKEQ Seniors Movie Day Tuesday March 19th, 11 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Every Tuesday at 10 am, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center opens its doors to retirees and those accessible during the day for a special gathering with OKEQ Seniors. This daytime programming is dedicated to addressing the unique issues faced by aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. OKEQ SENIORS Step into a community of love, support, and understanding as we come together to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults. Through a partnership with constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors advocates for rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. Dennis R Neill Equallty Tulsa OK 7412& Join us for a movie day that promises to be filled with laughter, tears, and unforgettable moments. Be part of a movement that celebrates diversity, resilience, and the beauty of aging gracefully. We can't wait to share these enriching experiences with you—see you at OKEQ Seniors' Movie Day! I J,~,REMix,·\·1 e f ~,-_ a Genre-Flwd Cabaret -- • _ :0. • • . -~ • 1rnrodi1·::;. (!" I lll(l!'rsonal IOllS, - .• r·: , and genn• d~i;phoria Ll ~ • THURSDAYS IN THE RAINBOW ROOM I ,,. , •· • l-~ _, ;_, REMIX Genre-Fluid Cabaret Thursday March 21st, 7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Get ready to mix things up at REMIX - a night of music, parodies, improv, and other shenanigans on March 21, 2024! , MARCH 21 7:39PM 1ti' LYNN RIGGS THEATRE ~ ~,, @OKEQ _.,. I••· ·, . _;,,-- CC COZY CUISI E EBA Mixer Thursday, March 28th, 6-7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is excited to announce that Cozy Cuisine, Teresa Parrott, Chef/Owner, will be holding its next EBA Mixer at Oklahomans for Equality located at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120. Teresa rents the commercial kitchen space at the Oklahomans for Equality to prepare meals for the catering part of her business as well as the prepared frozen meals. We love having Teresa as a part of our equality family. Cozy Cuisine is the culmination of my philosophy on cuisine. High-quality food should be enjoyed with good company in a comfy place. I didn’t want to compromise on ingredient quality or method, but I really wanted to create products that were both easily enjoyed and convenient. This philosophy comes from my Italian family gathering and enjoying good food together. I remember my interest in cooking started because only those who were cooking or doing dishes could be in the kitchen. I remember, as a child, loving the warm energy that came from the kitchen. That’s where all the fun was happening. Cozy Cuisine - Teresa Parrott, Chef/Owner www.cozy-cuisine.com - Teresaparrott@gmail.com - 918.949.1510 ~@1!fjjfg}j (!J!Iijj] Still Here, Still Queer Saturday March 30th, 6-10 pm Oklahomans for Equality 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK We invite you to join us for a heartfelt Trans Day of Visibility fundraiser event with Oklahomans for Equality & Twisted Arts! The evening promises to be filled with joy, laughter, and entertainment. Immerse yourself in the stunning performances from some of your local drag favorites such as Londenn D. Raine, Nakita Fierce, Scrappy Legacy, and ACE. Moreover, Bronco Henryetta will also grace the stage with a soulful musical performance. We look forward to welcoming you when the doors open at 6 PM. 1st Annual Multi-Cultural Celebration Spring Festival & Market Saturday, April 13th, 10 am-6 pm Marriot Southern Hills 1902 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK We welcome ALL Artisans and Entertainers, Indigenous, LGBTQ2IA, Alternative, Hispanic, African American, Gothic, Pagan, Disabled, Autistic, and MORE! NO HATE SPEECH ALLOWED! A CHILL ROOM is provided for those with SENSORY ISSUES! This event is ADA-compliant and has plenty of parking. Vendor Form Two Spirit Fest Saturday, April 20th WOMPA 3306 Charles Page Blvd, Tulsa, OK 2-Spirit Fest returns in 2024 with a series of events at the First American Museum in Oklahoma City on April 18, 2024, and in Tulsa at the Oklahoma Center for Humanities on April 19, 2024, and WOMPA on April 20, 2024. Exciting news alert! ? Get ready for an unforgettable experience at Two Spirit Fest presented by Twisted Arts Tulsa ? happening on FOUR TWENTY? (April 20th). Representing the intersections of black, Queer, and Native American identities, Quentin Marcellis is honored to be one of the headliners. ? Join us for an electrifying performance featuring tracks from TWO mixtapes, Days In The Midwest? & On A Journey?, available NOW on Soundcloud and YouTube, along with hit singles like Carefree Black Boy, Four Wings?, 11:11✨ Muskogee #Creek family, this one's for you - see you during festival season! ?✨ ✨ 18TH ANNUAL HEARTLAND TRANSGENDER SPRING SOIREE I MUSIC JAM 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam Tuesday April 30th-Monday May 6th ALOFT Oklahoma City Quail Springs 13111 Highland Park Blvd, OKC, OK Welcome to our 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Music Jam May 2-3-4 THE PURPOSE FOR OUR EVENTS: They are designed for the first time out tgirl, to provide them with the real life experience of being out among others like us, in a safe and affirming venue, for an extended weekend. That said, our events are not play parties or is sex part of our events LOCATION ALOFT OICLAHOIIA crrY QIIAL SPRIIIS 13111 Highland Park Blvd OKC Phone: 405-849-5577 WHO IS INVITED: All transgender women and men: transsexuals, transvestites, drag queens, drag kings, fully feminine or masculine crossdressers, plus spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends, and Mistresses, Sirs, and BBC who love girls and t-men like us. TRANSPORTATION: Rides to or from Will Rogers World Airport, Oklahoma City Amtrak Station, or the Oklahoma City Greyhound Bus Station can be arranged with Uber, Lyft, or taxi PET-FRIENDLY: The Aloft Hotel Quail Springs is a pet-friendly hotel. Please get in touch with the hotel for their pet policy, and please make sure to clean up after your pet. Hotel offering your special group rate: Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs for USD 112 per night plus tax If you would like to book your group rate for our 2024 HeartlandTG Spring Soiree, you can reserve from this link. The group block expires on April 19, 2024. Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs A Marriott Bonvoy Hotel Phone: 405-849-5577 Toll-Free: 1-888-236-2427 Contact: Hanna, Hanna_olsenxd@yahoo.com or Lindsay https://fetlife.com/users/2281123 ------ STATE OF LGBTQ+ AGING Ju SAGE works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older people_ To help do so, we are starting A NEW NATIONAL SURVEY every other year to better understand the current experiences, needs, and resiliencies of LGBTQ+ older people in the U-5. WHO If you are 50 years or older AND identify as LGBTQ+, we want to hear from you! WHAT 30-minute survey online or WHEN Now Open! over the phone 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Re{u1e 77r ~e /tAIIUtlJ{e.' ~ Visit the link to start the survey! https://www.sageusa.org/SOLA2023 .JI LOF l'CBU . 111-.ALTl l sa~ Advocacy ~E~ We re.fu~ to be invisible BlG~ BaNG RECRUITING Trans Men and Women Online Paid Research 2 hours: $200 WE NEED YOUR HELP WITH OUR IMPORTANT RESEARCH Big Bang Recruiting is inviting both trans men and women— to a paid in-person public opinion study We will discuss challenges and concerns that this population in our society face today. Participants will receive $200 for a 2-hour discussion. WHAT IS INVOLVED? Please answer the questions below to see if you would be a good candidate for this study. The demographic questions are asked so that we are sure to get a mix of different ages, gender, ethnicity, etc. Answers are used for that purpose only. Your responses in the group are reported in aggregate and no personally identifiable information will be shared. HOW TO HELP: 1) Participate yourself. When you fill out the preliminary survey we will contact you immediately if you meet the research criteria. 2) Share this with your friends/family that you think will qualify and be interested. Please contact me with any questions: Hannah Hardin, Project Manager 918-978-6594, hannah@bigbangrecruiting.com, https://www.bigbangrecruiting.com SAFE PRAYER SERVICE JOIN US FOR S.I.P.S. on Wednesday evenings at 7:00pm. It's a zero pressure, affirming prayer time for our 2SLGBTIA+ friends, families, and allies. Wh rever you are on your spiritual journey, you are welcome here - com just as you are. Wednesdays at 7:00 pm CHURCH OF THE HOLY CROSS- EPISCOPAL 9309 N 129mEast Ave Owu,io, OK 74055 www.CHCEP1SCOPAL.0R.G 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Il111 Me1111oriarrn Raymond Johnson August 4, 1948 ~ January 16, 2024 In January 2024, Ray, aged 75, passed away. We remember Ray for his talent with the violin, his infectious smile, and his valued presence as a member of the OKEQ Seniors group. Vernon Leon Jones May 3rd, 1935 ~ February 5th, 2024 Vernon Leon Jones, 88, of Tulsa, Oklahoma, left this earthly plane to be with his late partner Phil Wiley, on February 5th, 2024. He was born in Oklahoma, on May 3rd, 1935. As a gay man, born and raised here, Vernon's chosen family is vast. He is survived by Hayward Jones, Nekesha Jones, JaKobe Jones, Sue Davis, Fred Hilliard, Arlowe Clementine, Mason Thomas, Rey Thomas, and so many other individuals that claimed Vernon as their friend, family, and elder. Vernon was an active learner, even in his later years. He was always working to understand the world around him and was eternally hopeful for a better world. He was a strong advocate for marginalized peoples and was particularly committed to Queer and Black Liberation. Vernon was a clear Taurus. He was intelligent, dependable, logical, honest, and generous. Vernon spent most of his life focused on making his community better. He was a holder of receipts. A maker of spreadsheets. A true community historian and archivist. Vernon was dedicated to making people safer, both in his career in emergency management and his activist work in the fight against AIDS. He was not a stranger to controversy and was unrelenting in speaking his truth and the truth of the people he loved. In the years before his death, Vernon worked hard to ensure that the legacy of LGBTQ activism in Tulsa was properly recorded and preserved for current and future generations. His substantial archive is now housed in Oklahoma State University's Archives. This collection will be witnessed by researchers and community members for years to come. Vernon was a connector. He worked hard to bring people together and was always willing to give someone support that needed it. Even in his death, he is connecting individuals over their shared love and respect for him and his life. Vernon fought hard for his community and the legacy of his late partner Phil Wiley. Anyone who knew Vernon was graced with stories of Phil's life and legacy as well as their love for one another. In lieu of flowers, we ask that you remember Vernon by learning something new, taking a stand on social issues that 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac.. are important to you, and keeping his life and legacy alive through storytelling. Gregory Paul Spencer October 18, 1958 ~ February 22, 2024 Gregory Paul Spencer was born in Pawhuska, Oklahoma on October 18, 1958. He passed away on the evening of February 22, 2024, at the early age of 65 after a very sudden decline in his health with his grandson Tristin Reeves and his wife Amanda and their children by his side. Greg was preceded by both parents Frank and Isla Spencer. He is survived by his seven siblings, sister Judith Vaughn and her husband Donald of Lake Helan, FL., sister Linda Spencer of Bartlesville, brother Mark Spencer and his wife Diana of Bixby and their children and grandchildren, sister Margaret Bouvier and her husband Michael of Bartlesville and her children, sister Bernadette Spencer and B.J. Hargrave of Essex Junction, Vermont. and her son, brother John Spencer of Forsyth, MO and his children, and brother Eric Spencer and Gerard Cloete of Cape Town, South Africa. Greg is also survived by loyal friends and extended family. Greg has left his earthly life too soon leaving behind his daughter Kathryn Chambers and husband David of Bartlesville and their children, sons, Steven Spencer of Kansas City and Everett Spencer of Pawhuska and his children and grandchildren and his beloved Bayley. Gregory spent his younger years in Pawhuska, left for college and came back to teach and make a difference in his community. In 1987, he led the local vocational carpentry class to start renovations on the Constantine Theater where he left his handcrafted talent of the detailed masks of comedy and tragedy proudly displayed at the entrance. He also seen the need and was the Mayor of Pawhuska for a term. Later in life, Greg continued with his passion of carpentry and construction which brought on a long-time friendship with David Baker and many others that will miss him dearly. His love of the arts was shared when he would entertain and light up a room with song and dance. Greg recently found the same love for pipes that his father had and opened Bayley Pipe Shop and Museum where he proudly collected varieties of beautiful pipes, his carved Meerschaum collection was his pride and joy. Greg never met a stranger and always knew how to carry on a good conversation. He will be deeply missed. . \ II! I, ., ~ - ' • ·"'' ' , •• , . ,..' ~. , . , i'- i ~; Nex Benedict February 8, 2024 ~ ~ Our hearts are broken for the Oklahoma 2SLGBTQIA+ community and for the family, friends, and loved ones of Nex Benedict. While we are still learning all of the facts surrounding the death of the 16year-old Owasso student, we are certain that every student has the right to a safe learning environment, free from deadnaming, misgendering, outing, and violence, as well as appropriate medical care. The persistent, vitriolic legislation and rhetoric being championed by our state leaders are breeding animosity, inciting violence, and harming the queer community, especially our youth. As we grieve and acknowledge this loss, we are reminded of the work yet to be done because our lives depend on it. Nex Benedict and the countless 2SLGBTQIA+ teens like them deserve better from our state and medical facilities. They deserve the chance to fully be themselves. They deserve to grow up. Rest in power, Nex. Rick Spring October 10, 1943 ~ January 24, 2024 Richard Kent Spring, Jr., a long time Okmulgee resident, passed away on Wednesday, January 24, 2024, in Tulsa, Oklahoma at the age of 80. He was born to Richard Kent, Sr., and Ruth Lucille (Anderson) Spring on October 10, 1943. 7 of 17 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rick had many interests and passions, but he truly loved traveling in Europe. He took his family on a Rick Steves tour in 2001, and returned on another Rick Steves tour with his daughter, her husband, and son in 2017. He enjoyed several other Europe trips throughout the years as well. Rick loved spending time with his grandson, Spencer; driving to Oklahoma City weekly to see him for many years. And he rarely missed happy hour at Dee Hennigan’s house. Rick served in the United States Navy and was a veteran of the Vietnam War. He returned home in 1967, and in 1970, married Carolyn Morgan. After spending time in Stillwater for university, they moved to Houston where Rick worked for the Parks Department. They left the Houston area and returned to life in Okmulgee in 1978. They had a daughter, Morgan, in 1979, and a son, Evan, followed in 1982. Rick was a lifelong member of the Episcopal Church of the Redeemer, serving on the vestry for decades and wearing many hats along the way. Rick is preceded in death by his parents, Kent and Lu Spring and his sister, Kay Schmidt. He is survived by his daughter, Morgan Harris, husband Graham, and grandson Spencer of Oklahoma City; son, Evan, of Norman; nephew, Wes Schmidt, and niece, Judy Schmidt. Whether it was as a teacher, a social worker, a community volunteer, or through helping other veterans access their benefits, Rick spent his adult life serving others, working to give folks a hand up and access the resources they needed to live a better life. The family would like to extend special thanks to the Dale K. Graham Veterans Foundation in Norman, Oklahoma, for helping Rick navigate the Veterans Administration benefits process. In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to the Foundation to help other veterans get the benefits they’ve earned. Donations can be made here: https://www.dalekgrahamveteransfoundation.org/donate In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-fCLINIC Cultur•llyCompt'UntC• •<' forthetGBTQ+Commun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! Volunteer Sign-up In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Aces Committed Equality =~~7:..:::::::..~;, :71 A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA ElilTI-RElCieT WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhite-letl2roupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicracism .,fF~RN -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are lalt1lwr8dau of ~ _lllllnth at tha 111nnia R.llail Equality Cantar mElhlt.7-tMI Creatiqasaflspaand~~all Bducationandaocial~ ,,.. individuals..:::::.,. . fl:olR sustemic Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP Th is peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (st ep parents, non-bio parent s, bonus parents, etc). Bro11igltt irjo Yollt Bii If1J e- IL~ t t ~ r '1rj ____.__.__,~ ~~~~~-- Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com Blended Brought To You Bi The Letter B Join us for our monthly peer-led support group, a safe and inclusive space for parents in nontraditional households! Whether you're a stepparent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, we welcome you with open arms. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. This month, our meeting will be held on the 4th Saturday, and starting next month, we will consistently meet on the third Saturday of each month. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) We're eagerly looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences with you! Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma A!r-;~Bryan!wilhlegalAidServiceso! O!<lahoma will be assisting the LGBTG+ 71 lf youbelieveyou'vebeenavictim olhous;ngdiscrimination,please callherat 918-238-t65~,oremail herati.)~~ Theseservicesareopentoeve.-yooe regard lessol incomeandare ava ilable throughouttheState !or LGBTQ+pefSOOS n.y w.dnndaJ' of rn,, ___,_=_m _oo-ity-~-'"-"-'• -•oo_,,..,,_ ., .,._,.,_.,_,,_,= _ _ __, Monrfl from f2PM- 4PM. o.mi. R. Ne41 Equatlry. Tuisa,OK7412& Equality Game Night Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! - Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/tulsaequalitygaming ------------ . -- GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP The Gender Support provides support,educatlon,andsoclal opportunltiesforlransg,eoder 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. SCOUT TROOP 7484 .., First-timeinterviewisrequiredbelore aneodingyourfirs1mff1ing. Pleasecontact918-743-4297 DeonlsR.NeillE:qua!ity,Tulsa,OK7412& Gender Support Group Scout Troop 7484 The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Grupo Trans en Espanol 71 ______ ... __ elizabeth.o<"li~eq,org Ungrupo<leapoyoparamujeres Green Country Bears transget>efoenespallol Utapri,Ntylkrimo }ww. Dermis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& 91&.7'3A297 Grupo Trans en Espanol We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Free HIV Test:ing 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Every Tuesday from4pm -&pml 0[;:;!)@0@10@(1D§§~~ '1f'(1D[1, § £ FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. 'v'W@=§(;e)O~O'v' IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and twospirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris r-7 OKLAHOMAN FOR EQUALITY ~ °'""Hmm,C<SAOK"''° e, JAMMOUTT ,---- 1 ~ 'I'll MONIJAV 6~30:r30PM Lawyer in the Library Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center Is hosting a ct;nic for name and 7 Atlomt"fJoshPaytonandhisteam wiUassistthosewithnameand gen,:!ercorrections. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org - - --- - - - Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. OKEQ SENIORS Can'tmakef!inperwn?contact infol>okequalitylaw.comtoschedu le aconsu l!ationbyZoom. n,..,,Meond WIJdnndayof me -.;.. ' ""_'••-m•_•~- '"-' """ ;;.__ _ ___. -"'from5:38PMf07PM 0..mis R. Neill Equality, Tuts.a.OK 7412& Name Change & Gender Marker Denms R Ne11\Equa\1ty Tulsa OK7412lil OKEQ Seniors 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 17 Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. , TULSA TTRP~S TULSA AREA PRIME ._.. TIMERS ...,;m;,, <M=•"~ mlnd9dg.-,andbisex1,111lme-nto fttaltlshlriendshipand1,Upp0rt 71 .,_,._..,,-_.,,of lhrou9hsoclal ln1eraction A socia l organ;zationtormatu re-mioded Gay and Bisexual men. --- OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY Attenc1Nsmus1be21yea,sor~ ... _ , . ,,_ 7NI eo"""' First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa TTRPGs A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide muchneeded support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Fridays 10-11.30 am We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction focused, mindfulness based, & radically inclusive. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF LEGAL AID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing = These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. ,,,. Get help"'a iiii:! S upplemental ---1,,:-- .J-.- ~ N utrit i on 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... "'t"t"·T···~ IV ■ ilttJttl Assistance P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0] 14 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: Learn more at buogerfreeok or:g/resources/soap/ - li-::,J HUNGER FREE n OKLAHOMA OKE , okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Staff Trustees 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 17 Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Eddie Carreno - Member at Large Board of Directors Zoe Brett Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 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Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Cydney Williams Yonah Sienna Jasper Grace Fallon Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:36 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9c2a08aa40698874c14234d347a6e0eb.pdf da39c36115705255d0054c9dc27abb99 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm New Programming TULSR S?ITI-eSCI~T Support Group Rwhite-ledgroupforpmsupportandtducationaboutsyst.emicracism Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, March 28th, 7-8.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Laatlhursdau of ~ _month at thB lllnnill R. llail Equality C8ntar 11E'llist.7-l:30PIII Cratin& a1181'8 span and facilitatine support. Bdw:ation and social opportunitia for all individuals llllkine r.u diVl8t from aysta11i: raciam in thBir dailu liv8S ~i:==.i.r;= Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Friday, March 29th, 10-11.30 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Nestled in the heart of Tulsa, Oklahoma, Zen Recovery Inc. stands as a beacon of hope for those navigating the complexities of addiction. Led by women and LGBTQ+ individuals, our 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization offers weekly gatherings known as "Zen & the Art of Whatever Works," providing a safe haven for individuals seeking solace and support on their journey to sobriety. With a focus on harm reduction and mindfulness, our meetings, held every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month, offer a space for individuals to explore their struggles and triumphs within a community of understanding and acceptance. In March, our meetings on the 22nd and 29th extend a special invitation for connection and growth. As the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance, we pride ourselves on our commitment to radical inclusivity, ensuring that all voices are valued and heard. Join us at Zen Recovery Inc., where compassion reigns supreme, and the path to healing is paved with courage and acceptance. OKEQ Youth Programming Saturday, March 30th, 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK OkEq is excited to have the return of weekly Saturday youth programming at the Equality Center! The program is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 12 to 19. OKEQYOUTH PROGRAMING Every Saturday from 1 to 5 pm will involve opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutual-aid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack is provided. For questions, please email youth@okeq.org 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Special Events EBA Mixer Thursday, March 28th, 6-7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK rr, cozy ~ CUISI E Oklahomans for Equality is excited to announce that Cozy Cuisine, Teresa Parrott, Chef/Owner, will be holding its next EBA Mixer at Oklahomans for Equality located at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120. Teresa rents the commercial kitchen space at the Oklahomans for Equality to prepare meals for the catering part of her business as well as the prepared frozen meals. We love having Teresa as a part of our equality family. Cozy Cuisine is the culmination of my philosophy on cuisine. High-quality food should be enjoyed with good company in a comfy place. I didn’t want to compromise on ingredient quality or method, but I really wanted to create products that were both easily enjoyed and convenient. This philosophy comes from my Italian family gathering and enjoying good food together. I remember my interest in cooking started because only those who were cooking or doing dishes could be in the kitchen. I remember, as a child, loving the warm energy that came from the kitchen. That’s where all the fun was happening. Cozy Cuisine - Teresa Parrott, Chef/Owner www.cozy-cuisine.com - Teresaparrott@gmail.com - 918.949.1510 Visibly Happy, Saturday March 30th, 6-10 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK We invite you to join us for a visibly happy, visibly queer, Trans Day of Visibility event with Oklahomans for Equality & Twisted Arts! The evening promises to be filled with joy, laughter, and entertainment. Immerse yourself in the stunning performances from some of your local 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... drag favorites such as Londenn D. Raine, Nakita Fierce, Scrappy Legacy, and ACE. Moreover, Bronco Henryetta will also grace the stage with a soulful musical performance. We look forward to welcoming you when the doors open at 6 PM. This event is free and for all ages! Queer Women's Collective Wednesday, April 3rd, 5.30-7.30 pm Fulton Street Books 21 N Greenwood Ave, Tulsa, OK an awesome selection of books. Black Queer Tulsa and Queer Women’s Collective are combining forces for our April 3rd Meetup! The folks at Fulton Street Books & Coffee (21 N Greenwood Ave) are staying open late and bringing in a bartender for us, so you’ll have coffee , cocktail, beer, and wine options all while checking out their new(ish) location, meeting new queer friends, and checking out As always, these are queer, trans and nonbinary inclusive gatherings. Allies are welcome, assholes are not. Rising Stars Saturday, April 6th, 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Saturday, December 2nd at 3 PM Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of each month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Coronation XVI - A Night in the Halls of Valhalla Saturday, April 6th, 7 pm Renaissance Hotel 6808 S 107th E Ave, Tulsa, OK You can purchase a ticket for $100 that allows you in earlier for a formal dinner. If interested, let me know, and I'll send you the ticket link. This is our biggest annual fundraiser of the year. All funds made throughout the year go right back into the LGBTQIA+ Community here in Oklahoma. This is a formal attire event. You'll see and meet Drag queens from all over the US and Canada. We are an international 501c3 non-profit organization. Check us out at impcourtok.org 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Bill W. and Dr. Bob April 11th-14th Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK It is a powerful and often humorous play detailing the events that led to the creation of Alcoholics Anonymous. BILL W. and Dr. BOB Written by Samuel Shem & Janet Surrey, Directed by Paula Scheider, Sponsored by Hippie Chick Heart Featuring: Dara Renee Allen, Kim Li Carlson, Marc Carlson, Mark Ingham, DeeDee Huffman-Jones, Zero Steiert 1st Annual Multi-Cultural Celebration Spring Festival & Market Saturday, April 13th, 10 am-6 pm Marriot Southern Hills 1902 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK We welcome ALL Artisans and Entertainers, Indigenous, LGBTQ2IA, Alternative, Hispanic, African American, Gothic, Pagan, Disabled, Autistic, and MORE! NO HATE SPEECH ALLOWED! A CHILL ROOM is provided for those with SENSORY ISSUES! This event is ADA-compliant and has plenty of parking. Vendor Form Saturday, April 13th 10am ·6~m r Blended Saturday, April 20th, 10 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This peer-led support group is for parents in non-traditional households (stepparents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc. A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP Free childcare is available! This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com. Free childcare is also available! Please join us at 10am on April 20th at OKEQ! For questions, email ~@gm..ai..l..k2ID Two Spirit Fest Saturday, April 20th 12-4 pm WOMPA 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 3306 Charles Page Blvd, Tulsa, OK "2-Spirit Fest" is a three-day event open to the public, celebrating diverse artistic expressions deeply rooted in traditional cultures. Attendees can look forward to musical performances by both local and non-local artists, captivating video installations, dynamic drumming and dancing, an artist market, and an insightful panel discussion. For a detailed schedule and additional information, please visit Twisted Arts’ website at: https://twistedfest.org/twospirit Funding for this program has been generously provided by a grant from Oklahoma Humanities (OH) and the National Endowment for the Humanities (NEH). It is important to note that any views, findings, conclusions, or recommendations expressed in this program do not necessarily represent those of OH or NEH. Muskogee #Creek family, this one's for you - see you during festival season! ?✨ ✨ Pride Bingo Saturday, April 20th, 6.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, April 20th Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment. Featuring performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy and special guest performers Sasha Turrelle and Sean Tylr Davis Doors open at 6:30 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride Additional Bingo Cards can be purchased at the door for $5. You can buy tickets at the door. Please get your tickets before they sell out! 18TH ANNUAL HEARTLAND TRANSGENDER SPRING SOIREE a MUSIC JAM 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam Tuesday April 30th-Monday May 6th ALOFT Oklahoma City Quail Springs 13111 Highland Park Blvd, OKC, OK Welcome to our 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam May 2-3-4 THE PURPOSE FOR OUR EVENTS: They are designed for the first time out tgirl, to provide them with the real life experience of being out among others like us, in a safe and affirming venue, for an extended weekend. That said, our events are not play parties or is sex part of our events LOCATION ALOFT OICLAHOIIA crrY QIIAL SPRINOS 13111 Highland Park Blvd OKC Phone: 405-849-5577 WHO IS INVITED: All transgender women and men: transsexuals, transvestites, drag queens, drag kings, fully feminine or masculine crossdressers, plus spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends, and Mistresses, Sirs, and BBC who love girls and t-men like us. TRANSPORTATION: Rides to or from Will Rogers World Airport, Oklahoma City Amtrak Station, or the Oklahoma City Greyhound Bus Station can be arranged with Uber, Lyft, or taxi PET-FRIENDLY: The Aloft Hotel Quail Springs is a pet-friendly hotel. Please get in touch with the hotel for their pet policy, and please make sure to clean up after your pet. 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Hotel offering your special group rate: Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs for USD 112 per night plus tax If you would like to book your group rate for our 2024 HeartlandTG Spring Soiree, you can reserve from this link. The group block expires on April 19, 2024. Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs A Marriott Bonvoy Hotel Phone: 405-849-5577 Toll-Free: 1-888-236-2427 Contact: Hanna, Hanna_olsenxd@yahoo.com or Lindsay https://fetlife.com/users/2281123 ------- Over three-quarters of a century have passed since the 1945 liberation of Au.,Lhwiu and the end of the war against the Jews. And yet we are once again standing at the l 1 I 1'\I\J\ • • • 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... STATE OF LGBTQ+ AGING Ju SAGE works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older people. To help do so, we are starting A NEW NATIONAL SURVEY every other year to better understand the current experiences, needs, and resiliencies of LGBTQ+ older people in the U.S . WHO • If you are 50 years or older AND identify as LGBTQ+, we want to hear from you! WHAT • WHEN 30-minute survey online or over the phone Now Open! Ref,Ae To- Be !klnfiHe! ~ V isit the link to start the survey! https://www.sageusa.org/SOLA2023 MfJu .\11.~LTil sage =l:n We refuse IO be invis.ible 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 BZG~ BGNG RECRUITING https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Trans Men and Women Online Paid Research 2 hours: $200 WE NEED YOUR HELP WITH OUR IMPORTANT RESEARCH Big Bang Recruiting is inviting both trans men and women— to a paid in-person public opinion study We will discuss challenges and concerns that this population in our society face today. Participants will receive $200 for a 2-hour discussion. WHAT IS INVOLVED? Please answer the questions below to see if you would be a good candidate for this study. The demographic questions are asked so that we are sure to get a mix of different ages, gender, ethnicity, etc. Answers are used for that purpose only. Your responses in the group are reported in aggregate and no personally identifiable information will be shared. HOW TO HELP: 1) Participate yourself. When you fill out the preliminary survey we will contact you immediately if you meet the research criteria. 2) Share this with your friends/family that you think will qualify and be interested. Please contact me with any questions: Hannah Hardin, Project Manager 918-978-6594, hannah@bigbangrecruiting.com, https://www.bigbangrecruiting.com SAFE PRAYER SERVICE JOIN US FOR S.1.P.S. on Wednesday evenings at 7:00pm. It's a zero pressure, affirming prayer time for our 2SLGBTIA+ friends, families, and allies. Wherever you are on your spiritual journey, you are welcom here - come just as you are. Wednesdays at 7:00 pm CHURCH O F THE HOLY CROSS - EPISCOPAL 9309 N 129th East Ave Owasso, OK 74055 www.CHCEP1SC0f'AL.0R.G In Memoriam Il111 Meimoriaurn 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Raymond Johnson August 4, 1948 ~ January 16, 2024 In January 2024, Ray, aged 75, passed away. We remember Ray for his talent with the violin, his infectious smile, and his valued presence as a member of the OKEQ Seniors group. Vernon Leon Jones May 3rd, 1935 ~ February 5th, 2024 Vernon Leon Jones, 88, of Tulsa, Oklahoma, left this earthly plane to be with his late partner Phil Wiley, on February 5th, 2024. He was born in Oklahoma, on May 3rd, 1935. As a gay man, born and raised here, Vernon's chosen family is vast. He is survived by Hayward Jones, Nekesha Jones, JaKobe Jones, Sue Davis, Fred Hilliard, Arlowe Clementine, Mason Thomas, Rey Thomas, and so many other individuals that claimed Vernon as their friend, family, and elder. Vernon was an active learner, even in his later years. He was always working to understand the world around him and was eternally hopeful for a better world. He was a strong advocate for marginalized peoples and was particularly committed to Queer and Black Liberation. Vernon was a clear Taurus. He was intelligent, dependable, logical, honest, and generous. Vernon spent most of his life focused on making his community better. He was a holder of receipts. A maker of spreadsheets. A true community historian and archivist. Vernon was dedicated to making people safer, both in his career in emergency management and his activist work in the fight against AIDS. He was not a stranger to controversy and was unrelenting in speaking his truth and the truth of the people he loved. In the years before his death, Vernon worked hard to ensure that the legacy of LGBTQ activism in Tulsa was properly recorded and preserved for current and future generations. His substantial archive is now housed in Oklahoma State University's Archives. This collection will be witnessed by researchers and community members for years to come. Vernon was a connector. He worked hard to bring people together and was always willing to give someone support that needed it. Even in his death, he is connecting individuals over their shared love and respect for him and his life. Vernon fought hard for his community and the legacy of his late partner Phil Wiley. Anyone who knew Vernon was graced with stories of Phil's life and legacy as well as their love for one another. In lieu of flowers, we ask that you remember Vernon by learning something new, taking a stand on social issues that are important to you, and keeping his life and legacy alive through storytelling. Gregory Paul Spencer October 18, 1958 ~ February 22, 2024 Gregory Paul Spencer was born in Pawhuska, Oklahoma on October 18, 1958. He passed away on the evening of February 22, 2024, at the early age of 65 after a very sudden decline in his health with his grandson Tristin Reeves and his wife Amanda and their children by his side. Greg was preceded by both parents Frank and Isla Spencer. He is survived by his seven siblings, sister Judith Vaughn and her husband Donald of Lake Helan, FL., sister Linda Spencer of Bartlesville, brother Mark Spencer and his wife Diana of Bixby and their children and grandchildren, sister Margaret Bouvier and her husband Michael of Bartlesville and her children, sister Bernadette Spencer and B.J. Hargrave of Essex Junction, Vermont. and her son, brother John Spencer 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac.. of Forsyth, MO and his children, and brother Eric Spencer and Gerard Cloete of Cape Town, South Africa. Greg is also survived by loyal friends and extended family. Greg has left his earthly life too soon leaving behind his daughter Kathryn Chambers and husband David of Bartlesville and their children, sons, Steven Spencer of Kansas City and Everett Spencer of Pawhuska and his children and grandchildren and his beloved Bayley. Gregory spent his younger years in Pawhuska, left for college and came back to teach and make a difference in his community. In 1987, he led the local vocational carpentry class to start renovations on the Constantine Theater where he left his handcrafted talent of the detailed masks of comedy and tragedy proudly displayed at the entrance. He also seen the need and was the Mayor of Pawhuska for a term. Later in life, Greg continued with his passion of carpentry and construction which brought on a long-time friendship with David Baker and many others that will miss him dearly. His love of the arts was shared when he would entertain and light up a room with song and dance. Greg recently found the same love for pipes that his father had and opened Bayley Pipe Shop and Museum where he proudly collected varieties of beautiful pipes, his carved Meerschaum collection was his pride and joy. Greg never met a stranger and always knew how to carry on a good conversation. He will be deeply missed. .~ . t -' ~ ~ '\ ~ . ,·,. . .... r- i ~i ~~ Nex Benedict February 8, 2024 Our hearts are broken for the Oklahoma 2SLGBTQIA+ community and for the family, friends, and loved ones of Nex Benedict. While we are still learning all of the facts surrounding the death of the 16year-old Owasso student, we are certain that every student has the right to a safe learning environment, free from deadnaming, misgendering, outing, and violence, as well as appropriate medical care. The persistent, vitriolic legislation and rhetoric being championed by our state leaders are breeding animosity, inciting violence, and harming the queer community, especially our youth. As we grieve and acknowledge this loss, we are reminded of the work yet to be done because our lives depend on it. Nex Benedict and the countless 2SLGBTQIA+ teens like them deserve better from our state and medical facilities. They deserve the chance to fully be themselves. They deserve to grow up. Rest in power, Nex. ·~,"""· ' October 10, 1943 ~ January 24, 2024 .. Rick Spring Richard Kent Spring, Jr., a long time Okmulgee resident, passed away on Wednesday, January 24, 2024, in Tulsa, Oklahoma at the age of 80. He was born to Richard Kent, Sr., and Ruth Lucille (Anderson) Spring on October 10, 1943. Rick had many interests and passions, but he truly loved traveling in Europe. He took his family on a Rick Steves tour in 2001, and returned on another Rick Steves tour with his daughter, her husband, and son in 2017. He enjoyed several other Europe trips throughout the years as well. Rick loved spending time with his grandson, Spencer; driving to Oklahoma City weekly to see him for many years. And he rarely missed happy hour at Dee Hennigan’s house. 9 ! r :-..,~ )f Rick served in the United States Navy and was a veteran of the Vietnam War. He returned home in 1967, and in 1970, married Carolyn Morgan. After spending time in Stillwater for university, they moved to Houston where Rick worked for the Parks Department. They left the Houston area and returned to life in Okmulgee in 1978. They had a daughter, Morgan, in 1979, and a son, Evan, followed in 1982. Rick was a lifelong member of the Episcopal Church of the Redeemer, serving on the vestry for decades and wearing many hats along the way. Rick is preceded in death by his parents, Kent and Lu Spring and his sister, Kay Schmidt. He is survived by his daughter, Morgan Harris, husband Graham, and grandson Spencer of Oklahoma City; son, Evan, of Norman; nephew, Wes Schmidt, and niece, Judy Schmidt. Whether it was as a teacher, a social worker, a community volunteer, or through helping other veterans access their benefits, Rick spent his adult life serving others, working to give folks a hand up and access the resources they needed to live a better life. The family would like to extend special thanks to the Dale K. Graham Veterans Foundation in Norman, Oklahoma, for helping Rick navigate the Veterans Administration benefits process. 10 of 19 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to the Foundation to help other veterans get the benefits they’ve earned. Donations can be made here: https://www.dalekgrahamveteransfoundation.org/donate In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-cr- HEALTH -ci=-crCLINIC Cultur• llyCompetentC• re forthetG8TQ•Commun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Aces Committed Equality A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA 6?1TI-RSCI5T WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhit.e-letl2M1upfurpeersupportandeducationaboutsyst.emicracism .,1,F/RN -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. lut Thul'8dau of IIV8l'U_lllonth at t.h8 lllnnia R. IIBil Equality Cant.Ir 121Elht.7-ta Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Monthly on the last Thursday. A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nontrad itional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com Blended Brought To You Bi The Letter B Join us for our monthly peer-led support group, a safe and inclusive space for parents in nontraditional households! Whether you're a stepparent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, we welcome you with open arms. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. This month, our meeting will be held on the 4th Saturday, and starting next month, we will consistently meet on the third Saturday of each month. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) We're eagerly looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences with you! Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AlyssaBf)oantwithLega l AidServicesof Oklahoma will be assisting the LGBTGl-t 71 lfyoubelieveyou'vebeeoa>'ictim of housing discrimination.please callherat9 18-238-16561,orema il hefalil!~~g. Theseservicesa,eopentoeveryone rega,dlessolincomeand3re avaHable throughoultheSta1etor LGBTQ+persons. ~ w.drlnday of 1M , - -'-=-=- "-;"-•'-" -fai_ . ,_ = _;o,,;.-,_••-•~- ;_,.~ _ •_ __, Atonffl ,,_, J2PM- oU'M. GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP The Gender Support provides support, educa tion,andsocial oppor1unitiesfor transgender First-timein teiviewisrequiredbe!ore attendingyourlirstm~ting Pk>asecontact918-743-4297 71 &.yw.ctond,iyola. ~from7""'1f09PM DlllnllltNIIIEqw,llty,TutaOK7412$ Ot'nnis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP 7484 w;. GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. f Grupo Trans en Espanol 71 ____ ...-- elizabe!h.ort;z~eq.o,g Ungrupodeapoyoparamujeres transg,'oeroeoespallol Dl'<lnisll.NeiUEqua(ity,Tu1$;1.0K7412$ _. UfM,..._.yUU1mo}ur,fl 91&.7"3A297 Grupo Trans en Espanol FREE HIV Testing Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Q 8 § JAMMOUTT EVJ;i\Y 2NIJfl;4'1'11MONIJ/\\' 6:30-7:30PM f 8 m1mLJtl.ill.\.___.___. . This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... f Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGA LA ID~~ SE MV I CES o• a; 0 KIAIIO .. . A, ( S"C , ....·~ 71 ----....,....,,___.,_ Gender L Correction Clinic Mfffll ..... . _ _ JulieLGofeewithlegalAidSefvicesof Oklahomaisavailablelordropindiscussions regardinglega l issUM. --- c.Mbll'-l!l~lty.T...._ OK74129 Lawyer in the Library Oklahoma !or Equa lity Law Ceoter is hosting a clinic for name and Anorne)'Josh Paytonandhisteam wi llass;s11t>osewi1hnameand genderc0<rec1ions. Can'1 makeit inpen.on?contac1 inl~ kequalitylaw.comtoschedule a consultation by Zoom. aw,y w,:onc, w~ yof rite ,__,_~_,._,m _••-~-'-"'-"'°' - - - - - - - momfltrom5:39J'Mto 7PM O.-Onis R.Neill Equ.ality, Tulsa, OK.74 129 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org --- --- ----Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. - ' ....... • • •• 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~W OMEN'S UEERLECTIVE 0 L Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS __ .. Asociatoroanizationformatu,.,....minded Gay and Bisexual men Asodalo,vanlzatlonlofmaturemlndedgayanClblw.ualmento 71 ..wM1$1'1frlendsl'llpanCIS.Upport uwoui:,isoc;~inleraclion . Att.ndNslTIU$tbl-21)•,;1rsor . . , . _ . . , 1\INdap'ol _, _.,._,,., .,.., Sin Fronteras Tulsa Area Prime Timers Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. , Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S First Qnd third SQturdQy of the month from 12noon - 6pm 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa TTRPGs Veteran Support Group Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. The purpose of the group is to provide muchneeded support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Fridays 10-11.30 am We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction focused, mindfulness based, & radically inclusive. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGAL AID t h SERVICES O F OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0]]4 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at buogerfreeok ocg/resources/soap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 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Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Cydney Williams Yonah Sienna Jasper Grace Fallon Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:36 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b9b2fc5d32f681ac9ecff2ff819f7113.pdf 55031b48637e80cbdf1168fe9344719f PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm OkEq Security Funding You may have noticed a familiar face at the Equality Center these last few weeks of December. Through limited and restricted funding, OkEq will benefit through mid-January from the presence of a Security Officer during our standard business hours. Suzy S., (She/Her/They/Them), pictured above, has over a decade of direct security experience, is CLEET certified, and holds specialized training in mental health intervention and substance abuse. As a member of our community, they also bring deep understanding and compassion while serving OkEq in an environment that is wholly affirming to their own identity. The only piece missing in this incredible partnership is the capacity to fund the role as a permanent one. One of our main initiatives over this year has been to increase safety at the Equality Center. In operating one of the largest 2SLGBTQIA+ focused human rights organizations serving Oklahoma, OkEq staff and volunteers often find themselves as the target of threats, vandalism, and having to navigate crises. From within our walls is also the work of pushing back against anti-2SLGBTQIA+ legislation and social policy, while threats against our communities are on the rise and intensifying, according to the latest briefings from the Department of Homeland Security. Tulsa Pride 2023 was also a stark reminder that even after decades of activism and celebration, we still face very real and present dangers. 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We all deserve safe and affirming spaces, so we are reaching out to you, our community, for help. Keeping OUR center secure and welcoming to all we serve can be met through a one-time recurring commitment, and allow OkEq to provide a permanent post for Suzy. The current costs for a twelve-hour shift are $360 dollars. Will you help? Use the link below to donate now, or drop by the Center at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 to donate in person. Thank you, Dorothy Ballard Executive Director | OkEq DONATE TODAY! Volunteer Opportunity: Become the Welcoming Face of OKEQ! Are you passionate about serving your community? OKEQ is seeking enthusiastic front desk volunteers to be the welcoming presence at our center. As a front desk volunteer, you'll greet and guide guests, handle phone inquiries, and assist in distributing essential resources. This role offers an exceptional chance to engage with our community and make a meaningful impact. Front desk shifts typically run for 3 hours once a week, with opportunities for more involvement if your schedule allows. We currently have openings during the following times: Tuesdays 9 am-12 pm Wednesdays 9 am-12 pm Thursdays 9 am-12 pm 12-3 pm 12-3 pm 3-6 pm Fridays 12-3 pm 3-6 pm Saturdays 12-3 pm 1st & 3rd 3-6 pm 1st & 3rd If you can dedicate some of your time and want to join our dedicated team, please email Olivia at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Make a difference and be a vital part of our community at OKEQ! 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Special Events ..af. ouT OF 0..G 11\t.llMATION j DONATE BLOOD &SAVE LIVES Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive THIS WINTER! - NATIONAL BLOOD Oklahomans for Equality R~~<?~ Blood Drive Saturday, January 6 • 10 a.m. - 2 p.m. Event Center (621 E. 4th St.) Saturday, January 6th l 10a - 2p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Schedule an Appointment Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Saturday, January 6th l 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa Pride Pageant 2024 honoring King and Queen Micah Membrane & Karma 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Eclectic Sunday, January 7th | 9:30p-1a Club Majestic 124 N Boston Tulsa, OK We would like to invite you to attend the 2024 Tulsa Pride Pageant. Our 2024 Tulsa Pride King and Queen will be crowned, and our esteemed 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, will be recognized for their contributions. Should you have any queries, please do not hesitate to contact 2023 Tulsa Pride King Micah Membrane at Mollylynne@me.com or 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic at jackpaustin13@gmail.com. Promoters: Tanna Gioletti-Brewer and Shay Brewer. For additional information, please get in touch with Shay.Brewer@okeq.com. To participate in the pageant, candidates must have completed a minimum of 10 to 15 hours of community service from any organization, accompanied by a certified letter. Additionally, entrants must be of a minimum age of 18 years. The crowned winners will receive a Tulsa Pride Crown and Sash, bookings for Tulsa Pride Bingos, Tulsa Pride, and OKEQ Chapter Prides, two (2) promo pictures, and a cash prize of $300. All proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality and Tulsa Pride. STORYTELLING ROUNDTABLE Discuss the Impact of Food Insecurity & Hunger on Your Life! Storytellers receive: • $150 Check or Gift Card after W-9 is received • Mileage reimbursement • Childcare reimbursement • Transportation if needed • Lunch and snacks • A safe snace to share 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... •• --·- -.---- -- -· ·-· stories & create community 18+ & 2SLGBTQIA+ ONLY! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, January 27, 2024 10 AM - 3 PM CST Limited Space Available Apply Here by January 10: hfok.org/Jan27Roundtable - ~ HUNGER • FREE nn OKLAHOMA HOMEWUD BOUND PUG RESCUE &lllmlllfllUIIU 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TRANS ADVOCACY COALITION OF OKLAHOMA PRESENTS: STATE-WIDE COMMUNITY SURVEY Are you an Oklahoman whose gender identity, expression, or experience is different from the norm? Are you 13 or older? We want to determine community needs for financial and other support programs. Please fill out this survey and send it to anyone else you know! httP-s://t.ly/EEO mo STATE OF LGBTQ+ AGING Ju sao-e I~~~~~~~o~ ~' LGBTQ• Elders We refuse to be invisible 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This research study focuses on learning more about LGBTQ+ people aged 50 and older across the country, including their experiences, needs, and resiliencies as they get older. The information you provide about your experiences will help us to identify what kinds of healthcare and related services may be important for LGBTQ+ older people from diverse backgrounds. You are being asked to participate in the study because you meet the following criteria: You are aged 50 or older, and you identify as LGBTQ+. If you agree to participate in this study, you will be asked to complete a one-time survey that may take 30 to 45 minutes. This study includes only a minimal risk related to potential psychological discomfort when discussing sensitive matters related to your health and life experiences. Participation in research is voluntary. You may choose either to take part or not to take part in the study. If you decide to take part in this study, you may leave the study at any time. No matter what decision you make, there will be no penalty to you in any way. You will not lose any of your regular benefits, and you can still access services the way you usually do. If you have any questions about the study, please contact Dr. Jason Flatt, Assistant Professor at UNLV at 702-895-5586. If you wish to ask questions about the study or your rights as a research participant to someone other than the researchers or if you wish to voice any problems or concerns you may have about the study, please call the UNLV Institutional Review Board at 702-895-2794. TAKE SURVEY WEARE HIRING Require men ts: • High school diploma or equivalent required. • Knowledge of community resources of targeted LGBTIQA+ population • Experience working with the 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... targeted population • Pay begins at $36,729.76 annually tu lsa-health.org/careers ~ ~ TULSA HEALTH n I&, Department In Memoriam Iln Memoriaim In Memoriam Submissions 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-5p Wednesdays - 9a-5p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. Thursdays - 9a-1 p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin scour rr<ooP of Ofdohoma will be assisting 74-g4- 5COl/fTROOP 15 OPEN 1D ALL GIRLS ANO TRAN5/NON81NARY YOUTH f:VfRY THVllSDAY OF TH, MONTH 6'30p«, .;. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality 1o.1n1.1 o~~~n11o. 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... l'tUft Ul"'l"'CRll'tU a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... .org Phone (918)295-9429. 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Brougl1lt 1'10 Yo11i Bi ,rjt1J~ l(_,~tt~r ~~~~ ~~!:,,'!:,,'~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@QdJ§§~~ "i:f'QdJ[b s & "IT'W@ =§!PD~ □"IT' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the Equality Game Night Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · @r@rncll®IP ~ffi]])]]:@lru @rf®Dn]]) Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ~ OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S first and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm ~ / J i . tJtmljj,O!!J',iYJP • ~ Grupo Trans en Espanol Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM. | Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGAL AID tSL SERVICES OF LEGAL AID tSL SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. nu I IUll Lllll\ C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get help applying for 1~ S upplemental : ~!~~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espariol : 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm 2024 Equality Gala & Pride Festival I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invit es you to our 1AM EQ.UALITY Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! Gala & Benefit This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ()at,fJwn, ~ 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE six o 'clock in the evening c omplim e n ta r y v al e t Cox Bu s in ess Con ve nti o n Ce n ter Legacy H a ll , 2n d Fl oo r Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! c ocktails I m oc ktail s I dinn e r th e atr e live au c tion I d a n ce party Honorary Chairs S u e W e lc h & Marcy Sm it h www.OKE Q.or g Sponsorships & Tickets Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed décor! 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. New Programming Fruity Pebbles Youth Group Saturday, April 13th, 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK OkEq is excited to have the return of weekly Saturday youth programming 'Fruity Pebbles' at the Equality Center! The program is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 13 to 17. Every Saturday from 1 pm to 5 pm, there will be opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutual-aid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack and lunch are provided. For questions, please email shay.brewer@okeq.org. Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Friday, April 12th, 10-11.30 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Nestled in the heart of Tulsa, Oklahoma, Zen Recovery Inc. stands as a beacon of hope for those navigating the complexities of addiction. Led by women and LGBTQ+ individuals, our 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization offers weekly gatherings known as "Zen & the Art of Whatever Works," providing a safe haven for individuals seeking solace and support on their journey to sobriety. With a focus on harm reduction and mindfulness, our meetings, held every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month, offer a space for individuals to explore their struggles and triumphs within a community of understanding and acceptance. As the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance, we pride ourselves on our commitment to radical inclusivity, ensuring that all voices are valued and heard. Join us at Zen Recovery Inc., where compassion reigns supreme, and the path to healing is paved with courage and acceptance. Special Events Bill W. and Dr. Bob April 11th-14th Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK It is a powerful and often humorous play detailing the events that led to the creation of Alcoholics Anonymous. B LL W. and Dr. BOB Written by Samuel Shem & Janet Surrey, Directed by Paula Scheider, Sponsored by Hippie Chick Heart Featuring: Dara Renee Allen, Kim Li Carlson, Marc Carlson, Mark Ingham, DeeDee Huffman-Jones, Zero Steiert 1st Annual Multi-Cultural Celebration Spring Festival & Market Saturday, April 13th, 10 am-6 pm Marriot Southern Hills 1902 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We welcome ALL Artisans and Entertainers, Indigenous, LGBTQ2IA, Alternative, Hispanic, African American, Gothic, Pagan, Disabled, Autistic, and MORE! NO HATE SPEECH ALLOWED! A CHILL ROOM is provided for those with SENSORY ISSUES! This event is ADA-compliant and has plenty of parking. Vendor Form Saturday, April 13th 10am-6P-m Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland & John Wooley Celebrate Henry Mancini's 100th Birthday Thursday, April 18th, 7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Thursdays in the Rainbow Room welcomes Janet Rutland back to Lynn Riggs Theatre on April 18. Author John Wooley will join Rutland, and together, they will celebrate Henry Mancini's 100th birthday with music and narration about the talented composer's life. Musical accompaniment by Scott McQuade and Jake Erwin. TICKETS Little Blue Lip Sync Friday, April 19th, 7-10 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Enjoy a fun evening of professional drag performers, AND root for your favorite novice lip-syncer! Feeling extra? Join us in the sync! The winner of the novice contest receives a $100 cash prize! All proceeds benefit the LGBTQ students at the Little Blue House at TU. r Blended Saturday, April 20th, 10 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This peer-led support group is for parents in non-traditional households (stepparents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc. A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP Free childcare is available! This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com. Free childcare is also available! Please Join us at 10am on April 20th at OKEQ! For questions, email ~ @ g ~ 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Two Spirit Fest Saturday, April 20th 12-4 pm WOMPA 3306 Charles Page Blvd, Tulsa, OK "2-Spirit Fest" is a three-day event open to the public, celebrating diverse artistic expressions deeply rooted in traditional cultures. Attendees can look forward to musical performances by both local and non-local artists, captivating video installations, dynamic drumming and dancing, an artist market, and an insightful panel discussion. For a detailed schedule and additional information, please visit Twisted Arts’ website at: https://twistedfest.org/twospirit Funding for this program has been generously provided by a grant from Oklahoma Humanities (OH) and the National Endowment for the Humanities (NEH). It is important to note that any views, findings, conclusions, or recommendations expressed in this program do not necessarily represent those of OH or NEH. Muskogee #Creek family, this one's for you - see you during festival season! ?✨ ✨ Pride Bingo Saturday, April 20th, 6.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, April 20th Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment. Featuring performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy and special guest performers Sasha Turrelle and Sean Tylr Davis Doors open at 6:30 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride Additional Bingo Cards can be purchased at the door for $5. You can buy tickets at the door. Please get your tickets before they sell out! 18TH ANNUAL HEARTLANP TRANSGENPER SPRING SOIREE 6 MUSIC JAM 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam Tuesday April 30th-Monday May 6th ALOFT Oklahoma City Quail Springs 13111 Highland Park Blvd, OKC, OK Welcome to our 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam May 2-3-4 ,. THE PURPOSE FOR OUR EVENTS: They are designed for the first time out tgirl, to provide them with the real life experience of being out among others like us, in a safe and affirming venue, for an extended weekend. That said, our events are not play parties or is sex part of our events WHO IS INVITED: All transgender women and men: transsexuals, transvestites, drag queens, drag kings, fully feminine or masculine crossdressers, plus spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends, and Mistresses, 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 16 ALOFT OICUHOMA CffY GUM SPRINflS 13111 Highland Park Blvd OKC Phone: 405-849-5577 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sirs, and BBC who love girls and t-men like us. TRANSPORTATION: Rides to or from Will Rogers World Airport, Oklahoma City Amtrak Station, or the Oklahoma City Greyhound Bus Station can be arranged with Uber, Lyft, or taxi PET-FRIENDLY: The Aloft Hotel Quail Springs is a pet-friendly hotel. Please get in touch with the hotel for their pet policy, and please make sure to clean up after your pet. Hotel offering your special group rate: Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs for USD 112 per night plus tax If you would like to book your group rate for our 2024 HeartlandTG Spring Soiree, you can reserve from this link. The group block expires on April 19, 2024. Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs A Marriott Bonvoy Hotel Phone: 405-849-5577 Toll-Free: 1-888-236-2427 Contact: Hanna, Hanna_olsenxd@yahoo.com or Lindsay https://fetlife.com/users/2281123 - ------- - 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Over three-quarters of a century have passed since the 1945 liberation of Am(_hwitL and the end of the war against the Jews. And yet we are once again standing at the threshold. Some 1 l '->.000 Holocaust survivors are still alive, but many of them were very young children during the Second World War. The few who can speak with the force of first -hand perception will soon be gone. Wh..it h..ippl'n'> nl'xt.' 1 In Memoriam Il111 Me1111oriaum Raymond Johnson August 4, 1948 ~ January 16, 2024 In January 2024, Ray, aged 75, passed away. We remember Ray for his talent with the violin, his infectious smile, and his valued presence as a member of the OKEQ Seniors group. Rick Spring October 10, 1943 ~ January 24, 2024 Richard Kent Spring, Jr., a long time Okmulgee resident, passed away on Wednesday, January 24, 2024, in Tulsa, Oklahoma at the age of 80. He was born to Richard Kent, Sr., and Ruth Lucille (Anderson) Spring on October 10, 1943. Rick had many interests and passions, but he truly loved traveling in Europe. He took his family on a Rick Steves tour in 2001, and returned on another Rick Steves tour with his daughter, her husband, and son in 2017. He enjoyed several other Europe trips throughout the years as well. Rick loved spending time with his grandson, Spencer; driving to Oklahoma City weekly to see him for many years. And he rarely missed happy hour at Dee Hennigan’s house. 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rick served in the United States Navy and was a veteran of the Vietnam War. He returned home in 1967, and in 1970, married Carolyn Morgan. After spending time in Stillwater for university, they moved to Houston where Rick worked for the Parks Department. They left the Houston area and returned to life in Okmulgee in 1978. They had a daughter, Morgan, in 1979, and a son, Evan, followed in 1982. Rick was a lifelong member of the Episcopal Church of the Redeemer, serving on the vestry for decades and wearing many hats along the way. Rick is preceded in death by his parents, Kent and Lu Spring and his sister, Kay Schmidt. He is survived by his daughter, Morgan Harris, husband Graham, and grandson Spencer of Oklahoma City; son, Evan, of Norman; nephew, Wes Schmidt, and niece, Judy Schmidt. Whether it was as a teacher, a social worker, a community volunteer, or through helping other veterans access their benefits, Rick spent his adult life serving others, working to give folks a hand up and access the resources they needed to live a better life. The family would like to extend special thanks to the Dale K. Graham Veterans Foundation in Norman, Oklahoma, for helping Rick navigate the Veterans Administration benefits process. In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to the Foundation to help other veterans get the benefits they’ve earned. Donations can be made here: https://www.dalekgrahamveteransfoundation.org/donate In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-cf- HEALTH -ci=-cfCLINIC Cultura lly (ompetrnt Ca r~ for the lGBTQ+ (ommun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA S?lTI-RSl:I5T WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhite·l£!12roupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicracism .,t,F/RN -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program wt 1hundau of ~ -month at tha Dennis R. 11111 Eq1Wltg C8nt8r mElllst.7-1:Ml Cl'atilll!Blll'l~and~IIUIJPlll't. 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP Th is peer led support group is for parents in nontrad itional households (st ep parents, non-bio parent s, bonus parents, etc). Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com Blended Brought To You Bi The Letter B Join us for our monthly peer-led support group, a safe and inclusive space for parents in nontraditional households! Whether you're a stepparent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, we welcome you with open arms. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. This month, our meeting will be held on the 4th Saturday, and starting next month, we will consistently meet on the third Saturday of each month. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) We're eagerly looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences with you! f Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AlyssaBrya ntwithLega l AidSeivicesof Oklahoma will be assisting the LGBTQ+ 71 JfyoubeHeveyou',ebffnavictim oft>oosingdiscrimination,please callherat Ql S-238-165&,oremaH heraljlJY.lliJ!a~g Theseservices areopentoE"o'eryone regardlessofincomeandare availablethrooghouttheStatefo, LGBTQ +pernons ~ ~ y o f it._ __,_--~-"-'"-· '-"-"'-',_ - _,,,,_.•_.._.._ ,,_ ~~-·- - - ...,.,c,, from 12PM- - GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP TheGende.-Suppor1provides support,education,andsocial opportunitiesfortransgender First-lime interview i5 required before alt efld ingyourli rstmeeting. Pleasecontact 918-743-4297 71 Ew,y~ollM mwtatfnlm 7Nl' fDIJPM 0.-R.Nell~.Tulu.0K7"12fl Dennis R. NeiU Equality, Tulsa, OK 7◄ 12& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Gender Support Group 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. ------- The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS 7484 .;. Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Free HIV Testing Every Tuesday from4pm-&pml Grupo Trans en Espanol 71 e1;zabeth.oniz~eq.oro ______, ...-- UngriJpodeapoyoparamujeres transgeoe<oeoespal\ol QCM~ylicrimo}fwws DeonisR.NeillEqua!ity,Tuls.a,OK7,412& Grupo Trans en Espanol FREE HIV Testing Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Jamm Outt 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. OKLAHOMAN FOR EQUALITY ~ 621 E 4TH STREET TULSA OK 74120 ~ JAMM OUTT ~ i;v1mv2NU &;~ 'l'l1 MONDAY 6:30-7:30PM (3 . t Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L i>G.4-LA m ~, ,. SERV I CF.So• :a 01<,..110,,u, l "c. ~~:~~:::~;f:,~~~;:::sions •~ardingl~a l iSSlll;"5. 71 .................. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender Correction Clinic Lawyer in the Library gender corrections. Can'lmake;tinperson?contact inf,,..,kequalilylaw.comtoschedute 9429 . . . . .. . . . . . . . . Dennb It Neil [qi.I.illy, Tulu. OK 7412e Anomey Josh Payton and his team willassis1thosewi1hnameand Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center ishostingaclinicfornameand gendermarkerthanges. ------------ a consultation by Zoom. rwrtH'CondW~yof lhe monffl from 5:38PM lo 7PM DennisR.NeillEqu;,lity,Tutw,OK7412' Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org --- ----Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. -- OKEQ SENIORS DenmsR Ne1llEqual,ty Tulsa OK7412S OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 16 of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS Asocialo,~nlzationformatu,e-minded Gay and Bisexual men 71 Asocl.iorv,,niutionlormaturernlncled~andbise>:ualmento ..ublbhfriendshipandsupp,:,,i ttvougt,soclallni.recooo Attendlonmustbe21ye,1rsor 1w,p---,J'uftuJ'ol _ _...., _ _ _ ,,_1Plllflilffl'M Sin Fronteras Tulsa Area Prime Timers Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. ~ Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY r 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TULSA TTRP&S First Qnd third SQturdQy of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Veteran Support Group Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. The purpose of the group is to provide muchneeded support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Second & fourth Friday of each month, 10-11.30 am We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction-focused, mindfulness-based, & radically inclusive. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • • LEGALAID t tz. SERVICES OF LEGAL AID t tz. SERVICES O F OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. HOPE Testing TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Jl t'1 Get h e l p . supplemental applying for • • ~ ~!;~\i;;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaf\ol: Learn more at bungerfreeok o~/resources/soap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Whitney Cipolla - President Paula Shannon - Vice President Eddie Carreno - Treasurer Yonah Jasper - Secretary Kaylyn Compton - Member at Large Staff Andi Gunter - Operations & Health Clinic Manager Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Sue Welch Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Board of Directors William Bonney Zoe Brett Grace Fallon Julia Fletcher Ben Matthews Lollie Moore Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Kasey Rhone Kylie Vanderslice Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Olivia Cotter - Administrative Coordinator Regis McDaniel - Archivist Board of Advisors Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Tom Vincent Cydney Williams 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:38 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/39bad6dc3e6baf8d6c03ad440864e86a.pdf b4663b22b6c6d83256d6fde95bc80055 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm 2024 Equality Gala & Pride Festival I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invit es you to our 1AM EQ.UALITY Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! Gala & Benefit This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ()at,fJwn, ~ 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE six o 'clock in the evening c omplim e n ta r y v al e t Cox Bu s in ess Con ve nti o n Ce n ter Legacy H a ll , 2n d Fl oo r Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! c ocktails I m oc ktail s I dinn e r th e atr e live au c tion I d a n ce party Honorary Chairs S u e W e lc h & Marcy Sm it h www.OKE Q.or g Sponsorships & Tickets Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed décor! 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. Special Events Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland & John Wooley Celebrate Henry Mancini's 100th Birthday Thursday, April 18th, 7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Thursdays in the Rainbow Room welcomes Janet Rutland back to Lynn Riggs Theatre on April 18. Author John Wooley will join Rutland, and together, they will celebrate Henry Mancini's 100th birthday with music and narration about the talented composer's life. Musical accompaniment by Scott McQuade and Jake Erwin. TICKETS Little Blue Lip Sync Friday, April 19th, 7-10 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Enjoy a fun evening of professional drag performers, AND root for your favorite novice lip-syncer! Feeling extra? Join us in the sync! The winner of the novice contest receives a $100 cash prize! All proceeds benefit the LGBTQ students at the Little Blue House at TU. r Blended Saturday, April 20th, 10 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This peer-led support group is for parents in non-traditional households (stepparents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc. A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP Free childcare is available! This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (st ep parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc) For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com. Free childcare is also available' Please join us at 10am on April 20th at OKEQ! For questions, email ~@gmAi1.l.2.m Two Spirit Fest Saturday, April 20th 12-4 pm WOMPA 3306 Charles Page Blvd, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... "2-Spirit Fest" is a three-day event open to the public, celebrating diverse artistic expressions deeply rooted in traditional cultures. Attendees can look forward to musical performances by both local and non-local artists, captivating video installations, dynamic drumming and dancing, an artist market, and an insightful panel discussion. For a detailed schedule and additional information, please visit Twisted Arts’ website at: https://twistedfest.org/twospirit Funding for this program has been generously provided by a grant from Oklahoma Humanities (OH) and the National Endowment for the Humanities (NEH). It is important to note that any views, findings, conclusions, or recommendations expressed in this program do not necessarily represent those of OH or NEH. Muskogee #Creek family, this one's for you - see you during festival season! ?✨ ✨ Pride Bingo Saturday, April 20th, 6.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, April 20th Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment. Featuring performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy and special guest performers Sasha Turrelle and Sean Tylr Davis Doors open at 6:30 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride Additional Bingo Cards can be purchased at the door for $5. You can buy tickets at the door. Please get your tickets before they sell out! Leave a Legacy Workshop Tuesday, April 23rd, 6-8 pm VENUE 918 11505 E 43rd St, Tulsa, OK Join us and learn how to make a plan for your future. Whether you want to learn about the different instruments available to you or dive into specifics about a Will or Trust, this is the session to attend for FREE advice and how to get started! JOIN US FOR OUR FREE "LEAVE ALEGACY" WORKSHOP TUESDAY J.!!!!11 APRI L 23fd, 2024 ~ STARTAT ~ ' 6:00 PM · 8:00 PM ~ : TOPIC OF DISCUSSION REGISTER NOW MAKE APLAN FOR YOUR FUTURE RSVP USING QR CODE Please ensure your family's legacy and peace of mind with expert guidance at our upcoming Estate Planning Event. By making a plan for your future, you'll unlock the keys to financial security, inheritance optimization, and safeguarding your loved ones' futures. Highlights: *Personalized strategies tailored to your unique circumstances *Expert advice from seasoned estate planning professionals *Insights on instruments like Wills, Trusts, Probate & More! Don't leave your legacy to chance – take control of your future. We look forward to seeing you at the workshop. RSVP now to secure your spot! OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY 621 E 4TH ST TULSA OK 74401 MAV04,2024 , ~ Rising Stars Saturday, May 4th, 1 pm 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! From 12 p.m. to 3 p.m., our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to assist you in bringing your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. 18TH ANNUAL HEARTLAND TRANSGENDER SPRING SOIREE i MUSIC JAM 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam Tuesday April 30th-Monday May 6th ALOFT Oklahoma City Quail Springs 13111 Highland Park Blvd, OKC, OK Welcome to our 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam May 2-3-4 THE PURPOSE FOR OUR EVENTS: They are designed for the first time out tgirl, to provide them with the real life experience of being out among others like us, in a safe and affirming venue, for an extended weekend. That said, our events are not play parties or is sex part of our events ,. LOCATION ALOFT OICLAHOIIA CffY QUAL SPRINIS 13111 Highland Park Blvd OKC Phone: 405-849-5577 WHO IS INVITED: All transgender women and men: transsexuals, transvestites, drag queens, drag kings, fully feminine or masculine crossdressers, plus spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends, and Mistresses, Sirs, and BBC who love girls and t-men like us. TRANSPORTATION: Rides to or from Will Rogers World Airport, Oklahoma City Amtrak Station, or the Oklahoma City Greyhound Bus Station can be arranged with Uber, Lyft, or taxi PET-FRIENDLY: The Aloft Hotel Quail Springs is a pet-friendly hotel. Please get in touch with the hotel for their pet policy, and please make sure to clean up after your pet. Hotel offering your special group rate: Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs for USD 112 per night plus tax If you would like to book your group rate for our 2024 HeartlandTG Spring Soiree, you can reserve from this link. The group block expires on April 19, 2024. Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs A Marriott Bonvoy Hotel Phone: 405-849-5577 Toll-Free: 1-888-236-2427 Contact: Hanna, Hanna_olsenxd@yahoo.com or Lindsay https://fetlife.com/users/2281123 ---------- In Memoriam I ' j ..........._ 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln Merrnoriaurn In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=CLINIC i Cultur• llyCompetentC• reforthetGBTQ+Commun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up 111111 1111111 1111111 IIII Aces Committed Equality _,_.,·-~-·-··•~'~~~==, . -.. ,-:.,. 71 ASEXUAL it, A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA a~TI-RSCieT WE ARE NOW OFFERING .,fF~RN -CAREGIVER- Support Group RwhiU-led 2roup fnr peer support and education aboutSJlstlmic racism ,:u' laltlhursdau of ~ _lllllnth Affirm Caregiver at th8 ll8nni8 R.llail Eq1lllitg Cl1lt8r AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, o:.i~-:iaru1~r::r, 11£1hlt.7-l:30Plll indlvldualsllllldna . . t.11 ~ . . livasuatamtc 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP Th is peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com Blended Brought To You Bi The Letter B Join us for our monthly peer-led support group, a safe and inclusive space for parents in nontraditional households! Whether you're a stepparent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, we welcome you with open arms. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. This month, our meeting will be held on the 4th Saturday, and starting next month, we will consistently meet on the third Saturday of each month. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) We're eagerly looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences with you! Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AlyssaBf)oantwithLega l AidServicesof OkLahoma will be assisting the LGBTGl-t 71 GENDER\ SUPPORT GROUP The Gende-r SuppOrtprovides rega,dlessofincomeandare ava;lable throughouttheSta1et0< LGBTQ+persons. ~ w.dnftdl,y of 1M - •'•=•=•"•;•••'•"•fai•'"•=•;"'•·•• •••~- ;_ ,.~_•___. Atonffl ,,_, J2PM- 4PM. support,educa tioo,andsocial opportunitiesfor transgende.- First-timein terviewisrequiredbe!0<e attending your first meeting PleasecontactQ18-743-42Q7 71 c-,.......,.,.ol,,.. monfltfrom7""'1f09PM DlnnllR.NellEqw,llty, Tuia OK 7412$ Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. ------- individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS 7484 .;., Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Grupo Trans en Espanol 71 elizabe!h.Ofl;z~eq.o,g _______. ...-- Ungrupodeaporoparamujeres traMg,'neroeoespallol cau,.._.,uuimo,/ur,N Dennisli.NeiUEqua(iry,Tul$il.0K7412$ t1t,7"3A297 Grupo Trans en Espanol FREE HIV Testing Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGAL AID -t:~ SEltvl CES.,. = 0K IA H O .. . A, I NC. .,.. ______ ......... .. --- 71 ..,.....,,......, Name& Gender Correction Clinic 9G9•...a.Mllalllllllll, Julie LGoree withle,;;al AidSeMcesof Ok lahomaisaeailablefordropindiscussions regarding lega l issues. DennlsR.Nelll[Cluallty,Tutu,OK7•t2& Lawyer in the Library ~ Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center ishostingaclinicfornameand / I - '-""-"~ - •-'"'-"'"-"'- - - - ~ At1omeyJosl!Paytonandhis t eam willassislthosewilh nameand genderco,rections. Can't ma ke it in perwn? contact info9>okequali1~w.comtoschedute a consultation by Zoom. C.,,.,, ucond W-..sday ofthe montt>from 5:38PMro 7PM ~nisR.NeiUEquality,Tulu,OK7•128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org - - --- - - - Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS Denn ,s R Ne1llEquatn1Tuts.aOK741W OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 14 images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS A socialorganizationformatu,e-mir>ded Gay and Bisexual men 71 AIOCWOf91"izatlon tor matu~ mlndedgayandblw.ualmento establllhfrleodshlpandsuppo,1 thn)ugl'lsociallnterac:tion. ~ must bl'21 yursorolde<'. ~MCGlld1\INdllpol _ ___, .. _.,,_,,.,hi,,., Sin Fronteras Tulsa Area Prime Timers Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. , Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY l l'ULSD_ 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TTRP&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Veteran Support Group Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. The purpose of the group is to provide muchneeded support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Second & fourth Friday of each month, 10-11.30 am We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction-focused, mindfulness-based, & radically inclusive. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners LEGAL AID SERVICES OF Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. • t tz:. = LEGAL AID SERVICES O F • t tz:. = OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. HOPE Testing Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0]]4 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at bungerfreeok ocg/resources/soap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 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Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Sue Welch Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Board of Directors William Bonney Zoe Brett Grace Fallon Julia Fletcher Ben Matthews Lollie Moore Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Kasey Rhone Kylie Vanderslice Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Olivia Cotter - Administrative Coordinator Regis McDaniel - Archivist Board of Advisors Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Tom Vincent Cydney Williams Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:39 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4efeea72ff9fd7b80fc8701632b1e7ea.pdf 3e0471371938d3190cc594e04b3fc0f5 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm 2024 Equality Gala I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invit es you to our 1AM EQ.UALITY Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! Gala & Benefit This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ()at,fJwn, ~ 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE six o 'clock in the evening c omplim e n ta r y v al e t Cox Bu s in es s Con ve nti o n Ce n ter Legacy H a ll , 2n d Fl oo r Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! c ocktails I m oc ktail s I dinn e r th e atr e live au c tion I d a n ce party Honorary Chairs S u e W e lc h & Marcy Sm it h www.OKE Q.or g Sponsorships & Tickets Special Events Leave a Legacy Workshop Tuesday, April 23rd, 6-8 pm VENUE 918 11505 E 43rd St, Tulsa, OK Join us and learn how to make a plan for your future. Whether you want to learn about the different instruments available to you or dive into specifics about a Will or Trust, this is the session to attend for FREE advice and how to get started! JOIN US FOR OUR FREE "LEAVE ALEGACY" WORKSHOP TUESDAY ~ APRI L 23rd, 2024 ~ STARTAT ~ ' 6:00PM-8:00PM ~ ; TOPIC OF DISCUSSION REGISTER NOW Please ensure your family's legacy and peace of mind with expert guidance at our upcoming Estate Planning Event. By making a plan for your future, you'll unlock the keys to financial security, inheritance optimization, and safeguarding your loved ones' futures. Highlights: *Personalized strategies tailored to your unique circumstances *Expert advice from seasoned estate planning professionals *Insights on instruments like Wills, Trusts, Probate & More! 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Don't leave your legacy to chance – take control of your future. We look forward to seeing you at the workshop. RSVP now to secure your spot! FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, April 23rd, 4-6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. FREE HIV TESTING •• Know your staus today! UALITY Business Alliance l. EBA MIXER EMPIRE 1 okeq.com/eba Empire Slice we do what we do because we love people. food. art.music and drinks. EBA Mixer w/ Empire Slice House Thursday, April 25th, 6-8 pm VENUE 918 11505 E 43rd St, Tulsa, OK ⚡Oklahomans for Equality is excited to have Empire Slice House host our Equality Business Alliance Mixer this month! ?⚧?❤??????????????????? At Empire Slice, we do what we do because we love people, food, art, music, and drinks. Empire Slice allows us to take all of the things we love and package them inside four walls and for the EBA Mixer, the patio. Please join us for a great networking opportunity to meet other like-minded businesses. Thtnday, Apn1 25th I 6.1SJ&C'M 417 N. Main St., Tufsa, OK 741@3 DennisR.NeillEqualityCenter Empire Slice House located at 417 N. Main St., Tulsa, OK 74103 will co-host our next EBA Mixer on Thursday, April 25th beginning at 6 p.m. until 7:30 p.m. ?⚧❤?????????? OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. Rising Stars Saturday, May 4th, 1 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! From 12 p.m. to 3 p.m., our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to assist you in bringing your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 12 OPEN FLOOR QUESTIONS 0 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • ' . . •• ·f :.-:-·. t ~:-· :{ ·: •• WWW.OKEQ.ORG •• • - 18TH ANNUAL HEARTLAND TRANSGENDER SPRING SOIREE a MUSIC JAM 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam Tuesday April 30th-Monday May 6th ALOFT Oklahoma City Quail Springs 13111 Highland Park Blvd, OKC, OK Welcome to our 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam May 2-3-4 THE PURPOSE FOR OUR EVENTS: They are designed for the first time out tgirl, to provide them with the real life experience of being out among others like us, in a safe and affirming venue, for an extended weekend. That said, our events are not play parties or is sex part of our events LOCATION ALOFT OICUHONA CffY GUM SPRIN8S 13111 Highland Park Blvd OKC Phone: 405-849-5577 WHO IS INVITED: All transgender women and men: transsexuals, transvestites, drag queens, drag kings, fully feminine or masculine crossdressers, plus spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends, and Mistresses, Sirs, and BBC who love girls and t-men like us. TRANSPORTATION: Rides to or from Will Rogers World Airport, Oklahoma City Amtrak Station, or the Oklahoma City Greyhound Bus Station can be arranged with Uber, Lyft, or taxi PET-FRIENDLY: The Aloft Hotel Quail Springs is a pet-friendly hotel. Please get in touch with the hotel for their pet policy, and please make sure to clean up after your pet. Hotel offering your special group rate: Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs for USD 112 per night plus tax If you would like to book your group rate for our 2024 HeartlandTG Spring Soiree, you can reserve from this link. The group block expires on April 19, 2024. Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs A Marriott Bonvoy Hotel Phone: 405-849-5577 Toll-Free: 1-888-236-2427 Contact: Hanna, Hanna_olsenxd@yahoo.com or Lindsay https://fetlife.com/users/2281123 -------- In Memoriam Iln Merrnoriaurn In Memoriam Submissions 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Programming -ci=-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -ci=-f- CulturallyCompetenrC•refortllelG8TQ•Commun,1y Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ::;;.;.7,.:::7:;:::,::;;::,~., 71 A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA EltlTI-RE1CI5T WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhitl-led2roupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicr:icism -,IFF/RN -CAREGIVERwtlhursdau of ~ _lllanth Affirm Caregiver at th8 IIBnnia R.llail EqUaDtg Clnt8r AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. • asafe and facilitatina IUPPlll'li, Cl~and":a.Qll'tUaitiafurllll individualsllllllina t.11 diVll8t l'rmR suatamlc raciBm ii tuir • liva 11Elllst.7-l:30Plll Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma Alyss.aB<yantwilhLegalAidSeJViceso! Oklahoma will be assisting the LGBTQ+ ~ 71 lfyoubelieveyou'vebeenavic!im oft>ovsingdiscriminarion,please callherat918-238-165&,oremaH heraljJ~~rg GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP TheGende..Suppor1provides Theseservicesareopentoeo;eryone regardlessofincomeandare available throoghouttheStatetor LGBTQ+per.;ons n.,y ~ y of .,.._ '_ =m_unity _ w<_o<,_i,hou - sing _ ••-••~- ;~_ ~ •- ~ "'°""'"°'" 12PM-- support,educatioo,andsocial opponunitiesfortransgender Fir,;t-time interview is required before attendingyourlir,;tm,..,..1ing PK,asecontact918-743-4297 0.-R.Nell~.Tulsa. OK7412fl Dennis R. NeiU Equality, Tulsa, OK 7◄129 Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. ------- Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP 7484 ,... GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Grupo Trans en Espanol Free HIV Testing Every Tuesday from4pm-&pml 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... _________ 71 ., __ e!i zabeth.or1iz~ UngruPOdeaPOyoparamujeres transge<leroe-nespai'ool eq.0<g ,c-,.prin»r, Uiltim o ~ DennisR.NeillEqua!ity.Tu1$.a.OK 7412$ Grupo Trans en Espanol FREE HIV Testing Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. ~ ~ ~ OKLAHOMAN FOR EQUALITY ~ 621 E 4TH STREET TULSA OK 74120 § JAMMOUTT C----l § . NIJ o,4:1•HMONDAY f\1£1\Y Z1 °, 6:30-7:30PM Lawyer in th~ [ibrary ,,.. L EGAL A 1u ~ , 5ERV I CES o• ■ 01< ,..110,,u. l "c. 0 ~~:~~::.:::~:iif:.~~~;:u:sions regarding lega l issues. 71 ................ .............. . . . . . ~ Dennb It Nell [qi.I.illy, TulM, OK 7412& Lawyer in the Library This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic Oklahoma fo, Equa lity Law Center isho5tingaclinicfornameand AnomeyJoshPaytonaodhisteam willassistthosewi1hnameaod genderc01Teclions. Can'lma keit inperson?contact info4!>okequalilylaw.comtoschedule a consultation by Zoom rwr,SKO<ld'W~yof!he __,_~_,._,m_,_"'-"-"'-""' - - - - - - - ' monfflfrom5:38PMfo 1PM Dennis R.Neill Equality. Tutsa.OK.7412$ Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SENIORS OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Queer Women's Collective Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS Asocial0<9"nizationformature-mioded Gay and Bisexual men Sin Fronteras 71 Asoclal0f91"izatlontorma1urernlndedvayandblWJ<ualrneoto Ntablllhfnendshlpandsupporl ttwaugt,sociallnteractlon. A ~ must t>e21 ye,,rsorolde~ D9yNCOllll'~ol _ _ ____, _ _.,,_,,.,IDWW Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 ..._ OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS :::::.;.:.":::::,:.:: ~lriendshlpandS,lll)port 71 .....,.__,~,., . ..... ,._,,...,,... ll'ln)u,;il'l1oc:~ in1er..::tion. Asocialorganizationformature--minded Gayand8ise•ualmen AttendNslnU$1be21yeilt5orolder: ,.,. Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. TULSA TTRP~S First Qnd third SQturdQy of the month from 12noon - 6pm Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide muchneeded support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide muchneeded support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Second & fourth Friday of each month, 10-11.30 am We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction-focused, mindfulness-based, & radically inclusive. 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGAL AID t tz. SERVICES O F OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGAL AID t tz. SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ext.3 to make an appointment today. an appointment. SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaflol: Learn more at bungerfreeok ocg/resources/soap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Whitney Cipolla - President Paula Shannon - Vice President Eddie Carreno - Treasurer Yonah Jasper - Secretary Kaylyn Compton - Member at Large Board of Directors William Bonney Zoe Brett Grace Fallon Julia Fletcher Ben Matthews Lollie Moore Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Kasey Rhone Kylie Vanderslice Staff Andi Gunter - Operations & Health Clinic Manager Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Regis McDaniel - Archivist Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm 2024 Equality Gala Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 1AM E UALITY Gala & Benefit I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE o 'clock in the evening complimentary va let Cox Business Convention Center Legac y H a ll , 2nd Floor Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! cocktails I mocktails I dinner theatre live auction I dance party Honorary Chairs Sue W e lc h & Mar c y Smith www.OKEQ.org Sponsorships & Tickets 2024 Tulsa Pride 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Your reigning 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya. ?⚧ ?❤??????????? ⚡Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed decor! We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. ?⚧ ?❤??????????? Special Events FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, April 30th, 4-6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK FREE HIV TESTING 18TH ANNUAL HEARTLAND TRANSGENDER SPRING SOIREE le MUSIC JAM ~ l l~~E!IIr!ll H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Know your status today! 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam Tuesday April 30th-Monday May 6th ALOFT Oklahoma City Quail Springs 13111 Highland Park Blvd, OKC, OK Welcome to our 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam May 2-3-4 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... THE PURPOSE FOR OUR EVENTS: They are designed for the first time out tgirl, to provide them with the real life experience of being out among others like us, in a safe and affirming venue, for an extended weekend. That said, our events are not play parties or is sex part of our events LOCATION ALOFT OICLAIIOIIA CffY QUAL SPRINIIS 13111 Highland Park Blvd OKC Phone: 405-849-5577 WHO IS INVITED: All transgender women and men: transsexuals, transvestites, drag queens, drag kings, fully feminine or masculine crossdressers, plus spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends, and Mistresses, Sirs, and BBC who love girls and tmen like us. TRANSPORTATION: Rides to or from Will Rogers World Airport, Oklahoma City Amtrak Station, or the Oklahoma City Greyhound Bus Station can be arranged with Uber, Lyft, or taxi PET-FRIENDLY: The Aloft Hotel Quail Springs is a pet-friendly hotel. Please get in touch with the hotel for their pet policy, and please make sure to clean up after your pet. Hotel offering your special group rate: Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs for USD 112 per night plus tax If you would like to book your group rate for our 2024 HeartlandTG Spring Soiree, you can reserve from this link. The group block expires on April 19, 2024. Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs A Marriott Bonvoy Hotel Phone: 405-849-5577 Toll-Free: 1-888-236-2427 Contact: Hanna, Hanna_olsenxd@yahoo.com or Lindsay https://fetlife.com/users/2281123 -------- Queer Women's Collective Wednesday, May 1st, 5:30 pm 473 2224 E Admiral Blvd, Tulsa, OK We know we're all ready for some Girl Dinner with Swan Song Studios on 5/10.....BUT FIRST, let's meet up at 473 on 5/1! Fingers crossed for gorgeous spring weather to soak up the sun on their patio! See you there!!? As a reminder, this is a queer, trans, and non-binary-inclusive gathering. Allies are welcome, assholes are not! RSVP Rising Stars Youth Talent Show Saturday, May 4th, 1 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! From 12 p.m. to 3 p.m., our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to assist you in bringing your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... for more information. 1907South Harvard Ave Tulsa,OK • Pl • MAY 20% ~ BACKTO OKEQ 14TH OKEQ X PIZZA HUT FUNDRAISER Tuesday, May 14th, All Day Pizza Hut 1907 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK ⚡Are you looking for an easy way to make a difference in your community? Look no further! Join Oklahomans for Equality on May 14th by ordering pizza from Pizza Hut at 1907 S Harvard Ave. ✨You'll not only be treating yourself to some delicious pizza, but +.+ you'll also be helping OKEQ. 20% of the proceeds will be donated to the Equality Center, which provides vital resources and support to 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals. So, let's come together and make a positive impact in our community! :::. You can participate in this fundraiser by Dining in, take out, drive-thru, and pick up. ⚡Mark your calendars for May 14th and order from Pizza Hut at 1907 S Harvard Ave to help support Oklahomans for Equality. OKEQ Pizza Hunt Fundraiser Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, May 18th, 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, May 18th ????????? Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment. Featuring performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy and special guest performers Jay Kash & Adonia. . Doors open at 6:30 PM | Game Starts at 7:05 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride Additional Bingo Cards can be purchased at the door for $5. You can buy tickets at the door. Tulsa Pride Bingo Tickets In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln Merrnoriaurn In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-«r- HEALTH -ci=-«rCLINIC Cultur•lly Competent C• re for the ~GBTQ+ Commun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 13 The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ::;;..";:::~:::::::::;:,~., 71 A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com •eoi...., ;.. - 1 n.....,........, - - ----- .,.,,.,,....,k><,oLOtl. AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA S?lTI-RSC:I~T WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhlt:.e-letl2M1upforpeersupportandeducationaboutsyst:.emicracism .,1,'1RN -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, I.alt 1hul'8dau of l!'f8l'll_lllonth at t.ha 111nnia R. lllilEquatitg Cantar mElblt.7..,_ Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. f Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AlyssaB<)antwithlegalAidSeivicesof Oklahomawillbeassistir.gtheLGBTGl+ __ ,_m,_e,__ .,_ ·1hf_"' -•= _•.. . ... ·•-""-"'-" ~-• _ 71 lf)'Ollbel;eveyou',et,e,enaeictim ofhovsingdiscrim;na1ion,please callherat Ql S-236-165&,oremaH heral;alr.lliJl!Y~g Theseservicesareopentoeo;eryo11<1 regardlessofincomear>dare availablethrooghouttheStatefo, GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP TheGendefSupport provides support,educarion,andsocial opportunitiesfor transgender LG BTGl +pernons. n - . , y ~ y of - __, Moneftfrom 12PM-- Fir.,t.time interview is required before atte-ndingyourlirstmeeting. Pleasecontact918-743-4297 71 Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. -------- Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP 7484 ..., GREEN COUNTRY BEARS GreenCountryBear.; isasocial 71 Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Grupo Trans en Espanol elizabe!h.Ofl;z~eq_.o,g Ungn.ipodeapoyopa,ramujeres traosgeoe<oeoespaool ---:7I /I - ------~ .., __ Clldll ~yiiltimo;.-s DeonlsR.NeillEqua!ity,Tuls.a,OK7412& Grupo Trans en Espanol FREE HIV Testing Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. ~ ~ OKLAHOMAN FOR EQUALI TY r--:J 6 21 E 4 TH STREET TULSA OK 74120 ~ ci 8 JAMMOUTT EVEIIY2Nn &; 4'1'H MONDAY § 6:30-7:30PM Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGA LAID ~ SE MV I C F.S ..., ■ 0 0 14 1..<1 110.. . ~. l "c . Julie L Goree with legal Aid Sefvices of ---:71 Oklahoma is available for drop in discussions / <e<;1ardinglega l issues. .......-........... This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic Mffor .... - - . . I 1>9nmslti.ill~ity,Tu!N.OK7412e Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org ----Phone (918)295-9429. - - --- This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center ishostir,gaclinicfornameand At1orne)'JoshPaytonandhisteam willassis111>osewi1hnameand gendercorrecHoos. Can'tma keit inperson?contact in l ~kequalilylaw.comtoschedule a consultation by Zoom. l'-,.H'CondW~ y oflhe ,__,ffi_,_••-m•-•~-•-"'"-'°'- - - - - - monfflfrom5;3111PMto 7PM DMnis R.Neill Equality, Tu1$a, OK 74128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 13 Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Queer Women's Collective Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS A social O<{l,lnlzation for matu,e-mir.ded Gay and Bisexual men 71 Asoclaloro,,ni:aiion tormaturemlndedvaYandblse>:Uill~to ..ubllahfriendshlpandsuppo,i lhrougt,soclallnl«Kllon AttendN& must be 21 ye,irs or old« ._,._...,n..u,,ol _ _ ___. ... _.,,_1Pllfflloff'M Sin Fronteras Tulsa Area Prime Timers Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. , Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide muchneeded support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Second & fourth Friday of each month, 10-11.30 am We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction-focused, mindfulness-based, & radically inclusive. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. ,,,. Get h e l p . supplemental • • : ~!:~~i:;ce applying for P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at huogerfreeok org/resources/soap/ - li-::,J HUNGER FREE n OKLAHOMA OKE , okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Whitney Cipolla - President Paula Shannon - Vice President Eddie Carreno - Treasurer Yonah Jasper - Secretary Kaylyn Compton - Member at Large Board of Directors William Bonney Zoe Brett Grace Fallon Julia Fletcher Ben Matthews Lollie Moore Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Kasey Rhone Kylie Vanderslice Staff Andi Gunter - Deputy Director Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm 2024 Equality Gala Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 1AM E UALITY Gala & Benefit I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE o 'clock in the evening complimentary va let Cox Business Convention Center Legac y H a ll , 2nd Floor Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! cocktails I mocktails I dinner theatre live auction I dance party Honorary Chairs Sue W e lc h & Mar c y Smith www.OKEQ.org Sponsorships & Tickets 2024 Tulsa Pride 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Your reigning 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya. ?⚧ ?❤??????????? ⚡Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed decor! We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. ?⚧ ?❤??????????? Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Saturday, June 22n, 4pm - 12am The Max Retropub 114 S Elgin Ave, Tulsa, OK Join Us For The Ultimate Celebration - The Official Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl on June 22nd. Exclusive Perks: Enjoy Drag Shows ($15 Without Ticket), handpicked inclusive bars, exclusive drink specials, and freebies that are available only to our Pride Bar Crawl participants. Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Tickets Grab your tickets now and let's paint the town in every color of the rainbow! Your love is revolutionary, and united, we can enact positive change. ✨DRINK RESPONSIBLY✨ Special Events FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, May 7th, 4pm - 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ca urc,1c, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV & STD testing at the Equality Cen ter. TESTING Know your status today! £very Tuesday from 4PM - 6PM hop 918.743.4297 Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412151 Put the FUN in ~ ~ut FUNDRAISING OKEQ X PIZZA HUT FUNDRAISER Tuesday, May 14th, All Day Pizza Hut 1907 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK ⚡Are you looking for an easy way to make a difference in your community? Look no further! Join Oklahomans for Equality on May 14th by ordering pizza from Pizza Hut at 1907 S Harvard Ave. ✨You'll not only be treating yourself to some delicious pizza, but you'll also be helping OKEQ. 20% of the proceeds will be donated to the Equality Center, which provides vital resources and support to 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals. So, let's come together and make a positive impact in our community! Show your support for OKEQ - Oklahomans for Equality Tuesday - May 14, 2024 Fundraiser Code: You can participate in this fundraiser by Dining in, take out, drive-thru, and pick up. ⚡Mark your calendars for May 14th and order from Pizza Hut at 1907 S Harvard Ave to help support Oklahomans for Equality. RY ORDER ONLINE@ PIZZAHUT.COM Find participating locations at Hutarnerican.com/fundraisers OKEQ Pizza Hunt Fundraiser fllldra,~,g-t~oolyval,do11~J1 Ml'!oo~owlledf'lmHL1loot.Msontheday1peof,~.Fu'llr•M"rMWOO!!dfrompu•~rJ,1lcohot1.1t. de' 1'!/)'fttlp~ndfu!ll'toffl ()2023 P111, H~ LL( LGBTQ+ Consumer Rights and Protections Tuesday, May 14th SAGE x CFPB x FTC Virtual/Online ⚡ Join this free three-part webinar series for a discussion of consumer rights and protections in housing, retirement, and end-of-life planning. Learn about your rights in the marketplace and how to spot, avoid, and report frauds and scams. This series is hosted by the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Federal Trade Commission, Securities and Exchange Commission and SAGE National Resource Center on LGBTQ+ Aging. Session Dates/Topics: Host ed & Presented By: Soge =i.. NotionalRHOWUCenter onLGITO+Aginsl <ti, FEOUIAI.TRAOECOO-SSION ReportFraud.ftc.gov ~·--·-..,..,_, cf Offlc.ollnwaorEducatlon Register Today May 14th, 2024 - Reverse Mortgages & Housing Related Scams Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on housing issues, including how to spot, avoid, and report home repair and rental listing scams, and how reverse mortgages work. July 16th, 2024 - Retirement and Long-term Financial Planning Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), and the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) for a free webinar on retirement and long-term financial planning. Speakers from the three agencies will talk about how to protect 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... resources from scammers, steps to becoming a financial caregiver, and information on investing and avoiding investment fraud. September 17th, 2024 - End-of-life planning and your consumer rights Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on end-of-life planning issues. Speakers from FTC and CFPB will speak about: how to shop for funeral services with your consumer rights in mind; your options for longterm care; protections when it comes to nursing home debt collection; and how to take control of your finances after the death of a spouse or partner. Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, May 18th, 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, May 18th ????????? Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment. Featuring performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy and special guest performers Jay Kash & Adonia. . Doors open at 6:30 PM | Game Starts at 7:05 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride Additional Bingo Cards can be purchased at the door for $5. You can buy tickets at the door. Tulsa Pride Bingo Tickets Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Saturday, May 23rd, 7:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Devre Jackson & Friends are bringing Jazz, Blues, and Soul to the Rainbow Room on Thursday, May 23rd. The band includes Devre on vocals, Chuck Fluker on guitar, Dean Demerritt on bass, Nick Mancini on vibraphone, and Johnny D'ova on drums. Rainbow Room Tickets In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Imonaurrn 0 In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -ci=-f■ OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -ci=-f- CulturallyCompetentCarefortllelG8TQ•Commun,1y Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 13 The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ::;;..";:::~:::::::::;:,~., 71 A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com •eoi...., ;.. - 1 n.....,........, - - ----- .,.,,.,,....,k><,oLOtl. AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA S?lTI-RSC:I~T WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhlt:.e-letl2M1upforpeersupportandeducationaboutsyst:.emicracism .,1,'1RN -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, I.alt 1hul'8dau of l!'f8l'll_lllonth at t.ha 111nnia R. lllilEquatitg Cantar mElblt.7..,_ Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. f Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AlyssaB<)antwithlegalAidSeivicesof Oklahomawillbeassistir.gtheLGBTGl+ __ ,_m,_e,__ .,_ ·1hf_"' -•= _•.. . ... ·•-""-"'-" ~-• _ 71 lf)'Ollbel;eveyou',et,e,enaeictim ofhovsingdiscrim;na1ion,please callherat Ql S-236-165&,oremaH heral;alr.lliJl!Y~g Theseservicesareopentoeo;eryo11<1 regardlessofincomear>dare availablethrooghouttheStatefo, GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP TheGendefSupport provides support,educarion,andsocial opportunitiesfor transgender LG BTGl +pernons. n - . , y ~ y of - __, Moneftfrom 12PM-- Fir.,t.time interview is required before atte-ndingyourlirstmeeting. Pleasecontact918-743-4297 71 Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. -------- Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP 7484 ..., GREEN COUNTRY BEARS GreenCountryBear.; isasocial 71 Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Grupo Trans en Espanol elizabe!h.Ofl;z~eq_.o,g Ungn.ipodeapoyopa,ramujeres traosgeoe<oeoespaool ---:7I /I - ------~ .., __ Clldll ~yiiltimo;.-s DeonlsR.NeillEqua!ity,Tuls.a,OK7412& Grupo Trans en Espanol FREE HIV Testing Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. ~ ~ OKLAHOMAN FOR EQUALI TY r--:J 6 21 E 4 TH STREET TULSA OK 74120 ~ ci 8 JAMMOUTT EVEIIY2Nn &; 4'1'H MONDAY § 6:30-7:30PM Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGA LAID ~ SE MV I C F.S ..., ■ 0 0 14 1..<1 110.. . ~. l "c . Julie L Goree with legal Aid Sefvices of ---:71 Oklahoma is available for drop in discussions / <e<;1ardinglega l issues. .......-........... This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic Mffor .... - - . . I 1>9nmslti.ill~ity,Tu!N.OK7412e Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org ----Phone (918)295-9429. - - --- This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center ishostir,gaclinicfornameand At1orne)'JoshPaytonandhisteam willassis111>osewi1hnameand gendercorrecHoos. Can'tma keit inperson?contact in l ~kequalilylaw.comtoschedule a consultation by Zoom. l'-,.H'CondW~ y oflhe ,__,ffi_,_••-m•-•~-•-"'"-'°'- - - - - - monfflfrom5;3111PMto 7PM DMnis R.Neill Equality, Tu1$a, OK 74128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 13 Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Queer Women's Collective Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS A social O<{l,lnlzation for matu,e-mir.ded Gay and Bisexual men 71 Asoclaloro,,ni:aiion tormaturemlndedvaYandblse>:Uill~to ..ubllahfriendshlpandsuppo,i lhrougt,soclallnl«Kllon AttendN& must be 21 ye,irs or old« ._,._...,n..u,,ol _ _ ___. ... _.,,_1Pllfflloff'M Sin Fronteras Tulsa Area Prime Timers Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. , Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Community Partners • • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing = These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. .\11£'1 Get helpapplying for • • : ~!~~i.i::ce Are you a young adult experiencing homelessness or housing instability? S upp l emental P rog r am SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaflol: You may qua lify for the Tulsa Higher Education Consortium's Rapid Rehousing Program. Program requirements include: • Being ages 18-24 • Experiencing homelessness or at-risk of homelessness • Interested in enrolling or currently enrolled in one of the 9 colleges and universities that are in the Consortium contact a Tu lsa Higher Education Consortium Housing Complete this form to be connected to a Mnm::i n o N::au io::atnr• 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Navigator by ema iling jjones@tulsahighered.com / sbrantley@tulsahighered.com ~ TULSA HIGHER I r;;1 I EDUCATION Learn more at bungerfreeok o~/reso11crestsnap/ " ' I - li-..l HUNGER • FREE n I ~ I CONSORTIUM OKLAHOMA www.tulsahighered.com OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Whitney Cipolla - President Paula Shannon - Vice President Eddie Carreno - Treasurer Yonah Jasper - Secretary Kaylyn Compton - Member at Large Board of Directors William Bonney Zoe Brett Grace Fallon Julia Fletcher Ben Matthews Lollie Moore Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Kasey Rhone Staff Andi Gunter - Deputy Director Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm 2024 Equality Gala Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 1AM E UALITY Gala & Benefit I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE o 'clock in the evening complimentary va let Cox Business Convention Center Legac y H a ll , 2nd Floor Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! cocktails I mocktails I dinner theatre live auction I dance party Honorary Chairs Sue W e lc h & Mar c y Smith www.OKEQ.org Sponsorships & Tickets 2024 Tulsa Pride 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Your reigning 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya. ?⚧ ?❤??????????? ⚡Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed decor! We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. ?⚧ ?❤??????????? Pinot Platte: Live Boldly Tuesday, June 4th, 6:30pm - 9pm Pinot's Palette 1621 E 15th St., Tulsa, OK Pl Join us for our second annual Pride, Paint, and Drag Show at Pinot's Palette Cherry Street! We will have a few Drag performances starting at 6:30pm before painting begins at 7pm. This is a Painting it Forward fundraiser for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. $10 from each seat sold will be donated. pJ/1ors PALt.rr, · _ ___ CHERRY STREET 1621 E 15TH ST. TULSA, OK 74120 Live Boldly Tickets This class is held in the studio. We recommend arriving 15-20 minutes early so you can check-in, chat with friends and settle in with one of our signature drinks from our bar. (Try the Frida Fizz or the Pinot Colada!) Painting begins promptly at the start time. Painters must be 13 or older to attend. Ages 13-17 must be accompanied by an adult painter. Guests enjoy a no-experience-required art class— all supplies included—directed by trained, local artists, who guide guests step-by-step through a featured painting. 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SATURDAvJUNE 2 2 N D 2024 Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Saturday, June 22nd, 4pm - 12am The Max Retropub 114 S Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK Join Us For The Ultimate Celebration - The Official Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl on June 22nd. MUSIC , DANCING & DRU I 6+ VINUIS I PHOTOGRAPHIRS FIN AITIR PARTY I A PORTION DI PRDCIIDS BINIIIT: OKLAHOMANS FOR !QUALITY Exclusive Perks: Enjoy Drag Shows ($15 Without Ticket), handpicked inclusive bars, exclusive drink specials, and freebies that are available only to our Pride Bar Crawl participants. Grab your tickets now and let's paint the town in every color of the rainbow! Your love is revolutionary, and united, we can enact positive change. BAR 46, ELOTE CAFE & CATERING, The Hunt Club, RABBIT HOLE BAR & GRILL. THE MAX RETROPUB DRAG SHOW TIME 7PM-9PM AFTER PARTY TIME 10PM - 12AM INNER CIRCLE VODKA BAR Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Tickets ✨DRINK RESPONSIBLY✨ Licensing by Con cord Theat ricals s\ANS EATING A QU. 7CJte S\JS June 28 & 29 Written by: Evan Linder & Andrew Hobgood 5 Lesbians Eating A Quiche June 28th & 29th, 7:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ~ Y.(¼ ~ In 1956, the Susan B. Anthony Society for the Sisters of Gertrude Stein organized their annual quiche breakfast. The event took place in an idyllic town, and the "widows" were eagerly waiting for the announcement of the society's prize-winning quiche. However, the event was interrupted by the sound of atomic bomb sirens, and the "widows" were faced with an attack on their town and way of life. What will they do in response to the threat of communism? 0,1 7i B&Z PRODU CT IO NS in collaboration with $ l\'rC If you're looking for some entertainment, 5 Lesbians Eating a Quiche is a production you might be interested in. It won the Best Overall Production award at the 2012 NYC International Fringe Festival. The show is packed with hilarious laughs, sexual innuendoes, unsuccessful repressions, and delicious discoveries. It stars Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Rooney, Vivica Walkenbach, Amanda Nicols, and Erika Reider. Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre 621 E4th ST Tulsa, OK 74120 Allpr1C11th11 to.1rd, t h Den11isR. N1illEt1H lilrC H lt r '9 918.804.2907 • americantheatrecompany.org a atc@a tctulsa.or1 5 Lesbian Eating Tickets ALL PROCEEDS from ticket sales go to the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. Special Events FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, May 14th, 4pm - 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. t-Ht:t: HIV Know your status today! Every Tuesday from 4PM - 6PM TESTING Get culturally competent care for the ~ 2SLGBTQIA+ community at the Dennis R. Neill / I Equality Center. Put the FUN in l!tmt ~ut FUNDRAISING OKEQ X PIZZA HUT FUNDRAISER Tuesday, May 14th, All Day Pizza Hut 1907 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK ⚡Are you looking for an easy way to make a difference in your community? Look no further! Join Oklahomans for Equality on May 14th by ordering pizza from Pizza Hut at 1907 S Harvard Ave. Show your support for OKEQ - Oklahomans for Equality Tuesday - May 14, 2024 Fundraiser Code: RY ✨You'll not only be treating yourself to some delicious pizza, but you'll also be helping OKEQ. 20% of the proceeds will be donated to the Equality Center, which provides vital resources and support to 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals. So, let's come together and make a positive impact in our community! You can participate in this fundraiser by Dining in, take out, drive-thru, and pick up. ⚡Mark your calendars for May 14th and order from Pizza Hut at 1907 S Harvard Ave to help support Oklahomans for Equality. ORDER ONLINE@ PIZZAHUT.COM Find participating locations at Hutamerican.com/fundraisers OKEQ Pizza Hunt Fundraiser foodra,~,g Milt ~ on~wal,d al ~Jt M'ioelltl~·l1,r<l'l('(j Pma ~.i locat,oos on th!! day spoof,~. Fu'.N1ra,ser ~eo.dudaj from pu'Cfwst ol ale~. ~t. delil'el)' ftttparllfu:urecrofil.Cli'OllPmaHLt.llC. LGBTQ+ Consumer Rights and Protections Tuesday, May 14th SAGE x CFPB x FTC Virtual/Online Session Dates/Topics: May 14th, 2024 - Reverse Mortgages & Housing Related Scams Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on housing issues, including how to spot, avoid, and report home repair and rental listing scams, and how reverse mortgages work. July 16th, 2024 - Retirement and Long-term Financial Planning ⚡ Join this free three-part webinar series for a discussion of consumer rights and protections in housing, retirement, and end-of-life planning. Learn about your rights in the marketplace and how to spot, avoid, and report frauds and scams. This series is hosted by the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Federal Trade Commission, Securities and Exchange Commission, and SAGE National Resource Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), and the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) for a free webinar on retirement and long-term financial planning. Speakers from the three agencies will talk about how to protect resources from scammers, steps to becoming a financial caregiver, and information on investing and avoiding investment fraud. September 17th, 2024 - End-of-life planning and 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Center on LGBTQ+ Aging. your consumer rights Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on end-of-life planning issues. Speakers from FTC and CFPB will speak about: how to shop for funeral services with your consumer rights in mind; your options for longterm care; protections when it comes to nursing home debt collection; and how to take control of your finances after the death of a spouse or partner. Register Today OKEQ Board Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OKEQ Oklahomans for Equality Board Meetings are held every third Thursday of the month from 6pm to 8pm. BOARD MEETING Mami-larEqall!J _ , . . . . . . _ _ to IIOIIEq-llldb RSVP COllll1lllllly. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. ------- --------CIIC- Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, May 18th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, May 18th ????????? Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment. Featuring performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy and special guest performers Jay Kash & Adonia. . Doors open at 6:30 PM | Game Starts at 7:05 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride Additional Bingo Cards can be purchased at the door for $5. You can buy tickets at the door. Tulsa Pride Bingo Tickets Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, May 23rd, 7:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Devre Jackson & Friends are bringing Jazz, Blues, and Soul to the Rainbow Room on Thursday, May 23rd. The band includes Devre on vocals, Chuck Fluker on guitar, Dean Demerritt on bass, Nick Mancini on vibraphone, and Johnny D'ova on drums. Rainbow Room Tickets In Memoriam Iln Meimoriaurrn In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEQ -ci=-«r- HEALTH -ci=-«rCLINIC Cultura lly Comprunt Carr for thr lGBTQ+ Commun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow Library DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ::;;.."7,;:7:.:-:;::,::.:::,~., 71 ASEXUAL AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA 6?1TI-R6CI5T Support Group WE ARE NOW OFFERING ~'F/RN -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. laat Thursdau of BV81'U_fflonth at th8 lllnnia R. lllil Equalitu C8ntllr IIElltst.7-ta Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma Alys.saBf)oantwithLegalAidServiceso! Oklahoma will be assisting the LGBTQ+ _ 71 lfyoubelieveyouVebeeoavictim ofhouslngdiscrimination,please callherat9 18-238-165&,oremai l herat,lJ~~g GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP The Gender Support provides Theseservicesareopentoe,,e,yon• rega,dlessofir,comeandare available throoghouttheStatetor LGBTQ+persons a,..,, .........J' of lne ;:::: '=;;;; m"";;;: ;",;;;; '"'";:::: fai;-"= ::::,;;;;.:., "'-•;:::: lated _ ;,_,oo_, - - ' Monett from 12PM- 4PM. support,educa tioo,andsocial opponunitiesfortransgender First-timeinterviewisrequiredbe!ore attending your first meeting Ptea,;econ!act918-743-42Q7 71 ~ ~"'"- ~ fnlnt 7'Wf09flM DlnnltR.NellE(pM,llty,Tuba. OK7◄12& Dennis R. NeiU Equality, Tul$.a, OK 7◄ 12& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. ------ You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS 7484 .;., GreenCoontryBear.; isasocial '71 Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Jamm Outt a 621 E 4TH STREET TULSA OK 74120 B JAMMOUT 8. f3. EVEIIY2Nn&;4-1'HMONDAY 6:30-7:30P www.oKEQ.onG Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Neill Equality Center. Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGALA rn-t-~ S1mv1cu .... = 01<1AHO.\IA, I NC. .,.._......... ......... 71 ..,. ,......, .... .. --- Name& Gender Correction Clinic tGt . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . JutieLGoreewithLeoatAidServicesof Oklahomaisa•ailablefordropindiscussions regarding legal issues. c.nms1ti.t11~ity,Tu1M.OK7412e Lawyer in the Library Oklahoma for Equa lit~ Law Cen!er is hosting a clinic for name and AttomeyJosl!Paytonandhisteam willassislthosewilhnameand g,enderco,rections. Can't make it in pe,wn? contact inf~kequalitylaw.comtoschedu!e a consultation by Zoom. c.,,.,, ucond W-..sday of the _ ,_~'-"m-"-'"'-"'".... "'-· - - - - - - ' monfflfrom5'3IPMto7PM Do-nnis R. Neill Equality,Tuba,OK.74128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org - - --- - - - Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS A soda! o,ganization for mature-minded GayandBise,ualmeo. A ~ i . org,,niution for ma1uremlnded gay and blse>:ual men 10 fttabllahlriendshipands.upport lhrough1oclallntefactlon. 71 ..,_,.__..,n..cta,,°' Attenden musl be 21 \'NI'S or older _ _ __ _ . . . . . . . . ,,_7"11fl!OH'M Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 , OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGAL AID t h SERVICES O F OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID t h SERVICES O F These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. \11£'1 Get helpapplying for • • :~!~~\i:;ce Are you a young adult experiencing homelessness or housing instability? S upplemental P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espai'iol You may qua lify for the Tulsa Higher Education Consortium's Rapid Rehousing Program. Program requirements include: • Being ages 18-24 • Experiencing homelessness or at-risk of homelessness • Interested in enrolling or currently enrolled in one of the 9 col leges and universities that are in the Consortium contact a Tulsa Higher Education Consortium Housing Navigator by emailin g jjones@tulsahighered.com / sbrantley@tulsahighered.com Complete this form to be connected to a Housing Navigator: TULSA HIGHER EDUCATION Learn more at buogertceeok oq,/resourceslsoap/ CONSORTIUM - li-..l HUNGER • FREE n OKLAHOMA www.tulsahighered.com OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Whitney Cipolla - President Paula Shannon - Vice President Eddie Carreno - Treasurer Yonah Jasper - Secretary Kaylyn Compton - Member at Large Board of Directors William Bonney Zoe Brett Grace Fallon Julia Fletcher Ben Matthews Lollie Moore Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Kasey Rhone Kylie Vanderslice Staff Andi Gunter - Deputy Director Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Sue Welch Board of Advisors Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Tom Vincent Cydney Williams Regis McDaniel - Archivist Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today ! 4/29/26, 12:45 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e762baa01afb70ef7360389aecd5e5a7.pdf b620b085fb5a01bf41831d269bb8578e PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked THE DENNIS A. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER WWW.OICEQ.ORG 918.7&13.&1297 Starting Saturday, May 25th The Dennis R. Neill Equality will be opening at noon on Saturdays 2024 Equality Gala Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 1AM E UALITY Gala & Benefit I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE six o ' clock in the evening complimentary valet Cox Business Convention Center Legacy Hall , 2nd Floor Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! cocktails I mocktails I dinner theatre live auction I dance party Honorary Chairs Sue Welch & Marcy Smith www.OKEQ.org 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sponsorships & Tickets 2024 Tulsa Pride Your reigning 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya. ?⚧ ?❤??????????? f ⚡Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed decor! We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. ?⚧ ?❤??????????? Pinot Platte: Live Boldly Tuesday, June 4th, 6:30pm - 9pm Pinot's Palette 1621 E 15th St., Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Join us for our second annual Pride, Paint, and Drag Show at Pinot's Palette Cherry Street! We will have a few Drag performances starting at 6:30pm before painting begins at 7pm. This is a Painting it Forward fundraiser for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. $10 from each seat sold will be donated. VYors PALt.fT~· -...,.--.CHERRY STREET 1621 E 15TH ST. TULSA, OK 74120 Live Boldly Tickets This class is held in the studio. We recommend arriving 15-20 minutes early so you can check-in, chat with friends and settle in with one of our signature drinks from our bar. (Try the Frida Fizz or the Pinot Colada!) Painting begins promptly at the start time. Painters must be 13 or older to attend. Ages 13-17 must be accompanied by an adult painter. Guests enjoy a no-experience-required art class— all supplies included—directed by trained, local artists, who guide guests step-by-step through a featured painting. EMBRACINC INTERSECTIONAl IDENTlff: A QUEER 8lACK-JEWISN PERSPECTIVE ON JUNETEENTII, JEWISN PRIDE, fl PRIDE MONTN Embracing Intersectional Identity w/ Tony Westbrook Thursday, June 6th, 6:00pm Jewish Federation of Tulsa 2021E 71st St. Tulsa, OK Embracing Intersectional Identity: A Queer Black-Jewish Perspective on Juneteenth, Jewish Pride, and Pride Month” with Jewish influencer Tony Westbrook @/ frumjewishblackboy. THURSDAY, JUNE 6, 7 PM AT TNE JEWISN FEDERATION OF TULSA 2021 E 71st St. Tulsa, OK 74136 Tony Westbrook shares relatable stories, advances Jewish education, and spreads Jewish and Black joy to over 55,000 followers on social media with his motto, “I promise to be Jewish ten times more than anyone hates me for it”. This Pride month, join us for an evening of conversation on navigating and embracing intersectionality within our community Tony Westbrook shares relatable stories, advances Jewish education, and spreads Jewish and Black joy to over 55,000 followers on social media, Join us for an evening of conversation on navigating and embracing intersectionality within our community. RSVP for this free event at JEWISNTUlSA.ORC/CRC-JUNE In partnership with: RSVP Pinot Platte: Live Boldly Saturday, June 8th, 9:00pm The District Bar & Grill 106 S Atlanta St., Owasoo, OK Experience the dazzling start of Pride Month with the 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... captivating performances of The Turrelle Sisters at The District Bar & Grill on Saturday, June 8th at 9 PM for a night filled with glitz, glamour, and pure entertainment. Be prepared to be swept away by the mesmerizing performances of Josie Turrelle, Sasha Turrelle, Scrappy Legacy, Maxine Turrelle, Jazmyn Turrelle, and the reigning Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA At Large 2023, Aurora LeKohl. This isn't just an ordinary show; it's a jubilant celebration brimming with unexpected delights that will keep you enthralled all night long. Don't miss out on the opportunity to win exciting prizes with raffle drawings throughout the evening, generously sponsored by Patricia's In Tulsa. Get ready to be an active part of the event with audience participation activities, graciously presented by The Donut Hole. Indulge in delectable cuisine and take advantage of our drink specials to elevate your evening even further. Additionally, ensure your well-being with the presence of Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) Mobile STD testing, offering free and confidential services to prioritize your health and safety. To secure the best seats, make your table reservations by contacting The District Bar and Grill at 918-274-9006. Let's paint this Pride Month with unforgettable memories, vibrant pride, and pure joy! ??✨ RSVP on Facebook Spectrum of Pride Saturday, June 15th,1PM The Hedge 2606 S Sheridan Rd, Tulsa, OK LET'S CELEBRATE! THE 2ND ANNUAL SPECTRUM .t The 2nd Annual Spectrum of Pride event promises a day filled with comedy, advocacy, performance, and an abundance of community resources. It's an occasion to celebrate diversity and inclusivity while fostering a supportive environment for all. COMEDYiRESOURCESiADVOCACYiPERFORMANCE SATURDAY, JUNE 15TH, 1PM 2606 S. SHERIDAN RD, TULSA AUTISM FOUNDATION of OKLAHOMA SATURDAvJUNE 22ND 2024 Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Saturday, June 22nd, 4pm - 12am The Max Retropub 114 S Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK Join Us For The Ultimate Celebration - The Official Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl on June 22nd. MUSIC , DANCING & DRAG I 6+ VENUES I PHOTOGRAPHERS FIN AITIR PARTY I A PORTION 01 PROCEEDS BENEFIT : OIIAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY Exclusive Perks: Enjoy Drag Shows ($15 Without Ticket), handpicked inclusive bars, exclusive drink specials, and freebies that are available only to our Pride Bar Crawl participants. Grab your tickets now and let's paint the town in every color of the rainbow! Your love is revolutionary, and united, we can enact positive change. BAR 46, ELOTE CAFE & CATERING, The Hunt Club, 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... RABBIT HOLE BAR & GRILL. THE MAX RETROPUB DRAG SHOW TIME 7PM-9PM AFTER PARTY TIME 10PM - 12AM INNER CIRCLE VODKA BAR ~JAWLWITH.US Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Tickets ✨DRINK RESPONSIBLY✨ licensing by Concord Theatricals s\ANS EATING A QU, 70te S~ June 28 &29 Written by: Evan Linder & Andrew Hobgood 5 Lesbians Eating A Quiche June 28th & 29th, 7:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ~ y,(¼ ~ In 1956, the Susan B. Anthony Society for the Sisters of Gertrude Stein organized their annual quiche breakfast. The event took place in an idyllic town, and the "widows" were eagerly waiting for the announcement of the society's prize-winning quiche. However, the event was interrupted by the sound of atomic bomb sirens, and the "widows" were faced with an attack on their town and way of life. What will they do in response to the threat of communism? GI B&Z PROD UCT IO NS in collaboration with If you're looking for some entertainment, 5 Lesbians Eating a Quiche is a production you might be interested in. It won the Best Overall Production award at the 2012 NYC International Fringe Festival. The show is packed with hilarious laughs, sexual innuendoes, unsuccessful repressions, and delicious discoveries. It stars Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Rooney, Vivica Walkenbach, Amanda Nicols, and Erika Reider. Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre 621 E4th ST Tulsa, OK 74120 Allpr1c11tls 11 tow1rdsth Du11iiR.N1i11(,1alitrC111ttr '9 918.804.2907 • americanthutrecompany.or& a atc@alctulsa.orr 5 Lesbian Eating Tickets ALL PROCEEDS from ticket sales go to the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. Special Events FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, May 20th, 4pm - 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. FREE Know your status today! Every Tuesday from 4PM - 6PM HIV TESTING 71 Get culturally competent care for the 2SLGBTGIA+ community at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. UALITY Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, May 23rd, 6pm Tulsa Garden Center 2435 S Peoria Ave., Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ou:;111e::;:; ;-;111011L-t: Join us for this month's Equality Business Alliance Mixer with Tulsa Garden Center Thursday, May 23rd at 6pm l EBA MIXER okeq .com/eba located in the historic Snedden Mansion within Woodward Park, a nonprofit organization whose Tulsa Garden Center ismission is to provide a variety of at Woodward Park horticultural and environmental education opportunities for the community The Equality Business Alliance exists to support businesses in the Tulsa area that and to serve as horticultural headquarters for the Tulsa area. Thursday, May 23rd I 6:ti>GPM 2435 S Peoria Ave. Tulsa, OK Dermis R. Neill Equality Center 918.743.4297 ?⚧?❤??????????????????? The Tulsa Garden Center is a nonprofit organization whose mission is to serve as horticultural headquarters with diverse educational opportunities for our community and to provide exceptional and unique guest experiences within Woodward Park. Tulsa Garden Center fulfills this role by offering numerous lectures, classes, training, plant shows, and special events throughout the year, which are predominantly free for its Members. Additionally, 16 affiliated “Plant Society” organizations such as the Oklahoma Mycological Society, Audubon Society, Sierra Club, Tulsa Rose Society, and Tulsa Garden Club call Tulsa Garden Center home for their horticultural and environmental activities, supplementing our extensive list of educational opportunities with even more events open the public. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, May 23rd, 7:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Devre Jackson & Friends are bringing Jazz, Blues, and Soul to the Rainbow Room on Thursday, May 23rd. -i:r---~ - 2 :.:. nn 1 - ~- . - The band includes Devre on vocals, Chuck Fluker on guitar, Dean Demerritt on bass, Nick Mancini on vibraphone, and Johnny D'ova on drums. + + Rainbow Room Tickets LGBTQ+ Consumer Rights and Protections Tuesday, May 14th SAGE x CFPB x FTC Virtual/Online Session Dates/Topics: July 16th, 2024 - Retirement and Long-term Financial Planning Hosted & Presented By: ,p F~OEIW..TRAOEC~ ReportFraud.ft:c.gov cf Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), and the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) for a free webinar on retirement and long-term financial planning. Speakers from the three agencies will talk about how to protect resources from scammers, steps to becoming a financial caregiver, and information on investing and avoiding investment fraud. f Join this free three-part webinar series for a ⚡ September 17th, 2024 - End-of-life planning and your consumer rights This series is hosted by the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Federal Trade Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on end-of-life planning issues. Speakers from FTC and CFPB will speak about: how to shop for funeral services with your consumer rights in mind; your options for longterm care; protections when it comes to nursing home discussion of consumer rights and protections in housing, retirement, and end-of-life planning. Learn about your rights in the marketplace and how to spot, avoid, and report frauds and scams. 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Commission, Securities and Exchange Commission, and SAGE National Resource Center on LGBTQ+ Aging. debt collection; and how to take control of your finances after the death of a spouse or partner. Register Today In Memoriam Il111 Me1111oriarrn In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -=,= OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -=,= Cultur• llyCompetentC• reforthetGl:ITQ+Commun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality : c : : " '[qooOt,j>""><1"'.°'. 71 A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA S?lTI-RSCI5T WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group RwhiU-led2roupforpeersupportandeducationaboutSJ1stemicracism .,#FF/RN -CAREGIVER1aat 1hursdau of ~.inonth at th8 ll8nnia R.llail Eq1l8litg C8nt8r Affirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. m£111st. 7-1:Ml Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AlyssaB(YantwithLegalAidSeJViceso! Oklahoma will be assisting the LGBTQ+ 71 lfyoubelieveyou'vebeeoa•ictim of housing discrimination.please caUherat918-238-165&,oremai l heratil~~g GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP The Gender Support provides Thesese,,,icesareopentoeveryone rega,dlessofincomeandare available throughouttheStatetor LGBTQ+persons n.,y ~ y of 1ne ___:'== ==":::::, ity :::; wit";;;; fai,;;;; "= ; ;;;"' ;:,,; ·•;;; lated ;;;,..;';'oo;;;,.. ;;; • - - ' Moflctt'1om 12PM-~ support,educatioo,andsocial opporiunitiesfortransgender andintersexindividuals First-timeinterviewisrequiredbe!ore attendingyourliri;tmeeting Pteasecontact918-743-4297 71 ~~ollnol' m.Nltfnlm7'WfD9PM OlllnkR.Nell[(pM,llty,TulSa. OK74126 Dennis R. NeiU Equality, Tul$a, OK 74129 Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. -------- Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. o f! 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SCOUT TROOP GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS 7484 .;. Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Fruity Pebbles Fruity Pebbles is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 13 to 17. ?⚧❤?????????? Every ✨Saturday from 1PM to 5PM✨ Fruity Pebbles gives youth opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutualaid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack/lunch is provided. For questions, please email shay.brewer@okeq.org for parent/guardian enrollment. This group meets every Saturday of the month at 1pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGALAID ~ SEMV I CF.S o• ■ ; Na Gender Correction Cl·1n1·c "'="'""'""~""'"'•"·· M,,~,,.,, .... M,.~-·"" gendercorrec11oos. C_ao·1 ma ke;t inperson?contact 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 15 0Kl-'Ho.,u, I NC. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 71 ..,.....,,......, .. 9G9•---~ Julie L Goree with Leoat AiclSeMces of Ok lahomaisasailableforclropincliscussions regarding lega l issues. --- DennlsR.Nelll[Cluallty,Tutu,OK7•t28 Lawyer in the Library Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center is hosting a clink for name and inf~ keq_ualir;'law.comtoschedu!e a consultation by Zoom. c.,,.,, ucond W-..sday of the ,--'';..~_,._,m _"_'"-'-" '.;; "o« _ __ _ _ __. month from 5:38PM to 7PM ~nis R.NeiUEquality,Tulu,OK7•128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS ( OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Relationships Outside the Box 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS A social oroa,niution lot maturernlnded gay and blse,cual ~ to _____ ntablltl,lrieodshipandMlppo,1 71 ._,.__..,n..c,ay°' lhrOUQt,IOCiallnlefactlon. A socia! <><ganization !or mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men AttendNs must be 21 l'N~ or older _..,,_,..,.""" Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 ~ OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • • LEGALAID t tz:. SERVICES OF LEGAL AID t tz:. SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing = These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. JIISCi) Get help- Are you a young adult experiencing homelessness or housing instability? s ,pplemental • • N utrition nnnlv1nn fnr ~ ~ _, ... __ ,_. ___ _ Vni1 m::iv m1::i l ifv fnr thP T11k::i l-li ohi:ir J:'rl11r::it inn r.nn<:nrtinm ' <: R:rnirl 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rehousing Program. Program requirements include: • Being ages 18-24 • Experiencing homelessness or at-risk of homelessness • Interested in enroll ing or currently enrolled in one of the 9 col leges and universities that are in the Consortium SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefi ts in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760:0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: contact a Tulsa Higher Education Consortium Housing Navigator by emailing jjones@tulsahighered.com / sbrantley@tulsahighered.com Pedir una llamada en espaliol: Complete this form to be connected to a Housing Navigator: TULSA HIGHER EDUCATION Learn more at bungerfreeok o~/resrn,rcestsnap/ CONSORTIUM - L-..1 HUNGER FREE nn OKLAHOMA www.tulsahighered.com OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Whitney Cipolla - President Paula Shannon - Vice President Eddie Carreno - Treasurer Yonah Jasper - Secretary Kaylyn Compton - Member at Large Board of Directors Staff Andi Gunter - Deputy Director Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Tom Vincent Cydney Williams Regis McDaniel - Archivist Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:46 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/09a473963e9ae304fec015e0e6f5a709.pdf bd0f7879d2059dab2137ea7c87a20db5 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked THE DENNIS A. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER WWW.OICEQ.ORG 918.7&13.&1297 Starting Saturday, May 25th The Dennis R. Neill Equality will be opening at noon on Saturdays 2024 Equality Gala Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 1AM E UALITY Gala & Benefit I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE six o ' clock in the evening complimentary valet Cox Business Convention Center Legacy Hall , 2nd Floor Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! cocktails I mocktails I dinner theatre live auction I dance party Honorary Chairs Sue Welch & Marcy Smith www.OKEQ.org 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sponsorships & Tickets 2024 Tulsa Pride Your reigning 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya. ?⚧?❤????????????? f ⚡Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed decor! We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. ?⚧?❤????????????? Pinot Platte: Live Boldly Tuesday, June 4th, 6:30pm - 9pm Pinot's Palette 1621 E 15th St., Tulsa, OK Join us for our second annual Pride, Paint, and Drag 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Show at Pinot's Palette Cherry Street! We will have a few Drag performances starting at 6:30pm before painting begins at 7pm. This is a Painting it Forward fundraiser for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. $10 from each seat sold will be donated. VYors PALt.fT~· -...,.--.CHERRY STREET 1621 E 15TH ST. TULSA, OK 74120 Live Boldly Tickets lMBRACINC INTERSECTIONAL IDENTlff: A QUEER BLACK-JEWISN PERSPECTIVE ON JUNETEENTII, JEWISN PRIDE, fl PRIDE MONTN This class is held in the studio. We recommend arriving 15-20 minutes early so you can check-in, chat with friends and settle in with one of our signature drinks from our bar. (Try the Frida Fizz or the Pinot Colada!) Painting begins promptly at the start time. ?⚧?❤????????????? Painters must be 13 or older to attend. Ages 13-17 must be accompanied by an adult painter. Guests enjoy a no-experience-required art class—all supplies included—directed by trained, local artists, who guide guests step-by-step through a featured painting. Embracing Intersectional Identity w/ Tony Westbrook Thursday, June 6th, 6:00pm Jewish Federation of Tulsa 2021E 71st St. Tulsa, OK Embracing Intersectional Identity: A Queer Black-Jewish Perspective on Juneteenth, Jewish Pride, and Pride Month” with Jewish influencer Tony Westbrook @/ frumjewishblackboy. THURSDAY, JUNE 6, 7 PM AT TNE JEWISN FEDERATION OF TULSA 2021 E 71st St. Tulsa, OK 74136 Tony Westbrook shares relatable stories, advances Jewish education, and spreads Jewish and Black joy to over 55,000 followers on social media. Join us for an evening of conversation on navigating and embracing intersectionality within our community. Tony Westbrook shares relatable stories, advances Jewish education, and spreads Jewish and Black joy to over 55,000 followers on social media with his motto, “I promise to be Jewish ten times more than anyone hates me for it”. This Pride month, join us for an evening of conversation on navigating and embracing intersectionality within our community ?⚧?❤????????????? RSVP for this free event at JEWISNTULSA.ORC/CRC-JUNE In partnership with: RSVP Turrelle Sister's Drag Show Saturday, June 8th, 9:00pm The District Bar & Grill 106 S Atlanta St., Owasso, OK Experience the dazzling start of Pride Month with the captivating performances of The Turrelle Sisters at The District Bar & Grill on Saturday, June 8th at 9 PM for a night filled with glitz, glamour, and pure entertainment. Be prepared to be swept away by the mesmerizing performances of Josie Turrelle, Sasha Turrelle, Scrappy 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... RSVP on Facebook LET'S CELEBRATE! THE 2ND ANNUAL SPECTRUM Legacy, Maxine Turrelle, Jazmyn Turrelle, and the reigning Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA At Large 2023, Aurora LeKohl. This isn't just an ordinary show; it's a jubilant celebration brimming with unexpected delights that will keep you enthralled all night long. Don't miss out on the opportunity to win exciting prizes with raffle drawings throughout the evening, generously sponsored by Patricia's In Tulsa. Get ready to be an active part of the event with audience participation activities, graciously presented by The Donut Hole. Indulge in delectable cuisine and take advantage of our drink specials to elevate your evening even further. Additionally, ensure your well-being with the presence of Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) Mobile STD testing, offering free and confidential services to prioritize your health and safety. To secure the best seats, make your table reservations by contacting The District Bar and Grill at 918-274-9006. Let's paint this Pride Month with unforgettable memories, vibrant pride, and pure joy! ??✨ Spectrum of Pride Saturday, June 15th,1PM The Hedge 2606 S Sheridan Rd, Tulsa, OK The 2nd Annual Spectrum of Pride event promises a day filled with comedy, advocacy, performance, and an abundance of community resources. ?⚧?❤????????????? It's an occasion to celebrate diversity and inclusivity while fostering a supportive environment for all. COMEDYIRESOURCESiADVOCACYiPERFORMANCE SATURDAY, JUNE 15TH, 1PM 2606 S. SHERIDAN RD, TULSA AUTISM FOUNDATION of OKLAHOMA SATURDAvJUNE 22ND 2024 Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Saturday, June 22nd, 4pm - 12am The Max Retropub 114 S Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK Join Us For The Ultimate Celebration - The Official Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl on June 22nd. ?⚧?❤????????????? MUSIC , DANCING & DRAG I 6+ VENUES I PHOTOGRAPHERS FIN AFTIR PARTY I A PORTION Of PROCEEDS BINIFIT: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY Exclusive Perks: Enjoy Drag Shows ($15 Without Ticket), handpicked inclusive bars, exclusive drink specials, and freebies that are available only to our Pride Bar Crawl participants. Grab your tickets now and let's paint the town in every color of the rainbow! Your love is revolutionary, and united, we can enact positive change. BAR 46, ELOTE CAFE & CATERING, The Hunt Club, RABBIT HOLE BAR & GRILL. THE MAX RETROPUB DRAG SHOW TIME 7PM-9PM AFTER PARTY TIME 10PM - 12AM INNER CIRCLE VODKA BAR 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Tickets ✨DRINK RESPONSIBLY✨ Turrelle Sister's Bingo: Pride Edition Saturday, June 22nd, 8pm The Raw Center 1227 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK ⚡The Turrelle Sisters and The RAW Center are excited to bring you the Turrelle Sisters' Bingo: PRIDE EDITION celebrating Pride Month on June 22nd Come play FREE BINGO and WIN some fun prizes!! $10 DOOR COVER w/ Partial Proceeds from the door cover will be donated to OKEQ and The RAW Center) ?⚧?❤????????????? BINGO IS FREE (8 Games + 1 SUPER GAME) | 18+ with valid ID Facebook RSVP licensing by Concord Theatricals s\f'.NS EATING A QU. 7CJ.fe S\J-5 June 28 &29 Written by, Evan Linder & Andrew Hobgood 7i B&Z PRODUCTIONS in collaboration with $ IHC Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre 621 E4th ST Tulsa, OK 74120 Allpr1c11tls 11 ta.1rds th D1n11i1R. N1ill(.11litrC111t1r '3 91 8.804.2907 8 americantheatrecompany.or1 a atc@a tctulsa.orr 5 Lesbian Eating Tickets ALL PROCEEDS from ticket sales go to the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. 5 Lesbians Eating A Quiche June 28th & 29th, 7:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK In 1956, the Susan B. Anthony Society for the Sisters of Gertrude Stein organized their annual quiche breakfast. The event took place in an idyllic town, and the "widows" were eagerly waiting for the announcement of the society's prize-winning quiche. However, the event was interrupted by the sound of atomic bomb sirens, and the "widows" were faced with an attack on their town and way of life. What will they do in response to the threat of communism? If you're looking for some entertainment, 5 Lesbians Eating a Quiche is a production you might be interested in. It won the Best Overall Production award at the 2012 NYC International Fringe Festival. The show is packed with hilarious laughs, sexual innuendoes, unsuccessful repressions, and delicious discoveries. It stars Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Rooney, Vivica Walkenbach, Amanda Nicols, and Erika Reider. ?⚧?❤????????????? TahlEquality's 10th Pride Picnic & June 29th & 30th, 12:00pm 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Norris Park 400 N Muskogee Ave, Tahlequah, OK Get ready to join us for Pride in the Park on Saturday, 6/29, with the kick-off at 12pm with a drag show at Ned's (18+ with valid ID) and a campout on the river in the evening. Sunday 6/30, there will be a float trip, more details to come. The events will be family-friendly, except for the adult after-show at Ned's. Let's celebrate our 10th anniversary with s'mores, hotdogs, families, and good humor during June LGBT month! ?⚧?❤????????????? Please stay tuned for updates and RSVP on facebook to stay up to date for all things TahlEquality. TahlEquality 10th Annual Pride Celebration Special Events FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, May 28th, 4pm - 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. FREE Know your status today! Every Tuesday from 4PM - 6PM HIV TESTING Get culturally competent care for the 2SLGBTGIA+ community at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 71 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, May 30th, 6pm Tulsa Garden Center 2435 S Peoria Ave., Tulsa, OK Join us for this month's Equality Business Alliance Mixer with Tulsa Garden Center on Thursday, May 30th at 6pm ?⚧?❤??????????????????? The Tulsa Garden Center is a nonprofit organization whose mission is to serve as horticultural headquarters with diverse educational opportunities for our community and to provide exceptional and unique guest experiences within Woodward Park. Tulsa Garden Center fulfills this role by offering numerous lectures, classes, training, plant shows, and special events throughout the year, which are predominantly free for its 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Members. Additionally, 16 affiliated “Plant Society” organizations such as the Oklahoma Mycological Society, Audubon Society, Sierra Club, Tulsa Rose Society, and Tulsa Garden Club call Tulsa Garden Center home for their horticultural and environmental activities, supplementing our extensive list of educational opportunities with even more events open the public. UALITY Business Alliance l EBA MIXER - okeq.com/ eba located in the historic Snedden Mansion within Woodward Park, a nonprofit organization whose Tulsa Garden Center ismission is to provide a variety of at Woodward Park The Equality Business Alliance exists to horticultural and environmental education opportunities for the community and to serve as horticultural headquarters for the Tulsa area. Thursday, May 23n1 I 6:0m>M 2435 S Peoria Ave. Tulsa, OK Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 918.743.4297 Blended Saturday, June 29th, 12 Noon Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This peer-led support group is for parents in ono-traditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents etc.) Free childcare is also available! For more information email 2022blended@gmail.com A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-blo parents, bonus parents, etc). Free chi ldcare is also available ! Please join us at NOON on JUNE 29th at OKEQ! For questions, email 20 22bleoded@gDJ.s.i.l..&.Qm • LGBTQ+ Consumer Rights and Protections Tuesday, June 14th SAGE x CFPB x FTC Virtual/Online Session Dates/Topics: July 16th, 2024 - Retirement and Long-term Financial Planning cf \...,,., _ _ O , otl'luof-orEduatlon ⚡ Join this free three-part webinar series for a discussion of consumer rights and protections Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), and the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) for a free webinar on retirement and long-term financial planning. Speakers from the three agencies will talk about how to protect resources from scammers, steps to becoming a financial caregiver, and information on investing and avoiding investment fraud. September 17th, 2024 - End-of-life planning and your consumer rights 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... in housing, retirement, and end-of-life planning. Learn about your rights in the marketplace and how to spot, avoid, and report frauds and scams. This series is hosted by the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Federal Trade Commission, Securities and Exchange Commission, and SAGE National Resource Center on LGBTQ+ Aging. Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on end-of-life planning issues. Speakers from FTC and CFPB will speak about: how to shop for funeral services with your consumer rights in mind; your options for longterm care; protections when it comes to nursing home debt collection; and how to take control of your finances after the death of a spouse or partner. Register Today In Memoriam Il1 Meimoriaurrn In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-cr- HEALTH -ci=-crCLINIC CulturallyCompeuntCar•forthelGBTQ•Communlty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow Library DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up ASEXUAL Aces Committed Equality =o;.::~.'s":.:.::::.:::' 71 • A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA 6?1TI-RSCI5T Support Group WE ARE NOW OFFERING .,1,'1RN -CAREGIVERlastlhursdau of ~_month at th8 ll8nni8 R.llail EqU8litg C8nt8r Affirm Caregiver mEllllt.7-1:Ml AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. Craa.::J.m~S:.arut~r::r, individuals llllllina t.a ~sustamic racism in tbir • liva Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AtyssaB,yantwithlegalAidServiceso! OklahomawillbeassistingtheLGBTQ+ _ 71 lfl'Qubelieveyou\oe~avictim ofhoosingdiscrimination,please callheratQ18-238-165ISl, orema H her 31 ~ n a J I D ~ g GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP TheGende,Supponprovides Theseservicesareopento<Ne,yone regardlessofiocomeandare availablethroughoul theStatel0< LGBTGl+l)<!™"1S. CllffY-yoflhe ;,;;. =;;; ="...;. ""...;. "'ith_, fai_,; '"= - •"O.;._·•-·"-'"'-'~-• - - Mantfl from 121'M-- suppon,education,andsocial oppOrtunitie,sfor transgender andintersexindividuals. First-time interview is required beforn attending your first meeting. Pleasecontactll18-743-421l7 71 L«.uAm t o.........:.., __ ·- Dennis R. Nei\l Equality, Tulsa,01(7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. -------- 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS 7484 .;.. Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Fruity Pebbles Fruity Pebbles is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 13 to 17. 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ?⚧❤?????????? Every ✨Saturday from 1PM to 5PM✨ Fruity Pebbles gives youth opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutualaid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack/lunch is provided. For questions, please email shay.brewer@okeq.org for parent/guardian enrollment. This group meets every Saturday of the month at 1pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGALA ID~~ SERV I CESo• I: 0KIAIIO .. . .<, ( S"C, ....·~ 71 ----...,....,,___.,_ Gender Correction Clinic Mfffll ..... . _ _ JulieLGofeewithlegalAid5efvlcesof Oklahomaisavailablelordr<>11indiscussions regardinglega l issUM. --- c.Mbll'-l!l~lty.Tubt. OK74129 Lawyer in the Library Oklahoma !or Equa lity Law Ceoter is hosting a clinic for name and Anorne)'Josh Paytonandhisteam wi llass;s11t>osewi1hnameand gendercO<Tec1ions. Can'1 ma keit lnpen.on?contac1 inl~ kequalitylaw.comtoschedule a consultation by Zoom. a.,, wcond w~ yof rite __,_M _,._,m _•_·~-'-"'-"'"' - ·- - - - - - momfl t,om 5:39PM to 7PM O.-OnisR.NeillEqu.ality, Tulsa, OK.74 129 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org --- --- ----Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS Denms R Neill Equat,ty Tuts.a OK 74128 OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS Asocia!o,ganizationformature-minoed GayandBlse,ualmen _ 71 A tcX"lal organization for matu~ rnlnd9d~andbisex1,1;11,....,10 ftUbllshlriendshipand$l,ll)l)Ol't llvvugt,10Cialln1.,Ktion AttendNs must be 21 ye.,rs or l'wwy---,n-.,,o1 _ _ _ _ , . . . . . . . ,,_7Nllio ..... Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 , OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA :r:rour.~ 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners LEGAL AID SERVICES OF Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • t tz. = LEGAL AID SERVICES OF • t tz. = OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Oklahomans for Equality and the 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. applying for , • Are you a young adult experiencing homelessness or housing instability? s ,pplemental : ~!~~'ti~:ce Program SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English· Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. JIIS'1 Get h e l p . Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Pedir una llamada en espai\ol You may qua lify for the Tulsa Hi gher Education Consortium's Rapid Rehousing Program. Program requirements include: • Being ages 18-24 • Experiencing homelessness or at-risk of homelessness • Interested in enroll ing or currently enrolled in one of the 9 col leges and universities that are in the Consortium contact a Tulsa Higher Education Consortium Housing Navigator by ema ilin g Complete this form to be connected to a Housing Navigator: jjones@tulsahighered.com / sbrantley@tulsahighered.com TULSA HIGHER EDUCATION Learn more at buogertceeok om/resrn,cceslsoap/ CONSORTIUM www.tulsahighered.com OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Whitney Cipolla - President Paula Shannon - Vice President Eddie Carreno - Treasurer Yonah Jasper - Secretary Kaylyn Compton - Member at Large Board of Directors William Bonney Zoe Brett Grace Fallon Julia Fletcher Ben Matthews Lollie Moore Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Kasey Rhone Kylie Vanderslice Staff Andi Gunter - Deputy Director Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Sue Welch Board of Advisors Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Tom Vincent Cydney Williams Regis McDaniel - Archivist Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:48 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4149ea58c4007ccd54a5e1f73256b661.pdf a09f132686f179eb89db9469825f967f PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked THE DENNIS A. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER WWW.OICEQ.ORG 918.7&13.&1297 Starting Saturday, May 25th The Dennis R. Neill Equality will be opening at noon on Saturdays 2024 Equality Gala Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 1AM E UALITY Gala & Benefit I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE six o ' clock in the evening complimentary valet Cox Business Convention Center Legacy Hall , 2nd Floor Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! cocktails I mocktails I dinner theatre live auction I dance party Honorary Chairs Sue Welch & Marcy Smith www.OKEQ.org 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sponsorships & Tickets 2024 Tulsa Pride 2024 PRIDE EVENTS 2024 PRIDE EVENTS 2024 PRIDE EVENTS ?⚧ HAPPY PRIDE MONTH OKLAHOMA ?⚧ Tulsa Pride may have moved to October but we're still celebrating PRIDE all month long!! Check out these PRIDE events that are happening around town and some of the Pride events that benefit Oklahomans for Equality! We wish everybody and our community partners a FUN, SAFE, and LOVING month of PRIDE and we hope to see y'all at the Be Your Own Masterpiece Equality Gala on June 22nd! " ?⚧?❤????????????? For more information visit www.okeq.org! Your reigning 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Hoya. ?⚧?❤????????????? ⚡Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed decor! We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. ?⚧?❤????????????? Pinot Platte: Live Boldly Tuesday, June 4th, 6:30pm - 9pm Pinot's Palette 1621 E 15th St., Tulsa, OK Join us for our second annual Pride, Paint, and Drag Show at Pinot's Palette Cherry Street! We will have a few Drag performances starting at 6:30pm before painting begins at 7pm. This is a Painting it Forward fundraiser for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. $10 from each seat sold will be donated. pl/foTs PALqTi · - . ~ CHERRY STREET 1621 E ISTH ST. TULSA, OK 74120 This class is held in the studio. We recommend arriving 15-20 minutes early so you can check-in, chat with friends and settle in with one of our signature drinks from our bar. (Try the Frida Fizz or the Pinot Colada!) Painting begins promptly at the start time. ?⚧?❤????????????? Painters must be 13 or older to attend. Ages 13-17 must be accompanied by an adult painter. Guests enjoy a no-experience-required art class—all supplies included—directed by trained, local artists, who guide guests step-by-step through a featured painting. Live Boldly Tickets 'EMBRACINC INTERSECTIONAl IDENTlff: A QUEER BlACK-JEWISN PERSPECTIVE ON JUNET'EENTNi JEWISN PRIDE, fl PRIDE MONTN Embracing Intersectional Identity w/ Tony Westbrook Thursday, June 6th, 6:00pm Jewish Federation of Tulsa 2021E 71st St. Tulsa, OK Embracing Intersectional Identity: A Queer Black-Jewish Perspective on Juneteenth, Jewish Pride, and Pride Month” with Jewish influencer Tony Westbrook @/ frumjewishblackboy. THURSDAY, JUNE 6, 7 PM AT TNE JEWISN FEDERATION OF TUlSA 2027 E 71st St. Tulsa, OK 74136 Tony Westbrook shares relatable stories, adva nces Jewish education, and spreads Jewish and Black joy to over 55,000 followers on social media. Join us for an evening of conversation on navigating and ' ,.. , , ,, Tony Westbrook shares relatable stories, advances Jewish education, and spreads Jewish and Black joy to over 55,000 followers on social media with his motto, “I promise to be Jewish ten times more than anyone hates me for it”. This Pride month, join us for an evening of conversation on navigating and embracing intersectionality within our community ?⚧?❤????????????? .. 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... emoracing in1ersec11ona111y w1min our communny, RSVP for this free event at JEWISNTUlSA.ORC/CRC-JUNE In partnership with: RSVP Turrelle Sister's Drag Show Saturday, June 8th, 9:00pm The District Bar & Grill 106 S Atlanta St., Owasso, OK Experience the dazzling start of Pride Month with the captivating performances of The Turrelle Sisters at The District Bar & Grill on Saturday, June 8th at 9 PM for a night filled with glitz, glamour, and pure entertainment. RSVP on Facebook LET'S CELEBRATE! THE 2ND ANNUAL SPECTRUM Be prepared to be swept away by the mesmerizing performances of Josie Turrelle, Sasha Turrelle, Scrappy Legacy, Maxine Turrelle, Jazmyn Turrelle, and the reigning Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA At Large 2023, Aurora LeKohl. This isn't just an ordinary show; it's a jubilant celebration brimming with unexpected delights that will keep you enthralled all night long. Don't miss out on the opportunity to win exciting prizes with raffle drawings throughout the evening, generously sponsored by Patricia's In Tulsa. Get ready to be an active part of the event with audience participation activities, graciously presented by The Donut Hole. Indulge in delectable cuisine and take advantage of our drink specials to elevate your evening even further. Additionally, ensure your well-being with the presence of Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) Mobile STD testing, offering free and confidential services to prioritize your health and safety. To secure the best seats, make your table reservations by contacting The District Bar and Grill at 918-274-9006. Let's paint this Pride Month with unforgettable memories, vibrant pride, and pure joy! ??✨ Spectrum of Pride Saturday, June 15th,1PM The Hedge 2606 S Sheridan Rd, Tulsa, OK The 2nd Annual Spectrum of Pride event promises a day filled with comedy, advocacy, performance, and an abundance of community resources. ?⚧?❤????????????? It's an occasion to celebrate diversity and inclusivity while fostering a supportive environment for all. COMEDYiRESOURCESiADYOCACYiPERFORMANCE SATURDAY, JUNE 15TH, 1PM 2606 S. SHERIDAN RD, TULSA .. •····•. ~~ ! ,l. u l. .\ ~ 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa Oilers Football Saturday, June 15th, 7PM BOK CENTER 200 S Dever Ave, Tulsa, OK ?Join the Tulsa Oilers football team as they take on Sioux Falls Storm at the BOK Center on June 15th at 7PM and get that W! Donate $6 to Oklahomans for Equality and get 1 ticket or $10 and get 2 tickets! Let's fill the stands with PRIDE and enjoy Pride Month with the Tulsa Oilers! ?⚧?❤????????????? Once you donate email kao.morris@okeq.org with the first and last name associated with the donation. TICKETS SATURDAY, JUNE 15TH UM TAHLEQUAH PUBLIC LIBRARY 9:00AM-3:00PM TWO SPIRIT SYM FREE INDIAN TACO MEAL AT5:00PM STOMP DANCE HONORING TWO SPIRIT PEOPLE 1ST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH ACTIVITY BUI LDING 6:00PM-10:00PM WEBSITE: TAHLEQUAH2SCELEBRATION. MY.CANVA.SITE VENDORS CONTACT YOUNGDEER1491@GMAILCO 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... But I'm A Cheerleader Thursday, June 20th, 7:30PM Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK TICKETS Circle Cinema is proud to partner with Twisted Arts for "Drag Me to the Movies," a new monthly retro screening series! Kicking it off a special screening of the cult classic “But I’m a Cheerleader” on June 20. But wait, there’s more! Before the main event, our talented local performers hilariously parody the film. Featuring the fabulous lineup of Adonia Hunter, Laura Cook, Londenn Davenport Raine, Missy MG, and Tracy La Louisianne. Tickets $10 Circle members, $12 non-members. Expect the unexpected and remember “Foreplay is for sissies!” or “I get good grades! I go to church! I’m a cheerleader!” Megan (Natasha Lyonne) considers herself a typical American girl. She excels in school and cheerleading, and she has a handsome football-playing boyfriend, even though she isn't that crazy about him. So she's stunned when her parents decide she's gay and send her to True Directions, a boot camp meant to alter her sexual orientation. While there, Megan meets a rebellious and unashamed teen lesbian, Graham (Clea DuVall). Though Megan still feels confused, she starts to have feelings for Graham. Learn more about the performers at Twistedfest.org/ dragmovies. Founded in Tulsa, OK, Twisted Arts was created to highlight local, national, and international LGBTQ2S+ artists through year-round programs which include an annual fall film festival, monthly film screenings & performances, an LGBTQ2S+ youth filmmaking Summer camp, members-only sneak peeks, access to year-round short films, special events, and private screenings with directors, actors, and other queer media icons. SATURDAvJUNE 22ND 2024 Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Saturday, June 22nd, 4pm - 12am The Max Retropub 114 S Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK Join Us For The Ultimate Celebration - The Official Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl on June 22nd. ?⚧?❤????????????? MUSIC , DANCING & DRU I 6+ IINUIS I PHOTOGBIPHIBS FIN AFTIR PARTY I A PORTION 01 PBOCIIDS BINIIIT : OKLAHOMANS FOR !QUALITY "- Exclusive Perks: Enjoy Drag Shows ($15 Without Ticket), handpicked inclusive bars, exclusive drink specials, and freebies that are available only to our Pride Bar Crawl participants. Grab your tickets now and let's paint the town in every color of the rainbow! Your love is revolutionary, and united, we can enact positive change. 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~ Tulsa 01( WW Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Tickets BAR 46, ELOTE CAFE & CATERING, The Hunt Club, RABBIT HOLE BAR & GRILL. THE MAX RETROPUB DRAG SHOW TIME 7PM-9PM AFTER PARTY TIME 10PM - 12AM INNER CIRCLE VODKA BAR ✨DRINK RESPONSIBLY✨ Turrelle Sister's Bingo: Pride Edition Saturday, June 22nd, 8pm The Raw Center 1227 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK ⚡The Turrelle Sisters and The RAW Center are excited to bring you the Turrelle Sisters' Bingo: PRIDE EDITION celebrating Pride Month on June 22nd Come play FREE BINGO and WIN some fun prizes!! $10 DOOR COVER w/ Partial Proceeds from the door cover will be donated to OKEQ and The RAW Center) ?⚧?❤????????????? BINGO IS FREE (8 Games + 1 SUPER GAME) | 18+ with valid ID Facebook RSVP licensing by Concord Theatricals . cc.,£,\ANS EATING A QU. 70te S \_,\;,u' June 28 & 29 Written by, Evan Under & Andrew Hobgood 3 B&Z PRODUCTIONS in collaboration with Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre 621 E4th ST Tulsa, OK 74120 Allpr1c11tls11 to.uds th Du11iiR. N1i11l,111ityC111ttr '9 918.804.290) 8 americantheatrecompany.or1 a atc@atctulsa.orr 5 Lesbian Eating Tickets ALL PROCEEDS from ticket sales go to 5 Lesbians Eating A Quiche June 28th & 29th, 7:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK In 1956, the Susan B. Anthony Society for the Sisters of Gertrude Stein organized their annual quiche breakfast. The event took place in an idyllic town, and the "widows" were eagerly waiting for the announcement of the society's prize-winning quiche. However, the event was interrupted by the sound of atomic bomb sirens, and the "widows" were faced with an attack on their town and way of life. What will they do in response to the threat of communism? If you're looking for some entertainment, 5 Lesbians Eating a Quiche is a production you might be interested in. It won the Best Overall Production award at the 2012 NYC International Fringe Festival. The show is packed with hilarious laughs, sexual innuendoes, unsuccessful repressions, and delicious discoveries. It stars Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Rooney, Vivica Walkenbach, Amanda Nicols, and Erika Reider. ?⚧?❤????????????? 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. TahlEquality's 10th Pride Picnic & June 29th & 30th, 12:00pm Norris Park 400 N Muskogee Ave, Tahlequah, OK Get ready to join us for Pride in the Park on Saturday, 6/29, with the kick-off at 12pm with a drag show at Ned's (18+ with valid ID) and a campout on the river in the evening. Sunday 6/30, there will be a float trip, more details to come. The events will be family-friendly, except for the adult after-show at Ned's. Let's celebrate our 10th anniversary with s'mores, hotdogs, families, and good humor during June LGBT month! ?⚧?❤????????????? Please stay tuned for updates and RSVP on facebook to stay up to date for all things TahlEquality. TahlEquality 10th Annual Pride Celebration Special Events FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, June 4th, 4pm - 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. FREE HIV Know your status today! Every Tuesday from 4PM - 6PM TESTING Dennis R Neill Equality Tulsa OK 741261 ~ 916 743 4297 o~@ One . upon a tim~ .. , lilwiWlii"!:! l,fl,1 /1 ~L/'\.IU"l.ll.l· tr\J~ Once Upon A Time... Friday, June 7th & 8th, 8pm Fellowship Congregational UCC 2900 S Havard, Tulsa, OK Enjoy this musical narrative of a boy’s journey through the challenges of childhood and the excruciating heartbreak of young love. By the end of the concert, our hero matures into a man who has found wisdom and contentment living in our beloved state of Oklahoma. Please join Council Oak Men’s Chorale as we head into our 26th year of amazing concerts showcasing our vast array of musical talent and excellence here in Tulsa and in July at the 2024 Gala Choruses event in 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Minneapolis, MN. TICKETS Big, Scary Animals Friday, June 7th-16th, 8pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center – Liddy Doenges Theatre 110 E 2nd St S, Tulsa, OK What begins as a polite dinner conversation with their gay, multi-ethnic neighbors careens out of control. A hilarious collision of race, sex, guns, and sports, BIG, SCARY ANIMALS examines shifting generational beliefs and just how hard it is to raise a child regardless of who you are and where you live. TICKETS Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, June 27th, 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Then and Now takes the audience on a historical journey of the Broadway musical. Join Larry Gray, Jill Lingle, Alyssa McGuire, and accompanist Tracy Watson as they bounce back and forth through the history of their favorite Broadway tunes with a couple non-Broadway performance pieces added for fun. Also – featuring original artwork by Pamela Watson. Then and Now will journey from the waters of Dames @ Sea to the French Revolution; from Pajama Games to Untitled Show; and from Charlie Brown to The Bridges of Madison County. TICKETS Blended Saturday, June 29th, 12 Noon Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This peer-led support group is for parents in ono-traditional households (step-parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents etc.) Free childcare is also available! For more information email 2022blended@gmail.com A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Free chi ldcare is also available! Please join us at NOON on JUNE 29th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@g~ • LGBTQ+ Consumer Rights and Protections Tuesday, June 14th SAGE x CFPB x FTC Virtual/Online Session Dates/Topics: July 16th, 2024 - Retirement and Long-term Financial Planning Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), and the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) for a free webinar on retirement and long-term financial planning. Speakers from the three agencies will talk about how to protect resources from scammers, steps to becoming a financial caregiver, and information on investing and avoiding investment fraud. Hosted & Presented By: , 11 cf •~ou,...._ TRAO!aCOM,l,ll5.SION ReportFraud.ftc.gov ..--·-........, ... 0mc.ollnwaorEducatlon f Join this free three-part webinar series for a ⚡ discussion of consumer rights and protections in housing, retirement, and end-of-life planning. Learn about your rights in the marketplace and how to spot, avoid, and report frauds and scams. This series is hosted by the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Federal Trade Commission, Securities and Exchange Commission, and SAGE National Resource Center on LGBTQ+ Aging. September 17th, 2024 - End-of-life planning and your consumer rights Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on end-of-life planning issues. Speakers from FTC and CFPB will speak about: how to shop for funeral services with your consumer rights in mind; your options for longterm care; protections when it comes to nursing home debt collection; and how to take control of your finances after the death of a spouse or partner. Register Today In Memoriam Il111 Meimoriaurrn 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Bill Young Born Day - May 21st 2024 In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-if- OKEO HEALTH -~-if- CLINIC II Cul1urallyCompetentCarefortllelG8TQ•Commun,1y Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM Support Group Rwhlt.e-letl2roupfurpeersupportandeducationaboutsyst.emicracism 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... WE ARE NOW OFFERING .,fF~RN -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. Craatilll a8111'1 spa and facllitatina support. Bducationandaocial--.. farall individuals llllllina t.a iv'iit-rrimsustamu: raciBm ia tbir • • Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AlyssaB<yantwilhLegal AidServicesof 71 GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP The Gender Support provides - - - , H ... , . . , . , ~ -· rega,dlessolincomeandare availablethroughoultheSta1el0< support education.and social opportunitiesfortransgender LGBTQ+persons. Oklahomawill be assisting the LGBTQ+ ~ ~ y of lM First-timein terviewisrequiredbef0<e community with fair housing.related issue,;. Atonffl ,,._ J2PM- 4PM. att endingyourlirstmttting. P!easecontact Q1 8-743-42Q7 71 &.,-~ol,,.. ~front7""'1f091W DIMIIR. .... Equallty, Tulw.OK 7412$ Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. ------- Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. GREEN ~OIJNTRV 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 7484 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ...., BEARS 71 Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Free HIV Test:ing Every Tuesday from4pm - &pml FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Fruity Pebbles Fruity Pebbles is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 13 to 17. ?⚧❤?????????? Every ✨Saturday from 1PM to 5PM✨ Fruity Pebbles gives youth opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutualaid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack/lunch is provided. For questions, please email shay.brewer@okeq.org for parent/guardian enrollment. This group meets every Saturday of the month at 1pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EG.4.LA 10 ~~ 5ERV I CESo• 11 01C1-' IIO ...,A, I NC. JulieLGoreewithlegalAid Se<vice,;of Oklahomais asailablefordropindiscussions regarding lega l issues. . ........... 71 ..,...... ,......,.. v. ............. ...... Gender Correction Clinic ~ --- Oklahoma for Equa1;ry Law Cf.'flter AnomeyJoshPaytonaodhisteam willassistthosewithnameand geoderc01Teclions. Can'lmake it inperson?contact inlof>okequalily!aw.comtoschedule a consult ation by Zoom ishostingaclinicfornameand Cwr, SKO<ld Wednt,sdayof !he gender marker changes. monfflfrom5:3 8PMfo1PM 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 Dennl&R.Nelll[Quallty,Tulu.OK74129 Lawyer in the Library https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... DennlsR.NelllEquallty,Tuls.a,OK74129 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org ------Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS ( OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Relationships Outside the Box 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS -.-.. ..., •'"';w,,,• •~"~.,~ 111 mlncledgayandblse>:ual....,,10 fttabllahtriendshipandwpport ttvOUQt,soclallnlefactlon. Asociatorganizatiooformature-min<ied GayandBise, ualmeo 71 ._,.__..,n..cta,'°' AttendN&muslbe21ye.1rsoroidef , - - -.... -_..,,_,..,.""" Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 , OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Alliances uality Community Partners • • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF LEGALAID t h SERVICES O F OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing = These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. JWSf.l Get help- applying for Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Are you a young adult experiencing homelessness or housing instability? s ,pplemental , • :~!~~\i::ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. You may qua lify for the Tulsa Hi gher Education Consortium's Rapid Rehousing Program. Program requirements include: • Being ages 18-24 • Experiencin g homelessness or at-risk of homelessness 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • 1meresiea 1n enro111ng orcurrem1y enro11ea in one or rne ~ co1ieges and universities that are in the Consortium No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: conta ct a Tulsa Higher Education Consortium Housing Navigator by emailing jjones@tulsahighered.com / sbrantley@tulsahighered.com Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Complete this form to be connected to a Housing Navigator: TULSA HIGHER EDUCATION Learn more at bungerfreeok o~/resourcestsnap/ CONSORTIUM - li-..l HUNGER * FREE n OKLAHOMA www.tulsahighered.com 11 I II OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Whitney Cipolla - President Paula Shannon - Vice President Eddie Carreno - Treasurer Yonah Jasper - Secretary Kaylyn Compton - Member at Large Board of Directors William Bonney Zoe Brett Grace Fallon Julia Fletcher Staff Andi Gunter - Deputy Director Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Sue Welch Board of Advisors Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 19 Ben Matthews Lollie Moore Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Kasey Rhone Kylie Vanderslice https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Tom Vincent Cydney Williams Regis McDaniel - Archivist Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:49 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6fe7db0383e8fc38e804c1d72265bb22.pdf 3ff83d7800444c29050320495866df5d PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked THE DENNIS A. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER WWW.OICEQ.ORG 918.7&13.&1297 Starting Saturday, May 25th The Dennis R. Neill Equality will be opening at noon on Saturdays 2024 Equality Gala Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 1AM E UALITY Gala & Benefit I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE six o ' clock in the evening complimentary valet Cox Business Convention Center Legacy Hall , 2nd Floor Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! cocktails I mocktails I dinner theatre live auction I dance party Honorary Chairs Sue Welch & Marcy Smith www.OKEQ.org 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sponsorships & Tickets 2024 Remember The Removal Bike Ride We wish all cyclists a safe trip on the 2024 Remember The Removal Bike Ride. The cyclists started their journey from the New Echota Historic Site and are making their way back to Tahlequah, Cherokee Nation, Oklahoma. This is an annual bicycle ride of nearly 1,000 miles commemorating the forced removal of Cherokee people from their ancestral homelands. The riders departed from Georgia on Monday, June 3rd. ?⚧?❤????????????? One of the riders is Shawna Baker, the first openly lesbian on the Cherokee Nation Supreme Court and an OKEQ Trustee. Shawna Baker Interview 2024 Tulsa Pride 2024 PRIDE EVENTS ~5 w : !JJJllJDQJifli) 2024 PRIDE EVENTS NMAIN ST. TIILSA,OK Q. w § !JJJllJDQJifli) ?⚧ HAPPY PRIDE MONTH OKLAHOMA ?⚧ Tulsa Pride may have moved to October but we're still celebrating PRIDE all month long!! Check out these PRIDE events that are happening around town and some of the Pride events that benefit Oklahomans for Equality! We wish everybody and our community partners a FUN, SAFE, and LOVING month of PRIDE and we hope to see y'all at the Be Your Own Masterpiece Equality Gala on June 22nd! ?⚧?❤????????????? For more information visit www.okeq.org! 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ?? HAPPY PRIDE MONTH OKLAHOMA TULSA ?? Who doesn't love Huffy? Now he's supporting LGBTQ+ people too? Even better. A portion of all sales will be donated to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma to support the LGBTQ+ community! ?⚧?❤????????????? Show your Tulsa pride and celebrate love in all its vibrant forms with this limited-edition tee! Our iconic mascot, Huffy, takes center stage, reimagined in a dazzling rainbow of Pride colors. This comfy classic features a durable 100% polyester front for bold graphics, while the cool 100% nylon mesh back keeps you breezy. An adjustable snap closure ensures a perfect fit, ready for cheers, adventures, and everyday Tulsa love. PRIDE WITH HUFFY Your reigning 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya. ?⚧?❤????????????? ⚡Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed decor! We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. ?⚧?❤????????????? While doing research in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, Ryan Fitzgibbon came across a June 1983 newsletter by the Gay Press Association containing the following appeal, “During our celebrating, we must set new goals. There is still a great need to join closer together. We must work together and not be at odds with each other…[keeping] in mind this year’s theme: PRIDE IN UNITY.” ?⚧?❤????????????? Inspired by decades of queer activism, this design highlights a broad range of issues facing 2SLGBTQ+ people today. Critical updates acknowledge the members of our community that for too long were overlooked and erased from the telling of our history. This remixed version of Ryan’s 2SLGBTQ+ design features an appeal for PRIDE IN UNITY he found while doing research in the Equality Center archives. Critical updates acknowledge community members that for too long were overlooked and erased from the telling queer history. A percentage of the proceeds will be donated to Tulsa Pride PRESALES CLOSE ON 6/16 MIDNIGHT. ALL ORDERS WILL BE PRINTED & SHIPPED BEFORE THE END OF JUNE. Pride in Unity Tee Pride Tech Trivia with Atlas School Wednesday, June 12th, 5:30PM Atlas School 15 N Cheyenne Ave., Tulsa, OK ??On June 12, check in will begin at 5:30 and the games will begin at 6 pm. Light snacks and beverages will be available. Prizes for best team name, grand prize winner, as well as random prize drawings will be awarded throughout the night. Bring your friends to cheer you on or encourage them to register a team and compete with you! ?⚧?❤????????????? Teams of 2 will have a buzzer to answer queer tech Jeopardy-style trivia, with answers in the form of a question. Please RSVP for your team and include your team name below. Pride Tech Trivia Sign Up 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tahlequah Two Spirit Celebration Saturday, June 15th, 9AM Tahlequah Public Library 120 S College Ave., Tahlequah, OK FREE INDIAN TACO MEAL AT5:OOPM STOMP DANCE HONORING TWO SPIRIT PEOPLE 1ST UNITED METHODIST CHU RCH ACTI VITY BUI LDING 6:OOPM·lO:OOPM LET'S CELEBRATE! THE 2ND ANNUAL THE TAHLEQUAH AREA COMMUNITY IS INVITED TO A TWO SPIRIT SYMPOSIUM, INDIAN TACO MEAL, AND STOMP DANCE ON SATURDAY, JUNE 15, 2024. ?⚧?❤????????????? THE SYMPOSIUM WILL BE HELD IN THE TAHLEQUAH PUBLIC LIBRARY WITH BREAKFAST SNACKS AT 8:30AM AND PRESENTATIONS FROM 9:00AM-3:00PM. THERE WILL BE AMPLE TIME FOR DISCUSSIONS AND BREAKS. TOPICS INCLUDE “TWO SPIRIT PEOPLE IN TRADITIONAL CHEROKEE CULTURE”, A “POLITICAL UPDATE PANEL DISCUSSION”, “TOOLS TO DEAL WITH BULLYING AND HARASSMENT”, AND “DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN THE LGBTQ COMMUNITY”. WE WILL SHARE A INDIAN TACO MEAL AT 5:00PM IN THE TAHLEQUAH METHODIST CHURCH ACTIVITIES BUILDING. AGALISIGA "CHUJ" MACKEY WILL BE PERFORMING DURING THE MEAL. THE STOMP DANCE, HOSTED BY THE SQUIRREL RIDGE CEREMONIAL GROUND, WILL BEGIN AT 6:00PM AND END AT 10:00PM. CHEROKEE NATIONAL TREASURE STORYTELLER ROBERT LEWIS WILL PERFORM DURING A BREAK IN THE DANCE. PLEASE BE AWARE THAT THERE WILL BE A POLICE PRESENCE AT BOTH THE TWO SPIRIT SYMPOSIUM AND THE STOMP DANCE. VENDORS ARE WELCOME AND COMMUNITY-SERVING NON-PROFIT ORGANIZATIONS MAY SET UP INFORMATION TABLES AT NO CHARGE. FOR MORE INFORMATION ON VENDOR OPPORTUNITIES AND NONPROFIT TABLES, PLEASE CONTACT AHYOKA YOUNGDEER AT YOUNGDEER1491@GMAIL.COM. ?⚧?❤????????????? FOR GENERAL INFORMATION, CONTACT JONATHAN HOOK AT JHOOKCOMM@GMAIL.COM. Spectrum of Pride Saturday, June 15th, 1PM The Hedge 2606 S Sheridan Rd, Tulsa, OK The 2nd Annual Spectrum of Pride event promises a day filled with comedy, advocacy, performance, and an abundance of community resources. ?⚧?❤????????????? It's an occasion to celebrate diversity and inclusivity while fostering a supportive environment for all. COMEDYiRESOURCESiADVOCACYiPERFORMANCE SATURDAY, JUNE 15TH, 1PM 2606 S. SHERIDAN RD, TULSA AUTISM FOUNDATION of OKLAHOMA D[I If! PFLAG Pride Popsicles in the Park Saturday, June 15th, 2PM The Arboretum at Woodward Park 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 2435 S Peoria Ave., Tulsa, OK rrLIIU TULSA PRIDE POPSICLES IN THE PARK Saturday, June 15 • Join PFLAG Tulsa for our Pride month social! Popsicles in the Park will be held on Saturday, June 15th from 2-4pm at Woodward Park at 21st and Peoria. You’re welcome to bring picnic blankets, kiddos, and any snacks or drinks you’d like (to share or for yourself) - we’ll bring the popsicles! ?⚧?❤????????????? For more information visit https://tulsapflag.org/ 2:00-4:00pm The Aboretum at Woodward Park ULTl:-.1,\TI:: 8110\\'C.\SE OF T,\LEXT ,\:-iD FL\!R! EXPrnlEXCE ,\;'\ ELECTR IFYl:-:G rus10:,.: or 1),\:-:ci:, KICKS, ,\XI) co:-.u:DY BROUGIIT TO un: BY TIIREE OF Tl!E ST,\TE'S ,\\OST ICO;'\[C PERFOR,\IERS. Ir's XOT JUST,\ 8110\\'·IT'S ,\ CELEBR,\TIO:-i or IXDl\'IDU,\UT\', P,\8810;'\, ,\\'.D rm: FREED(),\\ TO BE \\'IIOE\'[R YOU Meet la~ette outside for what is beiomM9 our ANNUAL l?AINJ'IOW SC,AVfNGfl? llUNT! Two perso~ teams. llriz.es for the wi~~i~9 teaml \\',\:-i'T TO BE. co.,u: OXE, CO:\\E ,\LL, ,\XD u:r's Do:-:'r FORGET TO BRl'.\'G YOUR DOU ..\RS ,\XI) Rainbow Scavenger Hunt with Okalake Trails Naturist Park Saturday, June 15th, 4PM The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E Prode St., Tulsa, OK 74120 tj June 15, 2024, Oaklake Trails Naturist Park (OLT) welcomes all LGBTQIA+ persons and Allies to celebrate ?⚧ PRIDE through a clothing-optional experience. For the safety and security of all visitors, we ask that your first stop, upon arrival to OLT, be the office. Upon your arrival to the office, you will be asked to complete some paperwork (first-time visitors only). Just say "I'm here for PRIDE DAY!" to receive a DISCOUNT!* The park will be, as always, open to all visitors. At any point during your visit, you are welcome to enjoy the hot tub, pools, all trails, the clubhouse with indoor games such as darts, pool, and foosball, pickleball (equipment available in the office), shuffleboard, horseshoes or cornhole. ?⚧?❤????????????? MORE INFORMATION Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, June 15th, 6:30PM The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E Prode St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, June 15th 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ?⚧?❤????????????? JUNE15Tlli6!SOPM fl [i) [i) [j) 0 !I !ll rJ !I[]] rJ!i1 0!ll !lil !I !ll rJ O lP []] Oll!I~ Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment. Featuring performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy and Pride Royalty ?⚧?❤????????????? Doors open at 6:30 PM | Game Starts at 7:05 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride Additional Bingo Cards can be purchased at the door for $5. You can buy tickets at the door. TICKETS Tulsa Oilers Football Saturday, June 15th, 7PM BOK CENTER 200 S Dever Ave, Tulsa, OK ?Join the Tulsa Oilers football team as they take on Sioux Falls Storm at the BOK Center on June 15th at 7PM and get that W! Donate $6 to Oklahomans for Equality and get 1 ticket or $10 and get 2 tickets! Let's fill the stands with PRIDE and enjoy Pride Month with the Tulsa Oilers! ?⚧?❤????????????? Once you donate email kao.morris@okeq.org with the first and last name associated with the donation. TICKETS But I'm A Cheerleader Thursday, June 20th, 7:30PM Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK Circle Cinema is proud to partner with Twisted Arts for "Drag Me to the Movies," a new monthly retro screening series! Kicking it off a special screening of the cult classic “But I’m a Cheerleader” on June 20. But wait, there’s more! Before the main event, our talented local performers hilariously parody the film. Featuring the fabulous lineup of Adonia Hunter, Laura Cook, Londenn Davenport Raine, Missy MG, and Tracy La Louisianne. Tickets $10 Circle 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TICKETS members, $12 non-members. Expect the unexpected and remember “Foreplay is for sissies!” or “I get good grades! I go to church! I’m a cheerleader!” Megan (Natasha Lyonne) considers herself a typical American girl. She excels in school and cheerleading, and she has a handsome football-playing boyfriend, even though she isn't that crazy about him. So she's stunned when her parents decide she's gay and send her to True Directions, a boot camp meant to alter her sexual orientation. While there, Megan meets a rebellious and unashamed teen lesbian, Graham (Clea DuVall). Though Megan still feels confused, she starts to have feelings for Graham. Learn more about the performers at Twistedfest.org/ dragmovies. Founded in Tulsa, OK, Twisted Arts was created to highlight local, national, and international LGBTQ2S+ artists through year-round programs which include an annual fall film festival, monthly film screenings & performances, an LGBTQ2S+ youth filmmaking Summer camp, members-only sneak peeks, access to year-round short films, special events, and private screenings with directors, actors, and other queer media icons. SATURDAvJUNE 22ND 2024 Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Saturday, June 22nd, 4pm - 12am The Max Retropub 114 S Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK Join Us For The Ultimate Celebration - The Official Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl on June 22nd. ?⚧?❤????????????? MUSIC , DANCING & DRU I 6+ VENUES I PHOTOGRAPHERS FIN AFTER PARTY I A PORTION DI PROCEEDS BENEFIT: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Tickets Exclusive Perks: Enjoy Drag Shows ($15 Without Ticket), handpicked inclusive bars, exclusive drink specials, and freebies that are available only to our Pride Bar Crawl participants. Grab your tickets now and let's paint the town in every color of the rainbow! Your love is revolutionary, and united, we can enact positive change. BAR 46, ELOTE CAFE & CATERING, The Hunt Club, RABBIT HOLE BAR & GRILL. THE MAX RETROPUB DRAG SHOW TIME 7PM-9PM AFTER PARTY TIME 10PM - 12AM INNER CIRCLE VODKA BAR ✨DRINK RESPONSIBLY✨ Turrelle Sister's Bingo: Pride Edition Saturday, June 22nd, 8pm The Raw Center 1227 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK ⚡The Turrelle Sisters and The RAW Center are excited to bring you the Turrelle Sisters' Bingo: PRIDE EDITION celebrating Pride Month on June 22nd Come play FREE BINGO and WIN some fun prizes!! $10 DOOR COVER w/ Partial Proceeds from the door cover will be donated to OKEQ and The RAW Center) 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ?⚧?❤????????????? BINGO IS FREE (8 Games + 1 SUPER GAME) | 18+ with valid ID Facebook RSVP COME EARLY FOR OKEQ BUSINESS MIXER JUN 2 PRESENHD WITH OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY - 7:30PM Birdcage Screening with Circle Cinema and EBA Mixer Thursday, June 27nd, 6PM Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK Presented with Circle Cinema during Pride month! A portion of ticket proceeds will benefit OKEQ. Film at 7:30PM, and come early for OKEQ’s Equality BusinessAllianceMixer in the lobby starting at 6PM - with free popcorn samples and a cash bar. Tickets for the film are $11 Circle members, $13 nonmembers. OKEQ MEMBERS ARE ELIGIBLE FOR A DISCOUNTED PROMO CODE. VERIFY YOUR MEMBERSHIP BY EMAILING KAO.MORRIS@OKEQ.ORG TO RECEIVE YOUR PROMO CODE. The Equality Business Alliance (EBA) exists to strengthen 2SLGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa Community. The EBA is held every fourth Thursday of the month. The EBA provides a directory of 2SLBGTQ+ online at OkEq.org. EBA is an opportunity to network with like-minded businesses creating professional environments where 2SLGBTQ+ businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. About the film: In this remake of the classic French farce "La Cage aux Folles," engaged couple Val Goldman (Dan Futterman) and Barbara Keeley (Calista Flockhart) shakily introduce their future in-laws. Val's father, Armand (Robin Williams), a gay Miami drag club owner, pretends to be straight and attempts to hide his relationship with Albert (Nathan Lane), his life partner and the club's flamboyant star attraction, so as to please Barbara's father, controversial Republican Sen. Kevin Keeley (Gene 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Hackman). ?⚧?❤????????????? BIRDCAGE TICKETS L1censingbyConcordTheatricals . cc.,£,\ANS EATING A QU. 7CJte S \..,V"" June 28 & 29 Written by: Evan Linder & Andrew Hobgood B&Z PRODUCTIONS in collaboration with Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre 621 E4th ST Tulsa, OK 74120 Allpr1c t1lls 11 ta.ardsth 01n■iiR.N 1 i11E•■a litrC 11l tr "' "'·"'·"') • americantheatrecompany.ar& a atc@alctulsa.or& 5 Lesbian Eating Tickets ALL PROCEEDS from ticket sales go to the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. 5 Lesbians Eating A Quiche June 28th & 29th, 7:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK In 1956, the Susan B. Anthony Society for the Sisters of Gertrude Stein organized their annual quiche breakfast. The event took place in an idyllic town, and the "widows" were eagerly waiting for the announcement of the society's prize-winning quiche. However, the event was interrupted by the sound of atomic bomb sirens, and the "widows" were faced with an attack on their town and way of life. What will they do in response to the threat of communism? If you're looking for some entertainment, 5 Lesbians Eating a Quiche is a production you might be interested in. It won the Best Overall Production award at the 2012 NYC International Fringe Festival. The show is packed with hilarious laughs, sexual innuendoes, unsuccessful repressions, and delicious discoveries. It stars Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Rooney, Vivica Walkenbach, Amanda Nicols, and Erika Reider. ?⚧?❤????????????? TahlEquality's 10th Pride Picnic & June 29th & 30th, 12:00pm Norris Park 400 N Muskogee Ave, Tahlequah, OK Get ready to join us for Pride in the Park on Saturday, 6/29, with the kick-off at 12pm with a drag show at Ned's (18+ with valid ID) later in the evening and a campout on the river. Sunday 6/30, there will be a float trip, more details to come. The events will be family-friendly, except for the adult after-show at Ned's. Let's celebrate our 10th anniversary with s'mores, hotdogs, families, and good humor during June LGBT month! ?⚧?❤????????????? Please stay tuned for updates and RSVP on facebook to stay up to date for all things TahlEquality. 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TahlEquality 10th Annual Pride Celebration Pride Month with The Tavern All Month of June The Tavern 201 N Main St., Tulsa, OK Join us in celebrating Pride month at Tavern on Main St. with our special cocktail, the Pride Paradise. ?⚧?❤????????????? For every Pride Paradise (Acai Margarita) and other select drinks purchased, we will donate $2 to the Equality Center. The Tavern will be donating $2 from each of the following drinks: Pride Paradise (Acai Margarita), Non-alcoholic Pride Paradise, glasses of our Rotating Rosè of the Day, and Neff Raspberry Pride sour beer. The Pride Paradise is made with either Cimarron Tequila or Boval Mezcal, Fair Acai Liqueur, Agave, and Lime. The Nonalcoholic Pride Paradise contains Acai Juice, Lime Juice, and Sprite. ?⚧?❤????????????? The Tavern The Pride Paradise is made with the finest ingredients and is available both with and without alcohol, so everyone can join in the celebration. Your support helps us make a difference. Cheers to equality and inclusion! Special Events FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, June 11th, 4pm - 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK FREE HIV H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Know your status today! Every Tuesday from 4PM - 6PM TESTING 71 Get culturally competent care for the 2SLGBTGIA+ community at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Big, Scary Animals Friday, June 7th-16th, 8pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center – Liddy Doenges Theatre 110 E 2nd St S, Tulsa, OK What begins as a polite dinner conversation with their gay, multi-ethnic neighbors careens out of control. A hilarious collision of race, sex, guns, and sports, BIG, SCARY ANIMALS examines shifting generational beliefs and just how hard it is to raise a child regardless of who you are and where you live. 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TICKETS Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, June 27th, 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Then and Now takes the audience on a historical journey of the Broadway musical. Join Larry Gray, Jill Lingle, Alyssa McGuire, and accompanist Tracy Watson as they bounce back and forth through the history of their favorite Broadway tunes with a couple non-Broadway performance pieces added for fun. Also – featuring original artwork by Pamela Watson. Then and Now will journey from the waters of Dames @ Sea to the French Revolution; from Pajama Games to Untitled Show; and from Charlie Brown to The Bridges of Madison County. TICKETS Blended Saturday, June 29th, 12 Noon Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This peer-led support group is for parents in ono-traditional households (step-parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents etc.) Free childcare is also available! For more information email 2022blended@gmail.com A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nont raditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Free chi ldcare is also available! Please join us at NOON on JUNE 29th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@gDJAi..l&Qm • LGBTQ+ Consumer Rights and Protections Tuesday, June 14th SAGE x CFPB x FTC Virtual/Online Session Dates/Topics: July 16th, 2024 - Retirement and Long-term Financial Planning ,t,,FEOEIIAI.TRAOEC~ ReportFraud.ftc.gov Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), and the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) for a free webinar on retirement and long-term financial planning. Speakers from the three agencies will talk about how to protect resources from scammers, steps to becoming a financial caregiver, and information on investing and avoiding 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... investment fraud. f Join this free three-part webinar series for a ⚡ discussion of consumer rights and protections in housing, retirement, and end-of-life planning. Learn about your rights in the marketplace and how to spot, avoid, and report frauds and scams. This series is hosted by the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Federal Trade Commission, Securities and Exchange Commission, and SAGE National Resource Center on LGBTQ+ Aging. September 17th, 2024 - End-of-life planning and your consumer rights Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on end-of-life planning issues. Speakers from FTC and CFPB will speak about: how to shop for funeral services with your consumer rights in mind; your options for longterm care; protections when it comes to nursing home debt collection; and how to take control of your finances after the death of a spouse or partner. Register Today In Memoriam Ilin Merrnoriaurrn Bill Young Born Day - May 21st 2024 In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK CullurallyCompeUntCar•forthelGBTQ•Communlly Clinic Hours: Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up 11 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 111111 1111111 1111111 IIII ASEXUAL Aces Committed Equality ::.::::;.::~~ :::::.:::, 7 1 • Tubo. 0...,.-omo. A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com ~ COll"''"°...,._at n ... >?\'-N_, '"""""'°'"'""' AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA El?lTI-RElCieT WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhitr:-leil2roupforpeersupportandeducationabouts-ystemicracism .,fF~RN -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. laat 1lwrsdau of ~ -month at tha ll8nnia R.llail Equality Cant8r IZlElltst.7-1:MI Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... f yoijliilleveyo,.tyebeenavlctim LIC~i:111-\IU Services of Oklahoma AlyssaB,yantwithLega l AidServicesof OklahomawillbeassistingtheLGBTQ+ 71 ofllousingdiscrimination,please caUherat9 18-238-16561,orema il herala!~~g. Theseservicesa,eopentoeveryone rega,dlessollncomeand3re available throughouttheSta1e1or LGBTQ+persons. ~~yoflM .--'-=-~-·_;,_.,_,_,. ;_,,_-_;.,_.,_.,._,~_;_,.~_.___. Atonffl "°'" J2PM- 4PM. SUPPORT\ GROUP The Gender Support provides support,educatioo,andsoclal oppor1unitiesfortransgender First-timein terviewlsrequiredbe!O<e attendingyou,lirstmtt>tlng PleasecontactQ18-743-42Q7 71 &w,-~ol,,.. ~front7""'1f09PM DIMilltNIIIEquallty, Tut...OK 7412$ Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP 7484 ...., GREEN COUNTRY BEARS 71 Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Fruity Pebbles Fruity Pebbles is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 13 to 17. ?⚧❤?????????? Every ✨Saturday from 1PM to 5PM✨ Fruity Pebbles gives youth opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutualaid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack/lunch is provided. For questions, please email shay.brewer@okeq.org for parent/guardian enrollment. This group meets every Saturday of the month at 1pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic JulieL Got-ee wil hl.egal Aid Se<vicesof ---:71 Ok lahoma is available for drOl) ln discussions / regarding lega l issues. I --- ...,. ..... n-.-,., . . Dennl&R.NelllEQuallty,Tulu.OK74128 Lawyer in the Library Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center ishostingaclinicfornameand 7 At1omeyJosllPaytonandhisteam willassistthosewithnameand g,endercorrections Can'\ ma keitinpe<'SOl'l?contac\ inl~kequali1ylaw.comtoschedu!e a consultation by Zoom. n.,, SKOna"........-y ofrtt. --'''-~-"_,m _.,_•~-'-"'.;; "'"' - ·- - - - - - - - ' monfflfrom5.:3SPMro 7PM DennlsR.NeillEquallty,Tuls.a,OK74128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS Denn,sR Ne1l1Equal,ty Tulsa OK7412& ( 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS Asocia!<><yanizatlontormatu,..,...miooed Gay and Bisexual men Asoclalc,rvanizatlonformatu,..,... rnlndedgayandblseicual~to fttablllhlnendshlpandsuppo,1 lhrauQl,IOCiallnlefK!lon. AttendNs must be 21 yNrs or older 71 ._,.__..,n--,.°' . - - - - - - - IN-"""-,..,IOPflflll Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... , OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S First Qnd third SQturdQy of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGAL AID t ti. SERVICES O F OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGAL AID t ti. SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Are you a young adult experiencing homelessness or housing instability? JIISfi) Get help= applying for , • : ~!~~'ti::ce s ,pplemental P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll -free to 1 (877) 760· 0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espai\ol: You may qua lify for the Tulsa Higher Education Consortium's Rapid Rehousing Program. Program requirements include: • Being ages 18-24 • Experiencing homelessness or at-risk of homelessness • Interested in enrolling or currently enrolled in one of the 9 colleges and universities that are in the Consortium contact a Tulsa Higher Education Consortium Housing Navigator by emailing Complete this form to be connected to a Housing Navigator: jjones@tulsahighered.com / sbrantley@tulsahighered.com ~ TULSA HIGHER I ,i_, 1 1EDUCATION Learn more at bungerfreeok ocg/resoucceskoap/ " I I , CONSORTIUM www.tulsahighered.com OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Whitney Cipolla - President Paula Shannon - Vice President Eddie Carreno - Treasurer Yonah Jasper - Secretary Kaylyn Compton - Member at Large Board of Directors William Bonney Zoe Brett Grace Fallon Julia Fletcher Ben Matthews Lollie Moore Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Kasey Rhone Kylie Vanderslice Staff Andi Gunter - Deputy Director Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Sue Welch Board of Advisors Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Tom Vincent Cydney Williams Regis McDaniel - Archivist Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today ! 4/29/26, 12:52 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/410b238d566e0c2b08036f238b7fdfbc.pdf fa55a2e2918b13bb68a9241316d0c153 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked THE DENNIS A. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER WWW.OICEQ.ORG 918.7&13.&1297 Starting Saturday, May 25th The Dennis R. Neill Equality will be opening at noon on Saturdays 2024 Equality Gala Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 1AM E UALITY Gala & Benefit I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK The 2024 I AM EQUALITY Gala and Benefit is sold out! We are so thankful for all of the support we have received from the community and beyond. And we can't wait to see you at the Gala! 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE six o ' clock in the evening complimentary valet Cox Bu si ness Convention Center Legacy Hall , 2nd Floor cocktails I mocktails I dinner theatre live auction I dance party Honorary Chairs Sue W e lc h & Marcy Smith www.OKEQ .org You can still support Oklahomans for Equality's mission by donating, becoming a member, or enter to win one of three vacation packages. Only 100 golden tickets are being offered in advance of the I AM Equality Gala event on June 22nd, 2024. This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! GOLDEN TICKET DONATE JOIN OKEQ 2024 Remember The Removal Bike Ride We wish all cyclists a safe trip on the 2024 Remember The Removal Bike Ride. The cyclists started their journey from the New Echota Historic Site and are making their way back to Tahlequah, Cherokee Nation, Oklahoma. This is an annual bicycle ride of nearly 1,000 miles commemorating the forced removal of Cherokee people from their ancestral homelands. The riders departed from Georgia on Monday, June 3rd. ?⚧?❤????????????? One of the riders is Shawna Baker, the first openly lesbian on the Cherokee Nation Supreme Court and an OKEQ Trustee. Shawna Baker Interview 2024 Tulsa Pride 2024 PRIDE EVENTS Q. ~ § liJJllm(jJf{Jf) ?⚧ HAPPY PRIDE MONTH OKLAHOMA ?⚧ Tulsa Pride may have moved to October but we're still celebrating PRIDE all month long!! Check out these PRIDE events that are happening around town and some of the Pride events that benefit Oklahomans for Equality! We wish everybody and our community partners a FUN, SAFE, and LOVING month of PRIDE and we hope to see y'all at the Be Your Own Masterpiece Equality Gala on June 22nd! ?⚧?❤????????????? For more information visit www.okeq.org! 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ?? HAPPY PRIDE MONTH OKLAHOMA TULSA ?? Who doesn't love Huffy? Now he's supporting LGBTQ+ people too? Even better. A portion of all sales will be donated to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma to support the LGBTQ+ community! ?⚧?❤????????????? Show your Tulsa pride and celebrate love in all its vibrant forms with this limited-edition tee! Our iconic mascot, Huffy, takes center stage, reimagined in a dazzling rainbow of Pride colors. This comfy classic features a durable 100% polyester front for bold graphics, while the cool 100% nylon mesh back keeps you breezy. An adjustable snap closure ensures a perfect fit, ready for cheers, adventures, and everyday Tulsa love. PRIDE WITH HUFFY Your reigning 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya. ?⚧?❤????????????? f ⚡Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed decor! We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. ?⚧?❤????????????? But I'm A Cheerleader Thursday, June 20th, 7:30PM Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK TICKETS Circle Cinema is proud to partner with Twisted Arts for "Drag Me to the Movies," a new monthly retro screening series! Kicking it off a special screening of the cult classic “But I’m a Cheerleader” on June 20. But wait, there’s more! Before the main event, our talented local performers hilariously parody the film. Featuring the fabulous lineup of Adonia Hunter, Laura Cook, Londenn Davenport Raine, Missy MG, and Tracy La Louisianne. Tickets $10 Circle members, $12 non-members. Expect the unexpected and remember “Foreplay is for sissies!” or “I get good grades! I go to church! I’m a cheerleader!” Megan (Natasha Lyonne) considers herself a typical American girl. She excels in school and cheerleading, and she has a handsome football-playing boyfriend, even though she isn't that crazy about him. So she's stunned when her parents decide she's gay and send her to True Directions, a boot camp meant to alter her sexual orientation. While there, Megan meets a rebellious and unashamed teen lesbian, Graham (Clea DuVall). Though Megan still feels confused, she starts to have feelings for Graham. Learn more about the performers at Twistedfest.org/ dragmovies. Founded in Tulsa, OK, Twisted Arts was created to highlight local, national, and international LGBTQ2S+ artists through year-round programs which include an annual fall film festival, monthly film screenings & performances, an LGBTQ2S+ youth filmmaking Summer camp, members-only sneak peeks, access to year-round short films, special events, and private screenings with directors, actors, and other queer media icons. SATURDAY Ju N E 22 N D 2024 Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Saturday, June 22nd, 4pm - 12am The Max Retropub 114 S Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK Join Us For The Ultimate Celebration - The Official Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl on June 22nd. ?⚧?❤????????????? Exclusive Perks: Enjoy Drag Shows ($15 Without Ticket), handpicked inclusive bars, exclusive drink specials, and freebies that are available only to our Pride Bar Crawl participants. Grab your tickets now and let's paint the town in 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 18 ~Iii https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... -- MUSIC, DANCING & DRU I &+ VINUIS I PHOTOGBAPHIRS FIN AFTER PARTY I A PORTION 01 PROCIIOS BINIFIT: OIIAHOMINS FOR !QUALITY Tulsa OK Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Tickets every color of the rainbow! Your love is revolutionary, and united, we can enact positive change. BAR 46, ELOTE CAFE & CATERING, The Hunt Club, RABBIT HOLE BAR & GRILL. THE MAX RETROPUB DRAG SHOW TIME 7PM-9PM AFTER PARTY TIME 10PM - 12AM INNER CIRCLE VODKA BAR ✨DRINK RESPONSIBLY✨ Turrelle Sister's Bingo: Pride Edition Saturday, June 22nd, 8pm The Raw Center 1227 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK ⚡The Turrelle Sisters and The RAW Center are excited to bring you the Turrelle Sisters' Bingo: PRIDE EDITION celebrating Pride Month on June 22nd Come play FREE BINGO and WIN some fun prizes!! $10 DOOR COVER w/ Partial Proceeds from the door cover will be donated to OKEQ and The RAW Center) ?⚧?❤????????????? BINGO IS FREE (8 Games + 1 SUPER GAME) | 18+ with valid ID Facebook RSVP SPECI COME EARLY FOR OKEQ BUSINESS MIXER ENING PRESENHD WITH OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY JUN 2 ~ 7:30PM 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Birdcage Screening with Circle Cinema and EBA Mixer Thursday, June 27nd, 6PM Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK Presented with Circle Cinema during Pride month! A portion of ticket proceeds will benefit OKEQ. Film at 7:30PM, and come early for OKEQ’s Equality Business Alliance Mixer in the lobby starting at 6PM - - ------ ----------------with free popcorn samples and a cash bar. Tickets for the film are $11 Circle members, $13 nonmembers. OKEQ MEMBERS ARE ELIGIBLE FOR A DISCOUNTED PROMO CODE. VERIFY YOUR MEMBERSHIP BY EMAILING KAO.MORRIS@OKEQ.ORG TO RECEIVE YOUR PROMO CODE. The Equality Business Alliance (EBA) exists to strengthen 2SLGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa Community. The EBA is held every fourth Thursday of the month. The EBA provides a directory of 2SLBGTQ+ online at OkEq.org. EBA is an opportunity to network with like-minded businesses creating professional environments where 2SLGBTQ+ businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. About the film: In this remake of the classic French farce "La Cage aux Folles," engaged couple Val Goldman (Dan Futterman) and Barbara Keeley (Calista Flockhart) shakily introduce their future in-laws. Val's father, Armand (Robin Williams), a gay Miami drag club owner, pretends to be straight and attempts to hide his relationship with Albert (Nathan Lane), his life partner and the club's flamboyant star attraction, so as to please Barbara's father, controversial Republican Sen. Kevin Keeley (Gene Hackman). ?⚧?❤????????????? BIRDCAGE TICKETS licensing by Concord Theatricals . cc,£,\ANS EATING A QU. S~ June 28 & 29 'IC!-fe Wri ten by: Evan Linder & Andrew Hobgood \ B&Z PRODU CT IO NS in collaboration with Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre 621 E4th ST Tulsa, OK 74120 Allpr1c11tls11tow1rdsth Den11$ R, N1ill(.Hlit,c,.,., '9 918.804.290) 8 americantheatrecompany.or& () atc@alclulsa.orr 5 Lesbian Eating Tickets ALL PROCEEDS from ticket sales go to the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. 5 Lesbians Eating A Quiche June 28th & 29th, 7:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK In 1956, the Susan B. Anthony Society for the Sisters of Gertrude Stein organized their annual quiche breakfast. The event took place in an idyllic town, and the "widows" were eagerly waiting for the announcement of the society's prize-winning quiche. However, the event was interrupted by the sound of atomic bomb sirens, and the "widows" were faced with an attack on their town and way of life. What will they do in response to the threat of communism? If you're looking for some entertainment, 5 Lesbians Eating a Quiche is a production you might be interested in. It won the Best Overall Production award at the 2012 NYC International Fringe Festival. The show is packed with hilarious laughs, sexual innuendoes, unsuccessful repressions, and delicious discoveries. It stars Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Rooney, Vivica Walkenbach, Amanda Nicols, and Erika Reider. ?⚧?❤????????????? TahlEquality's 10th Pride Picnic & June 29th & 30th, 12:00pm Norris Park 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 400 N Muskogee Ave, Tahlequah, OK Get ready to join us for Pride in the Park on Saturday, 6/29, with the kick-off at 12pm with a drag show at Ned's (18+ with valid ID) later in the evening and a campout on the river. Sunday 6/30, there will be a float trip, more details to come. The events will be family-friendly, except for the adult after-show at Ned's. Let's celebrate our 10th anniversary with s'mores, hotdogs, families, and good humor during June LGBT month! ?⚧?❤????????????? Please stay tuned for updates and RSVP on facebook to stay up to date for all things TahlEquality. TahlEquality 10th Annual Pride Celebration Pride Month with The Tavern All Month of June The Tavern 201 N Main St., Tulsa, OK Join us in celebrating Pride month at Tavern on Main St. with our special cocktail, the Pride Paradise. ?⚧?❤????????????? For every Pride Paradise (Acai Margarita) and other select drinks purchased, we will donate $2 to the Equality Center. The Tavern will be donating $2 from each of the following drinks: Pride Paradise (Acai Margarita), Non-alcoholic Pride Paradise, glasses of our Rotating Rosè of the Day, and Neff Raspberry Pride sour beer. The Pride Paradise is made with either Cimarron Tequila or Boval Mezcal, Fair Acai Liqueur, Agave, and Lime. The Nonalcoholic Pride Paradise contains Acai Juice, Lime Juice, and Sprite. ?⚧?❤????????????? The Tavern The Pride Paradise is made with the finest ingredients and is available both with and without alcohol, so everyone can join in the celebration. Your support helps us make a difference. Cheers to equality and inclusion! Special Events 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FREE HIV TESTING 71 Get culturally competent care for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community at the Dennis R. Neill FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, June 11th, 4pm - 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Know your status today! Every Tuesday from 4PM - 6PM Big, Scary Animals Friday, June 7th-16th, 8pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center – Liddy Doenges Theatre 110 E 2nd St S, Tulsa, OK What begins as a polite dinner conversation with their gay, multi-ethnic neighbors careens out of control. A hilarious collision of race, sex, guns, and sports, BIG, SCARY ANIMALS examines shifting generational beliefs and just how hard it is to raise a child regardless of who you are and where you live. TICKETS Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, June 27th, 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Then and Now takes the audience on a historical journey of the Broadway musical. Join Larry Gray, Jill Lingle, Alyssa McGuire, and accompanist Tracy Watson as they bounce back and forth through the history of their favorite Broadway tunes with a couple non-Broadway performance pieces added for fun. Also – featuring original artwork by Pamela Watson. Then and Now will journey from the waters of Dames @ Sea to the French Revolution; from Pajama Games to Untitled Show; and from Charlie Brown to The Bridges of Madison County. TICKETS Blended Saturday, June 29th, 12 Noon Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This peer-led support group is for parents in ono-traditional households (step-parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents etc.) Free childcare is also available! For more information email 2022blended@gmail.com A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nont raditional households (step parents, non-blo parents, bonus parents, etc). Free chi ldcare is also available! Please join us at NOON on JUNE 29th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2O22blended@g~ • LGBTQ+ Consumer Rights and Protections July 16th SAGE x CFPB x FTC Virtual/Online Session Dates/Topics: July 16th, 2024 - Retirement and Long-term Financial Planning Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), and the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) for a free webinar on retirement and long-term financial planning. Speakers from the three agencies will talk about how to protect resources from scammers, steps to becoming a financial caregiver, and information on investing and avoiding investment fraud. Hosted & Presente d By: qi ~{OEIW..TIIAOEC~ ReportFraud.ftc.gov cf -- OfflClloflnYntor Educnlon f Join this free three-part webinar series for a ⚡ discussion of consumer rights and protections in housing, retirement, and end-of-life planning. Learn about your rights in the marketplace and how to spot, avoid, and report frauds and scams. This series is hosted by the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Federal Trade Commission, Securities and Exchange Commission, and SAGE National Resource Center on LGBTQ+ Aging. September 17th, 2024 - End-of-life planning and your consumer rights Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on end-of-life planning issues. Speakers from FTC and CFPB will speak about: how to shop for funeral services with your consumer rights in mind; your options for longterm care; protections when it comes to nursing home debt collection; and how to take control of your finances after the death of a spouse or partner. Register Today In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ellTionaurn Bill Young Born Day - May 21st 2024 Bernd (Eric) Oehler Dec. 08, 1942 - June 7, 2024 In Memoriam Submissions click on the name to view obituary, if available. OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-«r- HEALTH -ci=-«rCLINIC Culturally(ompdrnt(arrforth~lGBTQ+(ommun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ASEXUAL ::;;.:.:::7:::::,::;;;:,:., 71 A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSR ElilTI-RElCieT WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhitr:-IB!l2roupforpeersupportandeducationaboutS'gstr:micracism .,fF~RN -CAREGIVER- lalt1lwr8dau of ~ AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. _month at tha lllnnia R.llail Equality Cant8r Affirm Caregiver IZlElltst.7-1:MI Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma Alyssa B<yant withLegal AidServicesof Oklahoma will beassisting the LGBTQ+ ___:'::::;: == :::::;•;::,; iryw::::; '" ;;;;, 'air ;;; - ;;;;: ;"';•rela ;;;'~;;; ;;; issue ;;;; •_ 71 lfyoubelieveyou'vebeeoavictim ofhousingdiscrimination,please caUtierat918-238-16561,oremail hefala!~~g. TheseseMcesa,eopentoeveryone rega,dlessolincomeand3re available throughouttheSta1e1or LGBTQ+persons. ~ ~ y of lM _, Atonffl ,,._ J2PM- 4PM. GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP The Gender Support provides support,educatioo,andsocial opportunitiesfortransgender andinterse~indilnduals. First-timein terviewis requiredbe!O<e att endingyourlirstmtt"ting Pk-asecontact Q1 8-74 3-4 2Q7 71 &.,-~ol,,.. ~front7""'1 f0 91W DIMilltNIIIEquallty, Tut...OK 7412$ Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. -------- Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. o i i 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Free HIV Test:ing Every Tuesday from4pm - &pml FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Fruity Pebbles Fruity Pebbles is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 13 to 17. ?⚧❤?????????? Every ✨Saturday from 1PM to 5PM✨ Fruity Pebbles gives youth opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutualaid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack/lunch is provided. For questions, please email shay.brewer@okeq.org for parent/guardian enrollment. This group meets every Saturday of the month at 1pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Lawyer in th~ [ibrary Na Gender Qgrrection ::":.:.-:.::.:·;::::..:-:·.:,"m 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ....,. ~:;:1~!~:.t-~ _______ OKIA H m ,tA, l sc . tat . .... - - . . . . . . JulieLGo,eewithl.e9,,lAid Se<vicesof --:71 Oklahoma is available for drOl) ln discussions / regarding lega l issues. I DennkR.Nelll[quallty.Tuisa,OK74128 Lawyer in the Library Clinic Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center is hosting a clinic for name and 7 oenderco<rections. Can'\ makeitinpe,-son?conract inf~kequali1ylaw.comtoschedu!e a consultation by Zoom. i--,, SKOnd ........-y of rtt. --'''-~-"_,m_.,_•~-'-"'.;; "'"' - ·- - - - - - - - ' -,,fro,nS.,3SPMro 7PM Dennls R.Neill Equallty.Tuls.a.OK74128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS ( OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Relationships Outside the Box Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS Asocia!o,ganizationformature-minoed GayandBlse,ualmen 71 A tcX"lal organization for matu~ rnlnd9d~andbisex1,1;11,....,10 ftUbllshlriendshipand$l,ll)l)Ol't llvvugt,10Cialln1.,Ktion AttendNs must be 21 ye.,rs or l'wwy---,n-.,,o1 _ ____. . . . . . . . ,,_7Nllio ..... Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 , OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRIJ&S First Qnd third SQturdQy of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGAL AID t SERVICES OF ti. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGAL AID t SERVICES OF =ti. OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Are you a young adult experiencing homelessness or housing instability? \IIJfi Get h e l p . applying for S upplemental A • : ~!~~'ti::ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. You may qualify for the Tulsa Hi gher Education Consortium 's Rapid Rehousing Program. Program requirements include: • Being ages 18-24 • Experiencing homelessness or at-risk of homelessness • Interested in enrolling or currently enrolled in one of the 9 colleges and universities that are in the Consortium Call toll-free to 1.18ZZl.l§.Q:filH 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: contact a Tul sa Higher Education Consortium Housing Navigator by emailing jjones@tulsahighered.com / sbrantley@tulsahighered.com Complete this form to be connected to a Housing Navigator: TULSA HIGHER EDUCATION Learn more at bungerfreeok ocg/resourcestsnap/ CONSORTIUM www.tulsahighered.com 11 I II OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Whitney Cipolla - President Paula Shannon - Vice President Eddie Carreno - Treasurer Yonah Jasper - Secretary Kaylyn Compton - Member at Large Board of Directors William Bonney Zoe Brett Grace Fallon Julia Fletcher Ben Matthews Lollie Moore Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Kasey Rhone Kylie Vanderslice Staff Andi Gunter - Deputy Director Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Sue Welch Board of Advisors Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Tom Vincent Cydney Williams Regis McDaniel - Archivist Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free tcxlay! 4/29/26, 12:53 PM � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Sub-Series] OKEQ > Publications > OKEQ eNews Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2024] OKEQ eNews https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/534cffa08b82fec10c2dd013894df979.pdf 24d2640b98aac8ef8e9bb3cae4859f1e PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm Honoring the Memory of Fernande Galindo: Caring for Our Community Our community is mourning the loss of a true friend today. Fern was a one-ofa-kind human being, a true force for good in our community. They had a remarkable gift for bringing people together, building relationships, and supporting networks wherever they went. Fern's heart was open wide, and they would drop everything to help a needy friend. They embodied the spirit of compassion. Fern’s dedication to a better, more inclusive world was truly inspiring. Known for their community service and advocacy, Fern founded several advocacy groups in Tulsa while working three jobs and single-parenting three neurodivergent and queer children. Their advocacy work includes founding the Tulsa Intersectional Care Network (TICN), a mutual aid organization that helps Tulsans in need access economic, social, and health resources among others. 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Fern was the embodiment of selflessness. They would give you the shirt off their back, and their commitment to their friends and the communities they built was unwavering. Sadly, Fern left us too soon, leaving their chosen family in Tulsa, OK, in deep grief and shock. Yet, in a testament to Fern's incredible impact, their chosen Tulsa family rallied to honor their memory. Within hours, their chosen family in St. Louis also joined in to offer support. In this challenging time, we must unite as a community and prioritize our mental health and well-being. Grief is a heavy burden, and we should remember that we are not alone. If you are struggling, please reach out to your community for support. Together, we can heal and carry Fern's legacy forward. As we remember Fern, we honor their memory by caring for one another. Their children's immediate needs are a priority, and we would like to ask you to consider supporting them if you can. Any contribution, no matter the size, will make a difference. In the spirit of Fern's kindness and dedication, let us remember them as a beacon of love and activism. May their memory be a source of inspiration and strength for our community. If you would like support or someone to talk to, please don't hesitate to contact OKEQ. Your mental health and well-being matter, and you are loved and valued. Thank you for taking the time to read and share this message. Let's come together and lift each other during this difficult time. As we remember and honor Fern, let us unite as a community to celebrate their impact on our lives and those they touched. In their memory, let us work toward a more equitable society, ensuring everyone knows they are loved, wanted, and valued. For those in our community who may be struggling, please don't hesitate to reach out for support. Below, you will find a list of resources that Fern would have wanted to share: • National Mental Health Lifeline: Call or text 988 It provides 24/7, free, and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals in the United States. • COPES: 918.744.4800 If you're in crisis and need immediate help, adults and children can call COPES at • Trans Lifeline: 877.565.8860 A peer support phone service run by trans people for our trans and questioning peers. Call us if you need someone trans to talk to, even if you’re not in a crisis or are not sure you’re trans. • LGBTQ National Hotline: 888.843.4564 Serves callers of all ages, 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... offering peer counseling, information, and local resources. • Al Carlozzi Center for Counseling: 918-594-8568 or online Let's carry forward Fern's compassion and activism spirit as we build a more inclusive and supportive community. New Programming A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Tuesday, October 17th l 6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, October 20th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. •J•·: ....,.. CENTER of EXCELLENCE - " - LGIITD+NNAVIOIIAL......._fl+IOUITY ,ii:';, Affirmative ~ RESEARCH Ages: 14-19 lstGro~:C,~~g~ st 25t h NOW OFFERING ~'~-~;~ti~•.• ..,.rr1 ~r~1fllf : ..' I . r:1 r L!J t,. • ·-~ • iJ a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy- based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th St. Tulsa Ok 74120 We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall wellbeing. The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework to ensure the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Register Here the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Special Events Real Boos, Real Booze, Fake Boobs Thursday, October 19th | 7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa Cabaret Queen is back for Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room! Join Tracy laLouisianne for a spooktacular Halloween drag cabaret. Tickets V ... .. . Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, October 21st |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo! With performances by Pride Royalty, Anita Richards, Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Special Guests Josie Lee Turrelle and Kallaya K Fierce. Win prizes from the Equality 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Business Alliance, and enjoy Empire Slice House Tulsa food! Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year-round, every 3rd Saturday of the month! 4)once of t{)e 4)eob en ml,}il'e CBoU - 621 E. tffH Sfll EET ---.T=U IS = A. OK 7='•12""0'-_ _ Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter 21 + with valid ID to drink Tickets Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! N:::.~~~R 3PM-6PM SHOW ■ AGES r:, L:J . 10&UNDER . . WORKSHOP 12PM-3PM AWARDS Saturday, November 4th | 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 BEST PERFORMANCE BEST COSTUME BEST MAKEUP https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to assist you in bringing your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I In Memoriam Iln MemoriWTI 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Fernande Galindo October 8, 1985 - October 12, 2023 Founder of Tulsa Intersectional Care Network and Tulsa Queer Exchange. Fern was a community builder and revolutionary. William Maurice "Rusty" Clyma III July 2, 1959 - September 16, 2023 Rusty was Emperor VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and the bishop of the Inckusive Celtic Church. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin of Ofdahoma will be assisting LGSTQ+ community with fair hoosins· scour rr<ooP 7131 5COUfTROOP 15 OPEN 1D ALL GIRLS ANO TRAN5/NONBINARY YOUTH ,VERY THVllSDAY OF TH, MONTH 6'30pM .;,. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTO+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... clarity until we have an answer. Brougl1lt 1' 0 ¥01111 Bi 1 ,rjt1Je ll.~tt~r _ __.~~ ~~!!.-"!!.-"~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@QdJ§§~~ "i:f'QdJ[b s & "IT'W@ =§~ □~ □"IT' 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... tulsaequalitygaming - - - · ®®rn@l®IP - ~lID]])I]XIDlru ®rf®l!U]]) Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ ++ 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. information. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LGBTQ+ persons. knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. • • ecialists are ava1lab • Ie to help you apply for SNAP apphcat1on sp . . bout 20 minutes. or renew SNAP benefits m a 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Now More Than Ever We Need You! Join Us in Building a More Inclusive Oklahoma Donate Today! Dear Friends, I hope this email finds you in good health and high spirits. As we mark the milestones of another successful Gala and Tulsa Pride this year, Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) continues in its vital mission — To seek equal rights for Two-Spirit, Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer and Questioning, Intersex, Asexual, and plus (2SLGBTQIA) individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We also hold the distinction of being the most comprehensive non-profit organization in the region and operating the 7th largest community center in the nation dedicated to 2SLGBTQIA+ focused human rights, services, and advocacy. However, we cannot do this work alone. Our success depends on the alliances of fellow community service partners, and most importantly, the generosity and support of individuals and business partners like you who share our vision for a more tolerant and compassionate Oklahoma. To continue meeting our mission under the hostile national and state-level legislative climate targeting our communities, we kindly ask for your assistance in the form of a one-time or recurring donation to help continue and further our vital work. 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Your contribution will directly impact the lives of 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and their families here in Tulsa and across the state. With your support, we can: Strengthen Advocacy: Advocate for equal rights, protection against discrimination, and fair representation in policies and legislation. Empower Youth and Seniors: Provide a nurturing environment for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth and seniors, offering mentorship, counseling, and educational resources. Offer Support Services: Extend assistance to those in need through support groups, mental health counseling, and crisis intervention. Foster Community: Organize events, workshops, and social gatherings that promote inclusivity and bridge gaps between different communities. Promote Education: Raise awareness and understanding through educational programs, seminars, and outreach initiatives. Your donation, no matter the size, will make a meaningful difference in the lives of countless individuals who rely on OkEq for support, empowerment, and hope. Donating is easy; simply visit our website at https://okeq.org/donate to contribute securely online. If you prefer, you can also mail your donation with the memo notated for “Operations” to the address below: Oklahomans for Equality 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We are a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization, and all contributions are taxdeductible to the extent allowed by law. On behalf of the entire team at OkEq and the 2SLGBTQIA+ community we serve, we extend our heartfelt gratitude for your continued support. Together, let's continue building a more inclusive, loving, and accepting Oklahoma. Thank you for your generosity and compassion! Sincerely, Dorothy Ballard Executive Director Oklahomans for Equality www.okeq.org Phone: (918) 743-4297 Please follow us on social media (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram) @OklahomansforEquality to stay updated on our latest events, success stories, and opportunities to get involved! Donate Now Special Events Coming Up 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, August 1st | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Queer Walking Group Wednesday, August 2nd | 7a Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join a new Queer walking group and take part in their weekly meetups! Every Wednesday at 7am, weather permitting, on the La Fortune Park Trail. Come along and enjoy a refreshing and energizing morning walk. For more information, contact Miki at mikismagikals@gmail.com. Housin of otlahoma wm be assist ins These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, August 2nd | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 23 RSVP https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Queer Women Collective Wednesday, August 2nd | 5.30p The Max Retropub 114 S Elgin Ave, Tulsa, OK Is anyone up for some pop rocks and skeeball?! We will see you at @themaxretropub on 8/2! Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Chandra Valkyrie Tuesday, August 3rd | 6p - 9p 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK My name is Chandra Valkyrie, and I'm a visionary artist. My approach to art revolves around my mental health, as I find it incredibly therapeutic to allow my emotions to spill onto whatever object I can find in a colorful, full-bleed, no-rules-sloppy-mandala style. To achieve this, I often use the surrealist automatism method of art-making, which involves suppressing conscious control over the process and letting the unconscious mind take over. Because of the therapeutic way I create, themes from events from my life will spill out onto my current artwork. My focus now is healing from a traumatic situation via a deepening practice of self-compassion. You will see themes of compassionate self-talk and learning to trust self in the Love Yo Self show and I hope it can inspire others to find the self-compassion to heal from traumatic experiences. I also have a fascination for AI art and am curious as to how it will evolve into our lives, good and bad. I will be sharing some of my favorite AI art pieces and inviting guests to start a discussion about what they think of AI art. First Thursdays Gallery Openings: Discover the heart and soul behind the art at our First Thursdays gallery openings. Meet the brilliant artists in person, and engage in fascinating conversations about their creative process. While you indulge your senses in the mesmerizing artwork, we'll pamper your taste buds with delectable snacks and refreshing drinks. Join us and let this artistic journey inspire you to embrace and "Love Yo' Self!" For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/art-gallery.html - -- - --------- ---- ---- or follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OKEQArtGallery. - -- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Take advantage of this exceptional artistic experience! See you there! scour rrzooP 71S1 5COIJT1ROOP 15 OPEN TO ALL GIRLS AND 1RAN5INONBINARY YOUTH ,v,RY TMRSD~Y OF m, MONT~ 6,30pw, .;.. ---- 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Thursday, August 3rd | 6.30p-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Hey there! If you're interested in joining Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 pm and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. ASL 101 Saturday, August 5th | 10.30a-12p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Embark on an exciting and captivating American Sign Language course at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to begin your learning journey! Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a fun and interactive American Sign Language (ASL) class every Saturday at 10:30am til August 19th. For more information, please get in touch with Yonah at yonah.sienna@gmail.com. Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, August 8th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie can answer basic questions on 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. RSVP If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Email julie.goree@laok.org. - - Phone (918)295-9429. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, August 9th | 5.30p-7.00p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Focus Group Discussion 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... COVIfJ # WE MEED YOUR VOICE! WHEN: FRIDAY, 8/11/23 TIME: 5:JOPM-7:00 PM YWCA TULSA 1910 S. LEWIS A VE. E ALITY Business Alliance If you would like to host a mixer, EBA Mixer with Ingredion Wednesday, August 16th |6p Ingredion Incorporated 810 S Cincinnati Ave, 4th Floor Tulsa, OK Join us for our EBA Mixer with Ingredion Ingredion Incorporated is an 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.htm American multinational ingredient provider based in Westchester, Illinois, producing mainly starch, modified starches, and starch sugars such as glucose syrup and high fructose syrup. www.ingredion.com The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month, 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Presents Swing West! Thursday, August 17th |7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Get your tickets today! Oklahomans For Equality Affirm Friday, August 18th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to helo LGBTO+ vouth We are thrilled to share the news that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... manage stress. ~;-•:: ••r.• CENTER of EXCELLENCE .,,.._ lG.TQ•lfMAVIOAAlMIEALTMfOUITV ~ Affirmative ~ RESEARCH Ages:14-19 lstGroupAugust NOW OFFERING 18,6pm 10-12 weeks Jllf Upto15 participants ~r~, .,.rrt a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. l!lH.1,_:., 621 E 4th St. Tulsa Ok 74120 Free to Participate Register Here TULSA RE~LLY.z REALLY FRE1: MARKET A Community Sharing Event Every 3rd Saturday • 12p-4p I 621 E. 4th St Clothing • Housewares • Books • Gadgets• Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is specifically designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework aimed at ensuring the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 18th at 6 pm. This amazing program lasts from 10-12 weeks and has plenty of room for up to 15 participants. Don't miss out on this incredible opportunity! Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, August 19th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! RSVP Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ ----- --- --- - ~ ,, TULSA PRIDE ~ BHN0 0 Ever~ third So.turdo.~ of the month. Doors open o.t 6:30 pm. TI CKETS AVA ILABLE ,H WWW.OkEQ.ORG Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, August 19th |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tickets around! Mark your calendars for every third Saturday of the month! Join us for an evening filled with mouth-watering pizza and exciting prizes from our Equality Business Alliance members on Saturday, August 19th. Our EBA member, Empire Slice House Tulsa, will provide delicious pizzas for your indulgence. You will be entertained by an incredible lineup of performers, including Anita Richards, Josie Turelle, 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Nakita Fierce! If you want to experience it; doors open at 6:30 pm. The OIT U Mentorship Program application process is underway for the Fall 2023 cohort! Deadline to Apply: August 20, 2023 (we encourage applying as soon as possible). Out in Tech U’s Mentorship Program pairs LGBTQ+ youth aged 17-24 with tech professionals from Out in Tech’s membership. Each mentee is paired with a mentor to learn a mix of technical and professional skills needed for launching a successful career in tech. The Fall 2023 cohort for Out in Tech U starts in October and runs for 8 consecutive weeks. Mentees will work towards the completion of a project throughout the program. Mentee Application Time Requirements: 3 hours per week with some upfront training and kickoff preparation. Mentorship generally consists of two x 1-hour one-on-one sessions. We strongly encourage women, Black, Latinx, and transgender/nonbinary / or gender non-conforming individuals to apply for mentor and mentee roles. Know someone? Pass this on! 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY PRES ENTS OKEQ Youth Talent Show Saturday, September 2nd | 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK lfp~;!r~ S H OW 02,2023 ~AGES ~ 13-18 Show off your talent and skills at our Youth Talent Show, hosted by Scrappy Legacy! Ages 13 - 18! Saturday, September 2nd. Doors at 3:00 PM. AWARDS BEST PERFORMANCE REGISTER HERE For more information, email shay.brewer@okeq.org. BEST COSTUME BEST MAKEUP GN UP Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! ~~-''T. '' ! ' ! ... ,~"...--.~ Tulsa Equality Game Night ,:i' ··a AMENIGHT EVERY LAST TUESDAY OF THE MONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming Tuesday, September 26th | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Flyover Fest 2023 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. Na!,.1CY &Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Medicaid 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Medicaid covers a broad range of services, many of which are important for people living with HIV or those at risk for HIV, including prescription drugs, inpatient and outpatient care, and preventative measures. Go to healthcare.gov to see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters #KnowYourStatus #GetCovered #Enroll365 -ci=-f- OKEO HEALTH -ci=-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln Memoriaurn 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tom Burton 1/18/1948 - 7/10/2023 In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Brougbt 1' 0 YOlli Bi 1 ,~t1Je lL~tt~r ___. ~~ ~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and ~ ~ ~ ~ ~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@QdJ§§~~ "IT'QdJ[b s & "IT'W@ =§~ □~ □"IT' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ®®rncll®IP ~Dnl])I]XIDlru @rP®Dnl]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners hone • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 23 ■ testing Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA O RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. \IS'1 Get h e l p . supplemental applying for • • :~!;~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: ~ ~~ Learn more at hungedreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed ooe e s e Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:00 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/16cd293b903f0fb69087be937a4aaa19.pdf e86fa5f6b3c36874a1d3f1722e15d319 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Now More Than Ever We Need You! Join Us in Building a More Inclusive Oklahoma Donate Today! Dear Friends, I hope this email finds you in good health and high spirits. As we mark the milestones of another successful Gala and Tulsa Pride this year, Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) continues in its vital mission — To seek equal rights for Two-Spirit, Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer and Questioning, Intersex, Asexual, and plus (2SLGBTQIA) individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We also hold the distinction of being the most comprehensive non-profit organization in the region and operating the 7th largest community center in the nation dedicated to 2SLGBTQIA+ focused human rights, services, and advocacy. However, we cannot do this work alone. Our success depends on the alliances of fellow community service partners, and most importantly, the generosity and support of individuals and business partners like you who share our vision for a more tolerant and compassionate Oklahoma. To continue meeting our mission under the hostile national and state-level legislative climate targeting our communities, we kindly ask for your assistance in the form of a one-time or recurring donation to help continue and further our vital work. 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Your contribution will directly impact the lives of 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and their families here in Tulsa and across the state. With your support, we can: Strengthen Advocacy: Advocate for equal rights, protection against discrimination, and fair representation in policies and legislation. Empower Youth and Seniors: Provide a nurturing environment for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth and seniors, offering mentorship, counseling, and educational resources. Offer Support Services: Extend assistance to those in need through support groups, mental health counseling, and crisis intervention. Foster Community: Organize events, workshops, and social gatherings that promote inclusivity and bridge gaps between different communities. Promote Education: Raise awareness and understanding through educational programs, seminars, and outreach initiatives. Your donation, no matter the size, will make a meaningful difference in the lives of countless individuals who rely on OkEq for support, empowerment, and hope. Donating is easy; simply visit our website at https://okeq.org/donate to contribute securely online. If you prefer, you can also mail your donation with the memo notated for “Operations” to the address below: Oklahomans for Equality 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We are a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization, and all contributions are taxdeductible to the extent allowed by law. On behalf of the entire team at OkEq and the 2SLGBTQIA+ community we serve, we extend our heartfelt gratitude for your continued support. Together, let's continue building a more inclusive, loving, and accepting Oklahoma. Thank you for your generosity and compassion! Sincerely, Dorothy Ballard Executive Director Oklahomans for Equality www.okeq.org Phone: (918) 743-4297 Please follow us on social media (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram) @OklahomansforEquality to stay updated on our latest events, success stories, and opportunities to get involved! Donate Now Special Events Coming Up 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, August 8th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, August 8th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. RSVP Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. LaFo,tune Pa,k -= Email julie.goree@laok.org. Phone (918)295-9429. ~ Queer Walking Group 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 23 UEER https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Wednesday, August 9th | 7a Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join a new Queer walking group and take part in their weekly meetups! Every Wednesday at 7am, weather permitting, on the La Fortune Park Trail. Come along and enjoy a refreshing and energizing morning walk. For more information, contact Miki at mikismagikals@gmail.com. Housin of otlohomo will be assist ins These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, August 9th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, August 9th | 5.30p-7p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Wednesday, August 9th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ( The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals. Ages 18+. As part of our enrollment process, we request that all interested participants undergo a first-time interview before attending their initial meeting. We recommend arriving early and letting the front desk know you are here for the discussion to facilitate this process. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 scour rrzooP 71S1 5COUTTROOP 15 OPEN TO ALL GIRLS AND TRAN5/NONBINARY YOUTH fVeRY TMRSDAY OF Tfff MO/JTff 6,30 pw, Thursday, August 10th | 6.30p-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Hey there! If you're interested in joining Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 pm and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... :- . ,• '! ...... .. ::_'.~~· Sl"PPORT CO. •. "EC r,o. • GRO 0 H ....... . call or t~nu ii for mor<• in format ion ASL 101 Saturday, August 12th | 10.30a-12p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Embark on an exciting and 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... captivating American Sign Language course at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to begin your learning journey! Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a fun and interactive American Sign Language (ASL) class every Saturday at 10:30am til August 19th. For more information, please get in touch with Yonah at yonah.sienna@gmail.com. Focus Group Discussion # WE MEED YOUR VOICE! WHEM: FRIDAY, 8/11/23 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... YWCA TULSA 1910 S. LEWIS A VE. EBA Mixer with Inheritance Juicery Wednesday, August 16th |6p Inheritance Juicery 108 S Detroit Ave, Tulsa, OK If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.htm We would love to continue to grow and expand our reach to bring organic, cold-pressed juice to towns all over Oklahoma. Whether it is an Inheritance Juicery or another organic juice bar, we hope to one day see as many health-focused food options as we see fast-food restaurants. We want to inspire other businesses to choose quality over convenience and people over profit. We hope to inspire communities t want health, honesty, courage, and honor. inheritancejuicery.com The Equality Business Alliance fosters sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services and strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month, 6:00 .– 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Presents Swing West! Thursday, August 17th |7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Get your tickets today! Oklahomans For Equality Affirm Friday, August 18th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. ~:~ ··: ~ Affirmative t •f.i CENTER of EXCELLENCE > , . LG&lQ•8lHAVIOIIALHIALTHIQUlfY ~ RESEARCH Ages:14-19 lstGroupAugust NOW OFFERING 18,6pm 10-12 weeks ftlf Upto15 ~f!~, participants .,.rrt [!] ,._ a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th St. Tulsa Ok 74120 Free to Participate Register Here TULSA RE LLY.a REALLY FRE1: MARKET A Community Sharing Event I 621 E. 4th St Every 3rd Saturday • 12p-4p Clothing • Housewares • Books • Gadgets• Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! RSVP We are thrilled to share the news that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is specifically designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework aimed at ensuring the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 18th at 6 pm. This amazing program lasts from 10-12 weeks and has plenty of room for up to 15 participants. Don't miss out on this incredible opportunity! Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, August 19th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, August 19th |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Ever~ third Saturda~ of the month. Doors open at 6:30 pm. TICKETS AVAILABLE AT WWW.OICEQ.ORG ~m~ "' Tickets HN Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year around! Mark your calendars for every third Saturday of the month! Join us for an evening filled with mouth-watering pizza and exciting prizes from our Equality Business Alliance members on Saturday, August 19th. Our EBA member, Empire Slice House Tulsa, will provide delicious pizzas for your indulgence. You will be entertained by an incredible lineup of performers, including Anita Richards, Josie Turelle, 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Nakita Fierce! If you want to experience it; doors open at 6:30 pm. The OIT U Mentorship Program application process is underway for the Fall 2023 cohort! Deadline to Apply: August 20, 2023 (we encourage applying as soon as possible). Out in Tech U’s Mentorship Program pairs LGBTQ+ youth aged 17-24 with tech professionals from Out in Tech’s membership. Each mentee is paired with a mentor to learn a mix of technical and professional skills needed for launching a successful career in tech. 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Fall 2023 cohort for Out in Tech U starts in October and runs for 8 consecutive weeks. Mentees will work towards the completion of a project throughout the program. Mentee Application Time Requirements: 3 hours per week with some upfront training and kickoff preparation. Mentorship generally consists of two x 1-hour one-on-one sessions. We strongly encourage women, Black, Latinx, and transgender/nonbinary / or gender non-conforming individuals to apply for mentor and mentee roles. Know someone? Pass this on! The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Chandra Valkyrie Through August 31st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK My name is Chandra Valkyrie, and I'm a visionary artist. My approach to art revolves around my mental health, as I find it incredibly therapeutic to allow my emotions to spill onto whatever object I can find in a colorful, full-bleed, no-rulessloppy-mandala style. To achieve this, I often use the surrealist automatism method of art-making, which involves suppressing conscious control over the process and letting the unconscious mind take over. Because of the therapeutic way I create, themes from events from my life will spill out onto my current artwork. OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY PRESENTS OKEQ Youth Talent Show V f t 11 T U 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Saturday, September 2nd | 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK lfp~;!r: SHOW 02,2023 ~AGES 13-18 iiil Show off your talent and skills at our Youth Talent Show, hosted by Scrappy Legacy! Ages 13 - 18! Saturday, September 2nd. Doors at 3:00 PM. AWARDS BEST PERFORMANCE For more information, email shay.brewer@okeq.org. BEST COSTUME BEST MAKEUP ~~~ GN UP Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Register Here -;-:;~'7. ', f' ! .... -:...~~·~ ...... Tulsa Equality Game Night [3/),'i/.~.&ili.'ll:ill,~'i/. , ,.i-' GAME NIGHT EVERY LAST TUESDAY OF THE MONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming A BENEIII FDR OKIAHOMANS FDR IQUAIITY FLYOVER FEST 2023 NOVEMBER 17™ -191H .of1/1' VFW POST 5n - TULSA, OK ~Jllll ol tnl(~ TBAONB/1 l'IZn~ 7(t HES'l'lu\lNJN(.. 1,1;. -'J.21 C)llDl~ll 8 I8 Tuesday, September 26th | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. II MOURNING STIIR - IINKLEBITER - BIIZOOKIITOOTH - BRIil 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. NatKY&Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Medicaid Medicaid covers a broad range of services, many of which are important for people living with HIV or those at risk for HIV, including prescription drugs, inpatient and outpatient care, and preventative measures. Go to healthcare.gov to 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters #KnowYourStatus #GetCovered #Enroll365 OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-fCLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln Memoriaurrn 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tom Burton 1/18/1948 - 7/10/2023 In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Broug11lt T10 Yott Bi T lt1J@; IL~ t t ~ it 1 -~~~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! ~~~~~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras X OKEQ 0[i:::!)@)0~0@(!:D§ § ~~ 'v'MC!:::,s& 'v'W@ = §lPD~D'v' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming --- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. @r@rncfil®lf ~Dlll])I]XIDrffi @lf®Dnl]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Outside the Box Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF = 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 23 sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... make an appointment today. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Jlst} Get h e l p . supplemental applying for :~!~~\i:;ce A • P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:01 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e0c85a889f270c787986ae3a4636a166.pdf 2e5898f813fbd220860bc5abc09a878b PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, August 15th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Queer Walking Group Wednesday, August 16th | 7a LaFortune Park Trail 5202 S Hudson Ave, Tulsa, OK Join a new Queer walking group and take part in their weekly meetups! 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Every Wednesday at 7 am, weather permitting, on the La Fortune Park Trail. Come along and enjoy a refreshing and energizing morning walk. For more information, contact Miki at mikismagikals@gmail.com. Housin Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, August 16th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Wednesday, August 16th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals. Ages 18+. As part of our enrollment process, we ask that all interested participants undergo a first-time interview before attending their first meeting. We recommend arriving early and letting the front desk know you are here for the discussion to facilitate this process. 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SCOUTS TROOP 7484 scour rrzooP 74-g4- SCOUTTIWOP IS OPEN 1D ALL GIRLS AND 1RANS/NONBINARY YOlfTH fVfRY THURSD~Y OF Tfff MONTH 6:30pW1 Thursday, August 17th | 6.30p-7.30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ~ --- Hey there! If you're interested in joining Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 pm and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Presents Swing West! Thursday, August 17th |7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Get your tickets today! Oklahomans For Equality Affirm Friday, August 18th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. '.. Affirmative ~:-• .CENTER of EXCELLENCE ~ ~ RESEARCH LGaTQ• • EH ...YIO RALH&ALTH EQUITT Ages:14-19 lstGroupAugust NOW OFFERING 18,6pm 10-12 weeks Up to 15 We are thrilled to share the news that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is specifically designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 21 participants https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... f'T ,.,_, ./f a Cognitive Behavioral N W ~ ~ l ' ! I Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th St. Tulsa Ok 74120 Free to Participate Register Here The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework aimed at ensuring the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 18th at 6 pm. This amazing program lasts from 10-12 weeks and has plenty of room for up to 15 participants. Don't miss out on this incredible opportunity! ASL 101 Saturday, August 19th | 10.30a-12p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Embark on an exciting and captivating American Sign Language course at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to begin your learning journey! Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a fun and interactive American Sign Language (ASL) class every Saturday at 10:30am til August 19th. For more information, please get in touch with Yonah at yonah.sienna@gmail.com. TULSA RE LLY.z REALLY FRE1: MARKET A Community Sharing Event Every 3rd Saturday • 12p-4p I 621 E. 4th St Clothing • Housewares • Books • Gadgets• Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, August 19th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ 111'1' , ~ ,ULSA PRIDE ... BHN© O . Ever~ third So.turdo.~ of the month. Doors open o.t 6:30 pm. TICKETS AVAILABLE AT WWW.OICEQ.ORG ~ m~ "' Tickets HN Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, August 19th |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year around! Mark your calendars for every third Saturday of the month! Join us for an evening filled with mouth-watering pizza and exciting prizes from our Equality Business Alliance members on Saturday, August 19th. Our EBA member, Empire Slice House Tulsa, will provide delicious pizzas for your indulgence. You will be entertained by an incredible lineup of performers, including Anita Richards, Josie Turelle, 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Nakita Fierce! If you want to experience it; doors open at 6:30 pm. The OIT U Mentorship Program application process is underway for the Fall 2023 cohort! Deadline to Apply: August 20, 2023 (we encourage applying as soon as possible). Out in Tech U’s Mentorship Program pairs LGBTQ+ youth aged 17-24 with tech professionals from Out in Tech’s membership. Each mentee is paired with a mentor to learn a mix of technical and professional skills 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... needed for launching a successful career in tech. The Fall 2023 cohort for Out in Tech U starts in October and runs for 8 consecutive weeks. Mentees will work towards the completion of a project throughout the program. Mentee Application Time Requirements: 3 hours per week with some upfront training and kickoff preparation. Mentorship generally consists of two x 1-hour one-on-one sessions. We strongly encourage women, Black, Latinx, and transgender/nonbinary / or gender non-conforming individuals to apply for mentor and mentee roles. Know someone? Pass this on! OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Tuesday, August 22nd l 10 am RSVP for address Members should meet on Tuesday, August 22, at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and a railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. Put "Pool Party" in the subject line. E ALITY usiness Alliance EBA Mixer with Ingredion Wednesday, August 24th |6p Ingredion 810 S Cincinnati Ave, 4th Floor Tulsa, OK Ingredion Incorporated is an American multinational ingredient provider based in Westchester, Illinois, producing mainly starch, modified starches, and starch sugars 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 21 If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.htm https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... such as glucose syrup and high fructose syrup. www.ingredion.com The Equality Business Alliance fosters sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, strengthening and expanding our businesses, careers, and community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Chandra Valkyrie Through August 31st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK My name is Chandra Valkyrie, and I'm a visionary artist. My approach to art revolves around my mental health, as I find it incredibly therapeutic to allow my emotions to spill onto whatever object I can find in a colorful, full-bleed, no-rulessloppy-mandala style. To achieve this, I often use the surrealist automatism method of art-making, which involves suppressing conscious control over the process and letting the unconscious mind take over. Because of the therapeutic way I create, themes from events from my life will spill out onto my current artwork. 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0 ....... . c·all or <'Ill~ ii for more• in format ion OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY PRESENTS 3PM-6PM SEPTEMBER 02,2023 sHOw OKEQ Youth Talent Show Saturday, September 2nd | 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Show off your talent and skills at our 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Youth Talent Show, hosted by Scrappy Legacy! Ages 13 - 18! ~ AGES iii 13-18 Saturday, September 2nd. Doors at 3:00 PM. AWARDS BEST PERFORMANCE For more information, email shay.brewer@okeq.org. BEST COSTUME BEST MAKEUP GN UP Register Here ~v":'1; f' ! .. .~-!.~-...: A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A ce's Committed to Equality All are welcome, Aces and Allies. Contact Tyger Songbird at TygerSongbird@gmail.com q O.W.llNeilE(ll,dilyCenttt Tuesday, September 5th l 5 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 1>21E•lh.St., Tuho,OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to get in touch with Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, September 12th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Email julie.goree@laok.org. Phone (918)295-9429. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, September 13th | 5.30p-7p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Tulsa Equality Game Night W:,'u'.~.~ ~'u'. EVERYLASTTUESDAYOFTHEMONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming Tuesday, September 26th | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! - 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. NatKY&Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Volunteer Sign-up Library Catalog Medicaid Medicaid covers a broad range of services, many of which are important for people living with HIV or those at risk for HIV, including prescription drugs, inpatient and outpatient care, and preventative measures. Go to healthcare.gov to see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters #KnowYourStatus #GetCovered #Enroll365 -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... «.?JJI ll ll Zora Cates Lamb Oct. 31, 1924 - Aug. 11, 2023 Grandmother "Nona" of Olivia Cotter In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Broug!1t 1' 0 Yo11i Bi 1 t1J ~ IL(?; t f (?; r ,~~~~ rj ~~!:,,"!:,,"~~ 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D[j::;!]@)0@10@(1[)§ § ~~ 7J"(1[J[b,§£ "iJ"W@=§[pO~O"iJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ~rncll@1r ~Dnl])]]XIDlfa @rf®Dnl]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. ....-.. - - -- - - 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Jl l f.l Get h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!;~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877} 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq. org/ donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Special Events Coming Up OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Canceled due to unforeseen circumstances Members should meet on Tuesday, August 22, at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center as usual for coffee. If you have any questions, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org. FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, August 22nd | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK kc H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Queer Walking Group Wednesday, August 23rd | 7a LaFortune Park Trail 5202 S Hudson Ave, Tulsa, OK Join a new Queer walking group and take part in their weekly meetups! Every Wednesday at 7 am, weather permitting, on the La Fortune Park Trail. Come along and enjoy a refreshing and energizing morning walk. For more information, contact Miki at mikismagikals@gmail.com. Housin Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, August 23rd | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP E ALITY usiness Alliance Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. EBA Mixer with Ingredion Wednesday, August 24th |6p Ingredion 810 S Cincinnati Ave, 4th Floor Tulsa, OK Ingredion Incorporated is an American multinational ingredient 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.htm provider based in Westchester, Illinois, producing mainly starch, modified starches, and starch sugars such as glucose syrup and high fructose syrup. www.ingredion.com The Equality Business Alliance fosters sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, strengthening and expanding our businesses, careers, and community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 scour rr<ooP 74-g4- 5COIJ1"1ROOP 15 OPEN m All GIRL5 AND 1RAN5/NONBINARY YOU1H .VERY rttuRSD~Y OF rtt, MONTH Thursday, August 24th | 6.30p-7.30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 6,30 PIM Hey there! If you're interested in joining Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 pm and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality Affirm Friday, August 25th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth We are thrilled to share the news that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... manage stress. ~ ... \-1.-•CENTER of EXCELLENCE A .. G.TQ• 111:MAVIORAI..MIAI.TM t:OUITY ~ Affirmative W RESEARCH Ages:14-19 lstGroupAugust NOW OFFERING 18,6pm 10-12 weeks lllf Upto15 participants ~r~, -,.rrt a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th St. Tulsa Ok 74120 Free to Participate Register Here available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is specifically designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework aimed at ensuring the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This amazing program lasts 10-12 weeks and has plenty of room for up to 15 participants. Don't miss out on this incredible opportunity! The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Chandra Valkyrie Through August 31st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK My name is Chandra Valkyrie, and I'm a visionary artist. My approach to art revolves around my mental health, as I find it incredibly therapeutic to allow my emotions to spill onto whatever object I can find in a colorful, full-bleed, no-rulessloppy-mandala style. To achieve this, I often use the surrealist automatism method of art-making, which involves suppressing conscious control over the process and letting the unconscious mind take over. Because of the therapeutic way I create, themes from events from my life will spill out onto my current artwork. PASSAGES 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Runs thru August 31st Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK Celebrated filmmaker Ira Sachs (Love is Strange) makes a breathtaking return with PASSAGES, a fresh, honest, and brutally funny take on messy, modern relationships, starring Franz Rogowski (Great Freedom), Ben Whishaw (Women Talking) and Adèle Exarchopoulos (Blue Is the Warmest Colour). Set in Paris, this seductive drama tells the story of Tomas (Rogowski) and Martin (Whishaw), a gay couple whose marriage is thrown into crisis when Tomas begins a passionate affair with Agathe (Exarchopoulos), a younger woman he meets after completing his latest film. Trailer Tickets OKEQ Youth Talent Show Saturday, September 2nd | 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Show off your talent and skills at our Youth Talent Show, hosted by Scrappy Legacy! Ages 13 - 18! Saturday, September 2nd. Doors at 3:00 PM. For more information, email shay.brewer@okeq.org. Register Here 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY PRESENTS lrp~;!r~ S HOW 02,2023 • AGES . 13-18 AWARDS BEST PERFORMANCE BEST COSTUME BEST MAKEUP GN UP ½-''7. '' ! ' 1.,. -:.~-·•'-~ A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A ce's Committed to Equality All are welcome, Aces and Allies. Contact Tyger Songbi rd at TygerSongbird@gmail.com DannilRNoilE<IU<lfity-Cer>10< q. Tuesday, September 5th l 5 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 1>2\E41h.St., T......_OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to get in touch with Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Wednesday, September 6th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ( The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled monthly on the first Wednesday of each month. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. This preliminary interaction is designed to enhance the familiarity and comfort of our participants before their inaugural meeting. For seamless integration, we suggest arriving a bit earlier and notifying our reception staff of your presence, specifying your attendance for the upcoming discussion. This proactive step will help expedite the process and streamline your introduction to the community. Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, September 12th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Email julie.goree@laok.org. Phone (918)295-9429. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, September 13th | 5.30p-7p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. TULSA RE LLY.z REALLYFREc MARKET A Community Sharing Event Every 3rd Saturday • 12p-4p I 621 E. 4th St Clothing • Housewares • Books • Gadgets• Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, September 16th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ II'"' ,ULSA PRIDE .,, ~ BHN0 0 Saturday, September 16th | 6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Ever~ third Saturda~ of the month. Doors open at 6:30 pm. TICKETS AVAILABLE AT WWW.OICEQ.ORG ~m~ lyf Tickets Tulsa Pride Bingo "" Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year around! Mark your calendars for every third Saturday of the month! Join us for an evening filled with mouth-watering pizza and exciting prizes from our Equality Business Alliance members on Saturday, August 19th. Our EBA member, Empire Slice House Tulsa, will provide delicious pizzas for your indulgence. You will be entertained by an incredible lineup of performers, including Anita Richards, Josie Turelle, 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Nakita Fierce! If you want to experience it; doors open at 6:30 pm. OKEQ Annual Board Meeting Thursday, September 21st | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK It is the last meeting of our current fiscal year, and we will be electing the officers for the next fiscal year. We would love to have members of the community come. Self Defense Class 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FENSE s~ SATURDAY SEPTEMBER 23RD Saturday, September 23rd | 1p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 1:00 PM Tulsa Equality Game Night ,i' GAMENIGH'T EVERY LAST TUESDAY OF THE MONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming ~ance of t{)e ~eab en ml,)ire Q,afl 621 E. tffH Sfll EET TU ISA, O K 7,,_ ,,1._.2,, 0_ _ _ _ Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter Tuesday, September 26th | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 21 + with valid ID to drink Tickets Vendor Signup readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. NatKY&Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Volunteer Sign-up Library Catalog Sl.PPORT c◄O . •. ·..:c rto. • CiRO H o 'rul.· 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... <·all or t~mail for mor<' informal ion Medicaid Medicaid covers a broad range of services, many of which are important for people living with HIV or those at risk for HIV, including prescription drugs, inpatient and outpatient care, and preventative measures. Go to healthcare.gov to see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters #KnowYourStatus #GetCovered #Enroll365 -~-<r- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-<r- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln Memoriaum Zora Cates Lamb Oct. 31, 1924 - Aug. 11, 2023 Grandmother "Nona" of Olivia Cotter Bob Glahn Jan. 4 - Aug. 2, 2023 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac.. OKEQ Programming ~~il~1J ~Tl{rL J9 ffilOj\ OrL i11il1noi9 ((A a Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Randall Weiss (he/they) 15 of 23 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D[j::;!]@)0@10@(1[)§§~~ 7J"(1[J[b,§£ 7J"W@=§[p0~07J" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming --- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. @r@rncfil®lf ~Dlll])I]XIDrffi @lf®Dnl]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Outside the Box Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF = 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 23 sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... make an appointment today. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Jlst} Get h e l p . supplemental applying for :~!~~\i:;ce A • P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Ron Brady Fern Galindo Jodi Rachel Green Ryan Fitzpatrick Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Bonita James Michael James Kevin Knight Gary Percefull Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed ooe e s e Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:03 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6a74618a7e28acefe4b8a6318207bb77.pdf 2aa09a6a2c203583b110459455ebc5da PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Special Events Coming Up OKEQ Seniors Movie Day Tuesday, August 29th | 10a-12p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ? Calling all movie enthusiasts over 55! ? Join us for a fantastic movie day hosted by OKEQ Seniors. ? Mark your calendars for Tuesday, August 29th, at 10 a.m. Enjoy a morning of films, drinks, snacks, and wonderful community vibes. ?? We can't wait to see you there! Don't miss out on the fun. ? FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, August 29th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Housin of Oldahoma will be ossistins These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, August 30th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 scour rrzooP 74-g4- 5COUT1ROOP 15 OPEN TO ALL GIRL5 AND lRAN5/NONBINARY YOUTH €VfRY Tff~RSMY OF Tff€ MO/JTff Thursday, August 31st | 6.30p-7.30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 630 pw, Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Chandra Valkyrie 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Through August 31st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK My name is Chandra Valkyrie, and I'm a visionary artist. My approach to art revolves around my mental health, as I find it incredibly therapeutic to allow my emotions to spill onto whatever object I can find in a colorful, full-bleed, no-rulessloppy-mandala style. To achieve this, I often use the surrealist automatism method of art-making, which involves suppressing conscious control over the process and letting the unconscious mind take over. Because of the therapeutic way I create, themes from events from my life will spill out onto my current artwork. PASSAGES Runs thru August 31st Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK Celebrated filmmaker Ira Sachs (Love is Strange) makes a breathtaking return with PASSAGES, a fresh, honest, and brutally funny take on messy, modern relationships, starring Franz Rogowski (Great Freedom), Ben Whishaw (Women Talking) and Adèle Exarchopoulos (Blue Is the Warmest Colour). Set in Paris, this seductive drama tells the story of Tomas (Rogowski) and Martin (Whishaw), a gay couple whose marriage is thrown into crisis when Tomas begins a passionate affair with Agathe (Exarchopoulos), a younger woman he meets after completing his latest film. 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Trailer Tickets Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, September 1st |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. ~ ;: ~ CENTER of EXCELLENCE L~TQ+ ...IIAYIOIIALHUJ.THlQUITY ,~ ~ Affirmative iif =~~~~No RE SEARCH -....:. ,• ....,_,_,.,._,.,_ ,.,,...,,.0,,, .. _ •. .,., Ages: 14-19 lstG,o~:o~~g~ ,t 25th NOW OFFERING ~~::_:;,@ AFFllllf :r:1..~r- •·-~• L!J t,, a Cognitive Behavioral iJ Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th Sl Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY PRESENTS 3PM-6PM SEPTEMBER 02,2023 • sHOw AGES . 13-18 We are thrilled to share the news that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is specifically designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework aimed at ensuring the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This amazing program lasts 10-12 weeks and has plenty of room for up to 15 participants. Don't miss out on this incredible opportunity! OKEQ Youth Talent Show Saturday, September 2nd | 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Show off your talent and skills at our Youth Talent Show, hosted by Scrappy Legacy! Ages 13 - 18! Saturday, September 2nd. Doors at 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 3:00 PM. AWARDS BEST PERFORMANCE For more information, email shay.brewer@okeq.org. BEST COSTUME BEST MAKEUP GN UP Register Here ;-~-''7:. '. ! ' ( ':.~-"'- ~ ....... ~ A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A ce's Committed to Equality All are welcome, Aces and Allies. . Contact Tyger Songbi rd at TygerSongbird@gmail.com 0-W..ll.WE.,..,,i;tyCenttt 1>21Elolh.Sl., Tulto,OK q Tuesday, September 5th l 5 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to get in touch with Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Wednesday, September 6th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled monthly on the first Wednesday of each month. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. This 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... preliminary interaction is designed to enhance the familiarity and comfort of our participants before their inaugural meeting. For seamless integration, we suggest arriving a bit earlier and notifying our reception staff of your presence, specifying your attendance for the upcoming discussion. This proactive step will help expedite the process and streamline your introduction to the community. Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, September 12th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Email julie.goree@laok.org. Phone (918)295-9429. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Wednesday, September 13th | 5.30p-7p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Tulsa Really Really Free Market TULSA RE L~Y.z REALLYFREc MARKET Saturday, September 16th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A Community Sharing Event Every 3rd Saturday • 12p-4p Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. I 621 E. 4th St Clothing • Housewares • Books • Gadgets• Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ ------ --- Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, September 16th | 6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Ever8 third Sa.turda.8 of the month. Doors open a.t 6:30 pm. TICKETS AVAILABLE AT WWW.OKEQ.ORG ~ m~ lyl" HU Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year around! Mark your calendars for 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... every third Saturday of the month! Tickets Join us for an evening filled with mouth-watering pizza and exciting prizes from our Equality Business Alliance members on Saturday, August 19th. Our EBA member, Empire Slice House Tulsa, will provide delicious pizzas for your indulgence. You will be entertained by an incredible lineup of performers, including Anita Richards, Josie Turelle, 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Nakita Fierce! If you want to experience it; doors open at 6:30 pm. OKEQ Annual Board Meeting Thursday, September 21st | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK It is the last meeting of our current fiscal year, and we will be electing the officers for the next fiscal year. We would love to have members of the community come. Self Defense Class ~ SATURDAY Saturday, September 23rd | 1p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK SEPTEMBER 23R ? Enhance your self-defense skills in a safe and supportive environment. Join us for an empowering selfdefense class tailored for the transgender community. ? Our expert instructors will guide you through practical techniques and strategies. ? Don't miss this opportunity to prioritize your safety. 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa Equality Game Night Tuesday, September 26th | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK EVERY LAST TUESDAY OF THE MONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming E ALITY Business Alliance Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm EBA Mixer with Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) Thursday, September 28th |6p Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) 1512 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.htm (:3)ance of t{>e (:3)eab The Equality Business Alliance fosters sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, strengthening and expanding our businesses, careers, and community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... S 11. NEI LL EQUA LITY CENTER 621 E. l,TH STUEET TULSA OK 71,~12~0:__ _ ,_ Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter 21 + with valid ID to drink Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Tickets Vendor Signup Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. NatKY&Joe McDonald 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... &:===¾le===sJ Rainbow Library The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Volunteer Sign-up Library Catalog Sl.PPORT c◄ O . •. ·..:c r,o. • CiRO H 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~i ti( p o 'rul.· c·ull or t~nu ii for mor<• in format ion Medicaid Medicaid covers a broad range of services, many of which are important for people living with HIV or those at risk for HIV, including prescription drugs, inpatient and outpatient care, and preventative measures. Go to healthcare.gov to see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters #KnowYourStatus #GetCovered #Enroll365 OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-fCLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Iln Memoriaum Zora Cates Lamb Oct. 31, 1924 - Aug. 11, 2023 Grandmother "Nona" of Olivia Cotter Bob Glahn Jan. 4 - Aug. 2, 2023 OKEQ Seniors Member 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Brougbt 1'0 V Olll Bi 1' lte Letter 1 1 Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Randall Weiss (he/they) 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... X OKEQ m:;:::!J@J0@!0@QJJ§ § ~~ 'lr'QJJC!::::.§£ 7J"W@=§[p0~07J" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · ®®rn@l®IP ~lIDIJ)I]XIDlru -@rP©l!UIJ) Gener Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ~ •T ++ -.-, ~ ...l 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... uK h ll T + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 22 HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... \:iet help_ ___ S upplementa l applying for A • : ~!;~\i~;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 11877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Special Events Coming Up A ce's Committed to Equality All are welcome, Aces and Allies. Contact Tyger Songbi rd at TygerSongbird@gmail.com O.V...llNeilE~c.nttt A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Tuesday, September 5th l 5 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 1>2\E 4th.St., Tuha,OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to get in touch with Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, September 5th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Housin of otlohomo will be assist ins These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, September 6th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Wednesday, September 6th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled monthly on the first Wednesday of each month. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... engage in an initial interview. This preliminary interaction is designed to enhance the familiarity and comfort of our participants before their inaugural meeting. For seamless integration, we suggest arriving a bit earlier and notifying our reception staff of your presence, specifying your attendance for the upcoming discussion. This proactive step will help expedite the process and streamline your introduction to the community. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 scour rrzooP 71S1 5COIJT1ROOP 15 OPEN TO ALL GIRLS AND mAN51NONBINARY YOUTH fVfRY TMRSD~Y OF m, MONT~ 6,30 pw, Thursday, September 7th | 6.30p-7.30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK .;. ---- Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, September 8th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. --~~ • ·ceNTER of EXCELLENCE LG. .O+U:IIAVIOltALHUJ.THlQUITY Ages: 14-19 lstGrn~:C,~~g~st25th NOW OFFERING ~l~i~)i~ ~~~,fllf :~ ..~ -- -.--~_.• .,.rr1 r:1 r • • L!J t,. iJ a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to We are thrilled to share the news that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is specifically designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. The AFFIRM practice models were hAln LGRTO+ vnuth 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 22 I https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... manage stress. 621 E 4th Sl Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework aimed at ensuring the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This amazing program lasts 10-12 weeks and has plenty of room for up to 15 participants. Don't miss out on this incredible opportunity! Blackjack Rewrite Company presents THE DIVINE RESIGNS Fridays & Saturdays September 8th, 9th, 15th, & 16th |7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A New Musical Comedy Book by Ilan Kozlowski Original Music by Patrick Savage Directed by George Romero Vocal Direction by David Rowe Choreography by David Rickel & David Rowe Bring a friend, and be a part of the jury determining the fate of Humanity! Tickets When The Divine suddenly decides NOT to renew the lease with Planet Earth, his lawyer finds a clause giving humanity the right to defend itself before going the way of the dinosaur. A trial in Paradise will decide humanity's fate. Meanwhile, the Devil and his sexy secretary plot to steal Earth for themselves. This terrific cast features the talents of Alex Isaak, Kendon Henry, Andrew Smith, Brian Grace, Paulette Record, and Ashe Baileigh - plus a host of other excellent Tulsa performers. 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 22 TULSA REALLrY.1 REALLY JFRE1: MARKET A Community Shoring Event I 621 E. ~th St Every 3rd Saturday • 12p-~p Clothing • Housewares • Books • Gadgets• Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, September 9th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ ----- --- --- - Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, September 12th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Email julie.goree@laok.org. ---Phone (918)295-9429. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, September 13th | 5.30p-7p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Queer Women's Collective: September Happy Hour Wednesday, September 13th | 5.30p-7.30p Cabin Boys Brewpub 223 N Main St., Tulsa, OK Cabin Boys has opened a Brew Pub on Main. It's all remodeled and pretty, with many beers, bottled sodas, cocktails, and a great new food menu! LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included); we hope some of you will join us! There's a large patio as well if the weather cooperates. More Information 3 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0 ~8_~0 ~ I ~ o ~W& INMENT' EM Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, September 16th |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo! With performances by Pride Royalty, Anita Richards, Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Special Guests Josie Lee Turrelle and Kallaya K Fierce. Win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy Empire Slice House Tulsa food! Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year-round, every 3rd Saturday of the month! Tickets E ALITY usiness Alliance EBA Mixer with Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) Wednesday, September 20th |6p Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) 1512 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at The Equality Business Alliance fosters sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 22 luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.htm https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... strengthening and expanding our businesses, careers, and community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month, 6:00 p.m.-7:30 p.m. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. OKEQ Annual Board Meeting Thursday, September 21st | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Community members are invited to attend the annual meeting for the Oklahomans for Equality Board of Directors. New Directors recommended by the Governance Committee will be voted on, as well as officers for the next fiscal year. The Board will also vote on updating the bylaws, which serve as the governing document for the Board. The meeting will be held on Thursday, September 21st at 6 PM in the Event Center at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Self Defense Class Saturday, September 23rd | 1p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ? Enhance your self-defense skills in a safe and supportive environment. Join us for an empowering selfdefense class tailored for the transgender community. ? Our expert instructors will guide you 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 22 FOR FURTHER INFORMATION CONTAC T MASTER MAC AT 918-464-877 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... through practical techniques and strategies. ? Don't miss this opportunity to prioritize your safety. Tulsa Equality Game Night @l\\'u'.~.&il\\llill,~'u'. ,.i-' --GAME NIGHT EVERY LAST TUESDAY OF THE MONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming Tuesday, September 26th | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Real Boos, Real Booze, Fake Boobs Thursday, October 19th | 7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa Cabaret Queen is back for Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room! Join Tracy laLouisianne for a spooktacular Halloween drag cabaret. Tickets ~ance of tpe ~cab en mµire ~aII Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... S 11. NEILL EQUA LITY CEl'ITER 621 E. t,TH STII EET TU LSA O K__1_7.'!1 '•1~20t 1.--- • 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter 21 + with valid ID to drink Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Tickets Vendor Signup Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. NatKY&Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Volunteer Sign-up Library Catalog Sl"PPORT c◄O . •. ·..:c r,o • iRO H 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0 ........ c·all or mm ii for more• informal ion Medicaid Medicaid covers a broad range of services, many of which are important for people living with HIV or those at risk for HIV, including prescription drugs, inpatient and outpatient care, and preventative measures. Go to healthcare.gov to see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters #KnowYourStatus #GetCovered #Enroll365 -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Iln Memoriaum Zora Cates Lamb Oct. 31, 1924 - Aug. 11, 2023 Grandmother "Nona" of Olivia Cotter Bob Glahn Jan. 4 - Aug. 2, 2023 OKEQ Seniors Member 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Brougbt 1'0 V Olll Bi 1' lte Letter 1 1 Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Randall Weiss (he/they) 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... X OKEQ m:;:::!J@J0@!0@QJJ§ § ~~ 'lr'QJJC!::::.§£ 7J"W@=§[p0~07J" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · ®®rn@l®IP ~lIDIJ)I]XIDlru -@rP©l!UIJ) Gener Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ~ •T ++ -.-, ~ ...l 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... uK h ll T + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 22 HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... \:iet help_ ___ S upplementa l applying for A • : ~!;~\i~;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 11877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Special Events Coming Up Kelly A. Melvin presents "Artistic Detour Highly Divergent" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Artistic Detour Highly Divergent (ADHD) Through September 30th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This exhibit presents a glimpse of some of the random rabbit holes I fall into daily. Constant chaos swarms my mind; art is my creative outlet to express my feelings and process experiences. Join us today in the Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery for 'Artistic Detour Highly Divergent' (ADHD) from local artist Kelly A. Melvin. It’s an ongoing game of cat and mouse... some days, I’m the cat, and some days I’m the mouse. But today, I am the artist, and this is the world I live in. 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, September 12th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, September 12th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Email julie.goree@laok.org. Phone (918)295-9429. 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Tuesday, September 12th l 6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, September 13th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, September 13th | 5.30p-7p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... our resource. desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Queer Women's Collective: September Happy Hour Wednesday, September 13th | 5.30p-7.30p Cabin Boys Brewpub 223 N Main St., Tulsa, OK Cabin Boys has opened a Brew Pub on Main. It's all remodeled and pretty, with many beers, bottled sodas, cocktails, and a great new food menu! LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included); we hope some of you will join us! There's a large patio as well if the weather cooperates. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 scour rr<ooP 74-g4- 5COIJ1"1ROOP 15 OPEN 1D ALL GIRL5 AND 1RAN5INONBINARY YOLJrn. f:Vf:RY TffURSD~Y OF Tfff: MO/ITff Thursday, September 14th | 6.30p-7.30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 6,30 PIM Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, September 15th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. •!~-•· ~ f.-•CENTER of EXCELLENCE _.Ai;. lfHTO•MHAVIOltAlHllAl,.TMlQUITY Ages: 14-19 lstG,o~:o~';,'~" 25'" NOW OFFERING ~~::Ji@ AFFllllf :r:1.., - ·-~ r L!J t,, • Iii ~•J a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-ba sed group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th Sl Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here Tulsa, OK We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall wellbeing. The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework to ensure the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! - •. EM I INMENT" Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, September 16th |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo! With performances by Pride Royalty, Anita Richards, Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Special Guests Josie Lee Turrelle and Kallaya K Fierce. Win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy Empire Slice House Tulsa food! Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year-round, every 3rd Saturday of the month! Tickets Blackjack Rewrite Company presents THE DIVINE RESIGNS Fridays & Saturdays September 15th & 16th |7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A New Musical Comedy Book by Ilan Kozlowski Original Music by Patrick Savage Directed by George Romero Vocal Direction by David Rowe Choreography by David Rickel & David Rowe Bring a friend, and be a part of the jury determining the fate of Humanity! Tickets When The Divine suddenly decides NOT to renew the lease with Planet Earth, his lawyer finds a clause giving humanity the right to defend itself before going the way of the dinosaur. A trial in Paradise will decide humanity's fate. Meanwhile, the Devil and his sexy secretary plot to steal Earth for themselves. This terrific cast features the talents of Alex Isaak, Kendon Henry, Andrew Smith, Brian Grace, Paulette Record, and Ashe Baileigh - plus a host of other excellent Tulsa performers. 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Aly & AJ Tuesday, September 19th |6.30 p Cain's Ballroom 423 N Main St, Tulsa, OK Aly & AJ are heading to Tulsa on their With Love From Tour! Catch the sister duo at Cain's Ballroom on September 19. Doors :: 6:30pm Show :: 7:30pm alyandaj.com Tickets E ALITY Business Alliance • Advance: $30+ • Day of Show: $32+ • Door: $41 • Mezzanine (21+): $55+ • "Love You This Way" Guided Stage Tour Experience: $580+ • "Tear The Night Up" Meet & Greet Experience: $229+ • "After Hours" VIP Experience: $129+ EBA Mixer with Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) Wednesday, September 20th |6p Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) 1512 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.htm The Equality Business Alliance fosters sharing information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, strengthening and expanding our businesses, careers, and community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month, 6:00 p.m.-7:30 p.m. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... establishment or use The Equality Center. OKEQ Annual Board Meeting Thursday, September 21st | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Community members are invited to attend the annual meeting for the Oklahomans for Equality Board of Directors. New Directors recommended by the Governance Committee will be voted on, as well as officers for the next fiscal year. The Board will also vote on updating the bylaws, which serve as the governing document for the Board. The meeting will be held on Thursday, September 21st at 6 PM in the Event Center at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Self Defense Class ~ SATURDAY Saturday, September 23rd | 1p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK SEPTEMBER 23R ? Enhance your self-defense skills in a safe and supportive environment. Join us for an empowering selfdefense class tailored for the transgender community. ? Our expert instructors will guide you through practical techniques and strategies. ? Don't miss this opportunity to prioritize your safety. Tulsa Equality Game Night ~'u'o@IYilj)o@i6Jllill. llffi§'i.\'u'o Tuesday, September 26th | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa, OK EVERY LAST TUESDAY OF THE MONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Wednesday, October 4th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ( The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled monthly on the first Wednesday of each month. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. This preliminary interaction is designed to enhance the familiarity and comfort of our participants before their inaugural meeting. For seamless integration, we suggest arriving a bit earlier and notifying our reception staff of your presence, specifying your attendance for the upcoming discussion. This proactive step will help expedite the process and streamline your introduction to the community. ------- -- -4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, October 14th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ - - - ------ --- Real Boos, Real Booze, Fake Boobs Thursday, October 19th | 7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa Cabaret Queen is back for Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room! Join Tracy laLouisianne for a spooktacular Halloween drag cabaret. Tickets ~ance of t{)e ~eab en m:pite ~au 621 E. l,TH STll EET TULSA. OK 711"-"' 120, __ _ Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter 21 + with valid ID to drink Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Tickets Vendor Signup Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. NatxY&Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Volunteer Sign-up Library Catalog Sl"PPORT c·o. •. ·t.:c 1'10. • iRO H 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0 ........ c·all or <'Ill~ ii for mor<• informal ion Medicaid Medicaid covers a broad range of services, many of which are important for people living with HIV or those at risk for HIV, including prescription drugs, inpatient and outpatient care, and preventative measures. Go to healthcare.gov to see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters #KnowYourStatus #GetCovered #Enroll365 -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Iln Memoriaum Bob Glahn Jan. 4 - Aug. 2, 2023 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~W OMEN ' S UEER 0 L L ECTIVE Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Randall Weiss (he/they) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ m:;:::!J@JO@!O@QJJ§§~~ "iJ"QJJ[b,§£ "iJ"W@=§!PD~O"iJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 22 cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ----- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get .\1st} h e l p . supplemental applying for • • :~!~~\i;;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Ca ll toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists ca ll you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espafiol: 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~ Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Ron Brady Fern Galindo Jodi Rachel Green Ryan Fitzpatrick Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Bonita James Michael James Kevin Knight Gary Percefull Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:06 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a4b1fd7cabca66250e9230b4db366bb9.pdf 778008acf512caddaa7e7c5588c050ac PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm. Important Notification: OKEQ's Participation at the Tulsa State Fair - September 28th to October 8th Dear OKEQ Community, We are delighted to announce that OKEQ will participate in the Tulsa State Fair from September 28th to October 8th. This event requires extensive coordination of staff and volunteers to ensure its success. In light of this, please be advised that the center will be temporarily closed during this period. Please don't worry. Our clinic will continue to operate as scheduled, ensuring our medical services remain uninterrupted for your convenience. If you have any questions or need help during this time, please do not hesitate to reach out to Olivia Cotter, who can be reached at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Thank you for your understanding and continued support of OKEQ. We look forward to seeing you at the Tulsa State Fair. Special Events 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FREE HIV Testing lr_o Tuesday, September 19th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Tuesday, September 19th l 6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Aly & AJ Tuesday, September 19th |6.30 Cain's Ballroom 423 N Main St, Tulsa, OK Aly & AJ are heading to Tulsa on their With Love From Tour! Catch the sister duo at Cain's Ballroom on September 19. Doors :: 6:30pm Show :: 7:30pm • Advance: $30+ • Day of Show: $32+ • Door: $41 • Mezzanine (21+): $55+ 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... alyandaj.com Tickets Housin of otlohomo will be assist ins These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP • "Love You This Way" Guided Stage Tour Experience: $580+ • "Tear The Night Up" Meet & Greet Experience: $229+ • "After Hours" VIP Experience: $129+ Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, September 20th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Underdog Kitchen Wednesday, September 20th | 5.30p-7.30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK We're calling on all the UnderDogs! All my artsy folks, everyone who believes in my concept or just believes in me. Or maybe you just want to do something silly on a Wednesday evening. Come see me and tag my wall! I’ll be hanging out in front of OKEQ downtown with a big ole brick wall backdrop and a fistful of acrylic paint markers! I want to have everyone graffiti up my backdrop for an upcoming event. Bonus: if you have a small local business or one that you love, bring their stickers and slap those on the wall, too! (I’m also open to 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... collaborations, contributions, etc., with future UnderDog Kitchen events and projects!) OKEQ Annual Board Meeting Thursday, September 21st | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Community members are invited to attend the annual meeting of the Oklahomans for Equality Board of Directors. New Directors recommended by the Governance Committee and officers for the next fiscal year will be voted on. The Board will also vote on updating the bylaws, which serve as the governing document for the Board. The meeting will be held on Thursday, September 21st, at 6 PM in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center event center. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 scour rrzooP 74-g4- 5COUT1ROOP 15 OPEN 1D ALL GIRLS AND 1RAN5INONBINARY YOlffii. EVERY TffUI\SMY OF TffE MO/ITff Thursday, September 21st | 6.30p-7.30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 630 P"' Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, September 22nd |6p 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. . ":. -•· ~ !."•CENTER o f EXCELLENCE A lGITO•HHAYIOltAlHllAI.THIC>Ul1Y Ages: 14·19 1st Group August 25th 6:00 pm ,~ IIMJ' Affirmative RESEARCH NOW OFFERING ~:~i;@ ~,,,"" 0 1 ~-~ 0 : • -.t .,., r:, r- •iJ•, L!J t, • a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th Sl Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall wellbeing. The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework to ensure the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Self Defense Class ~ SATURDAY SEPTEMBER 23R Saturday, September 23rd | 1p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ? Enhance your self-defense skills in a safe and supportive environment. Join us for an empowering selfdefense class tailored for the transgender community. ? Our expert instructors will guide you through practical techniques and strategies. ? Don't miss this opportunity to prioritize your safety. Miami NEOK Pride * PRID~~HOW * * * * Riverview Park Pavilion lpm-7pm Saturday, September 23rd | 1p 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Riverview Park 201 9th Ave SE, Miami, OK GRAND MARSHALL SASHA TU RRELLE Join us for our 3rd Annual Miami NEOK Pride! We are returning to the Riverview Park Pavilion in Miami, Oklahoma, and bringing you more activities and more entertainment! r Party 9pm- Tom DOORS OPEN AT 9 PM SHOWTIME 10PM Miami Elks Lodge 401 S. Miami. Ok We will have our PRIDE AFTER PARTY SHOW that night at the local Elk’s Lodge in Miami, OK. DJ Kennedy will be bringing his skills and light show to the party. Doors Open at 9 pm Show at 10 pm. 21+ show. Included in the day will be our 3rd Annual March of Solidarity around the park, a massive FOAM PARTY to kick the day off, coming out confessions, Talent/Drag Pageant for the Title of Mr./Miss/Teen NEOK Pride 2023, and the crowning of each. A best dress PRIDE contest with cash prizes of $100 for 1st place and $50 for 2nd place. There will be food vendors, booths, and plenty of FAMILY FUN at the festival. We will have inflatables such as slides, an obstacle course, and bounce houses for everyone to enjoy. We have games planned and many fun booths for you and your children. T-Mobile is joining us again with their Free Pride Swag Booth, and of course, we will have our own Miami NEOK Pride booth as well. Tulsa Equality Game Night @/.\\'i/.~.@i/.\\llill,~'i/. ,.i-' • GAMENIGH'F EVERYLASTTUESDAYOFTHEMONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming Tuesday, September 26th | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Brought to You Bi the Letter B Brought To The Letter Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday, September 26th | 7p-8p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Randall Weiss (he/they) E ALITY usiness Alliance EBA Mixer with Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) Thursday, September 28th |6p Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) 1512 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website The Equality Business Alliance fosters sharing information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, strengthening and expanding our businesses, careers, and community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 4th Thursday of each month, 6:00 p.m.-7:30 p.m. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Center. Kelly A. Melvin presents "Artistic Detour Highly Divergent" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Artistic Detour Highly Divergent (ADHD) Through September 30th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This exhibit presents a glimpse of some of the random rabbit holes I fall into daily. Constant chaos swarms my mind; art is my creative outlet to express my feelings and process experiences. Join us today in the Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery for 'Artistic Detour Highly Divergent' (ADHD) from local artist Kelly A. Melvin. It’s an ongoing game of cat and mouse... some days, I’m the cat, and some days I’m the mouse. But today, I am the artist, and this is the world I live in. Queer Women's Collective: October Meetup Wednesday, October 4th | 5.30p-7.30p Tulsa, OK More Information LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included); we hope some of you will join us! There's a large patio as well if the weather cooperates. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Wednesday, October 4th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled monthly on the first Wednesday of each month. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. This preliminary interaction is designed to enhance the familiarity and comfort of our participants before their inaugural meeting. For seamless integration, we suggest arriving a bit earlier and notifying our reception staff of your presence, specifying your attendance for the upcoming discussion. This proactive step will help expedite the process and streamline your introduction to the community. Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! OCTOBERS H 07,2023 3PM-6PM ■ ... r:, L:J • AGES , 10&UNDER , , WORKSHOP 12PM-3PM AWARDS BEST PERFORMANCE BEST COSTUME BEST MAKEUP O W Saturday, October 7th | 3p - 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Tickets Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Fern's Birthday FUNdraiser & FLM 1in2 Campaign Watch Party Fern's DELIC U Birthday FU Nd raiser Sun, Oct 8th from 6-9 PM Also! Stay for a Foundation for Liberating Minds' lin2 Campaign narrative video watch party! Location: Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa RSVP: By 10/6 to Fern at 918-808-8076 Why am I doing this? We need to replenish our fund so we can continue supporting the 2SLGBTQ/A+ community with food, housing, & aid • 5tJffORT• What is Tl CN? Tulsa lntersectional Care Network (TICN) is a project BY and FOR trans, queer, disabled and BIPOC Tu/sans using mutual aid and community care practices for our shared empowerment. Fern's DELIC IOU Birthday FUNdraiser yl0/6 -808-80 ,.-:' Tres Leches Sunday, October 8th | 6p - 9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK On October 8th, Fern turns 38. They've decided to celebrate by feeding the community and raising money for Tulsa Intersectional Care Network's rental assistance fund, Meal Train project, and direct aid pot. TICN is a project BY and FOR Trans, Queer, Disabled, and BIPOC Tulsans, using mutual aid and community care practices for their shared empowerment. Fern cofounded TICN in 2021 with some of their best friends and accomplices in the movement for making a better world. Fern is selling dinner plates of their beloved family recipe Sonoran Enchiladas, arroz mexicano, y frijoles refritos, plus Tres Leches Cake for dessert! And if you don't eat that but still want to support, feel free to make a donation. Come by the Equality Center on Sunday, October 8th, from 6-9 pm to purchase a plate and support their work! Let's make it a party! Bring snacks, drinks, and edibles to share, and come see Fern even if you can't partake in the fundraiser. They will also be showing narrative videos by the Foundation for Liberating Minds of their 1 in 2 ::: Enchilad~ 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 26 Cake https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... __,..,~ ~ W -"''RRice & Beans $5 $20 Campaign...learn about the challenges faced by incarcerated and formerly incarcerated Oklahomans. Let this inform your prison abolition efforts! Questions? Text Fern at 918-808-8076. They can't wait to see you! Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, Octobeber 10th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Email julie.goree@laok.org. ------Phone (918)295-9429. : ; otlahomans forEquallty Tulsa Area PRIME TIMERS Every 2nd Tuesday 7p Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tuesday, October 10th |7p - 9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men to establish friendship and support through social interaction. 21+ 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 pm Contact stevendubois@cox.net / 918.592.0088 or visit our website for more information. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, October 11th | 5.30p-7p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ Seniors Trip: The Ed Galloway Totem Pole Park Thursday, October 12th |10a Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK OKEQ Seniors offers daytime programming tailored for retirees or those with daytime availability. Our seniors group will convene at Oklahomans for Equality at 10 am, and together, they will embark on a journey aboard the Pridemobile to Foyil, OK, where they will explore the fascinating Ed Galloway Totem Pole Park. Here, they will have the 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... chance to marvel at the world's largest concrete totem pole, standing at an impressive 90 feet in height with an 18foot base. This iconic roadside attraction is nestled along Route 66 near Foyil, making it a must-visit destination for history and art enthusiasts alike. GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Every second Thursday of the month. 7p-8:30p Green Country Bears Thursday, October 12th | 7p-8.30p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK We are a social group within the LGBT community in Tulsa, Oklahoma, that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture." Green Country Bears meets every second Tuesday of the month. For more information, contact Daniel Gouvion at 918.812.4640 or daniel.gouvion@gmail.com TULSA REALLY REALLY FREE Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, October 14th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ - - - - - - - --- THIRD THURSDAYS IN THE RAINBOW ROOM Real Boos, Real Booze, 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Fake Boobs Thursday, October 19th | 7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa Cabaret Queen is back for Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room! Join Tracy laLouisianne for a spooktacular Halloween drag cabaret. Tickets IP", tULSA PRIDE ~ BHN© O t,J Ever~ third So.turdo.~ of the month. Doors open o.t 6:30 pm. flCl::ETS AVAILABLE AT WWW.OICEQ.ORG o::i:!1:m~~ Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, October 21st |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo! With performances by Pride Royalty, Anita Richards, Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Special Guests Josie Lee Turrelle and Kallaya K Fierce. Win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy Empire Slice House Tulsa food! Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year-round, every 3rd Saturday of the month! ~ance of tpe ~cab en mµite ~all 621 E. l,TH Sfll EET - . .----1..,,_, 1.S"A'-"' "' OK 7'1"" 120 , , __ _. Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter 21 + with valid ID to drink Tickets Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. Nat1Cf&Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The OKEQ Library System now 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 26 The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... o 'rul.· f all or nu ii for mor • infommt ion Medicaid Medicaid covers a broad range of services, many of which are important for people living with HIV or those at risk for HIV, including prescription drugs, inpatient and outpatient care, and preventative measures. Go to healthcare.gov to see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters #KnowYourStatus #GetCovered #Enroll365 -~-er- OKEO HEALTH -~-er- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Iln Memoriaum Bob Glahn Jan. 4 - Aug. 2, 2023 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~W OMEN ' S UEER 0 L L ECTIVE Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Randall Weiss (he/they) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ m:r::!J@:i □@m@M l:3§~ ~ 7J'(1[)[b§£ 7J'W@=§CPD~D7J' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 26 cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ----- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. ,,,. Get h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!;~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 25 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 26 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Ron Brady Fern Galindo Jodi Rachel Green Ryan Fitzpatrick Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Bonita James Michael James Kevin Knight Gary Percefull Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:08 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2ef222e8221fc3bcea436c9ddab8c223.pdf b451e95b15cf427d03ad07dde6b08acd PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm. Important Notification: OKEQ's Participation at the Tulsa State Fair - September 28th to October 8th Dear OKEQ Community, We are delighted to announce that OKEQ will participate in the Tulsa State Fair from September 28th to October 8th. This event requires extensive coordination of staff and volunteers to ensure its success. In light of this, please be advised that the center will be temporarily closed during this period. Please don't worry. Our clinic will continue to operate as scheduled, ensuring our medical services remain uninterrupted for your convenience. If you have any questions or need help during this time, please do not hesitate to reach out to Olivia Cotter, who can be reached at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Thank you for your understanding and continued support of OKEQ. We look forward to seeing you at the Tulsa State Fair. New Programming A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Tuesday, September 26th l 6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, September 29th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. -!:. ·• ':f.f.■CENTER o f EXCELLENCE A LGITO•HH ...VIOOI ... LHV.I.T>IICMIITY ,~ "81' Affirmative RESEARCH Ages: 14·19 lstG,o~:C,~upg~ st 25th -~ NOW OFFERING i~~ AFFlfllf L!J t- • iJ -~•·"··-·'··' The,apy-based grnup to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th Sl Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall wellbeing. The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework to ensure the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Volunteer Peer Support Specialist 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... l"'IC:C:U nC:la~; Do you need to find community resources? Housing Employment Food Healthcare Caregiver support Education & More Fern Galindo (they/them) Saturdays 10 am - 1 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Professiona l Fern @Gmail.com (3 14) 669 - 4623 Saturday, October 14th |10a-1p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Would you like some help finding affirming community resources? Need housing, employment, food, education, caregiver support, or healthcare? Starting Saturday, September 30th, come see our new volunteer Peer Support Specialist! They will help connect you with the resources you need and support you along the way. Office hours are Saturdays, 10 am 1 pm, in the Glass Conference room. Special Events E ALITY usiness Alliance EBA Mixer with Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) Thursday, September 28th |6p Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) 1512 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website The Equality Business Alliance fosters sharing information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, strengthening and expanding our businesses, careers, and community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 4th Thursday of each month, 6:00 p.m.-7:30 p.m. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... establishment or use The Equality Center. Kelly A. Melvin presents "Artistic Detour Highly Divergent" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Callery. Artistic Detour Highly Divergent (ADHD) Through September 30th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This exhibit presents a glimpse of some of the random rabbit holes I fall into daily. Constant chaos swarms my mind; art is my creative outlet to express my feelings and process experiences. Join us today in the Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery for 'Artistic Detour Highly Divergent' (ADHD) from local artist Kelly A. Melvin. It’s an ongoing game of cat and mouse... some days, I’m the cat, and some days I’m the mouse. But today, I am the artist, and this is the world I live in. Queer Women's Collective: October Meetup Wednesday, October 4th | 5.30p-7.30p The Starlite 1902 East 11th Street, Tulsa, OK More Information LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included); we hope some of you will join us! October is on its way in! Let’s welcome fall and cooler weather with a little HH at The Starlite. Bring your flannels and we’ll see you there! Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OCTOBERS 07,2023 3PM-6PM ■ ... r:, L:J HOW • AGES . 1B&UNDER . . WORKSHOP 12PM-3PM AWARDS BEST PERFORMANCE BEST COSTUME Show! Saturday, October 7th | 3p - 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. BEST MAKEUP Tickets Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Fern's DELIC IOU Birthday FU Nd raiser Sun, Oct 8th from 6-9 PM #. Also! Stay for a Foundation for Liberating Minds' 1in2 Campaign narrative video watch party! Location: Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa RSVP: By 10/6 to Fern at 918-808-8076 More Information Fern's Birthday FUNdraiser & FLM 1in2 Campaign Watch Party Sunday, October 8th | 6p - 9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK On October 8th, Fern turns 38. They've decided to celebrate by feeding the community and raising money for Tulsa Intersectional Care Network's rental assistance fund, Meal Train project, and direct aid pot. TICN is a project BY and FOR Trans, Queer, Disabled, and BIPOC Tulsans, using mutual aid and community care practices for their shared empowerment. Fern cofounded TICN in 2021 with some of their best friends and accomplices in the movement for making a 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... better world. Questions? Text Fern at 918-808-8076. They can't wait to see you! OKEQ Seniors Trip: The Ed Galloway Totem Pole Park Thursday, October 12th |10a Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join OKEQ Seniors for a tailored daytime adventure! Our seniors' group will meet at Oklahomans for Equality at 10 a.m. before embarking on an exciting journey aboard the Pridemobile to Foyil, OK. There, they'll explore the captivating Ed Galloway Totem Pole Park, home to the world's largest concrete totem pole—an impressive 90 feet tall with an 18-foot base. Situated along Route 66 near Foyil, this iconic roadside attraction is a must-visit for history and art enthusiasts. TULSA REALLY REALLYrFREE Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, October 14th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ - - - - - - 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Real Boos, Real Booze, Fake Boobs Thursday, October 19th | 7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa Cabaret Queen is back for Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room! Join Tracy laLouisianne for a spooktacular Halloween drag cabaret. Tickets Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, October 21st |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo! With performances by Pride Royalty, Anita Richards, Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Special Guests Josie Lee Turrelle and Kallaya K Fierce. Win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy Empire Slice House Tulsa food! Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year-round, every 3rd Saturday of the month! (:3)ance of t{>e (:3)eab Q3 ml,)ire ~arr Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK S 11. NEI LL EQUA LITY CE1'TEB _..__ ...,."""A "'-'OK 71,e,12,.,. .0,._~- -- Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter 21 + with valid ID to drink Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Tickets Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln Memoriaum In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! Na!,KY &Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I 77EiT1 The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin ot Oldahoma will be assist'.ns . lGBTQ+ community with fair housing· scour rr<ooP 11g1 SCOLJflROOP 15 OPEN TO ALL GIRLS AND lRANS/NONBINARY YOUTH 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ff,RY rttvRSMY OF rtt, MONTH 6,30pM ~ /JI Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... interview. Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Brougbt 1' 0 YOlll Bi 1 T 1lt1J~ lL@;f t@;r -~~~ ~~~~~~ 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Randall Weiss (he/they) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ m:r::!J@JO@!O@QJJ§§~~ "iJ"QJJ[b,§£ "iJ"W@=§l:PO~D"iJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ~rncll@1r ~Dnl])]]XIDlfa @rf®Dnl]) 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Tl II C' /\ 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I V L...;;JI""'\ RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get \ISt} h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!'.~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists ca ll you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snapt HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Ron Brady Fern Galindo Jodi Rachel Green Ryan Fitzpatrick Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Bonita James Michael James Kevin Knight Gary Percefull Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:09 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/40e725ce7c070df96b17523789336265.pdf 4ef5da0bd62e5f120a9658f8c86daaa5 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm. Important Notification: OKEQ's Participation at the Tulsa State Fair - September 28th to October 8th Dear OKEQ Community, We are delighted to announce that OKEQ will participate in the Tulsa State Fair from September 28th to October 8th. This event requires extensive coordination of staff and volunteers to ensure its success. In light of this, please be advised that the center will be temporarily closed during this period. Please don't worry. Our clinic will continue to operate as scheduled, ensuring our medical services remain uninterrupted for your convenience. If you have any questions or need help during this time, please do not hesitate to reach out to Olivia Cotter, who can be reached at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Thank you for your understanding and continued support of OKEQ. We look forward to seeing you at the Tulsa State Fair. New Programming tJOW CCCDI _I Affirm 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Friday, October 6th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. .':t-J·• f.■CENTER A o f EXCELLENC E LGITO•HH ..... IOII ... LHU.l.nllOUITY ,~ ~ Affirmative RESEARCH Ages: 14·19 lstGro~:C,~~g~st25th NOW OFFERING ~,~i~l~ ~r~1fllf ~--•.• ..,.rr1 r •iJ• L!J : ._'I. r:1 t,. We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall wellbeing. --~ a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th St. Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework to ensure the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Tuesday, October 10th l 6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Need Help? Volunteer Peer Support Specialist 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Do you need to find community resources? Housing Employment Food Healthcare Caregiver support Education & More Fern Galindo (they/them) Saturdays 10 am - 1 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Professiona l Fern @Gmail.com (314) 669-4623 Saturday, October 14th |10a-1p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Would you like some help finding affirming community resources? Need housing, employment, food, education, caregiver support, or healthcare? Starting Saturday, September 30th, come see our new volunteer Peer Support Specialist! They will help connect you with the resources you need and support you along the way. Office hours are Saturdays, 10 am 1 pm, in the Glass Conference room. Special Events Queer Women's Collective: October Meetup Wednesday, October 4th | 5.30p-7.30p The Starlite 1902 East 11th Street, Tulsa, OK More Information LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included); we hope some of you will join us! October is on its way in! Let’s welcome fall and cooler weather with a little HH at The Starlite. Bring your flannels and we’ll see you there! Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OCTOBERS 07,2023 3PM-6PM ■ ... r:, L:J • AGES How . 1B&UNDER . . WORKSHOP 12PM-3PM AWARDS BEST PERFORMANCE BEST COSTUME BEST MAKEUP Saturday, October 7th | 3p - 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Tickets Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Fern's DELIC IOU Birthday FU Nd raiser Sun, Oct 8th from 6-9 PM ~Also! Stay for a Foundation for Liberating Minds' lin2 Campaign narrative video watch party! Location: Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa RSVP: By 10/6 to Fern at 918-808-8076 More Information Fern's Birthday FUNdraiser & FLM 1in2 Campaign Watch Party Sunday, October 8th | 6p - 9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK On October 8th, Fern turns 38. They've decided to celebrate by feeding the community and raising money for Tulsa Intersectional Care Network's rental assistance fund, Meal Train project, and direct aid pot. TICN is a project BY and FOR Trans, Queer, Disabled, and BIPOC Tulsans, using mutual aid and community care practices for their shared empowerment. Fern cofounded TICN in 2021 with some of their best friends and accomplices in the movement for making a better world. 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Questions? Text Fern at 918-808-8076. They can't wait to see you! OKEQ Seniors Trip: The Ed Galloway Totem Pole Park Thursday, October 12th |10a Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join OKEQ Seniors for a tailored daytime adventure! Our seniors' group will meet at Oklahomans for Equality at 10 a.m. before embarking on an exciting journey aboard the Pridemobile to Foyil, OK. There, they'll explore the captivating Ed Galloway Totem Pole Park, home to the world's largest concrete totem pole—an impressive 90 feet tall with an 18-foot base. Situated along Route 66 near Foyil, this iconic roadside attraction is a must-visit for history and art enthusiasts. TULSA REALLY REALLY FREE Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, October 14th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ - - - - - - - --- THIRD THURSDAYS IN THE RAINBOW ROOM 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Real Boos, Real Booze, Fake Boobs Thursday, October 19th | 7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa Cabaret Queen is back for Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room! Join Tracy laLouisianne for a spooktacular Halloween drag cabaret. Tickets Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, October 21st |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo! With performances by Pride Royalty, Anita Richards, Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Special Guests Josie Lee Turrelle and Kallaya K Fierce. Win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy Empire Slice House Tulsa food! Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year-round, every 3rd Saturday of the month! ~once of tpe ~eab ~ m:pire CBaU 621 E. t,TH STII EET TULSA OK 7111.I!Q ZO ! -- - Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter 21 + with valid ID to drink Tickets Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. In Memoriam • . • •. I 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln MemoriWTI William Maurice "Rusty" Clyma III September 16, 2023-July 2, 1959 Rusty was Emperor VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and the bishop of the Inckusive Celtic Church. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-cr- HEALTH -ci=-crCLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin scour rrzooP l1S1 5COU1"1ROOP 15 OPEN 1D All GIRL5 ANO 1RAN5/NONBINARY YOIJTH ff,RY rttvRSMY OF rtt, MONTH 6,30pM .;.. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality NOW OFFERI a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... clarity until we have an answer. Brougl1lt 1' 0 ¥01111 Bi 1 ,rjt1Je ll.~tt~r _ __.~~ ~~!!.-"!!.-"~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Randall Weiss (he/they) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@QdJ§§~~ "i:f'QdJ[b s & "IT'W@ =§~ □~ □"IT' 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... tulsaequalitygaming - - - · ®®rn@l®IP - ~lID]])I]XIDlru ®rf®l!U]]) Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ ++ 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. information. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LGBTQ+ persons. knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. • • ecialists are ava1lab • Ie to help you apply for SNAP apphcat1on sp . . bout 20 minutes. or renew SNAP benefits m a 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espai'iol: Learn more at hungedreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm. New Programming A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Tuesday, October 10th l 6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, October 13th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. . ~ ·• ~ /.•CENTER of EXCELLENCE A n .G HQ• HH,.vio.,. • ......_n,1ou,rv ,/!:ii Affirmative ~ RESEARCH Ages: 14·19 lstG,o~:C,~upg~ st25th NOW OFFERING i~~ AFFlfllf =fl•,t r:, r- • •, L!J I-• •■J We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall wellbeing. a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th St. Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework to ensure the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Need Help? Do you need to find community resources? Housing Employment Food Volunteer Peer Support Specialist Saturday, October 14th |10a-1p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Healthcare Caregiver support Education & More Fern Galindo (they/them) Saturdays 10 am - 1 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pr ofess io na l Fe rn @Gm a il. co m (3 14) 669- 4 6 23 Would you like some help finding affirming community resources? Need housing, employment, food, education, caregiver support, or healthcare? Starting Saturday, September 30th, come see our new volunteer Peer Support Specialist! They will help connect you with the resources you need and support you along the way. Office hours are Saturdays, 10 am 1 pm, in the Glass Conference room. 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Special Events OKEQ Seniors Trip: The Ed Galloway Totem Pole Park Thursday, October 12th |10a Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join OKEQ Seniors for a tailored daytime adventure! Our seniors' group will meet at Oklahomans for Equality at 10 a.m. before embarking on an exciting journey aboard the Pridemobile to Foyil, OK. There, they'll explore the captivating Ed Galloway Totem Pole Park, home to the world's largest concrete totem pole—an impressive 90 feet tall with an 18-foot base. Situated along Route 66 near Foyil, this iconic roadside attraction is a must-visit for history and art enthusiasts. TULSA REALLY REALL~FREE Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, October 14th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ - - - - - - - --- THIRD THURSDAYS IN THE RAINBOW ROOM Real Boos, Real Booze, 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Fake Boobs Thursday, October 19th | 7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa Cabaret Queen is back for Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room! Join Tracy laLouisianne for a spooktacular Halloween drag cabaret. Tickets Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, October 21st |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo! With performances by Pride Royalty, Anita Richards, Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Special Guests Josie Lee Turrelle and Kallaya K Fierce. Win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy Empire Slice House Tulsa food! Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year-round, every 3rd Saturday of the month! Cl)ance of t{)e Cl)eab m m:pite Q3a{{ 621 E. t,Tl-l STII EET _ ___,,_ ru~ . ,,,, A.OK._E!741g! 1201 -- - Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter 21 + with valid ID to drink Tickets Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I In Memoriam Iln MemoriWTI 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... William Maurice "Rusty" Clyma III September 16, 2023-July 2, 1959 Rusty was Emperor VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and the bishop of the Inckusive Celtic Church. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... information via email! SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Nat1(Y&Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin scour rr<ooP 11g1 SCOUT TROOP 15 OPEN TO ALL GIRLS AND TRANS/NONBINARY YOUTH fVfRY rttvRSDAY OF rttf MONTH 6,30pM .;.. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non- 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! binary individuals aged 18 and above. Lawyer in the Library Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... T 0 Yotll Bi 1 T lt1J~ lL~tt~r 1 ~ ....... ~ ~ ~ ~ !!." !!." ~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Randall Weiss (he/they) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ O[r::!J@) □~□@l1D §§~~ 7J"!1D[b§& lJ"W@=§lPD~DlJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 18 alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ----- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners LEGAL AID ' SERVICES OF • SL = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing LEGAL AID ' SERVICES OF • SL = OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. JIIS&J Get h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!;~\i~;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Ron Brady Fern Galindo Jodi Rachel Green Ryan Fitzpatrick Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Bonita James Michael James Kevin Knight Gary Percefull Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:11 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6267890eea9f399643d36a73fada0f0e.pdf da551ff66107b64ae5701c76b0a9ca39 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library catalog link: https://www.librarycat.org/lib/TulsaRainbowLibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer sign-up link: https://www.signupgenius.com/go/10C084CAAAE22A7F8C07modernize Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, July 25th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ~ H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Housin Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, July 26th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Thursday, July 27th | 6.30p-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 5COUTTROOP 15 OPEN TO ALL GIRL5 AND TRAN5/NONBINARY YOUTH 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK €VERY TMRSDAY OF Tff€ MO/JTff 630 pw, Hey there! If you're interested in joining Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 pm and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Tulsa Equality Game Night ,i ' ~'ij'o@IYilj)o @i6.\[lill. llffi§'i.\'ij'o ••GAMENIGH'T EVERY LAST TUESDAY OF THE MONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming Tuesday, July 25th | 6p-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, August 8th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. RSVP Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Email julie.goree@laok.org. --Phone (918)295-9429. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, August 9th | 5.30p-7.00p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. E Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. ALITY usiness Alliance ,I ' 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... EBA Mixer with Ingredion Wednesday, August 16th |6p Ingredion Incorporated 810 S Cincinnati Ave, 4th Floor Tulsa, OK Join us for our EBA Mixer with Ingredion Ingredion Incorporated is an American multinational ingredient provider based in Westchester, Illinois, producing mainly starch, modified starches, and starch sugars such as glucose syrup and high fructose syrup. www.ingredion.com The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month, 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/equality-business-alliance.htm TULSA RE~LLY.z REALLY FRE1: MARKET A Community Sharing Event Every 3rd Saturday • 12p-4p I 621 E. 4th St Clothing • Housewares • Books • Gadgets• Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! RSVP Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, August 19th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ - - - - ----- --- --- - OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY PRESENTS OKEQ Youth Talent Show Saturday, September 2nd | 3p 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK SO lfp~;![~ H W 02,2023 • AGES . 13-18 Show off your talent and skills at our Youth Talent Show, hosted by Scrappy Legacy! Ages 13 - 18! Saturday, September 2nd. Doors at 3:00 PM. AWARDS REGISTER HERE BEST PERFORMANCE BEST COSTUME BEST MAKEUP ~~f.lilM. GN UP Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! For more information, email shay.brewer@okeq.org. ~~-~': .:_~~•.....: ! ' ! ... OU Tulsa Leadership Survey In order to better understand the current and future leadership needs from Tulsan's perspectives, Leadership Tulsa and OU Tulsa have worked to create a collaborative community group to put together a survey. Our goal is that these survey results will be shared with current and prospective leaders, along with leadership development programs, who will be able to compare the needs of Tulsans with their current approaches. We aim to get diverse perspectives to understand our community's differing needs and ideas. This tool will lead to more representative leadership and ultimately equips our community to work towards more equitable outcomes. We'd love for you to take 15 minutes to complete the survey (Link to English survey Link to Spanish Survey) - and -- so that we can understand your needs. We'd also love for you to share this with your networks (think book clubs, church groups, PTA's, family, colleagues, etc.). You are welcome to reference or edit this link to help give you ideas for sharing the survey in ways that maximize perspectives. Thank you in advance for vast our community better understand the wide array of needs that exist so we can all take action to develop leaders that are equipped to meet those needs. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln Memoriaurn 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tom Burton 1/18/1948 - 7/10/2023 In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming llrougbt 1'10 VOlli Bi T lt1J@ lL~tt~r 1 ~~~~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. ~~!:-"!:-"~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@QdJ§§~~ "IT'QdJ[b s & "IT'W@ =slPD~ 09:F Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ®®rncll®IP ~1111,I])I]XIDlru @rP®ml]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Relationships 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners I_ - -- - - T y-:,r, .. T A T ....... a• T y-:,r, .. T A T....... a• 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... .Dr,\.;rl\..L .n...11...1 SERVICES OF Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing 'lh = .Dr,\Jl\..L .n...11...1 SERVICES OF 'lh = OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. Network supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. ,,,. Get h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!;~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Shelta Sneed Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:59 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/10841179ea8f02346f1db2c72b5eb2cf.pdf a3d56e96e3f8daa4844eb1a60747fcac PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm New Programming A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Tuesday, October 24th l 6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, October 27th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. . ~ ·• ~ /.•CENTER of EXCELLENCE A n .GH Q• HH,.vio.,. • ......_n,1ou,rv ,/!:ii Affirmative ~ RESEARCH Ages: 14·19 lstG,o~:C,~upg~st25th NOW OFFERING i~~ AFFlfllf =fl•,t r:, r- • •, L!J I-• •■J We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall wellbeing. a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th St. Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework to ensure the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Special Events OkEq - Equality Business Alliance Mixer Cornerstone Wealth Management Equality Business Alliance Networking Mixer Thursday, October 26th | 6-8 p 2738 E. 51st Street, Suite 200, Tulsa, OK 2738 E. 51s1 Street, Suite 200, Tulsa, OK 74105 Cornerstone 7 Equality Business Alliance Networking Mixer is excited to feature Cornerstone Wealth Management this month. As independent advisors, they will spend their energy on you - not meeting sales goals or product quotas. Their Advisors strive to provide comprehensive wealth management services for every stage of your journey. Cornerstone's mission is to enhance your life by helping you create sound financial strategies. Justin Maddox will 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... present a brief presentation. Please RSVP as refreshments will be served, as it helps us better plan for the evening. You may access their website at www.tclwm.com. 4)once of t{)e 4)eob en ml,}il'e CBoU _ 621 E. tffH Sfll EET _ ,ru _,,_,IS ,= A. OK 7~'•12~0_ _ _. Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter 21 + with valid ID to drink Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Saturday, December 2nd | 1-5p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! First Saturday of the month, contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information.On the first Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I In Memoriam Iln MemoriWTI 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Fernande Galindo October 8, 1985 - October 12, 2023 Founder of Tulsa Intersectional Care Network and Tulsa Queer Exchange. Fern was a community builder and revolutionary. William Maurice "Rusty" Clyma III July 2, 1959 - September 16, 2023 Rusty was Emperor VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and the bishop of the Inckusive Celtic Church. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 17 Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin of Ofdahoma will be assisting LGSTQ+ community with fair hoosins· scour rr<ooP 7131 5COUfTROOP 15 OPEN 1D ALL GIRLS ANO TRAN5/NONBINARY YOUTH ,VERY THVllSDAY OF TH, MONTH 6'30pM .;,. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTO+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 17 AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... clarity until we have an answer. Brougl1lt 1' 0 ¥01111 Bi 1 ,rjt1Je ll.~tt~r _ __.~~ ~~!!.-"!!.-"~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@QdJ§§~~ "i:f'QdJ[b s & "IT'W@ =§~ □~ □"IT' 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 17 Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... tulsaequalitygaming - - - · ®®rn@l®IP - ~lID]])I]XIDlru ®rf®l!U]]) Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ ++ 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. information. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LGBTQ+ persons. knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. • • ecialists are ava1lab • Ie to help you apply for SNAP apphcat1on sp . . bout 20 minutes. or renew SNAP benefits m a 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espai'iol: Learn more at hungedreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Ron Brady Fern Galindo Jodi Rachel Green Ryan Fitzpatrick Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Bonita James Michael James Kevin Knight Gary Percefull Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed O O G & Q i> Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:14 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8d45255c08dbceee0ba7bc531f07cdb3.pdf 304f6f95097cc7e0570200b8de058da8 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm Memorial Service for Fernande Galindo Please join us in celebrating Fern's Life. 11.3.2023 3pm Floral Haven 6500 S 129th E Ave Broken Arrow, OK Friday, November 3rd l 3 pm Floral Haven 6500 S 129th E Ave Broken Arrow, OK Please join us in celebrating Fern's life. November 3, 2023, at 3 p.m. at Floral Haven 6500 S 129th E Ave Broken Arrow, OK. This is organized by Fern's family, who will be in attendance. Please join us as we remember a dear friend and community leader. Memorial Service for Nancy McDonald Sunday, November 12th l 4 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Please join us in celebrating the life of Nancy McDonald at All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Ave, Tulsa OK on Sunday, November 12th, 2023 4 PM. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Nancy’s honor to Partners in Education. If you are able, please bring homemade cookies to share! (No store-bought cookies, per her request.) We hope to see you there! New Programming A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Tuesday, October 31st l 6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, November 3rd |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Ages: 14·19 1stGro~~~ugust25th We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to tJnW nCCE:DltJt: 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... b:uupm •~-•• - • , _,,,,~Up to 15 participants support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall wellbeing. ~-:~-~~ AFFllllf ~ •~•"""°""M"••' L!J t, • iJ Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th Sl Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework to ensure the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Special Events Equality Game Night Tuesday, October 31st | 6-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 6:00 9:00 pm 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Black Queer Tulsa Presents: Halloween Boo Ball Tuesday, October 31st | 6-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Get ready to immerse yourself in the vibrant and colorful celebration of Día de Muertos! Join us for a night of excitement and cultural exploration. Shop from local vendors, indulge in delicious food, and move to the rhythm of lively music. You'll be captivated by the stunning performance of Ballet Folklorico Tierra Mestiza, showcasing traditional cultural dances that will leave you breathless. Dia De Los Muertos Friday, November 3rd | 6-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK To have a loved one placed on the ofrenda, please email kao.morris@okeq.org with the picture and name. Single Admission: $10 | Group Admission (4): $15 Single Admission at door: $15 | Group Admission (4) at door: $20 Tickets Get ready to immerse yourself in the vibrant and colorful celebration of Día de Muertos! Join us for a night of excitement and cultural exploration. Shop from local vendors, indulge in delicious food, and move to the rhythm of lively music. You'll be captivated by the stunning performance of Ballet Folklorico Tierra Mestiza, showcasing traditional cultural dances that will leave you breathless. Take advantage of this unforgettable experience! Come early - doors open at 6 pm, and the show starts at 7 pm. Stick around for a dance or two, and enjoy the evening with us! Flyover Fest 2023 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Saturday, December 2nd | 1-5p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! First Saturday of the month, contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information.On the first 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Il111 MemoriWTI Nancy McDonald June 4, 1966 - October 24, 2023 Founder of Tulsa PFLAG, a community leader and civil rights advocate Rob Hill August 10, 1944 - October 16, 2023 Member of OKEQ Seniors and Tulsa Area Prime Timers Fernande Galindo October 8, 1985 - October 12, 2023 Founder of Tulsa Intersectional Care Network and Tulsa Queer Exchange. Fern was a community builder and 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... revolutionary. William Maurice "Rusty" Clyma III July 2, 1959 - September 16, 2023 Rusty was Emperor VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and the bishop of the Inckusive Celtic Church. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-fCLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin scour rrzooP l1S1 m 5COUT1ROOP 15 OPEN All GIRL5 ANO 1RAN5/NONBINARY YOIJTH fWRY TttVRSMY OF Tttf MONTtt 6'30p«, ~ Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~W OMEN ' S UEER 0 L L ECTIVE 1' 0 Yo111 Bi 1 1fjt1Je l(_,(?;f f'(?;lf ~~~~ ~~!:,,'!:,,'~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@O~O@QdJ§ § ~~ 'v'QdJ C!:::,§& 'v'W@=§[pO~D'v' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. ,,,. Get h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!;~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Ron Brady Fern Galindo Jodi Rachel Green Ryan Fitzpatrick Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Bonita James Michael James Kevin Knight Gary Percefull Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:15 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d4129fd850f45e7edfab60b77c4ff3d6.pdf d93c31867013f9535894749d70117ac2 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm Memorial Service for Nancy McDonald Sunday, November 12th l 4 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave Tulsa, OK Please join us in celebrating the life of Nancy McDonald at All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Ave, Tulsa OK on Sunday, November 12th, 2023 4 PM. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Nancy’s honor to Partners in Education. If you are able, please bring homemade cookies to share! (No store-bought cookies, per her request.) We hope to see you there! New Programming 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Tulsa TTRPGS Saturday, November 18th l 12pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Our group has undergone an exciting transformation, expanding to encompass all tabletop games and providing a welcoming space for members and supporters of the Tulsa LGBT+ community. Prepare to embark on epic adventures, forge new friendships, and immerse yourself in tabletop gaming. ? Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now take place on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month, starting this month on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. ? The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center continues to be our safe and inclusive haven for diverse gamers to come together and have a fantastic time. Whether you're an experienced Dungeon Master or a player seeking a table, we're here for you. 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Tuesday, November 14th l 6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, November 17th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. ~\ ·: • CENTER of EXCELLENCE lGIITO•HIIAYIOOIAI.MU-1..THIC>UITY ,m Affirmative ~ RESEARCH Ages: 14·19 l.stG,o~:o~~g~ ,t 25th NOW OFFERING ~l~i~I~ ~,!~' " " ~JI·. . :r:1..... r L!J t- • --~ • • iJ .,.rr1 a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th Sl Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall wellbeing. The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework to ensure the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Special Events Rainbow Renewal: Framily Day at OKEQ Friday, November 24th |12-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A day of healing, community, and celebration! After Thanksgiving, we invite you to relax, connect, and recharge in a safe and welcoming space. Enjoy movies, arts and crafts, board games, karaoke, and more. Plus, we'll have delicious snacks and nonalcoholic drinks. This event is all about inclusivity, so come as you are and be yourself. Whether you need healing or want to enjoy a great day with friends, you're welcome here. Let's unite and make "Framily" memories that will last a lifetime! Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... sell out quickly. Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Saturday, December 2nd | 1-5p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! First Saturday of the month, contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information.On the first 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Iln MemoriWTI Nancy McDonald June 4, 1966 - October 24, 2023 Founder of Tulsa PFLAG, a community 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... leader and civil rights advocate Rob Hill August 10, 1944 - October 16, 2023 Member of OKEQ Seniors and Tulsa Area Prime Timers Fernande Galindo October 8, 1985 - October 12, 2023 Founder of Tulsa Intersectional Care Network and Tulsa Queer Exchange. Fern was a community builder and revolutionary. William Maurice "Rusty" Clyma III July 2, 1959 - September 16, 2023 Rusty was Emperor VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... the bishop of the Inckusive Celtic Church. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin of Oldohoma will be ~ssist'.ns LGSTQ+ community with fo,r hoosins· scour rr<ooP 74-g4- 5COl/fTROOP 15 OPEN 1D ALL GIRLS ANO TRAN5/NONBINARY YOVll, f:VfRY THVllSDAY OF TH, MONTH 6:30 pw, Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Brougbt 1' 0 Yo111 Bi 1 ,rjt1Je lL(?;f f'(?;r ___. ~~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ 0~@)0~0@!10§§~~ 7J"l10[b§& "iJ"W@=§lP0~0"iJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. @r@rncll@1r ~'Oill])]JXIDrffi @lP®'Oill]) Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. • - • ..... 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... COUNTRY RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. country. from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get \ISfi h e l p . supplemental applying for • • :~!;~\i;;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Ca ll toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists ca ll you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Lea rn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKE okeq. org/ donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Board of Advisors Ron Brady Fern Galindo Jodi Rachel Green Ryan Fitzpatrick Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Caleb Jackson Bonita James Michael James Kevin Knight Gary Percefull Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed ooe e s e Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1c8a02cb7c2b491ff0190772b59dabfa.pdf c7a5c6f32bbbd8cf257d7691fd35debf PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm NOVEMBER 28th – GIVING TUESDAY Gl~ INGTUESDAY Oklahomans for Equality is reaching out to you as Giving Tuesday approaches, and you are deciding the charitable organizations you wish to receive your generous gift on Tuesday, November 28th. OkEQ’s mission: Oklahomans for Equality seeks equal rights for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We need your support to continue as a resource center and safe place for our community. Your dollars will go to support our programs, services, outreach, and events: • OkEq Health Clinic: • Hormone Replacement Therapy • PrEP • Hope Testing – Weekly HIV & STI testing • Gender Support & Outreach • Transgender Intersectional Support • AFFIRM – A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program for youth 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • Two Spirit: IndigiQueer – Queer and two-spirit Indigenous persons support group • OKEQ Seniors – For those age 55+ • Green Country Bears – Bear culture/subculture social group • Lambda Bowling League • Volunteer Peer Support Specialist – Help connect with the resources you need • Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade • Queer Women’s Collective Tulsa – Monthly meetups for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allies • Tulsa Area Prime Timers – Gay and Bisexual men 21+ social group • Scouts Troop 7484 – Open to all girls and trans/nonbinary youth • Jamm Outt – A youth music program • Sin Fronteras – A Latin-led movement • Brought to you Bi+ the Letter B – Bi+ social & support group • A.C.E. (Ace’s Committed to Equality) – An asexual support group • Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater – Available to rent for events • Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library – 3,500 LBBTIQ+ related titles • Rental space and meeting rooms • CREOKS Behavioral Health Counseling Services • Bruce Goff Event Center – Rental space with commercial kitchen and more • Chapter outreach: Muskogee, Bartlesville, McAlester, Wagoner, Miami • Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery • Name and Gender Correction Clinic • Legal Aid Services – Housing discrimination and other legal issues • Tulsa Really Really Free Market You may also bring your donation to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120. Thank you for your continued support, Dorothy Ballard, Executive Director Oklahomans for Equality 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... day learn more at www.okeq.org DONATE NOW New Programming OKLAMOMANS rou EQUALITY i, Tulsa TTRPG Tulsa tabletop role-playing gaming group now at the Equality Center; Contact Weaver Haney at weaverotales@gmail.com for more information. FIRST AND THIRD SATURDAY OF THE MONTH FROM 12NOON - 6PM I DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER I 621 E 4TH ST., TULSA OK OKEQ Tulsa TTRPGS Saturday, November 18th l 12pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Our group has undergone an exciting transformation, expanding to encompass all tabletop games and providing a welcoming space for members and supporters of the Tulsa LGBT+ community. Prepare to embark on epic adventures, forge new friendships, and immerse yourself in tabletop gaming. ? Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now take place on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month, starting this month on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. ? The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center continues to be our safe and inclusive haven for diverse gamers to come together and have a fantastic time. Whether you're an experienced Dungeon Master or a player seeking a table, we're here for you. Transgender Awareness Week Events Tran~gender Awareness Week Nov 'Queer the Mic' Open Mic Night 17th @ Park Grove Creative Community (Fri] 7:DDpm-10:0Dpm Rollerqueers Meetup @ The Gathering Place Nov [weather permitting] 1:DDpm-3:00pm 18th , , [Sat] Trans the Disco Starlite Bar "Takeover" @ The Starlite Bar, Tulsa 8:00pm 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer the Mic 2: Transgender Awareness Week Open Mic Friday, November 17th | 6.45-9.30 p Park Grove Creative Community 4241 S. 37th W. Ave, Tulsa, OK Another round of hijinks and shenanigans, our treat! If you're gender-bent, gender-queer, or gender-f***ed; Admission will be donate-what-youcan, and proceeds will be split between our gracious hosts at Park Grove and the Transgender Advocacy Coalition of Oklahoma. If you've trans-ed your gender, merged your gender, or lost your gender in a game of cards; Acts will be limited to 10 minutes and must be suitable for an all-ages audience. Doors will open at 6:45 pm; The Event begins sharply at 7 pm. --- -- Join activists, accomplices, and comrades from across the queer community for the penultimate event of Transgender Awareness Week! P.S. If you lead, participate in, or support an organization that would like to share its work at this event, please reach out via DM or email (transadvocacyok@gmail.com). r;,:J ·'&' T.A.c.o. Trans9ender Da .o! If you love your gender, hate your gender, or dance a will-they-won'tthey with your gender. This open mic is for you (but everyone is welcome to attend)! Transgender Awareness Week Day of Action!! Activism Fair and Workshops Sunday, November 19th | 11 a Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This Day of Action will host numerous activist organizations with ways that you can get involved to support and participate in their work. T.A.C.O. Transgender Day of Remembrance Vigil 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Your copy should address 3 key questions: Who am I writing for (audience)? Why should they care (benefit)? What do I want them to do (call-to-action)? Create a great offer by adding words like "free," "personalized," "complimentary," or "customized." A sense of urgency often helps readers take action, so consider inserting phrases like "for a limited time only" or "only 7 remaining!" Monday, November 20th |6.3010 p All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR) is an annual observance on November 20 that honors the memory of the transgender people whose lives were lost in acts of antitransgender violence. Special Events SAFE AND SOUND _ FULTO N STREET B OO KS & CO FFEE PRE S ENT S BOOK SIGNING W I T H M E RCURY ST ARDUS T WEDNESDAY . NOVEMBER 15TH 6:30 PM • 8:30 PM WOMPA 3306 CHARLES PAGE BLVD mrumN ~rmr PRE ORDER BOOK HERE : https:// www.fultonstreet918.com/ books/safe-and-sound Tickets Ri1H r1rv,r A Pi= Mercury Stardust Book Tour Wednesday, November 15th | 6.30-8.30 p WOMPA 3306 Charles Page Blvd Tulsa, OK Join Fulton Street for an in-person signing line with author and TikToker Mercury Stardust to celebrate the release of Safe and Sound: A Renter-Friendly Guide to Home Repair. Mercury will sign and personalize copies of her new book and take photos with attendees if they wish! Your purchased ticket includes a copy of the book! Don't panic--Mercury Stardust, AKA The Trans Handy Ma'am, is here to help! Remember--a little bit of knowledge can go a long way toward making you feel more safe and in control of your own life. Equality Business Alliance Monthly Mixer 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 24 iii https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... '-"'1 I I V'-"'1 ,1 L. HOME MORTGAGE ALYCIA WILLIAMS Sex & Relationship Therapy Thursday, November 16th |6 p Cityscape Home Mortgage and Co-Host Alycia Williams, Sex & Relationship Therapist 1115 S. Lewis Ave., Suite D, Tulsa, OK The evening will include a brief overview of their services , including bingo and prizes! Should you have questions, they can be reached at 918.622.0900. As a local lender, Cityscape Home Mortgage, http:// www.cityscapehome.com, takes pride in its ability to approve and fund your loan locally. This speeds up the loan process, saving you time and money. Howard Doak, Branch Manager, and his team welcome you to join them for an evening of networking, food, beverages, and fun! Alycia Williams, Ms, LPC, CST, Licensed Psychotherapist, http:// www.alyciawilliams.com Are you looking for a way to improve your relationship, cope with life stressors, welcome or increase your sense of well-being? Do you hope to overcome the pain of infidelity, regain desire, or feel more confident and satisfied in your sexual life? Alycia Williams can help. Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, November 18th | 6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK Join us for Pride Bingo, on Saturday, November 18th as we raise money for Tulsa Pride 2024! ?⚧???????????? 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Enjoy performances from Tulsa Pride Royalty and special guest, hosted by Scrappy Legacy, win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy Empire Slice House Tulsa pizza! ?⚧???????????? Tickets Help us give back with bikes for the holidays! You can bring a bike for entry into Pride Bingo! The bikes will be donated to local youths in the Tulsa metro area as a part of the ticket price for admission. ?⚧???????????? Saturday, November 18th at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Doors open at 6:30 pm | Game starts at 7 pm Rainbow Renewal: Framily Day at OKEQ Friday, November 24th |12-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A day of healing, community, and celebration! Framily (noun) Definition: Framily refers to a cherished group of individuals who, despite the absence of shared DNA, are bound together by bonds of friendship, love, and mutual support. Those extraordinary people who have become an integral and inseparable part of one's life journey. After Thanksgiving, we invite you to relax, connect, and recharge in a safe and welcoming space. Enjoy movies, arts and crafts, board games, karaoke, and more. Plus, we'll have delicious snacks and nonalcoholic drinks. This event is all about inclusivity, so come as you are and be yourself. You're welcome here if you need healing or want to enjoy a great day with friends. Let's unite and make "Framily" memories that will last a lifetime! 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Saturday, December 2nd | 1-5p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! First Saturday of the month, contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information.On the first 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Il111 Memoriaurn Nancy McDonald June 4, 1936 - October 24, 2023 Founder of Tulsa PFLAG, a community leader and civil rights advocate Rob Hill August 10, 1944 - October 16, 2023 Member of OKEQ Seniors and Tulsa Area Prime Timers Fernande Galindo October 8, 1985 - October 12, 2023 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Founder of Tulsa Intersectional Care Network and Tulsa Queer Exchange. Fern was a community builder and revolutionary. William Maurice "Rusty" Clyma III July 2, 1959 - September 16, 2023 Rusty was Emperor VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and the bishop of the Inckusive Celtic Church. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-fCLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 24 Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin scour rr<ooP l1S1 5COU1"1ROOP 15 OPEN 1D All GIRL5 ANO 1RAN5/NONBINARY YOIJTH ff,RY rttvRSMY OF rtt, MONTH 6,30pM .;.. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality NOW OFFERI a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 24 to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Brougl1Lt T 0 Yott Bi 1 Tlt~ L~tt~r 1 Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ O[r::!]@)0~ □@!10 §§~~ 7J"l10[b§& Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un 'D"W@=§lPD~D'D" IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 24 entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ----- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY ARS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more information. 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 24 HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... JI S&J Get h e l p . supplemental applying for :~!~~\i:;ce A • P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm NOVEMBER 28th – GIVING TUESDAY Gl~ INGTUESDAY learn more at www.okeq.org ♦ DONATE NOW 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality is reaching out to you as Giving Tuesday approaches, and you are deciding the charitable organizations you wish to receive your generous gift on Tuesday, November 28th. OkEQ’s mission: Oklahomans for Equality seeks equal rights for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We need your support to continue as a resource center and safe place for our community. Your dollars will go to support our programs, services, outreach, and events. You may also donate at the Oklahomans for Equality located at 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. Gl~ INGTUESDAY GiViNG TUESDAY SUPPORT YOUR LOCAL RAINBOW LIBRARY www.oKaQ.ORG • , ~ GaNaRAL SUPPLlas &J o e ~ ~ """" [!I ' i) ·,J SATaLLITas CHAPTaRS General Supplies Oklahomans for Equality's Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library seeks to increase access to affirming literature in Eastern Oklahoma and beyond. OkEQ’s mission: Oklahomans for Equality seeks equal rights for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We need your support to continue as a resource center and safe place for our community. Your dollars will go to support our programs, services, outreach, and events. You may also donate at the Oklahomans for Equality located at 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. Satellites Chapters 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... New Programming OKLRMOMRNS ro~ fQURLlTY Tulsa tabletop role•playing gaming group now at the Equality Center; Contact Weaver Haney at weoverotales@gmail.com for more information. ~ FIRST ANO THIRD SATURDAY Of THE MONTH FROM 12NOON • IW'M I DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER I 621 E H H ST .• TULSAOI< ? The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center continues to be our safe and inclusive haven for diverse gamers to come together and have a fantastic time. Whether you're an experienced Dungeon Master or a player seeking a table, we're here for you. OKEQ Tulsa TTRPGS Saturday, December 2nd l 12 p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Our group has undergone an exciting transformation, expanding to encompass all tabletop games and providing a welcoming space for members and supporters of the Tulsa LGBT+ community. Prepare to embark on epic adventures, forge new friendships, and immerse yourself in tabletop gaming. ? Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Special Events T.A.C.O. Transsender Day of Rememberance Yi9il J. ~ J. J. .Q, .a. T.A.C.O. Transgender Day of Remembrance Vigil Monday, November 20th |6.3010 p All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR) is an annual observance on November 20 that honors the memory of the transgender people whose lives were lost in acts of antitransgender violence. 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Renewal: Framily Day at OKEQ Friday, November 24th |12-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A day of healing, community, and celebration! Framily (noun) Definition: Framily refers to a cherished group of individuals who, despite the absence of shared DNA, are bound together by bonds of friendship, love, and mutual support. Those extraordinary people who have become an integral and inseparable part of one's life journey. After Thanksgiving, we invite you to relax, connect, and recharge in a safe and welcoming space. Enjoy movies, arts and crafts, board games, karaoke, and more. Plus, we'll have delicious snacks and nonalcoholic drinks. This event is all about inclusivity, so come as you are and be yourself. You're welcome here if you need healing or want to enjoy a great day with friends. Let's unite and make "Framily" memories that will last a lifetime! Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Saturday, December 2nd | 1-5p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... talents to the world! First Saturday of the month, contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information.On the first I 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Iln Memoriaum Nancy McDonald June 4, 1936 - October 24, 2023 Founder of Tulsa PFLAG, a community leader and civil rights advocate Rob Hill August 10, 1944 - October 16, 2023 Member of OKEQ Seniors and Tulsa Area Prime Timers '• I / lj () I) '/ - 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Fernande Galindo October 8, 1985 - October 12, 2023 Founder of Tulsa Intersectional Care Network and Tulsa Queer Exchange. Fern was a community builder and revolutionary. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... W The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Na!:,XY&.Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin of Oldahoma will be assisting LGSTQ+ community with fair hoosins· 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... m SCOlJflROOP IS OPEN ALL GIRLS AND lRANSINONBINARY YOUTH fffRY TttVRSMY OF rtt, MONTtt 6,30pM .;.. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTO+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Brougbt 1' 0 YOlll Bi 1 T 1lt1J~ IL@;f t@;r ~ ~~ ~ ~ ~ !!,,"' !!,,"' ~~ 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@illJ§§~~ 'v'MCbs& 'v'W@=§[pO~D'v' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming --- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. @r@rncll@1r ~DUl])]JXIDrffi @IBIDDU]]) 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ~ OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY ~-- ■ --... __ Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month, 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IUCSR TTRP&S starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. first and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b8d33d4198abba5ac18f65114234d877.pdf 61899b9d995e74f40be24156d1e3be40 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm NOVEMBER 28th – GIVING TUESDAY Gl~ INGTUESDAY Oklahomans for Equality is reaching out to you as Giving Tuesday approaches and you are making your decision as to the charitable organizations you wish to receive your generous gift on Tuesday, November 28th. OkEQ’s mission: Oklahomans for Equality seeks equal rights for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. learn more at www.okeq.org DONATE NOW ♦ We need your support to be able to continue as a resource center and safe place for our community. Your dollars will go to support our programs, services, outreach, and events: OkEq Health Clinic, Hormone 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Replacement Therapy, PrEP, Hope Testing – Weekly HIV & STI testing, Gender Support & Outreach, Transgender Intersectional Support, AFFIRM – A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program for youth, Two Spirit: IndigiQueer, OKEQ Seniors, Green Country Bears, Lambda Bowling League, Volunteer Peer Support Specialist, Tulsa Pride festival and parade, Queer Women’s Collective Tulsa, Tulsa Area Prime Timers, Scouts Troop 7484, Jamm Outt, Sin Fronteras, Brought to you Bi+ the Letter B, A.C.E. (Ace’s Committed to Equality), Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater, Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library, Rental space and meeting rooms, CREOKS Behavioral Health Counseling Services, Bruce Goff Event Center and more. Chapter outreach: Muskogee, Bartlesville, McAlester, Wagoner, Miami., Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, Name and Gender Correction Clinic, Legal Aid Services, Really Really Free Market You may also bring your donation to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120. Gl~ INGTUESDAY . .•~ GiViNG TUESDAY SUPPORT YOUR LOCAL RAINBOW LIBRARY WWW.OKaQ.O ■ G Nancy & .lcNI McDonlld lbinbcM Ubn,y II [!I o} ·,J Oklahomans for Equality's Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library seeks to increase access to affirming literature in Eastern Oklahoma and beyond. OkEQ’s mission: Oklahomans for Equality seeks equal rights for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We need your support to continue as a resource center and safe place for our community. Your dollars will go to support our programs, services, 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... outreach, and events. General Supplies Satellites Chapters You may also donate at the Oklahomans for Equality located at 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. New Programming OKLRMOMRNS ro~ £QUALITY Tulsa tabletop role•playing gaming group now at the Equality Center; Contact Weaver Haney at weoverotales@gmail.com for more information. "" FIRST ANO THIRD SATIJIIOAY Of' THE MONTH FROM 12N00N • 6PM I [)tNNIS R. NEJll EQU,t,.LJTY CENTEll I 6?1 E 4TH ST., TULSAOI< ? The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center continues to be our safe and inclusive haven for diverse gamers to come together and have a fantastic time. Whether you're an experienced Dungeon Master or a player seeking a table, we're here for you. OKEQ Tulsa TTRPGS Saturday, December 2nd l 12 p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Our group has undergone an exciting transformation, expanding to encompass all tabletop games and providing a welcoming space for members and supporters of the Tulsa LGBT+ community. Prepare to embark on epic adventures, forge new friendships, and immerse yourself in tabletop gaming. ? Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Special Events Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Saturday, December 2nd | 1-5p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! First Saturday of the month, contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information.On the first Equality Business Alliance Monthly Mixer Thursday, December 14th | 6-8p yogaQUEST & Energy Environments, Inc. 3325 E. 31st Street Tulsa, OK Tulsa yogaQUEST and Energy Environments, Inc. are excited to Co-host the final OkEq Monthly Mixer of 2023! The evening will include a brief overview of their services, as well as an invitation to sample the weekly Functional Movement class that will be taking place – you are able to wear street clothes! EQ.VALITY .a. Additionally, the Mixer will take place amidst a gallery of artwork for sale to benefit a family of six (6) and three (3) children from YST in Tulsa. Their 2 nd Annual WellArts Exhibit & Sale opened Saturday, 11/25 and will have the Opening Reception & Holiday Bash, Friday, 12/1 6-8p – all are welcome to attend! There will be food, drink and live entertainment from local talent, 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Andrea Kyle! Even though the intent is to sell artwork to raise funds, a lover of art may not have the wall space so instead, yogaQUEST and Energy Environments are also accepting donations for the recipients. Visit the website, tulsayogaquest.com to view the list of items received from F&CS and YST. They are also accepting gift cards for purchases of the family’s needs. Please visit Tulsa yogaQUEST and Energy Environments, Inc. to learn more information about offerings about upcoming events. Kathy Clarke, CEO, Owner, Energy Environments, Inc., www.energyenvironments.com. Dee Anne Day, CEO, Owner, yogaQUEST, tulsayogaquest.com As food and beverages will be served, please RSVP so that we may plan accordingly. You may RSVP by calling 918.743.4297. rA-lA-lA ICHTMAR! ,r,oRr CHRltTMAt (fflyliillareii£)~ !NT!ATAINM!NT * f00D * DRINK! * AAffl!! 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa Pride Pageant 2024 honoring King and Queen Micah Membrane & Karma Eclectic Sunday, January 7th 9:30 p-1 a Club Majestic 124 N Boston Tulsa, OK We cordially invite you to attend the 2024 Tulsa Pride Pageant. Our 2024 Tulsa Pride King and Queen will be crowned, and our esteemed 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, will be recognized for their contributions. To participate in the pageant, candidates must have completed a minimum of 10 to 15 hours of community service from any organization, accompanied by a certified letter. Additionally, entrants must be of a minimum age of 18 years. 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The crowned winners will receive a Tulsa Pride Crown and Sash, bookings for Tulsa Pride Bingos, Tulsa Pride, and OKEQ Chapter Prides, two (2) promo pictures, and a cash prize of $300. All proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality and Tulsa Pride. Should you have any queries, please do not hesitate to contact 2023 Tulsa Pride King Micah Membrane at Mollylynne@me.com or 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic at jackpaustin13@gmail.com. Promoters: Tanna Gioletti-Brewer and Shay Brewer. For additional information, please get in touch with Shay.Brewer@okeq.com. In Memoriam Iln Memoriaim 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Nancy McDonald June 4, 1936 - October 24, 2023 Founder of Tulsa PFLAG, a community leader and civil rights advocate Rob Hill August 10, 1944 - October 16, 2023 Member of OKEQ Seniors and Tulsa Area Prime Timers In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-<r11 OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-<r- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! Natx)'&.Joe McDc:inald Rainbow Library The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin scour rr<ooP 11g1 SCOUT TROOP 15 OPEN TO ALL GIRLS AND TRANS/NONBINARY YOUTH fVfRY rttvRSDAY OF rttf MONTH 6,30pM .;.. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non- 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! binary individuals aged 18 and above. Lawyer in the Library Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... T 0 Yotll Bi 1 T lt1J~ lL~tt~r 1 ~ ....... ~ ~ ~ ~ !!." !!." ~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ O[r::!J@) □~□@l1D §§~~ 7J"!1D[b§& lJ"W@=§lPD~DlJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ----- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ~ . OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TULSA TTRP&s First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. • = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:19 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/430073e0a1d9fb5e4cb5bcf6cc80602c.pdf 1423914680ad91fa0ac1c686c4262a3a PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm New Programming OKI..RMOMRNS fOij £QURl..1TY Tulsa tabletop role·ploying gaming group now ot the Equality Center; Contact weaver Honey at weoverotoles@gmoil.com for more information. tit FIRST ANO THIRD SATURDAY Of TM£ MONTH FROM 12NOON • 6,PM I DENNIS R. NEILL EQUA.l.lTY CENTER I 621 E H H ST .. TULSAOI< ? The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center continues to be our safe and inclusive haven for diverse gamers to come together and have a fantastic time. Whether you're an experienced Dungeon Master or a player seeking a table, we're here for you. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Tulsa TTRPGS Saturday, December 16th l 12 p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Our group has undergone an exciting transformation, expanding to encompass all tabletop games and providing a welcoming space for members and supporters of the Tulsa LGBT+ community. Prepare to embark on epic adventures, forge new friendships, and immerse yourself in tabletop gaming. ? Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Special Events Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree at OKEQ Wednesday, December 13th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Would you be able to make a difference this holiday season? Look no further than the Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! By adopting a fairy from the tree, you can help bring joy and happiness to those in need. Join us and be a part of this beautiful cause! Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs Don't wait to get started - gift lists are ready for pick-up, and center hours are 9 am to 9 pm, Tuesday to 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... serving low-income individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs, and we specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, selfworth, inclusion, and hope. Tulsa CARES Thursday, and 9 am to 6 pm Friday and Saturday. The deadline for gifts to be returned is Wednesday, December 13th. Gifts should be returned unwrapped. Tulsa CARES was founded in 1991 as a community response to the growing need for coordinated HIV/ AIDS care during some of the darkest days of the epidemic. For more than three decades, Tulsa CARES has provided a compassionate response as HIV/ AIDS has evolved from a fatal illness to a chronically managed disease. TRANS ADVOCACY COALITION OF OKLAHOMA PRESENTS: STATE-WIDE COMMUNITY SURVEY Are you an Oklahoman whose gender identity, expression, or experience is different from the norm? Are you 13 or older? We want to determine community needs for financial and other support programs. Please fill out this survey and send it to anyone else you know! httP-s://t.ly/EEO mo 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Business Alliance Monthly Mixer Thursday, December 14th | 6-8p yogaQUEST & Energy Environments, Inc. 3325 E. 31st Street Tulsa, OK Tulsa yogaQUEST and Energy Environments, Inc. are excited to Co-host the final OkEq Monthly Mixer of 2023! The evening will include a brief overview of their services, as well as an invitation to sample the weekly Functional Movement class that will be taking place – you are able to wear street clothes! Additionally, the Mixer will take place amidst a gallery of artwork for sale to benefit a family of six (6) and three (3) children from YST in Tulsa. Their 2 nd Annual WellArts Exhibit & Sale opened Saturday, 11/25 and will have the Opening Reception & Holiday Bash, Friday, 12/1 6-8p – all are welcome to attend! There will be food, drink and live entertainment from local talent, Andrea Kyle! Kathy Clarke, CEO, Owner, Energy Environments, Inc., www.energyenvironments.com. Dee Anne Day, CEO, Owner, yogaQUEST, tulsayogaquest.com As food and beverages will be served, please RSVP so that we may plan accordingly. You may RSVP by calling 918.743.4297. Even though the intent is to sell artwork to raise funds, a lover of art may not have the wall space so instead, yogaQUEST and Energy Environments are also accepting donations for the recipients. Visit the website, tulsayogaquest.com to view the list of items received from F&CS and YST. They are also accepting gift cards for purchases of the family’s needs. Please visit Tulsa yogaQUEST and Energy Environments, Inc. to 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... learn more information about offerings about upcoming events. rA-lA-lA ICHTMAR! 8!rOR! CHRl!TMA! mJl.llifilrefil!JliB.llib (Ia I fflffllTAlNM!NT * FOOi> * l>RlNK! * RAfflR Fa-La-La Ball: Nightmare Before Christmas Saturday, December 16th l 6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Prepare for an unforgettable holiday season with the Falala Ball: Nightmare Before Christmas, brought by Oklahomans for Equality! Please consider donating an unwrapped toy or making a direct monetary donation to help us support the less fortunate. Tickets Join us for an evening filled with live entertainment, delicious food and drinks, and exciting raffles that will make your night even more magical. Not only will you have a fantastic time, but you'll also be giving back to those in need. Take advantage of the chance to celebrate the holidays in style while making a difference in your community! We are also accepting donations of non-perishable food items, hygiene and grooming items (such as hair care, soap, nail clippers, deodorant, and menstruation products), household essentials (like toilet paper, cleaning supplies, small kitchen utensils and countertop appliances), and pet supplies. Thank you for your generosity in advance. Rainbow Room Present: A Christmas Cabaret Thursday, December 21st 7-10p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Rainbow Room returns with a nontraditional spin on holiday classics. Join us on December 21st at 7 p in the Lynn 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Riggs Theater for an unforgettable night with your favorite headliners. Get your tickets now! Tickets Tulsa Equality Game Night Tuesday, December 26th l 7-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 7:00 9:00 p.m. NYE: Cheers to the New Year Sunday, December 31st l 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tickets Are you looking for the perfect way to welcome the New Year? Join us for an unforgettable New Year's Eve celebration! With one free raffle ticket and a complimentary champagne toast with delicious snacks, your taste buds will be delighted. And that's not all - there will also be short-order food to satisfy your cravings. But the real party starts when the Live DJ hits the stage, playing all your favorite tunes and setting the perfect vibe for the night. And that's just the beginning - you'll also enjoy performances from the 2023 Queen 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, and Tracy La Louisianne! Tulsa Pride Pageant 2024 honoring King and Queen Micah Membrane & Karma Eclectic Sunday, January 7th 9:30 p-1 a Club Majestic 124 N Boston Tulsa, OK We cordially invite you to attend the 2024 Tulsa Pride Pageant. Our 2024 Tulsa Pride King and Queen will be crowned, and our esteemed 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, will be recognized for their contributions. Should you have any queries, please do not hesitate to contact 2023 Tulsa Pride King Micah Membrane at Mollylynne@me.com or 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic at jackpaustin13@gmail.com. Promoters: Tanna Gioletti-Brewer and Shay Brewer. For additional information, please get in touch with Shay.Brewer@okeq.com. To participate in the pageant, candidates must have completed a minimum of 10 to 15 hours of community service from any organization, accompanied by a certified letter. Additionally, entrants must be of a minimum age of 18 years. The crowned winners will receive a Tulsa Pride Crown and Sash, bookings for Tulsa Pride Bingos, Tulsa Pride, and OKEQ Chapter Prides, two (2) promo pictures, and a cash prize of $300. All proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality and Tulsa Pride. In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln Memoriaum Nancy McDonald June 4, 1936 - October 24, 2023 Founder of Tulsa PFLAG, a community leader and civil rights advocate In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-if- OKEO HEALTH -~-if- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 20 SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! Nat1C)'&Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin scour rr<ooP 11g1 5COUT1ROOP 15 OPEN 1D All GIRL5 ANO 1RAN5/NONBINARY YOUTH ff,RY rttvRSMY OF rtt, MONTH 6,30 P"' .;. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 20 overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~W OMEN ' S UEER 0 L L ECTIVE Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ O[r::!]@)0~ □@!10 §§~~ 7J"l10[b§& Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la lJ"W@=§lPD~DlJ" IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 20 comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ~ . OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TULSA TTRP&s First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm ~ / J i , , li!m!J!, ~P'IJ!}},•~ & i Grupo Trans en Espanol Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM. | Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. = = 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 20 Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get help applying for 1~ S upplemental : ~!~~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Ann Reynolds ooe e s e Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:20 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/10b7b270925138958c541fa5bcdb4f7b.pdf 235c597077380a3f0c7949756fccfe28 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm New Programming OKI..RMOMRNS fOij £QURl..1TY Tulsa tabletop role·ploying gaming group now ot the Equality Center; Contact weaver Honey at weoverotoles@gmoil.com for more information. tit FIRST ANO THIRD SATURDAY Of TM£ MONTH FROM 12NOON • 6,PM I DENNIS R. NEILL EQUA.l.lTY CENTER I 621 E H H ST .. TULSAOI< ? The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center continues to be our safe and inclusive haven for diverse gamers to come together and have a fantastic time. Whether you're an experienced Dungeon Master or a player seeking a table, we're here for you. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Tulsa TTRPGS Saturday, December 16th l 12 p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Our group has undergone an exciting transformation, expanding to encompass all tabletop games and providing a welcoming space for members and supporters of the Tulsa LGBT+ community. Prepare to embark on epic adventures, forge new friendships, and immerse yourself in tabletop gaming. ? Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Special Events Brought to You Bi the Letter B Holiday Party Tuesday, December 12th | 7 p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The Letter B is hosting a Holiday Party from 7-9 pm at the Equality Center. You can expect a familyfriendly holiday movie, an ugly sweater contest, and a potluck! The Dec 26 meeting is canceled due to the holiday. (Our next support group meeting will be Jan 9.) .. . . .. .. • • • . ·.• • ·-: •• • • •• Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree at OKEQ 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Wednesday, December 13th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Can you make a difference this holiday season? Look no further than the Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! By adopting a fairy from the tree, you can help bring joy and happiness to those in need. Join us and be a part of this beautiful cause! Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs serving low-income individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs, and we specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, selfworth, inclusion, and hope. Tulsa CARES Don't wait to get started - gift lists are ready for pick-up, and center hours are 9 am to 9 pm, Tuesday to Thursday, and 9 am to 6 pm Friday and Saturday. The deadline for gifts to be returned is Wednesday, December 13th. Gifts should be returned unwrapped. Tulsa CARES was founded in 1991 as a community response to the growing need for coordinated HIV/ AIDS care during some of the darkest days of the epidemic. For more than three decades, Tulsa CARES has provided a compassionate response as HIV/ AIDS has evolved from a fatal illness to a chronically managed disease. Equality Business Alliance Monthly Mixer Thursday, December 14th | 6-8p yogaQUEST & Energy Environments, Inc. 3325 E. 31st Street Tulsa, OK Tulsa yogaQUEST and Energy Environments, Inc. are excited to Co-host the final OkEq Monthly Mixer of 2023! The evening will include a brief 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... overview of their services, as well as an invitation to sample the weekly Functional Movement class that will be taking place – you are able to wear street clothes! Additionally, the Mixer will take place amidst a gallery of artwork for sale to benefit a family of six (6) and three (3) children from YST in Tulsa. Their 2 nd Annual WellArts Exhibit & Sale opened Saturday, 11/25 and will have the Opening Reception & Holiday Bash, Friday, 12/1 6-8p – all are welcome to attend! There will be food, drink and live entertainment from local talent, Andrea Kyle! Kathy Clarke, CEO, Owner, Energy Environments, Inc., www.energyenvironments.com. Dee Anne Day, CEO, Owner, yogaQUEST, tulsayogaquest.com As food and beverages will be served, please RSVP so that we may plan accordingly. You may RSVP by calling 918.743.4297. rA-lA-lA ICHTMAR! 8!rOR! CH AlfTMAt ffl!Jlfilfil'/\Zill!\.&i~,--,v,liti);,...,...:fil•.,.,,.,.l•lJ Even though the intent is to sell artwork to raise funds, a lover of art may not have the wall space so instead, yogaQUEST and Energy Environments are also accepting donations for the recipients. Visit the website, tulsayogaquest.com to view the list of items received from F&CS and YST. They are also accepting gift cards for purchases of the family’s needs. Please visit Tulsa yogaQUEST and Energy Environments, Inc. to learn more information about offerings about upcoming events. Fa-La-La Ball: Nightmare Before Christmas Saturday, December 16th l 6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Prepare for an unforgettable holiday season with the Falala Ball: Nightmare Before Christmas, brought by Oklahomans for Equality! 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Please consider donating an unwrapped toy or making a direct monetary donation to help us support the less fortunate. Tickets Join us for an evening filled with live entertainment, delicious food and drinks, and exciting raffles that will make your night even more magical. Not only will you have a fantastic time, but you'll also be giving back to those in need. Take advantage of the chance to celebrate the holidays in style while making a difference in your community! We are also accepting donations of non-perishable food items, hygiene and grooming items (such as hair care, soap, nail clippers, deodorant, and menstruation products), household essentials (like toilet paper, cleaning supplies, small kitchen utensils and countertop appliances), and pet supplies. Thank you for your generosity in advance. Rainbow Room Present: A Christmas Cabaret Thursday, December | 21st 7-10p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Rainbow Room returns with a nontraditional spin on holiday classics. Join us on December 21st at 7 p in the Lynn Riggs Theater for an unforgettable night with your favorite headliners. Get your tickets now! Tickets Tulsa Equality Game Night Tuesday, December 26th l 7-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 7:00 9:00 p.m. Rocky Horror Picture Show Friday-Sunday December 29th-31st l 10p Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK Tickets View Trailer "THE ROCKY HORROR PICTURE SHOW" returns to Circle Cinema's big screen for the 13th consecutive year. Let's do the Time Warp again on Friday, Dec 28, and Saturday, Dec 29, at 10 pm28! As usual, audience participation is encouraged. Circle Cinema will have prop bags for sale at the concession stand. *No throwing objects at the screen and no water guns* Tickets $10, $8.00 Circle Cinema members Join in on the fun as hapless Janet and Brad attempt to navigate the exotic and erotic castle of Dr. FrankN-Furter (Tim Curry). Also stars Susan Sarandon NYE: Cheers to the New Year Sunday, December 31st l 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tickets Are you looking for the perfect way to welcome the New Year? Join us for an unforgettable New Year's Eve celebration! With one free raffle ticket and a complimentary 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... champagne toast with delicious snacks, your taste buds will be delighted. And that's not all - there will also be short-order food to satisfy your cravings. But the real party starts when the Live DJ hits the stage, playing all your favorite tunes and setting the perfect vibe for the night. And that's just the beginning - you'll also enjoy performances from the 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, and Tracy La Louisianne! Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Saturday, January 6th l 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa Pride Pageant 2024 honoring King and Queen Micah Membrane & Karma Eclectic Sunday, January 7th | 9:30p-1a Club Majestic 124 N Boston Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We would like to invite you to attend the 2024 Tulsa Pride Pageant. Our 2024 Tulsa Pride King and Queen will be crowned, and our esteemed 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, will be recognized for their contributions. Should you have any queries, please do not hesitate to contact 2023 Tulsa Pride King Micah Membrane at Mollylynne@me.com or 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic at jackpaustin13@gmail.com. Promoters: Tanna Gioletti-Brewer and Shay Brewer. For additional information, please get in touch with Shay.Brewer@okeq.com. To participate in the pageant, candidates must have completed a minimum of 10 to 15 hours of community service from any organization, accompanied by a certified letter. Additionally, entrants must be of a minimum age of 18 years. The crowned winners will receive a Tulsa Pride Crown and Sash, bookings for Tulsa Pride Bingos, Tulsa Pride, and OKEQ Chapter Prides, two (2) promo pictures, and a cash prize of $300. All proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality and Tulsa Pride. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... V . 621 E 4TH STREET TULSA OK, 74120 · . HOIEWUD BOUND PUG RESCUE TRANS ADVOCACY COALITION OF OKLAHOMA PRESENTS: STATE-WIDE COMMUNITY SURVEY Are you an Oklahoman whose gender identity, expression, or experience is different from the norm? Are you 13 or older? We want to determine community needs for financial and other support programs. Please fill out this survey and send it to anyone else you know! httP-s://t.ly/EEO mo In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln MemoriWTI In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-cf- HEALTH -ci=-cfCLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! The Library is in need of volunteers! The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! If you are interested in volunteering, 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 21 please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. scour rrzooP 74-g4- 5C0Uf1ROOP 15 OPEN 1D ALL GIRL5 AND 1RAN5/NONBINARY YOUTH fffRY rttv/UMY OF TH, MONTH 6,30 P"' Fair Housing: Legal Aid .;. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 21 .&.. O https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... i,, T it( I 1/ir,11) / 1•11} ~1,1111d Tu1 ,do1y ti/ Tl1t \ fo111J, ~ ➔ Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Broug11lt Tjo Yott Bi lt1J ~ IL~ t t ~ tt --~~ ,rj ~~~~~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@QdJ§§~~ "IT'QdJ[b s & "IT'W@ =slPD~ 09:F Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. @r@rncll@1r ~'Oill])]JXIDrffi @lP®'Oill]) Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ~ OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm ~IJ!. llm1l1, ~ p . ~ Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Grupo Trans en Espanol Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM. | Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 877 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaf\ol : Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq. org/ donate 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:20 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3459860b62ba3795dc1dee82d591f16c.pdf 626684bb30791ae279e2a271ee34d227 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm Volunteer Opportunity: Become the Welcoming Face of OKEQ! Are you passionate about serving your community? OKEQ is seeking enthusiastic front desk volunteers to be the welcoming presence at our center. As a front desk volunteer, you'll greet and guide guests, handle phone inquiries, and assist in distributing essential resources. This role offers an exceptional chance to engage with our community and make a meaningful impact. Front desk shifts typically run for 3 hours once a week, with opportunities for more involvement if your schedule allows. We currently have openings during the following times: Tuesdays 9 am-12 pm Wednesdays 9 am-12 pm Thursdays 9 am-12 pm Fridays Saturdays 9 am-12 pm 12-3 pm 12-3 pm 3-6 pm 12-3 pm 3-6 pm 12-3 pm 1st &3rd 3-6 pm If you can dedicate some of your time and want to join our dedicated team, please email Olivia at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Make a difference and be a vital part of our community at OKEQ! Special Events Rainbow Room Present: A Christmas Cabaret Thursday, December | 21st 7-10p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Rainbow Room returns with a nontraditional spin on holiday classics. Join us on December 21st at 7 p in the Lynn Riggs Theater for an unforgettable night with your favorite headliners. Get your tickets now! Tickets Tulsa Equality Game Night Tuesday, December 26th l 7-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming • Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 7:00 9:00 p.m. • ---- 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rocky Horror Picture Show Friday-Sunday December 29th-31st l 10p Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK Tickets View Trailer "THE ROCKY HORROR PICTURE SHOW" returns to Circle Cinema's big screen for the 13th consecutive year. Let's do the Time Warp again on Friday, Dec 28, and Saturday, Dec 29, at 10 pm28! As usual, audience participation is encouraged. Circle Cinema will have prop bags for sale at the concession stand. *No throwing objects at the screen and no water guns* Tickets $10, $8.00 Circle Cinema members Join in on the fun as hapless Janet and Brad attempt to navigate the 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... exotic and erotic castle of Dr. FrankN-Furter (Tim Curry). Also stars Susan Sarandon NYE: Cheers to the New Year Sunday, December 31st l 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tickets Are you looking for the perfect way to welcome the New Year? Join us for an unforgettable New Year's Eve celebration! With one free raffle ticket and a complimentary champagne toast with delicious snacks, your taste buds will be delighted. And that's not all - there will also be short-order food to satisfy your cravings. But the real party starts when the Live DJ hits the stage, playing all your favorite tunes and setting the perfect vibe for the night. And that's just the beginning - you'll also enjoy performances from the 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, and Tracy La Louisianne! Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Saturday, January 6th l 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa Pride Pageant 2024 honoring King and Queen Micah Membrane & Karma Eclectic Sunday, January 7th | 9:30p-1a Club Majestic 124 N Boston Tulsa, OK We would like to invite you to attend the 2024 Tulsa Pride Pageant. Our 2024 Tulsa Pride King and Queen will be crowned, and our esteemed 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, will be recognized for their contributions. Should you have any queries, please do not hesitate to contact 2023 Tulsa Pride King Micah Membrane at Mollylynne@me.com or 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic at jackpaustin13@gmail.com. Promoters: Tanna Gioletti-Brewer and Shay Brewer. For additional information, please get in touch with Shay.Brewer@okeq.com. To participate in the pageant, candidates must have completed a minimum of 10 to 15 hours of community service from any organization, accompanied by a certified letter. Additionally, entrants must be of a minimum age of 18 years. The crowned winners will receive a Tulsa Pride Crown and Sash, bookings for Tulsa Pride Bingos, Tulsa Pride, and OKEQ Chapter Prides, two (2) promo pictures, and a cash prize of $300. All proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality and Tulsa Pride. STORYTELLING ROUNDTABLE 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... UISCUSS tne impact OT t-OOO Insecurity & Hunger on Your Life! Storytellers receive: • $150 Check or Gift Card after W-9 is received • Mileage reimbursement • Childcare reimbursement • Transportation if needed • Lunch and snacks • A safe space to share stories & create community 18+ & 2SLGBTQIA+ ONLY! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, January 27, 2024 10 AM - 3 PM CST Limited Space Available Apply Here by January 10: hfok.org/Jan27Roundtable -e-:,a HUNGER • FREE nn OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... HOIEWUD BOUND PUG RESCUE ' &lllmlllfllUIIU TRANS ADVOCACY COALITION OF OKLAHOMA PRESENTS: STATE-WIDE COMMUNITY SURVEY Are you an Oklahoman whose gender identity, expression, or experience is different from the norm? Are you 13 or older? We want to determine community needs for financial and other support programs. Please fill out this survey and send it to anyone else you know! httP-s://t.ly/EEO mo 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Iln Memoriaum In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-5p Wednesdays - 9a-5p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. Thursdays - 9a-1 p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up . FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Housin scour rrzooP 11g1 SCOlJf"ffiOOP IS OPEN TO ALL GIRLS AND "ffiANSINONBINARY YOUTH fffRY TttVRSMY OF rtt, MONTtt 6,30pM ~ Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Lawyer in the Library Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Brougbt r::'\ lJIUE~R WOMEN ' S 1'Jo YOlll Bi ,~ilJ~ )L(?;f t(?;lf 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@QdJ§ § ~~ 'v'QdJ C!:::,§& 'v'W@=§[pO~D'v' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 20 which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ---· This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. @r®rncil®1r - ~'Olll])~lru @IBID'Olll]) 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 20 adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ~ ► OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA ~~nnnn 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I I Kl'li:i First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Grupo Trans en Espanol Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM. | Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 20 infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. information or to schedule an appointment. Get help applying for 1~ S upplemental : ~!~~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaf\ol : Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ooe e s • Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:21 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5eb2c79d1d4d74e663a5fa74c60fe606.pdf 072e013882f11fc9789f0d9bcedccf31 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm WE WILL BE CLOSED FoR THE HOLIDAYS\ CLOSED 30th December 2023 REOPENING 2nd January 2023 at 9 :00 M + 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Volunteer Opportunity: Become the Welcoming Face of OKEQ! Are you passionate about serving your community? OKEQ is seeking enthusiastic front desk volunteers to be the welcoming presence at our center. As a front desk volunteer, you'll greet and guide guests, handle phone inquiries, and assist in distributing essential resources. This role offers an exceptional chance to engage with our community and make a meaningful impact. Front desk shifts typically run for 3 hours once a week, with opportunities for more involvement if your schedule allows. We currently have openings during the following times: Tuesdays 9 am-12 pm Wednesdays 9 am-12 pm Thursdays 9 am-12 pm 12-3 pm 12-3 pm 3-6 pm Fridays 12-3 pm 3-6 pm Saturdays 12-3 pm 1st & 3rd 3-6 pm 1st & 3rd If you can dedicate some of your time and want to join our dedicated team, please email Olivia at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Make a difference and be a vital part of our community at OKEQ! New Programming • ON-SITE COUNSELING • -. . . - - .. . -4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Uklahomans tor .l:!.quallty now otters counseling services for adults and youths on-site at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center through CREOKS Health Services. CREOKS Behavioral Health Services • DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 918. 743-4297 • • ON-SITE COUNSELING • • ON-SITE COUNSELING • YOUTH COUNSELING ADULT COUNSELING We nd y will b e providin g se rvices to youths age d 25 a nd und e r. Pe tr a will b e providin g se rvice s to adults a ges 21 and up. ~ ~ iii ~ ~ iii CREOKS CREOKS Behavioral Health Services e Behavioral Health Services DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 918.743-4297 e e DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 918.743-4297 e Special Events WEARE HIRING 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Require men ts: • High school diploma or equivalent required. • Knowledge of community resources of targeted LGBTIQA+ population • Experience working with the targeted population • Pay begins at $36,729.76 annually tu lsa-health.org/careers ~ ~ TULSA HEALTH n l&I Department Tulsa Equality Game Night Tuesday, December 26th l 7-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 7:00 9:00 p.m. 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ?Framily Day Returns for a Joyful Celebration! ? Friday, December 29th l 12-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for another heartwarming day filled with laughter, connection, and support. Whether you're seeking a space for relaxation, healing, or to enjoy the company of your Framily, this event is for you! ?? Save the date, invite your Framily members, and make December 29th a day of love, laughter, and connection. ?✨?? We can't wait to celebrate the warmth of Framily with you again! ? Activities for Everyone: Explore arts and crafts, engage in thoughtful discussions, and partake in community-building activities that celebrate the beautiful diversity within our Framily. ? Family Grief and Religious Trauma Support Group: For those navigating family grief or religious trauma, our support group will meet again during Framily Day. Join us in a safe and understanding space to share experiences and find support. Rocky Horror Picture Show Friday-Sunday December 29th-31st l 10p Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK A Circle Cinema tradition returns for its 17th consecutive year! Let’s do the time warp again with a Special Guest Host each night. As usual, audience participation and costumes are encouraged! Prop bags for sale at the concession stand for $5. 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Fri, Dec 29 – Anita Richards Sat, Dec 30 – Little Miss MG Sun, Dec 31 - Adonia 9 PM Gallery Pre-show 10 PM Film $15 General Admission $12 Circle Members Tickets View Trailer NYE: Cheers to the New Year Sunday, December 31st l 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Are you looking for the perfect way to welcome the New Year? Join us for an unforgettable New Year's Eve celebration! With one free raffle ticket and a complimentary champagne toast with delicious snacks, your taste buds will be delighted. And that's not all - there will also be short-order food to satisfy your cravings. Tickets But the real party starts when the Live DJ hits the stage, playing all your favorite tunes and setting the perfect vibe for the night. And that's just the beginning - you'll also enjoy performances from the 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, and Tracy La Louisianne! ..af. ouT OF 0..C 11\t.llMATION ti j DONATE BLOOD &SAVE LIVES Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive THIS WINTER! NATIONAL BLOOD Oklahomans for Equality R~~<?~ Blood Drive Saturday, January 6 • 10 a.m. - 2 p.m. Event Center (621 E. 4th St.) Saturday, January 6th l 10 a-2 p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tn m.::akA ;an ;annnintmAnt~ 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Schedule an Appointment Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Saturday, January 6th l 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa Pride Pageant 2024 honoring King and Queen Micah Membrane & Karma Eclectic Sunday, January 7th | 9:30p-1a Club Majestic 124 N Boston Tulsa, OK We would like to invite you to attend the 2024 Tulsa Pride Pageant. Our 2024 Tulsa Pride King and Queen will be crowned, and our esteemed 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, will be 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 23 f I https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... HONORING . MICAH MEMBRANE& l -KARMA 30AY TULSA PRIDE BOOKING ' CROWN/SASH ' WINNER $300.00 ($150.00 AT SIGNING) recognized for their contributions. MORE INFORMATION PLEASE CONTACT: MICAH MEMBRANE & KARMA ECLECTIC To participate in the pageant, candidates must have completed a minimum of 10 to 15 hours of community service from any organization, accompanied by a certified letter. Additionally, entrants must be of a minimum age of 18 years. I ~ ClfCTIC_ - Should you have any queries, please do not hesitate to contact 2023 Tulsa Pride King Micah Membrane at Mollylynne@me.com or 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic at jackpaustin13@gmail.com. Promoters: Tanna Gioletti-Brewer and Shay Brewer. For additional information, please get in touch with Shay.Brewer@okeq.com. The crowned winners will receive a Tulsa Pride Crown and Sash, bookings for Tulsa Pride Bingos, Tulsa Pride, and OKEQ Chapter Prides, two (2) promo pictures, and a cash prize of $300. All proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality and Tulsa Pride. STORYTELLING ROUNDTABLE Discuss the Impact of Food Insecurity & Hunger on Your Life! Storytellers receive: • $150 Check or Gift Card after W-9 is received • Mileage reimbursement • Childcare reimbursement • Transportation if needed • Lunch and snacks • A safe space to share stories & create community 18+ & 2SLGBTQIA+ ONLY! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, January 27, 2024 10 AM - 3 PM CST Limited Space Available Apply Here by January 10: J_ L_ _ I - 1, _ ""'It.~,....,. - _a 1- 1 - 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... nroK.org/ JanL1Kounacao1e - ~ HUNGER • FREE nn OKLAHOMA TRANS ADVOCACY COALITION OF OKLAHOMA PRESENTS: 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ._....,. ....... ... - - ,,...,,,.... __ - - ._. Are you an Oklahoman whose gender identity, expression, or experience is different from the norm? Are you 13 or older? We want to determine community needs for financial and other support programs. Please fill out this survey and send it to anyone else you know! httP-S://t.ly /EEO mo STATE OF LGBTQ+ AGING Re/weTtr8e I • .:ll./ ilAIIU~. sao-e I~~~~~~~! ~' LGBTQ+ Elders We refuse to be invisible This research study focuses on learning more about LGBTQ+ people aged 50 and older across the country, including their experiences, needs, and resiliencies as they get older. The information you provide about your experiences will help us to identify what kinds of healthcare and related services may be important for LGBTQ+ older people from diverse backgrounds. You are being asked to participate in the study because you meet the following criteria: You are aged 50 or older, and you identify as LGBTQ+. If you agree to participate in this study, you will be asked to complete a one-time survey that may take 30 to 45 minutes. This study includes only a minimal risk related to potential psychological discomfort when discussing sensitive matters related to your health and life experiences. 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Participation in research is voluntary. You may choose either to take part or not to take part in the study. If you decide to take part in this study, you may leave the study at any time. No matter what decision you make, there will be no penalty to you in any way. You will not lose any of your regular benefits, and you can still access services the way you usually do. If you have any questions about the study, please contact Dr. Jason Flatt, Assistant Professor at UNLV at 702-895-5586. If you wish to ask questions about the study or your rights as a research participant to someone other than the researchers or if you wish to voice any problems or concerns you may have about the study, please call the UNLV Institutional Review Board at 702-895-2794. TAKE SURVEY In Memoriam Iln Memoriaurrn In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -1-- OKEO LIC:AI TLJ -1-- OKEQ Health Clinic 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 23 er ■ https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I IL..f""'\L.111 CLINIC er Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! Nat,XY &Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... .. FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin scour rrzooP 11g1 SCOUflROOP IS OPEN TO ALL GIRLS AND lRANS/NONBINARY YOUTH ff.RY TttVRSMY OF rtt, MONTtt 6,30pM .;.. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality NOW OFFERI a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to helo LGBTO+ vouth 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Brougbt 1' 0 Yott Bi 1'!1~ L~tter 1 1 Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0~@)0~0@!10§§~~ 7J"l10[b§& "iJ"W@=§lP0~0"iJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p - This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming --- · @r@rncil®IP ~l!UIJ)I]XIDlru @rP©l!UIJ) Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS l. l. ' 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p - 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email Thomas for more information. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ~ OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&s first and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Grupo Trans en Espanol Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM. | Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get help applying for 1~ S upplemental : ~!~~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ - ... .I HUNGER FREE 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ••■■ UKLAHUMA OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:23 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4a6636e8f92f38137454560e150b40c0.pdf f4963c4c6921350e70fb0150e46853af PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality invites you again to our annual Equality Gala! With special performances by Branjae and Black Queer Tulsa! This event serves as our anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the LGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. TICKETS RSVP 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ?????Hold that pose for me! Join BQT & OKEQ at the Afro Punk Kiki Ball! It’s going down on May 13th, 9:30 at the Cox Business Center. Battle it out in three classic categories for the ultimate prize of not only cash but also the coveted bragging rights in Tulsa Ballroom. All proceeds from the Kiki Ball go directly to Black Queer Tulsa! Bring your best punk looks, collect your 10s & leave it on the floor! AFRO PUNK KIKI BALL TICKETS Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SPONSORSHIPS VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES TULSA PRIDE VOLUNTEER TULSA PRIDE 2023 Tees and Tanks are Now Available for Pre-Order! OKEQ is excited to partner with Flash Flood Print Studios for Tulsa Pride 2023! Your purchase goes directly to supporting Tulsa Pride festivities and Oklahomans for Equality’s continuing mission of protecting the rights of 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Order now! Pre-orders end at Midnight on Sunday, May 21. Orders will be ready on Friday, June 2, for shipping or pickup at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Main Stage Tulsa Pride 2023 coco MONTRESE FRIDAY JOEY JAY SATURDAY JUNE 24TH 0 JAYZEER SHANTEY JUNE 23.24.25 8 PM 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ainbow Run-Friday June 23rd Fun Run at 7pm-5k at 7:30pm Gates Open at 5pm-10pm Festival & Parade -Saturday June24th Gates Open at 12pm-10pm Pride in The Park-Sunday June 25th 12pm-5pm Isa Pride 20 cah Membra Karma Eclec Meet and Greet 6 30pm-7 10pm $30 .00 COCO MONTRESEMEET & JAYZEER SHANTEYMEET & 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 21 GREET https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... GREET JOEY JAYMEET & GREET PRIDE BAR CRAWL WITH OKEQ Saturday, June 17th, 2023 | 4p-12p Get Your Tickets Now -> https:// www.crawlwith.us/tulsa/ pride#tickets Click GOING So You Don't Miss The Proudest Crawl Of The Year! __________________________________ A Portion Of Proceeds Will Be Donated To Local Pride Organizations And The Trevor Project! __________________________________ What You Get: • 1-2 Drink Or Shot Included With Ticket! • Crawl With US Stadium Cup! (First 400 Check Ins) • Free Cover To Our Drag Show! ($15 Without Ticket) • Exclusive Drink Specials • Food Specials At Partner Venues! • Waived Cover At All Venues ($5-$15 at Some Venues Without Ticket) • Professional Photographers! • Awesome After Party! • Access To Our Crawl Map! • Custom Pride Badge With Vouchers _______________________________________ PRIDE CRAWL RSVP ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Best Event - Non-Profit: Equality Gal Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." Homicide Investigation Update Incident #2023-00023246 Date and Time: 04-09-2023 at approximately 0733 hours Location: SW Coombs RD near SW 38 th Street Victim: Stephens, Clayton Suspect(s): Unknown Disposition: Detectives are currently investigating a homicide that happened on 04-09-2023 . Officers responded to SW Coombs RD near SW 38 th Street on a report of a possible deceased individual. When officers arrived, they located a deceased male, later identified at Clayton Stephens. The Oklahoma Medical Examiner has taken Mr. Stephens' body and will conduct an autopsy for an official cause of death. The Lawton Police Department will release more information as it becomes available. If you have any information or witnessed anything, please contact the Lawton Police Department at 580-581-3272. You can remain anonymous and contact Crime Stoppers of Southwest 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahoma at 580-355-4636. -END- KSWO NEWS STORY GoFundMe \IS& Get h e l p . supplementa l applying for A • :~!~~\i~;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, May 9th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. LGBTQ+ Tulsa Community Forum Tuesday, May 9th | 10a Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK MAY 9 10 AM TO 11:30 AM DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 621 E 4TH STREET, TULSA OK 74120 We want to hear from you! How can the Alzheimer's Association better serve the LGBTQ+ Community in the Greater Tulsa area? Join us for a community forum to share your views on Alzheimer's and dementia care in the community and how we can help. Contact Jacob Guinan at jbguinan@alz.org for more information. REGISTER Housin of otlahoma will be assistins Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, May 10th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~XPeR1menT8L D81nTlnG WORIG~OP THURSDAY, MAY 11 I 7pm ot Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Experimental Painting Workshop Thursday, May 11th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Have a fun night out with friends or a date and paint with unique objects! This program is for adults, 18+. Capacity is limited. Adult beverages available for purchase with valid ID, and snacks will be provided. Tickets are $10 for members, $15 for non-members and cover all supplies and materials. TICKETS TULSA RE~LLY.z REALLYFREc MARKET A Community Sharing Event Every 3rd Sunday• 12p-~p I 621 E. ~th St Clothing • Housewores • Books • Godgets • Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! Tulsa Really, Really Free Market Sunday, May 21st | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/ rrfm_tulsa/ RSVP The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Tammye Randle Month of May | Open during center 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... hours Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tammye Randle presents at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. Pride Bar Crawl x OKEQ Saturday, June 17th | 4p-12a Hunt Club 224 N Main St, Tulsa, OK The 2022 Pride Crawl was a huge success and we were able to donate $22,653 to the Trevor Project! This year, we are donating locally. 20% of all event proceeds will be going to Oklahomans For Equality. ___ Donation Page https://okeq.org/donate/ TICKETS -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln Memoriaurrn Stan Simpson Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Carol Smith Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Joseph Edward Johnson 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Matt Brooks Born Day - 2022 Daniel Davis Aston Jul 8, 1994 - Nov 20, 2022 Stan Simpson Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member Steve Walley Mar, 1948 - Feb 1, 2022 Steve was owner of Silver Star, a popular night spot in Tulsa. He is survived by his husband and partner of 40 years John Rothrock. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming ~W OMEN ' S UEER 0 L L ECTIVE Brougbt T 0 Yott Bi 1 T lt1J ~ IL(?; t t (?; tt 1 -~~~ ~~!!,,"!!,,"~~ 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ 0~@0~0@(10@:§~~ 'v'QdJCbs& 'v'W@=§[p0~0'v' Sin Fronteras IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... @®rncll@1r ~DD.l])!PXIDifa ®rf@DD.1]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ ++ 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY ARS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE ' 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustee Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... oo• Our Company | Contact Us | FAQs | Privacy Policy Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:38 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/412bbe8c30b572a46527c48aaab59039.pdf ff1080306496ae2f42cc7dd05b414e66 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OF TULSA PRIDE 2023 Congratulations to our newly crowned King of Tulsa Pride 2023, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2023, Karma Eclectic. ❤??????? Thank you to our 2022 King of Tulsa Pride King Mykal Khrystian, and 2022 Queen of Tulsa Pride, Kitty Quinn Khrystian, for serving their term and being a part of the Tulsa Pride Royal Family. ? Thank you to our 2020-2021 King of Tulsa Pride King Blaze Khrystian and 2020-2021 Queen of Tulsa Pride Kitty Marie Legacy 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ? Thank you to our hosts, 2019 King and Queen of Tulsa Pride, Scrappy Legacy, and Emeritus Anita Richards. ? Thank you to our judges, volunteers, and attendees for joining us and crowning our Tulsa Pride King and Queen for 2023. ❤??????? We want to thank Club Majestic Tulsa for hosting our 2023 Tulsa Pride Pageant. Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, January 24th | 4:00pm 6:00pm Dennis E. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Facebook Event H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, Jan 26th | 6:00pm 7:30pm Tulsa Ballet 1212 E 45th Pl S, Tulsa, OK 74105 RSVP Join us for our Equality Business Alliance Mixer at Tulsa Ballet. The international press has described Tulsa Ballet as “one of the best in the world” A professional company of international dancers representing 14 countries performs six times a year. The Tulsa Ballet Center for Dance Education offers classes for ages 3adult at two campuses: in Tulsa on Brookside and in Broken Arrow at the Hardesty Center for Dance Education. The Equality Business Alliance fosters a 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.html Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo 2023 Saturday, Jan 28th | 6:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tu l,o Prode Ementu, Ar,to Rocho,d,& Scrappy Legocy ,ngo u,o Queeno/ Tul,o P,de P,d., M,coh Me,.,b,one Karmo Eclechc ,t1, TICK ET S WWW O KE O ORG TICKETS Tulsa Pride Bingo is BACK! This Saturday, January 28th, play some Bingo, be entertained, win prizes, and raise money for Tulsa Pride 2023! - Enjoy performances from our newly crowned Pride Royalty, 2023 King of Tulsa Pride Micah Membrane & 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic, 2019 King of Tulsa Pride Scrappy Legacy, and 2019 Queen of Tulsa Pride and Emeritus Anita Richards with special guests Keisha Kye and Granny Rainbow! - Prizes are sponsored by Equality Business Alliance members, Aaru Entertainment, Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine, Hodges Bend, Bohemian Wood Fire Pizza, Go 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Beyond Performance, Empire Slice House, Tonsorial Barbershop, and St. Vitus. This event is 18+ 0 The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Nancy Moran Month of January Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Nancy Moran presents "Collage Conversations: Self-care for the Activist Soul" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, January 5th at 6pm. The exhibit will be on display for the month of January. Nancy Moran, a long time Tulsa activist, dares to believe that people can, and will, do the right thing. To her that has meant organizing to open Tulsa’s first transitional living center for unhoused persons with chronic mental illness, leading an antiwar movement, supporting immigrant rights, and working on getting Tulsa, an oil and gas town, to commit to 100% renewable energy. It takes a lot of energy, and positive self-talk, to continue acting upon these convictions. She sees other people having the same struggles. Creating collages is a means of providing encouragement, for herself and others. As a nurse and a mindbody medicine scholar, she sees collage-making as a whole body-brain activity allowing her to steep herself in the values and motivation needed to keep up the good fight. Through her “Dispatches from the Collage Cutting Factory,” she uses these collages as a means to reflect on a variety of topics ranging from mindfulness, selfcompassion, spirituality, ecology, 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... tenacity, and the importance of refusing to be a spectator in a world that needs each and every one of us to be a force for good. Her collages in essays may be found at https://www.facebook.com/ Collagesandcoktails 0 Thursdays in the Rainbow Room - HITS & Misses Thursday, Feb 16th | 7:30 pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Join Jeremy Stevens and his friends as they travel through the years singing songs that were winners - and songs that weren’t so lucky. Join Jeremy Stevens and his friends as they travel through the years singing songs that were winners - and songs that weren't so lucky. Bistro Seats are $20, and General Admission seating is $15. Tickets are on sale now. 0 Tulsa Really, Really Free Market Sunday, Feb 19th | 12:00pm-4pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades!?? Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures.? 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEO -ci=- HEALTH -ci=-f- -i CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! Letter From the President Dear Friends, We hope this letter finds you safe, warm, and in the company of those most important in your life. As temperatures drop and days slow down, I begin again to reflect. To celebrate the successes of the waning year while looking to the incredible opportunities ahead. Together, we have moved through significant triumphs and adjustments here at OkEq. There is much to be grateful for as we count our blessings and look ahead. Over the last year, and under the guidance of former President Stacy Turner, we had the most successful Gala and Pride events in the organization's history. Over 700 attendees joined us for our Gala, while Pride welcomed its largest number of vendors and participants since its inception. We also navigated staffing, Board, and program adjustments. Most recently, pausing some events and programs along with slightly reduced center hours (noon to 8 pm weekdays) as we turn inward to focus on the infrastructure needed to keep OkEq thriving well into the future. Moving into 2023, we are building on our successes with committees preparing for the Gala and Pride to be even bigger and concentrate on celebrating every single one of you. Supporting that is the first segment of our interim Executive Directors strategic plan for OkEq, the Three Ps — People, Programs, and Purpose. Here are some of the exciting things you can expect through January: • Defined employee roles and additions to staff and volunteers • New financial protocols for efficiency and accountability • Safety improvements, including a new camera system and intercoms • Expanded support group offerings • The return of youth and young adult programs • New education and outreach training through OkEq and select partners 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • The first details about our new counseling initiatives • A return to standard operating hours at the Center • Website and social media refreshes As you can see, these are exciting times! We invite you in this season of reflection, generosity, and hope, to share the great work happening at OkEq and encourage your networks to consider giving or matching your support of our growing services. There is no end destination in our work, and we remain ever focused and full of gratitude for your support of OkEq. On behalf of the OkEq Staff, Board, and Trustees, I wish you all a very warm and happy Holiday Season! Sincerely, Bob Hanson Board President Board President Updates MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT HI , OKEQ MEMBERS. I WANTED TO TAKE A MOMENT TO INTRODUCE MYSELF. I AM BOB HANSON AND HAVE STEPPED INTO THE ROLE OF BOARD PRESIDENT FOR OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY. AFTER SERVI NC THE MEMBERS AND CENTER FOR THE LAST YEAR , STACY TURNER HAS TAKEN SOME VERY WELL EARNED TIME OFF TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY IN DIFFERENT WAYS. I CANNOT EXPRESS ENOUCH HOW CRATEFUL WE AS THE BOARD ARE FOR HER CUIDANCE AND LEADERSHIP OVER THE LAST YEAR ; SHE HAS CUIDED US THROUCH SOME OF THE TOUCH EST TIMES OKEQ HAS EVER SEEN . THIS YEAR HAS BEEN A YEAR OF MANY CHANCES FOR THE CENTER - SOME COOD AND SOME BAD. THE STAFF AT THE CENTER HAS BEEN THROUCH SO MUCH , AND WE ARE SO CRATEFUL FOR THEIR DEDICATION TO THE CENTER AND THE COMMUNITY THEY SERVE . OUR STAFF IS AMAZINC AND HAS BEEN WORKINC SO HARD TO HELP KEEP THE IMPORTANT SERVICES THE CENTER PROVIDES AVAILABLE . AS WE TAKE THE NEXT STEPS , THERE ARE A LOT OF EXCITINC NEW THINCS OKEQ WILL BE FOCUSINC ON . BUT UNFORTUNATELY, EVENTS OVER THE LAST SEVERAL WEEKS HAVE REMINDED ALL OF US WHY THE WORK OF THE CENTER IS SO IMPORTANT. THE VIOLENT ATTACKS AT THE DONUT HOLE (PLEASE SHOW YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE TO THEM) ARE A SOBERINC REMINDER THAT WE STILL HAVE WORK TO DO. WE ARE ALSO FOCUSED ON FICHTINC THE ATTACK ON CENDER AFFIRMINC CARE. THE RECENT PASSACE AND SICNINC OF SENATE BILL 3XX PROHIBITS OU HEALTH FROM PROVIDINC CENDER · AFFIRMINC CARE AS A CONDITION OF RECEIVINC FEDERAL AMERICAN RESCUE PLAN DOLLARS FOR THE EXPANSION OF CHILDREN ' S BEHAVIORAL HEALTH FACILITIES. LECISLATORS HAVE ALREADY EXPRESSED A DESIRE TO BAN CENDER - AFFIRMINC CARE TO MINORS STATEWIDE IN THE 2023 LECISLATIVE SESSION. WHEN SENATE BILL 3XX WAS SIC.NED , OUR BOARD SECRETARY , ERIC WILSON , SENT A SIMPLE BUT POWERFUL EMAIL THAT SAID , " THIS MAKES ME SO MAD . ALL THIS WILL DO IS HURT KIDS." I HAVEN ' T STOPPED THINKINC ABOUT THAT EMAIL , AND IT HAS BECOME A BATTLE CRY FOR ME . OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO FICHT ACAINST THE HATE AND VIOLENCE THAT TARCETS OUR COMMUNITY. OKEQ WILL BE A SAFE PLACE FOR ALL WITHIN THE LCBTQIAA+ COMMUNITY ACAINST WHATEVER IS THROWN AT US , NOT OUT OF HATE FOR OTHERS, BUT FOR THE LOVE OF OUR COMMUNITY. THIS IS WHY WE FICHT - SO ALL MAY KNOW LOVE WINS AND WILL PREVAIL. HUMBLED AND HONORED, BOB HANSON ~ 11 . 0 7 . 2 2 11.07.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT AS I WRITE THIS ON THE EVEN INC OF THE MIDTERM ELECTIONS , I AM FILLED WITH EMOTION AND REMINDED THAT TRANSFORMATIONAL CHANCE TAKES TIME . PATIENCE AND AN UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO PUSH TH ROUCH CHALLENCES . THERE HAVE BEEN MANY CHANCES AT OKEQ RECENTLY . THOSE CHANCES MAY BE HARD TO ACCEPT FOR SOME IN OUR COMMUNITY BUT ARE DUE IN PART TO THE CROWTH OF OUR ORCANIZATION . IT IS MY HOPE THAT THIS MESSACE WILL HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHERE WE ARE TODAY AND WHY YOUR SUPPORT IS ESSENTIAL TO OUR FUTURE . OKEQ BECAN AS A SMALL ORCANIZATION RUN BY VOLUNTEERS . OVER THE YEARS , DRIVEN BY THE NEEDS OF OUR COMMUNITY , OKEQ CREW TO A LARCE CENTER REQUIRINC BOTH A FULL STAFF AND VOLUNTEERS . THIS CROWTH HAPPENED QUICKLY , AND THE STAFF , VOLUNTEERS , AND BOARD OF DIRECTORS WORKED TO SUSTAIN US TH ROUCH THIS EVOLUTION . THEIR PASSION FOR OKEQ IS WHAT LED TO AMAZINC ACCOMPLISHMENTS , EVEN IN THE FACE OF AN ADVERSE AND EVEN HOSTILE POLITICAL CLIMATE . AS WE SOUCHT TO RESPOND TO OVERWHELMINC DEMAND FOR THE SERVICES OKEQ PROVIDES . WE DID NOT ESTABLISH THE ADEQUATE ACCOUNTABILITY MEASURES A HEALTHY AND CROWINC ORCANIZATION NEEDS , PARTICULARLY IN TERMS OF FISCAL OVERSICHT. WE BELIEVE IN TRANSPARENCY AND ACCOUNTABILITY AND WANT OUR COMMUNITY TO KNOW : • IN OUR WORK TO ASSESS THE ORCANIZATION ' S CURRENT FINANCIAL STATE , THE BOARD IDENTIFIED IRRECULARITIES IN THE FINANCES OVERSEEN BY OKEQ •s VOLUNTEER TREASURER : • WE TOOK IMMEDIATE ACTION IN RESPONSE TO THIS FINDINC , AND THE TREASURER IS NO LONCER INVOLVED WITH OKEQ: • WE MET WITH OUR FUNDERS AND PHILANTHROPIC PARTNERS TO MAKE THEM AWARE OF THE SITUATION : • WITH THE CONTINUED SUPPORT OF OUR FUNDERS . WE COMPLETED A COMPETITIVE REQUEST FOR PROPOSALS PROCESS AND 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ENGAGED A NEW ACCOUNTING FIRM : •WEARE WORKING WITH THAT FIRM AND WITH OTHER PARTNERS TO COMPLETE A COMPREHENSIVE FINANCIAL RECONCILIATION PROCESS AND BUILD A NEW INFRASTRUCTURE TO ENSURE THAT EVERY DOLLAR IS ACCOUNTED FOR AND USED FOR ITS INTENDED PURPOSE . IMPORTANTLY . WE ARE SHARING THIS UPDATE AND THE INFORMATION WE HAVE AVAILABLE AT THIS TIME WITH THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER MOST - YOU . OKEQ EXISTS TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY AND WE ARE WORKING URGENTLY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ CAN BE FINANCIALLY VIABLE AND CAN SUSTAIN FOR GENERATIONS TO COME . YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS NOW MORE THAN EVER . MOVING FORWARD . WE ARE DETERMINING WHAT PROGRAMS AND SERVICES WILL LOOK LIKE FOR THE NEXT FEW MONTHS . I WILL BE SHARING MORE INFORMATION ABOUT OUR SCHEDULE SOON . IN THE MEANTIME . I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR YOUR STEADFAST COMMITMENT TO OKEQ AND TO SUPPORTING OUR COMMUNITY TO BE SAFE . HEALTHY AND THRIVING . SINCERELY BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11. l 4. 2 2 11.14.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT ----~ DEAR FRIENDS , THE WINTER HOL I DAY SEASON I S A T I ME FOR GRATITUDE , AND THIS YEAR I AM PROFOUNDLY GRATEFUL FOR THE OVERWHELMING SUPPORT WE HAVE SEEN FROM THE OKEQ COMMUNITY DURING THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSAGES OF SUPPORT AND YOUR UNWAVERING COMMITMENT TO OUR WORK ON BEHALF OF THE LGBTQ + COMMUNITY . AS YOU MAY KNOW , LAST SPRING WE CELEBRATED TOBY JENKINS ' 26 YEARS OF LEADERSHIP AS EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF OKEQ AND WISHED HIM THE BEST ON HIS WELL - EARNED RETIREMENT TO SPEND TIME WITH HIS FAMILY . ESPECIALLY HIS GRANDCHILDREN . OVER THE LAST FIVE MONTHS . THE BOARD HAS BEEN WORKING TO IDENTIFY A NEW LEADER TO HELP STRENGTHEN AND SUSTAIN OUR MISSION AND THE LEGACY OF TOBY "S WORK THROUGH THE MANY EVENTS . PROGRAMS . AND RESOURCES THAT OKEQ PROVIDES IN SERVING YOU , OUR COMMUNITY . ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS . I AM THRILLED TO ANNOUNCE THAT DOROTHY BALLARD HAS JOINED OKEQ AS OUR NEW INTERIM EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR . AFTER A COMPETITIVE INTERVIEW PROCESS . THE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE OF THE BOARD RECOMMENDED DOROTHY BECAUSE OF HER KNOWLEDGE . DEDICATION . AND PASSION FOR THE MISSION OF OKEQ . SHE BRINGS MORE THAN lS YEARS OF EXPERIENCE IN COMMUNICATIONS . MARKETING . AND PROJECT DEVELOPMENT AND MANAGEMENT . WE ARE GRATEFUL FOR HER WILLINGNESS TO STEP FORWARD AND LEAD OKEQ THROUGH TH I S TIME OF TRANSITION . DOROTHY HAS HIT THE GROUND RUNNING AND IS BUILDING A COMPREHENSIVE PLAN TO STABILIZE AND SUSTAIN OKEQ . WE WILL BE SHARING MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THOSE PLANS SOON . I HOPE YOU WILL SAVE THE DATE OF THURSDAY , DECEMBER 8 ATS PM FOR A HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE AT OKEQ FOR A CHANCE TO MEET DOROTHY AND THE OKEQ TEAM , TOUR THE CENTER , AND LEARN ABOUT OUR PROGRAMS AND SERVICES . WE ALSO HOPE YOU JOIN US AFTERWARDS IN THE LYNN RIGGS THEATER TO ENJOY DECEMBER ' S RAINBOW ROOM EVENT " A QUIRKY QUEEN ' S QUEER CHRISTMAS CABARET " FEATURING TRAVIS GUILLORY AT 7 : 30 PM . LOOK FOR AN INVITATION TO THESE LATER THIS WEEK ! NOW THAT WE AGAIN HAVE LEADERSHIP IN PLACE THAT HOLDS THE CONFIDENCE OF THE BOARD AND STAFF , WE CAN CONTINUE TO ADDRESS THE BROADER WORK OF IMPLEMENTING OUR STRATEGY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ IS FINANCIALLY SOUND AND CAN SUSTAIN ITS MISSION FOR GENERATIONS TO COME . ALTHOUGH THESE SHIFTS HOLD THEIR CHALLENGES , WE HAVE AN EXCITING OPPORTUNITY FOR OKEQ TO MEET THE EXPANDING NEEDS OF THE COMMUNITY . AS WE MOVE FORWARD , WE ARE MINDFUL OF OUR FOUND I NG AND HISTORY AS A GRASSROOTS ORGANIZATION CREATED TO SERVE ALL IN OUR COMMUNITY . AFTER OVER 40 YEARS . THE RICH DIVERSITY OF OUR COMMUNITY HAS GROWN AND OUR NEEDS • YOUR NEEDS · ARE GREATER THAN EVER . THANK YOU FOR CONTINUING TO STAND WITH US AS WE WORK THROUGH THIS TIME OF CHANGE AS WE TURN THE CORNER TOWARD A BIGGER AND BRIGHTER FUTURE . SINCERELY , BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11. 2 l . 2 2 11.21.22 In Memoriam Il111 Memoniaum 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 20 Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @r@mcll@IT ~ffil])l]XID~ @IT®ffil]) IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 20 lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E - Stuck figuring out what you want t o submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT ~ - - --•-... FILM IT Flm a ohort - performonce crdocumontaru FINCER PAINT IT Create digital art, color pencil, o, drawing PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ ~ - - - - , , . , .. _todluClck on~ v: - - ~ ~ - - YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: J. OKEQlUII.IL.aitwy © ~ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE Beklngs Ycu VOICE IS Yehd The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES c.wnpe.gn IO ra«se Nnds and 5'JPPOf1 for O-.. llbfaty seeks 10 increese ec::cess 10 and sa,pe of LBGTOIA• mMeo9ls Donal& 10d8yl ......,.,, 0. COngrlb,la)llslOWA'l(ffOStalOTmBIUMIOIIIMl'ftOllll'lg Ollr~lllflOM(ftClll..-h011011ot'August'SeplemDef T Reql,esill.lnlycard Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library Donate & Support Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ - The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... persons. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A P ROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE 1 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES KAO MORRIS ANDI GUNTER HE/ HIM I HIS CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR SHE / HER / HERS SHAY BREWER HE I HIM I HIS OPERATIONS MANGER 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • DONNA MATTHEWS SHE/ HER/ HERS LILY PINA GRANT COORDINATOR LUKE SCUITTO SHE/ HER/ HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS NURSE PRACTITIONER MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S8 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free t oday! 4/29/26, 11:27 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5b37920d55333e3da6e6b118b0b1e0fd.pdf 85432cbae0be73ff2e2ba41a5887d746 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! the center is closed Monday, January 30th due to inclement weather. please stay safe and warm. 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OF TULSA PRIDE 2023 Congratulations to our newly crowned King of Tulsa Pride 2023, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2023, Karma Eclectic. ❤??????? Thank you to our 2022 King of Tulsa Pride King Mykal Khrystian, and 2022 Queen of Tulsa Pride, Kitty Quinn Khrystian, for serving their term and being a part of the Tulsa Pride Royal Family. 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ? Thank you to our 2020-2021 King of Tulsa Pride King Blaze Khrystian and 2020-2021 Queen of Tulsa Pride Kitty Marie Legacy ? Thank you to our hosts, 2019 King and Queen of Tulsa Pride, Scrappy Legacy, and Emeritus Anita Richards. ? Thank you to our judges, volunteers, and attendees for joining us and crowning our Tulsa Pride King and Queen for 2023. ❤??????? We want to thank Club Majestic Tulsa for hosting our 2023 Tulsa Pride Pageant. Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, January 31st | 4:00pm 6:00pm Dennis E. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Facebook Event H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Free HIV Testing Wednesday, February 1st | 5:30pm - 7:00pm Nothing's Left Brewing Co. 1502 E 6th, Tulsa, OK Facebook Event Join like-minded women in Tulsa at a monthly happy hour for queer professionals. LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included) and we hope some of you will join us! 08 Thursdays in the Rainbow 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Room - HITS & Misses TICKETS Thursday, February 16th | 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Jeremy Stevens and his friends as they travel through the years singing songs that were winners - and songs that weren’t so lucky. Join Jeremy Stevens and his friends as they travel through the years singing songs that were winners - and songs that weren't so lucky. Bistro Seats are $20, and General Admission seating is $15. Tickets are on sale now. 0 Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo 2023 Saturday, February 18th | 6:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS ?? Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo 2023!?⚧ frj T I CKETS WWW OKEQ ORG Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo is a fundraiser for Tulsa Pride. Join us as we raise money, and enjoy entertainment from local Drag Kings and Queens and our newly crowned 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic. ?Food sponsored by Empire Slice House Tulsa This event is 18+ 0 TULSA REALLY,.a REALLYFREi: MARKET E • A Co mmun1ty $ hor1n9 Evc nt 2/19 12p,pl621E 4thSt Fu•ftCl•thz•. K.u..wuo• • ~k• • ~'!r"i Tulsa Really, Really Free Market Sunday, Feb 19th | 12:00pm-4pm RSVP 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades!?? Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures.? Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, February 23th | 6:00pm - 7:30pm Tulsa Ballet 1212 E 45th Pl S, Tulsa, OK 74105 RSVP Join us for our EBA Mixer with Aaru Games A Community for Game Lovers, Professionals, and Creators. Meet up, play games, and collaborate. We welcome you to work from our cafe, take part in events, or just spend time with friends and your favorite tabletop games. https://www.aaru.games/ The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.htm 0 PROUD BRUNCH Sunday, February 26th | 12pm-2pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Join us as we PROUDLY celebrate Black History Month with our PROUD BRUNCH. Performance by Drevion Dior, Londenn D. Raine, Scarppy Legacy, Iman Scott, Sasha V. King, and Kayy Kayy! Menu: French Toast Chicken & Waffles Bottomless: Mimosa's Bloody Marys This event is 18+. This event is open to all. 0 The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Carle THE Artiste RSVP Month of February Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Carle THE Artiste presents "Matter of the Heart" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, February 2nd, at 6pm. The exhibit will 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... be on display for the month of February. Carle THE Artiste (he/they/Xe) is a gender-fluid painter and dancer that uses surrealism to bring their pain and traumatic experiences to life. Their main source of creating is through oil and acrylic painting, but he has also found that their soul resonates through interpretive ritualistic dancing and drag. For more information about the artist visit, https:// www.outofmindart.com/ Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 Transgender Resource Fair Saturday, March 4th | 11am-5pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our first Transgendered Resource Fair of 2023 on March 4th from 11a-5p. The Resource Fair will be hosted in the Bruce Goff Event Center and Lynn Riggs Theatre. TICKETS EXHIBITO R SIGN UP ?⚧ Information, help, and support for the Transgendered, Gender NonConforming, and Gender Question Community as well as their allies. ?⚧ 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For this event, we will be offering a platform to our exhibitors to give a 10 or 25 minute presentation in the Lynn Riggs Theatre concerning their Organization, Products, or Services. If you'd like to be an exhibitor, please click the exhibitor link to sign up. 0 Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo 2023 Saturday, March 18th | 6:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS ?? Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo 2023!?⚧ TI CKETS WWW OKEQ ORG Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo is a fundraiser for Tulsa Pride. Join us as we raise money, and enjoy entertainment from local Drag Kings and Queens and our newly crowned 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic. ?Food sponsored by Empire Slice House Tulsa This event is 18+ 0 -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Commumty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! Letter From the President 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dear Friends, We hope this letter finds you safe, warm, and in the company of those most important in your life. As temperatures drop and days slow down, I begin again to reflect. To celebrate the successes of the waning year while looking to the incredible opportunities ahead. Together, we have moved through significant triumphs and adjustments here at OkEq. There is much to be grateful for as we count our blessings and look ahead. Over the last year, and under the guidance of former President Stacy Turner, we had the most successful Gala and Pride events in the organization's history. Over 700 attendees joined us for our Gala, while Pride welcomed its largest number of vendors and participants since its inception. We also navigated staffing, Board, and program adjustments. Most recently, pausing some events and programs along with slightly reduced center hours (noon to 8 pm weekdays) as we turn inward to focus on the infrastructure needed to keep OkEq thriving well into the future. Moving into 2023, we are building on our successes with committees preparing for the Gala and Pride to be even bigger and concentrate on celebrating every single one of you. Supporting that is the first segment of our interim Executive Directors strategic plan for OkEq, the Three Ps — People, Programs, and Purpose. Here are some of the exciting things you can expect through January: • Defined employee roles and additions to staff and volunteers • New financial protocols for efficiency and accountability • Safety improvements, including a new camera system and intercoms • Expanded support group offerings • The return of youth and young adult programs • New education and outreach training through OkEq and select partners • The first details about our new counseling initiatives • A return to standard operating hours at the Center • Website and social media refreshes As you can see, these are exciting times! We invite you in this season of reflection, generosity, and hope, to share the great work happening at OkEq and encourage your networks to consider giving or matching your support of our growing services. There is no end destination in our work, and we remain ever focused and full of gratitude for your support of OkEq. On behalf of the OkEq Staff, Board, and Trustees, I wish you all a very warm and happy Holiday Season! Sincerely, Bob Hanson Board President Board President Updates MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT HI , OKEQ MEMBERS. I WANTED TO TAKE A MOMENT TO INTRODUCE MYSELF. I AM BOB HANSON AND HAVE STEPPED INTO THE ROLE OF BOARD PRESIDENT FOR OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY. AFTER SERVI NC THE MEMBERS AND CENTER FOR THE LAST YEAR , STACY TURNER HAS TAKEN SOME VERY WELL EARNED TIME OFF TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY IN DIFFERENT WAYS. I 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 24 \..ANNV I https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... l:.At'Ha:.;ai;, l:.NVU\.IM MUYY '-tHAI 1:.t"UL YYI:. 14.;, I Ml:. DUA.HU AHi:. r-uH Ml:.H \.IUILIAN\..I:. ANLI Ll:.ALll:.H;ain1..- UYl:.H I Ml:. LA~ I VEAR ; SHE HAS GUIDED US THROUGH SOME OF THE TOUCH EST TIMES OKEQ HAS EVER SEEN . THIS VEAR HAS BEEN A VEAR OF MANY CHANCES FOR THE CENTER - SOME GOOD AND SOME BAD. THE STAFF AT THE CENTER HAS BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH , AND WE ARE SO GRATEFUL FOR THEIR DEDICATION TO THE CENTER AND THE COMMUNITY THEY SERVE. OUR STAFF IS AMAZING AND HAS BEEN WORKING SO HARD TO HELP KEEP THE IMPORTANT SERVICES THE CENTER PROVIDES AVAILABLE . AS WE TAKE THE NEXT STEPS , THERE ARE A LOT OF EXCITING NEW THINGS OKEQ WILL BE FOCUSING ON . BUT UNFORTUNATELY, EVENTS OVER THE LAST SEVERAL WEEKS HAVE REMINDED ALL OF US WHY THE WORK OF THE CENTER IS SO IMPORTANT. THE VIOLENT ATTACKS AT THE DONUT HOLE (PLEASE SHOW YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE TO THEM) ARE A SOBERING REMINDER THAT WE STILL HAVE WORK TO DO. WE ARE ALSO FOCUSED ON FIGHTING THE ATTACK ON GENDER · AFFIRMING CARE. THE RECENT PASSAGE AND SIGNING OF SENATE BILL 3XX PROHIBITS OU HEALTH FROM PROVIDING CENDERAFFIRMINC CARE AS A CONDITION OF RECEIVING FEDERAL AMERICAN RESCUE PLAN DOLLARS FOR THE EXPANSION OF CHILDREN ' S BEHAVIORAL HEALTH FACILITIES . LEGISLATORS HAVE ALREADY EXPRESSED A DESIRE TO BAN CENDER · AFFIRMINC CARE TO MINORS STATEWIDE IN THE 2023 LEGISLATIVE SESSION . WHEN SENATE BILL 3XX WAS SIGNED, OUR BOARD SECRETARY , ERIC WILSON , SENT A SIMPLE BUT POWERFUL EMAIL THAT SAID , "THIS MAKES ME SO MAD. ALL THIS WILL DO IS HURT KIDS." I HAVEN ' T STOPPED THINKING ABOUT THAT EMAIL , AND IT HAS BECOME A BATTLE CRY FOR ME . OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO FICHT AGAINST THE HATE AND VIOLENCE THAT TARGETS OUR COMMUNITY. OKEQ WILL BE A SAFE PLACE FOR ALL WITHIN THE LCBTQIAA+ COMMUNITY AGAINST WHATEVER IS THROWN AT US, NOT OUT OF HATE FOR OTHERS, BUT FOR THE LOVE OF OUR COMMUNITY. THIS IS WHY WE FICHT - SO ALL MAY KNOW LOVE WINS AND WILL PREVAIL. HUMBLED AND HONORED, BOB HANSON ~ 11 . 0 7 . 2 2 11.07.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT AS I WRITE THIS ON THE EVEN INC OF THE MIDTERM ELECTIONS , I AM FILLED WITH EMOTION AND REMINDED THAT TRANSFORMATIONAL CHANCE TAKES TIME , PATIENCE AND AN UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO PUSH TH ROUCH CHALLENCES . THERE HAVE BEEN MANY CHANCES AT OKEQ RECENTLY . THOSE CHANCES MAY BE HARD TO ACCEPT FOR SOME IN OUR COMMUNITY BUT ARE DUE IN PART TO THE CROWTH OF OUR ORCANIZATION . IT IS MV HOPE THAT THIS MESSACE WILL HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHERE WE ARE TODAY AND WHY YOUR SUPPORT IS ESSENTIAL TO OUR FUTURE . OKEQ BECAN AS A SMALL ORCANIZATION RUN BY VOLUNTEERS . OVER THE YEARS , DRIVEN BY THE NEEDS OF OUR COMMUNITY , OKEQ CREW TO A LARCE CENTER REQUIRINC BOTH A FULL STAFF AND VOLUNTEERS . THIS CROWTH HAPPENED QUICKLY , AND THE STAFF , VOLUNTEERS , AND BOARD OF DIRECTORS WORKED TO SUSTAIN US TH ROUCH THIS EVOLUTION . THEIR PASSION FOR OKEQ IS WHAT LED TO AMAZINC ACCOMPLISHMENTS , EVEN IN THE FACE OF AN ADVERSE AND EVEN HOSTILE POLITICAL CLIMATE . AS WE SOUCHT TO RESPOND TO OVERWHELMINC DEMAND FOR THE SERVICES OKEQ PROVIDES , WE DID NOT ESTABLISH THE ADEQUATE ACCOUNTABILITY MEASURES A HEALTHY AND CROWINC ORCANIZATION NEEDS , PARTICULARLY IN TERMS OF FISCAL OVERSICHT. WE BELIEVE IN TRANSPARENCY AND ACCOUNTABILITY AND WANT OUR COMMUNITY TO KNOW : • IN OUR WORK TO ASSESS THE ORCANIZATION ' S CURRENT FINANCIAL STATE , THE BOARD IDENTIFIED IRRECULARITIES IN THE FINANCES OVERSEEN BY OKEQ ' S VOLUNTEER TREASURER : • WE TOOK IMMEDIATE ACTION IN RESPONSE TD THIS FINDINC , AND THE TREASURER IS NO LONCER INVOLVED WITH OKEQ: • WE MET WITH OUR FUNDERS AND PHILANTHROPIC PARTNERS TO MAKE THEM AWARE OF THE SITUATION : • WITH THE CONTINUED SUPPORT OF OUR FUNDERS , WE COMPLETED A COMPETITIVE REQUEST FOR PROPOSALS PROCESS AND ENCACED A NEW ACCOUNTINC FIRM : •WEARE WORKINC WITH THAT FIRM AND WITH OTHER PARTNERS TO COMPLETE A COMPREHENSIVE FINANCIAL RECONCILIATION PROCESS AND BUILD A NEW INFRASTRUCTURE TO ENSURE THAT EVERY DOLLAR IS ACCOUNTED FOR AND USED FOR ITS INTENDED PURPOSE . IMPORTANTLY , WE ARE SHARI NC THIS UPDATE AND THE INFORMATION WE HAVE AVAILABLE AT THIS TIME WITH THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER MOST - YOU . OKEQ EXISTS TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY AND WE ARE WORKINC URCENTLV TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ CAN BE FINANCIALLY VIABLE AND CAN SUSTAIN FOR CENERATIONS TO COME . YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS NOW MORE THAN EVER . MOVINC FORWARD , WE ARE DETERMININC WHAT PROCRAMS AND SERVICES WILL LOOK LIKE FOR THE NEXT FEW MONTHS . I WILL BE SHARINC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT OUR SCHEDULE SOON . IN THE MEANTIME , I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR YOUR STEADFAST COMMITMENT TO OKEQ AND TO SUPPORTINC OUR COMMUNITY TO BE SAFE , HEALTHY AND THRIVINC . SINCERELY BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT ~ 11 , 1 4 , 2 2 11.14.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT - ~-~ DEAR FRIENDS , THE WINTER HOLIDAY SEASON IS A TIME FOR CRATITUDE , AND THIS VEAR I AM PROFOUNDLY CRATEFUL FOR THE OVERWHELMINC SUPPORT WE HAVE SEEN FROM THE OKEQ COMMUNITY DURINC THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSACES OF SUPPORT AND YOUR UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO OUR WORK ON BEHALF OF THE LCBTQ + COMMUNITY . AS YOU MAY KNOW , LAST SPRINC WE CELEBRATED TOBY JENKINS ' 26 YEARS OF LEADERSHIP AS EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF OKEQ AND WISHED HIM THE BEST ON HIS WELL - EARNED RETIREMENT TD SPEND TIME WITH HIS FAMILY . ESPECIALLY HIS CRANDCHILDREN . OVER THE LAST FIVE MONTHS , THE BOARD HAS BEEN WORKINC TO IDENTIFY A NEW LEADER TO HELP STRENCTHEN AND SUSTAIN OUR MISSION AND THE LECACV OF TOBY ' S WORK TH ROUCH THE MANY EVENTS, PROCRAMS , AND RESOURCES THAT OKEQ PROVIDES IN SERVINC VDU , OUR COMMUNITY . ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS , I AM THRILLED TO ANNOUNCE THAT DOROTHY BALLARD HAS JOINED OKEQ AS OUR NEW INTERIM EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR . AFTER A COMPETITIVE INTERVIEW PROCESS , THE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE OF THE BOARD RECOMMENDED DOROTHY BECAUSE OF HER KNOWLEDCE , DEDICATION , AND PASSION FOR THE MISSION OF OKEQ . SHE BRINCS MORE THAN 15 YEARS OF EXPERIENCE IN COMMUNICATIONS , MARKETINC , AND PROJECT DEVELOPMENT AND MANACEMENT . WE ARE CRATEFUL FOR HER WILLINCNESS TO STEP FORWARD AND LEAD OKEQ TH ROUCH TH I S TIME OF TRANSITION . DOROTHY HAS HIT THE CROUND RUNNINC AND IS BUILDINC A COMPREHENSIVE PLAN TO STABILIZE AND SUSTAIN OKEQ . WE WILL BE SHARI NC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THOSE PLANS SOON . I HOPE YOU WILL SAVE THE DATE OF THURSDAY , DECEMBER 8 ATS PM FOR A HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE AT OKEQ FOR A CHANCE TO MEET DOROTHY AND THE OKEQ TEAM , TOUR THE CENTER , AND LEARN ABOUT OUR PROCRAMS AND SERVICES . WE ALSO HOPE YOU JOIN US AFTERWARDS IN THE LYNN RICCS THEATER TO ENJOY DECEMBER ' S RAINBOW ROOM EVENT " A QUIRKY QUEEN ' S QUEER CHRISTMAS CABARET " FEATURINC TRAVIS CUILLORV AT 7 : 30 PM . LOOK FOR AN INVITATION TO THESE LATER THIS WEEK ! NOW THAT WE ACAIN HAVE LEADERSHIP IN PLACE THAT HOLDS THE CONFIDENCE OF THE BOARD AND STAFF , WE CAN CONTINUE TO ADDRESS THE BROADER WORK OF IMPLEMENTINC OUR STRATECV TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ IS FINANCIALLY 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... :lUUNU ANU \..AN :lU:l IAIN I I~ IWll~~ I UN t"UH \.tt:Nt:HA I IUN~ I U \..UIWlt: . AL I NUU\.,oN I Nt:~t: ~Nit" I~ NULU I Nt:IH 11,,;NALLt:N\.tt:~ , Wt: HAVE AN EXCITINC OPPORTUNITY FOR OKEQ TO MEET THE EX PAN DI NC NEEDS OF THE COMMUNITY . AS WE MOVE FORWARD , WE ARE MINDFUL OF OUR FOUNDINC AND HISTORY AS A CRASSROOTS ORCANIZATION CREATED TO SERVE ALL IN OUR COMMUNITY . AFTER OVER 40 YEARS , THE RICH DIVERSITY OF OUR COMMUNITY HAS CROWN AND OUR NEEDS • YOUR NEEDS · ARE CREATER THAN EVER . THANK YOU FOR CONTINUINC TO STAND WITH US AS WE WORK THROUCH THIS TIME OF CHANCE AS WE TURN THE CORNER TOWARD A BICCER AND BRICHTER FUTURE . SINCERELY , BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT ~ 11 , 2 1 , 2 2 11.21.22 In Memoriam Il111 Memoniaum Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Bro1111,gl11t T 0 You. Bi l-.JI11e Letter 1 Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... women and build your network Curious, & Questioning individuals. Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @i@rncfil®IT ~ffi]])If@Lffi @IT@ffi]]) O~@O@O@ Qdl§§ ~g 'u'Qdl11,§ £ 'D'W@-§[)e)O~O'u' IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. ~~w@~H'll-00 ;-. ~@wu@ ~H@lhl'll' 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT -!i ------..-FILM IT Fhaahort - pemrmoncecr~ PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: 1. OKEQ Mwuwwy © ~ - _,,., _ _ _ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library YOUI VOICE Belongs VoL.- VOICE IS Vahd The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES t,,npeign 10 r81Se l,,nds and support lo, our library seeks to increase eccess 10 and scope: ol LBGTOIA• ma1e091s Donate 10d8yl Q. Searchtor ~ 10 U,rll rrosi.., TWI l!ltOM'I on llelf ~ C M ~ 11 Sl)OMOred II h"'I" IKll'IOl" lor ......~ • ~aux.,, C.-0 Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Library JANUARv2on c 1v 1L RI G HTS AWARENESS Donate & Support GAYLYco• d h te offq, .....,...,1, ... ~,,.i.. ....... r11...,1,,,_.,., ,,..__,_,.,..,_, ,.__..,, 11,1."1 ,\Ell,r-:,,:, 7 COUliC www.pyly.0D111 h~•noclle i•Jock""' fl~L nom>I· ~~"~ft~~~J~~io~;•: ~;ff pc~:n:•!~~::~; :~:;~~::~'.: :;•~:~IO:hn~:;;ct:::?.:ifr~; ~G YLY To request a library card from OkEq, to email the library or to support the Rainbow Library , visit libraryc at.org/l ib/Tuls aRainb owLibr ary 1 (888) 773-8267 F-• ~ttf11l,proMd, 11nJpriw,u pl,11rM«yup,Nltf~ t:\ l':RY D,\\' ~IM, R_\I AC\ ' SP£aa4. LTl \lr 1Hc.-.·1l{)'IIS 11 - - - - '''REV,AJ\J - HEALT H n -- 5601 NW S!rtel ~ 142, OKC 11...,. Hnlf•,-.i4,• .,,1u.1"11, " '~lf"'f,,_,/y_lt'l~fa ,•II,,,.,._ (405) 896-7975 .. _, 1/_,r//H /J •. ('fJM Our library director, Michelle Simmons, was recently featured in The Gayly! Read about our Rainbow Library and Banned Books, and come check out a book today at the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library! Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF = 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 24 Hope Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... an appointment. OKE 1 okeq. org/ donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES HE/ HIM/ HIS DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR SHAY BREWER ANDI GUNTER KAO MORRIS SHE / HER / HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER OPERATIONS MANGER •• DONNA MATTHEWS LILY PINA SHE/ HER/ HERS GRANT COORDINATOR LUKE SCUITTO SHE I HER I HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS NURSE PRACTITIONER MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S8 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:27 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fe9a5ef1074f4b1c0963a864d10abf1c.pdf f8a37a09698bb3ca01c5be0972172bc3 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! The center is closed Monday, February 6th, 2023 for advocacy work at the Oklahoma State Capitol. 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ABilly S. Jones-Hennin (b. 1942) Grew up in South Carolina and Virginia, adopted by civil rights activists with nine other adopted kids. ABilly served in the US Marine Corps and graduated from Virginia State University in 1967. After seven years of marriage, with three kids, he and his wife separated. ABilly moved to Minneapolis, where his LGBTQ activism started and where his identity as a sexual and racial minority came to the forefront. 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ABilly and others launched the National Coalition of Black Gays in Columbia, Maryland, in 1978, a national advocacy org for African American gay men and lesbians, the first of its kind. In 1979 he helped to mobilize the first March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights, that same historic weekend, he helped to convene the National Third World LGBT Conference at Howard University, which gave rise to Howard University’s Lambda Student Alliance, the first openly LGBT organization at an HBCU. ABilly has held many leadership roles within the Black and LGBTQ movements, including Minority Affairs Director of the National AIDS Network, founding member and co-chair of the National Coalition of Black Lesbians and Gays, a founding member of the Gay Married Men’s Association and the National Association of Black & White Men Together, board member of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force a.k.a The Task Force, and board member of BiNet USA. During the President Jimmy Carter administration, Jones-Hennin participated in the first delegation of gay people of color to meet with representatives of the President of the United States of America. ABilly identifies as bisexual* 2023 TULSA PRI 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Congratulations to our newly crowned King of Tulsa Pride 2023, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2023, Karma Eclectic. ❤??????? Thank you to our 2022 King of Tulsa Pride King Mykal Khrystian, and 2022 Queen of Tulsa Pride, Kitty Quinn Khrystian, for serving their term and being a part of the Tulsa Pride Royal Family. ? Thank you to our 2020-2021 King of Tulsa Pride King Blaze Khrystian and 2020-2021 Queen of Tulsa Pride Kitty Marie Legacy ? Thank you to our hosts, 2019 King and Queen of Tulsa Pride, Scrappy Legacy, and Emeritus Anita Richards. ? Thank you to our judges, volunteers, and attendees for joining us and crowning our Tulsa Pride King and Queen for 2023. ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We want to thank Club Majestic Tulsa for hosting our 2023 Tulsa Pride Pageant. Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, February 7th | 4:00p 6:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Facebook Event H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Name/Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, February 8th | 5:30p 7:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process and those who are interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Appointments are first come first serve. 08 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Thursdays in the Rainbow Room - HITS & Misses TICKETS Thursday, February 16th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Jeremy Stevens and his friends as they travel through the years singing songs that were winners - and songs that weren’t so lucky. Join Jeremy Stevens and his friends as they travel through the years singing songs that were winners - and songs that weren't so lucky. Bistro Seats are $20, and General Admission seating is $15. Tickets are on sale now. Neff Love is Love Pint Night Thursday, February 16th | 5:00p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP It's February and love and/or the warm fuzzies of good craft beer is in the air! ? ?: @beercattbrett on instagram. Our February pint night features a "Love is Love" theme and a portion of the proceeds from this pint night will go to Oklahomans for Equality! ?❤ Love is Love Pint Night will be on February 16th starting at 5pm. For $15 you get this awesome limited edition, full color pint glass filled with your choice of beer. Buy the pint, keep the glass! ? Our last pint night sold out very quickly so if you NEED THIS AWESOME GLASS in your collection, make sure to head to the taproom at or right after 5pm. Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo 2023 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Saturday, February 18th | 6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS ?? Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo 2023!?⚧ Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo is a fundraiser for Tulsa Pride. Join us as we raise money, and enjoy entertainment from Pride Royalty and our newly crowned 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic with special guest Adonis Alessi ?Food sponsored by Empire Slice House Tulsa This event is 18+. 0 TULSA REALLY,a REALLYFREc MARKET E A Commu n 1tyShar1n9Evenl : 2119 llp <p I 021 E <tn St ~ Fu,nClothn9 •.";i•..,.o•o, • ~ b • a:"';,•"j Tulsa Really, Really Free Market Sunday, Feb 19th | 12:00p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades!?? Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures.? Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, February 23th | 6:00p 7:30p Tulsa Ballet 1212 E 45th Pl S, Tulsa, OK 74105 RSVP Join us for our EBA Mixer with Aaru Games - 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A Community for Game Lovers, Professionals, and Creators. Meet up, play games, and collaborate. We welcome you to work from our cafe, take part in events, or just spend time with friends and your favorite tabletop games. https://www.aaru.games/ The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.htm 0 PROUD BRUNCH Sunday, February 26th | 12p-2p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Join us as we PROUDLY celebrate Black History Month with our PROUD BRUNCH. Performance by Drevion Dior, Londenn D. Raine, Scarppy Legacy, Iman Scott, Sasha V. King, and Kayy Kayy! Menu: 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... French Toast Chicken & Waffles Bottomless: Mimosa's Bloody Marys This event is 18+. This event is open to all. 0 The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Carle THE Artiste Month of February Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Art Carle THE Artiste presents "Matter of the Heart" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, February 2nd, at 6pm. The exhibit will be on display for the month of February. Carle THE Artiste (he/they/Xe) is a gender-fluid painter and dancer that uses surrealism to bring their pain and traumatic experiences to life. Their main source of creating is through oil and acrylic painting, but he has also found that their soul resonates through interpretive ritualistic dancing and drag. For more information about the artist visit, https:// www.outofmindart.com/ Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 Transgender Resource Fair Saturday, March 4th | 11a-5p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our first Transgender Resource Fair of 2023 on March 4th from 11a-5p. The Resource Fair will be hosted in the Bruce Goff Event Center and Lynn Riggs Theatre. EXHIBITO R SIGN UP RSVP ?⚧ Information, help, and support for the Transgendered, Gender NonConforming, and Gender Question Community as well as their allies. ?⚧ For this event, we will be offering a platform to our exhibitors to give a 10 or 25 minute presentation in the Lynn Riggs Theatre concerning their Organization, Products, or Services. If you'd like to be an exhibitor, please click the exhibitor link to sign up. Our Voices Launch Party Thursday, March 9th | 6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Our Voices Launch Party . . . .,,....,,.,. ? Anthology Project Vol.1 is out now, Be a part of Vol.2! Special Guests: K.O, rapper and singer from Endi, OK! ? Share your story with the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in the Lynn Riggs Theatre! ? For more information, contact Michelle at 918.850.7972 Check out our selection of books: https:// www.librarycat.org/lib/ TulsaRainbowLibrary. Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo 2023 Saturday, March 18th | 6:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS ?? Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo 2023!?⚧ TI CKETS WWW O K EO ORG Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo is a fundraiser for Tulsa Pride. Join us as we raise money, and enjoy entertainment from local Drag Kings and Queens and our newly crowned 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic. ?Food sponsored by Empire Slice House Tulsa This event is 18+ 0 -~-if- OKEO HEALTH -~-if- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Commumty OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Please do not send medical or private information via email! Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Letter From the President Dear Friends, We hope this letter finds you safe, warm, and in the company of those most important in your life. As temperatures drop and days slow down, I begin again to reflect. To celebrate the successes of the waning year while looking to the incredible opportunities ahead. Together, we have moved through significant triumphs and adjustments here at OkEq. There is much to be grateful for as we count our blessings and look ahead. Over the last year, and under the guidance of former President Stacy Turner, we had the most successful Gala and Pride events in the organization's history. Over 700 attendees joined us for our Gala, while Pride welcomed its largest number of vendors and participants since its inception. We also navigated staffing, Board, and program adjustments. Most recently, pausing some events and programs along with slightly reduced center hours (noon to 8 pm weekdays) as we turn inward to focus on the infrastructure needed to keep OkEq thriving well into the future. Moving into 2023, we are building on our successes with committees preparing for the Gala and Pride to be even bigger and concentrate on celebrating every single one of you. Supporting that is the first segment of our interim Executive Directors strategic plan for OkEq, the Three Ps — People, Programs, and Purpose. Here are some of the exciting things you can expect through January: • Defined employee roles and additions to staff and volunteers • New financial protocols for efficiency and accountability • Safety improvements, including a new camera system and intercoms • Expanded support group offerings • The return of youth and young adult programs • New education and outreach training through OkEq and select partners • The first details about our new counseling initiatives • A return to standard operating hours at the Center • Website and social media refreshes As you can see, these are exciting times! We invite you in this season of reflection, generosity, and hope, to share the great work happening at OkEq and encourage 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... your networks to consider giving or matching your support of our growing services. There is no end destination in our work, and we remain ever focused and full of gratitude for your support of OkEq. On behalf of the OkEq Staff, Board, and Trustees, I wish you all a very warm and happy Holiday Season! Sincerely, Bob Hanson Board President Board President Updates MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT HI , OKEQ MEMBERS. I WANTED TO TAKE A MOMENT TO INTRODUCE MYSELF. I AM BOB HANSON AND HAVE STEPPED INTO THE ROLE OF BOARD PRESIDENT FOR OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY. AFTER SERVI NC THE MEMBERS AND CENTER FOR THE LAST YEAR , STACY TURNER HAS TAKEN SOME VERY WELL EARNED TIME OFF TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY IN DIFFERENT WAYS. I CANNOT EXPRESS ENOUCH HOW CRATEFUL WE AS THE BOARD ARE FOR HER CUIDANCE AND LEADERSHIP OVER THE LAST YEAR : SHE HAS CUIDED US THROUCH SOME OF THE TOUCH EST TIMES OKEQ HAS EVER SEEN . THIS YEAR HAS BEEN A YEAR OF MANY CHANCES FOR THE CENTER - SOME COOD AND SOME BAD. THE STAFF AT THE CENTER HAS BEEN THROUCH SO MUCH , AND WE ARE SO CRATEFUL FOR THEIR DEDICATION TO THE CENTER AND THE COMMUNITY THEY SERVE . OUR STAFF IS AMAZINC AND HAS BEEN WORKINC SO HARD TO HELP KEEP THE IMPORTANT SERVICES THE CENTER PROVIDES AVAILABLE . AS WE TAKE THE NEXT STEPS , THERE ARE A LOT OF EXCITINC NEW THINCS OKEQ WILL BE FOCUSINC ON . BUT UNFORTUNATELY, EVENTS OVER THE LAST SEVERAL WEEKS HAVE REMINDED ALL OF US WHY THE WORK OF THE CENTER IS SO IMPORTANT. THE VIOLENT ATTACKS AT THE DONUT HOLE (PLEASE SHOW YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE TO THEM) ARE A SOBERINC REMINDER THAT WE STILL HAVE WORK TO DO. WE ARE ALSO FOCUSED ON FICHTINC THE ATTACK ON CENDER AFFIRMINC CARE. THE RECENT PASSACE AND SICNINC OF SENATE BILL 3XX PROHIBITS OU HEALTH FROM PROVIDINC CENDER · AFFIRMINC CARE AS A CONDITION OF RECEIVINC FEDERAL AMERICAN RESCUE PLAN DOLLARS FOR THE EXPANSION OF CHILDREN ' S BEHAVIORAL HEALTH FACILITIES. LECISLATORS HAVE ALREADY EXPRESSED A DESIRE TO BAN CENDER - AFFIRMINC CARE TO MINORS STATEWIDE IN THE 2023 LECISLATIVE SESSION . WHEN SENATE BILL 3XX WAS SICNED, OUR BOARD SECRETARY, ERIC WILSON , SENT A SIMPLE BUT POWERFUL EMAIL THAT SAID , " THIS MAKES ME SO MAD . ALL THIS WILL DO IS HURT KIDS .• I HAVEN ' T STOPPED THINKINC ABOUT THAT EMAIL , AND IT HAS BECOME A BATTLE CRY FOR ME . OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO FICHT ACAINST THE HATE AND VIOLENCE THAT TARCETS OUR COMMUNITY. OKEQ WILL BE A SAFE PLACE FOR ALL WITHIN THE LCBTQIAA • COMMUNITY ACAINST WHATEVER IS THROWN AT US , NOT OUT OF HATE FOR OTHERS, BUT FOR THE LOVE OF OUR COMMUNITY. THIS IS WHY WE FICHT - SO ALL MAY KNOW LOVE WINS AND WILL PREVAIL. HUMBLED AND HONORED , BOB HANSON ~ l l . 0 7 . 2 2 11.07.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT AS I WRITE THIS ON THE EVEN INC OF THE MIDTERM ELECTIONS , I AM FILLED WITH EMOTION AND REMINDED THAT TRANSFORMATIONAL CHANCE TAKES TIME . PATIENCE AND AN UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO PUSH TH ROUCH CHALLENCES . THERE HAVE BEEN MANY CHANCES AT OKEQ RECENTLY . THOSE CHANCES MAY BE HARD TO ACCEPT FOR SOME IN OUR COMMUNITY BUT ARE DUE IN PART TO THE CROWTH OF OUR ORCANIZATION . IT IS MY HOPE THAT THIS MESSACE WILL HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHERE WE ARE TODAY AND WHY YOUR SUPPORT IS ESSENTIAL TO OUR FUTURE . OKEQ BECAN AS A SMALL ORCANIZAT I ON RUN BY VOLUN T EERS . OVER T HE YEARS , DRIVEN BY THE NEEDS OF OUR COMMUNITY , OKEQ CREW T O A LARCE CENTER REQUIRINC BOTH A FULL STAFF AND VOLUNTEERS . THIS CROWTH HAPPENED QUICKLY , AND THE STAFF , VOLUNTEERS , AND BOARD OF DIRECTORS WORKED TO SUSTAIN US TH ROUCH THIS EVOLUTION . THEIR PASSION FOR OKEQ IS WHAT LED TO AMAZINC ACCOMPLISHMENTS , EVEN IN THE FACE OF AN ADVERSE AND EVEN HOSTILE POLITICAL CLIMATE . AS WE SOUCHT TO RESPOND TO OVERWHELMINC DEMAND FOR THE SERVICES OKEQ PROVIDES , WE DID NOT ESTABLISH THE ADEQUATE ACCOUNTABILITY MEASURES A HEALTHY AND CROWINC ORCAN I ZATION NEEDS , PARTICULARLY IN TERMS OF FISCAL OVERSICHT. WE BELIEVE IN TRANSPARENCY AND ACCOUNTABILITY AND WANT OUR COMMUNITY TO KNOW : • IN OUR WORK TO ASSESS THE ORCANIZATION ' S CURRENT FINANCIAL STATE , THE BOARD IDENTIFIED IRRECULARITIES IN THE FINANCES OVERSEEN BY OKEQ ' S VOLUNTEER TREASURER ; • WE TOOK IMMEDIATE ACTION IN RESPONSE TO THIS FINDINC , AND THE TREASURER IS NO LONCER INVOLVED WITH OKEQ: • WE MET WITH OUR FUNDERS AND PHILANTHROPIC PARTNERS TO MAKE THEM AWARE OF THE SITUATION : • WITH THE CONTINUED SUPPORT OF OUR FUNDERS , WE COMPLETED A COMPET I TIVE REQUEST FOR PROPOSALS PROCESS AND ENCACED A NEW ACCOUNTINC FIRM : •WEARE WORKINC WITH THAT FIRM AND WITH OTHER PARTNERS TO COMPLETE A COMPREHENSIVE FINANCIAL RECONCILIA T ION PROCESS AND BUILD A NEW INFRASTRUCTURE TO ENSURE THAT EVERY DOLLAR IS ACCOUNTED FOR AND USED FOR ITS INTENDED PURPOSE . IMPORTANTLY , WE ARE SHARI NC THIS UPDATE AND THE INFORMATION WE HAVE AVAILABLE AT THIS TIME WITH THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER MOST - YOU . OKEQ EXISTS TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY AND WE ARE WORKINC URCENTLY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ CAN BE FINANCIALLY VIABLE AND CAN SUSTAIN FOR CENERATIONS TO COME . YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS NOW MORE THAN EVER . MOVINC FORWARD , WE ARE DETERMININC WHAT PROCRAMS AND SERVICES WILL LOOK LIKE FOR THE NEXT FEW MONTHS . I WILL BE SHARINC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT OUR SCHEDULE SOON . IN THE MEANTIME , I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR YOUR STEADFAST COMMITMENT TO OKEQ AND TO SUPPORTINC OUR COMMUNITY TO BE SAFE , HEALTHY AND THRIVINC . 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... :tJN\;lt.Hlt.LT BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11 . l 4. 2 2 11.14.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT DEAR FRIENDS , THE WINTER HOLIDAY SEASON IS A TIME FOR GRATITUDE , AND THIS VEAR I AM PROFOUNDLY GRATEFUL FOR THE OVERWHELMING SUPPORT WE HAVE SEEN FROM THE OKEQ COMMUNITY DURING THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSAGES OF SUPPORT AND YOUR UNWAVERING COMMITMENT TO OUR WORK ON BEHALF OF THE LCBTQ + COMMUNITY . AS YOU MAY KNOW , LAST SPRING WE CELEBRATED TOBY JENKINS ' 26 YEARS OF LEADERSHIP AS EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF OKEQ AND WISHED HIM THE BEST ON HIS WELL - EARNED RETIREMENT TO SPEND TIME WITH HIS FAMILY , ESPECIALLY HIS GRANDCHILDREN . OVER THE LAST FIVE MONTHS , THE BOARD HAS BEEN WORKING TO IDENTIFY A NEW LEADER TO HELP STRENGTHEN AND SUSTAIN OUR MISSION AND THE LECACV OF TOBY ' S WORK TH ROUCH THE MANY EVENTS , PROGRAMS , AND RESOURCES THAT OKEQ PROVIDES IN SERVING YOU , OUR COMMUNITY . ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS , I AM THRILLED TO ANNOUNCE THAT DOROTHY BALLARD HAS JOINED OKEQ AS OUR NEW INTERIM EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR . AFTER A COMPETITIVE INTERVIEW PROCESS , THE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE OF THE BOARD RECOMMENDED DOROTHY BECAUSE OF HER KNOWLEDGE , DEDICATION , AND PASSION FOR THE MISSION OF OKEQ . SHE BRINGS MORE THAN 15 YEARS OF EXPERIENCE IN COMMUNICATIONS , MARKETING , AND PROJECT DEVELOPMENT AND MANAGEMENT. WE ARE GRATEFUL FOR HER WILLINGNESS TO STEP FORWARD AND LEAD OKEQ TH ROUCH THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . DOROTHY HAS HIT THE GROUND RUNNING AND IS BUILDING A COMPREHENSIVE PLAN TO STABILIZE AND SUSTAIN OKEQ . WE WILL BE SHARI NC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THOSE PLANS SOON . I HOPE YOU WILL SAVE THE DATE OF THURSDAY , DECEMBER 8 ATS PM FOR A HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE AT OKEQ FOR A CHANCE TO MEET DOROTHY AND THE OKEQ TEAM , TOUR THE CENTER , AND LEARN ABOUT OUR PROGRAMS AND SERVICES . WE ALSO HOPE YOU JOIN US AFTERWARDS IN THE LYNN RICCS THEATER TO ENJOY DECEMBER ' S RAINBOW ROOM EVENT " A QUIRKY QUEEN ' S QUEER CHRISTMAS CABARET " FEATURING TRAVIS GUILLORY AT 7,30 PM . LOOK FOR AN INVITATION TO THESE LATER THIS WEEK ! NOW THAT WE ACAIN HAVE LEADERSHIP IN PLACE THAT HOLDS THE CONFIDENCE OF THE BOARD AND STAFF , WE CAN CONTINUE TO ADDRESS THE BROADER WORK OF IMPLEMENTING OUR STRATEGY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ IS FINANCIALLY SOUND AND CAN SUSTAIN ITS MISSION FOR GENERATIONS TO COME , ALTHOUGH THESE SHIFTS HOLD THEIR CHALLENGES , WE HAVE AN EXCITING OPPORTUNITY FOR OKEQ TO MEET THE EX PAN DI NC NEEDS OF THE COMMUNITY . AS WE MOVE FORWARD , WE ARE MINDFUL OF OUR FOUNDING AND HISTORY AS A GRASSROOTS ORGANIZATION CREATED TO SERVE ALL IN OUR COMMUNITY . AFTER OVER 40 YEARS , THE RICH DIVERSITY OF OUR COMMUNITY HAS CROWN AND OUR NEEDS • YOUR NEEDS · ARE GREATER THAN EVER . THANK YOU FOR CONTINUING TO STAND WITH US AS WE WORK THROUGH THIS TIME OF CHANCE AS WE TURN THE CORNER TOWARD A BICCER AND BRIGHTER FUTURE . SINCERELY , BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11 , 2 l , 2 2 11.21.22 In Memoriam Il111 Memoniaum • t•• -.,,,,.,. .• r; O ti"' ,,,,, . V ... ~,. - .. ,.._., -~ . 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Brou,g1tt "I1o You, Bi 1~1t~ Letter Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @r@mcfil®IT ~ffil])l]XID~ @IT®ffil]) IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 25 during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E - Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT ~ - - --•-... FILM IT Flm a ohort - performonce crdocumontaru FINCER PAINT IT Create digital art, color pencil, o, drawing PICTURE IT ~ ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ - - - - , , . , .. _todluClck on~ v: - - ~ ~ - - YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: J. OKEQ lUII.IUlnly © Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE Beklngs Your VOICE IS Yehd The 2022-2023 OOR VOtCES c.wnpe.gn 10 raise llnds Incl supp0f1 for 011 library seeks 10 increase ec::cess 10 and so::,pe of LBGTOIA• mateoals Donel& 10d8yl 0. Seara>f0< COngnb,lalllSIOWA'II rivsiaionrn Brown on IMl'-.eoall!!! OYrCIUlc9Ue11spoMOreCJ llftn'"hCIIIOl lofAu111n1:sepcer11Def Rirques11 T L.aai)'Card 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library JANUARY2023 Donate & Support GAYLYco• CIVIL RIG HTS AWAREN ESS Tulsa's OkEq finding new ways to ~om b a t bigotry and B h '/ bl anned tlOks QVOI Q t O t OkEq '~ Rainbow Library h t a e th• o~hno 0aulo f•:•l;.~•:••::~;l~:,nl '" r,,ht ~~l~::•,:;;,.l~~~;~s•'i al :~.~I:!: To request a library card from OkEq, to email the library or to support the Rainbow Library , visit 5nR,1.','l[l). par< U library cat.org /lib/Tul saRainb owLibr ary I REV2tJ_& I 1 (888) 773-8267 ~ ""l s,,..,.,,,.,.1',"- 1,in 1.or.0.1. l>ELl\'ER\'Ot:C\\E TROAREA ,,,REVAN 11 - - - -- ZHZ Welt Britton l\d, Okc - 405,t,0'7,0'749 r.u.w.,auu.., _...,,11--.,..i.tau,.dl•t a room...J_vlnta1• HEALT H 5601 NW72 .. Strttt lf14l, Ol,: C .,_&,,1,a_.,;., ..,i,.,.;~.,,.,,_,tf" 'fa,,.;IJ,-j,,,•llq, >. (405) 896-7975 w..,...R"'9t1Ht•lrlt.r., ,. Our library director, Michelle Simmons, was recently featured in The Gayly! Read about our Rainbow Library and Banned Books, and come check out a book today at the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library! Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... life. Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC . OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE 1 okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES HE/ HIM/ HIS DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR SHAY BREWER HE I HIM I HIS ANDI GUNTER KAO MORRIS SHE / HER / HERS CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER OPERATIONS MANGER .:--=. • • DONNA MATTHEWS LILY PINA SHE / HER / HERS GRANT COORDINATOR LUKE SCUITTO SHE/ HER/ HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS NURSE PRACTITIONER MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 25 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Jane Wiseman 080S8 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:28 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/27251acbb08831885996dcc18162b13d.pdf 8da9149270c5a369faf2e5445c146f04 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality invites you again to its annual Equality Gala. This event serves as our anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the LGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. TICKETS 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... MARCH 7TH. 7AM - 7PM ? Know before you vote: Check out the SQ 820 Fact Sheet via OK Policy. ? Check your registration status and find your polling location at the OK Voter Portal here. 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Congratulations to our newly crowned King of Tulsa Pride 2023, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2023, Karma Eclectic. ❤??????? Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, March 7th | 4:00p - 6:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Name/Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, March 8th | 5:30p 7:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process and those who are interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Appointments are first come, first serve. Our Voices Launch Party ,. Ill fORMORE INFORMATION.CONTACTMOCHELLEU 11 3 IS0-711' Thursday, March 9th | 6:30p 7:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Our Voices Launch Party Anthology Project Vol.1 is out now, Be a part of Vol.2! Special Guests: K.O, rapper and singer from Endi, OK! Share your story with the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in the Lynn Riggs Theatre! 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For more information, contact Michelle at 918.850.7972 Check out our selection of books: https:// www.librarycat.org/lib/ TulsaRainbowLibrary. 0 &POINT EAR ACUPUNCTURE !Iii;, Free 5 Point Ear Acupuncture March 18th & 19th | 10a-2p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Come out, relax, chill, and de-stress. Renew your energy and balance. Free Treatments. For more information contact Phyllis 520.471.1701 Robin 818.457.6750 Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo 2023 Saturday, March 18th | 6:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS ?? Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo!?⚧ Join us as we raise money, and enjoy entertainment from Pride Royalty and our newly crowned 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic, with our special guest Londenn D Raine and Ivana B Real Hosted by Scrappy Legacy and Anita Richards ?Food sponsored by Empire Slice House Tulsa This event is 18+ Doors open at 6:30p; Bingo at 7p 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, March 23th | 6:00p 7:30p Ingredion 810 S Cincinnati Ave, 4th Floor Tulsa, OK 74119 RSVP Join us for our EBA Mixer with Ingredion. Ingredion Incorporated is an American multinational ingredient provider based in Westchester, Illinois producing mainly starch, modified starches, and starch sugars such as glucose syrup and high fructose syrup. www.ingredion.com The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.html 0 Thur_s1a1 ~ m i he Rainbow Rbom++ 111111 I II t t , I + FRESH MEAT: t + Th&l)lew Jen of Thursdays in the Rainbow Room - Fresh Meat Cabat"etA;tists 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Caleb Vaughn ~ March \ 0-7 ]oprn 111 • I + + + • Thursday, March 30th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Fresh Meat: The new Gen of Cabaret Artists with Clare Holt and Caleb Vaughn. Bistro Seats are $20, and General Admission seating is $15. Doors open at 7p; Show at 7:30p Ill Kln.~ , fl~Jnl 111: 0l\uusn lll . QUIJJisc, The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Audrey Byrd Month of March Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Art Audrey Byrd presents "The Diversity of Queer Sex" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. The exhibit will be on display for the month of March. “The Diversity of Queer Sex” is a special project that intends to show the many ways that queer people show their love and affection, outside of the as-seen-onTV heteronormative trope. Queer sex is not heavily represented in mainstream media, and there are often misconceptions about what intimacy looks like in the queer community. We are often hypersexualized and disrespected, but I wanted to reclaim that stereotyped sexuality by showing both modest sensuality and kinky dominance veiled in exaggerated colors and abstract contortions. Yes, our love can be alternative and shocking to the public eye, but it is also gentle and precious. It goes without saying that this collection doesn’t scratch the surface of the true scope of queer sexuality but is representative of some of the experiences by myself and those close to me. I dedicate much of my artistic vision and motivation to my stunning future wife, 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sydney, and I could not have done this without her. Two years ago, we met at this very gallery for my first show at OKEQ, “The Divine Feminine.” She has seen my art grow and has supported me in every area of life since. Thank you, darling. Audrey is a Tulsa native that has tapped into the local art scene to share her love for the human body, sexuality, and intimacy. Her bold colors and risqué subjects represent her desire to destigmatize sex and embrace the diversity of human interaction. Art has not only been a means of helping her models fall in deeper love with their own bodies, but it has also helped Audrey love her curves in a radical way. Outside of the studio, Audrey is a strong community activist and physician that aims to marry her love of art and medicine for the rest of her career. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT information via email! Board President Updates 11.21.22 In Memoriam Il111 MemoniWTI Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Brou1g111t "I1o YOllll Bi "I11i~ Letter Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 21 Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @r®mcll@IT ~ffi]])If@lffi @IT@ffi]]) O~@O@O@ QdJ§§ ~g 'u'QdJD:,§ £ 'D'W@-§(;e)O~O'u' IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule a interview call 918.743.4297. ~~@@~a'll'oo ;i1t ~@!Mi}@ ~a@llil'll' 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... BE HEA RD. USE YOU R VOICE Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. ,!, _ _ _ ___ ,,,_ SCREAM IT FILM IT Flrn a lhort-performonce ordocurnontary FINCER PAINT IT Create digital art, color pencil, or a-awing PICTURE IT ~ ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ - - - - , , . , .. _todluClckon~v:--~~-- YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: J. OKEQl\lll.lUlnly © ~ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE BekwlgS Ycu VOICE IS Yehd The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES c.wnpe.gn IO ra«se Nnds and 5'JPPOf1 for O-.. llbfaty seeks 10 increese ec::cess 10 and sa,pe of LBGTOIA• mMeo9ls Donal& 10d8yl ......,.,, 0. COngntula)nslOWA'l(ffOStalOTmBIUM!Olllhel'ftOllll'lg Ollr~lllflOM(ftClll..-h011011ot'August'SeplemDef T Reql,esill.lnlycard Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library Donate & Support 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 21 JAN UARY2023 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... C IVIL RI G HTS AWAREN ESS GAYLYcoM b I bigotry and Tulsa's OkEq finding new ways 10 com a Banned book\ available at OkEq 's Rain~.~: ,~r!!~n~~:" h t a e ~~.~~,1 ~ :,t~,:;~::::,~~~•~: IIA'l"-lm, p.,j!C 7 C<)UfSC hc aruchc i, J,ckwo, ll"I""'" "· ~~~';:,=t,~~D~•~~::io~:•r~?;~ P<~:,:•!~;~~~; ::;;;;,~::1~:'.~:;~,~1°:~hn~:~•~e!.·::::.::ufri~ ~GAYLY To request a library card from OkEq, to email the library or to support the Rainbow Library, visit librarycat.org/lib/TulsaRainbowLibrary !;« llA<;S[D.pal!" lS l (888) 773-8267 FM a ("uu f,, I, proud. and pri,.,,,r pltor1n•cy exp,ri~,ic~. £VERYD,W ~IIA R\IAC\ ' SPECIALTY \IFDJ0 , 11 0'1S LOC Ai, DELIVERY OKC .\ lf.TRO ,\R F.A '~• 5601 NW n -- Sr~et II 142, OKC H,•/r-1',_;.,> --.oz, " '1'"!/olf,,.;1y..,4/rl~ fe,o ll "ll'S. (40S) 896-797S ,..,...., R,...,nHr4/,lr.ro"' Our library director, Michelle Simmons, was recently featured in The Gayly! Read about our Rainbow Library and Banned Books, and come check out a book today at the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library! Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More Equality Alliances 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, ~"' too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! OKEQ BOARD AND TRUSTEES Executive Committee Trustees 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S8 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:30 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ecffb8fdec918782119655784c138840.pdf 42d6addcf94149917168295067a93ca8 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality invites you again to our annual Equality Gala! This event serves as our anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the LGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. TICKETS 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Congratulations to our newly crowned King of Tulsa Pride 2023, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2023, Karma Eclectic. ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, March 14th | 4:00p 6:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, March 14th | 5:30p 7:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first come, first serve basis". Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, then she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone is (918)295-9429. Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, March 15th | 12p - 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo 2023 Saturday, March 18th | 6:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 ?? Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo!?⚧ RSVP TICKETS Join us as we raise money, and enjoy entertainment from Pride Royalty and our newly crowned 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic, with our special guest Londenn D Raine and Ivana B Real Hosted by Scrappy Legacy and Anita Richards ?Food sponsored by Empire Slice House Tulsa 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This event is 18+ Doors open at 6:30p; Bingo at 7p Free 5 Point Ear Acupuncture &POINT EAR ACUPUNCTURE !Iii;, March 18th & 19th | 10a-2p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Come out, relax, chill, and de-stress. Renew your energy and balance. Free Treatments. For more information contact Phyllis 520.471.1701 Robin 818.457.6750 iTULSA REALLY.a REALLYFREc MARKET Tulsa Really, Really Free Market A Community Shar,ng Event Every lrd Sunday• 12p-~p I 621 E ~th St Fu,n,t:~: ~'A~1••Hpj~~~;':'H~.,;.n::;:, a~d"::::!i 1 0 Sunday, March 19th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ ~;;;1;1L~:,:•::: !S,~,::'; M,.,, • Equality Business Alliance Mixer r..,,. OK 11.IO< .,. Thursday, March 23th | 6:00p 7:30p Ingredion 810 S Cincinnati Ave, 4th Floor Tulsa, OK 74119 RSVP Join us for our EBA Mixer with Charcuteray. 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... https://linktr.ee/charcuteray The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.html Thursdays in the Rainbow Room - Fresh Meat Thursday, March 30th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Fresh Meat: The new Gen of Cabaret Artists with Clare Holt and Caleb Vaughn. Bistro Seats are $20, and General Admission seating is $15. Doors open at 7p; Show at 7:30p The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Audrey Byrd Month of March Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Art 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Audrey Byrd presents "The Diversity of Queer Sex" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. The exhibit will be on display for the month of March. “The Diversity of Queer Sex” is a special project that intends to show the many ways that queer people show their love and affection, outside of the as-seen-onTV heteronormative trope. Queer sex is not heavily represented in mainstream media, and there are often misconceptions about what intimacy looks like in the queer community. We are often hypersexualized and disrespected, but I wanted to reclaim that stereotyped sexuality by showing both modest sensuality and kinky dominance veiled in exaggerated colors and abstract contortions. Yes, our love can be alternative and shocking to the public eye, but it is also gentle and precious. It goes without saying that this collection doesn’t scratch the surface of the true scope of queer sexuality but is representative of some of the experiences by myself and those close to me. I dedicate much of my artistic vision and motivation to my stunning future wife, Sydney, and I could not have done this without her. Two years ago, we met at this very gallery for my first show at OKEQ, “The Divine Feminine.” She has seen my art grow and has supported me in every area of life since. Thank you, darling. Audrey is a Tulsa native that has tapped into the local art scene to share her love for the human body, sexuality, and intimacy. Her bold colors and risqué subjects represent her desire to destigmatize sex and embrace the diversity of human interaction. Art has not only been a means of helping her models fall in deeper love with their own bodies, but it has also helped Audrey love her curves in a radical way. Outside of the studio, Audrey is a strong community activist and physician that aims to marry her love of art and medicine for the rest of her career. 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. Please do not send medical or private information via email! SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT w u z -c WORLD - CLASS DANCE AND MUSIC (HQREGUS PRODUCTIONS CHOREGUS .ORG PRESENTS M~rrh ?? 7nm ■ Dorrance Dance is an award-winning tap dance company based in New York City. Founded in 2011 by Artistic Director and 2015 MacArthur Fellow Michelle Dorrance, the company shares the incredibly dynamic range that tap dance has to offer through performance & education. ■ The company's goal is to engage with audiences on a musical and emotional level, and to share the complex history and powerful legacy of this American art form throughout the country and the world . ■ At its core, tap dance is a subversive form. Rooted in protest and transcendence, im- 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I ■- ■ -■ I -- I ,.., ■ ■ ■ Lorton Performance Center The University of Tulsa u z provisation and innovation were paramount to its survival and are innately embedded in its very foundation. ■ Dorrance Dance strives to honor this legacy with an unconquerable respect for this art form - its traditions and its possib ilities. OKEQ Friends get 25% Off with code OKEQ25 Tickets >>>>> (if QR code doesn't work, go to tix.com and search " Dorrance" ) or call 918-688-6112. $45* withcode Adults Orch Prime or Bale Prime reg. $60* a: 0 C $33.75* with code Adults Orch Rear or Bale Rear reg. $45* *+$3 ticket fee Students/children $5 walk-up, no fee Must call 918-688-6112 to purchase student/children tickets in advance Choregus Productions 2526 E. 71st St., Suite H Tulsa, OK 74136 Tickets 918-688-6112 or ti x.com choregus.org In Memoriam Il111 Mlemoniaurn 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 21 Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @®mcfil®IT ~ffil])I]XID!ffi @IT@ffil]) O~ @O@l0(2)QdJ@! @!~~ 'u'QdJlb§ ~ 'u'W@=§[;e)O~O'u' IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule a interview call 918.743.4297. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, and traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding their musical knowledge. Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 21 lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E - Stuck figuring out what you want t o submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT ~ - - --•-... FILM IT Flm a ohort - performonce crdocumontaru FINCER PAINT IT Create digital art, color pencil, o, drawing PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ ~ - - - - , , . , .. _todluClck on~ v: - - ~ ~ - - YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: J. OKEQlUII.IL.aitwy © ~ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE Beklngs Ycu VOICE IS Yehd The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES c.wnpe.gn IO ra«se Nnds and 5'JPPOf1 for O-.. llbfaty seeks 10 increese ec::cess 10 and sa,pe of LBGTOIA• mMeo9ls Donal& 10d8yl ......,.,, 0. COngrlb,la)llslOWA'l(ffOStalOTmBIUMIOIIIMl'ftOllll'lg Ollr~lllflOM(ftClll..-h011011ot'August'SeplemDef T Reql,esill.lnlycard Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library CIVIL RIGHTS AWAREN ESS Donate & Support GAYLYco• t bi otry and bate Tulsa's OkEq finding new ways to comha g Banned h,J1Jb available at OkEq •.~ Rain~o: ,~ ::::n~2'""· ,o •a'.'." ~-:;!;70•t~.1;,11: JANUARv202J ::~~;:;u,. . 0 ,1.,,.i...,,.,,,__U/~:::::.,,11o,,!,,-_,,.,,.,,,...,,.h::~:h<k1un Bulnumat- www.gayly.com ~~•;:,:t~~~h~:i~~:•f:~~;f pe~:::•!:~~~:~; :n~::;,~~~:~'.; :;~,~~~:hn7.:~~~•t: :?.:ifri~ ~G YLY To request a library card from OkEq, to email the library or to support the Rainbow Library, visit librarycat.org/lib/TulsaRainbowLibrary IR 1 (888) 773-8267 Fora fH'•«/11/, pro11d, .,.4 pri,.,,u p1,,,,,,,.q u~rle'1U, f:\[IIYD.Wl'IIAR.\IACY Sl'OCIALTY\IFDICAI IO',S S601 NW n- s,r,tt ~ 142, OKC • ...._.Hull•,-.;., ~•-"¥"fl-'fa-J'1-ri,.,fa,fll..,_._ (405) 896-7975 ,...,.•. R,,..n11,.11•.,.,,., Our library director, Michelle Simmons, was recently featured in The Gayly! Read about our Rainbow Library and Banned Books, and come check out a book today at the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library! Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! • 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ BOARD AND TRUSTEES Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:31 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f45c1ebfeffa0bc5651dcad624399623.pdf f83a4f47d8623d945997b36d60e0ab9a PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am to 6pm. 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality invites you again to our annual Equality Gala! This event serves as our anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the LGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. TICKETS 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIP RAINBOW RUN More details and information to come! 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... commemorQ 1n9 Qn encourQ91n9 e s u Y> observQnCe Qnd celebrQtion of the vitQI role of women in AmeriCQn history. Happy First Day of Spring! 2023 TULSA PRI 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Congratulations to our newly crowned King of Tulsa Pride 2023, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2023, Karma Eclectic. ❤??????? Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, March 21st | 4:00p 6:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, March 22nd | 12p - 6p 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, March 23th | 6:00p 7:30p Ingredion 810 S Cincinnati Ave, 4th Floor Tulsa, OK 74119 RSVP Join us for our EBA Mixer with Charcuteray. https://linktr.ee/charcuteray The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. - 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.html Thursdays in the Rainbow Room - Fresh Meat Thursday, March 30th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Fresh Meat: The new Gen of Cabaret Artists with Clare Holt and Caleb Vaughn. Bistro Seats are sold out, and General Admission seating is $15. Doors open at 7p; Show at 7:30p IP.i·· ··~:~·~~~~~~: 3.31.23 '-" Trans Day of Visibility March DayOf VislblU!Y WEWONTBE ERADICATED! ·:::::::::::::::::::::::~··♦ 3.31.23 Diode/a VislblUdad Friday, March 31st | 4:00pm Central Library 400 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74120 We won't be eradicated! Feel free to dress up in your best daytime drag or anything colorful fit for a march down Tulsa’s streets. ?? RSVP RSVP TransgSnero ELLOSNONOS ERRADICARAN II YOU ARE VALID! ?⚧?? Blblloteca Central I 400 Civic Center 4 :00PM i~ ;V a;. 1 " ~ ,~ ~ Q. m ~ 1"' V •L I D / ,IKlrClJ Bynl The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Audrey Byrd Month of March Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Art Audrey Byrd presents "The Diversity of 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Sex" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. The exhibit will be on display for the month of March. “The Diversity of Queer Sex” is a special project that intends to show the many ways that queer people show their love and affection, outside of the as-seen-onTV heteronormative trope. Queer sex is not heavily represented in mainstream media, and there are often misconceptions about what intimacy looks like in the queer community. We are often hypersexualized and disrespected, but I wanted to reclaim that stereotyped sexuality by showing both modest sensuality and kinky dominance veiled in exaggerated colors and abstract contortions. Yes, our love can be alternative and shocking to the public eye, but it is also gentle and precious. It goes without saying that this collection doesn’t scratch the surface of the true scope of queer sexuality but is representative of some of the experiences by myself and those close to me. I dedicate much of my artistic vision and motivation to my stunning future wife, Sydney, and I could not have done this without her. Two years ago, we met at this very gallery for my first show at OKEQ, “The Divine Feminine.” She has seen my art grow and has supported me in every area of life since. Thank you, darling. Audrey is a Tulsa native that has tapped into the local art scene to share her love for the human body, sexuality, and intimacy. Her bold colors and risqué subjects represent her desire to destigmatize sex and embrace the diversity of human interaction. Art has not only been a means of helping her models fall in deeper love with their own bodies, but it has also helped Audrey love her curves in a radical way. Outside of the studio, Audrey is a strong community activist and physician that aims to marry her love of art and medicine for the rest of her career. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 iTULSA REALLY.a REALLYFREc MARKET Tulsa Really, Really Free Market A Community Sha r ing Evont EverylrdSunday • 12p'p I 1>21E ,th St Fu,n,t:~:l~•;.~1°•Hi!j~~~;'~~:.,;.B.;:;:, a~d'::::!i 0 Sunday,April 16th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Commumty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. Please do not send medical or private 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 24 SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... information via email! This will be a night of Heavy Metal, Country, and Queer Visibility. Sonja (Philly), Morgul Blade (Philly), and Bronco Henryetta, (Tulsa.) March 21st. 8pm. $15. 21+ 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Whittier Bar 2405 E. Admiral. RSVP glaad ~MEDIA INSTITUTE PRESENTS : ENGAGEMENT 101, TELLING YOUR STORY: MESSAGING & MEDIA TOOLS FOR TODAY'S ACTIVIST JOIN US FOR A FREE, LIVE TRAINING SATURDAY, MARCH 25 FROM 10AM-2PM CST In this training participants will learn the basics about media structure and how to tell their stories in traditional , online, and social media platforms . SPOTS ARE LIMITED! You MUST register to attend. Please DM us for the RSVP link. HOSTED BY: OKEQ DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 0 Please DM Kao for the RSVP link. w u ., WORLD - CLASS DANCE AND MUSIC (HOREGUS PRODUCTIONS CHOREGUS .ORG PRESENTS ■ Dorrance Dance is an award-winning tap dance company based in New York City. Founded in 2011 by Artistic Director and 2015 MacArthur Fellow Michelle Dorrance, the company shares the incredibly dynamic range that tap dance has to offer through performance & education . ■ The company's goal is to engage with audiences on a musical and emo- 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ._ ti1·M:1r:11'14L March 22 7pm Lorton Performance Cent The University of Tulsa u z tional level, and to share the complex history and powerful legacy of this American art form throughout the country and the world . ■ At its core, tap dance is a subversive form. Rooted in protest and transcendence, improvisation and innovation were paramount to its survival and are innately embedded in its very foundation. ■ Dorrance Dance strives to honor this legacy with an unconquerable respect for this art form - its traditions and its possibilities. OKEQ Friends get 25% Off with code OKEQ25 Tickets >>>>> (if QR code doesn't work, go to tix.com and search "Dorrance") or call 918-688-6112. $45 * with code Adults Orch Prime or Bale Prime reg. $60* a: 0 C $33.75* withcode Adults Orch Rear or Bale Rear reg. $45* *+$3 ticket fee Students/children $5 walk-up, no fee Must call 918-688-6112 to purchase student/children tickets in advance Choregus Productions 2526 E. 71st St., Suite H Tulsa, OK 74136 Ti ckets 918-688-6112 or tix.com choregus.org In Memoriam Il111 Memoniaurn 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Steve Walley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member March, 1948 - Feb 1, 2022 Steve was owner of Silver Star, a popular night spot in Tulsa. He is survived by his husband and partner of 40 years John Rothrock. Paul Wayne Gossett 1947 - 2022 In Memoriam Submissions 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Programming Brou.gl11t "I1o Yo1111 Bi "f111l~ Letter Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @@TID.cfil®IT ~ffi]]))]XID~ @IT@ffi]]) IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris + + and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule a interview call 918.743.4297. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT -!i ------..-FILM IT Fhaahort-pemrmoncecr~ PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo- a collage or self - portrait ~ YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: l. 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There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library JANUARY2023 CIVIL RIGHTS AWARENES S Donate & Support GAYLYCOM b' otry and bate Tulsa's OkEq finding new w~ys to ~om b a t ,g Banned boo•s available ot o•Eq 's Rainbow L,brory 10 1,.,1 ;, "'• onhme c•talog •• i~Etl l~iii 'IPl)'ly.a,m LY the isit S«;IIA'i:'li[D.page IS 1 (888) 773-8267 p,,,,, pe#uful, proud. ""d p,;,,,,,~ p}ta,,.,aq tx~rir1t~r. r\'ERY D.W ~II AR\IACl' SPECIALTY \IFIIICA"I IU'IS 'iO.'<-l>TLKJ LE CO\l,OL l<D1~·c ,·r.r~RI'< \RV CflMPOU<o11<c LOC,1.1. 1u;L1Y[R\' OKC .\IETRO AREA D/$CRfJ£11.X/'ICKUP ll - - - - ' ' REVAN tt,..n H.. HEALTH ~1r,.,. 5.;6!~ :::...:~::;o1~1!2,;!.!~~Mforoll-,,s. (405) 896-7975 ,.....,.,11.,..,_,.,,Hlllt.ro,,. Our library director, Michelle Simmons, was recently featured in The Gayly! Read about our Rainbow Library and Banned Books, and come check out a book today at the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library! 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ BOARD AND TRUSTEES Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S8 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:32 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a52b43950b8c4fa9604526119df27f70.pdf df07f330ef94da97c819e44be94cc5f4 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! Closed JAMM OUTT 6:30p 3/31 OKEQ Health Clinic lp-4p Trans Day of Visibility / March 4/1 Open 9a-6p 4/02 Closed OKEQ Dungeon and Dragons New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am to 6pm. 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality invites you again to our annual Equality Gala! This event serves as our anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the LGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. TICKETS 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIP RAINBOW RUN More details and information to come! 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... commemorQ 1n9 Qn encourQ91n9 e s u Y> observQnCe Qnd celebrQtion of the vitQI role of women in AmeriCQn history. ........................... ► .. .. ... .......... 3.31.23 Transgender --.----,, Day Of ~- - -Visibilit~_ ____... WE WON'T BE ERADICATED! Central Library I 400 Civic Center 4:00 PM ~,::.,~V W1 . VAL I D ~rl ~~ ,. _ -_ - .... This March 31st, on International Day of Transgender Visibility, we are going to take to the streets to be loud, proud, and visible in the face of hateful legislation being proposed in our state and across the Nation that would hurt drag artists and transgender, non-binary, Two Spirit, and gender nonconforming people in our communities. RSVP 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Congratulations to our newly crowned King of Tulsa Pride 2023, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2023, Karma Eclectic. ❤??????? Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, March 28th | 4:00p 6:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, March 29nd | 12p - 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room - Fresh Meat Thursday, March 30th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Fresh Meat: The new Gen of Cabaret Artists with Clare Holt and Caleb Vaughn. Bistro Seats are sold out, and General Admission seating is $15. Doors open at 7p; Show at 7:30p ~ ......~~~~-~~~-~~~: 3.31.23 '-ii' Trans Day of Visibility March DayOf VislblU!Y WEWONTBE ERADICATED! •• •• ••• •• • •• •• ••• ••• ••• •••• ♦ ·······················• 3.31.23 Dfade/a VlslblUdad Friday, March 31st | 4:00pm Central Library 400 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74120 We won't be eradicated! Feel free to dress up in your best daytime drag or anything colorful fit for a march down Tulsa’s streets. ?? RSVP RSVP Transg,nero ELLOSNONOS ERRADICARAN YOU ARE VALID! ?⚧?? 8 1bUoteea Cent ral t 400 Civic Cent er ~ ~ ti♦0 v ''fl" -·· · , ~ "''" ' ~ n ~ ~~ ~ limt :'iir AtKlr~J R!Jr<l 11 1~ Df\1J~ n O1· Qt.• n ~sr , The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Audrey Byrd Month of March Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Art Audrey Byrd presents "The Diversity of 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Sex" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. The exhibit will be on display for the month of March. “The Diversity of Queer Sex” is a special project that intends to show the many ways that queer people show their love and affection, outside of the as-seen-onTV heteronormative trope. Queer sex is not heavily represented in mainstream media, and there are often misconceptions about what intimacy looks like in the queer community. We are often hypersexualized and disrespected, but I wanted to reclaim that stereotyped sexuality by showing both modest sensuality and kinky dominance veiled in exaggerated colors and abstract contortions. Yes, our love can be alternative and shocking to the public eye, but it is also gentle and precious. It goes without saying that this collection doesn’t scratch the surface of the true scope of queer sexuality but is representative of some of the experiences by myself and those close to me. I dedicate much of my artistic vision and motivation to my stunning future wife, Sydney, and I could not have done this without her. Two years ago, we met at this very gallery for my first show at OKEQ, “The Divine Feminine.” She has seen my art grow and has supported me in every area of life since. Thank you, darling. Audrey is a Tulsa native that has tapped into the local art scene to share her love for the human body, sexuality, and intimacy. Her bold colors and risqué subjects represent her desire to destigmatize sex and embrace the diversity of human interaction. Art has not only been a means of helping her models fall in deeper love with their own bodies, but it has also helped Audrey love her curves in a radical way. Outside of the studio, Audrey is a strong community activist and physician that aims to marry her love of art and medicine for the rest of her career. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 OBI x OKEQ Blood Drive Thursday, April 6th | 1pm-7pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Why not save a life? Join us for a Blood Drive with Oklahoma Blood Institute at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on April 6th, from 1p-7p. ? To schedule an appointment, contact Oklahoma Blood institute at 877.340.8777 or visit obi.org The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Ace Stiles Thursday, April 6th | 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Art Coming Soon Ace Stiles presents "I Think I Want Sex" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, April 6th, at 6pm. Refreshments sponsored by Starbucks. The exhibit will be on display through the end of April. “I Think I Want Sex” is a representation of my inner world. As a 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... chronic overthinker, I feel I have found myself at a crossroad – not quite accepted as an equal to my peers, but far beyond where I could be. I portray my thoughts of worry that I will never have the experiences of people my age, first kisses or dates, my anticipations for things to come, my impatience, my devastation, my hope. I use a range of mediums and sizes to express these notions, primarily abstract in nature and incorporating bold bright colors, and the written word. This show aims to hold your eye and let you feel seen.. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 Tulsa Pride Bingo Sunday, April 15th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo is a fundraiser for Tulsa Pride! Join us as we raise money, and enjoy entertainment from Pride Royalty and our newly crowned 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic, with our special guests Sasha Turrelle and Aurora Lekohl ✨ 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Hosted by Scrappy Legacy and Anita Richards Prizes from our Equality Business Alliance Members! An individual ticket is $25. An individual ticket with 3 drink tickets is $35. A table of 8 with an open bar is $300. Empire Slice House Tulsa sponsors food. Doors open at 6:30 pm. The game starts at 7pm. iTULSA REALLY.a REALLYFREc MARKET Tulsa Really, Really Free Market A Community Shar,ng Evont Ev e ry lrd Sunday 12p 'P I 621 E ,t~ St Fu,n,1:~:1~'A~1••Hp'j~~~:V:'H;.,;.no:;;, a~;;~;:;j 0 Sunday, April 16th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ -~-if- OKEO HEALTH -~-if- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Commumty OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Please do not send medical or private information via email! Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT In Memoriam Il1111 MemoniWTI Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 23 Joseph Edward Johnson https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Steve Walley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member March, 1948 - Feb 1, 2022 Steve was owner of Silver Star, a popular night spot in Tulsa. He is survived by his husband and partner of 40 years John Rothrock. 1947 - 2022 In Memoriam Submissions 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Programming Brou1,gltt T 0 You. Bi 1-.Jlte Letter 1 Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @®rncil@IT ~ffi[g)I]XID~ @IT@ffi[g) 0~@0@l0(2)Ck!J§§~~ "O'Ck!Jlb§ w "O'W@=§IJ")0~O"O' 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris + + Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule a interview call 918.743.4297. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their For more information email Daniel or call 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 23 rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want t o submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT -!i ------..-FILM IT Fhaahort-pemrmoncecr~ PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo- a collage or self - portrait ~ ~ - -...... -,,.,.. Uol"IDdlu, ClckCOla::=....-va:.V:--...:=.~--- YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: l. 0Kll0 1'111.11Ulfwy © Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library YOI.K VOICE BNongs Ycu VOICE 15 Vahd The 2022-2023 OUR votCES Campaign lo ra,se funds and suppor1 kif c u lltnry seeks to n:rNSe aa:@55 lo and saipe of l.BGTOIA• mateoals Donate t>dlryl 0. Seardllor ~IOMMFIVltaMTfflllrOlllflonlhel''ftCdllg Oll'c:atague~tpOMCft(llllhel'llanCJIOl'AugUSt~ ... ~aunryc.a Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library JANUARY2023 CIVIL RIG HTS AWARENESS Donate & Support GAYLYco• Tulsa's OkEq finding new ways to com b a t bigotry and hate Banned book!> al'ailable at OkEq '.,; Rainbow Library 1 .,.n ;, lh• .""1,,.. ••1.11° •1 o::~~;:~;:•,-d"pi°"'"'1,,·' 11 ~::;.:_,oa.,,1,'"ff" ,,,.,,,., '"''J'"' 'h::~~'.: l■ckwn fl ul n<> mot- www.gayly.aJIJl ~,:;~•~;: ,:~:~: ~,:~o~:•£~;r, :.:.,:•!;~~::~: :no~;;;~~~:: :~:,:,~:~~:~;•~f: : : ; 2; ~G YLY 1 ,~ Sc-< RAV'ii[ D.parc, U To request a library card from OkEq, to email the library or to support the Rainbow Library , visit libraryc at.org/l ib/Tuls aRainb owLibr ary 1 (888) 773-8267 Fo, 11~•«/IU. pro11d. • nJ I";,.,,, pl,11,,.,•cyup,rlmu . f.\[IIYD.\\· ~HAR.\IAC\' s r tCIALTY \ l rOICA I IO 'iS ,,,REVAN (1 - - - - - HEALT H 5601 NW 72.. Strttt If 142. OKC .,_,lln,.,,,,,._ ,--.;~.,,.,wlf al~-,_f-• R-it>. (405) 896-7975 ~-....._ ltrN11H~.,,1i.,..,. Our library director, Michelle Simmons, was recently featured in The Gayly! Read about our Rainbow Library and Banned Books, and come check out a book today at the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library! Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF = 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 23 Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A P ROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... make an appointment today. 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ BOARD AND TRUSTEES Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S8 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:33 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6e30fa8dce3b83df66484b5fff57ffe0.pdf 0f94d6326efc32d6cbbfbe38f7e10a78 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am to 6pm. 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality invites you again to our annual Equality Gala! This event serves as our anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the LGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. TICKETS 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIP VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES RSVP More details and information to come! 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." OKEQ x Tulsa Cares TDOV Statement Contact: Dorothy Ballard Interim Executive Director 918.743 .4297 dorothy. ba Ila rd@okeq.org •••• tulsacares Local Agencies Band Together to Recognize Transgender Day of Visibility Tu lsa, Okla ., March 31, 2023-Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) and Tulsa CARES stand in solidarity in recognizing Transgender Day of Visibility on March 31, 2023. On this day and every day, we honor the resilience, strength, and joy of transgender, Two-Spirit, and nonbinary people . We celebrate their activism, victories, and continued tenacity in the face of adversity. We reaffirm that transgender rights are human rights, empowering them to live authentically wh ile acknowledging that due to discrimination, not every trans person can or wants to be visible . We recognize the importance of representation, especially in a political climate filled with misinformation on the value of transgender, Two-Spirited, and nonbinary people. So today and every day, we will continue to echo their voices to our family, friends, neighbors, and colleagues who have yet to hear their joy. Transgender, Two-Spirit, and nonbinary people continue to break the barriers of visibili ty by holding office at all levels of government, running thriving businesses, serving proudly in our military, and cont ributing to our communit ies in count less meaningful ways . We stand committed to closing the gap to both access and care for our transgender, Two-Spirited, and nonbinary community. It is up to all of us to help ensure everyone is treated fairly, with compassion and 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... understanding. Together, we must strive for our state to be a place where everyone is welcomed with respect and dignity because we are all entitled to our bodily autonomy and self-determination. About Tulsa CARES Tulsa CARES was founded in 1991 and today serves as the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevent ion and care programs serving vulnerable individuals living with HIV and Hepatitis C (HCV) in Oklahoma. Recognizing the critical importance of addressing social determ inants of health to improve community health and reduce costs, Tulsa CARES aims to meet the unmet health and social needs of clients under one roof. Wrap-around, client-tailored care includes prevention, medical services, case management, health insurance and benefits navigation, prescription drug assistance, transportation, housing, mental health, and food and nutrition . The agency serves more than 1,000 clients annually across the 23 counties of Northeastern Oklahoma. For more information, visit http://www.tulsacares .org/. About OKEQ OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, all iances, and the operation of the Denn is R. Neill Equality Center. Serving LGBTQ+ Oklahomans and their allies since 1980, Oklahomans for Equality is home to a diverse, vibrant, and engaged community of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons, knowledgeable staff, and dedicated volunteers. For more information, visit http://www .okeg.org ##II For Trans Day of Visibility, we march from Tulsa Central Library to Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We were being visible in the heart of Tulsa! We thank those who donated, walked, and showed support for our Trans siblings! ❤ 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A PRIDlc2U2 AH MEMBRANE Congratulations to our newly crowned King of Tulsa Pride 2023, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2023, Karma Eclectic. ❤??????? Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, April 4th | 4:00p - 6:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, April 5th | 12p - 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 24 """ KA I' fl L l{ffe/'r' lcll'lL l{ffe.Fl"1f h n ,t ~ ~CURY LOLNGE, w - , . . .,,.., l//1 '"'""',. "'"' n -u..s• https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Wednesday, April 5th | 5:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included) and we hope some of you will join us! Join us at Mercury Lounge for our April meetup. Merc has a great indoor and patio space, they're dog friendly and we'll plan to hang outside if the weather cooperates! OBI x OKEQ Blood Drive Thursday, April 6th | 1pm-7pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Why not save a life? Join us for a Blood Drive with Oklahoma Blood Institute at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on April 6th, from 1p-7p. ? To schedule an appointment, contact Oklahoma Blood institute at 877.340.8777 or visit obi.org The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Ace Stiles Thursday, April 6th | 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Art Coming Soon Ace Stiles presents "I Think I Want Sex" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, April 6th, at 6pm. Refreshments sponsored by Starbucks. The exhibit will be on 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... display through the end of April. “I Think I Want Sex” is a representation of my inner world. As a chronic overthinker, I feel I have found myself at a crossroad – not quite accepted as an equal to my peers, but far beyond where I could be. I portray my thoughts of worry that I will never have the experiences of people my age, first kisses or dates, my anticipations for things to come, my impatience, my devastation, my hope. I use a range of mediums and sizes to express these notions, primarily abstract in nature and incorporating bold bright colors, and the written word. This show aims to hold your eye and let you feel seen.. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 Tulsa Pride Bingo Sunday, April 15th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo is a fundraiser for Tulsa Pride! Join us as we raise money, and enjoy entertainment from Pride Royalty and our newly crowned 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and 2023 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic, with our special guests Sasha Turrelle and Aurora Lekohl ✨ Hosted by Scrappy Legacy and Anita Richards Prizes from our Equality Business Alliance Members! An individual ticket is $25. An individual ticket with 3 drink tickets is $35. A table of 8 with an open bar is $300. Empire Slice House Tulsa sponsors food. Doors open at 6:30 pm. The game starts at 7pm. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room - Fresh Meat Saturday, April 15th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Tulsa Opera’s Filstrup Resident Artists are taking over the Lynn Riggs Theatre at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for ONE NIGHT ONLY! Join us downtown on Saturday, April 15th, to hear Tulsa’s premiere local talents sing spectacular arias, musical theatre hits, and popular tunes like never before! ULSA REALLY.a REALLYFREc MARKET Tulsa Really, Really Free Market A Community Shorrng Event E~erv 3rd Sunday Fu,n,1:~:1~•:;.~, • • 12P 'P I 1,21 E ,th St Hi:;~~~;':~;.,:.a_;:;;,•.,~d~::;j Sunday, April 16th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ Non-Binary Parent's Party 4.16.2 m I Equality Center Sunday, April 16th | 12p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Join us on April 16th at 12pm for a party celebrating Non-binary parents! All who identify as any gender variant identity that falls under the Non-Binary umbrella are welcome to bring their kids to this family-friendly event. Genderqueer, agender, Two Spirit, gendefluid, demiboy, demigirl, or Intersex? You're welcome here! Binary Trans parents and gendernonconforming cis parents are totally welcome, too. Won't have your children that day? You're still welcome to join us! There will be a light lunch, crafts, coloring, family pictures, and more in the Wellness room upstairs in the Equality Center. Be sure to stay for the Really, Really Free Market in the Event center, too! Questions? Email tulsaintersectionalcarenetwork@gmail. com or text Fern at 918-808-8076 EQ.Yu~~lI!~ JM'41•-■,l,,i; Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, April 27th | 6p Dogtopia 8170 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK, 74137 RSVP Join us for our EBA Mixer with Dogtopia 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... At Dogtopia, we’re a unique breed. We love and care for your pup like they are our own. We realize that your dog is a furry member of your family, and they deserve the highest level of care. With our award-winning daycare, boarding, and spa services, you’ll be treating your pup to its most exciting day ever! https://www.dogtopia.com/southtulsa The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information Little Blue Lip Sync Friday, April 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Join us for a night of lip sync, drag, and raunchy games! Enjoy local performers, both professional and amateur, while supporting the LGBTQ+ community. In addition to entertainment, a cash bar and complimentary dinner will be provided where we finally figure out who wins in Bell v. Bueno. 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Some of you may know our spring event by its former name, however we have rebranded in an effort to avoid playing into damaging mental health stigmas. While the name is different, this night promises to be a blast! Miss Gay Oklahoma America Saturday, May 6th | 8:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Join us on May 6th for the 45th annual Miss Gay Oklahoma America! RSVP Showtime 8p General Admission $25 Reserved Seating $30 -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield CLINIC and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Commumty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln MemoniWTI Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett 1947 - 2022 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Steve Walley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member March, 1948 - Feb 1, 2022 Steve was owner of Silver Star, a popular night spot in Tulsa. He is survived by his husband and partner of 40 years John Rothrock. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 24 Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @@mcll@IT ~ffil])l]XID~ @IT®ffil]) IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 24 + + https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule a interview call 918.743.4297. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. -,!, SCREAM _ _ __ __.,,_ IT FILM IT Flm a llhart - ~. , , ~ PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... - _r: ·11111 YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: l. _,,., OKEQllllNI.Jlory © __- _ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library YOUI VOICE Belongs VoL.- VOICE IS Vahd The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES t,,npeign 10 raise l,,nds and support lo, our library seeks to increase eccess 10 and scope: ol LBGTOIA• ma1e091s Donate 10d8yl Q. Searchfor ~ . , ...,,_ rrost..,TWI l!WOM'lon l l e l f ~ CM~IISl)OMOred ll~IKll'IOl" lorAugl,!St~ • ~ • uir.,,car-a Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library JANUARY2023 CIVIL RIGHTS AWARENESS Donate & Support GAYLY.coM b • try and hate Tulsa's OkEq finding new ways to combat ,go Banned htJoks available at OkEq's Rainbow Library ,0 """ ;, lhc onhne caulog • 1 To request a library card from OkEq, to email the library or to support the Rainbow Library, visit librarycat.org/lib/TulsaRainbowLibrary n,,_,....,,.,:.r, 1-oo1,• ,1ro, 0•"'1PiwaNJ,,,..••""" -:i~;l~•:i:~::i~:;;,y Dim/o, £1.h<r< " on< ,.,o,d -•~al ~k:l•:i ~:~:~:~~:~:i: :~ ~•: •; a:001> lo thccoll«1ion REV2tJ.E?x I I I l (888) 773-8267 F a n , ~ r , ( ' nr,,u,I dnAnr'-•• n•••-•-• n - - ' -•• 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Our library director, Michelle Simmons, was recently featured in The Gayly! Read about our Rainbow Library and Banned Books, and come check out a book today at the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library! Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE ' 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SUPPORT TODAY OKEQ BOARD AND TRUSTEES Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:33 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/25933a6d03dbad421c10315bc67007fe.pdf 26b92976ab9ea6c1651280c7adebadf4 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am to 6pm. 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality invites you again to our annual Equality Gala! This event serves as our anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the LGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. TICKETS 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 1013 Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIP VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES RSVP Meet and Greet 6:30pm - 7 :15pm $30 .00 Meet and Greet 6:30pm - 7 :15pm $30 .00 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Meet & Greet Tickets Meet & Greet Tickets Congratulations to our newly crowned King of Tulsa Pride 2023, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2023, Karma Eclectic. ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Vote for Oklahomans for Equality for Best Event - Nonprofit (Equality Gala) and Best Festival (Tulsa Pride) Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." Upcoming Special Events r..... HIVT-tfns, Free HIV Testing ■ v..-.,,-.,..-..:1-., f'rom 4pm - 8prnl 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tuesday, April 11th | 4:00p - 6:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, April 11th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first come first serve basis". Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, then she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org . Office phone is (918)295-9429. Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, April 12th | 12p - 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Name & Gender Marker Correction Clinic Wednesday, April 12th | 5:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process and those who are interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Tulsa Pride Bingo Sunday, April 15th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo is a fundraiser for Tulsa Pride! Join us as we raise money, and enjoy 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... entertainment from Pride Royalty and our newly crowned 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic, with our special guests Sasha Turrelle and Aurora Lekohl ✨ Hosted by Scrappy Legacy and Anita Richards Prizes from our Equality Business Alliance Members! An individual ticket is $25. An individual ticket with 3 drink tickets is $35. A table of 8 with an open bar is $300. Empire Slice House Tulsa sponsors food. Doors open at 6:30 pm. The game starts at 7pm. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Saturday, April 15th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Tulsa Opera’s Filstrup Resident Artists are taking over the Lynn Riggs Theatre at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for ONE NIGHT ONLY! Join us downtown on Saturday, April 15th, to hear Tulsa’s premiere local talents sing spectacular arias, musical theatre hits, and popular tunes like never before! il'ULSA REALLY.a REALLYFREc MARKET Tulsa Really, Really Free Market A Community Sharing Ev ent Every !rd Sunday Fu,n ,t:~~t~•;_~,•, 12p 'P I 621 E ~th St H;.~~~;':';::.,:.a~;:, •a~:~;:;; Sunday, April 16th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ Non-Binary Parent's Party 4.16.2 m I Equality Center Sunday, April 16th | 12p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Join us on April 16th at 12pm for a party celebrating Non-binary parents! All who identify as any gender variant identity that falls under the Non-Binary umbrella are welcome to bring their kids to this family-friendly event. Genderqueer, agender, Two Spirit, gendefluid, demiboy, demigirl, or Intersex? You're welcome here! Binary Trans parents and gendernonconforming cis parents are totally welcome, too. Won't have your children that day? You're still welcome to join us! There will be a light lunch, crafts, coloring, family pictures, and more in the Wellness room upstairs in the Equality Center. Be sure to stay for the Really, Really Free Market in the Event center, too! Questions? Email tulsaintersectionalcarenetwork@gmail. com or text Fern at 918-808-8076 EQ.Yu~~lI!-!. JM'41•-■'1w Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, April 27th | 6p Dogtopia 8170 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK, 74137 RSVP 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Join us for our EBA Mixer with Dogtopia At Dogtopia, we’re a unique breed. We love and care for your pup like they are our own. We realize that your dog is a furry member of your family, and they deserve the highest level of care. With our award-winning daycare, boarding, and spa services, you’ll be treating your pup to its most exciting day ever! https://www.dogtopia.com/southtulsa The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, April 27th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 East 4th St., Pride Sreet, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tickets Together Again for the First Time! After performing together for years at various charity events, The Piano Player and The Crooner team up for a special one-night-only concert “From Swing to the Sixties: Stories Behind the Songs.” 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Presenting Swing Era songs from “Angel Eyes” to prom favorites such as “Sleep Walk,” Pat Hobbs, and John Hamill bring back memories with performances of, and stories behind million-selling popular songs. Tickets: 36 Bistro at $20 60 GA at $15 Little Blue Lip Sync Friday, April 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Join us for a night of lip sync, drag, and raunchy games! Enjoy local performers, both professional and amateur, while supporting the LGBTQ+ community. In addition to entertainment, a cash bar and complimentary dinner will be provided where we finally figure out who wins in Bell v. Bueno. Some of you may know our spring event by its former name, however we have rebranded in an effort to avoid playing into damaging mental health stigmas. While the name is different, this night promises to be a blast! The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Ace Stiles The Month of April | Open during center hours Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Ace Stiles presents "I Think I Want Sex" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, April 6th, at 6pm. Refreshments sponsored 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... by Starbucks. The exhibit will be on display through the end of April. “I Think I Want Sex” is a representation of my inner world. As a chronic overthinker, I feel I have found myself at a crossroad – not quite accepted as an equal to my peers, but far beyond where I could be. I portray my thoughts of worry that I will never have the experiences of people my age, first kisses or dates, my anticipations for things to come, my impatience, my devastation, my hope. I use a range of mediums and sizes to express these notions, primarily abstract in nature and incorporating bold bright colors, and the written word. This show aims to hold your eye and let you feel seen.. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 Miss Gay Oklahoma America TICKETS RSVP 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Saturday, May 6th | 8:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on May 6th for the 45th annual Miss Gay Oklahoma America! Showtime 8p General Admission $25 Reserved Seating $30 OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-f- OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield CLINIC and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Commumty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Il111 Memoniaum 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Steve Walley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member March, 1948 - Feb 1, 2022 Steve was owner of Silver Star, a popular night spot in Tulsa. He is survived by his husband and partner of 40 years John Rothrock. In Memoriam Submissions 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Programming Brou.gl11t "I1o Yo1111 Bi "f111l~ Letter Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @@TID.cfil®IT ~ffi]]))]XID~ @IT@ffi]]) IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris + + and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule a interview call 918.743.4297. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT -!i ------..-FILM IT Fhaahort-pemrmoncecr~ PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo- a collage or self - portrait ~ YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: l. 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There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library JANUARY2023 CIVIL RIGHTS AWARENES S Donate & Support GAYLYCOM b' otry and bate Tulsa's OkEq finding new w~ys to ~om b a t ,g Banned boo•s available ot o•Eq 's Rainbow L,brory 10 1,.,1 ;, "'• onhme c•talog •• i~Etl l~iii 'IPl)'ly.a,m LY the isit S«;IIA'i:'li[D.page IS 1 (888) 773-8267 p,,,,, pe#uful, proud. ""d p,;,,,,,~ p}ta,,.,aq tx~rir1t~r. r\'ERY D.W ~II AR\IACl' SPECIALTY \IFIIICA"I IU'IS 'iO.'<-l>TLKJ LE CO\l,OL l<D1~·c ,·r.r~RI'< \RV CflMPOU<o11<c LOC,1.1. 1u;L1Y[R\' OKC .\IETRO AREA D/$CRfJ£11.X/'ICKUP ll - - - - ' ' REVAN tt,..n H.. HEALTH ~1r,.,. 5.;6!~ :::...:~::;o1~1!2,;!.!~~Mforoll-,,s. (405) 896-7975 ,.....,.,11.,..,_,.,,Hlllt.ro,,. Our library director, Michelle Simmons, was recently featured in The Gayly! Read about our Rainbow Library and Banned Books, and come check out a book today at the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library! 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE 1 okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY !·~ ~ IIUIIIUI 1111111111 •m!!!!!• 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ BOARD AND TRUSTEES Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S8 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:34 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6643de0d52c13f99cd09e09dffb7733c.pdf 25bdf60276f1aeff2ab7175230946476 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am to 6pm. 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality invites you again to our annual Equality Gala! With special performances by Branjae and Black Queer Tulsa! This event serves as our anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. TICKETS RSVP Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIP VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES RSVP 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... t and G pm-7 :1 $30.00 Meet & Greet Tickets Meet & Greet Tickets a in bow Run- Friday June 2 Fun Run at 7pm-Sk 7:30pm e~tivrll Rt Prlrrlrle- Srlturrlrlv June ?4 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ---· - -· ~. -· - - - ----·· -·-J - -· ·- - Gates Open at 12pm-10pm • -· Pride In The Park- Sunday June 25th 12pm-Spm ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... VOTE FO R US FOR THE 20 23 A-LIST! 1 1 VISIT TULSAPEOPLE.COM/A-LIST APRIL 1-16 TO SUBMIT YOUR VOTES AND YOU COULD WIN ONE OF FIVE PRIZES VALUED AT $50-$200! Vote for Oklahomans for Equality for Best Event - Nonprofit (Equality Gala) and Best Festival (Tulsa Pride) 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKLAHOMANS FOR E®ALITY Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." Homicide Investigation Update Incident #2023-00023246 Date and Time: 04-09-2023 at approxitnately 0733 hours Location: SW Coombs RD near SW 38 th Street Victim: Stephens, Clayton Suspect(s): Unknown Disposition: Detectives are currently investigating a homicide that happened on 04-09-2023 . Officers responded to SW Coombs RD near SW 38 th Street on a report of a possible deceased individual. When officers arrived, they located a deceased male, later identified at Clayton Stephens. The Oklahoma Medical Examiner has taken Mr. Stephens' body and will conduct an autopsy for an official cause of death. The Lawton Police Department will release more information as it becomes available. If you have any information or witnessed anything, please contact the Lawton Police Department at 580-581-3272. You can remain anonymous and contact Crime Stoppers of Southwest Okl~hom~ ~t ~R0-1 -4616 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... -ENDKSWO News Story GoFundMe Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, April 18th | 4:00p - 6:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, April 12th | 12p - 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. EQ.Yu~~lI!.!. 1,,,,,•••,4,,; Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, April 27th | 6p 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dogtopia 8170 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK, 74137 RSVP Join us for our EBA Mixer with Dogtopia At Dogtopia, we’re a unique breed. We love and care for your pup like they are our own. We realize that your dog is a furry member of your family, and they deserve the highest level of care. With our award-winning daycare, boarding, and spa services, you’ll be treating your pup to its most exciting day ever! https://www.dogtopia.com/southtulsa The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, April 27th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 East 4th St., Pride Sreet, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tickets Together Again for the First Time! After performing together for years at 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... various charity events, The Piano Player and The Crooner team up for a special one-night-only concert “From Swing to the Sixties: Stories Behind the Songs.” Presenting Swing Era songs from “Angel Eyes” to prom favorites such as “Sleep Walk,” Pat Hobbs, and John Hamill bring back memories with performances of, and stories behind million-selling popular songs. Tickets: 36 Bistro at $20 60 GA at $15 Little Blue Lip Sync Friday, April 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Join us for a night of lip sync, drag, and raunchy games! Enjoy local performers, both professional and amateur, while supporting the LGBTQ+ community. In addition to entertainment, a cash bar and complimentary dinner will be provided where we finally figure out who wins in Bell v. Bueno. Some of you may know our spring event by its former name, however we have rebranded in an effort to avoid playing into damaging mental health stigmas. While the name is different, this night promises to be a blast! The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Ace Stiles The Month of April | Open during center hours Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Ace Stiles presents "I Think I Want Sex" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, April 6th, at 6pm. Refreshments sponsored by Starbucks. The exhibit will be on display through the end of April. “I Think I Want Sex” is a representation of my inner world. As a chronic overthinker, I feel I have found myself at a crossroad – not quite accepted as an equal to my peers, but far beyond where I could be. I portray my thoughts of worry that I will never have the experiences of people my age, first kisses or dates, my anticipations for things to come, my impatience, my devastation, my hope. I use a range of mediums and sizes to express these notions, primarily abstract in nature and incorporating bold bright colors, and the written word. This show aims to hold your eye and let you feel seen.. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 Miss Gay Oklahoma America Saturday, May 6th | 8:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on May 6th for the 45th annual Miss Gay Oklahoma America! TICKETS RSVP Showtime 8p 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... General Admission $25 Reserved Seating $30 iTULSA REALLY.a REALLYFREc MARKEiT Tulsa Really, Really Free Market A Community Sharong Event Every3rdSunday 12P'Pl1>21E ,thSt ~'A~1••Hp'j~~~;':H;.,;.no:;;, a~d.i,:;:;j Fu,n,1:~:1 0 Sunday, May 21st | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield CLINIC and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Commumty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln Memoniaurn Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Jonathan Stanley Steve Walley Paul Wayne Gossett 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member March, 1948 - Feb 1, 2022 Steve was owner of Silver Star, a popular night spot in Tulsa. He is survived by his husband and partner of 40 years John Rothrock. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Bro1111glllt !if1o You, Bi l~llle Letter Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @i@rncll@IT ~Dn]])!P])Iffi @IT@Dn]]) O~@O@O@ (!D@l@l ~g 'u'(!D11,§ £ 'u'W@ - § (;e)O~O'u' IndigiQueer is a space Sin Fronteras es un The program is 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris + + movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule a interview call 918.743.4297. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. -,!, SCREAM _ _ __ __.,,_ IT PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo- a collage or self - portrait ~ ~ - -...... -,,.,.. Uol"IDdlu, ClckCOla::=....-va:.V:--...:=.~--- YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: l. 0Kll0 1'111.11Ulory © ~ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE BekJng5 Yow VOICE 15 WIii The 2022-2023 OUR votCES ~ lo rBM kmds and 5tippor1 lor c u ~ seeks lo n:reese aa:@55 lo and 5C098 of LBGTOIA• mllleoal5 Donale t>deyl Seat:htor Q. ~IOUlfllFrmtanclllffl~Olllhel'wecdllg 011'~1SsponMR(llnftet'110n01kll'AUglllt~ ... Reql,etl11..D1ryc.a 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library Donate & Support Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE ' 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SUPPORT TODAY OKEQ BOARD AND TRUSTEES Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:36 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/bda8baf50b25ad48d8c7ea6a16abd17e.pdf e25a6981691f280dba90c33f1b66ad3c PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am to 6pm. 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality invites you again to our annual Equality Gala! With special performances by Branjae and Black Queer Tulsa! This event serves as our anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the LGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. TICKETS RSVP BQT & OKEQ PRESENTS 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 9:30 ------------ CO H BUSIHESS CEHTER ~ ?????Hold that pose for me! Join BQT & OKEQ at the Afro Punk Kiki Ball! It’s going down on May 13th, 9:30 at the Cox Business Center. Battle it out in three classic categories for the ultimate prize of not only cash but also the coveted bragging rights in Tulsa Ballroom. AFRO PUNK KIKI BALL TICKETS 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Bring your best punk looks, collect your 10s & leave it on the floor! 8013 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIP VOLUNTEER RAINBOW RUN VENDORS PARADE ENTRIES Tulsa Pride TULSA PRIDE 2023 Tees and Tanks are Now Available for Pre-Order! OKEQ is excited to partner with Flash Flood Print Studios for Tulsa Pride 2023! Your purchase goes directly to supporting Tulsa Pride festivities and 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality’s continuing mission of protecting the rights of 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Order now! Pre-orders end at Midnight on Sunday, May 21. Orders will be ready on Friday, June 2 for shipping or pickup at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ???⚧ Meet & Greet Tickets Meet & Greet Tickets Main Stage Tulsa Pride 2023 0 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ainbow Run-Friday June 23rd Fun Run at 7pm-5k at 7:30pm Gates Open at 5pm-10pm Festival & Parade -Saturday June24th Gates Open at 12pm-10pm Pride in The Park-Sunday June 25th 12pm-5pm Isa Pride 20 icah Membra Karma Eclec ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Vote for Oklahomans for Equality for Best Event - Nonprofit (Equality Gala) and Best Festival (Tulsa Pride) Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120) A fashion show with a mission to include foster youth and ensure they have access to the same opportunities and support to thrive in the face of adversity. • Launching You Are the Prize Merchandise • Featuring New Aromatherapy Shop LVDR • Performances by Local Tulsa Talent • Sneaker Raffle • And More! It's time to mark your calendars and get ready for an evening that will warm your heart and uplift your soul! ? Join us on May 19th for the Threads of Change Fashion Show, presented by You Are the Prize featuring LVDR as we celebrate and honor foster youth, and empower them with the opportunities they deserve. ?? Get ready to immerse yourself in an amazing event filled with local Tulsa talent performances, an indoor vendor market highlighting Tulsa artisans and small businesses, and exciting giveaways and a sneaker raffle to benefit Youth Services of Tulsa & Tulsa Individuals in Need. Tickets coming soon! 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Homicide Investigation Update Incident #2023-00023246 Date and Time: 04-09-2023 at approxitnately 0733 hours Location: SW Coombs RD near SW 38 th Street Victim: Stephens, Clayton Suspect(s): Unknown Disposition: Detectives are currently investigating a homicide that happened on 04-09-2023 . Officers responded to SW Coombs RD near SW 38 th Street on a report of a possible deceased individual. When officers arrived, they located a deceased male, later identified at Clayton Stephens. The Oklahoma Medical Examiner has taken Mr. Stephens' body and will conduct an autopsy for an official cause of death. The Lawton Police Department will release more information as it becomes available. If you have any information or witnessed anything, please contact the Lawton Police Department at 580-581-3272. You can remain anonymous and contact Crime Stoppers of Southwest Oklahoma at 580-355-4636. -ENDKSWO News Story Get hel applying for GoFundMe 1S upplemental : ~!~~\i;;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friend ly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espafiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, April 25th | 4:00p - 6:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, April 26th | 12p - 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. EQ.Yu~~lI!.!. fH1'41•-■"'- Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, April 27th | 6p Dogtopia 8170 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK, 74137 RSVP Join us for our EBA Mixer with Dogtopia At Dogtopia, we’re a unique breed. We love and care for your pup like they are our own. We realize that your dog is a furry member of your family, and they deserve the highest level of care. With our award-winning daycare, boarding, and spa services, you’ll be treating your pup to its most exciting day ever! https://www.dogtopia.com/southtulsa The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, April 27th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 East 4th St., Pride Sreet, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tickets Together Again for the First Time! After performing together for years at various charity events, The Piano Player and The Crooner team up for a special one-night-only concert “From Swing to the Sixties: Stories Behind the Songs.” Presenting Swing Era songs from “Angel Eyes” to prom favorites such as “Sleep Walk,” Pat Hobbs, and John Hamill bring back memories with performances of, and stories behind million-selling popular songs. Tickets: 36 Bistro at $20 60 GA at $15 Little Blue Lip Sync Friday, April 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Join us for a night of lip sync, drag, and raunchy games! Enjoy local performers, both professional and amateur, while supporting the LGBTQ+ community. In addition to entertainment, a cash bar and complimentary dinner will be provided where we finally figure out who wins in Bell v. Bueno. Some of you may know our spring event by its former name, however we have rebranded in an effort to avoid playing into damaging mental health stigmas. While the name is different, this night promises to be a blast! 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Ace Stiles The Month of April | Open during center hours Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Ace Stiles presents "I Think I Want Sex" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, April 6th, at 6pm. Refreshments sponsored by Starbucks. The exhibit will be on display through the end of April. “I Think I Want Sex” is a representation of my inner world. As a chronic overthinker, I feel I have found myself at a crossroad – not quite accepted as an equal to my peers, but far beyond where I could be. I portray my thoughts of worry that I will never have the experiences of people my age, first kisses or dates, my anticipations for things to come, my impatience, my devastation, my hope. I use a range of mediums and sizes to express these notions, primarily abstract in nature and incorporating bold bright colors, and the written word. This show aims to hold your eye and let you feel seen.. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Tammye Randle RSVP The Month of May | Open during center hours Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tammye Randle presents at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, May 4th, at 6pm. The exhibit will be on display through the end of May. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 Miss Gay Oklahoma America Saturday, May 6th | 8:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on May 6th for the 45th annual Miss Gay Oklahoma America! TICKETS RSVP Showtime 8p General Admission $25 Reserved Seating $30 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LGBTQ+ Tulsa Community Forum Tuesday, May 9th | 10a Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 REGISTER RSVP We want to hear from you! How can the Alzheimer's Association better serve the LGBTQ+ Community in the Greater Tulsa area? Join us for a community forum to share your views on Alzheimer's and dementia care in the community and how we can help. Contact Jacob Guinan at jbguinan@alz.org for more information. iTULSA REALLY.a REALLYFREc MARKET Tulsa Really, Really Free Market A Community Shar,ng Ev ent Every !rd Sunday • llp ~p I 1>21 E ~th St Fu,n,t:~:1~'A~1••HPl:~~;':H:..:.80:::, a~d~::;j 0 Sunday, May 21st | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-fCLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. If you are interested in starting or transferring Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Illl1 MlemoniWTI Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Steve Walley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member March, 1948 - Feb 1, 2022 Steve was owner of Silver Star, a popular night spot in Tulsa. He is survived by his husband and partner of 40 years John Rothrock. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Bro1111,gltt T 0 You. Bi 1-.;Ite Letter 1 Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 For more information email Daniel ~cll@rr ~Dn]])If®lru @IT®ffi]]) O~@O@l0(£)CkD§§~~ 'D'Ck!Jlb§& 'D'W@=§IPO~O'D' IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris + + Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule a interview call 918.743.4297. The purpose of the group is to provide We are a Social Group that identifies as ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 27 for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. -,!, SCREAM _ _ __ __.,,_ IT FILM IT Flm a llhart - ~. , , ~ FINCER PAINT IT Create digital art, color penc,1, or drawing PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: 1. OKl:Q lUINuon,,y © - -,.& _ _ _ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library YOU/ VOICE Belongs Vol.l'VOICE is Vahd The 2022 2023 OUR VOICES t,,npeign 10 raise funds and support lof our library seeks to ncreeseeccess IOand sccpe: oflBGTOIA• mateoels Donate 10deyl 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0. Seardllor ~IOMMFIVltaMTfflBIOWflonlhel''ftCdllg Oll'c:atague~tpOMCft(llllhel'llonCJIOl'AugUSt~ ... ~II.DlryClfU Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library Donate & Support Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ - The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 25 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... persons. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A P ROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE 1 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 26 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SUPPORT TODAY OKEQ BOARD AND TRUSTEES Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 27 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Shelta Sneed 080S9 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:37 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0708c331d7a18510e1ad4c048de1cce8.pdf 752e6aea9e4dc05a43e07c67980307dc PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! 1/16 Bowling League 7p Martin Luther King Jr. Day 1/17 OKEQ Health Clinic 9a-5p OKEQ Seniors I0a-lp FREE HIV Testing 4p-6p 1/18 1/19 1/20 1/21 • • . • . . .. • •• • • • OkEq Board Meeting 6p Veteran Support Group 6p SCOUTS Troop 6:30p ,i b Room 7p OKEQ Health Clinic lp-4p Closed The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is closed to the general public Monday, January 16th in recognition of Martin Luther King Jr. Day. Letter From the President Dear Friends, 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We hope this letter finds you safe, warm, and in the company of those most important in your life. As temperatures drop and days slow down, I begin again to reflect. To celebrate the successes of the waning year while looking to the incredible opportunities ahead. Together, we have moved through significant triumphs and adjustments here at OkEq. There is much to be grateful for as we count our blessings and look ahead. Over the last year, and under the guidance of former President Stacy Turner, we had the most successful Gala and Pride events in the organization's history. Over 700 attendees joined us for our Gala, while Pride welcomed its largest number of vendors and participants since its inception. We also navigated staffing, Board, and program adjustments. Most recently, pausing some events and programs along with slightly reduced center hours (noon to 8 pm weekdays) as we turn inward to focus on the infrastructure needed to keep OkEq thriving well into the future. Moving into 2023, we are building on our successes with committees preparing for the Gala and Pride to be even bigger and concentrate on celebrating every single one of you. Supporting that is the first segment of our interim Executive Directors strategic plan for OkEq, the Three Ps — People, Programs, and Purpose. Here are some of the exciting things you can expect through January: • Defined employee roles and additions to staff and volunteers • New financial protocols for efficiency and accountability • Safety improvements, including a new camera system and intercoms • Expanded support group offerings • The return of youth and young adult programs • New education and outreach training through OkEq and select partners • The first details about our new counseling initiatives • A return to standard operating hours at the Center • Website and social media refreshes As you can see, these are exciting times! We invite you in this season of reflection, generosity, and hope, to share the great work happening at OkEq and encourage your networks to consider giving or matching your support of our growing services. There is no end destination in our work, and we remain ever focused and full of gratitude for your support of OkEq. On behalf of the OkEq Staff, Board, and Trustees, I wish you all a very warm and happy Holiday Season! Sincerely, Bob Hanson Board President Board President Updates MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT HI , OKEQ MEMBERS . I WANTED TO TAKE A MOMENT TO INTRODUCE MYSELF. I AM BOB HANSON AND HAVE STEPPED INTO THE ROLE OF BOARD PRESIDENT FOR OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY. AFTER SERVING THE MEMBERS AND CENTER FOR THE LAST YEAR , STACY TURNER HAS TAKEN SOME VERY WELL EARNED TIME OFF TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY IN DIFFERENT WAYS. I CANNOT EXPRESS ENOUGH HOW GRATEFUL WE AS THE BOARD ARE FOR HER GUIDANCE AND LEADERSHIP OVER THE LAST YEAR ; SHE HAS GUIDED US THROUGH SOME OF THE TOUGHEST TIMES OKEQ HAS EVER SEEN . 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... THIS YEAR HAS BEEN A YEAR OF MANY CHANCES FOR THE CENTER - SOME COOD AND SOME BAD. THE STAFF AT THE CENTER HAS BEEN THROUCH SO MUCH , AND WE ARE SO CRATEFUL FOR THEIR DEDICATION TO THE CENTER AND THE COMMUNITY THEY SERVE . OUR STAFF IS AMAZINC AND HAS BEEN WORKINC SO HARD TO HELP KEEP THE IMPORTANT SERVICES THE CENTER PROVIDES AVAILABLE . AS WE TAKE THE NEXT STEPS , THERE ARE A LOT OF EXCITINC NEW THINCS OKEQ WILL BE FOCUSINC ON. BUT UNFORTUNATELY, EVENTS OVER THE LAST SEVERAL WEEKS HAVE REMINDED ALL OF US WHY THE WORK OF THE CENTER IS SO IMPORTANT. THE VIOLENT ATTACKS AT THE DONUT HOLE (PLEASE SHOW YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE TO THEM) ARE A SOBERINC REMINDER THAT WE STILL HAVE WORK TO DO. WE ARE ALSO FOCUSED ON FICHTINC THE ATTACK ON CENDER AFFIRMINC CARE. THE RECENT PASSACE AND SICNINC OF SENATE BILL 3XX PROHIBITS OU HEALTH FROM PROVIDINC CENDER AFFIRMINC CARE AS A CONDITION OF RECEIVINC FEDERAL AMERICAN RESCUE PLAN DOLLARS FOR THE EXPANSION OF CHILDREN'S BEHAVIORAL HEALTH FACILITIES . LECISLATORS HAVE ALREADY EXPRESSED A DESIRE TO BAN CENDER - AFFIRMINC CARE TO MINORS STATEWIDE IN THE 2023 LECISLATIVE SESSION . WHEN SENATE BILL 3XX WAS SICNED, OUR BOARD SECRETARY , ERIC WILSON , SENT A SIMPLE BUT POWERFUL EMAIL THAT SAID , " THIS MAKES ME SO MAD . ALL THIS WILL DO IS HURT KIDS ." I HAVEN 'T STOPPED THINKINC ABOUT THAT EMAIL , AND IT HAS BECOME A BATTLE CRY FOR ME. OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO FICHT ACAINST THE HATE AND VIOLENCE THAT TARCETS OUR COMMUNITY. OKEQ WILL BE A SAFE PLACE FOR ALL WITHIN THE LCBTQIAA + COMMUNITY ACAINST WHATEVER IS THROWN AT US, NOT OUT OF HATE FOR OTHERS, BUT FOR THE LOVE OF OUR COMMUNITY. THIS IS WHY WE FICHT - SO ALL MAY KNOW LOVE WINS AND WILL PREVAIL. HUMBLED AND HONORED, BOB HANSON ~ 11 . 0 7 . 2 2 11.07.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT AS I WRITE THIS ON THE EVEN INC OF THE MIDTERM ELECTIONS , I AM FILLED WITH EMOTION AND REMINDED THAT TRANSFORMATIONAL CHANCE TAKES TIME , PATIENCE AND AN UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO PUSH TH ROUCH CHALLENCES . THERE HAVE BEEN MANY CHANCES AT OKEQ RECENTLY . THOSE CHANCES MAY BE HARD TO ACCEPT FOR SOME IN OUR COMMUNITY BUT ARE DUE IN PART TO THE CROWTH OF OUR ORCANIZATION . IT IS MY HOPE THAT THIS MESSACE WILL HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHERE WE ARE TODAY AND WHY YOUR SUPPORT IS ESSENTIAL TO OUR FUTURE . OKEQ BECAN AS A SMALL ORCANIZATION RUN BY VOLUNTEERS . OVER THE YEARS , DRIVEN BY THE NEEDS OF OUR COMMUNITY , OKEQ CREW TO A LARCE CENTER REQUIRINC BOTH A FULL STAFF AND VOLUNTEERS . THIS CROWTH HAPPENED QUICKLY , AND THE STAFF , VOLUNTEERS , AND BOARD OF DIRECTORS WORKED TO SUSTAIN US TH ROUCH THIS EVOLUTION . THEIR PASSION FOR OKEQ IS WHAT LED TO AMAZINC ACCOMPLISHMENTS , EVEN IN THE FACE OF AN ADVERSE AND EVEN HOSTILE POLITICAL CLIMATE . AS WE SOUCHT TO RESPOND TO OVERWHELMINC DEMAND FOR THE SERVICES OKEQ PROVIDES , WE DID NOT ESTABLISH THE ADEQUATE ACCOUNTABILITY MEASURES A HEALTHY AND CROWINC ORCANIZATION NEEDS , PARTICULARLY IN TERMS OF FISCAL OVERSICHT. WE BELIEVE IN TRANSPARENCY AND ACCOUNTABILITY AND WANT OUR COMMUNITY TO KNOW : • IN OUR WORK TO ASSESS THE ORCANIZATION ' S CURRENT FINANCIAL STATE , THE BOARD IDENTIFIED IRRECULARITIES IN THE FINANCES OVERSEEN BY OKEQ ' S VOLUNTEER TREASURER : • WE TOOK IMMEDIATE ACTION IN RESPONSE TO THIS FINDINC , AND THE TREASURER IS NO LONCER INVOLVED WITH OKEQ: • WE MET WITH OUR FUNDERS AND PHILANTHROPIC PARTNERS TO MAKE THEM AWARE OF THE SITUATION : • WITH THE CONTINUED SUPPORT OF OUR FUNDERS , WE COMPLETED A COMPETITIVE REQUEST FOR PROPOSALS PROCESS AND ENCACED A NEW ACCOUNTINC FIRM : •WEARE WORKINC WITH THAT FIRM AND WITH OTHER PARTNERS TO COMPLETE A COMPREHENSIVE FINANCIAL RECONCILIATION PROCESS AND BUILD A NEW INFRASTRUCTURE TO ENSURE THAT EVERY DOLLAR IS ACCOUNTED FOR AND USED FOR ITS INTENDED PURPOSE . IMPORTANTLY , WE ARE SHARI NC THIS UPDATE AND THE INFORMATION WE HAVE AVAILABLE AT THIS TIME WITH THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER MOST - YOU . OKEQ EXISTS TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY AND WE ARE WORKINC URCENTLY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ CAN BE FINANCIALLY VIABLE AND CAN SUSTAIN FOR CENERATIONS TO COME . YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS NOW MORE THAN EVER . MOVINC FORWARD , WE ARE DETERMININC WHAT PROCRAMS AND SERVICES WILL LOOK LIKE FOR THE NEXT FEW MONTHS . I WILL BE SHARINC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT OUR SCHEDULE SOON . IN THE MEANTIME , I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR YOUR STEADFAST COMMITMENT TO OKEQ AND TO SUPPORTINC OUR COMMUNITY TO BE SAFE , HEALTHY AND THRIVINC . SINCERELY BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT ~ 11 . 1 4. 2 2 11.14.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT DEAR FRIENDS , THE WINTER HOLIDAY SEASON IS A TIME FOR CRATITUDE , AND THIS VEAR I AM PROFOUNDLY CRATEFUL FOR THE OVERWHELMINC SUPPORT WE HAVE SEEN FROM THE OKEQ COMMUNITY DURINC THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSACES OF SUPPORT AND YOUR UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO OUR WORK ON BEHALF OF THE LCBTQ + COMMUNITY . AS YOU MAY KNOW , LAST SPRINC WE CELEBRATED TOBY JENKINS ' 26 YEARS OF LEADERSHIP AS EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF OKEQ AND WISHED HIM THE BEST ON HIS WELL - EARNED RETIREMENT TO SPEND TIME WITH HIS FAMILY . ESPECIALLY HIS CRANDCHILDREN . OVER THE LAST FIVE MONTHS , THE BOARD HAS BEEN WORKINC TO IDENTIFY A NEW LEADER TO HELP STRENCTHEN AND SUSTAIN OUR MISSION AND THE LECACY OF TOBY ' S WORK TH ROUCH THE MANY EVENTS , PROCRAMS , AND RESOURCES THAT OKEQ PROVIDES IN SERVINC YOU , OUR COMMUNITY . ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS , I AM THRILLED TO ANNOUNCE THAT DOROTHY BALLARD HAS JOINED OKEQ AS OUR NEW INTERIM EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR . AFTER A COMPETITIVE INTERVIEW PROCESS , THE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE OF THE BOARD RECOMMENDED DOROTHY BECAUSE OF HER KNOWLEDCE , DEDICATION , AND PASSION FOR THE MISSION OF OKEQ . SHE BRINCS MORE THAN 15 YEARS OF EXPERIENCE IN COMMUNICATIONS . MARKETINC . AND PROJECT DEVELOPMENT AND MANACEMENT . WE ARE CRATEFUL FOR HER WILLINCNESS TO STEP FORWARD AND LEAD OKEQ TH ROUCH THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . DOROTHY HAS HIT THE CROUND RUNNINC AND IS BUILDINC A COMPREHENSIVE PLAN TO STABILIZE AND SUSTAIN OKEQ . WE WILL BE SHARI NC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THOSE PLANS SOON . I HOPE YOU WILL SAVE THE DATE OF THURSDAY , DECEMBER 8 AT 5 PM FOR A HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE AT OKEQ FOR A CHANCE TO MEET DOROTHY AND THE OKEQ TEAM , TOUR THE CENTER , AND LEARN ABOUT OUR PROCRAMS AND SERVICES . WE ALSO HOPE YOU JOIN US AFTERWARDS IN THE LYNN RICCS THEATER TO ENJOY DECEMBER ' S RAINBOW ROOM EVENT " A QUIRKY QUEEN ' S QUEER CHRISTMAS CABARET " FEATURINC TRAVIS CUILLORY AT 7 :30 PM . LOOK FOR AN INVITATION TO THESE LATER THIS WEEK ! NOW THAT WE ACAIN HAVE LEADERSHIP IN PLACE THAT HOLDS THE CONFIDENCE OF THE BOARD AND STAFF , WE CAN CONTINUE TO ADDRESS THE BROADER WORK OF IMPLEMENTINC OUR STRATECY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ IS FINANCIALLY SOUND AND CAN SUSTAIN ITS MISSION FOR CENERATIONS TO COME . ALTHOUCH THESE SHIFTS HOLD THEIR CHALLENCES , WE HAVE AN EXCITINC OPPORTUNITY FOR OKEQ TO MEET THE EX PAN DI NC NEEDS OF THE COMMUNITY . AS WE MOVE FORWARD . WE ARE MINDFUL OF OUR FOUNDINC AND HISTORY AS A CRASSROOTS ORCANIZATION CREATED TO CCDVC Al I llrJ n110 r n U U I I I J I T V ACTCD nvco L n VCADC TUC Dlr'U ftlVCDCITV n c n 1 u , r n U U I I M I T V UAC r.Dn\AllrJ A Mn n110 ••11:cnc 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • YOUR NEEDS · ARE CREATER THAN EVER . THANK YOU FOR CONTINUINC TO STANO WITH US AS WE WORK THROUCH THIS TIME OF CHANCE AS WE TURN THE CORNER TOWARD A BICCER ANO BRICHTER FUTURE . SINCERELY , BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT ~ 11 , 2 1 , 2 2 11.21.22 111 WE SHALL OVERCOME BECAUSE THE ARC OF THE MORAL UNIVERSE ms LONG, BUT IT BENDS TOWARD lUSTICE. * 111 + Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, Janaury 17th | 4:00pm 6:00pm Dennis E. Neill Equality Center 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room - Two Tenors, Too Many, Tonight! Facebook Event TICKETS Thursday, Jan 19th | 7:00pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Local award-winning performers Sam Briggs and Thomas Farnan-Williams are celebrating a decade of friendship the only way they know how: through song! Come enjoy stories and songs from their past decade performing together as well as some of the great duets from Broadway and the Great American Songbook! Doors open at 7:00 p.m. The show starts at 7:30 p.m. Bistro Seats are $20, and General Admission seating is $15. Tickets are on sale now. 0 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, Jan 26th | 6:00pm 7:30pm Tulsa Ballet 1212 E 45th Pl S, Tulsa, OK 74105 RSVP Join us for our Equality Business Alliance Mixer at Tulsa Ballet. The international press has described Tulsa Ballet as “one of the best in the world” A professional company of 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... international dancers representing 14 countries performs six times a year. The Tulsa Ballet Center for Dance Education offers classes for ages 3adult at two campuses: in Tulsa on Brookside and in Broken Arrow at the Hardesty Center for Dance Education. The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.html 0 The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Nancy Moran Month of January Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Nancy Moran presents "Collage Conversations: Self-care for the Activist Soul" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, January 5th at 6pm. The exhibit will be on display for the month of January. - 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Nancy Moran, a long time Tulsa activist, dares to believe that people can, and will, do the right thing. To her that has meant organizing to open Tulsa’s first transitional living center for unhoused persons with chronic mental illness, leading an antiwar movement, supporting immigrant rights, and working on getting Tulsa, an oil and gas town, to commit to 100% renewable energy. It takes a lot of energy, and positive self-talk, to continue acting upon these convictions. She sees other people having the same struggles. Creating collages is a means of providing encouragement, for herself and others. As a nurse and a mindbody medicine scholar, she sees collage-making as a whole body-brain activity allowing her to steep herself in the values and motivation needed to keep up the good fight. Through her “Dispatches from the Collage Cutting Factory,” she uses these collages as a means to reflect on a variety of topics ranging from mindfulness, selfcompassion, spirituality, ecology, tenacity, and the importance of refusing to be a spectator in a world that needs each and every one of us to be a force for good. Her collages in essays may be found at https://www.facebook.com/ Collagesandcoktails 0 OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-fCLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Communny Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. Please do not send medical or private information via email! SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT In Memoriam Iln MemoniWTI Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Bro1111,gl11t T 0 You. Bi l-.JI11e Letter 1 Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... women and build your network Curious, & Questioning individuals. Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @i@rncfil®IT ~ffi]])If@Lffi @IT@ffi]]) O~@O@O@ Qdl§§ ~g 'u'Qdl11,§ £ 'D'W@-§[)e)O~O'u' IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. ~~w@~H'll-00 ;-. ~@wu@ ~H@lhl'll' 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT -!i ------..-FILM IT Fhaahort - pemrmoncecr~ PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: 1. OKEQ Mwuwwy © ~ - _,,., _ _ _ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library YOUI VOICE Belongs VoL.- VOICE IS Vahd The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES t,,npeign 10 r81Se l,,nds and support lo, our library seeks to increase eccess 10 and scope: ol LBGTOIA• ma1e091s Donate 10d8yl Q. Searchtor ~ 10 U,rll rrosi.., TWI l!ltOM'I on llelf ~ C M ~ 11 Sl)OMOred II h"'I" IKll'IOl" lor ......~ • ~aux.,, C.-0 Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Library Donate & Support Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. A PROGRAM OF OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. LltN I tKLINI\ Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE 1 okeq. org/ donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES HE/ HIM/ HIS DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR SHAY BREWER ANDI GUNTER SHE I HER I HERS KAO MORRIS HE/ HIM/ HIS CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER OPERATIONS MANGER •• DONNA MATTHEWS LILY PINA SHE/ HER/ HERS GRANT COORDINATOR LUKE SCUITTO SHE I HER I HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS NURSE PRACTITIONER MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S8 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:25 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/da417f136afb14194cce8bee972203c4.pdf 6080f448e7769dbbca07f5358cd9d750 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Oklahomans for Equality Selects Executive Director Tulsa, OK - Dorothy Ballard (she/her), previously Interim Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq), was confirmed as the organization’s permanent Executive Director on May 12, 2023. The recruitment process was managed by a professional recruiter and included an open search process, resume review, screening, and multiple rounds of interviews. The Board of Directors' vote was unanimous in choosing Ms. Ballard as the new Executive Director, a testament to her qualifications and experience. "We are thrilled to have Dorothy leading our organization," said OkEq Board President, Eric Wilson. "She has already made a significant impact during her time as Interim Executive Director, and we are confident in her abilities to lead OkEq into a bright future." Ms. Ballard brings to the role a master’s in industrial and organizational psychology, as well as nearly two decades of experience in communications and leadership. Her experience includes community outreach and education, financial and risk management, board relations, fund development, and advocacy, making her an excellent fit for the 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Executive Director position. As a strong and compassionate servant leader, Ms. Ballard has proven to be equally comfortable with staff, board, funders, legislative and local leaders, media, and most importantly, OkEq's wonderfully diverse constituency. Her expertise in organizational management and development is evident in the way she has already conceived and executed important improvements in process, documentation, and programming during her six-month tenure as Interim Executive Director. "I am honored and deeply privileged to have been chosen to lead OkEq," said Ms. Ballard. "The mission of our organization has never been more critical, and I look forward to continuing to work alongside our staff, board, and community to further advance equality with an eye toward equity for all Oklahomans." About Oklahomans for Equality OkEq is a non-profit organization dedicated to promoting equality for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. With the appointment of Ms. Ballard as Executive Director, the organization is poised to continue its efforts to build a more inclusive and equitable society. For more information about OkEq, please visit our website at okeq.org. Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIPS VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES TULSA PRIDE VOLUNTEER TULSA PRIDE 2023 Tees and Tanks are Now Available for Pre-Order! OKEQ is excited to partner with Flash Flood Print Studios for Tulsa Pride 2023! Your purchase goes directly to supporting Tulsa Pride festivities and Oklahomans for Equality’s continuing mission of protecting the rights of 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Order now! Pre-orders end at Midnight on Sunday, May 21. Orders will be ready on Friday, June 2, for shipping or pickup at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Main Stage Tulsa Pride 2023 0 JAYZEER 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ainbow Run - Friday June 23rd Fun Run at 7pm-5k at 7:30pm Gates Open at 5pm-10pm Festival & Parade -Saturday June24th Gates Open at 12pm-10pm Pride in The Park-Sunday June 25th 12pm-5pm Isa Pride 20 cah Membra Karma Eclec e an J0p m-7 1 $30.00 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 21 COCO MONTRESEMEET & GREET https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... JAYZEER SHANTEYMEET & GREET JOEY JAYMEET & GREET PRIDE BAR CRAWL WITH OKEQ Saturday, June 17th, 2023 | 4p-12p Get Your Tickets Now -> https:// www.crawlwith.us/tulsa/ pride#tickets Click GOING So You Don't Miss The Proudest Crawl Of The Year! __________________________________ A Portion Of Proceeds Will Be Donated To Local Pride Organizations And The Trevor Project! __________________________________ What You Get: • 1-2 Drink Or Shot Included With Ticket! • Crawl With US Stadium Cup! (First 400 Check Ins) • Free Cover To Our Drag Show! ($15 Without Ticket) • Exclusive Drink Specials • Food Specials At Partner Venues! • Waived Cover At All Venues ($5-$15 at Some Venues Without Ticket) • Professional Photographers! • Awesome After Party! • Access To Our Crawl Map! • Custom Pride Badge With Vouchers _______________________________________ PRIDE CRAWL RSVP ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Best Event - Non-Profit: Equality Gal Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." Homicide Investigation Update Incident #2023-00023246 Date and Time: 04-09-2023 at approximately 0733 hours Location: SW Coombs RD near SW 38 th Street Victim: Stephens, Clayton Suspect(s): Unknown Disposition: Detectives are currently investigating a homicide that happened on 04-09-2023 . Officers responded to SW Coombs RD near SW 38 th Street on a report of a possible deceased individual. When officers arrived, they located a deceased male, later identified at Clayton Stephens. The Oklahoma Medical Examiner has taken Mr. Stephens' body and will conduct an autopsy for an official cause of death. The Lawton Police Department will release more information as it becomes available. If you have any information or witnessed anything, nlea"e contact the Lawton Police Denartment at 5R0-5Rl-3 272 You 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... can remain anonymous and contact Crime Stoppers of Southwest Oklahoma at 580-355-4636. -END- KSWO NEWS STORY GoFundMe .\ISf.} Get h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!~~\i~;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, May 15th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, May 17th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP National Honor Our LGBTY Elders Day Saturday, May 20th | 1p-3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting Coffee and Connections, an afternoon of fellowship and sharing and a chance to honor the elders within our community. Join us for coffee, comradery, sharing, and “Getting to Know You” BINGO as we recognize the elders who have worked tirelessly to pave the way for a better world for all of us. The event is free and open to all ages. While the event is meant to honor all of our elders, we’ll be taking time out to recognize these four 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... individuals: • Sue Davis • John Waako Hawk Co-Cke’ • John Madigan • Gordon George Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, May 20th | 6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Pride Bingo as we raise money for Tulsa Pride 2023 with costume contest, prizes, food, and entertainment featuring 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Electric, Dayton Thomas, Boston Cervantes, Shanel Sterling, Anita Richards, and Scrappy Legacy. Pizza sponsored by Empire Slice House Tulsa. TICKETS virtual, educational, informative Expert Panel: Understanding Transgender Healthcare & Wellness Sunday, May 21st, 2023 6:00 - 7:30 p.m. CST Register: bit.ly/3Vmahl9 Topics discussed in this secured Zoom webinarwill include: • Processes, protocols, and best practices for supporting transgender youth and adults seeking gender-affirming care • Medical and scientific understanding of gender-diversity • Common myths about trans people of all ages Event will be moderated by Lucas Hall, a trans advocate and consultant. Speakers are all based in Oklahoma, including Dr. Al Carlozzi, Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, Dr. Shauna Lawlis, Elliot Parker, and Kelly Kemp. Expert Panel: Understanding Transgender Healthcare & Wellness Sunday, May 21st | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This webinar is for anyone interested in learning from experts in the field about gender-affirming care for adults and youth, debunking myths, and bringing awareness to this important topic. The event will take place virtually on Sunday, May 21st, 6:00 - 7:30 p.m. CST through a Zoom webinar to maintain attendee privacy and event safety. Topics discussed will include processes and protocols for transgender youth and adults seeking gender-affirming care and support, understanding gender-diversity from a 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... medical and scientific perspective, addressing common myths about trans people of all ages and the genderaffirming care they could receive, and best practices for supporting transgender youth and adults. The event moderator will be Lucas Hall, a trans advocate and consultant, and the speakers include Dr. Al Carlozzi, Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, Dr. Shauna Lawlis, Elliot Parker, and Kelly Kemp. We look forward to seeing you there! REGISTER TULSA REALLY.a REALLYFREc MARKET A Community Sharing Event Every 3rd Sunday• 12p - 4p I 621 E. 4th St Tulsa Really, Really Free Market Sunday, May 21st | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Clothing • Housewares • Books • Gadgets• Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/ rrfm_tulsa/ RSVP Rainbow Room w/ Lisa Stefanic Thursday, May 25th | 7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa actress Lisa R. Stefanic stars in an original cabaret-style show, “Love. I’m Not Kidding,” a musical journey through the ups, downs, and never- 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ending discoveries of people and emotions on the bumpy road to love. Featuring Tulsa favorite Randy Weimer on guitar and Broadway veteran Cathy Venable on piano. Curtain: 7:30p TICKETS The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Tammye Randle Month of May | Open during center hours Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tammye Randle presents at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. Pride Bar Crawl x OKEQ Saturday, June 17th | 4p-12a Hunt Club 224 N Main St, Tulsa, OK The 2022 Pride Crawl was a huge success and we were able to donate $22,653 to the Trevor Project! This year, we are donating locally. 20% of all event proceeds will be going to Oklahomans For Equality. ___ 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Donation Page https://okeq.org/donate/ TICKETS ~,:r OKEO HEALTH ~,:r CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln MemoriWTI 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 21 Stan Simpson Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Joseph Edward Johnson 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Carol Smith Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 Matt Brooks Born Day - 2022 Daniel Davis Aston Jul 8, 1994 - Nov 20, 2022 Stan Simpson Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member Steve Walley Mar, 1948 - Feb 1, 2022 Steve was owner of Silver Star, a popular night spot in Tulsa. He is survived by his husband and partner of 40 years John Rothrock. In Memoriam Submissions 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Programming Bvoug11lt 1' 0 Yott Bi 1 T lr1J@ IL ~t t~ r 1 -'----' ~~~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! ~~ !:."' !:."' ~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D[j::;!]@)0@10@(1[)§§~~ 7J"(1[J[b,§£ 7J"W@=§[p0~07J" Sin Fronteras IndigiQueer 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 21 Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... @®rncll@1r ~DD.l])!PXIDifa ®rf@DD.1]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ ++ 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY ARS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Oklahomans for Equality Selects Executive Director Tulsa, OK - Dorothy Ballard (she/her), previously Interim Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq), was confirmed as the organization’s permanent Executive Director on May 12, 2023. The recruitment process was managed by a professional recruiter and included an open search process, resume review, screening, and multiple rounds of interviews. The Board of Directors' vote was unanimous in choosing Ms. Ballard as the new Executive Director, a testament to her qualifications and experience. "We are thrilled to have Dorothy leading our organization," said OkEq Board President, Eric Wilson. "She has already made a significant impact during her time as Interim Executive Director, and we are confident in her abilities to lead OkEq into a bright future." Ms. Ballard brings to the role a master’s in industrial and organizational psychology, as well as nearly two decades of experience in communications and leadership. Her experience includes community outreach and education, financial and risk management, board relations, fund development, and advocacy, making her an excellent fit for the Executive Director position. As a strong and compassionate servant leader, Ms. Ballard has proven to be equally comfortable with staff, board, funders, legislative and local leaders, media, and most importantly, OkEq's wonderfully diverse constituency. Her expertise in organizational management and development is evident in the way she has already conceived and executed important improvements in process, documentation, and programming during her six-month tenure as Interim Executive Director. 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... "I am honored and deeply privileged to have been chosen to lead OkEq," said Ms. Ballard. "The mission of our organization has never been more critical, and I look forward to continuing to work alongside our staff, board, and community to further advance equality with an eye toward equity for all Oklahomans." About Oklahomans for Equality OkEq is a non-profit organization dedicated to promoting equality for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. With the appointment of Ms. Ballard as Executive Director, the organization is poised to continue its efforts to build a more inclusive and equitable society. For more information about OkEq, please visit our website at okeq.org. The Board of Directors for OkEq is looking for additional Directors. If you or someone you know would like to apply, please fill out this interest form. Submitted forms will be considered on a rolling basis until the vacancies are filled. Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIPS VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES TULSA PRIDE VOLUNTEER 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... □ !STIIIAIIDN AIIIISTS TJLRIIG !Gel£' Main Stage Tulsa Pride 2023 0 ainbow Run-Friday June 23rd Fun Run at 7pm-5k at 7:30pm Gates Open at 5pm-10pm Festival & Parade -Saturday June24th Gates Open at 12pm-10pm Pride in The Park-Sunday June 25th 12pm-5pm Isa Pride 20 cah Membra Karma Eclec 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Meet and Greet 6 30pm -7 10pm $30 .00 COCO MONTRESE MEET & GREET JAYZEER SHANTEY MEET & GREET JOEY JAY MEET & GREET PRIDE BAR CRAWL WITH OKEQ Saturday, June 17th, 2023 | 4p-12p Get Your Tickets Now -> https:// www.crawlwith.us/tulsa/ pride#tickets Click GOING So You Don't Miss The Proudest Crawl Of The Year! __________________________________ A Portion Of Proceeds Will Be Donated To Local Pride Organizations And The Trevor Project! __________________________________ What You Get: • 1-2 Drink Or Shot Included With Ticket! • Crawl With US Stadium Cup! (First 400 Check Ins) • Free Cover To Our Drag Show! ($15 Without Ticket) • Exclusive Drink Specials • Food Specials At Partner Venues! • Waived Cover At All Venues ($5-$15 at Some Venues Without Ticket) • Professional Photographers! • Awesome After Party! • Access To Our Crawl Map! • Custom Pride Badge With Vouchers _______________________________________ 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... PRIDE CRAWL RSVP ❤??????? Best Event - Non-Profit: Equality Gal Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." JIS&J G e t h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!'.~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, May 23rd | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Housin of otlahoma will be assist ins Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, May 24th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP E ALITY Business Alliance Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, May 25th | 6p-7:30p Farmers Insurance - Brian Farnswoth 8238 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK Join us for the May EBA Mixer at Farmers Insurance - Brian Farnsworth. Rainbow Room w/ Lisa Stefanic Thursday, May 25th | 7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa actress Lisa R. Stefanic stars in an original cabaret-style show, “Love. I’m Not Kidding,” a musical journey through the ups, downs, and neverending discoveries of people and emotions on the bumpy road to love. Featuring Tulsa favorite Randy Weimer on guitar and Broadway veteran Cathy Venable on piano. Curtain: 7:30p TICKETS Summer Bash Saturday, May 27th | 6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ☀ GIVEAWAY! ☀ We want to see you at the Youth Leadership Council’s #SummerBash on May 27 at the Equality Center! This teen-focused sexual health resource fair is for all people ages 13-19. Activities include live music, trivia, free food and resources, and more. We’ll have prizes at the event and we’re running THREE social media giveaways leading up to it! To win the Instax camera giveaway… ? follow our account ? share this post to your story ? AND tag 3 friends below in the comments Winner will be announced May 29. See you at Summer Bash! #YouthLeadershipCouncil #Amplify Tulsa #VibrantCommunities Please visit amplifytulsa.org/summerbash for more information. Trnn1nye Randle -nI[ SIST/,11 COLL[CllO:-.! - The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Tammye Randle Tuesday, May 30th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tammye Randle presents at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Join us for the closing of the exhibit. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. Pride Bar Crawl x OKEQ Saturday, June 17th | 4p-12a Hunt Club 224 N Main St, Tulsa, OK The 2022 Pride Crawl was a huge success and we were able to donate $22,653 to the Trevor Project! This year, we are donating locally. 20% of all event proceeds will be going to Oklahomans For Equality. ___ Donation Page https://okeq.org/donate/ TICKETS -~-f11 OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Ill 11 MemoriWTI Daniel Davis Aston Jul 8, 1994 - Nov 20, 2022 Bob Hendricks Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Stan Simpson Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member Steve Walley Mar, 1948 - Feb 1, 2022 Steve was owner of Silver Star, a popular night spot in Tulsa. He is survived by his husband and partner of 40 years John Rothrock. In Memoriam Submissions 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Programming Brougbt 1' 0 V Olll Bi 1 1f,jt1Je IL~tt~r ~~~~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! ~~~~~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@O:D§§~:; 'TI'O:D~§& 'TI'W@=§~D~D'TI' 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... tulsaequalitygaming ®®rn@l®IP - ~lID]])I]XIDlru ®rf®l!U]]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Q TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE 1 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustee Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... oo• Our Company | Contact Us | FAQs | Privacy Policy Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:50 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/091c1770df4031c3b4042f66d62d2260.pdf 8e2dd678ef7b597199c65b6c77a5ba85 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Oklahomans for Equality Selects Executive Director 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa, OK - Dorothy Ballard (she/her), previously Interim Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq), was confirmed as the organization’s permanent Executive Director on May 12, 2023. The recruitment process was managed by a professional recruiter and included an open search process, resume review, screening, and multiple rounds of interviews. The Board of Directors' vote was unanimous in choosing Ms. Ballard as the new Executive Director, a testament to her qualifications and experience. "We are thrilled to have Dorothy leading our organization," said OkEq Board President, Eric Wilson. "She has already made a significant impact during her time as Interim Executive Director, and we are confident in her abilities to lead OkEq into a bright future." Ms. Ballard brings to the role a master’s in industrial and organizational psychology, as well as nearly two decades of experience in communications and leadership. Her experience includes community outreach and education, financial and risk management, board relations, fund development, and advocacy, making her an excellent fit for the Executive Director position. As a strong and compassionate servant leader, Ms. Ballard has proven to be equally comfortable with staff, board, funders, legislative and local leaders, media, and most importantly, OkEq's wonderfully diverse constituency. Her expertise in organizational management and development is evident in the way she has already conceived and executed important improvements in process, documentation, and programming during her six-month tenure as Interim Executive Director. "I am honored and deeply privileged to have been chosen to lead OkEq," said Ms. Ballard. "The mission of our organization has never been more critical, and I look forward to continuing to work alongside our staff, board, and community to further advance equality with an eye toward equity for all Oklahomans." About Oklahomans for Equality OkEq is a non-profit organization dedicated to promoting equality for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. With the appointment of Ms. Ballard as Executive Director, the organization is poised to continue its efforts to build a more inclusive and equitable society. For more information about OkEq, please visit our website at okeq.org. OKEQ Equality Gala Award Winners 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Best Event - Non-Profit: Equality Gala The Board of Directors for OkEq is looking for additional Directors. If you or someone you know would like to apply, please fill out this interest form. Submitted forms will be considered on a rolling basis until the vacancies are filled. 1081 Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIPS VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES TULSA PRIDE VOLUNTEER 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... D!STIIJAIION AllllSTS TJLRIIG lG:IC' Main Stage Tulsa Pride 2023 0 ainbow Run-Friday June 23rd Fun Run at 7pm-5k at 7:30pm Gates Open at 5pm-10pm Festival & Parade -Saturday June24th Gates Open at 12pm-10pm Pride in The Park-Sunday June 25th Isa Pride 20 icah Membra Karma Eclec ~ 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Meet and Greet 6 30pm-7 10pm $30 .00 COCO MONTRESE MEET & GREET JAYZEER SHANTEY MEET & GREET JOEY JAY MEET & GREET PRIDE BAR CRAWL WITH OKEQ Saturday, June 17th, 2023 | 4p-12p Get Your Tickets Now -> https:// www.crawlwith.us/tulsa/ pride#tickets Click GOING So You Don't Miss The Proudest Crawl Of The Year! __________________________________ A Portion Of Proceeds Will Be Donated To Local Pride Organizations And The Trevor Project! __________________________________ What You Get: • 1-2 Drink Or Shot Included With Ticket! • Crawl With US Stadium Cup! (First 400 Check Ins) • Free Cover To Our Drag Show! ($15 Without Ticket) • Exclusive Drink Specials • Food Specials At Partner Venues! • Waived Cover At All Venues ($5-$15 at Some Venues Without Ticket) • Professional Photographers! • Awesome After Party! 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • Access To Our Crawl Map! • Custom Pride Badge With Vouchers _______________________________________ PRIDE CRAWL RSVP ❤??????? Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." National Center for RANSGENDER EQUALITY This Pride Month Show #TransIntersexSolidarity! This Pride month, the National Center for Transgender Equality - in partnership with InterACT - celebrates intersex and trans solidarity! As part of our shared goal to raise awareness, we are hosting #TransIntersexSolidarity Week from June 12th - 16th–and we invite your organization to join us. 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Why #TransIntersexSolidarity? Over the last few years, we have seen an increase in regressive anti-trans rhetoric that has led to a loss of rights and an increase in danger for trans adults and youth. These same bills intended to target and eliminate transness also impact intersex people, especially intersex girls, and women of color, who already face body policing in schools and sports. Intersex people face human rights violations rooted in transphobia, including medically unnecessary “corrective surgeries” to change the appearance of an infant’s sex. This extremely harmful practice is specifically included in most bills that aim to strip away rights to genderaffirming care for trans teens - which is unacceptable. We hope you will join us in uplifting messages of solidarity between transgender and intersex communities and raising up the overlapping struggles that these communities share. Here’s what you can do: • Use our #TransIntersexSolidarity toolkit here to get the word out on your social media platforms and to your networks! • Use the #TransIntersexSolidarity hashtag to help us create more visibility. • Attend our “Ask Us Anything” Instagram Live with InterACT to talk about trans-intersex issues on June 14th at 6 PM EST at @transequalitynow or @InterACT_adv! • Uplift current trans and intersex content and issues throughout the rest of the month– and every month! For any questions, please get in touch with Alex del Rosario (they/he). Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, May 30th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Trnn1nye Randle -nI[ SISTI ,I I COLL[CllON - The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Tammye Randle Tuesday, May 30th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tammye Randle presents at The Allie 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Join us for the closing of the exhibit. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. Housin Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, May 31st | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Witness Change Thursday, June 1st | 7p 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... THE OPENING or WHERE LOVE 1s ILLEGAL EXHIBIT THURSDAY. JUNE 1ST AT 6PA Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ViNS The Witness Change project is documenting and sharing LGBTQ+ stories of discrimination and survival from around the world. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an exhibit at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the month of June 2023. Tulsa is one of two cities selected in the United States to host this exhibit, which will be used to catalyze a larger conversation of discrimination, survival, and resiliency of LGBTQ+ people here. Selected stories will be printed and included alongside existing stories from around the world. ❤??????? Despite gains made in many parts of the world, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and intersex (LGBTI) people are, in some regions, increasingly persecuted and denied basic human rights. Because bigotry thrives where we are silenced by fear, we've created this space for people to share stories of discrimination and survival. Read these stories, share them, and contribute your own. Let the world know that we will not be silent. The exhibit opens June 1st, 2023, at 6pm. The exhibit will be up for the month of June. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... RSVP BOK CENTER + STUDIO 66 PRESENT LET'S GOY'ALL! I Let's Go Y'ALL! Saturday, June 3rd | 9p-1a BOK Center 200 South Denver Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Let's Go Y'ALL is a block party for EVERY-body! Join Studio 66 and BOK Center for a giddy-up good time at this Pride Month kick-off. TICKETS ~~~ -3i:zs Zl+ TO ENTER ITlITIIIB ITilBJHilID' STREET DISCO st&0~ filfulR Sydney Lee Heertwerk UnsocialJ's B-Day Drag Brunch Fundraiser Saturday, June 5th | 11a & 2p Open Container 502 E 3rd St #39, Tulsa, OK 74120 Help kick off Pride Month with Support of Tulsa's Latinx Movement! You are invited to UnsocialJ's B-Day Drag Brunch Fundraiser at the Cuban-owned Open Container Bar & Grill at The Boxyard in downtown Tulsa on June 4th! Just $10 at the door or $5 for presale tickets! Latinx Drag show featuring Angela Doll, Bosston, and Valentino Minaj. Showtimes at 11 am and 2 pm. Cuban brunch and drinks available for purchase. A percentage of drink and door sales goes to the Latinx group Sin Fronteras x OkEq for 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... community outreach purposes! ks! RSVP TICKETS OKEQ x Night Muses: The Rainbow Revue Friday, June 16th |7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Rainbow Revue is a Drag & Burlesque Fundraiser for Tulsa Pride, an event that is presented by OKEQ & Night Muses, which promises to be an unforgettable experience. You do not want to miss it! James Sparks ==-====--, Lynn Riggs Theatre OKEQ Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tickets $20 Boak Tickets At www .akeq .org -------------------- The Rainbow Revue will feature aweinspiring performances by some of the most talented artists out there, including Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Tyler Davis, Scrappy Legacy, Karama Eclectic, Micah Membrane, Trixie Noir, Cleo, Lucy Furr, James Sparks, and Lady Jade. Their performances are guaranteed to leave you spellbound. This remarkable event will take place on June 16th at 7:30 pm, and tickets are available at the affordable price of $20. By attending the Rainbow Revue, not only will you have a blast, but you will also be supporting a noble cause. It is a perfect opportunity to enjoy a night out while contributing to the community. We hope to see you there!! 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TICKETS ♦ UPCOMING MARKETS ♦ JUNE RRFM 12-4 PM AUGUST RRFM 12-4 PM ♦ JULY RRFM JUN 17 AUG 19 @ RRFM 12-4 PM SEPTEMBER RRFM 12-4 PM TULSA Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, June 17th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 JUL 15 SEPT 16 A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/ rrfm_tulsa/ RSVP Pride Bar Crawl x OKEQ Saturday, June 17th | 4p-12a Hunt Club 224 N Main St, Tulsa, OK The 2022 Pride Crawl was a huge success and we were able to donate $22,653 to the Trevor Project! This year, we are donating locally. 20% of all event proceeds will be going to Oklahomans For Equality. ___ Donation Page https://okeq.org/donate/ TICKETS E ALITY R, ,r:::.inPc::.c:. .4//i;::mrP 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Business Alliance Mixer with Triangle Home Solutions Thursday, June 22nd | 6p-7:30p Elote Café & Catering 1660 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK 74136 Join us for June's EBA Mixer hosted by Triangle Home Solutions. We look forward to seeing everyone from 6-7:30pm on the 22nd. To RSVP or for more information, email Luke -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln Memori8UITI 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jonathan Stanley 08/16/1948 - 12/1/2022 Scott Perry 03/26/1956 - 05/05/2023 OKEQ Seniors Member Scott was the owner of Novel Idea bookstores in Tulsa. A picture is below. He became a realtor when he closed the stores. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Broug11lt 0 Yott Bi 1 ,, T ltlJ@; [, ~ t t ~ )t 1 ~~~~ ~~~~~~ 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D[j::;!]@)0@10@(1[)§ § ~~ 7J"(1[J[b,§£ "iJ"W@=§[pO~O"iJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ~rncll@1r ~Dnl])]]XIDlfa @rf®Dnl]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Community Partners • LEGAL AID t SL SERVICES OF LEGAL AID t SL SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. "''• Get h e l p . supplemental applying for • • :~!;~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA National Center for _ _..A . . . , . , _ ...... ~ . - ~ 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... KAN=>Ut:NUl:K EQUALITY OKE 1 okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustee Executive Committee Trustees 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Shawna Baker, Esq. 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. The Board of Directors for OkEq is looking for additional Directors. If you or someone you know would like to apply, please fill out this interest form. Submitted forms will be considered on a rolling basis until the vacancies are filled. ❤??????? As we celebrate Pride Month, it is crucial to show our unwavering support for the 2SLGBTQ+ community, especially our transgender brothers and sisters, who are the targets of numerous discriminatory bills both nationally and internationally. Let us be vocal in our stand for their right to live freely. Remember, your identity is valid and should be celebrated. No matter your identity ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIPS VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES TULSA PRIDE VOLUNTEER 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... D!STIIJAIION Al!llSTS TJLRIIG lG~C' Main Stage Tulsa Pride 2023 0 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ainbow Run-Friday June 23rd Fun Run at 7pm-5k at 7:30pm Gates Open at 5pm-10pm Festival & Parade -Saturday June24th Gates Open at 12pm-10pm Pride in The Park-Sunday June 25th 12pm-5pm Isa Pride 20 cah Membra Karma Eclec Meet and Greet 6 30pm -7 10pm $30.00 COCO MONTRESE MEET & GREET JAYZEER SHANTEY MEET & GREET JOEY JAY MEET & GREET PRIDE BAR CRAWL WITH OKEQ Saturday, June 17th, 2023 | 4p-12p Get Your Tickets Now -> https:// www.crawlwith.us/tulsa/pride#tickets --------------Click GOING So You Don't Miss The Proudest Crawl Of The Year! __________________________________ A Portion Of Proceeds Will Be Donated To 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Local Pride Organizations And The Trevor Project! __________________________________ What You Get: • 1-2 Drink Or Shot Included With Ticket! • Crawl With US Stadium Cup! (First 400 Check Ins) • Free Cover To Our Drag Show! ($15 Without Ticket) • Exclusive Drink Specials • Food Specials At Partner Venues! • Waived Cover At All Venues ($5-$15 at Some Venues Without Ticket) • Professional Photographers! • Awesome After Party! • Access To Our Crawl Map! • Custom Pride Badge With Vouchers _______________________________________ PRIDE CRAWL RSVP ❤??????? National Center for RANSGENDER EQUALITY This Pride Month Show #TransIntersexSolidarity! This Pride month, the National Center for Transgender Equality - in partnership with InterACT - celebrates intersex and trans solidarity! As part of our shared goal to raise awareness, we are hosting #TransIntersexSolidarity Week from June 12th - 16th–and we invite your organization to join us. 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Why #TransIntersexSolidarity? Over the last few years, we have seen an increase in regressive anti-trans rhetoric that has led to a loss of rights and an increase in danger for trans adults and youth. These same bills intended to target and eliminate transness also impact intersex people, especially intersex girls, and women of color, who already face body policing in schools and sports. Intersex people face human rights violations rooted in transphobia, including medically unnecessary “corrective surgeries” to change the appearance of an infant’s sex. This extremely harmful practice is specifically included in most bills that aim to strip away rights to genderaffirming care for trans teens - which is unacceptable. We hope you will join us in uplifting messages of solidarity between transgender and intersex communities and raising up the overlapping struggles that these communities share. Here’s what you can do: • Use our #TransIntersexSolidarity toolkit here to get the word out on your social media platforms and to your networks! • Use the #TransIntersexSolidarity hashtag to help us create more visibility. • Attend our “Ask Us Anything” Instagram Live with InterACT to talk about trans-intersex issues on June 14th at 6 PM EST at @transequalitynow or @InterACT_adv! • Uplift current trans and intersex content and issues throughout the rest of the month– and every month! For any questions, please get in touch with Alex del Rosario (they/he). Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, June 6th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Queer Women's Collective: June Happy Hour Wednesday, June 7th | 5.30p-7.30p Fassler Hall 304 S Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 25 - Housin of otlohomo will be assisting https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included) and we hope some of you will join us! June meetup = Fassler Hall. Let's kick off pride month together! Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, June 7th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP OKEQ x Night Muses: The Rainbow Revue Friday, June 16th |7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Rainbow Revue is a Drag & Burlesque Fundraiser for Tulsa Pride, an event that is presented by OKEQ & Night Muses, which promises to be an unforgettable experience. You do not want to miss it! The Rainbow Revue will feature awe- 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 25 Tri xie Nair https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Cleo Lynn Riggs Theatre Tickets SZD DKEQ Center Boak Tickets At www .akeq . org 621 E 4th 51, Tulsa, OK 74120 ---------------- inspiring performances by some of the most talented artists out there, including Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Tyler Davis, Scrappy Legacy, Karama Eclectic, Micah Membrane, Trixie Noir, Cleo, Lucy Furr, James Sparks, and Lady Jade. Their performances are guaranteed to leave you spellbound. This remarkable event will take place on June 16th at 7:30 pm, and tickets are available at the affordable price of $20. By attending the Rainbow Revue, not only will you have a blast, but you will also be supporting a noble cause. It is a perfect opportunity to enjoy a night out while contributing to the community. We hope to see you there!! TICKETS ♦ UPCOMING MARKETS ♦ JUNE RRFM 12-4 PM AUGUST RRFM 12-4 PM ♦ JULY RRFM JUN 17 AUG 19 @ RRFM 12-4 PM SEPTEMBER RRFM 12-4 PM TULSA Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, June 17th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 JUL 15 SEPT 16 A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/ rrfm_tulsa/ RSVP 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, June 17th|Doors at 6.30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Performances by 2023 Pride Royalty, Pride King Micah Membrane, Pride Queen Karma Eclectic, with Mykal Khrystian, Kitty Quinn Khrystian, Blaze Khrystian, Kitty Marie Legacy, Anita Richards, Scrappy Legacy, Flynn St. James, and special guests Patty Bourey. This event is 18+. 21 to drink with drinks by Michael James. 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Prizes from our Equality Business Alliance Members and AT&T League, food by Empire Slice House Tulsa! There's a special raffle and costume contest! Come on out and support Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. E ALITY usiness Alliance Equality Business Alliance Mixer with Triangle Home Solutions Thursday, June 22nd | 6p-7:30p Elote Café & Catering 1660 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK 74136 Join us for June's EBA Mixer hosted by Triangle Home Solutions. We look forward to seeing everyone from 6-7:30pm on the 22nd. To RSVP or for more information, email Luke 83 United Prideraiser for the Equality Center Through June 30th Join 83 United in supporting our LGBTQIA+ friends and family by pledging to our Prideraiser Drive! We simply ask that you pledge at least 1 dollar for every goal that FC Tulsa scores in the month of June. Funds raised will stay right here in Tulsa and benefit OkEq and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Conway Twitch OKEQ x Tulsa Pride Fundraiser Through June 30th All month long, ConwayxT1tty will be raising money for Oklahomans for Equality. Come hang out and play some games while helping support the mission of Oklahomans for Equality 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sensitive Content must be 18yrs or older. The Krispy Kreme Fundraiser for OKEQ Through June 30th KRISPY KREME DOZENS TO SUPPORT OKEQ OVER 50% $15 PER DOZEN ENDS June 30 DONATED BACK GIi https://grouprai.u/krispykreme1122Ssa Support the cause of OKEQ and treat yourself to some scrumptious snacks! At Oklahomans for Equality, we strive to promote fairness and justice for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and their families through inclusive advocacy, education, programs, partnerships, and the management of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. a- The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Witness Change Through June 30th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The Witness Change project is documenting and sharing LGBTQ+ stories of discrimination and survival from around the world. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an exhibit at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the month of June 2023. Tulsa is one of two cities selected in the United States to host this exhibit, which will be used to catalyze a larger conversation of discrimination, survival, and resiliency of LGBTQ+ people here. Selected stories will be printed and included alongside existing stories from around the world. ❤??????? Despite gains made in many parts of the world, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and intersex (LGBTI) 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The exhibit opens June 1st, 2023, at 6:00 pm. The exhibit will be up for the month of June. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00 pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/art- -- - - - - - - - -- --gallery.html or like us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ - -- ------------OKEQArtGallery. people are, in some regions, increasingly persecuted and denied basic human rights. Because bigotry thrives where we are silenced by fear, we've created this space for people to share stories of discrimination and survival. Read these stories, share them, and contribute your own. Let the world know that we will not be silent. RSVP Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 25 Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! Oklahomans for Equality Selects Executive Director Tulsa, OK - Dorothy Ballard (she/her), previously Interim Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq), was confirmed as the organization’s permanent Executive Director on May 12, 2023. The recruitment process was managed by a professional recruiter and included an open search process, resume review, screening, and multiple rounds of interviews. The Board of Directors' vote was unanimous in choosing Ms. Ballard as the new Executive Director, a testament to her qualifications and experience. About Oklahomans for Equality OkEq is a non-profit organization dedicated to promoting equality for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. With the appointment of Ms. Ballard as Executive Director, the organization is poised to continue its efforts to build a more inclusive and equitable society. For more information about OkEq, please visit our website at okeq.org. "We are thrilled to have Dorothy leading our organization," said OkEq Board President, Eric Wilson. "She has already made a significant impact during her time as Interim Executive Director, and we are confident in her abilities to lead OkEq into a bright future." Ms. Ballard brings to the role a master’s in industrial and organizational psychology, as well as nearly two decades of experience in communications and leadership. Her experience includes community outreach and education, financial and risk management, board relations, fund development, and advocacy, making her an excellent fit for the Executive Director position. As a strong and compassionate servant leader, Ms. Ballard has proven to be equally comfortable with staff, board, 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... funders, legislative and local leaders, media, and most importantly, OkEq's wonderfully diverse constituency. Her expertise in organizational management and development is evident in the way she has already conceived and executed important improvements in process, documentation, and programming during her six-month tenure as Interim Executive Director. "I am honored and deeply privileged to have been chosen to lead OkEq," said Ms. Ballard. "The mission of our organization has never been more critical, and I look forward to continuing to work alongside our staff, board, and community to further advance equality with an eye toward equity for all Oklahomans." OKEQ Equality Gala Award Winners 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Best Event - Non-Profit: Equality Gala In Memoriam 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln MemoriWTI Jonathan Stanley 08/16/1948 - 12/1/2022 Scott Perry 03/26/1956 - 05/05/2023 OKEQ Seniors Member Scott was the owner of Novel Idea bookstores in Tulsa. He became a realtor when he closed the stores. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Bvougbt ~ ~ 1'10 Yott Bi WOMEN ' S EOE~ L E C T I V E 1f,jlt1Je IL~tt~lf ~~~~ ~~~~~~ 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@Odl§§~:; 'v'Odl°==,§& 'v'W@=§~D~D'v' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ----- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... @@rn@l®1r - ~Dlll])I]XIDrffi @rP®Dnl]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY ARS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC . OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. ,,,. Get h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!;~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espafiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ - L""":.I HUNGER nn OKLAHOMA FREE OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 25 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:52 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/db29246513e3eb9ea3fdbdf3cd53e615.pdf 90e6810b1198adc185fda926945511db PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. The Board of Directors for OkEq is looking for additional Directors. If you or someone you know would like to apply, please fill out this interest form. Submitted forms will be considered on a rolling basis until the vacancies are filled. ❤??????? As we celebrate Pride Month, it is crucial to show our unwavering support for the 2SLGBTQ+ community, especially our transgender brothers and sisters, who are the targets of numerous discriminatory bills both nationally and internationally. Let us be vocal in our stand for their right to live freely. Remember, your identity is valid and should be celebrated. No matter your identity ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIPS VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES TULSA PRIDE VOLUNTEER 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... D!STIIJAIION Al!llSTS TJLRIIG lG~C' Main Stage Tulsa Pride 2023 0 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ainbow Run-Friday June 23rd Fun Run at 7pm-5k at 7:30pm Gates Open at 5pm-10pm Festival & Parade -Saturday June24th Gates Open at 12pm-10pm Pride in The Park-Sunday June 25th 12pm-5pm Isa Pride 20 cah Membra Karma Eclec Meet and Greet 6 30pm -7 10pm $30.00 COCO MONTRESE MEET & GREET JAYZEER SHANTEY MEET & GREET JOEY JAY MEET & GREET OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY 6GUTHRIE GREEN PRESENT - - Pride in the Park! SUNDAY, JUNE 25 * 12PM - 5PM 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... PRIDE BAR CRAWL WITH OKEQ Saturday, June 17th, 2023 | 4p-12p Get Your Tickets Now -> https:// www.crawlwith.us/tulsa/pride#tickets Click GOING So You Don't Miss The Proudest Crawl Of The Year! __________________________________ A Portion Of Proceeds Will Be Donated To Local Pride Organizations And The Trevor Project! __________________________________ What You Get: • 1-2 Drink Or Shot Included With Ticket! • Crawl With US Stadium Cup! (First 400 Check Ins) • Free Cover To Our Drag Show! ($15 Without Ticket) 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • Exclusive Drink Specials • Food Specials At Partner Venues! • Waived Cover At All Venues ($5-$15 at Some Venues Without Ticket) • Professional Photographers! • Awesome After Party! • Access To Our Crawl Map! • Custom Pride Badge With Vouchers _______________________________________ PRIDE CRAWL RSVP ❤??????? ♦ Find LGBTQ+ friendly care including doctor visits, prescription drugs, mental health services, and more. ♦ ♦ ♦ As we celebrate PRIDE Month, let’s talk about Medicaid. Medicaid helps you find LGBTQ+-friendly care, including doctor visits, prescription drugs, mental health services, and more. Visit healthcare.gov or call 1-800-318-2596 to take PRIDE in your health. ♦ •• National Center for RANSGENDER EQUALITY 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This Pride Month Show #TransIntersexSolidarity! This Pride month, the National Center for Transgender Equality - in partnership with InterACT - celebrates intersex and trans solidarity! As part of our shared goal to raise awareness, we are hosting #TransIntersexSolidarity Week from June 12th - 16th–and we invite your organization to join us. Why #TransIntersexSolidarity? Over the last few years, we have seen an increase in regressive anti-trans rhetoric that has led to a loss of rights and an increase in danger for trans adults and youth. These same bills intended to target and eliminate transness also impact intersex people, especially intersex girls, and women of color, who already face body policing in schools and sports. Intersex people face human rights violations rooted in transphobia, including medically unnecessary “corrective surgeries” to change the appearance of an infant’s sex. This extremely harmful practice is specifically included in most bills that aim to strip away rights to genderaffirming care for trans teens - which is unacceptable. We hope you will join us in uplifting messages of solidarity between transgender and intersex communities and raising up the overlapping struggles that these communities share. Here’s what you can do: • Use our #TransIntersexSolidarity toolkit here to get the word out on your social media platforms and to your networks! • Use the #TransIntersexSolidarity hashtag to help us create more visibility. • Attend our “Ask Us Anything” Instagram Live with InterACT to talk about trans-intersex issues on June 14th at 6 PM EST at @transequalitynow or @InterACT_adv! • Uplift current trans and intersex content and issues throughout the rest of the month– and every month! For any questions, please get in touch with Alex del Rosario (they/he). Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, June 13th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Name Change & Gender 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, June 14th | 5.30p-7.00p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Housin Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, June 14th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... RSVP OKEQ x Night Muses: The Rainbow Revue Friday, June 16th |7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The Rainbow Revue is a Drag & Burlesque Fundraiser for Tulsa Pride, an event that is presented by OKEQ & Night Muses, which promises to be an unforgettable experience. You do not want to miss it! Lynn Riggs Theatre DKEQ Center 621 E 4th SI, Tulsa, DK 74120 Tickets 520 Book Tickets Al www.okeq.org The Rainbow Revue will feature aweinspiring performances by some of the most talented artists out there, including Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Tyler Davis, Scrappy Legacy, Karama Eclectic, Micah Membrane, Trixie Noir, Cleo, Lucy Furr, James Sparks, and Lady Jade. Their performances are guaranteed to leave you spellbound. This remarkable event will take place on June 16th at 7:30 pm, and tickets are available at the affordable price of $20. By attending the Rainbow Revue, not only will you have a blast, but you will also be supporting a noble cause. It is a perfect opportunity to enjoy a night out while contributing to the community. We hope to see you there!! TICKETS ~ UPCOMING Tulsa Really Really Free Market 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 24 T https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... MARKETS JUNE RRFM 12-4 PM AUGUST RRFM 12-4 PM JULY RRFM JUN 17 AUG 19 ii, ♦ @ RRFM 12-4 PM SEPTEMBER RRFM . 12-4 PM TULSA ♦ JUL 15 SEPT 16 Saturday, June 17th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/ rrfm_tulsa/ RSVP 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, June 17th|Doors at 6.30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Performances by 2023 Pride Royalty, Pride King Micah Membrane, Pride Queen Karma Eclectic, with Mykal Khrystian, Kitty Quinn Khrystian, Blaze Khrystian, Kitty Marie Legacy, Anita Richards, Scrappy Legacy, Flynn St. James, and special guests Patty Bourey. This event is 18+. 21 to drink with drinks by Michael James. Prizes from our Equality Business Alliance Members and AT&T League, food by Empire Slice House Tulsa! There's a special raffle and costume contest! Come on out and support Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. E ALITY Business Alliance Equality Business Alliance Mixer with Elote Café and Catering Thursday, June 22nd | 6p-7:30p Elote Café & Catering 514 S Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK Join us for June's EBA Mixer hosted by Triangle Home Solutions. We look forward to seeing everyone from 6-7:30 pm on the 22nd. To RSVP or for more information, email Luke Queer Women's Collective: PRIDE Happy Hour Saturday, June 24th | 2p-4p Dead Armadillo Brewery 1004 East 4th Street, Tulsa, OK, 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... lOo4 E 4TH ST, TULSA Qt<. ?A\'J.O United States, Oklahoma LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included) and we hope some of you will join us! June happy hour x2: Join us for a preparade pride day hang at Dead Armadillo from 2-4 PM! We'll be within walking distance of the festival and parade and DA is kid and pup-friendly! 83 United Prideraiser for the Equality Center Through June 30th Join 83 United in supporting our LGBTQIA+ friends and family by pledging to our Prideraiser Drive! We simply ask that you pledge at least 1 dollar for every goal that FC Tulsa scores in the month of June. Funds raised will stay right here in Tulsa and benefit OkEq and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Conway Twitch OKEQ x Tulsa Pride Fundraiser Through June 30th All month long, ConwayxT1tty will be raising money for Oklahomans for Equality. Come hang out and play some games while helping support the mission of Oklahomans for Equality and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sensitive Content must be 18yrs or older. 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Krispy Kreme Fundraiser for OKEQ KRISPY KREME DOZENS TO SUPPORT Through June 30th OKEQ $15 PER DOZEN OVER 50% ENDS June 30 DONATED BACK . . http1://groupr1i.se/kri1pykreme1122511 Q...._ Support the cause of OKEQ and treat yourself to some scrumptious snacks! At Oklahomans for Equality, we strive to promote fairness and justice for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and their families through inclusive advocacy, education, programs, partnerships, and the management of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Witness Change Through June 30th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The exhibit opens June 1st, 2023, at 6:00 pm. The exhibit will be up for the month of June. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00 pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/art- -- - ------ -- --gallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/OKEQArtGallery. The Witness Change (@witness_change @whereloveis illegal) project is documenting and sharing LGBTQ+ stories of discrimination and survival from around the world. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an exhibit at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the month of June 2023. Tulsa is one of two cities selected in the United States to host this exhibit, which will be used to catalyze a larger conversation of discrimination, survival, and resiliency of LGBTQ+ people here. Selected stories will be printed and included alongside existing stories from around the world. ❤??????? Despite gains made in many parts of the world, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and intersex (LGBTI) people are, in some regions, increasingly persecuted and denied basic human rights. Because bigotry thrives where we are silenced by 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... fear, we've created this space for people to share stories of discrimination and survival. Read these stories, share them, and contribute your own. Let the world know that we will not be silent. RSVP Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Iln Memoriaurn Scott Perry 03/26/1956 - 05/05/2023 Scott was the owner of Novel Idea bookstores in Tulsa. He became a realtor when he closed the stores. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Bvougbt 1'Jo Yott Bi 1f,jt1Je IL~tt~r ~~~~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! ~~~~~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ 0~@)0@;0@(10@:[B~:; 7J'(10Cb§& 7I'W@=§[p0~D7J' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 24 liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ----- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ®®rn@l®IP ~DnlJ)I]XIDlru @rPCIDDUIJ) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY ARS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 24 HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... \:iet help_ ___ S upplementa l applying for A • : ~!;~\i~;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 11877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice Constant @ Contact 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:53 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a250d9b00b7843fcc6a3ab797a76a834.pdf c3d2a5994ce36bf373a802e82558ab7e PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Today (6/19) is Juneteenth, a federal holiday marking a crucial landmark in America’s long and ongoing struggle for racial justice. Also called Freedom Day, Emancipation Day, or even America’s second Independence Day, Juneteenth commemorates June 19, 1865, the day Major General Gordon Granger led a regiment of soldiers to Galveston, Texas, where they delivered the message that the Union had won the war and was prepared to enforce the end of slavery. One way to honor Juneteenth is to support Black-owned businesses in our community today and yearround. Stop by the Equality Center to pick up your Shop Black Tulsa guide. 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ❤??????? As we celebrate Pride Month, it is crucial to show our unwavering support for the 2SLGBTQ+ community, especially our transgender brothers and sisters, who are the targets of numerous discriminatory bills both nationally and internationally. Let us be vocal in our stand for their right to live freely. Remember, your identity is valid and should be celebrated. No matter your identity ❤??????? 1081 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIPS VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES TULSA PRIDE VOLUNTEER 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... □ !STIIIAIIDN Al!TISTS TJLRIIC !GEil' Main Stage Tulsa Pride 2023 0 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ainbow Run- Friday June 23rd Fun Run at 7pm-5k at 7:30pm Gates Open at 5pm-10pm Festival & Parade -Saturday June24th Gates Open at 12pm-10pm Pride in The Park-Sunday June 25th 12pm-5pm Isa Pride 20 cah Membra Karma Eclec Tulsa Pride T-shirts are available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center during center hours! Meet and Greet 6 30pm -7 10pm $30 .00 COCO MONTRESE MEET & GREET JAYZEER SHANTEY MEET & GREET JOEY JAY MEET & GREET 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ CLOSED JUNE 26th - JULY 4th We want to ensure our staff has a chance to recharge after Pride, so please note that the Equality Center will be closed from June 26th to July 4th. We will resume regular operations and welcome you back starting Wednesday, July 5th. During this time, the clinic will maintain its usual hours on Tuesday and Wednesday from 9 am to 5 pm and Friday from 1 pm to 5 pm. We are also excited to invite you to the DVIS panel at the center on June 29th. We look forward to seeing you again soon! PLEASE JOIN US! In partnership with Oklahomans for Equality and in conjunction with PRIDE Month: CJav1s Thursday community'. talks June 29 Sp.m. CONVER5ATIONs7r o CON-FR-O N VIO LEN CE While the domestic violence awareness movement has largely focused on hetero relationships, recent research shows that LGBTQ+ individuals fall victim to domestic violence at equal or even higher rates than DVIS Community Talks: Conversations to Confront Violence Thursday, June 29th | 6p-7p Bruce Goff Event Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK their hetero or cisgender counterparts. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621E. 4"' St. RSVP at dvis.org face forms of abuse and barriers to support based specifically on prejudices against their gender expression or sexuality. and it's time for a conversation. Tomaro lebok. o Restorotive/Tronsformotive Justice Practitioner, Trainer. Minister, and Author, will facilitate a panel discussion on relationship violence omong the LGBTO+ Community. FREE and OPEN TO THE PUBLIC RSVP at dvis.org The need for domestic violence awareness and support is as great as it has ever been in today’s world. And yet historically, domestic violence awareness has primarily focused on hetero relationships despite the reality that LGBTQ+ individuals are not only equally susceptible to domestic violence but may even face higher rates of abuse compared to their heterosexual or cisgender counterparts — a reality supported by recent research. Sadly, LGBTQ+ individuals are often subjected to abuse explicitly based on prejudices against their gender expression and sexuality while facing additional barriers when seeking support for domestic abuse. 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Join us for a thought-provoking discussion on relationship violence within the LGBTQ+ community facilitated by Tamara Lebak. As a restorative/transformative justice practitioner, trainer, minister, and author, Tamara brings a wealth of expertise to the table, aiming to foster understanding and compassion. P R I S M A T I C - An Exhibition of Artstic Queer Liberation June 21st - 24th | 4p-8p Mojito Bar 1133 S Memorial Drive., Tulsa, OK Come and join us at Rabbit Hole on June 21st starting from 9 pm until closing time! We will be singing karaoke with Sin Fronteras x OkEq to support a great cause. You can make a difference in the Latinx Tulsa Community by purchasing a Mexican Candy Margarita drink. Let's come together and make an impact! make a difference together! make a difference together! ♦ Find LGBTQ+ friendly care including doctor visits, prescription drugs, mental health services, and more. As we celebrate PRIDE Month, let’s talk about Medicaid. Medicaid helps you find LGBTQ+-friendly care, including doctor visits, prescription drugs, mental health services, and more. Visit healthcare.gov or call 1-800-318-2596 to take PRIDE in your health. 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Special Events Coming Up Equality Business Alliance Mixer with Elote Café and Catering Thursday, June 21st | 9p Rabbit Hole 116 S Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK - - E . ALITY usiness Alliance Come and join us at Rabbit Hole on June 21st starting from 9 pm until closing time! We will be singing karaoke with Sin Fronteras x OkEq to support a great cause. You can make a difference in the Latinx Tulsa Community by purchasing a Mexican Candy Margarita drink. Let's come together and make an impact! make a difference together! make a difference together! Equality Business Alliance Mixer with Elote Café and Catering Thursday, June 22nd | 6p-7:30p Elote Café & Catering 514 S Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK Join us for June's EBA Mixer hosted by Triangle Home Solutions. We look forward to seeing everyone from 6-7:30 pm on the 22nd. To RSVP or for more information, email Luke 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective: PRIDE Happy Hour Saturday, June 24th | 2p-4p Dead Armadillo Brewery 1004 East 4th Street, Tulsa, OK, United States, Oklahoma LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included) and we hope some of you will join us! June happy hour x2: Join us for a preparade pride day hang at Dead Armadillo from 2-4 PM! We'll be within walking distance of the festival and parade and DA is kid and pup-friendly! Housin of Oldahoma will be ossistins Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, July 5th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP FREE HIV Testing Every Tuesday Tuesday, July 11th | 4p-6p 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK kc H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, July 12th | 5.30p-7.00p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Tulsa Really Really Free Market ♦ UPCOMING JUNE RRFM 12-4 PM JUN 17 ~ JULY RRFM JUL 12-4 PM 1s ' - ---======- ' ... .- Saturday, July 15th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ♦ MARKETS I ----==::::..I A community-sharing event! 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 24 AUGUST RRFM 12-4 PM ♦ https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... AUG 19 SEPTEMBER RRFM 12-4 PM (ffl RRFM TULSA SEPT 16 Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/ rrfm_tulsa/ RSVP 83 United Prideraiser for the Equality Center Through June 30th Join 83 United in supporting our LGBTQIA+ friends and family by pledging to our Prideraiser Drive! We simply ask that you pledge at least 1 dollar for every goal that FC Tulsa scores in the month of June. Funds raised will stay right here in Tulsa and benefit OkEq and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Conway Twitch OKEQ x Tulsa Pride Fundraiser Through June 30th All month long, ConwayxT1tty will be raising money for Oklahomans for Equality. Come hang out and play some games while helping support the mission of Oklahomans for Equality and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sensitive Content must be 18yrs or older. The Krispy Kreme Fundraiser for OKEQ 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Through June 30th KRISPY KREME DOZENS TO SUPPORT OKEQ $15 PER DOZEN OVER 50% ENDS June 30 DONATED BACK - - http1://groupr,1i.H/ kri1pykreme1122Sn Support the cause of OKEQ and treat yourself to some scrumptious snacks! At Oklahomans for Equality, we strive to promote fairness and justice for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and their families through inclusive advocacy, education, programs, partnerships, and the management of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. a- The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Witness Change Through June 30th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The exhibit opens June 1st, 2023, at 6:00 pm. The exhibit will be up for the month of June. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00 pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/art- -- - ------- -- --gallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/OKEQArtGallery. The Witness Change (@witness_change @whereloveis illegal) project is documenting and sharing LGBTQ+ stories of discrimination and survival from around the world. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an exhibit at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the month of June 2023. Tulsa is one of two cities selected in the United States to host this exhibit, which will be used to catalyze a larger conversation of discrimination, survival, and resiliency of LGBTQ+ people here. Selected stories will be printed and included alongside existing stories from around the world. ❤??????? Despite gains made in many parts of the world, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and intersex (LGBTI) people are, in some regions, increasingly persecuted and denied basic human rights. Because bigotry thrives where we are silenced by fear, we've created this space for people to share stories of 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... discrimination and survival. Read these stories, share them, and contribute your own. Let the world know that we will not be silent. RSVP OU Tulsa Leadership Survey In order to better understand the current and future leadership needs from Tulsan's perspectives, Leadership Tulsa and OU Tulsa have worked to create a collaborative community group to put together a survey. Our goal is that these survey results will be shared with current and prospective leaders, along with leadership development programs, who will be able to compare the needs of Tulsans with their current approaches. We aim to get diverse perspectives to understand our community's differing needs and ideas. This tool will lead to more representative leadership and ultimately equips our community to work towards more equitable outcomes. We'd love for you to take 15 minutes to complete the survey (Link to English survey and Link toSpanish Survey) ----- - so that we can understand your needs. We'd also love for you to share this with your networks (think book clubs, church groups, PTA's, family, colleagues, etc.). You are welcome to reference or edit this link to help give you ideas for sharing the survey in ways that maximize perspectives. Thank you in advance for vast our community better understand the wide array of needs that exist so we can all take action to develop leaders that are equipped to meet those needs. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 24 -~-f• https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln Memoriaurn 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Scott Perry 03/26/1956 - 05/05/2023 Scott was the owner of Novel Idea bookstores in Tulsa. He became a realtor when he closed the stores. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Brougbt 1'10 YOlli Bi 1~t1Je lL(?;f f'(?;lf __. ~~ ~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! ~ ~ !:."' !:."' ~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D@D@l1D§§~~ 7J'!1D[b,§£ 7J'W@=§[p0~07J' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming --- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. @r@rncfil®lf ~Dlll])I]XIDrffi @lf®Dnl]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Outside the Box Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF = 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 24 sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... make an appointment today. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Jlst} Get h e l p . supplemental applying for :~!~~\i:;ce A • P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:54 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fec2077bd477b2d1f8e0f2b47dcfb1d6.pdf 863033e5f021b7c98f8229a1d85fc84b PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. OKEQ CLOSED JUNE 26th - JULY 4th We want to ensure our staff has a chance to recharge after Pride, so please note that the Equality Center will be closed from June 26th to July 4th. We will resume regular operations and welcome you back starting Wednesday, July 5th. During this time, the clinic will maintain its usual hours on Tuesday and Wednesday from 9 am to 5 pm and Friday from 1 pm to 5 pm. We are also excited to invite you to the DVIS panel at the center on June 29th. We look forward to seeing you again soon! ❤??????? As we celebrate Pride Month, it is crucial to show our unwavering support for the 2SLGBTQ+ community, especially our transgender brothers 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... and sisters, who are the targets of numerous discriminatory bills both nationally and internationally. Let us be vocal in our stand for their right to live freely. Remember, your identity is valid and should be celebrated. No matter your identity ❤??????? PLEASE .JOIN US! In partner ship with Okla homans for Equality o nd in conjunction with PRI DE Month: CJav1s Thursday community'. talks June 29 6p.m. CONVERSATIONS .TO CON-FRON VIO LENCE While the domestic violence awareness movement has largely focused on hetero relationships, recent research shows that LGBTQ+ individuals fall victim to domestic violence at equal or even higher rates than DVIS Community Talks: Conversations to Confront Violence Thursday, June 29th | 6p-7p Bruce Goff Event Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK their hetero or cisgender counterparts. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621E. 4"' St. RSVP at dvis.org face forms of abuse and barriers to support based specifically on prejudices against their gender expression or sexuality. and it's time for a conversation. Tamaro Lebak, a Restorative/Transformative Justice Practitioner. Trainer. Minister. and Author. will facili tate o panel discussion on relationship violence omong the LGBTQ+ Community. FREE and OPEN TO THE PUBLIC RSVP at dvis.org Join us for a thought-provoking discussion on relationship violence within the LGBTQ+ community facilitated by Tamara Lebak. As a restorative/transformative justice practitioner, trainer, minister, and author, Tamara brings a wealth of expertise to the table, aiming to foster understanding and compassion. ♦ Find LGBTQ+ friendly care including doctor visits, prescription drugs, mental health services, and more . The need for domestic violence awareness and support is as great as it has ever been in today’s world. And yet historically, domestic violence awareness has primarily focused on hetero relationships despite the reality that LGBTQ+ individuals are not only equally susceptible to domestic violence but may even face higher rates of abuse compared to their heterosexual or cisgender counterparts — a reality supported by recent research. Sadly, LGBTQ+ individuals are often subjected to abuse explicitly based on prejudices against their gender expression and sexuality while facing additional barriers when seeking support for domestic abuse. As we celebrate PRIDE Month, let’s talk about Medicaid. Medicaid helps you find LGBTQ+-friendly care, including doctor visits, prescription drugs, mental health services, and more. Visit healthcare.gov or call 1-800-318-2596 to take 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... PRIDE in your health. Special Events Coming Up Housin Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, July 5th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, July 11th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, July 12th | 5.30p-7.00p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. ♦ UPCOMING MARKETS ♦ JUNE RRFM 12-4 PM AUGUST RRFM 12-4 PM ♦ JULY RRFM JUN 17 AUG 19 @ RRFM 12-4 PM SEPTEMBER RRFM 12-4 PM TULSA JUL 15 SEPT 16 Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, July 15th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/ rrfm_tulsa/ 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... RSVP The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Witness Change Through June 30th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The exhibit opens June 1st, 2023, at 6:00 pm. The exhibit will be up for the month of June. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00 pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/art- -- - - - - - - - -- --gallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/OKEQArtGallery. The Witness Change (@witness_change @whereloveis illegal) project is documenting and sharing LGBTQ+ stories of discrimination and survival from around the world. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an exhibit at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the month of June 2023. Tulsa is one of two cities selected in the United States to host this exhibit, which will be used to catalyze a larger conversation of discrimination, survival, and resiliency of LGBTQ+ people here. Selected stories will be printed and included alongside existing stories from around the world. ❤??????? Despite gains made in many parts of the world, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and intersex (LGBTI) people are, in some regions, increasingly persecuted and denied basic human rights. Because bigotry thrives where we are silenced by fear, we've created this space for people to share stories of discrimination and survival. Read these stories, share them, and contribute your own. Let the world know that we will not be silent. RSVP 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... PRIDE Fundraisers 83 United Prideraiser for the Equality Center Through June 30th Join 83 United in supporting our LGBTQIA+ friends and family by pledging to our Prideraiser Drive! We simply ask that you pledge at least 1 dollar for every goal that FC Tulsa scores in the month of June. Funds raised will stay right here in Tulsa and benefit OkEq and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Conway Twitch OKEQ x Tulsa Pride Fundraiser Through June 30th All month long, ConwayxT1tty will be raising money for Oklahomans for Equality. Come hang out and play some games while helping support the mission of Oklahomans for Equality and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sensitive Content must be 18yrs or older. The Krispy Kreme Fundraiser for OKEQ Through June 30th KRISPY KREME DOZENS TO SUPPORT OKEQ $15 PER DOZEN OVER 50% DONATED BACK ENDS June 30 Support the cause of OKEQ and treat yourself to some scrumptious snacks! At Oklahomans for Equality, we strive to promote fairness and justice for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and their families through inclusive advocacy, education, programs, partnerships, and the management of the Dennis R. Neill 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Center. - - https://groupr1i.se/krispykreme11225H a- OU Tulsa Leadership Survey In order to better understand the current and future leadership needs from Tulsan's perspectives, Leadership Tulsa and OU Tulsa have worked to create a collaborative community group to put together a survey. Our goal is that these survey results will be shared with current and prospective leaders, along with leadership development programs, who will be able to compare the needs of Tulsans with their current approaches. We aim to get diverse perspectives to understand our community's differing needs and ideas. This tool will lead to more representative leadership and ultimately equips our community to work towards more equitable outcomes. We'd love for you to take 15 minutes to complete the survey (Link to English survey and --Link --to Spanish Survey) so that we can understand your needs. We'd ---------also love for you to share this with your networks (think book clubs, church groups, PTA's, family, colleagues, etc.). You are welcome to reference or edit this link to help give you ideas for sharing the survey in ways that maximize perspectives. Thank you in advance for vast our community better understand the wide array of needs that exist so we can all take action to develop leaders that are equipped to meet those needs. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. -~-<r- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-<r- OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln Memoriaurn 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Scott Perry 03/26/1956 - 05/05/2023 Scott was the owner of Novel Idea bookstores in Tulsa. He became a realtor when he closed the stores. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Broug!1t 1' 0 Yo11i Bi 1 ,rjt1Je lL(?;t f(?;lf ~~~~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! ~~~~~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... X OKEQ 0~@0~0@(1[)§§~~ 'v'QdJC!:::,§& 'v'W@=§[p0~0'v' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · ®®rn@l®IP ~lIDIJ)I]XIDlru -@rP©l!UIJ) Gener Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ~ •T ++ -.-, ~ ...l 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... uK h ll T + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 17 HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... \:iet help_ ___ S upplementa l applying for A • : ~!;~\i~;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 11877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice Constant @ Contact 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:55 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/22eaf063d9758288f965b1fecc5c48e3.pdf 42a638065c8b2b839c195f85b08f49cc PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Special Events Coming Up Housin Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, July 5th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... RSVP FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, July 11th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, July 12th | 5.30p-7.00p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Tulsa Really Really Free 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ♦ UPCOMING Market ♦ MARKETS JUNE RRFM JULY RRFM JUN 17 12-4 PM 12-4 PM JUL 15 --AUGUST RRFM 12-4 PM ♦ AUG SEPTEMBER RRFM 19 12-4 PM @ RRFM SEPT 16 TULSA Saturday, July 15th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/ rrfm_tulsa/ RSVP OU Tulsa Leadership Survey In order to better understand the current and future leadership needs from Tulsan's perspectives, Leadership Tulsa and OU Tulsa have worked to create a collaborative community group to put together a survey. Our goal is that these survey results will be shared with current and prospective leaders, along with leadership development programs, who will be able to compare the needs of Tulsans with their current approaches. We aim to get diverse perspectives to understand our community's differing needs and ideas. This tool will lead to more representative leadership and ultimately equips our community to work towards more equitable outcomes. We'd love for you to take 15 minutes to complete the survey (Link to English survey and Link toSpanish -- - - -Survey) - - - so that we can understand your needs. We'd also love for you to share this with your networks (think book clubs, church groups, PTA's, family, colleagues, etc.). You are welcome to reference or edit this link to help give you ideas for sharing the survey in ways that maximize perspectives. Thank you in advance for vast our community better understand the wide array of needs that exist so we can all take action to develop leaders that are equipped to meet those needs. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln Memoriaunni 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Brougbt 1'Jo YOlll Bi ,~ilJ~ )L@;f t@;lf -~~~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! ~~~~~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ O[:r::!J[Q) □~□@)l10 §§~~ 7J"l10[b§£ Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. "u'W@=§lPD~D"u' IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! This program is for ages 13 - 17. 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · ®®rn@l®IP ~DnlJ)I]XIDlru @rP©DUIJ) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEO+ 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • "' + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. HOPE Testing These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:57 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1b21a0c45f6b139544fa779de6c47ae7.pdf 088c89943ae797581b63e960e3f558f7 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library catalog link: https://www.librarycat.org/lib/TulsaRainbowLibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer sign-up link: https://www.signupgenius.com/go/10C084CAAAE22A7F8C07modernize Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, July 11th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ~ H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, July 11th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. RSVP Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... coming in. Email julie.goree@laok.org. Phone (918)295-9429. Housin of otlohomo will be assist ins These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, July 12th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, July 12th | 5.30p-7.00p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Tulsa Really Really Free Market 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • IVIAll.ft.1:.1 ~ JUNE RRFM 12-4 PM AUGUST RRFM 12-4 PM ♦ RSVP JULY RRFM JUN 17 12-4 PM AUG SEPTEMBER RRFM 19 12-4 PM @ RRFM JUL 15 SEPT 16 Saturday, July 15th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! TULSA Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ ----- --- --- - 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... DVIS Community Talks: Conversations to Confront Violence Thursday, July 20th | 6p-7p Bruce Goff Event Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK During the event, attendees will have the opportunity to engage in informative panel discussions led by experts, community leaders and advocates who specialize in addressing interpersonal violence within the LGBTQIA+ community. Topics to be covered include the prevalence of relationship violence, its impact on different subgroups within the community, the unique challenges faced by survivors when seeking support and local resources available to support victims. In addition to the panel discussions, the event will feature resource booths where attendees can access information on local support services, counseling resources, legal assistance, and community organizations working towards ending relationship violence. Launched in October of 2022, DVIS Community Talks, explores a variety of topics, including sexual and domestic violence, stalking, and human trafficking. The series is geared toward exploring, understanding and responding to different types of interpersonal violence in our communities. More information is available online. Domestic Violence Intervention Services (DVIS) and Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) will host a panel discussion focused on addressing interpersonal violence within the LGBTQIA+ community. The event, which is part of an ongoing series DVIS Community Talks: Conversations to Confront Violence, aims to foster meaningful discussions, promote awareness and explore strategies to combat relationship violence in a safe and inclusive manner. RSVP OU Tulsa Leadership Survey In order to better understand the current and future leadership needs from Tulsan's perspectives, Leadership Tulsa and OU Tulsa have worked to create a collaborative community group to put together a survey. Our goal is that these survey results will be shared with current and prospective leaders, along with leadership development programs, who will be able to compare the needs of Tulsans with their current approaches. We aim to get diverse perspectives to understand our community's differing needs and ideas. This tool will lead to more representative leadership and ultimately equips our community to work towards more equitable outcomes. We'd love for you to take 15 minutes to complete the survey (Link to English survey and --Link --to Spanish Survey) so that we can understand your needs. We'd ---------also love for you to share this with your networks (think book clubs, church groups, PTA's, family, colleagues, etc.). You are welcome to reference or edit this link to help give you ideas for sharing the survey in ways that maximize perspectives. Thank you in advance for vast our community better understand the wide array of 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... needs that exist so we can all take action to develop leaders that are equipped to meet those needs. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. -~-er- OKEO HEALTH -~-er- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln MemoriWTI In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Brougbt 0 Yott Bi 1 ,, 1~lt1J@ lL(?;f f'(?;tr ~~~~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. ~~!:."'!:."'~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@QdJ§§~~ "IT'QdJ[b s & "IT'W@ =slPD~ 09:F Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ®®rncll®IP ~11111])I]XID1ru @rP®11111]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ReRatlonshlps 4~ 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. = = 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 15 Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get ,,,. h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!'.~\i;;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ooe e s • Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:58 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/36dd55e949b38ec0013c30f4645faf7a.pdf abac696c4d9831566cc3e9edad8718ea PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library catalog link: https://www.librarycat.org/lib/TulsaRainbowLibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer sign-up link: https://www.signupgenius.com/go/10C084CAAAE22A7F8C07modernize Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, July 18th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ~ H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Housin Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, July 19th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. DVIS Community Talks: Conversations to Confront 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Violence Thursday, July 20th | 6p-7p Bruce Goff Event Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Domestic Violence Intervention Services (DVIS) and Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) will host a panel discussion focused on addressing interpersonal violence within the LGBTQIA+ community. The event, which is part of an ongoing series DVIS Community Talks: Conversations to Confront Violence, aims to foster meaningful discussions, promote awareness and explore strategies to combat relationship violence in a safe and inclusive manner. More information is available online. During the event, attendees will have the opportunity to engage in informative panel discussions led by experts, community leaders and advocates who specialize in addressing interpersonal violence within the LGBTQIA+ community. Topics to be covered include the prevalence of relationship violence, its impact on different subgroups within the community, the unique challenges faced by survivors when seeking support and local resources available to support victims. In addition to the panel discussions, the event will feature resource booths where attendees can access information on local support services, counseling resources, legal assistance, and community organizations working towards ending relationship violence. RSVP Rainbow Room with Lis Masters Thursday, July 20th |7.30p Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tickets Sister Mary Ignatius commands you to attend an evening of satirical Durang bits, accompanied by some beautiful Sondheim songs. Thursday, July 20 - Curtain 7:30 p.m. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... scour rr<ooP 74-g4- 5COUT1ROOP 15 OPEN 1D All GIRL5 AND 1RAN5/NONBINARY YOU1H Thursday, July 20th | 6.30p-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK .VERY rttuRSD~Y OF rtt, MONTH 6,30 PIM Hey there! If you're interested in joining Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 pm and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Tulsa Equality Game Night Tuesday, July 25th | 6p-9p ,_l' GAME NIGHT EVERY LAST TUESDAY OF THE MONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, August 8th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 16 RSVP https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Email julie.goree@laok.org. Phone (918)295-9429. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, August 9th | 5.30p-7.00p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 16 E https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ALITY usiness Alliance ' II I- , 1 EBA Mixer with Ingredion Wednesday, August 16th |6p Ingredion Incorporated 810 S Cincinnati Ave, 4th Floor Tulsa, OK Join us for our EBA Mixer with Ingredion Ingredion Incorporated is an American multinational ingredient provider based in Westchester, Illinois, producing mainly starch, modified starches, and starch sugars such as glucose syrup and high fructose syrup. www.ingredion.com The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month, 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/equality-business-alliance.htm TULSA REALL .1 REALLY JFREc MARKET Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, August 19th |12p-4p 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 16 i l :, https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A Community Shoring Event I 621 E. 4th St Every 3rd Saturday • 12p-4p Clothing • Housewares • Books • Gadgets• Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! RSVP Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ OU Tulsa Leadership Survey In order to better understand the current and future leadership needs from Tulsan's perspectives, Leadership Tulsa and OU Tulsa have worked to create a collaborative community group to put together a survey. Our goal is that these survey results will be shared with current and prospective leaders, along with leadership development programs, who will be able to compare the needs of Tulsans with their current approaches. We aim to get diverse perspectives to understand our community's differing needs and ideas. This tool will lead to more representative leadership and ultimately equips our community to work towards more equitable outcomes. We'd love for you to take 15 minutes to complete the survey (Link to English survey and ---Link ---to Spanish Survey) so that we can understand your needs. ----------We'd also love for you to share this with your networks (think book clubs, church groups, PTA's, family, colleagues, etc.). You are welcome to reference or edit this link to help give you ideas for sharing the survey in ways that maximize perspectives. Thank you in advance for vast our community better understand the wide array of needs that exist so we can all take action to develop leaders that are equipped to meet those needs. A BENEIIT FDR OKIAHOMANS FDR (QUAlflV FLYOVER FEST 2023 NOVEMBER 17111 -19™ ·oil,1, VFW POST 577 -TULSA. DK ~~illll ol (!;rut~ TBAONB/1 ,i:n"7't 1,1; lt2J H.ESTlL\INJN(. C>llDl~ll 818 II MOURNING STIIR - IINKLEBITER - BIIZOOKIIMOTH - BRIil CANOY APPLE - CAUSTIC - COLO SHOULDER - CONTENTION DIIVZ LOST - DOUBT IT - DDWNWIIRD - EN LOVE - ENERVATE FADING SIGNAL - FREE 4 llll - GAGGING ORDER - GNIIW - GUMM HOLD MY OWN - INITIIITE - INSIDE YOU - JIVEBOMB Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. -~-er- OKEO HEALTH -~-er- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln MemoriWTI 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Brougbt 1'10 V Olli Bi ,~t1Je lL~tt~r ~~~~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! ~~!:."'!:."'~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin rontera X OKEQ 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 16 Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Center. Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · ®®rn@l®IP ~Dnl])I]XIDiru @rf®Dnl]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS + + L + 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. \ISt} Get h e l p . supplemental applying for • • :~!;~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. .. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways _--------- -- ___ __..._. __ _ .... 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... to stan an appncauon; 1. Call toll-free to 11877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:59 AM � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2025] Pulse Memorial Images Subject The topic of the resource Pulse Memorial Images from Orlando, Florida, and Tulsa, Oklahoma Description An account of the resource 8 images related to memorials for the Pulse nightclub shooting that occurred on June 12, 2016. The first is from the official memorial site in Orlando, Florida taken during the summer of 2025 by Mary Bishop-Baldwin, and 6 of them are from various locations in Tulsa, including the Equality Center, that displayed rainbow lights in solidarity on the day of the attack. The last image features the names of the 49 victims. This entry also includes an article written by Mary Bishop-Baldwin for the 10th anniversary. Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource June 12, 2016; 2025 Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Mary Bishop-Baldwin https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8dfe293ada9c23796a8caf6fd9309d37.pdf 2b0d5eda7f92e578a735ab15f507bdb3 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews | October 24th, 2022 OKEQ STATEMENTS OKLAHOMA HOUSE BILL 1007 STATEMENT - - -~ ~ ----------------------- 4/28/26, 4:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Medical decisions should be between the patient, the parents, and their doctors. The interjection of politicians into that space is wildly inappropriate and nothing more than an act of bullying. This carrot and stick approach to promote their transphobic ideals hurts all Oklahomans who access medical services at University Hospitals. They would rather deny funding for medical services than respect the rights of transgender kids and their families. Transgender medical care is a form of suicide prevention. Because without this care, our young people often don't live to see adulthood. These are Oklahoma kids who need support and care. To all trans kids and their families, no matter what Oklahoma Legislatures think or do, you are valued, and people will continue to fight for you. ,, OKLAHOMANS FOR EQ!JALITY 09.28.22 OKEQ - Bartlesville Statement '' Oood evening. My name Is Morgan Lawrence-Hayes and I am the Executive Board President for Oklahomans for Equality - Bartlesville. I am here to address the recent Petition stating a des/re to ban Adult Entertainment In Public Spaces. I understand this Is In response to the recent Pride Event and Drag Performance that OKEQ held at Tower Center. First, I would say that Oklahomans for Equality Bartlesville agrees with the title of this petition, "Prohibit adult-oriented entertainment In a public space." We ALSO do not want Adult Entertainment to take place In our public spaces. Fortunately, the Pride event and Drag performance did not Include any form of adult entertainment. There are numerous photos and videos taken by attendees, Including news outlets, and none of these support the version of the Pride event and Drag Show that this petition alleges. Plainly stated, there was no nudity, no obscenity, and no sexually suggestive performances. The Petition's description of the event Is a fabrication meant to dog whistle support based on fear. It Is homophobia and transphobla attempting to disguise Itself as concern for the community. Second, I would like to remind all of us that while we are certainly allowed to hold different opinions, and different values for our own families, we are not allowed to force those standards or values on other citizens. In the past, there have been a number of events held at Tower Center that did not directly align with my own personal values. In those Instances, I chose not to attend, recognizing those events did not vlolllte community standards either. For context, no one was forced to attend Pride. If supporting Pride Is not something a citizen feels Inclined to do, they have the freedom and the choice to not attend the event. I strongly feel that so long as events abide by our community standards, we must protect the freedom of •rtlesvllle citizens to participate, even for the events that we do not personally align with. o ~ b + 4/28/26, 4:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... lfy to hold the Pride Event and Drag Show, so long as we abide by community standards, would be rwd dl•crlmlnatlon. Should this happen, It would force OKEQ-Bartlesvllle to respond with equally te legal action to protect our freedom. That legal action would not only be costly to the city and ,, ,-yer• , but dlvl•lve to our community. I ask that our city council stand firm In protecting our ·- ntlnue to lawfully u•e public spaces for Bartlesville Pride, and all events that meet community OKEQ_- BARTLESVILLE OKEQ BARTLESVILLE VIDEO STATEMENT OKEQ BARTLESVILLE FACEBOOK Upcoming Special Events Tulsa Pride Bingo: Halloween Saturday, Oct 29th | 6:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tickets The Ghouls Came to PLAY ? Pride Royalty performances King and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022, King Michael Khystian & Queen Kitty Quinn Khystian. King and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2020 & 2021, Blaze Khystian and Kitty Marie Legacy King and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2019, Emeritus Anita Richards and Scrappy Legacy. Special Guests IrvanBreal and Lady Kakes. and Halloween Costume Contest!! Prizes from: Inner Circle, Nothing Bundt Cakes, Dalesandro's, Tulsa Ballet, Tulsa Opera, and Aaru Games. 0 EBA Mixer with Edgewood Veterinary Hospital Thursday, Oct 27th | 6:00pm 4/28/26, 4:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 16 EDGEWOOD https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Edgewood Veterinary Hospital 3104 E 51st St Tulsa, OK 74105 Join us for our October Equality Business Alliance Mixer at Edgewood Veterinary Hospital. Edgewood Veterinary Hospital "We offer compassionate and expert preventative and diagnostic medicine focusing on helping patients." RSVP Edgewood Vet Hospital The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Petr Rudnev Month of October | 9:00am 9:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 View Art Petr was born in a small village in the far reaches of Russia near the Mongolian border. He loved art in all its forms from a very early age and chose to pursue it rather than sports or other things. Throughout his whole life, Petr suffered persecution in Russia, so when he got the opportunity to come and seek asylum in the United States, he took it. He has lived in America since 2018 and is actively pursuing his art career here. 0 The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Tyler Thompson RSVP Thursday, Nov 3rd | 7:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tyler was born in 1996 in Oklahoma and is a member of the Cherokee Nation. He has been drawing all his life with his brother Brandon being the 4/28/26, 4:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... inspiration that got him into art. Throughout school, he was praised for his drawing capabilities and was commissioned to do various pieces in his high school. In 2022, he was commissioned to do a memorial piece for missing indigenous woman Aubrey Dameron for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Thompson had also been published in the Tribal College Journal for posters he made to raise awareness for Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women. The signs were distributed through tribal colleges for them to hang around campuses. Thompson is attending Tohono O’odham Community College where he is pursuing an associate's Degree in Fine Arts. His art page, Thompson Art Design, can be found on Instagram where he draws in various mediums such as digital art, graphite pencil, charcoal, and paint. . /\ I I\ Payton La eyton Law Firm Spon Change and Gender llnic 2nd Wednesd Name & Gender Maker Change Clinic Wednesday, Nov 9th | 5:30pm 7:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Contact Josh Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge 4/28/26, 4:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Twisted Arts Film Fest: Wild (2022) Wednesday, Nov 9th | 6:00pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 Join Twisted Arts Tulsa and OKEQ as we kickoff the second annual Twisted Arts Film Festival on November 9, 2022 at Circle Cinema. 6PM;7PM Pre-show Reception DIRECTED BY: Bretten Hannam (2021) COUNTRY: Canada | 99mins SYNOPSIS: On the run from his abusive father and in search of a mother he thought was dead, Mi’kmaw teenager Link (Phillip Lewitski) undertakes a formative journey through the small towns and lush wilderness of Nova Scotia. With his sarcastic younger half-brother Travis (Avery Winters-Anthony) in tow, Link meets an empathetic young drifter named Pasmay (Joshua Odjick) who shares his Indigenous heritage and offers to guide the brothers through the unfamiliar landscape. As they travel through his ancestral environs, Link’s encounters with fellow Mi’kmaw begin to cultivate his understanding of a culture—and a family —from which he’s been alienated. And the bond he forms with Pasmay, which evolves from friendship into something more, allows him to embrace the TwoSpirit identity that both young men share. Each ticket purchased receives a complimentary beer or glass of wine ?. Tickets RSVP Wild Trailer Thursdays in The Rainbow Room Thursday, Nov 10th | 8:00pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tickets 4/28/26, 4:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Cocktails with Cole: The Songs of Porter, Nat, and Natalie Featuring Thesa Loving, Pat Hobbs, John Orsulak, Nick Cains, and Cathy Venable. 0 Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More Dennis R. eill Equality Center. 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 DEADLINE IS DECEMBER 9TH EMAIL KAO.MORRISOOKE0.ORG PROPOSALS: BIO AND 3 PIECES ALL MEDIUMS ARE WELCOME. 4/28/26, 4:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SUBMISSIONS OKEQ Programming LGBTQ Women's Network Monthly Happy Hour First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 ~ ~@~ 0[i::!J@ll@l0(£)CkD@! @!Oslg "O"CkDlb~& "O"W @=~[;')Ousl □ "O" IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, 4/28/26, 4:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ 4/28/26, 4:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 16 OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT f - - --•-... FILM IT Flm a lhort-perforrname crdocumontarU FINCER PAINT IT Create digital art, color penc,1, or drawing PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ 4/28/26, 4:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: J. OKEQ 'NINL.aitlly © ..... --.•- -Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE Belongs Ycu VOICE IS Vaill The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES ~ 10 raise Nnds and S4JPPOf1. lor cu library seeks to n::reese eccess to and scope of LBGTOIA• IT\llle08!S Donate rxteyt 0. Searchtor ~IOMMrrostanct1W9"Wlonlw,J~ O\lf~ISsponsoredllr-110110"1otA1911t~ • ~au:nryca,a Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library -ci=-<r- OKEO HEALTH -ci=-<r- CLINIC ■ Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Donate & Support OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. Please do not send medical or private 4/28/26, 4:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT information via email! Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Julie L. Goree with Legal = Every Tuesday from • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = 4/28/26, 4:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 16 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network 4/28/26, 4:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. In Memoriam Il111 MlemoniWTI Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21,2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23,2022 In Memoriam Submissions 4/28/26, 4:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKE okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 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SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews July 11, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! p D~! DAY PRIDE DAY DRAG SHOW July 16, 2022 FREE Admission 4/28/26, 4:22 PM �Pride Day at Oaklake Trails 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-at-Oaklake-Trails.html... •Name Tfia P IDE a9 Game •ora9 sho1o11o1/ Deja Blu •Gender Bendin9 Dance INFORMATION@: Bring your$ and show some LOVE! ~ /www.oakLaketrolls,com/pdde-dayZOll JULY 16TH@ 8:45pm : Clubhouse Oaklake Trails PRide Day Saturday, July 16, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our Second Annual Pride Day! Just say, “I’m here for Pride Day,” to receive FREE admission. We’ve got a full day of activities beginning at 10 am PLUS a $10 meal voucher for lunch or dinner! Check out the full schedule here: https://www.oaklaketrails.com/pride-day2022. We will end the day with a Drag Show featuring Deja Blu and a Gender-Bending Dance with DJ Kelly! Show your love for our drag queen with your dollar bills! Facebook Event Page 4/28/26, 4:22 PM �Pride Day at Oaklake Trails 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-at-Oaklake-Trails.html... OKEQ Seniors Meeting + + Tuesday, July 12, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ This week OKEQ Seniors will be going to the Senior Life Expo at the Exchange Center at Expo Square. We will meet at the Equality Center and ride together in the Equality Van! The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OKEQ Seniors Summer Pool Party Tuesday, July 26, 10:00 a.m. RSVP for the address Members should meet on Tuesday, July 26, at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and a railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - to RSVP. Put "Pool Party" in the subject line. Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library 4/28/26, 4:22 PM �Pride Day at Oaklake Trails 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-at-Oaklake-Trails.html... Library News! Dear Readers: OUR VOICES. Throughout not just the history of the world but our own personal history, people have tried to repress, criminalize, or shame us. Recent legislative and judicial moves are trying to erase progress that we have made in attaining our human and civil rights over the past few decades. This includes the removal of LGBTQIA++ materials from schools and libraries. I decided to come back to my previously-held position as the librarian for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library because I was angry about what was happening and knew I could do something about it. I knew our library could be strong where publiclyfunded institutions were vulnerable. While other places are getting rid of queer materials, we can add them. There are more and more people losing access to representation and identity/sexuality-based resources. We have that access and those resources. We can have more. This is the fuel behind the newly kickstarted library fundraising campaign “Our Voices.” Throughout the coming year, there will be opportunities to share your voice in support of this campaign. I encourage you to think about what voices have impacted you and how your voice can impact others. Your Voice Belongs. Your Voice is Valid. Vindicate Your Voice. Publicize Your Voice. There are many ways you can be a part of this mission: 1) Make a monetary donation to the library. All donations go towards purchasing new books. 2) Sponsor the library catalog for a month with a targeted donation, for as little as $10/month. 3) Volunteer to help. Our immediate need is for detail-oriented people to shelf-read and verify database information. 4) Sign up for a library card. Circulation statistics matter in external funding opportunities. And as always, I’m available to talk about how we are going to make our little Rainbow library a megaphone of Pride. Thank you for your support. Michelle Simmons Librarian, Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library michelle.simmons@okeq.org Housing Solutions works to make homelessness rare, brief, and non-recurring in Tulsa. The Landlord-Tenant Resource 4/28/26, 4:22 PM �Pride Day at Oaklake Trails 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-at-Oaklake-Trails.html... nuu"•••~ Center (LTRC) division works to stop homelessness before it starts by providing information and resources that can help keep our neighbors safe and stably housed. The LTRC offers tenant rights and responsibilities education, resource information, direct referrals to legal service providers, community outreach, and more. The LTRC also facilitates the Social Services Hub (Hub), Tulsa County’s only eviction diversion program. The Hub runs in conjunction with the Tulsa County eviction docket Monday through Thursday from 1:00 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. at Iron Gate (501 W. Archer). If you have received a late notice or an eviction summons, please attend the Hub for inperson assistance and learn about resources and options. " Solutions The LTRC will be onsite at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Wednesdays from 6:00 p.m.- 7:00 p.m., and Thursday evenings beginning at 5:00 p.m. to assist with tenant rights education, eviction prevention resources (including emergency rental assistance), and access to case management services. No appointment is necessary. Please bring a photo ID (does NOT need to be current or US-issued), any late notices or summons you’ve received, and any utility bills you need assistance with. R LIH il1E 4/28/26, 4:22 PM �Pride Day at Oaklake Trails 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-at-Oaklake-Trails.html... insurance so you're protected in case of injury or sickness . This month, celebrate your health. Everyone deserves access to quality, affordable health coverage so they can thrive. Get started at healthcare.gov. #Pride #MedicaidMatters • Lawyer in the Center LEGAL AID th SERVICES OF Tuesday, July 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, July 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us 4/28/26, 4:22 PM �Pride Day at Oaklake Trails 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-at-Oaklake-Trails.html... W Ii. ISS SAR OS POR 1~ T OVOU? Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey 4/28/26, 4:22 PM �Pride Day at Oaklake Trails 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-at-Oaklake-Trails.html... LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, August 6, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesda s of th 4/28/26, 4:22 PM �Pride Day at Oaklake Trails 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-at-Oaklake-Trails.html... To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, July 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In T LSA RESPONDS 4/28/26, 4:22 PM �Pride Day at Oaklake Trails 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-at-Oaklake-Trails.html... addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. OKE 1 okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 4:22 PM �Pride Day at Oaklake Trails 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-at-Oaklake-Trails.html... C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services 4/28/26, 4:22 PM �Pride Day at Oaklake Trails 12 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-at-Oaklake-Trails.html... The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org --- Thursday, July 21, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" Facilitated by John Madigan Support Group for Partners of Transgender Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 4:22 PM �Pride Day at Oaklake Trails 13 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-at-Oaklake-Trails.html... People Equality Game Night 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 4:22 PM �Pride Day at Oaklake Trails 14 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-at-Oaklake-Trails.html... In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Interim Executive Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Jose Vega Senior Program Director He / Him / His Jose.Vega@okeq.org 4/28/26, 4:22 PM �Pride Day at Oaklake Trails 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-at-Oaklake-Trails.html... Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC IPOIISOIIEDn THIGIOIIGIIUJH!t Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org 4/28/26, 4:22 PM �Pride Day at Oaklake Trails 16 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-at-Oaklake-Trails.html... Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Secretary Dani Byrd - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Visit Our Website Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. 4/28/26, 4:22 PM �Pride Day at Oaklake Trails 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-at-Oaklake-Trails.html... Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:22 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b74b0a5b45bfde95b9156d146592cb8c.pdf 4c411626408aecbffc1a90671d4bc596 PDF Text Text OkEq Garage Sale Coming Soon 1 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Garage-Sale-Coming-Soon... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews July 18, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OkEq Garage Sale Coming Soon 2 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Garage-Sale-Coming-Soon... Garage Sale at the Equality Center Friday, August 5, 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Saturday, August 6, 9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Sunday, August 7, 9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OkEq Garage Sale Coming Soon 3 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Garage-Sale-Coming-Soon... We're cleaning house! Join us for our garage sale at the Equality Center from August 5th through August 7th. We have a selection of toys, books, furniture, appliances, and more! All proceeds from this go directly to support the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We can't wait to see you there! OKEQ Seniors Summer Pool Party Tuesday, July 26, 10:00 a.m. RSVP for the address Members should meet on Tuesday, July 26, at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and a railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email jose.vega@okeq.org to RSVP. Put "Pool Party" in the subject line. 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OkEq Garage Sale Coming Soon 4 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Garage-Sale-Coming-Soon... Nann1&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library Available soon at the Rainbow Library: The Real Riley Mayes by Rachel Elliott HarperCollins Publishers, May 3, 2022 - Juvenile Fiction - 224 , pages 6' Funny and full of heart, this debut graphic novel is a story about rJ ·b friendship, identity, and embracing all the parts of yourself that ,· make you special. " Fifth grade is just not Riley's vibe. Everyone else is squared up-except Riley. Her best friend moved away. All she wants to do is draw, and her grades show it. One thing that makes her happy is her favorite comedian, Joy Powers. Riley loves to watch her old shows and has memorized her best jokes. So when the class is assigned to write letters to people, they admire, of course, Riley's picking Joy Powers! RACH£.L ELUO Things start to look up when a classmate, Cate, offers to help Riley with the letter, and a new kid, Aaron, actually seems to get her weird sense of humor. But when mean girl Whitney spreads a rumor about her, things begin to click into place for Riley. Her curiosity about Aaron's two dads and her celebrity crush on Joy Powers suddenly make more sense. Readers will respond to Riley's journey of self-discovery and will recognize themselves in this character who is less than perfect but trying her best. And creative kids will recognize themselves in her love of art and drawing. While often funny and light, Riley's exploration of what it feels to be an outsider and how hard it can be to make a friend breaks your heart in the best way. And with all of Riley's hijinks and missteps, this story is laugh-out-loud funny from start to finish. It’s a Grand Re-Opening Party! Come celebrate the launch of the new online library catalog, along with all the other exciting changes happening. 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OkEq Garage Sale Coming Soon 5 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Garage-Sale-Coming-Soon... Saturday, August 20, 5:30-7:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center More details coming soon! Housing Solutions works to make homelessness rare, brief, and non-recurring in Tulsa. The Landlord-Tenant Resource Center (LTRC) division works to stop homelessness before it starts by providing information and resources that can help keep our neighbors safe and stably housed. The LTRC offers tenant rights and responsibilities education, resource information, direct referrals to legal service providers, community outreach, and more. The LTRC also facilitates the Social Services Hub (Hub), Tulsa County’s only eviction diversion program. The Hub runs in conjunction with the Tulsa County eviction docket Monday through Thursday from 1:00 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. at Iron Gate (501 W. Archer). If you have received a late notice or an eviction summons, please attend the Hub for inperson assistance and learn about resources and options. Housing Solutions The LTRC will be onsite at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Wednesdays from 5:00 p.m.- 7:00 p.m. to assist with tenant rights education, eviction prevention resources (including emergency rental assistance), and access to case management services. No appointment is necessary. Please bring a photo ID (does NOT need to be current or US-issued), any late notices or summons you’ve received, and any utility bills you need assistance with. • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, August 9, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGAL AID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office --- 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OkEq Garage Sale Coming Soon 6 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Garage-Sale-Coming-Soon... phone is (918) 295-9429. Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, July 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us W Ii. ISSUES AR' THE MOST MPOR 1~NTTOYOU? Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OkEq Garage Sale Coming Soon 7 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Garage-Sale-Coming-Soon... &.68-r-•• p1,dJT( svH0'-,- ----- 61,.(:>IIP _______ A Mf.>,rrM~Y ~VP Ff.>t. PAt.fAf'S Wl'T'M ~648-r~+ ,C.I E>S'. c:,-::; PFLAG LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, August 6, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OkEq Garage Sale Coming Soon 8 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Garage-Sale-Coming-Soon... Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, August 10, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OkEq Garage Sale Coming Soon 9 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Garage-Sale-Coming-Soon... Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. T LSA RESPONDS OKE okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OkEq Garage Sale Coming Soon 10 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Garage-Sale-Coming-Soon... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly Af'T n I I f\ 11/ 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OkEq Garage Sale Coming Soon 11 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Garage-Sale-Coming-Soon... t\l.J UI LI ~r\ C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Thursday, July 21, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. + + ++ OKEQ + + C1Pl\.Tlr\DC1 Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OkEq Garage Sale Coming Soon 12 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Garage-Sale-Coming-Soon... A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org OKEQ Seniors queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" Facilitated by John Madigan Tulsa Area Prime Timers Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Equality Game Night 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Community Partners EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OkEq Garage Sale Coming Soon 13 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Garage-Sale-Coming-Soon... Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba ------ -- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Interim Executive Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OkEq Garage Sale Coming Soon 14 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Garage-Sale-Coming-Soon... Jose Vega Senior Program Director He / Him / His Jose.Vega@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSOR~O IY THIGEORGE• .. HR ,A .. llVPOUNDlr,TION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OkEq Garage Sale Coming Soon 15 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Garage-Sale-Coming-Soon... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Secretary Dani Byrd - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OkEq Garage Sale Coming Soon 16 of 16 Visit Our Website https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Garage-Sale-Coming-Soon... View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:24 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/eeb14d3aae016c30719e8f46dabfd413.pdf 4280495ed55b8f50ac7c6509e5a08090 PDF Text Text OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Tomorrow 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Seniors-Pool-Party-Tomor... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews July 25, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Tomorrow 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Seniors-Pool-Party-Tomor... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be closed on weekends through August We will open for special events but will not be open for normal business hours. If you are unsure of our hours, please check our event calendar or call us at 918-743-4297. We appreciate your understanding as we reorganize the center. 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Tomorrow 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Seniors-Pool-Party-Tomor... Garage Sale at the Equality Center Friday, August 5, 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Saturday, August 6, 9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Sunday, August 7, 9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We're cleaning house! Join us for our garage sale at the Equality Center from August 5th through August 7th. We have a selection of toys, books, furniture, appliances, and more! All proceeds from this go directly to support the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We can't wait to see you there! 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Tomorrow 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Seniors-Pool-Party-Tomor... OKEQ Seniors Summer Pool Party Tuesday, July 26, 10:00 a.m. RSVP for the address Members should meet on Tuesday, July 26, at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and a railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email jose.vega@okeq.org to RSVP. Put "Pool Party" in the subject line. Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive Friday, August 12 • 2 - 6 p.m. Event Center To schedule an appointment, contact Oklahoma Blood Institute at 877-340-8777 or visit obi.org. 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Tomorrow 5 of 17 ansas https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Seniors-Pool-Party-Tomor... oo H7 ns I u e ~~ ... ,< - • '"l - Nanrv&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library Available soon at the Rainbow Library: The Real Riley Mayes by Rachel Elliott HarperCollins Publishers, May 3, 2022 - Juvenile Fiction - 224 , {), pages Funny and full of heart, this debut graphic novel is a story about ~!;!, . ' friendship, identity, and embracing all the parts of yourself that ,· make you special. " Fifth grade is just not Riley's vibe. Everyone else is squared up-except Riley. Her best friend moved away. All she wants to do is draw, and her grades show it. One thing that makes her happy is her favorite comedian, Joy Powers. Riley loves to watch her old shows and has memorized her best jokes. So when the class is assigned to write letters to people, they admire, of course, Riley's picking Joy Powers! RACH£L £LUO Things start to look up when a classmate, Cate, offers to help Riley with the letter, and a new kid, Aaron, actually seems to get her weird sense of humor. But when mean girl Whitney spreads a rumor about her, things begin to click into place for Riley. Her curiosity about Aaron's two dads and her celebrity crush on Joy Powers suddenly make more sense. Readers will respond to Riley's journey of self-discovery and will recognize themselves in this character who is less than perfect but trying her best. And creative kids will recognize themselves in her love of art and drawing. While often funny and light, Riley's exploration of how it feels to be an outsider and how hard it can be to make a friend breaks your heart in the best way. And with all of Riley's hijinks and missteps, this story is laugh-out-loud funny from start to finish. 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Tomorrow 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Seniors-Pool-Party-Tomor... It’s a Grand Re-Opening Party! Come celebrate the launch of the new online library catalog, along with all the other exciting changes happening. Saturday, August 20, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center More details coming soon! Housing Solutions works to make homelessness rare, brief, and non-recurring in Tulsa. The Landlord-Tenant Resource Center (LTRC) division works to stop homelessness before it starts by providing information and resources that can help keep our neighbors safe and stably housed. The LTRC offers tenant rights and responsibilities education, resource information, direct referrals to legal service providers, community outreach, and more. The LTRC also facilitates the Social Services Hub (Hub), Tulsa County’s only eviction diversion program. The Hub runs in conjunction with the Tulsa County eviction docket Monday through Thursday from 1:00 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. at Iron Gate (501 W. Archer). If you have received a late notice or an eviction summons, please attend the Hub for inperson assistance and learn about resources and options. Housing Solutions The LTRC will be onsite at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Wednesdays from 5:00 p.m.- 7:00 p.m. to assist with tenant rights education, eviction prevention resources (including emergency rental assistance), and access to case management services. No appointment is necessary. Please bring a photo ID (does NOT need to be current or US-issued), any late notices or summons you’ve received, and any utility bills you need assistance with. Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, August 9, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGAL AID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Tomorrow 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Seniors-Pool-Party-Tomor... If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, July 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us W Ii. ISSUES AR' THE MOST MPOR 1~NTTOYOU? 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Tomorrow 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Seniors-Pool-Party-Tomor... Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey L68T•+ PAUNT SVPP61.T 61.6VP A Mt,NTULY ~t,VP Ft,e PAeENrS WITU L6BT~+ ICll>S. 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Tomorrow 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Seniors-Pool-Party-Tomor... LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, August 6, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contactJosh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, August 10, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Tomorrow 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Seniors-Pool-Party-Tomor... Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at -alyssa.bryant@laok.org. - - Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Tomorrow 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Seniors-Pool-Party-Tomor... OKE okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Tomorrow 12 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Seniors-Pool-Party-Tomor... C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Tomorrow 13 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Seniors-Pool-Party-Tomor... Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org ---- Thursday, July 21, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" Facilitated by John Madigan Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Tomorrow 14 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Seniors-Pool-Party-Tomor... partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! more information. Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Tomorrow 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Seniors-Pool-Party-Tomor... Alex Wade Interim Executive Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Jose Vega Senior Program Director He / Him / His Jose.Vega@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Tomorrow 16 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Seniors-Pool-Party-Tomor... IPONIOHOIY THIOIO•Ol•.t.111• FA ... tlYPOUN""TION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Trustees 4/28/26, 4:24 PM �OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Tomorrow 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Seniors-Pool-Party-Tomor... Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Secretary Dani Byrd - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Visit Our Website Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:24 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c972baf57268c681426571d3579286aa.pdf 80d52560ea61decfb9731c78972bcf20 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews August 1, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 4:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be closed on weekends through August We will open for special events but will not be open for normal business hours. If you are unsure of our hours, please check our event calendar or call us at 918-743-4297. We appreciate your understanding as we reorganize the center. 4/28/26, 4:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Garage Sale at the Equality Center Friday, August 5, 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Saturday, August 6, 9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Sunday, August 7, 9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We're cleaning house! Join us for our garage sale at the Equality Center from August 5th through August 7th. We have a selection of toys, books, furniture, appliances, and more! All proceeds from this go directly to support the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We can't wait to see you there! 4/28/26, 4:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 16 OKEQ Seniors Meeting Tuesday, August 2, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meet every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive Friday, August 12 • 2 - 6 p.m. Event Center To schedule an appointment, contact Oklahoma Blood Institute at 877-340-8777 or visit obi.org. 4/28/26, 4:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... It’s a Grand Re-Opening Party! Come celebrate the launch of the new online library catalog, along with all the other exciting changes happening. Saturday, August 20, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Housing Solutions works to make homelessness rare, brief, and non-recurring in Tulsa. The Landlord-Tenant Resource Center (LTRC) division works to stop homelessness before it starts by providing information and resources that can help keep our neighbors safe and stably housed. The LTRC offers tenant rights and responsibilities education, resource information, direct referrals to legal service providers, community outreach, and more. The LTRC also facilitates the Social Services Hub (Hub), Tulsa County’s only eviction diversion program. The Hub runs in conjunction with the Tulsa County eviction docket Monday through Thursday from 1:00 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. at Iron Gate (501 W. Archer). If you have received a late notice or an eviction summons, please attend the Hub for in-person assistance and learn about resources and options. Housing Solutions The LTRC will be onsite at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Wednesdays from 5:00 p.m.- 7:00 p.m. to assist with tenant rights education, eviction prevention 4/28/26, 4:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... resources (including emergency rental assistance), and access to case management services. No appointment is necessary. Please bring a photo ID (does NOT need to be current or US-issued), any late notices or summons you’ve received, and any utility bills you need assistance with. • Lawyer in the Center LEGAL AID ttz:. SERVICES OF Tuesday, August 9, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office ----phone is (918) 295-9429. Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, August 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us \XI 4/28/26, 4:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ...... . . ------· . .- Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey c..68-r•• p1,,s.,tr svHO'--r 61,.(,IIP ~ - -~--- .. ...-u ..,_ 6.f.t>VP Fl>'4/28/26, 4:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, August 6, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h 4/28/26, 4:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, August 10, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at Please also be on the lookout for upcoming -alyssa.bryant@laok.org. - announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from 4/28/26, 4:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. OKE , okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 4:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU 4/28/26, 4:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org ---- Thursday, August 18, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. + ++ OKEQ+ + + SENIORS ++ ++ Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. OKEQ Seniors Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" Facilitated by John Madigan Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for 4/28/26, 4:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 4:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alex Wade Interim Executive Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Jose Vega Senior Program Director He / Him / His Jose.Vega@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 4:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Secretary Dani Byrd - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Visit Our Website Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm 4/28/26, 4:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Saturday: Closed in August Sunday: Closed in August 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th St. | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/28/26, 4:25 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a0a8bfded9526d10fda245f42bc30ab3.pdf 6f30e13fa929cc51cf8668f5ede11877 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews August 8, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 4:29 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be closed on weekends through August We will open for special events but will not be open for normal business hours. If you are unsure of our hours, please check our event calendar or call us at 918-743-4297. We appreciate your understanding as we reorganize the center. Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive Friday, August 12 • 2 - 6 p.m. Event Center To schedule an appointment, contact Oklahoma Blood Institute at 877-340-8777 or visit obi.org. 4/28/26, 4:29 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Meeting Tuesday, August 9, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS + ++ + The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meet every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Rainbow Library Re-opening! Saturday, August 20, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. 4/28/26, 4:29 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 New books, join the ban book club, and check out our new library system! Our young people deserve access to resources that affirm who they are, what they experience, and how they feel. This last week has been yet another where politicians demonize those materials, calling them “disgusting” - which in turn sends a message to the very youth they are supposed to support that they might be, too. These “leaders” repeat the same old phobic line of “indoctrination”, insinuating that the gay agenda is somehow pedophilic and driving more people to brand queer expression as not just harmful but illegal. Sticks and stones can break my bones, but words can hurt where no one sees. Perhaps I may be reading more into the hate speech than was intended. However, if that was what I felt as an adult who has learned to immunize myself and fight back, what would someone else who has not had that chance to develop thicker skin feel? “Safe space” is a term that is often used to describe places where people can go to not be judged for their expression of themselves. As adults, it is our duty to create that space for our youth to grow up, to learn about and accept themselves, and develop healthy interactions with others. As a librarian, I believe that books can be some of the safest spaces. And as part of OKEQ, it is my and the library’s job to create easy access to life-affirming resources. Join us Saturday, August 20th, at 5:30 p.m. at the Center to celebrate our mission and learn how the library is rapidly changing to meet these increasing needs. E ALITY Business Alliance EBA Mixer at St. Vitus Thursday, August 25, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. 112 S. Elgin Ave. Suite B. Tulsa, OK 74120 https://www.stvitustulsa.com/ 4/28/26, 4:29 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Join us on August 25th at St. Vitus for our monthly EBA Mixer! This is a great opportunity to network with local business owners and see what St. Vitus has to offer! ST.VITUW St. Vitus is changing the way we think about music, partying, and cocktails. All of our seasonal craft cocktails are on draught and made with fresh, whole ingredients. Our staff is welcoming, passionate, inclusive and empathetic to all of our guests. Harassment is not tolerated at St. Vitus. We want you to have fun and be safe, but if you're not, we're here to help. Housing Solutions works to make homelessness rare, brief, and non-recurring in Tulsa. The Landlord-Tenant Resource Center (LTRC) division works to stop homelessness before it starts by providing information and resources that can help keep our neighbors safe and stably housed. The LTRC offers tenant rights and responsibilities education, resource information, direct referrals to legal service providers, community outreach, and more. The LTRC also facilitates the Social Services Hub (Hub), Tulsa County’s only eviction diversion program. The Hub runs in conjunction with the Tulsa County eviction docket Monday through Thursday from 1:00 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. at Iron Gate (501 W. Archer). If you have received a late notice or an eviction summons, please attend the Hub for in-person assistance and learn about resources and options. Housing Solutions The LTRC will be onsite at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Wednesdays from 5:00 p.m.- 7:00 p.m. to assist with tenant rights education, eviction prevention resources (including emergency rental assistance), and access to case management services. No appointment is necessary. Please bring a photo ID (does NOT need to be current or US-issued), any late notices or summons you’ve received, and any utility bills you need assistance with. Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, August 9, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, 4/28/26, 4:29 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office --phone is (918) 295-9429. W Ii. ISS SA OS _POR 'A O YOU? I_ Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey 4/28/26, 4:29 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... p1,dJT( StJHO'--r 61,.(:>IIP___________ -------A Mt>NfM~Y 6f.l>VP Fl>'PA'-f)l1'$ Wl'f'M ~6~'T&+ ,c.t 1:>S'. c:x; PFLAG LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, September 3, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. 4/28/26, 4:29 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, August 10, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or 4/28/26, 4:29 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. T LSA RESPONDS OKE , okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 4:29 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of 4/28/26, 4:29 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org ---- Support Group for Partners of Thursday, August 18, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. OKEQ Seniors Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm 4/28/26, 4:29 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... "drop in for coffee" Facilitated by John Madigan Tulsa Area Prime Timers Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba ---- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 4:29 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alex Wade Interim Executive Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Jose Vega Senior Program Director He / Him / His Jose.Vega@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC --IDH 1 HI.GEOIIGl:!tA1$H ~AMII.Y-OATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic 4/28/26, 4:29 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Secretary Dani Byrd - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick 4/28/26, 4:29 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Monique Washington Visit Our Website Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Closed in August Sunday: Closed in August 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th St. | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/28/26, 4:29 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/abf0361f1eb53637f7e2322766cf6612.pdf ebeaa356d7f4cb07693987349c30ee0f PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews August 15, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 4:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be closed on weekends through August We will open for special events but will not be open for normal business hours. If you are unsure of our hours, please check our event calendar or call us at 918-743-4297. We appreciate your understanding as we reorganize the center. Rainbow Library Re-opening! Saturday, August 20, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 New books, join the ban book club, and check out our new library system! Our young people deserve access to resources that affirm who they are, what they experience, and how they feel. This last week has been yet another where politicians demonize those materials, calling them “disgusting” - which in turn sends a message to the very youth they are supposed to support that they might be, too. These “leaders” repeat the same old phobic line of “indoctrination”, 4/28/26, 4:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... insinuating that the gay agenda is somehow pedophilic and driving more people to brand queer expression as not just harmful but illegal. Sticks and stones can break my bones, but words can hurt where no one sees. Perhaps I may be reading more into the hate speech than was intended. However, if that was what I felt as an adult who has learned to immunize myself and fight back, what would someone else who has not had that chance to develop thicker skin feel? “Safe space” is a term that is often used to describe places where people can go to not be judged for their expression of themselves. As adults, it is our duty to create that space for our youth to grow up, to learn about and accept themselves, and develop healthy interactions with others. As a librarian, I believe that books can be some of the safest spaces. And as part of OKEQ, it is my and the library’s job to create easy access to life-affirming resources. Join us Saturday, August 20th, at 5:30 p.m. at the Center to celebrate our mission and learn how the library is rapidly changing to meet these increasing needs. OKEQ Seniors Meeting Tuesday, August 16, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street + + ++ OKEQ + + SENTORS 4/28/26, 4:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meet every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. E ALITY Business Alliance EBA Mixer at St. Vitus Thursday, August 25, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. 112 S. Elgin Ave. Suite B. Tulsa, OK 74120 https://www.stvitustulsa.com/ ST.VITUSV' Join us on August 25th at St. Vitus for our monthly EBA Mixer! This is a great opportunity to network with local business owners and see what St. Vitus has to offer! St. Vitus is changing the way we think about music, partying, and cocktails. All of our seasonal craft cocktails are on draught and made with fresh, whole ingredients. Our staff is welcoming, passionate, inclusive and empathetic to all of our guests. Harassment is not tolerated at St. Vitus. We want you to have fun and be safe, but if you're not, we're here to help. OkEq Annual Meeting Monday, September 12, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Join us for the Annual Meeting of OkEq membership. At this meeting we will announce and vote on the new slate of candidates for the Board of Directors and Board of Advisors. Become a Member Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, September 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID. SERVICES OF . . OKLAHOMA , I NC. - ~ Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone is (918) 295-9429. 4/28/26, 4:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 61,/)VP ----- ,,, Mf.>IJ1MI..Y 6U)VP Ff.>t. PAt.fJJ1'$ Wl'f'M 1..6~-r~+ ,c.t 1>S'. <:::)J - ~ - - - - - - -_!_ ~~FLAG LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, September 3, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. 4/28/26, 4:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca ema1 h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, September 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k 4/28/26, 4:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. LSA SPONDS OKE , okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will 4/28/26, 4:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. 4/28/26, 4:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org ---- Thursday, August 18, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ + + Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. OKEQ Seniors Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" Facilitated by 4/28/26, 4:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... John Madigan Tulsa Area Prime Timers Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 4:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alex Wade Interim Executive Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Jose Vega Senior Program Director He / Him / His Jose.Vega@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC IPOotSOAEO ■ Y !::::~~~~~::.~ Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 4:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Secretary Dani Byrd - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman 4/28/26, 4:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Closed in August Sunday: Closed in August 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th St. | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/28/26, 4:31 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0dbecca80da5fad4a5d0089d3a9b9389.pdf 2dea5a53b2efadfad813daf7066801bb PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 4:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be closed on weekends through August We will open for special events but will not be open for normal business hours. If you are unsure of our hours, please check our event calendar or call us at 918-743-4297. We appreciate your understanding as we reorganize the center. OKEQ Seniors Meeting Tuesday, August 23, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS 4/28/26, 4:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa, OK 74120 ++ ++ The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meet every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. E ALITY Business Alliance EBA Mixer at St. Vitus Thursday, August 25, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. 112 S. Elgin Ave. Suite B. Tulsa, OK 74120 https://www.stvitustulsa.com/ ST.VITUSV' Join us on August 25th at St. Vitus for our monthly EBA Mixer! This is a great opportunity to network with local business owners and see what St. Vitus has to offer! St. Vitus is changing the way we think about music, partying, and cocktails. All of our seasonal craft cocktails are on draught and made with fresh, whole ingredients. Our staff is welcoming, passionate, inclusive and empathetic to all of our guests. Harassment is not tolerated at St. Vitus. We want you to have fun and be safe, but if you're not, we're here to help. OkEq Annual Meeting Monday, September 12, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Join us for the Annual Meeting of OkEq membership. At this meeting we will announce and vote on the new slate of candidates for the Board of Directors and Board of Advisors. Become a Member that '70s Rainbow Room featuring Janet Rutland Friday, September 23, 8:00 p.m. Saturday, September 24, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 For September, Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room will be on the Fourth Friday AND the Fourth Saturday. Tickets will be available starting September 1st! 4/28/26, 4:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Stan Simpson August 29, 1929 - July 21, 2022 Stan Simpson Sept 14, 1940 - August 22, 2022 4/28/26, 4:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, September 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID. SERVICES OF Jh OKLAHOMA , I NC. - Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone is (918) 295-9429. &.68-r-•• p1,,sJTr ,svHt>'-,61,1,VP _________ A Ml>NfM~Y 6R-f>VP Fl>fl. • .. ,.-,,u L6~'T&♦ ,C.l l>S'. 4/28/26, 4:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... (:)::] PFLAG LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, September 3, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co 4/28/26, 4:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, September 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at Please also be on the lookout for upcoming -alyssa.bryant@laok.org. - announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call LSA SPONDS 4/28/26, 4:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. OKE , okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 4:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients 4/28/26, 4:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org ---- Thursday, September 15, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. + ++ OKEQ+ + + SENIORS ++ ++ Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. OKEQ Seniors Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" Facilitated by John Madigan Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for 4/28/26, 4:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 4:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alex Wade Interim Executive Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Jose Vega Senior Program Director He / Him / His Jose.Vega@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 4:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Secretary Dani Byrd - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Visit Our Website Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm 4/28/26, 4:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Saturday: Closed in August Sunday: Closed in August 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th St. | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/28/26, 4:32 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2086545b03210028d7b37d5f1defaebe.pdf 3c32992b0285e81d6d92b1acbe7ba760 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 4:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be closed for Labor Day, September 5th OKEQ Seniors Summer Pool Party Tuesday, August 30, 10:00 a.m. RSVP for address Members could meet on Tuesday, August 30, at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be Hot Dogs. Chips and ice from the Center. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ 4/28/26, 4:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and a railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email jose.vega@okeq.org to RSVP. Put "Pool Party" in the subject line. EVERY THURSDAY AT 6M // WELLNESS ROOM Q DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER I 621 E4TH STREET, TULSA OK 74120 Veterans Support Group Thursday, September 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6 p.m. y CONVERSATIONS WITH DR. BRUCE DART EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF THE TULSA HEALTH DEPARTMENT M♦NKEY 4/28/26, 4:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... - d - ti . . . 1lllllll September 2nd, 2022 - 2 pm on Oklahomans for Equality Facebook and lnstagram live Conversations with Dr. Bruce Dart Friday, September 2, 2:00 p.m. Facebook Live on Oklahomans for Equality Page Join Oklahomans for Equality and Dr. Bruce Dart from the Tulsa Health Department to discuss Monkey Pox. Link to Facebook Page 1st 8 3rd Tuesdays of the month at 7pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 6Rl E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 7 41RO IndigiQueer: Tulsa Two Spirit Tuesday, September 6, 7:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 IndigiQueer Tulsa Two Spirit will meet every 1st & 3rd Tuesday of the month. You can join the IndigiQueer group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ indigiqueerokeq ftl IDCtl: Vl:Ct 4/28/26, 4:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... _,.. - C _,. . . . . . . . .._. W SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 10TH. IOAM-12NOON. DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER We Defend Ourselves: Tulsa Is a communlt.y defense organlzat.lon aimed at. empowering members of marglnallzed groups In t.helr effort.a t.o keep t.helr communlt.les safe . W• provide fr•• Cdonat.lons are appreclaUd!) educat.lonal resources t.o folks looking t.o bet.t.er underst.and what. self•defens• t.ools and skins t.hey need. ,==J Plst.o1Safet.y101 We Defend Ourselves Saturday, September 10, 10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We Defend Ourselves: Tulsa is a community defense organization aimed at empowering members of marginalized groups in their efforts to keep their communities safe. We provide free (donations are appreciated!) educational resources to folks looking to better understand what self-defense tools and skills they need. WeDO: Tulsa are anti-authoritarian and believe that authentic security lies within those individuals most impacted by state and state-enabled violence. Toward that end, we prioritize training folks who are: BIPOC; LGBTQAI; or living with disabilities. Topics to be covered (NO LIVE ROUNDS OF AMMUNITION WILL BE ON SITE): Pistol safety 101 OK self-defense law Pistol terms, nomenclature and identification Trauma first aid basics Dry-fire experience Attendees wishing to gain more practical experience will be invited to a basic pistol safety course at a local range the following weekend. You can follow We Defend Oursleves: Tulsa here: https://www.facebook.com/ WeDefendOurselvesTulsa OkEq Annual Meeting Monday, September 12, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 4:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for the Annual Meeting of OkEq membership. At this meeting we will announce and vote on the new slate of candidates for the Board of Directors and Board of Advisors. Become a Member LGBT Women's Network: September Happy Hour Wednesday, September 14, 5:30 p.m. Heirloom Rustic Ale 2113 E Admiral Boulevard, Tulsa, OK 74110 LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included) and we hope some of you will join us! Brought To You Bi The Letter B: Open Container Tuesday, September 20, 5:30 p.m. Open Container 502 E. 3rd St. #39 Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Brought To You Bi The Letter B is meeting at Open Container for drinks and socializing for Bi Visibility Week. Open Container is open to all ages. Pancakes with Pansexuals Friday, September 23, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought To You Bi The Letter B invites you to Pancakes with Pansexuals for Bi Visibility Week. The Bisexual Awareness Week, also known as #BiWeek, is an annual celebration held in September. Bi Week celebrates and promotes cultural acceptance of the bisexual community as well as attempts to create a platform for advocating bisexual rights. For more information about Brought To You Bi The Letter B join the Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/438685139670172 4/28/26, 4:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... '70s Rainbow Room featuring Janet Rutland Friday, September 23, 8:00 p.m. Saturday, September 24, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 For September, Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room will be on the Fourth Friday AND the Fourth Saturday. Tickets will be available starting September 1st! In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 4:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Stan Simpson August 29, 1929 - July 21, 2022 Carol Smith Sept 14, 1940 - August 22, 2022 4/28/26, 4:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Paul Wayne Gossett February 9, 1944 - August 23, 2022 Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, September 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID. SERVICES OF !h OKLAHOMA , I NC. - Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone is (918) 295-9429. 4/28/26, 4:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 61,.(:>IIP _________ -------- A ,-tt,,rrM~Y 6'.f;>VP Fl>t. PAt.f-111'S Wl'T'M ~6~-r~+ l(tE>S'. c::)J - =----- - - - - - -_!_~~FLAG LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, September 3, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 Join PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. 4/28/26, 4:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, September 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k 4/28/26, 4:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. OKE , okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. 4/28/26, 4:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Click here to Support Monthly C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network 4/28/26, 4:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org --- Thursday, September 15, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. OKEQ Seniors Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" Facilitated by John Madigan 4/28/26, 4:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Equality Game Night The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 4:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alex Wade Interim Executive Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Jose Vega Senior Program Director He / Him / His Jose.Vega@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC IPO"SOAEO ■ V THIGIDIIGIIU.IH!t •'"-MILV•DU"D.1.TID" Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 4:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Secretary Dani Byrd - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Visit Our Website Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. 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OkEq Weekly eNews September 12, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Nancy & J cOon Id Rainbow Library OKEQ Tulsa Library | TinyCat OKEQ Tulsa Library Read More IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! Bookmark the new Rainbow Library online catalog site: https://www.librarycat.org/lib/ 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TulsaRainbowLibrary Here's how you can request a library card: .I. OKEQ 1'ltl.l UbrWy © ...... - , , & .._MdMMIII ...,._ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE Belongs Your VOICE as Valid The 2022.2023 OUR votCES C8lmpao"I 10 rarse funds I n d ~ kif OOJ libnwy seeks to increase access 10 and scope of LBGTOIA• mateMIS Donate IOdayt 0. Seart:11 for ~ 10 Ma'IC rrost ana nm Brown on Wlel' «oa111Q ow cauil0gUr is sponscn,a n Dfl ft0n0f 101 ~ ~ a unr, cara Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian (link below the book previews). Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Meeting Tuesday, September 13, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meet every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... EVERY THURSDAY AT &M // WELLNESS ROOM Q DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER I 621 E4TH STREET, TULSA OK 74120 Veterans Support Group Thursday, September 15, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6 p.m. 12PM4PM 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 1st D 3rd Tuesdays of the month at 7pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 6Rl E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 7 41RO IndigiQueer: Tulsa Two Spirit Tuesday, October 4, 7:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer Tulsa Two Spirit will meet every 1st & 3rd Tuesday of the month. You can join the IndigiQueer group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ indigiqueerokeq LGBT Women's Network: September Happy Hour Wednesday, September 14, 5:30 p.m. Heirloom Rustic Ale 2113 E Admiral Blvd., Tulsa, OK 74110 LGBTQIA+ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included) and we hope some of you will join us! Brought To You Bi The Letter B: Open Container Wednesday, September 21, 5:30 p.m. Open Container 502 E. 3rd St. #39 Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought To You Bi The Letter B is meeting at Open Container for drinks and socializing for Bi Visibility Week. Open Container is open to all ages. 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... E ALITY usiness Alliance EBA Mixer at Fully Promoted Thursday, September 22, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. 8252 E. 41st St. Tulsa, OK 74145 Join us on September 22nd at Fully Promoted for our monthly EBA Mixer! This is a great opportunity to network with local business owners and see what Fully Promoted has to offer! Fully Promoted of Tulsa, Oklahoma, offers extensive branding and marketing services for local businesses and organizations, including Broken Arrow, Bixby, Jenks, Owasso, and Tulsa. We are a team of marketing professionals with significant experience and expertise in branding. We are committed to partnering with you to create promotional campaigns and products that promote your brand and take its recognition to new heights. We create customizable campaigns with a wide variety of products, including embroidered and screen-printed apparel, promotional products, printed materials, signs, and banners. 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Pancakes with Pansexuals Friday, September 23, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought To You Bi The Letter B invites you to Pancakes with Pansexuals for Bi Visibility Week. The Bisexual Awareness Week, also known as #BiWeek, is an annual celebration held in September. Bi Week celebrates and promotes cultural acceptance of the bisexual community as well as attempts to create a platform for advocating bisexual rights. For more information about Brought To You Bi The Letter B join the Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/438685139670172 Brought To You Bi The Letter B: Bi's on Bikes Sunday, September 25, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Brought To You Bi The Letter B invites you to Bi's on Bikes! Ride along Riverside and enjoy the Sunday morning sun and view with a picnic. RSVP for a headcount to ensure there are enough bikes for everyone! The Bisexual Awareness Week, also known as #BiWeek, is an annual celebration held in September. Bi Week celebrates and promotes cultural acceptance of the bisexual community as well as attempts to create a platform for advocating bisexual rights. For more information about Brought To Bi The Letter B, join the Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/438685139670172 For more information about This Machine Tulsa, visit https://thismachinetulsa.com/ RSVP Here that '70s Rainbow Room featuring Janet Rutland Friday, September 23, 8:00 p.m. Saturday, September 24, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa, OK 74120 For September, Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room will be on the Fourth Friday AND the Fourth Saturday. Tickets will be available starting September 1st! Get Your Tickets Here In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Stan Simpson August 29, 1929 - July 21, 2022 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Carol Smith Sept 14, 1940 - August 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett February 9, 1944 - August 23, 2022 Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, September 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone is (918) 295-9429. - - -L68Ttl+ PAUNT SVPPOftT 6ft.OVP ____ A Mt,NTULY 6/tdVP Ft,~ PA~ENT'S Wl'TU L6BT~+ ICll>S. LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, October 1, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 Join PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, September 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. OKE , 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ----.:.c!L.._ >- -~ :..:. ' ' - , ; .... . C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Thursday, September 15, 6:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 21 Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org --- https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. + + 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ Brought to You Bi the Letter B ++ Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. OKEQ Seniors Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" Facilitated by John Madigan Tulsa Area Prime Timers Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org --- 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Alex Wade Interim Executive Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONIORIO ■ Y THlOIOROl•AIHII ,4MtlV•OUND.UION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees 4/28/26, 4:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Secretary Dani Byrd - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Visit Our Website Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th St. | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/28/26, 4:37 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d901e30e065866baa87f43e28d8e5741.pdf ad748d558abff4b595cd7bc20e80d4cc PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews September 19, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... N ncy & J cDon Id Rainbow LI ry OKEQ Tulsa Library | TinyCat OKEQ Tulsa Library Read More IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! Bookmark the new Rainbow Library online catalog site: https://www.librarycat.org/lib/ TulsaRainbowLibrary Here's how you can request a library card: :. OK£0 l\ltNI utnry © Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE Belongs Your VOICE IS V811d The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES Campev, 10 rarse funds and suppc,r, for our lltlra,y seeks to increase access to and scope of LBGTOIA• mateoais Donate 10d8yt 0. Seartl1 for ~1o-..1nrrt1S11nC1T1mBftl'MlonS!ell"~ ow~isspon,cRC:lnl'lefhonorlorAlljjUst~ ~11unr,cai:i Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian (link below the book previews). Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Meeting Tuesday, September 20, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meet every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. EVERY THURSDAY AT &M // WELLNESS ROOM Q DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER I 621 E4TH STREET, TULSA OK 74120 Veterans Support Group Thursday, September 22, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6 p.m. 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 1st 8 3rd Tuesdays of the month at 7pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 6Rl E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 7 41RO IndigiQueer: Tulsa Two Spirit Tuesday, October 4, 7:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 IndigiQueer Tulsa Two Spirit will meet every 1st & 3rd Tuesday of the month. You can join the IndigiQueer group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ indigiqueerokeq 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Brought To You Bi The Letter B: Open Container Wednesday, September 21, 5:30 p.m. Open Container 502 E. 3rd St. #39 Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought To You Bi The Letter B is meeting at Open Container for drinks and socializing for Bi Visibility Week. Open Container is open to all ages. E ALITY usiness Alliance 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... EBA Mixer at Fully Promoted Thursday, September 22, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. 8252 E. 41st St. Tulsa, OK 74145 Join us on September 22nd at Fully Promoted for our monthly EBA Mixer! This is a great opportunity to network with local business owners and see what Fully Promoted has to offer! Fully Promoted of Tulsa, Oklahoma, offers extensive branding and marketing services for local businesses and organizations, including Broken Arrow, Bixby, Jenks, Owasso, and Tulsa. We are a team of marketing professionals with significant experience and expertise in branding. We are committed to partnering with you to create promotional campaigns and products that promote your brand and take its recognition to new heights. We create customizable campaigns with a wide variety of products, including embroidered and screen-printed apparel, promotional products, printed materials, signs, and banners. Pancakes with Pansexuals Friday, September 23, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought To You Bi The Letter B invites you to Pancakes with Pansexuals for Bi Visibility Week. The Bisexual Awareness Week, also known as #BiWeek, is an annual 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... celebration held in September. Bi Week celebrates and promotes cultural acceptance of the bisexual community as well as attempts to create a platform for advocating bisexual rights. For more information about Brought To You Bi The Letter B join the Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/438685139670172 Brought To You Bi The Letter B: Bi's on Bikes Sunday, September 25, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought To You Bi The Letter B invites you to Bi's on Bikes! Ride along Riverside and enjoy the Sunday morning sun and view with a picnic. RSVP for a headcount to ensure there are enough bikes for everyone! The Bisexual Awareness Week, also known as #BiWeek, is an annual celebration held in September. Bi Week celebrates and promotes cultural acceptance of the bisexual community as well as attempts to create a platform for advocating bisexual rights. For more information about Brought To Bi The Letter B, join the Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/438685139670172 For more information about This Machine Tulsa, visit https://thismachinetulsa.com/ RSVP Here 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... '70s Rainbow Room featuring Janet Rutland Friday, September 23, 8:00 p.m. Saturday, September 24, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 For September, Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room will be on the Fourth Friday AND the Fourth Saturday. Tickets will be available starting September 1st! Get Your Tickets Here In Memoriam 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Stan Simpson August 29, 1929 - July 21, 2022 Carol Smith Sept 14, 1940 - August 22, 2022 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Paul Wayne Gossett February 9, 1944 - August 23, 2022 Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, September 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... &.6-B-r-•• p1,,sJTr svH0'-,61,.(,IIP ...............-A ,-,e>1mu. Y ~VP Fl>'PAt.fAf'S Wl'T'M C-648-r~+ ,c.t r>S'. <::::)-:] _ _J_~~FLAG :!..___ _ _ _ _ _ LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, October 1, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 Join PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ' ~ \ Josh Payt n Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, October 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. T LSA RESPONDS OKE , okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... #MYOkEQSHIRT As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org --- Thursday, October 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ + + Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. OKEQ Seniors 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" Facilitated by John Madigan Tulsa Area Prime Timers Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org - - --- Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Community Partners EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Staff Alex Wade Interim Executive Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL r:;~:~~ ::H. fAMtlYfOUNOATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner Shay Brewer 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 4/28/26, 4:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th St. | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/28/26, 4:38 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ca168d4d77f7ad6abe6f8d9d4dc1bb90.pdf 0e949ccde497357c767a26543dd3f191 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/966ac446940d0f73f66ca80a624170b6.pdf c8fefa6a6900fcc37892f71afafdfb48 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9d39fb0b05a74a2f91e7e957ec20181c.pdf 6111820eb590f2b8544932140447b9e9 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ STATEMENTS OKLAHOMA HOUSE BILL 1007 STATEMENT 4/28/26, 4:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Medical decisions should be between the patient, the parents, and their doctors. The interjection of politicians into that space is wildly inappropriate and nothing more than an act of bullying. This carrot and stick approach to promote their transphobic ideals hurts all Oklahomans who access medical services at University Hospitals. They would rather deny funding for medical services than respect the rights of transgender kids and their families. Transgender medical care is a form of suicide prevention. Because without this care, our young people often don't live to see adulthood. These are Oklahoma kids who need support and care. To all trans kids and their families, no matter what Oklahoma Legislatures think or do, you are valued, and people will continue to fight for you. ,, OKLAHOMANS FOR EQ!JALITY 09.28.22 OKEQ - Bartlesville Statement '' Oood evening. My name Is Morgan Lawrence-Hayes and I am the Executive Board President for Oklahomans for Equality - Bartlesville. I am here to address the recent Petition stating a desire to ban Adult Entertainment In Public Spaces. I understand this Is In response to the recent Pride Event and Drag Performance that OKEQ held at Tower Center. First, I would say that Oklahomans for Equality Bartlesville agrees with the title of this petition, "Prohibit adult-oriented entertainment In a public space." We ALSO do not want Adult Entertainment to take place In our public spaces. Fortunately, the Pride event and Drag performance did not Include any form of adult entertainment. There are numerous photos and videos taken by attendees, Including news outlets, and none of these support the version of the Pride event and Drag Show that this petition alleges. Plainly stated, there was no nudity, no obscenity, and no sexually suggestive performances. The Petition's description of the event Is a fabrication meant to dog whistle support based on fear. It Is homophobia and transphobla attempting to disguise Itself as concern for the community. Second, I would like to remind all of us that while we are certainly allowed to hold different opinions, and different values for our own families, we are not allowed to force those standards or values on other citizens. In the past, there have been a number of events held at Tower Center that did not directly align with my own personal values. In those Instances, I chose not to attend, recognizing those events did not vlolllte community standards either. For context, no one was forced to attend Pride. If supporting Pride Is not aomethlng • citizen feels Inclined to do, they have the freedom and the choice to not attend the event. I atrongly ,-1 that so long as events abide by our community standards, we must protect the freedom of artleavllle citizen• to participate, even for the events that we do not personally align with. • would like to remind our city leaders that any action taken to limit the ability of the LOBTQIA+ unity to hold the Pride Event and Drag Show, so long as we abide by community standards, would be ...., ........~ ,___,..i....,.,,.,. -,U!IUJ .... , ,....,,._.,.. , .. . U11.1uJ,I, '.'-Ir.-• n1tt..,:n_a.1l!Ud.laa.ullla ,..,.........aa.a1.1n,I, u,Jf. M .11.all.u. 4/28/26, 4:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... te leg•I •ct/on to protect our freedom. That legal action would not only be costly to the city •nd ,, payer•, but dlvl•lve to our community. I ask that our city council stand firm In protecting our ntlnue to lawfully use public •paces for Bartlesville Pride, and all events that meet community kyou. OKEQ_- BARTLESVILLE OKEQ BARTLESVILLE VIDEO STATEMENT OKEQ BARTLESVILLE FACEBOOK Upcoming Special Events l wRoori, iMtJO,MUHOAff IN THE ! I r,fio;1·,·a111fQ11cers •.'\1.o"'.'"'' ·h>ars, a_q~y.-omeiyd)J,w Thursdays in The Rainbow Room "'11ir£jw/11J('""'' f ,,,,.,.,.,,,:... ~ ,JM: ~ -.,..t,·i;,m ;,/ot1"?', jl.{,,., ,,, :iaf• 0 Thursday, Oct 20th | 8:00pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tickets A GAY COMEDY AFFAIR. ? We'll Have A Spooky Good Time Comedians: Hilton Price, Amanda Kerri, Mac Taylor, and Adonia. Hosted by Laura Cook & Brett Jeffries. 0 Tulsa Pride Bingo: Halloween Saturday, Oct. 29, 2022 | 6:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tickets The Ghouls Came to PLAY ? Pride Royalty performances King and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022, King Michael Khystian & Queen Kitty Quinn Khystian. King and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2020 & 2021, Blaze Khystian and Kitty Marie Legacy King and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2019, Emeritus Anita Richards and Scrappy 4/28/26, 4:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Legacy. Special Guests IrvanBreal and Lady Kakes. and Halloween Costume Contest!! Prizes from: Inner Circle, Nothing Bundt Cakes, Dalesandro's, Tulsa Ballet, Tulsa Opera, and Aaru Games. 0 The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Petr Rudnev Month of October | 9:00am 9:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 View Art Petr was born in a small village in the far reaches of Russia near the Mongolian border. He loved art in all its forms from a very early age and chose to pursue it rather than sports or other things. Throughout his whole life, Petr suffered persecution in Russia, so when he got the opportunity to come and seek asylum in the United States, he took it. He has lived in America since 2018 and is actively pursuing his art career here. 0 EDGEWOOD EBA Mixer with Edgewood Veterinary Hospital Thursday, Oct. 27 | 6:00pm Edgewood Veterinary Hospital 3104 E 51st St Tulsa, OK 74105 Join us for our October Equality Business Alliance Mixer at Edgewood Veterinary Hospital. Edgewood Veterinary Hospital "We offer compassionate and expert RSVP Edgewood Vet Hospital 4/28/26, 4:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... preventative and diagnostic medicine focusing on helping patients." . Name & Gender Maker Change Clinic /\ I I\ Payton La Wednesday, Nov. 9 | 5:30pm 7:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 eyton Law Firm Spon Change and Gender llnic 2nd Wednesda T n h rR Contact Josh Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood 0 GILCREASE M U S E U M October Monday - Friday | 9:00am - 9:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Read More While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with 4/28/26, 4:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene," by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). S,. ,., Dennis R. eill EqualitlJ Center. 621 B 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 DEADLINE IS DECEMBER 9TH EMAIL KAO.MORRISOOKEQ.ORG PROPOSALS: BIO AND 3 PIECES ALL MEDIUMS ARE WELCOME. SUBMISSIONS OKEQ Programming IlrolJg_h t to Voll Bi t h e: Letter R LGBTQ Women's Network Monthly Happy Hour First Wednesday of the month. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and 4/28/26, 4:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 15 Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information email Daniel support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email stevendubois@cox.ne t 918.592.0088 ~ ~@~ O~@O@IO@M§§~g 'TI'M!b~£ 'TI'W @=~ lPO~O'TI' IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First and Third Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every First and Third Wednesday of the month. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. 4/28/26, 4:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ NTRY ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and s The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information contact - Daniel Gouvion at 918 812 4640 or daniel.gouvion@gmail.c 4/28/26, 4:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. om OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E - Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT ~ ----•-... FILM IT Fh a ahort - performonce crdocunontary FINCER PAINT IT Create digital art, colo, pencil, or drawing PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ o,- _ _ _ _,,_ , .. _1Ddlu- a::=..,.~v:--,..:::::..~-- 01c11 ... YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: - --,& _ _ _ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE Belongs VOLi' VOICE IS Valid The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES C#T'4)91gn 10 ratSe I.Inds and support lor our libra,y seeks to ncrease ec:c:ess 1G and scope of LBGTOIA• mateoets Donene 10Cleyl Searc:htor 0. • Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. 4/28/26, 4:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC Donate & Support -~-f- OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ• Commumty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare 4/28/26, 4:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org . Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does 4/28/26, 4:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. In Memoriam Il1111 Memoniaum 4/28/26, 4:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21,2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23,2022 In Memoriam Submissions OKE , okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and ~"' Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 4:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES ALEX WADE KAO MORRIS HE/ HIM I HIS HE/ HIM/ HIS INTERIM EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM SHAY BREWER ANDI GUNTER SHE I HER I HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS OPERATIONS MANGER CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER LILY PINA SHE/ HER / HERS DONNA MATTHEWS SHE I HER I HERS GRANT COORDINATOR NURSE PRACTITIONER LUKE SCUITTO HE I HIM I HIS MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid 4/28/26, 4:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Jane Wiseman 080S8 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/28/26, 4:45 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/353a4543fe3f0bf7cb52cc1a6b79839b.pdf 49b4469eb9d9ca4d1fe35b9cb0d6b608 PDF Text Text We Hope You Had a Safe Fourth of July 1 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Hope-You-Had-a-Safe-Fourth-... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews July 5, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 4:21 PM �We Hope You Had a Safe Fourth of July 2 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Hope-You-Had-a-Safe-Fourth-... OKEQ Seniors Meeting + + Tuesday, July 12, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library Library News! 4/28/26, 4:21 PM �We Hope You Had a Safe Fourth of July 3 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Hope-You-Had-a-Safe-Fourth-... Dear Readers: OUR VOICES. Throughout not just the history of the world but our own personal history, people have tried to repress, criminalize, or shame us. Recent legislative and judicial moves are trying to erase progress that we have made in attaining our human and civil rights over the past few decades. This includes the removal of LGBTQIA++ materials from schools and libraries. I decided to come back to my previously-held position as the librarian for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library because I was angry about what was happening and knew I could do something about it. I knew our library could be strong where publiclyfunded institutions were vulnerable. While other places are getting rid of queer materials, we can add them. There are more and more people losing access to representation and identity/sexuality-based resources. We have that access and those resources. We can have more. This is the fuel behind the newly kickstarted library fundraising campaign “Our Voices.” Throughout the coming year, there will be opportunities to share your voice in support of this campaign. I encourage you to think about what voices have impacted you and how your voice can impact others. Your Voice Belongs. Your Voice is Valid. Vindicate Your Voice. Publicize Your Voice. There are many ways you can be a part of this mission: 1) Make a monetary donation to the library. All donations go towards purchasing new books. 2) Sponsor the library catalog for a month with a targeted donation, for as little as $10/month. 3) Volunteer to help. Our immediate need is for detail-oriented people to shelf-read and verify database information. 4) Sign up for a library card. Circulation statistics matter in external funding opportunities. And as always, I’m available to talk about how we are going to make our little Rainbow library a megaphone of Pride. Thank you for your support. Michelle Simmons Librarian, Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library michelle.simmons@okeq.org Housing Solutions works to make homelessness rare, brief, and non-recurring in Tulsa. The Landlord-Tenant Resource Center (LTRC) division works to stop homelessness before it starts by providing information and resources that can help Housing Solutions 4/28/26, 4:21 PM �We Hope You Had a Safe Fourth of July 4 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Hope-You-Had-a-Safe-Fourth-... keep our neighbors safe and stably housed. The LTRC offers tenant rights and responsibilities education, resource information, direct referrals to legal service providers, community outreach, and more. The LTRC also facilitates the Social Services Hub (Hub), Tulsa County’s only eviction diversion program. The Hub runs in conjunction with the Tulsa County eviction docket Monday through Thursday from 1:00 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. at Iron Gate (501 W. Archer). If you have received a late notice or an eviction summons, please attend the Hub for inperson assistance and learn about resources and options. The LTRC will be onsite at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Wednesdays from 6:00 p.m.- 7:00 p.m., and Thursday evenings beginning at 5:00 p.m. to assist with tenant rights education, eviction prevention resources (including emergency rental assistance), and access to case management services. No appointment is necessary. Please bring a photo ID (does NOT need to be current or US-issued), any late notices or summons you’ve received, and any utility bills you need assistance with. 4/28/26, 4:21 PM �We Hope You Had a Safe Fourth of July 5 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Hope-You-Had-a-Safe-Fourth-... Take #PRIDE in your health. Health insurance through Medicaid means access to the care you deserve. Go to healthcare.gov and enroll now! #MedicaidMatters • Lawyer in the Center LEGALAID th SERVICES OF Tuesday, July 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, July 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us ..... -- ------ --- -· ·4/28/26, 4:21 PM �We Hope You Had a Safe Fourth of July 6 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Hope-You-Had-a-Safe-Fourth-... A OST -- - ... A PORTA T O YOU? Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey e,.68-r•• p1,dJ(r svHOf.-r' 6R,.(;>IIP ._____ _~ - -~ ·~ ~ AAU.e_ ~()fl_ - ~ 4/28/26, 4:21 PM �We Hope You Had a Safe Fourth of July 7 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Hope-You-Had-a-Safe-Fourth-... LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, August 6, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. OT MY COU NOW WH Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, July 6, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:21 PM �We Hope You Had a Safe Fourth of July 8 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Hope-You-Had-a-Safe-Fourth-... Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca ema1 h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, July 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the 4/28/26, 4:21 PM �We Hope You Had a Safe Fourth of July 9 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Hope-You-Had-a-Safe-Fourth-... entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. OKE 1 4/28/26, 4:21 PM �We Hope You Had a Safe Fourth of July 10 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Hope-You-Had-a-Safe-Fourth-... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 4:21 PM �We Hope You Had a Safe Fourth of July 11 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Hope-You-Had-a-Safe-Fourth-... C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Thursday, July 21, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality 4/28/26, 4:21 PM �We Hope You Had a Safe Fourth of July 12 of 16 Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org --- https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Hope-You-Had-a-Safe-Fourth-... Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" Facilitated by John Madigan Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org --- Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. 4/28/26, 4:21 PM �We Hope You Had a Safe Fourth of July 13 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Hope-You-Had-a-Safe-Fourth-... Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade 4/28/26, 4:21 PM �We Hope You Had a Safe Fourth of July 14 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Hope-You-Had-a-Safe-Fourth-... Interim Executive Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Jose Vega Senior Program Director He / Him / His Jose.Vega@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL r~ii~tl;:~~ Lily Piña 4/28/26, 4:21 PM �We Hope You Had a Safe Fourth of July 15 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Hope-You-Had-a-Safe-Fourth-... Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Secretary Dani Byrd - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Julie Chase 4/28/26, 4:21 PM �We Hope You Had a Safe Fourth of July 16 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Hope-You-Had-a-Safe-Fourth-... Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:21 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2cb9b8b3ad5e63b26048715f61d0b8ab.pdf 7f0aca5206a6f5ecb7e3ac2065951462 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews | October 31st, 2022 4/28/26, 4:47 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKLAHOl'\ANS FOR EQUALITY ~&lf~W~ &rMJ~ffi~~&~ [X]~[Rl~lf&@~ [M]@~lf[X] 22@2222 LET'S CELEBRATE THE RICH ANO DIVERSE CULTURE, TRADITIONS, ANO CONTRIBUTIONS OF NATIVE AI\ERICANS. 4/28/26, 4:47 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ STATEMENTS OKLAHOMA HOUSE BILL 1007 '' STATEMENT Medical decisions should be between the patient, the parents, and their doctors. The inte,jection of politicians into that space is wildly inappropriate and nothing more than an act of bullying. This carrot and stick approach to promote their transphobic ideals hurts all Oklahomans who access medical services at University Hospitals. They would rather deny funding for medical services than respect the rights of transgender kids and their families. Transgender medical care is a form of suicide prevention. Because without this care, our young people often don't live to see adulthood. These are Oklahoma kids who need support and care. To all trans kids and their families, no matter what Oklahoma Legislatures think or do, you are valued, and people will continue to fight for you. '' OKLAHOMANS FOR EQ!JALITY 09.28.22 EO - Bartlesville Statement '' Good evening. My name Is Morgan Lawrence-Hayes and I am the Executive Board President for Oklahomans for Equality - Bartlesville. I am here to address the recent Petition stating a desire to ban 4/28/26, 4:47 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... nte •lnment In Public Spaces. I understand this Is In response to th• recent Pride Event and Drag Perlorm•nce that OKEQ held at Tower Center. Fl,.t, I would ••Y th•t Oklahomans for Equality Bartlesville agrees with the title of this petition, " Prohibit • dull-oriented ent•rt•lnment In a public space." We ALSO do not want Adult Entertainment to take place In our public sp•c••· Fortunately, th• Pride event and Drag performance did not Include any form of adult ent•rt•lnment. There •r• numerous photos and videos taken by attendees, Including news outlets, and none of th••• support th• version of th• Pride event and Drag Show that this petition alleges. Plainly st•ted, there w•• no nudity, no obscenity, and no sexually suggestive performances. Th• Petition's description of th• event Is a fabrication meant to dog whistle support based on fear. It Is homophobia and transphobl• •ttemptlng to disguise Itself as concern for th• community. Second, I would Ilk• to remind all of us that while we are certainly allowed to hold different opinions, and different v•lues for our own f•mllles, we are not allowed to fore• those standards or values on other citizens. In the p•st, there have been a number of events held at Tower Center that did not directly align with my own person•l values. In those Instances, I chose not to attend, recognizing those events did not late community standards either. For context, no one was forced to attend Pride. If supporting Pride Is ethlng • citizen feels Inclined to do, they have th• freedom and th• choice to not attend th• event. ly fHI th• t so long •• events abide by our community standards, we must protect th• freedom of nlll• cit izens to p•rtlclpate, even for the events that we do not personally align with. uld Ilk• to remind our city leaders that any action taken to limit th• ablllty of th• LOBTQIA+ lty to hold the Pride Event and Drag Show, so long as we abide by community standards, would be red dlscrlmln•tlon. Should this happen, It would force OKEQ-Bartlesvill• to respond with equally • te leg• I •ctlon to protect our freedom. That legal action would not only be costly to th• city and ,, ,,_yers, but divisive to our community. I ask that our city council stand firm In protecting our ·- ntlnue to ,.wfully use public spaces for Bartlesville Pride, and all events that meet community OKEQ_- BARTLESVILLE OKEQ BARTLESVILLE VIDEO STATEMENT OKEQ BARTLESVILLE FACEBOOK Upcoming Special Events LGBTQ Women's Network at ROKA Wednesday, Nov 2nd | 5:30pm Roka 1616 S Utica Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 RSVP LGBTQIA+ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. All are welcome (allies included!) and we hope you will join us! 0 The Allie Jensen Memorial 4/28/26, 4:47 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Art Gallery with Tyler Thompson RSVP Thursday, Nov 3rd | 7:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tyler was born in 1996 in Oklahoma and is a member of the Cherokee Nation. He has been drawing all his life with his brother Brandon being the inspiration that got him into art. Throughout school, he was praised for his drawing capabilities and was commissioned to do various pieces in his high school. In 2022, he was commissioned to do a memorial piece for missing indigenous woman Aubrey Dameron for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Thompson had also been published in the Tribal College Journal for posters he made to raise awareness for Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women. The signs were distributed through tribal colleges for them to hang around campuses. Thompson is attending Tohono O’odham Community College where he is pursuing an associate's Degree in Fine Arts. His art page, Thompson Art Design, can be found on Instagram where he draws in various mediums such as digital art, graphite pencil, charcoal, and paint. . /\ I I\ Payton La eyton Law Firm Spon Change and Gender llnic 2nd Wednesd Name & Gender Maker Change Clinic Wednesday, Nov 9th | 5:30pm 7:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Contact Josh Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process as well as those who 4/28/26, 4:47 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Twisted Arts Film Fest: Wild (2022) Wednesday, Nov 9th | 6:00pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 Join Twisted Arts Tulsa and OKEQ as we kickoff the second annual Twisted Arts Film Festival on November 9, 2022 at Circle Cinema. 6PM;7PM Pre-show Reception DIRECTED BY: Bretten Hannam (2021) COUNTRY: Canada | 99mins SYNOPSIS: On the run from his abusive father and in search of a mother he thought was dead, Mi’kmaw teenager Link (Phillip Lewitski) undertakes a formative journey through the small towns and lush wilderness of Nova Scotia. With his sarcastic younger half-brother Travis (Avery Winters-Anthony) in tow, Link meets an empathetic young drifter named Pasmay (Joshua Odjick) who shares his Indigenous heritage and offers to guide the brothers through the unfamiliar landscape. As they travel through his ancestral environs, Link’s encounters with fellow Mi’kmaw begin to cultivate his understanding of a culture—and a family —from which he’s been alienated. And the bond he forms with Pasmay, which evolves from friendship into something more, allows him to embrace the TwoSpirit identity that both young men share. Each ticket purchased receives a Tickets RSVP Wild Trailer 4/28/26, 4:47 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... complimentary beer or glass of wine ?. Thursdays in The Rainbow Room Thursday, Nov 10th | 8:00pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tickets Cocktails with Cole: The Songs of Porter, Nat, and Natalie Featuring Thesa Loving, Pat Hobbs, John Orsulak, Nick Cains, and Cathy Venable. 0 Really, Really Free Market Saturday, Nov 19th | 12:00 noon Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community sharing event. Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades. Share your unwanted goods, and/or shop other people's treasures. November will feature a grab-n-go potluck, so show off those favorite recipes. Free haircuts will also be provided. Free HIV Testing will be available as well. Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations 4/28/26, 4:47 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More Dennis R. eill Equality Center. 621 f.i ✓.th t, Tulsa, OK 74120 DEADLINE IS DECEMBER 9TH EMAIL KAO.MORRISOOKE0.ORG PROPOSALS: BIO AND 3 PIECES ALL MEDIUMS ARE WELCOME. SUBMISSIONS OKEQ Programming Bro1rngltt !if1o You, Bi 1~ite Letter LGBTQ Women's Network Monthly Happy Hour First Wednesday of the The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to 4/28/26, 4:47 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 17 month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @®m@l®IT ~ffi[g)I]XID~ @IT@ffi[g) O~@O@l0(2) CkD@! @!~~ 'iJ'CkDlb§& 'iJ'W@=§IJ")O~O'iJ' IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. 4/28/26, 4:47 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 4/28/26, 4:47 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. -!i SCREAM _... _____ ... _ IT FILM IT Flm a llhort • porformonce o r ~ FINCER PAINT IT Create digital art, cokx- pencil, or a-awing PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: - -.•- -Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library YoU' VOICE Belongs YoU' VOICE 15 Vlllld The 2022-2023 OUR \/OfCES Campeign lo nuse funds and support lor OU" library seeks to IONS& aa:@S5 lo and saipe of LBGTOIA• mateoa!s Donate bSayl 0. Searchtor cong,arwacm1111,1ar11 ffOltlnO'TMI &owl!CIII lhel'ftCdng OW'~IIIJIOMCR(I llftel' IIOna' I O r ~ ... Ritqu,elll l.D'lrYClfd Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. 4/28/26, 4:47 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library Donate & Support OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-f- OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ + Communny Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ - The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community 4/28/26, 4:47 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. 4/28/26, 4:47 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... persons. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A P ROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/28/26, 4:47 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The open enrollment period for the ACA marketplace has begun! And 4 of 5 customers can find a plan option for $10 or less per month. Visit healthcare.gov to enroll, compare options, or switch plans. More LGBTQ+ people qualify this year for affordable health insurance options! Open enrollment for 2023 health insurance has started and runs through Jan 15, 2023. Go to healthcare.gov to get started. In Memoriam Il111 Memoniaurn Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21,2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23,2022 In Memoriam Submissions 4/28/26, 4:47 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKE okeq. org/ donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES 4/28/26, 4:47 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SHAY BREWER ANDI GUNTER KAO MORRIS SHE / HER / HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS HE/ HIM/ HIS CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR OPERATIONS MANGER •• DONNA MATTHEWS SHE/ HER/ HERS LILY PINA GRANT COORDINATOR LUKE SCUITTO SHE/ HER/ HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS NURSE PRACTITIONER MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S8 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/28/26, 4:47 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2ba74452c2a186ff9ddb99ab24e059c1.pdf b07075f7599b32bd75fb12280289291d PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews November 7, 2022 Pictures are hyperlinked! Message from the Board President Hi, OkEq members. I wanted to take a moment to introduce myself. I am Bob Hanson and have stepped into the role of board president for Oklahomans for 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality. After serving the members and center for the last year, Stacy Turner has taken some very well earned time off to serve our community in different ways. I cannot express enough how grateful we as the board are for her guidance and leadership over the last year; she has guided us through some of the toughest times OkEq has ever seen. This year has been a year of many changes for the center – some good and some bad. The staff at the center has been through so much, and we are so grateful for their dedication to the center and the community they serve. Our staff is amazing and has been working so hard to help keep the important services the center provides available. As we take the next steps, there are a lot of exciting new things OkEq will be focusing on. But unfortunately, events over the last several weeks have reminded all of us why the work of the center is so important. The violent attacks at The Donut Hole (please show your support and love to them) are a sobering reminder that we still have work to do. We are also focused on fighting the attack on gender-affirming care. The recent passage and signing of Senate Bill 3XX prohibits OU Health from providing gender-affirming care as a condition of receiving federal American Rescue Plan dollars for the expansion of children’s behavioral health facilities. Legislators have already expressed a desire to ban gender-affirming care to minors statewide in the 2023 legislative session. When Senate Bill 3XX was signed, our board secretary, Eric Wilson, sent a simple but powerful email that said, “This makes me so mad. All this will do is hurt kids.” I haven’t stopped thinking about that email, and it has become a battle cry for me. OkEq will continue to fight against the hate and violence that targets our community. OkEq will be a safe place for all within the LGBTQIAA+ community against whatever is thrown at us, not out of hate for others, but for the love of our community. THIS IS WHY WE FIGHT – so all may know love wins and will prevail. Humbled and honored, Bob Hanson If you want to help us fight against hate and violence please donate below Donate Now OKLAHOI\ANS FOR EQUALITY 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LET'S CELEBRATE THE RICH AND DIVERSE CULTURE, TRADITIONS, AND CONTRIBUTIONS OF NATIVE AI\ERICANS. OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY T 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Polls are open 7:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m. on Election Day. Tuesday, November 8, 2022 1111 1111 1111 1111 1111 1111 1111 1111 1111 1111 1111 1111 1111 1111 1111 ** * *** * , "\ 0 a\\ who servea WEARE THANKFUL FORYOUR SERVICE Happy Veterans Day * ** * *** *• •• •• •• •• •• •• •• OKEQ STATEMENTS OKLAHOMA HOUSE BILL 1007 ~ ' STATEMENT ' =--------=====~ 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Medical decisions should be between the patient, the parents, and their doctors. The interjection of politicians into that space is wildly inappropriate and nothing more than an act of bullying. This carrot and stick approach to promote their transphobic ideals hurts all Oklahomans who access medical services at University Hospitals. They would rather deny funding for medical services than respect the rights of transgender kids and their families. Transgender medical care is a form of suicide prevention. Because without this care, our young people often don't live to see adulthood. These are Oklahoma kids who need support and care. To all trans kids and their families, no matter what Oklahoma Legislatures think or do, you are valued, and people will continue to fight for you. ,, OKLAHOMANS FOR EQ!JALITY 09.28.22 OKEQ - Bartlesville Statement '' Oood evening. My name Is Morgan Lawrence-Hayes and I am the Executive Board President for Oklahomans for Equality - Bartlesville. I am here to address the recent Petition stating a desire to ban Adult Entertainment In Public Spaces. I understand this Is In response to the recent Pride Event and Drag Performance that OKEO held at Tower Center. First, I would say that Oklahomans for Equality Bartlesville agrees with the title of this petition, "Prohibit adult-oriented entertainment In a public space." We ALSO do not want Adult Entertainment to take place In our public spaces. Fortunately, the Pride event and Drag performance did not Include any form of adult entertainment. There are numerous photos and videos taken by attendees, Including news outlets, and none of these support the version of the Pride event and Drag Show that this petition alleges. Plainly stated, there was no nudity, no obscenity, and no sexually suggestive performances. The Petition's description of the event Is a fabrication meant to dog whistle support based on fear. It Is homophobia and transphobla attempting to disguise Itself as concern for the community. Second, I would like to remind all of us that while we are certainly allowed to hold different opinions, and different values for our own families, we are not allowed to force those standards or values on other citizens. In the past, there have been a number of events held at Tower Center that did not directly align with my own personal values. In those Instances, I chose not to attend, recognizing those events did not vlo,.te community standards either. For context, no one was forced to attend Pride. If supporting Pride Is not something a citizen feels Inclined to do, they have the freedom and the choice to not attend the event. I strongly f-1 that so long as events abide by our community standards, we must protect the freedom of artlesvllle citizens to participate, even for the events that we do not personally align with. y. would like to remind our city leaders that any action taken to limit the ability of the LOBTQIA+ unity to hold the Pride Event and Drag Show, so long as we abide by community standards, would be 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... act m nation. Should this happen, It would force OKEO-Bartlesvllle o respond with equally on to protect our freedom. That legal action would not only be costly to the city and ,, divisive to our community. I ask that our city council stand firm In protecting our ·- ntlnue to ,.wfully use public spaces for Bartlesvllle Pride, and all events that meet community OKEQ_- BARTLESVILLE OKEQ BARTLESVILLE VIDEO STATEMENT OKEQ BARTLESVILLE FACEBOOK Upcoming Special Events . A l l\ Payton Law Fir eyton Law Firm Sponsors the Change and Gender Marker llnlc 2nd Wednesdays of the To contact Josh or Rebecca email josh@joshuapaytonlaw.com Name & Gender Maker Change Clinic Wednesday, Nov 9th | 5:30pm 7:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Contact Josh Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Twisted Arts Film Fest: Wild (2022) Wednesday, Nov 9th | 6:00pm Circle Cinema Tickets 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 21 WILDHDDD https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 Join Twisted Arts Tulsa and OKEQ as we kickoff the second annual Twisted Arts Film Festival on November 9, 2022 at Circle Cinema. 6PM;7PM Pre-show Reception DIRECTED BY: Bretten Hannam (2021) COUNTRY: Canada | 99mins SYNOPSIS: On the run from his abusive father and in search of a mother he thought was dead, Mi’kmaw teenager Link (Phillip Lewitski) undertakes a formative journey through the small towns and lush wilderness of Nova Scotia. With his sarcastic younger half-brother Travis (Avery Winters-Anthony) in tow, Link meets an empathetic young drifter named Pasmay (Joshua Odjick) who shares his Indigenous heritage and offers to guide the brothers through the unfamiliar landscape. As they travel through his ancestral environs, Link’s encounters with fellow Mi’kmaw begin to cultivate his understanding of a culture—and a family —from which he’s been alienated. And the bond he forms with Pasmay, which evolves from friendship into something more, allows him to embrace the TwoSpirit identity that both young men share. Each ticket purchased receives a complimentary beer or glass of wine ?. RSVP Wild Trailer Thursdays in The Rainbow Room Thursday, Nov 10th | 8:00pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tickets Cocktails with Cole: The Songs of Porter, Nat, and Natalie Featuring Thesa Loving, Pat Hobbs, John Orsulak, Nick Cains, and Cathy Venable. 0 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Really, Really Free Market Saturday, Nov 19th | 12:00 noon Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community sharing event. Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades. Share your unwanted goods, and/or shop other people's treasures. November will feature a grab-n-go potluck, so show off those favorite recipes. Free haircuts will also be provided. Free HIV Testing will be available as well. The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Tyler Thompson View Art Month of November | 7:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tyler was born in 1996 in Oklahoma and is a member of the Cherokee Nation. He has been drawing all his life with his brother Brandon being the inspiration that got him into art. Throughout school, he was praised for his drawing capabilities and was commissioned to do various pieces in his high school. In 2022, he was commissioned to do a memorial piece for missing indigenous woman Aubrey Dameron for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Thompson had also been published in the Tribal College Journal for posters he made to raise awareness for Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women. The signs were distributed through tribal colleges for them to hang around campuses. Thompson is attending Tohono O’odham Community 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... College where he is pursuing an associate's Degree in Fine Arts. His art page, Thompson Art Design, can be found on Instagram where he draws in various mediums such as digital art, graphite pencil, charcoal, and paint. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, Dec 8th | 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Rainbow Room Travis Guillory stars as Tracy La Louisianne in A Quirky Queen's Queer Christmas Cabaret! Get in the Christmas spirit with not-soclassic holiday songs, such as Christmas Card from a Hooker in Minneapolis, All I Want for Christmas is Nudes, and a Mad Libs version of The 12 Days of Christmas. Featuring Powell Barca, Nick Cains, Claire Sbanotto, Kara Staiger, and Jeremy Stevens, A Quirky Queen's Queer Christmas Cabaret is sure to deck your halls and jingle your bells with a fa-la-la-la-fun evening of campy Christmas chaos! Doors open at 7:00 p.m. and the show starts at 7:30 p.m. Table seats are $15 and general admission seating is $10. Tickets going on sale soon. 0 PRESENTATION BY A_ - a::caci-a.-..-.-_,l _r!i.~ft. 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... " u QUAPAW NATION SEARCH AND RESCUE ART GALLERY EXHIBIT FROM 1-2PM @KATHY P. THOMPSON GALLERY 3 E MOUNTAIN ST. FAYETTEVILLE REMEMBRANCE CEREMONY FROM2-4PM @ FAYETTEVILLE TOWN CENTER 15 W MOUNTAIN ST, FAYETTEVILLE CA DLEL.IGHT VIGIL WALK AT4PM PRODUCED BY TRANS EQUALITY NETWORK IN COLlABORATION WITH NWAEQUAUTY Grow With Us featuring Luke Scuitto This episode of Grow With Us features Luke Scuitto, the Membership Coordinator at the Dennis R. Neill Oklahoma Equality Center. Luke is Tulsa-transplant who found a meaningful community at the Equality Center, and he was able to create an opportunity to serve the LGBTQIA+ community of the Tulsa Metropolitan and beyond. In this episode, we discuss Luke’s involvement in programming events for the Equality Business Alliance, different programs available to folks in the LGBTQIA+ community, and the ways to serve locally in LBGTQIA+ spaces. Luke Scuitto OKEQ Membership Coordinator Read More Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for The first piece is "Forest 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More The open enrollment period for the ACA marketplace has begun! And 4 of 5 customers can find a plan option for $10 or less per month. Visit healthcare.gov to enroll, compare options, or switch plans. More LGBTQ+ people qualify this year for affordable health insurance options! Open enrollment for 2023 health insurance has started and runs through Jan 15, 2023. Go to healthcare.gov to get started. Dennis R. eill Equality Center. 621 fi 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 DEADLINE IS DECEMBER 9TH EMAIL KAO.MORRISOOKE0.ORG PROPOSALS: BIO AND 3 PIECES ALL MEDIUMS ARE WELCOME. 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SUBMISSIONS OKEQ Programming Bro11llgl11t !if1o You, Bi 1~Ite Letter LGBTQ Women's Network Monthly Happy Hour First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 ®@mcll@IT O ~@O@l □@ M§§ ~g 'IT'M11,§ £ 'IT'W@=§ ~O~O'IT' IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS -+- ~ ~ 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... T 7' OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. GROUP The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT -!:i - ...... - .......... FILM IT Flm a ehort -perfonnance crclocumentaru Create digital art, color penc,l, or drawing PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: - -.•- -Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE Belongs Yow VOICE 15 Vlllld The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES Canpaign lo raise funds and support lor W' laary seeks to incrMSe access to and saipe of LBGTOIA• mat80lll!s Donale bSe)'I 0. Searc:htor Cong,anaaonslllUlrllffOltana~flrOIITIClllll'dftGClflg (lw~IIIJIOMCftCllll'lel'IIOnOrlOI'~ • Ritquellll.D'lrYClfd Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library Donate & Support 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEO -ci=-<r- HEALTH -ci=-<rCLINIC OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ• Communlty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. In Memoriam Illl1 MemoniWTI 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21,2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23,2022 Joseph Edward Johnson 1947 - 2022 In Memoriam Submissions OKE 1 okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES HE/ HIM/ HIS DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR SHAY BREWER HE I HIM I HIS ANDI GUNTER SHE I HER I HERS KAO MORRIS CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER • LILY PINA OPERATIONS MANGER DONNA MATTHEWS SHE/ HER/ HERS GRANT COORDINATOR LUKE SCUITTO SHE/ HER/ HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS NURSE PRACTITIONER MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt 4/28/26, 4:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S9 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/28/26, 4:48 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/add9f5f1952a26ce15a2f892b224c3a3.pdf 3286aaeeafcfae00a2cfe9484bf4e96e PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews November 14, 2022 Pictures are hyperlinked! Message from the President As I write this on the evening of the midterm elections, I am filled with emotion and reminded that transformational change takes time, patience and an unwavering 4/28/26, 4:50 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... commitment to push through challenges. There have been many changes at OkEq recently. Those changes may be hard to accept for some in our community but are due in part to the growth of our organization. It is my hope that this message will help you understand where we are today and why your support is essential to our future. OkEq began as a small organization run by volunteers. Over the years, driven by the needs of our community, OkEq grew to a large center requiring both a full staff and volunteers. This growth happened quickly, and the staff, volunteers, and Board of Directors worked to sustain us through this evolution. Their passion for OkEq is what led to amazing accomplishments, even in the face of an adverse and even hostile political climate. As we sought to respond to overwhelming demand for the services OkEq provides, we did not establish the adequate accountability measures a healthy and growing organization needs, particularly in terms of fiscal oversight. We believe in transparency and accountability and want our community to know: • In our work to assess the organization’s current financial state, the board identified irregularities in the finances overseen by OkEq’s volunteer treasurer; • We took immediate action in response to this finding, and the treasurer is no longer involved with OkEq; • We met with our funders and philanthropic partners to make them aware of the situation; • With the continued support of our funders, we completed a competitive Request for Proposals process and engaged a new accounting firm; • We are working with that firm and with other partners to complete a comprehensive financial reconciliation process and build a new infrastructure to ensure that every dollar is accounted for and used for its intended purpose. Importantly, we are sharing this update and the information we have available at this time with the people who matter most – you. OkEq exists to serve our community and we are working urgently to make sure that OkEq can be financially viable and can sustain for generations to come. Your support matters now more than ever. Moving forward, we are determining what programs and services will look like for the next few months. I will be sharing more information about our schedule soon. In the meantime, I want to thank you for your steadfast commitment to OkEq and to supporting our community to be safe, healthy and thriving. Sincerely Bob Hanson Board President If you want to help us fight against hate and violence please donate below Donate Now OKLAHOl'\ANS FOR EQUALITY 4/28/26, 4:50 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LET'S CELEBRATE THE RICH AND DIVERSE CULTURE, TRADITIONS, AND CONTRIBUTIONS OF NATIVE AI\ERICANS. OKEQ STATEMENTS OKLAHOMA HOUSE BILL 1007 '' STATEMENT Medical decisions should be between the patient, the parents, and their doctors. The interjection of politicians into that space is wildly inappropriate and nothing more than an act of bullying. This carrot and stick approach to promote their transphobic ideals hurts all Oklahomans who access medical services at University Hospitals. They would rather deny funding for medical services than respect the rights of transgender kids and their families. Transgender medical care is a form of suicide prevention. Because without this care, our young people often don't live to see adulthood. These are Oklahoma kids who need support and care. To all trans kids and their families, no matter what Oklahoma Legislatures think or do, you are valued, and people will continue to fight for you. 4/28/26, 4:50 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKLAHOMANS FOR EQ!JALITY 09.28.22 EO - Bartlesville Statement '' Good evening. My name Is Morgan Lawrence-Hayes and I am the Executive Board President for Oklahomans for Equality - Bartlesville. I am here to address the recent Petition stating a desire to ban Adult Entertainment In Public Spaces. I understand this Is In response to the recent Pride Event and Drag Performance that OKEQ held at Tower Center. First, I would say that Oklahomans for Equality Bartlesville agrees with the title of this petition, "Prohibit adult-oriented entertainment In a public space." We ALSO do not want Adult Entertainment to take place In our public spaces. Fortunately, the Pride event and Drag performance did not Include any form of adult entertainment. There are numerous photos and videos taken by attendees, Including news outlets, and none of th••• support the version of the Pride event and Drag Show that this petition alleges. Plainly stated, there was no nudity, no obscenity, and no sexually suggestive performances. The Petition's description of the event Is a fabrication meant to dog whistle support based on fear. It Is homophobia and transphobla attempting to disguise Itself as concern for the community. Second, I would like to remind all of us that while we are certainly allowed to hold different opinions, and different values for our own families, we are not allowed to force those standards or values on other citizens. In the past, there have been a number of events held at Tower Center that did not directly align ,.,th my own personal values. In those Instances, I chose not to attend, recognizing those events did not lllte community standards either. For context, no one was forced to attend Pride. If supporting Pride Is ethlng a citizen feels Inclined to do, they have the freedom and the choice to not attend the event. ly fHI t hat so long as events abide by our community standards, we must protect the freedom of Ille cit izens to participate, even for the events that we do not personally align with. uld like to remind our city leaders that any action taken to limit the ability of the LOBTQIA+ lty to hol d the Pride Event and Drag Show, so long as we abide by community standards, would be red discrimination. Should this happen, It would force OKEQ-Bartlesvllle to respond with equally ,, ate legal action to protect our freedom. That legal action would not only be costly to the city and .,,.yers, but di visive to our community. I ask that our city council stand firm In protecting our ntlnue to lawfully use public spaces for Bartlesvllte Pride, and all events that meet community .,... OKEQ_- BARTLESVILLE OKEQ BARTLESVILLE VIDEO STATEMENT OKEQ BARTLESVILLE FACEBOOK Upcoming Special Events 4/28/26, 4:50 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Really, Really Free Market Saturday, Nov 19th | 12noon 4:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community sharing event. Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades. Share your unwanted goods, and/or shop other people's treasures. November will feature a grab-n-go potluck, so show off those favorite recipes. Free haircuts will also be provided. Free HIV Testing will be available as well. The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Tyler Thompson View Art Month of November | 9:00am 9:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tyler was born in 1996 in Oklahoma and is a member of the Cherokee Nation. He has been drawing all his life with his brother Brandon being the inspiration that got him into art. Throughout school, he was praised for his drawing capabilities and was commissioned to do various pieces in his high school. In 2022, he was commissioned to do a memorial piece for missing indigenous woman Aubrey Dameron for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Thompson had also been published in the Tribal College Journal for posters he made to raise awareness for Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women. The signs were distributed through tribal colleges for them to 4/28/26, 4:50 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... hang around campuses. Thompson is attending Tohono O’odham Community College where he is pursuing an associate's Degree in Fine Arts. His art page, Thompson Art Design, can be found on Instagram where he draws in various mediums such as digital art, graphite pencil, charcoal, and paint. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, Dec 8th | 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Travis Guillory stars as Tracy La Louisianne in A Quirky Queen's Queer Christmas Cabaret! Get in the Christmas spirit with not-soclassic holiday songs, such as Christmas Card from a Hooker in Minneapolis, All I Want for Christmas is Nudes, and a Mad Libs version of The 12 Days of Christmas. Featuring Powell Barca, Nick Cains, Claire Sbanotto, Kara Staiger, and Jeremy Stevens, A Quirky Queen's Queer Christmas Cabaret is sure to deck your halls and jingle your bells with a fa-la-la-la-fun evening of campy Christmas chaos! Doors open at 7:00 p.m. and the show starts at 7:30 p.m. Table seats are $15 and general admission seating is $10. Tickets going on sale soon. 0 Name & Gender Maker Change Clinic Payton Law Fir eyton Law Firm Sponsors Change and Gender Marker Cllnlc 2nd Wednesdays of the To contactJosh or Rebecca email josh@joshuapaY!onlaw.com Wednesday, Dec 14th | 5:30pm 7:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Contact Josh 4/28/26, 4:50 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. PRESENTATION BY CALEB LANDERS QUAPAW NATION SEARCH AND RESCUE ART GALLERY EXHIBIT FROM 1-2PM @KATHY P. THOMPSON GALLERY 3 E MOUNTAIN ST. FAYETTEVILLE REMEMBRANCE CEREMONY FROM2-4PM @ FAYETTEVILLE TOWN CENTER 15 W MOUNTAIN ST, FAYETTEVILLE DLEIJGHT VIGIL WALK AT4PM PRODUCED BY _ _ _ _ _ __ TRANS EQUALITY NETWORK IN COUABORATJON WITH 4/28/26, 4:50 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... NWA EQUALITY Grow With Us featuring Luke Scuitto This episode of Grow With Us features Luke Scuitto, the Membership Coordinator at the Dennis R. Neill Oklahoma Equality Center. Luke is Tulsa-transplant who found a meaningful community at the Equality Center, and he was able to create an opportunity to serve the LGBTQIA+ community of the Tulsa Metropolitan and beyond. In this episode, we discuss Luke’s involvement in programming events for the Equality Business Alliance, different programs available to folks in the LGBTQIA+ community, and the ways to serve locally in LBGTQIA+ spaces. Luke Scuitto OKEQ Membership Coordinator Read More Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More 4/28/26, 4:50 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The open enrollment period for the ACA marketplace has begun! And 4 of 5 customers can find a plan option for $10 or less per month. Visit healthcare.gov to enroll, compare options, or switch plans. More LGBTQ+ people qualify this year for affordable health insurance options! Open enrollment for 2023 health insurance has started and runs through Jan 15, 2023. Go to healthcare.gov to get started. Dennis R. eill EqualitrJ Center. 621 E 4th t, Tulsa, OK 74120 DEADLINE IS DECEMBER 9TH EMAIL KAO.MORRISOOKE0.ORG PROPOSALS: BIO AND 3 PIECES ALL MEDIUMS ARE WELCOME. SUBMISSIONS OKEQ Programming Bro1111gltt !if1o You. Bi 1~11~ Letter LGBTQ Women's Network Monthly Happy The program exists to provide support, A social organization for mature minded Gay and 4/28/26, 4:50 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 19 Hour First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @i@rncfil®IT ~ffi]])~~ @IT®ffi]]) O~@O@O@ Qdl§§ ~g 'u'Qdl11,§ £ 'D'W@-§(;e)O~O'u' IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. 4/28/26, 4:50 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 4/28/26, 4:50 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT ---·•-.iorrarratlon FILM IT Flm a lhort - performance or documantary FINGER PAINT IT Create digital art, color pencil, o, drawing PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION 4/28/26, 4:50 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE Belongs V04M VOICE IS Yalld The 2022 .2023 OUR VOtCES ~ 10 raise Nnds and supp:wt lof our library seek510 l'ICrMSe eccess 10 and SCOl)8 ol LBGTOIA• rT\Mel19ls Donal& 10deyl Q,, Searchfor ~ 1 1 1 u .... r1t111tmanmBrew101111WWMCa1g CM~sspoMOree111ftet'nono-1a~ • Ritql,ellaL&nryCA'd Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library Donate & Support OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-f- OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Communny Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/28/26, 4:50 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. • = 4/28/26, 4:50 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 (Free Testing) Hope Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more 4/28/26, 4:50 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. information or to schedule an appointment. In Memoriam Il111 Memoniaum 4/28/26, 4:50 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21,2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23,2022 Joseph Edward Johnson 1947 - 2022 In Memoriam Submissions OKE 1 okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and 4/28/26, 4:50 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES HE/ HIM/ HIS DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR SHAY BREWER ANDI GUNTER KAO MORRIS SHE / HER / HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER OPERATIONS MANGER •• DONNA MATTHEWS LILY PINA SHE/ HER/ HERS GRANT COORDINATOR LUKE SCUITTO SHE I HER I HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS NURSE PRACTITIONER MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors 4/28/26, 4:50 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S8 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/28/26, 4:50 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/034e848588507d8d0ddd391fcea6438e.pdf 7214b7dfb7f5d9be3bbed54f2a59dbbc PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews November 21, 2022 Pictures are hyperlinked! Board President Update Dear friends, The winter holiday season is a time for gratitude, and this year I am 4/28/26, 4:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... profoundly grateful for the overwhelming support we have seen from the OkEq community during this time of transition. Thank you for your messages of support and your unwavering commitment to our work on behalf of the LGBTQ+ community. As you may know, last spring we celebrated Toby Jenkins’ 26 years of leadership as executive director of OkEq and wished him the best on his wellearned retirement to spend time with his family, especially his grandchildren. Over the last five months, the Board has been working to identify a new leader to help strengthen and sustain our mission and the legacy of Toby's work through the many events, programs, and resources that OkEq provides in serving you, our community. On behalf of the Board of Directors, I am thrilled to announce that Dorothy Ballard has joined OkEq as our new interim executive director. After a competitive interview process, the executive committee of the Board recommended Dorothy because of her knowledge, dedication, and passion for the mission of OkEq. She brings more than 15 years of experience in communications, marketing, and project development and management. We are grateful for her willingness to step forward and lead OkEq through this time of transition. Dorothy has hit the ground running and is building a comprehensive plan to stabilize and sustain OkEq. We will be sharing more information about those plans soon. I hope you will save the date of Thursday, December 8 at 5 pm for a Holiday Open House at OkEq for a chance to meet Dorothy and the OkEq team, tour the center, and learn about our programs and services. We also hope you join us afterwards in the Lynn Riggs theater to enjoy December’s Rainbow Room event “A Quirky Queen’s Queer Christmas Cabaret” featuring Travis Guillory at 7:30 pm. Look for an invitation to these later this week! Now that we again have leadership in place that holds the confidence of the Board and Staff, we can continue to address the broader work of implementing our strategy to make sure that OkEq is financially sound and can sustain its mission for generations to come. Although these shifts hold their challenges, we have an exciting opportunity for OkEq to meet the expanding needs of the community. As we move forward, we are mindful of our founding and history as a grassroots organization created to serve all in our community. After over 40 years, the rich diversity of our community has grown and our needs - your needs - are greater than ever. Thank you for continuing to stand with us as we work through this time of change as we turn the corner toward a bigger and brighter future. Sincerely, Bob Hanson Board President OkEq Colorado Shooting Statement 4/28/26, 4:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... , AFFIRMING, AND WELCOMING PLACES WHERE TH EY CAN BE WHO ~RE WITHOUT FEAR . WHILE THE MOTIVE OF THE SHOOTING IS STILL UNCLEAR A li THIS TIME , ANY ATTACK ON A SAFE SPACE DESIGNATED FOR LGBTQ+ PEOPLE FEELS LIKE A PROFOUND VIOLATION OF OUR SAFETY AND OUR RIGHT TO COME TOGETHER AS A COMMUNITY . WE MOURN THE LIVES LOST AND THE LIVES CHANGED FOREVER . INCLUDING AMONG THEM DANIEL DAVIS ASTON OF BROKEN ARROW, A TRANS MAN WHO RELOCATED TO COLORADO SPRINGS AND WAS BARTENDING ON THE NIGHT OF THIS HORRIBLE ATTACK . HAVING BEEN PART OF THE LOCAL ELOTE WORK FAMILY, THE IMPACT OF HIS LOSS HITS RIGHT IN THE CENTER OF HOME . WE ARE WORKING TO DETERMINE WHAT SUPPORTS THE COLORADO SPRINGS LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY NEEDS AT THIS TIME AND WILL SHARE MORE INFORMATION AS IT BECOMES AVAILABLE . 11 21 22 OKLAHOl'\ANS FOR EQUALITY [f!)81r~W~ 8[f1]~~~~8[f!) [K]~~~lf&@~ [M]@[f!)lf[}{] 22@2222 LET'S CELEBRATE THE RICH AND DIVERSE CULTURE, TRADITIONS, AND CONTRIBUTIONS OF NATIVE AI\ERICANS. 4/28/26, 4:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... . ····:: ... .(!l -·· ······- . -. • 1•11 ••• 111•11 • •• ■ ■ ■ ■- • ••• ■ •• ■ (!l ·•r:. FOR PICK UP AT THE DENNI R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER! THROUGH FRIDAY GIFTSTOBE RETURNED IS 4/28/26, 4:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa Cares Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and adopt a fairy from the fairy tree this holiday season! Join us in helping some faires enjoy the magic of the holiday season. ??❄ ?Gifts list are ready for pick up Monday - Friday 9am-9pm! ?Dealine to return gifts is December 12th Tulsa CARES was founded in 1991 as a community response to the growing need for coordinated HIV/AIDS care during some of the darkest days of the epidemic. For more than three decades, Tulsa CARES has provided a compassionate response as HIV/AIDS has evolved from a fatal illness to a chronically-managed disease. Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs serving low-income individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs. We specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, self-worth, inclusion, and hope."Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs serving lowincome individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs. We specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, self-worth, inclusion, and hope. Upcoming Special Events It's Giving IT1S 11101■11 Saturday, Nov 26th | 6:00pm 9:00pm The Canopy 19 E. Reconciliation Way RSVP “It’s Giving,” a community solidarity potluck event sponsored by Equality Business Alliance, Studio 66, and Tulsa 4/28/26, 4:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Remote at the Canopy followed by a drag show and dance party at the Chimera Ballroom (212 N. Main Street). The evening is meant to give back to the 2SLGBTQ+ community and strengthen ties between creative, diverse, and resilient Tulsans and those supporting them. We hope to see you there! The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Tyler Thompson View Art Month of November | 9:00am 9:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tyler was born in 1996 in Oklahoma and is a member of the Cherokee Nation. He has been drawing all his life with his brother Brandon being the inspiration that got him into art. Throughout school, he was praised for his drawing capabilities and was commissioned to do various pieces in his high school. In 2022, he was commissioned to do a memorial piece for missing indigenous woman Aubrey Dameron for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Thompson had also been published in the Tribal College Journal for posters he made to raise awareness for Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women. The signs were distributed through tribal colleges for them to hang around campuses. Thompson is attending Tohono O’odham Community College where he is pursuing an associate's Degree in Fine Arts. His art page, Thompson Art Design, can be found on Instagram where he draws in various mediums such as digital art, graphite pencil, charcoal, and paint. 4/28/26, 4:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, Dec 8th | 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Travis Guillory stars as Tracy La Louisianne in A Quirky Queen's Queer Christmas Cabaret! Get in the Christmas spirit with not-soclassic holiday songs, such as Christmas Card from a Hooker in Minneapolis, All I Want for Christmas is Nudes, and a Mad Libs version of The 12 Days of Christmas. Featuring Powell Barca, Nick Cains, Claire Sbanotto, Kara Staiger, and Jeremy Stevens, A Quirky Queen's Queer Christmas Cabaret is sure to deck your halls and jingle your bells with a fa-la-la-la-fun evening of campy Christmas chaos! Doors open at 7:00 p.m. and the show starts at 7:30 p.m. Table seats are $15 and general admission seating is $10. Tickets going on sale soon. 0 Name & Gender Maker Change Clinic Wednesday, Dec 14th | 5:30pm 7:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Contact Josh Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the 4/28/26, 4:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/28/26, 4:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Black Queer Tulsa is excited to present its inaugural Diamond Ball! Please join BQT on December 3rd for our annual fundraiser. Tickets are $75 for a fun-filled night of Black excellence. Come prepared to be dazzled with Tulsa’s premiere fashion designers and sparkle with Tulsa’s finest from the ballroom scene! There will be opportunities to support BQT programming all night, including a silent auction and raffle. Shine bright like a Diamond and support Black Queer Tulsa! Light appetizers will be served with an open bar. 21+ to attend. RSVP ON FACEBOOK TICKETS Grow With Us featuring Luke Scuitto This episode of Grow With Us features Luke Scuitto, the Membership Coordinator at the Dennis R. Neill Oklahoma Equality Center. Luke is Tulsa-transplant who found a meaningful community at the Equality Center, and he was able to create an opportunity to serve the LGBTQIA+ community of the Tulsa Metropolitan and beyond. In this episode, we discuss Luke’s involvement in programming events for the Equality Business Alliance, different programs available to folks in the LGBTQIA+ community, and the ways to serve locally in LBGTQIA+ spaces. Luke Scuitto OKEQ Membership Coordinator Read More The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). 4/28/26, 4:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. Read More IT'S OPEN ENROLLMENT SEASON! Don't miss this opportunity -• . ~ WWW.HEALTHCARE.GOV f) The open enrollment period for the ACA marketplace has begun! And 4 of 5 customers can find a plan option for $10 or less per month. Visit healthcare.gov to enroll, compare options, or switch plans. More LGBTQ+ people qualify this year for affordable health insurance options! Open enrollment for 2023 health insurance has started and runs through Jan 15, 2023. Go to healthcare.gov to get started. 4/28/26, 4:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R. eill EqualittJ Center. 621 li 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 EMAIL KAO.MORRISOOKE0.ORG DEADLINE IS DECEMBER 9TH PROPOSALS: BIO AND 3 PIECES ALL MEDIUMS ARE WELCOME. SUBMISSIONS OKEQ Programming Bro1111,gl11t T 0 You. Bi 1 l,;111e Letter LGBTQ Women's Network Monthly Happy Hour First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 4/28/26, 4:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0[)::!] @0@l0@[b!J[§[§~g 'u'(b!)lb§ £ 'u'W@-§ [;e)O~O'u' IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. ~~l/Wffi~H'fi'W ;i1t @@liw@ ~H@llil'fi' Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 4/28/26, 4:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. 4/28/26, 4:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... It's Complicated Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT -!i - - --•-... FILM IT Flm a ehort -perfonnance crclocumentaru Create digital art, color penc,l, or drawing PICTURE IT ~ ~ Take a phot o- a collage or self - portrait 0 , - - - - ~ ToluaontDdlu, Clckon~v:"",..::t,~'-- YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: .t CMEQ Mwuorary © ~ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE Belongs Your VOICE IS Yehd The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES C,mpeigo 10 raise funds and suppo(t lof M litlra,y seeks 10 l'ICrMSe ec::cess 10 and scope of LBGTOIA• mMet19t5 Donal& 10d8yl Searchtor Q,, .. Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. 4/28/26, 4:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library Donate & Support OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-f- OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ• Communn Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working 4/28/26, 4:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does 4/28/26, 4:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. In Memoriam Il111 MlemoniWTI 4/28/26, 4:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21,2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23,2022 Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett 1947 - 2022 In Memoriam Submissions OKE , okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 4:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES KAO MORRIS HE/ HIM/ HIS DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR ANDI GUNTER SHE I HER I HERS CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER SHAY BREWER HE I HIM I HIS OPERATIONS MANGER DONNA MATTHEWS I II V PINA SHE/ HER/ HERS n.DAMT rnnDnlM.4.Tf'\D LUKE SCUITTO 4/28/26, 4:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SHE/ HER/ HERS HE I HIM I HIS NURSE PRACTITIONER MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S9 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/28/26, 4:52 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4cef092ce1461f4343690830e1131a4e.pdf 351b8c5f8a0b71f52dbbf6a851129469 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! Interim Executive Director Message 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dear Friends, I hope this message finds you safe, happy and warm! As Bob shared earlier this week, I recently joined OkEq as the new Interim Executive Director. As a queer woman of color who had lived much of their life below the poverty line, I often found myself on the margins of systems and opportunities. Stepping in to serve as OkEq’s new leader is a significant personal and professional milestone, and I am honored and humbled to have the opportunity to serve you. I moved to Tulsa in October of 2001 and in the years since have been supported in cultivating a thriving career and family life here in the Midwest. This is true in no small part due to this organization and its resources. Because of OkEq and its network, I was able to expand my education, gain access to health services, and move myself out of both domestic violence and poverty as a single parent. Being in the position to help steer this organization into its next chapters is for me one of the most potent examples of how we have and must continue to meet our mission in service to the LGBTQ+ community and our families and allies. In the coming weeks, we will be sharing the details of our strategic plan in stabilizing and restructuring OkEq to sustain us in the years to come. We will, of course, continue to provide the programs our community counts on and create opportunities for our community to come together. I invite you to support us in our work and to meet with me at one of several upcoming events: December 1: World AIDS Day — Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our First Thursday Gallery Opening on December 1 is in partnership with the Grateful Day Foundation who will hold the space through the month of December featuring artworks from and in support of World AIDS Day. All proceeds benefit Grateful Day and its mission to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/AIDS wellness community. December 2: The Inspection Movie Premiere — Circle Cinema As Tulsa stands in solidarity with Colorado Springs, Circle Cinema and Oklahomans for Equality have partnered in a donation campaign to the Colorado Healing Fund to support the victims and survivors of the Club Q shooting. Together we will make a joint $3 donation for every ticket sold to the upcoming LGBTQ+ film The Inspection opening Friday, December 2 at Circle Cinema, with tickets for a 7:30 pm showing on sale now at CircleCinema.org. December 3: The Goff Ball — Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Goff Fest is BACK! Join us Saturday, December 3 from 8 to 11 pm for the Goff Ball at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center celebrating the life and legacy of Oklahoma's unconventional architect, Bruce Alonzo Goff. This beaux arts inspired ball is presented by Studio 66 and Oklahomans for Equality featuring drinks, DJs, dancing and a costume contest! Come dressed to impress in a look inspired by your favorite Bruce Goff building. December 8: Holiday Open House & Rainbow Room — Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Join us Thursday, December 8 at 5 pm for a free Holiday Open House at OkEq featuring light drinks and Hors D'oeuvres to meet our team and learn more about our programs and services. Following the Open House, we hope you stay to enjoy the December Rainbow Room event in the Lynn Riggs Theater “A Quirky Queen’s Queer Christmas Cabaret” featuring Travis Guillory at 7:30 pm, $10 dollar general admission. But hurry! Table reservations have already sold out! December 15: Equality Business Alliance Holiday Mixer — Lefty's on Greenwood A large part of OkEq’s support in meeting our mission is through the membership body of our Equality Business Alliance. The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by providing a directory of LGBTQ+ friendly local businesses; creating regular networking opportunities for members; and fostering professional environments where members can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. This will be the last mixer of the year and we are encouraging those who have an interest in learning more and joining (or rejoining) the EBA to come out for networking and drinks at Lefty’s on Greenwood from 6 -7:30 pm. As you can see, we have a lot going on! It is my sincere hope you will be able to join us and share these events with your networks. Most importantly, that I have the opportunity sooner rather than later to meet with you face-to-face to share my vision and passion for OkEq. Change is underway, but not without deep consideration of the legacy of OkEq and its founding leadership team, and toward better and broader services designed to meet the needs of our diverse community. We are incredibly grateful for your continued trust and support. Dorothy Ballard OkEq Interim Executive Director Dorothy.Ballard@okeq.org Board President Updates MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT HI , OKEQ MEMBERS. I WANTED TO TAKE A MOMENT TO INTRODUCE MYSELF. I AM BOB HANSON AND HAVE STEPPED INTO THE ROLE OF BOARD PRESIDENT FOR OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY. AFTER SERVI NC THE MEMBERS AND CENTER FOR THE LAST YEAR , STACY TURNER HAS TAKEN SOME VERY WELL EARNED TIME OFF TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY IN DIFFERENT WAYS. I CANNOT EXPRESS ENOUCH HOW CRATEFUL WE AS THE BOARD ARE FOR HER CUIDANCE AND LEADERSHIP OVER THE LAST YEAR : SHE HAS CUIDED US THROUCH SOME OF THE TOUCH EST TIMES OKEQ HAS EVER SEEN . THIS YEAR HAS BEEN A YEAR OF MANY CHANCES FOR THE CENTER - SOME COOD AND SOME BAD. THE STAFF AT THE CENTER HAS BEEN THROUCH SO MUCH , AND WE ARE SO CRATEFUL FOR THEIR DEDICATION TO THE CENTER AND THE COMMUNITY THEY SERVE . OUR STAFF IS AMAZINC AND HAS BEEN WORKINC SO HARD TO HELP KEEP THE IMPORTANT SERVICES THE CENTER PROVIDES AVAILABLE . AS WE TAKE THE NEXT STEPS , THERE ARE A LOT OF EXCITINC NEW THINCS OKEQ WILL BE FOCUSINC ON . BUT UNFORTUNATELY, EVENTS OVER THE LAST SEVERAL WEEKS HAVE REMINDED ALL OF US WHY THE WORK OF THE CENTER IS SO IMPORTANT. THE VIOLENT ATTACKS AT THE DONUT HOLE (PLEASE SHOW YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE TO THEM) ARE A SOBERINC REMINDER THAT WE STILL HAVE WORK TO DO. WE ARE ALSO FOCUSED ON FICHTINC THE ATTACK ON CENDER AFFIRMINC CARE. THE RECENT PASSACE AND SICNINC OF SENATE BILL 3XX PROHIBITS OU HEALTH FROM PROVIDINC CENDER · AFFIRMINC CARE AS A CONDITION OF RECEIVINC FEDERAL AMERICAN RESCUE PLAN DOLLARS FOR THE EXPANSION OF CHILDREN ' S BEHAVIORAL HEALTH FACILITIES. LECISLATORS HAVE ALREADY EXPRESSED A DESIRE TO BAN CENDER -AFFIRMINC CARE TO MINORS STATEWIDE IN THE 2023 LECISLATIVE SESSION . WHEN SENATE BILL 3 XX WAS SICNED, OUR BOARD SECRETARY , ERIC WILSON , SENT A SIMPLE BUT POWERFUL EMAIL THAT SAID , " THIS MAKES ME SO MAD . ALL THIS WILL DO IS HURT KIDS.• I HAVEN ' T STOPPED THINKINC ABOUT THAT EMAIL , AND IT HAS BECOME A BATTLE CRY FOR ME . OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO FICHT ACAINST THE HATE AND VIOLENCE THAT TARCETS OUR COMMUNITY. OKEQ WILL BE A SAFE PLACE FOR ALL WITHIN THE LCBTQIAA• COMMUNITY ACAINST WHATEVER IS THROWN AT US , NOT OUT OF HATE FOR OTHERS, BUT FOR THE LOVE OF OUR COMMUNITY. THIS IS WHY WE FICHT - SO ALL MAY KNOW LOVE WINS AND WILL PREVAIL. HUMBLED AND HONORED , BOB HANSON ~ l l . 0 7 . 2 2 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 11.07.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT AS I WRITE THIS ON THE EVEN INC OF THE MIDTERM ELECTIONS , I AM FILLED WITH EMOTION AND REMINDED THAT TRANSFORMATIONAL CHANCE TAKES TIME , PATIENCE AND AN UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO PUSH TH ROUCH CHALLENCES . THERE HAVE BEEN MANY CHANCES AT OKEQ RECENTLY . THOSE CHANCES MAY BE HARD TO ACCEPT FOR SOME IN OUR COMMUNITY BUT ARE DUE IN PART TO THE CROWTH OF OUR ORCANIZATION . IT IS MV HOPE THAT THIS MESSACE WILL HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHERE WE ARE TODAY AND WHY YOUR SUPPORT IS ESSENTIAL TO OUR FUTURE . OKEQ BECAN AS A SMALL ORCANIZATION RUN BY VOLUNTEERS . OVER THE YEARS , DRIVEN BY THE NEEDS OF OUR COMMUNITY , OKEQ CREW TO A LARCE CENTER REQUIRINC BOTH A FULL STAFF AND VOLUNTEERS . THIS CROWTH HAPPENED QUICKLY , AND THE STAFF , VOLUNTEERS , AND BOARD OF DIRECTORS WORKED TO SUSTAIN US TH ROUCH THIS EVOLUTION . THEIR PASSION FOR OKEQ IS WHAT LED TO AMAZINC ACCOMPLISHMENTS, EVEN IN THE FACE OF AN ADVERSE AND EVEN HOSTILE POLITICAL CLIMATE . AS WE SOUCHT TO RESPOND TO OVERWHELMINC DEMAND FOR THE SERVICES OKEQ PROVIDES , WE DID NOT ESTABLISH THE ADEQUATE ACCOUNTABILITY MEASURES A HEALTHY AND CROWINC ORCANIZATION NEEDS , PARTICULARLY IN TERMS OF FISCAL OVERSICHT. WE BELIEVE IN TRANSPARENCY AND ACCOUNTABILITY AND WANT OUR COMMUNITY TO KNOW : • IN OUR WORK TO ASSESS THE ORCANIZATION ' S CURRENT FINANCIAL STATE , THE BOARD IDENTIFIED IRRECULARITIES IN THE FINANCES OVERSEEN BY OKEQ ' S VOLUNTEER TREASURER ; • WE TOOK IMMEDIATE ACTION IN RESPONSE TO THIS FINDINC , AND THE TREASURER IS NO LONCER INVOLVED WITH OKEQ; • WE MET WITH OUR FUNDERS AND PHILANTHROPIC PARTNERS TO MAKE THEM AWARE OF THE SITUATION : • WITH THE CONTINUED SUPPORT OF OUR FUNDERS , WE COMPLETED A COMPETITIVE REQUEST FOR PROPOSALS PROCESS AND ENCACED A NEW ACCOUNTINC FIRM ; •WEARE WORKINC WITH THAT FIRM AND WITH OTHER PARTNERS TO COMPLETE A COMPREHENSIVE FINANCIAL RECONCILIATION PROCESS AND BUILD A NEW INFRASTRUCTURE TO ENSURE THAT EVERY DOLLAR IS ACCOUNTED FOR AND USED FOR ITS INTENDED PURPOSE . IMPORTANTLY , WE ARE SHARI NC THIS UPDATE AND THE INFORMATION WE HAVE AVAILABLE AT THIS TIME WITH THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER MOST - YOU. OKEQ EXISTS TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY AND WE ARE WORKINC URCENTLV TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ CAN BE FINANCIALLY VIABLE AND CAN SUSTAIN FOR CENERATIONS TO COME . YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS NOW MORE THAN EVER . MOVINC FORWARD , WE ARE DETERMININC WHAT PROCRAMS AND SERVICES WILL LOOK LIKE FOR THE NEXT FEW MONTHS . I WILL BE SHARINC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT OUR SCHEDULE SOON . IN THE MEANTIME , I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR YOUR STEADFAST COMMITMENT TO OKEQ AND TO SUPPORTINC OUR COMMUNITY TO BE SAFE , HEALTHY AND THRIVINC . SINCERELY BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11 . l 4. 2 2 11.14.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT ----- DEAR FRIENDS , THE WINTER HOLIDAY SEASON IS A TIME FOR CRATITUDE , AND THIS VEAR I AM PROFOUNDLY CRATEFUL FOR THE OVERWHELMINC SUPPORT WE HAVE SEEN FROM THE OKEQ COMMUNITY DURINC THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSACES OF SUPPORT AND YOUR UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO OUR WORK ON BEHALF OF THE LCBTQ + COMMUNITY . AS YOU MAY KNOW, LAST SPRINC WE CELEBRATED TOBY JENKINS ' 26 YEARS OF LEADERSHIP AS EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF OKEQ AND WISHED HIM THE BEST ON HIS WELL - EARNED RETIREMENT TO SPEND TIME WITH HIS FAMILY , ESPECIALLY HIS CRANDCHILDREN . OVER THE LAST FIVE MONTHS , THE BOARD HAS BEEN WORKINC TO IDENTIFY A NEW LEADER TO HELP STRENCTHEN AND SUSTAIN OUR MISSION AND THE LECACV OF TOBY ' S WORK TH ROUCH THE MANY EVENTS , PROCRAMS , AND RESOURCES THAT OKEQ PROVIDES IN SERVINC YOU , OUR COMMUNITY . ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS , I AM THRILLED TO ANNOUNCE THAT DOROTHY BALLARD HAS JOINED OKEQ AS OUR NEW INTERIM EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR . AFTER A COMPETITIVE INTERVIEW PROCESS , THE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE OF THE BOARD RECOMMENDED DOROTHY BECAUSE OF HER KNOWLEDCE . DEDICATION . AND PASSION FOR THE MISSION OF OKEQ . SHE BRINCS MORE THAN 15 YEARS OF EXPERIENCE IN COMMUNICATIONS , MARKETINC , AND PROJECT DEVELOPMENT AND MANACEMENT . WE ARE CRATEFUL FOR HER WILLINCNESS TO STEP FORWARD AND LEAD OKEQ TH ROUCH THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . DOROTHY HAS HIT THE CROUND RUNNINC AND IS BUILDINC A COMPREHENSIVE PLAN TO STABILIZE AND SUSTAIN OKEQ . WE WILL BE SHARI NC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THOSE PLANS SOON . I HOPE YOU WILL SAVE THE DATE OF THURSDAY , DECEMBER 8 AT 5 PM FOR A HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE AT OKEQ FOR A CHANCE TO MEET DOROTHY AND THE OKEQ TEAM , TOUR THE CENTER , AND LEARN ABOUT OUR PROCRAMS AND SERVICES . WE ALSO HOPE YOU JOIN US AFTERWARDS IN THE LYNN RICCS THEATER TO ENJOY DECEMBER ' S RAINBOW ROOM EVENT " A QUIRKY QUEEN ' S QUEER CHRISTMAS CABARET " FEATURINC TRAVIS CUILLORV AT 7:30 PM . LOOK FOR AN INVITATION TO THESE LATER THIS WEEK ! NOW THAT WE ACAIN HAVE LEADERSHIP IN PLACE THAT HOLDS THE CONFIDENCE OF THE BOARD AND STAFF , WE CAN CONTINUE TO ADDRESS THE BROADER WORK OF IMPLEMENTINC OUR STRATECV TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ IS FINANCIALLY SOUND AND CAN SUSTAIN ITS MISSION FOR CENERATIONS TO COME . ALTHOUCH THESE SHIFTS HOLD THEIR CHALLENCES , WE HAVE AN EXCITINC OPPORTUNITY FOR OKEQ TO MEET THE EX PAN DI NC NEEDS OF THE COMMUNITY. AS WE MOVE FORWARD , WE ARE MINDFUL OF OUR FOUNDINC AND HISTORY AS A CRASSROOTS ORCANIZATION CREATED TO SERVE ALL IN OUR COMMUNITY . AFTER OVER 40 YEARS , THE RICH DIVERSITY OF OUR COMMUNITY HAS CROWN AND OUR NEEDS - YOUR NEEDS - ARE CREATER THAN EVER . THANK YOU FOR CONTINUINC TO STAND WITH US AS WE WORK THROUCH THIS TIME OF CHANCE AS WE TURN THE CORNER TOWARD A BICCER AND BRICHTER FUTURE . SINCERELY , BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11 . 2 l . 2 2 11.21.22 OkEq Colorado Shooting Statement 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... STER l'N COLORADO SPtfff.l"C::...""E'1a!'9"1:n:JlM'JlliR7rulg■ . A FFIRMING. AND WELCOMING PLACES WHERE TH EY CAN BE WHO 'A E WITHOUT FEAR . WHILE THE MOTIVE OF THE SHOOTING IS STILL UNCLEAR AT THIS TIME , ANY ATTACK ON A SAFE SPACE DESIGNATED FOR LGBTQ+ PEOPLE FEELS LIKE A PROFOUND VIOLATION OF OUR SAFETY AND OUR RIGHT TO COME TOGETHER AS A COMMUNITY . WE MOURN THE LIVES LOST AND THE LIVES CHANGED FOREVER . INCLUDING AMONG THEM DANIEL DAVIS ASTON OF BROKEN ARROW, A TRANS MAN WHO RELOCATED TO COLORADO SPRINGS AND WAS BARTENDING ON THE NIGHT OF THIS HORRIBLE ATTACK . HAVING BEEN PART OF THE LOCAL ELOTE WORK FAMILY, THE IMPACT OF HIS LOSS HITS RIGHT IN THE CENTER OF HOME . WE ARE WORKING TO DETERMINE WHAT SUPPORTS THE COLORADO SPRINGS LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY NEEDS AT THIS TIME AND WILL SHARE MORE INFORMATION AS IT BECOMES AVAILABLE . 11 21 2 2 Black Friday Deals with Amazon Smiles x OKEQ Amazon Smile Black Friday 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... As you cash in on Black Friday deals be sure to give back to Oklahoma for Equality with Amazon Smile. Help us continue to provide services for LGBTQ+ Oklahomans and continue doing important work across Oklahoma and Indian Country. ??Scan QR Code to sign in ?? Confirm Oklahomans for Equality Inc. as your charity ??If having trouble finding us, we’re listed under programs: Dennis R. Neill Equality Center & Categories: Alliance/Advocacy ?? Consider giving directly to Oklahomans for Equality here: Donate Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree • • •• •• •• • • • •• • , •• • •• 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... GIFTS LIST ARE READY FOR PICK UP AT THE DENNI THROUGH FRIDAY GIFTSTOBE RETURNED IS Tulsa Cares Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and adopt a fairy from the fairy tree this holiday season! Join us in helping some faires enjoy the magic of the holiday season. ??❄ ?Gifts list are ready for pick up Monday - Friday 9am-9pm! ?Dealine to return gifts is December 12th Tulsa CARES was founded in 1991 as a community response to the growing need for coordinated HIV/AIDS care during some of the darkest days of the epidemic. For more than three decades, Tulsa CARES has provided a compassionate response as HIV/AIDS has evolved from a fatal illness to a chronically-managed disease. Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs serving low-income individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs. We specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, self-worth, inclusion, and hope."Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs serving lowincome individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs. We specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, self-worth, inclusion, and hope. ..•• 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKLAH ~LITY ~8lJ~W~ 8[M)~ffi~~8~ [X]~ffi~[j&@~ [M]@~[j[X] (2@(2(2 LET'S CELEBRATE THE RICH AND DIVERSE CULTURE, TRADITIONS, AND CONTRIBUTIONS OF NATIVE AI\ERICANS. Upcoming Special Events It's Giving IT S 1 11101■11 Saturday, Nov 26th | 6:00pm 9:00pm The Canopy 19 E. Reconciliation Way RSVP “It’s Giving,” a community solidarity potluck event sponsored by Equality Business Alliance, Studio 66, and Tulsa Remote at the Canopy followed by a drag show and dance party at the Chimera Ballroom (212 N. Main Street). The evening is meant to give back to the 2SLGBTQ+ community and strengthen ties between creative, diverse, and resilient Tulsans and those 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... supporting them. We hope to see you there! Worlds AIDS Day Thursday, Dec 1st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Our First Thursday Gallery Opening on December 1 is in partnership with the Grateful Day Foundation who will hold the space through the month of December featuring artworks from and in support of World AIDS Day. All proceeds benefit Grateful Day and its mission to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/AIDS wellness community. DEC 1 E0 MBER . 0 2 l&!i■liiifi f7il} CIRCLECINEMA. n ~ Oklohomon11o< Equollty Donating $3 lor every ticket sold to the ~COLORADO HEALING FUND The Colorado Healing Fund Fundraiser Friday, Dec 2nd | 7:30pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 Tickets Supporting victims & survivors of the Club Q tragedy Circle Cinema and Oklahomans for Equality are partnering to stand in solidarity with Colorado Springs and the LGBTQ+ community. $3 for every ticket sold to "The Inspection" will be donated to the Colorado Healing Fund supporting victims and survivors of the Club Q tragedy. Join us for an opening night screening Fri 12/2, 7:30p. From A24 and based on a true story, The Inspection follows young, gay Black man, rejected by his mother and with few options for his future, who decides to join the Marines and do whatever it takes to succeed in a system that would cast him aside. 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Goff Ball Saturday, Dec 3rd | 8:00pm 11:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tickets Goff Fest is BACK! Join us Saturday, December 3 from 8 to 11 pm for the Goff Ball at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center celebrating the life and legacy of Oklahoma's unconventional architect, Bruce Alonzo Goff. This beaux arts inspired ball is presented by Studio 66 and Oklahomans for Equality featuring drinks, DJs, dancing, and a costume contest! Come dressed to impress in a look inspired by your favorite Bruce Goff building. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, Dec 8th | 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Travis Guillory stars as Tracy La Louisianne in A Quirky Queen's Queer Christmas Cabaret! Get in the Christmas spirit with not-soclassic holiday songs, such as Christmas Card from a Hooker in Minneapolis, All I Want for Christmas is Nudes, and a Mad Libs version of The 12 Days of Christmas. Featuring Powell Barca, Nick Cains, Claire Sbanotto, Kara Staiger, and Jeremy Stevens, A Quirky Queen's Queer Christmas Cabaret is sure to deck your halls and jingle your bells with a fa-la-la-la-fun evening of campy Christmas chaos! Doors open at 7:00 p.m. and the show starts at 7:30 p.m. Table seats are $15 and general admission seating is $10. Tickets going on sale soon. 0 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Name & Gender Maker Change Clinic Payton Law Fi eyton Law Firm Sponsors Change and Gender Marker Cllnlc 2nd Wednesdays of the To contact Josh or Rebecca email josh@joshuapaytonlaw.com Wednesday, Dec 14th | 5:30pm 7:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Contact Josh Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. EQ.Yu~~lI! JM,litlllw Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday, Dec 15th | 6:00pm 7:30pm Lefty's on Greenwood 10 North Greenwood Ave, Suite A, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Join us for our December Equality Business Alliance Mixer at Lefty's on Greenwood Lefty's on Greenwood "A decidedly different downtown restaurant and bar. Located in the historic Greenwood District at the corner of Archer and Greenwood-across from Oneok Field--in the dramatic ground floor of the GreenArch building. Tulsa's only spot where food, 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... drink, sports and lively music mix on a daily basis. Our offerings are proudly curated by Tiffany and staff." http:// www.leftysongreenwood.com The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.html 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Black Queer Tulsa is excited to present its inaugural Diamond Ball! Please join BQT on December 3rd for our annual fundraiser. Tickets are $75 for a fun-filled night of Black excellence. Come prepared to be dazzled with Tulsa’s premiere fashion designers and sparkle with Tulsa’s finest from the ballroom scene! There will be opportunities to support BQT programming all night, including a silent auction and raffle. Shine bright like a Diamond and support Black Queer Tulsa! Light appetizers will be served with an open bar. 21+ to attend. RSVP ON FACEBOOK TICKETS Grow With Us featuring Luke Scuitto This episode of Grow With Us features Luke Scuitto, the Membership Coordinator at the Dennis R. Neill Oklahoma Equality Center. Luke is Tulsa-transplant who found a meaningful community at the Equality Center, and he was able to create an opportunity to serve the LGBTQIA+ community of the Tulsa Metropolitan and beyond. In this episode, we discuss Luke’s involvement in programming events for the Equality Business Alliance, different programs available to folks in the LGBTQIA+ community, and the ways to serve locally in LBGTQIA+ spaces. Luke Scuitto OKEQ Membership Coordinator Read More Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More The open enrollment period for the ACA marketplace has begun! And 4 of 5 customers can find a plan option for $10 or less per month. Visit healthcare.gov to enroll, compare options, or switch plans. More LGBTQ+ people qualify this year for affordable health insurance options! Open enrollment for 2023 health insurance has started and runs through Jan 15, 2023. Go to healthcare.gov to get started. Dennis R. eill Equality Center. 621 fi 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 DEADLINE IS DECEMBER 9TH EMAIL KAO.MORRISOOKE0.ORG PROPOSALS: BIO AND 3 PIECES 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ( ALL MEDIUMS ARE WELCOME. SUBMISSIONS OKEQ Programming Brou1gl11t "1'10 You,, Bi "I1lte Letter LGBTQ Women's Network Monthly Happy Hour First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 ®@mcll@IT O ~@O@l □@ M§§ ~g 'IT'M11,§ £ 'IT'W@=§ ~O~O'IT' IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un The program is providing support, education and social 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 ++ 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... UK~Q + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. - 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT -!:i - - --•-... FILM IT Flm a ehort -perfonnance crclocumentaru FINCER PAINT IT Create digital art, cokx- pencil, or a-awing PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: - -.•- -Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE Belongs Yow VOICE 15 Vlllld The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES Canpaign lo raise funds and support lor W' laary seeks to incrMSe access to and saipe of LBGTOIA• mat80lll!s Donale bSe)'I 0. Searc:htor Cong,anaaonslllUlrllffOltana~flrOIITIClllll'dftGClflg (lw~IIIJIOMCftCllll'lel'IIOnOrlOI'~ • Ritquellll.D'lrYClfd Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Library -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC Donate & Support -~-f- OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ + Commumt Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID t h SERVICES O F These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS a "'"""I""" I ,....._ a I I I a I I I 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. AC IIUNLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. In Memoriam Iln MemolriWTI 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21,2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23,2022 Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett 1947 - 2022 In Memoriam Submissions OKE 1 okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES HE/ HIM/ HIS DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR SHAY BREWER HE I HIM I HIS ANDI GUNTER SHE I HER I HERS KAO MORRIS CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER • LILY PINA OPERATIONS MANGER DONNA MATTHEWS SHE/ HER/ HERS GRANT COORDINATOR LUKE SCUITTO SHE/ HER/ HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS NURSE PRACTITIONER MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt 4/28/26, 4:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S9 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/28/26, 4:55 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2d22c6d5b3ef138ac805a4898f716731.pdf bbc4db5ac4e11ca9e985b120639e1ff8 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! Interim Executive Director Message 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dear Friends, I hope this message finds you safe, happy and warm! As Bob shared earlier this week, I recently joined OkEq as the new Interim Executive Director. As a queer woman of color who had lived much of their life below the poverty line, I often found myself on the margins of systems and opportunities. Stepping in to serve as OkEq’s new leader is a significant personal and professional milestone, and I am honored and humbled to have the opportunity to serve you. I moved to Tulsa in October of 2001 and in the years since have been supported in cultivating a thriving career and family life here in the Midwest. This is true in no small part due to this organization and its resources. Because of OkEq and its network, I was able to expand my education, gain access to health services, and move myself out of both domestic violence and poverty as a single parent. Being in the position to help steer this organization into its next chapters is for me one of the most potent examples of how we have and must continue to meet our mission in service to the LGBTQ+ community and our families and allies. In the coming weeks, we will be sharing the details of our strategic plan in stabilizing and restructuring OkEq to sustain us in the years to come. We will, of course, continue to provide the programs our community counts on and create opportunities for our community to come together. I invite you to support us in our work and to meet with me at one of several upcoming events: December 1: World AIDS Day — Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our First Thursday Gallery Opening on December 1 is in partnership with the 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Grateful Day Foundation who will hold the space through the month of December featuring artworks from and in support of World AIDS Day. All proceeds benefit Grateful Day and its mission to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/AIDS wellness community. December 2: The Inspection Movie Premiere — Circle Cinema As Tulsa stands in solidarity with Colorado Springs, Circle Cinema and Oklahomans for Equality have partnered in a donation campaign to the Colorado Healing Fund to support the victims and survivors of the Club Q shooting. Together we will make a joint $3 donation for every ticket sold to the upcoming LGBTQ+ film The Inspection opening Friday, December 2 at Circle Cinema, with tickets for a 7:30 pm showing on sale now at CircleCinema.org. December 3: The Goff Ball — Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Goff Fest is BACK! Join us Saturday, December 3 from 8 to 11 pm for the Goff Ball at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center celebrating the life and legacy of Oklahoma's unconventional architect, Bruce Alonzo Goff. This beaux arts inspired ball is presented by Studio 66 and Oklahomans for Equality featuring drinks, DJs, dancing and a costume contest! Come dressed to impress in a look inspired by your favorite Bruce Goff building. December 8: Holiday Open House & Rainbow Room — Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join us Thursday, December 8 at 5 pm for a free Holiday Open House at OkEq featuring light drinks and Hors D'oeuvres to meet our team and learn more about our programs and services. Following the Open House, we hope you stay to enjoy the December Rainbow Room event in the Lynn Riggs Theater “A Quirky Queen’s Queer Christmas Cabaret” featuring Travis Guillory at 7:30 pm, $10 dollar general admission. But hurry! Table reservations have already sold out! December 15: Equality Business Alliance Holiday Mixer — Lefty's on Greenwood A large part of OkEq’s support in meeting our mission is through the membership body of our Equality Business Alliance. The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by providing a directory of LGBTQ+ friendly local businesses; creating regular networking opportunities for members; and fostering professional environments where members can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. This will be the last mixer of the year and we are encouraging those who have an interest in learning more and joining (or rejoining) the EBA to come out for networking and drinks at Lefty’s on Greenwood from 6 -7:30 pm. As you can see, we have a lot going on! It is my sincere hope you will be able to join us and share these events with your networks. Most importantly, that I have the opportunity sooner rather than later to meet with you face-to-face to share my vision and passion for OkEq. Change is underway, but not without deep consideration of the legacy of OkEq and its founding leadership team, and toward better and broader services designed to meet the needs of our diverse community. We are incredibly grateful for your continued trust and support. Dorothy Ballard OkEq Interim Executive Director Dorothy.Ballard@okeq.org Board President Updates 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT HI , OKEQ MEMBERS. I WANTED TO TAKE A MOMENT TO INTRODUCE MYSELF. I AM BOB HANSON AND HAVE STEPPED INTO THE ROLE OF BOARD PRESIDENT FOR OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY. AFTER SERVING THE MEMBERS AND CENTER FOR THE LAST YEAR , STACY TURNER HAS TAKEN SOME VERY WELL EARNED TIME OFF TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY IN DIFFERENT WAYS. I CANNOT EXPRESS ENOUGH HOW GRATEFUL WE AS THE BOARD ARE FOR HER GUIDANCE AND LEADERSHIP OVER THE LAST YEAR ; SHE HAS GUIDED US THROUGH SOME OF THE TOUGHEST TIMES OKEQ HAS EVER SEEN . THIS YEAR HAS BEEN A YEAR OF MANY CHANGES FOR THE CENTER - SOME GOOD AND SOME BAD. THE STAFF AT THE CENTER HAS BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH, AND WE ARE SO GRATEFUL FOR THEIR DEDICATION TO THE CENTER AND THE COMMUNITY THEY SERVE . OUR STAFF IS AMAZING AND HAS BEEN WORKING SO HARD TO HELP KEEP THE IMPORTANT SERVICES THE CENTER PROVIDES AVAILABLE . AS WE TAKE THE NEXT STEPS , THERE ARE A LOT OF EXCITING NEW THINGS OKEQ WILL BE FOCUSING ON . BUT UNFORTUNATELY. EVENTS OVER THE LAST SEVERAL WEEKS HAVE REMINDED ALL OF US WHY THE WORK OF THE CENTER IS SO IMPORTANT. THE VIOLENT ATTACKS AT THE DONUT HOLE (PLEASE SHOW YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE TO THEM) ARE A SOBERING REMINDER THAT WE STILL HAVE WORK TO DO. WE ARE ALSO FOCUSED ON FIGHTING THE ATTACK ON GENDER AFFIRMING CARE. THE RECENT PASSAGE AND SIGNING OF SENATE BILL 3XX PROHIBITS OU HEALTH FROM PROVIDING GENDER AFFIRMING CARE AS A CONDITION OF RECEIVING FEDERAL AMERICAN RESCUE PLAN DOLLARS FOR THE EXPANSION OF CHILDREN "S BEHAVIORAL HEALTH FACILITIES . LEGISLATORS HAVE ALREADY EXPRESSED A DESIRE TO BAN GENDER - AFFIRMING CARE TO MINORS STATEWIDE IN THE 2023 LEGISLATIVE SESSION . WHEN SENATE BILL 3XX WAS SIGNED. OUR BOARD SECRETARY , ERIC WILSON , SENT A SIMPLE BUT POWERFUL EMAIL THAT SAID . " THIS MAKES ME SO MAD . ALL THIS WILL DO IS HURT KIDS ." I HAVEN'T STOPPED THINKING ABOUT THAT EMAIL , AND IT HAS BECOME A BATTLE CRY FOR ME. OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO FIGHT AGAINST THE HATE AND VIOLENCE THAT TARGETS OUR COMMUNITY. OKEQ WILL BE A SAFE PLACE FOR ALL WITHIN THE LGBTQIAA• COMMUNITY AGAINST WHATEVER IS THROWN AT US , NOT OUT OF HATE FOR OTHERS. BUT FOR THE LOVE OF OUR COMMUNITY. THIS IS WHY WE FIGHT - SO ALL MAY KNOW LOVE WINS AND WILL PREVAIL. HUMBLED AND HONORED , BOB HANSON l l . 0 7 . 2 2 q 11.07.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT AS I WRITE THIS ON THE EVEN INC OF THE MIDTERM ELECTIONS , I AM FILLED WITH EMOTION AND REMINDED THAT TRANSFORMATIONAL CHANCE TAKES TIME . PATIENCE AND AN UNWAVERING COMMITMENT TO PUSH TH ROUCH CHALLENGES . THERE HAVE BEEN MANY CHANCES AT OKEQ RECENTLY . THOSE CHANCES MAY BE HARD TO ACCEPT FOR SOME IN OUR COMMUNITY BUT ARE DUE IN PART TO THE CROWTH OF OUR ORGANIZATION . IT IS MY HOPE THAT THIS MESSACE WILL HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHERE WE ARE TODAY AND WHY YOUR SUPPORT IS ESSENTIAL TO OUR FUTURE . OKEQ BECAN AS A SMALL ORGANIZATION RUN BY VOLUNTEERS . OVER THE YEARS , DRIVEN BY THE NEEDS OF OUR COMMUNITY , OKEQ CREW TO A LARCE CENTER REQUIRING BOTH A FULL STAFF ANO VOLUNTEERS . THIS CROWTH HAPPENED QUICKLY , ANO THE STAFF . VOLUNTEERS . ANO BOARD OF DIRECTORS WORKED TO SUSTAIN US TH ROUCH THIS EVOLUTION . THEIR PASSION FOR OKEQ IS WHAT LEO TO AMAZINC ACCOMPLISHMENTS . EVEN IN THE FACE OF AN ADVERSE ANO EVEN HOSTILE POLITICAL CLIMATE . AS WE SOUCHT TO RESPOND TO OVERWHELMINC DEMAND FOR THE SERVICES OKEQ PROVIDES . WE 010 NOT ESTABLISH THE ADEQUATE ACCOUNTABILITY MEASURES A HEALTHY AND CROWINC ORGANIZATION NEEDS , PARTICULARLY IN TERMS OF FISCAL OVERSIGHT. WE BELIEVE IN TRANSPARENCY AND ACCOUNTABILITY ANO WANT OUR COMMUNITY TO KNOW : • IN OUR WORK TO ASSESS THE ORCANIZATION "S CURRENT FINANCIAL STATE . THE BOARD IDENTIFIED IRREGULARITIES IN THE FINANCES OVERSEEN BY OKEQ "S VOLUNTEER TREASURER : • WE TOOK IMMEDIATE ACTION IN RESPONSE TO THIS FINOINC . AND THE TREASURER IS NO LONCER INVOLVED WITH OKEQ: • WE MET WITH OUR FUNDERS ANO PHILANTHROPIC PARTNERS TO MAKE THEM AWARE OF THE SITUATION : • WITH THE CONTINUED SUPPORT OF OUR FUNDERS . WE COMPLETED A COMPETITIVE REQUEST FOR PROPOSALS PROCESS ANO ENCACEO A NEW ACCOUNTING FIRM : •WEARE WORKINC WITH THAT FIRM AND WITH OTHER PARTNERS TO COMPLETE A COMPREHENSIVE FINANCIAL RECONCILIATION PROCESS ANO BUILD A NEW INFRASTRUCTURE TO ENSURE THAT EVERY DOLLAR IS ACCOUNTED FOR ANO USED FOR ITS INTENDED PURPOSE . IMPORTANTLY . WE ARE SHARI NC THIS UPDATE ANO THE INFORMATION WE HAVE AVAILABLE AT THIS TIME WITH THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER MOST - YOU . OKEQ EXISTS TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY ANO WE ARE WORKINC URGENTLY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ CAN BE FINANCIALLY VIABLE ANO CAN SUSTAIN FOR GENERATIONS TO COME . YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS NOW MORE THAN EVER . MOVINC FORWARD , WE ARE DETERMINING WHAT PROGRAMS ANO SERVICES WILL LOOK LIKE FOR THE NEXT FEW MONTHS . I WILL BE SHARINC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT OUR SCHEDULE SOON . IN THE MEANTIME , I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR YOUR STEADFAST COMMITMENT TO OKEQ ANO TO SUPPORTING OUR COMMUNITY TO BE SAFE , HEALTHY ANO THRIVING . SINCERELY BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11 . l 4 . 2 2 11.14.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT ----DEAR FRIENDS , THE WINTER HOLIDAY SEASON IS A TIME FOR CRATITUOE , ANO THIS YEAR I AM PROFOUNDLY GRATEFUL FOR THE OVERWHELMINC SUPPORT WE HAVE SEEN FROM THE OKEQ COMMUNITY OURINC THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSAGES OF SUPPORT ANO YOUR UNWAVERING COMMITMENT TO OUR WORK ON BEHALF OF THE LCBTQ • COMMUNITY . AS YOU MAY KNOW , LAST SPRINC WE CELEBRATED TOBY JENKINS ' 26 YEARS OF LEADERSHIP AS EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF OKEQ AND WISHED HIM THE BEST ON HIS WELL - EARNED RETIREMENT TO SPENO TIME WITH HIS FAMILY . ESPECIALLY HIS CRANOCHILOREN . OVER THE LAST FIVE MONTHS . THE BOARD HAS BEEN WORKINC TO IDENTIFY A NEW LEADER TO HELP STRENGTHEN ANO SUSTAIN OUR MISSION AND THE LECACY OF TOBY ' S WORK TH ROUCH THE MANY EVENTS , PROGRAMS , AND RESOURCES THAT OKEQ PROVIDES IN SERVING YOU , OUR COMMUNITY . ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS , I AM THRILLED TO ANNOUNCE THAT DOROTHY BALLARD HAS JOINED OKEQ AS OUR NEW INTERIM EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR . AFTER A COMPETITIVE INTERVIEW PROCESS . THE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE OF THE BOARD RECOMMENDED DOROTHY BECAUSE OF HER KNOWLEDGE , DEDICATION , AND PASSION FOR THE MISSION OF OKEQ . SHE BRINCS MORE THAN 15 YEARS OF EXPERIENCE IN COMMUNICATIONS , MARKETINC . AND PROJECT DEVELOPMENT AND MANAGEMENT . WE ARE GRATEFUL FOR HER WILLINGNESS TO STEP FORWARD ANO LEAD OKEQ TH ROUCH TH I S TIME OF TRANSITION . 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... UOHO T HT HA~ HI T T HI: c;;iffQUNU HUNNINc;;i ANU I~ t:IUILUIN c;;i A (; QMPHll:H l:: N~IVII: PLAN T O ~ T AtllLIZ I:: ANU ~U~ T AIN 0"1:Q . WI: WILL BE SHARI NC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THOSE PLANS SOON . I HOPE YOU WILL SAVE THE DATE OF THURSDAY , DECEMBER 8 AT 5 PM FOR A HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE AT OKEQ FOR A CHANCE TO MEET DOROTHY AND THE OKEQ TEAM , TOUR THE CENTER , AND LEARN ABOUT OUR PROCRAMS AND SERVICES . WE ALSO HOPE YOU JOIN US AFTERWARDS IN THE LYNN RICCS THEATER TO ENJOY DECEMBER ' S RAINBOW ROOM EVENT " A QUIRKY QUEEN ' S QUEER CHRISTMAS CABARET " FEATURINC TRAVIS CUILLORY AT 7 ,30 PM . LOOK FOR AN INVITATION TO THESE LATER THIS WEEK ! NOW THAT WE ACAIN HAVE LEADERSHIP IN PLACE THAT HOLDS THE CONFIDENCE OF THE BOARD AND STAFF , WE CAN CONTINUE TO ADDRESS THE BROADER WORK OF IMPLEMENTINC OUR STRATECY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ IS FINANCIALLY SOUND AND CAN SUSTAIN ITS MISSION FOR CENERATIONS TO COME . ALTHOUCH THESE SHIFTS HOLD THEIR CHALLENCES , WE HAVE AN EXCI T INC OPPORTUNITY FOR OKEQ TO MEET THE EX PAN DI NC NEEDS OF THE COMMUNITY . AS WE MOVE FORWARD , WE ARE MINDFUL OF OUR FOUNDINC AND HISTORY AS A CRASSROOTS ORCANIZATION CREATED TO SERVE ALL IN OUR COMMUNITY . AFTER OVER 40 YEARS , THE RICH DIVERSITY OF OUR COMMUNITY HAS CROWN AND OUR NEEDS • YOUR NEEDS · ARE CREATER THAN EVER . THANK YOU FOR CONTINUINC TO STAND WITH US AS WE WORK THROUCH THIS TIME OF CHANCE AS WE TURN THE CORNER TOWARD A BICCER AND BRICHTER FUTURE . S I NCERELY , BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11 . 2 1 . 2 2 11.21.22 OkEq Colorado Shooting Statement WEAR OUR-L ~ - ~ERS AND SISTERS IN COLORADO SPRING . , A FFIRMING . AND WELCOMING PLACES WHER TO SA ;4. E WITHOUT FEAR . WHILE THE MOTIVE OF THE SHOOTING IS STILL UNCLEAR AT THIS TIME . ANY ATTACK ON A SAFE SPACE DESIGNATED FOR LGBTQ+ PEOPLE FEELS LIKE A PROFOUND VIOLATION OF OUR SAFETY AND OUR RIGHT TO COME TOGETHER AS A COMMUNITY . WE MOURN THE LIVES LOST AND THE LIVES CHANGED FOREVER . INCLUDING AMONG THEM DANIEL DAVIS ASTON OF BROKEN ARROW, A TRANS MAN WHO RELOCATED TO COLORADO SPRINGS AND WAS BARTENDING ON THE NIGHT OF THIS HORRIBLE ATTACK . HAVING BEEN PART OF THE LOCAL ELOTE WORK FAMILY, THE IMPACT OF HIS LOSS HITS RIGHT IN THE CENTER OF HOME . WE ARE WORKING TO DETERMINE WHAT SUPPORTS THE COLORADO SPRINGS LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY NEEDS AT THIS TIME AND WILL SHARE MORE INFORMATION AS IT BECOMES AVAILABLE . 11 21 2 2 ' 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... As you cash in on Cyber Monday deals be sure to give back to Oklahoma for Equality with Amazon Smile. Help us continue to provide services for LGBTQ+ Oklahomans and continue doing important work across Oklahoma and Indian Country. ?? When you shop at smile.amazon.com, Amazon donates 0.5% of your eligible purchases - at no cost to you. ?? Scan QR Code to sign in ?? Confirm Oklahomans for Equality Inc. as your charity ??If having trouble finding us, we’re listed under programs: Dennis R. Neill Equality Center & Categories: Alliance/Advocacy 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Neill Equality Center. Serving LGBTQ+ Oklahomans and their allies since 1980. www.okeq.org • • • • • • • • Giving Tuesday is a movement that lets people build upon shared humanity and radical generosity. When you donate to Oklahomans for Equality you’re helping provide valuable social and support programs for LGBTQ+ Oklahomans and their allies. Give Today THROUGH FRIDAY GIFTSTOBE RETURNED IS 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 26 _- • l • •, .. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • •: • f • • •• •. • l ~; • • .. . •: • • • • • •. • l • • • .. ~ •• •, Tulsa Cares Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and adopt a fairy from the fairy tree this holiday season! Join us in helping some faires enjoy the magic of the holiday season. ??❄ ?Gifts list are ready for pick up Monday - Friday 9am-9pm! ?Dealine to return gifts is December 12th Tulsa CARES was founded in 1991 as a community response to the growing need for coordinated HIV/AIDS care during some of the darkest days of the epidemic. For more than three decades, Tulsa CARES has provided a compassionate response as HIV/AIDS has evolved from a fatal illness to a chronically-managed disease. Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs serving low-income individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs. We specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, self-worth, inclusion, and hope."Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs serving lowincome individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs. We specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, self-worth, inclusion, and hope. OKLAHOI\ANS FOR EQUALITY [f!)8li'~W~ 8[M)~~~~8[f!) ~~~~]'&@~ [M]@[f!)lf[}{] 22@2222 LET'S CELEBRATE THE RICH AND DIVERSE CULTURE, TRADITIONS, AND CONTRIBUTIONS OF NATIVE AI\ERICANS. 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Upcoming Special Events Game Night at OKEQ ~~@ffi~H'll'WJ ~ @ffilifm@ ~H@!lii'll' Tuesday, Nov 29th | 5:00pm 9:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Worlds AIDS Day Thursday, Dec 1st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Our First Thursday Gallery Opening on December 1 is in partnership with the Grateful Day Foundation who will hold the space through the month of December featuring artworks from and in support of World AIDS Day. All proceeds benefit Grateful Day and its mission to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/AIDS wellness community. It's Complicated Thursday, Dec 1st | 7:00pm 8:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with David Martfeld RSVP Thursday, Dec 1st | 7:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 David Martfeld is this month's artist in The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, December 1st at 7pm. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 7:00pm – 9:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. 0 oec 1 E0 MBER • 0 2 l&!i■liiifi f7il} CIRCLECINEMA. n ~ Oklohomon11o< Equollty Donating $3 lor every ticket sold to the ~COLORADO HEALING FUND The Colorado Healing Fund Fundraiser Friday, Dec 2nd | 7:30pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 Tickets Supporting victims & survivors of the Club Q tragedy Circle Cinema and Oklahomans for Equality are partnering to stand in solidarity with Colorado Springs and the LGBTQ+ community. $3 for every ticket sold to "The Inspection" will be donated to the Colorado Healing Fund supporting victims and survivors of the Club Q tragedy. Join us for an opening night screening Fri 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 12/2, 7:30p. From A24 and based on a true story, The Inspection follows young, gay Black man, rejected by his mother and with few options for his future, who decides to join the Marines and do whatever it takes to succeed in a system that would cast him aside. The Goff Ball Saturday, Dec 3rd | 8:00pm 11:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tickets Goff Fest is BACK! Join us Saturday, December 3 from 8 to 11 pm for the Goff Ball at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center celebrating the life and legacy of Oklahoma's unconventional architect, Bruce Alonzo Goff. This beaux artsinspired ball is presented by Studio 66 and Oklahomans for Equality featuring drinks, DJs, dancing, and a costume contest! Come dressed to impress in a look inspired by your favorite Bruce Goff building. Queer Women's Collective Tulsa Wednesday, Dec 7th | 5:30pm 7:30pm Lefty's on Greenwood 10 N Greenwood Ave Suite A, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included) and we hope some of you will join us! Potentially a photographer from Tulsa People will be joining us for a few photo. 08 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Thursdays in the Rainbow Room - SOLD OUT Thursday, Dec 8th | 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Travis Guillory stars as Tracy La Louisianne in A Quirky Queen's Queer Christmas Cabaret! Get in the Christmas spirit with not-soclassic holiday songs, such as Christmas Card from a Hooker in Minneapolis, All I Want for Christmas is Nudes, and a Mad Libs version of The 12 Days of Christmas. Featuring Powell Barca, Nick Cains, Claire Sbanotto, Kara Staiger, and Jeremy Stevens, A Quirky Queen's Queer Christmas Cabaret is sure to deck your halls and jingle your bells with a fa-la-la-la-fun evening of campy Christmas chaos! Doors open at 7:00 p.m. and the show starts at 7:30 p.m. Table seats are $15 and general admission seating is $10. Tickets going on sale soon. 0 Name & Gender Maker Change Clinic Wednesday, Dec 14th | 5:30pm 7:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Contact Josh Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. EQ.Yu~~lI! fMiM~ L Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday, Dec 15th | 6:00pm 7:30pm Lefty's on Greenwood 10 North Greenwood Ave, Suite A, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Join us for our December Equality Business Alliance Mixer at Lefty's on Greenwood Lefty's on Greenwood "A decidedly different downtown restaurant and bar. Located in the historic Greenwood District at the corner of Archer and Greenwood-across from Oneok Field--in the dramatic ground floor of the GreenArch building. Tulsa's only spot where food, drink, sports and lively music mix on a daily basis. Our offerings are proudly curated by Tiffany and staff." http:// www.leftysongreenwood.com The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.html 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Black Queer Tulsa is excited to present its inaugural Diamond Ball! Please join BQT on December 3rd for our annual fundraiser. Tickets are $75 for a fun-filled night of Black excellence. Come prepared to be dazzled with Tulsa’s premiere fashion designers and sparkle with Tulsa’s finest from the ballroom scene! There will be opportunities to support BQT programming all night, including a silent auction and raffle. Shine bright like a Diamond and support Black Queer Tulsa! Light appetizers will be served with an open bar. 21+ to attend. RSVP ON FACEBOOK TICKETS Grow With Us featuring Luke Scuitto This episode of Grow With Us features Luke Scuitto, the Membership Coordinator at the Dennis R. Neill Oklahoma Equality Center. Luke is Tulsa-transplant who found a meaningful community at the Equality Center, and he was able to create an opportunity to serve the LGBTQIA+ community of the Tulsa Metropolitan and beyond. In this episode, we discuss Luke’s involvement in programming events for the Equality Business Alliance, different programs available to folks in the LGBTQIA+ community, and the ways to serve locally in LBGTQIA+ spaces. Luke Scuitto OKEQ Membership Coordinator Read More The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. Read More IT'S OPEN ENROLLMENT SEASON! Don't miss this opportunity -• . ~ WWW.HEALTHCARE.GOV f) The open enrollment period for the ACA marketplace has begun! And 4 of 5 customers can find a plan option for $10 or less per month. Visit healthcare.gov to enroll, compare options, or switch plans. More LGBTQ+ people qualify this year for affordable health insurance options! Open enrollment for 2023 health insurance has started and runs through Jan 15, 2023. Go to healthcare.gov to get started. 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R. eill EqualittJ Center. 621 li 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 EMAIL KAO.MORRISOOKE0.ORG DEADLINE IS DECEMBER 9TH PROPOSALS: BIO AND 3 PIECES ALL MEDIUMS ARE WELCOME. SUBMISSIONS OKEQ Programming Bro1111,gl11t T 0 You. Bi 1 l,;111e Letter Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0[)::!] @0@l0@[b!J[§[§~g 'u'(b!)lb§ £ 'u'W@-§ [;e)O~O'u' IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. ~~l/Wffi~H'fi'W ;i1t @@liw@ ~H@llil'fi' Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... It's Complicated Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT -!i - - --•-... FILM IT Flm a ehort -perfonnance crclocumentaru Create digital art, color penc,l, or drawing PICTURE IT ~ ~ Take a phot o- a collage or self - portrait 0 , - - - - ~ ToluaontDdlu, Clckon~v:"",..::t,~'-- YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: .t CMEQ Mwuorary © ~ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE Belongs Your VOICE IS Yehd The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES C,mpeigo 10 raise funds and suppo(t lof M litlra,y seeks 10 l'ICrMSe ec::cess 10 and scope of LBGTOIA• mMet19t5 Donal& 10d8yl Searchtor Q,, .. Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library Donate & Support OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-f- OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ• Communn Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. In Memoriam Il111 MlemoniWTI 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21,2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23,2022 Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett 1947 - 2022 In Memoriam Submissions OKE , okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 25 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES KAO MORRIS HE/ HIM/ HIS DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR ANDI GUNTER SHE I HER I HERS CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER SHAY BREWER HE I HIM I HIS OPERATIONS MANGER DONNA MATTHEWS I II V PINA SHE/ HER/ HERS n.DAMT rnnDnlM.4.Tf'\D LUKE SCUITTO 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 26 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SHE/ HER/ HERS HE I HIM I HIS NURSE PRACTITIONER MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S9 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/28/26, 4:56 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3a6f3493d27f17233ec8c8b176e3c9e0.pdf ff6b8d7e2a356b7971b4b45a6ed799bd PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! OKEQ Health Clinic 9a-5p OKEQ Seniors IOa-lp FREE HIV Testing 4p-6p lndigiQueer: Tulsa Two Spirit 7p Interim Executive Director Message 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dear Friends, I hope this message finds you safe, happy and warm! As Bob shared earlier this week, I recently joined OkEq as the new Interim Executive Director. As a queer woman of color who had lived much of their life below the poverty line, I often found myself on the margins of systems and opportunities. Stepping in to serve as OkEq’s new leader is a significant personal and professional milestone, and I am honored and humbled to have the opportunity to serve you. I moved to Tulsa in October of 2001 and in the years since have been supported in cultivating a thriving career and family life here in the Midwest. This is true in no small part due to this organization and its resources. Because of OkEq and its network, I was able to expand my education, gain access to health services, and move myself out of both domestic violence and poverty as a single parent. Being in the position to help steer this organization into its next chapters is for me one of the most potent examples of how we have and must continue to meet our mission in service to the LGBTQ+ community and our families and allies. In the coming weeks, we will be sharing the details of our strategic plan in stabilizing and restructuring OkEq to sustain us in the years to come. We will, of course, continue to provide the programs our community counts on and create opportunities for our community to come together. I invite you to support us in our work and to meet with me at one of several upcoming events: December: World AIDS Day Art Exhibit — Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Bruce Goff Event Center 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Opening on December 1 is in partnership with the Grateful Day Foundation which will exhibit through the month of December featuring artworks from and in support of World AIDS Day. All proceeds benefit Grateful Day and its mission to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/AIDS wellness community. December 8: Holiday Open House & Rainbow Room — Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join us Thursday, December 8 at 5 pm for a free Holiday Open House at OkEq featuring light drinks and Hors D'oeuvres to meet our team and learn more about our programs and services. Following the Open House, we hope you stay to enjoy the December Rainbow Room event in the Lynn Riggs Theater “A Quirky Queen’s Queer Christmas Cabaret” featuring Travis Guillory at 7:30 pm, $10 dollar general admission. But hurry! Tickets are sold out! December 15: Equality Business Alliance Holiday Mixer — Lefty's on Greenwood A large part of OkEq’s support in meeting our mission is through the membership body of our Equality Business Alliance. The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by providing a directory of LGBTQ+ friendly local businesses; creating regular networking opportunities for members; and fostering professional environments where members can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. This will be the last mixer of the year and we are encouraging those who have an interest in learning more and joining (or rejoining) the EBA to come out for networking and drinks at Lefty’s on Greenwood from 6 -7:30 pm. As you can see, we have a lot going on! It is my sincere hope you will be able to join us and share these events with your networks. Most importantly, that I have the opportunity sooner rather than later to meet with you face-to-face to share my vision and passion for OkEq. Change is underway, but not without deep consideration of the legacy of OkEq and its founding leadership team, and toward better and broader services designed to meet the needs of our diverse community. We are incredibly grateful for your continued trust and support. Dorothy Ballard OkEq Interim Executive Director Dorothy.Ballard@okeq.org Board President Updates MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT HI , OKEQ MEMBERS . I WANTED TO TAKE A MOMENT TO INTRODUCE MYSELF. I AM BOB HANSON AND HAVE STEPPED INTO THE ROLE OF BOARD PRESIDENT FOR OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY. AFTER SERVI NC THE MEMBERS AND CENTER FOR THE LAST YEAR , STACY TURNER HAS TAKEN SOME VERY WELL EARNED TIME OFF TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY IN DIFFERENT WAYS. I CANNOT EXPRESS ENOUCH HOW CRATEFUL WE AS THE BOARD ARE FOR HER CUIDANCE AND LEADERSHIP OVER THE LAST YEAR ; SHE HAS CUIDED US THROUCH SOME OF THE TOUCH EST TIMES OKEQ HAS EVER SEEN . THIS YEAR HAS BEEN A YEAR OF MANY CHANCES FOR THE CENTER - SOME COOD AND SOME BAD. THE STAFF AT THE CENTER HAS BEEN THROUCH SO MUCH , AND WE ARE SO CRATEFUL FOR THEIR DEDICATION TO THE CENTER AND THE COMMUNITY THEY SERVE . OUR STAFF IS AMAZINC AND HAS BEEN WORKINC SO HARD TO HELP KEEP THE IMPORTANT SERVICES THE CENTER PROVIDES AVAILABLE . AS WE TAKE THE NEXT STEPS , THERE ARE A LOT OF EXCITINC NEW THINCS OKEQ WILL BE FOCUSINC ON . BUT UNFORTUNATELY, EVENTS OVER THE LAST SEVERAL WEEKS HAVE REMINDED ALL OF US WHY THE WORK OF THE CENTER IS SO IMPORTANT. THE VIOLENT ATTACKS AT THE DONUT HOLE (PLEASE SHOW YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE TO THEM) ARE A SOBERINC REMINDER THAT WE STILL HAVE WORK TO DO. WE ARE ALSO FOCUSED ON FICHTINC THE ATTACK ON CENDER · AFFIRMINC CARE. THE RECENT PASSACE AND SICNINC OF SENATE BILL 3XX PROHIBITS OU HEALTH FROM PROVIDINC CENDER · AFFIRMINC CARE AS A CONDITION OF RECEIVINC FEDERAL AMERICAN RESCUE PLAN DOLLARS FOR THE EXPANSION OF CHILDREN ' S BEHAVIORAL HEALTH FACILITIES. LECISLATORS HAVE ALREADY EXPRESSED A DESIRE TO BAN CENDER · AFFIRMINC CARE TO MINORS STATEWIDE IN THE 2023 LECISLATIVE SESSION . WHEN SENATE BILL 3XX WAS SICNED , OUR BOARD SECRETARY , ERIC WILSON , SENT A SIMPLE BUT 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... POWERFUL EMAIL THAT SAID , " THIS MAKES ME SO MAD . ALL THIS WILL DO IS HURT KIDS . " I HAVEN ' T STOPPED THINKINC ABOUT THAT EMAIL , AND IT HAS BECOME A BATTLE CRY FOR ME. OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO FICHT ACAINST THE HATE AND VIOLENCE THAT TARCETS OUR COMMUNITY. OKEQ WILL BE A SAFE PLACE FOR ALL WITHIN THE LCBTQIAA • COMMUNITY ACAINST WHATEVER IS THROWN AT US , NOT OUT OF HATE FOR OTHERS, BUT FOR THE LOVE OF OUR COMMUNITY. THIS IS WHY WE FICHT - SO ALL MAY KNOW LOVE WINS AND WILL PREVAIL. HUMBLED AND HONORED , BOB HANSON q l l .0 7 .22 11.07.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT AS I WRITE THIS ON THE EVEN INC OF THE MIDTERM ELECTIONS , I AM FILLED WITH EMOTION AND REMINDED THAT TRANSFORMATIONAL CHANCE TAKES TIME . PATIENCE AND AN UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO PUSH TH ROUCH CHALLENCES . THERE HAVE BEEN MANY CHANCES AT OKEQ RECENTLY . THOSE CHANCES MAY BE HARD TO ACCEPT FOR SOME IN OUR COMMUNITY BUT ARE DUE IN PART TO THE CROWTH OF OUR ORCANIZATION . IT IS MY HOPE THAT THIS MESSACE WILL HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHERE WE ARE TODAY AND WHY YOUR SUPPORT IS ESSENTIAL TO OUR FUTURE . OKEQ BECAN AS A SMALL ORCANIZATION RUN BY VOLUNTEERS . OVER THE YEARS , DRIVEN BY THE NEEDS OF OUR COMMUNITY , OKEQ CREW TO A LARCE CENTER REQUIRINC BOTH A FULL STAFF AND VOLUNTEERS . THIS CROWTH HAPPENED QUICKLY , AND THE STAFF , VOLUNTEERS , AND BOARD OF DIRECTORS WORKED TO SUSTAIN US THROUCH THIS EVOLUTION . THEIR PASSION FOR OKEQ IS WHAT LED TO AMAZINC ACCOMPLISHMENTS . EVEN IN THE FACE OF AN ADVERSE AND EVEN HOSTILE POLITICAL CLIMATE . AS WE SOUCHT TO RESPOND TO OVERWHELMINC DEMAND FOR THE SERVICES OKEQ PROVIDES , WE DID NOT ESTABLISH THE ADEQUATE ACCOUNTABILITY MEASURES A HEALTHY AND CROWINC ORCANIZATION NEEDS , PARTICULARLY IN TERMS OF FISCAL OVERSICHT. WE BELIEVE IN TRANSPARENCY AND ACCOUNTABILITY AND WANT OUR COMMUNITY TO KNOW : • IN OUR WORK TO ASSESS THE ORCANIZATION ' S CURRENT FINANCIAL STATE , THE BOARD IDENTIFIED IRRECULARITIES IN THE FINANCES OVERSEEN BY OKEQ ' S VOLUNTEER TREASURER ; • WE TOOK IMMEDIATE ACTION IN RESPONSE TO THIS FINDINC , AND THE TREASURER IS NO LONCER INVOLVED WITH OKEQ; • WE MET WITH OUR FUNDERS AND PHILANTHROPIC PARTNERS TO MAKE THEM AWARE OF THE SITUATION : • WITH THE CONTINUED SUPPORT OF OUR FUNDERS , WE COMPLETED A COMPETITIVE REQUEST FOR PROPOSALS PROCESS AND ENCACED A NEW ACCOUNTINC FIRM ; •WEARE WORKINC WITH THAT FIRM AND WITH OTHER PARTNERS TO COMPLETE A COMPREHENSIVE FINANCIAL RECONCILIATION PROCESS AND BUILD A NEW INFRASTRUCTURE TO ENSURE THAT EVERY DOLLAR IS ACCOUNTED FOR AND USED FOR ITS INTENDED PURPOSE . IMPORTANTLY , WE ARE SHARI NC THIS UPDATE AND THE INFORMATION WE HAVE AVAILABLE AT THIS TIME WITH THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER MOST - YOU . OKEQ EXISTS TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY AND WE ARE WORKINC URCENTLY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ CAN BE FINANCIALLY VIABLE AND CAN SUSTAIN FOR CENERATIONS TO COME . YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS NOW MORE THAN EVER . MOVINC FORWARD , WE ARE DETERMININC WHAT PROCRAMS AND SERVICES WILL LOOK LIKE FOR THE NEXT FEW MONTHS . I WILL BE SHARINC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT OUR SCHEDULE SOON . IN THE MEANTIME , I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR YOUR STEADFAST COMMITMENT TO OKEQ AND TO SUPPORTINC OUR COMMUNITY TO BE SAFE , HEALTHY AND THRIVINC . SINCERELY BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11. l 4. 2 2 11.14.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT ----DEAR FRIENDS , THE WINTER HOLIDAY SEASON IS A TIME FOR CRATITUDE , AND THIS YEAR I AM PROFOUNDLY CRATEFUL FOR THE OVERWHELMINC SUPPORT WE HAVE SEEN FROM THE OKEQ COMMUNITY DURINC THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSACES OF SUPPORT AND YOUR UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO OUR WORK ON BEHALF OF THE LCBTQ + COMMUNITY . AS YOU MAY KNOW , LAST SPRINC WE CELEBRATED TOBY JENKINS ' 26 YEARS OF LEADERSHIP AS EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF OKEQ AND WISHED HIM THE BEST ON HIS WELL - EARNED RETIREMENT TO SPEND TIME WITH HIS FAMILY , ESPECIALLY HIS CRANDCHILDREN . OVER THE LAST FIVE MONTHS , THE BOARD HAS BEEN WORKINC TO IDENTIFY A NEW LEADER TO HELP STRENCTHEN AND SUSTAIN OUR MISSION AND THE LECACY OF TOBY ' S WORK TH ROUCH THE MANY EVENTS , PROCRAMS , AND RESOURCES THAT OKEQ PROVIDES IN SERVINC YOU , OUR COMMUNITY . ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS , I AM THRILLED TO ANNOUNCE THAT DOROTHY BALLARD HAS JOINED OKEQ AS OUR NEW INTERIM EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR . AFTER A COMPETITIVE INTERVIEW PROCESS , THE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE OF THE BOARD RECOMMENDED DOROTHY BECAUSE OF HER KNOWLEDCE , DEDICATION , AND PASSION FOR THE MISSION OF OKEQ. SHE BRINCS MORE THAN 15 YEARS OF EXPERIENCE IN COMMUNICATIONS , MARKETINC . AND PROJECT DEVELOPMENT AND MANACEMENT . WE ARE CRATEFUL FOR HER WILLINCNESS TO STEP FORWARD AND LEAD OKEQ TH ROUCH THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . DOROTHY HAS HIT THE CROUND RUNNINC AND IS BUILDINC A COMPREHENSIVE PLAN TO STABILIZE AND SUSTAIN OKEQ . WE WILL BE SHARI NC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THOSE PLANS SOON . I HOPE YOU WILL SAVE THE DATE OF THURSDAY , DECEMBER 8 AT 5 PM FOR A HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE AT OKEQ FOR A CHANCE TO MEET DOROTHY AND THE OKEQ TEAM , TOUR THE CENTER , AND LEARN ABOUT OUR PROCRAMS AND SERVICES . WE ALSO HOPE YOU JOIN US AFTERWARDS IN THE LYNN RICCS THEATER TO ENJOY DECEMBER ' S RAINBOW ROOM EVENT " A QUIRKY QUEEN ' S QUEER CHRISTMAS CABARET " FEATURINC TRAVIS CUILLORY AT 7 :30 PM . LOOK FOR AN INVITATION TO THESE LATER THIS WEEK ! NOW THAT WE ACAIN HAVE LEADERSHIP IN PLACE THAT HOLDS THE CONFIDENCE OF THE BOARD AND STAFF , WE CAN CONTINUE TO ADDRESS THE BROADER WORK OF IMPLEMENTINC OUR STRATECY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ IS FINANCIALLY SOUND AND CAN SUSTAIN ITS MISSION FOR CENERATIONS TO COME . ALTHOUCH THESE SHIFTS HOLD THEIR CHALLENCES , WE HAVE AN EXCITINC OPPORTUNITY FOR OKEQ TO MEET THE EX PAN DI NC NEEDS OF THE COMMUNITY . AS WE MOVE FORWARD , WE ARE MINDFUL OF OUR FOUNDINC AND HISTORY AS A CRASSROOTS ORCANIZATION CREATED TO SERVE ALL IN OUR COMMUNITY . AFTER OVER 40 YEARS , THE RICH DIVERSITY OF OUR COMMUNITY HAS CROWN AND OUR NEEDS • YOUR NEEDS · ARE CREATER THAN EVER . THANK YOU FOR CONTINUINC TO STAND WITH US AS WE WORK THROUCH THIS TIME OF CHANCE AS WE TURN THE CORNER TOWARD A BICCER AND BRICHTER FUTURE . SINCERELY . BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11 . 2 l . 2 2 11.21.22 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Giving Tuesday Message from Board Treasurer Dear friends of OkEq, As I took some much-needed time with my family during the Thanksgiving holiday, like many of you, I reflected on the things I am grateful for in my life. Among them is my work with OkEq as Treasurer for the Board of Directors and in service with you — our incredible body of supporters holding the same passion for the mission of this organization. Over the past few weeks, we have shared several updates from our Board President about the work we are undertaking in stabilizing and restructuring OkEq to sustain us into the future. I want to take this moment to share my confidence in our progress in establishing a solid financial, procedural, and management footing. Beyond OkEq's selection of a new Interim Executive Director, we have formed an active Finance Committee that meets monthly, at minimum, and is hands-on in financial decisions for the center, including weekly approval of all disbursements. We 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... have also contracted a new outside accountant who has hit the ground running, holding an extensive background in managing nonprofit finances. With their guidance, the Finance Committee is implementing solid procedures for all financial activities with proper oversight and internal controls. We take our responsibilities very seriously. On this Giving Tuesday, we ask that you show your continued support and confidence in the mission and purpose of Oklahomans for Equality with a donation to help us continue to serve the LGBTQ+ community and sustain it for generations to come. Ours is a necessary work that continues to grow. Together we can see that work continue to come to fruition. To donate, please visit https://www.okeq.org/ and click the big orange button on the bottom right corner of the page. Don't forget to share this opportunity with your networks! Thank you for your generosity. Julie H. Chase Board Treasure Give Today OkEq Colorado Shooting Statement ERS AND SISTERS IN COLORADO SPRINGS. E , AFFIRMING, AND WELCOMING PLACES WHERE TH EY CAN BE WHO V :A. RE WITHOUT FEAR . WHILE THE MOTIVE OF THE SHOOTING IS STILL UNCLEAR AT THIS TIME , ANY ATTACK ON A SAFE SPACE DESIGNATED FOR LGBTQ+ PEOPLE FEELS LIKE A PROFOUND VIOLATION OF OUR SAFETY AND OUR RIGHT TO COME TOGETHER AS A COMMUNITY . WE MOURN THE LIVES LOST AND THE LIVES CHANGED FOREVER . INCLUDING AMONG THEM DANIEL DAVIS ASTON OF BROKEN ARROW, A TRANS MAN WHO RELOCATED TO COLORADO SPRINGS AND WAS BARTENDING ON THE NIGHT OF THIS HORRIBLE ATTACK . HAVING BEEN PART OF THE LOCAL ELOTE WORK FAMILY, THE IMPACT OF HIS LOSS HITS RIGHT IN THE CENTER OF HOME . WE ARE WORKING TO DETERMINE WHAT SUPPORTS THE COLORADO SPRINGS LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY NEEDS AT THIS TIME AND WILL SHARE MORE INFORMATION AS IT BECOMES AVAILABLE . 11 21 2 2 Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree • • • • , • • 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... GIFTS LIST ARE READY FOR PICK UP AT THE DENNI THROUGH FRIDAY GIFTSTOBE RETURNED IS Tulsa Cares Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and adopt a fairy from the fairy tree this holiday season! Join us in helping some faires enjoy the magic of the holiday season. ??❄ ?Gifts list are ready for pick up Monday - Friday 9am-9pm! ?Dealine to return gifts is December 12th Tulsa CARES was founded in 1991 as a community response to the growing need for coordinated HIV/AIDS care during some of the darkest days of the epidemic. For more than three decades, Tulsa CARES has provided a compassionate response as HIV/AIDS has evolved from a fatal illness to a chronically-managed disease. Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs serving low-income individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs. We specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, self-worth, inclusion, and hope."Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs serving lowincome individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs. We specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, self-worth, inclusion, and hope. 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Upcoming Special Events Worlds AIDS Day Art Exhibit Month of December Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Opening on December 1 is in partnership with the Grateful Day Foundation who will hold the space through the month of December featuring artworks from and in support of World AIDS Day. All proceeds benefit Grateful Day and its mission to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/AIDS wellness community. The exhibit is located in the Bruce Goff Event Center. The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with David Martfeld Month of December Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 David Martfeld is this month's artist in The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, December 1st at 7pm. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 7:00pm – 9:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. 0 Free HIV Testing Tuesday, Dec 6th | 4:00pm 6:00pm Dennis E. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, Facebook Event 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. 0 IndigiQueer: Tulsa Two Spirit OG:!J@IJ@!IXR)(!d)@!@!Cslg Tuesday, Dec 6th | 7:00pm Dennis E. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Facebook Event 'jj'(!d)[b§ £ 'u'W @-§l;'l □Csl □'u' IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris 0 Queer Women's Collective Tulsa Wednesday, Dec 7th | 5:30pm 7:30pm Lefty's on Greenwood 10 N Greenwood Ave Suite A, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included) and we hope some of you will join us! Potentially a photographer from Tulsa People will be joining us for a few photo. 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 08 Thursdays in the Rainbow Room - SOLD OUT Thursday, Dec 8th | 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Travis Guillory stars as Tracy La Louisianne in A Quirky Queen's Queer Christmas Cabaret! Get in the Christmas spirit with not-soclassic holiday songs, such as Christmas Card from a Hooker in Minneapolis, All I Want for Christmas is Nudes, and a Mad Libs version of The 12 Days of Christmas. Featuring Powell Barca, Nick Cains, Claire Sbanotto, Kara Staiger, and Jeremy Stevens, A Quirky Queen's Queer Christmas Cabaret is sure to deck your halls and jingle your bells with a fa-la-la-la-fun evening of campy Christmas chaos! Doors open at 7:00 p.m. and the show starts at 7:30 p.m. Table seats are $15 and general admission seating is $10. Tickets are sold out. 0 . /\ I I\ Payton La eyton Law Firm Spon Change and Gender llnic 2nd Wednesda Name & Gender Maker Change Clinic Wednesday, Dec 14th | 5:30pm 7:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Contact Josh Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. EQ.~~~!I! -H~~=·· . Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday, Dec 15th | 6:00pm 7:30pm Lefty's on Greenwood 10 North Greenwood Ave, Suite A, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Join us for our December Equality Business Alliance Mixer at Lefty's on Greenwood Lefty's on Greenwood "A decidedly different downtown restaurant and bar. Located in the historic Greenwood District at the corner of Archer and Greenwood-across from Oneok Field--in the dramatic ground floor of the GreenArch building. Tulsa's only spot where food, drink, sports and lively music mix on a daily basis. Our offerings are proudly curated by Tiffany and staff." http:// www.leftysongreenwood.com The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.html The Really, Really Free Market Saturday, Dec 17th | 12:00pm 4:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 East 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community sharing event. Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades. Share your unwanted goods, and/or shop other people's treasures. Grow With Us featuring Luke Scuitto This episode of Grow With Us features Luke Scuitto, the Membership Coordinator at the Dennis R. Neill Oklahoma Equality Center. Luke is Tulsa-transplant who found a meaningful community at the Equality Center, and he was able to create an opportunity to serve the LGBTQIA+ community of the Tulsa Metropolitan and beyond. In this episode, we discuss Luke’s involvement in programming events for the Equality Business Alliance, different programs available to folks in the LGBTQIA+ community, and the ways to serve locally in LBGTQIA+ spaces. Luke Scuitto OKEQ Membership Coordinator Read More Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More The open enrollment period for the ACA marketplace has begun! And 4 of 5 customers can find a plan option for $10 or less per month. Visit healthcare.gov to enroll, compare options, or switch plans. More LGBTQ+ people qualify this year for affordable health insurance options! Open enrollment for 2023 health insurance has started and runs through Jan 15, 2023. Go to healthcare.gov to get started. 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R. eill Equa./ity Cente r. 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74 120 DEADLINE IS DECEMBER 9TH EMAIL KAO.MORRISOOKE0.ORG PROPOSALS: BIO AND 3 PIECES ALL MEDIUMS ARE WELCOME. SUBMISSIONS OKEQ Programming Brou1gl11t "1'10 You,, Bi "I1lte Letter Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 ®@mcll@IT O ~@O@l □@ M§§~g 'IT'M11,§£ 'IT'W@=§~O~O'IT' 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 25 IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. ~~w@~H'll-00 ;-. ~@wu@ ~H@lhl'll' Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 25 + + https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Happy December! What better way to ride out these fluctuating temperatures than a good book, a cup of coffee/tea/wine, and a blanket? Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. ,,!, SCREAM _ _ __ __ .,,_ IT FILM IT Flm a llhart - ~. , , ~ FINCER PAINT IT Create digital art, color penc,1, or drawing PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait _ _ _ _ _ __.._ .,.,,_ _- ~ . . .......a:,................~~,- - - - - - . 1 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: l. OKIEOl\lll.llUtlfary© Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library YOUI VOICE Belongs VOLi' VOICE IS VIII(! The 2022 .2023 OUR VOtC£S t,,npeign 10 raise funds and support lof OLI' library seeks 10 ncreese eccess 10 and scope of LBGTOIA• ITl8leoels Donele lOdeyl Sean::htor Q. CClngrlQAIIClftlOUa,11 rrosi..,TWI etoM'lon I I S ~ ~~IISl)OMOred l ' t ~ ~ l o r . . . . . - ~ • Altql,INtl ux.yca,o Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library -~-f- OKEO HEALTH Donate & Support -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Commumty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. = = 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 25 Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is A P ROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. In Memoriam Illl1 MemoniWTI Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21,2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23,2022 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Jan 27, 1957 - 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKE 1 okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES 4/28/26, 4:56 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 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Dear Friends, I hope this message finds you safe, happy and warm! As Bob shared earlier this week, I recently joined OkEq as the new Interim Executive Director. As a queer woman of color who had lived much of their life below the poverty line, I often found myself on the margins of systems and opportunities. Stepping in to serve as OkEq’s new leader is a significant personal and professional milestone, and I am honored and humbled to have the opportunity to serve you. I moved to Tulsa in October of 2001 and in the years since have been supported in cultivating a thriving career and family life here in the Midwest. This is true in no small part due to this organization and its resources. Because of OkEq and its network, I was able to expand my education, gain access to health services, and move myself out of both domestic violence and poverty as a single parent. Being in the position to help steer this organization into its next chapters is for me one of the most potent examples of how we have and must continue to meet our mission in service to the LGBTQ+ community and our families and allies. In the coming weeks, we will be sharing the details of our strategic plan in stabilizing and restructuring OkEq to sustain us in the years to come. We will, of course, continue to provide the programs our community counts on and create opportunities for our community to come together. I invite you to support us in our work and to meet with me at one of several upcoming events: December: World AIDS Day Art Exhibit — Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Bruce Goff Event Center 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Opening on December 1 is in partnership with the Grateful Day Foundation which will exhibit through the month of December featuring artworks from and in support of World AIDS Day. All proceeds benefit Grateful Day and its mission to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/AIDS wellness community. December 15: Equality Business Alliance Holiday Mixer — Lefty's on Greenwood A large part of OkEq’s support in meeting our mission is through the membership body of our Equality Business Alliance. The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by providing a directory of LGBTQ+ friendly local businesses; creating regular networking opportunities for members; and fostering professional environments where members can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. This will be the last mixer of the year and we are encouraging those who have an interest in learning more and joining (or rejoining) the EBA to come out for networking and drinks at Lefty’s on Greenwood from 6 -7:30 pm. As you can see, we have a lot going on! It is my sincere hope you will be able to join us and share these events with your networks. Most importantly, that I have the opportunity sooner rather than later to meet with you face-to-face to share my vision and passion for OkEq. Change is underway, but not without deep consideration of the legacy of OkEq and its founding leadership team, and toward better and broader services designed to meet the needs of our diverse community. We are incredibly grateful for your continued trust and support. Dorothy Ballard OkEq Interim Executive Director Dorothy.Ballard@okeq.org Board President Updates MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT HI , OKEQ MEMBERS. I WANTED TO TAKE A MOMENT TO INTRODUCE MYSELF. I AM BOB HANSON AND HAVE STEPPED INTO THE ROLE OF BOARD PRESIDENT FOR OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY. AFTER SERVI NC THE MEMBERS AND CENTER FOR THE LAST YEAR , STACY TURNER HAS TAKEN SOME VERY WELL EARNED TIME OFF TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY IN DIFFERENT WAYS. I CANNOT EXPRESS ENOUCH HOW CRATEFUL WE AS THE BOARD ARE FOR HER CUIDANCE AND LEADERSHIP OVER THE LAST YEAR : SHE HAS CUIDED US THROUCH SOME OF THE TOUCH EST TIMES OKEQ HAS EVER SEEN . THIS YEAR HAS BEEN A YEAR OF MANY CHANCES FOR THE CENTER - SOME COOD AND SOME BAD. THE STAFF AT THE CENTER HAS BEEN THROUCH SO MUCH , AND WE ARE SO CRATEFUL FOR THEIR DEDICATION TO THE CENTER AND THE COMMUNITY THEY SERVE . OUR STAFF IS AMAZINC AND HAS BEEN WORKINC SO HARD TO HELP KEEP THE IMPORTANT SERVICES THE CENTER PROVIDES AVAILABLE . AS WE TAKE THE NEXT STEPS , THERE ARE A LOT OF EXCITINC NEW THINCS OKEQ WILL BE FOCUSINC ON . BUT UNFORTUNATELY, EVENTS OVER THE LAST SEVERAL WEEKS HAVE REMINDED ALL OF US WHY THE WORK OF THE CENTER IS SO IMPORTANT. THE VIOLENT ATTACKS AT THE DONUT HOLE (PLEASE SHOW YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE TO THEM) ARE A SOBERINC REMINDER THAT WE STILL HAVE WORK TO DO. WE ARE ALSO FOCUSED ON FICHTINC THE ATTACK ON CENDER AFFIRMINC CARE. THE RECENT PASSACE AND SICNINC OF SENATE BILL 3XX PROHIBITS OU HEALTH FROM PROVIDINC CENDER · AFFIRMINC CARE AS A CONDITION OF RECEIVINC FEDERAL AMERICAN RESCUE PLAN DOLLARS FOR THE EXPANSION OF CHILDREN ' S BEHAVIORAL HEALTH FACILITIES. LECISLATORS HAVE ALREADY EXPRESSED A DESIRE TO BAN CENDER -AFFIRMINC CARE TO MINORS STATEWIDE IN THE 2023 LECISLATIVE SESSION . WHEN SENATE BILL 3 XX WAS SICNED, OUR BOARD SECRETARY, ERIC WILSON , SENT A SIMPLE BUT POWERFUL EMAIL THAT SAID , " THIS MAKES ME SO MAD . ALL THIS WILL DO IS HURT KIDS." I HAVEN ' T STOPPED THINKINC ABOUT THAT EMAIL , AND IT HAS BECOME A BATTLE CRY FOR ME . OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO FICHT ACAINST THE HATE AND VIOLENCE THAT TARCETS OUR COMMUNITY. OKEQ WILL BE A SAFE PLACE FOR ALL WITHIN THE LCBTQIAA• COMMUNITY ACAINST WHATEVER IS THROWN AT US , NOT OUT OF HATE FOR OTHERS, BUT FOR THE LOVE OF OUR COMMUNITY. THIS IS WHY WE FICHT - SO ALL MAY KNOW LOVE WINS AND WILL PREVAIL. HUMBLED AND HONORED , BOB HANSON ~ l l . 0 7 . 2 2 11.07.22 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT AS I WRITE THIS ON THE EVEN INC OF THE MIDTERM ELECTIONS , I AM FILLED WITH EMOTION AND REMINDED THAT TRANSFORMATIONAL CHANCE TAKES TIME , PATIENCE AND AN UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO PUSH TH ROUCH CHALLENCES . THERE HAVE BEEN MANY CHANCES AT OKEQ RECENTLY . THOSE CHANCES MAY BE HARD TO ACCEPT FOR SOME IN OUR COMMUNITY BUT ARE DUE IN PART TO THE CROWTH OF OUR ORCANIZATION . IT IS MY HOPE THAT THIS MESSACE WILL HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHERE WE ARE TODAY AND WHY YOUR SUPPORT IS ESSENTIAL TO OUR FUTURE . OKEQ BECAN AS A SMALL ORCANIZATION RUN BY VOLUNTEERS . OVER THE YEARS , DRIVEN BY THE NEEDS OF OUR COMMUNITY , OKEQ CREW TO A LARCE CENTER REQUIRINC BOTH A FULL STAFF AND VOLUNTEERS . THIS CROWTH HAPPENED QUICKLY , AND THE STAFF , VOLUNTEERS , AND BOARD OF DIRECTORS WORKED TO SUSTAIN US THROUCH THIS EVOLUTION . THEIR PASSION FOR OKEQ IS WHAT LED TO AMAZINC ACCOMPLISHMENTS , EVEN IN THE FACE OF AN ADVERSE AND EVEN HOSTILE POLITICAL CLIMATE . AS WE SOUCHT TO RESPOND TO OVERWHELMINC DEMAND FOR THE SERVICES OKEQ PROVIDES , WE DID NOT ESTABLISH THE ADEQUATE ACCOUNTABILITY MEASURES A HEALTHY AND CROWINC ORCANIZATION NEEDS , PARTICULARLY IN TERMS OF FISCAL OVERSICHT. WE BELIEVE IN TRANSPARENCY AND ACCOUNTABILITY AND WANT OUR COMMUNITY TO KNOW : • IN OUR WORK TD ASSESS THE ORCANIZATION ' S CURRENT FINANCIAL STATE , THE BOARD IDENTIFIED IRRECULARITIES IN THE FINANCES OVERSEEN BY OKEQ ' S VOLUNTEER TREASURER ; • WE TOOK IMMEDIATE ACTION IN RESPONSE TO THIS FINDINC , AND THE TREASURER IS NO LONCER INVOLVED WITH OKEQ; • WE MET WITH OUR FUNDERS AND PHILANTHROPIC PARTNERS TO MAKE THEM AWARE OF THE SITUATION : • WITH THE CONTINUED SUPPORT OF OUR FUNDERS , WE COMPLETED A COMPETITIVE REQUEST FOR PROPOSALS PROCESS AND ENCACED A NEW ACCOUNTINC FIRM ; •WEARE WORKINC WITH THAT FIRM AND WITH OTHER PARTNERS TO COMPLETE A COMPREHENSIVE FINANCIAL RECONCILIATION PROCESS AND BUILD A NEW INFRASTRUCTURE TO ENSURE THAT EVERY DOLLAR IS ACCOUNTED FOR AND USED FOR ITS INTENDED PURPOSE . IMPORTANTLY , WE ARE SHARI NC THIS UPDATE AND THE INFORMATION WE HAVE AVAILABLE AT THIS TIME WITH THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER MOST - YOU . OKEQ EXISTS TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY AND WE ARE WORKINC URCENTLY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ CAN BE FINANCIALLY VIABLE AND CAN SUSTAIN FOR CENERATIONS TD COME . YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS NOW MORE THAN EVER . MOVINC FORWARD , WE ARE DETERMININC WHAT PROCRAMS AND SERVICES WILL LOOK LIKE FOR THE NEXT FEW MONTHS . I WILL BE SHARINC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT OUR SCHEDULE SOON . IN THE MEANTIME , I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR YOUR STEADFAST COMMITMENT TO OKEQ AND TO SUPPORTINC OUR COMMUNITY TO BE SAFE , HEALTHY AND THRIVINC. SINCERELY BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11 . l 4 , 2 2 11.14.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT ----- DEAR FRIENDS , THE WINTER HOLIDAY SEASON IS A TIME FOR CRATITUDE , AND THIS YEAR I AM PROFOUNDLY CRATEFUL FOR THE OVERWHELMINC SUPPORT WE HAVE SEEN FROM THE OKEQ COMMUNITY DURINC THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSACES OF SUPPORT AND YOUR UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO OUR WORK ON BEHALF OF THE LCBTQ + COMMUNITY . AS YOU MAY KNOW , LAST SPRINC WE CELEBRATED TOBY JENKINS ' 26 YEARS OF LEADERSHIP AS EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF OKEQ AND WISHED HIM THE BEST ON HIS WELL - EARNED RETIREMENT TO SPEND TIME WITH HIS FAMILY , ESPECIALLY HIS CRANDCHILDREN . OVER THE LAST FIVE MONTHS , THE BOARD HAS BEEN WORKINC TO IDENTIFY A NEW LEADER TO HELP STRENCTHEN AND SUSTAIN OUR MISSION AND THE LECACY OF TOBY ' S WORK TH ROUCH THE MANY EVENTS , PROCRAMS , AND RESOURCES THAT OKEQ PROVIDES IN SERVI NC YOU , OUR COMMUNITY . ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS , I AM THRILLED TO ANNOUNCE THAT DOROTHY BALLARD HAS JOINED OKEQ AS OUR NEW INTERIM EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR . AFTER A COMPETITIVE INTERVIEW PROCESS , THE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE OF THE BOARD RECOMMENDED DOROTHY BECAUSE OF HER KNOWLEDCE , DEDICATION , AND PASSION FOR THE MISSION OF OKEQ . SHE BRINCS MORE THAN 15 YEARS OF EXPERIENCE IN COMMUNICATIONS , MARKETINC , AND PROJECT DEVELOPMENT AND MANACEMENT. WE ARE CRATEFUL FOR HER WILLINCNESS TO STEP FORWARD AND LEAD OKEQ TH ROUCH THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . DOROTHY HAS HIT THE CROUND RUNNINC AND IS BUILDINC A COMPREHENSIVE PLAN TO STABILIZE AND SUSTAIN OKEQ . WE WILL BE SHARI NC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THOSE PLANS SOON . I HOPE YOU WILL SAVE THE DATE OF THURSDAY , DECEMBER 8 ATS PM FOR A HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE AT OKEQ FOR A CHANCE TO MEET DOROTHY AND THE OKEQ TEAM , TOUR THE CENTER , AND LEARN ABOUT OUR PROCRAMS AND SERVICES . WE ALSO HOPE YOU JOIN US AFTERWARDS IN THE LYNN RICCS THEATER TO ENJOY DECEMBER ' S RAINBOW ROOM EVENT " A QUIRKY QUEEN ' S QUEER CHRISTMAS CABARET " FEATURINC TRAVIS CUILLORY AT 7 : 30 PM . LOOK FOR AN INVITATION TO THESE LATER THIS WEEK ! NOW THAT WE ACAIN HAVE LEADERSHIP IN PLACE THAT HOLDS THE CONFIDENCE OF THE BOARD AND STAFF , WE CAN CONTINUE TO ADDRESS THE BROADER WORK OF IMPLEMENTINC OUR STRATECY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ IS FINANCIALLY SOUND AND CAN SUSTAIN ITS MISSION FOR CENERATIONS TO COME , ALTHOUCH THESE SHIFTS HOLD THEIR CHALLENCES , WE HAVE AN EXCITINC OPPORTUNITY FOR OKEQ TO MEET THE EX PAN DI NC NEEDS OF THE COMMUNITY . AS WE MOVE FORWARD , WE ARE MINDFUL OF OUR FOUNDINC AND HISTORY AS A CRASSROOTS ORCANIZATION CREATED TO SERVE ALL IN OUR COMMUNITY . AFTER OVER 40 YEARS , THE RICH DIVERSITY OF OUR COMMUNITY HAS CROWN AND OUR NEEDS • YOUR NEEDS · ARE CREATER THAN EVER . THANK YOU FOR CONTINUINC TO STAND WITH US AS WE WORK THROUCH THIS TIME OF CHANCE AS WE TURN THE CORNER TOWARD A BICCER AND BRICHTER FUTURE . SINCERELY , BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11. 2 l . 2 2 11.21.22 Giving Tuesday Message from Board Treasurer 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dear friends of OkEq, As I took some much-needed time with my family during the Thanksgiving holiday, like many of you, I reflected on the things I am grateful for in my life. Among them is my work with OkEq as Treasurer for the Board of Directors and in service with you — our incredible body of supporters holding the same passion for the mission of this organization. Over the past few weeks, we have shared several updates from our Board President about the work we are undertaking in stabilizing and restructuring OkEq to sustain us into the future. I want to take this moment to share my confidence in our progress in establishing a solid financial, procedural, and management footing. Beyond OkEq's selection of a new Interim Executive Director, we have formed an active Finance Committee that meets monthly, at minimum, and is hands-on in financial decisions for the center, including weekly approval of all disbursements. We have also contracted a new outside accountant who has hit the ground running, holding an extensive background in managing nonprofit finances. With their guidance, the Finance Committee is implementing solid procedures for all financial activities with proper oversight and internal controls. We take our responsibilities very seriously. On this Giving Tuesday, we ask that you show your continued support and confidence in the mission and purpose of Oklahomans for Equality with a donation to help us continue to serve the LGBTQ+ community and sustain it for generations to come. 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Ours is a necessary work that continues to grow. Together we can see that work continue to come to fruition. To donate, please visit https://www.okeq.org/ and click the big orange button on the bottom right corner of the page. Don't forget to share this opportunity with your networks! Thank you for your generosity. Julie H. Chase Board Treasure Give Today OkEq Colorado Shooting Statement ERS AND SISTERS IN COLORADO SPRINGS. E , A FFI RM ING , AND WELCOMING PLACES WHERE TH EY CAN BE WHO P..RE WITHOUT FEAR . WHI LE TH E MOTIVE OF THE SHOOTING IS ST I LL UNCLEAR AT THIS TIME , ANY ATTACK ON A SAFE SPACE DESIGNATED FOR LGBTQ+ PEOPLE FEELS LIKE A PROFOUND VIOLATION OF OUR SAFETY AND OUR RIGHT TO COME TOGETHER AS A COMMUNITY . WE MOURN THE LIVES LOST AND THE LIVES CHANGED FOREVER . INCLUDING AMONG THEM DANIEL DAVIS ASTON OF BROKEN ARROW, A TRANS MAN WHO RELOCATED TO COLORADO SPRINGS AND WAS BARTENDING ON THE NIGHT OF THIS HORRIBLE ATTACK . HAVING BEEN PART OF THE LOCAL ELOTE WORK FAMILY, THE IMPACT OF HIS LOSS HITS RIGHT IN THE CENTER OF HOME . WE ARE WORKING TO DETERMINE WHAT SUPPORTS THE COLORADO SPRINGS LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY NEEDS AT THIS TIME AND WILL SHARE MORE INFORMATION AS IT BECOMES AVAILABLE . 11 21 2 2 GIFTSTOBE RETURNED IS 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... DECEMBER 12THI Thank you for another year supporting Tulsa Cares Fairy Tree and helping some folks enjoy the magic of the holiday season. ??❄ ? Deadline to return gifts is TODAY, December 12th. Tulsa CARES was founded in 1991 as a community response to the growing need for coordinated HIV/AIDS care during some of the darkest days of the epidemic. For more than three decades, Tulsa CARES has provided a compassionate response as HIV/AIDS has evolved from a fatal illness to a chronically-managed disease. Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs serving low-income individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs. We specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, self-worth, inclusion, and hope."Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs serving lowincome individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs. We specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, self-worth, inclusion, and hope. Upcoming Special Events Worlds AIDS Day Art Exhibit Month of December Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Opening on December 1 is in partnership with the Grateful Day Foundation who 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... will hold the space through the month of December featuring artworks from and in support of World AIDS Day. All proceeds benefit Grateful Day and its mission to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/AIDS wellness community. The exhibit is located in the Bruce Goff Event Center. - -- - - - - - · - - - - - - · - · - " '' ""' - ~ .oJJJLJr,J,JJ ..- j,- "'1 ":~ ~ The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with David Martfeld Month of December Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 David Martfeld is this month's artist in The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, December 1st at 7pm. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 7:00pm – 9:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. 0 Free HIV Testing Tuesday, Dec 13th | 4:00pm 6:00pm Dennis E. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Facebook Event H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. 0 . /\ I I\ Name & Gender Maker Change Clinic 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 23 . -,·- .. --·· .. eyton Law Firm Sponsors the Change and Gender Marker llnlc 2nd Wednesdays of the To contact Josh or Rebecca email https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Wednesday, Dec 14th | 5:30pm 7:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Contact Josh Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday, Dec 15th | 6:00pm 7:30pm Lefty's on Greenwood 10 North Greenwood Ave, Suite A, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Join us for our December Equality Business Alliance Mixer at Lefty's on Greenwood Lefty's on Greenwood "A decidedly different downtown restaurant and bar. Located in the historic Greenwood District at the corner of Archer and Greenwood-across from Oneok Field--in the dramatic ground floor of the GreenArch building. Tulsa's only spot where food, drink, sports and lively music mix on a daily basis. Our offerings are proudly curated by Tiffany and staff." http:// www.leftysongreenwood.com 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.html The Really, Really Free Market Saturday, Dec 17th | 12:00pm 4:00pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 East 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community sharing event. Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades. Share your unwanted goods, and/or shop other people's treasures. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, Jan 12th | 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Doors open at 7:00 p.m. and the show starts at 7:30 p.m. Table seats are $25 and general admission seating is $10. Tickets go on sale 12/13/22. 0 Grow With Us featuring Luke Scuitto This episode of Grow With Us features Luke Scuitto, the Membership Coordinator at the Dennis R. Neill Oklahoma Equality Center. Luke is Tulsa-transplant who found a meaningful community at the Equality Center, and he was able to create an opportunity to serve the LGBTQIA+ community of the Tulsa Metropolitan and beyond. In this episode, we discuss Luke’s involvement in programming events for the Equality Business Alliance, different programs available to folks in the LGBTQIA+ community, and the ways to serve locally in LBGTQIA+ spaces. Luke Scuitto OKEQ Membership Coordinator Read More Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The open enrollment period for the ACA marketplace has begun! And 4 of 5 customers can find a plan option for $10 or less per month. Visit healthcare.gov to enroll, compare options, or switch plans. More LGBTQ+ people qualify this year for affordable health insurance options! Open enrollment for 2023 health insurance has started and runs through Jan 15, 2023. Go to healthcare.gov to get started. Dennis R. eill Equality Center. 621 f.i 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 DEADLINE IS DECEMBER 9TH EMAIL KAO.MORRISOOKE0.ORG PROPOSALS: BIO AND 3 PIECES ALL MEDIUMS ARE WELCOME. SUBMISSIONS In Memoriam 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln MemoniWTI Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming BltOllllgillt ~110 You, Bi ~r11te Letter Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 23 OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Happy December! What better way to ride out these fluctuating temperatures than a good book, a cup of coffee/tea/wine, and a blanket? Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. ,,!, SCREAM _ _ __ __ .,,_ IT FILM IT Flm a llhart - ~. , , ~ FINCER PAINT IT Create digital art, color penc,1, or drawing PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Here's how you can request a library card: - -,.& _ _ _ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library YOU/ VOICE Belongs VOLi' VOICE IS Valid The 2022-2023 OUR 'v'OfCES ~ IO raise funds and support lo, <NI t.braty seeks 10 ncreese ec:cess 10 and scope of LBGTOIA• mat81'l&IS Donele 10deyl 0. Sean::htor ~IOUllllfl'OSl..,TWIBtOMIOl'IIIS~ ~~llspoMOfedllhel'IKWIOl"b'~~ ... AtQl,INlat.owrcaro Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library -~-f- OKEO HEALTH Donate & Support -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF = 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 23 Hope Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... an appointment. OKE okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES HE/ HIM/ HIS DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR SHAY BREWER HE I HIM I HIS ANDI GUNTER KAO MORRIS SHE / HER / HERS CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER • OPERATIONS MANGER DONNA MATTHEWS LILY PINA SHE / HER / HERS GRANT COORDINATOR LUKE SCUITTO SHE/ HER/ HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS NURSE PRACTITIONER MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice 4/28/26, 4:57 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/28/26, 4:57 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/82e881930463f7164cc6e5a415c0669f.pdf 76aadcd0d0e95f4597f26ecf7e552b99 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! 12/24 Closed 12/25 Closed Interim Executive Director Message 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dear Friends, I hope this message finds you safe, happy and warm! As Bob shared earlier this week, I recently joined OkEq as the new Interim Executive Director. As a queer woman of color who had lived much of their life below the poverty line, I often found myself on the margins of systems and opportunities. Stepping in to serve as OkEq’s new leader is a significant personal and professional milestone, and I am honored and humbled to have the opportunity to serve you. I moved to Tulsa in October of 2001 and in the years since have been supported in cultivating a thriving career and family life here in the Midwest. This is true in no small part due to this organization and its resources. Because of OkEq and its network, I was able to expand my education, gain access to health services, and move myself out of both domestic violence and poverty as a single parent. Being in the position to help steer this organization into its next chapters is for me one of the most potent examples of how we have and must continue to meet our mission in service to the LGBTQ+ community and our families and allies. In the coming weeks, we will be sharing the details of our strategic plan in stabilizing and restructuring OkEq to sustain us in the years to come. We will, of course, continue to provide the programs our community counts on and create opportunities for our community to come together. December: World AIDS Day Art Exhibit — Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Bruce Goff Event Center Opening on December 1 is in partnership with the Grateful Day Foundation which 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... will exhibit through the month of December featuring artworks from and in support of World AIDS Day. All proceeds benefit Grateful Day and its mission to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/AIDS wellness community. It is my sincere hope you will be able to join us and share these events with your networks. Most importantly, that I have the opportunity sooner rather than later to meet with you face-to-face to share my vision and passion for OkEq. Change is underway, but not without deep consideration of the legacy of OkEq and its founding leadership team, and toward better and broader services designed to meet the needs of our diverse community. We are incredibly grateful for your continued trust and support. Dorothy Ballard OkEq Interim Executive Director Dorothy.Ballard@okeq.org Board President Updates MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT HI , OKEQ MEMBERS. I WANTED TO TAKE A MOMENT TO INTRODUCE MYSELF. I AM BOB HANSON AND HAVE STEPPED INTO THE ROLE OF BOARD PRESIDENT FOR OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY. AFTER SERVI NC THE MEMBERS AND CENTER FOR THE LAST YEAR , STACY TURNER HAS TAKEN SOME VERY WELL EARNED TIME OFF TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY IN DIFFERENT WAYS. I CANNOT EXPRESS ENOUCH HOW CRATEFUL WE AS THE BOARD ARE FOR HER CUIDANCE AND LEADERSHIP OVER THE LAST YEAR : SHE HAS CUIDED US THROUCH SOME OF THE TOUCH EST TIMES OKEQ HAS EVER SEEN . THIS YEAR HAS BEEN A YEAR OF MANY CHANCES FOR THE CENTER - SOME COOD AND SOME BAD. THE STAFF AT THE CENTER HAS BEEN THROUCH SO MUCH , AND WE ARE SO CRATEFUL FOR THEIR DEDICATION TO THE CENTER AND THE COMMUNITY THEY SERVE . OUR STAFF IS AMAZINC AND HAS BEEN WORKINC SO HARD TO HELP KEEP THE IMPORTANT SERVICES THE CENTER PROVIDES AVAILABLE . AS WE TAKE THE NEXT STEPS , THERE ARE A LOT OF EXCITINC NEW THINCS OKEQ WILL BE FOCUSINC ON . BUT UNFORTUNATELY, EVENTS OVER THE LAST SEVERAL WEEKS HAVE REMINDED ALL OF US WHY THE WORK OF THE CENTER IS SO IMPORTANT. THE VIOLENT ATTACKS AT THE DONUT HOLE (PLEASE SHOW YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE TO THEM) ARE A SOBERINC REMINDER THAT WE STILL HAVE WORK TO DO. WE ARE ALSO FOCUSED ON FICHTINC THE ATTACK ON CENDER AFFIRMINC CARE. THE RECENT PASSACE AND SICNINC OF SENATE BILL 3XX PROHIBITS OU HEALTH FROM PROVIDINC CENDER · AFFIRMINC CARE AS A CONDITION OF RECEIVINC FEDERAL AMERICAN RESCUE PLAN DOLLARS FOR THE EXPANSION OF CHILDREN ' S BEHAVIORAL HEALTH FACILITIES. LECISLATORS HAVE ALREADY EXPRESSED A DESIRE TO BAN CENDER - AFFIRMINC CARE TO MINORS STATEWIDE IN THE 2023 LECISLATIVE SESSION . WHEN SENATE BILL 3XX WAS SICNED, OUR BOARD SECRETARY , ERIC WILSON , SENT A SIMPLE BUT POWERFUL EMAIL THAT SAID , " THIS MAKES ME SO MAD . ALL THIS WILL DO IS HURT KIDS." I HAVEN ' T STOPPED THINKINC ABOUT THAT EMAIL , AND IT HAS BECOME A BATTLE CRY FOR ME . OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO FICHT ACAINST THE HATE AND VIOLENCE THAT TARCETS OUR COMMUNITY. OKEQ WILL BE A SAFE PLACE FOR ALL WITHIN THE LCBTQIAA• COMMUNITY ACAINST WHATEVER IS THROWN AT US, NOT OUT OF HATE FOR OTHERS, BUT FOR THE LOVE OF OUR COMMUNITY. THIS IS WHY WE FICHT - SO ALL MAY KNOW LOVE WINS AND WILL PREVAIL. HUMBLED AND HONORED , BOB HANSON ~ l l . 0 7 . 2 2 11.07.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT AS I WRITE THIS ON THE EVEN INC OF THE MIDTERM ELECTIONS , I AM FILLED WITH EMOTION AND REMINDED THAT TRANSFORMATIONAL CHANCE TAKES TIME . PATIENCE AND AN UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO PUSH TH ROUCH CHALLENCES . THERE HAVE BEEN MANY CHANCES AT OKEQ RECENTLY . THOSE CHANCES MAY BE HARD TO ACCEPT FOR SOME IN OUR COMMUNITY BUT ARE DUE IN PART TO THE CROWTH OF OUR ORCANIZATION . IT IS MY HOPE THAT THIS MESSACE WILL HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHERE WE ARE TODAY AND WHY YOUR SUPPORT IS ESSENTIAL TO OUR FUTURE . OKEQ BECAN AS A SMALL ORCANIZATION RUN BY VOLUNTEERS . OVER THE YEARS , DRIVEN BY THE NEEDS OF OUR COMMUNITY , OKEQ CREW TO A LARCE CENTER REQUIRINC BOTH A FULL STAFF AND VOLUNTEERS . THIS CROWTH HAPPENED QUICKLY . AND THE STAFF , VOLUNTEERS , AND BOARD OF DIRECTORS WORKED TO SUSTAIN US TH ROUCH THIS EVOLUTION . THEIR PASSION FOR OKEQ IS WHAT LED TO AMAZINC ACCOMPLISHMENTS , EVEN IN THE FACE OF AN ADVERSE AND EVEN HOSTILE POLITICAL CLIMATE . AS WE SOUCHT TO RESPOND TO OVERWHELMINC DEMAND FOR THE SERVICES OKEQ PROVIDES , WE DID NOT ESTABLISH THE ADEQUATE ACCOUNTABILITY MEASURES A HEALTHY AND CROWINC ORCANIZATION NEEDS , PARTICULARLY IN TERMS OF FISCAL OVERSICHT. WE BELIEVE IN TRANSPARENCY AND ACCOUNTABILITY AND WANT OUR COMMUNITY TO KNOW : • IN OUR WORK TO ASSESS THE ORCANIZATION ' S CURRENT FINANCIAL STATE , THE BOARD IDENTIFIED IRRECULARITIES IN THE FINANCES OVERSEEN BY OKEQ ' S VOLUNTEER TREASURER ; • WE TOOK IMMEDIATE ACTION IN RESPONSE TO THIS FINDINC , AND THE TREASURER IS NO LONCER INVOLVED WITH OKEQ: • WE MET WITH OUR FUNDERS AND PHILANTHROPIC PARTNERS TO MAKE THEM AWARE OF THE SITUATION : • WITH THE CONTINUED SUPPORT OF OUR FUNDERS , WE COMPLETED A COMPETITIVE REQUEST FOR PROPOSALS PROCESS AND 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ENCiACiED A NEW ACCOUNTINCi FIRM ; •WEARE WORKING WITH THAT FIRM AND WITH OTHER PARTNERS TO COMPLETE A COMPREHENSIVE FINANCIAL RECONCILIATION PROCESS AND BUILD A NEW INFRASTRUCTURE TO ENSURE THAT EVERY DOLLAR IS ACCOUNTED FOR AND USED FOR ITS INTENDED PURPOSE . IMPORTANTLY . WE ARE SHARI NC THIS UPDATE AND THE INFORMATION WE HAVE AVAILABLE AT THIS TIME WITH THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER MOST - YOU . OKEQ EXISTS TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY AND WE ARE WORKING URGENTLY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ CAN BE FINANCIALLY VIABLE AND CAN SUSTAIN FOR GENERATIONS TO COME . YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS NOW MORE THAN EVER . MOVING FORWARD . WE ARE DETERMINING WHAT PROGRAMS AND SERVICES WILL LOOK LIKE FOR THE NEXT FEW MONTHS . I WILL BE SHARING MORE INFORMATION ABOUT OUR SCHEDULE SOON . IN THE MEANTIME . I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR YOUR STEADFAST COMMITMENT TO OKEQ AND TO SUPPORTING OUR COMMUNITY TO BE SAFE , HEALTHY AND THRIVING . SINCERELY BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11 . 1 4. 2 2 11.14.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT -~~~ DEAR FRIENDS , THE WINTER HOLIDAY SEASON IS A TIME FOR GRATITUDE , AND THIS YEAR I AM PROFOUNDLY GRATEFUL FOR THE OVERWHELMING SUPPORT WE HAVE SEEN FROM THE OKEQ COMMUNITY DURING THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSAGES OF SUPPORT AND YOUR UNWAVERING COMMITMENT TO OUR WORK ON BEHALF OF THE LCBTQ + COMMUNITY . AS YOU MAY KNOW , LAST SPRING WE CELEBRATED TOBY JENKINS ' 26 YEARS OF LEADERSHIP AS EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF OKEQ AND WISHED HIM THE BEST ON HIS WELL - EARNED RETIREMENT TO SPEND TIME WITH HIS FAMILY . ESPECIALLY HIS GRANDCHILDREN . OVER THE LAST FIVE MONTHS , THE BOARD HAS BEEN WORKING TO IDENTIFY A NEW LEADER TO HELP STRENGTHEN AND SUSTAIN OUR MISSION AND THE LEGACY OF TOBY ' S WORK TH ROUCH THE MANY EVENTS , PROGRAMS , AND RESOURCES THAT OKEQ PROVIDES IN SERVING YOU , OUR COMMUNITY . ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS . I AM THRILLED TO ANNOUNCE THAT DOROTHY BALLARD HAS JOINED OKEQ AS OUR NEW INTERIM EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR . AFTER A COMPETITIVE INTERVIEW PROCESS , THE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE OF THE BOARD RECOMMENDED DOROTHY BECAUSE OF HER KNOWLEDGE , DEDICATION , AND PASSION FOR THE MISSION OF OKEQ . SHE BRINGS MORE THAN 15 YEARS OF EXPERIENCE IN COMMUNICATIONS , MARKETING . AND PROJECT DEVELOPMENT AND MANAGEMENT. WE ARE GRATEFUL FOR HER WILLINGNESS TO STEP FORWARD AND LEAD OKEQ TH ROUCH THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . DOROTHY HAS HIT THE GROUND RUNNING AND IS BUILDING A COMPREHENSIVE PLAN TO STABILIZE AND SUSTAIN OKEQ . WE WILL BE SHARI NC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THOSE PLANS SOON . I HOPE YOU WILL SAVE THE DATE OF THURSDAY , DECEMBER 8 ATS PM FOR A HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE AT OKEQ FOR A CHANCE TO MEET DOROTHY AND THE OKEQ TEAM , TOUR THE CENTER , AND LEARN ABOUT OUR PROGRAMS AND SERVICES . WE ALSO HOPE YOU JOIN US AFTERWARDS IN THE LYNN RICCS THEATER TO ENJOY DECEMBER ' S RAINBOW ROOM EVENT " A QUIRKY QUEEN ' S QUEER CHRISTMAS CABARET " FEATURING TRAVIS GUILLORY AT 7,30 PM . LOOK FOR AN INVITATION TO THESE LATER THIS WEEK ! NOW THAT WE AGAIN HAVE LEADERSHIP IN PLACE THAT HOLDS THE CONFIDENCE OF THE BOARD AND STAFF , WE CAN CONTINUE TO ADDRESS THE BROADER WORK OF IMPLEMENTING OUR STRATEGY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ IS FINANCIALLY SOUND AND CAN SUSTAIN ITS MISSION FOR GENERATIONS TO COME . ALTHOUGH THESE SHIFTS HOLD THEIR CHALLENGES , WE HAVE AN EXCITING OPPORTUNITY FOR OKEQ TO MEET THE EX PAN DI NC NEEDS OF THE COMMUNITY . AS WE MOVE FORWARD . WE ARE MINDFUL OF OUR FOUNDING AND HISTORY AS A GRASSROOTS ORGANIZATION CREATED TO SERVE ALL IN OUR COMMUNITY . AFTER OVER 40 YEARS . THE RICH DIVERSITY OF OUR COMMUNITY HAS CROWN AND OUR NEEDS • YOUR NEEDS · ARE GREATER THAN EVER . THANK YOU FOR CONTINUING TO STAND WITH US AS WE WORK THROUGH THIS TIME OF CHANCE AS WE TURN THE CORNER TOWARD A BICCER AND BRIGHTER FUTURE . SINCERELY , BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11 . 2 1 . 2 2 11.21.22 Giving Tuesday Message from Board Treasurer 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0I( LAH OMANS FOR EQ_UALITY OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ri'l (il Serving LGBTQ+ Oklahomans and their allies since 1980. www.okeq.org • • • • • • • • Dear friends of OkEq, As I took some much-needed time with my family during the Thanksgiving holiday, like many of you, I reflected on the things I am grateful for in my life. Among them is my work with OkEq as Treasurer for the Board of Directors and in service with you — our incredible body of supporters holding the same passion for the mission of this organization. Over the past few weeks, we have shared several updates from our Board President about the work we are undertaking in stabilizing and restructuring OkEq to sustain us into the future. I want to take this moment to share my confidence in our progress in establishing a solid financial, procedural, and management footing. Beyond OkEq's selection of a new Interim Executive Director, we have formed an active Finance Committee that meets monthly, at minimum, and is hands-on in financial decisions for the center, including weekly approval of all disbursements. We have also contracted a new outside accountant who has hit the ground running, holding an extensive background in managing nonprofit finances. With their guidance, the Finance Committee is implementing solid procedures for all financial activities with proper oversight and internal controls. We take our responsibilities very seriously. On this Giving Tuesday, we ask that you show your continued support and confidence in the mission and purpose of Oklahomans for Equality with a donation to help us continue to serve the LGBTQ+ community and sustain it for generations to come. Ours is a necessary work that continues to grow. Together we can see that work continue to come to fruition. To donate, please visit https://www.okeq.org/ and click the big orange button on the bottom right corner of the page. Don't forget to share this opportunity with your networks! Thank you for your generosity. Julie H. Chase Board Treasure 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Give Today OkEq Colorado Shooting Statement WEAR O UR -I. SAND SISTERS IN COLORADO SPRING . TO SA , AFFI RM ING , AND WELCOMING PLACES WHER 1i.RE WITHOUT FEAR . WHI LE T HE MOTIVE OF THE SHOOTING IS STILL UNCLEAR AT THIS TIME , ANY ATTACK ON A SAFE SPACE DESIGNATED FOR LGBTQ+ PEOPLE FEELS LIKE A PROFOUND VIOLATION OF OUR SAFETY AND OUR RIGHT TO COME TOGETHER AS A COMMUNITY. WE MOURN THE LIVES LOST AND THE LIVES CHANGED FOREVER . INCLUDING AMONG THEM DANIEL DAVIS ASTON OF BROKEN ARROW, A TRANS MAN WHO RELOCATED TO COLORADO SPRINGS AND WAS BARTENDING ON THE NIGHT OF THIS HORRIBLE ATTACK . HAVING BEEN PART OF THE LOCAL ELOTE WORK FAMILY, THE IMPACT OF HIS LOSS HITS RIGHT IN THE CENTER OF HOME . WE ARE WORKING TO DETERMINE WHAT SUPPORTS THE COLORADO SPRINGS LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY NEEDS AT THIS TIME AND WILL SHARE MORE INFORMATION AS IT BECOMES AVAILABLE . 11 21 22 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Thank you to everyone who participated in this year's Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree! Thank you for helping folks enjoy the holiday season and letting them know the community cares. And Thank you to American Airlines TUL Pride EBRG for all their support and help. Tulsa CARES was founded in 1991 as a community response to the growing need for coordinated HIV/AIDS care during some of the darkest days of the epidemic. For more than three decades, Tulsa CARES has provided a compassionate response as HIV/AIDS has evolved from a fatal illness to a chronically-managed disease. Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs serving low-income individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs. We specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, self-worth, inclusion, and hope."Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs serving lowincome individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs. We specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, self-worth, inclusion, and hope. Upcoming Special Events Worlds AIDS Day Art Exhibit Month of December Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Opening on December 1 is in partnership with the Grateful Day Foundation who will hold the space through the month of December featuring artworks from and in support of World AIDS Day. All proceeds benefit Grateful Day and its mission to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/AIDS wellness community. The exhibit is located in the Bruce Goff Event Center. .. ..... '"'" '" " - ,.. , ~ •.- ... ~rnJ,, J1sJ,JJ :f•1 ":~ - •• a, - o, M - The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with David Martfeld Month of December Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 David Martfeld is this month's artist in The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, December 1st at 7pm. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 7:00pm – 9:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. 0 Free HIV Testing Tuesday, Dec 20th | 4:00pm 6:00pm Dennis E. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Facebook Event H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. 0 Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, Jan 12th | 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Doors open at 7:00 p.m. and the show starts at 7:30 p.m. Table seats are $25 and general admission seating is $10. Tickets on sale now. 0 2023 Tulsa Pride Pageant 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Saturday, Jan 15th | 10:00pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74103 RSVP Calling ALL performers! Compete to be 2023 Tulsa Pride King or Queen! • Open to all with a $50 registration fee • Prize Package $150.00 with sash and crown • Bookings at all Pride Bingos, Tulsa Pride, and Chapter Prides. For more information email Shay Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, Jan 26th | 6:00pm 7:30pm Tulsa Ballet 1212 E 45th Pl S, Tulsa, OK 74105 RSVP Join us for our Equality Business Alliance Mixer at Tulsa Ballet. The international press has described Tulsa Ballet as “one of the best in the world” A professional company of international dancers representing 14 countries performs six times a year. The Tulsa Ballet Center for Dance Education offers classes for ages 3adult at two campuses: in Tulsa on Brookside and in Broken Arrow at the Hardesty Center for Dance Education. The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.html Grow With Us featuring Luke Scuitto This episode of Grow With Us features Luke Scuitto, the Membership Coordinator at the Dennis R. Neill Oklahoma Equality Center. Luke is Tulsa-transplant who found a meaningful community at the Equality Center, and he was able to create an opportunity to serve the LGBTQIA+ community of the Tulsa Metropolitan and beyond. In this episode, we discuss Luke’s involvement in programming events for the Equality Business Alliance, different programs available to folks in the LGBTQIA+ community, and the ways to serve locally in LBGTQIA+ spaces. Luke Scuitto OKEQ Membership Coordinator Read More Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The open enrollment period for the ACA marketplace has begun! And 4 of 5 customers can find a plan option for $10 or less per month. Visit healthcare.gov to enroll, compare options, or switch plans. More LGBTQ+ people qualify this year for affordable health insurance options! Open enrollment for 2023 health insurance has started and runs through Jan 15, 2023. Go to healthcare.gov to get started. E I AIL KAO.MORRIS®OKEQ.O G WITH YOUR BIO AND 3 PIECES FOR CONSI ERATION. ALL MEDIUMS ARE WELCOME. DEADLINE IS DECEMBER 21ST Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... / We have a few spots remaining! Submit your work today! SUBMISSIONS In Memoriam Iln Memolriaurn Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Broi11gl11t T0 Yotll Bi ~riie Letter 1 A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 23 Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel ®@TID.cl1@IT ~ffi]]))]XID~ @IT@ffi]]) IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 23 quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Happy December! What better way to ride out these fluctuating temperatures than a good book, a cup of coffee/tea/wine, and a blanket? Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E - Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT ~ ----•-... FILM IT Flm a ohort - performonce crdocumontaru FINCER PAINT IT Create digital art, color pencil, o, drawing PICTURE IT ~ ~ Take a phot o- a collage or self - portrait ~ - - - - , , . , .. _todluClck on~ v: - - ~ ~ - - YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: J. OKEQ 'NII.IL.aitlly © --.•-.....-Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library YOU' VOICE 8eJongs Ycu VOICE IS Yahd The 2022-2023 OOR VOtCES c.r,pe.gn IO raise funds encl suppol'1 for OU' library seeks to increase ac:cess 10 and so::,pe of LBGTOIA• mateoels Donele 10d8yl ~ 1 0 w . w : rivsiaionm ~ o n IIN'ftOlllllg Olll'aulcVUe•spoMOreCJ 11nKnonor l o t ' ~ ~ • uniycara Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC Donate & Support -~-f- OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ• Commumty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • = Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... an appointment. OKE okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 4:58 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES HE/ HIM/ HIS DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR SHAY BREWER HE I HIM I HIS ANDI GUNTER KAO MORRIS SHE / HER / HERS CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER • OPERATIONS MANGER DONNA MATTHEWS LILY PINA SHE / HER / HERS GRANT COORDINATOR LUKE SCUITTO SHE/ HER/ HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS NURSE PRACTITIONER MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! Letter From the President --- • HAPPY H LIDAYS! --FROM OKLAHAOMANS FOR EQUALITY ** Dear Friends, We hope this letter finds you safe, warm, and in the company of those most important in your life. As temperatures drop and days slow down, I begin again to reflect. To celebrate the successes of the waning year while looking to the incredible opportunities ahead. 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Together, we have moved through significant triumphs and adjustments here at OkEq. There is much to be grateful for as we count our blessings and look ahead. Over the last year, and under the guidance of former President Stacy Turner, we had the most successful Gala and Pride events in the organization's history. Over 700 attendees joined us for our Gala, while Pride welcomed its largest number of vendors and participants since its inception. We also navigated staffing, Board, and program adjustments. Most recently, pausing some events and programs along with slightly reduced center hours (noon to 8 pm weekdays) as we turn inward to focus on the infrastructure needed to keep OkEq thriving well into the future. Moving into 2023, we are building on our successes with committees preparing for the Gala and Pride to be even bigger and concentrate on celebrating every single one of you. Supporting that is the first segment of our interim Executive Directors strategic plan for OkEq, the Three Ps — People, Programs, and Purpose. Here are some of the exciting things you can expect through January: • Defined employee roles and additions to staff and volunteers • New financial protocols for efficiency and accountability • Safety improvements, including a new camera system and intercoms • Expanded support group offerings • The return of youth and young adult programs • New education and outreach training through OkEq and select partners • The first details about our new counseling initiatives • A return to standard operating hours at the Center • Website and social media refreshes As you can see, these are exciting times! We invite you in this season of reflection, generosity, and hope, to share the great work happening at OkEq and encourage your networks to consider giving or matching your support of our growing services. There is no end destination in our work, and we remain ever focused and full of gratitude for your support of OkEq. On behalf of the OkEq Staff, Board, and Trustees, I wish you all a very warm and happy Holiday Season! Sincerely, Bob Hanson Board President Board President Updates MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT HI , OKEQ MEMBERS . I WANTED TO TAKE A MOMENT TO INTRODUCE MYSELF. I AM BOB HANSON AND HAVE STEPPED INTO THE ROLE OF BOARD PRESIDENT FOR OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY. AFTER SERVING THE MEMBERS AND CENTER FOR THE LAST YEAR , STACY TURNER HAS TAKEN SOME VERY WELL EARNED TIME OFF TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY IN DIFFERENT WAYS. I CANNOT EXPRESS ENOUGH HOW GRATEFUL WE AS THE BOARD ARE FOR HER GUIDANCE AND LEADERSHIP OVER THE LAST YEAR ; SHE HAS GUIDED US THROUGH SOME OF THE TOUGHEST TIMES OKEQ HAS EVER SEEN . THIS YEAR HAS BEEN A YEAR OF MANY CHANGES FOR THE CENTER - SOME GOOD AND SOME BAD. THE STAFF AT THE CENTER HAS BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH , AND WE ARE SO GRATEFUL FOR THEIR DEDICATION TO THE CENTER AND THE COMMUNITY THEY SERVE . OUR STAFF IS AMAZING AND HAS BEEN WORKING SO HARD TO HELP KEEP THE IMPORTANT SERVICES THE CENTER PROVIDES AVAILABLE . AS WE TAKE THE NEXT STEPS , THERE ARE A LOT OF EXCITING NEW THINGS OKEQ WILL BE FOCUSING ON . BUT UNFORTUNATELY, EVENTS OVER THE LAST SEVERAL WEEKS HAVE REMINDED ALL OF US WHY THE WORK OF THE CENTER IS SO IMPORTANT. THE VIOLENT ATTACKS AT THE DONUT HOLE (PLEASE SHOW YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE TO THEM) ARE A SOBERING REMINDER THAT WE STILL HAVE WORK TO DO. WE ARE ALSO FOCUSED ON FIGHTING THE ATTACK ON GENDER · AFFIRMING CARE. THE RECENT PASSAGE AND SIGNING OF SENATE BILL 3XX PROHIBITS OU HEALTH FROM PROVIDING GENDER · 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... AFFIRMING CARE AS A CONDITION OF RECEIVING FEDERAL AMERICAN RESCUE PLAN DOLLARS FOR THE EXPANSION OF CHILDREN ' S BEHAVIORAL HEALTH FACILITIES . LEGISLATORS HAVE ALREADY EXPRESSED A DESIRE TO BAN GENDER - AFFIRMING CARE TO MINORS STATEWIDE IN THE 2023 LEGISLATIVE SESSION . WHEN SENATE BILL 3XX WAS SIGNED, OUR BOARD SECRETARY, ERIC WILSON , SENT A SIMPLE BUT POWERFUL EMAIL THAT SAID , " THIS MAKES ME SO MAD . ALL THIS WILL DO IS HURT KIDS ." I HAVEN 'T STOPPED THINKING ABOUT THAT EMAIL , AND IT HAS BECOME A BATTLE CRY FOR ME. OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO FIGHT AGAINST THE HATE AND VIOLENCE THAT TARGETS OUR COMMUNITY. OKEQ WILL BE A SAFE PLACE FOR ALL WITHIN THE LGBTQIAA+ COMMUNITY AGAINST WHATEVER IS THROWN AT US , NOT OUT OF HATE FOR OTHERS, BUT FOR THE LOVE OF OUR COMMUNITY. THIS IS WHY WE FIGHT - SO ALL MAY KNOW LOVE WINS AND WILL PREVAIL. HUMBLED AND HONORED , BOB HANSON q l l .0 7 .22 11.07.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT AS I WRITE THIS ON THE EVEN INC OF THE MIDTERM ELECTIONS , I AM FILLED WITH EMOTION AND REMINDED THAT TRANSFORMATIONAL CHANCE TAKES TIME , PATIENCE AND AN UNWAVERING COMMITMENT TO PUSH TH ROUCH CHALLENGES . THERE HAVE BEEN MANY CHANCES AT OKEQ RECENTLY . THOSE CHANCES MAY BE HARD TO ACCEPT FOR SOME IN OUR COMMUNITY BUT ARE DUE IN PART TO THE CROWTH OF OUR ORGANIZATION . IT IS MY HOPE THAT THIS MESSAGE WILL HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHERE WE ARE TODAY AND WHY YOUR SUPPORT IS ESSENTIAL TO OUR FUTURE . OKEQ BECAN AS A SMALL ORGANIZATION RUN BY VOLUNTEERS . OVER THE YEARS , DRIVEN BY THE NEEDS OF OUR COMMUNITY , OKEQ CREW TO A LARCE CENTER REQUIRING BOTH A FULL STAFF AND VOLUNTEERS . THIS CROWTH HAPPENED QUICKLY , AND THE STAFF , VOLUNTEERS , AND BOARD OF DIRECTORS WORKED TO SUSTAIN US TH ROUCH THIS EVOLUTION . THEIR PASSION FOR OKEQ IS WHAT LED TO AMAZING ACCOMPLISHMENTS, EVEN IN THE FACE OF AN ADVERSE AND EVEN HOSTILE POLITICAL CLIMATE . AS WE SOUCHT TO RESPOND TO OVERWHELMING DEMAND FOR THE SERVICES OKEQ PROVIDES , WE DID NOT ESTABLISH THE ADEQUATE ACCOUNTABILITY MEASURES A HEALTHY AND CROWING ORGANIZATION NEEDS . PARTICULARLY IN TERMS OF FISCAL OVERSIGHT. WE BELIEVE IN TRANSPARENCY AND ACCOUNTABILITY AND WANT OUR COMMUNITY TO KNOW : • IN OUR WORK TO ASSESS THE ORGANIZATION ' S CURRENT FINANCIAL STATE , THE BOARD IDENTIFIED IRREGULARITIES IN THE FINANCES OVERSEEN BY OKEQ ' S VOLUNTEER TREASURER : • WE TOOK IMMEDIATE ACTION IN RESPONSE TO THIS FINDING , AND THE TREASURER IS NO LONCER INVOLVED WITH OKEQ: • WE MET WITH OUR FUNDERS AND PHILANTHROPIC PARTNERS TO MAKE THEM AWARE OF THE SITUATION : • WITH THE CONTINUED SUPPORT OF OUR FUNDERS , WE COMPLETED A COMPETITIVE REQUEST FOR PROPOSALS PROCESS AND ENCACED A NEW ACCOUNTING FIRM : •WEARE WORKING WITH THAT FIRM AND WITH OTHER PARTNERS TO COMPLETE A COMPREHENSIVE FINANCIAL RECONCILIATION PROCESS AND BUILD A NEW INFRASTRUCTURE TO ENSURE THAT EVERY DOLLAR IS ACCOUNTED FOR AND USED FOR ITS INTENDED PURPOSE . IMPORTANTLY , WE ARE SHARI NC THIS UPDATE AND THE INFORMATION WE HAVE AVAILABLE AT THIS TIME WITH THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER MOST - YOU . OKEQ EXISTS TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY AND WE ARE WORKING URCENTLV TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ CAN BE FINANCIALLY VIABLE AND CAN SUSTAIN FOR GENERATIONS TO COME . YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS NOW MORE THAN EVER . MOVINC FORWARD , WE ARE DETERMINING WHAT PROGRAMS AND SERVICES WILL LOOK LIKE FOR THE NEXT FEW MONTHS . I WILL BE SHARING MORE INFORMATION ABOUT OUR SCHEDULE SOON . IN THE MEANTIME . I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR YOUR STEADFAST COMMITMENT TO OKEQ AND TO SUPPORTING OUR COMMUNITY TO BE SAFE , HEALTHY AND THRIVING . SINCERELY BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11 . l 4. 2 2 11.14.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT ----- DEAR FRIENDS , THE WINTER HOLIDAY SEASON IS A TIME FOR GRATITUDE , AND THIS VEAR I AM PROFOUNDLY GRATEFUL FOR THE OVERWHELMING SUPPORT WE HAVE SEEN FROM THE OKEQ COMMUNITY DURINC THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSAGES OF SUPPORT AND YOUR UNWAVERING COMMITMENT TO OUR WORK ON BEHALF OF THE LCBTQ + COMMUNITY . AS YOU MAY KNOW , LAST SPRINC WE CELEBRATED TOBY JENKINS ' 26 YEARS OF LEADERSHIP AS EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF OKEQ AND WISHED HIM THE BEST ON HIS WELL - EARNED RETIREMENT TO SPEND TIME WITH HIS FAMILY . ESPECIALLY HIS GRANDCHILDREN . OVER THE LAST FIVE MONTHS , THE BOARD HAS BEEN WORKING TO IDENTIFY A NEW LEADER TO HELP STRENGTHEN AND SUSTAIN OUR MISSION AND THE LECACV OF TOBY ' S WORK TH ROUCH THE MANY EVENTS , PROGRAMS , AND RESOURCES THAT OKEQ PROVIDES IN SERVING YOU , OUR COMMUNITY . ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS , I AM THRILLED TO ANNOUNCE THAT DOROTHY BALLARD HAS JOINED OKEQ AS OUR NEW INTERIM EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR . AFTER A COMPETITIVE INTERVIEW PROCESS , THE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE OF THE BOARD RECOMMENDED DOROTHY BECAUSE OF HER KNOWLEDGE , DEDICATION , AND PASSION FOR THE MISSION OF OKEQ . SHE BRINCS MORE THAN 15 YEARS OF EXPERIENCE IN COMMUNICATIONS . MARKETING . AND PROJECT DEVELOPMENT AND MANAGEMENT . WE ARE GRATEFUL FOR HER WILLINGNESS TO STEP FORWARD AND LEAD OKEQ TH ROUCH THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . DOROTHY HAS HIT THE CROUND RUNNING AND IS BUILDING A COMPREHENSIVE PLAN TO STABILIZE AND SUSTAIN OKEQ . WE WILL BE SHARI NC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THOSE PLANS SOON . I HOPE YOU WILL SAVE THE DATE OF THURSDAY , DECEMBER 8 AT 5 PM FOR A HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE AT OKEQ FOR A CHANCE TO MEET DOROTHY AND THE OKEQ TEAM , TOUR THE CENTER , AND LEARN ABOUT OUR PROGRAMS AND SERVICES . WE ALSO HOPE YOU JOIN US AFTERWARDS IN THE LYNN RICGS THEATER TO ENJOY DECEMBER ' S RAINBOW ROOM EVENT " A QUIRKY QUEEN ' S QUEER CHRISTMAS CABARET " FEATURING TRAVIS CUILLORV AT 7 :30 PM . LOOK FOR AN INVITATION TO THESE LATER THIS WEEK ! NOW THAT WE ACAIN HAVE LEADERSHIP IN PLACE THAT HOLDS THE CONFIDENCE OF THE BOARD AND STAFF , WE CAN CONTINUE TO ADDRESS THE BROADER WORK OF IMPLEMENTING OUR STRATECV TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ IS FINANCIALLY SOUND AND CAN SUSTAIN ITS MISSION FOR GENERATIONS TO COME . ALTHOUGH THESE SHIFTS HOLD THEIR CHALLENGES , WE HAVE AN EXCITING OPPORTUNITY FOR OKEQ TO MEET THE EX PAN DI NC NEEDS OF THE COMMUNITY . AS WE MOVE FORWARD . WE ARE MINDFUL OF OUR FOUNDING AND HISTORY AS A GRASSROOTS ORGANIZATION CREATED TO SERVE ALL IN OUR COMMUNITY . AFTER OVER 40 YEARS , THE RICH DIVERSITY OF OUR COMMUNITY HAS CROWN AND OUR NEEDS - YOUR NEEDS - ARE GREATER THAN EVER . THANK YOU FOR CONTINUING TO STAND WITH US AS WE WORK THROUGH THIS TIME OF CHANCE AS WE TURN THE CORNER TOWARD A BICCER AND BRIGHTER FUTURE . SINCERELY , BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11. 2 l . 2 2 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 11.21.22 Giving Tuesday Message from Board Treasurer Dear friends of OkEq, As I took some much-needed time with my family during the Thanksgiving holiday, like many of you, I reflected on the things I am grateful for in my life. Among them is my work with OkEq as Treasurer for the Board of Directors and in service with you — our incredible body of supporters holding the same passion for the mission of this organization. Over the past few weeks, we have shared several updates from our Board President about the work we are undertaking in stabilizing and restructuring OkEq to sustain us into the future. I want to take this moment to share my confidence in our progress in establishing a solid financial, procedural, and management footing. 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Beyond OkEq's selection of a new Interim Executive Director, we have formed an active Finance Committee that meets monthly, at minimum, and is hands-on in financial decisions for the center, including weekly approval of all disbursements. We have also contracted a new outside accountant who has hit the ground running, holding an extensive background in managing nonprofit finances. With their guidance, the Finance Committee is implementing solid procedures for all financial activities with proper oversight and internal controls. We take our responsibilities very seriously. On this Giving Tuesday, we ask that you show your continued support and confidence in the mission and purpose of Oklahomans for Equality with a donation to help us continue to serve the LGBTQ+ community and sustain it for generations to come. Ours is a necessary work that continues to grow. Together we can see that work continue to come to fruition. To donate, please visit https://www.okeq.org/ and click the big orange button on the bottom right corner of the page. Don't forget to share this opportunity with your networks! Thank you for your generosity. Julie H. Chase Board Treasure Give Today OkEq Colorado Shooting Statement . ~ FFIRMING, AND WELCOMING PLACES WHERE THEY CAN BE WHO 'A E WITHOUT FEAR . WHILE THE MOTIVE OF THE SHOOTING IS STILL UNCLEAR AT THIS TIME , ANY ATTACK ON A SAFE SPACE DESIGNATED FOR LGBTQ+ PEOPLE FEELS LIKE A PROFOUND VIOLATION OF OUR SAFETY AND OUR RIGHT TO COME TOGETHER AS A COMMUNITY. WE MOURN THE LIVES LOST AND THE LIVES CHANGED FOREVER . INCLUD ING AMONG THEM DANIEL DAVIS ASTON OF BROKEN ARROW, A TRANS MAN WHO RELOCATED TO COLORADO SPRINGS AND WAS BARTENDING ON THE NIGHT OF THIS HORRIBLE ATTACK . HAVING BEEN PART OF THE LOCAL ELOTE WORK FAMILY, THE IMPACT OF HIS LOSS HITS RIGHT IN THE CENTER OF HOME . WE ARE WORKING TO DETERMINE WHAT SUPPORTS THE COLORADO SPRINGS LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY NEEDS AT THIS TIME AND WILL SHARE MORE INFORMATION AS IT BECOMES AVAILABLE . 11 21 22 • ',. _.,, ';' ... ~ r 'If _.! ( r - , • - + '-C) ·• / ' . . ' ,. ,, " - t- 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Thank you to everyone who participated in this year's Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree! Thank you for helping folks enjoy the holiday season and letting them know the community cares. And Thank you to American Airlines TUL Pride EBRG for all their support and help. Tulsa CARES was founded in 1991 as a community response to the growing need for coordinated HIV/AIDS care during some of the darkest days of the epidemic. For more than three decades, Tulsa CARES has provided a compassionate response as HIV/AIDS has evolved from a fatal illness to a chronically-managed disease. Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs serving low-income individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs. We specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, self-worth, inclusion, and hope."Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs serving lowincome individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs. We specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, self-worth, inclusion, and hope. Upcoming Special Events Worlds AIDS Day Art Exhibit 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Month of December Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Opening on December 1 is in partnership with the Grateful Day Foundation who will hold the space through the month of December featuring artworks from and in support of World AIDS Day. All proceeds benefit Grateful Day and its mission to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/AIDS wellness community. The exhibit is located in the Bruce Goff Event Center. ' - .. ,. ,,... '""' " " ~ ~JJLL, JtoLJJ -~ - ~ ", -:~ . . . The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with David Martfeld Month of December Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 David Martfeld is this month's artist in The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, December 1st at 7pm. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 7:00pm – 9:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. 0 Free HIV Testing Facebook Event 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tuesday, Dec 27th | 4:00pm 6:00pm Dennis E. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. 0 Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, Jan 12th | 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Doors open at 7:00 p.m. and the show starts at 7:30 p.m. Table seats are $25 and general admission seating is $15. Tickets on sale now. 0 2023 Tulsa Pride Pageant Saturday, Jan 15th | 10:00pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74103 RSVP Calling ALL performers! Compete to be 2023 Tulsa Pride King or Queen! • Open to all with a $50 registration fee • Prize Package $150.00 with sash and crown • Bookings at all Pride Bingos, Tulsa Pride, and Chapter Prides. For more information email Shay Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, Jan 26th | 6:00pm - RSVP 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 7:30pm Tulsa Ballet 1212 E 45th Pl S, Tulsa, OK 74105 Join us for our Equality Business Alliance Mixer at Tulsa Ballet. The international press has described Tulsa Ballet as “one of the best in the world” A professional company of international dancers representing 14 countries performs six times a year. The Tulsa Ballet Center for Dance Education offers classes for ages 3adult at two campuses: in Tulsa on Brookside and in Broken Arrow at the Hardesty Center for Dance Education. The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.html Grow With Us featuring Luke Scuitto This episode of Grow With Us features Luke Scuitto, the Membership Coordinator at the Dennis R. Neill Oklahoma Equality Center. Luke is Tulsa-transplant who found a meaningful community at the Equality Center, and he was able to create an opportunity to serve the LGBTQIA+ community of the Tulsa Metropolitan and beyond. In this episode, we 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... discuss Luke’s involvement in programming events for the Equality Business Alliance, different programs available to folks in the LGBTQIA+ community, and the ways to serve locally in LBGTQIA+ spaces. Read More Luke Scuitto OKEQ Membership Coordinator Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More The open enrollment period for More LGBTQ+ people qualify this 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... the ACA marketplace has begun! And 4 of 5 customers can find a plan option for $10 or less per month. Visit healthcare.gov to enroll, compare options, or switch plans. year for affordable health insurance options! Open enrollment for 2023 health insurance has started and runs through Jan 15, 2023. Go to healthcare.gov to get started. El AIL KAO.MORRIS®OKEQ.O G WITH YOUR BIO AND 3 PIECES FOR CONSI ERATION. ALL MEDIUMS ARE WELCOME. DEADLINE IS DECEMBER 21ST Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery We have a few spots remaining! Submit your work today! SUBMISSIONS In Memoriam 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln Memoni2UITI Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett 1947 - 2022 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Bro1111gl11t "I1o You_Bi 1~11e Letter Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! IndigiQueer is a space The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel Sin Fronteras es un A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 The program is 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 22 created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 22 + ~ https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Happy December! What better way to ride out these fluctuating temperatures than a good book, a cup of coffee/tea/wine, and a blanket? Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOICE Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT -!i ------..-FILM IT Fhaahort-pemrmoncecr~ PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo- a collage or self - portrait ~ 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: J. OKEQ 'NINL.aitlly © ..... --.•- -Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE Belongs Ycu VOICE IS Vaill The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES ~ 10 raise Nnds and S4JPPOf1. lor cu library seeks to n::reese eccess to and scope of LBGTOIA• IT\llle08!S Donate rxteyt 0. Searchtor ~IOMMrrostanct1W9"Wlonlw,J~ O\lf~ISsponsoredllr-110110"1otA1911t~ • ~au:nryca,a Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library -ci=-<r- OKEO HEALTH -ci=-<r- CLINIC ■ Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Donate & Support OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. Please do not send medical or private 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT information via email! Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Julie L. Goree with Legal = Every Tuesday from • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 22 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and ~"' Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES SHAY BREWER HE I HIM I HIS ANDI GUNTER SHE I HER I HERS KAO MORRIS HE/ HIM/ HIS CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR OPERATIONS MANGER •• DONNA MATTHEWS SHE/ HER/ HERS LILY PINA GRANT COORDINATOR LUKE SCUITTO SHE/ HER/ HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS NURSE PRACTITIONER MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S8 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 5:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/28/26, 5:00 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4fbe2ea105f9413094f0a6df9c304185.pdf a7c339f610142d402a51d9da2de5a116 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! Letter From the President 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... HAPPY H LIDAVS! FROM OKLAHAOMANS FOR EQUALITY --- ** Dear Friends, We hope this letter finds you safe, warm, and in the company of those most important in your life. As temperatures drop and days slow down, I begin again to reflect. To celebrate the successes of the waning year while looking to the incredible opportunities ahead. Together, we have moved through significant triumphs and adjustments here at OkEq. There is much to be grateful for as we count our blessings and look ahead. Over the last year, and under the guidance of former President Stacy Turner, we had the most successful Gala and Pride events in the organization's history. Over 700 attendees joined us for our Gala, while Pride welcomed its largest number of vendors and participants since its inception. We also navigated staffing, Board, and program adjustments. Most recently, pausing some events and programs along with slightly reduced center hours (noon to 8 pm weekdays) as we turn inward to focus on the infrastructure needed to keep OkEq thriving well into the future. Moving into 2023, we are building on our successes with committees preparing for the Gala and Pride to be even bigger and concentrate on celebrating every single one of you. Supporting that is the first segment of our interim Executive Directors strategic plan for OkEq, the Three Ps — People, Programs, and Purpose. Here are some of the exciting things you can expect through January: • Defined employee roles and additions to staff and volunteers • New financial protocols for efficiency and accountability • Safety improvements, including a new camera system and intercoms • Expanded support group offerings • The return of youth and young adult programs • New education and outreach training through OkEq and select partners • The first details about our new counseling initiatives • A return to standard operating hours at the Center • Website and social media refreshes As you can see, these are exciting times! We invite you in this season of reflection, generosity, and hope, to share the great work happening at OkEq and encourage your networks to consider giving or matching your support of our growing services. There is no end destination in our work, and we remain ever focused and full of gratitude for your support of OkEq. On behalf of the OkEq Staff, Board, and Trustees, I wish you all a very warm and 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... happy Holiday Season! Sincerely, Bob Hanson Board President Board President Updates MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT HI , OKEQ MEMBERS. I WANTED TO TAKE A MOMENT TO INTRODUCE MYSELF. I AM BOB HANSON AND HAVE STEPPED INTO THE ROLE OF BOARD PRESIDENT FOR OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY. AFTER SERVI NC THE MEMBERS AND CENTER FOR THE LAST YEAR , STACY TURNER HAS TAKEN SOME VERY WELL EARNED TIME OFF TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY IN DIFFERENT WAYS. I CANNOT EXPRESS ENOUCH HOW CRATEFUL WE AS THE BOARD ARE FOR HER CUIDANCE AND LEADERSHIP OVER THE LAST YEAR ; SHE HAS CUIDED US THROUCH SOME OF THE TOUCH EST TIMES OKEQ HAS EVER SEEN . THIS YEAR HAS BEEN A YEAR OF MANY CHANCES FOR THE CENTER - SOME COOD AND SOME BAD. THE STAFF AT THE CENTER HAS BEEN THROUCH SO MUCH , AND WE ARE SO CRATEFUL FOR THEIR DEDICATION TO THE CENTER AND THE COMMUNITY THEY SERVE . OUR STAFF IS AMAZINC AND HAS BEEN WORKINC SO HARD TO HELP KEEP THE IMPORTANT SERVICES THE CENTER PROVIDES AVAILABLE . AS WE TAKE THE NEXT STEPS , THERE ARE A LOT OF EXCITINC NEW THINCS OKEQ WILL BE FOCUSINC ON . BUT UNFORTUNATELY, EVENTS OVER THE LAST SEVERAL WEEKS HAVE REMINDED ALL OF US WHY THE WORK OF THE CENTER IS SO IMPORTANT. THE VIOLENT ATTACKS AT THE DONUT HOLE (PLEASE SHOW YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE TO THEM) ARE A SOBERINC REMINDER THAT WE STILL HAVE WORK TO DO. WE ARE ALSO FOCUSED ON FICHTINC THE ATTACK ON CENDER · AFFIRMINC CARE. THE RECENT PASSACE AND SICNINC OF SENATE BILL 3XX PROHIBITS OU HEALTH FROM PROVIDINC CENDER· AFFIRMINC CARE AS A CONDITION OF RECEIVINC FEDERAL AMERICAN RESCUE PLAN DOLLARS FOR THE EXPANSION OF CHILDREN ' S BEHAVIORAL HEALTH FACILITIES. LECISLATORS HAVE ALREADY EXPRESSED A DESIRE TO BAN CENDER · AFFIRMINC CARE TO MINORS STATEWIDE IN THE 2023 LECISLATIVE SESSION. WHEN SENATE BILL 3XX WAS SICNED , OUR BOARD SECRETARY, ERIC WILSON , SENT A SIMPLE BUT POWERFUL EMAIL THAT SAID, " THIS MAKES ME SO MAD . ALL THIS WILL DO IS HURT KIDS ." I HAVEN'T STOPPED THINKINC ABOUT THAT EMAIL , AND IT HAS BECOME A BATTLE CRY FOR ME . OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO FICHT ACAINST THE HATE AND VIOLENCE THAT TARCETS OUR COMMUNITY. OKEQ WILL BE A SAFE PLACE FOR ALL WITHIN THE LCBTQIAA+ COMMUNITY ACAINST WHATEVER IS THROWN AT US , NOT OUT OF HATE FOR OTHERS, BUT FOR THE LOVE OF OUR COMMUNITY. THIS IS WHY WE FICHT - SO ALL MAY KNOW LOVE WINS AND WILL PREVAIL. HUMBLED AND HONORED, BOB HANSON 11 . 0 7 . 2 2 q 11.07.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT AS I WRITE THIS ON THE EVEN INC OF THE MIDTERM ELECTIONS , I AM FILLED WITH EMOTION AND REMINDED THAT TRANSFORMATIONAL CHANCE TAKES TIME . PATIENCE AND AN UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO PUSH TH ROUCH CHALLENCES . THERE HAVE BEEN MANY CHANCES AT OKEQ RECENTLY . THOSE CHANCES MAY BE HARD TO ACCEPT FOR SOME IN OUR COMMUNITY BUT ARE DUE IN PART TO THE GROWTH OF OUR ORGANIZATION . IT IS MY HOPE THAT THIS MESSAGE WILL HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHERE WE ARE TODAY AND WHY YOUR SUPPORT IS ESSENTIAL TO OUR FUTURE . OKEQ BEGAN AS A SMALL ORGANIZATION RUN BY VOLUNTEERS . OVER THE YEARS , DRIVEN BY THE NEEDS OF OUR COMMUNITY , OKEQ CREW TO A LARGE CENTER REQUIRING BOTH A FULL STAFF AND VOLUNTEERS . THIS GROWTH HAPPENED QUICKLY , AND THE STAFF . VOLUNTEERS , AND BOARD OF DIRECTORS WORKED TO SUSTAIN US THROUGH THIS EVOLUTION . THEIR PASSION FOR OKEQ IS WHAT LED TO AMAZING ACCOMPLISHMENTS . EVEN IN THE FACE OF AN ADVERSE AND EVEN HOSTILE POLITICAL CLIMATE . AS WE SOUGHT TO RESPOND TO OVERWHELMING DEMAND FOR THE SERVICES OKEQ PROVIDES , WE DID NOT ESTABLISH THE ADEQUATE ACCOUNTABILITY MEASURES A HEALTHY AND CROWING ORGANIZATION NEEDS . PARTICULARLY IN TERMS OF FISCAL OVERSIGHT. WE BELIEVE IN TRANSPARENCY AND ACCOUNTABILITY AND WANT OUR COMMUNITY TO KNOW : • IN OUR WORK TO ASSESS THE ORGANIZATION ' S CURRENT FINANCIAL STATE , THE BOARD IDENTIFIED IRREGULARITIES IN THE FINANCES OVERSEEN BY OKEQ ' S VOLUNTEER TREASURER ; • WE TOOK IMMEDIATE ACTION IN RESPONSE TO THIS FINDING , AND THE TREASURER IS NO LONGER INVOLVED WITH OKEQ; • WE MET WITH OUR FUNDERS AND PHILANTHROPIC PARTNERS TO MAKE THEM AWARE OF THE SITUATION : • WITH THE CONTINUED SUPPORT OF OUR FUNDERS . WE COMPLETED A COMPETITIVE REQUEST FOR PROPOSALS PROCESS AND ENGAGED A NEW ACCOUNTING FIRM ; •WEARE WORKING WITH THAT FIRM AND WITH OTHER PARTNERS TO COMPLETE A COMPREHENSIVE FINANCIAL RECONCILIATION PROCESS AND BUILD A NEW INFRASTRUCTURE TO ENSURE THAT EVERY DOLLAR IS ACCOUNTED FOR AND USED FOR ITS INTENDED PURPOSE . IMPORTANTLY , WE ARE SHARI NC THIS UPDATE AND THE INFORMATION WE HAVE AVAILABLE AT THIS TIME WITH THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER MOST - YOU . OKEQ EXISTS TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY AND WE ARE WORKING URGENTLY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ CAN BE FINANCIALLY VIABLE AND CAN SUSTAIN FOR GENERATIONS TO COME . YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS NOW MORE THAN EVER . MOVING FORWARD , WE ARE DETERMINING WHAT PROGRAMS AND SERVICES WILL LOOK LIKE FOR THE NEXT FEW MONTHS . I WILL BE SHARING MORE INFORMATION ABOUT OUR SCHEDULE SOON . IN THE MEANTIME , I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR YOUR STEADFAST COMMITMENT TO OKEQ AND TO SUPPORTING OUR COMMUNITY TO BE SAFE , HEALTHY AND THRIVING . SINCERELY BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11. 1 4. 2 2 11.14.22 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT ----- DEAR FRIENDS , THE WINTER HOLIDAY SEASON IS A TIME FOR CRATITUDE , AND THIS YEAR I AM PROFOUNDLY CRATEFUL FOR THE OVERWHELMINC SUPPORT WE HAVE SEEN FROM THE OKEQ COMMUNITY DURINC THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSACES OF SUPPORT AND YOUR UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO OUR WORK ON BEHALF OF THE LCBTQ + COMMUNITY . AS YOU MAY KNOW , LAST SPRINC WE CELEBRATED TOBY JENKINS ' 26 YEARS OF LEADERSHIP AS EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF OKEQ AND WISHED HIM THE BEST ON HIS WELL - EARNED RETIREMENT TO SPEND TIME WITH HIS FAMILY , ESPECIALLY HIS CRANDCHILDREN . OVER THE LAST FIVE MONTHS , THE BOARD HAS BEEN WORKINC TO IDENTIFY A NEW LEADER TO HELP STRENCTHEN AND SUSTAIN OUR MISSION AND THE LECACY OF TOBY ' S WORK TH ROUCH THE MANY EVENTS , PROCRAMS , AND RESOURCES THAT OKEQ PROVIDES IN SERVI NC YOU , OUR COMMUNITY . ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS , I AM THRILLED TO ANNOUNCE THAT DOROTHY BALLARD HAS JOINED OKEQ AS OUR NEW INTERIM EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR . AFTER A COMPETITIVE INTERVIEW PROCESS , THE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE OF THE BOARD RECOMMENDED DOROTHY BECAUSE OF HER KNOWLEDCE , DEDICATION , AND PASSION FOR THE MISSION OF OKEQ . SHE BRINCS MORE THAN 15 YEARS OF EXPERIENCE IN COMMUNICATIONS , MARKETINC , AND PROJECT DEVELOPMENT AND MANACEMENT. WE ARE CRATEFUL FOR HER WILLINCNESS TO STEP FORWARD AND LEAD OKEQ TH ROUCH THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . DOROTHY HAS HIT THE CROUND RUNNINC AND IS BUILDINC A COMPREHENSIVE PLAN TO STABILIZE AND SUSTAIN OKEQ . WE WILL BE SHARI NC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THOSE PLANS SOON . I HOPE YOU WILL SAVE THE DATE OF THURSDAY , DECEMBER 8 ATS PM FOR A HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE AT OKEQ FOR A CHANCE TO MEET DOROTHY AND THE OKEQ TEAM , TOUR THE CENTER , AND LEARN ABOUT OUR PROCRAMS AND SERVICES . WE ALSO HOPE YOU JOIN US AFTERWARDS IN THE LYNN RICCS THEATER TO ENJOY DECEMBER ' S RAINBOW ROOM EVENT " A QUIRKY QUEEN ' S QUEER CHRISTMAS CABARET " FEATURINC TRAVIS CUILLORY AT 7 ,30 PM . LOOK FOR AN INVITATION TO THESE LATER THIS WEEK ! NOW THAT WE ACAIN HAVE LEADERSHIP IN PLACE THAT HOLDS THE CONFIDENCE OF THE BOARD AND STAFF , WE CAN CONTINUE TO ADDRESS THE BROADER WORK OF IMPLEMENTINC OUR STRATECY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ IS FINANCIALLY SOUND AND CAN SUSTAIN ITS MISSION FOR CENERATIONS TO COME . ALTHOUCH THESE SHIFTS HOLD THEIR CHALLENCES , WE HAVE AN EXCITINC OPPORTUNITY FOR OKEQ TO MEET THE EX PAN DI NC NEEDS OF THE COMMUNITY . AS WE MOVE FORWARD , WE ARE MINDFUL OF OUR FOUNDINC AND HISTORY AS A CRASSROOTS ORCANIZATION CREATED TO SERVE ALL IN OUR COMMUNITY . AFTER OVER 40 YEARS , THE RICH DIVERSITY OF OUR COMMUNITY HAS CROWN AND OUR NEEDS • YOUR NEEDS · ARE CREATER THAN EVER . THANK YOU FOR CONTINUINC TO STAND WITH US AS WE WORK THROUCH THIS TIME OF CHANCE AS WE TURN THE CORNER TOWARD A BICCER AND BRICHTER FUTURE . SINCERELY . BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11 . 2 1 . 2 2 11.21.22 Giving Tuesday Message from Board Treasurer 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dear friends of OkEq, As I took some much-needed time with my family during the Thanksgiving holiday, like many of you, I reflected on the things I am grateful for in my life. Among them is my work with OkEq as Treasurer for the Board of Directors and in service with you — our incredible body of supporters holding the same passion for the mission of this organization. Over the past few weeks, we have shared several updates from our Board President about the work we are undertaking in stabilizing and restructuring OkEq to sustain us into the future. I want to take this moment to share my confidence in our progress in establishing a solid financial, procedural, and management footing. Beyond OkEq's selection of a new Interim Executive Director, we have formed an active Finance Committee that meets monthly, at minimum, and is hands-on in financial decisions for the center, including weekly approval of all disbursements. We have also contracted a new outside accountant who has hit the ground running, holding an extensive background in managing nonprofit finances. With their guidance, the Finance Committee is implementing solid procedures for all financial activities with proper oversight and internal controls. We take our responsibilities very seriously. On this Giving Tuesday, we ask that you show your continued support and confidence in the mission and purpose of Oklahomans for Equality with a donation to help us continue to serve the LGBTQ+ community and sustain it for generations to come. Ours is a necessary work that continues to grow. Together we can see that work continue to come to fruition. To donate, please visit https://www.okeq.org/ and click the big orange button on the bottom right corner of the page. Don't forget to share this opportunity with your networks! Thank you for your generosity. Julie H. Chase Board Treasure Give Today OkEq Colorado Shooting Statement 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... . - -'D"11r.1.lrT""'1rn''ClllC'l3a:--.a,o:;-.:;,Rl\lrlNi , AIIID WE[COMING PLACE Rl:Rc·--..an.,rr'Elll~~..-.;;icn--. ;c;. RE WITHOUT FEAR . WHILE THE MOTIVE OF THE SHOOTING IS ST I LL UNCLEAR AT THIS TIME , ANY ATTACK ON A SAFE SPACE DESIGNATED FOR LGBTQ+ PEOPLE FEELS LIKE A PROFOUND VIOLATION OF OUR SAFETY AND OUR RIGHT TO COME TOGETHER AS A COMMUNITY . WE MOURN THE LIVES LOST AND THE LIVES CHANGED FOREVER . INCLUD ING AMONG THEM DANIEL DAVIS ASTON OF BROKEN ARROW, A T RANS MAN WHO RELOCAT ED TO COLORADO SPRINGS AND WAS BARTENDING ON THE NIGHT OF THIS HORRIBLE ATTACK . HAVING BEEN PART OF THE LOCAL ELOTE WORK FAMILY, THE IMPACT OF HIS LOSS HITS RIGHT IN THE CENTER OF HOME . WE ARE WORKING TO DETERMINE WHAT SUPPORTS THE COLORADO SPRINGS LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY NEEDS AT THIS TIME AND WILL SHARE MORE INFORMATION AS IT BECOMES AVA I LABLE . 11 21 22 Thank you to everyone who participated in this year's Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree! Thank you for helping folks enjoy the holiday season and letting them know the community cares. And Thank you to American Airlines TUL Pride EBRG for all their support and help. Tulsa CARES was founded in 1991 as a community response to the growing need for coordinated HIV/AIDS care during some of the darkest days of the epidemic. For 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... more than three decades, Tulsa CARES has provided a compassionate response as HIV/AIDS has evolved from a fatal illness to a chronically-managed disease. Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs serving low-income individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs. We specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, self-worth, inclusion, and hope."Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs serving lowincome individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs. We specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, self-worth, inclusion, and hope. Upcoming Special Events Worlds AIDS Day Art Exhibit Month of December Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Opening on December 1 is in partnership with the Grateful Day Foundation who will hold the space through the month of December featuring artworks from and in support of World AIDS Day. All proceeds benefit Grateful Day and its mission to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/AIDS wellness community. The exhibit is located in the Bruce Goff Event Center. - , ,. ••~ . 0 ~ ... , .... ,, " " " ~.11J:L,:JJ'oLJ:J ....,, .,_,.,_ .-\ - - ., , •••• o, - ~ The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with David Martfeld Month of December Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 David Martfeld is this month's artist in The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, December 1st at 7pm. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – :00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. 0 Free HIV Testing Tuesday, Dec 27th | 4:00pm 6:00pm Dennis E. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Facebook Event H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. 0 The Rocky Horror Picture Show - New Year's Celebration Saturday, Dec 31st | 8:00pm 12:30am Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 Facebook Event Ring in 2023 with the mother of all cult-classics at Circle’s traditional endof-year shows! Hosted by Tulsa's own drag artist Adonia, the pre-film party begins at 8:30p both nights with a costume contest, drink specials, and more. Film at 10:00p and audience participation is strongly encouraged to enjoy the true “Rocky Horror” experience. Tickets $11 Members, $13 non-Members. Sat 12/31 will include New Year's Eve extras including the ball drop on the big screen and a celebration after the film. Fri 12/30 will feature DJ Kennedy spinning tunes in the lobby with support from Play Tulsa Music. About your host: Adonia is a Tulsa 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Starlette born and raised, she has graced the stages of Tulsa venues for 7 years, and has been featured in The Daily Planet in 2022. Audiences commend Adonia for her charismatic sense of humor, energetic performances, and undeniable crowd entertainment. She’s also a Scorpio! About the film: Sweethearts Brad (Barry Bostwick) and Janet (Susan Sarandon), stuck with a flat tire during a storm, discover the eerie mansion of Dr. Frank-N-Furter (Tim Curry), a transvestite scientist. As their innocence is lost, Brad and Janet meet a houseful of wild characters, including a rocking biker (Meat Loaf) and a creepy butler (Richard O'Brien). Through elaborate dances and rock songs, Frank-N-Furter unveils his latest creation: a muscular man named "Rocky." The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Nancy Moran Month of January Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Nancy Moran presents "Collage Conversations: Self-care for the Activist Soul" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, January 5th at 6pm. The exhibit will be on display for the month of January. Nancy Moran, a long time Tulsa activist, dares to believe that people can, and will, do the right thing. To her that has meant organizing to open Tulsa’s first transitional living center for unhoused persons with chronic mental illness, leading an antiwar movement, supporting immigrant rights, and working on getting Tulsa, an oil and gas town, to commit to 100% renewable energy. It takes a lot of 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... energy, and positive self-talk, to continue acting upon these convictions. She sees other people having the same struggles. Creating collages is a means of providing encouragement, for herself and others. As a nurse and a mindbody medicine scholar, she sees collage-making as a whole body-brain activity allowing her to steep herself in the values and motivation needed to keep up the good fight. Through her “Dispatches from the Collage Cutting Factory,” she uses these collages as a means to reflect on a variety of topics ranging from mindfulness, selfcompassion, spirituality, ecology, tenacity, and the importance of refusing to be a spectator in a world that needs each and every one of us to be a force for good. Her collages in essays may be found at https://www.facebook.com/ Collagesandcoktails 0 Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, Jan 12th | 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Doors open at 7:00 p.m. and the show starts at 7:30 p.m. Table seats are $25 and general admission seating is $15. Tickets on sale now. 0 2023 Tulsa Pride Pageant Saturday, Jan 15th | 10:00pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74103 RSVP Calling ALL performers! Compete to be 2023 Tulsa Pride King or Queen! 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 23 UHIVfflUWfIPW https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • Open to all with a $50 registration fee • Prize Package $150.00 with sash and crown • Bookings at all Pride Bingos, Tulsa Pride, and Chapter Prides. For more information email Shay Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, Jan 26th | 6:00pm 7:30pm Tulsa Ballet 1212 E 45th Pl S, Tulsa, OK 74105 RSVP Join us for our Equality Business Alliance Mixer at Tulsa Ballet. The international press has described Tulsa Ballet as “one of the best in the world” A professional company of international dancers representing 14 countries performs six times a year. The Tulsa Ballet Center for Dance Education offers classes for ages 3adult at two campuses: in Tulsa on Brookside and in Broken Arrow at the Hardesty Center for Dance Education. The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... equality-business-alliance.html Grow With Us featuring Luke Scuitto This episode of Grow With Us features Luke Scuitto, the Membership Coordinator at the Dennis R. Neill Oklahoma Equality Center. Luke is Tulsa-transplant who found a meaningful community at the Equality Center, and he was able to create an opportunity to serve the LGBTQIA+ community of the Tulsa Metropolitan and beyond. In this episode, we discuss Luke’s involvement in programming events for the Equality Business Alliance, different programs available to folks in the LGBTQIA+ community, and the ways to serve locally in LBGTQIA+ spaces. Luke Scuitto OKEQ Membership Coordinator Read More Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The open enrollment period for the ACA marketplace has begun! And 4 of 5 customers can find a plan option for $10 or less per month. Visit healthcare.gov to enroll, compare options, or switch plans. More LGBTQ+ people qualify this year for affordable health insurance options! Open enrollment for 2023 health insurance has started and runs through Jan 15, 2023. Go to healthcare.gov to get started. In Memoriam Iln Memoniaum Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Brou1glllt "f1o You., Bi "I111le Letter Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 23 gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @®m@l®IT ~ffi[g)I]XID~ @IT@ffi[g) O~@O@O@ Qdl§§ ~g 'u'Qdl[1,§ £ 'D'W@-§[;e)O~O'u' IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. ~~w@~H'll-00 ;-. ~@wu@ ~H@lhl'll' Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Happy December! What better way to ride out these fluctuating temperatures than a good book, a cup of coffee/tea/wine, and a blanket? Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT -!:i - ...... - .......... FILM IT Flm a ehort -perfonnance crclocumentaru Create digital art, color penc,l, or drawing PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: - -.•- -Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE Belongs Yow VOICE 15 Vlllld The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES Canpaign lo raise funds and support lor W' laary seeks to incrMSe access to and saipe of LBGTOIA• mat80lll!s Donale bSe)'I 0. Searc:htor Cong,anaaonslllUlrllffOltana~flrOIITIClllll'dftGClflg (lw~IIIJIOMCftCllll'lel'IIOnOrlOI'~ • Ritquellll.D'lrYClfd Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library Donate & Support 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEO -ci=-<r- HEALTH -ci=-<rCLINIC OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ• Communlty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE , okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES HE/ HIM/ HIS DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR SHAY BREWER HE I HIM I HIS ANDI GUNTER KAO MORRIS SHE / HER / HERS CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER OPERATIONS MANGER •• DONNA MATTHEWS LILY PINA SHE / HER / HERS GRANT COORDINATOR LUKE SCUITTO SHE/ HER/ HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS NURSE PRACTITIONER MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair 4/28/26, 5:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S9 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/28/26, 5:01 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d9c20750374522a7b3fb542a61952cdd.pdf a8c7ef014f36071d7d194ab2ade4306d PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 3 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! Letter From the President Dear OkEq Member, As 2022 comes to a close, it’s time to look back and reflect on what the last year has brought us, and the incredible ways you as a member of our community have come together to support us and each other, especially during these challenging 4/28/26, 5:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 3 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... times. At Oklahomans for Equality, we remain committed to our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. We will continue to find new innovative ways to serve and enrich the lives of every single member of OkEq and the LGBTQ+ community in Tulsa. Now, more than ever our programs, alliances, advocacy, and daily operations have taken on an increased importance and will enable us to continue to provide much-needed support. As a valued member of our community, I am writing to ask you for your help. Our mission relies on generous support from donors like you, and the end of the year is the perfect time to show your generosity. With your help, we can continue to help those in need and demonstrate the power of collective support and compassion. Please take a few moments to show your support through a donation to Oklahomans for Equality! Thank you, Bob Hanson OkEq Board President SUPPORT TODAY OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES 4/28/26, 5:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 3 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SHAY BREWER HE I HIM I HIS ANDI GUNTER SHE I HER I HERS KAO MORRIS HE/ HIM/ HIS CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR OPERATIONS MANGER •• DONNA MATTHEWS SHE/ HER/ HERS LILY PINA GRANT COORDINATOR LUKE SCUITTO SHE I HER I HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS NURSE PRACTITIONER MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S8 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try emoll marketing for free t oday! 4/28/26, 5:02 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8a787c31a01aaacdfd257ae494824aba.pdf 2d372d03052d2cf1238719014e56d7a6 PDF Text Text First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 1 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews April 4th, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 2 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on First Thursday Art Exhibition: Jay Hinely’s Exhibition “Little Bit Everything” Opens Thursday, April 7th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Jay Hinely grew up in a rural town outside of Chattanooga, Tennessee. As a child, he developed a love for visual arts, sciencefiction movies, and alien beings. Growing up in the 80s, Star Wars, MTV, ATARI, and NASA were influential in his artistic style. When he was young, it became evident, that Jay was very different from other children. He was bullied and labeled as a “dumb kid.” He could not read because he had severe dyslexia. Fortunately, one of his teachers recognized that he had the God-given ability to draw, paint, sculpt, and express himself with his hands. He learned he could put things on canvas that “wowed” people and truly made people wonder what he saw and felt. He attended Vicky Hardy School of Art and Harrison Bay Vocational Technical Center in Tennessee. At the age of 19, he stopped painting and raised 3 children as a single father, but 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 3 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... never lost his passion. Jay’s love has always been to create art that encompasses his mind, heart, voice, emotions, and vision to connect with the outside world. As a middle-aged man, he is using his God-given gift to paint, to create, to express, and to “wow”. Enjoy….. "One of the most vulnerable populations among youth today is LGBTQ teens. As a father of seven children, I want to be an example to them. I chose to display my art to promote equality and awareness to my children as well as the community." The show opens with The Artist Reception with Jay Hinley at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, April 7th, 2022, at 6:00 p.m. The exhibit continues throughout the month. Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party Friday, April 8, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ, Studio 66, and Black Queer Tulsa for a weekly RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party! We will have fun raffles, a cash bar, and a great community each week! The event is free to attend. 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 4 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on Buy Your Gala Tickets Here Become a Vendor or Sponsor 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 5 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... Donate to OutRight Action International to support LGBTQ+ people in Ukraine. Donate to Support LGBTQ+ Ukrainians OKEQ Seniors Meeting Tuesday, April 5, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 6 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... DRAG BINGO ~~~~ APRIL 16, 2022 ~-~ , Tulsa Pride Bingo 2022 Saturday, April 16, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 7 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Denise Hoey in Uncovered Thursday, April 21, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here Workout for a Cause Hosted by Next Level Athletics Saturday, April 9, 11:00 a.m. Next Level Athletics 9525 E. 51st St., Suite I Tulsa, OK 74145 The team at Next Level Athletics is so excited to be partnering with the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and to be a part of Oklahomans for Equality! As a local business, we know how important it is to give back to the community and we are 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 8 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... proud to do so! Beginning March 5th and running through all of June, Next Level Athletics is hosting Workout For A Cause! This will be a registration-based workout class specifically for those who want to work out and make a difference. Workout For A Cause will take place every Saturday at 11 am and will consist of a group workout, music based on the theme for that week, and some social time! Each class will last an hour and will only cost $10 per person, with 10% of that class total being donated back to the Equality Center. These classes will be a safe place for everyone to come and move their bodies, have fun, and be themselves. We are looking forward to what these events could bring, not only for us and our members but to Tulsa and the LGBTQ+ community we have here! Workout For A Cause details in sum: - Each event is $10 per person with 10% of each class going back to the Equality Center - Workout For A Cause will take place every Saturday from March 12th through the end of June - Each event will have a different theme and workout - 11 am at Next Level Athletics. 9525 E 51st St Suite I - Follow @workoutforacause_tulsa on Instagram for updates and to find out the theme of the week! Registration Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. Contact Sylvester tulsacari~ HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION 6 t e ENROLLMENT ATOKEQ EVERY TUES • lOAM . lPM • •• I SYLVESTERHARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES CONTACT SYLVESTER, SYL VESTERH@TU LSACARES.O RG 918.834.4194 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 9 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... Latin(X) Meeting Tuesday, April 12, 6:30 p.m. RSVP for Location We would like to invite you to our Latin(X) meeting in which we will be discussing topic that are affecting our latin community. This will be an open forum for topic of interest in our community not only latin(X) but also our LGBTQ+ community. Please RSVP with Liz at (405) 463-9323. Nos gustaría invitarte a nuestra reunión Latin(X) en la que estaremos discutiendo temas relevantes a nuestra comunidad. Este será un foro abierto para temas de interés en nuestra comunidad, no solo latin(X) sino también nuestra comunidad LGBTQ+. Confirme su asistencia con Liz al (405) 463-9323. • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, April 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office ----phone is (918) 295-9429. Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, April 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 10 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A firsttime interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Martin Raymond Steinmetz March 30, 2022 Marty served on the board of Oklahomans for Equality from 2007 to 2011 and served on the OKEQ Executive Committee as treasurer. Visitation Apr. 4. 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM Fitzgerald Southwood Colonial Chapel 3612 East 91st Street South 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 11 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... Tulsa, OK 74137-3976 Apr 5. 10:00 AM Calvary Cemetery-Tulsa 91st and Harvard Tulsa, OK 74136 Tyler Matney Jan 1, 1994 - March 05, 2022 W Ii. SS SA OS PO 'A T OVOU? 1 Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 12 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... Click Here for Survey L68Tt.Q+ PAUNT SVPPOI.T 61.0VP ____ A Mt,NTULY 6/tt,VP Ft,e PAeENrS WITU L6BT~+ ICll>S. LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, May 7, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 13 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, April 6, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 14 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contactJosh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, April 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 15 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at Please also be on the lookout for upcoming -alyssa.bryant@laok.org. - announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 16 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act - - - - - People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act -----Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 17 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... on November 13th. OKE 1 okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 18 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 19 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Virtual Thursday, April 21, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org OKEQ Seniors Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 20 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 21 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Deputy Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC S-IOIIID ■Y THID10-.;11<A1n• l'AMllTfDUNDATIDN 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 22 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Board of Advisors Julie Chase 4/28/26, 4:02 PM �First Thursday Art Opening with Jay Hinely 23 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-with-... Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Visit Our Website Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:02 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/dc56e766c7eb1c889a651c0a5cd22bb9.pdf f7d0a232fb8c442070b6f9c12fec5b88 PDF Text Text King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 1 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews January 10th, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! MASKS ARE REQUIRED AT THE DENNIS R. NEILL 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 2 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... EQUALITY CENTER MASK UP! Tulsa Pride Pageant Rescheduled to January 15th at 7:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 3 of 30 PROUDLY A SPONSORED BY https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... . A. . merIcan Ir 1nes OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ c) ~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 4 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... SAGE Meeting Tuesday, January 11, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center .. □ --- 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 5 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Neurodiversity Tulsa Tuesday, January 11, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Wear a mask, play some games, meet some friends! Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. The group is open to adults (18+) on the autism spectrum, who have ADHD, anxiety, Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, as well as supportive friends and family. We want everyone to feel welcome and know that they have a home in this community. We meet twice a month to play games, make art, go on outings, chat, and connect with likeminded individuals in our community. 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 6 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Margaret K. Eagler's "Your Weeds are My Wild Flowers" Opening Rescheduled to January 13th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Margaret was raised in a family of highly creative people with perfectionist and success-driven tendencies. Margaret was put in a box of "only" being creative with the written word by her family, and discovering painting helped break out of that box and discover new ideas, talents, and freedom. When the pandemic struck and Margaret's work became remote access, she knew she had to have something to DO that was not work-related or she would fall into the habit of working non-stop. So, even though she had "no talent," she decided to pick up acrylic paint. Margaret fell head over heels in love with the process and learned many life lessons through her projects, such as there is no right or wrong in art; if you don't like something, you can start over or completely change it - learn from it; mistakes are incredibly valuable in learning; the play of color and light is as much about the shadows and spaces as it is about the focus. As Margaret continued to explore her more artistic side, she discovered that some of the characteristics in her that had been so strictly constrained by her family of origin were actually qualities that she craved and that she was at her best when able to touch on those hidden aspects of herself. One day while discussing, with a friend, the nature of growth and learning to love one's self as a whole person, not lacking because of someone else's prescribed identity, the concept of the dandelion kept coming up - how much her sons loved to give her dandelions and how much her neighbors put in work to kill those glorious wildflowers. She realized, just like some people think dandelions are weeds, and she thinks they are wildflowers, she may not be what others think she should be, but that doesn't take away one bit of who she is meant to be. Margaret works as a Child Welfare Specialist with the Department of Human Services. She spends her days working to help families change the way they live life on this planet in order to provide a safe and secure environment for her family. Margaret likes nothing more than when a parent gets to bring their child home and successfully complete their case. Margaret has found that in advocating for the vulnerable, she must examine her own vulnerability, and painting has helped 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 7 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... to bring grounding and allowed a safe space to examine those vulnerabilities. Margaret will continue to make a stand for both clients and friends; fight for the rejected, the marginalized, the hurting, and the weary; and stand with those who are standing for themselves. Margaret's desire is that those who look at her art see the full range of emotions and relational connection and celebrate differences and imperfections. The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, January 1st, with COVID measures in place for those Non-vaccinated. The Artist Reception is Thursday, January 6th, at 6:00 p.m. The exhibit continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit www.okeq.org. RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party Friday, January 14, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ, Studio 66, and Black Queer Tulsa for a weekly RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party! We will have fun raffles, a cash bar, and a great community each week! The event is free to attend. OKEQ Taking Nominations for Community Awards 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 8 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Oklahomans for Equality is now taking nominations to recognize individuals or groups who have impacted the fight for equality for the LGBTQ+ community. These awards will be presented at the annual Equality Gala on April 30th, 2022, at the Cox Business Convention Center Grand Hall. Lifetime Achievement Award - Recognizes a lifetime dedication to the cause of equality for the LGBTQ+ community in Oklahoma. Community Hero Award - Recognizes individuals and groups who have represented or served our community in the previous year. The Rev. Russell Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion - Presented to a faith leader who leads and supports affirming the faith of the LGBTQ+ community in our local congregations. Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award - Presented to a local youth who demonstrates extraordinary character and makes a positive difference in their school, youth group, and community. Grand Marshal for the Tulsa Gay Pride Parade June 2nd - Recognizes an individual who has supported the LGBTQ+ community courageously and visibly. Dennis R. Neill Collegiate Leadership Award - Presented to a local college student who demonstrates extraordinary character and makes a positive difference in their school and community. Nancy McDonald Advocacy Award - Recognizes an individual who advocates for inclusion, equality for not only the LGBTQ community but for all marginalized populations. Bishop-Baldwin, Barton & Phillips Civil Rights Advocacy Award - Presented to those individuals who have fought for equality through the United States Justice system. Lynn Riggs Performing Arts Award - Honors individuals or groups that have advanced LGBTQ awareness through the fine arts. Workplace Inclusion Award - Recognizes a workplace that has shown a commitment to diversity and inclusion. Click Here for Nomination Form 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 9 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... THE DRAG QUEEN CAIN'S BALLROOM '•4. . . . .... •..... . , ... ...... FRIDAY ·.- •... ·:. ·-:..·,.. ·: MARCH 11, 2022 ... ' ~ Bob The Drag Queen Friday, March 11, 2022 Cain's Ballroom 423 N. Main St. Tulsa, OK 74103 Bob The Drag Queen is having a moment. A MAJOR moment! The season 8 winner of RuPaul's Drag Race was noted for her focus on comedy. Bob won three challenges during the show, including the recurring "Snatch Game," where she exquisitely portrayed Uzo Aduba and Carol Channing. Bob is back with a plethora of projects to impress. She is currently starring alongside Shangela Laquifa Wadley and Eureka O'Hara in HBO's first unscripted hit series, "We're Here", which was just renewed for a second season and is nominated for the Emmy Award for Best Unstructured Reality Series. She also has a brand new comedy special, "Bob The Drag Queen: Live at Caroline's" as well as MTV's "Drag My Dad" series, "The Pit Stop", and her everpopular podcast "Sibling Rivalry" with best friend, touring partner and RuPaul AllStar Drag Race winner herself Monet X Change. 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 10 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Bob may have won Drag Race, but it's her comedic prowess that is really shining brightest of all. With two comedy specials under her belt, Bob is making the world laugh with her impeccable timing and true tale stories about her life and hilarious observations. Click Here for Tickets Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74107 Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. Contact Sylvester tulsacari~ HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION 6 t e ENROLLMENT • ATOKEO EVERY TUES lOAM - tPM • •• I SYLVESTERHARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES CONTACT SYLVESTER SYLVESTERH@TULSACARES.ORG 918.834.4194 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 11 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... New year, new opportunities to get covered! The deadline to enroll in 2022 health insurance is Jan. 15. Check out your options today at HealthCare.gov. #GetCovered #EnrollByJan15 w ~ ssu s AR MOS I I E PORTA T O YOU? Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Monday and Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 12 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Elissa Furlong is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. She is from upstate New York but attended Mississippi College School of Law, graduating at the top of her class. In addition to having worked for two private attorneys, Elissa has previously interned with the legal department of a United Nations agency. Ms. Furlong has also completed legal fellowships and externships in the areas of employment discrimination, workers' rights, civil rights, and LGBTQ+ legislation and advocacy. Elissa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-409-2115, or email her at elissa.furlong@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements pertaining to fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, January 11, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office ----phone is (918) 295-9429. Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, January 19, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 13 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us ~ "' .OUTSIDE · THEB - ~ -· . . Eve.rj 3rd Monclaj of fhe. Monfh af 1pm Outside the Box Monday, January 17, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 14 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost Kelly Halpine December 30, 2021 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 15 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, February 5, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 16 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, February 2, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 17 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, January 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ Game Night Tuesday, January 25, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play with others? Then Game Night is for you! Join us on the last Tuesday of every month from 5:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 18 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Every Fourth Thursday at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. # PassTheEqualltyAct 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 19 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act - - - - - People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act -----Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 20 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program OKE okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 21 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 22 of 30 JOIN OUR TEAM! https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Th City of Tulsa i committed to creat ng respectful nd onal work env ronment. enta nd r on ny www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 23 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 24 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Lets Talk C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule an appointment Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 25 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, January 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --· - - Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 26 of 30 Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Support Group for Transgender Teens 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 27 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Email youth@okeq.org for more information. sage 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- ---- SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers Every Tuesday and community. from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. www.okeq.org/eba ---- provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 28 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC --IDr, 1HIDIOIIG( .......... f,.,.lll'fO<.INOATION 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 29 of 30 Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:52 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant this Saturday! 30 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... ... Pictu~ Courtesy of the Tulsa World Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross William Vaughn Monique Washington Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Jane Wiseman Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:52 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7f522092fc40831be44eb26c0683e86a.pdf 747b1fc0ec11d3a97aead1d6f22b1e79 PDF Text Text Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 1 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews January 17th, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 2 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... Introducing our King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022, King Mykal Khrystian and Queen Kitty Quinn Khrystian! 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 3 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... MASKS ARE REQUIRED AT THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER MASK UP! sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ ~~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 4 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. SAGE Meeting Tuesday, January 18, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 5 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... Margaret K. Eagler's "Your Weeds are My Wild Flowers" Opening Rescheduled to January 20th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Margaret was raised in a family of highly creative people with perfectionist and success-driven tendencies. Margaret was put in a box of "only" being creative with the written word by her family, and discovering painting helped break out of that box and discover new ideas, talents, and freedom. When the pandemic struck and Margaret's work became remote access, she knew she had to have something to DO that was not work-related or she would fall into the habit of working non-stop. So, even though she had "no talent," she decided to pick up acrylic paint. Margaret fell head over heels in love with the process and learned many life lessons through her projects, such as there is no right or wrong in art; if you don't like something, you can start over or completely change it - learn from it; mistakes are incredibly valuable in learning; the play of color and light is as much about the shadows and spaces as it is about the focus. As Margaret continued to explore her more artistic side, she discovered that some of the characteristics in her that had been so strictly constrained by her family of origin were actually qualities that she craved and that she was at her best when able to touch on those hidden aspects of herself. One day while discussing, with a friend, the nature of growth and learning to love one's self as a whole person, not lacking because of someone else's prescribed identity, the concept of the dandelion kept coming up - how much her sons loved to give her dandelions and 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 6 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... how much her neighbors put in work to kill those glorious wildflowers. She realized, just like some people think dandelions are weeds, and she thinks they are wildflowers, she may not be what others think she should be, but that doesn't take away one bit of who she is meant to be. Margaret works as a Child Welfare Specialist with the Department of Human Services. She spends her days working to help families change the way they live life on this planet in order to provide a safe and secure environment for her family. Margaret likes nothing more than when a parent gets to bring their child home and successfully complete their case. Margaret has found that in advocating for the vulnerable, she must examine her own vulnerability, and painting has helped to bring grounding and allowed a safe space to examine those vulnerabilities. Margaret will continue to make a stand for both clients and friends; fight for the rejected, the marginalized, the hurting, and the weary; and stand with those who are standing for themselves. Margaret's desire is that those who look at her art see the full range of emotions and relational connection and celebrate differences and imperfections. The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, January 1st, with COVID measures in place for those Non-vaccinated. The Artist Reception is Thursday, January 6th, at 6:00 p.m. The exhibit continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit www.okeq.org. Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 7 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party Friday, January 21, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ, Studio 66, and Black Queer Tulsa for a weekly RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party! We will have fun raffles, a cash bar, and a great community each week! The event is free to attend. COVID Vaccine Clinic Saturday, January 22, 4:00 p.m. Saturday, February 12, 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 St. Francis will be holding a clinic at the Equality Center for people to get their COVID vaccines! They will provide Pfizer vaccine for those five years of age and older for all doses (1st, 2nd, and boosters). COVID Vaccines at the Equality Center January 22nd 4-7 pm February 12th 4-7 pm • OKEQ Taking Nominations for Community Awards Oklahomans for Equality is now taking nominations to recognize individuals or groups who have impacted the fight for equality for the LGBTQ+ community. These awards will be presented at the annual Equality Gala on April 30th, 2022, at the Cox Business Convention Center Grand Hall. Lifetime Achievement Award - Recognizes a lifetime dedication to the cause of 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 8 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... equality for the LGBTQ+ community in Oklahoma. Community Hero Award - Recognizes individuals and groups who have represented or served our community in the previous year. The Rev. Russell Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion - Presented to a faith leader who leads and supports affirming the faith of the LGBTQ+ community in our local congregations. Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award - Presented to a local youth who demonstrates extraordinary character and makes a positive difference in their school, youth group, and community. Grand Marshal for the Tulsa Gay Pride Parade June 2nd - Recognizes an individual who has supported the LGBTQ+ community courageously and visibly. Dennis R. Neill Collegiate Leadership Award - Presented to a local college student who demonstrates extraordinary character and makes a positive difference in their school and community. Nancy McDonald Advocacy Award - Recognizes an individual who advocates for inclusion, equality for not only the LGBTQ community but for all marginalized populations. Bishop-Baldwin, Barton & Phillips Civil Rights Advocacy Award - Presented to those individuals who have fought for equality through the United States Justice system. Lynn Riggs Performing Arts Award - Honors individuals or groups that have advanced LGBTQ awareness through the fine arts. Workplace Inclusion Award - Recognizes a workplace that has shown a commitment to diversity and inclusion. Click Here for Nomination Form BOB THE DRAG QUEEN 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 9 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... CAIN'S BALLROOM FRIDAY ...... ..... ...... ..,"". .....•. . ...-.......·... ... ·, ~ MARCH 11, 2022 Bob The Drag Queen Friday, March 11 Cain's Ballroom 423 N. Main St. Tulsa, OK 74103 Bob The Drag Queen is having a moment. A MAJOR moment! The season 8 winner of RuPaul's Drag Race was noted for her focus on comedy. Bob won three challenges during the show, including the recurring "Snatch Game," where she exquisitely portrayed Uzo Aduba and Carol Channing. Bob is back with a plethora of projects to impress. She is currently starring alongside Shangela Laquifa Wadley and Eureka O'Hara in HBO's first unscripted hit series, "We're Here", which was just renewed for a second season and is nominated for the Emmy Award for Best Unstructured Reality Series. She also has a brand new comedy special, "Bob The Drag Queen: Live at Caroline's" as well as MTV's "Drag My Dad" series, "The Pit Stop", and her everpopular podcast "Sibling Rivalry" with best friend, touring partner and RuPaul AllStar Drag Race winner herself Monet X Change. Bob may have won Drag Race, but it's her comedic prowess that is really shining brightest of all. With two comedy specials under her belt, Bob is making the world laugh with her impeccable timing and true tale stories about her life and hilarious observations. Click Here for Tickets 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 10 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74107 Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. Contact Sylvester tulsacari~ HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION Ei t e ENROLLMENT • I SYLVESTER HARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES • •• w ,.. ISSU SA MOS AT OKEO EVERY TUES lOAM _ lPM E POR 'A T O YOU? I 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 11 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Monday and Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Elissa Furlong is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. She is from upstate New York but attended Mississippi College School of Law, graduating at the top of her class. In addition to having worked for two private attorneys, Elissa has previously interned with the legal department of a United Nations agency. Ms. Furlong has also completed legal fellowships and externships in the areas of employment discrimination, workers' rights, civil rights, and LGBTQ+ legislation and advocacy. Elissa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-409-2115, or email her at elissa.furlong@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements pertaining to fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, February 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center LEGALAID th ~D"D"TT£"'DCI ~ - - 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 12 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a first-come, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, January 19, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 13 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... ~ Y' ~ .OUTSIDE ·. THEB ~ Outside the Box Monday, January 17, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 14 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... Kelly Halpine December 30, 2021 Luis Lopez December 30, 2021 Welcome to PE: :CE:HCf: First Thursday Art Exhibition: The Greenwood Joy Experience Artist Reception, Thursday, February 3rd, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 15 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Dawn Tree is an abstract surrealist painter/graphic artist, author, storyteller, journalist, spoken word artist, educator and DJ. Tree was born in St. Louis, MO and resides dually in Ghana’s Eastern Region and Tulsa, Oklahoma. She earned her BA in Journalism and minor in Africana Studies from the University of Oklahoma. Dawn Tree’s passion for African and Black American cultural representation is clear in her artwork. In 2021, she presented The Greenwood Joy Experience as part of the Greenwood (Tulsa) Race Massacre Centennial. This interactive exhibit of visual art, historical artifacts, food, music, and community both examined and embodied the deeply sustaining joy that has endured in Black consciousness through generations of constant and violent injustice. Tree is currently displaying work, including "The Frequency of Fear" at the University of Tulsa, Alexandre Hogue Gallery. Her chosen medium includes wood canvas with latex acrylic, aerosol, found objects including feathers, skulls/bones, branches, etc. Tree has held residencies and exhibitions all over the world including Ghana, New York, Maryland, Philadelphia and more. The show opens with The Artist Reception with Dawn Tree at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, February 3rd, 2022 at 6:00 p.m. with COVID measures in place. The exhibit continues throughout the month. &.68-r-•• p1,,sJTr ,svHt>'-,61,1,VP _________ A Ml>NfM~Y 6R-f>VP Fl>fl. • .. ,.-,,u L6~'T&♦ ,C.l l>S'. 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 16 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... (:)::] PFLAG LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, February 5, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 17 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... SIGN UP BY 2/15/22 SPONSORED BY: Visit our website for additional information and to sign up! LittleBlueHouseAtTU.org/SpecialEvents okl"'1orm,ns for equality liHle blue houH Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, February 2, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 18 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, February 9, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 19 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... I OKEQ Game Night Tuesday, January 25, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play with others? Then Game Night is for you! Join us on the last Tuesday of every month from 5:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Every Fourth Thursday at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 20 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... Tulsa, OK 74120 Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 21 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act - - - - - People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ------Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 22 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... Emergency Rental Assistance Program OKE , okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 23 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... Th City of ulsa 1s committ d to er at ng re p ctful nd professional work environment. on I ion in d. City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 24 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Support Group for Parents of Transgender People \ : / 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 25 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 26 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule an appointment Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, January 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 27 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - Support Group for Parents of Transgender People \. i ~ • !1 IT f .!·' \/,r \ "', f\ m~ , ''1111 I 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. ~, .. ~ Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - Tulsa Area Prime Timers Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to Support Group for supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Equality Game Night 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 28 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. sa(Te ~~~~:~~! ~, LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- · -- SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. www.okeq.org/eba ---- 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 29 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Every Tuesday from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 30 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 31 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Jane Wiseman 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day 32 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dr--Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Day.h... Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross William Vaughn Monique Washington Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:53 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c76f6ffd56e8bb94d154de80a5df3c96.pdf c4d92e0ff619798a6bf04869652be497 PDF Text Text Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 1 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews January 24th, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Introducing our King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022, King Mykal Khrystian and Queen Kitty Quinn Khrystian! 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 2 of 34 Congratulations to Michael James! Michael was awarded the Tulsa Pride 2022 Bill Francisco Community Hero Award at the 2022 Pride Pageant. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... Congratulations to Granny Rainbow for being crowned the Queen Mother of the Tulsa Pride Royal Family! MASKS ARE REQUIRED AT THE DENNIS R. NEILL 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 3 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... EQUALITY CENTER MASK UP! Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 4 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... SAGE Meeting Tuesday, January 25, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. EBA Mixer Thursday, January 27, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Queenies 1816 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114 https://www.queeniesoftulsa.com/ Located in Utica Square, Queenies is a farm-to-table cafe and bakery that uses locally sourced ingredients for breakfasts, sandwiches, and entrees. Queenies will be hosting the EBA mixer for the month of January and will be providing desserts, appetizers, and drinks for those in attendance. This mixer will have plenty of opportunities to mix and mingle with other local businesses and community members. Please RSVP below! RSVP Here 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 5 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... Proud Brunch Saturday, February 19, 11:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ for our Proud Brunch as we celebrate Black History Month! Tickets are $10 and include mimosas, buffet brunch, and performances by some of Oklahoma's most talented Kings and Queens! 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 6 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... Proof of vaccination and masks will be required for this event. Buy Your Tickets Here 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 7 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... Pride Bingo 2022 Saturday, February 26, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for a night of fun as we raise money for Tulsa Pride! Entertainment will be provided by Granny Rainbow, King Mykal Khrystian, Queen Kitty Quinn Khrystian, Anita Richards, and Scrappy Legacy! This event is 18 and up. Proof of vaccination and masks will be required for this event. Buy Your Tickets Here Margaret K. Eagler's "Your Weeds are My Wild Flowers" Open All Month Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 8 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... Tulsa, OK 74120 Margaret was raised in a family of highly creative people with perfectionist and success-driven tendencies. Margaret was put in a box of "only" being creative with the written word by her family, and discovering painting helped break out of that box and discover new ideas, talents, and freedom. When the pandemic struck and Margaret's work became remote access, she knew she had to have something to DO that was not work-related or she would fall into the habit of working non-stop. So, even though she had "no talent," she decided to pick up acrylic paint. Margaret fell head over heels in love with the process and learned many life lessons through her projects, such as there is no right or wrong in art; if you don't like something, you can start over or completely change it - learn from it; mistakes are incredibly valuable in learning; the play of color and light is as much about the shadows and spaces as it is about the focus. As Margaret continued to explore her more artistic side, she discovered that some of the characteristics in her that had been so strictly constrained by her family of origin were actually qualities that she craved and that she was at her best when able to touch on those hidden aspects of herself. One day while discussing, with a friend, the nature of growth and learning to love one's self as a whole person, not lacking because of someone else's prescribed identity, the concept of the dandelion kept coming up - how much her sons loved to give her dandelions and how much her neighbors put in work to kill those glorious wildflowers. She realized, just like some people think dandelions are weeds, and she thinks they are wildflowers, she may not be what others think she should be, but that doesn't take away one bit of who she is meant to be. Margaret works as a Child Welfare Specialist with the Department of Human Services. She spends her days working to help families change the way they live life on this planet in order to provide a safe and secure environment for her family. Margaret likes nothing more than when a parent gets to bring their child home and successfully complete their case. Margaret has found that in advocating for the vulnerable, she must examine her own vulnerability, and painting has helped to bring grounding and allowed a safe space to examine those vulnerabilities. Margaret will continue to make a stand for both clients and friends; fight for the rejected, the marginalized, the hurting, and the weary; and stand with those who are standing for themselves. Margaret's desire is that those who look at her art see the full range of emotions and relational connection and celebrate differences and imperfections. The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, January 1st, with COVID measures in place for those Non-vaccinated. The Artist Reception is Thursday, January 6th, at 6:00 p.m. The exhibit continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit www.okeq.org. 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 9 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party Friday, January 28, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ, Studio 66, and Black Queer Tulsa for a weekly RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party! We will have fun raffles, a cash bar, and a great community each week! The event is free to attend. 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 10 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... OKEQ Taking Nominations for Community Awards Oklahomans for Equality is now taking nominations to recognize individuals or groups who have impacted the fight for equality for the LGBTQ+ community. These awards will be presented at the annual Equality Gala on April 30th, 2022, at the Cox Business Convention Center Grand Hall. Lifetime Achievement Award - Recognizes a lifetime dedication to the cause of equality for the LGBTQ+ community in Oklahoma. Community Hero Award - Recognizes individuals and groups who have represented or served our community in the previous year. The Rev. Russell Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion - Presented to a faith leader who leads and supports affirming the faith of the LGBTQ+ community in our local congregations. Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award - Presented to a local youth who demonstrates extraordinary character and makes a positive difference in their school, youth group, and community. Grand Marshal for the Tulsa Gay Pride Parade June 2nd - Recognizes an individual who has supported the LGBTQ+ community courageously and visibly. Dennis R. Neill Collegiate Leadership Award - Presented to a local college student who demonstrates extraordinary character and makes a positive difference in their school and community. Nancy McDonald Advocacy Award - Recognizes an individual who advocates for inclusion, equality for not only the LGBTQ community but for all marginalized populations. Bishop-Baldwin, Barton & Phillips Civil Rights Advocacy Award - Presented to those individuals who have fought for equality through the United States Justice system. Lynn Riggs Performing Arts Award - Honors individuals or groups that have advanced LGBTQ awareness through the fine arts. Workplace Inclusion Award - Recognizes a workplace that has shown a commitment to diversity and inclusion. Click Here for Nomination Form 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 11 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... Welcome to -&Jtl~OOl) First Thursday Art Exhibition: The Greenwood Joy Experience Artist Reception, Thursday, February 3rd, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Dawn Tree is an abstract surrealist painter/ graphic artist, author, storyteller, journalist, spoken word artist, educator and DJ. Tree was born in St. Louis, MO and resides dually in Ghana’s Eastern Region and Tulsa, Oklahoma. She earned her BA in Journalism and minor in Africana Studies from the University of Oklahoma. Dawn Tree’s passion for African and Black American cultural representation is clear in her artwork. In 2021, she presented The Greenwood Joy Experience as part of the Greenwood (Tulsa) Race Massacre Centennial. This interactive exhibit of visual art, historical artifacts, food, music, and community both examined and embodied the deeply sustaining joy that has endured in Black consciousness through generations of constant and violent injustice. Tree is currently displaying work, including "The Frequency of Fear" at the University of Tulsa, Alexandre Hogue Gallery. Her chosen medium includes wood canvas with latex acrylic, aerosol, found objects including feathers, skulls/bones, branches, etc. Tree has held residencies and exhibitions all over the world including Ghana, New York, Maryland, Philadelphia and more. The show opens with The Artist Reception with Dawn Tree at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, February 3rd, 2022 at 6:00 p.m. with COVID measures in place. The exhibit continues throughout the month. • LOVE iS FO EVERYONE • • + • - • • + 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 12 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... + • . Q. (~~- oklahom ns for equ lltv • NEFF OKEQ Love is for Everyone Pint Night Thursday, February 10, 5:00 p.m. Neff Brewing 321 S. Frankfort Ave., Suite #2 Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on February 10th for a special "Love is for Everyone" Pint Night benefiting Oklahomans for Equality Center. We will have some great limited edition stemmed glasses featuring the art above. This glass is free with the purchase of a pint (beer TBD), and proceeds go to benefit our neighbors at the Oklahomans for Equality Center. We are "Brewed for Everyone," and one of our core values at NEFF Brewing is inclusivity. We are committed to serving everyone, no matter their age, race, ethnicity, nationality, sexual orientation, gender identity and expression, religion, or disability, with respect or kindness. Facebook Event Page COVID Vaccine Clinic Saturday, February 12, 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 St. Francis will be holding a clinic at the Equality Center for people to get their COVID vaccines! They will provide Pfizer vaccine for those five years of age and older for all doses (1st, 2nd, and boosters). COY.ID Vaccines at the Equality Center January 22nd 4-7 pm February 12th 4-7 pm • 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 13 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... THE DRAG QUEEN CAIN'S BALLROOM ., ·~ ... ',, ·:. , ....·.: .... ........ . ....... ...... • FRIDAY MARCH 11, 2022 .. ' '• ~ . :~ Bob The Drag Queen Friday, March 11th Cain's Ballroom 423 N. Main St. Tulsa, OK 74103 Bob The Drag Queen is having a moment. A MAJOR moment! The season 8 winner of RuPaul's Drag Race was noted for her focus on comedy. Bob won three challenges during the show, including the recurring "Snatch Game," where she exquisitely portrayed Uzo Aduba and Carol Channing. Bob is back with a plethora of projects to impress. She is currently starring alongside Shangela Laquifa Wadley and Eureka O'Hara in HBO's first unscripted hit series, "We're Here", which was just renewed for a second season and is nominated for the Emmy Award for Best Unstructured Reality Series. She also has a brand new comedy special, "Bob The Drag Queen: Live at Caroline's" as well as MTV's "Drag My Dad" series, "The Pit Stop", and her everpopular podcast "Sibling Rivalry" with best friend, touring partner and RuPaul AllStar Drag Race winner herself Monet X Change. 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 14 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... Bob may have won Drag Race, but it's her comedic prowess that is really shining brightest of all. With two comedy specials under her belt, Bob is making the world laugh with her impeccable timing and true tale stories about her life and hilarious observations. Click Here for Tickets HealthCare.gov has SAVINGS to make you smile. 4 out of 5 customers can find a plan for less than $70/month. Enroll today! w OS SSU SA POR 'A T O YOU? t Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 15 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Monday and Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Elissa Furlong is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. She is from upstate New York but attended Mississippi College School of Law, graduating at the top of her class. In addition to having worked for two private attorneys, Elissa has previously interned with the legal department of a United Nations agency. Ms. Furlong has also completed legal fellowships and externships in the areas of employment discrimination, workers' rights, civil rights, and LGBTQ+ legislation and advocacy. Elissa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-409-2115, or email her at elissa.furlong@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements pertaining to fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, February 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 16 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, February 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us _,. "' .OUTSIDE · . THEB - - .. ~ - ~VP.ru ~rJ MnnA11u nf +hP. Mnn+h 11+ lnm 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 17 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... Outside the Box Monday, February 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Kelly Halpine 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 18 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... December 30, 2021 Luis Lopez December 30, 2021 Caleb Robert Townsend August 17, 1994 - January 19, 2021 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 19 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... 61,/)VP -------A Ml>NfM~Y 6U)VP Fl>t. PAt.fJJ1'$ Wl'f'M ~6~-r~+ ,c.t 1>S'. <;:)-:] PFLAG LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, February 5, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. ~ CONDON - a -NANIA■ 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 20 of 34 SIGN UP BY 2/15/22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... SPONSORED BY: Visit our website for additional information and to sign up! LittleBlueHouseAtTU.org/SpecialEvents okl"'1omans for equality little blue house Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, February 2, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 21 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca ema1 h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, February 9, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 22 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act -----People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 23 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ------Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 24 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... OKE , okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 25 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... Th City of Tulsa is committ d to ere t ng re p ctful nd professional work environment. I t on 0 I in n City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 26 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 27 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 28 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule an appointment Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex Virtual Thursday, February 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 29 of 34 individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org - - --- Support Group for Parents of Transgender People https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... ' Support Group for Transgender Teens hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. \. i ~ • !1 IT f ' .!· \/,r \ "', f\ m~ , ''1111 I ~, .. ~ Support Group for Parents of Transgender People The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 30 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Community Partners EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. Every Tuesday www.okeq.org/eba ----- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 31 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Kao Morris 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 32 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 33 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross William Vaughn Monique Washington Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:53 PM �Congratulations to the King & Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 34 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-the-King---Qu... 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:53 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5339db15502a4ce43184f04c4c4eff61.pdf 36991cb285b169b2e0998356e890b7fa PDF Text Text Celebrating Black History Month! 1 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews January 31st, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! "For me, forgiveness and compassion are always linked: how do we hold people accountable for wrongdoing and yet at the same time remain in touch with their humanity enough to believe in 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 2 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... their capacity to be transformed?" bell hooks Author •BLACKHISTORYMONTH MASKS ARE REQUIRED AT THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 3 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... sao-e~ ~~~~~:~~o~ c) LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. SAGE Meeting Tuesday, February 1, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 4 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Welcome to -&trt1r1001) ~ ,_ J L ~ First Thursday Art Exhibition: The Greenwood Joy Experience Artist Reception, Thursday, February 3rd, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Dawn Tree is an abstract surrealist painter/ graphic artist, author, storyteller, journalist, spoken word artist, educator and DJ. Tree was born in St. Louis, MO and resides dually in Ghana’s Eastern Region and Tulsa, Oklahoma. She earned her BA in Journalism and minor in Africana Studies from the University of Oklahoma. Dawn Tree’s passion for African and Black American cultural representation is clear in her artwork. In 2021, she presented The Greenwood Joy Experience as part of the Greenwood (Tulsa) Race Massacre Centennial. This interactive exhibit of visual art, historical artifacts, food, music, and community both examined and embodied the deeply sustaining joy that has endured in Black consciousness through generations of constant and violent injustice. Tree is currently displaying work, including "The Frequency of Fear" at the University of Tulsa, Alexandre Hogue Gallery. Her chosen medium includes wood canvas with latex acrylic, aerosol, found objects including feathers, skulls/bones, branches, etc. Tree has held residencies and exhibitions all over the world including Ghana, New York, Maryland, Philadelphia and more. The show opens with The Artist Reception with Dawn Tree at the Dennis R. Neill 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 5 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, February 3rd, 2022 at 6:00 p.m. with COVID measures in place. The exhibit continues throughout the month. Proud Brunch Saturday, February 19, 11:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 6 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ for our Proud Brunch as we celebrate Black History Month! Tickets are $10 and include mimosas, buffet brunch, and performances by some of Oklahoma's most talented Kings and Queens! Proof of vaccination and masks will be required for this event. Buy Your Tickets Here 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 7 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... Pride Bingo 2022 Saturday, February 26, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for a night of fun as we raise money for Tulsa Pride! Entertainment will be provided by Granny Rainbow, King Mykal Khrystian, Queen Kitty Quinn Khrystian, Anita Richards, and Scrappy Legacy! This event is 18 and up. Proof of vaccination and masks will be required for this event. Buy Your Tickets Here RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party Friday, February 4, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ, Studio 66, and Black Queer Tulsa for a weekly RuPaul's Drag Race 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 8 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... Watch Party! We will have fun raffles, a cash bar, and a great community each week! The event is free to attend. RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party Thursday, February 17, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here OKEQ Taking Nominations for Community Awards Oklahomans for Equality is now taking nominations to recognize individuals or groups who have impacted the fight for equality for the LGBTQ+ community. These awards will be presented at the annual Equality Gala on April 30th, 2022, at the Cox Business Convention Center Grand Hall. Lifetime Achievement Award - Recognizes a lifetime dedication to the cause of 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 9 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... equality for the LGBTQ+ community in Oklahoma. Community Hero Award - Recognizes individuals and groups who have represented or served our community in the previous year. The Rev. Russell Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion - Presented to a faith leader who leads and supports affirming the faith of the LGBTQ+ community in our local congregations. Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award - Presented to a local youth who demonstrates extraordinary character and makes a positive difference in their school, youth group, and community. Grand Marshal for the Tulsa Gay Pride Parade June 2nd - Recognizes an individual who has supported the LGBTQ+ community courageously and visibly. Dennis R. Neill Collegiate Leadership Award - Presented to a local college student who demonstrates extraordinary character and makes a positive difference in their school and community. Nancy McDonald Advocacy Award - Recognizes an individual who advocates for inclusion, equality for not only the LGBTQ community but for all marginalized populations. Bishop-Baldwin, Barton & Phillips Civil Rights Advocacy Award - Presented to those individuals who have fought for equality through the United States Justice system. Lynn Riggs Performing Arts Award - Honors individuals or groups that have advanced LGBTQ awareness through the fine arts. Workplace Inclusion Award - Recognizes a workplace that has shown a commitment to diversity and inclusion. Click Here for Nomination Form y. • + • • ♦ • LOVE iS FOR EVERYONE • • • + ,, + ¥ ~ 4" -.. ♦ • + • • .,.. • + + • -+ . . . -,.. • l:'--~ • ·r.@-J. ~-~· . . • ct·. . • .. I • ancwcn cnn C\/CDVr\tJC r ... + • ; + lf •' ......... \ ~ ' - 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 10 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... 0K1anom ns ror equ 11ty ... NEFF OKEQ Love is for Everyone Pint Night Thursday, February 10, 5:00 p.m. Neff Brewing 321 S. Frankfort Ave., Suite #2 Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on February 10th for a special "Love is for Everyone" Pint Night benefiting Oklahomans for Equality Center. We will have some great limited edition stemmed glasses featuring the art above. This glass is free with the purchase of a pint (beer TBD), and proceeds go to benefit our neighbors at the Oklahomans for Equality Center. We are "Brewed for Everyone," and one of our core values at NEFF Brewing is inclusivity. We are committed to serving everyone, no matter their age, race, ethnicity, nationality, sexual orientation, gender identity and expression, religion, or disability, with respect or kindness. Facebook Event Page COVID Vaccine Clinic Saturday, February 12, 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 St. Francis will be holding a clinic at the Equality Center for people to get their COVID vaccines! They will provide Pfizer vaccine for those five years of age and older for all doses (1st, 2nd, and boosters). COVID Vaccines at the Equality Center January 22nd 4-7 pm February 12th 4-7 pm • 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 11 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... IT'S A RIGHT. www.healthcare.gov #Medicaid Matters W ~ SSUESAR E OS PORTA T O YOU? Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, February 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 12 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, February 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us _,. "' .OUTSIDEl · 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 13 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... THEB Outside the Box Monday, February 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 14 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... Caleb Robert Townsend August 17, 1994 - January 19, 2021 Michael Odell June 17th, 1994 - January 18th, 2022 Alice Bates For many years Miss Alice Bates has operated a Friend for a Friend. Her organization provided pet food and assistance with vet bills for people living with HIV/AIDS in the Greater Tulsa area. Those who were fortunate enough to get to know her know how special she was. She was 97 years old. 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 15 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... Sabrina Kay Marshall/Justin Flowers L68T•+ PAUNT SVl¥0ft.T 6ft.OVP __ A MONTULY 6/tOVP Foe PAeENrS WITU L6BT~+ ICll>S. LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, February 5, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 16 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. ~ CONDON ~ -NANIA! SIGN UP BY 2/15/22 SPONSORED BY: Visit our website for additional information and to sign up! LittleBlueHouseAtTU.org/SpecialEvents oklallomana for equ llty liHle blue houH 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 17 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... Bob The Drag Queen Friday, March 11th Cain's Ballroom 423 N. Main St. Tulsa, OK 74103 OB THE DRAG QUEEN Bob The Drag Queen is having a moment. A MAJOR moment! The season 8 winner of RuPaul's Drag Race was noted for her focus on comedy. Bob won three challenges FRIDAY during the show, MARCH 11, 2022 including the recurring "Snatch Game," where she exquisitely portrayed Uzo Aduba and Carol Channing. CAIN'S BALLROOM i1;,, <Jr\- Bob is back with a plethora of projects to impress. She is currently starring alongside Shangela Laquifa Wadley and Eureka O'Hara in HBO's first unscripted hit series, "We're Here", which was just renewed for a second season and is nominated for the Emmy Award for Best Unstructured Reality Series. She also has a brand new comedy special, "Bob The Drag Queen: Live at Caroline's" as well as MTV's "Drag My Dad" series, "The Pit Stop", and her everpopular podcast "Sibling Rivalry" with best friend, touring partner and RuPaul AllStar Drag Race winner herself Monet X Change. Bob may have won Drag Race, but it's her comedic prowess that is really shining brightest of all. With two comedy specials under her belt, Bob is making the world laugh with her impeccable timing and true tale stories about her life and hilarious observations. Click Here for Tickets Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop _ .___ 1<:;t \A/,v.JnArrlN11 At[, 1M·1 1 Unnf-h [ 7r'l,~ = i ,.nn:1,- ~,1,1,1,1,1,11 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 18 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... 1-· VVtUI lt)UU~ VI [Vtl ~ l'IVI Ill I, J:Jv-r:uopn Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Virtual Session for February Wednesday, February 2, 5:30 p.m. Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca ema1 h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 19 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, February 9, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Just As I Am by E. Lynn Harris Raymond, a young black lawyer from the South, struggles to come to terms with his sexuality and with the grim reality of AIDS. Nicole, an aspiring singer/ actress, experiences frustration in both her career and her attempts to find a genuine love relationship. Both characters share an eclectic group of friends who challenge them and the reader to look at themselves and the world around them through different eyes. Ii. LYNN "L HARRIS u,.,o H""fl'S'SfflC H .1HOUOHT• l'1IIOYOIUNG, CO,.T'1:N.- ..ltY, &f:U' &"'f01W1tt1.tN 0 O~&"OU 50 WVC:t-1101Hl"II.AN0 T"'-KADOU'T.- flN• -O>'AN9._ ....,,... 0., 00' UGl.l'WAl'S AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 20 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... E. Lynn Harris - was a nine-time ew York Times bestselling author. His work includes the memoir What Becomes of the Brokenhearted and the novels A Love of My Own, Just as I Am, Any Way the Wind Blows (all three of which were named ovel of the Year by the Blackboard African Am erican Bestsellers}, I Say a Little Prayer, If This World ---------------------==ii. Were Mine (which won the James Baldwin Award for E. LYNN HARRIS # PassTheEquallty The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 21 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act -----People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ------Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 22 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... Emergency Rental Assistance Program OKE , okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 23 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 24 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule an appointment Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Gender Support Program Virtual Thursday, February 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Board Meeting Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Regularly Scheduled Programming Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. '('" 25 of 30 OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. 4/28/26, 3:54 PM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month.. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Celebrating Black History Month! C- ✓ �Celebrating Black History Month! 26 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Join us for Alphabet SOUP, Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group where all letters are welcome! Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Tulsa Area Prime Timers SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. The program is providing 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 27 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. sao-e ~~~~:~{! ~~ LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. Every Tuesday www.okeq.org/eba ----- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 28 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC l~PISOllliOn THIOIOIIOl~AIIIII •,\MILY•OUPIOIITIOPI Lily Piña Donovid Sekulits 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 29 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director 4/28/26, 3:54 PM �Celebrating Black History Month! 30 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Black-History-Month... She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross William Vaughn Monique Washington Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:54 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/06372675d22e2c5ae362ea05c2c6afb7.pdf c6fc921eee1784e3f248e77ce013a93a PDF Text Text Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 1 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews February 7th, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! "Let us be enraged about injustice, but let us not be destroyed by it." 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 2 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... MASKS ARE REQUIRED AT THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 3 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... • VOTE TUES FEB 8! YOUR VOTE MATTERS TO LGBTQ+ VOUTHI School Board elections for Broken Arrow, Tulsa, and Union Public Schools will be held Tuesday, February 8th. We encourage all constituents to get out and exercise their constitutional right to VOTE! LGBTQIA+ students are counting on you for the Tulsa School Board elections! 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 4 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ ~~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. SAGE Meeting Tuesday, February 8, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 5 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. SAGE Last Friday Museum Visit Friday, February 25, 11:30 a.m. Meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join SAGE as we go to the Greenwood Rising Black Wall St. History Center! RSVP by emailing Toby Jenkins below and put "Greenwood Rising SAGE" in the Subject Line. Please bring money for lunch. RSVP Here Welcome to PE: :I:E:HG:f! 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 6 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... First Thursday Art Exhibition: The Greenwood Joy Experience Artist Reception, Thursday, February 10th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Dawn Tree is an abstract surrealist painter/graphic artist, author, storyteller, journalist, spoken word artist, educator and DJ. Tree was born in St. Louis, MO and resides dually in Ghana’s Eastern Region and Tulsa, Oklahoma. She earned her BA in Journalism and minor in Africana Studies from the University of Oklahoma. Dawn Tree’s passion for African and Black American cultural representation is clear in her artwork. In 2021, she presented The Greenwood Joy Experience as part of the Greenwood (Tulsa) Race Massacre Centennial. This interactive exhibit of visual art, historical artifacts, food, music, and community both examined and embodied the deeply sustaining joy that has endured in Black consciousness through generations of constant and violent injustice. Tree is currently displaying work, including "The Frequency of Fear" at the University of Tulsa, Alexandre Hogue Gallery. Her chosen medium includes wood canvas with latex acrylic, aerosol, found objects including feathers, skulls/bones, branches, etc. Tree has held residencies and exhibitions all over the world including Ghana, New York, Maryland, Philadelphia and more. The show opens with The Artist Reception with Dawn Tree at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, February 10th, 2022 at 6:00 p.m. with COVID measures in place. The exhibit continues throughout the month. 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 7 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... Proud Brunch Saturday, February 19, 11:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ for our Proud Brunch as we celebrate Black History Month! Tickets are $10 and include mimosas, buffet brunch, and performances by some of Oklahoma's most talented Kings and Queens! Proof of vaccination and masks will be required for this event. Buy Your Tickets Here 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 8 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... Pride Bingo 2022 Saturday, February 26, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for a night of fun as we raise money for Tulsa Pride! Entertainment will be provided by Granny Rainbow, King Mykal Khrystian, Queen Kitty Quinn Khrystian, Anita Richards, and Scrappy Legacy! This event is 18 and up. Proof of vaccination and masks will be required for this event. Buy Your Tickets Here 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 9 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party Friday, February 11, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ, Studio 66, and Black Queer Tulsa for a weekly RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party! We will have fun raffles, a cash bar, and a great community each week! The event is free to attend. 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 10 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Mac Taylor's Comedy Revue Thursday, February 17, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here OKEQ Taking Nominations for Community Awards Oklahomans for Equality is now taking nominations to recognize individuals or groups who have impacted the fight for equality for the LGBTQ+ community. These awards will be presented at the annual Equality Gala on April 30th, 2022, at the Cox Business Convention Center Grand Hall. Lifetime Achievement Award - Recognizes a lifetime dedication to the cause of equality for the LGBTQ+ community in Oklahoma. Community Hero Award - Recognizes individuals and groups who have represented or served our community in the previous year. The Rev. Russell Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion - Presented to a faith leader who leads and supports affirming the faith of the LGBTQ+ community in our local congregations. Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award - Presented to a local youth who demonstrates extraordinary character and makes a positive difference in their school, youth group, and community. Grand Marshal for the Tulsa Gay Pride Parade June 25th - Recognizes an individual who has supported the LGBTQ+ community courageously and visibly. Dennis R. Neill Collegiate Leadership Award - Presented to a local college student who demonstrates extraordinary character and makes a positive difference in their school and community. Nancy McDonald Advocacy Award - Recognizes an individual who advocates for inclusion, equality for not only the LGBTQ community but for all marginalized populations. 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 11 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... Bishop-Baldwin, Barton & Phillips Civil Rights Advocacy Award - Presented to those individuals who have fought for equality through the United States Justice system. Lynn Riggs Performing Arts Award - Honors individuals or groups that have advanced LGBTQ awareness through the fine arts. Workplace Inclusion Award - Recognizes a workplace that has shown a commitment to diversity and inclusion. Click Here for Nomination Form y. ♦ • + • • • LOVE iS FOR EVERYONE ~ ·. + • + .. .,,, • • •• + .... .... + .,.. • + •• BREWED FOR EVERYONE I.JOVE PINT ■IIIIT NEFF OKEQ Love is for Everyone Pint Night Thursday, February 10, 5:00 p.m. Neff Brewing 321 S. Frankfort Ave., Suite #2 Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on February 10th for a special "Love is for Everyone" Pint Night benefiting Oklahomans for Equality Center. We will have some great limited edition stemmed glasses featuring the art above. This glass is free with the purchase of a pint (beer TBD), and proceeds go to benefit our neighbors at the Oklahomans for Equality Center. We are "Brewed for Everyone," and one of our core values at NEFF Brewing is inclusivity. We are committed to serving everyone, no matter their age, race, ethnicity, nationality, sexual orientation, gender identity and expression, religion, 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 12 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... or disability, with respect or kindness. Facebook Event Page COVID Vaccine Clinic Saturday, February 12, 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 St. Francis will be holding a clinic at the Equality Center for people to get their COVID vaccines! They will provide Pfizer vaccine for those five years of age and older for all doses (1st, 2nd, and boosters). COVID Vaccines at the Equality Center January 22nd 4-7 pm February 12th 4-7 pm • PEACE OF MIND #MEDICAIDMATTERS 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 13 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... Having health insurance gives you peace of mind knowing that if you get sick or injured, you will be able to get the care you need and avoid large medical bills. See if you qualify for Medicaid at Healthcare.gov. #PeaceOfMind #MedicaidMatters EQ Legislative Upd Here's what's on the agenda for 20 OKEQ has compiled a list of bills that we oppose and support. Please read them and contact your legislator to let them know you do not support this kind of overt hate against our community. 2022 Legislative Agenda Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, February 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Find Your Legislator • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 14 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, February 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 15 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... Josh Willhite The Funeral will be held on Saturday, February 12th, 10:00 at Glorious Church Fellowship Ginger was not only the Queen of 39th Street but to some she was the Queen of the Fuc•ing UNIVERSE! Her trademark hair and amazing humor will definitely be missed! '. .My condolences to Ginger's Family and host of Friends! Ginger Lamar Learn About Ginger's Legacy Alice Bates For many years Miss Alice Bates has operated a Friend for a Friend. Her organization provided pet food and assistance with vet bills for people living with HIV/AIDS in the Greater Tulsa area. Those who were fortunate enough to get to know her know how special she was. She was 97 years old. Obituary 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 16 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... Caleb Robert Townsend August 17, 1994 - January 19, 2021 Michael Odell June 17th, 1994 - January 18th, 2022 Sabrina Kay Marshall/Justin Flowers Obituary Outside the Box Monday, February 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 17 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... the Box is an ongoing allinclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. _r ,VU I ~ILIC ' THEB ~ W Ii. ISSU SAR OST POR 'A T O YOU? 1 Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 18 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... p1,,sJTr ,svHt>'--r 61,/)VP ____ A ,-tt>NfML-Y 61,.(>VP Fl>t. PAt.fJJf'S Wl1'M L.648-r~+ l'I E>S'. (:}J PFLAG LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, March 5, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. ~ CONDON - • -NANIA■ 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 19 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... SPONSORED BY: SIGN UP BY 2/15/22 Visit our website for additional information and to sign up! LittleBlueHouseAtTU.org/SpecialEvents okl"'1ommRS for equality Bob The Drag Queen Friday, March 11th Cain's Ballroom 423 N. Main St. Tulsa, OK 74103 Bob The Drag Queen is having a moment. A MAJOR moment! The season 8 winner of RuPaul's Drag Race was noted for her focus on comedy. Bob won three challenges during the show, including the recurring "Snatch Game," where she exquisitely liHle blue house BOB THE DRAG QUEEN CAIN'S BALLROOM FRIDAY \):'. ·.•. -~---:- MARCH 11, 2022 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 20 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... portrayed Uzo Aduba and Carol Channing. Bob is back with a plethora of projects to impress. She is currently starring alongside Shangela Laquifa Wadley and Eureka O'Hara in HBO's first unscripted hit series, "We're Here", which was just renewed for a second season and is nominated for the Emmy Award for Best Unstructured Reality Series. She also has a brand new comedy special, "Bob The Drag Queen: Live at Caroline's" as well as MTV's "Drag My Dad" series, "The Pit Stop", and her everpopular podcast "Sibling Rivalry" with best friend, touring partner and RuPaul AllStar Drag Race winner herself Monet X Change. Bob may have won Drag Race, but it's her comedic prowess that is really shining brightest of all. With two comedy specials under her belt, Bob is making the world laugh with her impeccable timing and true tale stories about her life and hilarious observations. Click Here for Tickets Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 21 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, March 2, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke h C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contactJosh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, February 9, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 22 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Afrekete: An Anthology: of Black Lesbian Writing Afrekete gives a collective voice to the tradition of black lesbian writing. In the vast and proliferating area of African-American and lesbian and gay writing, the work of black lesbians is most often excluded or relegated to the margins. Afrekete meshes these seemingly disparate traditions and celebrates black lesbian experiences in all their variety and depth. [;]~[;] Afrekete AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Catherine E. McKinley is a graduate of Sarah Lawrence College. She is a writer whose work has appeared in Black Women in America: An Historical Encyclopedia and various magazines and journals, including Essence, Emerge, and Ms. 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 23 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... ~ l it:: U V t:: ;:) Ul Dl UUl\.l yu , 1, t:: n 1 Ul I\., CATHERINE E. MCKINLEY,.._._ _ _ __ # PassTheEquallty The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act - - - - - People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 24 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ------Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 25 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... OKE okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly IIUI 111111 111111 111111 1111111 111111 1111 • 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 26 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 27 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule an appointment Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 28 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, February 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom The program is providing support, education, and The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 29 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... social opportunities for parents of transgender people. tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Equality Game Night Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. sao-e ~~~~:~~! A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm ~~ LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 30 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... ■, -- UALITY Business Alliance .. ~ ■ ~sting H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. Every Tuesday www.okeq.org/eba from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 31 of 33 Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONIOREO ■ Y THlOEOROIU.ISll ,.\MtlVPOUNDIITION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 32 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo 4/28/26, 3:55 PM �Join us for the Greenwood Joy Experience! 33 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-the-Greenwood-Joy-E... Justin Ross William Vaughn Monique Washington Visit Our Website Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:55 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b7a7c45b3c258823bf5f263ed13b2416.pdf b4ab00fe33bf6ee498e8caba897831ac PDF Text Text Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 1 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews February 14th, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! BLACK ono wa tolerated, or misnamed. 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 2 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... Iwant to be recognized." MASKS ARE REQUIRED AT THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 3 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... • END CONVERSION THERAPY PROTECT OKLAHOMA'S LGBTQIA+ YOUTH. ACTION ALERT: HB2973 has made it through committee and could be on its way for a floor vote in the Oklahoma House of Representatives. This bill aims to protect conversion therapy under the guise of religious freedom. This bill is dangerous and puts LGBTQ+ people, especially LGBTQ+ young people, at risk of harm. Please contact the Majority Floor Leader, Representative Jon Echols, and urge him not to let this bill come to a vote. Contact Rep. Jon Echols Here 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 4 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Mac Taylor's Comedy Revue Thursday, February 17, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 5 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... Proud Brunch Saturday, February 19, 11:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ for our Proud Brunch as we celebrate Black History Month! Tickets are $10 and include mimosas, buffet brunch, and performances by some of Oklahoma's most talented Kings and Queens! Proof of vaccination and masks will be required for this event. Buy Your Tickets Here sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ c) ~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 6 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... SAGE Meeting Tuesday, February 15, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 7 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... SAGE Last Friday Museum Visit Friday, February 25, 11:00 a.m. Meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join SAGE as we go to the Greenwood Rising Black Wall St. History Center! RSVP by emailing Toby Jenkins below and put "Greenwood Rising SAGE" in the Subject Line. Please bring money for lunch. RSVP Here Welcome to p~ :CE:HCf! First Thursday Art Exhibition: The Greenwood Joy Experience Open Through the Month of February Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Dawn Tree is an abstract surrealist painter/ graphic artist, author, storyteller, journalist, spoken word artist, educator and DJ. Tree was born in St. Louis, MO and resides dually in Ghana’s Eastern Region and Tulsa, Oklahoma. She earned her BA in Journalism and minor in Africana Studies from the University of Oklahoma. Dawn Tree’s passion for African and Black American cultural representation is clear in her artwork. In 2021, she presented The Greenwood Joy Experience as part of the Greenwood (Tulsa) Race Massacre Centennial. This interactive exhibit of visual art, historical artifacts, food, music, and community both examined and embodied the deeply sustaining joy that has endured in Black consciousness through generations of constant and violent injustice. Tree is currently displaying work, including "The Frequency of Fear" at the University of Tulsa, Alexandre Hogue Gallery. Her chosen medium includes wood canvas with latex acrylic, 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 8 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... aerosol, found objects including feathers, skulls/bones, branches, etc. Tree has held residencies and exhibitions all over the world including Ghana, New York, Maryland, Philadelphia and more. You can view the exhibit in-person through the month of February or you can watch the youtube video below to hear the artist's perspective on each piece. Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 9 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... Pride Bingo 2022 Saturday, February 26, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for a night of fun as we raise money for Tulsa Pride! Entertainment will be provided by Granny Rainbow, King Mykal Khrystian, Queen Kitty Quinn Khrystian, Anita Richards, and Scrappy Legacy! This event is 18 and up. Proof of vaccination and masks will be required for this event. Buy Your Tickets Here 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 10 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party Friday, February 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ, Studio 66, and Black Queer Tulsa for a weekly RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party! We will have fun raffles, a cash bar, and a great community each week! The event is free to attend. Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. Contact Sylvester tulsacari~ HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION 6 ENROLLMENT -·• • •• ATOKEO EVERY TUES 10AM - 1PM I SYLVESTER HARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES CONTACT SYLVESTER: SYLV ESTERH@TU LSACARES.O RG 918.834A194 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 11 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... Show your loved ones you care about your health this Valentine’s Day. Medicaid covers doctor visits, emergency services, prescriptions, immunizations, and more, so you can stay healthy. Sign up today at healthcare.gov. EQ Legislative Upd Here's what's on the agenda for 20 OKEQ has compiled a list of bills that we oppose and support. Please read them and contact your legislator to let them know you do not support this kind of overt hate against our community. 2022 Legislative Agenda Find Your Legislator Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, February 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Pos¼-Op Support Group hr ~ ~~ 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 12 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, March 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 13 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... Max Birdwell Max was 15 years old and a student at the Broken Arrow Freshman Academy. James Morton April 13, 1940 - Feb 7, 2022 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 14 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... Josh Willhite The Funeral was held on Saturday, February 12th, 10:00 at Glorious Church Fellowship Ginger was not only the Queen of 39th Street but to some she was the Queen of the Fuc•ing UNIVERSE! Her trademark hair and amazing humor will definitely be missed! '. .My condolences to Ginger's Family and host of Friends! Ginger Lamar Learn About Ginger's Legacy Alice Bates For many years Miss Alice Bates has operated a Friend for a Friend. Her organization provided pet food and assistance with vet bills for people living with HIV/AIDS in the Greater Tulsa area. Those who were fortunate enough to get to know her know how special she was. She was 97 years old. Obituary 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 15 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... Caleb Robert Townsend August 17, 1994 - January 19, 2021 Michael Odell June 17th, 1994 - January 18th, 2022 Sabrina Kay Marshall/Justin Flowers Obituary Outside the Box Monday, February 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 16 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... the Box is an ongoing allinclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. _r ,VU I ~ILIC ' THEB ~ W Ii. ISSU SAR OST POR 'A T O YOU? 1 Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 17 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... p1,,sJTr ,svHt>'--r 61,/)VP ____ A ,-tt>NfML-Y 61,.(>VP Fl>t. PAt.fJJf'S Wl1'M L.648-r~+ l'I E>S'. (:}J PFLAG LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, March 5, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. ~ CONDON - • -NANIA■ 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 18 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... SPONSORED BY: SIGN UP BY 2/15/22 Visit our website for additional information and to sign up! LittleBlueHouseAtTU.org/SpecialEvents okl"'1ommRS for equality Bob The Drag Queen Friday, March 11th Cain's Ballroom 423 N. Main St. Tulsa, OK 74103 Bob The Drag Queen is having a moment. A MAJOR moment! The season 8 winner of RuPaul's Drag Race was noted for her focus on comedy. Bob won three challenges during the show, including the recurring "Snatch Game," where she exquisitely liHle blue house BOB THE DRAG QUEEN CAIN'S BALLROOM FRIDAY \):'. ·.•. -~---:- MARCH 11, 2022 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 19 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... portrayed Uzo Aduba and Carol Channing. Bob is back with a plethora of projects to impress. She is currently starring alongside Shangela Laquifa Wadley and Eureka O'Hara in HBO's first unscripted hit series, "We're Here", which was just renewed for a second season and is nominated for the Emmy Award for Best Unstructured Reality Series. She also has a brand new comedy special, "Bob The Drag Queen: Live at Caroline's" as well as MTV's "Drag My Dad" series, "The Pit Stop", and her everpopular podcast "Sibling Rivalry" with best friend, touring partner and RuPaul AllStar Drag Race winner herself Monet X Change. Bob may have won Drag Race, but it's her comedic prowess that is really shining brightest of all. With two comedy specials under her belt, Bob is making the world laugh with her impeccable timing and true tale stories about her life and hilarious observations. Click Here for Tickets Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 20 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, March 2, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke h C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contactJosh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, March 9, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 21 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Sister Outsider: Essays & Speeches by Audre Lorde The essential writings of black lesbian poet and feminist writer Audre Lorde celebrate an influential voice in hventieth-century literature. Lorde takes on sexism, racism, ageism, homophobia, and class and propounds social difference as a vehicle for action and change in this charged collection of fifteen essays and speeches. Her prose is incisive, unflinching, and lyrical, reflecting struggle but ultimately offering messages of hope. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Audre Lorde was an American writer, feminist, womanist, librarian, and civil rights activist. She was a self-described "Black, lesbian, mother, warrior, poet" who dedicated both her life and her creative talent to confronting and addressing injustices of racism, sexism, classism, 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 22 of 32 Au DR ( Lo RD( https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... -heterosexism. and homophobia # PassTheEquallty The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act - - - - - People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 23 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ------Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 24 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... OKE okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly IIUI 111111 111111 111111 1111111 111111 1111 • 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 25 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 26 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule an appointment Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 27 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, February 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom The program is providing support, education, and The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 28 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... social opportunities for parents of transgender people. tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Equality Game Night Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! sao-e ~~~~:~~! ~, The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Community Partners 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 29 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... - - LC;>LIIIO H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba ------ -- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 30 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 31 of 32 Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross William Vaughn Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman 4/28/26, 3:56 PM �Show Some Love for our Proud Brunch this Saturday! 32 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Show-Some-Love-for-our-Proud-... Monique Washington Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:56 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8722c5d3a969991f45d009061a00ec0a.pdf d1b25b713ea0a6865a3c05a87693b75a PDF Text Text Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 1 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews February 21st, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! February 21st is Sponsored by Christopher Rogers and Joann Frizell 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 2 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... In honor of Christopher Rogers' Mother's Birthday In honor of Joann Frizell's 60th Birthday "Sara Dianna Ruyle Rogers passed away on April 6, Joann Frizell is sponsoring the Equality Center in honor of her 60th Birthday. Happy Birthday, Joann! 2018, at age 72. She was one of thirteen children, and her spirit was even bigger than her family. She was a loving and supportive mother, always placing the needs of her children ahead of her own. She raised me to be the man that I am today, and I'll always appreciate the dedication, kindness, and support she showed me my entire life. Losing one's mother is an ordeal we all go through, yet we can never prepare. Today as every day, I Joann Frizell is the founder of the Rainbow Run, our annual 5k run that kicks off pride. She started this event to honor her gay brother who grew up in small town Oklahoma who now lives on the West Coast. Joann's dream is to make Oklahoma a better place. honor her memory and think of her beautiful face as I remember her with love. Rest In Peace, dearest Mother." "Every person should have an opportunity to live their best life. OKEQ provides so many avenues that help make that possible." Joann "History isn't something you look back at and say it was inevitable, it happens because people make decisions that are sometimes very impulsive and of the moment, but those moments are cumulative realities." 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 3 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... I- , -~ ~~ Activist •BLACKHIST0RYM0NTH MASKS ARE REQUIRED AT THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER MASK UP! TRANS YOUTH 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 4 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... DESERVE HEALTH CARE NOTO HB3240 J_ HB3240 is scheduled to be heard by the Houe Public Health Committee on Wednesday, February 23rd. HB3240 is a bill effectively banning medical care, mental health care, and social support for transgender and gender-expansive youth. This sweeping bill outlaws health care and therapy for transgender people under 18 and punishes healthcare workers who do so. It also outlaws insurances from covering transition procedures (hormones, puberty blockers). OKEQ condemns HB3240 and asks all constituents to contact members of the House Public Health Committee and say NO to HB3240. Contact House Public Health Committee Members END CONVERSION THERAPY PROTECT OKLAHOMA'S LGBTQIA+ YOUTH. 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 5 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... ACTION ALERT: HB2973 has made it through committee and could be on its way for a floor vote in the Oklahoma House of Representatives. This bill aims to protect conversion therapy under the guise of religious freedom. This bill is dangerous and puts LGBTQ+ people, especially LGBTQ+ young people, at risk of harm. Please contact the Majority Floor Leader, Representative Jon Echols, and urge him not to let this bill come to a vote. Contact Rep. Jon Echols Here sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ c) ~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 6 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... _i I SAGE Meeting Tuesday, February 22, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. SAGE Last Friday Museum Visit Friday, February 25, 11:00 a.m. Meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join SAGE as we go to the Greenwood Rising Black Wall St. History Center! RSVP by emailing Toby Jenkins below and put "Greenwood Rising SAGE" in the Subject Line. Please bring money for lunch. RSVP Here 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 7 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... Pride Bingo 2022 Saturday, February 26, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 8 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... Join us for a night of fun as we raise money for Tulsa Pride! Entertainment will be provided by Granny Rainbow, King Mykal Khrystian, Queen Kitty Quinn Khrystian, Anita Richards, and Scrappy Legacy! This event is 18 and up. Proof of vaccination and masks will be required for this event. Buy Your Tickets Here Welcome to PE: :CEHGf: First Thursday Art Exhibition: The Greenwood Joy Experience Open Through the Month of February Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Dawn Tree is an abstract surrealist painter/ graphic artist, author, storyteller, journalist, spoken word artist, educator and DJ. Tree was born in St. Louis, MO and resides dually in Ghana’s Eastern Region and Tulsa, Oklahoma. She earned her BA in Journalism and minor in Africana Studies from the University of Oklahoma. Dawn Tree’s passion for African and Black American cultural representation is clear in her artwork. In 2021, she presented The Greenwood Joy Experience as part of the Greenwood (Tulsa) Race Massacre Centennial. This interactive exhibit of visual art, historical artifacts, food, music, and community both examined and embodied the deeply sustaining joy that has endured in Black consciousness through generations of constant and violent injustice. Tree is currently displaying work, including "The Frequency of Fear" at the University of Tulsa, Alexandre Hogue Gallery. Her chosen medium includes wood canvas with latex acrylic, aerosol, found objects including feathers, skulls/bones, branches, etc. Tree has held residencies and exhibitions all over the world including Ghana, New York, Maryland, Philadelphia and more. You can view the exhibit in-person through the month of February or you can watch the youtube video below to hear the artist's perspective on each piece. 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 9 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party Friday, February 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ, Studio 66, and Black Queer Tulsa for a weekly RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party! We will have fun raffles, a cash bar, and a great community each week! The event is free to attend. 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 10 of 32 Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... tulsacari~ HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION 6 t e ENROLLMENT ATOKEQ EVERY TUES • I OAM . !PM • Contact Sylvester •• I SYLVESTERHARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES CONTACT SYLV ESTER, SYLVESTERH@TULSACARES.ORG 918.834.4194 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 11 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... they deserve Show your family some love and enroll in Medicaid. Doctor visits, emergency services, prescriptions, and immunizations will all be covered. Get free or low-cost health insurance today at healthcare.gov. #MedicaidMatters EQ Legislative Upd Here's what's on the agenda for 20 OKEQ has compiled a list of bills that we oppose and support. Please read them and contact your legislator to let them know you do not support this kind of overt hate against our community. 2022 Legislative Agenda Find Your Legislator First Thursday Art Exhibition: Tables by Tara Thursday, March 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Before teaching herself how to create custom wood tables only four years ago, Tara Frizell had never even operated a drill. Now, the Tulsa-based, Choctaw artist will be showcasing her work publicly for the first time at the Oklahomans for Equality’s Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 12 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... The exhibition, “A Place at the Table,” features a series of custom tables made specifically for the LGBTQ advocacy non-profit organization’s gallery. The tables’ designs and colors were inspired by several identity flags representing sexual and gender minorities. Each month, Oklahomans for Equality spotlights work by local artists in the gallery, which is located inside the Equality Center. Frizell has been selected as their featured artist for March, and her work will be on display for the entire month. Frizell is available for interviews during the gallery’s “First Thursday’s Artist Reception” on March 3rd, from 6:00-9:00 p.m. The media is welcome. “I am so grateful to be chosen to show my artwork at Oklahomans for Equality’s art gallery,” said Frizell. “Not every artist gets a chance like this, so I certainly do not take this opportunity for granted.” In her short time as a woodworker, Frizell’s has already garnered a following, mainly through word of mouth. After selling products on Facebook Marketplace, Frizell quit her job and launched a full-time business out of her home, called Tables by Tara. “We are excited to display Tables by Tara inside the Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery,” said Toby Jenkins, CEO/Executive Director for Oklahomans for Equality. “I know Allie, our longtime curator, would have loved bringing in a new medium to the space, and the message behind it would mean the world to her.” For additional details on Tables by Tara, follow her on social media, www.facebook.com/tablesbytara. The show opens with The Artist Reception with Tara Frizell at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, March 3rd, 2022 at 6:00 p.m. with COVID measures in place. The exhibit continues throughout the month of March Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, March 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 13 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... Contact Us • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, March 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 14 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... Joseph E. Under December 22, 1931 - February 3, 2022 Max Birdwell Max was 15 years old and a student at the Broken Arrow Freshman Academy. James Morton April 13, 1940 - Feb 7, 2022 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 15 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... Josh Willhite The Funeral was held on Saturday, February 12th, 10:00 at Glorious Church Fellowship Her trademark hair and amazing humor will definitely My condolences to Ginger's Family and host of Friends! be missed! Ginger Lamar Learn About Ginger's Legacy Alice Bates For many years Miss Alice Bates has operated a Friend for a Friend. Her organization provided pet food and assistance with vet bills for people living with HIV/AIDS in the Greater Tulsa area. Those who were fortunate enough to get to know her know how special she was. She was 97 years old. Obituary 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 16 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... Caleb Robert Townsend August 17, 1994 - January 19, 2021 Michael Odell June 17th, 1994 - January 18th, 2022 Obituary 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 17 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... Outside the Box Monday, February 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. W Ii. ISS SA OS _POR 'A O YOU? I_ Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 18 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... LdaTtl+ PAftENT SVl¥61.T 61.6 VP --,-----------, --- A MONTULY 61.0VP FO~ PA~ENT'S WITU L6BT~+ ICll>S. LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, March 5, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Bob The Drag Queen Friday, March 11th Cain's Ballroom 423 N. Main St. Boa THE DRAG --Ol 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 19 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... Tulsa, OK 74103 Bob The Drag Queen is having a moment. A MAJOR moment! The season 8 winner of RuPaul's Drag Race was noted for her focus on comedy. Bob won three challenges during the show, including the recurring "Snatch Game," where she exquisitely portrayed Uzo Aduba and Carol Channing. CAIN'S BALLROOM FRIDAY ~~ ... ........ MARCH 11, 2022 ')t:11\· Bob is back with a plethora of projects to impress. She is currently starring alongside Shangela Laquifa Wadley and Eureka O'Hara in HBO's first unscripted hit series, "We're Here", which was just renewed for a second season and is nominated for the Emmy Award for Best Unstructured Reality Series. She also has a brand new comedy special, "Bob The Drag Queen: Live at Caroline's" as well as MTV's "Drag My Dad" series, "The Pit Stop", and her everpopular podcast "Sibling Rivalry" with best friend, touring partner and RuPaul AllStar Drag Race winner herself Monet X Change. Bob may have won Drag Race, but it's her comedic prowess that is really shining brightest of all. With two comedy specials under her belt, Bob is making the world laugh with her impeccable timing and true tale stories about her life and hilarious observations. Click Here for Tickets Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 20 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, March 2, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca ema1 h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, March 9, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 21 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Narq&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Blackbird by Larry Duplechan First published by St. Martin's in 1986, Blackbird is a funny, moving, gay comingof-age novel about growing up black and gay in Southern Califomia. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Larry Duplechan is the author of four novels, including Lambda Literary Award winner, Got Til It's Gone (Arsenal, 2008) as well as Blackbird (new editions published by 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 22 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... .t -✓~' LARRY OUPLECHAN J-\.J ~t: ua1 tu .LVUU nuu llDllUJ ill ~VJ'-'} , \.,lll-'Ull.U ~ VY ill~, a uu Tangled Up in Blue. Blackbird was made into a motion picture co-starring Mo' ique and released in 2015. He lives hometown of Los Angeles with his life partner of thirty-two years. # PassTheEquallty The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 23 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ------Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 24 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... OKE , okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 25 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 26 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule an appointment Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, March 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq Brought to You Bi 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 27 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... members. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People ~ \ ~ / . • ff ~' I \J l ( \ '1' rn ,. ' ' I . !.., O'j ~. _i r Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org the Letter B Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Support Group for Partners of Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Equality Game Night 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 28 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet Support Group for Partners of Transgender People SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! sao-e ~~~~:~~! ~~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba ---- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 29 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Deputy Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 30 of 32 Anna.Puhl@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... 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Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm 4/28/26, 3:57 PM �Join us for Pride Bingo this Saturday 32 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-Pride-Bingo-this-Satur... Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:57 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/65d6ffda356200bbae61dca1184210db.pdf cab634286361574f3799a0148344349b PDF Text Text Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 1 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews February 28th, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! "It is revolutionary for any trans person to choose to be seen and visible in aworld tha 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 2 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... tells us we should not exist.'' Actor •BLACKHISTORYMONTH MASKS ARE REQUIRED AT THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 3 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... • First Thursday Art Exhibition: Tables by Tara Thursday, March 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Before teaching herself how to create custom wood tables only four years ago, Tara Frizell had never even operated a drill. Now, the Tulsa-based, Choctaw artist will be showcasing her work publicly for the first time at the Oklahomans for Equality’s Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. The exhibition, “A Place at the Table,” features a series of custom tables made specifically for the LGBTQ advocacy non-profit organization’s gallery. The tables’ designs and colors were inspired by several identity flags representing sexual and gender minorities. Each month, Oklahomans for Equality spotlights work by local artists in the gallery, which is located inside the Equality Center. Frizell has been selected as their featured artist for March, and her work will be on display for the entire month. Frizell is available for interviews during the gallery’s “First Thursday’s Artist Reception” on March 3rd, from 6:00-9:00 p.m. The media is welcome. “I am so grateful to be chosen to show my artwork at Oklahomans for Equality’s art gallery,” said Frizell. “Not every artist gets a chance like this, so I certainly do not take this opportunity for granted.” In her short time as a woodworker, Frizell’s has already garnered a following, mainly through word of mouth. After selling products on Facebook Marketplace, Frizell quit her job and launched a full-time business out of her home, called Tables by Tara. 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 4 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... “We are excited to display Tables by Tara inside the Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery,” said Toby Jenkins, CEO/Executive Director for Oklahomans for Equality. “I know Allie, our longtime curator, would have loved bringing in a new medium to the space, and the message behind it would mean the world to her.” For additional details on Tables by Tara, follow her on social media, www.facebook.com/tablesbytara. TRANS YOUTH DESERVE HEALTH CARE NOTO HB3240 HB3240 is scheduled to be heard by the Houe Public Health Committee. HB3240 is a bill effectively banning medical care, mental health care, and social support for transgender and gender-expansive youth. This sweeping bill outlaws health care and therapy for transgender people under 18 and punishes healthcare workers who do so. It also outlaws insurances from covering transition procedures (hormones, puberty blockers). OKEQ condemns HB3240 and asks all constituents to contact members of the House Public Health Committee and say NO to HB3240. Contact House Public Health Committee Members END CONVERSION THERAPY 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 5 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... PROTECT OKLAHOMA'S LGBTQIA+ YOUTH. ACTION ALERT: HB2973 has made it through committee and could be on its way for a floor vote in the Oklahoma House of Representatives. This bill aims to protect conversion therapy under the guise of religious freedom. This bill is dangerous and puts LGBTQ+ people, especially LGBTQ+ young people, at risk of harm. Please contact the Majority Floor Leader, Representative Jon Echols, and urge him not to let this bill come to a vote. Contact Rep. Jon Echols Here sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ c)-, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 6 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... SAGE Meeting Tuesday, March 1, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 7 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party Friday, March 4, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ, Studio 66, and Black Queer Tulsa for a weekly RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party! We will have fun raffles, a cash bar, and a great community each week! The event is free to attend. Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer Thursday, March 17, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Rainbow Room is very proud to present JANET RUTLAND SINGS THE LYRICS 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 8 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... BY THE BERGMANS a tribute to Alan and Marilyn Bergman. This is a beautiful tribute to one of the most successful and beloved songwriting teams of the great American songbook. Janet will be performing with well-known guitarist Randy Wimer. Buy Tickets Here 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 9 of 28 • .••. .,. • 11, • ti> • • https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... @ • • DENNIS R NEILL EQUALITY CENTER @) . WWW OKEQ ORG • • .. .. ·- • • • I •• ••• ••••••••fti• • •••• •• • • • • • •••••-._•IA ..~, .~ ,. ........ • • ..•• • • _.., •('"• :.9 •••••--• • 621 E 4TH ST TULSA OK 74120 •••• &,~•,•• t • • •• - • ••,... n •• • Pride Bingo Saturday, March 19, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Tickets Here Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. Contact Sylvester tulsacari~ HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION 6 ENROLLMENT -·• • •• AT OKEO EVERY TUES lOAM _t PM I SYLVESTER HARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES CONTACT SYLVESTER, SYLVESTERH@TULSACARES.ORG 918.8 34..4194 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 10 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... Show your family some love and enroll in Medicaid. Doctor visits, emergency services, prescriptions, and immunizations will all be covered. Get free or low-cost health insurance today at healthcare.gov. #MedicaidMatters EQ Legislative Upd Here's what's on the agenda for 20 OKEQ has compiled a list of bills that we oppose and support. Please read them and contact your legislator to let them know you do not support this kind of overt hate against our community. 2022 Legislative Agenda Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, March 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Find Your Legislator • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 11 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, March 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us In Memoriam 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 12 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... Joseph E. Unger December 22, 1931 - February 3, 2022 Max Birdwell Max was 15 years old and a student at the Broken Arrow Freshman Academy. James Morton April 13, 1940 - Feb 7, 2022 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 13 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... Josh Willhite The Funeral was held on Saturday, February 12th, 10:00 at Glorious Church Fellowship Ginger was not only the Queen of 39th Street but to some she was the Queen of the Fuc•ing UNIVERSE! Her trademark hair and amazing humor will definitely be missed! . My condolences to Ginger's Family and host of Friends! Ginger Lamar Learn About Ginger's Legacy Alice Bates For many years Miss Alice Bates has operated a Friend for a Friend. Her organization provided pet food and assistance with vet bills for people living with HIV/AIDS in the Greater Tulsa area. Those 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 14 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... who were fortunate enough to get to know her know how special she was. She was 97 years old. Obituary Caleb Robert Townsend August 17, 1994 - January 19, 2021 Michael Odell June 17th, 1994 - January 18th, 2022 Obituary Outside the Box Monday, March 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 15 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. W /4. ISS ESA E OST PORTA T OVOU? Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 16 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... ,svHo,:r 61,/)VP ----A Ml>NfM~Y 6R-f>VP Fl>fl. PAl.fJl1'S Wl1'M ~648-r&+ ,c.t 1>S'. (:}J PFLAG LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, March 5, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Bob The Drag Queen Friday, March 11 Cain's Ballroom 423 N. Main St. Tulsa, OK 74103 Bob The Drag Queen is having a moment. A MAJOR moment! The season 8 winner of RuPaul's Drag Race was noted for her focus on comedy. Bob won three challenges during the show, including the BOB THE DRAG QUEEN CAIN'S BALLROOM \~{::._-., 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 17 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... recurring "Snatch Game," where she exquisitely portrayed Uzo Aduba and Carol Channing. MARCH 11, 2022 Bob is back with a plethora of projects to impress. She is currently starring alongside Shangela Laquifa Wadley and Eureka O'Hara in HBO's first unscripted hit series, "We're Here", which was just renewed for a second season and is nominated for the Emmy Award for Best Unstructured Reality Series. She also has a brand new comedy special, "Bob The Drag Queen: Live at Caroline's" as well as MTV's "Drag My Dad" series, "The Pit Stop", and her everpopular podcast "Sibling Rivalry" with best friend, touring partner and RuPaul AllStar Drag Race winner herself Monet X Change. Bob may have won Drag Race, but it's her comedic prowess that is really shining brightest of all. With two comedy specials under her belt, Bob is making the world laugh with her impeccable timing and true tale stories about her life and hilarious observations. Click Here for Tickets Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, March 2, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 18 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca ema1 h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, March 9, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 19 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act - - - - - People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 20 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ------Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 21 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... OKE , okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 22 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 23 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, March 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org - - --- Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Support Group for Parents of The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. Tulsa Area 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 24 of 28 Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Prime Timers Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! sao-e ~~~~:~~! ~, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 25 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 26 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... Alex Wade Deputy Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC _...,.n THIGIOftGllll&ISU fAMav,ouN0.1,_ Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 27 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Stephen Rundell - Secretary Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross William Vaughn Monique Washington Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Tables by Tara Art Opening this Thursday 28 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tables-by-Tara-Art-Opening-this-... Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:58 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3c36797947de3ca7654f50780c7b4e74.pdf 6edb2d009447ed923bd3f1c3f571369c PDF Text Text Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 1 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews March 7th, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! MASKS ARE REQUIRED AT THE DENNIS R. NEILL 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 2 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... EQUALITY CENTER MASK UPI Buy Your Gala Tickets Here 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 3 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... First Thursday Art Exhibition: Tables by Tara Open Through March Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The exhibition, “A Place at the Table,” features a series of custom tables made specifically for the LGBTQ advocacy non-profit organization’s gallery. The tables’ designs and colors were inspired by several identity flags representing sexual and gender minorities. Each month, Oklahomans for Equality spotlights work by local artists in the gallery, which is located inside the Equality Center. Frizell has been selected as their featured artist for March, and her work will be on display for the entire month. “I am so grateful to be chosen to show my artwork at Oklahomans for Equality’s art gallery,” said Frizell. “Not every artist gets a chance like this, so I certainly do not take this opportunity for granted.” In her short time as a woodworker, Frizell’s has already garnered a following, mainly through word of mouth. After selling products on Facebook Marketplace, Frizell quit her job and launched a full-time business out of her home, called Tables by Tara. “We are excited to display Tables by Tara inside the Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery,” said Toby Jenkins, CEO/Executive Director for Oklahomans for Equality. “I know Allie, our longtime curator, would have loved bringing in a new medium to the space, and the message behind it would mean the world to her.” For additional details on Tables by Tara, follow her on social media, www.facebook.com/tablesbytara. END CONVERSION THERAPY 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 4 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... PROTECT OKLAHOMA'S LGBTQIA+ YOUTH. ACTION ALERT: HB2973 has made it through committee and could be on its way for a floor vote in the Oklahoma House of Representatives. This bill aims to protect conversion therapy under the guise of religious freedom. This bill is dangerous and puts LGBTQ+ people, especially LGBTQ+ young people, at risk of harm. Please contact the Majority Floor Leader, Representative Jon Echols, and urge him not to let this bill come to a vote. Contact Rep. Jon Echols Here Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 5 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... SAGE Meeting Tuesday, March 8, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 6 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... ·:. •..~ ' ·, . :. : : =.-.<. :;.. );.··~ ·. <:· • •~ : ' .. . RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party Friday, March 11, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ, Studio 66, and Black Queer Tulsa for a weekly RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party! We will have fun raffles, a cash bar, and a great community each week! The event is free to attend. Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer Thursday, March 17, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 7 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... The Rainbow Room is very proud to present JANET RUTLAND SINGS THE LYRICS BY THE BERGMANS a tribute to Alan and Marilyn Bergman. This is a beautiful tribute to one of the most successful and beloved songwriting teams of the great American songbook. Janet will be performing with well-known guitarist Randy Wimer. Buy Tickets Here 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 8 of 26 •• -•• .. -. • .. • • • _. • • • • \ • ,•t P • :"\ •I'!--~ • '• : (n\ 'v \ •• • • • • https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... DENNIS R NEILL EQUALITY CENTER ' E 4H T ST T S ~ 7 2) 6~1 ULAuK 411 ~ ~ ','Ni\', m<EQ ORG • • • • • •• • • • • .. • :, •• :• • • • .., • •••\-•••• • • _,... ' - ...., ~ Pride Bingo Saturday, March 19, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Tickets Here Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. Contact Sylvester tulsacari~ HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION 6 ENROLLMENT -·• • •• AT OKEO EVERY TUES lOAM. lPM I SYLVESTER HARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES CONTACT SYLVESTER, SYL VESTERH@TU LSACARES.O RG 918.834-4194 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 9 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Having health insurance gives you peace of mind knowing that if you get sick or injured, you will be able to get the care you need and avoid large medical bills. See if you qualify for Medicaid at Healthcare.gov. #PeaceOfMind #MedicaidMatters EQ Legislative Upd Here's what's on the agenda for 20 OKEQ has compiled a list of bills that we oppose and support. Please read them and contact your legislator to let them know you do not support this kind of overt hate against our community. 2022 Legislative Agenda Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, March 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Find Your Legislator • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 10 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office --phone is (918) 295-9429. Post-OP/Pre-Op Support Group Wednesday, March 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to get surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us I 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 11 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... OKEQ Game Night Tuesday, March 29, 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play with others? Then Game Night is for you! Come join us for four hours of gaming fun for everyone! In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Harry Cramton March 3, 2022 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 12 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Memorial Service will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church on Wednesday, March 9th at 11:00 a.m. David Cook Joseph E. Unger December 22, 1931 - February 3, 2022 Max Birdwell 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 13 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Max was 15 years old and a student at the Broken Arrow Freshman Academy. Michael Odell June 17th, 1994 - January 18th, 2022 Obituary Outside the Box Monday, March 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. W ~ SS SA OST PORTA T O YOU? Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 14 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 15 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... L68T•+ PAUNT SVPPOI.T 61.0VP ___ ..,_________ A Mt,NTULY 6/tdVP Ft,~ PA~ENT'S WITU L6BT~+ ICll>S. LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, April 2, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Bob The Drag Queen 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 16 of 26 Friday, March 11 Cain's Ballroom 423 N. Main St. Tulsa, OK 74103 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... THE DRAG QUEEN Bob The Drag Queen is having a moment. A MAJOR moment! The season 8 winner of RuPaul's Drag Race was noted for her focus on comedy. Bob won three challenges during the show, including the recurring "Snatch Game," where she exquisitely portrayed Uzo Aduba and Carol Channing. CAIN'S BALLROOM FRIDAY MARCH 11, 2022 Bob is back with a plethora of projects to impress. She is currently starring alongside Shangela Laquifa Wadley and Eureka O'Hara in HBO's first unscripted hit series, "We're Here", which was just renewed for a second season and is nominated for the Emmy Award for Best Unstructured Reality Series. She also has a brand new comedy special, "Bob The Drag Queen: Live at Caroline's" as well as MTV's "Drag My Dad" series, "The Pit Stop", and her everpopular podcast "Sibling Rivalry" with best friend, touring partner and RuPaul AllStar Drag Race winner herself Monet X Change. Bob may have won Drag Race, but it's her comedic prowess that is really shining brightest of all. With two comedy specials under her belt, Bob is making the world laugh with her impeccable timing and true tale stories about her life and hilarious observations. Click Here for Tickets Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 17 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, April 6, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca ema1 h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 18 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, March 9, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 19 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ------People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ------Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 20 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 21 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Virtual Thursday, March 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 22 of 26 Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People Brought to You Bi the Letter B Alphabet Soup Youth Group \. i ~• !1 IT f ' .!· "', \/,r \ f\ m~ , ' 1111' I ~, .. ~ Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Sa~e A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Support Group for Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 23 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Community Partners EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba ---- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 24 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Deputy Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 25 of 26 Anna.Puhl@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC THIGIOltGl...iH• ,A ... llYPOUN""TION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:58 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer 26 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Stephen Rundell - Secretary Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross William Vaughn Monique Washington Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:58 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/585af563d1d98579131ed704ea0f980f.pdf 973b45fdcb732e3a4d3e4cd4c121d4a2 PDF Text Text Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 1 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews March 14th, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 2 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... Buy Your Gala Tickets Here Donate to OutRight Action International to support LGBTQ+ people in Ukraine. Donate to Support LGBTQ+ Ukrainians 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 3 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... It was an honor and delight to work with our partner agency Youth Services of Tulsa and host this year's Pride Prom at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. On Saturday, March 12th, we hosted "Promchella" with 277 youth from across the region in attendance. Thank you to our partnering youth agencies and 60 adult volunteers who showed up to support our special guests. Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 4 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... SAGE Meeting Tuesday, March 15, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 5 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland with Randy Wimer Thursday, March 17, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Rainbow Room is very proud to present JANET RUTLAND SINGS THE LYRICS BY THE BERGMANS a tribute to Alan and Marilyn Bergman. This is a beautiful tribute to one of the most successful and beloved songwriting teams of the great American songbook. Janet will be performing with well-known guitarist Randy Wimer. 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 6 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... Buy Tickets Here RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party Friday, March 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ, Studio 66, and Black Queer Tulsa for a weekly RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party! We will have fun raffles, a cash bar, and a great community each week! The event is free to attend. 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 7 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... Pride Bingo Saturday, March 19, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Tickets Here First Thursday Art Exhibition: Tables by Tara Open Through March Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The exhibition, “A Place at the Table,” features a series of custom tables made specifically for the LGBTQ advocacy non-profit organization’s gallery. The tables’ designs and colors were inspired by several identity flags representing sexual and gender minorities. Each month, Oklahomans for Equality spotlights work by local artists in the gallery, which is located inside the Equality Center. Frizell has been selected as their featured artist for March, and her work will be on display for the entire month. “I am so grateful to be chosen to show my artwork at Oklahomans for Equality’s art gallery,” said Frizell. “Not every artist gets a chance like this, so I certainly do not take this opportunity for granted.” 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 8 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... In her short time as a woodworker, Frizell’s has already garnered a following, mainly through word of mouth. After selling products on Facebook Marketplace, Frizell quit her job and launched a full-time business out of her home, called Tables by Tara. “We are excited to display Tables by Tara inside the Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery,” said Toby Jenkins, CEO/Executive Director for Oklahomans for Equality. “I know Allie, our longtime curator, would have loved bringing in a new medium to the space, and the message behind it would mean the world to her.” For additional details on Tables by Tara, follow her on social media, www.facebook.com/tablesbytara. Workout for a Cause Hosted by Next Level Athletics Every Saturday, 11:00 a.m. Next Level Athletics 9525 E. 51st St., Suite I Tuls, OK 74145 The team at Next Level Athletics is so excited to be partnering with the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and to be a part of Oklahomans for Equality! As a local business, we know how important it is to give back to the community and we are proud to do so! Beginning March 5th and running through all of June, Next Level Athletics is hosting Workout For A Cause! This will be a registration-based workout class specifically for those who want to work out and make a difference. Workout For A Cause will take place every Saturday at 11 am and will consist of a group workout, music based on the theme for that week, and some social time! Each class will last an hour and will only cost $10 per person, with 10% of that class total being donated back to the Equality Center. These classes will be a safe place for everyone to come and move their bodies, have fun, and be themselves. We are looking forward to what these events could bring, not only for us and our members but to Tulsa and the LGBTQ+ community we have here! Workout For A Cause details in sum: - Each event is $10 per person with 10% of each class going back to the Equality Center - Workout For A Cause will take place every Saturday from March 12th through the end of June - Each event will have a different theme and workout - 11 am at Next Level Athletics. 9525 E 51st St Suite I - Follow @workoutforacause_tulsa on Instagram for updates and to find out the theme of the week! 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 9 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... Registration Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. Contact Sylvester tulsacari~ HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION 6 t e ENROLLMENT ATOKEO EVERY TUES • IOAM . !PM • •• I SYLVESTERHARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES CONTACT SYLVESTER: SYL VESTERH@TU LSACARES.O RG 918.834.4194 GET FREE OR LOW COST HEALTH INSURANCE THROUGH MEDICAID #ffiedicaidffiatters 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 10 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... With online enrollment through the marketplaces, it has never been easier to apply for Medicaid. Get free or low-cost health insurance! Go to healthcare.gov to see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters EQ Legislative Upd Here's what's on the agenda for 20 OKEQ has compiled a list of bills that we oppose and support. Please read them and contact your legislator to let them know you do not support this kind of overt hate against our community. 2022 Legislative Agenda Find Your Legislator 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 11 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... • Lawyer in the Center LEGAL AID th SERVICES OF Tuesday, April 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Post-OP/Pre-Op Support Group Wednesday, March 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to get surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us Deaf/Hard of Hearing • ■ 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 12 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... LGBTQ+ social Hosted by TSHA & OKEQ TSHA serves deaf and hard of hearing md1v1duals across the entire state of Oklahoma Learn more at www tsha cc 16~ -~ • Interpreters Provided ,,,~ Deaf/Hard of Hearing LGBTQ+ Social Tuesday, March 29, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come, chat and meet friends and learn about the Equality Center. If we have a good attendance we will have more LGBTQ+ social events in the future. Please spread the word. This is a come and go event, no program and no cost! I OKEQ Game Night Tuesday, March 29, 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play with 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 13 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... others? Then Game Night is for you! Come join us for four hours of gaming fun for everyone! In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost Harry Cramton March 3, 2022 Memorial Service will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church on Wednesday, March 9th at 11:00 a.m. 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 14 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... David Cook Joseph E. Unger December 22, 1931 - February 3, 2022 Outside the Box Monday, March 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. W ~ ISS SA - E OST PORTA T O YOU? 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 15 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey L68Ttl+ PAUNT SVl¥6ft.T 6ft.6VP A MONTULY 6/t.OVP FO~ PA~ENrS WITU L6BT4+ ICll>S. 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 16 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... PFLAG LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, April 2, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, April 6, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 17 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, April 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 18 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Follow the link below to find your US Senators. 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 19 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. OKE , okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 20 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 21 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Virtual Thursday, March 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. Support Group for 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 22 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. sao-e ~~~~:~~t c) ~ LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 23 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 24 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... Alex Wade Deputy Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORIDIY THIGIOIIGlkAIHJt ~AMllYfOUNIM.TION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 25 of 26 Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Stephen Rundell - Secretary Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Shannon Gordon Fair Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick 4/28/26, 3:59 PM �Get your tickets for Pride Bingo this Saturday! 26 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-tickets-for-Pride-Bingo-t... Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross William Vaughn Monique Washington Visit Our Website Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:59 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a9df00ea7ee1022dc1409170545f0aa3.pdf 24d84276b5cd4b9f4097627925eaf122 PDF Text Text Happy Spring! 1 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews March 21st, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 2 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... Buy Your Gala Tickets Here Donate to OutRight Action International to support LGBTQ+ people in Ukraine. Donate to Support LGBTQ+ Ukrainians sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ ~~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 3 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. SAGE Meeting Tuesday, March 22, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 4 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party Friday, March 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ, Studio 66, and Black Queer Tulsa for a weekly RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party! We will have fun raffles, a cash bar, and a great community each week! The event is free to attend. Trans Day of Visibility Events Thursday, March 31st Facebook Live Transgender Day of Visibility The attorneys and plaintiffs in the "Birth Certificate lawsuit" filed in U.S. District Court for the Northern District of Oklahoma in Tulsa will be featured in an Oklahomans for Equality Facebook Live Event on Thursday, March 31st, in honor of Transgender Day of Visibility. These brave individuals are suing 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 5 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... Governor Stitt, Interim Commissioner of Health Keith Reed, and the Oklahoma State Registrar of Vital Records Kelly Baker for refusing to issue birth certificates for nonbinary persons and transgender people wishing to change their gender marker on their birth certificate. Time to be determined. Memorium Event The family of Aubrey Dameon will be present for the dedication of a permanent display of Aubrey's portrait on our memorial wall at the Equality Center. We hope this portrait will raise awareness of the missing and murdered indigenous women in this country. Aubrey has been missing since March 9th, 2019. The dedication event will be on Oklahomans for Equality Facebook Live at 7:30 p.m. Thursday, March 31st. Condom-Mania Saturday, April 2, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 C>N D N > CC A !T! I N EE -NA A fashion show featuring original designs made from condoms and/or condom wrappers! PLUS don't miss the LIP SYNC BATTLE! Designers’ imaginations will go wild using the non-traditional artistic medium Z ZOZ L Z., I of condoms! Guests will enjoy colorful R AP and unique designs made solely, or with the addition of, contraceptives. While some designers keep the prophylactics in the wrapper, most are using the condoms themselves for their creations. Designs range from warrior costumes to ball gowns. All designers are local and range from artists to college students. Guests will also enjoy an evening of dancing, lip-sync competition, light hors d’oeuvres, and a cash bar. The Little Blue House presents this safe-sex fashion show to promote the belief that sexual health is important. April is National STDs Education and Awareness Month. Buy Your Tickets Now 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 6 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 7 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... First Thursday Art Exhibition: Tables by Tara Open Through March Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The exhibition, “A Place at the Table,” features a series of custom tables made specifically for the LGBTQ advocacy non-profit organization’s gallery. The tables’ designs and colors were inspired by several identity flags representing sexual and gender minorities. Each month, Oklahomans for Equality spotlights work by local artists in the gallery, which is located inside the Equality Center. Frizell has been selected as their featured artist for March, and her work will be on display for the entire month. “I am so grateful to be chosen to show my artwork at Oklahomans for Equality’s art gallery,” said Frizell. “Not every artist gets a chance like this, so I certainly do not take this opportunity for granted.” In her short time as a woodworker, Frizell’s has already garnered a following, mainly through word of mouth. After selling products on Facebook Marketplace, Frizell quit her job and launched a full-time business out of her home, called Tables by Tara. “We are excited to display Tables by Tara inside the Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery,” said Toby Jenkins, CEO/Executive Director for Oklahomans for Equality. “I know Allie, our longtime curator, would have loved bringing in a new medium to the space, and the message behind it would mean the world to her.” For additional details on Tables by Tara, follow her on social media, www.facebook.com/tablesbytara. Workout for a Cause Hosted by Next Level Athletics Every Saturday, 11:00 a.m. Next Level Athletics 9525 E. 51st St., Suite I Tuls, OK 74145 The team at Next Level Athletics is so excited to be partnering with the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and to be a part of Oklahomans for Equality! As a local business, we know how important it is to give back to the community and we are proud to do so! Beginning March 5th and running through all of June, Next Level Athletics is hosting Workout For A Cause! This will be a registration-based workout class specifically for those who want to work out and make a difference. Workout For A Cause will take place every Saturday at 11 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 8 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... am and will consist of a group workout, music based on the theme for that week, and some social time! Each class will last an hour and will only cost $10 per person, with 10% of that class total being donated back to the Equality Center. These classes will be a safe place for everyone to come and move their bodies, have fun, and be themselves. We are looking forward to what these events could bring, not only for us and our members but to Tulsa and the LGBTQ+ community we have here! Workout For A Cause details in sum: - Each event is $10 per person with 10% of each class going back to the Equality Center - Workout For A Cause will take place every Saturday from March 12th through the end of June - Each event will have a different theme and workout - 11 am at Next Level Athletics. 9525 E 51st St Suite I - Follow @workoutforacause_tulsa on Instagram for updates and to find out the theme of the week! Registration Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. Contact Sylvester tulsacari~ HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION 6 t e ENROLLMENT ATOKEQ EVERY TUES • lOAM . lPM • •• I SYLVESTERHARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES CONTACT SYLVESTER, SYL VESTERH@TU LSACARES.O RG 918.834.4194 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 9 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... HAVING HEALTH INSURANCE FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IS ONE WAY TO TAKE PRIDEIN YOUR HEALTH. Having health insurance for you and your family is one way to take PRIDE in your health - and LGBTQ Health Awareness Week is coming March 21-25! Go to healthcare.gov and see if you qualify for Medicaid. #MedicaidMatters. EQ Legislative Upd Here's what's on the agenda for 20 OKEQ has compiled a list of bills that we oppose and support. Please read them and contact your legislator to let them know you do not support this kind of overt hate against our community. 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 10 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... 2022 Legislative Agenda Find Your Legislator • Lawyer in the Center LEGALAID th SERVICES OF Tuesday, April 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, March 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 11 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... Deaf/Hard of Hearing LGBTQ+ Social Hosted by TSHA & OKEQ TSHA serves deaf and hard of hearing 1nd1v1duals across the entire state of Oklahoma Learn more at www tsha cc "6~ Interpreters Provided • mm • ,,,~ Deaf/Hard of Hearing LGBTQ+ Social Tuesday, March 29, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come, chat and meet friends and learn about the Equality Center. If we have a good attendance we will have more LGBTQ+ social events in the future. Please spread the word. This is a come and go event, no program and no cost! I OKEQ Game Night Tuesday, March 29, 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 12 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... Tulsa, OK 74120 Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play with others? Then Game Night is for you! Come join us for four hours of gaming fun for everyone! In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost Tyler Matney Jan 1, 1994 - March 05, 2022 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 13 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... Harry Cramton March 3, 2022 Memorial Service will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church on Wednesday, March 9th at 11:00 a.m. David Cook Outside the Box Monday, March 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. w 0 POA ovo? 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 14 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... -- .- • • • - ·- -· Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey e,.68-r-•• p1,dJ(r 'SIJH0'-,61.f)VP ___ ___ .............-- A Ml>111M~Y 6U>VP Fl>'I , ...11.-r~+ f'l l>S: • .-.it. t. 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 15 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... (:)::] PFLAG LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, April 2, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 16 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, April 6, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke h C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contactJosh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, April 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 17 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 18 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ------People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ------Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 19 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 20 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... r C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for Virtual Thursday, April 21, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. ~---- Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 21 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... transgender and intersex individuals. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People \. i ~• !1 IT f ' .!· "', \/,r \ f\ m~ , ' 1111' I ~, .. ~ Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Support Group for Parents of Transgender People Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. sao-e ~~~~:~~! ~~ LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 22 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Community Partners EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba ----- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 23 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Deputy Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Kao Morris 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 24 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC IPONSOUOIY THIGEO•Oll<AIH• FA ... llYfOUN°"TION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His 4/28/26, 4:00 PM �Happy Spring! 25 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Spring-.html?soid=11024... Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Stephen Rundell - Secretary Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Shannon Gordon Fair Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Visit Our Website Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:00 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/42b18e7e19af6ac78505bf0946702706.pdf a057e4da9a741705a3c5dad2ef05ff6f PDF Text Text Condom-Mania this Saturday! 1 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews March 28th, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! BELONG 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 2 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... SB2 is targeting transgender girls and women in sports. This bill is harmful, dangerous, and unfortunately on its way to the Governor's desk for signing. Transgender kids play sports for the same reasons as other kids—to have fun, foster relationships, and learn skills like leadership and teamwork. Transgender kids, like all kids, want to belong. Attempting to take that from kids who are already so vulnerable is cruel. It’s up to us to protect our communities. We know you’ll work with us to do just that. Transgender people are a valuable part of our communities, and trans kids belong. Call the Governor at 405.521.2342 and urge him not to sign SB2. Trans Day of Visibility Events Thursday, March 31st Facebook Live Transgender Day of Visibility The attorneys and plaintiffs if, in the "Birth Certificate lawsuit" filed in U.S. District Court for the Northern District of Oklahoma in Tulsa will be featured in an Oklahomans for Equality Facebook Live Event on Thursday, March 31st, in honor of Transgender Day of Visibility. These brave individuals are suing Governor Stitt, Interim Commissioner of Health Keith Reed, and the Oklahoma State Registrar of Vital Records Kelly Baker for refusing to issue birth certificates for nonbinary persons and transgender people wishing to change their gender marker on their birth certificate. Time to be determined. Memorium Event 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 3 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... The family of Aubrey Dameon will be present for the dedication of a permanent display of Aubrey's portrait on our memorial wall at the Equality Center. We hope this portrait will raise awareness of the missing and murdered indigenous women in this country. Aubrey has been missing since March 9th, 2019. The dedication event will be on Oklahomans for Equality Facebook Live at 7:30 p.m. Thursday, March 31st. RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party Friday, April 1, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ, Studio 66, and Black Queer Tulsa for a weekly RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party! We will have fun raffles, a cash bar, and a great community each week! The event is free to attend. Condom-Mania Saturday, April 2, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 A fashion show featuring original designs made from condoms and/or condom wrappers! PLUS don't miss the LIP SYNC BATTLE! Designers’ imaginations will go wild using the non-traditional artistic medium of condoms! Guests will enjoy colorful and unique designs made solely, or with the addition of, contraceptives. While some designers keep the prophylactics in the wrapper, most are using the condoms themselves for their creations. Designs range from warrior costumes to ball gowns. All designers are local and range from artists to college students. Guests will also enjoy an evening of dancing, lip-sync competition, light hors d’oeuvres, and a cash bar. The Little Blue House presents this safe-sex fashion show to promote the belief that sexual health is important. April is National STDs Education and Awareness Month. 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 4 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... Buy Your Tickets Now Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on Buy Your Gala Tickets Here Become a Vendor or Sponsor 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 5 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... Donate to OutRight Action International to support LGBTQ+ people in Ukraine. Donate to Support LGBTQ+ Ukrainians OKEQ Seniors Meeting Tuesday, March 29, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 6 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on First Thursday Art Exhibition: Tables by Tara Open Through March Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The exhibition, “A Place at the Table,” features a series of custom tables made specifically for the LGBTQ advocacy non-profit organization’s gallery. The tables’ designs and colors were inspired by several identity flags representing sexual and gender minorities. Each month, Oklahomans for Equality spotlights work by local artists in the gallery, which is located inside the Equality Center. Frizell has been selected as their featured artist for March, and her work will be on display for the entire month. “I am so grateful to be chosen to show my artwork at Oklahomans for Equality’s art gallery,” said Frizell. “Not every artist gets a chance like this, so I certainly do not take this opportunity for granted.” In her short time as a woodworker, Frizell’s has already garnered a following, mainly through word of mouth. After selling products on Facebook Marketplace, Frizell quit her job and launched a full-time business out of her home, called Tables by Tara. “We are excited to display Tables by Tara inside the Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery,” said Toby Jenkins, CEO/Executive Director for Oklahomans for Equality. “I know Allie, our longtime curator, would have loved bringing in a new medium to 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 7 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... the space, and the message behind it would mean the world to her.” For additional details on Tables by Tara, follow her on social media, www.facebook.com/tablesbytara. First Thursday Art Exhibition: Jay Hinely’s Exhibition “Wow” Opens Thursday, April 7th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Jay Hinely grew up in a rural town outside of Chattanooga, Tennessee. As a child, he developed a love for visual arts, science-fiction movies, and alien beings. Growing up in the 80s, Star Wars, MTV, ATARI, and NASA were influential in his artistic style. When he was young, it became evident, that Jay was very different from other children. He was bullied and labeled as a “dumb kid.” He could not read because he had severe dyslexia. Fortunately, one of his teachers recognized that he had the God-given ability to draw, paint, sculpt, and express himself with his hands. He learned he could put things on canvas that “wowed” people and truly made people wonder what he saw and felt. He attended Vicky Hardy School of Art and Harrison Bay Vocational Technical Center in Tennessee. At the age of 19, he stopped painting and raised 3 children as a single father, but never lost his passion. Jay’s love has always been to create art that encompasses his mind, heart, voice, emotions, and vision to connect with the outside world. As a middle-aged man, he is using his God-given gift to paint, to create, to express, and to “wow”. Enjoy….. "One of the most vulnerable populations among youth today is LGBTQ teens. As a father of seven children, I want to be an example to them. I chose to display my art to promote equality and awareness to my children as well as the community." The show opens with The Artist Reception with Jay Hinley at the Dennis R. Neill 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 8 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... Equality Center at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, April 7th, 2022, at 6:00 p.m. The exhibit continues throughout the month. 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 9 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... Tulsa Pride Bingo 2022 Saturday, April 16, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Denise Hoey in Uncovered Thursday, April 21, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here Workout for a Cause Hosted by Next Level Athletics Saturday, April 9, 11:00 a.m. 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 10 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... Next Level Athletics 9525 E. 51st St., Suite I Tulsa, OK 74145 The team at Next Level Athletics is so excited to be partnering with the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and to be a part of Oklahomans for Equality! As a local business, we know how important it is to give back to the community and we are proud to do so! Beginning March 5th and running through all of June, Next Level Athletics is hosting Workout For A Cause! This will be a registration-based workout class specifically for those who want to work out and make a difference. Workout For A Cause will take place every Saturday at 11 am and will consist of a group workout, music based on the theme for that week, and some social time! Each class will last an hour and will only cost $10 per person, with 10% of that class total being donated back to the Equality Center. These classes will be a safe place for everyone to come and move their bodies, have fun, and be themselves. We are looking forward to what these events could bring, not only for us and our members but to Tulsa and the LGBTQ+ community we have here! Workout For A Cause details in sum: - Each event is $10 per person with 10% of each class going back to the Equality Center - Workout For A Cause will take place every Saturday from March 12th through the end of June - Each event will have a different theme and workout - 11 am at Next Level Athletics. 9525 E 51st St Suite I - Follow @workoutforacause_tulsa on Instagram for updates and to find out the theme of the week! Registration Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your tulsacari~ HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION 6 t e ENROLLMENT - ·- - -- -- I <YI V r<HA MARA!< 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 11 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... questions and get you started on the enrollment process. Contact Sylvester EQ Legislative Upd Here's what's on the agenda for 20 OKEQ has compiled a list of bills that we oppose and support. Please read them and contact your legislator to let them know you do not support this kind of overt hate against our community. 2022 Legislative Agenda Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, April 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Find Your Legislator • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 12 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, April 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us Deaf/Hard of Hearing LGBTQ+ Social Hosted by TSHA & OKEQ TSHA serves deaf and hard of hearing 1nd1v1duals across the entire state of Oklahoma Learn more at www tsha cc * &1'1 I n terpreters Provided • 1 ,,,~ P.!!11 ~ Deaf/Hard of Hearing LGBTQ+ Social Tuesday, March 29, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come, chat and meet friends and learn about the Equality Center. If we have a good attendance we will have more LGBTQ+ social events in the future. Please spread the word. This is a come and go event, no program and no cost! 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 13 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... I OKEQ Game Night Tuesday, March 29, 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play with others? Then Game Night is for you! Come join us for four hours of gaming fun for everyone! In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 14 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... Tyler Matney Jan 1, 1994 - March 05, 2022 Harry Cramton March 3, 2022 Memorial Service will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church on Wednesday, March 9th at 11:00 a.m. David Cook 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 15 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... W Ii. ISS SAR OS POR 1~ T OVOU? Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 16 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, April 2, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, April 6, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 17 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca ema1 h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, April 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 18 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at Please also be on the lookout for upcoming -alyssa.bryant@laok.org. - announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. # PassTheEquallty 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 19 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act - - - - - People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act -----Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 20 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... OKE okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly IIIIIIIB-•1•--.1 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 21 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 22 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Virtual Thursday, April 21, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. sao-e ~~~~:~~t c) ~ LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org OKEQ Seniors Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for Tulsa Area Prime Timers Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 23 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! more information. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 24 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... Alex Wade Deputy Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org . ~- :~ ¥ ' ... 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 25 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson 4/28/26, 4:01 PM �Condom-Mania this Saturday! 26 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condom-Mania-this-Saturday-.ht... Jane Wiseman Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:01 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c54d1f25ffff7966e2b7a4b25b341cce.pdf c5eded185a20c4f6d709d41dadbc61a2 PDF Text Text King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 1 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews January 3rd, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ ~-, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 2 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... resumed. SAGE Meeting Tuesday, January 04, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 3 of 31 PROUDLY A sPoNsoRED BY https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... • A ■ 1· mer1can Ir Ines OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 4 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Margaret K. Eagler's "Your Weeds are My Wild Flowers" Artist Reception Thursday, January 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Margaret was raised in a family of highly creative people with perfectionist and success-driven tendencies. Margaret was put in a box of "only" being creative with the written word by her family, and discovering painting helped break out of that box and discover new ideas, talents, and freedom. When the pandemic struck and Margaret's work became remote access, she knew she had to have something to DO that was not work-related or she would fall into the habit of working non-stop. So, even though she had "no talent," she decided to pick up acrylic paint. Margaret fell head over heels in love with the process and learned many life lessons through her projects, such as there is no right or wrong in art; if you don't like something, you can start over or completely change it - learn from it; mistakes are incredibly valuable in learning; the play of color and light is as much about the shadows and spaces as it is about the focus. As Margaret continued to explore her more artistic side, she discovered that some of the characteristics in her that had been so strictly constrained by her family of origin were actually qualities that she craved and that she was at her best when able to touch on those hidden aspects of herself. One day while discussing, with a friend, the nature of growth and learning to love one's self as a whole person, not lacking because of someone else's prescribed identity, the concept of the dandelion kept coming up - how much her sons loved to give her dandelions and how much her neighbors put in work to kill those glorious wildflowers. She 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 5 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... realized, just like some people think dandelions are weeds, and she thinks they are wildflowers, she may not be what others think she should be, but that doesn't take away one bit of who she is meant to be. Margaret works as a Child Welfare Specialist with the Department of Human Services. She spends her days working to help families change the way they live life on this planet in order to provide a safe and secure environment for her family. Margaret likes nothing more than when a parent gets to bring their child home and successfully complete their case. Margaret has found that in advocating for the vulnerable, she must examine her own vulnerability, and painting has helped to bring grounding and allowed a safe space to examine those vulnerabilities. Margaret will continue to make a stand for both clients and friends; fight for the rejected, the marginalized, the hurting, and the weary; and stand with those who are standing for themselves. Margaret's desire is that those who look at her art see the full range of emotions and relational connection and celebrate differences and imperfections. The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, January 1st, with COVID measures in place for those Non-vaccinated. The Artist Reception is Thursday, January 6th, at 6:00 p.m. The exhibit continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit www.okeq.org. RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party Friday, January 07, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 6 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Join OKEQ, Studio 66, and Black Queer Tulsa for a weekly RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party! We will have fun raffles, a cash bar, and a great community each week! The event is free to attend. OKEQ Taking Nominations for Community Awards Oklahomans for Equality is now taking nominations to recognize individuals or groups who have impacted the fight for equality for the LGBTQ+ community. These awards will be presented at the annual Equality Gala on April 30th, 2022, at the Cox Business Convention Center Grand Hall. Lifetime Achievement Award - Recognizes a lifetime dedication to the cause of equality for the LGBTQ+ community in Oklahoma. Community Hero Award - Recognizes individuals and groups who have represented or served our community in the previous year. The Rev. Russell Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion - Presented to a faith leader who leads and supports affirming the faith of the LGBTQ+ community in our local congregations. Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award - Presented to a local youth who demonstrates extraordinary character and makes a positive difference in their school, youth group, and community. Grand Marshal for the Tulsa Gay Pride Parade June 2nd - Recognizes an individual who has supported the LGBTQ+ community courageously and visibly. Dennis R. Neill Collegiate Leadership Award - Presented to a local college student who demonstrates extraordinary character and makes a positive difference in their school and community. Nancy McDonald Advocacy Award - Recognizes an individual who advocates for inclusion, equality for not only the LGBTQ community but for all marginalized populations. Bishop-Baldwin, Barton & Phillips Civil Rights Advocacy Award - Presented to those individuals who have fought for equality through the United States Justice system. Lynn Riggs Performing Arts Award - Honors individuals or groups that have advanced LGBTQ awareness through the fine arts. Workplace Inclusion Award - Recognizes a workplace that has shown a 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 7 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... commitment to diversity and inclusion. Click Here for Nomination Form Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room Presents: Tired, Loud, & Over It! Thursday, January 20, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Features Machele Dill and Lori Decter Wright, with special guests Crista Patrick, Machelle Cullom, and others! Get Your Ticket Here BOB 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 8 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... THE DRAG QUEEN CAIN'S BALLROOM FRIDAY ... "·... ..... .., .... ..... •... .. ·.. ·•:.·,. ·: MARCH 11, 2022 ~ .:- ' Bob The Drag Queen Friday, March 11, 2022 Cain's Ballroom 423 N. Main St. Tulsa, OK 74103 Bob The Drag Queen is having a moment. A MAJOR moment! The season 8 winner of RuPaul's Drag Race was noted for her focus on comedy. Bob won three challenges during the show, including the recurring "Snatch Game," where she exquisitely portrayed Uzo Aduba and Carol Channing. Bob is back with a plethora of projects to impress. She is currently starring alongside Shangela Laquifa Wadley and Eureka O'Hara in HBO's first unscripted hit series, "We're Here", which was just renewed for a second season and is nominated for the Emmy Award for Best Unstructured Reality Series. She also has a brand new comedy special, "Bob The Drag Queen: Live at Caroline's" as well as MTV's "Drag My Dad" series, "The Pit Stop", and her everpopular podcast "Sibling Rivalry" with best friend, touring partner and RuPaul AllStar Drag Race winner herself Monet X Change. 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 9 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Bob may have won Drag Race, but it's her comedic prowess that is really shining brightest of all. With two comedy specials under her belt, Bob is making the world laugh with her impeccable timing and true tale stories about her life and hilarious observations. Click Here for Tickets Brought To You Bi the Letter B Monday, January 10, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 10 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Email Us Visit Us on Facebook Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74107 Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. Contact Sylvester tulsacari~ HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION Ei t e ENROLLMENT • ATOKEO EVERY TUES lOAM - lPM • •• I SYLVESTERHARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES CONTACT SYLVESTER SYLVESTERH@TULSACARES.ORG 918.834.4194 W ,;. SSU SAR MOS PORTA T O YOU? Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 11 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Monday and Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Elissa Furlong is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. She is from upstate New York but attended Mississippi College School of Law, graduating at the top of her class. In addition to having worked for two private attorneys, Elissa has previously interned with the legal department of a United Nations agency. Ms. Furlong has also completed legal fellowships and externships in the areas of employment discrimination, workers' rights, civil rights, and LGBTQ+ legislation and advocacy. Elissa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-409-2115, or email her at elissa.furlong@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements pertaining to fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, January 11, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 12 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, January 19, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us _,. "' .OUTSIDE · . THEB - - .. ~ - ~VP.ru ~rJ MnnA11u nf +hP. Mnn+h 11+ lnm 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 13 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Outside the Box Monday, January 17, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 14 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Carrie Lynn Hughes April 25, 1973 - December 9, 2021 Kelly Halpine December 30, 2021 L68Ttl+ PAUNT SVl¥61.T 611.0tJP ____ A MONTULY 61.0VP FO~ PA~EIIT'S WITU L6BT4+ ICll>S. 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 15 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... PFLAG LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, February 5, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, January 5, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 16 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, January 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 17 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... I OKEQ Game Night Tuesday, January 25, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play with others? Then Game Night is for you! Join us on the last Tuesday of every month from 5:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 18 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Every Fourth Thursday at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 19 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act - - - - - People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ------Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 20 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Paper Bullets by Jefferey H. Jackson Paper Bullets is the first book to tell the history of an audacious anti- azi campaign undertaken by an unlikely pair: two French women, Lucy Schwob and Suzanne Malherbe, who drew on their skills as Parisian avant-garde artists to write and distribute "paper bullets"- wicked insults against Hitler, calls to rebel, and subversive fictional dialogues designed to demoralize azi troops occupying their adopted home on the British Channel Island of Jersey. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT •JEFFREY H. JACKSON Jeffrey H. Jackson is a Professor of History a t Rhodes College in Memphis, Tennessee. An expert on European histor y and culture, he is the author of Paris Under Water: How the City of Light Survived the Great Flood of 1910 and Making Jazz French: Music and Modem Life in Inter war Paris. In addition, he has appeared in documentary films and helped develop "Harlem in Montmartre: A Paris Jazz Story" for PBS's Great Performances. 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 21 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... OKE , okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 22 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Th City of Tulsa 1s commrtt d to ere t ng r p ctful nd professional w nv1ronment. I t on 0 m n City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 23 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 24 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... fl JJ fl This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 25 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays Virtual Thursday, January 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings Brought to You Bi 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 26 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. are open to all OkEq members. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ' -- · -- Support Group for Parents of Transgender People \. i ~• !1 IT f ' .!· \/,r \ "', f\ m~ , ' 1111' I ~, .. ~ Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom Support Group for Transgender Teens 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- · -- The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org the Letter B Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group --· - - Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Equality Game 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 27 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to Night supporting Lesbian, Gay, Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are Support Group for Partners of Transgender People providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- ---- SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education , Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers Every Tuesday and community. from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. www.okeq.org/eba ------ provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 28 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Kao Morris 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 29 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 30 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross William Vaughn Monique Washington Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Jane Wiseman Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:51 PM �King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant 31 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/King---Queen-of-Tulsa-Pride-Page... 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:51 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0179604b451718b4d955e69ac1c44b28.pdf e0259a7cd987a2926e2468c859afe773 PDF Text Text Pride Bingo this Saturday! 1 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews April 11th, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 2 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... Tulsa Pride Bingo 2022 Saturday, April 16, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here Legislative Update Say No to SB615 SB615 will be heard in the Oklahoma House State Powers Committee on Wednesday, April 13th. SB615 would require school counselors to "out" LGBTQ+ students before affirming SCHOOL COUNSELORS SHOULD NOT OUT LGBTQ+ STUDENTS .._____ _,ti-10 IO S8615_ __ 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 3 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... information could be shared with the students regarding sexual orientation and gender identity. Any curriculum would have to be approved by the parent or guardian first. Many LGBTQ+ and gender-expansive students seek guidance and support from educators and school counselors. Trusting their training and professional skills regarding sexuality and gender identity development. Were SB615 to become law, school counselors and educators would have to contact parents and guardians "outing" the student before they can provide resources and information. Contact Oklahoma House State Powers Committee members and tell them you oppose SB61 Find Committee Members Say No to SB1100 In October 2021, after a lengthy federal court case, Oklahoma began issuing birth certificates for nonbinary people. State legislators have now introduced SB1100 to block the department of vital statistics from following the court's decision. Contact your representative and tell them you oppose SB1100 because it violates an individual's civil rights and disenfranchises nonbinary and gender-expansive Oklahomans. Find Your Legislators Latin(X) Meeting Tuesday, April 12, 6:30 p.m. RSVP for Location We would like to invite you to our Latin(X) meeting in which we will be discussing topics that are affecting our Latin community. This will be an open forum for topics of interest in our community not only Latin(X) but also our LGBTQ+ community. Please RSVP with Liz at (405) 463-9323. Nos gustaría invitarte a nuestra reunión Latin(X) en la que estaremos discutiendo temas relevantes a nuestra comunidad. Este será un foro abierto para temas de interés en nuestra comunidad, no solo latin(X) sino también nuestra comunidad 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 4 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... LGBTQ+. Confirme su asistencia con Liz al (405) 463-9323. Brought To You Bi the Letter B 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming inperson meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. Visit Us On Facebook Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on First Thursday Art Exhibition: Jay Hinely’s Exhibition “Little Bit 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 5 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... Everything” Opens Thursday, April 7th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Jay Hinely grew up in a rural town outside of Chattanooga, Tennessee. As a child, he developed a love for visual arts, science-fiction movies, and alien beings. Growing up in the 80s, Star Wars, MTV, ATARI, and NASA were influential in his artistic style. When he was young, it became evident, that Jay was very different from other children. He was bullied and labeled as a “dumb kid.” He could not read because he had severe dyslexia. Fortunately, one of his teachers recognized that he had the God-given ability to draw, paint, sculpt, and express himself with his hands. He learned he could put things on canvas that “wowed” people and truly made people wonder what he saw and felt. He attended Vicky Hardy School of Art and Harrison Bay Vocational Technical Center in Tennessee. At the age of 19, he stopped painting and raised 3 children as a single father, but never lost his passion. Jay’s love has always been to create art that encompasses his mind, heart, voice, emotions, and vision to connect with the outside world. As a middle-aged man, he is using his God-given gift to paint, to create, to express, and to “wow”. Enjoy….. "One of the most vulnerable populations among youth today is LGBTQ teens. As a father of seven children, I want to be an example to them. I chose to display my art to promote equality and awareness to my children as well as the community." The show opens with The Artist Reception with Jay Hinley at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, April 7th, 2022, at 6:00 p.m. The exhibit continues throughout the month. 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 6 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... Oklahomans for Equality Watch on RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party Friday, April 15, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ, Studio 66, and Black Queer Tulsa for a weekly RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party! We will have fun raffles, a cash bar, and a great community each week! The event is free to attend. 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 7 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on Buy Your Gala Tickets Here Become a Vendor or Sponsor 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 8 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... Donate to OutRight Action International to support LGBTQ+ people in Ukraine. Donate to Support LGBTQ+ Ukrainians OKEQ Seniors Meeting Tuesday, April 12, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 9 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Denise Hoey in Uncovered Thursday, April 21, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. tulsacari~ HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION 6 t e ENROLLMENT • • ATOKEO EVERY TUES IOAM . !PM I SYLVESTERHARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES -~ 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 10 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... Contact Sylvester ... CONTACT SYLVESTER, SYLVESTERH@TU LSACARES.O RG 918.834.4194 • Lawyer in the Center LEGALAID th SERVICES OF Tuesday, April 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, April 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 11 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Scotty Irani April 07, 2022 Martin Raymond Steinmetz March 30, 2022 Marty served on the board of Oklahomans for Equality from 2007 to 2011 and served on the 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 12 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... OKEQ Executive Committee as treasurer. Tyler Matney Jan 1, 1994 - March 05, 2022 W Ii. SS SA OS PO 'A T OVOU? 1 Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 13 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... e,.68-r-•• p1,dJ(r svH0'-,6#./>VP____________ ------------- 61.i>VP Fl>t. A ,-tt>111ML-Y PAt.fJJ1'S Wl'f'M L-6~1"&+ l'I 1>S'. (:)::] PFLAG LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, May 7, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 14 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... " Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, April 6, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Oklahomans for Equality Watch on 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 15 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, April 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 16 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at Please also be on the lookout for upcoming -alyssa.bryant@laok.org. - announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. # PassTheEquall The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 17 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ----------People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act -- - - - - ----Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. OKE , okeq. org/ donate ,,,.,__ --+'11■11111111 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 18 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly I l I I I 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 19 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... AL UI LI ~ K C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex Thursday, April 21, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 20 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... individuals. we reruse ro De mv1s101e A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org OKEQ Seniors Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Community Partners EBA Directory H.O.P.E. 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 21 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... HIV Testing Schedule The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba ------ -- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Deputy Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 22 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC IPOIISO!tliOIV THIGIOIIGIIUJHII Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org 4/28/26, 4:03 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! 23 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday-.html?... i~-..,,,~ ~~t;, ,#~<,, II•.: Picturif.C ourtesy of the Tulsa World Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Member at Large Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Visit Our Website Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:03 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6f48dc465ed39cbd43d75e4abaeb5d92.pdf 860dc69ac16f8c831115eaa8657e4d17 PDF Text Text Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 1 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews April 18th, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! The Jack C. Montgomery VA Medical Center (JCMVAMC) in Muskogee, Oklahoma has been named a top performer in the Human Rights Campaign Foundation’s 15th-anniversary edition of the Healthcare Equality Index. JCMVAMC received an evaluation 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 2 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... of 95 out of 100 and the designation of “LGBTQ+ Healthcare Equality Top Performer.” HEI is considered among the nation’s foremost benchmarking survey of health care facilities on policies and practices dedicated to the equitable treatment and inclusion of their LGBTQ+ patients, visitors, and staff. “Being rated as a ‘Top Performer’ is a tremendous honor and reflection of the hard work our staff has put into making the Eastern Oklahoma VA Health Care System a compassionate and welcoming place that meets the needs of our LGBTQ+ staff and Veterans,” said Dr. Michael McKee, LGBTQ+ Care Coordinator. “We are deeply committed to breaking down all barriers that negatively impact the LGBTQ+ community’s sense of personal meaning and value and their ability to enjoy the same rights and privileges that all segments of society should enjoy. The true importance of achieving such a high score is not the score itself, but what it represents. It boldly says to our LGBTQ+ community, ‘We believe in you, we respect you and we are here for you.’“ Read the full article by Dana Nickel here. Lynn Riggs Honored with Posthumous Degree from the University of Oklahoma! The university will confer the honorary degree during its 2022 Commencement ceremony, scheduled for 7 p.m. Friday, May 13. "Cherokee poet, playwright, screenwriter and drama theorist Rollie Lynn Riggs was born Aug. 31, 1899, southwest of Claremore. After attending the University of Oklahoma from 1920 to 1923, he went on to pursue a remarkable and productive career as a writer of plays and poetry, as well as screenplays for the big screen. Early in his career, while serving as a Guggenheim Fellow, Riggs wrote Green Grow the Lilacs (1931). The play premiered on Broadway and became the basis for Rodgers and Hammerstein’s epic musical, Oklahoma! – arguably one of the most popular musicals of all time. The original Broadway production of Oklahoma! ran for a then-unprecedented 2,212 performances and made theater history in 1944 by winning a Pulitzer Prize. During his lifetime, Riggs penned 37 plays, six of which were produced on Broadway. Not all of Riggs’ work were romantic and light-hearted. Several of Riggs’ works, including The Cherokee Night (1932), delved into issues deemed at the time to be 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 3 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... too sensitive, too serious and too controversial to be produced on the larger stage, leading some to say his examination of deeper societal and personal issues was well ahead of his time. Riggs was inducted into the Oklahoma Hall of Fame in 1948. He died in 1954 in New York City, and his award is being granted posthumously." Legislative Update Say No to SB615 SB615 will be heard in the Oklahoma SCHOOL COUNSELORS House State Powers Committee on SHOULD NOT OUT Wednesday, April 13th. SB615 would require school counselors to "out" LGBTQ+ STUDENTS LGBTQ+ students before affirming NOTO S8615 information could be shared with the students regarding sexual orientation and gender identity. Any curriculum would have to be approved by the parent or guardian first. Many LGBTQ+ and gender-expansive students seek guidance and support from educators and school counselors trusting their training and professional skills regarding sexuality and gender identity development. Were SB615 to become law, school counselors and educators would have to contact parents and guardians, "outing" the student, before they can provide resources and information. r Say No to SB1100 In October 2021, after a lengthy federal court case, Oklahoma began issuing birth certificates for nonbinary people. State legislators have now introduced SB1100 to block the department of vital statistics from following the court's decision. Contact your representative and tell them you oppose SB1100 because it violates an individual's civil rights and disenfranchises nonbinary and gender-expansive Oklahomans. Find Your Legislators 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 4 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Denise Hoey in Uncovered Thursday, April 21, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here Brought To You Bi the Letter B 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming inperson meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. Letter B Social at Mother Road Market Sunday, April 24, 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 1124 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 5 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Please join us for a bite to eat at Letter B's next social event! We are gathering at the Mother Road Market on Sunday, April 24th from 4-6 pm. Hope to see you there! Visit Us On Facebook Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on First Thursday Art Exhibition: Jay Hinely’s Exhibition “Little Bit Everything” Open Through the Month of April Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Jay Hinely grew up in a rural town outside of Chattanooga, Tennessee. As a child, he developed a love for visual arts, sciencefiction movies, and alien beings. Growing up in the 80s, Star Wars, MTV, ATARI, and NASA were influential in his artistic style. When he was young, it became evident, that Jay was very different from other children. He was bullied and labeled as a “dumb kid.” He could not read because he had severe dyslexia. 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 6 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Fortunately, one of his teachers recognized that he had the God-given ability to draw, paint, sculpt, and express himself with his hands. He learned he could put things on canvas that “wowed” people and truly made people wonder what he saw and felt. He attended Vicky Hardy School of Art and Harrison Bay Vocational Technical Center in Tennessee. At the age of 19, he stopped painting and raised 3 children as a single father, but never lost his passion. Jay’s love has always been to create art that encompasses his mind, heart, voice, emotions, and vision to connect with the outside world. As a middle-aged man, he is using his God-given gift to paint, to create, to express, and to “wow”. Enjoy….. "One of the most vulnerable populations among youth today is LGBTQ teens. As a father of seven children, I want to be an example to them. I chose to display my art to promote equality and awareness to my children as well as the community." The show opens with The Artist Reception with Jay Hinley at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, April 7th, 2022, at 6:00 p.m. The exhibit continues throughout the month. RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party Friday, April 22, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ, Studio 66, and Black Queer Tulsa for a weekly RuPaul's Drag Race Watch Party! We will have fun raffles, a cash bar, and a great community each week! The event is free to attend. 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 7 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on Buy Your Gala Tickets Here Become a Vendor or Sponsor 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 8 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Donate to OutRight Action International to support LGBTQ+ people in Ukraine. Donate to Support LGBTQ+ Ukrainians OKEQ Seniors Meeting Tuesday, April 19, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 9 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment tulsacari~ Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION li t e ENROLLMENT Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. Contact Sylvester ATOKEO EVERY TUES • IOAM · !PM CONTACT SYLVESTER, SYL VESTERH@TU LSACARES.O RG 918.834.4194 • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, May 10, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SYLVESTERHARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES • •• I LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, April 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Pre-Op I Post-Op Support Group ..,.., - 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 10 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 11 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Scotty Irani April 07, 2022 Martin Raymond Steinmetz March 30, 2022 Marty served on the board of Oklahomans for Equality from 2007 to 2011 and served on the OKEQ Executive Committee as treasurer. W Ii. SS ESA IE E OST PORTA T O YOU? Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 12 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Click Here for Survey L68Tt.Q+ PAUNT SVPPOI.T 61.0VP ____ A Mt,NTULY 6/tt,VP Ft,e PAeENrS WITU L6BT~+ ICll>S. LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, May 7, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 13 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, May 4, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 14 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contactJosh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, May 11, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 15 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 16 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Queen Rose Art House Presents a Night of Performance Friday, April 22, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Tulsa Artist Fellowship Flagship Space 112 N. Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74103 On this evening of performance at the Tulsa Artist Fellowship Flagship Space, Queen Rose Art House Founder and Tulsa Artist Fellow Kalup Linzy will serve as host and perform a spoken word piece and two songs as his alter ego, Taiwan Braswell. Anna Muselmann, a Tulsa native and currently based in New York City, will present a solo movement work centered on the theme of 4dimensional grief. New York City-based Keioui Keijaun Thomas, the current Queen Rose Art House artist in residence will present an iteration of her upcoming performance “ The Journey of the Dolls” followed by a screening of “Act 2. The Last Trans Femmes on Earth: Dripping Doll Energy” from Come Hell or High Femmes— a 3 part film and multimedia performance where trans femmes have survived an apocalypse and are building a new world. The full project will premiere at Wexner Center for the Arts in June 2022. Founded in 2021 by interdisciplinary artist Kalup Linzy, the Queen Rose Art House is a social, but critical art space that engages with our local, national, and international art communities. Through hosting events like gatherings, performances, exhibitions, screenings, symposiums, and short-term artist residencies, the project is intended to inspire and create a safe space for artists to dwell. Image Credits: Kalup Linzy by Melissa Lukenbaugh (far left), Keioui Keijaun Thomas film still by Christopher Sonny Martinez (far top right), Anna Muselmann, photo by Cooper Harrison (far bottom left) 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 17 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... #PassTheEq The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 ..... II ,-. A 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 18 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Oklahomans became newly eligible for I UL::>A Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. OKE 1 okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 19 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 20 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Thursday, April 21, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible OKEQ Seniors Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 21 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Tulsa Area Prime Timers Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Equality Game Night 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba ---- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 22 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Deputy Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC Sl'ONSOHDIY tH1c1o•c11<A1H• fAMllYfOUNOATION 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 23 of 24 Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Trustees 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room with Denise Hoey 24 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Member at Large Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Visit Our Website Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:05 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/919d3097d8649e7d108378333ef2e365.pdf da0df6965e4de5a8d12195a6670d1ec1 PDF Text Text The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 1 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews April 25th, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Legislative Update Say No to SB615 SB615 would require school counselors to "out" LGBTQ+ students before affirming information could be shared with the students regarding sexual orientation and gender identity. Any curriculum would have SCHOOL COUNSELORS SHOULD NOT OUT LGBTQ+ STUDENTS ~ - -NO :ro SB6l§_ __ 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 2 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... to be approved by the parent or guardian first. Many LGBTQ+ and gender-expansive students seek guidance and support from educators and school counselors trusting their training and professional skills regarding sexuality and gender identity development. Were SB615 to become law, school counselors and educators would have to contact parents and guardians, "outing" the student before they can provide resources and information. We need you to call your representative and let them know you do not support this bill. Find Your Legislators First Thursday Art Exhibition: Jeff Nguyen's "String & Time" Thursday, May 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Jeff Nguyen is a young Vietnamese artist. He grew up in Ha Tinh province, which is on the central coast of Vietnam. He developed his passion for drawing when he was ten years old. He drew a lot of landscape scenes with pencils, crayons, and markers. His first painting in oil paint was ‘Jesus Christ the King’ (59”x7.9”) when he was 13 years old. As he grew older, he became interested in computers but still kept his passion for drawing. He entered college and graduated with a major in Graphic Design and has been working as a graphic designer for over ten years. He designs logos, name cards, brochures, flyers, posters, restaurant menus, banners, standees, labels, boxes, and media for websites, etc. Not satisfied with that, he always tries to find unique ways to express his creativeness and imagination using different materials and mediums. This exhibition ‘String & Time’ is one of his favorite projects. The show opens with The Artist Reception with Jeff Nguyen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120, on Thursday, May 5th, 2022, at 6:00 p.m. The exhibit continues throughout the month. 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 3 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on Buy Your Gala Tickets Here Become a Vendor or Sponsor r\DAr.. 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 4 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... .., .,~"" BINGO ~ ~ "-- MAYl~,2022 May Pride Bingo Saturday, May 14, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 5 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... Donate to OutRight Action International to support LGBTQ+ people in Ukraine. Donate to Support LGBTQ+ Ukrainians OKEQ Seniors Meeting Tuesday, April 26, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 6 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment tulsacari~ Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION li t e ENROLLMENT Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. Contact Sylvester ATOKEO EVERY TUES • IOAM · !PM CONTACT SYLVESTER, SYL VESTERH@TU LSACARES.O RG 918.834.4194 • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, May 10, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SYLVESTERHARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES • •• I LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, May 18, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Pre-Op I Post-Op Support Group ..,.., - 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 7 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Scotty Irani April 07, 2022 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 8 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... Martin Raymond Steinmetz March 30, 2022 Marty served on the board of Oklahomans for Equality from 2007 to 2011 and served on the OKEQ Executive Committee as treasurer. Lynn Riggs Honored with Posthumous Degree from the University of Oklahoma! The university will confer the honorary degree during its 2022 Commencement ceremony, scheduled for 7 p.m. Friday, May 13. "Cherokee poet, playwright, screenwriter and drama theorist Rollie Lynn Riggs was born Aug. 31, 1899, southwest of Claremore. After attending the University of Oklahoma from 1920 to 1923, he went on to pursue a remarkable and productive career as a writer of plays and poetry, as well as screenplays for the big screen. Early in his career, while serving as a Guggenheim Fellow, Riggs wrote Green Grow the Lilacs (1931). The play premiered on Broadway and became the basis for Rodgers and Hammerstein’s epic musical, Oklahoma! – arguably one of the most popular musicals of all time. The original Broadway production of Oklahoma! ran for a then-unprecedented 2,212 performances and made theater history in 1944 by winning a Pulitzer Prize. During his lifetime, Riggs penned 37 plays, six of which were produced on Broadway. Not all of Riggs’ work were romantic and light-hearted. Several of Riggs’ works, including The Cherokee Night (1932), delved into issues deemed at the time to be too sensitive, too serious and too controversial to be produced on the larger stage, leading some to say his examination of deeper societal and personal 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 9 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... issues was well ahead of his time. Riggs was inducted into the Oklahoma Hall of Fame in 1948. He died in 1954 in New York City, and his award is being granted posthumously." I W /4. ISS ESA E OST PORTA , 0 YOU? Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 10 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, May 7, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 11 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, May 4, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on Payton Law • ---.-.._._._- - - . -HI ■ •m -~~..----.. 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 12 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, May 11, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 13 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Follow the link below to find your US Senators. 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 14 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. OKE , okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 15 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 16 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Thursday, May 19, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. sao-e ~~~~:~~! A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org OKEQ Seniors Support Group for ~~ Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 17 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... Tulsa Area Prime Timers Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Community Partners EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 18 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Deputy Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 19 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... Anna.Puhl@okeq.org He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC THIGIOltGl...iH• ,A ... llYPOUN""TION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org 4/28/26, 4:05 PM �The Equality Gala is this Saturday! 20 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Gala-is-this-Saturday... 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Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:05 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e0c0b35fae718a71ab1fa2eaac3c68f2.pdf 567399a2e0ce1f07276923b09e5d3fbb PDF Text Text Art Gallery Opening This Thursday 1 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Art-Gallery-Opening-This-Thursd... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews May 2, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Thank You For Making the 2022 Equality Gala Amazing! 4/28/26, 4:07 PM �Art Gallery Opening This Thursday 2 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Art-Gallery-Opening-This-Thursd... This past Saturday, at the Equality Gala, we celebrated our 42nd-anniversary, our largest fundraiser of the year. You and your generosity made it an amazing night. Your financial gifts sustain this organization and help us expand our programs and outreach. Because of your kindness and support, we are well on our way to reaching our $50,000 goal. We hope you will consider donating so we can hit our goal! Click the link above. View Our Award Winners' Videos Here Legislative Update Say No to SB615 SB615 would require school counselors to SCHOOL COUNSELORS "out" LGBTQ+ students before affirming SHOULD NOT OUT information could be shared with the students regarding sexual orientation and LGBTQ+ STUDENTS gender identity. Any curriculum would have NOTO S8615 to be approved by the parent or guardian first. Many LGBTQ+ and gender-expansive students seek guidance and support from educators and school counselors, trusting their training and professional skills regarding sexuality and gender identity development. Were SB615 to become law, school counselors and educators would have to contact parents and guardians, "outing" the student before they can provide resources and information. You should also know that legislators have inserted restrictions on bathroom access for transgender children and youth into the bill. We need you to call your Senator and tell them you do not support this bill and want them to oppose it. 4/28/26, 4:07 PM �Art Gallery Opening This Thursday 3 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Art-Gallery-Opening-This-Thursd... Find Your Legislators First Thursday Art Exhibition: Jeff Nguyen's "String & Time" Thursday, May 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Jeff Nguyen is a young Vietnamese artist. He grew up in Ha Tinh province, which is on the central coast of Vietnam. He developed his passion for drawing when he was ten years old. He drew a lot of landscape scenes with pencils, crayons, and markers. His first painting in oil paint was ‘Jesus Christ the King’ (59”x7.9”) when he was 13 years old. As he grew older, he became interested in computers but still kept his passion for drawing. He entered college and graduated with a major in Graphic Design and has been working as a graphic designer for over ten years. He designs logos, name cards, brochures, flyers, posters, restaurant menus, banners, standees, labels, boxes, and media for websites, etc. Not satisfied with that, he always tries to find unique ways to express his creativeness and imagination using different materials and mediums. This exhibition ‘String & Time’ is one of his favorite projects. The show opens with The Artist Reception with Jeff Nguyen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120, on Thursday, May 5th, 2022, at 6:00 p.m. The exhibit continues throughout the month. 4/28/26, 4:07 PM �Art Gallery Opening This Thursday 4 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Art-Gallery-Opening-This-Thursd... Become a Vendor or Sponsor DRAG BINGO ~ -=- MAYl~,2022 4/28/26, 4:07 PM �Art Gallery Opening This Thursday 5 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Art-Gallery-Opening-This-Thursd... May Pride Bingo Saturday, May 14, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here Donate to OutRight Action International to support LGBTQ+ people in Ukraine. Donate to Support LGBTQ+ Ukrainians 4/28/26, 4:07 PM �Art Gallery Opening This Thursday 6 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Art-Gallery-Opening-This-Thursd... OKEQ Seniors Meeting Tuesday, May 3rd, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment tulsacari~ Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your 4/28/26, 4:07 PM �Art Gallery Opening This Thursday 7 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Art-Gallery-Opening-This-Thursd... ...,,.._..... questions and get you started on the enrollment process. Contact Sylvester EVERYTUES IOAM . !PM • •• I Mt.ALIMLAt<t.NAVIUAIUt<Cit COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES CONTACT SYLVESTER: SYL VESTERH@TU LSACARES.O RG 918.834A194 • Lawyer in the Center LEGALAID th SERVICES OF Tuesday, May 10, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, May 18, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us 4/28/26, 4:07 PM �Art Gallery Opening This Thursday 8 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Art-Gallery-Opening-This-Thursd... w Ii. ss I OST SA POR I ~ T OYOU? I Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey &.68i-•• p1,dlf( svHO'-,fA.t>VP 4/28/26, 4:07 PM �Art Gallery Opening This Thursday 9 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Art-Gallery-Opening-This-Thursd... LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, May 7, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, May 4, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 4:07 PM �Art Gallery Opening This Thursday 10 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Art-Gallery-Opening-This-Thursd... Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca ema1 h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, May 11, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. 4/28/26, 4:07 PM �Art Gallery Opening This Thursday 11 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Art-Gallery-Opening-This-Thursd... Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at -alyssa.bryant@laok.org. - - Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. # PassTheEquallty 4/28/26, 4:07 PM �Art Gallery Opening This Thursday 12 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Art-Gallery-Opening-This-Thursd... The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. TULSA RESPONDS 4/28/26, 4:07 PM �Art Gallery Opening This Thursday 13 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Art-Gallery-Opening-This-Thursd... OKE okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 4:07 PM �Art Gallery Opening This Thursday 14 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Art-Gallery-Opening-This-Thursd... C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming 4/28/26, 4:07 PM �Art Gallery Opening This Thursday 15 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Art-Gallery-Opening-This-Thursd... OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Thursday, May 19, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. sao-e ~~~~:~~t c) ~ LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible OKEQ Seniors Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. 4/28/26, 4:07 PM �Art Gallery Opening This Thursday 16 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Art-Gallery-Opening-This-Thursd... A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His 4/28/26, 4:07 PM �Art Gallery Opening This Thursday 17 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Art-Gallery-Opening-This-Thursd... • I Alex Wade Deputy Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC 1.-0Nik>Hon THIGtEO.Gll<AIH• ,AMJlY,OUNl>.I.TION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 4:07 PM �Art Gallery Opening This Thursday 18 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Art-Gallery-Opening-This-Thursd... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Secretary Dani Byrd - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman 4/28/26, 4:07 PM �Art Gallery Opening This Thursday 19 of 19 Visit Our Website https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Art-Gallery-Opening-This-Thursd... View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:07 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/50a91b81b79fbc567ab2372cac56ad52.pdf bddd3639e88f4938c8083813f2b922f0 PDF Text Text Pride Bingo this Saturday 1 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews May 9, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Thank You For Making the 2022 Equality Gala Amazing! 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 2 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... This past Saturday, at the Equality Gala, we celebrated our 42nd-anniversary, our largest fundraiser of the year. You and your generosity made it an amazing night. Your financial gifts sustain this organization and help us expand our programs and outreach. Because of your kindness and support, we are well on our way to reaching our $50,000 goal. We hope you will consider donating so we can hit our goal! Click the link above. View Our Award Winners' Videos Here Legislative Update Say No to SB615 SB615 would require school counselors to SCHOOL COUNSELORS "out" LGBTQ+ students before affirming SHOULD NOT OUT information could be shared with the students regarding sexual orientation and LGBTQ+ STUDENTS gender identity. Any curriculum would have NOTO S8615 to be approved by the parent or guardian first. Many LGBTQ+ and gender-expansive students seek guidance and support from educators and school counselors, trusting their training and professional skills regarding sexuality and gender identity development. Were SB615 to become law, school counselors and educators would have to contact parents and guardians, "outing" the student before they can provide resources and information. You should also know that legislators have inserted restrictions on bathroom access for transgender children and youth into the bill. We need you to call your Senator and tell them you do not support this bill and want them to oppose it. 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 3 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... Find Your Legislators Sin Fronteras X OKEQ Meeting Tuesday, May 10, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We want to invite you to our Sin Fronteras X OKEQ meeting, in which we will be discussing topics that are affecting our Latin community. This will be an open forum for topics of interest in our community, not only Latin(X) but also our LGBTQ+ community. Nos gustaría invitarte a nuestra reunión Sin Fronteras X OKEQ en la que estaremos discutiendo temas relevantes a nuestra comunidad. Este será un foro abierto para temas de interés en nuestra comunidad, no solo latin(X) sino también nuestra comunidad LGBTQ+. DRAG BINGO ~~~ MAYl~,2022 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 4 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... May Pride Bingo Saturday, May 14, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 5 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... Submit Auditions Here Become a Vendor or Sponsor Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Machele Miller Dill & Lori Decter Wright in 'Tired, Loud, & Over It!' Thursday, May 26, 8:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 6 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... Donate to OutRight Action International to support LGBTQ+ people in Ukraine. Donate to Support LGBTQ+ Ukrainians 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 7 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... OKEQ Seniors Meeting Tuesday, May 10, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. Contact Sylvester tulsacari~ HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION li t e ENROLLMENT • ATOKEO EVERY TUES lOAM · lPM • •• I SYLVESTERHARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES CONTACT SYLVESTER, SYLVESTERH@TULSACARES.ORG 918.834-4194 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 8 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... r!f Medical screenings r!f Prescriptions r!f E.R. visits r!f Immunizations r!f Mental healthcare Life is unpredictable – especially during these tough times. Low cost or free health insurance through Medicaid gives you peace of mind knowing you’re covered if you get sick or injured. Check out your options at healthcare.gov. First Thursday Art Exhibition: Jeff Nguyen's "String & Time" Up Through May Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Jeff Nguyen is a young Vietnamese artist. He grew up in Ha Tinh province, which is on the central coast of Vietnam. He developed his passion for drawing when he was ten years old. He drew a lot of landscape scenes with pencils, crayons, and markers. His first painting in oil paint was ‘Jesus Christ the King’ (59”x7.9”) when he was 13 years old. As he grew older, he became interested in computers but still kept his passion for drawing. He entered college and graduated with a major in Graphic Design and has been working as a graphic designer for over ten years. He designs logos, name cards, brochures, flyers, posters, restaurant menus, banners, standees, labels, boxes, and media for websites, etc. Not satisfied with that, he always tries to find unique ways to express his creativeness and imagination using different materials and mediums. This exhibition ‘String & Time’ is one of his favorite projects. The show opens with The Artist Reception with Jeff Nguyen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120, on Thursday, May 5th, 2022, at 6:00 p.m. The exhibit continues throughout the month. Click Here to Purchase Art 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 9 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... • Lawyer in the Center LEGALAID th SERVICES OF Tuesday, May 10, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, May 18, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us W ~ ISS ES A 'E E OST PORTA T O YOU? ......• 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 10 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey L68TtA+ PAUNT SVPPOft.T 6ft.OVP ____ A Mt,NTULY 6/tdVP Ft,~ --------PA~ENT'S WITU L6BT~+ ICll>S. 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 11 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... PFLAG LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, June 4, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, June 7, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 12 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... Click Here to Contact Facilitator Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca ema1 h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, May 11, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 13 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at Please also be on the lookout for upcoming -alyssa.bryant@laok.org. - announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. # PassTheEqualltyAct 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 14 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... w a sae ey ca ome. The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act -----People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ------Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. TULSA RESPONDS J I OKE 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 15 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 16 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 17 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org --- Thursday, May 19, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 18 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... Equality Game Night 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 19 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Deputy Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC S-IOIIID ■Y THID10-.;11<A1n• l'AMllTfDUNDATIDN 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 20 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Secretary Dani Byrd - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Julie Chase 4/28/26, 4:10 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 21 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:10 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3a713dcfa1ab2e2b7616526fd410db2f.pdf 2458974fdeeb8f112f6e679a58003ee5 PDF Text Text Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 1 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews May 16, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Pride T-Shirts are available for $25 at the 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 2 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Thank You For Making the 2022 Equality Gala Amazing! On Saturday, April 30th, at the Equality Gala, we celebrated our 42ndanniversary, our largest fundraiser of the year. You and your generosity made it an amazing night. Your financial gifts sustain this organization and help us expand our programs and outreach. Because of your kindness and support, we are well on our way to reaching our $50,000 goal. We hope you will consider donating so we can hit our goal! Click the link above. View Our Award Winners' Videos Here Legislative Update Say No to SB615 SB615 would require school counselors to "out" LGBTQ+ students before affirming information could be shared with the students regarding sexual orientation and SCHOOL COUNSELORS SHOULD NOT OUT LGBTQ+ STUDENTS 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 3 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... gender identity. Any curriculum would NOTO S8615 have to be approved by the parent or guardian first. Many LGBTQ+ and gender-expansive students seek guidance and support from educators and school counselors, trusting their training and professional skills regarding sexuality and gender identity development. Were SB615 to become law, school counselors and educators would have to contact parents and guardians, "outing" the student before they can provide resources and information. You should also know that legislators have inserted restrictions on bathroom access for transgender children and youth into the bill. We need you to call your Senator and tell them you do not support this bill and want them to oppose it. Find Your Legislators 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 4 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... Submit Auditions Here Become a Vendor or Sponsor Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Machele Miller Dill & Lori Decter Wright in 'Tired, Loud, & Over It!' Thursday, May 26, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 5 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... Listening Session for LGBTQ+ Catholics Sunday, May 22, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 “The Spirit asks us to listen to the questions, concerns and hopes of every Church, people and nation. And to listen to the world, to the challenges and changes that it sets before us.” –Pope Francis at the Opening Mass for the Synod We are holding a listening session at the Equality Center to provide a safe and open environment to those in the LGBTQIA+ community and a place to contribute their voices to this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. Rick Martin and Kathleen Nicholas will facilitate this session. Space is limited, so RSVP to Kathleen at kenicholas82@gmail.com. If there is enough interest, we will try to have a second session that afternoon to accommodate everyone. If you do not wish to meet in person or are unavailable on the day of the listening session, please consider filling out the online survey. The Church needs to hear from as many people as possible, especially those who feel marginalized or excluded from the Church. You can find the link for the survey here: https://www.dioceseoftulsa.org/synod-survey 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 6 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... OKEQ Seniors Meeting Tuesday, May 17, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. !I' Medical screenings !I' Prescriptions !I' E.R. visits !I' Immunizations !I' Mental healthcare Having affordable, quality health insurance means you have one less thing to worry about. Medicaid offers you and your family peace of mind, and lots of things are covered! Enroll today by visiting healthcare.gov. 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 7 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Alice Bates February 24, 1925 - January 26, 2022 Services for Alice Bates will be held Saturday, May 28th at Unity Church Midtown at 2:00 p.m. Read Alice's Obituary Here First Thursday Art Exhibition: Jeff Nguyen's "String & Time" Up Through May Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 8 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... Tulsa, OK 74120 Jeff Nguyen is a young Vietnamese artist. He grew up in Ha Tinh province, which is on the central coast of Vietnam. He developed his passion for drawing when he was ten years old. He drew a lot of landscape scenes with pencils, crayons, and markers. His first painting in oil paint was ‘Jesus Christ the King’ (59”x7.9”) when he was 13 years old. As he grew older, he became interested in computers but still kept his passion for drawing. He entered college and graduated with a major in Graphic Design and has been working as a graphic designer for over ten years. He designs logos, name cards, brochures, flyers, posters, restaurant menus, banners, standees, labels, boxes, and media for websites, etc. Not satisfied with that, he always tries to find unique ways to express his creativeness and imagination using different materials and mediums. This exhibition ‘String & Time’ is one of his favorite projects. The show opens with The Artist Reception with Jeff Nguyen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120, on Thursday, May 5th, 2022, at 6:00 p.m. The exhibit continues throughout the month. Click Here to Purchase Art On the Road with Council Oak Friday, June 3, 8:00 p.m. Saturday, June 4, 8:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 9 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here • Lawyer in the Center LEGALAID th SERVICES OF Tuesday, June 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, May 18, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 10 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... W Ii. SS ESA OST PORTA T O YOU? Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey e,.6B-r•• PAdJT( svHOf.-r' 61,.(:>IIP L _ _ _ _ - ~- - - - - -= - - - - - - - - -~ ... .A _ ~ 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 11 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, June 4, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, June 1, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 12 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca ema1 h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, June 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 13 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at Please also be on the lookout for upcoming -alyssa.bryant@laok.org. - announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. # PassTheEquallty 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 14 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. TULSA RESPONDS 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 15 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... OKE okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 16 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 17 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org --- Thursday, May 19, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. OKEQ Seniors Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Tulsa Area Prime Timers Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 18 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 19 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... I Alex Wade Deputy Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC 1 - - . 0 ... THIIH-ltAIH• fAMllYPOUND.I.TIOtl Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 20 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Secretary Dani Byrd - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Tulsa Pride 2022 T-Shirts Have Arrived! 21 of 21 Visit Our Website https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-2022-T-Shirts-Have-A... View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:11 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0b9cc78781ce846a706b7c60fa6948da.pdf a4bf49bb1717c273fbe76b827a35fa50 PDF Text Text Rainbow Room this Thursday 1 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews May 23, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Official Pride T-Shirts are available for 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Rainbow Room this Thursday 2 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... $25 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Thank You For Making the 2022 Equality Gala Amazing! On Saturday, April 30th, at the Equality Gala, we celebrated our 42ndanniversary, our largest fundraiser of the year. You and your generosity made it an amazing night. Your financial gifts sustain this organization and help us expand our programs and outreach. Because of your kindness and support, we are well on our way to reaching our $50,000 goal. We hope you will consider donating so we can hit our goal! Click the link above. View Our Award Winners' Videos Here Toby Jenkins is Stepping Down On July 1, 2022, Toby Jenkins will step down as the CEO/Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis -. " . --. ... . .-. ~ 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Rainbow Room this Thursday 3 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... R. Neill Equality Center. Please help us celebrate this legendary man, his service, and all he has done for and with us! We wish Toby much love and happiness in his next chapter. OkEq's mission will continue. We will fight for equal rights for LGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Nell Equality Center. Toby's greatest wish is for the programs of OkEq to continue and remain strong. If you would like to make a donation in honor of Toby Jenkins' 25 years of service to Oklahomans for Equality and the City of Tulsa, please click on the link below. Make a Donation in Toby's Honor Legislative Update Say No to SB615 SB615 has unfortunately passed the Senate and House of Representatives. The bill is on its way to the Governor's desk for signing. SCHOOL COUNSELORS SHOULD NOT OUT LGBTQ+ STUDENTS NOTO S8615 We need you to call the Governor and tell him you do not support this bill and encourage him not to sign. r Contact the Governor's Office 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Rainbow Room this Thursday 4 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... Submit Auditions Here Become a Vendor or Sponsor 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Rainbow Room this Thursday 5 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Machele Miller Dill & Lori Decter Wright in 'Tired, Loud, & Over It!' Thursday, May 26, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here OKEQ Seniors Meeting Tuesday, May 24, 10:00 a.m. + + ++ 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Rainbow Room this Thursday 6 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 U&~IJ T + SENIORS ++ ++ The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. !I' Medical screenings !I' Prescriptions !I' E.R. visits !I' Immunizations !I' Mental healthcare Having affordable, quality health insurance means you have one less thing to worry about. Medicaid offers you and your family peace of mind, and lots of things are covered! Enroll today by visiting healthcare.gov. Housing Solutions works to make homelessness rare, brief, and non-recurring in Tulsa. The Landlord Tenant Resource Housina 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Rainbow Room this Thursday 7 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... Center (LTRC) division works to stop homelessness before it starts by providing information and resources that can help keep our neighbors safe and stably housed. The LTRC offers tenant rights and responsibilities education, resource information, direct referrals to legal service providers, community outreach, and more. The LTRC also facilitates the Social Services Hub (Hub), Tulsa County’s only eviction diversion program. The Hub runs in conjunction with the Tulsa County eviction docket Monday through Thursday from 1:00 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. at Iron Gate (501 W. Archer). If you have received a late notice or an eviction summons, please attend the Hub for inperson assistance and learn about resources and options. rll SolUtiOiis The LTRC will be onsite at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesdays from 10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m., Wednesdays from 6:00 p.m.- 7:00 p.m., and Thursday evenings beginning at 5:00 p.m. to assist with tenant rights education, eviction prevention resources (including emergency rental assistance), and access to case management services. No appointment is necessary. Please bring a photo ID (does NOT need to be current or US-issued), any late notices or summons you’ve received, and any utility bills you need assistance with. First Thursday Art Exhibition: Jeff Nguyen's "String & Time" Up Through May Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Jeff Nguyen is a young Vietnamese artist. He grew up in Ha Tinh province, which is on the central coast of Vietnam. He developed his passion for drawing when he was ten years old. He drew a lot of landscape scenes with pencils, crayons, and markers. His first painting in oil paint was ‘Jesus Christ the King’ (59”x7.9”) when he was 13 years old. As he grew older, he became interested in computers but still kept his passion for drawing. He entered college and graduated with a major in Graphic Design and has been working as a graphic designer for over ten years. He designs logos, name cards, brochures, flyers, posters, restaurant menus, banners, standees, labels, boxes, and media for websites, etc. Not satisfied with that, he always tries to find unique ways to express his creativeness and imagination using different materials and mediums. This exhibition ‘String & Time’ is one of his favorite projects. The show opens with The Artist Reception with Jeff Nguyen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120, on Thursday, May 5th, 2022, at 6:00 p.m. The exhibit continues throughout the month. 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Rainbow Room this Thursday 8 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... Click Here to Purchase Art On the Road with Council Oak Friday, June 3, 8:00 p.m. Saturday, June 4, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, June 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Rainbow Room this Thursday 9 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, June 15, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us W Ii. ISSUES AR' THE MOST MPOR 1~NTTOYOU? Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Rainbow Room this Thursday 10 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey L68Tt.Q+ PAftEIIT SVl¥6eT 61t.6VP _ A MONTULY 6/tOVP Foe PAeEN1'S WITU Lt.BT~+ ICll>S. LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, June 4, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Rainbow Room this Thursday 11 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, June 1, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Rainbow Room this Thursday 12 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... ' Josh Payt n Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, June 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Rainbow Room this Thursday 13 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... Please also be on the lookout for upcoming -alyssa.bryant@laok.org. - - announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. # PassTheEquall The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act - - - - - - 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Rainbow Room this Thursday 14 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act -- - - - - ----Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. OKE 1 okeq.org/donate ,,,... • _Ill/...,..., · ",. " H(tl),1 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Rainbow Room this Thursday 15 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Rainbow Room this Thursday 16 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is Thursday, June 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS + ,+ + + Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Rainbow Room this Thursday 17 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. OKEQ Seniors Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Tulsa Area Prime Timers Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Equality Game Night 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Community Partners EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Rainbow Room this Thursday 18 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Deputy Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Rainbow Room this Thursday 19 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC IPONIORliDIJY THI GEOIIGI UISU fAMILTFO!.INOATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org 4/28/26, 4:11 PM �Rainbow Room this Thursday 20 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-this-Thursday.ht... Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Secretary Dani Byrd - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Visit Our Website Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:11 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9ffcb4e5905cb3f3c5e5fe8b6bf65eb0.pdf e0f56d211cd66aaaaa8d4e258de83f6f PDF Text Text Pride Day with FC Tulsa 1 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews May 31, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Official Pride T-Shirts are available for 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 2 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... $25 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Thank You For Making the 2022 Equality Gala Amazing! On Saturday, April 30th, at the Equality Gala, we celebrated our 42ndanniversary, our largest fundraiser of the year. You and your generosity made it an amazing night. Your financial gifts sustain this organization and help us expand our programs and outreach. Because of your kindness and support, we are well on our way to reaching our $50,000 goal. We hope you will consider donating so we can hit our goal! Click the link above. View Our Award Winners' Videos Here Toby Jenkins is Stepping Down On July 1, 2022, Toby Jenkins will step down as the CEO/Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis -. " . --. ... . .-. ~ 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 3 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... R. Neill Equality Center. Please help us celebrate this legendary man, his service, and all he has done for and with us! We wish Toby much love and happiness in his next chapter. OkEq's mission will continue. We will fight for equal rights for LGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Nell Equality Center. Toby's greatest wish is for the programs of OkEq to continue and remain strong. If you would like to make a donation in honor of Toby Jenkins' 25 years of service to Oklahomans for Equality and the City of Tulsa, please click on the link below. Make a Donation in Toby's Honor 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 4 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... Submit Auditions Here OKEQ Seniors Meeting Tuesday, May 31, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Become a Vendor or Sponsor + ++ OKEQ + + + SENIORS 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 5 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. LGBT Women's Network June Happy Hour - Pride Edition Wednesday, June 1, 5:30 p.m. Elote Cafe and Catering 514 S. Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74103 Let's kick off pride month together! This will be our first visit to one of our favorite local Mexican spots: Elote Cafe. So wear your favorite pride gear, and let's have a drink to celebrate pride! Make sure you plan to find parking! There is some construction going on, so street parking may be hard to find, but there are some parking garages close by! LGBTQIA+ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome, allies included! PRIDE DAY with FC TULSA 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 6 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... r----"'fti:- Wednesday, June 1, 7:30 p.m. ONEOK Field 201 N. Elgin Ave. Tulsa, OK 74120 /?/JJ/I!ITf!JC:fl~ l,!IPII INJ[11]] [}(g 1lU112Lu Oklahomans For Equality has partnered with FC Tulsa to kickoff PRIDE Month! On June 1st at 7:30 p.m., FC Tulsa will face off against the Tampa Bay Rowdies. TAMPA hAY vs t()Wl)I Tampa Bay SlDTickels $2 from every ticket sold will be donated back lo Oldahomans F'ar Equality Tickets are $10, and $2 from every ticket sold will be donated back to Oklahomans For Equality - so let's come out and have a fun night while raising some money for a good cause! All tickets will be digital. For any questions about tickets or help troubleshooting, please contact John with FC Tulsa at Jwermeling@FCtulsa.com shop for good in-sto1·e or o line! JUNE 10-11th In-store June 10th 4-7pm Enter code GIVE 1ACK-CBTEG in our cart or at ch ckout on kendrascott.con1 or mention it at checkl ut in- t re and 20% of ur purcha e will benefit 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 7 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... '--'-'-''j'--<- Oklahomans For Equality i\ ot combinable wit/J otlzer ojfeJj. Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, June 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Please join us for PRIDE BINGO, honoring Toby Jenkins at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on June 18th at 6:30 pm. With special guest Keisha Kye and Pride Royalty Granny Rainbow, King and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 Mykal Khrystian and Kitty Quinn Khrystian, King and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2020 & 2021 King Blaze Khrystian and Kitty Marie Legacy, King and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2019/ Emeritus Anita Richards and me Scrappy Legacy! Special pride drink by Michael James, our lovely bartender! Let's make this Pride Bingo the best!! See y'all there! THIS IS AN 18+ EVENT. Housing Solutions works to make homelessness rare, brief, and non-recurring in Tulsa. The Landlord Tenant Resource Center (LTRC) division works to stop homelessness before it starts by providing Housing Solutions 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 8 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... information and resources that can help keep our neighbors safe and stably housed. The LTRC offers tenant rights and responsibilities education, resource information, direct referrals to legal service providers, community outreach, and more. The LTRC also facilitates the Social Services Hub (Hub), Tulsa County’s only eviction diversion program. The Hub runs in conjunction with the Tulsa County eviction docket Monday through Thursday from 1:00 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. at Iron Gate (501 W. Archer). If you have received a late notice or an eviction summons, please attend the Hub for inperson assistance and learn about resources and options. The LTRC will be onsite at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesdays from 10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m., Wednesdays from 6:00 p.m.- 7:00 p.m., and Thursday evenings beginning at 5:00 p.m. to assist with tenant rights education, eviction prevention resources (including emergency rental assistance), and access to case management services. No appointment is necessary. Please bring a photo ID (does NOT need to be current or US-issued), any late notices or summons you’ve received, and any utility bills you need assistance with. First Thursday Art Exhibition: Jeff Nguyen's "String & Time" Up Through May Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Jeff Nguyen is a young Vietnamese artist. He grew up in Ha Tinh province, which is on the central coast of Vietnam. He developed his passion for drawing when he was ten years old. He drew a lot of landscape scenes with pencils, crayons, and markers. His first painting in oil paint was ‘Jesus Christ the King’ (59”x7.9”) when he was 13 years old. As he grew older, he became interested in computers but still kept his passion for drawing. He entered college and graduated with a major in Graphic Design and has been working as a graphic designer for over ten years. He designs logos, name cards, brochures, flyers, posters, restaurant menus, banners, standees, labels, boxes, and media for websites, etc. Not satisfied with that, he always tries to find unique ways to express his creativeness and imagination using different materials and mediums. This exhibition ‘String & Time’ is one of his favorite projects. The show opens with The Artist Reception with Jeff Nguyen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120, on Thursday, May 5th, 2022, at 6:00 p.m. The exhibit continues throughout the month. Click Here to Purchase Art 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 9 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... On the Road with Council Oak Friday, June 3, 8:00 p.m. Saturday, June 4, 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 Buy Your Tickets Here Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, June 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 10 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, June 15, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us W Ii. ISSUES AR' THE MOST MPOR 1~NTTOYOU? Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 11 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... Click Here for Survey L68Tt.Q+ PAI.ENT SV1¥61.T 61.0VP --.A Mt,NTULY 6/tt,VP Ft,~ PA~ENT'S WITU L6BT~+ ICll>S. LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, June 4, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 12 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, June 1, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 13 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... on Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, June 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 14 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at Please also be on the lookout for upcoming -alyssa.bryant@laok.org. - announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. # PassTheEquality 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 15 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. TULSA RESPONDS OKE 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 16 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 17 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Thursday, June 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 18 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org --- All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. + + Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Tulsa Area Prime Timers Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org --- 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 19 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 20 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... Deputy Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSOt!ED ■ Y THEG~RGIU.ISH , .. MILYP'OUMDATIOJt Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 21 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Secretary Dani Byrd - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman 4/28/26, 4:12 PM �Pride Day with FC Tulsa 22 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Day-with-FC-Tulsa.html?so... Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:12 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fbc19eff08b616eec8f5c9c6b2c7aefc.pdf aeb98bce6beba7a482a5c2fe979e1805 PDF Text Text Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 1 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 6, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 4:13 PM �Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 2 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... Official Pride T-Shirts are available for $25 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Toby Jenkins is Stepping Down On July 1, 2022, Toby Jenkins will step down as the CEO/Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please help us celebrate this legendary man, his service, and all he has done for and with us! We wish Toby much love and happiness in his next chapter. -. 4/28/26, 4:13 PM �Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 3 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... OkEq's mission will continue. We will fight for equal rights for LGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Nell Equality Center. Toby's greatest wish is for the programs of OkEq to continue and remain strong. If you would like to make a donation in honor of Toby Jenkins' 25 years of service to Oklahomans for Equality and the City of Tulsa, please click on the link below. Make a Donation in Toby's Honor OKEQ Seniors Meeting Tuesday, June 7, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues + ++ OKEQ + + + SENIORS ++ ++ 4/28/26, 4:13 PM �Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 4 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OKEQ Seniors Summer Pool Party Tuesday, June 28, 10:00 a.m. RSVP for the address Members should meet on Tuesday, June 28, at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and a railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email toby.jenkins@okeq.org - - - - - to RSVP. Put "Pool Party" in the subject line. shop for good in-store or o li11e! JUNE 10-11th In-store June 10th 4-7pm Enter code GIVE CK-CBTEG in our cart or at checkout on kendrascott.com or mention it at chec)<j ut in- t re and 20% f 4/28/26, 4:13 PM �Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 5 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... ur purcha e will benefit OKEQ Oklahomans For Equality i\ ot combinable wit/J other offers. Queerly Beloved Pride Bazaar Thursday, June 16, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 Queerly Beloved Pride Bazaar, An Audience Participation Runway Extravaganza! 4/28/26, 4:13 PM �Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 6 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... Get Pride 2022 ready and $upport queer culture creators near and far. Make some noise for your favorite runway models, far traveled designer Medium Reality, alongside the diverse works of fashion-centered entrepreneurs of Tulsa, OK. And! If you dare, dress your best to strut the red carpet yourself. You have a lot to be proud of! MC of the evening is comedian Sondra Slade. You know we are in for a good time! Buy Tickets Here 4/28/26, 4:13 PM �Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 7 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... Get Your Tickets Here Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, June 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here Please join us for PRIDE BINGO, honoring Toby Jenkins at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on June 18th at 6:30 pm. With special guest Keisha Kye and Pride Royalty Granny Rainbow, King and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 Mykal Khrystian and Kitty Quinn Khrystian, King and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2020 & 2021 King Blaze Khrystian and Kitty Marie Legacy, King and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2019/ Emeritus Anita Richards and me Scrappy Legacy! Special pride drink by Michael James, our lovely bartender! Let's make this Pride Bingo the best!! See y'all there! THIS IS AN 18+ EVENT. Housing Solutions works to make homelessness rare, brief, and non-recurring in Tulsa. The Landlord Tenant Resource Center (LTRC) division works to stop homelessness before it starts by providing information and resources that can help keep our neighbors safe and stably housed. The LTRC offers tenant rights and responsibilities education, resource information, direct referrals to legal service providers, community outreach, and more. The LTRC also facilitates the Social Services Hub (Hub), Tulsa County’s only eviction diversion program. The Hub runs in conjunction with the Tulsa County eviction docket Monday through Thursday from 1:00 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. at Iron Gate (501 W. Archer). If you have received a late notice or an eviction summons, please attend the Hub for inperson assistance and learn about resources and options. Housing Solutions The LTRC will be onsite at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesdays from 4/28/26, 4:13 PM �Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 8 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... 10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m., Wednesdays from 6:00 p.m.- 7:00 p.m., and Thursday evenings beginning at 5:00 p.m. to assist with tenant rights education, eviction prevention resources (including emergency rental assistance), and access to case management services. No appointment is necessary. Please bring a photo ID (does NOT need to be current or US-issued), any late notices or summons you’ve received, and any utility bills you need assistance with. • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, June 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, June 15, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us 4/28/26, 4:13 PM �Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 9 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... E OYOU? Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey i.,68-r•• PAdJT' svHOl."r fA_t,VP 4/28/26, 4:13 PM �Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 10 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, July 2, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, July 6, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:13 PM �Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 11 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca ema1 h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, June 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. 4/28/26, 4:13 PM �Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 12 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at Please also be on the lookout for upcoming -alyssa.bryant@laok.org. - announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. # PassTheEquallty 4/28/26, 4:13 PM �Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 13 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. TULSA RESPONDS 4/28/26, 4:13 PM �Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 14 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... OKE okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 4:13 PM �Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 15 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming 4/28/26, 4:13 PM �Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 16 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org --- Thursday, June 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. OKEQ Seniors Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Tulsa Area Prime Timers Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. 4/28/26, 4:13 PM �Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 17 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His 4/28/26, 4:13 PM �Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 18 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... Alex Wade Deputy Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Jose Vega Senior Program Director He / Him / His Jose.Vega@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC lll'OHa0!tEOn Tt\lG•OIIG•IUJHII 4/28/26, 4:13 PM �Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 19 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt 4/28/26, 4:13 PM �Shop For Good With Kendra Scott 20 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Shop-For-Good-With-Kendra-Scot... Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Secretary Dani Byrd - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Visit Our Website Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:13 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2ab66dc5f48f8376b484f5b63a8c3908.pdf 98424171b3f5b92196ce592dc3f779a2 PDF Text Text Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 1 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 13, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Security Update for Tulsa Pride 2022 Oklahomans for Equality and Tulsa Pride's hearts have been heavy with the news of mass shootings across the country. From Uvalde, Texas, to our neighbors at St. Francis Hospital. Our entire country has been under attack, and we have now been alerted to a thwarted plot by the white nationalist group Patriot Front to cause a riot at an Idaho Pride Festival this past weekend. We are always aware of the safety concerns of our community and wish to do all we can to make this festival as safe and secure as possible. We have heightened our security 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 2 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... measures with bag checks at every entrance, increased security personnel throughout the festival grounds, and, as always, no weapons will be allowed at Tulsa Pride. We ask that festival-goers not engage with antagonistic protestors. Proving a point is not worth risking your safety. Remember, we must take care of each other and choose kindness in the face of tragedy. We must resist the urge to isolate ourselves from our community. At any public event, you must remain alert and go with someone you trust. Stay together and stay safe. Alex Wade Deputy Director of Oklahomans for Equality iHeartRadio and P&G are excited to announce the return of Can’t Cancel Pride 2022 – Proud AND Together. A fundraiser for the LGBTQ+ community celebrating visibility and inclusivity for all. Join us on Tuesday, June 14th, as JoJo Siwa hosts the most influential voices in the LGBTQ+ community and the biggest names in culture and entertainment. The event will honor Icon Elton John with the first-ever Impact Award for his humanitarian work through the Elton John AIDS Foundation, marking its 30-year history. Let’s raise much-needed funds for the organizations providing life-saving resources and services for the LGBTQ+ community like GLAAD, SAGE, The Trevor Project, the National Black Justice Coalition, CenterLink, and OutRight Action International. How to Watch: • Livestream on June 14th at 8 PM ET / 5 PM PT on iHeartRadio’s Facebook, YouTube, and TikTok pages, PrideRadio.com, or on Revry. • Livestream TONIGHT at 8 PM ET / 5 PM PT on iHeartRadio’s Facebook, YouTube, and TikTok pages, PrideRadio.com, or on Revry. • Video on Demand available starting June 14th at 9 PM ET / 6 PM PT through the end of Pride month (June 30th) on iHeartRadio’s Facebook and YouTube pages and on Revry. Website: Go to CantCancelPride.com for more information and to donate Toby Jenkins is Stepping Down On July 1, 2022, Toby Jenkins will step down as the CEO/Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis -. ... . 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 3 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... R. Neill Equality Center. Please help us celebrate this legendary man, his service, and all he has done for and with us! We wish Toby much love and happiness in his next chapter. ,. I .·-~ - ~ 1'1,- .· ~ : '... ~~ .,. :- : -.· .. .... . •. :. ...._.__ .) "' '\ __ ~ -· ,. ....~ 'II - • ' ... ,:;>·~-':;~;· OkEq's mission will continue. We will fight for equal rights for LGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Nell Equality Center. Toby's greatest wish is for the programs of OkEq to continue and remain strong. If you would like to make a donation in honor of Toby Jenkins' 25 years of service to Oklahomans for Equality and the City of Tulsa, please click on the link below. .. ·-- ... - - ..~ ~ i- = ,. Make a Donation in Toby's Honor OKEQ Seniors Meeting + 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 4 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... Tuesday, June 14, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ~ -,- r OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OKEQ Seniors Summer Pool Party Tuesday, June 28, 10:00 a.m. RSVP for the address Members should meet on Tuesday, June 28, at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and a railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email toby.jenkins@okeq.org - - - - to RSVP. Put "Pool Party" in the subject line. 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 5 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... Queerly Beloved Pride Bazaar Thursday, June 16, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 Queerly Beloved Pride Bazaar, An Audience Participation Runway Extravaganza! Get Pride 2022 ready and $upport queer culture creators near and far. Make some noise for your favorite runway models, far traveled designer Medium Reality, alongside the diverse works of fashion-centered entrepreneurs of Tulsa, OK. And! If you dare, dress your best to strut the red carpet yourself. You have a lot to be proud of! MC of the evening is comedian Sondra Slade. You know we are in for a good time! Buy Tickets Here Na~&Joe McDona ainbov, Library Library News! Big changes are happening at the Nancy & Joe Rainbow Library, and we couldn’t be more excited! These changes are about increasing access to the resources in the collection and adding more new and diverse materials to the collection. Back in 2007, we purchased library software that allowed us to start cataloging our collection, and while it was perfect for our needs then, the only way to view what was in the library was to physically come in and browse. However, with this software’s end-oflife coming up in the next few months, it is time to upgrade. Soon, patrons can browse and place holds on books online. In addition, email notices on due and overdue books will be auto-generated to help preserve the collection for future users. Book donations are the sole source of new materials for the library currently. However, 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 6 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... we are teaming up with Magic City Books to purchase new books at wholesale prices. Any monetary donations to the library will go towards these purchases, allowing us to grow the collection to be more intentionally inclusive and diverse. How can you help? • Visit the OKEQ booth at Pride! • Sign up for a library card, even if you have one already • Make a monetary donation to the library • Sponsor the library catalog for a month - $10/month • Volunteer to help. As we make this switch, we need detail-oriented volunteers for shelf-reading and data verification. • And if you sign up for a library card and/or make a donation at Pride, you’ll be entered into a raffle for a special prize! Interested in purchasing books directly for the library? See https:// www.autostraddle.com/best-queer-books-2021/ for a starter wish list. 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 7 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... Get Your Tickets Here Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, June 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here Please join us for PRIDE BINGO, honoring Toby Jenkins at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on June 18th at 6:30 pm. With special guest Keisha Kye and Pride Royalty Granny Rainbow, King and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2022 Mykal Khrystian and Kitty Quinn Khrystian, King and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2020 & 2021 King Blaze Khrystian and Kitty Marie Legacy, King and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2019/ Emeritus Anita Richards and me Scrappy Legacy! Special pride drink by Michael James, our lovely bartender! Let's make this Pride Bingo the best!! See y'all there! THIS IS AN 18+ EVENT. Housing Solutions works to make homelessness rare, brief, and non-recurring in Tulsa. The Landlord Tenant Resource Center (LTRC) division works to stop homelessness before it starts by providing information and resources that can help keep our neighbors safe and stably housed. The LTRC offers tenant rights and responsibilities education, resource information, direct referrals to legal service providers, community outreach, and more. The LTRC also facilitates the Social Services Hub (Hub), Tulsa County’s only eviction diversion program. The Hub Housing Solutions 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 8 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... runs in conjunction with the Tulsa County eviction docket Monday through Thursday from 1:00 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. at Iron Gate (501 W. Archer). If you have received a late notice or an eviction summons, please attend the Hub for inperson assistance and learn about resources and options. The LTRC will be onsite at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesdays from 10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m., Wednesdays from 6:00 p.m.- 7:00 p.m., and Thursday evenings beginning at 5:00 p.m. to assist with tenant rights education, eviction prevention resources (including emergency rental assistance), and access to case management services. No appointment is necessary. Please bring a photo ID (does NOT need to be current or US-issued), any late notices or summons you’ve received, and any utility bills you need assistance with. HEALTH D D Medicaid means I can take #PRIDE in my health. Health plans cover doctor visits, hospital visits, prescriptions, mental 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 9 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... healthcare, and more. Visit healthcare.gov to get started. #MedicaidMatters #PrideMonth • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, June 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, June 15, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 10 of 21 I https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... V Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey i.,68-r•• PAdJT' StJHOl."r (A./)VP A ,-tt>111ML-Y 61,t>VP Fl>'- _.. 4 8 ~ A ~ Kl t>S: 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 11 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, July 2, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, July 6, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 12 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca ema1 h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, June 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 13 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at Please also be on the lookout for upcoming -alyssa.bryant@laok.org. - announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. # PassTheEquallty 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 14 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. TULSA RESPONDS 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 15 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... 0 okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 16 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Thursday, June 16, 6:00 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 17 of 21 Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org --- https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. + + Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. OKEQ Seniors Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Tulsa Area Prime Timers Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org --- 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 18 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 19 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... Alex Wade Deputy Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Jose Vega Senior Program Director He / Him / His Jose.Vega@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC IPONIOUOIY THIGEOltOl•.t.111• FA ..!lYPOUN""TION 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 20 of 21 Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair 4/28/26, 4:15 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday! Get your tickets now! 21 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday--Get-yo... Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Secretary Dani Byrd - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:15 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/164f862f5b1cb360ad94e7afa34ef7c5.pdf 61a324ffc071a77bc6e1f1ef918a11ad PDF Text Text Tulsa Pride this Weekend! 1 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-this-Weekend-.html?s... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 21, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Security Update for Tulsa Pride 2022 Oklahomans for Equality and Tulsa Pride's hearts have been heavy with the news of mass shootings across the country. From Uvalde, Texas, to our neighbors at St. Francis Hospital. Our entire country has been under attack, and we have now been alerted to a thwarted plot by the white nationalist group Patriot Front to cause a riot at an Idaho Pride Festival this past weekend. We are always aware of the safety concerns of our community and wish to do all we can to make this festival as safe and secure as possible. We have heightened our security 4/28/26, 4:16 PM �Tulsa Pride this Weekend! 2 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-this-Weekend-.html?s... measures with bag checks at every entrance, increased security personnel throughout the festival grounds, and, as always, no weapons will be allowed at Tulsa Pride. We ask that festival-goers not engage with antagonistic protestors. Proving a point is not worth risking your safety. Remember, we must take care of each other and choose kindness in the face of tragedy. We must resist the urge to isolate ourselves from our community. At any public event, you must remain alert and go with someone you trust. Stay together and stay safe. Alex Wade Deputy Director of Oklahomans for Equality OKEQ Seniors Meeting Tuesday, June 21, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 + ++ OKEQ + + + SENIORS + + This week there will be a spaghetti luncheon! The + + mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes 4/28/26, 4:16 PM �Tulsa Pride this Weekend! 3 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-this-Weekend-.html?s... positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OKEQ Seniors Summer Pool Party Tuesday, June 28, 10:00 a.m. RSVP for the address Members should meet on Tuesday, June 28, at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and a railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email toby.jenkins@okeq.org - - - to RSVP. Put "Pool Party" in the subject line. Nann1&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library Library News! Dear Readers: OUR VOICES. Throughout not just the history of the world but our own personal history, people have tried to repress, criminalize, or shame us. Recent legislative and judicial moves are trying to erase progress that we have made in attaining our human and civil rights over the past few decades. This includes the removal of LGBTQIA++ materials from schools and libraries. I decided to come back to my previously-held position as the librarian for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library because I was angry about what was happening and knew I could do something about it. I knew our library could be strong where publiclyfunded institutions were vulnerable. While other places are getting rid of queer materials, we can add them. There are more and more people losing access to representation and identity/sexuality-based resources. We have that access and those 4/28/26, 4:16 PM �Tulsa Pride this Weekend! 4 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-this-Weekend-.html?s... resources. We can have more. This is the fuel behind the newly kickstarted library fundraising campaign “Our Voices.” Throughout the coming year, there will be opportunities to share your voice in support of this campaign. I encourage you to think about what voices have impacted you and how your voice can impact others. Your Voice Belongs. Your Voice is Valid. Vindicate Your Voice. Publicize Your Voice. There are many ways you can be a part of this mission: 1) Make a monetary donation to the library. All donations go towards purchasing new books. 2) Sponsor the library catalog for a month with a targeted donation, for as little as $10/month. 3) Volunteer to help. Our immediate need is for detail-oriented people to shelf-read and verify database information. 4) Sign up for a library card. Circulation statistics matter in external funding opportunities. And as always, I’m available to talk about how we are going to make our little Rainbow library a megaphone of Pride. Thank you for your support. Michelle Simmons Librarian, Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library michelle.simmons@okeq.org 4/28/26, 4:16 PM �Tulsa Pride this Weekend! 5 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-this-Weekend-.html?s... Get Your Tickets Here Housing Solutions works to make homelessness rare, brief, and non-recurring in Tulsa. The Landlord Tenant Resource Center (LTRC) division works to stop homelessness before it starts by providing information and resources that can help keep our neighbors safe and stably housed. The LTRC offers tenant rights and responsibilities education, resource information, direct referrals to legal service providers, community outreach, and more. The LTRC also facilitates the Social Services Hub (Hub), Tulsa County’s only eviction diversion program. The Hub runs in conjunction with the Tulsa County eviction docket Monday through Thursday from 1:00 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. at Iron Gate (501 W. Archer). If you have received a late notice or an eviction summons, please attend the Hub for inperson assistance and learn about resources and options. Housing Solutions The LTRC will be onsite at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesdays from 10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m., Wednesdays from 6:00 p.m.- 7:00 p.m., and Thursday evenings beginning at 5:00 p.m. to assist with tenant rights education, eviction prevention resources (including emergency rental assistance), and access to case management services. No appointment is necessary. Please bring a photo ID (does NOT need to be current or US-issued), any late notices or summons you’ve received, and any utility bills you need assistance with. 4/28/26, 4:16 PM �Tulsa Pride this Weekend! 6 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-this-Weekend-.html?s... LIHY D Having health insurance for your family is one way to take #PRIDE in your health. Medicaid offers free or low-cost health insurance. Visit healthcare.gov to see if you qualify! #PrideMonth #MedicaidMatters Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, July 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, 4/28/26, 4:16 PM �Tulsa Pride this Weekend! 7 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-this-Weekend-.html?s... housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office --phone is (918) 295-9429. Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, July 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us W Ii. ISSUES AR' THE ,MOST MPOR 1~NTTOYOU? Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. 4/28/26, 4:16 PM �Tulsa Pride this Weekend! 8 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-this-Weekend-.html?s... Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey L68Ttt+ PAI.ENT SVPPOI.T 61.0VP ___ A Mt,NTULY 611,,t,VP Ft,~ PA~ENT'S WITU L6BT~+ ICll>S. LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, July 2, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. 4/28/26, 4:16 PM �Tulsa Pride this Weekend! 9 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-this-Weekend-.html?s... This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, July 6, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator 4/28/26, 4:16 PM �Tulsa Pride this Weekend! 10 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-this-Weekend-.html?s... Josh Payt n Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, July 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming 4/28/26, 4:16 PM �Tulsa Pride this Weekend! 11 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-this-Weekend-.html?s... announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act -----People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused 4/28/26, 4:16 PM �Tulsa Pride this Weekend! 12 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-this-Weekend-.html?s... service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ------Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. T LSA RESPONDS OKE 1 okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 4:16 PM �Tulsa Pride this Weekend! 13 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-this-Weekend-.html?s... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly r C' I\JTC' C ..d r T I (""\ 1\.1 l\.l C'T\J\T(""\Ck' 4/28/26, 4:16 PM �Tulsa Pride this Weekend! 14 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-this-Weekend-.html?s... ~ L..tl' 1 L..tl'- ~~ 11.._,1"11 A PROGRAM OF J ' L..t I VV.._,1'-1'- CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Thursday, July 21, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email 4/28/26, 4:16 PM �Tulsa Pride this Weekend! 15 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-this-Weekend-.html?s... alex.wade@okeq.org Daniel Buck for more information. OKEQ Seniors Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Tulsa Area Prime Timers Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Equality Game Night 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Community Partners EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month 4/28/26, 4:16 PM �Tulsa Pride this Weekend! 16 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-this-Weekend-.html?s... www.okeq.org/eba ------ -- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Deputy Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org 4/28/26, 4:16 PM �Tulsa Pride this Weekend! 17 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-this-Weekend-.html?s... Jose Vega Senior Program Director He / Him / His Jose.Vega@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC IPONSO!tEOn Tt1IG•o1tG•1UJs•11 fAMllYfOUNOATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 4:16 PM �Tulsa Pride this Weekend! 18 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-this-Weekend-.html?s... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Secretary Dani Byrd - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Heather Hornig 4/28/26, 4:16 PM �Tulsa Pride this Weekend! 19 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tulsa-Pride-this-Weekend-.html?s... Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Visit Our Website Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4c20638acc897ee8e0eb416a23e10a1e.pdf c672b1f54fc604335ba2996b124e6792 PDF Text Text Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! 1 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-For-An-Amazing-Pri... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 27, 2022 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Norman Kopp has Sponsored the Day In honor of Toby Jenkins' 25 years of Service to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 4:17 PM �Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! 2 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-For-An-Amazing-Pri... Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! You made Tulsa Pride wonderful! We had the most parade entries, sponsors, vendors, and runners in the Rainbow Run in Tulsa Pride history! We're thankful to you all for treating one another with kindness and respect. We did not have any major incidents and everyone affected by the heat has recovered well. Special thank you to our amazing volunteers as well as our dedicated board and staff! Pride may have come to an end, but we can still continue to support one another and uplift our community. If you are in need of support, come down to the Equality Center to learn about our amazing programs and 4/28/26, 4:17 PM �Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! 3 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-For-An-Amazing-Pri... The Equality Center will be closed Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday to allow our staff to recover from Pride. We will open Wednesday, June 29th. See you then! OKEQ Seniors Summer Pool Party Tuesday, June 28, 10:00 a.m. RSVP for the address Members should meet on Tuesday, June 28, at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot 4/28/26, 4:17 PM �Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! 4 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-For-An-Amazing-Pri... dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and a railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email toby.jenkins@okeq.org - - - to RSVP. Put "Pool Party" in the subject line. Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library Library News! Dear Readers: OUR VOICES. Throughout not just the history of the world but our own personal history, people have tried to repress, criminalize, or shame us. Recent legislative and judicial moves are trying to erase progress that we have made in attaining our human and civil rights over the past few decades. This includes the removal of LGBTQIA++ materials from schools and libraries. I decided to come back to my previously-held position as the librarian for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library because I was angry about what was happening and knew I could do something about it. I knew our library could be strong where publiclyfunded institutions were vulnerable. While other places are getting rid of queer materials, we can add them. There are more and more people losing access to representation and identity/sexuality-based resources. We have that access and those resources. We can have more. This is the fuel behind the newly kickstarted library fundraising campaign “Our Voices.” Throughout the coming year, there will be opportunities to share your voice in support of this campaign. I encourage you to think about what voices have impacted you and how your voice can impact others. Your Voice Belongs. Your Voice is Valid. 4/28/26, 4:17 PM �Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! 5 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-For-An-Amazing-Pri... Vindicate Your Voice. Publicize Your Voice. There are many ways you can be a part of this mission: 1) Make a monetary donation to the library. All donations go towards purchasing new books. 2) Sponsor the library catalog for a month with a targeted donation, for as little as $10/month. 3) Volunteer to help. Our immediate need is for detail-oriented people to shelf-read and verify database information. 4) Sign up for a library card. Circulation statistics matter in external funding opportunities. And as always, I’m available to talk about how we are going to make our little Rainbow library a megaphone of Pride. Thank you for your support. Michelle Simmons Librarian, Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library michelle.simmons@okeq.org Housing Solutions works to make homelessness rare, brief, and non-recurring in Tulsa. The Landlord-Tenant Resource Center (LTRC) division works to stop homelessness before it starts by providing information and resources that can help keep our neighbors safe and stably housed. The LTRC offers tenant rights and responsibilities education, resource information, direct referrals to legal service providers, community outreach, and more. The LTRC also facilitates the Social Services Hub (Hub), Tulsa County’s only eviction diversion program. The Hub runs in conjunction with the Tulsa County eviction docket Monday through Thursday from 1:00 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. at Iron Gate (501 W. Archer). If you have received a late notice or an eviction summons, please attend the Hub for inperson assistance and learn about resources and options. Housing Solutions The LTRC will be onsite at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Wednesdays from 6:00 p.m.- 7:00 p.m., and Thursday evenings beginning at 5:00 p.m. to assist with tenant rights education, eviction prevention resources (including emergency rental assistance), and access to case management services. No appointment is necessary. Please bring a photo ID (does NOT need to be current or US-issued), any late notices or summons you’ve received, and any utility bills you need assistance with. 4/28/26, 4:17 PM �Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! 6 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-For-An-Amazing-Pri... n, It’s #PRIDE Month. Let’s talk about Medicaid. Medicaid offers free or low-cost health insurance so you’re protected in case of injury or sickness. Go to healthcare.gov to enroll. #PrideMonth #MedicaidMatters • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, July 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone 4/28/26, 4:17 PM �Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! 7 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-For-An-Amazing-Pri... number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office --phone is (918) 295-9429. Pre-OP/Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, July 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery or who are on the road to getting surgery. This serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery as well as share resources amongst one another. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us W Ii. ISSUES AR' THE MOST MPOR 1~NTTOYOU? Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: 4/28/26, 4:17 PM �Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! 8 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-For-An-Amazing-Pri... Click Here for Survey L68Tt.Q+ PAI.ENT SV1¥61.T 61.0VP --.A Mt,NTULY 6/tt,VP Ft,~ PA~ENT'S WITU L6BT~+ ICll>S. LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, July 2, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. 4/28/26, 4:17 PM �Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! 9 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-For-An-Amazing-Pri... Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, July 6, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator 4/28/26, 4:17 PM �Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! 10 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-For-An-Amazing-Pri... on Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, July 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/28/26, 4:17 PM �Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! 11 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-For-An-Amazing-Pri... Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at Please also be on the lookout for upcoming -alyssa.bryant@laok.org. - announcements on fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income or whether or not they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. # PassTheEquality 4/28/26, 4:17 PM �Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! 12 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-For-An-Amazing-Pri... The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. In addition, if you have Soonercare but have not updated your contact information with Soonercare in the last couple of months, there is a good chance you will be unenrolled from Soonercare this summer. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. TULSA RESPONDS OKE 4/28/26, 4:17 PM �Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! 13 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-For-An-Amazing-Pri... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 4:17 PM �Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! 14 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-For-An-Amazing-Pri... C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Thursday, July 21, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/28/26, 4:17 PM �Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! 15 of 19 Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org --- https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-For-An-Amazing-Pri... All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. + + Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/ queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck for more information. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Tulsa Area Prime Timers Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org --- 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. 4/28/26, 4:17 PM �Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! 16 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-For-An-Amazing-Pri... Community Partners H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Every Tuesday strengthens and expands our businesses, careers from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. and community. 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month www.okeq.org/eba --- from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade 4/28/26, 4:17 PM �Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! 17 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-For-An-Amazing-Pri... Interim Executive Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Jose Vega Senior Program Director He / Him / His Jose.Vega@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL r~ii~tl;:~~ Lily Piña 4/28/26, 4:17 PM �Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! 18 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-For-An-Amazing-Pri... Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Tery DeShong, Esq. - Treasurer Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Secretary Dani Byrd - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Julie Chase 4/28/26, 4:17 PM �Thank You For An Amazing Pride Weekend! 19 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-For-An-Amazing-Pri... Whitney Cipolla Claire Combs Joann Frizell Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Eric Wilson Jane Wiseman Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross Monique Washington Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 4:17 PM � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Sub-Series] OKEQ > Publications > OKEQ eNews Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2022] OKEQ eNews https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/67ae4ff2d8c544a1360125b439101c22.pdf 6294cefbf13a695ed6ae891be5c4d5d5 PDF Text Text An Evening with John Paul Brammer 1 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews October 4th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 2 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... We celebrate the 7th Anniversary of Marriage Equality for Oklahomans on October 6, 2021 Same-sex couples began marrying in Oklahoma on October 6, 2014, after the United States Supreme Court denied review of a federal legal case in which a federal judge and the U.S. Court of Appeals for the 10th Circuit ruled that denying same-sex couples the freedom to marry in Oklahoma is unconstitutional. Learn More Here ...__--u.J.u----___, OlLAHOMAliS FOi EQUALITY ~~~ JOHif FAUL BRAMMER 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 3 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... Lflffl RIG65 THEATRE DEnms R. IIEILL EQUALITY CEliTER ~11 E 4TH PRIDE ST RSVF FOR TICKETS An Evening with John Paul Brammer Tonight, October 4, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality has invited author and artist John Paul Brammer to Oklahoma as a part of our annual celebration of Hispanic/Latinx Heritage Month. John Paul Brammer is a writer and artist from rural Oklahoma who is currently based in Brooklyn. He will be interviewed by Donovid Sekulits, the Latinx Outreach & Library Services Coordinator. They will talk about what gay Latinx pride means to them and discuss his new memoir, ¡Hola Papi! There will be a small reception before the event in his honor. Our theater is equipped with an air filtration system, but we also require that anyone attending wears a mask during the event. Being fully vaccinated is highly encouraged. Prepackaged snacks and drinks will be provided. Click the ticket link below to RSVP to this event. This is a free event, but donations are appreciated. Tickets 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 4 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... Donations Facebook Link Watch Video Below Simon & Schuster Books a Watch on 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 5 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... Kati Falcon's "Fluid Feathers" Thursday, October 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Kati Falcon is a Fluid Acrylic Artist and Tulsa native. Kati’s art combines the natural with the abstract and gets inspiration from nature and science. Bold colors and broad strokes help her achieve a wonderful fluid effect. When finished with resin, this medium takes on a personality of its own. “Experimentation, and the challenge of how far I can push it, keeps me painting.” “I really enjoy sharing art with the OKEQ. This is the first place that made me feel like a real artist. The center is inviting, and the staff are warm and welcoming, not to mention the patrons have excellent taste.” Kati Falcon The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, October 2nd, with COVID measures in place for those not vaccinated. The Artist Reception is Thursday, October 7th, at 6:00 p.m. with. The exhibit continues throughout the month. 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 6 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 7 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... Tulsa Pride Store at the State Fair Ongoing till Sunday, October 10th Tulsa Fair Grounds 4145 E. 21st St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will have an indoor booth in the Tulsa Expo Center with the Pride store, information, and volunteers! This is a great chance to run into familiar faces and meet new ones. Don't forget to wear your pride attire to spread awareness and visibility of our presence in Tulsa! Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 8 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, October 6, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 9 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, October 5, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Wednesday Community Connections Transgender I01 with Dr. Al Carlozzi CENTENNIAL Program begins @ 5:30 pm, Classes @ 7 pm. Details: allsoulschurch.org/wcc Transgender 101 Wednesday, October 6, 7:00 p.m. Online This program is an introduction to the topic of transgender and gender-expansive identity. Come with an open mind and ask questions—part of Wednesday Community Connections. Program at 5:30 p.m., classes at 7 p.m. Drop-ins on zoom are welcome. 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 10 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... This event will be facilitated by Al Carlozzi, Professor Emeritus, Oklahoma State University, and currently Interim Director, Counseling and Psychological Services, University of Tulsa; co-editor of the book, Transgender and Gender Diverse Persons: A Handbook for Service Providers, Educators, and Families. This Wednesday Community Connections class is on zoom and is free and open to adults. Details about WCC, allsoulschurch.org/wcc Link to Facebook Event LGBT Women's Network: October Happy Hour Wednesday, October 6, 5:45 p.m. Maggie's Music Box 201 E. Main S. Jenks, OK 74037 Join like-minded women in Tulsa at a monthly happy hour for LGBT professionals to meet new people and grow their business & personal networks lll?IT:1 A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 11 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... THURSDAY OCT. 7 6PM f ACEBOOK LIVE ·, ' SPECIAL GUEST REV. ALVARO NOVA OCHOA COMUNIDAD DE ESPERANZA LUTHERAN CHURCH I : Jl : EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE Spirit! Spiritual Happy Hour with Rev. Alvaro Nova Ochoa Thursday, October 7, 6:00 p.m. Facebook Live What is SPIRIT? SPIRIT is a virtual happy hour-style discussion group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether their goal is to reconnect with faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce faith, or just connect with other people, SPIRIT is the group for individuals to explore faith and sexuality. Each Thursday, a spiritual advisor from the region and surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. The precepts of the group are C.A.R.E: 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practices. Facebook Event Link 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 12 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... GEN Q First Thursday Art Gallery Kati Falcon's "Fluid Feathers" Thursday, October 7th, 6:00 p.m. Artist's Reception Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, October 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Fair Housing for LGBTQ+ Elissa Furlong is a Staff Attorney at Legal 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 13 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... Aid Services of Oklahoma. She is from upstate New York but attended Mississippi College School of Law, graduating at the top of her class. In addition to having worked for two private attorneys, Elissa has previously interned with the legal department of a United Nations agency. Ms. Furlong has also completed legal fellowships and externships in the areas of employment discrimination, workers' rights, civil rights, and LGBTQ+ legislation and advocacy. Elissa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-409-2115, or email her at elissa.furlong@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements pertaining to fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. • • • 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 14 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... • • • Alphabet Soup Youth Leadership Lock-In Registration to Participate October 15-17, 2021 The Alphabet Soup Youth Leadership Lock-In 2021 will bring together LGBTQ+ youth in middle school and high school from across the state to socialize, develop leadership skills, and have a great time! Throughout the lock-In, youth will have the unique opportunity to build partnerships, learn new skills, and develop leadership skills to impact their community. Who Should Attend? Youth: Youth in grades 6 through 12 who identify as LGBTQ+ interested in connecting with and impacting their community. What Will We Do? Youth will participate in interactive workshops focusing on leadership development, community impact, and self-expression. In addition, there will be informative and motivational keynote speakers, lots of fun activities, and entertainment! Register Here ~ ¥ .OUTSIDE ·. THEB ~ 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 15 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... ~ cp.s Q %2 , • 2£ffY 4 C E7Ziiil5::' j •ii Outside the Box Monday, October 19, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Velvet Moon Thursday, October 21, 8:00 p.m. Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 “Velvet Moon” will feature the voices of Mickey Casper, Gus Canady, Jr. and Sheila Alley performing timeless classics spanning the days of the Rat Pack, to current jazz and swing. Christy Stalcup will be on keys, of course! Buy Your Tickets Here E ALITY usiness Alliance 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 16 of 41 • https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... I Fi ti tl:t¼ •, 111 h:1 i I 11 W•1t: 1•1 1I \'f \1:::67 11 t=+~ EBA Mixer Thursday, October 28, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Triangle Coffee 314 S Cincinnati Ave, Tulsa, OK 74103 www.trianglecoffee.co At Triangle Coffee, you can always expect great customer service, know you're free to be yourself at our shop and get an excellent cup of coffee. Triangle Coffee will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for October. Please join us and bring a friend. Equality Business Alliance Beyond Brokeback October 28th through October 30th, 8:00 p.m. Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This powerful readers’ theatre piece will celebrate the 15th anniversary of the release of the movie BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN. Playwright Gregory Hinton (MORE SKY) assembled writings from a blog detailing how the film affected and changed the lives of so many. The production is directed by Vern and Lisa Stefanic, with music direction by Rick Fortner. And the cast is stellar: Kurt Harris, Travis Guillory, Nash McQuarters, Kia Hightower, Juan Reinoso, Kara Staiger, and Lisa Stefanic. 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 17 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... Buy Your Tickets Here Transgender Resource Fair Saturday, November 13th, 2021 Trans-Friendly Resources including: ~ Health Care Cosmetic Clothing Closet Massage I Mental Health Sexual Health Legal Assistance Hair Stylists Hosted by The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Trans Resource Fair 2021 Saturday, November 13, 12:30 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us at the Equality Center for a day of community, wellness, and fun for Tulsaarea trans folks! You’ll get a chance to connect with trans-friendly medical doctors, legal counsel, wellness professionals, hairstylists, and make-up artists. Then, swing by the clothing swap and pick out some new additions to your wardrobe, show off your new style with a portrait photo session, do some arts & 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 18 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... crafts activities with other fair-goers, and grab a bite to eat – it’s on us! This fair serves as an opportunity for trans folks to easily find resources, assistance, and community and receive supplies from community-vetted transfriendly resources. We especially hope to aid those who are financially unable to access basic necessities that trans folks need daily, as well as those who might not be as plugged into the local trans community. **************************************************************** We Are Looking for help: Donation Collection: For the clothing swap, we are working to be established. If you have a place to collect Let us know. Clothing Donations: We are looking for New or Barely New. Dye and fragrance-free options are preferred whenever possible to accommodate anybody who wants to participate in the clothing swap. Our highest priority clothing items currently include: • Women’s shoes, size 10+ • Men’s & Women’s plus-sizes • Youth & junior sizes • New or unused make-up or beauty products However, we are accepting gently worn items for all ages, sizes, and bodies! To arrange a bulk donation pick-up, please fill out the form below. **************************************************************** Wanna help out? Please use our Google form to let us know how! Trans Fair Signup We’ll be in touch soon! Donate Here Sign Up Here 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 19 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Every Fourth Thursday at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This is Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa's very first meeting back! Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 20 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... Neurodiversity First and Third Tuesday at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. The group is open to people on the autism spectrum, people who have ADHD, anxiety, Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, as well as supportive friends and family. We want everyone to feel welcome and know that they have a home in this community. We meet twice a month to play games, make art, go on outings, chat, and connect with likeminded individuals in our community. For more information, or to join our next meeting, please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information Brought To You Bi the Letter B 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 21 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. ~ ~ ~ ·.·. A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. •.•. • B -~ .. COMING SOON f ACEBOOK LIVE . 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 22 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... WITH SARA EVANS AND BRITTNEY HUDSON EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE OKEQ stands with the Hudson-Evans family against religious discrimination of LGBTQ+ families. Read their story here and look for our upcoming SPIRIT interview with Sara and Brittney. Facebook Page "Sarah Stone is a photographer from New York with roots in Oklahoma and Missouri. She has worked as a commercial photographer for several years and is now starting a project documenting members of the LGBTQ+ family. The 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 23 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... photographs would be for personal use and possibly displayed in an art setting at a later date. She is looking for all types of humans. Partial or slight nudity could be discussed, not required. Single humans and couples (including small groups of friends) are welcome. All ages, gender identities, and bodies are welcome and celebrated. Sarah welcomes any and all questions and wants to ensure the comfort of any participant. Models would get a hi-res digital file of several images of their choosing. All interested parties, please email or text to schedule a meeting. Email Sarah Here PARTICIPATE IN THE YOUTH AND YOUNG ADULT COVID-19 IMPACTS STUDY! Earn up to $45 for completing two online surveys, plus an additional $50 if you participate in an interview about you, your experiences during COVID-19, and your mental, physical, and emotional health. ELIGIBLITY ► AGES 14-24 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 24 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... ~ LIVE IN THE USA U.S. territories welcome to participate! The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study Our partners at Evaluation, Data Integration, and Technical Assistance (EDIT) Program have a new exciting paid research opportunity. Please see their message below: Researchers at the EDIT team wanted to let you know about a new study we are starting. The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study! The new study is for LGBTQ+ individuals ages 14-24. If that describes you, then please keep reading to learn more about the study. If that doesn’t describe you, then please share this announcement with any LGBTQ+ people you know! If you agree to participate, you’ll be asked to complete an online survey two times: once on the day, you enroll and once exactly six months after that. The survey will take about 45 minutes. How does it work? You’ll be asked questions about topics such as: · You · Your experiences during COVID-19 · Your mental, physical, and emotional health You will receive $30 for completing the first survey and $15 for completing the second survey. You will receive your payment in the form of a virtual gift card, which you can use anywhere online. We will email the gift card to you within two weeks of completing the survey. If you’re interested, we may also invite you to participate in an interview with us. If you agree to participate in an interview, you will receive an additional $50. If you’re interested in participating, please click on the link below. It will take you to a page where you can book a time to speak to someone from our study team over the phone and enroll in the study. If you have any questions, you can email me back or e-mail the study team at YYAhealth@northwestern.edu. 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 25 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... Youth and Young Adults COVID-19 Survey Screener City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 26 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... Donald Fruechting July 4, 1938 - August 20, 2021 Click here for Donald Fruechting's Obituary Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library EOO.K OF THE \/EE.K iHOLA PAPlf EY JOHl1 PAUL ERAMMER In iHola Papi!, JP shares his story of growing up biracial and in the closet in America's heartland, while attempting to answer some of life's toughest questions. How do I let go of the past? How do I become the person I want to be? Is there such a thing as being too gay? Should I hook up with my grade school bully now that he's out of the closet? Questions we've all asked ourselves, surely. AUTHOR 5FOTLIGHT 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 27 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... JOHif FAUL ERAMMER John Paul Brammer-is a writer and artist from rural Oklahoma who is currently based in Brooklyn. He started his advice column iHola Papi! in 2017, and thousands of letters later there is now a memoir of the same name published by Simon & Schuster's flagship imprint and available wherever books are sold. OKE okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 28 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... Click here to Support Monthly The City of Tulsa is committed to creat ng a respectful and professional work environment. e al onen at on gender n ty and gend r e pr ssion ar pro ec d. D criminat1on, h r m nt nd t It tion in ny 1d City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 29 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 30 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • • • ---- • • ~ 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. 11 ~ 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 31 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... I PARENTS OF LOBTQ2SJA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People Support Group for Parents of 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 32 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and all teens under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 33 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... Lets Talk ., BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGI! kAISElt FAMILY FOUNDATIOl<I Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537 opt 1. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health -... 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 34 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... A lliance ,. The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 35 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 36 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, October 21, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Support Group The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 37 of 41 for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -- The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -- Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 38 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ----- -- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 39 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC S-SOtllDIY lHIOEOltGIIUUHlt fAHlllY,OUNOATION 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 40 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President 4/28/26, 3:08 PM �An Evening with John Paul Brammer 41 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/An-Evening-with-John-Paul-Bra... Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross William Vaughn Board of Advisors Cray Bauxmont-Flynn Dani Byrd Whitney Cipolla Matt Else, D.O. Christian Fencer Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:08 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8d381ec7f2932d47416b35525c12823f.pdf 60964f6d5de7521df459f45c8d37daf6 PDF Text Text Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 1 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews July 12, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 2 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be closed on Saturday, July 17th Equality Gala Tickets Saturday, July 17 Cox Convention Center Grand Hall 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Tickets for the 2021 Equality Gala are now on sale. Celebrate 40 years of Oklahomans for Equality with us at the new Cox Convention Center Grand Hall in Downtown Tulsa. Click Here for Tickets and More Information 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 3 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... Oklahomans for Equality recognizes Will Inder for lending his time, talent, and effort to fabricate and install new flagpoles over the center. Thanks Will! William Inder is a local artist, builder, and ally. Will has donated his time and talent to fabricate three new extended flagpoles to fly above the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. His friends Hailey Lynn Thurman and Keith Mackey helped install the new poles right before Tulsa Pride 2021. Will is a big brother to two siblings and a friend to all. He is always looking for creative solutions to solve difficult problems and help others in his community. Will paints, sculpts, welds, and is producing a web series interviewing local artists, musicians, and interesting personalities throughout Tulsa. Visit his website www.williaminder.com to learn more. SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 4 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ ~~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, July 13, 10:00 a.m. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. At noon the Equality Van will shuttle SAGE members to the Senior Safety Lifestyle Fair at the Expo Center. 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 5 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... S.A.G.E. Outing Friday, July 30, 9:00 a.m. Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Art 2021 E. 71st St. Tulsa, OK 74136 https://jewishmuseumtulsa.org/ - --------SAGE Tulsa will visit the Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Art on Friday, July 30th. Meet at the Equality Center at 9:00 a.m. We will tour the Museum and have lunch afterward. Please bring money for lunch. RSVP to Toby.jenkins@okeq.org Put Museum in the subject line when emailing Toby. RSVP HERE Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive Friday, July 30 2 - 7 p.m. Event Center Schedule an appointment at obi.org or call 877-340-8777 today! I All donors receive a Summer Story t-shirt• and their choice of the following tickets: Blood Drive with Oklahoma Blood Institute Friday, July 30, 2:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a blood drive with the Oklahoma Blood Institute. This blood drive will be from 2:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. on Friday, July 30th 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 6 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The FDA has reduced the abstinence period for men who have sex with men. If you have not engaged in sexual activity in 90 days, you are eligible to donate blood. This abstinence period is still not what we want, but we encourage you to donate if you qualify. If you have an O-negative blood type, you're especially encouraged to donate. If you cannot join us on Friday, donate whenever possible! Schedule an appointment here https://www.yourbloodinstitute.org/donor/auth/ signin or call 918-703-4800. Using donor express, you can complete your predonation screening on your smartphone or tablet on the day of your appointment. https://obi.org/donor-express/ E GENO WILL RESUME ON AUGUST 5TH! Contact Us Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, July 20, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGAL AID ttz. SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "firstcome, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 7 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, July 21, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. For More Information Contact Us 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 8 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... art SHOW: JUL y 1 s 1 art RECEPTION·· JULY - July 31 s1 1 s1 6 I pm 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 9 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... ans for Equality Neill Equality Center t 4120 Aaron Rayner: "Out on a Limb" Thursday, July 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa-based artist, Aaron Rayner, has been honing his skills in capturing mood and human connection for the past several years. A classically trained artist and digital marketeer, Aaron has blended his formal education with his fascination with storytelling and personal empowerment (through messaging and art), bringing about a stylized human connection through color and lighting. Aaron's evolution into various mediums allowed him to introduce a freedom and flexibility to his storytelling, with themes ranging from dance and movement to fantasy and impressionism. Constantly honoring his art professors mentorships, Aaron's compositions are bold, balanced, and true. Click Here to Visit the Gallery Online Click Here to Purchase Art See the Virtual Tour Below 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 10 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost Lynette Erwin Waller June 26, 1960 - June 24, 2021 Click Here for Lynette Waller's Obituary 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 11 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... Kenneth "Ken" Lee Roberts September 11, 1944 - June 16, 2021 Click Here for Ken's Obituary Visit our website "Trish" Agnes Patricia Spurgin January 6, 1941 - June 27, 2021 Married to Carrie Fleharty Celebrated their Anniversary is December, 15th 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 12 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... Reginald "Regie" Finley aka Raghenna May 31, 1959 - June 18, 2021 Click Here for Reginald "Regie" Finley aka Raghenna's Obituary Crystal Meth Anonymous Every Monday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ANONYMOUS Crystal Meth Anonymous is a fellowship of people for whom all drugs, specifically crystal meth, have become a problem. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop using. There are no dues or membership lists. The fellowship that is Crystal Meth Anonymous is a new way of life without Crystal Meth. Crystal Meth Anonymous advocates a twelve-step recovery program for spiritual development, no matter our religious beliefs or background. The first step in our recovery is an admission by the addict that he or she is powerless over crystal meth and that life has become unmanageable. NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center .. • • 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 13 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... Neurodiversity Tulsa 1st and 3rd Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information Brought to you Bi the letter B in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 14 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 15 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... ./ {I( • ·: ••~LGBT_, ,,,, mnen s Network .. LGBT Women's Network: August Happy Hour Wednesday, August 4, 5:30 p.m. Deco Lounge 607 S. Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74120 LGBTQIA+ come & go gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, have some fun, and network if you'd like to. ALL are welcome and we hope you will join us. If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested to visit all LGBT-friendly locations! (Q)~[E©) (C(Q)~~ £~ (C (Q) ~ [E (C 1r £ ~ [Q) (Q) A GROUP FOR LGBTQ+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE Every srd Sunday of the Month 5-6:oo p.m. email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 16 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... OKEQ Compas Conectando Sunday, August 15, 5:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. All sexual identities and gender expressions are welcome. We will speak in both English and Spanish. email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org - - for more information Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultura Todas las identidades y expresiones de género son bienvenidas Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para mas informacion. - - Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 17 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... En el Dennis R. Neill Equality Center en Tulsa, Oklahoma, hay muchos eventos, grupos de apoyo, grupos sociales, consejería y servicios médicos. mira abajo Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Cemetery Boys by Aiden Thomas Yadriel has summoned a ghost, and now he can't get rid of him. When his traditional Latinx family has problems accepting his true gender, Yadriel becomes determined to prove himself a real brujo. With the help of his cousin and best friend Maritza, he performs the ritual himself, and then sets out to find the ghost of his murdered cousin and set it free. However, the ghost he summons is actually Julian Diaz, the school's resident bad boy, and Julian is not about to go quietly into death. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Aiden Thomas- Ai den Thomas received their MF A in Creative Writing from Mills College. Born in Oakland, Califomia, Ai den often haunted Mow1tain View Cemetery like a second home during their misspent youth. As a queer, trans-Latinx, Aiden advocates strongly for diverse representation in all media. AIDEN THOMAS 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 18 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... OKE , okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 19 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... Grateful Day Foundation Wellness Retreat The 2021 HIV Wellness Retreat is just around the corner. Thursday 8/26/21 to Sunday 8/29/21. Follow the links below to sign up to attend the retreat, and then pre-pay your fees via the OkEq E-Store. Register for HIV Wellness Retreat Th City of Tul a i committed to creat ng nd 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 20 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... I in ny City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 21 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 22 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... • • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. AM LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA AMDOKEQ Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 23 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact PARENTS OF LO8TQ2SIA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 24 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... ,.. _~~- . ~ ·-: r '_ ..= :• ,, ;; ..;....,._. ___ ~ _;.: - CENTER _ >-·~ • l ••• Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 25 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma APPOINTMENT ONLINE ORG/OKEO·HEAL TH-CLINIC OR CALL 918-938-6537! 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 26 of 34 KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 27 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 28 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, August 12th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 29 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- ---- Support Group for Parents of Transgender People \., , ' J ~ l £ \/,, \ f \ m~ , "'' ri j~, .. ~ Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Transgender Teens 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - - ---- The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - - ---- fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet Support Group SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 30 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... for Partners of Transgender People adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - - ---- sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Unity, and Preparation for Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. - - - - ---- Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 31 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. ideas, contacts, products and services, and also provided by H.O.P.E. Testing strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. www.okeq.org/eba ------- -- OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 32 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC S~NSORIDIY !:!::~:~~~::,: Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 33 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong Shannon Gordon Fair Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Stephen Rundell Board of Advisors Cray Bauxmont-Flynn Dani Byrd Whitney Cipolla Matt Else, D.O. Christian Fencer Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein 4/28/26, 2:45 PM �Last Chance to Buy Tickets for the Equality Gala 34 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Last-Chance-to-Buy-Tickets-for-t... Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:45 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e4be3ae1d82f1d3dc9982e33d0d1a4f8.pdf f363ba1b48f1fb9cca11785984231edc PDF Text Text Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 1 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews July 19, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 2 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... Thank you for your incredible support of our 2021 Equality Gala. Remembering our 41 years of service to the LGBTQ+ community of Oklahoma was a reminder that we need each other more than ever. Your sponsorship, donations, attendance, and encouragement are greatly appreciated and deeply valued. Special thanks to our volunteers and 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 3 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... Gala Chair Paul Allen, who directed our board and staff in presenting four decades of the vital work of Oklahomans for Equality. Thank you for standing with us during this moment of global uncertainty as we try to build a better world. SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. sao-e ;~~~~:~~o~ ~~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 4 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, July 20, 10:00 a.m. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. S.A.G.E. Outing Friday, July 30, 9:00 a.m. Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Art 2021 E. 71st St. Tulsa, OK 74136 https://jewishmuseumtulsa.org/ SAGE Tulsa will visit the Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Art on Friday, July 30th. Meet at the Equality Center at 9:00 a.m. We will tour the Museum and have lunch afterward. Please bring money for lunch. 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 5 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... RSVP to Toby.jenkins@okeq.org ----Put Museum in the subject line when emailing Toby. RSVP HERE E ALITY usiness Alliance EBA Mixer Thursday, July 22nd, 2021 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Fully Promoted 8252 E 41st St, Tulsa, OK 74145 Tulsa, OK 74145 www.fullypromoted.com We provide branded apparel, embroidery and screen print services along with promotional products and print to fully promote the local business community. From tradeshow gear to swag bags, if you need something branded, we are your one stop local source. The Equality Business Alliance exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ -welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: • Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ -welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; • Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and • Creating professional environments where LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually the 4th Thursday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 6 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. Benefits of Membership: 1. Inclusion in EBA Merchant & Members listing on Oklahomans for Equality website 2. Email updates of all EBA events and opportunities 3. Invitation to Networking Events and ability to host 4. Marketing opportunities at EBA and community events Attend one of our events to discover more about what we do or connect with us one on one to figure out if we might be a good fit. Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive Friday, July 30 2 - 7 p.m. Event Center Schedule an appointment at obi.org or call 877-340-8777 today! I All donors receive a Summer Story t-shirt• and their choice of the following tickets: Blood Drive with Oklahoma Blood Institute Friday, July 30, 2:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a blood drive with the Oklahoma Blood Institute. This blood drive will be from 2:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. on Friday, July 30th at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The FDA has reduced the abstinence period for men who have sex with men. If you have not engaged in sexual activity in 90 days, you are eligible to donate blood. This abstinence period is still not what we want, but we encourage you to donate if you qualify. If you have an O-negative blood type, you're especially 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 7 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... encouraged to donate. If you cannot join us on Friday, donate whenever possible! Schedule an appointment here https://www.yourbloodinstitute.org/donor/auth/ signin or call 918-703-4800. Using donor express, you can complete your predonation screening on your smartphone or tablet on the day of your appointment. https://obi.org/donor-express/ E GENO WILL RESUME ON AUGUST 5TH! Contact Us Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, July 20, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGAL AID ttz. SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "firstcome, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 8 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone - - is (918) 295-9429. Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, July 21, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. For More Information Contact Us 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 9 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... art SHOW: JULY 1st - July 31 st art RECEPTION: JULY 1st, 6 pm ans for Equality Neill Equality Center t 4120 Aaron Rayner: "Out on a Limb" Thursday, July 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa-based artist, Aaron Rayner, has been honing his skills in capturing mood and human connection for the past several years. A classically trained artist and digital marketeer, Aaron has blended his formal education with his fascination with storytelling and personal empowerment (through messaging and art), bringing about a stylized human connection through color and lighting. Aaron's evolution into various mediums allowed him to introduce a freedom and flexibility to his storytelling, with themes ranging from dance and movement to fantasy and impressionism. Constantly honoring his art professors' mentorships, Aaron's compositions are bold, balanced, and true. Click Here to Visit the Gallery Online Click Here to Purchase Art 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 10 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... See the Virtual Tour Below In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 11 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... Lynette Erwin Waller June 26, 1960 - June 24, 2021 Click Here for Lynette Waller's Obituary Kenneth "Ken" Lee Roberts September 11, 1944 - June 16, 2021 Click Here for Ken's Obituary Visit our website 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 12 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... "Trish" Agnes Patricia Spurgin January 6, 1941 - June 27, 2021 Married to Carrie Fleharty; their Anniversary is December, 15th Reginald "Regie" Finley aka Raghenna May 31, 1959 - June 18, 2021 Click Here for Reginald "Regie" Finley aka Raghenna's Obituary Crystal Meth Anonymous Every Monday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ANONYMOUS Crystal Meth Anonymous is a fellowship of people for whom all drugs, specifically crystal meth, have become a problem. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop using. There are no dues or membership lists. The fellowship that is Crystal Meth Anonymous is a new way of life without Crystal Meth. Crystal Meth Anonymous advocates a twelve-step recovery program for spiritual development, no matter our religious beliefs or background. The first step in our recovery is an admission by the addict that he or she is powerless over crystal meth and that life has become unmanageable. 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 13 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... N 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Neurodiversity Tulsa 1st and 3rd Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 14 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... Brought to you Bi the letter B in-person meetings have resumed. Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 15 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... Email Us fL'GBT~ Womens Network LGBT Women's Network: August Happy Hour Wednesday, August 4, 5:30 p.m. Deco Lounge 607 S. Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74120 LGBTQIA+ come & go gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, have some fun, and network if you'd like to. ALL are welcome and we hope you will join us. If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested to visit all LGBT-friendly locations! 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 16 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... Karin Susan Cermak Monday, August 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Artist Reception Thursday, August 5, at 6:00p.m. with Karin Susan Cermak Karin is originally from Germany, lived in Czechoslovakia and later in Canada. She is a naturalized American citizen and the U.S.A. has become her final home. She worked as a mechanical engineer designing plumbing and A/C for 30 years. After moving to the U.S.A. in 1990 she has been pursuing her career as an artist. Karin has been active for many years in the Muskogee and Tulsa art communities. She is a member and supports Muskogee Art Guild, Tulsa Artists Guild, Tulsa Art Coalition, Oklahoma Visual Art Coalition and the Tulsa Art Civic Association Alpha Rho Tau, where she has held many Board positions. 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 17 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... Karin also designed and painted banners for many of the annual Azalea Festivals organized by Muskogee Parks and Recreation. Each year Karin supports the Tulsa Art Coalition by donating paintings for the “Miniature Paintings 5" x 5" Show”. She donated her paintings for a fundraising show “Greater ASSets Art” organized by the Colon Cancer Coalition for colon cancer awareness. "I enjoy the freedom of contemporary and abstract painting based on my creativity and independence on the real image of subjects. Both styles allow me to be spontaneous, to play with colors and forms, to use different materials, to express my feelings. The possibilities in abstract painting are endless. If a viewer connects with me through my art as it was created just for him/her, that’s the biggest award.” says Karin. "One of my goals in my artistic activity is to contribute to the cultural life of the community where I live. Art is and always will be part of my life". The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Monday, August 2nd. The Artist Reception is Thursday, August 5th, at 6:00p.m. with Karin Susan Cermak. The exhibit continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit www.okeq.org ©~~© (C(Q)~[p) £~ (C(Q)~~ (C1f £~[Q)(Q) A GROUP FOR LGBTO+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE Every 3rd Sunday of the Month 5-6:00 p.m. email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectando 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 18 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... Sunday, August 15, 5:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. All sexual identities and gender expressions are welcome. We will speak in both English and Spanish. email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org - - for more information Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultura Todas las identidades y expresiones de género son bienvenidas Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org - - para mas informacion. Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on En el Dennis R. Neill Equality Center en Tulsa, Oklahoma, hay muchos eventos, grupos de apoyo, grupos sociales, consejería y servicios médicos. mira abajo 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 19 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Thursday, September 23, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This is Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa very first meeting invite!!! We are so excited to bring people together to help each other LOVE the SKIN they are in!! LOVE the SKIN they are in!!!! Encouraging others keeps her encouraged as well! Our first meeting is going to be so much fun!!!! We will have food & games! We hope to see you :) Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK The Man Who Knew Too Much by David Leavitt 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 20 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... To solve one of the great mathematical problems of his day, Alan Turing proposed an imaginary computer. Then, attempting to break a Nazi code during World War 11, he successfully designed and built one, thus ensuring Allied victory. Turing became a champion of artificial intelligence, but his work was cut short. As an openly gay man at a time when homosexuality was illegal in England, he was convicted and forced to w1dergo a hwniliating "treatment" that may have led to his suicide. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT David Leavitt- is the author of novels including The Body of Jonah Boyd and The Two Hotel Francforts, as well as story collections. The New York Public Library honored him as a Literary Lion. He teaches creative writing at the Universit of Florida, Gainesville, where he lives. DAVID LEAVITT OKE okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 21 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly Grateful Day Foundation Wellness Retreat The 2021 HIV Wellness Retreat is just around the corner. Thursday 8/26/21 to Sunday 8/29/21. Follow the links below to sign up to attend the retreat, and then pre-pay your fees via the OkEq E-Store. Register for HIV Wellness Retreat 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 22 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... Th City of ulsa 1s comm,tt d to creat ng re p ctful nd professional work environment. on I onin City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 23 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 24 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. Cl ALPHABET SOUP KIOS Z SATURDAY AFTERNOON 3·4PM ~ • • ·o \\ • • ~ • • <:::) - -==- ;:. • • <:::) Cl • • • ~ \\ • ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 25 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... 11-s11• AM LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA AMDOKEQ Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 26 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 27 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom ' This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 28 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 29 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 30 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 31 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, August 12th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 32 of 37 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 33 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. - - - - ---- Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! - - - - ---- sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 34 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 35 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPOIISOAEOay THIGIOIIGIUJSU f .. MILYfOUNOATIOII Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 36 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong Shannon Gordon Fair Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Stephen Rundell Board of Advisors Cray Bauxmont-Flynn Dani Byrd Whitney Cipolla Matt Else, D.O. Christian Fencer Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes 4/28/26, 2:46 PM �Thank you for an amazing Equality Gala 37 of 37 Visit Our Website https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-you-for-an-amazing-Equal... View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:46 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/693a5460229284c2af437153d1ade759.pdf a11a3e7ec5324c29efb0a1bb1a16263a PDF Text Text Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 1 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews July 26, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive Friday, July 30 2 - 7 p.m. Event Center Schedule an appointment at obi.org or call 877-340-8777 today! I ■ 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 2 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... All donors receive a Summer Story t-shirt* and their choice of the following tickets: Blood Drive with Oklahoma Blood Institute Friday, July 30, 2:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a blood drive with the Oklahoma Blood Institute. This blood drive will be from 2:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. on Friday, July 30th at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The FDA has reduced the abstinence period for men who have sex with men. If you have not engaged in sexual activity in 90 days, you are eligible to donate blood. This abstinence period is still not what we want, but we encourage you to donate if you qualify. If you have an O-negative blood type, you're especially encouraged to donate. If you cannot join us on Friday, donate whenever possible! Schedule an appointment here https://www.yourbloodinstitute.org/donor/auth/ signin or call 918-703-4800. Using donor express, you can complete your predonation screening on your smartphone or tablet on the day of your appointment. https://obi.org/donor-express/ Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their AntiHate Crime Ordinance! Schools gearing up for August classes St ory on Pa D Juty 20, 2021 City adopts anti-hate crime measure ull, bal.lery, tr vandall8m or threats to do lhO!!C - or other d lin ated - ct.s. It alM> mak It a lda or h a pc n r protected cl Protttwd crime to Lransmlt lhrea nclllses include mcc, rolor, ing me ges lelephonically, re~lgi?II_,_anceror, "':~• se~_ual el"':tron(~lly_~~-by 1?_'°'.'d: uncilors unanimously acta are motlvat.ed by h tlU- commit certain crim when against pn>U!Cwd classes. motivated by a malicious approve ordinance • tyTh and oped.fie intent to lntimmea,run, mod led cri:ating way I? pros..--cutc fler Tul ordln nee dty coundlora adopted ln 2020 ha1ccr1mc. By O.E. Sm_ool City officials Mid thal was lh_e first municipal hale ed by an assault In June of a clerk at a local ronnmicncc store and a tepid respollMl by police_ The cl rk, who w cUMled and lhrea.tencd with dealh. said the re5pondi ng ~m~r advised no~~~l!_C_!>uld 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 3 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... crtmes measure approved in ortentauon, gondcr ldenllLy, Oklahoma mllBr ordJ. gcnd r expre Ion, naUonnl fly coundlol"II unanimous- n ncet1 re being consid red origin or dl!!abllfly. ly approved an ordlnllllCe on in Tahli,quab and Okmulgee. Crimes d llneated by the Th<, ordinance adopted Monday that creates a way ordinance, which are punish• able by up to Ix months In ID pro5CCu baui crim at by MU5kogee fty Council tho munldpat I v I If «n.ain m k It mlsd m nor Jail nd $760 nno, Include ~ cul m<><llum If Its "likely ID 1ndte or produce Imminent viol nee• trlhcrc IM lhe req. uil! te mnlidllWI and speallc intent. nsid ration oflhe MU5kogee ordlnanoo wa prompt,. be done"becau..e Ll.ilfl'Q re den re n t co,· red un• d r 11 haui crime ordfn nee.· ScoUy Otwell. president of Muskogee Equality. de,. ~CRIM IJ "On July 19th in Muskogee, Oklahoma, Mayor Coleman and the rest have the City Council voted unanimously to pass Muskogee's first hate crime ordinance. We are extremely grateful to them. Today is a giant leap for progress. We would like to personally thank Roy Tucker and Mayor Coleman for drafting this ordinance. I would also like to thank the Muskogee Equality board. Their tireless dedication is but one of the reasons change is on the horizon. I am truly humbled by their greatness, generosity, and kindness. Pride is Power!" - Oklahomans for Equality Muskogee President, Scott Otwell Click Here for the Article SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. sao-e ;~~~~:~~o~ ~-, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 4 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, July 27, 10:00 a.m. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. S.A.G.E. Outing Friday, July 30, 9:00 a.m. Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Art 2021 E. 71st St. Tulsa, OK 74136 https://jewishmuseumtulsa.org/ SAGE Tulsa will visit the Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Art on Friday, July 30th. Meet at the Equality Center at 9:00 a.m. We will tour the Museum and have lunch afterward. Please bring money for lunch. RSVP to Toby.jenkins@okeq.org Put Museum in the subject line when emailing Toby. RSVP HERE 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 5 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... Karin Susan Cermak Thursday, August 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Karin is originally from Germany, lived in Czechoslovakia, and later in Canada. She is a naturalized American citizen, and the U.S.A. has become her final home. She worked as a mechanical engineer designing plumbing and A/C for 30 years. After moving to the U.S.A. in 1990, she has been pursuing her career as an artist. Karin has been active for many years in the Muskogee and Tulsa art communities. She is a member and supports Muskogee Art Guild, Tulsa Artists Guild, Tulsa Art Coalition, Oklahoma Visual Art Coalition, and the Tulsa Art Civic Association Alpha Rho Tau, where she has held many Board positions. Karin also designed and painted banners for many of the annual Azalea Festivals organized by Muskogee Parks and Recreation. Each year Karin supports the Tulsa Art Coalition by donating paintings for the “Miniature Paintings 5" x 5" Show.” She donated her paintings for a fundraising show, “Greater ASSets Art,” organized by the Colon Cancer Coalition for colon cancer awareness. 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 6 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... "I enjoy the freedom of contemporary and abstract painting based on my creativity and independence on the real image of subjects. Both styles allow me to be spontaneous, to play with colors and forms, to use different materials, to express my feelings. The possibilities in abstract painting are endless. If a viewer connects with me through my art as it was created just for him/her, that’s the biggest award.” says Karin. "One of my goals in my artistic activity is to contribute to the cultural life of the community where I live. Art is and always will be part of my life". The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, August 5th, and the artist reception will start at 6:00 p.m. with Karin Susan Cermak. The exhibit continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit www.okeq.org Thank you for your incredible support of our 2021 Equality Gala. Remembering our 41 years of service to the LGBTQ+ community of Oklahoma reminded us that we need each other more than ever. Your sponsorship, donations, attendance, and encouragement are greatly appreciated and deeply valued. Special thanks to our volunteers and Gala Chair Paul Allen, who directed our board and staff in presenting four decades of the vital work of Oklahomans for Equality. Thank you for standing with us during this moment of global uncertainty as we try to build a better world. 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 7 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... Click below to view photos from the event. The password to the gallery is 21gala Click Here for Photos PRAY AWAY Streaming on Netflix on August 3rd In the 1970s, five men struggling with being gay in their Evangelical church started a Bible study to help each other leave the “homosexual lifestyle.” They quickly received over 25,000 letters from people asking for help and formalized as Exodus International, the largest and most controversial conversion therapy organization in the world. But leaders struggled with a secret: their own “same-sex attractions” never went away. After years as superstars in the religious right, many of these men and women have come out as LGBTQ, disavowing the very movement they helped start. Focusing on the dramatic journeys of former conversion therapy leaders, current members, and a survivor, PRAY AWAY chronicles the “ex-gay” movement’s rise to power, its unscientific influence, and its legacy of profound harm. Net$ix a Watch on 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 8 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... GENO WILL RESUME ON AUGUST &TH! Contact Us In Memoriam remembering those we've lost William Arnold Sherwin December 5, 1931 - July 20, 2021 Click Here for William Sherwin's Obituary 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 9 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... Lynette Erwin Waller June 26, 1960 - June 24, 2021 Click Here for Lynette Waller's Obituary "Trish" Agnes Patricia Spurgin January 6, 1941 - June 27, 2021 Married to Carrie Fleharty; their Anniversary is December, 15th Crystal Meth Anonymous Every Monday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ANONYMOUS Crystal Meth Anonymous is a fellowship of people for whom all drugs, specifically crystal meth, have become a problem. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop using. There are no dues or membership lists. The fellowship that is Crystal Meth Anonymous is a new way of life without Crystal Meth. Crystal Meth Anonymous advocates a twelve-step recovery program for spiritual development, 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 10 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... no matter our religious beliefs or background. The first step in our recovery is an admission by the addict that he or she is powerless over crystal meth and that life has become unmanageable. NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Neurodiversity Tulsa 1st and 3rd Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 11 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information Brought to you Bi the letter B in-person meetings have resumed. Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 12 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us art SHOW: JULY 1st - July 31 st art RECEPTION: JULY 1 st, 6 pm ans for Equality Neill Equality Center t 4120 Aaron Rayner: "Out on a Limb" 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 13 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... Thursday, July 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa-based artist, Aaron Rayner, has been honing his skills in capturing mood and human connection for the past several years. A classically trained artist and digital marketeer, Aaron has blended his formal education with his fascination with storytelling and personal empowerment (through messaging and art), bringing about a stylized human connection through color and lighting. Aaron's evolution into various mediums allowed him to introduce a freedom and flexibility to his storytelling, with themes ranging from dance and movement to fantasy and impressionism. Constantly honoring his art professors' mentorships, Aaron's compositions are bold, balanced, and true. Click Here to Visit the Gallery Online Click Here to Purchase Art See the Virtual Tour Below 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 14 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... . •--fLGBT_ 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 15 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... .· w·mnens -- - :!I Network LGBT Women's Network: August Happy Hour Wednesday, August 4, 5:30 p.m. Deco Lounge 607 S. Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74120 LGBTQIA+ come & go gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, have some fun, and network if you'd like to. ALL are welcome and we hope you will join us. If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested to visit all LGBT-friendly locations! Contact via Facebook Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, August 4, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 16 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... For More Information Contact Us ©~[E©) t©~[p) £~ t©~(Et1f £~[Q)© A GROUP FOR LGBTQ+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE Every srd Sunday of the Month 5-6:oo p.m. email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectando Sunday, August 15, 5:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. All sexual identities and gender expressions are welcome. We will speak in both English and Spanish. email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for more information Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultura Todas las identidades y expresiones de género son bienvenidas 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 17 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org - - - - para mas informacion. Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on En el Dennis R. Neill Equality Center en Tulsa, Oklahoma, hay muchos eventos, grupos de apoyo, grupos sociales, consejería y servicios médicos. mira abajo Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, August 10, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID tb, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "firstcome, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone ----4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 18 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... is (918) 295-9429. Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Thursday, September 23, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This is Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa very first meeting invite!!! We are so excited to bring people together to help each other LOVE the SKIN they are in!! LOVE the SKIN they are in!!!! Encouraging others keeps her encouraged as well! Our first meeting is going to be so much fun!!!! We will have food & games! We hope to see you :) E ALITY Business Alliance 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 19 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... EBA Mixer Thursday, August 26, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Twenty Twenty Eyecare 7408 S. Yale Ave. Ste H Tulsa, OK 74136 918-794-6700 www.2020tulsa.com Twenty Twenty Eyecare strives to provide the best comprehensive eye care for all ages. We understand that each patient has a unique story, and we are committed to addressing your individual concerns. Twenty Twenty Eyecare is dedicated to providing superior service and attention to detail through the use of the latest technology. Expert Doctors & Staff. Unbeatable Selection. Twenty Twenty Eyecare will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for July. Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Angry Queer Somali Boy by Mohamed Abdulkarim Ali Kidnapped by his father on the eve of Somalia's societal implosion, Mohamed Ali was taken first to the etherlands by his stepmother, and then later on to Canada. Unmoored from his birth family and caught hohAr oon huin ~lion<:1tino fnrt"oc nf i.:nm<:1li tr<:1nitinn <:1nn 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 20 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... Western culture, Mohamed must forge his own queer coming of age. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Mohamed Abdulkarim Ali-was born in Mogadishu, Somalia, and lived in the United Arab Emirates and the Netherlands before immigrating to Canada as a teenager. He currently lives in Toronto. This is his first book. MOHAMED ABDULKARIM ALI OKE okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 21 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly Grateful Day Foundation Wellness Retreat The 2021 HIV Wellness Retreat is just around the corner. Thursday 8/26/21 to Sunday 8/29/21. Follow the links below to sign up to attend the retreat, and then pre-pay your fees via the OkEq E-Store. Register for HIV Wellness Retreat 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 22 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... Th City of ulsa 1s committ d to er at ng re p ctful nd professional wor environment. l r ty r on 0 t1on, ion in d. City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 23 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 24 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... help make you a custom pronoun pin. • - -::::- • • <:) ~ • • • ~ 0 • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 25 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... NOCOST! AN LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA ANDOKEQ Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact PARENTS OF LOBTQ2SJA• YOUTH Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 26 of 36 Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 27 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 28 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk ., BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISH FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 29 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 30 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 31 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, August 12th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... for Parents of Transgender People Tulsa Area Prime Timers 32 of 36 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ----- - - - The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- - - - - jess@anchoredbhc.com 33 of 36 sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. - - - - ---- Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------ Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 34 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 35 of 36 Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL !~~:l~:~: Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:55 PM �Congratulations to Muskogee Passing their Anti-Hate Crime Ordinance! 36 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-to-Muskogee-Pas... ~~ ~~q'§ ~<,") ' t~11..I" Pictur /Courtesy of the Tulsa World Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. 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SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews August 2nd, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 2 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... Karin Susan Cermak Thursday, August 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Karin is originally from Germany, lived in Czechoslovakia, and later in Canada. She is a naturalized American citizen, and the U.S.A. has become her final home. She worked as a mechanical engineer designing plumbing and A/C for 30 years. After moving to the U.S.A. in 1990, she has been pursuing her career as an artist. Karin has been active for many years in the Muskogee and Tulsa art communities. She is a member and supports Muskogee Art Guild, Tulsa Artists Guild, Tulsa Art Coalition, Oklahoma Visual Art Coalition, and the Tulsa Art Civic Association Alpha Rho Tau, where she has held many Board positions. Karin also designed and painted banners for many of the annual Azalea Festivals organized by Muskogee Parks and Recreation. Each year Karin supports the Tulsa Art Coalition by donating paintings for the “Miniature Paintings 5" x 5" Show.” She donated her paintings for a fundraising show, “Greater ASSets Art,” organized by the Colon Cancer Coalition for colon cancer awareness. "I enjoy the freedom of contemporary and abstract painting based on my creativity and independence of subjects. Both styles allow me to be spontaneous, to play 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 3 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... with colors and forms, to use different materials, to express my feelings. The possibilities in abstract painting are endless. If a viewer connects with me through my art as it was created just for him/her, that’s the biggest award.” says Karin. "One of my goals in my artistic activity is to contribute to the cultural life of the community where I live. Art is and always will be part of my life". The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, August 5th, and the artist reception will start at 6:00 p.m. with Karin Susan Cermak. The exhibit continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit www.okeq.org Click Here to View Art Click Here to Purchase Art sao-e ;~~~~:~~o~ ~-, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 4 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, August 3, 10:00 a.m. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 5 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... LGBT Women's Network: August Happy Hour Wednesday, August 4, 5:30 p.m. Deco Lounge 607 S. Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74120 LGBTQIA+ come & go gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, have some fun, and network if you'd like to. ALL are welcome and we hope you will join us. If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested to visit all LGBT-friendly locations! Contact via Facebook POC Social: The Escape Tulsa Friday, August 20, 8:00 p.m. The Escape Tulsa 1448 Carson Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Join us at The Escape Tulsa for a fun night out! We will be solving the storyline, Area 405. The Alien Containment Facility has guarded state secrets for decades but you’re in the middle of a Level 5 disaster. The off-the-record experiments have become more and more dangerous lately, and the extra-terrestrials have started to be hostile. Something 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 6 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... has just happened in the lab, and you know it’s nothing good. As you enter this restricted area, can you protect this information…and yourselves? Area 405 transports you to an alien research lab gone awry, where you should expect the unexpected. The puzzles here will challenge your teamwork ability. Due to Covid-19 space is limited, email kao.morris@okeq.org to reserve your spot. Please arrive 15-20 minutes early. People of Color Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment ad thoughtful conversations. Tulsa Pride 2021: Crystal Methyd Meet and Greet. Thank you to Megan Torres, local photographer and small-business owner who helped capture our Tulsa Pride Meet and Greet with Crystal Methyd. Click Here for Crystal Methyd's Meet and Greet Pictures 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 7 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... Thank you for your incredible support of our 2021 Equality Gala. Remembering our 41 years of service to the LGBTQ+ community of Oklahoma reminded us that we need each other more than ever. Your sponsorship, donations, attendance, and encouragement are greatly appreciated and deeply valued. Special thanks to our volunteers and Gala Chair Paul Allen, who directed our board and staff in presenting four decades of the vital work of Oklahomans for Equality. Thank you for standing with us during this moment of global uncertainty as we try to build a better world. Click below to view photos from the event. The password to the gallery is 21gala Click Here for Photos PRAY AWAY Streaming on Netflix on August 3rd In the 1970s, five men struggling with being gay in their Evangelical church started a Bible study to help each other leave the “homosexual lifestyle.” They quickly received over 25,000 letters from people asking for help and formalized as Exodus International, the largest and most controversial conversion therapy organization in the world. But leaders struggled with a secret: their own “same-sex attractions” never went away. After years as superstars in the religious right, many of these men and women have come out as LGBTQ, disavowing the very movement they helped 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 8 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... start. Focusing on the dramatic journeys of former conversion therapy leaders, current members, and a survivor, PRAY AWAY chronicles the “ex-gay” movement’s rise to power, its unscientific influence, and its legacy of profound harm. Net$ix a Watch on City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who are unable to pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 9 of 33 U https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... I IYI I ~ NOW WHA Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, August 4, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. For More Information Contact Us E GENO WILL RESUME ON AUGUST 5TH! 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 10 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... Contact Us • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, August 10, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID tb, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "firstcome, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone ----is (918) 295-9429. IndigiQueer Friday, August 13, at 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We're back in action! This month IndigiQueer program will consist of planning for future events ranging from tabling, speakers, fundraisers, and camaraderie amongst each other. Food and drinks will be provided. "IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement.” – Vnokeckv. Email Kao Here 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 11 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... In Memoriam remembering those we've lost William Arnold Sherwin December 5, 1931 - July 20, 2021 Click Here for William Sherwin's Obituary Crystal Meth Anonymous Every Monday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ANONYMOUS Crystal Meth Anonymous is a fellowship of people for whom all drugs, specifically crystal meth, have become a problem. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop using. There are no dues or membership lists. The fellowship that is Crystal Meth Anonymous is a new way of life without Crystal Meth. Crystal Meth Anonymous advocates a twelve-step recovery program for spiritual development, no matter our religious beliefs or background. The first step in our recovery is an admission by the addict that he or she is powerless over crystal meth and that life has become unmanageable. 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 12 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Neurodiversity Tulsa 1st and 3rd Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 13 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 14 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... (Q)~[E@ (C(Q)~[p) £~ (C (Q) ~ [E (C 1r £ ~ [Q) (Q) A GROUP fOR LGBTO+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE Every srd Sunday of the Month 5-6:oo p.m. email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectando Sunday, August 15, 5:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. All sexual identities and gender expressions are welcome. We will speak in both English and Spanish. email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for more information ---- --Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultura Todas las identidades y expresiones de género son bienvenidas Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para mas informacion. ---- --- 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 15 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on En el Dennis R. Neill Equality Center en Tulsa, Oklahoma, hay muchos eventos, grupos de apoyo, grupos sociales, consejería y servicios médicos. mira abajo E ALITY usiness Alliance EBA Mixer Thursday, August 26, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Twenty Twenty Eyecare 7408 S. Yale Ave. Ste H Tulsa, OK 74136 918-794-6700 www.2020tulsa.com Twenty Twenty Eyecare strives to provide the best comprehensive eye care for all ages. We understand that each patient has a unique story, 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 16 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... and we are committed to addressing your individual concerns. Twenty Twenty Eyecare is dedicated to providing superior service and attention to detail through the use of the latest technology. Expert Doctors & Staff. Unbeatable Selection. Twenty Twenty Eyecare will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for July. Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Thursday, September 23, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This is Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa very first meeting invite!!! We are so excited to bring people together to help each other LOVE the SKIN they are in!! LOVE the SKIN they are in!!!! Encouraging others keeps her encouraged as well! Our first meeting is going to be so much fun!!!! We will have food & games! We hope to see you :) 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 17 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Orlando by Virginia Woolf irginia Woolf's most unusual creation, Orlando is a fantastical and funny biography, that explores the true nature of gender and sexuality. The story begins with Orlando, a passionate sixteen-year-old nobleman whose days are spent in rowdy revelry, filled with the colorful delights of Queen Elizabeth I's court. By the close, three centuries will have passed, and he will have transformed into a thirty-six-year-old woman in the year 1928. Orlando's jou rney is also an internal one- he is an impulsive poet who learns patience in matter of the heart, and a woman who knows what it is to be a man. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT VIRGINIA WOOLF Virginia Woolf-Virginia Woolf is a renowned British novelist associated with the modernist movement in literature; her writing is characterized by experiments in language, narrative, and the treatment of time. Woolf is often considered one of the most innovative writers of the 20th century. In her work, she also discusses the issues and prejudices surrounding women's writing in the Western world. OKE 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 18 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly Grateful Day Foundation Wellness Retreat The 2021 HIV Wellness Retreat is just around the corner. Thursday 8/26/21 to 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 19 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... Sunday 8/29/21. Follow the links below to sign up to attend the retreat, and then pre-pay your fees via the OkEq E-Store. Register for HIV Wellness Retreat Th City of Tulsa i committed to creat ng respectful nd sional work env ronment. on on, n in ny 111 ls 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 20 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 21 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. 0 ALPHABET SOUP KIDS Z SATURDAY AFTERNOON 3·4PM ~ • • ·o \\ • • ~ • • <::) - -==- ;;. • • <::) 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 22 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. PARENTS OF LOBTQlSJA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 23 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 24 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma OKEQ.ORG/OKEO-HEAL TH-CLINIC OR CALL 918-938-6537! 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 25 of 33 KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED IIY THE GEORGE KAIHR FAMILY FOUNDATION https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 26 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 27 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 28 of 33 Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... Virtual Thursday, August 12th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ' -- · -- Support Group for Transgender Teens Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- · -- Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 29 of 33 allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -- https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 30 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education , Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ----- -- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 31 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC Sl>ONSOREDIY THEGIOIIGIKAISEII 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 32 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... .': .... •. _· ~. ... ' I I I I I~ . . . .·\ • • • ,_ • ' • I • ' • • • • Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Advisors Cray Bauxmont-Flynn 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Come See Karin Cermak on First Thursday 33 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-Karin-Cermak-on-Firs... Dani Byrd Whitney Cipolla Matt Else, D.O. Christian Fencer Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong Shannon Gordon Fair Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Stephen Rundell Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:56 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b989a3a50b16ad5a4ce6fad7c5a74f20.pdf 6c37cb236fa7a5df6b756c3679b183b2 PDF Text Text Because We Are All Equal 1 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews August 9th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 2 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 3 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, August 10, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. SAGE Visit to the Sand Springs Museum Friday, August 27, 10:30 a.m. We will meet at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 10:30 and travel in the Equality Van for lunch at Napoli's in Sand Springs at 11:00 a.m. Please bring money for lunch. Afterward, we will tour the Sand Springs Museum at 1:00 p.m. For restaurant and menu information, follow this link www.sandspringsnapolis.com. 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 4 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... Link to Sand-Springs Museum Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, August 10, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGAL AID ttz, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "firstcome, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone ----is (918) 295-9429. 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 5 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... GEN Q Karaoke Night Thursday, August 12, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Gen Q, our LGBTQIA+ social group for folks 18-30, for a karaoke night. Snacks and drinks will be provided—21+ to drink alcohol. IndigiQueer Friday, August 13, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We're back in action! This month IndigiQueer program will consist of planning for future events ranging from tabling, speakers, fundraisers, and camaraderie amongst each other. Food and drinks will be provided. "IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement.” – Vnokeckv. 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 6 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... Email Kao Here PARTICIPATE IN THE YOUTH AND YOUNG ADULT COVID-19 IMPACTS STUDY! Earn up to $45 for completing two online surveys, plus an additional $50 if you participate in an interview about you, your experiences during COVID-19, and your mental, physical, and emotional health. ELIGIBLITY ► AGES 14-24 ► LIVE IN THE USA U.S. territories welcome to participate! The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study Our partners at Evaluation, Data Integration, and Technical Assistance (EDIT) 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 7 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... Program have a new exciting paid research opportunity. Please see their message below: Researchers at the EDIT team wanted to let you know about a new study we are starting. The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study! The new study is for LGBTQ+ individuals ages 14-24. If that describes you, then please keep reading to learn more about the study. If that doesn’t describe you, then please share this announcement with any LGBTQ+ people you know! If you agree to participate, you’ll be asked to complete an online survey two times: once on the day, you enroll and once exactly six months after that. The survey will take about 45 minutes. How does it work? You’ll be asked questions about topics such as: · You · Your experiences during COVID-19 · Your mental, physical, and emotional health If you complete the survey both times, you’ll receive $45. In addition, you will receive $30 for completing the first survey and $15 for completing the second survey. You will receive your payment in the form of a virtual gift card, which you can use anywhere online. We will email the gift card to you within two weeks of completing the survey. If you’re interested, we may also invite you to participate in an interview with us. If you agree to participate in an interview, you will receive an additional $50. If you’re interested in participating, please click on the link below. It will take you to a page where you can book a time to speak to someone from our study team over the phone and enroll in the study. If you have any questions, you can email me back or e-mail the study team at YYAhealth@northwestern.edu. Youth and Young Adults COVID-19 Survey Screener 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 8 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... Art Exhibit: Karin Susan Cermak Throughout August Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Karin is originally from Germany, lived in Czechoslovakia, and later in Canada. She is a naturalized American citizen, and the U.S.A. has become her final home. She worked as a mechanical engineer designing plumbing and A/C for 30 years. After moving to the U.S.A. in 1990, she has been pursuing her career as an artist. Karin has been active for many years in the Muskogee and Tulsa art communities. She is a member and supports Muskogee Art Guild, Tulsa Artists Guild, Tulsa Art Coalition, Oklahoma Visual Art Coalition, and the Tulsa Art Civic Association Alpha Rho Tau, where she has held many Board positions. Karin also designed and painted banners for many of the annual Azalea Festivals organized by Muskogee Parks and Recreation. Each year Karin supports the Tulsa Art Coalition by donating paintings for the “Miniature Paintings 5" x 5" Show.” She donated her paintings for a fundraising show, “Greater ASSets Art,” organized by the Colon Cancer Coalition for colon cancer awareness. "I enjoy the freedom of contemporary and abstract painting based on my creativity 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 9 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... and independence of subjects. Both styles allow me to be spontaneous, to play with colors and forms, to use different materials, to express my feelings. The possibilities in abstract painting are endless. If a viewer connects with me through my art as it was created just for him/her, that’s the biggest award.” says Karin. "One of my goals in my artistic activity is to contribute to the cultural life of the community where I live. Art is and always will be part of my life". For more information, please visit www.okeq.org Watch the Virtual Art Show Below Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on Click Here to View Art Click Here to Purchase Art FRIDAY AUGUST 20TH 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 10 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... OKEQ Compas Conectando Sunday, August 20, 6:00 p.m A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. All sexual identities and gender expressions are welcome. We will speak in both English and Spanish. Email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for more information. Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultural. Todas las identidades y expresiones de género son bienvenidas. Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para mas informacion. Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on En el Dennis R. Neill Equality Center en Tulsa, Oklahoma, hay muchos eventos, 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 11 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... grupos de apoyo, grupos sociales, consejería y servicios médicos. mira abajo POC Social: The Escape Tulsa Friday, August 20, 8:00 p.m. The Escape Tulsa 1448 Carson Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Join us at The Escape Tulsa for a fun night out! We will be solving the storyline, Area 405. The Alien Containment Facility has guarded state secrets for decades, but you’re in the middle of a Level 5 disaster. The off-the-record experiments have become more dangerous lately, and the extra-terrestrials have started to be hostile. Something has just happened in the lab, and you know it’s nothing good. As you enter this restricted area, can you protect this information…and yourselves? Area 405 transports you to an alien research lab gone awry, where you should expect the unexpected. The puzzles here will challenge your teamwork ability. Due to Covid-19 space is limited, email kao.morris@okeq.org to reserve your spot. Please arrive 15-20 minutes early. People of Color Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. ~ WELCOME 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 12 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... Muskogee Pride in the Park Saturday, August 21, 10:00 a.m. Honor Heights Park 1400 Honor Heights Dr. Muskogee, OK 74401 Bartlesville Pride in the Park Saturday, August 28, 5:00 p.m. 300 S.E. Adams Blvd. Bartlesville, OK 74006 Join us on August 28th to celebrate #BVLPRIDE2021. Pride starts at 5 and Josie Turrelle & Friends will be entertaining us with awesome performances until our headliner, Jill Sobule, makes her appearance at 8:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 13 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... We will have vendors, food trucks, Price Tower Patio drinks, a photo booth (courtesy of Lyndsey Stuart Photography), and kids' activities all evening, capped by a "lighting" of the Tower Center. Our popular Pride T-Shirts will be available for in-person purchase, as well as preorder (link to come), plus the Tulsa Pride Store will be on-site for all your pride merch. Afterward, Crossing 2nd will host the official after-party with music, drinks, and entertainment! We can't wait to see you at Bartlesville Pride 2021! City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 14 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... Tulsa Pride 2021: Crystal Methyd Meet and Greet. Thank you to Megan Torres, local photographer and small-business owner who helped capture our Tulsa Pride Meet and Greet with Crystal Methyd. Click Here for Crystal Methyd's Meet and Greet Pictures In Memoriam remembering those we've lost William Arnold Sherwin December 5, 1931 - July 20, 2021 Click Here for William Sherwin's Obituary 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 15 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... Crystal Meth Anonymous Every Monday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ANONYMOUS Crystal Meth Anonymous is a fellowship of people for whom all drugs, specifically crystal meth, have become a problem. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop using. There are no dues or membership lists. The fellowship that is Crystal Meth Anonymous is a new way of life without Crystal Meth. Crystal Meth Anonymous advocates a twelve-step recovery program for spiritual development, no matter our religious beliefs or background. The first step in our recovery is an admission by the addict that they are powerless over crystal meth and that life has become unmanageable. NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 16 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... Neurodiversity Tulsa 1st and 3rd Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 17 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us E ALITY usiness Alliance EBA Mixer Thursday, August 26, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Twenty Twenty Eyecare 7408 S. Yale Ave. Ste H Tulsa, OK 74136 918-794-6700 www.2020tulsa.com Twenty Twenty Eyecare strives to provide the best comprehensive eye care for all ages. We understand that each patient has a unique story, and we are committed to addressing your individual concerns. Twenty Twenty Eyecare is dedicated to providing superior service and attention to detail through the use of the latest technology. Expert Doctors & Staff. Unbeatable Selection. 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 18 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... Twenty Twenty Eyecare will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for July. Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Thursday, September 23, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This is Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa's very first meeting back! Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in Na~&Joe McDonald D--!-L-.-_..__ I ! L - - 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 19 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... ry BOOK OF THE WEEK Boys Like Us by Peter McGehee Zero left Arkansas for the cool, contemporary tones of gay life in Toronto. ow his best friend has been diagnosed with AIDS, and in the midst of trying to organize a support group, zero is called home to attend his mother's second marriage. Funny and bittersweet, Zero's adventures suggest that, although God is unfathomable, she must at least have a sense of humor. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Peter McGehee-was an American-born Canadian novelist, dramatist and short story writer. He was born in Pine Bluff, Arkansas. He published his first novella, Beyond Happiness in 1985 and premiered his second revue, The Fabulous Sirs in 1987. In 1988, McGehee and his partner were both diagnosed HIV-positive. McGehee subsequently wrote two ...........;;.:i..i.~~:,;;,__~ --"-.;,,__..i........J.. novels, Boys Like Us and sweetheart, and a book of short stories. Boys Like Us was published in 1991, shortly before McGehee's death of AIDS-related causes. PETER MCCEHEE OKE okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 20 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly Grateful Day Foundation Wellness Retreat The 2021 HIV Wellness Retreat is just around the corner. Thursday 8/26/21 to Sunday 8/29/21. Follow the links below to sign up to attend the retreat, and then pre-pay your fees via the OkEq E-Store. 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 21 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... Register for HIV Wellness Retreat The City of Tulsa is committed to creat ng a respectful and professional work environment. e al onen at on gender n ty and gend r e pr ssion ar pro ec d. D criminat1on, h r m nt nd t It tion in ny 1d City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 22 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 23 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • • • ---- • • ~ 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. 11 ~ 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 24 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... I PARENTS OF LOBTQ2SJA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People Support Group for Parents of 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 25 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 1st Wednesday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and all teens under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 26 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... Lets Talk ., BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGI! kAISElt FAMILY FOUNDATIOl<I Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537 opt 1. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health -... 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 27 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... A lliance ,. The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 28 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 29 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, August 12th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 30 of 34 for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 31 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ----- -- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 32 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC S-SOtllDIY lHIOEOltGIIUUHlt fAHlllY,OUNOATION 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 33 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President 4/28/26, 2:56 PM �Because We Are All Equal 34 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Because-We-Are-All-Equal.html?... Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong Shannon Gordon Fair Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Stephen Rundell Board of Advisors Cray Bauxmont-Flynn Dani Byrd Whitney Cipolla Matt Else, D.O. Christian Fencer Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:56 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ace0e63745c28a4e83229daba88df309.pdf 0cbf4f02c68001888537667afc3a9a25 PDF Text Text Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 1 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews August 17th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 2 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... Bison Extracts is offering a scholarship to LGBTQ+ students enrolled in a college, university, or trade school within the US in Fall 2021. To apply, go to http:// www.bisonextracts.com/lgbtq-scholarship-application/ Applications are open from August 3rd to September 15th. BECAUSE =--~4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 3 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ------Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 4 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... eers o ears. Annual Meeting Thursday, September 9, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The 41st Annual Meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held virtually on Thursday, September 9th, 2021, at 6:00 p.m. via Zoom. There will be an inperson option for those who are vaccinated at the Dennis R. Neil Equality Center but space will be limited. Click the button below to get the Zoom link. Please put "Annual Meeting" in the subject line of your email. Request Zoom Link: ~ ~ A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. ~--·. COMING SOON f ACEBOOK LIVE •.•. • B -~ .. . ,?IA v:&I WITH SARA EVANS AND BRITTNEY HUDSON EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE OKEQ stands with the Hudson-Evans family against religious discrimination of LGBTQ+ families. Read their story here and look for our upcoming SPIRIT interview with Sara and Brittney. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 5 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, August 24, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. SAGE Visit to the Sand Springs Museum 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 6 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... Friday, August 27, 10:30 a.m. 9 E. Broadway St. Sand Springs, OK 74063 We will meet at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 10:30 and travel in the Equality Van for lunch at Napoli's in Sand Springs at 11:00 a.m. Please bring money for lunch. Afterward, we will tour the Sand Springs Museum at 1:00 p.m. For restaurant and menu information, follow this link www.sandspringsnapolis.com. ------28 E. Broadway St. Sand Springs, OK 74063 Link to Sand-Springs Museum PARTICIPATE IN THE YOUTH AND YOUNG ADULT COVID-19 IMPACTS STUDY! Earn up to $45 for completing two online surveys, plus an additional $50 if you participate in an interview about you, your experiences during COVID-19, and your mental, physical, and emotional health. ELIGIBLITY ► AGES 14-24 ► LIVE IN THE USA 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 7 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... U.S. territories welcome to participate! The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study Our partners at Evaluation, Data Integration, and Technical Assistance (EDIT) Program have a new exciting paid research opportunity. Please see their message below: Researchers at the EDIT team wanted to let you know about a new study we are starting. The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study! The new study is for LGBTQ+ individuals ages 14-24. If that describes you, then please keep reading to learn more about the study. If that doesn’t describe you, then please share this announcement with any LGBTQ+ people you know! If you agree to participate, you’ll be asked to complete an online survey two times: once on the day, you enroll and once exactly six months after that. The survey will take about 45 minutes. How does it work? You’ll be asked questions about topics such as: · You · Your experiences during COVID-19 · Your mental, physical, and emotional health You will receive $30 for completing the first survey and $15 for completing the second survey. You will receive your payment in the form of a virtual gift card, which you can use anywhere online. We will email the gift card to you within two weeks of completing the survey. If you’re interested, we may also invite you to participate in an interview with us. If you agree to participate in an interview, you will receive an additional $50. If you’re interested in participating, please click on the link below. It will take you to a page where you can book a time to speak to someone from our study team over the phone and enroll in the study. If you have any questions, you can email me back or e-mail the study team at YYAhealth@northwestern.edu. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 8 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... Youth and Young Adults COVID-19 Survey Screener OKEQ Compas Conectando Friday, August 20, 6:00 p.m A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. All sexual identities and gender expressions are welcome. We will speak in both English and Spanish. Email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for more information. Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultural. Todas las identidades y expresiones de género son bienvenidas. Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para mas informacion. Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 9 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on En el Dennis R. Neill Equality Center en Tulsa, Oklahoma, hay muchos eventos, grupos de apoyo, grupos sociales, consejería y servicios médicos. mira abajo POC Social: The Escape Tulsa Friday, August 20, 8:00 p.m. The Escape Tulsa 1448 Carson Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Join us at The Escape Tulsa for a fun night out! We will be solving the storyline, Area 405. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 10 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... The Alien Containment Facility has guarded state secrets for decades, but you’re in the middle of a Level 5 disaster. The off-the-record experiments have become more dangerous lately, and the extra-terrestrials have started to be hostile. Something has just happened in the lab, and you know it’s nothing good. As you enter this restricted area, can you protect this information…and yourselves? Area 405 transports you to an alien research lab gone awry, where you should expect the unexpected. The puzzles here will challenge your teamwork ability. Due to Covid-19 space is limited, email kao.morris@okeq.org to reserve your spot. Please arrive 15-20 minutes early. People of Color Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. Muskogee Pride in the Park Saturday, August 21, 10:00 a.m. Honor Heights Park 1400 Honor Heights Dr. Muskogee, OK 74401 E -- ALITY usiness Alliance .1.l:al.... 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 11 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... Has Resumed In-Person Meetings EBA Mixer Thursday, August 26, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Twenty Twenty Eyecare 7408 S. Yale Ave. Ste H Tulsa, OK 74136 918-794-6700 www.2020tulsa.com Twenty Twenty Eyecare strives to provide the best comprehensive eye care for all ages. We understand that each patient has a unique story, and we are committed to addressing your individual concerns. Twenty Twenty Eyecare is dedicated to providing superior service and attention to detail through the use of the latest technology. Expert Doctors & Staff. Unbeatable Selection. Twenty Twenty Eyecare will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for August. Bartlesville Pride in the Park Saturday, August 28, 5:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 12 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... 300 S.E. Adams Blvd. Bartlesville, OK 74006 Join us on August 28th to celebrate #BVLPRIDE2021. Pride starts at 5 and Josie Turrelle & Friends will be entertaining us with awesome performances until our headliner, Jill Sobule, makes her appearance at 8:00 p.m. We will have vendors, food trucks, Price Tower Patio drinks, a photo booth (courtesy of Lyndsey Stuart Photography), and kids' activities all evening, capped by a "lighting" of the Tower Center. Our popular Pride T-Shirts will be available for in-person purchase, as well as preorder (link to come), plus the Tulsa Pride Store will be on-site for all your pride merch. Afterward, Crossing 2nd will host the official after-party with music, drinks, and entertainment! We can't wait to see you at Bartlesville Pride 2021! 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 13 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... Art Exhibit: Karin Susan Cermak Throughout August Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Karin is originally from Germany, lived in Czechoslovakia, and later in Canada. She is a naturalized American citizen, and the U.S.A. has become her final home. She worked as a mechanical engineer designing plumbing and A/C for 30 years. After moving to the U.S.A. in 1990, she has been pursuing her career as an artist. Karin has been active for many years in the Muskogee and Tulsa art communities. She is a member and supports Muskogee Art Guild, Tulsa Artists Guild, Tulsa Art Coalition, Oklahoma Visual Art Coalition, and the Tulsa Art Civic Association Alpha Rho Tau, where she has held many Board positions. Karin also designed and painted banners for many of the annual Azalea Festivals organized by Muskogee Parks and Recreation. Each year Karin supports the Tulsa Art Coalition by donating paintings for the “Miniature Paintings 5" x 5" Show.” She donated her paintings for a fundraising show, “Greater ASSets Art,” organized by the Colon Cancer Coalition for colon cancer awareness. "I enjoy the freedom of contemporary and abstract painting based on my creativity and independence of subjects. Both styles allow me to be spontaneous, to play with colors and forms, to use different materials, to express my feelings. The possibilities in abstract painting are endless. If a viewer connects with me through my art as it was created just for him/her, that’s the biggest award.” says Karin. "One of my goals in my artistic activity is to contribute to the cultural life of the community where I live. Art is and always will be part of my life". For more information, please visit www.okeq.org Watch the Virtual Art Show Below Click Here to View Art Click Here to Purchase Art 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 14 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 15 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... In Memoriam remembering those we've lost William Arnold Sherwin December 5, 1931 - July 20, 2021 Click Here for William Sherwin's Obituary NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center .. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 16 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... Neurodiversity Tulsa 1st and 3rd Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 17 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 18 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, September 23, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Jeremy Stevens is back and reunited with a cast of Tulsa All-Stars featuring: • Lori Dector Wright • Morgan Allen • Cristen Burdell • Jacob Brockunier Please have your vaccination card to show at the door. Get Your Tickets Now! Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, September 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGAL AID tlz, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "firstcome, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone ----is (918) 295-9429. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 19 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Thursday, September 23, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This is Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa's very first meeting back! Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Tipping the Velvet by Sarah Waters Nan King, an oyster girl, is captivated by the music hall phenomenon Kitty Butler, a male impersonator extraordinaire treading the boards in Canterbury. Through a frionrl !It th o hnv nffiro !In m !ln!lrroc tn u-icit !li lt h or c hnn., c 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 20 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... and finally meet her heroine. Soon after, she becomes Kitty's dresser and the two head for the bright lights of Leicester Square where they begin a glittering career as music-hall stars in an all-singing and dancing double act. At the same time, behind closed doors, they admit their attraction to each other and their affair begins. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT SARAH WATERS Sarah Waters-She is a British novelist. She is best known for her first novel, Tipping the Velvet, as well the novels that followed, including Affinity, Fingersmith, and The ight Watch. Waters went directly from her doctoral thesis to her first novel. It was during the process of writing her thesis that she thought she would write a novel; she began as soon as the thesis was complete OKE okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 21 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... fFMYOKEQSHIRT As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly Grateful Day Foundation Wellness Retreat The 2021 HIV Wellness Retreat is just around the corner. Thursday 8/26/21 to Sunday 8/29/21. Follow the links below to sign up to attend the retreat, and then pre-pay your fees via the OkEq E-Store. Register for HIV Wellness Retreat 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 22 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... Th City of Tul a is committed to creat ng respectful nd professional work env ronment. I orien a o t on o • tion, ion in ny d. City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 23 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 24 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • • • ---- • • <::) 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 25 of 35 for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 26 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 1st Wednesday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and all teens under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma Ok'FO ODr./Ok'FO-MF Al TM-n INlr 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 27 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... OR CALL 918-938-6537! ---~ KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPON50REDH THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537 opt 1. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 28 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 29 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 30 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, September 9th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ' -- · -- Support Group for Transgender Teens Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- · -- Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 31 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- ---- Alphabet Soup Youth Group Equality Game Night Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are Support Group for Partners of Transgender People providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - ---- Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 32 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. www.okeq.org/eba ---- OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 33 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC M'ONSOM11n THl-,..llArMI fAM-.T ,o,,,HIIA1- Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 34 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong Shannon Gordon Fair Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Board of Advisors Cray Bauxmont-Flynn Dani Byrd Whitney Cipolla Matt Else, D.O. Christian Fencer Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Muskogee Pride this Saturday! 35 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Muskogee-Pride-this-Saturday-.ht... Justin Ross Stephen Rundell Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:00 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2ee9588ab4b54afda990691995023826.pdf bbfa457032063acea72d98a870a0f5be PDF Text Text Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 1 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews August 23rd, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 2 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... Bartlesville Pride in the Park Saturday, August 28, 5:00 p.m. 300 S.E. Adams Blvd. Bartlesville, OK 74006 Join us on August 28th to celebrate #BVLPRIDE2021. Pride starts at 5 and Josie Turrelle & Friends will be entertaining us with awesome performances until our headliner, Jill Sobule, makes her appearance at 8:00 p.m. We will have vendors, food trucks, Price Tower Patio drinks, a photo booth (courtesy of Lyndsey Stuart Photography), and kids' activities all evening, capped by a "lighting" of the Tower Center. Our popular Pride T-Shirts will be available for in-person purchase, as well as preorder (link to come), plus the Tulsa Pride Store will be on-site for all your pride merch. Afterward, Crossing 2nd will host the official after-party with music, drinks, and entertainment! We can't wait to see you at Bartlesville Pride 2021! Event Page 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 3 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... E ALITY usiness Alliance EBA Mixer Thursday, August 26, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Twenty Twenty Eyecare 7408 S. Yale Ave. Ste H Tulsa, OK 74136 918-794-6700 www.2020tulsa.com Twenty Twenty Eyecare strives to provide the best comprehensive eye care for all ages. We understand that each patient has a unique story, and we are committed to addressing your individual concerns. Twenty Twenty Eyecare is dedicated to providing superior service and attention to detail through the use of the latest technology. Expert Doctors & Staff. Unbeatable Selection. Twenty Twenty Eyecare will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for August. For more information on the EBA and benefits of being a member click the button below. Equality Business Alliance Outside the Box 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 4 of 40 ~ v . _ • . , J I U 1w1v11uuy V I https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... . . . . . . IYIVlll.11 UI. I ..., ••••• Outside the Box First Meeting September 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 5 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... Bison Extracts is offering a scholarship to LGBTQ+ students enrolled in a college, university, or trade school within the US in Fall 2021. To apply, go to http:// www.bisonextracts.com/lgbtq-scholarship-application/ Applications are open from August 3rd to September 15th. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 6 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ------Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 7 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... Document of Life: The Legacy of Clogger Bill Saturday, September 4, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Document of Life: The Legacy of Clogger Bill will have special performances by Clogger Bill. Carolyn Wiley, Kris Kohl, and Anita Richards. All are welcome. Admission is free. Donations are accepted. Click Here to Donate 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 8 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... Annual Meeting Thursday, September 9, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The 41st Annual Meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held virtually on Thursday, September 9th, 2021, at 6:00 p.m. via Zoom. There will be an inperson option for vaccinated people at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, but space will be limited. Click the button below to get the Zoom link. Please put "Annual Meeting" in the subject line of your email. Request Zoom Link: Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 9 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... S.A.G.E. Cookout in the A/C Tuesday, August 24, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE is having a Cookout in the A/C Tuesday, August 24 2021 at 10 a.m. Everyone is welcome to join any Tuesday for SAGE. We will be making burgers and will have plenty of chips to go around. If you can, please bring a dish to share the love. SAGE members are at their best when food is in front of them. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. SAGE Visit to the Sand Springs Museum Friday, August 27, 10:30 a.m. 9 E. Broadway St. Sand Springs, OK 74063 We will meet at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 10:30 and travel in the Equality Van for lunch at Napoli's in Sand Springs at 11:00 a.m. Please bring money for lunch. Afterward, we will tour the Sand Springs Museum at 1:00 p.m. For restaurant and menu information, follow this link www.sandspringsnapolis.com. 28 E. Broadway St. Sand Springs, OK 74063 Link to Sand Springs Museum 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 10 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Party Tuesday, September 7, 10:00 a.m. RSVP for the address Members should meet on Tuesday, September 7, at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and has a railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email toby.jenkins@okeq.org - - - - to RSVP. Put "Pool Party" in the subject line. t J ·.· ·.· . . RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. THURSDAV AUG 26 . • -~ 6PM f ACEBOOK LIVE .. . . SPECIAL GUEST REV. KATHY BROWN 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 11 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... ST PAUL'S UNITED METHODIST CHURCH EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: A Spiritual Happy Hour with Rev. Kathy Brown Thursday, August 24, 6:00 p.m. Facebook Live Oklahomans for Equality's Equality Faith Alliance is excited to announce SPIRIT, a virtual happy hour-style support and social group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether your goal is to reconnect with your faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce your faith, or just connect with other people like yourself, SPIRIT is the group for you. Each Thursday, a spiritual leader from Tulsa and the surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. Our guest host this week is Rev. Kathy Brown from St. Paul's United Methodist Church. Precepts C.A.R.E 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practices Facebook Page f ACEBOOK LIVE WITH SARA EVANS AND BRITTNEY HUDSON EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE OKEQ stands with the Hudson-Evans family against religious discrimination of LGBTQ+ families. Read their story here and look for our upcoming SPIRIT interview with Sara and Brittney. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 12 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... w'ITH FERfORMAfiCES EY EALLET FOLKLORICO SOL AZTECA & MARIEL LUfiA SEFTEMEER 16TH AT 7FM LYl111 RIGGS THEATRE DEl11115 R. 11EILL ~UALITY CENTER 621 E 4TH ST. Night of Latin Culture Thursday, September 16, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ for a Night of Latin Culture in the Lynn Riggs Theatre in honor of Hispanic Heritage Month! There will be performances by Ballet Folklorico Sol Azteca and Mariel Luna. _. WIIIQ't Ii! ESENTS .. tll ~ .• alilftl~ I ENJOY A NIGHT OF LATIN MUSIC AND DANCING 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 13 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... Club Arcoiris Friday, September 24, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ at Club Arcoiris for a night of Latin Music and Dancing with DJ Klave and DJ Tambora. Club Arcoiris is an 18 and up event with alcohol for those 21 and up. PARTICIPATE IN THE YOUTH AND YOUNG ADULT COVID-19 IMPACTS STUDY! Earn up to $45 for completing two online surveys, plus an additional SSO if vou oarticioate in an interview about vou . 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 14 of 40 - -· -·-· https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... - · · -· "'T - - • • ✓- - , - · - · - · ..- - - - · · · - · · ·· · - - · - · - ·· -- - - -✓--·, your experiences during COVID-19, and your mental, physical, and emotional health. ELIGIBLITY ► AGES 14-24 ► LIVE IN THE USA U.S. territories welcome to participate! The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study Our partners at Evaluation, Data Integration, and Technical Assistance (EDIT) Program have a new exciting paid research opportunity. Please see their message below: Researchers at the EDIT team wanted to let you know about a new study we are starting. The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study! The new study is for LGBTQ+ individuals ages 14-24. If that describes you, then please keep reading to learn more about the study. If that doesn’t describe you, then please share this announcement with any LGBTQ+ people you know! If you agree to participate, you’ll be asked to complete an online survey two times: once on the day you enroll and once exactly six months after that. The survey will take about 45 minutes. How does it work? You’ll be asked questions about topics such as: · You · Your experiences during COVID-19 · Your mental, physical, and emotional health You will receive $30 for completing the first survey and $15 for completing the second survey. You will receive your payment in the form of a virtual gift card, which you can use anywhere online. We will email the gift card to you within two weeks of completing the survey. If you’re interested, we may also invite you to participate in an interview with us. If 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 15 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... you agree to participate in an interview, you will receive an additional $50. If you’re interested in participating, please click on the link below. It will take you to a page where you can book a time to speak to someone from our study team over the phone and enroll in the study. If you have any questions, you can email me back or e-mail the study team at YYAhealth@northwestern.edu. Youth and Young Adults COVID-19 Survey Screener City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 16 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... Art Exhibit: Bonny Lee Hardgrove "The Psychotarium" Thursday, September 2, 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 My work is a collaboration of all the states and seasons of my life. I draw heavily from my interest in Theatre and Literature. In everything I consider myself a storyteller, whether that be in pictures or in words. Generally, what I offer are not complete stories. They are lines of poems, flashes of dreams, lost puzzle pieces, and random debris carried by the wind and dropped wherever they are dropped. The viewers may conclude from them what they will, even if the conclusion is just as vague. Sometimes too many answers spoil the mystery. When putting together a collection of pieces that basically give illustration and form to the inner workings of the psyche, what better place than one that strives to offer hope, peace, and unity for those in our community who have historically had to work harder to achieve such things, the beasts and monsters of the mind are universal to all, and like the parable of the two wolves, we decide which ones we feed. The Equality Center is where the benevolent parts of us are given a safe haven, where they can be figuratively fed. On a personal note, the LGTBQA+ community has always supported me and past projects, and I am certainly honored to be able to work with this community and be invited into this space. Love is love. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 17 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... Visit the Art Gallery In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Donald Fruechting July 4, 1938 - August 20, 2021 Memorial service will be held Monday, August 30, 2021, at 10 a.m. at Add'Vantage Funeral and Cremation Service. Burial will take place in Collinsville at 2 p.m. further details are pending. Click here for Donald Fruechting's Obituary 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 18 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... William Arnold Sherwin December 5, 1931 - July 20, 2021 Click Here for William Sherwin's Obituary NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Neurodiversity Tulsa 1st and 3rd Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 19 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 20 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Art Exhibit: Karin Susan Cermak Throughout August Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 21 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... Tulsa, OK 74120 Karin is originally from Germany, lived in Czechoslovakia, and later in Canada. She is a naturalized American citizen, and the U.S.A. has become her final home. She worked as a mechanical engineer designing plumbing and A/C for 30 years. After moving to the U.S.A. in 1990, she has been pursuing her career as an artist. Karin has been active for many years in the Muskogee and Tulsa art communities. She is a member and supports Muskogee Art Guild, Tulsa Artists Guild, Tulsa Art Coalition, Oklahoma Visual Art Coalition, and the Tulsa Art Civic Association Alpha Rho Tau, where she has held many Board positions. Karin also designed and painted banners for many of the annual Azalea Festivals organized by Muskogee Parks and Recreation. Each year Karin supports the Tulsa Art Coalition by donating paintings for the “Miniature Paintings 5" x 5" Show.” She donated her paintings for a fundraising show, “Greater ASSets Art,” organized by the Colon Cancer Coalition for colon cancer awareness. "I enjoy the freedom of contemporary and abstract painting based on my creativity and independence of subjects. Both styles allow me to be spontaneous, to play with colors and forms, to use different materials, to express my feelings. The possibilities in abstract painting are endless. If a viewer connects with me through my art as it was created just for him/her, that’s the biggest award.” says Karin. "One of my goals in my artistic activity is to contribute to the cultural life of the community where I live. Art is and always will be part of my life". For more information, please visit www.okeq.org Watch the Virtual Art Show Below Click Here to View Art Click Here to Purchase Art 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 22 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, September 23, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Jeremy Stevens is back and reunited with a cast of Tulsa All-Stars featuring: • Lori Dector Wright • Morgan Allen 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 23 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... • Cristen Burdell • Jacob Brockunier Please have your vaccination card to show at the door. Get Your Tickets Now! Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, September 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGAL AID ttz, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "firstcome, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone ----is (918) 295-9429. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 24 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Thursday, September 23, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This is Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa's very first meeting back! Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK One Teacher in Ten (2nd Edition) edited by Kevin Jennings A collection of accounts by openly gay and lesbian teachers who tell about their struggles and victories as they have put their own careers on the line to fight for justice. In this edition of new essays, almost 40 educators tell their stories. Not only do educators from all over the us. weigh in on this critical topic, but essays from educators in Canada, England, and Japan are also included. one teacher in 10 "'' edited by kevin jennings .=====---=-=-=-=-=~.....L.~~====::::::!:::=======::::!....., AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Kevin Jennings-A monumental leader and crusader, 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 25 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... KEVIN )ENNINC.S Kevin Jennings has dedicated his career to ensuring safe schools for all students. In 1990, he founded the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education etwork (GLSE ), the nation's first organization combating discrimination against GLBT students. He then joined the Obama administration as Assistant Deputy secretary of Education and director of the Office of Safe & Drug-Free School in 2009 - 2011 . OKE okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 26 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... Click here to Support Monthly Grateful Day Foundation Wellness Retreat The 2021 HIV Wellness Retreat is just around the corner. Thursday 8/26/21 to Sunday 8/29/21. Follow the links below to sign up to attend the retreat, and then pre-pay your fees via the OkEq E-Store. Register for HIV Wellness Retreat 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 27 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... The City of Tulsa s committed to ere t ng re pectful nd professional wor environment. l n r ty r on 0 t1on, ion in d. City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 28 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 29 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. PARENTS OF LOBTOlSIA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 30 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 1st Wednesday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for all transgender teens ' 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 31 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and all teens under the trans umbrella. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 32 of 40 ~PQ"'S0REOBY THE GEORGE KAIHR FAMILY FOUNDATION https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537 opt 1. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 33 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 34 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing Virtual Thursday, September 9th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 35 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - --- Support Group for Parents of Transgender People \. i ~• !1 IT f ' .!· \/,r \ "', f\ m~ , ' 1111' I ~, .. ~ Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. ' Support Group for Transgender Teens 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- --- The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- --- Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 36 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... Intersex, and Asexual Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, ( community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet Support Group for Partners of Transgender People SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- - - - - SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ---- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 37 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 38 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPON$OHCl ■Y THlGEOt!GlKIIIH• 'IIMllY,OYNCIIITION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 39 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... 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Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. 4/28/26, 3:00 PM �Bartlesville Pride this Saturday! 40 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bartlesville-Pride-this-Saturday-.h... Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:00 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8c146dc09a258188b8482fbd2689c5d5.pdf f3eeb6a5ab463e1f807f1e1fe92f770e PDF Text Text First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 1 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews August 30th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 2 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... Art Exhibit: Bonny Lee Hardgrove "The Psychotarium" Thursday, September 2, 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 My work is a collaboration of all the states and seasons of my life. I draw heavily from my interest in Theatre and Literature. In everything, I consider myself a storyteller, whether that be in pictures or words. Generally, what I offer are not complete stories. They are lines of poems, flashes of dreams, lost puzzle pieces, and random debris carried by the wind and dropped wherever they are dropped. The viewers may conclude from them what they will, even if the conclusion is just as vague. Sometimes too many answers spoil the mystery. When putting together a collection of pieces that basically give illustration and form to the inner workings of the psyche, what better place than one that strives to offer hope, peace, and unity for those in our community who have historically had to work harder to achieve such things, the beasts and monsters of the mind are universal to all and like the parable of the two wolves, we decide which ones we feed. The Equality Center is where the benevolent parts of us are given a safe haven, where they can be figuratively fed. On a personal note, the LGTBQA+ community has always supported me and past projects, and I am certainly 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 3 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... honored to be able to work with this community and be invited into this space. Love is love. Visit the Art Gallery Neurodiversity Tulsa Drag Night Tuesday, September 7th, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 151 and 3rdruesday of e.tery month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Start Your Engines! Neurodiversity Tulsa is hosting its first Drag Night on Tuesday, September 7th. Bring your own wigs, makeup, costumes, or whatever you want to create your character. We'll have makeup tutorials from Kings and Queens, and a fashion 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 4 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... show at the end! This is a fun opportunity to learn about and try drag. This is not a competition, we are all winners in Neurodiversity Tulsa's Drag Race. Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. The group is open to people on the autism spectrum, people who have ADHD, anxiety, Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, as well as supportive friends and family. We want everyone to feel welcome and know that they have a home in this community. We meet twice a month to play games, make art, go on outings, chat, and connect with likeminded individuals in our community. For more information, or to join our next meeting, please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ c)-, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 5 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, August 31, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Party Tuesday, September 7, 10:00 a.m. RSVP for the address Members should meet on Tuesday, September 7, at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and has a railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email toby.jenkins@okeq.org to RSVP. Put "Pool Party" in the subject line. SAGE Museum Friday Friday, September 24, 9:00 a.m. Meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We will meet at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 9:00 a.m. and travel in the Equality Van to First Americans Museum. Please bring money for lunch. 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 6 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... The First Americans Museum is located at 659 First Americans Boulevard, Oklahoma City, OK 73129. You can find more information about the museum here: famok.org 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 7 of 36 , https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... I I " \ • 1,. * J ' All Are \\'~lcom~! Admission is FREE. Donations are accepted. 'WI .. Document of Life: The Legacy of Clogger Bill Saturday, September 4, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Document of Life: The Legacy of Clogger Bill will have special performances by Clogger Bill. Carolyn Wiley, Kris Kohl, and Anita Richards. All are welcome. Admission is free. Donations are accepted. Click Here to Donate Annual Meeting Thursday, September 9, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The 41st Annual Meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held virtually on Thursday, September 9th, 2021, at 6:00 p.m. via Zoom. There will be an inperson option for vaccinated people at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, but space will be limited. Click the button below to get the Zoom link. Please put 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 8 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... "Annual Meeting" in the subject line of your email. Request Zoom Link: • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, September 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "firstcome, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. OKEQ PRE5El1T5 \./ITH PERFORMAfiCE5 EY ..... BALLET FOLKLORICO 501 AZTECA & MARIEL LUfiA 5EPTEMEER 16TH AT 7PM 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 9 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... LYlflf RIGGS THEATRE DElflflS R. lfEILL E«lUALITY CENTER 621 E 4TH ST. Night of Latin Culture Thursday, September 16, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ for a Night of Latin Culture in the Lynn Riggs Theatre in honor of Hispanic Heritage Month! There will be performances by Ballet Folklorico Sol Azteca and Mariel Luna. 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 10 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... Outside the Box Every r on ay of the onth a 7 p.m. Outside the Box: First Meeting Monday, September 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 11 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, September 23, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Jeremy Stevens is back and reunited with a cast of Tulsa All-Stars featuring: • Lori Dector Wright • Morgan Allen • Cristen Burdell • Jacob Brockunier Please have your vaccination card to show at the door. Get Your Tickets Now! 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 12 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Thursday, September 23, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This is Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa's very first meeting back! Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in Club Arcoiris Friday, September 24, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 13 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ at Club Arcoiris for a night of Latin Music and Dancing with DJ Klave and DJ Tambora. Club Arcoiris is an 18 and up event with alcohol for those 21 and up. E ALITY Business Alliance EBA Mixer Thursday, September 30, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Securian Advisors Mid America, Inc. 1616 S Main St. Tulsa, Ok 74119 www.securianmidamerica.com From everyday moments to major milestones, our strategies can help you focus on your most important asset: family. We will listen to what's important to you throughout our process and develop customized financial strategies that can help turn your goals into reality. Our team of professionals helps prepare you for the future, so you have the confidence to focus on what's truly valuable: making memories with those who matter most. Securian Advisors will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for September. For more information on the EBA and the benefits of being a member, click the button below. Equality Business Alliance 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 14 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... f ACEBOOK LIVE WITH SARA EVANS AND BRITTNEY HUDSON EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE OKEQ stands with the Hudson-Evans family against religious discrimination of LGBTQ+ families. Read their story here and look for our upcoming SPIRIT interview with Sara and Brittney. Facebook Page 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 15 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... Bison Extracts is offering a scholarship to LGBTQ+ students enrolled in a college, university, or trade school within the US in Fall 2021. To apply, go to http:// www.bisonextracts.com/lgbtq-scholarship-application/ Applications are open from August 3rd to September 15th. People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 16 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator PARTICIPATE IN THE YOUTH AND YOUNG ADULT COVID-19 IMPACTS STUDY! Earn up to $45 for completing two online surveys, plus an additional $50 if you participate in an interview about you, your experiences during COVID-19, and your mental, physical, and emotional health. ELIGIBLITY ► AGES 14-24 ► LIVE IN THE USA U.S. territories welcome to participate! 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 17 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study Our partners at Evaluation, Data Integration, and Technical Assistance (EDIT) Program have a new exciting paid research opportunity. Please see their message below: Researchers at the EDIT team wanted to let you know about a new study we are starting. The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study! The new study is for LGBTQ+ individuals ages 14-24. If that describes you, then please keep reading to learn more about the study. If that doesn’t describe you, then please share this announcement with any LGBTQ+ people you know! If you agree to participate, you’ll be asked to complete an online survey two times: once on the day, you enroll and once exactly six months after that. The survey will take about 45 minutes. How does it work? You’ll be asked questions about topics such as: · You · Your experiences during COVID-19 · Your mental, physical, and emotional health You will receive $30 for completing the first survey and $15 for completing the second survey. You will receive your payment in the form of a virtual gift card, which you can use anywhere online. We will email the gift card to you within two weeks of completing the survey. If you’re interested, we may also invite you to participate in an interview with us. If you agree to participate in an interview, you will receive an additional $50. If you’re interested in participating, please click on the link below. It will take you to a page where you can book a time to speak to someone from our study team over the phone and enroll in the study. If you have any questions, you can email me back or e-mail the study team at YYAhealth@northwestern.edu. Youth and Young Adults COVID-19 Survey Screener 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 18 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 19 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... Donald Fruechting July 4, 1938 - August 20, 2021 Memorial service will be held Monday, August 30, 2021, at 10 a.m. at Add'Vantage Funeral and Cremation Service. Burial will take place in Collinsville at 2 p.m. further details are pending. Click here for Donald Fruechting's Obituary William Arnold Sherwin December 5, 1931 - July 20, 2021 Click Here for William Sherwin's Obituary 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 20 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library BOOK OF THE WEEK You Should See me in a Crown by Leah Johnson 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 21 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... Liz has a plan to get out of her small town for college, but when her scholarship falls through, that dream is quickly dashed. However, she could just run for prom queen and because that title comes with a scholarship. The last thing Liz wants to do is subject herself to her social-media-obsessed classmates, but now this looks like her only way out. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Leah Johnson- Is an eternal mid westerner and author of award-winning books for children and young adults. Her bestselling debut YA novel, You Should See Me in a Crown, was a Stonewall Honor Book, the inaugural Reese's Book Club YA pick, and named a best book of the year by Amazon, Kirkus, Marie Claire, Publishers Weekly, and ew York Public Library. LEAH JOHNSON OKE okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 22 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly Th City of Tul a is committed to creat ng re pectful nd • rk env ronment. 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 23 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 0 FREE PRONOUN PINS 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 24 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • • • - -==- 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 25 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. PARENTS OF LOBTQ2SIA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 26 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 1st Wednesday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and all teens under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 27 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537 opt 1. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 28 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 29 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 30 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, September 9th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - Support Group for Parents of Transgender People Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. \. 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 31 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 32 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - - ---- Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 33 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------ -- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 34 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPOIISOAEOay THIGIOIIGIUJSU Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 35 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong Shannon Gordon Fair Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Stephen Rundell Board of Advisors Cray Bauxmont-Flynn Dani Byrd Whitney Cipolla Matt Else, D.O. Christian Fencer Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips 4/28/26, 3:01 PM �First Thursday Art Exhibit Opens September 2nd 36 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Exhibit-Opens... Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:01 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f32ab31bf349db12838d0f3b207ef008.pdf de9ca3703b62fdb44970e2043c1cf817 PDF Text Text OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 1 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews September 7th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 2 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... Annual Meeting Thursday, September 9, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The 41st Annual Meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held virtually on Thursday, September 9th, 2021, at 6:00 p.m. via Zoom. There will be an inperson option for vaccinated people at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, but space will be limited. Click the button below to get the Zoom link. Please put "Annual Meeting" in the subject line of your email. Request Zoom Link: 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 3 of 37 Neurodiversity Tulsa Drag Night Tuesday, September 7th, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 151 and 3rdTuesday of every month 630pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Start Your Engines! Neurodiversity Tulsa is hosting its first Drag Night on Tuesday, September 7th. Bring your own wigs, makeup, costumes, or whatever you want to create your character. We'll have makeup tutorials from Kings and Queens and a fashion show at the end! This is a fun opportunity to learn about and try drag. This is not a competition, we are all winners in Neurodiversity Tulsa's Drag Race. Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. The group is open to people on the autism spectrum, people who have 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 4 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... ADHD, anxiety, Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, as well as supportive friends and family. We want everyone to feel welcome and know that they have a home in this community. We meet twice a month to play games, make art, go on outings, chat, and connect with likeminded individuals in our community. For more information, or to join our next meeting, please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ c)-, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 5 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, September 14, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. SAGE Museum Friday Friday, September 24, 9:00 a.m. Meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We will meet at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 9:00 a.m. and travel in the Equality Van to First Americans Museum. Please bring money for lunch. The First Americans Museum is located at 659 First Americans Boulevard, Oklahoma City, OK 73129. You can find more information about the museum here: famok.org 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 6 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... Let's Talk About Sex” Drag Show (Sex Education) Saturday, September 11, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Host- Scrappy Legacy Gizele Monae~( Oklahoma State Health Department) Jalike Raine (Guiding Right) New Attendees Must speak with our Youth Coordinator before attending. Contact Us 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 7 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, September 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGAL AID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "firstcome, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone is (918) 295-9429. OKEQ PRESEfiTS l,/ITH PERfORMAfiCES EY EALLET fOLKLORICO SOL AZTECA & MARIEL LUfiA SEPTEMEER 16TH AT 7PM LYnn RIGGS THEATRE DEflI115 R. NEILL E«IUALITY CEnTER 621 E 4TH ST. 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 8 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... Night of Latin Culture Thursday, September 16, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ for a Night of Latin Culture in the Lynn Riggs Theatre in honor of Hispanic Heritage Month! There will be performances by Ballet Folklorico Sol Azteca and Mariel Luna. _,. ¥ .OUTSIDE ·. 'THE- B ~ ' Le.rj 3rJ MonJaj of }he. Mon}h a} 1pm Outside the Box: First Meeting Monday, September 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 9 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, September 23, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Jeremy Stevens is back and reunited with a cast of Tulsa All-Stars featuring: • Lori Dector Wright • Morgan Allen • Cristen Burdell • Jacob Brockunier Please have your vaccination card to show at the door. Get Your Tickets Now! 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 10 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Thursday, September 23, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This is Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa's very first meeting back! Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 11 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... FRIDAY SEPTEMBER 24TH 7PM-10:30PM - - - - - - - - - - AGE 18+ - - - - - - - - - - DENN IS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 621 E 4TH ST TULSA, OK 74120 21+ TO DRINK 0 Club Arcoiris Friday, September 24, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ at Club Arcoiris for a night of Latin Music and Dancing with DJ Klave and DJ Tambora. Club Arcoiris is an 18 and up event with alcohol for those 21 and up. E ALITY Business Alliance EBA Mixer Thursday, September 30, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Securian Advisors Mid America, Inc. 1616 S Main St. Tulsa, Ok 74119 www.securianmidamerica.com From everyday moments to major milestones, our strategies can help you focus on your most important asset: family. We will listen to what's important to you throughout our process and develop customized financial strategies that can help turn your goals into reality. Our team of professionals helps prepare you for the future, so you have 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 12 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... the confidence to focus on what's truly valuable: making memories with those who matter most. Securian Advisors will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for September. For more information on the EBA and the benefits of being a member, click the button below. Equality Business Alliance Pride Night at the State Fair Thursday, September 30 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 13 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... Tulsa Fair Grounds 4145 E. 21st St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality invites you to Queer the Tulsa State Fair in your identity colors. We want to see all the colors of the Rainbow! So come out and have fun at the Tulsa State Fair as our community celebrates LGBTQ+ Pride on September 30th! Oklahomans for Equality will have an indoor booth with the Pride store, information, and volunteers! This is a great chance to run into familiar faces and meet new ones. Don't forget to wear your pride attire to spread awareness and visibility of our presence in Tulsa! ~u..tu-------., OILAHOMAIIS FOi EQUALITY ~~~ JOHif FAUL 13RAMNER 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 14 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... ·• • '" 11 WIILl'IIIKTPARKUIG LU DElffflS R. IIEILL EQUALITY C£lfTER ~21 E 4TB PRIDE ST RSVF FOR TICKETS A Night with John Paul Brammer Monday, October 4, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 As a part of our annual celebration of Hispanic/Latinx Heritage month, Oklahomans for Equality presents An Evening with gay, Latinx author John Paul Brammer. This event will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in the Lynn Riggs Theatre on Monday, October 4th, at 7:00 p.m. Please contact our Donovid Sekulits, the Latinx Outreach & Library Services Coordinator, for more information about this event. Contact Donovid to RSVP 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 15 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... Art Exhibit: Bonny Lee Hardgrove "The Psychotarium" Thursday, September 2, 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 My work is a collaboration of all the states and seasons of my life. I draw heavily from my interest in Theatre and Literature. In everything, I consider myself a storyteller, whether that be in pictures or words. Generally, what I offer are not complete stories. They are lines of poems, flashes of dreams, lost puzzle pieces, and random debris carried by the wind and dropped wherever they are dropped. The viewers may conclude from them what they will, even if the conclusion is just as vague. Sometimes too many answers spoil the mystery. When putting together a collection of pieces that basically give illustration and form to the inner workings of the psyche, what better place than one that strives to offer hope, peace, and unity for those in our community who have historically had to work harder to achieve such things, the beasts and monsters of the mind are universal to all and like the parable of the two wolves, we decide which ones we feed. The Equality Center is where the benevolent parts of us are given a safe haven, where they can be figuratively fed. On a personal note, the LGTBQA+ community has always supported me and past projects, and I am certainly honored to be able to work with this community and be invited into this space. Love is love. Visit the Art Gallery 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 16 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. .... • - .... COMING SOON f ACEBOOK LIVE -~ .. . f[1A ~ WITH SARA EVANS AND BRITTNEY HUDSON EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE OKEQ stands with the Hudson-Evans family against religious discrimination of LGBTQ+ families. Read their story here and look for our upcoming SPIRIT interview with Sara and Brittney. Facebook Page 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 17 of 37 I https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... Bison Extracts is offering a scholarship to LGBTQ+ students enrolled in a college, university, or trade school within the US in Fall 2021. To apply, go to http:// www.bisonextracts.com/lgbtq-scholarship-application/ I Applications are open from August 3rd to September 15th. People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ----------Follow the link below to find your US Senators. 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 18 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... Find Your Legislator PARTICIPATE IN THE YOUTH AND YOUNG ADULT COVID-19 IMPACTS STUDY! Earn up to $45 for completing two online surveys, plus an additional $50 if you participate in an interview about you, your experiences during COVID-19, and your mental, physical, and emotional health. ELIGIBLITY ► AGES 14-24 ► LIVE IN THE USA U.S. territories welcome to participate! The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study Our partners at Evaluation, Data Integration, and Technical Assistance (EDIT) 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 19 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... Program have a new exciting paid research opportunity. Please see their message below: Researchers at the EDIT team wanted to let you know about a new study we are starting. The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study! The new study is for LGBTQ+ individuals ages 14-24. If that describes you, then please keep reading to learn more about the study. If that doesn’t describe you, then please share this announcement with any LGBTQ+ people you know! If you agree to participate, you’ll be asked to complete an online survey two times: once on the day, you enroll and once exactly six months after that. The survey will take about 45 minutes. How does it work? You’ll be asked questions about topics such as: · You · Your experiences during COVID-19 · Your mental, physical, and emotional health You will receive $30 for completing the first survey and $15 for completing the second survey. You will receive your payment in the form of a virtual gift card, which you can use anywhere online. We will email the gift card to you within two weeks of completing the survey. If you’re interested, we may also invite you to participate in an interview with us. If you agree to participate in an interview, you will receive an additional $50. If you’re interested in participating, please click on the link below. It will take you to a page where you can book a time to speak to someone from our study team over the phone and enroll in the study. If you have any questions, you can email me back or e-mail the study team at YYAhealth@northwestern.edu. Youth and Young Adults COVID-19 Survey Screener City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 20 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Donald Fruechting July 4, 1938 - August 20, 2021 Memorial service will be held Monday, August 30, 2021, at 10 a.m. at Add'Vantage Funeral and Cremation Service. Burial will take place in Collinsville 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 21 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... at 2 p.m. further details are pending. Click here for Donald Fruechting's Obituary William Arnold Sherwin December 5, 1931 - July 20, 2021 Click Here for William Sherwin's Obituary Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 22 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Becoming Nicole by Amy Ellis Nutt The inspiring true story of transgender actor and activist Nicole Maines, whose identical twin brother, Jonas, and ordinary American family join her on an extraordinary journey to understand, nurture, and celebrate the uniqueness in us all. It's a powerful portrait of a slowly but surely changing nation, and one that will inspire all of us to see the world with a little more humanity and understanding. 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 23 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... AU I HUH ll'U I LllJH I Amy Ellis Nutt-on the Pulitzer Prize in 2011 for AMY ELLIS NUTT her feature series "The Wreck of the Lady Mary," about the 2009 sinking of a fishing boat off the ew Jersey coast. She is a health and science writer at The Washington Post, the author of Shadows Bright as Glass, and the co-author of the ew York Times bestseller The Teenage Brain. OKE okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 24 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly The City of Tul a i committed to creat n a respectful nd profe ork env ronm nt. n er s on ny ls 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 25 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... flJ City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 26 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. 0 ALPHABET SOUP KIDS Z SATURDAY AFTERNOON 3·4PM ~ • • ·o \\ • • ~ • • <:) - -==- ;:. • • <:) 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 27 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. PARENTS OF LOBTQlSJA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 28 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 1st Wednesday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and all teens under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 29 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537 opt 1. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 30 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 31 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 32 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, September 9th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - Support Group for Parents of Transgender People ~ I \, J ~ • \ aff • ' ,!, 11 1 1'. ~' ''\ • • . . ., . I ,. Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. ;i 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 33 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- · --- The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Tulsa Area Prime Timers opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 34 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- ---- SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education, inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ----- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 35 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org ---- --- 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 36 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC IPON50111D ■ V THIGEORGIK&IIH Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:02 PM �OKEQ Annual Meeting this Thursday 37 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Annual-Meeting-this-Thur... OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong Shannon Gordon Fair Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Stephen Rundell Board of Advisors Cray Bauxmont-Flynn Dani Byrd Whitney Cipolla Matt Else, D.O. Christian Fencer Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:02 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/bbd37b52dfc16f271fef38fc6fa18c4b.pdf 91c1b25719270403ea0c74327b71d501 PDF Text Text A Night of Latin Culture 1 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews September 13th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 2 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... For More Information Click Here OKEQ PRESEflTS \s/lTH PERFORMAflCES BY BALLET FOLKLORICO SOL AZTECA & MARIEL LUflA SEPTEMBER 16TH AT 7PM LYl111 RIGGS THEATRE DEl1111S R. 11EILL ~UALITY CEl1TER ,m t' 4T.IL_c:T 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 3 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... Night of Latin Culture Thursday, September 16, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ for a Night of Latin Culture in the Lynn Riggs Theatre in honor of Hispanic Heritage Month! There will be performances by Ballet Folklorico Sol Azteca and Mariel Luna. Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 4 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, September 14, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. SAGE Museum Friday Friday, September 24, 9:00 a.m. Meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We will meet at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 9:00 a.m. and travel in the Equality Van to First Americans Museum. Please bring money for lunch. The First Americans Museum is located at 659 First Americans Boulevard, Oklahoma City, OK 73129. You can find more information about the museum here: famok.org. Please RSVP with Toby.Jenkins@OKEQ.org and put OKC Museum in the subject line. Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, September 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "firstcome, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 5 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 6 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days Join OKEQ’s Brought to You Bi the Letter B (our Bisexual/Pansexual+ Support and Social Group) as we celebrate Bisexual/ Pansexual Visibility Days. Oaklake Naturist Resort Art Festival Day Saturday, September 18 24601 Milfay Rd. Depew, OK 74028 Bi at the Boxyard Thursday, September 23, 7:00 p.m. 502 E. 3rd St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Meet up for dinner, drinks, ice cream, and to be visible. Bi-Bike Ride with This Machine Tulsa Friday, September 24, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Bi+ NEFF Pint night Friday, September 24, 8:00 p.m. 321 S Frankfort Ave. Suite #2, Tulsa, OK 74120 Visit Us on Facebook Email Us 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 7 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... .__. .OUTSIDE 'THE B ~ - . . £\/e.rj 3rd Mondaj of }he. Mon}h a} 1pm Outside the Box: First Meeting Monday, September 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. LGBTQ+ Deaf Happy Hour Monday, September 20, 5:00 p.m. TSHA Inc. 8740 E. 11th St., Ste A Tulsa, OK 74112 Join TSHA and OKEQ for our first LGBTQ+ Deaf Happy Hour! This social event is for Deaf LGBTQ+ people to socialize and learn about services at TSHA and OKEQ. Translators will be present for participants. ~ NEU 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 8 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Neurodiversity Tuesday, September 21, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. The group is open to people on the autism spectrum, people who have ADHD, anxiety, Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, as well as supportive friends and family. We want everyone to feel welcome and know that they have a home in this community. We meet twice a month to play games, make art, go on outings, chat, and connect with likeminded individuals in our community. For more information, or to join our next meeting, please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 9 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, September 23, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Jeremy Stevens is back and reunited with a cast of Tulsa All-Stars featuring: • Lori Decter Wright • Morgan Allen • Cristen Burdell • Jacob Brockunier Please have your vaccination card to show at the door. Get Your Tickets Now! 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 10 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Thursday, September 23, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This is Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa's very first meeting back! Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 11 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... Club Arcoiris Friday, September 24, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ at Club Arcoiris for a night of Latin Music and Dancing with DJ Klave and DJ Tambora. Club Arcoiris is an 18 and up event with alcohol for those 21 and up. E ALITY usiness Alliance 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 12 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... EBA Mixer Thursday, September 30, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Securian Advisors Mid America, Inc. 1616 S Main St. Tulsa, Ok 74119 www.securianmidamerica.com From everyday moments to major milestones, our strategies can help you focus on your most important asset: family. We will listen to what's important to you throughout our process and develop customized financial strategies that can help turn your goals into reality. Our team of professionals helps prepare you for the future, so you have the confidence to focus on what's truly valuable: making memories with those who matter most. Securian Advisors will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for September. For more information on the EBA and the benefits of being a member, click the button below. Equality Business Alliance 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 13 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... Pride Night at the State Fair Thursday, September 30 Tulsa Fair Grounds 4145 E. 21st St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality invites you to Queer the Tulsa State Fair in your identity colors. We want to see all the colors of the Rainbow! So come out and have fun at the Tulsa State Fair as our community celebrates LGBTQ+ Pride on September 30th! Oklahomans for Equality will have an indoor booth with the Pride store, information, and volunteers! This is a great chance to run into familiar faces and meet new ones. Don't forget to wear your pride attire to spread awareness and visibility of our presence in Tulsa! .,____--c...a.lu-----.,.., OlLAHOMAli5 FOR EQUALITY ,-___!~~ JOHfi FAUL ERAMMER 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 14 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... L11ffl i1G65 THEATiE DElffflS i. lfEILL EQUALITY C£1fTER ~21 E 4TH PRIDE ST RSVF FOR TICKETS A Night with John Paul Brammer Monday, October 4, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 As a part of our annual celebration of Hispanic/Latinx Heritage month, Oklahomans for Equality presents An Evening with gay, Latinx author John Paul Brammer. This event will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in the Lynn Riggs Theatre on Monday, October 4th, at 7:00 p.m. Please contact our Donovid Sekulits, the Latinx Outreach & Library Services Coordinator, for more information about this event. Contact Donovid to RSVP 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 15 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... Bonny Lee Hardgrove "The Psychotarium" Month of September Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 My work is a collaboration of all the states and seasons of my life. I draw heavily from my interest in Theatre and Literature. In everything, I consider myself a storyteller, whether that be in pictures or words. Generally, what I offer are not complete stories. They are lines of poems, flashes of dreams, lost puzzle pieces, and random debris carried by the wind and dropped wherever they are dropped. The viewers may conclude from them what they will, even if the conclusion is just as vague. Sometimes too many answers spoil the mystery. When putting together a collection of pieces that basically give illustration and 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 16 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... form to the inner workings of the psyche, what better place than one that strives to offer hope, peace, and unity for those in our community who have historically had to work harder to achieve such things, the beasts and monsters of the mind are universal to all and like the parable of the two wolves, we decide which ones we feed. The Equality Center is where the benevolent parts of us are given a safe haven, where they can be figuratively fed. On a personal note, the LGTBQA+ community has always supported me and past projects, and I am certainly honored to be able to work with this community and be invited into this space. Love is love. Visit the Art Gallery ~ fT;! ~ A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. ~--·. . COMING SOON f ACEBOOK LIVE •.• • B -~ .. . ,{!1A ~ WITH SARA EVANS AND BRITTNEY HUDSON EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE OKEQ stands with the Hudson-Evans family against religious discrimination of LGBTQ+ families. Read their story here and look for our upcoming SPIRIT interview with Sara and Brittney. Facebook Page 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 17 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... Bison Extracts is offering a scholarship to LGBTQ+ students enrolled in a college, university, or trade school within the US in Fall 2021. To apply, go to http:// www.bisonextracts.com/lgbtq-scholarship-application/ Applications are open from August 3rd to September 15th. 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 18 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... Equality Act Comprehensive federal protections for the LGBTQ+ community People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ----------Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator PARTICIPATE IN THE YOUTH AND YOUNG ADULT COVID-19 IMPACTS STUDY! Earn up to $45 for completing two online surveys, plus an additional $50 if you participate in an interview about you, your experiences during COVID-19, and your mental, physical, and emotional health. ELIGIBLITY ► AGES 14-24 SEE IF YOU QUALIFY: 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 19 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... ► LIVE IN THE USA U.S. territories welcome to participate! 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 20 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study Our partners at Evaluation, Data Integration, and Technical Assistance (EDIT) Program have a new exciting paid research opportunity. Please see their message below: Researchers at the EDIT team wanted to let you know about a new study we are starting. The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study! The new study is for LGBTQ+ individuals ages 14-24. If that describes you, then please keep reading to learn more about the study. If that doesn’t describe you, then please share this announcement with any LGBTQ+ people you know! If you agree to participate, you’ll be asked to complete an online survey two times: once on the day, you enroll and once exactly six months after that. The survey will take about 45 minutes. How does it work? You’ll be asked questions about topics such as: · You · Your experiences during COVID-19 · Your mental, physical, and emotional health You will receive $30 for completing the first survey and $15 for completing the second survey. You will receive your payment in the form of a virtual gift card, which you can use anywhere online. We will email the gift card to you within two weeks of completing the survey. If you’re interested, we may also invite you to participate in an interview with us. If you agree to participate in an interview, you will receive an additional $50. If you’re interested in participating, please click on the link below. It will take you to a page where you can book a time to speak to someone from our study team over the phone and enroll in the study. If you have any questions, you can email me back or e-mail the study team at YYAhealth@northwestern.edu. Youth and Young Adults COVID-19 Survey Screener 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 21 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 22 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... Donald Fruechting July 4, 1938 - August 20, 2021 Click here for Donald Fruechting's Obituary Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Trans+: Love, Sex, Romance & Being You by Katbryn Gonzales, MB.A, and Karen Rayne, PbD An honest, all-inclusive, uncensored guide with real-world information for teens who are transgender, nonbinary, gender-nonconforming, gender-fluid, or questioning their gender identity. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Kathryn Gonzalez, MBA- is the Operations & Programs Director at Out Youth. a Co-Chair of the steering committee for the Central Texas Transgender Health Coalition Karen Rayne, PhD -is the author of Girl: Love, Sex, Romance and Being You. which was features in Teen Vogue. on npr.org, and earned a starred review in 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 23 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... KATHRYN CONZALEZ & KAREN RAYNE Publishers Weekly. She is Executive Director of the nonprofit UNIHUSHED, writes comprehensive sexuality materials, and trains professionals internationally OKE okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 24 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... The City of Tulsa is committed to creat ng re pectful and professional wor environment. Se al orien at nder id ·ty r s ,on ar prot nation, h nt nd tion in ny City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 25 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 26 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • • • ---- • • <::) 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 27 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... PARENTS OF LOBTQ2SJA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Support Group for Parents of Transgender People I ~~/ \ a 1' t· • ,,, I , \ ~\ p 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 28 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 1st Wednesday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and all teens under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 29 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THEGEOAGEK..l,ISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537 opt 1. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 30 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 31 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 32 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, September 16th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 33 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 34 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ----- -- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 35 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC S-SOtllDIY lHIOEOltGIIUUHlt fAHlllY,OUNOATION 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 36 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President 4/28/26, 3:03 PM �A Night of Latin Culture 37 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/A-Night-of-Latin-Culture.html?so... Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong Shannon Gordon Fair Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Stephen Rundell Board of Advisors Cray Bauxmont-Flynn Dani Byrd Whitney Cipolla Matt Else, D.O. Christian Fencer Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:03 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3a55e316b0b09acf25536ca1b9704456.pdf 4fc221e7d41cb120a73a8832239de1b1 PDF Text Text Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 1 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews September 20th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 2 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Congratulations to Kao Morris, our BIPOC & Digital Media Coordinator, and Morgan Allen-White, our Center Director, on receiving the "Oklahoma NextGen Under 30" awards for Non-Profit organizations. We are very proud of our staff and their accomplishments. 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 3 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days Join OKEQ’s Brought to You Bi the Letter B (our Bisexual/Pansexual+ Support and Social Group) as we celebrate Bisexual/ Pansexual Visibility Days. Bi at the Boxyard Thursday, September 23, 7:00 p.m. 502 E. 3rd St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Meet up for dinner, drinks, ice cream, and to be visible. Bi-Bike Ride with This Machine Tulsa Friday, September 24, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Bi+ NEFF Pint night Friday, September 24, 8:00 p.m. 321 S. Frankfort Ave., Suite #2 Tulsa, OK 74120 Visit Us on Facebook 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 4 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Email Us sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ ~-, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, September 21, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 5 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. SAGE Museum Friday Friday, September 24, 9:00 a.m. Meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We will meet at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 9:00 a.m. and travel in the Equality Van to First Americans Museum. Please bring money for lunch. The First Americans Museum is located at 659 First Americans Boulevard, Oklahoma City, OK 73129. You can find more information about the museum here: famok.org. Please RSVP with Toby.Jenkins@OKEQ.org and put OKC Museum in the subject line. RSVP Here ~ ¥ .OUTSIDE ·. I Tu C' D -----------4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 6 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... I ~ !:!!-: ~ _',': j £\Je.rj 3rd Mondaj of }he. Mon}h a} 1pm Outside the Box: First Meeting Monday, September 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. LGBTQ+ Deaf Happy Hour Monday, September 20, 5:00 p.m. TSHA Inc. 8740 E. 11th St., Ste A Tulsa, OK 74112 Join TSHA and OKEQ for our first LGBTQ+ Deaf Happy Hour! This social event is for Deaf LGBTQ+ people to socialize and learn about services at TSHA and OKEQ. Translators will be present for participants. NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA _ 1st and3rdTuesdayofeverymonth _ _ 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 7 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Neurodiversity Tuesday, September 21, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. The group is open to people on the autism spectrum, people who have ADHD, anxiety, Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, as well as supportive friends and family. We want everyone to feel welcome and know that they have a home in this community. We meet twice a month to play games, make art, go on outings, chat, and connect with likeminded individuals in our community. For more information, or to join our next meeting, please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 8 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, September 23, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Jeremy Stevens is back and reunited with a cast of Tulsa All-Stars featuring: • Lori Decter Wright • Morgan Allen • Cristen Burdell • Jacob Brockunier Please have your vaccination card to show at the door. Get Your Tickets Now! 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 9 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... GEN Q: Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, September 23, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Gen Q, our LGBTQIA+ social group for folks 18-30, for a karaoke night. Snacks and drinks will be provided—21+ to drink alcohol. GEN Q will join the Rainbow Room on Sept 23. RSVP below: RSVP Here 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 10 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Thursday, September 23, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This is Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa's very first meeting back! Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 11 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... FRIDAY SEPTEMBER 24TH 7PM-10:30PM - AGE 18+ - - -- - - - - - - - - - DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 621 E 4TH ST TULSA, OK 74120 21+ TO DRINK 0 Club Arcoiris Friday, September 24, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ at Club Arcoiris for a night of Latin Music and Dancing with DJ Klave and DJ Tambora. Club Arcoiris is an 18 and up event with alcohol for those 21 and up. E ALITY usiness Alliance EBA Mixer Thursday, September 30, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Securian Advisors Mid America, Inc. 1616 S Main St. Tulsa, Ok 74119 www.securianmidamerica.com From everyday moments to major milestones, our strategies can help you focus on your most important asset: family. We will listen to what's important to you throughout our process and develop customized financial strategies that can help turn your goals into reality. 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 12 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Our team of professionals helps prepare you for the future, so you have the confidence to focus on what's truly valuable: making memories with those who matter most. Securian Advisors will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for September. For more information on the EBA and the benefits of being a member, click the button below. Equality Business Alliance 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 13 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... VOLUNTEER TRAINING FOR THE FAIR You can sign up to volunteer for the fair online by clicking the button below: Click Here to Volunteer Pride Night at the State Fair Thursday, September 30 Tulsa Fair Grounds 4145 E. 21st St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality invites you to Queer the Tulsa State Fair in your identity 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 14 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... colors. We want to see all the colors of the Rainbow! So come out and have fun at the Tulsa State Fair as our community celebrates LGBTQ+ Pride on September 30th! Oklahomans for Equality will have an indoor booth with the Pride store, information, and volunteers! This is a great chance to run into familiar faces and meet new ones. Don't forget to wear your pride attire to spread awareness and visibility of our presence in Tulsa! ~u..lu-------., OILAHOMAIIS FOi EQUALITY ~~~ JOHif FAUL 13RAMNER Lflffl RIG65 THEATRE DEnms R. IIEILL EQUALITY CEliTER G21 E 4TH PRIDE ST 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 15 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... RSVF FOR TICKETS An Evening with John Paul Brammer Monday, October 4, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality has invited author and artist John Paul Brammer to Oklahoma as a part of our annual celebration of Hispanic/Latinx Heritage Month. John Paul Brammer is a writer and artist from rural Oklahoma who is currently based in Brooklyn. He will be interviewed by Donovid Sekulits, the Latinx Outreach & Library Services Coordinator. They will talk about what gay Latinx pride means to them and discuss his new memoir, ¡Hola Papi! There will be a small reception before the event in his honor. Our theater is equipped with an air filtration system, but we also require that anyone attending wears a mask during the event. Being fully vaccinated is highly encouraged. Prepackaged snacks and drinks will be provided. Click the ticket link below to RSVP to this event. This is a free event, but donations are appreciated. Tickets Donations Facebook Link Watch Video Below 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 16 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Simon & Schuster Books a Watch on 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 17 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Bonny Lee Hardgrove "The Psychotarium" Month of September Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 My work is a collaboration of all the states and seasons of my life. I draw heavily from my interest in Theatre and Literature. In everything, I consider myself a storyteller, whether that be in pictures or words. Generally, what I offer are not complete stories. They are lines of poems, flashes of dreams, lost puzzle pieces, and random debris carried by the wind and dropped wherever they are dropped. The viewers may conclude from them what they will, even if the conclusion is just as vague. Sometimes too many answers spoil the mystery. When putting together a collection of pieces that basically give illustration and form to the inner workings of the psyche, what better place than one that strives to offer hope, peace, and unity for those in our community who have historically had to work harder to achieve such things, the beasts and monsters of the mind are universal to all and like the parable of the two wolves, we decide which ones we feed. The Equality Center is where the benevolent parts of us are given a safe haven, where they can be figuratively fed. On a personal note, the LGTBQA+ community has always supported me and past projects, and I am certainly honored to be able to work with this community and be invited into this space. Love is love. Visit the Art Gallery Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, October 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "firstcome, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 18 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Transgender Resource Fair Saturday, November 13th, 2021 Trans-Friendly Resources including: Health Care Cosmetic Clothing Closet Massage I Mental Health Sexual Health Legal Assistance Hair Stylists Hosted by The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Trans Resource Fair 2021 Saturday November 13th, 12:30 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 19 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Join us at the Equality Center for a day of community, wellness, and fun for Tulsaarea trans folks! You’ll get a chance to connect with trans-friendly medical doctors, legal counsel, wellness professionals, hairstylists, and make-up artists. Swing by the clothing swap and pick out some new additions to your wardrobe, show off your new style with a portrait photo session, do some arts & crafts activities with other fair-goers, and grab a bite to eat – it’s on us! This fair serves as an opportunity for trans folks to easily find resources, assistance, community, and to receive supplies from community-vetted transfriendly resources. We especially hope to aid those who are financially unable to access basic material necessities that trans folks need on a daily basis, as well as those who might not be as plugged into the local trans community. This is a FREE event – cash donations will be collected at the event, or you can donate online though the Equality Center by clicking the button below: Donate Here ~ fT;! ~ A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. ~--·. . COMING SOON f ACEBOOK LIVE •.• • B -~ .. . ,{!1A ~ WITH SARA EVANS AND BRITTNEY HUDSON EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE OKEQ stands with the Hudson-Evans family against religious discrimination of LGBTQ+ families. Read their story here and look for our upcoming SPIRIT interview with Sara and Brittney. Facebook Page 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 20 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Bison Extracts is offering a scholarship to LGBTQ+ students enrolled in a college, university, or trade school within the US in Fall 2021. To apply, go to http:// www.bisonextracts.com/lgbtq-scholarship-application/ Applications are open from August 3rd to September 15th. 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 21 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ----------Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator PARTICIPATE IN THE YOUTH AND YOUNG ADULT COVID-19 IMPACTS STUDY! Earn up to $45 for completing two online surveys, plus an additional $50 if you participate in an interview about you, 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 22 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... your experiences during COVID-19, and your mental, physical, and emotional health. ELIGIBLITY ► AGES 14-24 ► LIVE IN THE USA U.S. territories welcome to participate! The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study Our partners at Evaluation, Data Integration, and Technical Assistance (EDIT) Program have a new exciting paid research opportunity. Please see their message below: Researchers at the EDIT team wanted to let you know about a new study we are starting. The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study! The new study is for LGBTQ+ individuals ages 14-24. If that describes you, then please keep reading to learn more about the study. If that doesn’t describe you, then please share this announcement with any LGBTQ+ people you know! If you agree to participate, you’ll be asked to complete an online survey two times: once on the day, you enroll and once exactly six months after that. The survey will take about 45 minutes. How does it work? You’ll be asked questions about topics such as: · You · Your experiences during COVID-19 · Your mental, physical, and emotional health You will receive $30 for completing the first survey and $15 for completing the second survey. You will receive your payment in the form of a virtual gift card, which you can use anywhere online. We will email the gift card to you within two weeks of completing the survey. If you’re interested, we may also invite you to participate in an interview with us. If 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 23 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... you agree to participate in an interview, you will receive an additional $50. If you’re interested in participating, please click on the link below. It will take you to a page where you can book a time to speak to someone from our study team over the phone and enroll in the study. If you have any questions, you can email me back or e-mail the study team at YYAhealth@northwestern.edu. Youth and Young Adults COVID-19 Survey Screener City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 24 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Donald Fruechting July 4, 1938 - August 20, 2021 Click here for Donald Fruechting's Obituary Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library EOOK OF THE \/EEK CARLOS THE FAIRY BOY 13Y JUAfi A. RIOS VEGA Carlos is thrilled to travel to Panama's countryside with his parents. He is most excited about the Carnival stories his parents tell him. But when Carlos wants to join his cousins as fairies on the queen's float he finds out that boys are not allowed. Thankfully, he has a brilliant 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 25 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Abuela with a bright idea. A tale of family support, Carlos, 1 ~ (7~~ .-~~S::::Jf't the Fairy Boy expands a Carnival tradition to include a young boy while bringing light to the talented men who make the queen's gowns gorgeous. AUTHOR 5FOTLIGHT Juan A. Rios Vega- is a queer Latino educator and researcher JUAli A. RIOS VEGA from Panama who loves to write, read, and make things, especially puppets. He currently teaches in the Department of Education, Counseling, and Leadership at Bradley university and is an active member in the Association for Joteria Arts, Activism. and Scholarship (AJAAS). OKE okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 26 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly Th City of Tulsa 1s committed to er at ng respectful nd professional work env ronment. I onen at nd r son 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 27 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 28 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • - -::::- • • ~ 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 29 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 30 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 1st Wednesday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and all teens under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 31 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537 opt 1. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 32 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... .. '1uu111a7 Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 33 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 34 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, September 16th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - Support Group for Parents of Transgender People Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. \. 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 35 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 36 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - - ---- Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 37 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------ -- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 38 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPOIISOAEOay THIGIOIIGIUJSU Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 39 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Board of Advisors Cray Bauxmont-Flynn Dani Byrd Whitney Cipolla Matt Else, D.O. Christian Fencer Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 4/28/26, 3:05 PM �Bi+ Visibility Celebration Days 40 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Bi--Visibility-Celebration-Days.h... Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Stephen Rundell Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:05 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b60c0321c4191de533aa00c9c00da242.pdf e9d5bdd47099cf78ac0f34671e67bde5 PDF Text Text Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 1 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews September 27th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 2 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... Pride Night at the State Fair Thursday, September 30 Tulsa Fair Grounds 4145 E. 21st St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality invites you to Queer the Tulsa State Fair. We want to see all the colors of the Rainbow! So come out and have fun at the Tulsa State Fair as our community celebrates LGBTQ+ Pride on September 30th! Oklahomans for Equality will have an indoor booth in the Tulsa Expo Center with the Pride store, information, and volunteers! This is a great chance to run into familiar faces and meet new ones. Don't forget to wear your pride attire to spread awareness and visibility of our presence in Tulsa! 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 3 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... My Name Is Pauli Murray – Now Showing Monday, September 27, 7:30 p.m. Circle Cinema - Special screening 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 A look at the life and ideas of Pauli Murray, a non-binary Black lawyer, activist, and poet who influenced both Ruth Bader Ginsburg and Thurgood Marshall. Both Pauli’s personal path and tireless advocacy foreshadowed some of the most politically consequential issues of our time. Told largely in Pauli’s own words, My Name is Pauli Murray is a candid recounting of that unique and extraordinary journey. 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 4 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... This event will feature a post-film discussion with Jerry Goodwin (former associate publisher of The Oklahoma Eagle, Assistant Professor of Journalism and Mass Communications at Tulsa Community College) and Toby Jenkins, Executive Director at Oklahomans For Equality. Link to Circle Cinema Event Watch the trailer below: sao-e ;~~~~:~~o~ c) ~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 5 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... resumed. S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, September 28, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. E ALITY usiness Alliance 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 6 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... EBA Mixer Thursday, September 30, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Securian Advisors Mid America, Inc. 1616 S. Main St. Tulsa, Ok 74119 www.securianmidamerica.com From everyday moments to major milestones, our strategies can help you focus on your most important asset: family. We will listen to what's important to you throughout our process and develop customized financial strategies that can help turn your goals into reality. Our team of professionals helps prepare you for the future, so you have the confidence to focus on what's truly valuable: making memories with those who matter most. Securian Advisors will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for September. For more information on the EBA and the benefits of being a member, click the button below. Equality Business Alliance 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 7 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... VOLUNTEER TRAINING FOR THE FAIR You can sign up to volunteer for the fair online by clicking the button below: Click Here to Volunteer ___________ .....__. _ , ...,..-... .•.. -· ···- - • -~ 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 8 of 43 • https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... • UCm • CT l tlJ • 7 • • Alphabet Soup Youth Leadership Lock-In Registration to Participate October 15-17, 2021 The Alphabet Soup Youth Leadership Lock-In 2021 will bring together LGBTQ+ youth in middle school and high school from across the state to socialize, develop leadership skills, and have a great time! Throughout the lock-In, youth will have the unique opportunity to build partnerships, learn new skills, and develop leadership skills to impact their community. Who Should Attend? Youth: Youth in grades 6 through 12 who identify as LGBTQ+ interested in connecting with and impacting their community. What Will We Do? Youth will participate in interactive workshops focusing on leadership development, community impact, and self-expression. In addition, there will be informative and motivational keynote speakers, lots of fun activities, and entertainment! Register Here 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 9 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... GEN Q Pride Night at FAIR Thursday, September 30 RSVP for more details RSVP HERE ~ u..lu-----._, OILIJIOMAliS FOR EQUALITY ~~~ JOHff FAUL ERAMNER 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 10 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... L11Uf i1G65 THEATRE DElffflS R. IIEILL EQUALITY C£lfTER 611 E 4TH PRIDE ST RSVF FOR TICKETS An Evening with John Paul Brammer Monday, October 4, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality has invited author and artist John Paul Brammer to Oklahoma as a part of our annual celebration of Hispanic/Latinx Heritage Month. John Paul Brammer is a writer and artist from rural Oklahoma who is currently based in Brooklyn. He will be interviewed by Donovid Sekulits, the Latinx Outreach & Library Services Coordinator. They will talk about what gay Latinx pride means to them and discuss his new memoir, ¡Hola Papi! There will be a small reception before the event in his honor. Our theater is equipped with an air filtration system, but we also require that anyone attending wears a mask during the event. Being fully vaccinated is highly encouraged. Prepackaged snacks and drinks will be provided. Click the ticket link below to RSVP to this event. This is a free event, but donations are appreciated. Tickets Donations 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 11 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... Facebook Link Watch Video Below Simon & Schuster Books a Watch on Wednesday Community Connections Transgender I01 with Dr. Al Carlozzi CENTENNIAL Program begins @ 5:30 pm, Classes @ 7 pm. Details: allsoulschurch.org/wcc Transgender 101 Wednesday, October 6, 7:00 p.m. Online This program is an introduction to the topic of transgender and gender-expansive identity. Come with an open mind and ask questions—part of Wednesday Community Connections. Program at 5:30 p.m., classes at 7 p.m. Drop-ins on zoom are welcome. 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 12 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... This event will be facilitated by Al Carlozzi, Professor Emeritus, Oklahoma State University and currently Interim Director, Counseling and Psychological Services, University of Tulsa; co-editor of the book, Transgender and Gender Diverse Persons: A Handbook for Service Providers, Educators, and Families. This Wednesday Community Connections class is on zoom and is free and open to adults. Details about WCC, allsoulschurch.org/wcc Link to Facebook Event LGBT Women's Network: October Happy Hour Wednesday, October 6, 5:45 p.m. Maggie's Music Box 201 E. Main S. Jenks, OK 74037 Join like-minded women in Tulsa at a monthly happy hour for LGBT professionals to meet new people and grow their business & personal networks lll?IT:1 A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 13 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... THURSDAY OCT. 7 6PM f ACEBOOK LIVE ·, ' SPECIAL GUEST REV. ALVARO NOVA OCHOA COMUNIDAD DE ESPERANZA LUTHERAN CHURCH I : Jl : EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE Spirit! Spiritual Happy Hour with Rev. Alvaro Nova Ochoa Thursday, October 7, 6:00 p.m. Facebook Live What is SPIRIT? SPIRIT is a virtual happy hour-style discussion group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether their goal is to reconnect with faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce faith, or just connect with other people, SPIRIT is the group for individuals to explore faith and sexuality. Each Thursday, a spiritual advisor from the region and surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. The precepts of the group are C.A.R.E: 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practices. Facebook Event Link 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 14 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... Kati Falcon Thursday, October 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Kati Falcon is a Fluid Acrylic Artist and Tulsa native. Kati’s art combines the natural with the abstract and gets inspiration from nature and science. Bold colors and broad strokes help her achieve a wonderful fluid effect. When finished with resin, this medium takes on a personality of its own. “Experimentation, and the challenge of how far I can push it, keeps me painting.” “I really enjoy sharing art with the OKEQ. This is the first place that made me feel like a real artist. The center is inviting, and the staff are warm and welcoming, not to mention the patrons have excellent taste.” Kati Falcon The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, October 2nd, with COVID measures in place for those not vaccinated. The Artist Reception is Thursday, October 7th, at 6:00 p.m. with. The exhibit continues throughout the month. Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, October 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 15 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "firstcome, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. ~· "' .OUTSIDE THEB ~ .. f.ve.rJ 3rd MoncltlJ of fhe. Monfh tlf 1pm 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 16 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... Outside the Box Monday, October 19, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. Transgender Resource Fair Saturday, November 13th, 2021 Trans-Friendly Resources including: ~ Health Care Cosmetic Clothing Closet Massage I Mental Health Sexual Health Legal Assistance Hair Stylists Hosted by The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Trans Resource Fair 2021 Saturday November 13th, 12:30 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 17 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us at the Equality Center for a day of community, wellness, and fun for Tulsaarea trans folks! You’ll get a chance to connect with trans-friendly medical doctors, legal counsel, wellness professionals, hairstylists, and make-up artists. Then, swing by the clothing swap and pick out some new additions to your wardrobe, show off your new style with a portrait photo session, do some arts & crafts activities with other fair-goers, and grab a bite to eat – it’s on us! This fair serves as an opportunity for trans folks to quickly find resources, assistance, and community and receive supplies from community-vetted transfriendly resources. We especially hope to aid those who are financially unable to access necessities that trans folks need daily and those who might not be as plugged into the local trans community. This event is free – If you want to support trans programming at the center, cash donations will be collected, or you can donate online by clicking the button below: Donate Here Bonny Lee Hardgrove "The Psychotarium" Month of September Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 18 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... My work is a collaboration of all the states and seasons of my life. I draw heavily from my interest in Theatre and Literature. In everything, I consider myself a storyteller, whether that be in pictures or words. Generally, what I offer are not complete stories. They are lines of poems, flashes of dreams, lost puzzle pieces, and random debris carried by the wind and dropped wherever they are dropped. The viewers may conclude from them what they will, even if the conclusion is just as vague. Sometimes too many answers spoil the mystery. When putting together a collection of pieces that basically give illustration and form to the inner workings of the psyche, what better place than one that strives to offer hope, peace, and unity for those in our community who have historically had to work harder to achieve such things, the beasts and monsters of the mind are universal to all and like the parable of the two wolves, we decide which ones we feed. The Equality Center is where the benevolent parts of us are given a safe haven, where they can be figuratively fed. On a personal note, the LGTBQA+ community has always supported me and past projects, and I am certainly honored to be able to work with this community and be invited into this space. Love is love. Visit the Art Gallery 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 19 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Every Fourth Thursday at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This is Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa's very first meeting back! Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center .. 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 20 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... Neurodiversity First and Second Tuesday at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. The group is open to people on the autism spectrum, people who have ADHD, anxiety, Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, as well as supportive friends and family. We want everyone to feel welcome and know that they have a home in this community. We meet twice a month to play games, make art, go on outings, chat, and connect with likeminded individuals in our community. For more information, or to join our next meeting, please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 21 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook ~ fTr1 ~ A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. ~ . ·.·. •.• • B COMING SOON f ACEBOOK LIVE -~ .. . ,{!1A ~ WITH SARA EVANS AND BRITTNEY HUDSON EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE OKEQ stands with the Hudson-Evans family against religious discrimination of LGBTQ+ families. Read their story here and 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 22 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... look for our upcoming SPIRIT interview with Sara and Brittney. Facebook Page Bison Extracts is offering a scholarship to LGBTQ+ students enrolled in a college, university, or trade school within the US in Fall 2021. To apply, go to http:// www.bisonextracts.com/lgbtq-scholarship-application/ Applications are open from August 3rd to September 15th. Looking for LGBTQ+ Humans For a Photoshoot! All Ages, All Gender . . 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 23 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... "Sarah Stone is a photographer from New York with roots in Oklahoma and Missouri. She has worked as a commercial photographer for several years and is now starting a project documenting members of the LGBTQ+ family. The photographs would be for personal use and possibly displayed in an art setting at a later date. She is looking for all types of humans. Partial or slight nudity could be discussed, not required. Single humans and couples (including small groups of friends) are welcome. All ages, gender identities, and bodies are welcome and celebrated. Sarah welcomes any and all questions and wants to ensure the comfort of any participant. Models would get a hi-res digital file of several images of their choosing. All interested parties, please email or text to schedule a meeting. Email Sarah Here 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 24 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act -- ----- - - Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 25 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... PARTICIPATE IN THE YOUTH AND YOUNG ADULT COVID-19 IMPACTS STUDY! Earn up to $45 for completing two online surveys, plus an additional $50 if you participate in an interview about you, your experiences during COVID-19, and your mental, physical, and emotional health. ELIGIBLITY ► AGES 14-24 ► LIVE IN THE USA U.S. territories welcome to participate! The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study Our partners at Evaluation, Data Integration, and Technical Assistance (EDIT) Program have a new exciting paid research opportunity. Please see their message below: Researchers at the EDIT team wanted to let you know about a new study we are starting. The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study! The new study is for LGBTQ+ individuals ages 14-24. If that describes you, then please keep reading to learn more about the study. If that doesn’t describe you, then please share this announcement with any LGBTQ+ people you know! If you agree to participate, you’ll be asked to complete an online survey two times: once on the day, you enroll and once exactly six months after that. The survey will take about 45 minutes. How does it work? 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 26 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... You’ll be asked questions about topics such as: · You · Your experiences during COVID-19 · Your mental, physical, and emotional health You will receive $30 for completing the first survey and $15 for completing the second survey. You will receive your payment in the form of a virtual gift card, which you can use anywhere online. We will email the gift card to you within two weeks of completing the survey. If you’re interested, we may also invite you to participate in an interview with us. If you agree to participate in an interview, you will receive an additional $50. If you’re interested in participating, please click on the link below. It will take you to a page where you can book a time to speak to someone from our study team over the phone and enroll in the study. If you have any questions, you can email me back or e-mail the study team at YYAhealth@northwestern.edu. Youth and Young Adults COVID-19 Survey Screener City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 27 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Donald Fruechting July 4, 1938 - August 20, 2021 Click here for Donald Fruechting's Obituary Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 28 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... EOO.K OF THE \/EE.K \vHEI1 \vE LOVE SOMEOI1E \vE SII1G TO THEM/CUAI1D0 AMAMOS CAI1TAMOS by Ernesto Javier Martinez Is a story of a young boy who learns about a Mexcian tradition from his father about the art of song and a serenata. The boy learns that his art of song to show your love is traditionally between a male and a female but he wonders why it can't be between a boy and a boy because he wants to write one. AUTHOR 5FOTLIGHT ERffESTO JAVIER MARTiffEZ by Ernesto Javier Martinez- is a queer Chicano/Puerto Rican literary critic, educator, and writer. He is a tenured faculty member in the Department of Ethnic Studies at the university of Oregon and an Executive Board member of th Association for Joteria Arts, Activism, and Scholarship (AJAAS}. His work has received multiple recognitions, including a Lambda Literary Award in 2012. 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 29 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... OKE 1 okeq. org/ donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 30 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... Th City of ulsa s committ d to creat ng r pectful nd professional work environment. I nd r on t1on, nin City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 31 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 32 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. 0 ALPHABET SOUP KIOS Z SATURDAY AFTERNOON 3·4PM ~ • • ·o \\ • • ~ • • <:) - -:::- •~ • <:) 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. PARENTS OF LOBTQ2SJA• YOUTH 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 33 of 43 Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 34 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 1st Wednesday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and all teens under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 35 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... MAKE AN APPOINTMENT ONLINE AT OKEQ.ORG/OKEO-HEAL TH-CLINIC OR CALL 918-938-6537! KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THEGEOAGEK..l,ISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537 opt 1. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 36 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 37 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 38 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, October 21, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' -- · -- Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --· - - The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 39 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - - ---- Tulsa Area Prime Timers Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are Support Group for Partners of Transgender People providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Equality Game Night Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - - ---- Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners 11 . ........ ,.. v health outreach prevention education, Inc. 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 40 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... URL.I I I Business Alliance H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. www.okeq.org/eba ------ OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 41 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... , -· ~~. ' -=»1 _., I \ \ Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSOIHOh lHIOE0RGElt4JSH ,.._ .. ILVPOUN~TIOtl Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 42 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross William Vaughn Board of Advisors Cray Bauxmont-Flynn Dani Byrd Whitney Cipolla Matt Else, D.O. Christian Fencer Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Trustees 4/28/26, 3:06 PM �Pride Night at the Tulsa State Fair - 11 Days of Awesome! 43 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-at-the-Tulsa-State-Fair... Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:06 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9db95a92d0692eb6cf3979b483c8527e.pdf 6e66510e43c17c48a18b05e464dd38cb PDF Text Text Count Down to Equality Gala 1 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews July 6, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 2 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... Equality Gala Tickets Saturday, July 17 Cox Convention Center Grand Hall 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Tickets for the 2021 Equality Gala are now on sale. Celebrate 40 years of Oklahomans for Equality with us at the new Cox Convention Center Grand Hall in Downtown Tulsa. Click Here for Tickets and More Information THANK YOU FOR MAKING PRIDE AMAZING 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 3 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... Pride 2021 is officially in the books. You all did truly amazing work. I think we probably broke just about every record that we had on this one gang. The official details and numbers are still coming in, so this is just one grateful guy’s personal thoughts and observations. To every single person that made Pride this year the absolute smashing success that it was, THANK YOU!!! Words cannot express how proud (pun not intended) I am of each and every one of you. It took an absolute village to pull this one off, and we rose to that challenge. I want to invite all of you to join me in expressing gratitude for the tireless, selfless service each and every member of our volunteers and staff put in this weekend. I am not exaggerating when I say that they stayed through the night multiple times to make sure Pride happened and that we’re back to business this morning. I see you, and I love you. I wanted to share my gratitude with you knowing it’s just words in an email, but I truly am in awe of you all. Honored to serve with you. Chris Brecht-Smith OkEq Board President (pronouns: he/him/his) 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 4 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible S.A.G.E. Meeting 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 5 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... Tuesday, July 13, 10:00 a.m. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. art SHOW: JULY 1st - July 31 st art RECEPTION: JULY 1st, 6 pm ans for Equality Neill Equality Center t 4120 Aaron Rayner: "Out on a Limb" 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 6 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... Thursday, July 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa-based artist, Aaron Rayner, has been honing his skills in capturing mood and human connection for the past several years. A classically trained artist and digital marketeer, Aaron has blended his formal education with his fascination with storytelling and personal empowerment (through messaging and art), bringing about a stylized human connection through color and lighting. Aaron's evolution into various mediums allowed him to introduce a freedom and flexibility to his storytelling, with themes ranging from dance and movement to fantasy and impressionism. Constantly honoring his art professors mentorships, Aaron's compositions are bold, balanced, and true. Click Here to Visit the Gallery Online Click Here to Purchase Art See the Virtual Tour Below 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 7 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Kenneth "Ken" Lee Roberts September 11, 1944 - June 16, 2021 Click Here for Ken's Obituary Visit our website 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 8 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... "Trish" Agnes Patricia Spurgin January 6, 1941 - June 27, 2021 Married to Carrie Fleharty Celebrated their Anniversary is December, 15th Reginald "Regie" Finley aka Raghenna May 31, 1959 - June 18, 2021 Click Here for Reginald "Regie" Finley aka Raghenna's Obituary 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 9 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... Rhiannan Porterfield (Rhi) August 13, 2005 - June 6, 2021 Rhiannan was taken unexpectedly June 6, 2021, at age 15. She was a talented artist and aspiring animator. She was active in band, archery, and Girl Scouts. Rhiannan was a passionate content creator and a tireless champion of the LGBTQ+ community. She is survived by: Mother and Stepfather Brandy and Brian Schrader of Glenpool OK, Father Danny Rus (Irish) Porterfield II of Broken Arrow, OK, Brother Corbin Porterfield of Claremore, OK, Stepbrother Lane Schrader of Glenpool, OK, Maternal Grandparents Steve and Cindy Snow of Tulsa, OK and Linda Schrader of Wichita, KS, Paternal Grandparents Peggy Lindley of Broken Arrow, OK and Danny and Lorie Porterfield of Corinth, MS, Aunt & Uncle Heather and Ryan Palmatary of Oklahoma City, OK and Alan and Shaylene Schrader of Moore, OK, Uncle Mike Price of Tulsa, OK, Aunt Chelsea Raglin of Rochester, NY, Aunts and Uncles Angela and Jeff Andreason of Rienzi, MS and Shane and Cassie Rickman of Corinth, MS and Cindy and David Milliam of Phoenix, AZ, and Brandy and Roger Smith of Adamsville, TN and Danielle Porterfield of Rienzi, MS and Jori Porterfield of Corinth, MS and Landon Porterfield of Corinth, MS and numerous Great Aunts, Great Uncles, Cousins, and countless friends. Her memorial is at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120, on Friday, June 18th at 4:00 pm. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Rhiannan’s honor. Donate Here 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 10 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... Crystal Meth Anonymous Every Monday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ANONYMOUS Crystal Meth Anonymous is a fellowship of people for whom all drugs, specifically crystal meth, have become a problem. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop using. There are no dues or membership lists. The fellowship that is Crystal Meth Anonymous is a new way of life without Crystal Meth. Crystal Meth Anonymous advocates a twelve-step recovery program for spiritual development, no matter our religious beliefs or background. The first step in our recovery is an admission by the addict that he or she is powerless over crystal meth and that life has become unmanageable. NEURODIVERSITY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 11 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... Neurodiversity Tulsa 1st and 3rd Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information Brought to you Bi the letter B in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 12 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us .- {I( ••~LGBT~ ,,,, mnel'l s Network 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 13 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... .. LGBT Women's Network: July Happy Hour Wednesday, July 7, at 5:30 p.m. Fassler Hall Tulsa 304 S. Elgin Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LGBTQ++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome and we hope some of you will join us ©~~© t©~[p) £~ t©~~(C1f£~[Q)© A GROUP FOR LGBTQ+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE Every 3rd Sunday of the Month 5-6:00 p.m. email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectando Sunday, July 11, 5:00 p.m In-Person Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. All sexual identities and gender expressions are welcome. 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 14 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... We will speak in both English and Spanish. email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org - - - - for more information Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultura Todas las identidades y expresiones de género son bienvenidas Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org - - - - para mas informacion. Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on En el Dennis R. Neill Equality Center en Tulsa, Oklahoma, hay muchos eventos, grupos de apoyo, grupos sociales, consejería y servicios médicos. mira abajo Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, July 20, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID tb, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "firstcome, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 15 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Under the Rainbow: A Novel by Celia Laskey The story centers on a ragtag band of progressive activists who arrive in Big Burr, Kansas- dubbed "The Most Homophobic Town in the U.S."- with hopes of making a change in a small-town that appears very much adverse to it. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Her other work has appeared in Guemica, The :Minnesota Review, Day One, and elsewhere. She was also a finalist in Glimmer Train's Short Story Award for New Writers. She has an MFA from the university of New Mexico and currently lives in Los Angeles with her wife and their doa: Whiskev. 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 16 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... (ELIA LASKEY OKE , okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 17 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, July 21, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. For More Information Contact Us Grateful Day Foundation Wellness Retreat 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 18 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... The 2021 HIV Wellness Retreat is just around the corner. Thursday 8/26/21 to Sunday 8/29/21. Follow the links below to sign up to attend the retreat, and then pre-pay your fees via the OkEq E-Store. Register for HIV Wellness Retreat Th City of Tulsa i committed to creat ng respectful nd sional work env ronment. on on, n in ny 111 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 19 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 20 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. 0 ALPHABET SOUP KIDS Z SATURDAY AFTERNOON 3·4PM ~ • • ·o \\ • • ~ • • <::) - -==- ;;. • • <::) 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 21 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... distancing practices will be in place. 'I-Sp• AM LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA AMDOKEQ Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 22 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... PARENTS OF LOBTQ2SJA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 23 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of Support group for anyone who 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 24 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 25 of 33 ~PQ"'S0REOBY THE GEORGE KAIHR FAMILY FOUNDATION https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 26 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 27 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, July 8th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- --- Support Group for Parents of Transgender People \. I I r.' \ ~ ,1 1 ,; • • /'t\ .":.\ & I Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. r. 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 28 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- · --- The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Tulsa Area Prime Timers opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 29 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- - - - - sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. - - - - ---- Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 30 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 31 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC IPO"SORlDaY THICHOtlGIU,11H ... MllYfOO"D ..TIO" Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 32 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong Shannon Gordon Fair Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Stephen Rundell Board of Advisors Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Bauxmont-Flynn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. 4/28/26, 2:43 PM �Count Down to Equality Gala 33 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Count-Down-to-Equality-Gala.ht... Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:43 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/20e44bad493c248fcaa9f514fe28b94b.pdf 344343870845e6819365e7063e6dbbd8 PDF Text Text Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 1 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews October 11th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Happy Indigenous Peoples Day from OKEQ! Oklahomans for Equality acknowledges each and every day that we sit on Muscogee Nation land. Today we celebrate Indigenous People’s Day and honor the contributions, culture, and history of indigenous peoples. Indigenous peoples are still here, living and thriving. We must continue to stand in CELEBRATING OUR LGBTQ+ INDIGENOUS SIBLINGS 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 2 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... solidarity with our indigenous siblings #RiseToResilience Oct. 11, 2021, is National Coming Out Day! l\~1\0~~L COMING our DAY In the LGBTQ2S+ community, “coming out” is a process that never truly ends. First, we must come out to ourselves, accepting who we are in the community. Then comes telling others, which never really ends, as we have to keep coming out at work, with friendships, with family, and in other situations. It takes time. It takes tremendous self care. It takes a whole community of support to feel ready to come out! At Oklahomans for Equality, we are dedicated to helping individuals no matter where you are on your journey. Join us for our Coming Out Workshops, connect with our gender and sexuality support groups, ---- --------- -get sliding scale fee counseling, visit our OKEQ Health Clinic for HRT services, and check out our LGBTQ+ Youth Group. Coming out is a journey, and we are here to support you! Also, check out these online resources: https://www.hrc.org/resources/national-coming-out-day YOU HEALTHCARE.GOV #MEDICAIDMATTERS #PEACEOFMIND Medicaid covers a range of services to Did you know that 1.2 million LGBTQ adults are enrolled in Medicaid as their primary source of health insurance? Celebrate National Coming Out Day by 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 3 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... address the diverse needs of the populations it serves. Many state plans cover services such as prescription drugs, physical therapy, eyeglasses, and dental care. Go to healthcare.gov to see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters finding out if you qualify for Medicaid by visiting healthcaree.gov. #MedicaidMatters #PeaceOfMind MCA . • OCTOBER 16, 2021 PII ·- SeE ROTARY PARK, McAlester 10 AM - 2 PM -,,cee PAlT With Performances by: Crystal Beth; Sara De La Hoya and Brandon KC Young! Food Trucks! Lip Sync Contest! Inflatable! Vendors! Family Games! FREE Testing by HOPE Mobile! And more! Saint Francis MINISTRIES FREE M ·_M ~~iii CREOKS Behavioral Has//h Services HUGS. ftA'61!ft 'IP A WI oklahomu1 ror -aualltv 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 4 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... RV'tl'l!;R.IAAI IICMJIYLT"fll,. UKLntm•• health outreach prevention education, Inc. P de Store Roadshow PRIDE in the Park in McAlester Saturday, October 16, 10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m. Rotary Park 801 N. 9th St. Mcalester, OK 74501 DiA DE MUERTHS Do you have a family member, friend, or loved one who has passed that you would like to see on our Ofrenda (Altar)? Please send digital high-resolution photos or bring physical photos you would like us to use. Must be between 2 x 2 inches and 3 x 5 inches. Send to donovid.sekulits@okeq.org The deadline to be included is by Monday, Oct 25th at 5pm 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 5 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Edmond Pride 2021 Saturday, October 23, 11:15 a.m. - 5:15 p.m. Hafer Park 1034 S. Bryant Ave. Edmond, OK 73034 Please join us as we celebrate the fourth Edmond Pride festival. Presented by Rightfully Proud, Edmond. We will have several vendors and entertainers. Including our headliner Symone! - Winner of RuPaul's Drag Race season 13. • LliDI; SHlr • • 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 6 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... •-U~K•.ltl • r CT l- l7 \ . • . • Alphabet Soup Youth Leadership Lock-In Registration to Participate October 15-17, 2021 The Alphabet Soup Youth Leadership Lock-In 2021 will bring together LGBTQ+ youth in middle school and high school from across the state to socialize, develop leadership skills, and have a great time! Throughout the lock-In, youth will have the unique opportunity to build partnerships, learn new skills, and develop leadership skills to impact their community. Who Should Attend Youth: Youth in grades 6 through 12 who identify as LGBTQ+ interested in connecting with and impacting their community. What Will We Do? Youth will participate in interactive workshops focusing on leadership development, community impact, and self-expression. In addition, there will be informative and motivational keynote speakers, lots of fun activities, and entertainment! Register Here 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 7 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... I Join us in the beautiful Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre at OkEq as I we present some of Tulsa's finest cabaret performers . Each Third Thursday at 8:00 p.m . Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 East 4 th Tulsa OK Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Velvet Moon Thursday, October 21, 8:00 p.m. Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 “Velvet Moon” will feature the voices of Mickey Casper, Gus Canady, Jr. and Sheila Alley performing timeless classics spanning the days of the Rat Pack, to current jazz and swing. Christy Stalcup will be on keys, of course! Buy Your Tickets Here sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ ~~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 8 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, October 12, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ‘We will be recognized’: Couple recalls fight for same-sex marriage in Oklahoma: 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 9 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... 11 --111r Read More Here Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, October 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGAL AID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Fair Housing for LGBTQ+ Elissa Furlong is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. She is from upstate New York but attended Mississippi College School of Law, graduating at the top of her class. In addition to having worked for two private attorneys, Elissa has previously interned with the legal department of a United Nations agency. Ms. Furlong has also completed legal fellowships and externships in the areas of employment discrimination, workers' rights, civil rights, and LGBTQ+ legislation and advocacy. Elissa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-409-2115, or email her at elissa.furlong@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements pertaining to fair housing 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 10 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... presentations, which will be open to the public. Green Country Bears Meeting Thursday, October 14, 7:00 p.m. Siege Sausage Factory 8104 S. Sheridan Rd. Tulsa, OK 74133 / ~ CIRCLECINEMA. oklahomans for equality Brokeback Mountain Thurs, 10/14 at 7 pm; Sat, 10/16 at 2 pm; Sun, 10/17 at 7 pm Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104 “Brokeback Mountain,” Ang Lee’s historic and award-winning film about the love between two American cowboys, will celebrate its 15th anniversary with special showings at the Circle Cinema in October, followed two weeks later by the Tulsa premiere of “Beyond Brokeback,” a live theatre event directed by Vern Stefanic, featuring music and staged readings of people – gay and straight – whose lives were dramatically changed by watching the film. “Beyond Brokeback” play event will be performed at Lynn Riggs Theatre at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center: Thurs-Sat, 10/28-10/30. (At every movie 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 11 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... screening look for a discounted coupon that you may use for the play event.) Both the film and subsequent, complementary play are designed to spotlight LGBTQ+ History Month in Tulsa. About the film: In 1963, rodeo cowboy Jack Twist (Jake Gyllenhaal) and ranch hand Ennis Del Mar (Heath Ledger) are hired by rancher Joe Aguirre (Randy Quaid) as sheepherders in Wyoming. One night on Brokeback Mountain, Jack makes a drunken pass at Ennis that is eventually reciprocated. Though Ennis marries his longtime sweetheart, Alma (Michelle Williams), and Jack marries a fellow rodeo rider (Anne Hathaway), the two men keep up their tortured and sporadic affair over the course of 20 years. Academy Award Winner – Best Director, Best Adapted Screenplay. “Brokeback Mountain” movie screenings at Circle: Thurs, 10/14 at 7pm; Sat, 10/16 at 2pm; Sun, 10/17 at 7pm. All Seats are only $5 and may be purchased by clicking below. Get Your Tickets Here 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 12 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... w at state t ey ca ome. The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator _,. " .OUTSIDE . THEB ~ 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 13 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Outside the Box Monday, October 18, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. E ALITY Business Alliance EBA Mixer Thursday, October 28, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Triangle Coffee 314 S. Cincinnati Ave. Tulsa, OK 74103 www.trianglecoffee.co At Triangle Coffee, you can always expect great customer service, know you're free to be yourself at our shop and get an excellent cup of coffee. Triangle Coffee will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for October. Please join us and bring a friend. 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 14 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Equality Business Alliance Beyond Brokeback October 28th through October 30th, 8:00 p.m. Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This powerful readers’ theatre piece will celebrate the 15th anniversary of the release of the movie BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN. Playwright Gregory Hinton (MORE SKY) assembled writings from a blog detailing how the film affected and changed the lives of so many. The production is directed by Vern and Lisa Stefanic, with music direction by Rick Fortner. And the cast is stellar: Kurt Harris, Travis Guillory, Nash McQuarters, Kia Hightower, Juan Reinoso, Kara Staiger, and Lisa Stefanic. Buy Your Tickets Here ~ QUEER ILACK VOICES No•ember 10th.,, 7pm 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 15 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... --~ "Kao1A , ------:;:.-- - - - -- - - - -~ .... 0 Live-streamed from Olclabomans for Equalit Faceboolc page Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Mikeal Vaughn Wednesday, November 10, at 7:00 p.m. Facebook Live Event Join us for Queer Black Voices with Mikeal Vaughn. Mikeal is a Tulsa native, Founder, and Executive Director of the Urban Coders Guild. Urban Coders Guild's mission is to "provide greater computer science education, access, and opportunities to youth from historically underserved, underrepresented, otherwise under-resourced communities." Queer Black Voices is a monthly series that highlights Black Queer Oklahomans creating and giving them the space and opportunity to tell their stories and journeys as Black Queer folx. Queer Black Voices will live stream every first Friday of the month from the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page. You can also check out our first season on Oklahomans for Equality's youtube channel at the link below. If you would like to share your story or learn more about Queer Black Voices contact Kao Morris by clicking below: Contact Kao Facebook Live Event YouTube Playlist 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 16 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... IndigiQueer: First Americans Museum Friday, November 19, 9:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join IndigiQueer on November 19 for a trip to the First Americans Museum in Oklahoma City. We will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and take the OKEQ Equality Van to the museum. We will arrive back in Tulsa before 5 p.m. Reserve your spot by November 11 by contacting Kao. "IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement." – Vnokeckv. Contact Kao 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 17 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Presents: Kati Falcon's "Fluid Feathers" Through the Month of October Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Kati Falcon is a Fluid Acrylic Artist and Tulsa native. Kati's art combines the natural with the abstract and gets inspiration from nature and science. Bold colors and broad strokes help her achieve a wonderful fluid effect. When finished with resin, this medium takes on a personality of its own. "Experimentation, and the challenge of how far I can push it, keeps me painting." "I really enjoy sharing art with the OKEQ. This is the first place that made me feel like a real artist. The center is inviting, and the staff are warm and welcoming, not to mention the patrons have excellent taste." Kati Falcon Watch the Virtual Art Show Below: 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 18 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE ART Transgender Resource Fair Saturday, November 13th, 2021 Trans-Friendly Resources including: Health Care Cosmetic Clothing Closet Massage I ~ Mental Health Sexual Health Legal Assistance Hair Stylists Hosted by The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 19 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Trans Resource Fair 2021 Sponsored by Amazon Saturday, November 13, 12:30 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us at the Equality Center for a day of community, wellness, and fun for Tulsaarea trans folks! You’ll get a chance to connect with trans-friendly medical doctors, legal counsel, wellness professionals, hairstylists, and make-up artists. Then, swing by the clothing swap and pick out some new additions to your wardrobe, show off your new style with a portrait photo session, do some arts & crafts activities with other fair-goers, and grab a bite to eat – it’s on us! This fair serves as an opportunity for trans folks to easily find resources, assistance, and community and receive supplies from community-vetted transfriendly resources. We especially hope to aid those who are financially unable to access basic necessities that trans folks need daily and those who might not be as plugged into the local trans community. **************************************************************** We Are Looking for help: Donation Collection: For the clothing swap, we are working to be established. If you have a place to collect, let us know. Clothing Donations: We are looking for New or Barely New. Dye and fragrance-free options are preferred whenever possible to accommodate anybody who wants to participate in the clothing swap. Our highest priority clothing items currently include: • Women’s shoes, size 10+ • Men’s & Women’s plus-sizes • Youth & junior sizes • New or unused make-up or beauty products However, we are accepting gently worn items for all ages, sizes, and bodies! To arrange a bulk donation pick-up, please fill out the form below. **************************************************************** Wanna help out? Please use our Google form to let us know how! Trans Fair Signup We’ll be in touch soon! Donate Here 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 20 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Sign Up Here Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Every Fourth Thursday at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This is Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa's very first meeting back! Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. NEURODIVERSITY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30om a the Dennis R. Neill Eaualiht Center 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 21 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... --- -r·. . -- - -- -- ··- • - • --··· -.-------J --- ·--· Neurodiversity First and Third Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. The group is open to people on the autism spectrum, people who have ADHD, anxiety, Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, as well as supportive friends and family. We want everyone to feel welcome and know that they have a home in this community. We meet twice a month to play games, make art, go on outings, chat, and connect with likeminded individuals in our community. For more information, or to join our next meeting, please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 22 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 23 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. rm ~ A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. ~--·. COMING SOON f ACEBOOK LIVE ·,·. • 9 -~ .. . ® WITH SARA EVANS AND BRITTNEY HUDSON EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE OKEQ stands with the Hudson-Evans family against religious discrimination of LGBTQ+ families. Read their story here and look for our upcoming SPIRIT interview with Sara and Brittney. Facebook Page 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 24 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... "Sarah Stone is a photographer from New York with roots in Oklahoma and Missouri. She has worked as a commercial photographer for several years and is now starting a project documenting members of the LGBTQ+ family. The photographs would be for personal use and possibly displayed in an art setting at a later date. She is looking for all types of humans. Partial or slight nudity could be discussed, not required. Single humans and couples (including small groups of friends) are welcome. All ages, gender identities, and bodies are welcome and celebrated. Sarah welcomes any and all questions and wants to ensure the comfort of any participant. Models would get a hi-res digital file of several images of their choosing. All interested parties, please email or text to schedule a meeting. Email Sarah Here nA n,1r-1nA"T"1 IIU T l I r - ' ' ' " " ' · l"T"I I 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 25 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... t'A~ I ILlt'AI C 11\1 Inc YUU In AND YOUNG ADULT COVID-19 IMPACTS STUDY! Earn up to $45 for completing two online surveys, plus an additional $50 if you participate in an interview about you, your experiences during COVID-19, and your mental, physical, and emotional health. ELIGIBLITY ► AGES 14-24 ► LIVE IN THE USA U.S. territories welcome to participate! The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study Our partners at Evaluation, Data Integration, and Technical Assistance (EDIT) Program have a new exciting paid research opportunity. Please see their message below: Researchers at the EDIT team wanted to let you know about a new study we are starting. The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study! The new study is for LGBTQ+ individuals ages 14-24. If that describes you, then please keep reading to learn more about the study. If that doesn’t describe you, then please share this announcement with any LGBTQ+ people you know! If you agree to participate, you’ll be asked to complete an online survey two times: once on the day, you enroll and once exactly six months after that. The survey will take about 45 minutes. How does it work? You’ll be asked questions about topics such as: · You · Your experiences during COVID-19 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 26 of 42 · https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Your mental, physical, and emotional health You will receive $30 for completing the first survey and $15 for completing the second survey. You will receive your payment in the form of a virtual gift card, which you can use anywhere online. We will email the gift card to you within two weeks of completing the survey. If you’re interested, we may also invite you to participate in an interview with us. If you agree to participate in an interview, you will receive an additional $50. If you’re interested in participating, please click on the link below. It will take you to a page where you can book a time to speak to someone from our study team over the phone and enroll in the study. If you have any questions, you can email me back or e-mail the study team at YYAhealth@northwestern.edu. Youth and Young Adults COVID-19 Survey Screener City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 27 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library EOOK OF THE \/EEK '\r/HEff '\r/E LOVE SOMEOffE '\r/E SlffG TO THEM/CUAffDO AMAMOS CAffTAMOS by Ernesto Javier Martinez Is a story of a young boy who learns about a Mexcian tradition from his father about the art of song and a serenata. The boy learns that his art of song to show your love is traditionally between a male and a female but he wonders why it can't be between a boy and a boy because he wants to write one. AUTHOR SFOTLIGHT by Ernesto Javier Martinez- is a queer Chicano/Puerto Rican literary critic, educator, and writer. He is a tenured faculty member in the Department of Ethnic Studies at the University of Oregon and an Executive Board member of th Association for Joteria Arts, Activism, and Scholarship (AJAAS). His work has received multiple recognitions, ERffESTO JAVIER MARTlliEZ including a Lambda Literary Award in 2012. 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 28 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 29 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Th City of Tulsa ·s committ d to ere t ng re pectful nd professional wor environment. l t on 0 I in ny City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 30 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 31 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • • • ---- • • <::) 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 32 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org -- with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org ---- Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 33 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, November 3, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and all teens under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 34 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk ., BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAIHR l'AMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 35 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... '',' : \_ ,, . . • ~ _' .:- -. • :,• . ,1. by calling 918-938-6537 opt 1. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Our Clinic is Still Open Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Ar T n I I f\ 11/ 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 36 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... t\l.J U LI ~ r\ C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 37 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, October 21, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 38 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People \ I ,·v,,,\ r, ~ t, ~ ~ ' ~ m~ , < .. ~ Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom Support Group for Transgender Teens 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- · - - - Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 39 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! adulthood -- or SOUP -- to Support Group for Partners of Transgender People LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - - ---- SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education , Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ---- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 40 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 41 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... i Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org M -- Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC •--on THl:-llAIHII ,AMllTl'OUNO""IOft Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:09 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 42 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross William Vaughn Board of Advisors Cray Bauxmont-Flynn Dani Byrd Whitney Cipolla Matt Else, D.O. Christian Fencer Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:09 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/aa3ceff07698884d29fc0cbef1cf32ab.pdf 80ea6c5c38056835bdfafa9842885973 PDF Text Text Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 1 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews October 18th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! First Nonbinary Gender Marker Issued in Okl:1 hnm:1 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 2 of 42 ........ .. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... ' - ' ...., .... ~ - - - .. '-JIii' ........ ~ Oklahomans for Equality is proud to announce that the State of Oklahoma now issues gender nonbinary birth certificates, joining the ranks of states leading the country in this regard. Please be advised that on October 7, 2021, the State of Oklahoma Department of Health issued what is believed to be the first birth certificate in the state’s history with a gender nonbinary sex designation. The birth certificate was issued to Kit Vivien Lorelied. It is further believed that the Department of Health will be updating its website to include language regarding the proper procedural steps required for individuals seeking to amend or otherwise modify the sex on their birth certificates to nonbinary. As with other modifications to birth certificates, a request for a nonbinary designation must be accompanied by a valid court order; therefore, if you have any questions about this process and/or your rights in this regard, we highly suggest you seek legal representation. • Please be advised that Lorelied specifically authorized the use of their identifying information in regards to the release of this announcement. Birth certificates and information contained therein are generally confidential and may not be disclosed without consent. If you have any concerns about your privacy rights in regards to obtaining gender-conforming vital records, we suggest you raise the issues with a legal professional. You can speak with Christopher Brecht-Smith, the lead attorney on this case, by calling 918-382-9200 or emailing at cbrecht@ok-counsel.com. For information on this case, see Kit Vivien Loreleid v. Oklahoma State Department of Health, case numbers civ-20-819-f and cv-2021-1306. 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 3 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Pride Night at TU Friday, October 22, 7:00 p.m. Hurricane Soccer and Track Stadium 800 S. Tucker Dr. Tulsa, OK 74104 TU Hurricanes vs Memphis at the Hurricane Stadium. We plan on providing resources and reading a statement before the game. Our players will be wearing our Tulsa script shirts, and we will hang flags in the stadium. Use the Promo Code: Pride Purchase Tickets Here Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, October 27, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ ~-, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 4 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... resumed. S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, October 19, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 5 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Crystal Bridges Trip Friday, November 05, 12:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The SAGE group is going to Crystal Bridges at Bentonville, Arkansas. The van will leave the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at noon. You will need to take money for dinner. For more information about the museum please click the button below: Please RSVP Below with Crystal Bridges in the Subject Line: RSVP HERE Crystal Bridges Information 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 6 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... THEB Outside the Box Monday, October 18, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. E ALITY usiness Alliance EBA Mixer Thursday, October 28, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Triangle Coffee 314 S. Cincinnati Ave. Tulsa, OK 74103 www.trianglecoffee.co 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 7 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... At Triangle Coffee, you can always expect great customer service, know you're free to be yourself at our shop, and get an excellent cup of coffee. Triangle Coffee will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for October. Please join us and bring a friend. Equality Business Alliance Beyond Brokeback October 28th through October 30th, 8:00 p.m. Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This powerful readers’ theatre piece will celebrate the 15th anniversary of the release of the movie BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN. Playwright Gregory Hinton (MORE SKY) assembled writings from a blog detailing how the film affected and changed the lives of so many. The production is directed by Vern and Lisa Stefanic, with music direction by Rick Fortner. And the cast is stellar: Kurt Harris, Travis Guillory, Nash McQuarters, Kia Hightower, Juan Reinoso, Kara Staiger, and Lisa Stefanic. Buy Your Tickets Here 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 8 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Purchase Tickets Here 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 9 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Edmond Pride 2021 Saturday, October 23, 11:15 a.m. - 5:15 p.m. Hafer Park 1034 S. Bryant Ave. Edmond, OK 73034 Please join us as we celebrate the fourth Edmond Pride festival. Presented by Rightfully Proud, Edmond. We will have several vendors and entertainers. Including our headliner Symone! - Winner of RuPaul's Drag Race season 13. DiA DE MDERTHS Do you have a family member, friend, or loved one who has passed that you would like to see on our Ofrenda (Altar)? Please send digital high-resolution photos or bring physical photos you would like us to use. Must be between 2 x 2 inches and 3 x 5 inches. Send to donovid.sekulits@okeq.org The deadline to be included is by 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 10 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Monday, Oct 25th at 5pm Guided Meditation: Starting November 1st Every Sunday at 1:00 p.m. Every Monday at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on November 1st for some guided meditation. Every Monday, we will set our goals, and on Sunday, we will reflect on the week. We will go over daily affirmations and how to live with intention. About 1 in 8 U.S. women will develop invasive breast cancer over the course of her lifetime. Medicaid can help with coverage so there's one less thing to worry about. You're not alone. Get the support you need at healthcare.gov. 0 en Mind Dream Builder Life Mastery Consultant _ _ _ & Clinical Hypnosis It's estimated that about 30% of newly diagnosed cancers in women will be a form of breast cancer. Medicaid increases access to doctors, preventive screenings, and cancer treatments. Go to Healthcare.gov to see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 11 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Follow the link below to find your US Senators. The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 12 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Find Your Legislator ~ QUEER ILACK VOICES llo.,ember fOtlt, 7pm Live-streamed from Oklahomans for EqualitJ Faceboolc page Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Mikeal Vaughn Wednesday, November 10, 7:00 p.m. Facebook Live Event Join us for Queer Black Voices with Mikeal Vaughn. Mikeal is a Tulsa native, Founder, and Executive Director of the Urban Coders Guild. Urban Coders Guild's mission is to "provide greater computer science education, access, and opportunities to youth from historically underserved, underrepresented, otherwise under-resourced communities." Queer Black Voices is a monthly series that highlights Black Queer Oklahomans creating and giving them the space and opportunity to tell their stories and journeys as Black Queer folx. Queer Black Voices will live stream every first Friday of the month from the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page. You can also check out our first season on Oklahomans for Equality's youtube channel at the link below. If you would like to share your story or learn more about Queer Black Voices contact Kao Morris by clicking below: Contact Kao 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 13 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Facebook Live Event YouTube Playlist Twisted Arts Film Festival November 11, 12:00 p.m. - November 18, 11:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 Twisted Arts Film Festival’s first annual LGBTQ+ film festival is taking over Circle Cinema this fall, with a dazzling line-up of local stories (“The Sound of Identity”); indigenous stories (“Being Thunder”); a biopic of Fanny, a band David Bowie called “the finest rock bands of their time”; out of this world animation; and closing the festival with a drag-extravaganza documentary about RuPaul Season 1 winner Bebe Zahara Benet (“Being Bebe”). IN-PERSON EVENTS: Twisted Arts Film Festival will screen movies from November 11-14, 2021, at Circle Cinema. All screenings at Circle Cinema are free and open to the public, first-come, first seated. VIRTUAL SCREENINGS: Oklahoma residents can watch movies virtually from November 11-18, 2021. Virtual tickets are available for $10, or you can purchase a virtual all-access pass for $75. 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 14 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... The twisted Arts Festival schedule of films and events is available online at the official Twisted Arts website. See Below: For More Information Click Here IndigiQueer: First Americans Museum Friday, November 19, 9:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join IndigiQueer on November 19 for a trip to the First Americans Museum in Oklahoma City. We will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and take the OKEQ Equality Van to the museum. We will arrive back in Tulsa before 5 p.m. Reserve your spot by November 11 by contacting Kao. "IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement." – Vnokeckv. Contact Kao Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, November 9, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 15 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Fair Housing for LGBTQ+ Elissa Furlong is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. She is from upstate New York but attended Mississippi College School of Law, graduating at the top of her class. In addition to having worked for two private attorneys, Elissa has previously interned with the legal department of a United Nations agency. Ms. Furlong has also completed legal fellowships and externships in the areas of employment discrimination, workers' rights, civil rights, and LGBTQ+ legislation and advocacy. Elissa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-409-2115, or email her at elissa.furlong@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements pertaining to fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 16 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Kati Falcon's "Fluid Feathers" Through the Month of October Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Kati Falcon is a Fluid Acrylic Artist and Tulsa native. Kati's art combines the natural with the abstract and gets inspiration from nature and science. Bold colors and broad strokes help her achieve a wonderful fluid effect. When finished with resin, this medium takes on a personality of its own. "Experimentation, and the challenge of how far I can push it, keeps me painting." "I really enjoy sharing art with the OKEQ. This is the first place that made me feel like a real artist. The center is inviting, and the staff are warm and welcoming, not to mention the patrons have excellent taste." Kati Falcon Watch the Virtual Art Show Below: 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 17 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE ART Transgender Resource Fair Saturday, November 13th, 2021 Trans-Friendly Resources including: Health Care Cosmetic Clothing Closet Massage I ~ Mental Health Sexual Health Legal Assistance Hair Stylists Hosted by The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 18 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Trans Resource Fair 2021 Sponsored by Amazon Saturday, November 13, 12:30 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us at the Equality Center for a day of community, wellness, and fun for Tulsaarea trans folks! You’ll get a chance to connect with trans-friendly medical doctors, legal counsel, wellness professionals, hairstylists, and make-up artists. Then, swing by the clothing swap and pick out some new additions to your wardrobe, show off your new style with a portrait photo session, do some arts & crafts activities with other fair-goers, and grab a bite to eat – it’s on us! This fair serves as an opportunity for trans folks to easily find resources, assistance, and community and receive supplies from community-vetted transfriendly resources. We especially hope to aid those who are financially unable to access basic necessities that trans folks need daily and those who might not be as plugged into the local trans community. **************************************************************** We Are Looking for help: Donation Collection: For the clothing swap, we are working to be established. If you have a place to collect, let us know. Clothing Donations: We are looking for New or Barely New. Dye and fragrance-free options are preferred whenever possible to accommodate anybody who wants to participate in the clothing swap. Our highest priority clothing items currently include: • Women’s shoes, size 10+ • Men’s & Women’s plus-sizes • Youth & junior sizes • New or unused make-up or beauty products However, we are accepting gently worn items for all ages, sizes, and bodies! To arrange a bulk donation pick-up, please fill out the form below. **************************************************************** Wanna help out? Please use our Google form to let us know how! Trans Fair Signup We’ll be in touch soon! Donate Here 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 19 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Sign Up Here Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Every Fourth Thursday at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. NEURODIVERSITY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 20 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Neurodiversity First and Third Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. The group is open to people on the autism spectrum, people who have ADHD, anxiety, Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, as well as supportive friends and family. We want everyone to feel welcome and know that they have a home in this community. We meet twice a month to play games, make art, go on outings, chat, and connect with likeminded individuals in our community. For more information, or to join our next meeting, please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 21 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 22 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... on November 13th. rm ~ A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. ~--·. COMING SOON f ACEBOOK LIVE ·,·. • 9 -~ .. . ® WITH SARA EVANS AND BRITTNEY HUDSON EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE OKEQ stands with the Hudson-Evans family against religious discrimination of LGBTQ+ families. Read their story here and look for our upcoming SPIRIT interview with Sara and Brittney. Facebook Page 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 23 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... "Sarah Stone is a photographer from New York with roots in Oklahoma and Missouri. She has worked as a commercial photographer for several years and is now starting a project documenting members of the LGBTQ+ family. The photographs would be for personal use and possibly displayed in an art setting at a later date. She is looking for all types of humans. Partial or slight nudity could be discussed, not required. Single humans and couples (including small groups of friends) are welcome. All ages, gender identities, and bodies are welcome and celebrated. Sarah welcomes any and all questions and wants to ensure the comfort of any participant. Models would get a hi-res digital file of several images of their choosing. All interested parties, please email or text to schedule a meeting. Email Sarah Here PARTICIPATE IN THE YOUTH 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 24 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... AND YOUNG ADULT COVID-19 IMPACTS STUDY! Earn up to $45 for completing two online surveys, plus an additional $50 if you participate in an interview about you, your experiences during COVID-19, and your mental, physical, and emotional health. ELIGIBLITY ► AGES 14-24 ► LIVE IN THE USA U.S. territories welcome to participate! The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study Our partners at Evaluation, Data Integration, and Technical Assistance (EDIT) Program have a new exciting paid research opportunity. Please see their message below: Researchers at the EDIT team wanted to let you know about a new study we are starting. The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study! The new study is for LGBTQ+ individuals ages 14-24. If that describes you, then please keep reading to learn more about the study. If that doesn’t describe you, then please share this announcement with any LGBTQ+ people you know! If you agree to participate, you’ll be asked to complete an online survey two times: once on the day, you enroll and once exactly six months after that. The survey will take about 45 minutes. How does it work? You’ll be asked questions about topics such as: · You · Your experiences during COVID-19 · Your mental, physical, and emotional health 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 25 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... You will receive $30 for completing the first survey and $15 for completing the second survey. You will receive your payment in the form of a virtual gift card, which you can use anywhere online. We will email the gift card to you within two weeks of completing the survey. If you’re interested, we may also invite you to participate in an interview with us. If you agree to participate in an interview, you will receive an additional $50. If you’re interested in participating, please click on the link below. It will take you to a page where you can book a time to speak to someone from our study team over the phone and enroll in the study. If you have any questions, you can email me back or e-mail the study team at YYAhealth@northwestern.edu. Youth and Young Adults COVID-19 Survey Screener City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 26 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library EOOK OF THE \/EEK \IE THE AffIMALS EY JU5Tlff TORRES A National Bestseller and an award-winning novel in stories surrounding a young, half-white, half-Puerto Rican boy grappling with life, love, and identity as he comes of age. In this groundbreaking debut, Justin Torres plunges us into the chaotic heart of one family, the intense bonds of three brothers, and the mythic effects of this fierce love on the people we must become. AUTHOR 5FOTLIGHT Justin Torres- His first novel We the Animals, is a national bestseller, has been translated into fifteen languages and is now a feature film. He has published short fiction in The ew Yorker, Harper's, Granta, Tin House, The Washington Post, JUSTlfi TORRES Glimmer Train, Flaunt, and other publications, as well as nonfiction pieces in publications like The Guardian and The Advocate. He lives in Los Angeles, where he is an Assistant Professor of English at UCLA. OKE 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 27 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 28 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Th City of Tulsa ·s committ d to ere t ng re pectful nd professional wor environment. l t on 0 I in ny City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 29 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 30 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... 0 ALPHABET SOUP KIOS Z SATURDAY AFTERNOON 3·4PM ~ • • ·o \\ • • ~ • • ~ - -==- ;:. • • ~ 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. PARENTS OF LG8TQ2SIA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 31 of 42 our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org -- https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org ---- Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, November 3, 5:30 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 32 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and all teens under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 33 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISH FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537 opt 1. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 34 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 35 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley- 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 36 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... freeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, October 21, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 37 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Support Group for Transgender Teens the link below for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - ---- The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - . ---- Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are Support Group for Partners of providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 38 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Transgender People Gaming Night is for you! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - ---- SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------ Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 39 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 40 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC l~NSOIIED•Y T>!IGKORGau.1n11 fAMIUl'OUNOATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 41 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross William Vaughn Board of Advisors Cray Bauxmont-Flynn Dani Byrd Whitney Cipolla Matt Else, D.O. Christian Fencer Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm 4/28/26, 3:12 PM �Oklahoma Issues First Non-binary Birth Certificate 42 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oklahoma-Issues-First-Non-binar... 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:12 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/68b5293c9279d4512f6cb801b6976951.pdf 61a5c9e95319cf102ff59aad6d5933b2 PDF Text Text Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 1 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews October 25th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! . A Asexual Aromantic Greysexual Greyromantic I. . SS i 1111... 1111... 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 2 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... ~ Demisexual Demiromantic Join us in celebrating Asexual Awareness Week / Ace Week! Asexual, Aromantic, Demisexual, and many more people on the Asexual spectrum are part of the LGBTQIA2S+ community. Are you looking for Ace resources? Check out acesandaros.org/ resources Discuss your experiences or ask questions on the Asexuality Visibility & Education Network (AVEN) forum at www.asexuality.org Are you interested in Ace programming at OKEQ? Please email by clicking below: Contact Us Beyond Brokeback October 28th through October 30th, 8:00 p.m. Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This powerful readers’ theatre piece will celebrate the 15th anniversary of the release of the movie BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN. Playwright Gregory Hinton (MORE SKY) assembled writings from a blog detailing how the film affected and changed the lives of so many. The production is directed by Vern and Lisa Stefanic, with music direction by Rick Fortner. And the cast is stellar: Kurt Harris, Travis Guillory, Nash McQuarters, Kia Hightower, Juan Reinoso, Kara Staiger, and Lisa Stefanic. 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 3 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... Buy Your Tickets Here 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 4 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... Purchase Tickets Here First Nonbinary Gender Marker Issued in Oklahoma Oklahomans for Equality is proud to announce that the State of Oklahoma now issues gender nonbinary birth certificates, joining the ranks of states leading the country in this regard. Please be advised that on October 7, 2021, the State of Oklahoma Department of Health issued what is believed to be the first birth certificate in the state’s history with a gender nonbinary sex designation. The birth certificate was issued to Kit Vivien Lorelied. It is further believed that the Department of Health will be updating its website to include language regarding the proper procedural steps required for individuals seeking to amend or otherwise modify the sex on their birth certificates to nonbinary. As with other modifications to birth certificates, a request for a nonbinary designation must be accompanied by a valid court order; therefore, if you have any questions about this process and/or your rights in this regard, we highly suggest you seek legal representation. • Please be advised that Lorelied specifically authorized the use of their identifying information in regards to the release of this announcement. Birth certificates and information contained therein are generally confidential and may not be disclosed without consent. If you have any concerns about your privacy rights in regards to obtaining gender-conforming vital records, we suggest you raise the issues with a legal professional. You can speak with Christopher Brecht-Smith, the lead attorney on this case, by calling 918-382-9200 or emailing at cbrecht@ok-counsel.com. For information on this case, see Kit Vivien Loreleid v. Oklahoma State Department of Health, case numbers civ-20-819-f and cv-2021-1306. 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 5 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ ~~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, October 26, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 6 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Crystal Bridges Trip Friday, November 05, 12:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The SAGE group is going to Crystal Bridges at Bentonville, Arkansas. The van will leave the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at noon. You will need to take money for dinner. For more information about the museum please click the button below: Please RSVP Below with Crystal Bridges in the Subject Line: RSVP HERE Crystal Bridges Information E UALITY Business Al/1ance .a 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 7 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... EBA Mixer Thursday, October 28, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Triangle Coffee 314 S. Cincinnati Ave. Tulsa, OK 74103 www.trianglecoffee.co At Triangle Coffee, you can always expect great customer service, know you're free to be yourself at our shop, and get an excellent cup of coffee. Triangle Coffee will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for October. Please join us and bring a friend. Equality Business Alliance DiA DE MUERTHS Do you have a family member, friend, or loved one who has passed that you would like to see on our Ofrenda (Altar)? Please send digital high-resolution photos or bring physical photos you would like us to use. Must be between 2 x 2 inches and 3 x 5 inches. Send to donovid.sekulits@okeq.org The deadline to be included is by Monday, Oct 25th at 5pm 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 8 of 42 . . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... ... ... Guided Meditation Starting November 1st Every Sunday at 1:00 p.m. Every Monday at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on November 1st for some guided meditation. Every Monday, we will set our goals, and on Sunday, we will reflect on the week. We will go over daily affirmations and how to live with intention. About 1 in 8 U.S. women will develop invasive breast cancer over the course of her lifetime. Medicaid can help with coverage so there's one less thing to worry about. You're not alone. Get the support you need at healthcare.gov. 0 en Mind Dream Builder Life Mastery Consultant _ _ & Clinical Hypnosis It's estimated that about 30% of newly diagnosed cancers in women will be a form of breast cancer. Medicaid increases access to doctors, preventive screenings, and cancer treatments. Go to Healthcare.gov to see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 9 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Follow the link below to find your US Senators. The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Find Your Legislator 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 10 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... ~ QUEElt ■ LACK VOICES llo•ember 10th, 7pm Live-streamed from Olclabomans for Equalit Faceboolc page Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Mikeal Vaughn Wednesday, November 10, 7:00 p.m. Facebook Live Event Join us for Queer Black Voices with Mikeal Vaughn. Mikeal is a Tulsa native, Founder, and Executive Director of the Urban Coders Guild. Urban Coders Guild's mission is to "provide greater computer science education, access, and opportunities to youth from historically underserved, underrepresented, otherwise under-resourced communities." Queer Black Voices is a monthly series that highlights Black Queer Oklahomans creating and giving them the space and opportunity to tell their stories and journeys as Black Queer folx. Queer Black Voices will live stream every first Friday of the month from the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page. You can also check out our first season on Oklahomans for Equality's youtube channel at the link below. If you would like to share your story or learn more about Queer Black Voices, contact Kao Morris by clicking below: Contact Kao Facebook Live Event YouTube Playlist 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 11 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... Twisted Arts Film Festival November 11, 12:00 p.m. - November 18, 11:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 Twisted Arts Film Festival’s first annual LGBTQ+ film festival is taking over Circle Cinema this fall, with a dazzling line-up of local stories (“The Sound of Identity”); indigenous stories (“Being Thunder”); a biopic of Fanny, a band David Bowie called “the finest rock bands of their time”; out of this world animation; and closing the festival with a drag-extravaganza documentary about RuPaul Season 1 winner Bebe Zahara Benet (“Being Bebe”). IN-PERSON EVENTS: Twisted Arts Film Festival will screen movies from November 11-14, 2021, at Circle Cinema. All screenings at Circle Cinema are free and open to the public, first-come, first seated. VIRTUAL SCREENINGS: Oklahoma residents can watch movies virtually from November 11-18, 2021. Virtual tickets are available for $10, or you can purchase a virtual all-access pass for $75. The twisted Arts Festival schedule of films and events is available online at the official Twisted Arts website. See Below: For More Information Click Here 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 12 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... Outside the Box Monday, November 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 13 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... IndigiQueer: First Americans Museum Friday, November 19, 9:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join IndigiQueer on November 19 for a trip to the First Americans Museum in Oklahoma City. We will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and take the OKEQ Equality Van to the museum. We will arrive back in Tulsa before 5 p.m. Reserve your spot by November 11 by contacting Kao. "IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement." – Vnokeckv. Contact Kao 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 14 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" Artist Reception Thursday, November 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery in Recognition of National Native American Heritage Month will feature Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" In a small Oklahoma town in 1964, an artist was born. Schellye Bryant could be found as young as four years old, hiding under her bed, pen in hand, forming the beginnings of her adult profession. She would later further her education in graphic design at Oklahoma State University. Her skillful techniques with acrylics show a depth of emotions ranging from deep brokenness to comforting euphoria. Schellye's talents extend to murals, sign creation, illustrations of all kinds, and caricatures, specializing in soulful portraits, bringing loved ones to life. She has been featured in numerous art shows held in Texas and was awarded the esteemed honor of Gold Bars for her advanced illustrations. It is with honor and humble gratitude that Schellye presents to you her two-part series. These powerful pieces will sensually capture the eye with compelling depth, showing the gravity of thought that will embrace your very soul as visual calmness is attained. - Schellye Bryant The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Monday, November 1st, with COVID measures in place for those Non-vaccinated. The Artist Reception is Thursday, November 4th, at 6:00 p.m. with the artist Schellye Bryant. The exhibit continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit www.okeq.org Artist Site: www.facebook.com/schellye Visit The Art Gallery Site 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 15 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... Transgender Resource Fair Saturday, November 13th, 2021 Trans-Friendly Resources including: Health Care Cosmetic Clothing Closet Massage I Mental Health Sexual Health Legal Assistance Hair Stylists Hosted by The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Trans Resource Fair 2021 Sponsored by Amazon Saturday, November 13, 12:30 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us at the Equality Center for a day of community, wellness, and fun for Tulsaarea trans folks! You’ll get a chance to connect with trans-friendly medical doctors, legal counsel, wellness professionals, hairstylists, and make-up artists. Then, swing by the clothing swap and pick out some new additions to your wardrobe, show off your new style with a portrait photo session, do some arts & crafts activities with other fair-goers, and grab a bite to eat – it’s on us! 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 16 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... This fair serves as an opportunity for trans folks to easily find resources, assistance, and community and receive supplies from community-vetted transfriendly resources. We especially hope to aid those who are financially unable to access basic necessities that trans folks need daily and those who might not be as plugged into the local trans community. **************************************************************** We Are Looking for help: Donation Collection: For the clothing swap, we are working to be established. If you have a place to collect, let us know. Clothing Donations: We are looking for New or Barely New. Dye and fragrance-free options are preferred whenever possible to accommodate anybody who wants to participate in the clothing swap. Our highest priority clothing items currently include: • Women’s shoes, size 10+ • Men’s & Women’s plus-sizes • Youth & junior sizes • New or unused make-up or beauty products However, we are accepting gently worn items for all ages, sizes, and bodies! To arrange a bulk donation pick-up, please fill out the form below. **************************************************************** Wanna help out? Please use our Google form to let us know how! Trans Fair Signup We’ll be in touch soon! Sign Up Here Donate Here Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, November 9, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 17 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Fair Housing for LGBTQ+ Elissa Furlong is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. She is from upstate New York but attended Mississippi College School of Law, graduating at the top of her class. In addition to having worked for two private attorneys, Elissa has previously interned with the legal department of a United Nations agency. Ms. Furlong has also completed legal fellowships and externships in the areas of employment discrimination, workers' rights, civil rights, and LGBTQ+ legislation and advocacy. Elissa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-409-2115, or email her at elissa.furlong@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements pertaining to fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, October 27, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 18 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... Kati Falcon's "Fluid Feathers" Through the Month of October Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Kati Falcon is a Fluid Acrylic Artist and Tulsa native. Kati's art combines the natural with the abstract and gets inspiration from nature and science. Bold colors and broad strokes help her achieve a wonderful fluid effect. When finished with resin, this medium takes on a personality of its own. "Experimentation, and the challenge of how far I can push it, keeps me painting." "I really enjoy sharing art with the OKEQ. This is the first place that made me feel like a real artist. The center is inviting, and the staff are warm and welcoming, not to mention the patrons have excellent taste." Kati Falcon 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 19 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... Watch the Virtual Art Show Below: Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE ART Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Every Fourth Thursday at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 20 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Neurodiversity First and Third Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. The group is open to people on the autism spectrum, people who have ADHD, anxiety, Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 21 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... neurodivergencies, as well as supportive friends and family. We want everyone to feel welcome and know that they have a home in this community. We meet twice a month to play games, make art, go on outings, chat, and connect with likeminded individuals in our community. For more information, or to join our next meeting, please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 22 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. rm ~ A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. ~ . ·.·. •.• • B COMING SOON f ACEBOOK LIVE -~ .. . tJA ~ WITH SARA EVANS AND BRITTNEY HUDSON EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE OKEQ stands with the Hudson-Evans family against religious discrimination of LGBTQ+ families. Read their story here and look for our upcoming SPIRIT interview with Sara and Brittney. 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 23 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... Facebook Page "Sarah Stone is a photographer from New York with roots in Oklahoma and Missouri. She has worked as a commercial photographer for several years and is now starting a project documenting members of the LGBTQ+ family. The photographs would be for personal use and possibly displayed in an art setting at a later date. She is looking for all types of humans. Partial or slight nudity could be discussed, not required. Single humans and couples (including small groups of friends) are welcome. All ages, gender identities, and bodies are welcome and celebrated. Sarah 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 24 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... welcomes any and all questions and wants to ensure the comfort of any participant. Models would get a hi-res digital file of several images of their choosing. All interested parties, please email or text to schedule a meeting. Email Sarah Here PARTICIPATE IN THE YOUTH AND YOUNG ADULT COVID-19 IMPACTS STUDY! Earn up to $45 for completing two online surveys, plus an additional $50 if you participate in an interview about you, your experiences during COVID-19, and your mental, physical, and emotional health. ELIGIBLITY ► AGES 14-24 ► LIVE IN THE USA U.S. territories welcome to participate! 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 25 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... haluat1cn Da·c', [rtcg1at1on anj lc·chn1cal Ass1stc1nc0 P,r,8ram ,rn1T, Study# STLJ00213711 The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study Our partners at Evaluation, Data Integration, and Technical Assistance (EDIT) Program have a new exciting paid research opportunity. Please see their message below: Researchers at the EDIT team wanted to let you know about a new study we are starting. The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study! The new study is for LGBTQ+ individuals ages 14-24. If that describes you, then please keep reading to learn more about the study. If that doesn’t describe you, then please share this announcement with any LGBTQ+ people you know! If you agree to participate, you’ll be asked to complete an online survey two times: once on the day, you enroll and once exactly six months after that. The survey will take about 45 minutes. How does it work? You’ll be asked questions about topics such as: · You · Your experiences during COVID-19 · Your mental, physical, and emotional health You will receive $30 for completing the first survey and $15 for completing the second survey. You will receive your payment in the form of a virtual gift card, which you can use anywhere online. We will email the gift card to you within two weeks of completing the survey. If you’re interested, we may also invite you to participate in an interview with us. If you agree to participate in an interview, you will receive an additional $50. If you’re interested in participating, please click on the link below. It will take you to a page where you can book a time to speak to someone from our study team over the phone and enroll in the study. If you have any questions, you can email me back or e-mail the study team at YYAhealth@northwestern.edu. Youth and Young Adults COVID-19 Survey Screener 0 EMERGENCY RENTAL ASSISTANCE PROGRAM 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 26 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library Book of the Week Like a Boy: but Not a Boy: by: Andrea Bennett It explores author Andrea Bennett's experiences with gender expectations, being a non-binary parent, and the sometimes funny and sometimes difficult task of living in a body. The book's fourteen essays also delve incisively into the interconnected themes of mental illness, mortality, creative work, class, and bike mechanics. 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 27 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... Author Spotlight Andrea Bennett Andrea Bennett- is a ational lagazine Award-winning writer and editor. Andrea is a senior editor at The Tyee. Prior to that, the edited and designed at Talonbooks and were the Editor-in-Chief of Maisonneuve. They are the designer for PRIS l international. Born in Hamilton, they are now back on the west coast after a stint in ontreal. They hold a BA in English and French from the Univer it of Guelph, and an MFA in Creative Writing from the University of British Columbia. OKE okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 28 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly The City of Tulsa is committed to creat ng a respectful and professional work environment. Se al onen at on gender 1den 1ty nd g nd re pr ssion ar pro ec d. D scnminat1on, h r rn nt nd t It tion in ny 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 29 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 30 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. 0 ALPHABET SOUP KIOS Z SATURDAY AFTERNOON ·4PM ~ • • ·o \\ • • ~ • • <::) - -==- •~ • <::) 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 31 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. PAREHTS OF LOBTQ2SIA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 32 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, November 3, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 33 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and all teens under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 34 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... MAKE AN APPOINTMENT ONLINE AT OKEQ.ORG/OKEO-HEAL TH-CLINIC OR CALL 918-938-6537! KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THEGEOAGEK..l,ISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537 opt 1. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 35 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 36 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 37 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, November 18, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' -- · -- Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- · -- The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 38 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- . ---- Tulsa Area Prime Timers Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for Support Group for Partners of Transgender People adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - . ---- sage Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 39 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... - H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------- -- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 40 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC Sll'ONSOl!EOn fl1E0lOIIC:llUJSlll fAMl~YfOUNOATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 41 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross William Vaughn Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Jane Wiseman 4/28/26, 3:14 PM �Beyond Brokeback Opens October 28th 42 of 42 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Beyond-Brokeback-Opens-Octobe... Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:14 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d06c8a487691a8bd7d2d2235b0862b31.pdf 2295f4130c196f037a1ecc2ada93270a PDF Text Text Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 1 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews November 1st, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 2 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... Gay & Sue were featured in this article on Marriage Equality VETERAN'S DAY CELEBRATION: A Clothing-Optional Experience Saturday: November 6, 2021 FREE admission for all Veterans, Active Service Members and a Guest A full list of the day's activities can be found at www.oaklaketrails.com/veterans-day-2021. The day will conclude with a Cook-Off, Potluck and Dance. All visitors are encouraged to bring new men's stocking hats, gloves, socks or underwear as a donation that will go to the New Creation Lifework organization. ** Proceeds from the day's event will go to support New Creation Lifework, a non-profit organization supporting homeless veterans. 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 3 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... Click Here for More Information Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" Artist Reception Thursday, November 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery in Recognition of National Native American Heritage Month will feature Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" In a small Oklahoma town in 1964, an artist was born. Schellye Bryant could be found as young as four years old, hiding under her bed, pen in hand, forming the 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 4 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... beginnings of her adult profession. She would later further her education in graphic design at Oklahoma State University. Her skillful techniques with acrylics show a depth of emotions ranging from deep brokenness to comforting euphoria. Schellye's talents extend to murals, sign creation, illustrations of all kinds, and caricatures, specializing in soulful portraits, bringing loved ones to life. She has been featured in numerous art shows held in Texas and was awarded the esteemed honor of Gold Bars for her advanced illustrations. It is with honor and humble gratitude that Schellye presents to you her two-part series. These powerful pieces will sensually capture the eye with compelling depth, showing the gravity of thought that will embrace your very soul as visual calmness is attained. - Schellye Bryant The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Monday, November 1st, with COVID measures in place for those Non-vaccinated. The Artist Reception is Thursday, November 4th, at 6:00 p.m. with the artist Schellye Bryant. The exhibit continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit www.okeq.org Artist Site: www.facebook.com/schellye Visit The Art Gallery Site CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE ART Twisted Arts Film Festival November 11, 12:00 p.m. - November 18, 11:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 5 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 Twisted Arts Film Festival’s first annual LGBTQ+ film festival is taking over Circle Cinema this fall, with a dazzling line-up of local stories (“The Sound of Identity”); indigenous stories (“Being Thunder”); a biopic of Fanny, a band David Bowie called “the finest rock bands of their time”; out of this world animation; and closing the festival with a drag-extravaganza documentary about RuPaul Season 1 winner Bebe Zahara Benet (“Being Bebe”). IN-PERSON EVENTS: Twisted Arts Film Festival will screen movies from November 11-14, 2021, at Circle Cinema. All screenings at Circle Cinema are free and open to the public, first-come, first seated. VIRTUAL SCREENINGS: Oklahoma residents can watch movies virtually from November 11-18, 2021. Virtual tickets are available for $10, or you can purchase a virtual all-access pass for $75. The twisted Arts Festival schedule of films and events is available online at the official Twisted Arts website. See Below: For More Information Click Here 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 6 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... NO MATTER WHERE YOU LIVE, WE'VE GOT YOU COVERED. Take pride in your health. Visit out2enroll.org/enrollment-help to learn more. 4 in 5 people are able to find coverage for $10 a month on the ACA Marketplace. Open enrollment starts TODAY so head to healthcare.gov to get covered. 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 7 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... Fairy Tree 2021 The Fairy Tree is back! Every year we ask our constituents to donate gifts for people affected by HIV. You can sign up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by clicking the link below. Please confirm the gift number with a staff or volunteer before purchasing a gift. All wrapped gifts are due back by December 4th! Contact Alex First Nonbinary Gender Marker Issued in Oklahoma 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 8 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... Oklahomans for Equality is proud to announce that the State of Oklahoma now issues gender nonbinary birth certificates, joining the ranks of states leading the country in this regard. Please be advised that on October 7, 2021, the State of Oklahoma Department of Health issued what is believed to be the first birth certificate in the state’s history with a gender nonbinary sex designation. The birth certificate was issued to Kit Vivien Lorelied. It is further believed that the Department of Health will be updating its website to include language regarding the proper procedural steps required for individuals seeking to amend or otherwise modify the sex on their birth certificates to nonbinary. As with other modifications to birth certificates, a request for a nonbinary designation must be accompanied by a valid court order; therefore, if you have any questions about this process and/or your rights in this regard, we highly suggest you seek legal representation. • Please be advised that Lorelied specifically authorized the use of their identifying information in regards to the release of this announcement. Birth certificates and information contained therein are generally confidential and may not be disclosed without consent. If you have any concerns about your privacy rights in regards to obtaining gender-conforming vital records, we suggest you raise the issues with a legal professional. You can speak with Christopher Brecht-Smith, the lead attorney on this case, by calling 918-382-9200 or emailing at cbrecht@ok-counsel.com. For information on this case, see Kit Vivien Loreleid v. Oklahoma State Department of Health, case numbers civ-20-819-f and cv-2021-1306. sao-e ;~~~~:~~o~ ~-, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. . •' - I 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 9 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, November 2, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 10 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... Crystal Bridges Trip Friday, November 5, 12:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The SAGE group is going to Crystal Bridges at Bentonville, Arkansas. The van will leave the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at noon. You will need to take money for dinner. For more information about the museum please click the button below: Please RSVP Below with Crystal Bridges in the Subject Line: RSVP HERE Crystal Bridges Information Guided Meditation Starting Today, November 1st Every Sunday at 1:00 p.m. Every Monday at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on November 1st for some guided meditation. Every Monday, we will set our goals, and on Sunday, we will reflect on the week. We will go over daily affirmations and how to live with intention. OT _ _ll I~ l_&_f_ Dream Builder _ Life Mastery Consultant & Clinical Hypnosis OU _lJ______, .~ ~__,____ 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 11 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... 110-, Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, November 3, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator November Happy Hour Wednesday, November 3, 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 12 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... Nothing's Left Brewing Co. 1502 E 6th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 LGBTQ++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome and we hope some of you will join us Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, November 9, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. ~ QUEER ■ LACK VOICES llo.,ember fOt#t, 7pm Live-streamed from Oklahomans for Equality Faceboolc page 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 13 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Mikeal Vaughn Wednesday, November 10, 7:00 p.m. Facebook Live Event Join us for Queer Black Voices with Mikeal Vaughn. Mikeal is a Tulsa native, Founder, and Executive Director of the Urban Coders Guild. Urban Coders Guild's mission is to "provide greater computer science education, access, and opportunities to youth from historically underserved, underrepresented, otherwise under-resourced communities." Queer Black Voices is a monthly series that highlights Black Queer Oklahomans creating and giving them the space and opportunity to tell their stories and journeys as Black Queer folx. Queer Black Voices will live stream every first Friday of the month from the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page. You can also check out our first season on Oklahomans for Equality's youtube channel at the link below. If you would like to share your story or learn more about Queer Black Voices, contact Kao Morris by clicking below: Contact Kao Facebook Live Event YouTube Playlist Payton __________ _,_Law _ __Fir_____ 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 14 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... e on aw 1-1rm sponsors Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, November 10, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. # PassTheEqualltyAct 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 15 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator _, • ., /'1n1 ITClnC'\\.. 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 16 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... .V\J l~IIJL. THEB ., ~ Outside the Box Monday, November 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. E ALITY Business Alliance EBA Mixer Thursday, November 18, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Tulsa Garden Center at Woodward Park 2435 S Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 www.tulsagardencenter.org 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-.. The Tulsa Garden Center, located in the historic Snedden Mansion within Woodward Park at 2435 South Peoria Ave, is a nonprofit organization whose mission is to serve as horticultural headquarters with diverse educational opportunities for our community and to provide exceptional and unique guest experiences. The Tulsa Garden Center fulfills this role by offering numerous lectures, classes, training, plant shows, and special events throughout the year, which are predominantly free for its Members. Additionally, over 20 affiliated organizations such as the Audubon Society, the Sierra Club, the Tulsa Rose Society, and the Tulsa Garden Club, call Tulsa Garden Center home for their horticultural and environmental activities, supplementing our extensive list of educational opportunities with even more events open the public. Tulsa Garden Center at Woodward Park will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for November. Please join us and bring a friend. Equality Business Alliance I 0 60 86 08 I 0 6I J?;;;;;;;;;tr ~ ' ~ 0• 0• (:f.(•✓. ,;~:('(i'ff' '0 . . . . '• -- IndigiQueer: First Americans Museum Friday, November 19, 9:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join IndigiQueer on November 19 for a trip to the First Americans Museum in Oklahoma City. We will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and take the OKEQ Equality Van to the museum. We will arrive back in Tulsa before 5 p.m. Reserve your spot by November 11 by contacting Kao. "IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through 17 of 44 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 18 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement." – Vnokeckv. Contact Kao Transgender Resource Fair Saturday, November 13th, 2021 Trans-Friendly Resources including: Health Care Cosmetic Clothing Closet Massage I Mental Health Sexual Health Legal Assistance Hair Stylists Hosted by The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Trans Resource Fair 2021 Sponsored by Amazon Saturday, November 13, 12:30 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us at the Equality Center for a day of community, wellness, and fun for Tulsa- 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 19 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... area trans folks! You’ll get a chance to connect with trans-friendly medical doctors, legal counsel, wellness professionals, hairstylists, and make-up artists. Then, swing by the clothing swap and pick out some new additions to your wardrobe, show off your new style with a portrait photo session, do some arts & crafts activities with other fair-goers, and grab a bite to eat – it’s on us! This fair serves as an opportunity for trans folks to easily find resources, assistance, and community and receive supplies from community-vetted transfriendly resources. We especially hope to aid those who are financially unable to access basic necessities that trans folks need daily and those who might not be as plugged into the local trans community. **************************************************************** We Are Looking for help: Donation Collection: For the clothing swap, we are working to be established. If you have a place to collect, let us know. Clothing Donations: We are looking for New or Barely New. Dye and fragrance-free options are preferred whenever possible to accommodate anybody who wants to participate in the clothing swap. Our highest priority clothing items currently include: • Women’s shoes, size 10+ • Men’s & Women’s plus-sizes • Youth & junior sizes • New or unused make-up or beauty products However, we are accepting gently worn items for all ages, sizes, and bodies! To arrange a bulk donation pick-up, please fill out the form below. **************************************************************** Wanna help out? Please use our Google form to let us know how! Trans Fair Signup We’ll be in touch soon! Sign Up Here Donate Here Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Starting Monday, November 8, 12:00 pm Re-Occurs Each Monday and Wednesday 12:00 p.m - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 20 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... Elissa Furlong is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. She is from upstate New York but attended Mississippi College School of Law, graduating at the top of her class. In addition to having worked for two private attorneys, Elissa has previously interned with the legal department of a United Nations agency. Ms. Furlong has also completed legal fellowships and externships in the areas of employment discrimination, workers' rights, civil rights, and LGBTQ+ legislation and advocacy. Elissa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-409-2115, or email her at elissa.furlong@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements pertaining to fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. Wednesday, December 15, 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Fair Housing presentation and Bingo with Legal Aid 's Elissa Furlong. Brought To You Bi the Letter B 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 21 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook Game Night Tuesday, November 16 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come out and enjoy a night of board games and fun with our Bi+ group. All are invited to participate. Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, November 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 22 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Every Fourth Thursday at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center •• I • • • • 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 23 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... Neurodiversity First and Third Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. The group is open to people on the autism spectrum, people who have ADHD, anxiety, Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, as well as supportive friends and family. We want everyone to feel welcome and know that they have a home in this community. We meet twice a month to play games, make art, go on outings, chat, and connect with likeminded individuals in our community. For more information, or to join our next meeting, please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 24 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... Sheena Kaur Grewal April 17, 1984 - October 26, 2021 Sheena's Obituary Oklahomans for Equality is devastated to hear of the report that Sheena Grewal, a valued member of our LGBTQ+ community, died on October 26, 2021. Sheena was a former President of the board of directors of OkEq and a longtime advocate, not only for the LGBTQ+ community but for social justice for all people. We mourn this tragic loss of a life taken much too quickly. Sheena leaves behind a loving family, treasured friends, and a community that will miss her deeply. Please keep Sheena's family, friends, and loved ones in your hearts and spirit, during this time of sadness. Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 25 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR FOR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR FAITH. .... • - .... COMING SOON f ACEBOOK LIVE -~ .. . f:lA ~ WITH SARA EVANS AND BRITTNEY HUDSON EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE OKEQ stands with the Hudson-Evans family against religious discrimination of LGBTQ+ families. Read their story here and look for our upcoming SPIRIT interview with Sara and Brittney. Facebook Page 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 26 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... "Sarah Stone is a photographer from New York with roots in Oklahoma and Missouri. She has worked as a commercial photographer for several years and is now starting a project documenting members of the LGBTQ+ family. The photographs would be for personal use and possibly displayed in an art setting at a later date. She is looking for all types of humans. Partial or slight nudity could be discussed, not required. Single humans and couples (including small groups of friends) are welcome. All ages, gender identities, and bodies are welcome and celebrated. Sarah welcomes any and all questions and wants to ensure the comfort of any participant. Models would get a hi-res digital file of several images of their choosing. All interested parties, please email or text to schedule a meeting. Email Sarah Here PARTICIPATE IN THE YOUTH AND YOUNG ADULT COVID-19 IMPACTS STUDY! Earn up to $45 for completing two online surveys, plus an ~,.J,.J;-1-;~~~I C:Cf\ ;.i:,,~,, ~~~-1-:~:~~-1-~ :~ ~~ :~-1-~~,,:~ .. , ~h~,,-1- ••~•• 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 27 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... CIUU I llUI ICII :)JV II yuu tJCI I llLltJCI LI::: 111 Cl( I II Ill:::( V 11:::VV Cl uuu l yuu, your experiences during COVID-19, and your mental, physical, and emotional health. ELIGIBLITY ► AGES 14-24 ► LIVE IN THE USA U.S. territories welcome to participate! The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study Our partners at Evaluation, Data Integration, and Technical Assistance (EDIT) Program have a new exciting paid research opportunity. Please see their message below: Researchers at the EDIT team wanted to let you know about a new study we are starting. The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study! The new study is for LGBTQ+ individuals ages 14-24. If that describes you, then please keep reading to learn more about the study. If that doesn’t describe you, then please share this announcement with any LGBTQ+ people you know! If you agree to participate, you’ll be asked to complete an online survey two times: once on the day, you enroll and once exactly six months after that. The survey will take about 45 minutes. How does it work? You’ll be asked questions about topics such as: · You · Your experiences during COVID-19 · Your mental, physical, and emotional health You will receive $30 for completing the first survey and $15 for completing the second survey. You will receive your payment in the form of a virtual gift card, which you can use anywhere online. We will email the gift card to you within two weeks of completing the survey. 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 28 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... If you’re interested, we may also invite you to participate in an interview with us. If you agree to participate in an interview, you will receive an additional $50. If you’re interested in participating, please click on the link below. It will take you to a page where you can book a time to speak to someone from our study team over the phone and enroll in the study. If you have any questions, you can email me back or e-mail the study team at YYAhealth@northwestern.edu. Youth and Young Adults COVID-19 Survey Screener City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 29 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... J Rainbow Library Book of the week The Gender Creative Child by Diane Ehrensaft, Ph.D. In Ehrensaft's new book, they explain the interconnected effects of biology, nurture, and culture to explore why gender can be fluid , rather than binary. As an advocate for the gender affirmative model and with the exper tise she has gained over three decades of pioneering work with children and families. she encourages caregivers to listen to each child, learn their particular needs, and support their quest for a true gender self. Author Spotlight Diane Ehrensaft, Ph.D. - is a developmental and clinical psychologist. At the University of California- San Francisco, she is the cofounder and director of mental health at the Child and Adolescent Gender Center, an associate professor of pediatrics, an an attending ps chologist at the Benioff Children's Hospital Child and Adolescent Gender Clinic. Her work with- and advocacy fornder creative children has been widely covered, including by Th ew York Times, the Huffington Post, and NPR. Diane Ehrensaft OKE 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 30 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 31 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... Th City of Tulsa 1s committ d to creat ng re p ctful nd professional work environment. I t on 0 I in ny City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 32 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • ALPHABET SOUP KIDS SATURDAY AFTERNOON Z • • C\. • - -==- C\. 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 33 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. PARENTS OF LOBTOlSIA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 34 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 35 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and all teens under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk ., BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma THE OKEO HEAL TH CLINIC NOW 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 36 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... TAKES BLUE CROSS BLUE SHIELD! KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THEGEOAGEK..l,ISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537 opt 1. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 37 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 38 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 39 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, November 18, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Support Group for Parents of The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 40 of 44 Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - --- 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- --- Tulsa Area Prime Timers Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. sage Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 41 of 44 A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education , Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ----- -- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 42 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC Sl>ONSOREOIY THEGIOIIGIKAISEII 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 43 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Board of Advisors 4/28/26, 3:36 PM �Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" opens this Thursday 44 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Schellye-Bryant-s--Painting-with-... Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross William Vaughn Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:36 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e30ef465c9202784b170d5f0dd1f85ef.pdf b1dddcd44d79f058e7471047f4c4726e PDF Text Text Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 1 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews November 8th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 2 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Twisted Arts Film Festival November 11, 12:00 p.m. - November 18, 11:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 Twisted Arts Film Festival’s first annual LGBTQ+ film festival is taking over Circle Cinema this fall, with a dazzling line-up of local stories (“The Sound of Identity”); 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 3 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... indigenous stories (“Being Thunder”); a biopic of Fanny, a band David Bowie called “the finest rock bands of their time”; out of this world animation; and closing the festival with a drag-extravaganza documentary about RuPaul Season 1 winner Bebe Zahara Benet (“Being Bebe”). IN-PERSON EVENTS: Twisted Arts Film Festival will screen movies from November 11-14, 2021, at Circle Cinema. All screenings at Circle Cinema are free and open to the public, first-come, first seated. VIRTUAL SCREENINGS: Oklahoma residents can watch movies virtually from November 11-18, 2021. Virtual tickets are available for $10, or you can purchase a virtual all-access pass for $75. The twisted Arts Festival schedule of films and events is available online at the official Twisted Arts website. See Below: For More Information Click Here Transgender Resource Fair Saturday, November 13th, 2021 Trans-Friendly Resources including: Health Care Cosmetic Clothing Closet Massage ~ I Mental Health Sexual Health Legal Assistance Hair Stylists Hosted by The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 4 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... , ' '' Trans Resource Fair 2021 Sponsored by Amazon Saturday, November 13, 12:30 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us at the Equality Center for a day of community, wellness, and fun for Tulsaarea trans folks! You’ll get a chance to connect with trans-friendly medical doctors, legal counsel, wellness professionals, hairstylists, and make-up artists. Then, swing by the clothing swap and pick out some new additions to your wardrobe, show off your new style with a portrait photo session, do some arts & crafts activities with other fair-goers, and grab a bite to eat – it’s on us! This fair serves as an opportunity for trans folks to easily find resources, assistance, and community and receive supplies from community-vetted transfriendly resources. We especially hope to aid those who are financially unable to access basic necessities that trans folks need daily and those who might not be as plugged into the local trans community. **************************************************************** We Are Looking for help: Donation Collection: For the clothing swap, we are working to be established. If you have a place to collect, let us know. Clothing Donations: We are looking for New or Barely New. Dye and fragrance-free options are preferred whenever possible to accommodate anybody who wants to participate in the clothing swap. Our highest priority clothing items currently include: • Women’s shoes, size 10+ • Men’s & Women’s plus-sizes • Youth & junior sizes • New or unused make-up or beauty products However, we are accepting gently worn items for all ages, sizes, and bodies! To arrange a bulk donation pick-up, please fill out the form below. **************************************************************** Wanna help out? Please use our Google form to let us know how! Trans Fair Signup We’ll be in touch soon! Sign Up Here Donate Here 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 5 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Confused about health insurance? We've got you covered. Make your free appointment with an LGBTQ-affirming assister at out2enroll.org/enrollment-help. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 6 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Fairy Tree 2021 The Fairy Tree is back! Every year we ask our constituents to donate gifts for people affected by HIV. You can sign up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by clicking the link below. Please confirm the gift number with a staff or volunteer before purchasing a gift. All wrapped gifts are due back by December 4th! Contact Alex Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Monday and Wednesday 12:00 p.m - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Elissa Furlong is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. She is from upstate New York but attended Mississippi College School of Law, graduating at the top of her class. In addition to having worked for two private attorneys, Elissa has previously interned with the legal department of a United Nations agency. Ms. Furlong has also completed legal fellowships and externships in the areas of employment discrimination, workers' rights, civil rights, and LGBTQ+ legislation and advocacy. Elissa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-409-2115, or email her at elissa.furlong@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements pertaining to fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. Wednesday, December 15, 5:30 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Fair Housing presentation and Bingo with Legal Aid's Elissa Furlong. There will be Pizza and Prizes available for those in attendance. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 7 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 8 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, November 9, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OKLAHOMANS FOR E~ALITY CELEBRATES VETERANS THANI< YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE! 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 9 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... OS Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey Guided Meditation Every Sunday at 1:00 p.m. Every Monday at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us Sunday and Monday for some guided meditation. Every Monday, we will set our goals, and on Sunday, we will reflect on the week. We will go over daily affirmations and how to live with intention. 0 en Mind Dream Builder Life Mastery Consultant _ & Clinical Hypnosis ~ QUEER ■ LACK VOICES 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 10 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... !ldJJEiJ llo,,ember fOt#t.,, 7pm Live-streamed from Olclabomans for Equality Faceboolc page Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Mikeal Vaughn Wednesday, November 10, 7:00 p.m. Facebook Live Event Join us for Queer Black Voices with Mikeal Vaughn. Mikeal is a Tulsa native, Founder, and Executive Director of the Urban Coders Guild. Urban Coders Guild's mission is to "provide greater computer science education, access, and opportunities to youth from historically underserved, underrepresented, otherwise under-resourced communities." Queer Black Voices is a monthly series that highlights Black Queer Oklahomans creating and giving them the space and opportunity to tell their stories and journeys as Black Queer folx. Queer Black Voices will live stream every first Friday of the month from the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page. You can also check out our first season on Oklahomans for Equality's youtube channel at the link below. If you would like to share your story or learn more about Queer Black Voices, contact Kao Morris by clicking below: Contact Kao Facebook Live Event YouTube Playlist 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 11 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke h C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, November 10, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 12 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: My Life With Superman Thursday, November 18, 8:00 p.m. Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room welcomes Kaley Jobe and Clark Durland's show "My Life With Superman," a comedy cabaret about life with Clark's little sister. Click Here for Tickets Transgender Day of Remembrance - TDoR Saturday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 13 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Tulsa, OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR) is an annual observance on November 20 that honors the memory of those whose lives were lost in acts of anti-transgender violence. We will hold a candlelight vigil as we read the names of those we have lost this year, and there will be several speakers from the local trans community. Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" Open Through November Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery in Recognition of National 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 14 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Native American Heritage Month will feature Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" In a small Oklahoma town in 1964, an artist was born. Schellye Bryant could be found as young as four years old, hiding under her bed, pen in hand, forming the beginnings of her adult profession. She would later further her education in graphic design at Oklahoma State University. Her skillful techniques with acrylics show a depth of emotions ranging from deep brokenness to comforting euphoria. Schellye's talents extend to murals, sign creation, illustrations of all kinds, and caricatures, specializing in soulful portraits, bringing loved ones to life. She has been featured in numerous art shows held in Texas and was awarded the esteemed honor of Gold Bars for her advanced illustrations. It is with honor and humble gratitude that Schellye presents to you her two-part series. These powerful pieces will sensually capture the eye with compelling depth, showing the gravity of thought that will embrace your very soul as visual calmness is attained. - Schellye Bryant The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Monday, November 1st, with COVID measures in place for those Non-vaccinated. The Artist Reception is Thursday, November 4th, at 6:00 p.m. with the artist Schellye Bryant. The exhibit continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit www.okeq.org Artist Site: www.facebook.com/schellye CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE ART Visit The Art Gallery Site MOVIE NIGHT TWISTED ARTS FILM FESTIVAL ,1,('SOUNDot ,a IDENTITY • _----, ~ ,., ~ 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 15 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... IRCLE CINEMA NOV. 11, 7PM GEN Q Movie Night at Twisted Arts Film Festival Thursday, November 11, 7:00 p.m. 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 GEN Q will meet at Circle Cinema on November 11 at 7:00 p.m. for a screening of "The Sound of Identity" as part of the Twisted Arts LGBTQ+ Film Festival opening night. You must RSVP to attend this event. RSVP to morgan.allen@okeq.org RSVP HERE Trailer 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 16 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... , .VU I ~IUC ' THEB ~ Outside the Box Monday, November 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 17 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Monday, November 8 and 22, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook Game Night Tuesday, November 16, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come out and enjoy a night of board games and fun with our Bi+ group. All are invited to participate. Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, November 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 18 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Contact Us E UALITY Business Alliance EBA Mixer Thursday, November 18, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Tulsa Garden Center at Woodward Park 2435 S. Peoria Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 www.tulsagardencenter.org The Tulsa Garden Center, located in the historic Snedden Mansion within Woodward Park at 2435 S. Peoria Ave., is a nonprofit organization whose mission is to serve as horticultural headquarters with diverse educational opportunities for our community to provide exceptional guest experiences. The Tulsa Garden Center fulfills this role by offering numerous lectures, classes, training, plant shows, and special events throughout the year, which are predominantly free for its Members. Additionally, over 20 affiliated organizations such as the Audubon Society, the Sierra Club, the Tulsa Rose Society, and the Tulsa Garden Club call Tulsa Garden Center home for their horticultural and environmental activities supplementing our extensive list of educational opportunities with even more events open the public. Tulsa Garden Center at Woodward Park will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for November. Please join us and make sure to bring a friend! Equality Business Alliance 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 19 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... ·. '~ /: ~:}(;!,_ ~~:~:~~~:: ~ ft 6 I6 .,J.!)J.f~.;: :J-j'JJJ ~6 ~6 : IndigiQueer: First Americans Museum ~· Friday, November 19, 9:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join IndigiQueer on November 19 for a trip to the First Americans Museum in Oklahoma City. We will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and take the OKEQ Equality Van to the museum. We will arrive back in Tulsa before 5 p.m. Reserve your spot by November 11 by contacting Kao. "IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement." – Vnokeckv. Contact Kao 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 20 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Every Fourth Thursday at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Neurodiversity First and Third Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 21 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. The group is open to people on the autism spectrum, people who have ADHD, anxiety, Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, as well as supportive friends and family. We want everyone to feel welcome and know that they have a home in this community. We meet twice a month to play games, make art, go on outings, chat, and connect with likeminded individuals in our community. For more information, or to join our next meeting, please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 22 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Sheena Kaur Grewal April 17, 1984 - October 26, 2021 Sheena's Obituary Oklahomans for Equality is devastated to hear of the report that Sheena Grewal, a valued member of our LGBTQ+ community, died on October 26, 2021. Sheena was a former President of the board of directors of OkEq and a longtime advocate, not only for the LGBTQ+ community but for social justice for all people. We mourn this tragic loss of a life taken much too quickly. Sheena leaves behind a loving family, treasured friends, and a community that will miss her deeply. Please keep Sheena's family, friends, and loved ones in your hearts and spirit, during this time of sadness. Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, December 1, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 23 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Click Here to Contact Facilitator Patient A - A Play by Lee Blessing Thursday, December 2 - Saturday, December 4 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 In honor of World AIDS Day, Echo Theatre Company is proud to present Lee Blessing’s PATIENT A, an exploration of the experience of Kimberly Bergalis, whose case marked the first known instance of HIV transmission from a healthcare worker to a patient. Issues of testing, discrimination, and personal responsibility are examined against the larger backdrop of the AIDS epidemic in America. Commissioned by the Bergalis family to explore daughter Kimberly’s case of contracting the AIDS virus, the playwright (Blessing) becomes part of the story as an essential observer. Kim’s encounters with Lee reflect their relationship in real life as well as the “playwright” and “character” in the play. A third character, Matthew, represents a composite of the thousands of gay men who have suffered in the AIDS epidemic. As the play recounts Kim’s case, spotlighting the media and political circuses surrounding it, we see all three characters struggle with the debate and with their innermost feelings about themselves and each other. The play is directed by Machele Miller Dill, director of Musical Theatre at Tulsa 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 24 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... University. Machele also serves on the advisory board for OkEq’s advisory board for the Lynn Riggs Theatre. L68T4+ PAI.ENT SVPPOI.T 61.0VP A Mt,NTULY ~t,VP Ft,~ PA~ENT'S WIT'U L6BT~+ ICll>S. LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, December 4, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 25 of 46 Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, December 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. # PassTheEqualityAct 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 26 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ----------People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act -- ----- - - Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. ~ I 1/lT;J A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 27 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... COMING SOON f ACEBOOK LIVE WITH SARA EVANS AND BRITTNEY HUDSON EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE OKEQ stands with the Hudson-Evans family against religious discrimination of LGBTQ+ families. Read their story here and look for our upcoming SPIRIT interview with Sara and Brittney. Facebook Page 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 28 of 46 . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... . . To view more work: www.sarahkstone.com "Sarah Stone is a photographer from New York with roots in Oklahoma and Missouri. She has worked as a commercial photographer for several years and is now starting a project documenting members of the LGBTQ+ family. The photographs would be for personal use and possibly displayed in an art setting at a later date. She is looking for all types of humans. Partial or slight nudity could be discussed, not required. Single humans and couples (including small groups of friends) are welcome. All ages, gender identities, and bodies are welcome and celebrated. Sarah welcomes any and all questions and wants to ensure the comfort of any participant. Models would get a hi-res digital file of several images of their choosing. All interested parties, please email or text to schedule a meeting. Email Sarah Here PARTICIPATE IN THE YOUTH AND YOUNG ADULT COVID-19 IMPACTS STUDY! Earn up to $45 for completing two online surveys, plus an additional $50 if you participate in an interview about you, your experiences during COVID-19, and your mental, physical, and emotional health. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 29 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... ELIGIBLITY ► AGES 14-24 ► LIVE IN THE USA U.S. territories welcome to participate! The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study Our partners at Evaluation, Data Integration, and Technical Assistance (EDIT) Program have a new exciting paid research opportunity. Please see their message below: Researchers at the EDIT team wanted to let you know about a new study we are starting. The Youth and Young Adult COVID-19 Impacts Study! The new study is for LGBTQ+ individuals ages 14-24. If that describes you, then please keep reading to learn more about the study. If that doesn’t describe you, then please share this announcement with any LGBTQ+ people you know! If you agree to participate, you’ll be asked to complete an online survey two times: once on the day, you enroll and once exactly six months after that. The survey will take about 45 minutes. How does it work? You’ll be asked questions about topics such as: · You · Your experiences during COVID-19 · Your mental, physical, and emotional health You will receive $30 for completing the first survey and $15 for completing the second survey. You will receive your payment in the form of a virtual gift card, which you can use anywhere online. We will email the gift card to you within two weeks of completing the survey. If you’re interested, we may also invite you to participate in an interview with us. If you agree to participate in an interview, you will receive an additional $50. If you’re interested in participating, please click on the link below. It will take 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 30 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... you to a page where you can book a time to speak to someone from our study team over the phone and enroll in the study. If you have any questions, you can email me back or e-mail the study team at YYAhealth@northwestern.edu. Youth and Young Adults COVID-19 Survey Screener City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 31 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Narq&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK X A D T HE C ITA DEL Sex and the Citadel Sex is entwined in religion, tradition, politics, economics. and culture, so it is the perfect lens through which to examine the complex social landscape of the Arab world. Filled with five years of groundbreaking research, This book gives us a unique and timely understanding of everyday lives in a part of the world that is changing before our eyes. INTIMAT E IN A IF HANG! G ARAB WORLD SHE REE EL FEKI AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT SHEREEN EL FEKI Shereen El Feki is a writer, broadcaster, and academic who started her professional life in medical science before going on to become an award-winning journalist for The Economist and a presenter on Al Jazeera English. She is former vice-chair of the U.N.'s Global Commission on HIV and Law, and a TED Global Fellow. She divides her time between London and Cairo. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 32 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... OKE , okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 33 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Th City of Tul a is committ d to ere t ng re p ctful nd professional work environment. I t on 0 I in ny 111 . City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 34 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 35 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • • • ---- • • <::) 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 36 of 46 for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 37 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and all teens under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma Ok'FO ODr./Ok'FO-MF Al TM-n INlr 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 38 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... OR CALL 918-938-6537! ---~ KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPON50REDH THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537 opt 1. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 39 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 40 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 41 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, November 18, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ' -- · -- Support Group for Transgender Teens Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- · -- Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. A first time interview is 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 42 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - . ---- Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, Equality Game Night where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for Support Group for Partners of Transgender People adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - . ---- sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 43 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. ideas, contacts, products and services, and also provided by H.O.P.E. Testing strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. www.okeq.org/eba ------- -- OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 44 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC lHIGIO.Gll<AJIU ~AHlllVPOUNDATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 45 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Office Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Dont Miss the LGBTQ+ Film Festival This Week! 46 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Dont-Miss-the-LGBTQ--Film-Fest... Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross William Vaughn Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:37 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ccf670b7445579eaf12933fcb64b206c.pdf 3aa4468b603ed1e70d2a252b15fa87ec PDF Text Text Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 1 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews November 15th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 2 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 3 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Congratulations to OKEQ staff member AND Tulsa Pride King Emeritus Shay Brewer ( AKA Scrappy Legacy) on winning Mr. Gay Oklahoma United States! We are so proud of you! TRANSGENDER 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 4 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... AWARENESS WEEK NOV.13-19 Each year between November 13 – 19, we participate in Transgender Awareness Week to help raise the visibility of transgender people and address issues members of the community face. We kicked off the week with our Transgender Resource Fair and will end the week with the Transgender Day of Remembrance. Transgender Day of Remembrance - TDoR Saturday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR) is an annual observance on November 20 that honors the memory of those whose lives were lost in acts of anti-transgender violence. We will hold a candlelight vigil as we read the names of those we have lost. This year Rachel Tudor, who sued Southeastern State University for wrongful termination because of her transgender identity, will be our keynote speaker. In addition, Board of Director member Dani Byrd and Board of Advisors member Liz Ortiz will also speak. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 5 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Twisted Arts Film Festival November 11, 12:00 p.m. - November 18, 11:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 Twisted Arts Film Festival’s first annual LGBTQ+ film festival is taking over Circle Cinema this fall, with a dazzling line-up of local stories (“The Sound of Identity”); indigenous stories (“Being Thunder”); a biopic of Fanny, a band David Bowie called “the finest rock bands of their time”; out of this world animation; and closing the festival with a drag-extravaganza documentary about RuPaul Season 1 winner Bebe Zahara Benet (“Being Bebe”). IN-PERSON EVENTS: Twisted Arts Film Festival will screen movies from November 11-14, 2021, at Circle Cinema. All screenings at Circle Cinema are free and open to the public, first-come, first seated. VIRTUAL SCREENINGS: Oklahoma residents can watch movies virtually from November 11-18, 2021. Virtual tickets are available for $10, or you can purchase a virtual all-access pass for $75. The twisted Arts Festival schedule of films and events is available online at the official Twisted Arts website. See Below: For More Information Click Here 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 6 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Fairy Tree 2021 The Fairy Tree is back! Every year we ask our constituents to donate gifts for people affected by HIV. You can sign up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by clicking the link below. Please confirm the gift number with a staff or volunteer before purchasing a gift. All wrapped gifts are due back by December 4th! Contact Alex sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ c) ~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 7 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... resumed. S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, November 16, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street tulsacari~ HEALTH INSURANCE II AI Ill! ATlnll C. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 8 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Tulsa, OK 74107 IIH V IUH I IUII U It e Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. ENROLLMENT • ATOKEQ EVERY TUES loAM - lPM • SYLVESTERHARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES •• Contact Sylvester I CONTACT SYLVESTER SYLVESTERH@TULSACARES.ORG 918.834.4194 H.O.P.E. Testing at the Center We have added another day to our testing schedule! We will now be able to offer H.I.V. testing every Tuesday from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. w ~ ssu s AR OS I I E _POR ~ T OYOU? 1 Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 9 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Monday and Wednesday 12:00 p.m - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Elissa Furlong is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. She is from upstate New York but attended Mississippi College School of Law, graduating at the top of her class. In addition to having worked for two private attorneys, Elissa has previously interned with the legal department of a United Nations agency. Ms. Furlong has also completed legal fellowships and externships in the areas of employment discrimination, workers' rights, civil rights, and LGBTQ+ legislation and advocacy. Elissa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-409-2115, or email her at elissa.furlong@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements pertaining to fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. Wednesday, December 15, 5:30 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Fair Housing presentation and Bingo with Legal Aid's Elissa Furlong. There will be Pizza and Prizes available for those in attendance. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 10 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... 621 East 4th Street-Tulsa - November 18-8:00 p.m. $20 Bi st ro Seatin g/ $ 15 Ge ne ra l Ad mi ss ion Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: My Life With Superman Thursday, November 18, 8:00 p.m. Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room welcomes Kaley Jobe and Clark Durland's show "My Life With Superman," a comedy cabaret about life with Clark's little sister. Click Here for Tickets Compas Conectando: Cafe y Concha Sunday, November 21, 10:00 a.m. - 11:30 a.m. Pancho Anaya 2420 E. Admiral Blvd. Tulsa, OK 74110 o;(~Q C01;J.P.:.\5J C01lfC{.:.\1100 Come learn more about how you can get involved with Oklahomans for Equality, and enjoy some Cafe and Concha with us at Pancho Anaya. Compas Conectando is a group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. Venga a aprender más sobre cómo puede involucrarse con Oklahoma para la Igualdad, y disfrutar de algunos cafés y Concha con nosotros en Pancho Anaya.Compas Conectando es un grupo de personas LGBTQ hispanas o latinx para conectarse acerca de la vida, la identidad y la cultura. Facebook Event Page Guided Meditation Every Sunday at 1:00 p.m. Every Monday at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 O□en Mind 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 11 of 46 Join us Sunday and Monday for some guided meditation. Every Monday, we will set our goals, and on Sunday, we will reflect on the week. We will go over daily affirmations and how to live with intention. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Life Mastery Consultant _ _ & Clinical Hypnosis Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" Open Through November Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery in Recognition of National Native American Heritage Month will feature 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 12 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" In a small Oklahoma town in 1964, an artist was born. Schellye Bryant could be found as young as four years old, hiding under her bed, pen in hand, forming the beginnings of her adult profession. She would later further her education in graphic design at Oklahoma State University. Her skillful techniques with acrylics show a depth of emotions ranging from deep brokenness to comforting euphoria. Schellye's talents extend to murals, sign creation, illustrations of all kinds, and caricatures, specializing in soulful portraits, bringing loved ones to life. She has been featured in numerous art shows held in Texas and was awarded the esteemed honor of Gold Bars for her advanced illustrations. It is with honor and humble gratitude that Schellye presents to you her two-part series. These powerful pieces will sensually capture the eye with compelling depth, showing the gravity of thought that will embrace your very soul as visual calmness is attained. - Schellye Bryant The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Monday, November 1st, with COVID measures in place for those Non-vaccinated. The Artist Reception is Thursday, November 4th, at 6:00 p.m. with the artist Schellye Bryant. The exhibit continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit www.okeq.org Artist Site: www.facebook.com/schellye CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE ART Visit The Art Gallery Site Click Here to See the Virtual Art Show A n11-r~1nr-\\. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 13 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... -~ .VU I ~IUC ' 'THE B ~ Outside the Box Monday, November 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 14 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Monday, November 22, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook Game Night Tuesday, November 16, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come out and enjoy a night of board games and fun with our Bi+ group. All are invited to participate. Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, November 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 15 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Contact Us E UALITY Business Alliance EBA Mixer Thursday, November 18, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Tulsa Garden Center at Woodward Park 2435 S. Peoria Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 www.tulsagardencenter.org The Tulsa Garden Center, located in the historic Snedden Mansion within Woodward Park at 2435 S. Peoria Ave., is a nonprofit organization whose mission is to serve as horticultural headquarters with diverse educational opportunities for our community to provide exceptional guest experiences. The Tulsa Garden Center fulfills this role by offering numerous lectures, classes, training, plant shows, and special events throughout the year, which are predominantly free for its Members. Additionally, over 20 affiliated organizations such as the Audubon Society, the Sierra Club, the Tulsa Rose Society, and the Tulsa Garden Club call Tulsa Garden Center home for their horticultural and environmental activities supplementing our extensive list of educational opportunities with even more events open the public. Tulsa Garden Center at Woodward Park will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for November. Please join us and make sure to bring a friend! Equality Business Alliance 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 16 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... ·. '~ /: ~:}(;!,_ ~~:~:~~~:: ~ ft 6 I6 .,J.!)J.f~.;: :J-j'JJJ ~6 ~6 : IndigiQueer: First Americans Museum ~· Friday, November 19, 9:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join IndigiQueer on November 19 for a trip to the First Americans Museum in Oklahoma City. We will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and take the OKEQ Equality Van to the museum. We will arrive back in Tulsa before 5 p.m. Reserve your spot by November 11 by contacting Kao. "IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement." – Vnokeckv. Contact Kao 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 17 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Every Fourth Thursday at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Neurodiversity First and Third Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 18 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. The group is open to people on the autism spectrum, people who have ADHD, anxiety, Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, as well as supportive friends and family. We want everyone to feel welcome and know that they have a home in this community. We meet twice a month to play games, make art, go on outings, chat, and connect with likeminded individuals in our community. For more information, or to join our next meeting, please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 19 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Sheena Kaur Grewal April 17, 1984 - October 26, 2021 Sheena's Obituary Oklahomans for Equality is devastated to hear of the report that Sheena Grewal, a valued member of our LGBTQ+ community, died on October 26, 2021. Sheena was a former President of the board of directors of OkEq and a longtime advocate, not only for the LGBTQ+ community but for social justice for all people. We mourn this tragic loss of a life taken much too quickly. Sheena leaves behind a loving family, treasured friends, and a community that will miss her deeply. Please keep Sheena's family, friends, and loved ones in your hearts and spirit, during this time of sadness. ~ QUEER ILAClt VOICES No,,ember fOtlt., 7pm Live-streamed from Oklahomans for Equali Face boo le page Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Mikeal Vaughn Past Facebook Live Event Join us for Queer Black Voices with Mikeal Vaughn. Mikeal is a Tulsa native, Founder, and Executive Director of the Urban Coders Guild. Urban Coders Guild's mission is to "provide greater computer science education, access, and opportunities to youth from historically underserved, underrepresented, otherwise under-resourced communities." Queer Black Voices is a monthly series that highlights Black Queer Oklahomans creating and giving them the space and opportunity to tell their stories and 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 20 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... journeys as Black Queer folx. Queer Black Voices will live stream every first Friday of the month from the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page. You can also check out our first season on Oklahomans for Equality's youtube channel at the link below. If you would like to share your story or learn more about Queer Black Voices, contact Kao Morris by clicking below: Contact Kao Click Here to Watch A Conversation with Mikeal Vaughn Click Here to Watch A Conversation with Dani Byrd YouTube Playlist Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, December 1, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 21 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Patient A - A Play by Lee Blessing Saturday, December 4, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 In honor of World AIDS Day, Echo Theatre Company is proud to present Lee Blessing’s PATIENT A, an exploration of the experience of Kimberly Bergalis, whose case marked the first known instance of HIV transmission from a healthcare worker to a patient. Issues of testing, discrimination, and personal responsibility are examined against the larger backdrop of the AIDS epidemic in America. Commissioned by the Bergalis family to explore daughter Kimberly’s case of contracting the AIDS virus, the playwright (Blessing) becomes part of the story as an essential observer. Kim’s encounters with Lee reflect their relationship in real life as well as the “playwright” and “character” in the play. A third character, Matthew, represents a composite of the thousands of gay men who have suffered in the AIDS epidemic. As the play recounts Kim’s case, spotlighting the media and political circuses surrounding it, we see all three characters struggle with the 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 22 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... debate and with their innermost feelings about themselves and each other. The play is directed by Machele Miller Dill, director of Musical Theatre at Tulsa University. Machele also serves on the advisory board for OkEq’s Lynn Riggs Theatre. Reception starts at 7:00 p.m. with a show starting at 8:00 p.m. Ticket link will be available soon. L68Tt.Q+ PAUNT SVl¥61.T 61.0VP ____ __ ...,_____ A MONTULY 6/tOVP Foe PAeEN1'S WITU L6BT~+ ICll>S. LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, December 4, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 23 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Council Oak Men's Chorale Concert: "Behold, a Star!" December 7, 9, 10, 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 Council Oak Men's Chorale will be performing on December 7th, 9th & 10th. It is called" Behold, a Star!" Tickets are for sale on the website www.counciloak.org. Go to "Tickets and Donations," show events, then Register on one of the three days. Seating is limited to 75 a night to meet Covid safety issues, and all audience members must wear a mask during the concert. So please don't wait to buy tickets. Click Here for Tickets 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 24 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, December 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, December 14, 5:30 p.m. • LEGALAID • ~ 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 25 of 46 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... SERVICES OF = -~~ OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone is (918) 295-9429. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 26 of 46 rntefu~ .Z, https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... ENDING THE HIV EPIDEMIC Equitable Access, Everyone's Voice "Access YOUR Voice, End HIV Stigma" Thursday, December 2nd Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Not everyone is vocal; however, you can Access Your Voice through writing, painting, and drawing to get your voice heard. Unfortunately, the stigma is still strong surrounding HIV/AIDS, preventing people from seeking accessible testing and treatment, though access to treatment can also be hard depending on where you're located. "Art has always been a central part of my being. When I was diagnosed with HIV, making my art became a great way to express how I felt about it." -HIV+ artist, Anonymous. Positive since 2008. "Art is so healing for me! Making art is necessary to cope and deal with day-to- 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 27 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... day stresses. Add in HIV and AIDS on top of that, and life becomes very challenging. Art helps me keep my sanity and balance in life." -HIV+ artist, local resident, Positive since 1993. "It's simply the fact that there are usually large organized walks, gatherings, and ceremonies for World AIDS Day, however with this pandemic going on worldwide, no one wants to risk the health and wellbeing of so many that already have an underlying health issue. So we thought this would be a great way to allow safe participation of all those wanting their voices heard in one place on this special day, just in a different way, with art." Paul McClure. The exhibit opens on Tuesday, December 1st, WORLD AIDS DAY. Hours of operation are 9:00 a.m. to 9:00 p.m. Monday through Friday and 12:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. Saturday and Sunday throughout the month. Art will be available for purchase, and 100% of the proceeds will benefit the local nonprofit A GRATEFUL DAY FOUNDATION, INC., a valuable local service for people living with HIV. You can take a virtual tour of the exhibit on the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page and Youtube channel. The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, with COVID measures for those not vaccinated. For more information, please visit www.gratefulday.org or www.okeq.org. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 28 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act --------People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act -- - - - - ----Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. lll?IT:1 A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO ni::rn1.11.1i::rT w1Tu nn ni::rnui::n i::nnu Tui::1n i:: A ITU 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 29 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... nL\..Vl'll'IL\,, I n 11 n vn nL\..V Y L ir-1 nVIYI I nLln I Ml In. COMING SOON f ACEBOOK LIVE WITH SARA EVANS AND BRITTNEY HUDSON EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE OKEQ stands with the Hudson-Evans family against religious discrimination of LGBTQ+ families. Read their story here and look for our upcoming SPIRIT interview with Sara and Brittney. Facebook Page 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 30 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... . . . Text: 573.823.8969 To view more work : www.sarahkstone.com "Sarah Stone is a photographer from New York with roots in Oklahoma and Missouri. She has worked as a commercial photographer for several years and is now starting a project documenting members of the LGBTQ+ family. The photographs would be for personal use and possibly displayed in an art setting at a later date. She is looking for all types of humans. Partial or slight nudity could be discussed, not required. Single humans and couples (including small groups of friends) are welcome. All ages, gender identities, and bodies are welcome and celebrated. Sarah welcomes any and all questions and wants to ensure the comfort of any participant. Models would get a hi-res digital file of several images of their choosing. All interested parties, please email or text to schedule a meeting. Email Sarah Here City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 31 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Steven Universe: The Tale of Steven A companion book to the series, The Tale of Steven tells the story of "Change Your Mind" in the same style as the New York Times bestselling The Answer. Featuring an unusual and thought-provoking interactive format, readers will follow the story of Pink Diamond's escape from Homeworld, Rose Quartz's life on Earth, and the creation of Steven universe, from multiple conflicting perspectives. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Rebecca Sugar is the creator of Steven Universe and Steven Universe Future and the director of Steven Universe: The Movie. She is an artist, composer, and director who is most recognized for her work on Adventure Time, another Cartoon etwork original series. REBECCA SUGAR 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 32 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... OKE 1 okeq. org/ donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 33 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... The City of ulsa is committed to c re pectful nd environment. n r on tion, on in ny City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 34 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 35 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • • • ---- • • <::) 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 36 of 46 for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 37 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and all teens under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma Ok'FO ODr./Ok'FO-MF Al TM-n INlr 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 38 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... OR CALL 918-938-6537! ---~ KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPON50REDH THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537 opt 1. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 39 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 40 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 41 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, November 18, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ' -- · -- Support Group for Transgender Teens Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- · -- Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. A first time interview is 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 42 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - . ---- Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, Equality Game Night where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for Support Group for Partners of Transgender People adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - . ---- sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 43 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. ideas, contacts, products and services, and also provided by H.O.P.E. Testing strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. www.okeq.org/eba ------- -- OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 44 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC lHIGIO.Gll<AJIU ~AHlllVPOUNDATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 45 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Board of Advisors Julie Chase 4/28/26, 3:37 PM �Transgender Day of Remembrance This Saturday 46 of 46 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Whitney Cipolla Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Jane Wiseman Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross William Vaughn Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:37 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7d39d13050fb68b0808a72ab5151f096.pdf a1c64963b5e0b77f4726ce81999eecfe PDF Text Text Thankful for Your Continued Support 1 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews November 22nd, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 2 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 3 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... rnteful .Z,n ~ticO>JrJL h t JIJOLce. I" n , , 1th 111 \II "Access YOUR Voice, End HIV Stigma" Thursday, December 2nd Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Not everyone is vocal; however, you can Access Your Voice through writing, painting, and drawing to get your voice heard. Unfortunately, the stigma is still strong surrounding HIV/AIDS, preventing people from seeking accessible testing and treatment, though access to treatment can also be hard depending on where you're located. "Art has always been a central part of my being. When I was diagnosed with HIV, making my art became a great way to express how I felt about it." -HIV+ artist, Anonymous. Positive since 2008. "Art is so healing for me! Making art is necessary to cope and deal with day-today stresses. Add in HIV and AIDS on top of that, and life becomes very 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 4 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... challenging. Art helps me keep my sanity and balance in life." -HIV+ artist, local resident, Positive since 1993. "It's simply the fact that there are usually large organized walks, gatherings, and ceremonies for World AIDS Day, however with this pandemic going on worldwide, no one wants to risk the health and wellbeing of so many that already have an underlying health issue. So we thought this would be a great way to allow safe participation of all those wanting their voices heard in one place on this special day, just in a different way, with art." Paul McClure. The exhibit opens on Tuesday, December 1st, WORLD AIDS DAY. Hours of operation are 9:00 a.m. to 9:00 p.m. Monday through Friday and 12:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. Saturday and Sunday throughout the month. Art will be available for purchase, and 100% of the proceeds will benefit the local nonprofit A GRATEFUL DAY FOUNDATION, INC., a valuable local service for people living with HIV. You can take a virtual tour of the exhibit on the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page and Youtube channel. The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, with COVID measures for those not vaccinated. For more information, please visit www.gratefulday.org or www.okeq.org. Patient A - A Play by Lee Blessing Saturday, December 4, 7:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 5 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 In honor of World AIDS Day, Echo Theatre Company is proud to present Lee Blessing’s PATIENT A, an exploration of the experience of Kimberly Bergalis, whose case marked the first known instance of HIV transmission from a healthcare worker to a patient. Issues of testing, discrimination, and personal responsibility are examined against the larger backdrop of the AIDS epidemic in America. Commissioned by the Bergalis family to explore daughter Kimberly’s case of contracting the AIDS virus, the playwright (Blessing) becomes part of the story as an essential observer. Kim’s encounters with Lee reflect their relationship in real life as well as the “playwright” and “character” in the play. A third character, Matthew, represents a composite of the thousands of gay men who have suffered in the AIDS epidemic. As the play recounts Kim’s case, spotlighting the media and political circuses surrounding it, we see all three characters struggle with the debate and with their innermost feelings about themselves and each other. The play is directed by Machele Miller Dill, director of Musical Theatre at Tulsa University. Machele also serves on the advisory board for OkEq’s Lynn Riggs Theatre. Reception starts at 7:00 p.m. with a show starting at 8:00 p.m. Buy Your Tickets Here sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ ~-, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 6 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, November 23, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74107 Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION 6 t e ENROLLMENT • AT OKEO EVERY TUES IOAM - !PM • I SYLVESTER HARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES ....... 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 7 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... •• Contact Sylvester CONTACT SYLVESTER SYLVESTERH@TULSACARES.ORG 918.834A194 H.O.P.E. Testing at the Center We have added another day to our testing schedule! We will now be able to offer H.I.V. testing every Tuesday from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. w ~ OS SSUESAR POR 'A T O YOU? I Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Monday and Wednesday 12:00 p.m - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 8 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Tulsa, OK 74120 Elissa Furlong is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. She is from upstate New York but attended Mississippi College School of Law, graduating at the top of her class. In addition to having worked for two private attorneys, Elissa has previously interned with the legal department of a United Nations agency. Ms. Furlong has also completed legal fellowships and externships in the areas of employment discrimination, workers' rights, civil rights, and LGBTQ+ legislation and advocacy. Elissa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-409-2115, or email her at elissa.furlong@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements pertaining to fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. Wednesday, December 15, 5:30 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Fair Housing presentation and Bingo with Legal Aid's Elissa Furlong. There will be Pizza and Prizes available for those in attendance. Guided Meditation Every Sunday at 1:00 p.m. Every Monday at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us Sunday and Monday for some guided meditation. Every Monday, we will set our goals, and on Sunday, we will reflect on the week. We will go over daily affirmations and how to live with intention. 0 en Mind Dream Builder Life Mastery Consultant _ _ & Clinical Hypnosis 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 9 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... OKEQ Game Night Tuesday, November 30, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play with others? Then Game Night is for you! Join us on the last Tuesday of every month from 5:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. ~ Network 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 10 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... December Happy Hour & Sushi Rolling Class Wednesday, December 1, 5:30 p.m. Bar 46 107 N. Boulder Ave. Tulsa, OK 74103 LGBTQ+ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included) and we hope some of you will join us! This month's happy hour is going to be a treat! We will have a very special guest teaching us how to roll sushi. The class portion will start at 6:00 PM. There will be 15 spots available (don't worry, couples, you can share a spot!) and they will be first come, first served. Please message us if you have questions! Contact the LGBTQ Women's Network Brought To You Bi the Letter B Monday, December 6, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 11 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, December 15, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 12 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Third Thursday in December Thursday, December 16, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come out and enjoy Awkward Monologue with OKEQ and Blackjack Rewrite Company for an evening of laughs and awkwardness. Click below for tickets. Click Here for Tickets Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Every Fourth Thursday at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 13 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Neurodiversity First and Third Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. The group is open to people on the autism spectrum, people who have ADHD, anxiety, Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, as well as supportive friends and family. We want everyone to feel welcome and know that they have a home in this community. We meet twice a month to play games, make art, go on outings, chat, and connect with likeminded individuals in our community. For more information, or to join our next meeting, please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 14 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Contact Anna for more Information In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Phillip Long September 25, 1949 - November 18, 2021 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 15 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Sheena Kaur Grewal April 17, 1984 - October 26, 2021 Sheena's Obituary Oklahomans for Equality is devastated to hear of the report that Sheena Grewal, a valued member of our LGBTQ+ community, died on October 26, 2021. Sheena was a former President of the board of directors of OkEq and a longtime advocate, not only for the LGBTQ+ community but for social justice for all people. We mourn this tragic loss of a life taken much too quickly. Sheena leaves behind a loving family, treasured friends, and a community that will miss her deeply. Please keep Sheena's family, friends, and loved ones in your hearts and spirit, during this time of sadness. ' I 4~,.j,v~.,-·,, , 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 16 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" Open Through November Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery in Recognition of National Native American Heritage Month will feature Schellye Bryant's "Painting with Passion" In a small Oklahoma town in 1964, an artist was born. Schellye Bryant could be found as young as four years old, hiding under her bed, pen in hand, forming the beginnings of her adult profession. She would later further her education in graphic design at Oklahoma State University. Her skillful techniques with acrylics show a depth of emotions ranging from deep brokenness to comforting euphoria. Schellye's talents extend to murals, sign creation, illustrations of all kinds, and caricatures, specializing in soulful portraits, bringing loved ones to life. She has been featured in numerous art shows held in Texas and was awarded the esteemed honor of Gold Bars for her advanced illustrations. It is with honor and humble gratitude that Schellye presents to you her two-part series. These powerful pieces will sensually capture the eye with compelling depth, showing the gravity of thought that will embrace your very soul as visual calmness is attained. - Schellye Bryant The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Monday, November 1st, with COVID measures in place for those Non-vaccinated. The Artist Reception is Thursday, November 4th, at 6:00 p.m. with the artist Schellye Bryant. The exhibit continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit www.okeq.org Artist Site: www.facebook.com/schellye Visit The Art Gallery Site CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE ART 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 17 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Click Here to See the Virtual Art Show ~ QUEER ILACK VOICES llo.,ember fOtlt, 7pm Live-streamed from Oklahomans for EqualitJ Faceboolc page Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Mikeal Vaughn Past Facebook Live Event Join us for Queer Black Voices with Mikeal Vaughn. Mikeal is a Tulsa native, Founder, and Executive Director of the Urban Coders Guild. Urban Coders Guild's mission is to "provide greater computer science education, access, and opportunities to youth from historically underserved, underrepresented, otherwise under-resourced communities." Queer Black Voices is a monthly series that highlights Black Queer Oklahomans creating and giving them the space and opportunity to tell their stories and journeys as Black Queer folx. Queer Black Voices will live stream every first Friday of the month from the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page. You can also check out our first season on Oklahomans for Equality's youtube channel at the link below. If you would like to share your story or learn more about Queer Black Voices, contact Kao Morris by clicking below: Contact Kao Click Here to Watch A Conversation with Mikeal Vaughn 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 18 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Click Here to Watch A Conversation with Dani Byrd YouTube Playlist Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, December 1, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 19 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... L p1,dJl1" ,svHt>'--r 61,.(:>VP ________ A ,-tt,,rrM~Y 6'.f;>VP Fl>t. pAl.fJl1'S Wl'T'M ~6~-r~+ 1(1 E>S'. (:}J PFLAG LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, December 4, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 20 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... December 7th, 9th, & 10th 8:00pm Seating is limited to 75 attendees each night Purchase tickets online at Counciloak.org Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Uust south of Braums) Council Oak Men's Chorale Concert: "Behold, a Star!" December 7, 9, 10, 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 Council Oak Men's Chorale will be performing on December 7th, 9th & 10th. It is called" Behold, a Star!" Tickets are for sale on the website www.counciloak.org. Go to "Tickets and Donations," show events, then Register on one of the three days. Seating is limited to 75 a night to meet Covid safety issues, and all audience members must wear a mask during the concert. So please don't wait to buy tickets. Click Here for Tickets Payton Law Law Fi rm s ~~~-----------4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 21 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, December 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 22 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, December 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGAL AID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. 0KEQ Fa La La Ball December 18, 6:30-10:00 p.m . Dennis R. Neill E9uality Center Fa La La Ball Saturday, December 18, 6:30 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 23 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Join OKEQ at the Annual Fa La La Ball, where we don our gay apparel and celebrate all the holidays! This year we will have a family party hosted by Alphabet Soup, OKEQ's youth group. The family party will have a hot cocoa bar, live music, games, and food! It is a family event, so bring everyone! Scrappy Legacy, King of Tulsa Pride Emeritus, will be the EmCee along with Robin Hearts, our youth EmCee! The Lynn Riggs Theatre will host an event for those 21+. A cash bar will be provided. There will be performances by drag artists and other musicians as well! DJ Dec will be your DJ! Admission for youth is free. Admission for those over 18 is one of the following: Canned food item Board games Child's Toys Pet Food ~· "' .OUTSIDE THEB ~ .. f.ve.rJ 3rd MoncltlJ of fhe. Monfh tlf 1pm 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 24 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Outside the Box Monday, December 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 25 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act - - - - - People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ------Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 26 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK You Can't Be Serious by Kai Penn Penn's book, is a serie of funny, consequential, awkward, and ridiculous stories from Kai Penn's idiosyncratic life. It's about being the grandson of Gandhian freedom fighter , and the son of immigrant parents: people who came to this country with very little and went very far- and whose vision of the American dream probably never included their son sliding off an oiled-up naked woman in the raunchy Ryan Reynolds movie van Wilder...or getting a phone call from Air Force One as Kai flew with the country's first Black president. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Kai Penn- Kai Penn has played leading roles in some of the Dtll ll world's most-watched television shows, including How I Met Your Mother, 24, Designated Survivor, House, and more. Kai has worked at the very highest levels of politics, as an Associate Director of the White House Office of Public Engagement. where he was President Obama's Liaison to Young Americans, Asian Americans and Pacific Islanders, and the Arts communities in America. He was born and r~i corl in 1\Tou, Torcou 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 27 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... I\IIL f L 1111 OKE , okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 28 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... h f ulsa is committed r p ctful nd e v1ronment. on I n in n City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 29 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 30 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • • • ---- • • <::) 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. PARENTS OF L08TQ2SIA• YOUTH 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 31 of 41 Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 32 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPOHSOIIED BY Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our THEGEOAGEkAISfR FAMILY FOUNDATIOl<I 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 33 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537 opt 1. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 34 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 35 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for Virtual Thursday, December 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 36 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- - - - Support Group for Parents of Transgender People \. i ~• !1 IT f ' .!· \/,r \ "', f\ m~ , ' 1111' I ~ o ,- ----u.ll:JJ.t:J ~ , I ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. ~, .. ~ Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- - - - 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. --- - --- A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. providing fun group activities, 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 37 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- ---- SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education , Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ---- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 38 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 39 of 41 Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONsouon THIOEO•GIUIIH , ... MILVPOUNO.loTIOtl Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 40 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross William Vaughn Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 4/28/26, 3:38 PM �Thankful for Your Continued Support 41 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thankful-for-Your-Continued-Sup... Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:38 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a99f5dce1377b3922d5bfce80aa4b8c4.pdf fdd2e7e68efbf6bda36422e5dcbdce18 PDF Text Text World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 1 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews November 29th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 2 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Please Welcome the Newest Member of our Board of Directors, Elizabeth Ortiz! Pride Street Signs Vandalized We are saddened to report that two of the Pride Street signs have been vandalized. Our staff tried to remove the graffiti, but the signs are permanently damaged. This is an act of intimidation and an attempt to scare us out of being who we are. We have fought for too long to be able to call this "Pride Street," and we will not back down. We have reported this to the City of Tulsa and will continue 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 3 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... to monitor these intersections for continued vandalism. Donate Here to Support the Sign Repair Gl ~ ING TUESDAY Giving Tuesday is November 30, and you have the chance to join people around the world in supporting causes close to your heart. This Giving Tuesday, help us give the gift of empowerment and encouragement to the LGBTQ+ community of Tulsa. Your donation will help establish OkEq chapters in small towns across Oklahoma. This gift will help sustain vital services that encourage LGBTQ+ youth navigating school, older adults who have been forgotten by our community, and those just coming out in these difficult times. Your support will strengthen our advocacy programs that encourage elected officials to push friendly policy changes and encourage companies to be more inclusive and supportive of the community. Donate Here 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 4 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 5 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... •• rAteful .Z, a.tic:»lrJI. "Access YOUR Voice, End HIV Stigma" Thursday, December 2nd Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Not everyone is vocal; however, you can Access Your Voice through writing, painting, and drawing to get your voice heard. Unfortunately, the stigma is still strong surrounding HIV/AIDS, preventing people from seeking accessible testing and treatment, though access to treatment can also be hard depending on where you're located. "Art has always been a central part of my being. When I was diagnosed with HIV, making my art became a great way to express how I felt about it." -HIV+ artist, Anonymous. Positive since 2008. "Art is so healing for me! Making art is necessary to cope and deal with day-today stresses. Add in HIV and AIDS on top of that, and life becomes very challenging. Art helps me keep my sanity and balance in life." -HIV+ artist, local resident, Positive since 1993. "It's simply the fact that there are usually large organized walks, gatherings, and ceremonies for World AIDS Day, however with this pandemic going on worldwide, no one wants to risk the health and wellbeing of so many that already have an underlying health issue. So we thought this would be a great way to allow safe participation of all those wanting their voices heard in one place on this special day, just in a different way, with art." Paul McClure. The exhibit opens on Tuesday, December 1st, WORLD AIDS DAY. Hours of operation are 9:00 a.m. to 9:00 p.m. Monday through Friday and 12:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. Saturday and Sunday throughout the month. Art will be available for purchase, and 100% of the proceeds will benefit the local nonprofit A GRATEFUL DAY FOUNDATION, INC., a valuable local service for people living with HIV. You can take a virtual tour of the exhibit on the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page and Youtube channel. The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, with COVID measures for those not vaccinated. 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 6 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... For more information, please visit www.gratefulday.org or www.okeq.org. Patient A - A Play by Lee Blessing Saturday, December 4, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 In honor of World AIDS Day, Echo Theatre Company is proud to present Lee Blessing’s PATIENT A, an exploration of the experience of Kimberly Bergalis, whose case marked the first known instance of HIV transmission from a healthcare worker to a patient. Issues of testing, discrimination, and personal responsibility are examined against the larger backdrop of the AIDS epidemic in America. Commissioned by the Bergalis family to explore daughter Kimberly’s case of contracting the AIDS virus, the playwright (Blessing) becomes part of the story as an essential observer. Kim’s encounters with Lee reflect their relationship in real life as well as the “playwright” and “character” in the play. A third character, Matthew, represents a composite of the thousands of gay men who have suffered in the AIDS epidemic. As the play recounts Kim’s case, spotlighting the media and political circuses surrounding it, we see all three characters struggle with the debate and with their innermost feelings about themselves and each other. The play is directed by Machele Miller Dill, director of Musical Theatre at Tulsa University. Machele also serves on the advisory board for OkEq’s Lynn Riggs 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 7 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Theatre. Reception starts at 7:00 p.m. with a show starting at 8:00 p.m. Buy Your Tickets Here SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. SAGE Meeting 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 8 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Tuesday, November 30, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. SAGE Holiday Light Tour Friday, December 17, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa, our program for LGBTQ older adults, will have their annual holiday light tour. We will meet at the Equality Center at 5:00 p.m., and then the Equality Van will take a holiday light tour of Tulsa County. Please bring money as we will be stopping for dinner. Restaurant to be determined. RSVP to toby.jenkins@okeq.org and put in the subject line Holiday Light Tour. SAGE Holiday Party Tuesday, December 21, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for a Holiday Celebration with SAGE Tulsa! We will have a holiday meal catered by TWAFAB Catering. 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 9 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... December 7th, 9th, & 10th 8:00pm Seating is limited to 75 attendees each night Purchase tickets online at Counciloak.org Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Uust south of Braums) Council Oak Men's Chorale Concert: "Behold, a Star!" December 7, 9, 10, 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 Council Oak Men's Chorale will be performing on December 7th, 9th & 10th. It is called "Behold, a Star!" Tickets are for sale on the website www.counciloak.org. Go to "Tickets and Donations," show events, then Register on one of the three days. Seating is limited to 75 a night to meet Covid safety issues, and all audience members must wear a mask during the concert. So please don't wait to buy tickets. Click Here for Tickets I OKEQ Game Night 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 10 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Tuesday, November 30, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play with others? Then Game Night is for you! Join us on the last Tuesday of every month from 5:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74107 Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. Contact Sylvester tulsacari~ HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION 6 t e ENROLLMENT • AT OKEO EVERY TUES lOAM - lPM • I SYLVESTER HARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES •• CONTACT SYLVESTER SYLVESTERH@TULSACARES.ORG 918.834.4194 H.O.P.E. Testing at the Center We have added another day to our testing schedule! We will now be able to offer H.I.V. testing every Tuesday from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. W ~ SSUESARE ' E OS POR 'A T O YOU? 1 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 11 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Monday and Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Elissa Furlong is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. She is from upstate New York but attended Mississippi College School of Law, graduating at the top of her class. In addition to having worked for two private attorneys, Elissa has previously interned with the legal department of a United Nations agency. Ms. Furlong has also completed legal fellowships and externships in the areas of employment discrimination, workers' rights, civil rights, and LGBTQ+ legislation and advocacy. Elissa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-409-2115, or email her at elissa.furlong@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements pertaining to fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. Wednesday, December 15, 5:30 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Fair Housing presentation and Bingo with Legal Aid's Elissa Furlong. There will be Pizza and Prizes available for those in attendance. 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 12 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Guided Meditation Every Sunday at 1:00 p.m. Every Monday at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us Sunday and Monday for some guided meditation. Every Monday, we will set our goals, and on Sunday, we will reflect on the week. We will go over daily affirmations and how to live with intention. 0 en Mind Dream Builder Life Mastery Consultant _ _ & Clinical Hypnosis ~ Network December Happy Hour & Sushi Rolling Class Wednesday, December 1, 5:30 p.m. Bar 46 107 N. Boulder Ave. Tulsa, OK 74103 LGBTQ+ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included) and we hope some of you will join us! This month's happy hour is going to be a treat! We will have a very special guest teaching us how to roll sushi. The class portion will start at 6:00 PM. There will be 15 spots available (don't worry, couples, you can share a spot!) and they will be first come, first served. Please message us if you have questions! Contact the LGBTQ Women's Network 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 13 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Monday, December 6, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, December 15, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Post-Op Support Group ,.. ,.,..~.. ..,.~"' ~ ~ 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 14 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us Third Thursday in December Thursday, December 16, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Ever wonder what other people are thinking? Ever wonder what YOU are thinking? Blackjack Theatre unleashes that inner weirdo, so let’s wave our freak flag proudly! Hosted by Tulsa theatre favorite, Nick Caines. Click below for tickets. Click Here for Tickets 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 15 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Every Fourth Thursday at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center I• L ____ .. • • 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 16 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Neurodiversity First and Third Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. The group is open to people on the autism spectrum, people who have ADHD, anxiety, Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, as well as supportive friends and family. We want everyone to feel welcome and know that they have a home in this community. We meet twice a month to play games, make art, go on outings, chat, and connect with likeminded individuals in our community. For more information, or to join our next meeting, please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 17 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Clinton Hight November 24, 2021 Joshua Breshears March 19, 1994 - November 19, 2021 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 18 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Phillip Long September 25, 1949 - November 18, 2021 Live-streamed from Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Ahmyah Kanniainen Friday, December 3, 7:00 p.m. Facebook Live Join us for Queer Black Voices with Ahmyah Kanniainen. Queer Black Voices is a monthly series that highlights Black Queer Oklahomans creating and giving them the space and opportunity to tell their stories and journeys as Black Queer folx. Queer Black Voices will live stream every first Friday of the month from the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page. You can also check out our first season on Oklahomans for Equality's youtube channel at the link below. If you would like to share your story or learn more about Queer Black Voices, contact 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 19 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Kao Morris. For information about this event contact Donovid Sekulits. Facebook Page Contact Kao Contact Donovid YouTube Playlist Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, December 1, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 20 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Click Here to Contact Facilitator L68Tt.Q+ PAUNT SVPPOI.T 61.0VP ____ A Mt,NTULY 6/tt,VP Ft,e PAeENrS WITU L6BT~+ ICll>S. LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, December 4, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 21 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, December 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Lawyer in the Center 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 22 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Tuesday, December 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 L~liAL J-l.lU SERVICES OF ~h = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office ----phone is (918) 295-9429. 0KEQ Fa La La Ball December 18, 6:30-10:00 p.m . Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Fa La La Ball Saturday, December 18, 6:30 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ at the Annual Fa La La Ball, where we don our gay apparel and celebrate all the holidays! 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 23 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... This year we will have a family party hosted by Alphabet Soup, OKEQ's youth group. The family party will have a hot cocoa bar, live music, games, and food! It is a family event, so bring everyone! Scrappy Legacy, King of Tulsa Pride Emeritus, will be the EmCee along with Robin Hearts, our youth EmCee! The Lynn Riggs Theatre will host an event for those 21+. A cash bar will be provided. There will be performances by drag artists and other musicians as well! DJ Dec will be your DJ! Admission for youth is free. Admission for those over 18 is one of the following: Canned food item Board games Child's Toys Pet Food ~· "' .OUTSIDE THEB ~ .. f.ve.rJ 3rd MoncltlJ of fhe. Monfh tlf 1pm 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 24 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Outside the Box Monday, December 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 25 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act - - - - - People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act ------Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 26 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program Na~& McDona ainbov, Library 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 27 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... BOOK OF THE WEEK After Francesco by Brian Malloy Two years after his partner, Francesco, died, twentyeight-year-old Kevin Doyle is dusting off his one good suit jacket for yet another funeral, yet another loss in their close-knit group. They had all been young, beautiful, and living the best days of their lives. though they didn't know it. That was before New York City began to feel like a war zone, its horrors somehow invisible, and ignored by the rest of the world. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Brian Malloy is the author of The Year of Ice, Brendan Wolf, and Twelve Long Months. His books have been a BookSense pick and a ew York Times new and notable title. They have won the Minnesota Book Award and the American Library Association's Alex Award. BRIAN MALLOY OKE okeq.org/donate _...,...,..... l"ll ■ IJIIIIIT 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 28 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 29 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Th City of Tulsa 1s committed to ere t ng re pectful nd professional work environment. l t on ro n in ny rn I City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 30 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 31 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... the button below to schedule. Lets Talk C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 32 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Virtual 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 33 of 38 Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Thursday, December 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 34 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - . ---- Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, Equality Game Night where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - . ---- SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 35 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------ -- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 36 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPOIISORIOay THIGIOIIGIUJHII f .. MILYfOUNOA.TION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 37 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Board of Advisors 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �World AIDS Day December 1st, 2021 38 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st-... Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross William Vaughn Monique Washington Visit Our Website Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:39 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9a43cbab312afa448b9a9e79c12f4ca5.pdf 3675b86ceab5395030c25c121c585273 PDF Text Text Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 1 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews December 6th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree! Thank You! (l 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 2 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... Thanks to your support we were able to gift presents to 54 people! You all have made the holidays happier for a lot of people! All gifts go to Tulsa Cares to support people living with HIV. 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 3 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... rnteful .Z,n - ~ lr:11.. ][ lr:11..C:. l\n•,1thlll \II "Access YOUR Voice, End HIV Stigma" Thursday, December 9 at 6:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Not everyone is vocal; however, you can Access Your Voice through writing, painting, and drawing to get your voice heard. Unfortunately, the stigma is still strong surrounding HIV/AIDS, preventing people from seeking accessible testing and treatment, though access to treatment can also be hard depending on 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 4 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... where you're located. "Art has always been a central part of my being. When I was diagnosed with HIV, making my art became a great way to express how I felt about it." -HIV+ artist, Anonymous. Positive since 2008. "Art is so healing for me! Making art is necessary to cope and deal with day-today stresses. Add in HIV and AIDS on top of that, and life becomes very challenging. Art helps me keep my sanity and balance in life." -HIV+ artist, local resident, Positive since 1993. "It's simply the fact that there are usually large organized walks, gatherings, and ceremonies for World AIDS Day, however with this pandemic going on worldwide, no one wants to risk the health and wellbeing of so many that already have an underlying health issue. So we thought this would be a great way to allow safe participation of all those wanting their voices heard in one place on this special day, just in a different way, with art." Paul McClure. The exhibit opens on Tuesday, December 1st, WORLD AIDS DAY. Hours of operation are 9:00 a.m. to 9:00 p.m. Monday through Friday and 12:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. Saturday and Sunday throughout the month. Art will be available for purchase, and 100% of the proceeds will benefit the local nonprofit A GRATEFUL DAY FOUNDATION, INC., a valuable local service for people living with HIV. You can take a virtual tour of the exhibit on the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page and Youtube channel. The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, with COVID measures for those not vaccinated. For more information, please visit www.gratefulday.org or www.okeq.org. Visit The Art Gallery Site CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE ART Pride Street Signs Vandalized We are saddened to report that two of the Pride Street signs have been vandalized. Our staff tried to remove the graffiti, but the signs are permanently damaged. This is an act of intimidation and an attempt to scare us out of being who we are. We have fought for too long to be able to call this "Pride Street," and we will not back down. We have reported this to the City of Tulsa and will continue to monitor these intersections for continued vandalism. 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 5 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... Donate Here to Support the Sign Repair is o id y Se o 1 I I • ♦ ◊ 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 6 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... Kendra Scott Gives Back to Oklahomans for Equality Online December 10 - 11 In-Store December 10, 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Tulsa Woodland Hills Mall 7021 S. Memorial Dr. Tulsa, OK 74133 Shop in-store or online to support Oklahomans for Equality. If Shopping in-store, be sure to mention Oklahomans for Equality at checkout. If shopping online, be sure to use code GIVEBACK-BDYNW in the coupon code box at checkout! Click Here to Visit The Kendra Scott Online Store 0KEQ Fa La La Ball December 18, 6:30-10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Fa La La Ball Saturday, December 18, 6:30 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 7 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ at the Annual Fa La La Ball, where we don our gay apparel and celebrate all the holidays! This year we will have a family party hosted by Alphabet Soup, OKEQ's youth group. The family party will have a hot cocoa bar, live music, games, and food! It is a family event, so bring everyone! Scrappy Legacy, King of Tulsa Pride Emeritus, will be the EmCee along with Robin Hearts, our youth EmCee! The Lynn Riggs Theatre will host an event for those 21+. A cash bar will be provided. There will be performances by drag artists and other musicians as well! DJ Dec will be your DJ! Admission for youth is free. Admission for those over 18 is one of the following: Canned food item Board games Child's Toys Pet Food sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ ~~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 8 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... SAGE Meeting Tuesday, December 7, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. SAGE Holiday Light Tour Friday, December 17, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa, our program for LGBTQ older adults, will have their annual holiday light tour. We will meet at the Equality Center at 5:00 p.m., and then the Equality Van will take a holiday light tour of Tulsa County. Please bring money as we will be stopping for dinner. Restaurant to be determined. RSVP to toby.jenkins@okeq.org and put in the subject line Holiday Light Tour. SAGE Holiday Party Tuesday, December 21, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for a Holiday Celebration with SAGE Tulsa! We will have a holiday meal catered by TWAFAB Catering. 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 9 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... Third Thursday in December Thursday, December 16, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Ever wonder what other people are thinking? Ever wonder what YOU are thinking? Blackjack Theatre unleashes that inner weirdo, so let’s wave our freak flag proudly! Hosted by Tulsa theatre favorite, Nick Caines. Click below for tickets. Click Here for Tickets 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 10 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... December 7th, 9th, & 10th 8:00pm Seating is limited to 75 attendees each night Purchase tickets online at Counciloak.org Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Uust south of Braums) Council Oak Men's Chorale Concert: "Behold, a Star!" December 7, 9, 10, 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 The silence has been deafening, but after almost 2 years, Council Oak Mens Chorale is back with Holiday concerts scheduled in early December! Council Oak Men's Chorale will be performing on December 7th, 9th & 10th. Tickets are for sale on the website www.counciloak.org. Go to "Tickets and Donations," show events, then Register on one of the three days. Seating is limited to 75 a night to meet Covid safety issues, and all audience members must wear a mask during the concert. So please don't wait to buy tickets. Click Here for Tickets Live-streamed from Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 11 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Ahmyah Kanniainen Rescheduled to Friday, December 10, 7:00 p.m. Facebook Live Join us for Queer Black Voices with Ahmyah Kanniainen. Queer Black Voices is a monthly series that highlights Black Queer Oklahomans creating and giving them the space and opportunity to tell their stories and journeys as Black Queer folx. Queer Black Voices will live stream every first Friday of the month from the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page. You can also check out our first season on Oklahomans for Equality's youtube channel at the link below. If you would like to share your story or learn more about Queer Black Voices, contact Kao Morris. For information about this event contact Donovid Sekulits. Facebook Page Contact Kao Contact Donovid QBV YouTube Playlist Shop for the Holidays with , amazonsmile · 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 12 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... ;;, You shop. Amazon gives. ___ Now Supporting: Oklahomans for Equality Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74107 Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. Contact Sylvester tulsacari~ HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION 6 t e ENROLLMENT • • ATOKEQ [VERY TUES lOAM - lPM I SYLVESTERHARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES •• 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 13 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... H.O.P.E. Testing at the Center We have added another day to our testing schedule! We will now be able to offer H.I.V. testing every Tuesday from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. W /.. SSUESAR '1 MOS POR 'A T O YOU? Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Monday and Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 14 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Elissa Furlong is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. She is from upstate New York but attended Mississippi College School of Law, graduating at the top of her class. In addition to having worked for two private attorneys, Elissa has previously interned with the legal department of a United Nations agency. Ms. Furlong has also completed legal fellowships and externships in the areas of employment discrimination, workers' rights, civil rights, and LGBTQ+ legislation and advocacy. Elissa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-409-2115, or email her at elissa.furlong@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements pertaining to fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. Wednesday, December 15, 5:30 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Fair Housing presentation and Bingo with Legal Aid's Elissa Furlong. There will be Pizza and Prizes available for those in attendance. Guided Meditation Every Sunday at 1:00 p.m. Every Monday at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us Sunday and Monday for some guided meditation. Every Monday, we will set our goals, and on Sunday, we will reflect on the week. We will go over daily affirmations and how to live with intention. 0 en Mind Dream Builder _ Life Mastery Consultant & Clinical Hypnosis 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 15 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Monday, December 6 and 20, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, December 15, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 16 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Neurodiversity First and Third Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. The group is open to people on the autism spectrum, people who have 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 17 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... ADHD, anxiety, Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, as well as supportive friends and family. We want everyone to feel welcome and know that they have a home in this community. We meet twice a month to play games, make art, go on outings, chat, and connect with likeminded individuals in our community. For more information, or to join our next meeting, please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, December 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGAL AID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 18 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... -- • .OUTSIDE ·. THEB ~ Outside the Box Monday, December 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 19 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... Clinton Hight November 24, 2021 Joshua Breshears March 19, 1994 - November 19, 2021 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 20 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... Phillip Long September 25, 1949 - November 18, 2021 I OKEQ Game Night Tuesday, December 28, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play with others? Then Game Night is for you! Join us on the last Tuesday of every month from 5:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 21 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Every Fourth Thursday at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. c..68-r•• p1,dJ(r StJHO'--r 61,.(,VP ________ ~ .. ..ru1_V_ ,At>VP Fl>'4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 22 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... (:)J _ PFLAG LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, January 1, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. January Happy Hour Wednesday, January 5, 5:30 p.m. Location to be Announced LGBTQ+ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included) and we hope some of you will join us! Contact the LGBTQ Women's Network 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 23 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... I GOT M COUR NOW WHA Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, January 5, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator Payton Law ------~-__.~ •• r: - - - - - - - - -~ - - - - - - . - . ; a 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 24 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, January 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. # PassTheEquallty 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 25 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! TULSA RESPONDS To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. .~ EMERGENCY RENTAL 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 26 of 39 lyf https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... ASSISTANCE PROGRAM City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program Narq&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK The 2000s Made Me Gay by Grace Perry Today's gay youth have dozens of queer peer heroes, both fictional and real, but former gay teenager Grace Perry did not ave that luxury. Instead, she had to search for queerness in the (largely straight) teen cultural phenomena the aughts had to offer: in Lindsay Lohan's fall from grace. Gossip Girl. Katy Perry's "I Kissed A Girl." country-era Taylor Swift, and Seth Cohen jumping on a coffee cart. And, for better or worse, these tnnrh nnint<: <:h<>n<>ti h<>r <1ti11lt iti<>ntitv ,h., r<>m<> nnt nn thP 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 27 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... other side like many millennials did: in her words, gay as hell. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT CRACE PERRY Grace Perry- Her work has been published in a variety of outlets, including The New Yorker, ew York magazine's The Cut, BuzzFeed, Outside, and Eater. She is also a longtime, regular contributor to The Onion and the feminist satire site Reductress. Most of her work, comedy and journalism alike, interrogates the intersection of queerness, pop culture and the internet. She lives in LA. OKE okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 28 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 29 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... Th City of ulsa 1s committ d to creat ng re pectful nd professional work environment. I n t on 0 I ion in n 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 30 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 31 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 32 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley- 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 33 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... freeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, December 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 34 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... Support Group for Transgender Teens the link below for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - ---- The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - . ---- Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are Support Group for Partners of providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 35 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... Transgender People Gaming Night is for you! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - ---- SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------ Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 36 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 37 of 39 Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC S.-ONS.ORID•V THIGIOIIGtlKAISH FA ... llYPOUNDATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Andi Gunter 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 38 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross William Vaughn Monique Washington Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Jane Wiseman Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:39 PM �Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree 39 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Supporting-the-Fa... 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:39 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7fe9b5e2f3809ef1f19180e9ec37e8d2.pdf 1d9729a8e2e69a7a005fd9086a9afc4e PDF Text Text Awkward Monologue Night 1 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews December 13th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! ♦ ♦ ~ ) ~ .. • • •A\l'K\VARD ,._, a ~lO~OLOGl E 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 2 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... Third Thursday in December Thursday, December 16, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Ever wonder what other people are thinking? Ever wonder what YOU are thinking? Blackjack Theatre unleashes that inner weirdo, so let’s wave our freak flag proudly! Hosted by Tulsa theatre favorite, Nick Caines. Click below for tickets. Click Here for Tickets Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 3 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... SAGE Meeting Tuesday, December 14, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. SAGE Holiday Light Tour Friday, December 17, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa, our program for LGBTQ older adults, will have their annual holiday light tour. We will meet at the Equality Center at 5:00 p.m., and then the Equality Van will take a holiday light tour of Tulsa County. Please bring money as we will be stopping for dinner. Restaurant to be determined. RSVP to toby.jenkins@okeq.org and put in the subject line Holiday Light Tour. SAGE Holiday Party Tuesday, December 21, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for a Holiday Celebration with SAGE Tulsa! We will have a holiday meal 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 4 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... catered by TWAFAB Catering. OKEQ Fa La La Ball December 18, 6:30-10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill E9uality Center Fa La La Ball Saturday, December 18, 6:30 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ at the Annual Fa La La Ball, where we don our gay apparel and celebrate all the holidays! The Lynn Riggs Theatre will host an event for those 21+. A cash bar will be provided. There will be performances by drag artists and other musicians as well! DJ Dec will be your DJ! This year we will have a family party hosted by Alphabet Soup, OKEQ's youth group. The family party will have a hot cocoa bar, live music, games, and food! It is a family event, so bring everyone! Scrappy Legacy, King of Tulsa Pride Emeritus, will be the EmCee along with Robin Hearts, our youth EmCee! Admission for youth is free. Admission for those over 18 is one of the following: Canned food item Board games Child's Toys Pet Food 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 5 of 37 PROUDLY A sPoNsoRED sY https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... • A ■ 1· mer1can Ir Ines OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 6 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... Shop for the Holidays with i amazonsmile · ~----6;-J You shop. Amazon gives. ~ Now Supporting: Oklahomans for Equality Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree! 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 7 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... Thanks to your support we were able to gift presents to 54 people! You all have made the holidays happier for a lot of people! All gifts go to Tulsa Cares to support people living with HIV. Pride Street Signs Vandalized We are saddened to report that two of the Pride Street signs have been vandalized. Our staff tried to remove the graffiti, but the signs are permanently damaged. This is an act of intimidation and an attempt to scare us out of being who we are. We have fought for too long to be able to call this "Pride Street," and 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 8 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... we will not back down. We have reported this to the City of Tulsa and will continue to monitor these intersections for continued vandalism. Donate Here to Support the Sign Repair BOB THE DRAG QUEEN CAIN'S BALLROOM FRIDAY ... ...·~ ...... . .. .... ·... ...-.....·..,.. .... . MARCH 11, 2022 Bob The Drag Queen Friday, March 11, 2022 Cain's Ballroom 423 North Main Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 Bob The Drag Queen is having a moment. A MAJOR moment! The season 8 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 9 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... winner of RuPaul's Drag Race was noted for her focus on comedy. Bob won three challenges during the show, including the recurring "Snatch Game," where she exquisitely portrayed Uzo Aduba and Carol Channing. Bob is back with a plethora of projects to impress. She is currently starring alongside Shangela Laquifa Wadley and Eureka O'Hara in HBO's first unscripted hit series, "We're Here -View Episode Here which was just renewed for a second season and is nominated for the EMMY AWARD FOR BEST UNSTRUCTURED REALITY SERIES, has a brand new comedy special Bob The Drag Queen: Live at Caroline's (View trailer here) as well as MTV's "Drag My Dad" Drag My Dad trailer series, The Pit Stop HERE and her ever-popular podcast "Sibling Rivalry" with best friend, touring partner and RuPaul All-Star Drag Race winner herself Monet X Change. Bob may have won Drag Race, but it's her comedic prowess that is really shining brightest of all. With two comedy specials under her belt, Bob is making the world laugh with her impeccable timing and true tale stories about her life and hilarious observations. Click Here for Tickets Brought To You Bi the Letter B Monday, December 13 and 27, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 10 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 11 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... rAteful .2,)A -Cl>~ JI~c:. " n • , 1th I ii \ID_ ..JDI_ ENDING THE HIV EPIDEMIC _ Equitable Access. Everyone's Voice "Access YOUR Voice, End HIV Stigma" Ongoing till December 30th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Not everyone is vocal; however, you can Access Your Voice through writing, painting, and drawing to get your voice heard. Unfortunately, the stigma is still strong surrounding HIV/AIDS, preventing people from seeking accessible testing and treatment, though access to treatment can also be hard depending on where you're located. "Art has always been a central part of my being. When I was diagnosed with HIV, making my art became a great way to express how I felt about it." -HIV+ artist, Anonymous. Positive since 2008. "Art is so healing for me! Making art is necessary to cope and deal with day-today stresses. Add in HIV and AIDS on top of that, and life becomes very challenging. Art helps me keep my sanity and balance in life." -HIV+ artist, local resident, Positive since 1993. 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 12 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... "It's simply the fact that there are usually large organized walks, gatherings, and ceremonies for World AIDS Day, however with this pandemic going on worldwide, no one wants to risk the health and wellbeing of so many that already have an underlying health issue. So we thought this would be a great way to allow safe participation of all those wanting their voices heard in one place on this special day, just in a different way, with art." Paul McClure. The exhibit opens on Tuesday, December 1st, WORLD AIDS DAY. Hours of operation are 9:00 a.m. to 9:00 p.m. Monday through Friday and 12:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. Saturday and Sunday throughout the month. Art will be available for purchase, and 100% of the proceeds will benefit the local nonprofit A GRATEFUL DAY FOUNDATION, INC., a valuable local service for people living with HIV. You can take a virtual tour of the exhibit on the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page and Youtube channel. The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, with COVID measures for those not vaccinated. For more information, please visit www.gratefulday.org or www.okeq.org. Visit The Art Gallery Site CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE ART Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74107 Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. Contact Sylvester tulsacari~ HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION 6 It e ENROLLMENT • AT OKEO EVERY TUES lOAM - lPM • •• I SYLVESTER HARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES CONTACT SYLVESTER SYLVESTERH@TULSACARES.ORG 918.834.4194 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 13 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... Time's running out on open enrollment. Get covered ASAP. .. ... What are you wiating for? CD Need coverage for the New Year? Don’t wait! You must enroll by Dec. 15 for coverage that begins Jan. 1. Sign up now at HealthCare.gov. #GetCovered H.O.P.E. Testing at the Center We have added another day to our testing schedule! We will now be able to offer H.I.V. testing every Tuesday from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. W ~ SSUESAR E OS POR ~ T OYOU? 1 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 14 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Monday and Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Elissa Furlong is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. She is from upstate New York but attended Mississippi College School of Law, graduating at the top of her class. In addition to having worked for two private attorneys, Elissa has previously interned with the legal department of a United Nations agency. Ms. Furlong has also completed legal fellowships and externships in the areas of employment discrimination, workers' rights, civil rights, and LGBTQ+ legislation and advocacy. Elissa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-409-2115, or email her at elissa.furlong@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements pertaining to fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. Wednesday, December 15, 5:30 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 15 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... Tulsa, OK 74120 Fair Housing presentation and Bingo with Legal Aid's Elissa Furlong. There will be Pizza and Prizes available for those in attendance. Guided Meditation Every Sunday at 1:00 p.m. Every Monday at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us Sunday and Monday for some guided meditation. Every Monday, we will set our goals, and on Sunday, we will reflect on the week. We will go over daily affirmations and how to live with intention. 0 en Mind Dream Builder Life Mastery Consultant _ _ & Clinical Hypnosis • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, December 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGAL AID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, December 15, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Post-Op Support Group 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 16 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Neurodiversity First and Third Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 17 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. The group is open to people on the autism spectrum, people who have ADHD, anxiety, Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, as well as supportive friends and family. We want everyone to feel welcome and know that they have a home in this community. We meet twice a month to play games, make art, go on outings, chat, and connect with likeminded individuals in our community. For more information, or to join our next meeting, please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information ~ "' .OUTSIDE · THEB - ~ -· . . Eve.rj 3rd Monclaj of fhe. Monfh af 1pm 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 18 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... Outside the Box Monday, December 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Carrie Lynn Hughes April 25, 1973 - December 9, 2021 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 19 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... Jennifer Heisley March 17, 1975 - November 29, 2021 Clinton Hight November 24, 2021 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 20 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... Joshua Breshears March 19, 1994 - November 19, 2021 Phillip Long September 25, 1949 - November 18, 2021 I OKEQ Game Night Tuesday, December 28, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 21 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play with others? Then Game Night is for you! Join us on the last Tuesday of every month from 5:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Every Fourth Thursday at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 22 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... p1,dJl1" ,svpPt>t.-r 61,/)VP ______ A ,-tt,,rrM~Y 6'.f;>VP Fl>t. PAt.f-111'S Wl'T'M ~6~-r~+ l(tE>S'. ~ PFLAG LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, January 1, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 23 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... January Happy Hour Wednesday, January 5, 5:30 p.m. Location to be Announced LGBTQ+ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included) and we hope some of you will join us! Contact the LGBTQ Women's Network Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, January 5, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 24 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai h josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, January 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 25 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... #PassTheEq The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for TULSA ncc:nnur\c: 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 26 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 27 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... BOOK OF THE WEEK Baggage: Tales from a Fully Packed Life Alan Cummings second memoir "Takes us through the highs and lows of his career, his struggle with mental health, each failed relationship or encounter with a legend (Liza! X Men! Gore Vidal! Kubrick! Spice Girls!), every bad decision or moment of sensual joy, Cumming shows how every experience- good or bad- has shaped who he is today: a happy, flawed, vulnerable, fearless middle-aged man, with a lot of baggage. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT ALAN CUMMING Alan Cumming is an actor, activist and humanitarian who has received over forty awards for his humanitarianism and social activism. He was made an OBE (Officer of the British Empire) for his contributions to the arts and LBGT equality by the Queen. He is the author of five books including a #I ew York Times best-selling memoir. OKE okeq.org/donate - 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 28 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 29 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... ~ ~~~cA. -- -- -- • I Th City of ulsa ls comm1tt d to creat ng re p ctful nd professional work environment. on I ion in City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 30 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 31 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk C ENTER A CTION ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 32 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, December 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Support Group The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 33 of 37 for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -- The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -- Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 34 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ----- -- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 35 of 37 ' https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... ' • Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org : Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC S~NSORIOIY lHIOIO.Gll<AJIIR PAHlllVPOUN~TIOtl ~ 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 36 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:40 PM �Awkward Monologue Night 37 of 37 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Awkward-Monologue-Night.html?... ~ ;_q Pictu/ f t u rt.esy of the Tulsa World Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross William Vaughn Monique Washington Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Jane Wiseman Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:40 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e362335c7d6f3b86ff5920459873614c.pdf b3ba966789479fa39a9ba2b71466d365 PDF Text Text Happy Holidays from OkEq 1 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews December 20th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ ~-, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 2 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... resumed. SAGE Holiday Party Tuesday, December 21, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for a Holiday Celebration with SAGE Tulsa! We will have a holiday meal catered by TWAFAB Catering. King & Queen OF TULSA PRIDE 2022 JANUARY 8TH • 7PM DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER HONOl.~NG 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 3 of 36 PROUDLY A sPoNsoRED BY https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... • A ■ 1· mer1can Ir Ines OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INVITES YOU TO OUR - - - 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 4 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... DE DECEMBER 23RD, 2021 6PM- 9PM r otluck- Bring your favorite dish or dessert and celebrate the diversity of Hispanic/Latinx holiday traditions For address please RSvr to donovid.sekulits@okeq Compas Conectando: Fiesta de Navidad Thursday, December 23, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m For address, RSVP Celebrate the holidays with OKEQ Compas Conectando! Potluck style! Bring your favorite dish or dessert and celebrate the diversity of Hispanic/Latinx holiday traditions. For address, RSVP below: RSVP HERE Shop for the Holidays with • amazonsm1 e ------~ You shop. Amazon gives. Now Suooortina: 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 5 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... • - - - - - -· 1- 1- - • - •• •v . Oklahomans for Equality Margaret K. Eagler's "Your Weeds are My Wild Flowers" Artist Reception Thursday, January 6, 2022, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Margaret was raised in a family of highly creative people with perfectionist and success-driven tendencies. Margaret was put in a box of "only" being creative with the written word by her family, and discovering painting helped break out of that box and discover new ideas, talents, and freedom. When the pandemic 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 6 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... struck and Margaret's work became remote access, she knew she had to have something to DO that was not work-related or she would fall into the habit of working non-stop. So, even though she had "no talent," she decided to pick up acrylic paint. Margaret fell head over heels in love with the process and learned many life lessons through her projects, such as there is no right or wrong in art; if you don't like something, you can start over or completely change it - learn from it; mistakes are incredibly valuable in learning; the play of color and light is as much about the shadows and spaces as it is about the focus. As Margaret continued to explore her more artistic side, she discovered that some of the characteristics in her that had been so strictly constrained by her family of origin were actually qualities that she craved and that she was at her best when able to touch on those hidden aspects of herself. One day while discussing, with a friend, the nature of growth and learning to love one's self as a whole person, not lacking because of someone else's prescribed identity, the concept of the dandelion kept coming up - how much her sons loved to give her dandelions and how much her neighbors put in work to kill those glorious wildflowers. She realized, just like some people think dandelions are weeds, and she thinks they are wildflowers, she may not be what others think she should be, but that doesn't take away one bit of who she is meant to be. Margaret works as a Child Welfare Specialist with the Department of Human Services. She spends her days working to help families change the way they live life on this planet in order to provide a safe and secure environment for her family. Margaret likes nothing more than when a parent gets to bring their child home and successfully complete their case. Margaret has found that in advocating for the vulnerable, she must examine her own vulnerability, and painting has helped to bring grounding and allowed a safe space to examine those vulnerabilities. Margaret will continue to make a stand for both clients and friends; fight for the rejected, the marginalized, the hurting, and the weary; and stand with those who are standing for themselves. Margaret's desire is that those who look at her art see the full range of emotions and relational connection and celebrate differences and imperfections. The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, January 1st, with COVID measures in place for those Non-vaccinated. The Artist Reception is Thursday, January 6th, at 6:00 p.m. The exhibit continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit www.okeq.org. Thank You for Supporting the Fairy Tree! /) 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 7 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... Thanks to your support we were able to gift presents to 54 people! You all have made the holidays happier for a lot of people! All gifts go to Tulsa Cares to support people living with HIV. BOB THE DRAG QUEEN 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 8 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... CAIN'S BALLROOM ... ·.~........·-.. ~ FRIDAY : •..... ...-...... ·.~ ·-.. . MARCH 11, 2022 ~ ... ~ ~ Bob The Drag Queen Friday, March 11, 2022 Cain's Ballroom 423 North Main Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 Bob The Drag Queen is having a moment. A MAJOR moment! The season 8 winner of RuPaul's Drag Race was noted for her focus on comedy. Bob won three challenges during the show, including the recurring "Snatch Game," where she exquisitely portrayed Uzo Aduba and Carol Channing. Bob is back with a plethora of projects to impress. She is currently starring alongside Shangela Laquifa Wadley and Eureka O'Hara in HBO's first unscripted hit series, "We're Here", which was just renewed for a second season and is nominated for the Emmy Award for Best Unstructured Reality Series. She also has a brand new comedy special, "Bob The Drag Queen: Live at Caroline's" as well as MTV's "Drag My Dad" series, "The Pit Stop", and her everpopular podcast "Sibling Rivalry" with best friend, touring partner and RuPaul AllStar Drag Race winner herself Monet X Change. Bob may have won Drag Race, but it's her comedic prowess that is really shining brightest of all. With two comedy specials under her belt, Bob is making the world laugh with her impeccable timing and true tale stories about her life and hilarious observations. Click Here for Tickets 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 9 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Monday, December 27, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74107 tulsacari~ HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION 6 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 10 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... te Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. ENROLLMENT • • ATOKEO EVERY TUES lOAM - lPM I SYLVESTERHARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES •• Contact Sylvester W /.. ISSUES ARE T E OS POR ~ T OYOU? 1 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 11 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... . Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Monday and Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Elissa Furlong is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. She is from upstate New York but attended Mississippi College School of Law, graduating at the top of her class. In addition to having worked for two private attorneys, Elissa has previously interned with the legal department of a United Nations agency. Ms. Furlong has also completed legal fellowships and externships in the areas of employment discrimination, workers' rights, civil rights, and LGBTQ+ legislation and advocacy. Elissa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-409-2115, or email her at elissa.furlong@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements pertaining to fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 12 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... I 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 13 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... "" .... ENDING THE HIV EPIDEMIC Equitable Access, Everyone's Voice "Access YOUR Voice, End HIV Stigma" Ongoing till December 30th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Not everyone is vocal; however, you can Access Your Voice through writing, painting, and drawing to get your voice heard. Unfortunately, the stigma is still strong surrounding HIV/AIDS, preventing people from seeking accessible testing and treatment, though access to treatment can also be hard depending on where you're located. "Art has always been a central part of my being. When I was diagnosed with HIV, making my art became a great way to express how I felt about it." -HIV+ artist, Anonymous. Positive since 2008. "Art is so healing for me! Making art is necessary to cope and deal with day-today stresses. Add in HIV and AIDS on top of that, and life becomes very challenging. Art helps me keep my sanity and balance in life." -HIV+ artist, local resident, Positive since 1993. "It's simply the fact that there are usually large organized walks, gatherings, and ceremonies for World AIDS Day, however with this pandemic going on worldwide, no one wants to risk the health and wellbeing of so many that already have an underlying health issue. So we thought this would be a great way to allow safe participation of all those wanting their voices heard in one place on this special day, just in a different way, with art." Paul McClure. The exhibit opens on Tuesday, December 1st, WORLD AIDS DAY. Hours of operation are 9:00 a.m. to 9:00 p.m. Monday through Friday and 12:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. Saturday and Sunday throughout the month. Art will be available for purchase, and 100% of the proceeds will benefit the local nonprofit A GRATEFUL DAY FOUNDATION, INC., a valuable local service for people living with HIV. You can take a virtual tour of the exhibit on the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page and Youtube channel. The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, with COVID measures for those not vaccinated. For more information, please visit www.gratefulday.org or www.okeq.org. Visit The Art Gallery Site 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 14 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE ART Guided Meditation Every Sunday at 1:00 p.m. Every Monday at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us Sunday and Monday for some guided meditation. Every Monday, we will set our goals, and on Sunday, we will reflect on the week. We will go over daily affirmations and how to live with intention. 0 en Mind Dream Builder Life Mastery Consultant _ _ & Clinical Hypnosis • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, January 11, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, January 12, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Post-Op Support Group . ,.,.. ~ ..,.'"' ~ ~ ~ 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 15 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us ~ "' .OUTSIDE · THEB - ~ -· . . Eve.rj 3rd Monclaj of fhe. Monfh af 1pm Outside the Box Tonight! Monday, December 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 16 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost Kyle Kirk May 26, 1963 - December 1, 2021 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 17 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... ' ~ Carrie Lynn Hughes April 25, 1973 - December 9, 2021 Jennifer Heisley March 17, 1975 - November 29, 2021 Clinton Hight November 24, 2021 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 18 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... -- - - &..68-r•• pA,sJTr StJHOl."r 61,/)IJP A Mf.>,n'M~Y 6U>VP Ff.>t. PAt.fJJ1'$ Wl'f'M ~6~-r~+ ,c.t 1>S'. c:)::J ~ PFLAG - - - - - - 2 . __ _ _ _ _ LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, January 1, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 19 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... r'os1 Name; uenae arre nange worKs-nup 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, January 5, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 20 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... Neurodiversity First and Third Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. The group is open to people on the autism spectrum, people who have ADHD, anxiety, Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, as well as supportive friends and family. We want everyone to feel welcome and know that they have a home in this community. We meet twice a month to play games, make art, go on outings, chat, and connect with likeminded individuals in our community. For more information, or to join our next meeting, please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 21 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contact Josh or Rebecca emai th josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, January 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. GAME I OKEQ Game Night Tuesday, January 25, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 22 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play with others? Then Game Night is for you! Join us on the last Tuesday of every month from 5:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Every Fourth Thursday at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 23 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact TULSA RESPONDS 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 24 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a nonprofit that connects Tulsans to federal programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 25 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... BOOK OF THE WEEK White Tears/Brown Scars: Bow White Feminism Betrays Women of Color Taking us from the slave era, when white women fought in court to keep "ownershiptt of their slaves, through the centuries of colonialism, when they offered a soft face for brutal tactics, to the modern workplace, White Tears/Brown Scars tells a charged story of white women's active participation in campaigns of oppression. It offers a long overdue validation of the experience of women of color. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Ruby Hamad is a jow·nalist. author, and RUBY HAMAD academic completing a Ph.D. in media studies at UNSW (Australia). Her Guardian article, 'How White women use Strategic Tears to Silence Women of Color,' became a global flashpoint for discussions of white feminism and racism and inspired her debut book OKE okeq.org/donate _..,,Glll'l'..rr -111/....ua'r 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 26 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 27 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... Th City of Tulsa i committ d to creat ng re pectful nd rk environment. n r sson ny City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 28 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 29 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 30 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, January 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ' Support Group 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 31 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... for Transgender Teens 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - --- Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- --- Tulsa Area Prime Timers Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are Support Group for Partners of Transgender People providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 32 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. sage Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - . ---- SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education , Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers Every Tuesday and community. from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. www.okeq.org/eba ---- provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 33 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 34 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC S.-ONS.ORID•V THIGIOIIGtlKAISH FA ... llYPOUNDATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Andi Gunter 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 35 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross William Vaughn Monique Washington Board of Advisors Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Jane Wiseman Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy Holidays from OkEq 36 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-OkEq.html... 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:41 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/443bb5acb4b666731e8dbbb438047a1f.pdf 4c37ff434d80a46a16ae982deafba7f9 PDF Text Text Happy New Year from OkEq 1 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews December 27th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ ~-, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 2 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... resumed. SAGE Meeting Tuesday, December 28, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBTQ+ in life's later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 3 of 31 PROUDLY A sPoNsoRED BY https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... • A ■ 1· mer1can Ir Ines OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 4 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... Margaret K. Eagler's "Your Weeds are My Wild Flowers" Artist Reception Thursday, January 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Margaret was raised in a family of highly creative people with perfectionist and success-driven tendencies. Margaret was put in a box of "only" being creative with the written word by her family, and discovering painting helped break out of that box and discover new ideas, talents, and freedom. When the pandemic struck and Margaret's work became remote access, she knew she had to have something to DO that was not work-related or she would fall into the habit of working non-stop. So, even though she had "no talent," she decided to pick up acrylic paint. Margaret fell head over heels in love with the process and learned many life lessons through her projects, such as there is no right or wrong in art; if you don't like something, you can start over or completely change it - learn from it; mistakes are incredibly valuable in learning; the play of color and light is as much about the shadows and spaces as it is about the focus. As Margaret continued to explore her more artistic side, she discovered that some of the characteristics in her that had been so strictly constrained by her family of origin were actually qualities that she craved and that she was at her best when able to touch on those hidden aspects of herself. One day while discussing, with a friend, the nature of growth and learning to love one's self as a whole person, not lacking because of someone else's prescribed identity, the concept of the dandelion kept coming up - how much her sons loved to give her dandelions and 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 5 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... how much her neighbors put in work to kill those glorious wildflowers. She realized, just like some people think dandelions are weeds, and she thinks they are wildflowers, she may not be what others think she should be, but that doesn't take away one bit of who she is meant to be. Margaret works as a Child Welfare Specialist with the Department of Human Services. She spends her days working to help families change the way they live life on this planet in order to provide a safe and secure environment for her family. Margaret likes nothing more than when a parent gets to bring their child home and successfully complete their case. Margaret has found that in advocating for the vulnerable, she must examine her own vulnerability, and painting has helped to bring grounding and allowed a safe space to examine those vulnerabilities. Margaret will continue to make a stand for both clients and friends; fight for the rejected, the marginalized, the hurting, and the weary; and stand with those who are standing for themselves. Margaret's desire is that those who look at her art see the full range of emotions and relational connection and celebrate differences and imperfections. The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, January 1st, with COVID measures in place for those Non-vaccinated. The Artist Reception is Thursday, January 6th, at 6:00 p.m. The exhibit continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit www.okeq.org. OKEQ Taking Nominations for Community Awards Oklahomans for Equality is now taking nominations to recognize individuals or groups who have impacted the fight for equality for the LGBTQ+ community. These awards will be presented at the annual Equality Gala on April 30th, 2022, at the Cox Business Convention Center Grand Hall. Lifetime Achievement Award - Recognizes a lifetime dedication to the cause of equality for the LGBTQ+ community in Oklahoma. Community Hero Award - Recognizes individuals and groups who have represented or served our community in the previous year. The Rev. Russell Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion - Presented to a faith leader who leads and supports affirming the faith of the LGBTQ+ community in our local congregations. Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award - Presented to a local youth who demonstrates extraordinary character and makes a positive difference in their school, youth group, and community. 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 6 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... Grand Marshal for the Tulsa Gay Pride Parade June 2nd - Recognizes an individual who has supported the LGBTQ+ community courageously and visibly. Dennis R. Neill Collegiate Leadership Award - Presented to a local college student who demonstrates extraordinary character and makes a positive difference in their school and community. Nancy McDonald Advocacy Award - Recognizes an individual that advocates for inclusion, equality for not only the LGBTQ community but for all marginalized populations. Bishop-Baldwin, Barton & Phillips Civil Rights Advocacy Award - Presented to those individuals who have fought for equality through the United States Justice system. Lynn Riggs Performing Arts Award - Honors individuals or groups that have advanced LGBTQ awareness through the fine arts. Workplace Inclusion Award - Recognizes a workplace that has shown a commitment to diversity and inclusion. Click Here for Nomination Form BOB THE DRAG QUEEN CAIN'S 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 7 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... '., ..' , '.... ·.~.. ........ ', FRIDAY MARCH 11, 2022 Bob The Drag Queen Friday, March 11, 2022 Cain's Ballroom 423 North Main Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 Bob The Drag Queen is having a moment. A MAJOR moment! The season 8 winner of RuPaul's Drag Race was noted for her focus on comedy. Bob won three challenges during the show, including the recurring "Snatch Game," where she exquisitely portrayed Uzo Aduba and Carol Channing. Bob is back with a plethora of projects to impress. She is currently starring alongside Shangela Laquifa Wadley and Eureka O'Hara in HBO's first unscripted hit series, "We're Here", which was just renewed for a second season and is nominated for the Emmy Award for Best Unstructured Reality Series. She also has a brand new comedy special, "Bob The Drag Queen: Live at Caroline's" as well as MTV's "Drag My Dad" series, "The Pit Stop", and her everpopular podcast "Sibling Rivalry" with best friend, touring partner and RuPaul AllStar Drag Race winner herself Monet X Change. Bob may have won Drag Race, but it's her comedic prowess that is really shining brightest of all. With two comedy specials under her belt, Bob is making the world laugh with her impeccable timing and true tale stories about her life and hilarious observations. Click Here for Tickets 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 8 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Monday, December 27, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook Health Insurance Navigation & Enrollment Every Tuesday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74107 Sylvester Harris with Tulsa Cares will be at the Equality Center every Tuesday! He can answer any of your questions and get you started on the enrollment process. tulsacari~ HEALTH INSURANCE NAVIGATION Ei t e ENROLLMENT • • ATOKEO EVERY TUES loAM - lPM I SYLVESTERHARRIS, HEALTH CARE NAVIGATOR & COMMUNITY EDUCATOR, TULSA CARES 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 9 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... Contact Sylvester •• 4 out of 5 HealthCare.gov customers found a plan for less than $10/month. Visit HealthCare.gov today to see how affordable quality health coverage really is. w ~ ssu SAR OS I POR 'A T O YOU? Tulsa County Community Priorities Survey 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 10 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... Tulsa County residents: Check out this survey opportunity from our friends at Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life! Tulsa County Extension and the OSU-Tulsa Center for Public Life want to focus resources and build partnerships that address the issues that are most important to the people in Tulsa. Take a few moments to take a survey to share what issues are most important to you and your community using an option below: Click Here for Survey Fair Housing Legal Aid Weekly Assistance Every Monday and Wednesday, 12:00 p.m - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Elissa Furlong is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. She is from upstate New York but attended Mississippi College School of Law, graduating at the top of her class. In addition to having worked for two private attorneys, Elissa has previously interned with the legal department of a United Nations agency. Ms. Furlong has also completed legal fellowships and externships in the areas of employment discrimination, workers' rights, civil rights, and LGBTQ+ legislation and advocacy. Elissa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-409-2115, or email her at elissa.furlong@laok.org. Please also be on the lookout for upcoming announcements pertaining to fair housing presentations, which will be open to the public. Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, January 11, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a firstcome, first-serve basis. Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 11 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. - - - Office phone is (918) 295-9429. Post-OP Support Group Wednesday, January 19, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This support group is for women who have gone through gender affirmation surgery and serves as a place to discuss some of the concerns and changes after surgery. A first-time interview is required before attending. Please contact us below to set this up or to ask any questions. Contact Us 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 12 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... THEB Outside the Box Monday, January 17, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Katie Zink, Outside the Box is an ongoing all-inclusive group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets on the 3rd Monday of the month from 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will discuss a new topic. In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 13 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... Kyle Kirk May 26, 1963 - December 1, 2021 Carrie Lynn Hughes April 25, 1973 - December 9, 2021 Jennifer Heisley March 17, 1975 - November 29, 2021 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 14 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... &.68-r•• p1,,sJTr ,svHt>'--r 61,1,VP ____________ A ,-tt>Nf'M~Y 61,.(>VP Fl>t. PAt.fJJf'S Wl1'M ~648-r~+ l'I E>S'. (:)::] PFLAG LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group Co-Hosted by PFLAG and OKEQ Saturday, January 1, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ and PFLAG for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. This group will meet monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Coffee and cookies will be provided. 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 15 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... I yy CUI IC)UU~ VI L VCI ~ l'IVI Ill 1, J:Jv - r.uuplT Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, January 5, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. Click Here to Contact Facilitator NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 16 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... Neurodiversity First and Third Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. The group is open to people on the autism spectrum, people who have ADHD, anxiety, Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, as well as supportive friends and family. We want everyone to feel welcome and know that they have a home in this community. We meet twice a month to play games, make art, go on outings, chat, and connect with likeminded individuals in our community. For more information, or to join our next meeting, please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marke 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 17 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... ~nu'"' I:' u To contact Josh or Rebecca emai josh@joshuapaytonlaw co Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, January 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in the progress of starting the name change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. GAME I OKEQ Game Night Tuesday, January 25, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 18 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play with others? Then Game Night is for you! Join us on the last Tuesday of every month from 5:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Every Fourth Thursday at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 19 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... The overwhelming majority of Americans support the #EqualityAct. So let's make our message clear: Contact your Senator today and tell them to #PassTheEqualityAct! Call 888-439-0303 to get started. The Equality Act would provide consistent anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ Americans in areas like housing, education, federally funded programs, credit, public spaces, healthcare, and more. Tell your Senators it's #EqualityTime. https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act People who identify as LGBTQ+ can still be fired, denied housing, or refused service in many parts of the nation. Passing the #EqualityAct will change that. Tell your Senators to support federal nondiscrimination protections and learn more here: https://lgbtactionlink.org/equality-act Follow the link below to find your US Senators. Find Your Legislator Did you know that on July 1st, 200,000 Oklahomans became newly eligible for Medicaid? You could be one of them! If you're uninsured or think you may qualify, contact Tulsa Responds to make an enrollment appointment. Tulsa Responds is a non-profit that connects Tulsans to federal TULSA RESPONDS 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 20 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... programs like SoonerCare (Medicaid), SNAP, free tax filing, and internet discounts, all for free! To make an appointment visit TulsaResponds.org/medicaid, call 918-900-0918, or email (medicaid@tulsaresponds.org) and look for us at the Trans Resource Fair on November 13th. City of Tulsa Emergency Rental Assistance Program The City of Tulsa was awarded more than $12 million from the U.S. Department of the Treasury to implement an Emergency Rental Assistance Program (ERAP). This COVID-19 relief funding aims to assist individuals who cannot pay rent and utilities due to a negative financial impact from the pandemic. Eligible households can receive up to 15 months of assistance. The City is partnering with Restore Hope Ministries, a local nonprofit with over 45 years of experience in homeless prevention, to distribute the funds as fast and efficiently as possible to offer rental and utility assistance to Tulsa citizens. To find out more, Click the Link Below: Emergency Rental Assistance Program 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 21 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... BOOK OF THE WEEK unprotected: A Memoir This book is the life story of a singular artist and survivor in his own words. It is the story of a boy whose talent and courage opened doors for him, but only a crack. It is the story of a teenager discovering himself, learning his voice and craft amidst deep trauma. And it is the story of a young man whose unbreakable determination led him through countless hard times to where he is now; a proud icon who refuses to back down or hide. BILLYPORTER UNl!iWIDl AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT BILLY PORTER Billy Porter is an actor, singer. director, composer, and play,,vright from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. He is the winner of the 2019 Primetime Emmy Award for Outstanding Lead Actor in a Drama Series for his portrayal of Pray Tell in Pose- the first openly gay Black man to be nominated and win in any lead acting category. OKE okeq.org/donate -111/....ua'r 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 22 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 23 of 31 JOIN OUR TEAM! https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... Th City of Tulsa i committed to creat ng respectful nd profe ional work environment. r sson ny www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 24 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer sessions in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6537 opt 2. or click the button below to schedule. 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 25 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... Lets Talk C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 26 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, January 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Support Group for Parents of Transgender People The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 27 of 31 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets In-Person and Zoom https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -- The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual Equality Game Night Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 28 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education , Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers Every Tuesday and community. from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. www.okeq.org/eba ----- -- provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �_ ____ ______ Happy New Year from OkEq 29 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... ...., ,.,.,.. Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC l~NM>REOn Tl1EG•01tG.IUJIElt fAMlllfOU .. OATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 30 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... - : J; ' ' Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Luke.Scuitto@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Andi Gunter Clinic Operations Manager She / Her / Hers Andi.Gunter@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She / Her / Hers Donna.Matthews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stacy Turner - President Bob Hanson, PharmD - Vice President Stephen Rundell - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Shannon Gordon Fair - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Board of Advisors 4/28/26, 3:41 PM �Happy New Year from OkEq 31 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year-from-OkEq.htm... Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Justin Ross William Vaughn Monique Washington Visit Our Website Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Crista Patrick Denise Reid Ovidio Trejo Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Sunday: 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 3:41 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/59896af5bf189cd200abb8e63a4d1ddc.pdf 192de090ba293777a25524dea4055be0 PDF Text Text In-Person Membership Focus Group 1 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews April 5th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 2 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... F ~ }7ayx.orr Rental Properfy Bookkeep, n1 Let us help you file your 2020 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 525 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 3 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. I TO GET THE ZOOM LINK! OkEq In-Person Focus Group: Voting Bylaws Change Proposal Monday, April 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 You are invited to an In-Person meeting to provide needed and necessary 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 4 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... membership feedback regarding a proposed amendment to the OkEq bylaws regarding how the organization currently elects the OkEq Board of Directors. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. This is an OKEQ membership meeting only. Presently, OkEq bylaws require that the Board of Directors be elected by popular vote of its members in good standing. OkEq is seeking to implement current best practices for an LGBTQ+ community organization of its size, based on feedback from national and local LGBTQ+ leadership organizations, with guidance from Oklahoma nonprofits and other local leaders and fundraising organizations, and move the OkEq Board of Directors to a succession board. This would mean that the OkEq Board of Directors would, annually, with the advice and recommendations from our constituency, self-nominate the successor Directors to fulfill all the terms and conditions of a Director for the organization. This is a major change in organizational policy, and OkEq needs membership feedback before voting on this issue. Please join us and make your voice heard. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. You may also join this meeting remotely by Zoom. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. You must RSVP to get a zoom link to participate. Please RSVP by contacting us below by Monday, April 5th by 3:00 p.m. to register and receive the Zoom link. RSVP HERE Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Thursday, April 15, 8:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 5 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Rainbow Room favorites as we re-open Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room with a spectacular cabaret remembering all of the wonderful music of days before Covid-19! Tickets will be limited, and we will offer pay-per-view streaming on Zoom of this performance. Click Here for Tickets GEN Q -- Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Thursday, April 15, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. We will attend Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room together! Wear a mask! There will be a cash bar at this event. 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 6 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... RSVP to reserve your ticket for Gen Q members! RSVP NOW REV. KELLEY BECKER EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: Interfaith Happy Hour Thursday, April 8, 6:00 p.m. on Facebook Live Oklahomans for Equality's new Equality Faith Alliance is excited to announce SPIRIT, a virtual happy hour-style support and social group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether your goal is to reconnect with your faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce your faith, or just connect with other people like yourself, SPIRIT is the group for you. Each Thursday, a spiritual leader from Tulsa and the surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. Our guest host this week is Rev. Kelley Becker, the senior minister with Disciples Christian Church in Bartlesville, OK. Precepts C.A.R.E 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practices Click Here to Attend 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 7 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... GEN Q: Jam Night Friday, April 8, 7:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. For this event, we will have a live jam session in the Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre and hang out. Adult beverages for people 21+. Bring your own instrument, play around, jam out, or just listen and chat! Covid measures are in place. Please wear a mask and check-in upon arrival. Contact Anna Puhl for more info: Click here to contact Anna (Jr:J(f)(J@()@(!!J(l(l[fl 2nd Friday of the month 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 8 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... IndigiQueer Friday, April 9, 7:00 p.m. Online Event Contact Kao below for the link. IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. – Vnokeckv. Add our IndigiQueer Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/indigiqueerokeq For more information contact: Contact Kao Join our IndigiQueer Facebook group! Josh New “Confronting the Male Nude: A Figure Study of the Male Form." Artist Reception On Thursday, April 8, at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 9 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Tulsa, OK 74120 Josh New is a commercial freelance photographer from Oklahoma specializing in portraiture and conceptual art. He received his MFA in Photography from the University of Tulsa in 2011, focusing on a thesis critically exploring modern American masculinity in both gay and straight cultures. He continues to create work showcasing the male form in hopes that one-day nudity, both male and female, will cease to be feared and brutally censored. This show is a celebration of male beauty and figure photography that is currently banned from most social media platforms because it goes against “community standards.” Even when not sexualized, the human body continues to be censored and excluded from discussion in modern American society. My hope is to present beautiful, emotional, and thought-provoking work and show that these “community standards” are actually an archaic barrier to healthy reflection and comfort with our own bodies. The show will feature giant prints of male nudes that I hope viewers will feel comfortable looking at, analyzing, and discussing in the hopes that confronting the fears and misconceptions of nude figure photography, particularly of the male body, can foster a change into what our community accepts. The show opens Thursday, April 1st, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120. On Thursday, April 8th, there will be a special artist reception with Josh New, and Covid measures will be in place. The show continues throughout the month. Purchase Here Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, April 13, 5:30 p.m. 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 10 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... 2nd Tuesday of the Month Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC . Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first-come, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone - - is (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality Presents HUMAN TRAFFICKING, SEXUAL VIOLENCE, & THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY FEATURING PANELISTS FROM • Domestic Violence Intervention Services (DVIS) • Tulsa County District Attorneys Office • Tulsa Police Department (TPD) Tuesday, April 13th , 2021 7:00 pm on Facebook Live 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 11 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Sexual Assault Awareness Month Human Trafficking, Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence, and the impact on the LGBTQ+ Community Tuesday, April 13th, at 7:00 p.m. Via Facebook Live. Join Oklahomans for Equality as we discuss human trafficking, sexual assault, domestic violence, and the impact on the LGBTQ+ Community. We will hear from representatives from the Tulsa County District Attorneys Office Criminal Division, Domestic Violence Intervention Services, the Human Trafficking & Vice Special Operations Team of the Tulsa Police Department, and the Special Victims Unit. Our goal is to create a dialog between these groups and the LGBTQIA2S+ community. This event will be broadcast on April 13th, at 7:00 pm via Facebook Live. Please note that this event will discuss mature themes and include examples of real-world violence. Viewer discretion is advised. This event is in recognition of Sexual Assault Awareness Month. OKEQ stands with and believes victims. Click Here for the Event Page on Facebook SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, April 6, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 12 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... SAGE Tulsa has resumed meeting in-person. Please see the COVID-19 Guidelines below to participate. Lunch will be served at 11:30 a.m. OKEQ COVID· 19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPA□ AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Contact Us Sexual Assault Awareness Month 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 13 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... April is Sexual Assault Awareness and Prevention Month. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), LGBTQ+ people experience sexual violence at higher rates than straight and cisgender people. Research suggests half of transgender people and bisexual/pansexual women will experience sexual violence at some point in their lifetimes. Anti-LGBTQ+ hate crimes can often take the form of sexual violence. Transgender women of color are the most vulnerable. LGBTQ+ individuals are less likely to report sexual assault than straight and cisgender individuals. Oklahomans for Equality wishes to open a dialog between the LGBTQ+ community and the agencies that support victims, investigate sex crimes, and prosecute offenders. Please join us on Tuesday, April 13th at 7 pm on Facebook Live to talk about sexual assault and the impact on the LGBTQ+ community. Oklahomans for Equality supports and believes survivors. If you or someone you know is dealing with the aftermath of sexual violence, GET HELP NOW at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673). E UALITY Business Alliance I • 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 14 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Has Resumed In Person Meetings EBA Mixer Thursday, April 22, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Cityscape Home Mortgage 1115 S. Lewis Ave., Suite D Tulsa, OK 74104 www.cityscapehome.com till CITYSCAPE GIii HOME MORTGAGE The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers have resumed! Cityscape Home Mortgage will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for April. Please join us. Masks and social distancing will be required. Visit Cityscape Home Mortgage Website EBA Information NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rd Tuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 15 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Neurodiversity Tulsa 1st and 3rd Tuesday of Every Month, at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna FORNEWAND RETURNING OKEQ VOLUNTEERS • April Volunteer Training Tuesday, April 6, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 16 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Interested in joining the OKEQ volunteer team? Already a volunteer but need to brush up on your service skills after the year-long service break? We are hosting volunteer training for new and returning volunteers to get ready for inperson programming and service at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! You will learn about the center, the duties and responsibilities of being a volunteer, and all of the necessary skills; all packed neatly into a 90-minute training! This training will be offered twice each month, so don't stress if you can't make it. However, these trainings are required to volunteer at OKEQ! We can't wait to see you! In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 17 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Tracy Allen July 8, 1965 - March 22, 2021 Mylin Gipson July 6, 1974 - March 17, 2021 Jim Craven June 5, 1937 - March 16, 2021 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 18 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Kodee Shane Nov. 28, 1990 - March 13, 2021 Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library BOOK OF THE WEEK The Beautiful Room is Empty Is a semi-autobiographical novel that tells the story of a young gay man's coming-of-age.The novel follows the nameless narrator and his experiences as a homosexual during the 1950s and 60s, up until the Stonewall Riots of 1969. Throughout the novel, the orota!lonist stru2'2'1es to build his career as a 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 19 of 44 --- - .- - - - - - c:, - - - - - https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... - - - - - - c:,c:,- - - - - -- - - - - --- - - --- -- - -- -- writer, while simultaneously attempting to suppress his homosexual desires. The Beautiful Room Is Empty AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT EDMUND WHITE Edmund White is the author of the novels Fanny A Fiction, A Boy's Own Story, The Farewell Symphony, and The Married Man, a biography of Jean Genet, a study of Marcel Proust and most recently a memoir, My Lives. Having lived in Pari or many years, he has now settled in New York, and he teaches at Princeton university. 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 20 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Click Here for Tickets While They Last 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 21 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Pride Volunteer Sign Up Form POC SOCIAL: Paint & Sip Friday, April 16, 7:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come paint something magical and sip on some wine. 21+ to drink POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 22 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Contact Kao RSVP Event on Facebook I ~ I I I , I I I ' \.----- - I , ' ' ' ' ,',', I I \ ' I I I t I I I 1 \ ' \' I \ ' ' APRIL 17. IDAM OUT IN NATURE: TURKEY MOUNTAIN HIKE Saturday, April 17, 10:00 a.m. Turkey Mountain Parking Lot OUT in Nature is an outdoors group by and for the LGBTQIA2S+ community. We host outings like hikes, bikes, runs, campouts, and more. For this adventure, we will explore the trails at Turkey Mountain. These trails are pet-friendly, so feel free to bring your pups! We will meet in the parking lot. Morgan will be the host, so feel free to email her with any questions at morgan.allen@okeq.org. Please wear a mask or neck gaitor while on the trail. We are always open to new ideas and activities, as we are just getting started! 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 23 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... A GROUP FOR LGBTQ+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE Every 3rd Sunday of the Month 5-6:00 p.m. email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectado Sunday, April 18, 5:00 p.m Online and In-Person Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. We will speak in both English and Spanish. email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultura Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para zoom meeting ID Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 24 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... GEN Q: Night Out Friday, April 30, 10:00 p.m Club Majestic 124 N. Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. Every Fifth Friday of the quarter, we will hit the town and dance the night away. OKEQ will cover the cost of admission for GEN Q members on a first-come, first-serve basis. Contact Kao RSVP Event on Facebook ( • J .,1 .,1 I ·1·1, ·J . ( , • '• / ) I ( . , .J"l LIVE STREAMED • ONFACEBOOK APRIL2ND, 2021AT7PM Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Donald Rose 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 25 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Join OKEQ as we continue the Queer Black Voices series with Donald Rose. Donald is a US Army Veteran serving from 1985 to 1994. Donald did Basic Training at Fort Dix, NJ, and Duty Stations at Fort Lewis Washington, Hannau, Germany, Fort Leonardwood, MO. This event was pre-recorded via zoom and live-streamed on Facebook due to Covid-19. Contact Kao Watch it Here OKE okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 26 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • - ---- • 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 27 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... • • • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access it via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 28 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Visit Us on Facebook Email Us AM LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA AMDOKEQ Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions, and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 29 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Click here to Contact PARENTS OF LG8TQ2SIA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 30 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 31 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 32 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Condom-Mania! Saturday, April 10, 7:00p.m. Virtual Event Condom-Mania! is a fabulous party, fashion show, lip-synch contest & fundraising event for the LBH. Fashions are made from colorful condoms! Click below for more information: Condom-Mania Information Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 33 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment RIBBON CUTTING 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 34 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... CEREMONY OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC In Case you missed it you can watch the recording of the OKEQ Health Clinic Ribbon Cutting Ceremony, by clicking the button below. Click here to Watch Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 35 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider TULSA COUNTY SHERIFF'S OFFICE 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 36 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 37 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams Peter Athens Philip and Miranda Kaiser Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Wes Smith Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 38 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 39 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, April 8th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 40 of 44 Support Group for Parents of Transgender People https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 41 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Ages 18+. jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- ---or alex.wade@okeq.org sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. ---- ---- Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education , Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 42 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC Sl'OtlSOIIIOIY lHIGIOltQl~Al- ■ 11 fAMILYfOUNOATIOfl 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 43 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President 4/28/26, 2:26 PM �In-Person Membership Focus Group 44 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/In-Person-Membership-Focus-Gr... Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:26 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/324119d9c9c8ffeeba25b90bada9cd18.pdf 686ad2c39315c9d6d5c410d674208b35 PDF Text Text Get Registered for Your Vaccination 1 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews January 11, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 2 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... To Register Yourself Click Here POC SOCIAL: Movie Night Friday, January 15, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. Bursting with the colorful street style and music of Nairobi’s vibrant youth culture, RAFIKI (2018) is a tender love story between two young women in a country that still criminalizes homosexuality. Kena and Ziki have long been told that “good Kenyan girls become good Kenyan wives” - but they yearn for something more. Despite the political rivalry between their families, the girls encourage each other to pursue their dreams in a conservative society. When love blossoms between them, Kena and Ziki must choose between happiness and safety. - 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 3 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... Download the Rave - Watch Party app in your app store and for more information contact: Kao by clicking the button below. Contact Kao EURODIVER TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30-7:30pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Neurodiversity Tulsa Tuesday, January 19, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 4 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies you are welcome in this group! Allies, friends, and support systems are also welcome! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Our first meeting will be a game night on January 19th at 6:30pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Inauguration Watch Along and Flag Raising Wednesday, January 20, 2021 10am for Flag Raising Join OKEQ as we celebrate the inauguration of Joe Biden and Kamala Harris on Weds. Jan. 20, 2021. We will be honoring this historic day by changing the flags that fly above our building to mark the change in administration and our hope for a brighter future for LGBTQIA+ citizens in the US. We will also be live on Facebook during the inauguration! Join us in celebration of a new day in America! Click here for OKEQ's Facebook Page . fI ' f •♦ f f f (J[[J(j)(J@(j@J!}__(l(l(g 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 5 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... JANIIARYBBND, 7PM Friday, January 22, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Meets via Zoom IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. – Vnokeckv. Add our IndigiQueer Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/indigiqueerokeq For more information, contact: Kao below: Contact Kao QUEER BLACK VOICES kAO MORRI S MAUR[ [ TU RN[R BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR OK HOUSE REP 88 LIVE STREAM FEBURAR Y 5TH , 2020 . 7PM. Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Mauree Turner Virtual Event Friday, February 5, 2021 at 7:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 6 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... Join OKEQ as we kick off Black History Month with the newlyelected OK House of Representative District 88 Representative Mauree Turner. Turner is the first publicly non-binary U.S. state lawmaker and the first Muslim member of the Oklahoma Legislature. Turner is queer/non-binary and uses they/ them and she/her pronouns. This event will be held via zoom and live-streamed due to Covid-19. Click Here to go to the Event on Facebook Presents: The January Oklahomans for Equality Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery will feature Lizzie DiSilvestro: “Warm Simplicity” Lizzie DiSilvestro’s work explores a visual representation of the feeling of being content, which brings us closer to or further from that state, and the healing impact of choosing joy. She challenges her viewers to remember the warm peace we feel when everything in life is 'just fine.' These may only be moments in between the chaos and thrills, but the way we design our lives and the choices we make every day can lead to a more constant feeling of contentment and 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 7 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... appreciation. DiSilvestro celebrates these often overlooked, often private moments that come in between the extremes of our existence because they provide the most honest look at life. Inspired by her father’s adage, “Most of life is not spent in the highs or lows, but somewhere right in the middle,” Lizzie believes there is nothing more beautiful than the contentedness and warm simplicity that results from finding joy in the ordinary. While creating, Lizzie allows space to observe her behaviors and intentions. Still, ultimate interpretation and conclusion are left up to the viewer, allowing a shared experience resulting in increased self-awareness. Throughout Lizzie's work, elements that remain constant are strong brush strokes, meticulously chosen color, and rich texture, all working together to emulate life’s opulent moments alongside the mundane. Growing up in Kansas City, Lizzie was exposed to a wide range of rich culture and world-class experiences from a young age. Greatly influenced by her paternal grandmother, a vibrant and strong female with a passion for all things artistic, Lizzie has been encouraged to create since she could speak. With a vivacious personality and a strong sense of self, the question has never been "would Lizzie express herself, but how." The medium of choice has changed over the years, but paint and fiber have remained constant throughout recent years. With a science and nursing background, Lizzie takes an analytical look at her surrounding milieu's temperament, those that inhabit it, and the interplay between the two as a mirror for her art. The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 on Thursday, January 7th,2021, with Covid measures in place. The show continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit ldisilvestroart.com or www.okeq.org. Take a virtual tour by clicking the below link to Oklahomans for Equality's YouTube channel: 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 8 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... To Purchase Click Here 0 G 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 9 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... Click Here to Sponsor the Center for a Day Stimulate the Community with your stimulus check. Please consider Oklahomans for Equality. These donations will help sustain programs serving the LGBTQ community. Click Here to Donate 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 10 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... Call for Artists - Deadline for submissions February 7th The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2021 Exhibition Calendar. Our gallery encourages artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media to apply. Details Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. OkEq will host the artist's opening night reception on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is installed on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after the initial delivery. Work must be available for sale. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc.) for each piece. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month before the exhibit for publicity purposes. How to Apply: Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images that represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted by email. Proposals incorporating the work of two artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. The deadline for submissions is February 7th, 2021. Notifications will be sent out by March 1, 2021. Please submit your entry below, with the subject heading “OkEq gallery proposal" Submit Entry Here 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 11 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on New Year, New Me! Starting in 2021, Oklahomans for Equality will offer scholarships for transgender persons seeking name and gender marker changes. This scholarship will cover the cost of an attorney and all filing fees. Applicants will be chosen based on financial need and a dedication to volunteer service. This scholarship is open to anyone in Oklahoma, not just the Tulsa area. We will select scholarships monthly as funds allow. Apply Here NAME CHANGE GENDER MARKER CHANGE SCHOLARSHIP DIO~IAII 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 12 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... ~IIUUIIIIIII Sponsor an individual's legal name and/or gender marker change. Oklahomans For Equality's Transgender Programming is launching a new Gender Marker and Name Change Scholarship fund! Help raise money for transgender and gender non-conforming folks in Oklahoma to secure funds for legal fees, gender marker change, and name change fees. The full cost for each scholarship is $300, but any amount helps! Donate Here OKEQ COVID· 19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 13 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... Breath of Fresh Air: In July 2020, the Dennis R. Neill Center installed air scrubbers in our HVAC system to help keep our constituents and visitors healthy when visiting Oklahomans for Equality. Clean air is important for everyone, those with health concerns, and those without. Please see more on these units using the link below: See more on Air Scrubbers olclohomo ~{E~ Volunteer, Save a Life ~-~-~-~~- Ok ahoma Medical Reserve Corps (OKMRC) Is seeking volunteers medical or non-medical to help w· h COVID-19 rehef. Please visit okmrc.org to earn more An Important Volunteer Opportunity - 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 14 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... Oklahoma Medical Reserve Corps (“OKMRC”). Despite the name, there is a huge need for non-medical as well as medical personnel to volunteer to assist with Covid vaccinations, COVID testing and future disasters, such as tornados, wildfires and other situations. The Oklahoma Medical Reserve Corps okmrc.org works in conjunction with health departments to support emergency response needs. Currently, OKMRC volunteers are working with health departments across the state to support vaccination and testing sites. Nonmedical volunteers are helping with traffic control, registration and other needs. In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost Willard Myron Wentz Sept 26, 1965 - Jan 07, 2021 It is with great sorrow to hear the passing of one of our Green County Bears Willard Myron Wentz R.I.P. you will be greatly missed my friend. Services to be Announced Jerry Perigo 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 15 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... June 4, 1946 - December 25, 2020 Services to be Announced Charles S. Kopp April 7, 1930 - Nov. 27, 2020 Charles S. Kopp passed in the early morning hours of Friday, November 27, 2020. He was 90 years old. Charles is the father of Norman Kopp, a volunteer at OkEq and PFLAG Tulsa. Charles attended many OkEq and PFLAG dinners at the Equality Center, art shows with the lovely Allie Jensen, and other programs. In 2007, he brought supplies to the Pride Store booth at the Pride Festival, and food to the OkEq Gala volunteers at the Warren Doubletree later that same day. Charles helped Norman prepare when he played in the softball league sponsored by the Equality Center, especially when he was the Green Onion team manager in the spring of 2011. An enjoyable moment for him was meeting Sue Welch, who was in charge of rehabbing the Equality Center building in 2006-2007; Norman 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 16 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... was one of the volunteers working on the project. His father got a tour before it was ready for occupancy. Charles and Norman not only loved each other, they liked each other, and it showed. In later years, they would come to the Equality Center on occasional Sundays to see that month's art show. To read more about Charles' life, see his obituary here: Charles S. Kopp Obituary Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library BOOK Of THE WEEK Something to Talk About by Meryl Wisner In this slow-bum heartwarmer, a hotshot Hollywood screenwriter and her winsome personal assistant are caught acting flirtatious on the red carpet, fueling rumors that the two are secretly involved. The rumors, of course, aren't so far from the truth. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Born in Michigan, Meryl lived in Portland, Oregon and Jackson, Mississippi before recently returning to the Mitten State. Some of Meryl's favorite things include: all four seasons, button down shirts, the way giraffes run, and their wife. MFDVI W11 ~NFD 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 17 of 39 1 - ■ L ■• https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... ■ L ■■ IL-,IWL ■ • SAGE Tulsa has moved their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. to a conference call. You can join the SAGE call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. Contact Us Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 18 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... SAGE is interested in learning about how LGBTQ+ older adults are feeling about the COVID-19 Vaccine. Do you want to get the new Covid-19 vaccine? Are you worried about it or confident? SAGE wants to know! As we’ve all seen, the new Covid-19 vaccines are being rolled out to medical personnel and nursing home residents. We want to know what you are thinking about the vaccine. Do you want to be vaccinated? Are you skeptical or worried about it? While we don’t yet know when older adults across the country will be eligible for the vaccine, your input is greatly appreciated and will inform our SAGE planning efforts. The survey should take no longer than 5 minutes to complete. Your answers are anonymous and confidential. Take the Survey Protect Yourself and loved ones from Medicare fraud Senior Medicare Patrols (SMPs) empower and assist Medicare beneficiaries, their families, and caregivers to prevent, detect, and report health care fraud, errors, and abuse. OVID-19 VACCINE Be on the lookout ror COVID-19 scams: 8 You likely will not need to pay anything out-of-pocket to get the vaccine during this public hea Ith emergency. 8 You cannot pay to put your name on a list to get the vaccine early. 8 No one from Medicare or the Health Department will contact you. B Beware of providers offering other products, treatments, or medicines to prevent the virus. 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 19 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... No one from a vaccine distribution site or health care payer will call and ask for your Medicare number, Social Security number, or banking inform_ation to sign you up for a vaccine. contact the SMP to report Medicare lraud, errors, or abuse at 877 .808.2468 or at smpresource.org. SUPPORTED BY GRANT # 90MPRC0002 FROM ACL Click here to Learn More Scams related to the coronavirus, also known as COVID-19, are rapidly increasing as the public health emergency develops. Scammers are targeting older adults and those with serious long-term health co nditions who appear to have a higher risk for serious Wness from COVID-19. Fraudsters are attempting to brn Medicare for sham tests or treatments related to the coronavirus and are targeting individuals to illegally obtain money or Medicare numbers. COVID-19 Vaccine Schemes Scammers rapidly alter their tactics and adapt t heir schemes to the changing landscape, and we anticipate that they will leverage the COVID-19 vaccine to prey on unsuspecting beneficiaries. Be vigilant and protect yourself from potentia l fraud concerni ng COVID-19 vaccines and treatments. Here are t hings you need to know about the COVID-19 vaccine: • You likely will not need to pay anything out-of-pocket to get the vaccine during t his public health emergency. • You cannot pay to put your na me on a list to get the vaccine . • You cannot pay to get early access to t he vacci ne. • You will not be solicited door to door to receive the vaccine. • No one from Medicare or the Health Department with contact you . • No one from a vaccine distribution site or health care payer, like a private insurance company, will call you asking for your Medicare number, Social Security number, or yo ur credit card or bank accou nt information to sign you up to get the vaccine. What Does Medicare Cover in Relation to COVID-19? • Medicare Part B (Medical Insurance) covers COVID-19 tests when ordered by your doctor or health care provider on or after Fe bru ary 4, 2020. • Medicare covers all medically necessary hospitalizations, including extra days in the hospital for patients who had to stay Ion er under COVID-19 quarantine. • Medicare also recently expanded coverage of te lehealth services to enable beneficiaries to access a wider range of services from their providers without having to trave l to a facHity. o This Includes access to doctors, nurse practitioners, clinical psychologists, and licensed clinical ~nd.aJ wocluH 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 20 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... o During this emergency, there are also more options for the ways your providers can talk with you under this provision. • For Medicare coverage questions, contact your local State Hea lth Insurance Assistance Program (SHIP) at SHIPTAcenter.org or l -877-839-267S. . . Shop. with Amazon . . Smile . Donate to.Oklahomans for. Equality . . . . . . • . One Convenien.t Place amazons mile ---~ You shop. Amazon gives. 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 21 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... ' . : ,,- .. , . .,; ..;._~ - - - - ~ : ., ··1·:' .::.... I - .' ~• _t -~ _., • anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + ird Friday of the Month at 7 21 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday, January 15, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us, and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends. Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent in Spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions, please contact Liz at the button below. 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 22 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras Email Us Here All Youth Programming has Resumed on Zoom 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 23 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... , R~\I . ~/ VOICE LGBTQIA• Y~ UTH CHOIR NOONS ON ZOOM SATURDAY AFTE: LLEN@OKEO.ORG E-MAIL MF~~Gl~~~RMATION _._ SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions, and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 24 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 25 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access it via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 26 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Coming Out Workshop 1st Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSOREOBY THE GEORGE KAIHR l'AMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 27 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to give you peace of mind quickly. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing, and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Click Here to Make an Appointment WE OFFER FREE MENSTRUAL 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 28 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... PRODUCTS TO ANYONE WHO NEEDS THEM ANY AGE, ANY GENDER. PEllel. CAll 918-74J-4297 OR PICKUP AT 621 f. 4TH ST. Equality Health Alliance 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 29 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider For intormation mat leads to the Arrest and conuiction ot the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ■ 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 30 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... Anvone wtth lnfonnauon Is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI bV Calling the Agencv's TIP line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emailing u s osb . k. v McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 31 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for 4/28/26, 2:14 PM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OkEq Board Meeting Virtual Thursday, January 14th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Regularly Scheduled Programming Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Allison Ikley-Freeman Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Get Registered for Your Vaccination 32 of 39 ~ �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 33 of 39 transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... ~~ : , ---"1.1.J[;:lll:J if\ \ ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to Support Group for Partners of Transgender People supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy (LGBTQIA+) youth by 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 34 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... Experienced Anew) providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. --- - - Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! COVID-19 Canceled: Programming 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 35 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. ARTS AND CRAFTS Nim !f AT THE OENN!S R NEILL EQUAUTY CENTER . -~ Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 36 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. www.okeq.org/eba ----- -- OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 37 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSOIIEOh !~~::~~~~~:~~ Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner Tracy Allen SAGE 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 38 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla 4/28/26, 2:14 PM �Get Registered for Your Vaccination 39 of 39 Visit Our Website https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Registered-for-Your-Vaccinati... View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:14 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4d13524e1e194e3216bb8ca78d362666.pdf d7938412d0759810411c56ea4148a93d PDF Text Text Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 1 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews January 18, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 2 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... Click Here to Sponsor the Center for a Day •• INJUSTICE ANYWHERE IS A THREAT TO JUSTICE EVERYWHERE .•• 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 3 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day from OKEQ. At Oklahomans for Equality, we believe that Black Lives Matter and injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. The work of civil rights leaders like Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and Bayard Rustin influences the work of the advocates who are pushing for change today. Thank you, Dr. King, for your work, and may we all be committed to your dream. You can see the OKEQ van in the Martin Luther King Jr. Day Parade airing Monday on News Channel 8 on your TV or on Facebook Live. 1 11 Sports are about ~~amwork, 111 I II not compet1t1on. Support !our Team I 11 11 11 ,. \1 11 11 11 I III 11 11 1 /r ~ ~ \' A r, 1 1 \ ~.-- Jit NO fo S8331 WI ~ , ' I \ Trans teens deserve I~~ to be part of the team 11 I 11 I 11 11 1 11 ACTION ALERT: 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 4 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... Oklahomans For Equality condemns Oklahoma State Senate Bill SB331, a new state senate bill introduced that prohibits transgender students from participating on the sports teams of their gender identity. Sports are about teamwork, confidence building, friendship-making, and leadership development. Denying transgender youth opportunities to participate in sports like basketball, soccer, softball, and more denies them opportunities to develop critical social-emotional life skills. Our transgender youth deserve to be treated with dignity and respect, and they deserve to have the chance to play on a team. Say NO to SB331. To contact your legislator, click the button below: Contact Your Legislator Inauguration Watch Along and Flag Raising Wednesday, January 20, 10:00 a.m. for Flag Raising Join OKEQ as we celebrate the inauguration of Joe Biden and Kamala Harris on Weds. Jan. 20, 2021. We will be honoring this historic day by changing the flags that fly above our building to mark the change in administration and our hope for a brighter future for LGBTQIA+ citizens in the US. We will also be live on Facebook during the inauguration! Join us in celebration of a new day in America! Click here for Facebook Event Page 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 5 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... 1st and 3rd Tuesday of every month 6:30-7:30pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 6 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... Neurodiversity Tulsa Game Night Tuesday, January 19, 2021 6:30 p.m. Virtual Event Regular Meeting 1st and 3rd Tuesday of Every Month, 6:00 p.m. Virtual Event Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month (on zoom until further notice) to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Them Puhl on Facebook for the zoom link or email by clicking the button below: Email Click Here to Attend (J[J){f)(J@(l@(!J(l{l(Jl IndigiQueer Friday, January 22, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Meets via Zoom IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. – Vnokeckv. Add our IndigiQueer Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/indigiqueerokeq - 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 7 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... For more information, contact: Kao below: Contact Kao Email Click for Facebook Event Na~& McDona ainbov, Library 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 8 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... BOOK Of THE WEEK Under the Rainbow: A Novel by Celia Laskey The story centers on a ragtag band of progressive activists who arrive in Big Burr, Kansas- dubbed "The Most Homophobic Town in the U.S."- with hopes of making a change in a small-town that appears very much adverse to it. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Her other work has appeared in Guernica, The Minnesota Review, Day One, and elsewhere. She was also a finalist in Glimmer Train's Short Story Award for New Writers. She has an MFA from the University of New Mexico and currently lives in Los Angeles with her wife and their dog Whiskey. (ELIA LASKEY QUEER BLACK VOICES kAO MORRIS MAl.JR[[ TlJRN[R BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR OK HOUSE REP. 88 LIVE STREAM FEBURARY 5TH, 2021. 7PM. 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 9 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Mauree Turner Virtual Event Friday, February 5, at 7:00 p.m. Join OKEQ as we kick off Black History Month with the newly-elected OK House District 88 Representative Mauree Turner. Turner is the first publicly non-binary U.S. state lawmaker and the first Muslim member of the Oklahoma Legislature. Turner is queer/non-binary and uses they/ them and she/her pronouns. This event will be held via zoom and live-streamed due to Covid-19. Click Here to Attend fBfT. A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. fEB 4, 6PM LIVE ON f ACEBOOK EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: A Happy Hour Panel on Faith and Sexuality Thursday, February 4, 2021, 6 p.m. on Facebook Live Join OKEQ as we kick off a new weekly program with a special Facebook Live edition of our religion and sexuality conversational group. We are excited to welcome Reverend Todd Freeman of College Hill Presbyterian Church, Reverend W. Lee Dominick from Trinity Episcopal, and Reverend Bonnie Lebak from House Church Tulsa, as our hosts for the evening. SPIRIT is a virtual happy hour-style discussion group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether their goal is to reconnect with faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce faith, or just connect with other people, SPIRIT is the group for individuals to explore faith and sexuality. Each Thursday, 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 10 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... a spiritual advisor from the region and surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. Click Here to Attend Want to build some distress reduction skills with a gender affirming focus? Join an OSU study of text-message based, transgender and nonbinary affirmative, cognitive behavioral interventions designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! The Study Includes: - Pre-Intervention Evaluation - Free 6-week Skill Building Intervention - Post-Intervention Evaluations - Progress Report - $20 Gift Card for Successful Completion Contact Us Today By Sending a Text Stating Your Interest To 405-744-9188 Approved: Protocol #: IRB-20-213 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 11 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... Click Here for More on the Study Presents: The January Oklahomans for Equality Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery will feature Lizzie DiSilvestro: “Warm Simplicity” Lizzie DiSilvestro’s work explores a visual representation of the feeling of being content, which brings us closer to or further from that state, and the healing impact of choosing joy. She challenges her viewers to remember the warm peace we feel when everything in life is 'just fine.' These may only be moments in between the chaos and thrills, but the way we design our lives and the choices we make every day can lead to a more constant feeling of contentment and appreciation. DiSilvestro celebrates these often overlooked, often private moments that come in between the extremes of our existence because they provide the most honest look at life. Inspired by her father’s adage, “Most of life is not spent in the highs or lows, but somewhere right in the middle,” Lizzie believes there is nothing more beautiful than the contentedness and warm simplicity that results from finding joy in the ordinary. 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 12 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... While creating, Lizzie allows space to observe her behaviors and intentions. Still, ultimate interpretation and conclusion are left up to the viewer, allowing a shared experience resulting in increased self-awareness. Throughout Lizzie's work, elements that remain constant are strong brush strokes, meticulously chosen color, and rich texture, all working together to emulate life’s opulent moments alongside the mundane. Growing up in Kansas City, Lizzie was exposed to a wide range of rich culture and world-class experiences from a young age. Greatly influenced by her paternal grandmother, a vibrant and strong female with a passion for all things artistic, Lizzie has been encouraged to create since she could speak. With a vivacious personality and a strong sense of self, the question has never been "would Lizzie express herself, but how." The medium of choice has changed over the years, but paint and fiber have remained constant throughout recent years. With a science and nursing background, Lizzie takes an analytical look at her surrounding milieu's temperament, those that inhabit it, and the interplay between the two as a mirror for her art. The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 on Thursday, January 7th,2021, with Covid measures in place. The show continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit ldisilvestroart.com or www.okeq.org. Take a virtual tour by clicking the below link to Oklahomans for Equality's YouTube channel: 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 13 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... To Purchase Click Here Stimulate the Community with your stimulus check. Please consider Oklahomans for Equality. These donations will help sustain programs serving the LGBTQ community. Click Here to Donate 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 14 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... Call for Artists - Deadline for submissions February 7th The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2021 Exhibition Calendar. Our gallery encourages artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media to apply. Details Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. OkEq will host the artist's opening night reception on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is installed the Tuesday prior, and no additional work will be accepted after the initial delivery. Work must be available for sale. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc.) for each piece. Artists must provide a bio and artist statement by the 1st of the month before the exhibit for publicity purposes. How to Apply: Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as five jpg images that represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted by email. Proposals incorporating the work of two artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. If your exhibit can be showed early, please let us know as the early months are difficult to fill. The deadline for submissions is February 7th, 2021. Notifications will be sent out by March 1, 2021. Please submit your entry below, with the subject heading “OkEq gallery proposal." Submit Entry Here 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 15 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on New Year, New Me! Starting in 2021, Oklahomans for Equality will offer scholarships for transgender persons seeking a name and gender marker changes. This scholarship will cover the cost of an attorney and all filing fees. Applicants will be chosen based on financial need and a dedication to volunteer service. This scholarship is open to anyone in Oklahoma, not just the Tulsa area. We will select scholarships monthly as funds allow. Apply Here NAME CHANGE GENDER MARKER CHANGE SCHOLARSHIP DIO~IAII 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 16 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... ~IIUUIIIIIII Sponsor an individual's legal name and/or gender marker change. Oklahomans For Equality's Transgender Programming is launching a new Gender Marker and Name Change Scholarship fund! Help raise money for transgender and gender non-conforming folks in Oklahoma to secure funds for legal fees, gender marker change, and name change fees. The full cost for each scholarship is $300, but any amount helps! Donate Here OKEQ COVID· 19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 17 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... Breath of Fresh Air: In July 2020, the Dennis R. Neill Center installed air scrubbers in our HVAC system to help keep our constituents and visitors healthy when visiting Oklahomans for Equality. Clean air is essential for everyone, those with health concerns, and those without. Please see more on these units using the link below: See more on Air Scrubbers In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Willard Myron Wentz Sept 26, 1965 - Jan 07, 2021 It is with great sorrow to hear one of our Green County Bears' passing, Willard Myron Wentz R.I.P. You will be greatly missed, my friend. Services to be Announced 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 18 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... Jerry Perigo June 4, 1946 - December 25, 2020 Services to be Announced SAGE Tulsa has moved their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. to a conference call. You can join the SAGE call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 19 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... Contact Us sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ ~, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE is interested in learning about how LGBTQ+ older adults are feeling about the COVID-19 Vaccine. Do you want to get the new Covid-19 vaccine? Are you worried about it or confident? SAGE wants to know! As we’ve all seen, the new Covid-19 vaccines are being rolled out to medical personnel and nursing home residents. We want to know what you are thinking about the vaccine. Do you want to be vaccinated? Are you skeptical or worried about it? While we don’t yet know when older adults across the country will be eligible for the vaccine, your input is greatly appreciated and will inform our SAGE planning efforts. The survey should take no longer than 5 minutes to complete. Your answers are anonymous and confidential. Take the Survey Protect Yourself and loved ones from Medicare fraud Senior Medicare Patrols (SMPs) empower and assist Medicare beneficiaries, their families, and caregivers to prevent, detect, and report health care fraud, errors, and abuse. OVID-19 VACCINE Be on the lookout ror COVID-19 scams: h/. You likelv will not need to pay 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 20 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... anything out-of-pocket to get the vaccine during this public hea Ith emergency. ~ You cannot pay to put your name on a list to get the vaccine early. ~ No one from Medicare or the Health Department will contact you. ~ Beware of providers offering other products, treatments, or medicines to prevent the virus. No one from a vaccine distribution site or health care payer will call and ask for your Medicare number, Social Security number, or banking inform_ation to sign you up for a vaccine. contact the SMP to report Medicare lraud, errors, or abuse at 877 .808.2468 or at smpresource.org. SUPPORTED BY GRANT ff 90MPRC0002 FROM ACL Click here to Learn More Scams related to the coronavirus, also known as COVID-19, are rapidly increasing as the public health emergency develops. Scammers are targeting older adults and those with serious long-term health conditions who appear to have a higher risk for serious illness from COVID-19. Fraudsters are attempting to bill Medicare for sham tests or treatments related to the coronavlrus and are targeting individuals to illegally obtain money or Medicare numbers. COVID-19 Vaccine Schemes Scammers rapidly alter their tactics and adapt their schemes to t he changing landscape, and we anticipate that they will leverage the COVID-19 vaccine to prey on unsuspecting beneficiaries. Be vigilant and protect yourself from potential fraud concerning COVID-19 vaccines and treatments. Here are things you need to know about the COVID-19 vaccine: • You likely will not need to pay anything out-of-pocket to get the vaccine during this public health emergency. • You cannot oav to out vour name on a list to 2et the vaccine. 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 21 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... • You cannot pay to get early access to t he vaccine . • You will not be solicited door to door to receive the vaccine. • No one from Medicare or the Health Department with contact you . • No one from a vaccine distribution site or health care payer, like a private insurance company, will ca ll you aski ng for your Medicare number, Social Sec urity number, or your credit card or bank accou nt information to sign you up to get the vaccine. What Does Medicare Cover in Relation to COVID-19? • Medicare Part B (Medical Insurance) covers COVID-19 tests when ordered by your doctor or health care provider on or after February 4, 2020. • Medicare covers all medically necessary hospita lizations, including extra days in the hospital for patients who had to stay longer under COVID-19 quarantine. • Medicare also recently expanded coverage of telehealth services to enable beneficiaries to access a wider range of services from their providers without having to travel to a facility. o This Includes access to doctors, nurse practitioners, clinical psycho logists, and licensed clinical social workers. o During this emergency, there are also more options for the ways your providers can talk with you under this provision. • For Medicare coverage questions, contact your local State Health Insurance Assistance Program (SHIP) at SHIPTAcenter.org or 1-877-839-2675. . . Shop. with Amazon . . . Smile . Donate to.Oklahomans for. Equality . . . . . • . One Convenien.t Place amazonsmile You shop. Amazon gives. 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 22 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... All Youth Programming has Resumed on Zoom 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 23 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... - ...... \\I" ,; ~ ~ '1'~~ ·. ~~ n1 ~ VOICI LGBTQIA+ YOUTH CHOIR ~ NOONS ON ZOOM SATURDAY AFTE: LLEN@OKEO.ORG MAIL MORGAN. EFOR INFORMATION SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions, and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 24 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 25 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access it via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 26 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Coming Out Workshop 1st Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPON50REDBY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 27 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to give you peace of mind quickly. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing, and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Click Here to Make an Appointment WE OFFER FREE MENSTRUAL 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 28 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... PRODUCTS TO ANYONE WHO NEEDS THEM ANY AGE, ANY GENDER. PEllel. CAll 918-74J-4297 OR PICKUP AT 621 f. 4TH ST. Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 29 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider For information that leads to the Arrest and conu1c11on 01 the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob al Rover Taxi s ' Anvone with information is asked to conlact the McAlester Police Deuanment al 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI bv Calling Iha Auanc1ts Tip line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng u s OS Lol ov McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 30 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 31 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �- A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Gender Support Program Virtual Thursday, February 11th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Board Meeting " 1('" Support Group for Transgender Teens ✓ I I I 32 of 38 Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 4/28/26, 2:15 PM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da.. Regularly Scheduled Programming Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Allison Ikley-Freeman Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day \::,;J'- I �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 33 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! 2nd Wednesday of the 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Tulsa Area Prime Timers Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 34 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org sa<re ~~~~:~~! ~~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Email youth@okeq.org for more information. way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! --- - - COVID-19 Canceled: Programming • LEGAL A10 tsi. , SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month Free Yoga Class at OkEq 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 35 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. ARTS AND CRAFTS N~;~~ • AT THE OENN!S R NEILL EQUAUTY CENTER Survivors of Incest Anonymous Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 36 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------ -- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 37 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... ~ • ii iii I T,. :""'........ 7'11! I i Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org iill .-.. Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC S~NSORIDIY lHIG10•011<£J1111 ~AHlllVPOUN~TION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee 4/28/26, 2:15 PM �Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day 38 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Martin-Luther-King-Jr--Da... Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. 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SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews January 25, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Let us help you file your 2020 tax returns! 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 2 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 525 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Featur-LV\,g TvtLbo<Jea ux: Tvie Tax Tvier-apkj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Thank you, President Joe Biden 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 3 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... ' I• 0 • "- On his first day in Office. President Joe Biden signed the "Executive Order on Preventing and Combating Discrimination on the Basis of Gender Identity or Sexual Orientation" to fulfill his campaign promise to the LGBTQ+ community and ensure everyone equal protections under the law. Presents: The February Exhibition in the Allie Jensen, Memorial Art Gallery will feature Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” My Blackness and Queerness enter the very same rooms I do, as is true for many men who present as Black and self identify as members of the LGBTQAI+ community. To create this series of work, I sat down and spoke candidly with several peers who exist at this intersection. I created work grounded in these experiences that allowed these men (and myself) to share authentic, personal truths about the challenges and triumphs of being Black, Queer, and male. No single identity supersedes the other, yet we exist—we thrive—in a world that seeks to pigeonhole us, often relegating us to small confines of an imposed identity we mush ultimately shed to grow beyond such limitations. Serpents are creatures demonized and vilified in western culture. So are Black men. Although we often project our own emotions and ideas on animals and use science to support our claims that we are more enlightened and cognitively advanced than all other creatures, many indigenous cultures and eastern philosophies implore us not to lord ourselves over all creation but rather learn, protect, and respect creatures beyond ourselves. This series of 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 4 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... work incorporates subtle and overt serpentine motifs to draw the connection be them and us. Contrary to many beliefs in the west, snakes are not, in fact, slimy. And while many believe they are only capable of acting upon instinct, they are social creatures to certain extents—not unlike us. They have been known to coordinate with one another to increase the likelihood of success in hunting and develop meaningful social bonds with one another. Like us, they’re selective about who they bond with. My goal, however, is not entirely to humanize these misunderstood creatures. I instead consider several idiosyncrasies of their behaviors and the correlations therein with our own—particularly the shedding of skin. Molting or ecdysis is a special and unique process for serpents to undergo. They are arguably at their most vulnerable when engaging in this process. What’s more, this process helps them remove harmful parasites that could kill them. While there are several complexities to this process and corresponding variables that deeply impact it, one thing remains true; they must complete it to become and/or remain healthy. Through this series, I assert that the men I held space for (myself included) must do the same to become and/or remain healthy. Identities placed upon us by society—by our own family, friends, etc. must be shed. When we no longer subscribe to them, we inherently subscribe less and less to toxic masculinity as it has long been normalized and codified into socially acceptable behaviors. Portraiture and critical use of blue and pink hues that allude to masculine and feminine binaries are prevalent throughout this series. Many compositions include statements by the subjects themselves to amplify further their truths oriented in such ways that audiences must crane their necks to and fro—they must physically change their perspective to engage with them. Much like antivenom, exposure to the toxins is necessary… The show’s namesake was selected because this work is ultimately about binding and neutralizing the venom that is toxic-masculinity. The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, February 4th, with Covid measures in place. The show continues throughout the month. QUEER BLACK VOICES 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 5 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR OK HOUSE REP. 88 LIVE STREAM FEBURARY 5TH, 2021. 7PM. Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Mauree Turner Virtual Event Friday, February 5, at 7:00 p.m. Join OKEQ as we kick off Black History Month with the newly-elected OK House District 88 Representative Mauree Turner. Turner is the first publicly non-binary U.S. state lawmaker and the first Muslim member of the Oklahoma Legislature. Turner is queer/non-binary and uses they/ them and she/her pronouns. This event will be held via zoom and live-streamed due to Covid-19. Click Here to Attend Oklahomans for ~quality proudly SUl!J!Orls Oklahoma House Bill 1190 _ _ _ AUBREY ALERT _.. This bill will create an alert to law enforcement and the media when one of our Indigenous relatives goes missing in the state of Oklahoma/Indian Country In honor of Aubrey Dameron: missing since March 9th, 2019 from Grove, Oklahoma. On Jan 20, 2021, State Representative Daniel Pae presented and filed The Aubrey Alert bill for missing natives in Oklahoma. We need each of our Oklahoma friends and family to call your representative and tell them to vote yes to HB1790. 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 6 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... Contact Your Legislator 1 11 Sports are about ~~amwork, 111 I II 11 11 11 I III 11 11 1 not compet1t1on. Support !our Team I \j 11 11 11 ,. /14 ~ ~ A \' 1 \ , , 1""- ' '.Ji ' l ' ~ NO fo S8331 Trans teens deserve iQ ... to be part of the team 11 I 11I 11 11 1 11 ACTION ALERT: Oklahomans For Equality condemns Oklahoma State Senate Bill SB331, a new state senate bill introduced that prohibits transgender students from participating on the sports teams of their gender identity. Sports are about teamwork, confidence building, friendship-making, and leadership development. Denying transgender youth opportunities to participate in sports like basketball, soccer, softball, and more denies them opportunities to develop critical social-emotional life skills. Our transgender youth deserve to be treated with dignity and respect, and they deserve to have the chance to play on a team. Say NO to SB331. To contact your legislator, click the button below: 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 7 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... Contact Your Legislator JUSTICE FOR ALL President Joe Biden rescinded the previous admin istration 's ban on transgender individuals openly serving in the United States Mil itary. Trans rights are human rights . 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 8 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... SAGE Tulsa has moved their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. to a conference call. You can join the SAGE call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 9 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... Contact Us URODIVE TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30-7:30pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Neurodiversity Tulsa Regular Meeting 1st and 3rd Tuesday of Every Month, 6:00 p.m. Virtual Event Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month (on zoom until further notice) to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 10 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook for the zoom link or email by clicking the button below: Email Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Tomboyland by Melissa Faliveno Like the Midwest, where the author grew up, Faliveno's dynamic essay collection is "a place that transcends boundaries, that defies definition, a body that holds within it a multitude of identities." AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Melissa Faliveno is a writer, editor, teacher, and Wisconsinite in ew York City. Her debut essay collection, TOMBOYL D, was published by Topple Books in August, and was named by NPR and the ew York Public Library as a Best Book of 2020 .. 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 11 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... I ILL ■ ..,..,n I nL ■ • LI~'-' fBIT! A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR FOR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR FAITH. fEB 4, 6PM LIVE ON f ACEBOOK W. LEE DOMENICK TRINITY EPISCOPAL CHURCH EQ,UALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: A Happy Hour Panel on Faith and Sexuality Thursday, February 4, 2021, 6 p.m. on Facebook Live Join OKEQ as we kick off a new weekly program with a special Facebook Live edition of our religion and sexuality conversational group. We are excited to welcome Reverend Todd Freeman of College Hill Presbyterian Church, Reverend W. Lee Dominick from Trinity Episcopal, and Reverend Bonnie Lebak from House Church Tulsa as our hosts for the evening. SPIRIT is a virtual happy hour-style discussion group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether their goal is to reconnect with faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce faith, or just connect with other people, SPIRIT is the group for individuals to explore faith and sexuality. Each Thursday, a spiritual advisor from the region and surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. Click Here to Attend - -~ aW'.- - - - - -- ·-------~----~----....J 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 12 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... In l\llemor1am remembering those we've lost Cloyd Alvin Stotler-Easly Jr. Feb. 12, 1959 - Nov. 15, 2020 Cloyd Alvin Stotler-Easley Jr. Obituary Willard Myron Wentz Sept 26, 1965 - Jan 07, 2021 It is with great sorrow to hear one of our Green County Bears' passing, Willard Myron Wentz R.I.P. You will be greatly missed, my friend. Willard Myron Wentz Obituary Jerry Perigo 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 13 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... June 4, 1946 - December 25, 2020 Services to be Announced Welcome to Welcome to Tulsa / Confronting Our Past, Embracing Our Future Sunday, January 31, 12:30 p.m. Presented by the Tulsa Office of Film, Music, Arts, and Culture: While 2021 marks the centennial of the 1921 Tulsa Race Massacre, today's Tulsans see this as a starting place, not a finish line. This event will explore how the spirit of Greenwood continues today and is guiding its renaissance through a screening of the new documentary short Welcome to Tulsa, followed by a panel discussion. Panelists: Trey Thaxton (Welcome to Tulsa director, Owner of Goldmill Co.), Venita Cooper (Owner of Silhouette Sneakers and Art, Greenwood Main Street Board Member), Phil Armstrong (Project Director for Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Commission) Moderator: Brandon Oldham (George Kaiser Family Foundation Officer on the Vibrant and Inclusive Tulsa team) 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 14 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... Click Here for Free Screening Queering Cinema in Oklahoma Sunday, January 31, 4:00 p.m. A panel discussion featuring Oklahoma filmmakers that reflects on the evolution of Queer cinema and how these films affect the communities they represent. Panelists: Laron Chapman (Writer/Director), Yousef Kazemi (Writer/Director), Alexandra Nicole (Writer/Director), Lance McDaniel (Filmmaker), Veronika Payton (Writer/Producer/Director/Composer) Moderator: Russ Kirkpatrick (Film Producer) Click Here for Free Screening 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 15 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... • D 9AM TO NOON VIA ZOOM Resilience of LGBTQ+ Families: Pride and Celebration GENERAL REGISTRATION: $25 R TIO okla.st/ChautauquaREG STUDENT REGISTRATION: ARST 50 STUDENTS TO REGISTER ARE FREE - ONCE THIS HITS CAPACITY, THE $25 GENERAL REGISTRATION FEE WILL BE REQUIRED. T okla.st/ChautauquastudentREG FOR MORE INFORMATION, CONTACT THE CENTER FOR FAMILY RESILIENCE AT CFR@OKSTATE.EDU CE DF PARTMFNT OF ER FOR FAMILY RESILIENCE COi Jt- or E.>JLahJn 1d HLni.. sc.,~l HUMAN DEVELOPMENT AND FAMILY SCIENCE Register Now! Spring 2021 CHAUTAUQUA Conference on Family Resilience: Resilience of LGBTQ+ Families: Pride and Celebration: Join us for the 2021 Chautauqua Conference on Family Resilience- Resilience of LGBTQ+ Families: Pride and Celebration. General Registration is $25 The first 50 students to register through the registration link will receive free admission to the conference. Once this hits capacity, the $25 General Registration fee will be required. Continuing Education Units (CEUs) Available! General Registration HERE Student Registration HERE 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 16 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... OKEQ COVID· 19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Breath of Fresh Air: In July 2020, the Dennis R. Neill Center installed air scrubbers in our HVAC system to help keep our constituents and visitors healthy when visiting Oklahomans for Equality. Clean air is essential for everyone, those with health concerns, and those without. Please see more on these units using the link below: See more on Air Scrubbers ~LIFE S(NIOR S(RYlt(S~ 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 17 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... Call LIFE's Seniorline at (918) 664-9000 if you need help registering on the Oklahoma COVID-19 Vaccination Portal We can assist you if: • you don't have an email • you don't have internet access or if • you just need help walking through the process LIFE's Seniorline is available from 8:00 a.m. • 5:00 p.m., Monday - Friday 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 18 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... All Youth Programming has Resumed on Zoom ~ !1 11'.s,A~ , ~ , ft1 • Tf ;iJ VOICE 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 19 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SATURDAY AFTERNOONS ON ZOOM E-MAIL MORGAN.ALLEN@OKEQ.ORG FOR INFORMATION SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions, and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact PARENTS OF L08TQ2SIA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org - --- Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 20 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org --- Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on New Year, New Me! Starting in 2021, Oklahomans for Equality will offer scholarships for transgender persons seeking a name and gender marker changes. This scholarship will cover the cost of an attorney and all filing fees. Applicants will be chosen based on financial need and a dedication to volunteer service. This scholarship is open to anyone in Oklahoma, not just the Tulsa area. We will select scholarships monthly as funds allow. Apply Here NAME CHANGE GENDER MARKER CHANGE SCHOLARSHIP 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 21 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... Sponsor an individual's legal name and/or gender marker change. Oklahomans For Equality's Transgender Programming is launching a new Gender Marker and Name Change Scholarship fund! Help raise money for transgender and gender non-conforming folks in Oklahoma to secure funds for legal fees, gender marker change, and name change fees. The full cost for each scholarship is $300, but any amount helps! Donate Here Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 22 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Want to build some distress reduction skills with a gender affirming focus? ~-=- • -~ --::;___:=. l - = ~ .. Jf D111 1,- . . . 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 23 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... Join an OSU study of text-message based, transgender and nonbinary affirmative, cognitive behavioral interventions designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! The Study Includes: - Pre-Intervention Evaluation - Free 6-week Skill Building Intervention - Post-Intervention Evaluations - Progress Report - $20 Gift Card for Successful Completion Contact Us Today By Sending a Text Stating Your Interest To 405-744-9188 ApproYod: Protocol /1: LRB-20-213 Click Here for More on the Study Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access it via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 24 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Coming Out Workshop 1st Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 25 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... ~l"ONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 26 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 27 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 28 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, February 11th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 29 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 30 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... Ages 18+. jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - . ---or alex.wade@okeq.org sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. ---- ---- Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------ Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 31 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 32 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC Sll'ON-..:on Tl11GIO•DIIUUH• ~AMllYfOUNGATIGtl Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell 4/28/26, 2:17 PM �Justice for All 33 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Justice-for-All.html?soid=110249... Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:17 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f3191221bbbb009d2c4682a0586c34f9.pdf 0dda32a995710dc4a753744771775ad9 PDF Text Text OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 1 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews February 1, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 2 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... F ~ }7ay.R.Oll Rental Propafy Bookkeeping Let us help you file your 2020 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 525 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com F~owned, ._ F .1.-r . -J:,JJ. ev...artu:L__ ___, 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 3 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 2020 Tax Donation Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2020 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@okeq.org QUEER BLACK VOICES MAUR[[ TU R~[R 9'AO MORRI S BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR OK HOUSE REP . 66 LIVE STREAM FEBURARY 5TH , 2021. 7PM. Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Mauree Turner Virtual Event Friday, February 5, at 7:00 p.m. Join OKEQ as we kick off Black History Month with the newly-elected OK House District 88 Representative Mauree Turner. Turner is the first publicly non-binary U.S. state lawmaker and the first Muslim member of the Oklahoma Legislature. Turner is queer/non-binary and uses they/ them and she/her pronouns. This event will be held via zoom and live-streamed due to Covid-19. 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 4 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... Click Here to Attend Presents: The February Exhibition in the Allie Jensen, Memorial Art Gallery will feature Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” My Blackness and Queerness enter the same rooms I do, as is true for many men who present as Black and self identify as members of the LGBTQAI+ community. To create this series of work, I sat down and spoke candidly with several peers who exist at this intersection. I created work grounded in these experiences that allowed these men (and myself) to share authentic, personal truths about the challenges and triumphs of being Black, Queer, and male. No single identity supersedes the other, yet we exist—we thrive—in a world that seeks to pigeonhole us, often relegating us to small confines of an imposed identity we must ultimately shed to grow beyond such limitations. Serpents are creatures demonized and vilified in western culture. So are Black men. Although we often project our own emotions and ideas on animals and use science to support our claims that we are more enlightened and cognitively advanced than all other creatures, many indigenous cultures and eastern philosophies implore us not to lord ourselves over all creation but rather learn, protect, and respect creatures beyond ourselves. This series of works incorporate subtle and overt serpentine motifs to draw the connection be them and us. Contrary to many beliefs in the west, snakes are not, in fact, slimy. And while many believe they are only capable of acting upon instinct, they are social creatures to certain extents—not unlike us. They have been known to coordinate with one another to increase the likelihood of 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 5 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... success in hunting and developing meaningful social bonds with one another. Like us, they’re selective about who they bond with. My goal, however, is not entirely to humanize these misunderstood creatures. I instead consider several idiosyncrasies of their behaviors and the correlations therein with our own—particularly the shedding of skin. Molting or ecdysis is a special and unique process for serpents to undergo. They are arguably at their most vulnerable when engaging in this process. What’s more, this process helps them remove harmful parasites that could kill them. While there are several complexities to this process and corresponding variables that deeply impact it, one thing remains true; they must complete it to become and/or remain healthy. Through this series, I assert that the men I held space for (myself included) must do the same to become and/or remain healthy. Identities placed upon us by society—by our own family, friends, etc. must be shed. When we no longer subscribe to them, we inherently subscribe less and less to toxic masculinity as it has long been normalized and codified into socially acceptable behaviors. Portraiture and critical use of blue and pink hues that allude to masculine and feminine binaries are prevalent throughout this series. Many compositions include statements by the subjects themselves to amplify their truths oriented so that audiences must crane their necks to and fro—they must physically change their perspective to engage with them. Much like antivenom, exposure to the toxins is necessary… The show’s namesake was selected because this work is ultimately about binding and neutralizing the venom that is toxicmasculinity. The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, February 4th, with Covid measures in place. The show continues throughout the month. Since 1976, the United States has observed the month of February as Black History Month. It is dedicated to celebrating and acknowledging the lives of Black people through their shared history and culture. Black Americans experience extreme bias and disparities daily in this 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 6 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... country. Despite these challenges, are instrumental in the foundation of this country and have contributed to American society and culture in many historic ways. Oklahomans for Equality will highlight the intersectionality of Q.ueer Black individuals that have worked and continue to work for the advancement of Black and Q.ueer people. ~~ ] ] 3 ~ ~ Ritchie Torres Ritchie John Torres is an American politician representing New York’s 15th Congressional district. In November of 2020, he became one of the first openly gay Black and Afro-Latino men elected to Congress, making Black, Latinx, and LGBTQ+ history. This monumental achievement landed him a 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 7 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... position as one of the nine co-chairs of the Congressional LGBTQ+ Equality Caucus, which works to achieve equality in the US. Representing New York City, Torres is passionate about being a “champion for the urban poor” and is vocal about equal access to housing, mental health stigma, and representation in government. ~ PIB1T1 ~ A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. [L!J ·..· ·..· . 9 -~ .Mt ■ •0 • : fEB 4, 6PM LIVE ON f ACEBOOK ■ TODD FREEMAN W. LEE DOMENICK COLLEGE HILL PRESBYTERIAN TRINITY EPISCOPAL CHURCH BONNIE LEBAK HOUSE CHURCH TULSA EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: A Happy Hour Panel on Faith and Sexuality Thursday, February 4, 2021, 6 p.m. on Facebook Live Join OKEQ as we kick off a new weekly program with a special Facebook Live edition of our religion and sexuality conversational group. We are excited to welcome Reverend Todd Freeman of College Hill Presbyterian Church, Reverend W. Lee Dominick from Trinity Episcopal, and Reverend Bonnie Lebak from House Church Tulsa as our hosts for the evening. SPIRIT is a virtual happy hour-style discussion group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether their goal is to reconnect with faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce faith, or just connect with other people, SPIRIT is the group for individuals to explore faith and sexuality. Each Thursday, a spiritual advisor from the region and surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. Click Here to Attend 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 8 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Bad Bad Feminist by Roxanne Gay Roxane Gay taJces us through the journey of her evolution as a woman of color while also taking readers on a ride Uu-ough culture of the last few years and commenting on the state of feminism toda . Bad Feminist is a sharp, funny, and spot-on look at the ways in which the culture we consume becomes who we are, and an inspiring call-to-arms of au the wa s we still need to do better, coming from one of our most interesting and important cultural critics. Feminist - - - - - - - - Essays Roxane Gay AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Roxanne Gay is an American writer, professor, editor, and social commentator. Gay is the author of The New York Times best-selling essay collection Bad Feminist (2014), as well as the short story collection Ayiti (20ll), the novel An Untamed State (2014), the short story collection Difficult women (2017), and the memoir L--------------~==~, Hunger (2017). ROXANNE CAY 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 9 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... remembering those we've lost Anthony "Tony" Carney July 4, 1965 - January 3, 2021 We celebrate the life of Tony and honor his memory. Tony was a long time volunteer at Oklahomans for Equality. Helping out in so many ways such as working the front desk, maintained the flags for years, the front door greeter at the Equality Gala for years, always in charge of the coat check at the Falalala Ball, and would organize the food drive and pet food drive. Tony's contributions have helped so many, and he will be dearly missed. Cloyd Alvin Stotler-Easly Jr. Feb. 12, 1959 - Nov. 15, 2020 Cloyd Alvin Stotler-Easley Jr. Obituary 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 10 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... Willard Myron Wentz Sept 26, 1965 - Jan 07, 2021 It is with great sorrow to hear one of our Green County Bears' passing, Willard Myron Wentz R.I.P. You will be greatly missed, my friend. Willard Myron Wentz Obituary 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 11 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... SAGE Tulsa has moved their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. to a conference call. You can join the SAGE call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. Contact Us ctrtti 1J£ collection: and Ob:cr /ion: NEURODIVERSITY TULSA VIRTUAL tROUP FEBRUARY 2 ND 6:30PM ON ZOOM Neurodiversity Tulsa Regular Meeting 1st and 3rd Tuesday of Every Month, 6:00 p.m. Virtual Event Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month (on zoom until further notice) to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. This week's group theme is Show and Tell: Obsessions and Collections. Show off some fun things you collect or tell us about your hobbies! Let's chat and make friends. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook for the zoom link or email by clicking the button below: 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 12 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... Contact Anna Empowerment. Through. Art. MAKE. -~R'f. From. Home. Art2Go: Five-Week at Home Art Class Starts Monday, February 15th Five art classes in a box delivered directly to your door once a week for five weeks! Learn a little art history, a little art theory, and then get creative with art supplies, step by step instructions, and virtual support. Projects include: • Altered books • Found object sculpture • Paper art quilting • Grafitti Stamping • Collage There are only ten spots for this first round of classes, so sign up for this free class today! Classes start Monday, February 15th. Contact Alex ©~~© t©~[p) £~ t©~~t1r£~[Q)© 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 13 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE February 218t, 2021 5-6pm email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectando Online Event Sunday, February 21, at 5:00 p.m. A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture: we will speak in English and Spanish. Email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for Zoom meeting ID Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultural. Se habla ingles y español. Enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para Zoom meeting ID Contact Donovid 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 14 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... We have recently launched the Release Them Now campaign which seeks to release I.C.E. detainees from Oklahoma jails, we will be working closely with the community. Calling All Creative Folks! Help the Little Blue House at TU promote SAFE SEX and let your inner designer shine! All contestants will design and construct wearable fashion items OUT OF CONDOMS. We will issue each participant 200 condoms for use in the project. Final fashion show designs will be presented in a FASHION SHOW fundraiser on April l 0, 202 l at our virtual CONDOM-MANIA! Sign-up by March l sq Email: linda-davis@utulsa.edu. Visit our website for additional information: LittleBlueHouseA tTU .org/SpecialEvents Sponsored by: @, little blue houH made entirely out of condoms! ...._.__. ... ......, 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 15 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... SAVE THE D~ EFEBRUARY 26, 2021 9AM TO NOON VIA ZOOM Resilience of LGBTQ+ Families: Pride and Celebration GENERAL REGISTRATION: $25 okla.st/ChautauquaREG STUDENT REGISTRATION: ARST 50 STUDENTS TO REGISTER ARE FREE - ONCE THIS HITS CAPACITY, THE $25 GENERAL REGISTRATION FEE WILL BE REQUIRED. T G NL • okla.st/ChautauquastudentREG FOR MORE INFORMATION, CONTACT THE CENTER FOR FAMILY RESILIENCE AT CFR@OKSTATE.EDU CEWER FOR 0FPARTMFNT OF FAMILY RESILIENCE HUMAN DEVELOPMENT AND FAMILY SCIENCE C • •al Ec>.1cdhJn d tl,., , Set..-=, Register Now! Spring 2021 CHAUTAUQUA Conference on Family Resilience: Resilience of LGBTQ+ Families: Pride and Celebration: Join us for the 2021 Chautauqua Conference on Family Resilience- Resilience of LGBTQ+ Families: Pride and Celebration. General Registration is $25 The first 50 students to register through the registration link will receive free admission to the conference. Once this hits capacity, the $25 General Registration fee will be required. Continuing Education Units (CEUs) Available! General Registration Student Registration 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 16 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... HERE HERE All Youth Programming has Resumed on Zoom 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 17 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... #~ n1•".P 11'.stA~~ VOICE A LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOI OONSONZOOM SATURDAY AFTE':.LEN@OKEQ.ORG E-MAIL MORGAN. FOR INFORMATION SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions, and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 18 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on New Year, New Me! Starting in 2021, Oklahomans for Equality will offer scholarships for transgender persons seeking a name and gender marker changes. This scholarship will cover the cost of an attorney and all filing fees. Applicants will be chosen based on financial need and a dedication to volunteer service. This scholarship is open to anyone in Oklahoma, not just the Tulsa area. 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 19 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... We will select scholarships monthly as funds allow. Apply Here NAME CHANGE GENDER MARKER CHANGE SCHOLARSHIP PROGRAM Sponsor an individual's legal name and/or gender marker change. Oklahomans For Equality's Transgender Programming is launching a new Gender Marker and Name Change Scholarship fund! Help raise money for transgender and gender non-conforming folks in Oklahoma to secure funds for legal fees, gender marker change, and name change fees. The full cost for each scholarship is $300, but any amount helps! Donate Here Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Support Group for Parents of Trans ender Peo le 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 20 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of Support group for anyone who 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 21 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Want to build some distress reduction skills with a gender affirming focus? Join an OSU study of text-message based, transgender and nonbinary affirmative, cognitive behavioral interventions designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! The Study Includes: - Pre-Intervention Evaluation - Free 6-week Skill Building Intervention - Post-Intervention Evaluations - Progress Report - $20 Gift Card for Successful Completion Contact Us Today By Sending a Text Stating Your Interest To 405-744-9188 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 22 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... Appron,d: Protocol /r: IRB-20-213 Click Here for More on the Study Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access it via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 23 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPOHSOIIED BY THE GEORGE k.AISH FAMILY FOUNDATIO,. Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 24 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 25 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 26 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex Virtual Thursday, February 11th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 27 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- ---or alex.wade@okeq.org ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced providing fun group activities, 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 28 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... community, and volunteer Anew) opportunities. Alphabet Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. --- - - Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 29 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... --~- - health outreach prevention education, Inc. UALITY Business Alliance H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. www.okeq.org/eba OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 30 of 31 Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSOREOh THIGfOltGl~A.IIU , .. MILYfOUNOATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �OKEQ Celebrates Black History Month 31 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Celebrates-Black-History... OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/66741da937c549cfed08786189632c5a.pdf 2073fec1dafda41cc560834770548c67 PDF Text Text Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 1 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews February 8, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 2 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... VOTE FOR SCHOOL BOARD CANDIDATES THAT SUPPORT LGBTQIA+ YOUTH. VOTE IN THE TULSA SCHOOL BOARD ELECTIONS TUES. FEB. 9 2021 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 3 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... Tuesday, Feb. 9 is an Election Day in Tulsa, and our LGBTQIA+ youth are counting on us to elect school board members who recognize and affirm their identities in and out of the classroom. OKEQ encourages you to get out and VOTE! Vote for our youth. Vote for our future! F~ }7ayROll Rental Properfy Bookkeeping Let us help you file your 2020 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 525 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Featur-L~g TvtLbo<Jea ux: Tvie Tax Tvier-apkj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 2020 Tax Donation Letters 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 4 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2020 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@okeq.org Presents: The February Exhibition in the Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery featuring Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” My Blackness and Queerness enter the same rooms I do, as is true for many men who present as Black and self identify as members of the LGBTQAI+ community. To create this series of work, I sat down and spoke candidly with several peers who exist at this intersection. I created work grounded in these experiences that allowed these men (and myself) to share authentic, personal truths about the challenges and triumphs of being Black, Queer, and male. No single identity supersedes the other, yet we exist—we thrive—in a world that seeks to pigeonhole us, often relegating us to small confines of an imposed identity we must ultimately shed to grow beyond such limitations. Serpents are creatures demonized and vilified in western culture. So are Black men. Although we often project our own emotions and ideas on animals and use science to support our claims that we are more enlightened and cognitively advanced than all other creatures, many indigenous cultures and eastern philosophies implore us not to lord ourselves over all creation but rather learn, protect, and respect creatures beyond ourselves. This series of works incorporate subtle and overt serpentine motifs to draw the connection be them and us. 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 5 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... Contrary to many beliefs in the west, snakes are not, in fact, slimy. And while many believe they are only capable of acting upon instinct, they are social creatures to certain extents—not unlike us. They have been known to coordinate with one another to increase the likelihood of success in hunting and developing meaningful social bonds with one another. Like us, they’re selective about who they bond with. My goal, however, is not entirely to humanize these misunderstood creatures. I instead consider several idiosyncrasies of their behaviors and the correlations therein with our own—particularly the shedding of skin. Molting or ecdysis is a special and unique process for serpents to undergo. They are arguably at their most vulnerable when engaging in this process. What’s more, this process helps them remove harmful parasites that could kill them. While there are several complexities to this process and corresponding variables that deeply impact it, one thing remains true; they must complete it to become and/or remain healthy. Through this series, I assert that the men I held space for (myself included) must do the same to become and/or remain healthy. Identities placed upon us by society—by our own family, friends, etc. must be shed. When we no longer subscribe to them, we inherently subscribe less and less to toxic masculinity as it has long been normalized and codified into socially acceptable behaviors. Portraiture and critical use of blue and pink hues that allude to masculine and feminine binaries are prevalent throughout this series. Many compositions include statements by the subjects themselves to amplify their truths oriented so that audiences must crane their necks to and fro—they must physically change their perspective to engage with them. Much like antivenom, exposure to the toxins is necessary… The show’s namesake was selected because this work is ultimately about binding and neutralizing the venom that is toxicmasculinity. The show is currently open at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120, with Covid measures in place. The show continues throughout the month. Take a virtual tour by clicking the below link to Oklahomans for Equality's YouTube channel: 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 6 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 7 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... SAGE Tulsa has moved their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. to a conference call. You can join the SAGE call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. Contact Us Since 1976, the United States has observed the month of February as Black History Month. It is dedicated to celebrating and acknowledging the lives of Black people through their shared history and culture. Black Americans experience extreme bias and disparities daily in this country. Despite these challenges, are instrumental in the foundation of this country and have contributed to American society and culture in many historic ways. Oklahomans for Equality will highlight the intersectionality of Q.ueer Black individuals that have worked and continue to work for the advancement of Black and Q.ueer people. ~lIDmn~ ]]3~ ~ 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 8 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... estine Eckstein Ernestine Eckstein is known for being one of the leading Black Lesbian voices in the early gay rights movement. She was a vice president and active member of the New York chapter of the Daughters of Bilitis, one of the first lesbian civil rights organizations in the United States. She was once asked if she considered herself radical in regards to her activism, and her response was, “I personally consider myself, um, very average and normal in every sense of the word. Not radical, but just simply…This to me is the way to be.” She was unapologetic in her belief that the fight for gay rights was equally important to the civil rights movement, which made her ahead of her time. ~ rBIT. ~ ~ - A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. ... ... . B .~ FEB 11, 6PM JOIN US ON ZOOM 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 9 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... W. LEE DOMENICK TRINITY EPISCOPAL CHURCH EQ.UALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: Interfaith Happy Hour Thursday, February 11, 2021, 6 p.m. on Facebook Live Oklahomans for Equality's new Equality Faith Alliance is excited to announce SPIRIT, a virtual happy hour-style support and social group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether your goal is to reconnect with your faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce your faith, or just connect with other people like yourself, SPIRIT is the group for you. Each Thursday, a spiritual leader from Tulsa and the surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. This week, our guest host is Father W. Lee Domenick from Trinity Episcopal Church. TO JOIN: email morgan.allen@okeq.org for a zoom invitation Precepts C.A.R.E 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practices Click Here to Attend Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library ft - - -- - - ---- ·••---4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 10 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... HOOK Of THE WEEK Zami: A New Spelling of My Name by Audre Lorde It is a biomythography, which combines history, biography, and myth. It recounts Audre Lorde's vivid childhood memories in Harlem to her coming of age in the late 1950s. The nature of Audre Lorde's work is cyclical. It especially relates the linkage of women who have shaped her AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Audre Lorde was an American writer, feminist, womanist, librarian, and civil rights activist. She was a self-described "Black, lesbian, mother, warrior, poet," who dedicated both her life and her creative talent to confronting and addressing injustices of racism, sexism, classism, heterosexism, and homophobia L---======-- -=====:.---=~~ AUDRE LORDE Empowerment. Through. Art. MAKE. -~R'f. From. Home. Art2Go: Five-Week at Home Art Class Starts Monday, February 15th Five art classes in a box delivered directly to your door once a week for five weeks! Learn a little art history, a little art theory, and then get creative with art supplies, step by step instructions, and virtual support. Projects include: • Altered books • Found object sculpture 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 11 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... • Paper art quilting • Grafitti Stamping • Collage There are only ten spots for this first round of classes, so sign up for this free class today! Classes start Monday, February 15th. Contact Alex In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Anthony "Tony" Carney July 4, 1965 - January 3, 2021 We celebrate the life of Tony and honor his memory. Tony was a long time volunteer at Oklahomans for Equality. Helping out in so many ways such as working the front desk, maintained the flags for years, the front door greeter at the Equality Gala for years, always in charge of the coat check at the Falalala Ball, and would organize the food drive and pet food drive. Tony's 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 12 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... contributions have helped so many, and he will be dearly missed. Cloyd Alvin Stotler-Easly Jr. Feb. 12, 1959 - Nov. 15, 2020 Cloyd Alvin Stotler-Easley Jr. Obituary Willard Myron Wentz Sept 26, 1965 - Jan 07, 2021 It is with great sorrow to hear one of our Green County Bears' passing, Willard Myron Wentz R.I.P. You will be greatly missed, my friend. Willard Myron Wentz Obituary Neurodiversity Tulsa Regular Meeting 1st and 3rd Tuesday of Every Month, 6:00 p.m. NEURODIVERSITY ~ -~••• ~a._ _ 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 13 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... Virtual Event Neurodiversity Tulsa is a 1st and 3rd ruesday of every month program of OKEQ focused 6:30pm on Zoom on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month (on zoom until further notice) to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook for the zoom link or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna ©~~© t©~[p) &~ t©~~t1r£~[Q)© A GROUP FOR LGBTQ+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE February 218t, 2021 5-6pm email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 14 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... OKEQ Compas Conectando Online Event Sunday, February 21, at 5:00 p.m. A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture: we will speak in English and Spanish. Email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for Zoom meeting ID Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultural. Se habla ingles y español. Enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para Zoom meeting ID Contact Donovid We have recently launched the Release Them Now campaign which seeks to release I.C.E. detainees from Oklahoma jails, we will be working closely with the community. 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 15 of 32 Calling All https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... Creative Folks! Help the Little Blue House at TU promote SAFE SEX and let your inner designer shine! All contestants will design and construct wearable fashion items OUT OF CONDOMS. We will issue each participant 200 condoms for use in the project. Final fashion show designs will be presented in a FASHION SHOW fundraiser on April l 0, 202 l at our virtual CONDOM-MANIA! Sign-up by March 1sq Email: linda-davis@utulsa.edu. Visit our website for additional information: LittleBlueHouseA tTU .org/SpecialEvents Sponsored by: made entirely out of condoms! 'PII; ~ little blue house ..w.iw..ni..__., Resilience of LGBTQ+ Families: Pride and Celebration GENERAL REGISTRATION: $25 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 16 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... STUDENT REGISTRATION: ARST 50 STUDENTS TO REGISTER ARE FREE - ONCE THIS HITS CAPACITY, THE $25 GENERAL REGISTRATION FEE WILL BE REQUIRED. ON LINK: okla.st/ChautauquastudentREG FOR MORE INFORMATION, CONTACT THE CENTER FOR FAMILY RESILIENCE AT CFR@OKSTATE.EDU _ CEWER FOR DfPARTM<NT OF FAMILY RESILIENCE HUMAN DEVELOPMENT AND FAMILY SCIENCE C Jl"· or EwLdt~n ·1d H 1 .! St1enc:cs Register Now! Spring 2021 CHAUTAUQUA Conference on Family Resilience: Resilience of LGBTQ+ Families: Pride and Celebration: Join us for the 2021 Chautauqua Conference on Family Resilience- Resilience of LGBTQ+ Families: Pride and Celebration. General Registration is $25 The first 50 students to register through the registration link will receive free admission to the conference. Once this hits capacity, the $25 General Registration fee will be required. Continuing Education Units (CEUs) Available! General Registration HERE Student Registration HERE I 11111 111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 17 of 32 ALPHABET SOUP KIDS ON ZOOM SATUROAV AFTERNOON 3-4PM ~ https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... o ·o • . <:::) o • () ~ ~ ~ ---- ~ . . {\ ---- {\ ~ ~ • '':. \\ YOUTH PROGRAMS • • . • ~ <:::) ~ ~ • . <:l ARE GOING VIRTUAU ) o 4 1 All Youth Programming has Resumed on Zoom • / ~ 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 18 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... VOICE LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SATURDAY AFTERNOONS ON ZOOM E-MAIL MORGAN.ALLEN@OKEQ.ORG FOR INFORMATION SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions, and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact PARENTS OF LOBTQlSIA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 19 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org -- ---- Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on New Year, New Me! Starting in 2021, Oklahomans for Equality will offer scholarships for transgender persons seeking a name and gender marker changes. This scholarship will cover the cost of an attorney and all filing fees. Applicants will be chosen based on financial need and a dedication to volunteer service. This scholarship is open to anyone in Oklahoma, not just the Tulsa area. We will select scholarships monthly as funds allow. Apply Here NAME CHANGE GENDER MARKER CHANGE 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 20 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... Sponsor an individual's legal name and/or gender marker change. Oklahomans For Equality's Transgender Programming is launching a new Gender Marker and Name Change Scholarship fund! Help raise money for transgender and gender non-conforming folks in Oklahoma to secure funds for legal fees, gender marker change, and name change fees. The full cost for each scholarship is $300, but any amount helps! Donate Here Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 21 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Want to build some distress reduction 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 22 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... Join an OSU study of text-massage based, transgandar and nonbinary affirmative, cognitive behavioral interventions designed to help reduce the negative affects of stress! The Study Includes: - Pre-Intervention Evaluation - Free 6-week Skill Building Intervention - Post-Intervention Evaluations - Progress Report - $20 Gift Card for Successful Completion Contact Us Today By Sending a Text Stating Your Interest To 405- 744-9188 Appl'O\·od: Protocol /i: IRB-20-213 Click Here for More on the Study Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 23 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access it via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 24 of 32 KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 25 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 26 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams Peter Athens Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 27 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, February 11th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 28 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Join us for Alphabet SOUP, Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group where all letters are welcome! Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Tulsa Area Prime Timers providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Email Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 29 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- ---or alex.wade@okeq.org sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan youth@okeq.org for more information. the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! ---- ---- Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------ Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 30 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 31 of 32 Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC 5ll'ONSOIIIDIY Tl11010ltOIIUI.IH• fAMllYfOUND.I.TION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez 4/28/26, 2:18 PM �Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” Opens This Week 32 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Alexander-Tamahn---Antivenom-... Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7058337d0c23c8be4a45954f7ce59a35.pdf 9e12f988abdecf1f2d30cda40b68aa2b PDF Text Text Urgent Call to Action SB676 1 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews February 15, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! HEALTHCARE WORKERS WHO SUPPORT TRANS YOUTH SHOULD NOT BE PUNISHED FOR OING l:KEIR TRANS YOUTH e DESERVE 00 HEALTH CARE ( NOTO SB676 ....-. ~ 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 2 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... JOB. NO TO S1676 SB676 - Authored by Senator Warren Hamilton, SB676 would prohibit transgender healthcare to any person under 21. The bill also creates felony penalties and sentencing for any doctor who intentionally provides such services to any person who is not age 21 or older. Our transgender youth know who they are, and they deserve fair and equal access to healthcare. Doctors should not be punished for caring for transgender youth. Say NO to SB676. Urgent Call to Action Contact Senator Greg McCortney, and ask him to say NO to SB676 Phone: 405-521-5541 Email: greg.mccortney@oksenate.gov Website: https://oksenate.gov/senators/greg-mccortney Mailing address: 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Rm. 534 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 Please tell Senator McCortney, the Chair of the Health and Human Services Committee, that this bill SB676 is an extreme attack on transgender young people. This bill shows a fundamental lack of understanding of transgender children, and if passed, would criminalize best-practice medical care. The American Academy of Pediatrics, The American Medical Association, and other leading medical authorities agree on best practice medical care for transgender youth. Transgender children, like all children, have the best chance to thrive when they are supported and safe. Giving SB 676 a hearing would put doctors, transgender youth, and their families at serious risk. 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 3 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... F~ }7ayROll Rental PToperfy Bookkeeping Let us help you file your 2020 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 525 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Fe~tur-LV\-g TviLbocAeaux: Tvie Tax Tvie..-aptj Dog Proud/ servin Oklahoma's LGB7i communit since 1982. 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 4 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... ©~~© t©~[p) £~ t©~~t1r£~[Q)© A GROUP fOR LGBTO+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LlfE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE February 218t, 2021 5-6pm email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectando Online Event Sunday, February 21, at 5:00 p.m. A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture: we will speak in English and Spanish. Email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for Zoom meeting ID Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultural. Se habla ingles y español. Enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para Zoom meeting ID Contact Donovid 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 5 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... Watch Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Mauree Turner OKEQ kicked off Black History Month with the newly-elected OK House District 88 Representative Mauree Turner. Turner is the first publicly non-binary U.S. state lawmaker and the first Muslim member of the Oklahoma Legislature. Turner is queer/non-binary and uses they/ them and she/her pronouns. Click the video below to watch the recorded live stream on Oklahomans for Equality's YouTube Channel. 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 6 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 7 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. via conference call You can join the SAGE call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. Contact Us ~ SPIRIT! ~ ~ A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. . . --· •.• • B FEB 18, 6PM FACEBOOK LIVE -~ . . ,{!1A ~ KELLI DRISCOLL DISCIPLES Of CHRIST EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: Interfaith Happy Hour Thursday, February 18, 2021, 6:00 p.m. on Facebook Live Oklahomans for Equality's new Equality Faith Alliance is excited to announce SPIRIT, a virtual happy hour-style support and social group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether your goal is to reconnect with your faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce your faith, or just connect with other people like yourself, SPIRIT is the group for you. Each Thursday, a spiritual leader from Tulsa and the surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. This week, our guest host is Rev. Kelli Driscoll, a member of the Disciples of Christ. Precepts C.A.R.E 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 8 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practices Click Here to Attend IndigiQueer Thursday, February 19, 2021, 7:00 p.m. via Zoom IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. – Vnokeckv. Add our IndigiQueer Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/indigiqueerokeq For more info click the buttons below: Contact Kao for Zoom Link 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 9 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... POC SOCIAL: Club Quarantine Thursday, February 26, 2021, 7:00 p.m. on Watch Party App POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. Club Quarantine allows you to party from the safe social distance of inside your home! Come chill, listen, and bop to some throwbacks and new bangers from your favorite artists and discover some new ones! Download the Rave - Watch Party app in your app store and for more information or for more info click the buttons below: Contact Kao Join Facebook Group 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 10 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... FEB. 25. 6PM OKEQ Membership Focus Group Thursday, February 25, 2021, 6:00 p.m. via Zoom You are invited to participate in this focus group to discuss Membership enhancement and duties being explored by the Governance Committee of the Board of Directors for Oklahomans for Equality. Participants must be a member in good standing with their $50.00 donation membership current with Oklahomans for Equality. Participants will review the proposed by-law amendments recommended by the Governance Committee of the Board of Directors. RSVP for the zoom link by clicking the button below: RSVP Here ~ Since 1976, the United States has observed the month of February as Black History Month. It is dedicated to celebrating and acknowledging the lives of Black people through their shared history and culture. Black Americana experience extreme bias and disparities daily in this country. Despite these challenges, they are instrumental in the foundation of this countr and have contributed to American aocie~ 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 11 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... and culture in many historic ways. Oklahomans for Equality will highlight the intersectionality of Q.ueer Black individuals that have worked and continue to work for the advancement of Black and Q.ueer people. ~@~~ ] ] 3 ~ ~ Philwllson Phil Wilson is more than just an advocate for people living with HIV/AIDS. He is also a survivor of HIV. He is the founder and executive director of the Black AIDS Institute, an organization he created in 1999 to help end the AIDs epidemic and address how it disproportionately affects the African American community. Its mission is to end HIV in Black communities by engaging & mobilizing Black institutions & individuals to confront the epidemic. Wilson has been involved in HIV advocacy since the beginning of his professional career. He is the co-founder 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 12 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... of the National Black Lesbian and Gay Leadership Forum, was the AIDs Coordinator for the City of Los Angeles, was the co-chair of Los Angeles County HIV Health Commission, and has also been apart of the National Task Force on AIDS Prevention. He was appointed to the President’s Advisory Council on HIV/ AIDS by former President Barack Obama. Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK Of THE WEEK B-Boy Blues by James Earl Hardy Hardy's debut novel from 1994 was the first gay hip hop love story and is credited for inspiring a new sub-genre. The first in a six-book series. It follows the relationship of 27year-old journalist Mitchell Crawford and 21-year -old bic cle messenger Raheim Rivers, who meet at a gay bar in Greenwich Village during the summer of 1993. Rivers is known as a "B-boy" or "banjee boy," which is a term that originated in ballroom AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT James Earl Hardy is an American playwright, novelist, and journalist. Generally considered the first to depict same-sex love stories that take place within the hip-hop community, his writing is c:::::,;;;;;;;;~=========~;;;;;;;;;;=0 largely characterized by its exploration of the African-American LGBTQ experience. )AMES EARL HARDY 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 13 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... 2021 Legislative Agenda To find your legislator and raise your voice about these bills, visit www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx Visit Our Legislative Page Here 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 14 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... Presents: The February Exhibition in the Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery featuring Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” My Blackness and Queerness enter the same rooms I do, as is true for many men who present as Black and self identify as members of the LGBTQAI+ community. To create this series of work, I sat down and spoke candidly with several peers who exist at this intersection. I created work grounded in these experiences that allowed these men (and myself) to share authentic, personal truths about the challenges and triumphs of being Black, Queer, and male. No single identity supersedes the other, yet we exist—we thrive—in a world that seeks to pigeonhole us, often relegating us to small confines of an imposed identity we must ultimately shed to grow beyond such limitations. Serpents are creatures demonized and vilified in western culture. So are Black men. Although we often project our own emotions and ideas on animals and use science to support our claims that we are more enlightened and cognitively advanced than all other creatures, many indigenous cultures and eastern philosophies implore us not to lord ourselves over all creation but rather learn, protect, and respect creatures beyond ourselves. This series of works incorporate subtle and overt serpentine motifs to draw the connection be them and us. Contrary to many beliefs in the west, snakes are not, in fact, slimy. And while many believe they are only capable of acting upon instinct, they are social creatures to certain extents—not unlike us. They have been known to coordinate with one another to increase the likelihood of success in hunting and developing meaningful social bonds with one another. Like us, they’re selective about who they bond with. My goal, however, is not entirely to humanize these misunderstood creatures. I instead consider several idiosyncrasies of their behaviors and the correlations therein with our own—particularly the shedding of skin. Molting or ecdysis is a special and unique process for serpents to undergo. They are arguably at their most vulnerable when engaging in this process. What’s more, this process helps them remove harmful parasites that could kill them. While there are several complexities to this process and corresponding variables that deeply impact it, one thing remains true; they must complete it to become and/or remain healthy. 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 15 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... Through this series, I assert that the men I held space for (myself included) must do the same to become and/or remain healthy. Identities placed upon us by society—by our own family, friends, etc. must be shed. When we no longer subscribe to them, we inherently subscribe less and less to toxic masculinity as it has long been normalized and codified into socially acceptable behaviors. Portraiture and critical use of blue and pink hues that allude to masculine and feminine binaries are prevalent throughout this series. Many compositions include statements by the subjects themselves to amplify their truths oriented so that audiences must crane their necks to and fro—they must physically change their perspective to engage with them. Much like antivenom, exposure to the toxins is necessary… The show’s namesake was selected because this work is ultimately about binding and neutralizing the venom that is toxicmasculinity. The show is currently open at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120, with Covid measures in place. The show continues throughout the month. Take a virtual tour by clicking the below link to Oklahomans for Equality's YouTube channel: Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on Empowerment. Through. Art. MAKE. -~R'f. From. Home. 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 16 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... •I - I ' Art2Go: Five-Week at Home Art Class Start Date Postponed to Monday, February 22nd Five art classes in a box delivered directly to your door once a week for five weeks! Learn a little art history, a little art theory, and then get creative with art supplies, step by step instructions, and virtual support. Projects include: • Altered books • Found object sculpture • Paper art quilting • Grafitti Stamping • Collage There are only ten spots for this first round of classes, so sign up for this free class today! Classes start Monday, February 22nd. Contact Alex In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Cody Wayne Allen Sept. 4, 1993 - Feb. 3, 2021 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 17 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... Cody Wayne Allen Obituary Anthony "Tony" Carney July 4, 1965 - January 3, 2021 We celebrate the life of Tony and honor his memory. Tony was a long time volunteer at Oklahomans for Equality. Helping out in so many ways such as working the front desk, maintained the flags for years, the front door greeter at the Equality Gala for years, always in charge of the coat check at the Falalala Ball, and would organize the food drive and pet food drive. Tony's contributions have helped so many, and he will be dearly missed. Neurodiversity Tulsa 1st and 3rd Tuesday of Every Month, 6:00 p.m. Virtual Event Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have NEURODIVERSITY TULSA 1st and 3rdruesday of every month 6:30pm on Zoom 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 18 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month (on zoom until further notice) to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook for the zoom link or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna HealthCare.gov is open for business from Feb. 15 to May 15. You should NEVER face discrimination no matter who you are or where you live. Need help finding health insurance? Worried about how much it will cost? You're not alone! Connect today with a FREE LGBTQ-friendly expert to make sure you're getting the best deal on coverage. Visit out2enroll.org/enrollment-help and enroll at HealthCare.gov. Looking for transition-related care? We've got you covered with TRANS HEALTH INSURANCE GUIDES. Find your state at out2enroll.org/2021-cocs/ and enroll at HealthCare.gov. ■ 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 19 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... ALLIE JENSEN MEMORIAL A R T G AL L E\R Y Presents: r • --- The March Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery will feature Audrey Byrd: “The Divine Feminine” “My bold colors and textures act to accentuate the femininity that is often so harshly judged and censored by the public eye. My main goal as a painter is to help people fall in love with their beauty and recognize their divinity. I use all reclaimed + repurposed canvases, frames, and miscellaneous oddities to create my pieces, in an effort to be as sustainable (and unique) as possible. I love manipulating my supplies to create one-of-a-kind paintings and sculptures that leave my viewers thinking “how did she do that?” and inspire them to try creating their own masterpieces.” “I am a native Tulsan in my second year of medical school at OSU-COM, with hopes of becoming an obstetrician and gynecologist. I have always been an artist of sorts, mainly photography and 2-D art, but I picked up painting in March of 2020 when COVID restrictions began. Now, it has blossomed into a full-blown business that helps me make the most of my study breaks. A lot of what I hope to embody in my medical practice is reflected in my art – that women deserve to feel sexy and powerful and worthy; that they deserve to celebrate their beauty and feel empowered in their skin. I want to use color and texture to accentuate the parts of femininity that I sometimes struggle to appreciate about myself. More 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 20 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... than anything, my work has helped me accept my beauty and power and helps me feel confident enough to empower other women in my professional life. I hope to incorporate creativity and artistry into my medical career to inspire change in the world of medicine.” - Audrey Byrd The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, March 4th with Covid measures in place. The show continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit www.okeq.org. Calling All Creative Folks! Help the Little Blue House at TU promote SAFE SEX and let your inner designer shine! All contestants will design and construct wearable fash ion items OUT OF CONDOMS. We will issue each participant 200 condoms for use in the project. Final fashion show designs will be presented in a FASHION SHOW fundraiser on April l 0, 202 l at our virtual CONDOM-MANIA! Sign-up by March 1sq Email: linda-davis@utulsa .edu. Visit our website for additional information: Little BlueHouseAtTU .org/SpecialEvents made entirely out of condoms! Sponsored by: • SAVE THE DATE FEBRUARY 26, 2021 9AM TO NOON VIA ZOOM 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 21 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... Resilience of LGBTQ+ Families: Pride and Celebration GENERAL REGISTRATION: $25 okla.st/ChautauquaREG STUDENT REGISTRATION: ARST 50 STUDENTS TO REGISTER ARE FREE - ONCE THIS HITS CAPACITY, THE $25 GENERAL REGISTRATION FEE WILL BE REQUIRED. TR Tl okla.st/ChautauquastudentREG FOR MORE INFORMATION, CONTACT THE CENTER FOR FAMILY RESILIENCE AT CFR@OKSTATE.EDU CE ER FOR Df PARTMFNT OF FAMILY RESILIENCE ( t"<,ll"' or EWldt n ·1d Hu, ~ Sc.,~~ HUMAN DEVELOPMENT AND FAMILY SCIENCE Register Now! Spring 2021 CHAUTAUQUA Conference on Family Resilience: Resilience of LGBTQ+ Families: Pride and Celebration: Join us for the 2021 Chautauqua Conference on Family Resilience- Resilience of LGBTQ+ Families: Pride and Celebration. General Registration is $25 The first 50 students to register through the registration link will receive free admission to the conference. Once this hits capacity, the $25 General Registration fee will be required. Continuing Education Units (CEUs) Available! General Registration HERE Student Registration HERE 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 22 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... () • All Youth Programming has Resumed on Zoom 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 23 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... n1•~ "~~ , 0~ VOICI LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR OONSONZOOM SATURDAY AFTE':.LEN@OKEO.ORG E-MAIL MF~~Gl~~~RMATION SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions, and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 24 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org -- Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on New Year, New Me! Starting in 2021, Oklahomans for Equality will offer scholarships for transgender persons seeking a name and gender marker changes. This scholarship will cover the cost of an attorney and all filing fees. Applicants will be chosen based on financial need and a dedication to volunteer service. This scholarship is open to anyone in Oklahoma, not just the Tulsa area. We will select scholarships monthly as funds allow. Apply Here 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 25 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... NAME CHANGE GENDER MARKER CHANGE Sponsor an individual's legal name and/or gender marker change. Oklahomans For Equality's Transgender Programming is launching a new Gender Marker and Name Change Scholarship fund! Help raise money for transgender and gender non-conforming folks in Oklahoma to secure funds for legal fees, gender marker change, and name change fees. The full cost for each scholarship is $300, but any amount helps! Donate Here Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 26 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... you to find community and connect to resources. l l JJ l l J All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 27 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Want to build some distress reduction skills with a gender affirming focus? Join an OSU study of text-message based, transgender and nonbinary affirmative, cognitive behavioral interventions designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! The Study Includes: - Pre-Intervention Evaluation - Free 6-week Skill Building Intervention - Post-Intervention Evaluations - Progress Report - $20 Gift Card for Successful Completion 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 28 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... Contact Us Today By Sending a Text Stating Your Interest To 405-744-9188 Appnm-d: Protocol #: LRB-20-21 Click Here for More on the Study Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access it via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 29 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSOREoay THEGEORGEltAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 30 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... ~ 111ance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 31 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 32 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams Peter Athens Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Virtual Thursday, March 11th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 33 of 38 Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 34 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- --or alex.wade@okeq.org sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 35 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. www.okeq.org/eba ------ -- OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 36 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC M'ONSO!tlOn lHE-=--llAlff• FAMll'l'PO<.INOA1- Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 37 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips 4/28/26, 2:19 PM �Urgent Call to Action SB676 38 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-SB676.htm... Kris Wilmes Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:19 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/14763c8b70902aef51b3431361eabd73.pdf 5ec901efc4e9ffa0f1319d98bd28940d PDF Text Text Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 1 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews February 22, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 2 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... F ~ }7ay.R.Oll Rental Propafy Bookkeeping Let us help you file your 2020 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 525 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com F~owned, ._ F .1.-r . -J:,JJ. ev...artu:L__ ___, 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 3 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Tell Your Oklahoma Senator To Pass The Equality Act Discrimination is still commonplace for LGBTQ+ Americans. Opponents of LGBTQ+ equality continue to file discriminatory bills in states across the country in an attempt to undermine existing protections in adoption, marriage, and access to basic public services and businesses. The Equality Act would ensure that all LGBTQ+ Americans can live, work, and access public spaces free from discrimination, no matter what state they call home. 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 4 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... The nonpartisan Public Religion Research Institute recently found that national support for the Equality Act is around 83 percent. This is the strongest level of support the bill has ever seen. We must tell lawmakers that now is the time to pass this legislation. Take action today by contacting your Senator by email or phone. It's so simple just a few clicks will get it done. You can even record a 30-second video! Click below and follow the prompts: Click here to Contact Your Senator FEB. 25. 6PM OKEQ Membership Focus Group: Voting Bylaws Change Proposal 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 5 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... Thursday, February 25, 2021, 6:00 p.m. via Zoom You are invited to provide needed and necessary community feedback regarding a proposed amendment to the OkEq bylaws, regarding how the organization currently elects the OkEq Board of Directors. Presently, OkEq bylaws require that the Board of Directors be elected by popular vote of its members in good standing. Participants must be a member in good standing with their $50.00 donation membership current with Oklahomans for Equality. OkEq is seeking to implement current best practices for an LGBTQ+ community organization of its size, based on feedback from national and local LGBTQ+ leadership organizations, guidance from Oklahoma nonprofits and other local leadership and fundraising organizations, and move the OkEq Board of Directors to a succession board. This would mean that the OkEq Board of Directors would, annually, with the advice and recommendations from our constituency, selfnominate the successor Directors to fulfill all the terms and conditions of a Director for the organization. This is a major change in organizational policy and OkEq needs community feedback prior to voting on this issue. Please join us and make your voice heard. RSVP for the zoom link by clicking the button below: RSVP Here 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 6 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. via conference call You can join the SAGE call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. Contact Us SAGE Tulsa in person meetings will resume Tuesday, March 6, 2021. Empowerment. Through. Art. MAKE. -~R'f. From. Home. Art2Go: Five-Week at Home Art Class Start Date Monday, February 22nd Five art classes in a box delivered directly to your door once a week for five weeks! Learn a little art history, a little art theory, and then get creative with art supplies, step-by-step instructions, and virtual support. Projects include: • Altered books • Found object sculpture • Paper art quilting • Grafitti Stamping • Collage There are only ten spots for this first round of classes, so sign up for this free class today! Classes start Monday, February 22nd. Contact Alex 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 7 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... rm ~ ~ ·.·. • •.•. A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. - FEB 25, 6PM LIVE ON f ACEBOOK -~ .. . f£lA ~ CARMEN WHITE JANAK EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: Interfaith Happy Hour Thursday, February 25, 2021, 6:00 p.m. on Facebook Live Oklahomans for Equality's new Equality Faith Alliance is excited to announce SPIRIT, a virtual happy hour-style support and social group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether your goal is to reconnect with your faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce your faith, or just connect with other people like yourself, SPIRIT is the group for you. Each Thursday, a spiritual leader from Tulsa and the surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. Our guest host this week is Carmen White Janak. Precepts C.A.R.E 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practices Click Here to Attend 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 8 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... POC SOCIAL: Club Quarantine Thursday, February 26, 2021, 7:00 p.m. on Watch Party App POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. Club Quarantine allows you to party from a safe social distance inside your home! Come chill, listen, and bop to some throwbacks and new bangers from your favorite artists and discover some new ones! Download the Rave - Watch Party app in your app store and click the buttons below for more information: Contact Kao Join Facebook Group ~ 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 9 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... Black History Month. It is dedicated to celebrating and acknowledging the lives of Black people through their shared history and culture. Black Americana experience extreme bias and disparities daily in this country. Despite these challenges, they are instrumental in the foundation of this country and have contributed to American society and culture in many historic ways. Oklahomans for Equality will highlight the interaectionality of Q.ueer Black individuals that have worked and continue to work for the advancement of Black and Q.ueer people. 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 10 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... Andrea Jenkins s a self-described Poet, Writer, Activist, Artist, and Humanitarian. In 2017 she was elected to represent Ward 8 on the Minneapolis City Council and became the first openly Black trans woman to hold public office in the United States. She grew up in Chicago in the 1960s and later moved to Minneapolis for college. She would eventually become a council policy aid and curator of the Transgender Oral History Project at the University of Minnesota. She is very immersed in the Minneapolis art scene and is the author of two books, "Tributaries: Poems Celebrating Black History" and "Pieces of a Scream." Her work has been published in several newspapers, journals, and anthologies. Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin The book focuses on the events in the life of an American man living in Paris and his feelings and frustrations with his relationships with other men in his life, particularly an Italian bartender named Giovanni whom he meets at a Parisian gay bar. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT He was born in New York on August 2,1924. He was an openly gay, African-American writer. He is considered one of the most - - - 1 !C! - __ __ _!._ _ _ _ - C - --- "'!- - a C! - - -- - ! . . ! 1 - --1 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 11 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... pruuuc wrners u1 uur tune. A uerce c1vu anu social rights critics. He was known for his essays on the Black experience in America. )AMES BALDWIN - - _I - -J _ _ .., __ - __:j~ - -- .., ____ __,I • __ ., - J-..J -= _. ___; -- ✓ ~ ._)- ~ - ..,_ • • .J _.,_~ I" ✓ --- Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Monique Washington FRIDAY, MARCH 5, 2021 at 7:00 p.m. Live Streamed via Facebook Monique was raised in Oklahoma, and fitness has been her passion ever since she can remember. She holds a degree in Exercise Physiology from the University of Oklahoma, and she has been training some of Tulsa’s finest for the past 20 years. Eight years ago, she and her wife Joy opened a private fitness studio, Physiques by Monique. They have an 18-year-old son and an 8-year-old English Bulldog. As a wife and a mother with a biracial family, diversity means the world to her. Monique serves on the board of directors for Oklahomans for Equality and leads the monthly conversations on addressing systemic racism. Click Here to View the Event on Facebook 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 12 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... Presents: r The March Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery will feature Audrey Byrd: “The Divine Feminine” “My bold colors and textures act to accentuate the femininity that is often so harshly judged and censored by the public eye. My main goal as a painter is to help people fall in love with their beauty and recognize their divinity. I use all reclaimed + repurposed canvases, frames, and miscellaneous oddities to create my pieces to be as sustainable (and unique) as possible. I love manipulating my supplies to create one-of-a-kind paintings and sculptures that leave my viewers thinking, “how did she do that?” and inspire them to try creating their own masterpieces.” “I am a native Tulsan in my second year of medical school at OSU-COM, with hopes of becoming an obstetrician and gynecologist. I have always been an artist of sorts, mainly photography and 2-D art, but I picked up painting in March of 2020 when COVID restrictions began. Now, it has blossomed into a full-blown business that helps me make the most of my study breaks. A lot of what I hope to embody in my medical practice is reflected in my art – that women deserve to feel sexy and powerful and worthy; that they deserve to celebrate their beauty and feel empowered in their skin. I want to use color and texture to accentuate the parts of femininity that I sometimes struggle to appreciate about myself. More than anything, my work has helped me accept my beauty and power and helps me feel confident enough to empower other women in my professional life. I hope to incorporate creativity and artistry into my medical career to inspire change in the world of medicine.” - Audrey Byrd The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 13 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... Street Tulsa OK 74120 on Thursday, March 4th, with Covid measures in place. The show continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit www.okeq.org. ALPHABET SOUP KIOS Z SATURDAY AFTERNOON 3-4PM • • • o ~ ·o ~ • . <:) • • \\ • \\ -::::- ALPHABET SOUP SATURDAY NIGHTS 5-BPM YOUTH PROGRAMS \\ <:) ~ARE BACK IN PERSONI) 0 RAISE YOUR VOICE YOUTH CHOIR • 4 SATURDAY AFTERNOON 4-5PM • YOUTH GROUPS RESUME MARCH 6, 2021 Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group will resume Saturday, March 6, 2021, starting at 3:00 pm. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 14 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... 2021 Legislative Agenda To find your legislator and raise your voice about these bills, visit www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx Visit Our Legislative Page Here In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Cody Wayne Allen 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 15 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... Sept. 4, 1993 - Feb. 3, 2021 Cody Wayne Allen Obituary Anthony "Tony" Carney July 4, 1965 - January 3, 2021 We celebrate the life of Tony and honor his memory. Tony was a long time volunteer at Oklahomans for Equality. Helping out in so many ways such as working the front desk, maintained the flags for years, the front door greeter at the Equality Gala for years, always in charge of the coat check at the Falalala Ball, and would organize the food drive and pet food drive. Tony's contributions have helped so many, and he will be dearly missed. Neurodiversity Tulsa 1st and 3rd Tuesday of Every Month, 6:00 p.m. Virtual Event Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, NEURODIVERSITY TULSA 1st and 3rd Tuesday of every month 6:30pm on Zoom 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 16 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month (on zoom until further notice) to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook for the zoom link or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna #GetCove 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 17 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... HealthCare.gov is open for business from Feb. 15 to May 15. You should NEVER face discrimination no matter who you are or where you live. Need help finding health insurance? Worried about how much it will cost? You're not alone! Connect today with a FREE LGBTQ-friendly expert to make sure you're getting the best deal on coverage. Visit out2enroll.org/enrollment-help and enroll at HealthCare.gov. Looking for transition-related care? We've got you covered with TRANS HEALTH INSURANCE GUIDES. Find your state at out2enroll.org/2021-cocs/ and enroll at HealthCare.gov. Watch Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Mauree Turner 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 18 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... OKEQ kicked off Black History Month with the newly-elected OK House District 88 Representative Mauree Turner. Turner is the first publicly non-binary U.S. state lawmaker and the first Muslim member of the Oklahoma Legislature. Turner is queer/non-binary and uses they/ them and she/her pronouns. Click the video below to watch the recorded live stream on Oklahomans for Equality's YouTube Channel. Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on Presents: 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 19 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... The February Exhibition in the Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery featuring Alexander Tamahn: “Antivenom” My Blackness and Queerness enter the same rooms I do, as is true for many men who present as Black and self-identify as members of the LGBTQAI+ community. To create this series of work, I sat down and spoke candidly with several peers who exist at this intersection. I created work grounded in these experiences that allowed these men (and myself) to share authentic, personal truths about the challenges and triumphs of being Black, Queer, and male. No single identity supersedes the other, yet we exist—we thrive—in a world that seeks to pigeonhole us, often relegating us to small confines of an imposed identity we must ultimately shed to grow beyond such limitations. Serpents are creatures demonized and vilified in western culture. So are Black men. Although we often project our own emotions and ideas on animals and use science to support our claims that we are more enlightened and cognitively advanced than all other creatures, many indigenous cultures and eastern philosophies implore us not to lord ourselves over all creation but rather learn, protect, and respect creatures beyond ourselves. This series of works incorporate subtle and overt serpentine motifs to draw the connection be them and us. Contrary to many beliefs in the west, snakes are not, in fact, slimy. And while many believe they are only capable of acting upon instinct, they are social creatures to certain extents—not unlike us. They have been known to coordinate with one another to increase the likelihood of success in hunting and developing meaningful social bonds with one another. Like us, they’re selective about who they bond with. My goal, however, is not entirely to humanize these misunderstood creatures. I instead consider several idiosyncrasies of their behaviors and the correlations therein with our own—particularly the shedding of skin. Molting or ecdysis is a special and unique process for serpents to undergo. They are arguably at their most vulnerable when engaging in this process. What’s more, this process helps them remove harmful parasites that could kill them. While there are several complexities to this process and corresponding variables that deeply impact it, one thing remains true; they must complete it to become and/or remain healthy. Through this series, I assert that the men I held space for (myself included) must do the same to become and/or remain healthy. Identities placed upon us by society—by our own family, friends, etc. must be shed. When we no longer subscribe to them, we inherently subscribe less and less to toxic masculinity as it has long been normalized and codified into socially acceptable behaviors. Portraiture and critical use of blue and pink hues that allude to masculine and feminine binaries are prevalent throughout this series. Many compositions include statements by the subjects themselves to amplify their truths oriented so that audiences must crane their necks to and fro—they must physically change their perspective to engage with them. Much like antivenom, exposure to the toxins is necessary… The show’s namesake was selected because this work is ultimately about binding and neutralizing the venom that is toxicmasculinity. 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 20 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... The show is currently open at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120, with Covid measures in place. The show continues throughout the month. Take a virtual tour by clicking the below link to Oklahomans for Equality's YouTube channel: Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on {JCJ(p)(J@(J@(!J(l(l(fl : =f}J(j){/(f?/Jfj @l][!,fj(!Jff?til!, ! I(}~ r:J(Jfj()(j /JjJJJ;:} ~ ' MARCH 12TH, 7PM ' IndigiQueer LGBT-2Spirit Cultural Training Thursday, March 12, 2021, 7:00 p.m. via Zoom IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. – Vnokeckv. Join us for the history of 2spirit culture, the roles of the 2spirit person, and how they helped their tribe and their people through their gifts from the Creator. This training is led by John Co-cke from Muscogee Creek Nation. 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 21 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... Add our IndigiQueer Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/indigiqueerokeq For more info, click the buttons below: Contact Kao for Zoom Link ©~~© t©~[p) &~ t©~~t1r£~[Q)© A GROUP FOR LGBTQ+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE March 218t, 2021 5-6pm email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectando Online Event Sunday, March 21, at 5:00 p.m. A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture: we will speak in English and Spanish. Email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for Zoom meeting ID Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultural. Se habla ingles y español. Enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para Zoom meeting ID Contact Donovid 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 22 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... ~)·~·~J,ri, ., R~ $~%¾ / ,'. ■ ~ ~!l /4 ~ !J VOICE LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SATURDAY AFTERNOONS ON ZOOM E-MAIL MORGAN.ALLEN@OKEQ.ORG FOR INFORMATION SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions, and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 23 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... Click here to Contact PARENTS OF LG8TQ2SIA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Calling All Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Creative Folks! Help the Little Blue House at TU promote SAFE SEX and let your inner designer shine! All contestants will design and construct wearable fashion items OUT OF CONDOMS. We will issue each participant 200 condoms for use in the project. Final fashion show designs will be presented in a FASHION SHOW fundraiser on April l 0, 202 l at our virtual CONDOM-MANIA! Sign-up by March 1sq Email: linda-davis@utulsa.edu. 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Spring 2021 CHAUTAUQUA Conference on Family Resilience: Resilience of LGBTQ+ Families: Pride and 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 25 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... Celebration: Join us for the 2021 Chautauqua Conference on Family Resilience- Resilience of LGBTQ+ Families: Pride and Celebration. General Registration is $25 The first 50 students to register through the registration link will receive free admission to the conference. Once this hits capacity, the $25 General Registration fee will be required. Continuing Education Units (CEUs) Available! General Registration HERE Student Registration HERE 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 26 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on New Year, New Me! Starting in 2021, Oklahomans for Equality will offer scholarships for transgender persons seeking a name and gender marker changes. This scholarship will cover the cost of an attorney and all filing fees. Applicants will be chosen based on financial need and a dedication to volunteer service. This scholarship is open to anyone in Oklahoma, not just the Tulsa area. We will select scholarships monthly as funds allow. Apply Here NAME CHANGE GENDER MARKER CHANGE SCHOLARSHIP PIDGRIM 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 27 of 39 ■ https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... ■1 •~ ■ •ar• ,■ Sponsor an individual's legal name and/or gender marker change. Oklahomans For Equality's Transgender Programming is launching a new Gender Marker and Name Change Scholarship fund! Help raise money for transgender and gender non-conforming folks in Oklahoma to secure funds for legal fees, gender marker change, and name change fees. The full cost for each scholarship is $300, but any amount helps! Donate Here Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 28 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Want to build some distress reduction skills with a gender affirming focus? 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 29 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... Join an OSU study of text-message based, transgender and nonbinary affirmative, cognitive behavioral interventions designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! The Study Includes: - Pre-Intervention Evaluation - Free 6-week Skill Building Intervention - Post-Intervention Evaluations - Progress Report - $20 Gift Card for Successful Completion Contact Us Today By Sending a Text Stating Your Interest To 405-744-9188 ApproYod: Protocol /1: LRB-20-213 Click Here for More on the Study Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access it via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 30 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPON50REDBY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 31 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 32 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 33 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams Peter Athens Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 34 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, March 11th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 35 of 39 Transgender People https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Join us for Alphabet SOUP, Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group where all letters are welcome! Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 36 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - . ---or alex.wade@okeq.org sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. --- . ---- Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education , Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ---- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 37 of 39 ' https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... . Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org : Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC $PONSOIH;oav THlGEOltGE~AlHR 4/28/26, 2:20 PM �Tell Your U.S. Senator To Pass The Equality Act 38 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Tell-Your-U-S--Senator-To-Pass-... 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Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:20 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d56656ee0afd36faf48dc811b756c822.pdf 83ee5ed204379158f12612a804e941b6 PDF Text Text "The Divine Feminine" Opens 1 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews March 1st, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Let us help you file your 2020 tax returns! 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 2 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 525 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com F~owneci Fe~tur-LV\,g TvtLboc{etA u_x: & operc;:,.;td Tvte TIA)( TvteYtA"f)t'.J Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. The Equality Act Passes the Hause! 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 3 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... r:a11 your senator ana ask them to say YES to Equality! The Equality Act Passes in U.S. House Senators Must Now Prioritize LGBTQ Nondiscrimination Protections Oklahomans for Equality applauds the U.S. House of Representatives’ quick passage of the Equality Act. This landmark federal law would protect LGBTQ Americans in virtually all areas of daily life. The bill would amend existing civil rights laws to explicitly ban LGBTQ discrimination in employment, housing, education, credit, jury service, and other areas and explicitly extend sex discrimination protections to public accommodations and federally funded programs. A companion bill, S.788, was introduced on February 23rd in the Senate. LGBTQ people continue to face discrimination in their daily lives. A recent study found one in three LGBTQ Americans facing discrimination in the previous year, including three in five transgender Americans. Currently, half of LGBTQ people live in the 29 states that still lack comprehensive statewide laws, while opponents of equality continue to file discriminatory legislation aimed at eroding existing protections for LGBTQ people and their families. The Equality Act would ensure that all LGBTQ Americans can live, work, and access public spaces free from discrimination, no matter what state they call home. It has broad and deep support across lines of political parties, faith traditions, and geography, with 83 percent of Americans saying they favor LGBTQ nondiscrimination protections, including 68 percent of Republicans and a majority in every state in the country. Take action today by contacting your Senator by email or phone. It's so simple - just a few clicks will get it done. You can even record a 30-second video! Click below and follow the prompts: Click here to Contact Your Senator SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings will resume Tuesday, March 2, 2021. 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 4 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... sao-e ;~~~~:~~o~ c)-, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, March 2, 2021, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa will resume meeting in-person Tuesday, March 2nd, 2021. Please see the COVID-19 Guidelines below to participate. SAGE Lunch will be served at 11:30 a.m. SAGE Movie Club will view "SuperNova" at 12:30 p.m. In "SuperNova", Stanley Tucci and Colin Firth play a gay couple together for several decades taking a road trip. One partner has been diagnosed with dementia. Watch the trailer by clicking below: StudiocanalUK a Watch on 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 5 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... OKEQ COVID· 19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPA□ AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Contact Us Presents: r 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 6 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... The March Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery will feature Audrey Byrd: “The Divine Feminine” The opening Reception is Thursday, March 4th, at 6:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 with Covid measures in place. The show continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit www.okeq.org. “My bold colors and textures act to accentuate the femininity that is often so harshly judged and censored by the public eye. My main goal as a painter is to help people fall in love with their beauty and recognize their divinity. I use all reclaimed + repurposed canvases, frames, and miscellaneous oddities to create my pieces to be as sustainable (and unique) as possible. I love manipulating my supplies to create one-of-a-kind paintings and sculptures that leave my viewers thinking, “how did she do that?” and inspire them to try creating their own masterpieces.” “I am a native Tulsan in my second year of medical school at OSU-COM, with hopes of becoming an obstetrician and gynecologist. I have always been an artist of sorts, mainly photography and 2-D art, but I picked up painting in March of 2020 when COVID restrictions began. Now, it has blossomed into a full-blown business that helps me make the most of my study breaks. A lot of what I hope to embody in my medical practice is reflected in my art – that women deserve to feel sexy and powerful and worthy; they deserve to celebrate their beauty and feel empowered in their skin. I want to use color and texture to accentuate the parts of femininity that I sometimes struggle to appreciate about myself. More than anything, my work has helped me accept my beauty and power and helps me feel confident enough to empower other women in my professional life. I hope to incorporate creativity and artistry into my medical career to inspire change in the world of medicine.” - Audrey Byrd For a Virtual Tour Click the Video Below: 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 7 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Monique Washington Friday, March 5, 2021, at 7:00 p.m. Live Streamed via Facebook Monique was raised in Oklahoma, and fitness has been her passion ever since she can remember. She holds a degree in Exercise Physiology from the University of Oklahoma, and she has been training some of Tulsa’s finest for the past 20 years. Eight years ago, she and her wife Joy opened a private fitness studio, Physiques by Monique. They have an 18-year-old son and an 8-year-old English Bulldog. As a wife and a mother with a biracial family, diversity means the 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 8 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... world to her. Monique serves on the board of directors for Oklahomans for Equality and leads the monthly conversations on addressing systemic racism. Click Here to View the Event on Facebook CELEBRA Tl NS 1 HISTORY MONTH Oklahomans for Equality recognizes March as Women's History Month. Since our founding in 1980, women have been critical to the operation and success of our organization. We have seen amazing women leaders who have served as Presidents, Vice Presidents, Executive Directors, Board Members, staff members, and program creators and facilitators. Nationally, LGBTQ+ women, especially our transgender women of color, have pushed our movement to be more inclusive and have led the fight for equality since the very beginning. This month, OKEQ will highlight LGBTQ+ women who have made an impact in our community. May they inspire us all to continue our fight for equality. 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 9 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... Ill ~ 0 ~ ► a: LAVERNE COX #womenshistorymonth 0 IenI a: Ill :c Laverne Cox is a trailblazer and an icon. In her breakout role as Sophia Burset on Orange is the New Black, Cox brought the experience of so many transgender women into the world of mainstream media. She was the first transgender person to be nominated for a Primetime Emmy Award in an acting category. In 2015, she won a Daytime Emmy for her special Laverne Cox Presents: The T Word, making her the first transgender woman to win the award. She was also the first transgender woman on the cover of Time Magazine. Cox is known for using her platform to educate and bring awareness to transgender issues and the overall experience of being a transgender woman of color. ~ SPIIIIT! ~ A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. [L!J ._.. • - ·..· -~ .. MARCH 4, 6PM f ACEBOOK LIVE . 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 10 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... SCOTT HAMIL TON EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: Interfaith Happy Hour Thursday, March 4, 2021, 6:00 p.m. on Facebook Live Oklahomans for Equality's new Equality Faith Alliance is excited to announce SPIRIT, a virtual happy hour-style support and social group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether your goal is to reconnect with your faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce your faith, or just connect with other people like yourself, SPIRIT is the group for you. Each Thursday, a spiritual leader from Tulsa and the surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. Our guest host Rev. Scott Hamilton this week is a minister with United Church of Christ. Precepts C.A.R.E 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practices Click Here to Attend • ALPHABET SOUP KIOS Z SATURDAY AFTERNOON 3-4PM • • • • \\ • -\\ YOUTH PROGRAMS \\ 5::)ARE BACK IN PERSONI) RAISE YOUR VOICE YOUTH CHOIR SATURDAY AFTERNOON 4-5PM • • • Sf ARTING M~RCH 61 ~ \\ ~ ~ \\ ~ • 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 11 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... YOUTH GROUPS RESUME MARCH 6, 2021 Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group will resume Saturday, March 6, 2021, starting at 3:00 pm. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. ,r; ~ First Thursday . Art Gallery Meet-Up ~GEN Q, OKEQ's LGBTQIA+ group for young adults 18 to 26-ish GEN Q: First Thursday Art Gallery Meet-Up Thursday, March 4, 2021, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. For our kick-off event, we will be meeting up at the First Thursday Art Gallery Show, Audrey Byrd: “The Divine Feminine.” This will be a laid-back event. Masks are required. For questions, please email Kao with the Contact button below. Contact Kao 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 12 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... RSVP ON FACEBOOK INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY Monday, March 8, 7:00 p.m. FREE ONLINE SCREENING EVENT via Circle Cinema Circle Cinema is proud to partner with local leaders as Tulsa’s festivities for International Women’s Day shift online this year. The event will be a FREE online program beginning at 7pm with an International Fashion showcase featuring music and cultural dance, then a live panel discussion at 8pm intersecting the themes of this year’s celebration. Crystal Ifekoya (Women Helping Other Women) will moderate a fantastic panel with Leeann Crosby (Tulsa Women’s March), Vanessa Hall-Harper (manager Tulsa Health Department’s Healthy Living Program) and Felisa Hilbert (founder, Multicultural Diversity Festival). Additional community partners include Just A Push Foundation and Tulsa Global Alliance. FREE to watch - need to RSVP RSVP HERE 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 13 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 14 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... Tulsa Pride: Parking Lot Bingo Thursday, March 26, 2021, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ as we kick off Pride Bingo with Rainbow Granny! Bar and concessions will be open inside, as will the bathrooms. Tickets are live at the OKEQ Pride Store. Social distancing and masks are required. Dress appropriately for the weather. Purchase Ticket Here 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 15 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... Thank you Cherokee l\lation Supre01e Court for Ackno\Nledging l\lonbinary Identities Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 16 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... BOOK OF THE WEEK Rubyfruit Jungle by Rita Mae Brown Groundbreaking for when it was published in 1973, It is widely known as one of the first lesbian coming of age novels. It tells the story of oily Bolt the adoptive daughter of a poor southern couple. It chronicles her life and it begins with her childhood, following her journey though womanhood and self discovery. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT _ Rita Mae Brown is the bestselling author of the Sister Jane novels-Outfoxed, Hotspur, Full cry, The Hunt Ball. The Hounds and the Fur . The Tell-Tale Horse. and Hound d to Death-as well as the Sneaky Pie Brown mysteries and Rubyfruit Jungle. In Her Day, Six of One, and The Sand castle, among many others. An Emmy-nominated ___;_....1...._ _--==;J>,c reenwriter and a poet, Brown lives in Afton. Virginia. RITA MAE BROWN Empowerment. Through. Art. MAKE. -~R'f. From. Home. Art2Go: Five-Week at Home Art Class Five art classes in a box delivered directly to your door once a week for five weeks! Learn a little art history, a little art theory, and then get creative with art supplies, step-by-step instructions, and virtual support. Projects include: 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 17 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... • Altered books • Found object sculpture • Paper art quilting • Grafitti Stamping • Collage This class started Monday, February 22nd, but you can jump in anytime! Contact Alex to get started. Contact Alex In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Cody Wayne Allen Sept. 4, 1993 - Feb. 3, 2021 Cody Wayne Allen Obituary 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 18 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... Anthony "Tony" Carney July 4, 1965 - January 3, 2021 We celebrate the life of Tony and honor his memory. Tony was a long time volunteer at Oklahomans for Equality. Helping out in so many ways such as working the front desk, maintained the flags for years, the front door greeter at the Equality Gala for years, always in charge of the coat check at the Falalala Ball, and would organize the food drive and pet food drive. Tony's contributions have helped so many, and he will be dearly missed. Neurodiversity Tulsa 1st and 3rd Tuesday of Every Month, at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Virtual Event NEURODIVERSITY TULSA 1st and 3rdruesday of every month 6:30pm on Zoom Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month (on zoom until further notice) to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 19 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook for the zoom link or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna (JCJ(f)(J@()@{!!J(l(l(f1 ! (!f?j]J[j=WfJ(J(j/Jzj @!J[!Jl(!]ffllif!, , ' WfJ~ t!J(JfJ[f) /1iCfJ:} ~ I MABCH 12TH, '7PM ! I ' : I IndigiQueer LGBT-2 Spirit Cultural Training Thursday, March 12, 2021, 7:00 p.m. via Zoom IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. – Vnokeckv. Join us for the history of 2spirit culture, the roles of the 2spirit person, and how they helped their tribe and their people through their gifts from the Creator. This training is led by John Co-cke from Muscogee Creek Nation. Add our IndigiQueer Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/indigiqueerokeq For more info, click the buttons below: Contact Kao for Zoom Link 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 20 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... POC SOCIAL: GAME NIGHT Thursday, March 19, 2021, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. Are you bored? Come play board games! Snacks and drinks will be provided; 21+ to drink. Contact Kao Join Facebook Group (Q)~[E©) (C(Q)[M][p) £~ _ e ~~~ ~o~~~~-4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 21 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... A GROUP FOR LGBTO+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE March 21at, 2021 5-6pm email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectando Online Event Sunday, March 21, at 5:00 p.m. A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture: we will speak in English and Spanish. Email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for Zoom meeting ID Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultural. Se habla ingles y español. Enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para Zoom meeting ID Contact Donovid 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 22 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... VOICE LGBTQIA+ YOUTH CHOIR SATURDAY AFTERNOONS ON ZOOM E-MAIL MORGAN.ALLEN@OKEQ.ORG FOR INFORMATION SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions, and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact A SUPPORT GROUP FOR PARENTS OF LOBTQ2SIA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 23 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 24 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Want to build some distress reduction skills with a gender affirming focus? 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 25 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... Join an OSU study of text-message based, transgender and nonbinary affirmative, cognitive behavioral interventions designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! The Study Includes: - Pre-Intervention Evaluation - Free 6-week Skill Building Intervention - Post-Intervention Evaluations - Progress Report - $20 Gift Card for Successful Completion Contact Us Today By Sending a Text Stating Your Interest To 405-744-9188 ApproYod: Protocol /1: LRB-20-213 Click Here for More on the Study Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 26 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access it via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 27 of 35 KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 28 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 29 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams Peter Athens Philip and Miranda Kaiser Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 30 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef / Jessica LandisRase Samira and Jessica have joined OKEQ Counseling team as masters interns. They are excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samiria and Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, March 11th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 31 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- ---or alex.wade@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People \., , J ~ £ , ,t ,, , r, l m~ , "'' ri : , II ~ Support Group for Parents of Transgender People Support Group for Transgender Teens 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 32 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - - ---or alex.wade@okeq.org sage subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Unity, and Preparation for Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. - - - - ---- Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 33 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------ -- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 34 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:21 PM �"The Divine Feminine" Opens 35 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-The-Divine-Feminine--Opens.ht... ·~· '6· ' ~,!..,.~ PictuefCourtesy of the Tulsa World Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:21 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f3d41dfb93516056be2936dda2a38c6a.pdf 18a74b064a3cba68101cc2a03edc5dc9 PDF Text Text BI Health and Awareness Month 1 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews March 8th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Let us help you file your 2020 tax returns! 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 2 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 525 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com F~owneci Fe~tur-LV\,g TvtLboc{etA u_x: & operc;:,.;td Tvte TIA)( TvteYtA"f)t'.J Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 8/+ HEALTH AWARENESS MONTH 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 3 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... #8/HEALTHMONTH bisexual resource ---- center It’s #BiHealthMonth! Join us and the Bisexual Resource Center all month long in calling for bisexual+ equity in social, educational, and healthcare spaces. Bisexual+ people make up more than half of the LGBTQ+ community. Still, they receive minimal funding to tackle the major physical, emotional & social health disparities they face at higher rates than their gay peers. By centering the unique needs of the bi+ community, we can fight back against bi-antagonism in media, health care, research and education, and improve the physical, sexual, mental, emotional, and spiritual health of bi+ people. Learn more about the bisexual+ community’s well-being here: bihealthmonth.org Thank you, Bisexual Resource Center, for continually advocating for the bi+ community! Other special thanks to OKEQ's Bi+ group OkEq Brought to You Bi the Letter B! If you are in the Tulsa area and identify as bi+, join Brought to You Bi the Letter B online! Click Here for More Information 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 4 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access it via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 5 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... The Equality Act Passes in U.S. House Senators Must Now Prioritize LGBTQ Nondiscrimination Protections Take action today by contacting your Senator via phone or email. It's so simple - just a few clicks will get it done. You can even record a 30-second video! Click below and follow the prompts: Click here to Contact Your Senator A Message from OkEq Board President Chris Brecht-Smith As many of you are aware, on Thursday, February 25, 2021, the United States House of Representatives passed the Equality Act, which would ban discrimination against people based on sexual orientation and gender identity. It is the latest in a series of steps towards true equality for everyone. Oklahomans for Equality (“OkEq”) is beyond elated that the Equality Act is one step closer to becoming the law of the land in this country and prays that the U.S. Senate follows suit to pass the Act. However, it should be noted that none of Oklahoma’s representatives – Kevin Hern; Markwayne Mullin; Frank Lucas, Tom Cole; or Stephanie Bice – voted in support of the Equality Act this past week. OkEq is aware that each of these representatives received notice from their constituents voicing support for the Equality Act; 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 6 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... thus, it cannot be said that the State of Oklahoma stood unanimously opposed to the Act. It further bears mention that opponents of the Equality Act, including Oklahoma Senator James Lankford, are asserting that the Equality Act will threaten people’s religious freedoms if passed. OkEq could not disagree more. Granting equal rights and dignity to all LGBTQ+ persons should not and does not inhibit any person from living and practicing their faith. Religious freedom has been used as a rallying cry to discriminate against people, historically, on the basis of racial and gender lines. History has shown us, though, that the Constitution can protect religious people and LGBTQ+ people, simultaneously. We live in a beautiful, yet incredibly diverse, country. It is time that all people are celebrated and protected for those diversities. Please contact your U.S. Senators, James Lankford and Jim Inhofe, and let them know that Oklahoma supports the passage of the Equality Act. Additionally, please take a moment and remind your Representatives that their “nay” votes to the Equality Act are not representative of you, their constituents. Chris Brecht-Smith OkEq Board President (pronouns: he/him/his) okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 7 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... Click here to Support Monthly SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, March 9, 2021, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa has resumed meeting in-person. Please see the COVID-19 Guidelines below to participate. SAGE Lunch will be served at 11:30 a.m. 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 8 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... . ' DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Contact Us 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 9 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... GEN Q: Movie Night Thursday, March 11, 2021, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. Join us for a socially distant movie made for, with, and about LGBTQ+ people. In honor of Women's History Month, we've suggested But I'm a Cheerleader, The Watermelon Woman, or Jennifer's Body to watch. This will be a laid-back event. Masks are required. For questions, please email Anna with the Contact button below. Contact Anna Here RSVP ON FACEBOOK rBIT. A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. • 11 MARCH 11, 6PM f ACEBOOK LIVE EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: Interfaith Happy Hour Thursday, March 11, 2021, 6:00 p.m. on Facebook Live 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 10 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... Oklahomans for Equality's new Equality Faith Alliance is excited to announce SPIRIT, a virtual happy hour-style support and social group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether your goal is to reconnect with your faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce your faith, or just connect with other people like yourself, SPIRIT is the group for you. Each Thursday, a spiritual leader from Tulsa and the surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. Our guest host this week is Father Joshua M. Shawnee from the Parish Church of Saint Jerome. Precepts C.A.R.E 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practices Click Here to Attend VOTING BYLAW CHANGE! lA A oru 1J.-. J.-.OlA 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 11 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... IYINn"-n 1v, Vr'IYI OkEq Focus Group: Voting Bylaws Change Proposal Tuesday, March 16, 2021, 6:00 p.m. on Zoom You are invited to provide much-needed membership feedback on a proposed amendment to the OkEq bylaws regarding how the organization currently elects the OkEq Board of Directors. Presently, OkEq bylaws require that the Board of Directors be elected by popular vote of its members in good standing. OkEq is seeking to implement current best practices for an LGBTQ+ community organization of its size, based on feedback from national and local LGBTQ+ leadership organizations, guidance from Oklahoma nonprofits and other local leaders and fundraising organizations, and move the OkEq Board of Directors to a succession board. This would mean that the OkEq Board of Directors would, annually, with the advice and recommendations from our constituency, selfnominate the successor Directors to fulfill all the terms and conditions of a Director for the organization. This is a significant change in organizational policy, and OkEq needs membership feedback before voting on this issue. Please join us and make your voice heard. You must RSVP to get a zoom link to participate. Please RSVP by Tuesday, March 16th, by 3:00 p.m. to register and receive a Zoom link. RSVP HERE RIBBON CUTTING CEREMONY OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC OKEQ Health Clinic Ribbon Cutting Ceremony Tuesday, March 23, 2021, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 12 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Please join us on Tuesday, March 23rd, at 6:00 p.m. for the OKEQ Health Clinic ribbon cutting. Though our clinic has been seeing patients since 2020, COVID kept us from commemorating the occasion, and we felt like LGBTQ+ Health Week was the perfect time for an official grand opening. You will hear from Lily Piña, our Nurse Practioner; Alex Wade, our Medical Services Director; and Wes Smith. We will also be dedicating the clinic waiting room in honor of Wes's partner, Doug Campbell, who continually supported the center's health and theater programming. Community partners and elected officials will also be present for this ribbon cutting. You can view the ceremony on Facebook Live or in-person. CELEBRA Tl N'S HISTORY MONTH Oklahomans for Equality recognizes March as Women's History Month. Since our founding in 1980, women have been critical to the operation and success of our organization. We have seen amazing women leaders who have served as Presidents, Vice Presidents, Executive Directors, Board Members, staff members, and program creators and facilitators. Nationally, LGBTQ+ women, especially our transgender women of color, have pushed our movement to be more inclusive and have led the fight for equality since the very beginning. This month, OKEQ will highlight LGBTQ+ women who have made an impact in our community. May they inspire us all to continue our fight for equality. 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 13 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... / ~c::!J -:. her-story moment Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon #Womenshistorymonth Her-Story Moment: Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon devoted their lives to the cause of equality for LGBTQ+ women. Phyllis Lyon, born in Tulsa, Oklahoma, met Del Martin in 1950, and the two were together until her death in 2008. Together they formed the Daughters of Bilitis, the first national lesbian organization in the United States, and produced the lesbian newsletter "The Ladder" for almost ten years. They were the first lesbian couple to join the National Organization for Women (NOW) and worked tirelessly to decriminalize homosexuality in California and the US. Perhaps the most notable action the couple took on was marriage equality in California. They were the first same-gender couple to be married in San Francisco in 2004 and again in 2008 after California legalized gay marriage. We celebrate these women and their impact on our movement. • • 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 14 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... t..---ALPHABET SOUP KIDS Z SATURDAY AFTERNOON 3·4PM ~ • • t..---- \\ • ~ • ---- ;::, • • <:) 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 15 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... Tulsa Pride: Parking Lot Bingo Friday, March 26, 2021, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ as we kick off Pride Bingo with Rainbow Granny! Bar and concessions will be open inside, as will the bathrooms. Tickets are live at the OKEQ Pride Store. Social distancing and masks are required. Dress appropriately for the weather. Purchase Ticket Here 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 16 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Thi~ Bridge The Bridge Called My Back Edited by Cherrie Moraga & Gloria Anzaldua The fourth edition of Tbis Bridge Called My Back returns to circulation the collected artwork, essays, and poems of a self-described group of "radical women of color." The anthology was first published Callccl Mu Buck in 1981 Writings by Radical Women of Color I 1lt1t·-l l11 I 11,·111,· \l,11,1~,11; 1,l,,ri;1 \ :11,il,111.1 AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Cherrie Moraga -Born in Los Angeles, and raised two blocks from the San Gabriel Mission, She is an internationally recognized poet, playwright, essayist an memoirist. She is also a founding member of La Red Xicana lndigena, an advocacy net\l'tork of Xicanas working in education, the arts, spiritual practice, and indigenous women's rights. CHERRIE MORAGA Empowerment. Through. Art. MAKE. -~R'f. From. Home. Art2Go: Five-Week at Home Art Class Five art classes in a box delivered directly to your door once a week for five 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 17 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... weeks! Learn a little art history, a little art theory, and then get creative with art supplies, step-by-step instructions, and virtual support. Projects include: • Altered books • Found object sculpture • Paper art quilting • Grafitti Stamping • Collage This class started Monday, February 22nd, but you can jump in anytime! Contact Alex to get started. Contact Alex In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Nataleigh Ann LaLonde June 16, 1994 - Jan. 17, 2021 Nataleigh Ann LaLonde 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 18 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... Cody Wayne Allen Sept. 4, 1993 - Feb. 3, 2021 Cody Wayne Allen Obituary Anthony "Tony" Carney July 4, 1965 - January 3, 2021 We celebrate the life of Tony and honor his memory. Tony was a long time volunteer at Oklahomans for Equality. Helping out in so many ways such as working the front desk, maintained the flags for years, the front door greeter at the Equality Gala for years, always in charge of the coat check at the Falalala Ball, and would organize the food drive and pet food drive. Tony's contributions have helped so many, and he will be dearly missed. 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 19 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... Presents: r ) - --- The March Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery will feature Audrey Byrd: “The Divine Feminine” Continues until March 31, The Show is open from 9:00 a.m to 9:00 p.m. Monday - Sunday Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 “My bold colors and textures act to accentuate the femininity that is often so harshly judged and censored by the public eye. My main goal as a painter is to help people fall in love with their beauty and recognize their divinity. I use all reclaimed + repurposed canvases, frames, and miscellaneous oddities to create my pieces to be as sustainable (and unique) as possible. I love manipulating my supplies to create one-of-a-kind paintings and sculptures that leave my viewers thinking, “how did she do that?” and inspire them to try creating their own masterpieces.” For more information, please visit www.okeq.org/art-gallery For a Virtual Tour, Click the Video Below: 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 20 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on Neurodiversity Tulsa 1st and 3rd Tuesday of Every Month, at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Virtual Event NEURODIVERSITY TULSA 1st and 3rd r uesday of every month 6:30pm on Zoom Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month (on zoom until further notice) to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook for the zoom link or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 21 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... ()CJ(j)()@(}@{!J(l(l(g ! I (NJJfJ=WfJJ(J(l?f}fj @IJ(!,f/(!Jfl?tif}, ' , W(}W t!J(jfj[Jj /lifJJ:J ~ MABCH 12TH, '7PM .t. I ' : I IndigiQueer LGBT-2 Spirit Cultural Training Friday, March 12, 2021, 7:00 p.m. via Zoom IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. – Vnokeckv. Join us for the history of 2spirit culture, the roles of the 2spirit person, and how they helped their tribe and their people through their gifts from the Creator. This training is led by John Co-cke from Muscogee Creek Nation. Add our IndigiQueer Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/indigiqueerokeq For more info, click the buttons below: Contact Kao for Zoom Link 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 22 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... POC SOCIAL: GAME NIGHT Friday, March 19, 2021, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. Are you bored? Come play board games! Snacks and drinks will be provided; 21+ to drink. Contact Kao Join Facebook Group Sunday. March 21 at 2pm 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 23 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... OUT IN NATURE: Oxley Nature Center Trail Hike Sunday, March 21, 2021, at 2:00 p.m. Oxley Nature Center 6700 Mohawk Blvd. Tulsa, OK 74115 OUT in Nature is an outdoors group by and for the LGBTQIA2S+ community. We host outings like hikes, bikes, runs, campouts, and more. For this adventure, we will explore the trails at Oxley Nature Center. These trails range in length (but always less than a mile) and offer beautiful views of Tulsa's birds and greenery! We will meet outside the Oxley Nature Center building. For this event, no pups will be allowed! Sorry! Please wear a mask or neck gaiter while on the trail. We are always open to new ideas and activities, as we are just getting started! Sign Up Here ©~~© t©~[p) £~ t©~~t1r£~[Q)© A GROUP FOR LGBTQ+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE March 218t, 2021 5-6pm email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectando 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 24 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... Sunday, March 21, at 5:00 p.m. Online Event A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture: we will speak in English and Spanish. Email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for Zoom meeting ID Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultural. Se habla ingles y español. Enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para Zoom meeting ID Contact Donovid 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 25 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... GEN Q: Trivia and Karaoke Night Thursday, March 25, 2021, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. Thursday, March 25, we will have a trivia and karaoke night! Come with your favorite song and your fun facts. We will have snacks and drinks. This will be a laid-back event. Masks are required. For questions, please email Kao with the Contact button below. Contact Kao RSVP ON FACEBOOK - VOICE I r-DTl"\T A .. Vl"\I ITLI l'Lll"\TD 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 26 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... SATURDAY AFTERNOONS ON ZOOM E-MAIL MORGAN.ALLEN@OKEQ.ORG FOR INFORMATION SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions, and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact PARENTS OF LOBTQ2SJA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 27 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 28 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Want to build some distress reduction skills with a gender affirming focus? 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 29 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... Join an OSU study of text-message based, transgender and nonbinary affirmative, cognitive behavioral interventions designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! The Study Includes: - Pre-Intervention Evaluation - Free 6-week Skill Building Intervention - Post-Intervention Evaluations - Progress Report - $20 Gift Card for Successful Completion Contact Us Today By Sending a Text Stating Your Interest To 405-744-9188 ApproYod: Protocol /1: LRB-20-213 Click Here for More on the Study Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 30 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 31 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 32 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 33 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... Peter Athens Philip and Miranda Kaiser Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef / Jessica LandisRase Samira and Jessica have joined OKEQ Counseling team as masters interns. They are excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samiria and Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 34 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, March 11th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- · -or alex.wade@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 35 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org sao-e ~~~~:~~! ~~ LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 36 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan jess@anchoredbhc.com Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ----- -- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 37 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC Sl'OtlSOIIIOIY lHIGIOltQl~Al- ■ 11 fAMILYfOUNOATIOfl 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 38 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President 4/28/26, 2:22 PM �BI Health and Awareness Month 39 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/BI-Health-and-Awareness-Month.... Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:22 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d4b54b1b835cbe6d4ff5270a4816ffdf.pdf 47d7df8e241068f7e5869feba712b120 PDF Text Text OKEQ Membership Meeting 1 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews March 15th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 2 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... F ~ Pa.fR.Oll Rental Properfy Bookkeeprng Let us help you file your 2020 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 525 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com F~owneci 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 3 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... VOTING BYLAW CHANGEI OkEq Focus Group: Voting Bylaws Change Proposal Tuesday, March 16, 2021, 6:00 p.m. on Zoom You are invited to provide much-needed membership feedback on a proposed amendment to the OkEq bylaws regarding how the organization currently elects the OkEq Board of Directors. Presently, OkEq bylaws require that the Board of Directors be elected by popular vote of its members in good standing. OkEq is seeking to implement current best practices for an LGBTQ+ community organization of its size, based on feedback from national and local LGBTQ+ leadership organizations, guidance from Oklahoma nonprofits and other local leaders and fundraising organizations, and move the OkEq Board of Directors to a succession board. This would mean that the OkEq Board of Directors would, 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 4 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... annually, with the advice and recommendations from our constituency, selfnominate the successor Directors to fulfill all the terms and conditions of a Director for the organization. This is a significant change in organizational policy, and OkEq needs membership feedback before voting on this issue. Please join us and make your voice heard. You must RSVP to get a zoom link to participate. Please RSVP by Tuesday, March 16th, by 3:00 p.m. to register and receive a Zoom link. RSVP HERE RIBBON CUTTING CEREMONY OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC OKEQ Health Clinic Virtual Ribbon Cutting Ceremony Tuesday, March 23, 2021, 6:00 p.m. On Facebook Live Please join us on Facebook Live on Tuesday, March 23rd, at 6:00 p.m. for the OKEQ Health Clinic ribbon cutting. Though our clinic has been seeing patients since 2020, COVID kept us from commemorating the occasion, and we felt like LGBTQ+ Health Week was the perfect time for an official virtual grand opening. You will hear from Dr. Bruce Dart with the Tulsa Health Department; Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, our supervising physician; Lily Piña, our Nurse Practitioner; Alex Wade, our Medical Services Director; Kara Joy McKee, Tulsa City Councilor for District 4; Krystal Reyes, the Chief Resilience Officer for the City of Tulsa and Mercedes Millberry-Fowler, the Manager of Community Affairs with Blue Cross Blue Shield of Oklahoma. We will be naming the waiting room in memory of Doug Campbell, a long-time supporter of the Equality Center who died of ALS in 2019. Wes Smith, Doug's former partner, and Doug's sons Brent and David will be sharing about Doug's legacy. 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 5 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... You can view the ceremony on Facebook Live. Facebook Live Event WEKNEEL WITH NORMAN The Racial Justice Task Force of Oklahomans for Equality kneels with the Norman High School Girls Basketball Team At OkEq an extremely important part of the work we do is in supporting our youth. These youth represent a whole host of intersectional identities that deserve respect and honor. We not only denounce this terrible display of racism targeted at young people, but we denounce racism directed at anyone. Our youth deserve 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 6 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... to be loved and cherished for everything they are and we will continue to do that work every day. Our youth should not be put down, reprimanded, or impeded in their efforts for equality as there are no laws against them and they too have freedom of speech. -The Racial Justice Taskforce OKE okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 7 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, March 16, 2021, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa has resumed meeting in-person. 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 8 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... Please see the COVID-19 Guidelines below to participate. SAGE Lunch will be served at 11:30 a.m. OKEQ COVID· 19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPA□ AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Contact Us 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 9 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... • • . 0 . • JEN LOGSDON-KELLOGG EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: Interfaith Happy Hour Thursday, March 18, 2021, 6:00 p.m. on Facebook Live Oklahomans for Equality's new Equality Faith Alliance is excited to announce SPIRIT, a virtual happy hour-style support and social group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether your goal is to reconnect with your faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce your faith, or just connect with other people like yourself, SPIRIT is the group for you. Each Thursday, a spiritual leader from Tulsa and the surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. Our guest host this week is Rev. Jen Logsdon- Kellogg with Boston Avenue United Methodist Church. Precepts C.A.R.E 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practices Click Here to Attend • OKEQ Gen Q (18-26ish LGBTQ+) Craft Nilfht· w / free wine (if 21+) • ~ ◄ 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 10 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... GEN Q: CRAFT NIGHT Thursday, March 18, 2021, at 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. This week, we will have a casual craft night complete with sketching, beadwork, paints, and, of course, wine (ONLY FOR THOSE 21+, and we will check ID!). We will have soda, water, and la Croix as well! Masks are required! Contact Alex for More Information 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 11 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... POC SOCIAL: GAME NIGHT Friday, March 19, 2021, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. Are you bored? Come play board games! Snacks and drinks will be provided; 21+ to drink. Contact Kao Join Facebook Group Sunday. March 21 at 2pm OUT IN NATURE: Oxley Nature Center Trail Hike Sunday, March 21, 2021, at 2:00 p.m. Oxley Nature Center 6700 Mohawk Blvd. Tulsa, OK 74115 OUT in Nature is an outdoors group by and for the LGBTQIA2S+ community. We host outings like hikes, bikes, runs, campouts, and more. 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 12 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... For this adventure, we will explore the trails at Oxley Nature Center. These trails range in length (but always less than a mile) and offer beautiful views of Tulsa's birds and greenery! We will meet outside the Oxley Nature Center building. For this event, no pups will be allowed! Sorry! Please wear a mask or neck gaiter while on the trail. We are always open to new ideas and activities, as we are just getting started! Sign Up Here ©~~© t©~[p) &~ t©~~t1r£~[Q)© A GROUP FOR LGBTQ+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE March 218t, 2021 5-6pm email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 13 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... OKEQ Compas Conectando Sunday, March 21, 2021, at 5:00 p.m. Online Event A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture: we will speak in English and Spanish. Email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for Zoom meeting ID Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultural. Se habla ingles y español. Enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para Zoom meeting ID Contact Donovid GEN Q: Trivia and Karaoke Night Thursday, March 25, 2021, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. Thursday, March 25, we will have a trivia and karaoke night! Come with your favorite song and your fun facts. We will have snacks and drinks. 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 14 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... This will be a laid-back event. Masks are required. For questions, please email Donovid with the contact button below. Contact Donovid RSVP ON FACEBOOK 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 15 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... Tulsa Pride: Parking Lot Bingo Friday, March 26, 2021, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ as we kick off Pride Bingo with Rainbow Granny! Bar and concessions will be open inside, as will the bathrooms. Tickets are live at the OKEQ Pride Store. Social distancing and masks are required. Dress appropriately for the weather. Purchase Tickets Here CELEBRA Tl NS 1 HISTORY MONTH Oklahomans for Equality recognizes March as Women's History Month. Since our founding in 1980, women have been critical to the operation and success of our organization. We have seen amazing women leaders who have served as Presidents, Vice Presidents, Executive Directors, Board Members, staff members, and program creators and facilitators. Nationally, LGBTQ+ women, especially our transgender women of color, have pushed our movement to be more inclusive and have led the fight for equality since the very beginning. _ _Ihis month. Q_J(EO ill hie:hlie:ht LGBTI 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 16 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... made an impact in our community. May they inspire us all to continue our fight for equality. Her-Story Moment: Sally Ride Sally Ride was a Space pioneer and lesbian icon. Not only was she the first American woman to go to space, but she was also the youngest American astronaut to ever travel to space. After retiring from NASA in 1987, she became an educator, encouraging young people, especially girls, to explore STEM careers. Although she was extremely private about her personal life, Ride's partner of 27 years also served as the co-author of her children's books, was her closest childhood friend, and was the founder of Sally Ride Science, her educational company. Even after her death in 2012, Sally Ride continues to 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 17 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... inspire LGBTQ+ women around the world in STEM. • - -::::- • • <:) 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. Narq&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library r BOOK OF THE WEEK I 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 18 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... The Comedienne by V.G. Lee When Joanie Littler moves back home to look after her mother, she quickly falls for their stylish neighbour Susan, who has an admirable lounge but never invites Joanie to her patio parties. Finding herself with just her cat Edith Piaf for company, our heroine AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT V.G. Lee is the critically-acclaimed author of five novels and a collection of short stories. In 2012, Lee was nominated for a Stonewall Award for writing and in 2014 she won the Ultimate Planet Award for Best Established Author. V.t. LEE ( :J , .. I )I .' J. l I 6 • Q LIVE STREAMED • ON FACEBOOK • APRILZND, 2021AT7PM I • Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Donald Rose Friday, April 2, 2021, at 7:00 p.m This event will be held via zoom and live-streamed on Facebook due to Covid-19. 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 19 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... Join OKEQ as we continue the Queer Black Voices series with Donald Rose. Donald is a US Army Veteran serving from 1985 to 1994. Donald did Basic Training at Fort Dix, NJ, and Duty Stations at Fort Lewis Washington, Hannau, Germany, Fort Leonardwood, MO. This event will be held via zoom and live-streamed on Facebook due to Covid-19. Contact Kao RSVP Event on Facebook POC SOCIAL: Paint & Sip Friday, April 16, 2021, at 7:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 20 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... Come paint something magical and sip on some wine. 21+ to drink POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. Contact Kao RSVP Event on Facebook GEN Q: Night Out Friday, April 23, 2021, at 9:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. Every 4th Friday of the month, we will hit the town and dance the night away. We will pay for entry on a first-come, first-serve basis. Contact Kao 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 21 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... RSVP Event on Facebook 8/+ HEALTH AWARENESS MONTH #8IHEALTHMONTH bisexual resource ._,___ center It’s #BiHealthMonth! Join us and the Bisexual Resource Center all month long in calling for bisexual+ equity in social, educational, and healthcare spaces. Bisexual+ people make up more than half of the LGBTQ+ community. Still, they receive minimal funding to tackle the major physical, emotional & social health disparities they face at higher rates than their gay peers. By centering the unique needs of the bi+ community, we can fight back against bi-antagonism in media, health care, research and education, and improve the physical, sexual, mental, emotional, and spiritual health 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 22 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... of bi+ people. Learn more about the bisexual+ community’s well-being here: bihealthmonth.org Thank you, Bisexual Resource Center, for continually advocating for the bi+ community! Other special thanks to OKEQ's Bi+ group OkEq Brought to You Bi the Letter B! If you are in the Tulsa area and identify as bi+, join Brought to You Bi the Letter B online! Click Here for More Information Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access it via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 23 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... Visit Us on Facebook Email Us The Equality Act Passes in U.S. House Senators Must Now Prioritize LGBTQ Nondiscrimination Protections Take action today by contacting your Senator via phone or email. It's so simple - just a few clicks will get it done. You can even record a 30-second video! Click below and follow the prompts: 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 24 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... Click here to Contact Your Senator A Message from OkEq Board President Chris Brecht-Smith As many of you are aware, on Thursday, February 25, 2021, the United States House of Representatives passed the Equality Act, which would ban discrimination against people based on sexual orientation and gender identity. It is the latest in a series of steps towards true equality for everyone. Oklahomans for Equality (“OkEq”) is beyond elated that the Equality Act is one step closer to becoming the law of the land in this country and prays that the U.S. Senate follows suit to pass the Act. However, it should be noted that none of Oklahoma’s representatives – Kevin Hern; Markwayne Mullin; Frank Lucas, Tom Cole; or Stephanie Bice – voted in support of the Equality Act this past week. OkEq is aware that each of these representatives received notice from their constituents voicing support for the Equality Act; thus, it cannot be said that the State of Oklahoma stood unanimously opposed to the Act. It further bears mention that opponents of the Equality Act, including Oklahoma Senator James Lankford, are asserting that the Equality Act will threaten people’s religious freedoms if passed. OkEq could not disagree more. Granting equal rights and dignity to all LGBTQ+ persons should not and does not inhibit any person from living and practicing their faith. Historically, religious freedom has been used as a rallying cry to discriminate against people based on racial and gender lines. History has shown us, though, that the Constitution can protect religious people and LGBTQ+ people simultaneously. We live in a beautiful and incredibly diverse country. It is time that all people are celebrated and protected for those diversities. Please contact your U.S. Senators, James Lankford, and Jim Inhofe, and let them know that Oklahoma supports the passage of the Equality Act. Additionally, please take a moment and remind your Representatives that their “nay” votes to the Equality Act are not representative of you, their constituents. Chris Brecht-Smith OkEq Board President (pronouns: he/him/his) 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 25 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... Empowerment. Through. Art. MAKE. -~R'f. From. Home. Art2Go: Five-Week at Home Art Class Five art classes in a box delivered directly to your door once a week for five weeks! Learn a little art history, a little art theory, and then get creative with art supplies, step-by-step instructions, and virtual support. Projects include: • Altered books • Found object sculpture • Paper art quilting • Grafitti Stamping • Collage This class started Monday, February 22nd, but you can jump in anytime! Contact Alex to get started. Contact Alex In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 26 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... Kodee Shane Nov. 28, 1990 - March 13, 2021 Nataleigh Ann LaLonde June 16, 1994 - Jan. 17, 2021 Nataleigh Ann LaLonde Cody Wayne Allen Sept. 4, 1993 - Feb. 3, 2021 Cody Wayne Allen Obituary 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 27 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... Presents: r } The March Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery will feature Audrey Byrd: “The Divine Feminine” Continues until March 31, The Show is open from 9:00 a.m to 9:00 p.m. Monday - Sunday Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 28 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... Tulsa, OK 74120 “My bold colors and textures act to accentuate the femininity that is often so harshly judged and censored by the public eye. My main goal as a painter is to help people fall in love with their beauty and recognize their divinity. I use all reclaimed + repurposed canvases, frames, and miscellaneous oddities to create my pieces to be as sustainable (and unique) as possible. I love manipulating my supplies to create one-of-a-kind paintings and sculptures that leave my viewers thinking, “how did she do that?” and inspire them to try creating their own masterpieces.” For more information, please visit www.okeq.org/art-gallery ----For a Virtual Tour, Click the Video Below: Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on Neurodiversity Tulsa 1st and 3rd Tuesday of Every Month, at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Virtual Event Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you NEURODIVERSllY TULSA 1st and 3rd Tuesday of every month 6:30pm on Zoom 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 29 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month (on zoom until further notice) to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook for the zoom link or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna - . . ,. . . , II ~ R·l A 'Ir, ~ ~ 0~ !J ~~ .....7 ;;,,o/, ' VOICE LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SATURDAY AFTERNOONS ON ZOOM E-MAIL MORGAN.ALLEN@OKEQ.ORG FOR INFORMATION SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 30 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions, and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 31 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 32 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Want to build some distress reduction skills with a gender affirming focus? Join an OSU study of text-message based, transgender and nonbinary affirmative, cognitive behavioral interventions designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! The Study Includes: . . 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 33 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... Contact Us Today By Sending a Text Stating Your Interest To 405-7 44-9188 < Approved: Protocol #: IRB--0-213 Click Here for More on the Study Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma OKEO.ORG/OKEO-HEAL TH-CLINIC OR CALL 918-938-6537! 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 34 of 43 KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED 9Y THEGEDRGEltAIIER FAMILY FDUNDATIDN https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 35 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 36 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams Peter Athens Philip and Miranda Kaiser Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. ~=::::::=::;;;.;:;:::::::::::i.:..11 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 37 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef / Jessica LandisRase Samira and Jessica have joined OKEQ Counseling team as masters interns. They are excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samiria and Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing Virtual Thursday, April 8th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 38 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -or alex.wade@okeq.org of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to Support Group for supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 39 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... (Therapy Experienced Anew) Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- · -or alex.wade@okeq.org sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. --· - - Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 40 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. www.okeq.org/eba ----- -- OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 41 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC Sl'ONSOIIED ■v fHIDWIIGIKAIHlt fAHlllYfOUNDATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 42 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... luke.scuitto@okeq.org donna.mathews@okeq.org Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �OKEQ Membership Meeting 43 of 43 Visit Our Website https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Membership-Meeting.html... View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:23 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8a6484c3dee99c05814446446bbd8a74.pdf d93cfeb78f16af39f016955fbfd45772 PDF Text Text Remembering Tracy Allen 1 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews March 22nd, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 2 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... F ~ Pa.fR.Oll Rental Properfy Bookkeeprng Let us help you file your 2020 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 525 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com F~owneci 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 3 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 4 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... u u ~r 1___________ 1 ------------ Tracy Allen July 8, 1966 - March 22, 2021 Oklahomans for Equality remembers Tracy Allen, an incredible staff member who served OKEQ for over 24 years. "I could always count on Tracy to be there for our community. We met as volunteers, we became board members, we became staff, but always were friends first, I have lost one of my dearest friends and I must never let him down by failing to serve our community. You have finished your race Tracy, I will continue to run my race with you in my heart." -- Toby "Tracy, you're forever in our memories and forever in our hearts. Thank you for all the work you've done for our community. We miss you, Tracy." -- Kao "Tracy always made time to listen to anyone who needed an ear."-- Allison "Tracy was so dedicated to the cause. We all learned from him and his infinite wisdom." -- Morgan "Tracy's smile and laugh always made you feel welcome and better."-- Paul "Tracy was one of the first people I met at the center. He trained me as a volunteer, and as I 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 5 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... got more involved, I saw how much of a rock he was for this organization. Anything that needed to be done, if Tracy could do it, he would. More than anything else, I will remember Tracy's laugh and his smile. He always filled the room with cheer. I already miss the light he brought to this building." -- Alex "Tracy is an incredible advocate and mentor for us here at OKEQ. His presence and personality will be greatly missed." -- Krissy "Thank you Tracy, for sharing the history of this organization with myself and countless others."-- Anna "Tracy was a mentor and friend, I'm thankful that I got to experience his kindness and learn from the wisdom he shared with me." -- Donovid "There are so many words that can define such a sweet, loving person that is a joy to be around. I remember the first time I met you. We were cutting a rug on the dance floor. Down the line, I got the pleasure of being on staff with you. Your presence was always good vibes. You served the community and took time to give back. I'm really gonna miss you, and our last conversation in text will be saved forever. Your mission is complete. Now you get to dance with the best. Love you." --Scrappy Legacy "Tracy Allen was a force of nature that we will never forget and can never replace. For decades, Tracy was one of the faces greeting you when you entered the Equality Center and one of the voices wishing you well when you left. Tracy embodied everything we stood for as an organization and was a constant warrior in the fight for LGBTQ+ rights in this community. Tracy met every person with compassion and approached every problem with a genuine desire to be a part of the solution. We have lost a beloved member of our family and, while we mourn this incredible loss, we also celebrate a man that helped so many people, saved so many lives. We each carry a piece of the light that shown brightly in Tracy with us. We will carry it with us every day and, hopefully, make the world a brighter place in remembrance of our brother, who was sadly taken much too soon." -Board of Directors, Oklahomans for Equality. Mylin Gipson July 6, 1974 - March 17, 2021 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 6 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... Jim Craven June 5, 1937 - March 16, 2021 Kodee Shane Nov. 28, 1990 - March 13, 2021 Nataleigh Ann LaLonde June 16, 1994 - Jan. 17, 2021 Nataleigh Ann LaLonde 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 7 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... Cody Wayne Allen Sept. 4, 1993 - Feb. 3, 2021 Cody Wayne Allen Obituary 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 8 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... Tulsa Pride: Parking Lot Bingo Friday, March 26, 2021, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ as we kick off Pride Bingo with Rainbow Granny! Bar and concessions will be open inside, as will the bathrooms. Tickets are live at the OKEQ Pride Store. Social distancing and masks are required. Dress appropriately for the weather. Purchase Tickets Here RIBBON CUTTING CEREMONY HEALTH 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 9 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... C OKEQ Health Clinic Virtual Ribbon Cutting Ceremony Tuesday, March 23, 2021, 6:00 p.m. On Facebook Live Please join us on Facebook Live on Tuesday, March 23rd, at 6:00 p.m. for the OKEQ Health Clinic ribbon cutting. Though our clinic has been seeing patients since 2020, COVID kept us from commemorating the occasion, and we felt like LGBTQ+ Health Week was the perfect time for an official virtual grand opening. You will hear from Dr. Bruce Dart with the Tulsa Health Department; Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, our supervising physician; Lily Piña, our Nurse Practitioner; Alex Wade, our Medical Services Director; Kara Joy McKee, Tulsa City Councilor for District 4; Krystal Reyes, the Chief Resilience Officer for the City of Tulsa and Mercedes Millberry-Fowler, the Manager of Community Affairs with Blue Cross Blue Shield of Oklahoma. We will be naming the waiting room in memory of Doug Campbell, a long-time supporter of the Equality Center who died of ALS in 2019. Wes Smith, Doug's former partner, David Gourd, Doug's caregiver, and Doug's sons Brent and David will be sharing about Doug's legacy. You can view the ceremony on Facebook Live. Facebook Live Event 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 10 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... STOP ASIAN HATE Oklahomans For Equality stands with the Asian community, especially our LGBTQIA+ Asian siblings, during this time of Anti-Asian racism and violent attacks. Together as a community we must raise our voices and stand up against antiAsian hate speech, acts of violence, and the more subtle microaggressions the community experiences. Since the start of the global pandemic in March 2020, Stop AAPI Hate, a center that tracks and responds to incidents of hate, violence, harassment, and child bullying against the AAPI (Asian American Pacific Islander) community, has reported over 2,800 firsthand accounts of anti-Asian hate from 47 states and the District of Columbia. Racism and discrimination are words that are not new to any of us. As marginalized people, we must recognize the connections of our own implicit biases to the oppression of others. At times of social unrest and uncertainty, we may feel like there is nothing we can do to make the world a better place, but that is never the case. Together we can achieve great things. To find out what you can do to #StopAsianHate and #StopAAPIHate Click the box below for additional Anti-Asian violence resources: Anti-Asian Violence Resources SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. Advocac & 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 11 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, March 23, 2021, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa has resumed meeting in-person. Please see the COVID-19 Guidelines below to participate. SAGE Lunch will be served at 11:30 a.m. OKEQ COVID· 19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2.MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPA□ AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 5. OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Contact Us 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 12 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... rm ~ A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. ~--·. . MARCH 25, 6PM f ACEBOOK LIVE ·.• • 9 -~ .. . ® REV. BOB LA WREN CE EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: Interfaith Happy Hour Thursday, March 25, 2021, 6:00 p.m. on Facebook Live Oklahomans for Equality's new Equality Faith Alliance is excited to announce SPIRIT, a virtual happy hour-style support and social group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether your goal is to reconnect with your faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce your faith, or just connect with other people like yourself, SPIRIT is the group for you. Each Thursday, a spiritual leader from Tulsa and the surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. Our guest host this week is Rev. Bob Lawrence with the United Church of Christ. Precepts C.A.R.E 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practices Click Here to Attend 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 13 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... NEU DDIVEASITY T lSA Now in person at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Cen er Neurodiversity Tulsa 1st and 3rd Tuesday of Every Month, at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 14 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... )J LJ '◊ 0 Gen O(LCBTO+ Young Adults 18 to 26-ish) 0 0 GEN Q: Trivia and Karaoke Night Thursday, March 25, 2021, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18 to 26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. Thursday, March 25, we will have a trivia and karaoke night! Come with your favorite song and your fun facts. We will have snacks and drinks. This will be a laid-back event. Masks are required. For questions, please email Donovid with the contact button below. Contact Donovid RSVP ON FACEBOOK CELEBRA Tl Wlilll' NS HISTORY MONTH 1 Oklahomans for Equality recognizes March as Women's History Month. Since our founding in 1980, women have been critical to the operation and success of our organization. We have seen amazing women leaders who have served as Presidents, Vice Presidents, Executive Directors, Board Members, staff members, and program creators and facilitators. Nationally, LGBTQ+ women, especially our transgender women of color, have pushed our movement to be more --- 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 15 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... inclusive and have led the fight for equality since the very beginning. This month, OKEQ will highlight LGBTQ+ women who have made an impact in our community. May they inspire us all to continue our fight for equality. Her-Story Moment: Cecilia Chung Cecilia Chung is an internationally recognized civil rights activist who advocates 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 16 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... for transgender people and people living with HIV/AIDS. In 2004, she co-founded the Sacramento Trans March, an event demanding equal treatment and protections for transgender people in response to a recent rise in violence against trans people. She has worked for the Transgender Law Center since 2005. Through this organization, she launched Positively Trans in 2015, a self-advocacy network for transgender people living with HIV. For the last 30 years, her work has focused on reducing the stigma surrounding HIV/AIDS, advocating for transgender equality, and stopping violence towards the LGBTQ+ and the HIVpositive communities. Josh New “Confronting the Male Nude: A Figure Study of the Male Form." Opens Thursday, April 1 Artist Reception On Thursday, April 8, at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Josh New is a commercial freelance photographer from Oklahoma specializing in portraiture and conceptual art. He received his MFA in Photography from the University of Tulsa in 2011, focusing on a thesis critically exploring modern American masculinity in both gay and straight cultures. He continues to create work showcasing the male form in hopes that one-day nudity, both male and female, will cease to be feared and brutally censored. This show is a celebration of male beauty and figure photography that is currently banned from most social media platforms because it goes against “community standards.” Even when not sexualized, the human body continues to be censored and excluded from discussion in modern American society. My hope is to present 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 17 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... beautiful, emotional, and thought-provoking work and show that these “community standards” are actually an archaic barrier to healthy reflection and comfort with our own bodies. The show will feature giant prints of male nudes that I hope viewers will feel comfortable looking at, analyzing, and discussing in the hopes that confronting the fears and misconceptions of nude figure photography, particularly of the male body, can foster a change into what our community accepts. The show opens Thursday, April 1st, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120. On Thursday, April 8th, there will be a special artist reception with Josh New, and Covid measures will be in place. The show continues throughout the month. First Thursday llrt Gallery Meet-lip GEN Q, OKEQ's LGBTQIA+ group for young adults 18 to 26-ish 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 18 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... Gen Q: First Thursday Art Gallery Meet-Up Thursday, April 1, 2021, at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. For this event, we will be meeting up at the First Thursday Art Gallery Show, Josh New “Confronting the Male Nude: A Figure Study of the Male Form." NOTE: This gallery exhibit contains explicit imagery of the Assigned Male At Birth (AMAB) form. Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Black On Both Sides: A Racial History of Trans Identity by c. Riley Snorton C. Riley Snorton identifies multiple intersections between blackness and transness from the mid-nineteenth century to present-day anti-black and anti-trans legislation and violence. Drawing on a deep and varied archive of materials, Snorton attends to how slavery and the production of racialized gender provided the foundations for an understanding of gender as mutable. I ll'Tl ■ ~n r n ~ T I II' l l ' T 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 19 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... AU I nuK lrU I Lil.In I C. Riley Snorton is a transgender scholar and author, and activist whose work focuses on historical perspectives of gender and race, specifically Black transgender identities. (.RILEY SNORTON ( J······· ••••• I ·.J , .. (, J 6 • Q LIVE STREAMED • ON FACEBOOK • APRIL2ND, 2021AT7PM I • Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Donald Rose Friday, April 2, 2021, at 7:00 p.m This event will be held via zoom and live-streamed on Facebook due to Covid-19. Join OKEQ as we continue the Queer Black Voices series with Donald Rose. Donald is a US Army Veteran serving from 1985 to 1994. Donald did Basic Training at Fort Dix, NJ, and Duty Stations at Fort Lewis Washington, Hannau, Germany, Fort Leonardwood, MO. This event will be held via zoom and live-streamed on Facebook due to Covid-19. Contact Kao 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 20 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... RSVP Event on Facebook OkEq In-Person Focus Group: Voting Bylaws Change Proposal Monday, April 5th at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 You are invited to an In-Person meeting to provide needed and necessary membership feedback regarding a proposed amendment to the OkEq bylaws, regarding how the organization currently elects the OkEq Board of Directors. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. This 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 21 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... is an OKEQ membership meeting only. Presently, OkEq bylaws require that the Board of Directors be elected by popular vote of its members in good standing. OkEq is seeking to implement current best practices for an LGBTQ+ community organization of its size, based on feedback from national and local LGBTQ+ leadership organizations, with guidance from Oklahoma nonprofits and other local leaders and fundraising organizations, and move the OkEq Board of Directors to a succession board. This would mean that the OkEq Board of Directors would, annually, with the advice and recommendations from our constituency, self-nominate the successor Directors to fulfill all the terms and conditions of a Director for the organization. This is a major change in organizational policy and OkEq needs membership feedback prior to voting on this issue. Please join us and make your voice heard. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. You may also join this meeting remotely by Zoom. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. You must RSVP to get a zoom link to participate. Please RSVP by contacting us below by Monday, April 5th by 3:00 p.m. to register and receive the Zoom link. RSVP HERE FORNEWAND RETURNING OKEQ VOLUNTEERS • April Volunteer Training Saturday, April 3, 11:00 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. Tuesday, April 6, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 22 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Interested in joining the OKEQ volunteer team? Already a volunteer but need to brush up on your service skills after the year-long service break? We are hosting volunteer training for new and returning volunteers to get ready for inperson programming and service at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! You will learn about the center, the duties and responsibilities of being a volunteer, and all of the necessary skills; all packed neatly into a 90-minute training! This training will be offered twice each month, so don't stress if you can't make it. However, these trainings are required to volunteer at OKEQ! We can't wait to see you! Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, April 13, 2021, at 5:30 p.m. 2nd Tuesday of the Month Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGAL AID ttz, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first-come, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone - - is (918)295-9429. 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 23 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... Pride Volunteer Sign Up Form Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Thursday, April 15, 2021, at 8 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 24 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... Join Rainbow Room favorites as we re-open Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room with a spectacular cabaret remembering all of the wonderful music of days before Covid-19! Tickets will be limited, and we will offer pay-per-view streaming on Zoom of this performance. Check back next week for the ticket link! POC SOCIAL: Paint & Sip Friday, April 16, 2021, at 7:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come paint something magical and sip on some wine. 21+ to drink POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 25 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. Contact Kao RSVP Event on Facebook E UALITY Business Alliance EBA Mixer Thursday, April 22nd, 2021 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Cityscape Home Mortgage 1115 S. Lewis Ave., Suite D Tulsa, OK 74104 www.cityscapehome.com till CITYSCAPE GIii HOME MORTGAGE The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers have resumed! Cityscape Home Mortgage will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for April. Please join us. Masks and social distancing will be required. Visit Cityscape Home Mortgage EBA Information 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 26 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... GEN Q: Night Out Friday, April 23, 2021, at 9:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. Every 4th Friday of the month, we will hit the town and dance the night away. We will pay for entry on a first-come, first-serve basis. Contact Kao RSVP Event on Facebook WEKNEEL 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 27 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... NORM The Racial Justice Task Force of Oklahomans for Equality kneels with the Norman High School Girls Basketball Team "At OkEq an extremely important part of the work we do is in supporting our youth. These youth represent a whole host of intersectional identities that deserve respect and honor. We not only denounce this terrible display of racism targeted at young people, but we denounce racism directed at anyone. Our youth deserve to be loved and cherished for everything they are and we will continue to do that work every day. Our youth should not be put down, reprimanded, or impeded in their efforts for equality as there are no laws against them and they too have freedom of speech." -The Racial Justice Task Force OKE , •- - - - 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 28 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 29 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • - -::::- • • <:) ~ • • • ~ 0 • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. 8/+ HEALTH AWARENESS MONTH 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 30 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... #8/HEALTHMONTH bisexual resource ._,___ center It’s #BiHealthMonth! Join us and the Bisexual Resource Center all month long in calling for bisexual+ equity in social, educational, and healthcare spaces. Bisexual+ people make up more than half of the LGBTQ+ community. Still, they receive minimal funding to tackle the major physical, emotional & social health disparities they face at higher rates than their gay peers. By centering the unique needs of the bi+ community, we can fight back against bi-antagonism in media, health care, research and education, and improve the physical, sexual, mental, emotional, and spiritual health of bi+ people. Learn more about the bisexual+ community’s well-being here: bihealthmonth.org Thank you, Bisexual Resource Center, for continually advocating for the bi+ community! Other special thanks to OKEQ's Bi+ group OkEq Brought to You Bi the Letter B! If you are in the Tulsa area and identify as bi+, join Brought to You Bi the Letter B online! Click Here for More Information 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 31 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access it via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 32 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... The Equality Act Passes in U.S. House Senators Must Now Prioritize LGBTQ Nondiscrimination Protections Take action today by contacting your Senator via phone or email. It's so simple - just a few clicks will get it done. You can even record a 30-second video! Click below and follow the prompts: Click here to Contact Your Senator A Message from OkEq Board President Chris Brecht-Smith As many of you are aware, on Thursday, February 25, 2021, the United States House of Representatives passed the Equality Act, which would ban discrimination against people based on sexual orientation and gender identity. It is the latest in a series of steps towards true equality for everyone. Oklahomans for Equality (“OkEq”) is beyond elated that the Equality Act is one step closer to becoming the law of the land in this country and prays that the U.S. Senate follows suit to pass the Act. However, it should be noted that none of Oklahoma’s 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 33 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... representatives – Kevin Hern; Markwayne Mullin; Frank Lucas, Tom Cole; or Stephanie Bice – voted in support of the Equality Act this past week. OkEq is aware that each of these representatives received notice from their constituents voicing support for the Equality Act; thus, it cannot be said that the State of Oklahoma stood unanimously opposed to the Act. It further bears mention that opponents of the Equality Act, including Oklahoma Senator James Lankford, are asserting that the Equality Act will threaten people’s religious freedoms if passed. OkEq could not disagree more. Granting equal rights and dignity to all LGBTQ+ persons should not and does not inhibit any person from living and practicing their faith. Historically, religious freedom has been used as a rallying cry to discriminate against people based on racial and gender lines. History has shown us, though, that the Constitution can protect religious people and LGBTQ+ people simultaneously. We live in a beautiful and incredibly diverse country. It is time that all people are celebrated and protected for those diversities. Please contact your U.S. Senators, James Lankford, and Jim Inhofe, and let them know that Oklahoma supports the passage of the Equality Act. Additionally, please take a moment and remind your Representatives that their “nay” votes to the Equality Act are not representative of you, their constituents. Chris Brecht-Smith OkEq Board President (pronouns: he/him/his) Empowerment. Through. Art. MAKE. -~R'f. From. Home. Art2Go: Five-Week at Home Art Class Five art classes in a box delivered directly to your door once a week for five weeks! Learn a little art history, a little art theory, and then get creative with art supplies, step-by-step instructions, and virtual support. Projects include: • Altered books • Found object sculpture 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 34 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... • Paper art quilting • Grafitti Stamping • Collage This class started Monday, February 22nd, but you can jump in anytime! Contact Alex to get started. Contact Alex Presents: 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 35 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... r ) \ The March Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery will feature Audrey Byrd: “The Divine Feminine” Continues until March 31, The Show is open from 9:00 a.m to 9:00 p.m. Monday - Sunday Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 “My bold colors and textures act to accentuate the femininity that is often so harshly judged and censored by the public eye. My main goal as a painter is to help people fall in love with their beauty and recognize their divinity. I use all reclaimed + repurposed canvases, frames, and miscellaneous oddities to create my pieces to be as sustainable (and unique) as possible. I love manipulating my supplies to create one-of-a-kind paintings and sculptures that leave my viewers thinking, “how did she do that?” and inspire them to try creating their own masterpieces.” For more information, please visit www.okeq.org/art-gallery ----For a Virtual Tour, Click the Video Below: 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 36 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on AM LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA AMDOKEQ Do you know a young person who loves to sing? 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 37 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions, and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 1 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 38 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 39 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Want to build some distress reduction skills with a gender affirming focus? Join an OSU study of text-message based, transgender and nonbinary affirmative, cognitive behavioral interventions designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 40 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... Contact Us Today By Sending a Text Stating Your Interest To 405-7 44-9188 < Approved: Protocol #: IRB--0-213 Click Here for More on the Study Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma OKEO.ORG/OKEO-HEAL TH-CLINIC 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 41 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... OR CALL 918·938·6537! ---~ KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAIHR FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 42 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 43 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams Peter Athens Philip and Miranda Kaiser Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 44 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 45 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, April 8th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 46 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... People your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 47 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - - ---or alex.wade@okeq.org sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. - - - - ---- Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education , Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ---- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 48 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSOREOh THlGEOltGl~A.ISU , .. MILYfOUNOATION 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 49 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... ■ ',, . I ' • . • e • • ·■ Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org In Memoriam Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez 4/28/26, 2:23 PM �Remembering Tracy Allen 50 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remembering-Tracy-Allen.html?s... Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:23 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fc3ca0715a353d01ca9449c4c39b7c63.pdf 2dfaefbb2c38b507064b54208744d648 PDF Text Text Springing OUT! 1 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews March 29th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Oklahomans for Equality is Sponsored by: Michael and Chris Brecht-Smith •v: ! . . . . . .~:1fil!. ' 'L~ I I, 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 2 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... F ~ Pa.fR.Oll Rental Properfy Bookkeeprng Let us help you file your 2020 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 525 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com F~owneci 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 3 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Memorial Service for Tracy Allen Saturday, April 3, 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us as we celebrate the life of Tracy Allen alongside his family and friends. Tracy served Oklahomans for Equality for over 25 years and was a valued member of the LGBTQIA+ community as well as a dedicated volunteer and staff member. The memorial will be held in the Bruce Goff Room of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th St Tulsa OK, 74120). The service will begin at 1:00 p.m. Please post your favorite memories and pictures of Tracy on the Facebook event page, and we will add them to a celebration of life slideshow for Saturday. We will live stream this event for those who cannot attend in person. Please wear a mask. RSVP ON FACEBOOK AND LEAVE YOUR MEMORY 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 4 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Josh New “Confronting the Male Nude: A Figure Study of the Male Form." Opens Thursday, April 1 Artist Reception On Thursday, April 8, at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Josh New is a commercial freelance photographer from Oklahoma specializing in portraiture and conceptual art. He received his MFA in Photography from the University of Tulsa in 2011, focusing on a thesis critically exploring modern American masculinity in both gay and straight cultures. He continues to create work showcasing the male form in hopes that one-day nudity, both male and female, will cease to be feared and brutally censored. This show is a celebration of male beauty and figure photography that is currently banned from most social media platforms because it goes against “community standards.” Even when not sexualized, the human body continues to be censored and excluded from discussion in modern American society. My hope is to present beautiful, emotional, and thought-provoking work and show that these “community standards” are actually an archaic barrier to healthy reflection and comfort with our own bodies. The show will feature giant prints of male nudes that I hope viewers will feel comfortable looking at, analyzing, and discussing in the hopes that confronting the fears and misconceptions of nude figure photography, particularly of the male body, can foster a change into what our community accepts. The show opens Thursday, April 1st, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120. On Thursday, April 8th, there will be a special artist reception with Josh New, and 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 5 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Covid measures will be in place. The show continues throughout the month. SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, March 30, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa has resumed meeting in-person. Please see the COVID-19 Guidelines below to participate. I DKEQ COVID· 19 GUIDELINES: I 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 6 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPA□ AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Contact Us First Thursday llrt Gallery Meet-lip GEN Q, OKEQ's LGBTQIA+ group for young adults 18 to 26-ish Gen Q: First Thursday Art Gallery Meet-Up Thursday, April 1, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 7 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. For this event, we will be meeting up at the First Thursday Art Gallery Show, Josh New “Confronting the Male Nude: A Figure Study of the Male Form." NOTE: This gallery exhibit contains explicit imagery of the Assigned Male At Birth (AMAB) form. t l ·.· . · . RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. . • • •~ APRIL 1, 6PM f ACEBOOK LIVE M'i ~ CLINTON SHANE BRADLEY EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: Interfaith Happy Hour Thursday, April 1, 6:00 p.m. on Facebook Live Oklahomans for Equality's new Equality Faith Alliance is excited to announce SPIRIT, a virtual happy hour-style support and social group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether your goal is to reconnect with your faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce your faith, or just connect with other people like yourself, SPIRIT is the group for you. Each Thursday, a spiritual leader from Tulsa and the surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. Our guest host this week is: Chaplain Bradley Precepts C.A.R.E 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 8 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practices Click Here to Attend NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rd Tuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Neurodiversity Tulsa 1st and 3rd Tuesday of Every Month, at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 9 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna ( J • .,1 .,1 I ·1·1, ·J . ( , • ,. / ) I ( . , ·1 LIVE STREAMED • ONFACEBOOK APRIL2ND, 2021AT7PM Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Donald Rose Friday, April 2, at 7:00 p.m This event will be held via zoom and live-streamed on Facebook due to Covid-19. Join OKEQ as we continue the Queer Black Voices series with Donald Rose. Donald is a US Army Veteran serving from 1985 to 1994. Donald did Basic Training at Fort Dix, NJ, and Duty Stations at Fort Lewis Washington, Hannau, Germany, Fort Leonardwood, MO. This event will be held via zoom and live-streamed on Facebook due to Covid-19. RSVP Event on Facebook Contact Kao ...... . ... 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 10 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... • FORNEWAND RETURNING OKEQ VOLUNTEERS April Volunteer Training Saturday, April 3, 11:00 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. Tuesday, April 6, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Interested in joining the OKEQ volunteer team? Already a volunteer but need to brush up on your service skills after the year-long service break? We are hosting volunteer training for new and returning volunteers to get ready for inperson programming and service at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! You will learn about the center, the duties and responsibilities of being a volunteer, and all of the necessary skills; all packed neatly into a 90-minute training! This training will be offered twice each month, so don't stress if you can't make it. However, these trainings are required to volunteer at OKEQ! We can't wait to see you! In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 11 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Tracy Allen July 8, 1966 - March 22, 2021 Oklahomans for Equality remembers Tracy Allen, an incredible staff member who served OKEQ for over 24 years. "I could always count on Tracy to be there for our community. We met as volunteers, we became board members, we became staff, but always were friends first, I have lost one of my dearest friends and I must never let him down by failing to serve our community. You have 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 12 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... finished your race Tracy, I will continue to run my race with you in my heart." -- Toby "Tracy, you're forever in our memories and forever in our hearts. Thank you for all the work you've done for our community. We miss you, Tracy." -- Kao "Tracy always made time to listen to anyone who needed an ear."-- Allison "Tracy was so dedicated to the cause. We all learned from him and his infinite wisdom." -- Morgan "Tracy's smile and laugh always made you feel welcome and better."-- Paul "Tracy was one of the first people I met at the center. He trained me as a volunteer, and as I got more involved, I saw how much of a rock he was for this organization. Anything that needed to be done, if Tracy could do it, he would. More than anything else, I will remember Tracy's laugh and his smile. He always filled the room with cheer. I already miss the light he brought to this building." -- Alex "Tracy is an incredible advocate and mentor for us here at OKEQ. His presence and personality will be greatly missed." -- Krissy "Thank you Tracy, for sharing the history of this organization with myself and countless others."-- Anna "Tracy was a mentor and friend, I'm thankful that I got to experience his kindness and learn from the wisdom he shared with me." -- Donovid "There are so many words that can define such a sweet, loving person that is a joy to be around. I remember the first time I met you. We were cutting a rug on the dance floor. Down the line, I got the pleasure of being on staff with you. Your presence was always good vibes. You served the community and took time to give back. I'm really gonna miss you, and our last conversation in text will be saved forever. Your mission is complete. Now you get to dance with the best. Love you." --Scrappy Legacy "Tracy Allen was a force of nature that we will never forget and can never replace. For decades, Tracy was one of the faces greeting you when you entered the Equality Center and one of the voices wishing you well when you left. Tracy embodied everything we stood for as an organization and was a constant warrior in the fight for LGBTQ+ rights in this community. Tracy met every person with compassion and approached every problem with a genuine desire to be a part of the solution. We have lost a beloved member of our family and, while we mourn this incredible loss, we also celebrate a man that helped so many people, saved so many lives. We each carry a piece of the light that shown brightly in Tracy with us. We will carry it with us every day and, hopefully, make the world a brighter place in remembrance of our brother, who was sadly taken much too soon." -Board of Directors, Oklahomans for Equality. 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 13 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Mylin Gipson July 6, 1974 - March 17, 2021 Jim Craven June 5, 1937 - March 16, 2021 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 14 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Kodee Shane Nov. 28, 1990 - March 13, 2021 Nataleigh Ann LaLonde June 16, 1994 - Jan. 17, 2021 Nataleigh Ann LaLonde Cody Wayne Allen Sept. 4, 1993 - Feb. 3, 2021 Cody Wayne Allen Obituary 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 15 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... ----- . ~-- .......'.:~ . .. ( ? " ,. ,.~ . . CELEBRA Tl ~ N'S HISTORY MONTH Oklahomans for Equality recognizes March as Women's History Month. Since our founding in 1980, women have been critical to the operation and success of our organization. We have seen amazing women leaders who have served as Presidents, Vice Presidents, Executive Directors, Board Members, staff members, and program creators and facilitators. Nationally, LGBTQ+ women, especially our transgender women of color, have pushed our movement to be more inclusive and have led the fight for equality since the very beginning. This month, OKEQ will highlight LGBTQ+ women who have made an impact in our community. May they inspire us all to continue our fight for equality. er to~moment 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 16 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Syl•ia Rioera #womenshistorymonth Her-Story Moment: Sylvia Rivera Sylvia Rivera devoted her entire life to the cause of transgender liberation and equality. Rivera was just 17 years old at the time of the Stonewall Uprising, and she protested for all six nights at the Stonewall Inn with her friend Marsha P. Johnson. She frequently raised her voice against other gay rights leaders to make sure that transgender people were included in the fight for equality. She formed the Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries (STAR) to organize around the transgender community in New York City and to provide housing for homeless transgender women. Her work centered people who were often pushed to the sidelines of the movement, and she was known as a mother to many young, queer youth. Today, organizations like the Sylvia Rivera Law Project carry on her incredible legacy. Na~&Joe McDonald --• L ____ 1 !L---4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 17 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... BOOK OF THE WEEK ure TNice Tasting Life Twice edited by E.J. Levy This Lambda Literary Award anthology showcases the diverse visions of literary lesbian writers--women who have loved women and write from that place; includes great pieces by terrific writers such as Mary Gaitskill, Cheryl Strayed, Ana Castillo, Carole Maso, Carol Anshaw, Stephanie Grant, and others. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT E.). LEVY E.J. Levy's work has been featured in The Best American Essa ys, The New York Times, The Washington Post, The ation and The Paris Review, and has received a Pushcart Prize. Her anthology, Tasting Life Twice: Literary Lesbian Fiction by ew American Writers, won the Lambda Literary Award. She holds a degree in History from Yale and an MFA from Ohio State University, and currently teaches in the lFA Program at Colorado State University. 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 18 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... OkEq In-Person Focus Group: Voting Bylaws Change Proposal Monday, April 5th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 You are invited to an In-Person meeting to provide needed and necessary membership feedback regarding a proposed amendment to the OkEq bylaws, regarding how the organization currently elects the OkEq Board of Directors. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. This is an OKEQ membership meeting only. Presently, OkEq bylaws require that the Board of Directors be elected by popular vote of its members in good standing. OkEq is seeking to implement current best practices for an LGBTQ+ community organization of its size, based on feedback from national and local LGBTQ+ leadership organizations, with guidance from Oklahoma nonprofits and other local leaders and fundraising organizations, and move the OkEq Board of Directors to a succession board. This would mean that the OkEq Board of Directors would, annually, with the advice and recommendations from our constituency, self-nominate the successor Directors to fulfill all the terms and conditions of a Director for the organization. This is a major change in organizational policy and OkEq needs membership feedback prior to voting on this issue. Please join us and make your voice heard. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. You may also join this meeting remotely by Zoom. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. You must RSVP to get a zoom link to participate. Please RSVP by contacting us below by Monday, April 5th by 3:00 p.m. to register and 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 19 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... receive the Zoom link. RSVP HERE ,_ , _ . . _ , _ , , _ , _ _,___,_ . ,_ _,_ _-,-.--,--,I • i♦ ,,...,_ • fI (J[[J{f)(J@()@(!!J(]{l/2 2nd Friday of the month ♦ I •♦ ! I 1 I IndigiQueer Friday, April 9, 7:00 p.m. Online Event Contact Kao below for the link. IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. – Vnokeckv. Add our IndigiQueer Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/indigiqueerokeq For more information contact: Kao at kao.morris@okeq.org Add our IndigiQueer Facebook group! Contact Kao Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, April 13, 5:30 p.m. 2nd Tuesday of the Month Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 20 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first-come, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone - - is (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality Presents HUMAN TRAFFICKING, SEXUAL VIOLENCE, & THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY FEATURING PANELISTS FROM • Domestic Violence Intervention Services (DVIS) • Tulsa County District Attorneys Office • Tulsa Police Department (TPD) Tuesday, April 13th , 2021 7:00 pm on Facebook Live Sexual Assault Awareness Month 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 21 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Join Oklahomans for Equality as we discuss human trafficking, sexual assault, domestic violence, and the impact on the LGBTQ+ Community. We will hear from representatives from the Tulsa County District Attorneys Office Criminal Division, Domestic Violence Intervention Services, the Human Trafficking & Vice Special Operations Team of the Tulsa Police Department, and the Special Victims Unit. Our goal is to create a dialog between these groups and the LGBTQIA2S+ community. This event will be broadcast on April 13th, at 7:00 pm via Facebook Live. Please note that this event will discuss mature themes and include examples of real-world violence. Viewer discretion is advised. This event is in recognition of Sexual Assault Awareness Month. OKEQ stands with and believes victims. Pride Volunteer Sign Up Form 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 22 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Thursday, April 15, 8 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Rainbow Room favorites as we re-open Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room with a spectacular cabaret remembering all of the wonderful music of days before Covid-19! Tickets will be limited, and we will offer pay-per-view streaming on Zoom of this performance. Check back next week for the ticket link! 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 23 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... POC SOCIAL: Paint & Sip Friday, April 16, 7:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come paint something magical and sip on some wine. 21+ to drink POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. Contact Kao RSVP Event on Facebook ~ I I , I I I t \ ' , ' ' I 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 24 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... OUT IN NATURE: TURKEY MOUNTAIN HIKE Saturday, April 17, at 10:00 a.m. Turkey Mountain Parking Lot OUT in Nature is an outdoors group by and for the LGBTQIA2S+ community. We host outings like hikes, bikes, runs, campouts, and more. For this adventure, we will explore the trails at Turkey Mountain. These trails are pet-friendly, so feel free to bring your pups! We will meet in the parking lot. Morgan will be the host, so feel free to email her with any questions at morgan.allen@okeq.org. - - Please wear a mask or neck gaitor while on the trail. We are always open to new ideas and activities, as we are just getting started! E EBA Mixer Thursday, April 22nd, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Cityscape Home Mortgage 1115 S. Lewis Ave., Suite D Tulsa, OK 74104 www.cityscapehome.com ALITY usiness Alliance till CITYSCAPE GIii HOME MORTGAGE The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers have resumed! Cityscape Home Mortgage will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for April. Please join us. Masks and social distancing will be required. Visit Cityscape Home Mortgage 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 25 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... EBA Information GEN Q: Night Out Friday, April 23, 2021, at 9:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. Every 4th Friday of the month, we will hit the town and dance the night away. We will pay for entry on a first-come, first-serve basis. Contact Kao RSVP Event on Facebook 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 26 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... OKE , okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 27 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. 0 ALPHABET SOUP KIDS ~ SATURDAY AFTERNOON 3·4PM ~ • • ·o \\ • • ~ • • <::) - -==- ;:, • • <::) 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 28 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access it via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 29 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... AM LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA AMDOKEQ Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions, and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact PARENTS OF LOBTQ2SJA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 30 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 31 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join c e N D(l)M-MAN IA! Saturday, April 10, 2021 at 7:00pm 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 32 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 33 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Condom-Mania! Saturday, April 10, 7:00p.m. Virtual Event Condom-Mania! is a fabulous party, fashion show, lip-synch contest & fundraising event for the LBH. Fashions are made from colorful condoms! Click below for more information: Condom-Mania Information Want to build some distress reduction skills with a gender affirming focus? Join an OSU study of text-message based, transgender and nonbinary affirmative, cognitive behavioral interventions designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! The Study Includes: - Pre-Intervention Evaluation - Free 6-week Skill Building Intervention - Post-Intervention Evaluations - Progress Report - $20 Gift Card for Successful Completion 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 34 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Contact Us Today By Sending a Text Stating Your Interest To 405-744-9188 Apprm·od: Protocol /r: IRB-20-213 Click Here for More on the Study Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 35 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPOHSOIIED BY THEGEOIIGEUISEII FAMILYFOUHDATIOH Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment RIBBON CUTTING CEREMONY OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC In Case you missed it you can watch the recording of the OKEQ Health Clinic Ribbon Cutting Ceremony, by clicking the button below. Click here to Watch Equality 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 36 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 37 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 38 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams Peter Athens Philip and Miranda Kaiser Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 39 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, April 8th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 40 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- ---or alex.wade@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People \., , ' Support Group for Transgender Teens or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom J ~ l £ \/,, \ f \ m~ , "'' ri j~, .. ~ Support Group for Parents of Transgender People The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 41 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. adulthood -- or SOUP -- to Support Group for Partners of Transgender People LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - - ---or alex.wade@okeq.org sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. - - - - ---- Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule The Equality 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 42 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 43 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC 5POf,iSQ9l0 ■ Y THIOIO.OIK ..111• ••MILY~NOATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:25 PM �Springing OUT! 44 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Springing-OUT-.html?soid=1102... '/l'" - Pictur/c-.,urtesy of the Tulsa World In Memoriam Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:25 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a96fbe265585224a20603e3469a9da66.pdf acdefbe542ddfe6afd3bedb39e7f90ef PDF Text Text Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 1 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews January 5, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 2 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... Click Here to Sponsor the Center for a Day Presents: The January Oklahomans for Equality Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery will feature Lizzie DiSilvestro: “Warm Simplicity” 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 3 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... Lizzie DiSilvestro’s work explores a visual representation of the feeling of being content, which brings us closer to or further from that state, and the healing impact of choosing joy. She challenges her viewers to remember the warm peace we feel when everything in life is 'just fine.' These may only be moments in between the chaos and thrills, but the way we design our lives and the choices we make every day can lead to a more constant feeling of contentment and appreciation. DiSilvestro celebrates these often overlooked, often private moments that come in between the extremes of our existence because they provide the most honest look at life. Inspired by her father’s adage, “Most of life is not spent in the highs or lows, but somewhere right in the middle,” Lizzie believes there is nothing more beautiful than the contentedness and warm simplicity that results from finding joy in the ordinary. While creating, Lizzie allows space to observe her behaviors and intentions. Still, ultimate interpretation and conclusion are left up to the viewer, allowing a shared experience resulting in increased self-awareness. Throughout Lizzie's work, elements that remain constant are strong brush strokes, meticulously chosen color, and rich texture, all working together to emulate life’s opulent moments alongside the mundane. Growing up in Kansas City, Lizzie was exposed to a wide range of rich culture and world-class experiences from a young age. Greatly influenced by her paternal grandmother, a vibrant and strong female with a passion for all things artistic, Lizzie has been encouraged to create since she could speak. With a vivacious personality and a strong sense of self, the question has never been "would Lizzie express herself, but how." The medium of choice has changed over the years, but paint and fiber have remained constant throughout recent years. With a science and nursing background, Lizzie takes an analytical look at her surrounding milieu's temperament, those that inhabit it, and the interplay between the two as a mirror for her art. The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 on Thursday, January 7th,2021, with Covid measures in place. The show continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit ldisilvestroart.com or www.okeq.org. • ♦ ♦ • ♦ . • • ♦• • • Stimulate Your • • Community •. ♦ 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 4 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... $ 1:ii1,ai,1...,. ~ ~~Okla:.-.=.:hol=m=aa~ns;ifor~Eqniua~li\y Stimulate the Community with your stimulus check. Please consider Oklahomans for Equality. These donations will help sustain programs serving the LGBTQ community. Click Here to Donate Call for Artist - Deadline for submissions February 7th Call For Artists! The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2021 Exhibition Calendar. Our gallery encourages artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media to apply. Details Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. OkEq will host the artist's opening night reception (s) on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is installed on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after the initial delivery. Work must be available for sale. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc.) for each piece. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month before the exhibit for publicity purposes. How to Apply: Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images that represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted by email. Proposals incorporating the work of two artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 5 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. The deadline for submissions is February 7th, 2021. Notifications will be sent out by March 1, 2021. Please submit your entry below, with the subject heading “OkEq gallery proposal" Submit Entry Here Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on New Year, New Me! Starting in 2021, Oklahomans for Equality will offer scholarships for transgender persons seeking a name and gender marker changes. This scholarship will cover the cost of an attorney and all filing fees. Applicants will be chosen based on financial need and a dedication to volunteer service. This scholarship is open to anyone in Oklahoma, not just the Tulsa area. We will select scholarships monthly as funds allow. Apply Here 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 6 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... NAME CHANGE GENDER MARKER CHANGE SCHOLARSHIP PROGRAM Sponsor an individual's legal name and/or gender marker change. Oklahomans For Equality's Transgender Programming is launching a new Gender Marker and Name Change Scholarship fund! Help raise money for transgender and gender non-conforming folks in Oklahoma to secure funds for legal fees, gender marker change, and name change fees. The full cost for each scholarship is $300, but any amount helps! Donate Here NEURODIVER TULSA 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 7 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30-7:30pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Neurodiversity Tulsa Tuesday, January 19, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies you are welcome in this group! Allies, friends, and support systems are also welcome! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like minded individuals in our community. Our first meeting will be a game night on January 19th at 6:30pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 8 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... oklohomo ~~~ Volunteer, Save a Life ~-~-~-~~- Ok ahoma Medical Reserve Corps (OKMRC) Is seeking volunteers medical or non-medical to help w· h COVID-19 rehef. Please visit okmrc.org to earn more 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 9 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... An Important Volunteer Opportunity Oklahoma Medical Reserve Corps (“OKMRC”). Despite the name, there is a huge need for non-medical as well as medical personnel to volunteer to assist with Covid vaccinations, COVID testing and future disasters, such as tornados, wildfires and other situations. The Oklahoma Medical Reserve Corps okmrc.org works in conjunction with health departments to support emergency response needs. Currently, OKMRC volunteers are working with health departments across the state to support vaccination and testing sites. Nonmedical volunteers are helping with traffic control, registration and other needs. Breath of Fresh Air: In July 2020, the Dennis R. Neill Center installed air scrubbers in our HVAC system to help our constituents and visitors healthy when visiting Oklahomans for Equality. Clean air is important for everyone, those with health concerns, and those without. Please see more on these units using the link below: See more on Air Scrubbers SAGE Tulsa has moved their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. to a conference call. 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 10 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... You can join the SAGE call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. Contact Us sao-e ~~~~~:~~o~ ~, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE is interested in learning about how LGBTQ+ older adults are feeling about the COVID-19 Vaccine. Do you want to get the new Covid-19 vaccine? Are you worried about it or confident? SAGE wants to know! As we’ve all seen, the new Covid-19 vaccines are being rolled out to medical personnel and nursing home residents. We want to know what you are thinking about the vaccine. Do you want to be vaccinated? Are you skeptical or worried about it? While we don’t yet know when older adults across the country will be eligible for the vaccine, your input is greatly appreciated and will inform our SAGE planning efforts. The survey should take no longer than 5 minutes to complete. Your answers are anonymous and confidential. Take the Survey HRC RELEASES 9TH ANNUAL MUNICIPAL EQUALITY INDEX A NATIONWIDE EVALUATION OF MUNICIPAL LAW 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 11 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... * ....... ..... Equality Federation Institute Tulsa Improves its score on the Human Rights Campaign Municipal Equality Index. Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa in improving their score on the annual Human Rights Campaign Municipal Equality Index from a 62 in 2019 to 78. The staff, board, and membership of Oklahomans for Equality work closely with Mayor GT Bynum's office and the Tulsa City Council to improve policies, adopt ordinances and expand services to improve the lives of LGBTQ Tulsans. 2020: HRC Equality Index -2020 - -Municipal ----- - -Scorecard ---2019: HRC Equality Index -2019 - -Municipal ----- - -Scorecard ---Thank you for all of your work to make sure Tulsa improved their score. Your visibility, reaching out to public policymakers, and advocating for our community have made these incremental steps towards equality. LGBTQ+ individuals and their families considering a move to Tulsa can check these sources to find out if a city is a hostile environment or inclusive. We still have a long way to go to get a 100, but the evidence is in, and Tulsa is improving. . . Shop. with Amazon . . Smile . Donate to.Oklahomans for. Equality . . . . . . • . One Convenien.t Place amazonsmile You shop. Amazon gives. 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 12 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Jerry Perigo June 4, 1946 - December 25, 2020 Services to be Announced 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 13 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... Charles S. Kopp April 7, 1930 - Nov. 27, 2020 Charles S. Kopp passed in the early morning hours of Friday, November 27, 2020. He was 90 years old. Charles is the father of Norman Kopp, a volunteer at OkEq and PFLAG Tulsa. Charles attended many OkEq and PFLAG dinners at the Equality Center, art shows with the lovely Allie Jensen, and other programs. In 2007, he brought supplies to the Pride Store booth at the Pride Festival, and food to the OkEq Gala volunteers at the Warren Doubletree later that same day. Charles helped Norman prepare when he played in the softball league sponsored by the Equality Center, especially when he was the Green Onion team manager in the spring of 2011. An enjoyable moment for him was meeting Sue Welch, who was in charge of rehabbing the Equality Center building in 2006-2007; Norman was one of the volunteers working on the project. His father got a tour before it was ready for occupancy. Charles and Norman not only loved each other, they liked each other, and it showed. In later years, they would come to the Equality Center on occasional Sundays to see that month's art show. To read more about Charles' life, see his obituary here: Charles S. Kopp Obituary Narq&Joe McDonald 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 14 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... a1nbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK A NOVEL Memorial: A Novel A funny, sexy, profound dramedy about a family in all its strange forms, joyful and hard-won vulnerability, and two young people at a crossroads in their relationship and the limits of love. AUTHOR or I.OT AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Brian Washington is an American writer. He published his debut short story collection, Lot, in 2019 to critical acclaim and published his first novel Memorial, in 2020. BRIAN WASHINGTON 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 15 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + ird Friday of the Month at 7 21 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday, January 15, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us, and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends. Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent in Spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions, please contact Liz at the button below. El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 16 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras ♦ ♦ ♦· (Jr:J(j)()@()@(!J(l(l(f1 ,1JINUJIBY22ND, '7PM ♦ I ' ♦ - ♦I . ; I I Friday, January 22, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Meets via Zoom IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. – Vnokeckv. Add our IndigiQueer Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/indigiqueerokeq For more information, contact: Kao below: Email Us Here ALPHABET SOUP KIDS ON ZOOM • • 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 17 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... All Youth Programming Resumes on Zoom January 9th, 2021 I 1~ VOICI LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SATURDAY AFTERNOONS ON ZOOM E-MAIL MORGAN.ALLEN@OKEQ.ORG - FOR INFORMATION SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 18 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions, and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact PARENTS OF LOBTQ2SJA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People \..,,_.,/ 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 19 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 20 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access it via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Coming Out Workshop 1st Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 21 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSOREOBY THE GEORGE KAIHR FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 22 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to give you peace of mind quickly. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing, and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Click Here to Make an Appointment WE OFFER FREE MENSTRUAL PRODUCTS TO ANYONE WHO NEEDS THEM ANY AGE, ANY GENDER. PEllel. CAll 918-74J-4297 OR PICKUP AT 621 f. 4TH ST. 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 23 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 24 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... When it comes to cancer, health providers aren’t very educated on what we need. If you are an LGBTQI+ cancer survivor, please share your story so doctors can get better information on how we experience cancer, please take Out: The National Cancer Survey. Click Here to Take the Survey LGBTQ Health and Coronavirus Survey n,1s res.areh ls• collaborative project ot Gender Benders , Rooted Reslst..ance# and Sociologists et Kenyon College . FOi'" .are inf~tion cant.act Alatln H JotwlMJn, PhD J~lkenyon edu The LGBTQ+ Health and Coronavirus Survey aims to investigate the specific hardships and unique experiences of LGBTQ+ people in the time of COVID-19, specifically those who reside in the U.S. Southeast and the U.S. Midwest. Under ordinary circumstances, LGBTQ people in these two regions are underserved and largely understudied. In extraordinary circumstances, such as a global health pandemic, this lack of resources and data leads to more pronounced hardship and increased disparities across outcomes for queer and trans people who call the South and Midwest home. A collaborative, community-engaged research project led by Sociologists at Kenyon College and community organizers at Gender Benders and Rooted Resistance, this project responds to the current moment and seeks to identify key areas of need for LGBTQ people in these two regions during this ongoing crisis. 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 25 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... Click Here to Take the Survey For intormauon mat leads to the Arrest and conuiclion 01 the Person or Persons Responsible tor me murder 01 ousun Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shol and killed while on the iob al Rover Taxi s ' I I I Anvone with information is asked to conlact die McAlester Police oeuanment at 918-423-1212 or die DSBI bv Calling the Agencv's Tip line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng d s OSbl II. ov McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 26 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 27 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 28 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... Services Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, January 14th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org - - - --- Support Group for Parents of Transgender People "x.,I ,~,,rr,, \ /',. . ri "' ".;.,1 Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 29 of 34 Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Tulsa Area Prime Timers providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 30 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -or alex.wade@okeq.org sa(Te ~~~~:~~! ~~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! -- - -- COVID-19 Canceled: Programming • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 31 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. ARTS AND CRAFTS N~;~~ •• AT THE OENN!S R NEILL EQUAUTY CENTER Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Community Partners health outreach prevention education , Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 32 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... www.okeq.org/eba Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 33 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC S~N10J111oav lHIGEOIIG!•4lHR ,.MILVPOUNOUION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:20 AM �Warm Simplicity Opens This Week 34 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Warm-Simplicity-Opens-This-Wee... Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:20 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0970438313d21bb98ddc6355e3ad78b7.pdf 86afa3239e20a7c6ec1f8ee3197215e8 PDF Text Text Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 1 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews April 12th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! BELONG 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 2 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... _________ _ I Trans youth deserve I b _________ to be part of the team _ II l_ .._ _ "" URGENT ACTION ALERT: SB2 is targeting transgender girls and women in sports. Once again, the Oklahoma Legislature is ignoring their own procedural deadlines to push anti-LGBTQ2S+ legislation. This time they’re trying to stop transgender kids from participating in sports. This bill is harmful, dangerous, and unconstitutional. We need your help to stop this bad bill now! Legislators have slipped anti-transgender language into a completely unrelated bill and are moving fast to push this discriminatory attack on children. Transgender kids play sports for the same reasons as other kids—to have fun, foster relationships, and learn skills like leadership and teamwork. Transgender kids, like all kids, just want to belong. Attempting to take that from kids who are already so vulnerable is cruel. It’s up to us to protect our communities. We know you’ll work with us to do just that. Transgender people are a valuable part of our communities and trans kids belong. Call your legislator NOW and tell them NO TO SB2. Contact Your Legislator and say No Athletes and Coaches: Add Your Name for Transgender Inclusion; No on SB 2! Athletes and Coaches: Add Your Name F ~ }7ayROll Rental PToperfy Bookkeep1n9 Let us help you file your 2020 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 3 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 525 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Fe~tur-LV\,g TviLboc{eaux: Tvie Tax Tvier-apkj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Thursday, April 15, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Rainbow Room favorites as we re-open Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room with a spectacular cabaret remembering all of the wonderful music of days before Covid-19! 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 4 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Tickets will be limited, and we will offer pay-per-view streaming on Zoom of this performance. Click Here for Tickets GEN Q -- Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Thursday, April 15, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. We will attend Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room together! Wear a mask! There will be a cash bar at this event. RSVP to reserve your ticket for Gen Q members! RSVP NOW 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 5 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Oklahomans for Equality Presents HUMAN TRAFFICKING, SEXUAL VIOLENCE, & THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY FEATURING PANELISTS FROM • Domestic Violence Intervention Services (DVIS) • Tulsa County District Attorneys Office • Tulsa Police Department (TPD) Tuesday, April 13th , 2021 7:00 pm on Facebook Live Sexual Assault Awareness Month Human Trafficking, Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence, and the impact on the LGBTQ+ Community Tuesday, April 13th, at 7:00 p.m. Via Facebook Live. Join Oklahomans for Equality as we discuss human trafficking, sexual assault, domestic violence, and the impact on the LGBTQ+ Community. We will hear from representatives from the Tulsa County District Attorneys Office Criminal Division, Domestic Violence Intervention Services, the Human Trafficking & Vice Special Operations Team of the Tulsa Police Department, and the Special Victims Unit. Our goal is to create a dialog between these groups and the LGBTQIA2S+ community. This event will be broadcast on April 13th, at 7:00 pm via Facebook Live. Please note that this event will discuss mature themes and include examples of real-world violence. Viewer discretion is advised. This event is in recognition of Sexual Assault Awareness Month. OKEQ stands with and believes victims. 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 6 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Click Here for the Event Page on Facebook SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, April 13, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa has resumed meeting in-person. Please see the COVID-19 Guidelines below to participate. Lunch will be served at 11:30 a.m. 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 7 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... ~ fTc! ~ A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. ~ . •.• • - ·.·. APRIL 15, 6PM f ACEBOOK LIVE -~ .. . PA ~ EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE RABBI LILY KOWALSKI SPIRIT: Interfaith Happy Hour Thursday, April 15, 6:00 p.m. on Facebook Live Oklahomans for Equality's new Equality Faith Alliance is excited to announce SPIRIT, a virtual happy hour-style support and social group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether your goal is to reconnect with your faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce your faith, or just connect with other people like yourself, SPIRIT is the group for you. Each Thursday, a spiritual leader from Tulsa and the surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. Our guest host this week is Rabbi Lily Kowalski with Temple Israel. Precepts C.A.R.E 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practices Click Here to RSVP on Facebook ' a 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 8 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... IV I GEN Q: GAME NIGHT 1 GEN Q: Game Night Thursday, April 22, 7:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. This week we are hosting a game night! Contact Donovid RSVP to Event on Facebook Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, April 13, 5:30 p.m. 2nd Tuesday of the Month Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGAL AID tGZ) SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first-come, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 9 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone - - - is (918)295-9429. OKEQ COVID-19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPA□ AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Sexual Assault Awareness Month 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 10 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... -, April is Sexual Assault Awareness and Prevention Month. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), LGBTQ+ people experience sexual violence at higher rates than straight and cisgender people. Research suggests half of transgender people and bisexual/pansexual women will experience sexual violence at some point in their lifetimes. Anti-LGBTQ+ hate crimes can often take the form of sexual violence. Transgender women of color are the most vulnerable. LGBTQ+ individuals are less likely to report sexual assault than straight and cisgender individuals. Oklahomans for Equality wishes to open a dialog between the LGBTQ+ community and the agencies that support victims, investigate sex crimes, and prosecute offenders. Please join us on Tuesday, April 13th at 7 pm on Facebook Live to talk about sexual assault and the impact on the LGBTQ+ community. Oklahomans for Equality supports and believes survivors. If you or someone you know is dealing with the aftermath of sexual violence, GET HELP NOW at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673). E ALITY usiness Alliance 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 11 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Has Resumed In Person Meetings EBA Mixer Thursday, April 22, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Cityscape Home Mortgage 1115 S. Lewis Ave., Suite D Tulsa, OK 74104 www.cityscapehome.com ■■ CITYSCAPE GIii HOME MORTGAGE The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers have resumed! Cityscape Home Mortgage will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for April. Please join us. Masks and social distancing will be required. Visit Cityscape Home Mortgage Website EBA Information 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 12 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Click Here for Tickets While They Last NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rd Tuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 13 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Neurodiversity Tulsa (Group on Break Tuesday, April 20th, and will resume Tuesday, May 4th,) 1st and 3rd Tuesday of Every Month, at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. (Group on Break Tuesday, April 20th, and will resume Tuesday, May 4th,) Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 14 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Josh New “Confronting the Male Nude: A Figure Study of the Male Form." Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Josh New is a commercial freelance photographer from Oklahoma specializing in portraiture and conceptual art. He received his MFA in Photography from the University of Tulsa in 2011, focusing on a thesis critically exploring modern American masculinity in both gay and straight cultures. He continues to create work showcasing the male form in hopes that one-day nudity, both male and female, will cease to be feared and brutally censored. This show is a celebration of male beauty and figure photography that is currently banned from most social media platforms because it goes against “community standards.” Even when not sexualized, the human body continues to be censored and excluded from discussion in modern American society. My hope is to present beautiful, emotional, and thought-provoking work and show that these “community standards” are actually an archaic barrier to healthy reflection and comfort with our own bodies. The show will feature giant prints of male nudes that I hope viewers will feel comfortable looking at, analyzing, and discussing in the hopes that confronting the fears and misconceptions of nude figure photography, particularly of the male body, can foster a change into what our community accepts. The show opens Thursday, April 1st, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120. The show continues throughout the month with Covid measures in place.. 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 15 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE ART CLICK HERE TO WATCH THE VIRTUAL ART SHOW In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Donnie Suggs died March 31, 2021 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 16 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Tracy Allen July 8, 1965 - March 22, 2021 Mylin Gipson July 6, 1974 - March 17, 2021 Jim Craven June 5, 1937 - March 16, 2021 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 17 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Kodee Shane Nov. 28, 1990 - March 13, 2021 Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library BOOK OF THE WEEK EX A D TH E C I TAD L Sex and the Citadel Sex is entwined in religion, tradition, politics, economics, and culture, so it is the perfect lens through which to examine the complex social landscape of the Arab world. Filled with five years of groundbreaking research, This 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 18 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... book gives us a unique and timely understanding of everyday lives in a part of the world that is changing before our eyes. IN A HANGI G ARAB WORLD II EREE EL FE KI AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT SHEREEN EL FEKI Shereen El Feki is a writer, broadcaster, and academic who started her professional life in medical science before going on to become an award-winning journalist for The Economist and a presenter on Al Jazeera English. She is former vice-chair of the U.N.'s Global Commission on mv and Law, and a TED Global Fellow. She divides her time between London and Cairo. 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 19 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... In-Person Special Membership Meeting Thursday, May 13, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 You are invited to an In-Person Special Membership Meeting to vote on a proposed amendment to the OkEq bylaws regarding how the organization currently elects the OkEq Board of Directors. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. This is an OKEQ membership meeting only. Presently, OkEq bylaws require that the Board of Directors be elected by popular vote of its members in good standing. OkEq is seeking to implement current best practices for an LGBTQ+ community organization of its size, based on feedback from national and local LGBTQ+ leadership organizations, with guidance from Oklahoma nonprofits and other local leaders and fundraising organizations, and move the OkEq Board of Directors to a succession board. This would mean that the OkEq Board of Directors would, annually, with the advice and recommendations from our constituency, self-nominate the successor Directors to fulfill all the terms and conditions of a Director for the organization. This is a major change in organizational policy, and OkEq needs the membership to vote on this issue. Please join us and make your voice heard. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. You may also join this meeting remotely by Zoom by requesting special permission. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. You must RSVP to get a zoom link to participate. Please RSVP by contacting us below by Wednesday, May 12th by 3:00 p.m. to register and receive the Zoom link. RSVP HERE 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 20 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Pride Volunteer Sign Up Form 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 21 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... POC SOCIAL: Paint & Sip Friday, April 16, 7:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come paint something magical and sip on some wine. 21+ to drink POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. Contact Kao RSVP Event on Facebook ~ I I I I ' I I \ ' '' APRIL 7.10AM OUT IN NATURE: TURKEY MOUNTAIN HIKE Saturday, April 17, 10:00 a.m. Turkey Mountain Parking Lot 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 22 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... OUT in Nature is an outdoors group by and for the LGBTQIA2S+ community. We host outings like hikes, bikes, runs, campouts, and more. For this adventure, we will explore the trails at Turkey Mountain. These trails are pet-friendly, so feel free to bring your pups! We will meet in the parking lot. Morgan will be the host, so feel free to email her with any questions at morgan.allen@okeq.org. Please wear a mask or neck gaitor while on the trail. We are always open to new ideas and activities, as we are just getting started! ©~~© (C(Q)~[p) £~ (C(Q)~~ (C1f £~[Q)(Q) A GROUP FOR LGBTO+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE Every 3rd Sunday of the Month 5-6:00 p.m. email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectado Sunday, April 18, 5:00 p.m Online and In-Person Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. We will speak in both English and Spanish. email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 23 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultura Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para zoom meeting ID Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid GEN Q: Night Out Friday, April 30, 10:00 p.m Club Majestic 124 N. Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. Every Fifth Friday of the quarter, we will hit the town and dance the night away. OKEQ will cover the cost of admission for GEN Q members on a first-come, first-serve basis. Contact Kao RSVP Event on Facebook 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 24 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Queer Black Voices: A Greenwood Conversation with Lincoln Cochran Online Event Please RSVP for Link Below Friday, May 7, at 7:00 p.m. Join OKEQ as we continue our Queer Black Voices series with Lincoln Cochran. This event will be held via zoom and live-streamed due to Covid-19 Contact Kao RSVP Event on Facebook 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 25 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Queer Black Voices: A Conversation with Donald Rose Join OKEQ as we continue the Queer Black Voices series with Donald Rose. Donald is a US Army Veteran serving from 1985 to 1994. Donald did Basic Training at Fort Dix, NJ, and Duty Stations at Fort Lewis Washington, Hannau, Germany, Fort Leonardwood, MO. This event was pre-recorded via zoom and live-streamed on Facebook due to Covid-19. Contact Kao Watch it Here Owasso Pride in Your Park Redbud Festival Park 20 N. Main St, Owasso, OK Saturday, May 1, 1 p.m.-5 p.m. Join us at Redbud Festival Park for Owasso Pride in Your Park! This will be the first pride picnic in Owasso and OKEQ is proud to be a part of this event. Masks 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 26 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... will be required! More details will follow. We hope to see you there. OKE , okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 27 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. 0 ALPHABET SOUP KIDS Z SATURDAY AFTERNOON ·4PM ~ • • ·o \\ • • ~ • • ~ - -==- •~ • ~ 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 28 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming Resumes In-Person April 26th 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access it via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 29 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... (}(f)(f)(}@()(ff/!J(l(l(jl 2nd Friday of the month ♦I I •♦I I . ' IndigiQueer Friday, May 14, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Online and In-Person Event Contact Kao below for the link. IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. – Vnokeckv. Add our IndigiQueer Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/indigiqueerokeq For more information contact: Join our IndigiQueer Facebook group! Contact Kao Saturdays 11-S m 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 30 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... AM LGBTQIA+ YOUTH CHOIR SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA AMDOKEQ Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions, and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact PARENTS OF L08TQ2SIA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 31 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 32 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 33 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Eauality 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 34 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... ■ • Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider TULSA COUNTY SHERIFF'S OFFICE 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 35 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 36 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 37 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Williams Peter Athens Philip and Miranda Kaiser Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Wes Smith Jacob and Lacey Grinnell Bison Extracts Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley- 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 38 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... freeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, May 13th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 39 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Support Group for Transgender Teens the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -- 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer Support Group for Partners of Transgender Tulsa Area Prime Timers opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 40 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... People LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - . ---- sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. - - - . ---- Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 41 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 42 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... i I Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org -. , ..... - ~ Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC Sl'ONSOll(D ■ Y THIG!ORGIKAISH F.1,MllYFOUND ..TION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:27 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room: Returns!!! 43 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Tulsa World In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:27 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0fdcc4c5fa43f5980b9591d3b53366c2.pdf 378186f48323ad9d308a4edcaead1ab4 PDF Text Text Spend an Evening With Granny 1 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews April 19th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! BELONG 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 2 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... _________ _ I Trans youth deserve I b _________ to be part of the team _ II l_ .._ _ "" URGENT ACTION ALERT: SB2 is targeting transgender girls and women in sports. Once again, the Oklahoma Legislature is ignoring their own procedural deadlines to push anti-LGBTQ2S+ legislation. This time they’re trying to stop transgender kids from participating in sports. This bill is harmful, dangerous, and unconstitutional. We need your help to stop this bad bill now! Legislators have slipped anti-transgender language into a completely unrelated bill and are moving fast to push this discriminatory attack on children. Transgender kids play sports for the same reasons as other kids—to have fun, foster relationships, and learn skills like leadership and teamwork. Transgender kids, like all kids, just want to belong. Attempting to take that from kids who are already so vulnerable is cruel. It’s up to us to protect our communities. We know you’ll work with us to do just that. Transgender people are a valuable part of our communities and trans kids belong. Call your Senator NOW and tell them NO TO SB2. Contact Your Legislator and say No Athletes and Coaches: Add Your Name for Transgender Inclusion; No on SB 2! Athletes and Coaches: Add Your Name F ~ }7ayROll Rental PToperfy Bookkeep1n9 Let us help you file your 2020 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 3 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 525 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Fe~tur-LV\,g TviLboc{eaux: Tvie Tax Tvier-apkj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 4 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... Click Here for Tickets While They Last E EBA Mixer Thursday, April 22, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Cityscape Home Mortgage 1115 S. Lewis Ave., Suite D Tulsa, OK 74104 www.cityscapehome.com ALITY Business Alliance till CITYSCAPE GIii HOME MORTGAGE The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers have resumed! Cityscape Home Mortgage will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for April. Please join us. Masks and social distancing will be required. 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 5 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... Visit Cityscape Home Mortgage Website EBA Information SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. sao-e ;~~~~:~~o~ ~-, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, April 20, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa has resumed meeting in-person. Please see the COVID-19 Guidelines below to participate. SAGE Road Trip to Arkansas Grand Canyon Meet at 8:00 a.m. Friday, May 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 6 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join SAGE Tulsa in the OKEQ Equality van on a trip to the Arkansas Grand Canyon! You must RSVP as seating is limited. RSVP OKEQ COVID· 19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPA□ AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 5. □ KEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 7 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: Interfaith Happy Hour Thursday, April 22, 6:00 p.m. on Facebook Live Oklahomans for Equality's new Equality Faith Alliance is excited to announce SPIRIT, a virtual happy hour-style support and social group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether your goal is to reconnect with your faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce your faith, or just connect with other people like yourself, SPIRIT is the group for you. Each Thursday, a spiritual leader from Tulsa and the surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. Our guest host this week is Rev Chuck Breckenridge of Diversity Christian Fellowship Precepts C.A.R.E 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practices Click Here to RSVP on Facebook GEN Q: GAME NIGHT a I 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 8 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... GEN Q: Game Night Thursday, April 22, 7:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. This week we are hosting a game night! Contact Donovid RSVP to Event on Facebook Sexual Assault Awareness Month 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 9 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... April is Sexual Assault Awareness and Prevention Month. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), LGBTQ+ people experience sexual violence at higher rates than straight and cisgender people. Research suggests half of transgender people and bisexual/pansexual women will experience sexual violence at some point in their lifetimes. Anti-LGBTQ+ hate crimes can often take the form of sexual violence. Transgender women of color are the most vulnerable. LGBTQ+ individuals are less likely to report sexual assault than straight and cisgender individuals. Oklahomans for Equality wishes to open a dialog between the LGBTQ+ community and the agencies that support victims, investigate sex crimes, and prosecute offenders. Oklahomans for Equality supports and believes survivors. If you or someone you know is dealing with the aftermath of sexual violence, GET HELP NOW at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673). Brought To You Bi the Letter B Resumes In-Person April 26th 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 10 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access it via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rd Tuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 11 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... Neurodiversity Tulsa (Group on Break Tuesday, April 20th, and will resume Tuesday, May 4th,) 1st and 3rd Tuesday of Every Month, at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. (Group on Break Tuesday, April 20th, and will resume Tuesday, May 4th,) Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna GEN Q will not meet on April 29, but join us April 30 at Club Majestic! 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 12 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... GEN Q: Night Out Friday, April 30, 10:00 p.m Club Majestic 124 N. Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. Every Fifth Friday of the quarter, we will hit the town and dance the night away. OKEQ will cover the cost of admission for GEN Q members on a first-come, first-serve basis. Contact Kao RSVP Event on Facebook Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, May 11, 5:30 p.m. 2nd Tuesday of the Month Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first-come, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone ----is (918)295-9429. 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 13 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Renee Anthony July 25, 1944 - March 31, 2021 Donnie Suggs Passed March 31, 2021 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 14 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... Tracy Allen July 8, 1965 - March 22, 2021 New In the PRIDE STORE 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 15 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... Wrap yourself up in our new blankets available at the OKEQ Pride Store! We have super soft blankets in the Bisexual, Pansexual, and Transgender flag colors! (Rainbow is coming soon!) $20–tax included! Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Anthony Blunt: His Lives This Biography recounts Anthony Blunt's 50 years inside the British power elite and the astonishing history of one of the century's greatest acts of duplicity. It traces Blunt's transformations, from a young member of the Bloomsbury circle to a leftwing intellectual to a camouflaged member of the establishment. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Miranda Carter is the author of Anthon Blunt: His Lives, which won the Orwell Prize for political writing and the 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 16 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... Royal Society of Literature W. H. Heinemann Award and w chosen as one of the New York Times Book Review's seven Best Books of 2002. She is also the author of The Three Emperors: Three Cousins, Three Empires and the Road to World War One, The Strangler Vine, and The Infidel Stain. Sh lives in London with her husband and two sons. MIRANDA (ARTER In-Person Special Membership Meeting Thursday, May 13, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 17 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... You are invited to an In-Person Special Membership Meeting to vote on a proposed amendment to the OkEq bylaws regarding how the organization currently elects the OkEq Board of Directors. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. This is an OKEQ membership meeting only. Presently, OkEq bylaws require that the Board of Directors be elected by popular vote of its members in good standing. OkEq is seeking to implement current best practices for an LGBTQ+ community organization of its size, based on feedback from national and local LGBTQ+ leadership organizations, with guidance from Oklahoma nonprofits and other local leaders and fundraising organizations, and move the OkEq Board of Directors to a succession board. This would mean that the OkEq Board of Directors would, annually, with the advice and recommendations from our constituency, self-nominate the successor Directors to fulfill all the terms and conditions of a Director for the organization. This is a major change in organizational policy, and OkEq needs the membership to vote on this issue. Please join us and make your voice heard. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. You may also join this meeting remotely by Zoom by requesting special permission. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. You must RSVP to get a zoom link to participate. Please RSVP by contacting us below by Wednesday, May 12th by 3:00 p.m. to register and receive the Zoom link. RSVP Here 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 18 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... Tulsa Pride on the Mother Road 2021 Friday, June 25, and Saturday, June 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Get ready for Tulsa Pride 2021! We are celebrating Pride on the Mother Road this year in partnership with OKC Pride. Booths, Parade entries, and sponsorships are available in the Pride Store click the button below: Booths, Parade entries, and Sponsorship Opportunities Equality Gala Tickets July 17, 2021 Cox Convention Center Grand Hall 100 Civic Ctr Tulsa, OK 74103 Tickets for the 2021 Equality Gala are now on sale. Celebrate 40 years of Oklahomans for Equality with us at the new Cox Convention Center Grand Hall in Downtown Tulsa. 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 19 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... Click Here for Tickets and More Information Josh New “Confronting the Male Nude: A Figure Study of the Male Form." Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Josh New is a commercial freelance photographer from Oklahoma specializing in portraiture and conceptual art. He received his MFA in Photography from the University of Tulsa in 2011, focusing on a thesis critically exploring modern American masculinity in both gay and straight cultures. He continues to create work showcasing the male form in hopes that one-day nudity, both male and female, will cease to be feared and brutally censored. This show is a celebration of male beauty and figure photography that is currently banned from most social media platforms because it goes against “community standards.” Even when not sexualized, the human body continues to be censored and excluded from discussion in modern American society. My hope is to present beautiful, emotional, and thought-provoking work and show that these “community standards” are actually an archaic barrier to healthy reflection and comfort with our own bodies. The show will feature giant prints of male nudes that I hope viewers will feel comfortable looking at, analyzing, and discussing in the hopes that confronting the fears and misconceptions of nude figure photography, particularly of the male body, can foster a change into what our community accepts. 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 20 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... The show opens Thursday, April 1st, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120. The show continues throughout the month with Covid measures in place.. CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE ART CLICK HERE TO WATCH THE VIRTUAL ART SHOW 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 21 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... Pride Volunteer Sign Up Form (Q)~[E©) (C(Q)~[p) £~ (C (Q) ~ [E (C 1r £ ~ [Q) (Q) A GROUP fOR LGBTO+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE Every 3rd Sunday of the Month 5-6:oo p.m. email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectado Sunday, May 16, 5:00 p.m Online and In-Person Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. We will speak in both English and Spanish. 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 22 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultura Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para zoom meeting ID Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid Queer Black Voices: A Greenwood Conversation with Lincoln Cochran Online Event Please RSVP for Link Below Friday, May 7, at 7:00 p.m. Join OKEQ as we continue our Queer Black Voices series with Lincoln Cochran. This event will be held via zoom and live-streamed due to Covid-19 Contact Kao RSVP Event on Facebook 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 23 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... Owasso Pride in Your Park Redbud Festival Park 20 N. Main St, Owasso, OK Saturday, May 1, 1 p.m.-5 p.m. Join us at Redbud Festival Park for Owasso Pride in Your Park! This will be the first pride picnic in Owasso and OKEQ is proud to be a part of this event. Masks will be required! More details will follow. We hope to see you there. OKE okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 24 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 25 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. 0 ALPHABET SOUP KIDS SATURDAY AFTERNOON 3·4PM Z ~ • • ·o \\ • • • ~ • ~ - -==- ~ • ~ 0 • • • ~ • \\ \\ ~ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. I : I♦ ♦I (J[JJ{f)(J@(J@(!!J(l(l(fl 2nd Friday of the month 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 26 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... IndigiQueer Friday, May 14, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Online and In-Person Event Contact Kao below for the link. IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. – Vnokeckv. Add our IndigiQueer Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/indigiqueerokeq For more information contact: Join our IndigiQueer Facebook group! Contact Kao 11-Sp• 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 27 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... AM LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA AMDOKEQ Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions, and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact PARENTS OF LGBTQ2SIA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org - --- Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org ---- 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 28 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... ◄ 2021 Summer Camp Dates ► Session 1: June 13-18 (Gluten Free) Session 2: June 20-25 (LGBTQ+) Session 3: June 27 - July 2 Session 4: July 4-9 ► Camp Fire of Green Country Summer Camp Located near Wagoner, Oklahoma, Camp Waluhili's 219 acres include almost three miles of shoreline on Fort Gibson Lake, a bluff line, forests, and meadows. Campers and staff share semi-rustic, air-conditioned cabins with electricity and a restroom with shower houses nearby. Throughout the week campers will gain knowledge about the outdoors, explore new activities, make new friends, and, most importantly, have fun. Camp Fire trains all camp staff members to include campers with special needs or disabilities and hires one male and one female staff member specifically for children needing an individual buddy. We believe everyone should have the opportunity to experience camp! Camp Waluhili is the ideal place for campers to learn new skills, make new friends, and discover who they are. Learn More and Register 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 29 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 30 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 31 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... HlueCross HlueShield of Oklahoma THE OKEQ HEAL TH CLINIC NOW TAKES BLUE CROSS BLUE SHIELD! KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 32 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider TULSA COUNTY SHERIFF'S OFFICE 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 33 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 34 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams Peter Athens Philip and Miranda Kaiser Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Wes Smith Jacob and Lacey Grinnell Bison Extracts Lars Freisberg 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 35 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 36 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, May 13th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 37 of 41 Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Tulsa Area Prime Timers SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 38 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... Ages 18+. Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - . ---- sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. ---- ---- Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------ Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 39 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC S~IIIOllliOay THIGIOIICll~Al-■11 fAMllYfOUIIOATIOfl 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 40 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee 4/28/26, 2:28 PM �Spend an Evening With Granny 41 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Spend-an-Evening-With-Granny.h... Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:28 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d6d1ed8f9adec4bcfe1ab64553087f79.pdf fcadeb4aa29bcc19feb9ad6686f29e0e PDF Text Text "Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 1 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews April 26th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 2 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... April 26 is Lesbian Visibility Day! Oklahomans for Equality celebrates the lesbian community and the vital role they have played in the organization and in the LGBTQIA+ movement worldwide. -----------1-----------1 II I are about ~~amwork, II Sportsnot compet1t1on. II II Support rour Team I ,. '\.f {''-' ) 11 11 11 ~ ~ ,, ~ \ 11 11 11 11 11 11 11 BELONG NotOSe2 11 youth Trans deserve 11 t) to be part of the team II _ _________ _ I _________ _ _ .__ . . ., URGENT ACTION ALERT: SB2 is targeting transgender girls and women in sports. Once again, the Oklahoma Legislature is ignoring their own procedural deadlines to push anti-LGBTQ2S+ legislation. This time they’re trying to stop transgender kids from participating in sports. This bill is harmful, dangerous, and unconstitutional. We need your help to stop this bad bill now! Legislators have slipped anti-transgender language into a completely unrelated bill and are moving fast to push this discriminatory attack on children. Transgender kids play sports for the same reasons as other kids—to have fun, foster relationships, and learn skills like leadership and teamwork. Transgender kids, like all kids, just want to belong. Attempting to take that from kids who are already so vulnerable is cruel. 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 3 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... It’s up to us to protect our communities. We know you’ll work with us to do just that. Transgender people are a valuable part of our communities and trans kids belong. Call your Senator NOW and tell them NO TO SB2. Contact Your Legislator and say No Athletes and Coaches: Add Your Name for Transgender Inclusion; No on SB 2! Athletes and Coaches: Add Your Name Brought To You Bi the Letter B Resumes In-Person April 26th 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 4 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. sao-e ~~~~~:~~:r c) ~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, April 27, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa has resumed meeting in-person. Please see the COVID-19 Guidelines below to participate. 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 5 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... Sage Tulsa Pizza Party Tuesday, May 4th, at 11:30 a.m. SAGE Road Trip to Arkansas Grand Canyon Meet at 8:00 a.m. Friday, May 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join SAGE Tulsa in the OKEQ Equality van on a trip to the Arkansas Grand Canyon! You must RSVP as seating is limited. RSVP 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 6 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPA□ AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. rm IB?IT:1 ~ ~ ·.·. A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. •.• . . 9 APRIL 29, 6PM f ACEBOOK LIVE -~ .. . ® NATHANIEL TALMIDGE PONS/ AUST AR ABULAF IA TURRELLE EQ.UALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: Interfaith Happy Hour Thursday, April 29, 6:00 p.m. on Facebook Live Oklahomans for Equality's new Equality Faith Alliance is excited to announce SPIRIT, a virtual happy hour-style support and social group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether your goal is to reconnect with your faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce your faith, or just connect with other people like yourself, SPIRIT is the group for you. Each Thursday, a spiritual leader from Tulsa and the surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 7 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... Our guest host this week is Nathaniel Talmidge Pons/Alistar Abulafia Turrelle, a spiritualist Precepts C.A.R.E 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practices Click Here to RSVP on Facebook GEN Q will not meet on April 29, but join us April 30 at Club Majestic! GEN Q: Night Out Friday, April 30, 10:00 p.m Club Majestic 124 N. Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. Every Fifth Friday of the quarter, we will hit the town and dance the night away. OKEQ will cover the cost of admission for GEN Q members on a first-come, first-serve basis. 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 8 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... Contact Kao RSVP Event on Facebook Artist Reception with Garon Ebersole Thursday, May 6, at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Garon Ebersole is a local artist and native Tulsan. Growing up in Broken Arrow, he attended Union High school and graduated from the University of Tulsa with a Business Administration degree. Garon has continued to work and live in the Tulsa area. Creativity was always a strength, but Garon has only been painting for a few years. After several trips to the local paint and sips, he decided to sign up for some lessons at the Tulsa Art Center with Marie Sullivan. After several months of 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 9 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... instruction and collaboration with Marie, Garon started experimenting with several techniques in his garage at home. He continues to paint at home but has upgraded from the garage to a studio in a converted bedroom. Garon is primarily an abstract artist, influenced by impressionism and expressionism. His art evolves as he paints. When starting a new piece, the only preparation is picking the canvas size, the paint colors, and maybe what technique he wants to use. Garon uses colors, sheen, and layering to create depth and texture. His favorite pieces happen purely by accident. Sometimes it takes starting over mid-painting to get a better result, but unfortunately impossible to recreate. Garon has exhibited in the Tulsa Art Crawl and even donated pieces to local charities. One of those donations was for the 2019 Equality Gala benefiting OKEQ. As a member of the LGBTQ+ community, Garon was honored to exhibit his work at OKEQ. “I believe in the great work OKEQ does for our community, and to be able to support that by doing something I love is an honor.” The Artist Reception is Thursday, May 6, at 6:00p.m. with Garon Ebersole at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 with Covid measures in place. The exhibit continues throughout the month. 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 10 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... In-Person Special Membership Meeting Thursday, May 13, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 You are invited to an In-Person Special Membership Meeting to vote on a proposed amendment to the OkEq bylaws regarding how the organization currently elects the OkEq Board of Directors. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. This is an OKEQ membership meeting only. Presently, OkEq bylaws require that the Board of Directors be elected by popular vote of its members in good standing. OkEq is seeking to implement current best practices for an LGBTQ+ community organization of its size, based on feedback from national and local LGBTQ+ leadership organizations, with guidance from Oklahoma nonprofits and other local leaders and fundraising organizations, and move the OkEq Board of Directors to a succession board. This would mean that the OkEq Board of Directors would, annually, with the advice and recommendations from our constituency, self-nominate the successor Directors to fulfill all the terms and conditions of a Director for the organization. This is a major change in organizational policy, and OkEq needs the membership to vote on this issue. Please join us and make your voice heard. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. You may also join this meeting remotely by Zoom by requesting special permission. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. You must RSVP to get a zoom link to participate. Please RSVP by contacting us below by Wednesday, May 12th by 3:00 p.m. to register and receive the Zoom link. RSVP Here I I 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 11 of 39 'v https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... ■ IIIIIDli:!~ First Thursday Art Gallery Meet-lip GEN Q, OKEQ's LGBTQIA+ group for young adults 18 to 26-ish GEN Q: First Thursday Art Gallery Opening Thursday, May 6, 7:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. Join us at the First Thursday Art Gallery Opening featuring the work of Garon Ebersole. NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rd Tuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center .. 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 12 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... Neurodiversity Tulsa 1st and 3rd Tuesday of Every Month, at 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 13 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... Owasso Pride in Your Park Redbud Festival Park 20 N. Main St, Owasso, OK Saturday, May 1, 1:30 p.m.- 4:30 p.m. Join us at Redbud Festival Park for Owasso Pride in Your Park! This will be the first pride picnic in Owasso and OKEQ is proud to be a part of this event. Masks will be required! OKEQ will have the Pride Store Roadshow, so come out and get your pride gear and support Oklahomans for Equality! Queer Black Voices: A Greenwood Conversation with Lincoln Cochran Online Event Please RSVP for Link Below Friday, May 7, at 7:00 p.m. Join OKEQ as we continue our Queer Black Voices series with Lincoln Cochran. This event will be held via zoom and live-streamed due to Covid-19 Contact Kao RSVP Event on Facebook 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 14 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, May 11, 5:30 p.m. 2nd Tuesday of the Month Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGAL AID ttz, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first-come, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone ----is (918)295-9429. In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 15 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... Renee Anthony July 25, 1944 - March 31, 2021 Donnie Suggs Passed March 31, 2021 Tracy Allen July 8, 1965 - March 22, 2021 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 16 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... ~ll)l' TULSA RACE MASSACRE CENTENNIAL COIVIIVIISSION Oklahomans for Equality encourages everyone to participate in the 2021 Tulsa Race Massacre Commission's events honoring the centennial of the Tulsa Race Massacre. There are events all throughout the Spring and Summer all over the city. Join us as we reflect on the lives lost and celebrate the resilience of Greenwood. Visit the Commission Website New In the PRIDE STORE 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 17 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... Wrap yourself up in our new blankets available at the OKEQ Pride Store! We have super soft blankets in the Rainbow Pride, Bisexual, Pansexual, and Transgender flag colors! $20–tax included! Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Raising my Rainbow Is a mother's frank, heartfelt, and brutally funny account of her and her family's adventures of Raising My Rainbow um rms IN lllSINI I FIIILOUS, mm CIIIIIII SU 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 18 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... distress and happiness raising a gender-creative son. Whereas her older son, Chase, is a Lego-loving. sports-playing boy's boy, her younger son, C.J., would much rather twirl around in a pink sparkly tutu. with a Disney Princess in each hand while singing Lady Gaga's "Paparazzi" Lori Duron Foreword by NE I L PATR IC K HARRIS and DAVID BURT KA AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT LORI DURON Lori Duron is the mother of two and lives with her husband and children. Her book, is the first parenting memoir to chronicle the journey of raising a gender nonconforming child, the book is based on her blog of the same name. Duron's blog, RaisingMyRainbow.com is the first "Mommy Blog" to chronicle raising a gender creative child. and has had more than one million readers in nearly 180 countries. Tulsa Pride on the Mother Road 2021 Friday, June 25, and Saturday, June 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Get ready for Tulsa Pride 2021! We are celebrating Pride on the Mother Road this 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 19 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... year in partnership with OKC Pride. Booths, Parade entries, and sponsorships are available in the Pride Store click the button below: Booths, Parade entries, and Sponsorship Opportunities Equality Gala Tickets July 17, 2021 Cox Convention Center Grand Hall 100 Civic Ctr Tulsa, OK 74103 Tickets for the 2021 Equality Gala are now on sale. Celebrate 40 years of Oklahomans for Equality with us at the new Cox Convention Center Grand Hall in Downtown Tulsa. Click Here for Tickets and More Information 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 20 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... Pride Volunteer Sign Up Form ©~~© t(Q)~[p) £~ t©~~t1r £~[Q)(Q) A GROUP FOR LGBTQ+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE Every srd Sunday of the Month 5-6:oo p.m. email 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 21 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... UUUUYIU.81Cfi:Ulll8'!!'Ufi:!Cq.u1- for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectado Sunday, May 16, 5:00 p.m In-Person Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. All sexual identities and gender expressions are welcome We will speak in both English and Spanish. email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for more information Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultura Todas las identidades y expresiones de género son bienvenidas Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para mas informacion. Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid OKE 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 22 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly (}(f){f)(}@()@(!!J(l(l(fl 2nd Friday of the ♦I I •♦I I ; ' IndigiQueer Friday, May 14, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Online and In-Person Event 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 23 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... Contact Kao below for the link. IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. – Vnokeckv. Add our IndigiQueer Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/indigiqueerokeq For more information contact: Join our IndigiQueer Facebook group! Contact Kao 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 24 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. ~ ALPHABET SOUP KIDS Z SATURDAY AFTERNOON 3·4PM 0 ~ • • ·o \\ • • ~ • • <:) ---- ;:, • • <:) 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 25 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... AM LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA AMDOKEQ Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions, and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact PARENTS OF LOBTQ2SIA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 26 of 39 to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org -- https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org ---- ◄ 2021 Summer Camp Dates ► Session 1: June 13-18 {Gluten Free) Session 2: June 20-25 {LGBTQ+) Session 3: June 27 - July 2 Session 4: July 4-9 ► Camp Fire of Green Country Summer Camp Located near Wagoner, Oklahoma, Camp Waluhili's 219 acres include almost three miles of shoreline on Fort Gibson Lake, a bluff line, forests, and meadows. Campers and staff share semi-rustic, air-conditioned cabins with electricity and a restroom with shower houses nearby. Throughout the week campers will gain knowledge about the outdoors, explore new activities, make new friends, and, most importantly, have fun. Camp Fire trains all camp staff members to include campers with special needs or disabilities and hires one male and one female staff member specifically for children needing an individual buddy. We believe everyone should have the opportunity to experience camp! Camp Waluhili is the ideal place for campers to learn new skills, make new friends, and discover who 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 27 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... they are. Learn More and Register Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, ' 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 28 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 29 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality U ........ l.a.L 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 30 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... n 1:u1,n Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider TULSA COUNTY SHERIFF'S OFFICE 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 31 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 32 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 33 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... Peter Athens Philip and Miranda Kaiser Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Wes Smith Jacob and Lacey Grinnell Bison Extracts Lars Freisberg Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley- 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 34 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... freeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, May 13th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 35 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... Support Group for Transgender Teens the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -- 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer Support Group for Partners of Transgender Tulsa Area Prime Timers opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 36 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... People LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - . ---- sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. - - - . ---- Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 37 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 38 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... i I Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org -. , ..... - ~ Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC Sl'ONSOll(D ■ Y THIG!ORGIKAISH F.1,MllYFOUND ..TION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:29 PM �"Brought to You Bi The Letter B" Resumes In-Person Tonight! 39 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-Brought-to-You-Bi-The-Letter-B... Tulsa World In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:29 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a0a7066d149af722ab67082790d3849e.pdf 5137e85968dcfe4b1c985abc2accfa00 PDF Text Text Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 1 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews May 3rd, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Oklahomans for Equality is Sponsored by: SAGE Tulsa 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 2 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 3 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... Garon Ebersole: “An Abstract Composition of Color, Light, and Texture" Thursday, May 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Garon Ebersole is a local artist and native Tulsan. Growing up in Broken Arrow, he attended Union High school and graduated from the University of Tulsa with a Business Administration degree. Garon has continued to work and live in the Tulsa area. Creativity was always a strength, but Garon has only been painting for a few years. After several trips to the local paint and sips, he decided to sign up for some lessons at the Tulsa Art Center with Marie Sullivan. After several months of instruction and collaboration with Marie, Garon started experimenting with several techniques in his garage at home. He continues to paint at home but has upgraded from the garage to a studio in a converted bedroom. Garon is primarily an abstract artist, influenced by impressionism and expressionism. His art evolves as he paints. When starting a new piece, the only preparation is picking the canvas size, the paint colors, and maybe what technique he wants to use. Garon uses colors, sheen, and layering to create depth and texture. His favorite pieces happen purely by accident. Sometimes it takes starting over mid-painting to get a better result, but unfortunately impossible to recreate. Garon has exhibited in the Tulsa Art Crawl and even donated pieces to local charities. One of those donations was for the 2019 Equality Gala benefiting OKEQ. As a member of the LGBTQ+ community, Garon was honored to exhibit his work at OKEQ. “I believe in the great work OKEQ does for our community, and to be able to support that by doing something I love is an honor.” 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 4 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... The Artist Reception is Thursday, May 6, at 6:00 p.m. with Garon Ebersole at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 with Covid measures in place. The exhibit continues throughout the month. CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE ART 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 5 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... In-Person Special Membership Meeting Thursday, May 13, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 You are invited to an In-Person Special Membership Meeting to vote on a proposed amendment to the OkEq bylaws regarding how the organization currently elects the OkEq Board of Directors. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. This is an OKEQ membership meeting only. Presently, OkEq bylaws require that the Board of Directors be elected by popular vote of its members in good standing. OkEq is seeking to implement current best practices for an LGBTQ+ community organization of its size, based on feedback from national and local LGBTQ+ leadership organizations, with guidance from Oklahoma nonprofits and other local leaders and fundraising organizations, and move the OkEq Board of Directors to a succession board. This would mean that the OkEq Board of Directors would, annually, with the advice and recommendations from our constituency, self-nominate the successor Directors to fulfill all the terms and conditions of a Director for the organization. This is a major change in organizational policy, and OkEq needs the membership to vote on this issue. Please join us and make your voice heard. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. You may also join this meeting remotely by Zoom by requesting special permission. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. You must RSVP to get a zoom link to participate. Please RSVP by contacting us below by Wednesday, May 12th by 3:00 p.m. to register and receive the Zoom link. RSVP Here SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 6 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, May 4, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa has resumed meeting in-person. Please see the COVID-19 Guidelines below to participate. Sage Tulsa Pizza Party Tuesday, May 4th, 11:30 a.m. 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 7 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... SAGE Road Trip to Arkansas Grand Canyon Meet at 8:00 a.m. Friday, May 28th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join SAGE Tulsa in the OKEQ Equality van on a trip to the Arkansas Grand Canyon! You must RSVP as seating is limited. RSVP DKEQ COVID· 19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPA□ AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES. PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 8 of 47 .... • - https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. .... MAY 6, 6PM f ACEBOOK LIVE -~ .. . PA \:J& ~ WITH REV TWILA GIBBENS EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: Interfaith Happy Hour Thursday, May 6, 6:00 p.m. on Facebook Live Oklahomans for Equality's new Equality Faith Alliance is excited to announce SPIRIT, a virtual happy hour-style support and social group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether your goal is to reconnect with your faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce your faith, or just connect with other people like yourself, SPIRIT is the group for you. Each Thursday, a spiritual leader from Tulsa and the surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. Our guest host this week is Rev Twila Gibbens a retired United Methodist minister. Precepts C.A.R.E 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practices Click Here to RSVP on Facebook 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 9 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... Queer Black Voices: A Greenwood Conversation with Lincoln Cochran Friday, May 7, 7:00 p.m. Online Event Please RSVP Below Join OKEQ as we continue our Queer Black Voices series with Lincoln Cochran. Lincoln Cochran is the creator of the exhibit called "Marvin Blades Faces of Greenwood Experience" now on display in Greenwood District. The exhibit includes exclusive pictures from the University of Tulsa’s McFarlin Special Collections and is open to the public on Saturdays at 100 N. Greenwood. Lincoln has an extensive background as an educator, producer, director, designer, and digital content creator. This event will be held via zoom and live-streamed due to Covid-19. Contact Kao RSVP Event on Facebook 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 10 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... Oklahomans for Equality is celebrating Asian American-Pacific Islander Heritage Month this May. In a time of heightened violence against our AAPI community, it is critical to uplift Asian voices, especially those from the LGBTQ+ community. Join us this month in highlighting LGBTQ+ Asian American-Pacific Islanders from across the nation and throughout history. GEORGE CHOY 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 11 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... AA- PI Heritage Month Asian American-Pacific Islander LGBTQ+ History Highlight: George Choy George Choy was an American activist who fought for racial justice, LGBTQ+ equality, and AIDS awareness in the '80s and '90s. He was inspired to make a difference at a young age after seeing protests against the forcible removal of Filipinos in his small San Francisco neighborhood. He fought for full civil and human rights to LGBTQ+ Asians. and Pacific Islanders. As a Gay Asian Pacific Alliance (GAPA) board member, he helped pass Project 10, a counseling program for LGBT teenagers in San Francisco public high schools. He worked as the Community HIV Project Liaison for GAPA, providing resources to Asian Americans and Pacific Islanders living with HIV/AIDS. He died of AIDS in 1993. George Choy is remembered and revered for his invaluable contributions to the AAPI, LGBTQ+, and HIV+ communities. "We have a special capacity to love one another. We understand that this love is real and valid. We understand that this special flame will light the way for us." First Thursday llrt Gallery Meet-lip GEN Q, OKEQ's LGBTQIA+ group for young adults 18 to 26-ish GEN Q: First Thursday Art Gallery Opening Thursday, May 6, 7:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 12 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. Join us at the First Thursday Art Gallery Opening featuring the work of Garon Ebersole. Contact Kao at Dustbowl Lanes lrUESDIM MIM4TH G:30 PM ~ ~~~ Meet in the parking lot of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! 621 E4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa Tuesday, May 4, 6:30 p.m. 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 13 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is heading out to Dustbowl Lanes this week! Meet in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center parking lot this Tuesday, May 4th, at 6:30 p.m., and we'll travel to Dustbowl together! See you then! Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information PRIZES - SNACKS - DRINKS 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 14 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... SCRAPPY LEGACY - ADAM MITCHELLE LEGACY - J'AOORE CHIFFON - LULU CHIFFON PONYBOY ROY • EMBER • ROBIN HEARTS · CAT· BUNNY BLISS · VALENTINE 21 E 4 HST JUL Ol 4120 - A ES 13-1 Alphabet Soup: Youth Bingo Night Saturday, May 8, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alphabet Soup, Oklahomans for Equality's LGBTQ+ Youth Group is excited to host BINGO NIGHT for youth under 18! This event will feature performances by some of your favorite drag royalty including Scrappy Legacy, King of Tulsa Pride Emeritus. There will be fun prizes for winners. Contact Morgan Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, May 11, 5:30 p.m. 2nd Tuesday of the Month Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGAL AID ttz, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first-come, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 15 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone - - is (918)295-9429. BELONG URGENT ACTION ALERT: SB2 is targeting transgender girls and women in sports. Once again, the Oklahoma Legislature is ignoring their own procedural deadlines to push anti-LGBTQ2S+ legislation. This time they’re trying to stop transgender kids from participating in sports. This bill is harmful, dangerous, and unconstitutional. We need your help to stop this bad bill now! Legislators have slipped anti-transgender language into a completely unrelated bill and are moving fast to push this discriminatory attack on children. Transgender kids play sports for the same reasons as other kids—to have fun, foster relationships, and learn skills like leadership and teamwork. Transgender kids, like all kids, want to belong. Attempting to take that from kids who are already so vulnerable is cruel. It’s up to us to protect our communities. We know you’ll work with us to do just that. Transgender people are a valuable part of our communities, and trans kids belong. Call your Senator NOW and tell them NO TO SB2. Contact Your Legislator and say No Athletes and Coaches: Add Your Name for Transgender Inclusion; No on SB 2! Athletes and Coaches: Add Your Name 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 16 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... GEN Q: "House" Show Thursday, May 13, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for a Gen Q "House" Show featuring Charlotte Bumgarner, Scatter Girls!, Hyperventilate, Bella Rose, Letter Addiction, Henry Bennett, & Rogelio Esparza. We're going to get loud and rock the "House that Equality Built." Bar for 21+, Masks Required. GEN Q is a social group for young lgbtq+ adults 18-26ish to 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open.. hang out and do cool stuff. Contact Anna for more Information 1- 1 -1~ 1 - l - J -I - l_ l 1- 1 -l- l - L _____._,_,_ l - l - l _ t - . J . - J -l~ I . tJit .I .I (!)l)l){jjff)!JW@(l)[J ~ " J. ' - l *:• 11I t! i [IJJJef}(J} ~ I r:Jr!Jd @ (f)/H}O l]f,Jr:J IndigiQueer: Game Night Friday, May 14, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. – Vnokeckv. Add our IndigiQueer Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/indigiqueerokeq For more information contact: Join our IndigiQueer Facebook group! Contact Kao 17 of 47 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 18 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... Get Your Tickets Here 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 19 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... FORNEWAND RETURNING OKEQ VOLUNTEERS • Volunteer Training Saturday, May 15, at 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Interested in joining the OKEQ volunteer team? Already a volunteer but need to brush up on your service skills after the year-long service break? We are hosting volunteer training for new and returning volunteers to get ready for inperson programming and service at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! You will learn about the center, the duties, and responsibilities of being a volunteer, and all of the necessary skills packed neatly into a 60-minute training! This training will be offered twice each month, so don't stress if you can't make it. However, these trainings are required to volunteer at OKEQ! We can't wait to see you! RSVP Brought to you Bi the letter B in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 20 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook QUEER CABARET 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 21 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... GEN Q: Queer Cabaret Thursday, May 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. This Thursday, we will be hosting a Queer Cabaret featuring Alyssa Brown and her company! This is a FREE event, and there will be a cash bar! E-mail Morgan for more information! RSVP OKEQ Bison Extracts Cannabis as Medicine Classroom Series Friday, May 21, 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The OKEQ Bison Extracts Cannabis as Medicine Classroom Series is 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 22 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... a FREE quarterly wellness education event brought to you by Bison Extracts, an LGBTQ+ Female Oklahoman-owned and operated cannaco dedicated to creating and designing clean, safe, premium quality Full Spectrum ingestibles and topicals. Hosted by Bison Extracts Brand Educator Jessi Lane is a Certified Cannacian II with continued education through Trichome Institute. This Bison Cannabis as Medicine Classroom will consist of • Introduction to your Endocannabinoid System • Cannabis the plant- an overview of descriptive vocabulary as it pertains to retail interaction • Bison Extracts guided interactive product tour *There will be a short break and Q&A built-in, Beverages provided Get your FREE ticket In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Renee Anthony July 25, 1944 - March 31, 2021 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 23 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... Donnie Suggs Passed March 31, 2021 Tracy Allen July 8, 1965 - March 22, 2021 ~11~1, TULSA RACE MASSACRE CENTENNIAL ~ ....... II. .II II. .III .............. I ....... II,,. I 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 24 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... L.. LI IVI IVI I::::,::::, I LI I" Oklahomans for Equality encourages everyone to participate in the 2021 Tulsa Race Massacre Commission's events honoring the centennial of the Tulsa Race Massacre. There are events throughout the Spring and Summer all over the city. Join us as we reflect on the lives lost and celebrate the resilience of Greenwood. Visit the Commission Website (RE)MEMBERING THE SACRED INDIGIQUEER PHOTO CAMPAIG~ \ c,,/iJ W HE : June 10 -12, 2021 WHO : Al/AN and 2SLGBTQ+ aged 14 and up WHAT : Be a part of a new photo campaign to make visible our 2SLGBTQ+ community , pride , and connectedness to our cultures ! \ \)JJlv- Register today at bit.ly/sacredindigiqueer BIO: Indigiqueer Joy in four cities this June, and Tulsa is one of them! Indigiqueer Joy is responding to calls from young 2SLGBTQ+ people, saying they don’t have images or visions of indigiqueer joy, what it means or looks like. Photographer, Evan Atwood, who is Indigenous and 2SLGBTQ+, will be in Tulsa from June 10 through 12th. Register Here 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 25 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... New In the PRIDE STORE Wrap yourself up in our new blankets available at the OKEQ Pride Store! 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 26 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... We have super soft blankets in the Rainbow Pride, Bisexual, Pansexual, and Transgender flag colors! $20–tax included! Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Blue Boy by Rakesh Satyal RAKESH SATYAL As an only son, Kiran has obligations--to excel in his studies, to honor the deities, to find a nice Indian girl, and, above all, to make his mother and father proud-standard stuff for a boy of his background. Blue Boy is n extremely entertaining, heartwarming story about a boy trying to come to terms with who he is and mostly liking himself while reconciling the desires of his parents and his need to be "normal." AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT RAKESH SATYAL Rakesh Satyal-is an American novelist, best known for his Lambda Literary Award-winning debut novel Blue Boy. Blue Boy won the 2009 Prose/Poetry Award from the Association of Asian American Studies and Satyal was a recipient of a 2010 Fellowship in Fiction from the ew York Foundation for the Arts 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 27 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... Tulsa Pride on the Mother Road 2021 Friday, June 25, and Saturday, June 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Get ready for Tulsa Pride 2021! We are celebrating Pride on the Mother Road this year in partnership with OKC Pride. Booths, Parade entries, and sponsorships are available in the Pride Store. Click the button below: Booths, Parade entries, and Sponsorship Opportunities 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 28 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... Equality Gala Tickets Saturday, July 17, 2021 Cox Convention Center Grand Hall 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Tickets for the 2021 Equality Gala are now on sale. Celebrate 40 years of Oklahomans for Equality with us at the new Cox Convention Center Grand Hall in Downtown Tulsa. Click Here for Tickets and More Information 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 29 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... Pride Volunteer Sign Up Form ©~~© t(Q)~[p) £~ t©~~t1r £~[Q)(Q) A GROUP FOR LGBTQ+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE Every srd Sunday of the Month 5-6:oo p.m. email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectado Sunday, May 16, 5:00 p.m In-Person Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. All sexual identities and gender expressions are welcome. We will speak in both English and Spanish. email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for more information 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 30 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultura Todas las identidades y expresiones de género son bienvenidas Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org - - - - - para mas informacion. Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid OKE 1 okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 31 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 32 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... ~ • • \\ • - ~ -==- ;:, • • ~ I • • • ~ ~ • \\ ~ \\ 0 • 4 YOUTH@OKEQ.ORG ~ FOR MORE INFO! • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 33 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... AM LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA AMDOKEQ Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org -- --- Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org ---- 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 34 of 47 ... '111111111 '111111111 • ◄ https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... • • • ◄ 2021 Summer Camp Dates ► Session 1: June 13-18 (Gluten Free) Session 2: June 20-25 (LGBTQ+) I • Session 3: June 27 - July 2 Session 4: July 4-9 ► ~ Camp Fire of Green Country Summer Camp Located near Wagoner, Oklahoma, Camp Waluhili's 219 acres include almost three miles of shoreline on Fort Gibson Lake, a bluff line, forests, and meadows. Campers and staff share semi-rustic, air-conditioned cabins with electricity and a restroom with shower houses nearby. Throughout the week, campers will learn about the outdoors, explore new activities, make new friends, and, most importantly, have fun. Camp Fire trains all camp staff members to include campers with special needs or disabilities and hires one male and one female staff member specifically for children needing an individual buddy. We believe everyone should have the opportunity to experience camp! Camp Waluhili is the ideal place for campers to learn new skills, make new friends, and discover who they are. Learn More and Register 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 35 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 36 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 37 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma THE OKEO HEAL TH CLINIC NOW TAKES BLUE CROSS BLUE SHIELD! KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE Gl!ORGIE KAIHR FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 38 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 39 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams Peter Athens Philip and Miranda Kaiser Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 40 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... Wes Smith Jacob and Lacey Grinnell Bison Extracts Lars Freisberg David and Randee Charney Kristoffer Barefield Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Gender Support Program Virtual Thursday, May 13th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Board Meeting 'i'" Support Group Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Regularly Scheduled Programming Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. C- 41 of 47 OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Katie Zink 4/28/26, 2:30 PM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open.. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week ✓ �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 42 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... for Transgender Teens information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Tulsa Area Prime Timers opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 43 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - - ---- sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. - - - - ---- SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 44 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------ -- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 45 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC M'ONSOM11n THl-,..llArMI fAM-.T ,o,,,HIIA1- Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 46 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman 4/28/26, 2:30 PM �Garon Ebersole Art Exhibit Opens This Week 47 of 47 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Garon-Ebersole-Art-Exhibit-Open... Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:30 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a6be507ef04b4db971c722f6d0f09242.pdf e0f76fe2aabbfcb92f1ddb9395effdfb PDF Text Text OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 1 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews May 10th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 2 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Oklahomans for Equality applauds President Biden's commitment to protecting LGBTQ persons and their families in healthcare settings. Oklahoma legislators have repeatedly tried to restrict access to healthcare for LGBTQ individuals and their families. It is refreshing to know that the current administration in the White House sees these legislative actions as discriminatory and has vowed to fight them. Oklahoma already suffers from inadequate health services for transgender persons and there is an overall lack of services for LGBTQ 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 3 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... persons in rural Oklahoma. By affirming LGBTQ person's right to healthcare services, we can work towards a future where biased health services are no longer the norm. In-Person Special Membership Meeting Thursday, May 13, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 You are invited to an In-Person Special Membership Meeting to vote on a proposed amendment to the OkEq bylaws regarding how the organization currently elects the OkEq Board of Directors. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. This is an OKEQ membership 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 4 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... meeting only. Presently, OkEq bylaws require that the Board of Directors be elected by popular vote of its members in good standing. OkEq is seeking to implement current best practices for an LGBTQ+ community organization of its size, based on feedback from national and local LGBTQ+ leadership organizations, with guidance from Oklahoma nonprofits and other local leaders and fundraising organizations, and move the OkEq Board of Directors to a succession board. This would mean that the OkEq Board of Directors would, annually, with the advice and recommendations from our constituency, self-nominate the successor Directors to fulfill all the terms and conditions of a Director for the organization. This is a major change in organizational policy, and OkEq needs the membership to vote on this issue. Please join us and make your voice heard. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. You may also join this meeting remotely by Zoom by requesting special permission. You must be a member in good standing with your $50 membership fee current. You must RSVP to get a zoom link to participate. Please RSVP by contacting us below by Wednesday, May 12th by 3:00 p.m. to register and receive the Zoom link. RSVP Here 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 5 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Get Your Tickets Here SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. sage Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, May 11, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 6 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... SAGE Tulsa has resumed meeting in-person. Please see the COVID-19 Guidelines below to participate. SAGE Road Trip to Arkansas Grand Canyon Meet at 8:00 a.m. Friday, May 28th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join SAGE Tulsa in the OKEQ Equality van on a trip to the Arkansas Grand Canyon! You must RSVP as seating is limited. RSVP OKEQ COVID-19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPA□ AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 5. □ KEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES. PRACTICE SOCIAL 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 7 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, May 11, 5:30 p.m. 2nd Tuesday of the Month Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first-come, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone - - - is (918)295-9429. .., ~ rf.;;fi .• • ~ ~l j. A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO ·.· ·.· . . • • •~ .. RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. MAY 13, 6PM f ACEBOOK LIVE .. 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 8 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... WITH REV CHRIS MOORE ~ EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: Interfaith Happy Hour Thursday, May 13, 6:00 p.m. on Facebook Live Oklahomans for Equality's new Equality Faith Alliance is excited to announce SPIRIT, a virtual happy hour-style support and social group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether your goal is to reconnect with your faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce your faith, or just connect with other people like yourself, SPIRIT is the group for you. Each Thursday, a spiritual leader from Tulsa and the surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. Our guest host this week is Rev. Chris Moore from Fellowship Congregational Church. Precepts C.A.R.E 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practices Click Here to RSVP on Facebook NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center .. 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 9 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Neurodiversity Tulsa Tuesday, May 11, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information R " MAY 13 7-8:30 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 10 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... es L GEN Q: "House" Show Thursday, May 13, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for a Gen Q "House" Show featuring Charlotte Bumgarner, Scatter Girls!, Hyperventilate, Bella Rose, Letter Addiction, Henry Bennett, & Rogelio Esparza. We're going to get loud and rock the "House that Equality Built." Bar for 21+, Masks Required. GEN Q is a social group for young lgbtq+ adults 18-26ish to hang out and do cool stuff. Contact Anna for more Information I If tI I f ♦ , f I 1 !}[f)@)(J@(J(ff/!J(l(l(12 ~ (f)f&Jlil ' ~ , ' I •~I ~ T..~ 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 11 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... IndigiQueer: Game Night Friday, May 14, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. – Vnokeckv. Add our IndigiQueer Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/indigiqueerokeq For more information contact: Join our IndigiQueer Facebook group! Contact Kao • FORNEWAND RETURNING OKEQ VOLUNTEERS Volunteer Training Saturday, May 15, at 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 12 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Interested in joining the OKEQ volunteer team? Already a volunteer but need to brush up on your service skills after the year-long service break? We are hosting volunteer training for new and returning volunteers to get ready for inperson programming and service at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! You will learn about the center, the duties, and responsibilities of being a volunteer, and all of the necessary skills packed neatly into a 60-minute training! This training will be offered twice each month, so don't stress if you can't make it. However, these trainings are required to volunteer at OKEQ! We can't wait to see you! RSVP (Q)~[E©) (C(Q)~~ £~ (C(Q)~[E t i £~lQ)(Q) A GROUP FOR LGBTQ+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE Every srd Sunday of the Month 5-6:oo p.m. email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectado Sunday, May 16, 5:00 p.m In-Person Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 13 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... culture. All sexual identities and gender expressions are welcome. We will speak in both English and Spanish. email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org - - for more information Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultura Todas las identidades y expresiones de género son bienvenidas Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org - - para mas informacion. Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid QUEER CABARET GEN Q: Queer Cabaret Thursday, May 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 14 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... This Thursday, we will be hosting a Queer Cabaret featuring Alyssa Brown and her company! This is a FREE event, and there will be a cash bar! E-mail Morgan for more information! RSVP OKEQ Bison Extracts Cannabis as Medicine Classroom Series Friday, May 21, 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The OKEQ Bison Extracts Cannabis as Medicine Classroom Series is a FREE quarterly wellness education event brought to you by Bison Extracts, an LGBTQ+ Female Oklahoman-owned and operated cannaco dedicated to creating and designing clean, safe, premium quality Full Spectrum ingestibles and topicals. Hosted by Bison Extracts Brand Educator Jessi Lane is a Certified Cannacian II with continued education through Trichome Institute. This Bison Cannabis as Medicine Classroom will consist of • Introduction to your Endocannabinoid System • Cannabis the plant- an overview of descriptive vocabulary as it pertains to retail interaction • Bison Extracts guided interactive product tour *There will be a short break and Q&A built-in, Beverages provided 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 15 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Get your FREE ticket Youth GAYla Pride Dance Saturday, May 22, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alphabet Soup is hosting the Youth GAYla, a dance by and for LGBTQIA+ youth in Oklahoma. Join us in the Event Center at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for an evening of dancing, drag performances, and snacks! This event is for youth 13-18 (those in Middle and High School). This is a free event! Contact Morgan to RSVP 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 16 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Garon Ebersole: “An Abstract Composition of Color, Light, and Texture" Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Garon Ebersole is a local artist and native Tulsan. Growing up in Broken Arrow, he attended Union High school and graduated from the University of Tulsa with a Business Administration degree. Garon has continued to work and live in the Tulsa area. Creativity was always a strength, but Garon has only been painting for a few years. After several trips to the local paint and sips, he decided to sign up for some lessons at the Tulsa Art Center with Marie Sullivan. After several months of instruction and collaboration with Marie, Garon started experimenting with several techniques in his garage at home. He continues to paint at home but has upgraded from the garage to a studio in a converted bedroom. Garon is primarily an abstract artist, influenced by impressionism and expressionism. His art evolves as he paints. When starting a new piece, the only preparation is picking the canvas size, the paint colors, and maybe what technique he wants to use. Garon uses colors, sheen, and layering to create depth and texture. His favorite pieces happen purely by accident. Sometimes it takes starting over mid-painting to get a better result, but unfortunately impossible to recreate. Garon has exhibited in the Tulsa Art Crawl and even donated pieces to local charities. One of those donations was for the 2019 Equality Gala benefiting OKEQ. As a member of the LGBTQ+ community, Garon was honored to exhibit his work at OKEQ. “I believe in the great work OKEQ does for our community, and to be able to support that by doing something I love is an honor.” 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 17 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Watch the Virtual Tour Below: Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE ART 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 18 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Oklahomans for Equality is celebrating Asian American-Pacific Islander Heritage Month this May. In a time of heightened violence against our AAPI community, it is critical to uplift Asian voices, especially those from the LGBTQ+ community. Join us this month in highlighting LGBTQ+ Asian American-Pacific Islanders from across the nation and throughout history. • AA~PI. Heritage Month KIM C.OCO ·IWAMOJO Asian American-Pacific Islander LGBTQ+ History Highlight: Kim Coco Iwamoto 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 19 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... When Kim Coco Iwamoto won her 2006 Hawai'i Board of Education Election, she became the first openly transgender person to win a statewide election. She was re-elected to a second term in 2010, with 25% more votes than her previous election. From 2012 to 2016, she served as a commissioner on the Hawaii Civil Rights Commission. She identifies as yonsei, a fourth-generation American of Japanese ancestry. In her young adulthood, she volunteered with homeless and at-risk LGBTQ+ youth in New York City. After law school, Kim Coco Iwamoto returned to her home of Hawai'i where she became a licensed therapeutic foster parent and started her political career focusing on children, schools, and families. Queer Black Voices: A Greenwood Conversation with Lincoln Cochran Join OKEQ as we continue our Queer Black Voices series with Lincoln Cochran. Lincoln Cochran is the creator of the exhibit called "Marvin Blades Faces of Greenwood Experience" now on display in Greenwood District. The exhibit includes exclusive pictures from the University of Tulsa’s McFarlin Special Collections and is open to the public on Saturdays at 100 N. Greenwood. Lincoln has an extensive background as an educator, producer, director, designer, and digital content creator. Contact Kao Watch the Facebook Live 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 20 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Click Here To Watch The Marvin Blades Sr. "FACES OF GREENWOOD Timeline Experience!" BELONG URGENT ACTION ALERT: SB2 is targeting transgender girls and women in sports. Once again, the Oklahoma Legislature is ignoring their own procedural deadlines to push anti-LGBTQ2S+ legislation. This time they’re trying to stop transgender kids from participating in sports. This bill is harmful, dangerous, and unconstitutional. We need your help to stop this bad bill now! Legislators have slipped anti-transgender language into a completely unrelated bill and are moving fast to push this discriminatory attack on children. Transgender kids play sports for the same reasons as other kids—to have fun, foster relationships, and learn skills like leadership and teamwork. Transgender kids, like all kids, want to belong. Attempting to take that from kids who are already so vulnerable is cruel. It’s up to us to protect our communities. We know you’ll work with us to do just that. Transgender people are a valuable part of our communities, and trans kids belong. Call your Senator NOW and tell them NO TO SB2. Contact Your Legislator and say No Athletes and Coaches: Add Your Name for Transgender Inclusion; No on SB 2! Athletes and Coaches: Add Your Name 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 21 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Brought to you Bi the letter B in-person meetings have resumed. Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 22 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Visit Us on Facebook In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Renee Anthony July 25, 1944 - March 31, 2021 Donnie Suggs Passed March 31, 2021 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 23 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Tracy Allen July 8, 1965 - March 22, 2021 Grateful Day's GRILL & CHILL Grateful Day Foundation Fundraiser Grill & Chill Saturday, May 22nd, 2021 6:00p.m Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $8 a plate 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 24 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Raising funds for annual HIV wellness retreat. ~11~1, TULSA RACE MASSACRE CENTENNIAL COIVIIVIISSION Oklahomans for Equality encourages everyone to participate in the 2021 Tulsa Race Massacre Commission's events honoring the centennial of the Tulsa Race Massacre. There are events throughout the Spring and Summer all over the city. Join us as we reflect on the lives lost and celebrate the resilience of Greenwood. Visit the Commission Website 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 25 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Th City of Tulsa 1s committed to ere t ng r spectful nd professional work environment. I ty on 0 nt ny City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many of its labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays and sick time. 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 26 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to provide employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. (RE)MEMBERINC THE SACRED \ r.flJ INDIGIQUEER PHOTO CAMPAIG ~ W HE : June 10 -12 , 2021 WHO : Al/AN and 2SLGBTQ+ aged 14 and up WHAT : Be a part of a new photo campaign to make visible our 2SLGBTQ+ community , pride , and connectedness to our cultures ! \ \)JJlv- Register today at bit.ly/sacredindigiqueer BIO: Indigiqueer Joy in four cities this June, and Tulsa is one of them! Indigiqueer Joy is responding to calls from young 2SLGBTQ+ people, saying they don’t have images or visions of indigiqueer joy, what it means or looks like. Photographer, Evan Atwood, who is Indigenous and 2SLGBTQ+, will be in Tulsa from June 10 through 12th. Register Here 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 27 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Narq&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK MRNIL SURI The City of Devi by Manil Suri Mumbai has emptied under the threat of imminent nuclear annihilation; gangs of marauding Hindu and Muslim thugs rove the desolate streets; yet Sarita can think of only one thing: buying the last pomegranate that remains in perhaps the entire city. She is convinced that the fruit holds the key to reuniting her with her physicist husband, Karun, who has been mysteriously missing for more than a fortnight. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT MANIL SURI Manil Suri - is a native of Mumbai (formerly Bombay), has J.ived in the United States since 1979. He is a professor of mathematics at the Univer si ty of Mar land, Baltimore County. His fiction ha appeared in The ew Yorker. His novels The Death of Vishnu (2001), The Age of Shiva (2008) and The City of Devi (2013) form a trilogy based on the present. past and imagined future of India. His fiction has been translated into 27 foreign languages and has w on several honors and awards. 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 28 of 48 ... . ,__,_- https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... ~ . ------- - Post Name/Gender Mark • n • • • ~ 1s1 Wednesday of Every !r Ct~ange Workshop on , 5:30-7:00pm - Wednesday, June 2, at 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. For More Information Contact Us Tulsa Pride on the Mother Road 2021 Friday, June 25, and Saturday, June 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 29 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Get ready for Tulsa Pride 2021! We are celebrating Pride on the Mother Road this year in partnership with OKC Pride. Booths, Parade entries, and sponsorships are available in the Pride Store. Click the button below: Booths, Parade entries, and Sponsorship Opportunities Equality Gala Tickets Saturday, July 17, 2021 Cox Convention Center Grand Hall 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Tickets for the 2021 Equality Gala are now on sale. Celebrate 40 years of Oklahomans for Equality with us at the new Cox Convention Center Grand Hall in Downtown Tulsa. Click Here for Tickets and More Information 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 30 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Pride Volunteer Sign Up Form OKE 1 okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 31 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 32 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • • <::) 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 33 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... 11-Sp• AM LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA AMDOHEQ Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact PARENTS OF LOBTQ2SJA• YOUTH 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 34 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org ---- If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org -- ◄ ◄ 2021 Summer Camp Dates • ► Session 1: June 13-18 (Gluten Free) Session 2: June 20-25 (LGBTQ+) I • Session 3: June 27 - July 2 Session 4: July 4-9 ~ ► ~ ► A ~ ► ~ A ~ Camp Fire of Green Country Summer Camp 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 35 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Located near Wagoner, Oklahoma, Camp Waluhili's 219 acres include almost three miles of shoreline on Fort Gibson Lake, a bluff line, forests, and meadows. Campers and staff share semi-rustic, air-conditioned cabins with electricity and a restroom with shower houses nearby. Throughout the week, campers will learn about the outdoors, explore new activities, make new friends, and, most importantly, have fun. Camp Fire trains all camp staff members to include campers with special needs or disabilities and hires one male and one female staff member specifically for children needing an individual buddy. We believe everyone should have the opportunity to experience camp! Camp Waluhili is the ideal place for campers to learn new skills, make new friends, and discover who they are. Learn More and Register Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 36 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 37 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk ., BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISH FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 38 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 39 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 40 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams Peter Athens Philip and Miranda Kaiser Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Wes Smith Jacob and Lacey Grinnell Bison Extracts Lars Freisberg David and Randee Charney Kristoffer Barefield Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 41 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 42 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, May 13th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 43 of 48 Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Support Group for Transgender Teens 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. providing fun group activities, Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 44 of 48 sage https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. - - - - ---- Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 45 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... and community. www.okeq.org/eba Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 46 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONS01t1oav THIGIO•Glk.&IIH FAMllY•OUND4TIOtO Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 47 of 48 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla 4/28/26, 2:33 PM �OKEQ Special Membership Meeting 48 of 48 Visit Our Website https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEQ-Special-Membership-Meet... View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:33 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/79e243b4cd5a0a2ab5bb981a6f35196e.pdf 8ed6f437c6349b67302cee98861b149f PDF Text Text Join Granny and be a Winner 1 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews May 17th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Bylaw Changes and New Board Members Thursday, May 13th, the membership of OkEq voted in favor of the measure to move to a succession board. This would mean that the OkEq Board of Directors would, annually, with the advice and recommendations from our constituency, self-nominate the successor Directors to fulfill all the terms and conditions of a Director for the organization. OkEq is seeking to implement current best practices for an LGBTQ+ community organization of its size, based on feedback from national and local LGBTQ+ leadership organizations, with guidance from Oklahoma nonprofits and other local 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 2 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... leaders and fundraising organizations, and move the OkEq Board of Directors to a succession board. Please welcome our newest board members! Tery DeShong (she/her) Stephen Rundell (he/him) 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 3 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Get Your Tickets Here OKEQ Bison Extracts Cannabis as Medicine Classroom Series Friday, May 21, 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The OKEQ Bison Extracts Cannabis as Medicine Classroom Series is a FREE quarterly wellness education event brought to you by Bison Extracts, an 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 4 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... LGBTQ+ Female Oklahoman-owned and operated cannaco dedicated to creating and designing clean, safe, premium quality Full Spectrum ingestibles and topicals. Hosted by Bison Extracts Brand Educator Jessi Lane is a Certified Cannacian II with continued education through Trichome Institute. This Bison Cannabis as Medicine Classroom will consist of • Introduction to your Endocannabinoid System • Cannabis the plant- an overview of descriptive vocabulary as it pertains to retail interaction • Bison Extracts guided interactive product tour *There will be a short break and Q&A built-in, Beverages provided Get your FREE ticket Youth GAYla Pride Dance Saturday, May 22, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alphabet Soup is hosting the Youth GAYla, a dance by and for LGBTQIA+ youth in Oklahoma. Join us in the Event Center at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for an evening of dancing, drag performances, and snacks! This event is for youth 13-18 (those in Middle and High School). This is a free event! Contact Morgan to RSVP 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 5 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Equality Gala Tickets Saturday, July 17 Cox Convention Center Grand Hall 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Tickets for the 2021 Equality Gala are now on sale. Celebrate 40 years of Oklahomans for Equality with us at the new Cox Convention Center Grand Hall in Downtown Tulsa. Click Here for Tickets and More Information Have you Heard? 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 6 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Are you ready to BOUNCE, Tulsa? Big Freedia Queen Diva is headlining Tulsa Pride Friday, June 25th! Thank you for your support George Kaiser Family Foundation. #TulsaPride #PrideOnTheMotherRoad Oklahomans for Equality applauds President Biden's commitment to protecting LGBTQ persons and their families in healthcare settings. Oklahoma legislators have repeatedly tried to restrict access to healthcare for LGBTQ individuals and their families. It is refreshing to know that the current administration in the White House sees these legislative actions as discriminatory and has vowed to fight them. 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 7 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Oklahoma already suffers from inadequate health services for transgender persons, and there is an overall lack of services for LGBTQ persons in rural Oklahoma. By affirming LGBTQ person's right to healthcare services, we can work towards a future where biased health services are no longer the norm. SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. sao-e ~~~~~:~~:r c) ~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, May 18, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa has resumed meeting in person. Please see the COVID-19 Guidelines below to participate. We will be celebrating May birthdays this Tuesday, May 18th! SAGE Road Trip to Arkansas Grand Canyon 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 8 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Meet at 8:00 a.m. Friday, May 28th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join SAGE Tulsa in the OKEQ Equality van on a trip to the Arkansas Grand Canyon! You must RSVP as seating is limited. RSVP OKEQ COVID· 19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPA□ AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 5. □ KEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 9 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... f ACEBOOK LIVE WITH REV JACK BRYANT UNIT ARIAN UNIVERSALIST CHURC ~ Q_UALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: Interfaith Happy Hour Thursday, May 20, 6:00 p.m. on Facebook Live Oklahomans for Equality's new Equality Faith Alliance is excited to announce SPIRIT, a virtual happy hour-style support and social group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether your goal is to reconnect with your faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce your faith, or just connect with other people like yourself, SPIRIT is the group for you. Each Thursday, a spiritual leader from Tulsa and the surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. Our guest host this week is Rev. Jack Bryant with the Unitarian Universalist Church. Precepts C.A.R.E 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practices Click Here to RSVP on Facebook 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 10 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Crystal Meth Anonymous Every Monday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ANONYMOUS Crystal Meth Anonymous is a fellowship of people for whom all drugs, specifically crystal meth, have become a problem. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop using. There are no dues or membership lists. The fellowship that is Crystal Meth Anonymous is a new way of life without Crystal Meth. Crystal Meth Anonymous advocates a twelve-step recovery program for spiritual development, no matter our religious beliefs or background. The first step in our recovery is an admission by the addict that he or she is powerless over crystal meth and that life has become unmanageable. NEURODIVERSITY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 11 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Neurodiversity Tulsa Tuesday, May 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information ©~~© ((:(Q)~[p) £~ ((:(Q)~~((:1]' £~[Q)(Q) A GROUP FOR LGBTQ+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE Every srd Sunday of the Month 5-6:oo p.m. email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectando Sunday, June 13, 5:00 p.m In-Person Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 12 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. All sexual identities and gender expressions are welcome. We will speak in both English and Spanish. email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org - - for more information Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultura Todas las identidades y expresiones de género son bienvenidas Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para mas informacion. - - Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid QUEER CABARET GEN Q: Queer Cabaret Thursday, May 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 13 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. This Thursday, we will be hosting a Queer Cabaret featuring Alyssa Brown and her company! This is a FREE event, and there will be a cash bar! E-mail Morgan for more information! RSVP 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 14 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... LGBTQ+ Youth Art Exhibition: "Expressions of Courage" Thursday, June 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Be amazed by the talents of our local LGBTQ+ youth artists in the Expressions of Courage Art Exhibit, featuring works of art by artists 4th through 12th-grade students. The art for the exhibit was selected for this exhibit, making it one of the most anticipated shows for young artists in 2021. The Youth Art exhibit will be held in person with a virtual tour component. Visit OKEQ to celebrate the fabulous creativity of our youth! The Artist Reception is Thursday, June 3, at 6:00 p.m. with Artists and Artist Representatives at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 with Covid measures in place. The exhibit continues throughout the month. Art Gallery Website ________ ,~ ,,,.. 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 15 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Oklahomans for Equality is celebrating Asian American-Pacific Islander Heritage Month this May. In a time of heightened violence against our AAPI community, it is critical to uplift Asian voices, especially those from the LGBTQ+ community. Join us this month in highlighting LGBTQ+ Asian American-Pacific Islanders from across the nation and throughout history. AUTHO~ SPOTLIGHT K~I C~ENG T~OM 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 16 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Asian American-Pacific Islander LGBTQ+ History Highlight: Kai Cheng Thom Kai Cheng Thom is a Canadian author, poet, and speaker whose work focuses on the transgender experience, transformative justice, spiritual healing, and love. She is also a social worker, somatic coach, and consultant that aids in conflict resolution, dealing with trauma, and loving oneself. Her work has been nominated for a Lambda Literary Award and awarded the Dayne Ogilvie Prize for LGBTQ Emerging Writer. Check out her books Fierce Femmes and Notorious Liars: A Dangerous Trans Girl's Confabulous Memoir and I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes from the End of the World in the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Queer Black Voices: A Greenwood Conversation with Lincoln Cochran Join OKEQ as we continue our Queer Black Voices series with Lincoln Cochran. Lincoln Cochran is the creator of the exhibit called "Marvin Blades Faces of Greenwood Experience," now on display in Greenwood District. The exhibit includes exclusive pictures from the University of Tulsa’s McFarlin Special Collections and is open to the public on Saturdays at 100 N. Greenwood. Lincoln has an extensive background as an educator, producer, director, designer, and digital content creator. Contact Kao 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 17 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Watch the Facebook Live Click Here To Watch The Marvin Blades Sr. "FACES OF GREENWOOD Timeline Experience!" -----------1-----------1 I Sports are about ~~amwork, II II II Support rour Team II I I ~. F'\ I 11 ,, s \ 11 not compet1t1on. ~ 111 11 11 111 BELOHG NotOSe2 1II 1 _________ _ Trans youth deserve lb to be part of the team II ~"'- --------_.._ URGENT ACTION ALERT: SB2 is targeting transgender girls and women in sports. Once again, the Oklahoma Legislature is ignoring their own procedural deadlines to push anti-LGBTQ2S+ legislation. This time they’re trying to stop transgender kids from participating in sports. This bill is harmful, dangerous, and unconstitutional. We need your help to stop this bad bill now! Legislators have slipped anti-transgender language into a completely unrelated bill and are moving fast to push this discriminatory attack on children. Transgender kids play sports for the same reasons as other kids—to have fun, foster relationships, and learn skills like leadership and teamwork. Transgender kids, like all kids, want to belong. Attempting to take that from kids who are already so vulnerable is cruel. It’s up to us to protect our communities. We know you’ll work with us to do just that. Transgender people are a valuable part of our communities, and trans kids belong. Call your Senator NOW and tell them NO TO SB2. Contact Your Legislator and say No Athletes and Coaches: Add Your Name for Transgender Inclusion; No on SB 2! 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 18 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Athletes and Coaches: Add Your Name Brought to you Bi the letter B in-person meetings have resumed. Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 19 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Email Us Visit Us on Facebook VIDEO GAME NIIHT GEN Q: Video Game Night Thursday, May 27, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. For this event, we will be having a video game night! We will also have some board games. Contact the Facilitator Visit the Facebook Event 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 20 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Garon Ebersole: “An Abstract Composition of Color, Light, and Texture" Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Garon Ebersole is a local artist and native Tulsan. Growing up in Broken Arrow, he attended Union High school and graduated from the University of Tulsa with a Business Administration degree. Garon has continued to work and live in the Tulsa area. Creativity was always a strength, but Garon has only been painting for a few years. After several trips to the local paint and sips, he decided to sign up for some lessons at the Tulsa Art Center with Marie Sullivan. After several months of instruction and collaboration with Marie, Garon started experimenting with several techniques in his garage at home. He continues to paint at home but has upgraded from the garage to a studio in a converted bedroom. Garon is primarily an abstract artist, influenced by impressionism and expressionism. His art evolves as he paints. When starting a new piece, the only preparation is picking the canvas size, the paint colors, and maybe what technique he wants to use. Garon uses colors, sheen, and layering to create depth and texture. His favorite pieces happen purely by accident. Sometimes it 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 21 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... takes starting over mid-painting to get a better result, but unfortunately impossible to recreate. Garon has exhibited in the Tulsa Art Crawl and even donated pieces to local charities. One of those donations was for the 2019 Equality Gala benefiting OKEQ. As a member of the LGBTQ+ community, Garon was honored to exhibit his work at OKEQ. “I believe in the great work OKEQ does for our community, and to be able to support that by doing something I love is an honor.” Watch the Virtual Tour Below: Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE ART Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, June 8, 5:30 p.m. 2nd Tuesday of the Month Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID tb, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first-come, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 22 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone is (918)295-9429. Visit the Facebook Event Third (Second) Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, June 10, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room at OKEQ is proud to present an encore performance of THE EVOLUTION OF AFRICAN AMERICAN MUSIC. Click Here for Tickets 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 23 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... GEN Q: Third (Second) Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, June 10, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. We will attend Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room together! Wear a mask! There will be a cash bar at this event. RSVP to reserve your ticket for Gen Q members! Gen Q is an open group for LGBTQIA+ young adults 18-26ish 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 24 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Oaklake Trails Naturist Park Experience the Freedom"" PRIDE Day at Oaklake Trails Naturist Park Saturday, June 12, 10:00 a.m. Oaklake Trails Naturist Park 24601 Milfay Rd. Depew, OK 74028 Join Oaklake Trails Naturist Park as we gear up for Tulsa Pride and celebrate Pride On the Mother Road! Come and spend a day in the sun and a dip in the pool! For more information and itinerary follow: Click Here to Follow the Event In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Renee Anthony July 25, 1944 - March 31, 2021 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 25 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Donnie Suggs Passed March 31, 2021 Tracy Allen July 8, 1965 - March 22, 2021 Grateful Day's GRILL & CHILL [ hamburgers & hotdogs with all the fixings) 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 26 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Grateful Day Foundation Fundraiser Grill & Chill Saturday, May 22, 6:00p.m Tulsa Eagle 1338 E. 3rd St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Food will be $8 a plate. This event will be raising funds for the annual HIV wellness retreat. ~11~1, TULSA RACE MASSACRE CENTENNIAL COIVIIVIISSION Oklahomans for Equality encourages everyone to participate in the 2021 Tulsa Race Massacre Commission's events honoring the centennial of the Tulsa Race Massacre. There are events throughout the Spring and Summer all over the city. Join us as we reflect on the lives lost and celebrate the resilience of Greenwood. Visit the Commission Website 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 27 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... The City of ulsa is committed to creat ng respectful nd professional work environment. Se al orien a on gender d n ty and g nd re p ssion ar pro c d. D cnmination, h r m nt nd t It t on in ny City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 28 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. (RE)MEMBERINC THE SACRED \ r.fll INDIGIQUEER PHOTO CAMPAIG ~ W HE : June 10 -12, 2021 WHO : Al/AN and 2SLCBTQ+ aged 14 and up WHAT : Be a part of a new photo campaign to make visible our 2SLCBTQ+ community , pride . and connectedness to our cultures ! \ \)JJlv- Register today at bit.ly/sacredindigiqueer 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 29 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... BIO: Indigiqueer Joy in four cities this June, and Tulsa is one of them! Indigiqueer Joy is responding to calls from young 2SLGBTQ+ people, saying they don’t have images or visions of indigiqueer joy, what it means or looks like. Photographer, Evan Atwood, who is Indigenous and 2SLGBTQ+, will be in Tulsa from June 10 through 12th. Register Here Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK MRNIL SURI The City of Devi by Manil Suri Mumbai has emptied under the threat of imminent nuclear annihilation; gangs of marauding Hindu and Muslim thugs rove the desolate streets; yet Sarita can think of only one thing: buying the last pomegranate that remains in perhaps the entire city. She is convinced that the fruit holds the key to reuniting her with her physicist husband, Karun, who has been mysteriously missing for more than a fortnight. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Manil Suri - is a native of Mumbai (formerly Bombay), has lived in the United States since 1979. He is a professor of mathematics at the Univer si ty of Mary land, Baltimore County. His fiction has appeared in The ew Yorker. His novels The Death of Vishnu (2001), The Age of Shiva (2008) 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 30 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... MANIL SURI and The City of Devi (2013) form a trilogy based on the present, past and imagined future of India. His fiction has been translated into 27 foreign languages and has won several honors and awards. Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Wednesday, June 2, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. For More Information Contact Us 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 31 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Tulsa Threat vs. Iowa Phoenix Saturday, June 19, 7:00p.m. Catoosa High School 2000 S. Cherokee St. Catoosa, OK 74015 Your copy should address 3 key questions: Who am I writing for? (Audience) Why should they care? (Benefit) What do I want them to do here? (Call-to-Action) Create a great offer by adding words like "free" "personalized" "complimentary" or "customized." A sense of urgency often helps readers take an action, so think about inserting phrases like "for a limited time only" or "only 7 remaining!" View Event of Facebook Tulsa Pride on the Mother Road 2021 Friday, June 25, and Saturday, June 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 32 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Get ready for Tulsa Pride 2021! We are celebrating Pride on the Mother Road this year in partnership with OKC Pride. Booths, Parade entries, and sponsorships are available in the Pride Store. Click the button below: Booths, Parade entries, and Sponsorship Opportunities Pride Volunteer Sign Up Form 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 33 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... OKE , okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 0 FREE PRONOUN PINS 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 34 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. 0 ALPHABET SOUP KIDS ~ SATURDAY AFTERNOON 3·4PM ~ • • ·o \\ • • ~ • • <::) ---- •~ • <::) 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 35 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. AM LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA AMDOKEQ Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 36 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 37 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Camp Fire of Green Country Summer Camp Located near Wagoner, Oklahoma, Camp Waluhili's 219 acres include almost three miles of shoreline on Fort Gibson Lake, a bluff line, forests, and meadows. Campers and staff share semi-rustic, air-conditioned cabins with electricity and a restroom with shower houses nearby. Throughout the week, campers will learn about the outdoors, explore new activities, make new friends, and, most importantly, have fun. Camp Fire trains all camp staff members to include campers with special needs or disabilities and hires one male and one female staff member specifically for children needing an individual buddy. We believe everyone should have the opportunity to experience camp! Camp Waluhili is the ideal place for campers to learn new skills, make new friends, and discover who they are. 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 38 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Learn More and Register Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 39 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 40 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk ., BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISH FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 41 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 42 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 43 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams Peter Athens Philip and Miranda Kaiser Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Wes Smith Jacob and Lacey Grinnell Bison Extracts Lars Freisberg David and Randee Charney Kristoffer Barefield Ascension St. John Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 44 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 45 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - Virtual Thursday, June 10th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 46 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- --- Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. sage We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- --- Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 47 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------ -- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 48 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC Sl>ONSOREDIY THEGIOIIGIKAISEII 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 49 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President 4/28/26, 2:34 PM �Join Granny and be a Winner 50 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Granny-and-be-a-Winner.htm... Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:34 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f224702d98e43c3b20dc26d561cca2a2.pdf c6cfc12dba78dccd8e1420ac3260f187 PDF Text Text 1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 1 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews May 24th, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! -••••rm 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 2 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... -~i1y~r TULSA RACE1Hll MASSACRE CENTENNIAL COMMISSION The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be closed from Saturday, May 29th through Tuesday, June 1st, out of respect for the Race Massacre Centennial events around Tulsa. We encourage all of our constituents to participate in the events taking place across the city to acknowledge and remember the Tulsa Race Massacre of 1921. I TULSA RACE MASSACRE CENTENNIAL COMMISSION Oklahomans for Equality encourages everyone to participate in the 2021 Tulsa Race Massacre Commission's events honoring the centennial of the Tulsa Race 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 3 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Massacre. There are events throughout the Spring and Summer all over the city. Join us as we reflect on the lives lost and celebrate the resilience of Greenwood. Visit the Commission Website WORLD STAGE THEATRE COMPANY PRESENTS N D WITH TIM REID lilM RElli> WILi!. ~ISOWSS TrlilE IMPACll' .ANB lif.lE 1!:EGACY' OF lif.lE Rt.-CE M~SS~CRE ON 1111S WORK .ANll> SO MWOl!I MOREi 14, 21211 VIP RECEPTION 5:30-6:30 PM MAIN EVENT 7:00-9:00 PM 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 4 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... OK1L~fUlM~N5 FO'R ~Ulrl~LlliY tY.NN AIG~GS TNE1Ai'fAE lil~ IC.lEl'liS AVAILABLE AT W,WN;'l;Q ~ WORLll>SiJlAGE~8RG Behind the Curtain with Tim Reid Friday, June 4, 5:30 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 In partnership with the 1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Commission and Oklahoman’s for Equality, World Stage Theatre Company will feature Tim Reid in their inaugural “Behind The Curtain” event, June 4 2021. We will have a rare opportunity to have an in-depth conversation with Tim about his relationship with Tulsa’s Black Wall Street, the entertainment industry as a whole, his encounters with race and racism, his desire to establish an on-ramp for future filmmakers and his unwavering love of telling the stories of the history and impact of African American’s worldwide. This is a masterclass for those who are interested in the industry and an informative and entertaining evening of storytelling for the general audience. Additionally, we will feature California poet, Artist JoeMac and a sneak peek into the play, “A Song of Greenwood” based on the story of Race Massacre Survivor, AJ Smitherman, along with a special Q&A with his descendant and playwrights. Click Here for Tickets 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 5 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Equality Gala Tickets Saturday, July 17 Cox Convention Center Grand Hall 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Tickets for the 2021 Equality Gala are now on sale. Celebrate 40 years of Oklahomans for Equality with us at the new Cox Convention Center Grand Hall in Downtown Tulsa. Click Here for Tickets and More Information Have You Heard? Kao Morris a Watch on Crystal Methyd is headlining Tulsa Pride 2021 Saturday, June 26th! Thank you to the George Kaiser Family Foundation for your support! #PrideOnTheMotherRoad 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 6 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Are you ready to BOUNCE, Tulsa? Big Freedia Queen Diva is headlining Tulsa Pride Friday, June 25th! Thank you for your support George Kaiser Family Foundation. #TulsaPride #PrideOnTheMotherRoad SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. sao-e ;~~~~:~~o~ ~-, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, May 25, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 7 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... SAGE Tulsa has resumed meeting in person. Please see the COVID-19 Guidelines below to participate. SAGE Road Trip to Arkansas Grand Canyon Meet at 8:00 a.m. Friday, May 28th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join SAGE Tulsa in the OKEQ Equality van on a trip to the Arkansas Grand Canyon! You must RSVP as seating is limited. RSVP 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 8 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Tuesday, June 22, 10:00 a.m. RSVP for the address Members should meet on Tuesday, June 22, at 9:30 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you would like to attend, please email krissy.dudley@okeq.org to RSVP. RSVP 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 9 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Crystal Meth Anonymous Every Monday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ANONYMOUS Crystal Meth Anonymous is a fellowship of people for whom all drugs, specifically crystal meth, have become a problem. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop using. There are no dues or membership lists. The fellowship that is Crystal Meth Anonymous is a new way of life without Crystal Meth. Crystal Meth Anonymous advocates a twelve-step recovery program for spiritual development, no matter our religious beliefs or background. The first step in our recovery is an admission by the addict that he or she is powerless over crystal meth and that life has become unmanageable. NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 10 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Neurodiversity Tulsa Tuesday, June 15, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information VIDEO BAME NIIHT GEN Q: Video Game Night Thursday, May 27, 7:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 11 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. For this event, we will be having a video game night! We will also have some board games. Contact the Facilitator Visit the Facebook Event 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 12 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Sat, May 29, 5pm Alphabet Soup Bowling Night Saturday, May 29, 5:00 p.m. Andy B's Bowling 8711 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74137 Alphabet Soup will meet at Andy B's Bowling on Saturday, May 29, instead of the regular meeting place! Bowling is free, but RSVP with Shannon Fair. RSVP 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 13 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... NOW WH Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, June 2, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. For More Information Contact Us 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 14 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... LGBTQ+ Youth Art Exhibition: "Expressions of Courage" Thursday, June 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Be amazed by the talents of our local LGBTQ+ youth artists in the Expressions of Courage Art Exhibit, featuring works of art by artists 4th through 12th-grade students. The art for the exhibit was selected for this exhibit, making it one of the most anticipated shows for young artists in 2021. The Youth Art exhibit will be held in person with a virtual tour component. Visit OKEQ to celebrate the fabulous creativity of our youth! The Artist Reception is Thursday, June 3, at 6:00 p.m. with Artists and Artist Representatives at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 with Covid measures in place. The exhibit continues throughout the month. Art Gallery Website 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 15 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Oklahomans for Equality is celebrating Asian American-Pacific Islander Heritage Month this May. In a time of heightened violence against our AAPI community, it is critical to uplift Asian voices, especially those from the LGBTQ+ community. Join us this month in highlighting LGBTQ+ Asian American-Pacific Islanders from across the nation and throughout history. 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 16 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... KITTY TSUI Asian American-Pacific Islander LGBTQ+ History Highlight: Kitty Tsui Kitty Tsui is a Chinese-American author, poet, actor, and bodybuilder. Her 1983 groundbreaking “Words Of A Woman Who Breathes Fire” was the first book by a Chinese American lesbian. After coming out in 1973 and being rejected by her family, Tsui became an instrumental figure in the birth of the Asian Pacific Islander lesbian movement in San Francisco. She is an original member of the first Asian women’s group and a member of Asian Pacific Sisters, the editor of Phoenix Rising and New Phoenix Rising. She was co-founder of the first Asian American women’s performance group, Unbound Feet. An accomplished bodybuilder, Tsui won the gold medal at Gay Games III and the bronze medal at Gay Games II in women’s physique. She was co-president of Arcadia Bodybuilding Society (ABS) and co-producer/co-director of Physique ’87, the first gay and lesbian bodybuilding championship. 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 17 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Queer Black Voices: A Greenwood Conversation with Lincoln Cochran Join OKEQ as we continue our Queer Black Voices series with Lincoln Cochran. Lincoln Cochran is the creator of the exhibit called "Marvin Blades Faces of Greenwood Experience," now on display in Greenwood District. The exhibit includes exclusive pictures from the University of Tulsa’s McFarlin Special Collections and is open to the public on Saturdays at 100 N. Greenwood. Lincoln has an extensive background as an educator, producer, director, designer, and digital content creator. Contact Kao Watch the Facebook Live Click Here To Watch The Marvin Blades Sr. "FACES OF GREENWOOD Timeline Experience!" -----------1-----------1 II I are about ~~amwork, II Sportsnot compet1t1on. II II Support rour Team I 111 I 11 11 ~ ~. r'\ 111 ,, s \ 11 I BELOHG NotOSe2 1II 1 _________ _ Trans youth deserve l_ . . _to be part of the team 11 b II ~"'- --------- URGENT ACTION ALERT: SB2 is targeting transgender girls and women in sports. Once again, the Oklahoma Legislature is ignoring its own procedural deadlines to push anti-LGBTQ2S+ legislation. This time they’re trying to stop transgender kids from participating in sports. This bill is harmful, dangerous, and unconstitutional. We need your help to stop this bad bill now! Legislators have slipped anti-transgender language 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 18 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... into a completely unrelated bill and are moving fast to push this discriminatory attack on children. Transgender kids play sports for the same reasons as other kids—to have fun, foster relationships, and learn skills like leadership and teamwork. Transgender kids, like all kids, want to belong. Attempting to take that from kids who are already so vulnerable is cruel. It’s up to us to protect our communities. We know you’ll work with us to do just that. Transgender people are a valuable part of our communities, and trans kids belong. Call your Senator NOW and tell them NO TO SB2. Contact Your Legislator and say No Athletes and Coaches: Add Your Name for Transgender Inclusion; No on SB 2! Athletes and Coaches: Add Your Name Brought to you Bi the letter B in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 19 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, June 8, 5:30 p.m. 2nd Tuesday of the Month Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID t ~ SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first-come, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone ----is (918) 295-9429. 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 20 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Visit the Facebook Event In Her Honor presents LGBTQ + Ruth Tuesday, June 8 @ 7 pm LGBTQ + Ruth featuring women+ of Oklahomans for Equality! Tuesday, June 8, 7:00 p.m. Online Event In Her Honor presents LGBTQ + Ruth featuring women+ of Oklahomans for Equality! Join us for inspirations of RBG and the LGBTQ community and learn about the intersectional and inclusive work of OKEQ. In Her Honor is a series of events celebrating Ruth Bader Ginsburg's contributions to women’s rights. The monthly presentations by notable women from our community and beyond celebrate and inform us of the progress women have made toward equality, equity, and justice. All are welcome to attend, regardless of gender identity. The Women of All Souls looks forward to engaging programs and conversations. All who identify as women are welcome to join Women of All Souls on the first, third, and fourth Tuesdays of the month at 7 pm! Register below to access the link. Click Here to Register 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 21 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Third (Second) Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, June 10, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room at OKEQ is proud to present an encore performance of THE EVOLUTION OF AFRICAN AMERICAN MUSIC. Click Here for Tickets 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 22 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... GEN Q: Third (Second) Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, June 10, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. We will attend Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room together! Wear a mask! There will be a cash bar at this event. Gen Q is an open group for LGBTQIA+ young adults 18-26ish. You must RSVP to reserve your ticket for Gen Q members! RSVP Here j i" ist Park Experience the Freedom"' PRIDE Day at Oaklake Trails Naturist Park Saturday, June 12, 10:00 a.m. Oaklake Trails Naturist Park 24601 Milfay Rd. Depew, OK 74028 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 23 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Join Oaklake Trails Naturist Park as we gear up for Tulsa Pride and celebrate Pride On the Mother Road! Come and spend a day in the sun and a dip in the pool! For more information and itinerary follow: Click Here to Follow the Event ©~~© t©~[p) £~ t©~~t1r£~[Q)© A GROUP FOR LGBTQ+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE Every 3rd Sunday of the Month 5-6:00 p.m. email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectando Sunday, June 13, 5:00 p.m In-Person Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. All sexual identities and gender expressions are welcome. We will speak in both English and Spanish. 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 24 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for more information Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultura Todas las identidades y expresiones de género son bienvenidas Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para mas informacion. Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid Garon Ebersole: “An Abstract Composition of Color, Light, and Texture" Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 25 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Garon Ebersole is a local artist and native Tulsan. Growing up in Broken Arrow, he attended Union High school and graduated from the University of Tulsa with a Business Administration degree. Garon has continued to work and live in the Tulsa area. Creativity was always a strength, but Garon has only been painting for a few years. After several trips to the local paint and sips, he decided to sign up for some lessons at the Tulsa Art Center with Marie Sullivan. After several months of instruction and collaboration with Marie, Garon started experimenting with several techniques in his garage at home. He continues to paint at home but has upgraded from the garage to a studio in a converted bedroom. Garon is primarily an abstract artist, influenced by impressionism and expressionism. His art evolves as he paints. When starting a new piece, the only preparation is picking the canvas size, the paint colors, and maybe what technique he wants to use. Garon uses colors, sheen, and layering to create depth and texture. His favorite pieces happen purely by accident. Sometimes it takes starting over mid-painting to get a better result, but unfortunately impossible to recreate. Garon has exhibited in the Tulsa Art Crawl and even donated pieces to local charities. One of those donations was for the 2019 Equality Gala benefiting OKEQ. As a member of the LGBTQ+ community, Garon was honored to exhibit his work at OKEQ. “I believe in the great work OKEQ does for our community, and to be able to support that by doing something I love is an honor.” Watch the Virtual Tour Below: Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE ART 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 26 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... TIILSA PRIDE ON YOIIR STREET #TULSAPRIDE2021 #PRIIDEONTHEMOTHERROAD TULSA PRIDE ON YOUR STREET RETURNS In addition to Tulsa Pride 2021 taking place downtown on June 25-27, OKEQ is excited to announce the return of the Tulsa Pride on Your Street house decorating competition! Tulsa Pride Inside is where Pride Street comes to YOUR street. Join us by decorating your house, apartment, yard, car, or business with PRIDE with a chance to win a gift basket from our fabulous Equality Business Alliance Members. Tulsa Pride Queen Kitty Marie Legacy and King Blaze Khrystian will be our judges alongside Tulsa Pride Emeritus Scrappy Legacy and Anita Richards. Winners will be announced at Tulsa Pride 2021 on June 26! Register Here 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 27 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Tulsa Pride on the Mother Road 2021 Friday, June 25, and Saturday, June 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Get ready for Tulsa Pride 2021! We are celebrating Pride on the Mother Road this year in partnership with OKC Pride. Booths, Parade entries, and sponsorships are available in the Pride Store. Click the button below: Booths, Parade entries, and Sponsorship Opportunities 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 28 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Pride Volunteer Sign Up Form Th City of Tul a is committed to ere t ng r pectful nd professional env ronment. l on t on ro 10n, ion in ny d 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 29 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. (RE)MEMBERING THE SACRED 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 30 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... \ c.fiJ INDIGIQUEER PHOTO CAMPAIG ~ W HE · June 10 -12, 2021 WHO : Al/AN and 2SLGBTQ + aged 14 and up WHAT : Be a part of a new photo campaign to make visible our 2SLGBTQ + community , pride , and connectedness to our cultures ! \ \)JJlv- Register today at bit. ly/sacredind igiqueer BIO: Indigiqueer Joy in four cities this June, and Tulsa is one of them! Indigiqueer Joy is responding to calls from young 2SLGBTQ+ people, saying they don’t have images or visions of indigiqueer joy, what it means or looks like. Photographer, Evan Atwood, who is Indigenous and 2SLGBTQ+, will be in Tulsa from June 10 through 12th. Register Here Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Felix Ever After Felix Love has never been in love- and, yes, he's painfully aware of the irony. He desperately w ants to know w hat it's like and w hy it seems so easy for everyone but him to find someone. What's worse is that, even though he is proud of his identity, Felix also secretly fears that he's one marginalization too many - A.l <:> rv r nu:,or <:> nrl t r <:> n c oonrlor- to o u o r oot hi e ou.r n 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 31 of 50 Ll.au .... n , '1. U '--'-- .a, u.a.a'-..& ...... u.a.a.;,5 .... .a.a,..... .... .a https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... l.V '--" .... .a 5'-- '- J..aJ..;J v "" J.J. happily-ever-after. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Kacen Callender-Born and raised in St. Thomas of the us Virgin Islands, they are a bestselling and award-winning author of the middle-grade novels Hurricane Child and King and the Dragonflies, the young-adult novels This Is Kind of an Epic Love Story and Felix Ever After, and the adult novel Queen of the Conquered and its forthcoming sequel King of the Rising. KACEN (ALLENDER Tulsa Threat vs. Iowa Phoenix Saturday, June 19, 7:00p.m. Catoosa High School 2000 S. Cherokee St. Catoosa, OK 74015 View Event of Facebook 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 32 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... I• Hosted by Bison Extracts 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 33 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... OKE 1 okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 34 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. 0 ... :,,. ALPHABET SOUP KIDS Z SATURDAY AFTERNOON 3·4PM ~ • • ·o \\ • • ~ • • <::) - -==- • <::) 0 • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 35 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. AM LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA AMDOKEQ Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 36 of 50 Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 37 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Camp Fire of Green Country Summer Camp Located near Wagoner, Oklahoma, Camp Waluhili's 219 acres include almost three miles of shoreline on Fort Gibson Lake, a bluff line, forests, and meadows. Campers and staff share semi-rustic, air-conditioned cabins with electricity and a restroom with shower houses nearby. Throughout the week, campers will learn about the outdoors, explore new activities, make new friends, and, most importantly, have fun. Camp Fire trains all camp staff members to include campers with special needs or disabilities and hires one male and one female staff member specifically for children needing an individual buddy. We believe everyone should have the opportunity to experience camp! Camp Waluhili is the ideal place for campers to learn new skills, make new friends, and discover who they are. Learn More and Register 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 38 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 39 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 40 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPON5011ED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 41 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 42 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams Peter Athens Philip and Miranda Kaiser 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 43 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Wes Smith Jacob and Lacey Grinnell Bison Extracts Lars Freisberg David and Randee Charney Kristoffer Barefield Ascension St. John Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 44 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 45 of 50 Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Virtual Thursday, June 10th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikley- The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 46 of 50 freeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- · -- https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. sage We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --· - - Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 47 of 50 Facilitated by John Madigan https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education , Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ----- -- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 48 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC Sl>ONSOREDIY THEGIOIIGIKAISEII 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 49 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Advisors Amairani Perez 4/28/26, 2:35 PM �1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Centennial Remember and Rise 50 of 50 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/1921-Tulsa-Race-Massacre-Cente... Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong Shannon Gordon Fair Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Stephen Rundell Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:35 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a87b39ec99ad7673d783310bba63f18d.pdf 39ecd08c1875317038885b0e2ce49c4d PDF Text Text Remember and Rise 1 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews May 31st, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! -••••rm 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 2 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... -~i1y~r TULSA RACE1Hll MASSACRE CENTENNIAL COMMISSION The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be closed from Saturday, May 29th through Tuesday, June 1st, out of respect for the Race Massacre Centennial events around Tulsa. We encourage all of our constituents to participate in the events taking place across the city to acknowledge and remember the Tulsa Race Massacre of 1921. I TULSA RACE MASSACRE CENTENNIAL COMMISSION Oklahomans for Equality encourages everyone to participate in the 2021 Tulsa Race Massacre Commission's events honoring the centennial of the Tulsa Race 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 3 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Massacre. There are events throughout the Spring and Summer all over the city. Join us as we reflect on the lives lost and celebrate the resilience of Greenwood. Visit the Commission Website AN INTERSECTIONAL PRIDE SERIES SPONSORED BY : --- [INCLUSION IN ART] (UNIQUE REGISTER: BIT.LY/NYTAGTULSA100 Intersectional Pride Series 2021: Healing with Pride Thursday, June 3, 12:00 p.m. Living Arts of Tulsa 307 E. Reconciliation Way Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Staff Members, Kao Morris (he/him), Donovid Sekulits (he/him), Shay Brewer 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 4 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... (he/him), and Board Advisor, Dani Byrd (she/hers), as they participate in New York Transgender Advocacy Group's Healing with Pride Panel on June 3rd! This discussion is about racial healing within the LGBTQIA+ community in Tulsa. A virtual panel co-presented with Oklahomans for Equality moderated by healing justice facilitator and LGBTQ+ ally, Quraysh Ali Lansana (he/him), featuring licensed therapist and co-chair of the Central Oklahoma Two-Spirit Society, Kelley Blair (They/Them/Their), and other Oklahoma-based LGBTQIA2S+ leaders discussing the ways the LGBTQIA2S+ community finds healing and resilience within our community. Therapy Sessions / Healing Circles from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. WORLD STAGE THEATRE COMPANY PRESENTS N D WITH TIM REID lilM RElli> WILL ~ISOWSS il1ME IMPACll" ANB 1if.lE l!.EG'ACY' OF lif.lE RtACE M~SS~CRE ON 1:11S WORK AND SO MWOl!I MOREi 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 5 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... VIP RECEPTION 5:30-6:30 PM MAIN EVENT 7:00-9:00 PM O~lAHDM~NS FOR EDU~UmY f.-YNN RIG~GS ThlE1AiTRE lileKlEiliS AV.AII.ABIJE AT W,V/,W.Q~WORl:ll>SiFA'.GE.8RG Behind the Curtain with Tim Reid Friday, June 4, 5:30 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 In partnership with the 1921 Tulsa Race Massacre Commission and Oklahomans for Equality, World Stage Theatre Company will feature Tim Reid in their inaugural “Behind The Curtain” event on June 4, 2021. We will have a rare opportunity to have an in-depth conversation with Tim about his relationship with Tulsa’s Black Wall Street, the entertainment industry as a whole, his encounters with race and racism, his desire to establish an on-ramp for future filmmakers, and his unwavering love of telling the stories of the history and impact of African Americans worldwide. This is a masterclass for those who are interested in the industry and an informative and entertaining evening of storytelling for the general audience. Additionally, we will feature California poet, Artist JoeMac, and a sneak peek into the play, “A Song of Greenwood” based on the story of Race Massacre Survivor, AJ Smitherman, along with a special Q&A with his descendant and playwrights. Click Here for Tickets 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 6 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... LGBTQ+ Youth Art Exhibition: "Expressions of Courage" Thursday, June 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Be amazed by the talents of our local LGBTQ+ youth artists in the Expressions of Courage Art Exhibit, featuring works of art from 4th through 12th-grade students. The art was selected for this exhibit, making it one of the most anticipated shows for young artists in 2021. The Youth Art exhibit will be held in person with a virtual tour component. Visit OKEQ to celebrate the fabulous creativity of our youth! The Artist Reception is Thursday, June 3, at 6:00 p.m. with Artists and Artist Representatives at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120 with Covid measures in place. The exhibit continues throughout the month. Art Gallery Website 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 7 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Third (Second) Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, June 10, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room at OKEQ is proud to present an encore performance of THE EVOLUTION OF AFRICAN AMERICAN MUSIC with Kia Hightower, Nash McQuarters, and Jen Thomas! Click Here for Tickets 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 8 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Equality Gala Tickets Saturday, July 17 Cox Convention Center Grand Hall 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Tickets for the 2021 Equality Gala are now on sale. Celebrate 40 years of Oklahomans for Equality with us at the new Cox Convention Center Grand Hall in Downtown Tulsa. Click Here for Tickets and More Information Have You Heard? Kao Morris a Watch on Crystal Methyd is headlining Tulsa Pride 2021 Saturday, June 26th! Thank you to the George Kaiser Family Foundation for your support! #PrideOnTheMotherRoad 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 9 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Are you ready to BOUNCE, Tulsa? Big Freedia Queen Diva is headlining Tulsa Pride Friday, June 25th! Thank you for your support George Kaiser Family Foundation. #TulsaPride #PrideOnTheMotherRoad Mark your Calendar for Friday, June 4th! We’re about to enter our second #PrideMonth in the global pandemic. There’s no doubt #COVID19 has significantly impacted our #LGBTQ family, but @proctergamble and @iheartmedia are making sure nothing cancels the spirit of the LGBTQ+ movement with their second annual #CantCancelPride. The virtual benefit will raise support and visibility for the LGBTQ+ community with special guests and performances. Proud to join in once again this year. #CantCancelPride #LeadWithLove #CenterLink 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 10 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Click Here to Learn More SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, June 8, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE will not meet on Tuesday, June 1. We will meet again on Tuesday, June 8 at the regularly scheduled time. SAGE Tulsa has resumed meeting in person. Please see the COVID-19 Guidelines below to participate. 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 11 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Party Tuesday, June 22, 10:00 a.m. RSVP for the address Members should meet on Tuesday, June 22, at 9:30 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has a railing with steps to help people into the pool. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you would like to attend, please email krissy.dudley@okeq.org to RSVP. RSVP OKEQ COVID· 19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPA□ AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 12 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... 5. OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, June 2, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. For More Information Contact Us Crystal Meth Anonymous Every Monday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ANONYMOUS 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 13 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Crystal Meth Anonymous is a fellowship of people for whom all drugs, specifically crystal meth, have become a problem. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop using. There are no dues or membership lists. The fellowship that is Crystal Meth Anonymous is a new way of life without Crystal Meth. Crystal Meth Anonymous advocates a twelve-step recovery program for spiritual development, no matter our religious beliefs or background. The first step in our recovery is an admission by the addict that he or she is powerless over crystal meth and that life has become unmanageable. Queer Black Voices: A Greenwood Conversation with Lincoln Cochran Join OKEQ as we continue our Queer Black Voices series with Lincoln Cochran. Lincoln Cochran is the creator of the exhibit called "Marvin Blades Faces of Greenwood Experience," now on display in Greenwood District. The exhibit includes exclusive pictures from the University of Tulsa’s McFarlin Special Collections and is open to the public on Saturdays at 100 N. Greenwood. Lincoln has an extensive background as an educator, producer, director, designer, and digital content creator. Contact Kao Watch the Facebook Live 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 14 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Click Here To Watch The Marvin Blades Sr. "FACES OF GREENWOOD Timeline Experience!" • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, June 8, 5:30 p.m. 2nd Tuesday of the Month Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID SERVICES OF t~ = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first-come, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone ----is (918) 295-9429. Visit the Facebook Event In Her Honor presents LGBTQ + Ruth Tuesday, June 8 @7 pm :,_ 6 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 15 of 44 ~ - https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... LGBTQ + Ruth featuring women+ of Oklahomans for Equality! Tuesday, June 8, 7:00 p.m. Online Event In Her Honor presents LGBTQ + Ruth featuring women+ of Oklahomans for Equality! Join us for inspirations of RBG and the LGBTQ community and learn about the intersectional and inclusive work of OKEQ. In Her Honor is a series of events celebrating Ruth Bader Ginsburg's contributions to women’s rights. The monthly presentations by notable women from our community and beyond celebrate and inform us of the progress women have made toward equality, equity, and justice. All are welcome to attend, regardless of gender identity. The Women of All Souls looks forward to engaging programs and conversations. All who identify as women are welcome to join Women of All Souls on the first, third, and fourth Tuesdays of the month at 7 pm! Register below to access the link. Click Here to Register I I I I I I I GEN Q: Third (Second) Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, June 10, 8:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 16 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. We will attend Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room together! Wear a mask! There will be a cash bar at this event. Gen Q is an open group for LGBTQIA+ young adults 18-26ish. You must RSVP to reserve your ticket for Gen Q members! RSVP Here PRIDE KLA Experience the Freedom"" PRIDE Day at Oaklake Trails Naturist Park Saturday, June 12, 10:00 a.m. Oaklake Trails Naturist Park 24601 Milfay Rd. Depew, OK 74028 Join Oaklake Trails Naturist Park as we gear up for Tulsa Pride and celebrate Pride On the Mother Road! Come and spend a day in the sun and a dip in the pool! For more information and itinerary follow: 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 17 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Click Here to Follow the Event ©~~© ((;(Q)~[p) &~ ((;(Q)~~ttf £~[Q)(Q) A GROUP fOR LGBTQ+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE Every srd Sunday of the Month 5-6:oo p.m. email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectando Sunday, June 13, 5:00 p.m In-Person Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. All sexual identities and gender expressions are welcome. We will speak in both English and Spanish. email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for more information Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultura Todas las identidades y expresiones de género son bienvenidas 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 18 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org - - - - para mas informacion. Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Neurodiversity Tulsa Tuesday, June 15, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 19 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information Brought to you Bi the letter B in-person meetings have resumed. Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 20 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us ' TIILSA PRIDE ON YOIIR STREET #TU LSAPR I DE2021 #PRIIDEONTHEMOTHERROAD TULSA PRIDE ON YOUR STREET RETURNS In addition to Tulsa Pride 2021 taking place downtown on June 25-27, OKEQ is excited to announce the return of the Tulsa Pride on Your Street house decorating competition! Tulsa Pride Inside is where Pride Street comes to YOUR street. Join us by decorating your house, apartment, yard, car, or business with PRIDE with a chance to win a gift basket from our fabulous Equality Business Alliance Members. Tulsa Pride Queen Kitty Marie Legacy and King Blaze Khrystian will be our judges alongside Tulsa Pride Emeritus Scrappy Legacy and Anita Richards. Winners will be announced at Tulsa Pride 2021 on June 26! 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 21 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Register Here Tulsa Pride on the Mother Road 2021 Friday, June 25, and Saturday, June 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Get ready for Tulsa Pride 2021! We are celebrating Pride on the Mother Road this year in partnership with OKC Pride. Booths, Parade entries, and sponsorships are available in the Pride Store. Click the button below: Booths, Parade entries, and Sponsorship Opportunities 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 22 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Pride Volunteer Sign Up Form 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 23 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Th City of Tulsa 1s comm,tt d to ere t ng re p ctful nd professional work environment. I t on 0 m 111 I in n . City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 24 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. (RE)MEMBERINC THE SACRED \ r.flJ INDIGIQUEER PHOTO CAMPAIG ~ W HE : June 10 -12 , 2021 WHO : Al/AN and 2SLGBTQ+ aged 14 and up WHAT : Be a part of a new photo campaign to make visible our 2SLGBTQ+ community , pride , and connectedness to our cultures ! \ \)JJlv- Register today at bit.ly/sacredindigiqueer BIO: Indigiqueer Joy in four cities this June, and Tulsa is one of them! Indigiqueer Joy is responding to calls from young 2SLGBTQ+ people, saying they don’t have images or visions of indigiqueer joy, what it means or looks like. Photographer Evan Atwood, who is Indigenous and 2SLGBTQ+, will be in Tulsa from June 10 through 12th. Register Here Ma!:_ICY &Joe 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 25 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... ..........na Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Tales of the City by Armistead Maupin The story happens in San Francisco in 1976, as a yow1g woman named Mary Ann Singleton, looking for a modification in her life, moves to the city and lives at 28 Barbary Lane. There, she ends up interweaved with her neighbors and their perplexing lives. By investigating the culture of 1970s San Francisco, especially the developing gay culture as well as underground developments, the book researches topics of sexual and enthusiastic freedom, homophobia, counterculture movements, and being a family. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT ARMISTEAD MAUPIN Armistead Maupin- is the author of the nine-volume Tales of the City series, which includes Tales of the City, More Tales of the City, Further Tales of the City, Babycakes, Significant Others, Sure of You, Michael Tolliver Lives, Mary Ann in Autumn, and now The Days of Anna ladrigal. Maupin's other novels include Maybe the Moon and The ight Listener. laupin was the 2012 recipient of the Lambda Literary Foundation's Pioneer Award.Arts 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 26 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... , , i~ I ~ XENIT \ ' A - (j • . KT \ Tulsa Threat vs. Iowa Phoenix Saturday, June 19, 7:00p.m. Catoosa High School 2000 S. Cherokee St. Catoosa, OK 74015 View Event of Facebook 2021OKEQ I• Hosted by Bison Extracts 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 27 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... OKE 1 okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 28 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Click here to Support Monthly FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • ALPHABET SOUP KIDS Z SATURDAY AFTERNOON 3·4PM • 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 29 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... ~ ~ • • • ~ 0 • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. AM LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 30 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... AMDOKEQ Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 31 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Camp Fire of Green Country Summer Camp Located near Wagoner, Oklahoma, Camp Waluhili's 219 acres include almost 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 32 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... three miles of shoreline on Fort Gibson Lake, a bluff line, forests, and meadows. Campers and staff share semi-rustic, air-conditioned cabins with electricity and a restroom with shower houses nearby. Throughout the week, campers will learn about the outdoors, explore new activities, make new friends, and, most importantly, have fun. Camp Fire trains all camp staff members to include campers with special needs or disabilities and hires one male and one female staff member specifically for children needing an individual buddy. We believe everyone should have the opportunity to experience camp! Camp Waluhili is the ideal place for campers to learn new skills, make new friends, and discover who they are. Learn More and Register Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 33 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 34 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk ., BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISH FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 35 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors George Kaiser Family Foundation Flint Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Boomtown Tees 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 36 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Danny Thomason GOOGLE College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 37 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Jacob and Lacey Grinnell George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma James Monroe Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Williams Peter Athens Philip and Miranda Kaiser Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Wes Smith Jacob and Lacey Grinnell Bison Extracts Lars Freisberg David and Randee Charney Kristoffer Barefield Ascension St. John Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 38 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 39 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, June 10th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 40 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- - - - Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- - - - Children/Siblings of Trans*/Nonr, " ' f T ~ I Arlvor.~r.v& 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 41 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... ~OYt: I se~cesJfo~ 0 LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible Binary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan --- - ---- Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education , Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------ Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 42 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 43 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC Sl>ONS0111on 1Hl01011011!AJSU fAMllYfOUNOATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His 4/28/26, 2:36 PM �Remember and Rise 44 of 44 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Remember-and-Rise.html?soid=1... Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong Shannon Gordon Fair Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Stephen Rundell Board of Advisors Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:36 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b4809f96ec05da557d5a66c47b0d9ac7.pdf cfdccc36b55f94eba935a12b2b867d88 PDF Text Text The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 1 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 7, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 2 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... ·V TE Make sure you vote on the Tulsa Public Schools 2021 Bond Proposal! Make sure you vote tomorrow, June 8th on the Tulsa Public Schools 2021 Bond Proposal! 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 3 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Third (Second) Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, June 10, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room at OKEQ is proud to present an encore performance of THE EVOLUTION OF AFRICAN AMERICAN MUSIC with Kia Hightower, Nash McQuarters, and Jen Thomas! Click Here for Tickets Equality Gala Tickets Saturday, July 17 Cox Convention Center Grand Hall 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Tickets for the 2021 Equality Gala are now on sale. Celebrate 40 years of Oklahomans for Equality with us at the new Cox Convention Center Grand Hall in Downtown Tulsa. Click Here for Tickets and More Information 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 4 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, June 8, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa has resumed meeting in person. Please see the COVID-19 Guidelines below to participate. 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 5 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Party Tuesday, June 22, 10:00 a.m. RSVP for the address Members should meet on Tuesday, June 22, at 9:30 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and has a railing with steps to help people into the pool. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you would like to attend, please email krissy.dudley@okeq.org to RSVP. RSVP OKEQ COVID-19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES. PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 6 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... LGBTQ+ Youth Art Exhibition: "Expressions of Courage" Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Be amazed by the talents of our local LGBTQ+ youth artists in the Expressions of Courage Art Exhibit, featuring works of art from 4th through 12th-grade students. The art was selected for this exhibit, making it one of the most anticipated shows for young artists in 2021. The Youth Art exhibit will be held in person with a virtual tour component. Visit OKEQ to celebrate the fabulous creativity of our youth! Art Gallery Website 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 7 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Crystal Meth Anonymous Every Monday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ANONYMOUS Crystal Meth Anonymous is a fellowship of people for whom all drugs, specifically crystal meth, have become a problem. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop using. There are no dues or membership lists. The fellowship that is Crystal Meth Anonymous is a new way of life without Crystal Meth. Crystal Meth Anonymous advocates a twelve-step recovery program for spiritual development, no matter our religious beliefs or background. The first step in our recovery is an admission by the addict that he or she is powerless over crystal meth and that life has become unmanageable. AN INTERSECTIONAL PRIDE SERIES SPONSORED BY • -=-r.a....... [INCLUSION IN ART] CLINIQUE REGISTER: BIT.LY/NYTAGTULSA100 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 8 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Intersectional Pride Series 2021: Healing with Pride Did you miss this amazing panel? Watch Staff Members Kao Morris (he/him), Donovid Sekulits (he/him), and Board Advisor, Dani Byrd (she/hers), participate in New York Transgender Advocacy Group's Healing with Pride Panel on June 3rd! This discussion is about racial healing within the LGBTQIA+ community in Tulsa. A virtual panel co-presented with Oklahomans for Equality moderated by healing justice facilitator and LGBTQ+ ally, Quraysh Ali Lansana (he/him), featuring licensed therapist and co-chair of the Central Oklahoma Two-Spirit Society, Kelley Blair (They/Them/Their), and other Oklahoma-based LGBTQIA2S+ leaders discussing the ways the LGBTQIA2S+ community finds healing and resilience within our community. Watch it Here • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, June 8, 5:30 p.m. 2nd Tuesday of the Month Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID t ~ SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first-come, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone ----is (918) 295-9429. Visit the Facebook Event 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 9 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... In Her Honor presents LGBTQ + Ruth Tuesday, June 8 @ 7 pm LGBTQ + Ruth featuring women+ of Oklahomans for Equality! Tuesday, June 8, 7:00 p.m. Online Event In Her Honor presents LGBTQ + Ruth featuring women+ of Oklahomans for Equality! Join us for inspirations of RBG and the LGBTQ community and learn about the intersectional and inclusive work of OKEQ. In Her Honor is a series of events celebrating Ruth Bader Ginsburg's contributions to women’s rights. The monthly presentations by notable women from our community and beyond celebrate and inform us of the progress women have made toward equality, equity, and justice. All are welcome to attend, regardless of gender identity. The Women of All Souls looks forward to engaging programs and conversations. All who identify as women are welcome to join Women of All Souls on the first, third, and fourth Tuesdays of the month at 7 pm! Register below to access the link. Click Here to Register I I I 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 10 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Payton Law Fir Peyton Law Firm Sponsors t Change and Gender Marker Ch C inic 2nd Wednesdays of th To contactJosh or Rebecca email th josh@joshuapaytonlaw com Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, June 9, 5:30 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic - Legal Extern The OkEq Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic welcomes Rebecca Sheetz as an extern for the summer. In this role, she will assist attorney Joshua Payton with client name changes with an emphasis on research and writing. Rebecca has completed her first year at the University of Tulsa College of Law and is a graduate of Oklahoma State University (B.S.B.A. Nonprofit Management, 2020). She served as the fundraising chair for Pete’s Pet Posse throughout college, a program providing therapy dogs to OSU’s campus. In law school, Rebecca has been able to get involved with Phi Alpha Delta, the Federal Bar Association, Tulsa Bar Association, and Paw Law. She also received the prestigious Cali Award for Future Excellence in Torts. “I wanted to work for the Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic because I’ve witnessed the constant harassment that transgender people face in Oklahoma and desire to do everything I can to prevent that harassment from continuing, specifically in legal processes. Like all people, trans individuals in Oklahoma have a right to body autonomy and freedom to live their authentic lives as they 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 11 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... choose.” “I am honored to have the opportunity to work with the Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic at the Equality Center this summer and look forward to helping our clients achieve their legal goals.” I 11 GEN Q: Third (Second) Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, June 10, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. We will attend Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room together! Wear a mask! There will be a cash bar at this event. Gen Q is an open group for LGBTQIA+ young adults 18-26ish. You must RSVP to reserve your ticket for Gen Q members! RSVP Here • 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 12 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Experience the Freedom"' PRIDE Day at Oaklake Trails Naturist Park Saturday, June 12, 10:00 a.m. Oaklake Trails Naturist Park 24601 Milfay Rd. Depew, OK 74028 Join Oaklake Trails Naturist Park as we gear up for Tulsa Pride and celebrate Pride On the Mother Road! Come and spend a day in the sun and a dip in the pool! For more information and itinerary follow: Click Here to Follow the Event ©~~© t©~[p) £~ t©~~t1r£~[Q)© A GROUP FOR LGBTQ+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE Every srd Sunday of the Month 5-6:oo p.m. email 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 13 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... UODOVUL8e~"C8@/0.K:eq.or for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectando Sunday, June 13, 5:00 p.m In-Person Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. All sexual identities and gender expressions are welcome. We will speak in both English and Spanish. email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for more information Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultura Todas las identidades y expresiones de género son bienvenidas Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para mas informacion. Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid En el Dennis R. Neill Equality Center en Tulsa, Oklahoma, hay muchos eventos, grupos de apoyo, grupos sociales, consejería y servicios médicos. mira abajo 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 14 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 15 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Neurodiversity Tulsa Tuesday, June 15, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information ~ 1Tc1 ~ ~ ·.·. A SPIRITUAL HAPPY HOUR f OR THOSE LOOKING TO RECONNECT WITH OR RECOVER FROM THEIR f AITH. - .... • THURSDAYS, 6PM f ACEBOOK LIVE -~ . 0 . ....___...._......,\,,o~ SPECIAL GUEST, REV . DONNIE ANDERSON • ..... JUNE 17 EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: Interfaith Happy Hour Thursday, June 17, 6:00 p.m. on Facebook Live Oklahomans for Equality's new Equality Faith Alliance is excited to announce SPIRIT, a virtual happy hour-style support and social group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether your goal is to reconnect with your faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, renounce your faith, or just connect with other people like yourself, SPIRIT is the group for you. Each Thursday, a spiritual leader from Tulsa and the surrounding 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 16 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. This week, our guest host is Rev. Dr. Donnie Anderson, whose credentials are recognized by the United Methodist Church, the United Church of Christ, and the American Baptist Churches USA. She currently serves as an educator, counselor, and social activist and lives in Rhode Island. Precepts C.A.R.E 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practice RSVP HERE ~ ~ ~ M~EPRIDE RIDE c:N RENT. RIDE . REPEAT. 000 JUNE 17, 6:30PM GEN Q PRIDE RIDE Thursday, June 17, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and join OKEQ's group for young, LGBTQIA+ adults 18-26-ish, GEN Q! GEN Q is a social group for young adults looking to make friends, network, or just looking for support. This week we are partnering with This Machine Tulsa for a Pride Bike Ride from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to the Gathering Place! 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 17 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... RSVP Brought to you Bi the letter B in-person meetings have resumed. Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 18 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Visit Us on Facebook Email Us TIILSA PRIDE ON YOIIR STREET #TULSAPRIDE2021 #PRIIDEONTHEMOTHERROAD TULSA PRIDE ON YOUR STREET RETURNS In addition to Tulsa Pride 2021 taking place downtown on June 25-27, OKEQ is excited to announce the return of the Tulsa Pride on Your Street house decorating competition! Tulsa Pride Inside is where Pride Street comes to YOUR street. Join us by decorating your house, apartment, yard, car, or business with PRIDE with a chance to win a gift basket from our fabulous Equality Business Alliance Members. Tulsa Pride Queen Kitty Marie Legacy and King Blaze Khrystian will be our judges alongside Tulsa Pride Emeritus Scrappy Legacy and Anita Richards. Winners will be announced at Tulsa Pride 2021 on June 26! Register Here 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 19 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Pooches for Pride Picture Contest Is your pooch ready for pride? Pooches for Pride is an online fundraiser for Tulsa Pride 2021. Nominate your dog by donating $1 (or more), and your friends, neighbors, and LGBTQ+ buddies can vote for your pup to win Pride Pet Supplies and a Pride Store gift card for you! We will also show your pet's picture on our Pride mainstage! Pets must be registered by June 21st! Winners will be announced on June 26th! Register You Pet Here 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 20 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Tulsa Pride on the Mother Road 2021 Friday, June 25, and Saturday, June 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Get ready for Tulsa Pride 2021! We are celebrating Pride on the Mother Road this year in partnership with OKC Pride. Booths, Parade entries, and sponsorships are available in the Pride Store. Click the button below: Booths, Parade entries, and Sponsorship Opportunities 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 21 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Pride Volunteer Sign Up Form 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 22 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Th City of Tulsa is commrtt d to ere t ng re p ctful nd professional wor environment. l t ro m n on 10n, ion in n City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 23 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. (RE)MEMBERINC THE SACRED \ r.flJ INDIGIQUEER PHOTO CAMPAIG ~ W HE : June 10 -12 , 2021 WHO : Al/AN and 2SLGBTQ+ aged 14 and up WHAT : Be a part of a new photo campaign to make visible our 2SLGBTQ+ community , pride , and connectedness to our cultures ! \ \)JJlv- Register today at bit.ly/sacredindigiqueer BIO: Indigiqueer Joy in four cities this June, and Tulsa is one of them! Indigiqueer Joy is responding to calls from young 2SLGBTQ+ people, saying they don’t have images or visions of indigiqueer joy, what it means or looks like. Photographer Evan Atwood, who is Indigenous and 2SLGBTQ+, will be in Tulsa from June 10 through 12th. Register Here 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 24 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Simon vs. the Hom o Sapiens Agenda Sixteen-year-old and not-so-openly gay Simon Spier prefers to save his clrama for the school musical. But when an email falls into the wrong hands, his secret is at risk of being thrust into the spotlight. ow change-averse Simon has to find a way to step out of his comfort zone before he's pushed out- without alienating his friends, compromising himself, or fumbling a shot at happiness with the most confusing, adorable guy he's never met. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT ► BECKY ALBERTALLI Becky Albertalli- Becky Albertalli is a clinical psychologist who has had the privilege of conducting therapy with dozens of smart, weird, irresistible teenagers. She also served for seven years as co-leader of a support group for gender nonconforming chilclren in Washington, D.C. She now lives with her family outside of Atlanta. Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda is her first novel. 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 25 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Tulsa Threat vs. Iowa Phoenix Saturday, June 19, 7:00p.m. Catoosa High School 2000 S. Cherokee St. Catoosa, OK 74015 View Event of Facebook 2021OKEQ I• Hosted by Bison Extracts 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 26 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... OKE , okeq.org/donate 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 27 of 43 fflll J Ul\1:USHIRT https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... fflll J Ul\1:USHIRT As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, July 7, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. For More Information Contact Us 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 28 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • - -==- 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 29 of 43 • • https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... • • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. AN LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA ANDOKEQ Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 30 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact PARENTS OF LO8TQ2SIA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 31 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Grateful Day Foundation Wellness Retreat The 2021 HIV Wellness Retreat is just around the corner. Thursday 8/26/21 to Sunday 8/29/21. Follow the links below to sign up to attend the retreat, and then pre-pay your fees via the OkEq E-Store. Register for HIV Wellness Retreat 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 32 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Camp Fire of Green Country Summer Camp Located near Wagoner, Oklahoma, Camp Waluhili's 219 acres include almost three miles of shoreline on Fort Gibson Lake, a bluff line, forests, and meadows. Campers and staff share semi-rustic, air-conditioned cabins with electricity and a restroom with shower houses nearby. Throughout the week, campers will learn about the outdoors, explore new activities, make new friends, and, most importantly, have fun. Camp Fire trains all camp staff members to include campers with special needs or disabilities and hires one male and one female staff member specifically for children needing an individual buddy. We believe everyone should have the opportunity to experience camp! Camp Waluhili is the ideal place for campers to learn new skills, make new friends, and discover who they are. Learn More and Register 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 33 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 34 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 35 of 43 KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THEGEOAGEK.t.lSEA F.t.MILYFOUNDATION ' https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 36 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley- 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 37 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... freeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, June 10th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 38 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Support Group for Transgender Teens the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -- 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer Support Group for Partners of Transgender Tulsa Area Prime Timers opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 39 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... People LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - . ---- sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. - - - . ---- Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 40 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 41 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPOIISOAEOay THIGIOIIGIUJSU f .. MILYfOUNOATIOII Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 42 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Board of Advisors Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla 4/28/26, 2:39 PM �The Evolution of African American Music in the Rainbow Room 43 of 43 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Evolution-of-African-Ameri... Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong Shannon Gordon Fair Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Stephen Rundell Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:39 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/649ab99875fe187f7148ece691121300.pdf ef9f5105cf9bab22bff919a5c00730a7 PDF Text Text Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 1 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 14, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 2 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... FC Tulsa vs. SKCII - Pride Night Wednesday, June 16, 7:00 p.m. FC Tulsa 201 N. Elgin Ave. Tulsa, Ok 74120 Come out to the ONEOK field and watch FC Tulsa take on Sporting Kansas City II. Featuring safe capacity seating, a live fireworks show, and more, the experience is a can't-miss for the whole family! All tickets will be mobile tickets. For help with your mobile tickets, click here: https://rb.gy/4odchz. Offer not valid at the box office. $2 of every ticket sold will be donated to Oklahomans for Equality. For the Ticket and Scarf Package, please select the 'Endline- Ticket & Scarf" option. The Endline offer will only get you a ticket to the match. Under 'Price Scale,' select 'Endline' for Section 113. Get your Tickets Here In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 3 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... Rhiannan Porterfield (Rhi) August 13, 2005 - June 6, 2021 Rhiannan was taken unexpectedly June 6, 2021, at age 15. She was a talented artist and aspiring animator. She was active in band, archery, and Girl Scouts. Rhiannan was a passionate content creator and a tireless champion of the LGBTQ+ community. She is survived by: Mother and Stepfather Brandy and Brian Schrader of Glenpool OK, Father Danny Rus (Irish) Porterfield II of Broken Arrow, OK, Brother Corbin Porterfield of Claremore, OK, Stepbrother Lane Schrader of Glenpool, OK, Maternal Grandparents Steve and Cindy Snow of Tulsa, OK and Linda Schrader of Wichita, KS, Paternal Grandparents Peggy Lindley of Broken Arrow, OK and Danny and Lorie Porterfield of Corinth, MS, Aunt & Uncle Heather and Ryan Palmatary of Oklahoma City, OK and Alan and Shaylene Schrader of Moore, OK, Uncle Mike Price of Tulsa, OK, Aunt Chelsea Raglin of Rochester, NY, Aunts and Uncles Angela and Jeff Andreason of Rienzi, MS and Shane and Cassie Rickman of Corinth, MS and Cindy and David Milliam of Phoenix, AZ, and Brandy and Roger Smith of Adamsville, TN and Danielle Porterfield of Rienzi, MS and Jori Porterfield of Corinth, MS and Landon Porterfield of Corinth, MS and numerous Great Aunts, Great Uncles, Cousins, and countless friends. Her memorial is at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120, on Friday, June 18th at 4:00 pm. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Rhiannan’s honor. 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 4 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... Equality Gala Tickets Saturday, July 17 Cox Convention Center Grand Hall 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Tickets for the 2021 Equality Gala are now on sale. Celebrate 40 years of Oklahomans for Equality with us at the new Cox Convention Center Grand Hall in Downtown Tulsa. Click Here for Tickets and More Information SPECIAL GUEST, REV. DONNIE ANDERSON ,____.__......a..i:;..___.a• '--' JUNE 17 EQUALITY FAITH ALLIANCE SPIRIT: Interfaith Happy Hour Thursday, June 17, 6:00 p.m. on Facebook Live Oklahomans for Equality's new Equality Faith Alliance is excited to announce SPIRIT, a virtual happy hour-style support and social group dedicated to helping LGBTQIA+ individuals reframe their relationship with religion. Whether your goal is to reconnect with your faith, recover from past spiritual abuse, 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 5 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... renounce your faith, or just connect with other people like yourself, SPIRIT is the group for you. Each Thursday, a spiritual leader from Tulsa and the surrounding areas will guide the group through a discussion about the intersections of faith and sexuality. All walks of faith are welcome. All expressions of identity are welcome. This week, our guest host is Rev. Dr. Donnie Anderson, whose credentials are recognized by the United Methodist Church, the United Church of Christ, and the American Baptist Churches USA. She currently serves as an educator, counselor, and social activist and lives in Rhode Island. Precepts C.A.R.E 1. Committed to Interfaith Dialogue 2. Affirming full equality for LGBTQ+ persons and families 3. Resistant to any coercive action of proselytizing and conversion 4. Eradicating conversion therapy and dangerous reparative counseling practice RSVP HERE SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, June 15, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa has resumed meeting in person. Please see the COVID-19 Guidelines below to participate. 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 6 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Party Tuesday, June 22, 10:00 a.m. RSVP for the address Members should meet on Tuesday, June 22, at 9:30 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and has a railing with steps to help people into the pool. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you would like to attend, please email krissy.dudley@okeq.org to RSVP. RSVP 2021OKEQ 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 7 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... I• Hosted by Bison Extracts Crystal Meth Anonymous Every Monday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ANONYMOUS Crystal Meth Anonymous is a fellowship of people for whom all drugs, specifically crystal meth, have become a problem. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop using. There are no dues or membership lists. The fellowship that is Crystal Meth Anonymous is a new way of life without Crystal Meth. Crystal Meth 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 8 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... Anonymous advocates a twelve-step recovery program for spiritual development, no matter our religious beliefs or background. The first step in our recovery is an admission by the addict that he or she is powerless over crystal meth and that life has become unmanageable. • Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, July 13, 5:30 p.m. 2nd Tuesday of the Month Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID SERVICES OF t~ = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first-come, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone ----is (918) 295-9429. Visit the Facebook Event NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 9 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... Neurodiversity Tulsa Tuesday, June 15, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information INTERSECTIONAL 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 10 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... SPONSORED BY : --- [INCLUSION IN ART] (UNIQUE REGISTER: BIT.LY/NYTAGTULSA100 Intersectional Pride Series 2021: Healing with Pride Did you miss this amazing panel? Watch Staff Members Kao Morris (he/him), Donovid Sekulits (he/him), and Board Advisor, Dani Byrd (she/hers), participate in New York Transgender Advocacy Group's Healing with Pride Panel on June 3rd! This discussion is about racial healing within the LGBTQIA+ community in Tulsa. A virtual panel co-presented with Oklahomans for Equality moderated by healing justice facilitator and LGBTQ+ ally, Quraysh Ali Lansana (he/him), featuring licensed therapist and co-chair of the Central Oklahoma Two-Spirit Society, Kelley Blair (They/Them/Their), and other Oklahoma-based LGBTQIA2S+ leaders discussing the ways the LGBTQIA2S+ community finds healing and resilience within our community. Watch it Here GEN Q PRIDE RIDE Thursday, June 24, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This Machine, Oklahomans for Equality, and Tulsa Pride are teaming up again this year for Pride Ride! 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 11 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... The Ride: We will be meeting at Oklahomans for Equality (621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120) at 7:30 p.m., then riding bikes from Dilly Diner to The Gathering Place via the Midland Valley Trail. This Machine is providing electric bikes on a first-come, first-serve basis. You are also more than welcome to bring your own bike. PLEASE RSVP TO THIS EVENT if you plan to ride one of our bikes so we can make sure to have enough available. Gen Q: 2021 Tulsa Pride Ride on Facebook RSVP Circle Cinema Pride Night Tuesday, June 22, 7:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 Circle Cinema will be showing Sublet. A 2020 LGBTQ+ film set in Tel Aviv. Plot Summary: "A New York Times travel writer comes to Tel Aviv after suffering a tragedy. The energy of the city and his relationship with a younger man brings him back to life." Buy Your Tickets Here E ALITY Business Alliance 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 12 of 41 EBA Mixer Thursday, June 24 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Pottery Barn 1864 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114 918-743-1512 www.PotteryBarn.com https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... POTTERYBARN The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers have resumed! Pottery Barn offers expertly crafted furniture and home decor. Come by the store in Tulsa, OK and learn more about the complimentary decorating and design services offered by our Design Studio Specialists in Tulsa. We also have registry experts ready to help you create a well-rounded wedding registry. Pottery Barn will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for June. Please join us. Masks and social distancing will be required. ♦ oklahomans for equality Raspberry Pride Pint Night @ NEFF Brewing Thursday, June 24, 5:00 p.m. NEFF Brewing 321 S. Frankfort Ave. Tulsa, OK 74120 At NEFF Brewing we believe in inclusivity and equality. In celebration of Pride Month, we will be holding a special Raspberry Pride Pint Night to benefit our 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 13 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... neighbors at the Equality Center. OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We wish to further their mission by donating all the proceeds from our Raspberry Pride Pint Night to the Equality Center. Come celebrate your Pride with us on June 24th from 5:00 pm - we run out! Raspberry Pride Pints will be $10 and you get to keep the cool pint glass and good vibes for benefiting a good cause. Cheers! LGBTQ+ Youth Art Exhibition: "Expressions of Courage" Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 14 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... Be amazed by the talents of our local LGBTQ+ youth artists in the Expressions of Courage Art Exhibit, featuring works of art from 4th through 12th-grade students. The art was selected for this exhibit, making it one of the most anticipated shows for young artists in 2021. The Youth Art exhibit will be held in person with a virtual tour component. Visit OKEQ to celebrate the fabulous creativity of our youth! Art Gallery Website Brought to you Bi the letter B in-person meetings have resumed. Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 15 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us ' TIILSA PRIDE ON YOIIR STREET #TU LSAPR I DE2021 #PRIIDEONTHEMOTHERROAD TULSA PRIDE ON YOUR STREET RETURNS In addition to Tulsa Pride 2021 taking place downtown on June 25-27, OKEQ is excited to announce the return of the Tulsa Pride on Your Street house decorating competition! Tulsa Pride Inside is where Pride Street comes to YOUR street. Join us by decorating your house, apartment, yard, car, or business with PRIDE with a chance to win a gift basket from our fabulous Equality Business Alliance Members. Tulsa Pride Queen Kitty Marie Legacy and King Blaze Khrystian will be our judges alongside Tulsa Pride Emeritus Scrappy Legacy and Anita Richards. Winners will be announced at Tulsa Pride 2021 on June 26! Register Here 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 16 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... ••• Pooches for Pride Picture Contest Is your pooch ready for pride? Pooches for Pride is an online fundraiser for Tulsa Pride 2021. Nominate your dog by donating $1 (or more), and your friends, neighbors, and LGBTQ+ buddies can vote for your pup to win Pride Pet Supplies and a Pride Store gift card for you! We will also show your pet's picture on our Pride mainstage! Pets must be registered by June 21st! Winners will be announced on June 26th! Register You Pet Here 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 17 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... Tulsa Pride on the Mother Road 2021 Friday, June 25, and Saturday, June 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Get ready for Tulsa Pride 2021! We are celebrating Pride on the Mother Road this year in partnership with OKC Pride. Booths, Parade entries, and sponsorships are available in the Pride Store. Click the button below: Booths, Parade entries, and Sponsorship Opportunities VIP Experiences at Tulsa Pride BIG FREEDIA VIP Standing Room for Big Freedia at Tulsa Pride! Concert starts at 10:00pm VIP standing room is access to the front of the stage in a sectioned-off area. This is the only way to get to the front of the stage. BIG FREEDIA-VIP Standing Room CRYSTAL METHYD Get your tickets for Meet and Greet/ VIP Standing Room for Crystal Methyd! Tickets are $20 and $35! MEET l\ND GREET . + VIP STBNDING ~ ~ ~ . J 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 18 of 41 Meet and Greet with Crystal Methyd BEFORE the show on Saturday, June 26th. Meet and Greet will begin immediately following the parade on Saturday. Location and details will be emailed to you before the event. Included is VIP Standing Room access to the front of the stage in a sectioned-off area. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... ROOM CRYSTI\L MET CRYSTAL METHYD Meet and Greet/VIP Standing Room 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 19 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... Pride Volunteer Sign Up Form The City of Tulsa is committed to creat ng a respectful and professional work environment. e al onen at on gender n ty and gend r e pr ssion ar pro ec d. D criminat1on, h r m nt nd t It tion in ny 1d City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 20 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. BOOK OF THE WEEK Call Me by Your Name by Andre Aciman 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 21 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... Andre Aciman's Call Me by Your ame is the story of a sudden and powerful romance that blossoms ben iveen an adolescent boy and a summer guest at his parents' cliffside mansion on the Italian Riviera. Each is unprepared for the consequences of their attraction, when. during the restless summer weeks. unrelenting currents of obsession, fa cination, and desire intensify their passion and test the charged ground between them. Recklessly, the two verge toward the one thing both fear the may never trul find again: total intimacy. It is an instant classic and one of the great love stories of our time. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Andre Aci.man-is the New York Times bestselling author of Call Me By Your ame, Out of Egypt, Eight White Nights, False Papers, Alibis, Harvard Square, Enigma Variations, and Find Me. He's the editor of The Proust Project and teaches comparative literature at the Graduate Center of the City university of New York. He lives with his wife in Manhattan. ANDRE ACIMAN In Her Honor presents LGBTQ + Ruth Tuesday, June 8 @ 7 pm LGBTQ + Ruth featuring women+ of Oklahomans for Equality! Online Event 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 22 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... In Her Honor presents LGBTQ + Ruth featuring women+ of Oklahomans for Equality! Join us for inspirations of RBG and the LGBTQ community and learn about the intersectional and inclusive work of OKEQ. In Her Honor is a series of events celebrating Ruth Bader Ginsburg's contributions to women’s rights. The monthly presentations by notable women from our community and beyond celebrate and inform us of the progress women have made toward equality, equity, and justice. All are welcome to attend, regardless of gender identity. The Women of All Souls looks forward to engaging programs and conversations. All who identify as women are welcome to join Women of All Souls on the first, third, and fourth Tuesdays of the month at 7 pm! If you missed the event you can watch it by clicking the button below: Watch the Panel Here Tulsa Threat vs. Iowa Phoenix Saturday, June 19, 7:00p.m. Catoosa High School 2000 S. Cherokee St. Catoosa, OK 74015 View Event of Facebook 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 23 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... OKE 1 okeq. org/ donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 24 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... (QJ trill: (Q) (C (QJ l8J lPJ bS ~ (C(Q)~[E(C1f £~[Q)(Q) A GROUP FOR LGBTQ+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE Every 3rd Sunday of the Month 5-6:00 p.m. email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectando Sunday, July 11, 5:00 p.m In-Person Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. All sexual identities and gender expressions are welcome. We will speak in both English and Spanish. email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for more information Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultura Todas las identidades y expresiones de género son bienvenidas Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para mas informacion. Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 25 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on En el Dennis R. Neill Equality Center en Tulsa, Oklahoma, hay muchos eventos, grupos de apoyo, grupos sociales, consejería y servicios médicos. mira abajo Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, July 21, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 26 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... For More Information Contact Us FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • ALPHABET SOUP KIOS Z SATURDAY AFTERNOON • • (\ • - -::::(\ 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 27 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... '' ;:. • '' • ~ • • • ~ ~ 0 • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. n AN LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR ~DftN~ftDl=ft RV TIii ~A ftDl=DA 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 28 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... AHDOKEQ Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact PARENTS OF LOBTQ2SIA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 29 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... Grateful Day Foundation Wellness Retreat The 2021 HIV Wellness Retreat is just around the corner. Thursday 8/26/21 to Sunday 8/29/21. Follow the links below to sign up to attend the retreat, and then pre-pay your fees via the OkEq E-Store. Register for HIV Wellness Retreat 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 30 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... Camp Fire of Green Country Summer Camp Located near Wagoner, Oklahoma, Camp Waluhili's 219 acres include almost three miles of shoreline on Fort Gibson Lake, a bluff line, forests, and meadows. Campers and staff share semi-rustic, air-conditioned cabins with electricity and a restroom with shower houses nearby. Throughout the week, campers will learn about the outdoors, explore new activities, make new friends, and, most importantly, have fun. Camp Fire trains all camp staff members to include campers with special needs or disabilities and hires one male and one female staff member specifically for children needing an individual buddy. We believe everyone should have the opportunity to experience camp! Camp Waluhili is the ideal place for campers to learn new skills, make new friends, and discover who they are. Learn More and Register 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 31 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 32 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 33 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... MAI\[ AN Al'l'UIN I M[N I UNLIN[ A I OKEO.ORG/OKEO-HEAL TH-CLINIC OR CALL 918-938-6537! KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSOREOBY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 34 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 35 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Virtual Thursday, July 8th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 36 of 41 A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... ' Support Group for Transgender Teens hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 37 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -- sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. --- - - Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 38 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. www.okeq.org/eba ------ -- OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 39 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPON$OIIIOIY lHIGE0RGE1<4JSH Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 40 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... OKEQ Health Clinic Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong Shannon Gordon Fair Board of Advisors Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. 4/28/26, 2:41 PM �Pride Night with FC Tulsa Soccer 41 of 41 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night-with-FC-Tulsa-Socce... Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Stephen Rundell Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:41 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e0d4917587a070e89cc923f6c7ce27dc.pdf 42d1964ffd1a6625765a9265b010fdd7 PDF Text Text Pride Night 1 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 21, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have resumed. sage Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 2 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... We refuse to be invisible S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Party Tuesday, June 22, 10:00 a.m. RSVP for the address Members should meet on Tuesday, June 22, at 9:30 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and has a railing with steps to help people into the pool. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you would like to attend, please email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - - to RSVP. 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 3 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... RSVP Aaron Rayner: "Out on a Limb" Thursday, July 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa-based artist, Aaron Rayner, has been honing his skills in capturing mood and human connection for the past several years. A classically trained artist and digital marketeer, Aaron has blended his formal education with his fascination with storytelling and personal empowerment (through messaging and art), bringing about a stylized human connection through color and lighting. Aaron's evolution into various mediums allowed him to introduce a freedom and flexibility to his storytelling, with themes ranging from dance and movement to fantasy and impressionism. Constantly honoring his art professor's mentorships, Aaron's 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 4 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... compositions are bold, balanced, and true. The Artist Reception is Thursday, July 1, at 6:00 p.m. with Aaron Rayner at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120. The exhibit continues throughout the month. Click Here to Visit the Gallery Online In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Rhiannan Porterfield (Rhi) August 13, 2005 - June 6, 2021 Rhiannan was taken unexpectedly June 6, 2021, at age 15. She was a talented artist and aspiring animator. She was active in band, archery, and Girl Scouts. Rhiannan was a passionate content creator and a tireless champion of the LGBTQ+ community. 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 5 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... She is survived by: Mother and Stepfather Brandy and Brian Schrader of Glenpool OK, Father Danny Rus (Irish) Porterfield II of Broken Arrow, OK, Brother Corbin Porterfield of Claremore, OK, Stepbrother Lane Schrader of Glenpool, OK, Maternal Grandparents Steve and Cindy Snow of Tulsa, OK and Linda Schrader of Wichita, KS, Paternal Grandparents Peggy Lindley of Broken Arrow, OK and Danny and Lorie Porterfield of Corinth, MS, Aunt & Uncle Heather and Ryan Palmatary of Oklahoma City, OK and Alan and Shaylene Schrader of Moore, OK, Uncle Mike Price of Tulsa, OK, Aunt Chelsea Raglin of Rochester, NY, Aunts and Uncles Angela and Jeff Andreason of Rienzi, MS and Shane and Cassie Rickman of Corinth, MS and Cindy and David Milliam of Phoenix, AZ, and Brandy and Roger Smith of Adamsville, TN and Danielle Porterfield of Rienzi, MS and Jori Porterfield of Corinth, MS and Landon Porterfield of Corinth, MS and numerous Great Aunts, Great Uncles, Cousins, and countless friends. Her memorial is at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120, on Friday, June 18th at 4:00 pm. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Rhiannan’s honor. Donate Here Tulsa Pride 2021 T-Shirts are in! We are excited to introduce our Tulsa Pride 2021 T-Shirt commemorating this year's Pride. We have these available in our Pride Store. They are available for 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 6 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... only $25.00 till Friday, June 25th. After that, they will be $30. Equality Gala Tickets Saturday, July 17 Cox Convention Center Grand Hall 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Tickets for the 2021 Equality Gala are now on sale. Celebrate 40 years of Oklahomans for Equality with us at the new Cox Convention Center Grand Hall in Downtown Tulsa. Click Here for Tickets and More Information 2021OKEQ 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 7 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... Hosted by Bison Extracts Crystal Meth Anonymous Every Monday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ANONYMOUS Crystal Meth Anonymous is a fellowship of people for whom all drugs, specifically crystal meth, have become a problem. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop using. There are no dues or membership lists. The fellowship that is Crystal Meth Anonymous is a new way of life without Crystal Meth. Crystal Meth Anonymous advocates a twelve-step recovery program for spiritual development, no matter our religious beliefs or background. The first step in our recovery is an admission by the addict that he or she is powerless over crystal meth and that life has become unmanageable. 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 8 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Neurodiversity Tulsa 1st and 3rd Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: Contact Anna for more Information 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 9 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... E EBA Mixer Thursday, June 24 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Pottery Barn 1864 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114 918-743-1512 www.PotteryBarn.com ALITY usiness Alliance PDTTERYBARN The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers have resumed! Pottery Barn offers expertly crafted furniture and home decor. Come by the store in Tulsa, OK, and learn more about the complimentary decorating and design services offered by our Design Studio Specialists in Tulsa. We also have registry experts ready to help you create a well-rounded wedding registry. Pottery Barn will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for June. Please join us. Masks and social distancing will be required. Brought to you Bi the letter B in-person meetings have resumed. 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 10 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us TULSA PRIDE ON 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 11 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... #TULSAPRIDE2021 #PRIIDEONTHEMOTHERROAD TULSA PRIDE ON YOUR STREET RETURNS In addition to Tulsa Pride 2021 taking place downtown on June 25-27, OKEQ is excited to announce the return of the Tulsa Pride on Your Street house decorating competition! Tulsa Pride Inside is where Pride Street comes to YOUR street. Join us by decorating your house, apartment, yard, car, or business with PRIDE with a chance to win a gift basket from our fabulous Equality Business Alliance Members. Tulsa Pride Queen Kitty Marie Legacy and King Blaze Khrystian will be our judges alongside Tulsa Pride Emeritus Scrappy Legacy and Anita Richards. Winners will be announced at Tulsa Pride 2021 on June 26! Register Here ••• Pooches for Pride Picture Contest Is your pooch ready for pride? Pooches for Pride is an online fundraiser for Tulsa Pride 2021. Nominate your dog by donating $1 (or more), and your friends, neighbors, and LGBTQ+ buddies can vote for your pup to win Pride Pet Supplies and a Pride Store gift card for 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 12 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... you! We will also show your pet's picture on our Pride mainstage! Pets must be registered by June 21st! Winners will be announced on June 26th! Register You Pet Here .- {I( ••~LGBT~ ,,,, mneJ'lS Network LGBT Women's Network: July Happy Hour Wednesday, July 7, at 5:30 p.m. Fassler Hall Tulsa 304 S. Elgin Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LGBTQ++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome and we hope some of you will join us 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 13 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... LGBTQ+ Youth Art Exhibition: "Expressions of Courage" Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Be amazed by the talents of our local LGBTQ+ youth artists in the Expressions of Courage Art Exhibit, featuring works of art from 4th through 12th-grade students. The art was selected for this exhibit, making it one of the most anticipated shows for young artists in 2021. The Youth Art exhibit will be held in person with a virtual tour component. Visit OKEQ to celebrate the fabulous creativity of our youth! Art Gallery Website " 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 14 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, July 13, 5:30 p.m. 2nd Tuesday of the Month Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGAL AID l'Gll SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first-come, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone ----is (918) 295-9429. 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 15 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... Th City of Tulsa 1s committed to creat ng respectful nd professional work env ronment. alonenta on gend r 1ty nd g nd r pr on t1on, ar pro c d h r m nt ion in ny d City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 16 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... Narq&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Stitching a Revolution by Cleve Jones Both an important cultural history of the AIDS crisis and an intimate personal memoir, Stitching a Revolution is the story of a man who, besieged by discrimination, death, and despair, found the courage and strength of spirit to conceive and create a unique healing vision-the AIDS Memorial Quilt. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Cleve JonesCleve joined the gay liberation movement in the early 1970s and w as mentored by pioneer LGBT activist Harvey Milk and w orked in Milk's Ci ty Hall office as a student intern until Milk's assassination in 1978. Cleve co-founded the San Francisco AIDS Foundation in 1983 and founded The NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt, ---------------- one of the ,vorld's largest con1munity arts projects. (LEVE )ONES 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 17 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... OKE , okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly ©~~© t(Q)~[p) £~ t©~~t1r £~[Q)(Q) 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 18 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... A GROUP fOR LGBTO+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE Every 3rd Sunday of the Month 5-6:oo p.m. email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectando Sunday, July 11, 5:00 p.m In-Person Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. All sexual identities and gender expressions are welcome. We will speak in both English and Spanish. email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for more information Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultura Todas las identidades y expresiones de género son bienvenidas Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para mas informacion. Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 19 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on En el Dennis R. Neill Equality Center en Tulsa, Oklahoma, hay muchos eventos, grupos de apoyo, grupos sociales, consejería y servicios médicos. mira abajo Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, July 21, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 20 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... For More Information Contact Us FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • ALPHABET SOUP KIOS Z SATURDAY AFTERNOON • • (\ • - -::::(\ 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 21 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... '' ;:. • '' • ~ • • • ~ ~ 0 • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. n AN LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR ~DftN~ftDl=ft RV TIii ~A ftDl=DA 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 22 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... AHDOKEQ Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact PARENTS OF LOBTQ2SIA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 23 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... Grateful Day Foundation Wellness Retreat The 2021 HIV Wellness Retreat is just around the corner. Thursday 8/26/21 to Sunday 8/29/21. Follow the links below to sign up to attend the retreat, and then pre-pay your fees via the OkEq E-Store. Register for HIV Wellness Retreat Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 24 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 25 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 26 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THEGEOAGEK.t.lSEA F.t.MILYFOUNDATION ' Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 27 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley- 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 28 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... freeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, July 8th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 29 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... Support Group for Transgender Teens the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -- 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer Support Group for Partners of Transgender Tulsa Area Prime Timers opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 30 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... People LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - . ---- sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. - - - . ---- Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 31 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 32 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPOIISOAEOay THIGIOIIGIUJSU f .. MILYfOUNOATIOII Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 33 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong Shannon Gordon Fair Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Stephen Rundell Board of Advisors Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �Pride Night 34 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Night.html?soid=11024944... Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:42 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3cf700264e408fac4304f6bc2e0fc753.pdf 62693c3bc3326af61ace36c9c0b32352 PDF Text Text This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 1 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 28, 2021 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! THANK YOU FOR MAKING PRIDE AMAZING 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 2 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... Pride 2021 is officially in the books. You all did truly amazing work. I think we probably broke just about every record that we had on this one gang. The official details and numbers are still coming in, so this is just one grateful guy’s personal thoughts and observations. To every single person that made Pride this year the absolute smashing success that it was, THANK YOU!!! Words cannot express how proud (pun not intended) I am of each and every one of you. It took an absolute village to pull this one off, and we rose to that challenge. I want to invite all of you to join me in expressing gratitude for the tireless, selfless service each and every member of our volunteers and staff put in this weekend. I am not exaggerating when I say that they stayed through the night multiple times to make sure Pride happened and that we’re back to business this morning. I see you, and I love you. I wanted to share my gratitude with you knowing it’s just words in an email, but I truly am in awe of you all. Honored to serve with you. Chris Brecht-Smith OkEq Board President (pronouns: he/him/his) SAGE Tulsa in-person meetings have 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 3 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... resumed. Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible S.A.G.E. Meeting Tuesday, June 29, 10:00 a.m. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 4 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... art SHOW: JULY 1st - July 31 st art RECEPTION: JULY 1st, 6 pm ans for Equality Neill Equality Center t 4120 Aaron Rayner: "Out on a Limb" Thursday, July 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa-based artist, Aaron Rayner, has been honing his skills in capturing mood and human connection for the past several years. A classically trained artist and digital marketeer, Aaron has blended his formal education with his fascination with storytelling and personal empowerment (through messaging and art), bringing about a stylized human connection through color and lighting. 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 5 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... Aaron's evolution into various mediums allowed him to introduce a freedom and flexibility to his storytelling, with themes ranging from dance and movement to fantasy and impressionism. Constantly honoring his art professor's mentorships, Aaron's compositions are bold, balanced, and true. The Artist Reception is Thursday, July 1, at 6:00 p.m. with Aaron Rayner at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa OK 74120. The exhibit continues throughout the month. Click Here to Visit the Gallery Online In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 6 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... "Trish" Agnes Patricia Spurgin January 6, 21941 - June 27, 2021 Married to Carrie Flattery Celebrated their Anniversary is December, 15 Rhiannan Porterfield (Rhi) August 13, 2005 - June 6, 2021 Rhiannan was taken unexpectedly June 6, 2021, at age 15. She was a talented artist and aspiring animator. She was active in band, archery, and Girl Scouts. Rhiannan was a passionate content creator and a tireless champion of the LGBTQ+ community. She is survived by: Mother and Stepfather Brandy and Brian Schrader of Glenpool OK, Father Danny Rus (Irish) Porterfield II of Broken Arrow, OK, Brother Corbin Porterfield of Claremore, OK, Stepbrother Lane Schrader of Glenpool, OK, Maternal Grandparents Steve and Cindy Snow of Tulsa, OK and Linda Schrader of Wichita, KS, Paternal Grandparents Peggy Lindley of Broken Arrow, OK and Danny and Lorie Porterfield of Corinth, MS, Aunt & Uncle Heather and Ryan Palmatary of Oklahoma City, OK and Alan and Shaylene Schrader of Moore, OK, Uncle Mike Price of Tulsa, OK, Aunt Chelsea Raglin of Rochester, NY, Aunts and Uncles Angela and Jeff Andreason of Rienzi, MS and Shane and Cassie Rickman of Corinth, MS and Cindy and David Milliam of Phoenix, AZ, and Brandy and Roger Smith of Adamsville, TN and Danielle Porterfield of Rienzi, MS and Jori Porterfield of Corinth, MS and Landon Porterfield of Corinth, MS and numerous Great Aunts, Great Uncles, Cousins, and countless friends. Her memorial is at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120, on Friday, June 18th at 4:00 pm. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Rhiannan’s honor. Donate Here 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 7 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... Equality Gala Tickets Saturday, July 17 Cox Convention Center Grand Hall 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Tickets for the 2021 Equality Gala are now on sale. Celebrate 40 years of Oklahomans for Equality with us at the new Cox Convention Center Grand Hall in Downtown Tulsa. Click Here for Tickets and More Information Crystal Meth Anonymous Every Monday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ANONYMOUS Crystal Meth Anonymous is a fellowship of people for whom all drugs, specifically crystal meth, have become a problem. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop using. There are no dues or membership lists. The fellowship that is Crystal Meth Anonymous is a new way of life without Crystal Meth. Crystal Meth Anonymous advocates a twelve-step recovery program for spiritual development, no matter our religious beliefs or background. The first step in our recovery is an admission by the addict that he or she is powerless over crystal meth and that life has become unmanageable. 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 8 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... NEURODIVERSrrY TULSA 1st and 3rdTuesday of every month 6:30pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Neurodiversity Tulsa 1st and 3rd Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Neurodiversity Tulsa is a program of OKEQ focused on connecting neurodiverse LGBTQ+ people. If you are on the autism spectrum, have ADHD, have bipolar, have anxiety, have Down Syndrome, a personality disorder, brain injuries, or other neurodivergencies, you are welcome in this group! We will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to play games, make art, chat, and connect with like-minded individuals in our community. Please message Anna Puhl on Facebook or email by clicking the button below: 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 9 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... Contact Anna for more Information Brought to you Bi the letter B in-person meetings have resumed. Brought To You Bi the Letter B Has Resumed In-Person 2nd and 4th Monday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Zoom option available Our Bi+ Support Outreach group is resuming in-person meetings! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 10 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... Visit Us on Facebook Email Us .(:L'GBT~ ,,,, mnen s Network .. LGBT Women's Network: July Happy Hour Wednesday, July 7, at 5:30 p.m. Fassler Hall Tulsa 304 S. Elgin Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LGBTQ++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome and we hope some of you will join us Lawyer in the Center Tuesday, July 13, 5:30 p.m. 2nd Tuesday of the Month LEGALAID ~J:;I_DVTl"".V .~ r\'I:' 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 11 of 31 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... "-J .&.J .a.'- ,,, .a. ~ .&.J u 'l..J' .c - OKLAHOMA, INC. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first-come, first-serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone - - - is (918) 295-9429. 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 12 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... Th City of Tul a I committed to creat ng respectful nd profe ional work env ronment. ny City Looking to Fill Critical Job Openings; Plumbers, Electricians, Heavy Equipment Operators Needed The City of Tulsa is looking for anyone interested in applying for work at the City, specifically in many labor and trade positions. Various job openings exist, such as openings for: • Water and Wastewater Operators • Plumbers • Electricians • Mechanics • Heavy Equipment Operators • Parks Utility Workers • Parks Utility Leader Many of these positions offer progression programs that give employees a pathway to advance in their current position. Benefits include medical, dental, vision, retirement, life insurance, paid vacation, floating holidays, and sick time. A list of job openings can be found online. The City of Tulsa is an equal opportunity employer and has a ban the box policy, which eliminates the criminal history question from most of its initial job applications. Additionally, the City of Tulsa has also taken the Pay Equity Pledge, which is an ongoing commitment to providing employees equal pay for equal work, no matter a person’s gender. For those interested in learning more about working at the City, visit www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs. 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 13 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Raising my Rainbow Is a mother's frank, heartfelt, and brutally funny account of her and her family's adventures of distress and happiness raising a gender-creative son. Whereas her older son, Chase, is a Lego-loving, sports-playing boy's boy, her younger son, C.J., would much rather twirl around in a pink sparkly tutu, with a Disney Princess in each hand while singing Lady Gaga's "Paparazzi" Raising My Rainbow IIIINTUl!S II 1111111 I FIIILOIS, mm CIEITIII SU Lori Duron Foreword by NE IL PATR IC K HARRIS and DAVID BURTKA AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT LORI DURON Lori Duron is the mother of n vo and lives with her husband and children. Her book, is the first parenting memoir to chronicle the journey of raising a gender nonconforming child, the book is based on her blog of the same name. Duron's blog, RaisingMyRainbow.com is the first "Mommy Blogtt to chronicle raising a gender creative child, and has had more than one million readers in nearly 180 countries. 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 14 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... okeq.org/donate As a sign of our thanks and gratitude, OKEQ is excited to announce that all new, monthly donors supporting us at $25/month and above will receive a complimentary OKEQ T-Shirt with confirmation of their monthly donation. Click here to Support Monthly ©~~© t©~[p) &~ t©~~t1r£~[Q)© A GROUP FOR LGBTQ+ HISPANIC OR LATINX PEOPLE TO CONNECT ABOUT LIFE, IDENTITY, AND CULTURE 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 15 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... Every 3rd Sunday of the Month 5-6:oo p.m. email donovidsekulits@okeq.org for zoom meeting ID OKEQ Compas Conectando Sunday, July 11, 5:00 p.m In-Person Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 A group for LGBTQ+ Hispanic or Latinx people to connect about life, identity, and culture. All sexual identities and gender expressions are welcome. We will speak in both English and Spanish. email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org for more information Un grupo para personas LGBTQ hispanos o latinx para conectarse sobre la vida, la identidad y la cultura Todas las identidades y expresiones de género son bienvenidas Se habla ingles y español enviar un correo electrónico a donovid.sekulits@okeq.org para mas informacion. Email / Enviar un correo electrónico Donovid 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 16 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on En el Dennis R. Neill Equality Center en Tulsa, Oklahoma, hay muchos eventos, grupos de apoyo, grupos sociales, consejería y servicios médicos. mira abajo Post Name/ Gender Marker Change Workshop 1st Wednesda~ of Ever~ Month, 5:30-7:00pm Post Name / Gender Marker Change Workshop Wednesday, July 21, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Getting your name/gender court order is just the first part of correcting your information. This workshop is intended for those looking for what are the next steps to take. 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 17 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... For More Information Contact Us FREE PRONOUN PINS We now offer free pronouns pins at the front desk of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you don't see your pronouns listed, ask a staff member, and we can help make you a custom pronoun pin. • ALPHABET SOUP KIOS Z SATURDAY AFTERNOON • • (\ • - -::::(\ 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 18 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... '' ;:. • '' • ~ • • • ~ ~ 0 • \\ ~ \\ • 4 • YOUTH GROUPS ARE BACK IN PERSON! Alphabet Soup, Alphabet Soup Kids, Raise Your Voice, and the LGBTQ+ Parent Support Group have resumed. All groups will still have a zoom component for those who need it. Masks will be required, and social distancing practices will be in place. n AN LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR ~DftN~ftDl=ft RV TIii ~A ftDl=DA 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 19 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... AHDOKEQ Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in-person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Contact PARENTS OF LOBTQ2SIA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 20 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... Grateful Day Foundation Wellness Retreat The 2021 HIV Wellness Retreat is just around the corner. Thursday 8/26/21 to Sunday 8/29/21. Follow the links below to sign up to attend the retreat, and then pre-pay your fees via the OkEq E-Store. Register for HIV Wellness Retreat Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 21 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 22 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 23 of 31 KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THEGEOAGEK.t.lSEA F.t.MILYFOUNDATION ' https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 24 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... Nominate a Healthcare Provider Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Samira Yousef Samira has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Samira are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org Jessica Landis-Rase Jessica has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Jessica are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley- 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 25 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... freeman@okeq.org Katie Zink Katie has joined OKEQ Counseling team as a masters intern. Excited to assist individuals in the LGBTQ+ community on their journey to wellness. The first four sessions with Katie are free. Further sessions are available at low cost. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send an email to allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, July 8th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 26 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... Support Group for Transgender Teens the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -- 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer Support Group for Partners of Transgender Tulsa Area Prime Timers opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 27 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... People LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - - - . ---- sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. - - - . ---- Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 28 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff In Memoriam Tracy Allen He / Him / His Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen-White Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 29 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPOIISOAEOay THIGIOIIGIUJSU f .. MILYfOUNOATIOII Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 30 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... Luke Scuitto Membership Coordinator He / Him / His luke.scuitto@okeq.org Donna Mathews Grant Coordinator She/Her/Hers donna.mathews@okeq.org Allison Ikley-Freeman Behavioral Health Director She / Her / Hers Allison.Ikley-Freeman@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Tery DeShong Shannon Gordon Fair Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Monique Washington Justin Ross Stephen Rundell Board of Advisors Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes 4/28/26, 2:42 PM �This Thursday Artist Aaron Rayner Will Debut: "Out on a Limb" 31 of 31 Visit Our Website https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Thursday-Artist-Aaron-Ray... View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 2:42 PM � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Sub-Series] OKEQ > Publications > OKEQ eNews Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2021] OKEQ eNews https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e2fa10c33fb31ec8bcbc5346c5c64611.pdf bc9ef6c879f5b44f9f5d9805f7e59728 PDF Text Text Happy Indigenous People’s Day 1 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews October 12th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 2 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... Oklahomans for Equality wishes you a Happy Indigenous People’s Day. We’re honored to be celebrating this holiday on recognized Muscogee (Creek) land. Oklahomans for Equality acknowledges the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is on the land of the sovereign nation of the Muscogee Creek and celebrates Indigenous People Day also known as Native American Day. The story of our First Nation Indigenous people of the Americas is treasured as it is blended with our "two-spirit" LGBTQ2S+ Native Americans who were valued and celebrated prior to colonization and the invasion of Europeans. Tvlse sits on Osage, Cherokee, and Muscogee land. We must always stand with our Indigenous peoples and continue to fight along side them. Vnokeckv. BELONG 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 3 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... Transgender youth, specifically transgender girls, are under attack in a new proposed bill co-sponsored by Oklahoma Senator James Lankford and authored by Georgia Senator Kelly Loeffler. This new bill, poorly titled the “Protection of Women and Girls in Sports Act,” would make it a violation of federal law to allow transgender girls to participate in girl’s sports. Schools that receive federal funding for their sports programs would lose that funding should they choose to be inclusive of transgender students in sports. We encourage our constituents to contact Senator Lankford and say NO to this proposed bill. James Lankford 316 Hart Senate Office Building Washington, DC 20510 Office Number: (202) 224-5754 With communities beginning to reopen their economies, the federal government is recommending people consistently wear cloth face masks in public places and in businesses where social distancing is difficult to maintain. The use of masks can reduce transmission of the virus by people who have it but aren't experiencing symptoms. PUTTING IT ON WHILE WEARING IT REMOVAL With clean hands, fit the mask to cover your mouth, nose and chin. Don't pull your mask down. Handling only the straps, untie or unloop your mask from behind and pull it away from your face. Secure ittightly to minimize gaps between your face and the mask. If you touch it, wash your hands and put on a clean one. Don't continue to use your mask if it gets damp. Replace it. Do not touch the front of the mask, your eyes, nose or mouth. Once it's on, do not touch or adjust it. Wash your hands. I~~, ""''valle ..-':tf 'I,;~ Source: us. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention Immediately throw the mask in the laundry, or the trash if it's intended for single use. Wash your hands. 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 4 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... iUSP mdS[dfilldS;- ·dPmUPSlfPQUP lP impo1tdl El gobierno federal esta recomendando a las personas que siempre utilicen mascarillas/cobertores faciales de tela en lugares publicos y empresas donde el distanciamiento social es dificil de mantener. El uso de mascarillas/cubre bocas puede reducir la transmisi6n del virus de personas que lo tienen, pero no experimentan sintomas. COMO PONERSE LA MASCARILLA/CUBRE BOCAS MIENTRAS LA ESTA USANDO Con las manos limpias, ajuste la mascarilla de manera que le cu bra la boca, la nariz y la barbilla. Nosejalela mascarilla hacia abajo. Asegurese la mascarilla ajustandola firmemente para minimizar los espacios entre su cara y la mascarilla. Si la toca, lavese las manos y pongase una mascarilla limpia. No siga usando la mascarilla si se humedece o se moja. Reemplacela por otra. Una vez puesta, no la toque ni se la ajuste. Lavese las manos de nuevo. J e~ l~I,( ""'VAIie Vt:\ ~ ;;,f, COMO QUITARSE LA MASCARILLA/CUBRE BOCAS Fuente: Centros para el Control y la Prevenc1on de Enfermedades de los Estados Unldos Manipule solo las correas o elasticos de la mascarilla, desate o agarre la mascarilla por detras de sus orejas y remuevala sin que la mascarilla toque su cara. No toque la parte del frente de la mascarilla, no se toque los ojos, la nariz o la boca. Ponga inmediatamente la mascarilla a lavar, o en la basura siesta destinada para un solo uso. Lavese las manos. ~.;;....r,'f' in Nature LGBTQIA+ OUTDOORS GROUP = ♦ Saturday, October 17, 10:00 a.m. Turkey Mountain Urban Wilderness Area OUT in Nature: Hike at Turkey Mountain Join OKEQ's new outdoor group "OUT in Nature" for their first adventure: a hike 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 5 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... at Turkey Mountain! We will meet at the Parking lot off of Elwood (the lower lot) and walk the red line trail (the easiest trail ). Click Here to Sign Up First Thursday Art Show November 2020 - Hill Taylor Starting Thursday, November 5, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Approaching her third solo exhibition, Tulsa artist Hill Taylor now has her eyes wide open. Her latest exhibition, SHUT YOUR EYES, is featured in the art gallery 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 6 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, in Downtown Tulsa for the month of November. This collection features eighteen new original abstract expressionist pieces by the artist. Visitors will be able to snatch up these highly-anticipated works, while being mesmerized by the wild splashes of color and imagination of this collection. Derived from a variety of closed eye experiences, Taylor explores the way we process, remember, and imagine color, specifically when our eyes are closed. Each piece carries its own unique story, and leaps out of the artist’s experiences and imagination, and onto the canvas, through carefully-composed movement and saturation. This collection, by appearances, is reminiscent of the artist’s 2014 collection STORIES, which was highlighted by the massive hanging installation of PERFECT TIMING, sixty-six metal paper planes, suspended from the ceiling of Foolish Things Coffee Company. All pieces will be available for purchase, both in-person, as well as online. A virtual tour of the collection will also be available through the Oklahomans For Equality YouTube channel. Taylor’s exhibition SHUT YOUR EYES will be appearing for the month of November, with an opening night set for November 5, at 6:00. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is hosting the event, as part of the First Thursday Art Crawl, and 30% of art sales will benefit their vital work in the Tulsa community. For more information, please visit www.hilltaylorart.com or www.okeq.org. 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 7 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... Indigiqueer: An Evening With Justice Shawna Baker Saturday, November 6, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 As we kick off Native American Heritage Month, join us for an in-person reception with newly appointed Supreme Court Justice Shawna Baker of the Cherokee Nation. Shawna Baker will share her journey to the Cherokee Nation Supreme Court, and what the McGirt ruling means for the tribes, natives, and our queer/ two-spirit native community. This event will follow social distancing guidelines, masks will be required, and the event will be streamed live on Facebook for those unable to attend in person. Food and drinks will also be available. EMERGENCY OVERFLOW HOMELESS SHEL TEA NEEDS DUA HELP! pet food crates or kennels 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 8 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... • R• Neill Equality Center 11 donations at the Dennis Please drop off a 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 /~h. ~~ .,~, - /I ,, //:~ 1'11. ~r~ ~ •· ~ If ~ ~//✓ ~ /' ~ : , - LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHO n OONSONZOOM SATU RDAy AFTERA: LEN@OKEQ.ORG IL MORGAN. E-MA FOR INFORMATION 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 9 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA Click here to Email Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 10 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... POSTER. 0 •• Submit original 2021 Tulsa Pride T-shirt designs to jose.vega@okeq.org Tulsa Pride 2021 Design Contest Make this PRIDE your PRIDE! Tulsa Pride wants you to design our 2021 Pride logo! This contest includes a grand prize award, and the logo will be on all the marketing material, T-shirts, Posters, and social media promotion material. The contest closes on Nov. 2nd, 11:00 p.m. Please submit your entry design electronically by emailing Pride director below! Contact Us In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 11 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... Ellis Tinker Oct. 15, 1978 ~ Sept. 20, 2020 El Tinker Obituary In celebration of Hispanic/Latinx Heritage Month, we invited author, Rigoberto González for a virtual event to discuss his experience as a gay Latino and his memoir, Butterfly Boy: Memories of a Chicano Mariposa. Rigoberto was joined by Donovid Sekulits, the Outreach and Library Services Manager to moderate the conversation. Butterfly Boy is a unique coming out and coming-of-age story of a first-generation Chicano who trades one life for another, only to discover that history and memory are not exchangeable or forgettable. For more info about him and his stories checkout his website here: 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 12 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... http:www.rigobertogonzalez.com To watch the Conversation with Rigoberto González, click the button below. Click here to watch the conversation BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Age Discrimination Research Study Researchers at Oklahoma State University are 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 13 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... recruiting gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men to discuss your experiences on social networking apps marketed for gay/bi men. Individuals who complete the questionnaire can earn a $10 Amazon gift card. To see if you are eligible, please click the button below. If you have questions, please feel free to contact Kristopher Struckmeyer (struckm@okstate.edu) Click Here for Survey We Will Notarize Your Ballot! Save time, and protect your health. We are excited to announce that we have a notary that can notarize your ballot at no cost. If you would like to schedule to have your ballot notarized please contact us below: Contact Us ~//////////////~ ~----~ ~ ~ GROUP VIRTUAL ~ ~ 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 14 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... Gender Support Group Every Wednesday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 In person or virtual peer support group The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group. Contact Us Gender Support Small Groups 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 In person or virtual peer support group On the 2nd Wednesday of every month the Gender Support Group will break out into four small groups. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Alex Wade for more information. 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 15 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... Support group for trans men. Topics will range from clothing to surgeries, hormones, masculinity, or any other issue that affects our community. We are here to support one another in our transition journeys. Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Support group for trans women. Topics will range from clothing to surgeries, hormones, femininity, or any other issue that affects our community. We are here to support one another in our transition journeys. Contact Us H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 16 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Click Here to Make an Appointment Warrior Sisters Self Defense Monday, October 12, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite all those currently engaging in street protests for black lives, community safety, and racial justice to train with Warrior Sisters in de-escalation and community intervention! --We will cover-Protest Awareness & Safety Tactics De-escalation Boundary Setting By-stander / up-stander intervention --Protect yourselves and stand up for your comrades while out in the streets and organizing for justice! Learn practical de-escalation techniques and options for interrupting injustices and supporting community members targeted by racist violence. --No experience needed Free for all Space is Limited Social distancing and masks are required. Register Here 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 17 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... T.E.A. THERAPY EXPERIENCED ANEW OVER 113,000 LGBTIJA+ N>IVl>UALS HA VE BEEN ~.ECTED TO CONVERSION TlERAPY. T.E.A IS A tEW GROlP THAT WU UTLIZE SEVERAL DFFERENT ACTIVITES TO 1-EL.P YOO TAKE YU NARRATIVE BACK Ahl> FN> PEER SUPPORT ALONG THE WAY. CM, SIT, Ahl> SPLL THE TEA WITH US ON TIIS .JOlRtEY TO THE MOST AUTIENTIC YOO. CALL, TEXT, OR EMAIL JESS BRANSTON 918-92"4-562"4 JESS@ANCH0REDBHC.C0M Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A Monday, October 12, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Contact Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 or jess@anchoredbhc.com. Please email us by clicking the button below for the zoom link: Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 18 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... FOR MORE INFORMATION TEXT /CALL KAO 918.90Le.1869 Friday, October 16, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. Email anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + ird Friday of the Month at 7 21 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday, October 16, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 19 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends.Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent at Spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions please contact Liz at the button below. El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 20 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook Coming Out Workshop 1st Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free to participate, this one day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 opt.2 or click the button below to schedule. Contact Us I DIGIQUEER INDIGIQUEER IS FOR ALL IDENTIFYING LGBTQ2S+ NATIVE AND INDIGENOUS PEOPLE. 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 21 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... OVE BE 13TH CULTURAL EVENTS, CONVERSATIONS, CELEBRATIONS & FRIENDS OKLA~OMANS FOR EQUALITY 621 E4TH ST, TULSA, O K ok~homansf~oqualtty IndigiQueer Friday, November 13, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m Meets via Zoom IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. "IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement." – Vnokeckv. For more information or link to virtual meeting contact Kao with the buttons below: Email Facebook SAGE CARES 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 22 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have Resumed SAGE Tulsa has their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. You can also join via call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. Contact Us ~ Q JoinSAGE --- onZoom TUESDAY MORNINGS @lOAM Can't be here in person? Now you can join SAGE Tulsa virtually. The virtual SAGE Tulsa group meets Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. Click below to contact us for the link to the virtual meeting. Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 23 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... BOOK OF THE WEEK Boy Erased by Garrard Conley Through an institutionalized Twelve-Step Program, Garrad Conley was supposed to emerge heterosexual. Instead, even when faced with a harrowing and brutal journey, Garrard found the strength and understanding to break out in search of his true self and forgiveness. AUTHOR SPOTLICiHT A survivor of conversion therapy, Conley is an activist and speaker lecturing at schools and venues across the country on radical compassion, writing through trauma, and growing up gay in the complicated South. -~--- C.ARRAD CONLEY 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 24 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... Check out our selection of colorful pride masks, now available at the Pride Store and on our online shop! Each mask is $7 and 100% your purchase supports the work of OKEQ! Click the image below to visit our store. DKEQ CORDNDVIRUS GUIDELINES: 1. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 2. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 3. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. 4. IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING FEVER, SHORTNESS OF BREATH, COUGHING, OR ANY OTHER SYMPTOM LISTED BY THE CDC, PLEASE REMAIN AT HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 25 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 Equality 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 26 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... ■ • Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider For lntormation that leads to the Arrest and conu1c11on 01 the Person or Persons Responslble tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 27 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... on Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, uust1n Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' Anvone with lnfonnatlon Is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI bV Calling the Agency's TIP line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng d s@osbl. k. v McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 28 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 29 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6537 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 30 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org Virtual Thursday, October 8th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 31 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org sao-e ~~~~:~~! ~~ LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Equality Game Night 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 32 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. ---- "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! COVID-19 Canceled: Programming • LEGAL A10 thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 33 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. www.okeq.org/eba ----- -- OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 34 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits Outreach and Library Services He / Him / His Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC S~NSOl!EOn ll1E0lOIIGll(AJSU fAMl~YfOUNOATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner Tracy Allen SAGE 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 35 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman 4/28/26, 11:10 AM �Happy Indigenous People’s Day 36 of 36 Visit Our Website https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Indigenous-People-s-Day.... View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:10 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9ff0b169f11178f1f192c238371dc52a.pdf d593501273d765d838f545df5fb466d1 PDF Text Text Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 1 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews July 27th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 2 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... ACTION ALERT: This past week, the Housing and Urban Development Department (HUD) announced a new proposed rule called “Community Planning and Development Housing Programs: Making Admission or Placement Determinations Based on Sex in Facilities”. It guts protections for transgender people by removing critical equal access protections to regulations meant to ensure the safety of anyone in need of HUD-funded programs. 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 3 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... By removing these protections, shelters and programs that receive or operate using HUD grants are now able to ignore nondiscrimination protections for transgender people, leaving them vulnerable to being denied shelter and forced out onto the streets. One in three transgender Americans has been homeless at some point in their lives. Shelters are often their best access-point to programs that provide safe individual housing – which is a critical need during a global pandemic and an economic downturn. Every person should have access to safe shelter free of discrimination. Preserving the Equal Access Rule is critical to ensure the safety of transgender people in need of shelter. We have 60 days to tell this Administration that their plans to cut protections for transgender people will not be tolerated. The Equal Access Rule’s protections against discrimination are critical to ensure safe access to shelter for transgender people experiencing homelessness, survivors of violence, and fleeing disasters. Tell the Administration not to gut these protections by clicking below: Click Here to Say No Tulsa LGBTQ+ History Night: Tuesday, July 28, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. Join the OKEQ History Project as we look back on different decades of Tulsa 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 4 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... LGBTQ+ history from the OKEQ History Project Room inside the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This Tuesday we will be discussing Don't Ask Don't Tell and our guests are those who served in the military during DADT. You will be able to view History Night on OKEQ's Facebook page! Contact Us Join SAGE onZ==ni TUESDAY MORNINGS @10AM Now you can join SAGE Tulsa virtually. The virtual SAGE Tulsa group meets Tuesdays at 10:30 a.m. Click below to contact us for the link to the virtual meeting. Contact Us SAGE CARES 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 5 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have Resumed SAGE Tulsa has their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:30 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. You can also join via call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. Contact Us 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 6 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... SAGE Tulsa Chat Call Thursday SAGE Tulsa is also now available on Thursdays at 2:00 p.m. To join, call (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. Equality Gaming Night Online Friday, July 31, 2020 at 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Let's play some games on Zoom while meeting new people and enjoying our own drinks and snacks at home. Register 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 7 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... Warrior Sisters Self Defense is Back Monday, August 3, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite all those currently engaging in street protests for black lives, community safety, and racial justice to train with Warrior Sisters in de-escalation and community intervention! --We will cover-Protest Awareness & Safety Tactics De-escalation Boundary Setting By-stander / up-stander intervention --Protect yourselves and stand up for your comrades while out in the streets and organizing for justice! Learn practical de-escalation techniques and options for interrupting injustices and supporting community members targeted by racist violence. --No experience needed Free for all Space is Limited Social distancing and masks are required. Register Here 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 8 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Starting August 8th Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 9 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... Karen Levitt Davis Aug. 16, 1945 - July 15, 2020 Karen was a supportive ally to the LGBTQ+ community. In 2010 she was an Oklahomans for Equality Community Hero award recipient. See Karen's Obituary David Smith Nov. 3, 1964 - July 17, 2020 Services to be announced. Sammy Joe Remington June 24, 1990 - July 8, 2020 A memorial service will be held on Tuesday, July 14th 2020 at 9:05 AM at the Sperry First Baptist Church (301 W Main St, Sperry, OK 74073). Sammy's Obituary .\ -= ! ::\ ~- ......... _, • ...:. - 'I ' / 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 10 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... Jaumia Shan Johnson April 4, 1986 - July 5, 2020 There was a family service on July 13, 2020. anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + August 14th at 7:00 p.m. 1 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 741 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday, August 14, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 11 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends.Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent at spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions please contact Liz at the button below. El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on First Thursday Art Show July 2020 - ArtsAFlame Ra Vashtar is a mixed media artist who specializes in the use of monsters as symbols for his experience and emotions. Born in Ponca City, OK, Ra was home-schooled until high 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 12 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... school, where difficulty fitting in led him to explore an interest in expressing himself in art class as a way to cope. Ra received a diploma from CG Spectrum for Advanced Concept Art and currently works as a full-time artist, illustrating comics, designing art assets for indie video games, and making monster figurines for people to “adopt.” He is currently featured in Hot Topic's Creator Program, where his designs are available on t-shirts via the Hot Topic website. Ra sees monsters as symbols for marginalization of misunderstood people, and uses them in his advocacy for LGBTQIA+ and mental health issues. He writes articles and does illustrations for Neuro-Clastic, a Neuro-diversity blog, so he can empower others on the Autism Spectrum. As an autistic, queer, and transgender person who struggles with mental health, Ra hopes to humanize these issues, even when that means drawing things that aren't exactly human themselves. Click Here To Purchase .... ok Reading Rainbow Book Club 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 13 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... Rainbow Book club welcomes everyone who would like to participate. Currently we meet for one hour, twice a month virtually via Zoom. The only thing we we ask is that you are kind and respectful and keep the discussion related to the book. We will discuss and answer critical questions about the current book we are reading. A Zoom link will be provided once you have reached out. For any questions or concerns please contact us below. August 16th 3:00p.m. August 30th 3:00p.m. Contact Donovid Sign Up via Facebook Gender Support Group Wednesday, July 29 at 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 14 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... Our Gender support Group is coming back Live and in person Wednesday June 24th! We will continue to offer a virtual version for anyone who needs access. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group . Contact Us 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 15 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... Christmas in July fundraiser on Facebook Live Friday July 31, at 8:00 p.m. - 9:00p.m. Facebook Live event benefiting I.C.A.O.'s General Fund . Looking forward to seeing you there! Click Below to Connect on Facebook Connect with I.C.AO. DKEQ CDRDNDVIRUS GUIDELINES: 1. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 16 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... 2. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 3. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPA□ AT THE FRONT OESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. 4. IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING FEVER, SHORTNESS OF BREATH, COUGHING, OR ANY OTHER SYMPTOM LISTED BY THE CDC, PLEASE REMAIN AT HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Queer the Census 2020 Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Census Information Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 17 of 28 COPES 918-744-4800 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 18 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Contact Us KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THEGEOAGEltAIHA FAMILY FOUNDATION ' Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 19 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 20 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... For information mat leads to the Arrest and conu1c11on 01 the Person or Persons Responsible tor me murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob al Rover Taxi s ' I I I Anvone with information is asked to conlact the McAlester Police Deuanment al 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI bv Calling lhe Auencv·s Tip line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng u s OSbl k. ov McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 21 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 22 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 23 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. COVID-19 Canceled: Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGALAID th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, August 13th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to Free Yoga Class supporting Lesbian, Gay, 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 24 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... at OkEq Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SOS Group Sunday's at 1:30 p.m Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOS-Tulsa.org Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Gender Support Program Survivors of Incest Anonymous Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - . 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 25 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org sa(Te ~~~~:~~! ~, LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -. "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 26 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, Wednesday ideas, contacts, products and services, and also 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. www.okeq.org/eba ----- -- Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 27 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Tracy Allen SAGE Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org KAISER Ml:DICA~ ~!!~~~ED ■Y ... fAMoLYl'OUNN,IDN Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits Outreach and Library Services Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org 4/28/26, 10:57 AM �Action Alert: Transgender People Would Be Blocked From Federally F... 28 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Action-Alert--Transgender-Peopl... Anna Them Puhl Audio and Lighting Engineer Lynn Riggs Theater Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Bob Hanson Marcia Keesee Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 10:57 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e58b64e287504575456fff66a91aeed8.pdf 553d54dd524de0326f32fc4618385133 PDF Text Text End Conversion Therapy 1 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews August 3rd, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 2 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... We Are So Proud of Anna Puhl 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 3 of 29 Outstanding Sound Design ANNA PUHL and LUKE THOMPSON The Nostalgia Will Eat Itself https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... Outstanding Lighting Design T..!.. I I~ ANNA PUHL The Nostalgia Will Eat Itself Congratulations Anna The 2020 Tulsa Awards for Theatre Excellence recognized Anna Puhl for Outstanding Lighting Design and Outstanding Sound Design during a virtual ceremony on Sunday, August 2nd. The George Kaiser Family Foundation established the Tulsa Awards for Theatre Excellence (TATE Awards) in 2008 to highlight the accomplishments of local theatre groups and outstanding contributions to the performing arts community. Anna is the newest member of Oklahomans for Equality staff and the new Technical Coordinator for the Lynn Riggs Auditorium. 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 4 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... Warrior Sisters Self Defense is Back Monday, August 3, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite all those currently engaging in street protests for black lives, community safety, and racial justice to train with Warrior Sisters in de-escalation and community intervention! --We will cover-Protest Awareness & Safety Tactics De-escalation Boundary Setting By-stander / up-stander intervention --Protect yourselves and stand up for your comrades while out in the streets and organizing for justice! Learn practical de-escalation techniques and options for interrupting injustices and supporting community members targeted by racist violence. --No experience needed Free for all Space is Limited Social distancing and masks are required. Register Here Grow the Lilacs are the v ry soul of Oklahoma!" -Oscar Ha111111erstein II STHEATRE P 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 5 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS Thursday, August 20 and 21, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Echo Theatre Company, in conjunction with the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center’s Lynn Riggs Theatre, is set to premiere MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS, a play about the life of gay Cherokee playwright, Lynn Riggs. The show will take place in August 20 and 21 at the Lynn Riggs Theatre in Tulsa, Oklahoma. MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS will play to a limited social-distanced seated crowd of 25 in the Lynn Riggs Theatre on Thursday August 20, 2020 and Friday, August 21, 2020 at 7:00pm. Admission is FREE and will be limited to the first 25 tickets each night. 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 6 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... Riggs is portrayed by Russ Tallchief, an Osage actor who is descended from famous Osage ballerinas Maria and Marjorie Tallchief. Tallchief is an Osage playwright, director, actor, and is currently the Director of Student Diversity and Inclusion at Oklahoma City University. Gregory Hinton, the playwright, is also an author and lecturer, and produced OUT WEST, a national museum education series dedicated to shining a light on LGBTQ history and culture in the American West. The story of Lynn Riggs, a rural-born gay man who evacuates home and community for a higher creative calling, resonates deeply with Hinton. RSVP HERE 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 7 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... ACTION ALERT: This past week, the Housing and Urban Development Department (HUD) announced a new proposed rule called “Community Planning and Development Housing Programs: Making Admission or Placement Determinations Based on Sex in Facilities”. It guts protections for transgender people by removing critical equal access protections to regulations meant to ensure the safety of anyone in need of HUD-funded programs. By removing these protections, shelters and programs that receive or operate using HUD grants are now able to ignore nondiscrimination protections for transgender people, leaving them vulnerable to being denied shelter and forced out onto the streets. One in three transgender Americans has been homeless at some point in their lives. Shelters are often their best access-point to programs that provide safe individual housing – which is a critical need during a global pandemic and an economic downturn. Every person should have access to safe shelter free of discrimination. Preserving the Equal Access Rule is critical to ensure the safety of transgender people in need of shelter. We have 60 days to tell this Administration that their plans to cut protections for transgender people will not be tolerated. The Equal Access Rule’s protections against discrimination are critical to ensure safe access to shelter for transgender people experiencing homelessness, survivors of violence, and those fleeing disasters. Tell the Administration not to gut these protections by clicking below: Click Here to Say No Join SAGE onZ==m TUESDAY MORNINGS @lOAM 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 8 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... Now you can join SAGE Tulsa virtually. The virtual SAGE Tulsa group meets Tuesdays at 10:30 a.m. Click below to contact us for the link to the virtual meeting. Contact Us SAGE CARES SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have Resumed SAGE Tulsa has their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:30 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. You can also join via call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 9 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... SAGE Tulsa Chat Call Thursday SAGE Tulsa is also now available on Thursdays at 2:00 p.m. To join, call (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 10 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Starting August 8th Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 11 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... Tulsa LGBTQ+ History Night: Community Centers Tuesday, August 11, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. Join the OKEQ History Project as we look back on different decades of Tulsa LGBTQ+ history from the OKEQ History Project Room inside the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! You will be able to view History Night on OKEQ's Facebook page! Contact Us In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost Karen Levitt Davis Aug. 16, 1945 - July 15, 2020 Karen was a supportive ally to the LGBTQ+ community. In 2010 she was an Oklahomans for Equality Community Hero award recipient. See Karen's Obituary 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 12 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... David Smith Nov. 3, 1964 - July 17, 2020 Services to be announced. Sammy Joe Remington June 24, 1990 - July 8, 2020 A memorial service will be held on Tuesday, July 14th 2020 at 9:05 AM at the Sperry First Baptist Church (301 W Main St, Sperry, OK 74073). Sammy's Obituary Jaumia Shan Johnson April 4, 1986 - July 5, 2020 There was a family service on July 13, 2020. anish Speaking Social Su --- --- - -• - - -- - - - - - - - ~- . -• . - 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 13 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... rupo ae apoyo soc1a1 ae hispana L TQ + August 21st at 7:00 p.m. 1 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 741 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday, August 21, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends.Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent at Spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions please contact Liz at the button below. El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 14 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on First Thursday Art Show July 2020 - ArtsAFlame Ra Vashtar is a mixed media artist who specializes in the use of monsters as symbols for his experience and emotions. Born in Ponca City, OK, Ra was home-schooled until high school, where difficulty fitting in led him to explore an interest in expressing himself in art class as a way to cope. Ra received a diploma from CG Spectrum for Advanced Concept Art and currently works as a full-time artist, illustrating comics, designing art assets for indie video games, and making monster figurines for people to “adopt.” He is currently featured in Hot Topic's Creator Program, where his designs are available on t-shirts via the Hot Topic website. Ra sees monsters as symbols for marginalization of misunderstood people, and uses them in his advocacy for LGBTQIA+ and mental health issues. He writes articles and does illustrations for Neuro-Clastic, a Neuro-diversity blog, so he can empower others on the Autism Spectrum. As an autistic, queer, and transgender person who struggles with mental health, Ra hopes to humanize these issues, even when that means drawing things that aren't exactly human themselves. 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 15 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... Click Here To Purchase •'II BooltClub --- 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 16 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... Reading Rainbow Book Club Rainbow Book club welcomes everyone who would like to participate. Currently we meet for one hour, twice a month virtually via Zoom. The only thing we we ask is that you are kind and respectful and keep the discussion related to the book. We will discuss and answer critical questions about the current book we are reading. A Zoom link will be provided once you have reached out. For any questions or concerns please contact us below. August 16th 3:00p.m. August 30th 3:00p.m. Contact Donovid Sign Up via Facebook Gender Support Group Wednesday, August 5, at 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 17 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Our Gender support Group is coming back Live and in person Wednesday June 24th! We will continue to offer a virtual version for anyone who needs access. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group. Contact Us DKEQ CDRDNDVIRUS GUIDELINES: 1. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 2. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 3. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. 4. IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING FEVER, SHORTNESS OF BREA TH, COUGHING, OR ANY OTHER SYMPTOM LISTED BY THE CDC, PLEASE REMAIN AT HOME. 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 18 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... 5. OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Queer the Census 2020 Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Census Information Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 19 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 20 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... Email Us Contact Us KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THEGEOAGEltAIHA FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 21 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider For information that leads to the Arrest and conuiclion 01 the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob al Rover Taxi s ' Anvone with information is aslled to contact die McAlester Ponce Deuanment at 918-423-1212 or die 0SBI bv Calling the Agency's Tip line at 1·800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng d s@os Loll. ov McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 22 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 23 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 24 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. COVID-19 Canceled: Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL A10 thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, August 13th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 25 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... providing fun group activities, Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SOS Group Sunday's at 1:30 p.m Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOS-Tulsa.org Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Gender Support Program Survivors of Incest Anonymous Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. --- - - 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 26 of 29 (First time interview required before attending) Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org sa(Te ~~~~:~~! ~, LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -. "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 27 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. and community. www.okeq.org/eba ----- -- Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 28 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... ' - . \ Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Tracy Allen SAGE Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits Outreach and Library Services Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:00 AM �End Conversion Therapy 29 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/End-Conversion-Therapy.html?so... Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator Lynn Riggs Theater Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Bob Hanson Marcia Keesee Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:00 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c02e37d409e31ca070b0f5dfd82e86d6.pdf 4eb1f92bd5be2a81050b1e4d00277792 PDF Text Text Get Your Tickets for More Sky 1 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews August 10th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! "Lynn Riggs and Green Grow the Lilacs are the v ry soul of Oklahoma!" -Oscar Ham111erstein II 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 2 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS Thursday, August 20 and 21, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Echo Theatre Company, in conjunction with the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center’s Lynn Riggs Theatre, is set to premiere MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS, a play about the life of gay Cherokee playwright, Lynn Riggs. The show will take place in August 20 and 21 at the Lynn Riggs Theatre in Tulsa, Oklahoma. MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS will play to a limited social-distanced seated crowd of 25 in the Lynn Riggs Theatre on Thursday August 20, 2020 and Friday, August 21, 2020 at 7:00pm. Admission is FREE and will be limited to the first 25 tickets each night. 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 3 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... Riggs is portrayed by Russ Tallchief, an Osage actor who is descended from famous Osage ballerinas Maria and Marjorie Tallchief. Tallchief is an Osage playwright, director, actor, and is currently the Director of Student Diversity and Inclusion at Oklahoma City University. Gregory Hinton, the playwright, is also an author and lecturer, and produced OUT WEST, a national museum education series dedicated to shining a light on LGBTQ history and culture in the American West. The story of Lynn Riggs, a rural-born gay man who evacuates home and community for a higher creative calling, resonates deeply with Hinton. RSVP HERE 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 4 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... INDIGIQUEER IS FOR ALL IDENTIFYING LGBTQ2S+ NATIVE AND INDIGENOUS PEOPLE. IUBUST 1•TH tt BP Cultural Events, Conversations, Celebrations &Friends Oklahomans for Equality 621 E4th St, Tulsa, OK CONTACT KAO FOR MORE INFORMATION 918.904.1869 / KAO.MORRIS@OKEQ.ORG oklahomans lo, oqu Illy IndigiQueer Friday August 14, 2020 06:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting IndigiQueer is for all identifying LGBTQ2S+ Native and Indigenous people. An indigenous space for cultural learning and activism. Click the link below to get information to participate. Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 5 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... RI ta£ INIDRIIATlllt TfXT/t:All KAO 918 9041869 POC in the Park Saturday August 15, 2020 7:00 p.m 41st Street Plaza Riverside POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. We will meet at the 41st Street Plaza and social distance on Riverside. Come walk, bike, skate and enjoy a Tulsa sunset on the river. For more information contact: Click Here to Contact Us • Join Oklahomans for Equality RAINBOW Rnnll' r1 1 IR 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 6 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... Every 2nd and-4th Sunday at 2pm Email donovid.sekulitsookeq.org for more info , ; This Month we are reading A Single Man. A novel by Christopher Isherwood. ASingle Man tr depicts one day in the life of Cieorge,a Middle-aged EnglishMan wh:::> is a professor at a Los Angeles universrly r, for rvtore ivfo pleCASe ervtail donovid.sekultt-s@oke~.org Reading Rainbow Book Club: A Single Man Rainbow Book club welcomes everyone who would like to participate. Currently we meet for one hour, twice a month virtually via Zoom. The only thing we we ask is that you are kind and respectful and keep the discussion related to the book. We will discuss and answer critical questions about the current book we are reading. 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 7 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... A Zoom link will be provided once you have reached out. For any questions or concerns please contact us below. August 16th 2:00p.m. (Page: 1 - 101) August 30th 2:00p.m. (Page: 102 - 186) Contact Donovid Sign Up via Facebook Warrior Sisters Self Defense is Back Monday, August 17, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite all those currently engaging in street protests for black lives, community safety, and racial justice to train with Warrior Sisters in de-escalation and community intervention! --We will cover-Protest Awareness & Safety Tactics De-escalation Boundary Setting By-stander / up-stander intervention 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 8 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... --Protect yourselves and stand up for your comrades while out in the streets and organizing for justice! Learn practical de-escalation techniques and options for interrupting injustices and supporting community members targeted by racist violence. --No experience needed Free for all Space is Limited Social distancing and masks are required. Register Here Tulsa LGBTQ+ History Night: Community Centers Tuesday, August 18, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. Join the OKEQ History Project as we look back on different decades of Tulsa LGBTQ+ history from the OKEQ History Project Room inside the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! You will be able to view History Night on OKEQ's Facebook page! Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 9 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library ~ ~ ~ tlj~ 1 ~ (;Jwt✓- ~ -... -... -... -.... ~ ~ -~ -... -.... -.... -.... 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Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Our Gender support Group is coming back Live and in person Wednesday June 24th! We will continue to offer a virtual version for anyone who needs access. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group. Contact Us anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 11 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... August 21st at 7:00 p.m. 1 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 741 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday, August 21, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends.Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent at Spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions please contact Liz at the button below. El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 12 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... Join SAGE onZ==ni TUESDAY MORNINGS @lOAM Now you can join SAGE Tulsa virtually. The virtual SAGE Tulsa group meets Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. Click below to contact us for the link to the virtual meeting. Contact Us SAGE CARES SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 13 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... Resumed SAGE Tulsa has their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. You can also join via call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. Contact Us SAGE Tulsa Chat Call Thursday SAGE Tulsa is also now available on Thursdays at 2:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 14 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... To join, call (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 15 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... Karen Levitt Davis Aug. 16, 1945 - July 15, 2020 Karen was a supportive ally to the LGBTQ+ community. In 2010 she was an Oklahomans for Equality Community Hero award recipient. See Karen's Obituary David Smith Nov. 3, 1964 - July 17, 2020 Services to be announced. 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 16 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... Contact Us for Details We Are So Proud of Anna Puhl 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 17 of 32 . ... https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... ,, •. - .I.:isif ( \', ' • The Nostalgia Will Eat Itself - • I .~ ,' ,,,,,. - Outstanding Sound Design ANNA PUHL and LUKE THOMPSON ... • ' - I I I Outstanding Lighting Design T..!.. I I~ ANNA PUHL The Nostalgia Will Eat Itself Congratulations Anna The 2020 Tulsa Awards for Theatre Excellence recognized Anna Puhl for Outstanding Lighting Design and Outstanding Sound Design during a virtual ceremony on Sunday, August 2nd. The George Kaiser Family Foundation established the Tulsa Awards for Theatre Excellence (TATE Awards) in 2008 to highlight the accomplishments of local theatre groups and outstanding contributions to the performing arts community. Anna is the newest member of Oklahomans for Equality staff and the new Technical Coordinator for the Lynn Riggs Auditorium. Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on First Thursday Art Show July 2020 - ArtsAFlame 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 18 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... Ra Vashtar is a mixed media artist who specializes in the use of monsters as symbols for his experience and emotions. Born in Ponca City, OK, Ra was homeschooled until high school, where difficulty fitting in led him to explore an interest in expressing himself in art class as a way to cope. Ra received a diploma from CG Spectrum for Advanced Concept Art and currently works as a full-time artist, illustrating comics, designing art assets for indie video games, and making monster figurines for people to “adopt.” He is currently featured in Hot Topic's Creator Program, where his designs are available on t-shirts via the Hot Topic website. Ra sees monsters as symbols for marginalization of misunderstood people, and uses them in his advocacy for LGBTQIA+ and mental health issues. He writes articles and does illustrations for Neuro-Clastic, a Neuro-diversity blog, so he can empower others on the Autism Spectrum. As an autistic, queer, and transgender person who struggles with mental health, Ra hopes to humanize these issues, even when that means drawing things that aren't exactly human themselves. Click Here To Purchase 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 19 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... DON•T LET HUD DISCRIMINATE AGAINST THE TRANSGENDER COMMUNITY ACTION ALERT: This past week, the Housing and Urban Development Department (HUD) announced a new proposed rule called “Community Planning and Development Housing Programs: Making Admission or Placement Determinations Based on Sex in Facilities”. It guts protections for transgender people by removing critical equal access protections to regulations meant to ensure the safety of anyone in need of HUD-funded programs. By removing these protections, shelters and programs that receive or operate using HUD grants are now able to ignore nondiscrimination protections for transgender people, leaving them vulnerable to being denied shelter and forced out onto the streets. One in three transgender Americans has been homeless at some point in their lives. Shelters are often their best access-point to programs that provide safe individual housing – which is a critical need during a global pandemic and an economic downturn. Every person should have access to safe shelter free of discrimination. Preserving the Equal Access Rule is critical to ensure the safety of transgender people in need of shelter. We have 60 days to tell this Administration that their plans to cut protections for transgender people will not be tolerated. The Equal Access Rule’s protections against discrimination are critical to ensure safe access to shelter for transgender people experiencing homelessness, survivors of violence, and those fleeing disasters. Tell the Administration not to gut these protections by clicking below: Click Here to Say No , I - , I - ',TH£ EQUALI19 CEN1ER rs O'PEN! ', , ' I ' ' 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 20 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... e come -- 'I I eve m1sse you. ' ..., ✓ -- 'I I - ... ✓ ' ..., I ... DKEQ CORDNDVIRUS GUIDELINES: 1. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 2. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 3. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. 4. IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING FEVER, SHORTNESS OF BREATH, COUGHING, OR ANY OTHER SYMPTOM LISTED BY THE CDC, PLEASE REMAIN AT HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 21 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... Queer the Census 2020 Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Census Information Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 22 of 32 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 23 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Contact Us KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THEGEOAGEltAIHA FAMILY FOUNDATION ' Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 24 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider For 1n1ormat1on that leads to the Arrest and conu1c11on 01 the Person or Persons Responslble tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' I I I Anvone with Information Is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the DSBI bV Calling the Agency's Tip line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emailing d s@ bl 11.ll_OV McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 25 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 26 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... 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You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. COVID-19 Canceled: Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGALAID ~ SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, August 13th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 28 of 32 Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SOS Group Sunday's at 1:30 p.m Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOS-Tulsa.org Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Survivors of Incest Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. -- - -- 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 29 of 32 Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org sa(Te ~~~~:~~! ~, LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - . "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ARTS AND CRAFTS N: :T.•·.· AT THE OENNIS R NE!Ll EQUALITY CENTER Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 30 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. and community. www.okeq.org/eba ----- -- Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 31 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Tracy Allen SAGE Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org KAISER Ml:DICA~ ~!!~~~ED ■Y ... fAMoLYl'OUNN,IDN Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits Outreach and Library Services Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:02 AM �Get Your Tickets for More Sky 32 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Tickets-for-More-Sky.h... Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator Lynn Riggs Theater Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. 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SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews August 17th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 2 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... TH Warrior Sisters Self Defense is Back Monday, August 24, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 3 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite all those currently engaging in street protests for black lives, community safety, and racial justice to train with Warrior Sisters in de-escalation and community intervention! --We will cover-Protest Awareness & Safety Tactics De-escalation Boundary Setting By-stander / up-stander intervention --Protect yourselves and stand up for your comrades while out in the streets and organizing for justice! Learn practical de-escalation techniques and options for interrupting injustices and supporting community members targeted by racist violence. --No experience needed Free for all Space is Limited Social distancing and masks are required. Register Here Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK BALDWIN If Beale Street Could Talk by James Baldwin. 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 4 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... 1 VIU llll vu~u Ult: it: yie~ VI 1 •~u, a lllllit:lit:it:u- year-old girl, in love with Fonny, a young sculptor who is the father of her child, Baldwin's story is a kaleidoscope of emotions- affection, despair, and hope. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT He was born in New York on August 2,1924. He was an openly gay, African-American writer. He is considered one of the most prolific writers of our time. A fierce civil and social rights critics. He was known for his essays on the Black experience in America. ~-~ )AMES BALDWIN ~//////////////~ ~----~ ~ GROUP VIRTUAL ~ ~ ~ ~//////////////~ Gender Support Group 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 5 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... Wednesday, August 19, at 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Our Gender support Group is coming back Live and in person Wednesday June 24th! We will continue to offer a virtual version for anyone who needs access. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group. Contact Us Equality Gaming Night Friday August 21, 6:30 p.m - 7:30 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Let's Play some games on Zoom while meeting new people and enjoying our own drinks and snacks at home. If you would like to join click the button below to email Jose.vega@okeq.org for the link! you don't want to miss out on all the fun! 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 6 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... Contact Us anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + August 21st at 7:00 p.m. 1 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 741 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday, August 21, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends.Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent at Spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions please contact Liz at the button below. 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 7 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras Tulsa LGBTQ+ History Night: Community Centers Tuesday, August 25, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. Join the OKEQ History Project as we look back on different decades of Tulsa LGBTQ+ history from the OKEQ History Project Room inside the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! You will be able to view History Night on OKEQ's Facebook page! Contact Us ~ 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 8 of 33 ~ https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... ~~~ vv ,: ~@l@ ASingle Man tt- depicts one day in -!he life of ~eor0f,,a Middle-a0f,d EnglishMan wro is a professor at a Los ~ ..J.s'-~J r, ~ Angele,s university jJ ,, ~ J. l ~- • "" "'\.d \.,~e to ,o, \f '10'°' WO . aQteS QY\0 ff\eet'"q see the d be\.oW S to -reQ ~Qqe u,q.1-1011 16th @ 2.?t1' St AU(31J. 102.-1is1 th @ 2.?t1' t?<3· , ,J t• ·i. ►► ~trt-t.,,., ""... ti ~ • • This IVlonlh Wfl am rwding A Sin.gle Man. A rove.I by Christopher Isherwood. AtJ.(3USt ~O t: . i . I ..,·• • f '.) - for More, iv1fo please, e,IY\ail domvid.sekulits@okeq.or0 ffeJfeJ '" 0,,,,,,.,,., s,111/ifJ Reading Rainbow Book Club: A Single Man Rainbow Book club welcomes everyone who would like to participate. Currently we meet for one hour, twice a month virtually via Zoom. The only thing we we ask is that you are kind and respectful and keep the discussion related to the book. We will discuss and answer critical questions about the current book we are reading. A Zoom link will be provided once you have reached out. For any questions or concerns please contact us below. August 30th 2:00p.m. (Page: 102 - 186) Contact Donovid Sign Up via Facebook 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 9 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 10 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... Visit Site Join SAGE ~ onZ==m TUESDAY MORNINGS @lOAM Now you can join SAGE Tulsa virtually. The virtual SAGE Tulsa group meets Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. Click below to contact us for the link to the virtual meeting. Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 11 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... TIie Bll■allty Center Pride Sta1-e sells pride masks! Check out our selection of colorful pride masks, now available at the Pride Store and on our online shop! Each mask is $7 and 100% your purchase supports the work of OKEQ! Click the image below to visit our store. 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 12 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... SAGE CARES SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have Resumed SAGE Tulsa has their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. You can also join via call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 13 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... SAGE Tulsa Chat Call Thursday SAGE Tulsa is also now available on Thursdays at 2:00 p.m. To join, call (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 14 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost Karen Levitt Davis Aug. 16, 1945 - July 15, 2020 Karen was a supportive ally to the LGBTQ+ community. In 2010 she was an Oklahomans for Equality Community Hero award recipient. See Karen's Obituary 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 15 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... ___... ' I I David Smith Nov. 3, 1964 - July 17, 2020 Services to be announced. Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 16 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 17 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... Contact Us for Details •• 0 ~ - @ ~ oklanomansforequallty Mask-Arade: Smoke Lounge Friday September 11 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Aunt Tara's Canna Lounge & Event Center 2606 S Sheridan Rd Suite 210, Tulsa, OK 74129 LGBTQ+ Night at Aunt Tara's Canna Lounge and Event Center. $10 to get in and 10% of the entry fee goes back to Equality Center! Raffles, Contests and More! Must be 21 or older! Wanting to be a vendor? Click the buttons below. Email Tiffany Alexander Mask-Arade on Facebook 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 18 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... Grow the Lilacs are the v ry soul of Oklahoma!" -Oscar Hammerstein II STHEATRE P MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS Thursday, September 17 and 18, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Echo Theatre Company, in conjunction with the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center’s 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 19 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... Lynn Riggs Theatre, is set to premiere MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS, a play about the life of gay Cherokee playwright, Lynn Riggs. The show will take place in September 17 and 18 at the Lynn Riggs Theatre in Tulsa, Oklahoma. MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS will play to a limited social-distanced seated crowd of 25 in the Lynn Riggs Theatre on Thursday September 18, 2020 and Friday, September 17, 2020 at 7:00pm. Admission is FREE and will be limited to the first 25 tickets each night. Riggs is portrayed by Russ Tallchief, an Osage actor who is descended from famous Osage ballerinas Maria and Marjorie Tallchief. Tallchief is an Osage playwright, director, actor, and is currently the Director of Student Diversity and Inclusion at Oklahoma City University. Gregory Hinton, the playwright, is also an author and lecturer, and produced OUT WEST, a national museum education series dedicated to shining a light on LGBTQ history and culture in the American West. The story of Lynn Riggs, a rural-born gay man who evacuates home and community for a higher creative calling, resonates deeply with Hinton. RSVP HERE 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 20 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... ACTION ALERT: This past week, the Housing and Urban Development Department (HUD) announced a new proposed rule called “Community Planning and Development Housing Programs: Making Admission or Placement Determinations Based on Sex in Facilities”. It guts protections for transgender people by removing critical equal access protections to regulations meant to ensure the safety of anyone in need of HUD-funded programs. By removing these protections, shelters and programs that receive or operate using HUD grants are now able to ignore nondiscrimination protections for transgender people, leaving them vulnerable to being denied shelter and forced out onto the streets. One in three transgender Americans has been homeless at some point in their lives. Shelters are often their best access-point to programs that provide safe individual housing – which is a critical need during a global pandemic and an economic downturn. Every person should have access to safe shelter free of discrimination. Preserving the Equal Access Rule is critical to ensure the safety of transgender people in need of shelter. We have 60 days to tell this Administration that their plans to cut protections for transgender people will not be tolerated. The Equal Access Rule’s protections against discrimination are critical to ensure safe access to shelter for transgender people experiencing homelessness, survivors of violence, and those fleeing disasters. Tell the Administration not to gut these protections by clicking below: Click Here to Say No , I - , I - ',TH£ EQUALI19 CEN1ER rs O'PEN! ', , ' I ' 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 21 of 33 -' -' https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... Welcome back! We've missed you! I -' -' I I I ' ..., ' ..., - ... - ... I I ✓ ✓ DKEQ CORDNDVIRUS GUIDELINES: 1. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 2. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 3. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. 4. IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING FEVER, SHORTNESS OF BREATH, COUGHING, OR ANY OTHER SYMPTOM LISTED BY THE CDC, PLEASE REMAIN AT HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 22 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... Queer the Census 2020 Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Census Information Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 23 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPON50REDBY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Allinnr~ 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 24 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider For lntormauon that leads to the Arrest and conu1ct1on 01 the Person or Persons Responslhle tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s'Jn nnn 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 25 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... &.u,uuu Anvone with lnfonnatlon Is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the 0S8I bV Calling the Agencv's Tip line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng u s@osb . II. ov McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 26 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. 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OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. COVID-19 Canceled: Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL A1n th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, August 13th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 28 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Alphabet Soup Youth Group open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. opportunities. Alphabet Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SOS Group Sunday's at 1:30 p.m Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOS-Tulsa.org Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 29 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... Individuals Support Group Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Survivors of Incest Anonymous SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org c) ~ LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for --- - - Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. sao-e ~~~~:~~! Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 30 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org . jess@anchoredbhc.com Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. and community. www.okeq.org/eba ----- -- Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 31 of 33 Jose Vega Deputy Director He / Him / His Jose.Vega@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �This Land Was Made for You and Me 32 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/This-Land-Was-Made-for-You-a... KAISH MEDICAL ~=::. ... ,_y,_,_ Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits Outreach and Library Services He / Him / His Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. 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SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews August 24th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 2 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... TH We Will Notarize Your Ballot! Save time, and protect your health. We are excited to announce that we have a notary that can notarize your ballot at no cost. If you would like to schedule to have your ballot notarized please contact us below: Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 3 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... TIie Bll■allty Center Pride Bta1-e sells pride masks! Check out our selection of colorful pride masks, now available at the Pride Store and on our online shop! Each mask is $7 and 100% your purchase supports the work of OKEQ! Click the image below to visit our store. 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 4 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 5 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... September Art Show - John Hammer Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Masks will be required and social distancing will be observed. Capacity will be limited to 20 persons at any time in the art gallery. We are constantly bombarded with one message at a time, over and over, until the next news cycle brings the latest message. Then it starts all over again. This happens so quickly and so often, we forget about what we were just upset about. It keeps us only focused on what’s in the news now. This series of protest art was created to bring attention to all of these things at once. There is no order to them and one is no more important than the other. Each has cycled through the news and become number one, but has not gone away as the others have come to take it’s place, one by one. See it Virtually You may also visit the Allie Jensen Memorial Gallery virtually. The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is featuring the works of John Hammer and their The Hammer Studio Art. Click the video below to visit John Hammers Art Exhibit. Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 6 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Tulsa LGBTQ+ History Night: Community Centers Tuesday, August 25, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. Join the OKEQ History Project as we look back on different decades of Tulsa LGBTQ+ history from the OKEQ History Project Room inside the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! You will be able to view History Night on OKEQ's Facebook page! Contact Us , : .. . ' This IYlmlh we, am rwding A Sin.gle Man. A novel by Christopher Isherwood. ASingle Man A~s UV)iversity •► ~trt-L.,,., ~ .,J.s'-~ J r, ""... ti tt- depicts me day iV) -!he life of ~eorge,a Middle-aged E~lishMaV) wh9 is a professor at a Los • • ~ 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 7 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... for More ivfo please eMail domvidsekulits@okeq.org ··-- Oe,,elliJ s,111/ifJ Reading Rainbow Book Club: A Single Man Rainbow Book club welcomes everyone who would like to participate. Currently we meet for one hour, twice a month virtually via Zoom. The only thing we we ask is that you are kind and respectful and keep the discussion related to the book. We will discuss and answer critical questions about the current book we are reading. A Zoom link will be provided once you have reached out. For any questions or concerns please contact us below. August 30th 2:00p.m. (Page: 102 - 186) Sign Up via Facebook Contact Donovid Warrior Sisters Self Defense is Back Monday, August 31, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 8 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite all those currently engaging in street protests for black lives, community safety, and racial justice to train with Warrior Sisters in de-escalation and community intervention! --We will cover-Protest Awareness & Safety Tactics De-escalation Boundary Setting By-stander / up-stander intervention --Protect yourselves and stand up for your comrades while out in the streets and organizing for justice! Learn practical de-escalation techniques and options for interrupting injustices and supporting community members targeted by racist violence. --No experience needed Free for all Space is Limited Social distancing and masks are required. Register Here Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Real Life by Brandon Taylor Wallace, the protagonist, grew up in Alabama and is now enrolled in a graduate - I I """"---------- I ..,._,.___ ____.________ 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 9 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... program for biochemistry in the Midwest, the only black student in his year. As a student, he falls for his white friend Miller. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Is a black queer writer. Having initially studied biochemistry, he went on to receive fellowships for his writing from Lambda Literary Foundation, Kimbilio Fiction, and the Tin House ~ - - Summer Writer's Workshop. Real Life is his debut novel published in 2020. BRANDON TAYLOR ~ ~//////////////~ ~----~ ~ GROUP VIRTUAL ~ ~ ~ ~//////////////~ Gender Support Group Wednesday, September 2, at 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 10 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Our Gender support Group is coming back Live and in person Wednesday June 24th! We will continue to offer a virtual version for anyone who needs access. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group. Contact Us Coming Out Workshop Mondays September 7, 6:00 - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 opt.2 or click the button below to schedule. Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 11 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Contact Us Gender Support Small Groups 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 On the 2nd Wednesday of every month the Gender Support Group will break out into four small groups. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Alex Wade for more information. Trans Women's Support r~ 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 12 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Support group for trans women. Topics will range from clothing to surgeries, hormones, femininity, or any other issue that affects our community. We are here to support one another in our transition journeys. Support group for trans men. Topics will range from clothing, surgeries, hormones, masculinity, or any other issue that affects our community. We are here to support one another in our transition journeys. Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 13 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Equality Gaming Night Friday September 19, 6:30 p.m - 7:30 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Let's Play some games on Zoom while meeting new people and enjoying our own drinks and snacks at home. If you would like to join click the button below to email Jose.vega@okeq.org for the link! you don't want to miss out on all the fun! Contact Us anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + ry Third Friday at 7:00 p. 1 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 741 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday September 19, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 14 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends.Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent at Spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions please contact Liz at the button below. El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 15 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 16 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Visit Site Join SAGE onZ==m TUESDAY MORNINGS @lOAM Now you can join SAGE Tulsa virtually. The virtual SAGE Tulsa group meets Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. Click below to contact us for the link to the virtual meeting. Contact Us SAGE CARES 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 17 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have Resumed SAGE Tulsa has their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. You can also join via call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 18 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... SAGE Tulsa Chat Call Thursday SAGE Tulsa is also now available on Thursdays at 2:00 p.m. To join, call (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 19 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 20 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Contact Us for Details rm Cf,~ Mask-Arade: Smoke Lounge Friday September 11 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Aunt Tara's Canna Lounge & Event Center 2606 S Sheridan Rd Suite 210, Tulsa, OK 74129 LGBTQ+ Night at Aunt Tara's Canna Lounge and Event Center. $10 to get in and 10% of the entry fee goes back to Equality Center! Raffles, Contests and More! Must be 21 or older! Wanting to be a vendor? Click the buttons below. 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 21 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Email Tiffany Alexander Mask-Arade on Facebook "Lynn Riggs and Green Grow the Lilacs are the v ry aoul of Oklahoma!" -Oscar Hammerstein II STHEATRE P 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 22 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Ill""'......_ __ MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS Thursday, September 17 and 18, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Echo Theatre Company, in conjunction with the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center’s Lynn Riggs Theatre, is set to premiere MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS, a play about the life of gay Cherokee playwright, Lynn Riggs. The show will take place in September 17 and 18 at the Lynn Riggs Theatre in Tulsa, Oklahoma. MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS will play to a limited social-distanced seated crowd of 25 in the Lynn Riggs Theatre on Thursday September 18, 2020 and Friday, September 17, 2020 at 7:00pm. Admission is FREE and will be limited to the first 25 tickets each night. Riggs is portrayed by Russ Tallchief, an Osage actor who is descended from famous Osage ballerinas Maria and Marjorie Tallchief. Tallchief is an Osage playwright, director, actor, and is currently the Director of Student Diversity and Inclusion at Oklahoma City University. Gregory Hinton, the playwright, is also an author and lecturer, and produced OUT WEST, a national museum education series dedicated to shining a light on LGBTQ history and culture in the American West. The story of Lynn Riggs, a rural-born gay man who evacuates home and community for a higher creative calling, resonates deeply with Hinton. RSVP HERE 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 23 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... ACTION ALERT: This past week, the Housing and Urban Development Department (HUD) announced a new proposed rule called “Community Planning and Development Housing Programs: Making Admission or Placement Determinations Based on Sex in Facilities”. It guts protections for transgender people by removing critical equal access protections to regulations meant to ensure the safety of anyone in need of HUD-funded programs. By removing these protections, shelters and programs that receive or operate using HUD grants are now able to ignore nondiscrimination protections for transgender people, leaving them vulnerable to being denied shelter and forced out onto the streets. One in three transgender Americans has been homeless at some point in their lives. Shelters are often their best access-point to programs that provide safe individual housing – which is a critical need during a global pandemic and an economic downturn. Every person should have access to safe shelter free of discrimination. Preserving the Equal Access Rule is critical to ensure the safety of transgender people in need of shelter. We have 60 days to tell this Administration that their plans to cut protections for transgender people will not be tolerated. The Equal Access Rule’s protections against discrimination are critical to ensure safe access to shelter for transgender people experiencing homelessness, survivors of violence, and those fleeing disasters. Tell the Administration not to gut these protections by clicking below: 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 24 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Click Here to Say No DKEQ CORDNDVIRUS GUIDELINES: 1. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 2. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 3. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. 4. IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING FEVER. SHORTNESS OF BREATH, COUGHING, OR ANY OTHER SYMPTOM LISTED BY THE CDC, PLEASE REMAIN AT HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 25 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Queer the Census 2020 Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Census Information ____ ,..._ __ _ ~~ ~ __-; 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 26 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER l'AMILYl'OI.INOATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 27 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider For lntormauon that leads to the Arrest and conu1cuon 01 the Person or Persons Responslble tor the murder 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 28 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' Anvone with Information Is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the DSBI bV Calling the Agencv·s TIP line at 1-800-522-8D17 or bV Emailing u s@osbl. k. ov McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 29 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 30 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marci Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. COVID-19 Canceled: Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID t&. SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, August 13th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq Brought to You Bi 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 31 of 36 month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... members. the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SOS Group Sunday's at 1:30 p.m This open Secular 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 32 of 36 Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOS-Tulsa.org Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Gender Support Program Survivors of Incest Anonymous Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. --- - - Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 33 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- --. SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. ARTS AND CRAFTS: ;~~ • Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com AT TH£ OENNIS R NE!Ll EQUALITY CENTER Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. and community. www.okeq.org/eba ---- Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 34 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Jose Vega Deputy Director He / Him / His Jose.Vega@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 35 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits Outreach and Library Services He / Him / His Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon 4/28/26, 11:04 AM �Stop in the Name of: September Art Show 36 of 36 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Stop-in-the-Name-of--September-... Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Bob Hanson Marcia Keesee Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:04 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c49db32fdda9ddd64cd45dc31b8362c4.pdf c4cadaffde36e77aea08cc0b3a08e696 PDF Text Text MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 1 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews August 31st, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 2020-2021 Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting OKEQ Board of Directors Election 40th Anniversary - - ♦ ♦ • 0 ■ -.·-•'• 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 2 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... The annual meeting for September 12th at 6:00 p.m. You can vote at the Dennis R. Neill Equalty Center or online. The ballot will be available on September 5th. The 40th Annual Meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held virtually on Saturday, September 12th, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. via Facebook Live. There will be space at The Dennis R Neil Center to view the meeting. Click the button below to sign up. Click Here to Sign Up for the Event on Facebook To be sensitive our members who are not on social media we will have a viewing area that you and the staff of the Facebook live event. For ongoing safety precautions You will be asked to check in at the door, with a temperature check, and a face mask covering your mouth and nose will be required during your stay. Click to Register for the In Person Viewing The membership of Oklahomans for Equality will hear the final results of the board election. There will be a presentation of the annual report by the Board of Directors and staff. This is a members-only event and you must be a voting member to attend. The voting membership is a $50.00 donation to Oklahomans for Equality. 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 3 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... Membership Congratulations to our own Shawna S. Baker! 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 4 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... • - - r 8' , 1 We are proud to announce and congratulate Shawna S. Baker for her recent appointment and confirmation to the Supreme Court of the Cherokee Nation. Shawna also serves on the Oklahomans for Equality Board of Trustees for the past 3 years. "With great humility, I am honored to become the third woman to serve on the Cherokee Nation Supreme Court. My deepest gratitude to Chief Chuck Hoskin Jr. for my nomination, to the Tribal Councilors for your votes to confirm, to Stacy Leeds for breaking the glass ceiling and lifting up other Cherokee women, to Justice John Garrett for presiding over my swearing-in, to Jayme for your commitment and devotion, to my dear friends and to so many others who made today possible in one way or another. I will forever be grateful beyond measure."- Shawna S Baker. Riggs and Green the Lilacs are the of Oklahoma!" 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 5 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... STHEATRE P MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS September 17 and 18, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Echo Theatre Company, in conjunction with the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center’s Lynn Riggs Theatre, is set to premiere MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS, a play about the life of gay Cherokee playwright, Lynn Riggs. The show will take place in September 17 and 18 at the Lynn Riggs Theatre in Tulsa, 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 6 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... Oklahoma. MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS will play to a limited social-distanced seated crowd of 25 in the Lynn Riggs Theatre on Thursday September 17, 2020 and Friday, September 18, 2020 at 7:00pm. Admission is FREE and will be limited to the first 25 tickets each night. Riggs is portrayed by Russ Tallchief, an Osage actor who is descended from famous Osage ballerinas Maria and Marjorie Tallchief. Tallchief is an Osage playwright, director, actor, and is currently the Director of Student Diversity and Inclusion at Oklahoma City University. Gregory Hinton, the playwright, is also an author and lecturer, and produced OUT WEST, a national museum education series dedicated to shining a light on LGBTQ history and culture in the American West. The story of Lynn Riggs, a rural-born gay man who evacuates home and community for a higher creative calling, resonates deeply with Hinton. Get Your Tickets Here 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 7 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... -Of September Art Show - John Hammer Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Masks will be required and social distancing will be observed. Capacity will be limited to 20 persons at any time in the art gallery. We are constantly bombarded with one message at a time, over and over, until the next news cycle brings the latest message. Then it starts all over again. This happens so quickly and so often, we forget about what we were just upset about. It keeps us only focused on what’s in the news now. This series of protest art was created to bring attention to all of these things at once. There is no order to them and one is no more important than the other. Each has cycled through the news and become number one, but has not gone away as the others have come to take it’s place, one by one. See it Virtually You may also visit the Allie Jensen Memorial Gallery virtually. The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is featuring the works of John Hammer and their The Hammer Studio Art. Click the video below to visit John Hammers Art Exhibit. 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 8 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAIHR FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 9 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... Make an Appointment Coming Out Workshop Mondays September 7, 6:00 - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free to participate, this one day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 opt.2 or click the button below to schedule. Contact Us Movie Night on The Parking Lot Friday, September 11, 2020 at 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Parking Lot for a free Movie night! Bring your own lawn chair, bean bag, picnic blanket anything you would like to get comfortable. Please wear mask, and marked sections will be placed on the lot for social distancing practice. Bring your own snacks and drinks! Everyone is welcome! 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 10 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... Reading Rainbow Book Cii b If you would like to Join see the meeting dates and pages to read below Sept 13th [part 1-2] This month we are reading Butterfly Boy A memoir by RJgoberto Gonm]e;z, Sept 27th [part.3-s] A unique coming out and - coming-of-age story of a firstgeneration Chicano who trades one life for another, only to discover that history and memory are not exchangeable or forgettable. for more Info please email donovid.sekullts@Okeq.org Warrior Sisters Self Defense Signup Monday, September 14, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite all those currently engaging in street protests for black lives, community safety, and racial justice to train with Warrior Sisters in de-escalation and community intervention! 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 11 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... --We will cover-Protest Awareness & Safety Tactics De-escalation Boundary Setting By-stander / up-stander intervention --Protect yourselves and stand up for your comrades while out in the streets and organizing for justice! Learn practical de-escalation techniques and options for interrupting injustices and supporting community members targeted by racist violence. --No experience needed Free for all Space is Limited Social distancing and masks are required. Register Here T.E.A. THERAPY EXPERIENCED ANEW OVER 113,000 LGBTIJA+ IOVl>UALS HAVE BEEN SlB.ECTED TO CONVERSION llERAPY. T.E.A IS A tEW GR(U> THAT HU. UTLIZE SEVERAL DFFERENT ACTIVITES TO 1ELP YOO TAKE YU NARRATIVE BACK Atl> FN> PEER SUPPORT ALONG THE WAY. CCIE. SIT, At1> SPU THE TEA WITH US ON Tl-IS .JOlRtEY TO THE MOST AUTIENTIC YOO. CALL, TEXT, OR EMAIL JESS BRANSTON 918-9241-56241 JESS@ANCHOREDBHC.COM Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A Online Event Monday September 14, at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 12 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... Please email us by clicking the button below for the zoom link: Visit our website Na~& McDona ainbov, Library 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 13 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... BOOK OF THE WEEK Exquisite Mariposa by Fiona Alison Duncan Exqui il.e Maripo a a novd FIOI\A ALISO DLNCA~ The story follows a cast of friends and lovers as they navigate questions of art making and economies, breakups and breakdowns, and the Internet and its many obsessions. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT A Canadian-American author, artist, and "' organizer. She is the founding host of Hard to Read, a literary social practice. Duncan's debut novel, was awarded a Lambda Literary Award for "Bisexual Fiction." FIONA ALLISON DUNCAN ~//////////////~ ~----~ ~ ~ ~ GENDERSUPPORT GROUP VIRTUAL PROGRAMMING ~ ~ ~ ~ ------~ 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 14 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... Gender Support Group Wednesdays at 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Our Gender support Group is coming back Live and in person Wednesday June 24th! We will continue to offer a virtual version for anyone who needs access. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group. Contact Us Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 15 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... 2nd and 4th Mondays 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Contact Us Gender Support Small Groups 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 On the 2nd Wednesday of every month the Gender Support Group will break out into four small groups. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Alex Wade for more information. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, Support group for trans women. Topics will range from clothing to surgeries, hormones, femininity, or any other 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 16 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! issue that affects our community. We are here to support one another in our transition journeys. Support group for trans men. Topics will range from clothing to surgeries, hormones, masculinity, or any other issue that affects our community. We are here to support one another in our transition journeys. Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Mask-Arade: Smoke Lounge Friday September 11 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Aunt Tara's Canna Lounge & Event Center 2606 S Sheridan Rd Suite 210, Tulsa, OK 74129 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 17 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... LGBTQ+ Night at Aunt Tara's Canna Lounge and Event Center. $10 to get in and 10% of the entry fee goes back to Equality Center! Raffles, Contests and More! Must be 21 or older! Wanting to be a vendor? Click the buttons below. Email Tiffany Alexander Mask-Arade on Facebook ·~ It's Coming 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 18 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... Visit Site We Will Notarize Your Ballot! Save time, and protect your health. We are excited to announce that we have a notary that can notarize your ballot at no cost. If you would like to schedule to have your ballot notarized please contact us below: Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 19 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... Join SAGE onZ==ITI TUESDAY MORNINGS @lOAM Now you can join SAGE Tulsa virtually. The virtual SAGE Tulsa group meets Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. Click below to contact us for the link to the virtual meeting. Contact Us SAGE CARES SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 20 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... Resumed SAGE Tulsa has their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. You can also join via call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. Contact Us SAGE Tulsa Chat Call Thursday SAGE Tulsa is also now available on Thursdays at 2:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 21 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... To join, call (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. FOR MORE INFORMATION TEXT /CALL KAO 918.904.1869 Friday September 18, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. Come watch Waves (2019) The epic emotional journey of a suburban African American family as they navigate love, forgiveness and coming together in the wake of a tragic loss. Email 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 22 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... Equality Gaming Night Friday September 18, 6:30 p.m - 7:30 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Let's Play some games on Zoom while meeting new people and enjoying our own drinks and snacks at home. If you would like to join click the button below to email Jose.vega@okeq.org for the link! you don't want to miss out on all the fun! Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 23 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + ry Third Friday at 7:00 p. 1 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 741 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday September 18, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends.Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent at Spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions please contact Liz at the button below. El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 24 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras I DIGIQUEER INDIGIQUEER IS FOR ALL IDENTIFYING LGBTQ2S+ NATIVE AND INDIGENOUS PEOPLE. EPTE IE 26TH CULTURAL EVENTS, CONVERSATIONS, CELEBRATIONS & FRIENDS OKLA~OMANS FOR EQUALITY 621 E4TH ST, TULSA, 0 K ok~homans~oqualtty Online Event Friday September 25 at 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. "IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement." – Vnokeckv. For more information or link to virtual meeting contact Kao with the buttons below: Email Facebook 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 25 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... DESIGNED BY YOU! POSTER. 0 Submit original 2021 Tulsa Pride T-shirt designs to jose.vega@okeq .org Tulsa Pride 2021 Design Contest Tulsa Pride wants you to design 2021 Pride logo! This contest includes a grand prize award and the logo will be on all the marketing material, T-shirts, Posters and social media promotion material. The contest closes on Nov. 2nd 11:00 p.m. Make this PRIDE your PRIDE! Tulsa Pride 2021 Please submit your entry design electronically by emailing Pride director below: Contact Us H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 26 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Check out our selection of colorful pride masks, now available at the Pride Store and on our online shop! Each mask is $7 and 100% your purchase supports the work of OKEQ! Click the image below to visit our store. 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 27 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 28 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... BUILDING. 3. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. 4. IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING FEVER, SHORTNESS OF BREATH, COUGHING, OR ANY OTHER SYMPTOM LISTED BY THE CDC, PLEASE REMAIN AT HOME. 5. OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 29 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider ' .. . . . . ·1 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 30 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... For intormation that leads to the Arrest and conuiclion ot the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' Anvone wtth lnfonnatlon Is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI bv Calling the Agencrs TIP line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng u s bl k. V McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 31 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 32 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 33 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Monthly Meeting Thursday, September 12th, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, Partners of Trans*/NonBinary where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 34 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... Individuals Support Group 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! sao-e ~~~~:~~! ~~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible Equality Game Night SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! COVID-19 Canceled: Programming • LEGAL AID th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 35 of 39 Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... I[ liiH 11 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org ARTS AND CRAF;r~;-~~T AT THE DENN!S A NEILL EQUAUTY CENT EA Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. ---- Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 36 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... breath. Equality Game Night the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com sos Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. SECULAR ORGANIZATION S FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Sunday's at 1:30 p.m Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOS-Tulsa.org Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------ Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 37 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... Jose Vega Deputy Director He / Him / His Jose.Vega@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 38 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... KAISER MEDICAL ~~~~~ED ■Y ... Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits Outreach and Library Services He / Him / His Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Bob Hanson Marcia Keesee Corey Thompson Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson 4/28/26, 11:05 AM �MORE SKY (Space is Limited) 39 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-SKY--Space-is-Limited-.h... Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:05 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3fbdb1231cc485c09664712fb4453f2b.pdf 753fb8f7218b526ba0b04460fdb09187 PDF Text Text STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 1 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews September 8th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 2020-2021 Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting OKEQ Board of Directors Election 40th Anniversary - - ♦ ♦ • 0 ■ -.·-•'• 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 2 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... Voting for the 2020-2021 Board of Directors is now open and ends September 12th at 6:00 p.m. You can vote at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or online. The ballot is now available. Vote Here The 40th Annual Meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held virtually on Saturday, September 12th, 2020, at 7:00 p.m. Click Here to Sign Up for the Event on Facebook To be sensitive to our members who are not on social media we will have a viewing area where you and the staff can view the Facebook Live event. For ongoing safety precautions You will be asked to check in at the door, with a temperature check, and a face mask covering your mouth and nose will be required during your stay. Click to Register for the In Person Viewing 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 3 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... The membership of Oklahomans for Equality will hear the final results of the board election. There will be a presentation of the annual report by the Board of Directors and staff. This is a members-only event and you must be a voting member to attend. The voting membership is a $50.00 donation to Oklahomans for Equality. Membership Advocacy Alert: Proposed City of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance Tulsa City Council has introduced an ordinance that would add sex, sexual orientation, and gender identity as protected classes under Tulsa's hate crime laws. Currently, Oklahoma's hate crime laws cover hate bias crimes motivated by race, color, religion, ancestry, national origin, and disability. This ordinance, proposed by Councilor Crista Patrick of District 3, would be the first time Tulsa has recognized sex, sexual orientation, and gender identity as protected classes under Hate Crime law. Please contact your City Councilor and the Mayor's Office to voice your support for this ordinance! Use the District Finder to find your City Councilor and use the links below to find their contact information. Find Your District Contact Your City Councilor Contact the Mayor's Office 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 4 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... "Lynn Riggs and Green Grow the Lilacs are the v ry soul of Oklahoma!" -Oscar Hammerstein II STHEATRE P 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 5 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS September 17 and 18, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Echo Theatre Company, in conjunction with the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center’s Lynn Riggs Theatre, is set to premiere MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS, a play about the life of gay Cherokee playwright, Lynn Riggs. The show will take place in September 17 and 18 at the Lynn Riggs Theatre in Tulsa, Oklahoma. MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS will play to a limited social-distanced seated crowd of 25 in the Lynn Riggs Theatre on Thursday September 17, 2020 and Friday, September 18, 2020 at 7:00pm. Admission is FREE and will be limited to the first 25 tickets each night. Riggs is portrayed by Russ Tallchief, an Osage actor who is descended from famous Osage ballerinas Maria and Marjorie Tallchief. Tallchief is an Osage playwright, director, actor, and is currently the Director of Student Diversity and Inclusion at Oklahoma City University. Gregory Hinton, the playwright, is also an author and lecturer, and produced OUT WEST, a national museum education series dedicated to shining a light on LGBTQ history and culture in the American West. The story of Lynn Riggs, a rural-born gay man who evacuates home and community for a higher creative calling, resonates deeply with Hinton. Get Your Tickets Here 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 6 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... DESIGNED BY YOU! POSTER. 0 Submit original 2021 Tulsa Pride T-shirt designs to jose.vega@okeq .org Tulsa Pride 2021 Design Contest Tulsa Pride wants you to design our 2021 Pride logo! This contest includes a grand prize award and the logo will be on all the marketing material, T-shirts, Posters and social media promotion material. The contest closes on Nov. 2nd 11:00 p.m. Make this PRIDE your PRIDE! Tulsa Pride 2021 Please submit your entry design electronically by emailing Pride director below: Contact Us Movie Night on The Parking Lot Friday, September 11, 2020 at 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Parking Lot for a free Movie night! Bring your own lawn chair, bean bag, picnic blanket anything you would like to get 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 7 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... comfortable. Please wear mask, and marked sections will be placed on the lot for social distancing practice. Bring your own snacks and drinks! Everyone is welcome! In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost Edward Durnal 1949 - 9/3/2020 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 8 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... ilf Of September Art Show - John Hammer Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Masks will be required and social distancing will be observed. Capacity will be limited to 20 persons at any time in the art gallery. 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 9 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... We are constantly bombarded with one message at a time, over and over, until the next news cycle brings the latest message. Then it starts all over again. This happens so quickly and so often, we forget about what we were just upset about. It keeps us only focused on what’s in the news now. This series of protest art was created to bring attention to all of these things at once. There is no order to them and one is no more important than the other. Each has cycled through the news and become number one, but has not gone away as the others have come to take it’s place, one by one. See it Virtually You may also visit the Allie Jensen Memorial Gallery virtually. The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is featuring the works of John Hammer and their The Hammer Studio Art. Click the video below to visit John Hammers Art Exhibit. Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 10 of 40 •• https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... 0 ~ AuntToro• ·-~-~ , 1;:.Tsi.!~~! Co nna Center -......:. _ } ~ - @ ~ oklanomansto,oquallty Mask-Arade: Smoke Lounge Friday September 11 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Aunt Tara's Canna Lounge & Event Center 2606 S Sheridan Rd Suite 210, Tulsa, OK 74129 LGBTQ+ Night at Aunt Tara's Canna Lounge and Event Center. $10 to get in and 10% of the entry fee goes back to Equality Center! Raffles, Contests and More! Must be 21 or older! Wanting to be a vendor? Click the buttons below. Email Tiffany Alexander Reading Rainbow Book Cii b If you would like to Join see the meeting dates and pages to read below Sept 13th [part 1-2] This month we are reading Butterfly Boy A memoir by Sept 27th [part.3-s] RJgoberto Gonr.a]ez. A unique coming out and - coming-of-age story of a firstgeneration Chicano who trades one life for another, only to discover that history and memory are not m:hangeable or forgettable. for more info please email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 11 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Warrior Sisters Self Defense Signup Monday, September 14, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite all those currently engaging in street protests for black lives, community safety, and racial justice to train with Warrior Sisters in de-escalation and community intervention! 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 12 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... --We will cover-Protest Awareness & Safety Tactics De-escalation Boundary Setting By-stander / up-stander intervention --Protect yourselves and stand up for your comrades while out in the streets and organizing for justice! Learn practical de-escalation techniques and options for interrupting injustices and supporting community members targeted by racist violence. --No experience needed Free for all Space is Limited Social distancing and masks are required. Register Here T.E.A. THERAPY EXPERIENCED ANEW OVER 113,000 LGBTIJA+ IOVl>UALS HAVE BEEN SlB.ECTED TO CONVERSION llERAPY. T.E.A IS A tEW GR(U> THAT HU. UTLIZE SEVERAL DFFERENT ACTIVITES TO 1ELP YOO TAKE YU NARRATIVE BACK Atl> FN> PEER SUPPORT ALONG THE WAY. CCIE, SIT, At1> SPU THE TEA WITH US ON Tl-IS .JOlRtEY TO THE MOST AUTIENTIC YOO. CALL, TEXT, OR EMAIL JESS BRANSTON 918-9241-56241 JESS@ANCHOREDBHC.COM Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A Online Event Monday September 14, at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 13 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Please email us by clicking the button below for the zoom link: Visit our website Mask-Arade on Facebook Gender Support Small Groups 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 On the 2nd Wednesday of every month the Gender Support Group will break out into four small groups. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Alex Wade for more information. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Support group for trans women. Topics will range from clothing to surgeries, hormones, femininity, or any other issue that affects our community. We are here to support one another in our transition journeys. Su ort Group for 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 14 of 40 Support group for trans men. Topics will range from clothing to surgeries, hormones, masculinity, or any other issue that affects our community. We are here to support one another in our transition journeys. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. FOR MORE INFORMATION TEXT /CALL KAO 918.904.1869 Friday September 18, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. Come watch Waves (2019) The epic emotional journey of a suburban African American family as they navigate love, forgiveness and coming together in the wake of a tragic loss. 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 15 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... Email anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + ry Third Friday at 7:00 p. 1 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 741 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday September 18, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends.Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent at Spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions please contact Liz at the button below. 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 16 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras Equality Gaming Night Friday September 18, 6:30 p.m - 7:30 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Let's Play some games on Zoom while meeting new people and enjoying our own drinks and snacks at home. If you would like to join click the button below to email Jose.vega@okeq.org for the link! you don't want to miss out on all the fun! Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 17 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... ., BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE UISElt FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 18 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... DISTA CED PAAKI G LOT PARTY l I l I Bl/PAN+ PANEL ON FACEBOOK LIVE SUN. SEPT 20 ~ MACHINE RENT. RIDE . REPEAT. PARKING LOT PARTY SAIUDOAY SEDT 26 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 19 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... 7PM MASKS REQUIRED! - - MASK TIE-DVE! ', - 1 :-- Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 20 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... 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Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Our Gender support Group is coming back Live and in person Wednesday June 24th! We will continue to offer a virtual version for anyone who needs access. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group. Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 22 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 23 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... Visit Site We Will Notarize Your Ballot! Save time, and protect your health. We are excited to announce that we have a notary that can notarize your ballot at no cost. If you would like to schedule to have your ballot notarized please contact us below: Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 24 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... Join SAGE onZ==ni TUESDAY MORNINGS @lOAM Now you can join SAGE Tulsa virtually. The virtual SAGE Tulsa group meets Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. Click below to contact us for the link to the virtual meeting. Contact Us SAGE CARES SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 25 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... Resumed SAGE Tulsa has their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. You can also join via call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. Contact Us SAGE Tulsa Chat Call Thursday SAGE Tulsa is also now available on Thursdays at 2:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 26 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... To join, call (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. I INDIGIQUEER IS FOR ALL IDENTIFYING LGBTQ2S+ NATIVE AND INDIGENOUS PEOPLE. EPTE IE 26TH CULTURAL EVENTS, CONVERSATIONS, CELEBRATIONS & FRIENDS OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY 621 E4TH ST, TULSA, O K ok~homans~equaltty Online Event Friday September 25 at 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. "IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement." – Vnokeckv. For more information or link to virtual meeting contact Kao with the buttons below: Email Facebook Coming Out Workshop Mondays October 5, 6:00 - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free to participate, this one day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 27 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 opt.2 or click the button below to schedule. Contact Us Check out our selection of colorful pride masks, now available at the Pride Store and on our online shop! Each mask is $7 and 100% your purchase supports the work of OKEQ! Click the image below to visit our store. 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 28 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... OKEQ CORDNDVIRUS GUIDELINES: 1. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 2. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 3. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 29 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. 4. IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING FEVER, SHORTNESS OF BREATH, COUGHING, OR ANY OTHER SYMPTOM LISTED BY THE CDC, PLEASE REMAIN AT HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 30 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider For 1n1ormat1on that leads to the Arrest 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 31 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... and conuiclion ot the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder 01 ousun Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' Anvone wtth lnfonnatlon Is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI bv Calling the Agencrs TIP line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng u s bl k. V McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 32 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 33 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 34 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Annual Meeting Thursday, September 12th, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 35 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R -- · -- Neill Equality Center! Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible Equality Game Night SAGE Tulsa 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan COVID-19 Canceled: Programming • LEGAL AID th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 36 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. ARTS AND CRAFTS N~;~~ •• 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. ---- A T THE OENN!S R NEILL EQUAUTY CENTER Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 37 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! sos Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRI ETY SOS Group Sunday's at 1:30 p.m Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOS-Tulsa.org Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------ Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 38 of 40 Jose Vega Deputy Director He / Him / His Jose.Vega@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 39 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... KAISER MEDICAL ~!!!'~~ID ■Y T"l-<>IIIAI. . ■ •-LVOOUM0.,.1tDN Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits Outreach and Library Services He / Him / His Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Bob Hanson Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy 4/28/26, 11:06 AM �STOP HATE Contact You City Councilor 40 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/STOP-HATE-Contact-You-City-... Marcia Keesee Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:06 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a426f313f9491d0cd2f0973734c8a0b7.pdf 95fd0aa5410a6ba78752e1d6956d03e3 PDF Text Text Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 1 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews September 14th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Advocacy Alert: 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 2 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... Proposed City of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance Tulsa City Council has introduced an ordinance that would add sex, sexual orientation, and gender identity as protected classes under Tulsa's hate crime laws. Currently, Oklahoma's hate crime laws cover hate bias crimes motivated by race, color, religion, ancestry, national origin, and disability. This ordinance, proposed by Councilor Crista Patrick of District 3, would be the first time Tulsa has recognized sex, sexual orientation, and gender identity as protected classes under Hate Crime law. Please contact your City Councilor and the Mayor's Office to voice your support for this ordinance! Use the District Finder to find your City Councilor and use the links below to find their contact information. Find Your District Contact Your City Councilor Contact the Mayor's Office EQ B -OF DIRECTORS 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 3 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... Monique Washington Justin Ross Allison IkleyFreeman Joe Guetlein Dr. Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Chris BrechtSmith Will Vaughn Shannon Gordon Fair They will be joining current board members who are fulfilling the second year of their elected term. 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 4 of 40 Angelyn L. Dale https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... Dr. Bob Hanson, PharmD Stacy Turner Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Corey Thompson Thank You to our board of directors who have completed their term Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Marcia Keesee Oklahomans for Equality wishes to thank the following individuals who served on the board of advisors during the 2019/2020 fiscal year. Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Tyler Morgan William Murphy 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 5 of 40 Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman Become a Member of Oklahomans for Equality "Lynn Riggs and Green Qrow the Lilacs are the v ry ■ oul of Oklahoma!" -Oscar Hammerstein II STHEATRE P 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 6 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS September 17 and 18, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Echo Theatre Company, in conjunction with the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center’s Lynn Riggs Theatre, is set to premiere MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS, a play about the life of gay Cherokee playwright, Lynn Riggs. The show will take place in September 17 and 18 at the Lynn Riggs Theatre in Tulsa, Oklahoma. MORE SKY: THE STORY OF LYNN RIGGS will play to a limited social-distanced seated crowd of 25 in the Lynn Riggs Theatre on Thursday September 17, 2020 and Friday, September 18, 2020 at 7:00pm. Admission is FREE and will be limited to the first 25 tickets each night. Riggs is portrayed by Russ Tallchief, an Osage actor who is descended from famous Osage ballerinas Maria and Marjorie Tallchief. Tallchief is an Osage playwright, director, actor, and is currently the Director of Student Diversity and Inclusion at Oklahoma City University. Gregory Hinton, the playwright, is also an author and lecturer, and produced OUT WEST, a national museum education series dedicated to shining a light on LGBTQ history and culture in the American West. The story of Lynn Riggs, a rural-born gay man who evacuates home and community for a higher creative calling, resonates deeply with Hinton. Get Your Tickets Here T.E.A. THERAPY EXPERIENCED ANEW 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 7 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... OVER 113,000 LGBTIJA+ NJIVIJUALS HAVE BEEN SllU:CTED TO CONVERSION ll&APY. T.E.A IS A tEW GROlP THAT WU UTLIZE SEVERAL DFFERENT ACTIVITES TO 1-EL.P YOO TAKE YU NARRATIVE BACK Ahl> FN> PEER SUPPORT ALONG THE WAY. CM, SIT, Ahl> SPLL THE TEA WITH US ON TIIS .JOt.RtEY TO THE MOST AUTIENTIC YOO. CALL, TEXT, OR EMAIL JESS BRANSTON 918-92"'1-562"'1 JESS@ANCHOREDBHC.COM Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A Online Event Monday, September 14, at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Please email us by clicking the button below for the zoom link: Contact Us DESIGNED BY YOU! POSTER. 0 Submit original 2021 Tulsa Pride T-shirt designs to jose.vega@okeq.org Tulsa Pride 2021 Design Contest 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 8 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... Tulsa Pride wants you to design our 2021 Pride logo! This contest includes a grand prize award and the logo will be on all the marketing material, T-shirts, Posters and social media promotion material. The contest closes on Nov. 2nd 11:00 p.m. Make this PRIDE your PRIDE! Tulsa Pride 2021 Please submit your entry design electronically by emailing Pride director below: Contact Us September Art Show - John Hammer Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Masks will be required and social distancing will be observed. Capacity will be limited to 20 persons at any time in the art gallery. We are constantly bombarded with one message at a time, over and over, until the next news cycle brings the latest message. Then it starts all over again. This happens so quickly and so often, we forget about what we were just upset about. It keeps us only focused on what’s in the news now. This series of protest art was created to bring attention to all of these things at once. There is no order to them and one is no more important than the other. Each has cycled through the news and become number one, but has not gone away as the others have come to take it’s place, one by one. See it Virtually You may also visit the Allie Jensen Memorial Gallery virtually. The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is featuring the works of John Hammer and their The Hammer Studio Art. Click the video below to visit John Hammers Art Exhibit. 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 9 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 10 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook Warrior Sisters Self Defense Signup Monday, September 14, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite all those currently engaging in street protests for black lives, community safety, and racial justice to train with Warrior Sisters in de-escalation and community intervention! --We will cover-Protest Awareness & Safety Tactics De-escalation Boundary Setting By-stander / up-stander intervention --Protect yourselves and stand up for your comrades while out in the streets and organizing for justice! Learn practical de-escalation techniques and options for interrupting injustices and supporting community members targeted by racist violence. --No experience needed Free for all Space is Limited Social distancing and masks are required. Register Here 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 11 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... 918.904.1869 Friday, September 18, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Wellness Room 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. Come watch Waves (2019) The epic emotional journey of a suburban African American family as they navigate love, forgiveness and coming together in the wake of a tragic loss. Email anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 12 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... ry Third Friday at 7:00 p. 1 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 741 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday, September 18, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Glass Conference Room 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends.Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent at Spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions please contact Liz at the button below. El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 13 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... Equality Gaming Night Friday, September 18, 6:30 p.m - 7:30 p.m. Virtual Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Let's Play some games on Zoom while meeting new people and enjoying our own drinks and snacks at home. If you would like to join click the button below to email Jose.vega@okeq.org for the link! you don't want to miss out on all the fun! Contact Us In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 14 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... Edward Durnal 1949 - 9/3/2020 Age Discrimination Research Study Researchers at Oklahoma State University are recruiting gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men to discuss your experiences on social networking apps marketed for gay/bi men. Individuals who complete the questionnaire can earn a $10 Amazon gift card. To see if you are eligible, please click the button below. If you have questions, please feel free to contact Kristopher Struckmeyer (struckm@okstate.edu) Click Here for Survey 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 15 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... 9/26 SOCIALLY DISTA CED PARKI G LOT PARTY Bl/PAN+ PANEL ON FACEBOOK LIVE SUN. SEPT 20 ~ MACHINE RENT. RIDE . REPEAT. 000 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 16 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... PARKING LOT PARTY SATURDAV SEPT 26 7PM MASKS REQUIRED! MASK TIE-DYE! - " BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THEGEOAGEK.t,ISEA FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 17 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment ~//////////////~ ~----~ ~ GROUP VIRTUAL ~ ~ ~ ~//////////////~ Gender Support Group Wednesdays at 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Our Gender support Group is coming back Live and in person Wednesday June 24th! We will continue to offer a virtual version for anyone who needs access. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 18 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group. Contact Us Gender Support Small Groups 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 On the 2nd Wednesday of every month the Gender Support Group will break out into four small groups. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Alex Wade for more information. Support group for trans men. Topics will range from clothing to surgeries, hormones, masculinity, or any other issue that affects our community. We are here to support one another in our transition journeys. Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 19 of 40 Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... Support group for trans women. Topics will range from clothing to surgeries, hormones, femininity, or any other issue that affects our community. We are here to support one another in our transition journeys. H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Click Here to Make an Appointment 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 20 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... Visit Site We Will Notarize Your Ballot! Save time, and protect your health. We are excited to announce that we have a notary that can notarize your ballot at no cost. If you would like to schedule to have your ballot notarized please contact us below: Contact Us I DIGIQUEER INDIGIQUEER IS FOR ALL IDENTIFYING LGBTQ2S+ NATIVE AND INDIGENOUS PEOPLE. EPTE IE 26TH 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 21 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... CULTURAL EVENTS, CONVERSATIONS, CELEBRATIONS & FRIENDS OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY 621 E4TH sT, Tu LSA, 0K ok~h~omafl51o< .. equ . Tallty Online Event Friday, September 25 at 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. "IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement." – Vnokeckv. For more information or link to virtual meeting contact Kao with the buttons below: Email Facebook @~[Lf\(X]@~f\~~ [?@~ ~@(V)f\[L~m1 ~~~~~Tr~ & W~OOTrl\!Jf\(L ~@~W~OO~f\mJ@~ M[)ffl OO~@@OO~OOTr@ @@~~f\lL~~ ~~[p~~oo~oo ~71 «@ 71 ~ » 0 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 22 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... Oklahomans for Equality is excited to welcome Rigoberto González for a virtual event to discuss his experience as a gay Latino and his memoir, Butterfly Boy: Memoir of a Chicano Mariposa in celebration of Hispanic/Latinx Heritage Month. Rigoberto will be joined by Donovid Sekulits, the Outreach and Library Services Manager to moderate the conversation. Butterfly Boy is a unique coming out and coming-of-age story of a first-generation Chicano who trades one life for another, only to discover that history and memory are not exchangeable or forgettable. This is a free event and will be hosted on the Zoom platform and Facebook live. About the Author: Rigoberto González is the author of eighteen books of poetry and prose. His awards include Guggenheim, NEA, NYFA, and USA Rolón fellowships, the PEN/Voelcker Award, the American Book Award from the Before Columbus Foundation, the Lenore Marshall Prize from the Academy of American Poets, and the Shelley Memorial Prize from the Poetry Society of America. A critic-at-large for The LA Times and contributing editor for Poets & Writers Magazine, he is currently Distinguished Professor of English and Director of the MFA Program in Creative Writing at Rutgers-Newark, the State University of New Jersey. To Register Click Here MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS AGREE: CONVERSION THERAPY 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 23 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... Coming Out Workshop Monday, October 5, 6:00 - 7:00 p.m. Ongoing Every First Monday of the Month Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free to participate, this one day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 opt.2 or click the button below to schedule. Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 24 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... SAGE CARES SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have Resumed SAGE Tulsa has their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. You can also join via call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. Contact Us fll//!!!!!!!!!, Q JoinSAGE on Zoom TUESDAY MORNINGS @lOAM Can't be here in person? Now you can join SAGE Tulsa virtually. The virtual SAGE Tulsa group meets Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. Click below to contact us for the link to the virtual meeting. Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 25 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library Readhng Rainbow Book Cii b If you would like to Join see the meeting dates and pages to read below Sept 13th [part 1-2] This month we are reading Butterfly Boy A memoir by Rigoberto Gonr.als Sept 27th [part.3-s] A unique coming out and - coming-of-age story of a firstgeneration Chicano who trades one life for another, only to discover that history and memory are not exchangeable or forgettable. for more info please email donovid.sekulits@Okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 26 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... TIie Blluallty Center Pride Bto1-e sells pride masks! I Check out our selection of colorful pride masks, now available at the Pride Store and on our online shop! Each mask is $7 and 100% your purchase supports the work of OKEQ! Click the image below to visit our store. 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 27 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... DKEQ CORDNDVIRUS GUIDELINES: 1. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 2. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 3. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. 4. IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING FEVER, SHORTNESS OF BREATH, COUGHING, OR ANY OTHER SYMPTOM LISTED BY THE CDC, PLEASE REMAIN AT HOME. 5. OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 28 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... Suic· Viole_ Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 29 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider BOOK OF THE WEEK Big Familia by Tomas Moniz Big Familia follows Juan Gutierrez, a selfemployed single father, as he navigates a 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 30 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... tumultuous year of inescapable change.The story is set in a neighborhood that is also changing, gentrification inciting the ire of the established community. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT is the founder, editor, and writer for the award winning Rad Dad which produced two literary anthologies.He is the father of three children and lives with a menagerie of animals in ----------..... Berkeley, California. TOMAS MONIZ For 1n1ormat1on that leads to the Arrest and conu1c11on 01 the Person or Persons Responslble tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 31 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... - "''"' "' "' Anvone with lnfonnatlon Is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI 11V Calllng the Agencrs TIP line at 1-800-522-8011 or bV Emalllng d s sbl k. V McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 32 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 33 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... Trevor Project Linda Ford Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 34 of 40 (First time interview required before attending) Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - - https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... OkEq Board Meeting Virtual Thursday, September 17th 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 sao-e ~~~~:~~! ~, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible Equality Game Night SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 35 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. 10:00 am to 1:00 pm Alphabet Soup Youth Group Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! COVID-19 Canceled: Programming • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 36 of 40 child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. ARTS AND CRAF~ : ~·HT https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org AT THE OENNTS R NEILl EQUAUTV CENTER parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. --- - - Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com So ~ -~ SECULAR OR<?~~~Z~!IONS 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 37 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... ~ ~....., you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! FOR SOBRIETY Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. SOS Group Sunday's at 1:30 p.m Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOS-Tulsa.org Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. and community. www.okeq.org/eba ----- -- Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Alex Wade 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 38 of 40 Jose Vega Deputy Director He / Him / His Jose.Vega@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org KAISER MEDICA~ ~!:~~~ED ■Y 11• ...... ,Yl'DUND,0.,10N 4/28/26, 11:07 AM �Support The City Of Tulsa Hate Crime Ordinance 39 of 40 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Support-The-City-Of-Tulsa-Hate... Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits Outreach and Library Services He / Him / His Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. 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View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:07 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b56b67652ffe243a79455010ab5addb2.pdf 52bb0f0d8c4513bce1125b38ae88160c PDF Text Text Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 1 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews September 21st, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 2 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... In honor of Bi+ Visibility Week the lights and flags at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are recognizing these identities. Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center as we recognize the Bisexual, Pansexual, Fluid, Queer, and all non-monosexual identities. 9/26 SOCIALLY DISTA CED PARKI G LOT PARTY 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 3 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... Watch OKEQ's Brought to You Bi The Letter B (our Bi/Pan+ support and social group) as we kick off Bi/Pan Week 2020 with an online panel Q+A. We will be busting bi and pansexual myths and challenging the monosexual monolith! Click here to watch ~ MACHINE RENT. RIDE . REPEAT. 000 Wednesday, September 23, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ’s Brought to You Bi the Letter B (our Bisexual/Pansexual+ Support and Social Group) as we celebrate Bisexual/Pansexual Visibility Day with THIS MACHINE TULSA! We will be going on a 3 mile bike ride with e-bikes (assisted bikes that help make riding easy-breezy!) on the Midland Valley Trail. This ride is limited to the first 10 participants due to COVID-19 precautions. We ask that you wear a mask on the ride. We will meet at Dilly Diner and ride to NEFF Brewing for the Bi Visibility Day Mixer. We ask that you park at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (all within a short walking distance). 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 4 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... Bl/PAN VISIBILITY DAY MIXER WEDS. SEPT 23 @7PM NEFF BREWING 321 SFRANKFORT AVE SUITE #2, TULSA, OK 74120 Wednesday, September 23, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ’s Brought to You Bi the Letter B (our bi/pan+ support and social group) for an outdoor mixer at NEFF Brewing (right next door the center!) to celebrate Bi/Pan+ Visibility Day 2020. This will be an OUTDOOR Event with MASKS Required as per Tulsa’s mask ordinance for restaurants! PARKING LOT PARTY SATURDAV SEPT 26 7PM MASKS REQUIRED! MASK TIE-DYE! ... ~ .,/"_ /" .- .., .·- - ----- - - - Ii ~ ' ~ ' Saturday, September 26, 7:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 5 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ’s Brought to You Bi the Letter B (our Bisexual and Pansexual+ support and social group) for the ULTIMATE BI/PAN+ WEEK CELEBRATION: The Parking Lot Party! Admission is FREE and you get to tie-dye a mask and make your own 4” x 6” flag. We will have music playing (featuring great bi/pan+ artists) and there will be some dancing too! THIS IS AN OUTDOOR EVENT AND MASKS ARE REQUIRED. Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 6 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook @~[Lf\[}{)@~&~~ (r@~ ~@(Wf\[Lffin1 ~~~~~,r~ &W~001rlVJ&lL ~@~W~00~&1f0@~ ~[)ffl 00~@@00~001f@ @@~~f\[L~~ ~~(p)~~oo~oo ~71 «rJy=~7J ffl » 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 7 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... Online Event Friday, September 27, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m Oklahomans for Equality is excited to welcome Rigoberto González for a virtual event to discuss his experience as a gay Latino and his memoir, Butterfly Boy: Memories of a Chicano Mariposa in celebration of Hispanic/Latinx Heritage Month. Rigoberto will be joined by Donovid Sekulits, the Outreach and Library Services Manager to moderate the conversation. Butterfly Boy is a unique coming out and coming-of-age story of a first-generation Chicano who trades one life for another, only to discover that history and memory are not exchangeable or forgettable. This is a free event and will be hosted on the Zoom platform, and Facebook live. About the Author: Rigoberto González is the author of eighteen books of poetry and prose. His awards include Guggenheim, NEA, NYFA, and USA Rolón fellowships, the PEN/Voelcker Award, the American Book Award from the Before Columbus Foundation, the Lenore Marshall Prize from the Academy of American Poets, and the Shelley Memorial Prize from the Poetry Society of America. A critic-at-large for The LA Times and contributing editor for Poets & Writers Magazine, he is currently Distinguished Professor of English and Director of the MFA Program in Creative Writing at Rutgers-Newark, the State University of New Jersey. To Register Click Here Trans Teen's Support Group Starts Monday, September 28 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom ' This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Parents of Su ort Grou for 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 8 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... Transgender People Starts Wednesday, October 7 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join DESIGNED BY YOU! POSTER. 0 Submit original 2021 Tulsa Pride T-shirt designs to jose.vega@okeq.org Tulsa Pride 2021 Design Contest Make this PRIDE your PRIDE! Tulsa Pride wants you to design our 2021 Pride logo! This contest includes a grand prize award, and the logo will be on all the marketing material, T-shirts, Posters, and social media promotion material. The contest closes on Nov. 2nd, 11:00 p.m. Please submit your entry design electronically by emailing Pride director below! 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 9 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... Contact Us Click below to watch Oklahomans for Equality Annual Board Meeting. 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 10 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... VV U""C'Jt DU~~LI OF DIRECTORS Monique Washington Justin Ross Allison IkleyFreeman Joe Guetlein Dr. Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Chris BrechtSmith Board President Will Vaughn Secretary Shannon Gordon Fair 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 11 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... They will be joining current board members who are fulfilling the second year of their elected term. Angelyn L. Dale Stacy Turner Vice President Dr. Bob Hanson, PharmD Member at Large Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Corey Thompson Thank You to our board of directors who have completed their term 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 12 of 39 Al Triggs https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... Robin VanMeter Marcia Keesee Oklahomans for Equality wishes to thank the following individuals who served on the board of advisors during the 2019/2020 fiscal year. Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman Become a Member of Oklahomans for Equality 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 13 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... , 1111111 . . y Visit Site We Will Notarize Your Ballot! Save time, and protect your health. We are excited to announce that we have a notary that can notarize your ballot at no cost. If you would like to schedule to have your ballot notarized please contact us below: Contact Us I INDIGIQUEER IS FOR ALL IDENTIFYING LGBTQ2S+ NATIVE AND INDIGENOUS PEOPLE. EPTE BE 26TH CULTURAL EVENTS, CONVERSATIONS, CELEBRATIONS & FRIENDS OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY t... 1 l [ /. T LI (' T T 111 (' A n V 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 14 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... u LI [ At I n J I ' I u LJH, V " oklahomansfor .-:allty Friday, September 25, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m Meets via Zoom IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. "IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement." – Vnokeckv. For more information or link to virtual meeting contact Kao with the buttons below: Email Facebook T.E.A. THERAPY EXPERIENCED ANEW OVER 113,000 LGBTIJA+ N>IVl>UALS HAVE BEEN SlB.JECTED TO CONVERSION TlERAPY. T.E.A IS A tEW GR(lJ) THAT HU. UTLIZE SEVERAL DFFERENT ACTIVITES TO 1-ELP YOO TAKE YU NARRATIVE BACK Atl> FN> PEER SUPPORT ALONG THE WAY. CCIE, SIT, At1> SPU THE TEA WITH US ON Tl-IS .nRtEY TO THE MOST AUTIENTIC YOO. CALL, TEXT, OR EMAIL JESS BRANSTON 918-9241-56241 JESS@ANCHOREDBHC.COM Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A Monday, September 28, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Contact Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 or jess@anchoredbhc.com. 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 15 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... Please email us by clicking the button below for the zoom link: Contact Us Warrior Sisters Self Defense Signup Monday, September 28, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite all those currently engaging in street protests for black lives, community safety, and racial justice to train with Warrior Sisters in de-escalation and community intervention! --We will cover-Protest Awareness & Safety Tactics De-escalation Boundary Setting By-stander / up-stander intervention --Protect yourselves and stand up for your comrades while out in the streets and organizing for justice! Learn practical de-escalation techniques and options for interrupting injustices and supporting community members targeted by racist violence. --No experience needed Free for all Space is Limited Social distancing and masks are required. Register Here 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 16 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Edward Durnal 1949 - 9/3/2020 ., BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 17 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... OKEQ.ORG/OKEO·HEAL TH-CLINIC OR CALL 918-938-6537! KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Age Discrimination Research Study Researchers at Oklahoma State University are recruiting gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men to discuss your experiences on social networking apps marketed for gay/bi men. Individuals who complete the questionnaire can earn a $10 Amazon gift card. To see if you are eligible, please click the button below. If you have questions, please feel free to contact Kristopher Struckmeyer (struckm@okstate.edu) Click Here for Survey 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 18 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... ~ -----~ ~ GENDERSUPPORT GROUP VIRTUAL PROGRAMMING ~ ~ ~ ~//////////////~ Gender Support Group Every Wednesday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Our Gender support Group is coming back Live and in person Wednesday June 24th! We will continue to offer a virtual version for anyone who needs access. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group. Contact Us Gender Support Small Groups 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 19 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... On the 2nd Wednesday of every month the Gender Support Group will break out into four small groups. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Alex Wade for more information. ( Support group for trans men. Topics will range from clothing to surgeries, hormones, masculinity, or any other issue that affects our community. We are here to support one another in our transition journeys. Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Support group for trans women. Topics will range from clothing to surgeries, hormones, femininity, or any other issue that affects our community. We are here to support one another in our transition journeys. 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 20 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Click Here to Make an Appointment 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 21 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... Coming Out Workshop Starts Monday, October 5 1st Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free to participate, this one day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 opt.2 or click the button below to schedule. Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 22 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... FOR MORE INFORMATION TEXT /CALL KAO 918.90'9.1869 Friday, October 16, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. Come watch Waves (2019) The epic emotional journey of a suburban African American family as they navigate love, forgiveness and coming together in the wake of a tragic loss. Email anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + ry Third Friday at 7:00 p. 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 23 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... 1 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 741 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday, October 16, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends.Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent at Spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions please contact Liz at the button below. El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 24 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... SAGE CARES SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have Resumed SAGE Tulsa has their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. You can also join via call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. Contact Us ~ Q JoinSAGE --- onZoom TUESDAY MORNINGS @lOAM Can't be here in person? Now you can join SAGE Tulsa virtually. The virtual SAGE Tulsa group meets Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. Click below to contact us for the link to the virtual meeting. Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 25 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library Reading Rainbow Book Cii b If you would like to Join see the meeting dates and pages to read below Sept 1,Jth [part 1-2] This month we are reading Butterfly Boy A memoir by Rigoberto Gonr.als Sept 27th [part.3-s] A unique coming out and coming-of-age story of a firstgeneration Chicano who trades one life for another, only to discover that history and memory are not m:hangeable or forgettable. for more info please email donovid.sekulits@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 26 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... TIie Bll■allty Center Pride Bta1-e sells pride masks! Check out our selection of colorful pride masks, now available at the Pride Store and on our online shop! Each mask is $7 and 100% your purchase supports the work of OKEQ! Click the image below to visit our store. 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 27 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... OKEQ CORDNDVIRUS GUIDELINES: 1. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 2. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 3. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAO AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. 4. IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING FEVER, SHORTNESS OF BREATH, COUGHING, OR ANY OTHER SYMPTOM LISTED BY THE CDC, PLEASE REMAIN AT HOME. 5. OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, ANO MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 28 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 Equality I I I• I _ 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 29 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... n ea1tn A lliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider BOOK OF THE WEEK Cantoras by Carolina de Robertis It traces the lives of five queer Uruguayan women whose lives are threatened by a brutal dictatorship.But in a sleepy village on the coast, they create what they call the other place, a shelter from conservative society where they can fall in and out of lov with each other. LINA ERTIS AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT She grew up in a uruguayan family that immigrated to England, Switzerland, and California. Prior to completing her first book, she worked in women's rights organizations for ten ears, on issues ranging from rape to "----------------==:......:=-- 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 30 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... immigration. CAROLINA DE ROBERTIS For information that leads to the Arrest and conu1c11on 01 the Person or Persons Resoonslhle tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' Anvone with lnfonnatlon Is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI 11V Calling the Agency's TIP line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng d s osbl k. V McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 31 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 32 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 33 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6537 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, October 8th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 34 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... Teens 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Tulsa Area Prime Timers providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 35 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Neill Equality Center! 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org sa<re ~~~~:~~! ~~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. --- - - Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! COVID-19 Canceled: Programming • LEGAL A10 tsi. , SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 36 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. ARTS AND CRAFTS N~;~~ • AT THE OENN!S R NEILL EQUAUTY CENTER Survivors of Incest Anonymous Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. ::1 Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 37 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. ideas, contacts, products and services, and also provided by H.O.P.E. Testing strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. www.okeq.org/eba ------ -- OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 38 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits Outreach and Library Services He / Him / His Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC S-SOl!l:DH THI-UtM• '-"MllY·ot,-'- Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Facilities Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees 4/28/26, 11:08 AM �Celebrating Bisexual+ Awareness Week 39 of 39 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Bisexual--Awareness... Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:08 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b5eb209b2efc2a7036faf3decbf5759d.pdf d63e29724284420ffa36acb5d449a3e2 PDF Text Text Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 1 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews September 28th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 2 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... Advocacy Alert: BELOHG Transgender youth, specifically transgender girls, are under attack in a new proposed bill co-sponsored by Oklahoma Senator James Lankford and authored by Georgia Senator Kelly Loeffler. This new bill, poorly titled the “Protection of Women and Girls in Sports Act”, would make it violation of federal law to allow transgender girls to participate in girls sports. Schools that recieve federal funding for their sports programs would lose that funding should they choose to be inclusive of transgender students in sports. We encourage our constituents to contact Senator Lankford and say NO to this proposed bill. James Lankford 316 Hart Senate Office Building Washington, DC 20510 Office Number: (202) 224-5754 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 3 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... EMERGENCY OVERFLOW HOMELESS SHELTEA NEEDS DUA HELP! - pet food crates or kennels leashes pet treats small blankets other pet supplies ..... ) ( Please drop off all donations at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 4 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... n)-~9 ·~ ~~~ ~r' GBTQIA• YOUTH C L ONSONZOOM SATURDAy AFTER:~EN@OKEO.ORG MORGAN.A E-MAIL ORMATION FOR INF SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA Click here to Email Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 5 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... Contact us to Join Support Group for Parents of Transgender People Starts Wednesday, October 7 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join DESIGNED BY YOU! POSTER. 0 Submit original 2021 Tulsa Pride T-shirt designs to jose.vega@okeq.org Tulsa Pride 2021 Design Contest Make this PRIDE your PRIDE! Tulsa Pride wants you to design our 2021 Pride logo! This contest includes a grand prize award, and the logo will be on all the 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 6 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... marketing material, T-shirts, Posters, and social media promotion material. The contest closes on Nov. 2nd, 11:00 p.m. Please submit your entry design electronically by emailing Pride director below! Contact Us In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Ellis Tinker Oct. 15, 1978 ~ Sept. 20, 2020 Celebration of Life Service Friday, October 2, 2p.m. Bixby Funeral Service RiverCrest Chapel 13329 S. Memorial Dr. Bixby, OK 74008 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 7 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... Edward Durnal 1949 ~ 9/3/2020 SAGE TULSA TALKS A peer support group for adults 55+ who have experienced the loss of a partner or a significant breakup sao-e ;~~~~~yfo~ ~• LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Talks Friday, October 9, 10:30 a.m -11:30 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 An in person or virtual peer support group for adults 55+ who have 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 8 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... experienced the loss of a partner or a significant break up. Click below to contact us in Nature LGBTQIA+ OUTDOORS GROUP = ♦ Saturday, October 17, 10:00 a.m. Turkey Mountain Urban Wilderness Area OUT in Nature: Hike at Turkey Mountain Join OKEQ's new outdoor group "OUT in Nature" for their first adventure: a hike at Turkey Mountain! We will meet at the Parking lot off of Elwood (the lower lot) and walk the red line trail (the easiest trail ). Click Here to Sign Up @~[Lf\[X)@(A)f\~~ lf@OO ~@lVJf\[L~1IT/ ~~~~~'if~ &W~OO'irlVJf\[L ~@~W~OO~f\1f0@~ -~ - - - ~flJ)OS?fl!l~ - - 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 9 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... OO~@@OO~OO'if@ @@~~&~~~ ~~(p)~~oo~oo '?271 «@ 71 m» 0 In celebration of Hispanic/Latinx Heritage Month We invited author, Rigoberto González for a virtual event to discuss his experience as a gay Latino and his memoir, Butterfly Boy: Memories of a Chicano Mariposa. Rigoberto was joined by Donovid Sekulits, the Outreach and Library Services Manager to moderate the conversation. Butterfly Boy is a unique coming out and coming-of-age story of a first-generation Chicano who trades one life for another, only to discover that history and memory are not exchangeable or forgettable. For more info about him and his stories checkout his website here: http:www.rigobertogonzalez.com To watch the Conversation with Rigoberto González, click the button below. Click here to watch the conversation BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 10 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... THE OKEO HEAL TH CLINIC NOW TAKES BLUE CROSS BLUE SHIELD! KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER l'AMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Age Discrimination Research Study Researchers at Oklahoma State University are recruiting gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men to discuss your experiences on social networking apps marketed for gay/bi men. Individuals who complete the questionnaire can earn a $10 Amazon gift card. To see if you are eligible, please click the button below. If you have questions, please feel free to contact Kristopher Struckmeyer (struckm@okstate.edu) Click Here for Survey 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 11 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... We Will Notarize Your Ballot! Save time, and protect your health. We are excited to announce that we have a notary that can notarize your ballot at no cost. If you would like to schedule to have your ballot notarized please contact us below: Contact Us ~//////////////~ ~----~ ~ GROUP VIRTUAL ~ ~ ~ ~//////////////~ Gender Support Group Every Wednesday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 12 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... In person or virtual peer support group The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group. Contact Us Gender Support Small Groups 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 In person or virtual peer support group On the 2nd Wednesday of every month the Gender Support Group will break out into four small groups. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Alex Wade for more information. Support group for trans men. Topics will range from clothing to surgeries, hormones, masculinity, or any other issue that affects our community. We are here to support one another in our transition journeys. Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 13 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Support group for trans women. Topics will range from clothing to surgeries, hormones, femininity, or any other issue that affects our community. We are here to support one another in our transition journeys. Contact Us H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 14 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Click Here to Make an Appointment Coming Out Workshop Starts Monday, October 5 1st Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 15 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free to participate, this one day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 opt.2 or click the button below to schedule. Contact Us Warrior Sisters Self Defense Monday, October 5, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite all those currently engaging in street protests for black lives, community safety, and racial justice to train with Warrior Sisters in de-escalation and community intervention! --We will cover-Protest Awareness & Safety Tactics De-escalation Boundary Setting By-stander / up-stander intervention --Protect yourselves and stand up for your comrades while out in the streets and organizing for justice! Learn practical de-escalation techniques and options for interrupting injustices and supporting community members targeted by racist violence. --No experience needed Free for all 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 16 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... Space is Limited Social distancing and masks are required. Register Here INDIGIQUEER INDIGIQUEER IS FOR ALL IDENTIFYING LGBTQ2S+ NATIVE AND INDIGENOUS PEOPLE. OCTOBER 9TH CULTURAL EVENTS, CONVERSATIONS, CELEBRATIONS & FRIENDS OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY 621 E4TH ST TULSA, 0 J K oklahomansfMequaltty IndigiQueer Friday, October 9, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m Meets via Zoom IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. "IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement." – Vnokeckv. For more information or link to virtual meeting contact Kao with the buttons below: Email Facebook 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 17 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook T.E.A. THERAPY EXPERIENCED ANEW OVER 113,000 LGBTIJA+ N>IVl>UALS HA VE BEEN 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 18 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... GROlP THAT WU UTLIZE SEVERAL DFFERENT ACTIVITES TO 1-ELP YOU TAKE YU NARRATIVE BACK At«> FN> PEER SUPPmT ALONG THE WAY. CM. SIT, At«> SPLL THE TEA WITH US ON TIIS .JOlRtEY TO THE MOST AUTIENTIC YOU. CALL, TEXT, OR EMAIL JESS BRANSTON 918-92"1-562"1 JESS@ANCHOREDBHC.COM Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A Monday, October 12, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Contact Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 or jess@anchoredbhc.com. Please email us by clicking the button below for the zoom link: Contact Us FOR MORE INFORMATION TEXT /CALL KAO 918.90lt.1869 Friday, October 16, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 19 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. Email anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + ry Third Friday at 7:00 p. 1 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 741 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday, October 16, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends.Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent at Spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 20 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions please contact Liz at the button below. El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras SAGE CARES 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 21 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have Resumed SAGE Tulsa has their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. You can also join via call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. Contact Us ~ Q JoinSAGE isill onZoom TUESDAY MORNINGS @l0AM Can't be here in person? Now you can join SAGE Tulsa virtually. The virtual SAGE Tulsa group meets Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. Click below to contact us for the link to the virtual meeting. Contact Us Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 22 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... BOOK OF THE WEEK In the Dream House: A Memoir by Carmen Maria Machado A personal account of a relationship gone bad, and a bold dissection of the mechanisms and cultural representations of psychological abuse. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT She was born to immigrant parents in Pennsylvania. Machado says her writing was heavily influenced by Gabriel Garcia Marquez's One Hundred Years of Solitude (ARMEN MARIA MACHADO 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 23 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... Check out our selection of colorful pride masks, now available at the Pride Store and on our online shop! Each mask is $7 and 100% your purchase supports the work of OKEQ! Click the image below to visit our store. DKEQ CORDNDVIRUS GUIDELINES: 1. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 2. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 3. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. 4. IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING FEVER, SHORTNESS OF BREATH, COUGHING, OR 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 24 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 25 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 26 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... Nominate a Healthcare Provider For information that leads to the Arrest and conuicllon 01 the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob al Rover Taxi s ' Anvone with Information is asked to con1ac1 the McA1es1er Police Deuanment al 918-423-1212 or the OSBI bv Calling lhe Auenc1ts Tip line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng d s OS Lol ov McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 27 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 28 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Gender Support Program OkEq Board Meeting Virtual Thursday, October 8th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Support Group for Transgender Teens '('" I I I 29 of 35 Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 4/28/26, 11:09 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S.. Regularly Scheduled Programming Please call 918-938-6537 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Allison Ikley-Freeman Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter C- ✓ I �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 30 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R 2nd Wednesday of the 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Tulsa Area Prime Timers Neill Equality Center! Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 31 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org sa<re ~~~~:~~! ~~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. --- - - SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! COVID-19 Canceled: Programming • LEGAL A10 tsi. , SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each Free Yoga Class 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 32 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... at OkEq month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. ARTS AND CRAFTS N~;~~ • AT THE OENN!S R NEILL EQUAUTY CENTER Survivors of Incest Anonymous Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 33 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ----- -- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 34 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits Outreach and Library Services He / Him / His Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC Sl>ONl<>REOIY 1HEGIOIIGIKAISU fAMllYfOUNOATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Shay Brewer Facilities Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Help with the Tulsa Emergency Shelter 35 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-with-the-Tulsa-Emergency-S... Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:09 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d5f352ef3ec8dab00b251c3ab70b9ab1.pdf 1954eeb00950a9480756212cfbc3555f PDF Text Text Pride in Your Park 1 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews October 5th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Advocacy Alert: 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 2 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Transgender youth, specifically transgender girls, are under attack in a new proposed bill co-sponsored by Oklahoma Senator James Lankford and authored by Georgia Senator Kelly Loeffler. This new bill, poorly titled the “Protection of Women and Girls in Sports Act,” would make it a violation of federal law to allow transgender girls to participate in girl’s sports. Schools that receive federal funding for their sports programs would lose that funding should they choose to be inclusive of transgender students in sports. We encourage our constituents to contact Senator Lankford and say NO to this proposed bill. James Lankford 316 Hart Senate Office Building Washington, DC 20510 Office Number: (202) 224-5754 6th Anniversary or Marriage Equality in Ohlahonia 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 3 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Today, Supreme Court Justice Alito and Justice Thomas called for the Supreme Court to revoke marriage equality on the grounds of religious freedom. We have fought this battle for years, and we aren’t stopping now. Tomorrow, October 6th is the sixth anniversary of Marriage Equality in the state of Oklahoma. This decision came after a decade long fight in court to have our marriages legally recognized. We will not let them turn back the clock on equality! Thank you Sharon and Mary Bishop Baldwin. With communities beginning to reopen their economies, the federal government is recommending people consistently wear cloth face masks in public places and in businesses where social distancing is difficult to maintain. The use of masks can reduce transmission of the virus by people who have it but aren't experiencing symptoms. PUTTING IT ON WHILE WEARING IT REMOVAL With clean hands, fit the mask to cover your mouth, nose and chin. Don't pull your mask down . Handling only the straps, untie or unloop your mask from behind and pull it away from your face. Secure ittightly to minimize gaps between your face and the mask. If you touch it, wash your hands and put on a clean one. Don't continue to use your mask if it gets damp. Replace it. Do not touch the front of the mask, your eyes, nose or mouth. Once it's on, do not touch or adjust it. Wash your hands. e I I~,,, ~VAIi~ V~ ~~ ''>lo; ..-':I Source US . C•nters for Di,ease Control and Prevention Immediately throw the mask in the laundry, or the trash if it's intended for single use. Wash your hands. ~ L nobj.:uno f,:i..dor..al o..c.tJii r.ot:omondando a laL nor.!C:.onac.1111A..c.iAmnr.A...11tilit:on ma!C:.t:;iar.illa!C:.lt:obor.tor.o.c....fa d alo..c. do to.la_on 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 4 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... •~---•- r ••-- I - , • .._. _ _ . ,_ _ , . _ . _ • • • - • • - - • • - - -- •-- ,...--• - - - • • - - ..,-- -•-•••,...-• - -••••--• 0 • • • -·- - - • •••--r-----• ..._. •..__ •- -•-------•-•---- re lugares publicos y empresas donde el distanciamiento social es dificil de mantener. El uso de mascarillas/cubre bocas puede reducir la transmisi6n del virus de personas que lo tienen, pero no experimentan sintomas. COMO PONERSE LA MASCARILLA/CUBRE BOCAS MIENTRAS LA ESTA USANDO COMO QUITARSE LA MASCARILLA/CUBRE BOCAS Manipule solo las correas o elasticos de la mascarilla, desate o agarre la mascarilla por detras de sus orejas y remuevala sin que la mascarilla toque su cara. Con las manos limpias, ajuste la mascarilla de manera que le cu bra la boca, la nariz y la barbilla. Nosejalela mascarilla hacia abajo. Asegurese la mascarilla ajustandola firmemente para minimizar los espacios entre su cara y la mascarilla. Si la toca, lavese las manos y pongase una mascarilla limpia. No siga usando la mascarilla si se humedece o se moja. Reemplacela por otra. No toque la parte del frente de la mascarilla, no se toque los ojos, la nariz o la boca. Fu•nte: Ponga inmediatamente la mascarilla a lavar, o en la basura siesta destinada para un solo uso. Lavese las manos. Una vez puesta, no la toque ni se la ajuste. Lavese las manos de nuevo. 1~""'VAIie11,ey I V" q,.: ~ ,-..;-.......,,'(' Centros para el Control y la Prevenc1on de Enformedades d@ los Estados Unldos 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 5 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Saturday, October 10, 11:00 a.m. – 2:00 p.m. O'Brien Park & Recreation Center 6149 N. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74130 Join us for Pride In Your Park! Bring yourself, a friend, a loved one, and come hangout! There will be hot dogs, chips, and bottled water, music, and games! You can bring your own food and outdoor games as well! Look for the Rainbow flags! We'll be bright and colorful at Shelter #2! Alphabet Soup Resumes Saturday, October 10, 5:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 6 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Alphabet Soup resumes in person on Oct. 10th at 5:00 pm. We will tie-dye masks in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center parking lot! Alphabet Soup is our LGBTQIA+ affirming group for youth ages 13-17 (youth in middle school through high school) that focuses on service, outreach, unity, and preparation for adulthood--or SOUP! We welcome all sexualities, genders, and expressions of self. Indigiqueer: An Evening With Justice Shawna Baker Saturday, November 6, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 As we kick off Native American Heritage Month, join us for an in-person reception with newly appointed Supreme Court Justice Shawna Baker of the Cherokee 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 7 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Nation. Shawna Baker will share her journey to the Cherokee Nation Supreme Court, and what the McGirt ruling means for the tribes, natives, and our queer/ two-spirit native community. This event will follow social distancing guidelines, masks will be required, and the event will be streamed live on Facebook for those unable to attend in person. Food and drinks will also be available. EMERGENCY OVERFLOW HOMELESS SHELTEA NEEDS DUR HELP! - .... pet food crates or kennels leashes pet treats small blankets other pet supplies ) ( Please drop off all donations at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E4th5t,Tulsa,OK74120 _, ,, ~ '" " ;j 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 8 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... VOICE LGBTQIA• YOUTH CHOIR SATU RDAY AFTERNOONS ON ZOOM E-MAIL MORGAN.ALLEN@OKEQ.ORG FOR INFORMATION SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA Click here to Email Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 9 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Parents of Transgender People Starts Wednesday, October 7 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join DESIGNED BY YOU! POSTER. 0 •• Submit original 2021 Tulsa Pride T-shirt designs to jose.vega@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 10 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Tulsa Pride 2021 Design Contest Make this PRIDE your PRIDE! Tulsa Pride wants you to design our 2021 Pride logo! This contest includes a grand prize award, and the logo will be on all the marketing material, T-shirts, Posters, and social media promotion material. The contest closes on Nov. 2nd, 11:00 p.m. Please submit your entry design electronically by emailing Pride director below! Contact Us In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Ellis Tinker Oct. 15, 1978 ~ Sept. 20, 2020 El Tinker Obituary 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 11 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Edward Durnal 1949 ~ 9/3/2020 SAGE TULSA TALKS A peer support group for adults 55+ who have experienced the loss of a partner or a significant breakup Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 12 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... SAGE Tulsa Talks Friday, October 9, 10:30 a.m -11:30 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 An in person or virtual peer support group for adults 55+ who have experienced the loss of a partner or a significant break up. Click below to contact us in Nature LGBTOIA+ OUTDOORS GROUP = ♦ Saturday, October 17, 10:00 a.m. Turkey Mountain Urban Wilderness Area OUT in Nature: Hike at Turkey Mountain Join OKEQ's new outdoor group "OUT in Nature" for their first adventure: a hike at Turkey Mountain! We will meet at the Parking lot off of Elwood (the lower lot) and walk the red line trail (the easiest trail ). Click Here to Sign Up Butt_eJf.ly- ◄ 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 13 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... In celebration of Hispanic/Latinx Heritage Month, we invited author, Rigoberto González for a virtual event to discuss his experience as a gay Latino and his memoir, Butterfly Boy: Memories of a Chicano Mariposa. Rigoberto was joined by Donovid Sekulits, the Outreach and Library Services Manager to moderate the conversation. Butterfly Boy is a unique coming out and coming-of-age story of a first-generation Chicano who trades one life for another, only to discover that history and memory are not exchangeable or forgettable. For more info about him and his stories checkout his website here: http:www.rigobertogonzalez.com To watch the Conversation with Rigoberto González, click the button below. Click here to watch the conversation BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 14 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSOIIED BY THEGEOIIGEltAISEII FAMILY l'OUND,t,TION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Age Discrimination Research Study Researchers at Oklahoma State University are recruiting gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men to discuss your experiences on social networking apps marketed for gay/bi men. Individuals who complete the questionnaire can earn a $10 Amazon gift card. To see if you are eligible, please click the button below. If you have questions, please feel free to contact Kristopher Struckmeyer (struckm@okstate.edu) Click Here for Survey We Will Notarize Your Ballot! Save time, and protect your health. We are excited to announce that we have a notary that can notarize your ballot at no cost. If you would like to schedule to have your ballot notarized please contact us below: 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 15 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Contact Us ~//////////////~ ~----~ ~ GROUP VIRTUAL ~ ~ ~ ~//////////////~ Gender Support Group Every Wednesday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 In person or virtual peer support group The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group. Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 16 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Gender Support Small Groups 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 In person or virtual peer support group On the 2nd Wednesday of every month the Gender Support Group will break out into four small groups. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Alex Wade for more information. Support group for trans men. Topics will range from clothing to surgeries, hormones, masculinity, or any other issue that affects our community. We are here to support one another in our transition journeys. Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 17 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Support group for trans women. Topics will range from clothing to surgeries, hormones, femininity, or any other issue that affects our community. We are here to support one another in our transition journeys. Contact Us H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 18 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Click Here to Make an Appointment Coming Out Workshop 1st Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free to participate, this one day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 opt.2 or click the button below to schedule. Contact Us I INDIGIQUEER IS FOR ALL IDENTIFYING LGBTQ2S+ NATIVE AND INDIGENOUS PEOPLE. OCTO E TH CULTURAL EVENTS, CONVERSATIONS, CELEBRATIONS & FRIENDS OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY 621 E4TH ST, TULSA, O K ok~homansf~equaltty IndigiQueer Friday, October 9, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 19 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Meets via Zoom IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. "IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement." – Vnokeckv. For more information or link to virtual meeting contact Kao with the buttons below: Email Facebook Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 20 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook Warrior Sisters Self Defense Monday, October 12, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite all those currently engaging in street protests for black lives, community safety, and racial justice to train with Warrior Sisters in de-escalation and community intervention! --We will cover-Protest Awareness & Safety Tactics De-escalation Boundary Setting By-stander / up-stander intervention --Protect yourselves and stand up for your comrades while out in the streets and organizing for justice! Learn practical de-escalation techniques and options for interrupting injustices and supporting community members targeted by racist violence. --No experience needed Free for all Space is Limited Social distancing and masks are required. Register Here T.E.A. 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 21 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... THERAPY EXPERIENCED ANEW OVER 113,000 LGBTIJA+ IOVl>UALS HAVE BEEN SlB.JECTED TO CONVERSION llERAPY. T.E.A IS A tEW GR(lJ> THAT HU. UTLIZE SEVERAL DFFERENT ACTIVITES TO 1-ELP YOO TAKE YU NARRATIVE BACK Atl> FN> PEER SUPPORT ALONG THE WAY. CCIE. SIT, At1> SPU THE TEA WITH US ON Tl-IS .JOlRtEY TO THE MOST AUTIENTIC YOO. CALL, TEXT, OR EMAIL JESS BRANSTON 918-9241-56241 JESS@ANCHOREDBHC.COM Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A Monday, October 12, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Contact Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 or jess@anchoredbhc.com. Please email us by clicking the button below for the zoom link: Contact Us FOR MORE INFORMATION TEXT /CALL KAO 918.90'9.1869 Friday, October 16, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 22 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. Email anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + ird Friday of the Month at 7 21 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday, October 16, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 23 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends.Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent at Spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions please contact Liz at the button below. El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras SAGE CARES SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have Resumed 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 24 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... SAGE Tulsa has their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. You can also join via call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. Contact Us ~ Q JoinSAGE isill' onZoom Can't be here in person? Now you can join SAGE Tulsa virtually. The virtual SAGE Tulsa group meets Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. Click below to contact us for the link to the virtual meeting. Contact Us Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK In the Dream House: 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 25 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... .L1 ..1.T.&.~ ....... v.a..a. ...,. 1 '-'u..a. ....... ~ ..... ..LT.au.a. a.u .J..T.&.U'--a...&U'-.A.V A personal account of a relationship gone bad, and a bold dissection of the mechanisms and cultural representations of psychological abuse. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT She was born to immigrant parents in Pennsylvania. Machado says her writing was heavily influenced by Gabriel Garcia Marquez's One Hundred Years of Solitude (ARMEN MARIA MACHADO Check out our selection of colorful pride masks, now available at the Pride Store and on our online shop! Each mask is $7 and 100% your purchase supports the work of OKEQ! Click the image below to visit our store. 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 26 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... DKEQ CORDNDVIRUS GUIDELINES: 1. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 2. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 3. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. 4. IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING FEVER, SHORTNESS OF BREATH, COUGHING, OR ANY OTHER SYMPTOM LISTED BY THE CDC, PLEASE REMAIN AT HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 27 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 28 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Crisis Text START to 741-741 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 29 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... ARD! For 1n1ormat1on that leads to the Arrest and conu1c11on 01 the Person or Persons Resoonslble tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' I I I Anvone with lnfonnatlon Is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI 11V Calling the Agency's TIP line at 1-800-522-8011 or bV Emalllng d s sbl k. V McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 30 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 31 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 32 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please call 918-938-6537 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, October 8th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 33 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 34 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Ages 18+. jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. --- - - Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! COVID-19 Canceled: Programming • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 35 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. ARTS AND CRAF~ : ~-HT AT THE OENNTS R NEILl EQUAl!TV CENTER mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Community Partners health outreach prevention education , Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ---- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff I 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 36 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits Outreach and Library Services He / Him / His Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 37 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC S~NIOlt1on Tl11DIO•Dlll.AJH• ~AMllTfOUNOATIOtl Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth 4/28/26, 11:09 AM �Pride in Your Park 38 of 38 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-in-Your-Park.html?soid=11... Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:09 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e61269c7eba12cee1239607aee09a2c4.pdf 1741f0d84a08ac49f0e3ce2ce6c9950e PDF Text Text Saving Lives Giving Blood 1 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews July 20th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 2 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... Every donor can receive a free COVID-19 antibody~. Appointment needed to participate. "Test ..,.,... .b e . , . . d - -.'lhisasthosnotbeen'"""wedill<thefocxlll'dDnc--ll'disnottltlendedford-orn-of Golf blnl'I 1WO bl1llt(5 sc12nca Gone 51111in' Li.,&S museum llll.lNI Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive Friday, July 24, 2020 at 2:00 p.m. – 7 :00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 In partnership with the Oklahoma Blood Institute, Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a blood drive on July 24th. We know that the current FDA guidelines regarding men who have sex with men are imperfect and discriminatory, but it is still important to donate blood if you can. Presently the FDA will allow men who have had sex with men to donate blood if they have been abstinent for 90 days, HIV negative, and not on any PrEP medications. During the COVID-19, pandemic blood donations have gone down, so those of us who are healthy and able should donate. To schedule an appointment, call 877-340-8777 or Click the button below: Schedule Your Appointment Tulsa LGBTQ+ History Night: First Pride Parade 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 3 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... Tuesday, July 21, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. Join the OKEQ History Project as we look back on different decades of Tulsa LGBTQ+ history from the OKEQ History Project Room inside the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This Tuesday we will be discussing the first Pride Parade held in 1999. You will be able to view History Night on OKEQ's Facebook page! Contact Us n # -: . #-:-. n #·. •.• •.• 0 ··:•· 0 0 : • . -7))~ · n~ •.• ·•:•· 0 0 Zoom Karaoke Thursday, July 23, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 8:30 p.m. Join us on July 23rd for some fun Zoom Karaoke! Safe at home with your snacks, drinks, and your favorite outfit. Log on and make some friends, sing your favorite song, show off your moves and skills, and have fun! Register 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 4 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... Equality Gaming Night Online Friday, July 24, 2020 at 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Let's play some games on Zoom while meeting new people and enjoying our own drinks and snacks at home. Register Warrior Sisters Self Defense is Back Monday, July 24, 2020 at 2:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 5 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite all those currently engaging in street protests for black lives, community safety, and racial justice to train with Warrior Sisters in de-escalation and community intervention! --We will cover-Protest Awareness & Safety Tactics De-escalation Boundary Setting By-stander / up-stander intervention --Protect yourselves and stand up for your comrades while out in the streets and organizing for justice! Learn practical de-escalation techniques and options for interrupting injustices and supporting community members targeted by racist violence. --No experience needed Free for all Space is Limited Social distancing and masks are required. REGISTER HERE TO JOIN H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Starting August 8th Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 6 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Karen Levitt Davis Aug. 16, 1945 - July 15, 2020 Karen was a supportive ally to the LGBTQ+ community. In 2010 she was an Oklahomans for Equality Community Hero award recipient. See Karen's Obituary 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 7 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... David Smith Nov. 3, 1964 - July 17, 2020 Services to be announced. Sammy Joe Remington June 24, 1990 - July 8, 2020 A memorial service will be held on Tuesday, July 14th 2020 at 9:05 AM at the Sperry First Baptist Church (301 W Main St, Sperry, OK 74073). Sammy's Obituary Jaumia Shan Johnson April 4, 1986 - July 5, 2020 There was a family service on July 13, 2020. Dominique LaRue (Darrell Napier) December 11, 1970 - June 19, 2020 Bar owner at LaRue's 4302 E Pine St, Tulsa, OK 74115 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 8 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... Empress IV 2011 Imperial Court of all Oklahoma Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on First Thursday Art Show July 2020 - ArtsAFlame Ra Vashtar is a mixed media artist who specializes in the use of monsters as symbols for his experience and emotions. Born in Ponca City, OK, Ra was home-schooled until high school, where difficulty fitting in lead him to explore an interest in expressing himself in art class as a way to cope. Ra received a diploma from CG Spectrum for Advanced Concept Art and currently works as a full-time artist, illustrating comics, designing art assets for indie video games, and making monster figurines for people to “adopt.” He is currently featured in Hot Topic's Creator Program, where his designs are available on t-shirts via the Hot Topic website. Ra sees monsters as symbols for marginalization of misunderstood people, and uses them in his advocacy for LGBTQIA+ and mental health issues. He writes articles and does illustrations for Neuro-Clastic, a Neuro-diversity blog, so he can empower others on the Autism Spectrum. As an autistic, queer, and 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 9 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... transgender person who struggles with mental health, Ra hopes to humanize these issues, even when that means drawing things that aren't exactly human themselves. Click Here To Purchase ok Reading Rainbow Book Club Rainbow Book club welcomes everyone who would like to participate. Currently we meet for one hour, twice a month virtually via Zoom. The only thing we we ask is that you are kind and respectful and keep the discussion related to the book. We will discuss and answer critical questions about the current book we reading. Join Rainbow Book Club us as we finish Emma this month. The dates and chapters that will be discussed are included below. 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 10 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... Starting this month we will be moving to a new day of the week. We’ll still meet twice a month, but now on Sunday’s from 3-4pm. The zoom link will be provided once you have reached out. For any questions or concerns please contact us below. July 26th (chapters 44-55) 3-4pm Contact Donovid Sign Up via Facebook anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + August 14th at 7:00 p.m. 1 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 741 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday, August 14, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 11 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends.Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent at spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions please contact Liz at the button below. El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 12 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... Gender Support Group Wednesday, July 22 at 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Our Gender support Group is coming back Live and in person Wednesday June 24th! We will continue to offer a virtual version for anyone who needs access. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group . Contact Us SAGE CARES SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have Resumed SAGE Tulsa has resumed their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:30 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 13 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... SAGE Group Call Tuesday If you are not ready to join the in-person meeting, you can call in Tuesday at 10:30 a.m.. To join, call (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60# Contact Us DKEQ CORDNDVIRUS GUIDELINES: 1. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 2. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 3. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. 4. IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING FEVER, SHORTNESS OF BREA TH, COUGHING. OR ANY OTHER SYMPTOM LISTED BY THE CDC, PLEASE REMAIN AT HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 14 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... I I Queer the Census 2020 Your ln e o Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. 20C Census Information Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 15 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 16 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... Email Us Contact Us KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THEGEOAGEltAIHA FAMILY FOUNDATION Even though the Equality Center is closed, our clinic is still open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 17 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider For information that leads to the Arrest and conu1c11on 01 the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob al Rover Taxi s ' Anvone with information is asked to conlact the McAlester Police Deuanment al 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI bv Calling Iha Auanc1ts Tip line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng u s OS Lol ov McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 18 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 19 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 20 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. COVID-19 Canceled: Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGALAID th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, August 6th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 21 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Fitness Class at OkEq Tuesdays 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Christopher Gomez's Workout program is designed with science to help individuals meet their fitness goals in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming environment. Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 22 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Gender Support Program Req Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Friday July 3rd at 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org (First time interview required before attending) Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - -The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 23 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - . viree Sov\ls Three Souls Every 2nd Monday Join us for our monthly Heart Circle at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We meet on the second Sunday of every month. All queer men are welcome to the circle (gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual and queer). siawso.org Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ARTS AND CRAFTS NI; ;T .•· AT THE OENNIS R NE!Ll EQUALITY CENTER Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 24 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education , Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, Wednesday ideas, contacts, products and services, and also 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 25 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Tracy Allen SAGE Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org KAISER MEDICA~ ~!:~~ED ■Y Tl+,..-......... ...... LYl'DUl+D... ION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits Outreach and Library Services Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Audio and Lighting Engineer Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director 4/28/26, 10:55 AM �Saving Lives Giving Blood 26 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Saving-Lives-Giving-Blood.html?... Lynn Riggs Theater Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Bob Hanson Marcia Keesee Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 10:55 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d2633454659dd75c17fec71f8b9d4688.pdf d44ed587d0f82646b623bd802b5ba19a PDF Text Text Smore's and More 1 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews October 19th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 2 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... Alphabet Soup Saturday, Oct. 24, 5:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa OK 74120 Alphabet Soup is back in person at its new time: 5 pm-8 pm! This week, we will be watching a movie and making s'mores in the Event Center at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Alphabet Soup is our LGBTQIA+ affirming group for youth ages 13-17 (youth in middle school through high school) that focuses on service, outreach, unity, and preparation for adulthood--or SOUP! We welcome all sexualities, genders, and expressions of self. Masks are required, and social distancing will be enforced. Congratulations! Under 30 Award for Health Care Morgan Allen wrote a play called "The Scam Artist is Present". The play was picked up by Heller Shorts festival. 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 3 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... Anna Puhl was chosen to be the Director of "The Scam Artist is Present". The play was picked up by Heller Shorts festival. In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost Kirk Davis Oct. 25, 1965 ~ Oct. 12, 2020 Kirk Davis Obituary 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 4 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... Ellis Tinker Oct. 15, 1978 ~ Sept. 20, 2020 El Tinker Obituary ' I I I I I 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 5 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... a we eele1Jrate Dia de IOI thOle who have Jttllled tllls vear.. CGille ~ c e a MenaD tradldoa eelebrated around the world at the Dennis IL KelD Bqaallty center where you can 'flew aJradidoDal Ofreada How communities around the world honor the lives of loved ones who have passed may vary in different countries, languages, cultures, and religions, but death is something that touches us all. So in the spirit of diversity and building community, Oklahomans for Equality will honor the people we lost in the LGBTQ community this year by observing the Mexican holiday Dia de Los Muertos (Day of the Dead) which is from October 31st through November 2nd. At the Dennis R Neill Equality center, there will be an Ofrenda (offering altar) that includes all the traditional elements of the altar: Papel Picado, candles, marigolds, and photos of those who have passed. Dia de los Muertos or Day of the Dead is a Mexican holiday celebrated throughout Mexico and by people of Mexican heritage around the world. It involves family and friends gathering to pray for and remember their loved ones who have passed, and helping support their spiritual journey. In Mexican culture, death is viewed as a natural part of the human cycle. Mexicans view it not as a day of sadness but as a day of celebration because their loved ones awaken and celebrate with them. If you would like to have your loved one included please send an email to donovid.sekulits@okeq.org - - - - - - that includes their name, a photo, their birthdate, and when they passed by October 25 at 5 pm. For more information about Dia de los Muertos or how you can celebrate in Tulsa check out the links below: dayofthedead www.livingarts.org/day-of-the-dead CasadelaCulturaTulsa 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 6 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... EARLY VOTING EQUALITY VAN RIDE Oklahomans for Equality will be shuttling voters to ONEOK Field for early voting Thursday, October 29th, 9:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.; Friday, October 30th, 9:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.; and Saturday, October 31st, 9:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. You can park at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 East 4th Street, and the staff will shuttle you to ONEOK Ball Field (also known as Drillers Stadium). The Tulsa County Election Board has chosen ONEOK Field located at 201 North Elgin Avenue as the only designated spot in Tulsa County for early in-person voting. A mask is required to vote in person and must be worn while riding in the Equality Van. To vote, you must have proof of identity and be a registered voter in Tulsa County. We will also provide shuttles to and from precincts in Tulsa County on election day, November 3rd, from 8:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. You must schedule the ride for election day ahead of time. Please email krissy.dudley@okeq.org to plan a ride for election day. PROOF OF IDENTITY A document used for proof of identity for voting must have been issued by the United States government, the State of Oklahoma, or a federally recognized tribal government. The law requires a document used for proof of identity for voting to contain the following information: • The name of the person to whom it was issued • A photograph of the person to whom it was issued • An expiration date that is after the date of the election, unless the identification is valid indefinitely The law requires that the voter's name on documentation "substantially conform" to the voter's name in the Precinct Registry. In other words, your name on your proof of identity must match your name in the Precinct Registry. In addition, voters may use the free voter identification card they received by mail from the County Election Board when they registered to vote. The law allows the use of the voter identification card even though it does not include a photograph. 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 7 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... We Will Notarize Your Ballot! Save time, and protect your health. We are excited to announce that we have a notary that can notarize your ballot at no cost. If you would like to schedule to have your ballot notarized please contact us below: Contact Us First Thursday Art Show November 2020 - Hill Taylor Starting Thursday, November 5, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 8 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... Approaching her third solo exhibition, Tulsa artist Hill Taylor now has her eyes wide open. Her latest exhibition, SHUT YOUR EYES, is featured in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center’s art gallery in Downtown Tulsa for the month of November. This collection features eighteen new original abstract expressionist pieces by the artist. Visitors will be able to snatch up these highly-anticipated works while being mesmerized by the wild splashes of color and imagination of this collection. Derived from a variety of closed-eye experiences, Taylor explores how we process, remember, and imagine color, specifically when our eyes are closed. Each piece carries its own unique story and leaps out of the artist’s experiences and imagination and onto the canvas through carefully-composed movement and saturation. This collection, by appearances, is reminiscent of the artist’s 2014 collection STORIES, which was highlighted by the massive hanging installation of PERFECT TIMING, sixty-six metal paper planes suspended from the ceiling of Foolish Things Coffee Company. All pieces will be available for purchase, both in-person and online. A virtual tour of the collection will also be available through the Oklahomans For Equality YouTube channel. Taylor’s exhibition SHUT YOUR EYES will be appearing through the month of November. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is hosting the event and 30% of art sales will benefit their vital work in Oklahoma. For more information, please visit www.hilltaylorart.com or www.okeq.org. 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 9 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 10 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... Indigiqueer: An Evening With Justice Shawna Baker Friday, November 6, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 As we kick off Native American Heritage Month, join us for an in-person reception with newly appointed Supreme Court Justice Shawna Baker of the Cherokee Nation. Shawna Baker will share her journey to the Cherokee Nation Supreme Court, and what the McGirt ruling means for the tribes, natives, and our queer/ two-spirit native community. This event will follow social distancing guidelines, masks will be required, and the event will be streamed live on Facebook for those unable to attend in person. Food and drinks will also be available. ~ PICK UP YOUR COPY OF THE LEAGUE OF WOMEN VOTERS OF TULSA OKLAHOMA AND TULSA AREA VOTER GUIDES AT THE EQUALITY CENTER Rides to the Polls 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 11 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... • Tulsa Voter Van is providing free rides to the polls for early voting and on Election Day. People can schedule rides by calling us at 918-200-9153, sign up on our website tulsavotervan.com, or messaging us on Facebook. Our resources are available in Spanish. We are also wheelchair accessible on Election Day. Our Halloween event, Tick & Treat, is on Halloween at 11am. We will be meeting at Guthrie Green and strutting in costume to ONEOK Field to vote during early voting. What a great reason to show off, right? It's free for everyone, and we have special treats for people who donate $13. TULSA VOTER VAN Tic~&" &iRgAI A costumed stroll to the polls Early Voting• October 31 11am • Guthrie Green 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 12 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... EMERGENCY OVERFLOW HOMELESS SHELTEA NEEDS DUA HELP! pet food crates or kennels leashes pet treats small blankets other pet supplies ) (. Please drop off all donations at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 13 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... ~ (.3 (S., ltA\!~v~ r ~ -0 VOICI LGBTQIA+ YOUTH CHOIR SATURDAY AFTERNOONS ON ZOOM E-MAIL MORGAN.ALLEN@OKEQ.ORG FOR INFORMATION SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA Click here to Email Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 14 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join DESIGNED BY YOU! POSTER. 0 Submit original 2021 Tulsa Pride T-shirt designs to jose.vega@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 15 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... Tulsa Pride 2021 Design Contest Make this PRIDE your PRIDE! Tulsa Pride wants you to design our 2021 Pride logo! This contest includes a grand prize award, and the logo will be on all the marketing material, T-shirts, Posters, and social media promotion material. The contest closes on Nov. 2nd, 11:00 p.m. Please submit your entry design electronically by emailing Pride director below! Contact Us ., BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 16 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... Make an Appointment Support group for trans men. Topics will range from clothing to surgeries, hormones, masculinity, or any other issue that affects our community. We are here to support one another in our transition journeys. Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Support group for trans women. Topics will range from clothing to surgeries, hormones, femininity, or any other issue that affects our community. We are here to support one another in our transition journeys. Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 17 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Click Here to Make an Appointment 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 18 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Visit Us on Facebook Coming Out Workshop 1st Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free to participate, this one day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 opt.2 or click the button below to schedule. Contact Us I DIGIQUEER INDIGIQUEER IS FOR ALL IDENTIFYING LGBTQ2S+ NATIVE AND INDIGENOUS PEOPLE. 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 19 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... OVE BE 13TH CULTURAL EVENTS, CONVERSATIONS, CELEBRATIONS &FRIENDS OKLA~OMANS FOR EQUALITY 621 E4TH ST, TULSA, 0 K oklahomans~oqualtty IndigiQueer Friday, November 13, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m Meets via Zoom IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. "IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement." – Vnokeckv. For more information or link to virtual meeting contact Kao with the buttons below: Email Facebook anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 20 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... ird Friday of the Month at 7 21 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends.Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent at Spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions please contact Liz at the button below. El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 21 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... FOR MORE INFORMATION TEXT /CALL KAO 918.90lt.1869 Friday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. Email SAGE CARES SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have Resumed 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 22 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... SAGE Tulsa has their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. You can also join via call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. Contact Us ~ Q JoinSAGE --- onZoom TUESDAY MORNINGS @lOAM Can't be here in person? Now you can join SAGE Tulsa virtually. The virtual SAGE Tulsa group meets Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. Click below to contact us for the link to the virtual meeting. Contact Us 0 BOOK Of THE WEEK ,.,) (' J HE ✓ /r,,,,------- ' 4 '( f 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 23 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... The Pull of the Stars by Emma Donoghue In an Ireland doubly ravaged by war and disease, urse Julia Power works at an understaffed hospital in the city center, where expectant mothers who have come down with the terrible new Flu are quarantined together. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Born in Dublin in 1969, Emma Donoghue is a writer of contemporary and historical fiction whose novels include the international bestseller "Room" (her screen adaptation was -----------------. nominated for four Oscars), EMMA DONOGHUE DKEQ CORDNDVIRUS GUIDELINES: 1. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 2. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 3. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAO AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. 4. IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING FEVER, SHORTNESS OF BREATH, COUGHING, OR ANY OTHER SYMPTOM LISTED BY THE CDC, PLEASE REMAIN AT HOME. 5. OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, ANO MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 24 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 Equality • • ■-■ 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 25 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... Health A lliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider For intormation that leads to the Arrest and conuiction 01 the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 26 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' Anvone with lnfonnatlon Is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI 11V Calling the Agency's TIP Line at 1-800-522-8011 or bV Emalllng d s osbl k. V McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 27 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 28 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6537 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 29 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -or alex.wade@okeq.org Virtual Thursday, October 8th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. A first time interview is required before attending 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 30 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- · -or alex.wade@okeq.org sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 31 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan - ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! - -- COVID-19 Canceled: Programming • LEGAL A10 thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 32 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ------ -- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 33 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC 5l>ONSOREDIY THiGIOIIGlkAJSU fAMllYfOUNDATION 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 34 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... ... ·~ -' ') ~'.j\'.'' Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman 4/28/26, 11:11 AM �Smore's and More 35 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Smore-s-and-More.html?soid=11... Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:11 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f017fa815058545f5599d27ccd458398.pdf 763f1d23ee4a892dde41bad79e03034d PDF Text Text Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 1 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews October 26th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! OKEQ COVID· 19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 2 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK. STAY HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Celebrating Asexual / ACE Awareness Week It’s Asexual Awareness Week. Visibility is so important for our ace/aro/demi community, and we are committed to being a center for all the letters of our alphabet. Happy Asexual Awareness Week! If you are interested in ACE Asexual programming Please contact us: 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 3 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... Contact Us Monday October 29th, is Intersex Awareness Day. Celebrate intersex people. Lift up intersex people. Listen to intersex people. Cherish intersex people. Today and every day. 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So in the spirit of diversity and building community, Oklahomans for Equality will honor the people we lost in the LGBTQ community this year by observing the Mexican holiday Dia de Los Muertos (Day of the Dead), which is from October 31st through November 2nd. At the Dennis R Neill Equality center, there will be an Ofrenda (offering altar) that includes all the traditional elements of the altar: Papel Picado, candles, marigolds, and photos of those who have passed. Dia de Los Muertos or Day of the Dead is a Mexican holiday celebrated throughout Mexico and worldwide by people of Mexican heritage. It involves family and friends gathering to pray for and remember their loved ones who have passed and to help support their spiritual journey. In Mexican culture, death is viewed as a natural part of the human cycle. Mexicans view it not as a day of sadness but as a day of celebration because their loved ones awaken and celebrate with them. If you would like to have your loved one included, please send an email to donovid.sekulits@okeq.org that includes their name, photo, birthdate, and ----when they passed by October 25th at 5 pm. For more information about Dia de Los Muertos or how you can celebrate in Tulsa, check out the links below: dayofthedead www.livingarts.org/day-of-the-dead CasadelaCulturaTulsa 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 6 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... Alphabet Soup: Costume Fashion Show Saturday, Oct. 31, 5:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 HAPPY HALLOWEEN from Alphabet Soup! OOOOOOH It's a special, HAUNTED edition of Alphabet Soup, OKEQ's LGBTQIA+ affirming youth group for teens 13-17! Get your costumes ready for the runway because it is time to werk, zombie style. We will be in the Lynn Riggs Theatre celebrating Halloween with a fashion show. We ask that you incorporate a mask into your costume, as masks are required for this event! We will award prizes for best costume and MOST CREATIVE USE OF A MASK! We welcome all sexualities, genders, and expressions of self. EARLY VOTING EQUALITY VAN RIDE Oklahomans for Equality will be shuttling voters to ONEOK Field for early voting Thursday, October 29th, 9:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.; Friday, October 30th, 9:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.; and Saturday, October 31st, 9:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. You can park at the 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 7 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 East 4th Street, and the staff will shuttle you to ONEOK Ball Field (also known as Drillers Stadium). The Tulsa County Election Board has chosen ONEOK Field located at 201 North Elgin Avenue as the only designated spot in Tulsa County for early in-person voting. A mask is required to vote in person and must be worn while riding in the Equality Van. To vote, you must have proof of identity and be a registered voter in Tulsa County. We will also provide shuttles to and from precincts in Tulsa County on election day, November 3rd, from 8:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. You must schedule the ride for election day ahead of time. Please email krissy.dudley@okeq.org to plan a ride for election day. PROOF OF IDENTITY A document used for proof of identity for voting must have been issued by the United States government, the State of Oklahoma, or a federally recognized tribal government. The law requires a document used for proof of identity for voting to contain the following information: • The name of the person to whom it was issued • A photograph of the person to whom it was issued • An expiration date that is after the date of the election, unless the identification is valid indefinitely The law requires that the voter's name on documentation "substantially conform" to the voter's name in the Precinct Registry. In other words, your name on your proof of identity must match your name in the Precinct Registry. In addition, voters may use the free voter identification card they received by mail from the County Election Board when they registered to vote. The law allows the use of the voter identification card even though it does not include a photograph. We Will Notarize Your Ballot! Save time, and protect your health. We are excited to announce that we have a notary that can notarize your ballot at no cost. If you would like to schedule to have your ballot notarized please contact us below: Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 8 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... First Thursday Art Show November 2020 - Hill Taylor Starting Thursday, November 5, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Approaching her third solo exhibition, Tulsa artist Hill Taylor now has her eyes wide open. Her latest exhibition, SHUT YOUR EYES, is featured in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center’s art gallery in Downtown Tulsa for the month of November. This collection features eighteen new original abstract expressionist pieces by the artist. Visitors will be able to snatch up these highly-anticipated works while being mesmerized by the wild splashes of color and imagination of this collection. Derived from a variety of closed-eye experiences, Taylor explores how we process, remember, and imagine color, specifically when our eyes are closed. Each piece carries its own unique story and leaps out of the artist’s experiences and imagination and onto the canvas through carefully-composed movement and saturation. This collection, by appearances, is reminiscent of the artist’s 2014 collection STORIES, which was highlighted by the massive hanging installation of PERFECT TIMING, sixty-six metal paper planes suspended from the ceiling of Foolish Things Coffee Company. All pieces will be available for purchase, both in-person and online. A virtual tour 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 9 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... of the collection will also be available through the Oklahomans For Equality YouTube channel. Taylor’s exhibition SHUT YOUR EYES will be appearing through the month of November. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is hosting the event and 30% of art sales will benefit their vital work in Oklahoma. For more information, please visit www.hilltaylorart.com or www.okeq.org. 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 10 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... ' OCTOBER 30TH, 7PM IndigiQueer Friday, October 30, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Join us for a pre-Halloween event of pizza and camaraderie. Masks are required and social distancing will be enforced. "IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement." – Vnokeckv. For more information or link to virtual meeting contact Kao with the buttons below: Email Facebook 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 11 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... Indigiqueer: An Evening With Justice Shawna Baker Friday, November 6, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 As we kick off Native American Heritage Month, join us for an in-person reception with newly appointed Supreme Court Justice Shawna Baker of the Cherokee Nation. Shawna Baker will share her journey to the Cherokee Nation Supreme Court, and what the McGirt ruling means for the tribes, natives, and our queer/ two-spirit native community. This event will follow social distancing guidelines, masks will be required, and the event will be streamed live on Facebook for those unable to attend in person. Food and drinks will also be available. Fairy Tree 2020 The Fairy Tree is back! Every year we ask our constituents to donate gifts for people affected by HIV. This year we have 52 names on our list so be sure to sign up early so everyone gets a gift! 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 12 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... If you are interested in donating, please contact us below. Alex will provide you with a list of names and gift requests for you to choose from. All gifts are due back by December 1st! @rm • • • Sign Up Now! 2020 • • • DESIGNED BY YOU! POSTER. 0 Submit original 2021 Tulsa Pride T-shirt designs to jose.vega@okeq.org Tulsa Pride 2021 Design Contest Make this PRIDE your PRIDE! Tulsa Pride wants you to design our 2021 Pride logo! This contest includes a grand prize award, and the logo will be on all the marketing material, T-shirts, Posters, and social media promotion material. The contest closes on Nov. 2nd, 11:00 p.m. Please submit your entry design electronically by emailing Pride director below! Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 13 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... ~ PICK UP YOUR COPY OF THE LEAGUE OF WOMEN VOTERS OF TULSA OKLAHOMA AND TULSA AREA VOTER GUIDES AT THE EQUALITY CENTER EMERGENCY OVERFLOW HOMELESS SHELTEA NEEDS DUR HELP! 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 14 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... I --; - - - - - - ---pet food crates or kennels leashes - pet treats small blankets other pet supplies ...________. _, ) Q ( C ' ,_ off all donations at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please drop 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 - - . . ,, J ~ ·• ,., , I Parent Support Group Saturday November 7, 3:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at morgan.allen@okeq.org. /,~/,',, ~// 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 15 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... VQICI! LGBTQIA+ YOUTH CHOIR SATURDAY AFTERNOONS ON ZOOM E-MAIL MORGAN.ALLEN@OKEO.ORG FOR INFORMATION SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA Click here to Email Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 16 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Contact us to Join Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 17 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... Kirk Davis Oct. 25, 1965 ~ Oct. 12, 2020 Kirk Davis Obituary Ellis Tinker Oct. 15, 1978 ~ Sept. 20, 2020 El Tinker Obituary BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma THE OKEQ HEAL TH CLINIC NOW TAKES BLUE CROSS BLUE SHIELD! 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 18 of 35 KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 19 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Click Here to Make an Appointment Coming Out Workshop 1st Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Free to participate, this one day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 opt.2 or click the button below to schedule. Contact Us Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 20 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... Email Us Visit Us on Facebook Transgender Day of Remembrance - TDoR Friday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR) is an annual observance on November 20 that honors the memory of those whose lives were lost in acts of anti-transgender violence. Additionally, during the week of November 12-19, people and organizations around the country participate in Transgender Awareness Week to help raise transgender people's visibility and address the issues trans people face. anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 21 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... ird Friday of the Month at 7 21 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends.Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent at Spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions please contact Liz at the button below. 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 22 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras ~ .· People of Color Social ,_r Open Mic Night Nov. 20th. 7-9pm -·~ ~ Friday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 POC Social is a space for people of color across various backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. This event is an open mic night! Come sing, dance, recite poetry, or a monologue. Masks are required, and social distancing will be enforced. For more information contact: Email 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 23 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... SAGE CARES SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have Resumed SAGE Tulsa has their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. You can also join via call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. Contact Us Join SAGE on Zoom TUESDAY MORNINGS @10AM ~ Can't be here in person? Now you can join SAGE Tulsa virtually. The virtual SAGE Tulsa group meets Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. Click below to contact us for the link to the virtual meeting. Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 24 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... Narq&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library • BOOK OF THE WEEK Long Live the Tribe of Fatherless Girls: A Memoir by T Kira Madden This story grapples with the dichotomies of privilege and isolation, coming to her own queerness and biracial identity, and how friendship can mean salvation. '"' 11g.-J"'i,,.e • • tl1c 'l~i-iloc· ttf .. l~tl1c1·ltss .. . ~.(iii-ls AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT T Kira Mahealani Madden is a lesbian APIA writer, photographer, and amateur magician living in Hudson Valley, New York. She holds an MFA in creative writing from Sarah Lawrence College and an BA in design and - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - literature from Parsons School of Design and l KIRA MADDEN 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 25 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 26 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider For 1n1ormat1on that leads to the Arrest and conu1c11on 01 the Person or Persons Responslble tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' I I I Anvone with Information Is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the DSBI bV Calling the Agency's Tip line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emailing d s@ bl 11.ll_OV McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 27 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 28 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 29 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6537 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, November 12th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 30 of 35 required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- · -or alex.wade@okeq.org - - --- https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... Support Group for Transgender Teens fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org - - --- 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org - - - --- Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 31 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Email youth@okeq.org for more information. individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -or alex.wade@okeq.org sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. --- - - Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 32 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... COVID-19 Canceled: Programming • LEGALAID th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 33 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... in a fun and supportive atmosphere. singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. www.okeq.org/eba ------ -- OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 34 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC S~NSORIDIY THIGIO.Gll<AIIU ~AHlllVPOUNDATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:12 AM �Early In Person Voting Begins Oct. 29th 35 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Early-In-Person-Voting-Begins-Oc... Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:12 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/890bfa0a5321d77ff81052e7dc34bbf3.pdf aec45bbd8a48e6a2b6896daf49830895 PDF Text Text Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 1 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews November 2nd, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 2 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 3 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... Indigiqueer: An Evening With Justice Shawna Baker Friday, November 6, 7:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 As we kick off Native American Heritage Month, join us for an in-person reception with newly appointed Supreme Court Justice Shawna Baker of the Cherokee Nation. Shawna Baker will share her journey to the Cherokee Nation Supreme Court, and what the McGirt ruling means for the tribes, natives, and our queer/ two-spirit native community. This event will follow social distancing guidelines, masks will be required, and the event will be streamed live on Facebook for those unable to attend in person. Food and drinks will also be available. 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 4 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... OKEQ COVID· 19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. EMERGENCY OVERFLOW HOMELESS SHEL TEA NEEDS DUR HELP! pet food crates or kennels leashes pet treats small blankets other pet supplies ) (. Please drop off all donations at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 ---~ - - ......... ----------------... -------- --------~-.·4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 5 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... Shop for the Holidays with 1 amazonsmile · -:::::--_~~ You shop. Amazon gives. ~ Now Supporting: Oklahomans for Equality 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 6 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... • I I I I I a we cele1Jrate Dia de IG8 thole who llaft J11111al 11111 vear.. CGille ~ e e a Jlalan tradldoa celebrated around the world at the JleDDls R. KelD Bqaallty ceaterwbere you am riew aJraditioDal Ofrenda How communities worldwide honor the lives of loved ones who have passed may 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 7 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... vary in different countries, languages, cultures, and religions, but death is something that touches us all. So in the spirit of diversity and building community, Oklahomans for Equality will honor the people we lost in the LGBTQ community this year by observing the Mexican holiday Dia de Los Muertos (Day of the Dead), which is from October 31st through November 2nd. At the Dennis R Neill Equality center, there will be an Ofrenda (offering altar) that includes all the traditional elements of the altar: Papel Picado, candles, marigolds, and photos of those who have passed. Dia de Los Muertos or Day of the Dead is a Mexican holiday celebrated throughout Mexico and worldwide by people of Mexican heritage. It involves family and friends gathering to pray for and remember their loved ones who have passed and to help support their spiritual journey. In Mexican culture, death is viewed as a natural part of the human cycle. Mexicans view it not as a day of sadness but as a day of celebration because their loved ones awaken and celebrate with them. For more information about Dia de Los Muertos or how you can celebrate in Tulsa, check out the links below: dayofthedead www.livingarts.org/day-of-the-dead CasadelaCulturaTulsa 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 8 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... First Thursday Art Show November 2020 - Hill Taylor Starting Thursday, November 2, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Approaching her third solo exhibition, Tulsa artist Hill Taylor now has her eyes wide open. Her latest exhibition, SHUT YOUR EYES, is featured in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center’s art gallery in Downtown Tulsa for the month of November. This collection features eighteen new original abstract expressionist pieces by the artist. Visitors will be able to snatch up these highly-anticipated works while being mesmerized by the wild splashes of color and imagination of this collection. Derived from a variety of closed-eye experiences, Taylor explores how we process, remember, and imagine color, specifically when our eyes are closed. Each piece carries its own unique story and leaps out of the artist’s experiences and imagination and onto the canvas through carefully-composed movement and saturation. This collection, by appearances, is reminiscent of the artist’s 2014 collection STORIES, which was highlighted by the massive hanging installation of PERFECT TIMING, sixty-six metal paper planes suspended from the ceiling of Foolish Things Coffee Company. All pieces will be available for purchase, both in-person and online. A virtual tour of the collection will also be available through the Oklahomans For Equality Facebook page. Click here to watch on Facebook. Taylor’s exhibition SHUT YOUR EYES will be appearing through the month of November. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is hosting the event and 30% of art sales will benefit their vital work in Oklahoma. For more information, please visit www.hilltaylorart.com or www.okeq.org. In Memoriam 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 9 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... Midge Elliot June 3, 1954 ~ Oct. 27, 2020 Midge Elliot Obituary Kathryne Naomi Schrader October 7, 1972 ~ Oct. 1, 2020 Kathryne Naomi Schrader Obituary Kirk Davis Oct. 25, 1965 ~ Oct. 12, 2020 Kirk Davis Obituary 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 10 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... ....., - Ellis Tinker Oct. 15, 1978 ~ Sept. 20, 2020 El Tinker Obituary Coming Out Workshop 1st Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Free to participate, this one day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-653 opt.2 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 11 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... Fairy Tree 2020 The Fairy Tree is back! Every year we ask our constituents to donate gifts for people affected by HIV. This year we have 52 names on our list so be sure to sign up early so everyone gets a gift! If you are interested in donating, 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 12 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... please contact us below. Alex will provide you with a list of names and gift requests for you to choose from. All gifts are due back by December 1st! @rm • 2020 • • Sign Up Now! • • • DESIGNED BY YOU! POSTER. 0 Subm it origi nal 2021 Tulsa Pri de T-shi rt designs t o kao.morris@okeq.org Tulsa Pride 2021 Design Contest Make this PRIDE your PRIDE! Tulsa Pride wants you to design our 2021 Pride logo! This contest includes a grand prize award, and the logo will be on all the marketing material, T-shirts, Posters, and social media promotion material. The contest closes on Nov. 20th, 11:00 p.m. Please submit your entry design electronically by emailing Pride director below! Make this PRIDE your PRIDE! Tulsa Pride 2021 Contact Us Parent Support Group \0 /a liiiilllo.. Iii 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 13 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... Saturday November 7, 3:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at morgan.allen@okeq.org. --- I - ~~ R_.\l~i VOICE LGBTQIA+ YOUTH CHOIR SATURDAY AFTERNOONS ON ZOOM - E-MAIL MORGAN.ALLEN@OKEO.ORG FOR INFORMATION ~ SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA Click here to Email 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 14 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Non-binary Support Group 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 15 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa, OK 74120 Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Contact us to Join . . ♦ .. ♦ i j I , : , If ♦ 1 I t i If ()(f}(j)()@()@(!!J(l(l[g ♦ I I NOVBMBBBl3TH, 7PM ' f I I ♦ I I IndigiQueer Friday, November 13, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. "IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement." – Vnokeckv. For more information or link to virtual meeting contact Kao with the buttons below: Email 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 16 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... Facebook Transgender Day of Remembrance - TDoR Friday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR) is an annual observance on November 20 that honors the memory of those whose lives were lost in acts of anti-transgender violence. Additionally, during the week of November 12-19, people and organizations around the country participate in Transgender Awareness Week to help raise transgender people's visibility and address the issues trans people face. anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 17 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... ird Friday of the Month at 7 21 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends.Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent at Spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions please contact Liz at the button below. Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 18 of 34 ~ https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... .• People of Color Social Open Mic Night Nov. 20th. 7-9pm -·~ Friday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 POC Social is a space for people of color across various backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. This event is an open mic night! Come sing, dance, recite poetry, or a monologue. Masks are required, and social distancing will be enforced. For more information contact: Email Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 19 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE UISElt FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 20 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Click Here to Make an Appointment SAGE CARES 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 21 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have Resumed SAGE Tulsa has their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. You can also join via call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. Contact Us Join SAGE on Zoom TUESDAY MORNINGS @l0AM Can't be here in person? Now you can join SAGE Tulsa virtually. The virtual SAGE Tulsa group meets Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. Click below to contact us for the link to the virtual meeting. Contact Us Na~&Joe McDonald • L ____ I !L _ 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 22 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... a BOOK Of THE WEEK Love Beyond Body, Space, and Time: An LGBT and two-spirit sci-fi anthology A collection of indigenous science fiction and urban fantasy focusing on LGBT and two-spirit characters. These stories range from a transgender woman undergoing an experimental transition process to young lovers separated through decades and meeting in their own far future. These are stories of machines and magic, love and self-love. 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 23 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... 0 ( 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 Equality Health Alliance 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 24 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider For intormation that leads to the Arrest and conuiclion ot the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 25 of 34 _..,, ...... https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... Anvone wtth lnfonnatlon Is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI bV Calling the Agencv's TIP line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng u s osb . k.llJ v McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 26 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 27 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6537 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Virtual Thursday, November 12th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 28 of 34 Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikley- Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 29 of 34 freeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- --or alex.wade@okeq.org sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 30 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. ---- play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! COVID-19 Canceled: Programming • LEGAL AID t,fl) SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Sisters in Song 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 31 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. www.okeq.org/eba ------ -- OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org II i 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 32 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONS01111oav THIGEOII0!•4lHR ,.MILVPOUNOUION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 33 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman Contact Us Today 4/28/26, 11:13 AM �Election day is Tomorrow November 3rd 34 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Election-day-is-Tomorrow-Novem... Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:13 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/539b750109ee283bc01e0bc57f26f23e.pdf 73ed1ece5f191ccf11b54f8076f7b97c PDF Text Text Thank You Veterans for Your Service 1 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews November 9th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 2 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... ,, OKLAHOMANS FOR EQJ)ALITY CELEBRATES VETERANS THANI< YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE! V Happy Veterans Day~ i it the t ran all of Honor Join u 11:00 11/11/20 OKEQ V t rans' Loung .... a ceremony honoring the members of our community la.. who've served in defense of our country .... .Q 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 3 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... Oklahomans for Equality recognizes and celebrates the historic victory of President-Elect Joe Biden and the first Black and Southeast Asian, Woman Vice President-Elect, Kamala Harris. 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 4 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... LL FO I TE SE CHTS November 8th, was Intersex Day of Remembrance. The day marks the birthday of Herculine Barbin, a 19th-Century, French Intersex person who was thrust into the public eye after doctors found her to be intersex and whose writings and life highlight the need for increased acceptance of Intersex people. Intersex individuals are born biologically different. Intersex individuals have the right to live biologically different. Today we remember the fight that Intersex individuals face each day and renew our commitment to fighting these battles alongside them. To learn more about today, visit these sites: https://www.intersexequality.com/honoring-the-intersex.../ https://interactadvocates.org http://astraeafoundation.org/ 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 5 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... Transgender Awareness Week November 12 - 19 Transgender Awareness Week aims to raise visibility of transgender and gender non-conforming individuals as well as raise awareness for the issues the community faces. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is raising the transgender flag for Transgender Awareness Week. Transgender Day of Remembrance - TDoR Friday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR) is an annual observance on November 20 that honors the memory of those whose lives were lost in acts of anti-transgender violence. 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 6 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... Additionally, during the week of November 12-19, people and organizations around the country participate in Transgender Awareness Week to help raise transgender people's visibility and address the issues trans people face. Fairy Tree 2020 The Fairy Tree is back! Every year we ask our constituents to donate gifts for people affected by HIV. This year we have 52 names on our list so be sure to sign up early so everyone gets a gift! If you are interested in donating, please contact us below. Alex will provide you with a list of names and gift requests for you to choose from. All gifts are due back by December 1st! Sign Up Now! Our Fairy Tree is up for 2020! Pick up a name and help 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 7 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... someone living with HIV have a wonderful holiday season. THE ACA REMAINS THE LAW OF THE LAND #GETCOVERED BETWEEN NOV. 1 AND DEC. 15 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 8 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... OKEQ COVID-19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 9 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... , ' , '-' EMERGENCY OVERFLOW HOMELESS SHEL TEA ~ /-,~ t. NEEDS DUA HELP! " -...- pet food crates or kenne ls leashes pet treats small blankets other pet supplies ) ( ., Please drop off all donations at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 10 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... Shop for the Holidays with ~ amazonsmile · ~~n You shop. Amazon gives. ~ Now Supporting: Oklahomans for Equality 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 11 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... First Thursday Art Show November 2020 - Hill Taylor Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Approaching her third solo exhibition, Tulsa artist Hill Taylor now has her eyes wide open. Her latest exhibition, SHUT YOUR EYES, is featured in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center’s art gallery in Downtown Tulsa for the month of November. This collection features eighteen new original abstract expressionist pieces by the artist. Visitors will be able to snatch up these highly-anticipated works while being mesmerized by the wild splashes of color and imagination of this collection. Derived from a variety of closed-eye experiences, Taylor explores how we process, remember, and imagine color, specifically when our eyes are closed. Each piece carries its own unique story and leaps out of the artist’s experiences and imagination and onto the canvas through carefully-composed movement and saturation. This collection, by appearances, is reminiscent of the artist’s 2014 collection STORIES, which was highlighted by the massive hanging installation of PERFECT TIMING, sixty-six metal paper planes suspended from the ceiling of Foolish Things Coffee Company. All pieces will be available for purchase, both in-person and online. A virtual tour of the collection will also be available through the Oklahomans For Equality Facebook page. Click here to watch on Facebook. Taylor’s exhibition SHUT YOUR EYES will be appearing through the month of November. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is hosting the event and 30% of art sales will benefit their vital work in Oklahoma. For more information, please visit www.hilltaylorart.com or www.okeq.org. 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 12 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Terry Luce Aug. 6 1933 ~ Nov. 4, 2020 "Terry Luce a TU psychology professor was the HRC’s first chair of the Sexual Preference Task Force (later Sexual Orientation Task Force) The Task Force issued a report in 1976 that was very sophisticated for its time and copies went all over the world. Gay Tulsans owe a big debt of gratitude to Terry Luce for his work on behalf of the gay community." says Bob Ritz who served on the City of Tulsa Human Rights Commission with Terry." Terry's Obituary Midge Elliot June 3, 1954 ~ Oct. 27, 2020 Midge Elliot Obituary 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 13 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... Kathryne Naomi Schrader October 7, 1972 ~ Oct. 1, 2020 Kathryne Naomi Schrader Obituary Kirk Davis Oct. 25, 1965 ~ Oct. 12, 2020 Kirk Davis Obituary 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 14 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... DESIGNED BY YOU! POSTER. 0 •• Subm it original 2021 Tulsa Pride T-shirt designs to kao.morris@okeq.org Tulsa Pride 2021 Design Contest Make this PRIDE your PRIDE! Tulsa Pride wants you to design our 2021 Pride logo! This contest includes a grand prize award, and the logo will be on all the marketing material, T-shirts, Posters, and social media promotion material. The contest closes on Nov. 20th, 11:00 p.m. Please submit your entry design electronically by emailing Pride director below! Make this PRIDE your PRIDE! Tulsa Pride 2021 Contact Us Alphabet Soup Kids Saturday November 14, 3:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 15 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. Masks will be required for all who attend! If you have questions, please email morgan.allen@okeq.org. --- Parent Support Group Saturday November 14, 3:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at morgan.allen@okeq.org. --- /4~~~~ - I R~l~i VOICE LGBTQIA+ YOUTH CHOIR SATURDAY AFTERNOONS ON ZOOM E-MAIL MORGAN.ALLEN@OKEO.ORG .......... l"'"l'I TIIJll"'"l'IU A 'T'T"IIJI 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 16 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA Click here to Email Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 17 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Tulsa, OK 74120 Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join .' . ♦ ~ (}(f)(f)(}@l]@(!J(l(l[f1 ♦ ♦ I I NOYEMBERJ3TH, 7PM ' ♦ I I ♦ I I IndigiQueer Friday, November 13, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. "IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement." – Vnokeckv. 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 18 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... For more information or link to virtual meeting contact Kao with the buttons below: Email Facebook anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + ird Friday of the Month at 7 21 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 19 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends.Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent at Spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions please contact Liz at the button below. Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras ~ .· People of Color Social ~f Open Mic Night Nov. 20th. 7-9pm -·~ ' _,j Friday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 POC Social is a space for people of color across various backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. This event is an open mic night! Come sing, dance, recite poetry, or a monologue. 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 20 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... Masks are required, and social distancing will be enforced. For more information contact: Email Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Coming Out Workshop 1st Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Free to participate, this one day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-653 opt.2 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 21 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 22 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Click Here to Make an Appointment SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings SAGE Tulsa has their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. You can also join via call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 23 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library CRAIG . WO ACK BOOK OF THE WEEK Drowning in Fire by Craig s . Womack Interweaving past and present, history and story, explicit realism and dreamlike visions, Craig Womack's Drowning in Fire explores a young man's journey to understand his cultural and sexual identity within a framework drawn from the community of his origins. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT An author and professor of Native American literature. Cr ek Ch rokee by ancestry, Womack is best known for Red on Red: ative American Literary Separatism, a book of literary criticism which argue that the dominant approach to academic study of ative American literature is incorrect. He ha also produced a novel, Drowning in Fire, about the lives of young gay ative Americans. (RAICi S. WOMACK 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 24 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 25 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider For 1n1ormat1on that leads to the Arrest and conu1c11on ot lhe Person or Persons 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 26 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' I I I Anvone wtth lnformauon Is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI bv Calling the Agencv·s TIP line at 1-8 0-522-8017 or bV Emalllng u s Sbl k. V McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 27 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 28 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 29 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... Please call 918-938-6537 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, November 12th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 30 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... Meets via Zoom over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 31 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... sao-e ~~~~:~~! c), LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. --- - - Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! COVID-19 Canceled: Programming • LEGAL A10 th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 32 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... necessary. ARTS AND CRAF~ : ~-HT AT THE OENNTS R NEILl EQUAl!TV CENTER balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Community Partners health outreach prevention education , Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ---- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 33 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 34 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC Sl'ON$OIIIOU lHIGEO•OE1<4JSU PA .. llVPOUNOATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan 4/28/26, 11:14 AM �Thank You Veterans for Your Service 35 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-Veterans-for-Your-Ser... Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:14 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/39789107c92a2cb57796b4b88741b7b4.pdf d45113b7ca4ccaf303bca49206ed4dfd PDF Text Text Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 1 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews November 16th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 2 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Transgender Awareness Week November 12 - 19 Transgender Awareness Week aims to raise visibility of transgender and gender non-conforming individuals as well as raise awareness for the issues the community faces. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is raising the transgender flag for Transgender Awareness Week. Transgender Day of Remembrance - TDoR Friday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 3 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR) is an annual observance on November 20 that honors the memory of those whose lives were lost in acts of anti-transgender violence. Friday is supposed to be fair weather day but please dress warm for this event, in case it's cold outside! We will be practicing social distancing as well as masks will be required. Additionally, during the week of November 12-20, people and organizations around the country participate in Transgender Awareness Week to help raise transgender people's visibility and address the issues trans people face. In the OkEq Pride Store: Gender Traitor and Say Their Names Tee's, Transgender Flags, Fanny Pack, stickers and more! Show your support for Transgender Awareness Week November 12-20th. Shop for the Holidays with 1 ~ amazonsmile : .......__ ~ 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 4 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... I You shop. Amazon gives. Now Supporting: Oklahomans for Equality Fairy Tree 2020 The Fairy Tree is back! Every year we ask our constituents to donate gifts for people affected by HIV. This year we have 52 names on our list so be sure to sign up early so everyone gets a gift! If you are interested in donating, please contact us below. Alex will provide you with a list of names and gift requests for you to choose from. All gifts are due back by December 1st! Sign Up Now! 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 5 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Our Fairy Tree is up for 2020! Pick up a name and help someone living with HIV have a wonderful holiday season. Come Home or t e Holidays o· ner Canceled Due to COVID Restrictions the annual Thanksgiving Dinner at the Dennis R. Equality Center has been canceled. We are thankful for 20 years of support from inclusive faith communities and community sponsors who help us provide a welcoming holiday event for our LGBTQ community. We are thankful for each of you who have attended the Come Home for the Holiday events of the past. We reflect on how 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 6 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... grateful we are for the community but we know that the pandemic has taken those we love and forced us into isolation but we are still connected. Please check on each other and show compassion for your neighbor by wearing a mask. Next year Thanksgiving will be bigger and more joyous because hopefully we can gather and celebrate the resilient human spirit. THE ACA REMAINS THE LAW OF THE LAND #GETCOVERED BETWEEN NOV. 1 AND DEC. 15 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 7 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... EMERGENCY OVERFLOW HOMELESS SHEL TEA NEEDS DUA HELP! pet food crates or kennels leashes pet treats small blankets other pet supplies ) ( Please drop off all donations at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 8 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... First Thursday Art Show November 2020 - Hill Taylor Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Approaching her third solo exhibition, Tulsa artist Hill Taylor now has her eyes wide open. Her latest exhibition, SHUT YOUR EYES, is featured in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center’s art gallery in Downtown Tulsa for the month of November. This collection features eighteen new original abstract expressionist pieces by the artist. Visitors will be able to snatch up these highly-anticipated works while being mesmerized by the wild splashes of color and imagination of this collection. Derived from a variety of closed-eye experiences, Taylor explores how we process, remember, and imagine color, specifically when our eyes are closed. Each piece carries its own unique story and leaps out of the artist’s experiences and imagination and onto the canvas through carefully-composed movement and saturation. All pieces will be available for purchase, both in-person and online. A virtual tour of the collection will also be available through the Oklahomans For Equality Facebook page. Click here to watch on Facebook. Taylor’s exhibition SHUT YOUR EYES will be appearing through the month of November. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is hosting the event and 30% of art sales will benefit their vital work in Oklahoma. For more information, or to purchase, please visit www.hilltaylorart.com or www.okeq.org. In Memoriam 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 9 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... remembering those we've lost Terry Luce Aug. 6 1933 ~ Nov. 4, 2020 "Terry Luce a TU psychology professor was the HRC’s first chair of the Sexual Preference Task Force (later Sexual Orientation Task Force) The Task Force issued a report in 1976 that was very sophisticated for its time and copies went all over the world. Gay Tulsans owe a big debt of gratitude to Terry Luce for his work on behalf of the gay community." says Bob Ritz who served on the City of Tulsa Human Rights Commission with Terry." Terry's Obituary Midge Elliot June 3, 1954 ~ Oct. 27, 2020 Midge Elliot Obituary Kathryne Naomi Schrader 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 10 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... October 7, 1972 ~ Oct. 1, 2020 Kathryne Naomi Schrader Obituary Kirk Davis Oct. 25, 1965 ~ Oct. 12, 2020 Kirk Davis Obituary People of Color Social 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 11 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Open Mic·Night November 2oth9 7pm -·~ Friday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 POC Social is a space for people of color across various backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. This event is an open mic night! Come sing, dance, recite poetry, or a monologue. Masks are required, and social distancing will be enforced. For more information contact: Email anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 12 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... ird Friday of the Month at 7 21 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends.Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent at Spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions please contact Liz at the button below. Contact Us / Contacta con nosotras DESIGNED BY YOU! 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 13 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... POSTER. 0 Subm it original 2021 Tulsa Pride T-shirt designs to l<ao.morris@ol<eq.org Tulsa Pride 2021 Design Contest Make this PRIDE your PRIDE! Tulsa Pride wants you to design our 2021 Pride logo! This contest includes a grand prize award, and the logo will be on all the marketing material, T-shirts, Posters, and social media promotion material. The contest closes on Nov. 20th, 11:00 p.m. Please submit your entry design electronically by emailing Pride director below! Make this PRIDE your PRIDE! Tulsa Pride 2021 Contact Us Alphabet Soup Kids Saturday November 21, 3:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. Masks will be required for all who attend! If you have questions, please email morgan.allen@okeq.org. Parent Support Group Saturday November 21, 3:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 14 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at morgan.allen@okeq.org. AN LGBTQIA+ YOUTH CHOIR SPONSORED BY TULSA OPERA ANDOHEQ Raise Your Voice Youth Choir Saturday November 21, 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you know a young person who loves to sing? We are so excited to partner with Tulsa Opera and have a youth choir here at the 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 15 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! This choir is open to all LGBTQIA+ youth, will be held on zoom and in person starting this Saturday afternoon, and is COMPLETELY COST-FREE! Our repertoire for this fall includes: This is Me from The Greatest Showman You Will Be Found from Dear Evan Hanson This Land is Your Land by Woody Guthrie The Rainbow Connection from the Muppet Movie Blowin' in the Wind by Bob Dylan This group is meant for all music levels, all genders, all expressions, and will be 100% fun. The group is led by a professional musician and will have multiple concert opportunities as COVID-19 allows. Click here to Email Alphabet Soup Friendsgiving: Karaoke Night Saturday November 21, 5:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Alphabet Soup is celebrating FRIENDSGIVING! We're gonna have it all: turkey, stuffing, pie, and even some karaoke to go along with it all. Come hang out, eat some yummy food, and enjoy quality time with other LGBTQIA+ youth! MASKS REQUIRED! Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 16 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners Non-binary Support Group 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 17 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa, OK 74120 Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Presents: --,::===== -:..-:..-:..-::.-::.-::.=== ::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::= =====:>'."4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 18 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... The December Oklahomans for Equality Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery will feature a special one-of-akind show: World AIDS Day 2020 Event:“POZitive Art” Featuring works from Jeff Tarwater, Joanne Reynolds, Patrick Cusac, Brenda on behalf of her late brother Chuck Courtney, Shana Cozad, Isadore Boni, and several Anonymous artists. “It's simply the fact that there are usually large organized walks, gatherings, and ceremonies for World AIDS Day, however with this pandemic going on worldwide, no one wants to risk the health and wellbeing of so many that already have an underlying health issue. So we thought this would be a great way to allow safe participation of all those wanting their voices heard in one place on this special day, just in a different way, with art.” Paul McClure. 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 19 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... “Art is so healing for me! Making art is necessary to cope and deal with the day to day stresses. Add in HIV and AIDS on top of that and life becomes very challenging. Art helps me keep my sanity and balance in life.” -HIV+ artist, local resident, Positive since 1993. “Art has always been a center part of my being. When I was diagnosed with HIV, making my art became a great way to express how I felt about it.” -HIV+ artist, Anonymous. Positive since 2008. The Exhibit opens on Tuesday, December 1st, WORLD AIDS DAY. Hours of operation are 9:00 a.m. to 9:00 p.m. Monday through Friday, and 12:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. Saturday and Sunday throughout the month. Art will be available for purchase and 100% of the proceeds will benefit the local nonprofit A GRATEFUL DAY FOUNDATION, INC. a valuable local service for people living with HIV. You may take a virtual tour of the exhibit on the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page and Youtube channel. To purchase the art visit the OKEQ.ORG website and click on the Store tab. Come support this great cause and buy some great art! Perfect time for holiday shopping! This event will be a safe way to celebrate World AIDS Day for our community. All necessary precautions will be in place to protect our participants and loved ones during this pandemic. For more information, please visit www.gratefulday.org or www.okeq.org. Coming Out Workshop 1st Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Free to participate, this one day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-653 opt.2 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk .;........ . .. . . .· ·•. .. .. . .. 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 20 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Friday, December 11, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 POC Social is a space for people of color across various backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. This event is our Holiday Party! Come sing, dance, and have a great time connecting at this free and fun event. Masks are required, and social distancing will be enforced. For more information contact: Email BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma OR CALL 918-938-6537! 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 21 of 35 KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THEGEOAGEK.t,ISEA FAMILY FOUNDATION https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 22 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Click Here to Make an Appointment SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings SAGE Tulsa has their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. You can also join via call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. Contact Us Narq&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 23 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... BOOK OF THE WEEK Disintegrate/ Dissociate by Arielle Twist In her powerful debut collection of poetry, Arielle Twist unravels the complexities of human relationships after death and metamorphosis. In these spare yet powerful poems, she explores, with both rage and tenderness, the parameters of grief, trauma, displacement, and identity. AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT Arielle Twist is a ehiyaw, Two-Spirit, Trans Woman who is creating to reclaim and harness ancestral magic and memories. Originally from George Gordon First Nation, Saskatchewan. She is now based out of Halifax, Nova Scotia. ARIELLE TWIST 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 24 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 25 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider For 1n1ormat1on that leads to the Arrest and conu1c11on 01 the Person or Persons Responslble tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' I I I lnvone with Information Ii: 111:lled 10 conIacI Ille McAluter Police Denanm.enl 111 918-423-1212 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 26 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... or the 0SBI 11V Calling the Agency's TIP line at 1-800-522-8011 or bV Emalllng d s@ sbl k. V McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 27 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. 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OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6537 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Virtual Thursday, December 10th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 29 of 35 Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 30 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- --or alex.wade@okeq.org sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 31 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... krissy.dudley@okeq.org. ---- Gaming Night is for you! COVID-19 Canceled: Programming • LEGAL AID t&. SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 32 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. www.okeq.org/eba ------ -- OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 33 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC Sl>ONSOREDIY THEGIOIIGIKAISEII ~AMllYfOUNDATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 34 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... 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Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipoola View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �Transgender Day of Remembrance Nov. 20th 35 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Day-of-Remembran... 4/28/26, 11:15 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/173defd7784414df14334aa6088a7549.pdf 729dfbf8a0e42fc65a0e7182ebb01bb2 PDF Text Text From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 1 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews November 23rd, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Come Home or t e Holidays o· ner Canceled 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 2 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... Due to COVID Restrictions, the annual Thanksgiving Dinner at the Dennis R. Equality Center has been canceled. We are thankful for 20 years of support from inclusive faith communities and community sponsors who help us provide a welcoming holiday event for our LGBTQ community. We are thankful for each of you who have attended the Come Home for the Holiday events of the past. We reflect on how grateful we are for the community, but we know that the pandemic has taken those we love and forced us into isolation, but we are still connected. Please check on each other and show compassion for your neighbor by wearing a mask. Next year Thanksgiving will be bigger and more joyous because hopefully, we can gather and celebrate the resilient human spirit. The Dennis R. Neill Eq~ality Center is• • pausing inperson • programming. 1111 center@okeqorg ' - ' (918) 743-4297 For the health, safety and well-being of our constituents and the greater Tulsa community, we are temporarily pausing in-person programming effective Nov. 21, 2020 until Dec. 1, 2020. We feel that the best way to serve you in light of Covid-19 is to closPly follow the guick•lin('s S('t by th(' ('('nt('rs for Dis('a5P Control and our stat(' and h('alth officials. All of our virtual proqramminq will continue clurinq this time. Our 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 3 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... a s •a EE 77 □ 11 Ti I P11t&aa.-, NATIONAL roLYAMORY DAY ,- u;;nu I !T LIZ LL! C lX 2 2 ■ Happy Polyamory Day! Polyamory is defined as practicing or being open to intimate relationships with more than one person. Polyamory is about communication and openness with 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 4 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... your partners or prospective ones. Polyamory is also sometimes called ethical non-monogamy because it requires the respect and consent of all partners. To learn more about polyamorous or non-monogamous relationships, visit More Than Two or check out It's Complicated OK. SAGE Tulsa has moved their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. to a conference call. You can join the SAGE call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. Contact Us WE OFFER FREE MENSTRUAL PRODUCTS TO ANYONE WHO NEEDS THEM 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 5 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... ANY AGE, ANY GENDER. PEllel. CAll 918-74J-4297 OR PICKUP AT 621 E. 4TH ST. Braver Angels All Souls Church in Tulsa, OK presents FAMILIES AND POLITICS HOW TO TALK WITH LOVED ONES ON THE OTHER SIDE A Braver Angels Workshop Sunday, December 6 | 3 to 5 p.m. Central Time Register Here: bit.ly/BraverAngels Limited to 100 participants Join this workshop to preserve important family bonds while still being true to your values and political beliefs, this workshop will offer you: ● Insight into why family differences over politics are uniquely challenging ● Recognition of common roles that family members play in political conversations (for example, the Gladiator, the Defender, and the Sniper). ● Strategies and skills for handling family political differences in a constructive way Although the focus is on family relationships, you can use learnings in this workshop with any loved one. You’ll laugh and have some fun in this workshop—it won’t be all serious. After all, we all come from quirky families. 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 6 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... To prepare for the workshop, please complete the 40-minute e-course, at your convenience. Click HERE. *Prior to the workshop, please print or save a copy of this Participant’s Guide. It will be used throughout the workshop. Click HERE. Register Presents: 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 7 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... The December Oklahomans for Equality Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery will feature a special one-of-a-kind show! World AIDS Day 2020 Event: “POZitive Art” Featuring works from Jeff Tarwater, Joanne Reynolds, Patrick Cusac, Brenda on behalf of her late brother Chuck Courtney, Shana Cozad, Isadore Boni, and several anonymous artists. "It's simply the fact that there are usually large organized walks, gatherings, and ceremonies for World AIDS Day, however with this pandemic going on worldwide, no one wants to risk the health and wellbeing of so many that already have an underlying health issue. So we thought this would be a great way to allow safe participation of all those wanting their voices heard in one place on this special day, just in a different way, with art." Paul McClure. "Art is so healing for me! Making art is necessary to cope and deal with the day to day stresses. Add in HIV and AIDS on top of that, and life becomes very challenging. Art helps me keep my sanity and balance in life." -HIV+ artist, local resident, Positive since 1993. "Art has always been a central part of my being. When I was diagnosed with HIV, making my art became a great way to express how I felt about it." -HIV+ artist, Anonymous. Positive since 2008. The exhibit opens on Tuesday, December 1st, WORLD AIDS DAY. Hours of operation are 9:00 a.m. to 9:00 p.m. Monday through Friday and 12:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. Saturday and Sunday throughout the month. Art will be available for purchase, and 100% of the proceeds will benefit the local nonprofit A GRATEFUL DAY FOUNDATION, INC., a valuable local service for people living with HIV. You may take a virtual tour of the exhibit on the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page and Youtube channel. To purchase the art, visit the OKEQ.ORG website and click on the Store tab. Support this great cause and buy some great art! Perfect time for holiday shopping! This event will be a safe way to celebrate World AIDS Day for our community. All necessary precautions will be in place to protect our participants and loved ones during this pandemic. For more information, please visit www.gratefulday.org or www.okeq.org. 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 8 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... ••••••••••••• • • • • • • • • • • • # GIVINGTUESDAY • • • • • • • • • • • December tst • • • • • VISIT OKEQ.ORG/ DONATE TO HELP OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY ••••••••••••• . . Shop. with Amazon . . Smile . Donate to.Oklahomans . . for. Equality . . . . • . One Convenien.t Place amazonsmile ~~ You shop. Amazon gives. 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 9 of 30 / https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... OUT 2 ... , ENROLL BiNct USA DON'T BE A STATISTIC QUEER PEOPLE UNINSURED: TRANS PEOPLE UNINSURED: BISEXUAL PEOPLE UNINSURED: 25% LEARN ABOUT YOUR HEALTH INSURANCE OPTIONS NOW AT WWW.HEALTHCARE.GOV Source: Center for American Progress, Why Repealing the Affordable Care Act is Bad Medicine for LGBT Communities, 2017 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 10 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... EMERGENCY OVERFLOW HOMELESS SHEL TEA NEEDS DUA HELP! - .... pet food crates or kennels leashes pet treats small blankets other pet supplies ) ( Please drop off all donations at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 11 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... Joey Phillips June 30, 1968 ~ Nov. 11, 2020 KJRH Channel 2 News Article News Channel FOX 23 News Article Donald Dearman Nov. 7, 1965 ~ Oct. 12, 2020 Donald Dearman Obituary He is survived by his long time partner John Barons. Terry Luce Aug. 6 1933 ~ Nov. 4, 2020 "Terry Luce a TU psychology professor was the HRC’s first chair of the Sexual Preference Task Force (later Sexual Orientation Task Force) The Task Force issued a report in 1976 that was very sophisticated for its time and copies went all over the world. Gay Tulsans owe a big debt of gratitude to Terry Luce for his work on behalf of the 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 12 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... gay community." says Bob Ritz who served on the City of Tulsa Human Rights Commission with Terry." Terry's Obituary Midge Elliot June 3, 1954 ~ Oct. 27, 2020 Midge Elliot Obituary Kathryne Naomi Schrader October 7, 1972 ~ Oct. 1, 2020 Kathryne Naomi Schrader Obituary NAME CHANGE GENDER MARKER CHANGE 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 13 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... Sponsor an individual's legal name and/or gender marker change. Oklahomans For Equality's Transgender Programming is launching a new Gender Marker and Name Change Scholarship fund! Help raise money for transgender and gender non-conforming folks in Oklahoma to secure funds for legal fees, gender marker change, and name change fees. The full cost for each scholarship is $300, but any amount helps! Donate Here • 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 14 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... ;=. • • \\ • - -==\\ • YOUTH PROGRAMS \\ <::) 0 <::> ARE GOING VIRTUALI ) • ~ • • RAISE YOUR VOICE YOUTH CHOIR ON ZOOM SATURDAY AFTERNOON ~ 4·5PM ,. • • • ~ • \\ ~ . \\ • 4 VOUTH@OKEO.ORG ~ TO GET ZOOM LINKS! PARENTS OF LOBTQlSJA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email morgan.allen@okeq.org. --- Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at morgan.allen@okeq.org. --- Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People \ 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 15 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 16 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Coming Out Workshop 1st Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-653 opt.2 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 17 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... Friday, December 11, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 POC Social is a space for people of color across various backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. This event is our Holiday Party! Come sing, dance, and have a great time connecting at this free and fun event. Masks are required, and social distancing will be enforced. For more information contact: Email BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma MAKE AN APPOINTMENT ONLINE AT OKEO.ORG/OKEO-HEAL TH-CLINIC no r Al I 01.R- O't.R-A .4-'t7I 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 18 of 30 KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SP0NSOREOBY THEGEORGEltAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 19 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Click Here to Make an Appointment Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library BOOK OF THE WEEK Fire Song by Adam Garnet Jones based on the award-winning film of the same name. It provides deep insight into the life of Indigenous people on the reserve. This book masterfully portrays how a community looks to the past for guidance and comfort while fearing a future of poverty and shame. t~Jl!Qpt~le~UJ~ ~Lor. bead-worker and novelist from Edmonton Alberta. Adam is currently working to support Indigenous filmmakers at Telefilm Canada as Content Analyst and Indigenous Liaison. 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 20 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... ADAM ~ARNET IONES Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 21 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... Nominate a Healthcare Provider For information that leads to the Arrest and conuicllon 01 the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob al Rover Taxi s ' Anvone with Information is asked to con1ac1 the McA1es1er Police Deuanment al 918-423-1212 or the OSBI bv Calling lhe Auenc1ts Tip line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng d s OS Lol ov McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 22 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 23 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 24 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6537 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Virtual Thursday, December 10th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 25 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---- ---or alex.wade@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People \., , ' or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. ' J ~ l £ \/,, \ f \ m~ , "'' ri j~, .. ~ Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. Support Group for Transgender Teens 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 26 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org sage Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Intersex, and Asexual Support Group for Partners of Transgender People LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Equality Game Night Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! -- - -- COVID-19 Canceled: 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 27 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... Programming • LEGAL AID t&. SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 28 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. www.okeq.org/eba ------ -- OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 29 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONWIHOh lHIGE0RGElt4JSH "'-MILVPOUN~TION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:15 AM �From OkEq to You: Happy Thanksgiving 30 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/From-OkEq-to-You--Happy-Than... 'l!t~~•#Pictu J courtesy of the Tulsa World Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:15 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4637991b16cc99aa62a51d1d9fa72e22.pdf 907d0398b3aab1d3c5c252e56d54050b PDF Text Text World AIDS Day December 1st 1 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews November 30th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Presents: ........... _____....._ __ 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 2 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... The December Oklahomans for Equality Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery will feature a special one-of-a-kind show! World AIDS Day 2020 Event: “POZitive Art” Featuring works from Jeff Tarwater, Joanne Reynolds, Patrick Cusac, Brenda on behalf of her late brother Chuck Courtney, Shana Cozad, Isadore Boni, and several anonymous artists. "It's simply the fact that there are usually large organized walks, gatherings, and ceremonies for World AIDS Day, however with this pandemic going on worldwide, no one wants to risk the health and wellbeing of so many that already have an underlying health issue. So we thought this would be a great way to allow safe participation of all those wanting their voices heard in one place on this special day, just in a different way, with art." Paul McClure. 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 3 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... "Art is so healing for me! Making art is necessary to cope and deal with the day to day stresses. Add in HIV and AIDS on top of that, and life becomes very challenging. Art helps me keep my sanity and balance in life." -HIV+ artist, local resident, Positive since 1993. "Art has always been a central part of my being. When I was diagnosed with HIV, making my art became a great way to express how I felt about it." -HIV+ artist, Anonymous. Positive since 2008. The exhibit opens on Tuesday, December 1st, WORLD AIDS DAY. Hours of operation are 9:00 a.m. to 9:00 p.m. Monday through Friday and 12:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. Saturday and Sunday throughout the month. Art will be available for purchase, and 100% of the proceeds will benefit the local nonprofit A GRATEFUL DAY FOUNDATION, INC., a valuable local service for people living with HIV. You may take a virtual tour of the exhibit on the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page and Youtube channel. To purchase the art, visit the OKEQ.ORG website and click on the Store tab. Support this great cause and buy some great art! Perfect time for holiday shopping! This event will be a safe way to celebrate World AIDS Day for our community. All necessary precautions will be in place to protect our participants and loved ones during this pandemic. For more information, please visit www.gratefulday.org or www.okeq.org. Virtual Tour Purchase ••••••••••••• • • • • • • •• # GIVINGTUESDAY December ts• ••••• • • • • • • •• 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 4 of 28 -• • • https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... V VISIT OKEQ.ORG/ DONATE TO HELP OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY -• • • ••••••••••••• Click Here to Donate OKEQ COVID-19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 5 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... SAGE Tulsa has moved their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. to a conference call. You can join the SAGE call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. Contact Us Braver Angels All Souls Church in Tulsa, OK presents FAMILIES AND POLITICS HOW TO TALK WITH LOVED ONES ON THE OTHER SIDE A Braver Angels Workshop Sunday, December 6 | 3 to 5 p.m. Central Time Register Here: bit.ly/BraverAngels Limited to 100 participants Join this workshop to preserve important family bonds while still being true to your values and political beliefs, this workshop will offer you: 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 6 of 28 ● https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... Insight into why family differences over politics are uniquely challenging. ● Recognition of common roles that family members play in political conversations (for example, the Gladiator, the Defender, and the Sniper). ● Strategies and skills for handling family political differences in a constructive way. Although the focus is on family relationships, you can use learnings in this workshop with any loved one. You’ll laugh and have some fun in this workshop—it won’t be all serious. After all, we all come from quirky families. To prepare for the workshop, please complete the 40-minute e-course, at your convenience. Click HERE. *Prior to the workshop, please print or save a copy of this Participant’s Guide. It will be used throughout the workshop. Click HERE. Register 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 7 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... . . Shop. with Amazon . . Smile . Donate to.Oklahomans for. Equality . . . . . . • . One Convenien.t Place amazonsmile You shop. Amazon gives. I Your Marketplace plan covers these key benefits! M HOSPITALIZATION 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 8 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... For More Information Click Here WE OFFER FREE MENSTRUAL PRODUCTS TO ANYONE WHO NEEDS THEM ANY AGE, ANY GENDER. PEllel. CAll 918-74J-4297 OR PICKUP AT 621 f. 4TH ST. 1, \ ) ~ tr EMERGENCY OVERFLOW HOMELESS SHELTER NEEDS DUR HELP! - pet food crates or kennels leashes pet treats • ~ / '· \.- . I, ,~ ,, ' --- 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 9 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... s n s other pet supplies ) ( Please drop off all donations at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost Joey Phillips June 30, 1968 ~ Nov. 11, 2020 KJRH Channel 2 News Article News Channel FOX 23 News Article Donald Dearman Nov. 7, 1965 ~ Oct. 12, 2020 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 10 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... Donald Dearman Obituary He is survived by his long time partner John Barons. Terry Luce Aug. 6 1933 ~ Nov. 4, 2020 "Terry Luce a TU psychology professor was the HRC’s first chair of the Sexual Preference Task Force (later Sexual Orientation Task Force) The Task Force issued a report in 1976 that was very sophisticated for its time and copies went all over the world. Gay Tulsans owe a big debt of gratitude to Terry Luce for his work on behalf of the gay community." says Bob Ritz who served on the City of Tulsa Human Rights Commission with Terry." Terry's Obituary Midge Elliot June 3, 1954 ~ Oct. 27, 2020 Midge Elliot Obituary 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 11 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... Kathryne Naomi Schrader October 7, 1972 ~ Oct. 1, 2020 Kathryne Naomi Schrader Obituary NAME CHANGE GENDER MARKER CHANGE Sponsor an individual's legal name and/or gender marker change . Oklahomans For Equality's Transgender Programming is launching a new Gender Marker and Name Change Scholarship fund! Help raise money for transgender and gender non-conforming folks in Oklahoma to secure funds for legal fees, gender marker change, and name change fees. The full cost for each scholarship is $300, but any amount helps! 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 12 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... Donate Here • ALPHABET SOUP KIDS ON ZOOM SATURDAY AFTERNOON 3-4PM ;;. • • ~ • 0 (J ~ • • ·o \\ • ~ • . <::) ~ \\ -==- 0 ~ YOUTH PROGRAMS \\ <::) 0 <::) ARE GOING VIRTUALI ) RAISE YOUR VOICE YOUTH CHOIR ON ZOOM SATURDAY AFTERNOON ~ 4-5PM I. • • • ~ • \\ • ~ \\ Q • 4 VOUTH@OKEO.ORG ' TO GET ZOOM LINKS! • ASUPPORTOROUPFOR PARENTS OF LGBTQ2SIA• YOUTH 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 13 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email morgan.allen@okeq.org. Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at morgan.allen@okeq.org. Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 14 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 15 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Coming Out Workshop 1st Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-653 opt.2 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSOREOBY THE GEORGE KAIHR l'AMILY FOUNDATION a Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 16 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Click Here to Make an Appointment 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 17 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library IB3([))([))JK ([))IF 1fIHIIE WIEIEJK IHI({)) ILIIID A Y !EID II'Il'II ({)) N Sant.as Husband _by Daniel Kfublesrott;b Offin;nga fresh twist on KriB Krmglea aclever wt heartfelt book tbat reDa die at.ory__Qfa black Santa ms whtte hllMAPd and tbeit life in tbe North.Pole. Staff Pick: Morgan Allen - Center Director 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 18 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Cnn lnlnnm-ifinn lh-if 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 19 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... I UI IIIIUI IIIOIIUII 11101 leads to the Arrest and conuiclion ot the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' Anvone with lnformauon Is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI 11V Calling the Agencv·s TIP line at 1-B00-522-8017 or bV Emamnu u s osb . k. v McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 20 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 21 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 22 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please call 918-938-6537 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, December 10th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. Tulsa Area 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 23 of 28 for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Prime Timers Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 24 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -or alex.wade@okeq.org sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. --- - - Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! COVID-19 Canceled: Programming • LEGAL A1n th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 25 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... No appointment is necessary. ARTS AND CRAFTS Ni; ; " AT THE DENNIS l'I NEILL EQUALITY CE/Hfl'I prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ----- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 26 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 27 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC 5ll'ONSOIIIDIY Tl11010ltOIIUI.IH• fAMllYfOUND.I.TION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez 4/28/26, 11:16 AM �World AIDS Day December 1st 28 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/World-AIDS-Day-December-1st.h... Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. 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Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email 4/28/26, 11:17 AM �Don Your Gay Apparel 25 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Don-Your-Gay-Apparel.html?soi... allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Upstairs area of the Dennis R A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm Neill Equality Center! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new 4/28/26, 11:17 AM �Don Your Gay Apparel 26 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Don-Your-Gay-Apparel.html?soi... "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. ---- COVID-19 Canceled: Programming • LEGALAID th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, 4/28/26, 11:17 AM �Don Your Gay Apparel 27 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Don-Your-Gay-Apparel.html?soi... ARTS AND CRAFTS NIGHT ,· 1 AT THf DENNI~ I, NEOtl EQUAUIV CfNTEII mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. visit siawso.org Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Community Partners health ouueach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ----- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 11:17 AM �Don Your Gay Apparel 28 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Don-Your-Gay-Apparel.html?soi... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC S~Nl,O!IIOSY TNI OIIOKa-u,~. . 4/28/26, 11:17 AM �Don Your Gay Apparel 29 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Don-Your-Gay-Apparel.html?soi... Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. 4/28/26, 11:17 AM �Don Your Gay Apparel 30 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Don-Your-Gay-Apparel.html?soi... Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:17 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a5e71be3f67cf69a652c8dcf48f964dd.pdf 8799f5fb2347cf102fdcf5d08259ec83 PDF Text Text FaLaLa Follies Telethon 1 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews December 14th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 2 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... -\_.~ ~ .I -~ •, • B~KERV INT ME RED BUD OISTRiCT • •Caki • - •1 , ~ .·,·.,~.. • -'J1a.u,· . _:-._·.~ • ~ ? • • \ ' I , l I •~ • ., • ·103 W.3RD STREET• OWASSO • 800459-9680 • JUSTABITEOWASSO.COM .: ·, ,. • ' • SEARSHARK GOODS LLC OBA • • •• : • •- :. :· FaLaLa Follies Telethon Saturday, December 19th Live on Facebook 7:00 p.m. until 8:30 p.m. It's beginning to look a lot like the holiday season, and what better way to celebrate than a virtual telethon and holiday special with your favorite LGBTQIA+ friends at Oklahomans for Equality? The Fa La La Follies is our fabulous take on the holidays, featuring your favorite performers from the Tulsa stage, from Pride, and from our staff! We will also have our Pets in Gay Apparel Contest and a Best Decked Halls Competition to raise money for our center! Join us LIVE on Facebook and get your holiday cheer on! 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 3 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... Click here for the FaLaLa Follies Live event on Facebook I I eked Halls Co BEST DECKED HALLS COMPETITION December 19th Live on Facebook Vote for your FAVORITE Holiday house and raise money for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center's Operating fund! Twelve houses are competing to be the BEST DECKED HALLS in all of Tulsa! Who will win? Your donation is your vote! Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 4 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... View the Nominees Vote Here Pets in Gay Apparel Competition December 19th Live on Facebook Is your cat a model? Does your dog know how to spin a dreidel? Can your lizard wear a Santa hat? Then let them don some gay apparel and enter our holiday competition and fundraise for OKEQ at the same time! To enter, pay what you can--the suggested donation is $5--and the viewers will vote for the cutest pet on Dec. 19th at our Fa La La Follies! Voting begins Thursday, December 16th. Send Your Pets Nomination Vote Here 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 5 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... SAGE Tulsa has moved their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. to a conference call. You can join the SAGE call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. Contact Us 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 6 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... A very special Thank you to all who participated in the Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree in providing a little extra love this year to Tulsa CARES Clients. . . Shop. with Amazon . . Smile . Donate to.Oklahomans for. Equality . . . . . . • . One Convenien.t Place amazonsmile ~ You shop. Amazon gives. COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THELGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 7 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... Monday, December 21st, 7:00 PM Presented by Oklahomans for Equality on Facebook Live Featuring: Dr. Bob Hanson Dr. Darci Hazelwood Dr. Megan Woslager Dr. Matt Else Join Oklahomans for Equality as we discuss the COVID-19 vaccine with Dr. Bob Hanson, Dr. Darci Hazelwood, Dr. Matt Else, and Dr. Megan Woslager. Our panelists will answer audience questions, address concerns, and discuss what comes next. This Facebook Live event will take place on December 21st at 7:00 p.m. Click Here for the Facebook Live Event Page 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 8 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... December 15th is the Last Day!For More Information Click Here In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Cheryl Roberts March 20, 1955 ~ Nov. 25, 2020 Cheryl Roberts Obituary 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 9 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... Joey Phillips June 30, 1968 ~ Nov. 11, 2020 KJRH Channel 2 News Article News Channel FOX 23 News Article Donald Dearman Nov. 7, 1965 ~ Oct. 12, 2020 Donald Dearman Obituary He is survived by his long time partner John Barons. f f •I (}(f){fj(}@(}@(f/(l(l[f1 DECEMBER IBTH, 7PM . ·♦ I ♦ I I . IndigiQueer Friday, December 18, at 7:00P.M. Virtual Event 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 10 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. – Vnokeckv. Add our IndigiQueer Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/indigiqueerokeq For more information and zoom details contact: Kao at kao.morris@okeq.org Click Here to See the Event On Facebook Presents: 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 11 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... World AIDS Day 2020 Event: “POZitive Art” Featuring works from Jeff Tarwater, Joanne Reynolds, Patrick Cusac, Brenda on behalf of her late brother Chuck Courtney, Shana Cozad, Isadore Boni, and several anonymous artists. The exhibit opens on Tuesday, December 1st, WORLD AIDS DAY. Hours of operation are 9:00 a.m. to 9:00 p.m. Monday through Friday and 12:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. Saturday and Sunday throughout the month. Art will be available for purchase, and 100% of the proceeds will benefit the local nonprofit A GRATEFUL DAY FOUNDATION, INC., a valuable local service for people living with HIV. You may take a virtual tour of the exhibit on the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page and Youtube channel. To purchase the art, visit the OKEQ.ORG website and click on the Store tab. Support this great cause and buy some great art! Perfect time for holiday shopping! This event will be a safe way to celebrate World AIDS Day for our community. All necessary precautions will be in place to protect our participants and loved ones during this pandemic. For more information, please visit www.gratefulday.org or www.okeq.org. Virtual Tour Purchase OKEQ COVID-19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 12 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPA □ AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK. STAY HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Stop in at The Dennis R Neill Equality Center and pick up an Ornament, some Gay Apparel, or choose from our selection for items to decorate for the Holiday Season. 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 13 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... WE OFFER FREE MENSTRUAL PRODUCTS TO ANYONE WHO NEEDS THEM ANY AGE, ANY GENDER. PEllel. CAll 918-74J-4297 OR PICKUP AT 621 f. 4TH ST. NAME CHANGE GENDER MARKER CHANGE Sponsor an individual's legal name _ _ _I I _ _ _ _ _ __J _ _ __ _ _ _ I _ _ _ _ L ___ _ 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 14 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... ana,or genaer marKer cnange. Oklahomans For Equality's Transgender Programming is launching a new Gender Marker and Name Change Scholarship fund! Help raise money for transgender and gender non-conforming folks in Oklahoma to secure funds for legal fees, gender marker change, and name change fees. The full cost for each scholarship is $300, but any amount helps! Donate Here • ALPHABET SOUP KIDS ON ZOOM SATUROAV AFTERNOON 3-4PM • ~- \\ • 0 (J • • \\ • ~ • <:) --\\ YOUTH PROGRAMS ARE ~DING ~IRTUA~ ~ 0 • <:) • A 4 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 15 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... • • • PARENTS OF LOBTQ2SJA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email morgan.allen@okeq.org. Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at morgan.allen@okeq.org. Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 16 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 17 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Coming Out Workshop 1st Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma MAKE AN APPOINTMENT ONLINE AT 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 18 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... OKEQ.ORG/OKEQ·HEAL TH-CLINIC OR CALL 918-938-6537! KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPOHSOIIED BY THEGEORGEkAISl:R FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to quickly give you peace of mind. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing and Referral 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 19 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Click Here to Make an Appointment Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbov, Library IB3([J)([J)JK ([J)IF 1fIHIIE WIEIEJK IHI ((D lL II II]) A Y IB II]) II 1r II ((D N The Best Ch:Mst;mss &geantEver bY- Barbara Robinson It follows t h e ~ abfflJ8Di&ma ofthe HAJ'drom siblin53. The siblingp t.ake over the annual Christmas rngeant in a bflal"ious mbAfP1:wBrnrlngt.ale Staff Pick: 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 20 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... Toby Jenkins-Executive Director Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider For lntormauon that leads to the Arrest and conu1c11on 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 21 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... 01 the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' Anvone with lnformauon Is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI bV Calling the Agencv·s TIP line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng d s Sbl k. 0V McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 22 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 23 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 24 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, January 14th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 25 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... People your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 26 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. --- - - Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! COVID-19 Canceled: Programming • LEGAL A1n th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 27 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... ARTS AND CRAFTS : ;~T AT THE DENN!S A NEILL EQUALITY CENTER backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Community Partners health outreach prevention education , Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ---- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 28 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 29 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SN>IISOIIIDIY lHIOIOIIDIKAIHlt •4MILYf0UIIIM.TIOII Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman 4/28/26, 11:18 AM �FaLaLa Follies Telethon 30 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/FaLaLa-Follies-Telethon.html?so... Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:18 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/034d4427a0609df329fc61ea2b0a6e5a.pdf 2c781af1ef0b1065c2af381eb40b1ca9 PDF Text Text COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 1 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews December 21st, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 2 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... - ·103 W.3RO STREET: OWASSO • 800459-9680 • JUSTABITEOWASSO.COM .: · : · ,_. • '.: · • • SEARSHARK GOODS LLC OBA • • • -._-_-. •• :' COVID-19: THE ,1Al"l"lt..l~ At..lr\ 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 3 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... V 1-\\.,\.,I I" C 1-\1" U THELGBTQ+ COMMUNITY Monday, December 21st, 7:00 PM Presented by Oklahomans for Equality on Facebook Live Featuring: Dr. Bob Hanson Dr. Darci Hazelwood Dr. Megan Woslager Dr. Matt Else Join Oklahomans for Equality as we discuss the COVID-19 vaccine with Dr. Bob Hanson, Dr. Darci Hazelwood, Dr. Matt Else, and Dr. Megan Woslager. Our panelists will answer audience questions, address concerns, and discuss what comes next. This Facebook Live event will take place on December 21st at 7:00 p.m. Click Here for the Facebook Live Event Page Congratulations to our Best Decked Halls Contest Winners 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 4 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... First Place: Bob and Oliver Dale Hanson Second Place: Chris and Michael Brecht-Smith Third Place: Christopher Roberts and Bill Mullen Congratulations to our Pets in Gay Apparel Contest Winners 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 5 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... First Place: Bernie Sanders Second Place: Spike Third Place: Veronica and Gypsy Together we raised a total of $14,047.00 From all of us here at Oklahomans for Equality and The Dennis R Neill Equality Center, Thank you and Happy Holidays! 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 6 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... OKEQ COVID-19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2.MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPA □ AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Breath of Fresh Air: In July 2020, The Dennis R. Neill Center installed Air Scrubbers in our HVAC system to help our constituents and visitors have a safe experience when visiting 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 7 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... Oklahomans for Equality. Clean air is critical for so many, both those who have an immune deficiency and those who are healthy. Please see more on these units using the link below: See more on Air Scrubbers SAGE Tulsa has moved their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. to a conference call. You can join the SAGE call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. Contact Us . . Shop. with Amazon . . Smile . • . . 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 8 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... ona or. qua I y . e o . a omans . . One Convenien.t Place amazonsmile You shop. Amazon gives. Presents: The January Oklahomans for Equality Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery will feature Lizzie DiSilvestro: “Warm Simplicity” Lizzie DiSilvestro’s work explores a visual representation of the feeling of being content, which brings us closer to or further from that state, and the healing impact of choosing joy. She challenges her viewers to remember the warm peace we feel when everything in life is 'just fine.' These may only be moments in between the chaos and thrills, but the way we design our lives and the choices we make every day can lead to a more constant feeling of contentment and appreciation. DiSilvestro celebrates these often overlooked, often private moments that come in between the extremes of our existence because they provide the most honest look at life. Inspired by her father’s adage, “Most of life is not spent in the highs or lows, but somewhere right in the middle,” Lizzie believes there is nothing more beautiful than the contentedness and warm simplicity that 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 9 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... results from finding joy in the ordinary. While creating, Lizzie allows space to observe her behaviors and intentions. Still, ultimate interpretation and conclusion are left up to the viewer, allowing a shared experience resulting in increased self-awareness. Throughout Lizzie's work, elements that remain constant are strong brush strokes, meticulously chosen color, and rich texture, all working together to emulate life’s opulent moments alongside the mundane. Growing up in Kansas City, Lizzie was exposed to a wide range of rich culture and world-class experiences from a young age. Greatly influenced by her paternal grandmother, a vibrant and strong female with a passion for all things artistic, Lizzie has been encouraged to create since she could speak. With a vivacious personality and a strong sense of self, the question has never been "would Lizzie express herself, but how." The medium of choice has changed over the years, but paint and fiber have remained constant throughout recent years. With a background in science and nursing, Lizzie takes an analytical look at her surrounding milieu's temperament, those that inhabit it, and the interplay between the two as a mirror for her art. The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 on Thursday, January 7th, with Covid measures in place. The show continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit ldisilvestroart.com or www.okeq.org. 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 10 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost Charles S. Kopp April 7, 1930 - Nov. 27, 2020 Charles S. Kopp passed in the early morning hours of Friday, November 27, 2020. He was 90 years old. Charles is the father of Norman Kopp, a volunteer at OkEq and PFLAG Tulsa. Charles attended many OkEq and PFLAG dinners at the Equality Center, art shows with the lovely Allie Jensen and other programs. In 2007, he brought supplies to the Pride Store booth at the Pride Festival, and food to volunteers of the OkEq Gala at the Warren Doubletree later that same day. Charles helped Norman prepare when he played on the softball league sponsored by the Equality Center, especially when he was manager of the Green Onion team in spring of 2011. An enjoyable moment for him was meeting Sue Welch, who was in charge of rehabbing the Equality Center building in 2006-2007; Norman was one of the volunteers working on the project, and his 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 11 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... father got a tour before it was ready for occupancy. Charles and Norman not only loved each other, they liked each other, and it showed. In later years, they would come to the Equality Center on occasional Sundays to see that month's art show. To read more about Charles' life, see his obituary here: Charles S. Kopp Obituary Cheryl Roberts March 20, 1955 ~ Nov. 25, 2020 Cheryl Roberts Obituary Joey Phillips June 30, 1968 ~ Nov. 11, 2020 KJRH Channel 2 News Article News Channel FOX 23 News Article Donald Dearman Nov. 7, 1965 ~ Oct. 12, 2020 Donald Dearman Obituary He is survived by his long time partner John Barons. 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 12 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... Please stop in at The Dennis R Neill Equality Center and pick up an ornament, some gay apparel, or choose from our selection of decor for the Holiday Season. WE OFFER FREE MENSTRUAL PRODUCTS TO ANYONE WHO NEEDS THEM 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 13 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... ANY AGE, ANY GENDER. PEllel. CAll 918-74J-4297 OR PICKUP AT 621 E. 4TH ST. World AIDS Day 2020 Event: “POZitive Art” Featuring works from Jeff Tarwater, Joanne Reynolds, Patrick Cusac, Brenda on behalf of her late brother Chuck Courtney, Shana Cozad, Isadore Boni, and several anonymous artists. The exhibit opens on Tuesday, December 1st, WORLD AIDS DAY. Hours of operation are 9:00 a.m. to 9:00 p.m. Monday through Friday and 12:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. Saturday and Sunday throughout the month. Art will be available for purchase, and 100% of the proceeds will benefit the local nonprofit A GRATEFUL DAY FOUNDATION, INC., a valuable local service for people living with HIV. You may take a virtual tour of the exhibit on the Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page and Youtube channel. To purchase the art, visit the OKEQ.ORG website and click on the Store tab. Support this great cause and buy some great art! Perfect time for holiday shopping! This event will be a safe way to celebrate World AIDS Day for our community. All necessary precautions will be in place to protect our participants and loved ones during this pandemic. For more information, please visit www.gratefulday.org or www.okeq.org. Virtual Tour Purchase 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 14 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... NAME CHANGE GENDER MARKER CHANGE Sponsor an individual's legal name and/or gender marker change. Oklahomans For Equality's Transgender Programming is launching a new Gender Marker and Name Change Scholarship fund! Help raise money for transgender and gender non-conforming folks in Oklahoma to secure funds for legal fees, gender marker change, and name change fees. The full cost for each scholarship is $300, but any amount helps! Donate Here 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 15 of 31 .. . ,,- .. , ... ; ....:._--- - - - ~ • 1·:' .::___ ' https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... - : .·, .- , _. >- -~ .... . ; • ALPHABET SOUP KIDS () ON ZOOM SATURDAY AFTERNOON 3-4PM ;:. • • ~ • • • \\ • \\ ~ I 'I 1 • YOUTH PROGRAMS \\ <::) 0 <::> ARE GOING VIRTUALI ) RAISE YOUR VOICE YOUTH CHOIR ON ZOOM SATURDAY AFTERNOON ~ 4-5PM I.,. • • • ~ • \\ ~ \\ • 4 YOUTH@OKEO.ORG ' TO GET ZOOM LINKS! • FOR THE HOLIDAYS, YOUTH PROGRAMS WILL NOT BE MEETING ON SATURDAY, DECEMBER 26TH. PARENTS OF LOBTQ2SJA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 16 of 31 our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. ' All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 17 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access it via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Coming Out Workshop 1st Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 18 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 19 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to give you peace of mind quickly. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing, and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Click Here to Make an Appointment Na~& McDona ainbovv Library 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 20 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... Iffi(O)(O) JK. (0) IF 1fIHIIE WIE IEJK. IHIOILIIIDA if IEIDII'Irll({))N lo 0 h1.fil1. , 'l'l-\.l,li l-\.LE Too Many Taroalesby~ Soto and Ed Martinez This is tbe st.on ofa treasw:e thought t.o be lost in abat.cli ofiaroalee· ofa deaperat.e and thnmr attemptby Maria and her coumna to eat their way out of trouble: and the warm wa-y: a fm;p;i}y_wJ]s wgether to JPMA tt a perfect CbrJst:mRB after all. StafFPick: Donovid Sekulits Latinx Outreach&. Library Services Equality Health Alliance 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 21 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider For intormation mat leads to the Arrest and conuiction ot the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ■ 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 22 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... Anvone wtth lnfonnauon Is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI bV Calling the Agencv's TIP line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emailing u s osb . k. v McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 23 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 24 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Virtual 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 25 of 31 Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... Thursday, January 14th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org -- - -or alex.wade@okeq.org ' Support Group for Transgender Teens Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 26 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, Support Group for Partners of Transgender People where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Upstairs area of the Dennis R A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm Neill Equality Center! Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 27 of 31 "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. ---- COVID-19 Canceled: Programming • LEGALAID th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 28 of 31 ARTS AND CRAFTS NIGHT ,· 1 AT THf DENNI~ I, NEOtl EQUAUIV CfNTEII https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. visit siawso.org Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Community Partners health ouueach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month ideas, contacts, products and services, and also from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers provided by H.O.P.E. Testing and community. www.okeq.org/eba ----- Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 29 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC S~Nl,O!IIOSY TNI OIIOKa-u,~. . 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 30 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Shay Brewer Operations Manager He / Him / His Shay.Brewer@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director He / Him / His Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Bob Hanson - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Corey Thompson Monique Washington Justin Ross Shannon Gordon Fair Board of Advisors Aderyn Lonigan, C.P.A. Amairani Perez Christian Fencer Cray Flyn Crista Patrick Dani Byrd Denise Reid Matt Else, D.O. Elizabeth Ortiz Jane Wiseman Joann Frizell Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �COVID-19: THE VACCINE AND THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY 31 of 31 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/COVID-19--THE-VACCINE-A... Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:19 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0f511ba5ff7746999d11c76f0fa0fbeb.pdf a49d5a6d7fad49a3571e5ea5182fb782 PDF Text Text Wishing you a Happy New Year 1 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews December 29th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 2 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... ·, ~ . • . ' ·. ~ . ~ DAJ.t:ICT ' " I Nt: ICl:-U DULi UI:» I Kl\, I ra. A.· ..JJ·. ·~ -.. · • a_ ~ •. -~ , \...aR.t, • - ·". •.•. :, . .- . . . --~ - ,~.-Jr r.Y111 _.. _, _ . -,:r~ .. ' , ~.. -,.;;;;::,-~ • ., •• :.•• .~ la! SEARSHARK GOODS LLC OBA ', • · . •• .COM .: If you Would Like to Sponsor the Center for a Day Click Here 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 3 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on New Year, New Me! Starting in 2021, Oklahomans for Equality will offer scholarships for transgender persons seeking a name and gender marker changes. This scholarship will cover the cost of an attorney and all filing fees. Applicants will be chosen based on financial need and a dedication to volunteer service. This scholarship is open to anyone in Oklahoma, not just the Tulsa area. We will select scholarships monthly as funds allow. Apply Here NAME CHANGE GENDER MARKER CHANGE SCHOLARSHIP DIO~IAII 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 4 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... Sponsor an individual's legal name and/or gender marker change. Oklahomans For Equality's Transgender Programming is launching a new Gender Marker and Name Change Scholarship fund! Help raise money for transgender and gender non-conforming folks in Oklahoma to secure funds for legal fees, gender marker change, and name change fees. The full cost for each scholarship is $300, but any amount helps! Donate Here HRC RELEASES 9TH ANNUAL MUNICIPAL EQUALITY INDEX A NATIONWIDE EVALUATION OF MUNICIPAL LAW * Equality Federation Institute Tulsa Improves its score on the Human Rights Campaign Municipal Equality Index. Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa in improving their score on the annual Human Rights Campaign Municipal Equality Index from a 62 in 2019 to 78. The staff, board, and membership of Oklahomans for Equality work closely with Mayor GT Bynum's office and 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 5 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... the Tulsa City Council to improve policies, adopt ordinances and expand services to improve the lives of LGBTQ Tulsans. 2020: ------------HRC 2020 Municipal Equality ------ Index Scorecard 2019: ------------HRC 2019 Municipal Equality ------ Index Scorecard Thank you for all of your work to make sure Tulsa improved their score. Your visibility, reaching out to public policymakers, and advocating for our community have made these incremental steps towards equality. LGBTQ+ individuals and their families considering a move to Tulsa can check these sources to find out if a city is a hostile environment or inclusive. We still have a long way to go to get a 100, but the evidence is in, and Tulsa is improving. OKEQ CDVID-19 GUIDELINES: 1. AIR SCRUBBERS HAVE BEEN INSTALLED IN ALL ROOMS IN THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 3. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 4. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPA □ AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. IF YOU ARE SICK. STAY HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES. PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Breath of Fresh Air: In July 2020, the Dennis R. Neill Center installed air scrubbers in our HVAC system to help our constituents and visitors healthy when visiting Oklahomans for Equality. Clean air is important for everyone, those with health concerns, and those without. Please see more on these units using the link below: 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 6 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... See more on Air Scrubbers SAGE Tulsa has moved their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:00 a.m. to a conference call. You can join the SAGE call at (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60#. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. Contact Us Shop. with Amazon Smile . . . . . Donate to.Oklahomans for. Equality . . . . One Convenien.t Place . 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 7 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... amazonsmile ~ You shop. Amazon gives. Presents: The January Oklahomans for Equality Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery will feature Lizzie DiSilvestro: “Warm Simplicity” Lizzie DiSilvestro’s work explores a visual representation of the feeling of being content, which brings us closer to or further from that state, and the healing impact of choosing joy. She challenges her viewers to remember the warm peace we feel when everything in life is 'just fine.' These may only be moments in between the chaos and thrills, but the way we design our lives and the choices we make every day can lead to a more constant feeling of contentment and appreciation. DiSilvestro celebrates these often overlooked, often private moments that come in between the extremes of our existence because they provide the most honest look at life. Inspired by her father’s adage, “Most of life is not spent in the highs or lows, but somewhere right in the middle,” Lizzie believes there is nothing more beautiful than the contentedness and warm simplicity that results from finding joy in the ordinary. While creating, Lizzie allows space to observe her behaviors and intentions. Still, ultimate interpretation and conclusion are left up to the viewer, allowing a shared 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 8 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... experience resulting in increased self-awareness. Throughout Lizzie's work, elements that remain constant are strong brush strokes, meticulously chosen color, and rich texture, all working together to emulate life’s opulent moments alongside the mundane. Growing up in Kansas City, Lizzie was exposed to a wide range of rich culture and world-class experiences from a young age. Greatly influenced by her paternal grandmother, a vibrant and strong female with a passion for all things artistic, Lizzie has been encouraged to create since she could speak. With a vivacious personality and a strong sense of self, the question has never been "would Lizzie express herself, but how." The medium of choice has changed over the years, but paint and fiber have remained constant throughout recent years. With a science and nursing background, Lizzie takes an analytical look at her surrounding milieu's temperament, those that inhabit it, and the interplay between the two as a mirror for her art. The show opens at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 on Thursday, January 7th,2021, with Covid measures in place. The show continues throughout the month. For more information, please visit ldisilvestroart.com or www.okeq.org. In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 9 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... Jerry Perigo June 4, 1946 - December 25, 2020 Services to be Announced Charles S. Kopp 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 10 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... April 7, 1930 - Nov. 27, 2020 Charles S. Kopp passed in the early morning hours of Friday, November 27, 2020. He was 90 years old. Charles is the father of Norman Kopp, a volunteer at OkEq and PFLAG Tulsa. Charles attended many OkEq and PFLAG dinners at the Equality Center, art shows with the lovely Allie Jensen, and other programs. In 2007, he brought supplies to the Pride Store booth at the Pride Festival, and food to the OkEq Gala volunteers at the Warren Doubletree later that same day. Charles helped Norman prepare when he played in the softball league sponsored by the Equality Center, especially when he was the Green Onion team manager in the spring of 2011. An enjoyable moment for him was meeting Sue Welch, who was in charge of rehabbing the Equality Center building in 2006-2007; Norman was one of the volunteers working on the project. His father got a tour before it was ready for occupancy. Charles and Norman not only loved each other, they liked each other, and it showed. In later years, they would come to the Equality Center on occasional Sundays to see that month's art show. To read more about Charles' life, see his obituary here: Charles S. Kopp Obituary Cheryl Roberts March 20, 1955 ~ Nov. 25, 2020 Cheryl Roberts Obituary 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 11 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... Closing out the Season! Please stop in at The Dennis R Neill Equality Center and pick up an ornament, some gay apparel, or choose from our selection of decor for the Holiday Season. WE OFFER FREE MENSTRUAL PRODUCTS TO ANYONE WHO NEEDS THEM ANY AGE, ANY GENDER. PEllel. CAll 918-74J-4297 OR PICKUP AT 621 f. 4TH ST. 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 12 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... • ...:,,. ALPHABET SOUP KIDS ON ZOOM SATURDAY AFTERNOON 3-4PM • ~ • 0 () ~ • • ·o \\ • ~ • . <::) - ~ -==\\ 0 ~ YOUTH PROGRAMS \\ <::) 0 <::) ARE GOING VIRTUALI ) RAISE YOUR VOICE YOUTH CHOIR ON ZOOM • SATURDAY AFTERNOON ~ 4-5PM '-.. • • ~ \\ • ~ • \\ • 4 VOUTH@OKEO.ORG ~ TO GET ZOOM LINKS! • FOR THE HOLIDAYS, YOUTH PROGRAMS WILL NOT BE MEETING ON SATURDAY, January 2nd. Virtual Youth Programming Will Resume January 9th, 2021. 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 13 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... PARENTS OF LOBTQ2SJA• YOUTH Join Oklahomans for Equality's NEW youth group for kids under 13: Alphabet Soup Kids. This group is for all youth who identify as LGBTQ2SAI+ or who have parents/guardians who are LGBTQ2SAI+. This group exists to provide support, connection, and (most importantly) FUN for our kids across Oklahoma. If you have questions, please email Youth@okeq.org Being a parent is the most challenging, most amazing job on the planet but being the parent of an LGBTQ2SIA+ youth comes with its own unique challenges and amazing moments. OKEQ's new support group for parents of LGBTQ2SIA+ youth is here to help you navigate hard conversations, meet other parents and have a safe space to talk about what's going on and how to create a better environment for our kids. To learn more and to join this group, contact Morgan Allen at Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This group is here to support parents of transgender people at all stages of transition. Whether your child is 6 or 60, this group is for you to find community and connect to resources. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Trans Teen's Support Group 2nd and 4th Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom This support group is for all transgender teens, ages 13+. This group is welcome to trans boys, ' 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 14 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... trans girls, non-binary teens, and everyone under the trans umbrella. All participants must speak to one of the group facilitators before joining. Contact us to Join Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Non-binary Support Group 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. 2nd Wednesday of the Month, 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Virtual Meeting Support group for partners of transgender people. Whether your partner is just starting to transition or transitioned twenty years ago, you are welcome to come to talk and find community. Support group for anyone who identifies outside the gender binary. Whether you identify as non-binary, genderfluid, genderqueer, or agender, everyone is welcome! Contact us to Join Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays, 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Meets via Zoom Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access it via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 15 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Visit Us on Facebook Email Us Coming Out Workshop 1st Monday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Virtual Meeting Free to participate, this one-day course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact our OKEQ Mental Health services at 918-938-6538 or click the button below to schedule. Lets Talk BlueCross BlueShield of Oklahoma 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 16 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... Our clinic is open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic by calling 918-938-6537. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment H.O.P.E. Testing at OKEQ Every 2nd and 4th Saturday, 4:00p.m. - 6:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. offers free HCV and HIV testing at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and has been a long time partner with OKEQ in helping the LGBTQ+ community. Most tests have rapid results to give you peace of mind quickly. H.O.P.E.’s outreach specialists are certified in HIV Counseling, HIV Testing, and Referral (CTR), and work to help you feel comfortable throughout the process, no matter the outcome. HIV and /or HCV Test: • Confidential • Results in 20-30 minutes • Free Click Here to Make an Appointment 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 17 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbovv Library Iffi([J)([J) JK CO)IF 1fIHIIE WIEIE JK lHIOILIIIDA if 1EIDII1I'IION How The Grinch Stole Christmas bY-Dr.Seuss It follows the Grinch. a ~P.Y, solitary Cl'68ture who att:emP.9il t:o pJ!t an end t:o Glvistm88 Qy 8tffllingGbJ;st;mRB-themed i!mnfl from the homes ofthe nearby town Whoville on Christmas Eve. taff Pick: i • trative Coor • ato Equality 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 18 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community and follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small, but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database, click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 19 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... When it comes to cancer, health providers aren’t very educated on what we need. If you are an LGBTQI+ cancer survivor, please share your story so doctors can get better information on how we experience cancer, please take Out: The National Cancer Survey. Click Here to Take the Survey LGBTQ Health and Coronavirus Survey n,1s resear eh ts• coll-,Orat.lve proJ.ct ot o.notr Benders. Rooted Reslsl.3tlce~ and Soclologlsts at Kenyon Coll-oie . FDI'" a:Jre i n f~t.ion cont.act Alatin H JotviMJn, PhO jahnsa'Qlken)"Qf'l .9du The LGBTQ+ Health and Coronavirus Survey aims to investigate the specific hardships and unique experiences of LGBTQ+ people in the time of COVID-19, specifically those who reside in the U.S. Southeast and the U.S. Midwest. Under ordinary circumstances, LGBTQ people in these two regions are underserved and largely understudied. In extraordinary circumstances, such as a global health pandemic, this lack of resources and data leads to more pronounced hardship and increased disparities across outcomes for queer and trans people who call the South and Midwest home. A collaborative, community-engaged research project led by Sociologists at Kenyon College and community organizers at Gender Benders and Rooted Resistance, this project responds to the current moment and seeks to identify key areas of need for LGBTQ people in these two regions during this ongoing crisis. Click Here to Take the Survey 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 20 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... For information that leads to the Arrest and conuiclion 01 the Person or Persons Responsible tor me murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shol and killed while on the iob al Rover Taxi s ' Anvone with information is asked to conlact die McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or die DSBI bv Calling the Agencv'sTip line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng d s SblOII. ov McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 21 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 22 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Darci Hazelwood and Sharon Kimberlin Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Anonymous Trevor Project Linda Ford ONEOK Fellowship Congregational Church UCC AEP/PSO Harry Cramton Jane Wiseman Runnymeade Foundation Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 23 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC, is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Please call 918-938-6538 and select option 2 to make an appointment or send her an email at allison.ikley-freeman@okeq.org. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Virtual Thursday, January 14th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org or Brought to You Bi the Letter B ' Bisexual support group hosted virtually. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 24 of 29 alex.wade@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... Support Group for Transgender Teens information. 2nd & 4th Monday of the Month at 6:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom Support Group for Parents of Transgender People 1st Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. Meets via Zoom The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for transgender teenagers 13+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for parents of transgender people. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email allison.ikleyfreeman@okeq.org or alex.wade@okeq.org 2nd Tuesday of the Month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are Support Group for Partners of Tulsa Area Prime Timers providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 25 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... Transgender People several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! 2nd Wednesday of the Month at 7:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. Email youth@okeq.org for more information. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - or alex.wade@okeq.org sa(Te ~~~~:~~! ~~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org. SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 12:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! --- - - COVID-19 Canceled: Programming • LEGAL A10 tsi. , SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 26 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... Lawyer in the Library Free Yoga Class at OkEq 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. ARTS AND CRAF;r~;-~~T AT THE DENN!S A NEILL EQUAUTY CENT EA 11~ 1 Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Community Partners 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 27 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... • Hus,ness Atlfance EBA Directory The Equality health outreach prevention education, Inc. Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. www.okeq.org/eba ----- -- H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule 2nd and 4th Saturday of the Month from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00p.m. provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Director He / Him / His Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Director She / Her / Hers Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Coordinator Kao Morris BIPOC Program and Digital Media Coordinator 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 28 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... She / Her / Hers Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org He / Him / His Kao.Morris@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Technical Coordinator They / Them / Theirs Anna.Puhl@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits LatinX Outreach and Library Services Coordinator He / Him / el Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPOIISOAEOay THIGIOIIGIUJSU f .. MILYfOUNOATION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner She / Her / Hers OKEQ Health Clinic Tracy Allen SAGE He / Him / His Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Shay Brewer Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director 4/28/26, 11:19 AM �Wishing you a Happy New Year 29 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wishing-you-a-Happy-New-Year.... 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Stephen Rundell Ty Morgan Whitney Cipolla View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 11:19 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c42aacc8f383c6fbca4df368d1c7d012.pdf ca75d6ac8af333c437c852681d178415 PDF Text Text Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility 1 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrate-Transgender-Day-of-Visi... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews March 31st, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Let us help you file your 2019 tax returns! 4/24/26, 5:36 PM �Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility 2 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrate-Transgender-Day-of-Visi... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Feiltur-LV\,g Tvti.bodeaux: Tvt e Tax Tvt er-a-p k1 Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Transgender Day of Visibility Tuesday, March 31 Tuesday, March 31st is the Transgender Day of Visibility. A time to celebrate, learn, teach, and stand up for your transgender Sisters, Brothers, and Siblings. If you are able, we encourage you to be visible and represent your community with pride! Even though we are all staying home right now, there are still ways that we can be visible as a community. Share your selfies and stories using #TDOVTulsa on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter. We want to uplift these stories by sharing them on our social media but we will only do so with permission. If you would like your story to be shared, please tag your post with "okay to be shared" or "please share." 4/24/26, 5:36 PM �Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrate-Transgender-Day-of-Visi.. Let's lift up the voices of the transgender community together! Support Trans Programming at OKEQ At Home Fitness with Jake Landry Working out, getting, and staying fit is hard work, but boy is it worth it! Exercise can boost your immune system, improve your mood, and reduce stress, and even without the gym, you can still work out and stay healthy! Jake Landry is here to teach you techniques to keep fit and stay healthy from your own home. Click Here to Watch II Lynn Riggs Virtual Concerts: Morgan Allen 3 of 22 4/24/26, 5:36 PM �Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility 4 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrate-Transgender-Day-of-Visi... Don't let quarantine keep you from enjoying the sound of good music and the joy of live performance. Music is a great way to relieve stress and improve your mood, and we all need some of that right now. Join us once a week for virtual concerts in the fabulous Lynn Riggs Theater. You can watch this week's video at the link below. Click to Watch ~///////////////4 ~----~ ~ ~ ~ GROUP VIRTUAL PROGRAMMING ~ ~ ~ ~//////////////~ 4/24/26, 5:36 PM �Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility 5 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrate-Transgender-Day-of-Visi... Gender Support Group Virtual Programming Monday-Friday, 6:00 p.m. - 6:45 p.m. This is our Gender Support Outreach group now Virtual and Daily! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. The group will meet virtually via tele conference style. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group . Contact Us Trans Men's Virtual Social Group Saturday, 3:00 p.m. Join us every Saturday at 3:00 p.m. for an hour-long discussion. This space is meant for trans men and transmasculine people to discuss issues they face and to provide support. Trans Men's Social Group If you are interested in joining this weekly chat, please email alex.wade@okeq.org. Contact Us Our Clinic is still ~ -\ ----- 4/24/26, 5:36 PM �Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility 6 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrate-Transgender-Day-of-Visi... Even though the Equality Center is closed, our clinic is still open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment ALPHABET SO UP ALPHA91£"1" SOUP YOUTH VIRTUAL HANGOUTS OIC.li.O •■ L08""TO+ Vou th Oroup E- mail youth@okeq.org to get discord and zoom in formation! 4/24/26, 5:36 PM �Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility 7 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrate-Transgender-Day-of-Visi... Lez Cook: Facebook Live Cooking Monday-Friday, 6:00 p.m. Looking to learn new tips and tricks in the kitchen while staying home? Join Morgan Allen as she cooks her way through her pantry to learn helpful tips on eating healthy, making food last, and how to jazz up otherwise boring meals! You can watch these videos live on the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Facebook Page, Monday through Friday at 6:00 p.m. ily conference call for LGBTQ+ elders over 60 SAGE Group Call Daily Monday - Friday at 2:00 p.m. Monday - Friday at 2:00 p.m. our SAGE elders (those over 60) are invited to participate in virtual programming by calling in to the SAGE Group Call. To join, call (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60# 4/24/26, 5:36 PM �Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility 8 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrate-Transgender-Day-of-Visi... SOURCE : WORLD HEALTH ORGANISATION 4/24/26, 5:36 PM �Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility 9 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrate-Transgender-Day-of-Visi... In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Mike Green (June 25, 1932 - March 29, 2020) Services are Pending. Michael Hulsey (July 13, 1987 March 28, 2020) Services are Pending. In Regards to Tulsa Pride and the Equality Gala: Due to the current global healthcare crisis, the OkEq Board of Directors met and agreed that it is in our community’s best interests to cancel TULSA PRIDE 2020. In addition to the parade and festival, this also includes the Rainbow Run, MOREColor Art Show and the TULSA PRIDE Picnic. Our hearts are broken by this decision, because this celebratory experience brings our entire community together; however, this decision was made to It is with deep regret that I must announce that the Equality Gala 2020 will be postponed. Current events are changing hourly and, after advice and direction from local and state officials and following the guidelines of the CDC, the Board of Directors felt our only course of action for the health, safety and well being of our attendees and community is to postpone our event. 4/24/26, 5:36 PM �Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility 10 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrate-Transgender-Day-of-Visi... honor our community’s best interests. We also acknowledge our current vendors, sponsors and supporters that had already committed to supporting TULSA PRIDE 2020. We appreciate your partnership and support with OkEq and the Oklahoma LGBTQ+ community. We will be reaching out to you, directly, to make sure that this partnership continues, especially during these trying times. The Equality Gala is an important event for Oklahomans for Equality. This principle fundraiser for our organization raises over 50% of the funds needed to operate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, fund programming, services, the medical clinic, advocacy efforts, and other vital services. Christopher Brecht-Smith, Board President Oklahomans for Equality (pronouns: he/him/his) There are approximately 8,000 Oklahoma children in foster care. Learn how you can make a difference by becoming a foster parent . Call 1-833-7FOSTER or visit us only at www.tfifamilyconnections.org. 4/24/26, 5:36 PM �Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility 11 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrate-Transgender-Day-of-Visi... TF/¥ Due to the ongoing COVID-19 situation and the continued uncertainties it is presenting, the Vocal Pride Foundation Board of Directors made the difficult decision to cancel all spring rehearsals and postpone the spring Council Oak Men’s Chorale concerts “On the Road with Council Oak” (including the June Wine & Cheese performance) until the spring of 2021. We believe the health and safety of our members, patrons and audience members are our primary concern in light of advisories by the CDC, local and state governments. However, COMC has set a tentative date for fall rehearsals and dates for our holiday concert "Behold, A Star." Rehearsals will Start on Tuesday, August 18th at Fellowship Congregational Church. Our concerts will be December 8th, 10th &11th (Tuesday, Thursday and Friday) location to be announced. This is difficult for COMC in that our concerts generate revenue through ticket sales, auction items and ad revenues along with donations. As a non-profit organization we have ongoing expenses (i.e., salaries, music, etc.). We cannot go on without this income and continue to provide the musical performances we love to give our patrons, friends and loved ones. We would ask that you please contribute any amount that you can to COMC, counciloak.org, so we can continue our mission of reaching out through song…This Is Why We Sing! We know and understand the importance of music and the curative effects it has on the soul and mental well-being for each of us. So please continue to sing out with us. Stay well and happy in these uncertain times! Visit Council Oak Queer the Census 2020 The Census starts this year on April 1st! Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to 4/24/26, 5:36 PM �Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility 12 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrate-Transgender-Day-of-Visi... respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Census Information What Is the Census?: A Webinar for Everyone Do you have questions or want to learn more about the 2020 Census? Join the National LGBTQ Task Force, the Movement Advancement Project, and other members of the National LGBTQ Census Coalition for the first webinar of our LGBTQ Census Training Series and get up to speed and ready to engage queer and transgender people in the Census! Use the below button to RSVP! RSVP for What Is the Census?: A Webinar for Everyone! Hunger Free Oklahoma Hunger Free Oklahoma is coordinating a one-stop information hub for COVID-19 food resources and announcements in Oklahoma. Please see how you can plug into this valuable resource. Meals4KidsOK.org , the Oklahoma summer meal location website, is being equipped to display key serving information for students that are affected by COVID-19 school closures. Visitors will be able to input their zip code and will be directed to the closest open meal site where children ages 1 – 18 years can receive a meal. Thank you for all you are doing to help Oklahomans weather this crisis. Visit meals4kidsok The Dennis R. Neill Eq!Jality Center1s For the health, safety and well-being of our constituents and the greater Tulsa community, we are temporarily closing our doors to the public effective March 25, 2020 until 4/24/26, 5:36 PM �Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility 13 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrate-Transgender-Day-of-Visi... Are you a person with an LGBT or related identity who has ever served in the US Armed Forces? We invite you to participate in a study focusing on your health behaviors and life experiences as a Veteran with a LGBT or related identity. The goal of the Health for Every Veteran study is to better understand the experiences of Veterans from all backgrounds and promote their health and well-being, including those with LGBT or related identities. We are especially interested in hearing the diverse voices within our communities. The study is being conducted by researchers at the VA Puget Sound Health Care System. It consists of completing a confidential, web-based questionnaire every 9 months for approximately 2 years (for a total of 4 questionnaires). All research activities are completed online, with no in-person visits required. For more information please click below. SURVEY 4/24/26, 5:36 PM �Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility 14 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrate-Transgender-Day-of-Visi... ■ For intormalion that leads to the Arrest and conuiclion ot the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder or Dustin Parker on Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' Anvone with information is asked to contact the McAlester Police oeuanment at 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI bv Calling the Agency's TIP line at 1-800-522-8017 or bv Emalllng u_ns@osbl. k.!l! McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. The Transgender Flag continues to fly at half staff in memory of Dustin Parker. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. 4/24/26, 5:36 PM �Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility 15 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrate-Transgender-Day-of-Visi... Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. COVID-19 Canceled: Regularly Scheduled Programming • OkEq Board LEGALAID . h 4/24/26, 5:36 PM �Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility 16 of 22 SERVICES OF https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrate-Transgender-Day-of-Visi... = -~~ OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, April 9, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Alphabet Soup Youth Group Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Free Yoga Class at OkEq Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit providing fun group activities, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/24/26, 5:36 PM �Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility 17 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrate-Transgender-Day-of-Visi... through movement and breath. It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Fitness Class at OkEq Tuesdays 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Christopher Gomez's Workout program is designed with science to help individuals meet their fitness goals in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming environment. :::1 Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Children/Siblings of Trans*/Non- 4/24/26, 5:36 PM �Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility 18 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrate-Transgender-Day-of-Visi... - v---· 11==~~~ ® Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org - - - --The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. ~I Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org sao-e ~~~~:~~t ~~ LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ARTS AND CRAFTS N: i ' AT THE DENNIS R NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Binary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess 4/24/26, 5:36 PM �Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility 19 of 22 Y I I ' - ' '-' https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrate-Transgender-Day-of-Visi... ,_,,.._,V\\_,/ Arts and Crafts Night Three Souls Every 2nd Monday Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Join us for our monthly Heart Circle at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We meet on the second Sunday of every month. All queer men are welcome to the circle (gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual and queer). On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/24/26, 5:36 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/51ce20a1aef419bb6809642307a32773.pdf 7569ec70048dbde5821d2c8b9fd61664 PDF Text Text Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 1 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews January 14th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! F ~ Payaoii Rental Propafy Bookkeeping ~~«>, Let us help you file your 2019 tax returns! 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 2 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Featur-LV\,g TvtLbo~eau}(: Tvte Ta}( TvteYaprj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 3 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... The Transgender Flag continues to fly at half staff in memory of Dustin Parker. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Congratulations to our newly crowned King and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2020: King Blaze Khrystian and Queen Kitty Marie Legacy. 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 4 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday, January 15, 6:00 p.m. Gallery Floral 1514 E. 15th St. Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 galleryfloral.com Qa.lle~fl g:t.u,r.al. "Dc.A.upL Gallery Floral Designs will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for January. We are looking very forward to seeing you there! The Equality Business Alliance exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ -welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: • Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ -welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; • Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and • Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. All EBA Events will be listed on our website and Facebook Event Page. Please plan on joining us! Benefits of Membership: 1. Inclusion in EBA Merchant & Members listing on Oklahomans for Equality website 2. Email updates of all EBA events and opportunities 3. Invitation to Networking Events and ability to host 4. Marketing opportunities at EBA and community events Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : Brassy Band Burlesque 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 5 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Thursday, January 16, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Award-winning, nationally acclaimed burlesque performer and producer Lucy Furr brings some of the best burlesque acts in the country to the Rainbow Room. These classic burlesque artists will transport audience members to the golden age of burlesque performed to a live jazz band. Click Here for Tickets Pride Bingo 2020 " ,/" T U L S A ,, p Saturday, Febuary 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back for the 2020 Pride season. The fun and hilarious Rainbow Granny will be there with special guests to join her for our Bingo Bash. DJ Alex says "get your lip sync selections ready." @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $35 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $300 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Buy Your Tickets Call for LGBTQ+ Oklahoma History Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 In honor of the unveiling of our new Tulsa Pride logo for 2020, the History Project team wanted to share an amazing promo video from 2006 featuring so many Tulsa Pride favorites! Who do you recognize? Our local LGBTQIA+ history is important, 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 6 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... and you can check out the OKEQ History Project at the Equality Center or online at History Center at the link ink below . If you have any videos, pictures, or items to donate to the history project, please bring them to the center! Pride Footage 2002 - 2006 Visit Our History Center Sisters in Song Tuesday, January 14, 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Sisters in Song would like to invite women that enjoy singing and performing to join us for our first 2020 practice! We will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Tuesday, January 7th at 7:00 p.m. Please call 918-809-9751 for further information or questions. New Fitness Class at OKEQ Thursday, January 16, 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Holidays have those pants feeling tighter? Want to tone your muscles? Great news! Oklahomans for Equality has a new fitness class taught by Christopher Gomez. This class will give you an opportunity to get a well rounded workout and help to tone and tighten. “I have lead workout groups with friends at more extreme paces, but am now learning the science behind it and how to bring others to their fitness goals at a more inclusive pace at community care college through their fitness program," says Christopher Gomez. "I am confident in my abilities to provide satisfaction to my clients through my fitness instruction. I am excited to be teaching fitness at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, where everyone is safe and welcome!" Fresh Start Program: Trans-formative Self Care! 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 7 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Thursday, January 23, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Closet Exchange Closet getting full or style getting stale? Bring your lightly used clothes, purses, accessories, shoes and more to the Equality Center and trade them with other attendees to build a whole new style! Clary Sage Instructors and students will be on hand to help you make choices so will you look your best. 50's / 60's Throwback Friday, January 24, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Oklahomans for Equality as we look back each month on different decades of LGBTQIA+ history with music, dancing, and historical artifacts! Our 50s/60s Throwback night is the first of a monthly series of FREE mixers that celebrate and remember the long road that we are on in the fight for equality, while also remembering the culture that our community created in a time of isolation. The 50s/60s night will feature live music, a cash bar, and a historical overview of LGBTQIA+ Tulsa/Oklahoma in the 1950s and 1960s. Please come dressed in your finest underground club wear! There is no cost for entry, just come dressed to party! First Thursday Art Show Featuring: Alexis "QingLex" Walker Thursday, Febuary 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 8 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Alexis “QingLex” Walker, beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 6th from 6-9 pm and continuing throughout the month. Alexis “QingLex” Walker is a non-binary queer revolutionary. They are an early childhood educator, special needs advocate, public speaker, spoken word wordsmith, painter, and an all-around creative expressionist. They believe that play and creation is the best way to experience life and connect with people. QingLex’s passion is to be an energy that allows for people to connect, heal and create joy that leads to authenticity no matter identity or outside oppressions. She began painting in March of 2017 as a means to heal through experiences as well as vicarious trauma of her pre-K students and never stopped. Painting started as a way to escape the disturbing reality and to retreat within. Now it is a means of sharing thoughts and emotions. QingLex’s art is a collection of all that is meaningful to them. No human experience is monolithic and that includes black queer experiences. She needs to live fully, comfortably, and out loud. Blackness is divine. Queerness is magic. Gender is a construct and conformity is played out. Their goal is to create a community safe haven where Black LGBTQ+ children and young adults can experience their humanness and spiritual divinity through artistic expression, health, and wellness. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, February 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. Let's help the Tulsa Police Department become better by using your voice to let 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 9 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... them know how they are doing. This assessment is completely confidential and the data will be used to help train officers. Click to Complete Survey Council Oak Men's Chorale 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 10 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Rehearsals Tuesday January 28th at 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Rehearsals Start Tuesday January 28th at 7:00 p.m. Don't just sing in the shower, join Council Oak Men's Chorale and go on the road...On the Road With Council Oak...our upcoming spring concert. Join an exciting group of men who travel well together, make beautiful music, have fun and enjoy performing! We'll be following the GPS coordinates for an exciting spring concert by visiting various destinations and sites through song. Come hit the road with us starting January 28th. You'll have a thrilling journey! If you have any questions contact our Chauffeur (Artistic Director) Elizabeth Smith Curtis at jazzmezzo@cox.net . COMC will actually be going on the road in July to the 2020 GALA Festival performing and representing our Tulsa community in Minneapolis. Come be a part of this road trip! Little Blue House and Condomania Calling for Artists Creative Folks! Calling All Help the Little Blue House a t TU promote SAFE SEX and let your inner designer shine! All contestants w ill d esign and construct wearable fashion items OUT OF CONDOMS . We will issue eac h p articip ant 200 condoms for use in the project. Final fashion show desig ns w ill be presented in a FASHION SHOW fundraiser on Morc h 28, 2020 a t CONDO MANIA! Sign-up by Feb. 1sq Email: linda-davis@utu lsa.edu. Visit our website for additional information: LittleBlueHouseA tTU .erg/Special Events Sponsored by: made entirely out of condoms! -tllt L-' little blue house ......,_,_..,.._.., 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 11 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Super Bowl LIV Party Sunday, February 2, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Team invite you to join us on Sunday, February 2nd to watch the Super Bowl! We will screen the game live in the 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 12 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Bruce Goff event center starting at 5:00 pm. There will be a cash bar with proceeds going to OKEQ and yummy food for sale benefiting the Tulsa Threat! This is a party you don't want to miss. Gay e tity Develop ent, Relatio 1al Satisfac ion and ,Quitness - Gay- ale exper·ences • Emerging Adiul ood 1 o us e . ? t II y/G y I yo V y C t: Click to Complete Survey Joe and Nancy McDonald Library 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 13 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... "The Letter Q: Queer Writers' Notes to their Younger Selves" by Sarah Moon , James Lecesne Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. "In this anthology, sixty-three award-winning authors such as Michael Cunningham, Amy Bloom, Jacqueline Woodson, Gregory Maguire, David Levithan, and Armistead Maupin make imaginative journeys into their pasts, telling their younger selves what they would have liked to know then about their lives as Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, or Transgendered people. Through stories, in pictures, with bracing honesty, these are words of love and understanding, reasons to hold on for the better future ahead. They will tell you things about your favorite authors that you never knew before. And they will tell you about yourself." Equality Pride Store 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 14 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Non-Binary, Bisexual, Genderqueer, Polyamorous keychains. These locally made keychains are a great way to express your identity and keep your keys together. Help support local artists and the Equality Center by coming by and picking yours up today. $8.00 Special! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 15 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, February 13, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 16 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... necessary. Daniel & Haley Alphabet Soup Youth Group Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Fitness Class at OkEq Tuesdays 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Christopher Gomez's Workout program is "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 17 of 21 designed with science to help individuals meet their fitness goals in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming environment. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Sos Sisters in Song Tuesdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 18 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 19 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org Tracy Allen Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 20 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits Special Projects Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Bob Hanson Marcia Keesee Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman 4/24/26, 5:24 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Brassy Band Burlesque 21 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sun 9 a.m. - 9 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:24 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d372ddda749c95518269bed83b8ea81c.pdf e1789744e2077433fdecddf1a62f46e7 PDF Text Text Urgent Call to Action on SB 1819 1 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-on-SB-181... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews January 22nd, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! F ~ Payaoii Rental Propafy Bookkeeping ~~«>, Let us help you file your 2019 tax returns! 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �Urgent Call to Action on SB 1819 2 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-on-SB-181... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Featur-LV\,g TvtLbo~eau}(: Tvte Ta}( TvteYaprj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Urgent call to action: Oklahomans for Equality is outraged that Oklahoma State Senator Nathan Dahm has introduced SB 1819 which would restrict a parent's rights to provide gender affirming medical care for their own child and punish medical professionals who provide gender affirming treatment for those under 18 years of age. Oklahomans for Equality challenges you to contact your Oklahoma State Senator and request they condemn this unconstitutional and destructive bill that would strip parents of their rights, endangering children, and criminalize medical professionals. Find Your Legislators 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �Urgent Call to Action on SB 1819 3 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-on-SB-181... 50's / 60's Throwback Friday, January 24, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Oklahomans for Equality as we look back each month on different decades of LGBTQIA+ history with music, dancing, and historical artifacts! Our 50s/60s Throwback night is the first of a monthly series of FREE mixers that celebrate and remember the long road that we are on in the fight for equality, while also remembering the culture that our community created in a time of isolation. The 50s/60s night will feature curated music, a cash bar with a special menu, and a historical overview of LGBTQIA+ Tulsa/Oklahoma in the 1950s and 1960s. Please come dressed in your finest underground clubwear! There is no cost for entry, just come dressed to party! Pride Bingo 2020 Saturday, Febuary 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ~~ T U L S A ,, p Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back for the 2020 Pride season. The fun and hilarious Rainbow Granny will be there with special guests to join her for our Bingo Bash. $20 for general admission $35 Adult Beverage admission includes @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �Urgent Call to Action on SB 1819 4 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-on-SB-181... 3 drink tickets $300 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Buy Your Tickets Super Bowl LIV Party 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �Urgent Call to Action on SB 1819 5 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Urgent-Call-to-Action-on-SB-181... Sunday, February 2, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Team invite you to watch the Super Bowl with us on Sunday, February 2nd! We will screen the game live in the Bruce Goff event center, starting at 5:00 pm. There will be a cash bar with proceeds going to OKEQ, and yummy food for sale benefiting the Tulsa Threat! This is a party you don't want to miss! SAGE Trip to Crystal Bridges Wednesday, Febuary 5, 12:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE, our LGBTQ+ older adult program, will be taking a road trip to Crystal Bridges Museum in Bentonville, Arkansas to see the North Forest Lights exhibit. Free museum tickets for the museum and exhibit, but you must RSVP by Monday, Feb 3rd! There is a food court at the museum, and participants are expected to pay for their food and drink. Everyone needs to dress appropriately for the cold weather! Several vehicles will be carpooling, but spots are limited in the OKEQ van. RSVP Today First Thursday Art Show Featuring: Alexis "QingLex" Walker Thursday, Febuary 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Alexis “QingLex” Walker. The showcase begins with a reception on Thursday, February 6th from 6-9 pm and continuing throughout the month. Alexis “QingLex” Walker is a non-binary queer revolutionary. They are an early childhood educator, special needs advocate, public speaker, spoken wordsmith, painter, and an allaround creative expressionist. They believe that play and creation is the best way to experience life and connect with people. QingLex’s passion is to be an energy that allows 4/24/26, 5:25 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/db8840aa4644ba967954bd07218e42d8.pdf 3052614f13aa75a8fd1fa4ad29cb0cb4 PDF Text Text 20,000 Reward for Information 1 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews January 28th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! F ~ Payaoii Rental Propafy Bookkeeping ~~«>, Let us help you file your 2019 tax returns! 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 2 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Featur-LV\,g TvtLbo~eau}(: Tvte Ta}( TvteYaprj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 2019 Donation Tax Donation Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2019 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@okeq.org 2nd Pride Bingo 2020 Saturday, February 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ~~ T U L S A ,, p Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back for the 2020 Pride season. 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 3 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... The fun and hilarious Rainbow Granny will be there with special guests to join her for our Bingo Bash. @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $35 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $300 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Buy Your Tickets ...,,0KE ~ OKEq Town Hall Sunday, February 2, 2:00 p.m. - 3:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 OKEQ invites you to come and participate in a town hall about new 2020 Legislation that impacts our LGBTQ+ and Immigrant communities. We will be discussing SB1819, SB1459, HB3872, HB2980, and HB2989. You will have the opportunity to write, e-mail, or call your legislators and have group discussions on these bills. Sunday, February 2nd, 2020 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in the Goff Event Room 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 4 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... Super Bowl LIV Party Sunday, February 2, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Team invite you to watch the Super Bowl with us on Sunday, February 2nd! We will screen the game live in the Bruce Goff event center, starting at 5:00 pm. There will be a cash bar with proceeds going to OKEQ, and yummy food for sale benefiting the Tulsa Threat! This is a party you don't want to miss! Urgent call to action: PROTECT TRANS KIDS Oklahomans for Equality is outraged that Oklahoma State Senator Nathan Dahm has introduced SB 1819 which would restrict a parent's rights to provide gender affirming medical care for their own child and punish medical professionals who provide gender affirming treatment for those under 18 years of age. Oklahomans for Equality 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 5 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... challenges you to contact your Oklahoma State Senator and request they condemn this unconstitutional and destructive bill that would strip parents of their rights, endangering children, and criminalize medical professionals. Find Your Legislators First LGBTQ+ Clinic in Tulsa Opening at the Equality Center The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is proud to be the home of the OKEQ Health Clinic, the first LGBTQ+ clinic in Tulsa. With accessible pricing for transgender hormone therapy, competent care, and a judgment-free atmosphere, we hope to make our community feel safe going to the doctor to get the vital care we all need and deserve. • • OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC If you would like to sign up for the medical clinic, which will have its grand opening in March, please check out the link below. We look forward to serving you. To schedule an appointment you can call, 918-938-6537 (OKEQ). Clinic Information Request SAGE Trip to Crystal Bridges Wednesday, February 5, 12:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE, our LGBTQ+ older adult program, will be taking a road trip to Crystal Bridges Museum in Bentonville, Arkansas to see the North Forest Lights exhibit. Free museum tickets for the museum and exhibit, but you must RSVP by Monday, Feb 3rd! There is a food court at the museum, and participants are expected to pay for their food and drink. Everyone needs to dress appropriately for the cold weather! Several vehicles will be carpooling, but spots are limited in the OKEQ van. RSVP Today 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 6 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... First Thursday Art Show Featuring: Alexis "QingLex" Walker Thursday, February 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Alexis “QingLex” Walker. The showcase begins with a reception on Thursday, February 6th from 6-9 pm and continuing throughout the month. Alexis “QingLex” Walker is a non-binary queer revolutionary. They are an early childhood educator, special needs advocate, public speaker, spoken wordsmith, painter, and an allaround creative expressionist. They believe that play and creation is the best way to experience life and connect with people. QingLex’s passion is to be an energy that allows people to connect, heal, and create joy that leads to authenticity, no matter identity or outside oppression. She began painting in March of 2017 as a means to heal through experiences as well as vicarious trauma of her pre-K students and never stopped. Painting started as a way to escape the disturbing reality and to retreat within. Now it is a means of sharing thoughts and emotions. QingLex’s art is a collection of all that is meaningful to them. No human experience is monolithic, and that includes black queer experiences. Blackness is divine. Queerness is magic. Gender is a construct, and conformity is played out. Their goal is to create a community haven where Black LGBTQ+ children and young adults can experience their humanness and spiritual divinity through artistic expression, health, and wellness. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, February 6th, from 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. The show continues throughout the month. ■ For intormanon that leads to the Arrest 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 7 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... ano conu1c11on ot the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder ot Dustin Parker on Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' Anvone wtth information is asked to contact die McAlester Police Oepanment at 918-423-1212 or Iha OSBI 11V Calling the Agancv·s Tip line at 1-8 0-522- 17 or bV Emalllng u @ . k. McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. The Transgender Flag continues to fly at half staff in memory of Dustin Parker. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin 2020 Equality Gala Sponsorship Saturday, April 18, 6:30 p.m. Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Sponsorship's for the 40th Anniversary are now available! Click the link below to join us today! 2020 marks the 40 th Anniversary of the first Oklahomans for Equality Gala. We will 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 8 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... commemorate this milestone year and celebrate the achievements of Oklahomans for Equality. Click to Become a Sponsor Call for LGBTQ+ Oklahoma History In honor of the unveiling of our new Tulsa Pride logo for 2020, the History Project team wanted to share an amazing promo video from 2006 featuring so many Tulsa Pride favorites! Who do you recognize? Our local LGBTQIA+ history is important, and you can check out the OKEQ History Project at the Equality Center or online at History Center at the link ink below . If you have any videos, pictures, or items to donate to the history project, please bring them to the center! Pride Footage 2002 - 2006 Visit Our History Center LGBT Women's Network November Happy Hour Monday, February 3rd, 5:30 p.m - 7:30 p.m. Heirloom Rustic Ales 2113 E. Admiral Blvd. Tulsa, Oklahoma 74110 Heirloom Rustic Ales is stop number two of our small brewery tour of 2020 (as most are closed on Mondays). Join us for delicious beers, new faces, and a great time! *this location is kid friendly AND for you non-beer drinkers, they have wine and cider available for purchase! As always, our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and allies are always welcome. If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message. We’re interested to visit all LGBT-friendly locations! 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 9 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, Febuary 4, 6:30 p.m. Bravos Mexican Grill 6104 E. 71st St. Broken Arrow, OK 74012 Join us at Bravos Mexican Grill.Bravos is a a new concept of Authentic Mexican Food where the customers will find a high quality and fresh Mexican food nicely presented on the plates; accompanied of a nice restaurant atmosphere created by the upscale Mexican contemporary decoration and accents; a friendly Latin music in a pretty cleanness premises.. The reservations are under OkEq Men's Group. Hope to see everyone there! A head count is needed for the reservations. If you are coming please let us know by clicking below . RSVP New Fitness Class at OKEQ Thursday, January 30, 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Holidays have those pants feeling tighter? Want to tone your muscles? Great news! Oklahomans for Equality has a new fitness class taught by Christopher Gomez. This class will give you an opportunity to get a well rounded workout and help to tone and tighten. “I have lead workout groups with friends at more extreme paces, but am now learning the science behind it and how to bring others to their fitness goals at a more inclusive pace at community care college through their fitness program," says Christopher Gomez. "I am confident in my abilities to provide satisfaction to my clients through my fitness instruction. I am excited to be teaching fitness at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, where everyone is safe and welcome!" Sisters in Song Tuesday, January 28, 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Sisters in Song would like to invite women 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 10 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... that enjoy singing and performing to join us for our first 2020 ensemble! Please call 918-809-9751 for further information or questions. 0 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 11 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... Open Hearts Revue Friday, February 7, 9:30 p.m. LaRue's 4302 E. Pine St. Tulsa OK 74115 Benefiting Tulsa Pride 2020 21+ to enter No Cover Scheduled to Perform: Sara Hearts, Kitty Marie Legacy, Scrappy Legacy, Stephanie Powers, Anita Richards, Taylor Richards, Rocky Indica Von Trease, Randy White, with DJ DragnFyre! SAGE Valentine Luncheon Saturday, February 11, 10:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Make plans to attend the SAGE Valentine luncheon. Lunch is free. SAGE is OKEQ's program for LGBTQ Older adults over 50. Census 2020 The Census starts this year on April 1st! Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 12 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Census Information Let's help the Tulsa Police Department become better by using your voice to let them know how they are doing. This assessment is completely confidential and the data will be used to help train officers. Click to Complete Survey A MONTHLY INTERFAITH SERVICE OF HOPE FOR AMERICA'S FUTURE ONE FROM MANY Feb. 2 at 2-2:45 p.m. Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N. Mingo Rd., Tulsa, OK 74116 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 13 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... One From Many Phillips Theological Seminary Saturday, February 2, 2:00 p.m. - 2:45 p.m. 901 N. Mingo Rd. Tulsa, OK 74116 One from Many is a monthly interfaith service of hope for America’s future, presented by the Center for Religion in Public Life and by the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice. The event welcomes people of spiritual and moral conviction who want to work side by side to ensure the U.S. motto E Pluribus Unum (One from Many), the Golden Rule, and the universal values of compassion and justice are more evident in American life. Each gathering will be a 45-minute service of encouragement and challenge. Participants will have the opportunity to welcome one another, enjoy performances and readings, sing, and reflect with one of Tulsa’s interfaith community leaders. One from Many is free and open to the public. For more information contact Dr. Gary PelusoVerdend , Director of the Center for Religion in Public Life at Phillips. Did you know that the first image paired with the phrase E Pluribus Unum was a bouquet of flowers ? Register Here One from Many Video /~JJ CIRCLECINEMA,. OSCARS 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 14 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... SPONSORED BY TUlSA'S CHANNEL 5:30PM SUN FEB 9 AT CIRCLE CINEMA TICKETS O MEMBERS • $25 ON-MEM ERS WITH LIVE PERFORMANCES BY B J so RED CARPET INTERVIEWS WITH OKPOP R V A & PRIZES WITH Ii<" ERIN C R STY LIGHT BITES FROM POLO GRILL• QUEENIES PLUS• YOKOZUNA BLUE MOON CAFE• CALAVERAS MEXICAN GRILL POP O B R 0 E I R POP O & CO N 0 PHOTO OPS • BEST DRESSED AWARD • CASH BAR • AND MORE CIRCLECINEMA.ORG • 918.585.3456 • 10 S. LEWIS AVE Circle Cinema's Oscar Watch Party Sunday, February 9, 5:30 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 CIrcle Cinema 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 15 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... Shimmies From the Heart Saturday, February 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Elysium Belly Dance is giving back to the community by hosting a belly dance show and silent auction benefiting the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Oklahomans for Equality. The showcase will take place in the Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater. Shimmies from the Heart will feature group and solo performances highlighting different styles of Middle Eastern, oriental, and fusion dance. Tickets are available at the door, $10.00 for adults and $5.00 for children 12 and under. Click for More Information Little Blue House and Condomania Calling for Artists Calling All Creative Folks! Help the Little Blue House at TU promote SAFE SEX and let your inner designer shine! All contestants will design and construct wearable fash ion items OUT OF CONDOMS. We will issue each participant 200 condoms for use in the project. Final fashion show designs will be presented in a FASHION SHOW fundraiser on Morch 28, 2020 at CONDO MANIA! Sian-uo bv Feb. 1sq 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 16 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... ~ Email: linda-davis@utulsa.edu. Visit our website for additional information: LittleBlueHouseA tTU .org/Special Events Sponsored by: -t1• QI'' little blue house made entirely out of condoms! ......,__...,.._i;t, 2020 Freedom Oklahoma College Summit Friday, February 21, 8:30 a.m. Meinders School of Business 2701 N McKinley Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73106 FREEDOM - . OKLAHOMA It's that time again! Join us for the 8th annual Freedom Oklahoma College Summit! Our annual summit is an incredible opportunity for LGBTQ and allied students from across the region to come together, network, share best practices and learn from experts in the field of advocacy, civil rights, law, and LGBTQ health. This year's summit is hosted by Oklahoma City University with the support of the OCU Spectrum Alliance and OCU Office of Diversity and Inclusion. Admission is FREE! All pre-registrants will receive lunch and a free tote bag. Visit our website Gay Identity Development, Relatio al Satisfac ion and Outness - Gay-Male experiences ·n Emerging Adul hood Yo mus e b I 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 17 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... o? V 0 y C V n t: Click to Complete Survey Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe " "This Printz Honor Book is a “tender, honest exploration of identity” ( Publishers Weekly ) that distills lyrical truths about family and friendship. Find this selection and more by Aristotle is an angry teen with a brother in prison. Dante is a know-it-all who has an unusual way of looking at the world. When the two meet at the swimming pool, they seem to have nothing in common. But as the loners start spending time together, they discover that they share a special friendship—the kind that changes lives and lasts a lifetime. And it is through this friendship that Ari and Dante will learn the most important truths about themselves and the kind of people they want 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 18 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. to be." Equality Pride Store Non-Binary, Bisexual, Genderqueer, Polyamorous keychains. These locally made keychains are a great way to express your identity and keep your keys together. Help support local artists and the Equality Center by coming by and picking yours up today. $8.00 Special! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 19 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL A1n thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, February 13, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Alphabet Soup Youth Group Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 20 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Fitness Class at OkEq Tuesdays 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Christopher Gomez's Workout program is designed with science to help individuals meet their Neill Equality Center! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their SECULAR 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 21 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... fitness goals in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming environment. ~ .- .. , V""'1'V ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m :::I Sisters in Song Tuesdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. --- Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and 4/24/26, 5:25 PM �20,000 Reward for Information 22 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/20-000-Reward-for-Information.h... SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. 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SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews February 5th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Let us help you file your 2019 tax returns! 4/24/26, 5:27 PM �First Thursday Art Show: A Queer Revolution 2 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Show--A-Que... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Fe~tuYt-V\,g T~i,boctetlux: T~e Ttl)( T~eYtlf tj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 2019 Donation Tax Donation Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2019 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@okeq.org PROTECT TRANS KIDS CONVERSION THERAPY 4/24/26, 5:27 PM �First Thursday Art Show: A Queer Revolution 3 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Show--A-Que... SAY ND TD 5B1819 Urgent call to action: Oklahomans for Equality has released our legislative agenda for the Oklahoma State House Session. Please review the bills we feel need our support and will improve life for LGBTQ+ Oklahomans. We also have listed the bills that we feel will impact the LGBTQ+ community negatively. We encourage you to contact your legislator by mail, phone, email, and join our CEO/ Executive Director Toby Jenkins for scheduled weekly trips to the Oklahoma State House to engage and visit with lawmakers. Remember the LGBTQ+ lobby day at the Oklahoma State Capital will be Wednesday, March 4th, 2020. Find Your Legislators OKEQ 2020 Legislative Agenda First Thursday Art Show Featuring: Alexis "QingLex" Walker Thursday, February 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Alexis “QingLex” Walker, beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 6th from 6-9 pm and continuing throughout the month. Alexis “QingLex” Walker is a non-binary queer revolutionary. They are an early childhood educator, special needs advocate, public speaker, spoken word wordsmith, painter, and an all-around creative expressionist. They believe that play and creation is the best way to experience life and connect with people. QingLex’s passion is to be an energy that allows for people to connect, heal and create joy that leads to authenticity no matter identity or outside oppressions. She began painting in March of 2017 as a means to heal through experiences as well as vicarious trauma of her pre-K students and never stopped. Painting started as a 4/24/26, 5:27 PM �First Thursday Art Show: A Queer Revolution 4 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Show--A-Que... way to escape the disturbing reality and to retreat within. Now it is a means of sharing thoughts and emotions. QingLex’s art is a collection of all that is meaningful to them. No human experience is monolithic and that includes black queer experiences. She needs to live fully, comfortably, and out loud. Blackness is divine. Queerness is magic. Gender is a construct and conformity is played out. Their goal is to create a community safe haven where Black LGBTQ+ children and young adults can experience their humanness and spiritual divinity through artistic expression, health, and wellness. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, February 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Monday, February 10, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Every other Monday at 7:00 p.m. starting on February 10th. SAGE Valentine Luncheon Tuesday, February 11, 10:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Make plans to attend the SAGE Valentine luncheon. Lunch is free. SAGE is OKEQ's program for LGBTQ+ Older adults over 50. 4/24/26, 5:27 PM �First Thursday Art Show: A Queer Revolution 5 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Show--A-Que... Pairs, Spares, and Singles all welcome!! Sisters in Song Tuesday, February 11, 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Sisters in Song would like to invite women that enjoy singing and performing to join us for our first 2020 ensemble! Please call 918-809-9751 for further information or questions. SAGE Trip to Crystal Bridges Wednesday, February 12, 12:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE, our LGBTQ+ older adult program, will be taking a road trip to Crystal Bridges Museum in Bentonville, Arkansas to see the North Forest Lights exhibit. Free museum tickets for the museum and exhibit, but you must RSVP by Monday, Feb 3rd! There is a food court at the museum, and participants are expected to pay for their food and drink. Everyone needs to dress appropriately for the cold weather! Several vehicles will be carpooling, but spots are limited in the OKEQ van. RSVP Today Wild Hearts Ball: Stupid Cupid Saturday, February 15, 7:00 p.m.-10:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tired of mushy cards, candy hearts, and flowers everywhere? All are welcome to un-celebrate Valentine's Day with us at our Anti-Valentine's Day, Stupid Cupid Party! We promise that there will be no Cupid's 4/24/26, 5:27 PM �First Thursday Art Show: A Queer Revolution 6 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Show--A-Que... arrows in sight! Singles and couples are welcome! Get ready for some fun, competitive games with great prizes. Scrappy Legacy will Emcee the event with some of your favorite Queens and Kings. Free to attend and free to party your hearts out. Cash Bar available. Shimmies From the Heart Saturday, February 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Elysium Belly Dance is giving back to the community by hosting a belly dance show and silent auction benefiting the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Oklahomans for Equality. The showcase will take place in the Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater. Shimmies from the Heart will feature group and solo performances highlighting different styles of Middle Eastern, oriental, and fusion dance. Tickets are available at the door, $10.00 for adults and $5.00 for children 12 and under. 4/24/26, 5:27 PM �First Thursday Art Show: A Queer Revolution 7 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Show--A-Que... Click for More Information Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : The Evolution of African American Music Thursday, February 20, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 African Americans have played a part in the success of music since the early twentieth century. Join some of Tulsa’s finest African American performers, led by Kia Hightower, as they take you on a journey through time to explore the success and failures of black musical artists. Click below to get your tickets in advance. Tickets POC Social at OkEq Friday, February 21, 7:00 p.m. Airsoft Tulsa 6323 E 41st St Tulsa, OK 74135 The People of Color Social Mixer focuses on celebrating, preserving and connecting POCs in the Tulsa LGBTQ+ community. Join us for drinks, food and fun! The POC events are scheduled the third Friday of each month. 1 EVERY TH/HO FRIDAY UL • t/L EOl FON MONE INFONMATION CALL 918 904 1869 4/24/26, 5:27 PM �First Thursday Art Show: A Queer Revolution 8 of 24 This month, the POC Social will meet at Airsoft Tulsa. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Show--A-Que... MORRIS Mardi Gras Parade Saturday, February 22, 5:30 p.m. McNellies 409 E 1st St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ as we march in Mardi Gras Parade! Put on your boas and masks and celebrate Mardi Gras in the historic Blue Dome District. We will meet outside McNellies at 5:30pm. E-mail jose.vega@okeq.org to RSVP. Mardi Gras Masquerade Saturday, February 22, 6:00p.m. 2:00a.m. Unicorn Club 221 E 1st St. Tulsa, OK 74120 The 5th Annual Tulsa Mardi Gras Masquerade is the official after party of the Blue Dome Mardi Gras Parade. Isn't time Tulsa had a proper Mardi Gras celebration? Oklahomans for Equality, LockHeart Productions, and the Blue Dome District are hosting the 5th annual Tulsa Mardi Gras Masquerade on Saturday Feb 22nd at 7:00pm. This year we’re changing things up. A portion of the profits are donated to Oklahomans for Equality. All funds from VIP and sponsorship packages go to support OKEQ and are tax deductible donations. This event WILL sell out, please buy your tickets in advance in order to make sure you can get in! One ticket it gets you into two shows! Enjoy a traditional Mardi Gras environment with live Cajun and music at Enso Bar, or get crazy to a Mardi Gras gone wild celebration in The Unicorn Club. Our Masquerade is a fully immersion experience. From the flavors, decor, and music, to party favors, bead necklaces, masks and more! You will walk into a proper Louisiana Mardi Gras celebration. Our cast and crew will whisk you away to the bayou with their wild costumes and performances on stage, among the crowd, and even outside. Profits from the evening benefit Oklahomans for Equality. 4/24/26, 5:27 PM �First Thursday Art Show: A Queer Revolution 9 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Show--A-Que... GET TICKETS 70s/80s Throwback Night Friday, February 28, 6:30 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Your favorite gay disco is back open. Its time to have a ball. We have so much to learn about our history and such an exciting way to interact with it at OKEQ's Throwback Night: 70s/80s Edition. Join us for this FREE, all ages event with specialty drinks and cocktails, curated music, and all sorts of historical documents from Oklahoma's LGBTQ+ past. Plus, as a special treat, we will be doing a special historical overview of Ball Culture, and you can participate in the Ball if you would like! RSVP on Facebook Visit the Online History Project 2020 Equality Gala Sponsorship Saturday, April 18, 6:30 p.m. Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Sponsorship's for the 40th Anniversary are now available! Click the link below to join us today! 2020 marks the 40 th Anniversary of the first 4/24/26, 5:27 PM �First Thursday Art Show: A Queer Revolution 10 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Show--A-Que... Oklahomans for Equality Gala. We will commemorate this milestone year and celebrate the achievements of Oklahomans for Equality. Click to Become a Sponsor First LGBTQ+ Clinic in Tulsa Opening at the Equality Center The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is proud to be the home of the OKEQ Health Clinic, the first LGBTQ+ clinic in Tulsa. With competent judgment-free care and accessible pricing, the OKEQ Health Clinic hopes to make our community feel safe accessing the vital care we all need and deserve. • • OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC If you would like to sign up for the medical clinic, please click the link below. We look forward to serving you! To schedule an appointment, you can call 918-938-6537 (OKEQ). Clinic Information Request ■ For 1n1ormat1on that leads to the Arrest and conu1ct1on 01 the Person or Persons Resnnnslhle tor the murder 4/24/26, 5:27 PM �First Thursday Art Show: A Queer Revolution 11 of 24 ■■ vvpv ■■ v ■ u ■ v ■v■ https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Show--A-Que... ■■■ v ■■■■-■ uv ■ 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' Anvone whh lnfomauon Is asked to contact Ille McAlester Police Deuanment at 918-423-1212 or Iha OSBI bJ Calling the Agency's TIP line at 1-8 D-522 17 or bJ Emalllng u s l McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. The Transgender Flag continues to fly at half staff in memory of Dustin Parker. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin • oklahomans for equality LGBTQ+ Lobby Day Wednesday, March 4, 6:45 a.m. Meet at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:27 PM �First Thursday Art Show: A Queer Revolution 12 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Show--A-Que... In collaboration with Freedom Oklahoma, OKEQ will gather at the Oklahoma State House to meet and engage our legislators regarding bills that impact our community. Please meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 6:45 a.m. as we will leave promptly at 7:00 a.m. The dress code is professional, and we ask that you wear comfortable shoes. You will need to provide your own lunch and snacks for the day. We will return to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 4:00 p.m. 3rd Pride Bingo of 2020 Saturday, March 14, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ~~ T U L 5 A ,, p Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back for the 2020 Pride season. The fun and hilarious Rainbow Granny will be there with special guests to join her for our Bingo Bash. @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $35 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $300 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Buy Your Tickets TDOV (Transgender Day of Visibility) Health and Resource Fair Sunday, March 29, 11:00a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us March 29th starting at 11 a.m. till 6:00 p.m. We will have Transgender affirming health vendors, businesses, a closet full of clothes to give away, and door prizes. Census 2020 The Census starts this year on April 1st! Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. 4/24/26, 5:27 PM �First Thursday Art Show: A Queer Revolution 13 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Show--A-Que... Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Census Information --the-- PRISM PROJECT Dennis R. Neill, co-chair of the Prism Project, and Avery Marshall, program director at Oklahoma Center for Community & Justice, shared the findings from the recent Prism Project report at the last PFLAG Tulsa meeting. This is one of the first steps in addressing the needs brought up in the survey. Please find the link to the survey below. Pictured right are: Taylor Raye (Youth Services), Dennis R. Neill (co-chair of the Prism Project), Nancy McDonald (founder/ President of PFLAG Tulsa) and Avery Marshall (program director 4/24/26, 5:27 PM �First Thursday Art Show: A Queer Revolution 14 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Show--A-Que... at Oklahoma Center for Community & Justice) Visit the Prism Project at OU PKIDE 1020 4/24/26, 5:27 PM �First Thursday Art Show: A Queer Revolution 15 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Show--A-Que... Open Hearts Revue Friday, February 7, 9:30 p.m. LaRue's 4302 E. Pine St. Tulsa OK 74115 Benefiting Tulsa Pride 2020 21+ to enter No Cover Scheduled to Perform: Sara Hearts, Kitty Marie Legacy, Scrappy Legacy, Stephanie Powers, Anita Richards, Taylor Richards, Rocky Indica Von Trease, Randy White, with DJ DragnFyre! /7;j/ CIRCLECINEMA. EYES ON THE OSCARS WATCH PARTY SPONSORED BY ~SBRUNSONI ~ ~ Y E W EAR 5:30PM SUN FEB 9 AT CIRCLE CINEMA TICKETS $ 20 MEMBERS• $ 25 NON-MEMBERS WITH LIVE PERFORMANCES BY BRANJAE JACKSON RED CARPET INTERVIEWS WITH OKPOP TRIVIA & PRIZES WITH KTUL'S ERIN CHRISTY LIGHT BITES FROM POLO GRILL• QUEENIES PLUS• YOKOZUNA BLUE MOON CAFE• CALAVERAS MEXICAN GRILL POPCORN BAR FROH PRE HIER POPCORN & THE CORN POPPER PHOTO OPS • BEST DRESSED AWARD • CASH BAR • AND HORE CIRCLECINEMA.ORG • 918.585.3456 • 10 S. LEWIS AVE Circle Cinema's Oscar Watch Party 4/24/26, 5:27 PM �First Thursday Art Show: A Queer Revolution 16 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Show--A-Que... Sunday, February 9, 5:30 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 CIrcle Cinema 2020 Freedom Oklahoma College Summit Friday, February 21, 8:30 a.m. Meinders School of Business 2701 N McKinley Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73106 FREEDOM - . OKLAHOMA It's that time again! Join us for the 8th annual Freedom Oklahoma College Summit! Our annual summit is an incredible opportunity for LGBTQ and allied students from across the region to come together, network, share best practices and learn from experts in the field of advocacy, civil rights, law, and LGBTQ health. This year's summit is hosted by Oklahoma City University with the support of the OCU Spectrum Alliance and OCU Office of Diversity and Inclusion. Admission is FREE! All pre-registrants will receive lunch and a free tote bag. Visit our website LGBT Women's Network March Happy Hour Monday, March 2nd, 5:30 p.m - 7:30 p.m. The Taproom at Marshall Brewing 1742 E 6th Street Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104 Marshall Brewing's Taproom is stop number three of our small brewery tour of 2020 (as most are closed on Mondays). Let's make some new friends, have a beer or two, and some fun together! *this location is kid friendly AND for you non-beer drinkers, they have wine and cider available for purchase! As always, our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and allies are always welcome. If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message. We’re 4/24/26, 5:27 PM �First Thursday Art Show: A Queer Revolution 17 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Show--A-Que... interested to visit all LGBTQ+-friendly locations! Joe and Nancy McDonald Library ZIMI A IIOMYTIIOCRAPIY n AU.ELORDE "Zami: A New Spelling of My Name - A Biomythography (Crossing Press Feminist Series)" "ZAMI is a fast-moving chronicle. From the author’s vivid childhood memories in Harlem to her coming of age in the late 1950s, the nature of Audre Lorde’s work is cyclical. It especially relates the linkage of women who have shaped her . . . Lorde brings into play her craft of lush description and characterization. It keeps unfolding page after page."— Off Our Backs Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Equality Pride Store Non-Binary, Bisexual, Genderqueer, Polyamorous keychains. These locally made keychains are a great way to express your identity and 4/24/26, 5:27 PM �First Thursday Art Show: A Queer Revolution 18 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Show--A-Que... keep your keys together. Help support local artists and the Equality Center by coming by and picking yours up today. $8.00 Special! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, February 13, 4/24/26, 5:27 PM �First Thursday Art Show: A Queer Revolution 19 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Show--A-Que... • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Alphabet Soup Youth Group Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. providing fun group activities, Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/24/26, 5:27 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7519bbd1c754a27ad71c89b6dcbea175.pdf a8b9216c91b2cbbe2c7c165c9ed1a642 PDF Text Text Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 1 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews February 11th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Let us help you file your 2019 tax returns! 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 2 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Fe~tuYt-V\,g T~i,boctetlux: T~e Ttl)( T~eYtlf tj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. PROTECT TRANS KIDS CONVERSION THERAPY SAY ND TD 5B1819 Urgent call to action: 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 3 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... Oklahomans for Equality has released our legislative agenda for the Oklahoma State House Session. Please review the bills we feel need our support and will improve life for LGBTQ+ Oklahomans. We also have listed the bills that we feel will impact the LGBTQ+ community negatively. We encourage you to contact your legislator by mail, phone, email, and join our CEO/ Executive Director Toby Jenkins for scheduled weekly trips to the Oklahoma State House to engage and visit with lawmakers. Remember the LGBTQ+ lobby day at the Oklahoma State Capital will be Wednesday, March 4th, 2020. Find Your Legislators OKEQ 2020 Legislative Agenda Wild Hearts Ball: Stupid Cupid Saturday, February 15, 7:00 p.m. - 10:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tired of mushy cards, candy hearts, and flowers everywhere? All are welcome to un-celebrate Valentine's Day with us at our Anti-Valentine's Day, Stupid Cupid Party! We promise that there will be no Cupid's arrows in sight! Singles and couples are welcome! Get ready for some fun, competitive games with great prizes. Scrappy Legacy will Emcee the event with some of your favorite Queens and Kings. Free to attend and free to party your hearts out. Cash Bar available. 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 4 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... Shimmies From the Heart Saturday, February 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Elysium Belly Dance is giving back to the community by hosting a belly dance show and silent auction benefiting the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Oklahomans for Equality. The showcase will take place in the Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater. Shimmies from the Heart will feature group and solo performances highlighting different styles of Middle Eastern, oriental, and fusion dance. Tickets are available at the door, $10.00 for adults and $5.00 for children 12 and under. Click Here for More Information mike BLOOMBERG 2020 PROUD WITH MIIC~ 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 5 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... ...... ·····-- TULSA Oklahoma for Mike will host a meet-and-greet discussion on LGBTQ+ policies with fashion guru Audrey Smaltz and US Olympian Gail Marquis. RSVP events.mikebloomberg.com/event/230441 I SUNDAY FEB. 16 5:30- 7:30pm DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER &21 E. 4TH STREET, PRIDE STREET, TULSA I Paid for by Mike Bloomberg I FOLLOW OOKFORMIKE Printed in-house Sisters in Song Tuesday, February 18, 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Sisters in Song would like to invite women that enjoy singing and performing to join us for our first 2020 ensemble! Please call 918-809-9751 for further information or questions. February EBA Mixer Wednesday, February 19, 6:00 p.m. The Skin Spa & Boutique 1530 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74112 918-938-4801 theskinbtqtul.com The Skin Spa & Boutique The Skin Spa and Boutique will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for February. The Skin Spa and Boutique is a woman-owned small business located in Tulsa , OK offering luxury spa services such as Massage, Thai Yoga Massage, Facials, Waxing. We 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 6 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... look forward to seeing you there! Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : The Evolution of African American Music Thursday, February 20, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 African Americans have played a part in the success of music since the early twentieth century. Join some of Tulsa’s finest African American performers, led by Kia Hightower, as they take you on a journey through time to explore the successes and failures of black musical artists. Click below to get your tickets in advance. Tickets POC Social at OkEq Friday, February 21, 7:00 p.m. Airsoft Tulsa 6323 E. 41st St Tulsa, OK 74135 The People of Color Social Mixer focuses on celebrating, preserving, and connecting POC in the Tulsa LGBTQ+ community. Join us for drinks, food, and fun! The POC events are scheduled the third Friday of each month. This month, the POC Social will meet at EVERY TH/HO FRIDAY FON MONE INFONMATION CALL 918 904 1869 MUNNIS 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 7 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... Airsoft Tulsa. Mardi Gras Parade Saturday, February 22, 5:30 p.m. McNellies 409 E. 1st St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ as we march in Mardi Gras Parade! Put on your boas and masks and celebrate Mardi Gras in the historic Blue Dome District. We will meet outside McNellies at 5:30pm. E-mail jose.vega@okeq.org to RSVP. Mardi Gras Masquerade Saturday, February 22, 6:00p.m. - 2:00a.m. Unicorn Club 221 E. 1st St. Tulsa, OK 74120 The 5th Annual Tulsa Mardi Gras Masquerade is the official after party of the Blue Dome Mardi Gras Parade. Isn't time Tulsa had a proper Mardi Gras celebration? Oklahomans for Equality, LockHeart Productions, and the Blue Dome District are hosting the 5th annual Tulsa Mardi Gras Masquerade on Saturday, Feb 22nd at 7:00 p.m. This year we’re changing things up. A portion of the profit is donated to Oklahomans for Equality. All funds from VIP and sponsorship packages go to support OKEQ and are taxdeductible donations. This event WILL sell out, please buy your tickets in advance to make sure you can get in! One ticket gets you into two shows! Enjoy a traditional Mardi Gras environment with live Cajun and music at Enso Bar, or get crazy to a Mardi Gras gone wild celebration in The Unicorn Club. Our Masquerade is a full immersion experience. From the flavors, decor, and music, to party favors, bead necklaces, masks and more! You will walk into a proper Louisiana Mardi Gras celebration. Our cast and crew will whisk you away to the bayou with their wild costumes and performances on stage, among the crowd, and even outside. Profits from the evening benefit Oklahomans for Equality. GET TICKETS 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 8 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Monday, February 24, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. This group meets every 2nd and 4th Monday. Call or text Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 or email jess@anchoredbhc.com if you have any additional questions. 70s/80s Throwback Night Friday, February 28, 6:30 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Your favorite gay disco is back open. Its time to have a ball. We have so much to learn about our history and such an exciting way to interact with it at OKEQ's Throwback Night: 70s/80s Edition. Join us for this FREE, all ages event with specialty drinks and cocktails, curated music, and all sorts of historical documents from Oklahoma's LGBTQ+ past. Plus, as a special treat, we will be doing a special historical overview of Ball Culture, and you can participate in the Ball if you would like! 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 9 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... RSVP on Facebook Visit the Online History Project Aubrey Dameron Missing since March 9th, 2019 from Grove, Oklahoma DOB: 10.22.1993/Height: 5'10"/Weight: 1401b /Eye : Brown/Hair: Bnm tte iclmame: Short Tattoos/Birthmarks: " hort " on he1· upper left arm & a Triquetra ymhol (pictm·ed) in the middl part of he1· upper back. If ou have ANY information about ubrey di appearance, plea e contact one of the number li ted below: Cherokee Marshals: 918.207.3800. Delawru·e Cmmty Sheriff's Office: 918.253.4531. O.S.B.I.: 800.522.8017. Tips@OSBI.OK.GOV Memorial Service for Aubrey Dameron Monday, March 9, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Northeast Oklahoma Indigenous Safety and Education (N.O.I.S.E) will be holding a memorial service for missing, indigenous, Cherokee, transgender woman Aubrey Dameron on the one-year anniversary of her disappearance. N.0.1.S.E 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 10 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... 2020 Equality Gala Sponsorship Saturday, April 18, 6:30 p.m. Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Sponsorship's for the 40th Anniversary are now available! Click the link below to join us today! 2020 marks the 40 th Anniversary of the first Oklahomans for Equality Gala. We will commemorate this milestone year and celebrate the achievements of Oklahomans for Equality. Click to Become a Sponsor First LGBTQ+ Clinic in Tulsa Opening at the Equality Center The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is proud to be the home of the OKEQ Health Clinic, the first LGBTQ+ clinic in Tulsa. With competent judgment-free care and accessible pricing, the OKEQ Health Clinic hopes to make our community feel safe accessing the vital care we all need and deserve. • • OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC Right now, we are primarily focused on providing hormone replacement therapy for our transgender community (18 and up) but will be expanding these services in the future. If you would like to make an appointment, please click the link below. We look forward to serving you! For more information, you can call 918-938-6537 (OKEQ). Make an Appointment 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 11 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... There are approximately 8,000 Oklahoma children in foster care. Learn how you can make a difference by becoming a foster parent. Call 1-833-7FOSTER or visit us only at www.tfifamilyconnections.org. ■ For 1n1ormat1on that leads to the Arrest and conu1ct1on 01 the Person or Persons 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 12 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' Anvone whh lnfomauon Is asked to contact die McAlester Police Deuanment at 918-423-1212 or die OSBI bV Calling the Auencv's TIP line at 1-8 D-522 1l or bV Emalllng u s Ll McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. The Transgender Flag continues to fly at half staff in memory of Dustin Parker. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin LGBT Women's Network March Happy Hour Monday, March 2nd, 5:30 p.m - 7:30 p.m. The Taproom at Marshall Brewing 1742 E 6th Street Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104 Marshall Brewing's Taproom is stop number three of our small brewery tour of 2020 (as most are closed on Mondays). Let's make some new friends, have a beer or two, and some fun together! *this location is kid friendly AND for you non-beer drinkers, they have wine and cider available for purchase! As always, our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and allies are always welcome. 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 13 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message. We’re interested to visit all LGBTQ+-friendly locations! • oklahomans for equality LGBTQ+ Lobby Day Wednesday, March 4, 6:45 a.m. Meet at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 In collaboration with Freedom Oklahoma, OKEQ will gather at the Oklahoma State House to meet and engage our legislators regarding bills that impact our community. Please meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 6:45 a.m. as we will leave promptly at 7:00 a.m. The dress code is professional, and we ask that you wear comfortable shoes. You will need to provide your own lunch and snacks for the day. We will return to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 4:00 p.m. 3rd Pride Bingo of 2020 Saturday, March 14, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ~~ T U L 5 A ,, p Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back for the 2020 Pride season. The fun and hilarious Rainbow Granny will be there with special guests to join her for our Bingo Bash. @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $35 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $300 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 14 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... Buy Your Tickets TDOV (Transgender Day of Visibility) Health and Resource Fair Sunday, March 29, 11:00a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us March 29th starting at 11:00 a.m. till 6:00 p.m. We will have Transgender affirming health vendors, businesses, a closet full of clothes to give away, and door prizes. Census 2020 The Census starts this year on April 1st! Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Census Information If you are looking for work please consider working for the Census. They are currently trying to fill 3K positions both Full Time and Part Time with pay ranges from 15.00 to 17.00 an hour. Click below to access their website. Census Job Info 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 15 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... ---lhe--- PRISM PROJECT Dennis R. Neill, co-chair of the Prism Project, and Avery Marshall, program director at Oklahoma Center for Community & Justice, shared the findings from the recent Prism Project report at the last PFLAG Tulsa meeting. This is one of the first steps in addressing the needs brought up in the survey. Please find the link to the survey below. Pictured right are: Taylor Raye (Youth Services), Dennis R. Neill (co-chair of the Prism Project), Nancy McDonald (founder/ President of PFLAG Tulsa) and Avery Marshall (program director at Oklahoma Center for Community & Justice) Visit the Prism Project at OU 2020 Freedom Oklahoma College Summit Friday, February 21, 8:30 a.m. Meinders School of Business 2701 N McKinley Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73106 OLLEGE SUMMIT 2 0 2 0 FREEDOM - . OKLAHOMA It's that time again! Join us for the 8th annual Freedom Oklahoma College Summit! Our annual summit is an incredible opportunity for LGBTQ and allied students from across the region to come together, network, share best practices and learn from experts in the field of advocacy, civil rights, law, and LGBTQ health. This year's summit is hosted by Oklahoma City University with the support of the OCU Spectrum Alliance and OCU Office of 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 16 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... Diversity and Inclusion. Admission is FREE! All pre-registrants will receive lunch and a free tote bag. Visit our website Joe and Nancy McDonald Library L B The Girls Our Mothers Warned U. About by C rl Trujillo Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. "Chicana Lesbians: The Girls Our Mothers Warned Us About" "Literary Nonfiction. LGBT Studies. "CHICANA LESBIANS is a love poem, a bible, a dictionary, nothing so simple as a manifesto-this book is yet another reason to believe--to believe in the girls our mothers warned us about, brown girls, lesbians, making their own love poems, bibles, dictionaries, manifestoes, reasons to believe."--Dorothy Allison"When I was selling books at a Chicana conference, I noticed book buyers were literally afraid to touch this anthology. I say now what I said then, 'Don't be scared. Sexuality is not contagious, but ignorance is.' If you've ever been curious, been there, been voyeur, been tourist, or just plain under-informed, misinformed, or unaffirmed, here is a book to listen to and learn from."--Sandra Cisneros Equality Pride Store 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 17 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... Non-Binary, Bisexual, Genderqueer, Polyamorous keychains. These locally made keychains are a great way to express your identity and keep your keys together. Help support local artists and the Equality Center by coming by and picking yours up today. $8.00 Special! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Regularly Scheduled Programming 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 18 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Free Yoga Class at OkEq OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, February 13, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Tulsa Area Prime Timers Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 19 of 23 This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... Alphabet Soup Youth Group stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by Fitness Class at OkEq Tuesdays 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for Christopher Gomez's Workout program is designed with science to help individuals meet their fitness goals in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming environment. adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! It's Complicated I ::::t ~ Sisters in Song Tuesdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 20 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org - - - --The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 21 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org sage Every other Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 22 of 23 Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org Tracy Allen Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Get your heart ready for the Wild Hearts Ball 23 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-heart-ready-for-the-Wil... Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits Special Projects Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Bob Hanson Marcia Keesee Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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Thursday, February 20, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 African Americans have played a part in the success of music since the early twentieth century. Join some of Tulsa’s finest African American performers, led by Kia Hightower, as they take you on a journey through time to explore the successes and failures of black musical artists. Click below to get your tickets in advance. Tickets February EBA Mixer Wednesday, February 19, 6:00 p.m. The Skin Spa & Boutique 1530 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74112 918-938-4801 theskinbtqtul.com The Skin Spa & Boutique The Skin Spa and Boutique will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for February. The Skin Spa and Boutique is a woman-owned small business located in Tulsa , OK offering luxury spa services such as Massage, Thai Yoga Massage, Facials, Waxing. We look forward to seeing you there! POC Social at OkEq Friday, February 21, 6:00 p.m. Airsoft Tulsa 6323 E. 41st St. #A Tulsa, OK 74135 The People of Color Social Mixer focuses on celebrating, preserving, and connecting POC in the Tulsa LGBTQ+ community. Join us for drinks, food, and fun! The POC events are scheduled the third Friday of each month. This month, the POC Social will meet at Airsoft Tulsa. The cost is $20 per person, $15 to rent the gun, and $2 to rent the mask. EVERY TH/HO FRIDAY FON MONE INFONMATION CALL 918 904 1869 MONNIS .. Find the Event on Facebook 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : The Evolution of African Ame... 4 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Mardi Gras Parade Saturday, February 22, 5:30 p.m. McNellies 409 E. 1st St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join OKEQ as we march in Mardi Gras Parade! Put on your boas and masks and celebrate Mardi Gras in the historic Blue Dome District. We will meet outside McNellies at 5:30pm. E-mail jose.vega@okeq.org to RSVP. Mardi Gras Masquerade Saturday, February 22, 6:00p.m. 2:00a.m. Unicorn Club 221 E. 1st St. Tulsa, OK 74120 The 5th Annual Tulsa Mardi Gras Masquerade is the official after party of the Blue Dome Mardi Gras Parade. Isn't time Tulsa had a proper Mardi Gras celebration? Oklahomans for Equality, LockHeart Productions, and the Blue Dome District are hosting the 5th annual Tulsa Mardi Gras Masquerade on Saturday, Feb 22nd at 7:00 p.m. This year we’re changing things up. A portion of the profit is donated to Oklahomans for Equality. All funds from VIP and sponsorship packages go to support OKEQ and are taxdeductible donations. This event WILL sell out, please buy your tickets in advance to make sure you can get in! One ticket gets you into two shows! Enjoy a traditional Mardi Gras environment with live Cajun and music at Enso Bar, or get crazy to a Mardi Gras gone wild celebration in The Unicorn Club. Our Masquerade is a full immersion experience. From the flavors, decor, and music, to party favors, bead necklaces, masks and more! You will walk into a proper Louisiana Mardi Gras celebration. Our cast and crew will whisk you away to the bayou with their wild costumes and performances on stage, among the crowd, and even outside. Profits from the evening benefit Oklahomans for Equality . GET TICKETS Survivors of Conversion 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : The Evolution of African Ame... 5 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Monday, February 24, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. This group meets every Monday. Call or text Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 or email jess@anchoredbhc.com if you have any additional questions. 2020 Freedom Oklahoma College Summit Friday, February 21, 8:30 a.m. Meinders School of Business 2701 N McKinley Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73106 FREEDOM - . OKLAHOMA It's that time again! Join us for the 8th annual Freedom Oklahoma College Summit! Our annual summit is an incredible opportunity for LGBTQ and allied students from across the region to come together, network, share best practices and learn from experts in the field of advocacy, civil rights, law, and LGBTQ health. This year's summit is hosted by Oklahoma City University with the support of the OCU Spectrum Alliance and OCU Office of Diversity and Inclusion. Admission is FREE! All pre-registrants will receive lunch and a free tote bag. Visit our website Sisters in Song Tuesday, February 25, 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Sisters in Song would like to invite women 4/24/26, 5:28 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : The Evolution of African Ame... 6 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... that enjoy singing and performing to join us for our first 2020 ensemble! Please call 918-809-9751 for further information or questions. PROTECT TRANS KIDS PROTECT - -• TRANSGENDER YOUTH SAY ND TD 5B1819 OKLAHOMA ~ Town Hall: Protect Transgender Youth Wednesday, February 26, 6:30 - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality and Freedom Oklahoma invite you to come and participate in a town hall discussion and rally about SB1819, a new 2020 legislation that impacts our LGBTQ+ youth and their medical providers. You will have the opportunity to write, e-mail, or call your senators and have group discussions about the bill. Scheduled groups will start just after the Town Hall. Find Your Legislators OKEQ 2020 Legislative Agenda 4/24/26, 5:28 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/05fbd80e88eb7b2cb5d005aacb19c1f6.pdf b671eb4b5059e2b0f401e65a1dc9af88 PDF Text Text Have a BALL this Friday at the 70s/80s Throwback Night 1 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-BALL-this-Friday-at-the-... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews February 25th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Let us help you file your 2019 tax returns! 4/24/26, 5:29 PM �Have a BALL this Friday at the 70s/80s Throwback Night 2 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-BALL-this-Friday-at-the-... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com FeettuYt-V\,g Tl-1 i,boc{e~ ux: Tl1e T~x Tl1eY~Pl1 Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. ...,,,,,,OKE ~ Town Hall: LGBTQ+ Legislation Wednesday, February 26, 6:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:29 PM �Have a BALL this Friday at the 70s/80s Throwback Night 3 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-BALL-this-Friday-at-the-... Oklahomans for Equality and Freedom Oklahoma invite you to come and participate in a town hall discussion and rally about 2020 legislation that impacts our LGBTQ+ community. You will have the opportunity to write, e-mail, or call your senators and have group discussions about multiple bills and discuss defeated bills. Scheduled groups will start just after the Town Hall. Find Your Legislators OKEQ 2020 Legislative Agenda 70s/80s Throwback Night Friday, February 28, 6:30 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Your favorite gay disco is back open. Its time to have a ball. We have so much to learn about our history and such an exciting way to interact with it at OKEQ's Throwback Night: 70s/80s Edition. Join us for this FREE, all ages event with specialty drinks and cocktails, curated music, and all sorts of historical documents from Oklahoma's LGBTQ+ past. Plus, as a special treat, we will be doing a special historical overview of Ball Culture, and you can participate in the Ball if you would like! RSVP on Facebook Visit the Online History Project Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy 4/24/26, 5:29 PM �Have a BALL this Friday at the 70s/80s Throwback Night 4 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-BALL-this-Friday-at-the-... Experienced Anew) Monday, March 2, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. This group meets every Monday. Call or text Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 or email jess@anchoredbhc.com if you have any additional questions. LGBT Women's Network March Happy Hour Monday, March 2, 5:30 p.m - 7:30 p.m. The Taproom at Marshall Brewing 1742 E. 6th St. Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104 Marshall Brewing's Taproom is stop number three of our small brewery tour of 2020 (as most are closed on Mondays). Let's make some new friends, have a beer or two, and some fun together! *this location is kid friendly AND for you non-beer drinkers, they have wine and cider available for purchase! As always, our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and allies are always welcome. If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message. We’re interested to visit all LGBTQ+-friendly locations! Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, March 3, 6:30 p.m. Bread and Butter Kitchen + Bakery 3837 E 51st St, Tulsa, OK 74135 Breadandbuttertulsa.com - -~•~-- BREAD&BUTTER KITCIIF:N. BAKERY Join us at Bread and Butter Kitchen + Bakery. It's located at 3837 E. 51st St. (51st street, between Yale and Harvard). The reservations are under OkEq Men's Group. Hope to see everyone there! A head count is needed for the reservations. If you are coming please let us know by 4/24/26, 5:29 PM �Have a BALL this Friday at the 70s/80s Throwback Night 5 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-BALL-this-Friday-at-the-... clicking below. RSVP LGBTQ+ Game Night at Game Stop Tuesday, March 3, 6:00-10:00 p.m. Game Stop Social-Southern Crossing 10916 S Memorial Tulsa, OK 74133 Come join Oklahomans for Equality for a game night at GameStop Social-Southern Crossing. You can play co-op with friends, or you can try out some new games on one of their computer stations. You can also bring your favorite board game to play at their expandable gaming table made to fit over 8 players! The hourly rate is usually $5, but on the first Tuesday of the month, it is only $2.50 per hour for all participants! Free rides to the polls Contact Us Now: 918-200-9153 tulsavotervan.com Sisters in Song Tuesday, March 3, 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/24/26, 5:29 PM �Have a BALL this Friday at the 70s/80s Throwback Night 6 of 25 Tulsa, OK 74120 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-BALL-this-Friday-at-the-... it1!)0 Sisters in Song would like to invite women that enjoy singing and performing to join us for our first 2020 ensemble! Please call 918-809-9751 for further information or questions. • oklahomans for equality LGBTQ+ Lobby Day Wednesday, March 4, 6:45 a.m. Meet at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 In collaboration with Freedom Oklahoma, OKEQ will gather at the Oklahoma State House to meet and engage our legislators regarding bills that impact our community. Please meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 6:45 a.m. as we will leave promptly at 7:00 a.m. The dress code is professional, and we ask that you wear comfortable shoes. You will need to provide your own lunch and snacks for the day. We will return to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 4:00 p.m.. First Thursday Art show: Shawna Chisholm Thursday, March 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Shawna Chisholm is a two-spirit or Transgender Native American woman who has spent her life defending and fighting for the things she believes in: her family, her country and spreading the ideals of her Native American heritage. She has spent over 30 years in military services and has served 16 months in Afghanistan. She is currently a Warrant Officer in the United States Army. Shawna was born in Tulsa, Oklahoma and is the 4/24/26, 5:29 PM �Have a BALL this Friday at the 70s/80s Throwback Night 7 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-BALL-this-Friday-at-the-... daughter of two artists. "I am a self-taught artist but I had excellent art teachers in my elementary and high school years and have been painting Native American art since 1991," she says. She is a card-carrying member of the Cherokee Nation of Oklahoma and is one-eighth Cherokee and one-eighth Shawnee. She is also the great, great, great, granddaughter of Jesse Chisholm, the famous trader and founder of the Chisholm Tails, which he used to service his trading posts. Jesse Chisholm was half Scottish and half Cherokee and spoke 13 Native American Languages as well as Spanish. Shawna's artwork (acrylic on canvas) reflects her enthusiasm for expressing her inherent culture. With each piece she creates, the artwork title and meaning tells a story. Her goal is to increase awareness of Native American culture and its struggles. All of the artwork is signed Shane up until December 2017 when her name legally changed to Shawna Chisholm. Three Souls Tulsa Queer Men's Heart Circle Sunday, March 8, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 threesouls.org Vlree Sov\ls Join us for our monthly Heart Circle at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We meet on the second Sunday of every month. All queer men are welcome to the circle (gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual and queer). WHAT IS A HEART CIRCLE? We use heart circles to share our journey with one another. Your truth is welcome here. We create a safe and accepting space as a group so each of us can speak openly and honestly, be heard without judgment and enjoy the support of our community. The key to a Heart Circle 4/24/26, 5:29 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5296c93aa798948907420bed6d4e0bdc.pdf 899ba02d17cce74eda935c413a786316 PDF Text Text Don't Miss Shawna Chisholm's Art Show!! 1 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Don-t-Miss-Shawna-Chisholm-s-A... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews March 3rd, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Let us help you file your 2019 tax returns! 4/24/26, 5:30 PM �Don't Miss Shawna Chisholm's Art Show!! 2 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Don-t-Miss-Shawna-Chisholm-s-A... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Feiltur-LV\,g Tvti.bodeaux: Tvt e Tax Tvt er-a-p k1 Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. • oklahomans for equality LGBTQ+ Lobby Day Wednesday, March 4, 6:45 a.m. Meet at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 In collaboration with Freedom Oklahoma, OKEQ will gather at the Oklahoma State House to meet and engage our legislators regarding bills that impact our community. 4/24/26, 5:30 PM �Don't Miss Shawna Chisholm's Art Show!! 3 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Don-t-Miss-Shawna-Chisholm-s-A... Please meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 6:45 a.m. as we will leave promptly at 7:00 a.m. The dress code is professional, and we ask that you wear comfortable shoes. You will need to provide your own lunch and snacks for the day. We will return to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 4:00 p.m. If you want to ride in the OKEQ van, please email morgan.allen@okeq.org - - - - to reserve your spot. First Thursday Art show: Shawna Chisholm Thursday, March 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Shawna Chisholm is a two-spirit or Transgender Native American woman who has spent her life defending and fighting for the things she believes in: her family, her country and spreading the ideals of her Native American heritage. She has spent over 30 years in military services and has served 16 months in Afghanistan. She is currently a Warrant Officer in the United States Army. Shawna was born in Tulsa, Oklahoma and is the daughter of two artists. "I am a self-taught artist but I had excellent art teachers in my elementary and high school years and have been painting Native American art since 1991," she says. She is a card-carrying member of the Cherokee Nation of Oklahoma and is one-eighth Cherokee and one-eighth Shawnee. She is also the great, great, great, granddaughter of Jesse Chisholm, the famous trader and founder of the Chisholm Tails, which he used to service his trading posts. Jesse Chisholm was half Scottish and half Cherokee and spoke 13 Native American Languages as well as Spanish. Shawna's artwork (acrylic on canvas) reflects her enthusiasm for expressing her inherent culture. With each piece she creates, the artwork title and meaning tells a story. Her goal is to increase awareness of Native American culture and its struggles. All of the artwork is signed Shane up until December 2017 when her name legally changed to Shawna Chisholm. 4/24/26, 5:30 PM �Don't Miss Shawna Chisholm's Art Show!! 4 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Don-t-Miss-Shawna-Chisholm-s-A... Three Souls Tulsa Queer Men's Heart Circle Sunday, March 8, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 threesouls.org Vlree Sovtls Join us for our monthly Heart Circle at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We meet on the second Sunday of every month. All queer men are welcome to the circle (gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual and queer). WHAT IS A HEART CIRCLE? We use heart circles to share our journey with one another. Your truth is welcome here. We create a safe and accepting space as a group so each of us can speak openly and honestly, be heard without judgment and enjoy the support of our community. The key to a Heart Circle is found in the intention we bring to it. Here is a place far removed from the demands of our daily lives where we can meet, share our true feelings and witness others’ stories without being judged, interrupted or offered advice. There are few places like it, and from this it draws its power. In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Donald L. "Don" 4/24/26, 5:30 PM �Don't Miss Shawna Chisholm's Art Show!! 5 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Don-t-Miss-Shawna-Chisholm-s-A... Jennings (Sept. 27 1938 - Feb. 29 2020) Viewing is Thursday, March 5, 2020 from 12:00 pm-8:00 pm at Moore Funeral Home - Southlawn Chapel. Funeral Services are 10:00 am, Friday, March 6, 2020 at Memorial Park Cemetery Chapel, 5111 S Memorial Dr, Tulsa, OK. Burial will be 1:00pm, Friday, March 6, 2020 at Memorial Park Cemetery in Muskogee, OK. Erik Johnson (May 31, 1963 - Feb. 22, 2020) Richard "Dick" Slattery (July 23 1947 - Feb. 15, 2020) Greg Mayfield (July 17, 1962 Feb. 21, 2020) 4/24/26, 5:30 PM �Don't Miss Shawna Chisholm's Art Show!! 6 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Don-t-Miss-Shawna-Chisholm-s-A... Memorial Service for Aubrey Dameron Monday, March 9, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Northeast Oklahoma Indigenous Safety and Education (N.O.I.S.E) will be holding a memorial service for missing, indigenous, Cherokee, transgender woman Aubrey Dameron on the one-year anniversary of her disappearance. They will be holding a candlelight vigil on this day to honor Aubrey, speak on topics regarding MMIR, & the Aubrey Dameron Scholarship by Matriarch. They invite anyone who would like to join, say a few words, or show support to please come by. N.0.1.S.E Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Monday, March 9, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. This group meets every Monday. Call or text Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 or email jess@anchoredbhc.com if you have any additional questions. Sisters in Song Tuesday, March 10, 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:30 PM �Don't Miss Shawna Chisholm's Art Show!! 7 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Don-t-Miss-Shawna-Chisholm-s-A... Sisters in Song would like to invite women that enjoy singing and performing to join us for our first 2020 ensemble! Please call 918-809-9751 for further information or questions. Community Health Initiative with Greenwood Wellness Clinic OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY & GREENWOOD WELLNESS CLINIC PRESENT Thursday, March 12, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 COMMUNITY HEALTH INITIATIVE If you have ever been interested in Medical Marijuana, please join Oklahomans for Equality and Greenwood Wellness Clinic to learn more about the medicinal benefits of marijuana. Attendees are able to apply for their Marijuana Card at the event for a reduced cost. Supper Club Thursday, March 26, 6:30 p.m. Laffa Medi-Eastern Restaurant 111 N. Main St. Tulsa, OK 74103 Join OKEQ for a new monthly women’s program called Supper Club. Supper Club is about LGBTQIA+ women of all identities meeting together for dinner and discussion. This month’s dinner is at Laffa, a “MediEastern” restaurant. Please RSVP below: RSVP 3rd Pride Bingo of 2020 Saturday, March 14, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ~" T U L S A ,, p Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back for the 2020 Pride season. The fun and hilarious Rainbow Granny will be there with special guests to join her for our Bingo Bash. In\ 61..- n---:- D u-:11 ~-• ■ -1:6 •• r - - • - - 4/24/26, 5:30 PM �Don't Miss Shawna Chisholm's Art Show!! 8 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Don-t-Miss-Shawna-Chisholm-s-A... ~ LIii: U'l:11111:::t n.. , .. 1:,11 l(;;LtUCIIILY '-'l:IILCI $20 for general admission $35 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $300 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Buy Your Tickets March EBA Mixer Wednesday, March 18, 6:00 p.m. Cornerstone Wealth Management 4106 S. 113th W. Ave. Sand Springs, OK 74063 918-246-5050 www.tclwm.com Cornerstone411 WEALTH ANAGEM T LLC Cornerstone Wealth Management is the host of the March EBA Mixer. The purpose of Cornerstone Wealth Management is to guide successful families to financial confidence using comprehensive wealth strategies. Join them and our other EBA businesses on March 18 for a mixer on financial wellness. Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Bitter: Party of Five Thursday, March 19, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:30 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5a1b70e7852677f453a9222822147730.pdf 26ab3a03fff258255559bac5440e9ce9 PDF Text Text See you at PRIDE Bingo Saturday! 1 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/See-you-at-PRIDE-Bingo-Saturday... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews March 11th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Let us help you file your 2019 tax returns! 4/24/26, 5:32 PM �See you at PRIDE Bingo Saturday! 2 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/See-you-at-PRIDE-Bingo-Saturday... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Feiltur-LV\,g Tvti.bodeaux: Tvt e Tax Tvt er-a-p k1 Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Rose Potts is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the day in honor of her son, Kalvin Roberts' birthday. 4/24/26, 5:32 PM �See you at PRIDE Bingo Saturday! 3 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/See-you-at-PRIDE-Bingo-Saturday... Happy Birthday, Kalvin! OKEO'S RESPONSE TO COVID-19 OKEO AND THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER ARE TAKING ALL NECESSARY PRECAUTIONS IN RESPONSE TO COVID-19 AS PER THE GUIDELINES ISSUED BY THE CENTERS FOR DISEASE CONTROL. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center considers personal health and safety as fundamental characteristics of a vibrant community. We also understand you may have growing concerns about the novel coronavirus (COVID-19) and we would like to remind you, misinformation on matters of public health can be dangerous. It is a time to be very careful with what you read and hear from unedited social media and informal news sources. 4/24/26, 5:32 PM �See you at PRIDE Bingo Saturday! 4 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/See-you-at-PRIDE-Bingo-Saturday... At this time, the Equality Center has no plans to cancel programming or events. We are closely monitoring updates from the Tulsa County Department of Health , Centers for Disease Control, and the World Health Organization regarding COVID-19. We will continue to follow guidance from these agencies, public health officials, as well as City of Tulsa officials. We are committed to making the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center a safe and enjoyable place for all. 3rd Pride Bingo of 2020 ~~ T U L 5 A ,, p Saturday, March 14, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back for the 2020 Pride season. The fun and hilarious Rainbow Granny will be there with special guests to join her for our Bingo Bash. @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $35 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $300 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Buy Your Tickets Community Health Initiative with Greenwood Wellness Clinic Thursday, March 12, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY & GREENWOOD WELLNESS CLINIC PRESENT COMMUNITY HEALTH INITIATIVE If you have ever been interested in Medical Marijuana, please join Oklahomans for Equality and Greenwood Wellness Clinic to learn more about the medicinal benefits of marijuana. Attendees are able to apply for their Marijuana Card at the event for a reduced cost. Warrior Sisters 7 Week Free Self Defense Class Monday, March 16, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/24/26, 5:32 PM �See you at PRIDE Bingo Saturday! 5 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/See-you-at-PRIDE-Bingo-Saturday... Tulsa, OK 74120 Registration is open for the next *FREE* Womens 7 week self-defense training. This training will be held each Monday at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, OK from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. This training requires a commitment to ALL 7 CLASSES, which allows time to build muscle memory so that you can use these life saving self-defense skills in a moments notice. Warrior Sisters is a non-profit organization by women for women. We teach real world selfdefense skills emphasizing awareness, verbal and physical techniques in ALL of our trainings. All of our public trainings are absolutely free of charge and held in SAFE SPACES. This training is open to all who identify as women and girls, we only ask that if you bring your daughter she be old enough to participate or entertain herself without becoming a distraction to the group. To register for this class please email us your name and the names of those who will be attending with you. REGISTER Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Monday, March 16, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. This group meets every Monday. Call or text Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 or email jess@anchoredbhc.com if you have any additional questions. Sisters in Song Tuesday, March 17, 6:45 - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:32 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e83667ba09a1d6a996035d883c298cc6.pdf 482fd94c355a44b56e8cb0aabb1dda1a PDF Text Text Join Us Online 1 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Us-Online.html?soid=11024... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews March 23rd, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Let us help you file your 2019 tax returns! 4/24/26, 5:34 PM �Join Us Online 2 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Us-Online.html?soid=11024... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Feiltur-LV\,g Tvti.bodeaux: Tvt e Tax Tvt er-a-p k1 Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. OKEQ Board Response to COVID-19 To our family, friends, community, clients, and supporters, OkEq strives to be continually mindful of the healthcare crisis sweeping our city, state, country, and beyond. While we have no desire to cancel any services that benefit our community: your health, safety, and wellness is our primary concern. With this in mind, the Executive Committee of the Board of Directors has unanimously agreed that it is in the best interests of the community we serve to cancel or postpone the following events: • TDOV Trans Health Fair, scheduled 3/29 - Postponed • Pride Bingo, scheduled 4/4 - Postponed • 40th Anniversary Equality Gala scheduled for 4/18 - Postponed OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Nothing will break our focus or dampen our commitment to this mission. As we all go 4/24/26, 5:34 PM �Join Us Online 3 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Us-Online.html?soid=11024... through this time of uncertainty, we encourage everybody to exercise the best personal healthcare practices and always know that OkEq is, and always will be, here for you all. Be safe. Be careful. Stay strong. Chris Brecht-Smith, Board President I I :l 'I 11 Lynn Riggs Theatre Virtual Concerts: Patt Hobbs Join us once a week for virtual concerts in the fabulous Lynn Riggs Theatre. This weeks video is below. 4/24/26, 5:34 PM �Join Us Online 4 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Us-Online.html?soid=11024... Click to Watch Queer the Census 2020 The Census starts this year on April 1st! Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Census Information Daily conference call for LGBTQ+ elders over 60 4/24/26, 5:34 PM �Join Us Online 5 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Us-Online.html?soid=11024... SAGE Group Call Daily Monday - Friday at 2:00 p.m. Monday - Friday at 2:00 p.m. our SAGE elders (those over 60) are invited to participate in virtual programming by calling in to the SAGE Group Call. To join, call (918) 398-8780 The access code is 60# ~//////////////~ ~----~ ~ ~ ~ GROUP VIRTUAL PROGRAMMING ~ ~ ~ ~//////////////~ 4/24/26, 5:34 PM �Join Us Online 6 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Us-Online.html?soid=11024... Gender Support Group Virtual Programming Monday-Friday, 6:00 p.m. - 6:45 p.m. This is our Gender Support Outreach group now Virtual and Daily! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. The group will meet virtually via tele conference style. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group. Contact Us Rainbow Library Book Rental Pickup Program Looking for a new book to read but want to make sure you're practicing proper social distancing? OKEQ is offering book rental pickups from the Equality Center. We will be posting available rentals on facebook and to reserve your copy simply message us with the title you want and we will put your name on it and hold it for 24 hours. You will be able to keep the book for one week! Take some time to read some LGBTQ+ literature! 4/24/26, 5:34 PM �Join Us Online 7 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Us-Online.html?soid=11024... Coming Soon: At Home Fitness with Jake Landry Working out, getting, and staying fit is hardwork. Lets help each other. Jake has been working on his fitness to help us keep ours. Join us each week for techniques to keep us healthy. LET'S CHAT WITH OKEO Daily Facebook Live Things are changing daily in Tulsa and in Oklahoma. At OKEQ, we are working tirelessly to make sure that our essential services remain available for our constituents. 4/24/26, 5:34 PM �Join Us Online 8 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Us-Online.html?soid=11024... Right now, the center remains open for limited drop in services and our medical clinic and help line remain open. We continue to check temperatures of all who enter the building and we consider safety our highest priority. However, it has been difficult to not have our regular programming for the past week and we have received many questions about what we can do to help mitigate the struggles of isolation. We will be doing Facebook live to update everyone on what is going on at the center and answer any questions you may have about LGBTQIA+ issues in our area. Join Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page and participate with us! Hunger Free Oklahoma Hunger Free Oklahoma is coordinating a one-stop information hub for COVID-19 food resources and announcements in Oklahoma. Please see how you can plug into this valuable resource. Meals4KidsOK.org , the Oklahoma summer meal location website, is being equipped to display key serving information for students that are affected by COVID-19 school closures. Visitors will be able to input their zip code and will be directed to the closest open meal site where children ages 1 – 18 years can receive a meal. Thank you for all you are doing to help Oklahomans weather this crisis. Visit meals4kidsok READING TIME WITH GUNCLE TOBY Daily Children's Book Readings 4/24/26, 5:34 PM �Join Us Online 9 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-Us-Online.html?soid=11024... Reading Time with Guncle Toby Take some time out of your hectic day to enjoy a story from your Gay Uncle Toby. Click to Watch There are approximately 8,000 Oklahoma children in foster care. Learn how you can make a difference by becoming a foster parent . Call 1-833-7FOSTER or visit us only at www.tfifamilyconnections.org. TEI¥ 4/24/26, 5:34 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e0211921ccfa4262e5de9ad15013433f.pdf 6202953d33e46ab039c2726622a17ee6 PDF Text Text The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 1 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews March 25th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Let us help you file your 2019 tax returns! 4/24/26, 5:35 PM �The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 2 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Feiltur-LV\,g Tvti.bodeaux: Tvt e Tax Tvt er-a-p k1 Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 4/24/26, 5:35 PM �The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 3 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... AL PHABET SOUP ALPHA9E"I" SOUP YOUTH VIRTUAL HANGOUTS OIC.li.Q*a L08.,..0+ Youth Group E- mai l youth @ oke q. org to get disco rd and zoo m in formation! Queer the Census 2020 The Census starts this year on April 1st! Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Census Information 4/24/26, 5:35 PM �The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 4 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~----~ ~ ~ GROUP VIRTUAL PROGRAMMING ~ ~ ~ ~ ~//////////////~ Gender Support Group Virtual Programming Monday-Friday, 6:00 p.m. - 6:45 p.m. This is our Gender Support Outreach group now Virtual and Daily! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. The group will meet virtually via tele conference style. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group. Contact Us 4/24/26, 5:35 PM �The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 5 of 21 I https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... ! :1 • I II Lynn Riggs Theatre Virtual Concerts: Patt Hobbs Join us once a week for virtual concerts in the fabulous Lynn Riggs Theatre. This weeks video is below. Click to Watch 4/24/26, 5:35 PM �The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 6 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... There are approximately 8,000 Oklahoma children in foster care. Learn how you can make a difference by becoming a foster parent. Call 1-833-7FOSTER or visit us only at www.tfifamilyconnections.org. oai\y conferenc e ca\\ for LGBTQ+ elders over 60 SAGE Group Call Daily Monday - Friday at 2:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 5:35 PM �The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 7 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... Monday - Friday at 2:00 p.m. our SAGE elders (those over 60) are invited to participate in virtual programming by calling in to the SAGE Group Call. To join, call (918) 398-8780 The access code is 60# Coming Soon: At Home Fitness with Jake Landry Working out, getting, and staying fit is hardwork. Lets help each other. Jake has been working on his fitness to help us keep ours. Join us each week for techniques to keep us healthy. LET'S CHAT WITH OKEO 4/24/26, 5:35 PM �The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 8 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... COMMUNITY INFORMED DAILY ON FACEBOOK LIVE Daily Facebook Live Things are changing daily in Tulsa and in Oklahoma. At OKEQ, we are working tirelessly to make sure that our essential services remain available for our constituents. Right now, the center remains open for limited drop in services and our medical clinic and help line remain open. We continue to check temperatures of all who enter the building and we consider safety our highest priority. However, it has been difficult to not have our regular programming for the past week and we have received many questions about what we can do to help mitigate the struggles of isolation. We will be doing Facebook live to update everyone on what is going on at the center and answer any questions you may have about LGBTQIA+ issues in our area. Join Oklahomans for Equality Facebook page and participate with us! Hunger Free Oklahoma Hunger Free Oklahoma is coordinating a one-stop information hub for COVID-19 food resources and announcements in Oklahoma. Please see how you can plug into this valuable resource. Meals4KidsOK.org , the Oklahoma summer meal location website, is being equipped to display key serving information for students that are affected by COVID-19 school closures. Visitors will be able to input their zip code and will be directed to the closest open meal site where children ages 1 – 18 years can receive a meal. Thank you for all you are doing to help Oklahomans weather this crisis. Visit meals4kidsok READING TIME WITH GUNCLE 4/24/26, 5:35 PM �The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 9 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... IUDT Daily Children's Book Readings Reading Time with Guncle Toby Take some time out of your hectic day to enjoy a story from your Gay Uncle Toby. Click to Watch Are you a person with an LGBT or related identity who has ever served in the US Armed Forces? We invite you to participate in a study focusing on your health behaviors and life experiences as a Veteran with a LGBT or related identity. The goal of the Health for Every Veteran study is to better understand the experiences of Veterans from all backgrounds and promote their health and well-being, including those with LGBT or related identities. We are especially interested in hearing the diverse voices within our communities. The study is being conducted by researchers at the VA Puget Sound Health Care System. It consists of completing a confidential, web-based questionnaire every 9 months for approximately 2 years (for a total of 4 questionnaires). All research activities are completed online, with no in-person visits required. For more information please click below. SURVEY 4/24/26, 5:35 PM �The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 10 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... Tulsa Metro Softball League Info@TulsaMetroSoftball.com The Spring Season of 2020 is upon us. All skill levels welcome to participate in the Tulsa Metro Softball League. On March 22 at 11:00 a.m. they will have a "Come Out and Shake the Dust Off Day."This day will be a chance to meet new and old players, take some batting practice, and maybe scrimmage a little. They will also use the opportunity to connect players with teams as well. Sign ups are now open on the link below as well as the dates of play and registration. Tulsa Metro Softball League (TMSL) is an amateur softball league for the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) Community and our allies of the Tulsa Metro Area. TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and a founding member of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. TMSL is a member league of the North American Gay Amateur Athletic Alliance which allows us to send teams to represent Tulsa at the annual Gay Softball World Series. Registration OKEQ Board Response to COVID-19 To our family, friends, community, clients, and supporters, OkEq strives to be continually mindful of the healthcare crisis sweeping our city, state, country, and beyond. While we have no desire to cancel any services that benefit our community: your health, safety, and wellness is our primary concern. With this in mind, the Executive Committee of the Board of Directors has unanimously agreed that it is in the best interests of the community we serve to cancel or postpone the following events: • TDOV Trans Health Fair, scheduled 3/29 - Postponed • Pride Bingo, scheduled 4/4 - Postponed • 40th Anniversary Equality Gala scheduled for 4/18 - Postponed OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Nothing will break our focus or dampen our commitment to this mission. As we all go through this time of uncertainty, we encourage everybody to exercise the best personal healthcare practices and always know that OkEq is, and always will be, here for you all. Be safe. Be careful. Stay strong. Chris Brecht-Smith, Board President 4/24/26, 5:35 PM �The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 11 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... 4/24/26, 5:35 PM �All finishers of both races will receive a shirt and a medal. II I m I c= --I z ~ :is: -< ..... en :z::,. u, N> a, ::,i::: ;= I C, u, c= ::cl C 5!5! :is: I"""" m c=::; 2 ::cl z I"""" -< ..... I 'I Signing up before May 1st saves you $10 compared to race day registration! Get your spot today! I I Registration 4/24/26, 5:35 PM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... :z::,. --I More Information i ,,~ 1 7th Annual Rainbow Run Fun Run and 5k At JI Ii, l: _. .1 The Rainbow Run, held on June 5th, is just one of the events on Tulsa Pride Weekend. The Rainbow Run proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride and the Oklahomans for Equality. There will be a 5k as well as a 1 mile fun run. Strollers, mobility aides, and dogs are all welcome on the course that runs through downtown Tulsa. Children are welcome to participate in the fun run and in the 5k as long as they are accompanied by an adult. Friday, June 5, at 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ..,., a, ::cl '"Cll c= ::cl Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org , or call for information 918-813-8993. To Enter: Go to https://morecolor2020.artcall.org/ for online submission of entries. All entries must be made online. Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 3 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded. There is a single entry fee of $15 for up to five entries. Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to announce our call for entries to the 2019 MOREcolor regional juried exhibitions and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBTQ+ Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Submission Deadline: May 1st Art Call for MOREColor 2020 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 12 of 21 I �The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 13 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... ■ For intormanon that leads to the Arrest and conuiclion 01 the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker on Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' Anvone with information is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI bv Calling the Agency's TIP line at 1-8 0-522-8011 or bV Emalllng ti @ . lg 4/24/26, 5:35 PM �. \ ........,_.-,. 'It.: \ "' '' ~.:~ ...,. • '. ·•. ':l!~ , ~~~, ~ ---.:,-~ ,2-~ - .•· 'i· . ?~~::--?~~-/ ~' ~ ~ \ - ~''";', ~ ·~i -~.......-,-~ ..-17 : ,~ Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Allison IkleyFreeman The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. The Transgender Flag continues to fly at half staff in memory of Dustin Parker. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin _ 14 of 21 4/24/26, 5:35 PM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen.. McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed . �The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 15 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. COVID-19 Canceled: Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGALAID th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, April 9, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ 4/24/26, 5:35 PM �The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 16 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Alphabet Soup Youth Group Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Fitness Class at OkEq Tuesdays 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support 4/24/26, 5:35 PM �The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 17 of 21 Christopher Gomez's Workout program is designed with science to help individuals meet their fitness goals in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming environment. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org ---The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. SIA strives to empower those who have survived 4/24/26, 5:35 PM �The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 18 of 21 individuals. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Sa~e Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. l!1ree Sout!s Three Souls Every 2nd Monday Join us for our monthly Heart Circle at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We meet on the second Sunday of every month. All queer men are welcome to the circle (gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual and queer). Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? 4/24/26, 5:35 PM �The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 19 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:35 PM �The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 20 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Tracy Allen Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Donovid Sekulits Special Projects 4/24/26, 5:35 PM �The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is Presently Closed 21 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Dennis-R--Neill-Equality-Cen... Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Bob Hanson Marcia Keesee Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:35 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/525b83f66abf60d86a27883f9435a40f.pdf 3361c1020b95ac97d8575fe8bd4038f9 PDF Text Text Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 1 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews January 7th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! F~ PafllOLL Rental Properfy Bookkeeptn~ _,,.,,..,m tr::~Jl -lHI/ j ~~C>i 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 2 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com FetAturLV\,g Tvt Lboc{ea ux: Tvte Tax TvteYap~ Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 3 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... Click to Complete Survey New Fitness Class at OKEQ Tuesday, January 7, 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Holidays have those pants feeling tighter? Want to tone your muscles? Great news! Oklahomans for Equality has a new fitness class taught by Christopher Gomez. This class will give you an opportunity to get a well rounded workout and help to tone and tighten. “I have lead workout groups with friends at more extreme paces, but am now learning the science behind it and how to bring others to their fitness goals at a more inclusive pace at community care college through their fitness program," says Christopher Gomez. "I am confident in my abilities to provide satisfaction to my clients through my fitness instruction. I am excited to be teaching fitness at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, where everyone is safe and welcome!" Sisters in Song Tuesday, January 7, 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Sisters in Song would like to invite women that enjoy singing and performing to join us for our first 2020 practice! We will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Tuesday, January 7th at 7:00 p.m. Please call 918-809-9751 for further information or questions. Fresh Start Program: Trans-formative Self Care! Thursday, January 9, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Creating Your Style Feel like you have nothing to wear? Well we have a closet full for you! Clary Sage College's Fashion Design instructor will talk about how to create your personal style, what colors to choose and what to avoid, and how to dress for every occasion. The instructor and fashion design students will talk with attendees 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 4 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... individually about what may work best for them.The first 20 attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant Saturday, January 11, 12:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Who will be the Next King or Queen of Tulsa Pride? Will it be you? Come out and see who will be crowned the next King and Queen of Tulsa Pride and pay respects to King Scrappy and Queen Anita. If you would like to compete please register below. Register 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 5 of 20 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday, January 15, 6:00 p.m. Gallery Floral 1514 E. 15th St. Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 galleryfloral.com https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... (iallc.'i',J Gallery Floral Designs will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for January. We are looking very forward to seeing you there! The Equality Business Alliance exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ -welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: • Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ -welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; • Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and • Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. All EBA Events will be listed on our website and Facebook Event Page. Please plan on joining us! Benefits of Membership: 1. Inclusion in EBA Merchant & Members listing on Oklahomans for Equality website 2. Email updates of all EBA events and opportunities 3. Invitation to Networking Events and ability to host 4. Marketing opportunities at EBA and community events Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : Brassy Band Burlesque Thursday, January 16, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Award-winning, nationally acclaimed burlesque performer and producer Lucy Furr brings some of the best burlesque acts in the country to the Rainbow Room. These classic burlesque artists will transport audience members to the 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 6 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... golden age of burlesque performed to a live jazz band. Click Here for Tickets POC Social at OkEq Friday, January 17, 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The People of Color Social Mixer focuses on celebrating, preserving, and connecting POC in the Tulsa LGBTQ+ community. Join us for drinks, food, and fun! POC events are scheduled the third Friday of each month. EVERY TH/HO FRIDAY FON MONE INFONMATION CALL 918 904 1869 MONNIS 50's / 60's Throwback Friday, January 24, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Oklahomans for Equality as we look back each month on different decades of LGBTQIA+ history with music, dancing, and historical artifacts! Our 50s/60s Throwback night is the first of a monthly series of FREE mixers that celebrate and remember the long road that we are on in the fight for equality, while also remembering the culture that our community created in a time of isolation. The 50s/60s night will feature live music, a cash bar, and a historical overview of LGBTQIA+ 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 7 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... Tulsa/Oklahoma in the 1950s and 1960s. Please come dressed in your finest underground club wear! There is no cost for entry, just come dressed to party! Little Blue House and Condomania Calling for Artists Creative Folks! Calling All Help the Little Blue House at TU promote SAFE SEX and let your inner designer shine! All contestants will design and construct wearable fashion items OUT OF CONDOMS . We will issue each participant 200 condoms for use in the project. Final fashion show designs will be presented in a FASHION SHOW fundraiser on March 28, 2020 at CONDO MANIA! Sign-up by Feb. 1sq Email: linda-davis@utulsa.edu. Visit our website for additional information: LittleBlueHouseA tTU .erg/Special Events Sponsored by: tJ» little blue house made entirely out of condoms! ....,_,_,_eqiaalily Pride Bingo 2020 Saturday, Febuary 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ~, T U L S A ,, p Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back for the 2020 Pride season. The fun and hilarious Rainbow Granny will be there with special guests to join her for our Bingo Bash. DJ Alex says "get your lip sync selections ready." @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 8 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... $35 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $300 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Buy Your Tickets Super Bowl LIV Party 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 9 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... Sunday, February 2, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Team invite you to join us on Sunday, February 2nd to watch the Super Bowl! We will screen the game live in the Bruce Goff event center starting at 5:00 pm. There will be a cash bar with proceeds going to OKEQ and yummy food for sale benefiting the Tulsa Threat! This is a party you don't want to miss. First Thursday Art Show Featuring: Alexis "QingLex" Walker Thursday, Febuary 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Alexis “QingLex” Walker, beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 6th from 6-9 pm and continuing throughout the month. Alexis “QingLex” Walker is a non-binary queer revolutionary. They are an early childhood educator, special needs advocate, public speaker, spoken word wordsmith, painter, and an all-around creative expressionist. They believe that play and creation is the best way to experience life and connect with people. QingLex’s passion is to be an energy that allows for people to connect, heal and create joy that leads to authenticity no matter identity or outside oppressions. She began painting in March of 2017 as a means to heal through experiences as well as vicarious trauma of her pre-K students and never stopped. Painting started as a way to escape the disturbing reality and to retreat within. Now it is a means of sharing thoughts and emotions. QingLex’s art is a collection of all that is meaningful to them. No human experience is monolithic and that includes black queer experiences. She needs to live fully, comfortably, and out loud. Blackness is divine. Queerness is magic. Gender is a construct and conformity is played out. Their goal is to create a community safe haven where Black LGBTQ+ children and young adults can experience their humanness and spiritual divinity through artistic expression, health, and wellness. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, February 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 10 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... This is a Prince / Princess Royale event put on by all 4 PR's Jay Gable, Aurora Riviera Paige, Triton Scudder-Paige & Krystall Scudder-Cilyn Gay Identity Development, Relatio al a ·_fa~ nn a rt Ot -Ma e 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 11 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... exper·ences in Emerging Adul hood V 0 , oI g o mus oul ti elo ! 0 lor 111 d LG entaJ n . e o? t .II .ly/G y V y C 0 n t: Click to Complete Survey Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " Queer X Design " by Andy Campbell "Beginning with pre-liberation and the years before the Stonewall uprising, spanning across the 1970s and 1980s and through to the new millennium, Queer X Design celebrates the inventive and subversive 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 12 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... DESIGN Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. designs that have powered the resilient and ever-evolving LGBTQ movement. The diversity and inclusivity of these pages is as inspiring as it is important, both in terms of the objects represented as well as in the array of creators; from buttons worn to protest Anita Bryant, to the original 'The Future is Female' and 'Lavender Menace' t-shirt; from the logos of Pleasure Chest and GLAAD, to the poster for Cheryl Dunye's queer classic The Watermelon Woman ; from Gilbert Baker's iconic rainbow flag, to the quite laments of the AIDS quilt and the impassioned rage conveyed in ACT-UP and Gran Fury ephemera. More than just an accessible history book, Queer X Design tells the story of queerness as something intangible, uplifting, and indestructible. Found among these pages is sorrow, loss, and struggle; an affective selection that queer designers and artists harnessed to bring about political and societal change. But here is also: joy, hope, love, and the enduring fight for free expression and representation. Queer X Design is the potent, inspiring, and colorful visual history of activism and pride." Equality Pride Store 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 13 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... $15.00 Special! The Holiday Festivities are still in full swing and what better attire to wear wear for NYE or PRIDE Bingo celebrations? The line is to "Don your Gay Apparel"! Come by and get yours to show off your LGBTQ+ PRIDE. Come by and pick yours up today and shop our store as there are so many other wonderful gifts available! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 14 of 20 Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, January 9, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 15 of 20 necessary. Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m Daniel & Haley Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 16 of 20 join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... II on r I r , , r rn 11 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Fitness Class at OkEq 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 17 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... Tuesdays 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Christopher Gomez's Workout program is designed with science to help individuals meet their fitness goals in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming environment. Game Night Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Sisters in Song Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible Tuesdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm SAGE Tulsa Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 18 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... the Equality Center that Testing EBA Directory includes computers, a printer The Equality and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for Business Alliance fosters a step-by-step instructions on testing dates. sharing of information, ideas, how to register with contacts, products and Oklahoma JobLink. services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. OkEq Staff Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org Tracy Allen Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 19 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits Special Projects Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Happy New Year!! Improving Your Style and Fitness 20 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year---Improving-Yo... Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Bob Hanson Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sun 9 a.m. - 9 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:23 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/cb9a5699b8ab355416430dbed1edd68a.pdf 797e03cb147b04309e051ecb71aa5419 PDF Text Text Escape with the Power of Art and Music 1 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Escape-with-the-Power-of-Art-a... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews April 7th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Let us help you file your 2019 tax returns! 4/24/26, 5:37 PM �Escape with the Power of Art and Music 2 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Escape-with-the-Power-of-Art-a... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Feiltur-LV\,g Tvti.bodeaux: Tvt e Tax Tvt er-a-p k1 Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. First First Thursday Virtual Art Show April 2020 4/24/26, 5:37 PM �Escape with the Power of Art and Music 3 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Escape-with-the-Power-of-Art-a... You can now visit the Allie Jensen Memorial Gallery virtually. The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is featuring the works of Ken Sproul’s stained-glass works. Click below to take the tour with the artist. Ken was born in Tulsa in 1950 to a working-class family. He grew up in North Tulsa and graduated from Mclain High School in 1969. He married his wife Denise on New Year’s Eve 1971. Visit the Allie Jenson Art Gallery You Can Purchase Ken's Stained Glass Art Below. Purchase Here At Home Fitness with Jake Landry Working out, getting, and staying fit is hard work, but boy is it worth it! Exercise can boost your immune system, improve your mood, and reduce stress, and even without the gym, you can still work out and stay healthy! Jake Landry is here to teach you techniques to keep fit and stay healthy from your own home. Click Here to Watch Video 1 Click Here to Watch Video 2 4/24/26, 5:37 PM �Escape with the Power of Art and Music 4 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Escape-with-the-Power-of-Art-a... I ' II Lynn Riggs Virtual Concerts: Jeremy Stevens Don't let quarantine keep you from enjoying the sound of good music and the joy of live performance. Music is a great way to relieve stress and improve your mood, and we all need some of that right now. Join us once a week for virtual concerts in the fabulous Lynn Riggs Theater. You can watch this week's video at the link below. Click to Watch READING TIME WITH GUNCLE TOBY Daily Children's Book Readings 4/24/26, 5:37 PM �Escape with the Power of Art and Music 5 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Escape-with-the-Power-of-Art-a... Reading Time with Guncle Toby Take some time out of your hectic day to enjoy a story from your Gay Uncle Toby. Click to Watch Queer the Census 2020 The Census starts this year on April 1st! Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. BE PROUD BE SEEN COUNTED #2020CENSUS Census Information What Is the Census?: A Webinar for Everyone! ECT A better way to stay connected. 4/24/26, 5:37 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f76409aceeab93cba782efc76ff6951f.pdf 9d8e01521842e1e1ad7ffa2fe4dd6c6e PDF Text Text Sex, COVID, and Masks 1 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews April 14th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Let us help you file your 2019 tax returns! 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 2 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com FeettuYt-V\,g Tl-1 i,boc{e~ ux: Tl1e T~x Tl1eY~Pl1 Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 3 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... VISIT OKEQ.ORG AND CLICK 'STORE' Visit the Allie Jenson Art Gallery You can purchase Ken's stained glass art by visiting our web store. SAGE CARES Our SAGE Tulsa members are one of the most at-risk age groups during this pandemic. Oklahomans for Equality has been working to get necessary supplies to our Sage Members. We want to thank Penny Fruth who made masks for those living with HIV/AIDS and LGBTQ older adults. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 4 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... us today. SAGE Group Call Daily Monday - Friday at 2:00 p.m. Monday - Friday at 2:00 p.m. our SAGE elders (those over 60) are invited to participate in virtual programming by calling in to the SAGE Group Call. To join, call (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60# Contact Us Love playing Animal Crossing on your Switch, DS, or iPhone? Want to play with other LGBTQIA+ Oklahomans from the safety of your home? OKEQ has a virtual gaming Facebook group! To join, please comment or message our page and you will be added to our private group. See you on the island! Join Our Group vn11T1-1 AL.PHA9ET SOUP OKl:a~. L98TO+ Youth aroup 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 5 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... VIRTUAL HANGOUTS Every Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Saturday on Zoom and always chatting on Discord. E-mail youth@okeq.org for information! • Contact Us KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Even though the Equality Center is closed, our clinic is still open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 6 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider At Home Fitness with Jake Landry Working out, getting, and staying fit is hard work, but boy is it worth it! Exercise can boost your immune system, improve your mood, and reduce stress, and, even without the gym, you can still work out and stay healthy! Jake Landry is here to teach you techniques to keep fit and stay healthy from your own home. Click Here to Watch Video 3 Click Here to Watch Video 4 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 7 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... I • l Lynn Riggs Virtual Concerts: Morgan Allen Don't let quarantine keep you from enjoying the sound of good music and the joy of live performance. Music is a great way to relieve stress and improve your mood, and we all need some of that right now. Join us once a week for virtual concerts in the fabulous Lynn Riggs Theater. You can watch this week's video at the link below. Click to Watch READING TIME WITH GUNCLE TOBY Daily Children's Book Readings 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 8 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... Reading Time with Guncle Toby Take some time out of your hectic day to enjoy a story from your Gay Uncle Toby. Click to Watch Need a hand, or know someone in need? Click Below to visit our page at www.OKEQ.org to view available local and national resources. Please let us know if you are aware of additional resources that we may share. Visit OKEQ Community Resources 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 9 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... Given the coronavirus pandemic and its impact on American society, pledges for the next 60 days to: 1. not terminate service to any residential or small business customers because of their inability to pay their bills due to the disruptions caused by the coronavirus pandemic; 2. waive any late fees that any residential or small business customers incur because of their economic circumstances related to the coronavirus pandemic; and 3. open its Wi-Fi hotspots to any American who needs them. Above and Beyond Assist Wireless 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 10 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... There are approximately 8,000 Oklahoma children in foster care. Learn how you can make a difference by becoming a foster parent. Call 1-833-7FOSTER or visit us only at www.tfifamilyconnections.org. Visit TFI Family Connections LGBTQ+ PEOPLE, SEX, ANDCOV D-19 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 11 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... HAVE SEX WITH PEOPLE CLOSE TO YOU. You are your safest sex partner. Masturbation will not spread COVID-19, especially if you wash your hands (and any sex toys) with soap and water for at least 20 seconds before and after sex. • The next safest partner is someone you live with. Having close contact - including sex -with only a small circle of people helps prevent spreading COVID-19. Have sex only with consenting partners. • You should avoid close contact - including sex - with anyone outside your household. If you do have sex with others, have as few partners as possible. • If you usually meet your sex partners online or make a living by having sex, consider taking a break from in-person dates. Video dates, sexting or chat rooms may be optionsfor you.. SKIP SEX IF YOU OR YOUR PARTNER IS NOT FEELING WELL If you or a partner may have COVID-19, avoid sex and especially kissing. • If you start to feel unwell, you may be about to develop symptoms of COVID-19, which include fever, cough, sore throat or shortness of breath. • If you or your partner has a medical condition that can lead to more severe COVID-19, you may also want to skip sex. o Medical conditions include lung disease, heart disease, diabetes, cancer or a weakened immune system (for example, having unsuppressed HIV and a low CD4 count). WWW.OKEQ.ORG 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 12 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... Queer the Census 2020 The Census starts this year on April 1st! Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Census Information What Is the Census?: A Webinar for Everyone! ECT A better way to stay connected. C J 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 13 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... SAGEConnect Are you or a loved one feeling isolated inside? With the help of INCREDIBLE volunteers at Out in Tech, SAGE launched a new program to bring our community closer together while staying 6 feet apart by virtually matching folks who want to share a friendly phone conversation. Please help us spread the word, visit sageusa.org/sageconnect . Visit SageConnect 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 14 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... "Love Pride? So do we! Love Oklahomans for Equality ? So do we! Boomtown has created a pride shelf and rainbow 918 tees. Proceeds will be donated to the OKEQ Center to help with their many amazing programs." Visit Boomtown Tees In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Mike Green (June 25, 1932 - March 29, 2020) Services are Pending. Michael Hulsey (July 13, 1987 March 28, 2020) Services are Pending. 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 15 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... ~ ~ ~----~ GENDER SUPPORT GROUP VIRTUAL PROGRAMMING ~----~ i//////////////1 Gender Support Group Virtual Programming Monday-Friday, 6:00 p.m. - 6:45 p.m. This is our Gender Support Outreach group now Virtual and Daily! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. The group will meet virtually via tele conference style. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group . Contact Us Trans Men's Virtual Social Group Saturday, 3:00 p.m. Join us every Saturday at 3:00 p.m. for an hour-long discussion. This space is meant for trans men and transmasculine people to discuss issues they face and to provide rl , Trans Men's Social Group 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 16 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... support. If you are interested in joining this weekly chat, please email alex.wade@okeq.org. Contact Us Lez Cook: Facebook Live Cooking Monday-Friday, 6:00 p.m. Looking to learn new tips and tricks in the kitchen while staying home? Join Morgan Allen as she cooks her way through her pantry to learn helpful tips on eating healthy, making food last, and how to jazz up otherwise boring meals! You can watch these videos live on the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Facebook Page, Monday through Friday at 6:00 p.m. The Dennis R. Neill Eq~ality For the health, safety and well-being of our constituents and the greater Tulsa community, we are temporarily closing our doors to the public 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 17 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... In Regards to Tulsa Pride and the Equality Gala: Due to the current global healthcare crisis, the OkEq Board of Directors met and agreed that it is in our community’s best interests to cancel TULSA PRIDE 2020. In addition to the parade and festival, this also includes the Rainbow Run, MOREColor Art Show and the TULSA PRIDE Picnic. Our hearts are broken by this decision, because this celebratory experience brings our entire community together; however, this decision was made to honor our community’s best interests. It is with deep regret that I must announce that the Equality Gala 2020 will be postponed. Current events are changing hourly and, after advice and direction from local and state officials and following the guidelines of the CDC, the Board of Directors felt our only course of action for the health, safety and well being of our attendees and community is to postpone our event. The Equality Gala is an important event for 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 18 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... We also acknowledge our current vendors, sponsors and supporters that had already committed to supporting TULSA PRIDE 2020. We appreciate your partnership and support with OkEq and the Oklahoma LGBTQ+ community. We will be reaching out to you, directly, to make sure that this partnership continues, especially during these trying times. Oklahomans for Equality. This principle fundraiser for our organization raises over 50% of the funds needed to operate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, fund programming, services, the medical clinic, advocacy efforts, and other vital services. Christopher Brecht-Smith, Board President Oklahomans for Equality (pronouns: he/him/his) Let the spirit of pride carry you through! Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 19 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... Are you a person with an LGBT or related identity who has ever served in the US Armed Forces? We invite you to participate in a study focusing on your health behaviors and life experiences as a Veteran with a LGBT or related identity. The goal of the Health for Every Veteran study is to better understand the experiences of Veterans from all backgrounds and promote their health and well-being, including those with LGBT or related identities. We are especially interested in hearing the diverse voices within our communities. The study is being conducted by researchers at the VA Puget Sound Health Care System. It consists of completing a confidential, web-based questionnaire every 9 months for approximately 2 years (for a total of 4 questionnaires). All research activities are completed online, with no in-person visits required. For more information please click below. SURVEY ■ For intormation that leads to the Arrest and conu1ct1on 01 the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 20 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... s ' Anvone whh lnfomauon Is asked to contact die McAlester Police Deuanment at 918-423-1212 or die OSBI 11V Calling the Agencv's TIP line at 1-8 D-522 11 or 11V Emalllng u s k. McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. The Transgender Flag continues to fly at half staff in memory of Dustin Parker. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 21 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... available on a sliding fee scale based on income. sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. COVID-19 Canceled: Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, April 9, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Alphabet Soup Youth Group Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 22 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... where all letters are welcome! Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Fitness Class at OkEq Tuesdays 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Christopher Gomez's Workout program is designed with science to help individuals meet their fitness goals in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming environment. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 23 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... Sos Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org - - --The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org sage This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Advocacy& Services for I ~RT Flrli:>r~ 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 24 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group We refuse to be invisible The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Tviree Sovtls ,,, .Three Souls Every 2nd Monday Join us for our monthly Heart Circle at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We meet on the second Sunday of every month. All queer men are welcome to the circle (gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual and queer). SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm ••• :· ,; ; <. ;;·~~~~ • - ,.-:·\ .~ ~ .-.~ ,.•--ARTS AN,DCRA.FTS NIGHT AT 1H£ lJlNNIS R r..~ ll EQl,JAU!Y CU'i.1Ell ' Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 25 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 26 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Tracy Allen Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits Special Projects Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Board of Advisors 4/24/26, 5:38 PM �Sex, COVID, and Masks 27 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Sex--COVID--and-Masks.html?s... Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Bob Hanson Marcia Keesee Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:38 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b3335bee7d2035959cdc6432c0837127.pdf 86ad048dfcef857e748e7e875d368a39 PDF Text Text Get Ready to Howl!!! 1 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews April 22nd, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Let us help you file your 2019 tax returns! 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 2 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Feiltur-LV\,g Tvti.bodeaux: Tvt e Tax Tvt er-a-p k1 Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. HAPPY NATIONAL DEAF L G B T Q AWARENESS WEEK National Deaf LGBTQ Awareness Week April 19th - 24th Oklahomans for Equality spotlights our own Glenna Cooper for National Deaf LGBTQ+ Awareness Week. Glenna is a translater for the City of Tulsa and has been communicating 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 3 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... critical information to the community during the COVID -19 briefings. Glenna identifies as LGBTQ+ and has been married to her wife Timi Richardson since 2013. Glenna's Interview on KTUL The Great Tulsa Howl and Holler - A Citywide Stay at Home Event Wherever You Are Friday, April 24, 7:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 4 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... Set your alarms for Friday, April 24 at 7:00 p.m. and get ready to make some collective noise! Join everyone else in the City of Tulsa as we attempt to create the largest stay-at-home event Tulsa has ever seen! On Friday, April 24, 2020, at 7:00 p.m. open your window, step onto a balcony or out in your front yard and make some NOISE! Let’s howl at the moon, scream, clap, bang pots and pans, make music, yell out YASSS!!, but most of all give thanks and gratitude to all the frontline workers who are out there making things better for us all during this time. Let this be a moment when we can all show our gratitude by sending a loud virtual hug to all the health-care workers, delivery drivers, grocery store workers, those grieving, and everyone else who is out there, every day, in the thick of it. How does it work? Step one: When the clock strikes at 7 o’clock on Friday, April 24, 2020 Step two: Open up your window or step into your yard Step three: Make noise for at least 2 minutes! Join us as we come together by staying at home for this special event! Join Us Online In Memoriam remembering those we've lost Stephen Littlecrow October 6, 1977 April 20, 2020 Services are In the link below: 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 5 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... Stephen Littlecrow Obituary Mike Green (June 25, 1932 March 29, 2020) Mike Green Obituary Michael Hulsey (July 13, 1987 March 28, 2020) Michael Hulsey Obituary A Message from Our Treasurer Paul Allen: 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 6 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... Oklahomans for Equality Watch on $40 for 40 Years 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 7 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... Reading Rainbow Book Club Thursday April 30, 3:00 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality invites you to join our virtual book club, Reading Rainbow Book Club, hosted by Donovid Sekulits. We will be reading books in the public domain, which means they can be accessed online for free. For our first book, we have selected Emma by Jane Austen. Emma is a literary classic that we hope you enjoy. We plan to cover five chapters of Emma every Thursday for 60 - 90 minutes. Fun Fact: Clueless the movie was based on the book, and Jane Austen and Donovid share the same birthday. For mobile users, Emma can be found on the Kindle or Nook app, Apple Books, Google Books, and Audible. Emma can also be downloaded or read securely at the links below. Gutenberg Novels77 PublicBookShelf Click below to sign up with Donovid for the Reading Rainbow Book Club. Sign Up Here 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 8 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Our next meeting is at 7:00 p.m. on the 27th. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Contact Us At Home Fitness with Jake Landry Working out, getting, and staying fit is hard work, but boy is it worth it! Exercise can boost your immune system, improve your mood, and reduce stress, and, even without the gym, you can still work out and stay healthy! Jake Landry is here to teach you techniques to keep fit and stay healthy from your own home. Oklahomans for Equality Watch on LYNN RIGGS THEATRE 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 9 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... I ! :1 'I II Lynn Riggs Virtual Concerts: Quentin Marcellis Don't let quarantine keep you from enjoying the sound of good music and the joy of live performance. Music is a great way to relieve stress and improve your mood, and we all need some of that right now. Join us once a week for virtual concerts in the fabulous Lynn Riggs Theater. You can watch this week's video at the link below. Oklahomans for Equality Watch on 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 10 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... READING TIME WITH GUNCLE TOBY Daily Children's Book Readings Reading Time with Guncle Toby Take some time out of your hectic day to enjoy a story from your Gay Uncle Toby. 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 11 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... American Heretics: The Politics of the Gospel Abramorama, Butlerfilms & Contemporary Dialogs announced today that they will host a free Facebook live screening of American Heretics: The Politics of The Gospel on Saturday, April 25th at 4pm EST / 3pm CST / 1pm PST immediately followed by a virtual Zoom gathering with the film’s cast. The virtual panel event will be hosted by All Souls Unitarian Church, Tulsa. Unavailable on any digital or broadcast platforms until now, the film made its theatrical world premiere to critical and audience acclaim in theaters across the United States in June 2019. American Heretics: The Politics of the Gospel challenges what we think we know about the Christian heartland by offering a rare personal glimpse into the contentious and often misunderstood history of religion, race, and politics in America. In this compelling documentary, Emmy Award-winning filmmakers Jeanine and Catherine Butler take audiences into the buckle of the Bible belt where a group of defiant ministers, congregations and community leaders challenge deeply rooted fundamentalist Christian doctrine. Rev. Bishop Carlton D. Pearson, featured in the movie, Come Sunday, is just one of the many courageous voices we hear from. TUNE IN AT 3PM CST, APRIL 25TH BELOW: View American Heretics Film Here FOR MORE INFORMATION PLEASE VISIT: Visit ABCinemaNOW Visit Americanhereticsthefilm 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 12 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... There are approximately 8,000 Oklahoma children in foster care. Learn how you can make a difference by becoming a foster parent. Call 1-833-7FOSTER or visit us only at www.tfifamilyconnections.org. TF/¥ Visit TFI Family Connections 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 13 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... VISIT OKEQ.ORG AND CLICK 'STORE' Visit the Allie Jenson Art Gallery You can purchase Ken's stained glass art by visiting our web store. SAGE CARES Our SAGE Tulsa members are one of the most at-risk age groups during this pandemic. Oklahomans for Equality has been working to get necessary supplies to our Sage Members. We want to thank Penny Fruth who made masks for those 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 14 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... living with HIV/AIDS and LGBTQ older adults. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. SAGE Group Call Daily Monday - Friday at 2:00 p.m. Monday - Friday at 2:00 p.m. our SAGE elders (those over 60) are invited to participate in virtual programming by calling in to the SAGE Group Call. To join, call (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60# Contact Us Love playing Animal Crossing on your Switch, DS, or iPhone? Want to play with other LGBTQIA+ Oklahomans from the safety of your home? OKEQ has a virtual gaming Facebook group! To join, please comment or message our page and you will be added to our private group. See you on the island! Join Our Group 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 15 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... YOUTH VIRTUAL HANGOUTS Every Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Saturday on Zoom and always chatting on Discord. E-mail youth@okeq.org for information! ALPHA8£,- SOUP OK£Q•a L89"'fQ+ Vauth Group • Contact Us KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE ICAISEA FAMILY FOUNDATION Even though the Equality Center is closed, our clinic is still open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 16 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Need a hand, or know someone in need? Click Below to visit our page at www.OKEQ.org to view available local and national resources. Please let us know if you are aware of additional resources that we may share. Visit OKEQ Community Resources KEEP AMERICANS 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 17 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... If your college or your child's school has moved to online learning, there are options for you to get access to the internet. Several internet and telephone service providers have promised to maintain connectivity and to expand internet access to lower-income households. Follow the link below to find out which companies are providing these services and how to access them. Above and Beyond Assist Wireless Research Study for Apps Marketed to Gay Men Researchers at Oklahoma State University are recruiting gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men to discuss your experiences on social networking apps marketed for gay/ bi men. Individuals who complete the questionnaire can earn a $10 Amazon gift card. If you have questions, please feel free to contact Kristopher Struckmeyer ( struckm@okstate.edu ). Thank you for your consideration. We look forward to hearing from you. To see if you are eligible, please click the link below: Survey Screening LGBTQ+ PEOPLE, SEX, ANDCOV D-19 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 18 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... HAVE SEX WITH PEOPLE CLOSE TO YOU. You are your safest sex partner. Masturbation will not spread COVID-19, especially if you wash your hands (and any sex toys) with soap and water for at least 20 seconds before and after sex. • The next safest partner is someone you live with. Having close contact - including sex - with only a small circle of people helps prevent spreading COVID-19. Have sex only with consenting partners. • You should avoid close contact - including sex - with anyone outside your household. If you do have sex with others, have as few partners as possible. • If you usually meet your sex partners online or make a living by having sex, consider taking a break from in-person dates. Video dates, sexting or chat rooms may be optionsfor you.. SKIP SEX IF YOU OR YOUR PARTNER IS NOT FEELING WELL If you or a partner may have COVID-19, avoid sex and especially kissing. • If you start to feel unwell, you may be about to develop symptoms of COVID-19, which include fever, cough, sore throat or shortness of breath. • If you or your partner has a medical condition that can lead to more severe COVID-19, you may also want to skip sex. o Medical conditions include lung disease, heart disease, diabetes, cancer or a weakened immune system (for example, having unsuppressed HIV and a low CD4 count). 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 19 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... WWW.OKEQ.ORG Queer the Census 2020 The Census starts this year on April 1st! Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Census Information What Is the Census?: A Webinar for Everyone! 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 20 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... "Love Pride? So do we! Love Oklahomans for Equality ? So do we! Boomtown has created a pride shelf and rainbow 918 tees. Proceeds will be donated to the OKEQ Center to help with their many amazing programs." Visit Boomtown Tees 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 21 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... ~-----~ ~ GENDERSUPPORT GROUP VIRTUAL PROGRAMMING ~ ~ ~ ~//////////////~ Gender Support Group Virtual Programming Monday-Friday, 6:00 p.m. - 6:45 p.m. This is our Gender Support Outreach group now Virtual and Daily! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. The group will meet virtually via tele conference style. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group . Contact Us Trans Men's Virtual Social Group Saturday, 3:00 p.m. Join us every Saturday at 3:00 p.m. for an hour-long discussion. This space is meant for trans men and transmasculine people to discuss issues they face and to provide support. Trans Men's Social Group .Ji ~ 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 22 of 34 - https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... If you are interested in joining this weekly chat, please email alex.wade@okeq.org. Contact Us Lez Cook: Facebook Live Cooking Monday-Friday, 6:00 p.m. Looking to learn new tips and tricks in the kitchen while staying home? Join Morgan Allen as she cooks her way through her pantry to learn helpful tips on eating healthy, making food last, and how to jazz up otherwise boring meals! You can watch these videos live on the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Facebook Page, Monday through Friday at 6:00 p.m. The Dennis R. Neill Eq~ality Center is closed For the health, safety and well-being of our constituents and the greater Tulsa community, we are temporarily closing our doors to the public effective March 25, 2020 until further notice. • 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 23 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... In Regards to Tulsa Pride and the Equality Gala: Due to the current global healthcare crisis, the OkEq Board of Directors met and agreed that it is in our community’s best interests to cancel TULSA PRIDE 2020. In addition to the parade and festival, this also includes the Rainbow Run, MOREColor Art Show and the TULSA PRIDE Picnic. Our hearts are broken by this decision, because this celebratory experience brings our entire community together; however, this decision was made to honor our community’s best interests. We also acknowledge our current vendors, sponsors and supporters that had already committed to supporting TULSA PRIDE It is with deep regret that I must announce that the Equality Gala 2020 will be postponed. Current events are changing hourly and, after advice and direction from local and state officials and following the guidelines of the CDC, the Board of Directors felt our only course of action for the health, safety and well being of our attendees and community is to postpone our event. The Equality Gala is an important event for Oklahomans for Equality. This principle fundraiser for our organization raises over 50% of the funds needed to operate the 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 24 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... 2020. We appreciate your partnership and support with OkEq and the Oklahoma LGBTQ+ community. We will be reaching out to you, directly, to make sure that this partnership continues, especially during these trying times. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, fund programming, services, the medical clinic, advocacy efforts, and other vital services. Christopher Brecht-Smith, Board President Oklahomans for Equality (pronouns: he/him/his) Let the spirit of pride carry you through! Are you a person with an LGBT or related identity who has ever served in the US Armed Forces? 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 25 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... We invite you to participate in a study focusing on your health behaviors and life experiences as a Veteran with a LGBT or related identity. The goal of the Health for Every Veteran study is to better understand the experiences of Veterans from all backgrounds and promote their health and well-being, including those with LGBT or related identities. We are especially interested in hearing the diverse voices within our communities. The study is being conducted by researchers at the VA Puget Sound Health Care System. It consists of completing a confidential, web-based questionnaire every 9 months for approximately 2 years (for a total of 4 questionnaires). All research activities are completed online, with no in-person visits required. For more information please click below. SURVEY ■ For intormanon that leads to the Arrest and conuiclion 01 the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 26 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... ' Anvone with infonnatlon is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the OSBI bV Calling the Agencv's Tip line at 1- 0-522- 1l or bV Emailing d @ . k. McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. The Transgender Flag continues to fly at half staff in memory of Dustin Parker. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �' -' ... ' ;,,~ • ,•.1,cl J-) , ,~, ·,; , •• ' ~ _,. ~.:J·:::~ /-:0 . ""'~\ - ~:~, pWWW - -~ ·. "- ' -t Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Allison IkleyFreeman The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure S ara Griffey is an LPC Sara Griffey Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. LET YOUR VOICE BE HEARD 4/24/26, 5:40 PM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid.. November 2020 is around the corner, and we are teaming up with Tulsa's Young Professionals and 918 VOTE to make sure that everyone is registered and ready to VOTE! WANT TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN YOUR COMMUNITY? JOIN 918 Vote and TYPROS as we gear up into the 2020 election year with our voter engagement campaign! If you want to join a committee, please click the link provided below. Let your voice be heard! Every vote counts! Join us and make a positive impact in 2020! . ., .. ....- . ~- \~.- 27 of 34 Get Ready to Howl!!! , �Get Ready to Howl!!! 28 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. COVID-19 Canceled: Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID t,fl) SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, April 9, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Alphabet Soup Youth Group Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. community, and volunteer 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 29 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Fitness Class at OkEq Tuesdays 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Christopher Gomez's Workout program is designed with science to help individuals meet their fitness goals in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming environment. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Sos Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m 4/24/26, 5:40 PM �Get Ready to Howl!!! 30 of 34 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Howl---.html?soid... Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize 4/24/26, 5:40 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/01e4db4310fbf7866334180bd7b5e501.pdf cd295415bcf6980acd76a5a47816a188 PDF Text Text Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 1 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews April 28th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! F ~ PafROll Rental Properfy Bookkeep1n1 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 2 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... • Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com FetAtur-LV\,g Tvitbocieaux: Tvie Tax Tvieya-p!j Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 3 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... Reading Rainbow Book Club Thursday April 30, 3:00 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality invites you to join our virtual book club, Reading Rainbow Book Club, hosted by Donovid Sekulits. We will be reading books in the public domain, which means they can be accessed online for free. For our first book, we have selected Emma by Jane Austen. Emma is a literary classic that we hope you enjoy. We plan to cover five chapters of Emma every Thursday for 60 - 90 minutes. Fun Fact: Clueless the movie was based on the book, and Jane Austen and Donovid share the same birthday. For mobile users, Emma can be found on the Kindle or Nook app, Apple Books, Google Books, and Audible. Emma can also be downloaded or read securely at the links below. Gutenberg Novels77 PublicBookShelf Click below to sign up with Donovid for the Reading Rainbow Book Club. Sign Up Here In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 4 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... Samuel Martin March 23, 1987 - April 23, 2020 Memorial Services will be help at: The Diversity Center. Details to Follow Stephen Littlecrow October 6, 1977 April 20, 2020 Services are In the link below: Stephen Littlecrow Obituary 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 5 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... "RAISING FUNDS FOR CEN TERLI NK THE COMMUNITY OF LGBTO+ CENTERS " MAY HOME GAY THE 20TH ANNIVERSARY CAST & CREW REUNIO N EVENT LIVESTREAMING FRI. MAY 1ST 11AM PT / 2PM ET DETAILS TO COME fB,M E IMAYOAY HOMESTAYOAYPLAY MAY DAY HOME STAY GAY PLAY Queer As Folk 20th Cast & Crew Reunion Livestream May 1, 2020, 1:00 p.m. Join the Cast & Crew from Queer As Folk (U.S.) in this special livestream reunion event. Many special guests are scheduled to appear. In support of LGBTQ+ community centers that are providing essential services in the time of COVID-19, they will also be helping to raise funds for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center as well as our sister centers. There will even be an auction! 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So we’re inviting you to join us on #DecisionDay** for both our Virtual National Rally, followed by our Virtual Town Hall. More information to follow. At Home Fitness with Jake Landry Working out, getting, and staying fit is hard work, but boy is it worth it! Exercise can boost your immune system, improve your mood, and reduce stress, and, even without the gym, you can still work out and stay healthy! Jake Landry is here to teach you techniques to keep fit and stay healthy from your own home. Oklahomans for Equality Watch on 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 8 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... I II Lynn Riggs Virtual Concerts: Mariel Luna Don't let quarantine keep you from enjoying the sound of good music and the joy of live performance. Music is a great way to relieve stress and improve your mood, and we all need some of that right now. Join us once a week for virtual concerts in the fabulous Lynn Riggs Theater. You can watch this week's video at the link below. Support Mariel Luna Queer the Census 2020 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 9 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... The Census starts this year on April 1st! Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Census Information READING TIME WITH GUNCLE TOBY Daily Children's Book Readings Reading Time with Guncle Toby Take some time out of your hectic day to enjoy a story from your Gay Uncle Toby. 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 10 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... Oklahomans for Equality Watch on There are approximately 8,000 Oklahoma children in foster care. Learn how you can make a difference by becoming a foster parent . Call 1-833-7FOSTER or visit us only at www.tfifamilyconnections.org. 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 11 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... Visit TFI Family Connections r o f u o Y k n a Th s U g n Joini ID-19 V O C O T E ESPONS R Q T B G L THE The response to Together In Pride: You Are Not Alone was tremendous! !!! And it raised over $225,000! (And still counting!) Oklahomans for Equality and GLAAD would thank each and everyone of you for joining us on Sunday. Watch the event Below: 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-.. GLAAD Watch on A Message from Our Treasurer Paul Allen: ,nn..._r,;r.u:u;,g_¥_IIJJj, , , 12 of 35 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 13 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on $40 for 40 Years 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 14 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... Visit the Allie Jenson Art Gallery You can purchase Ken's stained glass art by visiting our web store. Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Contact Us 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 15 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... SAGE CARES Our SAGE Tulsa members are one of the most at-risk age groups during this pandemic. Oklahomans for Equality has been working to get necessary supplies to our Sage Members. We want to thank Penny Fruth who made masks for those living with HIV/AIDS and LGBTQ older adults. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. SAGE Group Call Daily Monday - Friday at 2:00 p.m. Monday - Friday at 2:00 p.m. our SAGE elders (those over 60) are invited to participate in virtual programming by calling in to the SAGE Group Call. To join, call (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60# Contact Us 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 16 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... Love playing Animal Crossing on your Switch, DS, or iPhone? Want to play with other LGBTQIA+ Oklahomans from the safety of your home? OKEQ has a virtual gaming Facebook group! To join, please comment or message our page and you will be added to our private group. See you on the island! Join Our Group YOUTH VIRTUAL HANGOUTS Every Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Saturday on Zoom and always chatting on Discord. E- mail youth@okeq .org for information! ALPHABE,- SOUP OKEQ •■ L98--YQ+ Vt,uth Group • Contact Us KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION ,... Even though the Equality Center is closed, our clinic is still open to provide the healthcare services our community 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 17 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider ra 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 18 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... Need a hand, or know someone in need? Click Below to visit our page at www.OKEQ.org to view available local and national resources. Please let us know if you are aware of additional resources that we may share. Visit OKEQ Community Resources If your college or your child's school has moved to online learning, there are options for you to get access to the internet. Several internet and telephone service providers have promised to maintain connectivity and to expand internet access to lower-income households. Follow the link below to find out which companies are providing these services and how to access them. Above and Beyond Assist Wireless Research Study for Apps Marketed to Gay Men 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 19 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... Researchers at Oklahoma State University are recruiting gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men to discuss your experiences on social networking apps marketed for gay/ bi men. Individuals who complete the questionnaire can earn a $10 Amazon gift card. If you have questions, please feel free to contact Kristopher Struckmeyer ( struckm@okstate.edu ). Thank you for your consideration. We look forward to hearing from you. To see if you are eligible, please click the link below: Survey Screening LGBTQ+ PEOPLE, SEX, ANDCOV D-19 HAVE SEX WITH PEOPLE CLOSE TO YOU. You are your safest sex partner. Masturbation will not spread COVID-19, especially if you wash your hands (and any sex toys) with soap and water for at least 20 seconds before and after sex. • The next safest partner is someone you live with. 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SKIP SEX IF YOU OR YOUR PARTNER IS NOT FEELING WELL If you or a partner may have COVID-19, avoid sex and especially kissing. • If you start to feel unwell, you may be about to develop symptoms of COVID-19, which include fever, cough, sore throat or shortness of breath. • If you or your partner has a medical condition that can lead to more severe COVID-19, you may also want to skip sex. o Medical conditions include lung disease, heart disease, diabetes, cancer or a weakened immune system (for example, having unsuppressed HIV and a low CD4 count). WWW.OKEQ.ORG 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 21 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... "Love Pride? So do we! Love Oklahomans for Equality ? So do we! Boomtown has created a pride shelf and rainbow 918 tees. Proceeds will be donated to the OKEQ Center to help with their many amazing programs." Visit Boomtown Tees 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 22 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... ~///////////////4 ~----~ ~ ~ ~ ~ GROUP VIRTUAL PROGRAMMING ~ ~ ~//////////////~ Gender Support Group Virtual Programming Monday-Friday, 6:00 p.m. - 6:45 p.m. This is our Gender Support Outreach group now Virtual and Daily! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. The group will meet virtually via tele conference style. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group . Contact Us Trans Men's Virtual Social Group Saturday, 3:00 p.m. rt Join us every Saturday at 3:00 p.m. for an hour-long discussion. This space is meant - -- ■ 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 23 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... ~ for trans men and transmasculine people to discuss issues they face and to provide support. 1rans Men·s Social Group If you are interested in joining this weekly chat, please email alex.wade@okeq.org. Contact Us Lez Cook: Facebook Live Cooking Monday-Friday, 6:00 p.m. Looking to learn new tips and tricks in the kitchen while staying home? Join Morgan Allen as she cooks her way through her pantry to learn helpful tips on eating healthy, making food last, and how to jazz up otherwise boring meals! You can watch these videos live on the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Facebook Page, Monday through Friday at 6:00 p.m. The Dennis R. For the health safe and well-bein 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 24 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... In Regards to Tulsa Pride and the Equality Gala: Due to the current global healthcare crisis, the OkEq Board of Directors met and agreed that it is in our community’s best interests to cancel TULSA PRIDE 2020. In addition to the parade and festival, this also includes the Rainbow Run, MOREColor Art Show and the TULSA PRIDE Picnic. Our hearts are broken by this decision, because this celebratory experience brings our entire community It is with deep regret that I must announce that the Equality Gala 2020 will be postponed. Current events are changing hourly and, after advice and direction from local and state officials and following the guidelines of the CDC, the Board of Directors felt our only course of action for the health, safety and well being of our attendees and community is to postpone our 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 25 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... together; however, this decision was made to honor our community’s best interests. We also acknowledge our current vendors, sponsors and supporters that had already committed to supporting TULSA PRIDE 2020. We appreciate your partnership and support with OkEq and the Oklahoma LGBTQ+ community. We will be reaching out to you, directly, to make sure that this partnership continues, especially during these trying times. event. The Equality Gala is an important event for Oklahomans for Equality. This principle fundraiser for our organization raises over 50% of the funds needed to operate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, fund programming, services, the medical clinic, advocacy efforts, and other vital services. Christopher Brecht-Smith, Board President Oklahomans for Equality (pronouns: he/him/his) Let the spirit of pride carry you through! Oklahomans for Equality Watch on 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 26 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... Are you a person with an LGBT or related identity who has ever served in the US Armed Forces? We invite you to participate in a study focusing on your health behaviors and life experiences as a Veteran with a LGBT or related identity. The goal of the Health for Every Veteran study is to better understand the experiences of Veterans from all backgrounds and promote their health and well-being, including those with LGBT or related identities. We are especially interested in hearing the diverse voices within our communities. The study is being conducted by researchers at the VA Puget Sound Health Care System. It consists of completing a confidential, web-based questionnaire every 9 months for approximately 2 years (for a total of 4 questionnaires). All research activities are completed online, with no in-person visits required. For more information please click below. SURVEY ■ For informalion that leads to the Arrest and conuiclion of the Person or Persons Responsible for the murder 01 Dustin Parker An lan ■■ Glfll 1 ')ft')A Glfn ■■ nd e.'JA All n ■■ ...-tin n........ 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 27 of 35 u11 1a11ua1 • https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... 1, £U£U a1 uu11u u;ou Nm, uu-,1111 .-a, n1,1 was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' Anvone whh Information is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the OSBI bV Calling the Agencv's TIP line at 1-8 D-522-8017 orbvEmamng u @ . l McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. The Transgender Flag continues to fly at half staff in memory of Dustin Parker. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 28 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... November 2020 is around the corner, and we are teaming up with Tulsa's Young Professionals and 918 VOTE to make sure that everyone is registered and ready to VOTE! WANT TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN YOUR COMMUNITY? JOIN 918 Vote and TYPROS as we gear up into the 2020 election year with our voter engagement campaign! If you want to join a committee, please click the link provided below. Let your voice be heard! Every vote counts! Join us and make a positive impact in 2020! LET YOUR VOICE BE HEARD Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 29 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. COVID-19 Canceled: Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGALAID th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, April 9, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Alphabet Soup Youth Group Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 30 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Free Yoga Class at OkEq Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Intersex, and Asexual supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Fitness Class at OkEq Tuesdays 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Christopher Gomez's Workout program is designed with science to help individuals meet their fitness goals in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming environment. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 31 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... Sos Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 32 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... SV~~e Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group (Therapy Experienced Anew) AOV~Cacy~ Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. SAGE Tulsa The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ARTS AND CRAFTS: ;~~. AT THE DENNIS R NEILL EQUALITY CENHR Arts and Crafts Night Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Three Souls Every 2nd Monday Join us for our monthly Heart Circle at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We meet on the second Sunday of every month. All queer men are welcome to the circle (gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual and queer). On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 33 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 34 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Tracy Allen Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits Special Projects Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon 4/24/26, 5:41 PM �Join the Reading Rainbow Book Club 35 of 35 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-the-Reading-Rainbow-Book-... Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Bob Hanson Marcia Keesee Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:41 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/faf1a90445ec5be033212f7d88ed62ae.pdf a7a3ecba44b779b5be98051fda7d13d7 PDF Text Text It's PRIDE WEEK! 1 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 4th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! F ~ PafR.Oll Rental Properfy Bookkeeping 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 2 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com FeLAtur-i.V\,g Tvt Lbodea u}(: Tvte TIA}( Tvter-a-prj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Happy Pride Week from the Staff of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 3 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... Pride Parade Broadcast this Saturday on Social Media at 12 noon At 12 noon on Saturday, June 6th, 2020, Oklahomans for Equality will be broadcasting our past Pride Parade via Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and YouTube. We encourage you to tune in while you celebrate Pride in your own way. Fox23 will broadcast last year's Pride Parade later this 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 4 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... month. This is the first time for Oklahoma to broadcast an LGBTQ+ Pride Parade. Once we have the broadcast date for FOX23 we will share that information. Thank you for your patience and participation. Happy Pride Month!! Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 5 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... Pride on Your Street Its time for PRIDE to take over Green Country! We may be separated right now, but the spirit of Pride brings us together every June. This year, Oklahomans for Equality and Tulsa Pride invite you to your backyard for Tulsa Pride Inside! Tulsa Pride Inside is where Pride Street comes to YOUR street. Join us by decorating your house, apartment, yard, car, or business with PRIDE with a chance to win a gift basket from our fabulous Equality Business Alliance Members. Tulsa Pride Queen Kitty Marie Legacy and King Blaze Khrystian will be our judges alongside Tulsa Pride Emeritus Scrappy Legacy and Anita Richards. It costs $5 to enter, and winners will be announced at 6:00 p.m Saturday, June 6th, 2020. Click Here to Enter 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 6 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... #tulsa pride inside ~Vo ,natter where we are, we alwavs have PRIJJL Send us-a pie of how vou ory ou and y our fan11/jJ are celebrating so we alwavs renie111ber this 111onienl of JJIUJJE. #TULSAPRIDEINSIDE Photos! June 1-30th Show us your Pride, Tulsa! We want to make sure we are documenting this historic moment in history where we came together while apart. Send a picture of you, your family (chosen family too!), your pets, or whoever you celebrate Pride with to Morgan Allen at the link below or share your picture with the hashtag #tulsaprideinside and tag Oklahomans for Equality so we can preserve our history! Tulsa PRIDE inside will go on throughout the month of June. Submit Photos Here create, construct, ~raft_ 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 7 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... ~ ---- ..,._ ----- '--, with PRIDE. Youth are encouraged to partcipate in our first ever crafting competition for PRIDE! Prizes will be awarded in different age categories! CREATE, CONSTRUCT, CRAFT, WITH PRIDE YOUTH COMPETITION JUNE 1-30th For the first time in Tulsa Pride history, we are inviting young people ages 4-19 to bake, construct, craft, and create art to show us what Pride means to them! Children and youth are encouraged to get creative with items from around the house and work as a family to create something amazing! The competition is free to enter, and there will be prizes for winners in each age category. Submissions will be judged based on age group, and winners will be announced on Tuesday, June 30th. Click Here to Enter GET YOUR PRIDE HERE! The Pride Store is fully stocked with flags, stickers, buttons, and all sorts of other great merchandise to help you show your Pride! Support your community and shop local! We are currently offering Curb Side pickup or we can drop ship by 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 8 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... mail for $5 allowing 10 days for shipping. Message us at the link below if you need assistance with purchasing. Link to PRIDE Store Tulsa Pride Street T-Shirt are in! We are excited to introduce our Tulsa Pride Street T-Shirt Commemorating this years Pride. We have these available in our Pride Store. Available for only 20.00. We are currently offering Curb Side pickup or we can drop ship by mail for $5 allowing 10 days for shipping. 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 9 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... Click Here to Order BLACK LIVES MATTER! Oklahomans for Equality condemns police brutality and racism in all of its forms. We call on our membership and constituents to speak out and work for justice for the countless deaths of black people at the hands of law enforcement. Once again, these accounts of murderous actions grab the headlines, and elected officials and government leaders promise to change and reform. We must hold our officials and law enforcement accountable, and we must work for justice to be served! To see the rest of the pictures, click below to go to our website. We Will Notarize Your Ballot! 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 10 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... We are excited to announce that we have a notary that can notarize your absentee ballot. If you would like to schedule to have your ballot notarized please contact us below: Contact Us Voter Registration Deadline June 5th is the last day to apply for Voter Registration for the June 30th election. Early voting for the June 30th election will be Thursday, June 25th and Friday, June 26th from 8 am - 6 pm and Saturday, June 27th from 9 am- 2 pm. at the following locations: Tulsa County Election Board 555 North Denver Ave. Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93rd St Tulsa, OK 74133 Register to Vote Here 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 11 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... ■■ I ■ ■ ■ ■ ■ ■ ■ ■ ■■■ I ■■■ I ■ ■ I Last year, the U.S. Supreme Court heard three cases that could either take away existing LGBTQ+ employment protections, or affirm that existing federal law does protect LGBTQ+ people. So we’re inviting you to join us on #DecisionDay** for both our Virtual National Rally, followed by our Virtual Town Hall. More information to follow. MOMS=DEMAND ACTION FOR GUN SENSE IN AMERICA Wear Orange 2020 June 5 Since our inception after the Sandy Hook Elementary mass shooting, Moms Demand Action has mobilized mothers across the country to become the largest grassroots movement working to reduce gun violence. Moms Demand Action is a program of Everytown for Gun 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 12 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... Safety, the largest gun violence prevention advocacy organization in the country, with more than 4.5 million grassroots supporters. For more information on joining, volunteering, finding a local chapter, or donating, please go to momsdemandaction.org. We can be found on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/MomsDemandAction and on Twitter at @momsdemand. RSVP lndigiqueer INDIGIQUEER IS FOR ALL IDENTIFYING LGBTQ2S+ NATIVE AND INDIGENOUS PEOPLE. Cultural Events, Conversations, Celebrations &Friends Oklahomans for Equality 621 E4th St, Tulsa, OK CONTACT KAO FOR MORE INFORMATION 918.904.1869 / KAO. ORRIS@OKEQORG oklahomans for equalfty IndigiQueer Friday June 12, at 5:00 p.m. IndigiQueer will meet via Zoom on June 12th at 5 pm. Hosted by Christian Fencer and Kao Morris. This is a space exclusively for queer-identifying indigenous people, two-spirit people, and LGBTQ+ Native Americans. The groups goal is to create a space for indigenous queer persons to come together, celebrate, communicate, and create friendships. Christian is a member of NOISE (Northeast Oklahoma Indigenous Safety & Education) and Kao is on staff here at OKEQ. Email Kao Morris below for link information. Contact for Zoom Information 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 13 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... Empowered Voices If you are 16-24 years old, have lived experience in substance use disorder, child welfare/foster systems, juvenile justice system or are interested in mental health, and would like to learn more about sharing your voice, to help change your community, join us! Zoom Video Call June 18, 2020 4:30- 5:30 pm To sign up and receive the meeting ID and passcode email: lspeight@m haok.org A Chance to Let YOUR VOICE Be Heard *ALL meet ing pa rticipants w ill receive a free g ift card * Click Here to Register Queer the Census 2020 The Census starts this year on April 1st! Every individual not v Your ln , eriocra~y? 20C 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 14 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Census Information Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline National Domestic Violence Hotline 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 15 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost Eric Creason November 8, 1973 - May 20, 2020 Lost to Covid-19 Eric's Obituary John Sawyer March 21, - May 10, 2020 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 16 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... Services to be announced John's Obituary SAGE CARES Our SAGE Tulsa members are one of the most at-risk age groups during this pandemic. Oklahomans for Equality has been working to get necessary supplies to our Sage Members. We want to thank Penny Fruth who made masks for those living with HIV/AIDS and LGBTQ older adults. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. SAGE Group Call Daily Monday - Friday at 2:00 p.m. Monday - Friday at 2:00 p.m. our SAGE elders (those over 60) are invited to participate in virtual programming by calling in to the SAGE Group Call. To join, call (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60# Contact Us 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 17 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... YOUTH VIRTUAL HANGOUTS Every Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Saturday on Zoom and always chatt ing on Di scord. E- mail youth@okeq.org for information! ALPHA8£"1" SOUP OKEQ "■ L89--YQ+ Vt,uth Group • Contact Us Reading Rainbow Book Club Oklahomans for Equality invites you to join our virtual book club, Reading Rainbow Book Club, hosted by Donovid Sekulits. We will be reading books in the public domain, which means they can be accessed online for free. For our first book, we have selected Emma by Jane 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 18 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... Austen. Emma is a literary classic that we hope you enjoy. We plan to cover five chapters of Emma every Thursday for 60 - 90 minutes. We have officially started The Rainbow Book Club and it’s a hit! We are happy to have more people join us. However, you will have to catch up in order to not get lost. If you are still interested please email me as soon as possible. Contact Donovid Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Contact Us 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 19 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... Love playing Animal Crossing on your Switch, DS, or iPhone? Want to play with other LGBTQIA+ Oklahomans from the safety of your home? OKEQ has a virtual gaming Facebook group! To join, please comment or message our page and you will be added to our private group. See you on the island! Join Our Group KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THEGEOAGEK.t,ISEA FAMILY FOUNDATION Even though the Equality Center is closed, our clinic is still open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Eaualitv 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 20 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... ■ • Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Gender Support Group Virtual Programming Monday-Friday, 6:00 p.m. - 6:45 p.m. 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 21 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... This is our Gender Support Outreach group now Virtual and Daily! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. The group will meet virtually via tele conference style. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group . Contact Us Trans Men's Virtual Social Group fl Saturday, 3:00 p.m. WILL NOT BE MEETING JUNE 6TH Join us every Saturday at 3:00 p.m. to discuss issues related to transitioning as a trans man or transmasculine person. Trans Men's Social Group Alex Wade, our Medical Services Coordinator, will be facilitating this support group. If you would like to join this online group, please email Alex at alex.wade@okeq.org - - - - - or call 918-938-6537. Contact Us The Dennis R. Neill Eq~ality Center is closed teniporarily. m center@okeq.org For the health, safety and well-being of our constituents and the greater Tulsa community, we are temporarily closing our doors to the public effective March 25, 2020 until further notice. We feel that the best way to serve you in light of Covid-19 is to closely follow the guidelines set by the Centers for Disease Control and our state and health officials. All of our virtual ro rammin 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 22 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... For intormation that leads to the Arrest and conuiclion ot the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' Anvone with Information Is asked to contact the McAlester Pollce Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the DSBI bV Calling the Agency's Tip line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emailing d s OS I. k. 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 23 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. The Transgender Flag continues to fly at half staff in memory of Dustin Parker. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. COVID-19 Canceled: Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID t £Z) SERVICES OF = OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 24 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Thursday, June 11, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Alphabet Soup Youth Group Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 25 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Fitness Class at OkEq Tuesdays 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Christopher Gomez's Workout program is designed with science to help individuals meet their fitness goals in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming environment. It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 26 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... Support Group Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org sao-e ~~~~:~~t ~~ LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ARTS AND CRAFTS N: i ' AT THE DENNIS R NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Partners of Arts and Crafts Night This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 27 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. viree Sov\!s Three Souls Every 2nd Monday Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Join us for our monthly Heart Circle at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We meet on the second Sunday of every month. All queer men are welcome to the circle (gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual and queer). Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. and community. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 28 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Tracy Allen Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 29 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org KAISl!R MEDICAl ~!!!'~ODH ::.~.:~i::.: Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits Special Projects Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Bob Hanson Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy 4/28/26, 10:45 AM �It's PRIDE WEEK! 30 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/It-s-PRIDE-WEEK-.html?soid=1... Marcia Keesee Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 10:45 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1961d96f9dbe5f7a86c87132bf771c90.pdf c4c1d7cf1f7207fa4cb3dd89cc2862be PDF Text Text TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 1 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 9th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! F ~ PafR.Oll Rental Properfy Bookkeeping 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 2 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com FeLAtur-i.V\,g Tvt Lbodea u}(: Tvte TIA}( Tvter-a-prj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Historic Broadcast!!!! Tulsa Pride Parade On FOX 23 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 3 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... This Saturday, June 13th, at 12:30 p.m. the Tulsa Pride Parade will be broadcast on FOX23. This will be the very first time an LGBTQ+ PRIDE PARADE has been broadcast on a local television station in Oklahoma. The program is an edited, pre-recorded version of last year's pride parade which commemorated the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots. The video will remain up on our YouTube channel if you are not able to watch the broadcast. 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 4 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on Congratulations to the winners of Pride On Your Street Announcing the first place winners of the 2020 Tulsa Pride On Your Street. 1st Place Winner for Pride Household: The Allen Lawrence Family! 1st Place Winner for Community Spirit Jen Sanders' 22nd Place Neighborhood! 1st Place Winner for Pride Business The Starbucks on Lynn Lane in Broken Arrow! Amazing entries, so much PRIDE all over Green County. 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 5 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... #tulsa pride inside N o 111alter where we are, HJe always have PRIJJ£. Sencl us a pie of' how vou ory ou and y our fa11111y are celebrating so we always re111e111/Jer Otis ,nomenl of' PRJJJJ:,'. #TULSAPRIDEINSIDE Photos! June 1-30th Show us your Pride, Tulsa! We want to make sure we are documenting this historic moment in history where we came together while apart. Send a picture of you, your family (chosen family too!), your pets, or whoever you celebrate Pride with to Morgan Allen at the link below or share your picture with the hashtag #tulsaprideinside and tag Oklahomans for Equality so we can preserve our history! Tulsa PRIDE inside will go on throughout the month of June. Submit Photos Here create, 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 6 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... construct, craft, with PRIDE. Youth are encouraged to partcipate in our first ever crafting competition for PRIDE! Prizes will be awarded in different age categories! CREATE, CONSTRUCT, CRAFT, WITH PRIDE YOUTH COMPETITION JUNE 1-30th For the first time in Tulsa Pride history, we are inviting young people ages 4-19 to bake, construct, craft, and create art to show us what Pride means to them! Children and youth are encouraged to get creative with items from around the house and work as a family to create something amazing! The competition is free to enter, and there will be prizes for winners in each age category. Submissions will be judged based on age group, and winners will be announced on Tuesday, June 30th. Click Here to Enter 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 7 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... GET YOUR PRIDE HERE! The Pride Store is fully stocked with flags, stickers, buttons, and all sorts of other great merchandise to help you show your Pride! Support your community and shop local! We are currently offering Curb Side pickup or we can drop ship by mail for $5 allowing 10 days for shipping. Message us at the link below if you need assistance with purchasing. PRIDE Store Tulsa Pride Street T-Shirt are in! We are excited to introduce our Tulsa Pride Street T-Shirt Commemorating this years Pride. We have these available in our Pride Store. Available for only 20.00. We are currently offering Curb Side pickup or we can drop ship by mail for $5 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 8 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... allowing 10 days for shipping. Click Here to Order HAPPY PRIDE MONT H!!! from the Staff of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 9 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... BLACK LIVES MATTER! Oklahomans for Equality condemns police brutality and racism in all of its forms. We call on our membership and constituents to speak out and work for justice for the countless deaths of black people at the hands of law enforcement. Once again, these accounts of murderous actions grab the headlines, and elected officials and government leaders promise to change and reform. We must hold our officials and law enforcement accountable, and we must work for justice to be served! To see the rest of the pictures, click below to go to our website. 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 10 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 11 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... 2020 OkEq Board Elections Oklahomans for Equality (“OkEq”) is accepting applications for both the Board of Directors and the Board of Advisors. The Board of Directors serves as the governing body of OkEq and meets monthly to address the essential functions of the organization and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Advisors serves as an advisory body to the Directors at these meetings and throughout the year. In addition to monthly meetings (and meeting on an as-needed basis certain times throughout the year), the Board of Directors are required to: • Participate and sponsor the Equality Gala • Participate and volunteer at the Tulsa Pride Festival • Participate and attend various special events throughout the year • Be a Member of Oklahomans for Equality We are looking for driven individuals motivated and committed to the mission and goals of OkEq. Please keep in mind that Directors serve a two-year term, and Advisors serve a one-year term. If you are interested in serving as either a Director or Advisor to the organization, please notify Alex Wade below. An application will be sent to you directly. Contact Us We Will Notarize Your Ballot! We are excited to announce that we have a notary that can notarize your absentee ballot. If you would like to schedule to have your ballot notarized please contact us below: Contact Us 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 12 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... Voter Registration Deadline Early voting for the June 30th election will be Thursday, June 25th and Friday, June 26th from 8:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. and Saturday, June 27th from 9:00 a.m. 2:00 p.m. at the following locations: Tulsa County Election Board 555 North Denver Ave. Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93rd St Tulsa, OK 74133 Reading Rainbow Book Club Rainbow Book club welcomes everyone who would like to participate. Currently we meet for 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 13 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... one hour, twice a month virtually via Zoom. The only thing we we ask is that you are kind and respectful and keep the discussion related to the book. 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Last year, the U.S. Supreme Court heard three cases that could either take away existing LGBTQ+ employment protections, or affirm that existing federal law does protect LGBTQ+ people. So we’re inviting you to join us on #DecisionDay** for both our Virtual National Rally, followed by our Virtual Town Hall. More information to follow. digi er INDIGIQUEER IS FOR ALL IDENTIFYING LGBTQ2S+ NATIVE AND INDIGENOUS PEOPLE. Cultural Events, Conversations, Celebrations &Friends Oklahomans for Equality 621 E4th St, Tulsa, OK CONTACT KAO FOR MORE INFORMATION 918.904.1869 / KAO. ORRIS@OKEQ.ORG oklahomans for equality IndigiQueer Friday June 12, at 5:00 p.m. IndigiQueer will meet via Zoom on June 12th at 5 pm. Hosted by Christian Fencer and Kao Morris. This is a space exclusively for queer-identifying indigenous people, two-spirit people, and LGBTQ+ Native Americans. The groups goal is to create a space for indigenous queer persons to come together, celebrate, communicate, and create friendships. Christian is a member of NOISE (Northeast Oklahoma Indigenous Safety & Education) and Kao is on staff here at OKEQ. Email Kao Morris below for link information. Contact for Zoom Information 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 15 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... Empowered Voices If you are 16-24 years old, have lived experience in substance use disorder, child welfare/foster systems, juvenile justice system or are interested in mental health, and would like to learn more about sharing your voice, to help change your community, join us! Zoom Video Call June 18, 2020 4:30- 5:30 pm To sign up and receive the meeting ID and passcode email: lspeight@mhaok.org A Chance to Let YOUR VOICE Be Heard *ALL meet ing pa rt icipants w ill receive a free g ift card * Click Here to Register Queer the Census 2020 V Your ln , emocra.,y? 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 16 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Census Information Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 17 of 33 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost Eric Creason November 8, 1973 - May 20, 2020 Lost to Covid-19 Eric's Obituary John Sawyer 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 18 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... March 21, - May 10, 2020 Services to be announced John's Obituary SAGE CARES Our SAGE Tulsa members are one of the most at-risk age groups during this pandemic. Oklahomans for Equality has been working to get necessary supplies to our Sage Members. We want to thank Penny Fruth who made masks for those living with HIV/AIDS and LGBTQ older adults. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. SAGE Group Call Daily Monday - Friday at 2:00 p.m. Monday - Friday at 2:00 p.m. our SAGE elders (those over 60) are invited to participate in virtual programming by calling in to the SAGE Group Call. To join, call (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60# 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 19 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... Contact Us YOUTH VIRTUAL HANGOUTS Every Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Saturday on Zoom and always chatting on Discord. E-mail youth@okeq .org for information! AL-PHAIJET SOUP OKl:Q·a LGfn'O+ Youth Group • Contact Us Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 20 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... 2nd and 4th Mondays 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Contact Us Love playing Animal Crossing on your Switch, DS, or iPhone? Want to play with other LGBTQIA+ Oklahomans from the safety of your home? OKEQ has a virtual gaming Facebook group! To join, please comment or message our page and you will be added to our private group. See you on the island! Join Our Group KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY •--- Even though the Equality Center is closed, our clinic is still open to provide the healthcare 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 21 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... .,, . ..,. u,.,.,...,. ,.,.,11 services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. FAMILY l'OUNDATION ' If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider ~//////////////~ ~ ~ 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 22 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... ~-----~ ~ ~ ~ GENDERSUPPORT GROUP VIRTUAL PROGRAMMING ~ ~ ~ ~----~ i//////////////1 Gender Support Group Virtual Programming Monday-Friday, 6:00 p.m. - 6:45 p.m. This is our Gender Support Outreach group now Virtual and Daily! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. The group will meet virtually via tele conference style. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group . Contact Us Trans Men's Virtual Social Group Saturday, 3:00 p.m. Join us every Saturday at 3:00 p.m. to discuss issues related to transitioning as a trans man or transmasculine person. Alex Wade, our Medical Services Coordinator, will be facilitating this support group. Trans Men's Social Group If you would like to join this online group, please email Alex at alex.wade@okeq.org - - or call 918-938-6537. 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 23 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... Contact Us For 1n1ormat1on that leads to the Arrest and conu1c11on 01 the Person or Persons Doennneihlo ln11 tho M1111llo11 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 24 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... lllidPUIIIJIUlli IUI lllli IIIUI Ulil 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' Anvone wtth lnfonnatlon Is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI bv Calling the Agencv·s TIP Line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng u s b . k. V McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. The Transgender Flag continues to fly at half staff in memory of Dustin Parker. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 25 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of the West Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �:i ► · Jt •':' . : .J Ill I\ 1-Z .,c,111 i!::m - - ' 1>IIIU ,, supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under Sara Griffey ,. _si- o • The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. .%1!!- OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. p:- ~ 26 of 33 4/28/26, 10:47 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 .·. . :; . .., ,I �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 27 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... seeking services. COVID-19 Canceled: Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID t&. SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, June 11, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Alphabet Soup Youth Group Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are A social organization for mature minded Gay and 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 28 of 33 are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Fitness Class at OkEq Tuesdays 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Christopher Gomez's Workout program is designed with science to help individuals meet their fitness goals in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming environment. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Sos Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 29 of 33 like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 30 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Facilitated by John Madigan narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. ARTS AND CRAFTS: ;~~ • AT TH£ OENNIS R NE!Ll EQUALITY CENTER Arts and Crafts Night Three Souls Every 2nd Monday Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Join us for our monthly Heart Circle at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We meet on the second Sunday of every month. All queer men are welcome to the circle (gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual and queer). On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. and community. 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 31 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Krissy Dudley 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 32 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... Tracy Allen Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org KAISER MEDICAL ~f~o~ Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits Special Projects Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan 4/28/26, 10:47 AM �TULSA PRIDE PARADE ON FOX 23 33 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/TULSA-PRIDE-PARADE-ON-... Bob Hanson Marcia Keesee Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 10:47 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0c8735a921b21df25e62135a94bc402a.pdf 08d199d8e6d021182d842710d5b2357f PDF Text Text The Equality Center is Open! 1 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 17th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! F ~ PafR.Oll Rental Properfy Bookkeeping 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 2 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com FeLAtur-i.V\,g Tvt Lbodea u}(: Tvte TIA}( Tvter-a-prj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. ' I ; I ; ' ' I I I ; \ ' - I ; \ ' ' ; ; I ' I ; I ' I I ; I \ JUNETEENTH JUNE 19, 1865 ' I ; I ; ' I ' I ; \ ' - ; I ; \ ' ; ' \ I ' - ; I ' I ' I I ' ' I ~ I I ' 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 3 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will recognize “ Juneteenth” June 19th as a national holiday. The Equality Center will operate like it does on every other national holiday and be open for a half day. We stand in solidarity with the Black community by recognizing the racial injustice and inequity that is still transpiring in our country every day and encourage all of our community partners to recognize this symbolic day that commemorates the end of slavery in the United States. DKEQ CORDNDVIRUS GUIDELINES: 1. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 2. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 3. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. 4. IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING FEVER, SHORTNESS OF BREATH, COUGHING, OR ANY OTHER SYMPTOM LISTED BY THE CDC, PLEASE REMAIN AT HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 4 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... ■■■■■■■■■■■■■■■ ••••••••••••••• ••••••••••••••• ••••••••••••••• ••••••••••••••• ••••••••••••••• ••••••••••••••• ••••••••••••••• ••••••••••••••• ••••••••••••••• ••••••••••••••• ••••••••••••••• ••••••••••••••• ••••••••••••••• ••••••••••••••• ••••••••••••••• ••••••••••••••• ••••••••••••••• ••••••••••••••• ••••••••••••••• \ •••••••••••••• •••••••••••• ••••••••••••• ••••••••••••• ••••••••••••• ••••••••••••• ••••••••••••• ••••••••••••• ••••••••••••• ••••••••••••• ••••••••••••• ••••••••••••• ••••••••••••• ••••••••••••• ••••••••••••• ••••••••••••• ••••••••••••• IH!!!!lll••••l•I!!! ............. Decision Made! Oklahomans for Equality applauds the U.S. Supreme Court. Gender identity and sexual orientation are now protected classes under Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964. With this ruling, gender identity and sexual orientation are protected under federal employment law. This decision is a monumental win for our community! There is still work to be done for our LGBTQ+ community. We once again have to fight for healthcare protections. We will continue to fight for housing protections. In Oklahoma we must have public accommodations protection so that no should experience discrimination when walking into a place of business. We must have hate crimes protection in Oklahoma. Also we acknowledge the struggle of the 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 5 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... black community right now. We will continue to support their fight for a more equitable society. Click to Watch Decision Day National Virtual Rally Gender Support Group Starts back Wednesday, June 24 at 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 6 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Our Gender support Group is coming back Live and in person Wednesday June 17th! We will continue to offer a virtual version for anyone who needs access. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group . Contact Us We Will Notarize Your Ballot! We are excited to announce that we have a notary that can notarize your absentee ballot. If you would like to schedule to have your ballot notarized please contact us below: Contact Us VOTE 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 7 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... Early Voting Begins June 25th Early voting for the June 30th election will be Thursday, June 25th and Friday, June 26th from 8:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. and Saturday, June 27th from 9:00 a.m. 2:00 p.m. at the following location: Tulsa County Election Board 555 North Denver Ave. Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Trump Denies LGBTQ+ People Health Care Protections In the midst of a global health pandemic, the Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) finalized devastating changes to the Health Care Rights Law, also known as Section 1557 of the Affordable Care Act (ACA). The changes remove anti-discrimination protections in health care for LGBTQ+ people, women, people with limited English proficiency, people with disabilities, and more. The removal of these protections encourages health care workers, medical facilities, and health insurance companies that receive federal funding to refuse to provide health care services to the LGBTQ+ community, among others. Everyone should be able to see a doctor without worrying about being mistreated or denied service outright. LGBTQ+ people already face disturbing rates of health 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 8 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... care discrimination—from harassment and humiliation by providers to being turned away by hospitals, pharmacists, and doctors. As the nation battles the COVID-19 pandemic, there could not be a more disgraceful time to allow the denial of medical care based on who you are. It is this fear of discrimination that Oklahomans for Equality launched the Equality Health Alliance. Now more than ever, we need LGBTQ+ friendly healthcare providers to support the community and say that their practice is safe and affirming. Click below to join the Equality Health Alliance or to find a friendly healthcare provider. Visit Equality Health Alliance #tulsa pride inside ~Vo ,natter where we are, we alwavs have PRJDL Sencl us-a pie of lww JJOLL or JJOLL and JJour f amity are celebrating so we alwavs re1ne111ber this 111onienl of PlUDE. #TULSAPRIDEINSIDE Photos! June 1-30th Show us your Pride, Tulsa! We want to make sure we are documenting this historic moment in history where we came together while apart. Send a picture of you, your family (chosen family too!), your pets, or whoever you celebrate Pride with to Morgan Allen at the link below or share your picture with the hashtag #tulsaprideinside and tag Oklahomans for Equality so we can preserve our history! Tulsa PRIDE inside will go on throughout the month of June. Submit Photos Here 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 9 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... create, construct, craft, with PRIDE. Youth are encouraged to partcipate in our first ever crafting competition for PRIDE! Prizes will be awarded in different age categories! CREATE, CONSTRUCT, CRAFT, WITH PRIDE YOUTH COMPETITION JUNE 1-30th For the first time in Tulsa Pride history, we are inviting young people ages 4-19 to bake, construct, craft, and create art to show us what Pride means to them! Children and youth are encouraged to get creative with items from around the house and work as a family to create something amazing! The competition is free to enter, and there will be prizes for winners in each age category. Submissions will be judged based on age group, and winners will be announced on Tuesday, June 30th. Click Here to Enter 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 10 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... GET YOUR PRIDE HERE! The Pride Store is fully stocked with flags, stickers, buttons, and all sorts of other great merchandise to help you show your Pride! Support your community and shop local! We are currently offering Curb Side pickup or we can drop ship by mail for $5 allowing 10 days for shipping. Message us at the link below if you need assistance with purchasing. PRIDE Store Tulsa Pride Street T-Shirt are in! We are excited to introduce our Tulsa Pride Street T-Shirt Commemorating this years Pride. We have these available in our Pride Store. Available for only 20.00. 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 11 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... We are currently offering Curb Side pickup or we can drop ship by mail for $5 allowing 10 days for shipping. Click Here to Order HAPPY PRIDE MONT H!!! from the Staff of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 12 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... BLACK LIVES MATTER! Oklahomans for Equality condemns police brutality and racism in all of its forms. We call on our membership and constituents to speak out and work for justice for the countless deaths of black people at the hands of law enforcement. Once again, these accounts of murderous actions grab the headlines, and elected officials and government leaders promise to change and reform. We must hold our officials and law enforcement accountable, and we must work for justice to be served! To see the rest of the pictures, click below to go to our website. 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 13 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 14 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... 2020 OkEq Board Elections Oklahomans for Equality (“OkEq”) is accepting applications for both the Board of Directors and the Board of Advisors. The Board of Directors serves as the governing body of OkEq and meets monthly to address the essential functions of the organization and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Advisors serves as an advisory body to the Directors at these meetings and throughout the year. In addition to monthly meetings (and meeting on an as-needed basis certain times throughout the year), the Board of Directors are required to: • Participate and sponsor the Equality Gala • Participate and volunteer at the Tulsa Pride Festival • Participate and attend various special events throughout the year • Be a Member of Oklahomans for Equality We are looking for driven individuals motivated and committed to the mission and goals of OkEq. Please keep in mind that Directors serve a two-year term, and Advisors serve a one-year term. If you are interested in serving as either a Director or Advisor to the organization, please notify Alex Wade below. An application will be sent to you directly. Contact Us 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 15 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... Visit Tahlequality --- -- alt .,_ ...... ., ..... Reading Rainbow Book Club 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 16 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... Rainbow Book club welcomes everyone who would like to participate. Currently we meet for one hour, twice a month virtually via Zoom. The only thing we we ask is that you are kind and respectful and keep the discussion related to the book. We will discuss and answer critical questions about the current book we reading. This month we are continuing Emma by Jane Austen. The next two dates and chapters that will be discussed are below. The zoom link will be provided once you have reached out. For any questions or concerns please email Donovid at the link below. June 25th at 3pm (Chapters 21-30) Contact Donovid Sign Up via Fcebook SAGE CARES SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 17 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... Resumed SAGE Tulsa has resumed their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:30 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. SAGE Group Call Tuesday If you are not ready to join the in-person meeting, you can call in Tuesday at 10:30 a.m.. To join, call (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60# Contact Us Empowered Voices If you are 16-24 years old, have lived experience in substance use disorder, child welfare/foster systems, juvenile justice system or are interested in mental health, and would like to learn more about sharing your voice, to help change your community, join us! Zoom Video Call June 18, 2020 4:30- 5:30 pm TA cinn J 1n '.:lnrl rarai\/a tho maatinn L[\ '.:lnrl 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 18 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... I V ;;,r 5 1 r 1,..11-' O IJl.,.J I 'l;"\..'l;" I V t;" I.Il l:;" I l l 'l;"'l;"\.1 115 ru O l l V passcode emai l: lspeight@mhaok.org A Chance to Let YOUR VOICE Be Heard * ALL meeting participants w ill receive a free g ift card * Click Here to Register Queer the Census 2020 Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Census Information 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 19 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 20 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... Eric Creason November 8, 1973 - May 20, 2020 Lost to Covid-19 Eric's Obituary John Sawyer March 21, - May 10, 2020 Services to be announced John's Obituary YOUTH VIRTUAL HANGOUTS ALPHA8~ SOUP OKE.Q•a LG.,,.Q+ Youth Group Every Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Saturday on Zoom and always chatting on Discord. E- mail youth@okeq.org for information! 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 21 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... Contact Us Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Contact Us Even though the Equality Center is closed, our KAISER MEDICAL CLINI~ 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 22 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... clinic is still open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. SPONSORED 9Y THEGEDRGEltAISER FAMILY FDUNDATIDN ' If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Trans Men's Virtual Social Group 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 23 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... Saturday, 3:00 p.m. Join us every Saturday at 3:00 p.m. to discuss issues related to transitioning as a trans man or transmasculine person. Trans Men's Social Group Alex Wade, our Medical Services Coordinator, will be facilitating this support group. If you would like to join this online group, please email Alex at alex.wade@okeq.org - - - - - or call 918-938-6537. Contact Us For lntormauon that leads to the Arrest and conu1ct1on 01 the Person or Persons Responslhle tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' Anvone wtth lnfonnatlon Is asked to contact the McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI 11V Calling the Agency's TIP line at 1-800-522-8017 "' hu l:m11lllnn H " ll'i\ " I ftlr 11 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 24 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. The Transgender Flag continues to fly at half staff in memory of Dustin Parker. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of the West Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 25 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 26 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. COVID-19 Canceled: Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, June 11, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 27 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Alphabet Soup Youth Group your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Fitness Class at OkEq opportunities. Alphabet Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 It's Complicated Tuesdays 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Christopher Gomez's Workout program is designed with science to help individuals meet their fitness goals in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group Intimate 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 28 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... environment. l :::::, ~ Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Gender Support Program meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org ---The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 29 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - . SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org sa(Te ~~~~:~~! ~, LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan viree Sovtls .------..,..,...~ Three Souls Every 2nd Monday Join us for our monthly Heart Circle at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We meet on the second Sunday of every month. All queer men are welcome to the circle (gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual and queer). Arts and Crafts Night krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - . Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Equality Game Night 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 30 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, Wednesday ideas, contacts, products and services, and also 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 31 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Tracy Allen Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org KAISER MEDICA~ ~!:~~~ED ■Y:,·N Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner Donovid Sekulits Special Projects 4/28/26, 10:48 AM �The Equality Center is Open! 32 of 33 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Equality-Center-is-Open-.htm... OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Bob Hanson Marcia Keesee Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 23rd, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! F ~ PafR.Oll Rental Properfy Bookkeeping 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 2 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com FeLAtur-i.V\,g Tvt Lbodea u}(: Tvte TIA}( Tvter-a-prj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. QUEER. BLIICK. TULSIIN. 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 3 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... THE (IUEEB BLACK EXPERIENCE: A COM U ITV CONVERSATION FOR TULSA JUNE 24 @7P The Queer Black Experience: A Community Conversation for Tulsa Wednesday, June 24, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 8:30 p.m. Online Event Since the beginning of the LGBTQ rights movement, racism has always been prevalent in our community. And 51 years after the Stonewall Riots, it still continues to divide Queer Black and White people, Although we both experience queer oppression, Queer White people still benefit from the system of white privilege and have more access to representation, rights, and benefits than we do. As Queer Black people we often face the unique disadvantage of experiencing hate and discrimination for both of our identities. We are a part of two communities that don’t fully accept us, so we have to fight every day to belong in a world that doesn't understand who we are. The intersection of race and sexuality that we have creates even more challenges for us; like economic insecurity, health inequity, violence and harassment, religious intolerance, and criminal justice. Join us as we discuss these topics with Allies and Queer Black Tulsans, creating a more inclusive and equitable city and state for our community. Now is the time for us to come together to hear the voices that are not being heard and represented, by sharing our stories and experiences. 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 4 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... Click to Register Pride Ride Saturday, June 27 at 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Celebrate Pride with Oklahomans for Equality, Tulsa Pride, and This Machine! Pride Ride is the perfect way to show your pride, get outside, and get your endorphins pumping. We will be meeting at Oklahomans for Equality (621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120) at 8pm, then riding bikes from OKEQ to The Gathering Place via the Midland Valley Trail. Participation is limited register and see more details on event bright page: Tickets In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 5 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... Dominique LaRue (Darrell Napier) Bar owner at LaRue's 4302 E Pine St, Tulsa, OK 74115 Empress IV 2011 Imperial Court of all Oklahoma December 11, 1970 - June 19, 2020 Eric Creason November 8, 1973 - May 20, 2020 Lost to Covid-19 Eric's Obituary Gender Support Group Wednesday, June 24 at 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 6 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Our Gender support Group is coming back Live and in person Wednesday June 24th! We will continue to offer a virtual version for anyone who needs access. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group . Contact Us SAGE CARES a MASKS AND NECESSITIES 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 7 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have Resumed SAGE Tulsa has resumed their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:30 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. SAGE Group Call Tuesday If you are not ready to join the in-person meeting, you can call in Tuesday at 10:30 a.m.. To join, call (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60# Contact Us We Will Notarize Your Ballot! We are excited to announce that we have a notary that can notarize your absentee ballot. If you would like to schedule to have your ballot notarized please contact us below: Contact Us 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 8 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... ***** VOTE Early Voting Begins June 25th Early voting for the June 30th election will be Thursday, June 25th and Friday, June 26th from 8:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. and Saturday, June 27th from 9:00 a.m. 2:00 p.m. at the following location: Tulsa County Election Board 555 North Denver Ave. Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 DKEQ CORDNDVIRUS GUIDELINES: 1. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 9 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... 2. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 3. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. 4. IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING FEVER, SHORTNESS OF BREATH, COUGHING, OR ANY OTHER SYMPTOM LISTED BY THE CDC, PLEASE REMAIN AT HOME. 5. OKEO WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Trump Denies LGBTQ+ People Health Care Protections In the midst of a global health pandemic, the Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) finalized devastating changes to the Health Care Rights Law, also known as Section 1557 of the Affordable Care Act (ACA). The changes remove anti-discrimination protections in health care for LGBTQ+ people, women, people with limited English proficiency, people with disabilities, and more. The removal of these protections encourages health care workers, medical facilities, and health insurance companies that receive federal funding to refuse to provide health care 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 10 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... services to the LGBTQ+ community, among others. Everyone should be able to see a doctor without worrying about being mistreated or denied service outright. LGBTQ+ people already face disturbing rates of health care discrimination—from harassment and humiliation by providers to being turned away by hospitals, pharmacists, and doctors. As the nation battles the COVID-19 pandemic, there could not be a more disgraceful time to allow the denial of medical care based on who you are. It is this fear of discrimination that Oklahomans for Equality launched the Equality Health Alliance. Now more than ever, we need LGBTQ+ friendly healthcare providers to support the community and say that their practice is safe and affirming. Click below to join the Equality Health Alliance or to find a friendly healthcare provider. Visit Equality Health Alliance #tulsa pride inside ~Vo ,natter where we are, we alwavs have PRJDL Sencl us-a pie of lww JJOLL or JJOLL and JJour f amity are celebrating so we alwavs re1ne111ber this 111onienl of PlUDE. #TULSAPRIDEINSIDE Photos! June 1-30th Show us your Pride, Tulsa! We want to make sure we are documenting this historic moment in history where we came together while apart. Send a picture of you, your family (chosen family too!), your pets, or whoever you celebrate Pride with to Morgan Allen at the link below or share your picture with the hashtag #tulsaprideinside and tag Oklahomans for Equality so we can preserve our history! Tulsa PRIDE inside will go on throughout the month of June. Submit Photos Here 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 11 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... There's still time to enter the Create, Construct, Craft with Pride Youth Competition! CREATE, CONSTRUCT, CRAFT, WITH PRIDE YOUTH COMPETITION JUNE 1-30th For the first time in Tulsa Pride history, we are inviting young people ages 4-19 to bake, construct, craft, and create art to show us what Pride means to them! Children and youth are encouraged to get creative with items from around the house and work as a family to create something amazing! The competition is free to enter, and there will be prizes for winners in each age category. Submissions will be judged based on age group, and winners will be announced on Tuesday, June 30th. Click Here to Enter Tulsa Pride Street T-Shirt are in! We are excited to introduce our Tulsa Pride Street T-Shirt Commemorating this years Pride. We have these available in our Pride Store. Available for only 20.00. We are currently offering Curb Side pickup or we can drop ship by mail for $5 allowing 10 days for shipping. 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 12 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... Click Here to Order HAPPY PRIDE MONT H!!! from the Staff of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! BLACK LIVES MATTER! Oklahomans for Equality condemns police brutality and racism in all of its forms. We call on our membership and constituents to speak out and work for justice for the countless deaths of black people at the hands of law enforcement. Once again, these accounts of murderous actions grab the headlines, and elected 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 13 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... officials and government leaders promise to change and reform. We must hold our officials and law enforcement accountable, and we must work for justice to be served! To see the rest of the pictures, click below to go to our website. 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 14 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... 2020 OkEq Board Elections Oklahomans for Equality (“OkEq”) is accepting applications for both the Board of Directors and the Board of Advisors. The Board of Directors serves as the governing body of OkEq and meets monthly to address the essential functions of the organization and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Advisors serves as an advisory body to the Directors at these meetings and throughout the year. In addition to monthly meetings (and meeting on an as-needed basis certain times throughout the year), the Board of Directors are required to: • Participate and sponsor the Equality Gala • Participate and volunteer at the Tulsa Pride Festival • Participate and attend various special events throughout the year • Be a Member of Oklahomans for Equality We are looking for driven individuals motivated and committed to the mission and goals of OkEq. Please keep in mind that Directors serve a two-year term, and Advisors serve a one-year term. If you are interested in serving as either a Director or Advisor to the organization, please notify Alex Wade below. An application will be sent to you directly. Contact Us 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 15 of 30 '- https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... -------- ok ~ - , -· - Reading Rainbow Book Club Rainbow Book club welcomes everyone who would like to participate. Currently we meet for one hour, twice a month virtually via Zoom. The only thing we we ask is that you are kind and respectful and keep the discussion related to the book. We will discuss and answer critical questions about the current book we reading. This month we are continuing Emma by Jane Austen. The next two dates and chapters that will be discussed are below. The zoom link will be provided once you have reached out. For any questions or concerns please email Donovid at the link below. June 25th at 3pm (Chapters 21-30) 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 16 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... Contact Donovid Sign Up via Fcebook EBA Mixer Wednesday, July 15, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Silhouette Sneakers & Art Footwear Store 10 N. Greenwood Ave. Suite C, Tulsa, OK 74120 918-732-9166 silhouettetulsa.com Established in 2019, Silhouette Sneakers & Art is a highly-curated retail experience that brings limited and authentic sneakers and streetwear to Tulsa. Our boutique features an art gallery showcasing a rotating selection of streetinspired art. We also deliver programming that links sneaker culture enthusiasts and cultivates a new generation of sneakerheads. Due to Covid-19 we will be practicing safe social distancing. Masks are required. 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 17 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... Only 35 people are allowed in to the gallery at a time, however there is room on the porch for social mixing. INDIGIQUEER IS FOR ALL IDENTIFYING LGBTQ2S+ NATIVE AND INDIGENOUS PEOPLE. JULY 17TH tt BPI Cultural Events, Conversations, Celebrations &Friends Oklahomans for Equality 621 E4th St, Tulsa, OK CONTACT KAO FOR MORE INFORMATION 918.904.1869 / KAO.MORRIS@OKEQ.ORG oklahomans for equaltty Contact Us Queer the Census 2020 Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Your In e o C ~ Census Information 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 18 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 19 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Contact Us KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE kAIHR FAMILY FOUHDATIOl<I Even though the Equality Center is closed, our clinic is still open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 20 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider Trans Men's Virtual Social Group ~ Saturday, 3:00 p.m. Join us every Saturday at 3:00 p.m. to discuss issues related to transitioning as a trans man or transmasculine person. Alex Wade, our Medical Services Coordinator, will be facilitating this support group. Trans Men's Social Group If you would like to join this online group, please email Alex at alex.wade@okeq.org or call 918-938-6537. --Contact Us 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 21 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... Iii; IIIIUI For intormalion that leads to the Arrest and conuiclion 01 the Person or Persons Resoonslhle tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi s ' Anvone with lnfonnatlon Is asked to contact die McAlester Police Depanment at 918-423-1212 or die 0SBI 11V Calling die Agency's Tip line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng d s@ Sbl l V McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 22 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A.. Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. ~'ll • •-~)j-• ~~-•l) --~-1 ,,1~N 'II ~::30 AJ.rivno, OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. .• ~ ~ Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual 23 of 30 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 24 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... seeking services. COVID-19 Canceled: Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID t&. SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, June 11, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. SOUP’s primary goals are 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 25 of 30 are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Fitness Class at OkEq Tuesdays 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Christopher Gomez's Workout program is designed with science to help individuals meet their fitness goals in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming environment. :::I Sisters in Song https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 26 of 30 Gender Support Program Req https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group (First time interview required before attending) Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - . SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - . Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 27 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... viree Sov\!s Three Souls Every 2nd Monday Facilitated by John Madigan group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. ARTS AND CRAFTS: ;~~ • AT TH£ OENNIS R NE!Ll EQUALITY CENTER Join us for our monthly Heart Circle at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We meet on the second Sunday of every month. All queer men are welcome to the circle (gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual and queer). Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �and community. Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org '9 I Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org ~~ . -- 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. 4/28/26, 10:50 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... Wednesday Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org OkEq Staff strengthens and expands our businesses, careers ideas, contacts, products and services, and also The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 28 of 30 - _==- I IC ,- �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 29 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... Tracy Allen Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org kAISEA Ml!DICAL ~=;.~ Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits Special Projects Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick 4/28/26, 10:50 AM �The Queer Black Experience: A Conversation 30 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/The-Queer-Black-Experience--A... Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Bob Hanson Marcia Keesee Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 10:50 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8071db9a3bbeca2d50f5ba5435813e20.pdf 70fa50aca8632bddc22f64d5c1134e39 PDF Text Text Congratulations Youth Winners 1 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 30th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! F ~ PafR.Oll Rental Properfy Bookkeeping 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 2 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com FeLAtur-i.V\,g Tvt Lbodea u}(: Tvte TIA}( Tvter-a-prj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 3 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... CREATE, CONSTRUCT, CRAFT, WITH PRIDE YOUTH COMPETITION Congratulations to our youth who entered the first ever Create, Construct, Craft with Pride competition! Winners by Age Category: 8-9: Kyle, Age 9 10-11: Tessa, Age 10 12-13: Grace 14-15: Grace and Emily, Ages 19 and 15 16-17: Darbie, Age 16 18-19: Gretta, Age 18 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 4 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... First Thursday Art Show July 2020 In Person Opening Reception Thursday July 2, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Masks will be required and social distancing will be observed. Capacity will be limited to 20 persons at a time in the art gallery. You can also visit the Allie Jensen Memorial Gallery virtually. The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is featuring the works of Ra Vashtar and their Arts of Flame Art. Ra Vashtar is a mixed media artist who specializes in the use of monsters as symbols for his experience and emotions. Born in Ponca City, OK, Ra was homeschooled until high school, where difficulty fitting in lead him to explore an interest in expressing himself in art class as a way to cope. Ra received a diploma from CG Spectrum for Advanced Concept Art and currently works as a full-time artist, illustrating comics, designing art assets for indie video games, and making monster figurines for people to “adopt.” He is currently featured in Hot Topic's Creator Program, where his designs are available on t-shirts via the Hot Topic website. Ra sees monsters as symbols for marginalization of misunderstood people, and uses them in his advocacy for LGBTQIA+ and mental health issues. He writes articles and does illustrations for Neuro-Clastic, a Neuro-diversity blog, so he can empower others on the Autism Spectrum. As an autistic, queer, and transgender person who struggles with mental health, Ra hopes to humanize these issues, even when that means drawing things that aren't exactly human themselves. 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 5 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... T II E 110 ORABLE G .T BYNUM PROCLAMATION WHEREA , LGBTQ+ pride celebration · ocwr every June to commemorate the tonewall Riot ; and, WHEREAS, The 'tonewall Riots are generally recognized a. the catalyst of the LGBTQ+ rights movement and expanded the visibility of the LGBTQ+ liberation and equality movement; and, WHEREA , The Oklahomans for Equality, founded in 1980, is virtually celebrating their 38th year of the Annual Tulsa Pride Festival; and, WHEREA . The ity of1iilsa accepts people of all ethnicities and religions. supporting a diverse LGBTQ+ community. OW, T H ERE FOR E, I, G. T. Bynum , Mayor of the ity of T ulsu, do hereby proclai m t he mon th of Ju ne us "Pride Month" in the City of Tul sa 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 6 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... The City of Tulsa is committed to creating a respectful and professional work environment. Sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression are protected. Discrimination, harassment and retaliation in any form will not be tolerated. JOIN OUR TEAM! www.cityoftulsa.org/jobs Tul~fa A New Kioo of F.nctgy. June is LGTBQ+ Pride Month and we want to celebrate our wonderful community in Tulsa. As part of our celebration this month and all month, we want to be sure that all members of our community feel welcome to work at the City of Tulsa. Help us spread the word! ok 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 7 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... Reading Rainbow Book Club Rainbow Book club welcomes everyone who would like to participate. Currently we meet for one hour, twice a month virtually via Zoom. The only thing we we ask is that you are kind and respectful and keep the discussion related to the book. We will discuss and answer critical questions about the current book we reading. Join Rainbow Book Club us as we finish Emma this month. The dates and chapters that will be discussed are included below. Starting this month we will be moving to a new day of the week. We’ll still meet twice a month, but now on Sunday’s from 3-4pm. The zoom link will be provided once you have reached out. For any questions or concerns please contact us below. July 12th (chapters 31-43) 3-4pm July 26th (chapters 44-55) 3-4pm Contact Donovid Sign Up via Fcebook In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 8 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... Dominique LaRue (Darrell Napier) Bar owner at LaRue's 4302 E Pine St, Tulsa, OK 74115 Empress IV 2011 Imperial Court of all Oklahoma December 11, 1970 - June 19, 2020 Eric Creason November 8, 1973 - May 20, 2020 Lost to Covid-19 Eric's Obituary 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 9 of 27 ~ .,,, . ____:.:_' •-- https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... 'V\. .. AFTED ,. ...~.,,· .. , ...... ., ~ -- - ~ Stargazer Edibles, award-winning producer of cannabis infused ice cream products, chocolate bars and cookie dough for the medical marijuana industry in Oklahoma, is releasing a special flavor to commemorate Pride Month in the state. Stargazer is producing Churned This Way, a special limited-time cereal milk-flavored ice cream with rainbow crunch pieces topped with edible glitter, available at participating dispensaries through the month of June. 50% of the sales will be donated to the benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center of Oklahoma. You can get yours here: OKind Dispensary, Sapulpa and Broken Arrow. Dr Z Leaf Dispensaries, Tulsa (both locations) Med Pharm, Catoosa, OK Sticky Nickel, Bartlesville, OK Gender Support Group Wednesday, July 1 at 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Our Gender support Group is coming back Live and in person Wednesday June 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 10 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... 24th! We will continue to offer a virtual version for anyone who needs access. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group . Contact Us SAGE CARES SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have Resumed SAGE Tulsa has resumed their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:30 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. SAGE Group Call Tuesday If you are not ready to join the in-person meeting, you can call in Tuesday at 10:30 a.m.. To join, call (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60# 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 11 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... Contact Us DKEQ CORDNDVIRUS GUIDELINES: 1. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 2. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 3. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. 4. IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING FEVER, SHORTNESS OF BREATH, COUGHING, OR ANY OTHER SYMPTOM LISTED BY THE CDC, PLEASE REMAIN AT HOME. 5. OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 12 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... 2020 OkEq Board Elections Oklahomans for Equality (“OkEq”) is accepting applications for both the Board of Directors and the Board of Advisors. The Board of Directors serves as the governing body of OkEq and meets monthly to address the essential functions of the organization and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Advisors serves as an advisory body to the Directors at these meetings and throughout the year. In addition to monthly meetings (and meeting on an as-needed basis certain times throughout the year), the Board of Directors are required to: • Participate and sponsor the Equality Gala • Participate and volunteer at the Tulsa Pride Festival • Participate and attend various special events throughout the year • Be a Member of Oklahomans for Equality We are looking for driven individuals motivated and committed to the mission and goals of OkEq. Please keep in mind that Directors serve a two-year term, and Advisors serve a one-year term. If you are interested in serving as either a Director or Advisor to the organization, please notify Alex Wade below. An application will be sent to you directly. Contact Us 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 13 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... EBA Mixer Wednesday, July 15, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Silhouette Sneakers & Art Footwear Store 10 N. Greenwood Ave. Suite C, Tulsa, OK 74120 918-732-9166 silhouettetulsa.com Established in 2019, Silhouette Sneakers & Art is a highly-curated retail experience that brings limited and authentic sneakers and streetwear to Tulsa. Our boutique features an art gallery showcasing a rotating selection of streetinspired art. We also deliver programming that links sneaker culture enthusiasts and cultivates a new generation of sneakerheads. Due to Covid-19 we will be practicing safe social distancing. Masks are required. Only 35 people are allowed in to the gallery at a time, however there is room on the porch for social mixing. INDIGIQUEER IS FOR ALL IDENTIFYING LGBTQ2S+ NATIVE AND INDIGENOUS PEOPLE. 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 14 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... JULY 17TH tt BPI Cultural Events, Conversations, Celebrations &Friends Oklahomans for Equality 621 E4th St, Tulsa, OK CONTACT KAO FOR MORE INFORMATION 918.904.1869 / KAO.MORRIS@OKEQ.ORG oklahomans fo, equaltty Contact Us Queer the Census 2020 Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Your ln e o 20C Census Information Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES National Domestic Violence Hotline 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 15 of 27 918-744-4800 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 16 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Contact Us KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THEGEOAGEltAIHA FAMILY FOUNDATION ' Even though the Equality Center is closed, our clinic is still open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality Health Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 17 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 18 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... For information mat leads to the Arrest and conu1c11on 01 the Person or Persons Responsible tor me murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob al Rover Taxi s ' I I I Anvone with information is asked to conlact the McAlester Police Deuanment al 918-423-1212 or the 0SBI bv Calling lhe Auencv·s Tip line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng u s OSbl k. ov McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 19 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 20 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 21 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. COVID-19 Canceled: Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL A10 thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, June 11, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to Free Yoga Class supporting Lesbian, Gay, 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 22 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... at OkEq Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Fitness Class at OkEq Tuesdays 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Christopher Gomez's Workout program is designed with science to help individuals meet their fitness goals in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming environment. Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 23 of 27 to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! Gender Support Program Req https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... SOS Group Friday July 3rd at 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group (First time interview required before attending) Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org - -The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org . Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 24 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - . Experienced Anew) sao-e ~~~~:~~! ~, LGBTElders Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Three Souls Every 2nd Monday Join us for our monthly Heart Circle at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We meet on the second Sunday of every month. All queer men are welcome to the circle (gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual and queer). ARTS AND CRAFTS :;~T AT THE DENNIS R NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Arts and Crafts Night Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners RI 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 25 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, Wednesday ideas, contacts, products and services, and also 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 26 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... Tracy Allen SAGE Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org KAISf:RMEDICAL CLINIC Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits Outreach and Library Services Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Audio and Lighting Engineer Lynn Riggs Theater Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee 4/28/26, 10:51 AM �Congratulations Youth Winners 27 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Congratulations-Youth-Winners.h... Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Bob Hanson Marcia Keesee Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 10:51 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8a0476df36407ec7fffd677c60f644ef.pdf 4043f73c922614eec6e70dd05be5c409 PDF Text Text Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 1 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews July 6th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! F ~ PafR.Oll Rental Properfy Bookkeeping 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 2 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com FeLAtur-i.V\,g Tvt Lbodea u}(: Tvte TIA}( Tvter-a-prj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 3 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... Tulsa Lgbtq+ History Night Tuesday, July 7, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Join the OKEQ History Project as we look back on different decades of Tulsa LGBTQ+ history from the OKEQ History Project Room inside the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Contact us below for the link. Contact Us LGBTQ+ Netflix Together Thursday, July 9, 2020 at 6:30 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. Join us to watch the Standup comedy show, Wonda Sykes, with Netflix Party! Wonda Sykes tackles politics, reality TV, racism, and secrets she'd take to the grave in this rolling, no-holds-barred stand-up special. Netflix Party is a chrome extension the synchronizes video playback and adds a group chat to your favorite Netflix account and installs the Netflix Party extension on your Chrome browser. You will receive an email with the link to join the party right before showtime. (*You must have a Netflix account and Google Chrome browser to participate. To learn more and download the Netflix Party extension, visit https://www.netflixparty.com/ ) Visit our website 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 4 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... B11aallty Gandnl/M ,.......,a..-JW,,ast........_, ..,,..,., Equality Gaming Night Online Friday, July 10, 2020 at 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Let's play some ZOOM games and meet new people while enjoying drinks and snacks at home. For questions or link please contact us below: Contact Us 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 5 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... First Thursday Art Show July 2020 - ArtsAFlame You can also visit the Allie Jensen Memorial Gallery virtually. The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is featuring the works of Ra Vashtar and their Arts of Flame Art. Ra Vashtar is a mixed media artist who specializes in the use of monsters as symbols for his experience and emotions. Born in Ponca City, OK, Ra was home-schooled until high school, where difficulty fitting in lead him to explore an interest in expressing himself in art class as a way to cope. Ra received a diploma from CG Spectrum for Advanced Concept Art and currently works as a full-time artist, illustrating comics, designing art assets for indie video games, and making monster figurines for people to “adopt.” He is currently featured in Hot Topic's Creator Program, where his designs are available on t-shirts via the Hot Topic website. Ra sees monsters as symbols for marginalization of misunderstood people, and uses them in his advocacy for LGBTQIA+ and mental health issues. He writes articles and does illustrations for Neuro-Clastic, a Neuro-diversity blog, so he can empower others on the Autism Spectrum. As an autistic, queer, and transgender person who struggles with mental health, Ra hopes to humanize these issues, even when that means drawing things that aren't exactly human themselves. Virtual Tour 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 6 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... To Purchase .... alt Reading Rainbow Book Club Rainbow Book club welcomes everyone who would like to participate. Currently we meet for one hour, twice a month virtually via Zoom. The only thing we we ask is that you are kind and respectful and keep the discussion related to the book. We will discuss and answer critical questions about the current book we reading. Join Rainbow Book Club us as we finish Emma this month. The dates and chapters that will be discussed are included below. Starting this month we will be moving to a new day of the week. We’ll still meet twice a month, but now on Sunday’s from 3-4pm. 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 7 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... The zoom link will be provided once you have reached out. For any questions or concerns please contact us below. July 12th (chapters 31-43) 3-4pm July 26th (chapters 44-55) 3-4pm Contact Donovid Sign Up via Facebook EBA Mixer Wednesday, July 15, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Silhouette Sneakers & Art Footwear Store 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 8 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... 10 N. Greenwood Ave. Suite C, Tulsa, OK 74120 918-732-9166 silhouettetulsa.com SILHOUETTE S NE AK ER S•A RT Established in 2019, Silhouette Sneakers & Art is a highly-curated retail experience that brings limited and authentic sneakers and streetwear to Tulsa. Our boutique features an art gallery showcasing a rotating selection of streetinspired art. We also deliver programming that links sneaker culture enthusiasts and cultivates a new generation of sneakerheads. Due to Covid-19 we will be practicing safe social distancing. Masks are required. Only 35 people are allowed in to the gallery at a time, however there is room on the porch for social mixing. INDIGIQUEER IS FOR ALL IDENTIFYING LGBTQ2S+ NATIVE AND INDIGENOUS PEOPLE. JULY 17TH 9 BPI Cultural Events, Conversations, Celebrations &Friends Oklahomans for Equality 621 E4th St, Tulsa, OK CONTACT KAO FOR MORE INFORMATION 918.904.1869 / KAO.MORRIS@OKEQ.ORG oklahomans for equaltty Contact Us 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 9 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... People of Color Social - Trivia Night Saturday, July 18, 2020 at 7 p.m. – 8 p.m. POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful conversations. This month POC event is a People of Color theme trivia night, ranging from music, politics, local and general trivia. Do you have what it takes to win? Contact Us Every donor can receive a free COVID-19 antibody~. Appointment needed to participate. .,-..,,..,b wll be_,..d___,_"ll,ts-hasnatbeon-bwlho-.-dllNl--.-d tsnat-.dldla-d-arw-al ~ wll OOl(Dilnl'I Gone Savin' Livas l'WO MINCS sc12nc2 museum llllllNI Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive Friday, July 24, 2020 at 2:00 p.m. – 7 :00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 10 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... In partnership with the Oklahoma Blood Institute, Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a blood drive on July 24th. We know that the current FDA guidelines regarding men who have sex with men are imperfect and discriminatory, but it is still important to donate blood if you can. During the COVID-19, pandemic blood donations have gone down, so those of us who are healthy and able should donate. To schedule an appointment, call 877-340-8777 or Click the button below: Visit Oklahoma Blood Institute CREATE, CONSTRUCT, CRAFT, WITH PRIDE YOUTH COMPETITION Congratulations to our youth who entered the first ever Create, Construct, Craft with Pride competition! Winners by Age Category: 8-9: Kyle, Age 9 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 11 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... 10-11: Tessa, Age 10 12-13: Grace 14-15: Grace and Emily, Ages 19 and 15 16-17: Darbie, Age 16 18-19: Gretta, Age 18 In Memoriam rememberin~ those we've lost Dominique LaRue (Darrell Napier) Bar owner at LaRue's 4302 E Pine St, Tulsa, OK 74115 Empress IV 2011 Imperial Court of all Oklahoma December 11, 1970 - June 19, 2020 Tulsa Community College Department of Theatre Presents A Live Stream Online Performance On Zoom THl:COILOR 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 12 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... Tulsa Community College Department of Theatre presents "The Color of Slumber" by Mark Frank. All three performances will include a design concept presentation at 7:30 p.m. and will be streamed LIVE on Zoom with three different casts at 8:00 p.m. To attend, please register here: Webinar Registration 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 13 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... Gender Support Group Wednesday, July 8 at 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Our Gender support Group is coming back Live and in person Wednesday June 24th! We will continue to offer a virtual version for anyone who needs access. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group . Contact Us 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 14 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... SAGE CARES SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have Resumed SAGE Tulsa has resumed their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:30 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. SAGE Group Call Tuesday If you are not ready to join the in-person meeting, you can call in Tuesday at 10:30 a.m.. To join, call (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60# Contact Us 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 15 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... DKEQ CORDNDVIRUS GUIDELINES: 1. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 2. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 3. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. 4. IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING FEVER, SHORTNESS OF BREATH, COUGHING, OR ANY OTHER SYMPTOM LISTED BY THE CDC, PLEASE REMAIN AT HOME. 5. OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Queer the Census 2020 Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Census Information 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 16 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 17 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Contact Us KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Even though the Equality Center is closed, our clinic is still open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality u~.. 11-" 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 18 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... I ■ ~..- ■ la ■■ Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider For intormation that leads to the Arrest and conuiction 01 the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 19 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... s ' Anvone with infonnatlon is aslled to contact tile McAlester Ponce Deuanment at 918-423-1212 or tile OSBI bv Calling the Agency's Tip line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng d s@._os_l_o~ ov McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 20 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 21 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. . lb~ , ti~. ~- DENNIS R, NEILL EQUALITY CENTER • 'f.. 4 fi • • •· · • d. , o I _, ~- OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 'J Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. COVID-19 Canceled: Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, July 9th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 22 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Fitness Class at OkEq Tuesdays 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Christopher Gomez's supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 23 of 28 Workout program is designed with science to help individuals meet their fitness goals in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming environment. Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Friday July 3rd at 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 24 of 28 Gender Support Program Req Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org sao-e ~~~~:~~t c) ~ LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - . viree So(;lls Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ARTS AND CRAFTS NI~ > AT THE DENNIS R NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - . Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 25 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... Three Souls Every 2nd Monday Join us for our monthly Heart Circle at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We meet on the second Sunday of every month. All queer men are welcome to the circle (gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual and queer). needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education , Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, Wednesday ideas, contacts, products and services, and also 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 26 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Tracy Allen SAGE Tracy.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 27 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... KAISER MEDICAl ;:::::... ...... LYl'<>UNOUION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits Outreach and Library Services Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Audio and Lighting Engineer Lynn Riggs Theater Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Bob Hanson Marcia Keesee Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Do You Know Your LGBTQ+ History? 28 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Do-You-Know-Your-LGBTQ--His... Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 10:54 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5f160ba330a79aaed96ea13fb24dccfa.pdf ea275b5486382a753b16dfb2d0f93cb8 PDF Text Text Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 1 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews July 13th, 2020 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 2 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week July 12-18, 2020 It’s Nonbinary Awareness Week and OKEQ is celebrating by raising the nonbinary flag over the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the first time! Featured in the above picture is Anna Puhl who is our audio and lighting engineer for our Lynn Riggs Theater.They identify as Nonbinary and use they and them pronouns. Wikpedia: Non-binary (also spelled nonbinary or abbreviated as enby ) or genderqueer is a spectrum of gender identities that are not exclusively masculine or feminine —identities that are outside the gender binary . Nonbinary identities can fall under the transgender umbrella, since many non-binary people identify with a gender that is different from their assigned sex. 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 3 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... Tulsa Lgbtq+ History Night Tuesday, July 14, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Join the OKEQ History Project as we look back on different decades of Tulsa LGBTQ+ history from the OKEQ History Project Room inside the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Contact us below for the link. Contact Us In Memoriam remembering those we've lost 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 4 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... Sammy Joe Remington June 24, 1990 - July 8, 2020 A memorial service will be held on Tuesday, July 14th 2020 at 9:05 AM at the Sperry First Baptist Church (301 W Main St, Sperry, OK 74073). Sammy's Obituary Jaumia Shan Johnson April 4, 1986 - July 5, 2020 There was a family service on July 13, 2020. Dominique LaRue (Darrell Napier) Bar owner at LaRue's 4302 E Pine St, Tulsa, OK 74115 Empress IV 2011 Imperial Court of all Oklahoma December 11, 1970 - June 19, 2020 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 5 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... EBA Mixer Wednesday, July 15, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Silhouette Sneakers & Art Footwear Store 10 N. Greenwood Ave. Suite C, Tulsa, OK 74120 918-732-9166 silhouettetulsa.com Established in 2019, Silhouette Sneakers & Art is a highly-curated retail experience that brings limited and authentic sneakers and streetwear to Tulsa. Our boutique features an art gallery showcasing a rotating selection of streetinspired art. We also deliver programming that links sneaker culture enthusiasts and cultivates a new generation of sneakerheads. Due to Covid-19 we will be practicing safe social distancing. Masks are required. Only 35 people are allowed in to the gallery at a time, however there is room on the porch for social mixing. anish Speaking Social Su rupo de apoyo social de hispana L TQ + 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 6 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... July 17th at 7:00 p.m. 1 E 4th S , Tu sa, OK 741 Spanish Speaking Mixer Friday, July 17, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The group will be for Spanish-speaking queer people, exploring and allies. It is a social and support group where people can ask questions. Where we can find out together how we feel and how we can move forward with a better understanding of both our identities and our attractions, what the recommendations are to approach other people with questions about us and how we could potentially come out to our families and friends.Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if you are fluent at spanish. We are hosting a mixer to meet and greet one another. We are still practicing Safe social distancing here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be observing the W.H.O. safety guidelines. For questions please contact Liz at the button below. El grupo será para personas queer de habla hispana, exploradores y aliados. Es un grupo social y de apoyo donde las personas pueden hacer preguntas. Donde podemos descubrir juntos cómo nos sentimos y cómo podemos avanzar con una mejor comprensión de nuestras identidades y nuestras atracciones, cuáles son las recomendaciones para acercarnos a otras personas con preguntas sobre nosotros y cómo podríamos llegar a nuestras familias y amigos. Únase a nosotros en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill si habla español con fluidez. Estamos organizando una mesa de mezclas para conocernos y saludarnos. Todavía estamos practicando el distanciamiento social seguro aquí en el Centro de Igualdad Dennis R. Neill. Estaremos observando la W.H.O. reglas de seguridad. Para preguntas, comuníquese con Liz en el botón a continuación. 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 7 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... Contact Us INDIGIQUEER IS FOR ALL IDENTIFYING LGBTQ2S+ NATIVE AND INDIGENOUS PEOPLE. JULY 17TH 9 BPI Cultural Events, Conversations, Celebrations &Friends Oklahomans for Equality 621 E4th St, Tulsa, OK CONTACT KAO FOR MORE INFORMATION 918.904.1869 / KAO.MORRIS@OKEQ.ORG oklahomans for equaltty Contact Us People of Color Social - Trivia Night Saturday, July 18, 2020 at 7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. POC Social is a space for people of color across a variety of backgrounds to come together and create a community through friendship, connections, entertainment, and thoughtful 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 8 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... conversations. This month POC event is a People of Color theme trivia night, ranging from music, politics, local and general trivia. Do you have what it takes to win? Contact Us Oklahomans for Equality a Watch on First Thursday Art Show July 2020 - ArtsAFlame Ra Vashtar is a mixed media artist who specializes in the use of monsters as symbols for his experience and emotions. Born in Ponca City, OK, Ra was home-schooled until high school, where difficulty fitting in lead him to explore an interest in expressing himself in art class as a way to cope. Ra received a diploma from CG Spectrum for Advanced Concept Art and currently works as a full-time artist, illustrating comics, designing art assets for indie video games, and making monster figurines for people to “adopt.” He is currently featured in Hot Topic's Creator Program, where his designs are available on t-shirts via the Hot Topic website. Ra sees monsters as symbols for marginalization of misunderstood people, and uses them in his advocacy for LGBTQIA+ and mental health issues. He writes articles and does illustrations for Neuro-Clastic, a Neuro-diversity blog, so he can empower others on the Autism Spectrum. As an autistic, queer, and transgender person who struggles with mental health, Ra hopes to humanize 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 9 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... these issues, even when that means drawing things that aren't exactly human themselves. Click Here To Purchase Every donor can raatlve a free COVID-19 antibody~. Appointment needed to participate. '"T..,,.,..bwllbe_,..d_._."1htsastl10Snatbl!on-brlla-nDnc--ntsnat-.dldla-~ar--al COlll>-29. 'Must be or,old aroklot- ID_,,. ast. COC . . . - w 1 1 be """-I. o.lf Dilnl'I 1WO Dl1llllS sc12nc2 Gone Savin' Lives museum llllllNI o.lfDilnl'I ~ ·---···-····· Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive Friday, July 24, 2020 at 2:00 p.m. – 7 :00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 In partnership with the Oklahoma Blood Institute, Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a blood drive on July 24th. We know that the current FDA guidelines regarding men who have sex with men are imperfect and discriminatory, but it is still important to donate blood if you can. During the COVID-19, pandemic blood donations have gone down, so those of us who are healthy and able should donate. To schedule an appointment, call 877-340-8777 or Click the button below: Schedule Your Appointment 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 10 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... Warrior Sisters Self Defense is Back Monday, July 24, 2020 at 2:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite all those currently engaging in street protests for black lives, community safety, and racial justice to train with Warrior Sisters in de-escalation and community intervention! --We will cover-Protest Awareness & Safety Tactics De-escalation Boundary Setting By-stander / up-stander intervention --Protect yourselves and stand up for your comrades while out in the streets and organizing for justice! Learn practical de-escalation techniques and options for interrupting injustices and supporting community members targeted by racist violence. --No experience needed Free for all Space is Limited Social distancing and masks are required. REGISTER HERE TO JOIN 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 11 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... ok Reading Rainbow Book Club Rainbow Book club welcomes everyone who would like to participate. Currently we meet for one hour, twice a month virtually via Zoom. The only thing we we ask is that you are kind and respectful and keep the discussion related to the book. We will discuss and answer critical questions about the current book we reading. Join Rainbow Book Club us as we finish Emma this month. The dates and chapters that will be discussed are included below. Starting this month we will be moving to a new day of the week. We’ll still meet twice a month, but now on Sunday’s from 3-4pm. The zoom link will be provided once you have reached out. For any questions or concerns please contact us below. July 26th (chapters 44-55) 3-4pm 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 12 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... Contact Donovid Sign Up via Facebook CREATE, CONSTRUCT, CRAFT, WITH PRIDE YOUTH COMPETITION Congratulations to our youth who entered the first ever Create, Construct, Craft with Pride competition! Winners by Age Category: 8-9: Kyle, Age 9 10-11: Tessa, Age 10 12-13: Grace 14-15: Grace and Emily, Ages 19 and 15 16-17: Darbie, Age 16 18-19: Gretta, Age 18 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 13 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... Gender Support Group Wednesday, July 15 at 7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Our Gender support Group is coming back Live and in person Wednesday June 24th! We will continue to offer a virtual version for anyone who needs access. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education and social opportunities for all transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please call 918-743-4297 or email Krissy Dudley with the link below for more information or to schedule an interview and for an invite to the online group . Contact Us 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 14 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... SAGE CARES SAGE Tulsa In-Person Meetings Have Resumed SAGE Tulsa has resumed their weekly in-person meeting on Tuesdays at 10:30 a.m.. If you are 50 or older and would like to be a part of our SAGE Tulsa program or would like to help, please contact us today. SAGE Group Call Tuesday If you are not ready to join the in-person meeting, you can call in Tuesday at 10:30 a.m.. To join, call (918) 398-8780 and enter the access code, 60# Contact Us 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 15 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... DKEQ CORDNDVIRUS GUIDELINES: 1. MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. IF YOU DON'T HAVE AMASK, WE WILL PROVIDE ONE FOR YOU. 2. EVERYONE WILL HAVE TEMPERATURES TAKEN WHEN ENTERING THE BUILDING. 3. EVERYONE MUST CHECK-IN USING THE IPAD AT THE FRONT DESK TO ANSWER ASYMPTOM QUESTIONNAIRE. 4. IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING FEVER, SHORTNESS OF BREATH, COUGHING, OR ANY OTHER SYMPTOM LISTED BY THE CDC, PLEASE REMAIN AT HOME. 5. OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO SANITIZE SURFACES, PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING IN GROUPS, AND MONITOR THE ONGOING SITUATION. Queer the Census 2020 Every individual not counted costs our local communities $1,700 annually through federal programs. Please tell everyone you know to respond to the census questionnaire. To learn more about the census, what will be asked, and why it is important to be counted, click the link below. Census Information 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 16 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... Suicide Hotlines Domestic Violence Hotlines COPES 918-744-4800 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 800-787-3224 The Trevor Project 866-488-7386 SAGE LGBT Elder 877-360-LGBT (5428) Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault 405-524-0700 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255 (online chat available) Crisis Text START to 741-741 D.V.I.S. (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) 918-743-5763 Trans Lifeline 877-565-2260 Family Safety Center 918-742-7480 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 888-843-4564 Grand Lake Mental Health Center 918-430-0335 800-722-3611 The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): 800-246-7743 National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 TTY 800-787-3224 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 17 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... Brought To You Bi the Letter B Virtual Programming 2nd and 4th Mondays 7:00 p.m. - 7:40 p.m. Our Bi Support Outreach group is now Virtual! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. The group will meet virtually via Zoom. You will be able to access via Video, Chat, and/or telephone. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Email Us Contact Us KAISER MEDICAL CLINIC SPONSORED BY THE GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Even though the Equality Center is closed, our clinic is still open to provide the healthcare services our community needs. Right now, our clinic is taking patients for hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and PrEP. If you are interested in starting or continuing care, please contact the OKEQ Health Clinic. You can call 918-938-6537 or email clinic@okeq.org for more information. If you want to make an appointment, follow the link below. Make an Appointment Equality u~.. 11-" 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 18 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... I ■ ~..- ■ la ■■ Alliance The Equality Health Alliance strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. With our searchable database, patients can find doctors based on their specialty and accepted insurance. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. All participating healthcare providers must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community. As we are still getting started, our database is small but it is growing. If you would like to look at our database click here. Apply to Join the Equality Health Alliance Nominate a Healthcare Provider For intormation that leads to the Arrest and conuiction 01 the Person or Persons Responsible tor the murder 01 Dustin Parker On Januarv 1, 2020 around 6:30 AM, Dustin Parker was shot and killed while on the iob at Rover Taxi 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 19 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... s ' Anvone with infonnatlon is aslled to contact tile McAlester Ponce Deuanment at 918-423-1212 or tile OSBI bv Calling the Agency's Tip line at 1-800-522-8017 or bV Emalllng d s@._os_l_o~ ov McAlester police and the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation are continuing to investigate the shooting. No arrests have been made. Anyone with information related to the investigation can contact the OSBI Tip Line at 1-800-522-8017 or can call McAlester police at 918-423-1212. You can remain anonymous. Dustin was a founding member of the Oklahomans for Equality McAlester chapter SeEq. Dustin was senselessly killed on New Years Day, and at this time, the murderer is still at large. We honor his memory to the LGBTQIA+ movement in Oklahoma. #justicefordustin Oklahomans for Equality Sponsors The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Sanford and Irene Burnstein Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Hardesty Family Foundation American Airlines Boomtown Tees Williams Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma Direct Energy Temple Israel Bank of Oklahoma Phillips 66 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 20 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... Hilti Creoks Mental Health Services Phillips Theological Seminary Habitat for Humanity PFLAG Tulsa Dennis R. Neill and John Southard Kelly Kirby CPA Dwight Kealiher Timothy T. Cole and Chance Phillips Larry Ward Richard and Debra Gordon Sasha and Ethan Warlick Jason McVicker and Justin Clary Joe and Nancy McDonald The Estate of John Raveill Al and Renee Carlozzi Marylyn Tippeconnic Barbara Abercrombie and Tery DeShong Cynthia Phillips and Chere Gibbs William Murphy and Todd Holland Joe Hukills Hollis Holcomb David Nelson Christopher and Michael Brecht-Smith Mark Fitch Daniel S. Burnstein and Martin Martinez Kristopher Wilmes and Dusty Gross Carol Tandy Greg Gray Tom and Kathy Williams Danny Thomason GOOGLE Doug Campbell College Hill Presbyterian Church 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 21 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... Counseling Services: Please contact the counselor directly to schedule a virtual appointment. . lb~ , ti~. ~- DENNIS R, NEILL EQUALITY CENTER • 'f.. 4 fi • • •· · • d. , o I _, ~- OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 'J Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. COVID-19 Canceled: Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, July 9th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 22 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Alphabet Soup Youth Group Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Please call 918-798-1054 or email Daniel Buck with the link below for more information. Every Saturday from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Fitness Class at OkEq Tuesdays 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Christopher Gomez's supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be Every Saturday Upstairs area of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 23 of 28 Workout program is designed with science to help individuals meet their fitness goals in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming environment. Sisters in Song Tuesdays 6:45 p.m. - 8:45 p.m. Sisters in Song would like to invite new women to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now choosing music for our holiday performances, so it's a great time to start! https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Friday July 3rd at 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 24 of 28 Gender Support Program Req Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org sao-e ~~~~:~~t c) ~ LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - . viree So(;lls Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ARTS AND CRAFTS NI~ > AT THE DENNIS R NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Arts and Crafts Night 1st and 3rd Friday 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Krissy at krissy.dudley@okeq.org --- - . Survivors of Conversion Therapy T.E.A (Therapy Experienced Anew) Every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Over 113,000 LGBTQIA+ individuals have been subjected to Conversion Therapy. T.E.A is a new group that will utilize several different activities to help you take your narrative back and find peer support along the way. Come, sit, and spill the tea with us on this journey to the most authentic you. Call, text, or email Jess Branston at 918-924-5624 jess@anchoredbhc.com On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 25 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... Three Souls Every 2nd Monday Join us for our monthly Heart Circle at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We meet on the second Sunday of every month. All queer men are welcome to the circle (gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual and queer). needles, crochet hooks, paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. Equality Game Night 2nd Friday of the Month 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games or video games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Community Partners health outreach prevention education , Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule EBA Directory The Equality Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, Wednesday ideas, contacts, products and services, and also 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 26 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Tracy Allen SAGE Tracy.Allen@okeq.org 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 27 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... KAISER MEDICAl ;:::::... ...... LYl'<>UNOUION Lily Piña Nurse Practitioner OKEQ Health Clinic Donovid Sekulits Outreach and Library Services Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org Anna Them Puhl Audio and Lighting Engineer Lynn Riggs Theater Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Joe Guetlein Bob Hanson Marcia Keesee Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell 4/28/26, 10:54 AM �Celebrating Nonbinary Awareness Week 28 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Celebrating-Nonbinary-Awarenes... Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Reduced Hours: Please Call before you visit 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/28/26, 10:54 AM � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Sub-Series] OKEQ > Publications > OKEQ eNews Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2020] OKEQ eNews https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1385f257c67d4bb7a68f2b7c3d8fd231.pdf 58fbcbe38499f751aa65aa2d02a1e42e PDF Text Text Best of Broadway! 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Best-of-Broadway-.html?soid=11... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews October 15th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, October 17, 8:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Best of Broadway…and Other Exaggerations is a delightful compilation of some of the most beloved tunes every performed on the great white way. The talented cast takes the audience on a sometimes hilarious and sometimes sentimental journey, offering important moments from more than a dozen Tony Award winning Broadway musicals. This cabaret-styled 4/24/26, 5:15 PM �Best of Broadway! 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Best-of-Broadway-.html?soid=11... performance features members of Tulsa’s theater and entertainment scene, Sam Briggs, Kara Staiger, Denise Hoey, and Mike DeMarco, while Christy Stalcup lights up the keys. With music from "A Chorus Line" to "Hello Dolly," with moments from "Cabaret," "Man of La Mancha," and many more, this show has something for everyone who loves Broadway music. Ctlmlntf IA> Third ThUndilY at l.Ynn 1211!fl Theater on {)d.()ber 17th 131:~T Of' 13~O.Al)W.A,-,...and Other l:xaaaerations featu..-lnlf Venlse tit)eY9 Sam 1?..-lltlfS9 and ~a..-a Stalare..wllh lhe Ch..-lsb' §I.ala.IP Cflmoo Tickets Alphabet Soup: OUT of the Can October 18 - October 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Leadership Lock-In 2019 will bring together LGBTQ+ youth in YOUTH LEADERSHIP middle school and high school from across the state to LOCK-IN AT THE socialize, develop leadership skills, and to have a great time! EQUALITY CENTER Throughout the lock-In, youth will have the unique opportunity to build partnerships, learn new skills, and develop leadership skills to impact their community. Who Should Attend? Youth: Youth in grades 6 through 12 who identify as LGBTQ+ who also have an interest in connecting with, and impacting their community. What Will We Do? Youth will participate in interactive workshops focusing on leadership development, community impact, and self-expression. There will be informative and motivating keynote speakers, lots of fun activities, entertainment, and a silent disco! Some activities will be held at alternate locations such as Youth Services of Tulsa. Staff and volunteers will be responsible for transporting youth to alternate sites. For more information about registration, call the Equality Center at 918-743-4297. 4/24/26, 5:15 PM �Best of Broadway! 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Best-of-Broadway-.html?soid=11... Registration Tulsa Native American Day We were honored to be a part of this historic holiday celebrating our indigenous community here in Oklahoma. Our Two Spirit leaders represented OKEQ in the parade. We are thankful for the love and support our community holds for our Two Spirit siblings. Walking in the Spirit EBA Mixer Wednesday, October 16, 6:00 p.m. Serenity Financial 508 W. Atlanta St. Broken Arrow, OK 74012 serenityfinancial.us Join Our Team Creating opportunities, income, security, and wealth. Serenity Financial will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for October. Preparing for your financial future is one of the most important steps you can take in life. From tax-advantaged strategies to lifetime income solutions to protecting your lifestyle, we can help you create and enjoy the future of your dreams. We’re committed to keeping things simple and clear. We pride ourselves on providing you with quality information so you can make sound financial decisions. We tailor our recommendations around your specific goals to help create the peace of mind you deserve. Attend one of our events to discover more about what we do or connect with us one on one to figure out if we might be a good fit. POC Social at OkEq Friday, October 18, 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/24/26, 5:15 PM �Best of Broadway! 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Best-of-Broadway-.html?soid=11... Tulsa, OK 74120 EVERY TH/RO FRIDAY The People of Color Social Mixer focuses on celebrating, preserving and connecting POCs in the Tulsa LGBT+ community. Join us for drinks, food and fun! The POC events are scheduled the third Friday of each month. FOR MORE INFORMATION CALL 918 904 1869 MORRIS The OKEQ History Project Needs your Help Our History Project team has been working on archiving footage, artifacts, and newspaper clippings from 1980 to the present day. We have pieces of Oklahoma LGBTQ+ history that span forty years, but we need your help! Do you have old newspapers at your house that mention OKEQ? Do you have Pride shirts from 1999? Videos from past galas? Consider donating or loaning them to our history project so we can digitize and make our archive searchable to the public! OKEQ HISTORY PROJECT WE NEED YOUR HELP! ! ■ = ll- = ll-11 I - I I I I Bring any and all artifacts to the center! We are open 7 days a week from 9am-9pm! Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Support Group Meeting Thursday, October 24, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This is Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa very first meeting invite!!! We are so excited to bring people together to help each other LOVE the SKIN they are in!! LOVE the SKIN they are in!!!! Encouraging others keeps her encouraged as well! Our first meeting was so much fun!!!! We hope to see you there :) Active Shooter - How to Respond and Survive Sunday, October 27, 2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Learn strategies on how to survive an active 4/24/26, 5:15 PM �Best of Broadway! 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Best-of-Broadway-.html?soid=11... shooter situation. Profile of an Active Shooter: Per the Department of Homeland Security: An Active Shooter is an individual actively engaged in killing or attempting to kill people in a confined and populated area; in most cases, active shooters use firearms(s) and there is no pattern or method to their selection of victims This course will teach you how to prepare mentally and physically to deal with an active shooter situation at school, work or other public places. Name Change Clinic Wednesday, November 6, 5:30 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in progress of starting the name Change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. MOREcolor Art Exhibition First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit featuring OCRJ Thursday, November 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The November Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists and will feature a show titled “Defending abortion access is an act of love”, beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. f!GHl!Ne fOl AIOll!ON A(([\\ II AN AC1 Of LOVl. 4/24/26, 5:15 PM �Best of Broadway! 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Best-of-Broadway-.html?soid=11... Join the Oklahoma Call for Reproductive Justice and MOREcolor Art Exhibition to talk about reproductive freedom in 2019 and what it’s going to take from each and every one of us to ensure abortion remains accessible to all. This event will feature Oklahoma visual artist’s interpretations of the theme, “defending abortion access is an act of love,” as well as talks from local activists and opportunities to get involved. And of course since we are feeding the movement, enjoy dinner with us! Defending abortion access is an act of love. And we fight to defend that access because we care. We fight because we know that without the ability to control our reproduction we are less free. We fight because In 2019 the right to abortion has become less secure, and at this moment in history it is crucial that we stand together to defend our reproductive freedoms. We each have something uniquely powerful to lend this battle, and that’s why we’ve gathered artists, activists and students together to learn and to strategize together on how that message can change Oklahoma and ensure reproductive freedom. See more about OCRJ by clicking their link below: OCRJ.org Fresh Start Program: Transformative Self Care! Thursday, November 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The brain child of Victoria James and cosponsored by Clary Sage College, Dennis R Neill Equality Center, Unity Tulsa, and Dynamite Conventions. The Fresh Start Program is designed give a hand-up to those who are going experiencing major life-changes through teaching self-care. No matter what is happening in your life … gender transition, divorce, or even just a much-needed change … The Fresh Start Program provides a judgment free and life-affirming environment so that you can build the best version of yourself through self-care and style. So, stop hating your mirror and stop waiting on the Fab Five to swoop in to make your life better. Join us for our free monthly classes, take control and give yourself the skills to stride into the future with confidence. November 7th - Hair Care and Styling Still looking for that perfect hairstyle? Need to update your look? Come check out our workshop where Clary Sage College's Cosmetology instructor will discuss proper hair care, styling and what styles and cuts look good for certain face shapes. Students and instructors will style hair of attendees and show what may work best for you. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). LEAD Together Class 2 • • • 4/24/26, 5:15 PM �Best of Broadway! 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Best-of-Broadway-.html?soid=11... LGBTQ+ Leadership Program _, ,1 1/ / / / ; Wednesday, November 20, 7:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LEADTffi(;T~l;R Created in partnership with Oklahomans for Equality and Leadership Tulsa, LEAD Together LGBTQ+ Leadership Program Class 2 is now accepting applications! LEAD together is the only program in Oklahoma addressing LGBTQ leadership development. The six-month program includes an orientation, 8 day-long sessions, volunteer work for Tulsa Pride and networking opportunities. Applications are due by 5 p.m. November 15th, 2019. They can be found by clicking below. Registration Transgender Day of Remembrance - TDoR Wednesday, November 20, 7:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR) is an annual observance on November 20 that honors the memory of those whose lives were lost in acts of anti-transgender violence. Additionally, during the week of November 12-19, people and organizations around the country participate in Transgender Awareness Week to help raise the visibility of transgender people and address the issues trans people face. This year we will be honoring those lost and celebrating their lives. AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . The Gender Diversity Health and 4/24/26, 5:15 PM �Best of Broadway! 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Best-of-Broadway-.html?soid=11... Social Experiences Survey (GHSE) Do you identify as transgender or any gender that is different from the sex you were assigned at birth? If so, we encourage you to participate in The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey! This research will help support our understanding of the social, institutional, and healthcare needs of trans and gender nonbinary people. Participants will have the opportunity to vote for a trans-related non-profit organization. $300.00 will be donated to each of the two organizations with the most votes. We will not collect any identifying information from you. Complete Survey The Deaths of Sybil Bolton November 1st - 10th Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Deaths of Sybil Bolton from the book by Dennis P. McAuliffe, Jr. adapted for the stage and directed by David Blakely November 1 & 2, 8 & 9 at 7:30PM November 9 & 10 at 2:00PM HTC Playwright-in-Residence Emeritus David Blakely returns to recount a shocking true-life piece of Oklahoma history: the Osage Oil Murders. Based on Dennis P. McAuliffe, Jr.’s 1990 nonfiction book The Deaths of Sybil Bolton, Blakely’s adaptation depicts a journalist uncovering lies, cover-ups, and murder on his quest for the truth: what exactly happened to his grandmother during the systematic reign of terror that killed an estimated 60-plus wealthy, full-blood Osage Native Americans in the 1920s? Blakely expands his four-time TATEwinning* one-act play Four Ways to Die into a full-length true-crime story from Oklahoma’s past, with an intimate look at how trauma, legacies, and lies are inherited. The Deaths of Sybil Bolton marks the latest Heller Theatre Company production that highlights plays centered on and brought to life by women and people of color. We are dedicated to supporting and magnifying the voices of the marginalized through these powerful and well-written works. *”Four Ways to Die” received four awards from the 2018 Tulsa Awards for Theater Excellence ceremony, including Outstanding Original Work, Outstanding Direction, Outstanding Ensemble, and Outstanding Properties. Tickets are on sale now: 4/24/26, 5:15 PM �Best of Broadway! 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Best-of-Broadway-.html?soid=11... Tickets Drag Poetics: A Writers Workshop with Matty Layne Glasgow Saturday, November 9, 12:30 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for a craft talk and workshop with poet and teaching artist Matty Layne Glasgow! This free public workshop will be held in the Goff Room at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Registration is required--sign up at the link in this event page. Drag queens queer gender & pageantry, embodying a performance of liberation on stage. A drag poetics considers the intersection of this artistry with both the written & spoken word. In this generative workshop, we will consider persona & form, the wig & reveal, as we embrace the deathtrap divas within us & craft our own sequined ditties. The Tulsa Little Pajama Jammy Jam Gala! Friday, December 6, 6:00 - 11:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for Tulsa Little Jam's first official fundraising Gala! And this isn't your typical fundraiser. It's the Tulsa Little Pajama Jammy Jam! That means we want you to come in your PAJAMAS! The goofier, the better! There will be a silent auction throughout the evening of amazing local arts and crafts and other items, amazing food by Joel Bein and Rub , drinks of all kinds, and, of course, live music throughout night. It's Tulsa Little Jam, after all! This is an ALL AGES event! So bring the family and get ready to have an amazing time! A percentage of all we raise will go to school music programs in Tulsa! See you December 6th! NextUp 907 S. Detroit Ave., Suite 210 4/24/26, 5:15 PM �Best of Broadway! 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Best-of-Broadway-.html?soid=11... Tulsa, OK 74120 (918) 442-2900 NextUp is a Tulsa-area initiative to support 18-to 24year olds in determining, "What’s your next?" That can mean getting your GED, enrolling in technical training, or finding a job. NextUp wants to help you forge your own path and achieve your goals. With our program, you will have access to free technical training and job placement assistance, as well as a variety of individual skill-building workshops, college advancement, career coaching, and other steps to better their lives. and . Whatever your goal is, NextUp is here to help and support you. Text "NextUp" to 31996 for more information. Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " When We Love Someone We Sing to Them: Cuando Amamos Cantamos" Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. "A reclamation of the Mexican serenata tradition, follow the story of a young boy who asks his father if there is a song for a boy who loves a boy. When We Love Someone We Sing to Them reframes a treasured cultural tradition to include LGBTQ experience. In this book, we learn about the Mexican tradition of singing to family and loved ones through one boy who naturally assumes the tradition includes him and his experience. Watch a tradition expand as limitations are lifted to include everyone, all the way to remembering Xochipilli, the Mesoamerican deity of creativity, song, and dance. A perfect book to bring tradition and inclusion into the conversation and support our LGBTQ young ones in knowing that they belong and always have, while providing pride in both our Mexican heritage and our LGBTQ culture and history as families. A bilingual story with illustrations (English/ Spanish)" Equality Pride Store 4/24/26, 5:15 PM �Best of Broadway! 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Best-of-Broadway-.html?soid=11... New in the OkEq Pride Store: Fanny Packs or Sport Utility Belts Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. You can make an appointment with Allison by calling 918-280-9645 . OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/24/26, 5:15 PM �Best of Broadway! 12 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Best-of-Broadway-.html?soid=11... Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, November 14, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators 4/24/26, 5:15 PM �Best of Broadway! 13 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Best-of-Broadway-.html?soid=11... necessary. members. Daniel & Haley It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Sos Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of 4/24/26, 5:15 PM �Best of Broadway! 14 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Best-of-Broadway-.html?soid=11... join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 . Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Sa~e information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. The program is providing 4/24/26, 5:15 PM �Best of Broadway! 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Best-of-Broadway-.html?soid=11... SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. 4/24/26, 5:15 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0dd1452e337071d5b9cc84cfb18c12b0.pdf 4065353e54947291390ed35414669962 PDF Text Text First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions 1 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-and-... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews July 31st, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! It was an Incredible Night!! Thank You So Much for your Support! The Raise the Roof Campaign has raised $67,649.00 in donations and pledges. We are so close to our $70,000 goal to repair the roof of the 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions 2 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-and-... Dennis R Neill Equality Center! We are thankful for our generous donors that participated in our $14 for 14 years campaign and that attended our Raise the Roof Party on Saturday, July 27th. Will you help us with reaching our $70,000 goal? Additional funds will help us with other needed repairs due to water damage and ongoing capital needs. Help us restore our roof to continue our mission. Donate Here First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions” Thursday, August 1, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The August Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 2nd Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature an exhibit with a collaborative show titled “Masks: 14 Visions”, beginning with a reception on Thursday, August 1st from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. The show features 22 pieces by Tulsa artists working in a variety of two- and threedimensional media, including paints, ceramics, mosaic, fabric, wood and assemblage. 2019 - 2020 Season Sneak Peek Thursday, August 1, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 World Stage Theatre Company presents: A Season of Women as we commemorate the 100th Anniversary of Women’s Constitutional Right to vote. Every show tells a woman’s story. This Sneak Peek is a free event previewing every show in our season giving our audience a glimpse into the discoveries, unfoldings, nuances, chemistry, humor, and complicated lives of amazing women. This evening is set to entertain you, make you think and laugh in the company of old and new friends. Join us, be our guest for a night you won’t soon forget and purchase your tickets for our season opener, She Like Girls. 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions 3 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-and-... Stay tuned to our social media for for more details. Please RSVP for this FREE EVENT. Light refrehments served free of charge. Wine and beer will be available for purchase. A Frie~ for ~/?a,~ ~h rr-uv ad, Mv ~~ 2 Y ar - 1991 - 2019 The Annual Fundrai er aturday ugu t3 201 9 ~ 6:00-9:00p.m. nter D nni ill qua lity 111 6214 t. Tu! a OK 74 120 pecial Mu ic by Barrett Lewi & ylvie Lynn Dinner: 20.00 Rib , hicken, & Veg tarian main di h Baked Bean ole law, Potato alad, & Al arrot up ak ! Li e Ent rtainment & Silent Auction - ll pr -: t:d t benefit the program which upp rt hundr d • f pd ow 1 r' Ii ing with HJ to b able to k p th ir b t fri nd at a -r 1 ial tim in th ir liv . ACA LGBT Healthcare Proposal We at Oklahomans for Equality are appalled by the Department of Health and Human Services proposed rule. This proposal would eliminate the LGBTQ+ 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions 4 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-and-... protections under the Health Care Rights Law of the ACA and, as a result, access to care would become limited for the LGBTQ+ community, and there would be an increase in discrimination within the health care system. At the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, we receive calls daily from people seeking LGBTQ+ friendly health care providers and, because the need is so high, we flood the friendly providers in town with new patients. We as a state cannot afford to lose the protections we have under the ACA, and we at Oklahomans for Equality urge the Department of Health and Human Services to withdraw this proposal. Let the Trump administration know what you think about this proposal. Submit a comment by following the link below. Submit LGBT Women's Network Happy Hour Monday, August 5, 5:30 p.m. R Bar and Grill Tulsa 4329 S. Peoria Ave. Tulsa, OK 74105 We're heading back to Brookside to see the R Bar crew again. If you've never had drinks on their perfect patio, you're in for a treat! Our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+. Allies are always welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message on Facebook at LGBT Women's Network ! We’re interested to visit all LGBTQ+-friendly locations! Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, August 6, 6:30 p.m. Biga Italian Restaurant 4329 S. Peoria Ave. Tulsa, OK 74105 bigaitalianrestaurant.com The reservations are under OkEq Men's Group. A head count is needed for the reservations. If you are coming please let us know by emailing GuysDineToo@gmail.com. Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Sorta Love Songs Thursday, August 15, 8:00 p.m – 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions 5 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-and-... Tulsa, OK 74120 Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room lynn riggs theatre dennls r neill equality center 621 e 4th st thursday, august 15 - 8pm Get your Ticket Now Hate Crime Vandalism at the Equality Center On Monday, July 22nd, at 11:14 p.m. the Lynn Riggs Memorial Mural at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, the home of Oklahomans for Equality, was vandalized, and under Oklahoma law, this is not classified as a hate crime. Lynn Riggs, a celebrated, gay playwright, was not silenced during his lifetime and we will not be silenced during ours. This is why we continue to fight and speak up against hate. 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions 6 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-and-... Our Hours are Expanding! We're happy to announce that we are expanding our hours of service! Starting Monday, July 1st the Dennis R Neill Equality Center will open at 9:00 a.m. New Volunteer Shifts Available We will now be opening at 9:00 a.m. and are in need of volunteers from 9:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. every day of the week. If you are interested in volunteering during this time, Please fill out our volunteer form here: Volunteer Form We Are Tulsa - Video Campaign Saturday, August 10, 9 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. 111 E. M.B. Brady St. Tulsa, OK 74103 On Saturday August 10, 2019, from approximately 9a-4p, we will be filming a series of spots called 'We Are Tulsa' at the Guthrie Green. The spots are designed to showcase diversity in Tulsa and to promote goodwill, tourism, and culture. There will be one long form spot showcasing the wide range of diversity (Multi-Cultural, LGBTQ+, people with disabilities, etc...) and then multiple individual spots showcasing more specific communities. The first scenes to be filmed will be our 'hero' bird's-eye-view of a large group of people holding a giant Tulsa flag; the following scenes will be individual 'portrait' shots of people. Please note: These spots were conceived by me alone and will be Directed/Produced by me with local crew. There is NO budget for this and we are not sanctioned by any specific department within Tulsa. Long story short, I believe Tulsa can be a place FOR EVERYONE and these spots are my contribution toward showcasing that potential. 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions 7 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-and-... Please confirm your attendance through the form and we will contact you with your estimated filming time slots! (We will follow up with emails to all those who have signed up.) It is very important that you fill out the form so we can anticipate the number of people coming through one source. If you or anyone you know would like to be a part of this project, please fill out the following form: Register If you love Tulsa and would like to support this cause, please join us. And if you have any questions please feel free to send me a private message. Thank you!! Facebook Dads Hug Too and Alphabet Soup Hosting Car Maintenance, 101 Saturday, August 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Dads Hug Too will be joining Alphabet Soup on August 17th at 6:30 pm to talk with our youth about taking care of their cars. They will provide hands on learning for skills like changing a flat tire and checking your oil. Alphabet Soup, where all letters are welcome! This is the Facebook group for the Alphabet Soup youth group located in Tulsa. We will post about upcoming meetings, answer questions, and provide resources to our youth. Dads Hug Too is a grassroots movement. We do what dads should do: we teach life skills to LGBTQ+ people whose own dads wouldn't, and love them along the way. Investing in People Through Love and Life Lessons S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Tuesday, Aug. 20, Sep. 17, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl. Tulsa, OK 74105 Members should meet on Tuesday, June 18th at 9:30 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions 8 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-and-... carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email alex.wade@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. EBA Mixer Wednesday, August 21, 6:00 p.m. OsteoStrong Tulsa 5940 S. Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK 74105 0 STE O (B) STRONG . OsteoStrong Tulsa will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for August. OsteoStrong is a unique place where you can go to improve your overall health by focusing on the one thing we all have in common: a skeletal system. Grateful Day HIV Wellness Retreat Thurs day, August 22, 3 p.m. The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year’s HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ AIDS wellness community through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. . ~':"!!.t'!Lsi x! c~, ~lGUTs ~1-0N£! 1 We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. Don't forget to pay your retreat fees after filling out the registration form. Register Here Get your Ticket Now 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions 9 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-and-... Voting begins for the 2019-2020 Board of Directors Saturday, August 31, 6:00 p.m. - September 7, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 VOTE OKEQ VOTING MEMBERS CAN VOTE for your favorite candidates for the board of directors of Oklahomans for Equality. You can vote online or in person at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. VOTING MEMBERS are individuals who have donated $50 or more in the past 12 months to Oklahomans for Equality. 2019 Board of Directors Nominees Become a Member AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . The Last Five Years Friday, September 6, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 An emotionally powerful and intimate musical about two New Yorkers in their twenties who fall in and out of love over the course of five years. The show's unconventional structure consists of Cathy, telling their story backwards while Jamie, tells their story chronologically; the two characters only meet once, at their wedding in the middle of the show. Friday, September 6 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions 10 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-and-... Directed By: Kara Staiger Performed By: Claire Schroepfer & Travis Guillory Saturday, September 7 Directed By: Ryan Mahannah Performed By: Tylar Dougan, Austin Reid, & Catherine Simmons Sunday, September 8 Directed By: Jen Thomas Performed By: Kia Dorsey-Hightower & Nash McQuarters Friday, September 13 Directed By: Thomas Farnan-Williams Performed By: Kristen Simpson & Jacob Brockunier Saturday, September 14 Directed By: Rick Harrelson Performed By: Liz Hunt & Drew Rosene Sunday, September 15 Directed By: Meghan Hurley Performed By: Margaret Stall & Karlena Riggs Music Direction (all performances): Christy Stalcup Want to attend more than one performance? There's a discount for that! After you purchase one ticket, you will receive an e-mail confirmation with directions to receive a unique code for $5 each additional date you purchase. This is a not-for-profit production. Additional proceeds will be donated to performance volunteers and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Click Below for Tickets: Tickets OKEQ Membership Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! Saturday, September 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The evening will be filled with hor d'oeuvres, wine, a cash bar, and Vegas style entertainment alongside the best in Casino Games and big prize packages. The membership of Oklahomans for Equality will select their Board of Directors and hear the final results of the 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions 11 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-and-... board election. This is a members-only event and you must be a voting member to attend. The voting membership is a $50.00 donation to Oklahomans for Equality. Become a Member MisFEST Saturday, September 14, 3:00 p.m. Guthrie Green 111 E. M.B. Brady St. Tulsa, OK 74103 MisFEST presented by Fowler Automotive is coming back better than ever on September 14, 2019 at Guthrie Green with KT Tunstall as our headliner! There will be food trucks, live and interactive art installations, vendors, and fantastic music. MisFEST is FREE with VIP ticket options for those who want a designated space on the back deck with a few other perks. LINEUP: 4:00 pm - Shoulda Been Blonde 4:50 pm - Yardbone 5:40 pm - Smoochie Wallus 6:30 pm - Bambi feat. Tea Rush 7:10 pm - Tea Rush 8:00 pm - Good Villains 9:00 pm - KT Tunstall Enid Pride Saturday, September 21, 12:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Garfield County Courthouse 100 W. Broadway Ave. Enid, OK 73701 Mark your calendars for the 10th annual Enid Pride celebration on Saturday, September 21, 2019! McAlester Pride Saturday, October 12, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Chadick Park S. 3rd St & E. Chadick Ave. McAlester, OK 74501 - 5eE ~ 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions 12 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-and-... Joe and Nancy McDonald Library EVIDENCE OF BEING Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. " Evidence of Being: The Black Gay Cultural Renaissance and the Politics of Violence " " Evidence of Being opens on a grim scene: Washington DC’s gay black community in the 1980s, ravaged by AIDS, the crack epidemic, and a series of unsolved murders, seemingly abandoned by the government and mainstream culture. Yet in this darkest of moments, a new vision of community and hope managed to emerge. Darius Bost’s account of the media, poetry, and performance of this time and place reveals a stunning confluence of activism and the arts. In Washington and New York during the 1980s and ’90s, gay black men banded together, using creative expression as a tool to challenge the widespread views that marked them as unworthy of grief. They created art that enriched and reimagined their lives in the face of pain and neglect, while at the same time forging a path toward bold new modes of existence. At once a corrective to the predominantly white male accounts of the AIDS crisis and an openhearted depiction of the possibilities of black gay life, Evidence of Being above all insists on the primacy of community over loneliness, and hope over despair. " Equality Pride Store New in the OkEq Pride Store: Progress Pride Pins Stickers and Landyards 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �'.,~ i _: \ ;._,~ · ·J-) ,~, -,; ~I., ' •• ' ~~ _,. i•.::,:J·~~:-:-/-:. •·. .,., ,~ '·'•. - Whii# e ~ --+. -: \~ 13 of 19 , '''.· c-·i· You can make an appointment with Allison by calling 918-280-9645 . Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Allison IkleyFreeman and new sale items The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com S ara Griffey is an LPC Sara Griffey Facebook page to keep up with the new items Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store 4/24/26, 5:07 PM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-and-.. Counseling Services First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions ..!- �First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions 14 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-and-... Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library OkEq Board Meeting 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Monthly Meeting Thursday, August 15, 7:00 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions 15 of 19 Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-and-... UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Sos interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions 16 of 19 Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-and-... information, visit siawso.org Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions 17 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-and-... social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions 18 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening-and-... 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Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat 9 a.m. - 9 p.m. | Sun 9 a.m.- 6 p.m. 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:07 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f509773566cdabbdad18c3e00dbc3d63.pdf 603f28d5b5dcaed393d7f6f45e6c078f PDF Text Text Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 1 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews August 6th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Sorta Love Songs Thursday, August 15, 8:00 p.m – 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 1 • 1 11t·1 •,rtf ·1111· J1r. 1 , • . 1it ·u1 • li1~.~a1mlii1u.~sGlays 1·n the Rainbow. Room ., 111!,,• iu 11~ 1 ' 11 .1 !nhllJ.! 1 • .1 u 1111·•• 1■ I •, •, ,_ . , 1' . •. . 1 ~ 11 ' e 1, :. • ., I ' 1 . ,Ir' ... 4/24/26, 5:08 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 2 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... (sorta) love songs lynn riggs theatre dennls r neill equality center 621 e 4th st thursday, august 15 - 8pm Get your Ticket Now We Are Tulsa - Video Campaign Saturday, August 10, 9 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. 111 E. M.B. Brady St. Tulsa, OK 74103 On Saturday August 10, 2019, from approximately 9a-4p, we will be filming a series of spots called 'We Are Tulsa' at the Guthrie Green. The spots are designed to showcase diversity in Tulsa and to promote goodwill, tourism, and culture. There will be one long form spot showcasing the wide range of diversity (Multi-Cultural, LGBTQ+, people with disabilities, etc...) and then multiple individual spots showcasing more specific communities. The first scenes to be filmed will be our 'hero' bird's-eye-view of a large group of people holding a giant Tulsa flag; the following scenes will be individual 'portrait' shots of people. Please note: These spots were conceived by me alone and will be Directed/Produced by me with local crew. There is NO budget for this and we are not sanctioned by any specific department within Tulsa. Long story short, I believe Tulsa can be a place FOR EVERYONE and these spots are my contribution toward showcasing that potential. Please confirm your attendance through the form and we will contact you with your estimated filming time slots! (We will follow up with emails to all those who have signed up.) It is very important that you fill out the form so we can anticipate the number of people coming through one source. If you or anyone you know would like to be a part of this project, please fill out the following form: Register 4/24/26, 5:08 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 3 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... If you love Tulsa and would like to support this cause, please join us. And if you have any questions please feel free to send me a private message. Thank you!! Facebook Voting begins for the 2019-2020 Board of Directors Saturday, August 31, 6:00 p.m. - September 7, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 VOTE OKEQ VOTING MEMBERS CAN VOTE for your favorite candidates for the board of directors of Oklahomans for Equality. You can vote online or in person at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. VOTING MEMBERS are individuals who have donated $50 or more in the past 12 months to Oklahomans for Equality. 2019 Board of Directors Nominees Become a Member OKEQ Membership Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! Saturday, September 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The evening will be filled with hor d'oeuvres, wine, a cash bar, and Vegas style entertainment alongside the best in Casino Games and big prize packages. The membership of Oklahomans for Equality will select their Board of Directors and hear the final results of the board election. This is a members-only event and you must be a voting member to attend. The voting membership is a $50.00 donation to Oklahomans for Equality. Become a Member It was an Incredible 4/24/26, 5:08 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 4 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Night!! Thank You So Much for your Support! The Raise the Roof Campaign has raised $70,000 in donations and pledges to repair the roof of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! We are thankful for our generous donors that participated in our $14 for 14 years campaign and that attended our Raise the Roof Party on Saturday, July 27th. Thank you for your support. We still have continuing repairs and value your ongoing contributions to the capital improvements campaign. Donate Here ACA LGBT Healthcare Proposal We at Oklahomans for Equality are appalled by the Department of Health and Human Services proposed rule. This proposal would eliminate the LGBTQ+ protections under the Health Care Rights Law of the ACA and, as a result, access to care would become limited for the LGBTQ+ community, and there would be an increase in discrimination within the health care system. At the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, we receive calls daily from people seeking LGBTQ+ friendly health care providers and, because the need is so high, we flood the friendly providers in town with new patients. We as a state cannot afford to lose the protections we have under the ACA, and we at Oklahomans for Equality urge the Department of Health and Human Services to withdraw this proposal. Let the Trump administration know what you think about this proposal. Submit a comment by following the link below. Submit Dads Hug Too and Alphabet Soup LGBTQ+Yo~ Dennis R. Nelli • • ~ S:1"111nlitu t'aftt.ar 4/24/26, 5:08 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 5 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Hosting Car Maintenance, 101 Saturday, August 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Dads Hug Too will be joining Alphabet Soup on August 17th at 6:30 pm to talk with our youth about taking care of their cars. They will provide hands on learning for skills like changing a flat tire and checking your oil. Alphabet Soup, where all letters are welcome! This is the Facebook group for the Alphabet Soup youth group located in Tulsa. We will post about upcoming meetings, answer questions, and provide resources to our youth. Dads Hug Too is a grassroots movement. We do what dads should do: we teach life skills to LGBTQ+ people whose own dads wouldn't, and love them along the way. Investing in People Through Love and Life Lessons S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Tuesday, Aug. 20, Sep. 17, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl. Tulsa, OK 74105 Members should meet on Tuesday, June 18th at 9:30 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email alex.wade@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. EBA Mixer Wednesday, August 21, 6:00 p.m. OsteoStrong Tulsa 5940 S. Lewis Ave 0 STE O (B) STRONG . 4/24/26, 5:08 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 6 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Tulsa, OK 74105 OsteoStrong Tulsa will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for August. OsteoStrong is a unique place where you can go to improve your overall health by focusing on the one thing we all have in common: a skeletal system. Grateful Day HIV Wellness Retreat Thurs day, August 22, 3 p.m. The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year’s HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ AIDS wellness community through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. . R~'!!!i.'!LZ1 x! c:~, ~lGffTS .A1-0N£!, We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. Don't forget to pay your retreat fees after filling out the registration form. Register Here Get your Ticket Now Visibly Imperfectly Perfect First Meetup Thursday, August 26, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This will be the first meetup for this event. It is meant to be a social event and there will be food, drinks, and plenty of conversation! Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone who could be considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. This group is meant for anyone with: 4/24/26, 5:08 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 7 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Vitiligo Poliosis Hair Congenital Nevus (Birthmark) Freckles Neurofibromatosis Albinism Dark Skin Light Skin Exfoliative Erythrodermatitis Waardenburg Syndrome Mastectomy Scars Eczema/Severe Dermatitis Psoriasis etc. Sexual Health and Risk Prevention: Sharp Class at the Equality Center Wednesday, August 28, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SHARP stands for – Sexual Health and Adolescent Risk Prevention. Here are the program objectives: · Understand how HIV and STD’s are transmitted. · Identify incorrect HIV/STD myth’s. · Identify behaviors that place people at risk for contracting HIV/STD’s. · Develop sexual risk reduction strategies. · Learn how to communicate and negotiate with a partner. · Understand the risk of alcohol and drug use. · Improve attitudes for the future. · Develop long term sexual risk and alcohol use reduction goals. · Understand how decisions about engaging in risk behaviors today can affect life tomorrow, and further down the road. If you are between the ages of 12-24 please join us for Sexual Health and Risk Prevention class We will discuss STD’s and HIV infections, how to reduce your risk of getting them and pregnancy prevention. Why should you take the class? Learn about safer sex methods Get a $10 QuikTrip Gift Card (Only receive card if you complete entire class) Pizza and snacks during class New Volunteer Shifts Available I I 4/24/26, 5:08 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 8 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... We will now be opening at 9:00 a.m. and are in need of volunteers from 9:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. every day of the week. If you are interested in volunteering during this time, Please fill out our volunteer form here: Volunteer Form our.Hours of ~ervice! Our Hours are Expanding! We're happy to announce that we are expanding our hours of service! Starting Monday, July 1st the Dennis R Neill Equality Center will open at 9:00 a.m. Hate Crime Vandalism at the Equality Center On Monday, July 22nd, at 11:14 p.m. the Lynn Riggs Memorial Mural at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, the home of Oklahomans for Equality, was vandalized, and under Oklahoma law, this is not classified as a hate crime. Lynn Riggs, a celebrated, gay playwright, was not silenced during his lifetime and we will not be silenced during ours. This is why we continue to fight and speak up against hate. 4/24/26, 5:08 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 9 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org . ---- First Thursday Art Opening: Featuring the work of Tami Smith Thursday, September 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The September Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit will feature the works of Tami Smith, beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. This body of work is all about texture. The works consist of highly textured acrylic paintings, using out of the ordinary materials and paper collage pieces which have applied texture through many layers of paint, many of which are covered with a layer of resin. Each piece has its own unique surface which draws the viewer in close to examine the layers of paint flowing over the hills and into the valleys of applied materials. Some artworks are painted with metallic paint, which allows the light to bounce off the texture from every angle. “The process of applying texture to a canvas, then watching the paint find its way through the crevices and cracks is quite rewarding for me. You could say some of my paintings, paint themselves – while I am able to watch as each painting transforms itself; that is what gives me joy. It's always a moment in time I get to experience - never to be repeated the same way twice; and because of the process in which I paint, no two paintings will ever be exactly the same. In creating each piece, I strive to construct in a way that will prompt questions of how it was produced.” “I have always loved to paint, create, explore, make, and transform; I have also always loved to share what I have learned with others. After decades of teaching graphic design and computer classes, I decided to start creating for myself. Along with the composition and color theory knowledge I have from teaching, I have learned many new and unique art techniques by studying with the best - world renowned artists and local artists, numerous online classes, 4/24/26, 5:08 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 10 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... and self-learning from a whole library of art books. After years of perfecting my techniques and style, I am now experiencing the greatest delight – having collectors of my art! The show begins with a reception on Thursday, September 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. The Last Five Years Friday, September 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 An emotionally powerful and intimate musical about two New Yorkers in their twenties who fall in and out of love over the course of five years. The show's unconventional structure consists of Cathy, telling their story backwards while Jamie, tells their story chronologically; the two characters only meet once, at their wedding in the middle of the show. Friday, September 6 Directed By: Kara Staiger Performed By: Claire Schroepfer & Travis Guillory Saturday, September 7 Directed By: Ryan Mahannah Performed By: Tylar Dougan, Austin Reid, & Catherine Simmons Sunday, September 8 Directed By: Jen Thomas Performed By: Kia Dorsey-Hightower & Nash McQuarters Friday, September 13 Directed By: Thomas Farnan-Williams Performed By: Kristen Simpson & Jacob Brockunier Saturday, September 14 Directed By: Rick Harrelson Performed By: Liz Hunt & Drew Rosene Sunday, September 15 Directed By: Meghan Hurley Performed By: Margaret Stall & Karlena Riggs Music Direction (all performances): Christy Stalcup Want to attend more than one performance? There's a discount for that! After you purchase one ticket, you will receive an e-mail confirmation with directions to receive a unique code for $5 each additional date you purchase. 4/24/26, 5:08 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 11 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... This is a not-for-profit production. Additional proceeds will be donated to performance volunteers and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Click Below for Tickets: Tickets MisFEST Saturday, September 14, 3:00 p.m. Guthrie Green 111 E. M.B. Brady St. Tulsa, OK 74103 MisFEST presented by Fowler Automotive is coming back better than ever on September 14, 2019 at Guthrie Green with KT Tunstall as our headliner! There will be food trucks, live and interactive art installations, vendors, and fantastic music. MisFEST is FREE with VIP ticket options for those who want a designated space on the back deck with a few other perks. LINEUP: 4:00 pm - Shoulda Been Blonde 4:50 pm - Yardbone 5:40 pm - Smoochie Wallus 6:30 pm - Bambi feat. Tea Rush 7:10 pm - Tea Rush 8:00 pm - Good Villains 9:00 pm - KT Tunstall Enid Pride Saturday, September 21, 12:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Garfield County Courthouse 100 W. Broadway Ave. Enid, OK 73701 Mark your calendars for the 10th annual Enid Pride celebration on Saturday, September 21, 2019! McAlester Pride Saturday, October 12, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Chadick Park S. 3rd St & E. Chadick Ave. McAlester, OK 74501 --------5 e 4/24/26, 5:08 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 12 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey (GHSE) Do you identify as transgender or any gender that is different from the sex you were assigned at birth? If so, we encourage you to participate in The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey! This research will help support our understanding of the social, institutional, and healthcare needs of trans and gender nonbinary people. Participants will have the opportunity to vote for a trans-related non-profit organization. $300.00 will be donated to each of the two organizations with the most votes. We will not collect any identifying information from you. Complete Survey Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " This Book is Gay " by Juno Dawson Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. "The book every LGBT person would have killed for as a teenager, told in the voice of a wise best friend. Frank, warm, funny, USEFUL." ―Patrick Ness, bestselling author Lesbian. Bisexual. Queer. Transgender. Straight. Curious. This book is for everyone, regardless of gender or sexual preference. This book is for anyone who's ever dared to wonder. This book is for YOU. There's a long-running joke that, after "coming out," a lesbian, gay guy, bisexual, or trans person should receive a membership card and instruction manual. THIS IS THAT INSTRUCTION MANUAL. You're welcome. Inside you'll find the answers to all the questions you ever wanted to ask: from sex to politics, hooking up to stereotypes, coming out and more. This candid, funny, and uncensored exploration of sexuality and what it's like to grow up LGBT also includes real stories from people across the gender and sexual spectrums, not to mention hilarious illustrations. You will be entertained. You will be informed. But most importantly, you will know that 4/24/26, 5:08 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 13 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... however you identify (or don't) and whomever you love, you are exceptional. You matter. And so does this book. One of The Guardian's Best Books of the Year "This egregious gap has now been filled to a fare-thee-well by Dawson's book..." - Booklist Equality Pride Store New in the OkEq Pride Store: Gender Traitor TShirts! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. 4/24/26, 5:08 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 14 of 20 scale based on income. You can make an appointment with Allison by calling 918-280-9645 . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com ----- Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL A1n thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library OkEq Board Meeting 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Monthly Meeting Thursday, August 15, 7:00 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley It's Complicated 4/24/26, 5:08 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 15 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . sos Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for 4/24/26, 5:08 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 16 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... call 918-743-4297 . Survivors of Incest Anonymous individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Game Night 4/24/26, 5:08 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 17 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. 4/24/26, 5:08 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3244258c6bd9a44078948f99f3950857.pdf 2db6b12abd379d0bb0cd9b571c15a7fe PDF Text Text Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 1 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews August 13th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Sorta Love Songs Thursday, August 15, 8:00 p.m – 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 1 • 1 11t·1 •,rtf ·1111· J1r. 1 , • . 1it ·u1 • li1~.~a1mlii1u.~sGlays 1·n the Rainbow. Room ., 111!,,• iu 11~ 1 ' 11 .1 !nhllJ.! 1 • .1 u 1111·•• 1■ I •, •, ,_ . , 1' . •. . 1 ~ 11 ' e 1, :. • ., I ' 1 . ,Ir' ... 4/24/26, 5:09 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 2 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... (sorta) love songs lynn riggs theatre dennls r neill equality center 621 e 4th st thursday, august 15 - 8pm Get your Ticket Now Voting begins for the 2019-2020 Board of Directors Saturday, August 31, 6:00 p.m. - September 7, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 VOTE OKEQ VOTING MEMBERS CAN VOTE for your favorite candidates for the board of directors of Oklahomans for Equality. You can vote online or in person at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. VOTING MEMBERS are individuals who have donated $50 or more in the past 12 months to Oklahomans for Equality. 2019 Board of Directors Nominees Become a Member OKEQ Membership Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! Saturday, September 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:09 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 3 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... The evening will be filled with hor d'oeuvres, wine, a cash bar, and Vegas style entertainment alongside the best in Casino Games and big prize packages. The membership of Oklahomans for Equality will select their Board of Directors and hear the final results of the board election. This is a members-only event and you must be a voting member to attend. The voting membership is a $50.00 donation to Oklahomans for Equality. Become a Member Dads Hug Too and Alphabet Soup Hosting Car Maintenance, 101 Saturday, August 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Dads Hug Too will be joining Alphabet Soup on August 17th at 6:30 pm to talk with our youth about taking care of their cars. They will provide hands on learning for skills like changing a flat tire and checking your oil. Alphabet Soup, where all letters are welcome! This is the Facebook group for the Alphabet Soup youth group located in Tulsa. We will post about upcoming meetings, answer questions, and provide resources to our youth. Dads Hug Too is a grassroots movement. We do what dads should do: we teach life skills to LGBTQ+ people whose own dads wouldn't, and love them along the way. Investing in People Through Love and Life Lessons S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Tuesday, Aug. 20, Sep. 17, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl. Tulsa, OK 74105 Members should meet on Tuesday, June 18th at 9:30 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email alex.wade@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/24/26, 5:09 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 4 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. EBA Mixer Wednesday, August 21, 6:00 p.m. OsteoStrong Tulsa 5940 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74105 0 STE O (B) STRONG . OsteoStrong Tulsa will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for August. "OsteoStrong is a unique place where you can go to improve your overall health by focusing on the one thing we all have in common: a skeletal system." Our promise to you at OsteoStrong Tulsa: For your visit with us to be the best part of your day! We are passionate about this science. We are committed to lifelong learning and sharing that knowledge. We are invested in helping our clients excel. OsteoStrong is a unique place where you can go to improve your overall health by focusing on the one thing we all have in common: a skeletal system." Visibly Imperfectly Perfect First Meetup Thursday, August 26, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This will be the first meetup for this event. It is meant to be a social event and there will be food, drinks, and plenty of conversation! Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone who could be considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. This group is meant for anyone with: Vitiligo Poliosis Hair Congenital Nevus (Birthmark) Freckles Neurofibromatosis 4/24/26, 5:09 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 5 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Albinism Dark Skin Light Skin Exfoliative Erythrodermatitis Waardenburg Syndrome Mastectomy Scars Eczema/Severe Dermatitis Psoriasis etc. Sexual Health and Risk Prevention: Sharp Class at the Equality Center Wednesday, August 28, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SHARP stands for – Sexual Health and Adolescent Risk Prevention. Here are the program objectives: · Understand how HIV and STD’s are transmitted. · Identify incorrect HIV/STD myth’s. · Identify behaviors that place people at risk for contracting HIV/STD’s. · Develop sexual risk reduction strategies. · Learn how to communicate and negotiate with a partner. · Understand the risk of alcohol and drug use. · Improve attitudes for the future. · Develop long term sexual risk and alcohol use reduction goals. · Understand how decisions about engaging in risk behaviors today can affect life tomorrow, and further down the road. If you are between the ages of 12-24 please join us for Sexual Health and Risk Prevention class We will discuss STD’s and HIV infections, how to reduce your risk of getting them and pregnancy prevention. Why should you take the class? Learn about safer sex methods Get a $10 QuikTrip Gift Card (Only receive card if you complete entire class) Pizza and snacks during class First Thursday Art Opening: Featuring the work of Tami Smith Thursday, September 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 5:09 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 6 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The September Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit will feature the works of Tami Smith, beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. This body of work is all about texture. The works consist of highly textured acrylic paintings, using out of the ordinary materials and paper collage pieces which have applied texture through many layers of paint, many of which are covered with a layer of resin. Each piece has its own unique surface which draws the viewer in close to examine the layers of paint flowing over the hills and into the valleys of applied materials. Some artworks are painted with metallic paint, which allows the light to bounce off the texture from every angle. “The process of applying texture to a canvas, then watching the paint find its way through the crevices and cracks is quite rewarding for me. You could say some of my paintings, paint themselves – while I am able to watch as each painting transforms itself; that is what gives me joy. It's always a moment in time I get to experience - never to be repeated the same way twice; and because of the process in which I paint, no two paintings will ever be exactly the same. In creating each piece, I strive to construct in a way that will prompt questions of how it was produced.” “I have always loved to paint, create, explore, make, and transform; I have also always loved to share what I have learned with others. After decades of teaching graphic design and computer classes, I decided to start creating for myself. Along with the composition and color theory knowledge I have from teaching, I have learned many new and unique art techniques by studying with the best - world renowned artists and local artists, numerous online classes, and self-learning from a whole library of art books. After years of perfecting my techniques and style, I am now experiencing the greatest delight – having collectors of my art! The show begins with a reception on Thursday, September 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. The Last Five Years Friday, September 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 An emotionally powerful and intimate musical about two New Yorkers in their twenties who fall in and out of love over the course of five years. The show's unconventional structure consists of Cathy, telling their story backwards while Jamie, tells their story chronologically; the two characters only meet once, at their wedding in the middle of the show. Friday, September 6 Directed By: Kara Staiger Performed By: Claire Schroepfer & Travis Guillory 4/24/26, 5:09 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room "Sorta Love Songs" 7 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Saturday, September 7 Directed By: Ryan Mahannah Performed By: Tylar Dougan, Austin Reid, & Catherine Simmons Sunday, September 8 Directed By: Jen Thomas Performed By: Kia Dorsey-Hightower & Nash McQuarters Friday, September 13 Directed By: Thomas Farnan-Williams Performed By: Kristen Simpson & Jacob Brockunier Saturday, September 14 Directed By: Rick Harrelson Performed By: Liz Hunt & Drew Rosene Sunday, September 15 Directed By: Meghan Hurley Performed By: Margaret Stall & Karlena Riggs Music Direction (all performances): Christy Stalcup Want to attend more than one performance? There's a discount for that! After you purchase one ticket, you will receive an e-mail confirmation with directions to receive a unique code for $5 each additional date you purchase. This is a not-for-profit production. Additional proceeds will be donated to performance volunteers and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Click Below for Tickets: Tickets Rise Up Singing - Summer Songfest at the Synagogue Sunday, August 25, 5:45 p.m. The Synogogue 1719 S. Owasso Tulsa, OK 74120 Congregation B’nai Emunah invites the whole community to “Rise Up Singing,” a participatory songfest featuring roots, folk, and Americana in live performance. The event will take place on Sunday evening, August 25, at 7:00 p.m. The concert is free and open to the public, and no reservations are necessary. An optional meal of authentic kosher deli will take place at 5:45 p.m. Those who’d like to reserve a place for dinner should call (918) 4/24/26, 5:09 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f27ce9e3e68e077356ac7ec201fea9f3.pdf 2be18aca37e04b7240311517f6959026 PDF Text Text We Are Proud of the City of Tulsa for Making this Stand for Equality! 1 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Are-Proud-of-the-City-of-Tuls... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews August 19th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! We Are Proud of the City of Tulsa for Making this Stand for Equality! On the 20th anniversary of the creation of the transgender flag, Oklahomans for Equality applauds Mayor GT Bynum and Tulsa’s City Councilors for their commitment to the protection of 4/24/26, 5:09 PM �We Are Proud of the City of Tulsa for Making this Stand for Equality! 2 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Are-Proud-of-the-City-of-Tuls... transgender people in the city of Tulsa. On Monday, August 19th, 2019, Mayor GT Bynum signed an executive order, adding gender identity and expression to the City of Tulsa’s employee non-discrimination policy. This is a monumental moment for this city, and according to Mayor Bynum, “Tulsa aims to be a globally-competitive, world-class place of employment...and committed to being a leader in areas of equity, diversity, and inclusion, essential to recruiting, developing, and retaining a competent and committed workforce. ” Oklahomans for Equality is thankful for the support of our Mayor and City Councilors on this important issue. We will continue the work to ensure protections for LGBTQ+ Tulsans and our community across the state. Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, Board of Directors at OkEq: “The Trump Administration is trying to say it is acceptable to fire people for being transgender. It is fantastic and encouraging that Mayor Bynum is insightful and brave enough to do the right thing by issuing this proclamation.” Krissy Dudley, Administrative Manager at OkEq: “I truly hope that this sets a precedent for our employers in the Tulsa area to do the same. Trans people work just as hard as other employees and deserve these equal protections. Just like everyone else, we want to live productive lives and provide for our families.” Nancy McDonald, PFLAG Tulsa: “ PFLAG Tulsa applauds the Tulsa City Council and Mayor GT Bynum of Tulsa in continuing to include all of our citizens as we work towards a more integrated community.” Alex Wade, Medical Services Coordinator at OkEq: “My heart has been heavy with each passing announcement from our current presidential administration. With the recent call for the supreme court to permit discrimination of transgender employees, Mayor Bynum’s choice to stand with the transgender community is a brave step forward for equality.” EBA Mixer Wednesday, August 21, 6:00 p.m. OsteoStrong Tulsa 5940 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74105 0 STE O (B) STRONG . OsteoStrong Tulsa will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for August. "OsteoStrong is a unique place where you can go to improve your overall health by focusing on the one thing we all have in common: a skeletal system." Our promise to you at OsteoStrong Tulsa: For your visit with us to be the best part of your day! We are passionate about this science. We are committed to lifelong learning and sharing that knowledge. We are invested in helping our clients excel. OsteoStrong is a unique place where you can go to improve your overall health by focusing on the one thing we all have in common: a skeletal system." 4/24/26, 5:09 PM �We Are Proud of the City of Tulsa for Making this Stand for Equality! 3 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Are-Proud-of-the-City-of-Tuls... Voting begins for the 2019-2020 Board of Directors Saturday, August 31, 6:00 p.m. - September 7, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 VOTE OKEQ VOTING MEMBERS CAN VOTE for your favorite candidates for the board of directors of Oklahomans for Equality. You can vote online or in person at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. VOTING MEMBERS are individuals who have donated $50 or more in the past 12 months to Oklahomans for Equality. 2019 Board of Directors Nominees Become a Member Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, September 3, 6:30 p.m. Bricktown Brewery 3301 S. Peoria Ave. Tulsa, OK 74105 bricktownbrewery.com The reservations are under OkEq Men's Group. A head count is needed for the reservations. If you are coming please let us know by clicking below. RSVP Grief is not taboo (and neither are you!) Friday, September 6, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 It’s okay to be sad! There are a lot of things in the world that can make us sad, but we learn incorrectly that “Sad is Bad”. Not true! Join us for an evening of learning about what grief is, what it’s not, and how to cope with with it more effectively. Intended for everyone who has experienced ANY of the 40+ identified grief causing events, this presentation shatters myths and taboos about grief. Scharain Watkins, a Certified Grief Recovery Specialist and Happiness Coach, is an 4/24/26, 5:09 PM �We Are Proud of the City of Tulsa for Making this Stand for Equality! 4 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Are-Proud-of-the-City-of-Tuls... Oklahoma Native who is equal parts minister to the hurting, thought leader for creating joy, advocate for mental health care, activist for civil and equal rights, and all-around champion of the underdog. She has an impressive and creative arsenal of four-letter words and makes little apology for using them. As a woman who has worked her way through many grief events and learned how to thrive, she uses writing, speaking, and engaging people wherever they are to teach how to heal broken hearts, be confident in personal openness, spread radical grace, enjoy being human, and show love, out loud, in big ways. OKEQ Membership Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! Saturday, September 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The evening will be filled with hor d'oeuvres, wine, a cash bar, and Vegas style entertainment alongside the best in Casino Games and big prize packages. The membership of Oklahomans for Equality will select their Board of Directors and hear the final results of the board election. This is a members-only event and you must be a voting member to attend. The voting membership is a $50.00 donation to Oklahomans for Equality. Become a Member First Thursday Art Opening: Featuring the work of Tami Smith Thursday, September 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The September Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit will feature the works of Tami Smith, beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. This body of work is all about texture. The works consist of highly textured acrylic paintings, using out of the ordinary materials and paper collage pieces which have applied texture through many layers of paint, many of which are covered with a layer of resin. Each piece has its own unique surface which draws the viewer in close to examine the layers of paint flowing over the hills and into the valleys of applied materials. Some artworks are painted with metallic paint, which allows the light to bounce off the texture from every angle. 4/24/26, 5:09 PM �We Are Proud of the City of Tulsa for Making this Stand for Equality! 5 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Are-Proud-of-the-City-of-Tuls... “The process of applying texture to a canvas, then watching the paint find its way through the crevices and cracks is quite rewarding for me. You could say some of my paintings, paint themselves – while I am able to watch as each painting transforms itself; that is what gives me joy. It's always a moment in time I get to experience - never to be repeated the same way twice; and because of the process in which I paint, no two paintings will ever be exactly the same. In creating each piece, I strive to construct in a way that will prompt questions of how it was produced.” “I have always loved to paint, create, explore, make, and transform; I have also always loved to share what I have learned with others. After decades of teaching graphic design and computer classes, I decided to start creating for myself. Along with the composition and color theory knowledge I have from teaching, I have learned many new and unique art techniques by studying with the best - world renowned artists and local artists, numerous online classes, and self-learning from a whole library of art books. After years of perfecting my techniques and style, I am now experiencing the greatest delight – having collectors of my art! The show begins with a reception on Thursday, September 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. LGBT Women's Network September Happy Hour Monday, September 9, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Cirque Coffee 1317 E. 6th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Cirque Coffee has invited us join them on September 9th! Come see their gorgeous, expanded space and try a drink from their new cocktail program. They have a top coffee selection as well if you're just looking to get your caffeine fix! **this is on the second Monday of September due to the holiday. As always, our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and allies are always welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested to visit all LGBT-friendly locations! Bi+ Visibility Week Celebration PANCAKES WITH PANSEXUALS Sunday, Sept 22 11:00 a.m. Bruce Golf Event Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Let's kick off Bi+ Visibility Week with brunch! We celebrate all identities under the Bi+ Umbrella. 4/24/26, 5:09 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d5e2e6497302a99bf3f99822d6808516.pdf 8780cc28e471be9263588054fa0ddad5 PDF Text Text Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 1 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews August 27th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! OKEQ Membership Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! Saturday, September 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The evening will be filled with hor d'oeuvres, wine, a cash bar, and Vegas style entertainment alongside the best in Casino Games and big prize packages. The membership of 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 2 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... Oklahomans for Equality will select their Board of Directors and hear the final results of the board election. This is a members-only event and you must be a voting member to attend. The voting membership is a $50.00 donation to Oklahomans for Equality. Become a Member Voting begins for the 2019-2020 Board of Directors Saturday, August 31, 12:00 a.m. - September 7, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 VOTE OKEQ VOTING MEMBERS CAN VOTE for your favorite candidates for the board of directors of Oklahomans for Equality. You can vote online or in person at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. VOTING MEMBERS are individuals who have donated $50 or more in the past 12 months to Oklahomans for Equality. 2019 Board of Directors Nominees Become a Member Blue Whale Comedy Festival Friday August 30, 7:30 p.m. Cain's Ballroom SIDE STAGE 423 N. Main Street Tulsa, OK, 74103 This event is 18 and over 2019 BLUE WHALE COMEDY FESTIVAL AUGUST29-31 + TULSA,OK -+ • 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 3 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... SATUROAYH ELLE NICO Get Tickets Here 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 4 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... The OKEQ History Project Needs your Help OKEQ HISTORY PROJECT Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 WE NEED YOUR HELP! Our History Project team has been working on archiving footage, artifacts, and newspaper clippings from 1980 to the present day. We have pieces of Oklahoma LGBTQ+ history that span forty years, but we need your help! Do you have old newspapers at your house that mention OKEQ? Do you have Pride shirts from 11 1999? Videos from past galas? Consider donating or loaning them to our history project so we can digitize and make our archive searchable to the public! ! ■ 1 11- 1 11-11 II II Bring any and all artifacts to the center! We are open 7 days a week from 9am-9pm! EROS Erotica 2019 Friday August 30, 7:30 p.m. Sunday, September 1, 8 p.m. – 10 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We will be holding our first annual EROS Erotica 2019 art show during Labor Day weekend of this year.... This event will be held at; Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Click the below button for advance tickets for Friday night's Burlesque Show, performed by Terre Rouge Burlesque from 8 pm to 10 pm. Tickets Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, September 3, 6:30 p.m. Bricktown Brewery 3301 S. Peoria Ave. Tulsa, OK 74105 bricktownbrewery.com The reservations are under OkEq Men's Group. A head count is needed for the reservations. If you are coming please let us know by clicking below. 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 5 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... RSVP Grief is not taboo (and neither are you!) Friday, September 6, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 It’s okay to be sad! There are a lot of things in the world that can make us sad, but we learn incorrectly that “Sad is Bad”. Not true! Join us for an evening of learning about what grief is, what it’s not, and how to cope with with it more effectively. Intended for everyone who has experienced ANY of the 40+ identified grief causing events, this presentation shatters myths and taboos about grief. Scharain Watkins, a Certified Grief Recovery Specialist and Happiness Coach, is an Oklahoma Native who is equal parts minister to the hurting, thought leader for creating joy, advocate for mental health care, activist for civil and equal rights, and all-around champion of the underdog. She has an impressive and creative arsenal of four-letter words and makes little apology for using them. As a woman who has worked her way through many grief events and learned how to thrive, she uses writing, speaking, and engaging people wherever they are to teach how to heal broken hearts, be confident in personal openness, spread radical grace, enjoy being human, and show love, out loud, in big ways. First Thursday Art Opening: Featuring the work of Tami Smith Thursday, September 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The September Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit will feature the works of Tami Smith, beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. This body of work is all about texture. The works consist of highly textured acrylic paintings, using out of the ordinary materials and paper collage pieces which have applied texture through many layers of paint, many of which are covered with a layer of resin. Each piece has its own unique surface which draws the viewer in close to examine the layers of paint flowing over the hills and into the valleys of applied materials. Some artworks are painted with metallic paint, which allows the light to bounce off the texture from every angle. “The process of applying texture to a canvas, then watching the paint find its way through the crevices and cracks is quite rewarding for me. You could say some of my paintings, paint 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 6 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... themselves – while I am able to watch as each painting transforms itself; that is what gives me joy. It's always a moment in time I get to experience - never to be repeated the same way twice; and because of the process in which I paint, no two paintings will ever be exactly the same. In creating each piece, I strive to construct in a way that will prompt questions of how it was produced.” “I have always loved to paint, create, explore, make, and transform; I have also always loved to share what I have learned with others. After decades of teaching graphic design and computer classes, I decided to start creating for myself. Along with the composition and color theory knowledge I have from teaching, I have learned many new and unique art techniques by studying with the best - world renowned artists and local artists, numerous online classes, and self-learning from a whole library of art books. After years of perfecting my techniques and style, I am now experiencing the greatest delight – having collectors of my art! The show begins with a reception on Thursday, September 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. Fresh Start Program: Transformative self care! Thursday, September 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ORMATIVE ~ o The brain child of Victoria James and cosponsored by Clary Sage College, Dennis R Neill Equality Center, Unity Tulsa, and Dynamite Conventions. The Fresh Start Program is designed give a hand-up to those who are going experiencing major life-changes through teaching self-care. No matter what is happening in your life … gender transition, divorce, or even just a much-needed change … The Fresh Start Program provides a judgment free and life-affirming environment so that you can build the best version of yourself through self-care and style. So, stop hating your mirror and stop waiting on the Fab Five to swoop in to make your life better. Join us for our free monthly classes, take control and give yourself the skills to stride into the future with confidence. September 5th - Skincare and Skin Analysis Clary Sage College's Aesthetics instructor will show you how to care for your skin and how to get a clear complexion. Clary Sage students will then do a free skin analysis test for class attendees and give you advise on the best skin care regiment. The first 20 attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). October 3rd - Applying Makeup for Your Everyday Style Clary Sage College's Makeup Artistry instructor and students will show you how to apply and wear everyday makeup. Bring your makeup kit to class and the Clary Sage students and instructors will show each attendee tips on the best way to apply makeup for your shape and coloring. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). November 7th - Hair Care and Styling Clary Sage College's Cosmetology instructor will teach you about hair care and styling, 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 7 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... and how to choose the best style for you. Students and instructors will then style hair of attendees and show what may work best for them. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). December 5th - Barbering and Facial Hair Care We will have one of our barber instructors give a presentation on hair styles, how to care for facial hair, and choosing the best style for the shape of your face. Students and instructors will then sit and talk with attendees individually about what may work best for them. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). January 9th - Creating Your Style Dyana Harrison, our Fashion Design instructor will talk about how to create your personal style, colors to chose and avoid, and how to dress for every occasion. Students and instructors will then sit and talk with attendees individually about what may work best for them. The first 20 attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). January 23rd - Fashion Swap Closet getting full, or style getting stale? Bring your lightly used clothes, purses, accessories, shoes and more to the Equality Center and trade them with other attendees to build a whole new style! Clary Sage Instructors and students will be on hand to help you make choices so will you look your best. February 6th - Tips to Design Your Own Space Our Interior Design instructor will give a presentation on how to make your space fit with your style. She will talk about what elements, color, and accents to incorporate in order to create a feminine, masculine and/or gender-neutral space. A nice space is a happy space. LGBT Women's Network September Happy Hour Monday, September 9, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Cirque Coffee 1317 E. 6th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Cirque Coffee has invited us join them on September 9th! Come see their gorgeous, expanded space and try a drink from their new cocktail program. They have a top coffee selection as well if you're just looking to get your caffeine fix! **this is on the second Monday of September due to the holiday. As always, our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and allies are always welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested to visit all LGBT-friendly locations! Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : Headlines and Kicklines 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 8 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... Thursday, September 19, 8:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Star of the stage and screen, Travis Guillory jumps off the news anchor desk and onto the cabaret stage with “Headlines & Kicklines.” Singing songs of roles he’s played, roles he’d like to play, and roles they won’t let him play, the song and dance man will be joined by Claire Schroepfer, John Burns, Kara Staiger, Nicholas Cains and Margaret Stall, accompanied by Christy Stalcup on the piano. Prepare for an evening of laughter, music, and witnessing a news man attempt to hit notes that probably should be left up to a trained singer. Click Below for Tickets: Click for Tickets Bi+ Visibility Week Celebration PANCAKES WITH PANSEXUALS Sunday, Sept 22 11:00 a.m. Bruce Golf Event Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Let's kick off Bi+ Visibility Week with brunch! We celebrate all identities under the Bi+ Umbrella. Enjoy pancakes and other breakfast food, and come learn about the Pansexual identity. BI+ VISIBILITY DAY MIXER Monday, Sept 23 6:30 p.m. Bruce Golf Event Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 September 23 is International Celebrate Bisexuality Day, aka BI+ VISIBILITY DAY! Join us for a casual meet-and-greet learn about the non-monosexual identities and Bisexual+ programming at the Equality Center, and meet members of the community. BI+ HAPPY HOUR AT DEAD ARMADILLO BREWERY Thursday, Sept 26, 5:00 p.m. Dead Armadillo Brewery 1004 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Have a beer or two at Dead Armadillo's kid- and dog-friendly beergarden, just across the bridge from the Equality Center! Live music beginning at 7:00. STAND BI+ ME CELEBRATION! Saturday, Sept 28, 6:00 p.m. Lynn Riggs Theater Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 9 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq's Brought To You Bi+ The Letter B invites you to our 4th annual Stand Bi+ Me party for Bi+ Visibility Day 2019! Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center as we recognize the Bisexual, Pansexual, Fluid, Queer, and all non-monosexual identities. We will have music, dancing, stories, and refreshments. All are welcome, must be 21+ to drink. Celebrate with us and be seen! The Last Five Years Friday, September 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 An emotionally powerful and intimate musical about two New Yorkers in their twenties who fall in and out of love over the course of five years. The show's unconventional structure consists of Cathy, telling their story backwards while Jamie, tells their story chronologically; the two characters only meet once, at their wedding in the middle of the show. Friday, September 6 Directed By: Kara Staiger Performed By: Claire Schroepfer & Travis Guillory Saturday, September 7 Directed By: Ryan Mahannah Performed By: Tylar Dougan, Austin Reid, & Catherine Simmons Sunday, September 8 Directed By: Jen Thomas Performed By: Kia Dorsey-Hightower & Nash McQuarters Friday, September 13 Directed By: Thomas Farnan-Williams Performed By: Kristen Simpson & Jacob Brockunier Saturday, September 14 Directed By: Rick Harrelson Performed By: Liz Hunt & Drew Rosene Sunday, September 15 Directed By: Meghan Hurley Performed By: Margaret Stall & Karlena Riggs Music Direction (all performances): Christy Stalcup Want to attend more than one performance? There's a discount for that! After you purchase 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 10 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... one ticket, you will receive an e-mail confirmation with directions to receive a unique code for $5 each additional date you purchase. This is a not-for-profit production. Additional proceeds will be donated to performance volunteers and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tickets Orbit Initiative Saturday, September 14, 1:00 p.m. - 3:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The ORBIT INITIATIVE is an educational endeavor by the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Trust that strives to reach beyond downtown to work with community partners citywide to provide theatrical education to anyone interested, ages 4-84, free of charge, and located within their community. The goal is to provide collaboration and fellowship for all of Tulsa’s communities through entertainment, education and performance that reflects Tulsa’s own unique diversity. Strong community partnerships are the bedrock of ORBIT. Reaching out to those community members who feel the theater is out of their reach or is an elitist organization is the primary objective. EBA Mixer Wednesday, September 18, 6:00 p.m. FullyPromoted Tulsa 7115 S Mingo Rd Tulsa, Oklahoma FullyPromoted Tulsa will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for September. "Are You Fully Promoted? Fully Promoted offers extensive branding and marketing services for businesses and organizations. We create customizable campaigns with a wide variety of products like apparel, promotional products, printed materials and lead generation. Our local experts specialize in putting your logo on almost anything! If you can imagine it, there is a good chance we can do it. We provide solutions that include branded apparel, team gear, professional attire, service wear, uniforms and more. Fully Promoted works with a wide range of industries including nonprofits, automotive, safety, healthcare, insurance, financial, education, construction, and churches. 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 11 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... Enid Pride Saturday, September 21, 12:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Garfield County Courthouse 100 W. Broadway Ave. Enid, OK 73701 Mark your calendars for the 10th annual Enid Pride celebration on Saturday, September 21, 2019! Visibly Imperfectly Perfect First Meetup Thursday, September 26, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This will be the first meetup for this event. It is meant to be a social event and there will be food, drinks, and plenty of conversation! Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone who could be considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. This group is meant for anyone with: Vitiligo Poliosis Hair Congenital Nevus (Birthmark) Freckles Neurofibromatosis Albinism Dark Skin Light Skin Exfoliative Erythrodermatitis Waardenburg Syndrome Mastectomy Scars Eczema/Severe Dermatitis Psoriasis etc. Pride Days at the Tulsa State Fair Thursday September 26, 11 a.m. – Sunday October 6, 11 p.m. Tulsa State Fair 4145 E 21st St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 12 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... Oklahomans for Equality invites you to turn the Tulsa State Fair Rainbow! Come out and have fun at the Tulsa State Fair as our community celebrates LGBTQ+ Pride all 11 days of awesome! Oklahomans for Equality will have an indoor booth with the road show pride store, information, and volunteers! This is a great chance to run into familiar faces and meet new ones. Don't forget to wear your pride attire to spread awareness and visibility of our presence in Tulsa! Call for Artist - Deadline for submissions Oct. 7th Monday, October 7, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2020 Exhibition Calendar. Our gallery encourages artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media to apply. Details Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is installed on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. Work must be available for sale. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc) for each piece. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. How to Apply: Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted by email. Proposals incorporating the work of two artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. Deadline for submissions is October 7th, 2019. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2019. Please submit entry below, with the subject heading “OkEq gallery proposal" Submit Entry 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 13 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... McAlester Pride Saturday, October 12, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Chadick Park S. 3rd St & E. Chadick Ave. McAlester, OK 74501 We Are Proud of the City of Tulsa for Making this Stand for Equality! On the 20th anniversary of the creation of the transgender flag, Oklahomans for Equality applauds Mayor GT Bynum and Tulsa’s City Councilors for their commitment to the protection of transgender people in the city of Tulsa. On Monday, August 19th, 2019, Mayor GT Bynum signed an executive order, adding gender identity and expression to the City of Tulsa’s employee non-discrimination policy. This is a monumental moment for this city, and according to Mayor Bynum, “Tulsa aims to be a globally-competitive, world-class place of employment...and committed to being a leader in areas of equity, diversity, and inclusion, essential to recruiting, developing, and retaining a competent and committed workforce. ” Oklahomans for Equality is thankful for the support of our Mayor and City Councilors on this important issue. We will continue the work to ensure protections for LGBTQ+ Tulsans and our community across the state. Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, Board of Directors at OkEq: “The Trump Administration is trying to say it is acceptable to fire people for being transgender. It is fantastic and encouraging that Mayor Bynum is insightful and brave enough to do the right thing by issuing this proclamation.” Krissy Dudley, Administrative Manager at OkEq: “I truly hope that this sets a precedent for our employers in the Tulsa area to do the same. Trans people work just as hard as other employees and deserve these equal protections. Just like everyone else, we want to live productive lives and provide for our families.” Nancy McDonald, PFLAG Tulsa: “ PFLAG Tulsa applauds the Tulsa City Council and Mayor GT Bynum of Tulsa in continuing to include all of our citizens as we work towards a more integrated community.” Alex Wade, Medical Services Coordinator at OkEq: “My heart has been heavy with each passing announcement from our current presidential administration. With the recent call for the supreme court to permit discrimination of transgender employees, Mayor Bynum’s choice to stand with the transgender community is a brave step forward for equality.” Grateful Day HIV Wellness Retreat 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 14 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... Thurs day, August 22, 3:00 p.m. The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year’s HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in ~lGUTs ~1,.0N£! 1 Oklahoma's HIV/AIDS wellness community through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. . ~':."!!.t'!!<>Z1 x!c~, We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. Don't forget to pay your retreat fees after filling out the registration form. Register Here Get your Ticket Now Sexual Health and Risk Prevention: Sharp Class at the Equality Center Wednesday, August 28, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SHARP stands for – Sexual Health and Adolescent Risk Prevention. Here are the program objectives: · Understand how HIV and STD’s are transmitted. · Identify incorrect HIV/STD myth’s. · Identify behaviors that place people at risk for contracting HIV/STD’s. · Develop sexual risk reduction strategies. · Learn how to communicate and negotiate with a partner. · Understand the risk of alcohol and drug use. · Improve attitudes for the future. · Develop long term sexual risk and alcohol use reduction goals. · Understand how decisions about engaging in risk behaviors today can affect life tomorrow, and further down the road. If you are between the ages of 12-24 please join us for Sexual Health and Risk Prevention class We will discuss STD’s and HIV infections, how to reduce your risk of getting them and pregnancy prevention. Why should you take the class? 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 15 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... Learn about safer sex methods Get a $10 QuikTrip Gift Card (Only receive card if you complete entire class) Pizza and snacks during class International Overdose Awareness Day Saturday, August 31, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Nearly 800 Oklahomans die from an overdose death each year. It is important that we celebrate the lives of those lost to addiction and overdoses. It is also important that we give all Oklahomans a way to combat Opioid overdose; Naloxone/Narcan. Please join us August 31, 2019 at the Equality Center from 12:00pm-4:00pm. We will have Narcan, information about our services, community partners, and support for those who have lost someone to an overdose death. If you can’t make the event, feel free to donate to our cause at https://fundly.com/stop-harmon-tulsa-streets INTERNATIONAL OVERDOSE AWARENESS DAY RESOURCE FAIR NARCAN TRAINING FREE FAMILY FARMERS' MARKET TRIBUTE TO LOVED ONES LOST Fighting Hunger, Feeding Hope #END OVERDOSE A F(]J)BAN( ~ ) ► Cofflnl.'""7 FOOD IIANK OI EMllffl 0Met1cml ..... www..okfoodbank.otJ 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 16 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... She Likes Girls Saturday, September 5 - 8, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Art Center 110 E. 2nd St. Tulsa, OK 74103 Presented By: OK World Stage Theatre Company Kia has dreamed about Marisol since the start of the school year, but always assumed she was staunchly heterosexual (like everyone else in their neighborhood). But when Marisol goes through a health crisis, the two share a forbidden kiss that starts a fulfilling — but challenging — romantic relationship they feel they must keep a secret from their conservative mothers, their classmates, and even their closest friends. Tickets Zerlina Maxwell - CULTURE SHIFT: Understanding and Combating Rape Culture Tuesday, September 10, 7:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Roxana Rozsa and Robert Eugene Lorton Performance Center 550 South Gary Place. Tulsa, OK 74104 Join Domestic Violence Intervention Services (DVIS) and University of Tulsa as they welcome Zerlina Maxwell to speak about understanding and combating rape culture. Tickets are free and available on a first come, first served basis. Register MisFEST Saturday, September 14, 3:00 p.m. Guthrie Green 111 E. M.B. Brady St. Tulsa, OK 74103 MisFEST presented by Fowler Automotive is coming back better than ever on September 14, 2019 at Guthrie Green with KT Tunstall as our headliner! There will be food trucks, live and interactive art installations, vendors, and fantastic music. 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 17 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... MisFEST is FREE with VIP ticket options for those who want a designated space on the back deck with a few other perks. LINEUP: 4:00 pm - Shoulda Been Blonde 4:50 pm - Yardbone 5:40 pm - Smoochie Wallus 6:30 pm - Bambi feat. Tea Rush 7:10 pm - Tea Rush 8:00 pm - Good Villains 9:00 pm - KT Tunstall New Volunteer Shifts Available We will now be opening at 9:00 a.m. and are in need of volunteers from 9:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. every day of the week. If you are interested in volunteering during this time, Please fill out our volunteer form here: Volunteer Form ot11·1 1 liours of service! Our Hours are Expanding! We're happy to announce that we are expanding our hours of service! Starting Monday, July 1st the Dennis R Neill Equality Center will open at 9:00 a.m. AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org . ---- The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey (GHSE) 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 18 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... Do you identify as transgender or any gender that is different from the sex you were assigned at birth? If so, we encourage you to participate in The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey! This research will help support our understanding of the social, institutional, and healthcare needs of trans and gender nonbinary people. Participants will have the opportunity to vote for a trans-related non-profit organization. $300.00 will be donated to each of the two organizations with the most votes. We will not collect any identifying information from you. Complete Survey Joe and Nancy McDonald Library "Gay New York: Gender, Urban Culture, and the Making of the Gay Male World, 1890-1940" Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. " The award-winning, field-defining history of gay life in New York City in the early to mid-20th century" Gay New York brilliantly shatters the myth that before the 1960s gay life existed only in the closet, where gay men were isolated, invisible, and self-hating. Drawing on a rich trove of diaries, legal records, and other unpublished documents, George Chauncey constructs a fascinating portrait of a vibrant, cohesive gay world that is not supposed to have existed. Called "monumental" ( Washington Post ), "unassailable" ( Boston Globe ), "brilliant" ( Nation ), and "a first-rate book of history" ( New York Times ), Gay New York forever changed how we think about the history of gay life in New York City, and beyond." Equality Pride Store 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 19 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... New in the OkEq Pride Store: Fanny Packs or Sport Utility Belts Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. You can make an appointment with Allison by calling 918-280-9645 . OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 20 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com ---- Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library OkEq Board Meeting 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Monthly Meeting Thursday, September 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 21 of 25 every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. Free Yoga Class mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 22 of 25 at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 23 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:10 PM �Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! 24 of 25 Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-Vegas-Casino-Ni... 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Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat 9 a.m. - 9 p.m. | Sun 9 a.m.- 6 p.m. 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:10 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9b31e589758a4210e67ca9f2aa04b9dc.pdf f8d632c73a6ac51f53d8806cd402ba1c PDF Text Text Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 1 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews September 3rd, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! OKEQ Membership Annual Meeting Vegas Casino Night: Everybody is a Winner! Saturday, September 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The evening will be filled with hor d'oeuvres for purchase, wine, a cash bar, and Vegas style entertainment, alongside the best in Casino Games, and big prize packages. The 4/24/26, 5:11 PM �Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 2 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... membership of Oklahomans for Equality will select their Board of Directors and hear the final results of the board election. This is a members-only event and you must be a voting member to attend. The voting membership is a $50.00 donation to Oklahomans for Equality. Become a Member Voting has Begun for the 2019-2020 Board of Directors Voting Ends - September 7, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 VOTE OKEQ VOTING MEMBERS CAN VOTE for your favorite candidates for the board of directors of Oklahomans for Equality. You can vote online or in person at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. VOTING MEMBERS are individuals who have donated $50 or more in the past 12 months to Oklahomans for Equality. 2019 Board of Directors Nominees Become a Member First Thursday Art Opening: Featuring the work of Tami Smith Thursday, September 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The September Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit will feature the works of Tami Smith, beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. This body of work is all about texture. The works consist of highly textured acrylic paintings, using out of the ordinary materials and paper collage pieces which have applied texture through many layers of paint, many of which are covered with a layer of resin. Each piece has its own unique surface which draws the viewer in close to examine the layers of paint flowing over the hills and into the valleys of applied materials. Some artworks are painted with metallic paint, which allows the light to bounce off the texture from every angle. 4/24/26, 5:11 PM �Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 3 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... “The process of applying texture to a canvas, then watching the paint find its way through the crevices and cracks is quite rewarding for me. You could say some of my paintings, paint themselves – while I am able to watch as each painting transforms itself; that is what gives me joy. It's always a moment in time I get to experience - never to be repeated the same way twice; and because of the process in which I paint, no two paintings will ever be exactly the same. In creating each piece, I strive to construct in a way that will prompt questions of how it was produced.” “I have always loved to paint, create, explore, make, and transform; I have also always loved to share what I have learned with others. After decades of teaching graphic design and computer classes, I decided to start creating for myself. Along with the composition and color theory knowledge I have from teaching, I have learned many new and unique art techniques by studying with the best - world renowned artists and local artists, numerous online classes, and self-learning from a whole library of art books. After years of perfecting my techniques and style, I am now experiencing the greatest delight – having collectors of my art! The show begins with a reception on Thursday, September 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. The Last Five Years Friday, September 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 An emotionally powerful and intimate musical about two New Yorkers in their twenties who fall in and out of love over the course of five years. The show's unconventional structure consists of Cathy, telling their story backwards while Jamie, tells their story chronologically; the two characters only meet once, at their wedding in the middle of the show. Friday, September 6 Directed By: Kara Staiger Performed By: Claire Schroepfer & Travis Guillory Saturday, September 7 Directed By: Ryan Mahannah Performed By: Tylar Dougan, Austin Reid, & Catherine Simmons Sunday, September 8 Directed By: Jen Thomas Performed By: Kia Dorsey-Hightower & Nash McQuarters Friday, September 13 Directed By: Thomas Farnan-Williams Performed By: Kristen Simpson & Jacob Brockunier Saturday, September 14 4/24/26, 5:11 PM �Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 4 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... Directed By: Rick Harrelson Performed By: Liz Hunt & Drew Rosene Sunday, September 15 Directed By: Meghan Hurley Performed By: Margaret Stall & Karlena Riggs Music Direction (all performances): Christy Stalcup Want to attend more than one performance? There's a discount for that! After you purchase one ticket, you will receive an e-mail confirmation with directions to receive a unique code for $5 each additional date you purchase. This is a not-for-profit production. Additional proceeds will be donated to performance volunteers and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tickets The OKEQ History Project Needs your Help OKEQ HISTORY PROJECT Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 WE NEED YOUR HELP! Our History Project team has been working on archiving footage, artifacts, and newspaper clippings from 1980 to the present day. We have pieces of Oklahoma LGBTQ+ history that span forty years, but we need your help! Do you have old newspapers at your house that mention OKEQ? Do you have Pride shirts from I 1999? Videos from past galas? Consider donating or loaning them to our history project so we can digitize and make our archive searchable to the public! ! ■ 1 11- 1 11-11 I I I I Bring any and all artifacts to the center! We are open 7 days a week from 9am-9pm! Grief is not taboo (and neither are you!) Friday, September 6, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 It’s okay to be sad! There are a lot of things in the 4/24/26, 5:11 PM �Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 5 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... world that can make us sad, but we learn incorrectly that “Sad is Bad”. Not true! Join us for an evening of learning about what grief is, what it’s not, and how to cope with with it more effectively. Intended for everyone who has experienced ANY of the 40+ identified grief causing events, this presentation shatters myths and taboos about grief. Scharain Watkins, a Certified Grief Recovery Specialist and Happiness Coach, is an Oklahoma Native who is equal parts minister to the hurting, thought leader for creating joy, advocate for mental health care, activist for civil and equal rights, and all-around champion of the underdog. She has an impressive and creative arsenal of four-letter words and makes little apology for using them. As a woman who has worked her way through many grief events and learned how to thrive, she uses writing, speaking, and engaging people wherever they are to teach how to heal broken hearts, be confident in personal openness, spread radical grace, enjoy being human, and show love, out loud, in big ways. Fresh Start Program: Transformative self care! Thursday, September 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ORMATIVE ►o The brain child of Victoria James and cosponsored by Clary Sage College, Dennis R Neill Equality Center, Unity Tulsa, and Dynamite Conventions. The Fresh Start Program is designed give a hand-up to those who are going experiencing major life-changes through teaching self-care. No matter what is happening in your life … gender transition, divorce, or even just a much-needed change … The Fresh Start Program provides a judgment free and life-affirming environment so that you can build the best version of yourself through self-care and style. So, stop hating your mirror and stop waiting on the Fab Five to swoop in to make your life better. Join us for our free monthly classes, take control and give yourself the skills to stride into the future with confidence. September 5th - Skincare and Skin Analysis Clary Sage College's Aesthetics instructor will show you how to care for your skin and how to get a clear complexion. Clary Sage students will then do a free skin analysis test for class attendees and give you advise on the best skin care regiment. The first 20 attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). October 3rd - Applying Makeup for Your Everyday Style Clary Sage College's Makeup Artistry instructor and students will show you how to apply and wear everyday makeup. Bring your makeup kit to class and the Clary Sage students and instructors will show each attendee tips on the best way to apply makeup for your shape and coloring. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). November 7th - Hair Care and Styling Clary Sage College's Cosmetology instructor will teach you about hair care and styling, and how to choose the best style for you. Students and instructors will then style hair of attendees and show what may work best for them. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies 4/24/26, 5:11 PM �Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 6 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... last). December 5th - Barbering and Facial Hair Care We will have one of our barber instructors give a presentation on hair styles, how to care for facial hair, and choosing the best style for the shape of your face. Students and instructors will then sit and talk with attendees individually about what may work best for them. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). January 9th - Creating Your Style Dyana Harrison, our Fashion Design instructor will talk about how to create your personal style, colors to chose and avoid, and how to dress for every occasion. Students and instructors will then sit and talk with attendees individually about what may work best for them. The first 20 attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). January 23rd - Fashion Swap Closet getting full, or style getting stale? Bring your lightly used clothes, purses, accessories, shoes and more to the Equality Center and trade them with other attendees to build a whole new style! Clary Sage Instructors and students will be on hand to help you make choices so will you look your best. February 6th - Tips to Design Your Own Space Our Interior Design instructor will give a presentation on how to make your space fit with your style. She will talk about what elements, color, and accents to incorporate in order to create a feminine, masculine and/or gender-neutral space. A nice space is a happy space. LGBT Women's Network September Happy Hour Monday, September 9, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Cirque Coffee 1317 E. 6th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Cirque Coffee has invited us join them on September 9th! Come see their gorgeous, expanded space and try a drink from their new cocktail program. They have a top coffee selection as well if you're just looking to get your caffeine fix! **this is on the second Monday of September due to the holiday. As always, our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and allies are always welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested to visit all LGBT-friendly locations! Flu Shot Clinic Saturday, September 14, 1:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come down to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for your Get Your Flu Shot . AT THE EQUALITY CENTER ~ 4/24/26, 5:11 PM �Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 7 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... yearly flu vaccination. If you have insurance, please bring your insurance card. If you do not have insurance or if your insurance does not cover the full cost of the flu shot, we have vouchers available on a first-come first-serve basis. Flu shots provided by Walgreens. She Likes Girls Saturday, September 5 - 8, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Art Center 110 E. 2nd St. Tulsa, OK 74103 Presented By: OK World Stage Theatre Company Kia has dreamed about Marisol since the start of the school year, but always assumed she was staunchly heterosexual (like everyone else in their neighborhood). But when Marisol goes through a health crisis, the two share a forbidden kiss that starts a fulfilling — but challenging — romantic relationship they feel they must keep a secret from their conservative mothers, their classmates, and even their closest friends. Tickets Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : Headlines and Kicklines Thursday, September 19, 8:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Star of the stage and screen, Travis Guillory jumps off the news anchor desk and onto the cabaret stage with “Headlines & Kicklines.” Singing songs of roles he’s played, roles he’d like to play, and roles they won’t let him play, the song and dance man will be joined by Claire Schroepfer, John Burns, Kara Staiger, Nicholas Cains and Margaret Stall, accompanied by Christy Stalcup on the piano. Prepare for an evening of laughter, music, and witnessing a news man attempt to hit notes that probably should be left up to a trained singer. Click Below for Tickets: Click for Tickets Bi+ Visibility Week Celebration PANCAKES WITH PANSEXUALS Sunday, Sept 22 11:00 a.m. Bruce Golf Event Center 4/24/26, 5:11 PM �Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 8 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Let's kick off Bi+ Visibility Week with brunch! We celebrate all identities under the Bi+ Umbrella. Enjoy pancakes and other breakfast food, and come learn about the Pansexual identity. BI+ VISIBILITY DAY MIXER Monday, Sept 23 6:30 p.m. Bruce Golf Event Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 September 23 is International Celebrate Bisexuality Day, aka BI+ VISIBILITY DAY! Join us for a casual meet-and-greet learn about the non-monosexual identities and Bisexual+ programming at the Equality Center, and meet members of the community. BI+ HAPPY HOUR AT DEAD ARMADILLO BREWERY Thursday, Sept 26, 5:00 p.m. Dead Armadillo Brewery 1004 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Have a beer or two at Dead Armadillo's kid- and dog-friendly beergarden, just across the bridge from the Equality Center! Live music beginning at 7:00. STAND BI+ ME CELEBRATION! Saturday, Sept 28, 6:00 p.m. Lynn Riggs Theater Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq's Brought To You Bi+ The Letter B invites you to our 4th annual Stand Bi+ Me party for Bi+ Visibility Day 2019! Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center as we recognize the Bisexual, Pansexual, Fluid, Queer, and all non-monosexual identities. We will have music, dancing, stories, and refreshments. All are welcome, must be 21+ to drink. Celebrate with us and be seen! Orbit Initiative Saturday, September 14, 1:00 p.m. - 3:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ~ ... ~ ~ I ~ ~ ~ l ~,~ orbit ~ W///Jllll"'''' ,,.· I N I T I AT I V E THEATRE BY, OF & FOR ALL PEOPLE The ORBIT INITIATIVE is an educational endeavor by the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Trust that strives to reach beyond downtown to work with community partners citywide to provide theatrical education to anyone interested, ages 4-84, free of charge, and located within their community. The goal is to provide collaboration and fellowship for all of Tulsa’s communities through entertainment, education and performance that reflects Tulsa’s own unique diversity. 4/24/26, 5:11 PM �Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 9 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... Strong community partnerships are the bedrock of ORBIT. Reaching out to those community members who feel the theater is out of their reach or is an elitist organization is the primary objective. EBA Mixer Wednesday, September 18, 6:00 p.m. FullyPromoted Tulsa 7115 S Mingo Rd Tulsa, Oklahoma FullyPromoted Tulsa will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for September. "Are You Fully Promoted? Fully Promoted offers extensive branding and marketing services for businesses and organizations. We create customizable campaigns with a wide variety of products like apparel, promotional products, printed materials and lead generation. Our local experts specialize in putting your logo on almost anything! If you can imagine it, there is a good chance we can do it. We provide solutions that include branded apparel, team gear, professional attire, service wear, uniforms and more. Fully Promoted works with a wide range of industries including nonprofits, automotive, safety, healthcare, insurance, financial, education, construction, and churches. Enid Pride Saturday, September 21, 12:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Garfield County Courthouse 100 W. Broadway Ave. Enid, OK 73701 Mark your calendars for the 10th annual Enid Pride celebration on Saturday, September 21, 2019! Visibly Imperfectly Perfect First Meetup Thursday, September 26, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This will be the first meetup for this event. It is meant to be a social event and there will be food, drinks, and plenty of conversation! 4/24/26, 5:11 PM �Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 10 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... Visibly Imperfectly Perfect, VIP for short, is a group for anyone who has felt different because of their skin. We want to provide support and community for inexplicably unique people. This group started as a place for the vitiligo community but is open to anyone who could be considered unique. We are here to support one another in the skin we are in. This group is meant for anyone with: Vitiligo Poliosis Hair Congenital Nevus (Birthmark) Freckles Neurofibromatosis Albinism Dark Skin Light Skin Exfoliative Erythrodermatitis Waardenburg Syndrome Mastectomy Scars Eczema/Severe Dermatitis Psoriasis etc. Pride Days at the Tulsa State Fair Thursday September 26, 11 a.m. – Sunday October 6, 11 p.m. Tulsa State Fair 4145 E 21st St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Oklahomans for Equality invites you to turn the Tulsa State Fair Rainbow! Come out and have fun at the Tulsa State Fair as our community celebrates LGBTQ+ Pride all 11 days of awesome! Oklahomans for Equality will have an indoor booth with the road show pride store, information, and volunteers! This is a great chance to run into familiar faces and meet new ones. Don't forget to wear your pride attire to spread awareness and visibility of our presence in Tulsa! Call for Artist - Deadline for submissions Oct. 7th Monday, October 7, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2020 Exhibition Calendar. Our gallery encourages artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media to apply. 4/24/26, 5:11 PM �Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 11 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... Details Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is installed on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. Work must be available for sale. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc) for each piece. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. How to Apply: Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted by email. Proposals incorporating the work of two artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. Deadline for submissions is October 7th, 2019. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2019. Please submit entry below, with the subject heading “OkEq gallery proposal" Submit Entry McAlester Pride Saturday, October 12, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Chadick Park S. 3rd St & E. Chadick Ave. McAlester, OK 74501 SeE ~ Zerlina Maxwell - CULTURE SHIFT: Understanding and Combating Rape Culture Tuesday, September 10, 7:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Roxana Rozsa and Robert Eugene Lorton Performance Center 550 South Gary Place. Tulsa, OK 74104 Join Domestic Violence Intervention Services (DVIS) and University of Tulsa as they welcome Zerlina Maxwell to speak about understanding and combating rape culture. Tickets are free and available on a first come, first served basis. 4/24/26, 5:11 PM �Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 12 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... Register MisFEST Saturday, September 14, 3:00 p.m. Guthrie Green 111 E. M.B. Brady St. Tulsa, OK 74103 MisFEST presented by Fowler Automotive is coming back better than ever on September 14, 2019 at Guthrie Green with KT Tunstall as our headliner! There will be food trucks, live and interactive art installations, vendors, and fantastic music. MisFEST is FREE with VIP ticket options for those who want a designated space on the back deck with a few other perks. LINEUP: 4:00 pm - Shoulda Been Blonde 4:50 pm - Yardbone 5:40 pm - Smoochie Wallus 6:30 pm - Bambi feat. Tea Rush 7:10 pm - Tea Rush 8:00 pm - Good Villains 9:00 pm - KT Tunstall New Volunteer Shifts Available We will now be opening at 9:00 a.m. and are in need of volunteers from 9:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. every day of the week. If you are interested in volunteering during this time, Please fill out our volunteer form here: Volunteer Form Our Hours are Expanding! We're happy to announce that we are expanding our hours of service! Starting Monday, July 1st the Dennis R Neill Equality Center will open at 9:00 a.m. AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are G 4/24/26, 5:11 PM �Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 13 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org . --- -- The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey (GHSE) Do you identify as transgender or any gender that is different from the sex you were assigned at birth? If so, we encourage you to participate in The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey! This research will help support our understanding of the social, institutional, and healthcare needs of trans and gender nonbinary people. Participants will have the opportunity to vote for a trans-related non-profit organization. $300.00 will be donated to each of the two organizations with the most votes. We will not collect any identifying information from you. Complete Survey Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " Speak No Evil: A Novel " Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. "On the surface, Niru leads a charmed life. Raised by two attentive parents in Washington, D.C., he’s a top student and a track star at his prestigious private high school. Bound for Harvard in the fall, his prospects are bright. But Niru has a painful secret: he is queer—an abominable sin to his conservative Nigerian parents. No one knows except Meredith, his best friend, the daughter of prominent Washington insiders—and the one person who seems not to judge him. When his father accidentally discovers Niru is gay, the fallout is brutal and swift. Coping with troubles of her own, however, Meredith finds that she has little left emotionally to offer him. 4/24/26, 5:11 PM �Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 14 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... As the two friends struggle to reconcile their desires against the expectations and institutions that seek to define them, they find themselves speeding toward a future more violent and senseless than they can imagine. Neither will escape unscathed." Equality Pride Store New in the OkEq Pride Store: Fanny Packs or Sport Utility Belts Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked 4/24/26, 5:11 PM �Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 15 of 20 You can make an appointment with Allison by calling 918-280-9645 . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com ---- Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL A1n thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library OkEq Board Meeting 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Monthly Meeting Thursday, September 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for 4/24/26, 5:11 PM �Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 16 of 20 Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have 4/24/26, 5:11 PM �Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 17 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Game Night Saturdays 4/24/26, 5:11 PM �Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 18 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... 7:00 - 9:00 pm Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Community Partners health outreach prevention education, inc. EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff 4/24/26, 5:11 PM �Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 19 of 20 Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects/Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:11 PM �Annual Meeting this Saturday! Cast Your Vote Today! 20 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Annual-Meeting-this-Saturday--C... "fulsa World Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Sheena Grewal - President Chris Brecht-Smith - Vice President Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrosmith, D.O. Allison Ikley-Freeman Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Jack Graham Bob Hanson, PharmD Dale Hogan Denise Reid Justin Ross Jeremy Stevens Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat 9 a.m. - 9 p.m. | Sun 9 a.m.- 6 p.m. 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:11 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c540744aeaa07a23c30d45583f16dac2.pdf 94fa619263e91f4cc087e65b035e5de1 PDF Text Text Get your Shot at OkEq's Flu Shot Clinic 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-Shot-at-OkEq-s-Flu-Shot... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews September 10th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Flu Shot Clinic Saturday, September 14, 1:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come down to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for your yearly flu vaccination. If you have insurance, please bring your insurance card. If you do not have insurance or if your insurance does not cover the full cost of the flu shot, we have # ~/ GetYour ' Flu Shot AT THE EQUALITY CENTER ,/ ~ 4/24/26, 5:12 PM �Get your Shot at OkEq's Flu Shot Clinic 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-Shot-at-OkEq-s-Flu-Shot... vouchers available on a first-come first-serve basis. Flu shots provided by Walgreens. Mural Repainting Celebration Friday, September 20, 5:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LOVE CONQUERS HATE! Come out and volunteer with OKEQ and Colorpop Studios as we restore our gorgeous Lynn Riggs mural! Wear your workin' clothes and celebrate the community we have in Tulsa. We will start at 5pm on Friday Sept. 20. Call for Artist - Deadline for submissions Oct. 7th Monday, October 7, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2020 Exhibition Calendar. Our gallery encourages artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media to apply. Details Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is installed on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. Work must be available for sale. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc) for each piece. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. How to Apply: Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted by email. Proposals incorporating the work of two artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. Deadline for submissions is October 7th, 2019. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2019. Please submit entry below, with the subject heading “OkEq gallery proposal" 4/24/26, 5:12 PM �Get your Shot at OkEq's Flu Shot Clinic 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-Shot-at-OkEq-s-Flu-Shot... Submit Entry Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : Headlines and Kicklines Thursday, September 19, 8:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Star of the stage and screen, Travis Guillory jumps off the news anchor desk and onto the cabaret stage with “Headlines & Kicklines.” Singing songs of roles he’s played, roles he’d like to play, and roles they won’t let him play, the song and dance man will be joined by Claire Schroepfer, John Burns, Kara Staiger, Nicholas Cains and Margaret Stall, accompanied by Christy Stalcup on the piano. Prepare for an evening of laughter, music, and witnessing a news man attempt to hit notes that probably should be left up to a trained singer. Click Below for Tickets: Click for Tickets The OKEQ History Project Needs your Help Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 OKEQ HISTORY PROJECT WE NEED YOUR HELP! Our History Project team has been working on archiving footage, artifacts, and newspaper clippings from 1980 to the present day. We have pieces of Oklahoma LGBTQ+ history that span forty years, but we need your help! Do you have old newspapers at your house that mention OKEQ? Do you have Pride shirts from I 1999? Videos from past galas? Consider donating or loaning them to our history project so we can digitize and make our archive searchable to the public! ! ■ = ll- = ll-11 I I I I Bring any and all artifacts to the center! We are open 7 days a week from 9am-9pm! Orbit Initiative Saturday, September 14, 1:00 p.m. - 3:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street ~ ; : : b. -~ ~ ~ ... I ~ ~ .::S :, ...= ~ :: ,,.,~ -~ //1\\~ o r ~ ~ ~ ~ ,... /// /11 111\\\\\ 1t I N I T I AT I V E THEATRE BY, OF & FOR ALL PEOPLE 4/24/26, 5:12 PM �Get your Shot at OkEq's Flu Shot Clinic 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-Shot-at-OkEq-s-Flu-Shot... Tulsa, OK 74120 The ORBIT INITIATIVE is an educational endeavor by the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Trust that strives to reach beyond downtown to work with community partners citywide to provide theatrical education to anyone interested, ages 4-84, free of charge, and located within their community. The goal is to provide collaboration and fellowship for all of Tulsa’s communities through entertainment, education and performance that reflects Tulsa’s own unique diversity. Strong community partnerships are the bedrock of ORBIT. Reaching out to those community members who feel the theater is out of their reach or is an elitist organization is the primary objective. Bi+ Visibility Week Celebration PANCAKES WITH PANSEXUALS Sunday, Sept 22 11:00 a.m. Bruce Golf Event Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Let's kick off Bi+ Visibility Week with brunch! We celebrate all identities under the Bi+ Umbrella. Enjoy pancakes and other breakfast food, and come learn about the Pansexual identity. BI+ VISIBILITY DAY MIXER Monday, Sept 23 6:30 p.m. Bruce Golf Event Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 September 23 is International Celebrate Bisexuality Day, aka BI+ VISIBILITY DAY! Join us for a casual meet-and-greet learn about the non-monosexual identities and Bisexual+ programming at the Equality Center, and meet members of the community. BI+ HAPPY HOUR AT DEAD ARMADILLO BREWERY Thursday, Sept 26, 5:00 p.m. Dead Armadillo Brewery 1004 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Have a beer or two at Dead Armadillo's kid- and dog-friendly beergarden, just across the bridge from the Equality Center! Live music beginning at 7:00. STAND BI+ ME CELEBRATION! Saturday, Sept 28, 6:00 p.m. Lynn Riggs Theater Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq's Brought To You Bi+ The Letter B invites you to our 4th annual Stand Bi+ Me party for Bi+ 4/24/26, 5:12 PM �Get your Shot at OkEq's Flu Shot Clinic 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-Shot-at-OkEq-s-Flu-Shot... Visibility Day 2019! Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center as we recognize the Bisexual, Pansexual, Fluid, Queer, and all non-monosexual identities. We will have music, dancing, stories, and refreshments. All are welcome, must be 21+ to drink. Celebrate with us and be seen! EBA Mixer Wednesday, September 18, 6:00 p.m. FullyPromoted Tulsa 7115 S Mingo Rd Tulsa, Oklahoma FullyPromoted Tulsa will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for September. "Are You Fully Promoted? Fully Promoted offers extensive branding and marketing services for businesses and organizations. We create customizable campaigns with a wide variety of products like apparel, promotional products, printed materials and lead generation. Our local experts specialize in putting your logo on almost anything! If you can imagine it, there is a good chance we can do it. We provide solutions that include branded apparel, team gear, professional attire, service wear, uniforms and more. Fully Promoted works with a wide range of industries including nonprofits, automotive, safety, healthcare, insurance, financial, education, construction, and churches. Enid Pride Saturday, September 21, 12:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Garfield County Courthouse 100 W. Broadway Ave. Enid, OK 73701 Mark your calendars for the 10th annual Enid Pride celebration on Saturday, September 21, 2019! OKEQ at the State Fair Thursday, September 26, - October 6, Tulsa Fair Grounds 4145 E. 21st Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 OKEQ will be at the Tulsa State Fair again this year! Last year was a huge success, and we hope to reach even more people this year! We can't do it without your help, so we are asking people to volunteer for 3-hour shifts at our booth. The fair runs 4/24/26, 5:12 PM �Get your Shot at OkEq's Flu Shot Clinic 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-Shot-at-OkEq-s-Flu-Shot... from September 26th through October 6th. Volunteer at the Fair Pride Days at the Tulsa State Fair Thursday September 26, 11 a.m. – Sunday October 6, 11 p.m. Tulsa State Fair 4145 E 21st St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Oklahomans for Equality invites you to turn the Tulsa State Fair Rainbow! Come out and have fun at the Tulsa State Fair as our community celebrates LGBTQ+ Pride all 11 days of awesome! Oklahomans for Equality will have an indoor booth with the road show pride store, information, and volunteers! This is a great chance to run into familiar faces and meet new ones. Don't forget to wear your pride attire to spread awareness and visibility of our presence in Tulsa! Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa 1st Support Group Meeting Saturday, September 26, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This is Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa very first meeting invite!!! We are so excited to bring people together to help each other LOVE the SKIN they are in!! LOVE the SKIN they are in!!!! Encouraging others keeps her encouraged as well! Our first meeting is going to be so much fun!!!! We will have food & games! We hope to see you :) Art Opening & Exhibit featuring the works of Lgbtq+ Youth Thursday, October 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This October Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) will showcase and exhibit local LGBTQ+ Youth artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 3rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. “Youth Invasion” will open October 1 st for a month-long 4/24/26, 5:12 PM �Get your Shot at OkEq's Flu Shot Clinic 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-Shot-at-OkEq-s-Flu-Shot... show at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, The artwork will be available for purchase at the show. The show is a collaborative effort of over fifteen young artists from Tulsa and the surrounding areas. Many of the youth come from Alphabet SOUP, Oklahomans for Equality Center’s Youth Group, Youth Services of Tulsa, and Camp Fire Green Country. The exhibit contains a wide variety of two- and three-dimensional media, including canvas, clay, and assemblage. This exhibit features teens’ unique take on the issues they face today. This show is a visual exploration of identity and representation. Today’s youth are no stranger to the conscious act of curating the private and public self on a daily basis. This show allows one to look through the eyes of today’s LGBTQ+ youth. The youth who attend Alphabet SOUP, began imagining a show for the art gallery at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center early in the year. The young people have a unique and noteworthy view of the world, and wanted to express their view using the language of art. The youth have been working throughout the year to create and refine the pieces they felt best represented them to be included on this exhibit. Their art will both challenge and expire visitors. The show continues through October 31st. The show begins with a reception where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. Exhibitors include: Artists include: Atlas Daniel Underhill, Amiri Rolland, Winston Paschal, Mia Liagon, Virgil Coffee, Trinity Kissire, Parker Grubb, Athena Lamontflores, Kai Davidson, Aunalicia Garza, Ash Stambaugh, and others. Fresh Start Program: Transformative self care! Thursday, October 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The brain child of Victoria James and cosponsored by Clary Sage College, Dennis R Neill Equality Center, Unity Tulsa, and Dynamite Conventions. The Fresh Start Program is designed give a hand-up to those who are going experiencing major life-changes through teaching self-care. No matter what is happening in your life … gender transition, divorce, or even just a much-needed change … The Fresh Start Program provides a judgment free and life-affirming environment so that you can build the best version of yourself through self-care and style. So, stop hating your mirror and stop waiting on the Fab Five to swoop in to make your life better. Join us for our free monthly classes, take control and give yourself the skills to stride into the future with confidence. October 3rd - Applying Makeup for Your Everyday Style Clary Sage College's Makeup Artistry instructor and students will show you how to apply and wear everyday makeup. Bring your makeup kit to class and the Clary Sage students and instructors will show each attendee tips on the best way to apply makeup for your shape and coloring. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). November 7th - Hair Care and Styling 4/24/26, 5:12 PM �Get your Shot at OkEq's Flu Shot Clinic 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-Shot-at-OkEq-s-Flu-Shot... Clary Sage College's Cosmetology instructor will teach you about hair care and styling, and how to choose the best style for you. Students and instructors will then style hair of attendees and show what may work best for them. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). December 5th - Barbering and Facial Hair Care We will have one of our barber instructors give a presentation on hair styles, how to care for facial hair, and choosing the best style for the shape of your face. Students and instructors will then sit and talk with attendees individually about what may work best for them. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). January 9th - Creating Your Style Dyana Harrison, our Fashion Design instructor will talk about how to create your personal style, colors to chose and avoid, and how to dress for every occasion. Students and instructors will then sit and talk with attendees individually about what may work best for them. The first 20 attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). January 23rd - Fashion Swap Closet getting full, or style getting stale? Bring your lightly used clothes, purses, accessories, shoes and more to the Equality Center and trade them with other attendees to build a whole new style! Clary Sage Instructors and students will be on hand to help you make choices so will you look your best. February 6th - Tips to Design Your Own Space Our Interior Design instructor will give a presentation on how to make your space fit with your style. She will talk about what elements, color, and accents to incorporate in order to create a feminine, masculine and/or gender-neutral space. A nice space is a happy space. McAlester Pride Saturday, October 12, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Chadick Park S. 3rd St & E. Chadick Ave. McAlester, OK 74501 .---------5 e MisFEST Saturday, September 14, 3:00 p.m. Guthrie Green 111 E. M.B. Brady St. Tulsa, OK 74103 MisFEST presented by Fowler Automotive is coming back better than ever on September 14, 2019 at Guthrie Green with KT Tunstall as our headliner! There will be food trucks, live and interactive art installations, vendors, and fantastic music. MisFEST is FREE with VIP ticket options for those who want a designated space on the back deck with a few other perks. LINEUP: 4/24/26, 5:12 PM �Get your Shot at OkEq's Flu Shot Clinic 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-your-Shot-at-OkEq-s-Flu-Shot... 4:00 pm - Shoulda Been Blonde 4:50 pm - Yardbone 5:40 pm - Smoochie Wallus 6:30 pm - Bambi feat. Tea Rush 7:10 pm - Tea Rush 8:00 pm - Good Villains 9:00 pm - KT Tunstall Tulsa Native American Day Monday, October 14, 2019 at 9:00 a.m – 5:00 p.m. Guthrie Green 111 East M.B. Brady Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 Come join us for the 3nd Annual Tulsa Native American Day Celebration! Event will begin at 9:00 and is open to the public. Vendors, artists, and food trucks will be available throughout the day! Come listen to local community leaders and guest speakers talk about what this day means to them. Parade will begin at 12:00 pm followed by exhibition dancing. This years art, titled "Walking in the Spirit", was done by Tim Nevaquaya. Visit Nevaquaya Fine Arts: Walking in the Spirit Follow below for event updates! Follow Tulsa Native American Day on Facebook Alphabet Soup: OUT of the Can Friday, October 18, at 6:00 p.m – 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Leadership Lock-In 2019 will bring together LGBTQ+ youth in YOUTH LEADERSHIP middle school and high school from across the state to LOCK-IN AT THE socialize, develop leadership skills, and to have a great time! EQUALITY CENTER Throughout the lock-In, youth will have the unique opportunity to build partnerships, learn new skills, and develop leadership skills to impact their community. Who Should Attend? Youth: Youth in grades 6 through 12 who identify as LGBTQ+ who also have an interest in connecting with, and impacting their community. What Will We Do? Youth will participate in interactive workshops focusing on leadership development, 4/24/26, 5:12 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2528f3c697b44d7760ff1f2b1d20d3ba.pdf eba6f951985f18ecead5230ec7c498fc PDF Text Text Join us for our Mural Repainting Celebration, LOVE CONQUERS HATE! 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-our-Mural-Repainting... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews September 17th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Mural Repainting Celebration Friday, September 20, 5:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LOVE CONQUERS HATE! Come out and volunteer with OKEQ and Colorpop Studios as we restore our gorgeous Lynn Riggs mural! Wear your workin' clothes and celebrate the community we have in Tulsa. 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Join us for our Mural Repainting Celebration, LOVE CONQUERS HATE! 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-our-Mural-Repainting... We will start at 5pm on Friday Sept. 20. People of Color Social Mixer Friday, September 20, 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SEPTEMBER cOTH, cl/19@ 7PM The People of Color Social Mixer focuses on celebrating, preserving and connecting POCs in the Tulsa LGBT+ community. Join us for drinks, food and fun! The POC Mixers are scheduled the third Friday of each month. Call for Artist - Deadline for submissions Oct. 7th Monday, October 7, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2020 Exhibition Calendar. Our gallery encourages artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media to apply. Details Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is installed on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. Work must be available for sale. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc) for each piece. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. How to Apply: Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted by email. Proposals incorporating the work of two artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. Deadline for submissions is October 7th, 2019. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2019. Please submit entry below, with the subject heading “OkEq gallery proposal" 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Join us for our Mural Repainting Celebration, LOVE CONQUERS HATE! 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-our-Mural-Repainting... Submit Entry Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : Headlines and Kicklines Thursday, September 19, 8:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Star of the stage and screen, Travis Guillory jumps off the news anchor desk and onto the cabaret stage with “Headlines & Kicklines.” Singing songs of roles he’s played, roles he’d like to play, and roles they won’t let him play, the song and dance man will be joined by Claire Schroepfer, John Burns, Kara Staiger, Nicholas Cains and Margaret Stall, accompanied by Christy Stalcup on the piano. Prepare for an evening of laughter, music, and witnessing a news man attempt to hit notes that probably should be left up to a trained singer. Click Below for Tickets: Click for Tickets The OKEQ History Project Needs your Help Our History Project team has been working on archiving footage, artifacts, and newspaper clippings from 1980 to the present day. We have pieces of Oklahoma LGBTQ+ history that span forty years, but we need your help! Do you have old newspapers at your house that mention OKEQ? Do you have Pride shirts from 1999? Videos from past galas? Consider donating or loaning them to our history project so we can digitize and make our archive searchable to the public! OKEQ HISTORY PROJECT WE NEED YOUR HELP! ! ■ = ll- = ll-11 I - I I I I Bring any and all artifacts to the center! We are open 7 days a week from 9am-9pm! EBA Mixer Wednesday, September 18, 6:00 p.m. FullyPromoted Tulsa 7115 S. Mingo Rd. Tulsa, Oklahoma 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Join us for our Mural Repainting Celebration, LOVE CONQUERS HATE! 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-our-Mural-Repainting... FullyPromoted Tulsa will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for September. "Are You Fully Promoted? Fully Promoted offers extensive branding and marketing services for businesses and organizations. We create customizable campaigns with a wide variety of products like apparel, promotional products, printed materials and lead generation. Our local experts specialize in putting your logo on almost anything! If you can imagine it, there is a good chance we can do it. We provide solutions that include branded apparel, team gear, professional attire, service wear, uniforms and more. Fully Promoted works with a wide range of industries including nonprofits, automotive, safety, healthcare, insurance, financial, education, construction, and churches. Bi+ Visibility Week Celebration PANCAKES WITH PANSEXUALS Sunday, September 22, 11:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Let's kick off Bi+ Visibility Week with brunch! We celebrate all identities under the Bi+ Umbrella. Enjoy pancakes and other breakfast food, and come learn about the Pansexual identity. BI+ VISIBILITY DAY MIXER Monday, September 23, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 September 23 is International Celebrate Bisexuality Day, aka BI+ VISIBILITY DAY! Join us for a casual meet-and-greet learn about the non-monosexual identities and Bisexual+ programming at the Equality Center, and meet members of the community. BI+ HAPPY HOUR AT DEAD ARMADILLO BREWERY Thursday, September 26, 5:00 p.m. Dead Armadillo Brewery 1004 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Have a beer or two at Dead Armadillo's kid- and dog-friendly beergarden, just across the bridge from the Equality Center! Live music beginning at 7:00. STAND BI+ ME CELEBRATION! Saturday, September 28, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Join us for our Mural Repainting Celebration, LOVE CONQUERS HATE! 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-our-Mural-Repainting... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq's Brought To You Bi+ The Letter B invites you to our 4th annual Stand Bi+ Me party for Bi+ Visibility Day 2019! Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center as we recognize the Bisexual, Pansexual, Fluid, Queer, and all non-monosexual identities. We will have music, dancing, stories, and refreshments. All are welcome, must be 21+ to drink. Celebrate with us and be seen! Enid Pride Saturday, September 21, 12:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Garfield County Courthouse 100 W. Broadway Ave. Enid, OK 73701 Mark your calendars for the 10th annual Enid Pride celebration on Saturday, September 21, 2019! OKEQ at the State Fair September 26 - October 6, Tulsa Fair Grounds 4145 E. 21st Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 OKEQ will be at the Tulsa State Fair again this year! Last year was a huge success, and we hope to reach even more people this year! We can't do it without your help, so we are asking people to volunteer for 3-hour shifts at our booth. The fair runs from September 26th through October 6th. Pride Days at the Tulsa State Fair Oklahomans for Equality invites you to turn the Tulsa State Fair Rainbow! Come out and have fun at the Tulsa State Fair as our community celebrates LGBTQ+ Pride all 11 days of awesome! Oklahomans for Equality will have an indoor booth with the road show pride store, information, and volunteers! This is a great chance to run into familiar faces and meet new ones. Don't forget to wear your pride attire to spread awareness and visibility of our presence in Tulsa! Volunteer at the Fair Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa 1st Support Group Meeting Saturday, September 26, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Join us for our Mural Repainting Celebration, LOVE CONQUERS HATE! 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-our-Mural-Repainting... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This is Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa very first meeting invite!!! We are so excited to bring people together to help each other LOVE the SKIN they are in!! LOVE the SKIN they are in!!!! Encouraging others keeps her encouraged as well! Our first meeting is going to be so much fun!!!! We will have food & games! We hope to see you :) ~ "' Orbit Initiative ~ - s: Saturday, September 28, 1:00 p.m. - 3:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 I~ ~ ~ === .::~ --;:s =•••, ---...~ ~ b . ~ ~ //1\\~ or 1t ~ '• 1\~ : ~ ~ ~ ..•• / // JII 111\\\\\ I N I T I AT I V E THEATRE BY, OF & FOR ALL PEOPLE The ORBIT INITIATIVE is an educational endeavor by the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Trust that strives to reach beyond downtown to work with community partners citywide to provide theatrical education to anyone interested, ages 4-84, free of charge, and located within their community. The goal is to provide collaboration and fellowship for all of Tulsa’s communities through entertainment, education and performance that reflects Tulsa’s own unique diversity. Strong community partnerships are the bedrock of ORBIT. Reaching out to those community members who feel the theater is out of their reach or is an elitist organization is the primary objective. 1111\li ·• ~"' :--,-~ lit a Gay Men's Dinner Group I Tuesday, October 1, 6:30 p.m. Celebrity Club 3109 S. Yale Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 ' -~ ,: .4 The reservations are under OkEq Men's Group. A head count is needed for the reservations. If you are coming please let us know by clicking below . RSVP Celebrity Club Art Opening & Exhibit featuring the works of Lgbtq+ Youth Thursday, October 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Join us for our Mural Repainting Celebration, LOVE CONQUERS HATE! 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-our-Mural-Repainting... Tulsa, OK 74120 This October Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) will showcase and exhibit local LGBTQ+ Youth artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 3rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. “Youth Invasion” will open October 1 st for a month-long show at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, The artwork will be available for purchase at the show. The show is a collaborative effort of over fifteen young artists from Tulsa and the surrounding areas. Many of the youth come from Alphabet SOUP, Oklahomans for Equality Center’s Youth Group, Youth Services of Tulsa, and Camp Fire Green Country. The exhibit contains a wide variety of two- and three-dimensional media, including canvas, clay, and assemblage. This exhibit features teens’ unique take on the issues they face today. This show is a visual exploration of identity and representation. Today’s youth are no stranger to the conscious act of curating the private and public self on a daily basis. This show allows one to look through the eyes of today’s LGBTQ+ youth. The youth who attend Alphabet SOUP, began imagining a show for the art gallery at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center early in the year. The young people have a unique and noteworthy view of the world, and wanted to express their view using the language of art. The youth have been working throughout the year to create and refine the pieces they felt best represented them to be included on this exhibit. Their art will both challenge and expire visitors. The show continues through October 31st. The show begins with a reception where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. Exhibitors include: Artists include: Atlas Daniel Underhill, Amiri Rolland, Winston Paschal, Mia Liagon, Virgil Coffee, Trinity Kissire, Parker Grubb, Athena Lamontflores, Kai Davidson, Aunalicia Garza, Ash Stambaugh, and others. Fresh Start Program: Transformative self care! Thursday, October 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The brain child of Victoria James and cosponsored by Clary Sage College, Dennis R Neill Equality Center, Unity Tulsa, and Dynamite Conventions. The Fresh Start Program is designed give a hand-up to those who are going experiencing major life-changes through teaching self-care. No matter what is happening in your life … gender transition, divorce, or even just a much-needed change … The Fresh Start Program provides a judgment free and life-affirming environment so that you can build the best version of yourself through self-care and style. So, stop hating your mirror and stop waiting on the Fab Five to swoop in to make your life better. Join us for our free monthly classes, take control and give yourself the skills to stride into the future with confidence. October 3rd - Applying Makeup for Your Everyday Style 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Join us for our Mural Repainting Celebration, LOVE CONQUERS HATE! 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-our-Mural-Repainting... Clary Sage College's Makeup Artistry instructor and students will show you how to apply and wear everyday makeup. Bring your makeup kit to class and the Clary Sage students and instructors will show each attendee tips on the best way to apply makeup for your shape and coloring. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). November 7th - Hair Care and Styling Clary Sage College's Cosmetology instructor will teach you about hair care and styling, and how to choose the best style for you. Students and instructors will then style hair of attendees and show what may work best for them. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). December 5th - Barbering and Facial Hair Care We will have one of our barber instructors give a presentation on hair styles, how to care for facial hair, and choosing the best style for the shape of your face. Students and instructors will then sit and talk with attendees individually about what may work best for them. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). January 9th - Creating Your Style Dyana Harrison, our Fashion Design instructor will talk about how to create your personal style, colors to chose and avoid, and how to dress for every occasion. Students and instructors will then sit and talk with attendees individually about what may work best for them. The first 20 attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). January 23rd - Fashion Swap Closet getting full, or style getting stale? Bring your lightly used clothes, purses, accessories, shoes and more to the Equality Center and trade them with other attendees to build a whole new style! Clary Sage Instructors and students will be on hand to help you make choices so will you look your best. February 6th - Tips to Design Your Own Space Our Interior Design instructor will give a presentation on how to make your space fit with your style. She will talk about what elements, color, and accents to incorporate in order to create a feminine, masculine and/or gender-neutral space. A nice space is a happy space. McAlester Pride Saturday, October 12, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Chadick Park S. 3rd St & E. Chadick Ave. McAlester, OK 74501 SeE ~ Tulsa Native American Day Monday, October 14, 2019 at 9:00 a.m – 5:00 p.m. Guthrie Green 111 East M.B. Brady Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 Come join us for the 3nd Annual Tulsa Native American Day Celebration! Event will begin at 9:00 and is open to the public. 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Join us for our Mural Repainting Celebration, LOVE CONQUERS HATE! 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-our-Mural-Repainting... ~ .... 0 " "' '''"°' ·~"' Vendors, artists, and food trucks will be available throughout the day! Come listen to local community leaders and guest speakers talk about what this day means to them. Parade will begin at 12:00 pm followed by exhibition dancing. ..., 000" HO$lad by The Cro<>t • r Tul,-1 A,~_, lnd.:.nAffa1tsComm.s,on This years art, titled "Walking in the Spirit", was done by Tim Nevaquaya. Visit Nevaquaya Fine Arts: Walking in the Spirit Follow below for event updates! Follow Tulsa Native American Day on Facebook Alphabet Soup: OUT of the Can October 18 - October 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Leadership Lock-In 2019 will bring together LGBTQ+ youth in YOUTH LEADERSHIP middle school and high school from across the state to LOCK-IN AT THE socialize, develop leadership skills, and to have a great time! EQUALITY CENTER Throughout the lock-In, youth will have the unique opportunity to build partnerships, learn new skills, and develop leadership skills to impact their community. Who Should Attend? Youth: Youth in grades 6 through 12 who identify as LGBTQ+ who also have an interest in connecting with, and impacting their community. What Will We Do? Youth will participate in interactive workshops focusing on leadership development, community impact, and self-expression. There will be informative and motivating keynote speakers, lots of fun activities, entertainment, and a silent disco! Some activities will be held at alternate locations such as Youth Services of Tulsa. Staff and volunteers will be responsible for transporting youth to alternate sites. For more information about registration, call the Equality Center at 918-743-4297 or email Morgan Allen at morgan.allen@okeq.org ---- . Registration AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Join us for our Mural Repainting Celebration, LOVE CONQUERS HATE! 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-our-Mural-Repainting... AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org . The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey (GHSE) Do you identify as transgender or any gender that is different from the sex you were assigned at birth? If so, we encourage you to participate in The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey! This research will help support our understanding of the social, institutional, and healthcare needs of trans and gender nonbinary people. Participants will have the opportunity to vote for a trans-related non-profit organization. $300.00 will be donated to each of the two organizations with the most votes. We will not collect any identifying information from you. Complete Survey Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " This Is How It Always Is: A Novel " Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. " This is how a family keeps a secret…and how that secret ends up keeping them. This is how a family lives happily ever after…until happily ever after becomes complicated. This is how children change…and then change the world. This is Claude. He’s five years old, the youngest of five brothers, and loves peanut butter sandwiches. He also loves wearing a dress, and dreams of being a princess. When he grows up, Claude says, he wants to be a girl. Rosie and Penn want Claude to be whoever Claude wants to be. They’re just not sure they’re ready to share that with the world. 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Join us for our Mural Repainting Celebration, LOVE CONQUERS HATE! 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-our-Mural-Repainting... Soon the entire family is keeping Claude’s secret. Until one day it explodes. Laurie Frankel's This Is How It Always Is is a novel about revelations, transformations, fairy tales, and family. And it’s about the ways this is how it always is: Change is always hard and miraculous and hard again, parenting is always a leap into the unknown with crossed fingers and full hearts, children grow but not always according to plan. And families with secrets don’t get to keep them forever." Equality Pride Store New in the OkEq Pride Store: Fanny Packs or Sport Utility Belts Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Join us for our Mural Repainting Celebration, LOVE CONQUERS HATE! https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-our-Mural-Repainting... concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com ---- 12 of 17 You can make an appointment with Allison by calling 918-280-9645 . these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID t&. SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, September 19, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Join us for our Mural Repainting Celebration, LOVE CONQUERS HATE! 13 of 17 Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . sos Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-our-Mural-Repainting... SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY Daniel & Haley Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Join us for our Mural Repainting Celebration, LOVE CONQUERS HATE! https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-our-Mural-Repainting... to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. 14 of 17 It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 . Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the l1 mi l Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Join us for our Mural Repainting Celebration, LOVE CONQUERS HATE! 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-our-Mural-Repainting... mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Game Night sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Join us for our Mural Repainting Celebration, LOVE CONQUERS HATE! 16 of 17 Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-our-Mural-Repainting... Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects/Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Join us for our Mural Repainting Celebration, LOVE CONQUERS HATE! 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Join-us-for-our-Mural-Repainting... Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Sheena Grewal - President Chris Brecht-Smith - Vice President Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrosmith, D.O. Allison Ikley-Freeman Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Jack Graham Bob Hanson, PharmD Dale Hogan Denise Reid Justin Ross Jeremy Stevens Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat 9 a.m. - 9 p.m. | Sun 9 a.m.- 6 p.m. 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:13 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/23c968a71b13c97973a46b59a1cd3f29.pdf 7a445ee8b99fca71c156af5e98c84f3c PDF Text Text Happy Bi+ Visibility Week!!!! 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Bi--Visibility-Week----.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews September 23rd, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Bi+ Visibility Week Celebration BI+ HAPPY HOUR AT DEAD ARMADILLO BREWERY Thursday, September 26, 5:00 p.m. Dead Armadillo Brewery 1004 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 l+LITY 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Happy Bi+ Visibility Week!!!! 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Bi--Visibility-Week----.ht... Have a beer or two at Dead Armadillo's kid- and dog-friendly beergarden, just across the bridge from the Equality Center! Live music beginning at 7:00. STAND BI+ ME CELEBRATION! Saturday, September 28, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq's Brought To You Bi+ The Letter B invites you to our 4th annual Stand Bi+ Me party for Bi+ Visibility Day 2019! Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center as we recognize the Bisexual, Pansexual, Fluid, Queer, and all non-monosexual identities. We will have music, dancing, stories, and refreshments. All are welcome, must be 21+ to drink. Celebrate with us and be seen! OKEQ at the State Fair September 26 - October 6, Tulsa Fair Grounds 4145 E. 21st St. Tulsa, OK 74120 OKEQ will be at the Tulsa State Fair again this year! Last year was a huge success, and we hope to reach even more people this year! We can't do it without your help, so we are asking people to volunteer for 3-hour shifts at our booth. The fair runs from September 26th through October 6th. Pride Days at the Tulsa State Fair Oklahomans for Equality invites you to turn the Tulsa State Fair Rainbow! Come out and have fun at the Tulsa State Fair as our community celebrates LGBTQ+ Pride all 11 days of awesome! Oklahomans for Equality will have an indoor booth with the road show pride store, information, and volunteers! This is a great chance to run into familiar faces and meet new ones. Don't forget to wear your pride attire to spread awareness and visibility of our presence in Tulsa! Volunteer at the Fair LOVE CONQUERS HATE! Thank you for all who came out in support to help clean up the Lynn Riggs Mural. The clean up was successful! Now the artist will be able to repair and touch 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Happy Bi+ Visibility Week!!!! 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Bi--Visibility-Week----.ht... up the mural. Call for Artist - Deadline for submissions Oct. 7th Monday, October 7, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2020 Exhibition Calendar. Our gallery encourages artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media to apply. Details Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is installed on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. Work must be available for sale. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc) for each piece. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. How to Apply : Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted by email. Proposals incorporating the work of two artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. Deadline for submissions is October 7th, 2019. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2019. 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Happy Bi+ Visibility Week!!!! 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Bi--Visibility-Week----.ht... Please submit entry below, with the subject heading “OkEq gallery proposal" Submit Entry Alphabet Soup: OUT of the Can October 18 - October 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Leadership Lock-In 2019 will bring together LGBTQ+ youth in YOUTH LEADERSHIP middle school and high school from across the state to LOCK-IN AT THE socialize, develop leadership skills, and to have a great time! EQUALITY CENTER Throughout the lock-In, youth will have the unique opportunity to build partnerships, learn new skills, and develop leadership skills to impact their community. Who Should Attend? Youth: Youth in grades 6 through 12 who identify as LGBTQ+ who also have an interest in connecting with, and impacting their community. What Will We Do? Youth will participate in interactive workshops focusing on leadership development, community impact, and self-expression. There will be informative and motivating keynote speakers, lots of fun activities, entertainment, and a silent disco! Some activities will be held at alternate locations such as Youth Services of Tulsa. Staff and volunteers will be responsible for transporting youth to alternate sites. For more information about registration, call the Equality Center at 918-743-4297 or email Morgan Allen at morgan.allen@okeq.org . Registration The OKEQ History Project Needs your Help Our History Project team has been working on archiving footage, artifacts, and newspaper clippings from 1980 to the present day. We have pieces of Oklahoma LGBTQ+ history that span forty years, but we need your help! Do you have old newspapers at your house that mention OKEQ? Do you have Pride shirts from 1999? Videos from past galas? Consider donating or loaning them to our history project so we can digitize and make our archive searchable to the public! OKEQ HISTORY PROJECT WE NEED YOUR HELP! ! ■ 1 11- 1 11-11 I - I I I I 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Happy Bi+ Visibility Week!!!! 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Bi--Visibility-Week----.ht... Bring any and all artifacts to the center! We are open 7 days a week from 9am-9pm! Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa 1st Support Group Meeting Thursday, September 26, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This is Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa very first meeting invite!!! We are so excited to bring people together to help each other LOVE the SKIN they are in!! LOVE the SKIN they are in!!!! Encouraging others keeps her encouraged as well! Our first meeting is going to be so much fun!!!! We will have food & games! We hope to see you :) b. L~;~ or 1t ~.. Orbit Initiative ~ s Saturday, September 28, 1:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 I.~ ~~ ~ ~ -·· ~ === ~ W//// /11 11\\\\\\ ,.•• INITIATIVE THEATRE BY, OF & FOR ALL PEOPLE The ORBIT INITIATIVE is an educational endeavor by the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Trust that strives to reach beyond downtown to work with community partners citywide to provide theatrical education to anyone interested, ages 4-84, free of charge, and located within their community. The goal is to provide collaboration and fellowship for all of Tulsa’s communities through entertainment, education and performance that reflects Tulsa’s own unique diversity. Strong community partnerships are the bedrock of ORBIT. Reaching out to those community members who feel the theater is out of their reach or is an elitist organization is the primary objective. \ \ \I~' ·• ~ l~ /&11 Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, October 1, 6:30 p.m. Celebrity Club 3109 S. Yale Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 ' -~ Cf ~ -.. ~ •• The reservations are under OkEq Men's Group. A head count is needed for the reservations. If you are coming please let us know by clicking below . RSVP 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Happy Bi+ Visibility Week!!!! 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Bi--Visibility-Week----.ht... Celebrity Club Art Opening & Exhibit featuring the works of Lgbtq+ Youth Thursday, October 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This October Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) will showcase and exhibit local LGBTQ+ Youth artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 3rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. “Youth Invasion” will open October 1 st for a month-long show at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, The artwork will be available for purchase at the show. The show is a collaborative effort of over fifteen young artists from Tulsa and the surrounding areas. Many of the youth come from Alphabet SOUP, Oklahomans for Equality Center’s Youth Group, Youth Services of Tulsa, and Camp Fire Green Country. The exhibit contains a wide variety of two- and three-dimensional media, including canvas, clay, and assemblage. This exhibit features teens’ unique take on the issues they face today. This show is a visual exploration of identity and representation. Today’s youth are no stranger to the conscious act of curating the private and public self on a daily basis. This show allows one to look through the eyes of today’s LGBTQ+ youth. The youth who attend Alphabet SOUP, began imagining a show for the art gallery at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center early in the year. The young people have a unique and noteworthy view of the world, and wanted to express their view using the language of art. The youth have been working throughout the year to create and refine the pieces they felt best represented them to be included on this exhibit. Their art will both challenge and expire visitors. The show continues through October 31st. The show begins with a reception where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. Exhibitors include: Artists include: Atlas Daniel Underhill, Amiri Rolland, Winston Paschal, Mia Liagon, Virgil Coffee, Trinity Kissire, Parker Grubb, Athena Lamontflores, Kai Davidson, Aunalicia Garza, Ash Stambaugh, and others. Fresh Start Program: Transformative self care! Thursday, October 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The brain child of Victoria James and cosponsored by Clary Sage College, Dennis R Neill Equality Center, Unity Tulsa, and Dynamite 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Happy Bi+ Visibility Week!!!! 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Bi--Visibility-Week----.ht... Conventions. The Fresh Start Program is designed give a hand-up to those who are going experiencing major life-changes through teaching self-care. No matter what is happening in your life … gender transition, divorce, or even just a much-needed change … The Fresh Start Program provides a judgment free and life-affirming environment so that you can build the best version of yourself through self-care and style. So, stop hating your mirror and stop waiting on the Fab Five to swoop in to make your life better. Join us for our free monthly classes, take control and give yourself the skills to stride into the future with confidence. October 3rd - Applying Makeup for Your Everyday Style Clary Sage College's Makeup Artistry instructor and students will show you how to apply and wear everyday makeup. Bring your makeup kit to class and the Clary Sage students and instructors will show each attendee tips on the best way to apply makeup for your shape and coloring. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). McAlester Pride Saturday, October 12, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Chadick Park S. 3rd St & E. Chadick Ave. McAlester, OK 74501 SeE ~ Tulsa Native American Day Monday, October 14, 2019 at 9:00 a.m – 5:00 p.m. Guthrie Green 111 East M.B. Brady Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 Come join us for the 3nd Annual Tulsa Native American Day Celebration! Event will begin at 9:00 and is open to the public. Vendors, artists, and food trucks will be available throughout the day! Come listen to local community leaders and guest speakers talk about what this day means to them. Parade will begin at 12:00 pm followed by exhibition dancing. This years art, titled "Walking in the Spirit", was done by Tim Nevaquaya. Visit Nevaquaya Fine Arts: Walking in the Spirit Follow Tulsa Native American Day on Facebook LGBT Women's Network October Happy Hour 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Happy Bi+ Visibility Week!!!! 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Bi--Visibility-Week----.ht... Monday, October 14, 9:00 a.m – 5:00 p.m. Vi ntage Wine Bar 324 E. 1st St. Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 MEET LIKE MINDED TULSA. WOMEN & BUILD YOUR NETWORK Vintage Wine Bar has will be hosting us in their beautiful new(ish) space for our October happy hour. Come have a glass of wine or cocktail, meet some new faces, and hopefully it'll be nice enough out to enjoy their perfect patio. **this is on the second Monday of October due to our organizers BOTH being out of town. As always, our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and allies are always welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested to visit all LGBT-friendly locations! Message Us! EBA Mixer Wednesday, October 16, 6:00 p.m. Serenity Financial 508 W. Atlanta St. Broken Arrow, Oklahoma Join Our Team serenityfinancial.us Creating opportunities, income, security, and wealth. Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, October 17, 8:00 p.m. – 10 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Best of Broadway…and Other Exaggerations is a delightful compilation of some of the most beloved tunes every performed on the great white way. The talented cast takes the audience on a sometimes hilarious and sometimes sentimental journey, offering important moments from more than a dozen Tony Award winning Broadway musicals. This cabaret-styled performance features members of Tulsa’s theater and entertainment scene, Sam Briggs, Kara Staiger, Denise Hoey, and Mike DeMarco, while Christy Stalcup lights up the keys. With music from "A Chorus Line" to "Hello Dolly," with moments from "Cabaret," "Man of La Mancha," and many more, this show has something for everyone who loves Broadway music. Tickets JUDY opens Friday, 9/27 at Circle Cinema Friday, September 27, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30p.m. 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Happy Bi+ Visibility Week!!!! 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Bi--Visibility-Week----.ht... Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 Winter 1968 and showbiz legend Judy Garland arrives in Swinging London to perform a five-week sold-out run at The Talk of the Town. It is 30 years since she shot to global stardom in The Wizard of Oz, but if her voice has weakened, its dramatic intensity has only grown. As she prepares for the show, battles with management, charms musicians and reminisces with friends and adoring fans, her wit and warmth shine through. Even her dreams of love seem undimmed as she embarks on a whirlwind romance with Mickey Deans, her soon-to-be fifth husband. Featuring some of her best-known songs, the film celebrates the voice, the capacity for love, and the sheer pizzazz of “the world’s greatest entertainer.” Trailer Circle Cinema AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org . ---- The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey (GHSE) Do you identify as transgender or any gender that is different from the sex you were assigned at birth? If so, we encourage you to participate in The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey! This research will help support our understanding of the social, institutional, and healthcare needs of trans and gender nonbinary people. 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Happy Bi+ Visibility Week!!!! 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Bi--Visibility-Week----.ht... Participants will have the opportunity to vote for a trans-related non-profit organization. $300.00 will be donated to each of the two organizations with the most votes. We will not collect any identifying information from you. Complete Survey NextUp 907 S. Detroit Ave., Suite 210, Tulsa, OK 74120 (918) 442-2900 NextUp is a Tulsa-area initiative to support 18-to 24-year olds in determining, "What’s your next?" That can mean getting your GED, enrolling in technical training, or finding a job. NextUp wants to help you forge your own path and achieve your goals. With our program, you will have access to free technical training and job placement assistance, as well as a variety of individual skill-building workshops, college advancement, career coaching, and other steps to better their lives. and . Whatever your goal is, NextUp is here to help and support you. Text "NextUp" to 31996 for more information. Joe and Nancy McDonald Library UNASHAMED A COMING-OUT GUIDE FOR LGBTQ CHRISTIANS Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. " Unashamed: A Coming-Out Guide for LGBTQ Christians " "On a daily basis, author and LGBTQ advocate Amber Cantorna receives emails asking the same question: How does one reconcile their sexuality with their faith? Depression, despair, and thoughts of suicide often haunt LGBTQ Christians as they feel unable to imagine the possibility of living a happy, fulfilling life as an LGBTQ person of faith. As the gay daughter of a thirty-plus-year executive of conservative Christian organization Focus on the Family, Amber lost everything when she came out as gay in 2012. However, her journey to embrace her authenticity brought her fulfillment and wisdom to share. Unashamed serves as a guide for Christians considering coming out, tackling tough subject matters such as demolishing 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Happy Bi+ Visibility Week!!!! 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Bi--Visibility-Week----.ht... internalized homophobia, finding an affirming faith community, reestablishing your worth as a child of God, navigating difficult family conversations (especially in cases where family is involved in church leadership/ ministry), and healing from the pain of rejection. Unashamed encourages LGBTQ Christians to embrace their unique identities and to celebrate the diversity placed inside them by God." Equality Pride Store New in the OkEq Pride Store: Fanny Packs or Sport Utility Belts Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Happy Bi+ Visibility Week!!!! 12 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Bi--Visibility-Week----.ht... Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. You can make an appointment with Allison by calling 918-280-9645 . offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com ----- Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID t&. SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library OkEq Board Meeting 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Monthly Meeting Thursday, October 17, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Happy Bi+ Visibility Week!!!! 13 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Bi--Visibility-Week----.ht... It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Sos Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Happy Bi+ Visibility Week!!!! 14 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Bi--Visibility-Week----.ht... whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 . Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Happy Bi+ Visibility Week!!!! 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Bi--Visibility-Week----.ht... Facilitated by John Madigan meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Happy Bi+ Visibility Week!!!! 16 of 17 Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org =~ I g f<t__j 1 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Bi--Visibility-Week----.ht... OkEq Staff Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects/Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:13 PM �Happy Bi+ Visibility Week!!!! 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Bi--Visibility-Week----.ht... Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Sheena Grewal - President Chris Brecht-Smith - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrosmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Bob Hanson Jeremy Stevens Corey Thompson Al Triggs Stacy Turner Robin VanMeter Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Jack Graham Dale Hogan Denise Reid Justin Ross Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat 9 a.m. - 9 p.m. | Sun 9 a.m.- 6 p.m. 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:13 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/42a6fc907cbaf359f51be40948392829.pdf 56697caf90d56a38eb5fbb44f0e29204 PDF Text Text Come Visit OkEq at the State Fair!!! 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Visit-OkEq-at-the-State-Fair... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews October 1st, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Art Opening & Exhibit Featuring the Works of LGBTQ+ Youth Thursday, October 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 This October Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) will showcase and exhibit local LGBTQ+ Youth artists at the Dennis R. Neill 4/24/26, 5:14 PM �Come Visit OkEq at the State Fair!!! 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Visit-OkEq-at-the-State-Fair... Equality Center beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 3rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. “Youth Invasion” will open October 1 st for a month-long show at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, The artwork will be available for purchase at the show. The show is a collaborative effort of over fifteen young artists from Tulsa and the surrounding areas. Many of the youth come from Alphabet SOUP, Oklahomans for Equality Center’s Youth Group, Youth Services of Tulsa, and Camp Fire Green Country. The exhibit contains a wide variety of two- and three-dimensional media, including canvas, clay, and assemblage. This exhibit features teens’ unique take on the issues they face today. This show is a visual exploration of identity and representation. Today’s youth are no stranger to the conscious act of curating the private and public self on a daily basis. This show allows one to look through the eyes of today’s LGBTQ+ youth. The youth who attend Alphabet SOUP, began imagining a show for the art gallery at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center early in the year. The young people have a unique and noteworthy view of the world, and wanted to express their view using the language of art. The youth have been working throughout the year to create and refine the pieces they felt best represented them to be included on this exhibit. Their art will both challenge and expire visitors. The show continues through October 31st. The show begins with a reception where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. Exhibitors include: Artists include: Atlas Daniel Underhill, Amiri Rolland, Winston Paschal, Mia Liagon, Virgil Coffee, Trinity Kissire, Parker Grubb, Athena Lamontflores, Kai Davidson, Aunalicia Garza, Ash Stambaugh, and others. OKEQ at the State Fair September 26 - October 6 Tulsa Fair Grounds 4145 E. 21st St. Tulsa, OK 74120 OKEQ will be at the Tulsa State Fair again this year! Last year was a huge success, and we hope to reach even more people this year! We can't do it without your help, so we are asking people to volunteer for 3-hour shifts at our booth. The fair runs from September 26th through October 6th. Pride Days at the Tulsa State Fair Oklahomans for Equality invites you to turn the Tulsa State Fair Rainbow! Come out and have fun at the Tulsa State Fair as our community celebrates LGBTQ+ Pride all 11 days of awesome! Oklahomans for Equality will have an indoor booth with the road show pride store, information, and volunteers! This is a great chance to run into familiar faces and meet new ones. Don't forget to wear your pride attire to spread awareness and visibility of our presence in Tulsa! ·,-,: - .,._ J ,. -4/24/26, 5:14 PM �Come Visit OkEq at the State Fair!!! 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Visit-OkEq-at-the-State-Fair... Volunteer at the Fair Call for Artist - Deadline for submissions Oct. 7th Monday, October 7, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2020 Exhibition Calendar. Our gallery encourages artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media to apply. Details Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is installed on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. Work must be available for sale. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc) for each piece. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. How to Apply : Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted by email. Proposals incorporating the work of two artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. Deadline for submissions is October 7th, 2019. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2019. Please submit entry below, with the subject heading “OkEq gallery proposal" 4/24/26, 5:14 PM �Come Visit OkEq at the State Fair!!! 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Visit-OkEq-at-the-State-Fair... Submit Entry Alphabet Soup: OUT of the Can October 18 - October 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Leadership Lock-In 2019 will bring together LGBTQ+ youth in YOUTH LEADERSHIP middle school and high school from across the state to LOCK-IN AT THE socialize, develop leadership skills, and to have a great time! EQUALITY CENTER Throughout the lock-In, youth will have the unique opportunity to build partnerships, learn new skills, and develop leadership skills to impact their community. Who Should Attend? Youth: Youth in grades 6 through 12 who identify as LGBTQ+ who also have an interest in connecting with, and impacting their community. What Will We Do? Youth will participate in interactive workshops focusing on leadership development, community impact, and self-expression. There will be informative and motivating keynote speakers, lots of fun activities, entertainment, and a silent disco! Some activities will be held at alternate locations such as Youth Services of Tulsa. Staff and volunteers will be responsible for transporting youth to alternate sites. For more information about registration, call the Equality Center at 918-743-4297 or email Morgan Allen at morgan.allen@okeq.org . Registration The OKEQ History Project Needs your Help Our History Project team has been working on archiving footage, artifacts, and newspaper clippings from 1980 to the present day. We have pieces of Oklahoma LGBTQ+ history that span forty years, but we need your help! Do you have old newspapers at your house that mention OKEQ? Do you have Pride shirts from 1999? Videos from past galas? Consider donating or loaning them to our history project so we can digitize and make our archive searchable to the public! OKEQ HISTORY PROJECT WE NEED YOUR HELP! ! ■ = ll- = ll-11 I - I I I I Bring any and all artifacts to the center! We are open 7 days a week from 9am-9pm! 4/24/26, 5:14 PM �Come Visit OkEq at the State Fair!!! 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Visit-OkEq-at-the-State-Fair... Fresh Start Program: Transformative Self Care! Thursday, October 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ORMATIVE f~ ~ ="" The brain child of Victoria James and cosponsored by Clary Sage College, Dennis R Neill Equality Center, Unity Tulsa, and Dynamite Conventions. The Fresh Start Program is designed give a hand-up to those who are going experiencing major life-changes through teaching self-care. No matter what is happening in your life … gender transition, divorce, or even just a much-needed change … The Fresh Start Program provides a judgment free and life-affirming environment so that you can build the best version of yourself through self-care and style. So, stop hating your mirror and stop waiting on the Fab Five to swoop in to make your life better. Join us for our free monthly classes, take control and give yourself the skills to stride into the future with confidence. October 3rd - Applying Makeup for Your Everyday Style Clary Sage College's Makeup Artistry instructor and students will show you how to apply and wear everyday makeup. Bring your makeup kit to class and the Clary Sage students and instructors will show each attendee tips on the best way to apply makeup for your shape and coloring. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). McAlester Pride Saturday, October 12, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Chadick Park S. 3rd St. & E. Chadick Ave. McAlester, OK 74501 SeE ~ Tulsa Native American Day Monday, October 14, 2019 at 9:00 a.m – 5:00 p.m. Guthrie Green 111 E. M.B. Brady St. Tulsa, OK 74103 Come join us for the 3nd Annual Tulsa Native American Day Celebration! Event will begin at 9:00 and is open to the public. Vendors, artists, and food trucks will be available throughout the day! Come listen to local community leaders and guest speakers talk about what this day means to 4/24/26, 5:14 PM �Come Visit OkEq at the State Fair!!! 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Visit-OkEq-at-the-State-Fair... them. Parade will begin at 12:00 pm followed by exhibition dancing. This years art, titled "Walking in the Spirit", was done by Tim Nevaquaya. Visit Nevaquaya Fine Arts: Walking in the Spirit Follow Tulsa Native American Day on Facebook LGBT Women's Network October Happy Hour ,. ~~"~~ Monday, October 14, 9:00 a.m – 5:00 p.m. Vi ntage Wine Bar 324 E. 1st St. Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 Mm LOKE MINDED•ULSAWOMEN . .. Vintage Wine Bar has will be hosting us in their beautiful new(ish) space for our October happy hour. Come have a glass of wine or cocktail, meet some new faces, and hopefully it'll be nice enough out to enjoy their perfect patio. **this is on the second Monday of October due to our organizers BOTH being out of town. As always, our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and allies are always welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested to visit all LGBT-friendly locations! Message Us! EBA Mixer Wednesday, October 16, 6:00 p.m. Serenity Financial 508 W. Atlanta St. Broken Arrow, Oklahoma serenityfinancial.us POC Social at OkEq Thursday, October 17, 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Our Team Creating opportunities, income, security, and wealth. p s t) c:: 4/24/26, 5:14 PM �Come Visit OkEq at the State Fair!!! 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Visit-OkEq-at-the-State-Fair... The People of Color Social Mixer focuses on celebrating, preserving and connecting POCs in the Tulsa LGBT+ community. Join us for drinks, food and fun! The POC events are scheduled the third Thursday of each month. FOR MORE INFORMATION CALL 918 904 1869 MORRIS Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, October 17, 8:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Best of Broadway…and Other Exaggerations is a delightful compilation of some of the most beloved tunes every performed on the great white way. The talented cast takes the audience on a sometimes hilarious and sometimes sentimental journey, offering important moments from more than a dozen Tony Award winning Broadway musicals. This cabaret-styled performance features members of Tulsa’s theater and entertainment scene, Sam Briggs, Kara Staiger, Denise Hoey, and Mike DeMarco, while Christy Stalcup lights up the keys. With music from "A Chorus Line" to "Hello Dolly," with moments from "Cabaret," "Man of La Mancha," and many more, this show has something for everyone who loves Broadway music. C4Jmlntf '4> Thll'"d ThUndil'Y at L'Ynn ~•ns Theiltel'" n oetvbe.- 17th 13~iT Ot= 13~0Al)WA.,,...and Othe..- naaae..-ations feallulmt l)enlse ti«>eY. §am llrhttts. and l\ara Slahter with lhe C:hrlsb' Stalcup Ctlmb«) Tickets Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa Support Group Meeting 4/24/26, 5:14 PM �Come Visit OkEq at the State Fair!!! 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Visit-OkEq-at-the-State-Fair... Thursday, October 24, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 / "! \']SIBLY l:\IPl·Rl·H:TLY Pl·RI+cr This is Visibly Imperfectly Perfect Tulsa very first meeting invite!!! We are so excited to bring people together to help each other LOVE the SKIN they are in!! LOVE the SKIN they are in!!!! Encouraging others keeps her encouraged as well! Our first meeting was so much fun!!!! We hope to see you there :) Active Shooter - How to Respond and Survive Sunday, October 27, 2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Learn strategies on how to survive an active shooter situation. Profile of an Active Shooter Per the Department of Homeland Security: An Active Shooter is an individual actively engaged in killing or attempting to kill people in a confined and populated area; in most cases, active shooters use firearms(s) and there is no pattern or method to their selection of victims This course will teach you how to prepare mentally and physically to deal with an active shooter situation at school, work or other public places. Transgender Day of Remembrance - TDoR Wednesday, November 20, 7:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR) is an annual observance on November 20 that honors the memory of those whose lives were lost in acts of anti-transgender violence. Additionally, during the week of November 12-19, people and organizations around the country participate in Transgender Awareness Week to help raise the visibility of transgender people and address the issues trans people face. This year we will be honoring those lost and celebrating their lives. AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, PE IG 4/24/26, 5:14 PM �Come Visit OkEq at the State Fair!!! 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Visit-OkEq-at-the-State-Fair... program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org . The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey (GHSE) Do you identify as transgender or any gender that is different from the sex you were assigned at birth? If so, we encourage you to participate in The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey! This research will help support our understanding of the social, institutional, and healthcare needs of trans and gender nonbinary people. Participants will have the opportunity to vote for a trans-related non-profit organization. $300.00 will be donated to each of the two organizations with the most votes. We will not collect any identifying information from you. Complete Survey ICAO: E & E BALL - Halftime Event Sunday, October 12, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle 1338 E. 3rd St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Please join us at the Tulsa Eagle to celebrate the halfway point of Reign 12 of The Imperial Court All Oklahoma, Inc . This is a special show as Their Majesties invite their Half-Emperors, Half Empresses, and ICS Family to come and help support Reign 12. Dress code for the evening is SemiFormal. 4/24/26, 5:14 PM �Come Visit OkEq at the State Fair!!! 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Visit-OkEq-at-the-State-Fair... NextUp 907 S. Detroit Ave., Suite 210 Tulsa, OK 74120 (918) 442-2900 NextUp is a Tulsa-area initiative to support 18-to 24-year olds in determining, "What’s your next?" That can mean getting your GED, enrolling in technical training, or finding a job. NextUp wants to help you forge your own path and achieve your goals. With our program, you will have access to free technical training and job placement assistance, as well as a variety of individual skill-building workshops, college advancement, career coaching, and other steps to better their lives. and . Whatever your goal is, NextUp is here to help and support you. Text "NextUp" to 31996 for more information. Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " The Full Spectrum " li DI Tli D ■ 'I' David Levithan & Billy Merrell 1~- ·- - - ~ -~ - Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. "Teens are more aware of sexuality and identity than ever, and they’re looking for answers and insights, as well as a community of others. In order to help create that community, YA authors David Levithan and Billy Merrell have collected original poems, essays, and stories by young adults in their teens and early 20s. The Full Spectrum includes a variety of writers—gay, lesbian, bisexual, straight, transitioning, and questioning—on a variety of subjects: coming out, family, friendship, religion/faith, first kisses, break-ups, and many others. This one of a kind collection will, perhaps, help all readers see themselves and the world around them in ways they might never have imagined. We have partnered with the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN) and a portion of the proceeds from this book will be donated to them." Equality Pride Store 4/24/26, 5:14 PM �Come Visit OkEq at the State Fair!!! 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Visit-OkEq-at-the-State-Fair... New in the OkEq Pride Store: Fanny Packs or Sport Utility Belts Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. You can make an appointment with Allison by calling 918-280-9645 . OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill 4/24/26, 5:14 PM �Come Visit OkEq at the State Fair!!! 12 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Visit-OkEq-at-the-State-Fair... Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com ---- Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL A1n th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, October 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Coming Out Workshop "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 5:14 PM �Come Visit OkEq at the State Fair!!! 13 of 17 1st and 3rd Monday of every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Visit-OkEq-at-the-State-Fair... swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Sos A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Survivors of Incest 4/24/26, 5:14 PM �Come Visit OkEq at the State Fair!!! 14 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Visit-OkEq-at-the-State-Fair... Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/24/26, 5:14 PM �Come Visit OkEq at the State Fair!!! 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Visit-OkEq-at-the-State-Fair... Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff 4/24/26, 5:14 PM �Come Visit OkEq at the State Fair!!! 16 of 17 Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Visit-OkEq-at-the-State-Fair... Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects/Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:14 PM �Come Visit OkEq at the State Fair!!! 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Visit-OkEq-at-the-State-Fair... Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Sheena Grewal - President Chris Brecht-Smith - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrosmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Bob Hanson Jeremy Stevens Corey Thompson Al Triggs Stacy Turner Robin VanMeter Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Jack Graham Dale Hogan Denise Reid Justin Ross Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat 9 a.m. - 9 p.m. | Sun 9 a.m.- 6 p.m. 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:14 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3e84ed689dfbb81960df70e3e4745553.pdf 2731590b9904a41f40c9c761bd2270fa PDF Text Text OUT in Oklahoma! 1 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-in-Oklahoma-.html?soid=1... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews October 8th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! October 11th, is National Coming Out Day! 4/24/26, 5:15 PM �OUT in Oklahoma! 2 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-in-Oklahoma-.html?soid=1... To celebrate National Coming Out Day this Friday, October 11, Oklahomans for Equality has created a Facebook frame for your profile picture! At OKEQ we celebrate being OUT and PROUD LGBTQ+ Okies. Feel free to use it to show that you are #OUTinOKLA. Lynn Riggs does a great job showing our new frame off! You can find it on our Facebook page. LGBTQ Town Hall Watch Party! Thursday, October 10, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 On Thursday, October 10th HRC and CNN are hosting the Power of Pride LGBTQ town hall with 9 of the 2020 presidential candidates. The next Democratic presidential debate is Tuesday, October 15th. LGBTO+ TOWN HALL ~ wATCH PARTY We invite you come out and get an early look at our 2020 Equity Agenda. We want to know what you and your guests think and what's important to you in this race. We are inviting you and your guests to help us shape our 2020 Equity Agenda! • 2020 Equity Agenda • An equity agenda candidate scorecard • Voter Registration Resources • Equality Act Action Thank you for helping us queer the vote! McAlester Pride Saturday, October 12, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Chadick Park 4/24/26, 5:15 PM �OUT in Oklahoma! 3 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-in-Oklahoma-.html?soid=1... S. 3rd St. & E. Chadick Ave. McAlester, OK 74501 Join us as we pick up the torch lighted by McPride many years ago...McAlester Pride Picnic! Come in costume if you like! Food, music, entertainment and resources! Tulsa Native American Day Monday, October 14, 2019 at 9:00 a.m – 5:00 p.m. Guthrie Green 111 E. M.B. Brady St. Tulsa, OK 74103 Come join us for the 3nd Annual Tulsa Native American Day Celebration! Event will begin at 9:00 and is open to the public. Vendors, artists, and food trucks will be available throughout the day! Come listen to local community leaders and guest speakers talk about what this day means to them. Parade will begin at 12:00 pm followed by exhibition dancing. We have so many volunteer opportunities ahead at OKEQ and one we are super excited about is the Tulsa Native American Day Parade on Monday Oct. 14 from 9:00am-1:00pm. We need 30 volunteers who are ready to help our indigenous family out by giving directions, helping with parking, and other general parade stuff! Our Native American community has worked hard to put this event together, and they deserve the opportunity to enjoy and participate in their parade and, with your help, we can make that happen! Stand with our Native Siblings! You can sign up by clicking the link below: This years art, titled "Walking in the Spirit", was done by Tim Nevaquaya. Visit Nevaquaya Fine Arts: Walking in the Spirit Follow Tulsa Native American Day on Facebook 4/24/26, 5:15 PM �OUT in Oklahoma! 4 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-in-Oklahoma-.html?soid=1... Register to Volunteer LGBT Women's Network October Happy Hour Monday, October 14, 9:00 a.m – 5:00 p.m. Vi ntage Wine Bar 324 E. 1st St. Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 Vintage Wine Bar has will be hosting us in their beautiful new(ish) space for our October happy hour. Come have a glass of wine or cocktail, meet some new faces, and hopefully it'll be nice enough out to enjoy their perfect patio. **this is on the second Monday of October due to our organizers BOTH being out of town. As always, our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and allies are always welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested to visit all LGBT-friendly locations! Message Us! EBA Mixer Wednesday, October 16, 6:00 p.m. Serenity Financial 508 W. Atlanta St. Broken Arrow, Oklahoma serenityfinancial.us Join Our Team Creating opportunities, income, security, and wealth. Serenity Financial will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for October. Preparing for your financial future is one of the most important steps you can take in life. From tax-advantaged strategies to lifetime income solutions to protecting your lifestyle, we can help you create and enjoy the future of your dreams. We’re committed to keeping things simple and clear. We pride ourselves on providing you with quality information so you can make sound financial decisions. We tailor our recommendations around your specific goals to help create the peace of mind you deserve. Attend one of our events to discover more about what we do or connect with us one on one to figure out if we might be a good fit. Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, October 17, 8:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/24/26, 5:15 PM �OUT in Oklahoma! 5 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-in-Oklahoma-.html?soid=1... Tulsa, OK 74120 Best of Broadway…and Other Exaggerations is a delightful compilation of some of the most beloved tunes every performed on the great white way. The talented cast takes the audience on a sometimes hilarious and sometimes sentimental journey, offering important moments from more than a dozen Tony Award winning Broadway musicals. This cabaret-styled performance features members of Tulsa’s theater and entertainment scene, Sam Briggs, Kara Staiger, Denise Hoey, and Mike DeMarco, while Christy Stalcup lights up the keys. With music from "A Chorus Line" to "Hello Dolly," with moments from "Cabaret," "Man of La Mancha," and many more, this show has something for everyone who loves Broadway music. Ctlmlntf IA> Third ThUndilY at l.Ynn 1211!fl Theater on {)d.()ber 17th 131:~T Of' 13~O.Al)W.A,-,...and Other l:xaaaerations featu..-lnlf Venlse tit)eY9 Sam 1?..-lltlfS9 and ~a..-a Stalare..wllh lhe Ch..-lsb' §I.ala.IP Cflmoo Tickets Alphabet Soup: OUT of the Can October 18 - October 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Leadership Lock-In 2019 will bring together LGBTQ+ youth in YOUTH LEADERSHIP middle school and high school from across the state to LOCK-IN AT THE socialize, develop leadership skills, and to have a great time! EQUALITY CENTER Throughout the lock-In, youth will have the unique opportunity to build partnerships, learn new skills, and develop leadership skills to impact their community. Who Should Attend? Youth: Youth in grades 6 through 12 who identify as LGBTQ+ who also have an interest in connecting with, and impacting their community. What Will We Do? Youth will participate in interactive workshops focusing on leadership development, community impact, and self-expression. There will be informative and motivating keynote 4/24/26, 5:15 PM �OUT in Oklahoma! 6 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-in-Oklahoma-.html?soid=1... speakers, lots of fun activities, entertainment, and a silent disco! Some activities will be held at alternate locations such as Youth Services of Tulsa. Staff and volunteers will be responsible for transporting youth to alternate sites. For more information about registration, call the Equality Center at 918-743-4297. Registration The OKEQ History Project Needs your Help Our History Project team has been working on archiving footage, artifacts, and newspaper clippings from 1980 to the present day. We have pieces of Oklahoma LGBTQ+ history that span forty years, but we need your help! Do you have old newspapers at your house that mention OKEQ? Do you have Pride shirts from 1999? Videos from past galas? Consider donating or loaning them to our history project so we can digitize and make our archive searchable to the public! OKEQ HISTORY PROJECT WE NEED YOUR HELP! l!i 1ll-1ll-11 I - I I I I Bring any and all artifacts to the center! We are open 7 days a week from 9am-9pm! Lynn Riggs received his final makeover on Monday! We are so happy to have him restored thanks to the fine artists at Colorpop Art Lab ! Thank you Tulsa for your support. 4/24/26, 5:15 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8fe146ce3d605b5dc21c706d6686aa45.pdf d59d501690026c9d5fcdff0e4538f2c8 PDF Text Text We Will Not Be Silenced 1 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Will-Not-Be-Silenced.html?s... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews July 23rd, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Hate Crime Vandalism at the Equality Center On Monday, July 22nd, at 11:14 p.m. the Lynn Riggs Memorial Mural at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, the home of Oklahomans for Equality, was vandalized, and under Oklahoma law, this is not classified as a hate 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �We Will Not Be Silenced 2 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Will-Not-Be-Silenced.html?s... crime. Lynn Riggs, a celebrated, gay playwright, was not silenced during his lifetime and we will not be silenced during ours. This is why we continue to fight and speak up against hate. ---------- --:-~ Our Hours are Expanding! We're happy to announce that we are expanding our hours of service! Starting Monday, July 1st the Dennis R Neill Equality Center will open at 9:00 a.m. New Volunteer Shifts Available We will now be opening at 9:00 a.m. and are in need of volunteers from 9:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. every day of the week. If you are interested in volunteering during this time, Please fill out our volunteer form here: Volunteer Form $14 for our 14 years in Downtown Tulsa: Help us replace our roof so we can continue our 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �We Will Not Be Silenced 3 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Will-Not-Be-Silenced.html?s... mission! The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has been Oklahomans for Equality’s home for the last 14 years. During this tumultuous time, the center has stayed open as a refuge for our community from the downpours outside. We have remained a port in the storm for those who call this place home and have welcomed those who have only just made their way to our doorstep. Unfortunately, the weather that has plagued our city has made it clear that the center needs your help. Like the rest of Tulsa, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has experienced flooding and severe damage to the roof of our two story building. Not only has the roof of our building degraded but the subsequent damage to our building is keeping us from continuing to do our work. We need your help to raise funds so we can replace our roof and repair the damage to our facilities. We are asking every member of our community to please consider donating $14, one for every year that OkEq and the Dennis R. Neil Equality Center has provided a home to our community. Help us replace our roof so we can keep helping people under our roof! Donate Here Raise the Roof Party Saturday, July 27, 7:00 p.m. - 10:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 $14 Admission tt RAISE THE Join us for our Raise the Roof Party and help us replace our roof so we can continue to take care of our family. $14 gets you into the party where there will be dancing, a cash bar, live entertainment, light hors d'oeurves, and a silent auction for amazing "home sweet home" gift baskets. Come get loud for a good cause! ROOF Get your Ticket Now S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �We Will Not Be Silenced 4 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Will-Not-Be-Silenced.html?s... . ~~ Tuesday, Aug. 20, Sep. 17, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl. Tulsa, OK 74105 ") ' .. : . tt' -' 'j ~f'i 'J~ Members should meet on Tuesday, June 18th at 9:30 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email alex.wade@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. g (Q d ~ • g; A gel @ d lb JO I Thursday, July 25 6:00 - 8:00pm E Flying Tee 600 Riverwalk Terrace Jenks, OK 74037 $30 per person gets you 2 hours of golf Please submit RSVP & payment to Curtis or Al before July 22 nd • If golf isn't your thing, you can still come out for appetizers or a meal and Flying Tee will donate 10% of all food and non-alcoholic beverages sales between 6:00 - 8:00pm to JOLT. Flying Tee also has an arcade, pool tables, outdoor chess, shuffle board, oversized Connect Four, cornhole and oversized Jenga for the non golfers. To RSVP, submit payment or for more information on this fundraiser, please text or call: Curtis Austin 720.333.3956 or Al Warren 918.361.8739 - - -- ~ - 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �We Will Not Be Silenced 5 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Will-Not-Be-Silenced.html?s... First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit: Masks: 14 Visions” Thursday, August 1, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The August Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 2nd Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature an exhibit with a collaborative show titled “Masks: 14 Visions”, beginning with a reception on Thursday, August 1st from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. The show features 22 pieces by Tulsa artists working in a variety of two- and threedimensional media, including paints, ceramics, mosaic, fabric, wood and assemblage. 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �We Will Not Be Silenced 6 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Will-Not-Be-Silenced.html?s... AFtte~ for f?/~~u~h~ a d , m , , ~ 2 Y ar - 1991 - 201 9 The Annual Fundrai er aturday ugu t 3 201 9 ~ 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Denni ill quality nter th 621 4 t. , Tul a OK 74 120 p cial Mu ic by Barrett Lewi & yl ie Lynn Dinner: 20.00 Rib , hicken & Veg tarian main di h Baked Bean , ole law, Potato alad, & I arrot up ak ! Li e Entertainment & ilent Auction - ll proc t:d to benefit the program whi h upp rt hundr d • f pet own ·r Ii ing with HIV to b abl to k p th ir b t fri nd at a -ru ia l tim in th ir li LGBT Women's Network Happy Hour Monday, August 5, 5:30 p.m. R Bar and Grill Tulsa 4329 S. Peoria Ave. Tulsa, OK 74105 We're heading back to Brookside to see the R Bar crew again. If you've never had drinks on their perfect patio, you're in for a treat! Our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+. Allies are always welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message on Facebook at LGBT Women's Network ! We’re interested to visit all LGBTQ+-friendly locations! Grateful Day 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �We Will Not Be Silenced 7 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Will-Not-Be-Silenced.html?s... HIV Wellness Retreat The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year’s HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful x! c~, Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in ~lGffTS -AJ-ON£!, Oklahoma's HIV/AIDS wellness community through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. . q_~~.t'!L11 We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. Don't forget to pay your retreat fees after filling out the registration form. Register Here Get your Ticket Now Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, August 6, 6:30 p.m. Biga Italian Restaurant 4329 S. Peoria Ave. Tulsa, OK 74105 bigaitalianrestaurant.com The reservations are under OkEq Men's Group. A head count is needed for the reservations. If you are coming please let us know by emailing GuysDineToo@gmail.com. Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Sorta Love Songs Thursday, August 15, 2019 at 8 PM – 10 PM 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �We Will Not Be Silenced 8 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Will-Not-Be-Silenced.html?s... lyrics by Scott Burke ll music by Paul Loesel lynn riggs theatre dennis r neill equality center 621 e 4th st thursday, august 15 - 8pm Get your Ticket Now EBA Mixer Wednesday, August 21, 6:00 p.m. OsteoStrong Tulsa 5940 S. Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK 74105 0 STE O CB) STRONG . OsteoStrong Tulsa will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for August. OsteoStrong is a unique place where you can go to improve your overall health by focusing on the one thing we all have in common: a skeletal system. AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted PE The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. G Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org --- -- . Enid Pride Saturday, September 21, 12:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Garfield County Courthouse 100 W. Broadway Ave. Enid, OK 73701 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �We Will Not Be Silenced 9 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Will-Not-Be-Silenced.html?s... Mark your calendars for the 10th annual Enid Pride celebration on Saturday, September 21, 2019! McAlester Pride Saturday, October 12, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Chadick Park S. 3rd St & E. Chadick Ave. McAlester, OK 74501 ----------5 eE Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " Trans Figured: My Journey from Boy to Girl to Woman to Man" Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. " Imagine experiencing life not as the gender dictated by birth but as one of your own design. In Trans Figured , Brian Belovitch shares his true story of life as a gender outlier and his dramatic journey through the jungle of gender identity. Brian has the rare distinction of coming out three times: first as a queer teenager; second as a glamorous transgender woman named Tish, and later, Natalia Gervais; and finally as an HIV-positive gay man surviving the AIDS crisis in the 1980s. From growing up in a barely-working-class first-generation immigrant family in Fall River, Massachusetts, to spinning across the disco dance floor of Studio 54 in New York City . . . from falling into military lock-step as the Army wife of a domineering GI in Germany to having a brush with fame as Natalia, high-flying downtown darling of the boozy and druggy pre-Giuliani New York nightclub scene, Brian escaped many near-death experiences. " Equality Pride Store Coming Soon! 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �We Will Not Be Silenced 10 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Will-Not-Be-Silenced.html?s... PRIDE STORE New in the OkEq Pride Store: Progress Pride Pins Stickers and Landyards Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. You can make an appointment with Allison by calling 918-280-9645 . OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �We Will Not Be Silenced 11 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Will-Not-Be-Silenced.html?s... Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com ---- Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL A1n th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library OkEq Board Meeting 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Monthly Meeting Thursday, August 15, 7:00 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Coming Out Workshop "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �We Will Not Be Silenced 12 of 16 1st and 3rd Monday of every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Will-Not-Be-Silenced.html?s... 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Sos A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �We Will Not Be Silenced 13 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Will-Not-Be-Silenced.html?s... Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Gender Support Program Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Wednesdays 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �We Will Not Be Silenced 14 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Will-Not-Be-Silenced.html?s... 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �We Will Not Be Silenced 15 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Will-Not-Be-Silenced.html?s... Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects/Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:07 PM �We Will Not Be Silenced 16 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Will-Not-Be-Silenced.html?s... Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Sheena Grewal - President Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Vice President Marcia LaBooth Keesee - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrosmith, D.O. Allison Ikley-Freeman Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Jack Graham Bob Hanson, PharmD Dale Hogan Denise Reid Justin Ross Jeremy Stevens Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat 9 a.m. - 9 p.m. | Sun 9 a.m.- 6 p.m. 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:07 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/cbde96a033bcbfbac764773c9e2bbe83.pdf ee220684a99a76ba38ee5593a38fe074 PDF Text Text How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 1 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews October 24th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 2 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... Share the Warmth! We are now accepting donations of blankets, coats, socks, scarves, hats, and gloves. As a warming station, we see a high number of people who are experiencing homelessness, and these items are a necessity as the temperature drops. net G ~ ~ """1.. U carve a E:£_..... _:-1-Y111ed How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter Sunday, October 27, 2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Learn strategies on how to survive an active shooter situation. Profile of an Active Shooter: Per the Department of Homeland Security: An Active Shooter is an individual actively engaged in killing or attempting to kill people in a confined and populated area; in most cases, active shooters use firearms(s) and there is no pattern or method to their selection of victims This course will teach you how to prepare mentally and physically to deal with an active shooter situation at school, work or other public places. Toby's 60th Halloween Birthday Bash Thursday, October 31, 5:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Toby Jenkins will be turning 60 and as a kid, his favorite Charlie Brown story was "It's The Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown," the Peanut's gang Halloween classic.Toby recalls every birthday cake of his life having a pumpkin on it so this year he is embracing his shape and will be dressed as the Great Pumpkin. Please drop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Halloween night, Thursday, October 31st from 5:00 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. and wish Toby a happy 60th birthday and get your picture with the great pumpkin. This is a familyfriendly event and you and your children are invited to drop by and trick or treat and get your 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 3 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... picture with Toby in " The Great Pumpkin" drag. Toby loves to see the children of our community on his birthday and favorite holiday. DJ Dec Daniel from Urban Country Entertainment will be spinning the hits from the past 60 years. There will be refreshments and a cash bar with adult beverages. Rainbow Granny, and The King and Queen of Tulsa Pride will be performing. Toby requests no gifts or cards but please donate to Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in his honor. COME $EE THE LGBT Women's Network November Happy Hour Monday, November 4, 5:30 p.m - 7:30 p.m. Yokozuna Blue Dome 309 E. 2nd St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Sushi Happy Hour, anyone? We will be gathering at Yokozuna Blue Dome for our November meet up! As always, our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and allies are always welcome. If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message. We’re interested to visit all LGBT-friendly locations! Name Change Clinic Wednesday, November 6, 5:30 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in progress of starting the name Change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 4 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... Josh, has eight years experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. MOREcolor Art Exhibition First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit featuring OCRJ Thursday, November 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The November Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists and will feature a show titled “Defending abortion access is an act of love”, beginning with /Hll!N~ fOl AIOlllON U([II II AN Ul Of LOVE. a reception on Thursday, November 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. Join the Oklahoma Call for Reproductive Justice and MOREcolor Art Exhibition to talk about reproductive freedom in 2019 and what it’s going to take from each and every one of us to ensure abortion remains accessible to all. This event will feature Oklahoma visual artist’s interpretations of the theme, “defending abortion access is an act of love,” as well as talks from local activists and opportunities to get involved. And of course since we are feeding the movement, enjoy dinner with us! Defending abortion access is an act of love. And we fight to defend that access because we care. We fight because we know that without the ability to control our reproduction we are less free. We fight because In 2019 the right to abortion has become less secure, and at this moment in history it is crucial that we stand together to defend our reproductive freedoms. We each have something uniquely powerful to lend this battle, and that’s why we’ve gathered artists, activists and students together to learn and to strategize together on how that message can change Oklahoma and ensure reproductive freedom. See more about OCRJ by clicking their link below: OCRJ.org Fresh Start Program: Transformative Self Care! Thursday, November 7, 6:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 5 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 1~1r,'\.1 ~ '-I program The brain child of Victoria James and co-sponsored by Clary Sage College, Dennis R Neill Equality Center, Unity Tulsa, and Dynamite Conventions. The Fresh Start Program is designed give a hand-up to those who are going experiencing major life-changes through teaching self-care. No matter what is happening in your life … gender transition, divorce, or even just a much-needed change … The Fresh Start Program provides a judgment free and life-affirming environment so that you can build the best version of yourself through self-care and style. So, stop hating your mirror and stop waiting on the Fab Five to swoop in to make your life better. Join us for our free monthly classes, take control and give yourself the skills to stride into the future with confidence. November 7th - Hair Care and Styling Still looking for that perfect hairstyle? Need to update your look? Come check out our workshop where Clary Sage College's Cosmetology instructor will discuss proper hair care, styling and what styles and cuts look good for certain face shapes. Students and instructors will style hair of attendees and show what may work best for you. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). Preparing for Día de los Muertos Honoring our Migrant Families Wednesday, October 30, 6:30 p.m. Sanctuary of All Souls Church 2952 S. Peoria Ave Tulsa, OK 74114 An interfaith vigil in preparation for Día de los Muertos to honor and mourn those who have died this year crossing the southern border into the United States or have died in US detention centers. People are encouraged to bring a pair of shoes, to place on the ofrenda, representing those who have lost their lives walking across the border. There will be live music, candles and testimonials from families currently at risk of being torn apart by deportation. All shoes collected will be donated. Oklahoman's for Equality feels this is important to our LGBTQ+ community because, many of those seeking asylum are LGBTQ+ fleeing death and persecution. 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 6 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... Tulsa Veterans Day Parade Monday, November 11, 11:00 a.m. - 3:00 p.m. VFW Post 577 1109 E. 6th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Veterans Day Parade is a televised event. The Veterans Day Parade has been part of a century old tradition in the Tulsa Community. Come out and celebrate the dedication in our service members. To participate apply/register here: Apply / Register Transgender Awareness Week November 12 - 19 Transgender Awareness Week aims to raise visibility of transgender and gender non-conforming individuals as well as raise awareness for the issues the community faces. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is raising the transgender flag for Transgender Awareness Week. Marketplace Enrollment at the Equality Center Saturday, November 16, 10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 OPEN ENROLLMENT MEANS OPEN FO BUSINESS LGBTQ+ people are more likely to be uninsured than non-LGBTQ+ people. Open 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 7 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... enrollment for 2020 coverage begins NOVEMBER1-DECEMBER15 November 1st and goes through December 15th. We will be hosting an Enroll at www.healthcare.gov! #GetCovered enrollment event where people can meet with a marketplace navigator to help them find the best insurance option available to them. This event is free and no appointment is required. LEAD Together Class 2 LGBTQ+ Leadership Program Wednesday, November 20, 7:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 _, ,, Il l/// LEADTffi~T~~R Created in partnership with Oklahomans for Equality and Leadership Tulsa, LEAD Together LGBTQ+ Leadership Program Class 2 is now accepting applications! LEAD together is the only program in Oklahoma addressing LGBTQ leadership development. The six-month program includes an orientation, 8 day-long sessions, volunteer work for Tulsa Pride and networking opportunities. Applications are due by 5 p.m. November 15th, 2019. They can be found by clicking below. Registration Transgender Day of Remembrance - TDoR Wednesday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Transgender Day of Remembrance is a yearly event on November 20th to remember those we have lost due to anti-transgender violence. Join Oklahomans for Equality in memorializing as well as celebrating those who have passed on in 2019. Art by Trans Individuals will be on display. Light hor-dourves and non-alcoholic beverages will be available. Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : The Zuits Thir-d Thunda,, at L"YDD ~iffS TheaterPliiloYe•ber- ~1st at S:(l(l P• Thursday, November 21, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 8 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room presents “A Night with Cole Porter” featuring Tulsa’s own the a Cole VorterZuits. This one night only 1eatunne the Oie Oand Sound of performance will take the audience on a magical Tt-J~ ZUIT~ journey of Cole Porter’s music from “Anything Goes” to the all-time hit “De-Lovely”, with stops along the way at “In the Still of the Night”, “Love for Sale” and much, much more. Come dressed for an evening straight out of the old speakeasy days. The music is sometimes sophisticated and sometimes campy, but always entertaining and sure to thrill the audience. ~iaht with The fantastic Zuits are an 8-piece swing band, made up of some of the most talented musicians in the Tulsa Metro, including Brent Baldwin on tenor and baritone sax, Brandon Chambers on Alto Sax, Joe Metzer on trumpet, Doug Styers on trombone and vocals, Chuck Fluker on guitar, Andrew Ralston on upright bass, Chris Wylie on drums, and Mark Lee on grand piano. And, wherever the Zuits perform surprise vocalist always seem to appear. Buy Your Tickets Here Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Trinity - Episcopal - - -Church -Hope Unitarian Church Fellowship Church UCC - - -Congregational - - ----Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 9 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Christ - -Church - - -Episcopal ---Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Church Diversity Christian Fellowship International University United Methodist Church PFLAG Tulsa Desi Wok Labrena Shamsi, Aliye Shimi St. Patrick's Episcopal Church Forest Park Christian Church Please confirm your attendance by clicking below. Confirm Your Attendance Here OkEq Fairy Tree Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Fairy Tree is back at Oklahomans for Equality to support Tulsa Cares and someone whose life is affected by HIV/AIDS. Come by, pick up a card and fulfill someone's holiday wish. Gifts must be returned by December 6th. For more information, contact Alex Wade below. Contact Us The OKEQ History Project Needs your Help Our History Project team has been working on archiving footage, artifacts, and newspaper clippings from 1980 to the present day. We have pieces of Oklahoma LGBTQ+ history that span forty years, but we need your help! Do you have old newspapers at your house that mention OKEQ HISTORY PROJECT WE NEED YOUR HELP! 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 10 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... OKEQ? Do you have Pride shirts from 1999? Videos from past galas? Consider donating or loaning them to our history project so we can digitize and make our archive searchable to the public! Bring any and all artifacts to the center! We are open 7 days a week from 9am-9pm! AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey (GHSE) Do you identify as transgender or any gender that is different from the sex you were assigned at birth? If so, we encourage you to participate in The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey! This research will help support our understanding of the social, institutional, and healthcare needs of trans and gender nonbinary people. Participants will have the opportunity to vote for a trans-related non-profit organization. $300.00 will be donated to each of the two organizations with the most votes. We will not collect any identifying information from you. Complete Survey The Deaths of Sybil Bolton November 1st - 10th Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 r: heatre ~ LT 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 11 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... The Deaths of Sybil Bolton from the book by Dennis P. McAuliffe, Jr. adapted for the stage and directed by David Blakely (U n Co. :C -- ■ November 1 & 2, 8 & 9 at 7:30PM November 9 & 10 at 2:00PM HTC Playwright-in-Residence Emeritus David Blakely returns to recount a shocking true-life piece of Oklahoma history: the Osage Oil Murders. Based on Dennis P. McAuliffe, Jr.’s 1990 nonfiction book The Deaths of Sybil Bolton, Blakely’s adaptation depicts a journalist uncovering lies, cover-ups, and murder on his quest for the truth: what exactly happened to his grandmother during the systematic reign of terror that killed an estimated 60-plus wealthy, full-blood Osage Native Americans in the 1920s? Blakely expands his four-time TATEwinning* one-act play Four Ways to Die into a full-length true-crime story from Oklahoma’s past, with an intimate look at how trauma, legacies, and lies are inherited. The Deaths of Sybil Bolton marks the latest Heller Theatre Company production that highlights plays centered on and brought to life by women and people of color. We are dedicated to supporting and magnifying the voices of the marginalized through these powerful and well-written works. *”Four Ways to Die” received four awards from the 2018 Tulsa Awards for Theater Excellence ceremony, including Outstanding Original Work, Outstanding Direction, Outstanding Ensemble, and Outstanding Properties. Tickets are on sale now: Tickets Drag Poetics: A Writers Workshop with Matty Layne Glasgow Saturday, November 9, 12:30 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for a craft talk and workshop with poet and teaching artist Matty Layne Glasgow! This free public workshop will be held in the Goff Room at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Registration is required--sign up at the link in this event page. Drag queens queer gender & pageantry, embodying a performance of liberation on stage. A drag poetics considers the intersection of this artistry with both the written & spoken word. In this generative workshop, we 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 12 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... will consider persona & form, the wig & reveal, as we embrace the deathtrap divas within us & craft our own sequined ditties. The Tulsa Little Pajama Jammy Jam Gala! Friday, December 6, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for Tulsa Little Jam's first official fundraising Gala! And this isn't your typical fundraiser. It's the Tulsa Little Pajama Jammy Jam! That means we want you to come in your PAJAMAS! The goofier, the better! There will be a silent auction throughout the evening of amazing local arts and crafts and other items, amazing food by Joel Bein and Rub , drinks of all kinds, and, of course, live music throughout night. It's Tulsa Little Jam, after all! This is an ALL AGES event! So bring the family and get ready to have an amazing time! A percentage of all we raise will go to school music programs in Tulsa! See you December 6th! NextUp 907 S. Detroit Ave., Suite 210 Tulsa, OK 74120 (918) 442-2900 NextUp is a Tulsa-area initiative to support 18-to 24-year olds in determining, "What’s your next?" That can mean getting your GED, enrolling in technical training, or finding a job. NextUp wants to help you forge your own path and achieve your goals. With our program, you will have access to free technical training and job placement assistance, as well as a variety of individual skill-building workshops, college advancement, career coaching, and other steps to better their lives. and . Whatever your goal is, NextUp is here to help and support you. Text "NextUp" to 31996 for more information. Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " We Are Everywhere: Protest, Power, and Pride in the History of Queer Liberation" 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 13 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... "A rich and sweeping photographic history of the Queer Liberation Movement, from the creators and curators of the massively popular Instagram account @lgbt_history, released in time for the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Through the lenses of protest, power, and pride, We Are Everywhere is an essential and empowering introduction to the history of the fight for queer liberation. Combining exhaustively researched narrative with meticulously curated photographs, the book traces queer activism from its roots in latenineteenth-century Europe--long before the pivotal Stonewall Riots of 1969--to the gender warriors leading the charge today. Featuring more than 300 images from more than seventy photographers and twenty archives, this inclusive and intersectional book enables us to truly see queer history unlike anything before, with glimpses of activism in the decades preceding and following Stonewall, family life, marches, protests, celebrations, mourning, and Pride. By challenging many of the assumptions that dominate mainstream LGBTQ+ history, We Are Everywhere shows readers how they can--and must--honor the queer past in order to shape our liberated future." Equality Pride Store New in the OkEq Pride Store: ACE / ARO / Demisexual Flags in support of Asexual Awareness week. 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 14 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. You can make an appointment with Allison by calling 918-280-9645. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 15 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, November 14, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Sos Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 16 of 20 Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Survivors of Incest Anonymous Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 17 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... breath. Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Gender Support Program Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Community Partners IIEQ UALITY 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 18 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... ~~Business Alhance EBA Directory The Equality contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. health outreach prevention education, Inc. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 19 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects/Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Sheena Grewal - President Chris Brecht-Smith - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Laura Arrosmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Bob Hanson Jeremy Stevens Corey Thompson Al Triggs Stacy Turner Robin VanMeter 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �How to Respond and Survive an Active Shooter 20 of 20 Visit Our Website https://myemail.constantcontact.com/How-to-Respond-and-Survive-an-... View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat 9 a.m. - 9 p.m. | Sun 9 a.m.- 6 p.m. 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fd7b8d447b8ef2fd5f8a64a2c98295ab.pdf ebe8459837ad1407045352a6b2952221 PDF Text Text Come See the Great Pumpkin 1 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews October 28th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 2 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... Share the Warmth! We are now accepting donations of blankets, coats, socks, scarves, hats, and gloves. As a warming station, we see a high number of people who are experiencing homelessness, and these items are a necessity as the temperature drops. net carve G _:-1-Y111ed a ~ ~ """1.. U E:£_..... Toby's 60th Halloween Birthday Bash Thursday, October 31, 5:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Toby Jenkins will be turning 60 and as a kid, his favorite Charlie Brown story was "It's The Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown," the Peanut's gang Halloween classic.Toby recalls every birthday cake of his life having a pumpkin on it so this year he is embracing his shape and will be dressed as the Great Pumpkin. Please drop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Halloween night, Thursday, October 31st from 5:00 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. and wish Toby a happy 60th birthday and get your picture with the great pumpkin. This is a familyfriendly event and you and your children are invited to drop by and trick or treat and get your picture with Toby in " The Great Pumpkin" drag. Toby loves to see the children of our community on his birthday and favorite holiday. DJ Dec Daniel from Urban Country Entertainment will be spinning the hits from the past 60 years. There will be refreshments and a cash bar with adult beverages. Rainbow Granny, and The King and Queen of Tulsa Pride will be performing. Toby requests no gifts or cards but please donate to Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in his honor. COME SEE THE 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 3 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... ___. LGBT Women's Network November Happy Hour Monday, November 4, 5:30 p.m - 7:30 p.m. Yokozuna Blue Dome 309 E. 2nd St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Sushi Happy Hour, anyone? We will be gathering at Yokozuna Blue Dome for our November meet up! As always, our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and allies are always welcome. If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message. We’re interested to visit all LGBT-friendly locations! Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, November 5, 6:30 p.m. Celebrity Club 3109 S. Yale Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 The reservations are under OkEq Men's Group. A head count is needed for the reservations. If you are coming please let us know by clicking below: RSVP Celebrity Club Name Change Clinic Wednesday, November 6, 5:30 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in progress of starting the name Change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years experience as a practicing attorney and six 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 4 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. MOREcolor Art Exhibition First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit featuring OCRJ Thursday, November 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The November Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists and will feature a show titled “Defending abortion access is an act of love”, beginning with /Hll!N~ fOl AIOllJON U([II II AN Ul Of LOVE. a reception on Thursday, November 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. Join the Oklahoma Call for Reproductive Justice and MOREcolor Art Exhibition to talk about reproductive freedom in 2019 and what it’s going to take from each and every one of us to ensure abortion remains accessible to all. This event will feature Oklahoma visual artist’s interpretations of the theme, “defending abortion access is an act of love,” as well as talks from local activists and opportunities to get involved. And of course since we are feeding the movement, enjoy dinner with us! Defending abortion access is an act of love. And we fight to defend that access because we care. We fight because we know that without the ability to control our reproduction we are less free. We fight because In 2019 the right to abortion has become less secure, and at this moment in history it is crucial that we stand together to defend our reproductive freedoms. We each have something uniquely powerful to lend this battle, and that’s why we’ve gathered artists, activists and students together to learn and to strategize together on how that message can change Oklahoma and ensure reproductive freedom. See more about OCRJ by clicking their link below: OCRJ.org Fresh Start Program: Transformative Self Care! Thursday, November 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center RESH r:sr~ 1111111111111--· r"'\_ program G - t,.11- 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 5 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The brain child of Victoria James and co-sponsored by Clary Sage College, Dennis R Neill Equality Center, Unity Tulsa, and Dynamite Conventions. The Fresh Start Program is designed give a hand-up to those who are going experiencing major life-changes through teaching self-care. No matter what is happening in your life … gender transition, divorce, or even just a much-needed change … The Fresh Start Program provides a judgment free and life-affirming environment so that you can build the best version of yourself through self-care and style. So, stop hating your mirror and stop waiting on the Fab Five to swoop in to make your life better. Join us for our free monthly classes, take control and give yourself the skills to stride into the future with confidence. November 7th - Hair Care and Styling Still looking for that perfect hairstyle? Need to update your look? Come check out our workshop where Clary Sage College's Cosmetology instructor will discuss proper hair care, styling and what styles and cuts look good for certain face shapes. Students and instructors will style hair of attendees and show what may work best for you. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). Tulsa Veterans Day Parade Monday, November 11, 11:00 a.m. - 3:00 p.m. VFW Post 577 1109 E. 6th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Veterans Day Parade is a televised event. The Veterans Day Parade has been part of a century old tradition in the Tulsa Community. Come out and celebrate the dedication in our service members. To participate apply/register here: Apply / Register Transgender Awareness Week November 12 - 19 Transgender Awareness Week aims to raise visibility of transgender and gender non-conforming individuals as well as raise awareness for the issues the community faces. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is raising the transgender flag for Transgender Awareness Week. 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 6 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... POC Social at OkEq Friday, October 17, 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The People of Color Social Mixer focuses on celebrating, preserving and connecting POCs in the Tulsa LGBT+ community. Join us for drinks, food and fun! The POC events are scheduled the third Friday of each month. EVERY THIRD FRIDAY 7PM TO 9PM l/KE US ON FACEBOOK @OKLAHOMANSFOREOUALITY FI/RlllmfHIIATrl/Tm/CAllKAIJ 9189041869 Marketplace Enrollment at the Equality Center Saturday, November 16, 10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 LGBTQ+ people are more likely to be uninsured than non-LGBTQ+ people. Open enrollment for 2020 coverage begins November 1st and goes through December 15th. We will be hosting an enrollment event where people can meet with a marketplace navigator to help them find the best insurance option available to them. This event is free and no appointment is required. OPEN ENROLLMENT MEANS OPEN FO BUSINESS NOVEMBER1·DECEMBER15 Enroll at www.healthcare.gov! #GetCovered 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 7 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... LEAD Together Class 2 LGBTQ+ Leadership Program Wednesday, November 20, 7:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 _, ,, Il l /// LEADTffi~T~-H~R Created in partnership with Oklahomans for Equality and Leadership Tulsa, LEAD Together LGBTQ+ Leadership Program Class 2 is now accepting applications! LEAD together is the only program in Oklahoma addressing LGBTQ leadership development. The six-month program includes an orientation, 8 day-long sessions, volunteer work for Tulsa Pride and networking opportunities. Applications are due by 5 p.m. November 15th, 2019. They can be found by clicking below. Registration Transgender Day of Remembrance - TDoR Wednesday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Transgender Day of Remembrance is a yearly event on November 20th to remember those we have lost due to anti-transgender violence. Join Oklahomans for Equality in memorializing as well as celebrating those who have passed on in 2019. Art by Trans Individuals will be on display. Light hor-dourves and non-alcoholic beverages will be available. Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : The Zuits Thil"d Thunday at Lynn 11,iff!i Theatel" ""'o"e•bel" 21st at S:()() P • Thursday, November 21, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room presents “A Night with Cole Porter” featuring Tulsa’s own the Zuits. This one night only performance will take the audience on a magical journey of Cole Porter’s music from “Anything Goes” to the all-time hit “De- featunnl! the me 13and Sound of Tt-J~ ZUIT~ 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 8 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... Lovely”, with stops along the way at “In the Still of the Night”, “Love for Sale” and much, much more. Come dressed for an evening straight out of the old speakeasy days. The music is sometimes sophisticated and sometimes campy, but always entertaining and sure to thrill the audience. The fantastic Zuits are an 8-piece swing band, made up of some of the most talented musicians in the Tulsa Metro, including Brent Baldwin on tenor and baritone sax, Brandon Chambers on Alto Sax, Joe Metzer on trumpet, Doug Styers on trombone and vocals, Chuck Fluker on guitar, Andrew Ralston on upright bass, Chris Wylie on drums, and Mark Lee on grand piano. And, wherever the Zuits perform surprise vocalist always seem to appear. Buy Your Tickets Here Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Trinity Episcopal Church Hope Unitarian Church Fellowship Congregational Church UCC Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Church Diversity Christian Fellowship International University United Methodist Church PFLAG Tulsa Desi Wok Labrena Shamsi, Aliye Shimi St. Patrick's Episcopal Church Forest Park Christian Church 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 9 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... Temple Israel Please confirm your attendance by clicking below. Confirm Your Attendance Here OkEq Fairy Tree Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Fairy Tree is back at Oklahomans for Equality to support Tulsa Cares and someone whose life is affected by HIV/AIDS. Come by, pick up a card and fulfill someone's holiday wish. Gifts must be returned by December 6th. For more information, contact Alex Wade below. Contact Us The OKEQ History Project Needs your Help Our History Project team has been working on archiving footage, artifacts, and newspaper clippings from 1980 to the present day. We have pieces of Oklahoma LGBTQ+ history that span forty years, but we need your help! Do you have old newspapers at your house that mention OKEQ? Do you have Pride shirts from 1999? Videos from past galas? Consider donating or loaning them to our history project so we can digitize and make our archive searchable to the public! Bring any and all artifacts to the center! We are open 7 days a week from 9am-9pm! AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, G 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 10 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org . The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey (GHSE) Do you identify as transgender or any gender that is different from the sex you were assigned at birth? If so, we encourage you to participate in The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey! This research will help support our understanding of the social, institutional, and healthcare needs of trans and gender nonbinary people. Participants will have the opportunity to vote for a trans-related non-profit organization. $300.00 will be donated to each of the two organizations with the most votes. We will not collect any identifying information from you. Complete Survey The Deaths of Sybil Bolton November 1st - 10th Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Deaths of Sybil Bolton from the book by Dennis P. McAuliffe, Jr. adapted for the stage and directed by David Blakely r: heatre ~ i _H___._ Co. November 1 & 2, 8 & 9 at 7:30PM November 9 & 10 at 2:00PM HTC Playwright-in-Residence Emeritus David Blakely returns to recount a shocking true-life piece of Oklahoma history: the Osage Oil Murders. Based on Dennis P. McAuliffe, Jr.’s 1990 nonfiction book The Deaths of Sybil Bolton, Blakely’s adaptation depicts a journalist uncovering lies, cover-ups, and murder on his quest for the truth: what exactly happened to his grandmother during the systematic reign of terror that killed an estimated 60-plus wealthy, full-blood Osage Native Americans in the 1920s? Blakely expands his four-time TATE- 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 11 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... winning* one-act play Four Ways to Die into a full-length true-crime story from Oklahoma’s past, with an intimate look at how trauma, legacies, and lies are inherited. The Deaths of Sybil Bolton marks the latest Heller Theatre Company production that highlights plays centered on and brought to life by women and people of color. We are dedicated to supporting and magnifying the voices of the marginalized through these powerful and well-written works. *”Four Ways to Die” received four awards from the 2018 Tulsa Awards for Theater Excellence ceremony, including Outstanding Original Work, Outstanding Direction, Outstanding Ensemble, and Outstanding Properties. Tickets are on sale now: Tickets Drag Poetics: A Writers Workshop with Matty Layne Glasgow Saturday, November 9, 12:30 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for a craft talk and workshop with poet and teaching artist Matty Layne Glasgow! This free public workshop will be held in the Goff Room at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Registration is required--sign up at the link in this event page. Drag queens queer gender & pageantry, embodying a performance of liberation on stage. A drag poetics considers the intersection of this artistry with both the written & spoken word. In this generative workshop, we will consider persona & form, the wig & reveal, as we embrace the deathtrap divas within us & craft our own sequined ditties. 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 12 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... Isis King: Model, Actress and Trans Rights Advocate Tuesday, November 12, 7:30 p.m. – 9:30 p.m. The University of Tulsa, Lorton Performance Center: Gussman Hall 550 South Gary Place Tulsa, OK 74104 Come listen to Isis King, one of the first openly trans models on America's Next Top Model and actress in the Emmy winning Netflix series "When They See Us", discuss her physical/ mental transformation, television career, and her perspective on the current climate of Trans rights and acceptance. ISIS KING DISCUSSION/Q&A .. ISTEN TO ISIS l(II\IG D1.:1\..u.:1.:, HE:R PHYSICAL/MENTAL TRANSFORMATION TELEVIS ON CAREER Al'IID HER PERSPECTIVE ON THE' CURRE'NT CLIMATE' OF TRANS RIGHTS AND ACCEPTANCE THE UNIVERSITY OF TULSA LORTON PERFORMANCE CENTER GUSSMAN HALL 7:30 PM/NOV . 12 TICKETS : $10/PERSON [AT THE □ DOR / DR ONLINE @EVENTBRITEJ LITTLE BLUE HOJSE ST\JOENT ASSOCIATION WOMENS AI\ID CHEVRON Ml,LTICl.ATU EHLERS DIES AL RESOURCE CENTE STL,DENT ALLIANCE FOR VIOLEI\ICE EDJCATI N OFF CE OF D VERSITY & ENCACEMENT DENNIS A NE LL EQL.ALITY CENTER OFFICE OF STUDENT SERV CES LAM BA CHI ALPHA C.ENTER FOR CAREER DEVELOPMENT AN.:> PROFESSIONAL ENGAGEMENT 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 13 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... Tickets The Tulsa Little Pajama Jammy Jam Gala! Friday, December 6, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for Tulsa Little Jam's first official fundraising Gala! And this isn't your typical fundraiser. It's the Tulsa Little Pajama Jammy Jam! That means we want you to come in your PAJAMAS! The goofier, the better! There will be a silent auction throughout the evening of amazing local arts and crafts and other items, amazing food by Joel Bein and Rub , drinks of all kinds, and, of course, live music throughout night. It's Tulsa Little Jam, after all! This is an ALL AGES event! So bring the family and get ready to have an amazing time! A percentage of all we raise will go to school music programs in Tulsa! See you December 6th! NextUp 907 S. Detroit Ave., Suite 210 Tulsa, OK 74120 (918) 442-2900 NextUp is a Tulsa-area initiative to support 18-to 24-year olds in determining, "What’s your next?" That can mean getting your GED, enrolling in technical training, or finding a job. NextUp wants to help you forge your own path and achieve your goals. With our program, you will have access to free technical training and job placement assistance, as well as a variety of individual skill-building workshops, college advancement, career coaching, and other steps to better their lives. and . Whatever your goal is, NextUp is here to help and support you. Text "NextUp" to 31996 for more information. Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " Out in America: A Portrait of Gay and Lesbian Life" 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 14 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. " For Gay and Lesbian Americans, visibility has always been a key issue. While some maintain a life in the closet for family, career, or personal reasons, others come out to a world that rarely celebrates, and at times refuses to tolerate, the simple courage of people just being themselves. Out in America should look no different from the rest of America to the casual observer - there are farmers and artists, sky divers, families, professionals, and retirees. But for gay men, lesbians, and their supporters, the 250 photographs in this book offer evidence of a community that knows no boundaries, a community that has put down roots in truly every segment of American society. Out in America is divided into 10 subjects, each opening with a "dispatch" from a distinguished gay or lesbian journalist. The book opens with a foreword by Margarethe Cammermeyer, recently reinstated Chief Nurse of the Washington National Guard, whose courage and persistence exemplify what all gay and lesbian Americans must face on a daily basis: the fight for equality in a country founded upon this very principle. As Michael Goff, editor of Out magazine, writes in his introduction: "Over the last half century, millions of written words have estimated, reported, and argued that 'We are everywhere.' This project simplifies and amplifies those efforts, through the age-old law that each photo is worth a thousand words. The sum of the parts is actually much greater than that. Enjoy - and join us - out in America. " Equality Pride Store New in the OkEq Pride Store: ACE / ARO / Demisexual Flags in support of Asexual 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 15 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... Awareness week. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. You can make an appointment with Allison by calling 918-280-9645. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID t h, 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 16 of 21 ~ERVICES OF https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, November 14, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 17 of 21 individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Survivors of Incest Anonymous Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 18 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... Individuals Support Group balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Gender Support Program This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 19 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 20 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects/Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Sheena Grewal - President Chris Brecht-Smith - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Board of Directors Laura Arrosmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Bob Hanson Jeremy Stevens Corey Thompson Al Triggs Stacy Turner 4/24/26, 5:16 PM �Come See the Great Pumpkin 21 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-See-the-Great-Pumpkin.ht... Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Robin VanMeter View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat 9 a.m. - 9 p.m. | Sun 9 a.m.- 6 p.m. 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/11652990dffd27f7201ea23502601767.pdf 2ff30d9eefb9e698268fb17535acb77a PDF Text Text Come out for MORE color Art Exhibition First Thursday Art Opening... 1 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-out-for-MORE-color-Art-E... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews November 5th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/24/26, 5:17 PM �Come out for MORE color Art Exhibition First Thursday Art Opening... 2 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-out-for-MORE-color-Art-E... Share the Warmth! We are now accepting donations of blankets, coats, socks, scarves, hats, and gloves. As a warming station, we see a high number of people who are experiencing homelessness, and these items are a necessity as the temperature drops. OkEq Fairy Tree Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Fairy Tree is back at Oklahomans for Equality to support Tulsa Cares and someone whose life is affected by HIV/AIDS. Come by, pick up a card and fulfill someone's holiday wish. Gifts must be returned by December 6th. For more information, contact Alex Wade below. Contact Us Name Change Clinic Wednesday, November 6, 5:30 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are in progress of starting the name Change process as well as those who are interested in doing so in the near future. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/24/26, 5:17 PM �Come out for MORE color Art Exhibition First Thursday Art Opening... 3 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-out-for-MORE-color-Art-E... MORE color Art Exhibition First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit featuring OCRJ Thursday, November 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The November Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists and will feature a show titled “Defending abortion access is an act of love”, beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. Join the Oklahoma Call for Reproductive Justice and MOREcolor Art Exhibition to talk about reproductive freedom in 2019 and what it’s going to take from each and every one of us to ensure abortion remains accessible to all. This event will feature Oklahoma visual artist’s interpretations of the theme, “defending abortion access is an act of love,” as well as talks from local activists and opportunities to get involved. And of course since we are feeding the movement, enjoy dinner with us! Defending abortion access is an act of love. And we fight to defend that access because we care. We fight because we know that without the ability to control our reproduction we are less free. We fight because In 2019 the right to abortion has become less secure, and at this moment in history it is crucial that we stand together to defend our reproductive freedoms. We each have something uniquely powerful to lend this battle, and that’s why we’ve gathered artists, activists and students together to learn and to strategize together on how that message can change Oklahoma and ensure reproductive freedom. See more about OCRJ by clicking their link below: OCRJ.org Fresh Start Program: Transformative Self Care! Thursday, November 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The brain child of Victoria James and cosponsored by Clary Sage College, Dennis R Neill Equality Center, Unity Tulsa, and Dynamite Conventions. 4/24/26, 5:17 PM �Come out for MORE color Art Exhibition First Thursday Art Opening... 4 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-out-for-MORE-color-Art-E... The Fresh Start Program is designed give a hand-up to those who are going experiencing major life-changes through teaching self-care. No matter what is happening in your life … gender transition, divorce, or even just a much-needed change … The Fresh Start Program provides a judgment free and life-affirming environment so that you can build the best version of yourself through self-care and style. So, stop hating your mirror and stop waiting on the Fab Five to swoop in to make your life better. Join us for our free monthly classes, take control and give yourself the skills to stride into the future with confidence. November 7th - Hair Care and Styling Still looking for that perfect hairstyle? Need to update your look? Come check out our workshop where Clary Sage College's Cosmetology instructor will discuss proper hair care, styling and what styles and cuts look good for certain face shapes. Students and instructors will style hair of attendees and show what may work best for you. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). Tulsa Veterans Day Parade Monday, November 11, 11:00 a.m. - 3:00 p.m. VFW Post 577 1109 E. 6th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Veterans Day Parade is a televised event. The Veterans Day Parade has been part of a century old tradition in the Tulsa Community. Come out and celebrate the dedication in our service members. To participate apply/register here: Apply / Register Transgender Awareness Week November 12 - 19 Transgender Awareness Week aims to raise visibility of transgender and gender non-conforming individuals as well as raise awareness for the issues the community faces. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is raising the transgender flag for Transgender Awareness Week. POC Social at OkEq Friday, October 17, 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 5:17 PM �Come out for MORE color Art Exhibition First Thursday Art Opening... 5 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-out-for-MORE-color-Art-E... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 EVERY THIRD FRIDAY The People of Color Social Mixer focuses on celebrating, preserving and connecting POCs in the Tulsa LGBT+ community. Join us for drinks, food and fun! The POC events are scheduled the third Friday of each month. lPI TO 9PM LIKE US 0# FACEBOOK @OKLAHOMA#SFOREOUAl/TY Marketplace Enrollment OPEN ENROLLMENT MEANS OPEN FOR BUSINESS Review and Enroll Before Time Runs Out! LGBTQ+ people are more likely to be uninsured than non-LGBTQ+ people. Open enrollment for 2020 coverage begins November 1st and goes through December 15th. We will be hosting an enrollment event where people can meet with a marketplace navigator to help them find the best insurance option available to them. This event is free and no appointment is required. NOVEMBER1-DECEMBER15 Enroll at www.healthcare.gov! #GetCovered Click to Enroll LEAD Together Class 2 LGBTQ+ Leadership Program Wednesday, November 20, 7:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 _, ,, Il l /// LEADTffi~T~-H~R Created in partnership with Oklahomans for Equality and Leadership Tulsa, LEAD Together LGBTQ+ Leadership Program Class 2 is now accepting applications! LEAD together is the only program in Oklahoma addressing LGBTQ leadership development. The six-month program includes an orientation, 8 day-long sessions, volunteer work for Tulsa Pride and networking opportunities. Applications are due by 5 p.m. November 15th, 2019. They can be found by clicking below. 4/24/26, 5:17 PM �Come out for MORE color Art Exhibition First Thursday Art Opening... 6 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-out-for-MORE-color-Art-E... Registration Transgender Day of Remembrance - TDoR Wednesday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Transgender Day of Remembrance is a yearly event on November 20th to remember those we have lost due to anti-transgender violence. Join Oklahomans for Equality in memorializing as well as celebrating those who have passed on in 2019. Art by Trans Individuals will be on display. Light hor-dourves and non-alcoholic beverages will be available. Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : The Zuits Thif"d ThuHday at Lynn l,il!fl Theate..i'ljoye•bef" '.ll!il at S:fl() P• Thursday, November 21, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room presents “A Night with Cole Porter” featuring Tulsa’s own the Zuits. This one night only performance will take the audience on a magical journey of Cole Porter’s featurinl! the Eil! Eand Sound of music from “Anything Goes” to the all-time hit “DeTlil: ZUIT~ Lovely”, with stops along the way at “In the Still of the Night”, “Love for Sale” and much, much more. Come dressed for an evening straight out of the old speakeasy days. The music is sometimes sophisticated and sometimes campy, but always entertaining and sure to thrill the audience. The fantastic Zuits are an 8-piece swing band, made up of some of the most talented musicians in the Tulsa Metro, including Brent Baldwin on tenor and baritone sax, Brandon Chambers on Alto Sax, Joe Metzer on trumpet, Doug Styers on trombone and vocals, Chuck Fluker on guitar, Andrew Ralston on upright bass, Chris Wylie on drums, and Mark Lee on grand piano. And, wherever the Zuits perform surprise vocalist always seem to appear. Buy Your Tickets Here Come Home for 4/24/26, 5:17 PM �Come out for MORE color Art Exhibition First Thursday Art Opening... 7 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-out-for-MORE-color-Art-E... Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Trinity Episcopal Church -Hope Unitarian Church Fellowship Congregational Church -----UCC Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church ChristChurch - Episcopal -Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Church Diversity Christian Fellowship International University United Methodist Church PFLAG Tulsa Desi Wok Labrena Shamsi, Aliye Shimi St. Patrick's Episcopal Church Forest Park Christian Church Temple Israel Please confirm your attendance by clicking below. Confirm Your Attendance Here Worlds AIDS Day Walk Sunday, December 1, 2:00 p.m. Centennial Park 1028 E. 6th St. S Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:17 PM �Come out for MORE color Art Exhibition First Thursday Art Opening... 8 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-out-for-MORE-color-Art-E... •..·; "'· r'-! WJ'_.·.. .. EV'£RGREEN • • .. ·• • Held every December 1st, ! : ~ . . _"' t 'ulsacares World AIDS Day is an opportunity for people worldwide to unite in the fight against HIV, show support for people living with HIV, and commemorate those who have passed. The Evergreen Health Coalition along with Tulsa CARES are proud hosts of this community-wide event to be held at Centennial Park. Free and open to the public, the event is family-friendly and pet-friendly, so bundle up and join us as we raise awareness and stand together as a community. HEAL TH COA1. ITION Worlds AIDS Day Commemorative Service Sunday, December 1, 5:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational UCC 2009 S. Harvard Ave Tulsa, OK 74114 This years theme is, "Saving lives Through Leadership and Partnerships" We are working on a few community wide events, for this year. Please stay tuned, we will be posting more as it develops. Council Oak Men's Chorale Presents: Have a Cool Yule Tuesday, December 3, 5, 6 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational UCC 2009 S. Harvard Ave Tulsa, OK 74114 Stay tuned for additional information regarding our upcoming 2019 Winter concert! Tickets are available for purchase through our website below or at the door of each evening's performance. When: l)e«:ember- 3 r-d • t'.i th & t3th f'ellowshiP Ctlna..-eaatlonal Chun:h 2 ~H)() § tiarva..-d Ave Tulsa. 01\ Time: S1()()pm 4/24/26, 5:17 PM �Come out for MORE color Art Exhibition First Thursday Art Opening... 9 of 21 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-out-for-MORE-color-Art-E... Tickets 14th Annual Falala Ball Thursday, December 21, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for this year's 1th Annual Fa La La Ball. Don your "gay" apparel (or comfortable clothing for you) and bring your friends to celebrate the holidays with great dance music from DJ Alex, savory hors-d'oeuvres and a cash bar. Admission is any of the following: Canned goods and toiletries for St. Jerome Parish Pantry Canned goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Children's Toys for Women in Recovery. The OKEQ History Project Needs your Help Our History Project team has been working on archiving footage, artifacts, and newspaper clippings from 1980 to the present day. We have pieces of Oklahoma LGBTQ+ history that span forty years, but we need your help! Do you have old newspapers at your house that mention OKEQ? Do you have Pride shirts from 1999? Videos from past galas? Consider donating or loaning them to our history project so we can digitize and make 4/24/26, 5:17 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1d6edd2e7b1ad95a97349b2d2c890497.pdf da46fce8e2f5d09d01b726658625b6e9 PDF Text Text Transgender Awareness Week is November 12 - 19 1 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Awareness-Week-is... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews November 13th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Transgender Awareness Week November 12 - 19 Transgender Awareness Week aims to raise visibility of transgender and gender non-conforming individuals as well as raise awareness for the issues the community faces. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is raising the transgender flag for Transgender Awareness Week. 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Transgender Awareness Week is November 12 - 19 2 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Awareness-Week-is... Transgender Day of Remembrance - TDoR Wednesday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Transgender Day of Remembrance is a yearly event on November 20th to remember those we have lost due to anti-transgender violence. Join Oklahomans for Equality in memorializing as well as celebrating those who have passed on in 2019. Art by Trans Individuals will be on display. Light hor-dourves and non-alcoholic beverages will be available. Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : The Zuits Thir-d Thunday at Lynn l,il!fl Theater""o"e•ber- :list at 8:()() P• Thursday, November 21, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room presents “A Night with Cole Porter” featuring Tulsa’s own the Zuits. This one night only performance will take the audience on a magical journey of Cole Porter’s featurinl! the 13il! 13and Sound of music from “Anything Goes” to the all-time hit “DeTtll: ZUIT~ Lovely”, with stops along the way at “In the Still of the Night”, “Love for Sale” and much, much more. Come dressed for an evening straight out of the old speakeasy days. The music is sometimes sophisticated and sometimes campy, but always entertaining and sure to thrill the audience. The fantastic Zuits are an 8-piece swing band, made up of some of the most talented musicians in the Tulsa Metro, including Brent Baldwin on tenor and baritone sax, Brandon Chambers on Alto Sax, Joe Metzer on trumpet, Doug Styers on trombone and vocals, Chuck Fluker on guitar, Andrew Ralston on upright bass, Chris Wylie on drums, and Mark Lee on grand piano. And, wherever the Zuits perform surprise vocalist always seem to appear. Buy Your Tickets Here In Memoriam: Chuck Courtney 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Transgender Awareness Week is November 12 - 19 3 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Awareness-Week-is... "In This Family, No One Fights Alone." Oklahomans for Equality is deeply saddened by the loss of Chuck Courtney. Chuck was invaluable to the HIV/AIDS activist community, serving as President of the Grateful Day Foundation, forming HIV/AIDS support groups, organizing the HIV/AIds Annual Retreat, working tirelessly to track down the 10 panels of the original AIDS Quilts for the Names Project, and creating a film about the HIV/AIDS crisis in Oklahoma called "The Secret House." Chuck loved his community and put endless energy into his projects with great success. He was kind, supportive, and always ready to laugh. We are grateful for his work, and we will miss him every day. The world has lost an incredible activist. Oklahomans for Equality will always remember Chuck Courtney. " Memorial Services is at 11:00 am on Saturday, November 23rd at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Share the Warmth! We are now accepting donations of blankets, coats, socks, scarves, hats, and gloves. As a warming station, we see a high number of people who are experiencing homelessness, and these items are a necessity as the temperature drops. OkEq Fairy Tree Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Fairy Tree is back at Oklahomans for Equality to support Tulsa Cares and someone whose life is affected by HIV/AIDS. Come by, pick up a card and fulfill someone's holiday wish. Gifts must be returned by December 6th. For more information, contact Alex Wade below. Contact Us 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Transgender Awareness Week is November 12 - 19 4 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Awareness-Week-is... Marketplace Enrollment OPEN ENROLLMENT MEANS OPEN FOR BUSINESS Review and Enroll Before Time Runs Out! LGBTQ+ people are more likely to be uninsured than non-LGBTQ+ people. Open enrollment for 2020 coverage begins November 1st and goes through December 15th. We will be hosting an enrollment event where people can meet with a marketplace navigator to help them find the best insurance option available to them. This event is free and no appointment is required. NOVEMBER1·DECEMBER15 Enroll at www.healthcare.gov! #GetCovered Click to Enroll LEAD Together Class 2 LGBTQ+ Leadership Program Wednesday, November 20, 7:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 _, ,, Il l /// LEADTffi(;T~l;R Created in partnership with Oklahomans for Equality and Leadership Tulsa, LEAD Together LGBTQ+ Leadership Program Class 2 is now accepting applications! LEAD together is the only program in Oklahoma addressing LGBTQ leadership development. The six-month program includes an orientation, 8 day-long sessions, volunteer work for Tulsa Pride and networking opportunities. Applications are due by 5 p.m. November 15th, 2019. They can be found by clicking below. Registration Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Transgender Awareness Week is November 12 - 19 5 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Awareness-Week-is... community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Trinity Church - - -Episcopal - --- -----Hope Unitarian Church Fellowship Congregational Church UCC Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Christ Church ---- - - - Episcopal - --- -Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Church Diversity Christian Fellowship International University United Methodist Church PFLAG Tulsa Desi Wok Labrena Shamsi, Aliye Shimi St. Patrick's Episcopal Church Forest Park Christian Church Temple Israel Please confirm your attendance by clicking below. Confirm Your Attendance Here 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Transgender Awareness Week is November 12 - 19 6 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Awareness-Week-is... Worlds AIDS Day Walk Sunday, December 1, 2:00 p.m. Centennial Park 1028 E. 6th St. S Tulsa, OK 74120 •~ fJau, . ~ (I•. ••• •• eo W' Held every December 1st, World AIDS Day is an :·ru1sacares opportunity for people worldwide to unite in the fight against HIV, show support for people living with HIV, and commemorate those who have passed. The Evergreen Health Coalition along with Tulsa CARES are proud hosts of this community-wide event to be held at Centennial Park. Free and open to the public, the event is family-friendly and pet-friendly, so bundle up and join us as we raise awareness and stand together as a community. EV<RGREEN : •• • •••• HEAL TH COA1. ITIOtl •• : W' • • • Worlds AIDS Day Commemorative Service Sunday, December 1, 5:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational UCC 2009 S. Harvard Ave Tulsa, OK 74114 This years theme is, "Saving lives Through Leadership and Partnerships" We are working on a few community wide events, for this year. Please stay tuned, we will be posting more as it develops. Council Oak Men's Chorale Presents: Have a Cool Yule Tuesday, December 3, 5, 6 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tulsa, OK 74114 What's the perfect way to hear sophisticated, fun, and jazzy stylings of some of your favorite holiday tunes? With Council Oak Men’s Chorale at their concert, Have a Cool Yule . “It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year,” “African Noel,” “Mary Had a Baby,” and of course “Cool Yule” are only a few of the songs sure to get you in the holiday spirit. Join us this holiday season and have a Yule that’s cool!. 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Transgender Awareness Week is November 12 - 19 7 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Awareness-Week-is... ule • Date : December 3rd, 5th and 6th Time: 8:00 n.m. Location: Fellow hip Congregational Church • Tickets First Thursday Art Opening: Featuring the work of Tami Smith Thursday, December 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 2nd Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of April Howard, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. I was born and raised in Tulsa, Oklahoma and my work is inspired by my love of all things OKIE. In my artwork, I spotlight the beauty that is found in Oklahoma, whether that is Mother Nature in all her glory, or the amazing wealth of talent and creativity found in it's citizens, such as Leon Russel, Woody Guthrie, Vince Gill, and Merle Haggard. I am extremely proud of my home, from the red dirt beneath my toes to the Tulsa Sound tradition. My artwork is a celebration of the powerful spirit and energy of Oklahoma! The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Transgender Awareness Week is November 12 - 19 8 of 19 Fresh Start Program: Trans-formative self care! Thursday, December 5, 6:00 p.m. 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Awareness-Week-is... SH ~ program The brain child of Victoria James and co-sponsored by Clary Sage College, Dennis R Neill Equality Center, Unity Tulsa, and Dynamite Conventions. The Fresh Start Program is designed give a hand-up to those who are going esperiencing major life-changes through teaching self-care.No matter what is happening in your life … gender transition, divorce, or even just a much-needed change … The Fresh Start Program provides a judgement free and life-affirming environment so that you can build the best version of yourself through self-care and style. So, stop hating your mirror and stop waiting on the Fab Five to swoop in to make your life better. Join us for our free monthly classes, take control and give yourself the skills to stride into the future with confidence. Barbering and Facial Hair Care We will have one of our barber instructors give a presentation on hair styles, how to care for facial hair, and choosing the best style for the shape of your face . Students and instructors will then sit and talk with attendees individually about what may work best for them. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Transgender Awareness Week is November 12 - 19 9 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Awareness-Week-is... 14th Annual Falala Ball Thursday, December 21, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for this year's 1th Annual Fa La La Ball. Don your "gay" apparel (or comfortable clothing for you) and bring your friends to celebrate the holidays with great dance music from DJ Alex, savory hors-d'oeuvres and a cash bar. Admission is any of the following: Canned goods and toiletries for St. Jerome Parish Pantry Canned goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Children's Toys for Women in Recovery. Advertise With Us! Have you considered advertising in our digital weekly newsletter? Did you know we connect with thousands in the community? We are currently offering spots to advertise your business or organization in our newsletter. Vear $25.00 a week at the Top of the Newsletter $15.00 a week at the Middle of the Newsletter $10.00 a week at the Bottom of the Newsletter All advertisements must come with a High Resolution Graphic, a fully written out copy of what you would like to offer readers, and how many weeks you would like for the ad to run. Contact us below for more details and to get started! Get Started! The OKEQ History Project Needs your Help Our History Project team has been working on archiving footage, artifacts, and 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Transgender Awareness Week is November 12 - 19 10 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Awareness-Week-is... newspaper clippings from 1980 to the present day. We have pieces of Oklahoma LGBTQ+ history that span forty years, but we need your help! Do you have old newspapers at your house that mention OKEQ? Do you have Pride shirts from 1999? Videos from past galas? Consider donating or loaning them to our history project so we can digitize and make our archive searchable to the public! Bring any and all artifacts to the center! We are open 7 days a week from 9am-9pm! AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . LGBTQ+ Gathering & Transgender Day of Remembrance Dinner Wednesday, November 20, 5:30 p.m. All Souls 2952 S Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Our LGBTQ+ community is invited to gather for Wednesday Connections Dinner at All Souls. We will car pool or meet at OKEQ for the Transgender Day of Remembrance Service. Click below for additional event details. Spend meaningful time with your LGBTQIA+ Community at All Souls this Fam 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Transgender Awareness Week is November 12 - 19 11 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Awareness-Week-is... More Information The Tulsa Little Pajama Jammy Jam Gala! Friday, December 6, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for Tulsa Little Jam's first official fundraising Gala! And this isn't your typical fundraiser. It's the Tulsa Little Pajama Jammy Jam! That means we want you to come in your PAJAMAS! The goofier, the better! There will be a silent auction throughout the evening of amazing local arts and crafts and other items, amazing food by Joel Bein and Rub , drinks of all kinds, and, of course, live music throughout night. It's Tulsa Little Jam, after all! This is an ALL AGES event! So bring the family and get ready to have an amazing time! A percentage of all we raise will go to school music programs in Tulsa! See you December 6th! The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey (GHSE) Do you identify as transgender or any gender that is different from the sex you were assigned at birth? If so, we encourage you to participate in The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey! This research will help support our understanding of the social, institutional, and healthcare needs of trans and gender nonbinary people. Participants will have the opportunity to vote for a trans-related non-profit organization. $300.00 will be donated to each of the two organizations with the most votes. We will not collect any identifying information from you. 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Transgender Awareness Week is November 12 - 19 12 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Awareness-Week-is... Complete Survey NextUp 907 S. Detroit Ave., Suite 210 Tulsa, OK 74120 (918) 442-2900 NextUp is a Tulsa-area initiative to support 18-to 24-year LIVE UllrTED olds in determining, "What’s your next?" That can mean getting your GED, enrolling in technical training, or finding a job. NextUp wants to help you forge your own path and achieve your goals. With our program, you will have access to free technical training and job placement assistance, as well as a variety of individual skill-building workshops, college advancement, career coaching, and other steps to better their lives. and . Whatever your goal is, NextUp is here to help and support you. Text "NextUp" to 31996 for more information. Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " When Harry Became Sally: Responding to the Transgender Moment " " When Harry Became Sally provides thoughtful answers to questions arising from our transgender moment. Drawing on the best insights from biology, psychology, and philosophy, Ryan Anderson offers a nuanced view of human embodiment, a balanced approach to public policy on gender identity, and a sober assessment of the human costs of getting human nature wrong. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. This book exposes the contrast between the media’s sunny depiction of gender fluidity and the often sad reality of living with gender dysphoria. It gives a voice to people who tried to “transition” by changing their bodies, and found themselves no better off. Especially troubling are the stories told by adults who were encouraged to transition as children but later regretted subjecting themselves to those drastic procedures. As Anderson shows, the most beneficial 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Transgender Awareness Week is November 12 - 19 13 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Awareness-Week-is... therapies focus on helping people accept themselves and live in harmony with their bodies. This understanding is vital for parents with children in schools where counselors may steer a child toward transitioning behind their backs." Equality Pride Store New in the OkEq Pride Store: Transgender Scarves, Hats, Flags, stickers and more! Show your support this upcoming Transgender Awareness Week November 12-19th. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Transgender Awareness Week is November 12 - 19 14 of 19 concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. You can make an appointment with Allison by calling 918-280-9645. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Awareness-Week-is... these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, November 14, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Transgender Awareness Week is November 12 - 19 15 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Awareness-Week-is... of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 . "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Sos Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Transgender Awareness Week is November 12 - 19 16 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Awareness-Week-is... Survivors of Incest Anonymous Free Yoga Class at OkEq Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Transgender Awareness Week is November 12 - 19 17 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Awareness-Week-is... Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Transgender Awareness Week is November 12 - 19 18 of 19 Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Awareness-Week-is... Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects/Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Transgender Awareness Week is November 12 - 19 19 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Awareness-Week-is... Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Board of Directors Laura Arrosmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Bob Hanson Jeremy Stevens Corey Thompson Al Triggs Stacy Turner Robin VanMeter Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat 9 a.m. - 9 p.m. | Sun 9 a.m.- 6 p.m. 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a7bd28d9e1babdf64305d73c0fa1c96c.pdf 4ea90d7cf50683878568c3893bd1b393 PDF Text Text Say Their Names: Transgender Day of Remembrance November 20th' 2019 1 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Their-Names--Transgender-D... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews November 18th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Transgender Awareness Week November 12 - 19 Transgender Awareness Week aims to raise visibility of transgender and gender non-conforming individuals as well as raise awareness for the issues the community faces. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is raising the transgender flag for Transgender Awareness Week. 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Say Their Names: Transgender Day of Remembrance November 20th' 2019 2 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Their-Names--Transgender-D... Transgender Day of Remembrance - TDoR Say Their Names Wednesday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Transgender Day of Remembrance is a yearly event on November 20th to remember those we have lost due to anti-transgender violence. Join Oklahomans for Equality in memorializing as well as celebrating those who have passed on in 2019. Art by Trans Individuals will be on display. Light hor-dourves and non-alcoholic beverages will be available. Spend meaningful time with your LGBTQIA+ Community at All Souls this Fam LGBTQ+ Gathering & Transgender Day of Remembrance Dinner Wednesday, November 20, 5:30 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Our LGBTQ+ community is invited to gather for Wednesday Connections Dinner at All Souls. We will car pool or meet at OKEQ for the Transgender Day of Remembrance Service. Click below for additional event details. More Information 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Say Their Names: Transgender Day of Remembrance November 20th' 2019 3 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Their-Names--Transgender-D... Equality Pride Store New in the OkEq Pride Store: Our Trans Day Of Remembrance shirts are in! Buy a shirt and support our Trans programming! Shirts are $15 for one or $25 to get one for you and give one to someone in need! We also have Transgender Scarves, Hats, Flags, stickers and more! Show your support this upcoming Transgender Awareness Week November 12-19th. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Say Their Names: Transgender Day of Remembrance November 20th' 2019 4 of 19 Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : The Zuits https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Their-Names--Transgender-D... Thll'd Thunday at LTIJn 11,llffl Theate.Nove•be.- 21st at 8:()() P • Thursday, November 21, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room presents “A Night with Cole Porter” featuring Tulsa’s own the Zuits. This one night only featurin@ the lli@ lland Sound of performance will take the audience on a Tlil: ZUITS magical journey of Cole Porter’s music from “Anything Goes” to the all-time hit “De-Lovely”, with stops along the way at “In the Still of the Night”, “Love for Sale” and much, much more. Come dressed for an evening straight out of the old speakeasy days. The music is sometimes sophisticated and sometimes campy, but always entertaining and sure to thrill the audience. The fantastic Zuits are an 8-piece swing band, made up of some of the most talented musicians in the Tulsa Metro, including Brent Baldwin on tenor and baritone sax, Brandon Chambers on Alto Sax, Joe Metzer on trumpet, Doug Styers on trombone and vocals, Chuck Fluker on guitar, Andrew Ralston on upright bass, Chris Wylie on drums, and Mark Lee on grand piano. And, wherever the Zuits perform surprise vocalist always seem to appear. Buy Your Tickets Here Chuck Courtney Memorial Service "In This Family, No One Fights Alone." Saturday, November 23, 11:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will be celebrating the life of Chuck Courtney at 11:00 am on Saturday, November 23rd at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Greyson Chance Saturday, November 23, 7:00 p.m. The Vangard 222 N. Main St. Tulsa, OK 74103 Greyson Michael Chance is an American singer, songwriter and 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Say Their Names: Transgender Day of Remembrance November 20th' 2019 5 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Their-Names--Transgender-D... musician. He rose to prominence in 2010 with his performance of Lady Gaga's "Paparazzi" at a sixth-grade music festival which became a viral success on YouTube, gaining over 65 million views. Greyson will be performing at The Vangard. Get your tickets below! Tickets Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Trinity Episcopal Church Hope Unitarian Church Fellowship Congregational Church UCC Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Church Diversity Christian Fellowship International University United Methodist Church PFLAG Tulsa Desi Wok Labrena Shamsi, Aliye Shimi St. Patrick's Episcopal Church Forest Park Christian Church Temple Israel Please confirm your attendance by clicking below. 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Say Their Names: Transgender Day of Remembrance November 20th' 2019 6 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Their-Names--Transgender-D... Confirm Your Attendance Here Worlds AIDS Day Walk Sunday, December 1, 2:00 p.m. Centennial Park 1028 E. 6th St. S Tulsa, OK 74120 Held every December 1st, World AIDS Day is an opportunity for people worldwide to unite in the fight against HIV, show support for people living with HIV, and commemorate those who have passed. The Evergreen Health Coalition along with Tulsa CARES are proud hosts of this community-wide event to be held at Centennial Park. Free and open to the public, the event is family-friendly and pet-friendly, so bundle up and join us as we raise awareness and stand together as a community. Worlds AIDS Day Commemorative Service Sunday, December 1, 5:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tulsa, OK 74114 This years theme is, "Saving lives Through Leadership and Partnerships" We are working on a few community wide events, for this year. Please stay tuned, we will be posting more as it develops. OkEq Fairy Tree Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Fairy Tree is back at Oklahomans for Equality to support Tulsa Cares and someone whose life is affected by HIV/AIDS. Come by, pick up a card and fulfill someone's holiday wish. Gifts must be returned by December 6th. For more information, contact Alex Wade below. 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Say Their Names: Transgender Day of Remembrance November 20th' 2019 7 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Their-Names--Transgender-D... Contact Us Council Oak Men's Chorale Presents: Have a Cool Yule Tuesday, December 3, 5, 6 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tulsa, OK 74114 What's the perfect way to hear sophisticated, fun, and jazzy stylings of some of your favorite holiday tunes? With Council Oak Men’s Chorale at their concert, Have a Cool Yule . “It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year,” “African Noel,” “Mary Had a Baby,” and of course “Cool Yule” are only a few of the songs sure to get you in the holiday spirit. Join us this holiday season and have a Yule that’s cool!. Couo ii Oak Men' Chorale Date : December 3rd, 5th and 6th Time: 8:00 P..m. Location~ Fellow hip Congregational Church • ~ Tickets 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Say Their Names: Transgender Day of Remembrance November 20th' 2019 8 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Their-Names--Transgender-D... HOLIDAY BOOK FAIR DENNIS R NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Holiday Book Fair Saturday, December 7, 1:00 p.m. to 5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Happy Holidays 2019! This is an open invitation to all published authors to join us on Dec 7th, 2019 in Tulsa to sell books. All genres are accepted and this event is not limited to holiday titles Space is limited so book your table now. There is no cost to participate instead we ask for the donation of 10% of your total event sales. Your publishing house and or author will be featured in advertising. Please provide swag, and paperback books are preferred. If you would like to sell eBooks please bring a laptop and be prepared to process sales online (free wifi is available). Below is the sign-up form entry close date is December 7th. Sign Up First Thursday Art Opening: Featuring the work of Tami Smith Thursday, December 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 2nd Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of April Howard, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. I was born and raised in Tulsa, Oklahoma and my work is inspired by my love of all things OKIE. In my artwork, I spotlight the beauty that is found in Oklahoma, whether that is Mother Nature in all her glory, or the amazing wealth of talent and creativity found in it's citizens, such as 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Say Their Names: Transgender Day of Remembrance November 20th' 2019 9 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Their-Names--Transgender-D... Leon Russel, Woody Guthrie, Vince Gill, and Merle Haggard. I am extremely proud of my home, from the red dirt beneath my toes to the Tulsa Sound tradition. My artwork is a celebration of the powerful spirit and energy of Oklahoma! The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. Fresh Start Program: Trans-formative self care! Thursday, December 5, 6:00 p.m. 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 SH ~ program The brain child of Victoria James and co-sponsored by Clary Sage College, Dennis R Neill Equality Center, Unity Tulsa, and Dynamite Conventions. The Fresh Start Program is designed give a hand-up to those who are going esperiencing major life-changes through teaching self-care.No matter what is happening in your life … gender transition, divorce, or even just a much-needed change … The Fresh Start Program provides a judgement free and life-affirming environment so that you can build the best version of yourself through self-care and style. So, stop hating your mirror and stop waiting on the Fab Five to swoop in to make your life better. Join us for our free monthly classes, take control and give yourself the skills to stride into the future with confidence. Barbering and Facial Hair Care We will have one of our barber instructors give a presentation on hair styles, how to care for facial hair, and choosing the best style for the shape of your face . Students and instructors will then sit and talk with attendees individually about what may work best for them. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). 14th Annual Falala Ball Saturday, December 21, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Say Their Names: Transgender Day of Remembrance November 20th' 2019 10 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Their-Names--Transgender-D... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for this year's 1th Annual Fa La La Ball. Don your "gay" apparel (or comfortable clothing for you) and bring your friends to celebrate the holidays with great dance music from DJ Alex, savory hors-d'oeuvres and a cash bar. Admission is any of the following: Canned goods and toiletries for St. Jerome Parish Pantry Canned goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Children's Toys for Women in Recovery. Share the Warmth! We are now accepting donations of blankets, coats, socks, scarves, hats, and gloves. As a warming station, we see a high number of people who are experiencing homelessness, and these items are a necessity as the temperature drops. Marketplace Enrollment OPEN ENROLLMENT MEANS OPEN FO BUSINESS Review and Enroll Before Time Runs Out! LGBTQ+ people are more likely to be uninsured than non-LGBTQ+ people. Open enrollment for 2020 coverage begins November 1st and goes through December 15th. We will be hosting an enrollment event where people can meet with a marketplace navigator to help them find the best insurance option available to them. This event is free and no appointment is required. NOVEMBER1-DECEMBER15 Enroll at www.healthcare.gov! #GetCovered Click to Enroll 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Say Their Names: Transgender Day of Remembrance November 20th' 2019 11 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Their-Names--Transgender-D... Advertise With Us! Vear Have you considered advertising in our digital weekly newsletter? Did you know we connect with thousands in the community? We are currently offering spots to advertise your business or organization in our newsletter. $25.00 a week at the Top of the Newsletter $15.00 a week at the Middle of the Newsletter $10.00 a week at the Bottom of the Newsletter All advertisements must come with a High Resolution Graphic, a fully written out copy of what you would like to offer readers, and how many weeks you would like for the ad to run. Sale Contact us below for more details and to get started! Get Started! The OKEQ History Project Needs your Help Our History Project team has been working on archiving footage, artifacts, and newspaper clippings from 1980 to the present day. We have pieces of Oklahoma LGBTQ+ history that span forty years, but we need your help! Do you have old newspapers at your house that mention OKEQ? Do you have Pride shirts from 1999? Videos from past galas? Consider donating or loaning them to our history project so we can digitize and make our archive searchable to the public! OKEQ HISTORY PROJECT WE NEED YOUR HELP! ! ■ 1 11- 1 11-11 ■- ■ II ■ 11 Bring any and all artifacts to the center! We are open 7 days a week from 9am-9pm! AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. ING 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Say Their Names: Transgender Day of Remembrance November 20th' 2019 12 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Their-Names--Transgender-D... Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for -Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . - The Tulsa Little Pajama Jammy Jam Gala! Friday, December 6, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for Tulsa Little Jam's first official fundraising Gala! And this isn't your typical fundraiser. It's the Tulsa Little Pajama Jammy Jam! That means we want you to come in your PAJAMAS! The goofier, the better! There will be a silent auction throughout the evening of amazing local arts and crafts and other items, amazing food by Joel Bein and Rub , drinks of all kinds, and, of course, live music throughout night. It's Tulsa Little Jam, after all! This is an ALL AGES event! So bring the family and get ready to have an amazing time! A percentage of all we raise will go to school music programs in Tulsa! See you December 6th! The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey (GHSE) Do you identify as transgender or any gender that is different from the sex you were assigned at birth? If so, we encourage you to participate in The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey! This research will help support our understanding of the social, institutional, and healthcare needs of trans and gender nonbinary people. Participants will have the opportunity to vote for a trans-related non-profit organization. $300.00 will be donated to each of the two organizations with the most votes. We will not collect any identifying information from you. Complete Survey Joe and Nancy McDonald Library 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Say Their Names: Transgender Day of Remembrance November 20th' 2019 13 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Their-Names--Transgender-D... " Julian is a Mermaid " y Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. "While riding the subway home from the pool with his abuela one day, Julián notices three women spectacularly dressed up. Their hair billows in brilliant hues, their dresses end in fishtails, and their joy fills the train car. When Julián gets home, daydreaming of the magic he’s seen, all he can think about is dressing up just like the ladies in his own fabulous mermaid costume: a butter-yellow curtain for his tail, the fronds of a potted fern for his headdress. But what will Abuela think about the mess he makes — and even more importantly, what will she think about how Julián sees himself? Mesmerizing and full of heart, Jessica Love’s author-illustrator debut is a jubilant picture of self-love and a radiant celebration of individuality." Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. You can make an appointment with Allison by calling 918-280-9645. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Say Their Names: Transgender Day of Remembrance November 20th' 2019 14 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Their-Names--Transgender-D... OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, December 12, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Coming Out Workshop "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 5:18 PM �Say Their Names: Transgender Day of Remembrance November 20th' 2019 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Their-Names--Transgender-D... 1st and 3rd Monday of every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 15 of 19 Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 . meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Survivors of Incest Anonymous Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. 4/24/26, 5:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3073748da901699d7584b5985e91ddf2.pdf f856e176cef70bda2fccafa3b28c2596 PDF Text Text Come Home for Thanksgiving November 28th, 2019 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Home-for-Thanksgiving-... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews November 25th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill 4/24/26, 5:19 PM �Come Home for Thanksgiving November 28th, 2019 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Home-for-Thanksgiving-... Equality Center. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Trinity Episcopal Church Hope Unitarian Church Fellowship Congregational Church UCC Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Church Diversity Christian Fellowship International University United Methodist Church PFLAG Tulsa Desi Wok Labrena Shamsi, Aliye Shimi St. Patrick's E piscopal Church Forest Park Christian Church Temple Israel Gallery Floral Mike Redman and Daryn Drake Worlds AIDS Day Walk Sunday, December 1, 2:00 p.m. Centennial Park 1028 E. 6th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Held every December 1st, World AIDS Day is an opportunity for people worldwide to unite in the fight against HIV, show support for people living with HIV, and commemorate those who have passed. The Evergreen Health Coalition along with Tulsa CARES are proud hosts of this community-wide event to be held at Centennial Park. Free and open to the public, the event is family-friendly and pet-friendly, so bundle up and join us as we raise awareness and stand together as a community. Worlds AIDS Day 4/24/26, 5:19 PM �Come Home for Thanksgiving November 28th, 2019 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Home-for-Thanksgiving-... Commemorative Service Sunday, December 1, 6:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 This years theme is, "Saving lives Through Leadership and Partnerships". OkEq Fairy Tree Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Fairy Tree is back at Oklahomans for Equality to support Tulsa Cares and someone whose life is affected by HIV/AIDS. Come by, pick up a card and fulfill someone's holiday wish. Gifts must be returned wrapped, by December 6th. For more information, contact Alex Wade below. Contact Us Council Oak Men's Chorale Presents: Have a Cool Yule Tuesday, December 3, 5, 6, 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 What's the perfect way to hear sophisticated, fun, and jazzy stylings of some of your favorite holiday tunes? With Council Oak Men’s Chorale at their concert, Have a Cool Yule . “It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year,” “African Noel,” “Mary Had a Baby,” and of course “Cool Yule” are only a few of the songs sure to get you in the holiday spirit. Join us this holiday season and have a Yule that’s cool!. ak l\lcn r. e Pre nt : 4/24/26, 5:19 PM �Come Home for Thanksgiving November 28th, 2019 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Home-for-Thanksgiving-... Date : December 3rd~ 5th an 6th Time: 8:00 J!.n1. ocation· Fello, hip Congregational Church Tickets First Thursday Art Opening: Featuring the work of Tami Smith Thursday, December 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 2nd Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of April Howard, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. I was born and raised in Tulsa, Oklahoma and my work is inspired by my love of all things OKIE. In my artwork, I spotlight the beauty that is found in Oklahoma, whether that is Mother Nature in all her glory, or the amazing wealth of talent and creativity found in it's citizens, such as Leon Russel, Woody Guthrie, Vince Gill, and Merle Haggard. I am extremely proud of my home, from the red dirt beneath my toes to the Tulsa Sound tradition. My artwork is a celebration of the powerful spirit and energy of Oklahoma! The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. 4/24/26, 5:19 PM �Come Home for Thanksgiving November 28th, 2019 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Home-for-Thanksgiving-... Holiday Book Fair Saturday, December 7, 1:00 p.m. to 5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Happy Holidays 2019! This is an open invitation to all published authors to join us on Dec 7th, 2019 in Tulsa to sell books. All genres are accepted and this event is not limited to holiday titles Space is limited so book your table now. There is no cost to participate instead we ask for the donation of 10% of your total event sales. Your publishing house and or author will be featured in advertising. Please provide swag, and paperback books are preferred. If you would like to sell eBooks please bring a laptop and be prepared to process sales online (free wifi is available). Below is the sign-up form entry close date is December 7th. Sign Up Fresh Start Program: Transformative self care! Thursday, December 5, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ORMATIVESE f ~ fh.r~ The brain child of Victoria James and cosponsored by Clary Sage College, Dennis R Neill Equality Center, Unity Tulsa, and Dynamite Conventions. The Fresh Start Program is designed give a hand-up to those who are going esperiencing major life-changes through teaching self-care.No matter what is happening in your life … gender transition, divorce, or even just a much-needed change … The Fresh Start Program provides a judgement free and life-affirming environment so that you can build the best version of yourself through self-care and style. So, stop hating your mirror and stop waiting on 4/24/26, 5:19 PM �Come Home for Thanksgiving November 28th, 2019 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Home-for-Thanksgiving-... the Fab Five to swoop in to make your life better. Join us for our free monthly classes, take control and give yourself the skills to stride into the future with confidence. Barbering and Facial Hair Care We will have one of our barber instructors give a presentation on hair styles, how to care for facial hair, and choosing the best style for the shape of your face . Students and instructors will then sit and talk with attendees individually about what may work best for them. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). Annual Falala Ball Saturday, December 21, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for this year's Annual Fa La La Ball. Don your "gay" apparel (or comfortable clothing for you) and bring your friends to celebrate the holidays with great dance music from DJ Alex, savory hors-d'oeuvres, and a cash bar. Admission is any of the following: • Canned goods and toiletries for St. Jerome Parish Pantry • Canned goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry • Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend • Children's Toys for Women in Recovery. Share the Warmth! We are now accepting donations of blankets, coats, socks, scarves, hats, and gloves. As a warming station, we see a high number of people who are experiencing homelessness, and these items are a necessity as the temperature drops. 4/24/26, 5:19 PM �Come Home for Thanksgiving November 28th, 2019 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Home-for-Thanksgiving-... _ _ _ _ _ _ _ __.._!lijl,llllll.,:Y.....' t ~ Marketplace Enrollment OPEN ENROLLMENT MEANS OPEN FO BUSINESS Review and Enroll Before Time Runs Out! LGBTQ+ people are more likely to be uninsured than non-LGBTQ+ people. Open enrollment for 2020 coverage begins November 1st and goes through December 15th. We will be hosting an enrollment event where people can meet with a marketplace navigator to help them find the best insurance option available to them. This event is free and no appointment is required. NOVEMBER1-DECEMBER15 Enroll at www.healthcare.gov! #GetCovered Click to Enroll Advertise With Us! Vear Have you considered advertising in our digital weekly newsletter? Did you know we connect with thousands in the community? We are currently offering spots to advertise your business or organization in our newsletter. $25.00 a week at the Top of the Newsletter $15.00 a week at the Middle of the Newsletter $10.00 a week at the Bottom of the Newsletter All advertisements must come with a High Resolution Graphic, a fully written out copy of what you would like to offer readers, and how many weeks you would like for the ad to run. Sale Contact us below for more details and to get started! Get Started! The OKEQ History Project Needs your Help Our History Project team has been working 4/24/26, 5:19 PM �Come Home for Thanksgiving November 28th, 2019 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Home-for-Thanksgiving-... on archiving footage, artifacts, and newspaper clippings from 1980 to the present day. We have pieces of Oklahoma LGBTQ+ history that span forty years, but we need your help! Do you have old newspapers at your house that mention OKEQ? Do you have Pride shirts from 1999? Videos from past galas? Consider donating or loaning them to our history project so we can digitize and make our archive searchable to the public! Bring any and all artifacts to the center! We are open 7 days a week from 9am-9pm! AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . 4/24/26, 5:19 PM �Come Home for Thanksgiving November 28th, 2019 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Home-for-Thanksgiving-... The Tulsa Little Pajama Jammy Jam Gala! Friday, December 6, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for Tulsa Little Jam's first official fundraising Gala! And this isn't your typical fundraiser. It's the Tulsa Little Pajama Jammy Jam! That means we want you to come in your PAJAMAS! The goofier, the better! There will be a silent auction throughout the evening of amazing local arts and crafts and other items, amazing food by Joel Bein and Rub , drinks of all kinds, and, of course, live music throughout night. It's Tulsa Little Jam, after all! This is an ALL AGES event! So bring the family and get ready to have an amazing time! A percentage of all we raise will go to school music programs in Tulsa! See you December 6th! The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey (GHSE) Do you identify as transgender or any gender that is different from the sex you were assigned at birth? If so, we encourage you to participate in The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey! This research will help support our understanding of the social, institutional, and healthcare needs of trans and gender nonbinary people. Participants will have the opportunity to vote for a trans-related non-profit organization. $300.00 will be donated to each of the two organizations with the most votes. We will not collect any identifying information from you. Complete Survey Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " He/She/They - Us: Essential information, vocabulary, and concepts to help you become a better ally to the transgender and gender 4/24/26, 5:19 PM �Come Home for Thanksgiving November 28th, 2019 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Home-for-Thanksgiving-... diverse people in your life " Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. "Gender in America has become the hot button issue for some politicians but for many, it is just an attempt to live their lives. Transgender and gender diverse people and their families, friends, work associates and others just want to find themselves and live in peace. This book is glue to hold people together through the process of self exploration. It covers basic vocabulary, concepts, challenges and some ways to be a supportive ally. It was written for the layperson not well versed in the terms and language of gender and transition. It attempts to begin to provide some answers for the questions everyone has." Equality Pride Store Our Trans Day Of Remembrance shirts are in! Buy a shirt and support our Trans programming! Shirts are $15 for one or $25 to get one for you and 4/24/26, 5:19 PM �Come Home for Thanksgiving November 28th, 2019 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Home-for-Thanksgiving-... give one to someone in need! We also have Transgender Scarves, Hats, Flags, stickers and more! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. You can make an appointment with Allison by calling 918-280-9645. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGALAID ~ 4/24/26, 5:19 PM �Come Home for Thanksgiving November 28th, 2019 12 of 17 SERVICES OF https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Home-for-Thanksgiving-... = -~~ OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, December 12, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/24/26, 5:19 PM �Come Home for Thanksgiving November 28th, 2019 13 of 17 course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Home-for-Thanksgiving-... okeq/events . Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 . This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Survivors of Incest Anonymous Free Yoga Class at OkEq Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Children/Siblings of Trans*/Non- 4/24/26, 5:19 PM �Come Home for Thanksgiving November 28th, 2019 14 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Home-for-Thanksgiving-... Binary Individuals Support Group peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Gender Support Program This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/24/26, 5:19 PM �Come Home for Thanksgiving November 28th, 2019 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Home-for-Thanksgiving-... individuals. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:19 PM �Come Home for Thanksgiving November 28th, 2019 16 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Home-for-Thanksgiving-... Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects/Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org - - - - ---- Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Trustees Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Bob Hanson Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter 4/24/26, 5:19 PM �Come Home for Thanksgiving November 28th, 2019 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Home-for-Thanksgiving-... Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sun 9 a.m. - 9 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:19 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8ec8fe113c2c07c1f30cf773348fa84a.pdf c36a0e773727d987b8159bac4e8b81fd PDF Text Text Have a Cool Yule! 1 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews December 3rd, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Council Oak Men's Chorale Presents: Have a Cool Yule Tuesday, December 3, 5, 6, 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 What's the perfect way to hear sophisticated, fun, and jazzy stylings of some of your favorite holiday tunes? With Council Oak Men’s Chorale at their concert, Have a Cool Yule . “It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year,” “African Noel,” “Mary Had a Baby,” and of course “Cool 4/24/26, 5:20 PM �Have a Cool Yule! 2 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... Yule” are only a few of the songs sure to get you in the holiday spirit. Join us this holiday season and have a Yule that’s cool!. oun il o"" . Chorale en ule J!.lll. ocation· Fell \ hip Church ongregational Tickets Join Us for Our First Thursday Art Show Thursday, December 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 2nd Street in Downtown Tulsa), beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. 4/24/26, 5:20 PM �Have a Cool Yule! 3 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... Holiday Book Fair Saturday, December 7, 1:00 p.m. to 5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Happy Holidays 2019! This is an open invitation to all published authors to join us on Dec 7th, 2019 in Tulsa to sell books. All genres are accepted and this event is not limited to holiday titles Space is limited so book your table now. There is no cost to participate instead we ask for the donation of 10% of your total event sales. Your publishing house and or author will be featured in advertising. Please provide swag, and paperback books are preferred. If you would like to sell eBooks please bring a laptop and be prepared to process sales online (free wifi is available). Below is the sign-up form entry close date is December 7th. Sign Up Fresh Start Program: Transformative self care! Thursday, December 5, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 -FORMATIVE SE f~ l[~"" The brain child of Victoria James and cosponsored by Clary Sage College, Dennis R Neill Equality Center, Unity Tulsa, and Dynamite Conventions. The Fresh Start Program is designed give a hand-up to those who are going esperiencing major life-changes through teaching self-care.No matter what is happening in your life … 4/24/26, 5:20 PM �Have a Cool Yule! 4 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... gender transition, divorce, or even just a much-needed change … The Fresh Start Program provides a judgement free and life-affirming environment so that you can build the best version of yourself through self-care and style. So, stop hating your mirror and stop waiting on the Fab Five to swoop in to make your life better. Join us for our free monthly classes, take control and give yourself the skills to stride into the future with confidence. Barbering and Facial Hair Care We will have one of our barber instructors give a presentation on hair styles, how to care for facial hair, and choosing the best style for the shape of your face . Students and instructors will then sit and talk with attendees individually about what may work best for them. The first 20 Attendees will receive a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). Alphabet Soup Talent Show Saturday, December 7, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Alphabet Soup Youth Group will be having a talent show on Saturday, December 7th at 7 PM in the Lynn Riggs Theatre. Please make plans to attend and celebrate the youth talent with us! LGBTQ+ Youth Dennis . ei I Equality Center 621 ast 4th Str t Pnd Str t Tul o , Oklahoma 74120 WWW.Ok q.og 918-743-4297 (GAYS) 4/24/26, 5:20 PM �Have a Cool Yule! 5 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... r- rown 's l-lo-l-lo-1-/ome for the 1-/olidays Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : HO HO HO HOME FOR HOLIDAYS Thursday, December 19, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 It's a delightful evening showcasing Tulsa’s, extraordinary musical talent. With cocoa, Christmas tunes and a few Santa Clauses to boot. Cozy up in the Rainbow Room with holiday cheer and well wishes for a wonderful new year. FEATURING: Kara Staiger, Mike Pryor, Kia Hightower, Kristen Simpson, Robert Young, Powell Barca, Sam Briggs, Paulette Record, Cristen Burdell, Laura Reeder, Austin Reid, Thomas Farnan-Williams, Audit Pritchett, Fletcher Gross, Karlena Riggs, Kaley Jobe, Tabitha Littlefield, Nash McQuarters, Lindsay Katherine Powell, Roderick Hudson, Pat Hobbs, Rachel Bachman, Paige Dickey And SANTA! Click Here for Tickets 4/24/26, 5:20 PM �Have a Cool Yule! 6 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... Annual Falala Ball Saturday, December 21, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for this year's Annual Fa La La Ball. Don your "gay" apparel (or comfortable clothing for you) and bring your friends to celebrate the holidays with great dance music from DJ Dec with Urban Country Entertainment, savory hors-d'oeuvres, and a cash bar. Admission is any of the following: • Canned goods and toiletries for St. Jerome Parish Pantry • Canned goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry • Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend • Children's Toys for Women in Recovery. Marketplace Enrollment OPEN ENROLLMENT MEANS OPEN FO BUSINESS Review and Enroll Before Time Runs Out! LGBTQ+ people are more likely to be uninsured than non-LGBTQ+ people. Open enrollment for 2020 coverage begins November 1st and goes through December 15th. We will be hosting an enrollment event where people can meet with a marketplace navigator to help them find the best insurance option available to them. This event is free and no appointment is required. NOVEMBER1·DECEMBER15 Enroll at www.healthcare.gov! #GetCovered Click to Enroll 2019 Pride Bingo Saturday, January 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 !,. T U L S A ., p Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back for the 2020 Pride season. Join us for the first Tulsa Pride Bingo of the year. 4/24/26, 5:20 PM �Have a Cool Yule! 7 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... The fun and hilarious Rainbow Granny will be there with special guests to join her for our Bingo Bash. DJ Alex says "get your lip sync selections ready." 1\1 --- -~ · @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $35 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $300 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant Saturday, January 11, 12:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Who will be the Next King or Queen of Tulsa Pride? Will it be you? Come out and see who will be crowned the next King and Queen of Tulsa Pride and say respects to King Scrappy and Queen Anita. If you would like to compete please register below. Register 4/24/26, 5:20 PM �Have a Cool Yule! 8 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... Share the Warmth! We are now accepting donations of blankets, coats, socks, scarves, hats, and gloves. As a warming station, we see a high number of people who are experiencing homelessness, and these items are a necessity as the temperature drops. Advertise With Us! Vear Have you considered advertising in our digital weekly newsletter? Did you know we connect with thousands in the community? We are currently offering spots to advertise your business or organization in our newsletter. $25.00 a week at the Top of the Newsletter $15.00 a week at the Middle of the Newsletter $10.00 a week at the Bottom of the Newsletter All advertisements must come with a High Resolution Graphic, a fully written out copy of what you would like to offer readers, and how many weeks you would like for the ad to run. Sale Contact us below for more details and to get started! Get Started! The OKEQ History Project Needs your Help Our History Project team has been working 4/24/26, 5:20 PM �Have a Cool Yule! 9 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... on archiving footage, artifacts, and newspaper clippings from 1980 to the present day. We have pieces of Oklahoma LGBTQ+ history that span forty years, but we need your help! Do you have old newspapers at your house that mention OKEQ? Do you have Pride shirts from 1999? Videos from past galas? Consider donating or loaning them to our history project so we can digitize and make our archive searchable to the public! Bring any and all artifacts to the center! We are open 7 days a week from 9am-9pm! AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. G Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . 4/24/26, 5:20 PM �Have a Cool Yule! 10 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... The Tulsa Little Pajama Jammy Jam Gala! Friday, December 6, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for Tulsa Little Jam's first official fundraising Gala! And this isn't your typical fundraiser. It's the Tulsa Little Pajama Jammy Jam! That means we want you to come in your PAJAMAS! The goofier, the better! There will be a silent auction throughout the evening of amazing local arts and crafts and other items, amazing food by Joel Bein and Rub , drinks of all kinds, and, of course, live music throughout night. It's Tulsa Little Jam, after all! This is an ALL AGES event! So bring the family and get ready to have an amazing time! A percentage of all we raise will go to school music programs in Tulsa! See you December 6th! Retro Den Compliment Booth Sunday, December 8, 10:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m Retro Den 1216 S. Harvard Avenue Tulsa, OK 74112 The Retro Den Compliment Booth debuts at the 10th Annual Alliday Show, our holiday maker's market. It is a small, but mighty cardboard stand with a rainbow veneer where people can come to get genuinely complimented. A dear friend and mentor of Retro Den, Sara Sherman or "Succulent Sara," passed away this year, and we want to honor the great gift of her generosity and kindness in our lives by giving all proceeds of the booth to Oklahoman's for Equality. Each compliment costs $10, but Sara taught us that the value of compassion and presence is immeasurable. Co-owner of Retro Den, Ashley Daly, will host the booth all day December 8, 10am-5pm. There will also be January dates scheduled for the booth, and Retro Den has giftcards where folks can purchase a compliment for their friends and family. "I want to look people in their eyes, talk to them, and then reach into my heart and tell them something good about themselves. I hope many people join me for a pleasant moment together where I can tell them something nice about themselves." Alliday features the beautiful booths of eighteen local artists where customers can peruse handmade gift items made with care and passion. Retro Den is a local small business concerned with helping people make their homes places 4/24/26, 5:20 PM �Have a Cool Yule! 11 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... that cue them into kindness. The Gender Diversity Health and 4/24/26, 5:20 PM �Have a Cool Yule! 12 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... Social Experiences Survey (GHSE) Do you identify as transgender or any gender that is different from the sex you were assigned at birth? If so, we encourage you to participate in The Gender Diversity Health and Social Experiences Survey! This research will help support our understanding of the social, institutional, and healthcare needs of trans and gender nonbinary people. Participants will have the opportunity to vote for a trans-related non-profit organization. $300.00 will be donated to each of the two organizations with the most votes. We will not collect any identifying information from you. Complete Survey Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " The Queer and Transgender Resilience Workbook: Skills for Navigating Sexual Orientation and Gender Expression (New Harbinger SelfHelp Workbook) " Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. "A definitive history of the successful battle to halt the AIDS epidemic, here is the incredible story of the grassroots activists whose work turned HIV from a mostly fatal infection to a manageable disease. Almost universally ignored, these men and women learned to become their own researchers, lobbyists, and drug smugglers, established their own newspapers and research journals, and went on to force reform in the nation’s diseasefighting agencies. From the creator of, and inspired by, the seminal documentary of the same name, How to Survive a Plague is an 4/24/26, 5:20 PM �Have a Cool Yule! 13 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... unparalleled insider’s account of a pivotal moment in the history of American civil rights." Equality Pride Store Our Trans Day Of Remembrance shirts are in! Buy a shirt and support our Trans programming! Shirts are $15 for one or $25 to get one for you and give one to someone in need! We also have Transgender Scarves, Hats, Flags, stickers and more! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services 4/24/26, 5:20 PM �Have a Cool Yule! 14 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. You can make an appointment with Allison by calling 918-280-9645. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, December 12, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all 4/24/26, 5:20 PM �Have a Cool Yule! 15 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Sos Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault 4/24/26, 5:20 PM �Have a Cool Yule! 16 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 . Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Survivors of Incest Anonymous Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. 4/24/26, 5:20 PM �Have a Cool Yule! 17 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... 10:00 am to 1:00 pm The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Gender Support Program Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 5:20 PM �Have a Cool Yule! 18 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects/Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:20 PM �Have a Cool Yule! 19 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kristen Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Bob Hanson Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes 4/24/26, 5:20 PM �Have a Cool Yule! 20 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Have-a-Cool-Yule-.html?soid=11... Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sun 9 a.m. - 9 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:20 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1895aaf3126a73fe006ce84a6e6a5f1d.pdf 289ab820b2d24ae32612fc795e6033da PDF Text Text Rainbow Room Presents: HO HO HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS 1 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-Presents--HO-... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews December 9th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/24/26, 5:21 PM �Rainbow Room Presents: HO HO HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS 2 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-Presents--HO-... r- ,own, s l-lo-l-lo-l-lome for the l-lolidays Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : HO HO HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS Thursday, December 19, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 It's a delightful evening showcasing Tulsa’s, extraordinary musical talent. With cocoa, Christmas tunes and a few Santa Clauses to boot. Cozy up in the Rainbow Room with holiday cheer and well wishes for a wonderful new year. FEATURING: Kara Staiger, Mike Pryor, Kia Hightower, Kristen Simpson, Robert Young, Powell Barca, Sam Briggs, Paulette Record, Cristen Burdell, Laura Reeder, Austin Reid, Thomas Farnan-Williams, Audit Pritchett, Fletcher Gross, Karlena Riggs, Kaley Jobe, Tabitha Littlefield, Nash McQuarters, Lindsay Katherine Powell, Roderick Hudson, Pat Hobbs, Rachel Bachman, Paige Dickey And SANTA! Click Here for Tickets Annual Falala Ball Saturday, December 21, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street 4/24/26, 5:21 PM �Rainbow Room Presents: HO HO HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS 3 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-Presents--HO-... Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for this year's Annual Fa La La Ball. Don your "gay" apparel (or comfortable clothing for you) and bring your friends to celebrate the holidays with great dance music from DJ Dec with Urban Country Entertainment, live entertainment featuring LGBTQ+ youth from our own Alphabet Soup, savory hors-d'oeuvres, and an adult beverage cash bar. Admission is any of the following: • Canned goods and toiletries for St. Jerome Parish Pantry • Canned goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry • Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend • Children's Toys for Women in Recovery. Arts and Crafts Night Friday, December 20, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, your paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. There will be some items provided, but if there is something you specifically want to work on, please bring it with you. Times Almost Up!!! Marketplace Enrollment OPEN ENROLLMENT MEANS OPEN FC>;R BUSINESS 4/24/26, 5:21 PM �Rainbow Room Presents: HO HO HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS 4 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-Presents--HO-... Review and Enroll Before Time Runs Out! LGBTQ+ people are more likely to be uninsured than non-LGBTQ+ people. Open enrollment for 2020 coverage begins November 1st and goes through December 15th. We will be hosting an enrollment event where people can meet with a marketplace navigator to help them find the best insurance option available to them. This event is free and no appointment is required. NOVEMBER1-DECEMBER15 Enroll at www.healthcare.gov! #GetCovered Click to Enroll 2019 Pride Bingo ~~ T U L S A ,, p Saturday, January 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back for the 2020 Pride season. Join us for the first Tulsa Pride Bingo of the year. The fun and hilarious Rainbow Granny will be there with special guests to join her for our Bingo Bash. DJ Alex says "get your lip sync selections ready." @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $35 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $300 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Tickets Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, January 7, 6:30 p.m. Tandoori Guys Buffet 2039 W. Houston St. Broken Arrow, OK 74012 Join us at Tandoori Guys Buffet. Tandoori is an Indian Food Buffet. The reservations are under OkEq Men's Group. Hope to see everyone 4/24/26, 5:21 PM �Rainbow Room Presents: HO HO HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS 5 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-Presents--HO-... there! A head count is needed for the reservations. If you are coming please let us know by clicking below . Tandoori Guys RSVP King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant Saturday, January 11, 12:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Who will be the Next King or Queen of Tulsa Pride? Will it be you? Come out and see who will be crowned the next King and Queen of Tulsa Pride and say respects to King Scrappy and Queen Anita. If you would like to compete please register below. Register 4/24/26, 5:21 PM �Rainbow Room Presents: HO HO HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS 6 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-Presents--HO-... New fitness class at OKEQ Thursday, January 2, 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Every Thursday After Holidays have those pants feeling tighter, or maybe feeling like you would like to tone your muscles a little more, well great news Oklahomans for Equality has a new fitness class! Christopher Gomez will be leading this new fitness class that starts after yoga and Meta Recovery. This will give you an opportunity to get a well rounded workout and help to tone and tighten. Christopher Gomez, “I have lead workout groups with friends at more extreme paces, but am now learning the science behind it and how to bring others to their fitness goals at a more inclusive pace at community care college through their fitness program. I am confident in my abilities to provide satisfaction to my clients through my fitness instruction. I am excited to be teaching fitness at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, where everyone is welcome and safe! Join me this coming year at the OKEQ fitness course!” Share the Warmth! We are now accepting donations of blankets, coats, socks, scarves, hats, and gloves. As a warming station, we see a high number of people who are experiencing homelessness, and these items are a necessity as the temperature drops. et arve G a Y.:'JU'll',Jf~~u ~3.olll!IN'd mPed Advertise With Us! Have you considered advertising in our digital weekly newsletter? Did you know we connect with thousands in the community? We are currently offering spots to advertise your business or organization in our newsletter. Vear 4/24/26, 5:21 PM �Rainbow Room Presents: HO HO HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS 7 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rainbow-Room-Presents--HO-... $25.00 a week at the Top of the Newsletter $15.00 a week at the Middle of the Newsletter $10.00 a week at the Bottom of the Newsletter All advertisements must come with a High Resolution Graphic, a fully written out copy of what you would like to offer readers, and how many weeks you would like for the ad to run. Sale Contact us below for more details and to get started! Get Started! The OKEQ History Project Needs your Help Our History Project team has been working on archiving footage, artifacts, and newspaper clippings from 1980 to the present day. We have pieces of Oklahoma LGBTQ+ history that span forty years, but we need your help! Do you have old newspapers at your house that mention OKEQ? Do you have Pride shirts from 1999? Videos from past galas? Consider donating or loaning them to our history project so we can digitize and make our archive searchable to the public! OKEQ HISTORY PROJECT WE NEED YOUR HELP! l!i 1ll-1ll-11 I - I I I I Bring any and all artifacts to the center! We are open 7 days a week from 9am-9pm! AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. G Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org --- -- . 4/24/26, 5:21 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/022fdca303e8d2916924f9262428c8bc.pdf b922c28993c086bd06d8e16429d9b15a PDF Text Text Get Ready to Don Your Gay Apparel at Our 14th Annual Falala Ball 1 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Don-Your-Gay-App... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews December 17th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/24/26, 5:21 PM �Get Ready to Don Your Gay Apparel at Our 14th Annual Falala Ball 2 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Don-Your-Gay-App... r- ,own, s l-lo-l-lo-l-lome for the l-lolidays Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : HO HO HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS Thursday, December 19, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 It's a delightful evening showcasing Tulsa’s, extraordinary musical talent. With cocoa, Christmas tunes and a few Santa Clauses to boot. Cozy up in the Rainbow Room with holiday cheer and well wishes for a wonderful new year. FEATURING: Kara Staiger, Mike Pryor, Kia Hightower, Kristen Simpson, Robert Young, Powell Barca, Sam Briggs, Paulette Record, Cristen Burdell, Laura Reeder, Austin Reid, Thomas Farnan-Williams, Audit Pritchett, Fletcher Gross, Karlena Riggs, Kaley Jobe, Tabitha Littlefield, Nash McQuarters, Lindsay Katherine Powell, Roderick Hudson, Pat Hobbs, Rachel Bachman, Paige Dickey And SANTA! Click Here for Tickets 4/24/26, 5:21 PM �Get Ready to Don Your Gay Apparel at Our 14th Annual Falala Ball 3 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Don-Your-Gay-App... Annual Falala Ball Saturday, December 21, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for this year's Annual Fa La La Ball. Don your "gay" apparel (or comfortable clothing for you) and bring your friends to celebrate the holidays with great dance music from DJ Dec with Urban Country Entertainment, live entertainment featuring LGBTQ+ youth from our own Alphabet Soup, savory hors-d'oeuvres, and an adult beverage cash bar. Admission is any of the following: • Canned goods and toiletries for St. Jerome Parish Pantry • Canned goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry • Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend • Children's Toys for Women in Recovery. 4/24/26, 5:21 PM �Get Ready to Don Your Gay Apparel at Our 14th Annual Falala Ball 4 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Don-Your-Gay-App... Arts and Crafts Night Friday, December 20, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 On the First and Third Friday of the month, the Equality Center will have an arts and craft night. Bring your knitting needles, crochet hooks, your paint, and pencils! Whatever you like to do, you can do it with friends in a fun and supportive atmosphere. There will be some items provided, but if there is something you specifically want to work on, please bring it with you. First Thursday Art Show Featuring: Todd Freeman Thursday, January 2, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 2nd Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Todd Freeman In an exhibition of his photography over the years, titled “Presence: Spirituality Through Photography”, beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. New fitness class at OKEQ Thursday, January 2, 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 5:21 PM �Get Ready to Don Your Gay Apparel at Our 14th Annual Falala Ball 5 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Don-Your-Gay-App... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Every Thursday After Holidays have those pants feeling tighter, or maybe feeling like you would like to tone your muscles a little more, well great news Oklahomans for Equality has a new fitness class! Christopher Gomez will be leading this new fitness class that starts after yoga and Meta Recovery. This will give you an opportunity to get a well rounded workout and help to tone and tighten. Christopher Gomez, “I have lead workout groups with friends at more extreme paces, but am now learning the science behind it and how to bring others to their fitness goals at a more inclusive pace at community care college through their fitness program. I am confident in my abilities to provide satisfaction to my clients through my fitness instruction. I am excited to be teaching fitness at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, where everyone is welcome and safe! Join me this coming year at the OKEQ fitness course!” 2019 Pride Bingo ~~ p T U L S A '• Saturday, January 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back for the 2020 Pride season. Join us for the first Tulsa Pride Bingo of the year. The fun and hilarious Rainbow Granny will be there with special guests to join her for our Bingo Bash. DJ Alex says "get your lip sync selections ready." @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $35 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $300 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Tickets LGBT Women's Network November Happy Hour Monday, January 6, 5:30 p.m - 7:30 p.m. American Solera 1702 E. 6th St. Tulsa, OK 74104 We have chosen American Solera's beautiful new brewery at 6th & Utica for our FIRST happy hour of fl'GBT W-omen~ Network 4/24/26, 5:21 PM �Get Ready to Don Your Gay Apparel at Our 14th Annual Falala Ball 6 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Don-Your-Gay-App... the NEW DECADE! How exciting is that? Come celebrate the arrival of 2020 with us and catch up with friends after the busy holiday season. We are looking forward to kicking off our year with you! *this location is kid friendly AND for you nonbeer drinkers, they have wine and ciders available for purchase! As always, our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and allies are always welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested to visit all LGBT-friendly locations! Message us on Facebook Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, January 7, 6:30 p.m. Tandoori Guys Buffet 2039 W. Houston St. Broken Arrow, OK 74012 Join us at Tandoori Guys Buffet. Tandoori is an Indian Food Buffet. The reservations are under OkEq Men's Group. Hope to see everyone there! A head count is needed for the reservations. If you are coming please let us know by clicking below . Tandoori Guys RSVP King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant Saturday, January 11, 12:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Who will be the Next King or Queen of Tulsa Pride? Will it be you? Come out and see who will be crowned the next King and Queen of Tulsa Pride and say respects to King Scrappy and Queen Anita. If you would like to compete please register below. Register o I !~ • • D ' • . 4/24/26, 5:21 PM �Get Ready to Don Your Gay Apparel at Our 14th Annual Falala Ball 7 of 18 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday, January 15, 6:00 p.m. Gallery Floral 1514 E. 15th St. Tulsa, Oklahoma galleryfloral.com https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Ready-to-Don-Your-Gay-App... (j a lie '7 ',/ Gallery Floral Designs will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for January. We are looking very forward to seeing you there! The Equality Business Alliance exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ -welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: • Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ -welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; • Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 4/24/26, 5:21 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ef844bee100f0eaed6a02a583b2bbd9e.pdf 53683ec2f82217a56f81c3479ec5105b PDF Text Text Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-Oklahoman... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews December 24th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! First Thursday Art Show Featuring: Todd Freeman Thursday, January 2, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. 4/24/26, 5:22 PM �Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-Oklahoman... Neill Equality Center (621 E. 2nd Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Todd Freeman In an exhibition of his photography over the years, titled “Presence: Spirituality Through Photography”, beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. New fitness class at OKEQ Thursday, January 2, 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Every Thursday After Holidays have those pants feeling tighter, or maybe feeling like you would like to tone your muscles a little more, well great news Oklahomans for Equality has a new fitness class! Christopher Gomez will be leading this new fitness class that starts after yoga and Meta Recovery. This will give you an opportunity to get a well rounded workout and help to tone and tighten. Christopher Gomez, “I have lead workout groups with friends at more extreme paces, but am now learning the science behind it and how to bring others to their fitness goals at a more inclusive pace at community care college through their fitness program. I am confident in my abilities to provide satisfaction to my clients through my fitness instruction. I am excited to be teaching fitness at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, where everyone is welcome and safe! Join me this coming year at the OKEQ fitness course!” 2019 Pride Bingo Saturday, January 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ~~ p T U L S A •, Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back for the 2020 Pride season. Join us for the first Tulsa Pride Bingo of the year. The fun and hilarious Rainbow Granny will be there with special guests to join her for our Bingo Bash. DJ Alex says "get your lip sync selections ready." @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $35 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $300 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table 4/24/26, 5:22 PM �Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-Oklahoman... Tickets LGBT Women's Network November Happy Hour Monday, January 6, 5:30 p.m - 7:30 p.m. American Solera 1702 E. 6th St. Tulsa, OK 74104 fl'GBT -Womens Network We have chosen American Solera's beautiful new brewery at 6th & Utica for our FIRST happy hour of the NEW DECADE! How exciting is that? Come celebrate the arrival of 2020 with us and catch up with friends after the busy holiday season. We are looking forward to kicking off our year with you! *this location is kid friendly AND for you non-beer drinkers, they have wine and ciders available for purchase! As always, our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and allies are always welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested to visit all LGBT-friendly locations! Message us on Facebook Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, January 7, 6:30 p.m. Tandoori Guys Buffet 2039 W. Houston St. Broken Arrow, OK 74012 Join us at Tandoori Guys Buffet. Tandoori is an Indian Food Buffet. The reservations are under OkEq Men's Group. Hope to see everyone there! A head count is needed for the reservations. If you are coming please let us know by clicking below . Tandoori Guys RSVP Fresh Start Program: 4/24/26, 5:22 PM �Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-Oklahoman... Trans-formative Self Care! Thursday, January 9, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Creating Your Style Feel like you have nothing to wear? Clary Sage College's Fashion Design instructor will talk about how to create your personal style, colors to choose and to avoid, and how to dress for every occasion. The instructor and fashion design students will talk with attendees individually about what may work best for them.The first 20 attendees will recieve a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant Saturday, January 11, 12:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Who will be the Next King or Queen of Tulsa Pride? Will it be you? Come out and see who will be crowned the next King and Queen of Tulsa Pride and say respects to King Scrappy and Queen Anita. If you would like to compete please register below. Register 4/24/26, 5:22 PM �Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-Oklahoman... 4/24/26, 5:22 PM �Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 17 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday, January 15, 6:00 p.m. Gallery Floral 1514 E. 15th St. Tulsa, Oklahoma galleryfloral.com https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-Oklahoman... (jallc.'i',J Gallery Floral Designs will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for January. We are looking very forward to seeing you there! The Equality Business Alliance exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ -welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: • Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ -welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; • Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and • Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. All EBA Events will be listed on our website and Facebook Event Page. Please plan on joining us! Benefits of Membership: 1. Inclusion in EBA Merchant & Members listing on Oklahomans for Equality website 2. Email updates of all EBA events and opportunities 3. Invitation to Networking Events and ability to host 4. Marketing opportunities at EBA and community events POC Social at OkEq Friday, January 17, 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The People of Color Social Mixer focuses on celebrating, preserving and connecting POCs in the Tulsa LGBT+ community. Join us for drinks, food and fun! The POC events are scheduled the third Friday of each month. EVERY TH/HO FRIDAY FON MONE INFONMATION CALL 918 904 1869 4/24/26, 5:22 PM �Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-Oklahoman... MlIHHlS 50's / 60's Throwback Friday, January 24, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Oklahomans for Equality as we look back each month on different decades of LGBTQIA+ history with music, dancing, and historical artifacts! Our 50s/60s Throwback night is the first of a monthly series of mixers that celebrate and remember the long road that we are on in the fight for equality, while also remembering the culture that our community created in a time of isolation. The 50s/60s night will feature live music, a great bar, and a historical overview of LGBTQIA+ Tulsa/Oklahoma in the 1950s and 1960s. Please come dressed in your finest underground club wear! Little Blue House and Condomania Calling for Artists Calling All Creative Folks! Help the Little Blue House at TU promote SAFE SEX and let your inner designer shine! All contestants will design and construct wearable fashion items OUT OF CONDOMS. We will issue each participant 200 condoms for use in the project. Final fashion show desians will be oresented in a FASHION 4/24/26, 5:22 PM �Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-Oklahoman... SHOW fundraiser on March 28, 2020 at CONDO MANIA! Sign-up by Feb. 1sq Email: linda-davis@utulsa.edu. Visit our website for additional information: LittleBlueHouseA tTU .org/Special Events Sponsored by: ti little blue house made entirely out of condoms! ...,__,_......, Click to Complete Survey Share the Warmth! We are now accepting donations of blankets, coats, socks, scarves, hats, and gloves. As a warming station, we see a high number of people who are experiencing homelessness, and these items are a necessity as the temperature drops. Gav I dentitv Development Relatio al 4/24/26, 5:22 PM �Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-Oklahoman... ., Satisfac ion and Outness - Gay-Male experiences in Emerging Adul hood o mus e Wh o? vey 0 C n t: Click to Complete Survey Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " Santa's Husband" "Offering a fresh twist on Kris Kringle, a clever yet heartfelt book that tells the story of a black Santa, his white husband, and their life in the North Pole. Everyone knows that Santa Claus is jolly, but 4/24/26, 5:22 PM �Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-Oklahoman... Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. in Santa’s Husband, this cherished symbol of the holiday season is also black and gay, and married to an equally cheery man. In this witty and sweet illustrated Christmas tale, humor writer Daniel Kibblesmith introduces us to Mr. and Mr. Claus, and gives us a glimpse of their lives together. We see the Clauses sitting by the fire at their cozy North Pole home, vacationing at the beach, having an occasional disagreement, celebrating their wedding day, and comforting each other when some loudmouth people on television angrily dispute Santa’s appearance and lifestyle." Equality Pride Store 4/24/26, 5:22 PM �Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-Oklahoman... $5.00 Holiday Special! The Holiday Festivities have begun. If you are decorating this year then you should have these LGBTQ+ ornaments included in all of your decor. Come by and pick yours up today and shop our store as there are so many other wonderful gifts available! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. You can make an appointment with Allison by OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars . Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. 4/24/26, 5:22 PM �Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-Oklahoman... calling 918-280-9645. work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Regularly Scheduled Programming • LEGAL A1n th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library 2nd Wednesday of each month 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Coming Out Workshop OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, January 9, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at facebook/ UnityTulsa or check the Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 5:22 PM �Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 17 1st and 3rd Monday of every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-Oklahoman... OkEq event calendar at okeq/events . Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit tulsaareaprimetimers for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. 4/24/26, 5:22 PM �Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 17 Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-Oklahoman... Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/24/26, 5:22 PM �Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-Oklahoman... Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, inc. EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff 4/24/26, 5:22 PM �Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-Oklahoman... "- ~ ~~ ,/~ ~ ' 9 1~ ~ / ; · • . , ·•1,' ' ·,.;:-.·.:, \ -.· . -·~·· , ,' .\~.10,tK Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org ~.. ' • t ·- Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org Tracy Allen Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:22 PM �Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-from-Oklahoman... "fulsa World Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org Donovid Sekulits Special Projects Donovid.Sekulits@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Chris Brecht-Smith - President Stacy Turner - Vice President Will Vaughn - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Angelyn L. Dale Allison Ikley-Freeman Bob Hanson Corey Thompson Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Catherine Betances Dani Byrd Jade Duckworth Shannon Fair Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Dale Hogan Kelly Kushnerick Aderyn Lonigan Tyler Morgan William Murphy Denise Reid Kirsten Robertson Justin Ross Justin Rosser Stephen Rundell Jane Wiseman View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sun 9 a.m. - 9 p.m. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:22 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/08526114b5af88f502bb6023b2eb91ae.pdf ee1c0ffbd0b95f4bf3b0938fe047b198 PDF Text Text Hindsight is 2020, Don't Miss Your Pride Bingo Tickets 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Hindsight-is-2020--Don-t-Miss-Y... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews December 30th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! First Thursday Art Show Featuring: Todd Freeman Thursday, January 2, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The January Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Todd 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Hindsight is 2020, Don't Miss Your Pride Bingo Tickets 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Hindsight-is-2020--Don-t-Miss-Y... Freeman in an exhibition of his photography over the years, titled “Presence: Spirituality Through Photography”, beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 2nd at 6 pm and continuing throughout the month. New fitness class at OKEQ Thursday, January 2, 7:30 - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Every Thursday After Holidays have those pants feeling tighter, or maybe feeling like you would like to tone your muscles a little more, well great news Oklahomans for Equality has a new fitness class! Christopher Gomez will be leading this new fitness class that starts after yoga and Meta Recovery. This will give you an opportunity to get a well rounded workout and help to tone and tighten. Christopher Gomez, “I have lead workout groups with friends at more extreme paces, but am now learning the science behind it and how to bring others to their fitness goals at a more inclusive pace at community care college through their fitness program. I am confident in my abilities to provide satisfaction to my clients through my fitness instruction. I am excited to be teaching fitness at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, where everyone is welcome and safe! Join me this coming year at the OKEQ fitness course!” 2020 Pride Bingo !~ T U L S A ,, p Saturday, January 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back for the 2020 Pride season. Join us for the first Tulsa Pride Bingo of the year. The fun and hilarious Rainbow Granny will be there with special guests to join her for our Bingo Bash. DJ Alex says "get your lip sync selections ready." @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $35 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $300 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Tickets 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Hindsight is 2020, Don't Miss Your Pride Bingo Tickets 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Hindsight-is-2020--Don-t-Miss-Y... LGBT Women's Network November Happy Hour Monday, January 6, 5:30 p.m - 7:30 p.m. American Solera 1702 E. 6th St. Tulsa, OK 74104 fl'GBT W-omen~ Network We have chosen American Solera's beautiful new brewery at 6th & Utica for our FIRST happy hour of the NEW DECADE! How exciting is that? Come celebrate the arrival of 2020 with us and catch up with friends after the busy holiday season. We are looking forward to kicking off our year with you! *this location is kid friendly AND for you non-beer drinkers, they have wine and ciders available for purchase! As always, our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and allies are always welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested to visit all LGBT-friendly locations! Message us on Facebook Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, January 7, 6:30 p.m. Tandoori Guys Buffet 2039 W. Houston St. Broken Arrow, OK 74012 Join us at Tandoori Guys Buffet. Tandoori is an Indian Food Buffet. The reservations are under OkEq Men's Group. Hope to see everyone there! A head count is needed for the reservations. If you are coming please let us know by clicking below . Tandoori Guys RSVP Fresh Start Program: Trans-formative Self Care! TRANS-FORMATIVE SELF CAREi r-nr-r1 1 ~ 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Hindsight is 2020, Don't Miss Your Pride Bingo Tickets 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Hindsight-is-2020--Don-t-Miss-Y... tq::)H Thursday, January 9, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 srAAT<Si program Creating Your Style Feel like you have nothing to wear? Clary Sage College's Fashion Design instructor will talk about how to create your personal style, colors to choose and to avoid, and how to dress for every occasion. The instructor and fashion design students will talk with attendees individually about what may work best for them.The first 20 attendees will recieve a free gift and samples (or for as long as supplies last). King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant Saturday, January 11, 12:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Who will be the Next King or Queen of Tulsa Pride? Will it be you? Come out and see who will be crowned the next King and Queen of Tulsa Pride and say respects to King Scrappy and Queen Anita. If you would like to compete please register below. Register 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Hindsight is 2020, Don't Miss Your Pride Bingo Tickets 5 of 17 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday, January 15, 6:00 p.m. Gallery Floral 1514 E. 15th St. Tulsa, Oklahoma galleryfloral.com https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Hindsight-is-2020--Don-t-Miss-Y... (iallc.'i',J Gallery Floral Designs will be hosting the Equality Business Alliance Mixer for January. We are looking very forward to seeing you there! The Equality Business Alliance exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ -welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: • Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ -welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; • Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and • Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. All EBA Events will be listed on our website and Facebook Event Page. Please plan on joining us! Benefits of Membership: 1. Inclusion in EBA Merchant & Members listing on Oklahomans for Equality website 2. Email updates of all EBA events and opportunities 3. Invitation to Networking Events and ability to host 4. Marketing opportunities at EBA and community events 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Hindsight is 2020, Don't Miss Your Pride Bingo Tickets 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Hindsight-is-2020--Don-t-Miss-Y... Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room : Brassy Band Burlesque Thursday, January 16, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Award-winning, nationally acclaimed burlesque performer and producer Lucy Furr brings some of the best burlesque acts in the country to the Rainbow Room. These classic burlesque artists will transport audience members to the golden age of burlesque performed to a live jazz band. Click Here for Tickets POC Social at OkEq Friday, January 17, 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The People of Color Social Mixer focuses on celebrating, preserving and connecting POCs in the Tulsa LGBT+ community. Join us for drinks, food and fun! The POC events are scheduled the third Friday of each month. EVERY TH/HO FRIDAY FON MOH£ INFOHMATION CALL 918 904 1869 MOHHIS 50's / 60's Throwback 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Hindsight is 2020, Don't Miss Your Pride Bingo Tickets 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Hindsight-is-2020--Don-t-Miss-Y... Friday, January 24, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Oklahomans for Equality as we look back each month on different decades of LGBTQIA+ history with music, dancing, and historical artifacts! Our 50s/60s Throwback night is the first of a monthly series of mixers that celebrate and remember the long road that we are on in the fight for equality, while also remembering the culture that our community created in a time of isolation. The 50s/60s night will feature live music, a great bar, and a historical overview of LGBTQIA+ Tulsa/Oklahoma in the 1950s and 1960s. Please come dressed in your finest underground club wear! Little Blue House and Condomania Calling for Artists Creative Folks! Calling All Help the Little Blue House at TU promote SAFE SEX and let your inner designer shine! All contestants will design and construct wearable fashion items OUT OF CONDOMS. We will issue each participant 200 condoms for use in the project. Final fashion show designs will be presented in a FASHION SHOW fundraiser on March 28, 2020 at CONDO MANIA! Sign-up by Feb. 1sq Email: linda-davis@utulsa.edu. Visit our website for additional information: LittleBlueHouseA tTU .erg/Special Events Sponsored by: made entirely out of condoms! t1i\' L-' little blu• house ........,_.,_.,._., 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Hindsight is 2020, Don't Miss Your Pride Bingo Tickets 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Hindsight-is-2020--Don-t-Miss-Y... Click to Complete Survey Share the Warmth! We are now accepting donations of blankets, coats, socks, scarves, hats, and gloves. As a warming station, we see a high number of people who are experiencing homelessness, and these items are a necessity as the temperature drops. Gay Identity Development, Relatio al Satisfac ion and Outness - Gay-Male experiences ·n Emerging Adul hood o mu he .. . .. 4/24/26, 5:23 PM �Hindsight is 2020, Don't Miss Your Pride Bingo Tickets 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Hindsight-is-2020--Don-t-Miss-Y... V y C n 0 t: Click to Complete Survey Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " Friends & Family: True Stories of Gay America's Straight Allies " "Presents the personal stories of friends and family members of lesbians and gay men who have joined the battle for gay and lesbian equality. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe Dan Woog's inspiring and in some cases astonishing stories of heterosexual activists will banish for a few hours those images of homophobes closing in with pitchforks that television coverage of gay issues so often conjures. Most of the friendly crusaders in Friends and Family have conversion stories, moments when they were shaken from their complacency or prejudice, such as 80-year-old Frannie Peabody, who returned from her grandson's funeral in 1984 and helped found the AIDS Project of Portland, Maine. Tom Potter, the former chief of police in Portland, Oregon, announced at his swearing-in ceremony his commitment to fighting racism, sexism, and 4/24/26, 5:23 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/05232faba829a7cb359097c2e98b80e9.pdf 3be6c58139ba7aefc394674bb2e87c02 PDF Text Text David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 1 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews March 27th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Payaoii Rental Properfy k ping 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 2 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Featuri,11\,g TVt Lbo~ea ux.: Tvie Tax. Tueraprj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. David Nelson is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on March 30th in honor of his 70th birthday. 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 3 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... Happy Birthday, David! Sponsor the Center for the Day Sunday, March 31st is the Transgender Day of Visibility. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be raising the transgender flag in honor of this day. If you are able, we encourage you to be visible and represent your community with pride! Let's lift up the voices of the transgender community! Transgender Day of Visibility Sunday, March 32.st Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 4 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... Thursday, March 28, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Ballet Debuts "Tchaikovsky – The Man Behind the Music" March 29 - 31 Tulsa PAC 110 E 2nd St. Tulsa, OK 74103 "As one of the most prolific composers for ballet (The Nutcracker, Swan Lake, The Sleeping Beauty) he struggled in 19th century Russia with his homosexuality. Most history books say that he died of Cholera. But there is also a theory that he was forced to commit suicide by a ''court of honor'' made up of his former classmates, out of fear that his homosexuality would be exposed." Oklahomans for Equality applauds the Tulsa Ballet's commitment to telling the true stories of LGBTQ+ figures. Buy Your Tickets Here 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 5 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... LGBT Women's Network April Happy Hour Monday, April 1, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. The Local Bison 522 S. Boston Ave. Suite 103 Tulsa, OK 74103 Join us at the the Local Bison for our April Meetup! Come & Go happy hour for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+. Allies are welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested in visiting all LGBT-friendly locations! OkEq Town Hall Meeting Tuesday, April 2, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Author and Diversity and Inclusion expert Risha Grant will facilitate a workshop for the membership of Oklahomans for Equality regarding intersectional issues such as sexuality, gender identity, race, religion, culture, and disability. We will also be discussing internal bias, microaggressions, and systemic racism as they relate to these topics. First Thursday Art Show Thursday, April 4, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit with a combined show titled No Extra Pieces, featuring the works of Aubree Karner and Katie Wheat Pernu, beginning with a reception on 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 6 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... Thursday, April 4th from 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. Aubree Karner has lived in Oklahoma her whole life - born and raised in Broken Arrow. From early on she was an art lover and studied it throughout her school years, including majoring in art at the University of Arkansas and receiving her BFA in 2008. She has taught art in some capacity in Tulsa for many years including in museum summer camps at Philbrook Museum and Gilcrease Museum. She currently teaches high school art in Tulsa part time while also pursing her artistic career. Katie Wheat Pernu has spent most of her life teaching others about art. She holds a degree in Art Education from Northern Arizona University and achieved National Board Certification as an art teacher. For over 20 years, Katie was a full-time art teacher who also worked as an artist. In 2015, she embarked upon an important shift by becoming a full-time professional artist who also teaches. Queers for Peers Saturday, April 6th & April 20th, 10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Please join us for a free workshop on how to support your LGBTQ+ friends and queer family! We will provide resources, tips, role plays, and other information on how to support others in the community who are struggling with mental health concerns while also taking care of your self. Breakfast will be provided, as well as opportunities to win door prizes and gift cards for participation! The second date will provide a brief review of the April 6th workshop, and provide a follow-up workshop based on feedback and questions from the first session. Click Here to Register for the Workshops It's Complicated OK Saturday, April 6, 10:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. Holiday Inn, City Center 17 W. 7th St. Tulsa, OK 74119 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 7 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... It’s Complicated OK is the brainchild of the Oklahoma Poly Network (OPN) and Unity Tulsa, LLC . The idea for a conference focused solely on nontraditional relationships came from the bimonthly group, It’s Complicated. It’s Complicated began in December 2017 and has been a great place for discussion of all things outside of the bell curve. It is a therapeutic discussion group for individuals in nontraditional relationships. The group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every 1st and 3rd Monday. Click Here to Register for the Conference Condomania Saturday, April 6, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Joitt us for a fashiott show... like tto other. if- \ e~n ....~ ! A~ f \?r:. i ~• G fr! ~ 3 l~ \ e r Q'. ltb~'i! I ~~ f (/) ij!l :~ ~ .1. fl ~ g:(k; •i! . l·~ .cs f ~ ~;~ ! ~fl~ ~ ~fuj ~! , 1 ~ ~i mos itL if-li ~~o~ ~~ ~- fti Llttl•!!:.~ouse ~ i1l - i ~ ©QS ~@ 3 iflif r ~- ~~ ~ ~~ ,...___ ,,.- --------------------- ,...___ ,...___ - April 6th/7pttt --. Uettttis It. Neill Equality Ctr Tickets: Evetttbrite.cottt lttfo: LittleJlueffouseAtfU.org ------. ~ Help us protttote SAFlSEX! -- ~ r-- ✓- April Pride Bingo Saturday, April 13, 6:30 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 r-- ' ~,. p T U L S A '• Tulsa Pride Bingo is the best bingo ever, and it always sells out, so reserve your spot now! The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Las Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo bash! @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 8 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... $30 Adult Beverage admission, includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Disorderly Conduct: A TLGBQ Creative Workshop Series Saturday, April 13, 3:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Disorderly conduct is a creative workshop series for the TLGBQ community sponsored by TWANG Anthology. Through partnership with OkEq, we're coming to Tulsa on April 13th! We welcome all TLGBQ folks to join us as we discuss poetry, generate new creative work & share our stories with one another. All experience levels are welcome! Disorderly Conduct will be centering transgender, nonbinary, and gender nonconforming writers in our workshop materials & approach. The workshop itself is open to anyone who is a part of the TLGBQ or TGNC community & will be facilitated by Brody Parrish Craig. Show up with your self, a pen, and whatever stories you need to tell. This is a FREE event, though we ask that you register in advance if you are able. Registration will help us prepare ample workshop materials but if you forget or can't register in advance, please come join us that day anyway! Register Online Here Tulsa Threat vs Arkansas Wildcats Sunday, April 20, 5:00 p.m. Catoosa High School 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 9 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... 2000 S. Cherokee St. Catoosa, OK 74015 The Tulsa Threat are a professional women's American football team based in Tulsa, OK. The Threat plays 11 on 11, NCAA-rules tackle football against teams nationwide in the Independent Women's Football Alliance (WFA). The team was established in 2011 and completed their first season in the spring of that year. Follow the Tulsa Threat on Facebook April EBA Mixer Wednesday, April 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Tulsa Opera 1610 S. Boulder Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 The Tulsa Opera will be hosting the April Equality Business Mixer. Tulsa Opera excels at producing bold, brave, and brilliant, fresh productions of opera classics. We accomplish this by identifying excellent young singers, then pairing them with conductors and stage directors who can improve their artistic talents. The Opera, throughout its history, has articulated the desire of local leaders to create and maintain a world-class city. Tulsa Opera was the first performing arts organization established in Oklahoma. Opera is in Tulsa’s DNA, and communication with our patrons confirms that our community has a robust – and now reinvigorated – commitment to our success. Visit the Tulsa Opera's Website Equality Gala 2019 Saturday, April 27, 6:30 p.m. Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Tickets and Sponsorships Available ' 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 10 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... Art Call for MOREColor 2019 Submission Deadline: May 3rd Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to announce our call for entries to the 2019 MOREcolor regional juried exhibitions and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBTQ+ Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded. There is a single entry fee of $15 for up to five entries. To Enter: Go to https://morecolor2019.artcall.org/ for online submission of entries. All entries must be made online. Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 3 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org , or call for information 918-813-8993. 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 11 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... Paws for Pride: Pet Photo Fundraiser Saturday, May 4, 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 When was the last time you had your pet professionally photographed? We all know how difficult it can be to capture our fur babies personality (especially if yours like to play as much as ours). American Airlines PRIDE Employee Business Resource Group and Tina McMayo of Tina Franco Photography will be on site at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to host the 'Paws for Pride' mini photo shoots for you and your fur babies. Pictures are done on a first come, first served basis starting at 9:00 a.m. and going until 5:00 p.m. A donation of $20 or more will get you a quality jpeg file that you and your lovelies can cherish for years to come! Paws for Pride will benefit American Airlines PRIDE Employee Business Resource Group partner organizations: A Friend for a Friend, a local (501c3) here in green country that supports the pets of people living with AIDS/HIV and the Grateful Day Foundation which seeks to fill gaps in Oklahoma’s HIV/AIDS wellness community through collaboration with partner organizations providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. We ask that you please take your pets comfort into consideration. If your fur baby tends to be anxious, aggressive, or territorial, this event may not be the best setting. For the safety of all, please respect and understand your animals comfort level. Movie Night with OkEq Bartlesville Friday, May 10, 7:00 p.m. Heritage Theatre Cafe and Pub 306 E. Don Tyler Ave. Dewey, OK 74029 OKEQ-Bartlesville is pleased to announce our first Movie Night! The Bartlesville Film Society is working with us to bring you "Love, Simon" on May 10th at the Heritage Theatre Cafe and Pub in Dewey, Oklahoma. 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 12 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... The synopsis for "Love, Simon": Everyone deserves a great love story, but for 17-year-old Simon Spier, it's a little more complicated. He hasn't told his family or friends that he's gay, and he doesn't know the identity of the anonymous classmate that he's fallen for online. Resolving both issues proves hilarious, terrifying and life-changing. The event is open to all ages, but the film is rated PG-13. Please exercise your best judgment. AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted PE The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. G Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org . Pride Night at ONEOK Field Saturday, May 18, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. ONEOK Field 201 N. Elgin Ave. Tulsa, OK 74120 oklahom ns for equality FUNDRAISER NIGHT AT ONEOK FIELD Saturday May 18 2019 Portion ofTickets to Support Oklahomans for Equality Purchase Tickets via: https: / /groupmatics.events/event/OKEQ Writing Warriors 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 13 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... Every Tuesday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Hosted by published author Amy Romine, our weekly meet-up will include discussion, debating and brainstorming and will get your creative writing juices flowing. Topics will include the kernel idea, building solid plots and characters, blogging, marketing your book on social media and many others. We are looking for all types of writers – novice, published and the “I'm-a-gonna's.” Also, all genres are invited – poets, bloggers, screenwriters, novelists, short story writers, etc. We are all writers and can learn so much from each other. All are welcome. This is not a critique group; this is an educational resource support group. Contact Amy at amyromine@outlook.com for more information or any questions. 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 14 of 30 ~- lfl ,. • k https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... ~ ,..,; f. I " w.;;a1 R -• Q <G. ""All proceeds to benefit Oklahomans For Equality" u Lesbian Cinema Series Oklahoma Contemporary Arts Center 3000 General Pershing Blvd. Oklahoma City, OK 73107 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 15 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... PRESENTED BY HERLAND AT OKLAHOMA CONTEMPORARY M PE JNWtC TRUST Enrollment in adventures is easy! Call one of the centers listed below to start today, or visit The Orbit Initiative on Facebook to access the online enrollment form. All adventures are FREE and OPEN to the public! Reed Park Community Center Ellen Ochoa Elementary 4233 S Yukon Ave Tulsa, OK 74107 918-591-4307 (Two Saturdays/month): Movement and acting class: 10 am-12 pm 12000 E 31st Street Tulsa, OK 74 46 918-35 7-4330 (Two Saturdays/month): Acting class: 1oam-12pm Movement class: 10am-12pm Hicks Park Community Center East Side Senior Center 3443 S Mingo Road Tulsa, OK 74146 91 8-669-6355 (Two Saturdays/month): Movement class: 10am-1 pm Art class: 1Clam-1 pm Acting olass: 1Qam-1pm 1427 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 918-744-6760 (Every Wednesday): lmprov/acting class: 2:10pm-3:10pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120 918-743-4297 (Two Saturdays/month): Acting class: 1pm-Jpm The Greenwood Cultural Center 822 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74120 91 8-596-1020 (Two Saturdays/month): Acting class: 11am-1pm Latimer-Cooksey Arts and Cultural Foundation Solid Foundation Preparatory Academy 4025 N. Hartford Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 918-406-7783 (Two Saturdays/month): Acting class: 2-4 pm Movement class: 2-4 pm PUBLIC. WOJlli,JNJtUAll DESIGN And don't forget about the al/community production of THE TEMPEST coming in June of 2019! TWANG seeks art (literary & visual) from our diverse community of transgender, non-binary & gender non-conforming voices within or with ties to Arkansas, Texas, Oklahoma, Nebraska, Missouri & Kansas. 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 16 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... While we are open to submissions that directly speak to your experience as a TGNC friend within these states, we are thrilled to consider any creation on any subject/theme (love poems, glitter-collages, tirades against traffic lights) as long as you identify as a part of the community outlined above. Please submit your work to -twanganthology@gmail.com . Submissions are due by May 1, - 2019. There is no submission fee. All contributors selected will be paid. AREGION-WIDE STORY SPACE 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 17 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... The Revue 822 S Sheridan Rd Tulsa, OK 74112 - 21+ only polling location The Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St Tulsa, OK 74129 21+ only polling location 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 18 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 19 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... Thesis Research Study Please consider participating in my thesis research study examining the connection between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) identity, community connection, and resilience! This study is approved by the institutional review board at Northeastern State University and under the supervision of my thesis chair, Dr. Steven Byers. In order to be eligible for the study, you must: Be 18 years of age at the time of completion Identify as LGBTQ+ To participate in the study, please complete the survey here . The survey will take about 20 to 30 minutes to complete. You can be entered to win a $25.00 Amazon gift card if you provide an email address at the end of the survey. This study is anonymous. The only identifying information which will be collected is demographic information, and will not specifically identify you. You will be asked to provide an email at the conclusion of the survey to be entered in the raffle if you so wish, but are not required to do so. Participation in this study is voluntary. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you may close the browser window at any time. If you do not want to answer a question, you may skip any question in this survey. If you have any questions, please contact Jordan Westcott ( Westcott@nsuok.edu ) or Dr. Steven Byers ( byerss@nsuok.edu - - - - ). We hope that you choose to participate in this study and share your experience! PERSONALITY ASSE SMENT I AN UNDERSERVED POPULATION WE NEED YOUR HELP!!! 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 20 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. Additionally, the field of psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures tell us about transgender individuals! YOU ARE ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. It involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take approximately two hours of your time. After completing the study, you will receive a $15.00 gift card. For questions or co participate. contact doctoral student researcher William Bryant: Email: william-bryant@utulsa.edu Cell Phone: 330 322-2442 his cted as part niv i a l P'lycho lo the student researcher· dissertation for the m. tud f pi • hi ati ung adu l ing f trauma an ta h. r c i B + oung adult b t tabli h d 1 t ur tim . ' tri I affiliati n t p rti ipat . Y mg adult ' identiti hap their int rpr tation want to und r t f traumati ir m nta l h alth t impr . AJ I data ill ur i.. I d fit d pa . rti ipant illb a ri ID numb rand n m that wi ll n ntain an id ntifying inti rmation. If tud , • n k ning qu ti n t d t nnin u t d th fi II ing thing : ligibi lit 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 21 of 30 e Ulll}Jlc;lc; Cl https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... IIUI l uc;111u 0 1c:tp111 l!llc; llUIIJIClll . • Parti ipat in on int rvi w la ting appro. imat I on hour fa -t -fa k p rt I ph n . • B audi tap d during th int rvi nta t d t r i w th d ta if u h nta t th primar i hmit m at ra mar infonnation r garding th a 1 h nk u mu h fi r • at r Ra h I tat . du tud r if u ar inter at fi r ur tim . Are you a man who is living in a non-urban area of the Midwest who is currently taking Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP /Truvada)? We are seeking men who are --.-.-------~--- currently taking PrEP who live in non-urban areas of the Midwest to participate in a 60-minute telephone interview about your experiences with taking PrEP and PrEP-related healthcare. Questions? Contact u s at prep@indi Are you: • 18 years of age or older • A man (cisgender or transgender) who has sex with other men • Currently taking PrEP • Currently living in the Midwest and not living in a large city http:/ /go.iu.edu /2lys Ever wonder what transgender . . . . 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 22 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... Join a SIU study on text-message-based, transgender affirmative, cognitive behavioral therapy designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! Study includes: Pre-Treatment Assessment FREE - 6 weeks of Transgender Affirmative CBT Post-Treatment Assessment 3 Month Follow Up Assessment CONTACT US TODAY (312) 899-6195 textmessagetherapy@gmail.com This ~ has been reviewed by the SIUC Human Subjects Committee. Questions concerning ycx. rights as a participant in his research may be addressed o the Comm ee Ch • peraon. Office of SponSOl8d Projects Adnw,istra ion, SIUC, Calbondale, IL 62901-4 709. Phone: (618) 453-4533. Emaa: lilWI:i!l.ll.!liIIW:W Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " Giovanni's Room" by James Baldwin "James Baldwin’s groundbreaking novel about love and the fear of love is set among the bohemian bars and nightclubs of 1950s Paris. David is a young American expatriate who has _ __.. LO_y r( N I ' 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 23 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... just proposed marriage to his girlfriend, Hella. While she is away on a trip, David meets a bartender named Giovanni to whom he is drawn in spite of himself. Soon the two are spending the night in Giovanni’s curtainless room, which he keeps dark to protect their privacy. But Hella’s return to Paris brings the affair to a crisis, one that rapidly spirals into tragedy. Caught between his repressed desires and conventional morality, David struggles for self-knowledge during one long, dark night—“the night which is leading me to the most terrible morning of my life.” With sharp, probing insight, Giovanni's Room tells an impassioned, deeply moving story that lays bare the unspoken complexities of the human heart." Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Equality Pride Store The OkEq Pride Store now has Two-Spirit Pride Flags! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 24 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com ---- Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, April 18 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members It's Complicated Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 25 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGALAID ~ SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, March 27th 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Facilitated by Allison Ikley-Freeman. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org --- --or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 26 of 30 are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sa(Te ~~~~:~~! ~~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... vfwiener@gmail.com Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 27 of 30 Gender Support Program https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... their lives being PLUS. 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org -The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Survivor Support Group Survivors of Incest Anonymous This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Neurodiversity Social Group Saturday, March 27th 6:00 p.m. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 28 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 29 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Jose Vega Program Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Alex.Wade@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Sheena Grewal - President Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Vice President Marcia LaBooth Keesee - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Allison Ikley-Freeman Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn Board of Advisors Laura Arrosmith, D.O. Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Jack Graham Bob Hanson, PharmD Dale Hogan Denise Reid Justin Ross Jeremy Stevens Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �David Nelson is Sponsoring the Equality Center 30 of 30 Visit Our Website https://myemail.constantcontact.com/David-Nelson-is-Sponsoring-the-... View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat 12 a.m. - 9 p.m. | Sun 12 a.m.- 6 p.m. 621 East 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:58 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ef46f915fedcc8e882e9d450345282fa.pdf 5fc8849cd220db2455282be6d7670f4e PDF Text Text First Pride Bingo of 2019 1 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews January 8th, 2018 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Payaoii Rental Properfy k ping 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 2 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Featuri,11\,g TVt Lbo~ea ux.: Tvie Tax. Tueraprj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. New OkEq Helpline! Every Saturday, 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Feeling stuck? Alone? Need a supportive, listening ear? Make Sunday your self-care day with a call to the new OkEq Helpline! This new and improved helpline has affirming staff available every Sunday from 10 a.m. - 6 p.m. We are here to provide support for LGBTQ+ people dealing with many topics including coming out, substance use, feeling isolated, conflict with work or family, and many more. We aim to help you address these problems by listening, brainstorming, identifying a goal, and helping you create an action plan. As always, OKEQ can also provide LGBTQ+ affirming referrals for you to put these plans into action. All people who identify as LGBTQ+ are welcome to utilize this free service. If interested, please call us on Saturday at 918-938-6537 or 918-938-6538. 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 3 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... Tulsa's Interracial Social Connections Happy Hour Friday, Jan. 11, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 "Don't be afraid to expand yourself, to step out of your comfort zone. That's where the joy and the adventure lie." -Herbie Hancock Tulsa's Interracial Social Connections group is for anyone who is interested in enjoying a more diverse social community, in appreciation of all ethnicities, genders, ages, cultures, beliefs, abilities, sexual orientation, etc. Singles and/or couples are welcome as we explore our enlightening differences and surprising similarities. Please join us Jan. 11 th at the Equality Center for our first happy hour and get the year started by making new friends! Future events will include cultural events, social networking, live performances, community service, ethnic restaurant explorations, day trips, gallery receptions, potluck dinners, tours, travel, movie meets, business networking and much more! King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant Saturday, Jan. 12, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 4 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... ~ N.G&QUEE . House Hunters: Touring Tulsa Tuesday, Jan. 15, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Oklahomans For Equality for the world premiere of HGTV's House Hunters’ "Touring Tulsa" episode. Dr. Bryan Roberts and Jack Graham will be the first local same-sex couple featured on the show. A cash bar and free popcorn will be available for guests. No admission fee or tickets are required. Doors open at 8:00 PM. The show airs at 9:00 PM. NOW SCREENI G SE H RS TOURI G TULSA 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 5 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... ~ I AKKIN\;, Ml DY SEHL I BRYAN ROBERTS I JACK GRAHAM January 15, 2019 • 8:00 pm Show Premiers @ 9:00 pm CT on HGTV Dennis R eill Equal ty Center 621 E 4th St., Tu lsa, OK 74120 CASH BAR &FREE POPCORN January EBA Mixer Wednesday, Jan. 16, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Holiday Inn 17 W. 7th St. Tulsa, OK 74119 Guests who stay at the Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center get the full Tulsa, OK experience. Our hotel's downtown Tulsa location places you minutes from exciting big-name music and sporting events at BOK Center and Tulsa Performing Arts Center, but also next door to quaint, historic neighborhoods and Utica Square Shopping Center. Though the hotel is within walking distance of ONEOK, The Williams Companies, Helmerich and Payne, IBM, JP Morgan Chase and other Tulsa, OK companies, Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center's complimentary downtown area hotel shuttle ensures you'll always have a ride. Oklahoma State University Medical Center, St. John and Hillcrest Hospitals are nearby the hotel as well. The hotel is also conveniently located within a few miles of University of Tulsa, Brady Theater, and Cains Ballroom. The location of Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center allows you to easily spend a day on a walking tour of Art Deco architecture, viewing Native American art at Gilcrease Museum or Western art at the Philbrook Museum. Warm nights are perfect for outdoor dining on Boulder Grill's patio, located within the hotel. Let Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center be a fun getaway at our stunning downtown, full-service hotel with great perks like our 24-hour airport shuttle. Enjoy our Fitness Center or swim under the stars in our sparkling, indoor pool with retractable roof and eco-friendly salt purification system. Come to relax and enjoy a memorable stay at the Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center. 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 6 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. E UALITY Business Alliance Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, Jan. 17, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 7 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... LGBTQ Young Adults at Angry Axe Throwing Club Friday, Jan. 18, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Tulsa Angry Axe Throwing Club 7 N. Peoria Ave. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the OkEq Young Adults Prism Group at the Angry Axe Throwing Club! There will be a small charge to throw axes with OkEq's help to make this experience fun. Please RSVP with OkEq Program Director Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - - . The day of the event search for Jose in a beautiful purple OkEq polo shirt! If you have any questions, please text Jose at (918) 813-8993. First Pride Bingo of 2019 Saturday, Jan. 19, 6:30 p.m. - 10:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 ~,. T U L 5 A ,, p Tulsa Pride Bingo is the best bingo ever, and it always sells out, so reserve your spot now! The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Las Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo bash! @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission, includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table MLK Parade with OkEq Saturday, Jan. 21, 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Detroit Ave. & John Hope Franlin Blvd. Tulsa, OK 74106 In celebration of the life and legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, OkEq will be part of the 40th Annual MLK Parade on Monday, January 21, 2019. 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 8 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... Join us and help march with the giant rainbow flag! For more information about the parade please email Jose at jose.vega@okeq.org or text him at 918-813-8993 . Trans Resource Day Saturday, Jan. 26, 12:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 A day of community and wellness for Tulsa-area trans folks! Swing by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a chance to talk with medical doctors, lawyers, wellness professionals, and stylists. Pick up some new gear at the clothing swap and grab a bite to eat! For more information please contact Alex Wade at alex.wade@okeq.org . Trans Resource Day Saturday, January 26th, 2019 @ Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Trans-friendly health resources, including: - Medical doctors - Cosmetic surgeons - Therapists - Peer counselors - Massage therapists - Sexual health professionals Clothing swap + free care, fashion, style and hair advice from stylists, cosmetologists, estheticians, hair stylists, and other professionals. Organiz d by: First Thursday Art First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit by Mery McNett Thursday, Feb. 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Mery McNett, beginning with a reception on Thursday, Feb. 7, from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Mery is a Tulsa-based artist/animator and a graduate of the University of Tulsa, where she studied painting under Mark Lewis. She has had works shown throughout Oklahoma and 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 9 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... other areas. Her work consists of various media, including sculpture, ink, watercolor, oil paintings, video art, etc. “My recent influences have been neurology and all biological and not-yet-understood aspects of the brain," she said. "There have been theories since the beginning of humankind about the brain, such as the influence of an individual's environment to the chemistry of the brain. In the present day, we know more about the cellular and chemistry of the brain, but many questions remain unanswered. "I have also been influenced by the imagery of the physical brain, the human figure, and incorporating portraits, showing humanity behind biological matter," Mery said. “The mystery and biology of the brain; how are memories stored and retrieved? What exactly are emotions, intelligence, and imagination? How do neurons store information? What is consciousness? All of this is what drives my passion for my current body of work.” “My work with watercolor/ink and foam sculptures all come from a fascination with microscopic organic matter, most recently, the cells that make up the brain. I find the way watercolor/ink media, when used with certain techniques like wet on wet technique, can be fluid in movement, creating images reminiscent of cells we see in biological studies, such as neurons, which my recent work is primarily focused," she said. "These media, when applied with different techniques, such as the one mentioned above, can be unpredictable, and I find that I have only a small amount of control over where the pigments flow and spread. The spray foam I use for the sculpture behaves in a similar manner. I have limited control with the media, but after I apply it to, for example, a mannequin, the final form after it falls and expands is a mystery. The final form is reminiscent of organic form such as the brain as a whole. It is also fastening because the material itself is something that is man-made and does not occur naturally.” www.merymcnett.com A door prize of Mery's work will be presented at the Feb. 7 reception. The show will continue throughout the month. The Tulsa Sappho Sisterhood Friday, Feb. 7, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 The Tulsa Sappho Sisterhood is an OkEq program for women to share interests and connect. Our purpose is to build a community for women in the Tulsa area. We are an inclusive group for women of all ages and backgrounds who identify as lesbian or queer in any way, including transgender individuals who identify as women. We will strive for a variety of events: picnics, brunches, wine tastings, dinners, bowling, miniature golf, dancing, camping, hiking, biking, art shows, walks with dogs/dog lovers, game nights, movie nights, BBQ's, bonfires, travel, etc. 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 10 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... Our first meeting is a happy hour on Feb. 7th 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 2019 Wild Hearts Ball Silent Disco Friday, Feb. 8, 7:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Have you heard of the newest trend sweeping festivals and concerts? It's called Silent Disco, and now you can experience one of these headphone parties right here in downtown Tulsa! You can access all the fun via your free-to-rent wireless headphones. The volume's adjustable, too, so you can control your show. Wear headphones to hear the music at this dance party, or take them off and observe the Silent Shuffle. Come celebrate the 18th annual Wild Hearts Ball Silent Disco. We will have live entertainment in the Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater and a dance floor in the Bruce Goff Event Center. A cash bar will be available, and raffle prizes will be given! 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 11 of 26 LGBTQ Leadership Program Applications Sought https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... _, ,, Il l / /; Created in partnership with Oklahomans for Equality and Leadership Tulsa, the Lead Together LGBTQ Leadership Program is now accepting applications for its first class. Lead Together is the only program in Oklahoma addressing LGBTQ leadership development. LEADTffi~T~~R “We see persistent gaps within leadership ranks that overlook the talents of lesbians, gay men, bisexuals, transgender and queer or questioning individuals,” said Jose Vega, program director for Oklahomans for Equality. “The aim is to accelerate the careers and possibilities for qualified LGBTQ leaders by offering an exceptional learning environment and networking opportunities. “We know there are a number of outstanding LGBTQ professionals, and this is the only program of its kind in the state,” Vega said. “Its design speaks forcefully to the next generation of LGBTQ leaders who are highly motivated agents for change. “Leadership Tulsa is pleased to provide additional opportunities for leadership development in our community, and we look forward to equipping LGBTQ leaders to build their influence, build a valuable network, and develop new models and mindsets for innovation using design thinking,” added Marcia-Bruno Todd, Leadership Tulsa’s program director. “Participants will explore how their LGBTQ identity influences and strengthens their personal leadership style while learning about LGBTQ history and the national movement.” LGBTQ and ally professionals are invited to apply to this four-month program, which includes an orientation, six daylong sessions, volunteering for Tulsa Pride, and opportunities to network and explore the region with fellow class members. Applications are due by 5:00 p.m. on January 31, 2019. Click here for more information. Click here for the application. 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 12 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . Inclement Weather Policy In the event of inclement weather, please contact the center to confirm the program you wish to participate in will be meeting. Although the center does not close, many times program leaders choose to cancel their programs due to hazardous conditions. We will post updates on OkEq Facebook pages. • Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, Jan. 9, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF = Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary. OKLAHOMA, INC. Writing Warriors Every Tuesday Starting Feb. 5, 7:00 p.m. 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Hosted by published author Amy Romine, our weekly meet-up will include discussion, debating and brainstorming and will get your creative writing juices flowing. Topics will include the kernel idea, building solid plots and characters, blogging, marketing your book on social media and many others. We are looking for all types of writers – novice, published and the “I'm-a-gonna's.” Also, all genres are invited – poets, bloggers, screenwriters, novelists, short 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 13 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... story writers, etc. We are all writers and can learn so much from each other. All are welcome. This is not a critique group; this is an educational resource support group. Contact Amy at amyromine@outlook.com for more information or any questions. Keep Warm Donations Needed! As we enter the winter months, Oklahomans for Equality is asking for blankets, socks, and new or gently used coats, gloves, hats, and scarves for our constituents experiencing homelessness. Please bring donations to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center front desk. 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 14 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... Thesis Research Study Please consider participating in my thesis research study examining the connection between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) identity, community connection, and resilience! This study is approved by the institutional review board at Northeastern State University and under the supervision of my thesis chair, Dr. Steven Byers. In order to be eligible for the study, you must: Be 18 years of age at the time of completion Identify as LGBTQ+ To participate in the study, please complete the survey here . The survey will take about 20 to 30 minutes to complete. You can be entered to win a $25.00 Amazon gift card if you provide an email address at the end of the survey. This study is anonymous. The only identifying information which will be collected is demographic information, and will not specifically identify you. You will be asked to provide an email at the conclusion of the survey to be entered in the raffle if you so wish, but are not 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 15 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... required to do so. Participation in this study is voluntary. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you may close the browser window at any time. If you do not want to answer a question, you may skip any question in this survey. If you have any questions, please contact Jordan Westcott ( Westcott@nsuok.edu ) or Dr. Steven Byers ( byerss@nsuok.edu ). We hope that you choose to participate in this study and share your experience! PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT IN AN UNDERSERVED POPULATION WE NEED YOUR HELP!!! The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. Additionally, the field of psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures tell us about transgender individuals! YOU ARE ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer, gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. It involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take approximately two hours of your time. After completing the study, you will receive a $15.00 gift card. For questions or to participate. contact doctoral student researcher William Bryant: Email: wjlliam-bryant@utulsa.edu Cell Phone: 330 322-2442 hiss ducted as part of the student researcher· dissertatmn for the niv ini al P-.ycho lo m. 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 16 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... scs masculinity. affirmation. and self-conceptualization study 0 • • Join our study for trans individuals who identify on a spectrum of masculinity. AR 0 BE COHPENSATED FOR YOUR TIHE Please contact projectmascseumich.edu with any questions TAl<E THIS BRIEF SURVEY TO SEE IF~i~I-'~ https•/ 1b·1't ly/2P,·o1JuM .YOU ARE B.IGIBLE FOR THIS STUDY: , ;~ • •• 1 1 / j , - • • • • k--' ~ •; \ Are you a man who is living in a non-urban area of the Midwest who is currently taking Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP /Truvada)? We are seeking men who are ---~------~-~-- ~ - --currently taking PrEP who live in non-urban areas of the Midwest to participate in a 60-minute telephone interview about your experiences with taking PrEP and PrEP-related healthcare. Questions? Contact us at prep@indiana.edu Are you: • 18 years of age or older If so, show that Midwestern hospitality! 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 17 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... II , ClS en el or transgender) who has sex with other men • Currently taking PrEP • Currently living in the Midwest and not living in a large city http:/ /go.iu.edu /2lys Ever wonder what transgender affirmative therapy is like? Join a SIU study on text-message-based, transgender affirmative, cognitive behavioral therapy designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! Study includes: Pre-Treatment Assessment FREE - 6 weeks of Transgender Affirmative CBT Post-Treatment Assessment 3 Month Follow Up Assessment CONTACT US TODAY (312) 899-6195 textmessagetherapy@gmail.com 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 18 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... This pr~ has been reviewed by the SIUC H man Subjects Committee. Questions concerning ycx. rights as a participant in his research may be adchssed lo the Comm ee Ch • person. Office of Sponscxed Projects Adnwiistra ion, SIUC, Calbondale, IL 62901-4 709. Phone: (618) 453-4533. Email: 5W[ISl.ll~ll....eSIIL Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library "A Little Gay History: Desire and Diversity Across the World " When was the first chat line between men established? Who was the first "lesbian"? Were ancient Greek men who had sex with each other necessarily "gay," and what did Shakespeare think about crossdressing? Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. A Little Gay History answers these questions and more through close readings of art objects from the British Museum's far-ranging collection. Consulting ancient Egyptian papyri, the Roman Warren Cup's erotic figures, David Hockney's vivid prints, and dozens of other artifacts, R. B. Parkinson draws attention to a diverse range of same-sex experiences and situates them within specific historical and cultural contexts. The first of its kind, A Little Gay History builds a complex and creative portrait of love's many guises. Equality Center Pride Store The OkEq Pride Store has handmade pride flag scarf and beanie sets! Come get yours today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 19 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 20 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, January 17 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members It's Complicated Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGAL A10 th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 21 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... Library January 9 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Facilitated by Allison Ikley-Freeman. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org - - - ---or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Sos Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Tulsa Area 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 22 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Lambda AlAnon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. This open Al-Anon group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. Contact 918.743.2754 for more information. Game Night Tulsa Writers, Ink. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. Join old friends and make new friends as you play An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 23 of 26 some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Art for the Heart: An all Inclusive Arts Program Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Sundays @ 1:00 p.m. Art is more than just pictures on the wall. Art helps people express 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 24 of 26 Inclusion for People with Developmental Disabilities Saturdays @ 1:00 p.m. Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. LGBTQ+ History: Interviewees Wanted By appointment Do you feel like you have something to say about your life as an LGBTQ+ individual? Recording the history of the LGBTQ+ community is currently a feature of programming at the Equality Center. This program is designed to supplement and further complete our collective history by interviewing participants to further investigate past and present features of LGBTQ+ life and identity. Interviewees will sit down face to face and be asked a series of questions in regards to their person lives and experiences. All information gathered will be added to the existing archive. Please contact Ely at burgesej@nsuok.edu to set up your appointment. themselves, find happiness, and it can help with mobility and dexterity. Art classes foster connections between individuals and helps reduce isolation many people experience. Please join us in making our community a more beautiful, meaningful place through the enrichment of art. Subjects will be elected by members from a range of topics including: glass fusing and jewelry making, mosaics, basket weaving, finger weaving, ceramics, acrylic painting, and quilting. This group is all inclusive, and encourages individuals from all age groups to come together for weekly sessions on Sundays @ 1pm. 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 25 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Jose Vega Program Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 4:51 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 26 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... Alex Wade Volunteer, Pride Store, and Transgender Programming Coordinator Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Alex.Wade@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Marcia Keesee, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Sheena Grewal, At Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Jan Baldwin Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Allison Ikley-Freeman Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn Visit our website View our events Contact us today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. 621 East Fourth Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 08 4/24/26, 4:51 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/88a48fb9f856d2e3f85cebc51afa01ed.pdf d517a8b9c9d1906096da87ff937809ce PDF Text Text First Pride Bingo of 2019 1 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews January 16th, 2018 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Payaoii Rental Properfy k ping 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 2 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Featuri,11\,g TVt Lbo~ea ux.: Tvie Tax. Tueraprj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. January EBA Mixer Wednesday, Jan. 16, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Holiday Inn 17 W. 7th St. Tulsa, OK 74119 Guests who stay at the Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center get the full Tulsa, OK experience. Our hotel's downtown Tulsa location places you minutes from exciting big-name music and sporting events at BOK Center and Tulsa Performing Arts Center, but also next door to quaint, historic neighborhoods and Utica Square Shopping Center. Though the hotel is within walking distance of ONEOK, The Williams Companies, Helmerich and Payne, IBM, JP Morgan Chase and other Tulsa, OK companies, Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center's complimentary downtown area hotel shuttle ensures you'll always have a ride. Oklahoma State University Medical Center, St. John and Hillcrest Hospitals are nearby the hotel as well. The hotel is also conveniently located within a few 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 3 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... miles of University of Tulsa, Brady Theater, and Cains Ballroom. The location of Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center allows you to easily spend a day on a walking tour of Art Deco architecture, viewing Native American art at Gilcrease Museum or Western art at the Philbrook Museum. Warm nights are perfect for outdoor dining on Boulder Grill's patio, located within the hotel. Let Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center be a fun getaway at our stunning downtown, full-service hotel with great perks like our 24-hour airport shuttle. Enjoy our Fitness Center or swim under the stars in our sparkling, indoor pool with retractable roof and eco-friendly salt purification system. Come to relax and enjoy a memorable stay at the Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. E ALITY Business Alliance Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, Jan. 17, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. 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Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission, includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Tulsa Women's March Saturday, Jan. 19, 11:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m. Guthrie Green 111 E. MB Brady St. Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 MARCH - ON TULSA- Hundreds of women, girls and the people who support them will converge on downtown Tulsa on Saturday, Jan. 19 for the third annual Women's March on Tulsa to rally for positive change and sustained engagement in intersectional women’s rights, human rights, social and environmental justice, worker’s rights, pay equity, reproductive rights, immigration reform, child care, incarceration rates, gun control, LGBTQ rights and health care for all. The event will also push for voter registration and encourage citizen engagement and activism as a lifelong habit. The Tulsa Women’s March begins with a rally with speakers, singers, spoken word artists, 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 5 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... drumming groups and a community created art installation at Guthrie Green at 111 E. Reconciliation Way, at 11:00 a.m., followed by a march to John Hope Franklin Reconciliation Park for additional speakers. Come early and enjoy and dance to our great womenempowerment playlist, visit vendors and create art! LGBTQ Young Adults at Angry Axe Throwing Club Friday, Jan. 18, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Tulsa Angry Axe Throwing Club 7 N. Peoria Ave. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the OkEq Young Adults Prism Group at the Angry Axe Throwing Club! There will be a small charge to throw axes with OkEq's help to make this experience fun. Please RSVP with OkEq Program Director Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - . The day of the event search for Jose in a beautiful purple OkEq polo shirt! If you have any questions, please text Jose at (918) 813-8993. New OkEq Helpline! Every Saturday, 12:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Feeling stuck? Alone? Need a supportive, listening ear? Make Saturday your self-care day with a call to the new OkEq Helpline! This new and improved helpline has affirming staff available every Saturday from 12 a.m. - 8 p.m. We are here to provide support for LGBTQ+ people dealing with many topics including coming out, substance use, feeling isolated, conflict with work or family, and many more. We aim to help you address these problems by listening, brainstorming, identifying a goal, and helping you create an action plan. As always, OKEQ can also provide LGBTQ+ affirming referrals for you to put these plans into action. All people who identify as LGBTQ+ are welcome to utilize this free service. If interested, please call us on Saturday at 918-938-6537 or 918-938-6538. MLK Parade with OkEq Monday, Jan. 21, 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Detroit Avenue & John Hope Franklin Boulevard, Tulsa In celebration of the life and legacy of Dr. Martin 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 6 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... Luther King, Oklahomans for Equality will be part of the 40th Annual MLK Parade on Monday, January 21. Join us and march with the giant rainbow flag! For more information about the parade, contact Jose at jose.vega@okeq.org or (918) 813-8993. ----- Trans Resource Day Saturday, Jan. 26, 12:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 A day of community and wellness for Tulsa-area trans folks! Swing by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a chance to talk with medical doctors, lawyers, wellness professionals, and stylists. Pick up some new gear at the clothing swap and grab a bite to eat! For more information please contact Alex Wade at alex.wade@okeq.org . Trans Resource Day Saturday, January 26th, 2019 @ Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Trans-friendly health resources, including: - Medical doctors - Cosmetic surgeons - Therapists - Peer counselors - Massage therapists - Sexual health professionals Clothing swap + free care, fashion, style and hair advice from stylists, cosmetologists, estheticians, hair stylists, and other professionals. Organiz d by: First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit by Mery McNett Thursday, Feb. 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Mery McNett, beginning with a reception on Thursday, Feb. 7, from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 7 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... Mery is a Tulsa-based artist/animator and a graduate of the University of Tulsa, where she studied painting under Mark Lewis. She has had works shown throughout Oklahoma and other areas. Her work consists of various media, including sculpture, ink, watercolor, oil paintings, video art, etc. “My recent influences have been neurology and all biological and not-yet-understood aspects of the brain," she said. "There have been theories since the beginning of humankind about the brain, such as the influence of an individual's environment to the chemistry of the brain. In the present day, we know more about the cellular and chemistry of the brain, but many questions remain unanswered. "I have also been influenced by the imagery of the physical brain, the human figure, and incorporating portraits, showing humanity behind biological matter," Mery said. “The mystery and biology of the brain; how are memories stored and retrieved? What exactly are emotions, intelligence, and imagination? How do neurons store information? What is consciousness? All of this is what drives my passion for my current body of work.” “My work with watercolor/ink and foam sculptures all come from a fascination with microscopic organic matter, most recently, the cells that make up the brain. I find the way watercolor/ink media, when used with certain techniques like wet on wet technique, can be fluid in movement, creating images reminiscent of cells we see in biological studies, such as neurons, which my recent work is primarily focused," she said. "These media, when applied with different techniques, such as the one mentioned above, can be unpredictable, and I find that I have only a small amount of control over where the pigments flow and spread. The spray foam I use for the sculpture behaves in a similar manner. I have limited control with the media, but after I apply it to, for example, a mannequin, the final form after it falls and expands is a mystery. The final form is reminiscent of organic form such as the brain as a whole. It is also fastening because the material itself is something that is man-made and does not occur naturally.” www.merymcnett.com A door prize of Mery's work will be presented at the Feb. 7 reception. The show will continue throughout the month. The Tulsa Sappho Sisterhood Thursday, Feb. 7, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 The Tulsa Sappho Sisterhood is an OkEq program for women to share interests and connect. Our purpose is to build a community for women in the Tulsa area. We are an inclusive group for women of all ages and backgrounds who identify as lesbian or queer in any way, including transgender individuals who identify as women. We will strive for a variety of events: picnics, brunches, wine tastings, dinners, bowling, 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 8 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... miniature golf, dancing, camping, hiking, biking, art shows, walks with dogs/dog lovers, game nights, movie nights, BBQs, bonfires, travel, etc. Our first meeting is a happy hour from 6 to 8 p.m. on Feb. 7th at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2019 Wild Hearts Ball Silent Disco Friday, Feb. 8, 7:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Have you heard of the newest trend sweeping festivals and concerts? It's called Silent Disco, and now you can experience one of these headphone parties right here in downtown Tulsa! You can access all the fun via your free-to-rent wireless headphones. The volume's adjustable, too, so you can control your show. Wear headphones to hear the music at this dance party, or take them off and observe the Silent Shuffle. Come celebrate the 18th annual Wild Hearts Ball Silent Disco. We will have live entertainment in the Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater and a dance floor in the Bruce Goff Event Center. A cash bar will be available, and raffle prizes will be given! 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 9 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... Bohemian Rhapsody Sing-Along Friday, Jan. 18, 7:30 p.m. and 10:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 Grab your tightest tank top and leather pants, it’s time to live out your wildest Queen dreams! Starting Friday, Jan. 18, fans will be able to belt out their finest Freddie Mercury impression while watching Rami Malek do the same. If you haven’t seen the film that’s reignited Queen mania, Bohemian Rhapsody chronicles the life and death of the iconic frontman Freddie Mercury. Malek, who won the Golden Globe for Best Actor in a drama, earned critical acclaim for his portrayal of Mercury. Now, for the first time in theatres, you can enjoy the film and sing along to your favorite Queen songs! LGBTQ Leadership Program Applications Sought _, ,, Il l / /; Created in partnership with Oklahomans for Equality and Leadership Tulsa, the Lead Together LGBTQ Leadership Program is now accepting applications for its first class. Lead Together is the only program in Oklahoma addressing LGBTQ leadership development. LEADTffi~T~~R “We see persistent gaps within leadership ranks that overlook the talents of lesbians, gay men, bisexuals, transgender and queer or questioning individuals,” said Jose Vega, program director for Oklahomans for Equality. “The aim is to accelerate the careers and possibilities for qualified LGBTQ leaders by offering an exceptional learning environment and networking opportunities. 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 10 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... “We know there are a number of outstanding LGBTQ professionals, and this is the only program of its kind in the state,” Vega said. “Its design speaks forcefully to the next generation of LGBTQ leaders who are highly motivated agents for change. “Leadership Tulsa is pleased to provide additional opportunities for leadership development in our community, and we look forward to equipping LGBTQ leaders to build their influence, build a valuable network, and develop new models and mindsets for innovation using design thinking,” added Marcia-Bruno Todd, Leadership Tulsa’s program director. “Participants will explore how their LGBTQ identity influences and strengthens their personal leadership style while learning about LGBTQ history and the national movement.” LGBTQ and ally professionals are invited to apply to this four-month program, which includes an orientation, six daylong sessions, volunteering for Tulsa Pride, and opportunities to network and explore the region with fellow class members. Applications are due by 5:00 p.m. on January 31, 2019. Click here for more information. Click here for the application. AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org . Inclement Weather Policy In the event of inclement weather, please contact the center to confirm the program you wish to participate in will be meeting. Although the center does not close, many times program leaders choose to cancel their programs due to hazardous conditions. We will post updates on OkEq Facebook pages. Writing Warriors Every Tuesday Starting Feb. 5, 7:00 p.m. 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 11 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... Tulsa, OK 74120 Hosted by published author Amy Romine, our weekly meet-up will include discussion, debating and brainstorming and will get your creative writing juices flowing. Topics will include the kernel idea, building solid plots and characters, blogging, marketing your book on social media and many others. We are looking for all types of writers – novice, published and the “I'm-a-gonna's.” Also, all genres are invited – poets, bloggers, screenwriters, novelists, short story writers, etc. We are all writers and can learn so much from each other. All are welcome. This is not a critique group; this is an educational resource support group. Contact Amy at amyromine@outlook.com for more information or any questions. Keep Warm Donations Needed! As we enter the winter months, Oklahomans for Equality is asking for blankets, socks, and new or gently used coats, gloves, hats, and scarves for our constituents experiencing homelessness. Please bring donations to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center front desk. Thesis Research Study Please consider participating in my thesis research study examining the connection between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) identity, community connection, and resilience! 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 12 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... This study is approved by the institutional review board at Northeastern State University and under the supervision of my thesis chair, Dr. Steven Byers. In order to be eligible for the study, you must: Be 18 years of age at the time of completion Identify as LGBTQ+ To participate in the study, please complete the survey here . The survey will take about 20 to 30 minutes to complete. You can be entered to win a $25.00 Amazon gift card if you provide an email address at the end of the survey. This study is anonymous. The only identifying information which will be collected is demographic information, and will not specifically identify you. You will be asked to provide an email at the conclusion of the survey to be entered in the raffle if you so wish, but are not required to do so. Participation in this study is voluntary. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you may close the browser window at any time. If you do not want to answer a question, you may skip any question in this survey. If you have any questions, please contact Jordan Westcott ( Westcott@nsuok.edu ) or Dr. Steven Byers ( byerss@nsuok.edu ). We hope that you choose to participate in this study and share your experience! PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT I AN UNDERSERVED POPULATION WE NEED YOUR HELP!!! The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. Additionally, the field of psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures tell us about transgender individuals! YOU ARE ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 13 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. It involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take approximately two hours of your time. After completing the study, you will receive a $15.00 gift card. For questions or to participate. contact doctoral student researcher William Bryant: Email: william-bryant@utulsa.edu Cell Phone: 330 322-2442 his niv ducted as part of the student researcher· dissertatmn for the i al P-.ycho lo m. cs masculinity, affirmation, and self-conceptualization study 0 • • Join our study for trans individuals who identify on a spectrum of masculinity. AR 0 BE COHPENSATED FOR YOUR TIHE Please contact projectmascseumich.edu with any questions 1 TAl<E THIS BRIEF SURVEY TO SEE IF ~i~I-'~ https•/ / 1b·1't ly/2P,·o1JuM .YOU ARE B.IGIBLE FOR THIS STUDY: , ;~ • •• 1 j , - • • • • k--' ~ •; \ Are you a man who is living in a non-urban area of the Midwest who is currently taking 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 14 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... We are seeking men who are -~.-.. .-----~--------- --currently taking PrEP who live in non-urban areas of the Midwest to participate in a 60-minute telephone interview about your experiences with taking PrEP and PrEP-related healthcare. Questions? Contact us at prep@:indi Are you: • 18 years of age or older • A man (cisgender or transgender) who has sex with other men • Currently taking PrEP • Currently living in the Midwest and not living in a large city http: //go.iu.edu /21ys Ever wonder what transgender affirmative therapy is like? Join a SIU study on text-message-based, transgender affirmative, cognitive behavioral therapy designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 15 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... Study includes: Pre-Treatment Assessment FREE - 6 weeks of Transgender Affirmative CBT Post-Treatment Assessment 3 Month Follow Up Assessment CONTACT US TODAY (312) 899-6195 textmessagetherapy@gmail.com This project has been reviewed by the SIUC H man Subjects Committee. Questions conoerring ycu iigh s as a participant in his research may be addrnssed o the Comm ee Chairperson. Office of Sponsored Projec s Administra ion, SIUC, Carbondale, IL 62901-4 709. Phone: (618) 453-4533. Email: 51Wl!~iW..l!lII.I Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library "Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe" This Printz Honor Book is a “tender, honest exploration of identity” ( Publishers Weekly ) that distills lyrical truths about family and friendship. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Aristotle is an angry teen with a brother in prison. Dante is a know-it-all who has an unusual way of looking at the world. When the two meet at the swimming pool, they seem to have nothing in common. But as the loners start spending time together, they discover that they share a special friendship—the kind that changes lives and lasts a lifetime. And it is through this friendship that Ari and Dante will learn the most important truths about themselves and the kind of people they want to be. Equality Center Pride Store 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 16 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... The OkEq Pride Store has handmade pride flag scarf and beanie sets! Come get yours today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 17 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, January 17 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 18 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . LEGAL A10 th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library March 13th 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Facilitated by Allison Ikley-Freeman. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org - -- - - - or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com r,,,......,, r Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley SECULAR ~l~ J~ ORGANIZATIONS 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 19 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage Q ' i ; 7 U FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Lambda AlAnon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. This open Al-Anon group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. Contact 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 20 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 918.743.2754 for more information. Tulsa Writers, Ink. 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 21 of 24 group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Inclusion for People with Developmental Disabilities LGBTQ+ History: Interviewees Wanted Saturdays @ 1:00 p.m. Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target Do you feel like you have something to say about your life as an LGBTQ+ individual? Recording the history of the LGBTQ+ community is currently a feature of programming at the Equality Center. This program is designed to supplement and further complete our collective history by interviewing participants to further investigate past and present features of LGBTQ+ life and identity. Interviewees will sit down face to face and be asked a series of questions in regards to their person By appointment Art for the Heart: An all Inclusive Arts Program Sundays @ 1:00 p.m. Art is more than just pictures on the wall. Art helps people express themselves, find happiness, and it can help with mobility and dexterity. Art classes foster connections between individuals and helps reduce isolation many people experience. Please join us in making our community a more beautiful, meaningful place through the enrichment of art. Subjects will be elected by members from a range of topics including: glass fusing and jewelry making, mosaics, basket weaving, finger weaving, ceramics, acrylic painting, and quilting. This group is all inclusive, and encourages individuals from all age groups to come together for weekly sessions on Sundays @ 1pm. 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 22 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. lives and experiences. All information gathered will be added to the existing archive. Please contact Ely at burgesej@nsuok.edu to set up your appointment. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Toby Jenkins Jose Vega 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 23 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... CEO / Executive Director Program Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer, Pride Store, and Transgender Programming Coordinator Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Alex.Wade@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Marcia Keesee, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Sheena Grewal, At Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Jan Baldwin Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Allison Ikley-Freeman Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn Visit our website View our events Contact us today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. 621 East Fourth Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �First Pride Bingo of 2019 24 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Pride-Bingo-of-2019.html?s... 08 4/24/26, 4:52 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2fa51aa9eb4312bdf2b75481d7d3a728.pdf 28f19a4fd0e7948c240138004e6ba219 PDF Text Text Transgender Resource Fair 1 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Resource-Fair.html?... OkEq Weekly eNews January 21st, 2018 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Payaoii Rental Properfy B kk p1n1 I ~~~ Let us help you file your 2018 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certi ed Public Accountant 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �Transgender Resource Fair 2 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Resource-Fair.html?... a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Featuri,11\,g TVt Lbo~ea ux.: Tvie Tax. Tueraprj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Oklahomans for Equality is outraged: Today, in a 5-4 decision, the Supreme Court of the United States has lifted previous injunctions that halted Trump’s transgender military ban. This decision will allow the ban to go into immediate effect as it continues to go through the lower courts. Oklahomans for Equality is outraged by the Supreme Court’s decision and will continue to fight back against the continued assault on transgender Americans. Today, bigotry and ignorance took precedence over our country’s security. Trans Resource Day Saturday, Jan. 26, 12:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 A day of community and wellness for Tulsa-area trans folks! Swing by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a chance to talk with medical doctors, lawyers, wellness professionals, and stylists. Pick up some new gear at the clothing swap and grab a bite to eat! 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �Transgender Resource Fair 3 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Resource-Fair.html?... For more information please contact Alex Wade at alex.wade@okeq.org . Trans Resource Day Saturday, January 26th, 2019 @ Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Trans-friendly health resources, including: - Medical doctors - Cosmetic surgeons - Therapists - Peer counselors - Massage therapists - Sexual health professionals Clothing swap + free care, fashion, style and hair advice from stylists, cosmetologists, estheticians, hair stylists, and other professionals. Org nized by: Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2018 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@okeq.org . First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit by Mery McNett Thursday, Feb. 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Mery McNett, beginning with a reception on Thursday, Feb. 7, from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Mery is a Tulsa-based artist/animator and a graduate of the University of Tulsa, where she studied painting under Mark Lewis. She has had works shown throughout Oklahoma and other areas. Her work consists of various media, including sculpture, ink, watercolor, oil paintings, video art, etc. “My recent influences have been neurology and all biological and not-yet-understood aspects of the brain," she said. "There have been theories since the beginning of humankind about the brain, such as the influence of an individual's environment to the chemistry of the brain. In 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �Transgender Resource Fair 4 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Resource-Fair.html?... the present day, we know more about the cellular and chemistry of the brain, but many questions remain unanswered. "I have also been influenced by the imagery of the physical brain, the human figure, and incorporating portraits, showing humanity behind biological matter," Mery said. “The mystery and biology of the brain; how are memories stored and retrieved? What exactly are emotions, intelligence, and imagination? How do neurons store information? What is consciousness? All of this is what drives my passion for my current body of work.” “My work with watercolor/ink and foam sculptures all come from a fascination with microscopic organic matter, most recently, the cells that make up the brain. I find the way watercolor/ink media, when used with certain techniques like wet on wet technique, can be fluid in movement, creating images reminiscent of cells we see in biological studies, such as neurons, which my recent work is primarily focused," she said. "These media, when applied with different techniques, such as the one mentioned above, can be unpredictable, and I find that I have only a small amount of control over where the pigments flow and spread. The spray foam I use for the sculpture behaves in a similar manner. I have limited control with the media, but after I apply it to, for example, a mannequin, the final form after it falls and expands is a mystery. The final form is reminiscent of organic form such as the brain as a whole. It is also fastening because the material itself is something that is man-made and does not occur naturally.” www.merymcnett.com A door prize of Mery's work will be presented at the Feb. 7 reception. The show will continue throughout the month. Writing Warriors Every Tuesday Starting Feb. 5, 7:00 p.m. 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Hosted by published author Amy Romine, our weekly meet-up will include discussion, debating and brainstorming and will get your creative writing juices flowing. Topics will include the kernel idea, building solid plots and characters, blogging, marketing your book on social media and many others. We are looking for all types of writers – novice, published and the “I'm-a-gonna's.” Also, all genres are invited – poets, bloggers, screenwriters, novelists, short story writers, etc. We are all writers and can learn so much from each other. All are welcome. This is not a critique group; this is an educational resource support group. Contact Amy at amyromine@outlook.com for more information or any questions. Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, Feb. 5, 6:30 p.m. Smoke on Cherry Street 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �Transgender Resource Fair 5 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Resource-Fair.html?... 1542 E. 15th St. Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 Please RSVP by emailing Richard at guysdinetoo@gmail.com . The Tulsa Sappho Sisterhood Thursday, Feb. 7, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 The Tulsa Sappho Sisterhood is an OkEq program for women to share interests and connect. Our purpose is to build a community for women in the Tulsa area. We are an inclusive group for women of all ages and backgrounds who identify as lesbian or queer in any way, including transgender individuals who identify as women. We will strive for a variety of events: picnics, brunches, wine tastings, dinners, bowling, miniature golf, dancing, camping, hiking, biking, art shows, walks with dogs/dog lovers, game nights, movie nights, BBQs, bonfires, travel, etc. Our first meeting is a happy hour from 6 to 8 p.m. on Feb. 7th at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2019 Wild Hearts Ball Silent Disco Friday, Feb. 8, 7:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Have you heard of the newest trend sweeping festivals and concerts? It's called Silent Disco, and now you can experience one of these headphone parties right here in downtown Tulsa! You can access all the fun via your free-to-rent wireless headphones. The volume's adjustable, too, so you can control your show. Wear headphones to hear the music at this dance party, or take them off and observe the Silent Shuffle. Come celebrate the 18th annual Wild Hearts Ball Silent Disco. We will have live entertainment in the Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater and a dance floor in the Bruce Goff Event Center. A cash bar will be available, and raffle prizes will be given! 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �Transgender Resource Fair 6 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Resource-Fair.html?... Dr. Choate & Dr. Carlozzi Book Signing Tuesday, Feb. 12, 6:30 p.m. – 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Purchase the newest book about the transgender community, “Transgender and Gender Diverse Persons: A Handbook for Educators, Service providers, and Families,” edited by two members of the OkEq community, Drs. Al Carlozzi and Kurt Choate! TRANSGENDER AND GENDER DIVERSE PERSONS A Handbook for Service Providers, Educators, and Families 4/24/26, 4:52 PM �Transgender Resource Fair 7 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Transgender-Resource-Fair.html?... Edited by ALFRED F. CARLOZZI Dr. Carlozzi is a professor of counseling and AND KURT T. CHOATE counseling psychology at Oklahoma State University and director of the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He Carlozzi is licensed as a psychologist and marital and family therapist in Oklahoma and has maintained a part-time private practice for many years, providing psychological services to transgender and gender diverse clients and their families. Dr. Choate is an associate professor and department chair of psychology and counseling at Northeastern State University in Tahlequah. He is a licensed psychologist, school counselor, and school psychologist for the state of Oklahoma and has long provided mental health services for the LGBTQ+ community at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday, Feb. 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Fifteenth and Home Furniture and Design Services 1512 E. 15th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Alycia Williams Therapy is partnering with Fifteenth and Home to sponsor this months Equality Business Alliance Mixer. Visit Alycia Williams Therapy's Website Visit Fifteenth and Home's Website The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. E ALITY Business Alliance LGBTQ+ Veteran's Town Hall Friday, Feb. 22, 4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:52 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a7165ceeb0a4ecca7ffbe3766db25119.pdf 5905c656d71d2c9d8f1c511ebf86a507 PDF Text Text OkEq Weekly eNews 1 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... OkEq Weekly eNews January 30th, 2018 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Payaoii Rental Properfy B kk p1n1 I ~~~ Let us help you file your 2018 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certi ed Public Accountant 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 2 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Featuri,11\,g TVt Lbo~ea ux.: Tvie Tax. Tueraprj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. All About Pride 2019 Saturday, Feb. 2, 7:00 p.m. Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 3 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... Sat. Feb. 2qd Deqqis Tl Neill Equality Ceqter 7PM LGBT Women's Network: February Happy Hour Monday, Feb. 4, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Lefty's on Greenwood 10 N. Greenwood Ave. Suite A Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on Greenwood for the February LGBT Women’s network! We’re excited to have met so many amazing women this year. Join us for a drink and some apps provided by Lefty’s! Follow the LGBT Women's Network on Facebook to stay up to date on all upcoming events. fl'GBT ff1i111e11 Network First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit by Mery McNett Thursday, Feb. 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Mery McNett, beginning with a reception on Thursday, Feb. 7, from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Mery is a Tulsa-based artist/animator and a graduate of the University of Tulsa, where she studied painting under Mark Lewis. She has had works shown throughout Oklahoma and other areas. Her work consists of various media, including sculpture, ink, watercolor, oil paintings, video art, etc. “My recent influences have been neurology and all biological and not-yet-understood aspects of the brain," she said. "There have been theories since the beginning of humankind about the brain, such as the influence of an individual's environment to the chemistry of the brain. In 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 4 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... the present day, we know more about the cellular and chemistry of the brain, but many questions remain unanswered. "I have also been influenced by the imagery of the physical brain, the human figure, and incorporating portraits, showing humanity behind biological matter," Mery said. “The mystery and biology of the brain; how are memories stored and retrieved? What exactly are emotions, intelligence, and imagination? How do neurons store information? What is consciousness? All of this is what drives my passion for my current body of work.” “My work with watercolor/ink and foam sculptures all come from a fascination with microscopic organic matter, most recently, the cells that make up the brain. I find the way watercolor/ink media, when used with certain techniques like wet on wet technique, can be fluid in movement, creating images reminiscent of cells we see in biological studies, such as neurons, which my recent work is primarily focused," she said. "These media, when applied with different techniques, such as the one mentioned above, can be unpredictable, and I find that I have only a small amount of control over where the pigments flow and spread. The spray foam I use for the sculpture behaves in a similar manner. I have limited control with the media, but after I apply it to, for example, a mannequin, the final form after it falls and expands is a mystery. The final form is reminiscent of organic form such as the brain as a whole. It is also fastening because the material itself is something that is man-made and does not occur naturally.” www.merymcnett.com A door prize of Mery's work will be presented at the Feb. 7 reception. The show will continue throughout the month. Oklahomans for Equality is outraged: Today, in a 5-4 decision, the Supreme Court of the United States has lifted previous injunctions that halted Trump’s transgender military ban. This decision will allow the ban to go into immediate effect as it continues to go through the lower courts. Oklahomans for Equality is outraged by the Supreme Court’s decision and will continue to fight back against the continued assault on transgender Americans. Today, bigotry and ignorance took precedence over our country’s security. Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2018 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@okeq.org . 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 5 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... Writing Warriors Every Tuesday Starting Feb. 5, 7:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Hosted by published author Amy Romine, our weekly meet-up will include discussion, debating and brainstorming and will get your creative writing juices flowing. Topics will include the kernel idea, building solid plots and characters, blogging, marketing your book on social media and many others. We are looking for all types of writers – novice, published and the “I'm-a-gonna's.” Also, all genres are invited – poets, bloggers, screenwriters, novelists, short story writers, etc. We are all writers and can learn so much from each other. All are welcome. This is not a critique group; this is an educational resource support group. Contact Amy at amyromine@outlook.com for more information or any questions. Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, Feb. 5, 6:30 p.m. Smoke on Cherry Street 1542 E. 15th St. Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 Please RSVP by emailing Richard at guysdinetoo@gmail.com . The Tulsa Sappho Sisterhood Thursday, Feb. 7, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 The Tulsa Sappho Sisterhood is an OkEq program for women to share interests and connect. Our purpose is to build a community for women in the Tulsa area. We are an inclusive group for women of all ages and backgrounds who identify as lesbian or queer in any way, including transgender individuals who identify as women. We will strive for a variety of events: picnics, brunches, wine tastings, dinners, bowling, miniature golf, dancing, camping, hiking, biking, art shows, walks with dogs/dog lovers, game nights, movie nights, BBQs, bonfires, travel, etc. Our first meeting is a happy hour from 6 to 8 p.m. on Feb. 7th at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 6 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... 2019 Wild Hearts Ball Silent Disco Friday, Feb. 8, 7:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Have you heard of the newest trend sweeping festivals and concerts? It's called Silent Disco, and now you can experience one of these headphone parties right here in downtown Tulsa! You can access all the fun via your free-to-rent wireless headphones. The volume's adjustable, too, so you can control your show. Wear headphones to hear the music at this dance party, or take them off and observe the Silent Shuffle. Come celebrate the 18th annual Wild Hearts Ball Silent Disco. We will have live entertainment in the Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater and a dance floor in the Bruce Goff Event Center. A cash bar will be available, and raffle prizes will be given! 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 7 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... ~ efe~'(ua'</J. ~ti,. 201~ 7pm ~ J)--- (ft... dfa,LlJfUCULOL eantet: 6! 1 • J - J 4th. lJt. oul!la._ tJ'I(_ 741RO Dr. Choate & Dr. Carlozzi Book Signing Tuesday, Feb. 12, 6:30 p.m. – 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Purchase the newest book about the transgender community, “Transgender and Gender Diverse Persons: A Handbook for Educators, Service providers, and Families,” edited by two members of the OkEq community, Drs. Al Carlozzi and Kurt Choate! TRANSGENDER AND GENDER DIVERSE PERSONS A Handbook for Service Providers, Educators, and Families Dr. Carlozzi is a professor of counseling and counseling psychology at Oklahoma State University and director of the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He Carlozzi is licensed as a psychologist and marital and family therapist in Oklahoma and has maintained a part-time private practice for many years, providing psychological services to transgender and gender diverse clients and their families. Dr. Choate is an associate professor and department chair of psychology and counseling at Northeastern State University in Tahlequah. He is a licensed psychologist, school counselor, and school psychologist for the state of Oklahoma and has long provided mental health services for the LGBTQ+ community at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday, Feb. 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Fifteenth and Home Furniture and Design Services 1512 E. 15th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Alycia Williams Therapy is partnering with Fifteenth and Home to sponsor this months Equality Business Alliance Mixer. Visit Alycia Williams Therapy's Website Visit Fifteenth and Home's Website The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 8 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. E UALITY Business Alliance Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, Feb. 21, 8:00 p.m. Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 9 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... LGBTQ+ Veteran's Town Hall Friday, Feb. 22, 4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 All LGBTQ+ Veterans are invited to join OKEQ and Tulsa's Veteran's organization for a town hall meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Any questions please email Jose.vega@okeq.org Tulsa's Interracial Social Connections Movie Night Friday, Feb. 22, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 "Don't be afraid to expand yourself, to step out of your comfort zone. That's where the joy and the adventure lie." -Herbie Hancock Tulsa's Interracial Social Connections group is for anyone who is interested in enjoying a more diverse social community, in appreciation of all ethnicities, genders, ages, cultures, beliefs, abilities, sexual orientation, etc. Singles and/or couples are welcome as we explore our enlightening differences and surprising similarities. Please join us Jan. 11th at the Equality Center for our first happy hour and get the year started by making new friends! Future events will include cultural events, social networking, live performances, community service, ethnic restaurant explorations, day trips, gallery receptions, potluck dinners, tours, travel, movie meets, business networking and much more! February Pride Bingo Saturday, Feb. 23, 6:30 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 ~~ p T U L S A '• Tulsa Pride Bingo is the best bingo ever, and it always sells out, so reserve your spot now! The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 10 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... will fly in from Las Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo bash! @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission, includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Ladies Social Club Second Friday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Follow the Ladies Social Club on Facebook to stay up to date on all upcoming events. LADIES SOCIAL CLUB LSC hosts monthly-ish social meetups for Tulsa-area women and provides a chance to make friends & develop a great support network online in our Facebook group . We schedule different activities each month and try to offer something for everyone. Single. married . LGBTQ+. ally. young in body. young at heart. nonbinary . dog lovers. cat lovers - all are welcome! for meetup info & online community, join our Facebook group! OkEq Ladies Social Club all LGBTQ+ wom:._ally welcome Tulsa Metro Softball League Knock the dust off your softball bat and get ready for a fun season of softball with Tulsa Metro Softball League! 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 11 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... Sign-up information will be coming soon for our 2019 Spring softball season. The league is open to anyone, regardless of skill level, who wants to come out and have a good time! If you are joining by yourself, we can find a team for you and if you have a group, you can start your own team! Before the start of the season, we will schedule a play-day to get to know one another and to answer any questions. If you have any questions please let us know: email: tmslcommissioner@yahoo.com or visit our Facebook page- https://www.facebook.com/Tulsasoftball/ Tulsa Metro Softball League is dedicated to the promotion of amateur softball for all persons regardless of age, race, creed, religion, sex, sexual orientation, or national origin, with special emphasis placed on the participation of members of the Gay Community of the Tulsa Metro Area. LGBTQ Leadership Program Applications Sought _, ,, Il l/// Created in partnership with Oklahomans for Equality and Leadership Tulsa, the Lead Together LGBTQ Leadership Program is now accepting applications for its first class. Lead Together is the only program in Oklahoma addressing LGBTQ leadership development. LEADTffi~T~-H~R “We see persistent gaps within leadership ranks that overlook the talents of lesbians, gay men, bisexuals, transgender and queer or questioning individuals,” said Jose Vega, program director for Oklahomans for Equality. “The aim is to accelerate the careers and possibilities for qualified LGBTQ leaders by offering an exceptional learning environment and networking opportunities. “We know there are a number of outstanding LGBTQ professionals, and this is the only program of its kind in the state,” Vega said. “Its design speaks forcefully to the next generation of LGBTQ leaders who are highly motivated agents for change. “Leadership Tulsa is pleased to provide additional opportunities for leadership development in our community, and we look forward to equipping LGBTQ leaders to build their influence, build a valuable network, and develop new models and mindsets for innovation using design thinking,” added Marcia-Bruno Todd, Leadership Tulsa’s program director. “Participants will explore how their LGBTQ identity influences and strengthens their personal leadership style while learning about LGBTQ history and the national movement.” LGBTQ and ally professionals are invited to apply to this four-month program, which includes an orientation, six daylong sessions, volunteering for Tulsa Pride, and opportunities to network and explore the region with fellow class members. Applications are due by 5:00 p.m. on January 31, 2019. 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 12 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... Click here for more information. Click here for the application. AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org . Inclement Weather Policy In the event of inclement weather, please contact the center to confirm the program you wish to participate in will be meeting. Although the center does not close, many times program leaders choose to cancel their programs due to hazardous conditions. We will post updates on OkEq Facebook pages. 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 13 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... Thesis Research Study Please consider participating in my thesis research study examining the connection between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) identity, community connection, and resilience! This study is approved by the institutional review board at Northeastern State University and under the supervision of my thesis chair, Dr. Steven Byers. In order to be eligible for the study, you must: Be 18 years of age at the time of completion Identify as LGBTQ+ To participate in the study, please complete the survey here . The survey will take about 20 to 30 minutes to complete. You can be entered to win a $25.00 Amazon gift card if you provide an email address at the end of the survey. This study is anonymous. The only identifying information which will be collected is demographic information, and will not specifically identify you. You will be asked to provide an email at the conclusion of the survey to be entered in the raffle if you so wish, but are not required to do so. Participation in this study is voluntary. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you may close the browser window at any time. If you do not want to answer a question, you may skip any question in this survey. If you have any questions, please contact Jordan Westcott ( Westcott@nsuok.edu ) or Dr. Steven Byers ( byerss@nsuok.edu ). We hope that you choose to participate in this study and share your experience! PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT IN AN UNDERSERVED POPULATION "' •• The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. Additionally, the field of psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures tell us about transgender individuals! 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 14 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... YOU ARE ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. It involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take approximately two hours of your time. After completing the study, you will receive a $15.00 gift card. For questions or to participate. contact doctoral student researcher William Bryant Email: william-br nt utulsa.ed Cell Phone: 330 322-2442 his be1 niv cted as part of the student researcher's dissertation for the i al P'sycholo m. scs masculinity, affirmation, and self-conceptualization study 0 • • Join our study for trans individuals who identify on a spectrum of masculinity. R 0 T BE COHPENSATED FOR YOUR TIHE Please contact projectmascseumich.edu with any questions 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 15 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... Are you a man who is living in a non-urban area of the Midwest who is currently taking Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP/Truvada)? We are seeking men who are --.-.-----""'.'.'-7:'.'I _ __ currently talcing PrEP who live in non-urban areas of the Midwest to participate in a 60-minute telephone interview about your experiences with taking PrEP and PrEP-related healthcare. _ _ Questions? Contact us at prep@:indi Are you: • 18 years of age or older • A man (cisgender or transgender) who has sex with other men ■ Currently taking PrEP • Currently living in the Midwest and not living in a large city http:/ /go.iu.edu /21ys Ever wonder what transgender affirmative therapy is like? 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 16 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... Join a SIU study on text-message-based, transgender affirmative, cognitive behavioral therapy designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! Study includes: Pre-Treatment Assessment FREE - 6 weeks of Transgender Affirmative CBT Post-Treatment Assessment 3 Month Follow Up Assessment CONTACT US TODAY (312) 899-6195 textmessagetherapy@gmail.com This project has been reviewed by Iha SIUC H' man Subjects Committee. Questions concerning yOLW righ s as a participant in his research may be addressed o Iha Comm ee Ch • peraon. Office of SponSOO!d Projec s Administra ion, SIUC, Calbondale, IL 62901-4 709. Phone: (618) 453---4533. Email: = ~ = Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library "They Both Die at the End" On September 5, a little after midnight, DeathCast calls Mateo Torrez and Rufus Emeterio to give them some bad news: They’re going to die today. Mateo and Rufus are total strangers, but, for different reasons, they’re both looking to make a new friend on their End Day. The good news: There’s an app for that. It’s called the Last Friend, and through it, Rufus and Mateo are about to meet up for one last great adventure—to live a lifetime in a single day. N•w York Tim,s Best selling Author ADAM SILVERA Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. In the tradition of Before I Fall and If I Stay , They Both Die at the End is a tour de force from acclaimed author Adam Silvera, whose debut, More Happy Than Not, the New York Times called “profound.” 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 17 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... Equality Center Pride Store The OkEq Pride Store has handmade pride flag scarf and beanie sets! Come get yours today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 18 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com ---- Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, Feb. 21 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members It's Complicated Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGAL A10 th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 19 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... Library February 13th 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Facilitated by Allison Ikley-Freeman. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org - - - ---or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Sos Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Tulsa Area 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 20 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Lambda AlAnon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. This open Al-Anon group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. Contact 918.743.2754 for more information. Game Night Tulsa Writers, Ink. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. Join old friends and make new friends as you play An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 21 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Art for the Heart: An all Inclusive Arts Program Sundays @ 1:00 p.m. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Art is more than just pictures on the wall. Art helps people express themselves, find 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 22 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... Inclusion for People with Developmental Disabilities Saturdays @ 1:00 p.m. Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. LGBTQ+ History: Interviewees Wanted By appointment Do you feel like you have something to say about your life as an LGBTQ+ individual? Recording the history of the LGBTQ+ community is currently a feature of programming at the Equality Center. This program is designed to supplement and further complete our collective history by interviewing participants to further investigate past and present features of LGBTQ+ life and identity. Interviewees will sit down face to face and be asked a series of questions in regards to their person lives and experiences. All information gathered will be added to the existing archive. Please contact Ely at burgesej@nsuok.edu to set up your appointment. happiness, and it can help with mobility and dexterity. Art classes foster connections between individuals and helps reduce isolation many people experience. Please join us in making our community a more beautiful, meaningful place through the enrichment of art. Subjects will be elected by members from a range of topics including: glass fusing and jewelry making, mosaics, basket weaving, finger weaving, ceramics, acrylic painting, and quilting. This group is all inclusive, and encourages individuals from all age groups to come together for weekly sessions on Sundays @ 1pm. 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 23 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Jose Vega Program Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 4:53 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews 24 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews.html?soid=... Alex Wade Volunteer, Pride Store, and Transgender Programming Coordinator Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Alex.Wade@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Marcia Keesee, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Sheena Grewal, At Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Jan Baldwin Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Allison Ikley-Freeman Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn Visit our website View our events Contact us today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. 621 East Fourth Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 08 4/24/26, 4:53 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f6c60faa9f30131d88ec37b592e7d8ab.pdf d2f5803f169ac7072d8aa981bbac25a5 PDF Text Text Wild Hearts Silent Disco this Friday 1 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wild-Hearts-Silent-Disco-this-Fri... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews February 5th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! }7ayaoii Rental Properfy B okk ping 0-~C>i • 4/24/26, 4:54 PM �Wild Hearts Silent Disco this Friday 2 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wild-Hearts-Silent-Disco-this-Fri... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Featuri.V\,g Tui.bode~ux: The T~x Ther~pt, Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit by Mery McNett Thursday, Feb. 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Mery McNett, beginning with a reception on Thursday, Feb. 7, from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Mery is a Tulsa-based artist/animator and a graduate of the University of Tulsa, where she studied painting under Mark Lewis. She has had works shown throughout Oklahoma and other areas. Her work consists of various media, including sculpture, ink, watercolor, oil paintings, video art, etc. “My recent influences have been neurology and all biological and not-yet-understood aspects 4/24/26, 4:54 PM �Wild Hearts Silent Disco this Friday 3 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wild-Hearts-Silent-Disco-this-Fri... of the brain," she said. "There have been theories since the beginning of humankind about the brain, such as the influence of an individual's environment to the chemistry of the brain. In the present day, we know more about the cellular and chemistry of the brain, but many questions remain unanswered. "I have also been influenced by the imagery of the physical brain, the human figure, and incorporating portraits, showing humanity behind biological matter," Mery said. “The mystery and biology of the brain; how are memories stored and retrieved? What exactly are emotions, intelligence, and imagination? How do neurons store information? What is consciousness? All of this is what drives my passion for my current body of work.” “My work with watercolor/ink and foam sculptures all come from a fascination with microscopic organic matter, most recently, the cells that make up the brain. I find the way watercolor/ink media, when used with certain techniques like wet on wet technique, can be fluid in movement, creating images reminiscent of cells we see in biological studies, such as neurons, which my recent work is primarily focused," she said. "These media, when applied with different techniques, such as the one mentioned above, can be unpredictable, and I find that I have only a small amount of control over where the pigments flow and spread. The spray foam I use for the sculpture behaves in a similar manner. I have limited control with the media, but after I apply it to, for example, a mannequin, the final form after it falls and expands is a mystery. The final form is reminiscent of organic form such as the brain as a whole. It is also fastening because the material itself is something that is man-made and does not occur naturally.” www.merymcnett.com A door prize of Mery's work will be presented at the Feb. 7 reception. The show will continue throughout the month. 2019 Wild Hearts Ball Silent Disco Friday, Feb. 8, 7:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Have you heard of the newest trend sweeping festivals and concerts? It's called Silent Disco, and now you can experience one of these headphone parties right here in downtown Tulsa! You can access all the fun via your free-torent wireless headphones. The volume's adjustable, too, so you can control your show. Wear headphones to hear the music at this dance party, or take them off 4/24/26, 4:54 PM �Wild Hearts Silent Disco this Friday 4 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wild-Hearts-Silent-Disco-this-Fri... e ua pm and observe the Silent Shuffle. J)uuw cit. (/tail/J'iu.alita, fente't Come celebrate the 18th annual Wild Hearts Ball Silent 627 4th. lft. ou.l!a., (}9(74720 Disco. We will have live entertainment in the Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater and a dance floor in the Bruce Goff Event Center. A cash bar will be available, and raffle prizes will be given! J Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2018 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@okeq.org . 2019 Legislative Session Thus far in the 2019 legislative session, there have been no anti-LGBTQ bills up for a vote. There are, however, six bills proposed that are supportive of the LGBTQ community. Please contact the state representatives who have sponsored these bills to show your appreciation. Please visit our website for information on which representatives to contact and where they can be reached. Click here to go to website The Tulsa Sappho Sisterhood Thursday, Feb. 7, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The Tulsa Sappho Sisterhood is an OkEq program for women to share interests and connect. Our purpose 4/24/26, 4:54 PM �Wild Hearts Silent Disco this Friday 5 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wild-Hearts-Silent-Disco-this-Fri... is to build a community for women in the Tulsa area. We are an inclusive group for women of all ages and backgrounds who identify as lesbian or queer in any way, including transgender individuals who identify as women. We will strive for a variety of events: picnics, brunches, wine tastings, dinners, bowling, miniature golf, dancing, camping, hiking, biking, art shows, walks with dogs/dog lovers, game nights, movie nights, BBQs, bonfires, travel, etc. Our first meeting is a happy hour from 6 to 8 p.m. on Feb. 7th at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dr. Choate & Dr. Carlozzi Book Signing Tuesday, Feb. 12, 6:30 p.m. – 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Purchase the newest book about the transgender community, “Transgender and Gender Diverse Persons: A Handbook for Educators, Service providers, and Families,” edited by two members of the OkEq community, Drs. Al Carlozzi and Kurt Choate! TRANSGENDER AND GENDER DIVERSE PERSONS A Handbook for Service Providers, Educators, and Families Dr. Carlozzi is a professor of counseling and counseling psychology at Oklahoma State University and director of the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He is licensed as a psychologist and marital and family therapist in Oklahoma and has maintained a part-time private practice for many years, providing psychological services to transgender and gender diverse clients and their families. Dr. Choate is an associate professor and department chair of psychology and counseling at Northeastern State University in Tahlequah. He is a licensed psychologist, school counselor, and school psychologist for the state of Oklahoma and has long provided mental health services for the LGBTQ+ community at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. SAGE Program for Older Adults Tuesday, Feb. 19, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 East 4th Street, Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 I n honor of Black History Month, SAGE will host retired state Sen. Judy Eason McIntyre, who has spent a lifetime in public service. As a social worker, educator, school board member and state lawmaker, she defined a generation of black activists and public servants. In 2004, she was the only state legislator from Tulsa to vote against the ban on same-sex marriage, becoming 4/24/26, 4:54 PM �Wild Hearts Silent Disco this Friday 6 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wild-Hearts-Silent-Disco-this-Fri... a hero for the LGBTQ community. In 2013, Judy received OkEq's Legislative Ally award at the Equality Gala. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday, Feb. 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Fifteenth and Home Furniture and Design Services 1512 E. 15th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Alycia Williams Therapy is partnering with Fifteenth and Home to sponsor this month's Equality Business Alliance Mixer. Visit Alycia Williams Therapy's Website Visit Fifteenth and Home's Website The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. E ALITY Business All,ance Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, Feb. 21, 8:00 p.m. Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:54 PM �Wild Hearts Silent Disco this Friday 7 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wild-Hearts-Silent-Disco-this-Fri... LGBTQ+ Veterans Town Hall Friday, Feb. 22, 4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 All LGBTQ+ Veterans are invited to join OKEQ and Tulsa's Veteran's organization for a town hall meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Any questions please email Jose.vega@okeq.org Tulsa's Interracial Social Connections Movie Night Friday, Feb. 22, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 "Don't be afraid to expand yourself, to step out of your comfort zone. That's where the joy and the adventure lie." -Herbie Hancock Tulsa's Interracial Social Connections group is for anyone who is interested in enjoying a more diverse social community, in appreciation of all ethnicities, genders, ages, cultures, beliefs, abilities, sexual orientation, etc. Singles and/or couples are welcome as we explore our enlightening differences and surprising similarities. Future events will include cultural events, social networking, live performances, community service, ethnic restaurant explorations, day trips, gallery receptions, potluck dinners, tours, travel, movie meets, business networking and much more! 4/24/26, 4:54 PM �Wild Hearts Silent Disco this Friday 8 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wild-Hearts-Silent-Disco-this-Fri... February Pride Bingo Saturday, Feb. 23, 6:30 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ~ p . T U L S A •• Tulsa Pride Bingo is the best bingo ever, and it always sells out, so reserve your spot now! The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Las Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo bash! @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission, includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Writing Warriors Every Tuesday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Hosted by published author Amy Romine, our weekly meet-up will include discussion, debating and brainstorming and will get your creative writing juices flowing. Topics will include the kernel idea, building solid plots and characters, blogging, marketing your book on social media and many others. We are looking for all types of writers – novice, published and the “I'm-a-gonna's.” Also, all genres are invited – poets, bloggers, screenwriters, novelists, short story writers, etc. We are all writers and can learn so much from each other. All are welcome. This is not a critique group; this is an educational resource support group. Contact Amy at amyromine@outlook.com for more information or any questions. Ladies Social Club Second Friday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Follow the Ladies Social Club on Facebook to stay up to date on all upcoming events. 4/24/26, 4:54 PM �Wild Hearts Silent Disco this Friday 9 of 23 LADIES SOCIAL CLUB https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Wild-Hearts-Silent-Disco-this-Fri... LSC hosts monthly-ish social meetups for Tulsa-area women and provides a chance to make friends & develop a great support network online in our Facebook group . We schedule different activities each month and try to offer something for everyone. Single, married , LGBTQ +, ally , young in body. young at heart. nonbinary , dog lovers. cat lovers - all are welcome! for meetup info & on line community, join our facebook group! OkEq Ladies Social Club :111 LGBTQ+ wome~ ally welcome Tulsa Metro Softball League Knock the dust off your softball bat and get ready for a fun season of softball with Tulsa Metro Softball League! Sign-up information will be coming soon for our 2019 Spring softball season. The league is open to anyone, regardless of skill level, who wants to come out and have a good time! If you are joining by yourself, we can find a team for you and if you have a group, you can start your own team! Before the start of the season, we will schedule a play-day to get to know one another and to answer any questions. If you have any questions please let us know: email: tmslcommissioner@yahoo.com or visit our Facebook page- https://www.facebook.com/Tulsasoftball/ Tulsa Metro Softball League is dedicated to the promotion of amateur softball for all persons regardless of age, race, creed, religion, sex, sexual orientation, or national origin, with special emphasis placed on the participation of members of the Gay Community of the Tulsa Metro Area. 4/24/26, 4:54 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/28da5b1918d9353eb228288c685ff11b.pdf 96acc854ac642e4dcc490789d290ce63 PDF Text Text OkEq Weekly eNews February 14, 2019 1 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews-February-1... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews February 14th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Payaoii Rental Properfy k ping 4/24/26, 4:54 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews February 14, 2019 2 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews-February-1... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Featuri,11\,g TVt Lbo~ea ux.: Tvie Tax. Tueraprj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. SAGE Program for Older Adults Tuesday, Feb. 19, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 East 4th Street, Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 I n honor of Black History Month, SAGE will host retired state Sen. Judy Eason McIntyre, who has spent a lifetime in public service. As a social worker, educator, school board member and state lawmaker, she defined a generation of black activists and public servants. In 2004, she was the only state legislator from Tulsa to vote against the ban on same-sex marriage, becoming a hero for the LGBTQ community. In 2013, Judy received OkEq's Legislative Ally award at the Equality Gala. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday, Feb. 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:54 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews February 14, 2019 3 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews-February-1... Fifteenth and Home Furniture and Design Services 1512 E. 15th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Alycia Williams Therapy is partnering with Fifteenth and Home to sponsor this month's Equality Business Alliance Mixer. Visit Alycia Williams Therapy's Website Visit Fifteenth and Home's Website The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. ----- E ALITY Business Alliance Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, Feb. 21, 8:00 p.m. Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:54 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews February 14, 2019 4 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews-February-1... LGBTQ+ Veterans Town Hall Friday, Feb. 22, 4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 All LGBTQ+ veterans are invited to join OkEq and Tulsa's veterans organization for a town hall meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please email Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - with any questions. Tulsa's Interracial Social Connections Movie Night Friday, Feb. 22, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 "Don't be afraid to expand yourself, to step out of your comfort zone. That's where the joy and the adventure lie." -Herbie Hancock Tulsa's Interracial Social Connections group is for anyone who is interested in enjoying a more diverse social community, in appreciation of all ethnicities, genders, ages, cultures, beliefs, abilities, sexual orientation, etc. Singles and/or couples are welcome as we explore our enlightening differences and surprising similarities. Future events will include cultural events, social networking, live performances, community service, ethnic restaurant explorations, day trips, gallery receptions, potluck dinners, tours, travel, movie meets, business networking and much more! February Pride Bingo Saturday, Feb. 23, 6:30 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ~,. p T U L S A '• 4/24/26, 4:54 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews February 14, 2019 5 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews-February-1... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Pride Bingo is the best bingo ever, and it always sells out, so reserve your spot now! The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Las Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo bash! @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission, includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2018 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@okeq.org . 2019 Legislative Session Thus far in the 2019 legislative session, there have been no anti-LGBTQ bills up for a vote. There are, however, six bills proposed that are supportive of the LGBTQ community. Please contact the state representatives who have sponsored these bills to show your appreciation. Please visit our website for information on which representatives to contact and where they can be reached. Click here to go to website 4/24/26, 4:54 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews February 14, 2019 6 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews-February-1... Writing Warriors Every Tuesday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Hosted by published author Amy Romine, our weekly meet-up will include discussion, debating and brainstorming and will get your creative writing juices flowing. Topics will include the kernel idea, building solid plots and characters, blogging, marketing your book on social media and many others. We are looking for all types of writers – novice, published and the “I'm-a-gonna's.” Also, all genres are invited – poets, bloggers, screenwriters, novelists, short story writers, etc. We are all writers and can learn so much from each other. All are welcome. This is not a critique group; this is an educational resource support group. Contact Amy at amyromine@outlook.com for more information or any questions. Ladies Social Club Second Friday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Follow the Ladies Social Club on Facebook to stay up to date on all upcoming events. LADIES SOCIAL CLUB LSC hosts monthly-ish social meetups for Tulsa-area women and provides a chance to make friends & develop a great support network online in our Facebook group . We schedule different activities each month and try to offer something for everyone. Single. married. LGBTQ+. ally. young in body. young at heart. nonbinary. dog lovers. cat lovers - all are welcome! for meetup info & online community, join our facebook group! OkEq Ladies Social Club all LGBTQ+ wom! ally welcome 4/24/26, 4:54 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews February 14, 2019 7 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews-February-1... Tulsa Metro Softball League Knock the dust off your softball bat and get ready for a fun season of softball with Tulsa Metro Softball League! 2019 Spring Season starts March 24th! Click here to register Tulsa Metro Softball League is dedicated to the promotion of amateur softball for all persons regardless of age, race, creed, religion, sex, sexual orientation, or national origin, with special emphasis placed on the participation of members of the Gay Community of the Tulsa Metro Area. Pride Night at ONEOK Field Saturday, May 18, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. ONEOK Field 201 N. Elgin Ave. Tulsa, OK 74120 oklahomans for equality FUNDRAISER NIGHT AT ONEOK FIELD Saturday May 18 2019 Portion of Tickets to Support Oklahomans for Equality Purchase Tickets via: https: / /groupmatics.events/event/OKEQ AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit 4/24/26, 4:54 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/99da4d9dca8e77726c51ca67c3a06302.pdf 16b4fe85dc0b3342e060f36e9cb51513 PDF Text Text Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 1 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews February 19th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! }7ayaoii Rental Properfy B okk ping 0-~C>i • 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 2 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Featuri.V\,g Tui.bode~ux: The T~x Ther~pt, Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Inclement Weather Policy In the event of inclement weather, please contact the center to confirm the program you wish to participate in will be meeting. Although the center does not close, many times program leaders choose to cancel their programs due to hazardous conditions. We will post updates on OkEq Facebook pages. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday, Feb. 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Fifteenth and Home Furniture and Design Services 1512 E. 15th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Alycia Williams Therapy is partnering with Fifteenth and Home to sponsor this month's Equality Business Alliance Mixer. 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 3 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... Visit Alycia Williams Therapy's Website Visit Fifteenth and Home's Website The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. E ALITY Business Alliance Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, Feb. 21, 8:00 p.m. Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 4 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... LGBTQ+ Veterans Town Hall Friday, Feb. 22, 4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 All LGBTQ+ veterans are invited to join OkEq and Tulsa's veterans organization for a town hall meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please email Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - with any questions. Tulsa's Interracial Social Connections Movie Night Friday, Feb. 22, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 "Don't be afraid to expand yourself, to step out of your comfort zone. That's where the joy and the adventure lie." -Herbie Hancock Tulsa's Interracial Social Connections group is for anyone who is interested in enjoying a more diverse social community, in appreciation of all ethnicities, genders, ages, cultures, beliefs, abilities, sexual orientation, etc. Singles and/or couples are welcome as we explore our enlightening differences and surprising similarities. Future events will include cultural events, social networking, live performances, community service, ethnic restaurant explorations, day trips, gallery receptions, potluck dinners, tours, travel, movie meets, business networking and much more! February Pride Bingo Saturday, Feb. 23, 6:30 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ~~ p T U L S A '• Tulsa Pride Bingo is the best bingo ever, and it always sells out, so reserve your spot now! The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Las Vegas, and she has invited @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 5 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo bash! $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission, includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table LGBT Women's Network March Happy Hour Monday, March 4, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Open Container 502 E 3rd St Unit 39 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 Join us at the Open Container for our March Meetup! Come & Go happy hour for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+. Allies are welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested in visiting all LGBT-friendly locations! Tulsa Metro Softball League Knock the dust off your softball bat and get ready for a fun season of softball with Tulsa Metro Softball League! 2019 Spring Season starts March 24th! Click here to register Tulsa Metro Softball League is dedicated to the promotion of amateur softball for all persons regardless of age, race, creed, religion, sex, sexual orientation, or national origin, with special emphasis placed on the participation of members of the Gay Community of the Tulsa Metro Area. 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 6 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2018 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@okeq.org . 2019 Legislative Session Thus far in the 2019 legislative session, there have been no anti-LGBTQ bills up for a vote. There are, however, six bills proposed that are supportive of the LGBTQ community. Please contact the state representatives who have sponsored these bills to show your appreciation. Please visit our website for information on which representatives to contact and where they can be reached. Click here to go to website AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 7 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org . Writing Warriors Every Tuesday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Hosted by published author Amy Romine, our weekly meet-up will include discussion, debating and brainstorming and will get your creative writing juices flowing. Topics will include the kernel idea, building solid plots and characters, blogging, marketing your book on social media and many others. We are looking for all types of writers – novice, published and the “I'm-a-gonna's.” Also, all genres are invited – poets, bloggers, screenwriters, novelists, short story writers, etc. We are all writers and can learn so much from each other. All are welcome. This is not a critique group; this is an educational resource support group. Contact Amy at amyromine@outlook.com for more information or any questions. Ladies Social Club Second Friday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Follow the Ladies Social Club on Facebook to stay up to date on all upcoming events. LADIES SOCIAL CLUB LSC hosts monthly-ish social meetups for Tulsa-area women and provides a chance to make friends & develop a great support network online in our Facebook group . We schedule different activities each month and try to offer something for everyone. Single. married . LGBTQ +. ally. young in body. young at heart. nonbinary , dog lovers. cat lovers - all are welcome! for meetup info & on line community, join our facebook group! OkEq Ladies Social Club all LGBTQ+ wome~ ally welcome 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 8 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday, Feb. 26, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 coun lo ko Grateful Day Foundation: 2nd Annual Chili Cook-Off Saturday, March 9, 6:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle 1338 E. 3rd St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Please contact Michael James at Michael.E.James@aa.com for a registration form. ~·ratef u •..v :1 .r , Yl teoiu1u,a .t10 , ,c,r n a:\' .J Saturday, March 9 1h , 2019 Set-up - 5:00pm Judging - 5:30pm Public Tasting - 6:00pm Corporate, Peo les 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 9 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... Pride Night at ONEOK Field Saturday, May 18, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. ONEOK Field 201 N. Elgin Ave. Tulsa, OK 74120 • oklahomans for equality FUNDRAISER NIGHT AT ONEOK FIELD Saturday May 18, 2019 Portion of Tickets to Support Oklahomans for Equality Purchase Tickets via: https: / /groupmatics.events/event/OKEQ Lesbian Cinema Series Oklahoma Contemporary Arts Center 3000 General Pershing Blvd. Oklahoma City, OK 73107 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 10 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 11 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... Enrollment in adventures is easy! Call one of the centers listed below to start today, or visit The Orbit Initiative on Facebook to access the online enrollment form. All adventures are FREE and OPEN to the public! Reed Park Community Center Ellen Ochoa Elementary 4233 S Yukon Ave Tulsa, OK 74107 918-591-4307 12000 E 31st Street Tulsa, OK 74146 918-357-4330 (Two Saturdays/month): Movement and acting class: 10 am-12 pm (Two Saturdays/month): Acting class: 1oam-12pm Movement class: 1oam-12pm Hicks Park Community Center East Side Senior Center 3443 S Mingo Road Tulsa, OK 74146 918-669-6355 1427 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 918-744-6760 (Two Saturdays/month): (Every Wednesday): lmprov/acting class: 2:10pm-3:10pm Movement class: 1oam-1pm Art class: 1oam-1pm Acting class: 1oam-1pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120 918-743-4297 (Two Saturdays/month): Acting class: 1pm-3pm The Greenwood Cultural Center 822 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74120 91 8-596-1020 z --i C ::::0 m Latimer-Cooksey Arts and Cultural Foundation Solid Foundation Preparatory Academy V) 4025 N. Hartford Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 918-406-7783 (Two Saturdays/month): Acting class: 2-4 pm Movement class: 2-4 pm -I -< PUBLIC. ·, NOlt,.lNf lUAll DESIGN (Two Saturdays/month): Acting class: 11am-1pm 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 12 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... Calling Ill Cr-eQt~ve Folks! It's time to let your inner designer SHINE! The Little Blue House needs artists, designers, and all potential artist ·/desiger to enter a fa ·hion de ·ign competition. All c ntc tant will de ign and n tru t wearable fashion items 0 T OF O D M . We will i ue each participant 200 condoms for use in the project. Final fashion show design will be pre ented in a FASHION HOW fundraiser on April 6, 2019 at CONDOMA IA! Email Linda for more info and/or to r gister: linda-davi @utul a.edu. Vi it our website for additional information: LittleBlueHou eAtTU.org/ pecialEvent , ~ 1'111 a 1hi dress i made entirely out of condom ! little blue houH 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 13 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... Rose Gold Piece Of Mind FAlr"' Barbarian Crafter Time and Pressure Heel Turn The Tooth Ballista Omission Constraint Transgression Primitive Rage Life Force New Heart Undervalued ••*All proceeds to benefit Oklahomans For Equality•*• Thesis Research Study Please consider participating in my thesis research study examining the connection between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) identity, community connection, and resilience! This study is approved by the institutional review board at Northeastern State University and under the supervision of my thesis chair, Dr. Steven Byers. In order to be eligible for the study, you must: Be 18 years of age at the time of completion Identify as LGBTQ+ To participate in the study, please complete the survey here . The survey will take about 20 to 30 minutes to complete. You can be entered to win a $25.00 Amazon gift card if you provide an email address at the end of the survey. This study is anonymous. The only identifying information which will be collected is demographic information, and will not specifically identify you. You will be asked to provide an email at the conclusion of the survey to be entered in the raffle if you so wish, but are not required to do so. Participation in this study is voluntary. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you may close the browser window at any time. If you do not want to answer a question, you may skip any question in this survey. If you have any questions, please contact Jordan Westcott ( Westcott@nsuok.edu ) or Dr. Steven Byers ( byerss@nsuok.edu ). ---We hope that you choose to participate in this study and share your experience! PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT IN AN UNDERSERVED POPULATION 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 14 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... WE NEED YOUR HELP!!! The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. A dditionally, the fiel d of psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures cell us about cransgender individuals! YOU ARE ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer, gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place ac the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. le involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take app roximately two hours of your time. After completing the study. you will receive a $15.00 gift card. For questions or to participate. contact doctoral student researcher William Bryant: Email: william-bryant@utulsa.edu Cell Phone: (330) 322-2442 This study t bemg conducted as part of the student researcher's dissertatton for the niversit ofTulsa's ' lini al Psycho lob'Y Pro ram. Are you a man who is living in a non-urban area of the Midwest who is currently taking Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP/Truvada)? We are seeking men who are --.-.-.---~-:=.-~-------currently taking PrEP who live in non-urban areas of the Midwest to participate in a 60-minute telephone interview about your experiences with taking PrEP and PrEP-related healthcare. Questions? Contact us at pre¢, indiana.edu 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 15 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... Are you: • 18 years of age or older • Aman (cisgender or transgender) who has sex with other men • Currently taking PrEP • Currently living in the Midwest and not living in a large city http:/ /go.iu.edu /2lys Ever wonder what transgender affirmative therapy is like? Join a SIU study on text-message-based, transgender affirmative, cognitive behavioral therapy designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! Study includes: Pre-Treatment Assessment FREE - 6 weeks of Transgender Affirmative CBT Post-Treatment Assessment 3 Month Follow Up Assessment CONTACT US TODAY 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 16 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... (312) 899-6195 textmessagetherapy@gmail.com This project has been reviewed by the SIUC Ht.Iman Su~ Committee. Questions concerning YlllS righls as a participant in lhis research may be ad~essed lo the Committee Chawperaon. Office of SponSOn!d Projects Adnwlislra ion, SIUC, Cillbondale, IL 62901-4 709. Phone: (618) 453-4533. Email: l>IWICl!.ll,I~= Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library " Transgender and Gender TRANSGENDER AND GENDER DIVERSE PERSONS A Handbook for Service Providers, Educators, and Families Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Diverse Persons: A Handbook for Service Providers, Educators, and Families " by Dr. Al Carlozzi and Dr. Kurt Choate Transgender and Gender Diverse Persons offers mental health professionals and other caregivers information and best practices for working with transgender and gender diverse persons and their families. In each chapter, experts from a variety of fields provide an accessible introduction to medical, legal, educational, and spiritual care for transgender and gender diverse adults and youth within a range of contexts, including communities and schools in urban and nonurban settings. Appendices include helpful suggestions for online resources, as well as additional reading for practitioners, clients, and their families. With rich examples and personal narratives woven throughout, this is an essential reference for mental health professionals, as well as other service providers, educators, and family members seeking to address the needs of transgender and gender diverse persons in an up-to-date, inclusive manner. Equality Center Pride Store 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 17 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... The OkEq Pride Store now has TwoSpirit Pride Flags! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com -- Regularly Scheduled Programming 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 18 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, Feb. 21 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members It's Complicated Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, Feb. 13th 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Facilitated 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 19 of 24 child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... by Allison Ikley-Freeman. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org - - ---or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 20 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... Facilitated by John Madigan No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Survivors of Incest Anonymous This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 21 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. LGBTQ+ History: Interviewees Wanted By appointment Neurodiversity Social Group Saturday, March 9th 6:00 p.m. Do you feel like you have something to say about your life as an LGBTQ+ individual? Recording the history of the LGBTQ+ community is currently a feature of programming at the Equality Center. This program is designed to 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 22 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... supplement and further complete our collective history by interviewing participants to further investigate past and present features of LGBTQ+ life and identity. Interviewees will sit down face to face and be asked a series of questions in regards to their person lives and experiences. All information gathered will be added to the existing archive. Please contact Ely at burgesej@nsuok.edu to set up your appointment. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/24/26, 4:55 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 23 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Jose Vega Program Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer, Pride Store, and Transgender Programming Coordinator Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Alex.Wade@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Marcia Keesee, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Sheena Grewal, Acting Board Chair Board of Directors Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Allison Ikley-Freeman Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn Board of Advisors Laura Arrosmith, DO Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Jack Graham Bob Hanson, PharmD Dale Hogan Denise Reid Justin Ross Jeremy Stevens Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson 4/24/26, 4:55 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/70e25c8f693764362db0978a44a009d9.pdf 62a6ef1d8ff772884d3c910baca732f5 PDF Text Text Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 1 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews March 1st, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Payaoii Rental Properfy k ping 4/24/26, 4:56 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 2 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Featuri,11\,g TVt Lbo~ea ux.: Tvie Tax. Tueraprj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. The Board of Directors have elected new officers: We would like to announce new leadership on the board of Oklahomans for Equality. As a board, we are committed to addressing issues that arise in our community through education and kindness. We are working on continuing education and discussion for those not only within our organization but also our general membership. We'd like to be as diligent and thoughtful as possible, so please be patient with us as we transition into new leadership. The board is working on a town hall to discuss recent events as well as diversity and inclusion within the organization. Our motto for 2019 is, "Everybody counts and we count on everybody." Thank you for your support of OkEq and we look forward to growing together this year! 4/24/26, 4:56 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 3 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... ..... . ' Sheena Grewal President Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Vice President Paul Allen Treasurer Marcia LaBooth Keesee Secretary Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Member at Large LGBT Women's Network March Happy Hour Monday, March 4, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Open Container 502 E 3rd St Unit 39 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 Join us at the Open Container for our March Meetup! Come & Go happy hour for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+. Allies are welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested in visiting all LGBT-friendly locations! Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, March 5, 6:30 p.m. Saltgrass Steak House 4/24/26, 4:56 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 4 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... 4550 E. Skelly Dr. Tulsa, OK 74135 www.saltgrass.com Please RSVP with Richard at guysdinetoo@gmail.com . First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit by Scott Taylor and Josh Stout Thursday, March 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The March Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature an exhibit with a combined show, featuring the works of Scott Taylor and Josh Stout. The exhibit begins with a reception on Thursday, March 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Scott Taylor is an author and artist with a passion for emotional health. He is the Executive Creative of Colorpop Art & Design Lab in Tulsa OK. Over the last decade, he has dedicated himself to studying vulnerability, authenticity, empathy and the role of art and creative expression in the healing of trauma. Across the nation, from living rooms to lecture halls, Scott has championed the value of emotional literacy and its application in daily life. Using insights gained from his own study as well as his extensive interviews and focus groups with kids, teens, and adults, he created Jacob & the Cloak, a children’s book that imaginatively addresses the effects of trauma and its struggles. He continues his research, now focusing primarily on helping people gain freedom from their past and access true emotional wellbeing through the power of art. Josh Stout didn’t grow up knowing what type of artist he wanted to be. He came across his talent entirely by chance. Taking his daughter to a local painting class, as a way to connect and engage with one another, he discovered color and form alongside his 10-year-old. “She conjured up these wonderful landscapes and funny little creative themes,” says Josh gleamingly. “I also began to explore; it was a fabulous flow of creative spirit that was virtually untapped in my mind, it seemed.” Almost immediately, the skill that differentiates an artist from a hobbyist became apparent. Each week, the teacher would ask in fascination, “Are you sure you have never painted before?” This encouragement, seemingly trivial at the time, was essential in giving Josh the confidence to take on increasingly more challenging compositions. “The faces... I just loved them from the beginning - painting faces! It came so naturally to sculpt the human face with paint, it was almost scary! I was taught that there are no mistakes in art, but from mistakes is where I learned my greatest attributes. From my mistakes is where my style was born.” His instruction and freedom to create from that little corner of the Red Fork studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma is where Josh Stout uncovered a passion for following his intuition. Painting just happens to be one of its manifestations. Now, fast forward eight years, thirty-nine states, five countries, and countless exhibitions. From alley bashes to live painting venues with tens of thousands of spectators. Auction houses to 4/24/26, 4:56 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 5 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... Gallery receptions, Josh continues to carry one thing everywhere he continues to go... passion to live. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday, March 20, 6:00 p.m. Physiques by Monique 1314 E. 3rd St. Tulsa, OK 74120 The Tulsa Threat and Physiques by Monique are teaming up to sponsor this months Equality Business Alliance Mixer. The mixer will be held at Physiques by Monique's new location with members of the Tulsa Threat. Visit Physique by Monique's website ----- Follow the Tulsa Threat on Facebook The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. February Pride Bingo Saturday, March 23, 6:30 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ~ . T U L S A '• p Tulsa Pride Bingo is the best bingo ever, and it always sells out, so reserve your spot now! The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington 4/24/26, 4:56 PM �Everybody Counts and We Count on Everybody 6 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Everybody-Counts-and-We-Count... will fly in from Las Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo bash! @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission, includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Tulsa Metro Softball League Knock the dust off your softball bat and get ready for a fun season of softball with Tulsa Metro Softball League! 2019 Spring Season starts March 24th! Click here to register Tulsa Metro Softball League is dedicated to the promotion of amateur softball for all persons regardless of age, race, creed, religion, sex, sexual orientation, or national origin, with special emphasis placed on the participation of members of the Gay Community of the Tulsa Metro Area. Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2018 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@okeq.org . 2019 Legislative Session Thus far in the 2019 legislative session, there have been no anti-LGBTQ bills up for a vote. There are, however, six bills proposed that are supportive of the LGBTQ community. Please contact the state representatives who have sponsored these bills to show your appreciation. Please visit our website for information on which representatives to contact and where they can be reached. Click here to go to website 4/24/26, 4:56 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2a4e57498d1e4d3d322459826e19b0d0.pdf f65ec3f4b89fad382e684daabf44ffca PDF Text Text National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 1 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews March 5th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Payaoii Rental Properfy k ping 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 2 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Featuri,11\,g TVt Lbo~ea ux.: Tvie Tax. Tueraprj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 3 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 4 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit by Scott Taylor and Josh Stout Thursday, March 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The March Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature an exhibit with a combined show, featuring the works of Scott Taylor and Josh Stout. The exhibit begins with a reception on Thursday, March 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Scott Taylor is an author and artist with a passion for emotional health. He is the Executive Creative of Colorpop Art & Design Lab in Tulsa OK. Over the last decade, he has dedicated himself to studying vulnerability, authenticity, empathy and the role of art and creative expression in the healing of trauma. Across the nation, from living rooms to lecture halls, Scott has championed the value of emotional literacy and its application in daily life. Using insights gained from his own study as well as his extensive interviews and focus groups with kids, teens, and adults, he created Jacob & the Cloak, a children’s book that imaginatively addresses the effects of trauma and its struggles. He continues his research, now focusing primarily on helping people gain freedom from their past and access true emotional wellbeing through the power of art. Josh Stout didn’t grow up knowing what type of artist he wanted to be. He came across his talent entirely by chance. Taking his daughter to a local painting class, as a way to connect and engage with one another, he discovered color and form alongside his 10-year-old. “She conjured up these wonderful landscapes and funny little creative themes,” says Josh gleamingly. “I also began to explore; it was a fabulous flow of creative spirit that was virtually untapped in my mind, it seemed.” Almost immediately, the skill that differentiates an artist from a hobbyist became apparent. Each week, the teacher would ask in fascination, “Are you sure you have never painted before?” This encouragement, seemingly trivial at the time, was essential in giving Josh the confidence to take on increasingly more challenging compositions. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday, March 20, 6:00 p.m. Physiques by Monique 1314 E. 3rd St. Tulsa, OK 74120 The Tulsa Threat and Physiques by Monique are teaming up to sponsor this months Equality Business Alliance Mixer. The mixer will be held at Physiques by Monique's new location with members of the Tulsa Threat. Visit Physique by Monique's website Follow the Tulsa Threat on Facebook 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 5 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. March Pride Bingo Saturday, March 23, 6:30 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ~,. p T U L S A '• Tulsa Pride Bingo is the best bingo ever, and it always sells out, so reserve your spot now! The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Las Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo bash! @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission, includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Equality Gala 2019 Saturday, April 27, 6:30 p.m. Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 6 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... Buy Tickets Here Tulsa Metro Softball League Knock the dust off your softball bat and get ready for a fun season of softball with Tulsa Metro Softball League! 2019 Spring Season starts March 24th! Click here to register Tulsa Metro Softball League is dedicated to the promotion of amateur softball for all persons regardless of age, race, creed, religion, sex, sexual orientation, or national origin, with special emphasis placed on the participation of members of the Gay Community of the Tulsa Metro Area. LGBT Women's Network April Happy Hour Monday, April 1, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. The Local Bison 522 S. Boston Ave. Suite 103 Tulsa, OK 74103 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 7 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... Join us at the the Local Bison for our April Meetup! Come & Go happy hour for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+. Allies are welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested in visiting all LGBT-friendly locations! The Board of Directors have elected new officers: We would like to announce new leadership on the board of Oklahomans for Equality. As a board, we are committed to addressing issues that arise in our community through education and kindness. We are working on continuing education and discussion for those not only within our organization but also our general membership. We'd like to be as diligent and thoughtful as possible, so please be patient with us as we transition into new leadership. The board is working on a town hall to discuss recent events as well as diversity and inclusion within the organization. Our motto for 2019 is, "Everybody counts and we count on everybody." Thank you for your support of OkEq and we look forward to growing together this year! Sheena Grewal President Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. Vice President Marcia LaBooth Keesee Secretary 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 8 of 26 ._... https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... •~ ?;~ Paul Allen Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Member at Large Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2018 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@okeq.org . AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org . Inclement Weather Policy In the event of inclement weather, please contact the center to confirm the program you wish to participate in will be meeting. Although the center does not close, many times program leaders choose to cancel their programs due to hazardous conditions. We will post updates on OkEq Facebook pages. Writing Warriors Every Tuesday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Hosted by published author Amy Romine, our 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 9 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... weekly meet-up will include discussion, debating and brainstorming and will get your creative writing juices flowing. Topics will include the kernel idea, building solid plots and characters, blogging, marketing your book on social media and many others. We are looking for all types of writers – novice, published and the “I'm-a-gonna's.” Also, all genres are invited – poets, bloggers, screenwriters, novelists, short story writers, etc. We are all writers and can learn so much from each other. All are welcome. This is not a critique group; this is an educational resource support group. Contact Amy at amyromine@outlook.com for more information or any questions. Ladies Social Club Second Friday of the Month, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Follow the Ladies Social Club on Facebook to stay up to date on all upcoming events. LADIES SOCIAL CLUB LSC hosts monthly-ish social meetups for Tulsa-area women and provides a chance to make friends & develop a great support network online in our Facebook group . We schedule different activities each month and try to offer something for everyone. Single. married . LGBTQ +. ally. young in body. young at heart. nonbinary . dog lovers. cat lovers - all are welcome! for meetup info & online community, join our Facebook group! OkEq Ladies Social Club all LGBTQ+ wom! ally welcome Grateful Day Foundation: 2nd Annual Chili Cook-Off Saturday, March 9, 6:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 10 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... 1338 E. 3rd St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Please contact Michael James at Michael.E.James@aa.com for a registration form. Pride Night at ONEOK Field Saturday, May 18, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. ONEOK Field 201 N. Elgin Ave. Tulsa, OK 74120 oklahom ns for equality FUNDRAISER NIGHT AT ONEOK FIELD Saturday May 18 2019 Portion ofTickets to Support Oklahomans for Equality Purchase Tickets via: https: / /groupmatics.events/event/OKEQ 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 11 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... Lesbian Cinema Series Oklahoma Contemporary Arts Center 3000 General Pershing Blvd. Oklahoma City, OK 73107 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 12 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... MARCH 9 INTERVIEWS WITH MY NEXT GIRLFRIEND (2002) THE INCREDIBLY TRUE STORY OF TWO GIRLS IN LOVE 11995) APRIL 6 CENTRAL PARK (1994) ALL OVER ME (1997) MAV4 2SECONDS (2003) SURPRISE SHORT FILM MAV25 THE LESBIAN AVENGERS EAT FIRE, TOD (1993) FOllOWED BY PANEL AND INTERACTIVE DISCUSSION P.RESENTED BY HER~AND AT OKlAHOMA CONTEMP.ORARY 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 13 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... Enrollment in adventures is easy! Call one of the centers listed below to start today, or visit The Orbit Initiative on Facebook to access the online enrollment form. All adventures are FREE and OPEN to the public! Reed Park Community Center Ellen Ochoa Elementary 4233 S Yukon Ave Tulsa, OK 74107 918-591-4307 {Two Saturdays/month): Movement and acting class: 10 am-12 pm 12000 E 31st Street Tulsa, OK 74146 918-357-4330 {Two Saturdays/month): Acting class: 1Dam-12pm Movement class: 1Dam-12pm Hicks Park Community Center East Side Senior Center 3443 S Mingo Road Tulsa, OK 74146 918-669-6355 {Two Saturdays/month): Movement class: 10am-1 pm Art class: 1oam-1pm Acting class: 1Dam-1pm 1427 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 9 18-744-6760 (Every Wednesday) : lmprov/acting class: 2:10pm-3:10pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120 9 18-743-4297 {Two Saturdays/month): Acting class: 1pm-3pm The Greenwood Cultural Center 822 Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74120 91 8-596- 1020 {Two Saturdays/month): Acting class: 11am-1pm z --i C ::::0 m Latimer-Cooksey Arts and Cultural Foundation Solid Foundation Preparatory Academy 4025 N. Hartford Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 918-406- 7783 (Two Saturdays/month): Acting class: 2-4 pm Movement class: 2-4 pm (n -I -< PUBLIC. -, .t.n'lf.Wl DESIGN 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 14 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... Calling 411 CYeettLve Folks! It's time to let your inner designer SHINE! The Little Blue House need artists, designers, and all potential arti ·t ·/de ·iger • to enter a fa ·hion de ·ign competition. All ntc Lant will de ign and nstru t wearable fashion items T F D M . We will i ue each participant 200 condoms fi ruse in the project. Final fashion show design \ ill be pre ented in a FASHION HOW fundrai er on April 6, 2019 at ONDOMANIA! Email Linda for more info and/or to r gister : linda-davi @utul a.edu. i it our website for additional information : LittleBlueHouseAtTU.org/ pecialEvent f1~ ~- llilllJ rely out of condom ! little blue hour.e TWANG seeks art (literary & visual) from our diverse community of transgender, non-binary & gender non-conforming voices within or with ties to Arkansas, Texas, Oklahoma, Nebraska, Missouri & Kansas. While we are open to submissions that directly speak to your experience as a TGNC friend within these states, we are thrilled to consider any creation on any subject/theme (love poems, glitter-collages, tirades against traffic lights) as long as you identify as a part of the community outlined above. Please submit your work to twanganthology@gmail.com . Submissions are due by May 1, 2019. There is no submission fee. All contributors selected will be paid. AREGION-WIDE STORY SPACE 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 15 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... Thesis Research Study Please consider participating in my thesis research study examining the connection between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) identity, community connection, and resilience! This study is approved by the institutional review board at Northeastern State University and under the supervision of my thesis chair, Dr. Steven Byers. In order to be eligible for the study, you must: Be 18 years of age at the time of completion Identify as LGBTQ+ To participate in the study, please complete the survey here . The survey will take about 20 to 30 minutes to complete. You can be entered to win a $25.00 Amazon gift card if you provide an email address at the end of the survey. This study is anonymous. The only identifying information which will be collected is demographic information, and will not specifically identify you. You will be asked to provide an 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 16 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... email at the conclusion of the survey to be entered in the raffle if you so wish, but are not required to do so. Participation in this study is voluntary. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you may close the browser window at any time. If you do not want to answer a question, you may skip any question in this survey. If you have any questions, please contact Jordan Westcott ( Westcott@nsuok.edu ) or Dr. Steven Byers ( byerss@nsuok.edu ). We hope that you choose to participate in this study and share your experience! PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT IN AN UNDERSERVED POPULATION WE NEED YOUR HELP!!! The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. Additionally, the field of psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures tell us about transgender individuals! YOU ARE ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer, gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. It involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take approximately two hours of your time. After completing the study, you will receive a $15.00 gift card. For questions or to participate. contact doctoral student researcher William Bryant: Email: wjlliam-bryant@utulsa.edu Cell Phone: 330 322-2442 hiss n ducted as part of the student researcher· dissertatmn for the ini al P-.ycho lo m. 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 17 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... Are you a man who is living in a non-urban area of the Midwest who is currently taking Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP /Truvada)? We are seeking men who are --.-.-.. -----~---~-- - currently taking PrEP who live in non-urban areas of the Midwest to participate in a 60-minute telephone interview about your experiences with taking PrEP and PrEP-related healthcare. - - Questions? Contact us at prep@:indi Are you: ■ 18 years of age or older • A man (cisgender or transgender) who has sex with other men • Currently taking PrEP • Currently living in the Midwest and not living in a large city http: I /go.iu.edu /21ys Ever wonder what transgender affirmative therapy is like? 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 18 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... Join a SIU study on text-message-based, transgender affirmative, cognitive behavioral therapy designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! Study includes: Pre-Treatment Assessment FREE - 6 weeks of Transgender Affirmative CBT Post-Treatment Assessment 3 Month Follow Up Assessment CONTACT US TODAY (312) 899-6195 textmessagetherapy@gmail.com This pr~ has been reviewed by the SIUC H man Subjects Committee. Questions concerning ycx. rights as a participant in hrs research may be adchssed o the Comm ee Ch • pen;on. Office of Sponsoced Projects Adnwiistra ion, SIUC, Calbondale, IL 62901-4 709. Phone: (618) 453-4533. Emaa: =~= Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " Transgender and Gender TRANSGENDER AND GENDER DIVERSE PERSONS A Handbook for Service Providers, Educators, and Families Diverse Persons: A Handbook for Service Providers, Educators, and Families " by Dr. Al Carlozzi and Dr. Kurt Choate Transgender and Gender Diverse Persons offers mental health professionals and other caregivers information and best practices for working with transgender and gender diverse persons and their families. In each chapter, experts from a variety of fields provide an accessible introduction to medical, legal, educational, and spiritual care for 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 19 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... transgender and gender diverse adults and youth within a range of contexts, including communities and schools in urban and nonurban settings. Appendices include helpful suggestions for online resources, as well as additional reading for practitioners, clients, and their families. With rich examples and personal narratives woven throughout, this is an essential reference for mental health professionals, as well as other service providers, educators, and family members seeking to address the needs of transgender and gender diverse persons in an up-to-date, inclusive manner. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Equality Pride Store The OkEq Pride Store now has Two-Spirit Pride Flags! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 20 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com ----- Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, March 21 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members It's Complicated Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 21 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGALAID ~ SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, Feb. 13th 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Facilitated by Allison Ikley-Freeman. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org --- --or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 22 of 26 prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Gender Support Program Daniel & Haley A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of IL ~ II 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 23 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Survivors of Incest Anonymous This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Neurodiversity Social Group Saturday, March 9th 6:00 p.m. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 24 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 25 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Jose Vega Program Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer, Pride Store, and Transgender Programming Coordinator Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Alex.Wade@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Sheena Grewal - President Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Vice President Marcia LaBooth Keesee - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Allison Ikley-Freeman Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn Board of Advisors Laura Arrosmith, D.O. Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Jack Graham Bob Hanson, PharmD Dale Hogan Denise Reid Justin Ross Jeremy Stevens Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �National LGBTQ+ Health Awareness Month 26 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/National-LGBTQ--Health-Awaren... Kris Wilmes Visit Our Website View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat 12 a.m. - 9 p.m. | Sun 12 a.m.- 6 p.m. 621 East 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:57 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9edec5b27dee340285e72aef5ef97e42.pdf cd5b22c8e97383f597218624933ef65d PDF Text Text Get Your Pride Bingo Tickets Now! 1 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Pride-Bingo-Tickets-No... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews March 13th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Payaoii Rental Properfy k ping 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �Get Your Pride Bingo Tickets Now! 2 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Pride-Bingo-Tickets-No... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Featuri,11\,g TVt Lbo~ea ux.: Tvie Tax. Tueraprj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �Get Your Pride Bingo Tickets Now! https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Pride-Bingo-Tickets-No.. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday, March 20, 6:00 p.m. Physiques by Monique 1314 E. 3rd St. Tulsa, OK 74120 The Tulsa Threat and Physiques by Monique are teaming up to sponsor this months Equality Business Alliance Mixer. The mixer will be held at Physiques by Monique's new location with members of the Tulsa Threat. Visit Physique by Monique's website Follow the Tulsa Threat on Facebook ----- The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. 3 of 26 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �Get Your Pride Bingo Tickets Now! 4 of 26 March Pride Bingo Saturday, March 23, 6:30 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Pride-Bingo-Tickets-No... ~,. p T U L S A '• Tulsa Pride Bingo is the best bingo ever, and it always sells out, so reserve your spot now! The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Las Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo bash! @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission, includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, March 28, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �Get Your Pride Bingo Tickets Now! 5 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Pride-Bingo-Tickets-No... LGBT Women's Network April Happy Hour Monday, April 1, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. The Local Bison 522 S. Boston Ave. Suite 103 Tulsa, OK 74103 Join us at the the Local Bison for our April Meetup! Come & Go happy hour for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+. Allies are welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested in visiting all LGBT-friendly locations! Disorderly Conduct: A TLGBQ Creative Workshop Series Saturday, April 13th, 3:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Disorderly conduct is a creative workshop series for the TLGBQ community sponsored by TWANG Anthology. Through partnership with OkEq, we're coming to Tulsa on April 13th! We welcome all TLGBQ folks to join us as we discuss poetry, generate new creative work & share our stories with one another. All experience levels are welcome! Disorderly Conduct will be centering transgender, nonbinary, and gender nonconforming writers in our workshop materials & approach. The workshop itself is open to anyone who is a part of the TLGBQ or TGNC community & will be facilitated by Brody Parrish Craig. Show up with your self, a pen, and whatever stories you need to tell. This is a FREE event, though we ask that you register in advance if you are able. Registration will help us prepare ample workshop materials but if you forget or can't register in advance, please come join us that day anyway! Register online at twanganthology.org or via 'ticket' link below. 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �Get Your Pride Bingo Tickets Now! 6 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Pride-Bingo-Tickets-No... Equality Gala 2019 Saturday, April 27, 6:30 p.m. Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Buy Tickets Here 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �Get Your Pride Bingo Tickets Now! 7 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Pride-Bingo-Tickets-No... Tulsa Metro Softball League Knock the dust off your softball bat and get ready for a fun season of softball with Tulsa Metro Softball League! 2019 Spring Season starts March 24th! Click here to register Tulsa Metro Softball League is dedicated to the promotion of amateur softball for all persons regardless of age, race, creed, religion, sex, sexual orientation, or national origin, with special emphasis placed on the participation of members of the Gay Community of the Tulsa Metro Area. AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . Inclement Weather Policy In the event of inclement weather, please contact the center to confirm the program you wish to participate in will be meeting. Although the center does not close, many times program leaders choose to cancel their programs due to hazardous conditions. We will post updates on OkEq Facebook pages. Writing Warriors Every Tuesday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Hosted by published author Amy Romine, our 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �Get Your Pride Bingo Tickets Now! 8 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Pride-Bingo-Tickets-No... weekly meet-up will include discussion, debating and brainstorming and will get your creative writing juices flowing. Topics will include the kernel idea, building solid plots and characters, blogging, marketing your book on social media and many others. We are looking for all types of writers – novice, published and the “I'm-a-gonna's.” Also, all genres are invited – poets, bloggers, screenwriters, novelists, short story writers, etc. We are all writers and can learn so much from each other. All are welcome. This is not a critique group; this is an educational resource support group. Contact Amy at amyromine@outlook.com for more information or any questions. Pride Night at ONEOK Field Saturday, May 18, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. ONEOK Field 201 N. Elgin Ave. Tulsa, OK 74120 okJahomans for equality FUNDRAISER NIGHT AT ONEOK FIELD Saturday May 18 2019 Portion ofTickets to Support Oklahomans for Equality Purchase Tickets via: https: / /groupmatics.events/event/OKEQ 4/24/26, 4:57 PM �Get Your Pride Bingo Tickets Now! 9 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Pride-Bingo-Tickets-No... $10 or $5 W/ Prcmcore ticket Walk Up Ticket Sales Only $15 in advance All proceeds to benefit Oklahomans For Equality PR DMC DRE Saturday, May 18th Tulsa, OK crt The Vanguard S20 day of show 2019 • I • Bracemar .RfNT 11FF ! AM Hollow Breath Eniow No X Thanks Valleys Rose Gold Piece Of Mind FAlr~ Barbarian Crafter Time and Pressure Heel Turn The Tooth Ballista Omission Constraint Transgression Primitive Rage Life force New Heart Undervalued *""All proceeds to benefit Oklahomans For Equality"** Lesbian Cinema Series Oklahoma Contemporary Arts Center 3000 General Pershing Blvd. Oklahoma City, OK 73107 4/24/26, 4:57 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5f38280919ba870703dfd58d2f5e4926.pdf 86005f4b544eddcebaff1364801f64e6 PDF Text Text Get Your Pride Bingo Tickets Now! 1 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Pride-Bingo-Tickets-No... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews March 18th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Payaoii Rental Properfy k ping 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �Get Your Pride Bingo Tickets Now! 2 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Pride-Bingo-Tickets-No... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Featuri,11\,g TVt Lbo~ea ux.: Tvie Tax. Tueraprj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Andrew and Betty Wilmes are sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on March 19 in honor of Kris Wilmes and Dusty Gross' 15th Anniversary. 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �Get Your Pride Bingo Tickets Now! 3 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Pride-Bingo-Tickets-No... Happy Anniversary, Kris and Dusty ty!! Sponsor the Center for a Day 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �Get Your Pride Bingo Tickets Now! 4 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Pride-Bingo-Tickets-No... Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday, March 20, 6:00 p.m. Physiques by Monique 1314 E. 3rd St. Tulsa, OK 74120 The Tulsa Threat and Physiques by Monique are teaming up to sponsor this months Equality Business Alliance Mixer. The mixer will be held at Physiques by Monique's new location with members of the Tulsa Threat. Visit Physique by Monique's website -- - -- --- ----- Follow the Tulsa Threat on Facebook The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. March Pride Bingo Saturday, March 23, 6:30 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ~,. p T U L S A '• Tulsa Pride Bingo is the best bingo ever, and it always sells out, so reserve your spot now! The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Las Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo bash! @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �Get Your Pride Bingo Tickets Now! 5 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Pride-Bingo-Tickets-No... $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission, includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, March 28, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Ballet Debuts "Tchaikovsky – The Man Behind the Music" March 29 - 31 Tulsa PAC 110 E 2nd St. Tulsa, OK 74103 "As one of the most prolific composers for ballet (The Nutcracker, Swan Lake, The Sleeping Beauty) he struggled in 19th century Russia with his homosexuality. Most history books say that he died of Cholera. But there is also a theory that he was forced to commit suicide by a ''court of honor'' made up of his former classmates, out of fear that his homosexuality would be 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �Get Your Pride Bingo Tickets Now! 6 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Pride-Bingo-Tickets-No... exposed." Oklahomans for Equality applauds the Tulsa Ballet's commitment to telling the true stories of LGBTQ+ figures. Buy Your Tickets Here LGBT Women's Network April Happy Hour Monday, April 1, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. The Local Bison 522 S. Boston Ave. Suite 103 Tulsa, OK 74103 Join us at the the Local Bison for our April Meetup! Come & Go happy hour for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+. Allies are welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested in visiting all LGBT-friendly locations! OkEq Town Hall Meeting Tuesday, April 2, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Author and Diversity and Inclusion expert Risha Grant will facilitate a workshop for the membership of Oklahomans for Equality regarding intersectional issues such as sexuality, gender identity, race, religion, culture, and disability. We will also be discussing internal bias, microaggressions, and systemic racism as it relates to these topics. Disorderly Conduct: A TLGBQ Creative Workshop Series 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �Get Your Pride Bingo Tickets Now! 7 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Pride-Bingo-Tickets-No... Saturday, April 13, 3:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Disorderly conduct is a creative workshop series for the TLGBQ community sponsored by TWANG Anthology. Through partnership with OkEq, we're coming to Tulsa on April 13th! We welcome all TLGBQ folks to join us as we discuss poetry, generate new creative work & share our stories with one another. All experience levels are welcome! Disorderly Conduct will be centering transgender, nonbinary, and gender nonconforming writers in our workshop materials & approach. The workshop itself is open to anyone who is a part of the TLGBQ or TGNC community & will be facilitated by Brody Parrish Craig. Show up with your self, a pen, and whatever stories you need to tell. This is a FREE event, though we ask that you register in advance if you are able. Registration will help us prepare ample workshop materials but if you forget or can't register in advance, please come join us that day anyway! Register online at twanganthology.org or via 'ticket' link below. Equality Gala 2019 Saturday, April 27, 6:30 p.m. Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Buy Tickets Here 4/24/26, 4:58 PM �Get Your Pride Bingo Tickets Now! 8 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Get-Your-Pride-Bingo-Tickets-No... Art Call for MOREColor 2019 Submission Deadline: May 3rd Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to announce our call for entries to the 2019 MOREcolor regional juried exhibitions and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBTQ+ Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded. There is a single entry fee of $15 for up to five entries. To Enter: Go to https://morecolor2019.artcall.org/ for online submission of entries. All entries must be made online. Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 3 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org , or call for information 918-813-8993. 4/24/26, 4:58 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/90cd7feb65544d47a0a3862917b75275.pdf 896a90ab59c088e2a2e3fed53c3aa932 PDF Text Text Happy New Year 1 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews January 2nd, 2018 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! af.R.Oll 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 2 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918} 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Fe~turt-V\,g Tvt tbodea ux.: vie ax. vierapkj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, January 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality’s January showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Evelyn House, beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 3 rd , from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artist’s work will be awarded. Evelyn was born and raised in Oklahoma City and has immersed herself in the art scene of Oklahoma. She uses acrylics and resin to create her art on materials ranging from canvas to wood rounds and birch panels. She also uses resin to make jewelry and homewares. Evelyn has been fascinated with colors since she was young. 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 3 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... “In my studio, I am a scientist in search of the next experimental chemical reaction to blend colors and pop open cells,” she says. “Using a resin base with mixed media creates a unique mirror-like finish. I build up multiple layers of resin to create a depth that cannot be captured by a camera.” When she is not in the studio, Evelyn takes care of three rambunctious boys, two dogs, “a mean ol’ cat and a fussy husband.” “You can find me on my porch or on a walk most evenings sipping wine and enjoying nature,” she says. “Being an artist in this world is important to me, as I want my kids to see that their dreams can come true if they work hard and have passion that cannot be put out by rejection.” The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org New OkEq Helpline! Every Sunday, 10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Feeling stuck? Alone? Need a supportive, listening ear? Make Sunday your self-care day with a call to the new OkEq Helpline! This new and improved helpline has affirming staff available every Sunday from 10 a.m. - 6 p.m. We are here to provide support for LGBTQ+ people dealing with many topics including coming out, substance use, feeling isolated, conflict with work or family, and many more. We aim to help you address these problems by listening, brainstorming, identifying a goal, and helping you create an action plan. As always, OKEQ can also provide LGBTQ+ affirming referrals for you to put these plans into action. All people who identify as LGBTQ+ are welcome to utilize this free service. If interested, please call us on Sunday at 918-938-6537 or 918-938-6538. Let's Dream Together Vision Board Fundraiser for Dream Act Tulsa Saturday, January 5, 2:00 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Let's Dream Together-Sonemos Juntos is a fundraiser and vision board party benefiting DACA (Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals) recipients in need of financial assistance to pay their renewal application fees. 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 4 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... Your $20 donation will not only help a young "Dreamer," you also will leave with a beautiful, quirky and personally meaningful work of art that will continue to inspire and motivate you in 2019 and beyond! No previous collage experience is needed! It's easy! By creating a vision board collage using images, pictures, quotes and affirmations to express your hopes, strengths and what matters most, you will be setting a powerful intention. Speaking those hopes and intentions out loud in conversations with others reinforces their value and allows you to encourage and be encouraged by others, including DACA recipients, who will share their stories of resilience in the face of uncertainty and fear for themselves and their families. A great selection of precut words and images and a colorful array of canvas boards will be provided. If you'd like to personalize your vision board, you may bring photos, mementos and you own cutouts to add to the thousands that will be supplied. Collage + Conversations = Fun and Inspiration! Donations of magazines and school supplies are also appreciated. Reserve your space here with your $20 donation or more! LGBT Women's Network January Happy Hour Monday, January 7, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Saturn Room 209 N. Boulder Ave. Tulsa, OK 74103 The January Happy Hour for the LGBT Women's Network will be hosted by Saturn Room. Mix and mingle with ladies you don't know, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. Don't forget to bring business cards to enter our door prize drawing! 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 5 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... Tulsa's Interracial Social Connections Happy Hour Friday, January 11, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 "Don't be afraid to expand yourself, to step out of your comfort zone. That's where the joy and the adventure lie." -Herbie Hancock Tulsa's Interracial Social Connections group is for anyone who is interested in enjoying a more diverse social community, in appreciation of all ethnicities, genders, ages, cultures, beliefs, abilities, sexual orientation, etc. Singles and/or couples are welcome as we explore our enlightening differences and surprising similarities. Please join us Jan. 11 th at the Equality Center for our first happy hour and get the year started by making new friends! Future events will include cultural events, social networking, live performances, community service, ethnic restaurant explorations, day trips, gallery receptions, potluck dinners, tours, travel, movie meets, business networking and much more! King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant Saturday, January 12, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 6 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... ING &QtJEE ID January EBA Meeting Wednesday, January 16, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Holiday Inn 17 W. 7th St. Tulsa, OK 74119 Guests who stay at the Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center get the full Tulsa, OK experience. Our hotel's downtown Tulsa location places you minutes from exciting big-name music and sporting events at BOK Center and Tulsa Performing Arts Center, but also next door to quaint, historic neighborhoods and Utica Square Shopping Center. Though the hotel is within walking distance of ONEOK, The Williams Companies, Helmerich and Payne, IBM, JP Morgan Chase and other Tulsa, OK companies, Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center's complimentary downtown area hotel shuttle ensures you'll always have a ride. Oklahoma State University Medical Center, St. John and Hillcrest Hospitals are nearby the hotel as well. The hotel is also conveniently located within a few miles of University of Tulsa, Brady Theater, and Cains Ballroom. The location of Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center allows you to easily spend a day on a walking tour of Art Deco architecture, viewing Native American art at Gilcrease Museum or Western art at the Philbrook Museum. Warm nights are perfect for outdoor dining on Boulder Grill's patio, located within the hotel. 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 7 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... Let Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center be a fun getaway at our stunning downtown, full-service hotel with great perks like our 24-hour airport shuttle. Enjoy our Fitness Center or swim under the stars in our sparkling, indoor pool with retractable roof and eco-friendly salt purification system. Come to relax and enjoy a memorable stay at the Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. E UALITY Business Alliance Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, January 17, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 8 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... 0J ProducNl by Pat l◄ obb, and Ab lt, 0 Ent~rta ,nm~nt l .t . .! . 1 l • ':1. LGBTQ Young Adults at Angry Axe Throwing Club Friday, January 18, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Tulsa Angry Axe Throwing Club 7 N. Peoria Ave. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the OkEq Young Adults Prism Group at the Angry Axe Throwing Club! There will be a small charge to throw axes with OkEq's help to make this experience fun. Please RSVP with OkEq Program Director Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org . The day of the event search for Jose in a beautiful purple OkEq polo shirt! If you have any questions, please text Jose at (918) 813-8993. First Pride Bingo of 2019 Saturday, January 19, 6:30 p.m. - 10:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 ~~ T U L 5 A ,, p Tulsa Pride Bingo is the best bingo ever, and it always sells out, so reserve your spot now! The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Las Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo bash! @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission, includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Trans Resource Day Saturday, January 26, 12:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 9 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... A day of community and wellness for Tulsa-area trans folks! Swing by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a chance to talk with medical doctors, lawyers, wellness professionals, and stylists. Pick up some new gear at the clothing swap and grab a bite to eat! For more information please contact Alex Wade at alex.wade@okeq.org . Trans Resource Day Saturday, January 26th, 2019 @ Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Trans-friendly health resources, including: - Medical doctors - Cosmetic surgeons - Therapists - Peer counselors - Massage therapists - Sexual health professionals Clothing swap + free care, fashion, style and hair advice from stylists, cosmetologists, estheticians, hair stylists, and other professionals. 2019 Wild Hearts Ball Silent Disco Friday, February 8, 7:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Have you heard of the newest trend sweeping festivals and concerts? It's called Silent Disco, and now you can experience one of these headphone parties right here in downtown Tulsa! You can access all the fun via your free-to-rent wireless headphones. The volume's adjustable, too, so you can control your show. Wear headphones to hear the music at this dance party, or take them off and observe the Silent Shuffle. Come celebrate the 18th annual Wild Hearts Ball Silent Disco. We will have live entertainment in the Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater and a dance floor in the Bruce Goff Event Center. A cash bar will be available, and raffle prizes will be given! 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 10 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... LGBTQ Leadership Program Applications Sought _, ,, Il l /// Created in partnership with Oklahomans for Equality and Leadership Tulsa, the Lead Together LGBTQ Leadership Program is now accepting applications for its first class. Lead Together is the only program in Oklahoma addressing LGBTQ leadership development. LEADTffi~T~~R “We see persistent gaps within leadership ranks that overlook the talents of lesbians, gay men, bisexuals, transgender and queer or questioning individuals,” said Jose Vega, program director for Oklahomans for Equality. “The aim is to accelerate the careers and possibilities for qualified LGBTQ leaders by offering an exceptional learning environment and networking 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 11 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... opportunities. “We know there are a number of outstanding LGBTQ professionals, and this is the only program of its kind in the state,” Vega said. “Its design speaks forcefully to the next generation of LGBTQ leaders who are highly motivated agents for change. “Leadership Tulsa is pleased to provide additional opportunities for leadership development in our community, and we look forward to equipping LGBTQ leaders to build their influence, build a valuable network, and develop new models and mindsets for innovation using design thinking,” added Marcia-Bruno Todd, Leadership Tulsa’s program director. “Participants will explore how their LGBTQ identity influences and strengthens their personal leadership style while learning about LGBTQ history and the national movement.” LGBTQ and ally professionals are invited to apply to this four-month program, which includes an orientation, six daylong sessions, volunteering for Tulsa Pride, and opportunities to network and explore the region with fellow class members. Applications are due by 5:00 p.m. on January 31, 2019. Click here for more information. Click here for the application. AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . Inclement Weather Policy In the event of inclement weather, please contact the center to confirm the program you wish to participate in will be meeting. Although the center does not close, many times program leaders choose to cancel their programs due to hazardous conditions. We will post updates on OkEq Facebook pages. Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, January 9, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center • LEGALAID ~ h 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 12 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 SERVICES OF =-- OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary. Keep Warm Donations Needed! As we enter the winter months, Oklahomans for Equality is asking for blankets, socks, and new or gently used coats, gloves, hats, and scarves for our constituents experiencing homelessness. Please bring donations to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center front desk. 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 13 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... Thesis Research Study Please consider participating in my thesis research study examining the connection between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) identity, community connection, and resilience! This study is approved by the institutional review board at Northeastern State University and under the supervision of my thesis chair, Dr. Steven Byers. In order to be eligible for the study, you must: Be 18 years of age at the time of completion Identify as LGBTQ+ To participate in the study, please complete the survey here . The survey will take about 20 to 30 minutes to complete. You can be entered to win a $25.00 Amazon gift card if you provide an email address at the end of the survey. 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 14 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... This study is anonymous. The only identifying information which will be collected is demographic information, and will not specifically identify you. You will be asked to provide an email at the conclusion of the survey to be entered in the raffle if you so wish, but are not required to do so. Participation in this study is voluntary. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you may close the browser window at any time. If you do not want to answer a question, you may skip any question in this survey. If you have any questions, please contact Jordan Westcott ( Westcott@nsuok.edu ) or Dr. Steven Byers ( byerss@nsuok.edu ). We hope that you choose to participate in this study and share your experience! PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT IN AN UNDERSERVED POPULATION The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. Additionally, the field of psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures tell us about transgender individuals! YOU ARE ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer, gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. It involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take approximately two hours of your time. After completing the study, you will receive a $15.00 gift card. For questions or to participate. contact doctoral student researcher William Bryant: Email: william-bryant@utulsa.edu Cell Phone: (330) 322-2442 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 15 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... 1n1 ucteo a pan r me sruoem re earcner i al P'lycholog m. ni 01 senanon ror llle cs masculinity, affirmation, and self-conceptualization study 0 • • Join our study for trans individuals who identify on a spectrum of masculinity. AR YO BE COHPENSATED FOR YOUR TIHE Please contact projectmascseumich.edu with any questions TAl<E THIS,BRIEF SURVEY TO SEE IF YOU ARE B.IGIBLE RlR TIUS STUDY: t _·\ https·/,/ bi.t ly/2Pi01J'uM 1 ; ;1 • ·; 1 ·• Are you a man who is living in a non-urban area of the Midwest who is currently taking Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP /Truvada)? We are seeking men who are .----.-------"'.".:'I--- ~ ~currently taking PrEP who live in non-urban areas of the Midwest to participate in a 60-minute telephone interview about your experiences with taking PrEP and PrEP-related healthcare. - -- Questions? Contact us at prep@:indi 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 16 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... • 18 years of age or older • A man (cisgender or transgender) who has sex with other men • Currently taking PrEP • Currently living in the Midwest and not living in a large city http:/ /go.iu.edu /21ys Ever wonder what transgender affirmative therapy is like? Join a SIU study on text-message-based, transgender affirmative, cognitive behavioral therapy designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! Study includes: Pre-Treatment Assessment FREE - 6 weeks of Transgender Affirmative CBT Post-Treatment Assessment 3 Month Follow Up Assessment CONTACT US TODAY (312) 899-6195 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 17 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... textmessagetherapy@gmail.com This project has been reviewed t>y the SIUC H man Subjecis Committee. Questions concerning ycu righ s as a participant in his research may be addrnssed o the Comm ea Ch • person. Office of SponSOO!CI Projec s Administra ion, SIUC, Calbondale, IL 62901-4 709. Phone: (618) 453-4533. Email: 5111.!waJl,lllillll..llSnL Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library "Annie on my Mind" Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Liza Winthrop first meets Annie Kenyon at the Metropolitan Museum of Art on a rainy day. The two become fast friends, although they come from different backgrounds. Liza is the student body president at her private school, Foster Academy, where she is studying hard to get into MIT and become an architect. She lives with her parents and younger brother in the upscale neighborhood of Brooklyn Heights , where most residents are professionals. Annie goes to a public school and lives with her parents—a bookkeeper and a cabdriver— and grandmother in a lower-income part of Manhattan. Although Annie is not sure if she will be accepted, she hopes to attend the University of California, Berkeley to develop her talent as a singer. While they have different histories and goals in life, the two girls do share a close friendship that quickly grows into love. Equality Center Pride Store The OkEq Pride Store has handmade pride flag scarf and beanie sets! Come get yours today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 18 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 19 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, January 17 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members It's Complicated Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGAL A10 thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 20 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... Library January 9 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Facilitated by Allison Ikley-Freeman. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org - - ---or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Sos Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets Tulsa Area 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 21 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Lambda AlAnon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. This open Al-Anon group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. Contact 918.743.2754 for more information. Tulsa Writers, Ink. 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. An LGBT inclusive group 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 22 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Art for the Heart: An all Inclusive Arts Program Sundays @ 1:00 p.m. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Art is more than just pictures on the wall. Art helps people express 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 23 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... Inclusion for People with Developmental Disabilities Saturdays @ 1:00 p.m. Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. LGBTQ+ History: Interviewees Wanted By appointment Do you feel like you have something to say about your life as an LGBTQ+ individual? Recording the history of the LGBTQ+ community is currently a feature of programming at the Equality Center. This program is designed to supplement and further complete our collective history by interviewing participants to further investigate past and present features of LGBTQ+ life and identity. Interviewees will sit down face to face and be asked a series of questions in regards to their person lives and experiences. All information gathered will be added to the existing archive. Please contact Ely at burgesej@nsuok.edu to set up your appointment. themselves, find happiness, and it can help with mobility and dexterity. Art classes foster connections between individuals and helps reduce isolation many people experience. Please join us in making our community a more beautiful, meaningful place through the enrichment of art. Subjects will be elected by members from a range of topics including: glass fusing and jewelry making, mosaics, basket weaving, finger weaving, ceramics, acrylic painting, and quilting. This group is all inclusive, and encourages individuals from all age groups to come together for weekly sessions on Sundays @ 1pm. 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 24 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Jose Vega Program Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 4:50 PM �Happy New Year 25 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-New-Year.html?soid=110... Alex Wade Volunteer, Pride Store, and Transgender Programming Coordinator Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Alex.Wade@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Marcia Keesee, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Sheena Grewal, At Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Jan Baldwin Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Allison Ikley-Freeman Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn Visit our website View our events Contact us today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. 621 East Fourth Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 o• 4/24/26, 4:50 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1d00d4a1cb56845b60480882a776bb69.pdf e3c97b94d9bf3bebf1ba77c688c5a0c8 PDF Text Text Condomania This Saturday! 1 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews April 3rd, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! PafR.Oll Rental Property Bo k pu,g °'~~ 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 2 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Fe~turi.V\,g Tl-1 Lbo~ea ux: Tl-1e Tax Theraptj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Rose Potts sponsored the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for Transgender Day of Visibility in honor of her son, Kalvin Roberts. 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 3 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Sponsor the Center for a Day First Thursday Art Show Thursday, April 4, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit with a combined show titled No Extra Pieces, featuring the works of Aubree Karner and Katie Wheat Pernu, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 4th from 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. Aubree Karner has lived in Oklahoma her whole life - born and raised in Broken Arrow. From early on she was an art lover and studied it throughout her school years, including majoring in art at the University of Arkansas and receiving her BFA in 2008. She has taught art in some capacity in Tulsa for many years including in museum summer camps at Philbrook Museum and Gilcrease Museum. She currently teaches high school art in Tulsa part time while also pursing her artistic career. Katie Wheat Pernu has spent most of her life teaching others about art. She holds a degree in Art Education from Northern Arizona University and achieved National Board Certification as an art teacher. For over 20 years, Katie was a full-time art teacher who also worked as an artist. In 2015, she embarked upon an important shift by becoming a full-time professional artist who also teaches. Queers for Peers Saturday, April 6th & April 20th, 10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 4 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Please join us for a free workshop on how to support your LGBTQ+ friends and queer family! We will provide resources, tips, role plays, and other information on how to support others in the community who are struggling with mental health concerns while also taking care of your self. Breakfast will be provided, as well as opportunities to win door prizes and gift cards for participation! The second date will provide a brief review of the April 6th workshop, and provide a follow-up workshop based on feedback and questions from the first session. Click Here to Register for the Workshops It's Complicated OK Saturday, April 6, 10:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. Holiday Inn, City Center 17 W. 7th St. Tulsa, OK 74119 It’s Complicated OK is the brainchild of the Oklahoma Poly Network (OPN) and Unity Tulsa, LLC . The idea for a conference focused solely on nontraditional relationships came from the bi-monthly group, It’s Complicated. It’s Complicated began in December 2017 and has been a great place for discussion of all things outside of the bell curve. It is a therapeutic discussion group for individuals in nontraditional relationships. The group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every 1st and 3rd Monday. Click Here to Register for the Conference OkEq Night at Laser Quest Saturday, April 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Laser Quest 2909 S. Sheridan Rd. Tulsa, OK 74129 Join OkEq for a free night at Laser Quest! Bring your dinner and refreshments as we have the party room booked for our community. First game starts at 6:20 p.m. so get there on time. Wear your rainbow gear and make a team, join us on this quest and get your laser on! Any questions please contact program director Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org or 918-813-8993. 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 5 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Condomania Saturday, April 6, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 --- -- -- ---- ---- April 6th/7pt11 '1etu1is R. Neill Equality Ctr tickets: Evettt brite.cot11 lttfo: LittleJlueff ouseAtfU.org ~ Help -------us prot11ote SAFE SEX! ~ /"--. -- ,,,....._ -- - If you are a member of the LGBTQ+ community, we need your input! In 2004, the Tulsa-based “Tulsa Reaches Out” and the Community Service Council conducted a survey of the Tulsa area LGBTQ+ community to help identify important needs. More than 500 individuals responded and many others participated in focus groups, helping advise many agencies and other providers better understand and meet the needs of LGBTQ+ citizens in the area. 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 6 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Much has changed since the 2004 survey. To identify today’s needs, Tulsa Reaches Out has engaged OU – Tulsa to undertake a new survey which will aid agencies and organizations in providing services and support to the LGBTQ+ community. This new online survey will be open from April 1 until April 30 th , 2019 . If you are part of the LGBTQ+ community, we strongly encourage you to take 30-40 minutes to complete the online survey by going to the link below or using the QR code to access the survey. While certain demographic information will be collected to aid in the aggregate data analysis, no identifiable information is being requested so responses are anonymous. While most respondents are likely to live in the Tulsa area, the survey is open state wide. The data will be analyzed and a report prepared by OU in July 2019 and disseminated to appropriate organizations for consideration and action. Thank you for your consideration and participation in the survey. Please encourage your LGBTQ+ friends to also participate. If you have any questions, please contact Dennis Neill at dneillok@mac.com or 918-808-1010. Take the Survey April Pride Bingo Saturday, April 13, 6:30 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ~,. p T U L S A '• Tulsa Pride Bingo is the best bingo ever, and it always sells out, so reserve your spot now! The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Las Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo bash! @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission, includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Disorderly Conduct: A TLGBQ Creative Workshop Series Saturday, April 13, 3:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 7 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Disorderly conduct is a creative workshop series for the TLGBQ community sponsored by TWANG Anthology. Through partnership with OkEq, we're coming to Tulsa on April 13th! We welcome all TLGBQ folks to join us as we discuss poetry, generate new creative work & share our stories with one another. All experience levels are welcome! Disorderly Conduct will be centering transgender, nonbinary, and gender nonconforming writers in our workshop materials & approach. The workshop itself is open to anyone who is a part of the TLGBQ or TGNC community & will be facilitated by Brody Parrish Craig. Show up with your self, a pen, and whatever stories you need to tell. This is a FREE event, though we ask that you register in advance if you are able. Registration will help us prepare ample workshop materials but if you forget or can't register in advance, please come join us that day anyway! Register Online Here Grateful Day's Annual Community Awards Banquet Pasta Saturday, April 13, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Please join us for our Annual Community Awards and Banquet. Each year we celebrate those members of the commUNITY, that help in the progress of HIV support and education. We honor those who help us, help others living with HIV/AIDS. Proceeds from this event and all of our yearly events, help fund the Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 8 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Buy Your Tickets Here Tulsa Threat vs Arkansas Wildcats Sunday, April 20, 5:00 p.m. Catoosa High School 2000 S. Cherokee St. Catoosa, OK 74015 The Tulsa Threat are a professional women's American football team based in Tulsa, OK. The Threat plays 11 on 11, NCAArules tackle football against teams nationwide in the Independent Women's Football Alliance (WFA). The team was established in 2011 and completed their first season in the spring of that year. Follow the Tulsa Threat on Facebook Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thomas Farnan-Williams: Heroes and Villians Thursday, April 18, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 9 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... April EBA Mixer Wednesday, April 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Tulsa Opera 1610 S. Boulder Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 The Tulsa Opera will be hosting the April Equality Business Mixer. Tulsa Opera excels at producing bold, brave, and brilliant, fresh productions of opera classics. We accomplish this by identifying excellent young singers, then pairing them with conductors and stage directors who can improve their artistic talents. The Opera, throughout its history, has articulated the desire of local leaders to create and maintain a world-class city. Tulsa Opera was the first performing arts organization established in Oklahoma. Opera is in Tulsa’s DNA, and communication with our patrons confirms that our community has a robust – and now reinvigorated – commitment to our success. Visit the Tulsa Opera's Website Equality Gala 2019 Saturday, April 27, 6:30 p.m. Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Tickets and Sponsorships Available 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 10 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Art Call for MOREColor 2019 Submission Deadline: May 3rd Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to announce our call for entries to the 2019 MOREcolor regional juried exhibitions and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBTQ+ Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded. There is a single entry fee of $15 for up to five entries. All entries must be made online. Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 3 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org , or call for information 918-813-8993. Submit Your Entries Here 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 11 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Paws for Pride: Pet Photo Fundraiser Saturday, May 4, 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 When was the last time you had your pet professionally photographed? We all know how difficult it can be to capture our fur babies personality (especially if yours like to play as much as ours). American Airlines PRIDE Employee Business Resource Group and Tina McMayo of Tina Franco Photography will be on site at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to host the 'Paws for Pride' mini photo shoots for you and your fur babies. Pictures are done on a first come, first served basis starting at 9:00 a.m. and going until 5:00 p.m. A donation of $20 or more will get you a quality jpeg file that you and your lovelies can cherish for years to come! Paws for Pride will benefit American Airlines PRIDE Employee Business Resource Group partner organizations: A Friend for a Friend, a local (501c3) here in green country that supports the pets of people living with AIDS/HIV and the Grateful Day Foundation which seeks to fill gaps in Oklahoma’s HIV/AIDS wellness community through collaboration with partner organizations providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. We ask that you please take your pets comfort into consideration. If your fur baby tends to be anxious, aggressive, or territorial, this event may not be the best setting. For the safety of all, please respect and understand your animals comfort level. LGBT Women's Network May Happy Hour Monday, May 6, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Open Container 502 E. 3rd St. Unit 39 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 We're going to head over to Open Container again in May with better weather this time, we're sure! Our monthly meetups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+. Allies are always welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested to visit all LGBT-friendly locations! 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 12 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... fl'GBT Jf'Jj111n1 Network Movie Night with OkEq Bartlesville Friday, May 10, 7:00 p.m. Heritage Theatre Cafe and Pub 306 E. Don Tyler Ave. Dewey, OK 74029 OKEQ-Bartlesville is pleased to announce our first Movie Night! The Bartlesville Film Society is working with us to bring you "Love, Simon" on May 10th at the Heritage Theatre Cafe and Pub in Dewey, Oklahoma. The synopsis for "Love, Simon": Everyone deserves a great love story, but for 17-year-old Simon Spier, it's a little more complicated. He hasn't told his family or friends that he's gay, and he doesn't know the identity of the anonymous classmate that he's fallen for online. Resolving both issues proves hilarious, terrifying and life-changing. The event is open to all ages, but the film is rated PG-13. Please exercise your best judgment. AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . Pride Night at ONEOK Field Saturday, May 18, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. ONEOK Field 201 N. Elgin Ave. 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 13 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Tulsa, OK 74120 oklahomans for equality FUNDRAISER NIGHT AT ONEOK FIELD Saturday May 18 2019 Portion of Tickets to Support Oklahomans for Equality Purchase Tickets via: https: / /groupmatics.events/event/OKEQ 2019 Tulsa Pride Presents Icona Pop! Be there front and center when Icona Pop takes the stage! Limited VIP Meet and Greet Tickets are now on sale! Tickets to the VIP Area gets you right in front of the Main Stage Action all weekend! Don't forget that the VIP tickets get you access to the VIP bar area and a 2019 all access light bracelet. The Pride Festival opens Friday, May 31st at 5:00 p.m. Meet and Greet starts right before they take the stage at 7:00 p.m. Buy Your Tickets Now! Writing Warriors Every Tuesday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 14 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Hosted by published author Amy Romine, our weekly meet-up will include discussion, debating and brainstorming and will get your creative writing juices flowing. Topics will include the kernel idea, building solid plots and characters, blogging, marketing your book on social media and many others. We are looking for all types of writers – novice, published and the “I'm-a-gonna's.” Also, all genres are invited – poets, bloggers, screenwriters, novelists, short story writers, etc. We are all writers and can learn so much from each other. All are welcome. This is not a critique group; this is an educational resource support group. Contact Amy at amyromine@outlook.com for more information or any questions. 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 15 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Lesbian Cinema Series Oklahoma Contemporary Arts Center 3000 General Pershing Blvd. Oklahoma City, OK 73107 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 16 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Enrollment in adventures 1s easy! Call one of the centers listed below to start today, or visit The Orbit Initiative on Facebook to access the online enrollment form. All adventures are FREE and OPEN to the public! Reed Park Community Center Ellen Ochoa Elementary 4233 S Yukon Ave Tulsa, OK 74107 918-591-4307 (Two Saturdays/month): Movement and acting class: 10 am-12 pm 12000 E 31st Street Tulsa, OK 74146 918-357-4330 (Two Saturdays/month}: Acting class: 1Dam-12pm Movement class: 1Dam-12pm Hicks Park Community Center East Side Senior Center 3443 S Mingo Road Tulsa, OK 74146 918-669-6355 (Two Saturdays/month): Movement class: 1oam-1 pm Art class: 1oam-1pm Acting class: 1oam-tpm 1427 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 918-744-6760 (Every Wednesday): lmprov/acting class: 2:10pm-3:10pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th Street Tulsa. OK 74120 918-743-4297 {Two Saturdays/month): Acting class: 1pm-3pm The Greenwood Cultural Center 822 Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74120 91 8-596· 1020 (Two Saturdays/month): Acting class: 11am-1pm C :::a m Latimer-Cooksey Arts and Cultural Foundation Solid Foundation Preparatory Academy 4025 N. Hartford Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 918-406-7783 (Two Saturdays/month): Acting class: 2-4 pm Movement class: 2-4 pm z-, V) ---I -< PUBLIC. WOllaJA/llt.Wl DESIGN TWANG seeks art (literary & visual) from our diverse community of transgender, non-binary & gender non-conforming voices within or with ties to Arkansas, Texas, Oklahoma, Nebraska, Missouri & Kansas. While we are open to submissions that directly speak to your experience as a TGNC friend within these states, we are thrilled to consider any creation on any subject/theme (love poems, glitter-collages, tirades against traffic lights) as long as you identify as a part of the community outlined above. 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 17 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Please submit your work to -twanganthology@gmail.com - - . Submissions are due by May 1, 2019. There is no submission fee. All contributors selected will be paid. AREGION-WIDE STORY SPACE 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 18 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Thesis Research Study Please consider participating in my thesis research study examining the connection between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) identity, community connection, and resilience! This study is approved by the institutional review board at Northeastern State University and under the supervision of my thesis chair, Dr. Steven Byers. In order to be eligible for the study, you must: Be 18 years of age at the time of completion Identify as LGBTQ+ To participate in the study, please complete the survey here . The survey will take about 20 to 30 minutes to complete. You can be entered to win a $25.00 Amazon gift card if you provide an email address at the end of the survey. This study is anonymous. The only identifying information which will be collected is demographic information, and will not specifically identify you. You will be asked to provide an email at the conclusion of the survey to be entered in the raffle if you so wish, but are not required to do so. Participation in this study is voluntary. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you may close the browser window at any time. If you do not want to answer a question, you may skip any question in this survey. If you have any questions, please contact Jordan Westcott ( Westcott@nsuok.edu ) or Dr. Steven Byers ( byerss@nsuok.edu ). We hope that you choose to participate in this study and share your experience! 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 19 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT IN AN UNDERSERVED POPULATION WE NEED YOUR HELP!!! The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. Additionally, the field of psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures cell us about cransgender individuals! YOU ARE ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. It involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take approximately two hours of your time. After completing the study, you will receive a $15.00 gift card. For questions or to participate. contact doctoral student researcher William Bryant: Email: william-bryant@utulsa.edu Cell Phone: 330 322-2442 hiss cted as part of the student researcher's dissertation for the i :i i P'lycholo m. it d to b in tud • n f pirit, hi ati ung adu l ing wna and m nta h. r + oung adult i e LGB b t \: h ha an tabli h d 2 gift rd fi r ur tim . trib I affi liati n t parti ipat . Y u \: i II r 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 20 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... \ want t und r tand of traumati data i II n d pa n m that numb rand If ng adult ' id ntiti hap th ir int rpr tati n ir m nta I health t h alth rvt 11 ur i .. 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Contact us at prep@indi Are you: ■ 18 years of age or older • A man (cisgender or transgender) who has sex with other men • Currently taking PrEP 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 21 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... e compensa e with a $20 Amazon electronic gift card for participating w1 the Midwest and not living in a large city .uuµ. 1 1 5u . .1u.c:uu /21ys Ever wonder what transgender affirmative therapy is like? Join a SIU study on text-message-based, transgender affirmative, cognitive behavioral therapy designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! Study includes: Pre-Treatment Assessment FREE - 6 weeks of Transgender Affirmative CBT Post-Treatment Assessment 3 Month Follow Up Assessment CONTACT US TODAY (312) 899-6195 textmessagetherapy@gmail.com This proji!ct has been reviewed by the SIUC Htiman S u ~ Committee. Questions concerning ylll.W rights as a participant in his research may be addressed o the Comm ee Ch • person. Office of Spon50f8d Projects Adnwlistra ion, SIUC, Calbondale, IL 62901-4 709. Phone: (618) 453-4533. Emaa: =~iD..1..1:!;nL 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 22 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Joe and Nancy McDonald Library "Tchaikovsky: A Biography" by Anthony Holden " Tchaikovsky (1840^-93) had a secret: he was Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. homosexual. He could not live openly and be a public person, which produced a personal conflict that ultimately killed him. Holden concentrates on Tchaikovsky's feelings and relationships. He was a caring man who financially supported many friends and relatives when they were down. His sympathy for and failed relationships with women motivated him to write the Romeo and Juliet and Francesca da Rimini overtures, and his suffering over his isolation from society because of homosexuality found expression in his fourth and sixth symphonies and the opera Eugene Onegin . Death haunted him: his own mortality and the passings of close friends eventuated in some of his most expressive works, especially that sixth symphony, the Pathetique . In conclusion, Holden argues that Tchaikovsky's death was not from cholera, but a suicide by arsenic poisoning, committed on account of indiscretions with the Tsar's nephew. Holden certainly labors over establishing the conflict between Tchaikovsky's private and public personas, but his version of the composer's life seems most authentic." - Alan Hirsch Equality Pride Store The OkEq Pride Store now has Two-Spirit Pride Flags! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 23 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, April 18, 7:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 24 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members It's Complicated Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGALAID ~ SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, April 10th 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Facilitated by Allison Ikley-Freeman. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org --- --or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 25 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sao-e ~~~~:~~! ~~ LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Sos Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 26 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Survivors of Incest Anonymous Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Neurodiversity Social Group Saturday, March 27th 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 27 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... 6:00 p.m. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 28 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Jose Vega Program Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Alex.Wade@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Sheena Grewal - President Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Vice President Marcia LaBooth Keesee - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Allison Ikley-Freeman Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Board of Advisors Laura Arrosmith, D.O. Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Jack Graham Bob Hanson, PharmD Dale Hogan Denise Reid Justin Ross Jeremy Stevens 4/24/26, 4:59 PM �Condomania This Saturday! 29 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Condomania-This-Saturday-.html... Will Vaughn Visit Our Website Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat 12 p.m. - 9 p.m. | Sun 12 p.m.- 6 p.m. 621 East 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:59 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f8cf6c0ce84d3dcac6fa114b3d56dde3.pdf eadc39b25e62f80589b16ad1b0e96930 PDF Text Text Pride Bingo this Saturday 1 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews April 9th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Pc)fR.Oll Rental Propafy B okk pu,g °'~~ 0 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 2 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com FeQtuyi,V\,g n,tbof1eQu,x: Tue TQ,x TheYQP!1 Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Jamie Morton is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on April 13th in honor of his dad’s birthday. Happy 79th Birthday, James! 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 3 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... Sponsor the Center for a Day If you are a member of the LGBTQ+ community, we need your input! In 2004, the Tulsa-based “Tulsa Reaches Out” and the Community Service Council conducted a survey of the Tulsa area LGBTQ+ community to help identify important needs. More than 500 individuals responded and many others participated in focus groups, helping advise many agencies and other providers better understand and meet the needs of LGBTQ+ citizens in the area. Much has changed since the 2004 survey. To identify today’s needs, Tulsa Reaches Out has engaged OU – Tulsa to undertake a new survey which will aid agencies and organizations in providing services and support to the LGBTQ+ community. This new online survey will be open from April 1 until April 30 th , 2019 . If you are part of the LGBTQ+ community, we strongly encourage you to take 30-40 minutes to complete the online survey by going to the link below or using the QR code to access the survey. While certain demographic information will be collected to aid in the aggregate data analysis, no identifiable information is being requested so responses are anonymous. While most respondents are likely to live in the Tulsa area, the survey is open state wide. The data will be analyzed and a report prepared by OU in July 2019 and disseminated to appropriate organizations for consideration and action. Thank you for your consideration and participation in the survey. Please encourage your LGBTQ+ friends to also participate. If you have any questions, please contact Dennis Neill at dneillok@mac.com or 918-808-1010. Take the Survey April Pride Bingo Saturday, April 13, 6:30 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street p T U L S A ~~ 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 4 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Pride Bingo is the best bingo ever, and it always sells out, so reserve your spot now! The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Las Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo bash! @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission, includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Lucia Lucas at Circle Cinema Tuesday, April 16, 5:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 Circle Cinema and the Tulsa Office of Film, Music, Arts, and Culture are proud to present an evening with worldrenowned opera singer Lucia Lucas. She will be taking the lead role in Don Giovanni for Tulsa Opera in a landmark performance – the first opera appearance by a trans woman in the United States. The event at Circle will be FREE, with an informal mixer from 5:00 p.m. 6:00 p.m. followed by a short film about Lucia’s journey. Lucia will take part in a post-film panel with Tulsa Opera Artistic Director Tobias Picker on the significance of the transgender movement in opera and performing arts. April EBA Mixer Wednesday, April 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Tulsa Opera 1610 S. Boulder Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 The Tulsa Opera will be hosting the April Equality Business Mixer. Tulsa Opera excels at producing bold, brave, and brilliant, fresh productions of opera classics. We accomplish this by identifying excellent young singers, then pairing them with conductors and stage directors who can improve their artistic talents. The Opera, throughout its history, has articulated the desire of local leaders to create and maintain a world-class city. Tulsa Opera was the first performing arts organization established in Oklahoma. 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 5 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... Opera is in Tulsa’s DNA, and communication with our patrons confirms that our community has a robust – and now reinvigorated – commitment to our success. Visit the Tulsa Opera's Website Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thomas Farnan-Williams: Heroes and Villians Thursday, April 18, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here Equality Gala 2019 Saturday, April 27, 6:30 p.m. Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 6 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... Tickets and Sponsorships Available Art Call for MOREColor 2019 Submission Deadline: May 3rd Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to announce our call for entries to the 2019 MOREcolor regional juried exhibitions and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBTQ+ Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded. There is a single entry fee of $15 for up to five entries. All entries must be made online. Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 3 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org , or call for information 918-813-8993. Submit Your Entries Here 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Pride Bingo this Saturday 7 of 27 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Pride-Bingo-this-Saturday.html?s... Disorderly Conduct: A TLGBQ Creative Workshop Series Saturday, April 13, 3:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Disorderly conduct is a creative workshop series for the TLGBQ community sponsored by TWANG Anthology. Through partnership with OkEq, we're coming to Tulsa on April 13th! We welcome all TLGBQ folks to join us as we discuss poetry, generate new creative work & share our stories with one another. All experience levels are welcome! Disorderly Conduct will be centering transgender, nonbinary, and gender nonconforming writers in our workshop materials & approach. The workshop itself is open to anyone who is a part of the TLGBQ or TGNC community & will be facilitated by Brody Parrish Craig. Show up with your self, a pen, and whatever stories you need to tell. This is a FREE event, though we ask that you register in advance if you are able. Registration will help us prepare ample workshop materials but if you forget or can't register in advance, please come join us that day anyway! Register Online Here 4/24/26, 5:00 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fcb3c25e5364e240e65b7f76a8ea2707.pdf e15f7e915e80836aa3cb5775d40c8419 PDF Text Text Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 1 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews April 16th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! If you are a member of the LGBTQ+ community, we need your input! 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 2 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... In 2004, the Tulsa-based “Tulsa Reaches Out” and the Community Service Council conducted a survey of the Tulsa area LGBTQ+ community to help identify important needs. More than 500 individuals responded and many others participated in focus groups, helping advise many agencies and other providers better understand and meet the needs of LGBTQ+ citizens in the area. Much has changed since the 2004 survey. To identify today’s needs, Tulsa Reaches Out has engaged OU – Tulsa to undertake a new survey which will aid agencies and organizations in providing services and support to the LGBTQ+ community. This new online survey will be open from April 1 until April 30 th , 2019 . If you are part of the LGBTQ+ community, we strongly encourage you to take 30-40 minutes to complete the online survey by going to the link below or using the QR code to access the survey. While certain demographic information will be collected to aid in the aggregate data analysis, no identifiable information is being requested so responses are anonymous. While most respondents are likely to live in the Tulsa area, the survey is open state wide. The data will be analyzed and a report prepared by OU in July 2019 and disseminated to appropriate organizations for consideration and action. Thank you for your consideration and participation in the survey. Please encourage your LGBTQ+ friends to also participate. If you have any questions, please contact Dennis Neill at dneillok@mac.com or 918-808-1010. Take the Survey Lucia Lucas at Circle Cinema Tuesday, April 16, 5:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 Circle Cinema and the Tulsa Office of Film, Music, Arts, and Culture are proud to present an evening with worldrenowned opera singer Lucia Lucas. She will be taking the lead role in Don Giovanni for Tulsa Opera in a landmark performance – the first opera appearance by a trans woman in the United States. The event at Circle will be FREE, with an informal mixer from 5:00 p.m. 6:00 p.m. followed by a short film about Lucia’s journey. Lucia will take part in a post-film panel with Tulsa Opera Artistic Director Tobias Picker on the significance of the transgender movement in opera and performing arts. April EBA Mixer Wednesday, April 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Tulsa Opera 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 3 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... 1610 S. Boulder Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 The Tulsa Opera will be hosting the April Equality Business Mixer. Tulsa Opera excels at producing bold, brave, and brilliant, fresh productions of opera classics. We accomplish this by identifying excellent young singers, then pairing them with conductors and stage directors who can improve their artistic talents. The Opera, throughout its history, has articulated the desire of local leaders to create and maintain a world-class city. Tulsa Opera was the first performing arts organization established in Oklahoma. Opera is in Tulsa’s DNA, and communication with our patrons confirms that our community has a robust – and now reinvigorated – commitment to our success. Visit the Tulsa Opera's Website TULSA @ PERA Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thomas Farnan-Williams: Heroes and Villians Thursday, April 18, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 4 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Equality Gala 2019 Saturday, April 27, 6:30 p.m. Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Tickets and Sponsorships Available Art Call for MOREColor 2019 Submission Deadline: May 3rd Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to announce our call for entries to the 2019 MOREcolor regional juried exhibitions and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBTQ+ Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded. There is a single 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 5 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... entry fee of $15 for up to five entries. All entries must be made online. Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 3 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org , or call for information 918-813-8993. Submit Your Entries Here Queers for Peers Saturday, April 20th, 10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Please join us for a free workshop on how to support your LGBTQ+ friends and queer family! We will provide resources, tips, role plays, and other information on how to support others in the community who are struggling with mental health concerns while also taking care of your self. Breakfast will be provided, as well as opportunities to win door prizes and gift cards for participation! The second date will provide a brief review of the April 6th workshop, and provide a follow-up workshop based on feedback and questions from the first session. Click Here to Register for the Workshops Tulsa Opera's production of Don Giovanni Friday, May 3, 7:30 p.m. AND Sunday, May 5, 2:30 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St. 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 6 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Tulsa, OK 74103 Invites you to experience Mozart’s Don Giovanni in a production you will never forget. Female Baritone Lucia Lucas makes her U.S. debut as the first transgender opera singer in the title role of the psychopathic seducer Don Juan. Renowned gay Uruguayan conductor, Maestro Andres Cladera makes his Tulsa Opera debut leading a cast featuring several of today’s finest gay opera singers in starring roles. Don Giovanni combines profound human tragedy and edgy comedy. Have a Friday night preopera glass of wine on us! Purchase a ticket for Friday night and meet at The Mark, The Mayo Hotel’s new wine bar. Show your ticket for a casual mix & mingle from 5:30 p.m. – 6:45 p.m. before the opera! Call Tulsa Opera (918) 587-4811 ext. 100 and ask for the 15% off discount or purchase your tickets with the link below and enter the discount code: LUCIA Buy Your Tickets Here Tulsa Threat vs Arkansas Wildcats Saturday, April 20, 5:00 p.m. Catoosa High School 2000 S. Cherokee St. Catoosa, OK 74015 The Tulsa Threat are a professional women's American football team based in Tulsa, OK. The Threat plays 11 on 11, NCAArules tackle football against teams nationwide in the Independent Women's Football Alliance (WFA). The team was established in 2011 and completed their first season in the spring of that year. Follow the Tulsa Threat on Facebook Paws for Pride: Pet Photo Fundraiser Saturday, May 4, 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 When was the last time you had your pet professionally photographed? We all know how difficult it can be to capture our fur babies personality (especially if yours like to play as much as ours). American Airlines PRIDE Employee Business Resource Group and Tina McMayo of Tina Franco Photography will 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 7 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... be on site at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to host the 'Paws for Pride' mini photo shoots for you and your fur babies. Pictures are done on a first come, first served basis starting at 9:00 a.m. and going until 5:00 p.m. A donation of $20 or more will get you a quality jpeg file that you and your lovelies can cherish for years to come! Paws for Pride will benefit American Airlines PRIDE Employee Business Resource Group partner organizations: A Friend for a Friend, a local (501c3) here in green country that supports the pets of people living with AIDS/HIV and the Grateful Day Foundation which seeks to fill gaps in Oklahoma’s HIV/AIDS wellness community through collaboration with partner organizations providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. We ask that you please take your pets comfort into consideration. If your fur baby tends to be anxious, aggressive, or territorial, this event may not be the best setting. For the safety of all, please respect and understand your animals comfort level. LGBT Women's Network May Happy Hour Monday, May 6, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Open Container 502 E. 3rd St. Unit 39 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 8 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... We're going to head over to Open Container again in May with better weather this time, we're sure! Our monthly meetups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+. Allies are always welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested to visit all LGBT-friendly locations! fL'GBT WJi111n1 Network Movie Night with OkEq Bartlesville Friday, May 10, 7:00 p.m. Heritage Theatre Cafe and Pub 306 E. Don Tyler Ave. Dewey, OK 74029 OKEQ-Bartlesville is pleased to announce our first Movie Night! The Bartlesville Film Society is working with us to bring you "Love, Simon" on May 10th at the Heritage Theatre Cafe and Pub in Dewey, Oklahoma. The synopsis for "Love, Simon": Everyone deserves a great love story, but for 17-year-old Simon Spier, it's a little more complicated. He hasn't told his family or friends that he's gay, and he doesn't know the identity of the anonymous classmate that he's fallen for online. Resolving both issues proves hilarious, terrifying and life-changing. The event is open to all ages, but the film is rated PG-13. Please exercise your best judgment. AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose G 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 9 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org . ~,. May Pride Bingo T U L S A' • Saturday, May 11, 6:30 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 p Tulsa Pride Bingo is the best bingo ever, and it always sells out, so reserve your spot now! The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Las Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo bash! @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission, includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Pride Night at ONEOK Field Saturday, May 18, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. ONEOK Field 201 N. Elgin Ave. Tulsa, OK 74120 oklahomans for equality FUNDRAISER NIGHT AT ONEOK FIELD Saturday May 18 2019 Portion of Tickets to Support Oklahomans for Equality Purchase Tickets via: 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 10 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... lll.l.J,I:)• I I ~I UUjJII IQl.l\..:).C'YC'l ll.::)/ C'YC'lll./ Vr\t::.\.{ 2019 Tulsa Pride Presents Icona Pop! Be there front and center when Icona Pop takes the stage! Limited VIP Meet and Greet Tickets are now on sale! Tickets to the VIP Area gets you right in front of the Main Stage Action all weekend! Don't forget that the VIP tickets get you access to the VIP bar area and a 2019 all access light bracelet. The Pride Festival opens Friday, May 31st at 5:00 p.m. Meet and Greet starts right before they take the stage at 7:00 p.m. Buy Your Tickets Now! Writing Warriors Every Tuesday, 7:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Hosted by published author Amy Romine, our weekly meet-up will include discussion, debating and brainstorming and will get your creative writing juices flowing. Topics will include the kernel idea, building solid plots and characters, blogging, marketing your book on social media and many others. We are looking for all types of writers – novice, published and the “I'm-a-gonna's.” Also, all genres are invited – poets, bloggers, screenwriters, novelists, short story writers, etc. We are all writers and can learn so much from each other. All are welcome. This is not a critique group; this is an educational resource support group. Contact Amy at amyromine@outlook.com for more information or any questions. Friday, May 17th _pft:~: E Tulsa, OK@ Chimera 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 11 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Enrollment in adventures 1s easy! Call one of the centers listed below to start today, or visit The Orbit Initiative on Facebook to access the online enrollment form. All adventures are FREE and OPEN to the public! Reed Park Community Center Ellen Ochoa Elementary 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 12 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... 4233 S Yukon Ave Tulsa, OK 74107 918-591-4307 (Two Saturdays/month): Movement and acting class: 10 am-12 pm 12000 E 31st Street Tulsa, OK 74146 918-357-4330 (Two Saturdays/month): Acting class: 1Dam-12pm Movement class: 1Dam-12pm Hicks Park Community Center East Side Senior Center 3443 S Mingo Road Tulsa, OK 74146 918-669-6355 (Two Saturdays/month): Movement class: 1oam-1 pm Art class: 1oam-1pm Acting class: 103m-1pm 1427 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 9 18-744-6760 (Every Wednesday): lmprov/acting class: 2:10pm-3:10pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120 9 18-743-4297 (Two Saturdays/month): Acting class: 1pm-3pm The Greenwood Cultural Center 822 Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74120 91 8-596- 1020 (Two Saturdays/month): Acting class: 11am-1pm L -, C :::a m Latimer-Cooksey Arts and Cultural Foundation Solid Foundation Preparatory Academy 4025 N. Hartford Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 918-406-7783 (Two Saturdays/month): Acting class: 2-4 pm Movement class: 2-4 pm Vl -I -< PUBLIC. DESIGN And don't forget about the al/community production of THE TEMPEST coming in June of 2019I TWANG seeks art (literary & visual) from our diverse community of transgender, non-binary & gender non-conforming voices within or with ties to Arkansas, Texas, Oklahoma, Nebraska, Missouri & Kansas. While we are open to submissions that directly speak to your experience as a TGNC friend within these states, we are thrilled to consider any creation on any subject/theme (love poems, glitter-collages, tirades against traffic lights) as long as you identify as a part of the community outlined above. Please submit your work to twanganthology@gmail.com . Submissions are due by May 1, 2019. There is no submission fee. All contributors selected will be paid. AREGION-WIDE STORY SPACE 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 13 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Joe and Nancy McDonald Library "Women Together: Portraits of Love, Commitment, and Life" by Mona Holmund & Cyndi Warwick " This new examplar of the photo-book-about- Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. relationships genre is visually outstanding. Warwick's black-and-white dual portraits of 29 lesbian couples, ranging from teenagers to golden-agers, are beautifully composed, attractively varied in pose and camera placement (from close-up to the opposite end of a room), and often tonally gorgeous. Holmlund's almost-assatisfying, newspaper-style interviews of the couples feature such telling statements as one woman's response to those who ask why it isn't 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 14 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... enough to live as gay couples now live, without the benefits of marriage: "I want the same things they have." That some of the women are famous among lesbians, like pioneer lesbian activists Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon and travel writers Pamela Robin Brandt and Lindsy Van Gelder, and others famous to the general public, like writer Camille Paglia, actress Amanda Bearse, and golf pro Muffin Spencer-Devlin, constitutes another of the book's attractions. " - Ray Olson Equality Pride Store Give your garden a little fairy magic with decorations from the OkEq Pride Store! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT I AN UNDERSERVED POPULATION WE NEED YOUR HELP!!! The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. Additionally, the field of psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures tell us about transgender individuals! 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 15 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... YOU AR ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. It involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take approximately two hours of your time. After completing the study, you will receive a $15.00 gift card. For questions or to participate. contact doctoral student researcher William Bryant: Email: wjlliam-bryant@utulsa.edu Cell Phone: 330 322-2442 his niv ducted as part of the student researcher· dissertatmn for the i al P-.ycho lo m. Thesis Research Study Please consider participating in my thesis research study examining the connection between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) identity, community connection, and resilience! This study is approved by the institutional review board at Northeastern State University and under the supervision of my thesis chair, Dr. Steven Byers. In order to be eligible for the study, you must: Be 18 years of age at the time of completion Identify as LGBTQ+ To participate in the study, please complete the survey here . The survey will take about 20 to 30 minutes to complete. You can be entered to win a $25.00 Amazon gift card if you provide an email address at the end of the survey. This study is anonymous. The only identifying information which will be collected is demographic information, and will not specifically identify you. You will be asked to provide an email at the conclusion of the survey to be entered in the raffle if you so wish, but are not required to do so. Participation in this study is voluntary. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you may close the browser window at any time. If you do not want to answer a question, you may skip any question in this survey. 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 16 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... If you have any questions, please contact Jordan Westcott ( Westcott@nsuok.edu ) or Dr. Steven Byers ( byerss@nsuok.edu ). We hope that you choose to participate in this study and share your experience! • it d to b in th r ar tud f pirit '- hi h ung adu It u a h r + oung adult t bli h d t ur tim . ' tri W want t f trauma ti data i II d, pa numb rand n n m that hap th ir intcrpr tati n adult ' id ntiti m ntal h alth t impr h aJth . AJI ur i.. I k d filing rti ipant ill b a ign d ri 10 ill ntain an identifying information. ~ If • • o • Parti • u t d th fi II ing thing : ning •n t ligibi lit . hort d phi tionnair . • on • • w la ting appro. imat I on h ur fa -t -fa ph d during the int rvi nt t d t r the d ta if u h nta t th primar in tigat r Ra h I m r ity at ra h l. hmit @o • tat . du m r information r garding th tud r 1 u ar int r hank u mu h fi r ur tim . Are you a man who is living in a non-urban area of the Midwest who is currently taking Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP /Truvada)? We are seeking men who are --.-.-------~--- currently taking PrEP who live in non-urban areas of the Midwest to participate in a 60-minute telephone interview about your experiences u ritl-, h:olr;n o- PrP' P ,:onr-1 PrJ:i'P _rpl,:otp,-1 - - 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 17 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... health care. Questions? Contact us at prep@"indi Are you: • 18 years of age or older • A man (cisgender or transgender) who has sex with other men • Currently taking PrEP • Currently living in the Midwest and not living in a large city http: I Jgo.iu.edu /21ys Ever wonder what transgender affirmative therapy is like? Join a SIU study on text-message-based, transgender affirmative, cognitive behavioral therapy designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! Study includes: Pre-Treatment Assessment FREE - 6 weeks of Transgender Affirmative CBT Post-Treatment Assessment 3 Month Follow Up Assessment 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 18 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... CONTACT US TODAY (312) 899-6195 textmessagetherapy@gmail.com This ~ has been reviewed by the SIUC H man S u ~ Committee. Questions conoe1TW19 ycu righ s as a participant in his research may be addressed o the Comm ee Ch • person. Office of Sponsoced Projecls Adminislra ion, SIUC, Carbondale, IL 62901-4 709. Phone: (618) 453-4533. Emaa: • Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com - ------ Regularly Scheduled Programming 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 19 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, April 18, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members It's Complicated Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGAL A10 thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, April 10th 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 20 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. and informed environment. Facilitated by Allison Ikley-Freeman. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org - - ---or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 21 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Survivors of Incest Anonymous This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 22 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Teresa Reno childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Neurodiversity Social Group Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Saturday, March 27th 6:00 p.m. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, Workforce Oklahoma H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 23 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Jose Vega Program Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Alex.Wade@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Board of Advisors 4/24/26, 5:00 PM �Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 24 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursdays-in-the-Rainbow... Sheena Grewal - President Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Vice President Marcia LaBooth Keesee - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Allison Ikley-Freeman Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn Visit Our Website Laura Arrosmith, D.O. Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Jack Graham Bob Hanson, PharmD Dale Hogan Denise Reid Justin Ross Jeremy Stevens Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat 12 p.m. - 9 p.m. | Sun 12 p.m.- 6 p.m. 621 East 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:00 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d1a081eb3abb0418d068ac3dc3571b51.pdf 5bd659bd7bd29d5c79a164d9f051ba9b PDF Text Text Thank You for Making the 2019 Equality Gala Great 1 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Making-the-2019... OkEq Weekly eNews April 30th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Thank you so much for your generosity at this years Equality Gala! Your donations and support are what make this work possible. Special thanks to our Gala committee: Paul Allen, Dr. Darci Hazelwood, and William Vaughn. Congratulations to our award recipients. 4/24/26, 5:01 PM �Thank You for Making the 2019 Equality Gala Great 2 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Making-the-2019... If you are a member of the LGBTQ+ community, we need your input! In 2004, the Tulsa-based “Tulsa Reaches Out” and the Community Service Council conducted a survey of the Tulsa area LGBTQ+ community to help identify important needs. More than 500 individuals responded and many others participated in focus groups, helping advise many agencies and other providers better understand and meet the needs of LGBTQ+ citizens in the area. Much has changed since the 2004 survey. To identify today’s needs, Tulsa Reaches Out has engaged OU – Tulsa to undertake a new survey which will aid agencies and organizations in providing services and support to the LGBTQ+ community. This new online survey will be open from April 1 until April 30 th , 2019 . If you are part of the LGBTQ+ community, we strongly encourage you to take 30-40 minutes to complete the online survey by going to the link below or using the QR code to access the survey. While certain demographic information will be collected to aid in the aggregate data analysis, no identifiable information is being requested so responses are anonymous. While most respondents are likely to live in the Tulsa area, the survey is open state wide. The data will be analyzed and a report prepared by OU in July 2019 and disseminated to appropriate organizations for consideration and action. Thank you for your consideration and participation in the survey. Please encourage your LGBTQ+ friends to also participate. If you have any questions, please contact Dennis Neill at dneillok@mac.com or 918-808-1010. Take the Survey First Thursday Art Show Thursday, May 2, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The May Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase will feature an exhibit with titled Neon Figures, featuring the works of Hershel Self. The showcase begins with a reception on Thursday, May 2nd at 6:00 p.m. and will stay up throughout the month of May. Hershel Self is a printmaker, photographer, and illustrator - making a living as the Creative Director / co-owner of Mythic Press. In 2009 he received his BFA at 4/24/26, 5:01 PM �Thank You for Making the 2019 Equality Gala Great 3 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Making-the-2019... Midwestern State University in printmaking and photography before moving to Oklahoma. While he continues to explore other mediums of art, his subject matter continues to revolve around the human form in either figurative or abstract manners. Neon Figures is a study of sensuality in the human form when reduced to shape and contour. Each piece begins as a figurative work that is simplified to a limited color palette of pinks, cool blues, and purples. The completed pieces of color and outline are then created using either acrylic paints, digital media, or screen printing with composition ranging from traditional to abstract. Art Call for MOREColor 2019 Submission Deadline: May 3rd Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to announce our call for entries to the 2019 MOREcolor regional juried exhibitions and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBTQ+ Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded. There is a single entry fee of $15 for up to five entries. All entries must be made online. Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 3 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org , or call for information 918-813-8993. Submit Your Entries Here May Pride Bingo Saturday, May 11, 6:30 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 5:01 PM �Thank You for Making the 2019 Equality Gala Great 4 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Making-the-2019... 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Pride Bingo is the best bingo ever, and it always sells out, so reserve your spot now! The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Las Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo bash! @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission, includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Jeremy Stevens in Panicky & Breathless: Songs that Scare the Sh!t Out of Me! Thursday, May 16, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here 4/24/26, 5:01 PM �Thank You for Making the 2019 Equality Gala Great 5 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Making-the-2019... Tulsa Opera's production of Don Giovanni Friday, May 3, 7:30 p.m. AND Sunday, May 5, 2:30 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St. Tulsa, OK 74103 Invites you to experience Mozart’s Don Giovanni in a production you will never forget. Female Baritone Lucia Lucas makes her U.S. debut as the first transgender opera singer in the title role of the psychopathic seducer Don Juan. Renowned gay Uruguayan conductor, Maestro Andres Cladera makes his Tulsa Opera debut leading a cast featuring several of today’s finest gay opera singers in starring roles. Don Giovanni combines profound human tragedy and edgy comedy. Have a Friday night preopera glass of wine on us! Purchase a ticket for Friday night and meet at The Mark, The Mayo Hotel’s new wine bar. Show your ticket for a casual mix & mingle from 5:30 p.m. – 6:45 p.m. before the opera! Call Tulsa Opera (918) 587-4811 ext. 100 and ask for the 15% off discount or purchase your tickets with the link below and enter the discount code: LUCIA Buy Your Tickets Here 2019 Tulsa Pride Presents Icona Pop! Be there front and center when Icona Pop takes the stage! Limited VIP Meet and Greet Tickets are now on sale! Tickets to the VIP Area gets you right in front of the Main Stage Action all weekend! Don't forget that the VIP tickets get you access to the VIP bar area and a 2019 all access light bracelet. The Pride Festival opens Friday, May 31st at 5:00 p.m. Meet and Greet starts right before they take the stage at 7:00 p.m. Buy Your Tickets Now! 4/24/26, 5:01 PM �Thank You for Making the 2019 Equality Gala Great 6 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Making-the-2019... LGBT Women's Network May Happy Hour Monday, May 6, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Open Container 502 E. 3rd St. Unit 39 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 We're going to head over to Open Container again in May with better weather this time, we're sure! Our monthly meetups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+. Allies are always welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message! We’re interested to visit all LGBT-friendly locations! 4/24/26, 5:01 PM �Thank You for Making the 2019 Equality Gala Great 7 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Making-the-2019... Paws for Pride: Pet Photo Fundraiser Saturday, May 4, 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 When was the last time you had your pet professionally photographed? We all know how difficult it can be to capture our fur babies personality (especially if yours like to play as much as ours). American Airlines PRIDE Employee Business Resource Group and Tina McMayo of Tina Franco Photography will be on site at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to host the 'Paws for Pride' mini photo shoots for you and your fur babies. Pictures are done on a first come, first served basis starting at 9:00 a.m. and going until 5:00 p.m. A donation of $20 or more will get you a quality jpeg file that you and your lovelies can cherish for years to come! Paws for Pride will benefit American Airlines PRIDE Employee Business Resource Group partner organizations: A Friend for a Friend, a local (501c3) here in green country that supports the pets of people living with AIDS/HIV and the Grateful Day Foundation which seeks to fill gaps in Oklahoma’s HIV/AIDS wellness community through collaboration with partner organizations providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. We ask that you please take your pets comfort into consideration. If your fur baby tends to be anxious, aggressive, or territorial, this event may not be the best setting. For the safety of all, please respect and understand your animals comfort level. Gay Men's Dining Group Tuesday, May 7, 6:30 p.m. Carrabba's Italian Grill 11021 E. 71st St. Tulsa, OK 74133 RSVP at guysdinetoo@gmail.com. Movie Night with OkEq Bartlesville Friday, May 10, 7:00 p.m. Heritage Theatre Cafe and Pub 306 E. Don Tyler Ave. Dewey, OK 74029 OKEQ-Bartlesville is pleased to announce our first Movie Night! The Bartlesville Film Society 4/24/26, 5:01 PM �Thank You for Making the 2019 Equality Gala Great 8 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Thank-You-for-Making-the-2019... is working with us to bring you "Love, Simon" on May 10th at the Heritage Theatre Cafe and Pub in Dewey, Oklahoma. The synopsis for "Love, Simon": Everyone deserves a great love story, but for 17-year-old Simon Spier, it's a little more complicated. He hasn't told his family or friends that he's gay, and he doesn't know the identity of the anonymous classmate that he's fallen for online. Resolving both issues proves hilarious, terrifying and life-changing. The event is open to all ages, but the film is rated PG-13. Please exercise your best judgment. AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org . ---- EBA Mixer Wednesday, May 15, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Inner City Vodka Bar 410 N Main St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The May EBA Mixer will be hosted by P31 and Inner Circle Vodka Bar. Inner Circle Vodka Bar is a full bar featuring vodka infusions, live music, DJ's outdoor games, and more! As the CEO of P31, Nicole is responsible for running all facets of the business. Nicole has a proven executive management track record and over 12 years of experience driving sales growth, team development and strategic planning in the banking industry. Her passion for people development, business growth, organizational structure and various other business acumen gave her the drive take a step out and pursue business ownership herself. Prior to starting P31, Nicole was Vice President at Bank of Oklahoma, responsible for all sales and leadership development activities within the retail banking space. At JP Morgan Chase she led the transformation into a client-focused company while growing sales 25% year over year. Previously, at JP Morgan Chase she led the transformation into a client-focused banking experience while growing sales 25% year over year. As Vice President and Leadership Development Lead she was responsible for all global sales and marketing activities within retail banking centers across Tulsa. Nicole as served on the board of directors of Palmer Continuum Of Care as Vice Chair and in other leadership capacities. 4/24/26, 5:01 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/cb8350da631a40c6ac5581ece5562726.pdf 45b7f3bc762b94caa18138859133533f PDF Text Text MORE Color Art Exhibition This Thursday 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-Color-Art-Exhibition-Thi... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 4th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! We would like to thank our wonderful sponsors, vendors, and volunteers for making this year's Pride so fantastic! None of this would be possible without the help of our community. This year was particularly special. For the first time ever, we had city councilors participate in the Tulsa Pride parade! 4/24/26, 5:03 PM �MORE Color Art Exhibition This Thursday 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-Color-Art-Exhibition-Thi... Many of you may have noticed the new mural on the wall of the Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater. This mural, painted by ColorPop Art Lab, is a portrait of Lynn Riggs the Oklahoma born playwright who wrote the play Green Grow the Lilacs which was the inspiration for the musical Oklahoma! We will be dedicating the mural on Thursday, June 6th at 6:00 p.m. during the MORE Color Art Exhibition. MORE Color 2019 Regional Juried Exhibition 4/24/26, 5:03 PM �MORE Color Art Exhibition This Thursday 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-Color-Art-Exhibition-Thi... Opening Reception Thursday, June 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Runs from June 6th - 10th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 The exhibition includes around sixty artists each year, representing both LGBTQ+ artists and allies. MORE Color is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980s as the TOHR Art Show. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from performance art to an opera flash mob. J9t/,. <J'lruwal (:/1:(JcftJ colO'C 2019 cRv-Lonal 3-u1t.Le.dJx/ul,Ltlon 3-U/le 6tA - lOtA fJputl,n,f. aceptlon 6tl,., 6pm - 9pm Ju.n• J)fUU&ij ~ d(ai/1 J,u.Jua. e&lltet 61' J 4tl,, 8t. cfu.ha, f}lc Council Oak Men's Chorale June 13, 14, 15, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come join COMC for an evening of Broadway hits! The 2019 spring concert will be a celebration of songs from the golden age of Broadway through modern Broadway with musical numbers from Oklahoma! , Rent Aida and Chicago and many many more! 4/24/26, 5:03 PM �MORE Color Art Exhibition This Thursday 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-Color-Art-Exhibition-Thi... For more information or to purchase tickets online. Tickets are night specific for these concerts. It is recommended that tickets be bought on the website due to limited seating. June 13, 14, & IS 8:00pm l,JB8 ....~ .. _.__.._,c.w 62111 ♦'"St'lllllo01t Buy Tickets Here •• EBA Mixer Wednesday, June 19, 6:00 p.m. Jackson Technical 611 S. Elgin Ave. Tulsa, OK 74120 ,♦.'-.•··· Jackson Technical ··r Jackson Technical will be hosting the EBA Mixer for June. "Our computer consultation services are the foundation of Jackson Technical... supporting your success, whatever your business is. Our staff has years of experience in the computer field, with up-to-date skills in the latest technologies. We employ only the best, brightest, and most enthusiastic talent available in the Tulsa area. We take the frustration and hassle out of computer use, and turn your computing experience into a smooth and enjoyable process... so you can spend time doing what you do best... your business! We form lasting relationships with the people and businesses we serve. Our prompt and personal service has earned us a reputation that sets us apart and provides you with the technology resources you need." Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Patt Hobbs & John Orsulak in Next! Thursday, June 20, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here 4/24/26, 5:03 PM �MORE Color Art Exhibition This Thursday 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-Color-Art-Exhibition-Thi... Tahlequality Pride 2019 Saturday, June 29, 5:00 p.m. - 2:00 a.m. Norris Park 400 N. Muskogee Ave. Tahlequah, Oklahoma 74464 It's time for TahlEquality Pride 2019! We'll ~ get started this year in Norris Park at 5:00 p.m. where we invite everyone to bring in their ice chests and picnic supplies. You are welcome to bring a picnic blanket, your own food, lawn chairs, canopies, children, puppies, and cheerful attitudes! Start setting up your plot of the park at 5:00 p.m. and the traditional March will begin at 6:00 p.m. on the corner of Delaware and Muskogee next to the Cherokee square. Bartlesville Pride Picnic 2019 Saturday, July 13, 10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m. Johnstone Park Bartlesville, OK 74003 BE YOU. BE PROUD. BARTLESVILLE RI JULY 13 • JOHNSTONE PARK • 10-2 Oklahomans for Equality - Bartlesville is thrilled to announce our second annual Bartlesville PRIDE Picnic! Last year, our picnic was such a success, and this year we are excited to provide even more. Our 2019 Picnic will have lots of family-friendly offerings for all ages: • Kids Zone (Sponsored by our friends at Safari Smiles Children’s Dentistry) with games and activities for the kiddos. • A Cornhole tournament with the winning prize being custom painted cornhole boards with our PRIDE logo, along with tons of other yard games to keep the competition going! • Free Hotdogs courtesy of our friends at Truity, and the ConocoPhillips LGBTA Network, and Pride66. • DJ Darku J will be keeping the party going all afternoon with fun party music. • Speakers sharing their stories about what PRIDE means to them including CeCe Cox, 4/24/26, 5:03 PM �MORE Color Art Exhibition This Thursday 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-Color-Art-Exhibition-Thi... Toby Jenkins, and several other community members. • A pet station on hand to keep the fur kids happy! Muskogee Pride Picnic Saturday, July 20, 11:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Honor Heights Park 1400 Honor Heights Dr. Muskogee, OK 74401 Oklahomans for Equality: Muskogee Equality, presents its first inaugural Pride event at Muskogee's very own Honor Heights Park! If you would like to set up a booth, become a sponsor, or a vendor please send an email to OkeqMuskogee@gmail.com. The event runs July the 20th from 11:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. with an after-event at Max's Garage. NOTICE: the picnic is for everyone but the after-event is 21 and up. AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . Enid Pride Saturday, September 21, 12:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Garfield County Courthouse 100 W. Broadway Ave. Enid, Oklahoma 73701 Mark your calendars for the 10th annual Enid Pride celebration on Saturday, September 21, 2019! McAlester Pride 4/24/26, 5:03 PM �MORE Color Art Exhibition This Thursday 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-Color-Art-Exhibition-Thi... Saturday, October 12, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Chadick Park S. 3rd St &, E. Chadick Ave. McAlester, OK 74501 SeE ~ Joe and Nancy McDonald Library "Tipping the Velvet" by Sara Waters Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. " Sarah Waters’s 1998 page-turner is the coming-of-age story of Nan, a Whitstable “oyster girl” (talk about a euphemism) circa 1890 who, upon taking in a show in her local theater, becomes smitten with the charismatic masher (male impersonator) Kitty. Waters’s heroine follows Kitty to London, where the more experienced woman schools Nan in the ways of impersonating a dapper dandy onstage. The pair begin performing as men together and become the toast of London’s music halls while simultaneously falling in love. Heartbreak eventually ensues and Nan is left to her own defenses on the streets in the big city. She dabbles in sex work to survive before she becomes a boy-toy for a wealthy older lesbian renowned for throwing Bacchanalian gatherings of women. Finally, though, without the trappings of a male alter ego, Nan comes into her own. " - Description from The Advocate Equality Pride Store 2019 Pride T-Shirts are on sale for $20 in the OkEq Pride Store. 4/24/26, 5:03 PM �MORE Color Art Exhibition This Thursday 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-Color-Art-Exhibition-Thi... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com - ------ Regularly Scheduled Programming 4/24/26, 5:03 PM �MORE Color Art Exhibition This Thursday 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-Color-Art-Exhibition-Thi... OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, June 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members • LEGAL AID t<TTi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, June 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for 4/24/26, 5:03 PM �MORE Color Art Exhibition This Thursday 10 of 13 Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-Color-Art-Exhibition-Thi... Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. 4/24/26, 5:03 PM �MORE Color Art Exhibition This Thursday 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-Color-Art-Exhibition-Thi... individuals. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. 4/24/26, 5:03 PM �MORE Color Art Exhibition This Thursday 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-Color-Art-Exhibition-Thi... members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Jose Vega Program Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 5:03 PM �MORE Color Art Exhibition This Thursday 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MORE-Color-Art-Exhibition-Thi... Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Tracy Allen Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Sheena Grewal - President Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Vice President Marcia LaBooth Keesee - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrosmith, D.O. Allison Ikley-Freeman Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Jack Graham Bob Hanson, PharmD Dale Hogan Denise Reid Justin Ross Jeremy Stevens Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat 12 p.m. - 9 p.m. | Sun 12 p.m.- 6 p.m. 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:03 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/131733d603ea299bde181939c5a040d0.pdf bee6796fabfa71de182e5533122f42b2 PDF Text Text Council Oak Men's Chorale Concert 1 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Council-Oak-Men-s-Chorale-Conc... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 11th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! June 11th is now "Reflections of Resilience Day" in the City of Tulsa! Mayor G.T. Bynum issued a proclamation declaring June 11th as a Day of Reflections of Resilience in memory of the mass shooting on June 12th, 2016 at the Pulse nightclub in Orlando Florida. Presenting the proclamation are Christina da Silva Deputy Chief of Staff and Krystal Reyes, Chief Resilience Officer with Dennis R. Neill and Jose Vega. 4/24/26, 5:03 PM �Council Oak Men's Chorale Concert 2 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Council-Oak-Men-s-Chorale-Conc... ~'> PROCLAMATION ~ - WIIUEAS._O.J-1:t",1f1!4,.a-.-i,,,,-tp,1«~ ...IMr.lH,1J,.,,,...-,..,..1p«1.,1,1,,~1-s,u,,p,"flHdtad,-J JJp,,,,pJ,~-b,gil,-of1""_1;..,,.,...qJololnoN..,.,,,..,,,.,LG•TQ__..,l,,U,,/udSl,.,,llb....,.,Md. 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For more information or to purchase tickets online. Tickets are night specific for these concerts. It is recommended that tickets be bought on the website due to limited seating. Buy Tickets Here 2019 OkEq Board Elections Oklahomans for Equality (“OkEq”) is accepting applications for both the Board of Directors and the Board of Advisors. The Board of Directors serves as the governing body of OkEq and meets monthly to address the essential functions of the organization and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Advisors serves as an advisory body to the Directors at these meetings and throughout the year. In addition to monthly meetings (and meeting on an asneeded basis certain times throughout the year), the Board of Directors are also required to: • Participate and sponsor the Equality Gala 4/24/26, 5:03 PM �Council Oak Men's Chorale Concert 3 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Council-Oak-Men-s-Chorale-Conc... • Participate and volunteer at the Tulsa Pride Festival • Participate and attend various special events throughout the year • Be a Member of Oklahomans for Equality We are looking for individuals that are driven, motivated and committed to the mission and goals of OkEq. Please keep in mind that Directors serve a two-year term and Advisors serve a one-year term. If you are interested in applying to serve as either a Director or Advisor to the organization, please notify Alex Wade, at alex.wade@okeq.org . of your interest and an application will be sent to you directly. Click Here for the Application S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Tuesday Jun. 18, Jul. 23, Aug. 20, Sep. 17, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 Members should meet on Tuesday, June 18th at 9:30 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, deserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email alex.wade@okeq.org -to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. • EBA Mixer Wednesday, June 19, 6:00 p.m. Jackson Technical 611 S. Elgin Ave. Tulsa, OK 74120 &•.... . Jackson Technical . r Jackson Technical will be hosting the EBA Mixer for June. "Our computer consultation services are the foundation of Jackson Technical... supporting your success, whatever your business is. Our staff has years of experience in the computer field, with up-to-date skills in the latest technologies. We employ only the best, brightest, and most enthusiastic talent available in the Tulsa area. We take the frustration and hassle out of 4/24/26, 5:03 PM �Council Oak Men's Chorale Concert 4 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Council-Oak-Men-s-Chorale-Conc... computer use, and turn your computing experience into a smooth and enjoyable process... so you can spend time doing what you do best... your business! We form lasting relationships with the people and businesses we serve. Our prompt and personal service has earned us a reputation that sets us apart and provides you with the technology resources you need." Pat Hobbs and John Orsulak are sponsoring th thee day June 20th th,, 2019 in honor of th thee Th Thiird Th Thu ursday in th thee Rainbow Room. Sponsor the Center for a Day Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room 4/24/26, 5:03 PM �Council Oak Men's Chorale Concert 5 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Council-Oak-Men-s-Chorale-Conc... Pat Hobbs & John Orsulak in Next! Thursday, June 20, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here Sweets & Cream Pride Party Sweets & Cream 1114 S. Yale Ave. Tulsa, OK 74112 For the entire month of June, Sweets & Cream Ice Cream Shoppe and Bakery will be donating their tips to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. They will be holding a Pride Party on June 22nd during their usual business hours. There will be Music, photo ops, and specialty rainbow sugar cookies! Come show your love and support. Tag your photos #sweetpride at the party, see you there! 4/24/26, 5:03 PM �Council Oak Men's Chorale Concert 6 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Council-Oak-Men-s-Chorale-Conc... Home of the $1.99 Ice Cream Sandwich! We would like to thank our wonderful sponsors, vendors, and volunteers for making this year's Pride so fantastic! None of this would be possible without the help of our community. This year was particularly special. For the first time ever, we had city councilors participate in the Tulsa Pride parade! Many of you may have noticed the new mural on the wall of the Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater. This mural, painted by ColorPop Art Lab, is a portrait of Lynn Riggs the Oklahoma born playwright who wrote the play Green Grow the Lilacs which was the inspiration for the musical Oklahoma! We dedicated the mural on Thursday, June 6th at 6:00 p.m. during the MORE Color Art Exhibition. 4/24/26, 5:03 PM �Council Oak Men's Chorale Concert 7 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Council-Oak-Men-s-Chorale-Conc... Tahlequality Pride 2019 Saturday, June 29, 5:00 p.m. - 2:00 a.m. Norris Park 400 N. Muskogee Ave. Tahlequah, Oklahoma 74464 It's time for TahlEquality Pride 2019! We'll get started this year in Norris Park at 5:00 p.m. where we invite everyone to bring in their ice chests and picnic supplies. You are welcome to bring a picnic blanket, your own food, lawn chairs, canopies, children, puppies, and cheerful attitudes! Start setting up your plot of the park at 5:00 p.m. and the traditional March will begin at 6:00 p.m. on the corner of Delaware and Muskogee next to the Cherokee square. Bartlesville Pride Picnic 2019 Saturday, July 13, 10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m. Johnstone Park Bartlesville, OK 74003 BE YOU. BE PROUD. BARTLESVILLE RI JULY 13 • JOHNSTONE PARK • 10-2 Oklahomans for Equality - Bartlesville is thrilled to announce our second annual Bartlesville PRIDE Picnic! Last year, our picnic was such a success, and this year we are excited to provide even more. Our 2019 Picnic will have lots of family-friendly offerings for all ages: • Kids Zone (Sponsored by our friends at Safari Smiles Children’s Dentistry) with games and activities for the kiddos. • A Cornhole tournament with the winning prize being custom painted cornhole boards 4/24/26, 5:03 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1cd8309d70192fb2b3dacb1e8bfc53fa.pdf 8035ab2010df9ea3576ee52a3b09c4df PDF Text Text Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 18th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Pat Hobbs and John Orsulak are sponsoring th thee day June 20th th,, 2019 in honor of th thee Th Thiird Th Thu ursday in th thee Rainbow Room. 4/24/26, 5:04 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Sponsor the Center for a Day 2019 OkEq Board Elections Oklahomans for Equality (“OkEq”) is accepting applications for both the Board of Directors and the Board of Advisors. The Board of Directors serves as the governing body of OkEq and meets monthly to address the essential functions of the organization and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Advisors serves as an advisory body to the Directors at these meetings and throughout the year. In addition to monthly meetings (and meeting on an asneeded basis certain times throughout the year), the Board of Directors are also required to: • Participate and sponsor the Equality Gala • Participate and volunteer at the Tulsa Pride Festival • Participate and attend various special events throughout the year • Be a Member of Oklahomans for Equality We are looking for individuals that are driven, motivated and committed to the mission and goals of OkEq. Please keep in mind that Directors serve a two-year term and Advisors serve a one-year term. If you are interested in applying to serve as either a Director or Advisor to the organization, please notify Alex Wade, at alex.wade@okeq.org . of your interest and an application will be sent to you directly. Click Here for the Application 4/24/26, 5:04 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... .•. . .. EBA Mixer Wednesday, June 19, 6:00 p.m. Jackson Technical 611 S. Elgin Ave. Tulsa, OK 74120 ,.,: Jackson Technical . r Jackson Technical will be hosting the EBA Mixer for June. "Our computer consultation services are the foundation of Jackson Technical... supporting your success, whatever your business is. Our staff has years of experience in the computer field, with up-to-date skills in the latest technologies. We employ only the best, brightest, and most enthusiastic talent available in the Tulsa area. We take the frustration and hassle out of computer use, and turn your computing experience into a smooth and enjoyable process... so you can spend time doing what you do best... your business! We form lasting relationships with the people and businesses we serve. Our prompt and personal service has earned us a reputation that sets us apart and provides you with the technology resources you need." Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Pat Hobbs & John Orsulak in Next! Thursday, June 20, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Buy Your Tickets Here 4/24/26, 5:04 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... Cody Barlow with his Rainbow Truck will be visiting the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, on June 19th during third Thursday in the Rainbow Room. Come out and meet the Country Boy himself. There will be an opportunity to take pictures and speak with Cody. Learn more about Cody here . Sweets & Cream Pride Party Saturday, June 22 Sweets & Cream 1114 S. Yale Ave. Tulsa, OK 74112 For the entire month of June, Sweets & Cream Ice Cream Shoppe and Bakery will be donating their tips to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. They will be holding a Pride Party on June 22nd during their usual business hours. There will be Music, photo ops, and specialty rainbow sugar cookies! Come show your love and support. Tag your photos #sweetpride at the party, see you there! 4/24/26, 5:04 PM �Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room 5 of 15 1111rr-;r. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Third-Thursday-in-the-Rainbow... r Home of the $1.99 Ice Cream Sandwich! Altus Pride Festival • Saturday, June 22, 11:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. 1117 N. Jackson St. Altus, OK 73521 Come out Saturday, June 22nd, and visit the Altus Pride Festival. It will be a BLAST! Food, fun, vendors, bouncy castles and more! \I Chocolate and Charities Night with Oklahomans for Equality Thursday, June 27, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Glacier Bean to Bar 209 E. Archer St. Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 This will be a night to support the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Oklahomans for Equality and learn a little more about all these organizations do to support our LGBTQIA+ community, as well as the Tulsa Community in general. That night from 6pm to Close, 15% of Bar Sales will go to the equality center in hopes of supporting their mission for equality for all our LGBTQ+ friends in the community! There will be a brief presentation at 7:30 p.m. on Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R Neill Equality Center's history, mission, current programs, and ways to get involved and help every month out of the year! Come by, grab a cocktail, and learn about our partner for Chocolate and Charities in June! Glacier will be selling Pride themed chocolate boxes all month long. 20 % of the box sales goes to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tulsa Roughnecks Celebrates Pride Month Saturday, June 29, 7:00 p.m. - 9:30 p.m. ONEOK Field Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 Come on out to ONEOK Field for the month of June for Pride Month with the Tulsa Roughnecks! Celebrate diversity and equality! Every ticket sold will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/24/26, 5:04 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/117f74d3d8a00ee284f7647b08350746.pdf cbaa3bba15ec9ba4bca6bbb6abbc9d18 PDF Text Text We Are Expanding Our Hours of Service 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Are-Expanding-Our-Hours-of... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 26th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 2019 OkEq Board Elections Application Deadline is Friday, June 28 Oklahomans for Equality (“OkEq”) is accepting applications for both the Board of Directors and the Board of Advisors. The Board of Directors serves as the governing body of OkEq and meets monthly to address the essential functions of the organization and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Advisors serves as an advisory body to the Directors at these meetings and throughout the year. In addition to monthly meetings (and meeting on an asneeded basis certain times throughout the year), the Board of Directors are also required to: • Participate and sponsor the Equality Gala • Participate and volunteer at the Tulsa Pride Festival 4/24/26, 5:04 PM �We Are Expanding Our Hours of Service 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Are-Expanding-Our-Hours-of... • Participate and attend various special events throughout the year • Be a Member of Oklahomans for Equality We are looking for individuals that are driven, motivated and committed to the mission and goals of OkEq. Please keep in mind that Directors serve a two-year term and Advisors serve a one-year term. If you are interested in applying to serve as either a Director or Advisor to the organization, please notify Alex Wade, at alex.wade@okeq.org . of your interest and an application will be sent to you directly. Click Here for the Application Our Hours are Expanding! We're happy to announce that we are expanding our hours of service! Starting Monday, July 1st the Dennis R Neill Equality Center will open at 9:00 a.m. Chocolate and Charities Night with Oklahomans for Equality Thursday, June 27, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Glacier Bean to Bar 209 E. Archer St. Tulsa, OK 74103 This will be a night to support the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Oklahomans for Equality and learn a little more about all these organizations do to support our LGBTQIA+ community, as well as the Tulsa Community in general. That night from 6pm to Close, 15% of Bar Sales will go to the equality center in hopes of supporting their mission for equality for all our LGBTQ+ friends in the community! There will be a brief presentation at 7:30 p.m. on Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R Neill Equality Center's history, mission, current programs, and ways to get involved and help every month out of the year! Come by, grab a cocktail, and learn about our partner for Chocolate and Charities in June! Glacier will be selling Pride themed chocolate boxes all month long. 20 % of the box sales goes to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tulsa Roughnecks Celebrates Pride Month Saturday, June 29, 7:00 p.m. - 9:30 p.m. ONEOK Field Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:04 PM �We Are Expanding Our Hours of Service 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Are-Expanding-Our-Hours-of... Come on out to ONEOK Field for the month of June for Pride Month with the Tulsa Roughnecks! Celebrate diversity and equality! Every ticket sold will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tahlequality Pride 2019 Saturday, June 29, 5:00 p.m. - 2:00 a.m. Norris Park 400 N. Muskogee Ave. Tahlequah, OK 74464 It's time for TahlEquality Pride 2019! We'll get started this year in Norris Park at 5:00 p.m. where we invite everyone to bring in their ice chests and picnic supplies. You are welcome to bring a picnic blanket, your own food, lawn chairs, canopies, children, puppies, and cheerful attitudes! Start setting up your plot of the park at 5:00 p.m. and the traditional March will begin at 6:00 p.m. on the corner of Delaware and Muskogee next to the Cherokee square. Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, July 2, 6:30 p.m. Nola's Creole and Cocktails 1334 E. 15th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 If you plan on attending please RSVP by emailing GuysDineToo@gmail.com. LGBT Women's Network July Happy Hour Monday, July 8, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. 473 Bar and Backyard 2224 E. Admiral Blvd. Tulsa, OK 74110 We've pushed our July event back a week due to the holiday! We're checking out another gorgeous new bar in Tulsa! Join us for July happy hour and see this great new space. **PLEASE NOTE our new time. Our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+. Allies are always welcome! 4/24/26, 5:04 PM �We Are Expanding Our Hours of Service 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Are-Expanding-Our-Hours-of... First Thursday Art Show Thursday, July 11, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will feature an exhibit featuring the works of Trace Logan. Trace Logan was born and raised in Philadelphia but has lived in Oklahoma City for several years. From a young age, Logan drew extensively; this means of self-expression helped him to better understand the outside world. That, along with a background in graphic design has led to a preference for a bold style with well defined lines and borders more typically found in commercial art applications. He is currently working on a form of collage that contains separate and distinct elements of photography, painting, drawing, and digital work melded into one piece which address various social issues in addition to creating multi layered, abstract, acrylic paintings. The abstract paintings he calls “digital Composites” are intended to convey the impression, that there is more to the scenes pictured than meets the eye; thus promoting the concept that everyone's interactions with others are affected by their own perceptions, preconceptions, and misconceptions. Ultimately, Logan believes art is about the human experience with an emphasis on emotion and perception and the multifaceted inter-connectivity between living entities, places, and objects. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, July 11th from 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. where there will be a door prize drawing of one of the artist’s works. Bartlesville Pride Picnic 2019 Saturday, July 13, 10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m. Johnstone Park Bartlesville, OK 74003 BE YOU. BE PROUD. BARTLESVILLE RI JULY 13 • JOHNSTONE PARK • 10-2 Oklahomans for Equality - Bartlesville is thrilled to announce our second annual Bartlesville PRIDE Picnic! Last year, our picnic was such a success, and this year we are excited to provide even more. Our 2019 Picnic will have lots of family-friendly offerings for all ages: • Kids Zone (Sponsored by our friends at Safari Smiles Children’s Dentistry) with games and activities for the kiddos. • A Cornhole tournament with the winning prize being custom painted cornhole boards with our PRIDE logo, along with tons of other yard games to keep the competition going! • Free Hotdogs courtesy of our friends at Truity, and the ConocoPhillips LGBTA Network, and Pride66. • DJ Darku J will be keeping the party going all afternoon with fun party music. • Speakers sharing their stories about what PRIDE means to them including CeCe Cox, Toby Jenkins, and several other community members. • A pet station on hand to keep the fur kids happy! 4/24/26, 5:04 PM �We Are Expanding Our Hours of Service 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Are-Expanding-Our-Hours-of... EBA Mixer Wednesday, July 17, 6:00 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E. 2nd Street Tulsa, OK 74103 Hyatt Regency Tulsa will be hosting the EBA Mixer for July. " Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of downtown Tulsa’s vibrant business, entertainment, and cultural districts. Our hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, our luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and more than 50 restaurants and bars. " Muskogee Pride Picnic Saturday, July 20, 11:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Honor Heights Park 1400 Honor Heights Dr. Muskogee, OK 74401 Oklahomans for Equality: Muskogee Equality, presents its first inaugural Pride event at Muskogee's very own Honor Heights Park! If you would like to set up a booth, become a sponsor, or a vendor please send an email to OkeqMuskogee@gmail.com. The event runs July the 20th from 11:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. with an after-event at Max's Garage. NOTICE: the picnic is for everyone but the after-event is 21 and up. S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Tuesday, July 23, Aug. 20, Sep. 17, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl. Tulsa, OK 74105 Members should meet on Tuesday, June 18th at 9:30 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email alex.wade@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/24/26, 5:04 PM �We Are Expanding Our Hours of Service 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Are-Expanding-Our-Hours-of... The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Raise the Roof Party Saturday, July 27 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Come join us for the Raise the Roof Party so we can raise funds for our rooftop renovations. Help us replace the roof so we can keep helping people under our roof! 6 Raise the Roof Party Saturday, July 27th 6 AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . Enid Pride Saturday, September 21, 12:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Garfield County Courthouse 100 W. Broadway Ave. Enid, OK 73701 Mark your calendars for the 10th annual Enid Pride celebration on Saturday, September 21, 2019! McAlester Pride Saturday, October 12, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Chadick Park S. 3rd St & E. Chadick Ave. ---------5 e 4/24/26, 5:04 PM �We Are Expanding Our Hours of Service 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Are-Expanding-Our-Hours-of... McAlester, OK 74501 Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " Chicago Whispers: A History of LGBT Chicago Before Stonewall " by St. Sukie de la Croix " Chicago Whispers illuminates a colorful and vibrant record of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered people who lived and loved in Chicago from the city’s beginnings in the 1670s as a fur-trading post to the end of the 1960s. Journalist St. Sukie de la Croix, drawing on years of archival research and personal interviews, reclaims Chicago’s LGBT past that had been forgotten, suppressed, or overlooked." Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Equality Pride Store 2019 Pride T-Shirts are on sale for $20 in the OkEq Pride Store. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services 4/24/26, 5:04 PM �We Are Expanding Our Hours of Service 8 of 14 Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. You can make an appointment with Allison by calling 918-280-9645 . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Are-Expanding-Our-Hours-of... OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com Regularly Scheduled Programming 4/24/26, 5:04 PM �We Are Expanding Our Hours of Service 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Are-Expanding-Our-Hours-of... OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, July 18, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, July 10 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley 4/24/26, 5:04 PM �We Are Expanding Our Hours of Service 10 of 14 Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Are-Expanding-Our-Hours-of... Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATION S FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. 4/24/26, 5:04 PM �We Are Expanding Our Hours of Service 11 of 14 Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Are-Expanding-Our-Hours-of... Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. 4/24/26, 5:04 PM �We Are Expanding Our Hours of Service 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Are-Expanding-Our-Hours-of... Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff 4/24/26, 5:04 PM �We Are Expanding Our Hours of Service 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Are-Expanding-Our-Hours-of... Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects/Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director 4/24/26, 5:04 PM �We Are Expanding Our Hours of Service 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/We-Are-Expanding-Our-Hours-of... Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Sheena Grewal - President Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Vice President Marcia LaBooth Keesee - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrosmith, D.O. Allison Ikley-Freeman Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Jack Graham Bob Hanson, PharmD Dale Hogan Denise Reid Justin Ross Jeremy Stevens Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat 12 p.m. - 9 p.m. | Sun 12 p.m.- 6 p.m. 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:04 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8358da608edf2a78dc554a773f78816d.pdf dc1ec141bd7a8acc1ac3bdd5c6c0542a PDF Text Text Help Us Raise the Roof! 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-Us-Raise-the-Roof-.html?so... OkEq Weekly eNews July 3rd, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Our Hours are Expanding! We're happy to announce that we are expanding our hours of service! Starting Monday, July 1st the Dennis R Neill Equality Center will open at 9:00 a.m. $14 for our 14 years in Downtown Tulsa: Help us replace our roof so we can continue our mission! The Dennis R. Neill Equality 4/24/26, 5:05 PM �Help Us Raise the Roof! 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-Us-Raise-the-Roof-.html?so... Center has been Oklahomans for Equality’s home for the last 14 years. During this tumultuous time, the center has stayed open as a refuge for our community from the downpours outside. We have remained a port in the storm for those who call this place home and have welcomed those who have only just made their way to our doorstep. Unfortunately, the weather that has plagued our city has made it clear that the center needs your help. Like the rest of Tulsa, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has experienced flooding and severe damage to the roof of our two story building. Not only has the roof of our building degraded but the subsequent damage to our building is keeping us from continuing to do our work. We need your help to raise funds so we can replace our roof and repair the damage to our facilities. We are asking every member of our community to please consider donating $14, one for every year that OkEq and the Dennis R. Neil Equality Center has provided a home to our community. Help us replace our roof so we can keep helping people under our roof! Donate Here Raise the Roof Party Saturday, July 27, 7:00 p.m. - 10:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 $14 Admission tt RAISE THE Join us for our Raise the Roof Party and help us replace our roof so we can continue to take care of our family. $14 gets you into the party where there will be dancing, a cash bar, live entertainment, light hors d'oeurves, and a silent auction for amazing "home sweet home" gift baskets. Come get loud for a good cause! ROOF Get your Ticket Now LGBT Women's Network July Happy Hour Monday, July 8, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. 473 Bar and Backyard 4/24/26, 5:05 PM �Help Us Raise the Roof! 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-Us-Raise-the-Roof-.html?so... 2224 E. Admiral Blvd. Tulsa, OK 74110 We've pushed our July event back a week due to the holiday! We're checking out another gorgeous new bar in Tulsa! Join us for July happy hour and see this great new space. **PLEASE NOTE our new time. Our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+. Allies are always welcome! First Thursday Art Show Thursday, July 11, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will feature an exhibit featuring the works of Trace Logan. Trace Logan was born and raised in Philadelphia but has lived in Oklahoma City for several years. From a young age, Logan drew extensively; this means of self-expression helped him to better understand the outside world. That, along with a background in graphic design has led to a preference for a bold style with well defined lines and borders more typically found in commercial art applications. He is currently working on a form of collage that contains separate and distinct elements of photography, painting, drawing, and digital work melded into one piece which address various social issues in addition to creating multi layered, abstract, acrylic paintings. The abstract paintings he calls “digital Composites” are intended to convey the impression, that there is more to the scenes pictured than meets the eye; thus promoting the concept that everyone's interactions with others are affected by their own perceptions, preconceptions, and misconceptions. Ultimately, Logan believes art is about the human experience with an emphasis on emotion and perception and the multifaceted inter-connectivity between living entities, places, and objects. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, July 11th from 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. where there will be a door prize drawing of one of the artist’s works. Bartlesville Pride Picnic 2019 Saturday, July 13, 10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m. Johnstone Park Bartlesville, OK 74003 BE YOU. BE PROUD. BARTLESVILLE RI JULY 13 • JOHNSTONE PARK • 10-2 Oklahomans for Equality - Bartlesville is thrilled to announce our second annual Bartlesville PRIDE Picnic! Last year, our picnic was such a success, and this year we are excited to provide even more. Our 2019 Picnic will have lots of family-friendly offerings for all ages: • Kids Zone (Sponsored by our friends at Safari Smiles Children’s Dentistry) with games 4/24/26, 5:05 PM �Help Us Raise the Roof! 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-Us-Raise-the-Roof-.html?so... and activities for the kiddos. • A Cornhole tournament with the winning prize being custom painted cornhole boards with our PRIDE logo, along with tons of other yard games to keep the competition going! • Free Hotdogs courtesy of our friends at Truity, and the ConocoPhillips LGBTA Network, and Pride66. • DJ Darku J will be keeping the party going all afternoon with fun party music. • Speakers sharing their stories about what PRIDE means to them including CeCe Cox, Toby Jenkins, and several other community members. • A pet station on hand to keep the fur kids happy! EBA Mixer Wednesday, July 17, 6:00 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E. 2nd Street Tulsa, OK 74103 Hyatt Regency Tulsa will be hosting the EBA Mixer for July. " Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of downtown Tulsa’s vibrant business, entertainment, and cultural districts. Our hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, our luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and more than 50 restaurants and bars. " Muskogee Pride Picnic Saturday, July 20, 11:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Honor Heights Park 1400 Honor Heights Dr. Muskogee, OK 74401 Oklahomans for Equality: Muskogee Equality, presents its first inaugural Pride event at Muskogee's very own Honor Heights Park! If you would like to set up a booth, become a sponsor, or a vendor please send an email to OkeqMuskogee@gmail.com. The event runs July the 20th from 11:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. with an after-event at Max's Garage. NOTICE: the picnic is for everyone but the after-event is 21 and up. S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties 4/24/26, 5:05 PM �Help Us Raise the Roof! 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-Us-Raise-the-Roof-.html?so... Tuesday, July 23, Aug. 20, Sep. 17, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl. Tulsa, OK 74105 Members should meet on Tuesday, June 18th at 9:30 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email alex.wade@okeq.org - - to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . Enid Pride Saturday, September 21, 12:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Garfield County Courthouse 100 W. Broadway Ave. Enid, OK 73701 Mark your calendars for the 10th annual Enid Pride celebration on Saturday, September 21, 2019! 4/24/26, 5:05 PM �Help Us Raise the Roof! 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Help-Us-Raise-the-Roof-.html?so... McAlester Pride Saturday, October 12, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Chadick Park S. 3rd St & E. Chadick Ave. McAlester, OK 74501 SeE Joe and Nancy McDonald Library TRAN . <TfJl(/p, "" b • a l •'I '--' " Transgender Warriors : Making History from Joan of Arc to Dennis Rodman " by Leslie Feinberg "In this fascinating, personal journey through history, Leslie Feinberg uncovers persuasive evidence that there have always been people who crossed the cultural boundaries of gender. Transgender Warriors is an eyeopening jaunt through the history of gender expression and a powerful testament to the rebellious spirit." Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Equality Pride Store 2019 Pride T-Shirts are on sale for $20 in the OkEq Pride Store. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items 4/24/26, 5:05 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c30feca03e5c8d587b64065bc20aa066.pdf 7865e8f5d612732e57184cc699711c76 PDF Text Text $14 for 14 years 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-14-for-14-years.html?soid=1102... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews July 10th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! First Thursday Art Show Thursday, July 11, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will feature an exhibit featuring the works of Trace Logan. Trace Logan was born and raised in Philadelphia but has lived in Oklahoma City for several years. From a young age, Logan drew extensively; this means of self-expression helped him to better understand the outside world. 4/24/26, 5:05 PM �$14 for 14 years 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-14-for-14-years.html?soid=1102... That, along with a background in graphic design has led to a preference for a bold style with well defined lines and borders more typically found in commercial art applications. He is currently working on a form of collage that contains separate and distinct elements of photography, painting, drawing, and digital work melded into one piece which address various social issues in addition to creating multi layered, abstract, acrylic paintings. The abstract paintings he calls “digital Composites” are intended to convey the impression, that there is more to the scenes pictured than meets the eye; thus promoting the concept that everyone's interactions with others are affected by their own perceptions, preconceptions, and misconceptions. Ultimately, Logan believes art is about the human experience with an emphasis on emotion and perception and the multifaceted inter-connectivity between living entities, places, and objects. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, July 11th from 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. where there will be a door prize drawing of one of the artist’s works. Our Hours are Expanding! We're happy to announce that we are expanding our hours of service! Starting Monday, July 1st the Dennis R Neill Equality Center will open at 9:00 a.m. New Volunteer Shifts Available We will now be opening at 9:00 a.m. and are in need of volunteers from 9:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. every day of the week. If you are interested in volunteering during this time, Please fill out our volunteer form here: Volunteer Form $14 for our 14 years in Downtown Tulsa: Help us replace our roof so we can continue our mission! The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has been Oklahomans for Equality’s home for the last 14 years. During this tumultuous time, the center has stayed open as a refuge for our community from the downpours outside. We have 4/24/26, 5:05 PM �$14 for 14 years 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-14-for-14-years.html?soid=1102... remained a port in the storm for those who call this place home and have welcomed those who have only just made their way to our doorstep. Unfortunately, the weather that has plagued our city has made it clear that the center needs your help. Like the rest of Tulsa, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has experienced flooding and severe damage to the roof of our two story building. Not only has the roof of our building degraded but the subsequent damage to our building is keeping us from continuing to do our work. We need your help to raise funds so we can replace our roof and repair the damage to our facilities. We are asking every member of our community to please consider donating $14, one for every year that OkEq and the Dennis R. Neil Equality Center has provided a home to our community. Help us replace our roof so we can keep helping people under our roof! Donate Here Raise the Roof Party Saturday, July 27, 7:00 p.m. - 10:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 $14 Admission tt RAISE THE Join us for our Raise the Roof Party and help us replace our roof so we can continue to take care of our family. $14 gets you into the party where there will be dancing, a cash bar, live entertainment, light hors d'oeurves, and a silent auction for amazing "home sweet home" gift baskets. Come get loud for a good cause! ROOF Get your Ticket Now Circle Cinema Film Festival 2019 Thursday July 11-15, Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 After debuting in 2018 as part of Circle Cinema's 90th birthday celebration, the Circle Cinema Film Festival is back in 2019 with an exciting showcase of original storytelling through film, art, music and experiences. The festival brings a stellar lineup of diverse films and 4/24/26, 5:05 PM �$14 for 14 years 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-14-for-14-years.html?soid=1102... special guests to Tulsa, including some fresh from this year's Sundance Film Festival and SXSW. Film programming, with an emphasis on Oklahomacentric independent films and filmmakers, will include a mix of documentaries and features along with some classic and even silent films. Festival Line-Up: www.circlecinema.org/portfolio/ circle-cinema-film-festival iM:lf&~~i: A trans woman from Albuquerque named Rusty pursues her new identity with gender transition while hoping to gain acceptance from others. Tickets $12, available now at circlecinema.org. Sun, July 14 at Noon Q&A with producer/director Harrod Blank and Rusty Tldenberg folio:.'.'!!~".'.:._ . ......... ""-1 ........... c.hcliN L~S~~- ,•..,_.,....._"'"-·i.,i..,,.~::,=.--..""---•c-. ... ..._:-:::.....-:r.-c-.. 10 s l.kNa • 111"592..f'I..M • 'nfl:i.OC'rdec'nama_com • sthe0Ji.wb;ec1 11> ~ Sipn upb'OU'~ -•slotlorat,.-..w.a~rcff\11.com Showtimes: 918.592.3456 Featuring: WHY CAN'T I BE ME? AROUND YOU (2019) Sunday, July 14, at 12:00 p.m. Synopsis: Albuquerque inventor/tinkerer, Rusty Tidenberg's journey with gender transition is examined in this new documentary. The film follows Rusty on this difficult journey of embracing and exhibiting both genders, while still hoping for acceptance, and love. IN PERSON: Q&A with producer/director Harrod Blank and Rusty Tidenberg following screening. Bartlesville Pride Picnic 2019 Saturday, July 13, 10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m. Johnstone Park Bartlesville, OK 74003 BE YOU. BE PROUD. BARTLESVILLE RI JULY 13 • JOHNSTONE PARK • 10-2 Oklahomans for Equality - Bartlesville is thrilled to announce our second annual Bartlesville PRIDE Picnic! Last year, our picnic was such a success, and this year we are excited to provide even more. Our 2019 Picnic will have lots of family-friendly offerings for all ages: • Kids Zone (Sponsored by our friends at Safari Smiles Children’s Dentistry) with games and activities for the kiddos. • A Cornhole tournament with the winning prize being custom painted cornhole boards with our PRIDE logo, along with tons of other yard games to keep the competition going! • Free Hotdogs courtesy of our friends at Truity, and the ConocoPhillips LGBTA Network, and Pride66. • DJ Darku J will be keeping the party going all afternoon with fun party music. • Speakers sharing their stories about what PRIDE means to them including CeCe Cox, Toby Jenkins, and several other community members. • A pet station on hand to keep the fur kids happy! EBA Mixer Wednesday, July 17, 6:00 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E. 2nd Street Tulsa, OK 74103 HYJ\TT REGENCY 'if 00 [L ~ ~ 4/24/26, 5:05 PM �$14 for 14 years 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-14-for-14-years.html?soid=1102... Hyatt Regency Tulsa will be hosting the EBA Mixer for July. " Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of downtown Tulsa’s vibrant business, entertainment, and cultural districts. Our hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, our luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and more than 50 restaurants and bars. " Muskogee Pride Picnic Saturday, July 20, 11:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Honor Heights Park 1400 Honor Heights Dr. Muskogee, OK 74401 Oklahomans for Equality: Muskogee Equality, presents its first inaugural Pride event at Muskogee's very own Honor Heights Park! If you would like to set up a booth, become a sponsor, or a vendor please send an email to OkeqMuskogee@gmail.com. The event runs July the 20th from 11:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. with an after-event at Max's Garage. NOTICE: the picnic is for everyone but the after-event is 21 and up. S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Tuesday, July 23, Aug. 20, Sep. 17, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl. Tulsa, OK 74105 Members should meet on Tuesday, June 18th at 9:30 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email alex.wade@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the 4/24/26, 5:05 PM �$14 for 14 years 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-14-for-14-years.html?soid=1102... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, August 6, 6:30 p.m. Biga Italian Restaurant 4329 S. Peoria Ave. Tulsa, OK 74105 bigaitalianrestaurant.com The reservations are under OkEq Men's Group. A head count is needed for the reservations. If you are coming please let us know by emailing GuysDineToo@gmail.com. AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . Enid Pride Saturday, September 21, 12:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Garfield County Courthouse 100 W. Broadway Ave. Enid, OK 73701 Mark your calendars for the 10th annual Enid Pride celebration on Saturday, September 21, 2019! McAlester Pride Saturday, October 12, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Chadick Park S. 3rd St & E. Chadick Ave. McAlester, OK 74501 ---------5 eE ~ 4/24/26, 5:05 PM �$14 for 14 years 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-14-for-14-years.html?soid=1102... Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " The Book of Pride: LGBTQ Heroes Who Changed the World " by Mason Funk Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. "THE BOOK OF PRIDE captures the true story of the gay rights movement from the 1960s to the present, through richly detailed, stunning interviews with the leaders, activists, and ordinary people who witnessed the movement and made it happen. These individuals fought battles both personal and political, often without the support of family or friends, frequently under the threat of violence and persecution. By shining a light on these remarkable stories of bravery and determination, THE BOOK OF PRIDE not only honors an important chapter in American history, but also empowers young people today (both LGBTQ and straight) to discover their own courage in order to create positive change. Furthermore, it serves a critically important role in ensuring the history of the LGBTQ movement can never be erased, inspiring us to resist all forms of oppression with ferocity, community, and, most importantly, pride." Equality Pride Store New in the OkEq Pride Store: Progress Pride Pins Stickers and Landyards Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new 4/24/26, 5:05 PM �$14 for 14 years 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-14-for-14-years.html?soid=1102... items and new sale items Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. You can make an appointment with Allison by calling 918-280-9645 . OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com Regularly Scheduled Programming 4/24/26, 5:05 PM �$14 for 14 years 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-14-for-14-years.html?soid=1102... OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, July 18, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members • LEGALAID ~ SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, July 10 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS ,m SOBRIETY Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Tulsa Area 4/24/26, 5:05 PM �$14 for 14 years 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-14-for-14-years.html?soid=1102... ...._... Coming Out Workshop - -- --- ···-· . SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m 1st and 3rd Monday of every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 . This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org \ w ________,. Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional 4/24/26, 5:05 PM �$14 for 14 years 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-14-for-14-years.html?soid=1102... support for one another. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Gender Support Program Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! 4/24/26, 5:05 PM �$14 for 14 years 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-14-for-14-years.html?soid=1102... Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:05 PM �$14 for 14 years 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-14-for-14-years.html?soid=1102... Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects/Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Sheena Grewal - President Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Vice President Marcia LaBooth Keesee - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Board of Advisors Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Jack Graham 4/24/26, 5:05 PM �$14 for 14 years 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/-14-for-14-years.html?soid=1102... Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrosmith, D.O. Allison Ikley-Freeman Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn Visit Our Website Bob Hanson, PharmD Dale Hogan Denise Reid Justin Ross Jeremy Stevens Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat 12 p.m. - 9 p.m. | Sun 12 p.m.- 6 p.m. 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:05 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9d59a74790f1ba625d04bb8a497d52c6.pdf 76d715157743ae55cbc96771bb308b22 PDF Text Text OKEq Needs You 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEq-Needs-You.html?soid=110... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews July 17th, 2019 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Our Hours are Expanding! We're happy to announce that we are expanding our hours of service! Starting Monday, July 1st the Dennis R Neill Equality Center will open at 9:00 a.m. New Volunteer Shifts Available I 4/24/26, 5:06 PM �OKEq Needs You 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEq-Needs-You.html?soid=110... We will now be opening at 9:00 a.m. and are in need of volunteers from 9:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. every day of the week. If you are interested in volunteering during this time, Please fill out our volunteer form here: Volunteer Form 0ttr.hours of service! $14 for our 14 years in Downtown Tulsa: Help us replace our roof so we can continue our mission! The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has been Oklahomans for Equality’s home for the last 14 years. During this tumultuous time, the center has stayed open as a refuge for our community from the downpours outside. We have remained a port in the storm for those who call this place home and have welcomed those who have only just made their way to our doorstep. Unfortunately, the weather that has plagued our city has made it clear that the center needs your help. Like the rest of Tulsa, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has experienced flooding and severe damage to the roof of our two story building. Not only has the roof of our building degraded but the subsequent damage to our building is keeping us from continuing to do our work. We need your help to raise funds so we can replace our roof and repair the damage to our facilities. We are asking every member of our community to please consider donating $14, one for every year that OkEq and the Dennis R. Neil Equality Center has provided a home to our community. Help us replace our roof so we can keep helping people under our roof! Donate Here Raise the Roof Party Saturday, July 27, 7:00 p.m. - 10:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street Tulsa, OK 74120 ..... ......... ~ 4/24/26, 5:06 PM �OKEq Needs You 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEq-Needs-You.html?soid=110... ftl-ll~C $14 Admission Inc ROOF Join us for our Raise the Roof Party and help us replace our roof so we can continue to take care of our family. $14 gets you into the party where there will be dancing, a cash bar, live entertainment, light hors d'oeurves, and a silent auction for amazing "home sweet home" gift baskets. Come get loud for a good cause! Get your Ticket Now Muskogee Pride Picnic Saturday, July 20, 11:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Honor Heights Park 1400 Honor Heights Dr. Muskogee, OK 74401 Oklahomans for Equality: Muskogee Equality, presents its first inaugural Pride event at Muskogee's very own Honor Heights Park! If you would like to set up a booth, become a sponsor, or a vendor please send an email to OkeqMuskogee@gmail.com. The event runs July the 20th from 11:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. with an after-event at Max's Garage. NOTICE: the picnic is for everyone but the after-event is 21 and up. S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Tuesday, July 23, Aug. 20, Sep. 17, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl. Tulsa, OK 74105 Members should meet on Tuesday, June 18th at 9:30 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email alex.wade@okeq.org - - - to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of 4/24/26, 5:06 PM �OKEq Needs You 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEq-Needs-You.html?soid=110... LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. & go ~~-b Thursday, July 25 6:00 - 8:00pm g E Flying Tee 600 Riverwalk Terrace Jenks, OK 74037 $30 per person gets you 2 hours of golf Please submit RSVP & payment to Curtis or Al before July 22 nd • If golf isn't your thing, you can still come out for appetizers or a meal and Flying Tee will donate 10% of all food and non-alcoholic beverages sales between 6:00 - 8:00pm to JOLT. Flying Tee also has an arcade, pool tables, outdoor chess, shuffle board, oversized Connect Four, cornhole and oversized Jenga for the non golfers. To RSVP, submit payment or for more information on this fundraiser, please text or call: Curtis Austin 720.333.3956 or Al Warren 918.361.8739 - - - - ~- 4/24/26, 5:06 PM �OKEq Needs You 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEq-Needs-You.html?soid=110... LGBT Women's Network Happy Hour Monday, August 5, 5:30 p.m. R Bar and Grill Tulsa 4329 S. Peoria Ave. Tulsa, OK 74105 We're heading back to Brookside to see the R Bar crew again. If you've never had drinks on their perfect patio, you're in for a treat! Our monthly meetups are come & go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+. Allies are always welcome! If you would like to recommend a happy hour location, just send us a message on Facebook at LGBT Women's Network ! We’re interested to visit all LGBTQ+-friendly locations! Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, August 6, 6:30 p.m. Biga Italian Restaurant 4329 S. Peoria Ave. Tulsa, OK 74105 bigaitalianrestaurant.com The reservations are under OkEq Men's Group. A head count is needed for the reservations. If you are coming please let us know by emailing GuysDineToo@gmail.com. AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted PE The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the 4/24/26, 5:06 PM �OKEq Needs You 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEq-Needs-You.html?soid=110... Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . Enid Pride Saturday, September 21, 12:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Garfield County Courthouse 100 W. Broadway Ave. Enid, OK 73701 Mark your calendars for the 10th annual Enid Pride celebration on Saturday, September 21, 2019! McAlester Pride Saturday, October 12, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Chadick Park S. 3rd St & E. Chadick Ave. McAlester, OK 74501 SeE ~ Joe and Nancy McDonald Library " Call Me By Your Name " by Andre Aciman Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. "Andre Aciman's Call Me by Your Name is the story of a sudden and powerful romance that blossoms between an adolescent boy and a summer guest at his parents’ cliffside mansion on the Italian Riviera. Each is unprepared for the consequences of their attraction, when, during the restless summer weeks, unrelenting currents of obsession, fascination, and desire intensify their passion and test the charged ground between them. Recklessly, the two verge toward the one thing both fear they may never truly find again: total intimacy. It is an instant classic and one of the great love stories of our time. Winner of the Lambda Literary Award for Fiction" Equality Pride Store 4/24/26, 5:06 PM �OKEq Needs You 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEq-Needs-You.html?soid=110... New in the OkEq Pride Store: Progress Pride Pins Stickers and Landyards Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Allison IkleyFreeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. You can make an appointment with Allison by calling 918-280-9645 . OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. 4/24/26, 5:06 PM �OKEq Needs You 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEq-Needs-You.html?soid=110... information or to schedule an appointment. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com ----- Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting Thursday, July 18, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members • LEGAL A10 th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, August 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. It's Complicated 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ 4/24/26, 5:06 PM �OKEq Needs You 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEq-Needs-You.html?soid=110... No appointment is necessary. session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Sos Coming Out Workshop 1st and 3rd Monday of every month 6:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 p.m This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support SIA strives to empower 4/24/26, 5:06 PM �OKEq Needs You 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEq-Needs-You.html?soid=110... others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 . Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders SAGE Tulsa Group Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. 4/24/26, 5:06 PM �OKEq Needs You 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEq-Needs-You.html?soid=110... "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule contacts, products and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point services, and also strengthens Open every day and expands our businesses, Workforce Oklahoma careers and community. maintains a resource area at Testing provided by H.O.P.E. the Equality Center that Testing Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, Tuesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. Saturday 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as Check www.okeq.org for step-by-step instructions on testing dates. how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OkEq Staff 4/24/26, 5:06 PM �OKEq Needs You 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEq-Needs-You.html?soid=110... Jose Vega Deputy Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Morgan Allen Center Coordinator Morgan.Allen@okeq.org Kao Morris Facilities Manager Kao.Morris@okeq.org Alex Wade Medical Services Coordinator Alex.Wade@okeq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects/Library Tracy.Allen@okeq.org Krissy Dudley Administrative Manager Krissy.Dudley@okeq.org 4/24/26, 5:06 PM �OKEq Needs You 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OKEq-Needs-You.html?soid=110... r, ~q Pictu,/.Courtesy of the Tulsa World Toby Jenkins CEO/Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@okeq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Sheena Grewal - President Chris Brecht-Smith, Esq. - Vice President Marcia LaBooth Keesee - Secretary Paul Allen - Treasurer Darci Hazelwood, D.O. - Member at Large Board of Directors Laura Arrosmith, D.O. Allison Ikley-Freeman Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn Visit Our Website Board of Advisors Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Jack Graham Bob Hanson, PharmD Dale Hogan Denise Reid Justin Ross Jeremy Stevens Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes View Our Events Contact Us Today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat 12 p.m. - 9 p.m. | Sun 12 p.m.- 6 p.m. 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 5:06 PM � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Sub-Series] OKEQ > Publications > OKEQ eNews Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2021] Gala Videos https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b7c6ca406eba73db45d13c7da3495c86.mp4 5ed8e5153a8cb3b708b5233a2ed35364 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Series] Oklahoma LGBT+ History > In Memoriam Description An account of the resource <strong>Physical Media:</strong> <br /><br /><br /><strong>Digital Media:</strong> Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2010] Interfaith Service In Memoriam https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/cdd15e15cac09a5356201518570ecd42.pdf 2ee34360089ad0b661c187b530e67893 PDF Text Text Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 1 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews October 10th, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 2 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... I ELECTBRECHT .COM National Coming Out Day Thursday, October 11, 2018 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We must raise the visibility of LGBTQ folks across the state! Coming out - whether it is as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer or allied - STILL MATTERS. When people know someone who is LGBTQ, they are far more likely to support equality under the law. Beyond that, our stories can be powerful to each other. Every year on National Coming Out Day, we celebrate coming out as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer (LGBTQ) or as an ally. On Oct. 11, 2018, we will mark the 30th anniversary of National Coming Out Day. 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 3 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Nearly 30 years ago, on the anniversary of the National March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights, we first observed National Coming Out Day as a reminder that one of our most basic tools is the power of coming out. One out of every two Americans has someone close to them who is gay or lesbian. For transgender people, that number is only one in 10. Stop by the center or click here for resources including social/support groups, community partners, and special events. Volunteer of the Month October 2018 Barbara Shoenhals Thank you for your dedication, Barbara! • Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, October 10, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to = meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary. OKLAHOMA, INC. The Fight for Reproductive Justice in Oklahoma and the US: Film Screening and Panel THE W OMEN ' S & GENDER STUDIES DEPARTMENT PRESENTS FILM SCREENING & PANEL DISCUSSION 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 4 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... CJ/dWroma amf1/u:, US Discussion Thursday, October 11, 5:00 p.m. University of Tulsa Tyrrell Lecture Hall 800 S. Tucker Dr., Tulsa, OK 74104 ~ BIRTHRIGHT Film Screening at 5:00 p.m . I I Birthright: A War Story is a feature ·-·· length documentary that examines how women in the US are being jailed, physically violated, and even TYRRELL SCREENING AT 5 :00PM THURSDAY, DISCUSSION AT 7 :00PM OCTOBER 11TH LECTURE HALL put at risk of dying as a radical PIZZA WILL BE SERVED AFTER THE FILM SCREENING P movement tightens its grip across the United States and allows states, courts, and religious doctrine to govern whether, when, and how women will bear children. Panel Discussion at 7:00 p.m. The Oklahoma Coalition for Reproductive Justice is a group of organizations and individuals promoting reproductive justice issues in Oklahoma through education, empowerment, advocacy, and lobbying. Members of the OCRJ will discuss reproductive justice issues in Oklahoma and the importance of the November midterm elections. I Let's Talk Friday, October 12, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 www.anchoredbhc.com You're Invited! Friday, October 12, 2018 Let's Talk Frida October 12th 7-9 PM Join us for drinks, appetizers, surprise giveaway and learn about Anchored Behavioral Health Consulting's newest online services! 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 www .anchoredbhc .com 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 5 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... LGBTQ Young Adults: Miniature Golf Friday, October 12, 6:00 p.m. All Star Sports Complex 10309 E. 61st St., Tulsa, OK 74133 Join the OKEQ Young Adults Prism Group for miniature golf at the All Star Sports Complex! Search for Jose, our program director. He will be sporting a beautiful purple OkEq polo shirt! The cost for golf is $7. Text Jose at 918-813-8993 with any questions! Orbit Initiative Saturday, October 13, 3:00 - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 orbit Want to act, sing or dance on stage? Join the Orbit Initiative at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a FREE acting and dance workshop! It’s open to ALL ages, from 4 to 84! What is the Orbit Initiative? Artist educators from the community teach free classes, workshops, etc., at community partner sites once a month, ranging from acting to movement and visual art. In the spring, there is an opportunity to participate in a large-scale performance of Shakespeare's “The Tempest” at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. The rehearsals for this performance are combined with the classes for instruction, rehearsal, and staging. In May 2019, the Orbit Initiative will bring all those participants from the community to the PAC for a few more combined rehearsals for “The Tempest.” Performances for “The Tempest” are June 7-9 and are free. Register online at www.facebook.com/theorbitinitiative Online Registration Form www.fostercare-ok.org ~ Saint Frand~ 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 6 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Give hope. Change a life. Become a foster parent. GLSEN Green Country Town Hall Meeting Thursday, October 11, 6:00 p.m. Martin Regional Library: Lecture Room 2601 S. Garnett Rd., Tulsa, OK 74129 GLSEN® The steering committee for a potential new GLSEN (Gay, Lesbian, Straight Education Network) chapter for Green Country will be hosting town halls throughout the community. This will be the first chapter in Oklahoma and will support Tulsa County and surrounding areas. The town halls will be a time for the community to give feedback on priorities for our students, administrators, teachers, and parents. Our mission is to provide safe spaces for our youth and feel the first step is helping our schools be prepared for critical conversations. If you have any questions, email us at GreaterTulsa@steeringcommittee.glsen.org . EBA Mixer Wednesday, October 17, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Pottery Barn 1864 Utica Square, Tulsa, OK 74114 POTTERY BARN Pottery Barn offers a unique shopping experience for anyone looking to put the finishing touches to any room in their home. When you shop Pottery Barn you are getting a product that cannot be found in any other store. Our furniture is one of a kind, crafted in America, and is of the highest quality. Pottery Barn's deep care for the environment has also helped us in creating products that are ecofriendly and sustainable long term. When you visit a Pottery Barn store be sure to ask about our complimentary design services, where we send one of our designers, decorators or stylists to help you create your dream home. When creating the perfect room, the home accessory pieces are just as important as the 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 7 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... main furniture pieces. Everything from sofa sets, tablecloths, curtains, cushions, decorative pieces, and dinnerware all work together to bring out an individual's unique style. Pottery Barn is the home decor store which allows you to decorate your home to fit traditional, modern, or transitional styles using unique products that cannot be found anywhere else. Visit Pottery Barn Online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: Please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. E ALITY usiness Alliance Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, October 18, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Click here to purchase tickets 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 8 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Center Awareness Day Friday, October 19, 10:00 a.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you know that Tulsa is home to the seventh-largest LGBTQ+ community center in the world? That’s right. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in downtown Tulsa is operated by Oklahomans for Equality. With five paid staff members, an army of about 250 volunteers, and a 30-member Board of Directors and Advisors plus a five-member Board of Trustees, Oklahomans for Equality depends on individual/corporate donors to support our roughly 50,000 constituents in the LGBTQ+ community and our allies. Our annual budget is nearly $1 million, and we receive absolutely no funding from any governmental entity. If you didn’t know all of that, just imagine how much more you don’t know about Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We have the perfect opportunity for you to learn what you’re missing: LGBT Center Awareness Day on Friday, Oct. 19! Any time between 10 a.m. and 7 p.m., individuals; government officials; and community, nonprofit and business leaders across Oklahoma are invited to visit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. Fourth St. in downtown Tulsa. Board members will be on hand to give tours of the center, which recently underwent a $1 million renovation, thanks to a successful capital campaign, and answer any questions you might have. We want to spread the news about the great work we’re doing. We want to give you information that you, your friends or your business associates might need about what resources are available. And we want you to realize that this is an organization and a facility that you should be supporting financially. We’re not going to hit you over the head asking for money; we’ll let you reach that conclusion on your own. Hope to see you Oct. 19! Donate $13 for 13 years of our presence in downtown Tulsa. Pride Game Night Supporting the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday, October 19, 2:00 p.m. Kiss My Ale Pub 5336 E. Admiral Pl., Tulsa, OK 74115 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 9 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Kiss My Ale Pub invites you to come play your favorite tabletop games (more than 120 to choose from) while you enjoy some tasty local beers and quality cocktails! We are donating 10% of all sales to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, so come help us support OkEq, and invite all your friends to join in! Call For Artists 2019 Deadline October 20, 2018 Oklahomans for Equality’s Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is accepting proposals for its 2019 exhibition calendar. Our gallery encourages emerging artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media to apply. Details Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. OkEq will host an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of each month. Each exhibit is installed on the Tuesday prior. No additional works will be accepted after initial delivery. Works must be available for sale. There will be a 30 percent commission on works sold. Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc.) for each piece. A biography and artist statement are due on the first of the month prior to the exhibit for publicity purposes. How to Apply Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as five jpg images that represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted by email. Proposals incorporating the work of two artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. Deadline for submissions is October 20. Notifications will be sent out by November 10. Please submit proposals by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org , with the subject heading “OkEq gallery proposal" --- -- SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, October 23, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 I . 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 10 of 30 Al Triggs with Legacy insurance advisors will be visiting SAGE October 23 to share information about their products and services . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... , - - :.-J ;.1A.j INSURANCE ADVISORS SIMPLE SOLUTIONS . UNCOMMON SERVICE . Legacy Insurance Advisors' mission is to sell and service all forms of health and life insurance by representing the best carriers in the industry, by maintaining a superior client base, by partnering with and retaining the most qualified professionals, and by providing all agency personnel with the training and tools available to givethe very best possible service to our clients and companies. Our agents, managers, and staff are committed to educating and empowering our policyholders. We will provide guidance and expertise while managing our clients’ risk. Because of Legacy Insurance Advisors’ access to multiple providers in nearly every line of insurance, we will customize plans to fit our clients’ wants and needs. Visit Legacy Insurance Advisors online . The SAGE, Advocacy & Services for LGBT Elders, Tulsa chapter is a national program geared toward individuals 50 and older. SAGE is a day time program for those who are retired or free during the day. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Grannies Brunch Sunday, October 28, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 GRANNIES GO DISCO!!! Grannies is an all-star satire event celebrating folk and inspirational music with live performances and drag personalities. It’s irreverent, but never sacrilegious, and always uplifting humor. Grannies remembers those days of going to grandma's house for Sunday Dinner. Brunch and live entertainment provided. Tickets cost $25. Reserved tables for eight are available for $200. Mimosas and cash bar will be available. Purchase tickets now. 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 11 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... First Thursday Art Opening Tuesday, November 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality’s November showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit with a combined show titled “Places, Faces and Spaces of Tulsa” by Carla Hefley and Linda Dunbar, beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 1 st , from 6 to 9 p.m. Two skilled and award-winning visual artists – Hefley and Dunbar – are Places, Faces and Spaces of Tulsa. They paint in oils, acrylics and watercolor, trying to capture the places, faces and spaces of Tulsa. Carla Hefley is inspired by the inside world. She may eat somewhere, get her hair cut or walk into a home in Tulsa and find the perfect scene to inspire her. When she happens upon the accidental still life, the camera is out, and she snaps a photo to take to the studio and recreate it on canvas. Linda Dunbar paints many things but excels in the portrait. She captures the perfect look and feel of the faces of Tulsa. She is inspired by many media and genres, but portraits are her game. She is also adept in capturing many places outside, en plein air. Between the two, they capture the Places, Faces and Spaces of Tulsa. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org LGBT Women's Network November Happy Hour Monday, November 5, 5:00 p.m. Centennial Lounge - VFW Post 577 1109 E. 6th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Our November Happy Hour will be hosted at Centennial Lounge inside Tulsa's VFW Post 577. Mix and mingle with ladies you might not meet otherwise, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. fl'GBT W-omen-S Network 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 12 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Don't forget to bring business cards to be entered into a drawing for a door prize. HARUV USA LECTURE SERIES Let's Get This Straight: Working Towards Protecting LGBTQ Children, Youth, and Their Families Monday, 11 .5.18 @ 7-8:30pm OU-Tulsa Schusterman Learning Center (campus map attached) FREE {for Social Work professionals eomjng CEUs, 1.5 will be offered for $15 on site that even;ng} HARUB USA Lecture Series Monday, November 5, 7:00 p.m. OU - Tulsa Schusterman Learning Center 4502 E. 41st St., Tulsa, OK 74135 FOR MORE INFORMATION PLEASE CONTACT: kaseyrinehart@ou.edu 1.5 CEU's will be available Click here to register I Gerald P. Mallon, DSW, is the Julia Lath rop Professor of Child Welfare and the Associate Dean of Scholarship and Research at the Silberman School of Social Work at Hunter College in New York City. For more than 43 years, Dr. Mallon has been a child welfare practitioner, advocate, educator, and researcher. Dr. Mallon was the first child welfare - • - ' -••: - - - 1 :- 11..- 11 C •- •-•--•- I.. • .,. :,_ -L..- .. 1 --...J ...J-.. -1-- - •- - • - - • ' - • l ~ DTf""I 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 13 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... j-ll Ult!::.::.1u11u 1 Ill lilt! U . J . I U lt!::.t!Ull..11 , VVll l t! uuuu1, UIIU Ut!Yt!IUj-1 f-JIU~IUIII::. IUI L'-7D 1 '->I youth in child welfare settings. He has also wrillen extensively about sexual orientation and gender identity expression . Dr. Mellon's scholarship and practice has been recognized through multiple awards including The Judge Richard Ware Award - Louisiana Children's Trust Fund; The New York Slate Citizens Coalition for Children Advocacy Award, the Hosteler-Habib Award, Family Equality Council; the Child Advocate of the Year Award - North American Council on Adoptable Children; and induction in 2014 as a Fellow of the American Academy of Social Work and Social Welfare. In 2017, Dr. Mallon was awarded the Adoption Excellence Award from the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. He serves on numerous editorial boards of professional journals and is the Senior Editor of the professional journal, Child Welfare and the author or editor of more than twenty-four books. His most recent publications are: Social Work Practice with Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender People (3rd edition}, published by Routledge Press; and Child Welfare for the Twenty-first Century: A Handbook of Practices, Policies, and Programs (2nd edition), co-edited with Peg Hess, published by Columbia University Press. In his role as the Executive Director of the National Center for Child Welfare Excellence, Dr. Mallon has traveled to all 50 stales, many territories and numerous tribes to deliver technica l assistance and training on a range of ch ild welfare related issues "particularly" as they relate lo youth and to foster care. Dr. Mallon has lectured and worked extensively throughout the United Stales, and inlernalionally in Argentina, Austral ia, Canada, Cuba, Indonesia, Ireland, Israel, the Netherlands, Portugal, and the United Kingdom. Dr. Mallon earned his doctorate in Social Welfare from the City University of New York al Hunter College, holds an MSW from Fordham University and a BSW from Dominican College. Dr. Mallon also lives the talk he talks, in addition to being a child welfare professional for his entire career, he has been a foster parent and is the adoptive parent of now grown children . Haruv USA at OU-Tulsa provides comprehensive, inter-professional education, training, and research in the prevention and treatment of child abuse and neglect. II is a partnership between the Haruv Institute in Israel, the OU Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, and OU-Tulsa . Haruv USA at OU-Tulsa INTERNATIONAL CE TER OF EXCELLENCE & A RECOGNIZED LEADER I THE FIELD OF CHILD MALTREATMENT 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 14 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Open NOH8 Photo Shoot in Tulsa, OK Sunday, November 18, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the #NOH8Worldwide movement in Tulsa, OK and add your face to the fight for equal human rights! COST: Single/Solo Photos: $40 Couple/Group Photos: $25 per person NOH8 accepts cash and credit cards only. Fees paid to participate cover services and costs for one edited digital print only, made available via noh8campaign.com , and do not include physical prints. * COME CAMERA-READY * * WEAR A WHITE SHIRT * * POSE & MAKE A STATEMENT! * The NOH8 Campaign returns to Oklahomans For Equality @ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sunday, November 18th for an open photo shoot! Stop by anytime between 2pm-4pm to pose for an official NOH8 photo by photographer Adam Bouska . No reservations needed! Photos are first-come, first-served - and we move fast! Please arrive camera-ready with a plain white shirt to match the signature style of the NOH8 photos. When is the best time to arrive? Most people tend to arrive before the photo shoot begins, but as long as someone has lined up by the advertised end time for the photo shoot (4:00pm for this photo shoot), they should be guaranteed a chance to pose! Once you arrive, the next steps are easy! 1. Fill-out one numbered model release for each person. 2. Have a NOH8 temporary tattoo applied for your photo. 3. Standby for your number to be called. 4. Process your payment once called. 5. Trade your processed model release for duct tape! NOH8 Co-Founder Adam Bouska will photograph roughly 5-10 frames per person. One frame will be selected/edited by our team and made available within approximately eight weeks (timeline subject to change). INTERESTED IN VOLUNTEERING? E-mail info@noh8campaign.com ------ -- ----- with your contact information and make sure to note which shoot you'd like to volunteer for! Funds raised by the NOH8 Campaign will be used to continue promoting and raising awareness for marriage and human equality as well as anti-discrimination and anti-bullying 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 15 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... through NOH8’s interactive social media campaign. This includes bringing the campaign to other cities and countries around the world, creating and compiling images for our ongoing large-scale media campaign, and covering the costs of the daily operations and maintenance necessary to run this rapidly growing campaign out of our Burbank Headquarters. The NOH8 Campaign is a tax-exempt charitable organization under section 501(c)(3) of the Internal Revenue Code. Click here and scroll down to the 'Funds & Financing' portion of our FAQ for more information about how fees are utilized. Inclusion for People with Developmental Disabilities Saturdays at 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. Neurodiversity Social Group Saturdays at 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 HARVFST-TIME POTLUCK OCTOBER 13 6PM F 0 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 16 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Art for the Heart Program: An all inclusive Arts Program Sundays at 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 EVERY SUNDAY IN IlIE WELI.NFSS CENTER FROM OPEN TO CLOSE JOIN US IN THE CELEBRATION OF ART CREATE! DF,.gGNt INSPIRE GET WET AND WIID WIIH PAINil BURN _ _ YOURP~~O~N~S_ __ 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 17 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... 3M EXPRE5SING PRIDE IN OUR IDENTITIFS THROUGH ART Thesis Research Study Please consider participating in my thesis research study examining the connection between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) identity, community connection, and resilience! This study is approved by the institutional review board at Northeastern State University and under the supervision of my thesis chair, Dr. Steven Byers. In order to be eligible for the study, you must: Be 18 years of age at the time of completion Identify as LGBTQ+ To participate in the study, please complete the survey here . The survey will take about 20 to 30 minutes to complete. You can be entered to win a $25.00 Amazon gift card if you provide an email address at the end of the survey. This study is anonymous. The only identifying information which will be collected is demographic information, and will not specifically identify you. You will be asked to provide an email at the conclusion of the survey to be entered in the raffle if you so wish, but are not required to do so. Participation in this study is voluntary. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you may close the browser window at any time. If you do not want to answer a question, you may skip any question in this survey. 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 18 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... If you have any questions, please contact Jordan Westcott ( Westcott@nsuok.edu ) or Dr. Steven Byers ( byerss@nsuok.edu ). We hope that you choose to participate in this study and share your experience! Sisters in Song Tuesdays at 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sisters in Song would like to invite new members to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now beginning rehearsals for our upcoming holiday performances, so it’s a great time to start! We practice every Tuesday evening at 7pm at the Equality Center, second floor. Council Oak Men's Chorale Rehearsals on Tuesdays, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 The Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new members to sing in our holiday concert! Come join a great group of guys who enjoy singing and changing our community through song. We are excited to have Elizabeth Curtis, a former artistic director of the chorale, back as our interim director for the holiday concert. Our holiday concert, “Don We Now...,” will be Dec. 4th, 6th and 7th at East Side Christian Church, 1438 S. Indianapolis Ave. If you aren't singing with us, plan on attending. You won't want to miss starting your holiday season with the Council Oak Men's Chorale. PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT IN AN UNDERSERVED POPULATION WE NE D YOUR HELP!!! The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. Additionally, the field of 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 19 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures tell us about transgender individuals! YOU ARE ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. It involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take approximately two hours of your time. After completing the study, you will receive a $15.00 gift card. For questions or to participate. contact doctoral student researcher William Bryant: Email: wjlliam-bryant@utulsa.edu Cell Phone: 330 322-2442 his study I bemg conducted as part of the student researcher's dissertation for the niversi ofTulsa· Clini a l p,_ycho loi,,y Pro ram. You're not alone YOU'RE NOT Support group for partners with HIV/ AIDS Do you have a partner who was recently diagnosed with HIV/AIDS? Have you found a community to process this life change with? Are you looking for support? As every airplane attendant says, “Put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others.” ALONE Having a partner with a life-threatening illness can take a toll on your well being. This group may help you to recognize and change your reactions to the new challenges that having a partner with HIV/AIDS might pose. We will meet weekly for 6 weeks to cover information on HIV/AIDS, process difficulties you may be having with your partner, learn new ways to cope with this change, foster healthier communication, prepare for the future, and better manage stress. If interested please email jose.vega@okeq.org to join the group. You are not alone. 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 20 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library "The Meaning of Matthew: My son's murder in Laramie, and a world transformed" By: Judy Shepard JI F I' \ I l Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. “ The Meaning of Matthew is Judy Shepard’s passionate and courageous attempt to understand what no mother should have to understand, which is why her son was murdered in Laramie, Wyoming, in the fall of 1998. It is a vivid testimony to a life cut short, and testimony too, to the bravery and compassion of Judy and Dennis—Matthew’s parents—as they struggle to survive a grief that won’t go away.”—Larry McMurtry, author of Terms of Endearment and Lonesome Dove Today the name Matthew Shepard is synonymous with gay rights, but until 1998, he was just Judy Shepard’s son. In this remarkably candid memoir, Judy Shepard shares the story behind the headlines. Interweaving memories of Matthew and her family with the challenges of confronting her son’s death, Judy describes how she handled the crippling loss of her child in the public eye, the vigils and protests held by strangers in her son’s name, and ultimately how she and her husband gained the courage to help prosecutors convict her son's murderers. The Meaning of Matthew is more than a retelling of horrific injustice that brought the reality of inequality and homophobia into the American consciousness. It is an unforgettable and inspiring account of how one ordinary woman turned an unthinkable tragedy into a vital message for the world. Equality Center Pride Store Transgender enamel pins are for sale at 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 21 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... the OkEq Pride Store for $5. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 22 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are available Mon-Thurs 12:30-6:00 p.m. and w alk in appointments are available. Appointments can be made by calling 918-280-9645 Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting ou1,....,f""'ll•·harccorrc,1foroll<! Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, October 18 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members October OkEq Art Exhibition The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Ricardo Sanchez, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 4, from 6 to 9 p.m., where a door prize of the artist’s work will be given. It's Complicated Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 23 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGAL A10 thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library October 10 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Facilitated by Allison Ikley-Freeman. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org --- --or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 2nd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 24 of 30 are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Asexual Meeting https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 2nd & 4th Tuesday of every month 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. sao-e ~~~~:~~! ~, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Lambda AlAnon Group Every Friday 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 25 of 30 "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. This open Al-Anon group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. Contact 918.743.2754 for more information. Tulsa Writers, Ink. Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Adult Survivors of Childhood Trauma. 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 26 of 30 Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... siawso.org Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Sundays @ 4:00 p.m. LGBTQ individuals have a higher risk of experiencing trauma at an early age and these experiences of abuse, bullying, and stigmatization in youth can affect life as an adult. The primary focus of this group will be to teach people how to recognize their trauma and how to use healthy coping skills to deal with the effects. Members will be encouraged to build an internal network with other participants to provide each other with emotional and social support during weekly meetings held on Sundays @ 4pm. Art for the Heart: An all Inclusive Arts Program Sundays @ 1:00 p.m. Neurodiversity Social Group Inclusion for People with Developmental Saturdays @ 4:00 p.m. Do you find yourself over stimulated by large crowds or loud noises? Do you Art is more than just pictures on the wall. Art helps people express themselves, find happiness, and it can help with mobility and dexterity. Art classes foster connections between 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 27 of 30 Disabilities Saturdays @ 1:00 p.m. Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... crave meaningful social interaction in a calm, safe environment? If you are living with a mental health diagnosis, are on the autism spectrum, or generally prefer calmer social events, then this is the place for you. Here, members will meet weekly on Saturdays @ 4pm to socialize and connect with individuals like themselves. Each week members will collectively decide on a different activity ranging from game nights, movie nights, outings, and many others. individuals and helps reduce isolation many people experience. Please join us in making our community a more beautiful, meaningful place through the enrichment of art. Subjects will be elected by members from a range of topics including: glass fusing and jewelry making, mosaics, basket weaving, finger weaving, ceramics, acrylic painting, and quilting. This group is all inclusive, and encourages individuals from all age groups to come together for weekly sessions on Sundays @ 1pm. LGBTQ+ History: Interviewees Wanted By appointment Do you feel like you have something to say about your life as an LGBTQ+ individual? Recording the history of the LGBTQ+ community is currently a feature of programming at the Equality Center. This program is designed to supplement and further complete our collective history by interviewing participants to further investigate past and present features of LGBTQ+ life and identity. Interviewees will sit down face to face and be asked a series of questions in regards to their person lives and experiences. All information gathered will be added to the existing 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 28 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... archive. Please contact Ely at burgesej@nsuok.edu to set up your appointment. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 29 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Jose Vega Program Director Olivia Cotter Office Manager Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer & Pride Store Coordinator Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Marcia Keesee, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Sheena Grewal, At Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Jan Baldwin Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Allison Ikley-Freeman Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn Visit our website View our events Contact us today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. 621 East Fourth Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:39 PM �Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are! 30 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-Out--Come-Out--Whereve... 08 4/24/26, 4:39 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e6ca003a4109316a6213db2fe2147c58.pdf b2505c00f821b4844e104ad6188ecce5 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/322d4bb5a80f2b1cf5831f66f040e2e9.pdf 04f33449b5ce39e4e319e96da45f12c5 PDF Text Text Grannies Sunday Brunch, July 29, Weekly eNews 1 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Sunday-Brunch--July-2... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews July 25th, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website 4/24/26, 4:30 PM �Grannies Sunday Brunch, July 29, Weekly eNews 2 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Sunday-Brunch--July-2... Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Grannies Sunday Brunch Sunday, July 29, 10:30 a.m. and 12:30 p.m. seating Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Grannies is an all-star satire event celebrating folk and inspirational music with live performances and drag personalities. It’s irreverent, but never sacrilegious, and always uplifting humor. Grannies remembers those days of going to church, gospel music and church potluck dinners. Two seatings are offered –10:30 a.m. and 12:30 p.m. Both include brunch and live entertainment. Tickets cost $25. Reserved tables for eight are available for $200. Mimosas and cash bar will be available. Purchase tickets now AHOMANS O EQ ALITY SC 00 4/24/26, 4:30 PM �Grannies Sunday Brunch, July 29, Weekly eNews 3 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Sunday-Brunch--July-2... SUPPLY DRIVE JULY 9-31, 2018 4/24/26, 4:30 PM �Grannies Sunday Brunch, July 29, Weekly eNews 4 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Sunday-Brunch--July-2... Back To School Carnival Sunday, August 5, 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for the Family Ties Back to School Carnival! We’ll have refreshments and snacks, plus free school supplies Bring your swimsuit, towels and flip-flops for the water slides, and come ready to tackle the big obstacle course and have fun in the bouncy houses. We’ll also have face-painting, arts and crafts, and storytelling with Uncle Toby! ■ powered by the tulsa regional chamber TAKE THE MOSAIC INCLUSIVE WORKPLACE INDEX This year, Mosaic is unveiling a new and improved assessment tool for businesses to gauge their diversity and inclusion efforts. We took feedback from employers who had taken the past survey and looked at best practices around the country to make it more user-friendly and more of a tool that businesses can use to improve their own initiatives. The Mosaic Inclusive Workplace Index lets companies examine their diversity and inclusion efforts and find out what they do well and what they can improve. After completing the index, businesses will receive a confidential report with benchmark data at a later date that they can use to compare progress year to year. Participants will also receive suggested resources 4/24/26, 4:30 PM �Grannies Sunday Brunch, July 29, Weekly eNews 5 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Sunday-Brunch--July-2... relating to their development opportunities, including lunch and learns and workshops that Mosaic will offer based on index results. The index is available to take now through August 8 at mosaicindex.org. You do not have to complete it in one sitting. Individual results will be returned at a later date after completion. Please feel free to share the index with area employers. 2018 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality is set for 7 p.m. Thursday, Sept. 6, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Presently, eight seats on the Board of Directors are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Deadline has passed) OR oklahomans for equality 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Petitions due to the board secretary by Aug. 24) Requirements and expectations of a director: 1. Be a current OkEq member with membership fees current 2. Attend board meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time and energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Perform additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a director) 5. Serve a two-year term Bartlesville Pride Family Picnic Saturday, July 28, 3:00 - 8:00 p.m. Johnstone Park 200 N. Cherokee Bartlesville, OK 74003 PresentedBy: y OkEq-Bartlesville, together with our friends at Phillips 66 and ConocoPhillips, will host the first Bartlesville Pride Family Picnic! ConocoPhillips 4/24/26, 4:30 PM �Grannies Sunday Brunch, July 29, Weekly eNews 6 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Sunday-Brunch--July-2... Come to a free picnic in the park with food, games, and family fun! All ages are welcome and encouraged to attend. We will have yard games and toys set up for family members of all ages. Please bring lawn chairs and blankets for sitting. Provided seating will be limited. Attendees may bring ice chests for personal food and beverages. Pets are welcome, but please keep them on leashes. Grateful Day Grill-N-Chill Saturday, July 28, 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle 1338 E. 3rd St., TUlsa, OK 74120 Come on out to the Tulsa Eagle, for a burger or dawg, before the ICAO's Christmas in July event. Plates are $7.00 per person. All proceeds from this event, and events like this, go directly to help finance the Annual HIV Wellness Retreat! Thank you all for your support! Tulsa has helped us make this happen for 6 years now! We could not do it without your caring and support! First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, August 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality’s August showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Malinda Blank in a show titled “PULL,” beginning with a reception on Thursday, Aug. 2, from 6 to 9 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. Born in Tulsa, Blank received a BA in photography from the University of Southern California in Los Angeles. In 2016, she received a Master of Fine Arts from California State University in Chico. Her ... work has been exhibited at Contact Space in Los Angeles and was awarded the Juror Prize at Giving Pause, the 60th Annual Juried Exhibition at University Gallery in Chico, CA. Currently working at FireThief Productions, Blank also teaches art at the Oklahoma School of Science and Mathematics in Oklahoma City. She is an active member of the Camp Fire USA executive board and the Emerging Leaders Society Philanthropy Forum. When not working 4/24/26, 4:30 PM �Grannies Sunday Brunch, July 29, Weekly eNews 7 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Sunday-Brunch--July-2... on her art practice, she enjoys spending time with her cats and discussing the cultural ramifications of relational aesthetics. The show continues throughout the month. ww.okeq.org Friend for a Friend Annual Fundraising Banquet Saturday, August 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Seating is limited, so make your Reservations before August 1st. Follow link below to purchase tickets. Tickets: $20.00 per person ------- ingBanq t " •• 4/24/26, 4:30 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/41314a4f176633710cb86964621dffa8.pdf d340368d31f21c48721705fd9a6217b7 PDF Text Text Back to School Carnival, August 1, Weekly eNews 1 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Back-to-School-Carnival--August... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews August 1st, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/24/26, 4:31 PM �Back to School Carnival, August 1, Weekly eNews 2 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Back-to-School-Carnival--August... FOR DISTRICT JUDGE ELECTBRECHT .COM Volunteer of the Month Ashley Spaulding August 2018 4/24/26, 4:31 PM �Back to School Carnival, August 1, Weekly eNews 3 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Back-to-School-Carnival--August... Back To School Carnival Sunday, August 5, 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for the Family Ties Back to School Carnival! We’ll have refreshments and snacks, plus free school supplies Bring your swimsuit, towels and flip-flops for the water slides, and come ready to tackle the big obstacle course and have fun in the bouncy houses. We’ll also have face-painting, arts and crafts, and storytelling with Uncle Toby! First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, August 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality’s August showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Malinda Blank in a show titled “PULL,” beginning with a reception on Thursday, Aug. 2, from 6 to 9 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. Born in Tulsa, Blank received a BA in photography from the University of Southern California in Los Angeles. In 2016, she received a Master of Fine Arts from California State University in Chico. Her work has been exhibited at Contact Space in Los Angeles and was awarded the Juror Prize at Giving Pause, the 60th Annual Juried Exhibition at University Gallery in Chico, CA. Currently working at FireThief Productions, Blank also teaches art at the Oklahoma School of Science and Mathematics in Oklahoma City. She is an active member of the Camp Fire USA executive board and the Emerging Leaders Society Philanthropy Forum. When not working on her art practice, she enjoys spending time with her cats and discussing the cultural ramifications of relational aesthetics. The show continues throughout the month. ww.okeq.org 4/24/26, 4:31 PM �Back to School Carnival, August 1, Weekly eNews 4 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Back-to-School-Carnival--August... ■ powered by the tulsa regional chamber TAKE THE MOSAIC INCLUSIVE WORKPLACE INDEX This year, Mosaic is unveiling a new and improved assessment tool for businesses to gauge their diversity and inclusion efforts. We took feedback from employers who had taken the past survey and looked at best practices around the country to make it more user-friendly and more of a tool that businesses can use to improve their own initiatives. The Mosaic Inclusive Workplace Index lets companies examine their diversity and inclusion efforts and find out what they do well and what they can improve. After completing the index, businesses will receive a confidential report with benchmark data at a later date that they can use to compare progress year to year. Participants will also receive suggested resources relating to their development opportunities, including lunch and learns and workshops that Mosaic will offer based on index results. The index is available to take now through August 8 at mosaicindex.org. You do not have to complete it in one sitting. Individual results will be returned at a later date after completion. Please feel free to share the index with area employers. 2018 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality is set for 7 p.m. Thursday, Sept. 6, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Presently, eight seats on the Board of Directors are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Deadline has passed) OR oklahomans for equality 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Petitions due to the board secretary by Aug. 24) 4/24/26, 4:31 PM �Back to School Carnival, August 1, Weekly eNews 5 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Back-to-School-Carnival--August... Requirements and expectations of a director: 1. Be a current OkEq member with membership fees current 2. Attend board meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time and energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Perform additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a director) 5. Serve a two-year term Friend for a Friend Annual Fundraising Banquet Saturday, August 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Seating is limited, so make your Reservations before August 1st. Follow link below to purchase tickets. Tickets: perperson - $20.00 -- A FrLe V\,ot for lit FrLe V\,ot ngBanq t " •• 4/24/26, 4:31 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/13103de2f01ad88cf949d0b5a93cc020.pdf f20ffa4be7e918b52cc7c15784e1a355 PDF Text Text Visit the Rainbow Room 1 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews August 9th, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 2 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... FOR DISTRICT JUDGE ELECTBRECHT .COM EBA Mixer Wednesday, August 15, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Spexton Jewelry 1609 E. 15th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Spexton Jewelry in Tulsa is Oklahoma's most unique retail jewelry store. Voted among the top ten coolest jewelers in North America, Spexton excels in creating handmade and custom jewelry pieces with classic, modern or vintage flairs Spexton started in custom men's wedding bands 10 years ago but has grown to include both men's and women's wedding and engagement rings, bridal jewelry and jewelry design services, allowing you to create a one-of-a-kind look just for you. We are also known for our unique finishes and use of mixed metals to create stunning wedding bands from black zirconium, meteorite, stainless steel, titanium, damascus, white gold, yellow gold, rose gold, palladium, platinum and more. 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 3 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... Our fine jewelry services include the addition of our expert diamond buyer, who can guide the purchase of loose diamonds or gemstones, remounting your existing stones, or jewelry appraisals. We also offer jewelry repair services. In addition to rings, we offer a unique collection of custom necklaces, bracelets and cuffs, cuff links, earrings and money clips that make the perfect anniversary or birthday gift or push present in our classic Spexton style. Visit Spexton online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: Please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. E UALITY Business Alliance Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, August 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room in Tulsa Oklahomans for Equality announces a new musical cabaret series: “Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room.” Each Third Thursday of the month will feature one of Tulsa’s finest musical performers in the intimate atmosphere of the new Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre. Kicking off the series on Thursday, August 16th will be Tulsa theatre favorite, Pat Hobbs, as Danny Day in “Music is Better Than Words.” Performances are scheduled every third Thursday of the month at 8:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street, Tulsa OK . 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 4 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... For tickets or more information, see okeq.org/store . OUT West Friday August 31, 5:30 p.m. Gilcrease Museum 1400 N. Gilcrease Museum Rd., Tulsa, OK 74127 Dinner and Lecture with Gregory Hinton: 5:30 – 7:00 pm Gilcrease After Hours: OutWest with OKEQ: 7:00-10:00 pm featuring country western dancing, cash bar, and live DJ. The evening begins with a barbecue dinner by TW’s-AFAB catering, and a lecture by the renowned historian Gregory Hinton whose work explores LGBTQ themes on LGBTQ history and culture in the American West. Hinton is founding director of the Gay & Lesbian Rodeo Heritage Foundation and 2017 recipient of its Paladin Award; Hinton holds the 2010 International Gay Rodeo Association President’s Award for his Gay Rodeo Legacy Project. The lecture is free and open to the public but advanced tickets for the barbecue dinner are required. The dinner is $26.00 for Adults and $12.50 for students with a valid student ID. Then finish the night off with your cowboy boots and some country and western dancing for 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 5 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... Gilcrease After Hours: OutWest which is free and open to the public. Featuring a live DJ, cash bar, and open galleries. Bring yourself, your friends, or your partner, and don’t forget to stop by the touring exhibition “Blake Little: Photographs from the Gay Rodeo.” Experience the grit, determination and community of the national gay rodeo circuit in classic black-and-white photographs. Photographer Blake Little provides an expansive redefinition of what a cowboy can be in his images capturing scenes of camaraderie, identity and sport in one of America’s most timehonored traditions. The 41 black and white photographs taken by Blake Little between 1988 and 1992 in Photographs document the gay rodeo circuit and the lives of many of its participants in those years. Co-Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Eagle. Barbecue Dinner $26.00 for Adults, $12.50 for students with valid student ID Tickets are now available The Queens Saturday, August 11, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tickets are now available. 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 6 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... Rise Up Singing Sunday August 19, 7:00 p.m. The Synagogue - Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 S. Owasso, Tulsa, OK 74120 Community singing is like nothing else. We lift each other to a higher place when we take part in music-making with other people. This year’s edition will focus on folk, roots music, and Americana. “Rise Up Singing” differs from other concerts in that performers are song leaders, not soloists. Every audience member will receive a folio of lyrics, and the words to each song also will be displayed on a large screen. Hundreds of members and friends of B’nai Emunah are expected to attend this annual event. Leading the singing this year are synagogue members and professionals, along with special friends of the congregation. The singing begins at 7 p.m., and the event is free and open to the public. No reservations are necessary. Those who’d like to reserve space for a preconcert meal at 5:45 p.m. should call the synagogue at (918) 583-7121 or click here . The meal will be catered by the Seventeenth Street Deli, B’nai Emunah’s in-house kosher delicatessen. Patrons can look forward to artisanal, house-cured pastrami and corned beef, knishes, synagogue-baked rye bread, dill half-sour pickles, babka, and all the traditional accompaniments of a Jewish deli experience. The meal costs $18. Tours of the building, which is at the corner of Seventeenth and Peoria, 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 7 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... will be offered at 5 and 6 p.m. for those who would like to know more about Jewish life in Tulsa. Free valet parking will be available beginning at 6 p.m. Council Oak Men's Chorale Rehearsals Start on Tuesday August 21, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 The Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new members to sing in our holiday concert! Come join a great group of guys who enjoy singing and changing our community through song. We are excited to have Elizabeth Curtis, a former artistic director of the chorale, back as our interim director for the holiday concert. Our holiday concert, “Don We Now...,” will be Dec. 4th, 6th and 7th at East Side Christian Church, 1438 S. Indianapolis Ave. If you aren't singing with us, plan on attending. You won't want miss starting your holiday season with the Council Oak Men's Chorale. SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesday August 21, September 18, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have its next pool party on Tuesday, August 21. Members can meet at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to ease getting into the pool. If you plan to attend, please RSVP to olivia.cotter@okeq.org or (918) 743-4297. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Place in Tulsa. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults; supports and advocates for their rights; fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities; and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. Heart to Heart: Abortion Conversations Thursday, August 23, 7:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 8 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 It’s important now more than ever to build community, organize and resist the stigma and barriers that surround reproductive choice and access. Join us as we hold a brave space for a necessary heart-to-heart abortion conversation. What could liberation look like in Oklahoma, and how do we move toward it together? All ages are welcome. 2018 HIV Wellness Retreat August 23 - 26 Camp Christian 275 Camp Christian Lane Chouteau, OK 74337 This retreat is for people living with HIV. It is designed to help people find the community that can help them network with other people living with HIV. There is a $20 application fee (scholarships available) and a $5 fee for the kayak trips on Saturday. Applications are available online at www.gratefulday.org and on our Facebook page. Paper applications are available at Tulsa Cares and OSU IMSS. Divas 4 H.O.P.E. 2018 Saturday August 25, 6:00 p.m. Cox Assembly Hall at the Cox Business Center 2100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74120 oa 25 ta 1)1\/A{ 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 9 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... L/ I T f"""'U Please join us for our annual fundraiser and concert, “DIVAS Goes to Hollywood.” ~tr~ Plated dinner with concert to follow Dress: black-tie optional Co-chairs: Adam Kyle & Jeff Pounds Valet parking provided COX BUSINE SS CEN TER ASSEMBLY HALL DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. 2018 2Q TH ANNIVERSARY SIX O "CLOCK IN THE EVENING Performers include: Double Treble, FuZed, Mark Gibson, Heather Richetto-Rumley, Kara Wilber, Rebecca Marks Jimerson, Eric Himan, Pam Van Dyke Crosby, & Andrew Witter Sponsorship Levels Elizabeth Taylor/Presenting Sponsor $15,000 / 2 VIP Tables for 10 / Premier Spotlight Seating / Premier Program Recognition / Table Service including Champagne Towers / provides medical & testing supplies and HIV, HCV, & STD Rapid Tests for 1 year Rock Hudson Sponsor $5,000 / 1 Premier Table for 10 / Spotlight Seating / Program Recognition / Table Service / provides safe sex and harm reduction supplies for 1 year James Dean Sponsor $2,000 / 1 Table for 10 / Program Recognition / provides mileage expenses for 3 months on the testing van Rita Moreno Sponsor $250 / Single Ticket / provides HIV Rapid testing for 1 week Click here for ticket and sponsorship information Grannies Sunday Brunch Sunday, August 26, 12:00 p.m. seating Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Grannies is an all-star satire event celebrating folk and inspirational music with live performances and drag personalities. It’s irreverent, but never sacrilegious, and always uplifting humor. Grannies remembers those days of going to church, gospel music and church potluck dinners. 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 10 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... Brunch and live entertainment provided. Tickets cost $25. Reserved tables for eight are available for $200. Mimosas and cash bar will be available. Tickets are now available First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, September 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The September Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Micheal Jones in a show titled “Gods and Fools” beginning with a reception from 6 to 9 p.m. on Thursday, Sept. 6, and continuing throughout the month. Since the age of 12, Micheal Jones has been an artist. In school, he was remembered as the guy who spent his extra time in the library studying the Renaissance; that sums up Micheal’s life in a nutshell. By the age of 16, he had sold his first painting, and within a few years, he was hanging one-man shows in every available venue, from banks and museums to community buildings. Micheal attained his master’s degree and began exhibiting in well-known juried national shows from Los Angeles to New York. He has a set of mezzotints in the State Museum of Yekaterinberg, Russia. “Gods and Fools” is a portfolio of works depicting ancient personalities in modern-day settings. Using young models in the confines of his studio and other settings, Micheal creates paintings that are both attractive and mildly erotic, much in the style of the pioneer of “earthly realism”: Caravaggio. By combining this theatrical dynamism with careful observation from life, Caravaggio achieved a gritty naturalism in both genre and religious scenes. Conversely, Micheal has chosen to portray his figures using his own contemporary Impressionistic style, which further emphasizes the fact that these figures are firmly entrenched in the modern era. His models often stare directly at the viewer and include the mundane details of modern life. The show continues throughout the month. ww.okeq.org OkEq Teen Theatre Program Saturday, September 8, 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Euqality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 11 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... Theater at EQ for teens age 13-17 Starting Sept 8 - with performance in the afternoon on Oct 27 Times 1pm to 3pm with extra rehearsals the week of the show Creating a historical theatre piece involving LGBT activists through creative writing and improvisation. Goals Greater comprehension of emotional IQ and self-awareness Understanding points of view through empathy work Tying today's challenges to our past heroes of social justice Class time Teens will choose a historical LGBT character and then experiment with creating monologues from historical data and imagination. Students will act out monologues and develop improvisational scenes for the performance. Teens will learn acting techniques and improvisational games to help create a final performance. Instructor: Julie Tattershall has a BFA in theatre from the University of Tulsa and an MHR Masters of Human Relations from the University of Oklahoma. She has directed over 80 plays. She was instrumental in developing, creating and implementing touring programs throughout the state. Created an improvisational troupe which has performed over 500 shows in the last twentyfive years. She won the 2012 Mary Kay Place Legacy Award from the Tulsa Awards for Theatre Excellence, funded by the George Kaiser Family Foundation, for lifetime achievement and contributions to the Tulsa theatre community. She won the 2014 Hall of Honor award from the Oklahoma Community Theatre Association, in recognition of the outstanding contribution to the development of community theatre in Oklahoma. Recently she created “Aesop Afoot” which is touring the local schools for the Artists-in-Schools program. Please email Jose.vega@okeq.org with any questions OkEq Equality Youth Group: Alphabet Soup Saturday, September 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Euqality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 12 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be every Saturday upstairs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Alphabet SOUP is an out and about GSA that also encourages and supports selected teens who demonstrate leadership skills. Please email Jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - with any questions www.fostercare-ok.org 17 ~ Saint Francis Community Services Give hope. Change a life. Become a foster parent. LGBT Women's Network September Happy Hour Monday, September 10, 5:00 p.m. In the Raw Brookside 3321 S. Peoria Ave., Tulsa, OK 74105 ***We decided to push our September happy hour back a week because of the holiday, just FYI! This month's sponsor is Day's Building Materials! Come mix and mingle with ladies you might not meet otherwise, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. We'll have light appetizers and don't forget to bring business cards to be entered into a drawing for a door prize! MEET LIKE-MINDED TULSA WOMEN - ~ & BUILD YOUR NETWORK - .... . \ ~ 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 13 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... App~ provided by: I -+. " ' ,J '!!l. 4i(c~~ ."~ MisFEST Saturday, September 15, 6:00 p.m. River West Festival Park 2100 S. Jackson Ave., Tulsa, OK 74120 MisFEST – Tulsa’s first female-led festival – is heading into its second year with an all new line-up of regional acts and a national headliner – Katie Herzig. A producer, singer-songwriter and performer, all while being a proud supporter and member of the LGBTQ community, Herzig is fresh off the 2018 release of her sixth album, “Moment of Bliss.” Herzig tours the U.S. this summer for the first time in four years. She has performed at Bonnaroo and on VH1 and has toured extensively, both as a headliner and as support for artists such as Brandi Carlile, Sara Bareilles and Ingrid Michaelson. Herzig has always been very hands-on in the production of her own music, which has led to opportunities to co-write and produce music for other artists as well, including Ingrid Michaelson’s platinum-selling single “Girls Chase Boys.” The MisFEST line-up is dedicated to diversity and to showing that a strong female performer can never fit in a box. For more info or to purchase tickets, visit www.misfest.com. Visit www.misfest.com to use your EXCLUSIVE discount code “OKEQROCKS” to save $5 per ticket! 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Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 15 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 73120 A new documentary focusing on the reproductive rights of people living in Oklahoma will be shown at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in September. The Reproductive Justice Campus Action Network housed at the University of Central Oklahoma’s Women’s Research Center and BGLTQ+ Student Center has created a documentary intended to put a face to Oklahomans whose bodily autonomy has been affected. The documentary presents an opportunity for people to engage in an open conversation about issues that are often overlooked and disregarded. It gives viewers the chance to hear the experiences of people who live in Oklahoma. “We want to give a voice to the people who are affected by their reproductive rights being violated or who do not know or understand what reproductive justice is,” said Mickayla Fisher, coordinator of the Reproductive Justice Campus Action Network and the student volunteer coordinator. “These interviews are powerful, and the world needs to see the struggles of these men and women.” Oklahomans for Equality’s office manager, Olivia Cotter, is featured in the film. “If this film can ignite a flame for someone and give them the strength to stand up for themselves and others’ rights, then my team and this film have done their job,” Fisher said. “It has been rewarding seeing our documentary take shape and be able to share this experience with others.” Enid Pride 2018 Saturday, Sept. 22, 12:00 - 5:00 p.m. Government Springs Park 600 E. Owen K. Garriott Rd., Enid, OK 73701 Join us Sept. 22 for Enid Pride! Our theme this year is Roaring Pride! As always, Enid Pride is a free, family-friendly event. Please invite friends and family. Vendor, sponsorship, and volunteer forms are available online at https://enidlgbtcoalition.org/enid-pride/ . IIQ., Pll.,I !019 m ~ /. ~ 1ATUIH,AY !IPTIMB!D !!N., 1!PM- SPM COYDNMDn' 1PDINe1 PAIK INI.,, OK MU11c, lffDORt, rooD, nnu r&Mll\' rlHINl>l\' UO!TreB\': ~n!dlGBT ~Coalition --- ----- -- -- Pride Day at the Tulsa State Fair Saturday, Sept. 29, 12:00 p.m. Tulsa State Fair 4145 E. 21 St., Tulsa, OK 74114 Tulsa Pride invites you to turn the Tulsa State Fair 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 16 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... rainbow! Come out and have fun at the Tulsa State Fair as our community celebrates LGBTQ+ Pride! This is a great chance to run into familiar faces and meet new ones. Don't forget to wear your pride attire to spread awareness and visibility of our presence in Tulsa! Volunteer of the Month Ashley Spaulding August 2018 2018 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality is set for 7 p.m. Thursday, Sept. 6, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Presently, eight seats on the Board of Directors are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Deadline has passed) OR oklahomans for equality 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Petitions due to the board secretary by Aug. 24) 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 17 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... Requirements and expectations of a director: 1. Be a current OkEq member with membership fees current 2. Attend board meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time and energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Perform additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a director) 5. Serve a two-year term Photographs From the Gay Rodeo By Blake Little Runs through November 25, 2018 Gilcrease Museum 1400 N. Gilcrease Museum Rd., Tulsa, OK 74127 Experience the grit, determination and community of the national gay rodeo circuit in classic black-and-white photographs in Gilcrease Museum’s new exhibition, Blake Little: Photographs from the Gay Rodeo, which runs through Nov. 25. Since its founding in 1949, Gilcrease has led the way for artwork showcasing the American West, including depictions of the iconic cowboy. Photographer Blake Little provides an expansive redefinition of what a cowboy can be in his images capturing scenes of camaraderie, identity and sport in one of America’s most time-honored traditions. The 41 black and white photographs taken by Blake Little between 1988 and 1992 in Photographs from the Gay Rodeo document the gay rodeo circuit and the lives of many of its participants in those years. The collected body of work not only serves as a stunning example of black and white portraiture and of rodeo photography, it also explores the diverse and complex natures of individual and community identity in the West. “Blake Little’s photographs demonstrate that cowboy traditions in the United States include diverse individuals and communities, broadening notions of identity in the American West,” said Laura Fry, senior curator and curator of art at Gilcrease Museum. “These photos show many LGBT men and women from rural areas, and the gay rodeo circuit provided a place where they could celebrate their full identities. The International Gay Rodeo Association is still going strong today and includes annual events in Oklahoma.” 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 18 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... UNDERSERVED POPULATION WE NEED YOUR HELP!!! The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. Additionally, the field of psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures tell us about transgender individuals! YOU ARE ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. It involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take approximately two hours of your time. After completing the study, you will receive a $15.00 gift card. For qu estions or to participate. contact doctoral student researcher Will iam Bryant: Email: william-bryant@utulsa.edu Cell Phone: 330 322-2442 his study I bemg conducted as part of the student researcher· dissertation for tl1e ofTulsa·s_ 'linica l Psycho lob'Y Pro ram. You're not alone YOU'RE NOT Support group for partners with HIV/ AIDS Do you have a partner who was recently diagnosed with HIV/AIDS? Have you found a community to process this life change with? Are you looking for support? As every airplane attendant says, “Put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others.” ALONE Having a partner with a life-threatening illness can take a toll on your well being. This group may help you to recognize and change your reactions to the new challenges that having a partner with HIV/AIDS might pose. We will meet weekly for 6 weeks to cover information on 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 19 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... HIV/AIDS, process difficulties you may be having with your partner, learn new ways to cope with this change, foster healthier communication, prepare for the future, and better manage stress. If interested please email jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - to join the group. You are not alone. Provider Bias Survey Sara Griffey is a clinical counseling intern with Bellevue University. She facilitates OkEq's Coming Out Workshop and the Challenging Beliefs in Non-Traditional Relationships group. This survey has been crafted to better understand provider bias in the LGBTQ+ and nontraditional relationship communities. The information will be used to provide information about ways to better train and educate providers. All responses are confidential. To take the survey, please go here: https://goo.gl/forms/3BA47O4PtSt6bkz72 ----- Cub Scout Pack 226 The Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W. King St., Tulsa, OK 74106 Making a Difference Pack 226 is an inclusive scouting program open to membership to boys and girls between kindergarten and 5th grade. ALL parents/guardians who wish to participate are welcome. Pack 226 is chartered by the Parish Church of St. Jerome. Its membership represents the wide diversity of beliefs and cultures from the community we serve. Most of our scouts are students from Emerson Elementary School, but all age-eligible children are welcome to join! 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 20 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... Interested in learning more about Cub Scout Pack 226? We invite you to keep exploring our website and get in touch with questions about our values, academics, community and more. Join us today! More information available at www.tulsapack226.org Questions can be sent to TulsaPack226@gmail.com Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library "Times Have Been Better" A film by Regis Musset The time has come for Jeremy to come out to his parents. But they won't take it well and the unexpected news will put stress in their marriage, their friendshps and their jobs. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Equality Center Pride Store Transgender enamel pins are for sale at the OkEq Pride Store for $5. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 21 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. For appointments call or email Sara 918-928-2809 or sara@unitytulsa.com Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are available Mon-Thurs 12:30-6:00 p.m. and w alk in appointments are available. Appointments can be made by calling 918-280-9645 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 22 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, August 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGALAID ~ SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library August 8 August OkEq Art Exhibition The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the works of Malinda Blank. The show continues throughout the month. Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relationships 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 23 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com sos friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org -- -- - - - or call 918-743-4297 Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 24 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Asexual Meeting 2nd & 4th Tuesday of every month 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. No Shade for Plus This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. sa(Jje ~~ Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Adv~cacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ~ Tulsa Writers In k at the Denn·is R. Neill Eq_uality ' •Center ~ Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 ~' ~ ' Lambda AlAnon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. This open Al-Anon group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. Contact 918.743.2754 for more information. 11 ,?1 •l;; :._ 7 t,, .a,.~ Tulsa Writers, Ink. 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 25 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Survivor Support Group 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 26 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 27 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Jose Vega Program Director Olivia Cotter Office Manager Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer & Pride Store Coordinator Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Jan Baldwin, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Robin VanMeter, At Large Board of Directors Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Sheena Grewal Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Marcia Keesee Mike Redman, Esq. Chris Shoaf Al Triggs John Williams Visit our website View our events Board of Advisors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Peter Brennan Jamie Catlett Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Amanda Lowe Jim Scholl Mikeal Vaughn William Vaughn Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes Contact us today 4/24/26, 4:32 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room 28 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room.html?so... Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. 621 East Fourth Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 08 4/24/26, 4:32 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/38dffceee81e6201b16ac1c3574d28c3.pdf f57351f6e5be806f3a93093ee86200a2 PDF Text Text Visit the Rainbow Room: OkEq Weekly eNews August 15, 2018 1 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room--OkEq... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews August 15th, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room: OkEq Weekly eNews August 15, 2018 2 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room--OkEq... I ELECTBRECHT .COM EBA Mixer Wednesday, August 15, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Spexton Jewelry 1609 E. 15th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Spexton Jewelry in Tulsa is Oklahoma's most unique retail jewelry store. Voted among the top ten coolest jewelers in North America, Spexton excels in creating handmade and custom jewelry pieces with classic, modern or vintage flairs Spexton started in custom men's wedding bands 10 years ago but has grown to include both men's and women's wedding and engagement rings, bridal jewelry and jewelry design services, allowing you to create a one-of-a-kind look just for you. We are also known for our unique finishes and use of mixed metals to create stunning wedding bands from black zirconium, meteorite, stainless steel, titanium, damascus, white gold, yellow gold, rose gold, palladium, platinum and more. Our fine jewelry services include the addition of our expert diamond buyer, who can guide the 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room: OkEq Weekly eNews August 15, 2018 3 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room--OkEq... purchase of loose diamonds or gemstones, remounting your existing stones, or jewelry appraisals. We also offer jewelry repair services. In addition to rings, we offer a unique collection of custom necklaces, bracelets and cuffs, cuff links, earrings and money clips that make the perfect anniversary or birthday gift or push present in our classic Spexton style. Visit Spexton online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: Please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. E UALITY Business Alliance Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, August 16, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room in Tulsa Oklahomans for Equality announces a new musical cabaret series: “Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room.” Each Third Thursday of the month will feature one of Tulsa’s finest musical performers in the intimate atmosphere of the new Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre. Kicking off the series on Thursday, August 16th will be Tulsa theatre favorite, Pat Hobbs, as Danny Day in “Music is Better Than Words.” Performances are scheduled every third Thursday of the month at 8:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street, Tulsa OK . 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room: OkEq Weekly eNews August 15, 2018 4 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room--OkEq... For tickets or more information, see okeq.org/store . OUT West with Buffalo Bill: Lecture & Dinner Friday August 31, 5:30 p.m. Gilcrease Museum 1400 N. Gilcrease Museum Rd., Tulsa, OK 74127 Dinner and Lecture with Gregory Hinton: 5:30 – 7:00 pm Gilcrease After Hours: OutWest with OKEQ: 7:00-10:00 pm featuring country western dancing, cash bar, and live DJ. The evening begins with a barbecue dinner by TW’s-AFAB catering, and a lecture by the renowned historian Gregory Hinton whose work explores LGBTQ themes on LGBTQ history and culture in the American West. Hinton is founding director of the Gay & Lesbian Rodeo Heritage Foundation and 2017 recipient of its Paladin Award; Hinton holds the 2010 International Gay Rodeo Association President’s Award for his Gay Rodeo Legacy Project. The lecture is free and open to the public but advanced tickets for the barbecue dinner are required. The dinner is $26.00 for Adults and $12.50 for students with a valid student ID. Then finish the night off with your cowboy boots and some country and western dancing for Gilcrease After Hours: OutWest which is free and open to the public. Featuring a live DJ, 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room: OkEq Weekly eNews August 15, 2018 5 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room--OkEq... cash bar, and open galleries. Bring yourself, your friends, or your partner, and don’t forget to stop by the touring exhibition “Blake Little: Photographs from the Gay Rodeo.” Experience the grit, determination and community of the national gay rodeo circuit in classic black-and-white photographs. Photographer Blake Little provides an expansive redefinition of what a cowboy can be in his images capturing scenes of camaraderie, identity and sport in one of America’s most timehonored traditions. The 41 black and white photographs taken by Blake Little between 1988 and 1992 in Photographs document the gay rodeo circuit and the lives of many of its participants in those years. Co-Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Eagle. Barbecue Dinner $26.00 for Adults, $12.50 for students with valid student ID Tickets are now available The Miseducation of Cameron Post Opens Friday August 17 Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74104 From writer/director Desiree Akhavan and based on the celebrated novel by Emily M. Danforth, "The Miseducation of Cameron Post" follows Cameron (Chloë Grace Moretz) as she is sent to a gay conversion therapy center after getting caught with another girl in the back seat of a car on prom night. Run by the strict and severe Dr. Lydia Marsh (Jennifer Ehle) and her brother, Reverend Rick (John Gallagher Jr.)—himself an example of how those in the program can be “cured”—the center is built upon repenting for “same sex attraction.” In the face of intolerance and denial, Cameron meets a group of fellow sinners including the amputee stoner Jane (Sasha Lane), and her friend, the Lakota Two-Spirit, Adam (Forrest Goodluck). Together, this group of teenagers form an unlikely family as they fight to survive. Website & Trailer: http://filmrise.com/film/the-miseducation-of-cameron-post Rise Up Singing Sunday August 19, 7:00 p.m. The Synagogue - Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 S. Owasso, Tulsa, OK 74120 Community singing is like nothing else. We lift each other to a higher place when we take part in music-making with other people. This year’s 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room: OkEq Weekly eNews August 15, 2018 6 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room--OkEq... edition will focus on folk, roots music, and Americana. “Rise Up Singing” differs from other concerts in that performers are song leaders, not soloists. Every audience member will receive a folio of lyrics, and the words to each song also will be displayed on a large screen. Hundreds of members and friends of B’nai Emunah are expected to attend this annual event. Leading the singing this year are synagogue members and professionals, along with special friends of the congregation. The singing begins at 7 p.m., and the event is free and open to the public. No reservations are necessary. Those who’d like to reserve space for a preconcert meal at 5:45 p.m. should call the synagogue at (918) 583-7121 or click here . The meal will be catered by the Seventeenth Street Deli, B’nai Emunah’s in-house kosher delicatessen. Patrons can look forward to artisanal, house-cured pastrami and corned beef, knishes, synagogue-baked rye bread, dill half-sour pickles, babka, and all the traditional accompaniments of a Jewish deli experience. The meal costs $18. Tours of the building, which is at the corner of Seventeenth and Peoria, will be offered at 5 and 6 p.m. for those who would like to know more about Jewish life in Tulsa. Free valet parking will be available beginning at 6 p.m. Council Oak Men's Chorale Rehearsals Start on Tuesday August 21, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 The Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new members to sing in our holiday concert! Come join a great group of guys who enjoy singing and changing our community through song. We are excited to have Elizabeth Curtis, a former artistic director of the chorale, back as our interim director for the holiday concert. Our holiday concert, “Don We Now...,” will be Dec. 4th, 6th and 7th at East Side Christian Church, 1438 S. Indianapolis Ave. If you aren't singing with us, plan on attending. You won't want miss starting your holiday season with the Council Oak Men's Chorale. SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesday August 21, September 18, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have its next pool party on Tuesday, August 21. Members can meet at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room: OkEq Weekly eNews August 15, 2018 7 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room--OkEq... encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to ease getting into the pool. If you plan to attend, please RSVP to olivia.cotter@okeq.org or (918) 743-4297. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Place in Tulsa. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults; supports and advocates for their rights; fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities; and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. Heart to Heart: Abortion Conversations Thursday, August 23, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 It’s important now more than ever to build community, organize and resist the stigma and barriers that surround reproductive choice and access. Join us as we hold a brave space for a necessary heart-to-heart abortion conversation. What could liberation look like in Oklahoma, and how do we move toward it together? All ages are welcome. 2018 HIV Wellness Retreat August 23 - 26 Camp Christian 275 Camp Christian Lane Chouteau, OK 74337 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room: OkEq Weekly eNews August 15, 2018 8 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room--OkEq... ~ - . This retreat is for people living with HIV. ,, ... ..-..... It is designed to help people find the community that can help them network with other people living with HIV. ' \ ... - ' t • t There is a $20 application fee (scholarships available) and a $5 fee for the kayak trips on Saturday. Applications are available online at www.gratefulday.org and on our Facebook page. Paper applications are available at Tulsa Cares and OSU IMSS. Divas 4 H.O.P.E. 2018 Saturday August 25, 6:00 p.m. Cox Assembly Hall at the Cox Business Center 2100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74120 Please join us for our annual fundraiser and concert, “DIVAS Goes to Hollywood.” Plated dinner with concert to follow Dress: black-tie optional Co-chairs: Adam Kyle & Jeff Pounds Valet parking provided ()8 25 18 l)IVAS ~~~ DIVAS 4 H.O.PE. 2018 2 0TH ANNIVERSARY COX BUSINE SS CENTER ASSEMBLY HALL SIX O'CLOCK IN THE EVENING Performers include: Double Treble, FuZed, Mark Gibson, Heather Richetto-Rumley, Kara Wilber, Rebecca Marks Jimerson, Eric Himan, Pam Van Dyke Crosby, & Andrew Witter Sponsorship Levels Elizabeth Taylor/Presenting Sponsor $15,000 / 2 VIP Tables for 10 / Premier Spotlight Seating / Premier Program Recognition / Table Service including Champagne Towers / provides medical & testing supplies and HIV, HCV, & STD Rapid Tests for 1 year Rock Hudson Sponsor $5,000 / 1 Premier Table for 10 / Spotlight Seating / Program Recognition / Table Service / provides safe sex and harm reduction supplies for 1 year James Dean Sponsor $2,000 / 1 Table for 10 / Program Recognition / provides mileage expenses for 3 months on the testing van Rita Moreno Sponsor $250 / Single Ticket / provides HIV Rapid testing for 1 week Click here for ticket and sponsorship information 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room: OkEq Weekly eNews August 15, 2018 9 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room--OkEq... Grannies Sunday Brunch Sunday, August 26, 12:00 p.m. seating Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 GRANNIES DO BROADWAY! Grannies is an all-star satire event celebrating folk and inspirational music with live performances and drag personalities. It’s irreverent, but never sacrilegious, and always uplifting humor. Grannies remembers those days of going to church, gospel music and church potluck dinners. Brunch and live entertainment provided. Tickets cost $25. Reserved tables for eight are available for $200. Mimosas and cash bar will be available. Tickets are now available First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, September 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The September Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Micheal Jones in a show titled “Gods and Fools” beginning with a reception from 6 to 9 p.m. on Thursday, Sept. 6, and continuing throughout the month. Since the age of 12, Micheal Jones has been an artist. In school, he was remembered as the guy who spent his extra time in the library studying the Renaissance; that sums up Micheal’s life in a nutshell. By the age of 16, he had sold his first painting, and within a few years, he was hanging one-man shows in every available venue, from banks and museums to community buildings. Micheal attained his master’s degree and began exhibiting in well-known juried national shows from Los Angeles to New York. He has a set of mezzotints in the State Museum of Yekaterinberg, Russia. 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room: OkEq Weekly eNews August 15, 2018 10 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room--OkEq... “Gods and Fools” is a portfolio of works depicting ancient personalities in modern-day settings. Using young models in the confines of his studio and other settings, Micheal creates paintings that are both attractive and mildly erotic, much in the style of the pioneer of “earthly realism”: Caravaggio. By combining this theatrical dynamism with careful observation from life, Caravaggio achieved a gritty naturalism in both genre and religious scenes. Conversely, Micheal has chosen to portray his figures using his own contemporary Impressionistic style, which further emphasizes the fact that these figures are firmly entrenched in the modern era. His models often stare directly at the viewer and include the mundane details of modern life. The show continues throughout the month. ww.okeq.org OkEq Teen Theatre Program Saturday, September 8, 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In this free program, participants ages 13-17 will choose a historical LGBT character and then experiment with creating monologues from historical data and their own imagination. Students will act out monologues and develop improvisational scenes for the performance. Participants will rehearse each Saturday beginning Sept. 8 from 1 to 3 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The performance is slated for the afternoon of Oct. 27, and some extra rehearsals will be held the week of the show . Instructor: Julie Tattershall has a bachelor's degree in theatre from the University of Tulsa and a master's of human relations degree from the University of Oklahoma. She has directed more than 80 plays and has been instrumental in developing, creating and implementing touring programs throughout the state. Tattershall created an improvisational troupe that has performed more than 500 shows in the past 25 years. She received the 2012 Mary Kay Place Legacy Award from the Tulsa Awards for Theatre Excellence, funded by the George Kaiser Family Foundation, for lifetime achievement and contributions to the Tulsa theater community. She won the 2014 Hall of Honor award from the Oklahoma Community Theatre Association, in recognition of the outstanding contribution to the development of community theater in Oklahoma. Recently, she created “Aesop Afoot,” which is touring local schools through the Artists-in-Schools program. Please email Jose.vega@okeq.org with any questions OkEq Equality Youth Group: Alphabet Soup Saturday, September 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room: OkEq Weekly eNews August 15, 2018 11 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room--OkEq... Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be every Saturday upstairs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Alphabet SOUP is an out and about GSA that also encourages and supports selected teens who demonstrate leadership skills. Please email Jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - with any questions www.fostercare-ok.org Ir ~ Saint Francis Community Services Give hope. Change a life. Become a foster parent. LGBT Women's Network September Happy Hour Monday, September 10, 5:00 p.m. In the Raw Brookside 3321 S. Peoria Ave., Tulsa, OK 74105 ***We decided to push our September happy hour back a week because of the holiday, just FYI! This month's sponsor is Day's Building Materials! Come mix and mingle with ladies you might 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room: OkEq Weekly eNews August 15, 2018 12 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room--OkEq... not meet otherwise, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. We'll have light appetizers and don't forget to bring business cards to be entered into a drawing for a door prize! Apps provided by: I -+. J. " ' ' , "!ll. ;j'~~~ " .. . MisFEST Saturday, September 15, 6:00 p.m. River West Festival Park 2100 S. Jackson Ave., Tulsa, OK 74120 MisFEST – Tulsa’s first female-led festival – is heading into its second year with an all new line-up of regional acts and a national headliner – Katie Herzig. A producer, singer-songwriter and performer, all while being a proud supporter and member of the LGBTQ community, Herzig is fresh off the 2018 release of her sixth album, “Moment of Bliss.” Herzig tours the U.S. this summer for the first time in four years. She has performed at Bonnaroo and on VH1 and has toured extensively, both as a headliner and as support for artists such as Brandi Carlile, Sara Bareilles and Ingrid Michaelson. Herzig has always been very hands-on in the production of her own music, which has led to opportunities to co-write and produce music for other artists as well, including Ingrid Michaelson’s platinum-selling single “Girls Chase Boys.” The MisFEST line-up is dedicated to diversity and to showing that a strong female performer can never fit in a box. For more info or to purchase tickets, visit www.misfest.com. Visit www.misfest.com to use your EXCLUSIVE discount code “OKEQROCKS” to save $5 per ticket! 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TULSAJOLT 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Visit the Rainbow Room: OkEq Weekly eNews August 15, 2018 14 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Visit-the-Rainbow-Room--OkEq... Red State Resistance: Reproductive Justice in the Red State of Oklahoma Friday, Sept. 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 73120 A new documentary focusing on the reproductive rights of people living in Oklahoma will be shown at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in September. The Reproductive Justice Campus Action Network housed at the University of Central Oklahoma’s Women’s Research Center and BGLTQ+ Student Center has created a documentary intended to put a face to Oklahomans whose bodily autonomy has been affected. The documentary presents an opportunity for people to engage in an open conversation about issues that are often overlooked and disregarded. It gives viewers the chance to hear the experiences of people who live in Oklahoma. “We want to give a voice to the people who are affected by their reproductive rights being violated or who do not know or understand what reproductive justice is,” said Mickayla Fisher, coordinator of the Reproductive Justice Campus Action Network and the student volunteer coordinator. “These interviews are powerful, and the world needs to see the struggles of these men and women.” Oklahomans for Equality’s office manager, Olivia Cotter, is featured in the film. “If this film can ignite a flame for someone and give them the strength to stand up for themselves and others’ rights, then my team and this film have done their job,” Fisher said. “It has been rewarding seeing our documentary take shape and be able to share this experience with others.” Enid Pride 2018 Saturday, Sept. 22, 12:00 - 5:00 p.m. Government Springs Park 600 E. Owen K. Garriott Rd., Enid, OK 73701 Join us Sept. 22 for Enid Pride! Our theme this year is Roaring Pride! As always, Enid Pride is a free, family-friendly event. Please invite friends and family. Vendor, sponsorship, and volunteer forms are available online at https://enidlgbtcoalition.org/enid-pride/ --- ----- -- -- . IIQa, P11a,1 !019 ~ m ,1. ~ 1ATUIH,AY !IPTIMB!D !!N., 1!PM- SPM eGYDNMDn' 1PDINe1 PAIK INl.,,OK MU11c, VnfD011, rooD, nnu r&Mlll' rlUINDll' IIO!'HDBl': ~nldlGBT ~Coalition 4/24/26, 4:33 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0d66e9ad6f85090d9fe9c2c616447189.pdf 5b25e3693c72c646c528ee083718b6c5 PDF Text Text Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 1 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... OkEq Weekly eNews August 22nd, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 2 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... Grannies Sunday Brunch Sunday, August 26, 12:00 p.m. seating Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 GRANNIES DO BROADWAY! Grannies is an all-star satire event celebrating folk and inspirational music with live performances and drag personalities. It’s irreverent, but never sacrilegious, and always uplifting humor. Grannies remembers those days of going to church, gospel music and church potluck dinners. Brunch and live entertainment provided. Tickets cost $25. Reserved tables for eight are available for $200. Mimosas and cash bar will be available. Tickets are now available OUT West with Buffalo Bill: Lecture & Dinner .. • rJL : 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 3 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... Friday August 31, 5:30 p.m. Gilcrease Museum 1400 N. Gilcrease Museum Rd., Tulsa, OK 74127 Dinner and Lecture with Gregory Hinton: 5:30 – 7:00 pm Gilcrease After Hours: OutWest with OKEQ: 7:00-10:00 pm featuring country western dancing, cash bar, and live DJ. The evening begins with a barbecue dinner by TW’s-AFAB catering, and a lecture by the renowned historian Gregory Hinton whose work explores LGBTQ themes on LGBTQ history and culture in the American West. Hinton is founding director of the Gay & Lesbian Rodeo Heritage Foundation and 2017 recipient of its Paladin Award; Hinton holds the 2010 International Gay Rodeo Association President’s Award for his Gay Rodeo Legacy Project. The lecture is free and open to the public but advanced tickets for the barbecue dinner are required. The dinner is $26.00 for Adults and $12.50 for students with a valid student ID. Then finish the night off with your cowboy boots and some country and western dancing for Gilcrease After Hours: OutWest which is free and open to the public. Featuring a live DJ, cash bar, and open galleries. Bring yourself, your friends, or your partner, and don’t forget to stop by the touring exhibition “Blake Little: Photographs from the Gay Rodeo.” Experience the grit, determination and community of the national gay rodeo circuit in classic black-and-white photographs. Photographer Blake Little provides an expansive redefinition of what a cowboy can be in his images capturing scenes of camaraderie, identity and sport in one of America’s most timehonored traditions. The 41 black and white photographs taken by Blake Little between 1988 and 1992 in Photographs document the gay rodeo circuit and the lives of many of its participants in those years. Co-Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Eagle. Barbecue Dinner $26.00 for Adults, $12.50 for students with valid student ID Tickets are now available Heart to Heart: Abortion Conversations Thursday, August 23, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 It’s important now more than ever to build community, organize and resist the stigma and barriers that surround reproductive choice and access. Join us as we hold a brave space for a necessary heart-to-heart abortion conversation. What could liberation look like in Oklahoma, and how do we move toward it together? All ages are welcome. 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 4 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... 2018 HIV Wellness Retreat August 23 - 26 Camp Christian 275 Camp Christian Lane Chouteau, OK 74337 This retreat is for people living with HIV. It is designed to help people find the community that can help them network with other people living with HIV. There is a $20 application fee (scholarships available) and a $5 fee for the kayak trips on Saturday. Applications are available online at www.gratefulday.org and on our Facebook page. Paper applications are available at Tulsa Cares and OSU IMSS. 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 5 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... OkEq Bylaw Focus Groups Saturday August 25, 1:30 p.m. Saturday September 1, 1:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Board of Oklahomans for Equality has approved revisions of the bylaws. The membership of Oklahomans for Equality in attendance at the Annual meeting on Thursday, September 6th will vote to approve the amended bylaws. Please join us on Saturday August 25th at 1:30 pm and Saturday September 1st at 1:30 pm for a bylaws focus group presentation and discussion of the revisions prior and in advance of the Annual meeting. You must be a voting member of Oklahomans for Equality to attend the focus groups. For further information email toby.jenkins@okeq.org Divas 4 H.O.P.E. 2018 Saturday August 25, 6:00 p.m. Cox Assembly Hall at the Cox Business Center 2100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74120 Please join us for our annual fundraiser and concert, “DIVAS Goes to Hollywood.” Plated dinner with concert to follow Dress: black-tie optional Co-chairs: Adam Kyle & Jeff Pounds Valet parking provided ()8 25 18 l)IVAS ~~~ DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. 2018 2 0 TH ANNIVERSARY COX BUSINE SS CENTER ASSEMBLY HALL SIX O'CLOCK IN THE EVENING Performers include: Double Treble, FuZed, Mark Gibson, Heather Richetto-Rumley, Kara Wilber, Rebecca Marks Jimerson, Eric Himan, Pam Van Dyke Crosby, & Andrew Witter Sponsorship Levels Elizabeth Taylor/Presenting Sponsor $15,000 / 2 VIP Tables for 10 / Premier Spotlight Seating / Premier Program Recognition / Table Service including Champagne Towers / provides medical & testing supplies and HIV, HCV, & STD Rapid Tests for 1 year Rock Hudson Sponsor $5,000 / 1 Premier Table for 10 / Spotlight Seating / Program Recognition / Table Service / provides safe sex and harm reduction supplies for 1 year James Dean Sponsor $2,000 / 1 Table for 10 / Program Recognition / provides mileage expenses for 3 months on 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 6 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... the testing van Rita Moreno Sponsor $250 / Single Ticket / provides HIV Rapid testing for 1 week Click here for ticket and sponsorship information Drag Queen Story Hour Saturday, September 1, 4:00 p.m. Bound for Glory Books 4624 E. 11th St., Tulsa, OK 74112 Tulsa area families are invited to the Saturday, September 1, 4-5pm, Drag Queen Story Hour at Bound for Glory Books, 4624 E. 11th Street , near 11th & Yale in Tulsa. The program will continue once every month. At Drag Queen Story Hour, local drag queens read stories intended for kids ages 3-9. Everyone is welcome at the event, which is intended to promote diversity, inclusion, and tolerance. Bound for Glory Books owner and founder Kris Rose: “DQSH is fun for everyone! It's also important for children to see traditionally marginalized people in positions of responsibility. It helps when families and friends listen to and show respect for people who are different from those they may normally meet. Bound for Glory Books is an independent bookstore with a curated selection of new and used books, vinyl records, and movies located at 4624 E.11th Street at 11th & Vandalia, near the corner of 11th St. and Yale Ave. The bookstore is named in honor or Oklahoma folk singer Woody Guthrie’s autobiographical book of the same name. If you would like more information, please contact Kris Rose at (918) 378-8883 or krisrose99@gmail.com First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, September 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The September Oklahomans for 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 7 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Micheal Jones in a show titled “Gods and Fools” beginning with a reception from 6 to 9 p.m. on Thursday, Sept. 6, and continuing throughout the month. Since the age of 12, Micheal Jones has been an artist. In school, he was remembered as the guy who spent his extra time in the library studying the Renaissance; that sums up Micheal’s life in a nutshell. By the age of 16, he had sold his first painting, and within a few years, he was hanging one-man shows in every available venue, from banks and museums to community buildings. Micheal attained his master’s degree and began exhibiting in well-known juried national shows from Los Angeles to New York. He has a set of mezzotints in the State Museum of Yekaterinberg, Russia. “Gods and Fools” is a portfolio of works depicting ancient personalities in modern-day settings. Using young models in the confines of his studio and other settings, Micheal creates paintings that are both attractive and mildly erotic, much in the style of the pioneer of “earthly realism”: Caravaggio. By combining this theatrical dynamism with careful observation from life, Caravaggio achieved a gritty naturalism in both genre and religious scenes. Conversely, Micheal has chosen to portray his figures using his own contemporary Impressionistic style, which further emphasizes the fact that these figures are firmly entrenched in the modern era. His models often stare directly at the viewer and include the mundane details of modern life. The show continues throughout the month. ww.okeq.org OkEq Teen Theatre Program Saturday, September 8, 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In this free program, participants ages 13-17 will choose a historical LGBT character and then experiment with creating monologues from historical data and their own imagination. Students will act out monologues and develop improvisational scenes for the performance. Participants will rehearse each Saturday beginning Sept. 8 from 1 to 3 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The performance is slated for the afternoon of Oct. 27, and some extra rehearsals will be held the week of the show . Instructor: Julie Tattershall has a bachelor's degree in theatre from the University of Tulsa and a master's of human relations degree from the University of Oklahoma. She has directed more than 80 plays and has been instrumental in developing, creating and implementing touring programs throughout the state. Tattershall created an improvisational troupe that has 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 8 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... performed more than 500 shows in the past 25 years. She received the 2012 Mary Kay Place Legacy Award from the Tulsa Awards for Theatre Excellence, funded by the George Kaiser Family Foundation, for lifetime achievement and contributions to the Tulsa theater community. She won the 2014 Hall of Honor award from the Oklahoma Community Theatre Association, in recognition of the outstanding contribution to the development of community theater in Oklahoma. Recently, she created “Aesop Afoot,” which is touring local schools through the Artists-in-Schools program. Please email Jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - - with any questions OkEq Equality Youth Group: Alphabet Soup Saturday, September 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be every Saturday upstairs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Alphabet SOUP is an out and about GSA that also encourages and supports selected teens who demonstrate leadership skills. Please email Jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - - with any questions LGBT Women's Network September Happy Hour Monday, September 10, 5:00 p.m. In the Raw Brookside 3321 S. Peoria Ave., Tulsa, OK 74105 ***We decided to push our September happy hour back a week because of the holiday, just FYI! This month's sponsor is Day's Building Materials! Come mix and mingle with ladies you might not meet otherwise, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. We'll have light appetizers and don't forget to bring business cards to be entered into a drawing for a door prize! MEET LIKE-MINDED TULSA WOMEN • - & BUil: YOUR NETWORK ., 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 9 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... Community Dinner and Game Night in Partnership with Microsoft Thursday, September 13, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 A free community family Game Night event at OKEQ, open to all! Single, married, or not interested, younger or older -- all are welcome! Dinners are sponsored by different welcoming organizations, with family-friendly games and activities sponsored by Microsoft. These events are intended to encourage and build friendships in the community. MisFEST Saturday, September 15, 6:00 p.m. River West Festival Park 2100 S. Jackson Ave., Tulsa, OK 74120 MisFEST – Tulsa’s first female-led festival – is heading into its second year with an all new line-up of regional acts and a national headliner – Katie Herzig. A producer, singer-songwriter and performer, all while being a proud supporter and member of the LGBTQ community, Herzig is fresh off the 2018 release of her sixth album, “Moment of Bliss.” Herzig tours the U.S. this summer for the first time in four years. She has performed at Bonnaroo and on VH1 and has toured extensively, both as a headliner and as support for artists such as Brandi Carlile, Sara Bareilles and Ingrid Michaelson. Herzig has always been very hands-on in the production of her own music, which has led to opportunities to co-write and produce music for other artists as well, including Ingrid Michaelson’s platinum-selling single “Girls Chase Boys.” The MisFEST line-up is dedicated to diversity and to showing that a strong female performer can never fit in a box. For more info or to purchase tickets, visit www.misfest.com. Visit www.misfest.com to use your EXCLUSIVE discount code “OKEQROCKS” to save $5 per ticket! Fowler ~ MISFES Mus1~HE1s IS SHE MUSIC A U T O M O T I V E : SEPT 15TH, 2018 + RIVER WEST FESTIVAL PARK+ TULSA, OK 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 10 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... I TERACTIVE ART INSTALLATIO S YARD GA ES + FOOD TRUCKS F ILY F E LY I TIE AND MORE! FDR TICKE U www.M1sFEST.co SPO"ISOlffO HY @ BOK FINANCIAL: fii'. ~ G EORG E KAISER FREDERIC DOR\ ART LAWYEl{S ,•11 ,· FAMI LY FOUNDATION THE CANYONS AT BLACKJACK RIDGE 1801N. MCKINLEY AVE SAND SPRINGS, OK 74063 SATURDAY, SEPT 15TH 1.00 .M. R G EE I $75 PER PLAYER/ $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 11 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOWII CONTACT: cums AUSTIN• cu11T1SAUST1NU•HOJMA1LCQM OR Al WARREN. tl8-161-1739 l'OU CAN ALSO FlND US ON FACEIIOOK . T\JLSAJOLT PRIZES F R1sr, 2No AND 3RD PLACE TEAMS & RAFFLE PRIZES I11 SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesday September 18, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have its next pool party on Tuesday, September 18. Members can meet at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to ease getting into the pool. If you plan to attend, please RSVP to olivia.cotter@okeq.org or (918) 743-4297. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Place in Tulsa. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults; supports and advocates for their rights; fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities; and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. EBA Mixer Wednesday, September 19, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center 17 W. 7th St., Tulsa, OK 74119 /t Holiday lnrr AN IHG• HOTEL Guests who stay at the Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center get the full Tulsa, OK experience. Our hotel's downtown Tulsa location places you minutes from exciting big-name music and sporting events at BOK Center and Tulsa Performing Arts Center, but also next door to quaint, historic neighborhoods and Utica Square Shopping Center.Though the hotel is within walking distance of ONEOK, The Williams Companies, Helmerich and Payne, IBM, JP Morgan Chase and other Tulsa, OK companies, Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center's complimentary downtown area hotel shuttle ensures you'll always have a ride. Oklahoma State University Medical Center, St. John and Hillcrest Hospitals are nearby the hotel as well. The hotel is also conveniently located within a few miles of University of Tulsa, Brady Theater, and Cains Ballroom. 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 12 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... The location of Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center allows you to easily spend a day on a walking tour of Art Deco architecture, viewing Native American art at Gilcrease Museum or Western art at the Philbrook Museum. Warm nights are perfect for outdoor dining on Boulder Grill's patio, located within hotel. Let Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center be a fun getaway at our stunning downtown, full service hotel with great perks like our 24 hour airport shuttle. Enjoy our Fitness Center or swim under the stars in our sparkling, indoor pool with retractable roof and eco-friendly salt purification system. Come relax and enjoy a memorable stay at the Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center. Visit Holiday Inn City Center Online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: Please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. E UALITY Business Alliance www.fostercare-ok.org 17 ~ Saint Francis Community Services• Give hope. Change a life. Become a foster parent. 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 13 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, September 20, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room in Tulsa Oklahomans for Equality announces a new musical cabaret series: “Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room.” Each Third Thursday of the month will feature one of Tulsa’s finest musical performers in the intimate atmosphere of the new Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre. Kicking off the series on Thursday, August 16th will be Tulsa theatre favorite, Pat Hobbs, as Danny Day in “Music is Better Than Words.” Performances are scheduled every third Thursday of the month at 8:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street, Tulsa OK . For tickets or more information, see okeq.org/store . 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 14 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... Red State Resistance: Reproductive Justice in the Red State of Oklahoma Friday, September 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 73120 A new documentary focusing on the reproductive rights of people living in Oklahoma will be shown at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in September. The Reproductive Justice Campus Action Network housed at the University of Central Oklahoma’s Women’s Research Center and BGLTQ+ Student Center has created a documentary intended to put a face to Oklahomans whose bodily autonomy has been affected. The documentary presents an opportunity for people to engage in an open conversation about issues that are often overlooked and disregarded. It gives viewers the chance to hear the experiences of people who live in Oklahoma. “We want to give a voice to the people who are affected by their reproductive rights being violated or who do not know or understand what reproductive justice is,” said Mickayla Fisher, coordinator of the Reproductive Justice Campus Action Network and the student volunteer coordinator. “These interviews are powerful, and the world needs to see the struggles of these men and women.” Oklahomans for Equality’s office manager, Olivia Cotter, is featured in the film. “If this film can ignite a flame for someone and give them the strength to stand up for themselves and others’ rights, then my team and this film have done their job,” Fisher said. “It has been rewarding seeing our documentary take shape and be able to share this experience with others.” Enid Pride 2018 INI., Pll.,I !019 Saturday, September 22, 12:00 - 5:00 p.m. Government Springs Park 600 E. Owen K. Garriott Rd., Enid, OK 73701 Join us Sept. 22 for Enid Pride! Our theme this year is Roaring Pride! As always, Enid Pride is a free, family-friendly event. Please invite friends and family. Vendor, sponsorship, and volunteer forms are available online at https://enidlgbtcoalition.org/enid-pride/ --- ----- -- -- . ~ /. - ~ 1ATUltDAY 11PT1Mlllt !!ND 12PM- 5PM COYDllfMDn' 1PltDfe1PAltlf INID,Glf MU!IC, YDIDOIH, rooD 'nnl! r&Mlll' rlH!IQ>ll' UO!Tlt,Bl': ~nldlGBT ~Coalition 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 15 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... Pride Day at the Tulsa State Fair Saturday, September 29, 12:00 p.m. Tulsa State Fair 4145 E. 21 St., Tulsa, OK 74114 Tulsa Pride invites you to turn the Tulsa State Fair rainbow! Come out and have fun at the Tulsa State Fair as our community celebrates LGBTQ+ Pride! This is a great chance to run into familiar faces and meet new ones. Don't forget to wear your pride attire to spread awareness and visibility of our presence in Tulsa! Pride Night at the Tulsa Roughnecks Game Saturday, October 6, 6:00 p.m. ONEOK Field 201 N. Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come on out to ONEOK Field on Saturday, October 6, 2018, for Margaritaville and Pride Night! Enjoy a night of goals and margaritas as the Roughnecks take on Rio Grande Valley Toros. Celebrate diversity and equality as we fly every identity flag and host a Roughnecks Pride March before the game led by the Roustabouts, the official supporters group of the Tulsa Roughnecks. Every ticket sold will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Special Drink Specials TBA Tickets are now available Call For Artists 2019 Deadline October 20, 2018 Dennis R. Neil Equality Center Call for artists! The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2019 Exhibition Calendar. Our gallery encourages emerging artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media to apply. 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 16 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... Details • Each chosen exhibit will be on display for • approximately 30 days. • OkEq will host the opening • night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of • the month. Each exhibit is installed on the Tuesday prior. • No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. • Work must be available for sale. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. • Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc) for each piece. • A bio and artist statement are due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the • month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. How to Apply Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted by email. Proposals incorporating the work of two artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. Deadline for submissions is October 20, 2018. Notifications will be sent out by November 10, 2018. Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org , with the subject heading “OkEq gallery proposal" Council Oak Men's Chorale Rehearsals on Tuesdays, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 The Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new members to sing in our holiday concert! Come join a great group of guys who enjoy singing and changing our community through song. We are excited to have Elizabeth Curtis, a former artistic director of the chorale, back as our interim director for the holiday concert. Our holiday concert, “Don We Now...,” will be Dec. 4th, 6th and 7th at East Side Christian Church, 1438 S. Indianapolis Ave. If you aren't singing with us, plan on attending. You won't want miss starting your holiday season with the Council Oak Men's Chorale. Volunteer of the Month Ashley Spaulding 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 17 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... August 2018 2018 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality is set for 7 p.m. Thursday, Sept. 6, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Presently, eight seats on the Board of Directors are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Deadline has passed) oklahomans for equality OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Petitions due to the board secretary by Aug. 24) Requirements and expectations of a director: 1. Be a current OkEq member with membership fees current 2. Attend board meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time and energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Perform additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a director) 5. Serve a two-year term ' I \ ._ 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 18 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT IN AN UNDERSERVED POPULATION WE NEED YOUR HELP!!! The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. Additionally, the field of psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures tell us about transgender individuals! YOU ARE ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. It involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take approximately two hours of your time. After completing the study, you will receive a $15.00 gift card. For questions or to participate, contact doctoral student researcher William Bryant: Email: wjlliam-bryant@utulsa.edu Cell Phone: (330) 322-2442 his study I bemg conducted as part of the student researcher' dissertation for the niversi t ofTulsa·s Clini al Psycho logy Pro ram. You're not alone YOU'RE NOT Support group for partners with HIV/ AIDS Do you have a partner who was recently diagnosed with HIV/AIDS? Have you found a community to process this life change with? Are you looking for support? As every airplane attendant says, “Put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others.” ALONE 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 19 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... Having a partner with a life-threatening illness can take a toll on your well being. This group may help you to recognize and change your reactions to the new challenges that having a partner with HIV/AIDS might pose. We will meet weekly for 6 weeks to cover information on HIV/AIDS, process difficulties you may be having with your partner, learn new ways to cope with this change, foster healthier communication, prepare for the future, and better manage stress. If interested please email jose.vega@okeq.org to join the group. You are not alone. ---- Provider Bias Survey Sara Griffey is a clinical counseling intern with Bellevue University. She facilitates OkEq's Coming Out Workshop and the Challenging Beliefs in Non-Traditional Relationships group. This survey has been crafted to better understand provider bias in the LGBTQ+ and nontraditional relationship communities. The information will be used to provide information about ways to better train and educate providers. All responses are confidential. To take the survey, please go here: https://goo.gl/forms/3BA47O4PtSt6bkz72 ----- Cub Scout Pack 226 The Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W. King St., Tulsa, OK 74106 Making a Difference Pack 226 is an inclusive scouting program open to membership to boys and girls between kindergarten and 5th grade. ALL parents/guardians who wish to participate are welcome. Pack 226 is chartered by the Parish Church of St. Jerome. Its membership represents the 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 20 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... wide diversity of beliefs and cultures from the community we serve. Most of our scouts are students from Emerson Elementary School, but all age-eligible children are welcome to join! Interested in learning more about Cub Scout Pack 226? We invite you to keep exploring our website and get in touch with questions about our values, academics, community and more. Join us today! More information available at www.tulsapack226.org Questions can be sent to TulsaPack226@gmail.com Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library "One Teacher in 10: LGBT Educators Share Their Stories" By Kevin Jennings one teacher in 10 I I fl II • • tlltt tfl tlffl'4 From the director of the Gay, Lesbian, Straight Education Network (GLSEN) comes a new collection of accounts by openly gay and lesbian teachers who tell about their struggles and victories as they have put their own careers on the line to fight for justice. edi kevin jennings I Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Kevin Jennings is the founder and executive director of GLSEN. He lives in New York City. Equality Center Pride Store Transgender enamel pins are for sale at the OkEq Pride Store for $5. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 21 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. For appointments call or email Sara 918-928-2809 or sara@unitytulsa.com Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are available Mon-Thurs 12:30-6:00 p.m. and w alk in appointments are available. Appointments can be made by calling 918-280-9645 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 22 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, September 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGAL AID th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the August OkEq Art Exhibition The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the works of Malinda Blank. The show continues throughout the month. Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relationships 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 23 of 29 Library September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Facilitated by Allison Ikley-Freeman. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 2nd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Sos Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm Tulsa Area 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 24 of 29 This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Asexual Meeting 2nd & 4th Tuesday of every month 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan n ~ A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Lambda AlAnon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. This open Al-Anon group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. Contact 918.743.2754 for more information. t _ ~ •. ~ Tulsa Writers, Ink.'--/ C', -; at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ~ ,SA#!T...B Wednesdays 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders Gender Support Program Prime Timers No Shade for Plus This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. Sa~e https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... ;i_ f -_ ~ @ - I Tulsa Writers, Ink. 1st & 3rd Saturday of each 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 25 of 29 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Adult Survivors of Childhood Trauma. Sundays @ 4:00 p.m. LGBTQ individuals have a higher risk of experiencing trauma at an early age and these experiences of abuse, bullying, and stigmatization in youth can affect life as an adult. The primary focus of this group will be to teach people how to recognize their trauma and how to use healthy coping skills to deal with the effects. Members will be encouraged to build an 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 26 of 29 Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group internal network with other participants to provide each other with emotional and social support during weekly meetings held on Sundays @ 4pm. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Art for the Heart: An all Inclusive Arts Program Sundays @ 1:00 p.m. Beginning after Labor Day Inclusion for People with Developmental Disabilities Saturdays @ 1:00 p.m. Beginning after Labor Day Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Neurodiversity Social Group Saturdays @ 4:00 p.m. Beginning after Labor Day Do you find yourself over stimulated by large crowds or loud noises? Do you crave meaningful social interaction in a calm, safe environment? If you are living with a mental health diagnosis, are on the autism spectrum, or generally prefer calmer social events, then this is the place for you. Here, members will meet weekly on Saturdays @ 4pm to Art is more than just pictures on the wall. Art helps people express themselves, find happiness, and it can help with mobility and dexterity. Art classes foster connections between individuals and helps reduce isolation many people experience. Please join us in making our community a more beautiful, meaningful place through the enrichment of art. Subjects will be elected by members from a range of topics including: glass fusing and jewelry making, mosaics, basket weaving, finger weaving, ceramics, acrylic painting, and quilting. This group is all inclusive, and 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 27 of 29 Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... socialize and connect with individuals like themselves. Each week members will collectively decide on a different activity ranging from game nights, movie nights, outings, and many others. encourages individuals from all age groups to come together for weekly sessions on Sundays @ 1pm. LGBTQ+ History: Interviewees Wanted By appointment Do you feel like you have something to say about your life as an LGBTQ+ individual? Recording the history of the LGBTQ+ community is currently a feature of programming at the Equality Center. This program is designed to supplement and further complete our collective history by interviewing participants to further investigate past and present features of LGBTQ+ life and identity. Interviewees will sit down face to face and be asked a series of questions in regards to their person lives and experiences. All information gathered will be added to the existing archive. Please contact Ely at burgesej@nsuok.edu - -to set up your appointment. Community Partners 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 28 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... ~ health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Jose Vega Program Director Olivia Cotter Office Manager Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 4:33 PM �Grannies Do Broadway: OkEq Weekly eNews August 22, 2018 29 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Grannies-Do-Broadway--OkEq-W... Alex Wade Volunteer & Pride Store Coordinator Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org ---- Alex.Wade@OkEq.org - - - OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Jan Baldwin, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Robin VanMeter, At Large Board of Advisors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Peter Brennan Jamie Catlett Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Amanda Lowe Jim Scholl Mikeal Vaughn William Vaughn Board of Directors Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Sheena Grewal Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Marcia Keesee Mike Redman, Esq. Chris Shoaf Al Triggs John Williams Visit our website Ju l I Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes View our events Contact us today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. 621 East Fourth Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 o• 4/24/26, 4:33 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/69bb0f500295538b165920be390d5d53.pdf c0e127e6d688529a77272b42cc079840 PDF Text Text OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 1 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews August 29th, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 2 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... I ELECTBRECHT .COM George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today> All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and learn how to make your donation today. G O GE KAIS R FAMILY -ou 'DA 10 A uppo 1n org n on o ul Community Fo n OUT West with Buffalo Bill: Lecture & Dinner Friday August 31, 5:30 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 3 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... Gilcrease Museum 1400 N. Gilcrease Museum Rd., Tulsa, OK 74127 Dinner and Lecture with Gregory Hinton: 5:30 – 7:00 pm Gilcrease After Hours: OutWest with OKEQ: 7:00-10:00 pm featuring country & western dancing, cash bar and live DJ. The evening begins with a barbecue dinner by TW’s-AFAB catering and a lecture by the renowned historian Gregory Hinton, whose work explores LGBTQ themes on LGBTQ history and culture in the American West. Hinton is the founding director of the Gay & Lesbian Rodeo Heritage Foundation and the 2017 recipient of its Paladin Award; Hinton holds the 2010 International Gay Rodeo Association’s President’s Award for his Gay Rodeo Legacy Project. The lecture is free and open to the public, but advance tickets for the barbecue dinner are required. The dinner costs $26 for adults and $12.50 for students with a valid student ID. Finish the night off with your cowboy boots and some country & western dancing for Gilcrease After Hours: OutWest, which is free and open to the public. The event will feature a live DJ, cash bar and open galleries. Bring yourself, your friends, or your partner, and don’t forget to stop by the touring exhibition “Blake Little: Photographs from the Gay Rodeo.” Experience the grit, determination and community of the national gay rodeo circuit in classic black-and-white photographs. Photographer Blake Little provides an expansive redefinition of what a cowboy can be in his images capturing scenes of camaraderie, identity and sport in one of America’s most timehonored traditions. The 41 black-and-white photographs taken by Little between 1988 and 1992 document the gay rodeo circuit and the lives of many of its participants in those years. Co-sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Eagle. Barbecue Dinner $26.00 for Adults, $12.50 for students with valid student ID Tickets are now available Drag Queen Story Hour Saturday, September 1, 4:00 p.m. Bound for Glory Books 4624 E. 11th St., Tulsa, OK 74112 Tulsa-area families are invited to the September edition of Drag Queen Story Hour at Bound for Glory Books. The story hour will be held once each month. At Drag Queen Story Hour, local drag queens read stories intended for kids ages 3-9. Everyone is welcome at the event, which is intended to promote diversity, inclusion and tolerance. 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 4 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... Bound for Glory Books owner and founder Kris Rose says Drag Queen Story Hour is fun for everyone! “It's also important for children to see traditionally marginalized people in positions of responsibility,” Rose says. “It helps when families and friends listen to and show respect for people who are different from those they may normally meet.” Bound for Glory Books is an independent bookstore with a curated selection of new and used books, vinyl records, and movies. The bookstore’s name pays tribute to Oklahoma folk singer Woody Guthrie’s autobiographical book of the same name. If you would like more information, please contact Kris Rose at (918) 378-8883 or krisrose99@gmail.com OkEq Bylaw Focus Groups Saturday September 1, 1:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Board of Oklahomans for Equality has approved revisions of the bylaws. The membership of Oklahomans for Equality in attendance at the Annual meeting on Thursday, September 6th will vote to approve the amended bylaws. Please join us on Saturday September 1st at 1:30 pm for a bylaws focus group presentation and discussion of the revisions prior and in advance of the Annual meeting. You must be a voting member of Oklahomans for Equality to attend the focus groups. For further information email toby.jenkins@okeq.org Click here to view bylaws and recommended bylaws Guys Dine Too Tuesday, September 4, 6:30 p.m. Nola's Creole and Cocktails 1334 E. 15 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com Nola's is a craft cocktail and Cajun- and Creoleinspired restaurant and bar with a Prohibitionera speakeasy feel located in the heart of Cherry Street. It is our desire to provide the greater Tulsa area with authentic Prohibition-period cocktails and world-class, dressed up Cajun and Creole cuisine. We offer a wide array of the dishes that are sure to tickle the fancy of anyone looking for a New Orleans-style food experience. 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 5 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... Visit Nola's online for more information 2018 OkEq Board Elections and Annual Meeting The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality is set for 6:30 p.m. Thursday, Sept. 6, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Presently, eleven seats on the Board of Directors are up for election. • oklahomans for equality First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, September 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The September Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Micheal Jones in a show titled “Gods and Fools” beginning with a reception from 6 to 9 p.m. on Thursday, Sept. 6, and continuing throughout the month. Since the age of 12, Micheal Jones has been an artist. In school, he was remembered as the guy who spent his extra time in the library studying the Renaissance; that sums up Micheal’s life in a nutshell. By the age of 16, he had sold his first painting, and within a few years, he was hanging one-man shows in every available venue, from banks and museums to community buildings. Micheal attained his master’s degree and began exhibiting in well-known juried national shows from Los Angeles to New York. He has a set of mezzotints in the State Museum of Yekaterinberg, Russia. “Gods and Fools” is a portfolio of works depicting ancient personalities in modern-day settings. Using young models in the confines of his studio and other settings, Micheal creates paintings that are both attractive and mildly erotic, much in the style of the pioneer of “earthly realism”: Caravaggio. By combining this theatrical dynamism with careful observation from life, Caravaggio achieved a gritty naturalism in both genre and religious scenes. Conversely, Micheal has chosen to portray his figures using his own contemporary Impressionistic style, which further emphasizes the fact that these figures are firmly entrenched in the modern era. His models often stare directly at the viewer and include the mundane details of modern life. 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 6 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... The show continues throughout the month. ww.okeq.org Inclusion for People with Developmental Disabilities Saturdays at 1:00 p.m. Beginning after Labor Day Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. Neurodiversity Social Group Saturdays at 4:00 p.m. Beginning after Labor Day Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you find yourself over stimulated by large crowds or loud noises? Do you crave meaningful social interaction in a calm, safe environment? If you are living with a mental health diagnosis, are on the autism spectrum, or generally prefer calmer social events, then this is the place for you. Here, members will meet weekly on Saturdays @ 4pm to socialize and connect with individuals like themselves. Each week members will collectively decide on a different activity ranging from game nights, movie nights, outings, and many others. Art for the Heart Program: An all inclusive Arts Program Sundays at 1:00 p.m. Beginning after Labor Day Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Art is more than just pictures on the wall. Art helps people express themselves, find happiness, and it can help with mobility and dexterity. Art classes foster connections between individuals and helps reduce isolation many people 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 7 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... experience. Please join us in making our community a more beautiful, meaningful place through the enrichment of art. Subjects will be elected by members from a range of topics including: glass fusing and jewelry making, mosaics, basket weaving, finger weaving, ceramics, acrylic painting, and quilting. This group is all inclusive, and encourages individuals from all age groups to come together for weekly sessions on Sundays @ 1pm. OkEq Teen Theatre Program Saturday, September 8, 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In this free program, participants ages 13-17 will choose a historical LGBT character and then experiment with creating monologues from historical data and their own imagination. Students will act out monologues and develop improvisational scenes for the performance. Participants will rehearse each Saturday beginning Sept. 8 from 1 to 3 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The performance is slated for the afternoon of Oct. 27, and some extra rehearsals will be held the week of the show . Instructor: Julie Tattershall has a bachelor's degree in theatre from the University of Tulsa and a master's of human relations degree from the University of Oklahoma. She has directed more than 80 plays and has been instrumental in developing, creating and implementing touring programs throughout the state. Tattershall created an improvisational troupe that has performed more than 500 shows in the past 25 years. She received the 2012 Mary Kay Place Legacy Award from the Tulsa Awards for Theatre Excellence, funded by the George Kaiser Family Foundation, for lifetime achievement and contributions to the Tulsa theater community. She won the 2014 Hall of Honor award from the Oklahoma Community Theatre Association, in recognition of the outstanding contribution to the development of community theater in Oklahoma. Recently, she created “Aesop Afoot,” which is touring local schools through the Artists-in-Schools program. Please email Jose.vega@okeq.org with any questions OkEq Equality Youth Group: Alphabet Soup Saturday, September 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 8 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be every Saturday upstairs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Alphabet SOUP is an out and about GSA that also encourages and supports selected teens who demonstrate leadership skills. Please email Jose.vega@okeq.org with any questions LGBT Women's Network September Happy Hour Monday, September 10, 5:00 p.m. In the Raw Brookside 3321 S. Peoria Ave., Tulsa, OK 74105 ***We decided to push our September happy hour back a week because of the holiday, just FYI! This month's sponsor is Day's Building Materials! Come mix and mingle with ladies you might not meet otherwise, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. We'll have light appetizers and don't forget to bring business cards to be entered into a drawing for a door prize! App, provided by: Thesis Research Study Please consider participating in my thesis research study examining the connection between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) identity, community connection, and resilience! This study is approved by the institutional review board at Northeastern State University and under the supervision of my thesis chair, Dr. Steven Byers. In order to be eligible for the study, you must: Be 18 years of age at the time of completion 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 9 of 30 - https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... Identify as LGBTQ+ To participate in the study, please complete the survey here . The survey will take about 20 to 30 minutes to complete. You can be entered to win a $25.00 Amazon gift card if you provide an email address at the end of the survey. This study is anonymous. The only identifying information which will be collected is demographic information, and will not specifically identify you. You will be asked to provide an email at the conclusion of the survey to be entered in the raffle if you so wish, but are not required to do so. Participation in this study is voluntary. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you may close the browser window at any time. If you do not want to answer a question, you may skip any question in this survey. If you have any questions, please contact Jordan Westcott ( Westcott@nsuok.edu ) or Dr. Steven Byers ( byerss@nsuok.edu ). We hope that you choose to participate in this study and share your experience! Community Dinner and Game Night in Partnership with Microsoft Thursday, September 13, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 A free community family Game Night event at OKEQ, open to all! Single, married, or not interested, younger or older -- all are welcome! Dinners are sponsored by different welcoming organizations, with family-friendly games and activities sponsored by Microsoft. These events are intended to encourage and build friendships in the community. MisFEST Saturday, September 15, 6:00 p.m. River West Festival Park 2100 S. Jackson Ave., Tulsa, OK 74120 MisFEST – Tulsa’s first female-led festival – is heading into its second year with an all new line-up of regional acts and a national headliner – Katie Herzig. A producer, singer-songwriter and performer, all while being a proud supporter and member of the LGBTQ community, Herzig is fresh off the 2018 release of her sixth album, “Moment of Bliss.” Herzig tours the U.S. this summer for the first time in four years. She has performed at Bonnaroo and on VH1 and has toured extensively, both as a headliner and as support for artists such as Brandi Carlile, Sara Bareilles and Ingrid Michaelson. Herzig has always been very hands-on in the production of her own music, which has led to opportunities to co-write and produce music for other artists as well, including Ingrid Michaelson’s platinum-selling single “Girls Chase Boys.” The MisFEST line-up is dedicated to diversity and to showing that a strong female performer can never fit in a box. For more info or to purchase tickets, visit www.misfest.com. 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 10 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... 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T\JLSAJOLT PRIZES F R 1sr, 2No AND 3Ro PLACE TEAMS & AFFLE PRIZES I 11 SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesday September 18, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have its next pool party on Tuesday, September 18. Members can meet at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to ease getting into the pool. If you plan to attend, please RSVP to olivia.cotter@okeq.org or (918) 743-4297. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Place in Tulsa. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults; supports and advocates for their rights; fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities; and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. EBA Mixer Wednesday, September 19, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center 17 W. 7th St., Tulsa, OK 74119 /t Holiday Inn· AN IHG• HOTEL Guests who stay at the Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center get the full Tulsa, OK experience. Our 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 12 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... hotel's downtown Tulsa location places you minutes from exciting big-name music and sporting events at BOK Center and Tulsa Performing Arts Center, but also next door to quaint, historic neighborhoods and Utica Square Shopping Center.Though the hotel is within walking distance of ONEOK, The Williams Companies, Helmerich and Payne, IBM, JP Morgan Chase and other Tulsa, OK companies, Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center's complimentary downtown area hotel shuttle ensures you'll always have a ride. Oklahoma State University Medical Center, St. John and Hillcrest Hospitals are nearby the hotel as well. The hotel is also conveniently located within a few miles of University of Tulsa, Brady Theater, and Cains Ballroom. The location of Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center allows you to easily spend a day on a walking tour of Art Deco architecture, viewing Native American art at Gilcrease Museum or Western art at the Philbrook Museum. Warm nights are perfect for outdoor dining on Boulder Grill's patio, located within hotel. Let Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center be a fun getaway at our stunning downtown, full service hotel with great perks like our 24 hour airport shuttle. Enjoy our Fitness Center or swim under the stars in our sparkling, indoor pool with retractable roof and eco-friendly salt purification system. Come relax and enjoy a memorable stay at the Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center. Visit Holiday Inn City Center Online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: Please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. ALITY usiness Alliance www.fostercare-ok.org & Saint Francis 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 13 of 30 ~ https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... I Community Services• Give hope. Change a life. Become a foster parent. Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, September 20, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 THIRD THURSDAYS IN THE RAINBOW ROOM is proud to present the fabulous Kara Staiger in her highly acclaimed Summer Stage cabaret production of ONWARD! Joining Kara will be Tulsa's favorite performers: Sam Briggs, Thomas Williams, Mike Pryor, Margaret Stahl, and Denise Hoey. Tracy Watson makes magic on the keys. Performances are scheduled every third Thursday of the month at 8:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street, Tulsa OK . For tickets or more information, see okeq.org/store . 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 14 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... Red State Resistance: Reproductive Justice in the Red State of Oklahoma Friday, September 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 73120 A new documentary focusing on the reproductive rights of people living in Oklahoma will be shown at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in September. The Reproductive Justice Campus Action Network housed at the University of Central Oklahoma’s Women’s Research Center and BGLTQ+ Student Center has created a documentary intended to put a face to Oklahomans whose bodily autonomy has been affected. The documentary presents an opportunity for people to engage in an open conversation about issues that are often overlooked and disregarded. It gives viewers the chance to hear the experiences of people who live in Oklahoma. “We want to give a voice to the people who are affected by their reproductive rights being violated or who do not know or understand what reproductive justice is,” said Mickayla Fisher, coordinator of the Reproductive Justice Campus Action Network and the student volunteer coordinator. “These interviews are powerful, and the world needs to see the struggles of these men and women.” Oklahomans for Equality’s office manager, Olivia Cotter, is featured in the film. “If this film can ignite a flame for someone and give them the strength to stand up for themselves and others’ rights, then my team and this film have done their job,” Fisher said. “It has been rewarding seeing our documentary take shape and be able to share this experience with others.” Enid Pride 2018 Saturday, September 22, 12:00 - 5:00 p.m. Government Springs Park 600 E. Owen K. Garriott Rd., 1..,., ,1aa,1 2011 1ATUIH,&Y 1DTIMBID !!MD 12PM- SPM 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 15 of 30 Enid, OK 73701 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... f~ ,..,,._.,_.,_....,,... ~ r;:-- " l l<ii----~ Join us Sept. 22 for Enid Pride! Our theme this year is Roaring Pride! As always, Enid Pride is a free, family-friendly event. Please invite friends and family. Vendor, sponsorship, and volunteer forms are available online at https://enidlgbtcoalition.org/enid-pride/ --- ----- ---- . i COYfflfMDn' tPRDfet PAIHt DUD,Glf , r&Mlll' JIH!IQ>ll' UO!Tlt,Bl': ~ nldlGBT ~ Coalition National Voter Registration Day Tuesday, September 25, 12:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 73120 National Voter Registration Day is a national holiday celebrating our democracy. It was first observed in 2012 and has been growing in popularity every year since. Held on the fourth Tuesday of September, National Voter Registration Day will be observed on Tuesday, September 25th this year. The holiday has been endorsed by the National Association of Secretaries of State ( NASS ). It is further supported by the National Association of State Election Directors ( NASED ). What It’s About Every year millions of Americans find themselves unable to vote because they miss a registration deadline, don’t update their registration, or aren’t sure how to register. National Voter Registration Day wants to make sure everyone has the opportunity to vote. On Tuesday September 25, 2018 volunteers and organizations from all over the country will “hit the streets” in a single day of coordinated field, technology and media efforts. National Voter Registration Day seeks to create broad awareness of voter registration opportunities to reach tens of thousands of voters who may not register otherwise. What It Involves • Volunteers in their community or workplace, at schools or public events, or anywhere can register people to vote. • Technology to help voters find registration drives nearby and register to vote online. • Local organizations, businesses and election offices engaged in their own communities. • Tens of thousands of voters registering to vote online and offline in a single day. What It Will Accomplish • Registering Voters: In 2016 over 750,000 voters used National Voter Registration Day to register to vote across all 50 states. • Mobilizing Volunteers: Each year the holiday’s growing number of local partners engage upwards to 10,000 local volunteers. • Educating Voters: Millions of voters need to register and re-register every year. By utilizing new technology and leveraging partners, we’ll educate Americans in all 50 states about how to register, sign up for election reminders, check their registration 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 16 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... online, get mail ballots, learn about early voting and more. • Uniting for a Common Purpose: National Voter Registration Day is a day of civic unity. It’s an opportunity to set aside differences and celebrate democracy and the rights and opportunities we all share as Americans. Pride Day at the Tulsa State Fair Saturday, September 29, 12:00 p.m. Tulsa State Fair 4145 E. 21 St., Tulsa, OK 74114 Tulsa Pride invites you to turn the Tulsa State Fair rainbow! Come out and have fun at the Tulsa State Fair as our community celebrates LGBTQ+ Pride! This is a great chance to run into familiar faces and meet new ones. Don't forget to wear your pride attire to spread awareness and visibility of our presence in Tulsa! Grannies Sunday Brunch Sunday, September 30, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 73120 GRANNIES GO COUNTRY!!! Grannies is an all-star satire event celebrating folk and inspirational music with live performances and drag personalities. It’s irreverent, but never sacrilegious, and always uplifting humor. Grannies remembers those days of going to grandma's house for Sunday Dinner. Rainbow Granny welcomes her granny pals Anita Richards, Kiesha Kye and Miss Gay Oklahoma America 2018 Shanel Sterling. Brunch and live entertainment provided. Tickets cost $25. Reserved tables for eight are available for $200. Mimosas and cash bar will be available. Purchase tickets now Pride Night at the Tulsa Roughnecks Game Saturday, October 6, 6:00 p.m. ONEOK Field 201 N. Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 17 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... Come on out to ONEOK Field on Saturday, October 6, 2018, for Margaritaville and Pride Night! Enjoy a night of goals and margaritas as the Roughnecks take on Rio Grande Valley Toros. Celebrate diversity and equality as we fly every identity flag and host a Roughnecks Pride March before the game led by the Roustabouts, the official supporters group of the Tulsa Roughnecks. Every ticket sold will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Special Drink Specials TBA Tickets are now available Call For Artists 2019 Deadline October 20, 2018 Oklahomans for Equality’s Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is accepting proposals for its 2019 exhibition calendar. Our gallery encourages emerging artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media to apply. Details Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. OkEq will host an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of each month. Each exhibit is installed on the Tuesday prior. No additional works will be accepted after initial delivery. Works must be available for sale. There will be a 30 percent commission on works sold. Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc.) for each piece. A biography and artist statement are due on the first of the month prior to the exhibit for publicity purposes. How to Apply Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as five jpg images that represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted by email. Proposals incorporating the work of two artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 18 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... Deadline for submissions is October 20. Notifications will be sent out by November 10. Please submit proposals by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org , with the subject heading “OkEq gallery proposal" Council Oak Men's Chorale Rehearsals on Tuesdays, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 The Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new members to sing in our holiday concert! Come join a great group of guys who enjoy singing and changing our community through song. We are excited to have Elizabeth Curtis, a former artistic director of the chorale, back as our interim director for the holiday concert. Our holiday concert, “Don We Now...,” will be Dec. 4th, 6th and 7th at East Side Christian Church, 1438 S. Indianapolis Ave. If you aren't singing with us, plan on attending. You won't want to miss starting your holiday season with the Council Oak Men's Chorale. Volunteer of the Month Ashley Spaulding August 2018 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 19 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT IN AN UNDERSERVED POPULATION WE NEED YOUR HELP!!! The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. Additionally, the field of psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures tell us about transgender individuals! YOU ARE ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer, gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. It involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take approximately two hours of your time. After completing the study, you will receive a $15.00 gift card. For questions or to participate. contact doctoral student researcher William Bryant: Email: william-bryant@utulsa.edu Cell Phone: 330 322-2442 hiss niv ucted as part of the student researcher' dissertatmn for the i al P-.ycho lo m. You're not alone YOU'RE NOT Support group for partners with HIV/ AIDS Do you have a partner who was recently diagnosed with HIV/AIDS? Have you found a community to process this life change with? Are you looking for support? As every airplane attendant says, “Put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others.” ALONE Having a partner with a life-threatening illness can take a toll on your well being. This group 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 20 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... may help you to recognize and change your reactions to the new challenges that having a partner with HIV/AIDS might pose. We will meet weekly for 6 weeks to cover information on HIV/AIDS, process difficulties you may be having with your partner, learn new ways to cope with this change, foster healthier communication, prepare for the future, and better manage stress. If interested please email jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - to join the group. You are not alone. Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library (~---~ - "C •IIKAf'°"""L FAST PACED A 1,FUWO •fTM flrO•CVlfVlltl \.[N'\ 111(1,• .. ._,.,,._.,,, , ......., ....... _., ....._..., 23 PEOPL£ WHO CHANGED THE WORlO SARAH PRAGER Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. "Queer, There, and Everywhere: 23 People who Changed the World" By Sarah Prager A New York Public Library Best Book of 2017 * A Chicago Public Library Best of the Best Book for Teens 2017 This first-ever LGBTQ history book of its kind for young adults will appeal to fans of fun, empowering pop-culture books like Rad American Women A-Z and Notorious RBG. Three starred reviews! World history has been made by countless lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer individuals—and you’ve never heard of many of them. Queer author and activist Sarah Prager delves deep into the lives of 23 people who fought, created, and loved on their own terms. From high-profile figures like Abraham Lincoln and Eleanor Roosevelt to the trailblazing genderambiguous Queen of Sweden and a bisexual blues singer who didn’t make it into your history books, these astonishing true stories uncover a rich queer heritage that encompasses every culture, in every era. By turns hilarious and inspiring, the beautifully illustrated Queer, There, and Everywhere is for anyone who wants the real story of the queer rights movement. Equality Center Pride Store Transgender enamel pins are for sale at the OkEq Pride Store for $5. 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 21 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. For appointments call or email Sara 918-928-2809 or sara@unitytulsa.com 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 22 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are available Mon-Thurs 12:30-6:00 p.m. and w alk in appointments are available. Appointments can be made by calling 918-280-9645 Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, September 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members August OkEq Art Exhibition The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the works of Malinda Blank. The show continues throughout the month. 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 23 of 30 Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relationships 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Facilitated by Allison Ikley-Freeman. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org --- --or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 2nd Tuesday of each 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 24 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Sos Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm Asexual Meeting 2nd & 4th Tuesday of every month 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 25 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... asexual group. sao-e ~~~~:~~! c) ~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Lambda AlAnon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. This open Al-Anon group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. Contact 918.743.2754 for more information. t_ ~ . v Tulsa Writers, In k.'--" <1Y' at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ~ • ,:; 'i' -@ -I Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Tulsa Writers, Ink. 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 26 of 30 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... Survivors of Incest Anonymous hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group Adult Survivors of Childhood Trauma. Sundays @ 4:00 p.m. LGBTQ individuals have a higher risk of experiencing trauma at an early age and these experiences of abuse, bullying, and stigmatization in youth can affect life as an adult. The primary focus of this group will be to teach people how to recognize their trauma and how to use healthy coping skills to deal with the effects. Members will be encouraged to build an internal network with other participants to provide each other with emotional and social support during weekly meetings held on Sundays @ 4pm. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Art for the Heart: An all Inclusive 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 27 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... Arts Program Sundays @ 1:00 p.m. Beginning after Labor Day Inclusion for People with Developmental Disabilities Saturdays @ 1:00 p.m. Beginning after Labor Day Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. Neurodiversity Social Group Saturdays @ 4:00 p.m. Beginning after Labor Day Do you find yourself over stimulated by large crowds or loud noises? Do you crave meaningful social interaction in a calm, safe environment? If you are living with a mental health diagnosis, are on the autism spectrum, or generally prefer calmer social events, then this is the place for you. Here, members will meet weekly on Saturdays @ 4pm to socialize and connect with individuals like themselves. Each week members will collectively decide on a different activity ranging from game nights, movie nights, outings, and many others. Art is more than just pictures on the wall. Art helps people express themselves, find happiness, and it can help with mobility and dexterity. Art classes foster connections between individuals and helps reduce isolation many people experience. Please join us in making our community a more beautiful, meaningful place through the enrichment of art. Subjects will be elected by members from a range of topics including: glass fusing and jewelry making, mosaics, basket weaving, finger weaving, ceramics, acrylic painting, and quilting. This group is all inclusive, and encourages individuals from all age groups to come together for weekly sessions on Sundays @ 1pm. LGBTQ+ History: Interviewees Wanted By appointment Do you feel like you have something to say about your life as an LGBTQ+ individual? Recording the history of the LGBTQ+ community is currently a feature of programming at 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 28 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... the Equality Center. This program is designed to supplement and further complete our collective history by interviewing participants to further investigate past and present features of LGBTQ+ life and identity. Interviewees will sit down face to face and be asked a series of questions in regards to their person lives and experiences. All information gathered will be added to the existing archive. Please contact Ely at burgesej@nsuok.edu to set up your appointment. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 29 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... OkEq Staff Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Jose Vega Program Director Olivia Cotter Office Manager Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer & Pride Store Coordinator Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Jan Baldwin, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Robin VanMeter, At Large Board of Directors Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Sheena Grewal Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Marcia Keesee Board of Advisors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Peter Brennan Jamie Catlett Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Amanda Lowe Jim Scholl Mikeal Vaughn William Vaughn Trustees 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �OUT West: OkEq Weekly eNews August 29, 2018 30 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OUT-West--OkEq-Weekly-eNew... Mike Redman, Esq. Chris Shoaf Al Triggs John Williams Visit our website < 1 1 <lo] J ' , Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes View our events Contact us today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. 621 East Fourth Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 08 4/24/26, 4:34 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3cbad2ab3972d6738b9fa130eadf3b47.pdf 97334c5b42c2af3cb36e56899e68729c PDF Text Text Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 1 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews September 5th, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 2018 OkEq Board Elections and Annual Meeting The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality is set for 6:30 p.m. Thursday, Sept. 6, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Presently, ten seats on the Board of Directors are up for election. OkEq members present at the meeting will approve the recommended bylaws. • 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 2 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... Oklahomans for equality Voting ends promptly on Sept. 6, at 7:00 pm. Click here to vote. Click here for recommended bylaws. George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 3 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and learn how to make your donation today. G O GE KAIS R FAMILY FOU 'DA 10 A uppo n org n on o ul Commun y o nd on Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, September 20, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 THIRD THURSDAYS IN THE RAINBOW ROOM is proud to present the fabulous Kara Staiger in her highly acclaimed Summer Stage cabaret production of ONWARD! Joining Kara will be Tulsa's favorite performers: Sam Briggs, Thomas Williams, Mike Pryor, Margaret Stahl, and Denise Hoey. Tracy Watson makes magic on the keys. Performances are scheduled every third Thursday of the month at 8:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street, Tulsa OK . For tickets or more information, see okeq.org/store . 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 4 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... Grannies Sunday Brunch Sunday, September 30, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 73120 GRANNIES GO COUNTRY!!! Grannies is an all-star satire event celebrating folk and inspirational music with live performances and drag personalities. It’s irreverent, but never sacrilegious, and always uplifting humor. Grannies remembers those days of going to grandma's house for Sunday Dinner. Rainbow Granny welcomes her granny pals Anita Richards, Kiesha Kye and Miss Gay Oklahoma America 2018 Shanel Sterling. Brunch and live entertainment provided. Tickets cost $25. Reserved tables for eight are available for $200. Mimosas and cash bar will be available. Purchase tickets now First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, September 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The September Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Micheal Jones in a show titled “Gods and Fools” beginning with a reception from 6 to 9 p.m. on Thursday, Sept. 6, and continuing throughout the month. Since the age of 12, Micheal Jones has been an artist. In school, he 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 5 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... was remembered as the guy who spent his extra time in the library studying the Renaissance; that sums up Micheal’s life in a nutshell. By the age of 16, he had sold his first painting, and within a few years, he was hanging one-man shows in every available venue, from banks and museums to community buildings. Micheal attained his master’s degree and began exhibiting in well-known juried national shows from Los Angeles to New York. He has a set of mezzotints in the State Museum of Yekaterinberg, Russia. “Gods and Fools” is a portfolio of works depicting ancient personalities in modern-day settings. Using young models in the confines of his studio and other settings, Micheal creates paintings that are both attractive and mildly erotic, much in the style of the pioneer of “earthly realism”: Caravaggio. By combining this theatrical dynamism with careful observation from life, Caravaggio achieved a gritty naturalism in both genre and religious scenes. Conversely, Micheal has chosen to portray his figures using his own contemporary Impressionistic style, which further emphasizes the fact that these figures are firmly entrenched in the modern era. His models often stare directly at the viewer and include the mundane details of modern life. The show continues throughout the month. ww.okeq.org Inclusion for People with Developmental Disabilities Saturdays at 1:00 p.m. Beginning after Labor Day Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. Neurodiversity Social Group Saturdays at 4:00 p.m. Beginning after Labor Day Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you find yourself over stimulated by large crowds or loud noises? Do you crave meaningful social interaction in a calm, safe environment? If you are living with a mental health diagnosis, are on the autism spectrum, or generally prefer calmer social events, then this is the place for you. Here, members will meet weekly on Saturdays @ 4pm to socialize and connect with individuals like themselves. Each week 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 6 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... members will collectively decide on a different activity ranging from game nights, movie nights, outings, and many others. Art for the Heart Program: An all inclusive Arts Program Sundays at 1:00 p.m. Beginning after Labor Day Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Art is more than just pictures on the wall. Art helps people express themselves, find happiness, and it can help with mobility and dexterity. Art classes foster connections between individuals and helps reduce isolation many people experience. Please join us in making our community a more beautiful, meaningful place through the enrichment of art. Subjects will be elected by members from a range of topics including: glass fusing and jewelry making, mosaics, basket weaving, finger weaving, ceramics, acrylic painting, and quilting. This group is all inclusive, and encourages individuals from all age groups to come together for weekly sessions on Sundays @ 1pm. OkEq Teen Theatre Program Saturday, September 8, 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In this free program, participants ages 13-17 will choose a historical LGBT character and then experiment with creating monologues from historical data and their own imagination. Students will act out monologues and develop improvisational scenes for the performance. Participants will rehearse each Saturday beginning Sept. 8 from 1 to 3 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The performance is slated for the afternoon of Oct. 27, and some extra rehearsals will be held the week of the show . Instructor: Julie Tattershall has a bachelor's degree in theatre from the University of Tulsa and a master's of human relations degree from the University of Oklahoma. She has directed more than 80 plays and has been instrumental in developing, creating and implementing touring programs throughout the state. Tattershall created an improvisational troupe that has performed more than 500 shows in the past 25 years. She received the 2012 Mary Kay Place Legacy Award from the Tulsa Awards for Theatre Excellence, funded by the George Kaiser Family Foundation, for lifetime achievement and contributions to the Tulsa theater community. She won the 2014 Hall of Honor award from the Oklahoma Community Theatre Association, in recognition of the outstanding contribution to the development of community theater in Oklahoma. Recently, she created “Aesop Afoot,” which is touring local schools through the Artists-in-Schools program. 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 7 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... Please email Jose.vega@okeq.org with any questions OkEq Equality Youth Group: Alphabet Soup Saturday, September 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for Alphabet SOUP, where all letters are welcome! Alphabet SOUP is dedicated to supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual (LGBTQIA+) youth by providing fun group activities, community, and volunteer opportunities. Alphabet SOUP’s primary goals are providing Services, Outreach, Unity, and Preparation for adulthood -- or SOUP -- to LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17. It will be every Saturday upstairs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Alphabet SOUP is an out and about GSA that also encourages and supports selected teens who demonstrate leadership skills. Please email Jose.vega@okeq.org with any questions LGBT Women's Network September Happy Hour Monday, September 10, 5:00 p.m. In the Raw Brookside 3321 S. Peoria Ave., Tulsa, OK 74105 ***We decided to push our September happy hour back a week because of the holiday, just FYI! This month's sponsor is Day's Building Materials! Come mix and mingle with ladies you might not meet otherwise, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. We'll have light appetizers and don't forget to bring business cards to be entered into a drawing for a door prize! MEET LIKE-MINDED TULSA WOMEN - ~ - 1/1 . . I . & BUILD YOUR NETWORK \ , S E#P T E M B E R HAPPY .........-..... .. . . . .... HOU ,,ff C..J, . I .. 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 8 of 32 fl/'''((tfl/, ,)rf.1/f''C l } t / https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... /1[ 1 ( '1- I/Fl 11( f, Jfzr (1u, Appl provided by: Thesis Research Study Please consider participating in my thesis research study examining the connection between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) identity, community connection, and resilience! This study is approved by the institutional review board at Northeastern State University and under the supervision of my thesis chair, Dr. Steven Byers. In order to be eligible for the study, you must: Be 18 years of age at the time of completion Identify as LGBTQ+ To participate in the study, please complete the survey here . The survey will take about 20 to 30 minutes to complete. You can be entered to win a $25.00 Amazon gift card if you provide an email address at the end of the survey. This study is anonymous. The only identifying information which will be collected is demographic information, and will not specifically identify you. You will be asked to provide an email at the conclusion of the survey to be entered in the raffle if you so wish, but are not required to do so. Participation in this study is voluntary. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you may close the browser window at any time. If you do not want to answer a question, you may skip any question in this survey. If you have any questions, please contact Jordan Westcott ( Westcott@nsuok.edu ) or Dr. Steven Byers ( byerss@nsuok.edu ). We hope that you choose to participate in this study and share your experience! Community Dinner and Game Night in Partnership with Microsoft Thursday, September 13, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 A free community family Game Night event at OKEQ, open to all! Single, married, or not interested, younger or older -- all are welcome! Dinners are sponsored by different welcoming organizations, with family-friendly games and activities sponsored by Microsoft. These events are intended to encourage and build friendships in the community. MisFEST 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 9 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... Saturday, September 15, 6:00 p.m. River West Festival Park 2100 S. Jackson Ave., Tulsa, OK 74120 MisFEST – Tulsa’s first female-led festival – is heading into its second year with an all new line-up of regional acts and a national headliner – Katie Herzig. A producer, singer-songwriter and performer, all while being a proud supporter and member of the LGBTQ community, Herzig is fresh off the 2018 release of her sixth album, “Moment of Bliss.” Herzig tours the U.S. this summer for the first time in four years. She has performed at Bonnaroo and on VH1 and has toured extensively, both as a headliner and as support for artists such as Brandi Carlile, Sara Bareilles and Ingrid Michaelson. Herzig has always been very hands-on in the production of her own music, which has led to opportunities to co-write and produce music for other artists as well, including Ingrid Michaelson’s platinum-selling single “Girls Chase Boys.” The MisFEST line-up is dedicated to diversity and to showing that a strong female performer can never fit in a box. For more info or to purchase tickets, visit www.misfest.com. Visit www.misfest.com to use your EXCLUSIVE discount code “OKEQROCKS” to save $5 per ticket! Fowler ~ MISFESTMus1~HE1s IS SHE MUSIC A U T O M O T I V E : SEPT 15TH, 2018 + RIVER WEST FESTIVAL PARK+ TULSAJ OK INTERACTIVE ART INSTALLATIO S v,nn l!&Utf .a. cnnn Tnnrr~ AND MORE! 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! 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Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to ease getting into the pool. If you plan to attend, please RSVP to olivia.cotter@okeq.org or (918) 743-4297. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Place in Tulsa. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual and 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 11 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults; supports and advocates for their rights; fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities; and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. EBA Mixer Wednesday, September 19, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center 17 W. 7th St., Tulsa, OK 74119 If Holiday Inn· AN IHG• HOTEL Guests who stay at the Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center get the full Tulsa, OK experience. Our hotel's downtown Tulsa location places you minutes from exciting big-name music and sporting events at BOK Center and Tulsa Performing Arts Center, but also next door to quaint, historic neighborhoods and Utica Square Shopping Center.Though the hotel is within walking distance of ONEOK, The Williams Companies, Helmerich and Payne, IBM, JP Morgan Chase and other Tulsa, OK companies, Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center's complimentary downtown area hotel shuttle ensures you'll always have a ride. Oklahoma State University Medical Center, St. John and Hillcrest Hospitals are nearby the hotel as well. The hotel is also conveniently located within a few miles of University of Tulsa, Brady Theater, and Cains Ballroom. The location of Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center allows you to easily spend a day on a walking tour of Art Deco architecture, viewing Native American art at Gilcrease Museum or Western art at the Philbrook Museum. Warm nights are perfect for outdoor dining on Boulder Grill's patio, located within hotel. Let Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center be a fun getaway at our stunning downtown, full service hotel with great perks like our 24 hour airport shuttle. Enjoy our Fitness Center or swim under the stars in our sparkling, indoor pool with retractable roof and eco-friendly salt purification system. Come relax and enjoy a memorable stay at the Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center. Visit Holiday Inn City Center Online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: Please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. E ALITY l - . ---- ... Business Alliance i 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 12 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... www.fostercare-ok.org R ~ Saint Francis Community Services• Give hope. Change a life. Become a foster parent. Red State Resistance: Reproductive Justice in the Red State of Oklahoma Friday, September 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 73120 A new documentary focusing on the reproductive rights of people living in Oklahoma will be shown at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in September. The Reproductive Justice Campus Action Network housed at the University of Central Oklahoma’s Women’s Research Center and BGLTQ+ Student Center has created a documentary intended to put a face to Oklahomans whose bodily autonomy has been affected. The documentary presents an opportunity for people to engage in an open conversation about issues that are 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 13 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... often overlooked and disregarded. It gives viewers the chance to hear the experiences of people who live in Oklahoma. “We want to give a voice to the people who are affected by their reproductive rights being violated or who do not know or understand what reproductive justice is,” said Mickayla Fisher, coordinator of the Reproductive Justice Campus Action Network and the student volunteer coordinator. “These interviews are powerful, and the world needs to see the struggles of these men and women.” Oklahomans for Equality’s office manager, Olivia Cotter, is featured in the film. “If this film can ignite a flame for someone and give them the strength to stand up for themselves and others’ rights, then my team and this film have done their job,” Fisher said. “It has been rewarding seeing our documentary take shape and be able to share this experience with others.” Third Annual Stand Bi+ Me Rooftop Party Saturday, September 22, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 73120 OkEq's Brought To You Bi+ The Letter B invites you to our annual Stand Bi+ Me rooftop celebration for Bi+ Visibility Day 2018! Join us on the roof of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center as we recognize the Bisexual, Pansexual, Fluid, Queer, and all non-mono identities. We will have music, dancing, stories, refreshments. All are welcome, must be 21+ to drink. Celebrate with us and be seen! Brought To You Bi+ The Letter B serves the bi/pan/queer/fluid+ community of Tulsa through support groups and social events. Find us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/ groups/biprogramsOKEQ/. -------- Enid Pride 2018 Saturday, September 22, 12:00 - 5:00 p.m. Government Springs Park 600 E. Owen K. Garriott Rd., Enid, OK 73701 Join us Sept. 22 for Enid Pride! Our theme this year is Roaring Pride! As always, Enid Pride is a free, family-friendly event. Please invite friends and family. Vendor, sponsorship, and volunteer forms are available online at https://enidlgbtcoalition.org/enid-pride/ --- ----- -- -- . 1..,., ,1aa,1 2011 1ATUIH,&Y 1DTIM91D !!MD ~ /. m ~ 12PM- SPM eGYDNMl1ff 1PDIMe1 PADlt IMID,Olt MU11(, VOfDOllt1, JOOD & nJlllf rAMllV rlHIQll' 1101TrD8l': ~n!d~(iBT ~Coalition 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 14 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... National Voter Registration Day Tuesday, September 25, 12:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 73120 National Voter Registration Day is a national holiday celebrating our democracy. It was first observed in 2012 and has been growing in popularity every year since. Held on the fourth Tuesday of September, National Voter Registration Day will be observed on Tuesday, September 25th this year. The holiday has been endorsed by the National Association of Secretaries of State ( NASS ). It is further supported by the National Association of State Election Directors ( NASED ). What It’s About Every year millions of Americans find themselves unable to vote because they miss a registration deadline, don’t update their registration, or aren’t sure how to register. National Voter Registration Day wants to make sure everyone has the opportunity to vote. On Tuesday September 25, 2018 volunteers and organizations from all over the country will “hit the streets” in a single day of coordinated field, technology and media efforts. National Voter Registration Day seeks to create broad awareness of voter registration opportunities to reach tens of thousands of voters who may not register otherwise. What It Involves • Volunteers in their community or workplace, at schools or public events, or anywhere can register people to vote. • Technology to help voters find registration drives nearby and register to vote online. • Local organizations, businesses and election offices engaged in their own communities. • Tens of thousands of voters registering to vote online and offline in a single day. What It Will Accomplish • Registering Voters: In 2016 over 750,000 voters used National Voter Registration Day to register to vote across all 50 states. • Mobilizing Volunteers: Each year the holiday’s growing number of local partners engage upwards to 10,000 local volunteers. • Educating Voters: Millions of voters need to register and re-register every year. By utilizing new technology and leveraging partners, we’ll educate Americans in all 50 states about how to register, sign up for election reminders, check their registration online, get mail ballots, learn about early voting and more. • Uniting for a Common Purpose: National Voter Registration Day is a day of civic unity. It’s an opportunity to set aside differences and celebrate democracy and the rights and opportunities we all share as Americans. Pride Day at the Tulsa State Fair Saturday, September 29, 12:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 15 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... Tulsa State Fair 4145 E. 21 St., Tulsa, OK 74114 Tulsa Pride invites you to turn the Tulsa State Fair rainbow! Come out and have fun at the Tulsa State Fair as our community celebrates LGBTQ+ Pride! This is a great chance to run into familiar faces and meet new ones. Don't forget to wear your pride attire to spread awareness and visibility of our presence in Tulsa! Pride Night at the Tulsa Roughnecks Game Saturday, October 6, 6:00 p.m. ONEOK Field 201 N. Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come on out to ONEOK Field on Saturday, October 6, 2018, for Margaritaville and Pride Night! Enjoy a night of goals and margaritas as the Roughnecks take on Rio Grande Valley Toros. Celebrate diversity and equality as we fly every identity flag and host a Roughnecks Pride March before the game led by the Roustabouts, the official supporters group of the Tulsa Roughnecks. Every ticket sold will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Special Drink Specials TBA Tickets are now available Call For Artists 2019 Deadline October 20, 2018 Oklahomans for Equality’s Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is accepting proposals for its 2019 exhibition calendar. Our gallery encourages emerging artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media to apply. Details Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. OkEq will host an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of each month. Each exhibit is installed on the Tuesday prior. 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 16 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... No additional works will be accepted after initial delivery. Works must be available for sale. There will be a 30 percent commission on works sold. Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc.) for each piece. A biography and artist statement are due on the first of the month prior to the exhibit for publicity purposes. How to Apply Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as five jpg images that represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted by email. Proposals incorporating the work of two artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. Deadline for submissions is October 20. Notifications will be sent out by November 10. Please submit proposals by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - , with the subject heading “OkEq gallery proposal" HARUV USA LECTURE SERIES Let's Get This Straight: Working Towards Protecting LGBTQ Children, Youth, and Their Families Monday, 11 .5.18 @ 7-8:30pm OU-Tulsa Schusterman Learning Center (campus map attached) FREE {for Socio/ Work professionals earning CEUs, 1.5 will be offered for $15 on site that evening} 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 17 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... HARUB USA Lecture Series Monday, November 5, 7:00 p.m. OU - Tulsa Schusterman Learning Center 4502 E. 41st St., Tulsa, OK 74135 FOR MORE INFORMATION PLEASE CONTACT: kaseyrinehart@ou.edu 1.5 CEU's will be available Click here to register I Gerald P. Mallon, DSW, is the Julia Lathrop Professor of Child Welfare and the Associate Dean of Scholarship and Research at the Silberman School of Social Work at Hunter College in New York City. For more than 43 years, Dr. Mallon has been a child welfare practitioner, advocate, educator, and researcher. Dr. Mallon was the first child welfare professional in the U.S. to research, write about, and develop programs for LGBTQ youth in child welfare settings. He has also written extensively about sexual orientation and gender identity expression . Dr. Mellon's scholarship and practice has been recognized through multiple awards including The Judge Richard Ware Award - Louisiana Children's Trust Fund; The New York State Citizens Coalition for Children Advocacy Award, the Hosteler-Habib Award, Family Equality Council; the Child Advocate of the Year Award - North American Council on Adoptable Children; and induction in 2014 as a Fellow of the American Academy of Social Work and Social Welfare. In 2017, Dr. Mallon was awarded the Adoption Excellence Award from the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. He serves on numerous editorial boards of professional journals and is the Senior Editor of the professional journal, Child Welfare and the author or editor of more than twenty-four books. His most recent publications are: Social Work Practice with Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender People (3rd edition}, published by Routledge Press; and Child Welfare for the Twenty-first Century: A Handbook of Practices, Policies, and Programs {2nd edition}, co-edited with Peg Hess, published by Columbia University Press. In his role as the Executive Director of the National Center for Child Welfare Excellence, Dr. Mallon has traveled to all 50 stales, many territories and numerous tribes to deliver technica l assistance and training on a range of ch ild welfare related issues "particularly" as they relate to youth and to foster care. Dr. Mallon has lectured and worked extensively throughout the United States, and internationally in Argentina, Austral ia, Canada, Cuba, Indonesia, Ireland, Israel, the Netherlands, Portugal, and the United Kingdom. Dr. Mallon earned his doctorate in Social Welfare from the City University of New York at Hunter College, holds an MSW from Fordham University and a BSW from 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 18 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... Dominican College. Dr. Mallon also lives the talk he talks, in addition lo being a child welfare professional for his entire career, he has been a foster parent and is the adoptive parent of now grown ch ildren . Haruv USA at O U-Tulsa provides comprehensive, infer-professional education, training, and research in the prevention and treatment of ch ild abuse and neglect. It is a partnership between the Haruv Institute in Israel, the OU Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, and OU-Tulsa . Haruv USA at OU-Tulsa INTERNATIONAL CE TER OF EXCELLENCE & A RECOGNIZED LEADER IN THE FIELD OF CHILD MALTREATMENT Scout Pack 226 Meet and Greet Thursday, September 6, 6:00 p.m. Parish Church of St. Jerome 6205 W. King St., Tulsa, OK 74106 Introducing Pacb 226 An Inclusive Pacb for Boys. Girls and Kids from the CLBT Community We’re one of the only girl and boy Accepting Applications from Kids 5 to 11 Years Old pack in the Indian Nations’ Council, Scout Meetings: Thursda11s at 6:00 p.m. but are also “inclusive” of GLBT kids/ The Parish Church of St. Jerome, 205 W. King Street parents. (We are listed on the Scouts For More Information: www.TulsaPacb226.org for Equality website: https:// Contact us: TulsaPacb226@gmail.com www.scoutsforequality.org/ ------- - -- inclusive-units/ ) We now have our charter and permission from the Scouts National Headquarters to begin recruiting. Our feed school is Emerson, and we will be attending the Back to School night tonight (Friday, August 31 st ) but our kids will also be from other parts of the city. We are, of course, also needing Den Leaders. Den Leaders are usually the parents of the scout kids. They do have to undergo a back-ground clearance and take the required scout training. We’re accepting kids from the age of 5 to 11. Applications can be made online at: https:// my.bsa.us/488paa0226mb or folks can request a form: TulsaPack226@gmail.com Our website is www.TulsaPack226.org and of course we have a Facebook page: https:// www.facebook.com/groups/TulsaPack226 We have a Parents “Meet and Greet” scheduled next Thursday, September 6 th at 6:00 pm at the church: The Parish Church of St. Jerome, 205 W. King Street, Tulsa, 74106 . It would be great to get some of our kids from the GLBT community to join us. If you need any more information, please contact me: Fr. Dewayne Messenger, Pastor 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 19 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... Chapter 226 Charter Rep and Chaplain Benefltting ~·~ The Imperf al Court of All Oklahoma presents 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 20 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... Council Oak Men's Chorale Rehearsals on Tuesdays, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 The Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new members to sing in our holiday concert! Come join a great group of guys who enjoy singing and changing our community through song. We are excited to have Elizabeth Curtis, a former artistic director of the chorale, back as our interim director for the holiday concert. 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 21 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... Our holiday concert, “Don We Now...,” will be Dec. 4th, 6th and 7th at East Side Christian Church, 1438 S. Indianapolis Ave. If you aren't singing with us, plan on attending. You won't want to miss starting your holiday season with the Council Oak Men's Chorale. PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT IN AN UNDERSERVED POPULATION WE NEED YOUR HELP!!! The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. Additionally, the field of psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures cell us about cransgender individuals! YOU ARE ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. It involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take approximately two hours of your time. After completing the study, you will receive a $15.00 gift card. For questions or to participate. contact doctoral student researcher W illiam Bryant: Email: william-bryant@utulsa.edu Cell Phone: (330) 322-2442 his study i bemg conducted as part of the student researcher's dissertation for the niver.si ofTulsa's Clini :ii Psycho lo!,'Y Pro ram. 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 22 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... b6J You're not alone YOU'RE NOT ALONE Support group for partners with HIV/ AIDS Do you have a partner who was recently diagnosed with HIV/AIDS? Have you found a community to process this life change with? Are you looking for support? As every airplane attendant says, “Put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others.” Having a partner with a life-threatening illness can take a toll on your well being. This group may help you to recognize and change your reactions to the new challenges that having a partner with HIV/AIDS might pose. We will meet weekly for 6 weeks to cover information on HIV/AIDS, process difficulties you may be having with your partner, learn new ways to cope with this change, foster healthier communication, prepare for the future, and better manage stress. If interested please email jose.vega@okeq.org to join the group. You are not alone. ---- Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library ,........,........,.., ·- ..-.....,,,... ............... _____ ... ~ - 'o'(ltS,A?~L f"AST PACED A .. JTMJIIO•CU\.fVlltl \.(Nt, •1 , 1._f"V'W"O \• , .._..,_ 23 PEOPL[ WHO CHANGED THE WORlO SARAH PRAGER Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. "Queer, There, and Everywhere: 23 People who Changed the World" By Sarah Prager A New York Public Library Best Book of 2017 * A Chicago Public Library Best of the Best Book for Teens 2017 This first-ever LGBTQ history book of its kind for young adults will appeal to fans of fun, empowering pop-culture books like Rad American Women A-Z and Notorious RBG. Three starred reviews! World history has been made by countless lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer individuals—and you’ve never heard of many of them. Queer author and activist Sarah Prager delves deep into the lives of 23 people who fought, created, and loved on their own terms. From high-profile figures like Abraham Lincoln and Eleanor Roosevelt to the trailblazing genderambiguous Queen of Sweden and a bisexual blues singer who didn’t make it into your history books, these astonishing true stories uncover a rich queer heritage that 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 23 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... encompasses every culture, in every era. By turns hilarious and inspiring, the beautifully illustrated Queer, There, and Everywhere is for anyone who wants the real story of the queer rights movement. Equality Center Pride Store Transgender enamel pins are for sale at the OkEq Pride Store for $5. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 24 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. For appointments call or email Sara 918-928-2809 or sara@unitytulsa.com ---- Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are available Mon-Thurs 12:30-6:00 p.m. and w alk in appointments are available. Appointments can be made by calling 918-280-9645 Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, September 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members August OkEq Art Exhibition The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the works of Malinda Blank. The show continues throughout the month. 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 25 of 32 Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . • LEGAL A1n th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relationships 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Facilitated by Allison Ikley-Freeman. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org - ---or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 2nd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A new support group for Brought to You Bi 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 26 of 32 Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Sos the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm Asexual Meeting 2nd & 4th Tuesday of every month 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV • 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 27 of 32 sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. A fo Lambda AlAnon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. This open Al-Anon group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. Contact 918.743.2754 for more information. ~"''~ ' .('?-, Tulsa Writers, Ink. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ~ Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. / -:- Tulsa Writers, Ink. 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. 1'1=~~~ = - ® ~I Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Survivors of Incest This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 28 of 32 Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... Anonymous support for one another. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group Adult Survivors of Childhood Trauma. Sundays @ 4:00 p.m. LGBTQ individuals have a higher risk of experiencing trauma at an early age and these experiences of abuse, bullying, and stigmatization in youth can affect life as an adult. The primary focus of this group will be to teach people how to recognize their trauma and how to use healthy coping skills to deal with the effects. Members will be encouraged to build an internal network with other participants to provide each other with emotional and social support during weekly meetings held on Sundays @ 4pm. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Art for the Heart: An all Inclusive Arts Program Sundays @ 1:00 p.m. Beginning after Labor Day 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 29 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... ----Inclusion for People with Developmental Disabilities Saturdays @ 1:00 p.m. Beginning after Labor Day Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. Neurodiversity Social Group Saturdays @ 4:00 p.m. Beginning after Labor Day Do you find yourself over stimulated by large crowds or loud noises? Do you crave meaningful social interaction in a calm, safe environment? If you are living with a mental health diagnosis, are on the autism spectrum, or generally prefer calmer social events, then this is the place for you. Here, members will meet weekly on Saturdays @ 4pm to socialize and connect with individuals like themselves. Each week members will collectively decide on a different activity ranging from game nights, movie nights, outings, and many others. Art is more than just pictures on the wall. Art helps people express themselves, find happiness, and it can help with mobility and dexterity. Art classes foster connections between individuals and helps reduce isolation many people experience. Please join us in making our community a more beautiful, meaningful place through the enrichment of art. Subjects will be elected by members from a range of topics including: glass fusing and jewelry making, mosaics, basket weaving, finger weaving, ceramics, acrylic painting, and quilting. This group is all inclusive, and encourages individuals from all age groups to come together for weekly sessions on Sundays @ 1pm. LGBTQ+ History: Interviewees Wanted By appointment Do you feel like you have something to say about your life as an LGBTQ+ individual? Recording the history of the LGBTQ+ community is currently a feature of programming at the Equality Center. This program is designed to supplement and further 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 30 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... complete our collective history by interviewing participants to further investigate past and present features of LGBTQ+ life and identity. Interviewees will sit down face to face and be asked a series of questions in regards to their person lives and experiences. All information gathered will be added to the existing archive. Please contact Ely at burgesej@nsuok.edu to set up your appointment. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 31 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Jose Vega Program Director Olivia Cotter Office Manager Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer & Pride Store Coordinator Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Jan Baldwin, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Robin VanMeter, At Large Board of Directors Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Sheena Grewal Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Marcia Keesee Mike Redman, Esq. Chris Shoaf Al Triggs John Williams Board of Advisors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Peter Brennan Jamie Catlett Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Amanda Lowe Jim Scholl Mikeal Vaughn William Vaughn Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes 4/24/26, 4:34 PM �Vote Now! OkEq Weekly eNews September 5, 2018 32 of 32 Visit our website https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Vote-Now--OkEq-Weekly-eNews... View our events Contact us today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. 621 East Fourth Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 o• 4/24/26, 4:34 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1589c7d2d7dc3f001f7077c0b844dbb5.pdf 46996d3b89abc942d3e18cfd60d347be PDF Text Text Check Out the Rainbow Room 1 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Check-Out-the-Rainbow-Room-.h... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews September 12th, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/24/26, 4:36 PM �Check Out the Rainbow Room 2 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Check-Out-the-Rainbow-Room-.h... - F OR DISTRICT JUDGE ELECTBRECHT.COM George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and learn how to make your donation today. G O GE KAIS R FAMILY FOU 'DA 10 A upport1n org n, ion o ul Community Found ion Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room 4/24/26, 4:36 PM �Check Out the Rainbow Room 3 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Check-Out-the-Rainbow-Room-.h... Thursday, September 20, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 THIRD THURSDAYS IN THE RAINBOW ROOM is proud to present the fabulous Kara Staiger in her highly acclaimed Summer Stage cabaret production of ONWARD! Joining Kara will be Tulsa's favorite performers: Sam Briggs, Thomas Williams, Mike Pryor, Margaret Stahl, and Denise Hoey. Tracy Watson makes magic on the keys. Performances are scheduled every third Thursday of the month at 8:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street, Tulsa OK . For tickets or more information, see okeq.org/store . Grannies Sunday Brunch Sunday, September 30, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 GRANNIES GO COUNTRY!!! 4/24/26, 4:36 PM �Check Out the Rainbow Room 4 of 32 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Check-Out-the-Rainbow-Room-.h... Grannies is an all-star satire event celebrating folk and inspirational music with live performances and drag personalities. It’s irreverent, but never sacrilegious, and always uplifting humor. Grannies remembers those days of going to grandma's house for Sunday Dinner. Rainbow Granny welcomes her granny pals Anita Richards, Kiesha Kye and Miss Gay Oklahoma America 2018 Shanel Sterling. Brunch and live entertainment provided. Tickets cost $25. Reserved tables for eight are available for $200. Mimosas and cash bar will be available. Purchase tickets now • Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, September 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary. = OKLAHOMA, INC. Mindfulness Event Friday, September 14, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Mindfulness - a mental state achieved by focusing one's awareness on the present moment, while calmly acknowledging and accepting one's feelings, thoughts, and bodily sensations, used as a therapeutic technique. This event is A part of the National Suicide prevention week We will cover how the participant can take care of themselves, through positive affirmations, visualization and meditation, along with Native American herbs. We will finish the mindfulness with a Native American Talking circle . This group will be facilitated by John Co-Cke and Splendalee Delight , a prevention specialist with the Muscogee (Creek) Nation. 4/24/26, 4:36 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3b444e190698eddea3db5b02ad2c21be.pdf f5e73115ddfba1e9c2542db492547378 PDF Text Text Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 1 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews September 19th, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 2 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... I ELECTBRECHT .COM George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and learn how to make your donation today. G O GE KAIS R FAMILY -ou 'DA 10 A uppo 1n org n on o ul Community Fo n Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, September 20, 8:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 3 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 THIRD THURSDAYS IN THE RAINBOW ROOM is proud to present the fabulous Kara Staiger in her highly acclaimed Summer Stage cabaret production of ONWARD! Joining Kara will be Tulsa's favorite performers: Sam Briggs, Thomas Williams, Mike Pryor, Margaret Stahl, and Denise Hoey. Tracy Watson makes magic on the keys. Performances are scheduled every third Thursday of the month at 8:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street, Tulsa OK . For tickets or more information, see okeq.org/store . Grannies Sunday Brunch Sunday, September 30, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 GRANNIES GO COUNTRY!!! Grannies is an all-star satire event 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 4 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... celebrating folk and inspirational music with live performances and drag personalities. It’s irreverent, but never sacrilegious, and always uplifting humor. Grannies remembers those days of going to grandma's house for Sunday Dinner. Rainbow Granny welcomes her granny pals Anita Richards, Kiesha Kye and Miss Gay Oklahoma America 2018 Shanel Sterling. Brunch and live entertainment provided. Tickets cost $25. Reserved tables for eight are available for $200. Mimosas and cash bar will be available. Purchase tickets now Thesis Research Study Please consider participating in my thesis research study examining the connection between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) identity, community connection, and resilience! This study is approved by the institutional review board at Northeastern State University and under the supervision of my thesis chair, Dr. Steven Byers. In order to be eligible for the study, you must: Be 18 years of age at the time of completion Identify as LGBTQ+ To participate in the study, please complete the survey here . The survey will take about 20 to 30 minutes to complete. You can be entered to win a $25.00 Amazon gift card if you provide an email address at the end of the survey. This study is anonymous. The only identifying information which will be collected is demographic information, and will not specifically identify you. You will be asked to provide an email at the conclusion of the survey to be entered in the raffle if you so wish, but are not required to do so. Participation in this study is voluntary. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you may close the browser window at any time. If you do not want to answer a question, you may skip any question in this survey. If you have any questions, please contact Jordan Westcott ( Westcott@nsuok.edu ) or Dr. Steven Byers ( byerss@nsuok.edu ). We hope that you choose to participate in this study and share your experience! Free Flu Shots at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday, September 25, 11:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 5 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center during your lunch break for your free Flu Shot provided by Walgreens Sitting with the Soul Meditations Saturday, September 29, 3:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 All Are Welcome “if the ocean can calm itself, so can you. we are both salt water mixed with air.” -meditation by Nayyirah Waheed The Oklahomans for Equality and Ocean’s Echo Wellness are collaborating to offer biweekly meditation sessions. Join Lanette Clark , Certified Reiki Practioner, for guided meditations intended to relax, comfort and heal the physical, mental and emotional well-being of each participant. Sessions will combine various meditation techniques to find awareness, achieve a peaceful state and deep relaxation. Ms. Clark will incorporate aromatherapy, healing crystals, sound therapy and Reiki to assist participants in their meditative process. Sitting with the Soul is a donation-based program. A portion of donated funds will be given to the Oklahomans for Equality. These sessions are open to anyone who wishes to join. Whether you are new to meditation or a person who meditates daily, this is a space in which you are fully accepted and loved. Please bring a bottle of water and wear loose clothing. A mat and cushion will be provided to each participant. For additional information, please contact Lanette Clark at lanette@oceansecho.com . EBA Mixer Wednesday, September 19, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center 17 W. 7th St., Tulsa, OK 74119 /t Holiday Inn· AN I G• HOTEL Guests who stay at the Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center get the full Tulsa, OK experience. Our hotel's downtown Tulsa location places you minutes from exciting big-name music and sporting events at BOK Center and Tulsa Performing Arts Center, but also next door to quaint, historic neighborhoods and Utica Square Shopping Center.Though the hotel is within walking distance of ONEOK, The Williams Companies, Helmerich and Payne, IBM, JP Morgan Chase and other Tulsa, OK companies, Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center's complimentary downtown area hotel shuttle ensures you'll always have a ride. Oklahoma State University Medical Center, St. John and Hillcrest Hospitals are nearby the hotel as well. The hotel is also conveniently located within a few miles of University of Tulsa, Brady Theater, and Cains Ballroom. 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 6 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... The location of Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center allows you to easily spend a day on a walking tour of Art Deco architecture, viewing Native American art at Gilcrease Museum or Western art at the Philbrook Museum. Warm nights are perfect for outdoor dining on Boulder Grill's patio, located within hotel. Let Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center be a fun getaway at our stunning downtown, full service hotel with great perks like our 24 hour airport shuttle. Enjoy our Fitness Center or swim under the stars in our sparkling, indoor pool with retractable roof and eco-friendly salt purification system. Come relax and enjoy a memorable stay at the Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center. Visit Holiday Inn City Center Online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: Please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. E UALITY Business Alliance www.fostercare-ok.org 17 ~ Saint Francis Community Services• Give hope. Change a life. Become a foster parent. 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 7 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... Learn more at www.fostercare-ok.org or call 877-263-1890 Red State Resistance: Reproductive Justice in the Red State of Oklahoma Friday, September 21, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Roe Fund, The Reproductive Justice Campus Action Network, and Planned Parenthood will be sharing information before the film screening. A new documentary focusing on the reproductive rights of people living in Oklahoma will be shown at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in September. The Reproductive Justice Campus Action Network housed at the University of Central Oklahoma’s Women’s Research Center and BGLTQ+ Student Center has created a documentary intended to put a face to Oklahomans whose bodily autonomy has been affected. The documentary presents an opportunity for people to engage in an open conversation about issues that are often overlooked and disregarded. It gives viewers the chance to hear the experiences of people who live in Oklahoma. “We want to give a voice to the people who are affected by their reproductive rights being violated or who do not know or understand what reproductive justice is,” said Mickayla Fisher, coordinator of the Reproductive Justice Campus Action Network and the student volunteer coordinator. “These interviews are powerful, and the world needs to see the struggles of these men and women.” Oklahomans for Equality’s office manager, Olivia Cotter, is featured in the film. “If this film can ignite a flame for someone and give them the strength to stand up for themselves and others’ rights, then my team and this film have done their job,” Fisher said. “It has been rewarding seeing our documentary take shape and be able to share this experience with others.” Third Annual Stand Bi+ Me Rooftop Party Saturday, September 22, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 8 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... OkEq's Brought To You Bi+ The Letter B invites you to our annual Stand Bi+ Me rooftop celebration for Bi+ Visibility Day 2018! Join us on the roof of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center as we recognize the Bisexual, Pansexual, Fluid, Queer, and all non-mono identities. We will have music, dancing, stories, refreshments. All are welcome, must be 21+ to drink. Celebrate with us and be seen! Brought To You Bi+ The Letter B serves the bi/pan/queer/fluid+ community of Tulsa through support groups and social events. Find us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/ groups/biprogramsOKEQ/. ------- Enid Pride 2018 Saturday, September 22, 12:00 - 5:00 p.m. Government Springs Park 600 E. Owen K. Garriott Rd., Enid, OK 73701 Join us Sept. 22 for Enid Pride! Our theme this year is Roaring Pride! As always, Enid Pride is a free, family-friendly event. Please invite friends and family. Vendor, sponsorship, and volunteer forms are available online at https://enidlgbtcoalition.org/enid-pride/ --- ----- -- -- . National Voter Registration Day Tuesday, September 25, 12:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 National Voter Registration Day is a national holiday celebrating our democracy. It was first observed in 2012 and has been growing in popularity every year since. Held on the fourth Tuesday of September, National Voter Registration Day will be observed on Tuesday, September 25th this year. The holiday has been endorsed by the National Association of Secretaries of State ( NASS ). It is further supported by the National Association of State Election Directors ( NASED ). What It’s About Every year millions of Americans find themselves unable to vote because they miss a registration deadline, don’t update their registration, or aren’t sure how to register. National Voter Registration Day wants to make sure everyone has the opportunity to vote. On Tuesday September 25, 2018 volunteers and organizations from all over the country will “hit the 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 9 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... streets” in a single day of coordinated field, technology and media efforts. National Voter Registration Day seeks to create broad awareness of voter registration opportunities to reach tens of thousands of voters who may not register otherwise. What It Involves • Volunteers in their community or workplace, at schools or public events, or anywhere can register people to vote. • Technology to help voters find registration drives nearby and register to vote online. • Local organizations, businesses and election offices engaged in their own communities. • Tens of thousands of voters registering to vote online and offline in a single day. What It Will Accomplish • Registering Voters: In 2016 over 750,000 voters used National Voter Registration Day to register to vote across all 50 states. • Mobilizing Volunteers: Each year the holiday’s growing number of local partners engage upwards to 10,000 local volunteers. • Educating Voters: Millions of voters need to register and re-register every year. By utilizing new technology and leveraging partners, we’ll educate Americans in all 50 states about how to register, sign up for election reminders, check their registration online, get mail ballots, learn about early voting and more. • Uniting for a Common Purpose: National Voter Registration Day is a day of civic unity. It’s an opportunity to set aside differences and celebrate democracy and the rights and opportunities we all share as Americans. Pride Day at the Tulsa State Fair Saturday, September 29, 12:00 p.m. Tulsa State Fair 4145 E. 21 St., Tulsa, OK 74114 Tulsa Pride invites you to turn the Tulsa State Fair rainbow! Come out and have fun at the Tulsa State Fair as our community celebrates LGBTQ+ Pride! This is a great chance to run into familiar faces and meet new ones. Don't forget to wear your pride attire to spread awareness and visibility of our presence in Tulsa! OkEq will have a booth in the Expo Center during the fair. Stop by and say hi! Guys Dine Too Tuesday, October 2, 6:30 p.m. Redrock Canyon Grill 9916 Riverside Pkwy., Tulsa, OK 74137 Please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 10 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... Visit Redrock Canyon Grill on line to learn more Join us nightly on Riverside Parkway and the banks of the Arkansas River. Before dining, enjoy a drink with friends and grab some crispy buffalo shrimp or the stuffed poblano pepper, or enjoy a romantic dinner. Our wood-burning rotisserie next to our lively exhibition kitchen greets you on your arrival. Highlights include our North Coast Smoked Salmon, bone-in pork chops and our house-made something chocolate. Expect a dining experience filled with excitement and relaxation! First Thursday Art Opening • Thursday, October 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Ricardo Sanchez, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 4, from 6 to 9 p.m., where a door prize of the artist’s work will be given. • 1t,r.pemn•nl.d w,lh o glob .. and cy/,ndu. ou1 ~ .tp, whlrll art: correct for one Sanchez graduated with a bachelor’s of fine arts degree with emphasis in painting and printmaking from Northeastern State University in 2014. He grew up in Bogota, Colombia, until the age of 14, when he moved to Tulsa. Since graduating from NSU, Sanchez has worked in a few silkscreen shops, where he has gained better understanding of a new medium that is incorporated throughout his work. A few years after graduating, he was hired to teach printmaking at NSU. His works focus on spiritual enlightenment and different portrayals of worship and mortality. Most of the works are direct reflections of the artist and are meant to be seen as a mirror. His philosophy is reflected in his works: “Many things tear us apart from one another, but one common denominator puts us all on an equal level,” he says. “Death is almost here. We will all meet it. Why not lay down our lives for one another and make life better for everyone around us? This is for me, as much as it’s for you. This is an act of repentance. I wish to drink of the waters that give life to those around me.” The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Starlight Runway Fashion Show Thursday, October 5, 7:00 p.m. HOUSE ·D:EJA;:.:P.RESENTS ·...:\M{ •.-. 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 11 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 House Dejá will present the Starlight Runway Fashion Show on October 5 in the Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Local designers will be showcased to raise funds for the youth programs of Oklahomans for Equality. Check out House Dejá on Facebook, and purchase tickets at www.starlightrunway.eventbrite.com . Pride Night at the Tulsa Roughnecks Game Saturday, October 6, 6:00 p.m. ONEOK Field 201 N. Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come on out to ONEOK Field on Saturday, October 6, 2018, for Margaritaville and Pride Night! Enjoy a night of goals and margaritas as the Roughnecks take on Rio Grande Valley Toros. Celebrate diversity and equality as we fly every identity flag and host a Roughnecks Pride March before the game led by the Roustabouts, the official supporters group of the Tulsa Roughnecks. Every ticket sold will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Special Drink Specials TBA Tickets are now available Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, October 10, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, = OKLAHOMA, INC. 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 12 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary. The Fight for Reproductive Justice in Oklahoma and the US: Film Screening and Panel Discussion THE WOMEN'S & GENDER STUDIES DEPARTMENT PRESENTS FILM SCREENING & PANEL DISCUSSION 7h£ 'Tiflrtf()r ~ l ' ( ) ~ t : flusaa tit tJUaltoma amit/u; US Thursday, October 11, 5:00 p.m. University of Tulsa Tyrrell Lecture Hall 800 S. Tucker Dr., Tulsa, OK 74104 -=- BIRTHRIGHT Film Screening at 5:00 p.m . Birthright: A War Story is a feature I t • length documentary that examines how women in the US are being jailed, physically violated, and even put at risk of dying as a radical movement tightens THURSDAY, TYRRELL SCREENING AT 5:00PM OCTOBER 11TH LECTURE HALL DISCUSSION AT 7:00PM its grip across the United States and PIZZA WILL BE SERVED AFTER THE FILM SCREENING II" allows states, courts, and religious doctrine to govern whether, when, and how women will bear children. Panel Discussion at 7:00 p.m. The Oklahoma Coalition for Reproductive Justice is a group of organizations and individuals promoting reproductive justice issues in Oklahoma through education, empowerment, advocacy, and lobbying. Members of the OCRJ will discuss reproductive justice issues in Oklahoma and the importance of the November midterm elections. I Let's Talk Friday, October 12, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 I ANCHORED BEHAV IORA L HEALTH CONSULTING Join us for drinks, appetizers and a surprise giveaway, and learn about Anchored Behavioral Health Consulting’s newest online services! www.anchoredbhc.com Orbit Initiative Saturday, October 13, 3:00 - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 orbit Want to act, sing or dance on stage? , ,~ : VE Join the Orbit Initiative at the Dennis R. Neill Equality 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 13 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... Center for a FREE acting and dance workshop! It’s open to ALL ages, from 4 to 84! What is the Orbit Initiative? Artist educators from the community teach free classes, workshops, etc., at community partner sites once a month, ranging from acting to movement and visual art. In the spring, there is an opportunity to participate in a large-scale performance of Shakespeare's “The Tempest” at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. The rehearsals for this performance are combined with the classes for instruction, rehearsal, and staging. In May 2019, the Orbit Initiative will bring all those participants from the community to the PAC for a few more combined rehearsals for “The Tempest.” Performances for “The Tempest” are June 7-9 and are free. Register online at www.facebook.com/theorbitinitiative Online Registration Form Call For Artists 2019 Deadline October 20, 2018 Oklahomans for Equality’s Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is accepting proposals for its 2019 exhibition calendar. Our gallery encourages emerging artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media to apply. Details Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. OkEq will host an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of each month. Each exhibit is installed on the Tuesday prior. No additional works will be accepted after initial delivery. Works must be available for sale. There will be a 30 percent commission on works sold. Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc.) for each piece. A biography and artist statement are due on the first of the month prior to the exhibit for publicity purposes. How to Apply Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as five jpg images that represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted by email. Proposals incorporating the work of two artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 14 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. Deadline for submissions is October 20. Notifications will be sent out by November 10. Please submit proposals by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - , with the subject heading “OkEq gallery proposal" HARUV USA LECTURE SERIES Let's Get This Straight: Working Towards Protecting LGBTQ Children, Youth, and Their Families Monday, 11 .5.18 @ 7-8:30pm OU-Tulsa Schusterman Learning Center (campus map attached) FREE {for Social Work professionals earn;ng CEUs, 1.5 will be offered for $15 on site that even;ng} 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 15 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... HARUB USA Lecture Series Monday, November 5, 7:00 p.m. OU - Tulsa Schusterman Learning Center 4502 E. 41st St., Tulsa, OK 74135 FOR MORE INFORMATION PLEASE CONTACT: kaseyrinehart@ou.edu 1.5 CEU's will be available Click here to register I Gerald P. Mallon, DSW, is the Julia Lathrop Professor of Child Welfare and the Associate Dean of Scholarship and Research at the Silberman School of Social Work at Hunter College in New York City. For more than 43 years, Dr. Mallon has been a child welfare practitioner, advocate, educator, and researcher. Dr. Mallon was the first child welfare professional in the U.S. to research, write about, and develop programs for LGBTQ youth in child welfare settings. He has also written extensively about sexual orientation and gender identity expression . Dr. Mellon's scholarship and practice has been recognized through multiple awards including The Judge Richard Ware Award - Louisiana Children's Trust Fund; The New York State Citizens Coalition for Children Advocacy Award, the Hosteler-Habib Award, Family Equality Council; the Child Advocate of the Year Award - North American Council on Adoptable Children; and induction in 2014 as a Fellow of the American Academy of Social Work and Social Welfare. In 2017, Dr. Mallon was awarded the Adoption Excellence Award from the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. He serves on numerous editorial boards of professional journals and is the Senior Editor of the professional journal, Child Welfare and the author or editor of more than twenty-four books. His most recent publications are: Social Work Practice with Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender People (3rd edition), published by Routledge Press; and Child Welfare for the Twenty-first Century: A Handbook of Practices, Policies, and Programs (2nd edition), co-edited with Peg Hess, published by Columbia University Press. In his role as the Executive Director of the National Center for Child Welfare Excellence, Dr. Mallon has traveled to all 50 states, many territories and numerous tribes to deliver technica l assistance and training on a range of ch ild welfare related issues "particularly" as they relate lo youth and to foster care. Dr. Mallon has lectured and worked extensively throughout the United States, and internationally in Argentina, Austral ia, Canada, Cuba, Indonesia, Ireland, Israel, the Netherlands, Portugal, and the United Kingdom. Dr. Mallon earned his doctorate in Social Welfare from the City University of New York at Hunter College, holds an MSW from Fordham University and a BSW from Dominican College. 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 16 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... Dr. Mallon also lives the talk he talks, in addition to being a child welfare professional for his entire career, he hos been a foster parent and is the adoptive parent of now grown ch ildren . Haruv USA at O U-Tulsa provides comprehensive, inter-professional education, training, and research in the prevention and treatment of ch ild abuse and neglect. It is a partnership between the Horuv Institute in Israel, the OU Anne and Henry Zorrow School of Social Work, and OU-Tulsa. Haruv USA at OU-Tulsa INTERNATIONAL CENTER OF EXCELLENCE & A RECOGNIZED LEADER IN THE FIELD OF CHILD MALTREATMENT 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 17 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... Inclusion for People with Developmental Disabilities Saturdays at 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. Neurodiversity Social Group Saturdays at 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you find yourself over stimulated by large crowds or loud noises? Do you crave meaningful social interaction in a calm, safe environment? If you are living with a mental health diagnosis, are on the autism spectrum, or generally prefer calmer social events, then this is the place for you. Here, members will meet weekly on Saturdays @ 4pm to socialize and connect with individuals like themselves. Each week members will collectively decide on a different activity ranging from game nights, movie nights, outings, and many others. Art for the Heart Program: An all inclusive Arts Program Sundays at 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 18 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... Art is more than just pictures on the wall. Art helps people express themselves, find happiness, and it can help with mobility and dexterity. Art classes foster connections between individuals and helps reduce isolation many people experience. Please join us in making our community a more beautiful, meaningful place through the enrichment of art. Subjects will be elected by members from a range of topics including: glass fusing and jewelry making, mosaics, basket weaving, finger weaving, ceramics, acrylic painting, and quilting. This group is all inclusive, and encourages individuals from all age groups to come together for weekly sessions on Sundays @ 1pm. Sisters in Song Tuesdays at 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sisters in Song would like to invite new members to join our fun loving group of singers! S isters inS ong We are just now beginning rehearsals for our upcoming holiday performances, so it’s a great time to start! We practice every Tuesday evening at 7pm at the Equality Center, second floor. Council Oak Men's Chorale Rehearsals on Tuesdays, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 The Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new members to sing in our holiday concert! Come join a great group of guys who enjoy singing and changing our community through song. We are excited to have Elizabeth Curtis, a former artistic director of the chorale, back as our interim director for the holiday concert. Our holiday concert, “Don We Now...,” will be Dec. 4th, 6th and 7th at East Side Christian Church, 1438 S. Indianapolis Ave. If you aren't singing with us, plan on attending. You won't want to miss starting your holiday season with the Council Oak Men's Chorale. 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 19 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT IN AN UNDERSERVED POPULATION WE NEED YOUR HELP!!! The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. Additionally, the field of psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures tell us about transgender individuals! YOU ARE ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. It involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take approximately two hours of your time. After completing the study, you will receive a $15.00 gift card. For questions or to participate. contact doctoral student researcher W illiam Bryant: Email: william-bryant@utulsa.edu Cell Phone: (330) 322-2442 his study i bemg conducted as part of the student researcher's dissertation for the niversit ofTulsa· ' lini al P'lycho logy Pro ram. You're not alone Support group for partners with HIV/ AIDS Do you have a partner who was recently diagnosed with HIV/AIDS? Have you found a community to process this life change with? Are you looking for support? As every airplane attendant says, “Put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others.” Having a partner with a life-threatening illness can take a toll on your well being. This group may help you to recognize and change your reactions to the new challenges that having a 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 20 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... partner with HIV/AIDS might pose. We will meet weekly for 6 weeks to cover information on HIV/AIDS, process difficulties you may be having with your partner, learn new ways to cope with this change, foster healthier communication, prepare for the future, and better manage stress. If interested please email jose.vega@okeq.org to join the group. You are not alone. Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library "The Little Book of Neuroses" By Michael Thomas Ford Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. "These are modern, urban tales you will want to share with friends, reading passages over the phone and drawing comparisons with characters recognizable in just about everybody's life. A fresh voice...revealing new truths, reminding us of folks we know and making nearly everything just a little funnier"Rain Taxi "Acute, acerbic and endearingly grumpy...Unlike some humorists - think David Letterman and David Sedaris- Ford isn't afraid to forgo quick punch lines when he comments on more serious topics"- Publisher's Weekly The multi award winning humorist is back with an in depth, on target, and of course, very, very funny guide to all things queer. Why are lesbians fascinated by acoustic guitars? Why are gay men compelled to buy Madonna CD's and face care products. Does Tiger Beat make boys gay? What happens if the Boyfriend Within is sleeping around? No one satirizes and celebrates gay life in twenty-first century America with the unerring accuracy and zeal of Michael Thomas Ford. With the same unerring eye for what makes queer life so delirously weird and worth living that has earned him legions of fans among critics and book buyers alike, Ford examines gay archetypes, attitudes, fashion and gossip; you know…the good stuff! Equality Center Pride Store Transgender enamel pins are for sale at the OkEq Pride Store for $5. 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 21 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 22 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are available Mon-Thurs 12:30-6:00 p.m. and w alk in appointments are available. Appointments can be made by calling 918-280-9645 Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, October 18 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members September OkEq Art Exhibition The September Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the works of Micheal Jones in a show titled “Gods and Fools”. The show continues throughout the month. It's Complicated Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 23 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGAL A10 thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library October 10 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Facilitated by Allison Ikley-Freeman. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org --- --or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 2nd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 24 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Asexual Meeting Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 2nd & 4th Tuesday of every month 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. sao-e ~~~~:~~! ~, LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Lambda AlAnon Group Every Friday 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 25 of 30 "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. This open Al-Anon group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. Contact 918.743.2754 for more information. Tulsa Writers, Ink. Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Adult Survivors of Childhood Trauma. 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 26 of 30 Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... siawso.org Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Sundays @ 4:00 p.m. LGBTQ individuals have a higher risk of experiencing trauma at an early age and these experiences of abuse, bullying, and stigmatization in youth can affect life as an adult. The primary focus of this group will be to teach people how to recognize their trauma and how to use healthy coping skills to deal with the effects. Members will be encouraged to build an internal network with other participants to provide each other with emotional and social support during weekly meetings held on Sundays @ 4pm. Art for the Heart: An all Inclusive Arts Program Sundays @ 1:00 p.m. Neurodiversity Social Group Inclusion for People with Developmental Saturdays @ 4:00 p.m. Do you find yourself over stimulated by large crowds or loud noises? Do you Art is more than just pictures on the wall. Art helps people express themselves, find happiness, and it can help with mobility and dexterity. Art classes foster connections between 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 27 of 30 Disabilities Saturdays @ 1:00 p.m. Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... crave meaningful social interaction in a calm, safe environment? If you are living with a mental health diagnosis, are on the autism spectrum, or generally prefer calmer social events, then this is the place for you. Here, members will meet weekly on Saturdays @ 4pm to socialize and connect with individuals like themselves. Each week members will collectively decide on a different activity ranging from game nights, movie nights, outings, and many others. individuals and helps reduce isolation many people experience. Please join us in making our community a more beautiful, meaningful place through the enrichment of art. Subjects will be elected by members from a range of topics including: glass fusing and jewelry making, mosaics, basket weaving, finger weaving, ceramics, acrylic painting, and quilting. This group is all inclusive, and encourages individuals from all age groups to come together for weekly sessions on Sundays @ 1pm. LGBTQ+ History: Interviewees Wanted By appointment Do you feel like you have something to say about your life as an LGBTQ+ individual? Recording the history of the LGBTQ+ community is currently a feature of programming at the Equality Center. This program is designed to supplement and further complete our collective history by interviewing participants to further investigate past and present features of LGBTQ+ life and identity. Interviewees will sit down face to face and be asked a series of questions in regards to their person lives and experiences. All information gathered will be added to the existing 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 28 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... archive. Please contact Ely at burgesej@nsuok.edu to set up your appointment. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 29 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Jose Vega Program Director Olivia Cotter Office Manager Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer & Pride Store Coordinator Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Jan Baldwin, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Robin VanMeter, At Large Board of Directors Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Sheena Grewal Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Marcia Keesee Mike Redman, Esq. Chris Shoaf Al Triggs John Williams Visit our website View our events Board of Advisors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Peter Brennan Jamie Catlett Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Amanda Lowe Jim Scholl Mikeal Vaughn William Vaughn Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes Contact us today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. 621 East Fourth Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:37 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 30 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... 08 4/24/26, 4:37 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ce33e3232b143397911416d4e62b62fc.pdf 698337275029bddfa4744a8b44a2f91e PDF Text Text Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 1 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews September 27th, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/24/26, 4:38 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 2 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... I ELECTBRECHT .COM Grannies Sunday Brunch Sunday, September 30, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 GRANNIES GO COUNTRY!!! Grannies is an all-star satire event celebrating folk and inspirational music with live performances and drag personalities. It’s irreverent, but never sacrilegious, and always uplifting humor. Grannies remembers those days of going to grandma's house for Sunday Dinner. Rainbow Granny welcomes her granny pals Anita Richards, Kiesha Kye and Miss Gay Oklahoma America 2018 Shanel Sterling. Brunch and live entertainment provided. 4/24/26, 4:38 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 3 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... Tickets cost $25. Reserved tables for eight are available for $200. Mimosas and cash bar will be available. Purchase tickets now Pride Day at the Tulsa State Fair Saturday, September 29, 12:00 p.m. Tulsa State Fair 4145 E. 21 St., Tulsa, OK 74114 Tulsa Pride invites you to turn the Tulsa State Fair rainbow! Come out and have fun at the Tulsa State Fair as our community celebrates LGBTQ+ Pride! This is a great chance to run into familiar faces and meet new ones. Don't forget to wear your pride attire to spread awareness and visibility of our presence in Tulsa! OkEq will have a booth in the Expo Center during the fair. Stop by and say hi! Thesis Research Study Please consider participating in my thesis research study examining the connection between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) identity, community connection, and resilience! This study is approved by the institutional review board at Northeastern State University and under the supervision of my thesis chair, Dr. Steven Byers. In order to be eligible for the study, you must: Be 18 years of age at the time of completion Identify as LGBTQ+ To participate in the study, please complete the survey here . The survey will take about 20 to 30 minutes to complete. You can be entered to win a $25.00 Amazon gift card if you provide an email address at the end of the survey. This study is anonymous. The only identifying information which will be collected is demographic information, and will not specifically identify you. You will be asked to provide an email at the conclusion of the survey to be entered in the raffle if you so wish, but are not required to do so. Participation in this study is voluntary. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you may close the browser window at any time. If you do not want to answer a question, you may skip any question in this survey. If you have any questions, please contact Jordan Westcott ( Westcott@nsuok.edu ) or Dr. Steven Byers ( byerss@nsuok.edu ). 4/24/26, 4:38 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 4 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... We hope that you choose to participate in this study and share your experience! Sitting with the Soul Meditations Saturday, September 29, 3:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 All Are Welcome “if the ocean can calm itself, so can you. we are both salt water mixed with air.” -meditation by Nayyirah Waheed The Oklahomans for Equality and Ocean’s Echo Wellness are collaborating to offer biweekly meditation sessions. Join Lanette Clark , Certified Reiki Practioner, for guided meditations intended to relax, comfort and heal the physical, mental and emotional well-being of each participant. Sessions will combine various meditation techniques to find awareness, achieve a peaceful state and deep relaxation. Ms. Clark will incorporate aromatherapy, healing crystals, sound therapy and Reiki to assist participants in their meditative process. Sitting with the Soul is a donation-based program. A portion of donated funds will be given to the Oklahomans for Equality. These sessions are open to anyone who wishes to join. Whether you are new to meditation or a person who meditates daily, this is a space in which you are fully accepted and loved. Please bring a bottle of water and wear loose clothing. A mat and cushion will be provided to each participant. For additional information, please contact Lanette Clark at lanette@oceansecho.com . GLSEN Green Country Town Hall Meetings Monday, October 1, 6:00 p.m. Thursday, October 4, 6:00 p.m. Sunday, October 7, 2:00 p.m. Thursday, October 11, 6:00 p.m. GLSEN® The steering committee for a potential new GLSEN (Gay, Lesbian, Straight Education Network) chapter for Green Country will be hosting a series of town halls throughout the community. This will be the first chapter in Oklahoma and will support Tulsa county and surrounding areas. The town halls will be a time for the community to give feedback on priorities for our students, administrators, teachers, and parents. Our mission is to provide safe spaces for our youth and feel the first step is helping our schools be prepared for critical conversations. There will be 4 dates and locations for the town halls so we can reach different parts of the community. Please see times and locations below. If you have any questions in the mean time, please feel free to e-mail us at GreaterTulsa@steeringcommittee.glsen.org . Monday, October 1st, 6:00-8:00 pm 4/24/26, 4:38 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 5 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... Hardesty Library: Frossard Auditorium 8316 E 93rd St, Tulsa, OK 74133 Thursday, October 4th,6:00-8:00 pm Rudisill Regional Library: Ancestral Hall 1520 N Hartford Ave, Tulsa, OK 74106 Sunday, October 7th, 2:00-4:00 pm Zarrow Regional Library: South Meeting Room 2224 W 51st St, Tulsa, OK 74107 Thursday, October 11th, 6:00-8:00 pm Martin Regional Library: Lecture Room 2601 S Garnett Rd, Tulsa, OK 74129 Guys Dine Too Tuesday, October 2, 6:30 p.m. Redrock Canyon Grill 9916 Riverside Pkwy., Tulsa, OK 74137 Please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com Visit Redrock Canyon Grill on line to learn more Join us nightly on Riverside Parkway and the banks of the Arkansas River. Before dining, enjoy a drink with friends and grab some crispy buffalo shrimp or the stuffed poblano pepper, or enjoy a romantic dinner. Our wood-burning rotisserie next to our lively exhibition kitchen greets you on your arrival. Highlights include our North Coast Smoked Salmon, bone-in pork chops and our house-made something chocolate. Expect a dining experience filled with excitement and relaxation! First Thursday Art Opening • Thursday, October 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Ricardo Sanchez, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 4, from 6 to 9 p.m., where a door prize of the artist’s work will be given. • r.tper.,n•rtl.d w,lh o globe ond cylinder out ;!' . 1p, whirh an:: correct for one 4/24/26, 4:38 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 6 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... Sanchez graduated with a bachelor’s of fine arts degree with emphasis in painting and printmaking from Northeastern State University in 2014. He grew up in Bogota, Colombia, until the age of 14, when he moved to Tulsa. Since graduating from NSU, Sanchez has worked in a few silkscreen shops, where he has gained better understanding of a new medium that is incorporated throughout his work. A few years after graduating, he was hired to teach printmaking at NSU. His works focus on spiritual enlightenment and different portrayals of worship and mortality. Most of the works are direct reflections of the artist and are meant to be seen as a mirror. His philosophy is reflected in his works: “Many things tear us apart from one another, but one common denominator puts us all on an equal level,” he says. “Death is almost here. We will all meet it. Why not lay down our lives for one another and make life better for everyone around us? This is for me, as much as it’s for you. This is an act of repentance. I wish to drink of the waters that give life to those around me.” The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Starlight Runway Fashion Show Thursday, October 5, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 House Dejá will present the Starlight Runway Fashion Show on October 5 in the Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Local designers will be showcased to raise funds for the youth programs of Oklahomans for Equality. Check out House Dejá on Facebook, and purchase tickets at www.starlightrunway.eventbrite.com . Pride Night at the Tulsa Roughnecks Game Saturday, October 6, 6:00 p.m. ONEOK Field 4/24/26, 4:38 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 7 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... 201 N. Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come on out to ONEOK Field on Saturday, October 6, 2018, for Margaritaville and Pride Night! Enjoy a night of goals and margaritas as the Roughnecks take on Rio Grande Valley Toros. Celebrate diversity and equality as we fly every identity flag and host a Roughnecks Pride March before the game led by the Roustabouts, the official supporters group of the Tulsa Roughnecks. Every ticket sold will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Special Drink Specials TBA Tickets are now available • Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, October 10, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to = meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary. OKLAHOMA, INC. The Fight for Reproductive Justice in Oklahoma and the US: Film Screening and Panel Discussion THE W OMEN ' S & GENDER STUDIES DEPARTMENT PRESENTS FILM SCREENING & PANEL DISCUSSION 7k 7¥,rf()r 'l<r/r()~t; flusaatit tJUaltoma amfUt.& US Thursday, October 11, 5:00 p.m. University of Tulsa Tyrrell Lecture Hall 800 S. Tucker Dr., Tulsa, OK 74104 Film Screening at 5:00 p.m . Birthright: A War Story is a feature length documentary that examines how women in the US are being jailed, physically violated, and even put at risk of dying as a radical movement tightens its grip across the United States and allows states, courts, and religious -.:_ I I BIRTHRIGHT - THURSDAY, OCTOBER 11TH I TYRRELL LECTURE HALL I SCREENING AT 5 :00PM DISCUSSION AT 7:00PM PIZZA WILL BE SERVED AFTER THE FILM SCREENING, 4/24/26, 4:38 PM �Come to Grannies Sunday Brunch 8 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-Grannies-Sunday-Brunc... doctrine to govern whether, when, and how women will bear children. Panel Discussion at 7:00 p.m. The Oklahoma Coalition for Reproductive Justice is a group of organizations and individuals promoting reproductive justice issues in Oklahoma through education, empowerment, advocacy, and lobbying. Members of the OCRJ will discuss reproductive justice issues in Oklahoma and the importance of the November midterm elections. Let's Talk Friday, October 12, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 ANCHORED BEHAVIORAL HEALTH CONSULTING Join us for drinks, appetizers and a surprise giveaway, and learn about Anchored Behavioral Health Consulting’s newest online services! www.anchoredbhc.com Orbit Initiative Saturday, October 13, 3:00 - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Want to act, sing or dance on stage? Join the Orbit Initiative at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a FREE acting and dance workshop! It’s open to ALL ages, from 4 to 84! What is the Orbit Initiative? Artist educators from the community teach free classes, workshops, etc., at community partner sites once a month, ranging from acting to movement and visual art. In the spring, there is an opportunity to participate in a large-scale performance of Shakespeare's “The Tempest” at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. The rehearsals for this performance are combined with the classes for instruction, rehearsal, and staging. In May 2019, the Orbit Initiative will bring all those participants from the community to the PAC for a few more combined rehearsals for “The Tempest.” Performances for “The Tempest” are June 7-9 and are free. Register online at www.facebook.com/theorbitinitiative Online Registration Form 4/24/26, 4:38 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/96bd0fc14bb7f013510bf44bd32b2e5c.pdf b3a962662451e9d9a6648a224b486282 PDF Text Text First Thursday Art Opening 1 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews October 3rd, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/24/26, 4:38 PM �First Thursday Art Opening 2 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening.html?... I ELECTBRECHT .COM First Thursday Art Opening • Thursday, October 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Ricardo Sanchez, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 4, from 6 to 9 p.m., where a door prize of the artist’s work will be given. • e,r.per11n•nl.d w,lh o glob4' and cylindu ou1 ~ -tP' whir-t-i art! correct for onl! Sanchez graduated with a bachelor’s of fine arts degree with 4/24/26, 4:38 PM �First Thursday Art Opening 3 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening.html?... emphasis in painting and printmaking from Northeastern State University in 2014. He grew up in Bogota, Colombia, until the age of 14, when he moved to Tulsa. Since graduating from NSU, Sanchez has worked in a few silkscreen shops, where he has gained better understanding of a new medium that is incorporated throughout his work. A few years after graduating, he was hired to teach printmaking at NSU. His works focus on spiritual enlightenment and different portrayals of worship and mortality. Most of the works are direct reflections of the artist and are meant to be seen as a mirror. His philosophy is reflected in his works: “Many things tear us apart from one another, but one common denominator puts us all on an equal level,” he says. “Death is almost here. We will all meet it. Why not lay down our lives for one another and make life better for everyone around us? This is for me, as much as it’s for you. This is an act of repentance. I wish to drink of the waters that give life to those around me.” The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Starlight Runway Fashion Show Friday, October 5, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 House Dejá will present the Starlight Runway Fashion Show on October 5 in the Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Local designers will be showcased to raise funds for the youth programs of Oklahomans for Equality. Check out House Dejá on Facebook, and purchase tickets at www.starlightrunway.eventbrite.com . Pride Night at the Tulsa Roughnecks Game Saturday, October 6, 6:00 p.m. ONEOK Field 201 N. Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:38 PM �First Thursday Art Opening 4 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening.html?... Come on out to ONEOK Field on Saturday, October 6, 2018, for Margaritaville and Pride Night! Enjoy a night of goals and margaritas as the Roughnecks take on Rio Grande Valley Toros. Celebrate diversity and equality as we fly every identity flag and host a Roughnecks Pride March before the game led by the Roustabouts, the official supporters group of the Tulsa Roughnecks. Every ticket sold will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Special Drink Specials TBA Tickets are now available Volunteer of the Month October, 2018 Barbara Shoenhals Thank you for your dedication Barbara! Dungeons and Dragons Roleplaying Game Sunday, October 7, 3:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all Adventurers! Dungeons and Dragons (D&D) is a tabletop roleplaying game where you get together with a group of people, create a fantasy character to roleplay as, and go on wondrous adventures that involve slaying monsters, defeating evil, and exploring imaginary worlds! It doesn’t require anything more than pencils, paper, a table, and an open imagination. 4/24/26, 4:38 PM �First Thursday Art Opening 5 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening.html?... The creators of the game, Wizards of the Coast, are openly proud supporters of the LGBT community. Who can play? Anybody! There aren’t any skills or requirements to sit down and role some funny-looking dice. This group is open for 18+. This first event is an introductory event. First-timers are welcome, as are experienced players, who can join in or volunteer as Dungeon Masters (the people who run the game). Join us to see if you’re interested in being a swashbuckling Wood Elf, or a battle ax-wielding Orc to go on epic adventures of mystery, danger, and friendship! Additional Resources: What is D&D: http://dnd.wizards.com/dungeons-and-dragons/ what-is-dd Please email Jose at jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - with any questions! Native American Day Parade Monday, October 8, 10:30 a.m. Guthrie Green 111 E. M.B. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74103 Tulsa is the first city in Oklahoma to recognize Native American Day in lieu of Columbus Day. Join us this year for the second annual Native American Day at Guthrie Green on October 8th and help us celebrate the immeasurable contributions to our city, state, country and honor the culture and traditions of Native Americans. Please join OkEq as we march in the 1st Native American Day Parade in Tulsa! We will meet in front of Channel 6 on E. Cameron St. and MLK Blvd (S. Cinncinnati Ave.) at 10:30 a.m. Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, October 10, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate = OKLAHOMA, INC. 4/24/26, 4:38 PM �First Thursday Art Opening 6 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening.html?... planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary. The Fight for Reproductive Justice in Oklahoma and the US: Film Screening and Panel Discussion THE WOMEN'S & GENDER STUDIES DEPARTMENT PRESENTS FILM SCREENING & PANEL DISCUSSION 7h£ 'Tiflrtf()r ~ l ' ( ) ~ t : flusaa tit tJUaltoma amit/u; US Thursday, October 11, 5:00 p.m. University of Tulsa Tyrrell Lecture Hall 800 S. Tucker Dr., Tulsa, OK 74104 -=- BIRTHRIGHT Film Screening at 5:00 p.m . Birthright: A War Story is a feature I t • length documentary that examines how women in the US are being jailed, physically violated, and even put at risk of dying as a radical movement tightens THURSDAY, TYRRELL SCREENING AT 5:00PM OCTOBER 11TH LECTURE HALL DISCUSSION AT 7:00PM its grip across the United States and PIZZA WILL BE SERVED AFTER THE FILM SCREENING II" allows states, courts, and religious doctrine to govern whether, when, and how women will bear children. Panel Discussion at 7:00 p.m. The Oklahoma Coalition for Reproductive Justice is a group of organizations and individuals promoting reproductive justice issues in Oklahoma through education, empowerment, advocacy, and lobbying. Members of the OCRJ will discuss reproductive justice issues in Oklahoma and the importance of the November midterm elections. I Let's Talk Friday, October 12, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 I ANCHORED BEHAV IORA L HEALTH CONSULTING Join us for drinks, appetizers and a surprise giveaway, and learn about Anchored Behavioral Health Consulting’s newest online services! www.anchoredbhc.com LGBTQ Young Adults: Miniature Golf Friday, October 12, 6:00 p.m. All Star Sports Complex 10309 E. 61st St., Tulsa, OK 74133 Join the OKEQ Young Adults Prism Group for miniature golf at the All Star Sports Complex! Search for Jose, our program director. He will be sporting a beautiful purple OkEq polo shirt! The cost for golf is $7. Text 4/24/26, 4:38 PM �First Thursday Art Opening 7 of 30 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/First-Thursday-Art-Opening.html?... Jose at 918-813-8993 with any questions! Orbit Initiative Saturday, October 13, 3:00 - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Want to act, sing or dance on stage? Join the Orbit Initiative at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a FREE acting and dance workshop! It’s open to ALL ages, from 4 to 84! What is the Orbit Initiative? Artist educators from the community teach free classes, workshops, etc., at community partner sites once a month, ranging from acting to movement and visual art. In the spring, there is an opportunity to participate in a large-scale performance of Shakespeare's “The Tempest” at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. The rehearsals for this performance are combined with the classes for instruction, rehearsal, and staging. In May 2019, the Orbit Initiative will bring all those participants from the community to the PAC for a few more combined rehearsals for “The Tempest.” Performances for “The Tempest” are June 7-9 and are free. Register online at www.facebook.com/theorbitinitiative Online Registration Form www.fostercare-ok.org Ir ~ Saint Francis Community Services Give hope. Change a life. Become a foster parent. 4/24/26, 4:38 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ad650be935764ea748bf9993aa610346.pdf 7e513c5e8d41263bab6c2d6236e8a52a https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/865a44ae8a0628423016bc4d0cd18186.pdf bc17b8381e9cf1f74972d0a5e8dd0e2d PDF Text Text Rebecca in the Rainbow Room! 1 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rebecca-in-the-Rainbow-Room-.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews October 15th, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/24/26, 4:40 PM �Rebecca in the Rainbow Room! 2 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rebecca-in-the-Rainbow-Room-.... I ELECTBRECHT .COM Rose Potts is sponsoring the day! Tuesday, October 16 To honor the 3rd wedding anniversary to her best friend, Michael. Happy Anniversary, Rose and Michael! If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day, click here . 4/24/26, 4:40 PM �Rebecca in the Rainbow Room! 3 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rebecca-in-the-Rainbow-Room-.... • Birthdays - yours, your spouse's, your children's, your parents', your friends', even your dog's • Anniversaries - wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mother's Day, Father's Day, any holiday • Just because EBA Mixer Wednesday, October 17, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Pottery Barn 1864 Utica Square, Tulsa, OK 74114 POTTERY BARN Pottery Barn offers a unique shopping experience for anyone looking to put the finishing touches to any room in their home. When you shop Pottery Barn you are getting a product that cannot be found in any other store. Our furniture is one of a kind, crafted in America, and is of the highest quality. Pottery Barn's deep care for the environment has also helped us in creating products that are ecofriendly and sustainable long term. When you visit a Pottery Barn store be sure to ask about our complimentary design services, where we send one of our designers, decorators or stylists to help you create your dream home. When creating the perfect room, the home accessory pieces are just as important as the main furniture pieces. Everything from sofa sets, tablecloths, curtains, cushions, decorative pieces, and dinnerware all work together to bring out an individual's unique style. Pottery Barn is the home decor store which allows you to decorate your home to fit traditional, modern, or transitional styles using unique products that cannot be found anywhere else. Visit Pottery Barn Online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: Please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. E ALITY Business Alliance 4/24/26, 4:40 PM �Rebecca in the Rainbow Room! 4 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rebecca-in-the-Rainbow-Room-.... Third Thursday in the Rainbow Room Thursday, October 18, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Click here to purchase tickets Center Awareness Day Friday, October 19, 10:00 a.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you know that Tulsa is home to the seventh-largest LGBTQ+ community center in the world? That’s right. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in downtown Tulsa is operated by Oklahomans for Equality. With five paid staff members, an army of about 250 volunteers, and a 30-member Board of Directors and Advisors plus a five-member Board of Trustees, Oklahomans for Equality depends on individual/corporate donors to support our roughly 50,000 constituents in the LGBTQ+ community and our allies. Our annual budget is nearly $1 million, and we receive absolutely no funding from any governmental entity. If you didn’t know all of that, just imagine how much more you don’t know about Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We have the perfect opportunity for you 4/24/26, 4:40 PM �Rebecca in the Rainbow Room! 5 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rebecca-in-the-Rainbow-Room-.... to learn what you’re missing: LGBT Center Awareness Day on Friday, Oct. 19! Any time between 10 a.m. and 7 p.m., individuals; government officials; and community, nonprofit and business leaders across Oklahoma are invited to visit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. Fourth St. in downtown Tulsa. Board members will be on hand to give tours of the center, which recently underwent a $1 million renovation, thanks to a successful capital campaign, and answer any questions you might have. We want to spread the news about the great work we’re doing. We want to give you information that you, your friends or your business associates might need about what resources are available. And we want you to realize that this is an organization and a facility that you should be supporting financially. We’re not going to hit you over the head asking for money; we’ll let you reach that conclusion on your own. Hope to see you Oct. 19! Donate $13 for 13 years of our presence in downtown Tulsa. Pride Game Night Supporting the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday, October 19, 2:00 p.m. Kiss My Ale Pub 5336 E. Admiral Pl., Tulsa, OK 74115 Kiss My Ale Pub invites you to come play your favorite tabletop games (more than 120 to choose from) while you enjoy some tasty local beers and quality cocktails! We are donating 10% of all sales to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, so come help us support OkEq, and invite all your friends to join in! Bi+ & LSC Halloween Party! Friday, October 26, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought To You Bi The Letter B and the Ladies Social Club are joining forces to host a Halloween party! Join us on Friday, October 26 from 6pm to 9pm for a costume party and movie night. We’ll be watching the 1988 comedy horror classic Elvira Mistress of the Dark. Bring potluck snacks and/or drinks (please drink responsibly!) to share if you’re able. Folks of all orientations and genders are welcome to attend! Costumes are definitely encouraged, but not required. See you there! Call For Artists 2019 Deadline October 20, 2018 Oklahomans for Equality’s Allie 4/24/26, 4:40 PM �Rebecca in the Rainbow Room! 6 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Rebecca-in-the-Rainbow-Room-.... Jensen Memorial Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is accepting proposals for its 2019 exhibition calendar. Our gallery encourages emerging artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media to apply. Details: Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. OkEq will host an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of each month. Each exhibit is installed on the Tuesday prior. No additional works will be accepted after initial delivery. Works must be available for sale. There will be a 30 percent commission on works sold. Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc.) for each piece. A biography and artist statement are due on the first of the month prior to the exhibit for publicity purposes. How to Apply: Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as five jpg images that represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted by email. Proposals incorporating the work of two artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. Deadline for submissions is October 20. Notifications will be sent out by November 10. Please submit proposals by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - , with the subject heading “OkEq gallery proposal" SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, October 23, 10:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Al Triggs with Legacy insurance advisors will be visiting SAGE October 23 to share information about their products and services . -........J . ~.J J INSURANCE ,.. -A-1 ADVISORS SIMPLE SOLUTIONS . UNCOMMON SERVICE . Legacy Insurance Advisors' mission is to sell and service all forms of health and life insurance by representing the best carriers in the industry, by maintaining a superior client base, by partnering with and retaining the most qualified professionals, and by providing all agency personnel with the training and tools available to givethe very best possible service to our clients and companies. Our agents, managers, and staff are committed to educating and empowering our policyholders. We will provide guidance 4/24/26, 4:40 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/17f4283ab3dc50f4f27be6fffe02edcf.pdf 16b2610148f82d0716ae65266082d3b3 PDF Text Text Call to Action! 1 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews October 24th, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Call to Action The Trump Administration has proposed a change to Title IX that would alter the legal definition of gender and deny the existence of transgender people under the law. This rule change would create a legal 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 2 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... definition of gender that would be based on an individuals designated sex at birth. This action is neither objective nor is it rooted in a scientific understanding of sex and gender. Oklahomans for Equality stands with our transgender community against this proposal. We need you to contact your senators, representatives and the White House to let them know that you do not support this proposed change to Title IX. Find your congressional representatives here . Contact the White House here. 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 3 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... Bi+ & LSC Halloween Party! Friday, October 26, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought To You Bi The Letter B and the Ladies Social Club are joining forces to host a Halloween party! Join us on Friday, October 26 from 6pm to 9pm for a costume party and movie night. We’ll be watching the 1988 comedy horror classic Elvira Mistress of the Dark. Bring potluck snacks and/or drinks (please drink responsibly!) to share if you’re able. Folks of all orientations and genders are welcome to attend! Costumes are definitely encouraged, but not required. See you there! Neurodiversity Costume Party Saturday, October 27, 6 p.m. - 9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 4 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... Grannies Brunch Sunday, October 28, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 GRANNIES GO DISCO!!! Grannies is an all-star satire event celebrating folk and inspirational music with live performances and drag personalities. It’s irreverent, but never sacrilegious, and always uplifting humor. Grannies remembers those days of going to grandma's house for Sunday Dinner. Brunch and live entertainment provided. Tickets cost $25. Reserved tables for eight are available for $200. Mimosas and cash bar will be available. Purchase tickets now. Volunteer of the Month October 2018 Barbara 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 5 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... Shoenhals Thank you for your dedication, Barbara! www.fostercare-ok.org 17 ~ Saint Francis Community Services• Give hope. Change a life. Become a foster parent. First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, November 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality’s November showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 6 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... exhibit with a combined show titled “Places, Faces and Spaces of Tulsa” by Carla Hefley and Linda Dunbar, beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 1 st , from 6 to 9 p.m. Two skilled and award-winning visual artists – Hefley and Dunbar – are Places, Faces and Spaces of Tulsa. They paint in oils, acrylics and watercolor, trying to capture the places, faces and spaces of Tulsa. Carla Hefley is inspired by the inside world. She may eat somewhere, get her hair cut or walk into a home in Tulsa and find the perfect scene to inspire her. When she happens upon the accidental still life, the camera is out, and she snaps a photo to take to the studio and recreate it on canvas. Linda Dunbar paints many things but excels in the portrait. She captures the perfect look and feel of the faces of Tulsa. She is inspired by many media and genres, but portraits are her game. She is also adept in capturing many places outside, en plein air. Between the two, they capture the Places, Faces and Spaces of Tulsa. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 80th Anniversary Kristallnacht Commemoration Sunday, November 4, 2:00 p.m. Jewish Federation of Tulsa, Sylvan Auditorium 2021 E. 71st St. How do governments institutionalize hatred? How do governments legalize the murder of its own citizens, and their children? The Nazi government in the 1930s took traditional antisemitism and created a bureaucratic superstructure whose goals were to disenfranchise and eventually exterminate its own citizens and those who fell under its control. What was the legal progression that started with discrimination and ended with the genocide of European Jewry? Join Professor Janet Levit, Provost and Executive Vice President for Academic Affairs, The University of Tulsa and Associate Professor Carsten Schapkow, University of Oklahoma, J.L Brammer Jr, Presidential Professor in History, Department of History and Schusterman Center for Judaic and Israel Studies, as they discuss the legal path and consequences that led to the extermination of European Jewry. This program is free and suitable for adults and youth in the sixth grade and above. No reservations required. 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 7 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... LGBT Women's Network November Happy Hour Monday, November 5, 5:00 p.m. Centennial Lounge - VFW Post 577 1109 E. 6th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Our November Happy Hour will be hosted at Centennial Lounge inside Tulsa's VFW Post 577. Mix and mingle with ladies you might not meet otherwise, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. fl'GBT W-omen-S Network Don't forget to bring business cards to be entered into a drawing for a door prize. HARUV USA LECTURE SERIES Let's Get This Straight: Working Towards Protecting LGBTQ Children, Youth, and Their Families ondav_ l L5_ g @ 7 -8=.:lOnm 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 8 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... - · ------- , , - _,.._ ,.. ,.._ - - -· - - r - - · OU-Tulsa Schusterman Learning Center {campus map attached) FREE {for Socio/ Work professionals earning CEUs, 1.5 will be offered For $15 on site that evening} HARUV USA Lecture Series Monday, November 5, 7:00 p.m. OU - Tulsa Schusterman Learning Center 4502 E. 41st St., Tulsa, OK 74135 FOR MORE INFORMATION PLEASE CONTACT: kaseyrinehart@ou.edu 1.5 CEU's will be available Click here to register I Gerald P. Mallon, DSW, is the Julia Lathrop Professor of Child Welfare and the Associate Dean of Scholarship and Research at the Silberman School of Social Work at Hunter College in New York City. For more than 43 years, Dr. Mallon has been a child welfare practitioner, advocate, educator, and researcher. Dr. Mallon was the first child welfare professional in the U.S. to research, write about, and develop programs for LGBTQ youth in child welfare settings. He has also written extensively about sexual orientation and gender identity expression . Dr. Mellon's scholarship and practice has been recognized through multiple awards including The Judge Richard Ware Award - Louisiana Children's Trust Fund; The New York State Citizens Coalition for Children Advocacy Award, the Hosteler-Habib Award, Family Equality Council; the Child Advocate of the Year Award - North American Council on Adoptable Children; and induction in 2014 as a Fellow of the American Academy of Social Work and Social Welfare. In 2017, Dr. Mallon was awarded the Adoption Excellence Award from the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. He serves on numerous editorial boards of professional journals and is the Senior Editor of the professional journal, Child Welfare and the author or editor of more than twenty-four books. His most recent publications are: Social Work Practice with Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender People (3rd edition), published by Routledge Press; and Child Welfare for the Twenty-first Century: A Handbook of Practices, Policies, and Programs {2nd edition), co-edited with Peg Hess, published by Columbia University Press. In his role as the Executive Director of the National Center for Child Welfare Excellence, Dr. Mallon has traveled to all 50 states, many territories and numerous tribes to deliver technica l assistance and trainina on a ranae of ch ild welfare 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 9 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... V V related issues "particularly" as they relate to youth and to foster care. Dr. Mallon has lectured and worked extensively throughout the United States, and internationally in Argentina, Austral ia, Canada, Cuba, Indonesia, Ireland, Israel, the Netherlands, Portugal, and the United Kingdom. Dr. Mallon earned his doctorate in Social Welfare from the City University of New York at Hunter College, holds an MSW from Fordham University and a BSW from Dominican College. Dr. Mallon also lives the talk he talks, in addition to being a child welfare professional for his entire career, he has been a foster parent and is the adoptive parent of now grown children. Haruv USA at OU-Tulsa provides comprehensive, inter-professional education, training, and research in the prevention and treatment of ch ild abuse and neglect. It is a partnership between the Haruv Institute in Israel, the OU Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, and OU-Tulsa . Haruv USA at OU - Tulsa INTERNATIO AL CENTER OF EXCELLENCE & A RECOGNIZED LEADER IN THE FIELD OF CHILD MALTREATMENT Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, November 6th, 6:30 p.m. Bangkok Thai Buffet 3313 E. 32nd Place, Tulsa, OK 74135 This could be the last chance to dine at Bangkok. As of now, November 26th is their last day being open. Reserve your seat with Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com. Imperial Court Military Ball Saturday, November 10, 7:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 10 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... "Flapjacks" & Mimosas: A Musical Brunch Benefiting Council Oak Men's Chorale Sunday, November 11, 2018 11:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 "FlapJ1cks" & r,:i/llU:LIU ~!~ ~=@Cs□~ (Q)@l mosas • 0~ cc;!m@!J@l~@ 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 11 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... ovem er (Veterans 11am-1pm OKEQ (Oklahomans For Equality) 621 . Pride (4th St. $3 • Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, November 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to = meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary. OKLAHOMA, INC. Langston University Social Justice Symposium Friday, November 16, 8:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Langston University: Tulsa 6914 N. Greenwood Ave., Tulsa, OK 74106 Please join us for the 10th annual Social Justice SymposiumTikkun Olam-Healing a Fractured Universe. This event is free and open to all and includes lunch! Come out to the Social Justice Symposium and hear about the things that are facing people of today. There will be talks on everything from positive psychology to bullying. There will be times to ask questions and to add your voice to the conversation! Hope to see you there! Please come and be part of the solution. RSVP here IHI JRUrH tAN:,,..;01 HI tOSVIRIII> 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 12 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... Boy Erased Friday, Nov 16 7:00PM Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis, Tulsa, OK 74104 (918) 592-3456 www.circlecinema.com "Boy Erased" tells the story of Jared (Lucas Hedges), the son of a Baptist pastor in a small American town, who is outed to his parents (Nicole Kidman and Russell Crowe) at age 19. Jared is faced with an ultimatum: attend a conversion therapy program or be permanently exiled and shunned by his family, friends and faith. “Boy Erased” is the true story of one young man's struggle to find himself while being forced to question every aspect of his identity. Open NOH8 Photo Shoot in Tulsa, OK Sunday, November 18, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the #NOH8Worldwide movement in Tulsa, OK and add your face to the fight for equal human rights! COST: Single/Solo Photos: $40 Couple/Group Photos: $25 per person NOH8 accepts cash and credit cards only. Fees paid to participate cover services and costs for one edited digital print only, made available via noh8campaign.com , and do not include physical prints. * COME CAMERA-READY * * WEAR A WHITE SHIRT * * POSE & MAKE A STATEMENT! * The NOH8 Campaign returns to Oklahomans For Equality @ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sunday, November 18th for an open photo shoot! Stop by anytime between 2pm-4pm to pose for an official NOH8 photo by photographer Adam Bouska . No reservations needed! Photos are first-come, first-served - and we move fast! Please arrive camera-ready with a plain white shirt to match the signature style of the NOH8 photos. When is the best time to arrive? Most people tend to arrive before the photo shoot begins, but as long as someone has lined up by the advertised end time for the photo shoot (4:00pm for this photo shoot), they should be guaranteed a chance to pose! Once you arrive, the next steps are easy! 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 13 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... 1. Fill-out one numbered model release for each person. 2. Have a NOH8 temporary tattoo applied for your photo. 3. Standby for your number to be called. 4. Process your payment once called. 5. Trade your processed model release for duct tape! NOH8 Co-Founder Adam Bouska will photograph roughly 5-10 frames per person. One frame will be selected/edited by our team and made available within approximately eight weeks (timeline subject to change). INTERESTED IN VOLUNTEERING? E-mail info@noh8campaign.com ------ -- ----- with your contact information and make sure to note which shoot you'd like to volunteer for! Funds raised by the NOH8 Campaign will be used to continue promoting and raising awareness for marriage and human equality as well as anti-discrimination and anti-bullying through NOH8’s interactive social media campaign. This includes bringing the campaign to other cities and countries around the world, creating and compiling images for our ongoing large-scale media campaign, and covering the costs of the daily operations and maintenance necessary to run this rapidly growing campaign out of our Burbank Headquarters. The NOH8 Campaign is a tax-exempt charitable organization under section 501(c)(3) of the Internal Revenue Code. Click here and scroll down to the 'Funds & Financing' portion of our FAQ for more information about how fees are utilized. Transgender Day of Remembrance Tuesday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance is a yearly event on Nov. 20 to honor those we have lost as a result of anti-transgender violence. Join Oklahomans for Equality in memorializing those who left us in 2018. Come Home for Thanksgiving ► 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 14 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... Thursday, November 22, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Alex Wade at alex.wade @okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Joy Lutheran Church ELCA Fellowship Congregational Church UCC Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Christ Church Episcopal ---------- --- -Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Church Diversity Christian Fellowship International East Side Christian Church University United Methodist Church PFLAG Tulsa Muslims 4 Mercy Don We Now... December 4, 6, and 7, 8:00 p.m. East Side Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74112 This Holiday concert continues Council Oak Men’s Chorale’s 20 th Anniversary Celebration with a musical retrospective of past concerts. Elizabeth Smith Curtis returns as our artistic director for this special anniversary concert. Start your holiday season off with Council Oak Men's Chorale. 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 15 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to join us for our third annual OkEq Holiday Shopping Market! Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. If you would like to be part of the fun and be a vendor at this year’s market, please email Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org . Inclusion for People with Developmental Disabilities Saturdays at 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 16 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. Neurodiversity Social Group Saturdays at 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you find yourself over stimulated by large crowds or loud noises? Do you crave meaningful social interaction in a calm, safe environment? If you are living with a mental health diagnosis, are on the autism spectrum, or generally prefer calmer social events, then this is the place for you. Here, members will meet weekly on Saturdays @ 4pm to socialize and connect with individuals like themselves. Each week members will collectively decide on a different activity ranging from game nights, movie nights, outings, and many others. Art for the Heart Program: An all inclusive Arts Program Sundays at 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 17 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... Thesis Research Study Please consider participating in my thesis research study examining the connection between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) identity, community connection, and resilience! This study is approved by the institutional review board at Northeastern State University and under the supervision of my thesis chair, Dr. Steven Byers. In order to be eligible for the study, you must: Be 18 years of age at the time of completion Identify as LGBTQ+ To participate in the study, please complete the survey here . The survey will take about 20 to 30 minutes to complete. You can be entered to win a $25.00 Amazon gift card if you provide an email address at the end of the survey. This study is anonymous. The only identifying information which will be collected is demographic information, and will not specifically identify you. You will be asked to provide an email at the conclusion of the survey to be entered in the raffle if you so wish, but are not required to do so. Participation in this study is voluntary. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you may close the browser window at any time. If you do not want to answer a question, you may skip any question in this survey. 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 18 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... If you have any questions, please contact Jordan Westcott ( Westcott@nsuok.edu ) or Dr. Steven Byers ( byerss@nsuok.edu ). We hope that you choose to participate in this study and share your experience! Sisters in Song Tuesdays at 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sisters in Song would like to invite new members to join our fun loving group of singers! We are just now beginning rehearsals for our upcoming holiday performances, so it’s a great time to start! We practice every Tuesday evening at 7pm at the Equality Center, second floor. Council Oak Men's Chorale Rehearsals on Tuesdays, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 The Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new members to sing in our holiday concert! Come join a great group of guys who enjoy singing and changing our community through song. We are excited to have Elizabeth Curtis, a former artistic director of the chorale, back as our interim director for the holiday concert. Our holiday concert, “Don We Now...,” will be Dec. 4th, 6th and 7th at East Side Christian Church, 1438 S. Indianapolis Ave. If you aren't singing with us, plan on attending. You won't want to miss starting your holiday season with the Council Oak Men's Chorale. PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT IN AN UNDERSERVED POPULATION WE NE D YOUR HELP!!! The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. Additionally, the field of 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 19 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures tell us about transgender individuals! YOU ARE ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. It involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take approximately two hours of your time. After completing the study, you will receive a $15.00 gift card. For questions or to participate. contact doctoral student researcher William Bryant: Email: wjlliam-bryant@utulsa.edu Cell Phone: 330 322-2442 his study I bemg conducted as part of the student researcher's dissertation for the niversi ofTulsa· Clini a l p,_ycho loi,,y Pro ram. You're not alone YOU'RE NOT Support group for partners with HIV/ AIDS Do you have a partner who was recently diagnosed with HIV/AIDS? Have you found a community to process this life change with? Are you looking for support? As every airplane attendant says, “Put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others.” ALONE Having a partner with a life-threatening illness can take a toll on your well being. This group may help you to recognize and change your reactions to the new challenges that having a partner with HIV/AIDS might pose. We will meet weekly for 6 weeks to cover information on HIV/AIDS, process difficulties you may be having with your partner, learn new ways to cope with this change, foster healthier communication, prepare for the future, and better manage stress. If interested please email jose.vega@okeq.org to join the group. You are not alone. 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 20 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library "Confessions of the Fox" by Jordy Rosenberg Jack Sheppard and Edgeworth Bess were the most notorious thieves, jailbreakers, and lovers of eighteenth-century London. Yet no one knows the true story; their confessions have never been found. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Until now. Reeling from heartbreak, a scholar named Dr. Voth discovers a long-lost manuscript—a gender-defying exposé of Jack and Bess’s adventures. Is Confessions of the Fox an authentic autobiography or a hoax? As Dr. Voth is drawn deeper into Jack and Bess’s tale of underworld resistance and gender transformation, it becomes clear that their fates are intertwined—and only a miracle will save them all. Writing with the narrative mastery of Sarah Waters and the playful imagination of Nabokov, Jordy Rosenberg is an audacious storyteller of extraordinary talent. Equality Center Pride Store "Pride" enamel pins are for sale at the OkEq Pride Store for $5. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 21 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are available Mon-Thurs 12:30-6:00 p.m. and w alk in appointments are available. Appointments can be made by 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 22 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... calling 918-280-9645 Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, November 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members October OkEq Art Exhibition The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Ricardo Sanchez, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 4, from 6 to 9 p.m., where a door prize of the artist’s work will be given. It's Complicated Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGALAID ~ SERVICES OF = r'\ ... .,. .... ......... .,.......... T .... T.I""\ 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 23 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... '--.11\.LAH UMA, .I...N ~. Lawyer in the Library November 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Facilitated by Allison Ikley-Freeman. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com sos Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 24 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Asexual Meeting No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. sage A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan t _ ~ · .(;! n ~ Tulsa Writers, Ink.'---"' er, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ~ ""J•~ ,,._f - - 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 2nd & 4th Tuesday of every month 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. Tulsa Area Prime Timers -, ~ @ - I Lambda AlAnon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. This open Al-Anon group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. Contact 918.743.2754 for more information. Tulsa Writers, Ink. 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 25 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Art for the Heart: An all Inclusive Arts Program Sundays @ 1:00 p.m. Partners of 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 26 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Neurodiversity Social Group Art is more than just pictures on the wall. Art helps people express themselves, find happiness, and it can help with mobility and dexterity. Art classes foster connections between individuals and helps reduce isolation many people experience. Please join us in making our community a more beautiful, meaningful place through the enrichment of art. Subjects will be elected by members from a range of topics including: glass fusing and jewelry making, mosaics, basket weaving, finger weaving, ceramics, acrylic painting, and quilting. This group is all inclusive, and encourages individuals from all age groups to come together for weekly sessions on Sundays @ 1pm. Saturdays @ 4:00 p.m. Inclusion for People with Developmental Disabilities Saturdays @ 1:00 p.m. Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication Do you find yourself over stimulated by large crowds or loud noises? Do you crave meaningful social interaction in a calm, safe environment? If you are living with a mental health diagnosis, are on the autism spectrum, or generally prefer calmer social events, then this is the place for you. Here, members will meet weekly on Saturdays @ 4pm to socialize and connect with individuals like themselves. Each week 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 27 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. members will collectively decide on a different activity ranging from game nights, movie nights, outings, and many others. LGBTQ+ History: Interviewees Wanted By appointment Do you feel like you have something to say about your life as an LGBTQ+ individual? Recording the history of the LGBTQ+ community is currently a feature of programming at the Equality Center. This program is designed to supplement and further complete our collective history by interviewing participants to further investigate past and present features of LGBTQ+ life and identity. Interviewees will sit down face to face and be asked a series of questions in regards to their person lives and experiences. All information gathered will be added to the existing archive. Please contact Ely at burgesej@nsuok.edu to set up your appointment. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 28 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... OKLAHOMA Workforce Oklahoma Access Point EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Jose Vega Program Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org --- --- Alex Wade Volunteer & Pride Store Coordinator Tracy Allen Special Projects 4/24/26, 4:41 PM �Call to Action! 29 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Call-to-Action-.html?soid=11024... Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org --- Alex.Wade@OkEq.org - - - OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Marcia Keesee, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Sheena Grewal, At Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Jan Baldwin Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Allison Ikley-Freeman Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn Visit our website , J I View our events Contact us today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. 621 East Fourth Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 08 4/24/26, 4:41 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7431abe4716b6eafa87385e529268468.pdf 3725019122fd15f6781c3040bee95e78 PDF Text Text OkEq Weekly eNews October 31st, 2018 1 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews-October-31s... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews October 31st, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/24/26, 4:42 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews October 31st, 2018 2 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews-October-31s... - F OR DISTRICT JUDGE ELECTBRECHT.COM Volunteer of the Month October 2018 Shannon Fincher Thank you for your dedication, Shannon! 4/24/26, 4:42 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews October 31st, 2018 3 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews-October-31s... First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, November 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality’s November showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit with a combined show titled “Places, Faces and Spaces of Tulsa” by Carla Hefley and Linda Dunbar, beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 1 st , from 6 to 9 p.m. Two skilled and award-winning visual artists – Hefley and Dunbar – are Places, Faces and Spaces of Tulsa. They paint in oils, acrylics and watercolor, trying to capture the places, faces and spaces of Tulsa. Carla Hefley is inspired by the inside world. She may eat somewhere, get her hair cut or walk into a home in Tulsa and find the perfect scene to inspire her. When she happens upon the accidental still life, the camera is out, and she snaps a photo to take to the studio and recreate it on canvas. Linda Dunbar paints many things but excels in the portrait. She captures the perfect look and feel of the faces of Tulsa. She is inspired by many media and genres, but portraits are her game. She is also adept in capturing many places outside, en plein air. Between the two, they capture the Places, Faces and Spaces of Tulsa. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org We Will Not Be Erased: Protest for Trans and Intersex Rights Saturday, November 3, 1:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Oklahoma City, OK 73105 In light of the recent memo sent out by the Department of Health and Human Services, transgender and supportive Oklahomans will be rallying in front of the Oklahoma State Capitol to protest the proposed changes to Title IX. 4/24/26, 4:42 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews October 31st, 2018 4 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews-October-31s... LGBT Women's Network November Happy Hour Monday, November 5, 5:00 p.m. Centennial Lounge - VFW Post 577 1109 E. 6th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 fLGBT W-omen-S Network Our November Happy Hour will be hosted at Centennial Lounge inside Tulsa's VFW Post 577. Mix and mingle with ladies you might not meet otherwise, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. Don't forget to bring business cards to be entered into a drawing for a door prize. Boy Erased Friday, November 16, 7:00 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis, Tulsa, OK 74104 (918) 592-3456 www.circlecinema.com IHI· TRUTH ( AN'.\OJ Iii COSVl·.Rll-1) BOY ERASED I< ll I I I>< ,11, I \l, Nll\'FMl\FR 111s "Boy Erased" tells the story of Jared (Lucas Hedges), the son of a Baptist pastor in a small American town, who is outed to his parents (Nicole Kidman and Russell Crowe) at age 19. Jared is faced with an ultimatum: attend a conversion therapy program or be permanently exiled and shunned by his family, friends and faith. “Boy Erased” is the true story of one young man's struggle to find himself while being forced to question every aspect of his identity. 4/24/26, 4:42 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews October 31st, 2018 5 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews-October-31s... Purchase tickets online here --- or in person. Use the promo code KIDMAN at checkout to get your ticket for $8.50. Open NOH8 Photo Shoot in Tulsa, OK Sunday, November 18, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the #NOH8Worldwide movement in Tulsa, OK and add your face to the fight for equal human rights! COST: Single/Solo Photos: $40 Couple/Group Photos: $25 per person NOH8 accepts cash and credit cards only. Fees paid to participate cover services and costs for one edited digital print only, made available via noh8campaign.com , and do not include physical prints. * COME CAMERA-READY * * WEAR A WHITE SHIRT * * POSE & MAKE A STATEMENT! * The NOH8 Campaign returns to Oklahomans For Equality @ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sunday, November 18th for an open photo shoot! Stop by anytime between 2pm-4pm to pose for an official NOH8 photo by photographer Adam Bouska . No reservations needed! Photos are first-come, first-served - and we move fast! Please arrive camera-ready with a plain white shirt to match the signature style of the NOH8 photos. When is the best time to arrive? Most people tend to arrive before the photo shoot begins, but as long as someone has lined up by the advertised end time for the photo shoot (4:00pm for this photo shoot), they should be guaranteed a chance to pose! Once you arrive, the next steps are easy! 1. Fill-out one numbered model release for each person. 2. Have a NOH8 temporary tattoo applied for your photo. 3. Standby for your number to be called. 4. Process your payment once called. 5. Trade your processed model release for duct tape! NOH8 Co-Founder Adam Bouska will photograph roughly 5-10 frames per person. One frame will be selected/edited by our team and made available within approximately eight weeks (timeline subject to change). 4/24/26, 4:42 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews October 31st, 2018 6 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews-October-31s... INTERESTED IN VOLUNTEERING? E-mail info@noh8campaign.com ------ -- ----- with your contact information and make sure to note which shoot you'd like to volunteer for! Funds raised by the NOH8 Campaign will be used to continue promoting and raising awareness for marriage and human equality as well as anti-discrimination and anti-bullying through NOH8’s interactive social media campaign. This includes bringing the campaign to other cities and countries around the world, creating and compiling images for our ongoing large-scale media campaign, and covering the costs of the daily operations and maintenance necessary to run this rapidly growing campaign out of our Burbank Headquarters. The NOH8 Campaign is a tax-exempt charitable organization under section 501(c)(3) of the Internal Revenue Code. Click here and scroll down to the 'Funds & Financing' portion of our FAQ for more information about how fees are utilized. Transgender Day of Remembrance Tuesday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance is a yearly event on Nov. 20 to honor those we have lost as a result of anti-transgender violence. Join Oklahomans for Equality in memorializing those who left us in 2018. Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 22, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Alex Wade at alex.wade @okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. 4/24/26, 4:42 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews October 31st, 2018 7 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews-October-31s... The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Joy Lutheran Church ELCA Fellowship Congregational Church UCC Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Church Diversity Christian Fellowship International East Side Christian Church University United Methodist Church PFLAG Tulsa Muslims 4 Mercy Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, November 6th, 6:30 p.m. Bangkok Thai Buffet 3313 E. 32nd Place, Tulsa, OK 74135 This could be the last chance to dine at Bangkok. As of now, November 26th is their last day being open. Reserve your seat with Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com. • Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, November 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary. = OKLAHOMA, INC. OkEq Fairy Tree Return Gifts by December 3rd Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:42 PM �OkEq Weekly eNews October 31st, 2018 8 of 29 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-Weekly-eNews-October-31s... The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community so that they can have a happy holiday. For more information, contact Alex Wade at alex.wade@okeq.org . OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to join us for our third annual OkEq Holiday Shopping Market! Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you would like to be part of the fun and be a vendor at this year’s market, please email Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org . National Survivors of Suicide Day: Sponsored by the Neurodiversity Social Group Saturday, November 17, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Have you lost a loved one to suicide? Are yot1 still grie,,.i11g, or 4/24/26, 4:42 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/098dcd7d470407aafd797b4b9ccf5bc3.pdf fd8bb97ada7d5aa70389c865052fbf31 PDF Text Text Special Screening of "Boy Erased" 1 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Special-Screening-of--Boy-Erased... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews November 6th, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Claudia McGinnity is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Saturday, November 10th, in memory of her brother, 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Special Screening of "Boy Erased" 2 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Special-Screening-of--Boy-Erased... Larry Elledge, who died November 3rd, 2018. There will be a memorial gathering for Lawrence "Larry" Elledge on Saturday, November 10th at 2:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day, click here . Boy Erased Friday, November 16, 7:00 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis, Tulsa, OK 74104 (918) 592-3456 www.circlecinema.com Join Oklahomans for Equality 's Executive Director Toby Jenkins , Program Director Jose Emmanuel Vega and a panel of special guests for a brief discussion before the screening. Panelists include: • Al Carlozzi, a Licensed Health Service Psychologist Professor, with the School of Community Health Sciences. Dr. Carlozzi is the Counseling & Counseling Psychology Director at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. • Marcia LaBooth Keesee, LPC-S, RPT, Vice President- Organizational Development & Community Relations with CREOKS Behavioral Health Services. • Lucy Stambaugh with the Oklahoma Department of Human Services works with at risk youth and coordinates the LGBTQ youth program Alphabet Soup at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. There will also be an informal post-screening conversation held in the gallery for anyone who is interested in further discussing the themes of the film. "Boy Erased" tells the story of Jared (Lucas Hedges), the son of a Baptist pastor in a small American town, who is outed to his parents (Nicole Kidman and Russell Crowe) at age 19. Jared is faced with an ultimatum: attend a conversion therapy program or be permanently exiled and shunned by his family, friends and faith. “Boy Erased” is the true story of one young man's struggle to find himself while being forced to question every aspect of his identity. Purchase tickets online here or in person. Use the promo code KIDMAN at checkout to get your ticket for $8.50. 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Special Screening of "Boy Erased" 3 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Special-Screening-of--Boy-Erased... Volunteer of the Month October 2018 Shannon Fincher Thank you for your dedication, Shannon! First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, December 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality’s December showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature a combined show of works by Virginia Sitzes and Mycah Higley, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 6 th , from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artists’ work will be given. Virginia Sitzes received her bachelor of fine arts degree from the University of Oklahoma in 2017 and co-founded Art Group OKC. She lives in Oklahoma City, where she is a practicing professional artist. Her work is process intensive; through printmaking and painting, she gives in to intuition and the natural effects of chemistry on paper. She finds relief in being consumed by the moment and visually solves her questions. Her work reflects internal thoughts and processes as well as fun and beauty that she finds throughout the world. Artist Mycah Higley also lives in Oklahoma City. She received her bachelor of fine arts degree in painting and drawing from the University of Oklahoma. Her painting is strictly intuitive and experimental. She uses color, form, and transparency to create low-gravity spaces filled with organic forms that represent the complexity of people. Higley says of her work: “Painting is my means of working through the complexities of humans. The organic forms I paint 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Special Screening of "Boy Erased" 4 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Special-Screening-of--Boy-Erased... represent my love/hate relationship with people. Humans are reflections of their experiences. Their thoughts, beliefs, likes, dislikes and words are what make them individuals. I mimic this buildup of experience into personhood using line, color, form, and transparency. My goal is to create an atmospheric space that forces the viewer to look past the surface and into the center of each low gravity form I paint.” The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Keep Warm Donations Needed! As we enter the winter months, Oklahomans for Equality is asking for blankets, socks, and new or gently used coats, gloves, hats, and scarves for our constituents experiencing homelessness. Please bring donations to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center front desk. Open NOH8 Photo Shoot in Tulsa, OK Sunday, November 18, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the #NOH8Worldwide movement in Tulsa, OK and add your face to the fight for equal human rights! COST: Single/Solo Photos: $40 Couple/Group Photos: $25 per person NOH8 accepts cash and credit cards only. Fees paid to participate cover services and costs for one edited digital print only, made available via noh8campaign.com , and do not include physical prints. * COME CAMERA-READY * * WEAR A WHITE SHIRT * * POSE & MAKE A STATEMENT! * The NOH8 Campaign returns to Oklahomans For Equality @ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sunday, November 18th for an open photo shoot! Stop by anytime between 2pm-4pm to pose for an official NOH8 photo by photographer Adam Bouska . No reservations needed! Photos are first-come, first-served - and we move fast! Please arrive camera-ready with a plain white shirt to match the signature style of the NOH8 photos. When is the best time to arrive? Most people tend to arrive before the photo shoot begins, but as long as someone has lined up by the advertised end time for the photo shoot (4:00pm for 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Special Screening of "Boy Erased" 5 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Special-Screening-of--Boy-Erased... this photo shoot), they should be guaranteed a chance to pose! Once you arrive, the next steps are easy! 1. Fill-out one numbered model release for each person. 2. Have a NOH8 temporary tattoo applied for your photo. 3. Standby for your number to be called. 4. Process your payment once called. 5. Trade your processed model release for duct tape! NOH8 Co-Founder Adam Bouska will photograph roughly 5-10 frames per person. One frame will be selected/edited by our team and made available within approximately eight weeks (timeline subject to change). INTERESTED IN VOLUNTEERING? E-mail info@noh8campaign.com ------ -- ----- with your contact information and make sure to note which shoot you'd like to volunteer for! Funds raised by the NOH8 Campaign will be used to continue promoting and raising awareness for marriage and human equality as well as anti-discrimination and anti-bullying through NOH8’s interactive social media campaign. This includes bringing the campaign to other cities and countries around the world, creating and compiling images for our ongoing large-scale media campaign, and covering the costs of the daily operations and maintenance necessary to run this rapidly growing campaign out of our Burbank Headquarters. The NOH8 Campaign is a tax-exempt charitable organization under section 501(c)(3) of the Internal Revenue Code. Click here and scroll down to the 'Funds & Financing' portion of our FAQ for more information about how fees are utilized. Transgender Day of Remembrance Tuesday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance is a yearly event on Nov. 20 to honor those we have lost as a result of anti-transgender violence. Join Oklahomans for Equality in memorializing those who left us in 2018. 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Special Screening of "Boy Erased" 6 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Special-Screening-of--Boy-Erased... Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 22, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Alex Wade at alex.wade @okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Joy Lutheran Church ELCA Fellowship Congregational Church UCC Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Church Diversity Christian Fellowship International East Side Christian Church University United Methodist Church PFLAG Tulsa Muslims 4 Mercy St. Patrick's Episcopal Church Forest Park Christian Church ---=--=--=--=--=--- Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, November 6th, 6:30 p.m. Bangkok Thai Buffet 3313 E. 32nd Place, Tulsa, OK 74135 This could be the last chance to dine at Bangkok. As of now, November 26th is their last day being open. Reserve your seat with Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com. Ladies Social Club Movie 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Special Screening of "Boy Erased" 7 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Special-Screening-of--Boy-Erased... Friday, November 9, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Nanette is a 2018 comedy special by Australian comedian Hannah Gadsby. In the hour-long special, she dives into several timely issues facing women and the LGBT community. "lit · ·- \ Fri Nanette •· Nov 9 LSC screening &discussion 7 Pm Come at 6:00 p.m for snacks and socializing. The screening will start at 7:00 p.m, with group discussion following. We will wrap up by 9:00 p.m. If able, please bring movie snacks, drinks, and anything else you may want! Hope to see you there! • Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, November 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID , ~ SERVICESoF Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary. = OKLAHOMA, INC. World AIDS Day Commemoration Saturday, December 1st 5:30 p.m. reception 6:00 p.m. service Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 Please join us for a very special World AIDS Day Commemoration as we say goodbye to our AIDS Quilts. These quilts have been on display in the Sue Welch Great Hall for 12 years and will now be returning to the National Names Project Archives in Atlanta Georgia. This will be your final opportunity to see the Quilts which were made by Tulsans in memory of Tulsans who died of AIDS. Community leaders will be sharing their memories of those who died and the stories behind the quilts accompanied by performances from Sisters in Song and Council Oak Men's Chorus. 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Special Screening of "Boy Erased" 8 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Special-Screening-of--Boy-Erased... OkEq Fairy Tree Return Gifts by December 3rd Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community so that they can have a happy holiday. For more information, contact Alex Wade at alex.wade@okeq.org . OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to join us for our third annual OkEq Holiday Shopping Market! Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you would like to be part of the fun and be a vendor at this year’s market, please email Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org . National Survivors of Suicide Day: Sponsored by the Neurodiversity Social Group Saturday, November 17, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Special Screening of "Boy Erased" 9 of 26 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Special-Screening-of--Boy-Erased... 4/24/26, 4:43 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7d49ea1d8b91ab419b8c5cf2eab316af.pdf 025577dabbc63b8110df23acb117d3e1 PDF Text Text Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 1 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews November 14th, 2018 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Transgender Awareness Week November 12 - 19 Transgender Awareness Week aims to raise visibility of transgender and gender nonconforming individuals as well as raise awareness for the issues the community faces. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is raising the transgender flag for Transgender Awareness Week. 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 2 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... ______ NOVEMBE , 2 _,q_ 20,s WI ~ Boy Erased Friday, November 16, 7:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74104 (918) 592-3456 www.circlecinema.com Join Oklahomans for Equality 's Executive Director Toby Jenkins , Program Director Jose Emmanuel Vega and a panel of special guests for a brief discussion before the screening. Panelists include: • Al Carlozzi, a Licensed Health Service Psychologist Professor, with the School of Community Health Sciences. Dr. Carlozzi is the Counseling & Counseling Psychology Director at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. • Marcia LaBooth Keesee, LPC-S, RPT, Vice President- Organizational Development & Community Relations with CREOKS Behavioral Health Services. • Lucy Stambaugh with the Oklahoma Department of Human Services works with at risk youth and coordinates the LGBTQ youth program Alphabet Soup at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. There will also be an informal post-screening conversation held in the gallery for anyone who is interested in further discussing the themes of the film. "Boy Erased" tells the story of Jared (Lucas Hedges), the son of a Baptist pastor in a small American town, who is outed to his parents (Nicole Kidman and Russell Crowe) at age 19. Jared is faced with an ultimatum: attend a conversion therapy program or be permanently exiled and shunned by his family, friends and faith. “Boy Erased” is the true story of one young man's struggle to find himself while being forced to question every aspect of his identity. Purchase tickets online here or in person. Use the promo code KIDMAN at checkout to get your ticket for $8.50. New OkEq Helpline! Every Sunday, 10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 3 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... (918) 743-4297 Feeling stuck? Alone? Need a supportive, listening ear? Make Sunday your self-care day with a call to the new OkEq Helpline! This new and improved helpline has affirming staff available every Sunday from 10 a.m. - 6 p.m. We are here to provide support for LGBTQ+ people dealing with many topics including coming out, substance use, feeling isolated, conflict with work or family, and many more. We aim to help you address these problems by listening, brainstorming, identifying a goal, and helping you create an action plan. As always, OKEQ can also provide LGBTQ+ affirming referrals for you to put these plans into action. All people who identify as LGBTQ+ are welcome to utilize this free service. If interested, please call us on Sunday at (918) 743-4297. OkEq Fairy Tree Return Gifts by December 3rd Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community so that they can have a happy holiday. For more information, contact Alex Wade at alex.wade@okeq.org . Open NOH8 Photo Shoot in Tulsa, OK Sunday, November 18, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the #NOH8Worldwide movement in Tulsa, OK and add your face to the fight for equal human rights! COST: Single/Solo Photos: $40 Couple/Group Photos: $25 per person NOH8 accepts cash and credit cards only. Fees paid to 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased.. participate cover services and costs for one edited digital print only, made available via noh8campaign.com , and do not include physical prints. * COME CAMERA-READY * * WEAR A WHITE SHIRT * * POSE & MAKE A STATEMENT! * The NOH8 Campaign returns to Oklahomans For Equality @ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sunday, November 18th for an open photo shoot! Stop by anytime between 2pm-4pm to pose for an official NOH8 photo by photographer Adam Bouska . No reservations needed! Photos are first-come, first-served - and we move fast! Please arrive camera-ready with a plain white shirt to match the signature style of the NOH8 photos. When is the best time to arrive? Most people tend to arrive before the photo shoot begins, but as long as someone has lined up by the advertised end time for the photo shoot (4:00pm for this photo shoot), they should be guaranteed a chance to pose! Once you arrive, the next steps are easy! 1. Fill-out one numbered model release for each person. 2. Have a NOH8 temporary tattoo applied for your photo. 3. Standby for your number to be called. 4. Process your payment once called. 5. Trade your processed model release for duct tape! NOH8 Co-Founder Adam Bouska will photograph roughly 5-10 frames per person. One frame will be selected/edited by our team and made available within approximately eight weeks (timeline subject to change). INTERESTED IN VOLUNTEERING? E-mail info@noh8campaign.com with your contact information and make sure to note which shoot you'd like to volunteer for! ---- -- ------ Funds raised by the NOH8 Campaign will be used to continue promoting and raising awareness for marriage and human equality as well as anti-discrimination and anti-bullying through NOH8’s interactive social media campaign. This includes bringing the campaign to other cities and countries around the world, creating and compiling images for our ongoing large-scale media campaign, and covering the costs of the daily operations and maintenance necessary to run this rapidly growing campaign out of our Burbank Headquarters. The NOH8 Campaign is a tax-exempt charitable organization under section 501(c)(3) of the Internal Revenue Code. Click here and scroll down to the 'Funds & Financing' portion of our FAQ for more information about how fees are utilized. Pancakes with Pansexuals Brunch Sunday, November 17, 10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. 4 of 24 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 5 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Brought To You Bi+ The Letter B for a pancake brunch as we celebrate the Pansexual identity! What is pansexuality anyway? Well, come have a pancake and we'll tell you all about it! Brought To You Bi+ The Letter B serves the Bi/Pan/Queer/Fluid+ community of Tulsa. We are safe and welcoming to all identities and orientations, those who are curious or questioning, and our allies. Transgender Day of Remembrance Tuesday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance is a yearly event on Nov. 20 to honor those we have lost as a result of anti-transgender violence. There will be speakers and live performances throughout the night. Join Oklahomans for Equality in memorializing those who left us in 2018. Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 22, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Alex Wade at alex.wade @okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 6 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Joy Lutheran Church ELCA Fellowship Congregational Church UCC Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Church Diversity Christian Fellowship International East Side Christian Church University United Methodist Church PFLAG Tulsa Muslims 4 Mercy St. Patrick's Episcopal Church Forest Park Christian Church World AIDS Day Commemoration Saturday, December 1st 5:30 p.m. reception 6:00 p.m. service Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 7-r-n HDB£.RT t. KRtHl'J\ , ,,,,_ u-1,-n : j~ ' · - Please join us for a very special World AIDS Day Commemoration as we say goodbye to our AIDS quilts. These quilt panels have been on display in the Sue Welch Great Hall for 12 years and will now be returning to the national NAMES Project archives in Atlanta. This will be your final opportunity to see the quilt panels, which were made by Tulsans in memory of Tulsans who died of AIDS. Community leaders will be sharing their memories of those who died and the stories behind the quilt panels accompanied by performances from Sisters in Song and the Council Oak Men's Chorale. Neurodiversity Discrimination Forum Friday November 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 7 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... Do you have a mental heath diagnosis? Does discrimination based on your diagnosis affect your life? Do you want to advocate for yourself and others? If so, join us on November 16 at 6:00 p.m. for the Neurodiversity Discrimination Forum. Present topics which matter to you. Let's advocate for our interests together and begin the process of taking community action to fight discrimination! National Survivors of Suicide Day: Sponsored by the Neurodiversity Social Group Saturday, November 17, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 8 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... Keep Warm Donations Needed! As we enter the winter months, Oklahomans for Equality is asking for blankets, socks, and new or gently used coats, gloves, hats, and scarves for our constituents experiencing homelessness. Please bring donations to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center front desk. Volunteer of the Month October 2018 Shannon Fincher Thank you for your dedication, Shannon! 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 9 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, December 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality’s December showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature a combined show of works by Virginia Sitzes and Mycah Higley, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 6 th , from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artists’ work will be given. Virginia Sitzes received her bachelor of fine arts degree from the University of Oklahoma in 2017 and co-founded Art Group OKC. She lives in Oklahoma City, where she is a practicing professional artist. Her work is process intensive; through printmaking and painting, she gives in to intuition and the natural effects of chemistry on paper. She finds relief in being consumed by the moment and visually solves her questions. Her work reflects internal thoughts and processes as well as fun and beauty that she finds throughout the world. Artist Mycah Higley also lives in Oklahoma City. She received her bachelor of fine arts degree in painting and drawing from the University of Oklahoma. Her painting is strictly intuitive and experimental. She uses color, form, and transparency to create low-gravity spaces filled with organic forms that represent the complexity of people. Higley says of her work: “Painting is my means of working through the complexities of humans. The organic forms I paint represent my love/hate relationship with people. Humans are reflections of their experiences. Their thoughts, beliefs, likes, dislikes and words are what make them individuals. I mimic this buildup of experience into personhood using line, color, form, and transparency. My goal is to create an atmospheric space that forces the viewer to look past the surface and into the center of each low gravity form I paint.” The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to join us for our third annual OkEq Holiday Shopping Market! Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you would like to be part of the fun and be a vendor at this year’s market, please email Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org --- ---- . 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 10 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... • Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, November 14, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary. = OKLAHOMA, INC. Inclusion for People with Developmental Disabilities Saturdays at 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. Art for the Heart Program: An all inclusive Arts Program Sundays at 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 11 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... Sisters in Song Tuesdays at 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sisters in Song would like to invite new members to join our fun-loving group of singers! S isters inS ong We are rehearsing for upcoming holiday performances, so it’s a great time to join! We practice every Tuesday at 7 p.m. at the Equality Center on the second floor. 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 12 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... You're not alone YOU'RE NOT Support group for partners with HIV/ AIDS Do you have a partner who was recently diagnosed with HIV/AIDS? Have you found a community to process this life change with? Are you looking for support? As every airplane attendant says, “Put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others.” ALONE Having a partner with a life-threatening illness can take a toll on your well being. This group may help you to recognize and change your reactions to the new challenges that having a partner with HIV/AIDS might pose. We will meet weekly for 6 weeks to cover information on HIV/AIDS, process difficulties you may be having with your partner, learn new ways to cope with this change, foster healthier communication, prepare for the future, and better manage stress. If interested please email jose.vega@okeq.org to join the group. You are not alone. ----- ,, • • •· .. I • • •..... . .,• ..··' ., . , • •• I .. . . ... , . . OPEN ENROLLMENT • ,• • ,• STARTS NOVEMBER 1! 0 -• •... . ·/ · E [:] E SHOP & COMPARE. .- RENEW AN EXISTING PLAN OR FIND A NEW ONE . _,,,,,,,,, .. -~·• . ,, ·. I . . ~ - . . • • . -~ • _', I ~ ""'r• • I • ' . .. • 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 13 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... Visit www.healthcare.gov today Here's what you need to know: • HealthCare.gov is open for business beginning on November 1st. The FINAL DEADLINE to enroll in health insurance is December 15th. If you do not enroll during this time, you may be locked out of health insurance until 2019. • You can get free, LGBTQ-friendly help from someone who understands their health insurance questions. Make an appointment today. • HealthCare.gov is the only place you can get financial help and true coverage. Don’t get duped by a junk plan—get your coverage at HealthCare.gov. What should you do next? Two simple things. First, make sure you and your loved ones have health insurance—if not, head to HealthCare.gov now. Second, spread the word. This year, it’s on each of us to get the word out about the December 15th deadline. Let’s take pride in our health this year and make sure we all #GetCovered. To learn more, visit our friends at Out2Enroll , the national campaign to empower LGBTQ individuals and communities to get access to health care. Langston University Social Justice Symposium Friday, November 16, 8:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Langston University: Tulsa 6914 N. Greenwood Ave., Tulsa, OK 74106 Please join us for the 10th annual Social Justice SymposiumTikkun Olam-Healing a Fractured Universe. This event is free and open to all and includes lunch! Come out to the Social Justice Symposium and hear about the things that are facing people of today. There will be talks on everything from positive psychology to bullying. There will be times to ask questions and to add your voice to the conversation! Hope to see you there! Please come and be part of the solution. RSVP here Don We Now... December 4, 6, and 7, 8:00 p.m. East Side Christian Church 1438 S. Indianapolis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 This Holiday concert continues Council Oak Men’s Chorale’s 20 th Anniversary Celebration with a musical retrospective of past concerts. Elizabeth Smith Curtis returns as our artistic director for this special anniversary concert. Start your holiday season off with Council Oak Men's Chorale. 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 14 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... Thesis Research Study Please consider participating in my thesis research study examining the connection between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) identity, community connection, and resilience! This study is approved by the institutional review board at Northeastern State University and under the supervision of my thesis chair, Dr. Steven Byers. In order to be eligible for the study, you must: Be 18 years of age at the time of completion Identify as LGBTQ+ To participate in the study, please complete the survey here . The survey will take about 20 to 30 minutes to complete. You can be entered to win a $25.00 Amazon gift card if you provide an email address at the end of the survey. This study is anonymous. The only identifying information which will be collected is demographic information, and will not specifically identify you. You will be asked to provide an email at the conclusion of the survey to be entered in the raffle if you so wish, but are not required to do so. Participation in this study is voluntary. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you may close the browser window at any time. If you do not want to answer a question, you may skip any question in this survey. 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 15 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... If you have any questions, please contact Jordan Westcott ( Westcott@nsuok.edu ) or Dr. Steven Byers ( byerss@nsuok.edu ). We hope that you choose to participate in this study and share your experience! PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT IN AN UNDERSERVED POPULATION WE NEED YOUR HELP!!! The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. Additionally, the field of psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures tell us about transgender individuals! YOU ARE ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer, gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. It involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take approximately two hours of your time. After completing the study, you will receive a $15.00 gift card. For questions or to participate, contact doctoral student researcher William Bryant: Email: william-bryant@utulsa.edu Cell Phone: (330) 322-2442 his study I bemg conducted as part of the student researcher's dissertation for the niversit ofTulsa· Clinica l Psycho logy Pro ram. Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 16 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... "Loving Annabelle" lovingannabelle Erin Kelly stars as Annabelle, a precocious Senator's daughter who falls in love with her teacher Simone (Diane Gaidry) at a stodgy Catholic girls boarding school. Inspired by the classic lesbian drama Maedchen in Uniform, out writer-director Katherine Brooks unveils this passionate tale of forbidden love with intelligence, wit and sensitivity. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Equality Center Pride Store New shirts are for sale at the OkEq Pride Store! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 17 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are available Mon-Thurs 12:30-6:00 p.m. and w alk in appointments are available. Appointments can be made by calling 918-280-9645 Regularly Scheduled Programming 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 18 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, November 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members November OkEq Art Exhibition The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features an exhibit of works by Carla Hefley and Linda Dunbar. It continues throughout the month. It's Complicated Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library November 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 19 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Facilitated by Allison Ikley-Freeman. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org - - - ---or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 20 of 24 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... www.SOSTulsa.org "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 • AL-ANON fo I ., • • j, ,. I ,1 /n, • ', ' Lambda AlAnon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. This open Al-Anon group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. Contact 918.743.2754 for more information. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Tulsa Writers, Ink. 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 21 of 24 Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Inclusion for People with https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... are in their writing career. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and Art for the Heart: 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 22 of 24 Developmental Disabilities Saturdays @ 1:00 p.m. Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. LGBTQ+ History: Interviewees Wanted By appointment Do you feel like you have something to say about your life as an LGBTQ+ individual? Recording the history of the LGBTQ+ community is currently a feature of programming at the Equality Center. This program is designed to supplement and further complete our collective history by interviewing participants to further investigate past and present features of LGBTQ+ life and identity. Interviewees will sit down face to face and be asked a series of questions in regards to their person lives and experiences. All information gathered will be added to the existing archive. Please contact Ely at burgesej@nsuok.edu - -to set up your appointment. An all Inclusive Arts Program Sundays @ 1:00 p.m. Art is more than just pictures on the wall. Art helps people express themselves, find happiness, and it can help with mobility and dexterity. Art classes foster connections between individuals and helps reduce isolation many people experience. Please join us in making our community a more beautiful, meaningful place through the enrichment of art. Subjects will be elected by members from a range of topics including: glass fusing and jewelry making, mosaics, basket weaving, finger weaving, ceramics, acrylic painting, and quilting. This group is all inclusive, and encourages individuals from all age groups to come together for weekly sessions on Sundays @ 1pm. Community Partners 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 23 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... --~-- health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Jose Vega Program Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 4:43 PM �Purchase Tickets for "Boy Erased" 24 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Purchase-Tickets-for--Boy-Erased... Alex Wade Volunteer, Pride Store, and Transgender Programming Coordinator Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Alex.Wade@OkEq.org - - OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Marcia Keesee, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Sheena Grewal, At Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Jan Baldwin Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Allison Ikley-Freeman Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn Visit our website r ~' J I View our events Contact us today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. 621 East Fourth Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 08 4/24/26, 4:43 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7f955ee1359c1d656cf71801cfd12f46.pdf 57948027a65d9d7bdbf1a7957d91a7ab PDF Text Text Come to the Equality Center for Thanksgiving 1 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-the-Equality-Center-for... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews November 20th, 2018 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/24/26, 4:44 PM �Come to the Equality Center for Thanksgiving 2 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-the-Equality-Center-for... Transgender Day of Remembrance Tuesday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance is a yearly event on Nov. 20 to honor those we have lost as a result of anti-transgender violence. There will be speakers and live performances throughout the night. Join Oklahomans for Equality in memorializing those who left us in 2018. Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 22, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Alex Wade at alex.wade @okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Joy Lutheran Church ELCA Fellowship Congregational Church UCC Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Christ Church ---- - - - Episcopal - --- -Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Church Diversity Christian Fellowship International 4/24/26, 4:44 PM �Come to the Equality Center for Thanksgiving 3 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-the-Equality-Center-for... East Side Christian Church University United Methodist Church PFLAG Tulsa Muslims 4 Mercy St. Patrick's Episcopal Church Forest Park Christian Church New OkEq Helpline! Every Sunday, 10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (918) 743-4297 Feeling stuck? Alone? Need a supportive, listening ear? Make Sunday your self-care day with a call to the new OkEq Helpline! This new and improved helpline has affirming staff available every Sunday from 10 a.m. - 6 p.m. We are here to provide support for LGBTQ+ people dealing with many topics including coming out, substance use, feeling isolated, conflict with work or family, and many more. We aim to help you address these problems by listening, brainstorming, identifying a goal, and helping you create an action plan. As always, OKEQ can also provide LGBTQ+ affirming referrals for you to put these plans into action. All people who identify as LGBTQ+ are welcome to utilize this free service. If interested, please call us on Sunday at (918) 743-4297. World AIDS Day Commemoration Saturday, December 1st 5:30 p.m. reception 6:00 p.m. service Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 7·7-U RDBt.1lT t " 11-1,-fJ KRtHl'J\ /•, ~ ,_ ... , A. ~ - I'!' Please join us for a very special World AIDS Day Commemoration as we say goodbye to our AIDS quilts. These quilt panels have been on display in the Sue Welch Great Hall for 12 years and will now be returning to the national NAMES Project archives in Atlanta. This will be your final opportunity to see the quilt panels, which were made by Tulsans in memory of Tulsans who died of AIDS. Community leaders will be sharing their memories of those who died and the stories behind the quilt panels accompanied by performances from Sisters in Song and the Council Oak Men's Chorale. 4/24/26, 4:44 PM �Come to the Equality Center for Thanksgiving 4 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-the-Equality-Center-for... Keep Warm Donations Needed! As we enter the winter months, Oklahomans for Equality is asking for blankets, socks, and new or gently used coats, gloves, hats, and scarves for our constituents experiencing homelessness. Please bring donations to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center front desk. Volunteer of the Month October 2018 Shannon Fincher Thank you for your dedication, Shannon! First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, December 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality’s December showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature a combined show of works by Virginia Sitzes and Mycah Higley, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 6 th , from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artists’ work will be given. Virginia Sitzes received her bachelor of fine 4/24/26, 4:44 PM �Come to the Equality Center for Thanksgiving 5 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-the-Equality-Center-for... arts degree from the University of Oklahoma in 2017 and co-founded Art Group OKC. She lives in Oklahoma City, where she is a practicing professional artist. Her work is process intensive; through printmaking and painting, she gives in to intuition and the natural effects of chemistry on paper. She finds relief in being consumed by the moment and visually solves her questions. Her work reflects internal thoughts and processes as well as fun and beauty that she finds throughout the world. Artist Mycah Higley also lives in Oklahoma City. She received her bachelor of fine arts degree in painting and drawing from the University of Oklahoma. Her painting is strictly intuitive and experimental. She uses color, form, and transparency to create low-gravity spaces filled with organic forms that represent the complexity of people. Higley says of her work: “Painting is my means of working through the complexities of humans. The organic forms I paint represent my love/hate relationship with people. Humans are reflections of their experiences. Their thoughts, beliefs, likes, dislikes and words are what make them individuals. I mimic this buildup of experience into personhood using line, color, form, and transparency. My goal is to create an atmospheric space that forces the viewer to look past the surface and into the center of each low gravity form I paint.” The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to join us for our third annual OkEq Holiday Shopping Market! Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you would like to be part of the fun and be a vendor at this year’s market, please email Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org . Falala Ball Saturday, December 22, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK, 74120 4/24/26, 4:44 PM �Come to the Equality Center for Thanksgiving 6 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-the-Equality-Center-for... Don your gay apparel and join us for the 12th annual Falala Ball! Admission is any of the following: Canned goods and toiletries for St. Jerome Parish Pantry Canned goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Children's Toys for Women in Recovery • Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, December 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary. = OKLAHOMA, INC. Inclusion for People with Developmental Disabilities Saturdays at 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. 4/24/26, 4:44 PM �Come to the Equality Center for Thanksgiving 7 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-the-Equality-Center-for... Art for the Heart Program: An all inclusive Arts Program Sundays at 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sisters in Song Tuesdays at 7:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:44 PM �Come to the Equality Center for Thanksgiving 8 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-the-Equality-Center-for... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sisters in Song would like to invite new members to join our fun-loving group of singers! We are rehearsing for upcoming holiday performances, so it’s a great time to join! We practice every Tuesday at 7 p.m. at the Equality Center on the second floor. You're not alone YOU'RE NOT Support group for partners with HIV/ AIDS Do you have a partner who was recently diagnosed with HIV/AIDS? Have you found a community to process this life change with? Are you looking for support? As every airplane attendant says, “Put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others.” ALONE Having a partner with a life-threatening illness can take a toll on your well being. This group may help you to recognize and change your reactions to the new challenges that having a partner with HIV/AIDS might pose. We will meet weekly for 6 weeks to cover information on HIV/AIDS, process difficulties you may be having with your partner, learn new ways to cope with this change, foster healthier communication, prepare for the future, and better manage stress. If interested please email jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - to join the group. You are not alone. I . • • •· • I • .. •• ' • , • ~ f • I . .. .,... • ,• • • .. 1 :. I • ..' .. . . , • •• OPEN ENROLLMENT . .. .-. . STARTS NOVEMBER 1! . . . I .. • •• ti ,., , ... .... . ... ..,. .:... . 0 SHOP & COMPARE. 4/24/26, 4:44 PM �Come to the Equality Center for Thanksgiving 9 of 20 .t... ~-- .-.. ._.,,,,. . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-the-Equality-Center-for... - ·/ · •'<-'.• . ✓ •• •. I - I . RENEW AN EXISTING PLAN OR FIND A NEW ONE . ✓ • • ... •. . I • t ·'. \ • • :-•:--, . • • • • · I • • Visit www.healthcare.gov today Here's what you need to know: • HealthCare.gov is open for business beginning on November 1st. The FINAL DEADLINE to enroll in health insurance is December 15th. If you do not enroll during this time, you may be locked out of health insurance until 2019. • You can get free, LGBTQ-friendly help from someone who understands their health insurance questions. Make an appointment today. • HealthCare.gov is the only place you can get financial help and true coverage. Don’t get duped by a junk plan—get your coverage at HealthCare.gov. What should you do next? Two simple things. First, make sure you and your loved ones have health insurance—if not, head to HealthCare.gov now. Second, spread the word. This year, it’s on each of us to get the word out about the December 15th deadline. Let’s take pride in our health this year and make sure we all #GetCovered. To learn more, visit our friends at Out2Enroll , the national campaign to empower LGBTQ individuals and communities to get access to health care. Don We Now... December 4, 6, and 7, 8:00 p.m. East Side Christian Church 1438 S. Indianapolis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 This Holiday concert continues Council Oak Men’s Chorale’s 20 th Anniversary Celebration with a musical retrospective of past concerts. Elizabeth Smith Curtis returns as our artistic director for this special anniversary concert. Start your holiday season off with Council Oak Men's Chorale. 4/24/26, 4:44 PM �Come to the Equality Center for Thanksgiving 10 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-the-Equality-Center-for... Thesis Research Study Please consider participating in my thesis research study examining the connection between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) identity, community connection, and resilience! This study is approved by the institutional review board at Northeastern State University and under the supervision of my thesis chair, Dr. Steven Byers. In order to be eligible for the study, you must: Be 18 years of age at the time of completion Identify as LGBTQ+ To participate in the study, please complete the survey here . The survey will take about 20 to 30 minutes to complete. You can be entered to win a $25.00 Amazon gift card if you provide an email address at the end of the survey. This study is anonymous. The only identifying information which will be collected is demographic information, and will not specifically identify you. You will be asked to provide an email at the conclusion of the survey to be entered in the raffle if you so wish, but are not required to do so. Participation in this study is voluntary. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you may close the browser window at any time. If you do not want to answer a question, you may skip any question in this survey. If you have any questions, please contact Jordan Westcott ( Westcott@nsuok.edu ) or Dr. Steven Byers ( byerss@nsuok.edu ). We hope that you choose to participate in this study and share your experience! 4/24/26, 4:44 PM �Come to the Equality Center for Thanksgiving 11 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-the-Equality-Center-for... PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT IN AN UNDERSERVED POPULATION WE NEED YOUR HELP!!! The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. Additionally, the field of psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures tell us about transgender individuals! YOU ARE ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer, gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. It involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take approximately two hours of your time. After completing the study, you will receive a $15.00 gift card. For questions or to participate. contact doctoral student researcher William Bryant: Email: william-bryant@utulsa.edu Cell Phone: 330 322-2442 his niv be1 ucted as part of the student researcher's dissertal!on for the i al p._ycholo m. Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library "Brokeback Mountain" A ranch hand and a rodeo cowboy meet in the summer of 1963 and unexpectedly forge a romantic and lifelong connection. The 4/24/26, 4:44 PM �Come to the Equality Center for Thanksgiving 12 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-the-Equality-Center-for... complications, joys and heartbreak they experience provide a testament to the endurance and power of love. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Equality Center Pride Store Find the perfect holiday decorations for your home at the OkEq Pride Store! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of 4/24/26, 4:44 PM �Come to the Equality Center for Thanksgiving 13 of 20 additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-the-Equality-Center-for... domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com ----- Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are available Mon-Thurs 12:30-6:00 p.m. and w alk in appointments are available. Appointments can be made by calling 918-280-9645 Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, December 20 November OkEq Art 4/24/26, 4:44 PM �Come to the Equality Center for Thanksgiving 14 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-the-Equality-Center-for... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members Exhibition The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features an exhibit of works by Carla Hefley and Linda Dunbar. It continues throughout the month. It's Complicated Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGAL AID t,fl) SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library December 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Facilitated by Allison Ikley-Freeman. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org -- --or call 918-743-4297 4/24/26, 4:44 PM �Come to the Equality Center for Thanksgiving 15 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Come-to-the-Equality-Center-for... Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Sos Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm sao-e ~~~~:~~t ~~ LGBT Elders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/24/26, 4:44 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5e4518b8e6b37eb00d8c8245f3b20273.pdf 860310b66036293d8757f1a7132c613c PDF Text Text Say Goodbye to the Tulsa AIDS Quilts 1 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Goodbye-to-the-Tulsa-AIDS-... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews November 27th, 2018 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! World AIDS Day Commemoration Saturday, December 1st 5:30 p.m. reception 6:00 p.m. service Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 Please join us for a very special World AIDS Day Commemoration as we say goodbye to our AIDS t_ RDBt1lT KRtHPJ\ , ,,, '· 7·7-n ... , ■ -1,-0 : j ··-1·' 4/24/26, 4:45 PM �Say Goodbye to the Tulsa AIDS Quilts 2 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Goodbye-to-the-Tulsa-AIDS-... ff .. ~i. quilts. These quilt panels have been on display / 1 -,~!· 1 ti.mmcn • - . • "'" • -,J.w1,r .. ,,,~ in the Sue Welch Great Hall for 12 years and will now be returning to the national NAMES Project archives in Atlanta. This will be your final opportunity to see the quilt panels, which were made by Tulsans in memory of Tulsans who died of AIDS. Community leaders will be sharing their memories of those who died and the stories behind the quilt panels accompanied by performances from Sisters in Song and the Council Oak Men's Chorale. New OkEq Helpline! Every Sunday, 10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (918) 743-4297 Feeling stuck? Alone? Need a supportive, listening ear? Make Sunday your self-care day with a call to the new OkEq Helpline! This new and improved helpline has affirming staff available every Sunday from 10 a.m. - 6 p.m. We are here to provide support for LGBTQ+ people dealing with many topics including coming out, substance use, feeling isolated, conflict with work or family, and many more. We aim to help you address these problems by listening, brainstorming, identifying a goal, and helping you create an action plan. As always, OKEQ can also provide LGBTQ+ affirming referrals for you to put these plans into action. All people who identify as LGBTQ+ are welcome to utilize this free service. If interested, please call us on Sunday at (918) 743-4297. First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, December 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality’s December showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature a combined show of works by Virginia Sitzes and Mycah Higley, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 6 th , from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artists’ work will be given. Virginia Sitzes received her bachelor of fine arts degree from the University of Oklahoma in 2017 and co-founded Art Group OKC. She lives in Oklahoma City, where she is a practicing professional artist. Her work is process 4/24/26, 4:45 PM �Say Goodbye to the Tulsa AIDS Quilts 3 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Goodbye-to-the-Tulsa-AIDS-... intensive; through printmaking and painting, she gives in to intuition and the natural effects of chemistry on paper. She finds relief in being consumed by the moment and visually solves her questions. Her work reflects internal thoughts and processes as well as fun and beauty that she finds throughout the world. Artist Mycah Higley also lives in Oklahoma City. She received her bachelor of fine arts degree in painting and drawing from the University of Oklahoma. Her painting is strictly intuitive and experimental. She uses color, form, and transparency to create low-gravity spaces filled with organic forms that represent the complexity of people. Higley says of her work: “Painting is my means of working through the complexities of humans. The organic forms I paint represent my love/hate relationship with people. Humans are reflections of their experiences. Their thoughts, beliefs, likes, dislikes and words are what make them individuals. I mimic this buildup of experience into personhood using line, color, form, and transparency. My goal is to create an atmospheric space that forces the viewer to look past the surface and into the center of each low gravity form I paint.” The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to join us for our third annual OkEq Holiday Shopping Market! Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you would like to be part of the fun and be a vendor at this year’s market, please email Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org . Falala Ball Saturday, December 22, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK, 74120 Don your gay apparel and join us for the 12th annual Falala Ball! 4/24/26, 4:45 PM �Say Goodbye to the Tulsa AIDS Quilts 4 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Goodbye-to-the-Tulsa-AIDS-... Admission is any of the following: Canned goods and toiletries for St. Jerome Parish Pantry Canned goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Children's Toys for Women in Recovery Guys Dine Too: Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, December 4, 6:30 p.m. Cardigan's Restaurant & Bar 6000 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74105 If you plan on attending, RSVP by emailing Richard at guysdinetoo@gmail.com. • Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, December 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary. = OKLAHOMA, INC. Sisters in Song Tuesdays at 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4 St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sisters in Song would like to invite new members to join our fun-loving group of 4/24/26, 4:45 PM �Say Goodbye to the Tulsa AIDS Quilts 5 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Goodbye-to-the-Tulsa-AIDS-... singers! We are rehearsing for upcoming holiday performances, so it’s a great time to join! We practice every Tuesday at 7 p.m. at the Equality Center on the second floor. You're not alone YOU'RE NOT Support group for partners with HIV/ AIDS Do you have a partner who was recently diagnosed with HIV/AIDS? Have you found a community to process this life change with? Are you looking for support? As every airplane attendant says, “Put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others.” ALONE Having a partner with a life-threatening illness can take a toll on your well being. This group may help you to recognize and change your reactions to the new challenges that having a partner with HIV/AIDS might pose. We will meet weekly for 6 weeks to cover information on HIV/AIDS, process difficulties you may be having with your partner, learn new ways to cope with this change, foster healthier communication, prepare for the future, and better manage stress. If interested please email jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - to join the group. You are not alone. • , •· .. OPEN ENROLLMENT • STARTS NOVEMBER 1! .. • •. ~ '• • .• .... . .. ... r-~- ··- . 0 . .; . · .• ... .• • ._,,,,. . ·/ · SHOP & COMPARE. ~ -~·• RENEW AN EXISTING PLAN OR FIND A NEW ONE . • 4/24/26, 4:45 PM �Say Goodbye to the Tulsa AIDS Quilts 6 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Goodbye-to-the-Tulsa-AIDS-... • • I I •. I I • • •• '(• \ . • .. . • ••· • •. I • • Visit www.healthcare.gov today Here's what you need to know: • HealthCare.gov is open for business beginning on November 1st. The FINAL DEADLINE to enroll in health insurance is December 15th. If you do not enroll during this time, you may be locked out of health insurance until 2019. • You can get free, LGBTQ-friendly help from someone who understands their health insurance questions. Make an appointment today. • HealthCare.gov is the only place you can get financial help and true coverage. Don’t get duped by a junk plan—get your coverage at HealthCare.gov. What should you do next? Two simple things. First, make sure you and your loved ones have health insurance—if not, head to HealthCare.gov now. Second, spread the word. This year, it’s on each of us to get the word out about the December 15th deadline. Let’s take pride in our health this year and make sure we all #GetCovered. To learn more, visit our friends at Out2Enroll , the national campaign to empower LGBTQ individuals and communities to get access to health care. Don We Now... December 4, 6, and 7, 8:00 p.m. East Side Christian Church 1438 S. Indianapolis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 This Holiday concert continues Council Oak Men’s Chorale’s 20 th Anniversary Celebration with a musical retrospective of past concerts. Elizabeth Smith Curtis returns as our artistic director for this special anniversary concert. Start your holiday season off with Council Oak Men's Chorale. 4/24/26, 4:45 PM �Say Goodbye to the Tulsa AIDS Quilts 7 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Goodbye-to-the-Tulsa-AIDS-... Keep Warm Donations Needed! As we enter the winter months, Oklahomans for Equality is asking for blankets, socks, and new or gently used coats, gloves, hats, and scarves for our constituents experiencing homelessness. Please bring donations to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center front desk. Volunteer of the Month November 2018 Shannon Fincher Thank you for your dedication, Shannon! Thesis Research Study Please consider participating in my thesis research study examining the connection between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) identity, community connection, and resilience! 4/24/26, 4:45 PM �Say Goodbye to the Tulsa AIDS Quilts 8 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Goodbye-to-the-Tulsa-AIDS-... This study is approved by the institutional review board at Northeastern State University and under the supervision of my thesis chair, Dr. Steven Byers. In order to be eligible for the study, you must: Be 18 years of age at the time of completion Identify as LGBTQ+ To participate in the study, please complete the survey here . The survey will take about 20 to 30 minutes to complete. You can be entered to win a $25.00 Amazon gift card if you provide an email address at the end of the survey. This study is anonymous. The only identifying information which will be collected is demographic information, and will not specifically identify you. You will be asked to provide an email at the conclusion of the survey to be entered in the raffle if you so wish, but are not required to do so. Participation in this study is voluntary. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you may close the browser window at any time. If you do not want to answer a question, you may skip any question in this survey. If you have any questions, please contact Jordan Westcott ( Westcott@nsuok.edu ) or Dr. Steven Byers ( byerss@nsuok.edu ). We hope that you choose to participate in this study and share your experience! PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT IN AN UNDERSERVED POPULATION WE NEED YOUR HELP!!! The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. Additionally, the field of psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures tell us about transgender individuals! YOU ARE ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer, gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older 4/24/26, 4:45 PM �Say Goodbye to the Tulsa AIDS Quilts 9 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Goodbye-to-the-Tulsa-AIDS-... ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. It involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take approximately two hours of your time. After completing the study, you will receive a $ I 5.00 gift card. For questions or to participate. contact doctoral student researcher William Bryant Email: william-bryant@utulsa.edu Cell Phone: (330) 322-2442 This s niv ucted as part of the student researcher's dissertation for the ical P'lycholo m. Ever wonder what transgender affirmative therapy is like? Join a SIU study on text-message-based, transgender affirmative, cognitive behavioral therapy designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! Study includes: Pre-Treatment Assessment FREE - 6 weeks of Transgender Affirmative CBT Post-Treatment Assessment 3 Month Follow Up Assessment 4/24/26, 4:45 PM �Say Goodbye to the Tulsa AIDS Quilts 10 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Goodbye-to-the-Tulsa-AIDS-... CONTACT US TODAY (312) 899-6195 textmessagetherapy@gmail.com This proji!ct has been revi~ by the SIUC H\lman Subjl!Cls Committee. Questions conoelYWlQ your righls as a participant in this research may be adchssed to the Committee Ch • peraon. Office of SponSOO!d Projects Administration, SIUC, Carbondale, IL 62901-4 709. Phone: (618) 453-4533. Email: li!Wlt:il.lllUiW-l:!IU Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library "Gay Art" by James Smalls Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Divulging the rich tradition of homosexuality in the arts from an unabashed perspective, “Gay Art” represents a unique effort in the art publishing market whose cultural relevance will ensure its success. It is a scientific study led by Professor James Smalls, who teaches art history at the prestigious University of Maryland, Baltimore. The author highlights the sensibility particular to homosexuals and abandons all classical clichés and sociological approaches. This book examines the process of creation and allows one to comprehend the contribution of homosexuality to the evolution of emotional perception. In a time when all barriers have been overcome, this analysis offers a new understanding of our civilizations masterpieces. Equality Center Pride Store Find the perfect holiday decorations for your home at the OkEq Pride Store! 4/24/26, 4:45 PM �Say Goodbye to the Tulsa AIDS Quilts 11 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Goodbye-to-the-Tulsa-AIDS-... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who 4/24/26, 4:45 PM �Say Goodbye to the Tulsa AIDS Quilts 12 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Goodbye-to-the-Tulsa-AIDS-... are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, December 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members November OkEq Art Exhibition The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features an exhibit of works by Carla Hefley and Linda Dunbar. It continues throughout the month. It's Complicated Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . T ..... .,... .. ._. A ._..,..._ • A 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come 4/24/26, 4:45 PM �Say Goodbye to the Tulsa AIDS Quilts 13 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Goodbye-to-the-Tulsa-AIDS-... = L~l:i-AL .fl..lU . _ ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library December 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Facilitated by Allison Ikley-Freeman. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org -- --or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Sos Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY 4/24/26, 4:45 PM �Say Goodbye to the Tulsa AIDS Quilts 14 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Goodbye-to-the-Tulsa-AIDS-... breath. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan No Shade for Plus Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. ~~'~ ' .(\!., Tulsa Writers, In k. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center / ~ "'t. :- • AL-ANON Lambda AlAnon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. 7 This open Al-Anon group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. Contact 918.743.2754 for more information. 4/24/26, 4:45 PM �Say Goodbye to the Tulsa AIDS Quilts 15 of 19 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Goodbye-to-the-Tulsa-AIDS-... Tulsa Writers, Ink. 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Art for the Heart: An all Inclusive 4/24/26, 4:45 PM �Say Goodbye to the Tulsa AIDS Quilts 16 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Goodbye-to-the-Tulsa-AIDS-... Arts Program Sundays @ 1:00 p.m. Inclusion for People with Developmental Disabilities Saturdays @ 1:00 p.m. Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. LGBTQ+ History: Interviewees Wanted By appointment Do you feel like you have something to say about your life as an LGBTQ+ individual? Recording the history of the LGBTQ+ community is currently a feature of programming at the Equality Center. This program is designed to supplement and further complete our collective history by interviewing participants to further investigate past and present features of LGBTQ+ life and identity. Interviewees will sit down face to face and be asked a series of questions in regards to their person lives and experiences. All information gathered will Art is more than just pictures on the wall. Art helps people express themselves, find happiness, and it can help with mobility and dexterity. Art classes foster connections between individuals and helps reduce isolation many people experience. Please join us in making our community a more beautiful, meaningful place through the enrichment of art. Subjects will be elected by members from a range of topics including: glass fusing and jewelry making, mosaics, basket weaving, finger weaving, ceramics, acrylic painting, and quilting. This group is all inclusive, and encourages individuals from all age groups to come together for weekly sessions on Sundays @ 1pm. 4/24/26, 4:45 PM �Say Goodbye to the Tulsa AIDS Quilts 17 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Goodbye-to-the-Tulsa-AIDS-... be added to the existing archive. Please contact Ely at burgesej@nsuok.edu to set up your appointment. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/24/26, 4:45 PM �Say Goodbye to the Tulsa AIDS Quilts https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Goodbye-to-the-Tulsa-AIDS-.. Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Director Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Alex Wade Volunteer, Pride Store, and Transgender Programming Coordinator Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Alex.Wade@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Marcia Keesee, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Sheena Grewal, At Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Jan Baldwin Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Allison Ikley-Freeman Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn Visit our website View our events Contact us today 1. 18 of 19 4/24/26, 4:45 PM �Say Goodbye to the Tulsa AIDS Quilts 19 of 19 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Say-Goodbye-to-the-Tulsa-AIDS-... Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. 621 East Fourth Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 08 4/24/26, 4:45 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/35ba83605a329b1f9604d26aa64f2ea7.pdf 21f5279d8fe68eb28ff0263ea0212a9c PDF Text Text Holiday Shopping Market this Saturday 1 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Holiday-Shopping-Market-this-Sa... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews December 5th, 2018 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Volunteer of the Month December 2018 Phillip Holmes Thank you for your 4/24/26, 4:47 PM �Holiday Shopping Market this Saturday 2 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Holiday-Shopping-Market-this-Sa... dedication, Phillip! Inclement Weather Policy In the event of inclement weather, please contact the center to confirm the program you wish to participate in will be meeting. Although the center does not close, many times program leaders choose to cancel their programs due to hazardous conditions. We will post updates on OkEq Facebook pages. New OkEq Helpline! Every Sunday, 10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (918) 743-4297 Feeling stuck? Alone? Need a supportive, listening ear? Make Sunday your self-care day with a call to the new OkEq Helpline! This new and improved helpline has affirming staff available every Sunday from 10 a.m. - 6 p.m. We are here to provide support for LGBTQ+ people dealing with many topics including coming out, substance use, feeling isolated, conflict with work or family, and many more. We aim to help you address these problems by listening, brainstorming, identifying a goal, and helping you create an action plan. As always, OKEQ can also provide LGBTQ+ affirming referrals for you to put these plans into action. All people who identify as LGBTQ+ are welcome to utilize this free service. If interested, please call us on Sunday at (918) 743-4297. Thank you for supporting this year's Fairy Tree! This has been our 19th year partnering with Tulsa CARES and it wouldn't be possible without your participation! 4/24/26, 4:47 PM �Holiday Shopping Market this Saturday 3 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Holiday-Shopping-Market-this-Sa... First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, December 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality’s December showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature a combined show of works by Virginia Sitzes and Mycah Higley, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 6 th , from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artists’ work will be given. Virginia Sitzes received her bachelor of fine arts degree from the University of Oklahoma in 2017 and co-founded Art Group OKC. She lives in Oklahoma City, where she is a practicing professional artist. Her work is process intensive; through printmaking and painting, she gives in to intuition and the natural effects of chemistry on paper. She finds relief in being consumed by the moment and visually solves her questions. Her work reflects internal thoughts and processes as well as fun and beauty that she finds throughout the world. Artist Mycah Higley also lives in Oklahoma City. She received her bachelor of fine arts degree in painting and drawing from the University of Oklahoma. Her painting is strictly intuitive and experimental. She uses color, form, and transparency to create low-gravity spaces filled with organic forms that represent the complexity of people. Higley says of her work: “Painting is my means of working through the complexities of humans. The organic forms I paint represent my love/hate relationship with people. Humans are reflections of their experiences. Their thoughts, beliefs, likes, dislikes and words are what make them individuals. I mimic this buildup of experience into personhood using line, color, form, and transparency. My goal is to create an atmospheric space that forces the viewer to look past the surface and into the 4/24/26, 4:47 PM �Holiday Shopping Market this Saturday 4 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Holiday-Shopping-Market-this-Sa... center of each low gravity form I paint.” The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to join us for our third annual OkEq Holiday Shopping Market! Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you would like to be part of the fun and be a vendor at this year’s market, please email Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org . Falala Ball Saturday, December 22, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK, 74120 Join us for this year's 12th Annual Fa La La Ball. Don your "gay" apparel (or comfortable clothing for you) and bring your friends to celebrate the holidays with great dance music from DJ Alex, savory hors-d'oeuvres and a cash bar. Admission is any of the following: Canned goods and toiletries for St. Jerome Parish Pantry Canned goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Children's Toys for Women in Recovery. This year we will have "What I really want to tell my family at the holidays Open Mic" in our Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater. Audience members who are amateur performers or professionals who want to perform material with the theme are invited to perform onstage. Performers are provided with a live microphone to make the individual's performance loud 4/24/26, 4:47 PM �Holiday Shopping Market this Saturday 5 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Holiday-Shopping-Market-this-Sa... enough for the audience to hear. Open Mic is for performance arts like poetry and spoken word, music, and comedy. Small groups, small bands duo/trio comedy duos can also participate. The Williams Photography photo booth will be available and we will raffle off lots of amazing prizes provided by our Equality Business Alliance members. Support the businesses that support your community. • Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, December 12, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary. = OKLAHOMA, INC. Don We Now... December 4, 6, and 7, 8:00 p.m. East Side Christian Church 1438 S. Indianapolis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 This Holiday concert continues Council Oak Men’s Chorale’s 20 th Anniversary Celebration with a musical retrospective of past concerts. Elizabeth Smith Curtis returns as our artistic director for this special anniversary concert. Start your holiday season off with Council Oak Men's Chorale. 4/24/26, 4:47 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b8dc415ec42a7b5350257c284f310ec1.pdf 6452dc78c395e348b538ed02cd22c12f PDF Text Text Holiday Shopping Market Reboot this Sunday 1 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Holiday-Shopping-Market-Reboot-... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews December 12th, 2018 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Inclement Weather Policy In the event of inclement weather, please contact the center to confirm the program you wish to participate in will be meeting. Although the center does not close, many times program leaders choose to cancel their programs due to hazardous conditions. We will post updates on OkEq Facebook pages. 4/24/26, 4:48 PM �Holiday Shopping Market Reboot this Sunday 2 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Holiday-Shopping-Market-Reboot-... OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market Sunday, December 16, 12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to join us for our third annual OkEq Holiday Shopping Market! Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you would like to be part of the fun and be a vendor at this year’s market, please email Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org . Falala Ball Saturday, December 22, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK, 74120 Join us for this year's 12th annual Falala Ball! Don your gay apparel (or comfortable clothing for you) and bring your friends to celebrate the holidays with great dance music from DJ Alex, plus savory hors d'oeuvres and a cash bar! Admission is any of the following: Canned goods and toiletries for St. Jerome Parish Pantry Canned goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Children's Toys for Women in Recovery This year, we will hold an open-mic event with the theme “What I really want to tell my family at the holidays” in the Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater. Audience members who are amateur performers or professionals who want to perform material with the theme are welcome. The open-mic event is for performance arts such as poetry and spoken word, music, and comedy. Small groups, small bands, duos/trios and comedy duos can also participate. Williams Photography’s photo booth will be available, and we will raffle off lots of amazing prizes provided by Equality Business Alliance members. Support the businesses that support 4/24/26, 4:48 PM �Holiday Shopping Market Reboot this Sunday 3 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Holiday-Shopping-Market-Reboot-... your community! New OkEq Helpline! Every Sunday, 10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (918) 743-4297 Feeling stuck? Alone? Need a supportive, listening ear? Make Sunday your self-care day with a call to the new OkEq Helpline! This new and improved helpline has affirming staff available every Sunday from 10 a.m. - 6 p.m. We are here to provide support for LGBTQ+ people dealing with many topics including coming out, substance use, feeling isolated, conflict with work or family, and many more. We aim to help you address these problems by listening, brainstorming, identifying a goal, and helping you create an action plan. As always, OKEQ can also provide LGBTQ+ affirming referrals for you to put these plans into action. All people who identify as LGBTQ+ are welcome to utilize this free service. If interested, please call us on Sunday at (918) 743-4297. Lead Together LGBTQ Leadership Program, Applications Open for the Class of 2019 _, ,1 1// / /; LEADTffi~T~-H~R Created in partnership with Oklahomans for Equality and Leadership Tulsa, the Lead Together LGBTQ Leadership Program is now accepting applications for its first class. Lead Together is the only program in Oklahoma addressing LGBTQ leadership development. “We see persistent gaps within leadership ranks that overlook the talents of lesbians, gay men, bisexuals, transgender and queer or questioning individuals,” said Jose Vega, program director for Oklahomans for Equality. “The aim is to accelerate the careers and possibilities 4/24/26, 4:48 PM �Holiday Shopping Market Reboot this Sunday 4 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Holiday-Shopping-Market-Reboot-... for qualified LGBTQ leaders by offering an exceptional learning environment and networking opportunities. “We know there are a number of outstanding LGBTQ professionals, and this is the only program of its kind in the state,” Vega said. “Its design speaks forcefully to the next generation of LGBTQ leaders who are highly motivated agents for change. “Leadership Tulsa is pleased to provide additional opportunities for leadership development in our community, and we look forward to equipping LGBTQ leaders to build their influence, build a valuable network, and develop new models and mindsets for innovation using design thinking,” added Marcia-Bruno Todd, Leadership Tulsa’s program director. “Participants will explore how their LGBTQ identity influences and strengthens their personal leadership style while learning about LGBTQ history and the national movement.” LGBTQ and ally professionals are invited to apply to this four-month program, which includes an orientation, six daylong sessions, volunteering for Tulsa Pride, and opportunities to network and explore the region with fellow class members. Applications are due by 5:00 p.m. on January 31, 2019. Click here for more information. Click here for the application. Thank you for supporting this year's Fairy Tree! This has been our 19th year partnering with Tulsa CARES, and it wouldn't be possible without your participation! First Thursday Art Opening 4/24/26, 4:48 PM �Holiday Shopping Market Reboot this Sunday 5 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Holiday-Shopping-Market-Reboot-... Thursday, January 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality’s January showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Evelyn House, beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 3 rd , from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artist’s work will be awarded. Evelyn was born and raised in Oklahoma City and has immersed herself in the art scene of Oklahoma. She uses acrylics and resin to create her art on materials ranging from canvas to wood rounds and birch panels. She also uses resin to make jewelry and homewares. Evelyn has been fascinated with colors since she was young. “In my studio, I am a scientist in search of the next experimental chemical reaction to blend colors and pop open cells,” she says. “Using a resin base with mixed media creates a unique mirror-like finish. I build up multiple layers of resin to create a depth that cannot be captured by a camera.” When she is not in the studio, Evelyn takes care of three rambunctious boys, two dogs, “a mean ol’ cat and a fussy husband.” “You can find me on my porch or on a walk most evenings sipping wine and enjoying nature,” she says. “Being an artist in this world is important to me, as I want my kids to see that their dreams can come true if they work hard and have passion that cannot be put out by rejection.” The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Volunteer of the Month December 2018 Phillip Holmes Thank you for your dedication, Phillip! 4/24/26, 4:48 PM �Holiday Shopping Market Reboot this Sunday 6 of 22 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Holiday-Shopping-Market-Reboot-... LGBT Women's Network January Happy Hour Monday, January 7, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Saturn Room 209 N Boulder Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 The January Happy Hour for the LGBT Women's Network will be hosted by Saturn Room. Mix and mingle with ladies you don't know, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. Don't forget to bring business cards to enter our door prize drawing! • Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, January 9, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID tk SERVICES OF Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary. = OKLAHOMA, INC. Sisters in Song Tuesdays at 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 4:48 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1f062f02a9f343d49fe9f4e0180cce7c.pdf 39f504133bbd5d0f5d5ed1a5804c443f PDF Text Text Falala Ball this Saturday 1 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews December 18th, 2018 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Falala Ball Saturday, December 22, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for this year's 12th annual Falala Ball! Don your gay apparel (or comfortable clothing for you) and bring your friends to celebrate the holidays with great dance music from DJ Alex, plus savory hors d'oeuvres and a cash bar! 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 2 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... Admission is any of the following: Canned goods and toiletries for St. Jerome Parish Pantry Canned goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Children's Toys for Women in Recovery This year, we will hold an open-mic event with the theme “What I really want to tell my family at the holidays” in the Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater. Audience members who are amateur performers or professionals who want to perform material with the theme are welcome. The open-mic event is for performance arts such as poetry and spoken word, music, and comedy. Small groups, small bands, duos/trios and comedy duos can also participate. Williams Photography’s photo booth will be available, and we will raffle off lots of amazing prizes provided by Equality Business Alliance members. Support the businesses that support your community! New OkEq Helpline! Every Sunday, 10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (918) 743-4297 Feeling stuck? Alone? Need a supportive, listening ear? Make Sunday your self-care day with a call to the new OkEq Helpline! This new and improved helpline has affirming staff available every Sunday from 10 a.m. - 6 p.m. We are here to provide support for LGBTQ+ people dealing with many topics including coming out, substance use, feeling isolated, conflict with work or family, and many more. We aim to help you address these problems by listening, brainstorming, identifying a goal, and helping you create an action plan. As always, OKEQ can also provide LGBTQ+ affirming referrals for you to put these plans into action. All people who identify as LGBTQ+ are welcome to utilize this free service. If interested, please call us on Sunday at 918-938-6537 or 918-938-6538. 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 3 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... Let's Dream Together Vision Board Fundraiser for Dream Act Tulsa Saturday, January 5, 2:00 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK, 74120 Let's Dream Together-Sonemos Juntos is a fundraiser and vision board party benefiting DACA (Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals) recipients in need of financial assistance to pay their renewal application fees. Your $20 donation will not only help a young "Dreamer," you also will leave with a beautiful, quirky and personally meaningful work of art that will continue to inspire and motivate you in 2019 and beyond! No previous collage experience is needed! It's easy! By creating a vision board collage using images, pictures, quotes and affirmations to express your hopes, strengths and what matters most, you will be setting a powerful intention. Speaking those hopes and intentions out loud in conversations with others reinforces their value and allows you to encourage and be encouraged by others, including DACA recipients, who will share their stories of resilience in the face of uncertainty and fear for themselves and their families. A great selection of precut words and images and a colorful array of canvas boards will be provided. If you'd like to personalize your vision board, you may bring photos, mementos and you own cutouts to add to the thousands that will be supplied. Collage + Conversations = Fun and Inspiration! Donations of magazines and school supplies are also appreciated. Reserve your space here with your $20 donation or more! LGBT Women's Network January Happy Hour Monday, January 7, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Saturn Room 209 N. Boulder Ave. Tulsa, OK 74103 The January Happy Hour for the LGBT Women's Network will be hosted by Saturn Room. Mix and mingle with ladies you don't know, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. Don't forget to bring business cards to enter our door prize drawing! 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 4 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... Tulsa's Interracial Social Connections Happy Hour Friday, January 11, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 "Don't be afraid to expand yourself, to step out of your comfort zone. That's where the joy and the adventure lie." -Herbie Hancock Tulsa's Interracial Social Connections group is for anyone who is interested in enjoying a more diverse social community, in appreciation of all ethnicities, genders, ages, cultures, beliefs, abilities, sexual orientation, etc. Singles and/or couples are welcome as we explore our enlightening differences and surprising similarities. Please join us Jan. 11 th at the Equality Center for our first happy hour and get the year started by making new friends! Future events will include cultural events, social networking, live performances, community service, ethnic restaurant explorations, day trips, gallery receptions, potluck dinners, tours, travel, movie meets, business networking and much more! King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant Saturday, January 12, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 5 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, January 17, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 6 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... LGBTQ Young Adults at Angry Axe Throwing Club Friday, January 18, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Tulsa Angry Axe Throwing Club 7 N. Peoria Ave., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the OkEq Young Adults Prism Group at the Angry Axe Throwing Club! There will be a small charge to throw axes with OkEq's help to make this experience fun. Please RSVP with OkEq Program Director Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - - . The day of the event search for Jose in a beautiful purple OkEq polo shirt! If you have any questions, please text Jose at (918) 813-8993. First Pride Bingo of 2019 Saturday, January 19, 6:30 p.m. - 10:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK, 74120 ~,. T U L S A ,, p Tulsa Pride Bingo is the best bingo ever, and it always sells out, so reserve your spot now! The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Las Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo bash! @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission, includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 7 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... Trans Resource Fair Saturday, January 26, 12:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK, 74120 A day of community and wellness for Tulsa-area trans folks! Swing by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a chance to talk with medical doctors, lawyers, wellness professionals, and stylists. Pick up some new gear at the clothing swap and grab a bite to eat! For more information please contact Alex Wade at alex.wade@okeq.org . Trans Resource Day Saturday, January 26th, 2019 @ Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Trans-friendly health resources, including: - Medical doctors - Cosmetic surgeons - Therapists - Peer counselors - Massage therapists - Sexual health professionals Clothing swap + free care, fashion, style and hair advice from stylists, cosmetologists, estheticians, hair stylists, and other professionals. 2019 Wild Hearts Ball Silent Disco Friday, February 8, 7:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK, 74120 Have you heard of the newest trend sweeping festivals and concerts? It's called Silent Disco, and now you can experience one of these headphone parties right here in downtown Tulsa! You can access all the fun via your free-to-rent wireless headphones. The volume's adjustable, too, so you can control your show. Wear headphones to hear the music at this dance party, or take them off and observe the Silent Shuffle. Come celebrate the 18th annual Wild Hearts Ball Silent Disco. We will have live entertainment in the Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater and a dance floor in the Bruce Goff Event Center. A cash bar will be available, and raffle prizes will be given! 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 8 of 25 LGBTQ Leadership Program Applications Sought https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... _, ,, Il l/// Created in partnership with Oklahomans for Equality and Leadership Tulsa, the Lead Together LGBTQ Leadership Program is now accepting applications for its first class. Lead Together is the only program in Oklahoma addressing LGBTQ leadership development. LEADTffi~Tl-l~R 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 9 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... “We see persistent gaps within leadership ranks that overlook the talents of lesbians, gay men, bisexuals, transgender and queer or questioning individuals,” said Jose Vega, program director for Oklahomans for Equality. “The aim is to accelerate the careers and possibilities for qualified LGBTQ leaders by offering an exceptional learning environment and networking opportunities. “We know there are a number of outstanding LGBTQ professionals, and this is the only program of its kind in the state,” Vega said. “Its design speaks forcefully to the next generation of LGBTQ leaders who are highly motivated agents for change. “Leadership Tulsa is pleased to provide additional opportunities for leadership development in our community, and we look forward to equipping LGBTQ leaders to build their influence, build a valuable network, and develop new models and mindsets for innovation using design thinking,” added Marcia-Bruno Todd, Leadership Tulsa’s program director. “Participants will explore how their LGBTQ identity influences and strengthens their personal leadership style while learning about LGBTQ history and the national movement.” LGBTQ and ally professionals are invited to apply to this four-month program, which includes an orientation, six daylong sessions, volunteering for Tulsa Pride, and opportunities to network and explore the region with fellow class members. Applications are due by 5:00 p.m. on January 31, 2019. Click here for more information. Click here for the application. AIDS Quilt Narratives Wanted The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and Jeremy Stevens, program director of the Orbit Initiative for the Tulsa PAC, are asking anyone who knew and/or loved someone who died of AIDS to record their narratives for archival and future use. This project is for anyone affected by the AIDS crisis whose stories are connected to Tulsa. All of these stories deserve to be told. Those who are interested in having a story recorded are asked to contact Stevens at the Tulsa PAC at (918) 596-7119 or jeremystevens@cityoftulsa.org or Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org . Inclement Weather Policy In the event of inclement weather, please contact the center to confirm the program you wish to participate in will be meeting. Although the center does not close, many times program leaders choose to cancel their programs due to hazardous conditions. We will post updates on OkEq Facebook pages. 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 10 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, January 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality’s January showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Evelyn House, beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 3 rd , from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artist’s work will be awarded. Evelyn was born and raised in Oklahoma City and has immersed herself in the art scene of Oklahoma. She uses acrylics and resin to create her art on materials ranging from canvas to wood rounds and birch panels. She also uses resin to make jewelry and homewares. Evelyn has been fascinated with colors since she was young. “In my studio, I am a scientist in search of the next experimental chemical reaction to blend colors and pop open cells,” she says. “Using a resin base with mixed media creates a unique mirror-like finish. I build up multiple layers of resin to create a depth that cannot be captured by a camera.” When she is not in the studio, Evelyn takes care of three rambunctious boys, two dogs, “a mean ol’ cat and a fussy husband.” “You can find me on my porch or on a walk most evenings sipping wine and enjoying nature,” she says. “Being an artist in this world is important to me, as I want my kids to see that their dreams can come true if they work hard and have passion that cannot be put out by rejection.” The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Volunteer of the Month December 2018 Phillip Holmes Thank you for your dedication, Phillip! 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 11 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... • Lawyer in the Library Wednesday, January 9, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary. = OKLAHOMA, INC. Keep Warm Donations Needed! As we enter the winter months, Oklahomans for Equality is asking for blankets, socks, and new or gently used coats, gloves, hats, and scarves for our constituents experiencing homelessness. Please bring donations to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center front desk. 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 12 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... Thesis Research Study Please consider participating in my thesis research study examining the connection between lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) identity, community connection, and resilience! 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 13 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... This study is approved by the institutional review board at Northeastern State University and under the supervision of my thesis chair, Dr. Steven Byers. In order to be eligible for the study, you must: Be 18 years of age at the time of completion Identify as LGBTQ+ To participate in the study, please complete the survey here . The survey will take about 20 to 30 minutes to complete. You can be entered to win a $25.00 Amazon gift card if you provide an email address at the end of the survey. This study is anonymous. The only identifying information which will be collected is demographic information, and will not specifically identify you. You will be asked to provide an email at the conclusion of the survey to be entered in the raffle if you so wish, but are not required to do so. Participation in this study is voluntary. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you may close the browser window at any time. If you do not want to answer a question, you may skip any question in this survey. If you have any questions, please contact Jordan Westcott ( Westcott@nsuok.edu ) or Dr. Steven Byers ( byerss@nsuok.edu ). We hope that you choose to participate in this study and share your experience! PERSONALITY A SESSMENT I AN UNDERSERVED POPULATION WE NEED YOUR HELP!!! The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health. Additionally, the field of psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. We call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures cell us about cransgender individuals! YOU ARE ELIGIBLE IF YOU: ✓ Identify as transgender or gender nonconforming (e.g., gender nonbinary, genderqueer gender fluid, etc.) ✓ Are 18-years-old or older 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 14 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... ✓ Can read and write in English The study will take place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 4-6pm and 7-9pm every Wednesday. It involves filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and will take approximately two hours of your time. After completing the study, you will receive a $15.00 gift card. For questions or to participate. contact doctoral student researcher W illiam Bryant Email: william-br nt utulsa.ed Cell Phone: 330 322-2442 his ucted as part niv i a l P'lycholo . nt researcher· dissertation for the m. scs masculinity, affirmation, and self-conceptualization study 0 • • Join our study for trans individuals who identify on a spectrum of masculinity. AR YO BE COHPENSATED FOR YOUR TIHE Please contact projectmascseumich.edu with any questions Are you a man who is living in a non-urban area of the Midwest who is currently taking 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 15 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... We are seeking men who are --.-.-----~-~---currently taking PrEP who live in non-urban areas of the Midwest to participate in a 60-minute telephone interview about your experiences with taking PrEP and PrEP-related healthcare. Questions? Contact us at prep@:indi Are you: • 18 years of age or older • A man (cisgender or transgender) who has sex with other men • Currently taking PrEP • Currently living in the Midwest and not living in a large city http:/ /go.iu.edu /21ys Ever wonder what transgender affirmative therapy is like? Join a SIU study on text-message-based, transgender affirmative, cognitive behavioral therapy designed to help reduce the negative effects of stress! 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 16 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... Study includes: Pre-Treatment Assessment FREE - 6 weeks of Transgender Affirmative CBT Post-Treatment Assessment 3 Month Follow Up Assessment CONTACT US TODAY (312) 899-6195 textmessagetherapy@gmail.com This l]l'oject has been reviewed by the SIUC Human Subjects Committee. Questions concerning ycu- righls as a participant in his research may be addressed o the Comm ee Ch • person, Office of SponSDn!d Projec s Adnwlistra ion, SIUC, Calbondale, IL 62901-4 709. Phone: (618) 453-4533. Email: =~iW.lll;nL Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library "Annie on my Mind" Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Liza Winthrop first meets Annie Kenyon at the Metropolitan Museum of Art on a rainy day. The two become fast friends, although they come from different backgrounds. Liza is the student body president at her private school, Foster Academy, where she is studying hard to get into MIT and become an architect. She lives with her parents and younger brother in the upscale neighborhood of Brooklyn Heights , where most residents are professionals. Annie goes to a public school and lives with her parents—a bookkeeper and a cabdriver— and grandmother in a lower-income part of Manhattan. Although Annie is not sure if she will be accepted, she hopes to attend the University of California, Berkeley to develop her talent as a singer. While they have different histories and goals in life, the two girls do share a close friendship that quickly grows into love. Equality Center Pride Store 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 17 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... The OkEq Pride Store has handmade pride flag scarf and beanie sets! Come get yours today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ 5 sessions free and each session following that is only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Sara Griffey S ara Griffey is an LPC candidate under supervision. Sara specializes in LGBT+ and non-traditional relationships (i.e. kink, polyamory, etc.). She has experience working with homeless youth and individuals struggling with anxiety & trauma. She previously worked with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Sara’s office is located at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara operates on a sliding scale fee structure and can be reached at 918-928-2809 or Sara@UnityTulsa.com 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 18 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... Allison Ikley-Freeman Allison Ikley-Freeman, LPC Candidate is passionate about assisting individuals who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns and issues. Individual, youth, and adolescent counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Regularly Scheduled Programming OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, December 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members December OkEq Art Exhibition The December Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features an exhibit of works by Virginia Sitzes . It continues throughout the month. It's Complicated Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 19 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGAL A10 thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library January 9 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. "It's Complicated" is an ongoing group for individuals in nontraditional relationships (kink, polyamory, swinging, etc.) This group meets every 1st and 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30-8pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Each session will have a new topic. For topic information, please like Unity Tulsa’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ UnityTulsa or check the OkEq event calendar at http://www.okeq.org/ event-calendar.html . Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Facilitated by Allison Ikley-Freeman. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org --- --or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 20 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Sa~e Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Lambda AlAnon Group Every Friday 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 21 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... individuals. people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. ~~ ' .('-:-, Tulsa Writers, Ink. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center :,._' / ~ :- 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. This open Al-Anon group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. Contact 918.743.2754 for more information. Tulsa Writers, Ink. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Children/Siblings of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group This program is for youth ages 8-18 that have trans* parents or siblings. This group will provide support, education and social opportunities for those living with trans* family Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 22 of 25 members. Attendees must have approval from the facilitator to participate. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... siawso.org Art for the Heart: An all Inclusive Arts Program Sundays @ 1:00 p.m. Inclusion for People with Developmental Disabilities Saturdays @ 1:00 p.m. Individuals with developmental disabilities are frequently marginalized and excluded from society at large, and this is no less true within the LGBTQ community. This group’s focus will be to help individuals create stronger community connections through building communication and social skills, as well as learning to respect social boundaries and norms. Members will agree upon no more than three outcomes for social development per individual. Members will work on practicing target behaviors while engaging in events within and without the Equality Center. Group sessions Partners of Trans*/NonBinary Individuals Support Group The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals. Ages 18+. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact Amanda at 918-902-4625. LGBTQ+ History: Interviewees Wanted By appointment Do you feel like you have something to say about your life as an LGBTQ+ individual? Recording the history of the LGBTQ+ community is currently a feature of programming at the Equality Center. This program is designed to supplement and further complete our collective history by interviewing participants to further Art is more than just pictures on the wall. Art helps people express themselves, find happiness, and it can help with mobility and dexterity. Art classes foster connections between individuals and helps reduce isolation many people experience. Please join us in making our community a more beautiful, meaningful place through the enrichment of art. Subjects will be elected by members from a range of topics including: glass fusing and jewelry making, mosaics, basket weaving, finger weaving, ceramics, acrylic painting, and quilting. This group is all inclusive, and encourages individuals from all age groups to come together for weekly sessions on Sundays @ 1pm. 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 23 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... will last approximately 2.5 hours, occurring each Saturday @ 1pm. investigate past and present features of LGBTQ+ life and identity. Interviewees will sit down face to face and be asked a series of questions in regards to their person lives and experiences. All information gathered will be added to the existing archive. Please contact Ely at burgesej@nsuok.edu to set up your appointment. Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 24 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Jose Vega Program Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer, Pride Store, and Transgender Programming Coordinator Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Alex.Wade@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Marcia Keesee, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Sheena Grewal, At Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes Board of Directors Jan Baldwin Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Allison Ikley-Freeman Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter Will Vaughn 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Falala Ball this Saturday 25 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Falala-Ball-this-Saturday.html?so... Visit our website View our events Contact us today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. 621 East Fourth Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 o• 4/24/26, 4:49 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5ca8e019964c924678f8c695a6f26e77.pdf 945f7a9b9677dde5d94a9f1ee0ec01d6 PDF Text Text Happy Holidays! 1 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-.html?soid=110... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews December 22nd, 2018 MISSION: OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Oklahomans or Equa Happy Holidays 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Happy Holidays! 2 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-.html?soid=110... 2018 Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive, and Welcoming Faith Communities Kwanzaa - Habari Gani December 26 - January 1 Kwanzaa is a week-long celebration held in the United States and in other nations of the Western African diaspora in the Americas. The celebration honors African heritage in AfricanAmerican culture, and is observed from December 26 to January 1, culminating in a feast and gift-giving. Kwanzaa has seven core principles (Nguzo Saba). It was created by Maulana Karenga and was first celebrated in 1966-67. Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec. 24 Christmas Eve Candlelight Service: 4:30 p.m. - 5:30 p.m, 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m., 7:30 p.m. 8:30 p.m. Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec. 24 Christmas Eve Candlelight Communion: 5:00 p.m. Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec. 24 Service of the Bells: 2:00 p.m. Christmas Eve Service w/ Tableau: 5:00 p.m. Christmas Eve Service w/ Holy Communion: 11:00 p.m. Centenary United Methodist Church 631 N Denver Ave. Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec. 24 Candlelight Communion Service: 6:30 p.m. Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave. Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec. 24 Christmas Eve Service: 12:00 p.m. - 1:00 p.m., 5:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m., 9:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. College Hill Presbyterian Church 712 South Columbia Ave. 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Happy Holidays! 3 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-.html?soid=110... Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec. 24 Candlelight Service: 6:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Ave. Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec. 23 Morning Worship & Children's Service: 11:00 a.m. Eastside Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 Dec. 24 Christmas Eve Candlelight and Communion: 6:00 p.m. The Episcopal Church of the Redeemer 213 N. Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74446 Dec. 24 Christmas Eve Service: 6:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Ha rvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec. 24 Carols and Candlelight Communion: 5:00 p.m. Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec. 24 Christmas Eve Services: 4:00 p.m., 6:00 p.m., 8:00 p.m. First Christian Church 913 S Boulder Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec. 24 Christmas Eve Service: 5:00 p.m. First Lutheran Church 1244 S. Utica Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec. 24 Worship and Communion: 6:00 p.m. Forest Park Christian Church 9102 S Mingo Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec. 24 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Happy Holidays! 4 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-.html?soid=110... Christmas Eve Service: 6:00 p.m. Good Shepherd Episcopal Church 1420 E Dewey Sapulpa, OK 74066 Dec. 24 Christmas Eve Service: 6:00 p.m. Hope Unitarian 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec. 24 Christmas Eve Candlelight Service: 6:00 p.m. Joy Lutheran Church 9940 S. Yale Avenue Tulsa , OK 74137 Dec. 24 Christmas Eve Service: 5:00 p.m., 7:00 p.m. Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King St. Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec. 24 Christmas Eve Coco Service: 9:00 p.m. Christmas Eve Mass: 10:00 p.m. St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st St. Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec. 23 Hanging of the Greens and Las Posadas: 6:00 p.m. Dec. 24 Christmas Eve Services: 5:00 p.m., 9:30 p.m. St. Patrick's Episcopal Church 4250 W Houston St. Broken Arrow, OK 74012 Christmas Eve Service: 5:00 p.m., 10:00 p.m. St Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 South Quaker Ave. (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec. 24 Christmas Eve Candlelight Service: 6:00 p.m. Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Ave. Tulsa, OK 74103 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Happy Holidays! 5 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-.html?soid=110... Dec. 24 Christmas Eve Pageant and Holy Eucharist: 5:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m Christmas Eve Holy Eucharist with Choir and Brass: 8:30 p.m. - 9:30 p.m. Christmas Eve Holy Eucharist with Choir and Brass: 11:00 p.m. - 12:00 a.m. Dec. 25 Christmas Day Holy Eucharist: 10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m. Unity Center of Tulsa 1830 South Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec. 24 Christmas Eve Service: 5:00 p.m. Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec. 23 Unity Holiday Service: 10:30 a.m. - 11:30 a.m. University United Methodist Church 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24 Candlelight, Carols, & Communion: 6:00 p.m. New OkEq Helpline! Every Sunday, 10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (918) 743-4297 Feeling stuck? Alone? Need a supportive, listening ear? Make Sunday your self-care day with a call to the new OkEq Helpline! This new and improved helpline has affirming staff available every Sunday from 10 a.m. - 6 p.m. We are here to provide support for LGBTQ+ people dealing with many topics including coming out, substance use, feeling isolated, conflict with work or family, and many more. We aim to help you address these problems by listening, brainstorming, identifying a goal, and helping you create an action plan. As always, OKEQ can also provide LGBTQ+ affirming referrals for you to put these plans into action. All people who identify as LGBTQ+ are welcome to utilize this free service. If interested, please call us on Sunday at 918-938-6537 or 918-938-6538. Let's Dream Together Vision Board Fundraiser for Dream 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Happy Holidays! 6 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-.html?soid=110... Act Tulsa Saturday, January 5, 2:00 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Let's Dream Together-Sonemos Juntos is a fundraiser and vision board party benefiting DACA (Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals) recipients in need of financial assistance to pay their renewal application fees. Your $20 donation will not only help a young "Dreamer," you also will leave with a beautiful, quirky and personally meaningful work of art that will continue to inspire and motivate you in 2019 and beyond! No previous collage experience is needed! It's easy! By creating a vision board collage using images, pictures, quotes and affirmations to express your hopes, strengths and what matters most, you will be setting a powerful intention. Speaking those hopes and intentions out loud in conversations with others reinforces their value and allows you to encourage and be encouraged by others, including DACA recipients, who will share their stories of resilience in the face of uncertainty and fear for themselves and their families. A great selection of precut words and images and a colorful array of canvas boards will be provided. If you'd like to personalize your vision board, you may bring photos, mementos and you own cutouts to add to the thousands that will be supplied. Collage + Conversations = Fun and Inspiration! Donations of magazines and school supplies are also appreciated. Reserve your space here with your $20 donation or more! LGBT Women's Network January Happy Hour Monday, January 7, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Saturn Room 209 N. Boulder Ave. Tulsa, OK 74103 The January Happy Hour for the LGBT Women's Network will be hosted by Saturn Room. Mix and mingle with ladies you don't know, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. Don't forget to bring business cards to enter our door prize drawing! MEET LIKE-MINDED TULSA WOMEN & BUILD YOUR NETWORK \ 4/24/26, 4:49 PM �Happy Holidays! 7 of 28 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Holidays-.html?soid=110... Tulsa's Interracial Social Connections Happy Hour Friday, January 11, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 "Don't be afraid to expand yourself, to step out of your comfort zone. That's where the joy and the adventure lie." -Herbie Hancock Tulsa's Interracial Social Connections group is for anyone who is interested in enjoying a more diverse social community, in appreciation of all ethnicities, genders, ages, cultures, beliefs, abilities, sexual orientation, etc. Singles and/or couples are welcome as we explore our enlightening differences and surprising similarities. Please join us Jan. 11 th at the Equality Center for our first happy hour and get the year started by making new friends! Future events will include cultural events, social networking, live performances, community service, ethnic restaurant explorations, day trips, gallery receptions, potluck dinners, tours, travel, movie meets, business networking and much more! King & Queen of Tulsa Pride Pageant Saturday, January 12, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:49 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7c73e059dedb9155a70edcf2b54a9c34.pdf ac3be40ad12ed2a671cbe4e74dee1e18 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 29th, 2018 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2018.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e March 29th, 2018 oklohomons for equolity In This Issue news Kelly Kirby CPA Dreaming of buying a home? 2018 Turn-About Show LGBT Women's Network April Happy Hour Guys Dine Too LGBTQ Veterans Support and Entertainment First Thursday Art Show Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group PafllOll Rental Properf:y Bookke No Shade for Plus Foster Care and Adoption Information Event Cityscape Home Mortgage EBA Mixer 2018 Equality Gala Art call for (even) MOREColor 2018 Compassionate Communication Workshop "Self Love". Pride Bingo Super Hero Night TMSL 2018 Spring Schedule TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Let us help you file your 2017tax returns! Pride Store Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Amazon Smile Dissertation Study - Sexual Behaviors in MSM I.C.A.O. Coronation XI Kelly Kirby CPA Miss Jolt 2018 Jolt - Jackpot Golf Classic Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 Amazon Smile 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Shop Now admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com amazons ....._,..., mile You shop. Amazon gives. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, April 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center eatu rLll\,g n~bo~ea ux: ne ax r nerap!::j Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Dreaming of buying a home? Saturday, March 31, 11:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Jini Kim, in a show titled "My Rat Problem, Continued." Jini Kim is an artist from Tulsa who received her Bachelor of Fine Arts in Painting and Drawing in 2014 and is working toward her Master of Fine Arts in 2018. Her paintings are widely collected. Her current body of work combines painting and printmaking on topics of feminism, modern Orientalism and toxic masculinity. The show continues throughout the 4/24/26, 4:20 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2018 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2018.... Come have lunch with us and learn about buying a home. We will cover information for First Time Home Buyers and those looking to learn what has changed since your last purchase. We will focus on several programs that are available in the Tulsa and surrounding areas. Meet a team who is willing to work with you whether you qualify today or have work to get there. month. FHA - Rural Development - Native American 184 - VA - Self Employed Borrower Please bring the following information to start the loan application process: * Driver License * Last 2 check stubs * Last 2 months banks statements * Last 2 years Tax returns & W-2's Please RSVP to Chandra Hall at 918-645-3101 or chandra.hall@kw.com Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact jose.vega@okeq.org Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. LGBT Women's Network April Happy Hour Monday, April 2, 5:00 p.m. R Bar & Grill - Tulsa 3421 S. Peoria Ave., Tulsa, OK 74105 Please join us for our first monthly happy hour, sponsored by Physiques by Monique Indoor Cycling & Personal Training Studio! Come mix and mingle with ladies you might not meet otherwise, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. We'll have light appetizers and be sure to bring business cards to be entered into a drawing for a gift from our monthly sponsor! Each month, our happy hour will be hosted at a different bar in Tulsa and sponsored by a lesbian/ bisexual-owned or LGBT-friendly business. Join us on the first Monday of every month from 5 to 7 p.m. No RSVP is required. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, April 3rd, 6:30 p.m. Burn Co. BBQ 500 S. Riverwalk Crossing, Suite 135 Jenks, OK 74037 This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op We are eating at the Jenks location . Cost is $25 per person plus alcohol. EVERYONE MUST RSVP BY FRIDAY MARCH 30TH to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com Adam is opening his restaurant just for our group so make sure to treat his staff very well. Visit Burn Co. BBQ Online - We have always loved cooking and enjoyed the primal fulfillment of doing it over wood fire. Adam Myers experience at Tulsa based Hasty Bake Charcoal Grills, combined with Robby Corcoran's decade plus experience in the restaurant industry comes together to create a truly distinctive flavor.After successful endeavors as caterers, Burn Co BBQ was launched in January of 2011. Utilizing utilitarian décor and amenities, Burn Co focuses on the food, crafting a " one of a kind", Backyard BBQ Flavor. 4/24/26, 4:20 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2018 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2018.... We cut our coleslaw by hand, trim and smoke our meats daily, and relish the finest bits and pieces of all meats. We offer local products when possible, and are always trying to figure out how to shock and wow our customers with exclusive specials. LGBTQ Veterans Support and Entertainment First & Third Tuesday of each month Next meeting Tuesday, April 3, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 First Thursday Art Show - Jared Boyd "Every Reason to Feel" Thursday April 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Jared Boyd, in a show titled " Every Reason to Feel" , beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Jared speaks of his work: My art is my response to the environment around me. I create from intuitive and thoughtful design. The sources of my inspiration are many and include emotions, thoughts, meditations, music, nature, and life. I utilize a variety of mediums including acrylic paint, graphite, charcoal, gesso, and oil pastels. My process is to create many layers on the canvas as to reveal the history of the piece. My intent is for the layers to illustrate a journey on the canvas that is both visually appealing and deeply meaningful. It's my belief that art brings great meaning to life. It's my hope that others can find great meaning in art as well. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. The name of my show is "Every Reason to Feel" highlighting the importance of walking healthfully through various seasons of life. This collection has deep meaning for me and is reminiscent of a journey through seasons that have been both joyful and painful. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 5, from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artist's work will be drawn. The show continues throughout the month www.okeq.org Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group First & Third Thursday of every month Next Meeting April 5, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library April 11 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Tulsa Indigenous \ \ I //; .......... .,,,,,,,,,... & First Nation Support Group Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. -- - ~- - 4/24/26, 4:20 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2018 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2018.... Indian or Indian at Heart ............ _,,.,,,,,,,,,, I/ / f \ \ First and Third Thursday of every month Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 choatek@nsuok.edu 7pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center No Shade for Plus Every Thursday starting in April Next meeting April 5, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Stephanie Miller Stephanie is a counseling intern at Northeastern State University. She is passionate about working with diverse families and clients, now expanding to the LGBTQ+ community and allies. Stephanie has experience with families, children and adolescents. She believes in helping the client identify and achieve their goals through a holistic approach. Contact Stephanie at tatom@nsuok.edu to make an appointment. All sessions are free and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m. on Wednesdays or 12:30 and 4:30 p.m. on Saturdays. OSU Tulsa Counseling Center Foster Care and Adoption Information Event Saturday, April 7, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . 4/24/26, 4:20 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2018 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2018.... Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 EBA Mixer Wednesday, April 18, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Twenty Twenty Eyecare 7408 S. Yale Ave., Tulsa OK 74136 OUR PURPOSE To preserve freedom and vitality of the individual spirit, by safeguarding the faculty of sight. OUR MISSION We will fervently campaign to educate and motivate the citizens of our community to adopt a more conscientious approach to their own eye health. By providing our patients with the right knowledge, we empower them to make proactive decisions that will result in a higher standard of living. Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a 4/24/26, 4:20 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/829b8852800e6ce1febb85f03edd0284.pdf db95a06d08d4685a371f12170e53fb61 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 10th, 2018 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2018... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews January 10th, 2018 okl:ihom:ins for equality In This Issue news Free Yoga Class OkEq Survey Queer POC Happy Hour Road to the Crown March with OKEQ in the MLK parade OkEq wants your opinion New Women Self-Defense Training January EBA Mixer Oklahomans for Equality wants to start off 2018 with a resolution to our community. We are researching whether we are meeting all the needs of our community and identifying possible gaps where we can improve. Please take 1-2 minutes to complete this fivequestion survey so every voice can be heard. Begin Survey CALL ME BY YOUR NAME Pride Movie Night Voice your opinion, speak out Pipeline to Politics 2018 Wine Down Wednesday "First Thursday" Art Opening Resume Building and Interview skills w/ Workforce Tulsa Wild Hearts Ball OkEq Rainbow Wedding Show Free Yoga Class Wednesday, January 10, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Enjoy a free yoga class! These 60-minute, free community yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, back-bend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body and spirit through movement and breath. Please email any questions to Jose.Vega@okeq.org Spectrums of Love Telling Our Stories - Falling in Love Amazon Smile No Shade for Plus TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Pride Store Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Face Off Empress Ball X Wake Up Tulsa Queer POC Happy Hour Thursday, January 11, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Let's gather. Let's celebrate! Nothing formal, nothing fancy, no agenda. Let socialize, share experiences and celebrate the new year - and always support. Everyone is welcome. Amazon Smile Shop Now Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! amazons ....._,, mile You shop. Amazon gives. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, January 18 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center STARCHASER PRODUCTIOns PRESEnTS ROAD TO THE CROWTI A benefrt for the courts of Oklahoma USofA Ml Ml Classic and Diva Route 66 USofA Ml Ml Classic and Diva Out tand·ng performances All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition The January Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Nan McDowell. Nan was born in 1940 and grew up in Quincy, Mass. As a self-taught artist, her painting was a welcome escape while pursuing careers in health care and education. She currently divides her time between Colorado and Oklahoma. Nan's first art workshop with Ardith Goodwin was a week before her first solo show in 2015. The techniques learned in that workshop have forever changed her approach to painting. Conveying emotion through painting remains at the center of 4/24/26, 4:13 PM �OkEq eNews January 10th, 2018 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2018... her work. The last three years Nan has immersed herself in exploring her artistic framework. What has emerged is a love of depicting women in various states of emotion and emotions surrounding homelessness. Liue band The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips January 13, 2018 at 7pm Tickets $10 at the door Black Box Theater Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th Tulsa, OK Tickets, auction, and tips help send the courts to Nationals Adult Bevcro3es and snacks benct,i Oklo/10nwns for Equality March with OkEq in the MLK parade Monday, January 15, 9:30 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us in the MLK parade as we march with our giant rainbow flag to show support, unity and solidarity. Meet us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to carpool to the parade start, or meet us at the starting line. Women's Self-Defense Training Monday, January 15 at 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op Registration is open for the next free women's 7-week self-defense training session. This training requires a commitment to all seven classes; the time allows you to build muscle memory so that you can effectively use these life-saving self-defense skills. Classes will be held every other Monday starting at 7 p.m. Transwomen are welcome! For more information, contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org 4/24/26, 4:13 PM �OkEq eNews January 10th, 2018 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2018... EBA Mixer Wednesday, January 17th, 6:00 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E. Second St., Tulsa, OK 74103 Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of downtown Tulsa's vibrant business, entertainment, and cultural districts. Our hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, our luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and more than 50 restaurants and bars. Visit Hyatt Regency Tulsa Online 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 You can join the EBA online, at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. E Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. UALITY Business Alliance The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. CALL ME BY YOUR NAME Pride Movie Night Friday, January 19, 6:00 p.m. Reception, 7:20 p.m. Film Screening Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74104 OkEq is hosting a reception at the the premier of one of the most highly acclaimed films of the year, "CALL ME BY YOUR NAME." In northern Italy in 1983, 17-year-old Elio begins a relationship with visiting Oliver, his father's research assistant, with whom he bonds over his emerging sexuality, their Jewish heritage, and the beguiling Italian landscape. The film stars Armie Hammer and was written by James Ivory. Lawyer in the Library Click Here to purchase tickets January 10 February 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Pipeline to Politics 2018 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Saturday, January 27, 8:30 a.m. Girl Scouts Western Oklahoma 6100 N. Robinson Ave., Oklahoma City, OK 73118 Join us for this timely event as we work to increase the visibility of women in important leadership and decision-making roles. The Oklahoma Women's Coalition and the Carl Albert Congressional Research and Studies Center's Women's Leadership Initiative at the University of Oklahoma will present Pipeline to Politics for women interested in public service and politics. Pipeline to Politics will be held from 8:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. on Saturday, Jan. 27, at the Girl Scouts of Western Oklahoma headquarters. A reception for participants and elected officials will be held from 5 to 6:30 p.m. the night before. Counseling Services Pipeline to I Politics . . _.,? Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/24/26, 4:13 PM �OkEq eNews January 10th, 2018 4 of 12 Registration costs $75, and the event is open to women across the state. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2018... - - - - Cl= = = = =~ .... Wine Down Wednesday Wednesday, January 31, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you enjoy wine, meeting new people and hearing inspiring leadership content? Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 'Wine Down Wednesday!' is a social group that combines short 'TED-style' presentation! We drink wine while hearing motivational/expert speakers present their leadership expertise for 15-20 minutes (6:15pm-7:45pm). Before, in between, and following the speaker, we enjoy wine and talk about our month! Our events occur the last Wednesday of the month and topics always vary! If there's a certain topic you'd like to hear or a speaker recommendation, let us know! Don't miss out on a great social and leadership opportunity that will improve your life, productivity, and relationships! Come 'Wine Down!' Any questions please contact Jose.vega@okeq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center "First Thursday" Art Opening Robin Green Tilly - "Your Right Brain On Glass" Thursday, February 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Robin Green Tilly, in a show titled "Your Right Brain On Glass," beginning with a reception on Thursday, Feb. 1 from 6 to 9 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. A door prize of the artist's work will be given at the reception. Robin Green Tilly never resists a call from the muse. A true renaissance woman, she is a warm fused glass artisan, creative life coach, published author and poet, experienced public speaker, marketing expert, community volunteer and established glass artisan. Whew! Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . She spent 20 years honing her marketing expertise first as an advertising executive, working in print, electronic, and video mediums for major national and local clients. Robin moved from the business-to-business advertising and marketing sector and met the challenge of fundraising for Tulsa YWCA. Ready for a new challenge, she left the traditional job environment to follow her passion and become a creative entrepreneur. Passionate about art, Robin is a recognized warm glass artisan with work appearing in galleries and invitational art shows. Her work ranges from jewelry to dinnerware, wall sconces to table lamps. Seldom is 'not possible' the response when Robin puts imagination to glass. She has been honored to be a part of Philbrook Festival of Trees, the Brady Craft Alliance show and Visionmakers. She has also sold her work in MOREcolor, Oh, Tulsa! plus Champagne and Chocolate. She was the featured artist for the 2016 Spokeasy fundraising event to benefit HUB and was a part of the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's 40th Anniversary Celebration with a 12-piece installation titled "At the Center of Performing Arts." Robin's OkEq exhibit will share the stage with singer/songwriter and musician Jim Tilly. He will provide the musical experience for the exhibit, which explores the power of the creative right brain to create calm and peace. Today, Robin lives with the musically talented and gifted Jim Tilly, who is also an attorney in private practice. They both enjoy exploring creativity through music, singing, warm fused glass, writing, coaching and teaching. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, February 1st from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Resume Building and Interview skills w/ Workforce Tulsa Thursday, February 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center along with Workforce Tulsa for a free tips and tricks resume and interview skills. Bring your resume to polish and have it reviewed by hiring experts. Come learn the Do's and Don'ts in the interview process. Absolutely free. Wild Hearts Ball Saturday, February 3, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for the 17th Annual Wild Hearts Ball Free Admission Live entertainment by Tulsa's top Queens and Kings DJ Alex Cash Bar Dancing Play your cards right and you might find love! ■ ■,1~,1"' ■ ■-■■:■: ■ ~ .-- ■ ■ •• Wild Hearts Ball ~ ■ Q. Feb. 3rd 201a ❖ Free Admission • Kings & Queens of Hearts ■ ■ ■■■■■■■-- Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern 4/24/26, 4:13 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fcc8058d9214d7dcdba0a5fc099a9722.pdf 8c8de313b1fd78562f949ebc9bdf64ee PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 17th, 2018 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2018... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e Spectrums of Love January 17th, 2018 okl:ihom:ins for equality news In This Issue Spectrums of Love OkEq Survey January EBA Mixer CALL ME BY YOUR NAME Pride Movie Night Brought to You Bi the Letter B Pipeline to Politics 2018 Saturday, February 10, 6:00 p.m. Opening reception, 6:30 p.m. Dinner, 7:30 p.m. Show Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Wine Down Wednesday "First Thursday" Art Opening Opening Night Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater Spectrums of Love Fundraiser for Black Box Theater. Resume Building and Interview skills w/ Workforce Tulsa Wild Hearts Ball OkEq Rainbow Wedding Show A cabaret of live entertainment featuring Tulsa's top performers in the LGBTQ community: Jenna Davis Charles Davis Morgan Allen Pete Brennan Nash McQuarters Rebecca Ungerman Barry Hensley & Terry Baxter John Orsulak & Pat Hobbs James Gregory on keys Telling Our Stories - Falling in Love Del Shores- 6 Characters In Search Of A Play Amazon Smile No Shade for Plus TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Pride Store Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Face Off Produced by Pat Hobbs Written by Morgan Allen Empress Ball X Wake Up Tulsa $125.00 Opening reception at 6:00 p.m., Seat for the show, Dinner, Dessert,Champagne and open bar. Dinner served at 6:30 , Show begins at 7:30 p.m. $60.00 Seat for the show, Dessert, Champagne and cash bar Seating prior to the show which begins at 7:30 p.m. $1,000 Table for 8 includes premiere seating for the show and O pening reception and appetizers at 6:00 pm , Premiere table seating for the show, Dinner, Dessert, Champagne and o pen bar. Dinner served at 6:30 , Show begins at 7:30 p.m. OkEq wants your opinion Amazon Smile Oklahomans for Equality wants to start off 2018 with a resolution to our community. We are researching whether we are meeting all the needs of our community and identifying possible gaps where we can improve. Please take 1-2 minutes to complete this fivequestion survey so every voice can be heard. Shop Now Voice your opinion, speak out Begin Survey Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! amazons ....._,, mi le You shop. Amazon gives. EBA Mixer Wednesday, January 17th, 6:00 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E. Second St., Tulsa, OK 74103 OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, January 18 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of downtown Tulsa's vibrant business, entertainment, and cultural districts. Our hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, our luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and more than 50 restaurants and bars. Visit Hyatt Regency Tulsa Online You can join the EBA online, at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition The January Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Nan McDowell. Nan was born in 1940 and grew up in Quincy, Mass. As a self-taught artist, her painting was a welcome escape while pursuing careers in health care and education. She currently divides her time between Colorado and Oklahoma. Nan's first art workshop with Ardith Goodwin was a week before her first solo show in 2015. The techniques learned in that workshop have forever changed her approach to painting. Conveying emotion through painting remains at the center of her work. The last three years Nan has immersed herself in exploring her artistic framework. What has emerged is a love of depicting women in various states of emotion and emotions surrounding 4/24/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2018 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2018... homelessness. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org E ALITY Business Alliance Family Ties The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. CALL ME BY YOUR NAME Pride Movie Night Friday, January 19, 6:00 p.m. Reception, 7:20 p.m. Film Screening Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74104 Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips OkEq is hosting a reception at the the premier of one of the most highly acclaimed films of the year, "CALL ME BY YOUR NAME." In northern Italy in 1983, 17-year-old Elio begins a relationship with visiting Oliver, his father's research assistant, with whom he bonds over his emerging sexuality, their Jewish heritage, and the beguiling Italian landscape. The film stars Armie Hammer and was written by James Ivory. Click Here to purchase tickets 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. S.A.G.E. Meeting Canceled for This Week Only This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Tuesday, January 23 Brought to You Bi the Letter B Thursday, January 25 at 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We meet the 2nd Tuesday and 4th Thursday of the month! Rainbow Library. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Facilitators Daniel & Haley For more information please contact the Jose at 918-743-4297 or Jose.vega@okeq.org Pipeline to Politics 2018 Saturday, January 27, 8:30 a.m. Girl Scouts Western Oklahoma 6100 N. Robinson Ave., Oklahoma City, OK 73118 Join us for this timely event as we work to increase the visibility of women in important leadership and decision-making roles. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op The Oklahoma Women's Coalition and the Carl Albert Congressional Research and Studies Center's Women's Leadership Initiative at the University of Oklahoma will present Pipeline to Politics for women interested in public service and politics. to Pipeline to Politics will be held from 8:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. on Saturday, Jan. 27, at the Girl Scouts of Western Oklahoma headquarters. A reception for participants and elected officials will be held from 5 to 6:30 p.m. the night before. Poli Registration costs $75, and the event is open to women across the state. Wine Down Wednesday Wednesday, January 31, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you enjoy wine, meeting new people and hearing inspiring leadership content? 'Wine Down Wednesday!' is a social group that combines short 'TED-style' presentation! We drink I •. Ill , ll[ ni llfll 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 4/24/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2018 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2018... wine while hearing motivational/expert speakers present their leadership expertise for 15-20 minutes (6:15pm-7:45pm). Before, in between, and following the speaker, we enjoy wine and talk about our month! Our events occur the last Wednesday of the month and topics always vary! If there's a certain topic you'd like to hear or a speaker recommendation, let us know! Don't miss out on a great social and leadership opportunity that will improve your life, productivity, and relationships! Come 'Wine Down!' Any questions please contact Jose.vega@okeq.org "First Thursday" Art Opening Robin Green Tilly - "Your Right Brain On Glass" Thursday, February 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Robin Green Tilly, in a show titled "Your Right Brain On Glass," beginning with a reception on Thursday, Feb. 1 from 6 to 9 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. A door prize of the artist's work will be given at the reception. Robin Green Tilly never resists a call from the muse. A true renaissance woman, she is a warm fused glass artisan, creative life coach, published author and poet, experienced public speaker, marketing expert, community volunteer and established glass artisan. Whew! She spent 20 years honing her marketing expertise first as an advertising executive, working in print, electronic, and video mediums for major national and local clients. Robin moved from the business-to-business advertising and marketing sector and met the challenge of fundraising for Tulsa YWCA. Ready for a new challenge, she left the traditional job environment to follow her passion and become a creative entrepreneur. Passionate about art, Robin is a recognized warm glass artisan with work appearing in galleries and invitational art shows. Her work ranges from jewelry to dinnerware, wall sconces to table lamps. Seldom is 'not possible' the response when Robin puts imagination to glass. She has been honored to be a part of Philbrook Festival of Trees, the Brady Craft Alliance show and Visionmakers. She has also sold her work in MOREcolor, Oh, Tulsa! plus Champagne and Chocolate. She was the featured artist for the 2016 Spokeasy fundraising event to benefit HUB and was a part of the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's 40th Anniversary Celebration with a 12-piece installation titled "At the Center of Performing Arts." 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Robin's OkEq exhibit will share the stage with singer/songwriter and musician Jim Tilly. He will provide the musical experience for the exhibit, which explores the power of the creative right brain to create calm and peace. Today, Robin lives with the musically talented and gifted Jim Tilly, who is also an attorney in private practice. They both enjoy exploring creativity through music, singing, warm fused glass, writing, coaching and teaching. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, February 1st from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Resume Building and Interview Skills with Workforce Tulsa Thursday, February 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center along with Workforce Tulsa for a session on tips and tricks for your resume and interview skills. Bring your resume to polish and have it reviewed by hiring experts. Come learn the do's and don'ts in the interview process. It's free! Lawyer in the Library February 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Wild Hearts Ball Saturday, February 3, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. 4/24/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2018 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2018... Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Join us for the 17th Annual Wild Hearts Ball Free Admission Live entertainment by Tulsa's top Queens and Kings DJ Alex Cash Bar Dancing Play your cards right and you might find love! OSU Tulsa Counseling Center ■ ■ ■ Wild Hearts Ball ¥ Feb. 3rd 2018 Free Admission • Kings & Queens of Hearts Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . OkEq Rainbow Wedding Show Saturday, February 3, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to join us for our first OkEq Rainbow Wedding Show. Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you would like to be a vendor at the show, please email Jose Vega jose.vega@okeq.org ---- OKEQ Rainbow Wedding Show Saturday, Febuary 3rd 12pm-4pm Dennis R. eill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Tulsa OK 74120 Telling Our Stories - Falling in Love Monday, February 12, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74135 Join Oklahomans for Equality for a night of storytelling, with our new series: Telling Our Stories. Oral Storytelling has been a vital part of keeping the LGBTQ community and their stories alive. This series will explore different aspects of life and experience. Each night will have a specific theme and will include TRUE stories of those within the community. Each selected participant will tell their experience pertaining to the theme, a 5-7 minute format. Participants can use a script if needed. The first theme is: FALLING IN LOVE. If you are interested in telling your story around this topic, please email Amanda Lowe at aclowe@okstate.edu with a brief synopsis of your story. Spots are limited, so don't delay! Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. 4/24/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2018 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2018... Del Shores- 6 Characters In Search Of A Play Saturday, February 17th, 8:00 pm Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sordid Lives creator Del Shores' new one-man show, directed by Emerson Collins, proves once and for all that he is not a writer, he's a self-proclaimed thief! In "Six Characters In Search Of A Play", riffing on Pirandello's classic title, Shores brings to life six one-of-a-kind characters he has met in real life that haven't quite made it into one of his plays, films or TV shows. In 90 minutes, the audience will hear the truth behind how he collected these eccentrics and their stories as he portrays his hilarious, off-the-rails encounters with them. The audience will meet "Yvonne", the anti-vegetarian Dallas waitress; "Sarah", a Trump-hating elderly actress with an inhaler in one hand and a cigarette in the other; "Jimmy Ray", the evolving, Magic Mike-loving latent Georgia redneck; "Loraine", the once-brilliant drama teacher who has lost her damn mind and is now obsessed with porn; "Marsha", the monkey-hating lesbian with COPD; and "Aunt Bobby Sue", the racist Republican with a heart of gold. Click here to purchase tickets. Amazon Smile Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Amazon Smile Link amazons~·le '~_,;, You shop. Amazon gives. No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center 4/24/26, 4:14 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6cbcaf7eb0559923595e7066f85110ff.pdf 2e0e9de4ae1159fe657db4b15527e850 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 24th, 2018 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2018... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews January 24th, 2018 okl:ihom:ins for equality news In This Issue Spectrums of Love Tax Receipts OkEq Survey Brought to You Bi the Letter B Pipeline to Politics 2018 Spectrums of Love Wine Down Wednesday Saturday, February 10: Opening reception, 6 p.m.; dinner, 6:30 p.m.; show, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 "First Thursday" Art Opening Council Oak Men's Chorale Opening Night Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater Spectrums of Love Fundraiser for Black Box Theater. Resume Building and Interview skills w/ Workforce Tulsa Wild Hearts Ball OkEq Rainbow Wedding Show A cabaret of live entertainment featuring Tulsa's top performers in the LGBTQ community: Jenna Davis Charles Davis Morgan Allen Pete Brennan Nash McQuarters Rebecca Ungerman Barry Hensley & Terry Baxter John Orsulak & Pat Hobbs James Gregory on keys Telling Our Stories - Falling in Love Del Shores- 6 Characters In Search Of A Play February EBA Mixer No Shade for Plus TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Pride Store Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Empress Ball X Produced by Pat Hobbs Written by Morgan Allen Amazon Smile Wake Up Tulsa $125.00 Opening reception at 6:00 p.m., Seat for the show, Dinner, Dessert,Champagne and open bar. Dinner served at 6:30 , Show begins at 7:30 p.m. $60.00 Seat for the show, Dessert, Champagne and cash bar Seating prior to the show which begins at 7:30 p.m. $1,000 Table for 8 includes premiere seating for the show and O pening reception and appetizers at 6:00 pm , Premiere table seating for the show, Dinner, Dessert, Champagne and o pen bar. Dinner served at 6:30 , Show begins at 7:30 p.m. Amazon Smile Shop Now Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2017 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@okeq.org amazons ....._,, mi le You shop. Amazon gives. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, February 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq wants your opinion Oklahomans for Equality wants to start off 2018 with a resolution to our community. We are researching whether we are meeting all the needs of our community and identifying possible gaps where we can improve. Please take 1-2 minutes to complete this fivequestion survey so every voice can be heard. Begin Survey Brought to You Bi the Letter B Thursday, January 25 at 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This Bisexual support group meets the 2nd Tuesday and 4th Thursday of the month in the Rainbow Library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends! The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators are Daniel and Haley. For more information, contact Jose at 918-743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition Voice your opinion, speak out The January Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Nan McDowell. Nan was born in 1940 and grew up in Quincy, Mass. As a self-taught artist, her painting was a welcome escape while pursuing careers in health care and education. She currently divides her time between Colorado and Oklahoma. Nan's first art workshop with Ardith Goodwin was a week before her first solo show in 2015. The techniques learned in that workshop have forever changed her approach to painting. Conveying emotion through painting remains at the center of her work. The last three years Nan has immersed herself in exploring her artistic framework. What has emerged is a love of depicting women in various states of emotion and emotions surrounding 4/24/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews January 24th, 2018 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2018... homelessness. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Pipeline to Politics 2018 Saturday, January 27, 8:30 a.m. Girl Scouts Western Oklahoma 6100 N. Robinson Ave., Oklahoma City, OK 73118 Join us for this timely event as we work to increase the visibility of women in important leadership and decision-making roles. The Oklahoma Women's Coalition and the Carl Albert Congressional Research and Studies Center's Women's Leadership Initiative at the University of Oklahoma will present Pipeline to Politics for women interested in public service and politics. Family Ties Pipeline to Politics will be held from 8:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. on Saturday, Jan. 27, at the Girl Scouts of Western Oklahoma headquarters. A reception for participants and elected officials will be held from 5 to 6:30 p.m. the night before. Registration costs $75, and the event is open to women across the state. Wine Down Wednesday Wednesday, January 31, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you enjoy wine, meeting new people and hearing inspiring leadership content? 'Wine Down Wednesday!' is a social group that combines short 'TED-style' presentation! We drink wine while hearing motivational/expert speakers present their leadership expertise for 15-20 minutes (6:15pm-7:45pm). Before, in between, and following the speaker, we enjoy wine and talk about our month! Our events occur the last Wednesday of the month and topics always vary! If there's a certain topic you'd like to hear or a speaker recommendation, let us know! Don't miss out on a great social and leadership opportunity that will improve your life, productivity, and relationships! Come 'Wine Down!' Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips Any questions please contact Jose.vega@okeq.org "First Thursday" Art Opening Robin Green Tilly - "Your Right Brain On Glass" Thursday, February 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Robin Green Tilly, in a show titled "Your Right Brain On Glass," beginning with a reception on Thursday, Feb. 1 from 6 to 9 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. A door prize of the artist's work will be given at the reception. Robin Green Tilly never resists a call from the muse. A true renaissance woman, she is a warm fused glass artisan, creative life coach, published author and poet, experienced public speaker, marketing expert, community volunteer and established glass artisan. Whew! She spent 20 years honing her marketing expertise first as an advertising executive, working in print, electronic, and video mediums for major national and local clients. Robin moved from the business-to-business advertising and marketing sector and met the challenge of fundraising for Tulsa YWCA. Ready for a new challenge, she left the traditional job environment to follow her passion and become a creative entrepreneur. Passionate about art, Robin is a recognized warm glass artisan with work appearing in galleries and invitational art shows. Her work ranges from jewelry to dinnerware, wall sconces to table lamps. Seldom is 'not possible' the response when Robin puts imagination to glass. She has been honored to be a part of Philbrook Festival of Trees, the Brady Craft Alliance show and Visionmakers. She has also sold her work in MOREcolor, Oh, Tulsa! plus Champagne and Chocolate. She was the featured artist for the 2016 Spokeasy fundraising event to benefit HUB and was a part of the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's 40th Anniversary Celebration with a 12-piece installation titled "At the Center of Performing Arts." Robin's OkEq exhibit will share the stage with singer/songwriter and musician Jim Tilly. He will provide the musical experience for the exhibit, which explores the power of the creative right brain to create calm and peace. Today, Robin lives with the musically talented and gifted Jim Tilly, who is also an attorney in private practice. They both enjoy exploring creativity through music, singing, warm fused glass, writing, coaching and teaching. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, February 1st from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new choir members for their 20th Anniversary concert season! Rehearsals start Tuesday, February 6, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational 2900 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Concert dates and times: June 14th & 15th, 8:00pm Lynn Riggs Blackbox Theatre Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 SPECIAL BONUS CONCERT: Thursday, June 21st with the Turtle Creek Chorale from Dallas, Tx....Stay tuned for more details!!!!! Contact us at counciloak.org or on Facebook! 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 4/24/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews January 24th, 2018 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2018... 6:30-7:30 p.m. HE (oVN(I~ oAK MEN'S (HoRA~E Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Resume Building and Interview Skills with Workforce Tulsa Thursday, February 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center along with Workforce Tulsa for a session on tips and tricks for your resume and interview skills. Bring your resume to polish and have it reviewed by hiring experts. Come learn the do's and don'ts in the interview process. It's free! Wild Hearts Ball Saturday, February 3, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library February 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. 4/24/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews January 24th, 2018 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2018... Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Join us for the 17th Annual Wild Hearts Ball Free Admission Live entertainment by Tulsa's top Queens and Kings DJ Alex Cash Bar Dancing Play your cards right and you might find love! OSU Tulsa Counseling Center ■ ■ ■ Wild Hearts Ball ¥ Feb. 3rd 2018 Free Admission • Kings & Queens of Hearts Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . OkEq Rainbow Wedding Show Saturday, February 3, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to join us for our first OkEq Rainbow Wedding Show. Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you would like to be a vendor at the show, please email Jose Vega jose.vega@okeq.org ---- OKEQ Rainbow Wedding Show Saturday, Febuary 3rd 12pm-4pm Dennis R. eill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Tulsa OK 74120 Telling Our Stories - Falling in Love Monday, February 12, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74135 Join Oklahomans for Equality for a night of storytelling, with our new series: Telling Our Stories. Oral Storytelling has been a vital part of keeping the LGBTQ community and their stories alive. This series will explore different aspects of life and experience. Each night will have a specific theme and will include TRUE stories of those within the community. Each selected participant will tell their experience pertaining to the theme, a 5-7 minute format. Participants can use a script if needed. The first theme is: FALLING IN LOVE. If you are interested in telling your story around this topic, please email Amanda Lowe at aclowe@okstate.edu with a brief synopsis of your story. Spots are limited, so don't delay! Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. 4/24/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews January 24th, 2018 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2018... Del Shores- 6 Characters In Search Of A Play Saturday, February 17, 8:00 pm Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sordid Lives creator Del Shores' new one-man show, directed by Emerson Collins, proves once and for all that he is not a writer, he's a self-proclaimed thief! In "Six Characters In Search Of A Play", riffing on Pirandello's classic title, Shores brings to life six one-of-a-kind characters he has met in real life that haven't quite made it into one of his plays, films or TV shows. In 90 minutes, the audience will hear the truth behind how he collected these eccentrics and their stories as he portrays his hilarious, off-the-rails encounters with them. The audience will meet "Yvonne", the anti-vegetarian Dallas waitress; "Sarah", a Trump-hating elderly actress with an inhaler in one hand and a cigarette in the other; "Jimmy Ray", the evolving, Magic Mike-loving latent Georgia redneck; "Loraine", the once-brilliant drama teacher who has lost her damn mind and is now obsessed with porn; "Marsha", the monkey-hating lesbian with COPD; and "Aunt Bobby Sue", the racist Republican with a heart of gold. Click here to purchase tickets. EBA Mixer Wednesday, February 21, 6:00 p.m. Gregg A. Smith DDS 3912 E. 31st Street, Tulsa, OK 74135 Smith General Dentistry was founded by Dr. Norval R. Smith in 1952. He was joined by his son, Dr. Gregg A. Smith, in 1988 until Dr. Norval retired in 2002. Today, Dr. Gregg, along with his experienced, loyal, friendly and professional staff always remember why we're here. Our philosophy has always remained the same: We stay current with the latest dental techniques and technology and practice the best dentistry. We always make the patient feel comfortable, appreciated and welcome. Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 We take great pride in creating and recapturing beautiful healthy smiles. Our promise to you is that the veneers, fillings, crowns and bridges we create will look as good or better than the teeth nature gave you. Come and see why eighty-five percent of our new patients are referrals from our existing patient base. Welcome!!! We're glad you're here!!! -Gregg A. Smith, D.D.S. Visit Gregg A. Smith D.D.S. online You can join the EBA online, at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. E ALITY Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. usiness Alliance The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center 4/24/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews January 24th, 2018 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2018... PLUS. Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 at (918) 594-8568. Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Tulsa Project Theatre (TPT), the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, and has announced its 2017-2018 season. Three of the season's productions are in collaboration with other AEA affiliates - two from Oklahoma City and one with whom fans of the hit TV shows, Big Bang Theory and Speechless, may be familiar. In February 2018, TPT returns to the intimate Norman Theatre at the Tulsa PAC to present the Regional Premiere of John Ross Bowie's FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN. This brand new non-musical play centers on the iconic punk band, The Ramones, as they record their fifth album with eccentric music producer, Phil Spector. Focusing on the period in 1979-1980 when the band stood on the edge of breaking out, and Spector needed a hit, this intense black comedy sheds light on an important and overlooked moment in rock history. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN was written by actor and comedian John Ross Bowie, best known for his role as Barry Kripke in the CBS show THE BIG BANG THEORY and currently as Jimmy Dimeo on the ABC show SPEECHLESS. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN runs February 16-25, 2018. TICK...TICK...BOOM! is an autobiographical musical by Jonathan Larson, the late Pulitzer Prize- and Tony Awardwinning composer of Rent, which tells the story of a composer and the sacrifices he made to achieve his big break, eventually leading to a Broadway blockbuster. His girlfriend wants to get married and move out of the city, his best friend is making big bucks on Madison Avenue and, yet, Jon is still waiting tables and trying to write the great American rock musical. Set in 1990, this compelling story of personal discovery embraces the universal ideal of holding onto your dreams through life's most difficult challenges. Before RENT, there was TICK...TICK...BOOM! The production will run for a weekend in Oklahoma City before arriving in Tulsa for a limited run on April 27 - 29, 2018. Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Wednesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Tulsa Project Theatre will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera LIZZIE, set to run July 13-22, 2018. On a sweltering summer morning in 1892, in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden was the prime suspect and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. LIZZIE features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. LIZZIE is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information ------ Equality Center Pride Store "His One" and "His Only" rings available now Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday, 7:30 p.m. The Southern Pride Drum Group is the only such group of its kind in the world, being the only drum group composed of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have traveled across the U.S. and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years, with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. They seek to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and to add to their tight-knit drum family. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 4/24/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews January 24th, 2018 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2018... Asexual Meeting 2nd & 4th Tuesday of every month 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. Asexuality can be defined in many different ways. Some of us identify as asexual because we are not interested in intercourse, but still want other forms of sex. Some of us identify as asexual because we cannot get sexually aroused. Others may identify as asexual because we are never attracted to anyone sexually. Some of us are in relationships with the opposite sex, some with the same sex, and others remain unattached our entire lives. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 2nd Tuesday & 4th Thursday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Harvard's Secret Court" Written by: William Wright In 2002, a researcher for The Harvard Crimson came across a restricted archive labeled "Secret Court Files, 1920." The mystery he uncovered involved a tragic scandal in which Harvard University secretly put a dozen students on trial for homosexuality and then systematically and persistently tried to ruin their lives. In May of 1920,Cyril Wilcox, a freshman suspended from Harvard, was found sprawled dead on his bed, his room filled with gas--a suicide. The note he left behind revealed his secret life as part of a circle of homosexual students.The resulting witch hunt and the lives it cost remains one of the most shameful episodes in the history of America's premiere university. Supported by legendary Harvard President Lawrence Lowell, Harvard conducted its investigation in secrecy. Several students committed suicide;others had their lives destroyed by an ongoing effort on the part of Harvard to destroy their reputations. Harvard's Secret Court is a deeply moving indictment of the human toll of intolerance and the horrors of injustice that can result when a powerful institution loses its balance. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Colton & Haley Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. 4/24/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews January 24th, 2018 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2018... SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ ' Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Amazon Smile Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Amazon Smile Link amazons__. . _ . • le n ,"'1111111111_ _.... You shop. Amazon gives. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Writers, Ink. 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. WAKE UP: P ART OF THE BevoNo To ERANCE S ERIES SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org A TRUE LENS ON OKLAHOMA'S RACE STORY J u ry 30 h 20 8 8:00 m-9:00 m 4/24/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews January 24th, 2018 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2018... Free to A tend - TUI a. OK When the Uon h s no Voice the Hunter Tells the T le Som2 his or ca e han ol or 1s Co 111 vo Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm St C Register Today! www.OKCNP.org Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve a space for your next event or receive pricing information, contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 4/24/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews January 24th, 2018 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2018... 1st Wednesday of each month 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews January 24th, 2018 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2018... Sharon Queen Service Coordinator Veterans, Transgender and Indigenous People Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Director Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer & Pride Store Coordinator Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Luke Welvaert Facilities Coordinator Luke.Welvaert@OkEq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Denise Polonchak Janitorial Services OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Rev. Geoffrey Brewster, President Stuart Ashworth, Esq, 4/24/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews January 24th, 2018 12 of 12 ···: Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes Community Advisors Erin Christy Karen Gilbert Deborah Gist, EdD Christina Mendoza Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Board of Advisors Laura Arrowsmith, DO Peter Brennan Jamie Catlett Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Tamra Beth Jennings Marcia Keesee Amanda Lowe Andrew McClain Jim Scholl Mikeal Vaughn William Vaughn Board of Directors Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq Alyssa Bryant, Esq Sheena Grewal Darci Hazelwood, DO Ben Matthews Mike Redman, Esq Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter John Williams Vice President Jan Baldwin, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, At Large https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2018... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 4/24/26, 4:14 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3b89fecce4a4a4509fd1836dc1072b05.pdf 0063a21ab5b0c010522e46e743b35313 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 31st, 2018 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-31st--2018.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews January 31st, 2018 okl:ihom:ins for equality In This Issue news Kelly Kirby CPA Spectrums of Love Tax Receipts OkEq Survey Wine Down Wednesday February Video eNews "First Thursday" Art Opening .7afR.Oll Rental PropeT9' I Wild Hearts Ball OkEq Rainbow Wedding Show Del Shores- 6 Characters In Search Of A Play 2018 OCCJ Trialogue Series Free Art Class II Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relationships Free Strength and Conditioning Workout Guys Dine Too Council Oak Men's Chorale Resume Building and Interview skills w/ Workforce Tulsa Let us help you file your 2017tax returns! QPOC Movie Night Telling Our Stories - Falling in Love OKEQ Coming Out Workshop Free Yoga Class at OkEq. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Kelly Kirby CPA Non-Binary Support Group February EBA Mixer Moms Demand Action - Lobby Day LGBTQ Young Adults First Friday Art Crawl Certified Public Accountant TMSL 2018 Spring Schedule a professional corporation TULSA PROJECT THEATRE No Shade for Plus Pride Store (918} 747-5466 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Amazon Smile 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Amazon Smile Shop Now Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! amazons ...._,,, mi le eaturLV\.,g vi[bo~eaux: 1 vie ax 1 vierap!j Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. You shop. Amazon gives. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, February 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition Spectrums of Love Saturday, February 10: Opening reception, 6 p.m.; dinner, 6:30 p.m.; show, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The January Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Nan McDowell. 4/24/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews January 31st, 2018 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-31st--2018.... Nan was born in 1940 and grew up in Quincy, Mass. As a self-taught artist, her painting was a welcome escape while pursuing careers in health care and education. She currently divides her time between Colorado and Oklahoma. Nan's first art workshop with Ardith Goodwin was a week before her first solo show in 2015. The techniques learned in that workshop have forever changed her approach to painting. Conveying emotion through painting remains at the center of her work. The last three years Nan has immersed herself in exploring her artistic framework. What has emerged is a love of depicting women in various states of emotion and emotions surrounding homelessness. Opening Night Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater Spectrums of Love Fundraiser for Black Box Theater. A cabaret of live entertainment featuring Tulsa's top performers in the LGBTQ community: Jenna Davis Charles Davis Morgan Allen Pete Brennan Nash McQuarters Rebecca Ungerman Barry Hensley & Terry Baxter John Orsulak & Pat Hobbs James Gregory on keys Produced by Pat Hobbs Written by Morgan Allen $125.00 Opening reception at 6:00 p.m., Seat for the show, Dinner, Dessert,Champagne and open bar. Dinner served at 6:30 , Show begins at 7:30 p.m. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org $60.00 Seat for the show, Dessert, Champagne and cash bar Seating prior to the show which begins at 7:30 p.m. $1,000 Table for 8 includes premiere seating for the show and O pening reception and appetizers at 6:00 pm , Premiere table seating for the show, Dinner, Dessert, Champagne and o pen bar. Dinner served at 6:30 , Show begins at 7:30 p.m. Family Ties Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2017 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@okeq.org Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net --- Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips OkEq wants your opinion Oklahomans for Equality wants to start off 2018 with a resolution to our community. We are researching whether we are meeting all the needs of our community and identifying possible gaps where we can improve. Please take 1-2 minutes to complete this fivequestion survey so every voice can be heard. Begin Survey Wine Down Wednesday Wednesday, January 31, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you enjoy wine, meeting new people and hearing inspiring leadership content? 'Wine Down Wednesday!' is a social group that combines short 'TED-style' presentation! We drink wine while hearing motivational/expert speakers present their leadership expertise for 15-20 minutes (6:15pm-7:45pm). Before, in between, and following the speaker, we enjoy wine and talk about our month! Our events occur the last Wednesday of the month and topics always vary! If there's a certain topic you'd like to hear or a speaker recommendation, let us know! Don't miss out on a great social and leadership opportunity that will improve your life, productivity, and relationships! Come 'Wine Down!' Any questions please contact Jose.vega@okeq.org February Video eNews Voice your opinion, speak out 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Live Free! Coming Out 4/24/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews January 31st, 2018 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-31st--2018.... Worksh op "First Thursday" Art Opening Robin Green Tilly - "Your Right Brain On Glass" Thursday, February 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Robin Green Tilly, in a show titled "Your Right Brain On Glass," beginning with a reception on Thursday, Feb. 1 from 6 to 9 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. A door prize of the artist's work will be given at the reception. Robin Green Tilly never resists a call from the muse. A true renaissance woman, she is a warm fused glass artisan, creative life coach, published author and poet, experienced public speaker, marketing expert, community volunteer and established glass artisan. Whew! She spent 20 years honing her marketing expertise first as an advertising executive, working in print, electronic, and video mediums for major national and local clients. Robin moved from the business-to-business advertising and marketing sector and met the challenge of fundraising for Tulsa YWCA. Ready for a new challenge, she left the traditional job environment to follow her passion and become a creative entrepreneur. Passionate about art, Robin is a recognized warm glass artisan with work appearing in galleries and invitational art shows. Her work ranges from jewelry to dinnerware, wall sconces to table lamps. Seldom is 'not possible' the response when Robin puts imagination to glass. She has been honored to be a part of Philbrook Festival of Trees, the Brady Craft Alliance show and Visionmakers. She has also sold her work in MOREcolor, Oh, Tulsa! plus Champagne and Chocolate. She was the featured artist for the 2016 Spokeasy fundraising event to benefit HUB and was a part of the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's 40th Anniversary Celebration with a 12-piece installation titled "At the Center of Performing Arts." Robin's OkEq exhibit will share the stage with singer/songwriter and musician Jim Tilly. He will provide the musical experience for the exhibit, which explores the power of the creative right brain to create calm and peace. Today, Robin lives with the musically talented and gifted Jim Tilly, who is also an attorney in private practice. They both enjoy exploring creativity through music, singing, warm fused glass, writing, coaching and teaching. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, February 1st from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Wild Hearts Ball Saturday, February 3, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library February 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them 4/24/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews January 31st, 2018 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-31st--2018.... to find an available time to see you. Join us for the 17th Annual Wild Hearts Ball Free Admission Live entertainment by Tulsa's top Queens and Kings DJ Alex Cash Bar Dancing Play your cards right and you might find love! Dr. Kurt Choate ■ ■ ■ Wild Hearts Ball ¥ Feb. 3rd 2018 Free Admission • Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center Kings & Queens of Hearts OkEq Rainbow Wedding Show Saturday, February 3, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to join us for our first OkEq Rainbow Wedding Show. Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you would like to be a vendor at the show, please email Jose Vega jose.vega@okeq.org ---- Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . OKEQ Rainbow Wedding Show Saturday, Febuary 3rd 12pm-4pm Dennis R. eill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa OK 74120 Del Shores- 6 Characters In Search Of A Play Saturday, February 17, 8:00 pm Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sordid Lives creator Del Shores new one-man show directed by Emerson Collins proves once again that he is not a writer, he's a self-proclaimed thief! In Six Characters In Search Of A Play, Shores is inspired by Pirandello's classic play to bring you six characters inspired by his real-life encounters that haven't quite made it into one of Shores' plays, films or TV shows. Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . In 90 minutes, the audience will hear the truth behind how he collected these eccentrics, then he will portray them in classic Shores' monologue style. The audience will walk away knowing "Yvonne", the vegetarian-hating Texas waitress; "Sarah", an elderly actress who is determined to drink and smoke herself to death if Trump is elected; "Jimmy Ray", the evolving Georgia redneck, "Loraine"; the once brilliant drama teacher who has lost her damn mind and is now obsessed with porn; "Aunt Bobbie Sue", the blue-collar Republican who does not care for "Mexkins" or Obama; and "Marsha", the monkey-hating lesbian with CPOD. Get ready to laugh, think and maybe shed a tear or two. Del shores has written, directed and produced successfully across studio and Temple Hull 4/24/26, 4:14 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/bf9bcdeaa3a82a1a606fcf77bf70e3aa.pdf d7bbc3b471681b727cb546dcacc5e3fc PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 7th, 2018 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-7th--2018... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e February 7th, 2018 okl:ihom:ms for equ:ility In This Issue news Kelly Kirby CPA Spectrums of Love Tax Receipts OkEq Survey February Video eNews Del Shores- 6 Characters In Search Of A Play My Oklahoma Town Hall Meeting F ~ Pay1toir Rental Properf:y Bookk p1n1 Pride Bingo 2018 OCCJ Trialogue Series Resume Building and Interview skills w/ Workforce Tulsa QPOC Movie Night Telling Our Stories - Falling in Love OKEQ Coming Out Workshop Free Yoga Class at OkEq. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 980 Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group LGBTQ Veterans Support & Entertainment - Non-Binary Support Group Let us help you file your 2017tax returns! February EBA Mixer Illegally Alive Film Screening Moms Demand Action - Lobby Day Wine Down Wednesday: Black History Month First Thursday Art Show Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation LGBTQ Young Adults First Friday Art Crawl Red Ribbon Gala 2018 TMSL 2018 Spring Schedule Council Oak Men's Chorale No Shade for Plus TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Pride Store Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kklrby.com Amazon Smile ti Amazon Smile Shop Now Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! amazons mi le -....._;;, e~tu ri.11\,g Th tbo~e~ ux: he ~x Ther~p!::j Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. You shop. Amazon gives. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, February 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition Spectrums of Love Saturday, February 10: Opening reception, 6 p.m.; dinner, 6:30 p.m.; show, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature an exhibit of works by Robin Green Tilly, in a show titled "Your Right Brain On Glass," 4/24/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews February 7th, 2018 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-7th--2018... She spent 20 years honing her marketing expertise first as an advertising executive, working in print, electronic, and video mediums for major national and local clients. Robin moved from the business-to-business advertising and marketing sector and met the challenge of fundraising for Tulsa YWCA. Ready for a new challenge, she left the traditional job environment to follow her passion and become a creative entrepreneur. Opening Night Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater Spectrums of Love Fundraiser for Black Box Theater. A cabaret of live entertainment featuring Tulsa's top performers in the LGBTQ community: Jenna Davis Charles Davis Morgan Allen Pete Brennan Nash McQuarters Rebecca Ungerman Barry Hensley & Terry Baxter John Orsulak & Pat Hobbs James Gregory on keys The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Produced by Pat Hobbs Written by Morgan Allen $125.00 Opening reception at 6:00 p.m., Seat for the show, Dinner, Dessert,Champagne and open bar. Dinner served at 6:30 , Show begins at 7:30 p.m. $60.00 Seat for the show, Dessert, Champagne and cash bar Seating prior to the show which begins at 7:30 p.m. $1,000 Table for 8 includes premiere seating for the show and O pening reception and appetizers at 6:00 pm , Premiere table seating for the show, Dinner, Dessert, Champagne and o pen bar. Dinner served at 6:30 , Show begins at 7:30 p.m. Family Ties Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2017 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@okeq.org ---- Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net OkEq wants your opinion Oklahomans for Equality wants to start off 2018 with a resolution to our community. We are researching whether we are meeting all the needs of our community and identifying possible gaps where we can improve. Please take 1-2 minutes to complete this fivequestion survey so every voice can be heard. Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips Voice your opinion, speak out Begin Survey 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. February Video eNews This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Del Shores- 6 Characters In Search Of A Play Saturday, February 17, 8:00 pm Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sordid Lives creator Del Shores new one-man show directed by Emerson Collins proves once again that he is not a writer, he's a self-proclaimed thief! In Six Characters In Search Of A Play, Shores is inspired by Pirandello's classic play to bring you six characters inspired by his real-life encounters that haven't quite made it into one of Shores' plays, films or TV shows. In 90 minutes, the audience will hear the truth behind how he collected these eccentrics, then he will portray them in classic Shores' monologue style. The audience will walk six cttn~ncn~s in <FilD(tt n DI nY ' (')f Live Free! Coming Out 4/24/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews February 7th, 2018 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-7th--2018... Worksh op away knowing "Yvonne", the vegetarian-hating Texas waitress; "Sarah", an elderly actress who is determined to drink and smoke herself to death if Trump is elected; "Jimmy Ray", the evolving Georgia redneck, "Loraine"; the once brilliant drama teacher who has lost her damn mind and is now obsessed with porn; "Aunt Bobbie Sue", the blue-collar Republican who does not care for "Mexkins" or Obama; and "Marsha", the monkey-hating lesbian with CPOD. Get ready to laugh, think and maybe shed a tear or two. Del shores has written, directed and produced successfully across studio and independent film, network and cable television and regional and national touring theatre. Shores' career took off with the play Daddy's Dyin' (Who's Got The Will?) in 1987, which ran two years, winning many Los Angeles theatre awards, including LA Weekly's Best Production and Best Writing. The play has subsequently been produced in over 2,500 theatres worldwide. A movie version of Daddy's Dyin' was released in 1990 by MGM starring Beau Bridges, Tess Harper, Judge Reinhold, Keith Carradine and Beverly D'Angelo. Shores wrote the screenplay and executive produced the film. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sordid Lives, his fourth play, opened in Los Angeles in 1996 and ran 13 sold-out months. The play went on to win 14 Drama-Logue Theatre Awards, including three for Shores for wring, directing and producing. There have since been over 300 additional stage productions of the play. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. In 1999, Shores wrote and directed the film version of Sordid Lives starring Beau Bridges, Delta Burke, Olivia Newton-John, Bonnie Bedelia, Leslie Jordan and Beth Grant along with most of the cast from the play. Opening in only eight theatres across the country, the little film that could took in nearly two million dollars in its limited release. The movie became a cult phenomenon and became the longest running film in the history of Palm Springs with a record ninety-six weeks. "Del Shores is the grand master of Southern lowlife sensibilities." Daily Variety It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 "Del Shores is a master of the Texas comedy." Los Angeles Times Click here to purchase tickets. My Oklahoma Town Hall Meeting Sunday, February 11, 2:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Gather with your co-activists and engage with your Oklahoma legislators through a letter-writing campaign and phone messaging. Oklahomans for Equality has identified several negative bills in the Oklahoma Legislature that would impact the LGBTQ community. There are also several bills that we feel would benefit the community. Here is our 2018 legislative issues link We will provide stationery, envelopes, stamps and the addresses for Oklahoma legislators and the committees that bills are assigned to. We will also have the phone numbers for legislators and talking points for you to leave vital, short, messages with their answering services. These advocacy initiatives have been effective in defeating over 35 anti LGBTQ bills in the last four years. 2nd Pride Bingo of 2018 Saturday, February 24, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is the best bingo EVER The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo Bash. DJ Alex says "get your lip sync selections ready." $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 2018 OCCJ Trialogue Series Sunday, February 11, 2:00 - 4:00 p.m. Antioch Baptist Church 110 E. 56th St. N., Tulsa, OK 74126 Sunday, February 18 2:00 - 4:00 p.m. Peace Academy 4620 S Irvington Ave, Tulsa, OK 74135 2018 Trialogue Series Join religious and community leaders in February 2018 for the 35th Annual Trialogue Series. The theme for the annual series is "Won't You Be My Neighbor?" Sponsored by OCCJ and funded in part by the Tulsa Library Trust's Alfred E. Aaronson Lecture Series Endowment, the three-part discussion series is scheduled for February 4, at Temple Israel, February 11 at Antioch Baptist Church, and February 18 at Peace Academy. Each session is from 2 to 4 p.m. February 11: Mapping my connections to other neighborhoods What perceptions do we have about our neighborhoods and neighbors? Who is telling the Lawyer in the Library February 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them 4/24/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews February 7th, 2018 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-7th--2018... narrative of your neighborhood? to find an available time to see you. February 18: Who is my neighbor? What is my role as a neighbor? How can we "neighbor"? How can we best support each other in order to thrive as a city? This session includes presentations from City of Tulsa Chief Resilience Officer DeVon Douglass, as well as a representative from the Community Service Council. The program is free and open to the public. Donations are welcome. For more information about the 2018 Trialogue Series, contact Sarah Rana at srana@occjok.org or call 918-583-1361. Resume Building and Interview Skills with Workforce Tulsa Thursday, February 8, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center along with Workforce Tulsa for a session on tips and tricks for your resume and interview skills. Bring your resume to polish and have it reviewed by hiring experts. Come learn the do's and don'ts in the interview process. It's free! Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org QPOC Movie Night: To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar Friday, February 9, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the Queer People of Color support and social group for a movie night at the Equality Center. "To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar" is a 1995 American comedy film starring Wesley Snipes, Patrick Swayze, and John Leguizamo as three New York City drag queens who embark on a road trip. Its title refers to an iconic autographed photo of Julie Newmar that they carry with them on their journey. For more information, email jose.vega@okeq.org Telling Our Stories - Falling in Love Monday, February 12, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Oklahomans for Equality for a night of storytelling, with our new series: Telling Our Stories. Oral Storytelling has been a vital part of keeping the LGBTQ community and their stories alive. This series will explore different aspects of life and experience. Each night will have a specific theme and will include TRUE stories of those within the community. Each selected participant will tell their experience pertaining to the theme, a 5-7 minute format. Participants can use a script if needed. The first theme is: FALLING IN LOVE. Stephanie Miller Stephanie is a counseling intern at Northeastern State University. She is passionate about working with diverse families and clients, now expanding to the LGBTQ+ community and allies. Stephanie has experience with families, children and adolescents. She believes in helping the client identify and achieve their goals through a holistic approach. Contact Stephanie at 918-771-84 or tatom@nsuok.edu to make an appointment. All sessions are free and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m. on Wednesdays or 12:30 and 4:30 p.m. on Saturdays. OSU Tulsa Counseling Center If you are interested in telling your story around this topic, please email Amanda Lowe at aclowe@okstate.edu with a brief synopsis of your story. Spots are limited, so don't delay! OkEq Coming Out Workshop Monday, February 12, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories, the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion, whether lesbian, gay, bi, or trans. For more information, email ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . Monday, February 12, 6:30 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, back bend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. For more information contact jose.vega@okeq.org 4/24/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews February 7th, 2018 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-7th--2018... Brought to You Bi the Letter B Tuesday, February 13, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This bisexual support group meets the 2nd Tuesday and 4th Thursday of the month in the Rainbow Library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends! The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators are Daniel and Haley. For more information, contact Jose at 918-743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org. Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group First & Third Thursday of every month Beginning Thursday, February 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Indigenous \ \ I //; ............ ,,,,,,,,,.,. & First Nation Support Group Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Indian or Indian at Heart __...,,,,,,., "'-... / I/ I f \ \ First and Third Thursday of every month 7pm at th e Denni s R. Neill Equ ality Center LGBTQ Veterans Support & Entertainment First & Third Tuesday of each month Beginning Tuesday, February 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 United Stat6-.'\rmy United States Navy - urJH:'111111,.__~ United States Coa ~ Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 1 4/24/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews February 7th, 2018 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-7th--2018... National Guard of the United States of America Non-Binary Support Group Wednesday, February 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, meets the third Wednesday of each month from 7 to 9 p.m. The group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. An interview is required before attending your first meeting. For more information, email Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com or Nat Wachowski at nat.wachowski-estes@outlook.com or call 918-743-4297 . Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. EBA Mixer Wednesday, February 21, 6:00 p.m. Gregg A. Smith DDS 3912 E. 31st Street, Tulsa, OK 74135 Smith General Dentistry was founded by Dr. Norval R. Smith in 1952. He was joined by his son, Dr. Gregg A. Smith, in 1988 until Dr. Norval retired in 2002. Today, Dr. Gregg, along with his experienced, loyal, friendly and professional staff always remember why we're here. Our philosophy has always remained the same: We stay current with the latest dental techniques and technology and practice the best dentistry. We always make the patient feel comfortable, appreciated and welcome. We take great pride in creating and recapturing beautiful healthy smiles. Our promise to you is that the veneers, fillings, crowns and bridges we create will look as good or better than the teeth nature gave you. Come and see why eighty-five percent of our new patients are referrals from our existing patient base. Welcome!!! We're glad you're here!!! -Gregg A. Smith, D.D.S. Visit Gregg A. Smith D.D.S. online Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. You can join the EBA online, at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. E UALITY Business Alliance The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. 4/24/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews February 7th, 2018 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-7th--2018... Illegally Alive Film Screening Thursday, February 22, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Doors open 6:00 p.m. Press Conference 6:10 p.m. Intro, Education, & Discussion 6:30 p.m. "Illegally Alive" 7:10 p.m. Closing discussion 8:10 p.m. Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Wednesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com On Thursday, February 22nd The eCS Therapy Center and OK4Health will host a medical cannabis event at the Black Box Theater in Tulsa. Dr. Regina Nelson, President of The eCS Therapy Center, a national non-profit and Chip Paul, President of OK 4Health will speak about the upcoming SQ788 vote and a collaborative project their organizations are working on -- "Cannabis Therapy for the Oklahoman Soul"--a collection of stories of Oklahomans affected by medical cannabis. In addition to a short discussion, Cinebis Film Institute Director, Michael E. Browning will present documentary "Illegally Alive"--the story of a family that relocated to Colorado for cannabis therapy for their teenage son after his terminal diagnosis. 'Illegally Alive' is a documentary that explores what it's like for families with children who are suffering from debilitating or life-threatening illnesses having to sacrifice everything in search of a treatment that actually works. Get your tickets here Moms Demand Action - Lobby Day Tuesday, February 27, 6:30 a.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd, Oklahoma City, OK 73105 Moms Demand Action of Oklahoma will hold its annual Lobby Day on Tuesday, February 27. We will head to the Capitol to talk to legislators about upcoming gun legislation. Round-trip bus transportation is available. We will meet at 6:30 a.m. at the University of Tulsa (2930 E. Sixth St., Tulsa, OK 74104) to depart for the Capitol. RSVP here for the bus. Bills expected to be filed this year: -Remove training and licensing requirements to carry handguns in public. -Allow guns to be carried on college campuses. -Hold businesses that prohibit guns liable for crime on their premises. Southern Pride Drum Group I A \:, Every Thursday, 7:30 p.m. MOMS DEMAND ACTION FOR GUN SENSE INAMERICA Similar dangerous laws have passed in other states, and we need as many Oklahomans as possible to fight back against laws that make our state less safe. We are not just moms. Our group includes dads, grandparents, friends and anyone interested in helping to end the gun violence epidemic. For more information, email Oklahoma@momschapterleaders.org. Wine Down Wednesday: Black History Month Wednesday, February 28, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you enjoy wine, meeting new people and hearing inspiring leadership content? 'Wine Down Wednesday!' is a social group that combines short 'TED-style' presentation! We drink wine while hearing motivational/expert speakers present their leadership expertise for 15-20 minutes (6:15pm-7:45pm). Before, in between, and following the speaker, we enjoy wine and talk about our month! Our events occur the last Wednesday of the month and topics always vary! If there's a certain topic you'd like to hear or a speaker recommendation, let us know! The Southern Pride Drum Group is the only such group of its kind in the world, being the only drum group composed of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have traveled across the U.S. and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years, with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. They seek to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and to add to their tight-knit drum family. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Don't miss out on a great social and leadership opportunity that will improve your life, productivity, and relationships! Come 'Wine Down!' Any questions please contact jose.vega@okeq.org First Thursday Art Show - Jini Kim "My Rat Problem Continued" Thursday, March 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Jini Kim, in a show titled "My Rat Problem, Continued." Jini Kim is an artist from Tulsa who received her Bachelor of Fine Arts in Painting and Drawing in 2014 and is working toward her Master of Fine Arts in 2018. Her paintings are widely collected. Her current body of work combines painting and printmaking on topics of feminism, modern Orientalism and toxic masculinity. Her current show, "My Rat Problem, Continued," combines painting, printmaking, and sculpture to create a narrative that satirizes contemporary culture, modern Orientalism and feminism. This series began with linoleum cuts printed on paper. Creating an immediate juxtaposition of Lowbrow, Popsurrealism, and Ed Roth's Rat Fink inspiration, a deeper meaning arose when this series turned to painting. The rat became a satirical view of male virility. The rat's head can be seen as a phallic symbol that is disturbing the main character, or the artist's presence. The graphic quality is then carried into the paintings, which start to incorporate jarring, complementary colors. These large-scale paintings are agitating; they provide a slick, finished quality that mimics the graphic colors of serigraphy and the serial aspect of the underground comix of the 1980's. The paintings also reference a history of female figures in the bathtub or the bedroom. Historically, female figures at a toilette or the bedroom are fluffed, pristine, and European. These paintings show more of an honest aspect of a woman at her toilette or the bedroom; a Asexual Meeting 2nd & 4th Tuesday of every month 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. Asexuality can be defined in many different ways. Some of us identify as asexual because we are not interested in intercourse, but still want other forms of sex. Some of us identify as asexual because we cannot get sexually aroused. Others may identify as asexual because we are never attracted to anyone sexually. Some of us are in relationships with the opposite sex, some with the same sex, and others remain unattached our entire lives. 4/24/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews February 7th, 2018 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-7th--2018... woman who is disturbed by the lineage of female objectification and eroticization of nonwhite women. An adjunct to this show includes smaller, painted woodcuts of the large-scale paintings - now on display in the University of Tulsa's Alexandre Hogue Gallery and can be viewed until March 15. Jini says: "I create narrative paintings that illustrate my reaction to personifications of toxic masculinity. These paintings include a consistent theme that surrounds feminism, heavy metal, and modern Orientalism. My love for Ed Roth, lowbrow art, and heavy metal is present through the graphic style and the substantial reference to Ed Roth's notorious Rat Fink. Being an Asian woman often casts an expectation to be either a fetish, obedient, loyal, submissive, weak, dependent or a model minority type. There is a weird obsession over Asian woman while Asian men are emotionally castrated. Colored women in general are exploited for their bodies and a quest to conquer, creating a hostile and dangerous environment between men and women. I aim to represent marginalized groups of women and include more characters in future paintings." Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd Tuesday & 4th Thursday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, March 1, from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artist's work will be drawn. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org LGBTQ Young Adults First Friday Art Crawl Friday, March 2, 5:30 p.m. Guthrie Green 111 E MB Brady St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Join the OKEQ Prism Group at the First Friday Art Crawl Event in March. The Art Crawl is held on the first Friday of the month and open from 6-9 pm. Each venue offers something different and creative, a true hallmark of the Tulsa Arts District. First Friday is a perfect date night starting with a cocktail, coffee or early dinner on one of the many patios. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Colton & Haley We will be meeting at Guthrie Green and travel together. For questions and more information contact jose.vega@okeq.org Red Ribbon Gala 2018 No Shade for Plus Saturday, March 3, 6:00 p.m. Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Every Tuesday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Red Ribbon Gala serves as the largest fundraiser annually for Tulsa CARES. Tulsa CARES delivers social services to people affected by HIV and AIDS. We are committed to creating a community where all people with HIV/AIDS have equal opportunities for healthy living. We advance our mission through empowerment, inclusion and the creation of hope by offering tailored, integrated resources and advocating for the end of HIV stigma. Next Generation Single Ticket - $250 Next Gen (1/2 price tickets for people under 40yrs old) Those 40 and under can purchase 1 Next Generation Ticket A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Click here to purchase tickets TMSL 2018 Spring Schedule Indian Springs Softball Complex 13600 S 145th E Ave, Broken Arrow, OK 74011 Hey TMSL members! With the 2018 spring season right around the corner, we have some news for you. WE'RE MOVING! You read right - we will be moving our league to the Indian Springs Softball Complex this season. We look forward to a fun season and welcome all skill levels. And if you're worried about not having a team, don't fret - we will help you find one. Registration is open, and the cost is $50/player. News flash: This fee also makes you an active voting member of Oklahomans for Equality! So spread the word, grab your friends, and sign up today! Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 2018 Spring Schedule ( 11am-2pm game times): March 11- Field Day more info soon March 25 - Opening Day April 8, 15, 22, 29 May 6, 20 June 3 - Final Day For more information visit the website at www.tulsametrosoftball.com Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new choir members for their 20th Anniversary concert season! Rehearsals are each Tuesday at 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 Concert: June 14 and 15, 8 p.m. Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 ■ Tulsa Area Prime Timers SPECIAL BONUS CONCERT: Thursday, June 21, with the Turtle Creek Chorale from Dallas. Stay tuned for more details! Contact us at counciloak.org or on Facebook ! HE (oVN(I~ oAK EN'~ SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy for GLBT Elders) 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 t'lUi~ 4/24/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews February 7th, 2018 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-7th--2018... Tulsa Writers, Ink. 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Tulsa Project Theatre (TPT), the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, and has announced its 2017-2018 season. Three of the season's productions are in collaboration with other AEA affiliates - two from Oklahoma City and one with whom fans of the hit TV shows, Big Bang Theory and Speechless, may be familiar. In February 2018, TPT returns to the intimate Norman Theatre at the Tulsa PAC to present the Regional Premiere of John Ross Bowie's FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN. This brand new non-musical play centers on the iconic punk band, The Ramones, as they record their fifth album with eccentric music producer, Phil Spector. Focusing on the period in 1979-1980 when the band stood on the edge of breaking out, and Spector needed a hit, this intense black comedy sheds light on an important and overlooked moment in rock history. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN was written by actor and comedian John Ross Bowie, best known for his role as Barry Kripke in the CBS show THE BIG BANG THEORY and currently as Jimmy Dimeo on the ABC show SPEECHLESS. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN runs February 16-25, 2018. TICK...TICK...BOOM! is an autobiographical musical by Jonathan Larson, the late Pulitzer Prize- and Tony Awardwinning composer of Rent, which tells the story of a composer and the sacrifices he made to achieve his big break, eventually leading to a Broadway blockbuster. His girlfriend wants to get married and move out of the city, his best friend is making big bucks on Madison Avenue and, yet, Jon is still waiting tables and trying to write the great American rock musical. Set in 1990, this compelling story of personal discovery embraces the universal ideal of holding onto your dreams through life's most difficult challenges. Before RENT, there was TICK...TICK...BOOM! The production will run for a weekend in Oklahoma City before arriving in Tulsa for a limited run on April 27 - 29, 2018. Tulsa Project Theatre will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera LIZZIE, set to run July 13-22, 2018. On a sweltering summer morning in 1892, in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden was the prime suspect Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve a space for your next event or receive pricing information, contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/24/26, 4:15 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8473d1fa837a57cbe2654a4ac5f62220.pdf a24c3b09d957692bb5bbdd75f0f9b3bb PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 14th, 2018 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-14th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e February 14th, 2018 okl:ihom:ms for equ:ility news In This Issue Macry Smith & Sue Welch Sponsor the Day Kelly Kirby CPA Tax Receipts February Video eNews Del Shores- 6 Characters In Search Of A Play Marcy Smith & Sue Welch Sponsoring the Day Pride Bingo Wednesday, February 14 2018 OCCJ Trialogue Series Sue Welch and Marcy Smith are sponsoring the day in honor of their anniversary. Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group LGBTQ Veterans Support & Entertainment - Non-Binary Support Group Happy Anniversary Marcy and Sue! February EBA Mixer Illegally Alive Film Screening Moms Demand Action - Lobby Day Wine Down Wednesday: Black History Month First Thursday Art Show LGBTQ Young Adults First Friday Art Crawl Red Ribbon Gala 2018 Article Headline TMSL 2018 Spring Schedule Council Oak Men's Chorale No Shade for Plus TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Pride Store If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Married 2 years this week on Feb, 14 th, together in love 27 years! • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday • Just Because Amazon Smile I.C.A.O. Leather and Lace Masquerade Ball Article Headline Amazon Smile F ~ }'ayx.011 Rental Properfy Bookk p1n1 Shop Now Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! amazons mi le -...._,,,;, You shop. Amazon gives. 0 980 Let us help you file your 2017tax returns! OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, February 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature an exhibit of works by Robin Green Tilly, in a show titled "Your Right Brain On Glass," She spent 20 years honing her marketing expertise first as an advertising executive, working in print, electronic, and video mediums for major national and local clients. Robin moved from the business-to-business advertising and marketing sector and met the challenge of fundraising for 4/24/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews February 14th, 2018 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-14th--201... 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 Tulsa YWCA. Ready for a new challenge, she left the traditional job environment to follow her passion and become a creative entrepreneur. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org admin@kkirby.com www.kklrby.com f eQtu YLV\,g Th tbo~eQ ux: he Q)( TherQpt::, Dog Family Ties Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2017 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@okeq.org February Video eNews Del Shores- 6 Characters In Search Of A Play Saturday, February 17, 8:00 pm Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sordid Lives creator Del Shores new one-man show directed by Emerson Collins proves once again that he is not a writer, he's a self-proclaimed thief! In Six Characters In Search Of A Play, Shores is inspired by Pirandello's classic play to bring you six characters inspired by his real-life encounters that haven't quite made it into one of Shores' plays, films or TV shows. In 90 minutes, the audience will hear the truth behind how he collected these eccentrics, then he will portray them in classic Shores' monologue style. The audience will walk away knowing "Yvonne", the vegetarian-hating Texas waitress; "Sarah", an elderly actress who is determined to drink and smoke herself to death if Trump is elected; "Jimmy Ray", the evolving Georgia redneck, "Loraine"; the once brilliant drama teacher who has lost her damn mind and is now obsessed with porn; "Aunt Bobbie Sue", the blue-collar Republican who does not care for "Mexkins" or Obama; and "Marsha", the monkey-hating lesbian with CPOD. Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op Get ready to laugh, think and maybe shed a tear or two. 4/24/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews February 14th, 2018 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-14th--201... Del shores has written, directed and produced successfully across studio and independent film, network and cable television and regional and national touring theatre. Shores' career took off with the play Daddy's Dyin' (Who's Got The Will?) in 1987, which ran two years, winning many Los Angeles theatre awards, including LA Weekly's Best Production and Best Writing. The play has subsequently been produced in over 2,500 theatres worldwide. A movie version of Daddy's Dyin' was released in 1990 by MGM starring Beau Bridges, Tess Harper, Judge Reinhold, Keith Carradine and Beverly D'Angelo. Shores wrote the screenplay and executive produced the film. Sordid Lives, his fourth play, opened in Los Angeles in 1996 and ran 13 sold-out months. The play went on to win 14 Drama-Logue Theatre Awards, including three for Shores for wring, directing and producing. There have since been over 300 additional stage productions of the play. In 1999, Shores wrote and directed the film version of Sordid Lives starring Beau Bridges, Delta Burke, Olivia Newton-John, Bonnie Bedelia, Leslie Jordan and Beth Grant along with most of the cast from the play. Opening in only eight theatres across the country, the little film that could took in nearly two million dollars in its limited release. The movie became a cult phenomenon and became the longest running film in the history of Palm Springs with a record ninety-six weeks. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. "Del Shores is the grand master of Southern lowlife sensibilities." Daily Variety "Del Shores is a master of the Texas comedy." Los Angeles Times Click here to purchase tickets. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 2nd Pride Bingo of 2018 Saturday, February 24, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is the best bingo EVER The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo Bash. DJ Alex says "get your lip sync selections ready." $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table O the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 2018 OCCJ Trialogue Series Sunday, February 18 2:00 - 4:00 p.m. Peace Academy 4620 S Irvington Ave, Tulsa, OK 74135 2018 Trialogue Series Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Join religious and community leaders in February 2018 for the 35th Annual Trialogue Series. The theme for the annual series is "Won't You Be My Neighbor?" Sponsored by OCCJ and funded in part by the Tulsa Library Trust's Alfred E. Aaronson Lecture Series Endowment, the three-part discussion series is scheduled for February 4, at Temple Israel, February 11 at Antioch Baptist Church, and February 18 at Peace Academy. Each session is from 2 to 4 p.m. February 18: Who is my neighbor? What is my role as a neighbor? How can we "neighbor"? How can we best support each other in order to thrive as a city? This session includes presentations from City of Tulsa Chief Resilience Officer DeVon Douglass, as well as a representative from the Community Service Council. The program is free and open to the public. Donations are welcome. For more information about the 2018 Trialogue Series, contact Sarah Rana at srana@occjok.org or call 918-583-1361. Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group First & Third Thursday of every month Beginning Thursday, February 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library February 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Tulsa Indigenous Counseling Services \ \ I //; ........... Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. ,,,,,,,,..,,,., Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/24/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews February 14th, 2018 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-14th--201... & First Nation Support Group Dr. Kurt Choate Indian or Indian at Heart ........... Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 choatek@nsuok.edu I/ I f \ \ First and Third Thursday of every month 7pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Stephanie Miller LGBTQ Veterans Support & Entertainment First & Third Tuesday of each month Beginning Tuesday, February 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Unit United States Na United Stephanie is a counseling intern at Northeastern State University. She is passionate about working with diverse families and clients, now expanding to the LGBTQ+ community and allies. Stephanie has experience with families, children and adolescents. She believes in helping the client identify and achieve their goals through a holistic approach. Contact Stephanie at 918-771-84 or tatom@nsuok.edu to make an appointment. All sessions are free and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m. on Wednesdays or 12:30 and 4:30 p.m. on Saturdays. OSU Tulsa Counseling Center Non-Binary Support Group Wednesday, February 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, meets the third Wednesday of each month from 7 to 9 p.m. The group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. An interview is required before attending your first meeting. For more information, email Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com or Nat Wachowski at nat.wachowski-estes@outlook.com or call 918-743-4297 . Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . EBA Mixer Wednesday, February 21, 6:00 p.m. Gregg A. Smith DDS 3912 E. 31st Street, Tulsa, OK 74135 Smith General Dentistry was founded by Dr. Norval R. Smith in 1952. He was joined by his son, Dr. Gregg A. Smith, in 1988 until Dr. Norval retired in 2002. Today, Dr. Gregg, along with his experienced, loyal, friendly and professional staff always remember why we're here. Our philosophy has always remained the same: We stay current with the latest dental techniques and technology and practice the best dentistry. We always make the patient feel comfortable, 4/24/26, 4:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d26085ac80ceddeac0aaa8fda0cb85aa.pdf ec31b8b407a2d4ed820e058e389273c4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 21st, 2018 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e February 21st, 2018 okl:ihom:ms for equ:ility In This Issue news Kelly Kirby CPA February EBA Mixer Non-Binary Support Group Illegally Alive Film Screening Free DACA Renewal Clinic Moms Demand Action - Lobby Day • 8flt0l.l Rental Properf:y Planned Parenthood Great Plains Tulsa: Volunteer Night Wine Down Wednesday: Black History Month First Thursday Art Show Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group LGBTQ Young Adults First Friday Art Crawl Red Ribbon Gala 2018 Gay Men's Dinner Group LGBTQ Veterans Support & Entertainment ----GLAAD Media Institute:Telling Your Story Tulsa Artist Fellowship (TAF) Tax Receipts February Video eNews Let us help you file your 2017tax returns! TMSL 2018 Spring Schedule Council Oak Men's Chorale No Shade for Plus TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant Pride Store Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Amazon Smile I.C.A.O. Leather and Lace Masquerade Ball First Responders a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kklrby.com Amazon Smile Shop Now Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! amazons mi le -...._;, You shop. Amazon gives. OkEq Board Meeting Fetltu rtV\,g Th tbo~ec.u.<.x.: he RX Tuer~p~ Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. EBA Mixer Wednesday, February 21, 6:00 p.m. Gregg A. Smith DDS 3912 E. 31st Street, Tulsa, OK 74135 Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, March 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature an exhibit of works by Robin Green Tilly, in a show titled "Your Right Brain On Glass." She spent 20 years honing her marketing expertise first as an advertising executive, working in print, electronic, and video mediums for major national and local clients. Robin moved from the business-to-business advertising and marketing sector and 4/24/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews February 21st, 2018 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Smith General Dentistry was founded by Dr. Norval R. Smith in 1952. He was joined by his son, Dr. Gregg A. Smith, in 1988 until Dr. Norval retired in 2002. Today, Dr. Gregg, along with his experienced, loyal, friendly and professional staff always remember why we're here. Our philosophy has always remained the same: We stay current with the latest dental techniques and technology and practice the best dentistry. We always make the patient feel comfortable, appreciated and welcome. met the challenge of fundraising for Tulsa YWCA. Ready for a new challenge, she left the traditional job environment to follow her passion and become a creative entrepreneur. We take great pride in creating and recapturing beautiful healthy smiles. Our promise to you is that the veneers, fillings, crowns and bridges we create will look as good or better than the teeth nature gave you. Come and see why eighty-five percent of our new patients are referrals from our existing patient base. Welcome!!! We're glad you're here!!! -Gregg A. Smith, D.D.S. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Visit Gregg A. Smith D.D.S. online Family Ties You can join the EBA online, at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. E UALITY Business Alliance Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Non-Binary Support Group Wednesday, February 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, meets the third Wednesday of each month from 7 to 9 p.m. The group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. An interview is required before attending your first meeting. For more information, email Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com or Nat Wachowski at nat.wachowski-estes@outlook.com or call 918-743-4297 . Illegally Alive Film Screening Thursday, February 22, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Doors open 6:00 p.m. Press Conference 6:10 p.m. Intro, Education, & Discussion 6:30 p.m. "Illegally Alive" 7:10 p.m. Closing discussion 8:10 p.m. The eCS Therapy Center and OK4Health will host a medical cannabis event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dr. Regina Nelson, president of the eCS Therapy Center, a national nonprofit, and Chip Paul, president of OK 4Health, will speak about the upcoming SQ788 vote and a collaborative project their organizations are working on - "Cannabis Therapy for the Oklahoman Soul," a collection of stories about Oklahomans affected by medical cannabis. In addition to a short discussion, Cinebis Film Institute Director Michael E. Browning will present the documentary "Illegally Alive," the story of a family that relocated to Colorado for cannabis therapy for their teenage son after his terminal diagnosis. 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op "Illegally Alive" explores what it's like for families with children who are suffering from debilitating or life-threatening illnesses to sacrifice everything in search of a treatment that actually works. 4/24/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews February 21st, 2018 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Get your tickets here Free DACA Renewal Clinic Saturday, February 24, 2:00 p.m. Sunday, February 25, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Need to renew your DACA? DAOK will host a free DACA renewal clinic this weekend! DAOK-Tulsa will be working alongside Immlaw at TU and Robert Messerli for this event. We will be able to pr ovide financial assistance for as many as 20 DACA recipients. Please fill out the registration form here in the description. We will give you a call confirming the time and date of your appointment. DACA 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Please call Jose at 918-743-4297 or Rosa at 918-861-8254 for more information. Share, share share! Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Register Here Moms Demand Action - Lobby Day Tuesday, February 27, 6:30 a.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd, Oklahoma City, OK 73105 Moms Demand Action of Oklahoma will hold its annual Lobby Day on Tuesday, February 27. We will head to the Capitol to talk to legislators about upcoming gun legislation. Round-trip bus transportation is available. We will meet at 6:30 a.m. at the University of Tulsa (2930 E. Sixth St., Tulsa, OK 74104) to depart for the Capitol. RSVP here for the bus. Bills expected to be filed this year: -Remove training and licensing requirements to carry handguns in public. -Allow guns to be carried on college campuses. -Hold businesses that prohibit guns liable for crime on their premises. I A MOMS DEMAND ACTION FOR GUN SENSE \:I INAMERICA Similar dangerous laws have passed in other states, and we need as many Oklahomans as possible to fight back against laws that make our state less safe. We are not just moms. Our group includes dads, grandparents, friends and anyone interested in helping to end the gun violence epidemic. For more information, email Oklahoma@momschapterleaders.org. Planned Parenthood Great Plains Tulsa: Volunteer Night Tuesday, February 27, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Planned Parenthood Great Plains for our first volunteer night of 2018! The evening will be an opportunity to meet the new Oklahoma Organizer, Anna Facci, and learn more about opportunities to volunteer with PPGP in the coming year. The event will be meet & greet style, with a presentation at 6:15PM, so feel free to join us when you can! It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. For more information, contact Anna Facci at anna.facci@ppgreatplains.org. Planned Parenthood Great Plains Wine Down Wednesday: Black History Month Wednesday, February 28, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you enjoy wine, meeting new people and hearing inspiring leadership content? 'Wine Down Wednesday!' is a social group that combines short 'TED-style' presentation! We drink wine while hearing motivational/expert speakers present their leadership expertise for 15-20 minutes (6:15pm-7:45pm). Before, in between, and following the speaker, we enjoy wine and talk about our month! Our events occur the last Wednesday of the month and topics always vary! If there's a certain topic you'd like to hear or a speaker recommendation, let us know! Don't miss out on a great social and leadership opportunity that will improve your life, productivity, and relationships! Come 'Wine Down!' Any questions please contact jose.vega@okeq.org First Thursday Art Show - Jini Kim "My Rat Problem, Continued" Thursday, March 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library March 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Jini Kim, in a show titled "My Rat Problem, Continued." Counseling Services Jini Kim is an artist from Tulsa who received her Bachelor of Fine Arts in Painting and Drawing in 2014 and is working toward her Master of Fine Arts in 2018. Her paintings are widely collected. Her current body of work combines painting and printmaking on topics of feminism, modern Orientalism and toxic masculinity. Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/24/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews February 21st, 2018 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Her current show, "My Rat Problem, Continued," combines painting, printmaking, and sculpture to create a narrative that satirizes contemporary culture, modern Orientalism and feminism. This series began with linoleum cuts printed on paper. Creating an immediate juxtaposition of Lowbrow, Popsurrealism, and Ed Roth's Rat Fink inspiration, a deeper meaning arose when this series turned to painting. The rat became a satirical view of male virility. The rat's head can be seen as a phallic symbol that is disturbing the main character, or the artist's presence. The graphic quality is then carried into the paintings, which start to incorporate jarring, complementary colors. These large-scale paintings are agitating; they provide a slick, finished quality that mimics the graphic colors of serigraphy and the serial aspect of the underground comix of the 1980's. The paintings also reference a history of female figures in the bathtub or the bedroom. Historically, female figures at a toilette or the bedroom are fluffed, pristine, and European. These paintings show more of an honest aspect of a woman at her toilette or the bedroom; a woman who is disturbed by the lineage of female objectification and eroticization of nonwhite women. An adjunct to this show includes smaller, painted woodcuts of the large-scale paintings - now on display in the University of Tulsa's Alexandre Hogue Gallery and can be viewed until March 15. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 choatek@nsuok.edu Jini says: "I create narrative paintings that illustrate my reaction to personifications of toxic masculinity. These paintings include a consistent theme that surrounds feminism, heavy metal, and modern Orientalism. My love for Ed Roth, lowbrow art, and heavy metal is present through the graphic style and the substantial reference to Ed Roth's notorious Rat Fink. Being an Asian woman often casts an expectation to be either a fetish, obedient, loyal, submissive, weak, dependent or a model minority type. There is a weird obsession over Asian woman while Asian men are emotionally castrated. Colored women in general are exploited for their bodies and a quest to conquer, creating a hostile and dangerous environment between men and women. I aim to represent marginalized groups of women and include more characters in future paintings." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, March 1, from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artist's work will be drawn. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group First & Third Thursday of every month Next Meeting March 1, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Stephanie Miller Tulsa Indigenous \ \ I //; Stephanie is a counseling intern at Northeastern State University. She is passionate about working with diverse families and clients, now expanding to the LGBTQ+ community and allies. Stephanie has experience with families, children and adolescents. She believes in helping the client identify and achieve their goals through a holistic approach. Contact Stephanie at 918-771-84 or tatom@nsuok.edu to make an appointment. All sessions are free and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m. on Wednesdays or 12:30 and 4:30 p.m. on Saturdays. OSU Tulsa Counseling Center & First Nation Support Group Indian or Indian at Heart ..,,...,.,, ........._ I/ I f \ \ First and Third Thursday of every month Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . 7pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equ ality Center LGBTQ Young Adults First Friday Art Crawl Friday, March 2, 5:30 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews February 21st, 2018 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Guthrie Green 111 E MB Brady St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Join the OKEQ Prism Group at the First Friday Art Crawl Event in March. The Art Crawl is held on the first Friday of the month and open from 6-9 pm. Each venue offers something different and creative, a true hallmark of the Tulsa Arts District. First Friday is a perfect date night starting with a cocktail, coffee or early dinner on one of the many patios. We will be meeting at Guthrie Green and travel together. For questions and more information contact jose.vega@okeq.org Red Ribbon Gala 2018 Saturday, March 3, 6:00 p.m. Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Red Ribbon Gala serves as the largest fundraiser annually for Tulsa CARES. Tulsa CARES delivers social services to people affected by HIV and AIDS. We are committed to creating a community where all people with HIV/AIDS have equal opportunities for healthy living. We advance our mission through empowerment, inclusion and the creation of hope by offering tailored, integrated resources and advocating for the end of HIV stigma. Next Generation Single Ticket - $250 Next Gen (1/2 price tickets for people under 40yrs old) Those 40 and under can purchase 1 Next Generation Ticket Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Click here to purchase tickets Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, March 6th, 6:30 p.m. Johnny Carino's Italian Restaurant 6364 E. 41st St., Tulsa, OK 74135 When does a restaurant become more than just a place to just get something to eat? When does eating out become a great experience? At Johnny Carino's, we strive to be YOUR favorite authentic Italian restaurant. Food is at the heart of our mission. From the Italian classics, to our one-of-a-kind spiced Italian favorites, all of our offerings are handcrafted from the finest, freshest ingredients available. Whether you're craving Italian comfort food like our 16-Layer Lasagna, or something with a little more spice like our famous Italian Nachos, Johnny Carino's has something for everyone. Visit Johnny Carino's Italian Restaurant online RSVP to Richard Haley GuysDineToo@gmail.com LGBTQ Veterans Support & Entertainment First & Third Tuesday of each month Next Meeting March 6, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Unit United States Na United GLAAD Media Institute:Telling Your Story: Messaging and Media Tools for Today's Activist Sunday, March 11, 9:30 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74135 Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 4/24/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews February 21st, 2018 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Participants will understand how to get a message of inclusion and acceptance across effectively in the mainstream media narrative about the LGBTQ community. Equipped with GLAAD's Accelerating Acceptance data, GLAAD will work with you to reach and teach the movable middle about the LGBTQ community through a personal lens, yours. Topics include LGBTQ acceptance, understanding media mentality, speaking to your audience, messaging and framing the issue, social media basics, and interview techniques. Breakfast, lunch, and refreshments will be served at this training. Register Here Tulsa Artist Fellowship (TAF) presents Visiting Artist Series Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Wednesday, March 14, 7:30 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center 102 E. MB Brady St., Tulsa OK 74103 Thursday, March 15, 7:30 p.m. Magic City Books 221 E. Archer St., Tulsa, OK 74103 Friday, March 16, 7:30 p.m. Fly Loft 117 N. Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 The Tulsa Artist Fellowship (TAF) will host four guest artists for a three-day presentation of works and works-in-progress Wednesday, March 14 - Friday, March 16, 2018. The guests range from authors to playwrights participating in various events that will be moderated by Tulsa Artist Fellows. "TAF Fellows join the Tulsa Arts community from various parts of the country," said Julia White, program manager at TAF. "In addition to moving their practice to Tulsa as part of the fellowship, we are always excited when we have the opportunity to bring the fellows' expansive networks and talented colleagues to visit our community. It's even more exciting when local artists and actors are involved in some way. This collaboration really speaks to the program's efforts to enhance our already burgeoning Arts community." The performances and readings will take place at multiple locations over the 3-day series. TAF guest artists and writer-performers Taji Senior and Jesus I. Valles, both coming from Austin, TX, will share two solo performance works-in-progress at the Woody Guthrie Center on Wednesday, March 14, beginning 7:30 p.m. The event, titled ¡Yo Solo!, will examine race, identity, politics, citizenship, documentation, and sexuality in America. TAF Fellow Adrienne Dawes will moderate a brief discussion after the performance. Linda Allegro, project director of New Sanctuary Tulsa, will also join the panel discussion. Jesus I. Valles During a joint presentation, visiting authors Matthew Baker and Lee Conell will read excerpts from their most recent works "Hybrid Creatures" and "Subcortical," respectively, at Magic City Books on Thursday, March 15, beginning at 7:30 p.m. Baker currently resides in New York City where he teaches at New York University. Conell is a visiting writer at the University of the South in Tennessee. The conversation, in partnership with Magic City Books, will be moderated by TAF Fellow Simon Han. TAF Fellow Adrienne Dawes will close out the series with a reading of her new play-in-progress "Teen Dad" at Fly Loft on Friday, March 16, beginning at 7:30 p.m. "Teen Dad" is a comedic exploration of trauma and recovery in a mixed race Black and Latinx family. The cast will feature guest artists Taji Senior and Jesus I. Valles, as well as local actors Kia Dorsey, Viviana Goodwin and Phetote Mshairi. All events are free and open to the public. To find out more information, visit TAF Facebook events and visit www.tulsaartistfellowship.org About Tulsa Artist Fellowship: Established by the George Kaiser Family Foundation in 2015, the Tulsa Artist Fellowship provides visual and literary artists with the time and space to create. Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2017 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@okeq.org February Video eNews Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. 4/24/26, 4:17 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/322a638344002133ffbc47d19ffd0955.pdf d8f737fac751fb69fe41e373667d9ed9 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 28th, 2018 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews February 28th, 2018 oklahomans for equality In This Issue news Kelly Kirby CPA Wine Down Wednesday: Black History Month First Thursday Art Show Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group LGBTQ Young Adults First Friday Art Crawl Gay Men's Dinner Group F ~ paµo1r Rental Properf¥ p ng Bookk LGBTQ Veterans Support & Entertainment -----Cityscape Home Mortgage GLAAD Media Institute:Telling Your Story Tulsa Artist Fellowship (TAF) March EBA Mixer TMSL 2018 Spring Schedule Council Oak Men's Chorale No Shade for Plus TULSA PROJECT THEATRE ' '0 Qi&C> Pride Store Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Amazon Smile Let us help you file your 2017 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 First Responders Amazon Smile Shop Now Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! amazonsmile ~ 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kklrby.com FettturLV\.g n,tbo~e~u.x: ne ~.x Toer~p!:j Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. You shop. Amazon gives. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, March 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Jini Kim, in a show titled "My Rat Problem, Continued." Jini Kim is an artist from Tulsa who received her Bachelor of Fine Arts in Painting and Drawing in 2014 and is working toward her Master of Fine Arts in 2018. Her paintings are widely collected. Her current body of work combines painting and printmaking on topics of feminism, modern Orientalism and toxic masculinity. The show continues throughout the month. Wine Down Wednesday: Black History Month Wednesday, February 28, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews February 28th, 2018 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Do you enjoy wine, meeting new people and hearing inspiring leadership content? 'Wine Down Wednesday!' is a social group that combines short 'TED-style' presentation! We drink wine while hearing motivational/expert speakers present their leadership expertise for 15-20 minutes (6:15pm-7:45pm). Before, in between, and following the speaker, we enjoy wine and talk about our month! Our events occur the last Wednesday of the month and topics always vary! If there's a certain topic you'd like to hear or a speaker recommendation, let us know! Don't miss out on a great social and leadership opportunity that will improve your life, productivity, and relationships! Come 'Wine Down!' Any questions please contact jose.vega@okeq.org First Thursday Art Show - Jini Kim "My Rat Problem, Continued" Thursday, March 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Family Ties The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Jini Kim, in a show titled "My Rat Problem, Continued." Jini Kim is an artist from Tulsa who received her Bachelor of Fine Arts in Painting and Drawing in 2014 and is working toward her Master of Fine Arts in 2018. Her paintings are widely collected. Her current body of work combines painting and printmaking on topics of feminism, modern Orientalism and toxic masculinity. Her current show, "My Rat Problem, Continued," combines painting, printmaking, and sculpture to create a narrative that satirizes contemporary culture, modern Orientalism and feminism. This series began with linoleum cuts printed on paper. Creating an immediate juxtaposition of Lowbrow, Popsurrealism, and Ed Roth's Rat Fink inspiration, a deeper meaning arose when this series turned to painting. The rat became a satirical view of male virility. The rat's head can be seen as a phallic symbol that is disturbing the main character, or the artist's presence. The graphic quality is then carried into the paintings, which start to incorporate jarring, complementary colors. These large-scale paintings are agitating; they provide a slick, finished quality that mimics the graphic colors of serigraphy and the serial aspect of the underground comix of the 1980's. The paintings also reference a history of female figures in the bathtub or the bedroom. Historically, female figures at a toilette or the bedroom are fluffed, pristine, and European. These paintings show more of an honest aspect of a woman at her toilette or the bedroom; a woman who is disturbed by the lineage of female objectification and eroticization of nonwhite women. An adjunct to this show includes smaller, painted woodcuts of the large-scale paintings - now on display in the University of Tulsa's Alexandre Hogue Gallery and can be viewed until March 15. Jini says: "I create narrative paintings that illustrate my reaction to personifications of toxic masculinity. These paintings include a consistent theme that surrounds feminism, heavy metal, and modern Orientalism. My love for Ed Roth, lowbrow art, and heavy metal is present through the graphic style and the substantial reference to Ed Roth's notorious Rat Fink. Being an Asian woman often casts an expectation to be either a fetish, obedient, loyal, submissive, weak, dependent or a model minority type. There is a weird obsession over Asian woman while Asian men are emotionally castrated. Colored women in general are exploited for their bodies and a quest to conquer, creating a hostile and dangerous environment between men and women. I aim to represent marginalized groups of women and include more characters in future paintings." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, March 1, from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artist's work will be drawn. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Meet our March Volunteer of the Month Ethan Jameson Ethan started volunteering because he had used the services at the center and was inspired to give back. He enjoys being a part of something bigger than himself and supporting a place that reflects his personal beliefs. Ethan also enjoys the chance to work with other volunteers and staff. Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op 4/24/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews February 28th, 2018 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group First & Third Thursday of every month Next Meeting March 1, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Indigenous \ \ l //; .,,,.,..,, ........... 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. & First Nation Support Group It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Indian or Indian at Heart Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. I/ I t \\ First and Third Thursday of every month 7pm at th e Denni s R. Neill Equ ality Center LGBTQ+ Young Adults First Friday Art Crawl Friday, March 2, 5:30 p.m. Guthrie Green 111 E MB Brady St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Join the OKEQ Prism Group at the First Friday Art Crawl Event in March. The Art Crawl is held on the first Friday of the month and open from 6-9 pm. Each venue offers something different and creative, a true hallmark of the Tulsa Arts District. First Friday is a perfect date night starting with a cocktail, coffee or early dinner on one of the many patios. We will be meeting at Guthrie Green and travel together. Lawyer in the Library Prism is a group for LGBTQ+ Young Adults ages 18-25. For questions and more information contact jose.vega@okeq.org March 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, March 6, 6:30 p.m. Johnny Carino's Italian Restaurant 6364 E. 41st St., Tulsa, OK 74135 When does a restaurant become more than just a place to just get something to eat? When does eating out become a great experience? At Johnny Carino's, we strive to be YOUR favorite authentic Italian restaurant. Food is at the heart of our mission. From the Italian classics, to our one-of-a-kind spiced Italian favorites, all of our offerings are handcrafted from the finest, freshest ingredients available. Whether you're craving Italian comfort food like our 16-Layer Lasagna, or something with a little more spice like our famous Italian Nachos, Johnny Carino's has something for everyone. Visit Johnny Carino's Italian Restaurant online Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. RSVP to Richard Haley GuysDineToo@gmail.com 4/24/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews February 28th, 2018 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... LGBTQ Veterans Support & Entertainment First & Third Tuesday of each month Next Meeting March 6, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 choatek@nsuok.edu Stephanie Miller Stephanie is a counseling intern at Northeastern State University. She is passionate about working with diverse families and clients, now expanding to the LGBTQ+ community and allies. Stephanie has experience with families, children and adolescents. She believes in helping the client identify and achieve their goals through a holistic approach. Contact Stephanie at 918-771-84 or tatom@nsuok.edu to make an appointment. All sessions are free and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m. on Wednesdays or 12:30 and 4:30 p.m. on Saturdays. OSU Tulsa Counseling Center Ladies Social Club Team Trivia Night Second Friday of Every Month Next Meeting March 9th, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Hi, friends! Bar trivia is all the rage around town lately, so join us for some team trivia on March 9! Don't have a team at the ready? No worries! Come solo and we'll make teams! Can't make it right at 6? No worries! What better way to get to know new people than finding out what obscure topics they know a freakish amount about? See you there! Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . You've got to be a woman to join us, but you certainly don't have to be a lady! The Ladies Social Club at Oklahomans for Equality is a place to make friends, develop community and have fun! LSC provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! Each month features different activities, like game night, craft night, and movie night, and we usually do potluck snacks. Our calendar of events is largely driven by your own input, ladies! You're also welcome to just come and hang out with the other women if that's more your style. GLAAD Media Institute:Telling Your Story: Messaging and Media Tools for Today's Activist Sunday, March 11, 9:30 a.m. 4/24/26, 4:17 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e2fbb5d75c3a23e8d8ae35b6a70eae8c.pdf a5dda6ef13e035202eaaa6d1199c5265 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 7th, 2018 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-7th--2018.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 7th, 2018 oklahom:ms for equality news In This Issue Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group LGBTQ Veterans Support & Entertainment Cityscape Home Mortgage GLAAD Media Institute:Telling Your Story Tulsa Artist Fellowship (TAF) March EBA Mixer Paµoir Rental Properf:y Bookkeep ng TMSL 2018 Spring Schedule Council Oak Men's Chorale No Shade for Plus TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Pride Store Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Amazon Smile First Responders I Let us help you file your 2017tax returns! Amazon Smile Shop Now Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant amazonsmile a professional corporation You shop. Amazon gives. (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com eatur~l/\,g r ~Lbo~eaux: ~e Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! ax 1 ~eraptj Dog ~ OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, March 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Jini Kim, in a show titled "My Rat Problem, Continued." Jini Kim is an artist from Tulsa who received her Bachelor of Fine Arts in Painting and Drawing in 2014 and is working toward her Master of Fine Arts in 2018. Her paintings are widely collected. Her current body of work combines painting and printmaking on topics of feminism, modern Orientalism and toxic masculinity. The show continues throughout the month. Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 3rd Pride Bingo of 2018 March 17th, 2018 621 E 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews March 7th, 2018 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-7th--2018.ht... Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is the best bingo EVER The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo Bash. DJ Alex says "get your lip sync selections ready." $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Meet our March Volunteer of the Month Ethan Jameson Ethan started volunteering because he had used the services at the center and was inspired to give back. He enjoys being a part of something bigger than himself and supporting a place that reflects his personal beliefs. Ethan also enjoys the chance to work with other volunteers and staff. Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group First & Third Thursday of every month Next Meeting March 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Indigenous \ \ l //; This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op & First Nation Support Group Indian or Indian at Heart 4/24/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews March 7th, 2018 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-7th--2018.ht... ........... I/ I f \ \ First and Third Thursday of every month 7pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. LGBTQ Veterans Support & Entertainment First & Third Tuesday of each month Next Meeting March 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Lawyer in the Library March 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Counseling Services Ladies Social Club Team Trivia Night Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Second Friday of Every Month 4/24/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews March 7th, 2018 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-7th--2018.ht... Next Meeting March 9th, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Hi, friends! Bar trivia is all the rage around town lately, so join us for some team trivia on March 9! Don't have a team at the ready? No worries! Come solo and we'll make teams! Can't make it right at 6? No worries! What better way to get to know new people than finding out what obscure topics they know a freakish amount about? See you there! You've got to be a woman to join us, but you certainly don't have to be a lady! Dr. Kurt Choate The Ladies Social Club at Oklahomans for Equality is a place to make friends, develop community and have fun! LSC provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! Each month features different activities, like game night, craft night, and movie night, and we usually do potluck snacks. Our calendar of events is largely driven by your own input, ladies! You're also welcome to just come and hang out with the other women if that's more your style. GLAAD Media Institute:Telling Your Story: Messaging and Media Tools for Today's Activist Sunday, March 11, 9:30 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 choatek@nsuok.edu Participants will understand how to get a message of inclusion and acceptance across effectively in the mainstream media narrative about the LGBTQ community. Equipped with GLAAD's Accelerating Acceptance data, GLAAD will work with you to reach and teach the movable middle about the LGBTQ community through a personal lens, yours. Topics include LGBTQ acceptance, understanding media mentality, speaking to your audience, messaging and framing the issue, social media basics, and interview techniques. Breakfast, lunch, and refreshments will be served at this training. Register Here Stephanie Miller Tulsa Artist Fellowship (TAF) presents Visiting Artist Series Stephanie is a counseling intern at Northeastern State University. She is passionate about working with diverse families and clients, now expanding to the LGBTQ+ community and allies. Stephanie has experience with families, children and adolescents. She believes in helping the client identify and achieve their goals through a holistic approach. Wednesday, March 14, 7:30 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center 102 E. MB Brady St., Tulsa OK 74103 Thursday, March 15, 7:30 p.m. Magic City Books 221 E. Archer St., Tulsa, OK 74103 Friday, March 16, 7:30 p.m. Fly Loft 117 N. Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 Contact Stephanie at 918-771-84 or tatom@nsuok.edu to make an appointment. All sessions are free and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m. on Wednesdays or 12:30 and 4:30 p.m. on Saturdays. The Tulsa Artist Fellowship (TAF) will host four guest artists for a three-day presentation of works and works-in-progress Wednesday, March 14 - Friday, March 16, 2018. The guests range from authors to playwrights participating in various events that will be moderated by Tulsa Artist Fellows. "TAF Fellows join the Tulsa Arts community from various parts of the country," said Julia White, program manager at TAF. "In addition to moving their practice to Tulsa as part of the fellowship, we are always excited when we have the opportunity to bring the fellows' expansive networks and talented colleagues to visit our community. It's even more exciting when local artists and actors are involved in some way. This collaboration really speaks to the program's efforts to enhance our already burgeoning Arts community." OSU Tulsa Counseling Center The performances and readings will take place at multiple locations over the 3-day series. TAF guest artists and writer-performers Taji Senior and Jesus I. Valles, both coming from Austin, TX, will share two solo performance works-in-progress at the Woody Guthrie Center on Wednesday, March 14, beginning 7:30 p.m. The event, titled ¡Yo Solo!, will examine race, identity, politics, citizenship, documentation, and sexuality in America. TAF Fellow Adrienne Dawes will moderate a brief discussion after the performance. Linda Allegro, project director of New Sanctuary Tulsa, will also join the panel discussion. Jesus I. Valles During a joint presentation, visiting authors Matthew Baker and Lee Conell will read excerpts from their most recent works "Hybrid Creatures" and "Subcortical," respectively, at Magic City Books on Thursday, March 15, beginning at 7:30 p.m. Baker currently resides in New York City where he teaches at New York University. Conell is a visiting writer at the University of the South in Tennessee. The conversation, in partnership with Magic City Books, will be moderated by TAF Fellow Simon Han. TAF Fellow Adrienne Dawes will close out the series with a reading of her new play-in-progress "Teen Dad" at Fly Loft on Friday, March 16, beginning at 7:30 p.m. "Teen Dad" is a comedic exploration of trauma and recovery in a mixed race Black and Latinx family. The cast will feature guest artists Taji Senior and Jesus I. Valles, as well as local actors Kia Dorsey, Viviana Goodwin and Phetote Mshairi. All events are free and open to the public. To find out more information, visit TAF Facebook events and visit www.tulsaartistfellowship.org About Tulsa Artist Fellowship: Established by the George Kaiser Family Foundation in 2015, the Tulsa Artist Fellowship provides visual and literary artists with the time and space to create. EBA Mixer Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . Wednesday, March 21, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Southern Hills Veterinary Hospital 2242 E 56th Place Tulsa, OK 741306 The entire team of professionals at Southern Hills Veterinary Hospital is dedicated to improving the quality of life and health of your pet. Dr. Rodney Robards and his medical staff provide our clients and their pets the most knowledgeable, informed, and compassionate veterinary care available today. We specialize in nutritional counseling, emergency services, and boarding. In addition our facility is equipped with laser therapy and surgery, digital radiology, and an in-house laboratory. Our office is located in Tulsa and serves the surrounding communities. Southern Hills Veterinary Hospital is a full service animal hospital that has been in business since 1956. Our animal hospital was founded on the principle that relationships matter. Not only do we offer first rate pet care, we also try to provide a comfortable, kid-friendly, and calm environment so your pet and family can 4/24/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews March 7th, 2018 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-7th--2018.ht... have an enjoyable experience. Our goal is to go the extra mile to care for your family pet. Dedicated to excellence in pet care, we give each animal the same care that we would give members of our own family. Visit Southern Hills Veterinary Hospital Online. Southern H, s VETERINARY HOSPITAL Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . You can join the EBA online, at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. E UALITY Business Alliance Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. TMSL 2018 Spring Schedule Indian Springs Softball Complex 13600 S 145th E Ave, Broken Arrow, OK 74011 Hey TMSL members! With the 2018 spring season right around the corner, we have some news for you. WE'RE MOVING! You read right - we will be moving our league to the Indian Springs Softball Complex this season. We look forward to a fun season and welcome all skill levels. And if you're worried about not having a team, don't fret - we will help you find one. Registration is open, and the cost is $50/ player. News flash: This fee also makes you an active voting member of Oklahomans for Equality! So spread the word, grab your friends, and sign up today! 2018 Spring Schedule ( 11am-2pm game times): March 11- Field Day more info soon March 25 - Opening Day April 8, 15, 22, 29 May 6, 20 June 3 - Final Day For more information visit the website at www.tulsametrosoftball.com Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new choir members for their 20th Anniversary concert season! Rehearsals are each Tuesday at 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Concert: June 14 and 15, 8 p.m. Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 4:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/82f62fbcccf5f2095d337c3375cdf36a.pdf 2e6858bc3d61d61f01d77f1f67874e1b PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 8th, 2018 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2018.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news oklahom:ms for equality Call to Action Oklahomans for Equality asks you to please call your Oklahoma State Senator and ask them to vote NO on Senator Greg Treat's SB 1140. Click here to find your senator March 8th, 2018 In This Issue Call to Action Kelly Kirby CPA Jolt Bowling Tournament A Fantastic Woman 2018 Equality Gala Pride Bingo March Volunteer of the Month Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group LGBTQ Veterans Support & Entertainment Cityscape Home Mortgage Reasons why this is a bad bill for Oklahoma and bad for our children who are in the care of the state. Ladies Social Club GLAAD Media Institute:Telling Your Story 1) It would allow private agencies to make a policy where they would NEVER certify or train prospective and adoptive parents as long as they claim they don't meet their "moral" or "religious" evaluations. Faith based agencies funded by your tax dollars could refuse to allow same sex couples to foster parent or adopt. 2) It would allow private agencies to make a policy where they would NEVER even ATTEMPT to find a home for children in shelters and group homes who identified as LGBTQ, or are considered "medically fragile", or have a disability as long as the agencies claim it's for "moral" or "religious" reasons. 3) It would PROHIBIT DHS from being able to intervene and contract with someone else who was willing to provide a family for LGBTQ youth in state care, regardless of "moral" or "religious" reasons. The bill is here In addition to calling your senator please call and email the following senators and ask them to vote NO on SB 1140. Tulsa Artist Fellowship (TAF) March EBA Mixer TMSL 2018 Spring Schedule Council Oak Men's Chorale No Shade for Plus TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Pride Store Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Amazon Smile First Responders I.C.A.O. Coronation XI Senator Mike Schulz 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Rm. 422 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 521-5612 schulz@oksenate.gov Senator Greg Treat 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Rm. 418 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 521-5632 Treat@oksenate.gov Senator Mark Allen 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Rm. 234 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 521-5576 allen@oksenate.gov Senator Micheal Bergstrom 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Rm. 428B Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 521-5561 bergstrom@oksenate.gov Senator Stephanie Bice 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 424A Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 521-5592 bice@oksenate.gov Amazon Smile Shop Now Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! amazons ....._,, mile You shop. Amazon gives. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, March 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Senator Larry Boggs 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Rm. 530 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 521-5604 boggs@oksenate.gov All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members Senator Bill Brown 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Rm. 232 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 521-5602 brownb@oksenate.gov The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Jini Kim, in a show titled "My Rat Problem, Continued." Senator Julie Daniels 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Rm. 531 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 521-5634 daniels@oksenate.gov Senator Kim David 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Rm. 537 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 521-5590 david@oksenate.gov Senator Tom Dugger 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Rm. 529A Oklahoma City, OK 73105 OkEq Art Exhibition Jini Kim is an artist from Tulsa who received her Bachelor of Fine Arts in Painting and Drawing in 2014 and is working toward her Master of Fine Arts in 2018. Her paintings are widely collected. Her current body of work combines painting and printmaking on topics of feminism, modern Orientalism and toxic masculinity. The show continues throughout the month. 4/24/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2018 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2018.ht... 405.521.5572 dugger@oksenate.gov Senator Eddie Fields 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Rm. 526 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 521-5581 efields@oksenate.gov }'ayx.oir Rental I Family Ties Properfy Boolk n9 I &,QC> Let us help you file your 2017tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com eatur~V\,g r viLbo~eau,>c vie ax. 1 vie rap tj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op GRAB YOUR 4/24/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2018 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2018.ht... BALL5! And you could win some money doing it! Corne join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday March 9th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. A Fantastic Woman Friday, March 9 2:30 & 7:30 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74104 Oscar Winner - Best Foreign Language Film (Chile) Purchase Tickets Here Marina, a young waitress and aspiring singer, and Orlando, an executive who is 20 years her senior, are in love and planning for their future. After experiencing his shocking death, Marina is left unable to mourn as she deals with doctors, police officers, and Orlando's own family who view her with suspicion and distrust, based solely on the basis of her being a trans woman. After being denied her apartment and her dog, she is prohibited from attending Orlando's funeral, a final blow that strengthens Marina's resolve to speak her mind, follow her heart, and exercise her right to mourn her lost love. Featuring a tour de force performance by Daniela Vega, winner of the Best Actress award from the Fenix Film Awards. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Lawyer in the Library March 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/24/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2018 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2018.ht... Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 choatek@nsuok.edu 2018 Equality Gala Saturday, April 21, 6:30 p.m. Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Sponsorship's and tickets available now --------- Stephanie Miller Stephanie is a counseling intern at Northeastern State University. She is passionate about working with diverse families and clients, now expanding to the LGBTQ+ community and allies. Stephanie has experience with families, children and adolescents. She believes in helping the client identify and achieve their goals through a holistic approach. oklahomans for equality Contact Stephanie at 918-771-84 or tatom@nsuok.edu to make an appointment. All sessions are free and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m. on Wednesdays or 12:30 and 4:30 p.m. on Saturdays. OSU Tulsa Counseling Center 3rd Pride Bingo of 2018 Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . March 17th, 2018 621 E 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is the best bingo EVER The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo Bash. DJ Alex says "get your lip sync selections ready." $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table @ the Dennis R, Neill Equality Center Meet our March Volunteer of the Month Ethan Jameson Ethan started volunteering because he had used the services at the center and was inspired to give back. He enjoys being a part of something bigger than himself and supporting a place that reflects his personal beliefs. Ethan also enjoys the chance to work with other volunteers and staff. 4/24/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2018 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2018.ht... Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group First & Third Thursday of every month Next Meeting March 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 4/24/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2018 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2018.ht... Tulsa Indigenous \ \ l //; & First Nation Support Group Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Indian or Indian at Heart ----- ............ I/ I f \ \ First and Third Thursday of every month 7pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Cente r LGBTQ Veterans Support & Entertainment First & Third Tuesday of each month Next Meeting March 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. 4/24/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2018 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2018.ht... Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday, 7:30 p.m. Ladies Social Club Team Trivia Night Second Friday of Every Month Next Meeting March 9th, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Hi, friends! Bar trivia is all the rage around town lately, so join us for some team trivia on March 9! Don't have a team at the ready? No worries! Come solo and we'll make teams! Can't make it right at 6? No worries! What better way to get to know new people than finding out what obscure topics they know a freakish amount about? See you there! The Southern Pride Drum Group is the only such group of its kind in the world, being the only drum group composed of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have traveled across the U.S. and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years, with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. They seek to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and to add to their tight-knit drum family. You've got to be a woman to join us, but you certainly don't have to be a lady! The Ladies Social Club at Oklahomans for Equality is a place to make friends, develop community and have fun! LSC provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! Each month features different activities, like game night, craft night, and movie night, and we usually do potluck snacks. Our calendar of events is largely driven by your own input, ladies! You're also welcome to just come and hang out with the other women if that's more your style. GLAAD Media Institute:Telling Your Story: Messaging and Media Tools for Today's Activist Sunday, March 11, 9:30 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free Yoga Class at OKEQ Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Participants will understand how to get a message of inclusion and acceptance across effectively in the mainstream media narrative about the LGBTQ community. Equipped with GLAAD's Accelerating Acceptance data, GLAAD will work with you to reach and teach the movable middle about the LGBTQ community through a personal lens, yours. Topics include LGBTQ acceptance, understanding media mentality, speaking to your audience, messaging and framing the issue, social media basics, and interview techniques. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Breakfast, lunch, and refreshments will be served at this training. Register Here Tulsa Artist Fellowship (TAF) presents Visiting Artist Series Wednesday, March 14, 7:30 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center 102 E. MB Brady St., Tulsa OK 74103 Thursday, March 15, 7:30 p.m. Magic City Books 221 E. Archer St., Tulsa, OK 74103 SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Friday, March 16, 7:30 p.m. Fly Loft 117 N. Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 The Tulsa Artist Fellowship (TAF) will host four guest artists for a three-day presentation of works and works-in-progress Wednesday, March 14 - Friday, March 16, 2018. The guests range from authors to playwrights participating in various events that will be moderated by Tulsa Artist Fellows. "TAF Fellows join the Tulsa Arts community from various parts of the country," said Julia White, program manager at TAF. "In addition to moving their practice to Tulsa as part of the fellowship, we are always excited when we have the opportunity to bring the fellows' expansive networks and talented colleagues to visit our community. It's even more exciting when local artists and actors are involved in some way. This collaboration really speaks to the program's efforts to enhance our already burgeoning Arts community." Asexual Meeting 2nd & 4th Tuesday of every month 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who 4/24/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2018 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2018.ht... The performances and readings will take place at multiple locations over the 3-day series. TAF guest artists and writer-performers Taji Senior and Jesus I. Valles, both coming from Austin, TX, will share two solo performance works-in-progress at the Woody Guthrie Center on Wednesday, March 14, beginning 7:30 p.m. The event, titled ¡Yo Solo!, will examine race, identity, politics, citizenship, documentation, and sexuality in America. TAF Fellow Adrienne Dawes will moderate a brief discussion after the performance. Linda Allegro, project director of New Sanctuary Tulsa, will also join the panel discussion. During a joint presentation, visiting authors Matthew Baker and Lee Conell will read excerpts from their most recent works "Hybrid Creatures" and "Subcortical," respectively, at Magic City Books on Thursday, March 15, beginning at 7:30 p.m. Baker currently resides in New York City where he teaches at New York University. Conell is a visiting writer at the University of the South in Tennessee. The conversation, in partnership with Magic City Books, will be moderated by TAF Fellow Simon Han. TAF Fellow Adrienne Dawes will close out the series with a reading of her new play-inJesus I. Valles progress "Teen Dad" at Fly Loft on Friday, March 16, beginning at 7:30 p.m. "Teen Dad" is a comedic exploration of trauma and recovery in a mixed race Black and Latinx family. The cast will feature guest artists Taji Senior and Jesus I. Valles, as well as local actors Kia Dorsey, Viviana Goodwin and Phetote Mshairi. All events are free and open to the public. To find out more information, visit TAF Facebook events and visit www.tulsaartistfellowship.org About Tulsa Artist Fellowship: Established by the George Kaiser Family Foundation in 2015, the Tulsa Artist Fellowship provides visual and literary artists with the time and space to create. EBA Mixer identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. Asexuality can be defined in many different ways. Some of us identify as asexual because we are not interested in intercourse, but still want other forms of sex. Some of us identify as asexual because we cannot get sexually aroused. Others may identify as asexual because we are never attracted to anyone sexually. Some of us are in relationships with the opposite sex, some with the same sex, and others remain unattached our entire lives. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Wednesday, March 21, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Southern Hills Veterinary Hospital 2242 E 56th Place Tulsa, OK 741306 The entire team of professionals at Southern Hills Veterinary Hospital is dedicated to improving the quality of life and health of your pet. Dr. Rodney Robards and his medical staff provide our clients and their pets the most knowledgeable, informed, and compassionate veterinary care available today. We specialize in nutritional counseling, emergency services, and boarding. In addition our facility is equipped with laser therapy and surgery, digital radiology, and an in-house laboratory. Our office is located in Tulsa and serves the surrounding communities. Southern Hills Veterinary Hospital is a full service animal hospital that has been in business since 1956. Our animal hospital was founded on the principle that relationships matter. Not only do we offer first rate pet care, we also try to provide a comfortable, kid-friendly, and calm environment so your pet and family can have an enjoyable experience. Our goal is to go the extra mile to care for your family pet. Dedicated to excellence in pet care, we give each animal the same care that we would give members of our own family. Visit Southern Hills Veterinary Hospital Online. Southern Hi s VETERINARY HOSPITAL Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Colton & Haley No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. You can join the EBA online, at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy for GLBT Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 4/24/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2018 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2018.ht... E UALITY Business Alliance Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa Writers, Ink. TMSL 2018 Spring Schedule 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. Indian Springs Softball Complex 13600 S 145th E Ave, Broken Arrow, OK 74011 Hey TMSL members! With the 2018 spring season right around the corner, we have some news for you. WE'RE MOVING! You read right - we will be moving our league to the Indian Springs Softball Complex this season. We look forward to a fun season and welcome all skill levels. And if you're worried about not having a team, don't fret - we will help you find one. Registration is open, and the cost is $50/ player. News flash: This fee also makes you an active voting member of Oklahomans for Equality! So spread the word, grab your friends, and sign up today! 2018 Spring Schedule ( 11am-2pm game times): March 11- Field Day more info soon March 25 - Opening Day April 8, 15, 22, 29 May 6, 20 June 3 - Final Day An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. For more information visit the website at www.tulsametrosoftball.com (First time interview required before attending) Email alex.wade@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new choir members for their 20th Anniversary concert season! Rehearsals are each Tuesday at 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Concert: June 14 and 15, 8 p.m. Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 SPECIAL BONUS CONCERT: Thursday, June 21, with the Turtle Creek Chorale from Dallas. Stay tuned for more details! Contact us at counciloak.org or on Facebook ! HE (oVN(I~ oAK MEN'S Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org (HoRA~E Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/24/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2018 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2018.ht... No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve a space for your next event or receive pricing information, contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Tulsa Project Theatre (TPT), the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, and has announced its 2017-2018 season. Three of the season's productions are in collaboration with other AEA affiliates - two from Oklahoma City and one with whom fans of the hit TV shows, Big Bang Theory and Speechless, may be familiar. In February 2018, TPT returns to the intimate Norman Theatre at the Tulsa PAC to present the Regional Premiere of John Ross Bowie's FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN. This brand new non-musical play centers on the iconic punk band, The Ramones, as they record their fifth album with eccentric music producer, Phil Spector. Focusing on the period in 1979-1980 when the band stood on the edge of breaking out, and Spector needed a hit, this intense black comedy sheds light on an important and overlooked moment in rock history. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN was written by actor and comedian John Ross Bowie, best known for his role as Barry Kripke in the CBS show THE BIG BANG THEORY and currently as Jimmy Dimeo on the ABC show SPEECHLESS. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN runs February 16-25, 2018. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center TICK...TICK...BOOM! is an autobiographical musical by Jonathan Larson, the late Pulitzer Prize- and Tony Awardwinning composer of Rent, which tells the story of a composer and the sacrifices he made to achieve his big break, eventually leading to a Broadway blockbuster. His girlfriend wants to get married and move out of the city, his best friend is making big bucks on Madison Avenue and, yet, Jon is still waiting tables and trying to write the great American rock musical. Set in 1990, this compelling story of personal discovery embraces the universal ideal of holding onto your dreams through life's most difficult challenges. Before RENT, there was TICK...TICK...BOOM! The production will run for a weekend in Oklahoma City before arriving in Tulsa for a limited run on April 27 - 29, 2018. Tulsa Project Theatre will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera LIZZIE, set to run July 13-22, 2018. On a sweltering summer morning in 1892, in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden was the prime suspect and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. LIZZIE features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. LIZZIE is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information Equality Center Pride Store These ruby slippers can be found at the OKEQ Pride Store. Tapping the heels together may not bring you home but they will make any outfit magical! Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 1st Wednesday of each month 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. 4/24/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2018 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2018.ht... This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "When the Drama Club is Not Enough: Lessons from the Safe Schools Program for Gay and Lesbian Students" Written by: Jeff Perrotti and Kim Westheimer Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. " When the Drama Club Is Not Enough presents the work of two young activists who have been at the forefront of the successful Safe Schools Program for Gay and Lesbian Students in Massachusetts, a model for states and school districts nationwide. They give concrete, hard-won, and often inspiring lessons on integrating gay and lesbian issues to create powerful change for school communities. When the Drama Club Is Not Enough The book discusses the previously undiscussable--gay and lesbian identity and self-esteem at the middle and elementary school level, and gay and lesbian issues in school sports. It tells the story of a high school junior who, at Lessons Afrom '. the end of one of Jeff Perrotti's workshops on school sports, raised his hand and said he was a football captain and th'e -~af~ School wanted to come out and needed help, and uses this dramatic narrative of personal courage to show step-by-step Progra nqor Gay/ how gay and lesbian issues can be a catalyst for transformation of schools. ~n B-L~tr n- ' f; ,, The authors speak directly to those who want to change school climate--parents, teachers, administrators, and :S_tutlen- .. . .,:,L, students concerned about harassment and safety. They offer seasoned and often humorous advice on dealing with controversy--even if it occurs in the context of a school presentation on sexual orientation attended by angry and disruptive parents. When the Drama Club Is Not Enough includes chapters on 'Getting Started' and 'Race and Gender' and sections on school policies and students' legal rights in order to ensure safe schools." Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Amazon Smile Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Amazon Smile Link amazons ,,............,,,,,n • e You shop. Amazon gives. Sharon Queen Service Coordinator Veterans, Transgender and Indigenous People Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2018 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2018.ht... Jose Vega Program Director Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer & Pride Store Coordinator Alex.Wade@OkEq.org WF CAN Al I RF FIRS~ RFSPONDFRS Luke Welvaert Facilities Coordinator Luke.Welvaert@OkEq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Denise Polonchak Janitorial Services - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - ~ OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Jan Baldwin, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Robin VanMeter, At Large Board of Directors Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Sheena Grewal Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Ben Matthews Mike Redman, Esq. Chris Shoaf Al Triggs John Williams Board of Advisors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Peter Brennan Alyssa Bryant, Esq 4/24/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2018 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2018.ht... Jamie Catlett Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Marcia Keesee Amanda Lowe Jim Scholl Mikeal Vaughn William Vaughn Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, Inc. Presents Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes coronation XI (iods and (ioddess: worlds arch 29 2018 out-of-Town Show March -- t 30 ..,_,,..'irY ~ ---,,..\,,..\ L~ ~~/, ✓~ 2018 1 a ch 31 2018 April 1 2018 = 0 ~ .. April 1 ...2018 3% ii ~ Victory Shot Porty & Show Hosted b . The United Coll1 o t lone S ar Emp. e ;': Q onuch Tra ·el '2 Sii' ~ :r; g Get Tickets onllne o lmpcourtokorg or at the door 4/24/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2018 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2018.ht... r------ ------------- ------------------ ------------------ ------------- ------------------ ----------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 4:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a06dbbf0280d059817b96d53f0b2643c.pdf ee1b9a696128d4a8d4cd3f2f6e0bfe8f PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 15th, 2018 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2018.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 15th, 2018 okl::ihom::ins for equ::ility news In This Issue Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group LGBTQ in the Middle East Pride Bingo March Volunteer of the Month LGBTQ Veterans Support & Entertainment - - Michael Farr is sponsoring the day No Shade for Plus Saturday, March 17, 2018 Dreaming of buying a home? Cityscape Home Mortgage Featured Article Featured Article Thank you, Michael! 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Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation {918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, March 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Jini Kim, in a show titled "My Rat Problem, Continued." Jini Kim is an artist from Tulsa who received her Bachelor of Fine Arts in Painting and Drawing in 2014 and is working toward her Master of Fine Arts in 2018. Her paintings are widely collected. Her current body of work combines painting and printmaking on topics of feminism, modern Orientalism and toxic masculinity. The show continues throughout the month. admin@kkirby.com 4/24/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2018 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2018.... www.liliir6y.com eatur[ll\,g r ~Lbo~eaux: ~e ax. ~erapkj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Family Ties Call to Action CALL TO ACTION: SB1140 by Senator Greg Treat has moved to the House of Representatives. Contact your Oklahoma state House Representative and tell them Vote NO on SB1140. Find your Representative here SB1140 by Senator Greg Treat has passed the senate and will soon be heard by the House of Representatives!!! We must protect LGBTQ youth in foster care shelters and group homes by making sure they are not excluded from placement in qualified foster homes. We must oppose any legislation that takes our tax dollars and gives them to faith-based and private child placing agencies who refuse to allow same sex couples and LGBTQ individuals to provide foster care and or adopt. Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact jose.vega@okeq.org Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips SB1140 would allow: • Private agencies to make a policy where they would NEVER certify or train prospective and adoptive parents as long as they claim it's for "moral" or "religious" reasons. • Would allow private agencies to make a policy where they would NEVER even ATTEMPT to find a home for children in shelters and group homes who identified as LGBTQ, are considered "medically fragile", or have a disability as long as the agencies claim it's for "moral" or "religious" reasons. • Would PROHIBIT the Department of Human Services (DHS) from intervening and being able to contract with another agency who was willing to find a family for an LGBTQ youth or consider a same-sex couple if the original private agency had already refused placement based on "moral" or "religious" reasons. Full text of the bill is available here Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group First & Third Thursday of every month Next Meeting March 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Indigenous \ \ I //; 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op & First Nation Support Group ~~~~ Indian or Indian at Heart 4/24/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2018 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2018.... ....._ I/ I f \ \ First and Third Thursday of every month 7pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. LGBTQ in the Middle East Friday, March 16, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 LGBT folks do exist in the Arabic speaking world. From Morocco to Egypt, from Palestine to Iraq. Homosexuality continues to be illegal and punishable by the DEATH penalty in the following Arab countries: MAURITANIA, SAUDI ARABIA, SUDAN, YEMEN and southern parts of SOMALIA. Homosexuality is illegal in the following countries (punishable by imprisonment, lashes, hard labor): Algeria, Bahrain, Djibouti, Kuwait, Lebanon, Libya, Morocco, Oman, Qatar, Syria, Tunisia and the United Arab Emirates. There is no law explicitly outlawing homosexuality in Comoros, Egypt, Iraq, Jordan and northern parts of Somalia. However, that is not to mean that LGBT folks are accepted, tolerated or even safe from imprisonment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Come learn about LGBTQ life in the Middle East. Come try some of the food and drinks they cherish and share. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. 3rd Pride Bingo of 2018 Saturday, March 17, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is the best bingo EVER The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo Bash. DJ Alex says "get your lip sync selections ready." $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Meet our March Volunteer of the Month Ethan Jameson Ethan started volunteering because he had used the services at the center and was inspired to give back. He enjoys being a part of something bigger than himself and supporting a place that reflects his personal beliefs. Ethan also enjoys the chance to work with other volunteers and staff. Lawyer in the Library March 21 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/24/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2018 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2018.... Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 choatek@nsuok.edu Stephanie Miller LGBTQ Veterans Support & Entertainment First & Third Tuesday of each month Next Meeting March 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Stephanie is a counseling intern at Northeastern State University. She is passionate about working with diverse families and clients, now expanding to the LGBTQ+ community and allies. Stephanie has experience with families, children and adolescents. She believes in helping the client identify and achieve their goals through a holistic approach. Contact Stephanie at 918-771-84 or tatom@nsuok.edu to make an appointment. All sessions are free and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m. on Wednesdays or 12:30 and 4:30 p.m. on Saturdays. OSU Tulsa Counseling Center No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday Next meeting March 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . 4/24/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2018 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2018.... EBA Mixer Wednesday, March 21, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Southern Hills Veterinary Hospital 2242 E. 56th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 The entire team of professionals at Southern Hills Veterinary Hospital is dedicated to improving the quality of life and health of your pet. Dr. Rodney Robards and his medical staff provide our clients and their pets the most knowledgeable, informed, and compassionate veterinary care available today. We specialize in nutritional counseling, emergency services, and boarding. In addition our facility is equipped with laser therapy and surgery, digital radiology, and an in-house laboratory. Our office is located in Tulsa and serves the surrounding communities. Southern Hills Veterinary Hospital is a full service animal hospital that has been in business since 1956. Our animal hospital was founded on the principle that relationships matter. Not only do we offer first rate pet care, we also try to provide a comfortable, kid-friendly, and calm environment so your pet and family can have an enjoyable experience. Our goal is to go the extra mile to care for your family pet. Dedicated to excellence in pet care, we give each animal the same care that we would give members of our own family. Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Visit Southern Hills Veterinary Hospital Online. Southern Hi s VETERINARY HOSPITAL Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. You can join the EBA online, at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. E UALITY Business Alliance The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Ally Connection Happy Hour Thursday, March 22, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:19 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/41600a4eeb6fd79c0eb27a75fb89d98c.pdf 75538dc88ecb0f8526022afcf2f40f47 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 21st, 2018 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-21st--2018.h... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 21st, 2018 okl::ihom::ins for equ::ility In This Issue news Kelly Kirby CPA March Volunteer of the Month March EBA Mixer Ally Connection Happy Hour CALL TO ACTION: SB 1140 Dreaming of buying a home? LGBT Women's Network April Happy Hour PaflOll Rental roperf:y keep1119 LGBTQ Veterans Support and Entertainment -----First Thursday Art Show Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group No Shade for Plus Foster Care and Adoption Information Event 2018 Equality Gala Art call for (even) MOREColor 2018 Compassionate Communication Pride Bingo Super Hero Night TMSL 2018 Spring Schedule TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Pride Store Let us help you file your 2017 tax returns! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Amazon Smile Dissertation Study - Sexual Behaviors in MSM Dr. Regina Nelson Kelly Kirby CPA First Responders Monarch XI Elections I.C.A.O. Coronation XI Jolt - Jackpot Golf Classic Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation {918) 747-5466 Amazon Smile 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Shop Now Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! amazons ....._,, mi le You shop. Amazon gives. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, April 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center e~tuy[V\,g T n~bo~eaux: ne ax 1 nerap!:j Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Meet our March Volunteer of the Month Ethan Jameson Ethan started volunteering because he had used the services at the center and was inspired to give back. He enjoys being a part of something bigger than himself and supporting a place that reflects his personal beliefs. Ethan also enjoys the chance to work with other volunteers and staff. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Jini Kim, in a show titled "My Rat Problem, Continued." Jini Kim is an artist from Tulsa who received her Bachelor of Fine Arts in Painting and Drawing in 2014 and is working toward her Master of Fine Arts in 2018. Her paintings are widely collected. Her current body of work combines painting and printmaking on topics of feminism, modern 4/24/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews March 21st, 2018 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-21st--2018.h... Orientalism and toxic masculinity. The show continues throughout the month. Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact jose.vega@okeq.org EBA Mixer Wednesday, March 21, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Southern Hills Veterinary Hospital 2242 E. 56th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 The entire team of professionals at Southern Hills Veterinary Hospital is dedicated to improving the quality of life and health of your pet. Dr. Rodney Robards and his medical staff provide our clients and their pets the most knowledgeable, informed, and compassionate veterinary care available today. We specialize in nutritional counseling, emergency services, and boarding. In addition our facility is equipped with laser therapy and surgery, digital radiology, and an in-house laboratory. Our office is located in Tulsa and serves the surrounding communities. Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips Southern Hills Veterinary Hospital is a full service animal hospital that has been in business since 1956. Our animal hospital was founded on the principle that relationships matter. Not only do we offer first rate pet care, we also try to provide a comfortable, kid-friendly, and calm environment so your pet and family can have an enjoyable experience. Our goal is to go the extra mile to care for your family pet. Dedicated to excellence in pet care, we give each animal the same care that we would give members of our own family. Visit Southern Hills Veterinary Hospital Online. Southern H, s VETERINARY HOSPITAL 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. You can join the EBA online, at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op 4/24/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews March 21st, 2018 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-21st--2018.h... E UALITY Business Alliance 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Ally Connection Happy Hour Thursday, March 22, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us Thursday, March 22nd as we mingle as allies and as a community. Stephanie Miller will begin a 5 part workshop series on what the LGBTQ+ community wants and needs from their allies starting in April. These hour-long workshop sessions will be part education and part experiential processing. Tools and directions will be provided to help you be a better ally to the LGBTQ+ community. BE An ALLY Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. CALL TO ACTION: SB 1140 by Senator Greg Treat CALL TO ACTION: SB 1140 by Senator Greg Treat Contact your Oklahoma state Senator and tell them Vote NO on SB1140. Find your representative here SB1140 by Senator Greg Treat could soon be heard!!! We must protect LGBTQ youth in foster care shelters and group homes by making sure they are not excluded from placement in qualified foster homes. We must oppose any legislation that takes our tax dollars and gives them to faith-based and private child placing agencies who refuse to allow same sex couples and LGBTQ individuals to provide foster care and or adopt. SB1140 would allow: • Private agencies to make a policy where they would NEVER certify or train prospective and adoptive parents as long as they claim it's for "moral" or "religious" reasons. • Would allow private agencies to make a policy where they would NEVER even ATTEMPT to find a home for children in shelters and group homes who identified as LGBTQ, are considered "medically fragile", or have a disability as long as the agencies claim it's for "moral" or "religious" reasons. • Would PROHIBIT the Department of Human Services (DHS) from intervening and being able to contract with another agency who was willing to find a family for an LGBTQ youth or consider a same-sex couple if the original private agency had already refused placement based on "moral" or "religious" reasons. Contact these Representatives and tell them you OPPOSE SB1140. Judiciary Committee Rep. Chris Kannady - Chair 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 246 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7337 Legislative Assistant: Zach Swift Rep. Tim Downing - Vice Chair 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 300A Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7365 Assistant: Patricia Timberlake* Rep. Greg Babinec 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 302B Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7304 Legislative Assistant: Rynae Blassingame* Rep. Rhonda Baker 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 202A Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7311 Legislative Assistant: Megan Jackson* Lawyer in the Library March 21 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Legislative Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/24/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews March 21st, 2018 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-21st--2018.h... Rep. Kevin Calvey 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 435 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7357 Legislative Assistant: Charlotte Maughan Rep. Avery Frix 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 328B Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7302 Legislative Assistant: Gina Kanelopoulos* Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 choatek@nsuok.edu Rep. Elise Hall 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 200 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7403 Legislative Assistant: Karlita Manger Rep. Justin Humphrey 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 329B Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7382 Legislative Assistant: LaToya Alexander* Rep. John Paul Jordan 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 410 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7352 Legislative Assistant: Ashlee Byrd* Rep. Ben Loring 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 503 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7399 Legislative Assistant: Louise Aldridge Rep. John Montgomery 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 304 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7374 Assistant: Debbie Taylor* Rep. Carl Newton 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 300 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7339 Assistant: Rose McFall* Stephanie Miller Legislative Legislative Rep. Terry O'Donnell 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 433 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7379 Legislative Assistant: Kathy Hubbart Contact Stephanie at tatom@nsuok.edu to make an appointment. All sessions are free and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m. on Wednesdays or 12:30 and 4:30 p.m. on Saturdays. Rep. Leslie Osborn 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 246 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7333 Legislative Assistant: Zack Swift Rep. David Perryman 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 540 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7401 Assistant: Abigail Weigand Stephanie is a counseling intern at Northeastern State University. She is passionate about working with diverse families and clients, now expanding to the LGBTQ+ community and allies. Stephanie has experience with families, children and adolescents. She believes in helping the client identify and achieve their goals through a holistic approach. OSU Tulsa Counseling Center Legislative Rep. Michael Rogers 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 302 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7362 Legislative Assistant: Jacob Musgrave* Rep. Johnny Tadlock 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 501 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7363 Assistant: Leslie Smith-Haddad* Legislative Rep. Emily Virgin 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 543 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7323 Legislative Assistant: Debra Pearson-Matthews Rep. Collin Walke 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 510 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7335 Assistant: Beth Lott* Rep. Kevin West 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 248B Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7343 Assistant: Jordan Holt* Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . Legislative Legislative Rep. Cory Williams 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 544 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7411 Legislative Assistant: Carly Abbott* 4/24/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews March 21st, 2018 5 of 14 Rep. Rande Worthen 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 300C Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7398 Assistant: Malana Bracht* Dreaming of buying a home? Saturday, March 31, 11:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come have lunch with us and learn about buying a home. We will cover information for First Time Home Buyers and those looking to learn what has changed since your last purchase. We will focus on several programs that are available in the Tulsa and surrounding areas. Meet a team who is willing to work with you whether you qualify today or have work to get there. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-21st--2018.h... Legislative Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . FHA - Rural Development - Native American 184 - VA - Self Employed Borrower Please bring the following information to start the loan application process: * Driver License * Last 2 check stubs * Last 2 months banks statements * Last 2 years Tax returns & W-2's Please RSVP to Chandra Hall at 918-645-3101 or chandra.hall@kw.com LGBT Women's Network April Happy Hour Monday, April 2, 5:00 p.m. R Bar & Grill - Tulsa 3421 S. Peoria Ave., Tulsa, OK 74105 Please join us for our first monthly happy hour, sponsored by Physiques by Monique Indoor Cycling & Personal Training Studio! Come mix and mingle with ladies you might not meet otherwise, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. We'll have light appetizers and be sure to bring business cards to be entered into a drawing for a gift from our monthly sponsor! Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Each month, our happy hour will be hosted at a different bar in Tulsa and sponsored by a lesbian/ bisexual-owned or LGBT-friendly business. Join us on the first Monday of every month from 5 to 7 p.m. No RSVP is required. LGBTQ Veterans Support and Entertainment First & Third Tuesday of each month Next meeting Tuesday, April 3, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 First Thursday Art Show - Jared Boyd "Every Reason to Feel" Thursday April 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Jared Boyd, in a show titled " Every Reason to Feel" , beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, 4/24/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews March 21st, 2018 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-21st--2018.h... Jared speaks of his work: My art is my response to the environment around me. I create from intuitive and thoughtful design. The sources of my inspiration are many and include emotions, thoughts, meditations, music, nature, and life. I utilize a variety of mediums including acrylic paint, graphite, charcoal, gesso, and oil pastels. My process is to create many layers on the canvas as to reveal the history of the piece. My intent is for the layers to illustrate a journey on the canvas that is both visually appealing and deeply meaningful. It's my belief that art brings great meaning to life. It's my hope that others can find great meaning in art as well. The name of my show is "Every Reason to Feel" highlighting the importance of walking healthfully through various seasons of life. This collection has deep meaning for me and is reminiscent of a journey through seasons that have been both joyful and painful. ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 5, from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artist's work will be drawn. The show continues throughout the month www.okeq.org Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group First & Third Thursday of every month Next Meeting April 5, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Indigenous \ \ I //; ,,,,.,,- ........... Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. & First Nation Support Group Indian or Indian at Heart ............ _,,.,,,.,,.,,. I/ I f \ \ First and Third Thursday of every month 7pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. No Shade for Plus Every Thursday starting in April Next meeting April 5, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com 4/24/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews March 21st, 2018 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-21st--2018.h... or I Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday, 7:30 p.m. Foster Care and Adoption Information Event Saturday, April 7, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Southern Pride Drum Group is the only such group of its kind in the world, being the only drum group composed of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have traveled across the U.S. and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years, with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. They seek to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and to add to their tight-knit drum family. Thousands of new foster families are needed in Oklahoma. Please come to the DHS foster care and adoption information event to learn more about how you can help a child in need. 2018 Equality Gala Saturday, April 21, 6:30 p.m. Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Sponsorships and tickets available now ----- oklahomans for equality Free Yoga Class at OKEQ Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Asexual Meeting 2nd & 4th Tuesday of every month 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. Art call for (even) MOREColor 2018 Deadline Monday, April 23 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Call for Entries 2018 (even) MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition APRIL 23rd IS THE DEADLINE TO APPLY Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2018 MOREcolor regional juried exhibitions and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. April 23rd: Submission deadline Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 2 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. Asexuality can be defined in many different ways. Some of us identify as asexual because we are not interested in intercourse, but still want other forms of sex. Some of us identify as asexual because we cannot get sexually aroused. Others may identify as asexual because we are never attracted to anyone sexually. Some of us are in relationships with the opposite sex, some with the same sex, and others remain unattached our entire lives. 4/24/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews March 21st, 2018 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-21st--2018.h... Entry Fee: A single entry fee (per artist, NOT per piece) of $10 for up to five works Brought to You Bi the Letter B May 1st: Artist notification of acceptance into the exhibition June 5th: Delivery of Art Work, 2 to 6pm All work must be appropriately ready to display 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. June 7th: Even MOREcolor 2018 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public, cash prizes awarded, surprises and live performances, catered cuisine, and bar, the sale of fine art. Artists are encouraged to bring as many guests as they like. June 7th-10th: Run of the Show June 11th: Pick up unsold work, 2 to 6pm Enter Here: All entries must be made online. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information, 918-813-8993. Thank you for being part of MOREcolor 2018! Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. The MOREcolor 2018 Committee Compassionate Communication workshop "Self Love" Facilitators Daniel & Haley Thursday, April 26, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The most important part of Compassionate Communication is being aware of what is alive in you. The main focus is on feelings and needs. Becoming aware of your needs, when you are feeling negative emotion, will lead to feeling better. The source of negative emotion is focusing on the problem or what we don't want. When focus is shifted to what we do want (needs) we shift to being part of the solution instead of part of the problem. During this workshop on self love and self empathy, will offer interactive conversations and role plays, as well as informative information as what the process of compassionate communication is all about. You can take away tools that will help you start improving the relationships in your life, starting with yourself. Emotions come from thinking. Sometimes just changing the way you think about something will change the emotion. If I think Joe is rude, I will feel some version of anger, from irritation to outrage depending on how important and how out of the boundaries of decency I think it is. My needs would most likely involve respect and consideration. Once I focus on respect and consideration I will feel better. I may not feel joy or enthusiasm but I will feel some relief. The key is to use your emotions to focus on needs and evaluate your thinking. Everything anyone does is in the hope they will feel better in the doing of it. Come join us and practice deliberately deciding to feel better. Facilitated by Lynn McLellan Come join us learn about compassionate communication. Come enjoy vegetarian snacks and drinks! any questions please contact jose.vega@okeq.org No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Pride Bingo 2018 - Super Hero Night Saturday, April 28, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is the best bingo EVER The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo Bash. Prizes for the best super hero costume. $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy for GLBT Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ • TMSL 2018 Spring Schedule Indian Springs Softball Complex 13600 S 145th E Ave, Broken Arrow, OK 74011 Hey TMSL members! With the 2018 spring season right around the corner, we have some news for you. WE'RE MOVING! You read right we will be moving our league to the Indian Springs Softball Complex this season. We look forward to a fun season and welcome all skill levels. And if you're worried about not having a team, don't fret - we will help you find one. Registration is open, and the cost is $50/player. News flash: This fee also makes you an active voting member of Oklahomans for Equality! So spread the word, grab your friends, and sign up today! 2018 Spring Schedule ( 11am-2pm game times): . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. March 25 - Opening Day April 8, 15, 22, 29 May 6, 20 June 3 - Final Day For more information visit the website at www.tulsametrosoftball.com Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Project Theatre (TPT), the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, and has announced its 2017-2018 season. Three of the season's productions are in collaboration with 4/24/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews March 21st, 2018 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-21st--2018.h... other AEA affiliates - two from Oklahoma City and one with whom fans of the hit TV shows, Big Bang Theory and Speechless, may be familiar. n ~ r - ~ , .rJ' Tulsa Writers, Ink.'---"' c7\' attheDennis R.NeillEqualityCenter ~ The Irish Curse - Size matters to a small group of Irish-American men (all professionally successful New Yorkers) who meet every Wednesday night, in a Catholic church basement, at a self-help group for men with small penises. This alleged Irish trait is the focus of their weekly sessions, as they all feel this "shortcoming" has ruined their lives. One evening, when a twenty-something blue-collar guy joins the group, he challenges everything the other men think about "the Irish Curse" ...tackling their obsession with body image and unmasking the comical and truthful questions of identity, masculinity, sex and relationships that men must face every day in the world. April 20th-29th ~ .r,,,.Dlli. .rA.r•..'..l'l!!l ~ :-- - Tulsa Writers, Ink. 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. LIZZIE - Tulsa Project Theatre will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera LIZZIE, set to run July 13-22, 2018. On a sweltering summer morning in 1892, in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden was the prime suspect and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. LIZZIE features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. LIZZIE is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. v Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information ------- Gender Support Program Equality Center Pride Store Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Last year's Pride T Shirts are on sale for $2! We have smalls and mediums left! (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Life and Hard Times of Heidi Abromowitz" Written by: Joan Rivers An "unauthorized biography" of the comedienne's free-living childhood friend, this intimate profile discloses Heidi's deepest, darkest secrets and includes the condensed version of Heidi's unpublished best seller, "How to Make Love to Anything Anywhere." 'lhaLll'e 111d 1i'mea of ~ ~ ~-, Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Amazon Smile Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Amazon Smile Link Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve a space for your next event or receive pricing information, contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. • 4/24/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews March 21st, 2018 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-21st--2018.h... amazons e 1. EBA Directory ""111111111111--~n You shop. Amazon gives. The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Dissertation Study - Sexual Behaviors in MSM This research study seeks to investigate if one's HIV-status and respective adherence/non- adherence to preexposure prophylaxes (PrEP) or antiretroviral therapy (ART) is linked to a reduction in consistent condom use, and increased risky sexual behaviors, among men who have sex with men (MSM). It also seeks to determine what stage of change MSM are likely to be in by using the transtheoretical model of change. With such information, one of the goals is to see if there might be points when mental health professionals and/or primary care providers could intervene to reduce HIV and sexually transmitted infection transmission rates. Please direct questions to Eric Teeters (ejteeters@gmail.com), or Dr. Elana Maurin (emaurin@argosy.edu). Take the survey now Workforce Oklahoma Access Point SURVEY Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ~M ~ ACCREDITED CME & CEUs DRIVE YOUR CAREER FORWARD! Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 1st Wednesday of each month 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. t A.1ERICA, ACADEMY OF FAMILY PHY !CIA STRONG MlDICINE FOR AMUICA AMA-1 Accr.dlted Cours ECS C nnaclan™ L v 11 our ndocanneblno d Syst.m Doctor/Pat nt Communlc•tlon Hemp vs. Medical C nnebls t Targ ted Dosing & De Ivery MyECSTher•py.ORG A. loMI SOl(c)(l) Non ~ \Of Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. 4/24/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews March 21st, 2018 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-21st--2018.h... MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org - - - - - - - ~ - Sharon Queen Service Coordinator Veterans, Transgender and Indigenous People Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Director Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer & Pride Store Coordinator 4/24/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews March 21st, 2018 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-21st--2018.h... Alex.Wade@OkEq.org lmper l al Court of All Oklahoma Inc . Luke Welvaert Facilities Coordinator Luke.Welvaert@OkEq.org li',,ionarch XI Elections Yoting polls will be open at the following locations l\Iarch 23rd - l\larcb 25th : • Oklahoma City- Friday. lllarch 23 . 20~8 ~Inn-Hallway outside~ 7 -10 pm (18 & l:p) Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org • Tulsa. aturday l\larch l4 , 2018 Dennis R Neill Equality Center Noon- 3 pm (18 & Up) Tulsa Eagle 7 - 10 pm (<H+ only) • Tulsa~ Sunda~·. 1\Iarcb 25, 2 0 18 Bamboo Bar and Lounge 3 - 6 pm ( 21+ only) oring is open t o anyone in Oklahoma 18-. wit h a ualid Oklahoma ID. No absen tee 1,oti11g or on line uoting w,11 be available. For mor Information contact - lmpcourtok all.com Purchase your tickets before March 23 and save $15 for the full weekend. Visit www.impcourtok.org to purchase. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, Inc. Presents coronation XI Qods and Qoddess: worlds 1n-ro111n Show March 29 2018 Denise Polonchak Janitorial Services OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Jan Baldwin, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Robin VanMeter, At Large Board of Directors Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Sheena Grewal Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Marcia Keesee Ben Matthews Mike Redman, Esq. Chris Shoaf Al Triggs John Williams Board of Advisors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Peter Brennan Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Jamie Catlett Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Amanda Lowe Jim Scholl Mikeal Vaughn William Vaughn Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews January 3rd, 2018 okl::ihom:ms for equality news In This Issue OkEq Survey "First Thursday" Art Opening Three Kings Day Free Art Class Free Yoga Class OkEq wants your opinion 2018 Pride Bingo Road to the Crown Oklahomans for Equality wants to start off 2018 with a resolution to our community. We are researching whether we are meeting all the needs of our community and identifying possible gaps where we can improve. Please take 1-2 minutes to complete this fivequestion survey so every voice can be heard. January EBA Mixer Voice your opinion, speak out CALL ME BY YOUR NAME Pride Movie Night Wine Down Wednesday Wild Hearts Ball Spectrum of Love Telling Our Stories - Falling in Love Begin Survey Amazon Smile No Shade for Plus "First Thursday" Art Opening Nan McDowell TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Pride Store Thursday, January 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Face Off Empress Ball X The January Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Nan McDowell, beginning with a reception on Thursday, Jan. 4 , from 6 to 9 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. Nan was born in 1940 and grew up in Quincy, Mass. As a self-taught artist, her painting was a welcome escape while pursuing careers in health care and education. She currently divides her time between Colorado and Oklahoma. Nan's first art workshop with Ardith Goodwin was a week before her first solo show in 2015. The techniques learned in that workshop have forever changed her approach to painting. Conveying emotion through painting remains at the center of her work. The last three years Nan has immersed herself in exploring her artistic framework. What has emerged is a love of depicting women in various states of emotion and emotions surrounding homelessness. Amazon Smile Shop Now Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Her psyche has been deeply seated in emotion and its effect on others. She remarks that visually presenting the human condition through expression is where she feels most rewarded. She presents many styles, but her strength lies more in monochromatic tones with a small splash of color. When painting the human form, she often uses photos to get the proper angles of the body. She says of her work: "Frequently, my people come to me as I think about a certain feeling I want to express. I do a quick pencil sketch to achieve a natural pose. Occasionally, the original concept is sketched with paint directly onto the canvas. I layer with glaze and swaths of gesso." She says she is more comfortable with pallet knives and large strokes, but as seen in her art, the smallest brush stoke can create impact. Her medium of choice is now acrylics. "I want the painting to tell the story that the viewer places on it. My mind's eye continues to explode with ways to create on canvas, the struggles and joys of being human. You will see a lot of focus on the eyes, as I believe they truly are the window to your soul. My most recent work reflects my attempt to paint with a softer, less realistic hand. Second to portraying women is my love of depicting street people in an uplifting way, so I couldn't resist including my charming homeless man." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 4 , from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artist's work will be drawn. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org CELEBRATE THIS LATINX TRADITION WITH FOOD AND FUN FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY! THREE k/NtJS DAY PARTY SATURDAY 6TH OF J UARYl M - 1PM OKLAHOMA UALITY CENTE amazonsmile ~ You shop. Amazon gives. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, January 18 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition The January Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Nan McDowell, beginning with a reception on Thursday, Jan. 4, from 6 to 9 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. Nan was born in 1940 and grew up in Quincy, Mass. As a self-taught artist, her painting was a welcome escape while pursuing careers in health care and education. She currently divides her time between Colorado and Oklahoma. Nan's first art workshop with Ardith Goodwin was a week before her first solo show in 2015. The techniques learned in that workshop have forever changed her approach to painting. Conveying emotion through painting remains at the center of her work. The last three years Nan has immersed herself in exploring her artistic framework. What has emerged is a love of depicting women in various states of emotion and emotions surrounding 4/24/26, 4:13 PM �OkEq eNews January 3rd, 2018 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-3rd--2018.... homelessness. ST, TULSA, OK 74120 The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Family Ties TRADITIONAL AND LOCALLY BAKED " PAN DE REYES " RAFFLE PRIZES MUSIC , GAMES AND FUN FOR KIDS OF ALL AGES JOIN A LETTER CAMPAIGN FOR DREAMERS DREAM ACT OKLAHOMA TSHIRT CONTEST AND SALE Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Thi event i pon or d by --Free Art Class Monday, January 8, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free basic art lessons are now available. You will need shading pencils, copy paper or any sort of white blank paper (no notebook paper) and erasers! Any questions please email Program Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Free Yoga Class This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op Wednesday, January 10, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Enjoy a free Yoga class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, back-bend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Any questions please email Jose.Vega@okeq.org 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 4/24/26, 4:13 PM �OkEq eNews January 3rd, 2018 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-3rd--2018.... 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. 2018 Pride Bingo Saturday, January 13, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back for the 2018 Pride season. Join us for the first Tulsa Pride Bingo of the year. The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo Bash. DJ Alex says "get your lip sync selections ready." $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. STARCHASER PRODUCTtons PRESEnTS ROAD TO THE CROWn A benefit for the courts of Oklahoma USofA Ml Ml Classic and Diva Rou e 66 USofA Ml Ml Classic and Diva Outstanding performances Exciting auction items Liue band Lawyer in the Library January 10 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Dr. Kurt Choate January 13 2018 at 7pm ~ - - - - - - - - - - - - .,. _i_ Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required ~~ ~L~ _. 4/24/26, 4:13 PM �OkEq eNews January 3rd, 2018 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-3rd--2018.... rCKe-cr - 10 -ar-cne aoo Black Box Theater Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th Tulsa OK Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center Tickets, auction, and tips help send the courts to Nationals Adult Bevcro3es and snacks benchi Oklolwmans for Equality Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . EBA Mixer Wednesday, January 17th, 6:00 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E. Second St., Tulsa, OK 74103 Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of downtown Tulsa's vibrant business, entertainment, and cultural districts. Our hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, our luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and more than 50 restaurants and bars. Visit Hyatt Regency Tulsa Online Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. 4/24/26, 4:13 PM �OkEq eNews January 3rd, 2018 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-3rd--2018.... You can join the EBA online, at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. E UALITY Business Alliance Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. CALL ME BY YOUR NAME Pride Movie Night Friday, January 19, 6:00 p.m. Reception, 7:20 p.m. Film Screening Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74104 OKEQ is hosting a reception at the the premier of one of the most highly-acclaimed films of the year, "CALL ME BY YOUR NAME," Friday, Jan 19 at Circle Cinema. Reception begins at 6pm, Film Screening at 7:20pm. In Northern Italy in 1983, seventeen year-old Elio begins a relationship with visiting Oliver, his father's research assistant, with whom he bonds over his emerging sexuality, their Jewish heritage, and the beguiling Italian landscape. Starring Armie Hammer and written by James Ivory. Click here for more information Wine Down Wednesday Wednesday, January 31, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you enjoy wine, meeting new people and hearing inspiring leadership content? 'Wine Down Wednesday!' is a social group that combines short 'TED-style' presentation! We drink wine while hearing motivational/expert speakers present their leadership expertise for 15-20 minutes (6:15pm-7:45pm). Before, in between, and following the speaker, we enjoy wine and talk about our month! Our events occur the last Wednesday of the month and topics always vary! If there's a certain topic you'd like to hear or a speaker recommendation, let us know! Don't miss out on a great social and leadership opportunity that will improve your life, productivity, and relationships! Come 'Wine Down!' Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Any questions please contact Jose.vega@okeq.org Wild Hearts Ball Saturday, February 3, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Dancing, music, friends, and we guarantee you'll fall in love. Spectrums of Love Saturday, February 10, 6:00 p.m. Opening reception, 6:30 p.m. Dinner, 7:30 p.m. Show Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center 4/24/26, 4:13 PM �OkEq eNews January 3rd, 2018 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-3rd--2018.... at (918) 594-8568. Opening Night Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater Spectrum of Love A cabaret of live entertainment featuring Tulsa's top performers in the LGBTQ community. Produced by Pat Hobbs Written by Morgan Allen $125.00 Opening reception at 6:00 p.m., Seat for the show, Dinner, Dessert,Champagne and open bar. Dinner served at 6:30 , Show begins at 7:30 p.m. $60.00 Seat for the show, Dessert, Champagne and cash bar Seating prior to the show which begins at 7:30 p.m. $1,000 Table for 8 includes premiere seating for the show and O pening reception and appetizers at 6:00 pm , Premiere table seating for the show, Dinner, Dessert, Champagne and o pen bar. Dinner served at 6:30 , Show begins at 7:30 p.m. Telling Our Stories - Falling in Love Monday, February 12, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74135 Join Oklahomans for Equality for a night of storytelling, with our new series: Telling Our Stories. Oral Storytelling has been a vital part of keeping the LGBTQ community and their stories alive. This series will explore different aspects of life and experience. Each night will have a specific theme and will include TRUE stories of those within the community. Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Each selected participant will tell their experience pertaining to the theme, a 5-7 minute format. Participants can use a script if needed. The first theme is: FALLING IN LOVE. If you are interested in telling your story around this topic, please email Amanda Lowe at aclowe@okstate.edu with a brief synopsis of your story. Spots are limited, so don't delay! Non-Binary Support Group Amazon Smile Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Amazon Smile Link amazons '~~n • Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com e- You shop. Amazon g·ves. No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday, 7:30 p.m. Southern Pride drum group is the only drum group of its kind in the entire world, being the only drum comprised of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have travelled all across the US and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. Currently they are seeking to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and add to their tight knit drum family. SOS Group for Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 4/24/26, 4:13 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4b303478b09a7db59001e1a1f328d6aa.pdf d42c4a6099dc34405858372dfba4a6ea PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 4th, 2018 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-4th--2018.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e April 4th, 2018 oklohomons for equolity In This Issue news Kelly Kirby CPA April Video eNews April Volunteer of the Month Call to Action First Thursday Art Show Provider Bias Survey Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group No Shade for Plus PafllOll Rental Properf:y Bookke Foster Care and Adoption Information Event LGBTQ Veterans Support and Entertainment -----Cityscape Home Mortgage EBA Mixer 2018 Equality Gala Art call for (even) MOREColor 2018 Compassionate Communication Workshop "Self Love". Pride Bingo Super Hero Night TMSL 2018 Spring Schedule TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Let us help you file your 2017tax returns! Pride Store Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Amazon Smile Dissertation Study - Sexual Behaviors in MSM Miss Jolt 2018 Kelly Kirby CPA Jolt - Jackpot Golf Classic Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com Amazon Smile Shop Now Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! amazons ....._,,..., mile You shop. Amazon gives. OkEq Board Meeting www.kkirby.com Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, April 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members eatu rLll\,g n~bo~ea ux: ne ax r nerap!::j Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. April Video eNews OkEq Art Exhibition The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Jared Boyd, in a show titled "Every Reason to Feel", beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. The name of my show is "Every Reason to Feel" highlighting the importance of walking healthfully through various seasons of life. This collection has deep meaning for me and is reminiscent of a journey through seasons that have been both joyful and painful. 4/24/26, 4:20 PM �OkEq eNews April 4th, 2018 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-4th--2018.htm... The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 5, from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artist's work will be drawn. The show continues throughout the month www.okeq.org Family Ties April Volunteer of the Month Bob Hanson Thank you for your dedication,Bob! If you would like to volunteer, contact Alex Wade at alex.wade@okeq.org Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact jose.vega@okeq.org Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Call to Action CALL TO ACTION: SB 1140 by Senator Greg Treat Contact your Oklahoma House Representative and tell them Vote NO on SB1140. Find your representative here SB1140 by Senator Greg Treat could soon be heard!!! We must protect LGBTQ youth in foster care shelters and group homes by making sure they are not excluded from placement in qualified foster homes. We must oppose any legislation that takes our tax dollars and gives them to faith-based and private child placing agencies who refuse to allow same sex couples and LGBTQ individuals to provide foster care and or adopt. SB1140 would allow: • Private agencies to make a policy where they would NEVER certify or train prospective and adoptive parents as long as they claim it's for "moral" or "religious" reasons. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op • Would allow private agencies to make a policy where they would NEVER even ATTEMPT to find a home for children in shelters and group homes who identified as LGBTQ, are considered "medically fragile", or have a disability as long as the agencies claim it's for "moral" or "religious" reasons. • Would PROHIBIT the Department of Human Services (DHS) from intervening and being able to contract with another agency who was willing to find a family for an LGBTQ youth or consider a same-sex couple if the original private agency had already refused placement based on "moral" or "religious" reasons. Contact these Representatives and tell them you OPPOSE SB1140. Judiciary Committee Rep. Chris Kannady - Chair 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 246 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7337 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 4/24/26, 4:20 PM �OkEq eNews April 4th, 2018 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-4th--2018.htm... Legislative Assistant: Zach Swift 6:30-7:30 p.m. Rep. Tim Downing - Vice Chair 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 300A Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7365 Legislative Assistant: Patricia Timberlake* Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Rep. Greg Babinec 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 302B Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7304 Legislative Assistant: Rynae Blassingame* It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Rep. Rhonda Baker 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 202A Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7311 Legislative Assistant: Megan Jackson* Rep. Kevin Calvey 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 435 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7357 Assistant: Charlotte Maughan Rep. Avery Frix 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 328B Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7302 Assistant: Gina Kanelopoulos* Legislative Legislative Rep. Elise Hall 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 200 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7403 Legislative Assistant: Karlita Manger Rep. Justin Humphrey 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 329B Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7382 Legislative Assistant: LaToya Alexander* Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Rep. John Paul Jordan 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 410 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7352 Legislative Assistant: Ashlee Byrd* Rep. Ben Loring 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 503 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7399 Legislative Assistant: Louise Aldridge Rep. John Montgomery 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 304 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7374 Assistant: Debbie Taylor* Rep. Carl Newton 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 300 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7339 Assistant: Rose McFall* Legislative Lawyer in the Library Legislative Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Rep. Terry O'Donnell 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 433 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7379 Legislative Assistant: Kathy Hubbart Rep. Leslie Osborn N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 246 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7333 Assistant: Zack Swift Rep. David Perryman 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 540 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7401 Assistant: Abigail Weigand April 11 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. 2300 Legislative Counseling Services Legislative Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Rep. Michael Rogers 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 302 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7362 Legislative Assistant: Jacob Musgrave* Rep. Johnny Tadlock 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 501 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7363 Legislative Assistant: Leslie Smith-Haddad* Rep. Emily Virgin 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 543 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7323 Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact 4/24/26, 4:20 PM �OkEq eNews April 4th, 2018 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-4th--2018.htm... Legislative Assistant: Debra Pearson-Matthews Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 choatek@nsuok.edu Rep. Collin Walke 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 510 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7335 Legislative Assistant: Beth Lott* Rep. Kevin West 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 248B Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7343 Legislative Assistant: Jordan Holt* Rep. Cory Williams 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 544 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7411 Assistant: Carly Abbott* Legislative Stephanie Miller Stephanie is a counseling intern at Northeastern State University. She is passionate about working with diverse families and clients, now expanding to the LGBTQ+ community and allies. Stephanie has experience with families, children and adolescents. She believes in helping the client identify and achieve their goals through a holistic approach. Rep. Rande Worthen 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 300C Oklahoma City, OK 73105 (405) 557-7398 Legislative Assistant: Malana Bracht* First Thursday Art Show - Jared Boyd "Every Reason to Feel" Thursday April 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Jared Boyd, in a show titled " Every Reason to Feel" , beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Jared speaks of his work: My art is my response to the environment around me. I create from intuitive and thoughtful design. The sources of my inspiration are many and include emotions, thoughts, meditations, music, nature, and life. I utilize a variety of mediums including acrylic paint, graphite, charcoal, gesso, and oil pastels. My process is to create many layers on the canvas as to reveal the history of the piece. My intent is for the layers to illustrate a journey on the canvas that is both visually appealing and deeply meaningful. It's my belief that art brings great meaning to life. It's my hope that others can find great meaning in art as well. Contact Stephanie at tatom@nsuok.edu to make an appointment. All sessions are free and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m. on Wednesdays or 12:30 and 4:30 p.m. on Saturdays. OSU Tulsa Counseling Center The name of my show is "Every Reason to Feel" highlighting the importance of walking healthfully through various seasons of life. This collection has deep meaning for me and is reminiscent of a journey through seasons that have been both joyful and painful. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 5, from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artist's work will be drawn. The show continues throughout the month www.okeq.org Provider Bias Survey Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She currently facilitates OkEq's Coming Out Workshop and Challenging Beliefs in Non-Traditional Relationships group. This survey has been crafted to better understand provider bias in the LGBTQ+ and nontraditional relationship communities. The information will be used to provide information about ways to better train and educate providers. AVOID BIAS NEXT EXIT~ While you may not be familiar with some of the terms used, I have provided definitions to give you a better understanding of the following questions: Provider bias - the negative evaluation of a group or individual belonging to such group Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . Discrimination - the unjust or prejudicial treatment of different categories of people or things. For the purpose of this study, discrimination applies to gender, sexual orientation, and/or relationship construct. Relationship construct - divided into two main categories: monogamous and nonmonogamous. This includes nontraditional relationship structures such as: polyamory, swinging, kink (Dominant/submissive, etc.) relationships. ALL RESPONSES ARE CONFIDENTIAL Link to the survey Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group First & Third Thursday of every month Next Meeting April 5, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Indigenous Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . \ \ i / 1 ., 4/24/26, 4:20 PM �OkEq eNews April 4th, 2018 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-4th--2018.htm... .,,,.,.- .......... & First Nation Support Group Indian or Indian at Heart _,,,..,,,,, ............. Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. I/ I f \ \ First and Third Thursday of every month 7pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center No Shade for Plus Every Thursday starting in April Next meeting April 5, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Foster Care and Adoption Information Event Saturday, April 7, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. 4/24/26, 4:20 PM �OkEq eNews April 4th, 2018 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-4th--2018.htm... Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. LGBTQ Veterans Support and Entertainment First & Third Tuesday of each month Next meeting Tuesday, April 17, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday, 7:30 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:20 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9789cd843977507e5de3e67f37088a2c.pdf 7d16b97759e8f15187b69dd82b942a68 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 12th, 2018 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2018.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e April 12th, 2018 oklohom:ms for equolity In This Issue news Kelly Kirby CPA 2018 Equality Gala Call to Action Provider Bias Survey No Shade for Plus Free Art Class The Allyship workshop F~ }'afllOll Rental Properf¥ Bookk ep1n9 Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relationships LGBTQVeterans Support Entertainment - and -EBA Mixer Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group Cityscape Home Mortgage Art call for (even) MOREColor 2018 Compassionate Communication Workshop "Self Love". Wine Down Wednesday Pride Bingo Super Hero Night Gay Men's Dinner Group Let us help you file your 2017 tax returns! First Thursday Art Show LGBT Women's Network May Happy Hour TMSL 2018 Spring Schedule TULSA PROJECT THEATRE April Volunteer of the Month Kelly Kirby CPA April Video eNews Pride Store Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Amazon Smile Certified Public Accountant Dissertation Study - Sexual Behaviors in MSM a professional corporation Jolt - Jackpot Golf Classic Miss Jolt 2018 I.C.A.O. Invetitures XI {918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 Amazon Smile admin@kkirby.com www.kklrby.com Shop Now Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! amazonsmile ~' You shop. Amazon gives. Featuri,ll\,g TntbodeQu,x: The Q,x TherQpl'.j Dog OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, April 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 2018 Equality Gala Saturday, April 21, 6:30 p.m. Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 OkEq Art Exhibition The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Jared Boyd, in a show titled "Every Reason to Feel", beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. 4/24/26, 4:20 PM �OkEq eNews April 12th, 2018 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2018.ht... Sponsorships and tickets available now ------- The name of my show is "Every Reason to Feel" highlighting the importance of walking healthfully through various seasons of life. This collection has deep meaning for me and is reminiscent of a journey through seasons that have been both joyful and painful. oklahomans for equality The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 5, from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artist's work will be drawn. The show continues throughout the month www.okeq.org Family Ties • Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact jose.vega@okeq.org CALL TO ACTION: SB 1140 by Senator Greg Treat Contact your state representatives and tell them Vote NO on SB1140. Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips Find your representative here List of ALL House Representatives SB1140 by Senator Greg Treat could soon be heard on the house floor!!! We must protect LGBTQ youth in foster care shelters and group homes by making sure that they are not excluded from placement in qualified foster homes. We must oppose any legislation that takes our tax dollars and gives them to faith-based and private childplacing agencies who refuse to allow same-sex couples and LGBTQ individuals to provide foster care and or adopt. 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. SB1140 would allow: • Private agencies to make a policy NEVER to certify or train prospective and adoptive parents who they say violate their "moral" or "religious" standards. • Would allow private agencies to make a policy NEVER even to ATTEMPT to find a home for children in shelters and group homes who identified as LGBTQ, who are considered "medically fragile," or who have a disability as long as the agencies claim that it's for "moral" or "religious" reasons. • Would PROHIBIT the Department of Human Services from intervening and being able to contract with another agency that was willing to find a family for an LGBTQ youth or consider a same-sex couple if the original private agency had already refused placement based on "moral" or "religious" reasons. Provider Bias Survey Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She currently facilitates OkEq's Coming Out Workshop and Challenging Beliefs in Non-Traditional Relationships group. This survey has been crafted to better understand provider bias in the LGBTQ+ and nontraditional relationship communities. The information will be used to provide information about ways to better train and educate providers. AVOID BIAS NEXT EXIT~ While you may not be familiar with some of the terms used, I have provided definitions to give you a better understanding of the following questions: Provider bias - the negative evaluation of a group or individual belonging to such group Discrimination - the unjust or prejudicial treatment of different categories of people or things. For the purpose of this study, discrimination applies to gender, sexual orientation, and/or relationship construct. Relationship construct - divided into two main categories: monogamous and nonmonogamous. This includes nontraditional relationship structures such as: polyamory, swinging, kink (Dominant/submissive, etc.) relationships. ALL RESPONSES ARE CONFIDENTIAL Link to the survey This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op No Shade for Plus Every Thursday Next meeting April 12, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 4:20 PM �OkEq eNews April 12th, 2018 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2018.ht... 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Free Art Class Thursday, April 12, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free basic art lessons II All you need is shading pencils, copy paper or any sort of white blank paper (just not notebook paper) and erasers! Any questions please email program director Jose.Vega@okeq.org The Allyship workshop Saturday April 14, April 21, April 28, and May 5, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Join us at the Dennis R. Neill EqualityCenter with Stephanie Miller facilitator for the Allyship workshop series on what the LGBTQ+ community wants and needs from their allies. These hour-long workshop sessions will be part education and part experiential processing. Tools and directions will be provided to help you be a better ally to the LGBTQ+ community. Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relationships Monday, April 16, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Lawyer in the Library LGBTQ Veterans Support and Entertainment First & Third Tuesday of each month Next meeting Tuesday, April 17, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 May 9 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/24/26, 4:20 PM �OkEq eNews April 12th, 2018 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2018.ht... Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 choatek@nsuok.edu EBA Mixer Wednesday, April 18, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Twenty Twenty Eyecare 7408 S. Yale Ave., Tulsa OK 74136 OUR PURPOSE To preserve freedom and vitality of the individual spirit, by safeguarding the faculty of sight. OUR MISSION We will fervently campaign to educate and motivate the citizens of our community to adopt a more conscientious approach to their own eye health. By providing our patients with the right knowledge, we empower them to make proactive decisions that will result in a higher standard of living. OUR VISION We dare to re-imagine eye care as an opportunity to educate and empower our patients and peers. In doing so, we will prevail against outmoded ideas and behaviors and establish ourselves as the leader in specialty eye care. Visit Twenty Twenty Eyecare online - - - Stephanie Miller y e You can join the EBA online, at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. Stephanie is a counseling intern at Northeastern State University. She is passionate about working with diverse families and clients, now expanding to the LGBTQ+ community and allies. Stephanie has experience with families, children and adolescents. She believes in helping the client identify and achieve their goals through a holistic approach. Contact Stephanie at tatom@nsuok.edu to make an appointment. All sessions are free and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m. on Wednesdays or 12:30 and 4:30 p.m. on Saturdays. OSU Tulsa Counseling Center E UALITY Business Alliance The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . First & Third Thursday of every month Next Meeting April 19, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulc;r1 lnciiaPnouc; 4/24/26, 4:20 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d416c876ef80511b7aa5873078326570.pdf 0a78ebac58b12415c2dea565a77ae25e PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 18th, 2018 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-18th--2018.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e April 18th, 2018 oklohomons for equolity In This Issue news Kelly Kirby CPA EBA Mixer 2018 Equality Gala Provider Bias Survey CALL TO ACTION: SB 1140 No Shade for Plus Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group Pride Bingo Super Hero Night PafllOll Rental Properf:y Bookke Cityscape Home Mortgage Art call for (even) MOREColor 2018 Wine Down Wednesday Compassionate Communication Workshop "Self Love". Dining Out For Life LGBTQVeterans Support Entertainment - and -Gay Men's Dinner Group First Thursday Art Show Ask A Lawyer Free Legal Advice LGBT Women's Network May Happy Hour Let us help you file your 2017tax returns! TMSL 2018 Spring Schedule TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Curiosity Fest 2018 April Volunteer of the Month April Video eNews Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Pride Store Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Amazon Smile Dissertation Study - Sexual Behaviors in MSM Jolt - Jackpot Golf Classic I.C.A.O. Invetitures XI (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Amazon Smile Shop Now Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! amazons .___,..., mile You shop. Amazon gives. OkEq Board Meeting eatu rLll\,g n~bo~ea ux: ne ax r nerap!::j Dog Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, April 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Jared Boyd, in a show titled "Every Reason to Feel", beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. The name of my show is "Every Reason to Feel" highlighting the 4/24/26, 4:21 PM �OkEq eNews April 18th, 2018 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-18th--2018.ht... importance of walking healthfully through various seasons of life. This collection has deep meaning for me and is reminiscent of a journey through seasons that have been both joyful and painful. EBA Mixer Wednesday, April 18, 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Twenty Twenty Eyecare 7408 S. Yale Ave., Tulsa OK 74136 OUR PURPOSE To preserve freedom and vitality of the individual spirit, by safeguarding the faculty of sight. OUR MISSION We will fervently campaign to educate and motivate the citizens of our community to adopt a more conscientious approach to their own eye health. By providing our patients with the right knowledge, we empower them to make proactive decisions that will result in a higher standard of living. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 5, from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artist's work will be drawn. The show continues throughout the month www.okeq.org OUR VISION We dare to re-imagine eye care as an opportunity to educate and empower our patients and peers. In doing so, we will prevail against outmoded ideas and behaviors and establish ourselves as the leader in specialty eye care. Visit Twenty -Twenty -Eyecare - online - Family Ties -y e Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact jose.vega@okeq.org You can join the EBA online, at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips E UALITY Business Alliance 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. 2018 Equality Gala Saturday, April 21, 6:30 p.m. Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Sponsorships and tickets available now ----- oklahomans for equality This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op 4/24/26, 4:21 PM �OkEq eNews April 18th, 2018 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-18th--2018.ht... Provider Bias Survey 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She currently facilitates OkEq's Coming Out Workshop and Challenging Beliefs in Non-Traditional Relationships group. This survey has been crafted to better understand provider bias in the LGBTQ+ and nontraditional relationship communities. The information will be used to provide information about ways to better train and educate providers. While you may not be familiar with some of the terms used, I have provided definitions to give you a better understanding of the following questions: Provider bias - the negative evaluation of a group or individual belonging to such group Discrimination - the unjust or prejudicial treatment of different categories of people or things. For the purpose of this study, discrimination applies to gender, sexual orientation, and/or relationship construct. Relationship construct - divided into two main categories: monogamous and nonmonogamous. This includes nontraditional relationship structures such as: polyamory, swinging, kink (Dominant/submissive, etc.) relationships. ALL RESPONSES ARE CONFIDENTIAL Link to the survey CALL TO ACTION: SB 1140 by Senator Greg Treat Contact your state representatives and tell them Vote NO on SB1140. Find your representative here List of ALL House Representatives SB1140 by Senator Greg Treat could soon be heard on the house floor!!! We must protect LGBTQ youth in foster care shelters and group homes by making sure that they are not excluded from placement in qualified foster homes. We must oppose any legislation that takes our tax dollars and gives them to faith-based and private child- placing agencies who refuse to allow same-sex couples and LGBTQ individuals to provide foster care and or adopt. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. SB1140 would allow: • Private agencies to make a policy NEVER to certify or train prospective and adoptive parents who they say violate their "moral" or "religious" standards. • Would allow private agencies to make a policy NEVER even to ATTEMPT to find a home for children in shelters and group homes who identified as LGBTQ, who are considered "medically fragile," or who have a disability as long as the agencies claim that it's for "moral" or "religious" reasons. • Would PROHIBIT the Department of Human Services from intervening and being able to contract with another agency that was willing to find a family for an LGBTQ youth or consider a same-sex couple if the original private agency had already refused placement based on "moral" or "religious" reasons. No Shade for Plus Every Thursday Next meeting April 19, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. May 9 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/24/26, 4:21 PM �OkEq eNews April 18th, 2018 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-18th--2018.ht... Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 choatek@nsuok.edu Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group First & Third Thursday of every month Next Meeting April 19, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Indigenous \ \ I //; ........__ ,,,,,,,,.... Stephanie Miller & First Nation Support Group Indian or Indian at Heart -...... .,.,..,,, Stephanie is a counseling intern at Northeastern State University. She is passionate about working with diverse families and clients, now expanding to the LGBTQ+ community and allies. Stephanie has experience with families, children and adolescents. She believes in helping the client identify and achieve their goals through a holistic approach. Contact Stephanie at tatom@nsuok.edu to make an appointment. All sessions are free and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m. on Wednesdays or 12:30 and 4:30 p.m. on Saturdays. OSU Tulsa Counseling Center I/ I f \ \ First and Third Thursday of every month 7pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . Pride Bingo 2018 - Super Hero Night Saturday, April 28, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is the best bingo EVER The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo Bash. Prizes for the best super hero costume. $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 4:21 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/57aebd078d0e40a9d45cd1d6e89da1b1.pdf 1624c24cf50e5c3d17dc8a7d7a6ba884 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 25th, 2018 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2018.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news oklahom:ms for equality April 25th, 2018 In This Issue Cityscape Home Mortgage Michael Farr Sponsors the Day. Pride Bingo Super Hero Night CALL TO ACTION: SB 1140 Equality Gala Pictures Wine Down Wednesday Compassionate Communication Workshop "Self Love". Dining Out For Life No Shade for Plus Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group LGBTQ Veterans Support and Entertainment --Gay Men's Dinner Group First Thursday Art Show Provider Bias Survey Ask A Lawyer Free Legal Advice LGBT Women's Network May Happy Hour Rally for Age Justice EBA Mixer INDIAN TACO SALE & NATIVE DANCE DEMO TMSL 2018 Spring Schedule TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Curiosity Fest 2018 April Volunteer of the Month April Video eNews THANK YOU Pride Store Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Friendship Tour Amazon Smile Dissertation Study - Sexual Behaviors in MSM Michael Farr Sponsors the Da y In Honor of Paul Dorman and John Alexander Saturday, April 28, 2018 Jolt - Jackpot Golf Classic I.C.A.O. Invetitures XI Michael Farr is sponsoring the day to honor his friends Paul Dorman and John Alexander. Good Luck, Paul & John! Amazon Smile Shop Now Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! amazons mi le ....._,-, If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day, click here Birthdays - yours, your spouse's, your children's, your parents', your friends', even your dog's • Anniversaries - wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mother's Day, Father's Day, any holiday • Just because You shop. Amazon gives. • OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, April 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition Pride Bingo 2018 - Super Hero Night Saturday, April 28, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is the best bingo EVER The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo Bash. Prizes for the best super hero costume. $20 for general admission The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Jared Boyd, in a show titled "Every Reason to Feel", beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. 4/24/26, 4:21 PM �OkEq eNews April 25th, 2018 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2018.ht... $30 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center CALL TO ACTION: SB 1140 by Senator Greg Treat Contact your state representatives and tell them Vote NO on SB1140. Find your representative here ------- The name of my show is "Every Reason to Feel" highlighting the importance of walking healthfully through various seasons of life. This collection has deep meaning for me and is reminiscent of a journey through seasons that have been both joyful and painful. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 5, from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artist's work will be drawn. The show continues throughout the month www.okeq.org List of ALL House Representatives SB1140 by Senator Greg Treat could soon be heard on the house floor!!! We must protect LGBTQ youth in foster care shelters and group homes by making sure that they are not excluded from placement in qualified foster homes. We must oppose any legislation that takes our tax dollars and gives them to faith-based and private child- placing agencies who refuse to allow same-sex couples and LGBTQ individuals to provide foster care and or adopt. Family Ties SB1140 would allow: • Private agencies to make a policy NEVER to certify or train prospective and adoptive parents who they say violate their "moral" or "religious" standards. • Would allow private agencies to make a policy NEVER even to ATTEMPT to find a home for children in shelters and group homes who identified as LGBTQ, who are considered "medically fragile," or who have a disability as long as the agencies claim that it's for "moral" or "religious" reasons. • Would PROHIBIT the Department of Human Services from intervening and being able to contract with another agency that was willing to find a family for an LGBTQ youth or consider a same-sex couple if the original private agency had already refused placement based on "moral" or "religious" reasons. Equality Gala Pictures Now Available Photos from Steven Michael's Photography Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact jose.vega@okeq.org Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips Photos from Williams Photography Photos from the Magic Selfie Mirror 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Wine Down Wednesday Wednesday, April 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you enjoy wine, meeting new people and hearing inspiring leadership content? 'Wine Down Wednesday!' is a social group that combines short 'TED-style' presentation! We drink wine while hearing motivational/expert speakers present their leadership expertise for 15-20 minutes (6:15pm-7:45pm). Before, in between, and following the speaker, we enjoy wine and talk about our month! Our events occur the last Wednesday of the month and topics always vary! If there's a certain topic you'd like to hear or a speaker recommendation, let us know! Don't miss out on a great social and leadership opportunity that will improve your life, productivity, and relationships! Come 'Wine Down!' Any questions please contact program director Jose.vega@okeq.org Compassionate Communication Workshop "Self Love" Thursday, April 26, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The most important part of compassionate communication is being aware of what is alive in you. The main focus is on feelings and needs. Becoming aware of your needs, when you are feeling negative emotion, will lead to feeling better. The source of negative emotion is focusing on the problem or what we don't want. When focus is shifted to what we do want (needs) we shift to being part of the solution instead of part of the problem. This workshop on self love and self empathy will offer interactive conversations and role playing, as well as informative information as to what the process of compassionate communication is all about. You can take away tools that will help you start improving the relationships in your life, starting with yourself. Come join us and practice deliberately deciding to feel better. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op Facilitated by Lynn McLellan Vegetarian snacks and drinks will be provided! Contact jose.vega@okeq.org with any questions. 4/24/26, 4:21 PM �OkEq eNews April 25th, 2018 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2018.ht... Dining Out For Life Thursday, April 26th Making a difference is as easy as going out to eat! Our amazing restaurants will donate 25% or more of your bill to pay for local HIV services provided by H.O.P.E. Their generosity coupled with your generous donation will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. Please browse through the site, and use our restaurant locator to find your perfect Dining Out for Life restaurant. It could not be easier to search for the perfect meal for you, your family, and friends. Please help us make sure that no one faces HIV alone. It is the most satisfying meal you will ever eat! Mark your calendars! Thursday, April 26, 2018 Diniug~ ( OutJ. ~ Dine Out, Fight AIDS Click here for a complete list of participating restaurants 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. No Shade for Plus Every Thursday Next meeting April 26, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. {or Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group First & Third Thursday of every month Next Meeting April 26, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Indigenous \ \ l //; ........... Lawyer in the Library May 9 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. ~ & First Nation Support Group ~ Indian or Indian at Heart Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/24/26, 4:21 PM �OkEq eNews April 25th, 2018 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2018.ht... -........ I/ / f \ \ First and Third Thursday of every month 7pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 choatek@nsuok.edu LGBTQ Veterans Support and Entertainment First & Third Tuesday of each month Next meeting Tuesday, May 1, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Stephanie Miller Stephanie is a counseling intern at Northeastern State University. She is passionate about working with diverse families and clients, now expanding to the LGBTQ+ community and allies. Stephanie has experience with families, children and adolescents. She believes in helping the client identify and achieve their goals through a holistic approach. Contact Stephanie at tatom@nsuok.edu to make an appointment. All sessions are free and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m. on Wednesdays or 12:30 and 4:30 p.m. on Saturdays. OSU Tulsa Counseling Center Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, May 1, 6:30 p.m. Bonefish Grill 4651 Kenosha St., Broken Arrow, OK 74012 At Bonefish Grill, we do things a little differently. It all began in January 2000 in St. Petersburg, Florida, where our founders, Tim Curci and Chris Parker, opened the very first Bonefish Grill, fueled by their shared love for catching, cooking and serving fresh fish. Visit Bonefish Grill online Please RSVP to Gay Men's Dinner Group Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com First Thursday Art Show - Arthur James Uphold Thursday May 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Arthur James Uphold, beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 3, from 6 to 9 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. A longtime resident of the Tulsa area, Arthur James Uphold has finally made it home. Arthur was both activeduty and in the reserves in the Army, including deployment to Kuwait and Iraq. He retired at the rank of master sergeant after 28 years. During his work and military career, he attended the Rocky Mountain School of Art, where he studied the human form. He received an associate's degree from then-Tulsa Junior College and a bachelor of fine arts in 1995 from Oklahoma State University. Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . Arthur's work extracts from many media. "As an artist exhibiting my work, I like to excite the viewer's eye with color," he said. "My use of geometrical shapes and organic elements gives me the freedom to enjoy less restriction and allows me to create my own vision. I also use traditional tools, like reflective lighting, shading, color theory and perspective. You can usually see a person or object in my paintings, but they are transformed through shapes, shadows and light as if they were objects in space. My work includes oils, acrylics and watercolor, and my sculptures include bone and wood. I sometimes combine individual mediums for various effects." Although he is an accomplished artist, this is Arthur's first one-man show. At the opening reception, a door prize of the artist's work will be drawn. The show continues throughout May. www.okeq.org Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern 4/24/26, 4:21 PM �OkEq eNews April 25th, 2018 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2018.ht... Provider Bias Survey Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She currently facilitates OkEq's Coming Out Workshop and Challenging Beliefs in Non-Traditional Relationships group. This survey has been crafted to better understand provider bias in the LGBTQ+ and nontraditional relationship communities. The information will be used to provide information about ways to better train and educate providers. AVOID BIAS NEXT EXIT~ While you may not be familiar with some of the terms used, I have provided definitions to give you a better understanding of the following questions: at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Provider bias - the negative evaluation of a group or individual belonging to such group Discrimination - the unjust or prejudicial treatment of different categories of people or things. For the purpose of this study, discrimination applies to gender, sexual orientation, and/or relationship construct. Relationship construct - divided into two main categories: monogamous and nonmonogamous. This includes nontraditional relationship structures such as: polyamory, swinging, kink (Dominant/submissive, etc.) relationships. ALL RESPONSES ARE CONFIDENTIAL Link to the survey Ask A Lawyer Free Legal Advice Thursday, May 3 9 a.m. to 9 p.m. Oklahoma is keeping its tradition of celebrating Law Day in a big way. The Oklahoma Bar Association has been celebrating Law Day more than 60 years with activities and events taking place over several weeks and in dozens of counties. Oklahoma lawyers donated tens of thousands of dollars in legal services giving free legal advice, and the Law Day message reaches more than 4.5 million Oklahomans annually. Every year, Oklahomans with legal questions may call a toll-free number from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m. and speak to an attorney at no charge. This year's Ask A Lawyer event will be Thursday, May 3. This year will mark the 42nd year OBA members offered free legal advice to the public. In 2017, 219 attorneys answered 1,477 phone calls and 367 emails, in both English and Spanish, across 30 different counties. Volunteers donated 475 hours in time and $71,325 in billable hours. This annual event is a unique opportunity to provide a valuable community service while promoting a positive public image of attorneys and the OBA. Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Click here for more information Law Day 2018 FREE LEGAL ADVICE Thurs. I May 3 I 9 a.m. -9 p.m. 800-456-8525 ASKALA WYER@OKl!>AR.ORG • ···~. .=········· ~ •• :····················· zstzs . .............: • ~• • • e . Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 ...a... Ill ..................... 9 : : -~ C1o V ~ ~ ~ ... ....................................... .............................................. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. V : A public i.ervice of the Oklahoma Bar AssociaLion and your county bar association. www.okbar.orgnawday. Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity 4/24/26, 4:21 PM �OkEq eNews April 25th, 2018 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2018.ht... LGBT Women's Network May Happy Hour Monday, May 7, 5:00 p.m. Inner Circle Vodka Bar 410 N Main St, Tulsa, OK 74103 This month our sponsor is Take Heart Events! Come mix and mingle with ladies you might not meet otherwise, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. We'll have light appetizers and don't forget to bring business cards to be entered into a drawing for a gift from our monthly sponsor! pnze ake ~--· - eve Apps provid<id by: Rally for Age Justice Tuesday, May 15, 2018 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. The first Rally for Age Justice will focus exclusively on the issues that impact our nation's older adults. Age Justice stands for these principles: • People of all ages standing together in our shared efforts to fight ageism. • Inclusivity: Age is place that unites all races, genders, sexualities, religions and other factors that define us. • The dignity and well-being of the frail and disabled. • Building and maintaining a society that replaces ageist myths. The radical age movement is a grassroots effort that challenges traditional notions of aging and focuses on building an intergenerational movement dedicated to confronting and eradicating age discrimination. For more information, visit radicalagemovement.org EBA Mixer Wednesday, May 16, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Red Sky Liquor & Wine 4711 E 51st St, Tulsa, OK 74135 Red Sky Liquor & Wine was founded in May 2011 and opened its store in the Tulsa area during that year. Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. We are a new alcoholic beverage-lifestyle specialty store that provides a uniquely friendly and welcoming environment for competitively priced alcoholic beverages. Our interactive website enables customers to purchase items for home or office for pickup within an hour from our store. The Red Sky Liquor Experience! Red Sky Liquor provides an inviting environment. Friendly, product-knowledgeable staff offer customers individual service and advice as they explore the store's product offering. Our store is organized by product category and is well sign-posted, making it easy for customers to find the sections they are interested in. All products are accompanied by descriptive signage and, where appropriate, ratings. Signs are easy to read and informative. Parties, Weddings,Tastings? We can help! Red Sky Liquor offers customers great prices and discounts for those special events. If you are planning a party or an event, we invite you to come to our store or give us a phone call, and we can help you get started with your party shopping list. Give us a budget, number of guests and liquor preferences, and we will find the right product for your party or event. After these easy steps, all you need to do is show up, and your order will be ready for pickup. Call (918) 794-5700 or email blackbottle@redskyliquor.com Visit Red Sky Liquor & Wine Online Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com REDSl<Y LIQUOR & WINE 4/24/26, 4:21 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/82d081951b5e618978276eefe2f58637.pdf e4136b07c52c98e4988a8ec26245fbf2 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews and Urgent call to action May 2nd, 2018 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-and-Urgent-call-to-a... 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Invetitures XI CALL TO ACTION: SB 1140 by Senator Greg Treat CALL TO ACTION: SB 1140 by Senator Greg Treat. This bill will most likely be heard in the senate today and the house tomorrow, if it passes in both it will then go to Gov. Mary Fallin. Please call your representative today Find here -your - - representative - -----Amazon Smile The Office of Governor Mary Fallin Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 212 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 Local: (405) 521-2342 Fax: (405) 521-3353 Click here to email Gov. Fallin Shop Now Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! We must protect LGBTQ youth in foster care shelters and group homes by making sure that they are not excluded from placement in qualified foster homes. We must oppose any legislation that takes our tax dollars and gives them to faith-based and private child- placing agencies who refuse to allow same-sex couples and LGBTQ individuals to provide foster care and or adopt. amazons ....._,...., mi le You shop. Amazon gives. SB1140 would allow: • Private agencies to make a policy NEVER to certify or train prospective and adoptive parents who they say violate their "moral" or "religious" standards. • Would allow private agencies to make a policy NEVER even to ATTEMPT to find a home for children in shelters and group homes who identified as LGBTQ, who are considered "medically fragile," or who have a disability as long as the agencies claim that it's for "moral" or "religious" reasons. • Would PROHIBIT the Department of Human Services from intervening and being able to contract with another agency that was willing to find a family for an LGBTQ youth or consider a same-sex couple if the original private agency had already refused placement based on "moral" or "religious" reasons. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, May 17 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition May Volunteer of the Month Mariah Robinson "I s t a r t e d v o l u n t e e r i n g a t t h e c e n t e r b e c a u s e I w a s l o o k i n g f o r a w a y t o g e t m o r e e x p e r i e nce working with nonprofits, and to support a cause that I feel strongly about. Volunteering is always the highlight of my week because I get to hear the stories of incredible people who have moved mountains to be where they are today. More often than not, my role at the center is to listen, and that's honestly the easiest thi ng anyone can do for the LGBT+ community. A few weeks ago I got a phone call at the fro homans for Eqwllty The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Arthur James Uphold, beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 3, from 6 to 9 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. A longtime resident of the Tulsa area, Arthur James Uphold has finally made 4/24/26, 4:22 PM �OkEq eNews and Urgent call to action May 2nd, 2018 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-and-Urgent-call-to-a... nt desk from a trans woman. She didn't need anything, she just wanted to tell somebody that she'd been in public dressed as her true self for the first time and she was really happy. I was so thrilled that she shared this moment with me, and it's moments like this that ma k e i t a n h o n o r t o v o l u n t e e r a t t h e c e n t e r ." Thank you for your devotion, Mariah! M>\RIAH i{OHINSO,i it home. Arthur was both active-duty and in the reserves in the Army, including deployment to Kuwait and Iraq. He retired at the rank of master sergeant after 28 years. During his work and military career, he attended the Rocky Mountain School of Art, where he studied the human form. He received an associate's degree from then-Tulsa Junior College and a bachelor of fine arts in 1995 from Oklahoma State University. The show continues throughout the month www.okeq.org If you would like to volunteer, contact Alex Wade at alex.wade@okeq.org May Video eNews Q r:: Family Ties First Thursday Art Show - Arthur James Uphold Thursday May 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Arthur James Uphold, beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 3, from 6 to 9 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. A longtime resident of the Tulsa area, Arthur James Uphold has finally made it home. Arthur was both activeduty and in the reserves in the Army, including deployment to Kuwait and Iraq. He retired at the rank of master sergeant after 28 years. During his work and military career, he attended the Rocky Mountain School of Art, where he studied the human form. He received an associate's degree from then-Tulsa Junior College and a bachelor of fine arts in 1995 from Oklahoma State University. Arthur's work extracts from many media. "As an artist exhibiting my work, I like to excite the viewer's eye with color," he said. "My use of geometrical shapes and organic elements gives me the freedom to enjoy less restriction and allows me to create my own vision. I also use traditional tools, like reflective lighting, shading, color theory and perspective. You can usually see a person or object in my paintings, but they are transformed through shapes, shadows and light as if they were objects in space. My work includes oils, acrylics and watercolor, and my sculptures include bone and wood. I sometimes combine individual mediums for various effects." Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact jose.vega@okeq.org Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips Although he is an accomplished artist, this is Arthur's first one-man show. At the opening reception, a door prize of the artist's work will be drawn. The show continues throughout May. www.okeq.org Adoption Information As many of you are already aware, when our LGBT families go through the adoption process - either one parent in a stepparent adoption or both parents in a traditional placement - a new birth certificate must be issued from the Department of Vital Records. We are pleased to announce that the Oklahoma Department of Vital Records has recently amended its procedures and is now issuing birth certificates with the following designations: MOTHER/FATHER MOTHER/MOTHER FATHER/FATHER PARENT/PARENT Birth certificates previously were issued only with the "mother/father" designations, regardless of the genders of the parents. If your child was issued a birth certificate with an incorrect designation of your gender identity, you can get an amended birth certificate. Please contact: Christopher Brecht 1800 S. Baltimore Ave., Ste. 900 Tulsa, OK 74119 918-382-1400 cbrecht@pmrlaw.net You will not be charged anything for attorney time or preparation, but there is a $50 Department of Vital Records fee to obtain any updated birth certificate. Equality Gala Pictures Now Available 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Photos from Steven Michael's Photography Photos from Williams Photography 4/24/26, 4:22 PM �OkEq eNews and Urgent call to action May 2nd, 2018 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-and-Urgent-call-to-a... Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op Photos from the Magic Selfie Mirror No Shade for Plus Every Thursday Next meeting May 3, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Tulsa Indigenous & First Nation Support Group First & Third Thursday of every month Next Meeting May 3, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Indigenous \ \ l //; """' / .,,,,,... & First Nation Support Group Lawyer in the Library May 9 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Indian or Indian at Heart _,,,,_,., Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. ........... Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them r- ! __ ..a. _ ·- _t "T" L ! .. _ I "'T" L ·-·-- - • - - . _ ..£ - · · - .... ____ .. ..a.L 4/24/26, 4:22 PM �OkEq eNews and Urgent call to action May 2nd, 2018 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-and-Urgent-call-to-a... r-1rs1 ana I rnra I nursaay or every momn to find an available time to see you. 7pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 choatek@nsuok.edu In celebration of our 8th year anniversary we are collecting new Teddy Bears to bring comf security and love to children facing tough situations through the gift of a ed ear. We are honored to partner with the Family Safety Center who assist family's of orryestic abuse. Stephanie Miller Stephanie is a counseling intern at Northeastern State University. She is passionate about working with diverse families and clients, now expanding to the LGBTQ+ community and allies. Stephanie has experience with families, children and adolescents. She believes in helping the client identify and achieve their goals through a holistic approach. , Contact Stephanie at tatom@nsuok.edu to make an appointment. All sessions are free and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m. on Wednesdays or 12:30 and 4:30 p.m. on Saturdays. rs can be dropped off-at the Dennis R 621 East 4th Street. lsa 0 OSU Tulsa Counseling Center Provider Bias Survey Sara Griffey is a clinical counseling intern with Bellevue University. She facilitates OkEq's Coming Out Workshop and the Challenging Beliefs in Non-Traditional Relationships group. This survey has been crafted to better understand provider bias in the LGBTQ+ and nontraditional relationship communities. The information will be used to provide information about ways to better train and educate providers. AVOID BIAS NEXT EXIT 1lf All responses are confidential. To take the survey, please go here: https://goo.gl/ forms/3BA47O4PtSt6bkz72 Ask A Lawyer Free Legal Advice Thursday, May 3 9 a.m. to 9 p.m. Oklahoma is keeping its tradition of celebrating Law Day in a big way. The Oklahoma Bar Association has been celebrating Law Day more than 60 years with activities and events taking place over several weeks and in dozens of counties. Oklahoma lawyers donated tens of thousands of dollars in legal services giving free legal advice, and the Law Day message reaches more than 4.5 million Oklahomans annually. Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . Every year, Oklahomans with legal questions may call a toll-free number from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m. and speak to an attorney at no charge. This year's Ask A Lawyer event will be Thursday, May 3. This year will mark the 42nd year OBA members offered free legal advice to the public. In 2017, 219 attorneys answered 1,477 phone calls and 367 emails, in both English and Spanish, across 30 different counties. Volunteers donated 475 hours in time and $71,325 in billable hours. This annual event is a unique opportunity to provide a valuable community service while promoting a positive public image of attorneys and the OBA. Click here for more information Law Day 2018 Amanda Rogers 4/24/26, 4:22 PM �OkEq eNews and Urgent call to action May 2nd, 2018 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-and-Urgent-call-to-a... FREE LEGAL ADVICE Thurs. I May 3 I 9 a.m. -9 p.m. 800-456-8525 is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . ASKALAWYER@OKr»AR.ORG • • • .............: 6) ..., . . . e ·.········· ~ . . . ···:.. ! .................... ~ ~ .A. : I ll . ~ . : A <Y6 a, ~ ~ ..................... j .............................. : . . . . ..................................... . ...................... ...................... .. ~ · Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. - A public :.ervice of the Oklahoma Bar Association and your county bar association. www.okbar.orgnawclay. LGBT Women's Network May Happy Hour Monday, May 7, 5:00 p.m. Inner Circle Vodka Bar 410 N Main St, Tulsa, OK 74103 This month our sponsor is Take Heart Events! Come mix and mingle with ladies you might not meet otherwise, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. We'll have light appetizers and don't forget to bring business cards to be entered into a drawing for a gift from our monthly sponsor! MEET UKE•MINDED TULSA WOMEN • & BUil: YOUR NETWORK ,_,, MAY ·HAPPY pnze p Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 ake ~,-eve • ~ Saint Francis Community Services• Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, 4/24/26, 4:22 PM �OkEq eNews and Urgent call to action May 2nd, 2018 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-and-Urgent-call-to-a... Give hope. Change a life. sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Become a foster parent. 2018 Tulsa Geek Chicks' Annual Geek-End Friday May 11 - Sunday, May 13 Camp Waluhili 67246 S. 320 Rd., Chouteau, OK 74337 The 2018 Tulsa Geek Chicks' annual Geek-End Weekend is here! This year, the weekend will take place at Camp Fire's Camp Waluhili on Fort Gibson Lake between Chouteau and Wagoner. The fee of $50 will cover three days, two nights' cabin lodging, all meals, and supplies for selected activities. We are upgrading the facilities to offer more lodging and a larger, commercial kitchen, so we will not have as much in the way of prizes or giveaways this year, focusing instead on better food and more fun. The registration fee is due at the time of registration. There will be no refunds after April 30 without a replacement paid registration. Participants are welcome to transfer their registration fee to a replacement participant if they are unable to attend. Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Link to the registration form For more information click here LGBTQ Veterans Support and Entertainment First & Third Tuesday of each month Next meeting Tuesday, May 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Non-Binary Support Group Rally for Age Justice Tuesday, May 15, 2018 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The first Rally for Age Justice will focus exclusively on the issues that impact our nation's older adults. Age Justice stands for these principles: • People of all ages standing together in our shared efforts to fight ageism. • Inclusivity: Age is place that unites all races, genders, sexualities, religions and other factors that define us. • The dignity and well-being of the frail and disabled. • Building and maintaining a society that replaces ageist myths. 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com The radical age movement is a grassroots effort that challenges traditional notions of aging and focuses on building an intergenerational movement dedicated to confronting 4/24/26, 4:22 PM �OkEq eNews and Urgent call to action May 2nd, 2018 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-and-Urgent-call-to-a... and eradicating age discrimination. For more information, visit radicalagemovement.org EBA Mixer Wednesday, May 16, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Red Sky Liquor & Wine 4711 E 51st St, Tulsa, OK 74135 Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday, 7:30 p.m. Red Sky Liquor & Wine was founded in May 2011 and opened its store in the Tulsa area during that year. We are a new alcoholic beverage-lifestyle specialty store that provides a uniquely friendly and welcoming environment for competitively priced alcoholic beverages. Our interactive website enables customers to purchase items for home or office for pickup within an hour from our store. The Red Sky Liquor Experience! Red Sky Liquor provides an inviting environment. Friendly, product-knowledgeable staff offer customers individual service and advice as they explore the store's product offering. The Southern Pride Drum Group is the only such group of its kind in the world, being the only drum group composed of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have traveled across the U.S. and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years, with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. They seek to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and to add to their tight-knit drum family. Our store is organized by product category and is well sign-posted, making it easy for customers to find the sections they are interested in. All products are accompanied by descriptive signage and, where appropriate, ratings. Signs are easy to read and informative. Parties, Weddings,Tastings? We can help! Red Sky Liquor offers customers great prices and discounts for those special events. If you are planning a party or an event, we invite you to come to our store or give us a phone call, and we can help you get started with your party shopping list. Give us a budget, number of guests and liquor preferences, and we will find the right product for your party or event. After these easy steps, all you need to do is show up, and your order will be ready for pickup. Call (918) 794-5700 or email blackbottle@redskyliquor.com Visit Red Sky Liquor & Wine Online Free Yoga Class at OKEQ Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. REDSl<Y Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. LIQUOR & WINE You can join the EBA online, at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. SOS Group E Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org UALITY Business Alliance Asexual Meeting 2nd & 4th Tuesday of every month 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. Oklahomans for quality and Tul a Fir t ation/Tndig nous T1ib Program Pr EAT & DAN E FOR HEALTH & HAPPINES nt Asexuality can be defined in many different ways. Some of us identify as asexual because we are not interested in intercourse, but still want other forms of sex. Some of us identify as asexual because we cannot get sexually aroused. Others may identify as asexual because we are never attracted to anyone sexually. Some of us are in relationships with the opposite sex, some with the same sex, and others remain unattached our entire lives. INDIAN TACO AL & NATIVE DANCE DEMONSTRATION 4/24/26, 4:22 PM �OkEq eNews and Urgent call to action May 2nd, 2018 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-and-Urgent-call-to-a... Brought to You Bi the Letter B When: 'lbursday ~lay 17, 2018 11 :00run 2:00pm 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. When,: Ocnnis R. .,;11 F.l1uulily Center 621 F.. 4th. Slr.:cl, Tulsa 01' 74120 918-28 -9 23 Price: 8 per each Taco Tn advance (9 l 8) 743-4297 to pla ·e order Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. olll hom.an.9 for e,qu•.lfty Facilitators Daniel & Haley TMSL 2018 Spring Schedule Indian Springs Softball Complex 13600 S 145th E Ave, Broken Arrow, OK 74011 Hey TMSL members! Come play ball! Spectators always welcome! 2018 Spring Schedule No Shade for Plus Games are from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Every Tuesday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. May 6, 20 June 3 - Final Day For more information visit the website at www.tulsametrosoftball.com Pride Bingo 2018 - Super Hero Night Saturday, May 19, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is the best bingo EVER The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo Bash. Prizes for the best super hero costume. $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table SAGE Tulsa @ the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Annual Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Tuesday, May 29th, 6:30 p.m. St. Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 S. Quaker Ave., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for the Annual Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service. For 20 years, the LGBTQ+ community and allies have come together with inclusive, affirming and welcoming faith communities during pride week to bless the rainbow flag that flies over the Equality Center and the Tulsa Pride Festival. Participants will hear from faith leaders and be blessed with music, readings, prayers, and meditations. The interfaith service is interactive and inspirational. We remember those who have died in the LGBTQ+ community this past year with the In Memoriam portion of the program. A reception with refreshments will follow the service. This service is an official Tulsa Pride event and is free and open to the public. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan SU'Jl~e I Advocacy & Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible Interfaith it Tulsa Pride Celebration 2018 June 1-3 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Tulsa Pride Planning Committee and Oklahomans for Equality would like to thank you for your support of this year's 36th annual Tulsa Pride festival! Tulsa Pride sponsorship has consistently proven to be financially beneficial to companies seeking to do business with the LGBTQ+ community. In 2017, Tulsa Pride attracted more than 35,000 people from across the region to the largest Tulsa Pride celebration ever! ii ~-k Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 To sponsor Tulsa Pride, register online at http://www.okeq.org/tulsa-pride.html. Contact Pride Director Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org or (918) 743-4297 with any questions. 4/24/26, 4:22 PM �OkEq eNews and Urgent call to action May 2nd, 2018 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-and-Urgent-call-to-a... Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Writers, Ink. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. Tulsa Project Theatre, the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera "Lizzie," set to run July 13-22, 2018. - tulsaprojecttheatre On a sweltering summer morning in 1892 in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden, was the prime suspect, and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. "Lizzie" features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. "Lizzie" is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com - - - - - for more information Curiosity Fest 2018 Saturday, October 2 Civic Center Music Hall 201 N. Walker Ave., Oklahoma City, OK 73102 Oklahoma Humanities presents the inaugural Curiosity Fest 2018, an annual event designed to bring humanities scholarship to the adult general public in fun, vibrant, interactive ways. The one-day festival takes place on Saturday, October 20 at the Civic Center Music Hall in downtown Oklahoma City. Participants will attend concurrent program sessions throughout the day. An evening presentation will feature Jad Abumrad, founder of NPR's Radiolab. An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. It's all about curiosity. What humanities trivia, trends, or topics can you share in a fun, imaginative format? We're sticklers for scholarship, but believe strongly in our mission to bring the humanities to the general public in inviting ways. Eligible Presenters: Scholars with an imagination (and a master's degree or higher in a humanities field) and Native American elders are eligible. Individuals without advanced degrees who are recognized experts in their fields may also qualify.Humanities disciplines include: language, both modern and classical; linguistics; literature; history; jurisprudence; philosophy; archaeology; comparative religion; ethics; the history, criticism and theory of the arts; and those aspects of social sciences which have humanistic content and employ humanistic methods. Compensation: Selected presenters will receive a $300 honorarium. Proposal Submissions: www.okhumanities.org/festivalscholar . Multiple proposals are welcome and will be reviewed by a committee comprised of scholars and Oklahoma Humanities board members. Deadline for submissions is April 30. Notification of acceptance will be issued by June 30. (A video or Skype presentation may be requested by the committee to better understand your proposal.) Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Session Formats: The following suggest the sense of the fun and atmosphere of discovery that we hope to create. Remember, you'll be presenting to an adult public audience of all backgrounds and education levels. Each session block is a maximum of 75 minutes; short sessions are also welcome. 1. Your Idea Here: A game, talk, demonstration, group reading, hands-on activity . . . We want your ideas, your spin, your tricks of the humanities trade. 2. Thanksgiving Table Topics: No Politics! Enlighten participants and help defuse the inevitable arguments at Thanksgiving dinner! Present a crystalized version of a humanities topic in a 10-minute "speed dating" format. Handouts may be appropriate. 3. HEAD Talks: Humanities Enlighten and Delight. Scholars vie for the coveted "Curiosity Cat" award for best TED-Talk-style presentation. Audience members judge which presenter takes the catnip for: 1) most enlightening, 2) most useful to my life, 3) most entertaining talk. Time limit: 18 minutes. 4. Civics 101: I Think, Therefore I Vote. What are the enigmatic aspects of our government-history, political parties, voting laws, funding? Present your Civics 101 class and help participants become knowledgeable, informed citizens. 5. Current Events: No Fake News Here.Use the humanities to inform a current event (foreign affairs, campaign finance, Hollywood celebrities, gun laws, etc.). Cite and defend your sources! This session could allow two scholars to present opposing sides of an issue, followed by Q&A. 6. Author Talks: I Published It, So It Must Be Good.Pitch your book in 10 minutes or less. Book sales will be arranged on site through Full Circle Bookstore, with space and time for book signing. 7. I See Dead People.This Chautauqua-style event is a sure crowd-pleaser. Give a first-person, in-character presentation of an interesting person from history. Excellent research is a must. Audience questions will be addressed first to your character, then to you as scholar. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 8. Action! The Humanities on Film.Screen a short film and provide commentary to help viewers understand the content, context, genre, and importance of the film. Includes time for Q&A. 9. Stirring the Pot: A Cultural Smorgasbord.Present a cultural tradition using history, music, dance, art, stories, foodways, folklore, etc. Format may include: AV, performance, lecture, hands-on interactive-whatever your subject requires. 10. WTPhD: Can you translate that for me? Admit it, your scholar-speak can be hard for the rest of us to understand. Bring your esoteric, high-minded, scholarly presentation, and a straight-talking sidekick to translate your shtick. Google "Obama anger translator" to view the fun we're looking for. 11. World Café: Conversations that Matter. "We are wiser together than we are alone."-This is the premise of World Café Conversations. Using their model, you'll propose one overriding current-event issue or question and bring three of your humanities scholar friends to help facilitate conversations. Participants rotate tables, gaining insight from each scholar, then gather as a group to report on what they heard and discuss conclusions. Everyone gains a deeper, richer understanding of a humanities theme. About Oklahoma Humanities: Our nonprofit organization is in its 47th year of bridging the academic humanities to the general public in a variety of formats: reading and discussion programs, film festivals, museum exhibits, publications, panel discussions, cultural fairs, lecture series, and more. Curiosity Fest is a departure from our traditional format, but it, too, is grounded in humanities scholarship. Your participation as a presenter will help us fulfill our mission of promoting the public humanities. Click here for more information Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve a space for your next event or receive pricing information, contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Equality Center Pride Store 2018 pride shirts are in the Pride Store now! EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products 4/24/26, 4:22 PM �OkEq eNews and Urgent call to action May 2nd, 2018 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-and-Urgent-call-to-a... and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Gay Pioneers " Directed by: Glenn Holsten Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Fifty years ago, gay and lesbian activists from Washington, New York and Philadelphia held the first organized demonstrations for equality. Principal among them were Frank Kameny and Barbara Gittings, the father and mother of the LGBT civil rights movement. Called "Annual Reminders," their demonstrations were held each Fourth of July from 1965 to 1969. When 40 activists picketed in front of Independence Hall and the Liberty Bell on July 4, 1965, it was the largest demonstration for gay equality in world history. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. When the Stonewall riot occurred in 1969, the Gay Pioneers recognized it as the movement's Boston Tea Party. They discontinued the Annual Reminders and put all their energy into a first anniversary Stonewall march the following year. Between 2,000 and 5,000 men and women participated. Remembered as the first New York Gay Pride Parade, the 1970 march inspired Gay Pride Parades across North America and around the globe. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing - .. -- "Gay Pioneers," directed by award-winning PBS documentary filmmaker Glenn Holsten, braids archival footage from the demonstrations; FBI investigative files obtained under the Freedom of Information Act; on-camera interviews with Gay Pioneers; the protocol for the demonstrations and how those demonstrations affected the movement; and perspectives from Kameny, Gittings and others regarding same-sex marriage. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Amazon Smile Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Amazon Smile Link amazons...._...•le "~~n You shop. Amazon gives. Dissertation Study - Sexual Behaviors in MSM This research study seeks to investigate if one's HIV-status and respective adherence/non- adherence to preexposure prophylaxes (PrEP) or antiretroviral therapy (ART) is linked to a reduction in consistent condom use, and increased risky sexual behaviors, among men who have sex with men (MSM). It also seeks to determine what stage of change MSM are likely to be in by using the transtheoretical model of change. With such information, one of the goals is to see if there might be points when mental health professionals and/or primary care providers could intervene to reduce HIV and sexually transmitted infection transmission rates. 1st Wednesday of each month 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. SURVEY Please direct questions to Eric Teeters (ejteeters@gmail.com), or Dr. Elana Maurin (emaurin@argosy.edu). MISSION: Take the survey now Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of 4/24/26, 4:22 PM �OkEq eNews and Urgent call to action May 2nd, 2018 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-and-Urgent-call-to-a... the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. THE CANYONS AT BLACKJACK RIDGE 1801 N. MCKINLEY AVE SAND SPRINGS, OK 74063 SUNDAY, MAY 6TH 1:00 P.M. STA TING TEE TIME Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org $75 PER PLAYER / $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOWI I CONTACT· CURTIS AUSTIN . ' QJRTISAUSTINH.HOTMAIL.COM OR AL WARREN • t11-J61-17Jt 'IOU CAN ALSO FIND US ON FAC:UOOK • TULSAJOLT PRIZES FOR 1sr, 2ND AND 3RD PLACE TEAMS & RAFFLE PRIZESIII Sharon Queen Service Coordinator Veterans, Transgender and Indigenous People Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Director Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer & Pride Store Coordinator Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Luke Welvaert Facilities Coordinator Luke.Welvaert@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 4:22 PM �OkEq eNews and Urgent call to action May 2nd, 2018 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-and-Urgent-call-to-a... Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Denise Polonchak Janitorial Services OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Jan Baldwin, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Robin VanMeter, At Large Board of Directors Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Sheena Grewal Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Marcia Keesee Ben Matthews Mike Redman, Esq. Chris Shoaf Al Triggs John Williams Board of Advisors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Peter Brennan Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Jamie Catlett Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Amanda Lowe Jim Scholl Mikeal Vaughn William Vaughn Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes - ~c:i:t¼~-.-------------------------------------------------------Dennis R. Neill Equality Center . . _____ _ Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org --, --- I 4/24/26, 4:22 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/afe24b400535e75e3727370776ffc3e1.pdf 593ef0f46dd55bdf7b502dc6e819bc49 PDF Text Text Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 1 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 13th, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 2 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Dawn Sitler Sponsors the Day Dawn is sponsoring the day to honor her hero's birthday Dustin Lance Black. Thank you, Dawn! If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day, click here • Birthdays - yours, your spouse's, your children's, your parents', your friends', even your dog's • Anniversaries - wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mother's Day, Father's Day, any holiday • Just because Out of This World Intergenerational Dance Party Friday, June 22, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 We’ll dance through the time and space, sharing friendship and fun! All ages are welcome. This is an alcohol-free event. Wear your best space garb for this cosmic experience. Free Event 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 3 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Council Oak Men's Chorale Presents: Encor e June 15 & 16, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 In 1998, 12 men joined together to perform at the World AIDS Day remembrance service. Now, 20 years later, with more than 600 songs sung, the Council Oak Men’s Chorale is still OUT performing, educating and raising awareness. Encore will take you back to some of your favorite songs over the past 20 years. Purchase Tickets Now 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 4 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... 16'0 9:00PM l l'NN ,nee, llA(K IOX TIHATII AT lflAUOMAN! rOD IQUAllTli ( OlflQ J 6!11.4' 11 !T. TUl!A,C,lf Proud Politics Thursday, June 14, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a panel of openly LGBTQ candidates from across Oklahoma to hear what motivates them to seek public office. Moderated by state Sen. Allison IkleyFreeman, Tulsa’s first openly LGBTQ elected official, who will share her story and successful campaign experience. * • * oklahomans for equality • * These proud politicians who are OUT and raising the visibility of LGBTQ Oklahomans will discuss the role that sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression plays in politics. They will share their experiences and challenges of campaigning in Oklahoma. The state leads the nation in anti-LGBTQ legislation each year, and the Human Rights Campaign does not list one city in Oklahoma that scores more than 50 points on its annual municipal index. The Proud Politics panel discussion is free and open to the public. 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 5 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... 2018 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 6th, 2018 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 4th) oklahomans for equality OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 24th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Nine directors will be elected. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - - for an application. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member and membership fees current 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 6 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... www.fostercare-ok.org Ir ~ Saint Francis Community Services Give hope. Change a life. Become a foster parent. 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 7 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... or ca 877-263-1890 EBA Mixer Wednesday, June 20, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Parlour Salon & Spa 1335 E. 11th St., Ste. C, Tulsa, OK 74120 (918) 949-4666 Visit Parlour Salon Online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: Please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. E ALITY Business Alliance S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Tuesday Jun. 19, Jul. 24, Aug. 21, Sep. 18, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their first pool party 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 8 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... on Tuesday, June 19th at 10:00 a.m. Members can meet up at the Equality r. Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, deserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. You're not alone YOU'RE NOT Support group for partners with HIV/ AIDS Do you have a partner recently who was recently diagnosed with HIV/AIDS? Have you found a community to process this life change with? Are you looking for support? As every airplane attendant says, “Put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others.” ALONE Having a partner with a life-threatening illness can take a toll on your well being. This group may help you to recognize and change your reactions to the new challenges that having a partner with HIV/AIDS might pose. We will meet weekly for 6 weeks to cover information on HIV/AIDS, process difficulties you may be having with your partner, learn new ways to cope with this change, foster healthier communication, prepare for the future, and better manage stress. If interested please email jose.vega@okeq.org to join the group. You are not alone. ---- 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 9 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... LGBT Women's Network July Happy Hour Friday, July 2, 5:00 p.m. The Wild Fork 1820 Utica Sq, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 This month our sponsor is Gayelynn Head with McGraw Realtors! Come mix and mingle with ladies you might not meet otherwise, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. We'll have light appetizers and don't forget to bring business cards to be entered into a drawing for a gift from Dick's and Gayelynn! ps provided by: ....,.. . . . . . . !i"l:i ' First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, July 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Euqlity Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the combined works by Mark Henry and Jason Reed, beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 5 th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Mark Henry is a budding artist who works in mixed media and acrylics. He started painting on a whim at Tulsa Art Center in March 2017 under the masterful instructor, Marie Sullivan. His lifetime collector of original Art inspires his creativity. His works in this show represent an exploration of Art, Color, and Light. Mark is a native Tulsan and currently lives there with his partner Korben Rodriguez and their two dogs. Jason Reed is the owner of a construction company – his method of escape in meditation became less effective as the onerous duties of owning a business overwhelmed him – in March of 2017, he woke up one morning and said. "I wonder if I can paint?" His research led him to the Tulsa Art Center. He persuaded his "best good budy" Mark, into signing up for art lessons. Marie Sullivan put the brush in our hand and said “You can do this”. Neither of them had painted before, but they soon figured out that Art is both relaxing and healing – of course, 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 10 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... some innate talent helped. His style ranges from abstract to portraits and everything in between. He states: “I paint in every style because I have not found one subject or style I love more than the other. Today I paint every morning as a way to meditate. Art stops my mind and allows me to focus on only the colors and brush strokes. I don’t think I am the best artist, however, I feel that I improve with every painting”. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, July 5 th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org www.tulsacampfire.org/camp I~ Al CAMP WITH PRIDE! It Al Camp Fire Camp Fire Camp Fire Green Country Presents Oklahoma's First LGBTQ+ Summer Camp Camp Fire's 2018 LGBTQ+ Summer Camp creates a welcoming and safe environment for youth to experience outdoor activities, create friendships, and learn new life skills! Camp Fire Green Country will hold space for individuals who have found overnight trips and outdoor activities inaccessible due to their gender identities or sexual orientations. This camp is for youth of all genders, gender expressions, sexual and romantic orientations, and to the allies who support them . July 51\ 6 1\ and 7th Ages 8-18 Camp Waluhili on Lake Fort Gibson Open to all LGBTQ+ Youth and Allies Cost is $195 per youth Scholarships Avai lable! Activities include : Rappelling, kayaking, archery, crafts, sling shots, outdoor games, swimming, fire building and MUCH MOREi! ! w open at www.TulsaCampFire.org/CAMP 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 11 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... For more information please contact us at 918.592.2267 or visit us online at www.TulsaCampFire.Org Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Tulsa Project Theatre, the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera "Lizzie," set to run July 13-22, 2018. .. tulsa proj ectthea tre On a sweltering summer morning in 1892 in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden, was the prime suspect, and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. "Lizzie" features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. "Lizzie" is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information II ~ F@~S h l!eeE 0 . ... =.... tulsacares biM~ !Mf'.!J~tG Good morning! We want you to be the first to hear about an exciting new event to benefit Tulsa CARES. Local Brews features local microbreweries, live music, and prize drawing with 100% of event proceeds benefiting Tulsa CARES. July 26 7pm VIP, 8pm-10pm at Fuel 66. Tulsa CARES offers vital support to those in our community living with HIV/AIDS, by providing medical case management, nutrition, mental health, and housing assistance. Tickets: $55 and include generous pours from local breweries, live music, and commemorative tasting glass. VIP Tickets: $100 and include an additional hour of live music, 2 cocktail tickets, and VIP shade tent. For more information and to purchase tickets visit: tulsacares.org/localbrews 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 12 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Please join us! Adoption Information As many of you are already aware, when our LGBT families go through the adoption 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 13 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... process - either one parent in a stepparent adoption or both parents in a traditional placement - a new birth certificate must be issued from the Department of Vital Records. We are pleased to announce that the Oklahoma Department of Vital Records has recently amended its procedures and is now issuing birth certificates with the following designations: MOTHER/FATHER MOTHER/MOTHER FATHER/FATHER PARENT/PARENT Birth certificates previously were issued only with the "mother/father" designations, regardless of the genders of the parents. If your child was issued a birth certificate with an incorrect designation of your gender identity, you can get an amended birth certificate. Please contact: Christopher Brecht 1800 S. Baltimore Ave., Ste. 900 Tulsa, OK 74119 918 -382-1400 cbrecht@pmrlaw.net You will not be charged anything for attorney time or preparation, but there is a $50 Department of Vital Records fee to obtain any updated birth certificate. Provider Bias Survey Sara Griffey is a clinical counseling intern with Bellevue University. She facilitates OkEq's Coming Out Workshop and the Challenging Beliefs in Non-Traditional Relationships group. AVOID BIAS NEXT EXIT~ This survey has been crafted to better understand provider bias in the LGBTQ+ and nontraditional relationship communities. The information will be used to provide information about ways to better train and educate providers. All responses are confidential. To take the survey, please go here: https://goo.gl/forms/3BA47O4PtSt6bkz72 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 14 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library " Love Is an Orientation: Elevating the Conversation with the Gay Community " By: Andrew Marin 2010 Outreach Magazine Resource of the Year Award winner: culture category 2010 Golden Canon Leadership Book Award winner Relevant Magazine: Top 20 Best Overall Books of 2009 winner Englewood Review of Books: Top 20 Best Overall Books of 2009 winner Christian Manifesto 2009 Lime Award winner Andrew Marin's life changed forever when his three best friends came out to him in three consecutive months. Suddenly he was confronted with the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community (GLBT) firsthand. And he was compelled to understand how he could reconcile his friends to his faith. In an attempt to answer that question, he and his wife relocated to Boystown, a predominantly GLBT community in Chicago. And from his experience and wrestling has come his book, Love Is an Orientation, a work which elevates the conversation between Christianity and the GLBT community, moving the focus from genetics to gospel, where it really belongs. Why are so many people who are gay wary of people who are Christians? Do GLBT people need to change who they are? Do Christians need to change what they believe? Love Is an Orientation is changing the conversation about sexuality and spirituality, and building bridges from the GLBT community to the Christian community and, more importantly, to the good news of Jesus Christ. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 15 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Equality Center Pride Store Bowl everyone over with these striking bowling pins. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 choatek@nsuok.edu Stephanie Miller Stephanie is a counseling intern at Northeastern State University. She is passionate about working with diverse families and clients, now expanding to the LGBTQ+ community and allies. Stephanie has experience with families, children and adolescents. She believes in helping the client identify and achieve their goals through a holistic approach. Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 16 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Contact Stephanie at tatom@nsuok.edu to make an appointment. All sessions are free and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m. on Wednesdays or 12:30 and 4:30 p.m. on Saturdays. Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/ anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 . Merrill Reiter, M.S ., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/ anxiety, depression, selfinjury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 17 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Regularly Scheduled Programming 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 18 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, July 19 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC . Lawyer in the Library June 20 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and May OkEq Art Exhibition The June Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists features the MOREcolor exhibit. The show continues throughout the month www.okeq.org Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relationships 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org --- --- 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 19 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm Asexual Meeting 2nd & 4th Tuesday of every month 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. It's the A in LGBTQA. This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday 7:30 p.m. The Southern Pride Drum Group is the only such group of its kind in the world, being the only drum group composed of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have traveled across the U.S. and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years, with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. They seek to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and to add to their tightknit drum family. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 20 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Tulsa Writers, Ink. Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org ----- --The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 21 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Lambda AlAnon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Tulsa Indigenous \ \ \ I //; ~ ~ & First Nation Support Group LGBTQ Veterans Support and Entertainment 1st & 3rd Tuesday of each month This open Al-Anon group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. Contact 918.743.2754 for more information. Indian or Indian at Heart Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 1st Wednesday of each month 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Tulsa Indigenous &First Nation Support Group 1st & 3rd Thursday of each month This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 22 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Dissertation Study - Sexual Behaviors in MSM This research study seeks to investigate if one's HIV-status and respective adherence/ non- adherence to preexposure prophylaxes (PrEP) or antiretroviral therapy (ART) is linked to a reduction in consistent condom use, and increased risky sexual behaviors, among men who have sex with men (MSM). It also seeks to determine what stage of change MSM are likely to be in by using the transtheoretical model of change. With such information, one of the goals is to see if there might be points when mental health professionals and/or primary care providers could intervene to reduce HIV and sexually transmitted infection transmission rates. SURVEY • •• ·- Please direct questions to Eric Teeters ( ejteeters@gmail.com ), or Dr. Elana Maurin ( emaurin@argosy.edu ). Take the survey now Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm June 15 & 22 only *After these dates there will be no testing on Fridays Saturday 4 - 7 pm 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 23 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Olivia Cotter Office Manager Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Service Coordinator Veterans, Transgender and Indigenous People Jose Vega Program Director Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer & Pride Store Coordinator Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 24 of 24 Luke Welvaert Facilities Coordinator Luke.Welvaert@OkEq.org - - https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Denise Polonchak Janitorial Services OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Jan Baldwin, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Robin VanMeter, At Large Board of Advisors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Peter Brennan Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Jamie Catlett Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Amanda Lowe Jim Scholl Mikeal Vaughn William Vaughn Board of Directors Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Sheena Grewal Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Marcia Keesee Ben Matthews Mike Redman, Esq. Chris Shoaf Al Triggs John Williams Visit our website Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes View our events Contact us today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. 621 East Fourth Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 08 4/24/26, 4:25 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1974b12b77c7aba37e689b5a884406fe.pdf 4eedba29fb938399c1a7d843a3ffc2a9 PDF Text Text MOREcolor opens June 7th 1 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 6th, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website 4/24/26, 4:24 PM �MOREcolor opens June 7th 2 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! The Tulsa Pride Festival is only possible when a community comes together! I want to thank our sponsors, donors and vendors who made this incredible weekend possible. I want to thank the volunteers who showed up, stood out and worked their hearts out to give us a pride experience we can all remember. A special thank you to the staff at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center – Toby Jenkins, Olivia Cotter, Sharon Queen, Alex Wade, Luke Soren Welvaert, Tracy Allen and Denise Polonchak. I could not direct this festival without this amazing group of individuals! To the board and trustees of Oklahomans for Equality, thank you for your continued confidence in me and for allowing me this wonderful opportunity to serve the LGBTQ community. I’m proud to see and be part of the city of Tulsa's initiatives that are making Tulsa resilient, LGBTQ-friendly and welcoming to the immigrant community. Tulsa is a city where anything is possible! Pride Street is a great example of that possibility. I would like to thank Mayor GT Bynum, Nick Doctor of the Mayor’s Office, and Maggie Hoey, executive director of Tulsa Young Professionals, for their full support and for showing what allies can do to make a city welcoming to the LGBTQ community! The city of Tulsa is setting an example for all cities across Oklahoma. And thank you, Williams Photography, for the beautiful photos! – Jose Vega, Pride director 4/24/26, 4:24 PM �MOREcolor opens June 7th 3 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... MOREcolor Art Show Opening Reception: Thursday, June 7, 6:00 p.m.- 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to present the 2018 MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition & Sale. The MOREcolor Art Show is a long tradition of LGBT Celebration and Pride through the arts. MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and to encourage innovative work. Free and open to the public, cash prizes awarded, surprises and live performances, catered cuisine, and a cash bar. Show runs June 7th through June 10th. Out of This World Intergenerational Dance Party Friday, June 22, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 We’ll dance through the time and space, sharing friendship and fun! All ages are welcome. This is an alcohol-free event. Wear your best space garb for this cosmic experience. Free Event 4/24/26, 4:24 PM �MOREcolor opens June 7th 4 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... Council Oak Men's Chorale Presents: Encor e June 15 & 16, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 In 1998, 12 men joined together to perform at the World AIDS Day remembrance service. Now, 20 years later, with more than 600 songs sung, the Council Oak Men’s Chorale is still OUT performing, educating and raising awareness. Encore will take you back to some of your favorite songs over the past 20 years. Purchase Tickets Now 4/24/26, 4:24 PM �MOREcolor opens June 7th 5 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... IUNI 15:ru AND 16'0 9:00PM YNN 11ee, llA(lf IGX TIHATII AT ,om lflAUOMAN! IQUAllTY ( OlflQJ 6!11.4' 11 !T. TUl!A,Olf Proud Politics Thursday, June 14, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a panel of openly LGBTQ candidates from across Oklahoma to hear what motivates them to seek public office. Moderated by state Sen. Allison IkleyFreeman, Tulsa’s first openly LGBTQ elected official, who will share her story and successful campaign experience. * * * oklahomans for equality * * These proud politicians who are OUT and raising the visibility of LGBTQ Oklahomans will discuss the role that sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression plays in politics. They will share their experiences and challenges of campaigning in Oklahoma. The state leads the nation in anti-LGBTQ legislation each year, and the Human Rights Campaign does not list one city in Oklahoma that scores more than 50 points on its annual municipal index. The Proud Politics panel discussion is free and open to the public. www.fostercare-ok.org 17 ~ Saint Francis Community Services• 4/24/26, 4:24 PM �MOREcolor opens June 7th 6 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... Give hope. Change a life. Become a foster parent. EBA Mixer Wednesday, June 20, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Parlour Salon & Spa 1335 E. 11th St., Ste. C, Tulsa, OK 74120 (918) 949-4666 Visit Parlour Salon Online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: Please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. - - --- E ALITY Business Alliance 4/24/26, 4:24 PM �MOREcolor opens June 7th 7 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... LGBT Women's Network July Happy Hour Friday, July 2, 5:00 p.m. The Wild Fork 1820 Utica Sq, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 This month our sponsor is Gayelynn Head with McGraw Realtors! Come mix and mingle with ladies you might not meet otherwise, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. We'll have light appetizers and don't forget to bring business cards to be entered into a drawing for a gift from Dick's and Gayelynn! ps provided by: . . . . . . . . . . . ~ I www.tulsacampfire.org/camp f/ CAMP WITH PRIDE! Al\ It Al Camp Fire Camp Fire Camp Fire Green Country Presents Oklahoma's First LGBTQ+ Summer Camp ~ Camp Fire's 2018 LGBTQ+ Summer Camp creates a welcoming and safe environment for youth to experience outdoor activities, create friendships, and learn new life skills! Camp Fire Green Country will hold space for individuals who have found overnight trips and outdoor activities inaccessible due to their gender identities or sexual orientations. This camp is for youth of all genders, gender expressions, sexual and romantic orientations, and to the allies who support them . ... ~ ,. .. - ·-· .,,.. - ~ ' .:,; ~ •• 4 ' - ,,: .. ' July 5th, 6th, and 7th - Ages 8-18 ..7~. :ti • r,.....,.ft \Ahluhili nft I ,.1,.,, Cnr+ r.::ihrnft 4/24/26, 4:24 PM �MOREcolor opens June 7th 8 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... Open to all LGBTQ+ Youth and Allies Cost is $195 per youth Scholarships Available! Activities include : Rappelling, kayaking, archery, crafts, sli ng shots, outdoor games, swimming, fire building and MUCH MOREi!! w open at www.TulsaCampFire.org/CAMP For more information please contact us at 918.592.2267 or visit us online at www .Tu lsaCampFire.Org Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Tulsa Project Theatre, the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera "Lizzie," set to run July 13-22, 2018. .. tulsaprojec heatre On a sweltering summer morning in 1892 in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden, was the prime suspect, and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. "Lizzie" features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. "Lizzie" is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information Adoption Information As many of you are already aware, when our LGBT families go through the adoption process - either one parent in a stepparent adoption or both parents in a traditional 4/24/26, 4:24 PM �MOREcolor opens June 7th 9 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... placement - a new birth certificate must be issued from the Department of Vital Records. We are pleased to announce that the Oklahoma Department of Vital Records has recently amended its procedures and is now issuing birth certificates with the following designations: MOTHER/FATHER MOTHER/MOTHER FATHER/FATHER PARENT/PARENT Birth certificates previously were issued only with the "mother/father" designations, regardless of the genders of the parents. If your child was issued a birth certificate with an incorrect designation of your gender identity, you can get an amended birth certificate. Please contact: Christopher Brecht 1800 S. Baltimore Ave., Ste. 900 Tulsa, OK 74119 918 -382-1400 cbrecht@pmrlaw.net You will not be charged anything for attorney time or preparation, but there is a $50 Department of Vital Records fee to obtain any updated birth certificate. Provider Bias Survey Sara Griffey is a clinical counseling intern with Bellevue University. She facilitates OkEq's Coming Out Workshop and the Challenging Beliefs in Non-Traditional Relationships group. AVOID BIAS NEXT EXIT~ This survey has been crafted to better understand provider bias in the LGBTQ+ and nontraditional relationship communities. The information will be used to provide information about ways to better train and educate providers. All responses are confidential. To take the survey, please go here: https://goo.gl/forms/3BA47O4PtSt6bkz72 Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library - - - . - - ......... 4/24/26, 4:24 PM �MOREcolor opens June 7th 10 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... TOMORROW Will 0E Dlff fRENT [. 1. tSJ, ..,.J THE f I IIT (., AUl'l "Tomorrow WIll be Different" By: Sarah McBride Before she became the first transgender person to speak at a national political convention in 2016 at the age of twentysix, Sarah McBride struggled with the decision to come out—not just to her family but to the students of American University, where she was serving as student body president. She’d known she was a girl from her earliest memories, but it wasn’t until the Facebook post announcing her truth went viral that she realized just how much impact her story could have on the country. Four years later, McBride was one of the nation’s most prominent transgender activists, walking the halls of the White House, advocating inclusive legislation, and addressing the country in the midst of a heated presidential election. She had also found her first love and future husband, Andy, a trans man and fellow activist, who complemented her in every way . . . until cancer tragically intervened. Informative, heartbreaking, and profoundly empowering, Tomorrow Will Be Different is McBride’s story of love and loss and a powerful entry point into the LGBTQ community’s battle for equal rights and what it means to be openly transgender. From issues like bathroom access to health care to gender in America, McBride weaves the important political and cultural milestones into a personal journey that will open hearts and change minds. As McBride urges: “We must never be a country that says there’s only one way to love, only one way to look, and only one way to live.” The fight for equality and freedom has 4/24/26, 4:24 PM �MOREcolor opens June 7th 11 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... only just begun. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Equality Center Pride Store Bowl everyone over with these striking bowling pins. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Stephanie Miller Stephanie is a counseling intern at Northeastern State University. She is passionate about working with diverse families and clients, now expanding to the LGBTQ+ community and allies. Stephanie has experience with families, children and adolescents. Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender 4/24/26, 4:24 PM �MOREcolor opens June 7th 12 of 20 Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 choatek@nsuok.edu https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... She believes in helping the client identify and achieve their goals through a holistic approach. Contact Stephanie at tatom@nsuok.edu to make an appointment. All sessions are free and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m. on Wednesdays or 12:30 and 4:30 p.m. on Saturdays. Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/ anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 . Merrill Reiter, M.S ., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/ anxiety, depression, self- 4/24/26, 4:24 PM �MOREcolor opens June 7th 13 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Regularly Scheduled Programming 4/24/26, 4:24 PM �MOREcolor opens June 7th 14 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, June 21 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGALAID th, SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library June 13 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an May OkEq Art Exhibition The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists features an exhibit of works by Arthur James Uphold. The show continues throughout the month www.okeq.org Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relationships 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive 4/24/26, 4:24 PM �MOREcolor opens June 7th 15 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. a proud supporter of this group. Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FO R SOBRIETY SOS Group and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday 7:30 p.m. The Southern Pride Drum Group is the only such group of its kind in the world, being the only drum group composed of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have traveled across the U.S. and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years, with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. They seek to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and to add to their tightknit drum family. Mondays 7:00 pm Asexual Meeting 2nd & 4th This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit 4/24/26, 4:24 PM �MOREcolor opens June 7th 16 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... Tuesday of every month 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org ---- - The program is providing support, education and www.SOSTulsa.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Tulsa Writers, Ink. 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 • 4/24/26, 4:24 PM �MOREcolor opens June 7th 17 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 0 Lambda AlAnon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Tulsa Indigenous \ \ \ 1//; --' ---- - - / & First Nation Support Group LGBTQ Veterans Support and Entertainment 1st & 3rd Tuesday of each month This open Al-Anon group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. Contact 918.743.2754 for more information. Indian or Indian at Heart Tulsa Indigenous &First Nation Support Group 1st & 3rd Thursday of each month Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 1st Wednesday of each month 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. For more information 4/24/26, 4:24 PM �MOREcolor opens June 7th 18 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Dissertation Study - Sexual Behaviors in MSM This research study seeks to investigate if one's HIV-status and respective adherence/ non- adherence to preexposure prophylaxes (PrEP) or antiretroviral therapy (ART) is linked to a reduction in consistent condom use, and increased risky sexual behaviors, among men who have sex with men (MSM). It also seeks to determine what stage of change MSM are likely to be in by using the transtheoretical model of change. With such information, one of the goals is to see if there might be points when mental health professionals and/or primary care providers could intervene to reduce HIV and sexually transmitted infection transmission rates. SURVEY ···- Please direct questions to Eric Teeters ( ejteeters@gmail.com ), or Dr. Elana Maurin ( emaurin@argosy.edu ). Take the survey now Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm 4/24/26, 4:24 PM �MOREcolor opens June 7th 19 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... and community. at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Olivia Cotter Office Manager Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Service Coordinator Veterans, Transgender and Indigenous People Jose Vega Program Director Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer & Pride Store Coordinator Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 4:24 PM �MOREcolor opens June 7th 20 of 20 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/MOREcolor-opens-June-7th.html?... Luke Welvaert Facilities Coordinator Luke.Welvaert@OkEq.org - - Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Denise Polonchak Janitorial Services OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Jan Baldwin, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Robin VanMeter, At Large Board of Advisors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Peter Brennan Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Jamie Catlett Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Amanda Lowe Jim Scholl Mikeal Vaughn William Vaughn Board of Directors Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Sheena Grewal Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Marcia Keesee Ben Matthews Mike Redman, Esq. Chris Shoaf Al Triggs John Williams Visit our website Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes View our events Contact us today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. 621 East Fourth Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 o• 4/24/26, 4:24 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8b1d6319e8c6ef00d325ecf7b3ceb6bd.pdf 593ef0f46dd55bdf7b502dc6e819bc49 PDF Text Text Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 1 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 13th, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 2 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Dawn Sitler Sponsors the Day Dawn is sponsoring the day to honor her hero's birthday Dustin Lance Black. Thank you, Dawn! If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day, click here • Birthdays - yours, your spouse's, your children's, your parents', your friends', even your dog's • Anniversaries - wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mother's Day, Father's Day, any holiday • Just because Out of This World Intergenerational Dance Party Friday, June 22, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 We’ll dance through the time and space, sharing friendship and fun! All ages are welcome. This is an alcohol-free event. Wear your best space garb for this cosmic experience. Free Event 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 3 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Council Oak Men's Chorale Presents: Encor e June 15 & 16, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 In 1998, 12 men joined together to perform at the World AIDS Day remembrance service. Now, 20 years later, with more than 600 songs sung, the Council Oak Men’s Chorale is still OUT performing, educating and raising awareness. Encore will take you back to some of your favorite songs over the past 20 years. Purchase Tickets Now 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 4 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... 16'0 9:00PM l l'NN ,nee, llA(K IOX TIHATII AT lflAUOMAN! rOD IQUAllTli ( OlflQ J 6!11.4' 11 !T. TUl!A,C,lf Proud Politics Thursday, June 14, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a panel of openly LGBTQ candidates from across Oklahoma to hear what motivates them to seek public office. Moderated by state Sen. Allison IkleyFreeman, Tulsa’s first openly LGBTQ elected official, who will share her story and successful campaign experience. * • * oklahomans for equality • * These proud politicians who are OUT and raising the visibility of LGBTQ Oklahomans will discuss the role that sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression plays in politics. They will share their experiences and challenges of campaigning in Oklahoma. The state leads the nation in anti-LGBTQ legislation each year, and the Human Rights Campaign does not list one city in Oklahoma that scores more than 50 points on its annual municipal index. The Proud Politics panel discussion is free and open to the public. 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 5 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... 2018 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 6th, 2018 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 4th) oklahomans for equality OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 24th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Nine directors will be elected. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - - for an application. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member and membership fees current 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 6 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... www.fostercare-ok.org Ir ~ Saint Francis Community Services Give hope. Change a life. Become a foster parent. 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 7 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... or ca 877-263-1890 EBA Mixer Wednesday, June 20, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Parlour Salon & Spa 1335 E. 11th St., Ste. C, Tulsa, OK 74120 (918) 949-4666 Visit Parlour Salon Online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: Please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. E ALITY Business Alliance S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Tuesday Jun. 19, Jul. 24, Aug. 21, Sep. 18, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their first pool party 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 8 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... on Tuesday, June 19th at 10:00 a.m. Members can meet up at the Equality r. Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, deserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. You're not alone YOU'RE NOT Support group for partners with HIV/ AIDS Do you have a partner recently who was recently diagnosed with HIV/AIDS? Have you found a community to process this life change with? Are you looking for support? As every airplane attendant says, “Put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others.” ALONE Having a partner with a life-threatening illness can take a toll on your well being. This group may help you to recognize and change your reactions to the new challenges that having a partner with HIV/AIDS might pose. We will meet weekly for 6 weeks to cover information on HIV/AIDS, process difficulties you may be having with your partner, learn new ways to cope with this change, foster healthier communication, prepare for the future, and better manage stress. If interested please email jose.vega@okeq.org to join the group. You are not alone. ---- 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 9 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... LGBT Women's Network July Happy Hour Friday, July 2, 5:00 p.m. The Wild Fork 1820 Utica Sq, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 This month our sponsor is Gayelynn Head with McGraw Realtors! Come mix and mingle with ladies you might not meet otherwise, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. We'll have light appetizers and don't forget to bring business cards to be entered into a drawing for a gift from Dick's and Gayelynn! ps provided by: ....,.. . . . . . . !i"l:i ' First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, July 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Euqlity Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the combined works by Mark Henry and Jason Reed, beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 5 th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Mark Henry is a budding artist who works in mixed media and acrylics. He started painting on a whim at Tulsa Art Center in March 2017 under the masterful instructor, Marie Sullivan. His lifetime collector of original Art inspires his creativity. His works in this show represent an exploration of Art, Color, and Light. Mark is a native Tulsan and currently lives there with his partner Korben Rodriguez and their two dogs. Jason Reed is the owner of a construction company – his method of escape in meditation became less effective as the onerous duties of owning a business overwhelmed him – in March of 2017, he woke up one morning and said. "I wonder if I can paint?" His research led him to the Tulsa Art Center. He persuaded his "best good budy" Mark, into signing up for art lessons. Marie Sullivan put the brush in our hand and said “You can do this”. Neither of them had painted before, but they soon figured out that Art is both relaxing and healing – of course, 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 10 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... some innate talent helped. His style ranges from abstract to portraits and everything in between. He states: “I paint in every style because I have not found one subject or style I love more than the other. Today I paint every morning as a way to meditate. Art stops my mind and allows me to focus on only the colors and brush strokes. I don’t think I am the best artist, however, I feel that I improve with every painting”. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, July 5 th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist’s work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org www.tulsacampfire.org/camp I~ Al CAMP WITH PRIDE! It Al Camp Fire Camp Fire Camp Fire Green Country Presents Oklahoma's First LGBTQ+ Summer Camp Camp Fire's 2018 LGBTQ+ Summer Camp creates a welcoming and safe environment for youth to experience outdoor activities, create friendships, and learn new life skills! Camp Fire Green Country will hold space for individuals who have found overnight trips and outdoor activities inaccessible due to their gender identities or sexual orientations. This camp is for youth of all genders, gender expressions, sexual and romantic orientations, and to the allies who support them . July 51\ 6 1\ and 7th Ages 8-18 Camp Waluhili on Lake Fort Gibson Open to all LGBTQ+ Youth and Allies Cost is $195 per youth Scholarships Avai lable! Activities include : Rappelling, kayaking, archery, crafts, sling shots, outdoor games, swimming, fire building and MUCH MOREi! ! w open at www.TulsaCampFire.org/CAMP 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 11 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... For more information please contact us at 918.592.2267 or visit us online at www.TulsaCampFire.Org Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Tulsa Project Theatre, the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera "Lizzie," set to run July 13-22, 2018. .. tulsa proj ectthea tre On a sweltering summer morning in 1892 in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden, was the prime suspect, and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. "Lizzie" features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. "Lizzie" is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information II ~ F@~S h l!eeE 0 . ... =.... tulsacares biM~ !Mf'.!J~tG Good morning! We want you to be the first to hear about an exciting new event to benefit Tulsa CARES. Local Brews features local microbreweries, live music, and prize drawing with 100% of event proceeds benefiting Tulsa CARES. July 26 7pm VIP, 8pm-10pm at Fuel 66. Tulsa CARES offers vital support to those in our community living with HIV/AIDS, by providing medical case management, nutrition, mental health, and housing assistance. Tickets: $55 and include generous pours from local breweries, live music, and commemorative tasting glass. VIP Tickets: $100 and include an additional hour of live music, 2 cocktail tickets, and VIP shade tent. For more information and to purchase tickets visit: tulsacares.org/localbrews 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 12 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Please join us! Adoption Information As many of you are already aware, when our LGBT families go through the adoption 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 13 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... process - either one parent in a stepparent adoption or both parents in a traditional placement - a new birth certificate must be issued from the Department of Vital Records. We are pleased to announce that the Oklahoma Department of Vital Records has recently amended its procedures and is now issuing birth certificates with the following designations: MOTHER/FATHER MOTHER/MOTHER FATHER/FATHER PARENT/PARENT Birth certificates previously were issued only with the "mother/father" designations, regardless of the genders of the parents. If your child was issued a birth certificate with an incorrect designation of your gender identity, you can get an amended birth certificate. Please contact: Christopher Brecht 1800 S. Baltimore Ave., Ste. 900 Tulsa, OK 74119 918 -382-1400 cbrecht@pmrlaw.net You will not be charged anything for attorney time or preparation, but there is a $50 Department of Vital Records fee to obtain any updated birth certificate. Provider Bias Survey Sara Griffey is a clinical counseling intern with Bellevue University. She facilitates OkEq's Coming Out Workshop and the Challenging Beliefs in Non-Traditional Relationships group. AVOID BIAS NEXT EXIT~ This survey has been crafted to better understand provider bias in the LGBTQ+ and nontraditional relationship communities. The information will be used to provide information about ways to better train and educate providers. All responses are confidential. To take the survey, please go here: https://goo.gl/forms/3BA47O4PtSt6bkz72 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 14 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library " Love Is an Orientation: Elevating the Conversation with the Gay Community " By: Andrew Marin 2010 Outreach Magazine Resource of the Year Award winner: culture category 2010 Golden Canon Leadership Book Award winner Relevant Magazine: Top 20 Best Overall Books of 2009 winner Englewood Review of Books: Top 20 Best Overall Books of 2009 winner Christian Manifesto 2009 Lime Award winner Andrew Marin's life changed forever when his three best friends came out to him in three consecutive months. Suddenly he was confronted with the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community (GLBT) firsthand. And he was compelled to understand how he could reconcile his friends to his faith. In an attempt to answer that question, he and his wife relocated to Boystown, a predominantly GLBT community in Chicago. And from his experience and wrestling has come his book, Love Is an Orientation, a work which elevates the conversation between Christianity and the GLBT community, moving the focus from genetics to gospel, where it really belongs. Why are so many people who are gay wary of people who are Christians? Do GLBT people need to change who they are? Do Christians need to change what they believe? Love Is an Orientation is changing the conversation about sexuality and spirituality, and building bridges from the GLBT community to the Christian community and, more importantly, to the good news of Jesus Christ. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 15 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Equality Center Pride Store Bowl everyone over with these striking bowling pins. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 choatek@nsuok.edu Stephanie Miller Stephanie is a counseling intern at Northeastern State University. She is passionate about working with diverse families and clients, now expanding to the LGBTQ+ community and allies. Stephanie has experience with families, children and adolescents. She believes in helping the client identify and achieve their goals through a holistic approach. Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 16 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Contact Stephanie at tatom@nsuok.edu to make an appointment. All sessions are free and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m. on Wednesdays or 12:30 and 4:30 p.m. on Saturdays. Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/ anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 . Merrill Reiter, M.S ., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/ anxiety, depression, selfinjury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 17 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Regularly Scheduled Programming 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 18 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, July 19 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ---- . • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC . Lawyer in the Library June 20 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and May OkEq Art Exhibition The June Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists features the MOREcolor exhibit. The show continues throughout the month www.okeq.org Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relationships 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org --- --- 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 19 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. or call 918-743-4297 Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm Asexual Meeting 2nd & 4th Tuesday of every month 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. It's the A in LGBTQA. This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday 7:30 p.m. The Southern Pride Drum Group is the only such group of its kind in the world, being the only drum group composed of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have traveled across the U.S. and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years, with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. They seek to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and to add to their tightknit drum family. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 20 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Tulsa Writers, Ink. Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org ----- --The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 21 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Lambda AlAnon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Tulsa Indigenous \ \ \ I //; ~ ~ & First Nation Support Group LGBTQ Veterans Support and Entertainment 1st & 3rd Tuesday of each month This open Al-Anon group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. Contact 918.743.2754 for more information. Indian or Indian at Heart Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 1st Wednesday of each month 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Tulsa Indigenous &First Nation Support Group 1st & 3rd Thursday of each month This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 22 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Dissertation Study - Sexual Behaviors in MSM This research study seeks to investigate if one's HIV-status and respective adherence/ non- adherence to preexposure prophylaxes (PrEP) or antiretroviral therapy (ART) is linked to a reduction in consistent condom use, and increased risky sexual behaviors, among men who have sex with men (MSM). It also seeks to determine what stage of change MSM are likely to be in by using the transtheoretical model of change. With such information, one of the goals is to see if there might be points when mental health professionals and/or primary care providers could intervene to reduce HIV and sexually transmitted infection transmission rates. SURVEY • •• ·- Please direct questions to Eric Teeters ( ejteeters@gmail.com ), or Dr. Elana Maurin ( emaurin@argosy.edu ). Take the survey now Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm June 15 & 22 only *After these dates there will be no testing on Fridays Saturday 4 - 7 pm 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 23 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Olivia Cotter Office Manager Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Service Coordinator Veterans, Transgender and Indigenous People Jose Vega Program Director Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer & Pride Store Coordinator Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 4:25 PM �Oh, I wanna dance with somebody! 24 of 24 Luke Welvaert Facilities Coordinator Luke.Welvaert@OkEq.org - - https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Oh--I-wanna-dance-with-somebod... Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Denise Polonchak Janitorial Services OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Jan Baldwin, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Robin VanMeter, At Large Board of Advisors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Peter Brennan Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Jamie Catlett Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Amanda Lowe Jim Scholl Mikeal Vaughn William Vaughn Board of Directors Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Sheena Grewal Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Marcia Keesee Ben Matthews Mike Redman, Esq. Chris Shoaf Al Triggs John Williams Visit our website Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes View our events Contact us today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. 621 East Fourth Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 08 4/24/26, 4:25 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d695002903bfbfb4f7fb2c3ba40a219e.pdf ffdc4d4dec176dc09e91d34d4386ed2f PDF Text Text You are a Dancing Queen 1 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 19th, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 2 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Oklahomans for Equality Statement Do Not Separate Families Oklahomans for Equality shares much of the nation’s dismay and heartbreak over the current administration’s mean-spirited policy of separating children from their parents at the country’s borders and placing them in detainment camps. Like you, we have seen the nightmarish photos and heard the anguished cries of the children and parents alike as immigrant families are being attacked. But as LGBTQ Americans, we also are all-too familiar with having our families attacked. We know how it feels to be told that we are unfit, immoral parents and have our children taken away from us. We know the sting of being told that our very existence is against the law. We understand the hurt of having some individuals in our government constantly trying to undermine our rights to family equality. As LGBTQ Oklahomans, we also understand the fear that is great enough to make a person flee everything they know for the purported safety of another land, even sight unseen. Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people have for decades fled unwelcoming and dangerous places – including Oklahoma – for the promise of the opportunity to live safely and more freely elsewhere, even though doing so often meant leaving family and friends, jobs and homes behind. Indeed, LGBTQ people around the world every day flee their homelands in search of safety. Immigrant families are not the subhuman villains that the current administration would have people believe – neither the undocumented ones nor the ones legally seeking lawful asylum. And regardless of any opinions on immigrant rights, it is unconscionable to defend the tactics now being employed by our government. We at Oklahomans for Equality demand that this horror stop and that our government instead put its energy toward enacting meaningful, just and fair immigration policy that sees the humanity in all people and places value on all families. Out of This World Intergenerational Dance Party Friday, June 22, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 We’ll dance through the time and space, sharing friendship and fun! 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 3 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... All ages are welcome. This is an alcohol-free event. Wear your best space garb for this cosmic experience. Free Event Congratulations Tulsa Threat! The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team have 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 4 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... been selected to play in the Founders Bowl Friday July 20th and ten of Their players have been selected to play in the All Star game on Saturday July 21st! This will all be a part of Championship Weekend in Houston! They are already working on Fundraising to get the funds to go! Join the Tulsa Threat Saturday July 14th at YBR (2630 E. 15th St., Tulsa, OK 74104) for a fundraiser and pick up your souvenir cups and t-shirts. OkEq is super proud of these ladies!!! Show your support with a donation. EBA Mixer Wednesday, June 20, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Parlour Salon & Spa 1335 E. 11th St., Ste. C, Tulsa, OK 74120 (918) 949-4666 Visit Parlour Salon Online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: Please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. E ALITY Business Alliance 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 5 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... 2018 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality is set for 7 p.m. on Thursday, Sept. 6, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Presently, eight seats on the Board of Directors are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications are due to OkEq by July 5) oklahomans for equality OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Petitions due to the board secretary by Aug. 24) The Board Development and Governance Committee is now accepting applications from OkEq members who are interested in serving the OkEq community as a director. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Please send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - - for an application. Requirements and expectations of a director: 1. Be a current OkEq member with membership fees current 2. Attend board meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time and energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Perform additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a director) 5. Serve a two-year term 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 6 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... Early Voting Information Vote early! You can vote early at the County Election Board office in the county where you are registered to vote from 8 AM to 6 PM on Thursday and Friday before all elections. For state and federal elections only, early voting is available from 9 AM to 2 PM on the Saturday before the election. ***** - VOTE The Tulsa County Election Board is located at 555 N. Denver Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 In addition to the regular early voting site at the county election board, the following counties have additional satellite locations available for the June 26 Statewide Primary Election: Cleveland County Moore Norman Technology Center, 13301 South Penn, OKC, OK 73170 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 7 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... Comanche County The Connection Church, 102 NE Windy Rd, Elgin, OK 73538 Osage County First Baptist Church, 825 W. Rogers Blvd., Skiatook, OK 74070 Rogers County Central Baptist Church, 9001 N. 145 th E. Place, Owasso, OK 74055 Tulsa County Hardesty Regional Library, 8316 E. 93 rd St., Tulsa, OK 74133 Wagoner County Heritage United Methodist Church, 5300 E. Kenosha St, Broken Arrow, OK 74014 www.fostercare-ok.org R ~ Saint Francis Community Services Give hope. Change a life. Become a foster parent. S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Tuesday Jul. 24, Aug. 21, Sep. 18, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have its next pool party on Tuesday, July 24. Members can meet 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 8 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to ease getting into the pool. If you plan to attend, please RSVP to olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - or (918) 743-4297. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Place in Tulsa. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults; supports and advocates for their rights; fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities; and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. You're not alone YOU'RE NOT Support group for partners with HIV/ AIDS Do you have a partner who was recently diagnosed with HIV/AIDS? Have you found a community to process this life change with? Are you looking for support? As every airplane attendant says, “Put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others.” ALONE Having a partner with a life-threatening illness can take a toll on your well being. This group may help you to recognize and change your reactions to the new challenges that having a partner with HIV/AIDS might pose. We will meet weekly for 6 weeks to cover information on HIV/AIDS, process difficulties you may be having with your partner, learn new ways to cope with this change, foster healthier communication, prepare for the future, and better manage stress. If interested please email jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - to join the group. You are not alone. Turtle Creek Chorale - Friendship Tour Thursday, June 21, 7:00 p.m. Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S. Cincinnati Ave, Tulsa, OK 74103 The Turtle Creek Chorale will take a positive message through music on a four-day ”Friendship 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 9 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... Tour” of Oklahoma, Arkansas, Louisiana and Texas. Free concerts hosted by local choruses and church congregations will be offered in Tulsa, Little Rock, Shreveport, and Tyler. Local choirs and choral organizations will also join the Chorale in each city. “This special tour is a wonderful opportunity for the 225 men of the Turtle Creek Chorale to share positive stories in song,” said artistic director Sean Baugh. “Though communities on this tour may hold social and political views different from ours, we often share much more than we acknowledge. The best way to bridge those differences is with conversation and shared experiences. We hope this tour does just that by sharing musical experiences these communities may not have previously known via a huge chorus of primarily gay men singing about peace, acceptance, love and community.” Purchase Tickets Here LGBT Women's Network July Happy Hour Friday, July 2, 5:00 p.m. The Wild Fork 1820 Utica Sq, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 This month our sponsor is Gayelynn Head with McGraw Realtors! Come mix and mingle with ladies you might not meet otherwise, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. We'll have light appetizers and don't forget to bring business cards to be entered into a drawing for a gift from Dick's and Gayelynn! Gay Men's Dinner Group July Events Tuesday, July 3, 6:30 p.m. Marley's Chicago Pizza 6104 E. 71st St.,Tulsa, OK 74136 Saturday, July 7, 2:00 - 11:00 p.m. Pool Party Richard Haley Residence 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 10 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... I will grill hot dogs about 5:00. Bring your own drinks and maybe lawn chair. No Glass Containers please. RSVP for both events to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, July 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Euqlity Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the combined works by Mark Henry and Jason Reed, beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 5, from 6 to 9 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. A door prize drawn of the artist’s work will be drawn. Mark Henry is a budding artist who works in mixed media and acrylics. He started painting on a whim at the Tulsa Art Center in March 2017 under the masterful instructor Marie Sullivan. His lifetime collector of original art inspires his creativity. His works in this show represent an exploration of art, color and light. Mark is a native Tulsan and lives here with his partner, Korben Rodriguez, and their two dogs. Jason Reed is the owner of a construction company. His method of escape in meditation became less effective as the onerous duties of owning a business overwhelmed him. In March of 2017, he woke up one morning and said, "I wonder if I can paint?" His research led him to the Tulsa Art Center. He persuaded his "best good buddy," Mark, into signing up for art lessons. “Marie Sullivan put the brush in our hand and said, ‘You can do this.’ ” Neither of them had painted before, but they soon figured out that art is both relaxing and healing. Of course, some innate talent helped. Jason’s style ranges from abstract to portraits and everything in between. He states: “I paint in every style because I have not found one subject or style I love more than the other. Today I paint every morning as a way to meditate. Art stops my mind and allows me to focus on only the colors and brush strokes. I don’t think I am the best artist; however, I feel that I improve with every painting.” The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org www.tulsacampfire.org/camp A~'( Camp Fire CAMP WITH PRIDE! Camp Fire Green Country A~t Camp Fire Presents Oklahoma's First LGBTQ+ Summer Camp 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 11 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... ~ Camp Fire's 2018 LGBTQ+ Summer Camp creates a welcoming and safe environment for youth to experience outdoor activities, create friendships, and learn new life skills ! Camp Fire Green Country will hold space for individuals who have found overnight trips and outdoor activities inaccessible due to their gender identities or sexual orientations. This camp is for youth of all genders, gender expressions, sexual and romantic orientations, and to the allies who support them . July 51\ 6 1\ and 7th Ages 8-18 Camp Waluhili on Lake Fort Gibson Open to all LGBTQ+ Youth and Allies Cost is $195 per youth Scholarships Available! Activities include : Rappell ing, kayaking, archery, crafts, sling shots, outdoor games, swimming, fire building and MUCH MOREii ! w open at www.TulsaCampFire.org/CAMP For more information please contact us at 918.592.2267 or visit us online at www.TulsaCampFire.Org Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Tulsa Project Theatre, the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera "Lizzie," set to run July 13-22, 2018. .. tulsaprojec heatre On a sweltering summer morning in 1892 in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 12 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... Borden, was the prime suspect, and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. "Lizzie" features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. "Lizzie" is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information There’s an exciting new event coming up to benefit Tulsa CARES! Local Brews will feature local microbreweries, live music, and a prize drawing, with 100 percent of the event’s proceeds benefiting Tulsa CARES. Local Brews is July 26 from 8 to 10 p.m. at Fuel 66, with a VIP event at 7 p.m. Tulsa CARES offers vital support to those in our community living with HIV/AIDS, by providing medical case management, nutrition, mental health, and housing assistance. Tickets cost $55 and will include generous pours from local breweries, live music, and a commemorative tasting glass. VIP tickets cost $100 and include an additional hour of live music, 2 cocktail tickets, and a VIP shade tent. For more information or to purchase tickets, go online to tulsacares.org/localbrews . Please join us! 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �13 of 25 Christopher Brecht 1800 S. Baltimore Ave., Ste. 900 Tulsa, OK 74119 918 -382-1400 cbrecht@pmrlaw.net 4/24/26, 4:27 PM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s.. Birth certificates previously were issued only with the "mother/father" designations, regardless of the genders of the parents. If your child was issued a birth certificate with an incorrect designation of your gender identity, you can get an amended birth certificate. Please contact: MOTHER/FATHER MOTHER/MOTHER FATHER/FATHER PARENT/PARENT As many of you are already aware, when our LGBT families go through the adoption process - either one parent in a stepparent adoption or both parents in a traditional placement - a new birth certificate must be issued from the Department of Vital Records. We are pleased to announce that the Oklahoma Department of Vital Records has recently amended its procedures and is now issuing birth certificates with the following designations: Adoption Information You are a Dancing Queen I I �You are a Dancing Queen 14 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... You will not be charged anything for attorney time or preparation, but there is a $50 Department of Vital Records fee to obtain any updated birth certificate. Provider Bias Survey Sara Griffey is a clinical counseling intern with Bellevue University. She facilitates OkEq's Coming Out Workshop and the Challenging Beliefs in Non-Traditional Relationships group. AVOID BIAS NEXT EXIT~ This survey has been crafted to better understand provider bias in the LGBTQ+ and nontraditional relationship communities. The information will be used to provide information about ways to better train and educate providers. All responses are confidential. To take the survey, please go here: https://goo.gl/forms/3BA47O4PtSt6bkz72 Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library " Love Is an Orientation: Elevating the Conversation with the Gay Community " By: Andrew Marin 2010 Outreach Magazine Resource of the Year Award winner: culture category 2010 Golden Canon Leadership Book Award winner Relevant Magazine: Top 20 Best Overall Books of 2009 winner Englewood Review of Books: Top 20 Best Overall Books of 2009 winner Christian Manifesto 2009 Lime Award winner Andrew Marin's life changed forever when his three best friends came out to him in three consecutive months. Suddenly he was confronted with the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community (GLBT) firsthand. And he was compelled to understand how he could reconcile his friends to his faith. In an attempt to answer that question, he and his wife 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 15 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... relocated to Boystown, a predominantly GLBT community in Chicago. And from his experience and wrestling has come his book, Love Is an Orientation, a work which elevates the conversation between Christianity and the GLBT community, moving the focus from genetics to gospel, where it really belongs. Why are so many people who are gay wary of people who are Christians? Do GLBT people need to change who they are? Do Christians need to change what they believe? Love Is an Orientation is changing the conversation about sexuality and spirituality, and building bridges from the GLBT community to the Christian community and, more importantly, to the good news of Jesus Christ. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Equality Center Pride Store Bowl everyone over with these striking bowling pins. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 16 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... . .; l Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 choatek@nsuok.edu Stephanie Miller Stephanie is a counseling intern at Northeastern State University. She is passionate about working with diverse families and clients, now expanding to the LGBTQ+ community and allies. Stephanie has experience with families, children and adolescents. She believes in helping the client identify and achieve their goals through a holistic approach. Contact Stephanie at tatom@nsuok.edu to make an appointment. All sessions are free and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m. on Wednesdays or 12:30 and 4:30 p.m. on Saturdays. Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has ·: ···: ) .. -::;::--.;. : i _:·;:· _· . . •. . -- Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 . Merrill Reiter, M.S ., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 17 of 25 opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/ anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/ anxiety, depression, selfinjury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 18 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Regularly Scheduled Programming May OkEq Art Exhibition OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, July 19 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about The June Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists features the MOREcolor exhibit. The show continues throughout the month www.okeq.org Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relationships 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop This therapeutic discussion group provides 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 19 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. Lawyer in the Library June 20 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org -- --or call 918-743-4297 Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday 7:30 p.m. The Southern Pride Drum Group is the only such group of its kind in the world, being the only drum group composed of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have traveled across the U.S. and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years, with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 20 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm Asexual Meeting 2nd & 4th Tuesday of every month 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org drum. They seek to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and to add to their tightknit drum family. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 21 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org ------- - - The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Tulsa Writers, Ink. 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. Lambda AlAnon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. This open Al-Anon group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. Contact 918.743.2754 for more information. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Tulsa Indigenous \ \ \ 11;1 ~ ~ --- & First Nation Support Group LGBTQ Veterans Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Indian or Indian at Heart 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 22 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... Support and Entertainment 1st & 3rd Tuesday of each month Group 1st Wednesday of each month 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Tulsa Indigenous &First Nation Support Group 1st & 3rd Thursday of each month This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Dissertation Study - Sexual Behaviors in MSM This research study seeks to investigate if one's HIV-status and respective adherence/ non- adherence to preexposure prophylaxes (PrEP) or antiretroviral therapy (ART) is linked to a reduction in consistent condom use, and increased risky sexual behaviors, among men who have sex with men (MSM). It also seeks to determine what stage of change MSM are likely to be in by using the transtheoretical model of change. With such information, one of the goals is to see if there might be points when mental health professionals and/or primary care providers could intervene to reduce HIV and sexually transmitted infection transmission rates. SURVEY •-• • Please direct questions to Eric Teeters ( ejteeters@gmail.com ), or Dr. Elana Maurin ( emaurin@argosy.edu ). Take the survey now 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 23 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... Community Partners health outreach prevention education, Inc. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm June 15 & 22 only *After these dates there will be no testing on Fridays Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Olivia Cotter Office Manager Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 24 of 25 Sharon Queen Service Coordinator Veterans, Transgender and Indigenous People https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... Jose Vega Program Director Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer & Pride Store Coordinator Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Luke Welvaert Facilities Coordinator Luke.Welvaert@OkEq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Denise Polonchak Janitorial Services OkEq Board and Trustees Board of Advisors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Peter Brennan Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Jamie Catlett Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Amanda Lowe Jim Scholl Mikeal Vaughn William Vaughn Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �You are a Dancing Queen 25 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/You-are-a-Dancing-Queen.html?s... Kris Wilmes Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Jan Baldwin, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Robin VanMeter, At Large Board of Directors Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Sheena Grewal Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Marcia Keesee Ben Matthews Mike Redman, Esq. Chris Shoaf Al Triggs John Williams Visit our website J I View our events Contact us today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. 621 East Fourth Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 o• 4/24/26, 4:27 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fe33aadda2d040fa8ebaefdcc5f93056.pdf 407a408d7b3477b9993511eb9fbbca95 PDF Text Text Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 1 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews June 28th, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 2 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Family Reunification! NOT Deportation! Saturday June 30, 10:00 a.m. David L. Moss Criminal Justice Center 300 N. Denver Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 Join us, outside the David L. Moss Detention Center Saturday June 30th to take part in a National day of action and rally against the separation of families. Learn more about how the separation of families is not only happening at the border but also right here in Tulsa. Please follow this event page for more updates on the rally, speakers and sign ideas! Save the date for Saturday, June 30th at 10 AM! See you there, keep on keeping on! TahlEquality Saturday June 30, 4:00 p.m. Norris Park 400 N. Muskogee Ave., Tahlequah, OK 74464 5TH ANNUAL COMMUNfTY PRIDE CB.EBRATION TahlEquality is proud to announce our 5th Annual LGBTQ Pride Celebration!! Please read this invite carefully, even the fine print at the bottom!! Our pride has a lot of things going on this year and I don’t want any of you to miss a thing. At 4pm, we will meet at the corner of Choctaw and Muskogee for our traditional march with the big flag. The march will end in Norris Park where the party will begin. The outdoor 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 3 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... activities will end at 8pm, and we’ll pick back up inside of Ned’s (also right next to Norris Park) at 9pm. Our outdoor activities will include a live DJ, family-friendly drag theater, games, venders, food, speeches, open mic live music, volleyball, bouncy castles, face painting, chalk art, dancing, and a park full of beautiful families to co-mingle with. It is important to us to keep these events affordable for all families! As always, feel welcome to bring in your own picnic supplies, ice chests, chairs, tents and set up shop for some sunshine (hopefully) and watch a park full of outcasts and their allies show the town of Tahlequah what diversity looks like. There will be an intermission between 8pm – 9pm to transition into the adult show inside of Ned’s. Doc Fell & Co., and Franke Lee are both back to kick start our indoor after hours. Following the live music will be our much anticipated adult drag show hosted by none other than Tahlequah’s favorite Drag Queen, Miss Josie Lee Turrell. We’ll also be bringing back other favorites like Mercy Monroe, Ty West, Sasha Turrell, and even some performers that’ll be new to our stages. This is just a piece of the lineup this year. As the young kids say, “We’re going to get “turnt” this year!!” VERY IMPORTANT: Also included in this year’s pride events is a very special video installation called ‘Political Gestures’ created by a couple of incredibly talented artists, Nick Vaughn and Jake Margolin. This program features Josie Lee Turelle, Mercy Monroe, myself, and a few other drag performers that’ll be joining us on stage this year. This piece has speeches from the Gay & Lesbian March on DC in 1979 and it is some of the most amazing visionary poetry I’ve ever seen! This show will be running throughout the pride celebrations inside of the NSU Art Gallery (directly across the street from Ned’s) from Friday, June 29th until Sunday, July 1st. Opening and closing times will be announced. I will post the trailer below along with some of these artist’s reviews and previous works. I want you to get excited about this piece and PLEASE MAKE TIME TO SWING OVER AND VIEW IT! My wife and I will be there when it opens that Friday and we would love a chance to share this experience with you and have some meet and greet time with you before the chaos starts on Saturday. On July 1st we'll meet at Riverbend Floats at 10am to relax on the river and end 2018's pride season with our Pride in the Wild float trip. Stay posted for separate event page for Pride in the Wild Float trip AND Political Gestures Gallery Event at NSU Art Gallery June 30th. Immigrant Children Book Drive Donations due by Tuesday July 3 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Wishing you could help the immigrant children being detained at the nation's borders but don't know what to do? Send them some books! Oklahomans for Equality is now 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 4 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... collecting new and gently used children's and young adult books to send to the detention centers. Spanish-language books would be especially appreciated. Please drop off your book donations at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St., between noon and 9 p.m. Monday through Saturday or between noon and 6 p.m. on Sunday no later than Tuesday, July 3. We will package and ship the books to the children. Thanks for helping us help them! Congratulations, Tulsa Threat! The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team has been selected to play in the Founders Bowl on July 20, and 10 of the team’s players have been selected to play in the All Star game on July 21! This will all be a part of Championship Weekend in Houston, and the team is working on fundraising. Join the Tulsa Threat on Saturday, July 14, at YBR, 2630 E. 15th St . in Tulsa for a fundraiser, and pick up your souvenir cups and T-shirts. We’re super proud of these ladies! Show your support with a donation. 2018 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality is set for 7 p.m. on Thursday, Sept. 6, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Presently, eight seats on the Board of Directors are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications are due to OkEq by July 5) OR oklahomans for equality 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Petitions due to the board secretary by Aug. 24) The Board Development and Governance Committee is now accepting applications from OkEq members who are interested in serving the OkEq community as a director. All 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 5 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Please send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. ----- Requirements and expectations of a director: 1. Be a current OkEq member with membership fees current 2. Attend board meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time and energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Perform additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a director) 5. Serve a two-year term Thank you from the Green Country Bears A big thank you from the Green Country Bears to everyone who donated teddy bears for the Teddy Bear Brigade. What a huge success it was! The bears were donated to the Tulsa Police Department and Family Safety Center. These teddy bears will bring joy to many children here in Tulsa. Thank you! www.fostercare-ok.org 17 ~ Saint Francis Community Services• Give hope. Change a life. Become a foster parent. 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 6 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... Hearts Beat Loud Opens Friday, June 29 Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74104 Widower and aging Brooklyn hipster Frank (Nick Offerman) starts a band with his teenage daughter Sam (Kiersey Clemons) just before she leaves home to attend college in California. When a song of theirs finds success online, it complicates Frank’s attempts to let go of his dreams of stardom and allow his daughter to find her own path in life. Featuring Blythe Danner, Sasha Lane, Ted Danson, and Toni Collette. Watch the trailer LGBT Women's Network July Happy Hour Monday, July 2, 5:00 p.m. The Wild Fork 1820 Utica Sq, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 This month our sponsor is Gayelynn Head with McGraw Realtors! Come mix and mingle with ladies you might not meet otherwise, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. We'll have light appetizers and don't forget to bring business cards to be entered into a drawing for a gift from Dick's and Gayelynn! Gay Men's Dinner Group July Events * CHICAGO STYLE Tuesday, July 3, 6:30 p.m. Marley's Chicago Pizza 6104 E. 71st St.,Tulsa, OK 74136 MAl!LEY'S -:--~ ~- P/ZZER\\\ L------ _ _____, Saturday, July 7, 2:00 - 11:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 7 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... Pool Party Richard Haley Residence I will grill hot dogs about 5:00. Bring your own drinks and maybe lawn chair. No Glass Containers please. RSVP for both events to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, July 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the combined works by Mark Henry and Jason Reed, beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 5, from 6 to 9 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. A door prize drawn of the artist’s work will be drawn. Mark Henry is a budding artist who works in mixed media and acrylics. He started painting on a whim at the Tulsa Art Center in March 2017 under the masterful instructor Marie Sullivan. His lifetime collector of original art inspires his creativity. His works in this show represent an exploration of art, color and light. Mark is a native Tulsan and lives here with his partner, Korben Rodriguez, and their two dogs. Jason Reed is the owner of a construction company. His method of escape in meditation became less effective as the onerous duties of owning a business overwhelmed him. In March of 2017, he woke up one morning and said, "I wonder if I can paint?" His research led him to the Tulsa Art Center. He persuaded his "best good buddy," Mark, into signing up for art lessons. “Marie Sullivan put the brush in our hand and said, ‘You can do this.’ ” Neither of them had painted before, but they soon figured out that art is both relaxing and healing. Of course, some innate talent helped. Jason’s style ranges from abstract to portraits and everything in between. He states: “I paint in every style because I have not found one subject or style I love more than the other. Today I paint every morning as a way to meditate. Art stops my mind and allows me to focus on only the colors and brush strokes. I don’t think I am the best artist; however, I feel that I improve with every painting.” The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org www.tulsacampfire.org/camp *I Al\ Camp Fire CAMP WITH PRIDE! Camo Fire Green Countrv It Al Camp Fire 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 8 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... ,- - I Presents Oklahoma's First LGBTQ+ Summer Camp &!Ii~ Camp Fire's 2018 LGBTQ+ Summer Camp creates a welcoming and safe environment for youth to experience outdoor activities, create friendships, and learn new life skills! Camp Fire Green Country will hold space for individuals who have found overnight trips and outdoor activities inaccessible due to their gender identities or sexual orientations. This camp is for youth of all genders, gender expressions, sexual and romantic orientations, and to the allies who support them . July 5th, 61\ and 7th Ages 8-18 Camp Waluhili on Lake Fort Gibson Open to all LGBTQ+ Youth and Allies Cost is $195 per youth Scholarships Available! Activities include : Rappell ing, kayaking, archery, crafts, sling shots, outdoor games, swimming, fire building and MUCH MOREii! w open at www.TulsaCampFire.org/CAMP For more information please contact us at 918.592.2267 or visit us online at www.TulsaCampFire.Org Photographs From the Gay Rodeo By Blake Little Open July 7 - November 25, 2018 Gilcrease Museum 1400 N. Gilcrease Museum Rd., Tulsa, OK 74127 Experience the grit, determination and community of the national gay rodeo circuit in classic blackand-white photographs in Gilcrease Museum’s new exhibition, Blake Little: Photographs from the Gay 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 9 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... Rodeo, on view July 7 – November 25, 2018. Since its founding in 1949, Gilcrease has led the way for artwork showcasing the American West, including depictions of the iconic cowboy. Photographer Blake Little provides an expansive redefinition of what a cowboy can be in his images capturing scenes of camaraderie, identity and sport in one of America’s most time-honored traditions. The 41 black and white photographs taken by Blake Little between 1988 and 1992 in Photographs from the Gay Rodeo document the gay rodeo circuit and the lives of many of its participants in those years. The collected body of work not only serves as a stunning example of black and white portraiture and of rodeo photography, it also explores the diverse and complex natures of individual and community identity in the West. “Blake Little’s photographs demonstrate that cowboy traditions in the United States include diverse individuals and communities, broadening notions of identity in the American West,” said Laura Fry, senior curator and curator of art at Gilcrease Museum. “These photos show many LGBT men and women from rural areas, and the gay rodeo circuit provided a place where they could celebrate their full identities. The International Gay Rodeo Association is still going strong today and includes annual events in Oklahoma.” LGBTQ Young Adults at Shuffles Friday, July 13, 6:30 p.m. Shuffles: Board Game Cafe 207 E. Archer St., Tulsa, OK 74103 Join the OKEQ Young Adults Prism Group, which will be meeting at Tulsa Shuffles, a games and coffee shop! Search for Jose, our Program Director. He will be sporting a beautiful purple polo shirt! Please text Jose at 918-813-8993 with any questions! EBA Mixer Wednesday, July 18, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by American Cancer Society 4110 S. 100th E. Ave., Tulsa, OK 74146 At the American Cancer Society, we're on a mission to free the world from cancer. Until we do, we'll be funding and conducting research, sharing expert information, supporting patients, and spreading the word about prevention. All so you can live longer — and better. I American ~•., Cancer f Society0 • Visit the American Cancer Society Website 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 10 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: Please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. E UALITY Business Alliance S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Tuesday Jul. 24, Aug. 21, Sep. 18, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have its next pool party on Tuesday, July 24. Members can meet at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to ease getting into the pool. If you plan to attend, please RSVP to olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - - or (918) 743-4297. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Place in Tulsa. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults; supports and advocates for their rights; fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities; and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 11 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... Bartlesville Pride Family Picnic Saturday, July 28, 3:00 p.m. Johnstone Park in Bartlesville 200 N. Cherokee Bartlesville, OK 74003 Pre;entedBy: y OkEq-Bartlesville, together with our friends at Phillips 66 and ConocoPhillips will be hosting our first annual Bartlesville Pride Family Picnic! ConocoPhillips Join us at Johnstone Park on July 28th from 3PM to 8PM for a picnic in the park for food, games, and family fun! All ages are welcome and encouraged to attend. We will have yard games and toys set up for family members of all ages. There is no cost to attend the event. Please bring chairs and blankets for sitting. Provided seating will be limited. Attendees may bring ice chests with personal food and beverages. Pets are welcome, but please have them on leashes. Grannies Sunday, July 29, 10:30 a.m. and 12:30 p.m. seating Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Grannies is an all star satire event celebrating folk and inspirational music with live performances and drag personalities. Irreverent but never sacrilegious and always uplifting humor. Grannies remembers those days of going to Church, gospel music and church pot lucks. A 10:30 am seating and 12:30 pm seating with brunch included and live entertainment. Tickets available beginning at $25.00. Reserved table for 8 seats for $200.00. Mimosas and cash bar available. Purchase tickets now Back To School Carnival Sunday, August 5, 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 12 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for the Family Ties Back to School Carnival. Refreshments and snacks Free School Supplies Bring your swim suit and towels and flip flops Big obstacle course and water slides and bouncy houses on the parking lot. Face painting, arts and crafts and Uncle Toby story telling. Personality Assessment in an Underserved Population We need your help! The transgender community is traditionally underserved when it comes to mental health: both in understanding and treatment. Additionally, the field of psychology knows relatively little about the psychological characteristics and needs of the transgender community. Therefore, we call on you to participate in a new research study examining what major psychological measures tell us about transgender individuals! If you are 18-years-old or older; identify as transgender, either male-to-female or female-to-male; at any point or any level of transition; and can read and understand English, you are eligible to participate. The study will involve filling out questionnaires on a computer or paper and pencil and will take approximately two hours of your time. Upon completion of the study, you will receive a $15 QuikTrip gift card before you leave the session. Data from this study will be confidential and securely stored. Your help is much needed and the information will be used to inform test interpretation and may go on to influence psychological treatment directions for future transgender individuals. The study sessions will occur at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa every Wednesday at 4:00pm – 9:00pm. Sessions will start on May 23 rd , 2018 and run through June 30 th , 2019 at the latest. For more information, to ask questions, or to reserve a spot in a specific session, please contact the student researcher in charge of the study, William Bryant at william-bryant@utulsa.edu or (330) 322-2442. You're not alone YOU'RE NOT Support group for partners with HIV/ AIDS Do you have a partner who was recently diagnosed with HIV/AIDS? Have you found a community to process this life change with? Are you looking for support? As every airplane attendant says, “Put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others.” ALONE Having a partner with a life-threatening illness can take a toll on your well being. This group may help you to recognize and change your reactions to the new challenges that having a partner with HIV/AIDS might pose. We will meet weekly for 6 weeks to cover information on 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 13 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... HIV/AIDS, process difficulties you may be having with your partner, learn new ways to cope with this change, foster healthier communication, prepare for the future, and better manage stress. If interested please email jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - to join the group. You are not alone. Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Tulsa Project Theatre, the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera "Lizzie," set to run July 13-22, 2018. .. tulsaprojec heatre On a sweltering summer morning in 1892 in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden, was the prime suspect, and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. "Lizzie" features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. "Lizzie" is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information There’s an exciting new event coming up to benefit Tulsa CARES! Local Brews will feature local microbreweries, live music, and a prize drawing, with 100 percent of the event’s proceeds benefiting Tulsa CARES. Local Brews is July 26 from 8 to 10 p.m. at Fuel 66, with a VIP event at 7 p.m. Tulsa CARES offers vital support to those in our community living with HIV/AIDS, by providing medical case management, nutrition, mental health, and housing assistance. Tickets cost $55 and will include generous pours from local breweries, live music, and a commemorative tasting glass. VIP tickets cost $100 and include an additional hour of live music, 2 cocktail tickets, and a VIP shade tent. For more information or to purchase tickets, go online to tulsacares.org/localbrews . Please join us! 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 14 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... Provider Bias Survey Sara Griffey is a clinical counseling intern with Bellevue University. She facilitates OkEq's Coming Out Workshop and the Challenging Beliefs in Non-Traditional Relationships group. AVOID BIAS NEXT EXIT~ 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 15 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... This survey has been crafted to better understand provider bias in the LGBTQ+ and nontraditional relationship communities. The information will be used to provide information about ways to better train and educate providers. All responses are confidential. To take the survey, please go here: https://goo.gl/forms/3BA47O4PtSt6bkz72 Enid Pride 2018 Saturday, September 22, 12:00 p.m. Government Springs Park 600 E. Owen K Garriott Rd., Enid, OK 73701 IIICI., PRl.,I !018 tATURDAY 1DITIMl!IR !!IIID 1!PM-5PM COYl!IRIIIM!IIIT 1PIRIJIIC:1 PAIRIC !IIIID, OIC MU!K, YIND0111, ,0011 & nnu We hope you will join us for Enid Pride r&Mll \' Jlllrlllll\' on September 22, 2018 from 12-5pm at uo,nDBY: 11:E:nidLGIIT ~ CoaUtion Government Springs Park. Our theme this year is Roaring Pride! As always, Enid Pride is a free, family-friendly event. Please invite friends and family. Vendor, sponsorship, and volunteer forms are available to download on our website https://enidlgbtcoalition.org/enid-pride/ . Joe & Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library " Stonewall " By: Martin Duberman STONEWALL •1• 1. f On June 28, 1969, the Stonewall, a gay bar in New York's Greenwich Village, was raided. But instead of the routine compliance expected by the police, patrons and a growing crowd decided to fight back. The five days of rioting that ensued changed forever the face of gay and lesbian life. Renowned historian and activist Martin Duberman now tells for the first time the full story of what happened at Stonewall. With riveting narrative skill, he recreates those heady, sweltering nights in vivid detail through the lives of six people who 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 16 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... were drawn into the struggle for gay and lesbian rights. Their stories combine into an unforgettable portrait of the repression that led up to the riots, which magnificently culminates when they triumphantly participate in the first Gay Rights March of 1970. Stonewall is a rare work that evokes with a human touch an event in history that still profoundly affects life today. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Equality Center Pride Store Bowl everyone over with these striking bowling pins. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Counseling Services Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays Stephanie Miller Stephanie is a counseling Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 17 of 25 By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 choatek@nsuok.edu https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... intern at Northeastern State University. She is passionate about working with diverse families and clients, now expanding to the LGBTQ+ community and allies. Stephanie has experience with families, children and adolescents. She believes in helping the client identify and achieve their goals through a holistic approach. Contact Stephanie at tatom@nsuok.edu to make an appointment. All sessions are free and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m. on Wednesdays or 12:30 and 4:30 p.m. on Saturdays. Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/ anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 . Merrill Reiter, M.S ., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 18 of 25 about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/ anxiety, depression, selfinjury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 19 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Regularly Scheduled Programming May OkEq Art Exhibition OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, July 19 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBTQ parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties, email jose.vega@okeq.org ----- . • LEGAL AID thi SERVICES OF = OKLAHOMA, INC. The June Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists features the MOREcolor exhibit. The show continues throughout the month www.okeq.org Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relationships 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 20 of 25 Lawyer in the Library June 20 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/ tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Non-Binary Support Group 3rd Tuesday of each month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Free Yoga Class at OkEq Mondays 5:45 - 6:45 p.m. Enjoy a free class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, backbend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com sos SECULAR ORGANIZATIONS FOR SOBRIETY SOS Group course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday 7:30 p.m. The Southern Pride Drum Group is the only such group of its kind in the world, being the only drum group composed of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have traveled across the U.S. and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years, with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. They seek to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and to add to their tightknit drum family. Mondays 7:00 pm 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 21 of 25 Asexual Meeting 2nd & 4th Tuesday of every month 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. sage Advocacy& Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible SAGE Tulsa Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. No Shade for Plus Every Thursday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Gender Support Program Tulsa Writers, Ink. Wednesdays 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. 1st & 3rd Saturday of each month 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/ fluid+ folks and their allies. Facilitators Daniel & Haley Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 22 of 25 (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. Lambda AlAnon Group Every Friday 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Survivors of Incest Anonymous This open Al-Anon group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. Contact 918.743.2754 for more information. Every Saturday 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 1st Wednesday of each month 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 23 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... explore their personal healing process and find hope and to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Dissertation Study - Sexual Behaviors in MSM This research study seeks to investigate if one's HIV-status and respective adherence/ non- adherence to preexposure prophylaxes (PrEP) or antiretroviral therapy (ART) is linked to a reduction in consistent condom use, and increased risky sexual behaviors, among men who have sex with men (MSM). It also seeks to determine what stage of change MSM are likely to be in by using the transtheoretical model of change. With such information, one of the goals is to see if there might be points when mental health professionals and/or primary care providers could intervene to reduce HIV and sexually transmitted infection transmission rates. SURVEY •- ·•- Please direct questions to Eric Teeters ( ejteeters@gmail.com ), or Dr. Elana Maurin ( emaurin@argosy.edu ). Take the survey now Community Partners health outreach prevention education, inc. EBA Directory H.O.P.E. HIV Testing 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 24 of 25 The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Schedule Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. OkEq Staff Toby Jenkins CEO / Executive Director Jose Vega Program Director Olivia Cotter Office Manager Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer & Pride Store Coordinator Luke Welvaert Facilities Coordinator Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Luke.Welvaert@OkEq.org Alex.Wade@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 4:27 PM �Immigrant Children Book Drive through July 3rd 25 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Immigrant-Children-Book-Drive-t... Denise Polonchak Janitorial Services OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Stuart Ashworth, Esq., President Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Vice President Jan Baldwin, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Robin VanMeter, At Large Board of Advisors Laura Arrowsmith, D.O. Peter Brennan Alyssa Bryant, Esq. Jamie Catlett Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Amanda Lowe Jim Scholl Mikeal Vaughn William Vaughn Board of Directors Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq. Rev. Geoffrey Brewster Sheena Grewal Darci Hazelwood, D.O. Marcia Keesee Ben Matthews Mike Redman, Esq. Chris Shoaf Al Triggs John Williams Visit our website Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes View our events Contact us today Oklahomans for Equality Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. 621 East Fourth Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 o• 4/24/26, 4:27 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/dcf46d25d824826081ce1209bdfd47d5.pdf 1a0404f97f254968ac9d725583a6134c PDF Text Text Happy Fourth of July! 1 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Fourth-of-July-.html?soid... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq Weekly eNews July 3rd, 2018 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Donate Now! Visit our website 4/24/26, 4:28 PM �Happy Fourth of July! 2 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Fourth-of-July-.html?soid... Amazon Smile Shop Now! Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! Samantha Young Sponsors the Day Tuesday, July 3 Celebrating the birthday of my dad, David Young. Happy Birthday, David! If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day, click here • Birthdays - yours, your spouse's, your children's, your parents', your friends', even your dog's • Anniversaries - wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mother's Day, Father's Day, any holiday • Just because Gay Men's Dinner Group July Events Tuesday, July 3, 6:30 p.m. Marley's Chicago Pizza 6104 E. 71st St.,Tulsa, OK 74136 Saturday, July 7, 2:00 - 11:00 p.m. Pool Party Richard Haley Residence I will grill hot dogs about 5:00. Bring your own drinks and maybe lawn chair. No Glass Containers please. 4/24/26, 4:28 PM �Happy Fourth of July! 3 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Fourth-of-July-.html?soid... RSVP for both events to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com 2018 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality is set for 7 p.m. on Thursday, Sept. 6, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Presently, eight seats on the Board of Directors are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications are due to OkEq by July 5) OR oklahomans for equality 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Petitions due to the board secretary by Aug. 24) The Board Development and Governance Committee is now accepting applications from OkEq members who are interested in serving the OkEq community as a director. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Please send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. Requirements and expectations of a director: 1. Be a current OkEq member with membership fees current 2. Attend board meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time and energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Perform additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a director) 5. Serve a two-year term First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, July 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the combined works by Mark Henry and Jason Reed, beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 5, from 6 to 9 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. A door prize of 4/24/26, 4:28 PM �Happy Fourth of July! 4 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Fourth-of-July-.html?soid... the artist’s work will be drawn. Mark Henry is a budding artist who works in mixed media and acrylics. He started painting on a whim at the Tulsa Art Center in March 2017 under the masterful instructor Marie Sullivan. His lifetime collector of original art inspires his creativity. His works in this show represent an exploration of art, color and light. Mark is a native Tulsan and lives here with his partner, Korben Rodriguez, and their two dogs. Jason Reed is the owner of a construction company. His method of escape in meditation became less effective as the onerous duties of owning a business overwhelmed him. In March of 2017, he woke up one morning and said, "I wonder if I can paint?" His research led him to the Tulsa Art Center. He persuaded his "best good buddy," Mark, into signing up for art lessons. “Marie Sullivan put the brush in our hand and said, ‘You can do this.’ ” Neither of them had painted before, but they soon figured out that art is both relaxing and healing. Of course, some innate talent helped. Jason’s style ranges from abstract to portraits and everything in between. He states: “I paint in every style because I have not found one subject or style I love more than the other. Today I paint every morning as a way to meditate. Art stops my mind and allows me to focus on only the colors and brush strokes. I don’t think I am the best artist; however, I feel that I improve with every painting.” The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Photographs From the Gay Rodeo By Blake Little Open July 7 - November 25, 2018 Gilcrease Museum 1400 N. Gilcrease Museum Rd., Tulsa, OK 74127 Experience the grit, determination and community of the national gay rodeo circuit in classic blackand-white photographs in Gilcrease Museum’s new exhibition, Blake Little: Photographs from the Gay Rodeo, on view July 7 – November 25, 2018. Since its founding in 1949, Gilcrease has led the way for artwork showcasing the American West, including depictions of the iconic cowboy. Photographer Blake Little provides an expansive redefinition of what a cowboy can be in his images capturing scenes of camaraderie, identity and sport in one of America’s most time-honored traditions. The 41 black and white photographs taken by Blake Little between 1988 and 1992 in Photographs from the Gay Rodeo document the gay rodeo circuit and the lives of many of its participants in those years. The collected body of work not only serves as a stunning example of black and white portraiture and of rodeo photography, it also explores the diverse and complex natures of individual and community identity in the West. 4/24/26, 4:28 PM �Happy Fourth of July! 5 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Fourth-of-July-.html?soid... “Blake Little’s photographs demonstrate that cowboy traditions in the United States include diverse individuals and communities, broadening notions of identity in the American West,” said Laura Fry, senior curator and curator of art at Gilcrease Museum. “These photos show many LGBT men and women from rural areas, and the gay rodeo circuit provided a place where they could celebrate their full identities. The International Gay Rodeo Association is still going strong today and includes annual events in Oklahoma.” LGBTQ Young Adults at Shuffles Friday, July 13, 6:30 p.m. Shuffles: Board Game Cafe 207 E. Archer St., Tulsa, OK 74103 Join the OKEQ Young Adults Prism Group, which will be meeting at Tulsa Shuffles, a games and coffee shop! Search for Jose, our Program Director. He will be sporting a beautiful purple polo shirt! Please text Jose at 918-813-8993 with any questions! Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 - tulsaprojecttheatre Tulsa Project Theatre, the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera "Lizzie," set to run July 13-22, 2018. On a sweltering summer morning in 1892 in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden, was the prime suspect, and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. "Lizzie" features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. "Lizzie" is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information Suicide Prevention QPR Training Tuesday, July 17, 1:30 pm Thursday, July 19, 6:30 pm Saturday, July 21, 1:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 (ci) (P) (i) Question Persuade Refer 4/24/26, 4:28 PM �Happy Fourth of July! 6 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Fourth-of-July-.html?soid... Facilitator Haley Meyers Meyers LPC Crisis Therapist-COPES Family & Children's Services, Inc. Mobile Psychiatric Crisis Services (COPES) | Family & Children's Services Community Outreach Psychiatric Emergency Services (COPES) is a telephone and mobile crisis service that responds around the clock to children and adults experiencing a severe emotional or behavioral disturbance or psychiatric emergency. Register with Alex.Wade@okeq.org The purpose of the training is to save lives and reduce suicidal behaviors by providing innovative, practical and proven suicide prevention training. Quality education empowers all people, regardless of their background, to make a positive difference in the life of someone they know. What does QPR mean? QPR stands for Question, Persuade, and Refer — the 3 simple steps anyone can learn to help save a life from suicide. QPR can be learned in this Gatekeeper course in as little as one hour. What is a Gatekeeper?According to the Surgeon General’s National Strategy for Suicide Prevention (2001), a gatekeeper is someone in a position to recognize a crisis and the warning signs that someone may be contemplating suicide. As a QPR-trained Gatekeeper you will learn to: • Recognize the warning signs of suicide • Know how to offer hope • Know how to get help and save a life EBA Mixer Wednesday, July 18, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by American Cancer Society 4110 S. 100th E. Ave., Tulsa, OK 74146 T American Cancer Society® At the American Cancer Society, we're on a mission to free the world from cancer. Until we do, we'll be funding and conducting i research, sharing expert information, supporting patients, and spreading the word about prevention. All so you can live longer — and better. Visit the American Cancer Society Website The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: Please send an email to 4/24/26, 4:28 PM �Happy Fourth of July! 7 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Fourth-of-July-.html?soid... jose.vega@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. E UALITY Business Alliance SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesday July 24, August 21, September 18, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have its next pool party on Tuesday, July 24. Members can meet at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to ease getting into the pool. If you plan to attend, please RSVP to olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - - or (918) 743-4297. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Place in Tulsa. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults; supports and advocates for their rights; fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities; and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. 4/24/26, 4:28 PM �Happy Fourth of July! 8 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Fourth-of-July-.html?soid... There’s an exciting new event coming up to benefit Tulsa CARES! Local Brews will feature local microbreweries, live music, and a prize drawing, with 100 percent of the event’s proceeds benefiting Tulsa CARES. Local Brews is July 26 from 8 to 10 p.m. at Fuel 66, with a VIP event at 7 p.m. Tulsa CARES offers vital support to those in our community living with HIV/AIDS, by providing medical case management, nutrition, mental health, and housing assistance. Tickets cost $55 and will include generous pours from local breweries, live music, and a commemorative tasting glass. VIP tickets cost $100 and include an additional hour of live music, 2 cocktail tickets, and a VIP shade tent. For more information or to purchase tickets, go online to tulsacares.org/localbrews . Please join us! 4/24/26, 4:28 PM �Happy Fourth of July! 9 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Fourth-of-July-.html?soid... www.fostercare-ok.org 17 ~ Saint Francis Community Services• Give hope. Change a life. Become a foster parent. Bartlesville Pride Family Picnic Saturday, July 28, 3:00 - 8:00 p.m. Johnstone Park 200 N. Cherokee Bartlesville, OK 74003 PreseoteclBy: ..,..,. OkEq-Bartlesville, together with our friends at Phillips 66 and ConocoPhillips, will host the first Bartlesville Pride Family Picnic! ConocoPhillips Come to a free picnic in the park with food, games, and family fun! All ages are welcome and encouraged to attend. We will have yard games and toys set up for family members of all ages. Please bring lawn chairs and blankets for sitting. Provided seating will be limited. Attendees may bring ice chests for personal food and beverages. 4/24/26, 4:28 PM �Happy Fourth of July! 10 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Fourth-of-July-.html?soid... Pets are welcome, but please keep them on leashes. Grannies Sunday Brunch Sunday, July 29, 10:30 a.m. and 12:30 p.m. seating Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Grannies is an all-star satire event celebrating folk and inspirational music with live performances and drag personalities. It’s irreverent, but never sacrilegious, and always uplifting humor. Grannies remembers those days of going to church, gospel music and church potluck dinners. Two seatings are offered –10:30 a.m. and 12:30 p.m. Both include brunch and live entertainment. Tickets cost $25. Reserved tables for eight are available for $200. Mimosas and cash bar will be available. Purchase tickets now Back To School Carnival Sunday, August 5, 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for the Family Ties Back to School Carnival! We’ll have refreshments and snacks, plus free school supplies Bring your swimsuit, towels and flip-flops for the water slides, and come ready to tackle the big obstacle course and have fun in the bouncy houses. We’ll also have face-painting, arts and crafts, and storytelling with Uncle Toby! LGBT Women's Network August Happy Hour Monday, August 6, 5:00 p.m. Fassler Hall Tulsa 304 S. Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:28 PM �Happy Fourth of July! 11 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/Happy-Fourth-of-July-.html?soid... Our August Happy Hour will be at Fassler Hall! Come mix and mingle with ladies you might not meet otherwise, make new business connections, and grow your personal network. We'll have light appetizers and don't forget to bring business cards to be entered into a drawing for a gift from our monthly sponsor! Monthly sponsors of the LGBT Women's Network Happy Hours are LGBT-Owned or LGBTFriendly businesses. To sponsor, a business simply provides door prizes for our guests and attends to share a minute about their business. Contact hannah@schnake.com for more details or to secure a date. Enid Pride 2018 Saturday, Sept. 22, 12:00 - 5:00 p.m. Government Springs Park 600 E. Owen K. Garriott Rd., Enid, OK 73701 , ..,., .,,,.,, !018 tATURDAY tlPTIMIU !!IIID 1!PM-5PM eonltfllMINT !PRDlet P&RIC DIID, OIC MU11C, \'IIIDOIH, rooD' ftllll! Join us Sept. 22 for Enid Pride! Our r&Mll Y HIIIIIDlY theme this year is Roaring Pride! As uo,nDBY: q E:nld;c;sr ~ Coahllon always, Enid Pride is a free, familyfriendly event. Please invite friends and family. Vendor, sponsorship, and volunteer forms are available online at https://enidlgbtcoalition.org/enid-pride/ . Hearts Beat Loud Now Playing Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74104 Widower and aging Brooklyn hipster Frank (Nick Offerman) starts a band with his teenage daughter Sam (Kiersey Clemons) just before she leaves home to attend college in California. When a song of theirs finds success online, it complicates Frank’s attempts to let go of his dreams of stardom and allow his daughter to find her own path in life. Featuring 4/24/26, 4:28 PM � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Sub-Series] OKEQ > Publications > OKEQ eNews Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2018] OKEQ eNews https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/da4922345fe15bc69ba76dee4645de35.pdf 759c971d55bb1b2cd1c10d1fc2da2381 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 10th, 2017 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2017... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility BlaQueerMagic: Prose, Poetry & Power with Tabias Olajuawon, JD October 10th, 2017 In This Issue BlaQueerMagic National Coming Out Day Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator Join t he Southern Pride Drum Group Ladies Social Club Before The I Do Friday October 13, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free and Open to the Public Perspectives: LGBT People of Color October EBA Mixer Non-Binary Support Group OKEQ Rooftop Rally Enjoy an evening of prose, poetry, and Power, discussing race, love and survival with Tabias Olajuawon, JD, author of Godless Circumcisions: A Recollecting & Remembering of Blackness, Queerness, and Flows of Survivance. October Volunteer of the Month October Video eNews This event will showcase the Black and/or Queer (BlaQueer) Magic within us all, that (open) secret weapon we've long groomed, through the presentation of our truths, our power, our "us" via art, prose, poetry and power. Throughout this reading of Tabias Olajuawon's book of essays, poetry and cultural critiques--Godless Circumcisions--we engage in a rich discussion of race, sexuality and power; the issues animating our life and times. There will also be a book signing for those interested in making a purchase. Condomania! Fun Home Who's Gonna Love Me Now? Tulsa Pride Bingo Halloween Edition Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group Reviews & Features "First Thursday" Art Opening Healing, Haunting, and Survival: A Review of Tabias Wilson's Godless Circumcisions OurQueerArt Feature: TABIAS OLAJUAWON WILSON, KANSAS WRITER, INTERVIEW Tabias Olajuawon Wilson Writes, Re-embers BlaQueer Survival: Artist Call for 2018 Tabias Olajuawon Wilson Tufts 13' (BA), Howard Law 17' (JD), UT Austin (PhD) 2021 TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Pride Store Rainbow Library Tabias Olajuawon in Godless Circumcisions www.tabiasolajuawon.com Out for TCC Tulsa American Film Festival: "Your Way Back to Me" Sunday October 15, 3:00 p.m. Gilcrease Museum 1400 North Gilcrease Museum Road Tulsa, OK, 74127 Free to the public, this documentary tells the story of Hannah Sheridan, a half Cheyenne, half Kiowa lesbian born in El Reno, Oklahoma. After a decade away from home and following a career in the U.S. Navy, Hannah returns to her community to fulfill her role in the mourning rituals to honor her recently deceased relatives. http://www.tulsaamericanfilmfest.com/special-screenings-schedule-2017/2017/10/14/feature-film-7-gilcreaserpf4w OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, October 19 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members T-shirt Printing and Open Mic Night Wednesday, October 11, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Art Exhibition The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the combined works of Carlyn Ritter, Kate, Kline and Shauna Henry, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. These three creative artists tempt you with this invitation: "Journey with us to the secret world of dolls. Look through the keyholes, in the shadowy parts of the forest, or even in the hidden recesses of your mind. From sweet to sinister, they live in the in between places. Sewn, twisted and sculpted into being, they will whisper their stories to you if only you will listen". Family Ties 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2017 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2017... T-shirt printing and open mic to tell your coming out story. Bring your own t-shirt for printing your own message on a t-shirt. T-shirt printing is free. A white t-shirt will show your design best. Open mic tell your story through comedy, poetry, spoken word, performance. Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org Lawyer in the Library October 11 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator Every Thursday 1:00-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act. Thursdays 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppgreatplains.org Join the Southern Pride Drum Group Thursday October 12 , 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Southern Pride drum group is the only drum group of its kind in the entire world, being the only drum comprised of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have travelled all across the US and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. Currently they are seeking to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and add to their tight knit drum family. Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Ladies Social Club: Pumpkin Carving & Painting! Friday, October 13 at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 I , BYO pumpkins! We'll have carving tools, but if you have some, please bring them. We'll also have painting supplies if you'd like to paint your pumpkins (like the tiny ones!) .. ,..,\ .... e;~ ,.I\ I :...~ ~:,4 luJ ~i& t.i,, ... ~ - Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2017 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2017... "Before The I Do" Saturday October 14, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 "Before The I Do" gives couples practical tools to use now and as their relationship grows. The workshop covers keys to a great relationship, how to solve conflicts, how to keep the romance alive and much more. Whether you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you will benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfaction in their relationships! Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality on October 14 from 12:00 to 4:00 p.m. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carriegracelittle@gmail.com to reserve your space today Perspectives: LGBT People of Color Saturday, October 14, 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 According to a Gallup poll, one-third of individuals who identify as LGBT are people of color. Recently, the pride flag was redesigned to recognize LGBT people of color by adding brown and black stripes. People who identify with multiple minorities face unique challenges that can make every day life more difficult. Please join us to hear stories from a panel of Tulsans who will share their personal experience about living as an LGBT person of color, answer questions about their experiences, and talk about the challenges they face in their day-to-day life. Diversity Benefactor Sponsors: CF Industries Diversity Supporting Sponsors: Explorer Pipeline OU Physicians Southwest Airlines Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/ affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . EBA Mixer Wednesday October 18th, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Equality Business Alliance Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 E UALITY Business Alliance Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . The EBA exists to strengthen Gay Welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: * Providing a directory of Gay Welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community: http://www.okeq.org/equality-business-alliance.html * Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and * Creating professional environments where Gay Welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. Benefits of Membership: * Inclusion in EBA Directory on the OkEq Website * Email updates of EBA events and opportunities * Invitation to Networking Events and ability to host future events * Marketing opportunities at EBA and community events You can join the EBA online at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2017 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2017... Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/ anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Non-Binary Support Group Wednesday October 18, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 This support group is for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact the center at 918-743-4297 Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. OKEQ Rooftop Rally Anti-Bullying Thursday, October 19 at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the center's roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 19th, 2017 at 6:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate rooftop rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. For more information email toby.jenkins@okeq.org PARTY BOI Movie Night with QPOC Group Friday October 20, 6:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104 Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. A new documentary that focuses on the effects of crystal meth addiction in relation to the LGBTQ community of color. The film features real stories of real people who are thinking about, dealing with, and surviving crystal meth addiction. It is an untold tale from the urban perspective that has the possibility to change the perception of the "parTy & play" life style within inner city queer demographics. The riveting accounts and cinematic portrayals grant an informative and captivating documentary sure to bring awareness to all audiences. Directed by Michael Rice, a Booker T. Washington graduate. For ticket information click here October Volunteer of the Month Westly Dotson Westly's favorite part of volunteering with OKEQ is "seeing the genuine sense of belonging and support that the center provides. For many people, this is the only place they feel truly welcome." When I am not volunteering, you can find me working a 9-5, watching Let's Plays and Korean and Southern cooking shows on YouTube, playing video games, reading in bed, or plotting world domination. My favorite thing to do at the center is visit the Art Gallery. I come from an art background and I love that the center has a space to showcase many different styles of expression. I volunteer on Wednesdays, so I am also Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/ spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2017 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2017... partial to the gender support group that I see every week. The group really seems like a close knit family. I would definitely recommend volunteering at OKEQ. People need this center. It's more than just programming and resources. Volunteers are what make this center keep running and successful. For those who are unable to contribute financially, know that there is a way for you to show your support. counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Thank you for your dedication Westly! If you would like to volunteer, click here or contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org October Video eNews Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Condomania! Brought to You Bi the Letter B Saturday October 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 When planning our annual fundraiser this year, we thought-why not a party featuring condom-fashions? CONDOMANIA will be an amazing party, public awareness event, and fundraiser for The Little Blue House. The event will feature models presenting original designs of fashion accessories made out of condoms! Through Condomania we tell our community that: * Sexual health is an important part of overall health * Sexual health can be discussed and promoted * Our community will not be bullied into silence and shame around universal issues of sexuality and reproductive health. Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. coNDQ~ANIAJ OXBillTIITffffi ffiJill7 • a ~UNdraiser with fashion food, and friuo\i\1 We hope you will join us for some fashion, food, and frivolity featuring condoms as wearable art! Costume attire IS encouraged! A buffet dinner is provided and there will be a cash bar. Sponsorships are available! The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Click here to purchase tickets Fun Home - Presented by American Theatre Company Oct. 21, 26-28, 8:00 p.m., Oct. 22, 2:00 p.m. John H. Williams Theatre Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Winner of the 2015 Tony Award for Best Musical! A fresh and brilliantly told story adapted by Lisa Kron and Jeanine Tesori from Alison Bechdel's 2006 graphic memoir of the same name, the show is marked by Gothic twists, a family funeral home, sexual angst and great books. As she works on her memoir in the present day, successful middle-aged cartoonist Alison Bechdel recalls two time periods in her life. The first is her childhood, around age 10, when she struggles against her father's obsessive demands and begins to identify her own sexuality. The second is her first year in college when she begins her first relationship. Click here to purchase tickets - Use discount code "funhome1" Who's Gonna Love Me Now? SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan II • . Wednesday, October 25th, 6:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Avenue, Tulsa Tickets are $10 (On Sale Now!) Synopsis: Saar is an HIV positive gay man living in London, where he found refuge from the religious kibbutz where he grew up in Israel. Ever since he was diagnosed with HIV, Saar has craved his family's love, while they struggle with fears and prejudices. Saar and the rest of the London Gay Men's Chorus provide a glorious soundtrack for this documentary about the power of forgiveness and the power that home has, no matter how far we go. Introduced by Toby Jenkins, Executive Director, Equality Center of Oklahoma Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2017 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2017... LOVE ME-· • NOW? ••:, Website: www.circlecinema.com ~ the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 NEWfll~BV !MANN BRO!Hl~S v Gender Support Program Official Selection - Oklahoma Jewish Film Festival, Oct. 22-25 Tulsa Pride Bingo Halloween Edition Friday, October 27, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back and just in time for Halloween. Get your scary or outrageous costume ready because there will be prizes for the best costumes. The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Vegas and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Halloween Bingo Bash. DJ Alex says "get your lip syncing Halloween selections ready." Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group Wednesday November 1, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Equality Center Renovations Grand Opening Thursday, November 2, 5:30 p.m. Cocktail Hour 7:00 p.m. - Ribbon Cutting Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Honored Guest, Mayor GT Bynum and entertainers, Rebecca Ungerman, Pat Hobbs, and Eric Himan will be here for the Event Center Grand Opening and dedication of the new windows. GRAND OPENING "First Thursday" Art Opening November 2, 6:00 - 9:00 pm The November Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Mallory Taylor. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 2nd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Mallory Taylor is a self-taught artist born in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She is of Osage, Cherokee, Blackfoot, Crow, Black Dutch and Irish decent. Her acrylic paintings and pencil drawings are expressionistic in nature. In an attempt to preserve her Native American culture through her contemporary style, she will often include handwritten explanations of the stories and historical artifacts represented within her work. Ms. Taylors work has been exhibited at the Oklahoma Indian Art Gallery in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, the Muskogee Creek Nation Museum Okmulgee, Oklahoma, The Jacobson House in Norman, Oklahoma, The 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2017 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2017... Corridor in the Paseo Art District, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, in addition to other venues. Her work is currently exhibited at Pop Gallery, Sante Fe, New Mexico, Bella Fine Art in Monument, Colorado, The Bishop Gallery, Brooklyn, New York and will be showcased in a traveling show in 2017 with Native Pop. She also has murals in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma in the Brady Art District located near Guthrie Green. Ms. Taylor is most proud of the fact that her work is currently exhibited at the Fred Jones Museum in Norman, Oklahoma, alongside works by her father, Robert Taylor, who has been a great influence on her work. Ms. Taylor hopes that her work evokes the emotion and beauty of both past and present-day Native American culture not only for Native Americans but all races and Nationalities. Please follow her work on Facebook and Instagram: https://www.facebook.com/InspiredArtByMTaylor/ and @InspiredArtbyMTaylor Artist Call for 2018 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2018 Exhibition Calendar. Our gallery encourages emerging artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media, including installation works to apply. Details: Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is installed on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to donate a piece as a door prize which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc) for each piece. A bio and artist statement are due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. How to Apply: Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted by email. Proposals incorporating the work of two artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. Deadline for submissions is October 20, 2017. Notifications will be sent out by November 3, 2017. Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org , with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Today, Tulsa Project Theatre (TPT), the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, announced its 2017-2018 season. Three of the season's productions are in collaboration with other AEA affiliates - two from Oklahoma City and one with whom fans of the hit TV shows, Big Bang Theory and Speechless, may be familiar. In February 2018, TPT returns to the intimate Norman Theatre at the Tulsa PAC to present the Regional Premiere of John Ross Bowie's FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN. This brand new non-musical play centers on the iconic punk band, The Ramones, as they record their fifth album with eccentric music producer, Phil Spector. Focusing on the period in 1979-1980 when the band stood on the edge of breaking out, and Spector needed a hit, this intense black comedy sheds light on an important and overlooked moment in rock history. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN was written by actor and comedian John Ross Bowie, best known for his role as Barry Kripke in the CBS show THE BIG BANG THEORY and currently as Jimmy Dimeo on the ABC show SPEECHLESS. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN runs February 16-25, 2018. TICK...TICK...BOOM! is an autobiographical musical by Jonathan Larson, the late Pulitzer Prize- and Tony Awardwinning composer of Rent, which tells the story of a composer and the sacrifices he made to achieve his big break, eventually leading to a Broadway blockbuster. His girlfriend wants to get married and move out of the city, his best friend is making big bucks on Madison Avenue and, yet, Jon is still waiting tables and trying to write the great American rock musical. Set in 1990, this compelling story of personal discovery embraces the universal ideal of holding onto your dreams through life's most difficult challenges. Before RENT, there was TICK...TICK...BOOM! The production will run for a weekend in Oklahoma City before arriving in Tulsa for a limited run on April 27 - 29, 2018. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Tulsa Project Theatre will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera LIZZIE, set to run July 13-22, 2018. On a sweltering summer morning in 1892, in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden was the prime suspect and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. LIZZIE features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. LIZZIE is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information Equality Center Pride Store 2017 Tulsa Pride Shirts are still a vailable in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store for $20.00 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2017 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2017... Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Binge" By: Tyler Oakley Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Pop-culture phenomenon, social rights advocate, and the most prominent LGBTQ+ voice on YouTube, Tyler Oakley brings you Binge , his New York Times bestselling collection of witty, personal, and hilarious essays. For someone who made a career out of over-sharing on the Internet, Tyler has a shocking number of personal mishaps and shenanigans to reveal in his first book: experiencing a legitimate rage blackout in a Cheesecake Factory; negotiating a tense standoff with a White House official; crashing a car in front of his entire high school, in an Arby's uniform; projectile vomiting while bartering with a grandmother; and so much more. In Binge, Tyler delivers his best untold, hilariously side-splitting moments with the trademark flair that made him a star. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . ' . . TYLER OAKLEY Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org WED ESDAY, OCTOBER 11, 2017 TCC ETRO CAMPUS STUDENT UNION 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2017 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2017... 9:30 AM - 1:00 PM Co-sponsored with Oklahomans For Equality TULSA COMMUNITY COLLEGE TulsaCC.edu 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2017 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2017... 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2017 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2017... er Productions and OKEQ Presents ... 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2017 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2017... 2017 BULLYING PREVENTION CONFERENCE Featuring Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt ls a Canada Research C a r In O,lldren's M nt.il H alth and Viol nee Prev n ,on t t e Univ V.Jillancourt's research examines t e fin m ntal ltv of Ott wa Or. between bully,ng and alt , with a particular focus on socl J n currently fund d by th Canadld I ~tltu rose, nee. She Is dlth R ~ arch. the of Social SC nces and Humanities Council of Canada, and the Ontario Mental Health Foundation. Focus - Understanding Mental Health Outcomes Among Bullied Youth: Biological Considerations The prevalence of behavioral and emotional disorder. among Am rican st dents Is lgh about 20,i; of youth have serous mental h alth prob I ms. Th se problems are often chronic and I ad to significant mpairment in school, ome, and community functioning. One root cause of m nt I h alt difficulties Is be,ng bulled by peer.. Indeed, longitudinal studies point to a causal relation between posu, to bu lying and subsequent ntal health probl m . 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Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ' I L--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------J 4/24/26, 4:06 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e31d97f13b8e1c718c4d3dd213596e8f.pdf 105f2f3e9b452290b26b374a0a4ac1d5 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 26th, 2017 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-26th--2017.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews July 26th, 2017 okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility news In This Issue Support our Troops Rally George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a Member Brought to You Bi the Letter B Trump Tweet-Transgender Individuals out of Military 2017 Mosaic Survey Tulsa Public Schools Last year, our country made a commitment to its transgender service members. They would be allowed to serve openly, just as they are in eighteen countries, including close allies such as Britain, Australia, and Israel. Oklahomans for Equality ("OkEq") deplores the latest tweet by President Trump which states that transgender Americans will be denied the right to serve their country's military in any capacity. Coming Out Workshop Gayming Night with Microsoft Ladies Social Club Events July Volunteer of the Month Nonprofit and nonpartisan groups such as the Rand Corporation have assessed and debunked the false and damaging assumptions of President Trump. See, http://www.rand.org/pubs/research_reports/ RR1530.html However, this attack was never intended to be based on fact nor was it directed only against our transgender service members. The question of who has the right to serve our country has reverberated throughout the struggle for American civil rights. A Presidential statement that transgender Americans should be denied this right, "in any capacity" and without regard to their qualifications, is a purely ideological attack on the character and fitness of all transgender Americans. OkEq will continue to fight the ongoing attempts by regressive forces in our culture, no matter what title or office they hold, to exclude our members from the life and defense of our country. 2017 OkEq Board Elections Gay Men's Dinner Group "First Thursday" Art Opening Friend for a Friend Identities 101 Alyssa Bryant, Esq. OkEq Board of Directors S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties NOH8 Photo Shoot Zarrow Mental Health Symposium July Video eNews Support our Troops Rally Pride Store Wednesday July 26, 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Rainbow Library Dissertation Research ICAO Christmas in July OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 17 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The July Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Sandi Willhite in an Exhibit Titled "Tulsa Cowgirls" , beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the m onth. George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Family Ties Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today> All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOU DATIO A upportmg org n, tion of Tu/ Commumty Found t1on Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and learn how to make your donation today. Live Free! 4/24/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews July 26th, 2017 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-26th--2017.htm... Coming Out Worksh op Become a Voting member of Oklahomans for Equality Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Facilitated by Brendon Glon Lawyer in the Library August 9 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator Brought to You Bi the Letter B By Appointment Second Tuesday and Fourth Thursday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. TAKE THE 2017 MOSAIC SURVEY The 2017 Mosaic Inclusive Workplace Culture Survey is live until August 7, 2017. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - Counseling Services • rrx::EcC powered by the tulsa regional chamber Mosaic's annual Inclusive Workplace Culture survey provides benchmark data for companies and organizations to gauge their strengths, opportunities and challenges. For those with exceptional diversity and inclusion practices, Mosaic awards the Top Inclusive Workplace Culture with recognition given at the three, four and five star level. Organizations demonstrating commitment to diversity and inclusion but in need of additional work in certain areas receive the distinction of Rising Star. Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. This survey provides invaluable data to help our region continue to strengthen its diversity and inclusion practices. These are not just feel-good metrics. This information provides critical information to help make Tulsa and surrounding cities more desirable places to live, work and grow a business. The survey does not have to be completed in one sitting. If you would like to preview a full PDF of the survey, click the links below. Dr. Kurt Choate Preview the small business (1-50 employees) survey. Preview the large business (50+ employees) survey. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --------- Click here to begin or to share with someone at your pace of employment. Tulsa Children Need People Like You Teaching positions are available throughout Tulsa Public Schools We are the destination for extraordinary educators and exceptional staff who work with our community and families to ignite the joy of learning and prepare every student for the greatest success in college, careers, and life. Tulsa Public Schools is on an exciting five-year journey to Destination Excellence, and we invite you to join us! From teachers, to bus drivers, to cafeteria assistants, we have positions available throughout the district for individuals who are ready to make a meaningful difference in the lives of Tulsa students and families. OSU Tulsa Counseling Center TULSA PUBLIC 4/24/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews July 26th, 2017 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-26th--2017.htm... When you make the choice to work, live, and grow with Team Tulsa, you become part of a dynamic community of learners, contributors, and designers who strive to embody our core values of equity, character, excellence, team, and joy every day. SCHOOLS View and apply for available positions with Tulsa Public Schools. Learn more about the journey to Destination Excellence. Explore our core values and beliefs. ------------ Coming Out Workshop Mondays 6:00 - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Facilitated by Brendon Glon Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Gayming Night with Microsoft Saturday, July 29 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come on out for a night of fun and games. Socialize, make new friends, and try your hand at our collection of board and Micosoft video games. It's a great way to socialize outside of the bar and club scene! Snacks and light refreshments provided. So come out and join us and let's have some fun! We strive to create accessible and inclusive spaces for all our members. If you require any accommodations to ensure your full participation, please contact: Jose.vega@okeq.org Ladies Social Club Events Friday July 30, 2:00 - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come craft with us! Knotty Bitches meets the last Sunday of each month in the upstairs couch area of the Oklahoma Equality Center to knit*, chat, and write to our government representatives about the issues that are on our minds. Anyone identifying as a woman is welcome to come and bring one guest of any gender. Kids are welcome too; there is a room for them right next door. All letter writing materials are provided, including help with finding your representatives and figuring out what you want to say. *Any portable craft is welcome. Craft supplies not provided. Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . July Volunteer of the Month Nina Ryan I have been volunteering with OKEQ 8 months. Wow. It sure doesn't seem it's been that long. Time goes by so fast. Volunteering somewhere has been a goal of mine for sometime. While my kids were in school, and I wasn't working outside the home, I volunteered at their schools. As my older ones went off to college and my youngest was in high school I went to work at Tulsa Tech in Broken Arrow. Once I stopped working there I kept thinking I would find a place to volunteer and nothing really inspired me to go ahead with it. The campaign for President of the United States had been a topic of conversation between my son Jack and I for many months before November, 2016. I have always disliked discussing politics with anyone. Living in my protected bubble I was comfortable in the knowledge everything would work out for the best. People are good, and caring and accepting. So I thought. Jack introduced me to the beliefs of Mike Pence, Steve Bannon, and many others on Trump's team. After acquainting myself with some of their views on LGBTQ issues, and other policies they believed in, I was disturbed, but thought surely Trump won't get elected. Well, we all know how that turned out. Jack was devastated, and worried and scared. No matter what I said to him, he was convinced this was the end of life as we know it. It some ways it was. So I got on line and looked for a way to support the LGBTQ community. I was also selfish in this endeavor because I was also looking for a way to learn more about LGBTQ people so I could understand and become more accepting myself. My favorite part of volunteering with OKEQ is visiting with the people that are working and volunteering at the center. I also enjoy meeting the variety of people that come in. I have definitely realized what a secure little bubble I have lived in all of my life. I knew I would be openminded to the way others live and view the world, from my time at working with students at Tulsa Tech. That was my first eye opening experience. It Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/ affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 . Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, 4/24/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews July 26th, 2017 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-26th--2017.htm... helped me to not judge people by what they were wearing or how many piercings or tattoos they have. This is the first time I have knowingly been around LGBTQ folks. I feel everyone would be more accepting and understanding if you would get to know the individual people that are LGBTQ. Being a volunteer at OKEQ has helped me to realize how difficult it can be to live your true self. and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com When I am not volunteering at the center I spend time with my daughters and their children. I would love to have more time with Jack, but he lives in San Antonio. We talk often and keep in touch via texts. I like, well I used to enjoy it more, but I do cook almost every day. Gardening has always been something I have enjoyed. I'm not a vegetable gardener, I love flowers. It is how I relax. There are so many things OKEQ offers, it is hard to pick what event or program I like the best. I have been most impressed with the information and support that is given to everyone that asks for it by the staff and volunteers that I have come in contact with. I would recommend to anyone who wants a place to volunteer and is interested in helping others in there quests for equality. At the same time being you will be around people that value that you are there. You can be there as little as 3 hours a week or choose to give more of your time, it's up to you. You'll be glad you did. If you would like to volunteer, click here or contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org 2017 OkEq Board Elections Nominations to the Board of Directors are made b y petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 23rd) Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member and membership fees current 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 7th, 2017 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, six Board of Director spaces are up for election. Six directors will be elected. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. SOS Group • The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. oklahomans for equality SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Gay Men's Dinner Group Events Tuesday August 1, 6:30 p.m. Taziki's Mediterranean Cafe 4929 E. 71st St., Tulsa, OK 74136 August 1st at 6:30pm is our next men's dinner. We are eating at Taziki's Mediterranean Cafe. Located at 4929 e. 71st St. (71st & Yale) Tulsa. If you are coming please let me know so I have a headcount for the reservation. Friday August 4, 7:00 p.m. 2601 S. 96th E. Ct., Tulsa OK 74129 tazikiscafe.com Pool Party August 4th ( Friday) from 7:00pm-midnight at 2601 S. 96th E. Ct., Tulsa OK. Bring your own beer or alcohol if you wish to drink, but no glass containers or getting drunk. Thank you! P lease RSVP if you are coming to either event so I have a head count. Gay Men's Dinner Group, Richard Haley GuysDineToo@gmail.com "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday August 3, 6:00 p.m. v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for 4/24/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews July 26th, 2017 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-26th--2017.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 transgender and intersex individuals. The August Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an Exhibit Titled "Four Artists - Four Styles", beginning with a reception on Thursday, August 3rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. "Four Artists - Four Styles" is a group of 4 artists who work together bringing a juxtaposition of styles and mediums together for this show. Charlotte Lough is compelled to paint - it is that simple. "If I go for several days without picking up a paint brush I feel a void that is only filled by making art". She is inspired by the beauty of nature all around - she is drawn to paint birds, butterflies, flowers, landscapes, water, and animals. Her fascination with water has led her to a challenge of painting and understanding different kinds of water including still water, ocean waves, babbling brooks, and waterfalls. Most recently she has given herself the ongoing challenge of painting fifty roses - all are fascinating in their complex and beauty. She currently prefers to work in impressionism/ representational, but is always trying new approaches and styles as she evolves in her expression. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Karin Cermak has moved away from strictly traditional realistic painting to soft contemporary and abstract painting based on her creativity and independence-of-thought on the real image of subjects. She enjoys the freedom of contemporary and abstract painting, where she can blend the reality with the fantasy. Both styles allow her to be spontaneous, to play with colors and forms, to use different materials, to express her feelings. Janie Crean focuses on the beauty of nature in her wildlife and landscape paintings of the great American West. Her paintings bring the outdoor world to life with the use of composition and light. She says of her work, "Only an artist would be excited by feathers and fur! It's a challenge to paint, but worth the effort as you see your wildlife come to life." Her style of painting has evolved into an impressionistic style. Her objective is to create a painting that comes together by knowing what to include and what to leave to the viewer's imagination and eye. Fernanda Thompson was always involved in creative activities such as playwriting, poetry, painting and drawing with the neighborhood kids. But at the age of fourteen she became a portrait artist influenced by her art teacher in Brazil. As her arteye developed she discovered contemporary art. She speaks of her work: "It's like freedom in art with broader varieties and countless possibilities to be creative using ink, acrylics, oil, mixed media, a brush, a palette knife or simply a pencil. I didn't want to be limited by colors, so I began exploring the use of texture and costume-made canvas". If you seek them, you can find a few poems on the back of some of her art pieces. "My art is a mix of all my life experiences; My art allows me to materialize my thoughts and emotions". Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The show begins with a reception on Thursday, July 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals I The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. te i.,,w.iwL 09,~ cd, ~ ~ 26 yea/14 - 1991 - 2011 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day 4/24/26, 4:01 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/58ddf2783a42c965701a91d2ebb2dd4d.pdf 43f92dc430c913f3c758f72ec1b8b6cc PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 2nd, 2017 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-2nd--2017.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e August 2nd, 2017 oklahomans for equality news August Volunteer of the Month Josh Cancienne In This Issue August Volunteer of the Month July Video eNews "First Thursday" Art Opening Gay Men's Dinner Group Friend for a Friend George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a Member Brought to You Bi the Letter B Josh has been volunteering with OKEQ since February 2017. He has always wanted to volunteer someplace LGBTQ oriented. After the 2016 election results, was motivated to volunteer at OKEQ and help any way he could. Josh loves coming to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "Where I know I'll be accepted no matter who or what I am. It's incredibly validating to be here with an organization doing great work in making Oklahoma a friendly place for LGBTQ+ people." When not volunteering, Josh works as a web developer, enjoys hanging out with friends, playing video games at home, singing, or drawing. His favorite events are the monthly Game Nights at OKEQ. "I get to meet new people and we play tabletop games. It's really fun and I hope more people come!" Josh definitely recommends people to come volunteer here because " You get to meet so many wonderful people in the LGBTQ+ community. You get a behind the scenes look at what it takes to do all the great work that OKEQ does for Tulsa and its surrounding areas." He adds " OKEQ wouldn't be what it is without it's volunteers and community leaders. YOU can help shape the organization and community. Even if you couldn't commit to volunteering, you could still start an event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and bring people from the community together. Talk with Jose Vega who can give you more information about starting an event!" 2017 Mosaic Survey Tulsa Public Schools 2017 OkEq Board Elections Identities 101 S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties NOH8 Photo Shoot TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Zarrow Mental Health Symposium Pride Store Rainbow Library Dissertation Research If you would like to volunteer, click here or contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org August Video eNews OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 17 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The July Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Sandi Willhite in an Exhibit Titled "Tulsa Cowgirls" , beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the m onth. "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday August 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The August Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an Exhibit Titled "Four Artists - Four Styles", beginning with a reception on Thursday, August 3rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Family Ties "Four Artists - Four Styles" is a group of 4 artists who work together bringing a juxtaposition of styles and mediums together for this show. Charlotte Lough is compelled to paint - it is that simple. "If I go for several days without picking up a paint brush I feel a void that is only filled by making art". She is inspired by the beauty of nature all around - she is drawn to paint birds, butterflies, flowers, landscapes, water, and animals. Her fascination with water has led her to a challenge of painting and understanding different kinds of water including still water, ocean waves, babbling brooks, and waterfalls. Most recently she has given herself the ongoing challenge of painting fifty roses - all are fascinating in their complex and beauty. She currently prefers to work in impressionism/ representational, but is always trying new approaches and styles as she evolves in her expression. Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op Karin Cermak has moved away from strictly traditional realistic 4/24/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews August 2nd, 2017 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-2nd--2017.... painting to soft contemporary and abstract painting based on her creativity and independence-of-thought on the real image of subjects. She enjoys the freedom of contemporary and abstract painting, where she can blend the reality with the fantasy. Both styles allow her to be spontaneous, to play with colors and forms, to use different materials, to express her feelings. Janie Crean focuses on the beauty of nature in her wildlife and landscape paintings of the great American West. Her paintings bring the outdoor world to life with the use of composition and light. She says of her work, "Only an artist would be excited by feathers and fur! It's a challenge to paint, but worth the effort as you see your wildlife come to life." Her style of painting has evolved into an impressionistic style. Her objective is to create a painting that comes together by knowing what to include and what to leave to the viewer's imagination and eye. Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Fernanda Thompson was always involved in creative activities such as playwriting, poetry, painting and drawing with the neighborhood kids. But at the age of fourteen she became a portrait artist influenced by her art teacher in Brazil. As her arteye developed she discovered contemporary art. She speaks of her work: "It's like freedom in art with broader varieties and countless possibilities to be creative using ink, acrylics, oil, mixed media, a brush, a palette knife or simply a pencil. I didn't want to be limited by colors, so I began exploring the use of texture and costume-made canvas". If you seek them, you can find a few poems on the back of some of her art pieces. "My art is a mix of all my life experiences; My art allows me to materialize my thoughts and emotions". Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org The show begins with a reception on Thursday, July 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org August 9 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Gay Men's Dinner Group Pool Party Friday August 4, 7:00 p.m. 2601 S. 96th E. Ct., Tulsa OK 74129 Pool Party August 4th (Friday) from 7:00pm-midnight at 2601 S. 96th E. Ct., Tulsa OK. Bring your own beer or alcohol if you wish to drink, but no glass containers or getting drunk. Thank you! P lease RSVP if you are coming to either event so I have a head count. Gay Men's Dinner Group, Richard Haley GuysDineToo@gmail.com Lawyer in the Library Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org -- ·· - - I Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. ie &w.iad 69,~ ~ ~ ~ 26 yeaM - 1991 - 2011 Saturday, August 12, 2017 "' 6:00 - 9:00pm Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center Dennis Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK. 74120 Special Music by the incomparable Rebecca Ungerman 4/24/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews August 2nd, 2017 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-2nd--2017.... Dinner: S20.00 Ribs, Chicken, and Vegetarian main dishes. Bakes beans, coleslaw, potato salad, and Al's carrot cupcakes! Live Entertainment & Silent Auction - All proceeds to benefit the program which supports hundreds of pet owners living with HIV to be able to keep their best friend at a Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . crucial time in their lives. Seating i limit d m k your r b for Augu t 1st rv tion RSVP - Ja on Eddingfield 918-361-8839 Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today> All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEO G KAISER FAMILY FOU DA 10 1 A upport ng org n f Tu Commun ty Found Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and learn how to make your donation today. Become a Voting member of Oklahomans for Equality Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/ affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 . Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, 4/24/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews August 2nd, 2017 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-2nd--2017.... and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and Fourth Thursday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan TAKE THE 2017 MOSAIC SURVEY The 2017 Mosaic Inclusive Workplace Culture Survey is live until August 7, 2017. • rrrEcC powered by the tutsa regional chamber Mosaic's annual Inclusive Workplace Culture survey provides benchmark data for companies and organizations to gauge their strengths, opportunities and challenges. For those with exceptional diversity and inclusion practices, Mosaic awards the Top Inclusive Workplace Culture with recognition given at the three, four and five star level. Organizations demonstrating commitment to diversity and inclusion but in need of additional work in certain areas receive the distinction of Rising Star. This survey provides invaluable data to help our region continue to strengthen its diversity and inclusion practices. These are not just feel-good metrics. This information provides critical information to help make Tulsa and surrounding cities more desirable places to live, work and grow a business. The survey does not have to be completed in one sitting. If you would like to preview a full PDF of the survey, click the links below. Preview the small business (1-50 employees) survey. Preview the large business (50+ employees) survey. Click here to begin or to share with someone at your pace of employment. Tulsa Children Need People Like You Teaching positions are available throughout Tulsa Public Schools We are the destination for extraordinary educators and exceptional staff who work with our community and families to ignite the joy of learning and prepare every student for the greatest success in college, careers, and life. When you make the choice to work, live, and grow with Team Tulsa, you become part of a dynamic community of learners, contributors, and designers who strive to embody our core values of equity, character, excellence, team, and joy every day. ■ Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 ---------- Tulsa Public Schools is on an exciting five-year journey to Destination Excellence, and we invite you to join us! From teachers, to bus drivers, to cafeteria assistants, we have positions available throughout the district for individuals who are ready to make a meaningful difference in the lives of Tulsa students and families. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) v Gender Support Program TULSA PUBLIC SCHOOLS Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for 4/24/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews August 2nd, 2017 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-2nd--2017.... transgender and intersex individuals. View and apply for available positions with Tulsa Public Schools. -----------------------Learn more about the journey to Destination Excellence. Explore our core values and beliefs. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 2017 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 7th, 2017 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, six Board of Director spaces are up for election. Six directors will be elected. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. • Nominations to the Board of Directors are made b y petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 23rd) Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member and membership fees current 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org oklahomans for equality Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Identities 101 Saturday August 19, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Identities 101 is a free, fun, and interactive way for community activists and people with a thirst for education to learn about different identities within the LGBTQ+ acronym. Enjoy an afternoon of powerful discussion as Tulsa's LGBTQ+ youth and adults work together to show you the colors of the rainbow in depth. The event will include panels focusing on gender and sexualities that you might not know about! This is a learning space, and it is completely okay not to know everything. We hope to see you there, discovering more and more about your community! The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Fourth Tuesday of each month Tuesday Aug. 22, 10:00am 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their final pool party of the summer on Tuesday, August 22nd at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, deserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day 4/24/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews August 2nd, 2017 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-2nd--2017.... fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group NOH8 Photo Shoot Sunday September 17, 2:00 - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the #NOH8Worldwide movement in Tulsa, OK and add your face to the fight for equal human rights! COST : Single/Solo Photos: $40 Couple/Group Photos: $25 per person NOH8 accepts cash and credit cards only. Fees paid to participate cover services and costs for one edited digital print only, made available via noh8campaign.com, and do not include physical prints. * COME CAMERA-READY * * WEAR A WHITE SHIRT * * POSE & MAKE A STATEMENT! * NO The NOH8 Campaign returns to Oklahomans For Equality @ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sunday, September 17th for an open photo shoot! Stop by anytime between 2pm-5pm to pose for an official NOH8 photo by photographer Adam Bouska. No reservations needed! Photos are first-come, first-served - and we move fast! Please arrive camera-ready with a plain white shirt to match the signature style of the NOH8 photos. When is the best time to arrive? Most people tend to arrive before the photo shoot begins, but as long as someone has lined up by the advertised end time for the photo shoot (5:00pm for this photo shoot), they should be guaranteed a chance to pose! Once you arrive, the next steps are easy! 1. Fill-out one numbered model release for each person. 2. Have a NOH8 temporary tattoo applied for your photo. 3. Standby for your number to be called. 4. Process your payment once called. 5. Trade your processed model release for duct tape! First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. NOH8 Co-Founder Adam Bouska will photograph roughly 5-10 frames per person. One frame will be selected/edited by our team and made available within approximately eight weeks (timeline subject to change). INTERESTED IN VOLUNTEERING? E-mail info@noh8campaign.com with your contact information and make sure to note which shoot you'd like to volunteer for! TULSA PROJECT THEATRE ANNOUNCES 2017-2018 SEASON Today, Tulsa Project Theatre (TPT), the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, announced its 2017-2018 season. Three of the season's productions are in collaboration with other AEA affiliates - two from Oklahoma City and one with whom fans of the hit TV shows, Big Bang Theory and Speechless, may be familiar. In September, TPT joins forces with Lyric Theatre of Oklahoma with the play, I AM MY OWN WIFE. TPT Artistic Director and Lyric veteran, Matthew Alvin Brown portrays over 30 characters in a tour-de-force performance in the Norman Theatre at the Tulsa PAC. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. In February 2018, TPT returns to the intimate Norman Theatre at the Tulsa PAC to present the Regional Premiere of John Ross Bowie's FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN. This brand new non-musical play centers on the iconic punk band, The Ramones, as they record their fifth album with eccentric music producer, Phil Spector. Focusing on the period in 1979-1980 when the band stood on the edge of breaking out, and Spector needed a hit, this intense black comedy sheds light on an important and overlooked moment in rock history. FOUR CHORDS 4/24/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews August 2nd, 2017 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-2nd--2017.... AND A GUN was written by actor and comedian John Ross Bowie, best known for his role as Barry Kripke in the CBS show THE BIG BANG THEORY and currently as Jimmy Dimeo on the ABC show SPEECHLESS. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN runs February 16-25, 2018. TICK...TICK...BOOM! is an autobiographical musical by Jonathan Larson, the late Pulitzer Prize- and Tony Awardwinning composer of Rent, which tells the story of a composer and the sacrifices he made to achieve his big break, eventually leading to a Broadway blockbuster. His girlfriend wants to get married and move out of the city, his best friend is making big bucks on Madison Avenue and, yet, Jon is still waiting tables and trying to write the great American rock musical. Set in 1990, this compelling story of personal discovery embraces the universal ideal of holding onto your dreams through life's most difficult challenges. Before RENT, there was TICK...TICK...BOOM! The production will run for a weekend in Oklahoma City before arriving in Tulsa for a limited run on April 27 - 29, 2018. Tulsa Project Theatre will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera LIZZIE, set to run July 13-22, 2018. On a sweltering summer morning in 1892, in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden was the prime suspect and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. LIZZIE features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. LIZZIE is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information ---- 2017 Zarrow Mental Health Symposium - Challenging Injustice & Discrimination October 5-6 Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Why You Can't Miss It! ● Learn a full spectrum of tools and strategies related to programs, policies, and practices that challenge and/or combat injustice and discrimination, including any subsequent impact on mental health ● Connect & share ideas with over 800 peers and leading experts in the field! ● Receive critical CEU & ethics hours! Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org To learn more about the Zarrow Mental Health Symposium, visit www.zarrowsymposium.org, call JoBeth Hamon at 405-778-8122. You may also email jhamon@mhaok.org. You have the power to challenge and combat systemic injustice and discrimination that can impact mental health! Learn how to take action to forever change your community at the 2017 Zarrow Mental Health Symposium - Challenging Injustice & Discrimination, October 5-6 in Tulsa, Okla. The Symposium is a unique opportunity to meet and connect with other like-minded attendees who are inspired to discuss the realities of injustice and discrimination and develop solutions to address these realities and long-term implications on mental health. Plus, you can receive valuable CEU and ethics hours! Stay up-to-date on conference updates & announcements! Visit www.zarrowsymposium.org. --- Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store 2017 Tulsa Pride Shirts are still a vailable in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store for $20.00 Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Permanent Partners: Building Gay and Lesbian Relationships that Last" By: Betty Berzon, Ph. D. 4/24/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews August 2nd, 2017 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-2nd--2017.... BET T Y BERZON , PH. 0 . Today, more than ever before, gay and lesbian couples want long-lasting, fulfilling, happy relationships. But in order to accomplish this, the notion of "partnership" itself must be radically reinvented. Gay men and lesbians must learn to imbue relationships with the same importance that their heterosexual counterparts do - in a society that still offers none of the same support. This book, written by a psychotherapist who specializes in working with lesbian and gay male couples, offers clear, compassionate advice and counseling on the internal and external problems faced by two men or two women as they create a life together. Warmly supportive, Dr. Betty Berzon draws on real life examples from her professional practice and her own long-term partnership to help couples improve communication, "fight fair," resolve conflicts, and affirm both their love and their commitment in a relationship that works today, tomorrow, and forever. Pcrmancnl Parlncrs B V GAY I l AN O O I N G l[SB I AN RE lAT IO N S H I ~ S T H A T l A S T Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . LGBT Participants Wanted for Dissertation Research For Dissertation Study on the experiences of "coming out" to conservative religious parents. This study is in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the Degree of Doctor of Philosophy in General Psychology for Capella Univesity. MUST MEET THE FOLLOWING CRITERIA: • LGBT • Between the ages of 19-25 • Have "come out" to conservative religious parents. • Have "come out" to parents for at least one (1) full year. • Be willing to be interviewed about your experience. YOU SHOULD KNOW: • All interviews will be confidential • All participants will receive a $5.00 gift card to Quik Trip • Interviews will be conducted at a room at one of the Tulsa City-County Library Branches. HOW TO PARTICIPATE: Contact: Carrie Fleharty Ph.D. candidate in General Psychology Call: 539-302-7131 Email: Cfleharty@capellauniversity.edu --- -----Approval Letter from Capella University for research. Doctoral Candidate Badge r----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 4:01 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/babd279bf61b08a7faae4eb479a717d3.pdf 9403c05a9c873afede3b3263de5e34ae PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 10th, 2017 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2017.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews August 10th, 2017 oklahomans for equality news In This Issue Justin Castilla Sponsors the Day Ladies Social Club Friend for a Friend August EBA Mixer Justin Castilla Sponsors the Day August 12, 2017 Justin is sponsoring the day in remembrance of Khalid Jabara. Identities 101 Council Oak Mens Chorale S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties August Volunteer of the Month August Video eNews Thank You Justin! George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a Member "First Thursday" Art Opening NOH8 Photo Shoot Brought to You Bi the Letter B If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday • Just Because Zarrow Mental Health Symposium TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Tulsa Public Schools 2017 OkEq Board Elections Pride Store Rainbow Library Dissertation Research Ladies Social Club - Movie Night Friday August 11, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Movie TBD - accepting suggestions! Prefer something funny or inspiring with some degree of "girl power" Potluck snacks as per usual! OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 17 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The July Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Sandi Willhite in an Exhibit Titled "Tulsa Cowgirls" , beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the m onth. Family Ties te ifw.il:ed ~ ~ lW, lJ'l/ ~ 26 yea/t4 - 1991 - 2011 Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Tlte 'F~ 7'l.rvwd ' F ~ Saturday, August 12, 2017 "' 6:00 - 9:00pm Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op 4/24/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews August 10th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2017.... Dennis Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK. 74120 Special Music by the incomparable Rebecca Ungerman Dinner: $20.00 Ribs, Chicken, and Vegetarian main dishes. Bakes beans, coleslaw, potato salad, and Al's carrot cupcakes! Live Entertainment & Silent Auction - All proceeds to benefit the program which supports hundreds of pet owners living with HIV to be able to keep their best friend at a Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org Lawyer in the Library September 13 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. crucial time in their lives. Seating i limit d m k y ur r Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org rvation b fore Augu t 1st RSVP - Jason Eddingfield 918-361-8839 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org -- ·· - - EBA Mixer Wednesday August 16, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Chandra Hall 769 N Denver Ave, Tulsa OK 74106 Counseling Services UALITY Business Alliance Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Dr. Kurt Choate Join us for August's Equality Business Alliance mixer hosted by Chandra Hall with Keller Williams Realty When it comes to real estate I specialize in YOU! The home buying and selling process is all about YOU so I make great efforts to get to know you and what you need in order to streamline the process and get you where you need to be as quickly and as smoothly as possible. I strive to make the home buying or selling process as smooth and as easy to understand as possible, while I also look out for you with the best cost solutions. Reach out to me today so I can make arrangements for a Buyer's consultation or a Seller's consultation so we can get to know each other and work together. I am looking forward to meeting you! Check out Chandra Hall online at http://chandra-hall.kw.com/ Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center 4/24/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews August 10th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2017.... Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Identities 101 Saturday August 19, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Identities 101 is a free, fun, and interactive way for community activists and people with a thirst for education to learn about different identities within the LGBTQ+ acronym. Enjoy an afternoon of powerful discussion as Tulsa's LGBTQ+ youth and adults work together to show you the colors of the rainbow in depth. The event will include panels focusing on gender and sexualities that you might not know about! This is a learning space, and it is completely okay not to know everything. We hope to see you there, discovering more and more about your community! Holiday Concert Rehearsals begin August 22nd, See you there!!! Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . HE (oVN(I~ oAK MEN'S (floRA~E Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/ affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 . Non-Binary Support Group Click here for more information Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, 4/24/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews August 10th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2017.... and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Tuesday Aug. 22, 10:00am 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their final pool party of the summer on Tuesday, August 22nd at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, deserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. August Volunteer of the Month Josh Cancienne Josh has been volunteering with OKEQ since February 2017. He has always wanted to volunteer someplace LGBTQ oriented. After the 2016 election results, was motivated to volunteer at OKEQ and help any way he could. Josh loves coming to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "Where I know I'll be accepted no matter who or what I am. It's incredibly validating to be here with an organization doing great work in making Oklahoma a friendly place for LGBTQ+ people." When not volunteering, Josh works as a web developer, enjoys hanging out with friends, playing video games at home, singing, or drawing. His favorite events are the monthly Game Nights at OKEQ. "I get to meet new people and we play tabletop games. It's really fun and I hope more people come!" Josh definitely recommends people to come volunteer here because " You get to meet so many wonderful people in the LGBTQ+ community. You get a behind the scenes look at what it takes to do all the great work that OKEQ does for Tulsa and its surrounding areas." He adds " OKEQ wouldn't be what it is without it's volunteers and community leaders. YOU can help shape the organization and community. Even if you couldn't commit to volunteering, you could still start an event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and bring people from the community together. Talk with Jose Vega who can give you more information about starting an event!" If you would like to volunteer, click here or contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org August Video eNews SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for 4/24/26, 4:01 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/067df3ae92ff2250a0c64d5be46d0db2.pdf 8c6686763ccaac65981216699277cbd1 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 16th, 2017 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-16th--2017.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news oklohom:ms for equolity Edward F. Bommer & Roger Morris Sponsor the Day August 16, 2017 Marriage Edward F. Bommer/Roger W. Morris August 16, 2017 Cold Hearted but true, Marriage is concerned with the Concervation of Wealth and Transfer of Property between generations. Think about it. Congratulations Roger and Edward! August 16th, 2017 In This Issue Edward F. Bommer & Roger Morris Sponsor the Day Message from the Executive Director August EBA Mixer H.O.P.E. Divas 2017 Green Country Bears Identities 101 Sisters in Song Council Oak Mens Chorale S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Candidate Meet and Greet August Volunteer of the Month August Video eNews George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a Member "First Thursday" Art Opening NOH8 Photo Shoot If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here Brought to You Bi the Letter B • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday • Just Because Zarrow Mental Health Symposium TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Tulsa Public Schools 2017 OkEq Board Elections Pride Store Rainbow Library ICAO Campout Message from the Executive Director, Toby Jenkins Dissertation Research August 16, 2017 As predicted and prophetically suggested we have entered a divisive and hateful period of civil unrest. The past two years have been filled with outrageous and disgusting behaviour parading itself as political discourse. It is not discourse. It is not two competing opinions! It is EVIL!!!! Daily, Oklahomans for Equality assists the victims of this EVIL marching through our land. Weekly, death threats in the mail, phone calls verbally harassing us and our constituents, and vandalism of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are all examples of the escalating violence and evil. Our organization has witnessed evil before. Heading into our 38th year allows us to have some perspective on past evil behavior and justifiable fear of what the future may hold. Charlottesville is America with hatred simmering until it takes center stage. The rage of the oppressed screaming "How can you not see this marching in our streets?" I understand the fearful response of the counter-protesters and their emotional outrage in reaction to the white supremacists and neo-nazis. I feel that same emotion and fear every year at our Tulsa Pride Parade when protesters line our city streets screaming profanities and making threats at our families and parade participants. That is why we make sure we have police protection. The white supremacists wanted to strike that same fear in Charlottesville, but these bigots carried guns and weapons. As executive director, I commit myself to denounce this present darkness engulfing our nation and to build stronger alliances with those marginalized by this reign of terror. I call upon the membership of Oklahomans for Equality to stand up to the hate. Push back when someone wants to sanction racist actions and speech. This is our time and we can not be silent! OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 17 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an Exhibit Titled "Four Artists Four Styles". "Four Artists - Four Styles" is a group of 4 artists who work together bringing a juxtaposition of styles and mediums together for this show. This video has extremely graphic and violent content. Please use discretion when viewing. 4/24/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews August 16th, 2017 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-16th--2017.... EBA Mixer Wednesday August 16, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Chandra Hall 769 N Denver Ave, Tulsa OK 74106 Family Ties E ALITY usiness Alliance Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op Join us for August's Equality Business Alliance mixer hosted by Chandra Hall with Keller Williams Realty When it comes to real estate I specialize in YOU! The home buying and selling process is all about YOU so I make great efforts to get to know you and what you need in order to streamline the process and get you where you need to be as quickly and as smoothly as possible. I strive to make the home buying or selling process as smooth and as easy to understand as possible, while I also look out for you with the best cost solutions. Reach out to me today so I can make arrangements for a Buyer's consultation or a Seller's consultation so we can get to know each other and work together. I am looking forward to meeting you! Check out Chandra Hall online at http://chandra-hall.kw.com/ Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org Lawyer in the Library September 13 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. H.O.P.E. DIVAS 2017 - Icons of the 80s! Friday August 25, 6:30 p.m. - Reception, 7:45 p.m. - Dinner and Concert COX Assembly Hall at the Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable 4/24/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews August 16th, 2017 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-16th--2017.... Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Please join us for our Annual fundraiser and concert DIVAS 2017 Icons of the 80s! Dress Code: Cocktail with an 80s Flair! Honorary Chair: Tamara Benson VALET PARKING PROVIDED* Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Performers Include: Mark Gibson Music, Double Treble, Pam Van Dyke Crosby, FuZed, Heather Rumley, Rebecca Marks Jimerson & Andrew Witter! Sponsorship Levels Michael Jackson Sponsor $25,000 / 3 Premier Tables for 10 / Spotlight Seating / Program Recognition / Beverages Served at Your Tables / Limo Service Prince Sponsor $15,000 / 2 Premier Tables for 10 / Spotlight Seating / Program Recognition / Beverages served at Your Tables / Limo Service to and from Event Whitney Houston Sponsor $5,000 / 1 Premier Table for 10 / Spotlight Seating / Program Recognition / Limo Service to and from Event Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org George Michael Sponsor $2,500 / 1 Table for 10 / Preferred Seating / Program Recognition / Limo Service to and from Event David Bowie Sponsor $1,750 / 1 Table for 10 / Preferred Seating / Program Recognition Leon Russell Sponsor $200 / Single Ticket / Reserved Seating / Program Recognition This year we are offering an opportunity to purchase a Dream Ticket. The Winner of the Dream Ticket will receive a Live Auction Item of choice! That's right, the winner can choose ANY one of the Live Auction Items from the list below! Only 150 tickets will be sold!!! Want a chance to win before bidding begins? Can't handle the pressure of Live bidding? This is your chance to win! OSU Tulsa Counseling Center How Much Does It Cost? Dream Tickets cost $100 each and can also purchase 3 for $250. Where can I buy a Dream Ticket? You may purchase your ticket(s) ahead of time online. Tickets will also be available the night of the Auction (if applicable). You must be in attendance when the ticket is drawn, in order to win. Green Country Bears 7th Anniversary Saturday August 19, 7:00 p.m. Elmer's BBQ 4130 S. Peoria Tulsa, OK 74105 The Green Country Bears is celebrating their 7th year Anniversary. We are having a Bears Dine Out/Bears Night Out combo on August 19th . Join us at Elmer's BBQ, 4130 S. Peoria, Tulsa, Ok at 7 PM . Their menu can be found at www.elmersbbqtulsa.com Afterwards the bears are headed to the infamous Eagle at 1338 East 3rd, Tulsa for drinks. Later on the bears are going to Area 18. Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Identities 101 Saturday August 19, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Identities 101 is a free, fun, and interactive way for community activists and people with a thirst for education to learn about different identities within the LGBTQ+ acronym. Enjoy an afternoon of powerful discussion as Tulsa's LGBTQ+ youth and adults work together to show you the colors of the rainbow in depth. The event will include panels focusing on gender and sexualities that you might not know about! This is a learning space, and it is completely okay not to know everything. We hope to see you there, discovering more and more about your community! Sisters in Song Rehearsal Tuesdays, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Diversity Arts Association of Oklahoma/Sisters In Song will begin rehearsals for our upcoming Christmas concert, Hope Peace Joy 2017 this coming Tuesday, August, 22, 2017 at the OKEQ Center. Rehearsals are from 7PM to 9PM and will be every Tuesday at that time. Please come join us if you love to sing and especially if you love to sing Christmas music. r. ~ ~ ,n5 ong ~ Holiday Concert Rehearsals begin August 22nd, See you there!!! c(oVN(I N'S ~ S isters Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . 4/24/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews August 16th, 2017 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-16th--2017.... Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/ affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 . Click here for more information Non-Binary Support Group S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Tuesday Aug. 22, 10:00am 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their final pool party of the summer on Tuesday, August 22nd at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, deserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. OkEq 2017-2018 Board Candidate Meet and Greet Tuesday August 29, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center August 29th starting at 6pm. Come meet the candidates running for Oklahomans for equality board of directors. There will be refreshments. Voting starts September 1st. The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 7th, 2017 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. To read the candidate bios click here Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in 4/24/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews August 16th, 2017 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-16th--2017.... for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan II Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm August Volunteer of the Month Josh Cancienne SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Josh has been volunteering with OKEQ since February 2017. He has always wanted to volunteer someplace LGBTQ oriented. After the 2016 election results, was motivated to volunteer at OKEQ and help any way he could. Josh loves coming to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "Where I know I'll be accepted no matter who or what I am. It's incredibly validating to be here with an organization doing great work in making Oklahoma a friendly place for LGBTQ+ people." When not volunteering, Josh works as a web developer, enjoys hanging out with friends, playing video games at home, singing, or drawing. His favorite events are the monthly Game Nights at OKEQ. "I get to meet new people and we play tabletop games. It's really fun and I hope more people come!" Josh definitely recommends people to come volunteer here because " You get to meet so many wonderful people in the LGBTQ+ community. You get a behind the scenes look at what it takes to do all the great work that OKEQ does for Tulsa and its surrounding areas." He adds " OKEQ wouldn't be what it is without it's volunteers and community leaders. YOU can help shape the organization and community. Even if you couldn't commit to volunteering, you could still start an event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and bring people from the community together. Talk with Jose Vega who can give you more information about starting an event!" Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno If you would like to volunteer, click here or contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org August Video eNews 4/24/26, 4:02 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/745f7cfac880d817b03fd2786250b4a8.pdf b4ad7a4a4a83593e52746d0ef827cd2b PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 24th, 2017 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-24th--2017.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news oklohom:ms for equolity OkEq 2017-2018 Board Candidate Meet and Greet Tuesday August 29, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 August 24th, 2017 In This Issue Candidate Meet and Greet Tulsa Writers Ink Brought to You Bi the Letter B Sisters in Song Council Oak Mens Chorale H.O.P.E. Divas 2017 Green Country Bears August Volunteer of the Month Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center August 29th starting at 6pm. Come meet the candidates running for Oklahomans for equality board of directors. There will be refreshments. August Video eNews Become a Member Voting starts September 1st. "First Thursday" Art Opening The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 7th, 2017 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. To read the candidate bios click here Question, Prevent, and Refer - Suicide Prevention Training NOH8 Photo Shoot August EBA Mixer Zarrow Mental Health Symposium TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Tulsa Public Schools 2017 OkEq Board Elections Pride Store Rainbow Library ICAO Campout Dissertation Research OkEq Board Meeting Annual Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 7 Monthly Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 21 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an Exhibit Titled "Four Artists Four Styles". "Four Artists - Four Styles" is a group of 4 artists who work together bringing a juxtaposition of styles and mediums together for this show. Tulsa Writers Ink Every Saturday beginning September 2, 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are i n their writing career. First meeting will be Saturday Sept. 2 1pm-3pm. 4/24/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews August 24th, 2017 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-24th--2017.... ~ Tulsa Writers, Ink~ at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ~ - -Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and Fourth Thursday of each month 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Family Ties Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Sisters in Song Rehearsal Tuesdays, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Diversity Arts Association of Oklahoma/Sisters In Song will begin rehearsals for our upcoming Christmas concert, Hope Peace Joy 2017 this coming Tuesday, August, 22, 2017 at the OKEQ Center. Rehearsals are from 7PM to 9PM and will be every Tuesday at that time. Please come join us if you love to sing and especially if you love to sing Christmas music. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op Holiday Concert Rehearsals begin August 22nd, See you there!!! Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org Lawyer in the Library September 13 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Click here for more information Healthcare Navigator By Appointment H.O.P.E. DIVAS 2017 - Icons of the 80s! Friday August 25, 6:30 p.m. - Reception, 7:45 p.m. - Dinner and Concert COX Assembly Hall at the Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Please join us for our Annual fundraiser and concert DIVAS 2017 Icons of the 80s! Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable 4/24/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews August 24th, 2017 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-24th--2017.... Dress Code: Cocktail with an 80s Flair! Honorary Chair: Tamara Benson VALET PARKING PROVIDED* Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - - Performers Include: Mark Gibson Music, Double Treble, Pam Van Dyke Crosby, FuZed, Heather Rumley, Rebecca Marks Jimerson & Andrew Witter! Counseling Services Sponsorship Levels Michael Jackson Sponsor $25,000 / 3 Premier Tables for 10 / Spotlight Seating / Program Recognition / Beverages Served at Your Tables / Limo Service Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Prince Sponsor $15,000 / 2 Premier Tables for 10 / Spotlight Seating / Program Recognition / Beverages served at Your Tables / Limo Service to and from Event Whitney Houston Sponsor $5,000 / 1 Premier Table for 10 / Spotlight Seating / Program Recognition / Limo Service to and from Event George Michael Sponsor $2,500 / 1 Table for 10 / Preferred Seating / Program Recognition / Limo Service to and from Event David Bowie Sponsor $1,750 / 1 Table for 10 / Preferred Seating / Program Recognition Leon Russell Sponsor $200 / Single Ticket / Reserved Seating / Program Recognition This year we are offering an opportunity to purchase a Dream Ticket. The Winner of the Dream Ticket will receive a Live Auction Item of choice! That's right, the winner can choose ANY one of the Live Auction Items from the list below! Only 150 tickets will be sold!!! Want a chance to win before bidding begins? Can't handle the pressure of Live bidding? This is your chance to win! How Much Does It Cost? Dream Tickets cost $100 each and can also purchase 3 for $250. Where can I buy a Dream Ticket? You may purchase your ticket(s) ahead of time online. Tickets will also be available the night of the Auction (if applicable). You must be in attendance when the ticket is drawn, in order to win. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center Green Country Bears 7 Year Anniversary Challenge Ok Bears, admirers, and allies,. It is our 7th year... Here is the challenge... Donate a $7.00 birthday present and challenge 7 of your friends to donate $7.00. Then have them challenge 7 more... keep the chain going. Pledge here Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . August Volunteer of the Month Josh Cancienne Josh has been volunteering with OKEQ since February 2017. He has always wanted to volunteer someplace LGBTQ oriented. After the 2016 election results, was motivated to volunteer at OKEQ and help any way he could. Josh loves coming to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "Where I know I'll be accepted no matter who or what I am. It's incredibly validating to be here with an organization doing great work in making Oklahoma a friendly place for LGBTQ+ people." Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . When not volunteering, Josh works as a web developer, enjoys hanging out with friends, playing video 4/24/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews August 24th, 2017 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-24th--2017.... games at home, singing, or drawing. His favorite events are the monthly Game Nights at OKEQ. "I get to meet new people and we play tabletop games. It's really fun and I hope more people come!" Josh definitely recommends people to come volunteer here because " You get to meet so many wonderful people in the LGBTQ+ community. You get a behind the scenes look at what it takes to do all the great work that OKEQ does for Tulsa and its surrounding areas." He adds " OKEQ wouldn't be what it is without it's volunteers and community leaders. YOU can help shape the organization and community. Even if you couldn't commit to volunteering, you could still start an event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and bring people from the community together. Talk with Jose Vega who can give you more information about starting an event!" If you would like to volunteer, click here or contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org August Video eNews Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/ affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 . Non-Binary Support Group Become a Voting member of Oklahomans for Equality Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday September 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The September Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the works by Slim Cook titled "Digital Divas", beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in 4/24/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews August 24th, 2017 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-24th--2017.... Slim was born and raised in Tulsa. He started his professional art career at the age of 12 doing custom airbrush paint jobs on race cars and motorcycles. After graduating from Will Rogers High School he enrolled at Tulsa Community College to study art. From there he received a scholarship to the University of Oklahoma where he received a BFA degree specializing in Metalsmithing and sculpture. He then earned a Masters of Fine Arts degree from Temple University's prestigious Tyler School of Art. After graduation he moved to New York City to work as a professional sculptor and model maker in the fashion industry. It was during that period where his long standing interest in customizing cars, motorcycles and other machines merged with his new experience in the art of artificially enhancing the human image through fashion. Exploration of that connection is now a major focus of his artistic endeavors. While he was in New York, along with his work in the fashion world, he also completed numerous large-scale public commissions, exhibitions and installations. He has recently returned to Tulsa to establish an Art Studio in his home town. for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan II Tulsa Area Prime Timers Slim muses about the implications of his art: "As the future unfolds, and the link between humans and technology becomes more personal, intimate and pervasive, we will gain an increasing power to shape and alter our own minds and bodies. Will humans and technology evolve into a kind of symbiotic life form? If we could build our own bodies, what choices would we make? In the future will the concept of "gender" become obsolete? How this evolution will affect the way we see ourselves, including ideas about beauty, gender-identity and body enhancement are the primary subjects of this exhibition." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, July 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 v Question, Prevent, and Refer - Suicide Prevention Training Gender Support Program Monday September 11, 11:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Thursday September 14, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Saturday September 30, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. - Candle Light Vigil immediately following training Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The training is called Question, Persuade and Refer (QPR). This training will help you recognize the warning signs, clues and suicidal communications of people in trouble, and gain skills to act vigorously to prevent a possible tragedy. Everyone will receive a Certificate of completion and they will become gate keepers in QPR. September 11, 11:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. - snack and learn September 14, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. September 30, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. September 30, 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. - Immediately following the training there will be speakers and a candle light vigil to remember all the GLBTQI-Two Spirit people who have completed suicide and are survivors of attempted suicide. Please RSVP to olivia.cotter@okeq.org NOH8 Photo Shoot Survivors of Incest Anonymous Sunday September 17, 2:00 - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Every Saturday 12:30 pm Join the #NOH8Worldwide movement in Tulsa, OK and add your face to the fight for equal human rights! COST : Single/Solo Photos: $40 Couple/Group Photos: $25 per person NOH8 accepts cash and credit cards only. Fees paid to participate cover services and costs for one edited digital print only, made available via noh8campaign.com, and do not include physical prints. * COME CAMERA-READY * * WEAR A WHITE SHIRT * * POSE & MAKE A STATEMENT! * NO SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org The NOH8 Campaign returns to Oklahomans For Equality @ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sunday, September 17th for an open photo shoot! Stop by anytime between 2pm-5pm to pose for an official NOH8 photo by photographer Adam Bouska. No reservations needed! Photos are first-come, first-served - and we move fast! Please arrive camera-ready with a plain white shirt to match the signature style of the NOH8 photos. When is the best time to arrive? Most people tend to arrive before the photo shoot begins, but as long as someone has lined up by the advertised end time for the photo shoot (5:00pm for this photo shoot), they should be guaranteed a chance to pose! Once you arrive, the next steps are easy! 1. Fill-out one numbered model release for each person. 2. Have a NOH8 temporary tattoo applied for your photo. 3. Standby for your number to be called. 4. Process your payment once called. 5. Trade your processed model release for duct tape! Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno NOH8 Co-Founder Adam Bouska will photograph roughly 5-10 frames per person. One frame will be selected/edited by our team and made available within approximately eight weeks (timeline subject to change). INTERESTED IN VOLUNTEERING? E-mail info@noh8campaign.com with your contact information and make sure to note which shoot you'd like to volunteer for! For more information visit www.noh8campaign.com/event/open-photo-shoot-in-tulsa-ok-3 4/24/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews August 24th, 2017 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-24th--2017.... EBA Mixer Wednesday September 20, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Cityscape Mortgage at Fifteenth and Home 5801 E 41st St #350, Tulsa, OK 74135 E UALITY Business All,ance Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Cityscape Home Mortgage is committed to providing you with the highest quality home loan service combined with the lowest mortgage rates available in all of Oklahoma. Whether you are a first time home buyer, moving up to your dream home, refinancing, or buying an investment property, our highly experienced team of mortgage bankers can help make your dreams come true. Cityscape has been in business since 2002 serving the Tulsa community and surrounding areas. We offer loan terms from 10 to 30 years, speedy local underwriting, funding at the table, and exceptional customer service. Our ultimate goal is to create lasting relationships with each of our clients so that we may continue providing excellent service for many years to come. Check out Cityscape Mortgage online at www.cityscapehome.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. 2017 Zarrow Mental Health Symposium - Challenging Injustice & Discrimination October 5-6 Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Why You Can't Miss It! ● Learn a full spectrum of tools and strategies related to programs, policies, and practices that challenge and/or combat injustice and discrimination, including any subsequent impact on mental health ● Connect & share ideas with over 800 peers and leading experts in the field! ● Receive critical CEU & ethics hours! To learn more about the Zarrow Mental Health Symposium, visit www.zarrowsymposium.org, call JoBeth Hamon at 405-778-8122. You may also email jhamon@mhaok.org. You have the power to challenge and combat systemic injustice and discrimination that can impact mental health! Learn how to take action to forever change your community at the 2017 Zarrow Mental Health Symposium - Challenging Injustice & Discrimination, October 5-6 in Tulsa, Okla. The Symposium is a unique opportunity to meet and connect with other like-minded attendees who are inspired to discuss the realities of injustice and discrimination and develop solutions to address these realities and long-term implications on mental health. Plus, you can receive valuable CEU and ethics hours! Stay up-to-date on conference updates & announcements! Visit www.zarrowsymposium.org. TULSA PROJECT THEATRE ANNOUNCES 2017-2018 SEASON Today, Tulsa Project Theatre (TPT), the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, announced its 2017-2018 season. Three of the season's productions are in collaboration with other AEA affiliates - two from Oklahoma City and one with whom fans of the hit TV shows, Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for 4/24/26, 4:02 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/bb93714c673dbf2f18db5b8826da1276.pdf 5132d3f70cc900aaea8506a58da5db0c PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 31st, 20117 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--20117... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews August 31st, 2017 oklohom:ms for equolity news In This Issue Hurricane Harvey Relief Fund Tulsa Progressive Ministers' Statement Tulsa Writers Ink Gay Men's Dinner Group 2017 OkEq Board Elections Hurricane Harvey Relief Fund "First Thursday" Art Opening Question, Prevent, and Refer -Suicide Prevention Training We have been receiving lots of inquiries into how people can help those affected by Hurricane Harvey. Our member center in Houston, The Montrose Center, sent us this information: Free Flu Shots NOH8 Photo Shoot August EBA Mixer The catastrophic and historic impact of Hurricane Harvey will be felt by the LGBTQ community of Houston, Texas for days, months, and potentially years to come. You can help LGBTQ community members displaced by the storm today by giving to the LGBTQ Disaster Relief Fund, managed by the Montrose Center - Houston's LGBTQ counseling and community center serving Houston for 39 years. With more than 35,000 clients in core programs they are already learning of staff and community members who have lost everything. Beyond Binaries: Identity & Sexuality Brought to You Bi the Letter B Sisters in Song Council Oak Mens Chorale THE COMMUNITY OF LGBT CENTERS The LGBTQ Disaster Relief Fund will be used to help individuals and families begin to rebuild their lives through counseling, case management, direct assistance with shelf stable food, furniture, housing and more. The Center's dedicated case management team is on call to help homeless youth, seniors, people living with HIV, hate crime survivors, and those devastated by the storm. CLICK HERE TO DONATE NOW The center is also accepting gift cards to help those impacted by the storm. Grocery (HEB, Sprouts, Trader Joes), Target, Walgreens or other pharmacy are most helpful, as are cash gift cards (Visa, AmEx, etc.), especially cards that do not have expiration dates. And if you're in and around one of the areas hit by Hurricane Harvey, you can find out more about volunteer opportunities with The Red Cross below. Green Country Bears Zarrow Mental Health Symposium TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Tulsa Public Schools Pride Store Rainbow Library Independence, KS Pride Beyond the Curtain: Gender and Dance The Perfect Wedding Show To learn more about volunteer opportunities go to: http://www.redcross.org/volunteer/become-a-volunteer#step1 Out for TCC Dissertation Research Tulsa Progressive Ministers' Statement "As a response to the "Nashville Statement", we the undersigned wish to express that the practice of Christianity is not monolithic and that while there may be churches in Tulsa that affirm the recent statement from this group of evangelicals, there are also many churches, faithful practitioners and church leaders who do not. Instead, we affirm the statement from Christians United in Support of LGBTQ+ Inclusion in the Church, which fully affirms, embraces, and celebrates the LGBTQ+ community who are, like all of humanity, created in God's image. Please know that those who signed the Nashville Statement do not speak for all Christians, and their limited views do not get to define you or Christianity. We lead churches full of people who will welcome and support you in your own faith journey." The Rev. Chris Moore Fellowship Congregational (United Church of Christ) The Rev. Fr. Dewayne Messenger The Parish Church of St. Jerome (Ecumenical Catholic Communion) The Rev. Kelli Driscoll Bethany Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) The Rev. Evan Taylor East Side Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) The Rev. Todd Freeman College Hill Presbyterian Church The Rev. Cathey Edwards Hope Unitarian Church The Rev. Bill Crowell St. Paul's United Methodist Church The Rev. Barbara Prose All Souls (Unitarian Universalist) OkEq Board Meeting Annual Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 7 Monthly Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 21 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an Exhibit Titled "Four Artists Four Styles". "Four Artists - Four Styles" is a group of 4 artists who work together bringing a juxtaposition of styles and mediums together for this show. The Rev. Courtney Richards Ordained Minister, Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) The Rev. Bill Hemm Forest Park Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) The Rev. Dr. Gary Peluso-Verdend President, Phillips Theological Seminary The Rev. Robert Martin First Lutheran Church (Evangelical Lutheran Church of America) Tulsa Writers Ink Every Saturday beginning September 2, 1:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews August 31st, 20117 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--20117... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are i n their writing career. First meeting will be Saturday Sept. 2 1pm-3pm . Tulsa Writers, Ink~ at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ~ Family Ties Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday September 5, 6:30 p.m. BC Steakhouse 5209 S. Sheridan Rd., Tulsa, OK 74145 It is our mission to deliver the most deliciously affordable hand-cut steak in T-town! If you are coming please let me know so I have a headcount for the reservation Gay Men's Dinner Group Richard Haley GuysDineToo@gmail.com Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op 2017 OkEq Annual Meeting Thursday September 7, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 7th, 2017 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Online voting begins September 1st Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org Lawyer in the Library September 13 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday September 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The September Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the works by Slim Cook titled "Digital Divas", beginning with a reception on Thursday, September Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable 4/24/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews August 31st, 20117 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--20117... 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppgreatplainsorg Slim was born and raised in Tulsa. He started his professional art career at the age of 12 doing custom airbrush paint jobs on race cars and motorcycles. After graduating from Will Rogers High School he enrolled at Tulsa Community College to study art. From there he received a scholarship to the University of Oklahoma where he received a BFA degree specializing in Metalsmithing and sculpture. He then earned a Masters of Fine Arts degree from Temple University's prestigious Tyler School of Art. After graduation he moved to New York City to work as a professional sculptor and model maker in the fashion industry. It was during that period where his long standing interest in customizing cars, motorcycles and other machines merged with his new experience in the art of artificially enhancing the human image through fashion. Exploration of that connection is now a major focus of his artistic endeavors. While he was in New York, along with his work in the fashion world, he also completed numerous large-scale public commissions, exhibitions and installations. He has recently returned to Tulsa to establish an Art Studio in his home town. Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Slim muses about the implications of his art: "As the future unfolds, and the link between humans and technology becomes more personal, intimate and pervasive, we will gain an increasing power to shape and alter our own minds and bodies. Will humans and technology evolve into a kind of symbiotic life form? If we could build our own bodies, what choices would we make? In the future will the concept of "gender" become obsolete? How this evolution will affect the way we see ourselves, including ideas about beauty, gender-identity and body enhancement are the primary subjects of this exhibition." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, September 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center Question, Prevent, and Refer - Suicide Prevention Training Monday September 11, 11:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Thursday September 14, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Saturday September 30, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. - Candle Light Vigil immediately following training Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The training is called Question, Persuade and Refer (QPR). This training will help you recognize the warning signs, clues and suicidal communications of people in trouble, and gain skills to act vigorously to prevent a possible tragedy. Everyone will receive a Certificate of completion and they will become gate keepers in QPR. September 11, 11:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. - snack and learn September 14, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. September 30, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . September 30, 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. - Immediately following the training there will be speakers and a candle light vigil to remember all the GLBTQI-Two Spirit people who have completed suicide and are survivors of attempted suicide. Please RSVP to olivia.cotter@okeq.org Free Flu Shots at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, September 16, 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for your free Flu Shot provided by Walgreens FIGHT ~ FLU NOH8 Photo Shoot Sunday September 17, 2:00 - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the #NOH8Worldwide movement in Tulsa, OK and add your face to the fight for equal human rights! COST : Single/Solo Photos: $40 Couple/Group Photos: $25 per person NOH8 accepts cash and credit cards only. Fees paid to participate cover services and costs for one edited digital print only, made available via noh8campaign.com, and do not include physical prints. * COME CAMERA-READY * * WEAR A WHITE SHIRT * * POSE & MAKE A STATEMENT! * The NOH8 Campaign returns to Oklahomans For Equality @ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sunday, September 17th for an open photo shoot! Stop by anytime between 2pm-5pm to pose for an official NOH8 photo by photographer Adam Bouska. No reservations needed! NO Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Photos are first-come, first-served - and we move fast! Please arrive camera-ready with a plain white shirt to match the signature style of the NOH8 photos. When is the best time to arrive? Most people tend to arrive before the photo shoot begins, but as long as someone 4/24/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews August 31st, 20117 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--20117... has lined up by the advertised end time for the photo shoot (5:00pm for this photo shoot), they should be guaranteed a chance to pose! Once you arrive, the next steps are easy! 1. Fill-out one numbered model release for each person. 2. Have a NOH8 temporary tattoo applied for your photo. 3. Standby for your number to be called. 4. Process your payment once called. 5. Trade your processed model release for duct tape! NOH8 Co-Founder Adam Bouska will photograph roughly 5-10 frames per person. One frame will be selected/edited by our team and made available within approximately eight weeks (timeline subject to change). INTERESTED IN VOLUNTEERING? E-mail info@noh8campaign.com with your contact information and make sure to note which shoot you'd like to volunteer for! For more information visit www.noh8campaign.com/event/open-photo-shoot-in-tulsa-ok-3 EBA Mixer Wednesday September 20, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Cityscape Mortgage at Fifteenth and Home 1512 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 E Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. UALITY Business Alliance Cityscape Home Mortgage is committed to providing you with the highest quality home loan service combined with the lowest mortgage rates available in all of Oklahoma. Whether you are a first time home buyer, moving up to your dream home, refinancing, or buying an investment property, our highly experienced team of mortgage bankers can help make your dreams come true. Cityscape has been in business since 2002 serving the Tulsa community and surrounding areas. We offer loan terms from 10 to 30 years, speedy local underwriting, funding at the table, and exceptional customer service. Our ultimate goal is to create lasting relationships with each of our clients so that we may continue providing excellent service for many years to come. Check out Cityscape Mortgage online at www.cityscapehome.com --- The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Beyond Binaries: Identity & Sexuality Wednesday September 27, 6:00 p.m. OSU-Tulsa - BS Roberts Room 700 N. Greenwood Ave., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74106 OSU-Tulsa is hosting LGBTQ+ scholar and activist Robyn Ochs on September 27 for a public workshop, Beyond Binaries: Identity and Sexuality in the BS Roberts Room. The workshop will cover the following: Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. How do we assign labels to our complicated and unique experiences of 4/24/26, 4:03 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d97272525885105a3092150dc5f74a17.pdf 41d9b35c1ec0004aac3633ea6b8e8ead PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 6th, 20117 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-6th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news oklohom:ms for equolity 2017 OkEq Annual Meeting September 6th, 2017 In This Issue 2017 OkEq Board Elections "First Thursday" Art Opening QPOC Movie on the Rooftop Memorial Service for Mike Davis Hurricane Harvey Relief Fund Tulsa Progressive Ministers' Statement Thursday September 7, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 September Video eNews Question, Prevent, and Refer - Suicide Prevention Training The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 7th, 2017 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Join us for refreshments and staff presentations on the incredible work at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Voting ends September 7th at 7:00 p.m. Free Flu Shots NOH8 Photo Shoot August EBA Mixer National Voter Registration Day - - - -· Beyond Binaries: Identity & Sexuality Brought to You Bi the Letter B CommUNITY Picnic Sisters in Song Council Oak Mens Chorale Zarrow Mental Health Symposium TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Pride Store Rainbow Library Independence, KS Pride Beyond the Curtain: Gender and Dance The Perfect Wedding Show Out for TCC Dissertation Research OkEq Board Meeting Annual Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 7 "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday September 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Monthly Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 21 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The September Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the works by Slim Cook titled "Digital Divas", beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Slim was born and raised in Tulsa. He started his professional art career at the age of 12 doing custom airbrush paint jobs on race cars and motorcycles. After graduating from Will Rogers High School he enrolled at Tulsa Community College to study art. From there he received a scholarship to the University of Oklahoma where he received a BFA degree specializing in Metalsmithing and sculpture. He then earned a Masters of Fine Arts degree from Temple University's prestigious Tyler School of Art. After graduation he moved to New York City to work as a professional sculptor and model maker in the fashion industry. It was during that period where his long standing interest in customizing cars, motorcycles and other machines merged with his new experience in the art of artificially enhancing the human image through fashion. Exploration of that connection is now a major focus of his artistic endeavors. While he was in New York, along with his work in the fashion world, he also completed numerous large-scale public commissions, exhibitions and installations. He has recently returned to Tulsa to establish an Art Studio in his home town. OkEq Art Exhibition The September OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the works by Slim Cook titled "Digital Divas", beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Slim muses about the implications of his art: "As the future unfolds, and the link between humans and technology becomes 4/24/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews September 6th, 20117 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-6th--201... more personal, intimate and pervasive, we will gain an increasing power to shape and alter our own minds and bodies. Will humans and technology evolve into a kind of symbiotic life form? If we could build our own bodies, what choices would we make? In the future will the concept of "gender" become obsolete? How this evolution will affect the way we see ourselves, including ideas about beauty, gender-identity and body enhancement are the primary subjects of this exhibition." - - -- - - - - - Family Ties The show begins with a reception on Thursday, September 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org QPOC Movie on the Rooftop Friday September 8, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Get ready for the Queer People of Color Support Group's next social. This event is open to everybody in the LGBTQ+ community and those who support us! Join us for Paris is Burning, popcorn and snacks provided by OkEq and beautiful loving community provided by all of you! Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op Memorial Service for Mike Davis Saturday, September 9, 12:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 Mike Davis passed from this life on Monday, August 28th. A Memorial Service for Mike Davis will be held at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, on Saturday, September 9th at Noon. Mike was an integral part of Council Oak Men's Chorale for many years. He performed with COMC in various concerts and at several GALA Festivals. Mike had a wonderful voice and a great sense of humor that was a great addition to the chorale. Mike also helped the chorale with his musical talent by picking pieces of music for the chorale to sing during various concerts. Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org Mike worked as a physician at Saint Francis Hospital and will be missed the many he helped in Tulsa. Hurricane Harvey Relief Fund Lawyer in the Library September 13 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. We have been receiving lots of inquiries into how people can help those affected by Hurricane Harvey. Our member center in Houston, The Montrose Center, sent us this information: The catastrophic and historic impact of Hurricane Harvey will be felt by the LGBTQ community of Houston, Texas for days, months, and potentially years to come. You can help LGBTQ community members displaced by the storm today by giving to the LGBTQ Disaster Relief Fund, managed by the Montrose Center - Houston's LGBTQ counseling and community center serving Houston for 39 years. With more than 35,000 clients in core programs they are already learning of staff and community members who have lost everything. CENTER NK THE COM MU ITY OF LGBT CENTERS Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. The LGBTQ Disaster Relief Fund will be used to help individuals and families begin to rebuild their lives through counseling, case management, direct assistance with shelf stable food, furniture, housing and more. The Center's dedicated case management team is on call to help homeless youth, seniors, people living with HIV, hate crime survivors, and those devastated by the storm. Healthcare Navigator CLICK HERE TO DONATE NOW Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppgreatplainsorg The center is also accepting gift cards to help those impacted by the storm. Grocery (HEB, Sprouts, Trader Joes), Target, Walgreens or other pharmacy are most helpful, as are cash gift cards (Visa, AmEx, etc.), especially cards that do not have expiration dates. And if you're in and around one of the areas hit by Hurricane Harvey, you can find out more about volunteer opportunities with The Red Cross below. To learn more about volunteer opportunities go to: http://www.redcross.org/volunteer/become-a-volunteer#step1 Tulsa Progressive Ministers' Statement "As a response to the "Nashville Statement", we the undersigned wish to express that the practice of Christianity is not monolithic and that while there may be churches in Tulsa that affirm the recent statement from this group of evangelicals, there are also many churches, faithful practitioners and church leaders who do not. Instead, we affirm the statement from Christians United in Support of LGBTQ+ Inclusion in the Church, which fully affirms, embraces, and celebrates the LGBTQ+ community who are, like all of humanity, created in God's image. By Appointment Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Please know that those who signed the Nashville Statement do not speak for all Christians, and their limited views do not get to define you or Christianity. We lead churches full of people who will welcome and support you in your own faith journey." The Rev. Chris Moore Fellowship Congregational (United Church of Christ) The Rev. Fr. Dewayne Messenger The Parish Church of St. Jerome (Ecumenical Catholic Communion) The Rev. Kelli Driscoll Bethany Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays 4/24/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews September 6th, 20117 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-6th--201... The Rev. Evan Taylor East Side Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The Rev. Todd Freeman College Hill Presbyterian Church The Rev. Cathey Edwards Hope Unitarian Church The Rev. Bill Crowell St. Paul's United Methodist Church OSU Tulsa Counseling Center The Rev. Barbara Prose All Souls (Unitarian Universalist) The Rev. Courtney Richards Ordained Minister, Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) The Rev. Bill Hemm Forest Park Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) The Rev. Dr. Gary Peluso-Verdend President, Phillips Theological Seminary The Rev. Robert Martin First Lutheran Church (Evangelical Lutheran Church of America) Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . September Video eNews Question, Prevent, and Refer - Suicide Prevention Training Monday September 11, 11:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Thursday September 14, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Saturday September 30, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. - Candle Light Vigil immediately following training Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . The training is called Question, Persuade and Refer (QPR). This training will help you recognize the warning signs, clues and suicidal communications of people in trouble, and gain skills to act vigorously to prevent a possible tragedy. Everyone will receive a Certificate of completion and they will become gate keepers in QPR. September 11, 11:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. - snack and learn September 14, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. September 30, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. September 30, 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. - Immediately following the training there will be speakers and a candle light vigil to remember all the GLBTQI-Two Spirit people who have completed suicide and are survivors of attempted suicide. Please RSVP to olivia.cotter@okeq.org Free Flu and Rabies Shots at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, September 16, 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for your free Flu Shot provided by Walgreens. FIGHT 4 The Animals Veterinary Clinic will be providing free Rabies Shot Bartlesville's only mobile veterinary clinic. ~ FLU NOH8 Photo Shoot Sunday September 17, 2:00 - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the #NOH8Worldwide movement in Tulsa, OK and add your face to the fight for equal human rights! COST : Single/Solo Photos: $40 Couple/Group Photos: $25 per person n Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. 4/24/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews September 6th, 20117 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-6th--201... NOH8 accepts cash and credit cards only. Fees paid to participate cover services and costs for one edited digital print only, made available via noh8campaign.com, and do not include physical prints. * COME CAMERA-READY * * WEAR A WHITE SHIRT * * POSE & MAKE A STATEMENT! * The NOH8 Campaign returns to Oklahomans For Equality @ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sunday, September 17th for an open photo shoot! Stop by anytime between 2pm-5pm to pose for an official NOH8 photo by photographer Adam Bouska. No reservations needed! Photos are first-come, first-served - and we move fast! Please arrive camera-ready with a plain white shirt to match the signature style of the NOH8 photos. When is the best time to arrive? Most people tend to arrive before the photo shoot begins, but as long as someone has lined up by the advertised end time for the photo shoot (5:00pm for this photo shoot), they should be guaranteed a chance to pose! Once you arrive, the next steps are easy! 1. Fill-out one numbered model release for each person. 2. Have a NOH8 temporary tattoo applied for your photo. 3. Standby for your number to be called. 4. Process your payment once called. 5. Trade your processed model release for duct tape! NOH8 Co-Founder Adam Bouska will photograph roughly 5-10 frames per person. One frame will be selected/edited by our team and made available within approximately eight weeks (timeline subject to change). INTERESTED IN VOLUNTEERING? E-mail info@noh8campaign.com with your contact information and make sure to note which shoot you'd like to volunteer for! For more information visit www.noh8campaign.com/event/open-photo-shoot-in-tulsa-ok-3 Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 EBA Mixer Wednesday September 20, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Cityscape Mortgage at Fifteenth and Home 1512 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 E UALITY Business Alliance Cityscape Home Mortgage is committed to providing you with the highest quality home loan service combined with the lowest mortgage rates available in all of Oklahoma. Whether you are a first time home buyer, moving up to your dream home, refinancing, or buying an investment property, our highly experienced team of mortgage bankers can help make your dreams come true. Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Cityscape has been in business since 2002 serving the Tulsa community and surrounding areas. We offer loan terms from 10 to 30 years, speedy local underwriting, funding at the table, and exceptional customer service. Our ultimate goal is to create lasting relationships with each of our clients so that we may continue providing excellent service for many years to come. Check out Cityscape Mortgage online at www.cityscapehome.com --- The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with 4/24/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews September 6th, 20117 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-6th--201... Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. National Voter Registration Day Tuesday September 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Did you know that according to Pew Research, "Gay, lesbian and bisexual voters may make up a relatively small share of the American electorate - just 5% of voters in the 2012 general election identified as LGB, according to national exit polls." ?And according to the Williams Institute, "Thirty percent of the voting-eligible transgender population in eight states (Alabama, Georgia, Indiana, Kansas, Mississippi, Tennessee, Virginia, and Wisconsin) have no identification or records that accurately reflect their gender." Those are just two reasons that engaging in the elections this year is critically important. During "off-year" elections like 2017, our constituents are not exposed to pervasive ads and telephone calls, and therefore may not even know there is an election. Yet, local and state elections have huge impacts on their lives from public services and local taxes to their school board, and more. VOTE This will be one of our first efforts to gear up for the 2018 elections. Considering all the issues being debated in DC right now, we definitely need to get our constituents registered and energized to vote. Beyond Binaries: Identity & Sexuality Wednesday September 27, 6:00 p.m. OSU-Tulsa - BS Roberts Room 700 N. Greenwood Ave., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74106 OSU-Tulsa is hosting LGBTQ+ scholar and activist Robyn Ochs on September 27 for a public workshop, Beyond Binaries: Identity and Sexuality in the BS Roberts Room. The workshop will cover the following: How do we assign labels to our complicated and unique experiences of sexuality? In this interactive program, we will explore the landscape of sexuality, conduct a thought-provoking anonymous survey of those present, and look together at the data. Where do we fall on various sexuality continua? How do we label? How old were we when we came to our identities and to our sexualities? How asexual/sexual are we? How well do our friends/family members understand our sexuality? This program will expand your perspective and change the way you think about labels. Robyn Ochs is an educator, speaker award-winning activist, and editor of the Bi Women Quarterly, the 42-country anthology, Getting Bi: Voices of Bisexuals Around The World and the new anthology RECOGNIZE: The Voices of Bisexual Men. Her writings have been published in numerous bi, women's studies, multicultural, and LGBT journals. This workshop is brought to you by American Studies, Gender and Women's Studies, History, the Office of Multicultural Affairs, the Clinical Psychology program, with support from the Fae Rowden Norris Foundation and the OSU-Tulsa Provost's Office. Connect on Facebook Bi Visibility Rooftop Rally Saturday September 23, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OKEQ's Brought To You Bi The Letter B welcomes you to our second annual 'Stand Bi Me' rooftop celebration of Bi Visibility Day,September 23rd from 6-10pm on the roof of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! This event is to celebrate bisexual, pansexual, and fluid identities as well as their allies! We will have music, refreshments, stories, and some giveaways! Please come celebrate bi visibility with us! Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. CommUNITY Picnic Sunday October 1, 11:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Chandler Park 6500 W 21st St, Tulsa, OK 74107 Bring your own food and drinks, grills will be available. Come out and enjoy hanging out with people from across our community in Tulsa. Family friendly event. Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Bl VISIBILITY DAY Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Sisters in Song Rehearsal Tuesdays, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Diversity Arts Association of Oklahoma/Sisters In Song will begin rehearsals for our upcoming Christmas concert, Hope Peace Joy 2017 this coming Tuesday, August, 22, 2017 at the OKEQ Center. Rehearsals are from 7PM to 9PM and will be every Tuesday at that time. Please come join us if you love to sing and especially if you love to sing Christmas music. 4/24/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews September 6th, 20117 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-6th--201... Holiday Concert Rehearsals begin August 22nd, See you there!!! (oVN(I~ 0 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) EN'S Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan floRA~E Tulsa Area Prime Timers Click here for more information 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 2017 Zarrow Mental Health Symposium - Challenging Injustice & Discrimination October 5-6 Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Why You Can't Miss It! ● Learn a full spectrum of tools and strategies related to programs, policies, and practices that challenge and/or combat injustice and discrimination, including any subsequent impact on mental health ● Connect & share ideas with over 800 peers and leading experts in the field! ● Receive critical CEU & ethics hours! Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org To learn more about the Zarrow Mental Health Symposium, visit www.zarrowsymposium.org, call JoBeth Hamon at 405-778-8122. You may also email jhamon@mhaok.org. You have the power to challenge and combat systemic injustice and discrimination that can impact mental health! Learn how to take action to forever change your community at the 2017 Zarrow Mental Health Symposium - Challenging Injustice & Discrimination, October 5-6 in Tulsa, Okla. The Symposium is a unique opportunity to meet and connect with other like-minded attendees who are inspired to discuss the realities of injustice and discrimination and develop solutions to address these realities and long-term implications on mental health. Plus, you can receive valuable CEU and ethics hours! Game Night 4/24/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews September 6th, 20117 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-6th--201... Stay up-to-date on conference updates & announcements! Visit www.zarrowsymposium.org. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Tulsa Project Theatre's 2017-2018 season is about to kick off Today, Tulsa Project Theatre (TPT), the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, announced its 2017-2018 season. Three of the season's productions are in collaboration with other AEA affiliates - two from Oklahoma City and one with whom fans of the hit TV shows, Big Bang Theory and Speechless, may be familiar. In September, TPT joins forces with Lyric Theatre of Oklahoma with the play, I AM MY OWN WIFE. TPT Artistic Director and Lyric veteran, Matthew Alvin Brown portrays over 30 characters in a tour-de-force performance in the Norman Theatre at the Tulsa PAC. In February 2018, TPT returns to the intimate Norman Theatre at the Tulsa PAC to present the Regional Premiere of John Ross Bowie's FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN. This brand new non-musical play centers on the iconic punk band, The Ramones, as they record their fifth album with eccentric music producer, Phil Spector. Focusing on the period in 1979-1980 when the band stood on the edge of breaking out, and Spector needed a hit, this intense black comedy sheds light on an important and overlooked moment in rock history. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN was written by actor and comedian John Ross Bowie, best known for his role as Barry Kripke in the CBS show THE BIG BANG THEORY and currently as Jimmy Dimeo on the ABC show SPEECHLESS. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN runs February 16-25, 2018. TICK...TICK...BOOM! is an autobiographical musical by Jonathan Larson, the late Pulitzer Prize- and Tony Awardwinning composer of Rent, which tells the story of a composer and the sacrifices he made to achieve his big break, eventually leading to a Broadway blockbuster. His girlfriend wants to get married and move out of the city, his best friend is making big bucks on Madison Avenue and, yet, Jon is still waiting tables and trying to write the great American rock musical. Set in 1990, this compelling story of personal discovery embraces the universal ideal of holding onto your dreams through life's most difficult challenges. Before RENT, there was TICK...TICK...BOOM! The production will run for a weekend in Oklahoma City before arriving in Tulsa for a limited run on April 27 - 29, 2018. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. - Tulsa Project Theatre will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera LIZZIE, set to run July 13-22, \'Tll]l1..[ 2018. On a sweltering summer morning in 1892, in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden was the prime suspect and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. LIZZIE features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. LIZZIE is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. • EBA Directory , • , , • The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information Equality Center Pride Store 2017 Tulsa Pride Shirts are still a vailable in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store for $20.00 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and 4/24/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews September 6th, 20117 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-6th--201... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Trouble in Transylvania" By: Barbara Wilson Cassandra Reilly arrives in Venice to see why her best friend Nicky Gibbons, bassoonist extraordinaire, has been accused of stealing a Venetian family heirloom. With an international cast of characters, the luminous backdrop of Venice, and the author's trademark wit, the mystery is as thrilling as a vaporetto ride. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews September 6th, 20117 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-6th--201... Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Beyond the Curtain: Gender and Dance Fri, September 8, 5:30 p.m. Studio K, Tulsa Ballet Theater, Inc. 1212 E. 45th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 FREE EVENT featuring an interactive panel discussion with female leaders in the fields of dance and creativity. This year, Tulsa Ballet's annual new works program, Creations in Studio K, is dedicated to the power of the female voice. Showcased are three female choreographers: Helen Pickett, Annabelle Lopez Ochoa and Young Soon Hue. Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Join Tulsa Ballet Friday September 8th from 5:30-7:00 p.m. in our intimate Studio K Theater for a panel discussion and Q&A with the Choreographers, along with the Editor in Chief of Pointe Magazine, Amy Brandt. This exciting event will be moderated by Chloe Angyal, the Senior Front Page Editor of the Huffington Post. Enjoy wine and hors d'oeuvres afterwards on stage with the panelists. The event is free but space is limited. RSVP today through EventBrite or by calling 918-749-6006. 4/24/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews September 6th, 20117 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-6th--201... ..,...., C O MPllfl WED ESDAY, OCTO ER 11, 2017 TCC E OCAM US STUDE TU ION 9:30 AM - 1:00 P Co-sponsored w it h Ok lahomans For Equality TULSA COMMUNITY COLLEGE TulsaCC.edu 4/24/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews September 6th, 20117 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-6th--201... LGBT Participants Wanted for Dissertation Research For Dissertation Study on the experiences of "coming out" to conservative religious parents. This study is in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the Degree of Doctor of Philosophy in General Psychology for Capella Univesity. MUST MEET THE FOLLOWING CRITERIA: • LGBT • Between the ages of 19-25 • Have "come out" to conservative religious parents. • Have "come out" to parents for at least one (1) full year. • Be willing to be interviewed about your experience. YOU SHOULD KNOW: • All interviews will be confidential • All participants will receive a $5.00 gift card to Quik Trip • Interviews will be conducted at a room at one of the Tulsa City-County Library Branches. HOW TO PARTICIPATE: Contact: Carrie Fleharty Ph.D. candidate in General Psychology Call: 539-302-7131 Email: Cfleharty@capellauniversity.edu Approval Letter from Capella University for research. Doctoral Candidate Badge r----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 4:03 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1050bd3abc6ff0f7f42659e2f7e5a642.pdf 01a72659cf02168e7203850004f1230e PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 13th, 2017 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-13th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews September 13th, 2017 oklohom:ms for equolity news In This Issue Question, Prevent, and Refer -- Suicide Prevention Training Free Flu Shots Tulsa Threat Car Wash. NOH8 Photo Shoot Question, Prevent, and Refer - Suicide Prevention Training Artist Call for 2018 Thursday September 14, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Saturday September 30, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. - Candle Light Vigil immediately following training Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 August EBA Mixer Brought to You Bi the Letter B National Voter Registration Day The training is called Question, Persuade and Refer (QPR). This training will help you recognize the warning signs, clues and suicidal communications of people in trouble, and gain skills to act vigorously to prevent a possible tragedy. Beyond Binaries: Identity & Sexuality CommUNITY Picnic Everyone will receive a Certificate of completion and they will become gate keepers in QPR. Sisters in Song Council Oak Mens Chorale September 14, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. September 30, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. "First Thursday" Art Opening Zarrow Mental Health Symposium September 30, 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. - Immediately following the training there will be speakers and a candle light vigil to remember all the GLBTQI-Two Spirit people who have completed suicide and are survivors of attempted suicide. TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Before The I Do Please RSVP to olivia.cotter@okeq.org Pride Store Rainbow Library Free Flu and Rabies Shots at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Out for TCC Saturday, September 16, 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 September Video eNews Tulsa Progressive Ministers' Statement Hurricane Harvey Relief Fund Dissertation Research Stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for your free Flu Shot provided by Walgreens. FIGHT 4 The Animals Veterinary Clinic will be providing free Rabies Shot Bartlesville's only mobile veterinary clinic. ~ FLU Tulsa Threat Car Wash OkEq Board Meeting Saturday September 16, 12:00 p.m. Ace Hardware 2235 E 61st St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136 It's that time again! Come see us and get your car washed by the Tulsa Threat ladies and help us raise money for the 2018 season! See you there! Monthly Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 21 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The September OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the works by Slim Cook titled "Digital Divas", beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. NOH8 Photo Shoot Sunday September 17, 2:00 - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the #NOH8Worldwide movement in Tulsa, OK and add your face to the fight for equal human rights! COST : Single/Solo Photos: $40 Couple/Group Photos: $25 per person NOH8 accepts cash and credit cards only. Fees paid to participate cover services and costs for one edited digital print only, made available via noh8campaign.com, and do not include physical prints. * COME CAMERA-READY * * WEAR A WHITE SHIRT * * POSE & MAKE A STATEMENT! * The NOH8 Campaign returns to Oklahomans For Equality @ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sunday, NO u Family Ties 4/24/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews September 13th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-13th--20... September 17th for an open photo shoot! Stop by anytime between 2pm-5pm to pose for an official NOH8 photo by photographer Adam Bouska. No reservations needed! Photos are first-come, first-served - and we move fast! Please arrive camera-ready with a plain white shirt to match the signature style of the NOH8 photos. n When is the best time to arrive? Most people tend to arrive before the photo shoot begins, but as long as someone has lined up by the advertised end time for the photo shoot (5:00pm for this photo shoot), they should be guaranteed a chance to pose! Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Once you arrive, the next steps are easy! 1. Fill-out one numbered model release for each person. 2. Have a NOH8 temporary tattoo applied for your photo. 3. Standby for your number to be called. 4. Process your payment once called. 5. Trade your processed model release for duct tape! NOH8 Co-Founder Adam Bouska will photograph roughly 5-10 frames per person. One frame will be selected/edited by our team and made available within approximately eight weeks (timeline subject to change). Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op INTERESTED IN VOLUNTEERING? E-mail info@noh8campaign.com with your contact information and make sure to note which shoot you'd like to volunteer for! For more information visit www.noh8campaign.com/event/open-photo-shoot-in-tulsa-ok-3 Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org Lawyer in the Library September 13 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Artist Call for 2018 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2018 Exhibition Calendar. Our gallery encourages emerging artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media, including installation works to apply. Details: Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is installed on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to donate a piece as a door prize which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc) for each piece. A bio and artist statement are due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. How to Apply: Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted by email. Proposals incorporating the work of two artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppgreatplainsorg Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Deadline for submissions is October 20, 2017. Notifications will be sent out by November 3, 2017. Please submit by e-mail to j ose.vega@okeq.org, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" EBA Mixer Wednesday September 20, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Cityscape Mortgage at Fifteenth and Home 1512 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a 4/24/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews September 13th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-13th--20... E Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Business Alliance Cityscape Home Mortgage is committed to providing you with the highest quality home loan service combined with the lowest mortgage rates available in all of Oklahoma. Whether you are a first time home buyer, moving up to your dream home, refinancing, or buying an investment property, our highly experienced team of mortgage bankers can help make your dreams come true. Cityscape has been in business since 2002 serving the Tulsa community and surrounding areas. We offer loan terms from 10 to 30 years, speedy local underwriting, funding at the table, and exceptional customer service. Our ultimate goal is to create lasting relationships with each of our clients so that we may continue providing excellent service for many years to come. Check out Cityscape Mortgage online at www.cityscapehome.com The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Stand Bi Me Rooftop Party Saturday September 23, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OKEQ's Brought To You Bi The Letter B welcomes you to our second annual 'Stand Bi Me' rooftop celebration of Bi Visibility Day, September 23rd from 6-10pm on the roof of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! This event is to celebrate bisexual, pansexual, and fluid identities as well as their allies! We will have music, refreshments, stories, and some giveaways! Please come celebrate bi visibility with us! OSU Tulsa Counseling Center Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Bisexual support group at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tell all your friends. The group is open to all bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies. National Voter Registration Day Tuesday September 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Every year millions of Americans find themselves unable to vote because they miss a registration deadline, don't update their registration, or aren't sure how to register. Come to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center any time between 12pm - 9pm and register to vote. Did you know that according to Pew Research, "Gay, lesbian and bisexual voters may make up a relatively small share of the American electorate - just 5% of voters in the 2012 general election identified as LGB, according to national exit polls." ?And according to the Williams Institute, "Thirty percent of the voting-eligible transgender population in eight states (Alabama, Georgia, Indiana, Kansas, Mississippi, Tennessee, Virginia, and Wisconsin) have no identification or records that accurately reflect their gender." Those are just two reasons that engaging in the elections this year is critically important. During "off-year" elections like 2017, our constituents are not exposed to pervasive ads and telephone calls, and therefore may not even know there is an election. Yet, local and state elections have huge impacts on their lives from public services and local taxes to their school board, and more. Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. This will be one of our first efforts to gear up for the 2018 elections. Considering all the issues being 4/24/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews September 13th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-13th--20... debated in DC right now, we definitely need to get our constituents registered and energized to vote. Beyond Binaries: Identity & Sexuality Wednesday September 27, 6:00 p.m. OSU-Tulsa - BS Roberts Room 700 N. Greenwood Ave., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74106 OSU-Tulsa is hosting LGBTQ+ scholar and activist Robyn Ochs on September 27 for a public workshop, Beyond Binaries: Identity and Sexuality in the BS Roberts Room. The workshop will cover the following: How do we assign labels to our complicated and unique experiences of sexuality? In this interactive program, we will explore the landscape of sexuality, conduct a thought-provoking anonymous survey of those present, and look together at the data. Where do we fall on various sexuality continua? How do we label? How old were we when we came to our identities and to our sexualities? How asexual/sexual are we? How well do our friends/family members understand our sexuality? This program will expand your perspective and change the way you think about labels. Robyn Ochs is an educator, speaker award-winning activist, and editor of the Bi Women Quarterly, the 42-country anthology, Getting Bi: Voices of Bisexuals Around The World and the new anthology RECOGNIZE: The Voices of Bisexual Men. Her writings have been published in numerous bi, women's studies, multicultural, and LGBT journals. This workshop is brought to you by American Studies, Gender and Women's Studies, History, the Office of Multicultural Affairs, the Clinical Psychology program, with support from the Fae Rowden Norris Foundation and the OSU-Tulsa Provost's Office. Connect on Facebook Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 CommUNITY Picnic Sunday October 1, 11:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Chandler Park 6500 W 21st St, Tulsa, OK 74107 Bring your own food and drinks, grills will be available. Come out and enjoy hanging out with people from across our community in Tulsa. Family friendly event. Sisters in Song Rehearsal Tuesdays, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Diversity Arts Association of Oklahoma/Sisters In Song will begin rehearsals for our upcoming Christmas concert, Hope Peace Joy 2017 this coming Tuesday, August, 22, 2017 at the OKEQ Center. Rehearsals are from 7PM to 9PM and will be every Tuesday at that time. Please come join us if you love to sing and especially if you love to sing Christmas music. "~ 5 1-sters ~ ~ ,n5 ong ~ Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Holiday Concert Rehearsals begin August 22nd, See you there!!! oVN(I~ 0 EN'S HoRA~E Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with 4/24/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews September 13th, 2017 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-13th--20... ' .. Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. ' , .• '. I . i ' • f Click here for more information "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday October 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the combined works of Carlyn Ritter and Shauna Henry, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. These two creative artists tempt you with this invitation: "Journey with us to the secret world of dolls. Look through the keyholes, in the shadowy parts of the forest, or even in the hidden recesses of your mind. From sweet to sinister, they live in the in between places. Sewn, twisted and sculpted into being, they will whisper their stories to you if only you will listen". As an artist, Carlyn Ritter has always been interested in making art with movement. Twenty eight years ago she started making and fixing marionettes. When she first came across art dolls eight years into her career, it became clear she would devote her artistic life to dolls. Art dolls gave her the freedom to create an art form that demonstrates movement without the strings or having to physically move the image. Often the dolls are personified into beings we cannot be, or are performing movement we cannot. They become a dancer, cast a spell, or ride a wild animal. Images that tell a story simply by their costume, pose and accessories is what completes the piece for her. Carlyn has been published in Art Doll Quarterly magazine several times and is a member of the Tulsa Association of Doll Artists. Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Growing up Shauna Henry has always been fascinated by secret worlds and hidden things. Fueled by her love of fairy tales and dark whimsy, she creates fanciful figures and enchanted beings. She started creating art dolls in 2010 and has been captivated by the unique art form ever since. Shauna is a member of the Professional Doll Makers Art Guild, Tulsa Association of Doll Artists and has been published in Art Doll Quarterly magazine. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, October 10th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com 2017 Zarrow Mental Health Symposium - Challenging Injustice & Discrimination October 5-6 Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Why You Can't Miss It! ● Learn a full spectrum of tools and strategies related to programs, policies, and practices that challenge and/or combat injustice and discrimination, including any subsequent impact on mental health ● Connect & share ideas with over 800 peers and leading experts in the field! ● Receive critical CEU & ethics hours! To learn more about the Zarrow Mental Health Symposium, visit www.zarrowsymposium.org, - - - call JoBeth Hamon at 405-778-8122. You may also email jhamon@mhaok.org. You have the power to challenge and combat systemic injustice and discrimination that can impact mental health! Learn how to take action to forever change your community at the 2017 Zarrow Mental Health Symposium - Challenging Injustice & Discrimination, October 5-6 in Tulsa, Okla. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The Symposium is a unique opportunity to meet and connect with other like-minded attendees who are inspired to discuss the realities of injustice and discrimination and develop solutions to address these realities and long-term implications on mental health. Plus, you can receive valuable CEU and ethics hours! Stay up-to-date on conference updates & announcements! Visit www.zarrowsymposium.org. ---- Tulsa Project Theatre's 2017-2018 season is about to kick off I am My Own Wife Brought to You Bi the Letter B September 13-24 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Today, Tulsa Project Theatre (TPT), the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, announced its 2017-2018 season. Three of the season's productions are in collaboration with other AEA affiliates - two from Oklahoma City and one with whom fans of the hit TV shows, Big Bang Theory and Speechless, may be familiar. In September, TPT joins forces with Lyric Theatre of Oklahoma with the play, I AM MY OWN WIFE. TPT Artistic Director and Lyric veteran, Matthew Alvin Brown portrays over 30 characters in a tour-de-force performance in the Norman Theatre at the Tulsa PAC. "Brown portrays Charlotte beautifully with extremely natural movements clearlydemonstrating her in-born feminism displaying bravery with a just a hint of male bravado and a twinkle. Inaddition to perfectly realizing Charlotte, Brown takes on over 30 different characters in Charlotte's life from her SS father, to her Stasi interrogators, her friends and family. Interestingly Brown also portrays playwright Doug Wright conducting the interviews. Brown has an amazing ability to demurely swish his skirt and then, midstride, transform the skirt to a pair of trousers. A truly astounding performance." - Elizabeth Hurd with Oklahoma Arts Scene and Hurd 1AM MY(9WN ~ The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. 4/24/26, 4:04 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/47ea1f6e9ad81ce1161e9fd917ba04ea.pdf 3e2c018f6dddc9a92ae1ec59f9806ff6 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 20th, 2017 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-20th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility EBA Mixer September 20th, 2017 In This Issue August EBA Mixer Non-Binary Support Group LGBTQ People of Color Peer Support Group Stand Bi me Rooftop PARTY. Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator National Voter Registration Day Wednesday September 20, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Cityscape Mortgage at Fifteenth and Home 1512 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Beyond Binaries: Identity & Sexuality Join t he Southern Pride Drum Group Question, Prevent, and Refer - Suicide Prevention Training CommUNITY Picnic E UALITY Business Alliance Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group "First Thursday" Art Opening Zarrow Mental Health Symposium Tulsa Two Spirit Society Before The I Do BlaQueerMagic PARTY BOIMovie Night with QPOC -Group Condomania! Who's Gonna Love Me Now? Artist Call for 2018 Sisters in Song Council Oak Mens Chorale TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Pride Store Cityscape Home Mortgage is committed to providing you with the highest quality home loan service combined with the lowest mortgage rates available in all of Oklahoma. Whether you are a first time home buyer, moving up to your dream home, refinancing, or buying an investment property, our highly experienced team of mortgage bankers can help make your dreams come true. Cityscape has been in business since 2002 serving the Tulsa community and surrounding areas. We offer loan terms from 10 to 30 years, speedy local underwriting, funding at the table, and exceptional customer service. Our ultimate goal is to create lasting relationships with each of our clients so that we may continue providing excellent service for many years to come. Rainbow Library Out for TCC September Video eNews Tulsa Progressive Ministers' Statement Check out Cityscape Mortgage online at www.cityscapehome.com ---- OkEq Art Exhibition The September OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the works by Slim Cook titled "Digital Divas", beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Non-Binary Support Group Wednesday September 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 This support group is for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. Family Ties For information contact the center at 918-743-4297 LGBTQ People of Color Peer Support Group Thursday September 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK, 74120 Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more 4/24/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews September 20th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-20th--20... information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net This is a safe space for LGBTQQIA-POC community members to come and engage in a dialogue about relevant issues-where anything and everything can be discussed without feeling judged. All individuals who identify as people of color are welcome at this group to gain support, insight and find a general sense of community and family. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op Stand Bi me Rooftop PARTY Saturday September 23, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OKEQ's Brought To You Bi The Letter B welcomes you to our second annual 'Stand Bi Me' rooftop celebration of Bi Visibility Day, September 23rd from 6-10pm on the roof of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center! This event is to celebrate bisexual, pansexual, and fluid identities as well as their allies! We will have music, refreshments, stories, and some giveaways! Please come celebrate bi visibility with us! - , , , Tllf1· ,, ,\\\\ \ ( I Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator Thursday September 24, 1:00-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org Lawyer in the Library National Voter Registration Day September 13 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Tuesday September 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Every year millions of Americans find themselves unable to vote because they miss a registration deadline, don't update their registration, or aren't sure how to register. Come to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center any time between 12pm - 9pm and register to vote. Did you know that according to Pew Research, "Gay, lesbian and bisexual voters may make up a relatively small share of the American electorate - just 5% of voters in the 2012 general election identified as LGB, according to national exit polls." ?And according to the Williams Institute, "Thirty percent of the voting-eligible transgender population in eight states (Alabama, Georgia, Indiana, Kansas, Mississippi, Tennessee, Virginia, and Wisconsin) have no identification or records that accurately reflect their gender." Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator Those are just two reasons that engaging in the elections this year is critically important. During "off-year" elections like 2017, our constituents are not exposed to pervasive ads and telephone calls, and therefore may not even know there is an election. Yet, local and state elections have huge impacts on their lives from public services and local taxes to their school board, and more. This will be one of our first efforts to gear up for the 2018 elections. Considering all the issues being debated in DC right now, we definitely need to get our constituents registered and energized to vote. Beyond Binaries: Identity & Sexuality Wednesday September 27, 6:00 p.m. OSU-Tulsa - BS Roberts Room 700 N. Greenwood Ave., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74106 OSU-Tulsa is hosting LGBTQ+ scholar and activist Robyn Ochs on September 27 for a public workshop, Beyond Binaries: Identity and Sexuality in the BS Roberts Room. The workshop will cover the following: How do we assign labels to our complicated and unique experiences of sexuality? In this interactive program, we will explore the landscape of sexuality, conduct a thought-provoking anonymous survey of those present, and look together at the data. Where do we fall on various sexuality continua? How do we label? How old were we when we came to our identities and to our sexualities? How asexual/sexual are we? How well do our friends/family members understand our sexuality? This program will expand your perspective and change the way you think about labels. Robyn Ochs is an educator, speaker award-winning activist, and editor of the Bi Women Quarterly, the 42-country anthology, Getting Bi: Voices of Bisexuals Around The World and the new anthology RECOGNIZE: The Voices of Bisexual Men. Her writings have been published in numerous bi, women's studies, multicultural, and LGBT journals. Thursdays 1:0 0 - 4:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppgreatplains.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. This workshop is brought to you by American Studies, Gender and Women's Studies, History, the Office of Multicultural Affairs, the Clinical Psychology program, with support from the Fae Rowden Norris Foundation and the OSU-Tulsa Provost's Office. Connect on Facebook Join the Southern Pride Drum Group Thursday September 28 , 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Southern Pride drum group is the only drum group of its kind in the entire world, being the only drum comprised of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have travelled all across the US and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. Currently they are seeking to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and add to their tight knit drum family. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required 4/24/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews September 20th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-20th--20... Question, Prevent, and Refer - Suicide Prevention Training Saturday September 30, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. - Candle Light Vigil immediately following training Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The training is called Question, Persuade and Refer (QPR). This training will help you recognize the warning signs, clues and suicidal communications of people in trouble, and gain skills to act vigorously to prevent a possible tragedy. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center Everyone will receive a Certificate of completion and they will become gate keepers in QPR. September 30, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. September 30, 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. - Immediately following the training there will be speakers and a candle light vigil to remember all the GLBTQI-Two Spirit people who have completed suicide and are survivors of attempted suicide. Please RSVP to olivia.cotter@okeq.org CommUNITY Picnic Sunday October 1, 11:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Chandler Park 6500 W 21st St, Tulsa, OK 74107 Bring your own food and drinks, grills will be available. Come out and enjoy hanging out with people from across our community in Tulsa. Family friendly event. Join OKEQ at this years CommUnity Picnic at Chandler Park. There will be Children games and playground -tug of war -3 legged race -and many more. Information table Potluck picnic Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/ affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . For more information please call the Dennis R. Neill Eqaulity center at 918-743-4297 Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group Wednesday October 4, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday October 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the combined works of Carlyn Ritter and Shauna Henry, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . These two creative artists tempt you with this invitation: "Journey with us to the secret world of dolls. Look through the keyholes, in the shadowy parts of the forest, or even in the hidden recesses of your mind. From sweet to sinister, they live in the in between places. Sewn, twisted and sculpted into being, they will whisper their stories to you if only you will listen". As an artist, Carlyn Ritter has always been interested in making art with movement. Twenty eight years ago she started making and fixing marionettes. When she first came across art dolls eight years into her career, it became clear she would devote her artistic life to dolls. Art dolls gave her the freedom to create an art form that demonstrates movement without the strings or having to physically move the image. Often the dolls are personified into beings we cannot be, or are performing movement we cannot. They become a dancer, cast a spell, or ride a wild animal. Images that tell a story simply by their costume, pose and accessories is what completes the piece for her. Carlyn has been published in Art Doll Quarterly magazine several times and is a member of the Tulsa Association of Doll Artists. Growing up Shauna Henry has always been fascinated by secret worlds and hidden things. Fueled by her love of fairy tales and dark whimsy, she creates fanciful figures and enchanted beings. She started creating art dolls in 2010 and has been captivated by the unique art form ever since. Shauna is a member of the Professional Doll Makers Art Guild, Tulsa Association of Doll Artists and has been published in Art Doll Quarterly magazine. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, October 10th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 2017 Zarrow Mental Health Symposium - Challenging Injustice & Discrimination Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. October 5-6 Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Why You Can't Miss It! ● Learn a full spectrum of tools and strategies related to programs, policies, and practices that challenge and/or combat injustice and discrimination, including any subsequent impact on mental health ● Connect & share ideas with over 800 peers and leading experts in the field! ● Receive critical CEU & ethics hours! To learn more about the Zarrow Mental Health Symposium, visit www.zarrowsymposium.org, call -----JoBeth Hamon at 405-778-8122. You may also email jhamon@mhaok.org. You have the power to challenge and combat systemic injustice and discrimination that can impact mental health! Learn how to take action to forever change your community at the 2017 Zarrow Mental Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa 4/24/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews September 20th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-20th--20... Health Symposium - Challenging Injustice & Discrimination, October 5-6 in Tulsa, Okla. The Symposium is a unique opportunity to meet and connect with other like-minded attendees who are inspired to discuss the realities of injustice and discrimination and develop solutions to address these realities and long-term implications on mental health. Plus, you can receive valuable CEU and ethics hours! Stay up-to-date on conference updates & announcements! Visit www.zarrowsymposium.org. ~ .~ .:~ .~'~"~ '":~: J CHAllENGING INJUSTICE & DISCRllllle r " OCJOBl8562D17•1\JLSA DKLAHOMA•lAHROWSYMPDSIUMORG Tulsa Two Spirit Society Tuesday October 10, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 When European explorers arrived in the New World, which is now North and Central America, they were surprised to find entire civilizations, as well as cultures, monetary and trade systems, even architecture and art that rivalled those in Europe. They also found gay, lesbian, and transgender people living happily within these civilizations. The American English term for these people has become Two Spirit. Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/ anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Tulsa Two Spirit Society strives to identify and bring together, those first nation and tribal peoples who identify as Two Spirit, with the goal of being, once again, included in the tribe's circle. Only then will the circle be complete. Tulsa Two Spirit Society meets on the 2nd Tuesday of each month, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, at 7:00pm. For more information Contact Brandon Rogers-Plott via rogersplott@gmail.com or on Facebook at www.facebook.com/Brandon.rogersplott , or "Before The I Do" Saturday October 14, 12:000 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 "Before The I Do" gives couples practical tools to use now or later on when you need them. The workshop covers 3 keys to a great relationship, how to work as a team to solve conflict, how to keep the romance alive and much more. The Speaker-Listener technique helps each of you to be heard in times of stress and is a crowd favorite. Whether you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you WILL benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfying relationships! Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality on October 14 from 12:00 to 4:00 p.m. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carriegracelittle@gmail.com to reserve your space today BlaQueerMagic: Prose, Poetry & Power with Tabias Olajuawon, JD Friday October 13, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free and Open to the Public Enjoy an evening of prose, poetry, & Power with Tabias Olajuawon Wilson, author of Godless Circumcisions: A Recollecting & Remembering of Blackness, Queerness, & Flows of Survivance "The tea is, blackness is the essence of creation, a potpourri of the creative ingredients of existience." Black. Magic. We all know what it is. It is that cosmic power that hails from the ancestors and rebirths itself in those blessed with ample melanin, two-stepping through the funk of life. This event will showcase the Black and/or Queer Magic within us all, that (open) secret weapon we've long groomed, through the presentation of our truths, our power, our "us" via art, prose, poetry and power. We will showcase local artists and make space for an open mic, before a reading and discussion of Tabias Olajuawon's book of essays, poetry and cultural critiques: Godless Circumcisions. There will also be a book signing for those interested in making a purchase. About "Godless Circumcisions: A Recollecting & Re-membering of Blackness, Queerness & Flows of Survivance" Tabias Olajuawon Wilson Tufts 13' (BA), Howard Law 17' (JD), UT Austin (PhD) 2021 Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. "Godless Circumcisions: A Recollecting & Re-membering of Blackness, Queerness & Flows of Survivance" is a witty and forceful study of race, sex and politics in contemporary culture. Personal and poetic, these essays, poems and biographical trysts disrobe issues central to the black, queer and working class existences. Wilson speaks fluently-fluctuating between academic authority, queer griot and matter-of-fact honesty-to issues of racial-sexual terror; masculine anxiety; how Black men learn the erotic, sex and vulnerability; the stereotypes of Black and BlaQueer people in the United States. Paying special attention to the costs of assimilation-or cultural circumcisions-Wilson invites the reader on his personal and political journey to a practice of critical love ethics. Tabias Olajuawon in Godless Circumcisions www.tabiasolajuawon.com PARTY BOI Movie Night with QPOC Group Friday October 20, 6:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104 A new documentary that focuses on the effects of crystal meth addiction in relation to the LGBTQ community of color. The film features real stories of real people who are thinking about, dealing with, and surviving crystal meth addiction. It is an untold tale from the urban perspective that has the possibility to change the perception of the "parTy & play" life style within inner city queer demographics. The riveting accounts and cinematic portrayals grant an informative and captivating documentary sure to bring awareness to all audiences. Directed by Michael Rice, a Booker T. Washington graduate. Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/ spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments 4/24/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews September 20th, 2017 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-20th--20... can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Condomania! Saturday October 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 When planning our annual fundraiser this year, we thought-why not a party featuring condom-fashions? CONDOMANIA will be an amazing party, public awareness event, and fundraiser for The Little Blue House. The event will feature models presenting original designs of fashion accessories made out of condoms! Through Condomania we tell our community that: * Sexual health is an important part of overall health * Sexual health can be discussed and promoted * Our community will not be bullied into silence and shame around universal issues of sexuality and reproductive health. tONDq~ANIA J GXBill11IlTI mffDiliJ • a ~UNdraiser with f • We hope you will join us for some fashion, food, and frivolity featuring condoms as wearable art! Costume attire IS encouraged! food, and fliuo\i\'4 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com A buffet dinner is provided and there will be a cash bar. Sponsorships are available! Click here to purchase tickets SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Who's Gonna Love Me Now? Wednesday, October 25th, 6:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Avenue, Tulsa Tickets are $10 (On Sale Now!) Synopsis: Saar is an HIV positive gay man living in London, where he found refuge from the religious kibbutz where he grew up in Israel. Ever since he was diagnosed with HIV, Saar has craved his family's love, while they struggle with fears and prejudices. Saar and the rest of the London Gay Men's Chorus provide a glorious soundtrack for this documentary about the power of forgiveness and the power that home has, no matter how far we go. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Introduced by Toby Jenkins, Executive Director, Equality Center of Oklahoma Website: www.circlecinema.com The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Artist Call for 2018 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2018 Exhibition Calendar. Our gallery encourages emerging artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media, including installation works to apply. Details: Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is installed on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to donate a piece as a door prize which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc) for each piece. A bio and artist statement are due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. How to Apply: Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. 4/24/26, 4:05 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/691a652c77b185bda571634ec252af10.pdf 4bd2cfedea251a06330087e4da5a79a0 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 27th, 2017 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-27th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility Beyond Binaries: Identity & Sexuality September 27th, 2017 In This Issue Beyond Binaries: Identity & Sexuality Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator Join t he Southern Pride Drum Group Question, Prevent, and Refer - Suicide Prevention Training CommUNITY Picnic Wednesday September 27, 6:00 p.m. OSU-Tulsa - BS Roberts Room 700 N. Greenwood Ave., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74106 Guys Dine Too Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group "First Thursday" Art Opening OSU-Tulsa is hosting LGBTQ+ scholar and activist Robyn Ochs on September 27 for a public workshop, Beyond Binaries: Identity and Sexuality in the BS Roberts Room. Zarrow Mental Health Symposium Twister Alley LGBT Car Club Tulsa Two Spirit Society The workshop will cover the following: National Coming Out Day How do we assign labels to our complicated and unique experiences of sexuality? In this interactive program, we will explore the landscape of sexuality, conduct a thought-provoking anonymous survey of those present, and look together at the data. Where do we fall on various sexuality continua? How do we label? How old were we when we came to our identities and to our sexualities? How asexual/sexual are we? How well do our friends/family members understand our sexuality? This program will expand your perspective and change the way you think about labels. Robyn Ochs is an educator, speaker award-winning activist, and editor of the Bi Women Quarterly, the 42-country anthology, Getting Bi: Voices of Bisexuals Around The World and the new anthology RECOGNIZE: The Voices of Bisexual Men. Her writings have been published in numerous bi, women's studies, multicultural, and LGBT journals. This workshop is brought to you by American Studies, Gender and Women's Studies, History, the Office of Multicultural Affairs, the Clinical Psychology program, with support from the Fae Rowden Norris Foundation and the OSU-Tulsa Provost's Office. Connect on Facebook BlaQueerMagic Ladies Social Club Before The I Do October EBA Mixer Non-Binary Support Group PARTY BOI Movie withQPOC Group -Night -Condomania! Who's Gonna Love Me Now? Tulsa Pride Bingo Halloween Edition Artist Call for 2018 Sisters in Song Council Oak Mens Chorale TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator Every Thursday 1:00-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Pride Store Rainbow Library Out for TCC Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act. September Video eNews Tulsa Progressive Ministers' Statement Join the Southern Pride Drum Group Thursday September 28 , 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Southern Pride drum group is the only drum group of its kind in the entire world, being the only drum comprised of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have travelled all across the US and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. Currently they are seeking to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and add to their tight knit drum family. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, October 19 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members Question, Persuade, and Refer - Suicide Prevention Training Saturday September 30, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. - Candle Light Vigil immediately following training Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The training is called Question, Persuade and Refer (QPR). This training will help you recognize the warning signs, clues and suicidal communications of people in trouble, and gain skills to act vigorously to prevent a possible tragedy. Everyone will receive a Certificate of completion and they will become gate keepers in QPR. OkEq Art Exhibition The September OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the works by Slim Cook titled "Digital Divas", beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. September 30, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. September 30, 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. - Immediately following the training there will be speakers and a candle light vigil to remember all the GLBTQI-Two Spirit people who have completed suicide and are survivors of attempted suicide. Please RSVP to olivia.cotter@okeq.org CommUNITY Picnic Sunday October 1, 11:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Chandler Park 6500 W 21st St, Tulsa, OK 74107 Bring your own food and drinks, grills will be available. Come out and enjoy hanging out with people from across our community in Tulsa. Family friendly event. Join OKEQ at this years CommUnity Picnic at Chandler Park. There will be Children games and playground Family Ties 4/24/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews September 27th, 2017 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-27th--20... -tug of war -3 legged race -and many more. Information table Potluck picnic For more information please call the Dennis R. Neill Eqaulity center at 918-743-4297 Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Guys Dine Too Tuesday, October 3, 6:30 p.m. Elmers BBQ 4130 S Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK 74105 Elmers BBQ has been in Tulsa for 35 years! Elmer's started as a very small restaurant with only five tables. When news got around about the quality and the deliciousness of the food we were able to expand our vision into a full service restaurant. Our expanded restaurant now has 22 tables and seating for 80 people inside and patio space for 12. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op Customers from all over continue to enjoy the food, the outstanding customer service they receive, and place us at the top of the list of their favorite BBQ restaurants. Our goal is to offer our customers great food at an affordable price. We guarantee freshness in all of our meats & ingredients preparing each food item to "Be Bad!" just the way our customer's like. If you are coming please let me know so I have a headcount for the reservation. Hope to see everyone there. Gay Men's Dinner Group - Richard Haley - GuysDineToo@gmail.com Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group Wednesday October 4, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday October 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the combined works of Carlyn Ritter and Shauna Henry, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org Lawyer in the Library October 11 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator These two creative artists tempt you with this invitation: "Journey with us to the secret world of dolls. Look through the keyholes, in the shadowy parts of the forest, or even in the hidden recesses of your mind. From sweet to sinister, they live in the in between places. Sewn, twisted and sculpted into being, they will whisper their stories to you if only you will listen". As an artist, Carlyn Ritter has always been interested in making art with movement. Twenty eight years ago she started making and fixing marionettes. When she first came across art dolls eight years into her career, it became clear she would devote her artistic life to dolls. Art dolls gave her the freedom to create an art form that demonstrates movement without the strings or having to physically move the image. Often the dolls are personified into beings we cannot be, or are performing movement we cannot. They become a dancer, cast a spell, or ride a wild animal. Images that tell a story simply by their costume, pose and accessories is what completes the piece for her. Carlyn has been published in Art Doll Quarterly magazine several times and is a member of the Tulsa Association of Doll Artists. Growing up Shauna Henry has always been fascinated by secret worlds and hidden things. Fueled by her love of fairy tales and dark whimsy, she creates fanciful figures and enchanted beings. She started creating art dolls in 2010 and has been captivated by the unique art form ever since. Shauna is a member of the Professional Doll Makers Art Guild, Tulsa Association of Doll Artists and has been published in Art Doll Quarterly magazine. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, October 10th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 2017 Zarrow Mental Health Symposium - Challenging Injustice & Discrimination October 5-6 Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Why You Can't Miss It! ● Learn a full spectrum of tools and strategies related to programs, policies, and practices that challenge and/or combat injustice and discrimination, including any subsequent impact on mental health ● Connect & share ideas with over 800 peers and leading experts in the field! ● Receive critical CEU & ethics hours! Thursdays 1:0 0 - 4:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppgreatplains.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. To learn more about the Zarrow Mental Health Symposium, visit www.zarrowsymposium.org, call 4/24/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews September 27th, 2017 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-27th--20... JoBeth Hamon at 405-778-8122. You may also email jhamon@mhaok.org. You have the power to challenge and combat systemic injustice and discrimination that can impact mental health! Learn how to take action to forever change your community at the 2017 Zarrow Mental Health Symposium - Challenging Injustice & Discrimination, October 5-6 in Tulsa, Okla. The Symposium is a unique opportunity to meet and connect with other like-minded attendees who are inspired to discuss the realities of injustice and discrimination and develop solutions to address these realities and long-term implications on mental health. Plus, you can receive valuable CEU and ethics hours! Stay up-to-date on conference updates & announcements! Visit www.zarrowsymposium.org. Dr. Kurt Choate ------ Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Twister Alley LGBT Car Club Saturday, October 8, LaForutne Park - Southwest Corner Shelter House 5323 S Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74135 Twister Alley LGBT car club is meeting for the first time October 8 at Lafortune Park SW corner shelter house. OSU Tulsa Counseling Center // , 311-....___ l:_r_ w_is_~_E _R _ A ~L~ E~'J-;--~ Oklahoma• Kansas• Western Arkansas Region Lambda Car Club International Tulsa Two Spirit Society Tuesday October 10, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 When European explorers arrived in the New World they were surprised to find entire civilizations, cultures, trade systems, even architecture and art that rivaled those in Europe. They also found gay, lesbian, and transgender people living happily within these civilizations. The American English term for these people has become Two Spirit. Tulsa Two Spirit Society strives to identify and bring together, those first nation and tribal peoples who identify as Two Spirit, with the goal of being, once again, included in the tribe's circle. Only then will the circle be complete. .. , ·, 1 . - ~ ~- .. Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/ affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . Tulsa Two Spirit Society meets on the 2nd Tuesday of each month, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, at 7:00pm. For more information Contact Brandon Rogers-Plott via rogersplott@gmail.com or on Facebook at www.facebook.com/Brandon.rogersplott , or T-shirt Printing and Open Mic Night Wednesday, October 11, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa 4/24/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews September 27th, 2017 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-27th--20... T-shirt printing and open mic to tell your coming out story. Bring your own t-shirt for printing your own message on a t-shirt. T-shirt printing is free. A white t-shirt will show your design best. Open mic tell your story through comedy, poetry, spoken word, performance. Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/ anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. BlaQueerMagic: Prose, Poetry & Power with Tabias Olajuawon, JD Friday October 13, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free and Open to the Public Enjoy an evening of prose, poetry, & Power with Tabias Olajuawon Wilson, author of Godless Circumcisions: A Recollecting & Remembering of Blackness, Queerness, & Flows of Survivance "The tea is, blackness is the essence of creation, a potpourri of the creative ingredients of existience." Black. Magic. We all know what it is. It is that cosmic power that hails from the ancestors and rebirths itself in those blessed with ample melanin, two-stepping through the funk of life. This event will showcase the Black and/or Queer Magic within us all, that (open) secret weapon we've long groomed, through the presentation of our truths, our power, our "us" via art, prose, poetry and power. We will showcase local artists and make space for an open mic, before a reading and discussion of Tabias Olajuawon's book of essays, poetry and cultural critiques: Godless Circumcisions. There will also be a book signing for those interested in making a purchase. About "Godless Circumcisions: A Recollecting & Re-membering of Blackness, Queerness & Flows of Survivance" Tabias Olajuawon Wilson Tufts 13' (BA), Howard Law 17' (JD), UT Austin (PhD) 2021 "Godless Circumcisions: A Recollecting & Re-membering of Blackness, Queerness & Flows of Survivance" is a witty and forceful study of race, sex and politics in contemporary culture. Personal and poetic, these essays, poems and biographical trysts disrobe issues central to the black, queer and working class existences. Wilson speaks fluently-fluctuating between academic authority, queer griot and matter-of-fact honesty-to issues of racial-sexual terror; masculine anxiety; how Black men learn the erotic, sex and vulnerability; the stereotypes of Black and BlaQueer people in the United States. Paying special attention to the costs of assimilation-or cultural circumcisions-Wilson invites the reader on his personal and political journey to a practice of critical love ethics. Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Tabias Olajuawon in Godless Circumcisions www.tabiasolajuawon.com Ladies Social Club: Pumpkin Carving & Painting! Friday, October 13 at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews September 27th, 2017 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-27th--20... 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 . BYO pumpkins! I • , ,'::'J ~~~ ~. [~~I...-:,,.., We'll have carving tools, but if you have some, please bring them. .::. We'll also have painting supplies if you'd like to paint your pumpkins (like the tiny ones!) "Before The I Do" Saturday October 14, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 "Before The I Do" gives couples practical tools to use now and as their relationship grows. The workshop covers keys to a great relationship, how to solve conflicts, how to keep the romance alive and much more. Whether you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you will benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfaction in their relationships! Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality on October 14 from 12:00 to 4:00 p.m. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carriegracelittle@gmail.com to reserve your space today Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/ spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. EBA Mixer Wednesday October 18th, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Equality Business Alliance Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Non-Binary Support Group E UALITY Business Alliance Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The EBA exists to strengthen Gay Welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: * Providing a directory of Gay Welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community: http://www.okeq.org/equality-business-alliance.html * Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and * Creating professional environments where Gay Welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Benefits of Membership: * Inclusion in EBA Directory on the OkEq Website * Email updates of EBA events and opportunities * Invitation to Networking Events and ability to host future events * Marketing opportunities at EBA and community events You can join the EBA online at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by 4/24/26, 4:05 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/05290ad92c2867261ca08201a9a3fe6c.pdf 1c63aad4228ae245ed1882fdc35cc2f8 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 4th, 2017 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-4th--2017.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility Sharon & Mary Bishop-Baldwin Sponsor the Day October 6, 2017 October 4th, 2017 In This Issue Sharon & Mary Bishop-Baldwin Sponsor the Day October Volunteer of the Month October Video eNews BlaQueerMagic Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator Join t he Southern Pride Drum Group "First Thursday" Art Opening Zarrow Mental Health Symposium Sharon and Mary Bishop-Baldwin are sponsoring Oklahomans for Equality Saturday, October 6th, in honor of the third anniversary of marriage equality in Oklahoma. Twister Alley LGBT Car Club Tulsa Two Spirit Society National Coming Out Day Thank you Sharon & Mary! Ladies Social Club Before The I Do Perspectives: LGBT People of Color October EBA Mixer Non-Binary Support Group OKEQ Rooftop Rally PARTY BOI Movie Night with QPOC Group Condomania! If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday • Just Because Fun Home Who's Gonna Love Me Now? October 6th, 2014 Tulsa County Courthouse Tulsa, OK Tulsa Pride Bingo Halloween Edition Grand Opening Artist Call for 2018 TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Pride Store Rainbow Library October Volunteer of the Month Westly Dotson Out for TCC Tulsa Progressive Ministers' Statement Westly's favorite part of volunteering with OKEQ is "seeing the genuine sense of belonging and support that the center provides. For many people, this is the only place they feel truly welcome." When I am not volunteering, you can find me working a 9-5, watching Let's Plays and Korean and Southern cooking shows on YouTube, playing video games, reading in bed, or plotting world domination. My favorite thing to do at the center is visit the Art Gallery. I come from an art background and I love that the center has a space to showcase many different styles of expression. I volunteer on Wednesdays, so I am also partial to the gender support group that I see every week. The group really seems like a close knit family. I would definitely recommend volunteering at OKEQ. People need this center. It's more than just programming and resources. Volunteers are what make this center keep running and successful. For those who are unable to contribute financially, know that there is a way for you to show your support. Thank you for your dedication Westly! OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, October 19 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition If you would like to volunteer, click here or contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org October Video eNews The September OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the works by Slim Cook titled "Digital Divas", beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Family Ties BlaQueerMagic: Prose, Poetry & Power 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 4th, 2017 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-4th--2017.... with Tabias Olajuawon, JD Friday October 13, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free and Open to the Public Enjoy an evening of prose, poetry, & Power with Tabias Olajuawon Wilson, author of Godless Circumcisions: A Recollecting & Remembering of Blackness, Queerness, & Flows of Survivance Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net "The tea is, blackness is the essence of creation, a potpourri of the creative ingredients of existience." Black. Magic. We all know what it is. It is that cosmic power that hails from the ancestors and rebirths itself in those blessed with ample melanin, two-stepping through the funk of life. This event will showcase the Black and/or Queer Magic within us all, that (open) secret weapon we've long groomed, through the presentation of our truths, our power, our "us" via art, prose, poetry and power. We will showcase local artists and make space for an open mic, before a reading and discussion of Tabias Olajuawon's book of essays, poetry and cultural critiques: Godless Circumcisions. There will also be a book signing for those interested in making a purchase. About "Godless Circumcisions: A Recollecting & Re-membering of Blackness, Queerness & Flows of Survivance" Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op Tabias Olajuawon Wilson Tufts 13' (BA), Howard Law 17' (JD), UT Austin (PhD) 2021 "Godless Circumcisions: A Recollecting & Re-membering of Blackness, Queerness & Flows of Survivance" is a witty and forceful study of race, sex and politics in contemporary culture. Personal and poetic, these essays, poems and biographical trysts disrobe issues central to the black, queer and working class existences. Wilson speaks fluently-fluctuating between academic authority, queer griot and matter-of-fact honesty-to issues of racial-sexual terror; masculine anxiety; how Black men learn the erotic, sex and vulnerability; the stereotypes of Black and BlaQueer people in the United States. Paying special attention to the costs of assimilation-or cultural circumcisions-Wilson invites the reader on his personal and political journey to a practice of critical love ethics. Tabias Olajuawon in Godless Circumcisions www.tabiasolajuawon.com Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group Wednesday October 4, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org Lawyer in the Library October 11 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator Every Thursday 1:00-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act. Join the Southern Pride Drum Group Thursday October 5 , 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Southern Pride drum group is the only drum group of its kind in the entire world, being the only drum comprised of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have travelled all across the US and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. Currently they are seeking to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and add to their tight knit drum family. "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday October 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the combined works of Carlyn Ritter and Shauna Henry, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. These two creative artists tempt you with this invitation: "Journey with us to the secret world of dolls. Look through the keyholes, in the shadowy parts of the forest, or even in the hidden recesses of your mind. From sweet to sinister, they live in the in between places. Sewn, twisted and sculpted into being, they will whisper their stories to you if only you will listen". Thursdays 1:0 0 - 4:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppgreatplains.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. As an artist, Carlyn Ritter has always been interested in making art with movement. Twenty eight years ago she started making 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 4th, 2017 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-4th--2017.... and fixing marionettes. When she first came across art dolls eight years into her career, it became clear she would devote her artistic life to dolls. Art dolls gave her the freedom to create an art form that demonstrates movement without the strings or having to physically move the image. Often the dolls are personified into beings we cannot be, or are performing movement we cannot. They become a dancer, cast a spell, or ride a wild animal. Images that tell a story simply by their costume, pose and accessories is what completes the piece for her. Carlyn has been published in Art Doll Quarterly magazine several times and is a member of the Tulsa Association of Doll Artists. Growing up Shauna Henry has always been fascinated by secret worlds and hidden things. Fueled by her love of fairy tales and dark whimsy, she creates fanciful figures and enchanted beings. She started creating art dolls in 2010 and has been captivated by the unique art form ever since. Shauna is a member of the Professional Doll Makers Art Guild, Tulsa Association of Doll Artists and has been published in Art Doll Quarterly magazine. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, October 10th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 2017 Zarrow Mental Health Symposium - Challenging Injustice & Discrimination October 5-6 Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Why You Can't Miss It! Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center ● Learn a full spectrum of tools and strategies related to programs, policies, and practices that challenge and/or combat injustice and discrimination, including any subsequent impact on mental health ● Connect & share ideas with over 800 peers and leading experts in the field! ● Receive critical CEU & ethics hours! To learn more about the Zarrow Mental Health Symposium, visit www.zarrowsymposium.org, call -----JoBeth Hamon at 405-778-8122. You may also email jhamon@mhaok.org. You have the power to challenge and combat systemic injustice and discrimination that can impact mental health! Learn how to take action to forever change your community at the 2017 Zarrow Mental Health Symposium - Challenging Injustice & Discrimination, October 5-6 in Tulsa, Okla. The Symposium is a unique opportunity to meet and connect with other like-minded attendees who are inspired to discuss the realities of injustice and discrimination and develop solutions to address these realities and long-term implications on mental health. Plus, you can receive valuable CEU and ethics hours! Stay up-to-date on conference updates & announcements! Visit www.zarrowsymposium.org. Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/ affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . Twister Alley LGBT Car Club Saturday, October 8, LaForutne Park - Southwest Corner Shelter House 5323 S Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74135 Twister Alley LGBT car club is meeting for the first time October 8 at Lafortune Park SW corner shelter house. l _r_W _ lS _•_ r _E_R_A _L_ E--:-;'I;--) Oklahoma• Kansas• Western Arkansas Region Lambda Car Club International Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Tulsa Two Spirit Society Tuesday October 10, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 When European explorers arrived in the New World they were surprised to find entire civilizations, cultures, trade systems, even architecture and art that rivaled those in Europe. They also found gay, lesbian, and transgender people living happily within these civilizations. The American English term for these people has become Two Spirit. Tulsa Two Spirit Society strives to identify and bring together, those first nation and tribal peoples who identify as Two Spirit, with the goal of being, once again, included in the tribe's circle. Only then will the circle be complete. Tulsa Two Spirit Society meets on the 2nd Tuesday of each month, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, at 7:00pm. ~-ii-~ ~ } ; .• For more information Contact Brandon Rogers-Plott via rogersplott@gmail.com or on Facebook at www.facebook.com/Brandon.rogersplott , or T-shirt Printing and Open Mic Night Wednesday, October 11, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 4th, 2017 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-4th--2017.... Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. T-shirt printing and open mic to tell your coming out story. Bring your own t-shirt for printing your own message on a t-shirt. T-shirt printing is free. A white t-shirt will show your design best. Open mic tell your story through comedy, poetry, spoken word, performance. Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/ anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Ladies Social Club: Pumpkin Carving & Painting! Friday, October 13 at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 I BYO pumpkins! We'll have carving tools, but if you have some, please bring them. ~~· ' i " ""\ · ~ · t.; ~ " "' ;.J,.~ · l ~, ~I~ tw., .., ~ - We'll also have painting supplies if you'd like to paint your pumpkins (like the tiny ones!) ~ "Before The I Do" Saturday October 14, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 "Before The I Do" gives couples practical tools to use now and as their relationship grows. The workshop covers keys to a great relationship, how to solve conflicts, how to keep the romance alive and much more. Whether you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you will benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfaction in their relationships! Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality on October 14 from 12:00 to 4:00 p.m. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carriegracelittle@gmail.com to reserve your space today Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Perspectives: LGBT People of Color Saturday, October 14, 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 4th, 2017 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-4th--2017.... According to a Gallup poll, one-third of individuals who identify as LGBT are people of color. Recently, the pride flag was redesigned to recognize LGBT people of color by adding brown and black stripes. People who identify with multiple minorities face unique challenges that can make every day life more difficult. Please join us to hear stories from a panel of Tulsans who will share their personal experience about living as an LGBT person of color, answer questions about their experiences, and talk about the challenges they face in their day-to-day life. Diversity Benefactor Sponsors: CF Industries Diversity Supporting Sponsors: Explorer Pipeline OU Physicians Southwest Airlines Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/ spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. EBA Mixer Wednesday October 18th, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Equality Business Alliance Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 E UALITY Business Alliance Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com The EBA exists to strengthen Gay Welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: * Providing a directory of Gay Welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community: http://www.okeq.org/equality-business-alliance.html * Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and * Creating professional environments where Gay Welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. Benefits of Membership: * Inclusion in EBA Directory on the OkEq Website * Email updates of EBA events and opportunities * Invitation to Networking Events and ability to host future events * Marketing opportunities at EBA and community events You can join the EBA online at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 4th, 2017 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-4th--2017.... John Madigan Non-Binary Support Group Wednesday October 18, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 This support group is for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact the center at 918-743-4297 Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Rooftop Rally Anti-Bullying Thursday, October 19 at 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the center's roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 19th, 2017 at 6:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate rooftop rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. For more information email toby.jenkins@okeq.org ...... ............ 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Let's Show l,Glf_,. they• - - - v GIi. . . . . Gender Support Program IUWl95 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. PARTY BOI Movie Night with QPOC Group Friday October 20, 6:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104 Lambda Al-Anon Group A new documentary that focuses on the effects of crystal meth addiction in relation to the LGBTQ community of color. The film features real stories of real people who are thinking about, dealing with, and surviving crystal meth addiction. It is an untold tale from the urban perspective that has the possibility to change the perception of the "parTy & play" life style within inner city queer demographics. The riveting accounts and cinematic portrayals grant an informative and captivating documentary sure to bring awareness to all audiences. Directed by Michael Rice, a Booker T. Washington graduate. Every Friday 7 p.m. For ticket information click here Survivors of Incest Anonymous Condomania! Every Saturday 12:30 pm Saturday October 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 When planning our annual fundraiser this year, we thought-why not a party featuring condom-fashions? CONDOMANIA will be an amazing party, public awareness event, and fundraiser for The Little Blue House. The event will feature models presenting original designs of fashion accessories made out of condoms! Through Condomania we tell our community that: * Sexual health is an important part of overall health * Sexual health can be discussed and promoted * Our community will not be bullied into silence and shame around universal issues of sexuality and reproductive health. coNDq~ANIA J OXBOilllitim ffDuu • a ~UNdraiser with fashion, food, and friuo\i\1 We hope you will join us for some fashion, food, and frivolity featuring condoms as wearable art! Costume attire IS encouraged! A buffet dinner is provided and there will be a cash bar. Sponsorships are available! Click here to purchase tickets Fun Home - Presented by American Theatre Company Oct. 21, 26-28, 8:00 p.m., Oct. 22, 2:00 p.m. John H. Williams Theatre Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Winner of the 2015 Tony Award for Best Musical! A fresh and brilliantly told story adapted by Lisa Kron and Jeanine Tesori from Alison Bechdel's 2006 graphic memoir of the same name, the show is marked by Gothic twists, a family funeral home, sexual angst and great books. As she works on her memoir in the present day, successful middle-aged cartoonist Alison Bechdel recalls two time periods in her life. The first is her childhood, around age 10, when she struggles against her father's obsessive demands and begins to identify her own sexuality. The second is her first year in college when she begins her first relationship. Click here to purchase tickets Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 4th, 2017 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-4th--2017.... pick up a space rental sheet. Who's Gonna Love Me Now? Wednesday, October 25th, 6:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Avenue, Tulsa Tickets are $10 (On Sale Now!) EBA Directory Synopsis: Saar is an HIV positive gay man living in London, where he found refuge from the religious kibbutz where he grew up in Israel. Ever since he was diagnosed with HIV, Saar has craved his family's love, while they struggle with fears and prejudices. Saar and the rest of the London Gay Men's Chorus provide a glorious soundtrack for this documentary about the power of forgiveness and the power that home has, no matter how far we go. The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Introduced by Toby Jenkins, Executive Director, Equality Center of Oklahoma Website: www.circlecinema.com Official Selection - Oklahoma Jewish Film Festival, Oct. 22-25 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Tulsa Pride Bingo Halloween Edition Friday, October 27, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back and just in time for Halloween. Get your scary or outrageous costume ready because there will be prizes for the best costumes. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Vegas and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Halloween Bingo Bash. DJ Alex says "get your lip syncing Halloween selections ready." Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets ·= -_-- Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Equality Center Grand Opening Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group Thursday, November 2, 5:30 p.m. Cocktail Hour 7:00 p.m. - Ribbon Cutting Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Live entertainment, honored guests, elected officials, dedication of new windows !!!l!illiiiiii! GRAND OPENING Artist Call for 2018 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2018 Exhibition Calendar. Our gallery encourages emerging artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media, including installation works to apply. Details: Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is installed on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to donate a piece as a door prize which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc) for each piece. A bio and artist statement are due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. How to Apply: Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted by email. Proposals incorporating the work First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 4th, 2017 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-4th--2017.... of two artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. Deadline for submissions is October 20, 2017. Notifications will be sent out by November 3, 2017. Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org , with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Today, Tulsa Project Theatre (TPT), the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, announced its 2017-2018 season. Three of the season's productions are in collaboration with other AEA affiliates - two from Oklahoma City and one with whom fans of the hit TV shows, Big Bang Theory and Speechless, may be familiar. In February 2018, TPT returns to the intimate Norman Theatre at the Tulsa PAC to present the Regional Premiere of John Ross Bowie's FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN. This brand new non-musical play centers on the iconic punk band, The Ramones, as they record their fifth album with eccentric music producer, Phil Spector. Focusing on the period in 1979-1980 when the band stood on the edge of breaking out, and Spector needed a hit, this intense black comedy sheds light on an important and overlooked moment in rock history. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN was written by actor and comedian John Ross Bowie, best known for his role as Barry Kripke in the CBS show THE BIG BANG THEORY and currently as Jimmy Dimeo on the ABC show SPEECHLESS. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN runs February 16-25, 2018. TICK...TICK...BOOM! is an autobiographical musical by Jonathan Larson, the late Pulitzer Prize- and Tony Awardwinning composer of Rent, which tells the story of a composer and the sacrifices he made to achieve his big break, eventually leading to a Broadway blockbuster. His girlfriend wants to get married and move out of the city, his best friend is making big bucks on Madison Avenue and, yet, Jon is still waiting tables and trying to write the great American rock musical. Set in 1990, this compelling story of personal discovery embraces the universal ideal of holding onto your dreams through life's most difficult challenges. Before RENT, there was TICK...TICK...BOOM! The production will run for a weekend in Oklahoma City before arriving in Tulsa for a limited run on April 27 - 29, 2018. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Tulsa Project Theatre will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera LIZZIE, set to run July 13-22, 2018. On a sweltering summer morning in 1892, in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden was the prime suspect and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. LIZZIE features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. LIZZIE is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information Equality Center Pride Store 2017 Tulsa Pride Shirts are still a vailable in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store for $20.00 Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Drag Queen" By: Robert Rodi 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 4th, 2017 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-4th--2017.... A wildly irreverent satire of gender identity and family dynamics, Rodi's 1995 novel has been long out-of-print; now it returns, its NSFW hilarity as timely as ever - if not timelier. Mitchell Sayer, a buttoned-down gay attorney at a prestigious Chicago law firm, discovers he has a long-lost twin. But his well-ordered life comes apart at the seams when the separated siblings finally meet, and Mitchell discovers his brother Donald is better known as Kitten Kaboodle, star of the city's most infamous drag revue. Plunged into a chaotic world where he's forced to confront his own fluid masculinity, Mitchell learns that appearances aren't just deceiving - they're even more disturbingly revealing. Building to a riotous climax in which identities blur and destinies go bust, all to the accompaniment of a cabaret pianist, Drag Queen is a rip-snorting romp through wigs and wardrobes, wit and wantonness. "A plateful of giddy meringue from the undisputed doyen of the effervescent gay novel of manners." - Kirkus Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 11, 2017 TCC METRO CAMPUS STUDE TU ION 9:30 AM - 1:00 PM Co-sponsored with Oklahomans For Equa lity TULSA COMMUNITY COUEGE TulsaCC.edu 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 4th, 2017 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-4th--2017.... er Productions and OKEQ Presents ... Tulsa Progressive Ministers' Statement "As a response to the "Nashville Statement", we the undersigned wish to express that the practice of Christianity is not monolithic and that while there may be churches in Tulsa that affirm the recent statement from this group of evangelicals, there are also many churches, faithful practitioners and church leaders who do not. Instead, we affirm the statement from Christians United in Support of LGBTQ+ Inclusion in the Church, which fully affirms, embraces, and celebrates the LGBTQ+ community who are, like all of humanity, created in God's image. Please know that those who signed the Nashville Statement do not speak for all Christians, and their limited views do not get to define you or Christianity. We lead churches full of people who will welcome and support you in your own faith journey." The Rev. Chris Moore Fellowship Congregational (United Church of Christ) The Rev. Fr. Dewayne Messenger The Parish Church of St. Jerome (Ecumenical Catholic Communion) The Rev. Kelli Driscoll Bethany Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) The Rev. Evan Taylor East Side Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) The Rev. Todd Freeman College Hill Presbyterian Church The Rev. Cathey Edwards Hope Unitarian Church 4/24/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews October 4th, 2017 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-4th--2017.... The Rev. Bill Crowell St. Paul's United Methodist Church The Rev. Barbara Prose All Souls (Unitarian Universalist) The Rev. Courtney Richards Ordained Minister, Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) The Rev. Bill Hemm Forest Park Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) The Rev. Dr. Gary Peluso-Verdend President, Phillips Theological Seminary The Rev. Robert Martin First Lutheran Church (Evangelical Lutheran Church of America) r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I 4/24/26, 4:06 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d93989715e2f21f5537d23cb1cabbd84.pdf 9ac0c5dc653dce0004e1df93471a1174 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 19th, 2017 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-19th--2017.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews July 19th, 2017 oklahomans for equality news In This Issue George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a Member EBA Mixer S.A.G.E. Petition George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties 2017 Mosaic Survey Tulsa Public Schools Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today> All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Coming Out Workshop Gayming Night with Microsoft Ladies Social Club Events July Volunteer of the Month GEORG KAISER FAMILY FOU DATIO A upportmg org n, t,on of Tu/ Commumty Found t1on 2017 OkEq Board Elections Gay Men's Dinner Group "First Thursday" Art Opening Friend for a Friend Identities 101 Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and learn how to make your donation today. Become a Voting member of Oklahomans for Equality NOH8 Photo Shoot Zarrow Mental Health Symposium July Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The July Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Sandi Willhite in an Exhibit Titled "Tulsa Cowgirls" , beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the m onth. Family Ties EBA Mixer Wednesday July 19, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by St. Francis Community Service 5840 S Memorial Dr #102, Tulsa, OK 74145 Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op 4/24/26, 3:59 PM �OkEq eNews July 19th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-19th--2017.htm... E UALITY Business Alliance Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Facilitated by Brendon Glon Join us for July's Equality Business Alliance mixer hosted by St. Francis Community Service. Since 1945, Saint Francis Community Services has been dedicated to the needs of children and youth. We advocate for them and work to protect them. We do our best to ensure that every child we serve gets a chance at a happy and fulfilling life. As a non-profit, faith-based organization, we place great stock in the value of both traditional and non-traditional families. We believe strong families make children's lives better. Lawyer in the Library August 9 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. That's why we care for children through community-based means, serving 10,000 children in Kansas, Nebraska, Oklahoma, and Texas with a broad range of programs and services. We help strengthen and heal families while providing for the health and security of children. Though rooted in the Episcopal tradition, Saint Francis Community Services is an independent not-for-profit organization dedicated to the protection, nurturing, and healing of children and families in body, mind, and spirit. To that end, while partnering with government agencies in supporting children and families in crisis, Saint Francis Community Services honors religious freedom and is also committed to allowing children and families in its care to participate in religious activities on a voluntary basis. Saint Francis Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Community Services• Serving Children andFamiuts Since 1945 Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Check out St Francis Community Service online at www.st-francis.org The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Tell President Trump to keep the T in LGBT President Trump is trying to erase trans elders from a federal aging survey that determines how billions of dollars are spent. We must raise our voices as a community to say: Trans people count. -----------Our deadline is Monday, July 24th. Raise your voice. It will take only a minute to tell President Trump that our pioneering trans elders count and should be counted. Sa~e Advocacy & I Services for LGBTElders We refuse to be invisible Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org -- · - - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Send your letter to President Trump right now! S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Fourth Tuesday of each month Tuesday July 25, Aug. 22, 10:00am 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their second pool party on Tuesday, July 25th at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, deserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center TAKE THE 2017 MOSAIC SURVEY 4/24/26, 3:59 PM �OkEq eNews July 19th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-19th--2017.htm... The 2017 Mosaic Inclusive Workplace Culture Survey is live until August 7, 2017. • rrax:c powered by the tulsa regional chamber Mosaic's annual Inclusive Workplace Culture survey provides benchmark data for companies and organizations to gauge their strengths, opportunities and challenges. For those with exceptional diversity and inclusion practices, Mosaic awards the Top Inclusive Workplace Culture with recognition given at the three, four and five star level. Organizations demonstrating commitment to diversity and inclusion but in need of additional work in certain areas receive the distinction of Rising Star. This survey provides invaluable data to help our region continue to strengthen its diversity and inclusion practices. These are not just feel-good metrics. This information provides critical information to help make Tulsa and surrounding cities more desirable places to live, work and grow a business. The survey does not have to be completed in one sitting. If you would like to preview a full PDF of the survey, click the links below. Preview the small business (1-50 employees) survey. --------Preview the large business (50+ employees) survey. Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Click here to begin or to share with someone at your pace of employment. Tulsa Children Need People Like You Teaching positions are available throughout Tulsa Public Schools We are the destination for extraordinary educators and exceptional staff who work with our community and families to ignite the joy of learning and prepare every student for the greatest success in college, careers, and life. Tulsa Public Schools is on an exciting five-year journey to Destination Excellence, and we invite you to join us! From teachers, to bus drivers, to cafeteria assistants, we have positions available throughout the district for individuals who are ready to make a meaningful difference in the lives of Tulsa students and families. When you make the choice to work, live, and grow with Team Tulsa, you become part of a dynamic community of learners, contributors, and designers who strive to embody our core values of equity, character, excellence, team, and joy every day. TULSA PUBLIC SCHOOLS View and apply for available positions with Tulsa Public Schools. ---------Learn more about the journey to Destination Excellence. Explore our core values and beliefs. Coming Out Workshop Mondays 6:00 - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Facilitated by Brendon Glon Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Gayming Night with Microsoft Saturday, July 29 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come on out for a night of fun and games. Socialize, make new friends, and try your hand at our collection of board and Micosoft video games. It's a great way to socialize outside of the bar and club scene! Snacks and light refreshments provided. So come out and join us and let's have some fun! We strive to create accessible and inclusive spaces for all our members. If you require any accommodations to ensure your full participation, please contact: Jose.vega@okeq.org Ladies Social Club Events Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/ affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 . Friday July 30, 2:00 - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come craft with us! Knotty Bitches meets the last Sunday of each month in the upstairs couch area of the Oklahoma Equality Center to knit*, chat, and write to our government representatives about the issues that are on our minds. Anyone identifying as a woman is welcome to come and bring one guest of any gender. Kids are welcome too; there is a room for them right next door. All letter writing materials are provided, including help with finding your representatives and figuring out what you want to say. *Any portable craft is welcome. Craft supplies not provided. July Volunteer of the Month Nina Ryan Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, 4/24/26, 3:59 PM �OkEq eNews July 19th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-19th--2017.htm... and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com I have been volunteering with OKEQ 8 months. Wow. It sure doesn't seem it's been that long. Time goes by so fast. Volunteering somewhere has been a goal of mine for sometime. While my kids were in school, and I wasn't working outside the home, I volunteered at their schools. As my older ones went off to college and my youngest was in high school I went to work at Tulsa Tech in Broken Arrow. Once I stopped working there I kept thinking I would find a place to volunteer and nothing really inspired me to go ahead with it. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The campaign for President of the United States had been a topic of conversation between my son Jack and I for many months before November, 2016. I have always disliked discussing politics with anyone. Living in my protected bubble I was comfortable in the knowledge everything would work out for the best. People are good, and caring and accepting. So I thought. Jack introduced me to the beliefs of Mike Pence, Steve Bannon, and many others on Trump's team. After acquainting myself with some of their views on LGBTQ issues, and other policies they believed in, I was disturbed, but thought surely Trump won't get elected. Well, we all know how that turned out. Jack was devastated, and worried and scared. No matter what I said to him, he was convinced this was the end of life as we know it. It some ways it was. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. So I got on line and looked for a way to support the LGBTQ community. I was also selfish in this endeavor because I was also looking for a way to learn more about LGBTQ people so I could understand and become more accepting myself. My favorite part of volunteering with OKEQ is visiting with the people that are working and volunteering at the center. I also enjoy meeting the variety of people that come in. I have definitely realized what a secure little bubble I have lived in all of my life. I knew I would be openminded to the way others live and view the world, from my time at working with students at Tulsa Tech. That was my first eye opening experience. It helped me to not judge people by what they were wearing or how many piercings or tattoos they have. This is the first time I have knowingly been around LGBTQ folks. I feel everyone would be more accepting and understanding if you would get to know the individual people that are LGBTQ. Being a volunteer at OKEQ has helped me to realize how difficult it can be to live your true self. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. When I am not volunteering at the center I spend time with my daughters and their children. I would love to have more time with Jack, but he lives in San Antonio. We talk often and keep in touch via texts. I like, well I used to enjoy it more, but I do cook almost every day. Gardening has always been something I have enjoyed. I'm not a vegetable gardener, I love flowers. It is how I relax. There are so many things OKEQ offers, it is hard to pick what event or program I like the best. I have been most impressed with the information and support that is given to everyone that asks for it by the staff and volunteers that I have come in contact with. I would recommend to anyone who wants a place to volunteer and is interested in helping others in there quests for equality. At the same time being you will be around people that value that you are there. You can be there as little as 3 hours a week or choose to give more of your time, it's up to you. You'll be glad you did. If you would like to volunteer, click here or contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 2017 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 7th, 2017 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, six Board of Director spaces are up for election. Six directors will be elected. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made b y petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 23rd) Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member and membership fees current 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) • oklahomans for equality ■ Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for 4/24/26, 3:59 PM �OkEq eNews July 19th, 2017 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-19th--2017.htm... transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Gay Men's Dinner Group Events Tuesday August 1, 6:30 p.m. Taziki's Mediterranean Cafe 4929 E. 71st St., Tulsa, OK 74136 Game Night August 1st at 6:30pm is our next men's dinner. We are eating at Taziki's Mediterranean Cafe. Located at 4929 e. 71st St. (71st & Yale) Tulsa. If you are coming please let me know so I have a headcount for the reservation. Friday August 4, 7:00 p.m. 2601 S. 96th E. Ct., Tulsa OK 74129 tazikiscafe.com Pool Party August 4th ( Friday) from 7:00pm-midnight at 2601 S. 96th E. Ct., Tulsa OK. Bring your own beer or alcohol if you wish to drink, but no glass containers or getting drunk. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Thank you! P lease RSVP if you are coming to either event so I have a head count. Gay Men's Dinner Group, Richard Haley GuysDineToo@gmail.com "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday August 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The August Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an Exhibit Titled "Four Artists - Four Styles", beginning with a reception on Thursday, August 3rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. "Four Artists - Four Styles" is a group of 4 artists who work together bringing a juxtaposition of styles and mediums together for this show. Charlotte Lough is compelled to paint - it is that simple. "If I go for several days without picking up a paint brush I feel a void that is only filled by making art". She is inspired by the beauty of nature all around - she is drawn to paint birds, butterflies, flowers, landscapes, water, and animals. Her fascination with water has led her to a challenge of painting and understanding different kinds of water including still water, ocean waves, babbling brooks, and waterfalls. Most recently she has given herself the ongoing challenge of painting fifty roses - all are fascinating in their complex and beauty. She currently prefers to work in impressionism/ representational, but is always trying new approaches and styles as she evolves in her expression. Karin Cermak has moved away from strictly traditional realistic painting to soft contemporary and abstract painting based on her creativity and independence-of-thought on the real image of subjects. She enjoys the freedom of contemporary and abstract painting, where she can blend the reality with the fantasy. Both styles allow her to be spontaneous, to play with colors and forms, to use different materials, to express her feelings. Janie Crean focuses on the beauty of nature in her wildlife and landscape paintings of the great American West. Her paintings bring the outdoor world to life with the use of composition and light. She says of her work, "Only an artist would be excited by feathers and fur! It's a challenge to paint, but worth the effort as you see your wildlife come to life." Her style of painting has evolved into an impressionistic style. Her objective is to create a painting that comes together by knowing what to include and what to leave to the viewer's imagination and eye. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day 4/24/26, 3:59 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fd877e3ff842ba7dd7d269ffe5ea6000.pdf cc1110b543eecf9c9da8525bec5f693f PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 18th, 2017 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-18th--2017... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility EBA Mixer October 18th, 2017 In This Issue October EBA Mixer OKEQ Rooftop Rally PARTY BOI Movie withQPOC Group -Night -Condomania! Fun Home Who's Gonna Love Me Now? Wednesday October 18th, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Equality Business Alliance Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Pride Bingo Halloween Edition Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group Equality Center Renovations...Grand Opening "First Thursday" Art Opening Guys Dine Too E UALITY Business Alliance Non-Binary Support Group Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator Join t he Southern Pride Drum Group Artist Call for 2018 TULSA PROJECT THEATRE October Volunteer of the Month October Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library ICAO Hell on Heels Route 66 USofA 2017 Hope Conference Bullying Prevention Conference The EBA exists to strengthen Gay Welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: * Providing a directory of Gay Welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community: http://www.okeq.org/equality-business-alliance.html * Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and * Creating professional environments where Gay Welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. Benefits of Membership: * Inclusion in EBA Directory on the OkEq Website * Email updates of EBA events and opportunities * Invitation to Networking Events and ability to host future events * Marketing opportunities at EBA and community events You can join the EBA online at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, October 19 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the combined works of Carlyn Ritter, Kate, Kline and Shauna Henry, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. These three creative artists tempt you with this invitation: "Journey with us to the secret world of dolls. Look through the keyholes, in the shadowy parts of the forest, or even in the hidden recesses of your mind. From sweet to sinister, they live in the in between places. Sewn, twisted and sculpted into being, they will whisper their stories to you if only you will listen". Family Ties The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. OKEQ Rooftop Rally Anti-Bullying Thursday, October 19 at 6:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:07 PM �OkEq eNews October 18th, 2017 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-18th--2017... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the center's roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 19th, 2017 at 6:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate rooftop rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net For more information email toby.jenkins@okeq.org Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op PARTY BOI Movie Night with QPOC Group Friday October 20, 6:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104 A new documentary that focuses on the effects of crystal meth addiction in relation to the LGBTQ community of color. The film features real stories of real people who are thinking about, dealing with, and surviving crystal meth addiction. It is an untold tale from the urban perspective that has the possibility to change the perception of the "parTy & play" life style within inner city queer demographics. The riveting accounts and cinematic portrayals grant an informative and captivating documentary sure to bring awareness to all audiences. Directed by Michael Rice, a Booker T. Washington graduate. For ticket information click here Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Condomania! Saturday October 21, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 When planning our annual fundraiser this year, we thought-why not a party featuring condom-fashions? CONDOMANIA will be an amazing party, public awareness event, and fundraiser for The Little Blue House. The event will feature models presenting original designs of fashion accessories made out of condoms! Through Condomania we tell our community that: * Sexual health is an important part of overall health * Sexual health can be discussed and promoted * Our community will not be bullied into silence and shame around universal issues of sexuality and reproductive health. tONDQ~ANIAJ CTXBOillillTIEJi1 wW • a ~UNdraiser with fashion, food, and triuo\i\'4 Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org Lawyer in the Library November 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. We hope you will join us for some fashion, food, and frivolity featuring condoms as wearable art! Costume attire IS encouraged! A buffet dinner is provided and there will be a cash bar. Sponsorships are available! Healthcare Navigator Click here to purchase tickets Fun Home - Presented by American Theatre Company Oct. 21, 26-28, 8:00 p.m., Oct. 22, 2:00 p.m. John H. Williams Theatre Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Winner of the 2015 Tony Award for Best Musical! A fresh and brilliantly told story adapted by Lisa Kron and Jeanine Tesori from Alison Bechdel's 2006 graphic memoir of the same name, the show is marked by Gothic twists, a family funeral home, sexual angst and great books. As she works on her memoir in the present day, successful middle-aged cartoonist Alison Bechdel recalls two time periods in her life. The first is her childhood, around age 10, when she struggles against her father's obsessive demands and begins to identify her own sexuality. The second is her first year in college when she begins her first relationship. FUN Click here to purchase tickets - Use discount code "funhome1" Who's Gonna Love Me Now? Wednesday, October 25th, 6:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Avenue, Tulsa Tickets are $10 (On Sale Now!) E Thursdays 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppgreatplains.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Synopsis: Saar is an HIV positive gay man living in London, where he found refuge from the religious kibbutz where he grew up in Israel. Ever since he was diagnosed with HIV, Saar has craved his family's love, while they struggle with fears and prejudices. Saar and the rest of the London Gay Men's Chorus provide a glorious soundtrack for this documentary about the power of forgiveness and the power that home has, no matter how far we go. Introduced by Toby Jenkins, Executive Director, Equality Center of Oklahoma 4/24/26, 4:07 PM �OkEq eNews October 18th, 2017 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-18th--2017... -. Website: www.circlecinema.com W? ,.7 - ~ ' [WflLMBY MANN 8R01Hl~S M2=" ~ .:::::a.. ""'-- • wt• - ■ I Cl 'il" Official Selection - Oklahoma Jewish Film Festival, Oct. 22-25 Dr. Kurt Choate Tulsa Pride Bingo Halloween Edition Friday, October 27, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back and just in time for Halloween. Get your scary or outrageous costume ready because there will be prizes for the best costumes. The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Vegas and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Halloween Bingo Bash. DJ Alex says "get your lip syncing Halloween selections ready." $20 for general admission Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center $30 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets · =-_-$225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group Wednesday November 1, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/ affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Equality Center Renovations Grand Opening Thursday, November 2, 5:30 p.m. Cocktail Hour 7:00 p.m. - Ribbon Cutting Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Honored Guest, Mayor GT Bynum and entertainers, Rebecca Ungerman, Pat Hobbs, and Eric Himan will be here for the Event Center Grand Opening and dedication of the new windows. GRAND OPENING ~ Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday, November 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The November Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Mallory Taylor. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 2nd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. Mallory Taylor is a self-taught artist born in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She is of Osage, Cherokee, Blackfoot, Crow, Black Dutch and Irish decent. Her acrylic paintings and pencil drawings are expressionistic in nature. In an attempt to preserve her Native American culture through her contemporary style, she will often include handwritten explanations of the stories and historical artifacts represented within her work. Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa 4/24/26, 4:07 PM �OkEq eNews October 18th, 2017 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-18th--2017... Ms. Taylors work has been exhibited at the Oklahoma Indian Art Gallery in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, the Muskogee Creek Nation Museum Okmulgee, Oklahoma, The Jacobson House in Norman, Oklahoma, The Corridor in the Paseo Art District, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, in addition to other venues. Her work is currently exhibited at Pop Gallery, Sante Fe, New Mexico, Bella Fine Art in Monument, Colorado, The Bishop Gallery, Brooklyn, New York and will be showcased in a traveling show in 2017 with Native Pop. She also has murals in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma in the Brady Art District located near Guthrie Green. Ms. Taylor is most proud of the fact that her work is currently exhibited at the Fred Jones Museum in Norman, Oklahoma, alongside works by her father, Robert Taylor, who has been a great influence on her work. Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Ms. Taylor hopes that her work evokes the emotion and beauty of both past and present-day Native American culture not only for Native Americans but all races and Nationalities. Please follow her work on Facebook and Instagram: https://www.facebook.com/InspiredArtByMTaylor/ and @InspiredArtbyMTaylor Guys Dine Too Tuesday November 7, 6:30 p.m. Siegi's Sausage Factory 8104 S Sheridan Rd, Tulsa, OK 74133 Siegi's Sausage Factory has been hand-making sausages since 1980. Siegi's is a family owned and run local business in Tulsa, OK. Siegi Sumaruk, a fifth generation sausage maker from Linz, Austria, uses recipes passed down from his family. He runs his Meat Market, Deli, and Restaurant along with his wife, children, and grandchildren. With a focus on family & quality, we guarantee the very best from our products. SIEGl'S --- For more information on Siegi's Sausage Factory - - - - - - - --· SAUSAGE FACTORY RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com Non-Binary Support Group Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/ anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Wednesday October 18, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 This support group is for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact the center at 918-743-4297 Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator Every Thursday 1:00-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act. Join the Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Southern Pride drum group is the only drum group of its kind in the entire world, being the only drum comprised of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have travelled all across the US and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. Currently they are seeking to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and add to their tight knit drum family. Artist Call for 2018 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2018 Exhibition Calendar. Our gallery encourages emerging artists who create fresh, challenging work in all media, including installation works to apply. Details: Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is installed on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to donate a piece as a door prize which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artists will also provide artwork labels (title, price, etc) for each piece. A bio and artist statement are due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. How to Apply: Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted by email. Proposals incorporating the work of two artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. Deadline for submissions is October 20, 2017. Notifications will be sent out by November 3, 2017. Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org , with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" 4/24/26, 4:07 PM �OkEq eNews October 18th, 2017 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-18th--2017... Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Today, Tulsa Project Theatre (TPT), the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, announced its 2017-2018 season. Three of the season's productions are in collaboration with other AEA affiliates - two from Oklahoma City and one with whom fans of the hit TV shows, Big Bang Theory and Speechless, may be familiar. In February 2018, TPT returns to the intimate Norman Theatre at the Tulsa PAC to present the Regional Premiere of John Ross Bowie's FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN. This brand new non-musical play centers on the iconic punk band, The Ramones, as they record their fifth album with eccentric music producer, Phil Spector. Focusing on the period in 1979-1980 when the band stood on the edge of breaking out, and Spector needed a hit, this intense black comedy sheds light on an important and overlooked moment in rock history. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN was written by actor and comedian John Ross Bowie, best known for his role as Barry Kripke in the CBS show THE BIG BANG THEORY and currently as Jimmy Dimeo on the ABC show SPEECHLESS. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN runs February 16-25, 2018. TICK...TICK...BOOM! is an autobiographical musical by Jonathan Larson, the late Pulitzer Prize- and Tony Awardwinning composer of Rent, which tells the story of a composer and the sacrifices he made to achieve his big break, eventually leading to a Broadway blockbuster. His girlfriend wants to get married and move out of the city, his best friend is making big bucks on Madison Avenue and, yet, Jon is still waiting tables and trying to write the great American rock musical. Set in 1990, this compelling story of personal discovery embraces the universal ideal of holding onto your dreams through life's most difficult challenges. Before RENT, there was TICK...TICK...BOOM! The production will run for a weekend in Oklahoma City before arriving in Tulsa for a limited run on April 27 - 29, 2018. Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/ spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Tulsa Project Theatre will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera LIZZIE, set to run July 13-22, 2018. On a sweltering summer morning in 1892, in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden was the prime suspect and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. LIZZIE features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. LIZZIE is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information ---------- October Volunteer of the Month Westly Dotson Westly's favorite part of volunteering with OKEQ is "seeing the genuine sense of belonging and support that the center provides. For many people, this is the only place they feel truly welcome." When I am not volunteering, you can find me working a 9-5, watching Let's Plays and Korean and Southern cooking shows on YouTube, playing video games, reading in bed, or plotting world domination. My favorite thing to do at the center is visit the Art Gallery. I come from an art background and I love that the center has a space to showcase many different styles of expression. I volunteer on Wednesdays, so I am also partial to the gender support group that I see every week. The group really seems like a close knit family. I would definitely recommend volunteering at OKEQ. People need this center. It's more than just programming and resources. Volunteers are what make this center keep running and successful. For those who are unable to contribute financially, know that there is a way for you to show your support. Thank you for your dedication Westly! If you would like to volunteer, click here or contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org October Video eNews Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Equality Center Pride Store 2017 Tulsa Pride Shirts are still a vailable in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store for $20.00 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 4/24/26, 4:07 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b63b46fd57e298169d282a84cc11ef51.pdf 97287fabfea6f3d7e89d27de1479f63e PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 25th, 2017 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-25th--2017... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility October 25th, 2017 In This Issue Shawna & Jayme Sponsor the Day Tulsa Pride Bingo Halloween Edition Fun Home Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group Shawna & Jayme Sponsor the Day Equality Center Renovations...Grand Opening Friday October 27, 2017 "First Thursday" Art Opening Tulsa Writers, Ink Guys Dine Too Thank you Shawna & Jayme No Shade for Plus Asexual Meeting November EBA Mixer Non-Binary Support Group Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator Join t he Southern Pride Drum Group Article Headline If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here Article Headline • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday • Just Because OkEq Holiday Shopping Market Oklahomans for Equality - Creating Change TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Pride Store Rainbow Library ICAO Hell on Heels Tulsa Pride Bingo Halloween Edition Route 66 USofA Friday, October 27, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 2017 Hope Conference Bullying Prevention Conference • Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back and just in time for Halloween! Get your scary or outrageous costume ready because there will be prizes for the best costumes. The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Vegas and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Halloween Bingo Bash. DJ Alex says "get your lip syncing Halloween selections ready." $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, November 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the combined works of Carlyn Ritter, Kate, Kline and Shauna Henry, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. These three creative artists tempt you with this invitation: "Journey with us to the secret world of dolls. Look through the keyholes, in the shadowy parts of the forest, or even in the hidden recesses of your mind. From sweet to sinister, they live in the in between places. Sewn, twisted and sculpted into being, they will whisper their stories to you if only you will listen". Family Ties 4/24/26, 4:07 PM �OkEq eNews October 25th, 2017 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-25th--2017... Fun Home - Presented by American Theatre Company Oct. 26-28, 8:00 p.m. John H. Williams Theatre Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Winner of the 2015 Tony Award for Best Musical! A fresh and brilliantly told story adapted by Lisa Kron and Jeanine Tesori from Alison Bechdel's 2006 graphic memoir of the same name, the show is marked by Gothic twists, a family funeral home, sexual angst and great books. As she works on her memoir in the present day, successful middle-aged cartoonist Alison Bechdel recalls two time periods in her life. The first is her childhood, around age 10, when she struggles against her father's obsessive demands and begins to identify her own sexuality. The second is her first year in college when she begins her first relationship. FUN Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op Click here to purchase tickets - Use discount code "funhome1" Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group Wednesday November 1, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org Lawyer in the Library Equality Center Renovations Grand Opening Thursday, November 2, 5:30 p.m. Cocktail Hour 7:00 p.m. - Ribbon Cutting Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Honored Guest, Mayor GT Bynum and entertainers, Rebecca Ungerman, Pat Hobbs, and Eric Himan will be here for the Event Center Grand Opening and dedication of the new windows. GRAND OPENING November 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator ~ tftA "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday, November 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The November Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Mallory Taylor. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 2nd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. Mallory Taylor is a self-taught artist born in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She is of Osage, Cherokee, Blackfoot, Crow, Black Dutch and Irish decent. Her acrylic paintings and pencil drawings are expressionistic in nature. In an attempt to preserve her Native American culture through her contemporary style, she will often include handwritten explanations of the stories and historical artifacts represented within her work. Ms. Taylors work has been exhibited at the Oklahoma Indian Art Gallery in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, the Muskogee Creek Nation Museum Okmulgee, Oklahoma, The Jacobson House in Norman, Oklahoma, The Corridor in the Paseo Art District, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, in addition to other venues. Her work is currently exhibited at Pop Gallery, Sante Fe, New Mexico, Bella Fine Art in Monument, Colorado, The Bishop Gallery, Brooklyn, New York and will be showcased in a traveling show in 2017 with Native Pop. She also has murals in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma in the Brady Art District located near Guthrie Green. Ms. Taylor is most proud of the fact that her work is currently exhibited at the Fred Jones Museum in Norman, Oklahoma, alongside works by her father, Robert Taylor, who has been a great influence on her work. Thursdays 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppgreatplains.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Ms. Taylor hopes that her work evokes the emotion and beauty of both past and present-day Native American culture not only for Native Americans but all 4/24/26, 4:07 PM �OkEq eNews October 25th, 2017 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-25th--2017... races and Nationalities. Please follow her work on Facebook and Instagram: https://www.facebook.com/InspiredArtByMTaylor/ and @InspiredArtbyMTaylor Tulsa Writers, Ink. First and third Saturday of each month Next meeting November 4, 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Dr. Kurt Choate An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. ~ ~ ft. Tulsa Writers, Ink~ at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ~ Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center Guys Dine Too Tuesday November 7, 6:30 p.m. Siegi's Sausage Factory 8104 S Sheridan Rd, Tulsa, OK 74133 Siegi's Sausage Factory has been hand-making sausages since 1980. Siegi's is a family owned and run local business in Tulsa, OK. Siegi Sumaruk, a fifth generation sausage maker from Linz, Austria, uses recipes passed down from his family. He runs his Meat Market, Deli, and Restaurant along with his wife, children, and grandchildren. With a focus on family & quality, we guarantee the very best from our products. For more information on Siegi's Sausage Factory -------· RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com SIEGl'S ,..._ SAUSAGE FACTORY Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/ affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday beginning November 7, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their life being PLUS. Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Asexual Meeting Every other Tuesday Next meeting October 31, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa 4/24/26, 4:07 PM �OkEq eNews October 25th, 2017 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-25th--2017... This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Asexuality can be defined in many different ways. Some of us identify as asexual because we are not interested in intercourse, but still want other forms of sex. Some of us identify as asexual because we cannot get sexually aroused. Others may identify as asexual because we are never attracted to anyone sexually. Some of us are in relationships with the opposite sex, some with the same sex, and others remain unattached our entire lives. EBA Mixer Wednesday November 15th, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Angel's Pet Funeral Home and Crematory 6589 E. Broken Arrow Expressway Frontage Rd , Tulsa , Ok 74145 Angel Askins' dream of offering a place where pets could receive the same special care and compassion as our human family members began over 20 years ago. Angel has been a licensed funeral director for over 33 years, with 20 years' experience as a crematory operator. Angel grew up on a farm in Paris, Arkansas, where she was surrounded by animals with a purpose, but not pets. She adopted her first dog at age 19 which led to many others that were all loved as if they were her child. When she was 17, she began working in a funeral home and found her true passion: helping others deal with grief and loss of those they loved. When her first beloved pet died, the idea for Angel's Pet Funeral Home and Crematory was born. Angel wanted there to be a place where families could bring their fourlegged family members that was dedicated just to them. Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/ anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 "I hope you can feel at ease knowing that someone who truly cares will be taking care of your baby as if they were one of my own." Visit Angel's Pet Funeral Home online You can join the EBA online at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. E UALITY Business Alliance The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Non-Binary Support Group Wednesday October 18, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 This support group is for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact the center at 918-743-4297 Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator Every Thursday 1:00-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act. Join the Southern Pride Drum Group Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Every Thursday, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Southern Pride drum group is the only drum group of its kind in the entire world, being the only drum comprised of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have travelled all across the US and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. Currently they are seeking to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and add to their tight knit drum family. 4/24/26, 4:07 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/bfa0e8c23c35e01eba1db19a4c3e8f13.pdf 054422bca51c8147fcb27d9a7ba45bd4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 1st, 2017 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-1st--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility Equality Center Renovations Grand Opening Thursday, November 2, 5:30 p.m. Cocktail Hour 7:00 p.m. - Ribbon Cutting Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Honored Guest, Mayor GT Bynum and entertainers, Rebecca Ungerman, Pat Hobbs, Eric Himan, Robbie Dee Woody, and Council Oak Mens Chorale will be here for the completed Center renovation Grand Opening and dedication of the new windows. November 1st, 2017 In This Issue Grand Opening "First Thursday" Art Opening November Video eNews November Volunteer of the Month No Shade for Plus Asexual Meeting Tulsa Writers, Ink Guys Dine Too November EBA Mixer Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator Join t he Southern Pride Drum Group Article Headline ___, GRAND OPENING Article Headline -==~- World AIDS Day Turn Tulsa Red PFLAG Holiday Brunch OkEq Holiday Shopping Market Oklahomans for Equality - Creating Change TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Pride Store ==-Rainbow Library Route 66 USofA I.C.A.O. Military Ball Fleet Week 2017 Hope Conference Bullying Prevention Conference DO AU "First Thursday" Art Opening -tiowr Thursday, November 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 CLICK HERE The November Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Mallory Taylor. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 2nd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. Mallory Taylor is a self-taught artist born in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She is of Osage, Cherokee, Blackfoot, Crow, Black Dutch and Irish decent. Her acrylic paintings and pencil drawings are expressionistic in nature. In an attempt to preserve her Native American culture through her contemporary style, she will often include handwritten explanations of the stories and historical artifacts represented within her work. Ms. Taylors work has been exhibited at the Oklahoma Indian Art Gallery in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, the Muskogee Creek Nation Museum Okmulgee, Oklahoma, The Jacobson House in Norman, Oklahoma, The Corridor in the Paseo Art District, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, in addition to other venues. Her work is currently exhibited at Pop Gallery, Sante Fe, New Mexico, Bella Fine Art in Monument, Colorado, The Bishop Gallery, Brooklyn, New York and will be showcased in a traveling show in 2017 with Native Pop. She also has murals in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma in the Brady Art District located near Guthrie Green. Ms. Taylor is most proud of the fact that her work is currently exhibited at the Fred Jones Museum in Norman, Oklahoma, alongside works by her father, Robert Taylor, who has been a great influence on her work. Ms. Taylor hopes that her work evokes the emotion and beauty of both past and present-day Native American culture not only for Native Americans but all races and Nationalities. Please follow her work on Facebook and Instagram: https://www.facebook.com/InspiredArtByMTaylor/ and @InspiredArtbyMTaylor November Video eNews OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, November 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of the combined works of Carlyn Ritter, Kate, Kline and Shauna Henry, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. These three creative artists tempt you with this invitation: "Journey with us to the secret world of dolls. Look through the keyholes, in the shadowy parts of the forest, or even in the hidden recesses of your mind. From sweet to sinister, they live in the in between places. Sewn, twisted and sculpted into being, they will whisper their stories to you if only you will listen". November Volunteer of the Month Tamra Jennings 4/24/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews November 1st, 2017 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-1st--201... Family Ties Tamra Jennings started volunteering in February or March 2017, because her son passed away of natural causes and her Aunts donated to have his name on the Wall of Remembrance. "Since his name hangs here, it is where I want and need to be", states Tamra. Her favorite part of volunteering at the center is interacting with the staff but mainly the people who come in. We have our "regulars" and she just adores some of them. When Tamra is not volunteering she is a wife and Mom. She has been married to her husband Jonathan for 21 years and they have a 14 year old old daughter named Sarah. Sarah is involved in Softball and Band at Broken Arrow so she keeps Tamra busy. Tamra also writes a grief blog and works to raise funds for their son's Memorial Endowment at RSU. Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Tamra says "I am really looking forward to helping at a Bingo night as I hear they are quite fun! I haven't gotten to participate in many events yet since I just got involved this year. I did march in Pride giving out 'Free Mom Hugs'". And she enthusiastically encourages everyone to volunteer - " Yes! Yes! Yes! People should definitely volunteer. There is something that volunteering here does to my heart. It may be because we lost our son but, being here in this environment which is so positive and loving is amazing. Seeing all the good work the center does brings joy to me." Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op Thank you for your enthusiasm Tamra! Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org If you would like to volunteer, click here or contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org No Shade for Plus Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org Lawyer in the Library Every Tuesday beginning November 7, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 November 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their life being PLUS. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator for Thursdays 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppgreatplains.org Asexual Meeting Every other Tuesday Next meeting October 31, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. Asexuality can be defined in many different ways. Some of us identify as asexual because we are not 4/24/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews November 1st, 2017 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-1st--201... interested in intercourse, but still want other forms of sex. Some of us identify as asexual because we cannot get sexually aroused. Others may identify as asexual because we are never attracted to anyone sexually. Some of us are in relationships with the opposite sex, some with the same sex, and others remain unattached our entire lives. Tulsa Writers, Ink. First and third Saturday of each month Next meeting November 4, 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Dr. Kurt Choate An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. ~ Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 1 ~ ~ Tulsa Writers, Ink~ - at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ~ OSU Tulsa Counseling Center -Guys Dine Too Tuesday November 7, 6:30 p.m. Siegi's Sausage Factory 8104 S Sheridan Rd, Tulsa, OK 74133 Siegi's Sausage Factory has been hand-making sausages since 1980. Siegi's is a family owned and run local business in Tulsa, OK. Siegi Sumaruk, a fifth generation sausage maker from Linz, Austria, uses recipes passed down from his family. He runs his Meat Market, Deli, and Restaurant along with his wife, children, and grandchildren. With a focus on family & quality, we guarantee the very best from our products. For more information on Siegi's Sausage Factory -------· SIEGl'S ,....., SAUSAGE FACTORY RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/ affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . EBA Mixer Wednesday November 15th, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Angel's Pet Funeral Home and Crematory 6589 E. Broken Arrow Expressway Frontage Rd , Tulsa , Ok 74145 Angel Askins' dream of offering a place where pets could receive the same special care and compassion as our human family members began over 20 years ago. Angel has been a licensed funeral director for over 33 years, with 20 years' experience as a crematory operator. Angel grew up on a farm in Paris, Arkansas, where she was surrounded by animals with a purpose, but not pets. She adopted her first dog at age 19 which led to many others that were all loved as if they were her child. When she was 17, she began working in a funeral home and found her true passion: helping others deal with grief and loss of those they loved. When her first beloved pet died, the idea for Angel's Pet Funeral Home and Crematory was born. Angel wanted there to be a place where families could bring their fourlegged family members that was dedicated just to them. i) J. Pet Funeral Home f., Crematory "I hope you can feel at ease knowing that someone who truly cares will be taking care of your baby as if they were one of my own." Visit Angel's Pet Funeral Home online Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . You can join the EBA online at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa 4/24/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews November 1st, 2017 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-1st--201... Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. E UALITY Business Alliance The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator Every Thursday 1:00-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/ anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act. Join the Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Southern Pride drum group is the only drum group of its kind in the entire world, being the only drum comprised of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have travelled all across the US and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. Currently they are seeking to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and add to their tight knit drum family. Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner Thursday November 23, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Joy Lutheran Church ELCA Fellowship Congregational Church UCC Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church ---Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International East Side Christian Church University United Methodist Church PFLAG Tulsa ------- Muslims 4 Mercy Centenary United Methodist Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Purchased gifts must be returned by December 8, 2017 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our 4/24/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews November 1st, 2017 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-1st--201... community so that they can have a happy holiday. For more information, please contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. World AIDS Day Turn Tulsa Red Friday, December 1, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In honor of World AIDS Day we are turning Tulsa red. Wear Red and Remember. Wear your red ribbon, wear your fire engine red outfit, die your hair red, and remember. Remember those who died, those we lost, and those who are still fighting for their lives. Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/ spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Presentations, Candlighting ceremony, performances, testimonies and honoring those living with HIV/AIDS. PFLAG Holiday Brunch Saturday, December 9, 1 1:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 PFLAG Tulsa is hosting a holiday brunch for parents of LGBTQ individuals. Enjoy a wonderful holiday meal with parents who support their LGBTQ children. Please RSVP to Olivia.cotter@okeq.org PFLAG TULSA CHAPTER OkEq Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 9, 12:00 - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com We invite you to join us for our 2nd annual OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. If you would like to be part of the fun and be a vendor at this year market please contact program director Jose Vega by email. Jose.vega@okeq.org Oklahomans for Equality - Creating Change in Washington D.C. Jan 20-28, 2018 Oklahomans for Equality is going to Washington D.C. for the 2018 Creating Change Conference and would like to invite you to come along with us. We will be leaving the center Jan 20, 2018 on a chartered bus. We will have several days for sightseeing and meeting with Oklahoma elected officials before the conference begins Wednesday Jan 24. Those who would like to perticipate can register online. The cost is $150 per person and includes transportation from Tulsa to Washington D.C. and back on a chartered bus, your hotel room (there will be 4 people to a room), and registration to the conference. Participants are responsible for their own food, tours, and extra expenses. Once you have registered online through OkEq Olivia will call you to get all information needed to register for the conference. Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday, 7:30 p.m. Southern Pride drum group is the only drum group of its kind in the entire world, being the only drum comprised of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have travelled all across the US and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. Currently they are seeking to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and add to their tight knit drum family. For more information contact Olivia Cotter at 918-743-4297 or olivia.cotter@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org So exactly what is Creating Change? The National LGBTQ Task Force sponsors and organizes the Creating Change. Creating Change 2018 is the 30 th anniversary of the conference. The Creating Change Conference is the foremost political, leadership and skills-building conference for the LGBTQ social justice movement. Since 1988, Creating Change has created opportunities for many thousands of committed people to develop and hone their skills, celebrate victories, build community, and to be inspired by visionaries of our LGBTQ movement and allied movements for justice and equality. More information about the conference, schedules and FAQ's can be found online at www.creatingchange.org. Queer Voices on the Hill: Thursday, January 25 - This a special event and you must sign up at the time of registration Creating Change Advocacy Day will begin with a training on how to effectively tell your story and connect with lawmakers, message training on key legislation, and role-play exercises to give participants a chance to practice before meeting with elected officials (or their staff). We will depart the Creating Change Conference together to travel to Capitol Hill. During our visits with lawmakers, participants will share personal stories, educate lawmakers (and their staff), thank our champions in Congress while also challenging other Congressional members to do more for LGBTQ equality, equity, and justice! People of all experience levels are welcome. Asexual Meeting Every other Tuesday It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a 4/24/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews November 1st, 2017 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-1st--201... part of the first Tulsa asexual group. Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Today, Tulsa Project Theatre (TPT), the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, announced its 2017-2018 season. Three of the season's productions are in collaboration with other AEA affiliates - two from Oklahoma City and one with whom fans of the hit TV shows, Big Bang Theory and Speechless, may be familiar. In February 2018, TPT returns to the intimate Norman Theatre at the Tulsa PAC to present the Regional Premiere of John Ross Bowie's FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN. This brand new non-musical play centers on the iconic punk band, The Ramones, as they record their fifth album with eccentric music producer, Phil Spector. Focusing on the period in 1979-1980 when the band stood on the edge of breaking out, and Spector needed a hit, this intense black comedy sheds light on an important and overlooked moment in rock history. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN was written by actor and comedian John Ross Bowie, best known for his role as Barry Kripke in the CBS show THE BIG BANG THEORY and currently as Jimmy Dimeo on the ABC show SPEECHLESS. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN runs February 16-25, 2018. TICK...TICK...BOOM! is an autobiographical musical by Jonathan Larson, the late Pulitzer Prize- and Tony Awardwinning composer of Rent, which tells the story of a composer and the sacrifices he made to achieve his big break, eventually leading to a Broadway blockbuster. His girlfriend wants to get married and move out of the city, his best friend is making big bucks on Madison Avenue and, yet, Jon is still waiting tables and trying to write the great American rock musical. Set in 1990, this compelling story of personal discovery embraces the universal ideal of holding onto your dreams through life's most difficult challenges. Before RENT, there was TICK...TICK...BOOM! The production will run for a weekend in Oklahoma City before arriving in Tulsa for a limited run on April 27 - 29, 2018. Asexuality can be defined in many different ways. Some of us identify as asexual because we are not interested in intercourse, but still want other forms of sex. Some of us identify as asexual because we cannot get sexually aroused. Others may identify as asexual because we are never attracted to anyone sexually. Some of us are in relationships with the opposite sex, some with the same sex, and others remain unattached our entire lives. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Tulsa Project Theatre will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera LIZZIE, set to run July 13-22, 2018. On a sweltering summer morning in 1892, in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden was the prime suspect and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. LIZZIE features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. LIZZIE is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Equality Center Pride Store 2017 Tulsa Pride Shirts are still a vailable in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store for $20.00 No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their life being PLUS. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items II Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Children's Hour" Produced and Directed by: William Wyler A child's lie has life-shattering consequences in this daring adaptation of Lillian Hellman's celebrated play. Starring Academy Award winners Audrey Hepburn and Shirley MacLaine and co-starring James Garner, Miriam Hopkins and Fay Bainter, this landmark film is "one of the most finely wrought dramas in the history of the screen" (Motion Picture Herald). Karen (Hepburn) and Martha (MacLaine) are the headmistresses of an exclusive school for girls. When they discipline a malicious little girl, the vindictive child twists an overheard comment into slander and accuses her teachers of questionable behavior. Soon the scandalous gossip engulfs the school's community, with repercussions that are swift, crushing...and tragic. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. 4/24/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews November 1st, 2017 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-1st--201... Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . er Productions and OKEQ Presents ... stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Writers, Ink. First and third Saturday of each month An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/24/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews November 1st, 2017 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-1st--201... services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/24/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews November 1st, 2017 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-1st--201... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews November 1st, 2017 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-1st--201... 2017 BULLYING PREVENTION CONFERENCE Featuring Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt is a Canada Research C a r In Oilldren's Mental H Ith and Viol nee Preven ,on l e Univ Valllancou 's research exom,nes tile tin Ith, with m ntal lty of Ott wa Dr between bully ng and part,cular focus on sod l n urosc1 nc . Sh Is currently fund d by the Can dlan I ~tltut or Ith R arch, the Social Sc nces and Humanities Council of Canada, and the Ontario Mental Heal h Foundation. Focus - Understanding Mental Health Outcomes Among Bullied Youth: Biological Considerations The prevalenc of behavioral and emotional disorders among A rican students is 1g about 20'lli of youth have serious mental heath prob I ms. Th se problems are often chron1 and lead lo significant pairment in school, ome, and community runctJon,ng. On root cause or m nt I h It dlfflcu toes Is b ng bull,ed by peers . Indeed, longitudinal studies point to a causal relation between c posur to bu lying and subsequent ntal health probl m,. Import ntly how .v r, not all youth bpcomP unw II as consequ m;e of poor peer treatment In this presentation, the h terog n ,t y In m ntal h alth outco es of bullied youth ls discu s d with specific focus on t roles or gen tics, neurophysiology, and ne roendocrl ology Educators, Mental-Health Providers, Parents, Advocates and All Interested in Bullying Prevention RSVP HERE to Attend Thursday, Nov mb r 30t h 8:45 m to Noon Evening Encore Presentat ion ov mb r 30 1• trom 7 8:30 pm Tulsa Tech Le I yCampus - Care reenter NO RSVP ecessary r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 4:08 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/48fd7da72fd298cfe017518e4ffcd27d.pdf a857f6a5b2dc9f27fc7d3b9a78e06728 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 8th, 2017 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-8th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news okl:ihom:ms for equality November Volunteer of the Month Tamra Jennings November 8th, 2017 In This Issue November Volunteer of the Month November Video eNews LGBTQ People of Color Peer Support Group Jared Tyler and Sam Gleaves Concert Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Amazon Smile No Shade for Plus Asexual Meeting Tamra Jennings started volunteering in February or March 2017, because her son passed away of natural causes and her Aunts donated to have his name on the Wall of Remembrance. "Since his name hangs here, it is where I want and need to be", states Tamra. Her favorite part of volunteering at the center is interacting with the staff but mainly the people who come in. We have our "regulars" and she just adores some of them. When Tamra is not volunteering she is a wife and Mom. She has been married to her husband Jonathan for 21 years and they have a 14 year old old daughter named Sarah. Sarah is involved in Softball and Band at Broken Arrow so she keeps Tamra busy. Tamra also writes a grief blog and works to raise funds for their son's Memorial Endowment at RSU. November EBA Mixer Tulsa Writers, Ink Transgender Awareness Week: Day of Remembrance Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator Join the Southern Pride Drum Group Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner World AIDS Day Turn Tulsa Red "First Thursday" Art Opening Tamra says "I am really looking forward to helping at a Bingo night as I hear they are quite fun! I haven't gotten to participate in many events yet since I just got involved this year. I did march in Pride giving out 'Free Mom Hugs'". And she enthusiastically encourages everyone to volunteer - " Yes! Yes! Yes! People should definitely volunteer. There is something that volunteering here does to my heart. It may be because we lost our son but, being here in this environment which is so positive and loving is amazing. Seeing all the good work the center does brings joy to me." PFLAG Holiday Brunch OkEq Holiday Shopping Market TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Pride Store Rainbow Library Gathering ofDescendants of Freedmen of the Five Civilized Tribes Thank you for your enthusiasm, Tamra! If you would like to volunteer, click here Route 66 USofA I.C.A.O. Military Ball Fleet Week A Hero's Brunch 2017 Hope Conference Bullying Prevention Conference or contact Jose Vega at OkEq Board Meeting jose.vega@okeq.org Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, November 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center November Video eNews All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition The November Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Mallory Taylor. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 2nd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. l► ◄ • IQ r :: LGBTQ People of Color Peer Support Group Thursday, November 9, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Mallory Taylor is a self-taught artist born in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She is of Osage, Cherokee, Blackfoot, Crow, Black Dutch and Irish decent. Her acrylic paintings and pencil drawings are expressionistic in nature. In an attempt to preserve her Native American culture through her contemporary style, she will often include handwritten explanations of the stories and historical artifacts represented within her work. This is a safe space for LGBTQQIA-POC community members to come and engage in a dialogue about relevant issues-where anything and everything can be discussed without feeling judged. All individuals who identify as people of color are welcome at this group to gain support, insight and find a general sense of community and family. Jared Tyler and Sam Gleaves Concert Monday November 13, 8:00 p.m. $10.00 Suggested Donation Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews November 8th, 2017 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-8th--201... When Jared Tyler and Sam Gleaves met at this year's Folk Alliance International events, the two songwriters found an instant kinship. "Gleaves said, "When I listened to Jared perform later that night, I was moved by the power and the vulnerability of his voice. His songs were crafted so beautifully that I felt like I knew the people he was singing about." After several late night sessions harmonizing on spirituals and gospel songs, the two musicians returned home and immediately began planning their first tour together. Tyler and Gleaves have both earned reputations as musical storytellers and soulful singers. Tyler, a Tulsa native and respected multi-instrumentalist, released his third solo record Dirt on Your Hands in June. Glowing reviews and praise for the record have followed from No Depression, PRX Radio In Search of A Song, Midwest Record and numerous radio DJs. The love of family, friends and characters from Tyler's past permeates the record, as does Tyler's social consciousness that presents love as a solution in these uncertain times. An eclectic blend of bluegrass, country, gospel, pop, swing and Hawaiian elements meet in Tyler's songwriting, all complemented by his masterful skills on guitar, Dobro, mandolin and ukulele. Legendary songwriter Malcolm Holcombe says "Jared Tyler sings and plays as good as anybody. Period. His songs are poignant justice." With Holcombe, Tyler has opened for the likes of Billy Bragg, Merle Haggard, Shelby Lynne and Wilco. On his own, Tyler has opened for Karl Denson and Nickel Creek, and relished performing onstage alongside heroes Emmylou Harris and Buddy Miller after Harris sang on his 2005 album Blue Alleluia. Although the affable Tyler twice lived in Nashville, he's now happily rooted with his partner in the supportive Tulsa community where he grew up singing in church, and where his grandfather taught him to play mandolin. It was there, too, that he developed his songwriting craft and performance chops alongside peers like John Fullbright, Parker Milsap, Stoney LaRue and John Moreland (who invited Tyler to play on his last two records). Tyler's generosity of spirit infuses Dirt on Your Hands and his live performances. Of his songwriting, Tyler says "I like to juxtapose the super sad with the hopeful. A lot of my colleagues made millions off beer-drinking party songs, and there's nothing wrong with that; we need those. But I'm not the person to write them. If I'm going to spend my time writing a song and sharing it, I'd like it to be something people can relate to that's going to leave them a little better." Family Ties Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Purchased gifts must be returned by December 8, 2017 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community so that they can have a happy holiday. For more information, please contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op Amazon Smile Holiday shopping is easy with Amazon's Holiday Gift Guides. #StartWithaSmile at smile.amazon.com for your holiday gifts and Amazon donates to Oklahomans for Equality Inc. Amazon Smile Link amazons . . . . . ile ~_,.,,;, You shop. Amazon gives. No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their life being PLUS. Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org Lawyer in the Library November 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator 4/24/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews November 8th, 2017 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-8th--201... Thursdays 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppgreatplains.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Asexual Meeting Every other Tuesday Next meeting November 14, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This is a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. Asexuality can be defined in many different ways. Some of us identify as asexual because we are not interested in intercourse, but still want other forms of sex. Some of us identify as asexual because we cannot get sexually aroused. Others may identify as asexual because we are never attracted to anyone sexually. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Some of us are in relationships with the opposite sex, some with the same sex, and others remain unattached our entire lives. EBA Mixer Wednesday November 15th, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Angel's Pet Funeral Home and Crematory 6589 E. Broken Arrow Expressway Frontage Rd , Tulsa , OK 74145 OSU Tulsa Counseling Center Angel Askins' dream of offering a place where pets could receive the same special care and compassion as our human family members began over 20 years ago. Angel has been a licensed funeral director for over 33 years, with 20 years' experience as a crematory operator. Angel grew up on a farm in Paris, Arkansas, where she was surrounded by animals with a purpose, but not pets. She adopted her first dog at age 19 which led to many others that were all loved as if they were her child. When she was 17, she began working in a funeral home and found her true passion: helping others deal with grief and loss of those they loved. When her first beloved pet died, the idea for Angel's Pet Funeral Home and Crematory was born. Angel wanted there to be a place where families could bring their fourlegged family members that was dedicated just to them. JJ L• Pet Funeral Home & Cremat "I hope you can feel at ease knowing that someone who truly cares will be taking care of your baby as if they were one of my own." Visit Angel's Pet Funeral Home online You can join the EBA online, at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. E UALITY Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/ affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . Business Alliance The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa Writers, Ink. First and third Saturday of each month Next meeting November 18, 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. 4/24/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews November 8th, 2017 4 of 12 ~ ~ Tulsa Writers, Ink.~ at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-8th--201... ~ ' Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Transgender Awareness Week: Day of Remembrance Monday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Gather with OkEq to remember those Trangender men and woman who have lost their lives to senseless hate, bulling, and suicide. I • -:> • - ~ ,.__ • TR'ANSGENDER DAY • 0 • OF REM EM BRAN CE • 1 Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator Every Thursday 1:00-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act. Join the Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/ anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Southern Pride drum group is the only drum group of its kind in the entire world, being the only drum group comprised of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have traveled all across the US and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. Currently they are seeking to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and add to their tight knit drum family. Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner Thursday November 23, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Lunch will be provided by: Joy Lutheran Church ELCA Fellowship Congregational Church UCC Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church ---Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International East Side Christian Church University United Methodist Church PFLAG Tulsa ------- 4/24/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews November 8th, 2017 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-8th--201... Muslims 4 Mercy Centenary United Methodist Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. World AIDS Day Turn Tulsa Red Friday, December 1, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In honor of World AIDS Day we are turning Tulsa red. Wear Red and Remember. Wear your red ribbon, wear your fire engine red outfit, die your hair red, and remember. Remember those who died, those we lost, and those who are still fighting for their lives. Presentations, Candlighting ceremony, performances, testimonies and honoring those living with HIV/AIDS. "First Thursday" Art Opening Melanie Potts - "Light Fantastic" Thursday, December 7th, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Melanie Potts in a show titled "Light Fantastic", beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Melanie Potts was born in Fort Hood, Texas and now lives in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She has several exhibits and series to her credit; this series - Light Fantastic - focuses on the idea of seeing something that is taken for granted and even looked down upon - that "something" is light pollution. Her inspiration for this series comes from her having lived in the country. When she is in the suburbs and in cities, she speaks of what's missing: "The lack of stars has always been a notable thing; at night in the country, you could tell how far you were from the city by the glow in the sky and like many, I learned to detest that city glow because it blocked out the lights of the stars. Then as time progressed I learned to see the direct lights around me, rather than look up. I looked forward to see the brilliant lights that surround us each night. Thinking of these lights and the missing starlight, I realized that if we view lights as just that - a combination of chemical and electric reactions then the light of the stars start to seem less brilliant compared to the light of the car facing you at an intersection." Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/ spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org PFLAG Holiday Brunch Non-Binary Support Group Saturday, December 9, 1 1:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 PFLAG Tulsa is hosting a holiday brunch for parents of LGBTQ individuals. Enjoy a wonderful holiday meal with parents who support their LGBTQ children. Please RSVP to Olivia.cotter@okeq.org ., Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com PFLAG TULSA CHAPTER OkEq Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 9, 12:00 - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to join us for our 2nd annual OkEq Holiday Shopping Market. Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. If you would like to be part of the fun and be a vendor at this year market please contact program director Jose Vega by email. Jose.vega@okeq.org Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Tulsa Project Theatre (TPT), the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, and has announced its 2017-2018 season. Three of the season's productions are in collaboration with other AEA affiliates - two from Oklahoma City and one with whom fans of the hit TV shows, Big Bang Theory and Speechless, may be familiar. In February 2018, TPT returns to the intimate Norman Theatre at the Tulsa PAC to present the Regional Premiere of John Ross Bowie's FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN. This brand new non-musical play centers on the iconic punk band, The Ramones, as they record their fifth album with eccentric music producer, Phil Spector. Focusing on the period in 1979-1980 when the band stood on the edge of breaking out, and Spector needed a hit, this intense black comedy sheds light on an important and overlooked moment in rock history. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN was written by actor and comedian John Ross Bowie, best known for his role as Barry Kripke in the CBS show THE BIG BANG THEORY and currently as Jimmy Dimeo on the ABC show SPEECHLESS. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN runs February 16-25, 2018. Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday, 7:30 p.m. Southern Pride drum group is the only drum group of its kind in the entire world, being the only drum comprised of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have travelled all across the US and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. Currently they are seeking to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and add to their tight knit drum family. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 4/24/26, 4:08 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1422f053379a09de3f5b0de911a64a90.pdf e163eb32b186dfd1397cf0e856498e6c PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 14th, 2017 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news okl:ihom:ms for equality Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree November 14th, 2017 In This Issue Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner November EBA Mixer Transgender Awareness Week: Day of Remembrance Out 2 Enroll Purchased gifts must be returned by December 8, 2017 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 World AIDS Day Turn Tulsa Red The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community so that they can have a happy holiday. OkEq Holiday Shopping Market On This Shining Night "First Thursday" Art Opening PFLAG Holiday Brunch Out 2 Enroll November Volunteer of the Month November Video eNews Amazon Smile For more information, please contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. No Shade for Plus Asexual Meeting Tulsa Writers, Ink Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Out 2 Enroll Pride Store Paul Harrison, Fairy Tree Decorator, with Toby Jenkins Rainbow Library 2017 Hope Conference Out 2 Enroll Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner Bullying Prevention Conference Thursday November 23, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Joy Lutheran Church ELCA Fellowship Congregational Church UCC -----Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church ----Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International East Side Christian Church University United Methodist Church PFLAG Tulsa Muslims 4 Mercy Centenary United Methodist Amazon Smile Shop Now Holiday shopping is easy with Amazon's Holiday Gift Guides. #StartWithaSmile at smile.amazon.com for your holiday gifts and Amazon donates to Oklahomans for Equality Inc. amazons ..._,..., mile You shop. Amazon gives. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, November 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition EBA Mixer Wednesday November 15th, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by Angel's Pet Funeral Home and Crematory 6589 E. Broken Arrow Expressway Frontage Rd , Tulsa , OK 74145 Angel Askins' dream of offering a place where pets could receive the same special care and compassion as our human family members began over 20 years ago. Angel has been a licensed funeral director for over 33 years, with 20 years' experience as a crematory operator. Angel grew up on a farm in Paris, Arkansas, where she was surrounded by animals with a purpose, but not pets. She adopted her first dog at age 19 which led to many others that were all loved as if they were her child. When she was 17, she began working in a funeral home and found her true passion: helping others deal with grief and loss of those they loved. When her first beloved pet died, the idea for Angel's Pet Funeral Home and Crematory was born. Angel wanted there to be a place where families could bring their fourlegged family members that was dedicated just to them. The November Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Mallory Taylor. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 2nd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. Mallory Taylor is a self-taught artist born in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She is of Osage, Cherokee, Blackfoot, Crow, Black Dutch and Irish decent. Her acrylic paintings and pencil drawings are expressionistic in nature. In an attempt to preserve her Native American culture through her contemporary style, she will often include handwritten explanations of the stories and historical artifacts represented within her work. "I hope you can feel at ease knowing that someone who truly cares will be taking care of your baby as if they were one of my own." 4/24/26, 4:09 PM �OkEq eNews November 14th, 2017 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Visit Angel's Pet Funeral Home online You can join the EBA online, at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. E UALITY Business Alliance Family Ties The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Transgender Awareness Week: Day of Remembrance Monday, November 20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Gather with OkEq to remember those Trangender men and woman who have lost their lives to senseless hate, bullying, and suicide. I • J • - _; TRANSGENDER DAY • 0 • OF REMEMBRANCE e # Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op - - I Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org GOT QUESTIONS ABOUT OPEN ENROLLMENT? WHAT HAS CHANGED? WHAT HASN'T CHANGED? ~ Deadline: ~ Healthcare.gov December 15th Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org Lawyer in the Library November 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator is open for business ~ Deadline: December 15th ~ You may qualify for a discount on insurance ~ Deadline: December 15th ~ You're still protected from discrimination 4/24/26, 4:09 PM �OkEq eNews November 14th, 2017 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Check out your hea lth insurance options at healthcare.gov Thursdays 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppgreatplains.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center World AIDS Day Turn Tulsa Red Friday, December 1, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In honor of World AIDS Day we are turning Tulsa red. Wear Red and Remember. Wear your red ribbon, wear your fire engine red outfit, die your hair red, and remember. Remember those who died, those we lost, and those who are still fighting for their lives. Presentations, Candlighting ceremony, performances, testimonies and honoring those living with HIV/AIDS. Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/ affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . 4/24/26, 4:09 PM �OkEq eNews November 14th, 2017 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/ anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 "First Thursday" Art Opening Melanie Potts - "Light Fantastic" Thursday, December 7th, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Melanie Potts in a show titled "Light Fantastic", beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Melanie Potts was born in Fort Hood, Texas and now lives in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She has several exhibits and series to her credit; this series - Light Fantastic - focuses on the idea of seeing something that is taken for granted and even looked down upon - that "something" is light pollution. Her inspiration for this series comes from her having lived in the country. When she is in the suburbs and in cities, she speaks of what's missing: "The lack of stars has always been a notable thing; at night in the country, you could tell how far you were from the city by the glow in the sky and like many, I learned to detest that city glow because it blocked out the lights of the stars. Then as time progressed I learned to see the direct lights around me, rather than look up. I looked forward to see the brilliant lights that surround us each night. Thinking of these lights and the missing starlight, I realized that if we view lights as just that - a combination of chemical and electric reactions then the light of the stars start to seem less brilliant compared to the light of the car facing you at an intersection." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Parents Holiday Brunch Sponsored by PFLAG Saturday, December 9, 10:30 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. PFLAG SACHAP R The Holiday Mom and Dad's Brunch Tulsa PFLAG invites you to the Holiday Brunch Especially for Moms, Dads, and Allies on Saturday, December 9, 10:30 a.m. 4/24/26, 4:09 PM �OkEq eNews November 14th, 2017 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 East 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Please RSVP by Thursday, December 7, Nancymcdo@aol.com Catered by TW's AFAB Catering. OkEq Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 9, 12:00 - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/ spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. We invite you to join us for our 2nd annual OkEq Holiday Shopping Market. Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. If you would like to be part of the fun and be a vendor at this year market please contact program director Jose Vega by email. Jose.vega@okeq.org OU1' , .ENROLL #KnowYourRights YOU SHOULD NEVER FACE DISCRIMINATION IN HEALTH INSURANCE OR HEALTH CARE. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday, 7:30 p.m. Southern Pride drum group is the only drum group of its kind in the entire world, being the only drum comprised of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have travelled all across the US and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. Currently they are seeking to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and add to their tight knit drum family. If this happens to you, you have rights. To learn more, visit out2enroll.org/faqs/1557-2/ SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 4/24/26, 4:09 PM �OkEq eNews November 14th, 2017 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... November Volunteer of the Month Tamra Jennings Tamra Jennings started volunteering in February or March 2017, because her son passed away of natural causes and her Aunts donated to have his name on the Wall of Remembrance. "Since his name hangs here, it is where I want and need to be", states Tamra. Her favorite part of volunteering at the center is interacting with the staff but mainly the people who come in. We have our "regulars" and she just adores some of them. When Tamra is not volunteering she is a wife and Mom. She has been married to her husband Jonathan for 21 years and they have a 14 year old old daughter named Sarah. Sarah is involved in Softball and Band at Broken Arrow so she keeps Tamra busy. Tamra also writes a grief blog and works to raise funds for their son's Memorial Endowment at RSU. Tamra says "I am really looking forward to helping at a Bingo night as I hear they are quite fun! I haven't gotten to participate in many events yet since I just got involved this year. I did march in Pride giving out 'Free Mom Hugs'". And she enthusiastically encourages everyone to volunteer - " Yes! Yes! Yes! People should definitely volunteer. There is something that volunteering here does to my heart. It may be because we lost our son but, being here in this environment which is so positive and loving is amazing. Seeing all the good work the center does brings joy to me." Thank you for your enthusiasm, Tamra! If you would like to volunteer, click here Asexual Meeting Every other Tuesday It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. Asexuality can be defined in many different ways. Some of us identify as asexual because we are not interested in intercourse, but still want other forms of sex. Some of us identify as asexual because we cannot get sexually aroused. Others may identify as asexual because we are never attracted to anyone sexually. Some of us are in relationships with the opposite sex, some with the same sex, and others remain unattached our entire lives. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. or contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org November Video eNews The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday Amazon Smile Holiday shopping is easy with Amazon's Holiday Gift Guides. #StartWithaSmile at smile.amazon.com for your holiday gifts and Amazon donates to Oklahomans for Equality Inc. Amazon Smile Link A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their life being PLUS. amazons. . . . . ·le ~~ You shop. Amazon gives. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:09 PM �OkEq eNews November 14th, 2017 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their life being PLUS. Tulsa Area Prime Timers s. 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Writers, Ink. First and third Saturday of each month An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Asexual Meeting Every other Tuesday Next meeting November 14, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This is a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Asexuality can be defined in many different ways. Some of us identify as asexual because we are not interested in intercourse, but still want other forms of sex. Some of us identify as asexual because we cannot get sexually aroused. Others may identify as asexual because we are never attracted to anyone sexually. Some of us are in relationships with the opposite sex, some with the same sex, and others remain unattached our entire lives. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Tulsa Writers, Ink. Every Saturday 12:30 pm First and third Saturday of each month Next meeting November 18, 1:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. ~ Tulsa Writers, Ink~ SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org j 1 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ~ " - -:; ft Game Night Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Every Thursday 1:00-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act. Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/24/26, 4:09 PM �OkEq eNews November 14th, 2017 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Tulsa Project Theatre (TPT), the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, and has announced its 2017-2018 season. Three of the season's productions are in collaboration with other AEA affiliates - two from Oklahoma City and one with whom fans of the hit TV shows, Big Bang Theory and Speechless, may be familiar. In February 2018, TPT returns to the intimate Norman Theatre at the Tulsa PAC to present the Regional Premiere of John Ross Bowie's FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN. This brand new non-musical play centers on the iconic punk band, The Ramones, as they record their fifth album with eccentric music producer, Phil Spector. Focusing on the period in 1979-1980 when the band stood on the edge of breaking out, and Spector needed a hit, this intense black comedy sheds light on an important and overlooked moment in rock history. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN was written by actor and comedian John Ross Bowie, best known for his role as Barry Kripke in the CBS show THE BIG BANG THEORY and currently as Jimmy Dimeo on the ABC show SPEECHLESS. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN runs February 16-25, 2018. TICK...TICK...BOOM! is an autobiographical musical by Jonathan Larson, the late Pulitzer Prize- and Tony Awardwinning composer of Rent, which tells the story of a composer and the sacrifices he made to achieve his big break, eventually leading to a Broadway blockbuster. His girlfriend wants to get married and move out of the city, his best friend is making big bucks on Madison Avenue and, yet, Jon is still waiting tables and trying to write the great American rock musical. Set in 1990, this compelling story of personal discovery embraces the universal ideal of holding onto your dreams through life's most difficult challenges. Before RENT, there was TICK...TICK...BOOM! The production will run for a weekend in Oklahoma City before arriving in Tulsa for a limited run on April 27 - 29, 2018. Tulsa Project Theatre will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera LIZZIE, set to run July 13-22, 2018. On a sweltering summer morning in 1892, in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden was the prime suspect and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. LIZZIE features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. LIZZIE is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information ---- The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HEALTH INSURANCE FOR LESS THAN $20/MONTH That's what ANY 27-YEAR OLD making $25,000/year can find in half of the country. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Equality Center Pride Store 2017 Tulsa Pride Shirts are still a vailable in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store for $20.00 4/24/26, 4:09 PM �OkEq eNews November 14th, 2017 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Transgender Phenomenon" Written by: Richard Ekins and Dave King A full length documentary film recounting the events surrounding the widely publicized and controversial raid of a Fort Worth, Texas gay bar in 2009. Following a sordid aftermath, Fort Worth would become a leader in LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender) equality. However, that journey was not smooth and without controversies. Witness history unfold as this film documents that journey from the perspective of eyewitnesses, activists and politicians who helped change the city. Narrated by television icon and Emmy nominated actress, Meredith Baxter. Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Trustees 4/24/26, 4:09 PM �OkEq eNews November 14th, 2017 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Executive Committee Rev. Geoffrey Brewster, President Stuart Ashworth, Esq, Vice President Jan Baldwin, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, At Large Board of Directors Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq Alyssa Bryant, Esq Sheena Grewal Darci Hazelwood, DO Ben Matthews Mike Redman, Esq Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter John Williams Board of Advisors Laura Arrowsmith, DO Peter Brennan Jamie Catlett Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Tamra Beth Jennings Marcia Labooth Keesee Amanda Lowe Andrew McClain Jim Scholl Mikeal Vaughn William Vaughn Community Advisors Erin Christy Karen Gilbert Deborah Gist, EdD Christina Mendoza Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes 4/24/26, 4:09 PM �OkEq eNews November 14th, 2017 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... 2017 BULLYING PREVENTION CONFERENCE Featuring Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt ls a Canada Research C a,r In O,lldren's Mental H aIth and Viol nee Preveo 10n t l e Univ lty of Ott wa Or Valllancourt's research xamanes the tin betw en bully ng and m ntal Jt , with part,cular focus o soc J neurosc, nee. Sh Is currently fund d by l e C.lnadld ln~lltut of It h R arch, the Social Sc nces and Humanities Council ct Canada, and the Ontario Mental Heal h Foundation. Focus - Understanding Mental Health Outcomes Among Bullied Youth: Biological Considerations The prevalence of behaviora l and emotional disorders among A rican students is lgh about 20')ji of youth have serious mental h a th probi ms. Th se problems are often chronic anci le d to signif1tant mpairment 1n school, ome, and community functioning. One root cause of m nt I h Ith dlfncult, s Is being bulled by peers. Indeed, long1tud1nal studies point to a causal relalion between e posur to bu lying and subsequent mental health probl m . Importantly ow .v r, not all youlh bPcomi- unw II a~ consequ ncla' of poor peer treatment In this presentation, the h terog n ty In m ntal h al h outco discuss d with specific fo cus on t s o1 bullied youth is rol s of gen tics, nevrophyslolo11V, and neuroendocrlnotogy Educators, Mental-Health Providers, Parents, Advocates and All Interested In Bullying Prevention RSVP HERE to Attend Thursday, Nov mb r 3()lh 8 :45 m to Noon Evening Encore Presentation ov mb r 30'" from 7 8:30 pm Tulsa Tech Le I y Campus • C.lre r Cent r NO RSVP Necessary ~ EJ O KEEP CALM 4/24/26, 4:09 PM �OkEq eNews November 14th, 2017 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... r----- -- ----- -- ----- -- ----- -- ----- ----- -- ----- -- ----- -- ----- -- ----- -- ----- -------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 4:09 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b1b7e39b72cba57267b8a19531ad1c1d.pdf 41c9ef57f4f2771f60f9f0e08a31418d PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 22nd, 2017 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-22nd--2... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news okl:ihom:ms for equality Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree November 22nd, 2017 In This Issue Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner ACTION for DREAMers Out 2 Enroll World AIDS Day Turn Tulsa Red Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relationships Purchased gifts must be returned by December 8, 2017 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 On This Shining Night "First Thursday" Art Opening PFLAG Holiday Brunch The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community so that they can have a happy holiday. OkEq Holiday Shopping Market Out 2 Enroll Sisters in Song Family Ties Holiday Party Coming Out Workshop For more information, please contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Falala Ball December EBA Mixer November Volunteer of the Month November Video eNews Amazon Smile Out 2 Enroll No Shade for Plus Paul Harrison, Fairy Tree Decorator, with Toby Jenkins Asexual Meeting Tulsa Writers, Ink Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner Thursday November 23, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Pride Store Rainbow Library Out 2 Enroll OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Bullying Prevention Conference Please confirm your attendance by contacting Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. " Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Joy Lutheran Church ELCA Fellowship Congregational Church UCC ----Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church ---Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International East Side Christian Church University United Methodist Church PFLAG Tulsa Muslims 4 Mercy Centenary United Methodist Amazon Smile Shop Now Holiday shopping is easy with Amazon's Holiday Gift Guides. #StartWithaSmile at smile.amazon.com for your holiday gifts and Amazon donates to Oklahomans for Equality Inc. amazons ..._,.., mile You shop. Amazon gives. OkEq Board Meeting TW's AFAB Catering Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, December 21 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition Join ACTIO Tut a for ACTION for DREAMers: Tulsans Speak Out on DACA Location: St. Francis Xavier Catholic Church The November Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Mallory Taylor. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 2nd from 6-9pm, where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. Mallory Taylor is a self-taught artist born in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She is of Osage, Cherokee, Blackfoot, Crow, Black Dutch and Irish descent. Her acrylic paintings and pencil drawings are expressionistic in nature. In an attempt to preserve her Native 4/24/26, 4:09 PM �OkEq eNews November 22nd, 2017 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-22nd--2... American culture through her contemporary style, she will often include handwritten explanations of the stories and historical artifacts represented within her work. November 30th from 7:00 p .m . to 8:30 p .m . ACTO~ ----=c=J- - - - - ALLIE0 COMMUNITIES OF TULSA INSPIRING OUR NEIGHBORHOODS R VP QR Cod Family Ties GOT QUESTIONS ABOUT OPEN ENROLLMENT? WHAT HAS CHANGED? WHAT HASN'T -------~ CHANGED? ~ Deadline: 5r' Healthcare.gov December 15th 5r' Deadline: Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op is open for business 5r' You may qualify for a December 15th 5r' Deadline: Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net discount on insurance 5r' You're still protected December 15th from discrimination Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org Lawyer in the Library December 13 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Check out your health insurance options at healthcare.gov Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator World AIDS Day Turn Tulsa Red Friday, December 1, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In honor of World AIDS Day we are turning Tulsa red. Wear Red and Remember. Wear your red ribbon, wear your fire engine red outfit, die your hair red, and remember. Remember those who died, those we lost, and those who are still fighting for their lives. Presentations, Candlighting ceremony, performances, testimonies and honoring those living with HIV/AIDS. 4/24/26, 4:09 PM �OkEq eNews November 22nd, 2017 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-22nd--2... Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relationships Monday, December 4, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Thursdays 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppgreatplains.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center "First Thursday" Art Opening Melanie Potts - "Light Fantastic" Thursday, December 7th, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Melanie Potts in a show titled "Light Fantastic", beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Melanie Potts was born in Fort Hood, Texas and now lives in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She has several exhibits and series to her credit; this series - Light Fantastic - focuses on the idea of seeing something that is taken for granted and even looked down upon - that "something" is light pollution. Her inspiration for this series comes from her having lived in the country. When she is in the suburbs and in cities, she speaks of what's missing: "The lack of stars has always been a notable thing; at night in the country, you could tell how far you were from the city by the glow in the sky and like many, I learned to detest that city glow because it blocked out the lights of the stars. Then as time progressed I learned to see the direct lights around me, rather than look up. I looked forward to see the brilliant lights that surround us each night. Thinking of these lights and the missing starlight, I realized that if we view lights as just that - a combination of chemical and electric reactions then the light of the stars start to seem less brilliant compared to the light of the car facing you at an intersection." Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/ affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 7th from 6-9pm, where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Parents Holiday Brunch Sponsored by PFLAG Saturday, December 9, 10:30 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She 4/24/26, 4:09 PM �OkEq eNews November 22nd, 2017 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-22nd--2... welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . PFLAG SAC A R The Holiday Mom and Dad's Brunch Tulsa PFLAG invites you to the Holiday Brunch Especially for Moms, Dads, and Allies on Saturday, December 9, 10:30 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 East 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Please RSVP by Thursday, December 7, Nancymcdo@aol.com Catered by TW's AFAB Catering. Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/ anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 OkEq Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 9, 12:00 - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to join us for our 2nd annual OkEq Holiday Shopping Market. Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you would like to be part of the fun and be a vendor at this year's market, please contact program director Jose Vega by email. Jose.vega@okeq.org OU1' ~:ENROLL #KnowYourRights YOU SHOULD NEVER FACE DISCRIMINATION IN HEALTH INSURANCE OR HEALTH CARE. I Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. ~-..,"'°" ~ ~-_,.._. """ ..,__....DIHIU~ll..au. 4/24/26, 4:09 PM �OkEq eNews November 22nd, 2017 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-22nd--2... If this happens to you, you have rights. To learn more, visit out2enroll.org/faqs/1557-2/ Sisters ittSotts Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/ spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Non-Binary Support Group 2017 Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com St. .1vtattfiew's Tpiscopa{ Cfiurcfi 601 N. Laie 'Drive SanaSyrinas OX 74063 Vecem6er 9, 2017 7 :00 P.1vt 'Reception to f o{[ow in Parisfi Jfa{[ ,r __ ~ _c. _..__ --- .c...__._c. -- - ~- r _ _ - ~--- 4/24/26, 4:09 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d75caa5219de4f89cf8c9c28a9b6abe5.pdf d765b171f448d711e4a0021a415786e0 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 29th, 2017 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews November 29th, 2017 okl::ihom:ms for equality news In This Issue World AIDS Day Turn Tulsa Red Dr. Laura Arrowsmith ACTION for DREAMers Out 2 Enroll Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree World AIDS Day Turn Tulsa Red Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relationships Friday, December 1, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Guys Dine Too In honor of World AIDS Day we are turning Tulsa red. Wear Red and Remember. Wear your red ribbon, wear your fire engine red outfit, die your hair red, and remember. Remember those who died, those we lost, and those who are still fighting for their lives. On This Shining Night "First Thursday" Art Opening Out 2 Enroll Presentations, Candlighting ceremony, performances, testimonies and honoring those living with HIV/AIDS. PFLAG Holiday Brunch OkEq Holiday Shopping Market Sisters in Song Family Ties Holiday Party Coming Out Workshop Dr. Laura Arrowsmith Out 2 Enroll "When Doctors Refuse to See Transgender Patients, the Consequences Can Be Dire" Washington Post Article, November 26, 2017 Falala Ball December EBA Mixer Amazon Smile Dr. Laura Arrowsmith is an Oklahoma native who has made great strides in the health of Transgender Oklahomans. OkEq is very proud of her and the work she is doing. No Shade for Plus Out 2 Enroll Asexual Meeting Dr. Laura Arrowsmith is a radiologist in Tulsa, Oklahoma and has been in practice for 38 years. Laura received her medical degree from Kansas City University of Medicine and Biosciences and is a member of the World Professional Association for Transgender Health. For decades, Laura has provided medical care for transgender patients and been an active member of the transgender community. She does a large amount of teaching and activism for the transgender community, having given numerous presentations about transgender basics and transgender issues. Laura retired as Director of Transgender programs (Director of Gender Studies) at Oklahomans for Equality, and presently serves on the board of advisors. Laura joined the NCTE (Nation Center for Transgender Equality) board in 2011 and has been actively helping NCTE educate the transgender community on health care issues. Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator TULSA PROJECT THEATRE November Volunteer of the Month November Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library Out 2 Enroll Read Dr. Arrowsmith's article here Amazon Smile Shop Now Join ACT IO Holiday shopping is easy with Amazon's Holiday Gift Guides. #StartWithaSmile at smile.amazon.com for your holiday gifts and Amazon donates to Oklahomans for Equality Inc. Tul a for ACTION for DREAMers: Tulsans Speak Out on DACA Location: St. Francis Xavier Catholic Church November 30th from 7:00 p .m . to 8:30 p .m . amazonsmile ~ You shop. Amazon gives. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, December 21 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition ACTO~ The November Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Mallory Taylor. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 2nd from 6-9pm, where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. - - - - -=a - -- - - - ALLIED COMMUNffiES OF TULSA INSPIRING OUR NEIGHBORHOODS lil!'-~lil 4/24/26, 4:10 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2017 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... - R VP QR Cod e / Mallory Taylor is a self-taught artist born in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She is of Osage, Cherokee, Blackfoot, Crow, Black Dutch and Irish descent. Her acrylic paintings and pencil drawings are expressionistic in nature. In an attempt to preserve her Native American culture through her contemporary style, she will often include handwritten explanations of the stories and historical artifacts represented within her work. 01n ' ]ENROLL Hil\ct lJSA DON'T BE A STATISTIC QUEER PEOPLE UNINSURED: TRANS PEOPLE UNINSURED: BISEXUAL PEOPLE UNINSURED: Family Ties 25% Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net LEARN ABOUT YOUR HEALTH INSURANCE OPTIONS NOW AT WWW.HEALTHCARE.GOV Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op Source Cemer for American Progress, 'Ml) Repe,rhr19 tl>e Affordable care Act,. Bod Melicone for LGBT Communues. 2017 Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Purchased gifts must be returned by December 8, 2017 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community so that they can have a happy holiday. Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org For more information, please contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Lawyer in the Library December 13 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Paul Harrison, Fairy Tree Decorator, with Toby Jenkins Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relationships Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary Monday, December 4, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:10 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2017 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Healthcare Navigator Guys Dine Too Tuesday December 5, 6:30 p.m. Bangkok Thai Buffet 3313 E. 32nd Pl., Tulsa, OK We use authentic Thai food without M.S.G one of your friends will tell you about us we have a lunch and dinner buffet both different prices lunch buffet is $9.20 and our dinner buffet is $10.99 Saturday is always dinner price and same goes for holidays. We have been open since 1977 and still here always looking for new fans so come in and try it out. we still celebrate 37 years of excellent service. Visit Bangkok Thai Buffet online. RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com Thursdays 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppgreatplains.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center "First Thursday" Art Opening Melanie Potts - "Light Fantastic" Thursday, December 7th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Melanie Potts in a show titled "Light Fantastic", beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Melanie Potts was born in Fort Hood, Texas and now lives in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She has several exhibits and series to her credit; this series - Light Fantastic - focuses on the idea of seeing something that is taken for granted and even looked down upon - that "something" is light pollution. Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . Her inspiration for this series comes from her having lived in the country. When she is in the suburbs and in cities, she speaks of what's missing: "The lack of stars has always been a notable thing; at night in the country, you could tell how far you were from the city by the glow in the sky and like many, I learned to detest that city glow because it blocked out the lights of the stars. Then as time progressed I learned to see the direct lights around me, rather than look up. I looked forward to see the brilliant lights that surround us each night. Thinking of these lights and the missing starlight, I realized that if we view lights as just that - a combination of chemical and electric reactions then the light of the stars start to seem less brilliant compared to the light of the car facing you at an intersection." 4/24/26, 4:10 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2017 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 7th from 6-9pm, where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Parents Holiday Brunch Sponsored by PFLAG Saturday, December 9, 10:30 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:10 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2017 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... PFLAG TU SA A R The Holiday Mom and Dad's Brunch Tulsa PFLAG invites you to the Holiday Brunch Especially for Moms, Dads, and Allies on Saturday, December 9, 10:30 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 East 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Please RSVP by Thursday, December 7, Nancymcdo@aol.com Catered by TW's AFAB Catering. OkEq Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 9, 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to join us for our 2nd annual OkEq Holiday Shopping Market. Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you would like to be part of the fun and be a vendor at this year's market, please contact program director Jose Vega by email. Jose.vega@okeq.org Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Sisters ittSoYts Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. 4/24/26, 4:10 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/085fc1d9287fc387543d855c151a071b.pdf 59044208c1cf1e5899c33edb2a8efc3f PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 6th, 2017 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Wrapped gifts must be returned by December 8, 2017 e December 6th, 2017 okl::ihom:ms for equality news In This Issue Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree December Video eNews "First Thursday" Art Opening Out 2 Enroll PFLAG Holiday Brunch OkEq Holiday Shopping Market Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Family Ties Holiday Party Oklahomans for Equality is grateful for all the fairies in Tulsa! All of the Fairy Tree recipients have been adopted, thanks to our generous community. We just want to remind those of you who have adopted to please return your wrapped gifts with the card by December 8th. If you missed the chance to adopt, you may bring additional wrapped gifts to the center by December 8th. The most requested gifts this year were fleece or electric blankets, housewares, and small kitchen appliances and gadgets. Coming Out Workshop On This Shining Night Sisters in Song Out 2 Enroll Fa La La Ball S.A.G.E. Holiday Light Tour and Dinner December EBA Mixer We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community so that they can have a happy holiday. Amazon Smile Dr. Laura Arrowsmith No Shade for Plus Out 2 Enroll For more information, please contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Asexual Meeting Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Paul Harrison, Fairy Tree Decorator, with Toby Jenkins Pride Store Out 2 Enroll December Video eNews Amazon Smile Shop Now Holiday shopping is easy with Amazon's Holiday Gift Guides. #StartWithaSmile at smile.amazon.com for your holiday gifts and Amazon donates to Oklahomans for Equality Inc. "First Thursday" Art Opening Melanie Potts - "Light Fantastic" Thursday, December 7th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 amazons mile --..._,;, You shop. Amazon gives. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, December 21 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition The November Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Mallory Taylor. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 2nd from 6-9pm, where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Melanie Potts in a show titled "Light Fantastic", beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Melanie Potts was born in Fort Hood, Texas and now lives in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She has several exhibits and series to her credit; this series - Light Fantastic focuses on the idea of seeing something that is taken for granted and even looked down upon - that "something" is light pollution. Her inspiration for this series comes from her having lived in the country. When she is in the suburbs and in cities, she speaks of what's missing: "The lack of Mallory Taylor is a self-taught artist born in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She is of Osage, Cherokee, Blackfoot, Crow, Black Dutch and Irish descent. Her acrylic paintings and pencil drawings are expressionistic in nature. In an attempt to preserve her Native American culture through her contemporary style, she will often include handwritten explanations of the stories 4/24/26, 4:10 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2017 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... stars has always been a notable thing; at night in the country, you could tell how far you were from the city by the glow in the sky and like many, I learned to detest that city glow because it blocked out the lights of the stars. Then as time progressed I learned to see the direct lights around me, rather than look up. I looked forward to see the brilliant lights that surround us each night. Thinking of these lights and the missing starlight, I realized that if we view lights as just that - a combination of chemical and electric reactions - then the light of the stars start to seem less brilliant compared to the light of the car facing you at an intersection." and historical artifacts represented within her work. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 7th from 6-9pm, where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org / OUT ~]ENROLL HiNct USA DON'T BE A STATISTIC QUEER PEOPLE UNINSURED: TRA S PEOPLE UNINSURED: Family Ties BISEXUAL PEOPLE UNINSURED: Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net 25% Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op LEARN ABOUT YOUR HEALTH INSURANCE OPTIONS NOW AT WWW.HEALTHCARE.GOV Source Con.er for Amencan Progre55 Why Re!)e811119 tile A ordabfe care Act,. Bod Me<icone for LGBT Commun Parents Holiday Brunch Sponsored by PFLAG 2017 Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org Saturday, December 9, 10:30 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library December 13 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. PFLAG , ULSA Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary A The Holiday Mom and Dad's Brunch Healthcare Navigator Tulsa PFLAG invites you to the Holiday Brunch Especially for Moms, Dads, and Allies on Saturday, December 9, 10:30 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 East 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:10 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2017 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... Please RSVP by Thursday, December 7, Nancymcdo@aol.com Catered by TW's AFAB Catering. OkEq Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 9, 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to join us for our 2nd annual OkEq Holiday Shopping Market. Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you would like to be part of the fun and be a vendor at this year's market, please contact program director Jose Vega by email. Jose.vega@okeq.org Thursdays 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppgreatplains.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Family Ties Holiday Party Sunday, December 10, 3:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come celebrate the holiday season with Santa and Mrs. Claus! Family Ties will be hosting from 3:00 pm to 5:00 pm on December 10th at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. There will be sweet treats, drinks, and holiday cheer!! Family Ties is a group of, and for, gay families in the Tulsa area, and those who support them. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . 4/24/26, 4:10 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2017 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . 2017 t . Jvtattfiew ·s 'Episcoya( Cfiurcfi 601 N. Laie 'Dr~ve SanaSprines OX 74063 'Decem6er 9, 2017 7:00 PJvt 'Reception to f o([ow in Parisfi Jfa([ :for 'T'iciet orfurtfier information P(ease ca([ (918) 630-9794 or (918) 809-9751 Coming Out Workshop Monday, December 11, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans Please contact center@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Any question or information please email Jose.vega@okeq.org 4/24/26, 4:10 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2017 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Fa La La Ball Saturday, December 16, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The 10th Annual Fa La La Ball will be held Saturday, December 16, 2017 from 7:00 p.m. to 11:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. 4/24/26, 4:10 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2017 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... Don your gay apparel and join us for the 10th annual Falala Ball! This nice and naughty evening will include live entertainment, cash bar and light hor d'oeuvres. Admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Food Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Center Food Pantry Pet Food for Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Live Entertainment Carmela Hill & Double Treble The Nerve Pills Quentin Marcellis Mariel Luna "You think you are a holiday drag queen" lip sync contest Raffle Prizes Dedication of the Equality Quilt Designed by Karen Hendricks 8:00 p.m. ceremony Child Care is available in our Kids Holiday Party on the second level. Please RSVP to olivia.cotter@okeq.org if your children will be attending. S.A.G.E. Holiday Light Tour and Dinner Tuesday, December 19, 4:00 p.m. Meet at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We will meet at the Equality Center and travel to Muskogee where we will tour Honor Heights Park Garden of Lights. After a drive-thru tour of the garden we will be having dinner at Gino's Italian restaurant. All we ask that you contribute $5.00 for gas. Dinner will be at your expense. Honor Heights Park - Experience animated displays and over 1,000,000 shimmering lights at Muskogee's annual Garden of Lights. Drive through Honor Heights Park and view 120 acres of trees, bushes and water areas decorated for the holiday season. Visit Garden of Lights and experience the natural beauty of the park filled with twinkling streams of light. View rose and azalea bushes illuminated with color, imitating their natural state during the blooming of spring. This Christmas light display will also feature lighted displays of deer, squirrels and birds scattered amongst a wide variety of trees wrapped in lights. Guests are invited to enjoy all this holiday beauty from the comfort of a hay ride or from an outdoor synthetic ice rink set up within the park called WinterSkate at the Papilion. Admission to Garden of Lights is free; however, donations are appreciated. Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday, 7:30 p.m. Southern Pride drum group is the only drum group of its kind in the entire world, being the only drum comprised of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have travelled all across the US and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. Currently they are seeking to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and add to their tight knit drum family. Gino's - Quality, service with a smile at a price that will make you happy, and food that is good to eat (while still being good for you ). We make everything FRESH right here because we care about what we feed our neighbors. For more information on Gino's click here SOS Group Please RSVP to olivia.cotter@okeq.org by December 13th. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org EBA Mixer Wednesday December 20th, 6:00 p.m. Decopolis 502 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74103 Deco to Retro inspired Books, Toys and Gifts. Check out our Dancing Brush Art Classes held on the first floor in the Atomic Tiki Room! We also have regular DECOPOLIS Art Exhibitions featuring local artists. Asexual Meeting Next meeting December 12 It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. Visit Decopolis online You can join the EBA online, at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. Asexuality can be defined in many different ways. Some of us identify as asexual because we are not interested in intercourse, but still want other forms of sex. Some of us identify as asexual because we cannot get sexually aroused. Others may identify as asexual because we are never attracted to anyone sexually. Some of us are in relationships with the opposite sex, some with the same sex, and others remain unattached our entire lives. 4/24/26, 4:10 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2017 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... E Brought to You Bi the Letter B ALITY Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. usiness Alliance The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Amazon Smile Holiday shopping is easy with Amazon's Holiday Gift Guides. #StartWithaSmile at smile.amazon.com for your holiday gifts and Amazon donates to Oklahomans for Equality Inc. Amazon Smile Link amazons ,,........_,.,,;, • e No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. You shop. Amazon gives. Dr. Laura Arrowsmith "When Doctors Refuse to See Transgender Patients, the Consequences Can Be Dire" Washington Post Article, November 26, 2017 Dr. Laura Arrowsmith is an Oklahoma native who has made great strides in the health of Transgender Oklahomans. OkEq is very proud of her and the work she is doing. Dr. Laura Arrowsmith is a radiologist in Tulsa, Oklahoma and has been in practice for 38 years. Laura received her medical degree from Kansas City University of Medicine and Biosciences and is a member of the World Professional Association for Transgender Health. For decades, Laura has provided medical care for transgender patients and been an active member of the transgender community. She does a large amount of teaching and activism for the transgender community, having given numerous presentations about transgender basics and transgender issues. Laura retired as Director of Transgender programs (Director of Gender Studies) at Oklahomans for Equality, and presently serves on the board of advisors. Laura joined the NCTE (Nation Center for Transgender Equality) board in 2011 and has been actively helping NCTE educate the transgender community on health care issues. Read Dr. Arrowsmith's article here No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. 4/24/26, 4:10 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2017 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... Tulsa Writers, Ink. First and third Saturday of each month An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm HEALTH INSURANCE FOR LESS THAN SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org $20/MONTH That's what ANY 27-YEAR OLD making $25,000/year can find in half of the country. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve a space for your next event or receive pricing information, contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Asexual Meeting Next meeting December 12, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 EBA Directory The Equality 4/24/26, 4:10 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2017 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This is a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Asexuality can be defined in many different ways. Some of us identify as asexual because we are not interested in intercourse, but still want other forms of sex. Some of us identify as asexual because we cannot get sexually aroused. Others may identify as asexual because we are never attracted to anyone sexually. Some of us are in relationships with the opposite sex, some with the same sex, and others remain unattached our entire lives. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Affordable Care Healthcare Navigator Every Thursday 1:00-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Open every day Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act. Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Tulsa Project Theatre (TPT), the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, and has announced its 2017-2018 season. Three of the season's productions are in collaboration with other AEA affiliates - two from Oklahoma City and one with whom fans of the hit TV shows, Big Bang Theory and Speechless, may be familiar. In February 2018, TPT returns to the intimate Norman Theatre at the Tulsa PAC to present the Regional Premiere of John Ross Bowie's FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN. This brand new non-musical play centers on the iconic punk band, The Ramones, as they record their fifth album with eccentric music producer, Phil Spector. Focusing on the period in 1979-1980 when the band stood on the edge of breaking out, and Spector needed a hit, this intense black comedy sheds light on an important and overlooked moment in rock history. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN was written by actor and comedian John Ross Bowie, best known for his role as Barry Kripke in the CBS show THE BIG BANG THEORY and currently as Jimmy Dimeo on the ABC show SPEECHLESS. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN runs February 16-25, 2018. TICK...TICK...BOOM! is an autobiographical musical by Jonathan Larson, the late Pulitzer Prize- and Tony Awardwinning composer of Rent, which tells the story of a composer and the sacrifices he made to achieve his big break, eventually leading to a Broadway blockbuster. His girlfriend wants to get married and move out of the city, his best friend is making big bucks on Madison Avenue and, yet, Jon is still waiting tables and trying to write the great American rock musical. Set in 1990, this compelling story of personal discovery embraces the universal ideal of holding onto your dreams through life's most difficult challenges. Before RENT, there was TICK...TICK...BOOM! The production will run for a weekend in Oklahoma City before arriving in Tulsa for a limited run on April 27 - 29, 2018. Tulsa Project Theatre will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera LIZZIE, set to run July 13-22, 2018. On a sweltering summer morning in 1892, in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden was the prime suspect and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. LIZZIE features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. LIZZIE is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information ------ Equality Center Pride Store 2017 Tulsa Pride Shirts are still a vailable in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store for $20.00 Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. 4/24/26, 4:10 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2017 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. \ 1 '-. UI ~ CJ{ ~ , ~ " Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "This is Where it Ends" Written by: Marieke Nijamp This #1 New York Times Bestseller chronicles the 54 harrowing minutes of a school shooting and follows four students who must confront their greatest hopes, and darkest fears, as they come faceto-face with the boy with the gun. Sharon Queen Service Coordinator Veterans, Transgender and Indigenous People Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org 10:00 a.m. The principal of Opportunity, Alabama's high school finishes her speech, welcoming the entire student body to a new semester and encouraging them to excel and achieve. 10:02 a.m. The students get up to leave the auditorium for their next class. 10:03 The auditorium doors won't open. 10:05 Someone starts shooting. A Buzzfeed Best YA Book A Bustle.com Most-Anticipated YA Novel A Goodreads YA Best Books Pick A Goodreads Choice Award Finalist for Young Adult Fiction Kids Indie Next List Pick Jose Vega Program Director Jose.Vega@OkEq.org "Marieke Nijamp's brutal, powerful fictional account of a school shooting is important in its timelessness." - Bustle.com "A gritty, emotional, and suspenseful read although fictionalized, it reflects on a problematic and harrowing issue across the nations." - Buzzfeed "A compelling, brutal story of an unfortunately all-too familiar situation: a school shooting. Nijkamp portrays the events thoughtfully, recounting fifty-four intense minutes of bravery, love, and loss." - BookRiot Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. OUT .gENROLL #KnowYourRights Alex Wade Volunteer & Pride Store Coordinator Alex.Wade@OkEq.org YOU SHOULD NEVER FACE n1c:rDIMIM ATlnM 4/24/26, 4:10 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2017 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... ..,.l~~"-11 ... lll~""I 1'-"1~ IN HEALTH INSURANCE OR HEALTH CARE. Luke Welvaert Facilities Cordinator Luke.Welvaert@OkEq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org If this happens to you, you have rights. To learn more, visit out2enroll.org/faqs/1557-2/ Denise Polonchak Janitorial Services OkEq Board and Trustees Executive Committee Rev. Geoffrey Brewster, President Stuart Ashworth, Esq, Vice President Jan Baldwin, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, At Large Board of Directors Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq Alyssa Bryant, Esq Sheena Grewal Darci Hazelwood, DO Ben Matthews Mike Redman, Esq Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter John Williams Board of Advisors Laura Arrowsmith, DO Peter Brennan Jamie Catlett Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Tamra Beth Jennings Marcia Labooth Keesee Amanda Lowe Andrew McClain Jim Scholl Mikeal Vaughn William Vaughn Community Advisors Erin Christy Karen Gilbert Deborah Gist, EdD Christina Mendoza Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes 4/24/26, 4:10 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2017 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... r----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 4:10 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/026808e9fdf9e44eb3ba7d4063cc6cf7.pdf 784be737aa89ea89917af022476c7949 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 13th, 2017 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-13th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e Free Yoga Class December 13th, 2017 okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility In This Issue news Free Yoga Class Fa La La Ball Free Art Class S.A.G.E. Holiday Light Tour and Dinner December EBA Mixer Out 2 Enroll Wednesday, December 13, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 2017 Holiday Service Schedule "First Thursday" Art Opening Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is important to them and address their needs in your newsletter each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing. Insert a "read on" link at the bottom of your article to drive traffic to your website. Links are tracked, allowing you to see which articles create the most interest for your readers. Amazon Smile No Shade for Plus Out 2 Enroll TULSA PROJECT THEATRE December Video eNews Pride Store Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Fa La La Ball "White Christmas" Sing-A-Longs Saturday, December 16, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Winterlight The 10th Annual Fa La La Ball will be held Saturday, December 16, 2017 from 7:00 p.m. to 11:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Out 2 Enroll Don your gay apparel and join us for the 10th annual Falala Ball! This nice and naughty evening will include live entertainment, cash bar and light hor d'oeuvres. Admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Food Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Center Food Pantry Pet Food for Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Amazon Smile Shop Now Holiday shopping is easy with Amazon's Holiday Gift Guides. #StartWithaSmile at smile.amazon.com for your holiday gifts and Amazon donates to Oklahomans for Equality Inc. amazons ......__,,, mi le You shop. Amazon gives. OkEq Board Meeting Live Entertainment Carmela Hill & Double Treble The Nerve Pills Quentin Marcellis Mariel Luna Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, December 21 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members "You think you are a holiday drag queen" lip sync contest OkEq Art Exhibition Raffle Prizes The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Melanie Potts in a show titled "Light Fantastic", beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Dedication of the Equality Quilt Designed by Karen Hendricks 8:00 p.m. ceremony Child Care is available in our Kids Holiday Party on the second level. Please RSVP to olivia.cotter@okeq.org if your children will be attending. Free Art Class Monday, December 18, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for the OKEQ Free Art Class in our art gallery. all you will need is shading pencils, copy paper or any sort of white blank paper (just not notebook paper) and erasers. Light refreshments will be served. S.A.G.E. Holiday Light Tour and Dinner Melanie Potts was born in Fort Hood, Texas and now lives in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She has several exhibits and series to her credit; this series - Light Fantastic - focuses on the idea of seeing something that is taken for granted and even looked down upon - that "something" is light pollution. Family Ties Tuesday, December 19, 4:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews December 13th, 2017 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-13th--20... Meet at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We will meet at the Equality Center and travel to Muskogee where we will tour Honor Heights Park Garden of Lights. After a drive-thru tour of the garden we will be having dinner at Gino's Italian restaurant. All we ask that you contribute $5.00 for gas. Dinner will be at your expense. Honor Heights Park - Experience animated displays and over 1,000,000 shimmering lights at Muskogee's annual Garden of Lights. Drive through Honor Heights Park and view 120 acres of trees, bushes and water areas decorated for the holiday season. Visit Garden of Lights and experience the natural beauty of the park filled with twinkling streams of light. View rose and azalea bushes illuminated with color, imitating their natural state during the blooming of spring. Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net This Christmas light display will also feature lighted displays of deer, squirrels and birds scattered amongst a wide variety of trees wrapped in lights. Guests are invited to enjoy all this holiday beauty from the comfort of a hay ride or from an outdoor synthetic ice rink set up within the park called WinterSkate at the Papilion. Admission to Garden of Lights is free; however, donations are appreciated. Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips Gino's - Quality, service with a smile at a price that will make you happy, and food that is good to eat (while still being good for you ). We make everything FRESH right here because we care about what we feed our neighbors. For more information on Gino's click here Please RSVP to olivia.cotter@okeq.org by December 13th. EBA Mixer Wednesday December 20th, 6:00 p.m. Decopolis 502 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74103 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Deco to Retro inspired Books, Toys and Gifts. Check out our Dancing Brush Art Classes held on the first floor in the Atomic Tiki Room! We also have regular DECOPOLIS Art Exhibitions featuring local artists. ® Visit Decopolis online You can join the EBA online, at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. E UALITY Business Alliance This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. / HiNct USA OUT ~ ENROLL DON'T BE A STATISTIC Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting Meeting the History Project Room Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles 4/24/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews December 13th, 2017 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-13th--20... QUEER PEOPLE UNINSURED: TRANS PEOPLE UNINSURED: BISEXUAL PEOPLE UNINSURED: and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. 25% LEARN ABOUT YOUR HEALTH INSURANCE OPTIONS NOW AT WWW.HEALTHCARE.GOV Source : Cen;or fo< Amencan Progress. 'Ml) Re~no the A ordalble C.re Act,. Bid Meck,ne fo< LGBT Commun 2017 Oklahomans For Equality Happy Holidays Lawyer in the Library December 13 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary 2017 Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Hanukkah Services December 12 - December 20 Healthcare Navigator Temple Israel 2004 East 22nd Place Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Dec 30, 7:00 - 8:30 p.m. Chanukah Palooza The Synagogue Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 December 17, 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Winterlight Chanukah Festival Kwanzaa - Habari Gani December 26 - January 1 Kwanzaa is a week-long celebration held in the United States and in other nations of the Western African diaspora in the Americas. The celebration honors African heritage in African-American culture, and is observed from December 26 to January 1, culminating in a feast and gift-giving. Kwanzaa has seven core principles (Nguzo Saba). It was created by Maulana Karenga and was first celebrated in 1966-67. Winter Solstice - Blessed Solstice December 21 Although winter is the season of dormancy, darkness and cold, the December Solstice marks the shortest day of the year/longest night and the days slowly get longer. Celebrations of the lighter days to come and nature's continuing cycle have been common throughout cultures and history with feasts, festivals and holidays around the December Solstice. Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 4:30 - 5:30 p.m. Christmas Eve Candlelight Service Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 5:00 p.m. Christmas Eve Candlelight Service Thursdays 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppgreatplains.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/24/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews December 13th, 2017 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-13th--20... Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24 9:00-10:15 a.m. - All-Church Breakfast 11:00 a.m. - Service of the Bells 5:00 p.m. - Candlelight Worship Service 11:00 p.m. - Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24 2:00 p.m. - Holy Eucharist, Rite I, Church 4:00 p.m. - Children's Pageant & Holy Eucharist, Rite II, Church 4:30 p.m. - Casual Holy Eucharist, Rite II, Markley Chapel 6:00 p.m. - Festal Holy Eucharist, Rite II, Church 8:00 p.m. - Festival of Nine Lessons & Carols, Church 10:30 p.m. - Solemn Midnight Eucharist, Rite II, Church Dec 25 10:30 a.m. - Holy Eucharist, Rite I, Church College Hill Presbyterian Church 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24 All Day, Advent Prayer Expirience 9:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. - Jesus University Pancake Breakfast 10:00 - 11:00 a.m. - Unified Service 8:00 - 9:30 p.m. - Christmas Eve Candlelight Service Dec 25 All Day, Advent Prayer Experience 12:00 - 2:00 p.m. FOL Christmas Dinner Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 24, 11:00 a.m. Morning Worship & Children's Service Eastside Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 Dec 24 10:45 am Christmas Day Service 6:00 pm Christmas Eve at Eastside The Episcopal Church of the Redeemer 213 N. Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74446 December 24, 7:30 pm The Christ Mass Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24 10:30 a.m. Christmas Eve Service 5:00 p.m. Carols & Communion Service Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24 10:00 a.m., 4:00 p.m., 6:00 p.m., & 8:00 p.m. Christmas Eve Services First Christian Church 913 S Boulder Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24 10:45 am Christmas Eve Service First Lutheran Church 1244 S. Utica Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24 6:00 p.m. FELC Nativity of Our Lord Worship Good Shepherd Episcopal Church 1420 E Dewey Sapulpa, OK 74066 Dec 24 10:30 a.m. Christmas Eve Service Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Hope Unitarian 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24 6:00 p.m. Christmas Eve Candlelight Service House Church Tulsa 1244 S. Utica Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24 10:30 a.m. Christmas Service Joy Lutheran Church 9940 S. Yale Avenue Tulsa , OK 74137 Dec 24 9:30 a.m., 5:00 p.m., and 7:00 p.m. Christmas Eve Service Temple Hull 4/24/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews December 13th, 2017 5 of 12 Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 23 7:00 p.m. Advent Lessons & Carols Dec 24 No Morning Service 11:00 pm Candlelight Midnight Mass St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24 11:00 a.m. Holy Eucharist, Rite II 1:00 p.m. Santa Misa 7:00 p.m. Christmas Eve Service 10:30 pm Christmas Eve Service St Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24 6:00 p.m. Candlelight & Communion Christmas Eve Service Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24 7:30 a.m. Spoken Worship, Rite I 9:00 a.m. Sung Worship, Rite II 11:00 a.m. Christmas Eve Service 11:00 Sung Worship, Rite I Dec 25 10:00 a.m. Christmas Day Service 12:05 p.m. Pray the Rosary Unity Center of Tulsa 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24 6:00 p.m. Special Christmas Eve Service Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 24 10:30 am Candlelight Christmas Eve Service https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-13th--20... is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 University United Methodist Church 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 21 6:30 p.m. Longest Night Service Dec 24 7:00 p.m. Candlelight, Carols, & Communion "First Thursday" Art Opening Nan McDowell Thursday, January 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa 4/24/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews December 13th, 2017 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-13th--20... Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. The January Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Nan McDowell , beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 4th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Nan was born in 1940 and grew up in Quincy, Massachusetts. As a self-taught artist, her painting was a welcome escape while pursuing careers in Health Care, and Education. She currently divides her time between Colorado and Oklahoma. Nan's first art workshop with Ardith Goodwin, was a week before her first solo show in 2015. The techniques learned in that workshop have forever changed her approach to painting. Conveying emotion through painting, remains at the center of her work. The last three years Nan has immersed herself in exploring her artistic framework. What has emerged, is a love of depicting women in various states of emotion, and emotions surrounding homelessness. Her psyche has been deeply seated in emotion and its affect on others. She remarks that visually presenting the human condition through expression is where she feels most rewarded. She presents many styles but her strength lies more in monochromatic tones with a small splash of color. When painting the human form, she often uses photos to get the proper angles of the body. She speaks of her work, "Frequently, my people come to me as I think about a certain feeling I want to express. I do a quick pencil sketch to achieve a natural pose. Occasionally, the original concept is sketched with paint directly onto the canvas. I layer with glaze and swaths of gesso". She says she is more comfortable with pallet knives and large strokes but as seen in her art, the smallest brush stoke can create impact. Her medium of choice is now acrylics. "I want the painting to tell the story that the viewer places on it. My minds-eye continues to explode with ways to create on canvas, the struggles and joys of being human. You will see a lot of focus on the eyes, as I believe they truly are the window to your soul. My most recent work reflects my attempt to paint with a softer, less realistic hand. Second to portraying women, is my love of depicting street people in an uplifting way, so I couldn't resist including my charming homeless man." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Amazon Smile Holiday shopping is easy with Amazon's Holiday Gift Guides. #StartWithaSmile at smile.amazon.com for your holiday gifts and Amazon donates to Oklahomans for Equality Inc. Amazon Smile Link amazons '~_,;, • e You shop. Amazon gives. No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday, 7:30 p.m. Southern Pride drum group is the only drum group of its kind in the entire world, being the only drum comprised of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have travelled all across the US and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. Currently they are seeking to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and add to their tight knit drum family. 4/24/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews December 13th, 2017 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-13th--20... SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org HEALTH INSURANCE FOR LESS THAN $20/MONTH That's what ANY 27-YEAR OLD making $25,000/year can find in half of the country. Asexual Meeting Next meeting December 12 It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. Asexuality can be defined in many different ways. Some of us identify as asexual because we are not interested in intercourse, but still want other forms of sex. Some of us identify as asexual because we cannot get sexually aroused. Others may identify as asexual because we are never attracted to anyone sexually. Some of us are in relationships with the opposite sex, some with the same sex, and others remain unattached our entire lives. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Tulsa Project Theatre (TPT), the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, and has announced its 2017-2018 season. Three of the season's productions are in collaboration with other AEA affiliates - two from Oklahoma City and one with whom fans of the hit TV shows, Big Bang Theory and Speechless, may be familiar. In February 2018, TPT returns to the intimate Norman Theatre at the Tulsa PAC to present the Regional Premiere of John Ross Bowie's FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN. This brand new non-musical play centers on the iconic punk band, The Ramones, as they record their fifth album with eccentric music producer, Phil Spector. Focusing on the period in 1979-1980 when the band stood on the edge of breaking out, and Spector needed a hit, this intense black comedy sheds light on an important and overlooked moment in rock history. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN was written by actor and comedian John Ross Bowie, best known for his role as Barry Kripke in the CBS show THE BIG BANG THEORY and currently as Jimmy Dimeo on the ABC show SPEECHLESS. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN runs February 16-25, 2018. TICK...TICK...BOOM! is an autobiographical musical by Jonathan Larson, the late Pulitzer Prize- and Tony Awardwinning composer of Rent, which tells the story of a composer and the sacrifices he made to achieve his big break, eventually leading to a Broadway blockbuster. His girlfriend wants to get married and move out of the city, his best friend is making big bucks on Madison Avenue and, yet, Jon is still waiting tables and trying to write the great American rock musical. Set in 1990, this compelling story of personal discovery embraces the universal ideal of holding onto your dreams through life's most difficult challenges. Before RENT, there was TICK...TICK...BOOM! The production will run for a weekend in Oklahoma City before arriving in Tulsa for a limited run on April 27 - 29, 2018. No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Tulsa Project Theatre will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera LIZZIE, set to run July 13-22, 2018. On a sweltering summer morning in 1892, in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden was the prime suspect and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. LIZZIE features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. LIZZIE is sex, rage, betrayal, 4/24/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews December 13th, 2017 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-13th--20... blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information -------- December Video eNews SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan II • Equality Center Pride Store 2017 Tulsa Pride Shirts are still a vailable in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store for $20.00 . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Writers, Ink. First and third Saturday of each month An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. v Gender Support Program Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. "The Essential Dykes to Watch Out For" Written by: Alison Bechdel Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. From the author of Fun Home -- the lives, loves, and politics of cult fav characters Mo, Lois, Sydney, Sparrow, Ginger, Stuart, Clarice, and others For twenty-five years Bechdel's path-breaking Dykes to Watch Out For strip has been collected in awardwinning volumes (with a quarter of a million copies in print), syndicated in fifty alternative newspapers, and translated into many languages. Now, at last, The Essential Dykes to Watch Out For gathers a "rich, funny, deep and impossible to put down" (Publishers Weekly) selection from all eleven Dykes volumes. Here too are sixty of the newest strips, never before published in book form. the essential Settle in to this wittily illustrated soap opera (Bechdel calls it "half op-ed column and half endless serialized Victorian novel") of the lives, loves, and politics of a cast of characters, most of them lesbian, living in a midsize American city that may or may not be Minneapolis. Her brilliantly imagined countercultural band of friends -- academics, social workers, bookstore clerks -fall in and out of love, negotiate friendships, raise children, switch careers, and cope with aging parents. DYKES TO WATCH OUT FOR ALISON BECHDEL ::,:-.,.:., Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Bechdel fuses high and low culture -- from foreign policy to domestic routine, hot sex to postmodern theory -- in a serial graphic narrative "suitable for humanists of all persuasions." t11t l1Y( S, LOY(S,.,. . ,ou11CS 0t(llll•IAW(-.u.\(" 9' 4/24/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews December 13th, 2017 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-13th--20... Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. "White Christmas" Sing-A-Longs Friday, December 22, 7:00 p.m. (Sold Out!) Saturday, December 23, 2:00 p.m. Tickets: $10.00 KTUL-TV's Jody McIntyre will lead us off with trivia and then we'll sing along to the hit musical, a Tulsa Circle Cinema tradition! Click here to purchase tickets for December 23 ACIRCLE CINEMA TRADITION! Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve a space for your next event or receive pricing information, contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "White Christmas" Sing-A-Longs Date/time: Friday, 12/22 at 7pm (Sold Out!) & Saturday, 12/23 at 2pm Tickets: $10 Info: KTUL-TV's Jody McIntyre will lead us off with trivia and then we'll sing along to the hit musical, a Tulsa Circle Cinema tradition! Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 4/24/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews December 13th, 2017 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-13th--20... First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. OUT ~:ENROLL #KnowYourRights YOU SHOULD NEVER FACE DISCRIMINATION IN HEALTH INSURANCE OR HEALTH CARE. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org If this happens to you, you have rights. Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org To learn more, visit out2enroll.org/faqs/1557-2/ 4/24/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews December 13th, 2017 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-13th--20... Sharon Queen Service Coordinator Veterans, Transgender and Indigenous People Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Director Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer & Pride Store Coordinator Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Luke Welvaert Facilities Cordinator Luke.Welvaert@OkEq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Denise Polonchak Janitorial Services OkEq Board and Trustees 4/24/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews December 13th, 2017 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-13th--20... Executive Committee Rev. Geoffrey Brewster, President Stuart Ashworth, Esq, Vice President Jan Baldwin, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, At Large Board of Directors Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq Alyssa Bryant, Esq Sheena Grewal Darci Hazelwood, DO Ben Matthews Mike Redman, Esq Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter John Williams Board of Advisors Laura Arrowsmith, DO Peter Brennan Jamie Catlett Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Tamra Beth Jennings Marcia Labooth Keesee Amanda Lowe Andrew McClain Jim Scholl Mikeal Vaughn William Vaughn Community Advisors Erin Christy Karen Gilbert Deborah Gist, EdD Christina Mendoza Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 4:11 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/23b3a93e147af6921a75daf6d91add42.pdf 2b8fd4c7a0b0dbc855f41025349f98fa PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 20th, 2017 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news oklahomans for equality EBA Mixer December 20th, 2017 In This Issue December EBA Mixer 2017 Holiday Service Schedule "First Thursday" Art Opening 2018 Pride Bingo CALL ME BY YOUR NAME Pride Movie Night Wild Hearts Ball Wednesday December 20th, 6:00 p.m. Decopolis 502 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74103 Amazon Smile No Shade for Plus TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Pride Store Deco to Retro inspired Books, Toys and Gifts. Check out our Dancing Brush Art Classes held on the first floor in the Atomic Tiki Room! We also have regular DECOPOLIS Art Exhibitions featuring local artists. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "White Christmas" Sing-A-Longs Amazon Smile Shop Now Visit Decopolis online You can join the EBA online, at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. E ALITY usiness Alliance Holiday shopping is easy with Amazon's Holiday Gift Guides. #StartWithaSmile at smile.amazon.com for your holiday gifts and Amazon donates to Oklahomans for Equality Inc. amazons mile --.._.;, You shop. Amazon gives. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, December 21 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Oklahomans For Equality Happy Holidays The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Melanie Potts in a show titled "Light Fantastic", beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Melanie Potts was born in Fort Hood, Texas and now lives in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She has several exhibits and series to her credit; this series - Light Fantastic - focuses on the idea of seeing something that is taken for granted and even looked down upon - that "something" is light pollution. Family Ties 2017 Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Hanukkah December 12 - December 20 4/24/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2017 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... Temple Israel 2004 East 22nd Place Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 The Synagogue Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 Kwanzaa - Habari Gani December 26 - January 1 Kwanzaa is a week-long celebration held in the United States and in other nations of the Western African diaspora in the Americas. The celebration honors African heritage in African-American culture, and is observed from December 26 to January 1, culminating in a feast and gift-giving. Kwanzaa has seven core principles (Nguzo Saba). It was created by Maulana Karenga and was first celebrated in 1966-67. Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips Winter Solstice - Blessed Solstice December 21 Although winter is the season of dormancy, darkness and cold, the December Solstice marks the shortest day of the year/longest night and the days slowly get longer. Celebrations of the lighter days to come and nature's continuing cycle have been common throughout cultures and history with feasts, festivals and holidays around the December Solstice. Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 4:30 - 5:30 p.m. Christmas Eve Candlelight Service Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 5:00 p.m. Christmas Eve Candlelight Service Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24 9:00-10:15 a.m. - All-Church Breakfast 11:00 a.m. - Service of the Bells 5:00 p.m. - Candlelight Worship Service 11:00 p.m. - Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24 2:00 p.m. - Holy Eucharist, Rite I, Church 4:00 p.m. - Children's Pageant & Holy Eucharist, Rite II, Church 4:30 p.m. - Casual Holy Eucharist, Rite II, Markley Chapel 6:00 p.m. - Festal Holy Eucharist, Rite II, Church 8:00 p.m. - Festival of Nine Lessons & Carols, Church 10:30 p.m. - Solemn Midnight Eucharist, Rite II, Church Dec 25 10:30 a.m. - Holy Eucharist, Rite I, Church College Hill Presbyterian Church 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24 11:00 pm Candlelight Service 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 24 11:00 a.m. Morning Worship & Children's Service Eastside Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 Dec 24 6:00 p.m. Christmas Eve Candlelight and Communion The Episcopal Church of the Redeemer 213 N. Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74446 December 24, 7:30 pm The Christ Mass Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24 10:30 a.m. Christmas Eve Service 5:00 p.m. Carols & Communion Service Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24 10:00 a.m., 4:00 p.m., 6:00 p.m., & 8:00 p.m. Christmas Eve Services First Christian Church 913 S Boulder Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24 10:45 am Christmas Eve Service 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 4/24/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2017 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... First Lutheran Church 1244 S. Utica Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24 6:00 p.m. FELC Nativity of Our Lord Worship Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Good Shepherd Episcopal Church 1420 E Dewey Sapulpa, OK 74066 Dec 24 10:30 a.m. Christmas Eve Service Hope Unitarian 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24 6:00 p.m. Christmas Eve Candlelight Service House Church Tulsa 1244 S. Utica Ave. Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24 10:30 a.m. Christmas Service Joy Lutheran Church 9940 S. Yale Avenue Tulsa , OK 74137 Dec 24 9:30 a.m., 5:00 p.m., and 7:00 p.m. Christmas Eve Service Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 23 7:00 p.m. Advent Lessons & Carols Dec 24 No Morning Service 11:00 pm Candlelight Midnight Mass Lawyer in the Library St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24 11:00 a.m. Holy Eucharist, Rite II 1:00 p.m. Santa Misa 7:00 p.m. Christmas Eve Service 10:30 pm Christmas Eve Service January 10 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. St Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24 6:00 p.m. Candlelight & Communion Christmas Eve Service Healthcare Navigator Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24 7:30 a.m. Spoken Worship, Rite I 9:00 a.m. Sung Worship, Rite II 11:00 a.m. Christmas Eve Service 11:00 Sung Worship, Rite I Dec 25 10:00 a.m. Christmas Day Service 12:05 p.m. Pray the Rosary Unity Center of Tulsa 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24 6:00 p.m. Special Christmas Eve Service Thursdays 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppgreatplains.org Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 24 10:30 am Candlelight Christmas Eve Service University United Methodist Church 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 21 6:30 p.m. Longest Night Service Dec 24 7:00 p.m. Candlelight, Carols, & Communion Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. "First Thursday" Art Opening Nan McDowell Thursday, January 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The January Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Nan McDowell , beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 4th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. .. - ,,.-- I ,, ' ' · _, ~ - • (t,• ' ' ~-, ~ ~,. 4/24/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2017 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... Nan was born in 1940 and grew up in Quincy, Massachusetts. As a self-taught artist, her painting was a welcome escape while pursuing careers in Health Care, and Education. She currently divides her time between Colorado and Oklahoma. Nan's first art workshop with Ardith Goodwin, was a week before her first solo show in 2015. The techniques learned in that workshop have forever changed her approach to painting. Conveying emotion through painting, remains at the center of her work. The last three years Nan has immersed herself in exploring her artistic framework. What has emerged, is a love of depicting women in various states of emotion, and emotions surrounding homelessness. Dr. Kurt Choate Her psyche has been deeply seated in emotion and its affect on others. She remarks that visually presenting the human condition through expression is where she feels most rewarded. She presents many styles but her strength lies more in monochromatic tones with a small splash of color. When painting the human form, she often uses photos to get the proper angles of the body. She speaks of her work, "Frequently, my people come to me as I think about a certain feeling I want to express. I do a quick pencil sketch to achieve a natural pose. Occasionally, the original concept is sketched with paint directly onto the canvas. I layer with glaze and swaths of gesso". She says she is more comfortable with pallet knives and large strokes but as seen in her art, the smallest brush stoke can create impact. Her medium of choice is now acrylics. "I want the painting to tell the story that the viewer places on it. My minds-eye continues to explode with ways to create on canvas, the struggles and joys of being human. You will see a lot of focus on the eyes, as I believe they truly are the window to your soul. My most recent work reflects my attempt to paint with a softer, less realistic hand. Second to portraying women, is my love of depicting street people in an uplifting way, so I couldn't resist including my charming homeless man." Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 4 , from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artist's work will be drawn. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 2018 Pride Bingo Saturday, January 13, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back for the 2018 Pride season! Join us for the first Tulsa Pride Bingo of the year The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Vegas and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo Bash. DJ Alex says "get your lip sync selections ready." $20 for general admission $30 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table CALL ME BY YOUR NAME Pride Movie Night Friday, January 19, 6:00 p.m. Reception, 7:20 p.m. Film Screening Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74104 OKEQ is hosting a reception at the the premier of one of the most highly-acclaimed films of the year, "CALL ME BY YOUR NAME," Friday, Jan 19 at Circle Cinema. Reception begins at 6pm, Film Screening at 7:20pm. In Northern Italy in 1983, seventeen year-old Elio begins a relationship with visiting Oliver, his father's research assistant, with whom he bonds over his emerging sexuality, their Jewish heritage, and the beguiling Italian landscape. Starring Armie Hammer and written by James Ivory. Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Click here for more information Wild Hearts Ball Saturday, February 3, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Dancing, music, friends, and we guarantee you'll fall in love. Amazon Smile Holiday shopping is easy with Amazon's Holiday Gift Guides. #StartWithaSmile at smile.amazon.com for your holiday gifts and Amazon donates to Oklahomans for Equality Inc. Amazon Smile Link • Temple Hull 4/24/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2017 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... amazons '~~n e You shop. Amazon gives. is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Tulsa Project Theatre (TPT), the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, and has announced its 2017-2018 season. Three of the season's productions are in collaboration with other AEA affiliates - two from Oklahoma City and one with whom fans of the hit TV shows, Big Bang Theory and Speechless, may be familiar. In February 2018, TPT returns to the intimate Norman Theatre at the Tulsa PAC to present the Regional Premiere of John Ross Bowie's FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN. This brand new non-musical play centers on the iconic punk band, The Ramones, as they record their fifth album with eccentric music producer, Phil Spector. Focusing on the period in 1979-1980 when the band stood on the edge of breaking out, and Spector needed a hit, this intense black comedy sheds light on an important and overlooked moment in rock history. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN was written by actor and comedian John Ross Bowie, best known for his role as Barry Kripke in the CBS show THE BIG BANG THEORY and currently as Jimmy Dimeo on the ABC show SPEECHLESS. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN runs February 16-25, 2018. TICK...TICK...BOOM! is an autobiographical musical by Jonathan Larson, the late Pulitzer Prize- and Tony Awardwinning composer of Rent, which tells the story of a composer and the sacrifices he made to achieve his big break, eventually leading to a Broadway blockbuster. His girlfriend wants to get married and move out of the city, his best friend is making big bucks on Madison Avenue and, yet, Jon is still waiting tables and trying to write the great American rock musical. Set in 1990, this compelling story of personal discovery embraces the universal ideal of holding onto your dreams through life's most difficult challenges. Before RENT, there was TICK...TICK...BOOM! The production will run for a weekend in Oklahoma City before arriving in Tulsa for a limited run on April 27 - 29, 2018. Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Tulsa Project Theatre will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera LIZZIE, set to run July 13-22, 2018. On a sweltering summer morning in 1892, in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden was the prime suspect and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. LIZZIE features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. LIZZIE is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information - - - Equality Center Pride Store Last minute holiday decor and gifts are still available in the Pride Store. Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa 4/24/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2017 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "On A Wednesday in September" Written by: Stephan Niederwieser When Edvard hands his lover a ring to seal their friendship, he triggers an emotional avalanche: Bernhard is overwhelmed with images from the past: Nazi Germany, a blond soldier, and trails of blood in the snow. While seeking answers to these haunting images, Bernhard crosses paths with many strangers: his close-lipped father, stewardess Kim, grand seignior Raimondo, gigolo Fred, and his own strong-willed mother Lydia. The ring connects the lives of these strangers, and what seems contradictory finally comes together at the end. On a Wednesday in September, one of Germany's best-selling gay novels finally available in English. Jennie Martin is a Licensed Professional Counselor - Candidate and Counseling Psychology Doctoral Intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She enjoys working with LGBTQQIA+ community members on a wide variety of topics including relationship/family concerns, body image, community advocacy, religiosity/spirituality concerns, trauma, and more. She has experience with family and couples counseling and is passionate about advocating for social justice. Appointments can be scheduled with Jennie by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. "White Christmas" Sing-A-Longs Friday, December 22, 7:00 p.m. (Sold Out!) Saturday, December 23, 2:00 p.m. Tickets: $10.00 KTUL-TV's Jody McIntyre will lead us off with trivia and then we'll sing along to the hit musical, a Tulsa Circle Cinema tradition! Click here to purchase tickets for December 23 ACIRCLE CINEMA TRADITION! Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Southern Pride Drum Group Every Thursday, 7:30 p.m. Southern Pride drum group is the only drum group of its kind in the entire world, being the only drum comprised of mainly 2 spirit (GLBT Native) members and their families. They have travelled all across the US and Canada singing for powwows, gatherings and Pride events for more than 10 years with more than 100 years of combined experience singing at the drum. Currently they are seeking to teach drumming and singing and drum etiquette at the Equality Center in Tulsa and add to their tight knit drum family. 4/24/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2017 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Asexual Meeting Next meeting December 26 It's the A in LGBTQA. Come join us for an affirming, open discussion at this peer-led group for individuals 18 and over who identify as asexual or are interested in discussing asexual issues. This a place for asexuals to form community. Be a part of the first Tulsa asexual group. Asexuality can be defined in many different ways. Some of us identify as asexual because we are not interested in intercourse, but still want other forms of sex. Some of us identify as asexual because we cannot get sexually aroused. Others may identify as asexual because we are never attracted to anyone sexually. Some of us are in relationships with the opposite sex, some with the same sex, and others remain unattached our entire lives. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, Education, Social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. 4/24/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2017 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan II . . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Writers, Ink. First and third Saturday of each month An LGBT inclusive group of writers providing support and resources to authors and writers regardless of where they are in their writing career. v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/24/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2017 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve a space for your next event or receive pricing information, contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence & Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 4/24/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2017 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2017 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... Sharon Queen Service Coordinator Veterans, Transgender and Indigenous People Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Director Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Volunteer & Pride Store Coordinator Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Luke Welvaert Facilities Coordinator Luke.Welvaert@OkEq.org Tracy Allen Special Projects Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Denise Polonchak Janitorial Services OkEq Board and Trustees 4/24/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2017 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... Executive Committee Rev. Geoffrey Brewster, President Stuart Ashworth, Esq, Vice President Jan Baldwin, Secretary Paul Allen, Treasurer Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, At Large Board of Directors Christopher Brecht-Smith, Esq Alyssa Bryant, Esq Sheena Grewal Darci Hazelwood, DO Ben Matthews Mike Redman, Esq Chris Shoaf Al Triggs Robin VanMeter John Williams Board of Advisors Laura Arrowsmith, DO Peter Brennan Jamie Catlett Michael Farr Joann Frizell Andrew Gordon Tamra Beth Jennings Marcia Labooth Keesee Amanda Lowe Andrew McClain Jim Scholl Mikeal Vaughn William Vaughn Community Advisors Erin Christy Karen Gilbert Deborah Gist, EdD Christina Mendoza Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt David Nelson Kris Wilmes r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 4:12 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/85bcc8463a60384618f511c3de3e6d5c.pdf 824514601e8eef6a28c70611eb839ef4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 27th, 2017 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-27th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news oklahomans for equality Guys Dine Too December 27th, 2017 In This Issue Guys Dine Too "First Thursday" Art Opening Free Art Class Free Yoga Class 2018 Pride Bingo January EBA Mixer Tuesday, January 2, 6:30 p.m. Charleston's 3726 S. Peoria Ave., Tulsa, OK 74105 CALL ME BY YOUR NAME Pride Movie Night Wild Hearts Ball Charleston's is a casual, upbeat restaurant with a modestly priced menu featuring traditional American classics prepared from scratch daily. The atmosphere is warm, cozy, and inviting utilizing dark woods and gas lighting to create a handsome, casual and comfortable décor. Charleston's focuses on providing its guests with excellent price value and selecting the highest quality ingredients. Amazon Smile No Shade for Plus TULSA PROJECT THEATRE Pride Store Whether you are new to Charleston's or a long-standing customer, we look forward to seeing you soon! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Trading Faces If you plan to attend please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com "First Thursday" Art Opening Nan McDowell Thursday, January 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Amazon Smile The January Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Nan McDowell, beginning with a reception on Thursday, Jan. 4 , from 6 to 9 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. Nan was born in 1940 and grew up in Quincy, Mass. As a self-taught artist, her painting was a welcome escape while pursuing careers in health care and education. She currently divides her time between Colorado and Oklahoma. Nan's first art workshop with Ardith Goodwin was a week before her first solo show in 2015. The techniques learned in that workshop have forever changed her approach to painting. Conveying emotion through painting remains at the center of her work. The last three years Nan has immersed herself in exploring her artistic framework. What has emerged is a love of depicting women in various states of emotion and emotions surrounding homelessness. Her psyche has been deeply seated in emotion and its effect on others. She remarks that visually presenting the human condition through expression is where she feels most rewarded. She presents many styles, but her strength lies more in monochromatic tones with a small splash of color. When painting the human form, she often uses photos to get the proper angles of the body. She says of her work: "Frequently, my people come to me as I think about a certain feeling I want to express. I do a quick pencil sketch to achieve a natural pose. Occasionally, the original concept is sketched with paint directly onto the canvas. I layer with glaze and swaths of gesso." She says she is more comfortable with pallet knives and large strokes, but as seen in her art, the smallest brush stoke can create impact. Her medium of choice is now acrylics. "I want the painting to tell the story that the viewer places on it. My mind's eye continues to explode with ways to create on canvas, the struggles and joys of being human. You will see a lot of focus on the eyes, as I believe they truly are the window to your soul. My most recent work reflects my attempt to paint with a softer, less realistic hand. Second to portraying women is my love of depicting street people in an uplifting way, so I couldn't resist including my charming homeless man." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 4 , from 6 to 9 p.m. A door prize of the artist's work will be drawn. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Free Art Class Shop Now Holiday shopping is easy with Amazon's Holiday Gift Guides. #StartWithaSmile at smile.amazon.com for your holiday gifts and Amazon donates to Oklahomans for Equality Inc. amazonsmi le ~ You shop. Amazon gives. OkEq Board Meeting Monthly Meeting 7:00 p.m. Thursday, January 18 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members OkEq Art Exhibition The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an exhibit of works by Melanie Potts in a show titled "Light Fantastic", beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Melanie Potts was born in Fort Hood, Texas and now lives in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She has several exhibits and series to her credit; this series - Light Fantastic - focuses on the idea of seeing something that is taken for granted and even looked down upon - that "something" is light pollution. Monday, January 8, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free basic art lessons are now available. You will need shading pencils, copy paper or any sort of white blank paper (no notebook paper) and erasers! Any questions please email Program Director Jose.Vega@okeq.org Family Ties Free Yoga Class Wednesday, January 10, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews December 27th, 2017 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-27th--20... Enjoy a free Yoga class! These 60-minute, free Community Yoga classes are open to everyone of all levels. Each class is mindfully crafted to prepare the body for a peak pose in the arm balance, inversion, back-bend or twist family. This class will connect the mind, body, and spirit through movement and breath. Any questions please email Jose.Vega@okeq.org 2018 Pride Bingo Saturday, January 13, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa PRIDE BINGO is back for the 2018 Pride season. Join us for the first Tulsa Pride Bingo of the year. The beautiful and glamorous Nicole Carrington will fly in from Vegas, and she has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our Bingo Bash. DJ Alex says "get your lip sync selections ready." $20 for general admission Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Challenging Beliefs in Nontraditional Relat ions hips $30 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $225 Table for 8 people which includes open bar for your table EBA Mixer 1st & 3rd Monday of each month 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Wednesday, January 17th, 6:00 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E. Second St., Tulsa, OK 74103 Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of downtown Tulsa's vibrant business, entertainment, and cultural districts. Our hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, our luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and more than 50 restaurants and bars. Visit Hyatt Regency Tulsa Online This therapeutic discussion group provides a haven for individuals who engage in nontraditional relationship structures, with a focus on internal and social stigmas, personal belief systems, and the struggles surrounding this population. This group is open to individuals who take part in ethically nonmonogamous relationships (polyamory, swinging) and kink relationships. The Oklahoma Poly Network is a proud supporter of this group. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. You can join the EBA online, at one of our mixers or business meetings, or fill out and application at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. E Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op UALITY Business Alliance 2nd & 4th Monday of each month 6:30-7:30 p.m. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer: please send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. CALL ME BY YOUR NAME Pride Movie Night Friday, January 19, 6:00 p.m. Reception, 7:20 p.m. Film Screening Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74104 Are you planning to come out? Maybe you have just recently come out? Join us for a coming out discussion group meeting in the History Project Room. It's free! This course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends, and co-workers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. It is a safe space to share experiences about coming out and discuss topics as it relates to doing so. By sharing struggles 4/24/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews December 27th, 2017 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-27th--20... and victories the group allows those newly coming out and who have been out for a while to learn from others. All are welcome to join in the discussion whether Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Trans. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 OKEQ is hosting a reception at the the premier of one of the most highly-acclaimed films of the year, "CALL ME BY YOUR NAME," Friday, Jan 19 at Circle Cinema. Reception begins at 6pm, Film Screening at 7:20pm. In Northern Italy in 1983, seventeen year-old Elio begins a relationship with visiting Oliver, his father's research assistant, with whom he bonds over his emerging sexuality, their Jewish heritage, and the beguiling Italian landscape. Starring Armie Hammer and written by James Ivory. Sara Griffey is a Clinical Counseling intern with Bellevue University. She has experience working with LGBT+ clients, homeless youth, individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, and trauma. She currently works with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to nontraditional relationships (polyamory, kink, etc.), as well as the other areas listed above. She is passionate about advocacy and public policy in order to ensure that proper treatment is available for any individual seeking services. Click here for more information Wild Hearts Ball Saturday, February 3, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Dancing, music, friends, and we guarantee you'll fall in love. Amazon Smile Holiday shopping is easy with Amazon's Holiday Gift Guides. #StartWithaSmile at smile.amazon.com for your holiday gifts and Amazon donates to Oklahomans for Equality Inc. Amazon Smile Link amazons • '~~;'I You shop. Amazon gives. No Shade for Plus Every Tuesday, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group to bring together people who have found they are HIV positive and those who have been living with HIV for many years. The group will provide support, education, social activities and so much more. The group will be here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to provide a safe place to discuss issues and meet other people who are navigating their lives being PLUS. Lawyer in the Library January 10 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody and child support), landlord/tenant disputes, estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center Tulsa Project Theatre Season 2017-2018 4/24/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews December 27th, 2017 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-27th--20... Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Charles E. Norman Theatre 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Tulsa Project Theatre (TPT), the city's only theatre company operating under an Actors Equity Association (AEA) contract, and has announced its 2017-2018 season. Three of the season's productions are in collaboration with other AEA affiliates - two from Oklahoma City and one with whom fans of the hit TV shows, Big Bang Theory and Speechless, may be familiar. In February 2018, TPT returns to the intimate Norman Theatre at the Tulsa PAC to present the Regional Premiere of John Ross Bowie's FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN. This brand new non-musical play centers on the iconic punk band, The Ramones, as they record their fifth album with eccentric music producer, Phil Spector. Focusing on the period in 1979-1980 when the band stood on the edge of breaking out, and Spector needed a hit, this intense black comedy sheds light on an important and overlooked moment in rock history. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN was written by actor and comedian John Ross Bowie, best known for his role as Barry Kripke in the CBS show THE BIG BANG THEORY and currently as Jimmy Dimeo on the ABC show SPEECHLESS. FOUR CHORDS AND A GUN runs February 16-25, 2018. TICK...TICK...BOOM! is an autobiographical musical by Jonathan Larson, the late Pulitzer Prize- and Tony Awardwinning composer of Rent, which tells the story of a composer and the sacrifices he made to achieve his big break, eventually leading to a Broadway blockbuster. His girlfriend wants to get married and move out of the city, his best friend is making big bucks on Madison Avenue and, yet, Jon is still waiting tables and trying to write the great American rock musical. Set in 1990, this compelling story of personal discovery embraces the universal ideal of holding onto your dreams through life's most difficult challenges. Before RENT, there was TICK...TICK...BOOM! The production will run for a weekend in Oklahoma City before arriving in Tulsa for a limited run on April 27 - 29, 2018. Alyssa Pasquini is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is passionate about assisting clients who are a part of the LGBTQQIA+ community who experience a range of concerns including issues surrounding gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, and mood or anxiety concerns. Appointments with Alyssa can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 5 94-85 68 . Tulsa Project Theatre will close its seventh season in the Liddy Doenges Theatre with another Oklahoma Premiere of the rock opera LIZZIE, set to run July 13-22, 2018. On a sweltering summer morning in 1892, in a small new England city, a prominent business man and his wife were brutally axed to death in their home. Their youngest daughter, Lizzie Borden was the prime suspect and her trial was a coast-to-coast media sensation. LIZZIE features four women fronting a six-piece rock band. LIZZIE is sex, rage, betrayal, blood, murder, and American mythology set to a scorching rock score. Visit www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com for more information ------ Equality Center Pride Store Your puppy will be pawsitively furbulous in this styleash harness! Amanda Rogers is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to gender identity, sexual or affectional orientation, relationship issues, mood/anxiety concerns and trauma. She is passionate about social justice and working with the LGBTQQIA+ community. Appointments can be scheduled with Amanda by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568 . Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Red Doors" Directed by: Georgia Lee Temple Hull is a mental health counseling intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She has experience counseling transgender, bisexual, lesbian, gay and asexual persons, and looks forward to working with all individuals represented in the bright colors of the rainbow flag. Appointments with Temple can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at 918-594-8568. The patriarch (Tzi Ma) of a Chinese-American family plans to get away from it all when he retires, but the tumultuous lives of his rebellious daughters alter his plans. Eldest daughter, Samantha (Jacqueline Kim), reunites with an old flame and re-evaluates her life choices. Julie (Elaine Kao), a medical student, is in love with a celebrity. The youngest, Katie (Kathy Shao-Lin Lee) carries on an escalating war of pranks with a neighbor. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Merrill Reiter, M.S., is in the Counseling Psychology Doctoral Program at Oklahoma State 4/24/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews December 27th, 2017 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-27th--20... University. She is a mental health counselor at OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. Merrill is passionate about social justice, advocacy and counseling. She enjoys working with people of all identities and strives to make her sessions a safe place for all clients. She has experience working with LGBTQ+ people and welcomes the opportunity to work with persons with concerns related to sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, mood/anxiety, depression, self-injury, death/grief, and those experiencing major changes or transitions in life. Appointments with Merrill can be made by calling the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Kathy Kavanaugh is a doctoral counseling psychology intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is dedicated to working with clients of all identities (including all sexual and affectional orientations, gender identities, races, ethnicities, and ages) from a multicultural perspective. Kathy works with clients to address concerns regarding anxiety, mood, sexual and gender identity development, and overall personal enrichment. To schedule an appointment with Kathy, please contact the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. Mark Taracuk, MSEd, NCC is a doctoral student in counseling psychology at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. He received his master's degree in counseling from Indiana University and is a National Certified Counselor. Mark has past experience working with members of the LGBTQ+ community on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, spiritual concerns, trauma, intimate partner violence, and concerns related to gender identity. Appointments with Mark can be made by calling the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568. 4/24/26, 4:12 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/350e94721a00542800f6e2f52b9f62ee.pdf e093227e5e579a288e20ad91a528a0b8 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 22nd, 2017 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-22nd--2017.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 22nd, 2017 okl.ihom:ms for equ.ility news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Sisters In Song Volunteer of the Month Cityscape Mortgage 2017 Turn About Show F ~ J'ay1toii Rental Property Bookkeep1n9 r 980 Family Ties Guys Dine Too First Thursday Art Opening. Tulsa Pride Bingo Equality Business Alliance Mixer Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Tulsa Metro Softball League March Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library REVERSED AND REMANDED Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Stillwater Gender SUpport I.C.A.O. Monarch X Elections I.C.A.O. Coronation X Miss Jolt Kelly Kirby CPA Jackpot Golf Classic Compassionate Tulsa Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com IV\- r-o~ue,LV\,g Tl1Lbo~eaux: Tl1e Tax Tl1ev-apkj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 2017 Equality Gala Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 22nd, 2017 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-22nd--2017.... The March Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Josh New in a show titled "Intimate Viewing", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer Josh New's works feature a series of portraits honing-in on people with intimate tattoos. So often tattoos carry with them intensely personal memories, feelings, or mottos that are chosen to be indelibly marked on bodies. They can be to remember a loved one or special event; they can represent a location, a mantra, or an eternal goal. Often these special images and words are hidden from every day view and only glimpsed in moments of extreme vulnerability. Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs Q. oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org Family Ties Sisters In Song present: Romance & Chocolates 2017 - "How Deep Is Your Love?" Saturday, March 25, 2017, 6:00 p.m. Eastside Christian Church Fellowship Hall 1438 S. Indianapolis Tulsa OK 74112 6:00 PM Hor D'oerves and wine with social mingling 6:45 PM Dinner with wine and Concert featuring 70's music $30/person Come join us for an great evening of 70's music, including the Bee Gees, Queen, Joe Cocker, Pat Benetar and others. Tickets are $30/person and include wine, gnoshies, dinner with wine, and chocolates and champagne for desert in addition to the concert. There will also be raffle tickets available for a Samsung 55" 4K UHD Smart TV, a XBox 1 with a game and controller and a $30 Best Buy gift card. Please contact 918-630-9794 for tickets or more information. Just remember, seating is limited and you sure don't want to miss out on a fantastic time!!!! Volunteer of the Month March 2017 Jonathan Green Jonathan has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since June of 2016. They felt like OKEQ would be a great place to meet people and get non profit experience. Since volunteering they have enjoyed getting to see all the work that goes into the programming offered at Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq). "The staff and volunteers all work really hard to make every program and event a success" Jonathan says. Jonathan has made new friends in their time at OkEq and believes the staff to be wonderful human beings. They would highly recommend volunteering at OkEq to anyone who is looking for a way to support the LGBTQ community. Jonathan states, "for a relatively small commitment, front desk volunteers ensure that the day to day operations of the center run smoothly." Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library March 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 One of Jonathan's favorite aspects of OkEq is the monthly show in the gallery. They say "The work shown there varies greatly and I think that is important for a community space. Young artists and seasoned professionals alike get the chance to show their art to an audience outside the typical art scene." When they are not volunteering, they are working on their own art, going to local punk and metal shows, and playing board games with friends. Jonathan is excited to have some of their art shown at OkEq for the first time this April in the Oklahoma Figure Art Alliance group exhibition. We thank you for your dedication Jonathan! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 22nd, 2017 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-22nd--2017.... Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 22nd, 2017 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-22nd--2017.... Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 ' ..,- ··-;.:~:,v::r· . \,/' , ) . ~ \ A ~~ *,._ '\ Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Family Ties Sunday April 2, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Family Ties, formerly known as Gamily, is a group of, and for, LGBTA families in the Tulsa area and those who support them. There will be a planning meeting on April 2 at 2:00 at the Dennis R. Neil Equality Center. All LGBTA parents raising children, and those who fill the roles as parents, are encouraged to attend this meeting to help plan activities for LGBTA families. Potential activities include community outings, such as zoo, aquarium, sports (Drillers, Oilers), picnics, movie nights, game nights, play dates, etc. For more information or to RSVP please contact Andrew McClain at andy@grimesco.net Guys Dine Too Tuesday April 4, 6:30 p.m. Burn Co. Barbeque 1738 S. Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74119 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Cost of the dinner will be around $25-$30. This will include your dinner, dessert and drink. Alcohol and Beer are not included in this price but the bar will be open. Adam at BurnCo BBQ is opening the doors of his restaurant just for our group. So everyone please be sure to thank him and his employees for their time and great food. If you are coming please RSVP. I need a headcount for the reservation. We have always loved cooking and enjoyed the primal fulfillment of doing it over wood fire. Adam Myers experience at Tulsa based Hasty Bake Charcoal Grills, combined with Robby Corcoran's decade plus experience in the restaurant industry comes together to create a truly distinctive flavor. After successful endeavors as caterers, Burn Co BBQ was launched in January of 2011. Utilizing utilitarian décor and amenities, Burn Co focuses on the food, crafting a " one of a kind", Backyard BBQ Flavor. We cut our coleslaw by hand, trim and smoke our meats daily, and relish the finest bits and pieces of all meats. We offer local products when possible, and are always trying to figure out how to shock and wow our customers with exclusive specials. RSVP to Richard Haley at Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 22nd, 2017 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-22nd--2017.... guysdinetoo@gmail.com First Thursday Art Opening Tuesday April 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of OKFAA - a group of artists presenting works based on the human form, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. OkFAA was formed in 2016 by a group of six artists united by an interest in creating works based on the human form. Their goal, through art, is to promote all manner of dynamic, figure based art, provide encouragement to artists wishing to explore this genre, and educate the public as to the contemporary value and long tradition of portraying the figure, both clothed and nude, in art. One of the artists, Kaylee says, "We couldn't think of a more fitting place for our inaugural show than Tulsa's Equality Center and hope more art spaces in Tulsa and Oklahoma, both for profit and not for profit, decide to follow its lead by befriending free artistic expression, especially as it relates to the human body in art". The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo April 15, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for April's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Online ticket purchases will be available soon. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday April 19, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. The Garden Trug 3009 E. 101st St. Tulsa Oklahoma 74137 E UALITY Business Alliance Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Our garden center, floral studio, & gift shoppe is an eclectic "urban garden" built with you in mind. As you enter our boutique garden shoppe, you're senses will be tickled with the aromas of the season. Listen to the soothing sounds of wind chimes and splashing fountains. Around each corner you'll find home and garden treasures for your personal garden or gifts for friends and family. Or, Escape to a magical world in our fairy gardening department or shop our terrarium area where we have all the items necessary to build a unique tabletop size garden. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Our promise to you: To do our level best to create spaces to inspire you to try new and different things! Most importantly, have fun with your garden. Come see us! Check out The Garden Trug online at www.thegardentrug.com The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 22nd, 2017 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-22nd--2017.... http://www.theGardenTrug.com SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ Proprietors: Sue Welch &Marcy Smith Need flowers? Call our full service florist...we deliver flowers by Ken' Peaches, Youngblood - -- - -- - - Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Cl.ass EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm 4 Au 4/29 COLOIADO 5/6 HOUSTON 5/13 BYE 5/2OAUBTIN 5/'Z'I @ COLORADO 6/3 BYE 6/ID @BAN ANTDNm 6/l7 @IOWA $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program HOME FIELD EAST CENTRAL HIGH SCHOOL 12150 EAST 11TH ST TULSA Oil 74121 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Tulsa Metro Softball League TMSL 2017 Spring Season Sundays March 26 - May 21, 2017 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Carl Smith Sports Complex 17120 E. 21st St., Tulsa, OK 74134 Every Friday 7 p.m. Hey TMSL members and fans! As the weather begins to warm up, it only means one thing: SOFTBALL SEASON! TMSL 2017 Spring Season is just right around the corner! Season will begin on Sunday, March 26th and will last 9 Sundays until May 21st, exluding Mother's Day and Easter weekends. Game times will be from 12pm-4pm at Carl Smith Sports Complex. Cost is $40/person. Anyone and everyone is welcome to join, so grab your friends and sign up today as we go into our 7th year of laughter, fun, a little bit of competition, and life long friendships! Survivors of Incest Anonymous For those of you who are curious about the Gay Softball World Series, 2017 GSWS will be in Portland, OR! The dates are September 3rd to September 10th. If you as a team or player have any questions/interest regarding GSWS, please give us a shout and we will gladly help you! If you have any other questions or inquiries, please do not hestitate to contact us at 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 22nd, 2017 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-22nd--2017.... info@tulsametrosoftball.com . We look forward to seeing you out this year! TMSL Board Registration is open at: htosports.com You can also check out TSML on Facebook T\ Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org March Video eNews Game Night Equality Center Pride Store Show your pride with one (or more) of our colorful pride buttons. Available in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store. Prices vary from $1.00 - $3.00 Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. "Sex and the Sacred: Gay Identity and Spiritual Growth" By: Daniel A. Helminiak A down-to-earth look at the spiritual power of sex Sex and the Sacred examines the spiritual dimension of human sexuality in a way that is free of religious affiliation but still open to traditional religion and belief in God. Dr. Daniel Helminiak, author of the best-selling What the Bible Really Says about Homosexuality, looks at the relationship between sexuality and spirituality, first, from a humanistic perspective and, then, a more familiar Christian point of view. In particular, he encourages LGBTI people to reclaim their spiritual heritage without apology. This unique book emphasizes spiritual commitment as an essential facet of LGBTI/ queer consciousness and addresses such burning themes as coming out, the importance of selfacceptance, gay marriage, gay bashing, and the ethics of gay sex. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Sex and the Sacred combines a psychological approach to spirituality with common sense and compassion, inspiring a break from moralistic religion and an understanding of what true spirituality means. The book applies this understanding to Christian topics such as the Bible, Fundamentalism, and the future of Christianity, and shows how coming out was an issue for Jesus, how homosexual experience relates to the Christian Trinity, and how Western Civilization became so sex-negative. Sex and the Sacred presents in the end a radical vision of Christianity open to all people. Religious leaders of all denominations, educators, counselors, members of the gay/lesbian/bisexual/ transgender community, non-religious spiritual seekers, and anyone interested in the relationship between spirituality and sexuality will find this book enlightening and uplifting. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . REVERSED AND REMANDED Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. January 18, 2017 REVERSED AND REMANDED Unanimous Decision by the Oklahoma Supreme Court. This decision allows "ANY" adult adoptee a way out of legal adoption and does not apply to under age adoptions. This decision opens the door to others seeking exit of similar "ADULT" adoptions through the Oklahoma courts for whatever reason deemed in the best interest of H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 22nd, 2017 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-22nd--2017.... the "ADULT" adoptee. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing We wish to thank Attorney Michael C. Redman for a very long battle and for a courageous presentation of the facts and reasons that convinced the courts in this case Congratulations Jared Bruce and Bruce Schultz Thank you for removing the impediments that kept many Oklahoma same-sex couples from being able to marry. Support group meeting once a week starting January 2017 for adults in the Stillwater, Okla oma State, and surrounding community Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Court of All Oklahoma Inc. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 3:42 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1389c3de941492cf4f23c3a0764a3453.pdf 15b7206ea8f0f1dbbe15c4de60a3bd1f PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 12th, 2017 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-12th--2017... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news okl.:ihom.:ms for equality 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo January 12th, 2017 In This Issue Tulsa Pride Bingo Ladies Social Club Volunteer of the Month January Video eNews Oklahoma Wedding Show MLK Jr. Day Parade January 14, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Women's March on Oklahoma Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Women's Self Defense Training Men's Self Defense Training Advocacy Training Day The Versailles Masquerade Ball First Thursday Art Opening $15 for general admission Gay Men's Dinner. $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule $200 T able for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org In case of inclement weather Saturday, Pride Bingo will be rescheduled for Saturday January 28. All tickets purchased for the January 14 event will be honored. Pride Store Rainbow Library Compassionate Tulsa Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 People to Watch: Jose Vega I.C.A.O. Fetish Ball Ladies Social Club - LSC Turns One! Game Night Friday, January 13, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 LSC's first ever event was game night, so it seems fitting that we'll have game night for our group's first birthday! I'll try and see if we can borrow OkEq's bingo supplies. I know you all have loads of games, too, so bring some of your favorites! Someone suggested that we let people bring white elephant gifts they received over the holidays to contribute to a prize pile - totally optional, of course! - and I think that's a fun idea. As always, coffee, water, and soda are provided, otherwise BYOB and potluck snacks! OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 12 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. For more information follow this event on Facebook Volunteer of the Month January 2017 Steve Luper Steve began volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Sept 2015. He needed a volunteer job for a scholarship that he receives from the Cherokee Nation. He chose to apply at OKEQ because he wanted to work closer to the LGBTQ+ community after coming out. Steve likes helping people when he can but thinks he's most grateful for the people he meets and the friends he has made. He says "I think the Equality Center has changed me for the better and I'd probably be a whole different person right now if I hadn't discovered it." When Steve is not volunteering he is a film major at the University of Tulsa with a minor in creative writing and women and gender studies. He states " I've recently made a package on Standing Rock that was featured on the campus' new program TUTV. I'm also in the Alliance Française de Tulsa." Steve says he is i ntensely grateful for the Gender Outreach programs at the center. "I've never come away from something feeling as self-affirmed as I have when I've been able to go to some of the meetings." Steve would definitely recommend volunteering at the Equality Center. "Maybe you just want to be closer to the LGBTQ+ community - this is perfect you. When I started volunteering I was in a real tough place and the overwhelming feeling of being alone followed me around everyday. Coming to the center has helped me learn self-acceptance and has given me more strength. I've learned lessons in perseverance from the people I've met. At the center, no one is going to try and dissect you or intrude unless you want to share, you're free to be yourself as quietly or as loudly as you want. In Oklahoma, places like this are hard to find." We thank you for your passion Steve! OkEq Art Exhibition The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Behnaz Sohrabian beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 5th and continuing throughout the month. Born and educated in Tehran, Iran, Behnaz Sohrabian started painting as a small child of 10 and continued her passion professionally from then on. She received a BS in Applied Chemistry, a BA in Painting and a Master of Arts in Art Studies. After receiving her master's degree, she immigrated to Oklahoma to be near family. Speaking about her work, Behnaz comments, "My work is about me, my life, being a woman and the struggles that women still face in this era. I paint women as people- strong people with depth and power. I paint them as delicate and sensitive-- but not weak." If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org January Video eNews 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 12th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-12th--2017... Family Ties Oklahoma Wedding Show Saturday, January 14, 2017, 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Expo Square Central Park Hall 1701 S. Sandusky Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 LOVE IN BLOOM Each couple shares a distinctive story. At the Oklahoma Wedding Show, couples can find the vendors and wedding experts that can help make the big day a truly unique experience. Make sure to stop by the Oklahomans for Equality booth during the show. For more details check out Oklahoma Magazine online. Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library donwJ:e& a&® The OKLAHOMA EDDING SHOW Saturday .JANUARY 14 10AMTO4PM December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Expo Square • Central Park Hall • Tulsa MLK Jr. Day Parade - "LOVE CONQUERS HATE" January 16, 10:00 a.m. - Meet at the Center, 11:00 a.m. Parade Begins Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa, Oklahoma holds one of the largest MLK parades in the United States to commemorate the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Oklahomans for Equality will be marching with the rainbow flag and we invite you to come join us. We will meet at the center at 10 a.m. and carpool to the staging area. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 12th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-12th--2017... to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday January 18, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Hosted by Hyatt regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Counseling Services E Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. ALITY usiness Alliance Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of Oklahoma's vibrant business, entertainment and cultural districts. The downtown Tulsa hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, the luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and over 51 restaurants and bars. Please be advised we will only validate self-parking in the attached garage. HYATT For more information on rooms, rates and amenities click here or follow the event on Facebook. REGENCY' The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - - (918) 594-8568 Women's March on Oklahoma Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Saturday, January 21, 10:00 a.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73105 The Women's March is a national movement to unify and empower everyone who stands for human rights, civil liberties, and social justice for all. We gather in community to find healing and strength through tolerance, civility, and compassion. We welcome all people to join us as we unite locally and nationally. Join us on January 21st as we march in solidarity with our sister marches around the globe. To register and/or donate to the event, please visit either Eventbrite or Meetup at the links below. Eventbrite Meetup Please let us know how you can help by filling out the volunteer intake form. Thank you for your support! First Week of Women's Self Defense Training Tuesday, January 23, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Registration is open for the next free women's 7 week self-defense training session. This training will be held at Oklahomans For Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 and requires a commitment to all 7 classes, this allows time to build muscle memory so that you can effectively use these life saving self-defense skills. 7Week J' Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ----- 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 12th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-12th--2017... (918) 594-8568 ~ Self-Defense Training Classes will be every other Monday starting at 7pm. Trans-women are welcome! I Warrior Sisters is a non profit organization created by women for women. We teach real world self-defense skills emphasizing awareness, verbal and physical techniques. This training is open to women and girls and we ask that if you bring young girls that they are old enough to participate or entertain themselves without becoming a distraction to the group. For more information or to register for class please contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org First Week of Men's Self Defense Training Thursday, January 26, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Registration is open for the next free Men's 7 week self-defense training session. This training will be held at Oklahomans For Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 and requires a commitment to all 7 classes, this allows time to build muscle memory so that you can effectively use these life saving self-defense skills. Classes will be every other Thursday starting at 7:30pm. Trans-men are welcome! ,.·· • "., ,, .'--i :.. ~: "':,f:~ . . "'i . . • ' · ,, ~ . ~ - Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 For more information or to register for class please contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org Advocacy Training Day Saturday, January 28, 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Highland Hall 1102 E Warner Ave, Guthrie, OK 73044 This training is for members and allies of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community and is sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, PFLAG Oklahoma and Freedom Oklahoma. Objectives: 1. To provide an opportunity for statewide advocates to meet one another, form strong advocacy networks, and to become better informed about how to be an effective advocate on behalf of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community/families/friends 2. To inform audience about expected legislation during the 2017 Oklahoma Legislative session (begins Monday, February 6th) 3. To inform audience about legislative "mechanics" 4. To discuss effective advocacy strategies (as well as ineffective strategies) to influence Oklahoma legislators (these strategies can be applied to any advocacy work including local level (city council, school boards), state level (legislature), or national level (Congressional delegation) No cost; however, need to make reservation due to limited space. Email name/phone number to olivia.cotter@okeq.org Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 The Versailles Masquerade Ball Saturday, February 11, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Admission is $25.00 and includes champagne Join us for the 17th annual Wild Hearts Ball as we transform the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into the famous French palace Versailles for a masquerade ball. Everybody must be in masks. Your ticket gives you access to the ball and champagne drinks from the champagne tower. Lady DJ Crystal will be mixing her best music in the hall of mirrors. Heavy Hors D'oeuvres and a Cash Bar. All the proceeds benefit the Equality Center renovation project. Click here to purchase tickets 1Uikl1-fearts &ff Presents 7he Versaiffes MAS UERADE Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 More information available on Facebook. First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, February 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 12th, 2017 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-12th--2017... Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Cait O'Darling's show, "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), features twenty composite photos. This series explores the power of a single gesture across multiple iterations. Cait boldly recomposes the embodied performance of a single "Selfie" and adds new angles and juxtapositions. She seeks to undermine a core concept of photography, namely, indexicality: the notion that what is depicted within the frame of a photograph tells us something true about the perceived reality at the moment the shutter was released and the image was captured. Blending and layering multiple images together, O'Darling creates new and fanciful ones that are patently untrue. A mockumentary, the exhibit offers viewers an opportunity to enter into a playful space of delight and amusement, woven between truth and illusion. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Gay Men's Dinner SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tuesday, February 7, 6:30 p.m. Spaghetti Warehouse 221 E. Brady, Tulsa, OK 74103 This month we are eating at Spaghetti Warehouse in downtown Tulsa. If you are coming please RSVP. A headcount is needed for the reservation. • At Spaghetti Warehouse, we make every meal feel like a celebration, with the kind of delicious, freshly prepared Italian food that everybody loves, served in a lighthearted atmosphere that's perfect for getting together with your family or friends. For more information or to RSVP please email Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com . TUL8A 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. 0 101 The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. 0'1-10 0 /2 0l/-129 05/0 05/1 0 0 27 0 C 06/ 6/10 an A onlo 0 ✓17 ow SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 12th, 2017 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-12th--2017... Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Area Prime Timers The Versailles Masquerade Ball is just around the corner. Get your rainbow masquerade masks for only $10.00 in the Pride Store. 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Yoga by Zach Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library EVERY SUNDAY "Living the Spirit: A Gay American Indian Anthology" Compiled By: Gay American Indians, Coordinating Editor: Will Roscoe @ 4:30 pm Looks at the history of Indian homosexuality, describes their tribal roles, and includes poems and short stories When the Supreme Court cited "millennia of moral teaching" in its support of Georgia's sodomy law, they must not have been thinking of American history. For centuries throughout America, both before and after the arrival of Europeans, gay and lesbian Indians were recognized as valued members of tribal communities. Combining male and female roles, gay Indians worked as mediators, artists, healers, and providers for their tribes. Living the Spirit brings together historical overviews, personal accounts, stories and poetry that celebrate these traditional roles and the rich heritage of gay Indians, as well as contemporary writings that give voice to the lives of gay Indians today. $5.00 per Session v Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Gender Support Program Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE ut1 -. fo OLDEN Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 Secret Ink Tattoo 317 S Lynn Riggs blvd Claremore, OK 74017 Recognition 2017 is a global campaign aimed at supporting the LGBT community to give back like no one has ever given before! I, Rich Wallace, owner of Secret Ink Tattoo, believe this community deserves recognition, equality and respect instead of the bullying, criticism, harassment, and ridicule they typically receive because of their lifestyle. This dedication event is intended to bring equality, harmony, peace and awareness within the LGBT community as well as to those who support them. Back in October of 2008, I sponsored a breast cancer awareness event that had over 3,000 would-be participants. I, working alone, was only able to do 477 of the breast cancer ribbon tattoos because the event was only scheduled for 24 hours. This year I sponsored another successful event for all causes, be it breast cancer, PTSD, domestic violence or whatever cause a person chose to represent their ribbon color of choice. Within a week of sponsoring this years' event I was challenged by a friend to do an event like no other, to show my support for a group of people that most others won't go out of their way to support. The LGBT community! Even if people don't have personal issues with the lifestyle or choices of these individuals, they won't openly show their support because they are afraid of the stigma and repercussions of doing so. I am not the type of person that is intimidated by that! Although I myself am not part of the LGBT community, I know and am friends with many people who are and I support their right to live and love however and whomever they choose!!! So I decided in early November to take on this challenge and make it my biggest tattoo marathon event ever. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org I am asking everyone to help me in this effort by pledging their support in order to make this event FREE for any and all who wish to participate and receive an equality tattoo to show their support at no charge! For more information please visit: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/493868667/recognition-2017 Jose Vega Named One of Tulsa World's People to Watch In videos on the Oklahomans for Equality website, Jose Vega spends three minutes explaining the nonprofit's monthly events and tidbits like the biography of its gallery's featured artist. Each month, Vega has fun with the videos. He was zombie hunting in October and doing a mannequin challenge in November. He has become a familiar face through Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 12th, 2017 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-12th--2017... his video vignettes. Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Since becoming program director at the Equality Center about a year ago, the 24year-old has upped the visibility of the nonprofit through trendy media posts. Previously, most information was circulated in a weekly email. "Nowadays, people love Facebook, Instagram and videos. I knew we needed to move in that direction with more video and social media," Vega said. Vega plays several roles in his job including directing next year's 35th Pride Parade in Tulsa. He stresses that the Equality Center is a home for all people. "We respect everyone. ... I want to take part in every aspect of equality." Vega, a first-generation Mexican American, is a 2010 graduate of Webster High School. His father arrived in the U.S. without authorization and was later granted a legal avenue to become a resident. The experience of being a child of an undocumented immigrant shaped him. Vega sits on the Greater Tulsa Area Hispanic Affairs Commission and supports Dream Act Oklahoma, which seeks immigration reform starting with the creation of a path to legal residency for undocumented adults brought into the country as children. Among his passions is coordinating the Tulsa Mayor's Youth Council. It places a high school student as a liaison for each of the city's commissions and introduces youth to public affairs. Vega participated in the council as a high school senior and advocated to reinstate the program after it was disbanded by a previous group of city councilors. He has been leading it since it was revived two years ago. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. "They are next in the future for Tulsa. They will, hopefully, stay here and make our city better," he said. Ginnie Graham 918-581-8376 ginnie.graham@tulsaworld.com Twitter: @GinnieGraham EBA Directory http://m.tulsaworld.com/news/local/people-to-watch-jose-vega-a-strong-voice-for-equality/article_6e5724b1-a760-573b-8995-abb91b650a73.html? mode=jqm - - - - - - - The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Hosted by ICP Roxxie Ray Starr ICP Trev or Darlin Ray H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Come one come all. Bring your favorite kink and join us for a night of fun. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 12th, 2017 8 of 9 I https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-12th--2017... ~ I~~ 28,2017 ...__ _ _ __. Tulsa Eagle frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 12th, 2017 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-12th--2017... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 3:20 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/156f8432044df7c7deae3b8cb7dbd403.pdf 07d31facc978dfed705cb71c6004eec4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 14th, 2017 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2017... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e January 14th, 2017 oklahom:ms for equality news Michael Farr Sponsors the Day Saturday, January 14th, 2017 Michael Farr is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on January 14 in honor of the first Pride Bingo of 2017. In This Issue Michael Farr Sponsors the Day. Tulsa Pride Bingo Volunteer of the Month January Video eNews Oklahoma Wedding Show MLK Jr. Day Parade Equality Business Alliance Mixer Women's March on Oklahoma Women's Self Defense Training Men's Self Defense Training Thank You Michael! Advocacy Training Day The Versailles Masquerade Ball First Thursday Art Opening Gay Men's Dinner. Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Pride Store If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because Rainbow Library Compassionate Tulsa Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 People to Watch: Jose Vega I.C.A.O. Fetish Ball 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo January 14, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. $15 for general admission OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 12 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 T able for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org In case of inclement weather Saturday, Pride Bingo will be rescheduled for Saturday January 28. All tickets purchased for the January 14 event will be honored. Volunteer of the Month January 2017 Steve Luper Steve began volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Sept 2015. He needed a volunteer job for a scholarship that he receives from the Cherokee Nation. He chose to apply at OKEQ because he wanted to work closer to the LGBTQ+ community after coming out. Steve likes helping people when he can but thinks he's most grateful for the people he meets and the friends he has made. He says "I think the Equality Center has changed me for the better and I'd probably be a whole different person right now if I hadn't discovered it." When Steve is not volunteering he is a film major at the University of Tulsa with a minor in creative writing and women and gender studies. He states " I've recently made a package on Standing Rock that was featured on the campus' new program TUTV. I'm also in the Alliance Française de Tulsa." OkEq Art Exhibition The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Behnaz Sohrabian beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 5th and continuing throughout the month. Born and educated in Tehran, Iran, Behnaz Sohrabian started painting as a small child of 10 and continued her passion professionally from then on. She received a BS in Applied Chemistry, a BA in Painting and a Master of Arts in Art Studies. After receiving her master's degree, she immigrated to Oklahoma to be near family. Speaking about her work, Behnaz comments, "My work is about me, my life, being a woman and the struggles that women still face in this era. I paint women as people- strong people with depth and power. I paint them as delicate and sensitive-- but not weak." Steve says he is i ntensely grateful for the Gender Outreach programs at the center. "I've never come away from something feeling as self-affirmed as I have when I've been able to go to some of the meetings." Steve would definitely recommend volunteering at the Equality Center. "Maybe you just want to be closer to the LGBTQ+ community - this is perfect you. When I started volunteering I was in a real tough place and the overwhelming feeling of being alone followed me around everyday. Coming to the center has helped me learn self-acceptance and has given me more strength. I've learned lessons in perseverance from the people I've met. At the center, no one is going to try and dissect you or intrude unless you want to share, you're free to be yourself as quietly or as loudly as you want. In Oklahoma, places like this are hard to find." 4/24/26, 3:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 14th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2017... We thank you for your passion Steve! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org January Video eNews Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Oklahoma Wedding Show Lawyer in the Library Saturday, January 14, 2017, 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Expo Square Central Park Hall 1701 S. Sandusky Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. LOVE IN BLOOM Each couple shares a distinctive story. At the Oklahoma Wedding Show, couples can find the vendors and wedding experts that can help make the big day a truly unique experience. Make sure to stop by the Oklahomans for Equality booth during the show. For more details check out Oklahoma Magazine online. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group The OKLAHOMA EDDING Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 SHOW Saturday JANUARY 14 10AMTO4PM Expo Square • Central Park Hall • Tulsa MLK Jr. Day Parade - "LOVE CONQUERS HATE" January 16, 10:00 a.m. - Meet at the Center, 11:00 a.m. Parade Begins Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa, Oklahoma holds one of the largest MLK parades in the United States to commemorate the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Oklahomans for Equality will be marching with the rainbow flag and we invite you to come join us. We will meet at the center at 10 a.m. and carpool to the staging area. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy 4/24/26, 3:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 14th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2017... to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday January 18, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Hosted by Hyatt regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 E ALITY Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org usiness Alliance The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of Oklahoma's vibrant business, entertainment and cultural districts. The downtown Tulsa hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, the luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and over 51 restaurants and bars. Please be advised we will only validate self-parking in the attached garage. HYATT For more information on rooms, rates and amenities click here or follow the event on Facebook. REGENCY" The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - - (918) 594-8568 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Women's March on Oklahoma Saturday, January 21, 10:00 a.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73105 The Women's March is a national movement to unify and empower everyone who stands for human rights, civil liberties, and social justice for all. We gather in community to find healing and strength through tolerance, civility, and compassion. We welcome all people to join us as we unite locally and nationally. Join us on January 21st as we march in solidarity with our sister marches around the globe. To register and/or donate to the event, please visit either Eventbrite or Meetup at the links below. Eventbrite Meetup Please let us know how you can help by filling out the volunteer intake form. Thank you for your support! Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ----- 4/24/26, 3:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 14th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2017... (918) 594-8568 First Week of Women's Self Defense Training ,.·· • "., ,, .'--i :.. ~: "':,f:~ Tuesday, January 23, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 . Registration is open for the next free women's 7 week self-defense training session. This training will be held at Oklahomans For Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 and requires a commitment to all 7 classes, this allows time to build muscle memory so that you can effectively use these life saving self-defense skills. Classes will be every other Monday starting at 7pm. Trans-women are welcome! Warrior Sisters is a non profit organization created by women for women. We teach real world self-defense skills emphasizing awareness, verbal and physical techniques. This training is open to women and girls and we ask that if you bring young girls that they are old enough to participate or entertain themselves without becoming a distraction to the group. For more information or to register for class please contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org . "'i . . • ' · ,, ~ . ~ - Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 First Week of Men's Self Defense Training Thursday, January 26, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Registration is open for the next free Men's 7 week self-defense training session. This training will be held at Oklahomans For Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 and requires a commitment to all 7 classes, this allows time to build muscle memory so that you can effectively use these life saving self-defense skills. Classes will be every other Thursday starting at 7:30pm. Trans-men are welcome! For more information or to register for class please contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org Advocacy Training Day Saturday, January 28, 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Highland Hall 1102 E Warner Ave, Guthrie, OK 73044 This training is for members and allies of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community and is sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, PFLAG Oklahoma and Freedom Oklahoma. Objectives: 1. To provide an opportunity for statewide advocates to meet one another, form strong advocacy networks, and to become better informed about how to be an effective advocate on behalf of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community/families/friends 2. To inform audience about expected legislation during the 2017 Oklahoma Legislative session (begins Monday, February 6th) 3. To inform audience about legislative "mechanics" 4. To discuss effective advocacy strategies (as well as ineffective strategies) to influence Oklahoma legislators (these strategies can be applied to any advocacy work including local level (city council, school boards), state level (legislature), or national level (Congressional delegation) Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 No cost; however, need to make reservation due to limited space. Email name/phone number to olivia.cotter@okeq.org The Versailles Masquerade Ball Saturday, February 11, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Admission is $25.00 and includes champagne Join us for the 17th annual Wild Hearts Ball as we transform the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into the famous French palace Versailles for a masquerade ball. Everybody must be in masks. Your ticket gives you access to the ball and champagne drinks from the champagne tower. Lady DJ Crystal will be mixing her best music in the hall of mirrors. Heavy Hors D'oeuvres and a Cash Bar. All the proceeds benefit the Equality Center renovation project. Click here to purchase tickets 1Uifl1-leads &(( Presents 7he Versaiffes MAS UERADE Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group More information available on Facebook. Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be 4/24/26, 3:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 14th, 2017 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2017... a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, February 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. SOS Group Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Cait O'Darling's show, "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), features twenty composite photos. This series explores the power of a single gesture across multiple iterations. Cait boldly recomposes the embodied performance of a single "Selfie" and adds new angles and juxtapositions. She seeks to undermine a core concept of photography, namely, indexicality: the notion that what is depicted within the frame of a photograph tells us something true about the perceived reality at the moment the shutter was released and the image was captured. Blending and layering multiple images together, O'Darling creates new and fanciful ones that are patently untrue. A mockumentary, the exhibit offers viewers an opportunity to enter into a playful space of delight and amusement, woven between truth and illusion. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Gay Men's Dinner Tuesday, February 7, 6:30 p.m. Spaghetti Warehouse 221 E. Brady, Tulsa, OK 74103 This month we are eating at Spaghetti Warehouse in downtown Tulsa. If you are coming please RSVP. A headcount is needed for the reservation. At Spaghetti Warehouse, we make every meal feel like a celebration, with the kind of delicious, freshly prepared Italian food that everybody loves, served in a lighthearted atmosphere that's perfect for getting together with your family or friends. For more information or to RSVP please email Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com - . Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. 0 /0 '1-/0 0 /2 0412 05/◄ 05 0 /. 0 0 27 C 06/ SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ 4/24/26, 3:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 14th, 2017 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2017... /fU A onlo 0 ✓17 ow Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Equality Center Pride Store The Versailles Masquerade Ball is just around the corner. Get your rainbow masquerade masks for only $10.00 in the Pride Store. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Living the Spirit: A Gay American Indian Anthology" Compiled By: Gay American Indians, Coordinating Editor: Will Roscoe Looks at the history of Indian homosexuality, describes their tribal roles, and includes poems and short stories When the Supreme Court cited "millennia of moral teaching" in its support of Georgia's sodomy law, they must not have been thinking of American history. For centuries throughout America, both before and after the arrival of Europeans, gay and lesbian Indians were recognized as valued members of tribal communities. Combining male and female roles, gay Indians worked as mediators, artists, healers, and providers for their tribes. Living the Spirit brings together historical overviews, personal accounts, stories and poetry that celebrate these traditional roles and the rich heritage of gay Indians, as well as contemporary writings that give voice to the lives of gay Indians today. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Game Night Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." MAKE~ fo OLDEN Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by 4/24/26, 3:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 14th, 2017 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2017... The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 Secret Ink Tattoo 317 S Lynn Riggs blvd Claremore, OK 74017 Recognition 2017 is a global campaign aimed at supporting the LGBT community to give back like no one has ever given before! I, Rich Wallace, owner of Secret Ink Tattoo, believe this community deserves recognition, equality and respect instead of the bullying, criticism, harassment, and ridicule they typically receive because of their lifestyle. This dedication event is intended to bring equality, harmony, peace and awareness within the LGBT community as well as to those who support them. Back in October of 2008, I sponsored a breast cancer awareness event that had over 3,000 would-be participants. I, working alone, was only able to do 477 of the breast cancer ribbon tattoos because the event was only scheduled for 24 hours. This year I sponsored another successful event for all causes, be it breast cancer, PTSD, domestic violence or whatever cause a person chose to represent their ribbon color of choice. Within a week of sponsoring this years' event I was challenged by a friend to do an event like no other, to show my support for a group of people that most others won't go out of their way to support. The LGBT community! Even if people don't have personal issues with the lifestyle or choices of these individuals, they won't openly show their support because they are afraid of the stigma and repercussions of doing so. I am not the type of person that is intimidated by that! Although I myself am not part of the LGBT community, I know and am friends with many people who are and I support their right to live and love however and whomever they choose!!! So I decided in early November to take on this challenge and make it my biggest tattoo marathon event ever. I am asking everyone to help me in this effort by pledging their support in order to make this event FREE for any and all who wish to participate and receive an equality tattoo to show their support at no charge! For more information please visit: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/493868667/recognition-2017 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Jose Vega Named One of Tulsa World's People to Watch In videos on the Oklahomans for Equality website, Jose Vega spends three minutes explaining the nonprofit's monthly events and tidbits like the biography of its gallery's featured artist. Each month, Vega has fun with the videos. He was zombie hunting in October and doing a mannequin challenge in November. He has become a familiar face through his video vignettes. Since becoming program director at the Equality Center about a year ago, the 24year-old has upped the visibility of the nonprofit through trendy media posts. Previously, most information was circulated in a weekly email. "Nowadays, people love Facebook, Instagram and videos. I knew we needed to move in that direction with more video and social media," Vega said. Vega plays several roles in his job including directing next year's 35th Pride Parade in Tulsa. He stresses that the Equality Center is a home for all people. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. "We respect everyone. ... I want to take part in every aspect of equality." Vega, a first-generation Mexican American, is a 2010 graduate of Webster High School. His father arrived in the U.S. without authorization and was later granted a legal avenue to become a resident. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The experience of being a child of an undocumented immigrant shaped him. Vega sits on the Greater Tulsa Area Hispanic Affairs Commission and supports Dream Act Oklahoma, which seeks immigration reform starting with the creation of a path to legal residency for undocumented adults brought into the country as children. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Among his passions is coordinating the Tulsa Mayor's Youth Council. It places a high school student as a liaison for each of the city's commissions and introduces youth to public affairs. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Vega participated in the council as a high school senior and advocated to reinstate the program after it was disbanded by a previous group of city councilors. He has been leading it since it was revived two years ago. "They are next in the future for Tulsa. They will, hopefully, stay here and make our city better," he said. Ginnie Graham 918-581-8376 ginnie.graham@tulsaworld.com Twitter: @GinnieGraham http://m.tulsaworld.com/news/local/people-to-watch-jose-vega-a-strong-voice-for-equality/article_6e5724b1-a760-573b-8995-abb91b650a73.html? ------mode=jqm I.C.A.O FE IS BALL . COll"tO <l"Q Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to 4/24/26, 3:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 14th, 2017 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2017... Hosted by ICP Roxxie Ray Starr ICP Trev or Darlin Ray frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Come one come all. Bring your favorite kink and join us for a night of fun. I ~ I~: MISSION: 28,2017 Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. - - - - - - Tulsa Eagle Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 3:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 14th, 2017 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2017... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 3:23 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/df4347be8983367ddbd957846151c8a0.pdf 845c025e1a0594eaac82fc5edbf2ef4a PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 17th, 2017 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2017... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e Equality Business Alliance Mixer January 17th, 2017 oklahom:ms for equality news In This Issue Equality Business Alliance Mixer Women's March on Oklahoma Women's Self Defense Training Men's Self Defense Training Advocacy Training Day First Thursday Art Opening Wednesday January 18, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Hosted by Hyatt regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Gay Men's Dinner. Ladies Social Club The Versailles Masquerade Ball Tulsa Pride Bingo E ALITY Miss Richfield 1981 Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule usiness Alliance Volunteer of the Month January Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library Stillwater Gender SUpport Compassionate Tulsa Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 I.C.A.O. Fetish Ball 2017 OCCJ Trialogue Series The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of Oklahoma's vibrant business, entertainment and cultural districts. The downtown Tulsa hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, the luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and over 51 restaurants and bars. Please be advised we will only validate self-parking in the attached garage. HYATT For more information on rooms, rates and amenities click here or follow the event on Facebook. REGENCY" The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 12 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Behnaz Sohrabian beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 5th and continuing throughout the month. Women's March on Oklahoma Saturday, January 21, 10:00 a.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73105 The Women's March is a national movement to unify and empower everyone who stands for human rights, civil liberties, and social justice for all. We gather in community to find healing and strength through tolerance, civility, and compassion. We welcome all people to join us as we unite locally and nationally. Join us on January 21st as we march in solidarity with our sister marches around the globe. Born and educated in Tehran, Iran, Behnaz Sohrabian started painting as a small child of 10 and continued her passion professionally from then on. She received a BS in Applied Chemistry, a BA in Painting and a Master of Arts in Art Studies. After receiving her master's degree, she immigrated to Oklahoma to be near family. Speaking about her work, Behnaz comments, "My work is about me, my life, being a woman and the struggles that women still face in this era. I paint women as people- strong people with depth and power. I paint them as delicate and sensitive-- but not weak." To register and/or donate to the event, please visit either Eventbrite or Meetup at the links below. Eventbrite Meetup 4/24/26, 3:25 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2017... Please let us know how you can help by filling out the volunteer intake form. Thank you for your support! First Week of Women's Self Defense Training Tuesday, January 23, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Registration is open for the next free women's 7 week self-defense training session. This training will be held at Oklahomans For Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 and requires a commitment to all 7 classes, this allows time to build muscle memory so that you can effectively use these life saving self-defense skills. Classes will be every other Monday starting at 7pm. Trans-women are welcome! J' 7Week Self-Defense Training , ~ l Family Ties I Warrior Sisters is a non profit organization created by women for women. We teach real world self-defense skills emphasizing awareness, verbal and physical techniques. This training is open to women and girls and we ask that if you bring young girls that they are old enough to participate or entertain themselves without becoming a distraction to the group. For more information or to register for class please contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org First Week of Men's Self Defense Training Thursday, January 26, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Registration is open for the next free Men's 7 week self-defense training session. This training will be held at Oklahomans For Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 and requires a commitment to all 7 classes, this allows time to build muscle memory so that you can effectively use these life saving self-defense skills. Classes will be every other Thursday starting at 7:30pm. Trans-men are welcome! For more information or to register for class please contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org Advocacy Training Day Saturday, January 28, 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Highland Hall 1102 E Warner Ave, Guthrie, OK 73044 This training is for members and allies of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community and is sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, PFLAG Oklahoma and Freedom Oklahoma. Objectives: 1. To provide an opportunity for statewide advocates to meet one another, form strong advocacy networks, and to become better informed about how to be an effective advocate on behalf of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community/families/friends 2. To inform audience about expected legislation during the 2017 Oklahoma Legislative session (begins Monday, February 6th) 3. To inform audience about legislative "mechanics" 4. To discuss effective advocacy strategies (as well as ineffective strategies) to influence Oklahoma legislators (these strategies can be applied to any advocacy work including local level (city council, school boards), state level (legislature), or national level (Congressional delegation) Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 No cost; however, need to make reservation due to limited space. Email name/phone number to olivia.cotter@okeq.org First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, February 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Cait O'Darling's show, "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), features twenty composite photos. This series explores the power of a single gesture across multiple iterations. Cait boldly recomposes the embodied performance of a single "Selfie" and adds new angles and juxtapositions. She seeks to undermine a core concept of photography, namely, indexicality: the notion that what is depicted within the frame of a photograph tells us something true about the perceived reality at the moment the shutter was released and the image was captured. Blending and layering multiple images together, O'Darling creates new and fanciful ones that are patently untrue. A mockumentary, the exhibit offers viewers an opportunity to enter into a playful space of delight and amusement, woven between truth and illusion. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Gay Men's Dinner Tuesday, February 7, 6:30 p.m. Spaghetti Warehouse This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy 4/24/26, 3:25 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2017... 221 E. Brady, Tulsa, OK 74103 This month we are eating at Spaghetti Warehouse in downtown Tulsa. If you are coming please RSVP. A headcount is needed for the reservation. At Spaghetti Warehouse, we make every meal feel like a celebration, with the kind of delicious, freshly prepared Italian food that everybody loves, served in a lighthearted atmosphere that's perfect for getting together with your family or friends. For more information or to RSVP please email Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com • to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org . Ladies Social Club - LSC Turns One! Game Night Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Friday, February 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Social painting is all the rage, and if you haven't tried it before, here's your chance! No artistic experience necessary! You'll be led step-by-step by the lovely and talented Monica Conners, and at the end of the night you'll get to take home a beautiful piece of art that YOU created! The class costs $20, which pays for all of the supplies. You won't need to bring anything, unless you'd like to bring a potluck snack or BYOB. To make sure everyone gets the best possible instruction, we're limiting the class size to 30 painters. Dr. Kurt Choate To reserve your seat, register using the PayPal link listed below. Once Monica has received your payment, she'll send you a confirmation email. There should be a "notes" section for you to enter that. If you want to register multiple people in one transaction, you certainly can! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org VERY IMPORTANT NOTE: your seat is not saved until Monica receives payment! She is donating her time to teach the class, but the registration fee is the money she will use to purchase our supplies, and it's how she'll know what quantities to buy. PayPal.me/monicaconners For more information follow this event on Facebook The Versailles Masquerade Ball Saturday, February 11, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Admission is $25.00 and includes champagne Join us for the 17th annual Wild Hearts Ball as we transform the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into the famous French palace Versailles for a masquerade ball. Everybody must be in masks. Your ticket gives you access to the ball and champagne drinks from the champagne tower. Lady DJ Crystal will be mixing her best music in the hall of mirrors. Heavy Hors D'oeuvres and a Cash Bar. All the proceeds benefit the Equality Center renovation project. Click here to purchase tickets Wi/11/earts &(( Presents 7he Versaiffes MAS More information available on Facebook. 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo February 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 UERADE Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu - - - 4/24/26, 3:25 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2017... (918) 594-8568 Join us for February's Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. ,.·· • "., ,, .'--i :.. ~: "':,f:~ . $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets . "'i . . • ' · ,, ~ . ~ - Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 $200 T able for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Miss Richfield 1981 Saturday, March 18, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - John H. Williams Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 In her all new show, "2020 Vision," Miss Richfield 1981 offers a survival guide for the new world. With comedic songs, videos, and her unique take on audience participation, Miss Richfield will help calm any post-election panic and provide tools to prevent the apocalypse! Miss Richfield 1981 dedicates her life to the friendly citizens and responsible merchants of her hometown Richfield, MN. Her live performances across the country receive critical acclaim with The New York Post declaring Miss R "the must-see act in Provincetown" and The Chicago Sun-Times describing her as "Garrison Keillor meets Mary Tyler Moore." Miss R's wide appeal includes riotous appearances on "The Tonight Show" & "Today" on NBC, "Cake Boss" on TLC, and "Watch What Happens Live" on Bravo, along with being a national spokesperson for Orbitz and Palm Springs, CA. Each year her schedule of more than 100 shows sell out theaters and nightclubs across the country, including a summer residence at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown, MA, and frequent tours with Atlantis Events cruise ships and resorts. 2020 UISION A;oLFVIIA.tl..u.EA:J;I ~~IIIAH...., This event is a benefit for Oklahomans for Equality. Click here for ticket information. TUL8ATH Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 0 /0 0 /0 0 /2 04/2 05/◄ OS 0/0 0 27 Co 06/0 6/10 A 0 '/17 ow Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be 4/24/26, 3:25 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2017 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2017... a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Volunteer of the Month January 2017 Steve Luper The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Steve began volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Sept 2015. He needed a volunteer job for a scholarship that he receives from the Cherokee Nation. He chose to apply at OKEQ because he wanted to work closer to the LGBTQ+ community after coming out. Steve likes helping people when he can but thinks he's most grateful for the people he meets and the friends he has made. He says "I think the Equality Center has changed me for the better and I'd probably be a whole different person right now if I hadn't discovered it." When Steve is not volunteering he is a film major at the University of Tulsa with a minor in creative writing and women and gender studies. He states " I've recently made a package on Standing Rock that was featured on the campus' new program TUTV. I'm also in the Alliance Française de Tulsa." Steve says he is i ntensely grateful for the Gender Outreach programs at the center. "I've never come away from something feeling as self-affirmed as I have when I've been able to go to some of the meetings." Steve would definitely recommend volunteering at the Equality Center. "Maybe you just want to be closer to the LGBTQ+ community - this is perfect you. When I started volunteering I was in a real tough place and the overwhelming feeling of being alone followed me around everyday. Coming to the center has helped me learn self-acceptance and has given me more strength. I've learned lessons in perseverance from the people I've met. At the center, no one is going to try and dissect you or intrude unless you want to share, you're free to be yourself as quietly or as loudly as you want. In Oklahoma, places like this are hard to find." We thank you for your passion Steve! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ •. . January Video eNews 4/24/26, 3:25 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2017 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2017... Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Equality Center Pride Store Yoga by Zach The Versailles Masquerade Ball is just around the corner. Get your rainbow masquerade masks for only $10.00 in the Pride Store. EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items $5.00 per Session Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Gender Support Program v "Breaking Through: Out of the Closet, Into the Halls of Power" Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Despite increasingly positive representations of LGBT people in popular culture and incremental moves toward equality, LGBT people still face discrimination and negative stereotyping. Even when their company non-discrimination policies include sexual orientation and gender identity, many LGBT employees endure anti-gay remarks or jokes, and are left to wonder if it is really safe to be out at work. In the BREAKING THROUGH series, openly LGBT people share their stories of living openly and authentically with surprising vulnerability, showing it is possible to be out and live successful, fulfilled lives. The award-winning BREAKING THROUGH: Out of the Closet, Into the Halls of Power streams on PBS and is available on DVD and other streaming services. No other LGBT-focused film from the South has ever gone this far! -------...----------_ _ _ _ ..... '!- _ _ Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Support group meeting once a week starting January 2017 for adu ts in the Stillwater, 0 lahoma State, and surrounding community SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by 4/24/26, 3:25 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2017 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2017... Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE~ Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. --- .,GOLDEN The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org EBA Directory Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 Secret Ink Tattoo 317 S Lynn Riggs blvd Claremore, OK 74017 Recognition 2017 is a global campaign aimed at supporting the LGBT community to give back like no one has ever given before! The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. I, Rich Wallace, owner of Secret Ink Tattoo, believe this community deserves recognition, equality and respect instead of the bullying, criticism, harassment, and ridicule they typically receive because of their lifestyle. This dedication event is intended to bring equality, harmony, peace and awareness within the LGBT community as well as to those who support them. Back in October of 2008, I sponsored a breast cancer awareness event that had over 3,000 would-be participants. I, working alone, was only able to do 477 of the breast cancer ribbon tattoos because the event was only scheduled for 24 hours. This year I sponsored another successful event for all causes, be it breast cancer, PTSD, domestic violence or whatever cause a person chose to represent their ribbon color of choice. Within a week of sponsoring this years' event I was challenged by a friend to do an event like no other, to show my support for a group of people that most others won't go out of their way to support. The LGBT community! Even if people don't have personal issues with the lifestyle or choices of these individuals, they won't openly show their support because they are afraid of the stigma and repercussions of doing so. I am not the type of person that is intimidated by that! Although I myself am not part of the LGBT community, I know and am friends with many people who are and I support their right to live and love however and whomever they choose!!! So I decided in early November to take on this challenge and make it my biggest tattoo marathon event ever. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. I am asking everyone to help me in this effort by pledging their support in order to make this event FREE for any and all who wish to participate and receive an equality tattoo to show their support at no charge! For more information please visit: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/493868667/recognition-2017 H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center I.C. .0 FE IS BALL Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Hosted by ICP Roxxie Ray Starr ICP Trev or Darlin Ray Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to 4/24/26, 3:25 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2017 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2017... frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Come one come all. Bring your favorite kink and join us for a night of fun. I ~ I~~ 28,2017 - - - - - - Tulsa Eagle Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org FEBRUARY 5 COMPASSIONATE UNDERSTANDING Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org PACE ACADEMY 4/24/26, 3:25 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2017 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2017... FEBRUARY 12 COMPASS ONATE DIALOGUE Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ANTIOCH BAPTIST CHURCH 110 E 56 FEBRUARY 19 H Sr. N. Tu SA COMPASS ONATE ACTION Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org J ISH F DERATIO O TU LSA 202 E 71 ST S , TULSA AL SUPPORT D J SESS 0 S ARE AR I BY THE T R E A lD RU J SAL BRAR 2 P:-1 • t-: f T UST ' S AL RED • AR0 IJ SOr LEc - u E SE J ES Er ~ow r-. rn . Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org OCCJOK,ORG. Al 10 L VIS IT OCC J O O CALL 918 - ,83 - l 61. r------ ----- ---------------------------- ----- ---------------------------- -------------------------- , Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I I L------ ----- ---------------------------- ----- ---------------------------- ----- ---------------------J 4/24/26, 3:25 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/de1693027da2a28d29d457e82e521616.pdf b5238c3945e9b49e046523595760a1c6 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 oklahom:ms for equality news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA Dawn Sitler Sponsors the Day. Men's Self Defense Training Advocacy Training Day First Thursday Art Opening "Becoming Brave" Book Signing F~ Gay Men's Dinner. }7ay.ROll Rental Property Bookkeeping I Ladies Social Club The Versailles Masquerade Ball Equality Business Alliance Mixer Tulsa Pride Bingo Council Oak Men's Chorale Miss Richfield 1981 Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Volunteer of the Month 980 January Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Stillwater Gender SUpport Compassionate Tulsa Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 Family Resource Fair Kelly Kirby CPA I.C.A.O. Fetish Ball 2017 OCCJ Trialogue Series Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation {918} 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 12 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com (V\, yoc{ucLV\-g TvtLboc{etAux.: Tvie TtAX. TvteYtA'})kj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Dawn Sitler Sponsors the Day OkEq Art Exhibition The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Behnaz Sohrabian beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 5th and continuing throughout the month. Born and educated in Tehran, Iran, Behnaz Sohrabian started painting as a small child of 10 and continued her passion professionally from then on. She received a BS in Applied Chemistry, a BA in Painting and a Master of Arts in Art Studies. After receiving her master's degree, she immigrated to Oklahoma to be near family. Speaking about her work, Behnaz comments, "My work is about me, my life, being a woman and the struggles that women still face in this era. I paint women as people- strong people with depth and power. I paint them as delicate and sensitive-- but not weak." 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... Dawn Sitler is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on January 14 in honor of American Association of Critical Care Nurses, Greater Tulsa Area Chapter Thank You Dawn! AMERICAN ,, ASSOCIATION a CRlllCAL-CARE NURSES Greater Tulsa Area Chapter Family Ties If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because First Week of Men's Self Defense Training Thursday, January 26, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Registration is open for the next free Men's 7 week self-defense training session. This training will be held at Oklahomans For Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 and requires a commitment to all 7 classes, this allows time to build muscle memory so that you can effectively use these life saving self-defense skills. Classes will be every other Thursday starting at 7:30pm. Trans-men are welcome! Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. For more information or to register for class please contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Advocacy Training Day Saturday, January 28, 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Highland Hall 1102 E Warner Ave, Guthrie, OK 73044 This training is for members and allies of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community and is sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, PFLAG Oklahoma and Freedom Oklahoma. Objectives: 1. To provide an opportunity for statewide advocates to meet one another, form strong advocacy networks, and to become better informed about how to be an effective advocate on behalf of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community/families/friends 2. To inform audience about expected legislation during the 2017 Oklahoma Legislative session (begins Monday, February 6th) 3. To inform audience about legislative "mechanics" 4. To discuss effective advocacy strategies (as well as ineffective strategies) to influence Oklahoma legislators (these strategies can be applied to any advocacy work including local level (city council, school boards), state level (legislature), or national level (Congressional delegation) Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 No cost; however, need to make reservation due to limited space. Email name/phone number to olivia.cotter@okeq.org First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, February 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Cait O'Darling's show, "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), features twenty composite photos. This series explores the power of a single gesture across multiple iterations. Cait boldly recomposes the embodied performance of a single "Selfie" and adds new angles and juxtapositions. She seeks to undermine a core concept of photography, namely, indexicality: the notion that what is depicted within the frame of a photograph tells us something true about the perceived reality at the moment the shutter was released and the image was captured. Blending and layering multiple images together, O'Darling creates new and fanciful ones that are patently untrue. A mockumentary, the exhibit offers viewers an opportunity to enter into a playful space of delight and amusement, woven between truth and illusion. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. Do you need assistance with open 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - Book Signing - "Becoming Brave: Winning Marriage Equality in Oklahoma and Finding Our Voice," by Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, with Mary Bishop-Baldwin Saturday February 4, 3:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Books will be available for purchase. The cost is $20, and we will take cash or cards. Sharon and Mary will read a couple of short passages, answer a few questions, and then sign books. This inaugural book-signing will be the official "coming-out party" for "Becoming Brave." Counseling Services Book synopsis: "Becoming Brave: Winning Marriage Equality in Oklahoma and Finding Our Voice" tells the story of Sharon and Mary Bishop-Baldwin, whose 10-year lawsuit with Sue Barton and Gay Phillips brought marriage equality to Oklahoma in October 2014. By no means a law book, "Becoming Brave" is chock full of behind-the-scenes stories meant to give the reader a sense of what a wild ride the marriage-equality fight was for two women who had a front-row seat. From their earliest days as a couple to life after the lawsuit, "Becoming Brave" also shares insight into what makes these two women tick. Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. For more information or to reserve your seat please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org ,11 \h< l ' hl'ii< ll 11 \ l ll\\ l'-J Gay Men's Dinner Dr. Kurt Choate Tuesday, February 7, 6:30 p.m. Spaghetti Warehouse 221 E. Brady, Tulsa, OK 74103 This month we are eating at Spaghetti Warehouse in downtown Tulsa. If you are coming please RSVP. A headcount is needed for the reservation. At Spaghetti Warehouse, we make every meal feel like a celebration, with the kind of delicious, freshly prepared Italian food that everybody loves, served in a lighthearted atmosphere that's perfect for getting together with your family or friends. For more information or to RSVP please email Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com • . Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Ladies Social Club - LSC Turns One! Game Night Friday, February 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Social painting is all the rage, and if you haven't tried it before, here's your chance! No artistic experience necessary! You'll be led step-by-step by the lovely and talented Monica Conners, and at the end of the night you'll get to take home a beautiful piece of art that YOU created! The class costs $20, which pays for all of the supplies. You won't need to bring anything, unless you'd like to bring a potluck snack or BYOB. To make sure everyone gets the best possible instruction, we're limiting the class size to 30 painters. To reserve your seat, register using the PayPal link listed below. Once Monica has received your payment, she'll send you a confirmation email. There should be a "notes" section for you to enter that. If you want to register multiple people in one transaction, you certainly can! VERY IMPORTANT NOTE: your seat is not saved until Monica receives payment! She is donating her time to teach the class, but the registration fee is the money she will use to purchase our supplies, and it's how she'll know what quantities to buy. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 PayPal.me/monicaconners For more information follow this event on Facebook The Versailles Masquerade Ball Saturday, February 11, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Admission is $25.00 and includes champagne Join us for the 17th annual Wild Hearts Ball as we transform the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into the famous French palace Versailles for a masquerade ball. Everybody must be in masks. Your ticket gives you access to the ball and champagne drinks from the champagne tower. Lady DJ Crystal will be mixing her best music in the hall of mirrors. Heavy Hors D'oeuvres and a Cash Bar. All the proceeds benefit the Equality Center renovation project. Click here to purchase tickets Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ---(918) 594-8568 More information available on Facebook. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday February 15, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Hosted by Boomtown Tees 114 S Elgin Ave, Tulsa, OK 74120 E Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 ALITY usiness Alliance Boomtown Tees is Oklahoma's source for tees repping our great state, local Tulsa tees, souvenirs. Boomtown also designs & creates custom tees http://www.twitter.com/BoomtownTees http://www.boomtowntees.com/ The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo February 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Join us for February's Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 T able for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. SOS Group For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday Evenings, 7:00 p.m. Congregational Fellowship Church 900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 The Council Oak Men's Chorale has begun rehearsals for the 2017 summer concert which will feature songs by Stephen Sondhiem. Anyone interested in singing with the group should attend our next rehearsal at Congregational Fellowship Church, 2900 S Harvard Ave, on Tuesday nights at 7 pm to join in the fun and get to meet a great group of men. We are also preparing for our trip to St Louis to sing with the St. Louis Gateway Men's Chorus at the end of March which is sure to be an experience you won't want to miss. If you love to sing and are thinking about doing something different, then here's your chance to come make a change in our community. Let's make our voice be heard and sing! Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Miss Richfield 1981 Saturday, March 18, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - John H. Williams Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 In her all new show, "2020 Vision," Miss Richfield 1981 offers a survival guide for the new world. With comedic songs, videos, and her unique take on audience participation, Miss Richfield will help calm any post-election panic and provide tools to prevent the apocalypse! Miss Richfield 1981 dedicates her life to the friendly citizens and responsible merchants of her hometown Richfield, MN. Her live performances across the country receive critical acclaim with The New York Post declaring Miss R "the must-see act in Provincetown" and The Chicago Sun-Times describing her as "Garrison Keillor meets Mary Tyler Moore." Miss R's wide appeal includes riotous appearances on "The Tonight Show" & "Today" on NBC, "Cake Boss" on TLC, and "Watch What Happens Live" on Bravo, along with being a national spokesperson for Orbitz and Palm Springs, CA. Each year her schedule of more than 100 shows sell out theaters and nightclubs across the country, including a summer residence at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown, MA, and frequent tours with Atlantis Events cruise ships and resorts. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2020 IJISION A :il.A.IJ.\A. ~ Fl.A Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. ~ ~" 11iAu This event is a benefit for Oklahomans for Equality. Click here for ticket information. 8 The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. 0 /01 10 0 /22 04129 0510 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... 0 an A onlo 0 1/17 ow Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm $5.00 per Session Volunteer of the Month January 2017 Steve Luper Steve began volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Sept 2015. He needed a volunteer job for a scholarship that he receives from the Cherokee Nation. He chose to apply at OKEQ because he wanted to work closer to the LGBTQ+ community after coming out. Steve likes helping people when he can but thinks he's most grateful for the people he meets and the friends he has made. He says "I think the Equality Center has changed me for the better and I'd probably be a whole different person right now if I hadn't discovered it." When Steve is not volunteering he is a film major at the University of Tulsa with a minor in creative writing and women and gender studies. He states " I've recently made a package on Standing Rock that was featured on the campus' new program TUTV. I'm also in the Alliance Française de Tulsa." Steve says he is i ntensely grateful for the Gender Outreach programs at the center. "I've never come away from something feeling as self-affirmed as I have when I've been able to go to some of the meetings." Steve would definitely recommend volunteering at the Equality Center. "Maybe you just want to be closer to the LGBTQ+ community - this is perfect you. When I started volunteering I was in a real tough place and the overwhelming feeling of being alone followed me around everyday. Coming to the center has helped me learn self-acceptance and has given me more strength. I've learned lessons in perseverance from the people I've met. At the center, no one is going to try and dissect you or intrude unless you want to share, you're free to be yourself as quietly or as loudly as you want. In Oklahoma, places like this are hard to find." v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. We thank you for your passion Steve! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org January Video eNews Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Equality Center Pride Store 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... The Versailles Masquerade Ball is just around the corner. Get your rainbow masquerade masks for only $10.00 in the Pride Store. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Ladies or Gentlemen: A Pictorial History of Male Cross-Dressing in the Movies" By: Jean-Louis Ginibre This pictorial history examines the grand tradition of male cross-dressing in the movies through more than 700 photos. The screen's greatest stars, from comedians like Buster Keaton and Peter Sellers to 'serious' actors like Marlon Brando and Max von Sydow, are pictured in everything from bustiers to ballgowns. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Support group meeting once a week starting January 2017 for adu ts in the Stillwater, 0 lahoma State, and surrounding community Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. --- )=OLDEN For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 Secret Ink Tattoo 317 S Lynn Riggs blvd Claremore, OK 74017 Recognition 2017 is a global campaign aimed at supporting the LGBT community to give back like no one has ever given before! I, Rich Wallace, owner of Secret Ink Tattoo, believe this community deserves recognition, equality and respect instead of the bullying, criticism, harassment, and ridicule they typically receive because of their lifestyle. This dedication event is intended to bring equality, harmony, peace and awareness within the LGBT community as well as to those who support them. Back in October of 2008, I sponsored a breast cancer awareness event that had over 3,000 would-be participants. I, working alone, was only able to do 477 of the breast cancer ribbon tattoos because the event was only scheduled for 24 hours. This year I sponsored another successful event for all causes, be it breast cancer, PTSD, domestic violence or whatever cause a person chose to represent their ribbon color of choice. Within a week of sponsoring this years' event I was challenged by a friend to do an event like no other, to show my support for a group of people that most others won't go out of their way to support. The LGBT community! Even if people don't have personal issues with the lifestyle or choices of these individuals, they won't openly show their support because they are afraid of the stigma and repercussions of doing so. I am not the type of person that is intimidated by that! Although I myself am not part of the LGBT community, I know and am friends with many people who are and I support their right to live and love however and whomever they choose!!! So I decided in early November to take on this challenge and make it my biggest tattoo marathon event ever. I am asking everyone to help me in this effort by pledging their support in order to make this event FREE for any and all who wish to participate and receive an equality tattoo to show their support at no charge! For more information please visit: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/493868667/recognition-2017 Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. TulsaTech CJllAM " · oorr MISSION: FAMLY RESOURCE All are welcome to loln us at the Tulsa Tech Lemley Campus - Health Science Center (3420 S emor1 Dr.) to learn more about the services local organizations provide for families ln TUisa county! Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org I.C.A.O FE IS BALL Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Hosted by ICP Roxxie Ray Starr ICP Trev or Darlin Ray Come one come all. Bring your favorite kink and join us for a night of fun. I ~ I~: 28,2017 ....__ _ _ ____. Tulsa Eagle 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... 5 FEBRUARY COMPASSIONATE UNDERSTANDING PACE ACADEMY 4620 S IRV NGTO AVE, TULSA 12 COMPASSIONATE DIALOGUE FEBRUARY ANTIOCH BAP TIST CHURCH 110 E 56 FEBRUARY 19 COM PASS ONA TE ACTIO J ISH F DERATIO 202 A SUPPORT D J B THE OF TUL SA E 71 ST ST , TULS A SESS 0 S AR[ ARI N. Tu SA H ST. T S R E A lD RU J 2 P:-1 L BRAR LEc - u E SERIES R GIST R OtJ Ir • I ti, T UST'S AL RED Er ~ow,-. • AR0ljSOP ,n . OCCJOK,ORG. 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 12 of 12 I https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 4/24/26, 3:32 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1588ab352888e9c27a0a81ab88403da7.pdf ef69a7aae994a2c73eab92d4a50daf24 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 1st, 2017 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-1st--2017.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews February 1st, 2017 oklahomans for equality news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA Volunteer of the Month February Video eNews 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters First Thursday Art Opening "Becoming Brave" Book Signing rJ • n:l:M ~ F~ Gay Men's Dinner. }7ay.ROll Rental Property I t b ~'YIJ l,l.Jlh ., . Bookkeeping W-2 I Ladies Social Club The Versailles Masquerade Ball Latin Dance Class Equality Business Alliance Mixer OKDHS Foster care & Adoption Informational Meeting Tulsa Pride Bingo Council Oak Men's Chorale Miss Richfield 1981 Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala Pride Store Rainbow Library Stillwater Gender SUpport Compassionate Tulsa Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 Family Resource Fair I.C.A.O. Fetish Ball 2017 OCCJ Trialogue Series a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com IV\,tr-o~uctV\,g T11tbo~e(,lux.: Tne TC,lx. Tner(,lpr:, Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Volunteer of the Month February 2017 " OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, February 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Board Meeting OkEq Art Exhibition The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 1st, 2017 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-1st--2017.... Kate & Haden Britton Kate and Haden have been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since September 2016. "We decided to volunteer because we are passionate about supporting the needs of our beautiful and growing LGBTQIA+ and Two-Spirit community. We wanted to meet other passionate activists and friends." American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Their favorite part of volunteering is being able to meet the best people and when attending events at the center they feel like they are with family. When they are not volunteering, Kate and Haden are activists who show up at any social justice event they are able to attend. Haden likes to long-board, paint, and read. Kate loves to bake, paint, and craft. They also adore their dogs and being an aunt/uncle. They can not name a favorite event, stating "Just when we think we have seen the best, more great events come our way." Kate and Haden absolutely recommend volunteering at the center! They say, "Volunteering is vital and very appreciated. Not only is it a great way to make life-long friends, but you can learn even more about your community and about your potential than you can imagine. Sign up and be part of the team asap!" Family Ties We thank you for your dedication Kate & Haden! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org February Video eNews Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, February 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Cait O'Darling's show, "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), features twenty composite photos. This series explores the power of a single gesture across multiple iterations. Cait boldly recomposes the embodied performance of a single "Selfie" and adds new angles and juxtapositions. She seeks to undermine a core concept of photography, namely, indexicality: the notion that what is depicted within the frame of a photograph tells us something true about the perceived reality at the moment the shutter was released and the image was captured. Blending and layering multiple images together, O'Darling creates new and fanciful ones that are patently untrue. A mockumentary, the exhibit offers viewers an opportunity to enter into a playful space of delight and amusement, woven between truth and illusion. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com - Healthcare Navigator Book Signing - "Becoming Brave: Winning Marriage Equality in Oklahoma and 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 1st, 2017 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-1st--2017.... Finding Our Voice," by Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, with Mary Bishop-Baldwin Thursdays 1-4 p.m. Saturday February 4, 3:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Books will be available for purchase. The cost is $20, and we will take cash or cards. Sharon and Mary will read a couple of short passages, answer a few questions, and then sign books. This inaugural book-signing will be the official "coming-out party" for "Becoming Brave." BECOMING BRAVE Book synopsis: "Becoming Brave: Winning Marriage Equality in Oklahoma and Finding Our Voice" tells the story of Sharon and Mary Bishop-Baldwin, whose 10-year lawsuit with Sue Barton and Gay Phillips brought marriage equality to Oklahoma in October 2014. By no means a law book, "Becoming Brave" is chock full of behind-the-scenes stories meant to give the reader a sense of what a wild ride the marriage-equality fight was for two women who had a front-row seat. From their earliest days as a couple to life after the lawsuit, "Becoming Brave" also shares insight into what makes these two women tick. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. For more information or to reserve your seat please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Gay Men's Dinner Tuesday, February 7, 6:30 p.m. Spaghetti Warehouse 221 E. Brady, Tulsa, OK 74103 This month we are eating at Spaghetti Warehouse in downtown Tulsa. If you are coming please RSVP. A headcount is needed for the reservation. At Spaghetti Warehouse, we make every meal feel like a celebration, with the kind of delicious, freshly prepared Italian food that everybody loves, served in a lighthearted atmosphere that's perfect for getting together with your family or friends. For more information or to RSVP please email Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com • Dr. Kurt Choate . Ladies Social Club - LSC Turns One! Game Night Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Friday, February 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Social painting is all the rage, and if you haven't tried it before, here's your chance! No artistic experience necessary! You'll be led step-by-step by the lovely and talented Monica Conners, and at the end of the night you'll get to take home a beautiful piece of art that YOU created! The class costs $20, which pays for all of the supplies. You won't need to bring anything, unless you'd like to bring a potluck snack or BYOB. To make sure everyone gets the best possible instruction, we're limiting the class size to 30 painters. To reserve your seat, register using the PayPal link listed below. Once Monica has received your payment, she'll send you a confirmation email. There should be a "notes" section for you to enter that. If you want to register multiple people in one transaction, you certainly can! all & women welcome lADI[~ ~O(IAl (lUD 2nd fridays 6-0pm 1;-inu:iry 8. 2016 Denni\ R. Neill Eq11.1lity Ccnccr VERY IMPORTANT NOTE: your seat is not saved until Monica receives payment! She is donating her time to teach the class, but the registration fee is the money she will use to purchase our supplies, and it's how she'll know what quantities to buy. PayPal.me/monicaconners For more information follow this event on Facebook Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 The Versailles Masquerade Ball Saturday, February 11, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Admission is $25.00 and includes champagne Join us for the 17th annual Wild Hearts Ball as we transform the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into the famous French palace Versailles for a masquerade ball. Everybody must be in masks. Your ticket gives you access to the ball and champagne drinks from the champagne tower. Lady DJ Crystal will be mixing her best music in the hall of mirrors. Heavy Hors D'oeuvres and a Cash Bar. All the proceeds benefit the Equality Center renovation project. Click here to purchase tickets 1Vifl1-learts &ff Presents 7he Versaiffes MAS Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 UERADE Andria Whipple 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 1st, 2017 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-1st--2017.... Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ---(918) 594-8568 More information available on Facebook. Latin Dance Class Every second and fourth Monday - $5 per class Beginning February 13, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neil Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Want to learn how to dance to Latin music? Now is your chance! Oklahomans for Equality is offering dance classes For just $5 per class! Every second and fourth Monday! Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Check it out on Facebook Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday February 15, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Hosted by Boomtown Tees 114 S Elgin Ave, Tulsa, OK 74120 E ALITY usiness Alliance Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Boomtown Tees is Oklahoma's source for tees repping our great state, local Tulsa tees, souvenirs. Boomtown also designs & creates custom tees http://www.twitter.com/BoomtownTees http://www.boomtowntees.com/ The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 1st, 2017 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-1st--2017.... Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop OKDHS Foster care & Adoption Informational Meeting February 18, 2017, 12:30 p.m. Dennis R Neil Equality Center 621 E 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Interested in fostering or adopting but don't know much about it? Join us at Dennis R Neil Equality Center for this special event. Oklahoma Department of Human Services recruiters will be there to explain the foster care and adoption process and answer any questions you have. For additional questions about the event please contact: Kim Brooks (918) 581-2557 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo February 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought to You Bi the Letter B Join us for February's Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 T able for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday Evenings, 7:00 p.m. Congregational Fellowship Church 900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 The Council Oak Men's Chorale has begun rehearsals for the 2017 summer concert which will feature songs by Stephen Sondhiem. Anyone interested in singing with the group should attend our next rehearsal at Congregational Fellowship Church, 2900 S Harvard Ave, on Tuesday nights at 7 pm to join in the fun and get to meet a great group of men. We are also preparing for our trip to St Louis to sing with the St. Louis Gateway Men's Chorus at the end of March which is sure to be an experience you won't want to miss. If you love to sing and are thinking about doing something different, then here's your chance to come make a change in our community. Let's make our voice be heard and sing! ~ council oak Miss Richfield 1981 Saturday, March 18, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - John H. Williams Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 1st, 2017 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-1st--2017.... ■ In her all new show, "2020 Vision," Miss Richfield 1981 offers a survival guide for the new world. With comedic songs, videos, and her unique take on audience participation, Miss Richfield will help calm any post-election panic and provide tools to prevent the apocalypse! Miss Richfield 1981 dedicates her life to the friendly citizens and responsible merchants of her hometown Richfield, MN. Her live performances across the country receive critical acclaim with The New York Post declaring Miss R "the must-see act in Provincetown" and The Chicago Sun-Times describing her as "Garrison Keillor meets Mary Tyler Moore." Miss R's wide appeal includes riotous appearances on "The Tonight Show" & "Today" on NBC, "Cake Boss" on TLC, and "Watch What Happens Live" on Bravo, along with being a national spokesperson for Orbitz and Palm Springs, CA. Each year her schedule of more than 100 shows sell out theaters and nightclubs across the country, including a summer residence at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown, MA, and frequent tours with Atlantis Events cruise ships and resorts. •. 2020 1JISION ASU!UJ\A.Q.ual'l)I '~Nt..Wll.H.u Tulsa Area Prime Timers This event is a benefit for Oklahomans for Equality. Click here for ticket information. 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Metro Softball League TMSL 2017 Spring Season Sundays March 26 - May 21, 2017 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Carl Smith Sports Complex 17120 E. 21st St., Tulsa, OK 74134 Hey TMSL members and fans! As the weather begins to warm up, it only means one thing: SOFTBALL SEASON! TMSL 2017 Spring Season is just right around the corner! Season will begin on Sunday, March 26th and will last 9 Sundays until May 21st, exluding Mother's Day and Easter weekends. Game times will be from 12pm-4pm at Carl Smith Sports Complex. Cost is $40/person. Anyone and everyone is welcome to join, so grab your friends and sign up today as we go into our 7th year of laughter, fun, a little bit of competition, and life long friendships! Yoga by Zach For those of you who are curious about the Gay Softball World Series, 2017 GSWS will be in Portland, OR! The dates are September 3rd to September 10th. If you as a team or player have any questions/interest regarding GSWS, please give us a shout and we will gladly help you! Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY If you have any other questions or inquiries, please do not hestitate to contact us at info@tulsametrosoftball.com . We look forward to seeing you out this year! @4:30 pm TMSL Board Registration is open at: htosports.com You can also check out TSML on Facebook $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 0'1101 . I U(lU ~•c 0'1-108, o ntoni Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. oq/fs Qq./22 0'1129 05/06 -- -- A lo In oo New o e 05/73 OS/20 05/27 Co orado 06/03 6/10 San Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org ... 4/24/26, 3:33 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f34e5a7748468937b13a83ad3358aecf.pdf e3484e05819a90cab355e6b4bdb1f274 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 9th, 2017 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-9th--2017... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews February 9th, 2017 oklahomans for equality news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA The Versailles Masquerade Ball REVERSED AND REMANDED 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Ladies Social Club Latin Dance Class rJ • n:l:M ~ F~ I t b ~'YIJ l,l.Jlh ., . W-2 Equality Business Alliance Mixer }7ay.ROll Rental Property Bookkeeping I OKDHS Foster care & Adoption Informational Meeting OKEQ & Workforce Tulsa - Recruitment Event Bethany Community School Girl Scout Cookie Sales Tulsa Pride Bingo First Thursday Art Opening Council Oak Men's Chorale Miss Richfield 1981 Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala 2017 Pride Mural project Volunteers of the Month February Video eNews Pride Store Kelly Kirby CPA 2017 OCCJ Trialogue Series Certified Public Accountant Lender/Borrower Matchmaking Event a professional corporation Rainbow Library Stillwater Gender SUpport Jolt Colorama I.C.A.O. Coronation X Compassionate Tulsa Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, February 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Board Meeting OkEq Art Exhibition IV\,tr-o~uctV\,g T11tbo~e(,lux.: Tne TC,lx. Tner(,lpr:, Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. The Versailles Masquerade Ball Saturday, February 11, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 9th, 2017 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-9th--2017... Admission is $25.00 and includes champagne Join us for the 17th annual Wild Hearts Ball as we transform the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into the famous French palace Versailles for a masquerade ball. Everybody must be in masks. Your ticket gives you access to the ball and champagne drinks from the champagne tower. Lady DJ Crystal will be mixing her best music in the hall of mirrors. Heavy Hors D'oeuvres and a Cash Bar. All the proceeds benefit the Equality Center renovation project. Click here to purchase tickets visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. 7he Versaiffes 1Uifl1-fearts &{{ Presents MAS UERA.DE Family Ties More information available on Facebook. REVERSED AND REMANDED January 18, 2017 REVERSED AND REMANDED Unanimous Decision by the Oklahoma Supreme Court. This decision allows "ANY" adult adoptee a way out of legal adoption and does not apply to under age adoptions. This decision opens the door to others seeking exit of similar "ADULT" adoptions through the Oklahoma courts for whatever reason deemed in the best interest of the "ADULT" adoptee. We wish to thank Attorney Michael C. Redman for a very long battle and for a courageous presentation of the facts and reasons that convinced the courts in this case Congratulations Jared Bruce and Bruce Schultz Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Thank you for removing the impediments that kept many Oklahoma same-sex couples from being able to marry. 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Friday, February 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. Social painting is all the rage, and if you haven't tried it before, here's your chance! No artistic experience necessary! You'll be led step-by-step by the lovely and talented Monica Conners, and at the end of the night you'll get to take home a beautiful piece of art that YOU created! For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org Ladies Social Club - Paintin' & Drinkin' The class costs $20, which pays for all of the supplies. You won't need to bring anything, unless you'd like to bring a potluck snack or BYOB. To make sure everyone gets the best possible instruction, we're limiting the class size to 30 painters. To reserve your seat, register using the PayPal link listed below. Once Monica has received your payment, she'll send you a confirmation email. There should be a "notes" section for you Healthcare Navigator 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 9th, 2017 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-9th--2017... to enter that. If you want to register multiple people in one transaction, you certainly can! Dennis R Ne II Equ~l1ty Center VERY IMPORTANT NOTE: your seat is not saved until Monica receives payment! She is donating her time to teach the class, but the registration fee is the money she will use to purchase our supplies, and it's how she'll know what quantities to buy. PayPal.me/monicaconners For more information follow this event on Facebook Latin Dance Class Every second and fourth Monday - $5 per class Beginning February 13, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neil Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Thursdays 1-4 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Want to learn how to dance to Latin music? Now is your chance! Oklahomans for Equality is offering dance classes For just $5 per class! Every second and fourth Monday! Check it out on Facebook Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday February 15, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Hosted by Boomtown Tees 114 S Elgin Ave, Tulsa, OK 74120 Dr. Kurt Choate E UALITY Business Alliance Boomtown Tees is Oklahoma's source for tees repping our great state, local Tulsa tees, souvenirs. Boomtown also designs & creates custom tees http://www.twitter.com/BoomtownTees http://www.boomtowntees.com/ The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - - (918) 594-8568 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 9th, 2017 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-9th--2017... OKDHS Foster care & Adoption Informational Meeting February 18, 2017, 12:30 - 1:30 p.m. Dennis R Neil Equality Center 621 E 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Interested in fostering or adopting but don't know much about it? Join us at Dennis R Neil Equality Center for this special event. Oklahoma Department of Human Services recruiters will be there to explain the foster care and adoption process and answer any questions you have. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ---(918) 594-8568 For additional questions about the event please contact: Kim Brooks (918) 581-2557 OKEQ & Workforce Tulsa - Recruitment Event Tuesday, February 21 at 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St.,Tulsa, OK 74120 Need a new job? Need help with your resume? Or want to have better interviewing skills? Join Oklahomas for Equality and Workforce on Wednesday, February 21 from 6 PM to 8 PM here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the recruitment event of the year! 46 years of serving the Tulsa community with excellent early childhood education a mission of Bethany Christian Church Now enrolling children for Fall - 14 months to PreK Core Program 9 am to 2:30 pm with Before and After Care available OPEN HOUSE WEEK February 27 - March 3 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 . Tulsa, Oklahoma r School, NAEYC Accredited www.bethanycommunityschoo .com - Find us on Facebook Girl Scout Cookie Sales Saturday February 25, 2017 2:00 - 4:00 p.m. and 5:30 - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusive organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma cookie sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. There will be 2 separate groups selling cookies so inventory may vary. $4 per box: Thin Mints Tagalongs Samoas Do-S-Dos Trefoils Savannah Smiles $5 per box: Toffee Tastic (gluten free) Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 9th, 2017 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-9th--2017... S'Mores Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo February 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for February's Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. $15 for general admission SOS Group $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org *Tickets for March Pride Bingo are now available. First Thursday Art Opening Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Thursday, March 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The March Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Josh New in a show titled "Intimate Viewing", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Josh New's works feature a series of portraits honing-in on people with intimate tattoos. So often tattoos carry with them intensely personal memories, feelings, or mottos that are chosen to be indelibly marked on bodies. They can be to remember a loved one or special event; they can represent a location, a mantra, or an eternal goal. Often these special images and words are hidden from every day view and only glimpsed in moments of extreme vulnerability. These portraits were designed to challenge the subjects to reveal their most intimate symbols, and give the viewer a glimpse of their vulnerability in a moment frozen in time and out of context - for admiration, wonder, or awe by complete strangers. What would normally be reserved for viewing and contemplation by a special few, is laid bare for you in this exhibit. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Josh's portraits will show 10-12 models; men and women of various ages and ethnicities are represented - each with photos in color and black and white. Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday Evenings, 7:00 p.m. Congregational Fellowship Church 900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 The Council Oak Men's Chorale has begun rehearsals for the 2017 summer concert which will feature songs by Stephen Sondhiem. Anyone interested in singing with the group should attend our next rehearsal at Congregational Fellowship Church, 2900 S Harvard Ave, on Tuesday nights at 7 pm to join in the fun and get to meet a great group of men. We are also preparing for our trip to St Louis to sing with the St. Louis Gateway Men's Chorus at the end of March which is sure to be an experience you won't want to miss. If you love to sing and are thinking about doing something different, then here's your chance to come make a change in our community. Let's make our voice be heard and sing! ~ The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. council oak Miss Richfield 1981 Saturday, March 18, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - John H. Williams Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) In her all new show, "2020 Vision," Miss Richfield 1981 offers a survival guide for the new world. With comedic songs, videos, and her unique take on audience participation, Miss Richfield will help calm any post-election panic and provide tools to prevent the apocalypse! Miss Richfield 1981 dedicates her life to the friendly citizens and responsible merchants of her hometown Richfield, MN. Her live performances across the country receive critical acclaim with The New York Post declaring Miss R "the must-see act in Provincetown" and The Chicago Sun-Times describing her as "Garrison Keillor meets Mary Tyler Moore." Miss R's wide appeal includes riotous appearances on "The Tonight Show" & "Today" on NBC, "Cake Boss" on TLC, and "Watch What Happens Live" on Bravo, along with being a national spokesperson for Orbitz and Palm Springs, CA. Each year her schedule of more than 100 shows sell out theaters and nightclubs across the country, including a summer residence at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown, MA, and frequent tours with Atlantis Events cruise ships and resorts. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 2020 1JISION A:ill!IJilR..Q.lla:.F'Cl-c This event is a benefit for Oklahomans for Equality. Click here for ticket information. N:..WllR..O ■ . Tulsa Metro Softball League 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 9th, 2017 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-9th--2017... TMSL 2017 Spring Season Sundays March 26 - May 21, 2017 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Carl Smith Sports Complex 17120 E. 21st St., Tulsa, OK 74134 Tulsa Area Prime Timers Hey TMSL members and fans! As the weather begins to warm up, it only means one thing: SOFTBALL SEASON! TMSL 2017 Spring Season is just right around the corner! Season will begin on Sunday, March 26th and will last 9 Sundays until May 21st, exluding Mother's Day and Easter weekends. Game times will be from 12pm-4pm at Carl Smith Sports Complex. Cost is $40/person. Anyone and everyone is welcome to join, so grab your friends and sign up today as we go into our 7th year of laughter, fun, a little bit of competition, and life long friendships! 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 For those of you who are curious about the Gay Softball World Series, 2017 GSWS will be in Portland, OR! The dates are September 3rd to September 10th. If you as a team or player have any questions/interest regarding GSWS, please give us a shout and we will gladly help you! If you have any other questions or inquiries, please do not hestitate to contact us at info@tulsametrosoftball.com . We look forward to seeing you out this year! TMSL Board Registration is open at: htosports.com You can also check out TSML on Facebook Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm TLIL8A $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program 0'1101 ~•c • 0~/0 o q.122 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group 0'1129 I 05/06 New Every Friday 7 p.m. o e OS/73 05/20 05127 Co orado 06/03 6/10 San D Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Antonio 06/17 ow 2017 Equality Gala Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 9th, 2017 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-9th--2017... All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs Q. oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) Oklahomans for Equality 2017 Pride Mural project The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and OkEq are excited to announce the 2017 Pride Mural project. The upcoming renovation and subsequent repainting scheduled for fall have offered up a unique opportunity to put our Pride out there for all to see this summer. April and May seem like a pretty good time to do the work. Paintings should be done by May 28th, so that all is all ready for Pride Month kick off on June 2nd with the Rainbow Run. Mural spaces are designated as 12ft tall and 15ft wide and face the existing parking lot. Designs may be created by an individual or group . All materials will be supplied by the artist(s). OkEq is supplying only space, and no remuneration or compensation for the artwork, just the exposure for all of Tulsa to see in the gateway to downtown! If you are interested in this once in a lifetime opportunity please send sketches of your idea to Jose.Vega@okeq.org by March 17, 2017. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. The chosen concepts will be announced on March 24, 2017 via e-mail and e-news. Work may begin April 1st. OkEq will provide scaffolding for the safety of the artists Voting for the People's Choice award will take place in person at the center through May 29th - June 2nd with a suggested donation of $1 for each vote. 70% of all proceeds will go to the winning artist or group. Results to be announced at Pride on June 3rd. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ALI . . Volunteers of the Month February 2017 Kate & Haden Britton Kate and Haden have been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since September 2016. "We decided to volunteer because we are passionate about supporting the needs of our beautiful and growing LGBTQIA+ and Two-Spirit community. We wanted to meet other passionate activists and friends." Their favorite part of volunteering is being able to meet the best people and when attending events at the center they feel like they are with family. When they are not volunteering, Kate and Haden are activists who show up at any social justice event they are able to attend. Haden likes to long-board, paint, and read. Kate loves to bake, paint, and craft. They also adore their dogs and being an aunt/uncle. They can not name a favorite event, stating "Just when we think we have seen the best, more great events come our way." Kate and Haden absolutely recommend volunteering at the center! They say, "Volunteering is vital and very appreciated. Not only is it a great way to make life-long friends, but you can learn even more about your community and about your potential than you can imagine. Sign up and be part of the team asap!" We thank you for your dedication Kate & Haden! Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future 4/24/26, 3:33 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/467eea9d6181eacc7fc4f075f3c93eb3.pdf 52e893c9861655e024d73c23e5518675 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 oklahomans for equality news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA Equality Business Alliance Mixer Girl Scout Cookie Sales 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters OKDHS Foster care & Adoption Informational Meeting Gay Men's Dinner Group rJ • n:l:M ~ F~ I t b ~'YIJ l,l.Jlh ., . W-2 }7ay.ROll Rental Property Bookkeeping I OKEQ & Workforce Tulsa - Recruitment Event Bethany Community School REVERSED AND REMANDED First Thursday Art Opening Ladies Social Club Council Oak Men's Chorale Miss Richfield 1981 Tulsa Pride Bingo Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! 2017 Pride Mural project Volunteers of the Month February Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library Kelly Kirby CPA Stillwater Gender SUpport 2017 OCCJ Trialogue Series Jolt Colorama Certified Public Accountant Lender/Borrower Matchmaking Event a professional corporation Jackpot Golf Classic I.C.A.O. Coronation X Military Survey Compassionate Tulsa (918) 747-5466 Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com OkEq Board Meeting www.kkirby.com 7 p.m. Thursday, February 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Board Meeting OkEq Art Exhibition IV\,tr-o~uctV\,g T11tbo~e(,lux.: Tne TC,lx. Tner(,lpr:, Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday February 15, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Hosted by Boomtown Tees 114 S Elgin Ave, Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... E ALITY usiness Alliance Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Family Ties Boomtown Tees is Oklahoma's source for tees repping our great state, local Tulsa tees, souvenirs. Boomtown also designs & creates custom tees http://www.twitter.com/BoomtownTees http://www.boomtowntees.com/ The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Girl Scout Cookie Sales Saturday February 25, 2017 2:00 - 4:00 p.m. and 5:30 - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusive organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma cookie sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. There will be 2 separate groups selling cookies so inventory may vary. Daisy Troop 301 will be selling cookies from 2:00 - 4:00 p.m. Troop 23 will be selling cookies from 5:30 - 8:30 p.m. $4 per box: Thin Mints Tagalongs Samoas Do-S-Dos Trefoils Savannah Smiles $5 per box: Toffee Tastic (gluten free) S'Mores 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services OKDHS Foster care & Adoption Informational Meeting February 18, 2017, 12:30 - 1:30 p.m. Dennis R Neil Equality Center 621 E 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Interested in fostering or adopting but don't know much about it? Join us at Dennis R Neil Equality Center for this special event. Oklahoma Department of Human Services recruiters will be there to explain the foster care and adoption process and answer any questions you have. For additional questions about the event please contact: Kim Brooks (918) 581-2557 Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, March 7, 6:30 p.m. Bricktown Brewery 3301 S. Peoria Ave. Tulsa 74105 In March we will be eating at Bricktown Brewery. When you think of Bricktown Brewery we want you to think of locally brewed craft beer and great food. It says so right on our logo and if you can't trust a logo well then America is in worse shape than any of us could have imagined. Beer, pizza, burgers and bacon are part of our DNA. Sure we value good design and we always want to be the friendliest place in town but those things are what industry experts call "intangibles". You can't really put your finger on intangibles but you can write letters to your mother about beer, pizza, burgers and bacon. You can use descriptive, even flowery language like, "mind-bendingly good" or "a hyperrealistic flavor phenomenon". Even though those terms aren't quantifiable, most people will get the idea that you are enthused. To that we can only say, "thank you" because your enthusiasm means the world to us! Seriously. The WORLD. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org If you are coming please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com A Head count is needed the reservation. OKEQ & Workforce Tulsa - Recruitment Event Tuesday, February 21 at 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St.,Tulsa, OK 74120 Need a new job? Need help with your resume? Or want to have better interviewing skills? Join Oklahomas for Equality and Workforce on Wednesday, February 21 from 6 PM to 8 PM here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the recruitment event of the year! Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - - (918) 594-8568 46 years of serving the Tulsa community with excellent early childhood education a mission of Bethany Christian Church Now enrolling children for Fall - 14 months to PreK Core Program 9 am to 2:30 pm with Before and After Care available OPEN HOUSE WEEK February 27 - March 3 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... OL . Tulsa, Oklahoma BET r School, NAEYC Accredited www.bethanycommunityschoo1.org - Find us on Facebook Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ----(918) 594-8568 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 REVERSED AND REMANDED January 18, 2017 REVERSED AND REMANDED Unanimous Decision by the Oklahoma Supreme Court. This decision allows "ANY" adult adoptee a way out of legal adoption and does not apply to under age adoptions. This decision opens the door to others seeking exit of similar "ADULT" adoptions through the Oklahoma courts for whatever reason deemed in the best interest of the "ADULT" adoptee. We wish to thank Attorney Michael C. Redman for a very long battle and for a courageous presentation of the facts and reasons that convinced the courts in this case Congratulations Jared Bruce and Bruce Schultz Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Thank you for removing the impediments that kept many Oklahoma same-sex couples from being able to marry. First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, March 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The March Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Josh New in a show titled "Intimate Viewing", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Josh New's works feature a series of portraits honing-in on people with intimate tattoos. So often tattoos carry with them intensely personal memories, feelings, or mottos that are chosen to be indelibly marked on bodies. They can be to remember a loved one or special event; they can represent a location, a mantra, or an eternal goal. Often these special images and words are hidden from every day view and only glimpsed in moments of extreme vulnerability. These portraits were designed to challenge the subjects to reveal their most intimate symbols, and give the viewer a glimpse of their vulnerability in a moment frozen in time and out of context - for admiration, wonder, or awe by complete strangers. What would normally be reserved for viewing and contemplation by a special few, is laid bare for you in this exhibit. Josh's portraits will show 10-12 models; men and women of various ages and ethnicities are represented - each with photos in color and black and white. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Ladies Social Club: Movie Night Friday, March 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... Non-Binary Support Group Ladies Social Club is doing a movie night for the March event. Let's watch a funny movie and eat snacks! The movie hasn't been decided and suggestions are welcome. We're looking for something "girl power"-related and fun. Follow this event on Facebook Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday Evenings, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 The Council Oak Men's Chorale has begun rehearsals for the 2017 summer concert which will feature songs by Stephen Sondhiem. Anyone interested in singing with the group should attend our next rehearsal at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S Harvard Ave, on Tuesday nights at 7 pm to join in the fun and get to meet a great group of men. We are also preparing for our trip to St Louis to sing with the St. Louis Gateway Men's Chorus at the end of March which is sure to be an experience you won't want to miss. If you love to sing and are thinking about doing something different, then here's your chance to come make a change in our community. Let's make our voice be heard and sing! ~ council oak SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Miss Richfield 1981 Saturday, March 18, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - John H. Williams Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 In her all new show, "2020 Vision," Miss Richfield 1981 offers a survival guide for the new world. With comedic songs, videos, and her unique take on audience participation, Miss Richfield will help calm any post-election panic and provide tools to prevent the apocalypse! Miss Richfield 1981 dedicates her life to the friendly citizens and responsible merchants of her hometown Richfield, MN. Her live performances across the country receive critical acclaim with The New York Post declaring Miss R "the must-see act in Provincetown" and The Chicago Sun-Times describing her as "Garrison Keillor meets Mary Tyler Moore." Miss R's wide appeal includes riotous appearances on "The Tonight Show" & "Today" on NBC, "Cake Boss" on TLC, and "Watch What Happens Live" on Bravo, along with being a national spokesperson for Orbitz and Palm Springs, CA. Each year her schedule of more than 100 shows sell out theaters and nightclubs across the country, including a summer residence at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown, MA, and frequent tours with Atlantis Events cruise ships and resorts. Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 2020 l,)ISION A il..AJI\A.WI'..-:F 1£111:.lfiUL., This event is a benefit for Oklahomans for Equality. Click here for ticket information. 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo March 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for March's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org *Tickets for March Pride Bingo are now available. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Tulsa Metro Softball League TMSL 2017 Spring Season Sundays March 26 - May 21, 2017 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Carl Smith Sports Complex 17120 E. 21st St., Tulsa, OK 74134 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... Hey TMSL members and fans! As the weather begins to warm up, it only means one thing: SOFTBALL SEASON! TMSL 2017 Spring Season is just right around the corner! Season will begin on Sunday, March 26th and will last 9 Sundays until May 21st, exluding Mother's Day and Easter weekends. Game times will be from 12pm-4pm at Carl Smith Sports Complex. Cost is $40/person. Anyone and everyone is welcome to join, so grab your friends and sign up today as we go into our 7th year of laughter, fun, a little bit of competition, and life long friendships! For those of you who are curious about the Gay Softball World Series, 2017 GSWS will be in Portland, OR! The dates are September 3rd to September 10th. If you as a team or player have any questions/interest regarding GSWS, please give us a shout and we will gladly help you! If you have any other questions or inquiries, please do not hestitate to contact us at info@tulsametrosoftball.com . We look forward to seeing you out this year! TMSL Board Registration is open at: htosports.com You can also check out TSML on Facebook Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. OiAD 5/IHDUITON 5/13BYE 5/20 AUSTIN 5/rl @ COLORADO Lambda Al-Anon Group 6/3BYE 6/ID @IAN ANTONIO 6/17 @ IOWA HOME FIELD EAST CENTRAL HIGH SCHOOL 12150 EAST 11TH ST TULSA Oil M12I Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous 2017 Equality Gala Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer Game Night Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs T 'ifilllf/' I u:,,y q, oklahoma ns for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Oklahomans for Equality 2017 Pride Mural project The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and OkEq are excited to announce the 2017 Pride Mural project. The upcoming renovation and subsequent repainting scheduled for fall have offered up a unique opportunity to put our Pride out there for all to see this summer. April and May seem like a pretty good time to do the work. Paintings should be done by May 28th, so that all is all ready for Pride Month kick off on June 2nd with the Rainbow Run. Mural spaces are designated as 12ft tall and 15ft wide and face the existing parking lot. Designs may be created by an individual or group . All materials will be supplied by the artist(s). OkEq is supplying only space, and no remuneration or compensation for the artwork, just the exposure for all of Tulsa to see in the gateway to downtown! If you are interested in this once in a lifetime opportunity please send sketches of your idea to Jose.Vega@okeq.org by March 17, 2017. The chosen concepts will be announced on March 24, 2017 via e-mail and e-news. Work may begin April 1st. OkEq will provide scaffolding for the safety of the artists Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Voting for the People's Choice award will take place in person at the center through May 29th - June 2nd with a suggested donation of $1 for each vote. 70% of all proceeds will go to the winning artist or group. Results to be announced at Pride on June 3rd. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Volunteers of the Month February 2017 Kate & Haden Britton Kate and Haden have been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since September 2016. "We decided to volunteer because we are passionate about supporting the needs of our beautiful and growing LGBTQIA+ and Two-Spirit community. We wanted to meet other passionate activists and friends." Their favorite part of volunteering is being able to meet the best people and when attending events at the center they feel like they are with family. When they are not volunteering, Kate and Haden are activists who show up at any social justice event they are able to attend. Haden likes to long-board, paint, and read. Kate loves to bake, paint, and craft. They also adore their dogs and being an aunt/uncle. They can not name a favorite event, stating "Just when we think we have seen the best, more great events come our way." Kate and Haden absolutely recommend volunteering at the center! They say, "Volunteering is vital and very appreciated. Not only is it a great way to make life-long friends, but you can learn even more about your community and about your potential than you can imagine. Sign up and be part of the team asap!" Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. We thank you for your dedication Kate & Haden! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org February Video eNews Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Equality Center Pride Store The Versailles Masquerade Ball is just around the corner. Get your rainbow masquerade masks for only $10.00 in the Pride Store. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Plus Ones" By: Hank Edwards Each time Paul and Evan meet at another friend's same-sex wedding, they're interested...but the timing is always wrong because one of them is involved with someone new. They try to make do by falling in and out of the beds of several different man as they search for their own Mr. Right, and along the way, they learn new skills, like the secrets to Tantric sex, or the moves required to succeed at lube wrestling. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Yet all through the hot summer months, they flirt and eye each other by the buffet tables and open bars of reception halls crowded with men, even though they never get a chance to take their relationship to the next level. When the summer draws to a close and their two best friends are about to marry, the stars might finally align for Paul and Evan. They might just get to be each others' forever "plus one." Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Stillwater Gender Outreach Group Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org * Group Is open to Individuals who are transgender, non-binary, genderqueer, lntersex, or anyone exploring their gender Identity. Friends, family, and significant others of members are also welcome. * The group will focus on providing support, education, and social Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org opportunities In a safe and affirming space. * Brief interview is required before time and location are given. * If interested. please email jess.white@okstate.edu or 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org FEBRUARY 5 COMPASSIONATE UNDERSTANDING PACE ACADEMY 4620 S IRV NGTO FEBRUARY AVE, TULSA 12 COMPASSIONATE DIALOGUE ANTIOCH BAPTIST CHURCH 110 E 56 FEBRUARY 19 H Sr. N. Tu SA COMPASS ONATE ACTIO 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... A 7 ST All SUPPORT D J P RI SEss·o s AR( BY I HE T L c-u FR TU LSA E AID RUJ 2 PM SAL BRAR - 1 H usr·s AURED E. AROIJSOI SERIES Er ow -Nr. OCCJOK.ORG. CALL 918 -)85-1361. FOR - - ~GRAB YOUR BALLS! ni.nrut _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _~ 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... Corne join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday February 24th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. Small Busine s Lender/Borrower atchmaking & Resource E ent Tulsa" March 9 2017 Th r i •1w clwrg t ir thi • fi'e11t WHO : R ·pr· ·cntativc from l bank . ·crtificd d ·vcloprncnt c mpanic •. and , llernati lend ing . 0 1.111 . , ill b on ha d tom et with e: isti n° and . tan -up bu in . o,; n r I di u fundin g fo: u in Bu ' in 1 ion rnization n 'Cd · Lo multiple lender • ·w HE : Thlir-day, March 9. 017 9:00 a.m. - :0 p.m. SCORE/g 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... THE CANYONS AT BLACKJACK RIDGE 1801 N. MCKINLEY AVE SAND SPRINGS, OK 74063 REGISTRATION IS OPEN! JO TULS IS ROUD TO SPONSO A FRIEND FOR A FRIEND 2713 E 49™ ST. 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Vo lunteers are ee<led for an on l ine st dy o le rn o re abou stressfu l experi e ces in sexual minority mi litary perso el. • T is st dy is fo r indiv id Is w o iden t i fy wit othe r a strict ly heterosexual. • M st • eat least a sex al orie t at io as anyt i ng 8 yea rs of age. o restr ict io s by er a of serv ice or branch of t e military. • Pa rt icipation involves answering a series o f q est ionnai r es app roxi 20 m inutes) t rough o r secu re webs i e. • A ll respo ses will be kept comp letely confi e Ind iv id uals •1 il l receiv a $5 A mazon ately 5- ial. if t card for t h ir particip ation . As some of the questions in this survey ask about sensitive information, such as related to your sexual orientation, please consider whether your environment will allow you privacy before you begin the survey . Please feel free to share this link with others who might be interested . ,s study Is bemg cond ucted rouQ t nc Ur.ivcr s 'Io Tulsa, an Is approved by th e lnst I u1 Ional Rev ew Board. Ouc,;tions' Con1 1 R, h I l\1 icol : , i ol r 1 , 1.,, ii c 1 , or 913· 63 I ·3<J 76 To partici ate please go to the followin_g link: ~ cl< ~ a:l "Sr, ! ::::: l 8 ~ -i,! .e, .i:i ~ ~ j ":-, "' 2' z ~ c!< ! ....... ~ :a Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. --- .,GOLDEN For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 Secret Ink Tattoo 317 S Lynn Riggs blvd Claremore, OK 74017 Recognition 2017 is a global campaign aimed at supporting the LGBT community to give back like no one has ever given before! I, Rich Wallace, owner of Secret Ink Tattoo, believe this community deserves recognition, equality and respect instead of the bullying, criticism, harassment, and ridicule they typically receive because of their lifestyle. This dedication event is intended to bring equality, harmony, peace and awareness within the LGBT community as well as to those who support them. Back in October of 2008, I sponsored a breast cancer awareness event that had over 3,000 would-be participants. I, working alone, was only able to do 477 of the breast cancer ribbon tattoos because the event was only scheduled for 24 hours. This year I sponsored another successful event for all causes, be it breast cancer, PTSD, domestic violence or whatever cause a person chose to represent their ribbon color of choice. Within a week of sponsoring this years' event I was challenged by a friend to do an event like no other, to show my support for a group of people that most others won't go out of their way to support. The LGBT community! Even if people don't have personal issues with the lifestyle or choices of these individuals, they won't openly show their support because they are afraid of the stigma and repercussions of doing so. I am not the type of person that is intimidated by that! Although I myself am not part of the LGBT community, I know and am friends with many people who are and I support their right to live 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... and love however and whomever they choose!!! So I decided in early November to take on this challenge and make it my biggest tattoo marathon event ever. I am asking everyone to help me in this effort by pledging their support in order to make this event FREE for any and all who wish to participate and receive an equality tattoo to show their support at no charge! For more information please visit: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/493868667/recognition-2017 r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 3:34 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/440219bc4c41dc8f545fe42a95e7af39.pdf 9be19660aa9ccda31a6356b5314a75d8 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 23rd, 2017 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-23rd--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews February 23rd, 2017 oklahomans for equality news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA REVERSED AND REMANDED Miss Richfield 1981 Prism I Am Not Your Negro 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters rJ • n:l:M ~ F~ First Thursday Art Opening }7ay.ROll Rental Property I t b ~'YIJ l,l.Jlh ., . Bookkeeping W-2 I Gay Men's Dinner Group Ladies Social Club Bethany Community School Socially Awkward for Social Justice Tulsa Equality Gaming Council Oak Men's Chorale Equality Business Alliance Mixer Tulsa Pride Bingo Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! 2017 Pride Mural project Volunteers of the Month February Video eNews Pride Store Kelly Kirby CPA Rainbow Library Stillwater Gender SUpport Jolt Colorama Lender/Borrower Matchmaking Event Certified Public Accountant I.C.A.O. Coronation X a professional corporation Compassionate Tulsa Jackpot Golf Classic (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 OkEq Board Meeting admin@kkirby.com 7 p.m. Thursday, February 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center www.kkirby.com All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Board Meeting OkEq Art Exhibition IV\,tr-o~uctV\,g T11tbo~e(,lux.: Tne TC,lx. Tner(,lpr:, Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. REVERSED AND REMANDED January 18, 2017 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient 4/24/26, 3:35 PM �OkEq eNews February 23rd, 2017 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-23rd--201... of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. REVERSED AND REMANDED Unanimous Decision by the Oklahoma Supreme Court. This decision allows "ANY" adult adoptee a way out of legal adoption and does not apply to under age adoptions. This decision opens the door to others seeking exit of similar "ADULT" adoptions through the Oklahoma courts for whatever reason deemed in the best interest of the "ADULT" adoptee. We wish to thank Attorney Michael C. Redman for a very long battle and for a courageous presentation of the facts and reasons that convinced the courts in this case Congratulations Jared Bruce and Bruce Schultz Family Ties Thank you for removing the impediments that kept many Oklahoma same-sex couples from being able to marry. Miss Richfield 1981 Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Saturday, March 18, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - John H. Williams Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 In her all new show, "2020 Vision," Miss Richfield 1981 offers a survival guide for the new world. With comedic songs, videos, and her unique take on audience participation, Miss Richfield will help calm any post-election panic and provide tools to prevent the apocalypse! Miss Richfield 1981 dedicates her life to the friendly citizens and responsible merchants of her hometown Richfield, MN. Her live performances across the country receive critical acclaim with The New York Post declaring Miss R "the must-see act in Provincetown" and The Chicago Sun-Times describing her as "Garrison Keillor meets Mary Tyler Moore." Miss R's wide appeal includes riotous appearances on "The Tonight Show" & "Today" on NBC, "Cake Boss" on TLC, and "Watch What Happens Live" on Bravo, along with being a national spokesperson for Orbitz and Palm Springs, CA. Each year her schedule of more than 100 shows sell out theaters and nightclubs across the country, including a summer residence at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown, MA, and frequent tours with Atlantis Events cruise ships and resorts. Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. 2020 UISION A:iilAJI\A..~Fttl ~~lflAH..., This event is a benefit for Oklahomans for Equality. Click here for ticket information. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Prism Friday, February 24, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Keep Coming Back Meditation Group PRISM is a young adult development program and safe space servin g our local Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Community by providing educational, social and positive cultural programs. We welcome 18-26 year old LGBT people from all walks of life and provide regular programming and services to strengthen the community and to bring all of its members together. Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 It is a social group, whose activities include game nights, movie nights, discussion nights, parties, pizza nights, outside trips and more! Activities & Services In addition to providing a safe space, PRISM provides opportunities for development and leadership through a number of different activities. Some of the structured activities include: * Workforce/job skills development * Leadership and life skills activities * Community service projects * Expression/arts-based activities * Drug risk reduction activities * Safe sex and healthy relationship education * OUTreach to new members Contact Jose.vega@okeq.org for more details. I Am Not Your Negro Friday February 24 - Thursday March 2 Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74104 About The Film: In 1979, James Baldwin wrote a letter to his literary agent describing his next project, Remember This House. The book was to be a revolutionary, personal account of the lives and successive assassinations of three of his close friendsMedgar Evers, Malcolm X and Martin Luther King, Jr. At the time of Baldwin's death in 1987, he left be hind only thirty completed pages of his manuscript. Now, in his incendiary new documentary, master filmmaker Raoul Peck envisions the book James Baldwin never finished. The result is a radical, up-to-the-minute examination of race in America, using Baldwin's original words and flood of rich archival material. I Am Not Your Negro is a journey into black history that connects the past of the Civil Rights movement to the present of#BlackLivesMatter. It is a film that questions black representation in Hollywood and beyond. And, ultimately, by confronting the deeper connections between the lives and assassination of these three leaders, Baldwin and Peck have produced a work that challenges the very definition of what America stands for. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. For ticket information click here Do you need assistance with open 4/24/26, 3:35 PM �OkEq eNews February 23rd, 2017 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-23rd--201... 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - Counseling Services Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, March 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The March Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Josh New in a show titled "Intimate Viewing", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Josh New's works feature a series of portraits honing-in on people with intimate tattoos. So often tattoos carry with them intensely personal memories, feelings, or mottos that are chosen to be indelibly marked on bodies. They can be to remember a loved one or special event; they can represent a location, a mantra, or an eternal goal. Often these special images and words are hidden from every day view and only glimpsed in moments of extreme vulnerability. These portraits were designed to challenge the subjects to reveal their most intimate symbols, and give the viewer a glimpse of their vulnerability in a moment frozen in time and out of context - for admiration, wonder, or awe by complete strangers. What would normally be reserved for viewing and contemplation by a special few, is laid bare for you in this exhibit. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Josh's portraits will show 10-12 models; men and women of various ages and ethnicities are represented - each with photos in color and black and white. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, March 7, 6:30 p.m. Bricktown Brewery 3301 S. Peoria Ave. Tulsa 74105 In March we will be eating at Bricktown Brewery. When you think of Bricktown Brewery we want you to think of locally brewed craft beer and great food. It says so right on our logo and if you can't trust a logo well then America is in worse shape than any of us could have imagined. Beer, pizza, burgers and bacon are part of our DNA. Sure we value good design and we always want to be the friendliest place in town but those things are what industry experts call "intangibles". You can't really put your finger on intangibles but you can write letters to your mother about beer, pizza, burgers and bacon. You can use descriptive, even flowery language like, "mind-bendingly good" or "a hyperrealistic flavor phenomenon". Even though those terms aren't quantifiable, most people will get the idea that you are enthused. To that we can only say, "thank you" because your enthusiasm means the world to us! Seriously. The WORLD. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - - (918) 594-8568 If you are coming please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com A Head count is needed the reservation. Ladies Social Club: Movie Night Friday, March 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Ladies Social Club is doing a movie night for the March event. Let's watch a funny movie and eat snacks! The movie hasn't been decided and suggestions are welcome. We're looking for something "girl power"-related and fun. Follow this event on Facebook 46 years of serving the Tulsa community with excellent early childhood education a mission of Bethany Christian Church Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have 4/24/26, 3:35 PM �OkEq eNews February 23rd, 2017 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-23rd--201... tvow enro111ng cn11aren ror ,-a11 - 1q. monrns ro t'rel\ Core Program 9 am to 2:30 pm with Before and After Care available OPEN HOUSE WEEK February 27 - March 3 . Tulsa, Oklahoma r School, NAEYC Accredited www.bethanycommunityschoo .org - Find us on Facebook experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ---(918) 594-8568 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Socially Awkward for Social Justice Saturday, March 11, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St.,k Tulsa, OK 74120 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 For those who have difficulty in large crowds but still want to join the social justice movement, this meet-up hosted by Socially Awkward for Social Justice is for you. Through Facebook live feed they're able to host a rally that you can come to either physically or watch through video and are able to ask questions directly to them through a chat room or private messaging, and for those choosing to come to the rally in person there will be accommodations to make you more comfortable going to this event. The meeting will bring on hosts to talk about current the social justice movement and political events, from the refugee crisis, to education, to Islamophobia, they can help those with autism, social anxiety or physical disabilities on becoming politically and help them register to vote. For more information, please go to their F acebook page Tulsa Equality Gaming Saturday, March 11, 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all gamers! Are you looking for an alternative to the weekend bar scene? Tulsa Equality Gaming is for those who want to socialize and meet new people. This is an inclusive group of LGBTQ individuals and progressive allies who enjoy table-top and/or video games played in a safe-space. Games will range from casual party games to advanced strategy games, bring whatever games you want to play! Beginners are welcome, everyone is happy to show you how to play. For more information or to RSVP contact Alex Wade at alex.wade@okeq.org Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday Evenings, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 The Council Oak Men's Chorale has begun rehearsals for the 2017 summer concert which will feature songs by Stephen Sondhiem. Anyone interested in singing with the group should attend our next rehearsal at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S Harvard Ave, on Tuesday nights at 7 pm to join in the fun and get to meet a great group of men. We are also preparing for our trip to St Louis to sing with the St. Louis Gateway Men's Chorus at the end of March which is sure to be an experience you won't want to miss. If you love to sing and are thinking about doing something different, then here's your chance to come make a change in our community. Let's make our voice be heard and sing! ~ council oak Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday March 15, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Memorial Park Cemetery - Family Center 5111 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74145 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who 4/24/26, 3:35 PM �OkEq eNews February 23rd, 2017 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-23rd--201... E ALITY usiness Alliance identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Located in the rolling foothills of northeast Oklahoma Memorial Park Cemetery has cared for Tulsa's memories since 1927. Memorial Park Cemetery is the tenth largest cemetery in the nation, offering a wide variety of burial options and services. Check out Memorial Park Cemetery online at www.memorialparktulsa.com The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather M morial Park Ccmeter) Caring/or Tulsa's Memorill Since 1927 Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo March 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for March's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org *Tickets for February have sold out, March Pride Bingo tickets are now available. Tulsa Metro Softball League TMSL 2017 Spring Season Sundays March 26 - May 21, 2017 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Carl Smith Sports Complex 17120 E. 21st St., Tulsa, OK 74134 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Hey TMSL members and fans! As the weather begins to warm up, it only means one thing: SOFTBALL SEASON! TMSL 2017 Spring Season is just right around the corner! Season will begin on Sunday, March 26th and will last 9 Sundays until May 21st, exluding Mother's Day and Easter weekends. Game times will be from 12pm-4pm at Carl Smith Sports Complex. Cost is $40/person. Anyone and everyone is welcome to join, so grab your friends and sign up today as we go into our 7th year of laughter, fun, a little bit of competition, and life long friendships! For those of you who are curious about the Gay Softball World Series, 2017 GSWS will be in Portland, OR! The dates are September 3rd to September 10th. If you as a team or player have any questions/interest regarding 4/24/26, 3:35 PM �OkEq eNews February 23rd, 2017 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-23rd--201... GSWS, please give us a shout and we will gladly help you! Tulsa Area Prime Timers If you have any other questions or inquiries, please do not hestitate to contact us at info@tulsametrosoftball.com . We look forward to seeing you out this year! 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 TMSL Board Registration is open at: htosports.com You can also check out TSML on Facebook Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm 4 4 OiADO 5/IHOUITON $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program 5/13BYE Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 5/20AUITIN 5/rl @ COLORADO 6/3BYE 6/IO @BAN ANTDNm 6/17 @10\VA HOME FIELD EAST CENTRAL HIGH SCHOOL 12150 EAST 11TH ST TULSA Oil 74121 Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 2017 Equality Gala Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Game Night Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs q, oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) Oklahomans for Equality 2017 Pride Mural project Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/24/26, 3:35 PM �OkEq eNews February 23rd, 2017 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-23rd--201... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and OkEq are excited to announce the 2017 Pride Mural project. The upcoming renovation and subsequent repainting scheduled for fall have offered up a unique opportunity to put our Pride out there for all to see this summer. April and May seem like a pretty good time to do the work. Paintings should be done by May 28th, so that all is all ready for Pride Month kick off on June 2nd with the Rainbow Run. Mural spaces are designated as 12ft tall and 15ft wide and face the existing parking lot. Designs may be created by an individual or group . All materials will be supplied by the artist(s). OkEq is supplying only space, and no remuneration or compensation for the artwork, just the exposure for all of Tulsa to see in the gateway to downtown! If you are interested in this once in a lifetime opportunity please send sketches of your idea to Jose.Vega@okeq.org by March 17, 2017. The chosen concepts will be announced on March 24, 2017 via e-mail and e-news. Work may begin April 1st. OkEq will provide scaffolding for the safety of the artists Voting for the People's Choice award will take place in person at the center through May 29th - June 2nd with a suggested donation of $1 for each vote. 70% of all proceeds will go to the winning artist or group. Results to be announced at Pride on June 3rd. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Volunteers of the Month February 2017 Kate & Haden Britton Kate and Haden have been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since September 2016. "We decided to volunteer because we are passionate about supporting the needs of our beautiful and growing LGBTQIA+ and Two-Spirit community. We wanted to meet other passionate activists and friends." Their favorite part of volunteering is being able to meet the best people and when attending events at the center they feel like they are with family. When they are not volunteering, Kate and Haden are activists who show up at any social justice event they are able to attend. Haden likes to long-board, paint, and read. Kate loves to bake, paint, and craft. They also adore their dogs and being an aunt/uncle. They can not name a favorite event, stating "Just when we think we have seen the best, more great events come our way." Kate and Haden absolutely recommend volunteering at the center! They say, "Volunteering is vital and very appreciated. Not only is it a great way to make life-long friends, but you can learn even more about your community and about your potential than you can imagine. Sign up and be part of the team asap!" We thank you for your dedication Kate & Haden! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org February Video eNews Equality Center Pride Store Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced 4/24/26, 3:35 PM �OkEq eNews February 23rd, 2017 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-23rd--201... Show your pride with one (or more) of our colorful pride buttons. Available in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store. Prices vary from $1.00 - $3.00 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Gay Power: An American Revolution" By: David Eisenbach The definitive history of how the gay rights movement of the 1960s and 1970s sparked an American revolution that transformed the nation. The explosion of gay visibility in the 1960s brought, for the first time, tens of thousands of lesbians and gay men out of the closets and into headline news around the world. Never before had so many gay people at one moment stepped into the spotlight of mainstream American politics, culture, and entertainment. More than any other city, New York became overnight the center of the new "Gay Power." In Gay Power David Eisenbach chronicles the tumultuous first wave of the modern gay rights movement. From "militant homophiles" and the first-ever gay student group launched at Columbia University in 1966 to the Gay Liberation Front, the Gay Activist Alliance, and other vanguard organizations that emerged from the Stonewall Riots, the author draws on archival material and dozens of first hand accounts from the individuals who built the movement. Unlike their predecessors, this new generation of lesbians and gay men spoke as a community, established political clout with elected officials, appeared openly on television and in the press as gay people, demanded equal rights with heterosexuals, and pioneered protest tactics like the "zap" which later ACT UP employed famously in the 1980s. Gay Power is a complex, politically charged portrait of the birth of the modern gay rights movement. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega 4/24/26, 3:35 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e0385c75032ff222f8667303ded5651f.pdf 30bd2aac19ff5719c6b8e48ffaf57ba6 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 1st, 2017 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-1st--2017.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 1st, 2017 oklahom:ms for equality news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA First Thursday Art Opening Volunteer of the Month March Video eNews Miss Richfield 1981 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters F~ Gay Men's Dinner Group }7ay.ROll Rental Property Bookkeeping I Ladies Social Club Bethany Community School HHS Office for Civil Rights Socially Awkward for Social Justice Tulsa Equality Gaming Reconciliation Sunday Council Oak Men's Chorale Equality Business Alliance Mixer 980 Tulsa Pride Bingo Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala 2017 Pride Mural project Pride Store Rainbow Library Kelly Kirby CPA I Am Not Your Negro REVERSED AND REMANDED Stillwater Gender SUpport Lender/Borrower Matchmaking Event Certified Public Accountant I.C.A.O. Coronation X a professional corporation Compassionate Tulsa Jackpot Golf Classic {918} 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 OkEq Board Meeting admin@kkirby.com 7 p.m. Thursday, February 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center www.kkirby.com All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Board Meeting OkEq Art Exhibition (V\, yoc{ucLV\-g TvtLboc{etAux.: Tvie TtAX. TvteYtA'})kj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, March 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient 4/24/26, 3:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 1st, 2017 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-1st--2017.ht... of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. The March Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Josh New in a show titled "Intimate Viewing", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Josh New's works feature a series of portraits honing-in on people with intimate tattoos. So often tattoos carry with them intensely personal memories, feelings, or mottos that are chosen to be indelibly marked on bodies. They can be to remember a loved one or special event; they can represent a location, a mantra, or an eternal goal. Often these special images and words are hidden from every day view and only glimpsed in moments of extreme vulnerability. These portraits were designed to challenge the subjects to reveal their most intimate symbols, and give the viewer a glimpse of their vulnerability in a moment frozen in time and out of context - for admiration, wonder, or awe by complete strangers. What would normally be reserved for viewing and contemplation by a special few, is laid bare for you in this exhibit. Josh's portraits will show 10-12 models; men and women of various ages and ethnicities are represented - each with photos in color and black and white. Family Ties The show begins with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Volunteers of the Month March 2017 Jonathan Green Jonathan has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since June of 2016. They felt like OKEQ would be a great place to meet people and get non profit experience. Since volunteering they have enjoyed getting to see all the work that goes into the programming offered at Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq). "The staff and volunteers all work really hard to make every program and event a success" Jonathan says. Jonathan has made new friends in their time at OkEq and believes the staff to be wonderful human beings. They would highly recommend volunteering at OkEq to anyone who is looking for a way to support the LGBTQ community. Jonathan states, "for a relatively small commitment, front desk volunteers ensure that the day to day operations of the center run smoothly." Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. One of Jonathan's favorite aspects of OkEq is the monthly show in the gallery. They say "The work shown there varies greatly and I think that is important for a community space. Young artists and seasoned professionals alike get the chance to show their art to an audience outside the typical art scene." When they are not volunteering, they are working on their own art, going to local punk and metal shows, and playing board games with friends. Jonathan is excited to have some of their art shown at OkEq for the first time this April in the Oklahoma Figure Art Alliance group exhibition. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group We thank you for your dedication Jonathan! Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org March Video eNews This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. Miss Richfield 1981 Saturday, March 18, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - John H. Williams Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 In her all new show, "2020 Vision," Miss Richfield 1981 offers a survival guide for the new world. With comedic songs, videos, and her unique take on audience participation, Miss Richfield will help calm any post-election panic and provide tools to prevent the apocalypse! Miss Richfield 1981 dedicates her life to the friendly citizens and responsible merchants of her hometown Richfield, MN. Her live performances across the country receive critical acclaim with The New York Post declaring Miss R "the must-see act in Provincetown" and The Chicago Sun-Times describing her as "Garrison Keillor meets Mary Tyler Moore." Miss R's wide appeal includes riotous appearances on "The Tonight Show" & "Today" on NBC, "Cake Boss" on TLC, and "Watch What Happens Live" on Bravo, along with being a national spokesperson for Orbitz and Palm Springs, CA. Each year her schedule of more than 100 shows sell out theaters and nightclubs across the country, including a summer residence at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown, MA, and frequent tours with Atlantis Events cruise ships and resorts. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator 2020 UISION A;;u:itJIIQ...0....U....Fl.R 1-£.r.l.W-.FL.i Thursdays 1-4 p.m. Do you need assistance with open 4/24/26, 3:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 1st, 2017 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-1st--2017.ht... This event is a benefit for Oklahomans for Equality. Click here for ticket information. 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - Counseling Services Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, March 7, 6:30 p.m. Bricktown Brewery 3301 S. Peoria Ave. Tulsa 74105 In March we will be eating at Bricktown Brewery. When you think of Bricktown Brewery we want you to think of locally brewed craft beer and great food. It says so right on our logo and if you can't trust a logo well then America is in worse shape than any of us could have imagined. Beer, pizza, burgers and bacon are part of our DNA. Sure we value good design and we always want to be the friendliest place in town but those things are what industry experts call "intangibles". You can't really put your finger on intangibles but you can write letters to your mother about beer, pizza, burgers and bacon. You can use descriptive, even flowery language like, "mind-bendingly good" or "a hyperrealistic flavor phenomenon". Even though those terms aren't quantifiable, most people will get the idea that you are enthused. To that we can only say, "thank you" because your enthusiasm means the world to us! Seriously. The WORLD. If you are coming please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com A Head count is needed the reservation. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Ladies Social Club: Movie Night Friday, March 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Ladies Social Club is doing a movie night for the March event. Let's watch a funny movie and eat snacks! The movie hasn't been decided and suggestions are welcome. We're looking for something "girl power"-related and fun. Follow this event on Facebook 46 years of serving the Tulsa community with excellent early childhood education Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - - (918) 594-8568 a mission of Bethany Christian Church Now enrolling children for Fall - 14 months to PreK Core Program 9 am to 2:30 pm with Before and After Care available OPEN HOUSE WEEK February 27 - March 3 OL . Tulsa, Oklahoma r School, NAEYC Accredited Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have 4/24/26, 3:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 1st, 2017 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-1st--2017.ht... experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ----(918) 594-8568 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 HHS Office for Civil Rights Presentation: Know Your Rights for People Living With HIV/AIDS Saturday, March 10, 12:00 - 1:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 You are cordially invited to attend the Protecting the Rights of People Living With HIV/AIDS outreach event hosted by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on March 11, 2017. Eva Lee, Investigator, Office for Civil Rights (OCR), U.S. Department of Health & Human Services (HHS), will be speaking about civil rights and health information privacy laws en forced by OCR to ensure individuals impacted by HIV/AIDS have access to health care and services without discrimination as well as access to and protection of their private health information. The event will also provide resources on how individuals may file a complaint with OCR if they believe their civil rights and/or health information privacy rights have been violated. Socially Awkward for Social Justice • Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Saturday, March 11, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St.,k Tulsa, OK 74120 For those who have difficulty in large crowds but still want to join the social justice movement, this meet-up hosted by Socially Awkward for Social Justice is for you. Through Facebook live feed they're able to host a rally that you can come to either physically or watch through video and are able to ask questions directly to them through a chat room or private messaging, and for those choosing to come to the rally in person there will be accommodations to make you more comfortable going to this event. The meeting will bring on hosts to talk about current the social justice movement and political events, from the refugee crisis, to education, to Islamophobia, they can help those with autism, social anxiety or physical disabilities on becoming politically and help them register to vote. For more information, please go to their F acebook page Tulsa Equality Gaming Saturday, March 11, 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Calling all gamers! Are you looking for an alternative to the weekend bar scene? Tulsa Equality Gaming is for those who want to socialize and meet new people. This is an inclusive group of LGBTQ individuals and progressive allies who enjoy table-top and/or video games played in a safe-space. Games will range from casual party games to advanced strategy games, bring whatever games you want to play! Beginners are welcome, everyone is happy to show you how to play. For more information or to RSVP contact Alex Wade at alex.wade@okeq.org Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who 4/24/26, 3:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 1st, 2017 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-1st--2017.ht... St. Paul' United Methodist Church IL SUNDAY RECO March 5, 2017 9:30AM "What We Wish Our Allies Knew" LGBT Pan I 10:45AM Worship Service and Celebration On Body, One -~~u~~ of All identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday Evenings, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 The Council Oak Men's Chorale has begun rehearsals for the 2017 summer concert which will feature songs by Stephen Sondhiem. Anyone interested in singing with the group should attend our next rehearsal at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S Harvard Ave, on Tuesday nights at 7 pm to join in the fun and get to meet a great group of men. We are also preparing for our trip to St Louis to sing with the St. Louis Gateway Men's Chorus at the end of March which is sure to be an experience you won't want to miss. If you love to sing and are thinking about doing something different, then here's your chance to come make a change in our community. Let's make our voice be heard and sing! Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday March 15, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Memorial Park Cemetery - Family Center 5111 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74145 E UALITY The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Business Alliance SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Located in the rolling foothills of northeast Oklahoma Memorial Park Cemetery has cared for Tulsa's memories since 1927. Memorial Park Cemetery is the tenth largest cemetery in the nation, offering a wide variety of burial options and services. Check out Memorial Park Cemetery online at www.memorialparktulsa.com Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. 4/24/26, 3:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 1st, 2017 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-1st--2017.ht... M morial Park Ccmeter Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo March 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm Join us for March's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. $15 for general admission $5.00 per Session $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org *Tickets for February have sold out, March Pride Bingo tickets are now available. Tulsa Metro Softball League TMSL 2017 Spring Season Sundays March 26 - May 21, 2017 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Carl Smith Sports Complex 17120 E. 21st St., Tulsa, OK 74134 Hey TMSL members and fans! v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. As the weather begins to warm up, it only means one thing: SOFTBALL SEASON! TMSL 2017 Spring Season is just right around the corner! Season will begin on Sunday, March 26th and will last 9 Sundays until May 21st, exluding Mother's Day and Easter weekends. Game times will be from 12pm-4pm at Carl Smith Sports Complex. Cost is $40/person. Anyone and everyone is welcome to join, so grab your friends and sign up today as we go into our 7th year of laughter, fun, a little bit of competition, and life long friendships! For those of you who are curious about the Gay Softball World Series, 2017 GSWS will be in Portland, OR! The dates are September 3rd to September 10th. If you as a team or player have any questions/interest regarding GSWS, please give us a shout and we will gladly help you! If you have any other questions or inquiries, please do not hestitate to contact us at info@tulsametrosoftball.com . We look forward to seeing you out this year! TMSL Board Registration is open at: htosports.com You can also check out TSML on Facebook Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/24/26, 3:36 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6e9fb70ab44d73596b54ea699c9fb199.pdf 39c69a5a331b90967cabbc9b9e4abca4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 oklahom:ms for equality news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA Miss Richfield 1981 Vandalism at the Equality Center 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Ladies Social Club HHS Office for Civil Rights F~ Socially Awkward for Social Justice }7ay.ROll Tulsa Equality Gaming Council Oak Men's Chorale Rental Property Equality Business Alliance Mixer Bookkeeping Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala I Tulsa Pride Bingo Sisters In Song Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule 2017 Pride Mural project 980 Tulsa Metro Softball League Volunteer of the Month March Video eNews Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Pride Store Rainbow Library REVERSED AND REMANDED Stillwater Gender SUpport Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant Lender/Borrower Matchmaking Event Tulsa Mr. Leather I.C.A.O. Coronation X Miss Jolt Jackpot Golf Classic Compassionate Tulsa a professional corporation {918} 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com (V\, OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition yoc{ucLV\-g TvtLboc{etAux.: Tvie TtAX. TvteYtA'})kj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Miss Richfield 1981 Saturday, March 18, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - John H. Williams Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... In her all new show, "2020 Vision," Miss Richfield 1981 offers a survival guide for the new world. With comedic songs, videos, and her unique take on audience participation, Miss Richfield will help calm any post-election panic and provide tools to prevent the apocalypse! Miss Richfield 1981 dedicates her life to the friendly citizens and responsible merchants of her hometown Richfield, MN. Her live performances across the country receive critical acclaim with The New York Post declaring Miss R "the must-see act in Provincetown" and The Chicago Sun-Times describing her as "Garrison Keillor meets Mary Tyler Moore." Miss R's wide appeal includes riotous appearances on "The Tonight Show" & "Today" on NBC, "Cake Boss" on TLC, and "Watch What Happens Live" on Bravo, along with being a national spokesperson for Orbitz and Palm Springs, CA. Each year her schedule of more than 100 shows sell out theaters and nightclubs across the country, including a summer residence at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown, MA, and frequent tours with Atlantis Events cruise ships and resorts. The March Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Josh New in a show titled "Intimate Viewing", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. 2020 1JISION ASI.RIJI\A.~R),c pt_Nl.1,-.R.u This event is a benefit for Oklahomans for Equality. Click here for ticket information. Vandalism at the Equality Center Around 12:30 a.m. Monday morning a white four door pickup pulled up in front of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and fired 13 shots at the windows and front door. Josh New's works feature a series of portraits honing-in on people with intimate tattoos. So often tattoos carry with them intensely personal memories, feelings, or mottos that are chosen to be indelibly marked on bodies. They can be to remember a loved one or special event; they can represent a location, a mantra, or an eternal goal. Often these special images and words are hidden from every day view and only glimpsed in moments of extreme vulnerability. Office Administrator Olivia Cotter discovered the damage to the protective glass on our windows and front door around 8:15 am Monday morning March 6, 2017. The board of directors has chosen to keep the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center open and programming to continue as it does on a regular basis. They have hired an off duty Tulsa Police officer to provide extra security during this time of uncertainty. If you have questions about a program you participate in please call the center helpline and volunteer staff will be able to assist you. (918) 743-4297 We are working closely with Tulsa Police. Captain Cathy Reynolds the LGBTQ liaison with the Tulsa Police Department has made our safety and security a top priority. Family Ties Statement from Geoffrey Brewster, Board President, Oklahomans for Equality "I am sickened, yet not surprised, by the bullet holes that now riddle the front of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. They are the latest reminder of the deep-seated hatred some individuals have towards the LGBTQ community. Oklahomans for Equality condemns every act of hatred and violence perpetrated against any individual or group based upon difference. We are keenly aware after an event such as this, or the Pulse Night Club shooting in Orlando, FL, that sexual orientation and gender identity are not protected classes in current hate crime legislation. Even though hatred of difference is the motivation for such acts, our community is not equally protected under the law. This must change, and we call on our community and our allies to demand it." Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Lawyer in the Library March 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org Ladies Social Club: Movie Night Friday, March 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Ladies Social Club is doing a movie night for the March event. Let's watch a funny movie and eat snacks! The movie hasn't been decided and suggestions are welcome. We're looking for something "girl power"-related and fun. Follow this event on Facebook HHS Office for Civil Rights Presentation: Know Your Rights for People Living With HIV/AIDS Saturday, March 10, 12:00 - 1:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... You are cordially invited to attend the Protecting the Rights of People Living With HIV/AIDS outreach event hosted by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on March 11, 2017. Eva Lee, Investigator, Office for Civil Rights (OCR), U.S. Department of Health & Human Services (HHS), will be speaking about civil rights and health information privacy laws en forced by OCR to ensure individuals impacted by HIV/AIDS have access to health care and services without discrimination as well as access to and protection of their private health information. The event will also provide resources on how individuals may file a complaint with OCR if they believe their civil rights and/or health information privacy rights have been violated. Socially Awkward for Social Justice • Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Saturday, March 11, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St.,k Tulsa, OK 74120 For those who have difficulty in large crowds but still want to join the social justice movement, this meet-up hosted by Socially Awkward for Social Justice is for you. Through Facebook live feed they're able to host a rally that you can come to either physically or watch through video and are able to ask questions directly to them through a chat room or private messaging, and for those choosing to come to the rally in person there will be accommodations to make you more comfortable going to this event. The meeting will bring on hosts to talk about current the social justice movement and political events, from the refugee crisis, to education, to Islamophobia, they can help those with autism, social anxiety or physical disabilities on becoming politically and help them register to vote. For more information, please go to their F acebook page Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org -- · - - Counseling Services Tulsa Equality Gaming Saturday, March 11, 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all gamers! Are you looking for an alternative to the weekend bar scene? Tulsa Equality Gaming is for those who want to socialize and meet new people. This is an inclusive group of LGBTQ individuals and progressive allies who enjoy table-top and/or video games played in a safe-space. Games will range from casual party games to advanced strategy games, bring whatever games you want to play! Beginners are welcome, everyone is happy to show you how to play. Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. For more information or to RSVP contact Alex Wade at alex.wade@okeq.org Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday Evenings, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 Dr. Kurt Choate The Council Oak Men's Chorale has begun rehearsals for the 2017 summer concert which will feature songs by Stephen Sondhiem. Anyone interested in singing with the group should attend our next rehearsal at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S Harvard Ave, on Tuesday nights at 7 pm to join in the fun and get to meet a great group of men. We are also preparing for our trip to St Louis to sing with the St. Louis Gateway Men's Chorus at the end of March which is sure to be an experience you won't want to miss. If you love to sing and are thinking about doing something different, then here's your chance to come make a change in our community. Let's make our voice be heard and sing! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday March 15, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Memorial Park Cemetery - Family Center 5111 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74145 E UALITY Business Alliance Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - - (918) 594-8568 Located in the rolling foothills of northeast Oklahoma Memorial Park Cemetery has cared for Tulsa's memories since 1927. Memorial Park Cemetery is the tenth largest cemetery in the nation, offering a wide variety of burial options and services. Check out Memorial Park Cemetery online at www.memorialparktulsa.com Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 M morial Park C m ter Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu -----(918) 594-8568 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo March 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for March's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org *Tickets for February have sold out, March Pride Bingo tickets are now available. Sisters In Song present: Romance & Chocolates 2017 - "How Deep Is Your Love?" Saturday, March 25, 2017, 6:00 p.m. Eastside Christian Church Fellowship Hall 1438 S. Indianapolis Tulsa OK 74112 6:00 PM Hor D'oerves and wine with social mingling 6:45 PM Dinner with wine and Concert featuring 70's music $30/person Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 2017 Equality Gala Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs (t Oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group 4 Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com 4/ AU 4/29 COLORAD 5/6 HOUSTON 5/13 BYE 5/20 AUSTIN 5/rl @ COLORADO 6/3 BYE 6/ID SAN ANTDNm 6/l7 @IOWA SOS Group HOME FIELD EAST CENTRAL HIGH SCHOOL 12150 EAST 11TH ST TULSA Oil 14128 Oklahomans for Equality 2017 Pride Mural project The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and OkEq are excited to announce the 2017 Pride Mural project. The upcoming renovation and subsequent repainting scheduled for fall have offered up a unique opportunity to put our Pride out there for all to see this summer. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather April and May seem like a pretty good time to do the work. Paintings should be done by May 28th, so that all is all ready for Pride Month kick off on June 2nd with the Rainbow Run. Mural spaces are designated as 12ft tall and 15ft wide and face the existing parking lot. Designs may be created by an individual or group . All materials will be supplied by the artist(s). OkEq is supplying only space, and no remuneration or compensation for the artwork, just the exposure for all of Tulsa to see in the gateway to downtown! If you are interested in this once in a lifetime opportunity please send sketches of your idea to Jose.Vega@okeq.org by March 17, 2017. The chosen concepts will be announced on March 24, 2017 via e-mail and e-news. Work may begin April 1st. OkEq will provide scaffolding for the safety of the artists Voting for the People's Choice award will take place in person at the center through May 29th - June 2nd with a suggested donation of $1 for each vote. 70% of all proceeds will go to the winning artist or group. Results to be announced at Pride on June 3rd. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. UAL· 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... Tulsa Metro Softball League SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) TMSL 2017 Spring Season Sundays March 26 - May 21, 2017 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Carl Smith Sports Complex 17120 E. 21st St., Tulsa, OK 74134 Hey TMSL members and fans! As the weather begins to warm up, it only means one thing: SOFTBALL SEASON! TMSL 2017 Spring Season is just right around the corner! Season will begin on Sunday, March 26th and will last 9 Sundays until May 21st, exluding Mother's Day and Easter weekends. Game times will be from 12pm-4pm at Carl Smith Sports Complex. Cost is $40/person. Anyone and everyone is welcome to join, so grab your friends and sign up today as we go into our 7th year of laughter, fun, a little bit of competition, and life long friendships! For those of you who are curious about the Gay Softball World Series, 2017 GSWS will be in Portland, OR! The dates are September 3rd to September 10th. If you as a team or player have any questions/interest regarding GSWS, please give us a shout and we will gladly help you! Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ If you have any other questions or inquiries, please do not hestitate to contact us at info@tulsametrosoftball.com . We look forward to seeing you out this year! TMSL Board Tulsa Area Prime Timers Registration is open at: htosports.com You can also check out TSML on Facebook Volunteers of the Month March 2017 Jonathan Green Jonathan has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since June of 2016. They felt like OKEQ would be a great place to meet people and get non profit experience. Since volunteering they have enjoyed getting to see all the work that goes into the programming offered at Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq). "The staff and volunteers all work really hard to make every program and event a success" Jonathan says. Jonathan has made new friends in their time at OkEq and believes the staff to be wonderful human beings. They would highly recommend volunteering at OkEq to anyone who is looking for a way to support the LGBTQ community. Jonathan states, "for a relatively small commitment, front desk volunteers ensure that the day to day operations of the center run smoothly." 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach One of Jonathan's favorite aspects of OkEq is the monthly show in the gallery. They say "The work shown there varies greatly and I think that is important for a community space. Young artists and seasoned professionals alike get the chance to show their art to an audience outside the typical art scene." When they are not volunteering, they are working on their own art, going to local punk and metal shows, and playing board games with friends. Jonathan is excited to have some of their art shown at OkEq for the first time this April in the Oklahoma Figure Art Alliance group exhibition. We thank you for your dedication Jonathan! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org March Video eNews $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Equality Center Pride Store Show your pride with one (or more) of our colorful pride buttons. Available in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store. Prices vary from $1.00 - $3.00 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Eyes Right!: Challenging the Right Wing Backlash" By: Chip Berlet Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The urgent essays in Eyes Right! show how to counter right-wing corporate, religious and political agendas, and defend democracy and diversity. With chapters covering attacks on immigrants, gay men and lesbians, people of color, environmentalists, artists, and educators, this anthology shows how disparate groups are linked by the overarching anti-democratic objectives of the right-wing offensive. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . REVERSED AND REMANDED January 18, 2017 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. REVERSED AND REMANDED Unanimous Decision by the Oklahoma Supreme Court. This decision allows "ANY" adult adoptee a way out of legal adoption and does not apply to under age adoptions. This decision opens the door to others seeking exit of similar "ADULT" adoptions through the Oklahoma courts for whatever reason deemed in the best interest of the "ADULT" adoptee. We wish to thank Attorney Michael C. Redman for a very long battle and for a courageous presentation of the facts and reasons that convinced the courts in this case Congratulations Jared Bruce and Bruce Schultz Thank you for removing the impediments that kept many Oklahoma same-sex couples from being able to marry. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Support group meeting once a week starting January 2017 for adu ts in the Stillwater, 0 lahoma State, and surrounding community H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. genderqueer, 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. Small Busine s ender/Borro\-\ er Matchmaking & Resource E ent 1 All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Tu~ a" March 9 2017 Th r i1· ,w cfwrg cir thi • ei-e11t WHO : R ·pr · · ·ntativc from I btmk . • ·rtificd d ·vclopmcnt c mpanic •. and allernati .o will b on hand to m et withe: i. ti ng and . tan -up bu in . o di unding fo : Bu ·in an ion dcrriiz tti n ·uuc an MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ntr p, n ·eds Lo multiple lender in sch ·<luted. one-on-one 15 • WHE : Thur ·day, March 9. 017 9:00 a .m. - Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org :0 p.m. ·am u , Trainin Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 9 of 12 "'-._ https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... .,...,, SntoJ/ •u•bt•JI 11.u...,r<• __/ "'---------Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... Please join The College of Monarchs, Board of Directors and Membership of The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma for Hotel Information Renaissance Hotel and Convention Center 6808 S. 107th E. Ave Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 (918) 307-2600 or (918) 307-4033 Please call for reservations and ask for Imperial Court of All Oklahoma's Room Block (Ends March 10th) $99.00 per night Ticket Information Early Bird Weekend Package (Ends March 30, 2017) - $90 Weekend Package (after March 30, 2017) - $100 Friday Night, Out of Town Show (and Bar Crawl) - $25 Saturday Night, Coronation Ceremony (includes Plated Dinner) - $50 Sunday Morning, Victory Brunch -$25 Vist the ICAO Website Webstore to purchase tickets - http://www.impcourtok.org/apps/webstore/ Program Advertising Ad Deadline is Friday, March 3, 2017 Send in JPG or PDF format lndside F~nt Cover (Color Only) $125 Inside Back Cover (Color Only) S125 Full Page ln1ide (B & W Only) $100 >WI P,ge I n - (8 & W Only) $75 for complete details and Ad forms visit our website - http://www.impcourtok.org/program-ad-information Complete Coronation X Information can be found on our Facebook ICAO Coronation Page and on our ICAO Website (www.impcourtok.com) 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... armor THE CANYONS AT BLACKJACK RIDGE 1801 N. 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Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE~ Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. --- foOLDEN For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, :C·):tSH Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/24/26, 3:40 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/bae9ae2b09a33deda7f4edfd7a5aa6c1.pdf 2feeb9a175dcfd32819cdb5dc7a46734 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 16th, 2017 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-16th--2017.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 16th, 2017 okl.ihom:ms for equ.ility news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA Mark Linholm & Kenneth Joslin Sponsor the Day Miss Richfield 1981 Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Tulsa Pride Bingo F ~ J'ay1toii Rental Property Bookkeep1n9 r 980 Sisters In Song Volunteer of the Month Cityscape Mortgage 2017 Turn About Show Guys Dine Too First Thursday Art Opening. 2017 Pride Mural project Equality Business Alliance Mixer Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Tulsa Metro Softball League March Video eNews Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Pride Store Rainbow Library REVERSED AND REMANDED Stillwater Gender SUpport Tulsa Mr. Leather Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant I.C.A.O. Monarch X Elections I.C.A.O. Coronation X Miss Jolt Jackpot Golf Classic Compassionate Tulsa a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com IV\- All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition r-o~ue,LV\,g Tl1Lbo~eaux: Tl1e Tax Tl1ev-apkj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Mark Linholm & Kenneth Joslin Sponsor the Day March 19, 2017 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 16th, 2017 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-16th--2017.... The March Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Josh New in a show titled "Intimate Viewing", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Mark and Kenneth are sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on March 19 in honor of their 5th wedding anniversary and nearly 20 years as a couple. Congratulations Mark & Kenneth! Josh New's works feature a series of portraits honing-in on people with intimate tattoos. So often tattoos carry with them intensely personal memories, feelings, or mottos that are chosen to be indelibly marked on bodies. They can be to remember a loved one or special event; they can represent a location, a mantra, or an eternal goal. Often these special images and words are hidden from every day view and only glimpsed in moments of extreme vulnerability. If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, coming out date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because Kenneth Joslin and Mark Linholm pictured with their daughter Audrey Linholm in Times Square on their wedding day. Miss Richfield 1981 Saturday, March 18, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - John H. Williams Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 In her all new show, "2020 Vision," Miss Richfield 1981 offers a survival guide for the new world. With comedic songs, videos, and her unique take on audience participation, Miss Richfield will help calm any post-election panic and provide tools to prevent the apocalypse! Miss Richfield 1981 dedicates her life to the friendly citizens and responsible merchants of her hometown Richfield, MN. Her live performances across the country receive critical acclaim with The New York Post declaring Miss R "the must-see act in Provincetown" and The Chicago Sun-Times describing her as "Garrison Keillor meets Mary Tyler Moore." Miss R's wide appeal includes riotous appearances on "The Tonight Show" & "Today" on NBC, "Cake Boss" on TLC, and "Watch What Happens Live" on Bravo, along with being a national spokesperson for Orbitz and Palm Springs, CA. Each year her schedule of more than 100 shows sell out theaters and nightclubs across the country, including a summer residence at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown, MA, and frequent tours with Atlantis Events cruise ships and resorts. Family Ties 2020 UISION R u1Jil,A. ~ FCR 0£ l£W \01.D This event is a benefit for Oklahomans for Equality. Click here for ticket information. 2017 Equality Gala Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer Lawyer in the Library March 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs ~ oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 16th, 2017 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-16th--2017.... Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo March 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for March's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. $15 for general admission Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org *Tickets for March bingo have sold out. Then next Pride Bingo will be April 15. Sisters In Song present: Romance & Chocolates 2017 - "How Deep Is Your Love?" Saturday, March 25, 2017, 6:00 p.m. Eastside Christian Church Fellowship Hall 1438 S. Indianapolis Tulsa OK 74112 By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services 6:00 PM Hor D'oerves and wine with social mingling 6:45 PM Dinner with wine and Concert featuring 70's music $30/person Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Come join us for an great evening of 70's music, including the Bee Gees, Queen, Joe Cocker, Pat Benetar and others. Tickets are $30/person and include wine, gnoshies, dinner with wine, and chocolates and champagne for desert in addition to the concert. There will also be raffle tickets available for a Samsung 55" 4K UHD Smart TV, a XBox 1 with a game and controller and a $30 Best Buy gift card. Please contact 918-630-9794 for tickets or more information. Just remember, seating is limited and you sure don't want to miss out on a fantastic time!!!! Volunteer of the Month March 2017 Jonathan Green Jonathan has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since June of 2016. They felt like OKEQ would be a great place to meet people and get non profit experience. Since volunteering they have enjoyed getting to see all the work that goes into the programming offered at Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq). "The staff and volunteers all work really hard to make every program and event a success" Jonathan says. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jonathan has made new friends in their time at OkEq and believes the staff to be wonderful human beings. They would highly recommend volunteering at OkEq to anyone who is looking for a way to support the LGBTQ community. Jonathan states, "for a relatively small commitment, front desk volunteers ensure that the day to day operations of the center run smoothly." One of Jonathan's favorite aspects of OkEq is the monthly show in the gallery. They say "The work shown there varies greatly and I think that is important for a community space. Young artists and seasoned professionals alike get the chance to show their art to an audience outside the typical art scene." When they are not volunteering, they are working on their own art, going to local punk and metal shows, and playing board games with friends. Jonathan is excited to have some of their art shown at OkEq for the first time this April in the Oklahoma Figure Art Alliance group exhibition. We thank you for your dedication Jonathan! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 16th, 2017 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-16th--2017.... Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 - ·" .•, -. ··-;:..:,v•if' ' \:.:, . .• ' ~ \ ~ ~ · Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 16th, 2017 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-16th--2017.... Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Guys Dine Too Tuesday April 4, 6:30 p.m. Burn Co. Barbeque 1738 S. Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74119 Cost of the dinner will be around $25-$30. This will include your dinner, dessert and drink. Alcohol and Beer are not included in this price but the bar will be open. Adam at BurnCo BBQ is opening the doors of his restaurant just for our group. So everyone please be sure to thank him and his employees for their time and great food. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. If you are coming please RSVP. I need a headcount for the reservation. We have always loved cooking and enjoyed the primal fulfillment of doing it over wood fire. Adam Myers experience at Tulsa based Hasty Bake Charcoal Grills, combined with Robby Corcoran's decade plus experience in the restaurant industry comes together to create a truly distinctive flavor. After successful endeavors as caterers, Burn Co BBQ was launched in January of 2011. Utilizing utilitarian décor and amenities, Burn Co focuses on the food, crafting a " one of a kind", Backyard BBQ Flavor. We cut our coleslaw by hand, trim and smoke our meats daily, and relish the finest bits and pieces of all meats. We offer local products when possible, and are always trying to figure out how to shock and wow our customers with exclusive specials. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0e0b73603e572cfd3cf572cec7e4505d.pdf b9c6620ad7340059b7b3c7c9a43b2a5a PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 4th, 2017 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-4th--2017.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e First Thursday Art Opening January 4th, 2017 oklahomans for equality news In This Issue First Thursday Art Opening Tulsa Pride Bingo Volunteer of the Month January Video eNews People to Watch: Jose Vega Oklahoma Wedding Show Thursday January 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neil Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Women's March on Oklahoma The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Behnaz Sohrabian beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 5th and continuing throughout the month. Born and educated in Tehran, Iran, Behnaz Sohrabian started painting as a small child of 10 and continued her passion professionally from then on. She received a BS in Applied Chemistry, a BA in Painting and a Master of Arts in Art Studies. After receiving her master's degree, she immigrated to Oklahoma to be near family. Speaking about her work, Behnaz comments, "My work is about me, my life, being a woman and the struggles that women still face in this era. I paint women as people- strong people with depth and power. I paint them as delicate and sensitive-- but not weak." With her love for art, Behnaz hopes her work can inspire the array of objectified women around the globe. Behnaz has been a recognizable presence at several art exhibitions around the globe. Her works has been displayed locally, nationally and internationally; she has been lauded with awards. In closing, she says, "My aim is just to paint simply, apply easy brush stokes, emphasize on light and shadow, and the dynamics between the subject and background". Women's Self Defense Training Men's Self Defense Training Advocacy Training Day The Versailles Masquerade Ball Pride Store Rainbow Library Compassionate Tulsa Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 I.C.A.O. Fetish Ball The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 12 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo January 14, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Art Exhibition Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 T able for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Volunteer of the Month January 2017 Steve Luper The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Dr. Adrian Sturdevant beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 1st from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Dr. Adrian Sturdevant lives and practices in Fayetteville, Arkansas. He began painting approximately 6 years ago and although mostly self-taught, his art has developed and flourished through mentoring by several established studio artists. Adrian's work is primarily in oil on canvas and board; he has exhibited his paintings in solo and group exhibitions throughout the region. Steve began volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Sept 2015. He needed a volunteer job for a scholarship that he receives from the Cherokee Nation. He chose to apply at OKEQ because he wanted to work closer to the LGBTQ+ community after coming out. Steve likes helping people when he can but thinks he's most grateful for the people he meets and the friends he has made. He says "I think the Equality Center has changed me for the better and I'd probably be a whole different person right now if I hadn't discovered it." When Steve is not volunteering he is a film major at the University of Tulsa with a minor in creative writing and women and gender studies. He states " I've recently made a package on Standing Rock that was featured on the campus' new program TUTV. I'm also in the Alliance Française de Tulsa." Family Ties Steve says he is i ntensely grateful for the Gender Outreach programs at the center. "I've never come away 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 4th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-4th--2017.... from something feeling as self-affirmed as I have when I've been able to go to some of the meetings." Steve would definitely recommend volunteering at the Equality Center. "Maybe you just want to be closer to the LGBTQ+ community - this is perfect you. When I started volunteering I was in a real tough place and the overwhelming feeling of being alone followed me around everyday. Coming to the center has helped me learn self-acceptance and has given me more strength. I've learned lessons in perseverance from the people I've met. At the center, no one is going to try and dissect you or intrude unless you want to share, you're free to be yourself as quietly or as loudly as you want. In Oklahoma, places like this are hard to find." We thank you for your passion Steve! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org January Video eNews Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Jose Vega Named One of Tulsa World's People to Watch Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 In videos on the Oklahomans for Equality website, Jose Vega spends three minutes explaining the nonprofit's monthly events and tidbits like the biography of its gallery's featured artist. Each month, Vega has fun with the videos. He was zombie hunting in October and doing a mannequin challenge in November. He has become a familiar face through his video vignettes. Since becoming program director at the Equality Center about a year ago, the 24year-old has upped the visibility of the nonprofit through trendy media posts. Previously, most information was circulated in a weekly email. "Nowadays, people love Facebook, Instagram and videos. I knew we needed to move in that direction with more video and social media," Vega said. Vega plays several roles in his job including directing next year's 35th Pride Parade in Tulsa. He stresses that the Equality Center is a home for all people. "We respect everyone. ... I want to take part in every aspect of equality." Vega, a first-generation Mexican American, is a 2010 graduate of Webster High School. His father arrived in the U.S. without authorization and was later granted a legal avenue to become a resident. The experience of being a child of an undocumented immigrant shaped him. Vega sits on the Greater Tulsa Area Hispanic Affairs Commission and supports Dream Act Oklahoma, which seeks immigration reform starting with the creation of a path to legal residency for undocumented adults brought into the country as children. Among his passions is coordinating the Tulsa Mayor's Youth Council. It places a high school student as a liaison for each of the city's commissions and introduces youth to public affairs. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Vega participated in the council as a high school senior and advocated to reinstate the program after it was disbanded by a previous group of city councilors. He has been leading it since it was revived two years ago. "They are next in the future for Tulsa. They will, hopefully, stay here and make our city better," he said. Ginnie Graham 918-581-8376 ginnie.graham@tulsaworld.com Twitter: @GinnieGraham http://m.tulsaworld.com/news/local/people-to-watch-jose-vega-a-strong-voice-for-equality/article_6e5724b1-a760-573b-8995abb91b650a73.html?mode=jqm Oklahoma Wedding Show Saturday, January 14, 2017, 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Expo Square Central Park Hall 1701 S. Sandusky Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 LOVE IN BLOOM Each couple shares a distinctive story. At the Oklahoma Wedding Show, couples can find the vendors and wedding experts that can help make the big day a truly unique experience. Make sure to stop by the Oklahomans for Equality booth during the show. For more details check out Oklahoma Magazine online. Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 4th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-4th--2017.... ._,,,,, to find an available time to see you. The OKLAHOMA EDDING - -- SHOW Saturday JANUARY 14 10AM TO 4 PM Expo Square • Central Park Hall • Tulsa Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday January 18, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Hosted by Hyatt regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu ---(918) 594-8568 E UALITY Business Alliance The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of Oklahoma's vibrant business, entertainment and cultural districts. The downtown Tulsa hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, the luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and over 51 restaurants and bars. Please be advised we will only validate self-parking in the attached garage. HYATT For more information on rooms, rates and amenities click here or follow the event on Facebook. REGENCY. Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ----(918) 594-8568 Women's March on Oklahoma Saturday, January 21, 10:00 a.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73105 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 4th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-4th--2017.... Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 The Women's March is a national movement to unify and empower everyone who stands for human rights, civil liberties, and social justice for all. We gather in community to find healing and strength through tolerance, civility, and compassion. We welcome all people to join us as we unite locally and nationally. Join us on January 21st as we march in solidarity with our sister marches around the globe. To register and/or donate to the event, please visit either Eventbrite or Meetup at the links below. Eventbrite Meetup Please let us know how you can help by filling out the volunteer intake form. Thank you for your support! First Week of Women's Self Defense Training Tuesday, January 23, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Registration is open for the next free women's 7 week self-defense training session. This training will be held at Oklahomans For Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 and requires a commitment to all 7 classes, this allows time to build muscle memory so that you can effectively use these life saving self-defense skills. Classes will be every other Monday starting at 7pm. Trans-women are welcome! Warrior Sisters is a non profit organization created by women for women. We teach real world self-defense skills emphasizing awareness, verbal and physical techniques. This training is open to women and girls and we ask that if you bring young girls that they are old enough to participate or entertain themselves without becoming a distraction to the group. For more information or to register for class please contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org First Week of Men's Self Defense Training Thursday, January 26, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Registration is open for the next free Men's 7 week self-defense training session. This training will be held at Oklahomans For Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 and requires a commitment to all 7 classes, this allows time to build muscle memory so that you can effectively use these life saving self-defense skills. Classes will be every other Thursday starting at 7:30pm. Trans-men are welcome! For more information or to register for class please contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org Advocacy Training Day Saturday, January 28, 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Highland Hall 1102 E Warner Ave, Guthrie, OK 73044 This training is for members and allies of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community and is sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, PFLAG Oklahoma and Freedom Oklahoma. Objectives: 1. To provide an opportunity for statewide advocates to meet one another, form strong advocacy networks, and to become better informed about how to be an effective advocate on behalf of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community/families/friends 2. To inform audience about expected legislation during the 2017 Oklahoma Legislative session (begins Monday, February 6th) 3. To inform audience about legislative "mechanics" 4. To discuss effective advocacy strategies (as well as ineffective strategies) to influence Oklahoma legislators (these strategies can be applied to any advocacy work including local level (city council, school boards), state level (legislature), or national level (Congressional delegation) Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 No cost; however, need to make reservation due to limited space. Email name/phone number to kayholladay@cox.net . The Versailles Masquerade Ball Saturday, February 11, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 1t);(/1-{ea,ts &(( Presents Non-Binary Support Group 7he Versajffes MAS UERADE Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 4th, 2017 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-4th--2017.... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Center Pride Store New Oklahomans for Equality hoodies only $35.00 Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Neferet's Curse" By: P.C. Cast & Kristin Cast The White City, 1893: In turn-of-the-century Chicago, with the World's Fair bringing bustle and excitement to her home city, sixteen-year-old Emily Wheiler should be reveling in her youthful beauty and the excitement around her. But her whole life changed when her mother died, leaving her to be the Lady of Wheiler House. Her father, a powerful bank president, is at the center of an important social hub for the booming young city, and he needs Emily to do everything her mother would have - to be a good hostess and make sure the mansion runs smoothly. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) As Emily uneasily tries to replace her mother, she also longs for more... for love and a life of her own. When a handsome young man notices her at one of her father's parties, it seems that her hopes may finally be coming true. Until her father forbids her to see him - or any other man - and starts revealing a darkly violent side that even he can't understand. At last, afraid for her life and with nowhere to turn, Emily is Marked by a vampyre and brought to the Chicago House of Night, where she begins a magickal new life that should allow the wounds from her past to heal. But as she gains strength, and a powerful new name, she carries a dark need to wreak vengeance on the man she trusted most. II Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 Secret Ink Tattoo 317 S Lynn Riggs blvd Claremore, OK 74017 'u/J Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan -. .,GOLDEN Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 4th, 2017 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-4th--2017.... Recognition 2017 is a global campaign aimed at supporting the LGBT community to give back like no one has ever given before! I, Rich Wallace, owner of Secret Ink Tattoo, believe this community deserves recognition, equality and respect instead of the bullying, criticism, harassment, and ridicule they typically receive because of their lifestyle. This dedication event is intended to bring equality, harmony, peace and awareness within the LGBT community as well as to those who support them. Back in October of 2008, I sponsored a breast cancer awareness event that had over 3,000 would-be participants. I, working alone, was only able to do 477 of the breast cancer ribbon tattoos because the event was only scheduled for 24 hours. This year I sponsored another successful event for all causes, be it breast cancer, PTSD, domestic violence or whatever cause a person chose to represent their ribbon color of choice. Within a week of sponsoring this years' event I was challenged by a friend to do an event like no other, to show my support for a group of people that most others won't go out of their way to support. The LGBT community! Even if people don't have personal issues with the lifestyle or choices of these individuals, they won't openly show their support because they are afraid of the stigma and repercussions of doing so. I am not the type of person that is intimidated by that! Although I myself am not part of the LGBT community, I know and am friends with many people who are and I support their right to live and love however and whomever they choose!!! So I decided in early November to take on this challenge and make it my biggest tattoo marathon event ever. I am asking everyone to help me in this effort by pledging their support in order to make this event FREE for any and all who wish to participate and receive an equality tattoo to show their support at no charge! more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session For more information please visit: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/493868667/recognition-2017 v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Hosted by ICP Roxxie Ray Starr ICP Trev or Darlin Ray Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Come one come all. Bring your favorite k:ink: and join us for a night of fun. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 4th, 2017 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-4th--2017.... V Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 4th, 2017 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-4th--2017.... A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 4th, 2017 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-4th--2017.... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 3:20 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/34ff05b069029f0c98c5796742b72aae.pdf a04ced639d24cd56738dfb2e088b7c48 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 okl.ihom:ms for equ.ility news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala 2017 Turn About Show Family Ties 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Volunteer of the Month Cityscape Mortgage F ~ J'ay1toii Rental Property Bookkeep1n9 r 980 Guys Dine Too First Thursday Art Opening. Suzanne Westenhoefer Comedy Show Fundraiser Tulsa Pride Bingo Equality Business Alliance Mixer Grateful Day Spaghetti Dinner & Awards - Banquet A Very Sordid Wedding Emma's Revolution Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Tulsa Metro Softball League Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Pride Store Rainbow Library REVERSED AND REMANDED Stillwater Gender SUpport Kelly Kirby CPA I.C.A.O. Coronation X Miss Jolt Jackpot Golf Classic Compassionate Tulsa Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition www.kkirby.com IV\- r-o~ue,LV\,g Tl1Lbo~eaux: Tl1e Tax Tl1ev-apkj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 2017 Equality Gala Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... The March Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Josh New in a show titled "Intimate Viewing", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer Josh New's works feature a series of portraits honing-in on people with intimate tattoos. So often tattoos carry with them intensely personal memories, feelings, or mottos that are chosen to be indelibly marked on bodies. They can be to remember a loved one or special event; they can represent a location, a mantra, or an eternal goal. Often these special images and words are hidden from every day view and only glimpsed in moments of extreme vulnerability. Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs Q. oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library March 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or -mary.jones@ppheartland.org -- - - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Family Ties Sunday April 2, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Family Ties, formerly known as Gamily, is a group of, and for, LGBTA families with minor children in the Tulsa area and those who support them. There will be a planning meeting on April 2 at 2:00 at the Dennis R. Neil Equality Center. All LGBTA parents and guardians raising children, and those who fill the roles as parents, are encouraged to attend this meeting to help plan activities for LGBTA families. Potential activities include community outings, such as zoo, aquarium, sports (Drillers, Oilers), picnics, movie nights, game nights, play dates, etc. For more information or to RSVP please contact Andrew McClain at andy@grimesco.net Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - - (918) 594-8568 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org Volunteer of the Month March 2017 Jonathan Green Jonathan has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since June of 2016. They felt like OKEQ would be a great place to meet people and get non profit experience. Since volunteering they have enjoyed getting to see all the work that goes into the programming offered at Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq). "The staff and volunteers all work really hard to make every program and event a success" Jonathan says. Jonathan has made new friends in their time at OkEq and believes the staff to be wonderful human beings. They would highly recommend volunteering at OkEq to anyone who is looking for a way to support the LGBTQ community. Jonathan states, "for a relatively small commitment, front desk volunteers ensure that the day to day operations of the center run smoothly." One of Jonathan's favorite aspects of OkEq is the monthly show in the gallery. They say "The work shown there varies greatly and I think that is important for a community space. Young artists and seasoned professionals alike get the chance to show their art to an audience outside the typical art scene." When they are not volunteering, they are working on their own art, going to local punk and metal shows, and playing board games with friends. Jonathan is excited to have some of their art shown at OkEq for the first time this April in the Oklahoma Figure Art Alliance group exhibition. We thank you for your dedication Jonathan! Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 .:· •.-- .-.;;.' , ,,, :-v:.,t,;· . . • \:.:, \ ~ . ~ - Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Guys Dine Too Tuesday April 4, 6:30 p.m. Burn Co. Barbeque 1738 S. Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74119 Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... Cost of the dinner will be around $25-$30. This will include your dinner, dessert and drink. Alcohol and Beer are not included in this price but the bar will be open. Adam at BurnCo BBQ is opening the doors of his restaurant just for our group. So everyone please be sure to thank him and his employees for their time and great food. If you are coming please RSVP. I need a headcount for the reservation. Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 We have always loved cooking and enjoyed the primal fulfillment of doing it over wood fire. Adam Myers experience at Tulsa based Hasty Bake Charcoal Grills, combined with Robby Corcoran's decade plus experience in the restaurant industry comes together to create a truly distinctive flavor. After successful endeavors as caterers, Burn Co BBQ was launched in January of 2011. Utilizing utilitarian décor and amenities, Burn Co focuses on the food, crafting a " one of a kind", Backyard BBQ Flavor. We cut our coleslaw by hand, trim and smoke our meats daily, and relish the finest bits and pieces of all meats. We offer local products when possible, and are always trying to figure out how to shock and wow our customers with exclusive specials. RSVP to Richard Haley at guysdinetoo@gmail.com First Thursday Art Opening Tuesday April 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of OKFAA - a group of artists presenting works based on the human form, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. OkFAA was formed in 2016 by a group of six artists united by an interest in creating works based on the human form. Their goal, through art, is to promote all manner of dynamic, figure based art, provide encouragement to artists wishing to explore this genre, and educate the public as to the contemporary value and long tradition of portraying the figure, both clothed and nude, in art. One of the artists, Kaylee says, "We couldn't think of a more fitting place for our inaugural show than Tulsa's Equality Center and hope more art spaces in Tulsa and Oklahoma, both for profit and not for profit, decide to follow its lead by befriending free artistic expression, especially as it relates to the human body in art". The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Suzanne Westenhoefer Comedy Show Fundraiser Saturday April 8, 6:30 p.m. Reception, 7:00 p.m. Show Jewish Federation of Tulsa 2021 E. 71st St., Tulsa, OK 74136 No one ever accused Suzanne of being subtle, not the shuttle driver who took her to the airport, the woman she was in line with at the grocery store yesterday and certainly not her audiences. Subtle, she is not. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather After 25 years of groundbreaking, stereotype-shattering and brutally honest comedy, she's not about to start pulling punches now. The kid from Amish Country who began her comedy career on a dare is celebrating a quarter century of out, open, noholds-barred comedy. Suzanne tells the truth. The truth is life is funny, especially when it's fermented in Suzanne's mind. That's why she could never be in the closet, making her a trailblazer when she started doing stand-up in the 1990s. She was the first o penly lesbian comedian with an HBO Special and the first openly lesbian comedian on "Late Night with David Letterman." Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Heck, she was on Sally Jesse Raphael in 1991 on a show called "Breaking the Lesbian Stereotype...Lesbians Who Don't Look Like Lesbians." From "OMG, a lesbian has long hair and wears make up" to "I went to Helen and Jane's wedding last weekend," that's how far we've come in the 25 years Suzanne has been telling her truth to audiences all over the world. Some of that is certainly thanks to her candor, courage and charisma. Suzanne never does the same show twice. She can't. She doesn't write anything down. She charges boldly onto the stage and what happens is always a mystery and a delight. Enjoy a wild night of comedy in a city near you. Reception begins at 6:30 PM followed immediately by the opening act at 7:00 PM, Josie Lee Turrelle, also known as Miss OYP 2003. All proceeds of the event support the Openarms Youth Project. Click here for more information and to buy tickets The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo April 15, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for April's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... $15 for general admission SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday April 19, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. The Garden Trug 3009 E. 101st St. Tulsa Oklahoma 74137 E UALITY Business Alliance Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Our garden center, floral studio, & gift shoppe is an eclectic "urban garden" built with you in mind. As you enter our boutique garden shoppe, you're senses will be tickled with the aromas of the season. Listen to the soothing sounds of wind chimes and splashing fountains. Around each corner you'll find home and garden treasures for your personal garden or gifts for friends and family. Or, Escape to a magical world in our fairy gardening department or shop our terrarium area where we have all the items necessary to build a unique tabletop size garden. Our promise to you: To do our level best to create spaces to inspire you to try new and different things! Most importantly, have fun with your garden. Come see us! Yoga by Zach Take A Cl.ass EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Check out The Garden Trug online at www.thegardentrug.com The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. http://www.theGardenTrug.com $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program 3rd nTru ursery, flo is Proprietors: Sue Welch & Marcy Smith Need flowers? Call our full service florist...we deliver flowers by Ken' Peaches Youngblood Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 1 Grateful Day Spaghetti Dinner & Awards Banquet Saturday April 22, 6:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Each year, our Awards Banquet, kicks of our Fundraising season. We honor and thank the people, who have supported the Foundation. Without them, we could not do, what we do for the Community. This year we will be featuring a Pasta Bar, donated by TW's AFAB Catering! Tea, water, punch and wine. Gluten Free and Vegetarian options available. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... Entertainment for the evening will be, Rebecca Ungerman and accompaniment. Every Saturday 12:30 pm The proceeds from this banquet, helps to fund the annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year will be the fifth year, that the Grateful Day Foundation, has hosted the Retreat. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Reserved Tables and Single tickets are now available to purchase, please click on the link above. There will be more details added as we get closer to the Date. Hope to see you all there, and thank you for your continued support! Follow this event on Facebook or purchase tickets A VERY SORDID WEDDING - Oklahoma Premiere! Thursday April 27, 6:00 p.m., Reception, 7 :00 p.m., Film Screening Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK 74104 Game Night A VERY SORDID WEDDING (Oklahoma Premiere!) 6pm Reception with writer/director Del Shores and actor Emerson Collins 7pm Film Screening $15 General Admission, $10 for Equality Center Members Starring: Bonnie Bedelia, Leslie Jordan, Caroline Rhea, Dale Dickey, Emerson Collins & Whoopi Goldberg "A Very Sordid Wedding" deals with the questions, concerns, bigotry and fallout of what happens when marriage equality comes to a small Texas town where not everyone is ready to accept it. Creator Del Shores' uses his trademark comedy and the beloved characters from his cult smash hit Sordid Lives and Sordid Lives: The Series to deal with these important current social issues and the very real process of accepting your family for who they are instead of who you want them to be. ................... Equality. Texas. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information or to purchase tickets online: www.circlecinema.com Emma's Revolution - Woody Guthrie Center's 4th Anniversary Friday April 28th, 6:00 p.m. Guthrie Green Stage 111 East M.B. Brady Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 FREE and Open to All The Woody Guthrie Center celebrates the fourth anniversary of Guthrie's work returning to Oklahoma. The event will include week of music and discussions honoring the work of Guthrie and those who came after him as well as sharing Guthrie's message of diversity, equality and social justice. This year, we're encouraging everyone to #BeTheMachine." ABOUT EMMA'S REVOLUTION Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Smart, funny and informative -- like Rachel Maddow and Jon Stewart with guitars. If there was ever a time for a powerful, loving transformative revolution, that time is now--and this is the music to fuel it! Emma's Revolution (Pat Humphries and Sandy O.) are grassroots, activist musicians whose songs have been used as tools in movements for social justice around the world, keeping people inspired & energized in the work for a world we all want to live in. This concert celebrates the release of their latest album "Revolution Now." Covering issues from killer drones to wind energy, from the Black Lives Matter movement to the sustaining power of love, the songs span folk to jazz to funk and will keep you going through this unimaginable-inauguration-to-come and beyond. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. As Emma's Revolution's friend Pete Seeger inspired them to sing, "Hope changes everything!" Additional Info: Online at http://woodyguthriecenter.org/events/wgc-4th-anniversary-celebration-april-22-30/ --·---Facebook Event Link: https://www.facebook.com/events/425918721084134/ Emma's Revolution contact: Susan Frazier, sfgmi@aol.com, (517) 484-1712 Emma's Revolution official website: www.emmasrevolution.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 8 of 12 ,r..., n https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... 111'1 Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/29 COLDllADO 5/6 HDUBTDN 5/13 BYE Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 5/2OAUBTIN 5/rl @ COLORADO 6/3 BYE 6/ID @BAN ANTDNm 6/17 @IO'WA HOME FIELD EAST CENTRAL HIGH SCHOOL 12150 EAST 11TH ST TULSA Oil 74121 Tulsa Metro Softball League TMSL 2017 Spring Season Sundays March 26 - May 21, 2017 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Carl Smith Sports Complex 17120 E. 21st St., Tulsa, OK 74134 Hey TMSL members and fans! As the weather begins to warm up, it only means one thing: SOFTBALL SEASON! TMSL 2017 Spring Season is just right around the corner! Season will begin on Sunday, March 26th and will last 9 Sundays until May 21st, exluding Mother's Day and Easter weekends. Game times will be from 12pm-4pm at Carl Smith Sports Complex. Cost is $40/person. Anyone and everyone is welcome to join, so grab your friends and sign up today as we go into our 7th year of laughter, fun, a little bit of competition, and life long friendships! For those of you who are curious about the Gay Softball World Series, 2017 GSWS will be in Portland, OR! The dates are September 3rd to September 10th. If you as a team or player have any questions/interest regarding GSWS, please give us a shout and we will gladly help you! If you have any other questions or inquiries, please do not hestitate to contact us at info@tulsametrosoftball.com . We look forward to seeing you out this year! TMSL Board First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Registration is open at: htosports.com You can also check out TSML on Facebook Equality Center Pride Store Show your pride with one (or more) of our colorful pride buttons. Available in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store. Prices vary from $1.00 - $3.00 MISSION: Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Boy 2 Girl" By: Terrence Blacker Matthew's American cousin, Sam, has come to London to live with the family. Sam is a charismatic, funny kid, but can he be trusted to be a reliable friend? Matthew and his "mates" decide that Sam must undertake a challenge in order to prove himself: He must start off his new year at the school posing as a girl. It turns out that Sam makes a great girl. He fools everyone at Bradbury Hill School, stepping over lines and blurring boundaries of all sorts. And the longer the prank goes on, the more outlandish the repercussions. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... REVERSED AND REMANDED January 18, 2017 REVERSED AND REMANDED Unanimous Decision by the Oklahoma Supreme Court. This decision allows "ANY" adult adoptee a way out of legal adoption and does not apply to under age adoptions. This decision opens the door to others seeking exit of similar "ADULT" adoptions through the Oklahoma courts for whatever reason deemed in the best interest of the "ADULT" adoptee. Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org We wish to thank Attorney Michael C. Redman for a very long battle and for a courageous presentation of the facts and reasons that convinced the courts in this case Congratulations Jared Bruce and Bruce Schultz Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Thank you for removing the impediments that kept many Oklahoma same-sex couples from being able to marry. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Support group meeting once a week starting January 2017 for adults in the Stillwater, Okla oma State, and surrounding community Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Please join The College of Monarchs, Board of Directors and Membership of The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma for 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... Hotel Information Renaissance Hotel and Convention Center 6808 S. 107th E. Ave Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 (918) 307-2600 or (918) 307-4033 Ticket Information Can be purched at the door or online at http://www.impcourtok.org/apps/webstore/ Weekend Schedule Friday Night - March 31, 2017 Out of Town Show Doors Open 5:30 pm, Show at 6 pm at Host Hotel All Ages Welcome $25 Saturday Night - April 1, 2017 Coronation Ceremony at Host Hotel Doors Open 5 pm, Platted Dinner 5:30 pm, Ceremony 6:30 pm All Ages Welcome $50, Fromal Attire Sunday - April 2, 2017 Victory Brunch at Host Hotel Doors Open 10:30 am, Brunh 11 am. All Ages Welcome $25 Victory Shot Party / Show at Area 18 Shot Party 3 - 6 pm, Show 6 -9 pm 21+ only, No Cover Complete Coronation X Information can be found on our Facebook ICAO Coronation Page and on our ICAO Website (www.impcourtok.com) - - -- ---......-~ - n 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... rmor A THE CANYONS AT BLACKJACK RIDGE 1801 N. MCKINLEY AVE SAND SPRINGS, OK 74063 REGISTRATION IS OPEN! JO J ULS IS ROUD TO SPO SOR A FRIEND FOR A FRIEND 2713 E 49™ ST. TULSA, OK 74105 918-747-6827 SATURDAY, APRIL 22, 2017 8: 0 A. E $75 PER PLAYER / $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT A pet service which provides dally for pets whose owners have HIV/AIDS. This service rellescompletelyon volunteers and private donations. The servl<e Is available for all pets, Including dogs, cats, birds, fish, even snakes. Clients are expected to pay as much of veterinary charge as possible. food is provided at no charge. CQ NTA CT: CURTIS AUSTIN · CURTISAUSTIN33O HOTMAILCOM OR Al WARREN • 9111-361-8739 YOU CAN ALSO FIND US ON FACE BOOK O TULSAJOLT Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE~ GOLDEN 7111 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �I f:l: For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org 4/24/26, 3:42 PM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 12 of 12 i ·-~] I � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/19efef5c8bc4c42560eff1ae0336104d.pdf 8824f203f6b49aa6ba9184e470b156bc PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 5th, 2017 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-5th--2017.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews April 5th, 2017 okl.ihom.ins for equ.ility news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA Volunteer of the Month Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala First Thursday Art Opening. Community Conversations Suzanne Westenhoefer Comedy Show Fundraiser F ~ }7ayllOll Rental Properf:y Bookkeeping 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Cityscape Mortgage Tulsa Pride Bingo Equality Business Alliance Mixer Grateful Day Spaghetti Dinner & Awards - Banquet A Very Sordid Wedding Club Majestic: Dirty Dolls Emma's Revolution Rainglow Run Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Tulsa Metro Softball League Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Pride Store Rainbow Library Jackpot Golf Classic Compassionate Tulsa Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation OkEq Board Meeting {918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 7 p.m. Thursday, April 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Family Ties admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net I II\, r-oo( ue,Lll\,g Tvi Lboo(ea ux.: Tvie Tax. Tvier-ap!j Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Volunteer of the Month April 2017 Lawyer in the Library March 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group 4/24/26, 3:43 PM �OkEq eNews April 5th, 2017 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-5th--2017.htm... Greg Mayfield Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Greg began volunteering in December 2016, as a way to do more for his community. When circumstances changed and he found himself with more time on his hands he decided it was time to volunteer and he chose the Equality Center. Greg enjoys meeting people and has learned how important it is to help people who might call needing information about what the center offers. Greg also notes the importance in greeting those that come in with a smile on his face and welcoming them into the center. "I remember when I first started, a young man came in needing assistance with a health issue. I was able to tell him what the Equality Center could do to help him. I was also able to give him other sources that could help and give him guidance. The young man came back a month or so ago and told me that he was scared and worried. He shook my hand and told me that I helped him more than just giving him information, that I treated him with kindness and empathy. I see him every now and then, and he has a smile on his face. For me that is why I volunteer at the Equality Center" Greg recalls. When Greg is not volunteering he has a pet and house sitting service that he's trying to get started. He also loves to garden or as his friends say "He loves to play in the dirt." Greg loves all the social activities that the Equality Center has to offer and notes "I'm also very proud that the center opens their arms to all that need a safe place without judgement." Greg highly recommends to anyone he gets to talk to that they should volunteer time at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. "I encourage them to volunteer one day a week or for special events that the center puts on for the community". We thank you for your passion Greg! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com April Video eNews Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org 2017 Equality Gala Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer Dr. Kurt Choate Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs Q. oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org First Thursday Art Opening Tuesday April 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of OKFAA - a group of artists presenting works based on the human form, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. OkFAA was formed in 2016 by a group of six artists united by an interest in creating works based on the human form. Their goal, through art, is to promote all manner of dynamic, figure based art, provide encouragement to artists wishing to explore this genre, and educate the public as to the contemporary value and long tradition of portraying the figure, both clothed and nude, in art. One of the artists, Kaylee says, "We couldn't think of a more Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment 4/24/26, 3:43 PM �OkEq eNews April 5th, 2017 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-5th--2017.htm... fitting place for our inaugural show than Tulsa's Equality Center and hope more art spaces in Tulsa and Oklahoma, both for profit and not for profit, decide to follow its lead by befriending free artistic expression, especially as it relates to the human body in art". The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu -----(918) 594-8568 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 ,:·· •. , -. --~;-,._;,v:p;· . V , . . •. ~ i . ~ -- Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Suzanne Westenhoefer Comedy Show Fundraiser Saturday April 8, 6:30 p.m. Reception, 7:00 p.m. Show Jewish Federation of Tulsa 2021 E. 71st St., Tulsa, OK 74136 No one ever accused Suzanne of being subtle, not the shuttle driver who took her to the airport, the woman she was in line with at the grocery store yesterday and certainly not her audiences. Subtle, she is not. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 4/24/26, 3:43 PM �OkEq eNews April 5th, 2017 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-5th--2017.htm... After 25 years of groundbreaking, stereotype-shattering and brutally honest comedy, she's not about to start pulling punches now. The kid from Amish Country who began her comedy career on a dare is celebrating a quarter century of out, open, noholds-barred comedy. Suzanne tells the truth. The truth is life is funny, especially when it's fermented in Suzanne's mind. That's why she could never be in the closet, making her a trailblazer when she started doing stand-up in the 1990s. She was the first o penly lesbian comedian with an HBO Special and the first openly lesbian comedian on "Late Night with David Letterman." Heck, she was on Sally Jesse Raphael in 1991 on a show called "Breaking the Lesbian Stereotype...Lesbians Who Don't Look Like Lesbians." From "OMG, a lesbian has long hair and wears make up" to "I went to Helen and Jane's wedding last weekend," that's how far we've come in the 25 years Suzanne has been telling her truth to audiences all over the world. Some of that is certainly thanks to her candor, courage and charisma. Suzanne never does the same show twice. She can't. She doesn't write anything down. She charges boldly onto the stage and what happens is always a mystery and a delight. Enjoy a wild night of comedy in a city near you. Reception begins at 6:30 PM followed immediately by the opening act at 7:00 PM, Josie Lee Turrelle, also known as Miss OYP 2003. All proceeds of the event support the Openarms Youth Project. Click here for more information and to buy tickets 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo April 15, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for April's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 3:43 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0cb33a36a37b3e83efabe23e724d59c2.pdf b0022212bfaadaea1bb95b9a9d346a93 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2017.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 okl.ihom;:ins for equality news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA Michael Farr Sponsors the Day. Tulsa Pride Bingo Equality Business Alliance Mixer Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala First Choice Raffle! Dining Out for Life F~ }7ayllOll Rental Properfy Bookkeeping J a ...... ,...-n ~ ,.-. 980 Volunteer of the Month Cityscape Mortgage Grateful Day Spaghetti Dinner & Awards - Banquet A Very Sordid Wedding Club Majestic: Dirty Dolls Emma's Revolution Gay Men's Dinner "First Thursday" Art Opening Cinco De Mayo Party. Rainglow Run Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Pride Store Rainbow Library Research Invitation Jackpot Golf Classic Compassionate Tulsa Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918} 747-5466 il OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, April 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. admin@kkirby.com The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Oklahoma Figure Art Alliance (OKFAA) a group of artists presenting works based on the human form. Works will be displayed throughout the month. OkEq Art Exhibition www.kkirby.com IV\-tr-o~uctV\-g n,tbo~e~u,x: The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Tn e T~.x Tn eY~p k1 Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. ' ' Michael Farr Sponsors the Day Saturday April 15, 2017 Family Ties 4/24/26, 3:44 PM �OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2017.ht... Michael Farr is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on April 15th in honor of Pride Bingo. Thank You Michael! If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Lawyer in the Library March 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo April 15, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for April's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. $15 for general admission Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday April 19, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. The Garden Trug 3009 E. 101st St. Tulsa Oklahoma 74137 E UALITY Business Alliance This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Our garden center, floral studio, & gift shoppe is an eclectic "urban garden" built with you in mind. As you enter our boutique garden shoppe, you're senses will be tickled with the aromas of the season. Listen to the soothing sounds of wind chimes and splashing fountains. Around each corner you'll find home and garden treasures for your personal garden or gifts for friends and family. Or, Escape to a magical world in our fairy gardening department or shop our terrarium area where we have all the items necessary to build a unique tabletop size garden. Our promise to you: To do our level best to create spaces to inspire you to try new and different things! Most importantly, have fun with your garden. Come see us! Check out The Garden Trug online at www.thegardentrug.com The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org ----- Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/24/26, 3:44 PM �OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2017.ht... http://www.theGardenTrug.com 3den ru nur ery, floris Dr. Kurt Choate c i ts Proprietors: Sue Welch & Marcy Smith Need flowers? Gall our full service florist... we deliver flowers by Ken "Peaches Youngblood Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 2017 Equality Gala Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs Q. Oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) First Choice Raffle! Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Your choice of the Live Auction Items at the Equality Gala. $250 per ticket, only 100 tickets sold! Purchase your First Choice Raffle ticket now! Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 Auction Packages include: A Year of Toni's Flowers, Chance the Rapper BOK Concert Package, Krebs Italian Evening, Evening with Suzanne Westenhoefer, Dinner for 15-Living Kitchen, and many more! Dining Out for Life Thursday April 27, 2017 Welcome to Dining Out For Life! Please join us on Thursday, April 27th! Making a difference is as easy as going out to eat! Our amazing restaurants will donate 25% or more of your bill to pay for local HIV services provided by H.O.P.E. Their generosity coupled with your generous donation will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. Please browse through the site, and use our restaurant locator to find your perfect Dining Out for Life restaurant. It could not be easier to search for the perfect meal for you, your family, and friends. Dining~ ( OntJ . ~ Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with 4/24/26, 3:44 PM �OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2017.ht... Please help us make sure that no one faces HIV alone. It is the most satisfying meal you will ever eat! Mark your calendars! Thursday, April 27, 2017 For more information: Dining out for Life Tulsa H.O.P.E. Te sting Facebook Dine Out, Fight AIDS anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 health outreach prevention education, Inc. Volunteer of the Month April 2017 Greg Mayfield Greg began volunteering in December 2016, as a way to do more for his community. When circumstances changed and he found himself with more time on his hands he decided it was time to volunteer and he chose the Equality Center. Greg enjoys meeting people and has learned how important it is to help people who might call needing information about what the center offers. Greg also notes the importance in greeting those that come in with a smile on his face and welcoming them into the center. "I remember when I first started, a young man came in needing assistance with a health issue. I was able to tell him what the Equality Center could do to help him. I was also able to give him other sources that could help and give him guidance. The young man came back a month or so ago and told me that he was scared and worried. He shook my hand and told me that I helped him more than just giving him information, that I treated him with kindness and empathy. I see him every now and then, and he has a smile on his face. For me that is why I volunteer at the Equality Center" Greg recalls. When Greg is not volunteering he has a pet and house sitting service that he's trying to get started. He also loves to garden or as his friends say "He loves to play in the dirt." Greg loves all the social activities that the Equality Center has to offer and notes "I'm also very proud that the center opens their arms to all that need a safe place without judgement." Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Greg highly recommends to anyone he gets to talk to that they should volunteer time at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. "I encourage them to volunteer one day a week or for special events that the center puts on for the community". We thank you for your passion Greg! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org April Video eNews Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety 4/24/26, 3:44 PM �OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2017.ht... Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B Grateful Day Spaghetti Dinner & Awards Banquet Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Saturday April 22, 6:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Each year, our Awards Banquet, kicks of our Fundraising season. We honor and thank the people, who have supported the Foundation. Without them, we could not do, what we do for the Community. This year we will be featuring a Pasta Bar, donated by TW's AFAB Catering! Tea, water, punch and wine. Gluten Free and Vegetarian options available. Entertainment for the evening will be, Rebecca Ungerman and accompaniment. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. The proceeds from this banquet, helps to fund the annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year will be the fifth year, that the Grateful Day Foundation, has hosted the Retreat. Reserved Tables and Single tickets are now available to purchase, please click on the link above. There will be more details added as we get closer to the Date. Hope to see you all there, and thank you for your continued support! Follow this event on Facebook or purchase tickets SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) A VERY SORDID WEDDING - Oklahoma Premiere! Thursday April 27, 6:00 p.m., Reception, 7 :00 p.m., Film Screening Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK 74104 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan A VERY SORDID WEDDING (Oklahoma Premiere!) 6pm Reception with writer/director Del Shores and actor Emerson Collins 7pm Film Screening BB - $15 General Admission, $10 for Equality Center Members *Please make sure you mention you are a member of OkEq when purchasing tickets. Starring: Bonnie Bedelia, Leslie Jordan, Caroline Rhea, Dale Dickey, Emerson Collins & Whoopi Goldberg "A Very Sordid Wedding" deals with the questions, concerns, bigotry and fallout of what happens when marriage equality comes to a small Texas town where not everyone is ready to accept it. Creator Del Shores' uses his trademark comedy and the beloved characters from his cult smash hit Sordid Lives and Sordid Lives: The Series to deal with these important current social issues and the very real process of accepting your family for who they are instead of who you want them to be. For more information or to purchase tickets online: www.circlecinema.com s ' _.,DelshotN ;;1:=s~ ,.._-.=..-,::-..= Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/24/26, 3:44 PM �OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2017.ht... Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Emma's Revolution - Woody Guthrie Center's 4th Anniversary Friday April 28th, 6:00 p.m. Guthrie Green Stage 111 East M.B. Brady Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 FREE and Open to All The Woody Guthrie Center celebrates the fourth anniversary of Guthrie's work returning to Oklahoma. The event will include week of music and discussions honoring the work of Guthrie and those who came after him as well as sharing Guthrie's message of diversity, equality and social justice. This year, we're encouraging everyone to #BeTheMachine." ABOUT EMMA'S REVOLUTION Smart, funny and informative -- like Rachel Maddow and Jon Stewart with guitars. Game Night If there was ever a time for a powerful, loving transformative revolution, that time is now--and this is the music to fuel it! Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Emma's Revolution (Pat Humphries and Sandy O.) are grassroots, activist musicians whose songs have been used as tools in movements for social justice around the world, keeping people inspired & energized in the work for a world we all want to live in. This concert celebrates the release of their latest album "Revolution Now." Covering issues from killer drones to wind energy, from the Black Lives Matter movement to the sustaining power of love, the songs span folk to jazz to funk and will keep you going through this unimaginable-inauguration-to-come and beyond. As Emma's Revolution's friend Pete Seeger inspired them to sing, "Hope changes everything!" Additional Info: Online at http://woodyguthriecenter.org/events/wgc-4th-anniversary-celebration-april-22-30/ Facebook Event Link: https://www.facebook.com/events/425918721084134/ Emma's Revolution contact: Susan Frazier, sfgmi@aol.com, (517) 484-1712 Emma's Revolution official website: www.emmasrevolution.com --- ·---- Gay Men's Dinner Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Tuesday May 2, 6:30 p.m. Bread & Butter Kitchen and Bakery 3837 E. 51st St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74135 A comfort food restaurant with a southern flair for your family. Click here for information about Bread & Butter Kitchen and Bakery. -·'•~- BREAD&BUTTER The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop 4/24/26, 3:44 PM �OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2017.ht... --- Please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday May 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 EBA Directory 'l, c.,1..,..1,. DJ di 1l...... c:,. 1?.. .1:.1 .. N, The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of of Ralph Weidling in an Exhibit Titled "Colors of a Rogue City Resident", beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 4th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. 27 year old Ralph Weidling was working long hours at an industrial job, when travel and an opportunity combined to re-ignited his creative passion. He has found Tulsa to be the invigorating environment to nurture that creativity through a variety of materials and expressions. His work in metal and glass, wall pieces, free standing works and some even functional art are all coming from a place of optimism and beauty. His expression in his art is echoed in this written musings. "There's this beautiful world and its waiting for you... just let it in and let it out. Don't be shy, let those colors shine bright; it's going to take a lot of light to win this fight! The beauty & power of the Rouge City ... a small blue bubble of Change.... resistance, rising up for the rights & equality for all!! The front lines for the decade long battle of Marriage Equality in Oklahoma that was rightfully won!" ____ ______ ....___.. --........-·------· ...... _ _______ . ...... The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. ,.. ____ ._ _ _ _ _ _ ,-... a.._ -_ - - -...._, _ _ _ _ .· --a.. -___ _ .. __ ------·--.. -···_____ --. ... ---- .....-·--·----...a.. .. _.,.., ..... _ ... ____ ___ a..----,., ___ ... ,__.,, _____ ,. ..., ..._____ _ _ ., __...._ _ L~-· - ... , - - •.... • -- - The show begins with a reception on Thursday, May 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Cinco De Mayo Pride Fundraiser Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday May 5, 8:00 p.m. Area 18 39 E 18th St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74119 Join Tulsa Pride at Area 18 for a CINCO DE MAYO PARTY and Pride Fundraiser come enjoy margaritas, the lip syncing contest, and fun adult games. Catch your favorite bartender, Pride Team member, awesome dancers and community folks enjoying this FIESTA! 21 and up. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group pr lJ I A Rainglow Run Friday June 2, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Kickoff Tulsa PRIDE Weekend with the 4th annual Rainglow Run on Friday, June 2, 2017. Don glow in the dark body paint and glow sticks and run for equality! Prizes for the overall winners and best costume! One mile fun run: 8:00 p.m. 5K: 8:30 p.m. Sign Up Facebook event First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more 4/24/26, 3:44 PM �OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2017.ht... information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Center Pride Store Show your pride with one (or more) of our colorful pride buttons. Available in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store. Prices vary from $1.00 - $3.00 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Reinventing the Family: Lesbian and Gay Parents" By: Laura Benkov, Ph.D. The first thorough investigation of the joys, challenges, and issues facing Lesbian and gay men who are choosing to be parents, fighting for custody, and changing how we all think of "family values". From what to name your child to legal and psychological issues, here is a thoughtful guide to raising a healthy child in a homophobic world. ng y n dGay Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org rents Laura Beiikov]i]. Invitation to Participate in Research Online Survey Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Would you like to be involved in research at the University of Oklahoma? I am Jedediah Bragg from the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work and I invite you to participate in my research project entitled Social Justice Implications of Inclusive Measures of Sexual and Gender Minority Populations. This research is being conducted online. You must be at least 18 years of age to participate in this study. The purpose of this research is to explore the impacts of assessing sexuality in a more inclusive manner and how social supports effect overall well-being. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org THE CANYONS AT BLACKJACK RIDGE Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org 1801 N. MCKINLEY AVE - - - c;ANn c;DIUNr.c; nil 740Fi~ - - 4/24/26, 3:44 PM �OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2017.ht... ....-..-.. ...... .., ...... ._...,, __,.,, ,...........,.,._ REGISTRATION IS OPEN! JOt TULS IS ROUD TO SPONSOR A FRIEND FOR A FRIEND 271.3 E 49"' ST. TULSA, OK 74105 918-747-6827 SATURDAY, APRIL 22, 2017 8: 0 A. $75 PER PLAYER / $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT A pet servl<e which provide dally for pets whose owners have HIV/AIDS. This service relies completely on volunteers and private donatlons. The service Is available for all pets, Including dogs, cats, birds, fish, even snakes.Clienture expected to pay as much of veterina,y charge•• possible. Food is provided at no charge. CONTACT: CURTIS AUSTIN · CURTISAUSTIN33O HOTMAIL.COM ORAL WARREN · 918-361-8739 YOU CAN ALSO FINO US ON FACEBOOK O TULSAJ0LT Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE~ Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. -- _;GOLDEN For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org r---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 3:44 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/faf8afe4c24530b8f848d8acb9f826f1.pdf 770c9263748322e874df98fc6f58a0c8 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 20th, 2017 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-20th--2017.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e 2017 Equality Gala April 20th, 2017 okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility news In This Issue Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala First Choice Raffle! LGBTQ National Day of Silence Grateful Day Dinner & Awards --Spaghetti - ---Banquet Mojo Fest 2017 Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue Dining Out for Life A Very Sordid Wedding Emma's Revolution Gay Men's Dinner "First Thursday" Art Opening Cinco De Mayo Party. With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer An Afternoon with Wade Rouse Tulsa Pride Bingo Equality Business Alliance Mixer Rainglow Run Volunteer of the Month Sapulpa Spirit and Arts Fair Pride Store Rainbow Library Research Invitation Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Jackpot Golf Classic Compassionate Tulsa Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs ~ oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) First Choice Raffle! OkEq Board Meeting Your choice of the Live Auction Items at the Equality Gala. $250 per ticket, only 100 tickets sold! Purchase your First Choice Raffle ticket now! Auction Packages include: A Year of Toni's Flowers, Chance the Rapper BOK Concert Package, Krebs Italian Evening, Evening with Suzanne Westenhoefer, Dinner for 15-Living Kitchen, and many more! LGBTQ Youth National Day of Silence Friday, April 21 2017 GLSEN's Day of Silence is a student-led national event organized in thousands of schools, bringing awareness to the silencing effects of antiLGBTQ name-calling, bullying and harassment in schools. Students from middle school to college take a vow of silence in an effort to encourage schools and classmates to address the problem of anti-LGBTQ behavior by illustrating the silencing effect of bullying and harassment on LGBTQ students and those perceived to be LGBTQ. 7 p.m. Thursday, April 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Oklahoma Figure Art Alliance (OKFAA) a group of artists presenting works based on the human form. Works will be displayed throughout the month. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Things You Can Do The day after, show Gay Youth in your classroom and TALK. How To Help if Someone is Being Harassed New York Times "Gay Youth is a lovely short film. It humanizes young gay people and clearly and forcefully depicts the challenges they face, as well as their desire to be accepted and to be allowed to live like everyone else." --David Eller, Community College of Denver Anthropology Review Database Gay Youth 30 Minutes 16-Page Study guide Closed Captioned DVD Family Ties 4/24/26, 3:52 PM �OkEq eNews April 20th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-20th--2017.ht... Colleges and Universities $165 New Day Films - Purchase the DVD and Study Guide. VIMEO ON DEMAND - Preview $1.99 KANOPY - Professors and Students Gay Youth is powerful! It breaks the silence surrounding adolescent homosexuality by contrasting the tragic death of 20-year old Bobby Griffith, a gay teen who could not find acceptance, with the remarkable life of 17-year old Gina Gutierrez. This important video shows us that information, acceptance, and support make enormous differences in the lives of these young people. The DVD and other streaming options are available. Find out more at www.pamwaltonproductions.com ------ Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Grateful Day Spaghetti Dinner & Awards Banquet Saturday April 22, 6:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Lawyer in the Library March 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Each year, our Awards Banquet, kicks of our Fundraising season. We honor and thank the people, who have supported the Foundation. Without them, we could not do, what we do for the Community. This year we will be featuring a Pasta Bar, donated by TW's AFAB Catering! Tea, water, punch and wine. Gluten Free and Vegetarian options available. Entertainment for the evening will be, Rebecca Ungerman and accompaniment. The proceeds from this banquet, helps to fund the annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year will be the fifth year, that the Grateful Day Foundation, has hosted the Retreat. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Reserved Tables and Single tickets are now available to purchase, please click on the link above. There will be more details added as we get closer to the Date. Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Hope to see you all there, and thank you for your continued support! Follow this event on Facebook or purchase tickets This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Dining Out for Life Healthcare Navigator Thursday April 27, 2017 By Appointment Welcome to Dining Out For Life! Please join us on Thursday, April 27th! Making a difference is as easy as going out to eat! Our amazing restaurants will donate 25% or more of your bill to pay for local HIV services provided by H.O.P.E. Their generosity coupled with your generous donation will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. Please browse through the site, and use our restaurant locator to find your perfect Dining Out for Life restaurant. It could not be easier to search for the perfect meal for you, your family, and friends. Please help us make sure that no one faces HIV alone. It is the most satisfying meal you will ever eat! Mark your calendars! Thursday, April 27, 2017 For more information: Dining out for Life Tulsa H.O.P.E. Te sting Facebook Dini»g~ Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org --·-- .,.l.~~i•Dine Out, Fight AIDS Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/24/26, 3:52 PM �OkEq eNews April 20th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-20th--2017.ht... health outreach prevention education, Inc. A VERY SORDID WEDDING - Oklahoma Premiere! Thursday April 27, 6:00 p.m., Reception, 7 :00 p.m., Film Screening Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK 74104 Dr. Kurt Choate A VERY SORDID WEDDING (Oklahoma Premiere!) - h a l l y . Eqaallty.T9..._ 6pm Reception with writer/director Del Shores and actor Emerson Collins 7pm Film Screening $15 General Admission, $10 for Equality Center Members *Please make sure you mention you are a member of OkEq when purchasing tickets. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Starring: Bonnie Bedelia, Leslie Jordan, Caroline Rhea, Dale Dickey, Emerson Collins & Whoopi Goldberg "A Very Sordid Wedding" deals with the questions, concerns, bigotry and fallout of what happens when marriage equality comes to a small Texas town where not everyone is ready to accept it. Creator Del Shores' uses his trademark comedy and the beloved characters from his cult smash hit Sordid Lives and Sordid Lives: The Series to deal with these important current social issues and the very real process of accepting your family for who they are instead of who you want them to be. For more information or to purchase tickets online: www.circlecinema.com Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu ------(918) 594-8568 Emma's Revolution - Woody Guthrie Center's 4th Anniversary Friday April 28th, 6:00 p.m. Guthrie Green Stage 111 East M.B. Brady Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 FREE and Open to All The Woody Guthrie Center celebrates the fourth anniversary of Guthrie's work returning to Oklahoma. The event will include week of music and discussions honoring the work of Guthrie and those who came after him as well as sharing Guthrie's message of diversity, equality and social justice. This year, we're encouraging everyone to #BeTheMachine." ABOUT EMMA'S REVOLUTION Smart, funny and informative -- like Rachel Maddow and Jon Stewart with guitars. If there was ever a time for a powerful, loving transformative revolution, that time is now--and this is the music to fuel it! Emma's Revolution (Pat Humphries and Sandy O.) are grassroots, activist musicians whose songs have been used as tools in movements for social justice around the world, keeping people inspired & energized in the work for a world we all want to live in. Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 This concert celebrates the release of their latest album "Revolution Now." Covering issues from killer drones to wind energy, from the Black Lives Matter movement to the sustaining power of love, the songs span folk to jazz to funk and will keep you going through this unimaginable-inauguration-to-come and beyond. As Emma's Revolution's friend Pete Seeger inspired them to sing, "Hope changes everything!" Additional Info: Online at http://woodyguthriecenter.org/events/wgc-4th-anniversary-celebration-april-22-30/ ----Facebook Event Link: https://www.facebook.com/events/425918721084134/ Emma's Revolution contact: Susan Frazier, sfgmi@aol.com, (517) 484-1712 Emma's Revolution official website: www.emmasrevolution.com ---- · Gay Men's Dinner Tuesday May 2, 6:30 p.m. Bread & Butter Kitchen and Bakery 3837 E. 51st St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74135 A comfort food restaurant with a southern flair for your family. Click here for information about Bread & Butter Kitchen and Bakery. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com - -~•'•-BREAD&BUTTER :Z, M :C: Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 /-· ' ,.,•, :--z-.'.·"j·;· . "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday May 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of of Ralph Weidling in an Exhibit Titled "Colors of a Rogue City Resident", beginning with a reception • .. I l, C,n.,..,1, 'OJ ~ R ... 11 .. c;,'I 1l,.,1,;J.... 1 I v . ' . ~ l'r1:~ · ..',li,'l'\ Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, 4/24/26, 3:52 PM �OkEq eNews April 20th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-20th--2017.ht... on Thursday, May 4th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 C o~r<'" t1 27 year old Ralph Weidling was working long hours at an industrial job, when travel and an opportunity combined to re-ignited his creative passion. He has found Tulsa to be the invigorating environment to nurture that creativity through a variety of materials and expressions. His work in metal and glass, wall pieces, free standing works and some even functional art are all coming from a place of optimism and beauty. His expression in his art is echoed in this written musings. "There's this beautiful world and its waiting for you... just let it in and let it out. Don't be shy, let those colors shine bright; it's going to take a lot of light to win this fight! The beauty & power of the Rouge City ... a small blue bubble of Change.... resistance, rising up for the rights & equality for all!! The front lines for the decade long battle of Marriage Equality in Oklahoma that was rightfully won!" Ir.c.1~0., T.ul ,.._ 't 0 .,.thf, rio,, . --·---·--...... __------._ .......--------· ____ . .........-------· -----_______ ---..,. _____ . ________ ._____ ---·---·-·-·--·---· ___ ----...-. -------___ ____ -- __. ______ -----_ ,..__ _., _,_.., __,...., .,.,_, , __ .., ,,_,. ,._ ., :=:==~-:-:.:.~=~-.. . The show begins with a reception on Thursday, May 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Cinco De Mayo Pride Fundraiser Friday May 5, 8:00 p.m. Area 18 39 E 18th St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74119 Join Tulsa Pride at Area 18 for a CINCO DE MAYO PARTY and Pride Fundraiser come enjoy margaritas, the lip syncing contest, and fun adult games. Catch your favorite bartender, Pride Team member, awesome dancers and community folks enjoying this FIESTA! 21 and up. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 C!NC(J D I lJ pr A Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 An Afternoon with Wade Rouse (aka Viola Shipman) Sunday May 7, at 2:00 p.m. Foolish Things Coffee Company 1001 S. Main St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74119 Beloved memoirist and humorist Wade Rouse (America's Boy, At Least in the City Someone Would Hear Me Scream, It's All Relative) has embarked upon a new adventure in writing, penning heartwarming novels under the pseudonym Viola Shipman. His new book is The Hope Chest Ever since she was diagnosed with ALS, fiercely independent Mattie doesn't feel like herself. She can't navigate her beloved home, she can't go for a boat ride, and she can barely even feed herself. Her devoted husband, Don, doesn't want to imagine life without his wife of nearly fifty years, but Mattie isn't likely to make it past their anniversary. But when Rose, Mattie's new caretaker, and her young daughter, Jeri, enter the couple's life, happiness and the possibility for new memories return. Together they form a family, and Mattie is finally able to pass on her memories from the hope chest she received from her mother. This book is the perfect Mother's Day gift! Facebook Event 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo May 13, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for April's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets • viola shipman authoroftfu.J.,,.,mf»,«<kt Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis 4/24/26, 3:52 PM �OkEq eNews April 20th, 2017 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-20th--2017.ht... R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday May 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 ALITY Business Alliance Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. In an effort to better serve you and your community, every Orkin Man receives unparalleled industry training. Your Orkin Man was trained by one of the top 125 training programs in the nations - receiving 160 hours of hands-on training during his first year on the job. He's trained to use the most effective approach to treat your specific pest problem and situation. Check out Orkin online at www.orkin.com The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan II • The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Rainglow Run Friday June 2, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Kickoff Tulsa PRIDE Weekend with the 4th annual Rainglow Run on Friday, June 2, 2017. Don glow in the dark body paint and glow sticks and run for equality! Prizes for the overall winners and best costume! One mile fun run: 8:00 p.m. 5K: 8:30 p.m. Sign Up Facebook event Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach 4/24/26, 3:52 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2b8e99bfc7ac7677292d15a215824d0c.pdf 332f6a1c130c28b02013e434d30c685b PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 26th, 2017 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-26th--2017.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews April 26th, 2017 e news okl.ihom.ins for equ.ility A VERY SORDID WEDDING - Oklahoma Premiere! In This Issue A Very Sordid Wedding Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala First Choice Raffle! Dining Out for Life Emma's Revolution Gay Men's Dinner Thursday April 27, 6:00 p.m., Reception, 7 :00 p.m., Film Screening Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK 74104 "First Thursday" Art Opening Cinco De Mayo Party. An Afternoon with Wade Rouse A VERY SORDID WEDDING (Oklahoma Premiere!) _ _ ......,,._Equality. ,.. .... Tulsa Pride Bingo Equality Business Alliance Mixer 6pm Reception with writer/director Del Shores and actor Emerson Collins 7pm Film Screening Rainglow Run Volunteer of the Month $15 General Admission, $10 for Equality Center Members *Please make sure you mention you are a member of OkEq when purchasing tickets. Pride Store Rainbow Library Research Invitation Starring: Bonnie Bedelia, Leslie Jordan, Caroline Rhea, Dale Dickey, Emerson Collins & Whoopi Goldberg "A Very Sordid Wedding" deals with the questions, concerns, bigotry and fallout of what happens when marriage equality comes to a small Texas town where not everyone is ready to accept it. Creator Del Shores' uses his trademark comedy and the beloved characters from his cult smash hit Sordid Lives and Sordid Lives: The Series to deal with these important current social issues and the very real process of accepting your family for who they are instead of who you want them to be. For more information or to purchase tickets online: www.circlecinema.com Compassionate Tulsa s \ ; j • ._- -. Del•-- --===iitf: 2017 Equality Gala OkEq Board Meeting Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue 7 p.m. Thursday, May 18 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer OkEq Art Exhibition The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Oklahoma Figure Art Alliance (OKFAA) a group of artists presenting works based on the human form. Works will be displayed throughout the month. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs Q. oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) First Choice Raffle! Your choice of the Live Auction Items at the Equality Gala. $250 per ticket, only 100 tickets sold! Purchase your First Choice Raffle ticket now! Family Ties Auction Packages include: A Year of Toni's Flowers, Chance the Rapper BOK Concert Package, Krebs Italian Evening, Evening with Suzanne Westenhoefer, Dinner for 15-Living Kitchen, and many more! 4/24/26, 3:52 PM �OkEq eNews April 26th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-26th--2017.ht... Dining Out for Life Thursday April 27, 2017 Welcome to Dining Out For Life! Please join us on Thursday, April 27th! Making a difference is as easy as going out to eat! Our amazing restaurants will donate 25% or more of your bill to pay for local HIV services provided by H.O.P.E. Their generosity coupled with your generous donation will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. Please browse through the site, and use our restaurant locator to find your perfect Dining Out for Life restaurant. It could not be easier to search for the perfect meal for you, your family, and friends. Please help us make sure that no one faces HIV alone. It is the most satisfying meal you will ever eat! Mark your calendars! Thursday, April 27, 2017 For more information: Dining out for Life Tulsa H.O.P.E. Te sting Facebook Dining~ Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net . .l.~ni•DineOut, Fight AIDS Lawyer in the Library March 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. health outreach prevention education, Inc. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Emma's Revolution - Woody Guthrie Center's 4th Anniversary Friday April 28th, 6:00 p.m. Guthrie Green Stage 111 East M.B. Brady Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 FREE and Open to All Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 The Woody Guthrie Center celebrates the fourth anniversary of Guthrie's work returning to Oklahoma. The event will include week of music and discussions honoring the work of Guthrie and those who came after him as well as sharing Guthrie's message of diversity, equality and social justice. This year, we're encouraging everyone to #BeTheMachine." ABOUT EMMA'S REVOLUTION Smart, funny and informative -- like Rachel Maddow and Jon Stewart with guitars. If there was ever a time for a powerful, loving transformative revolution, that time is now--and this is the music to fuel it! Emma's Revolution (Pat Humphries and Sandy O.) are grassroots, activist musicians whose songs have been used as tools in movements for social justice around the world, keeping people inspired & energized in the work for a world we all want to live in. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. This concert celebrates the release of their latest album "Revolution Now." Covering issues from killer drones to wind energy, from the Black Lives Matter movement to the sustaining power of love, the songs span folk to jazz to funk and will keep you going through this unimaginable-inauguration-to-come and beyond. As Emma's Revolution's friend Pete Seeger inspired them to sing, "Hope changes everything!" Additional Info: Online at http://woodyguthriecenter.org/events/wgc-4th-anniversary-celebration-april-22-30/ ---·--Facebook Event Link: https://www.facebook.com/events/425918721084134/ Emma's Revolution contact: Susan Frazier, sfgmi@aol.com, (517) 484-1712 Emma's Revolution official website: www.emmasrevolution.com For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Gay Men's Dinner Tuesday May 2, 6:30 p.m. Bread & Butter Kitchen and Bakery 3837 E. 51st St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74135 Healthcare Navigator A comfort food restaurant with a southern flair for your family. Click here for information about Bread & Butter Kitchen and Bakery. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday May 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 By Appointment >;;;11en ;c: Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - Counseling Services The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of of Ralph Weidling in an Exhibit Titled "Colors of a Rogue City Resident", beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 4th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 27 year old Ralph Weidling was working long hours at an industrial job, when travel and an opportunity combined to re-ignited his creative passion. He 4/24/26, 3:52 PM �OkEq eNews April 26th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-26th--2017.ht... has found Tulsa to be the invigorating environment to nurture that creativity through a variety of materials and expressions. His work in metal and glass, wall pieces, free standing works and some even functional art are all coming from a place of optimism and beauty. His expression in his art is echoed in this written musings. "There's this beautiful world and its waiting for you... just let it in and let it out. Don't be shy, let those colors shine bright; it's going to take a lot of light to win this fight! The beauty & power of the Rogue City ... a small blue bubble of Change.... resistance, rising up for the rights & equality for all!! The front lines for the decade long battle of Marriage Equality in Oklahoma that was rightfully won!" Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The show begins with a reception on Thursday, May 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Cinco De Mayo Pride Fundraiser Friday May 5, 8:00 p.m. Area 18 39 E 18th St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74119 Join Tulsa Pride at Area 18 for a CINCO DE MAYO PARTY and Pride Fundraiser come enjoy margaritas, the lip syncing contest, and fun adult games. Catch your favorite bartender, Pride Team member, awesome dancers and community folks enjoying this FIESTA! 21 and up. CINCO DE Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 pr I lJ I ' A An Afternoon with Wade Rouse (aka Viola Shipman) Sunday May 7, at 2:00 p.m. Foolish Things Coffee Company 1001 S. Main St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74119 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Beloved memoirist and humorist Wade Rouse (America's Boy, At Least in the City Someone Would Hear Me Scream, It's All Relative) has embarked upon a new adventure in writing, penning heartwarming novels under the pseudonym Viola Shipman. His new book is The Hope Chest Ever since she was diagnosed with ALS, fiercely independent Mattie doesn't feel like herself. She can't navigate her beloved home, she can't go for a boat ride, and she can barely even feed herself. Her devoted husband, Don, doesn't want to imagine life without his wife of nearly fifty years, but Mattie isn't likely to make it past their anniversary. But when Rose, Mattie's new caretaker, and her young daughter, Jeri, enter the couple's life, happiness and the possibility for new memories return. Together they form a family, and Mattie is finally able to pass on her memories from the hope chest she received from her mother. author of 1k J,,nm ~u:w.W This book is the perfect Mother's Day gift! Facebook Event 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo May 13, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for April's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ~ ----(918) 594-8568 $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with 4/24/26, 3:52 PM �OkEq eNews April 26th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-26th--2017.ht... For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday May 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 E anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 ALITY usiness Alliance In an effort to better serve you and your community, every Orkin Man receives unparalleled industry training. Your Orkin Man was trained by one of the top 125 training programs in the nations - receiving 160 hours of hands-on training during his first year on the job. He's trained to use the most effective approach to treat your specific pest problem and situation. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Check out Orkin online at www.orkin.com The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Rainglow Run Friday June 2, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Kickoff Tulsa PRIDE Weekend with the 4th annual Rainglow Run on Friday, June 2, 2017. Don glow in the dark body paint and glow sticks and run for equality! Prizes for the overall winners and best costume! One mile fun run: 8:00 p.m. 5K: 8:30 p.m. Sign Up Facebook event Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety 4/24/26, 3:52 PM �OkEq eNews April 26th, 2017 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-26th--2017.ht... Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Volunteer of the Month April 2017 Greg Mayfield Greg began volunteering in December 2016, as a way to do more for his community. When circumstances changed and he found himself with more time on his hands he decided it was time to volunteer and he chose the Equality Center. Greg enjoys meeting people and has learned how important it is to help people who might call needing information about what the center offers. Greg also notes the importance in greeting those that come in with a smile on his face and welcoming them into the center. "I remember when I first started, a young man came in needing assistance with a health issue. I was able to tell him what the Equality Center could do to help him. I was also able to give him other sources that could help and give him guidance. The young man came back a month or so ago and told me that he was scared and worried. He shook my hand and told me that I helped him more than just giving him information, that I treated him with kindness and empathy. I see him every now and then, and he has a smile on his face. For me that is why I volunteer at the Equality Center" Greg recalls. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. When Greg is not volunteering he has a pet and house sitting service that he's trying to get started. He also loves to garden or as his friends say "He loves to play in the dirt." Greg loves all the social activities that the Equality Center has to offer and notes "I'm also very proud that the center opens their arms to all that need a safe place without judgement." Greg highly recommends to anyone he gets to talk to that they should volunteer time at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. "I encourage them to volunteer one day a week or for special events that the center puts on for the community". We thank you for your passion Greg! The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Equality Center Pride Store Show your pride with one (or more) of our colorful pride buttons. Available in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store. Prices vary from $1.00 - $3.00 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Sordid Lives" By: Del Shores April's Shower is a comedy about love, romance and expectation. The story follows unpredictable twists and turns until it climaxes with a madcap finale. The hilarity belies the poignancy of truth and love and the laughter is punctuated with honesty, tenderness and pain. At the beginning, the cast assembles for a seemingly traditional wedding shower. The action is captured inside an eclectic, three-story craftsman - itself serving as a central character to the story. As the script progresses, layers are slowly pulled away revealing secret relationships and subversive undercurrents - the wedding shower quickly becomes a free for all. Just when we think we have a grasp on each character's inner-motives, more characters get sucked into the fray altering everyone's dynamic and the course of April's "perfect" shower. We open on the main character Alex, a chef, put out by her effort for the shower and struggling with her desire to make things "picture-perfect." She is really hiding her true emotional motivation behind a mask. As April, the bride-to-be arrives, Alex's mask begins to slip away. It slowly becomes obvious that Alex, the disgruntled maid-of-honor, carries a secret that effects not just the course of her life, but that of almost everyone at the shower. In the end, Alex unveils her secret, an act of truth, BB - Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/24/26, 3:52 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5fe7ed6299ee92944f63284b585868fd.pdf c6c9a5a3a8a78da866eca8767b66d67f PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 7th, 2017 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-7th--2017.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e Lambda Car Club International June 7th, 2017 okl.ihom:ms for equ.ility In This Issue news Lambda Car Club MOREcolor Remembering Pulse Simply Sondheim - Council Oak Men's Chorale Ladies Social Club Now forming in Tulsa! Orkin A new chapter of the Lambda Car Club International is now forming in the Tulsa area. Tulsa will serve all Oklahoma, Kansas, and Arkansas. Currently the nearest chapters are in Dallas, St. Louis, and Memphis. If you are interested in joining a group of like minded men and women to share the love of automobile art you are invited to join us. You do not need a collectible just the love of cars. Legalize Me Equality Business Alliance Mixer All Spiritualist Paths Pride Store This is an international car club with over 2,000 members. Besides the local events held there are meet up with other regions for fun weekends and daily events. Rainbow Library The "Grand Invitational" is an annual event when all the chapters from New York to California meet in a host city (Detroit was a blast) for a week of planned activities. Grateful Day Bowl-a-Thon You are guaranteed to meet some lifelong friends, loves, and family within our gay family. Real Boy Jolt Tulsa State of Oklahoma Strategic Vision for Victim Safety Needs Assessment Contact Tim VanMeter at ttvanmeter@aol.com or 918-760-1959 Research Invitation Reproductive Justice Documentary MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition 2017 Compassionate Tulsa June 8th, Opening Reception, 6:00 p.m. June 8th-11th: Run of the Show Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The MOREcolor 2017 Committee invites you to join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the annual MOREColor regional juried art exhibition. Opening Reception is Thursday, June 8th, 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. The event is free and open to the public. The exhibition will run June 8th, 9th, 10th 12:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. and June 11th 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. OkEq Board Meeting Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, the Hyatt Regency, and TW's AFAB Catering 7 p.m. Thursday, June 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Dennis R. Neill Equality 621 E 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The MOREcolor 2017 Committee OkEq Art Exhibition The May Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of of Ralph Weidling in an Exhibit Titled "Colors of a Rogue City Resident". His expression in his art is echoed in this written musings. "There's this beautiful world and its waiting for you... just let it in and let it out. Don't be shy, let those colors shine bright; it's going to take a lot of light to win this fight! The beauty & power of the Rouge City ... a small blue bubble of Change.... resistance, rising up for the rights & equality for all!! The front lines for the decade long battle of Marriage Equality in Oklahoma that was rightfully won!" www.okeq.org Exhibition and sale benefiting Oklahomans for Equality with works by Sharon Allred Gustavo Banda Melaine Barfield Irissa Baxter Michael Benton Donald Bowen Allie Jensen Vicki Jordan Rebeccq Joskey Aubree Karner Darci Lenker Charlotte Lough Family Ties 4/24/26, 3:55 PM �OkEq eNews June 7th, 2017 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-7th--2017.html... Cynthia Brown Beth Burgess Tanya Butler Phillip Butler Adrian Cain Karin Cermak Lanette Clark Sadawna Coburn Slim Cook Shawn Cunningham Samantha Dent Mali Docktor Liz Dueck Annalee Dunaway Linda Dunbar Chad Eggar Kris Fairchild Alan Frakes Penni Gage Don Gonzales Jonathan Green Hannah Hanley Shauna Henry Janice Hickey Mycah Higley Merredith Hoosier Sandi Willhite Julia Lowe Glenda Maxey Adam McGaughey Rachel Miller Jessica Newman Taylor Painter-Wolfe Rryon Perdue Katie Pernu Dan Pham Daryl Reimer Cheryl Roach Ann Shannon Tami Smith Sonia Sniderman Behnaz Sohrabian Anne Solomon Brigid Giddens Spanier Joe Staskal Daniel Sutliff Kat Swearingen Chuck Tomlins Ann Tomlins Arthur Uphold Cecilia Villalobos Misty Wheeler Mary Whitney Dean Wyatt Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Lawyer in the Library June 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Remembering Pulse Monday, June 12, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Oklahomans for Equality and Moms Demand Action in Oklahoma for a community-wide candle light vigil, with moments of silence and reflection, contemplative selections, remembering the names of those that died, musical performance art and a show of solidarity with Orlando and our Latinx LGBTQ community, on the one year anniversary of the Pulse Nightclub attack. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/24/26, 3:55 PM �OkEq eNews June 7th, 2017 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-7th--2017.html... Simply Sondheim - Council Oak Men's Chorale Friday June 16 & Saturday June 17, 8:00 p.m. Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S. Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74119 Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - - (918) 594-8568 Council Oak Men's Chorale presents Simply Sondheim, showcasing the works of Stephen Sondheim. The 2017 Spring Concert will be a tribute to Stephen Sondheim's musical songwriting. This collection of masterful works encompasses the creative genius and musical talent behind such great musicals as Into the Woods, West Side Story, Sweeney Todd, Gypsy and many others. Join COMC on Friday and Saturday June 16th and 17th at 8:00 p.m. in the Community Hall at Boston Avenue Methodist Church. Tickets for the performances are $20 each. For more information on Council Oak Men's Chorale please visit our website at counciloak.org . Ladies Social Club Friday June 9, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Potluck games and snacks - bring your favorites and we'll play 'em! Join OkEq Ladies Social Club on Facebook estart of Pest Season: Are you ready? Ants Rats Are just waiting to Roaches Squirrels move In. And the Mice Spiders Termites Scorpions Orkin Man is stands ready to protect you. Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ----(918) 594-8568 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, 4/24/26, 3:55 PM �OkEq eNews June 7th, 2017 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-7th--2017.html... Family Friendly Homes, Businesses, Manufacturing Plan s sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 6- 6958 Restaruants, Hotels, Offices Commercial Kitchens Food Distribution CaJI Scott today at either nu1Wber and IWention OKEQ2017 for a special discount Pest Control Down to a Science 6550 E 40th St, Tu lsa, OK 74 145 Legalize Me Friday, June 16, 7:00 p.m. Liggett Studio 314 S Kenosha Ave Tulsa, OK 74120 Legalize Me Presented by the Living Arts Performance Committee Legalize Me is an evening of performances created by local LGBT artists as part of the celebration of Pride Month. These performances draw from the myriad experiences of queer people, flying in the face of rhetoric and legislation crafted to erase these identities. Legalize Me will showcase artists with the courage to be louder, stronger, realer and more present than ever in a hostile national climate of hate, inspiring the audience to do the same. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Friday, June 16, 2017 7pm at Liggett Studio 314 S Kenosha Ave Tulsa, OK 74120 Tickets: $5-$15 (sliding scale) Performing and Exhibiting Artists: John Bryant Tempest Cartwright Claire Collins Rosa Evans-Lombe Karyn Fox Luis Garcia Tyler Harrison Liv Jensen Abril Marshall Eli Wright and Chris West Mia Wright Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday June 21, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by West Elm 1926 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114 E UALITY Business Alliance Visit the west elm modern home decor and modern furniture store in Tulsa, OK and find the bedding , furniture , room decor , and dinnerware you need to create a stylish contemporary home. Learn more about our complementary design services offered by our store experts. Check out West Elm online at www.westelm.com Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more 4/24/26, 3:55 PM �OkEq eNews June 7th, 2017 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-7th--2017.html... information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. All Spiritualist Paths SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) June 2017 HUI Of OPR 0rtU01JU Locate d at: 4 S Pa rk St, Sapulpa, OK 74066 Hn't1r Cturch .....th &arbara and Shu1t'I Sundotys l'Jam- 12 ~pm (Downtown just off Dewey(RT66) f ucs-rhun 11D""I ... 5pm &,, Appolntrntnt Rosewood Hcolcrs Rilu Vry $:S·S200 918-512-6821 Special Events and Workshop s 1'1ulc: 66 llowou1 t sapulpiti .lJne 3,. Join us I Tur. Toi~ Pttde ~,ttT•l l me 3"' suuuttd $5 LO.,.• Don~on Tl->t 2ndlhursd<l'f Junt 1!1 1''. 4th Frldilf Shared Htalln1 621, 4• SL Tuk it, OcblWlffl~ 7<1.1.2(L lo O,dlc: o... ronUy 101cm Rcadinc, ,~ - Thurs 1:2:311 - Spnl ~ t t i Y~r, 5pn,-7pm Table T•PPlllJ wt Store Hours Shlrlty Splrltitt Ltr TutR!ay 1'"' & l]l1at6prn ._~okee ltuket 'WeMlnt with ca,ol V'1a11 .ble: I " (lhun) 6pm - 9pm Sl.8.00 Mj Vd,nn Condocie: Oys;;,.i Hu,linr ~p,ntu I Gu,d.i,nu Tue - Sat Tutsd!IY·Sllli:unfo'f 11·5 The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ Minclul Mediurnhip with aamA 11am-6pm 11•11~6"', 201h (Tur.,) 6pm S20 •~rolrl!:~MC1111•,inlht: R,iborTor.: l ~l7"'(!wtt) 1Dam - 4pm, StiD boo. wlthdtpCKI\. Monthly SPEOALS!!! Schedule a reading today And SEE What 2017 has in store lor YOU, love, Jobs, More! t<spfrlt hllt Gdery ~th BUNAi Junr 24"'~ (jpm $20 • 111 S.turdu Orunwninr Onlr b.e17th(iit)fipm 1 Gourd lllilttlerWO.bhop wilh St".ll!!'f 5':Mrttsee&t.,- Seances by request w ith ..lu'le: 24f'l 1Dam - 7,,m S35 Barbara Dreamkecpcr (• HSVPwif'I dcposiO like us on Facebook at: httpr:(/www.fac•boo k.co rn/allsp iritualirtpat hs Equality Center Pride Store 2017 Tulsa Pride Shirts are still a vailable in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store for $25.00 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 4/24/26, 3:55 PM �OkEq eNews June 7th, 2017 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-7th--2017.html... Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Eating Out 2: Sloppy Seconds" By: Phillip J. Bartell How far would you go to get the person of your dreams? In the first Eating Out, Kyle (American Idol's Jim Verraros) convinced his straight roommate to pretend to be gay to get the girl. Now with the help of Gwen (Emily Brooke Hands from "Rick & Steve") and Tiffani (Rebekah Kochan), Kyle pretends to be heterosexual to land Troy (Marco Dapper), the new guy (and nude model) who's turning the heads of both men and women. Kyle soon finds himself joining a campus ex-gay support group and decides to pursue the confused Troy with his own tactic -- being his "out" gay self. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Who will win Troy first? In the boy eat boy, boy eat girl, bisexual mystique of Eating Out 2, the stakes are raised, sexual boundaries are obliterated, and the answer is never what you might expect! Don't miss the sexy and notorious appearances by the Hot Surfer Guy, the Hot Shirtless Guy and the Hot Clothed Guy. Also with Mink Stole (Hairspray, Pink Flamingos), Michael Serrato (The Big Gay Sketch Show) and Adrian Quinonez (Dante's Cove). EBA Directory Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 3:55 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c32cc66ff8a91274f60b438a291706db.pdf a83674da1c22adcdc4244e46576088f7 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-13th--2017.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 okl.ihom:ms for equ.ility news In This Issue Lambda Car Club Simply Sondheim - Council Oak Men's Chorale Legalize Me Orkin Lambda Car Club International Now forming in Tulsa! A new chapter of the Lambda Car Club International is now forming in the Tulsa area. Tulsa will serve all Oklahoma, Kansas, and Arkansas. Currently the nearest chapters are in Dallas, St. Louis, and Memphis. If you are interested in joining a group of like minded men and women to share the love of automobile art you are invited to join us. You do not need a collectible just the love of cars. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Pride Store Rainbow Library Little Shop of Horrors Real Boy This is an international car club with over 2,000 members. Besides the local events held there are meet up with other regions for fun weekends and daily events. Grateful Day Bowl-a-Thon The "Grand Invitational" is an annual event when all the chapters from New York to California meet in a host city (Detroit was a blast) for a week of planned activities. State of Oklahoma Strategic Vision for Victim Safety Needs Assessment You are guaranteed to meet some lifelong friends, loves, and family within our gay family. Contact Tim VanMeter at ttvanmeter@aol.com or 918-760-1959 Jolt Tulsa Research Invitation Reproductive Justice Documentary Compassionate Tulsa Simply Sondheim - Council Oak Men's Chorale Friday June 16 & Saturday June 17, 8:00 p.m. Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S. Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74119 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The May Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the MOREcolor Regional Juried Art Exhibition. The MOREcolor 2017 Committee invites you to join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the annual MOREColor regional juried art exhibition. - ----- -- -- ------ ----- --- - - ------ --- ---- ---- ----- - ------ - - The exhibition will run June 8th, 9th, 10th 12:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. and June 11th 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. www.okeq.org Family Ties Council Oak Men's Chorale presents Simply Sondheim, showcasing the works of Stephen Sondheim. The 2017 Spring Concert will be a tribute to Stephen Sondheim's musical songwriting. This collection of masterful works encompasses the creative genius and musical talent behind such great musicals as Into the Woods, West Side Story, Sweeney Todd, Gypsy and many others. Join COMC on Friday and Saturday June 16th and 17th at 8:00 p.m. in the Community Hall at Boston Avenue Methodist Church. Tickets for the performances are $20 each. For more information on Council Oak Men's Chorale please visit our website at counciloak.org . Legalize Me Friday, June 16, 7:00 p.m. Liggett Studio Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net 4/24/26, 3:56 PM �OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-13th--2017.ht... 314 S Kenosha Ave Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library June 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Legalize Me Presented by the Living Arts Performance Committee Legalize Me is an evening of performances created by local LGBT artists as part of the celebration of Pride Month. These performances draw from the myriad experiences of queer people, flying in the face of rhetoric and legislation crafted to erase these identities. Legalize Me will showcase artists with the courage to be louder, stronger, realer and more present than ever in a hostile national climate of hate, inspiring the audience to do the same. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Friday, June 16, 2017 7pm at Liggett Studio 314 S Kenosha Ave Tulsa, OK 74120 Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Tickets: $5-$15 (sliding scale) Performing and Exhibiting Artists: John Bryant Tempest Cartwright Claire Collins Rosa Evans-Lombe Karyn Fox Luis Garcia Tyler Harrison Liv Jensen Abril Marshall Eli Wright and Chris West Mia Wright Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 rt of Pest Season: Are you ready? Ants Rats Are just waiting to Roaches Squirrels move In. And the Mice Spiders Termites Scorpions Orkin Man is stands ready to protect you. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Family Friendly By Appointment Homes, Businesses, Manufacturing Plan s Restaruants, Hotels, Offices Commercial Kitchens Food Distribution Call Scott today at either nu .. ber and ..ention OKEQ2017 for a special discount Pest Control Down to a Science Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org ------ Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 6550 E 40th St, Tu lsa, OK 74 1 45 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday June 21, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by West Elm 1926 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114 Dr. Kurt Choate E UALITY •I Business Alliance i Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 4/24/26, 3:56 PM �OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-13th--2017.ht... DrKurt@OkEq.org Visit the west elm modern home decor and modern furniture store in Tulsa, OK and find the bedding , furniture , room decor , and dinnerware you need to create a stylish contemporary home. Learn more about our complementary design services offered by our store experts. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Check out West Elm online at www.westelm.com The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 2017 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 7th, 2017 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, nine Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 23rd) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Nine directors will be elected. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. • Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 oklahomans for equality Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member and membership fees current 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Equality Center Pride Store 2017 Tulsa Pride Shirts are still a vailable in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store for $25.00 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on 4/24/26, 3:56 PM �OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-13th--2017.ht... Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Trans Voices: Becoming Who You Are" By: Declan Henry Bronze Winner for the 2017 Independent Publisher Book Awards in the category of Gay/Lesbian/Bi/Trans NonFiction Non-Binary Support Group Imagine what it must be like to feel you are a woman 'trapped' in a man's body. Or a man 'trapped' in a woman's body. And what happens if you decide to reject your birth gender and become a trans man or a trans woman? Drawing on over one hundred interviews with individuals, this book is a compilation of the voices of those who have decided to undergo transition - both male-to-female and female-to-male. The book details the diverse experiences and challenges faced by those who transition, exploring a range of topics such as hormone treatments; reassignment surgeries; coming out; sex and sexuality; physical, emotional and mental health; transphobia; discrimination; and hate crime, as well as highlighting the lives of non-binary individuals and those who cross-dress to form a wider understanding of the varied ways in which people experience gender. '• TRANS VOICES Beccr'ri'lgwtcVOuke This powerful book is an ideal introduction to those keen to understand more about contemporary trans issues as well as those questioning their own gender identity. '~ ~~, Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 3:56 PM �OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-13th--2017.ht... The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 v . Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group RUGGLE, TRIUMPH, AND LOVE. Every Friday 7 p.m. l'\IE SEEUBOUT BOY'S lUNSITIO IN ~lANHOOO." Nll.llCIII.IWNlf Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/24/26, 3:56 PM �OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-13th--2017.ht... Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno IIIIIR11MfR■ ll!l llM.) Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Gr~'C)~ Foundation ][nc. R dRib on Bo I-a- hon sday June 8 20 7 7pm - 9 m Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Unlimited Bowling .______________ Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group -----------' 4/24/26, 3:56 PM �OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-13th--2017.ht... Free Shoe Ren $20.00 per pers All proceeds benefit the HIV Wellness Retreat - - ~GRAB YOUR First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Corne join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday June 9th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. State of Oklahoma Strategic Vision for Victim Safety Needs Assessment At the request of the Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault and the Oklahoma Office of Attorney General, Victim Services Unit, we have launched the 2017 Threshold of Transformation: State of Oklahoma Strategic Vision for Victim Safety Needs Assessment. Initial information gathering began in December 2016 which has led to the Phase II HIPAA-compliant survey which is being distributed via the link below throughout the State of Oklahoma and the Tribal Nations located within the state borders. Please share this survey link with each of your respective employees, members, professional groups, and especially victims who have been served by your organization. The future sustainability for many of the services available throughout Oklahoma is dependent upon the successful completion and implementation of a statewide strategic plan for victim services. Your voice matters in these efforts. Our intent is to receive feedback from all facets of the criminal justice system, governmental agencies, service providers, victim/survivors, and community members at large. If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact: Candida Marion, OCADVSA Lesley March, OAG, Victim Services Unit Sheree L. Hukill, Integrated Concepts Threshold of Transformation: Strategic Vision for Victim Safety Survey Link https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/icidvsast Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org '-1 6'\.. . ~ ~, I - Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Please ensure we reach stakeholders you believe can provide valuable insight. We need to have as many survivors as possible complete the survey; we are all here to support their road to safety and security. We will be hosting focus groups during 25-28 July 2017 , conducting one-on-one interviews between now and September, and presenting findings at the 2017 Partners for Change Conference on 13-14 September . Respectfully, 4/24/26, 3:56 PM �OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-13th--2017.ht... Sheree L. Hukill, JD Invitation to Participate in Research Online Survey Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Would you like to be involved in research at the University of Oklahoma? I am Jedediah Bragg from the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work and I invite you to participate in my research project entitled Social Justice Implications of Inclusive Measures of Sexual and Gender Minority Populations. This research is being conducted online. You must be at least 18 years of age to participate in this study. The purpose of this research is to explore the impacts of assessing sexuality in a more inclusive manner and how social supports effect overall well-being. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org REPRODUCTIVE Campu ction J USTIC E: etl ork Project Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org 1l1t' om u~ Re ard1 t'll tt'r is prod ucing a documcnra ry about R produ • • a. rt' lta\'t' receiw<l gra1H fun ding fr m co dp r at chi doc umentary. fo r all ·oluci na ry 'e bd i 't' ill e4ualit • nd . re ho ping ro im rvi w a m 11}' diff r nc klah 1an a cm! t in to u ·b t <la • to ht' apart I chi gro 1g docu ca , , eu love to ht'ar what you th ink of kla hom. law and al m1'7 . lnr rv1 , . ar vid on a 1p 1 , h wcv r, \I , i II ·crtain I • work with your d 1e<lule if ; u arc un bk co ~che<lule<l ti m . ) ct d ring WED : .zpm-spm FRI: 6pm-8pm SAT: 2.pm • 3 pm We want to interview you! lo s1'y;,1 up far 011 mt ri•iew nr far mnrf' mfa. cnm,1 t: Or. Lind oy Church ll Mc:k yl Fi 1l•t t•rl(• l>t•Mrv• l'"'J"'' UJl),,l,,.,uo• mli h, rl> 11 ri,· ju i cclmpu• 4/24/26, 3:56 PM �OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-13th--2017.ht... Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE~ Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. -- GOLDEN For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org ---------~ I 4/24/26, 3:56 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fc92830353c090859700e583c400f966.pdf 5bff88b32fd24c86b55f15d5594f6dc8 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 21st, 2017 1 of 7 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-21st--2017.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news okl.ihom.ins for equ.ility June 21st, 2017 In This Issue Orkin 2017 OkEq Board Elections Equality Business Alliance Mixer Article Headline Article Headline Conference Sexuality & - - on -Intimacy, ---Spirituality Tulsa Pride 2017 rt of Pest Season: Are you ready? Ants Rats Are just waiting to Roaches Squirrels move in. And the Mice Spiders Termites Scorpions Pride Store Rainbow Library Orkin Man stands ready to protect you. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Family Friendly Homes, Businesses, Manufacturing Plants Restaruants, Hotels, Offices Com- mercial Kitchens Food Distribution Call Scott today at either number and mention OKEQ2017 for a special discount Pest Control Down to a Science OkEq Art Exhibition The May Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the MOREcolor Regional Juried Art Exhibition. The MOREcolor 2017 Committee invites you to join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the annual MOREColor regional juried art exhibition. The exhibition will run June 8th, 9th, 10th 12:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. and June 11th 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. www.okeq.org 6550 E 40th St, Tulsa, OK 74 145 2017 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 7th, 2017 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, six Board of Director spaces are up for election. At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Six directors will be elected. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR Family Ties • 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 23rd) Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. oklahomans for equality Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member and membership fees current 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op 4/24/26, 3:57 PM �OkEq eNews June 21st, 2017 2 of 7 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-21st--2017.ht... ~ - -!-. •, ••,.,_, • • "'.1'-- • I _.,,. '~:::. - j Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Facilitated by Brendon Glon Lawyer in the Library July 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday June 21, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by West Elm 1926 Utica Square, Tulsa, OK 74114 E UALITY Business Alliance Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or -mary.jones@ppheartland.org -·-- - Counseling Services Join us for June's Equality Business Alliance mixer hosted by West Elm. Visit the west elm modern home decor and modern furniture store in Tulsa, OK and find the bedding, furniture, room decor, and dinnerware you need to create a stylish contemporary home. Learn more about our complementary design services offered by our store experts. Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Check out West Elm online at www.westelm.com Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties OSU Tulsa Counseling Center The OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center provides services to children over the age of 15, adolescents, and adults who are residents of the community, including students, staff 4/24/26, 3:57 PM �OkEq eNews June 21st, 2017 3 of 7 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-21st--2017.ht... Fourth Tuesday of each month Tuesday June 27, July 25, Aug. 22, 10:00am 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their first pool party on Tuesday, June 27th at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, deserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. and faculty affiliated with Oklahoma State University. Services are provided by Counseling Psychology and Community Counseling Graduate Students and supervised by faculty members. SERVICES PROVIDED • Individual Therapy • Family Therapy • Couples Therapy • Some assessment and testing services are also available For an appointment please call 918-594-8568 and let then know you were referred by Oklahomans for Equality. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday July 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Non-Binary Support Group The July Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Sandi Willhite in an Exhibit Titled "Tulsa Cowgirls", beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. She speaks of her art as a living thing "A herd of lovable, colorful and whimsical cows will fill the Equality Center for an old fashioned rodeo. These cow paintings represent my Oklahoma roots and my love for both the outdoors and color. As a tribute to my family, each cow is named after either one of my Grandmothers or one of my many Aunts (they would be tickled and delighted to be memorialized in this manner). The larger ones showcase the cow with a scene from the Tulsa area. Some are from the Tulsa State Fair, some from downtown Tulsa and some are from Route 66. They all have quite the "personality" and are meant to bring a smile to your face. I'm so excited to be invited by the Equality Center for a solo show of my family of cows. If you adopt one for your home, my goal is to make you smile every time you see it. So saddle up and giddy on down to the Equality Center to get your bid in for one of your own." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, July 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 2017 Conference on Intimacy, Sexuality & Spirituality Thursday, July 13 - Saturday, July 15, 2017 1244 S Utica Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B The 2017 Conference on Intimacy, Sexuality & Spirituality (ISS Con 2017) July 13-15 in Tulsa OK will offer a large selection of course offerings, both in the breakout session (1 hr.) and workshop (1.5-2hr) models. The breakout sessions will be mostly a presentation of themes and topics, while the workshops will be interactive and participatory learning opportunities. Friday evening will include an opportunity to meet with a presenter over (a self-pay) dinner in local restaurants to discuss their topic(s) more thoroughly, followed by interactive group events back at the conference location on the three themes: social, physical, & spiritual. These will include table games, cuddle party, tantric massage, and reflective meditation. Lunch and snacks will be provided both days as a part of your registration cost. CEU credits, including ethics, have been requested. The conference will be held in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Breakout Session topics being considered are: STDs, A Culture of Transparency, Queer Sexuality, Asexual Intimacy, Creation Spirituality, Positive Intimacy without Genital Intercourse, Sex Positive Art, Marriage & Family, Sexuality & Aging, Masculinity of Jesus, 5 Love Languages, Gender Roles, Clobber Passages in the Bible, Communication, Developing a Sex Positive Ethic, Theology of Inclusion & Grace, Dealing with Conflict, Rough Sex vs. Abuse, The Impact of Grief and Trauma on Intimacy, Native American Sexuality, Monogamy vs. Non-Monogamy, The Power of Touch, Sacred Texts and ISS, Alt Lifestyles: BDSM, Poly, Non-Monogamy, and more, The Joy of Chastity, Sexuality & Disability, and Tantric Pleasure. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Workshops currently scheduled are Relationship Communication, Developing Ethics for a Sex Positive Life, and A Theological Framework for Celebrating ISS. If you have suggestions or a request for a particular session topic and/or presenter, please contact Ray@CAVUCenter.com. Tulsa Pride 2017 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) e Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by 4/24/26, 3:57 PM �OkEq eNews June 21st, 2017 4 of 7 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-21st--2017.ht... John Madigan II Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 v Gender Support Program Equality Center Pride Store 2017 Tulsa Pride Shirts are still a vailable in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store for $25.00 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "How My Family Came to Be - Daddy, Papa and Me" By: Andrew R. Aldrich Illustrated by: Mike Motz "The day I was born was a happy day." ttowMyFamll1CameioBe- Told with simple playful illustrations, How My Family Came to Be - Daddy, Papa and Me clearly addresses for a young audience the changing makeup of families. The story grew out of the authors' need to explain to his son how their family came to be and what "family" really means. Narrated from the perspective of a schoolaged child, the book shows how his family was created and that families 4/24/26, 3:57 PM �OkEq eNews June 21st, 2017 5 of 7 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-21st--2017.ht... are made up of people who love each other. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer 4/24/26, 3:57 PM �OkEq eNews June 21st, 2017 6 of 7 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-21st--2017.ht... information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 3:57 PM �OkEq eNews June 21st, 2017 7 of 7 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-21st--2017.ht... Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 3:57 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/dc05a6bb4fba65808db21a8d57e9e25a.pdf 6cba0ed0cccd63e1360e8d7d70cd051f PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 28th, 2017 1 of 7 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2017.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews 4th of July Holiday e June 28th, 2017 okl.ihom.ins for equ.ility news In This Issue 4th of July Holiday Orkin 2017 OkEq Board Elections July Video eNews July Volunteer of the Month LGBTQ People of Color Peer Support Group Pride Rides "First Thursday" Art Opening Conference on Intimacy, Sexuality & - -Spirituality - -·- - - The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be open throughout the 4th of July holiday. However, most all of the programs have been suspended for the holiday. Please check the OkEq Calender for program updates. Equality Business Alliance Mixer S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Gayming Night with Microsoft Tulsa Pride 2017 Pride Store Rainbow Library The staff and board of Oklahomans for Equality wish you a happy and safe 4th of July! OkEq Board Meeting rt of Pest Season: Are you ready? Rats Are ju st waiting to Roaches Squirrels move in. And the Mice Spiders Termites Scorpions Ants Orkin Man stands ready to protect you . Family Friendly 7 p.m. Thursday, July 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The May Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the MOREcolor Regional Juried Art Exhibition. The MOREcolor 2017 Committee invites you to join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the annual MOREColor regional juried art exhibition. The exhibition will run June 8th, 9th, 10th 12:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. and June 11th 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. www.okeq.org Homes, Businesses, Manufacturing Plants Restaruants, Hotels, Offices Commercial Kitchens Food Distribution Call Scott today at either number and mentioo OKEQ201 7 for a special discount Family Ties Pest Control Down to a Science 6550 E 40th St, Tulsa, OK 74145 2017 OkEq Board Elections Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net 4/24/26, 3:57 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2017 2 of 7 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2017.ht... The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 7th, 2017 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, six Board of Director spaces are up for election. At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Six directors will be elected. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR • Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 23rd) Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. oklahomans for equality Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member and membership fees current 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Facilitated by Brendon Glon Lawyer in the Library July 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org --- ----- July Video eNews Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Q r :: July Volunteer of the Month Nina Ryan I have been volunteering with OKEQ 8 months. Wow. It sure doesn't seem it's been that long. Time goes by so fast. Volunteering somewhere has been a goal of mine for sometime. While my kids were in school, and I wasn't working outside the home, I volunteered at their schools. As my older ones went off to college and my youngest was in high school I went to work at Tulsa Tech in Broken Arrow. Once I stopped working there I kept thinking I would find a place to volunteer and nothing really inspired me to go ahead with it. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa 4/24/26, 3:57 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2017 3 of 7 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2017.ht... Counseling Center The campaign for President of the United States had been a topic of conversation between my son Jack and I for many months before November, 2016. I have always disliked discussing politics with anyone. Living in my protected bubble I was comfortable in the knowledge everything would work out for the best. People are good, and caring and accepting. So I thought. Jack introduced me to the beliefs of Mike Pence, Steve Bannon, and many others on Trump's team. After acquainting myself with some of their views on LGBTQ issues, and other policies they believed in, I was disturbed, but thought surely Trump won't get elected. Well, we all know how that turned out. Jack was devastated, and worried and scared. No matter what I said to him, he was convinced this was the end of life as we know it. It some ways it was. The OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center provides services to children over the age of 15, adolescents, and adults who are residents of the community, including students, staff and faculty affiliated with Oklahoma State University. Services are provided by Counseling Psychology and Community Counseling Graduate Students and supervised by faculty members. SERVICES PROVIDED So I got on line and looked for a way to support the LGBTQ community. I was also selfish in this endeavor because I was also looking for a way to learn more about LGBTQ people so I could understand and become more accepting myself. My favorite part of volunteering with OKEQ is visiting with the people that are working and volunteering at the center. I also enjoy meeting the variety of people that come in. I have definitely realized what a secure little bubble I have lived in all of my life. I knew I would be openminded to the way others live and view the world, from my time at working with students at Tulsa Tech. That was my first eye opening experience. It helped me to not judge people by what they were wearing or how many piercings or tattoos they have. This is the first time I have knowingly been around LGBTQ folks. I feel everyone would be more accepting and understanding if you would get to know the individual people that are LGBTQ. Being a volunteer at OKEQ has helped me to realize how difficult it can be to live your true self. • Individual Therapy • Family Therapy • Couples Therapy • Some assessment and testing services are also available For an appointment please call 918-594-8568 and let then know you were referred by Oklahomans for Equality. When I am not volunteering at the center I spend time with my daughters and their children. I would love to have more time with Jack, but he lives in San Antonio. We talk often and keep in touch via texts. I like, well I used to enjoy it more, but I do cook almost every day. Gardening has always been something I have enjoyed. I'm not a vegetable gardener, I love flowers. It is how I relax. There are so many things OKEQ offers, it is hard to pick what event or program I like the best. I have been most impressed with the information and support that is given to everyone that asks for it by the staff and volunteers that I have come in contact with. I would recommend to anyone who wants a place to volunteer and is interested in helping others in there quests for equality. At the same time being you will be around people that value that you are there. You can be there as little as 3 hours a week or choose to give more of your time, it's up to you. You'll be glad you did. If you would like to volunteer, click here or contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org LGBTQ People of Color Peer Support Group Thursday June 29, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com This is a safe space for LGBTQQIA-POC community members to come and engage in a dialogue about relevant issues-where anything and everything can be discussed without feeling judged. All individuals who identify as people of color are welcome at this group to gain support, insight and find a general sense of community and family. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Pride Rides - Physiques by Monique Friday June 30, 5:45 a.m. and 11:15 a.m. Physiques by Monique 3403 S. Peoria Ave., Ste 100, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 June is the month of PRIDE so we want to end it with a PRIDE RIDE!!! 45MIN spin class....basically a party on the bike!! You'll sign up as usual and then bring your donations to class, we will see that your donations are properly given to the OkEq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Stay connected on Facebook 0 \)c donations t. ·,~ii Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Oc~ ~ Proceeds benefiting the ;r.r OkEq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ~- p Ad e The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. ERIDAY JUNE 30th 545AM & 1115AM SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) 4/24/26, 3:57 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2017 4 of 7 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2017.ht... "First Thursday" Art Opening Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Thursday July 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The July Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Sandi Willhite in an Exhibit Titled "Tulsa Cowgirls", beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. She speaks of her art as a living thing "A herd of lovable, colorful and whimsical cows will fill the Equality Center for an old fashioned rodeo. These cow paintings represent my Oklahoma roots and my love for both the outdoors and color. As a tribute to my family, each cow is named after either one of my Grandmothers or one of my many Aunts (they would be tickled and delighted to be memorialized in this manner). The larger ones showcase the cow with a scene from the Tulsa area. Some are from the Tulsa State Fair, some from downtown Tulsa and some are from Route 66. They all have quite the "personality" and are meant to bring a smile to your face. I'm so excited to be invited by the Equality Center for a solo show of my family of cows. If you adopt one for your home, my goal is to make you smile every time you see it. So saddle up and giddy on down to the Equality Center to get your bid in for one of your own." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, July 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 2017 Conference on Intimacy, Sexuality & Spirituality Thursday, July 13 - Saturday, July 15, 2017 1244 S Utica Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 The 2017 Conference on Intimacy, Sexuality & Spirituality (ISS Con 2017) July 13-15 in Tulsa OK will offer a large selection of course offerings, both in the breakout session (1 hr.) and workshop (1.5-2hr) models. The breakout sessions will be mostly a presentation of themes and topics, while the workshops will be interactive and participatory learning opportunities. Friday evening will include an opportunity to meet with a presenter over (a self-pay) dinner in local restaurants to discuss their topic(s) more thoroughly, followed by interactive group events back at the conference location on the three themes: social, physical, & spiritual. These will include table games, cuddle party, tantric massage, and reflective meditation. Lunch and snacks will be provided both days as a part of your registration cost. CEU credits, including ethics, have been requested. The conference will be held in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Breakout Session topics being considered are: STDs, A Culture of Transparency, Queer Sexuality, Asexual Intimacy, Creation Spirituality, Positive Intimacy without Genital Intercourse, Sex Positive Art, Marriage & Family, Sexuality & Aging, Masculinity of Jesus, 5 Love Languages, Gender Roles, Clobber Passages in the Bible, Communication, Developing a Sex Positive Ethic, Theology of Inclusion & Grace, Dealing with Conflict, Rough Sex vs. Abuse, The Impact of Grief and Trauma on Intimacy, Native American Sexuality, Monogamy vs. Non-Monogamy, The Power of Touch, Sacred Texts and ISS, Alt Lifestyles: BDSM, Poly, Non-Monogamy, and more, The Joy of Chastity, Sexuality & Disability, and Tantric Pleasure. II Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Workshops currently scheduled are Relationship Communication, Developing Ethics for a Sex Positive Life, and A Theological Framework for Celebrating ISS. If you have suggestions or a request for a particular session topic and/or presenter, please contact Ray@CAVUCenter.com Equality Business Alliance Mixer Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Wednesday July 19, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by St Francis Community Service 5840 S. Memorial Dr. #102, Tulsa, OK 74145 SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org E UALITY Business Alliance Game Night Join us for July's Equality Business Alliance mixer hosted by St. Francis Community Service. Since 1945, Saint Francis Community Services has been dedicated to the needs of children and youth. We advocate for them and work to protect them. We do our best to ensure that every child we serve gets Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/24/26, 3:57 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2017 5 of 7 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2017.ht... a chance at a happy and fulfilling life. As a non-profit, faith-based organization, we place great stock in the value of both traditional and non-traditional families. We believe strong families make children's lives better. That's why we care for children through community-based means, serving 10,000 children in Kansas, Nebraska, Oklahoma, and Texas with a broad range of programs and services. We help strengthen and heal families while providing for the health and security of children. Though rooted in the Episcopal tradition, Saint Francis Community Services is an independent not-for-profit organization dedicated to the protection, nurturing, and healing of children and families in body, mind, and spirit. To that end, while partnering with government agencies in supporting children and families in crisis, Saint Francis Community Services honors religious freedom and is also committed to allowing children and families in its care to participate in religious activities on a voluntary basis. Check out St Francis Community Service online at www.stfrancis.org Saint Francis Community Services• Serving Children and Families Since 1945 The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Fourth Tuesday of each month Tuesday July 25, Aug. 22, 10:00am 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 S.A.G.E. will not be meeting July 4th due to the holiday SAGE Tulsa will have their second pool party on Tuesday, July 25th at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, deserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Gayming Night with Microsoft Saturday, July 29 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come on out for a night of fun and games. Socialize, make new friends, and try your hand at our collection of board and Micosoft video games. It's a great way to socialize outside of the bar and club scene! Snacks and light refreshments provided. So come out and join us and let's have some fun! We strive to create accessible and inclusive spaces for all our members. If you require any accommodations to ensure your full participation, please contact: Jose.vega@okeq.org H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Tulsa Pride 2017 e Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced 4/24/26, 3:57 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2017 6 of 7 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2017.ht... sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. Equality Center Pride Store 2017 Tulsa Pride Shirts are still a vailable in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store for $25.00 All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Conduct Unbecoming: Gays & Lesbians in the U.S. Military" By: Randy Shilts Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org "A sober, thoroughly researched and engrossingly readable history on the subject. [Shilts'] chronicle is excellent military history, closely woven with an entrhalling analysis of the changing definitions of sexuality and personal relationships in American society....[A] landmark book....Remarkable." THE NEW YORK TIMES BOOK REVIEW Written by the author of the highly acclaimed AND THE BAND PLAYED ON, this extraordinary and unique exploration of gays in the military and gay persecution in the miliatary is nothing short of a masterpiece of investigative reporting. Shilts spoke with hundreds of lesbian and gays in all levels of the military and tells their stories of pain and pride with an attention to detail and depth of feeling that will leave readers moved and educated and with better understanding. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Jose Vega 4/24/26, 3:57 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2017 7 of 7 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2017.ht... Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 3:57 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7d79aaa919cc09309be1d60c583eea53.pdf 20670e091da3cc28d09295c756f4410f PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 6th, 2017 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-6th--2017.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news okl.ihom.ins for equ.ility July 6th, 2017 In This Issue Orkin George McCauslan & Rusty Clyma Sponsor the Day "First Thursday" Art Opening YBR Pub - Start of Summer Luau Coming Out Workshop July Volunteer of the Month LGBTQ People of Color Peer Support Group rt of Pest Season: Are you ready? Conference Sexuality & - - on -Intimacy, ---Spirituality Equality Business Alliance Mixer S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Gayming Night with Microsoft Rats Are just waiting to Roaches Squirrels move in. And the Mice Spiders Termites Scorpions Ants Orkin Man stands ready to protect you. 2017 OkEq Board Elections NOH8 Photo Shoot Zarrow Mental Health Symposium July Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library Family Friendly Homes, Businesses, Manufacturing Plants Restaruants, Hotels, Offices Com- mercial Kitchens Food Distribution Call Scott today at either number and mention OKEQ2017 for a special discount Pest Control Down to a Science OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Family Ties 6550 E 40th St, Tulsa, OK 74 145 George McCauslan & Rusty Clyma Sponsor the Day Wednesday July 12, 2017 George McCauslan & Rusty Clyma are sponsoring the day to honor their 20th wedding anniversary. Thank You George and Rusty! Happy Anniversary! Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Live Free! Coming Out Worksh op If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday • Just Because Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org "First Thursday" Art Opening 4/24/26, 3:58 PM �OkEq eNews July 6th, 2017 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-6th--2017.html... Thursday July 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The July Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Sandi Willhite in an Exhibit Titled "Tulsa Cowgirls", beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. She speaks of her art as a living thing "A herd of lovable, colorful and whimsical cows will fill the Equality Center for an old fashioned rodeo. These cow paintings represent my Oklahoma roots and my love for both the outdoors and color. As a tribute to my family, each cow is named after either one of my Grandmothers or one of my many Aunts (they would be tickled and delighted to be memorialized in this manner). The larger ones showcase the cow with a scene from the Tulsa area. Some are from the Tulsa State Fair, some from downtown Tulsa and some are from Route 66. They all have quite the "personality" and are meant to bring a smile to your face. I'm so excited to be invited by the Equality Center for a solo show of my family of cows. If you adopt one for your home, my goal is to make you smile every time you see it. So saddle up and giddy on down to the Equality Center to get your bid in for one of your own." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, July 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Facilitated by Brendon Glon Lawyer in the Library July 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. YBR Pub - Start of Summer Luau Saturday July 8, 2:00 - 6:00 p.m. YBR Pub 2630 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74104 Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center The OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center provides services to children over the age of 15, adolescents, and adults who are residents of the community, including students, staff and faculty affiliated with Oklahoma State University. Services are provided by Counseling Psychology and Community Counseling Graduate Students and supervised by faculty members. SERVICES PROVIDED • Individual Therapy • Family Therapy • Couples Therapy • Some assessment and testing services are also available For an appointment please call 918-594-8568 4/24/26, 3:58 PM �OkEq eNews July 6th, 2017 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-6th--2017.html... It's Summer time!! Time to bust out the grill and pineapples! We will be opening at 2pm Saturday July 8th! We will have a DJ, activities and a DUNK tank!! We will be grilling up some wieners and hamburgers and serving a delicious tiki punch!! and let then know you were referred by Oklahomans for Equality. OkEq's very own Sharon Queen and Olivia Cotter will be in the dunk tank Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Coming Out Workshop Mondays 6:00 - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Area Prime Timers Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed 4/24/26, 3:58 PM �OkEq eNews July 6th, 2017 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-6th--2017.html... environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Facilitated by Brendon Glon July Volunteer of the Month Nina Ryan I have been volunteering with OKEQ 8 months. Wow. It sure doesn't seem it's been that long. Time goes by so fast. Volunteering somewhere has been a goal of mine for sometime. While my kids were in school, and I wasn't working outside the home, I volunteered at their schools. As my older ones went off to college and my youngest was in high school I went to work at Tulsa Tech in Broken Arrow. Once I stopped working there I kept thinking I would find a place to volunteer and nothing really inspired me to go ahead with it. The campaign for President of the United States had been a topic of conversation between my son Jack and I for many months before November, 2016. I have always disliked discussing politics with anyone. Living in my protected bubble I was comfortable in the knowledge everything would work out for the best. People are good, and caring and accepting. So I thought. Jack introduced me to the beliefs of Mike Pence, Steve Bannon, and many others on Trump's team. After acquainting myself with some of their views on LGBTQ issues, and other policies they believed in, I was disturbed, but thought surely Trump won't get elected. Well, we all know how that turned out. Jack was devastated, and worried and scared. No matter what I said to him, he was convinced this was the end of life as we know it. It some ways it was. So I got on line and looked for a way to support the LGBTQ community. I was also selfish in this endeavor because I was also looking for a way to learn more about LGBTQ people so I could understand and become more accepting myself. My favorite part of volunteering with OKEQ is visiting with the people that are working and volunteering at the center. I also enjoy meeting the variety of people that come in. I have definitely realized what a secure little bubble I have lived in all of my life. I knew I would be openminded to the way others live and view the world, from my time at working with students at Tulsa Tech. That was my first eye opening experience. It helped me to not judge people by what they were wearing or how many piercings or tattoos they have. This is the first time I have knowingly been around LGBTQ folks. I feel everyone would be more accepting and understanding if you would get to know the individual people that are LGBTQ. Being a volunteer at OKEQ has helped me to realize how difficult it can be to live your true self. 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org When I am not volunteering at the center I spend time with my daughters and their children. I would love to have more time with Jack, but he lives in San Antonio. We talk often and keep in touch via texts. I like, well I used to enjoy it more, but I do cook almost every day. Gardening has always been something I have enjoyed. I'm not a vegetable gardener, I love flowers. It is how I relax. There are so many things OKEQ offers, it is hard to pick what event or program I like the best. I have been most impressed with the information and support that is given to everyone that asks for it by the staff and volunteers that I have come in contact with. I would recommend to anyone who wants a place to volunteer and is interested in helping others in there quests for equality. At the same time being you will be around people that value that you are there. You can be there as little as 3 hours a week or choose to give more of your time, it's up to you. You'll be glad you did. If you would like to volunteer, click here or contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org LGBTQ People of Color Peer Support Group Thursday July 13, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Let's gather. let's celebrate. nothing formal. nothing fancy. no agenda. Let socialize, welcome new members, share experiences and support. This is a safe space for LGBTQQIA-POC community members to come and engage in a dialogue about relevant issues-where anything and everything can be discussed without feeling judged. All individuals who identify as people of color are welcome at this group to gain support, insight and find a general sense of community and family. 2017 Conference on Intimacy, Sexuality & Spirituality Thursday, July 13 - Saturday, July 15, 2017 1244 S Utica Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 The 2017 Conference on Intimacy, Sexuality & Spirituality (ISS Con 2017) July 13-15 in Tulsa OK will offer a large selection of course offerings, both in the breakout session (1 hr.) and workshop (1.5-2hr) models. The breakout sessions will be mostly a presentation of themes and topics, while Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/24/26, 3:58 PM �OkEq eNews July 6th, 2017 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-6th--2017.html... the workshops will be interactive and participatory learning opportunities. Friday evening will include an opportunity to meet with a presenter over (a self-pay) dinner in local restaurants to discuss their topic(s) more thoroughly, followed by interactive group events back at the conference location on the three themes: social, physical, & spiritual. These will include table games, cuddle party, tantric massage, and reflective meditation. Lunch and snacks will be provided both days as a part of your registration cost. CEU credits, including ethics, have been requested. The conference will be held in Tulsa, Oklahoma. EBA Directory Breakout Session topics being considered are: STDs, A Culture of Transparency, Queer Sexuality, Asexual Intimacy, Creation Spirituality, Positive Intimacy without Genital Intercourse, Sex Positive Art, Marriage & Family, Sexuality & Aging, Masculinity of Jesus, 5 Love Languages, Gender Roles, Clobber Passages in the Bible, Communication, Developing a Sex Positive Ethic, Theology of Inclusion & Grace, Dealing with Conflict, Rough Sex vs. Abuse, The Impact of Grief and Trauma on Intimacy, Native American Sexuality, Monogamy vs. Non-Monogamy, The Power of Touch, Sacred Texts and ISS, Alt Lifestyles: BDSM, Poly, Non-Monogamy, and more, The Joy of Chastity, Sexuality & Disability, and Tantric Pleasure. The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workshops currently scheduled are Relationship Communication, Developing Ethics for a Sex Positive Life, and A Theological Framework for Celebrating ISS. If you have suggestions or a request for a particular session topic and/or presenter, please contact Ray@CAVUCenter.com Equality Business Alliance Mixer Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Wednesday July 19, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by St Francis Community Service 5840 S. Memorial Dr. #102, Tulsa, OK 74145 Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. E UALITY Business Alliance H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Join us for July's Equality Business Alliance mixer hosted by St. Francis Community Service. First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Since 1945, Saint Francis Community Services has been dedicated to the needs of children and youth. We advocate for them and work to protect them. We do our best to ensure that every child we serve gets a chance at a happy and fulfilling life. As a non-profit, faith-based organization, we place great stock in the value of both traditional and non-traditional families. We believe strong families make children's lives better. That's why we care for children through community-based means, serving 10,000 children in Kansas, Nebraska, Oklahoma, and Texas with a broad range of programs and services. We help strengthen and heal families while providing for the health and security of children. Though rooted in the Episcopal tradition, Saint Francis Community Services is an independent not-for-profit organization dedicated to the protection, nurturing, and healing of children and families in body, mind, and spirit. To that end, while partnering with government agencies in supporting children and families in crisis, Saint Francis Community Services honors religious freedom and is also committed to allowing children and families in its care to participate in religious activities on a voluntary basis. Check out St Francis Community Service online at www.stfrancis.org Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group Saint Francis Community Services• Serving Children and Families Since 194S The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Fourth Tuesday of each month Tuesday July 25, Aug. 22, 10:00am 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their second pool party on Tuesday, July 25th at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. 4/24/26, 3:58 PM �OkEq eNews July 6th, 2017 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-6th--2017.html... deserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. MISSION: Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gayming Night with Microsoft Saturday, July 29 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come on out for a night of fun and games. Socialize, make new friends, and try your hand at our collection of board and Micosoft video games. It's a great way to socialize outside of the bar and club scene! Snacks and light refreshments provided. So come out and join us and let's have some fun! We strive to create accessible and inclusive spaces for all our members. If you require any accommodations to ensure your full participation, please contact: Jose.vega@okeq.org 2017 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 7th, 2017 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, six Board of Director spaces are up for election. Six directors will be elected. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made b y petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 23rd) Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org • Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member and membership fees current 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) oklahomans for equality 5. Serve a two year term Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org NOH8 Photo Shoot Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Sunday September 17, 2:00 - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the #NOH8Worldwide movement in Tulsa, OK and add your face to the fight for equal human rights! COST : Single/Solo Photos: $40 4/24/26, 3:58 PM �OkEq eNews July 6th, 2017 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-6th--2017.html... Couple/Group Photos: $25 per person NOH8 accepts cash and credit cards only. Fees paid to participate cover services and costs for one edited digital print only, made available via noh8campaign.com, and do not include physical prints. * COME CAMERA-READY * * WEAR A WHITE SHIRT * * POSE & MAKE A STATEMENT! * The NOH8 Campaign returns to Oklahomans For Equality @ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sunday, September 17th for an open photo shoot! Stop by anytime between 2pm-5pm to pose for an official NOH8 photo by photographer Adam Bouska. No reservations needed! Photos are first-come, first-served - and we move fast! Please arrive camera-ready with a plain white shirt to match the signature style of the NOH8 photos. When is the best time to arrive? Most people tend to arrive before the photo shoot begins, but as long as someone has lined up by the advertised end time for the photo shoot (5:00pm for this photo shoot), they should be guaranteed a chance to pose! Once you arrive, the next steps are easy! 1. Fill-out one numbered model release for each person. 2. Have a NOH8 temporary tattoo applied for your photo. 3. Standby for your number to be called. 4. Process your payment once called. 5. Trade your processed model release for duct tape! NOH8 Co-Founder Adam Bouska will photograph roughly 5-10 frames per person. One frame will be selected/edited by our team and made available within approximately eight weeks (timeline subject to change). INTERESTED IN VOLUNTEERING? E-mail info@noh8campaign.com with your contact information and make sure to note which shoot you'd like to volunteer for! 2017 Zarrow Mental Health Symposium - Challenging Injustice & Discrimination October 5-6 Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Why You Can't Miss It! • ● Learn a full spectrum of tools and strategies related to programs, policies, and practices that challenge and/or combat injustice and discrimination, including any subsequent impact on mental health • ● Connect & share ideas with over 800 peers and leading experts in the field! • ● Receive critical CEU & ethics hours! To learn more about the Zarrow Mental Health Symposium, visit www.zarrowsymposium.org, call JoBeth Hamon at 405-778-8122. You may also email jhamon@mhaok.org. -------- You have the power to challenge and combat systemic injustice and discrimination that can impact mental health! Learn how to take action to forever change your community at the 2017 Zarrow Mental Health Symposium - Challenging Injustice & Discrimination, October 5-6 in Tulsa, Okla. The Symposium is a unique opportunity to meet and connect with other like-minded attendees who are inspired to discuss the realities of injustice and discrimination and develop solutions to address these realities and long-term implications on mental health. Plus, you can receive valuable CEU and ethics hours! Stay up-to-date on conference updates & announcements! Visit www.zarrowsymposium.org. -------- July Video eNews Q ,. :: Equality Center Pride Store 2017 Tulsa Pride Shirts are still a vailable in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store for $20.00 4/24/26, 3:58 PM �OkEq eNews July 6th, 2017 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-6th--2017.html... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Manners from Heaven: A Divine Guide to Good Behavior " By: Quentin Crisp Quentin Crisp (born Denis Charles Pratt, 25 December 1908 - 21 November 1999), was an English writer and raconteur Manners from heaven : a divine guide to good behaviour offers insightful instructions for compassionate living. Directs mischievous wit toward proper etiquette for the eighties by caustically detailing the many facets of being polite in an impolite society. In the hapless chaos of our age, the art of manners- as opposed to etiquette, which Crisp sees as a "class system based on snobbery and exclusion"- is more important than ever before. Manners, he tells us, "are a means of getting what you want without appearing to be an absolute swine," and here he explains with his customary wit and deadly accurate insight how to bring manners into all aspects of day-to-day life: entertaining, conversation, family, friendships, and sexual relationships. Discarding the current reverence for sincerity and truth-telling, Crisp extols the subtle art of euphemism and the virtue of the lie- "the basic building blocks of good manners." People "should never be asked to put up with our natural selves or see us as we really are, ever!" Quentin Crisp's caustic commentary, biting satire, and unrelenting humor make Manners from Heaven essential reading for his fans- and an excellent introduction for the unCrisped. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . : ••-Wi•U ______________________________________ _--- -, r----1 I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org --- - - - - ______ .. I 4/24/26, 3:58 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e49a699ba36fcde94b0c9f37dab84297.pdf 39575dac178791b223ecc76cfd156323 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 12th, 2017 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2017.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility July 12th, 2017 In This Issue Orkin George McCauslan & Rusty Clyma Sponsor the Day LGBTQ People of Color Peer Support Group Conference Sexuality & - - on -Intimacy, ---Spirituality Ladies Social Club Events Family Ties Summer Pool Party Coming Out Workshop rt of Pest Season: Are you ready? Equality Business Alliance Mixer S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Gayming Night with Microsoft July Volunteer of the Month Rats Ants Roaches Squirrels Mice Spiders Termites Scorpions Are just waiting to move in. And the Orkin Man stands ready to protect you. Become a Member 2017 OkEq Board Elections Gay Men's Dinner Group "First Thursday" Art Opening Friend for a Friend Identities 101 NOH8 Photo Shoot Zarrow Mental Health Symposium July Video eNews Family Friendly Pride Store Rainbow Library Homes, Businesses, Manufacturing Plants Restaruants, Hotels, Offices Commercia l Kitchens Food Dist ribution Call Scott today at either number and mention OKEQ2017 for a special discount Pest Control Down to a Science 6550 E 40th St, Tuls , OK 74145 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition George McCauslan & Rusty Clyma Sponsor the Day Wednesday July 12, 2017 George McCauslan & Rusty Clyma are sponsoring the day to honor their 20th wedding anniversary. Thank You George and Rusty! Happy Anniversary! The July Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Sandi Willhite in an Exhibit Titled "Tulsa Cowgirls" , beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the m onth. Family Ties If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday • Just Because LGBTQ People of Color Peer Support Group Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Live Free! 4/24/26, 3:59 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2017 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2017.htm... Coming Out Worksh op Thursday July 13, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Let's gather. let's celebrate. nothing formal. nothing fancy. no agenda. Let socialize, welcome new members, share experiences and support. This is a safe space for LGBTQQIA-POC community members to come and engage in a dialogue about relevant issues-where anything and everything can be discussed without feeling judged. All individuals who identify as people of color are welcome at this group to gain support, insight and find a general sense of community and family. 2017 Conference on Intimacy, Sexuality & Spirituality Thursday, July 13 - Saturday, July 15, 2017 1244 S Utica Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 Mondays 6 :00-7:00 p.m. ComingOut@OkEq.org Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Facilitated by Brendon Glon The 2017 Conference on Intimacy, Sexuality & Spirituality (ISS Con 2017) July 13-15 in Tulsa OK will offer a large selection of course offerings, both in the breakout session (1 hr.) and workshop (1.5-2hr) models. The breakout sessions will be mostly a presentation of themes and topics, while the workshops will be interactive and participatory learning opportunities. Friday evening will include an opportunity to meet with a presenter over (a selfpay) dinner in local restaurants to discuss their topic(s) more thoroughly, followed by interactive group events back at the conference location on the three themes: social, physical, & spiritual. These will include table games, cuddle party, tantric massage, and reflective meditation. Lunch and snacks will be provided both days as a part of your registration cost. CEU credits, including ethics, have been requested. The conference will be held in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Lawyer in the Library July 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Breakout Session topics being considered are: STDs, A Culture of Transparency, Queer Sexuality, Asexual Intimacy, Creation Spirituality, Positive Intimacy without Genital Intercourse, Sex Positive Art, Marriage & Family, Sexuality & Aging, Masculinity of Jesus, 5 Love Languages, Gender Roles, Clobber Passages in the Bible, Communication, Developing a Sex Positive Ethic, Theology of Inclusion & Grace, Dealing with Conflict, Rough Sex vs. Abuse, The Impact of Grief and Trauma on Intimacy, Native American Sexuality, Monogamy vs. Non-Monogamy, The Power of Touch, Sacred Texts and ISS, Alt Lifestyles: BDSM, Poly, Non-Monogamy, and more, The Joy of Chastity, Sexuality & Disability, and Tantric Pleasure. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Workshops currently scheduled are Relationship Communication, Developing Ethics for a Sex Positive Life, and A Theological Framework for Celebrating ISS. If you have suggestions or a request for a particular session topic and/or presenter, please contact Ray@CAVUCenter.com Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Ladies Social Club Events Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Friday July 14, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sundae Funday! We'll potluck some awesome sundae fixins and get a good sugar high going! (Also open to combining this with a movie or games if that seems like a good idea?) Friday July 30, 2:00 - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Come craft with us! Knotty Bitches meets the last Sunday of each month in the upstairs couch area of the Oklahoma Equality Center to knit*, chat, and write to our government representatives about the issues that are on our minds. Anyone identifying as a woman is welcome to come and bring one guest of any gender. Kids are welcome too; there is a room for them right next door. All letter writing materials are provided, including help with finding your representatives and figuring out what you want to say. Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. *Any portable craft is welcome. Craft supplies not provided. Family Ties Summer Pool Party Sunday July 16, 2:00 - 4:00 p.m. We will be gathering from 2-4 pm on Sunday, July 16 for a Family Ties pool party. We have the air conditioned club house, a covered kiddie pool, and the big pool. We will also have drinks and snacks. Contact Andy McClain at andy@mcclainfam.com for location details and any questions. Dr. Kurt Choate ~'FAMILY 1'IES POOL Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OSU Tulsa Counseling Center The OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center provides services to children over the age of 15, adolescents, and adults who are residents of the community, 4/24/26, 3:59 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2017 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2017.htm... including students, staff and faculty affiliated with Oklahoma State University. Services are provided by Counseling Psychology and Community Counseling Graduate Students and supervised by faculty members. SERVICES PROVIDED • Individual Therapy • Family Therapy • Couples Therapy • Some assessment and testing services are also available For an appointment please call 918-594-8568 and let then know you were referred by Oklahomans for Equality. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Coming Out Workshop Mondays 6:00 - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free to participate, this course is designed for individuals coming to terms with their sexuality with presentations on how to come out to family, friends and coworkers. Question and answer session in a supportive and informed environment. Please contact ComingOut@OkEq.org or call 918-743-4297 Facilitated by Brendon Glon SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday July 19, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by St Francis Community Service 5840 S. Memorial Dr. #102, Tulsa, OK 74145 Brought to You Bi the Letter B E Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. UALITY Business Alliance The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Join us for July's Equality Business Alliance mixer hosted by St. Francis Community Service. Since 1945, Saint Francis Community Services has been dedicated to the needs of children and youth. We advocate for them and work to protect them. We do our best to ensure that every child we serve gets a chance at a happy and fulfilling life. As a non-profit, faith-based organization, we place great stock in the value of both traditional and non-traditional families. We believe strong families make children's lives better. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) That's why we care for children through community-based means, serving 10,000 children in Kansas, Nebraska, Oklahoma, and Texas with a broad range of programs and services. We help strengthen and heal families while providing for the health and security of children. Though rooted in the Episcopal tradition, Saint Francis Community Services is an independent not-for-profit organization dedicated to the protection, nurturing, and healing of children and families in body, mind, and spirit. To that end, while partnering with government agencies in - -• - Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 4/24/26, 3:59 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2017 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2017.htm... supporting children and families in crisis, Saint Francis Community Services honors religious freedom and is also committed to allowing children and families in its care to participate in religious activities on a voluntary basis. Check out St Francis Community Service online at www.stfrancis.org ~a1nt rranc1s Community Services• Serving Children and Families Since 1945 The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. S.A.G.E. Summer Pool Parties Fourth Tuesday of each month Tuesday July 25, Aug. 22, 10:00am 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their second pool party on Tuesday, July 25th at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, deserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. II Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Gayming Night with Microsoft Saturday, July 29 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Lambda Al-Anon Group Come on out for a night of fun and games. Socialize, make new friends, and try your hand at our collection of board and Micosoft video games. It's a great way to socialize outside of the bar and club scene! Snacks and light refreshments provided. So come out and join us and let's have some fun! Every Friday 7 p.m. We strive to create accessible and inclusive spaces for all our members. If you require any accommodations to ensure your full participation, please contact: Jose.vega@okeq.org July Volunteer of the Month Nina Ryan I have been volunteering with OKEQ 8 months. Wow. It sure doesn't seem it's been that long. Time goes by so fast. Volunteering somewhere has been a goal of mine for sometime. While my kids were in school, and I wasn't working outside the home, I volunteered at their schools. As my older ones went off to college and my youngest was in high school I went to work at Tulsa Tech in Broken Arrow. Once I stopped working there I kept thinking I would find a place to volunteer and nothing really inspired me to go ahead with it. The campaign for President of the United States had been a topic of conversation between my son Jack and I for many months before November, 2016. I have always disliked discussing politics with anyone. Living in my protected bubble I was comfortable in the knowledge everything would work out for the best. People are good, and caring and accepting. So I thought. Jack introduced me to the beliefs of Mike Pence, Steve Bannon, and many others on Trump's team. After acquainting myself with some of their views on LGBTQ issues, and other policies they believed in, I was disturbed, but thought surely Trump won't get elected. Well, we all know how that turned out. Jack was devastated, and worried and scared. No matter what I said to him, he was convinced this was the end of life as we know it. It some ways it was. So I got on line and looked for a way to support the LGBTQ community. I was also selfish in this endeavor because I was also looking for a way to learn more about LGBTQ people so I could understand and become more accepting myself. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno My favorite part of volunteering with OKEQ is visiting with the people that are working and volunteering at the center. I also enjoy meeting the variety of people that come in. I have definitely realized what a secure little bubble I have lived in all of my life. I knew I would be openminded to the way others live and view the world, from my time at working with students at Tulsa Tech. That was my first eye opening experience. It helped me to not judge people by what they were wearing or how many piercings or tattoos they have. This is the first time I have knowingly been around LGBTQ folks. I feel everyone would be more accepting and understanding if you would get to know the individual people that are LGBTQ. Being a volunteer at OKEQ has helped me to realize how difficult it can be to live your true self. 4/24/26, 3:59 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2017 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2017.htm... When I am not volunteering at the center I spend time with my daughters and their children. I would love to have more time with Jack, but he lives in San Antonio. We talk often and keep in touch via texts. I like, well I used to enjoy it more, but I do cook almost every day. Gardening has always been something I have enjoyed. I'm not a vegetable gardener, I love flowers. It is how I relax. There are so many things OKEQ offers, it is hard to pick what event or program I like the best. I have been most impressed with the information and support that is given to everyone that asks for it by the staff and volunteers that I have come in contact with. I would recommend to anyone who wants a place to volunteer and is interested in helping others in there quests for equality. At the same time being you will be around people that value that you are there. You can be there as little as 3 hours a week or choose to give more of your time, it's up to you. You'll be glad you did. If you would like to volunteer, click here or contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Become a Voting member of Oklahomans for Equality EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 2017 OkEq Board Elections Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 7th, 2017 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, six Board of Director spaces are up for election. Six directors will be elected. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made b y petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 23rd) Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member and membership fees current 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term • oklahoman s for equality First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, 4/24/26, 3:59 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2017 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2017.htm... safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gay Men's Dinner Group Events Tuesday August 1, 6:30 p.m. Taziki's Mediterranean Cafe 4929 E. 71st St., Tulsa, OK 74136 August 1st at 6:30pm is our next men's dinner. We are eating at Taziki's Mediterranean Cafe. Located at 4929 e. 71st St. (71st & Yale) Tulsa. If you are coming please let me know so I have a headcount for the reservation. Friday August 4, 7:00 p.m. 2601 S. 96th E. Ct., Tulsa OK 74129 ~!~~!E~E~· tazikiscafe.com Pool Party August 4th ( Friday) from 7:00pm-midnight at 2601 S. 96th E. Ct., Tulsa OK. Bring your own beer or alcohol if you wish to drink, but no glass containers or getting drunk. Thank you! P lease RSVP if you are coming to either event so I have a head count. Gay Men's Dinner Group, Richard Haley GuysDineToo@gmail.com "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday August 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org tt\· I The August Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature an Exhibit Titled "Four Artists - Four Styles", beginning with a reception on Thursday, August 3rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. - Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org "Four Artists - Four Styles" is a group of 4 artists who work together bringing a juxtaposition of styles and mediums together for this show. Charlotte Lough is compelled to paint - it is that simple. "If I go for several days without picking up a paint brush I feel a void that is only filled by making art". She is inspired by the beauty of nature all around - she is drawn to paint birds, butterflies, flowers, landscapes, water, and animals. Her fascination with water has led her to a challenge of painting and understanding different kinds of water including still water, ocean waves, babbling brooks, and waterfalls. Most recently she has given herself the ongoing challenge of painting fifty roses - all are fascinating in their complex and beauty. She currently prefers to work in impressionism/ representational, but is always trying new approaches and styles as she evolves in her expression. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Karin Cermak has moved away from strictly traditional realistic painting to soft contemporary and abstract painting based on her creativity and independence-of-thought on the real image of subjects. She enjoys the freedom of contemporary and abstract painting, where she can blend the reality with the fantasy. Both styles allow her to be spontaneous, to play with colors and forms, to use different materials, to express her feelings. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Janie Crean focuses on the beauty of nature in her wildlife and landscape paintings of the great American West. Her paintings bring the outdoor world to life with the use of composition and light. She says of her work, "Only an artist would be excited by feathers and fur! It's a challenge to paint, but worth the effort as you see your wildlife come to life." Her style of painting has evolved into an impressionistic style. Her objective is to create a painting that comes together by knowing what to include and what to leave to the viewer's imagination and eye. Alex Wade 4/24/26, 3:59 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2017 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2017.htm... Fernanda Thompson was always involved in creative activities such as playwriting, poetry, painting and drawing with the neighborhood kids. But at the age of fourteen she became a portrait artist influenced by her art teacher in Brazil. As her arteye developed she discovered contemporary art. She speaks of her work: "It's like freedom in art with broader varieties and countless possibilities to be creative using ink, acrylics, oil, mixed media, a brush, a palette knife or simply a pencil. I didn't want to be limited by colors, so I began exploring the use of texture and costume-made canvas". If you seek them, you can find a few poems on the back of some of her art pieces. "My art is a mix of all my life experiences; My art allows me to materialize my thoughts and emotions". Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org The show begins with a reception on Thursday, July 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org I te in».ii,ed ~ ~ uJ, ~ ~ 26 Y~ - 1991 - 2011 Saturday, August 12, 2017 ... 6:00 - 9:00pm Dennis Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK. 74120 Special Music by the incomparable Rebecca Ungerman Dinner: $20.00 Ribs, Chicken, and Vegetarian main dishes. Bakes beans, coleslaw, potato salad, and Al's carrot cupcakes! Live Entertainment & Silent Auction - All proceeds to benefit the program which supports hundreds of pet owners living with HIV to be able to keep their best friend at a crucial time in their lives. Seating i limit d m k your r rv tion b for Augu t 1st RSVP - Jason Eddin 'eld 918-361-8839 4/24/26, 3:59 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2017 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2017.htm... Identities 101 Saturday August 19, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Identities 101 is a free, fun, and interactive way for community activists and people with a thirst for education to learn about different identities within the LGBTQ+ acronym. Enjoy an afternoon of powerful discussion as Tulsa's LGBTQ+ youth and adults work together to show you the colors of the rainbow in depth. The event will include panels focusing on gender and sexualities that you might not know about! This is a learning space, and it is completely okay not to know everything. We hope to see you there, discovering more and more about your community! 4/24/26, 3:59 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2017 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2017.htm... NOH8 Photo Shoot Sunday September 17, 2:00 - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the #NOH8Worldwide movement in Tulsa, OK and add your face to the fight for equal human rights! COST : Single/Solo Photos: $40 Couple/Group Photos: $25 per person NOH8 accepts cash and credit cards only. Fees paid to participate cover services and costs for one edited digital print only, made available via noh8campaign.com, and do not include physical prints. * COME CAMERA-READY * * WEAR A WHITE SHIRT * * POSE & MAKE A STATEMENT! * NO The NOH8 Campaign returns to Oklahomans For Equality @ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sunday, September 17th for an open photo shoot! Stop by anytime between 2pm-5pm to pose for an official NOH8 photo by photographer Adam Bouska. No reservations needed! Photos are first-come, first-served - and we move fast! Please arrive camera-ready with a plain white shirt to match the signature style of the NOH8 photos. When is the best time to arrive? Most people tend to arrive before the photo shoot begins, but as long as someone has lined up by the advertised end time for the photo shoot (5:00pm for this photo shoot), they should be guaranteed a chance to pose! Once you arrive, the next steps are easy! 1. Fill-out one numbered model release for each person. 2. Have a NOH8 temporary tattoo applied for your photo. 3. Standby for your number to be called. 4. Process your payment once called. 5. Trade your processed model release for duct tape! NOH8 Co-Founder Adam Bouska will photograph roughly 5-10 frames per person. One frame will be selected/edited by our team and made available within approximately eight weeks (timeline subject to change). INTERESTED IN VOLUNTEERING? E-mail info@noh8campaign.com with your contact information and make sure to note which shoot you'd like to volunteer for! 2017 Zarrow Mental Health Symposium - Challenging Injustice & Discrimination October 5-6 Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Why You Can't Miss It! • ● Learn a full spectrum of tools and strategies related to programs, policies, and practices that challenge and/or combat injustice and discrimination, including any subsequent impact on mental health • ● Connect & share ideas with over 800 peers and leading experts in the field! • ● Receive critical CEU & ethics hours! To learn more about the Zarrow Mental Health Symposium, visit www.zarrowsymposium.org, call ---JoBeth Hamon at 405-778-8122. You may also email jhamon@mhaok.org. You have the power to challenge and combat systemic injustice and discrimination that can impact mental health! Learn how to take action to forever change your community at the 2017 Zarrow Mental Health Symposium - Challenging Injustice & Discrimination, October 5-6 in Tulsa, Okla. The Symposium is a unique opportunity to meet and connect with other like-minded attendees who are inspired to discuss the realities of injustice and discrimination and develop solutions to address these realities and long-term implications on mental health. Plus, you can receive valuable CEU and ethics hours! Stay up-to-date on conference updates & announcements! Visit www.zarrowsymposium.org. ---- July Video eNews Equality Center Pride Store 2017 Tulsa Pride Shirts are still a vailable in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store for $20.00 4/24/26, 3:59 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2017 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2017.htm... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Stormborn: 13 Hearts to Start a Storm " By: Jack Burgos Ash Winters is an apprentice magus with two choices--go to magic school or become an executor for the Eye in the Lock. The first means dealing with his estranged and esteemed father, Prelate DeWilde of the Collegium. The second means learning who taught Theo Tamsin the Heart of Storms, a forbidden spell powerful enough to create a hurricane, and killing him for having cast it over the city of New Orleans. As Ash becomes involved in Theo's world, he begins to learn that they are only pawns in a brutal chess game as old as magic itself. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . ~ JA8~ r---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I I ~--- --- ------ ----------- --------- ----------- --------- ----------- --------- ----------- --------- ------- J 4/24/26, 3:59 PM � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Sub-Series] OKEQ > Publications > OKEQ eNews Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2017] OKEQ eNews https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/47f09d19db2ae8f05e608552a3d0822c.pdf 67d1da1232efa0955af445899367706c PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 6th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-6th--2016.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news oklahomans for equality First Thursday Art Opening October 6th, 2016 In This Issue First Thursday Art Opening Pryor Rendering Rooftop Rally Equality Business Alliance Mixer Territory Days October Volunteer of the Month Thursday October 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Zombie House Call for Exhibition Proposals The October Oklahomans for Equality will feature the works of Joy Frangiosa beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. SAGE Activities Pride Store Rainbow Library Joy was born in New Jersey during the "good old days" era. She spent her early childhood in a Catholic Institution. Her life experiences are manifested in her art the use of shrine like boxes has become her signature. She is a visual artist using collage/assemblage as her medium. Found objects and her personal photography are placed in settings to tell a story and expose a truth. Thousands of hours have been spent perfecting her techniques - each creation frees a part of her inner self, lessening her imposing sensitivity towards life. She is a chronicler of time, places and people. OkEq Board Meeting Her goal is to honor, through her art, the nameless and dispossessed.... the castaways of society - and reverse the neglect; replacing it with hope and recognition. 7 p.m. Thursday, October 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The show begins with a reception on Thursday, October 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Pryor Rendering Gamily October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. The LGBT $10 youth/student tickets (live theatre at movie prices) are now available. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Rooftop Rally Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. This event is is free to attend. For more information or to RSVP email Jose.vega@okeq.org THE R□□FT□P Ra u~,~~--.n__ j,_ilfl. r Let's Show LGBT 1Youth they're not ;~~nn::':n . . Oc:t. lSth , After the rally there will be a screening of the movie Julio of Jackson Heights. The movie will be projected on the side of the building with seating in the parking lot, just like a drive-in movie. There will be a concession stand and free popcorn. Click here to watch the trailer "~t ~~_ #Spirit Day @OKEQ Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 w · ----- A s we s tand agains t BULLYING j, " Julio of Jackson Heights" is the story of how all this changed. It is the story of how a handful of people - Julio's friends and family - decided that they would not accept the official police report, and learned how to organize, ultimately bringing their case to the attention of then Mayor Dinkins. And it is the story of how their actions sparked a movement that founded the Queens Pride Parade, supported the creation of over a dozen LGBT organizations and ultimately served as the 4/23/26, 6:19 PM �OkEq eNews October 6th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-6th--2016.... platform that elected two openly gay candidates to the New York City Council. Twenty years later, the Rivera family, Julio's friends, community leaders and the police speak of the decisions they made and reflect upon the changes they set in motion. Equality Business Alliance Mixer October 19, 6:00 p.m. Look Eyecare & Eyewear 3746 S Peoria Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 Not only is LOOK Eyecare & Eyewear your onestop shop for eye care and trendy eyewear in Tulsa, but it also offers a level of service that you would expect from a family-run business.... because it is! This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com If you have any questions about insurance benefits or eyewear, Jennifer is here to help you! Call 918-992-5337 to schedule your visit today! The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. E UALITY Business Alliance Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 1980: The Year It All Began Saturday October 22, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In 1980, Jimmy Carter was still in the White House and everybody wanted to know who shot JR on the #1 TV show Dallas. The Empire Strikes Back, The Blue Lagoon and Private Benjamin were the top movies. "Another One Bites The Dust" by Queen was the #1 Song. And a group of Gay men and Lesbians and straight allies came together to found Oklahomans for Human Rights which we know today as Oklahomans for Equality today. Committed to advocating for the rights of LGBTQ Oklahomans for 37 years we enter a new phase of expanded outreach. Get your 70s and 80s vintage clothing and join us for a trip back in time as we raise money for our Equality Center renovations project. DJ Crystal will be spinning your favorite hits from the 70s and 80s. Disco Drag Queen Nicole Carrington aka Dale Hogan will be in the house. We have prizes for the best 1980s costumes. Enter the lip syncing 80's contest and walk away with some big cash. $300 for a table for 8 with an open bar. Or $5.00 for a single admission with a cash bar. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $5.00 Individual seat with cash bar. Tickets are available now by clicking on the ticket link or purchase tickets by contacting Olivia Cotter at 918-743-4297 or email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 4/23/26, 6:19 PM �OkEq eNews October 6th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-6th--2016.... Volunteer of the Month October 2016 Sara-Jane Gray Sara-Jane has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since May 5. 2016. "I became a volunteer to help with my Tulsa Community College Tulsa Achieves hours and to support my newly discovered LGBT family. I love all of the people who we meet working here. They come in all shapes sizes and orientations and I love meeting everyone!" When Sara-Jane is not working the front desk she is a student at Tulsa Community College and enjoys video games. Sara-Jane includes "The program I like the most is most definitely the transgender support program, it is the one I am most involved in and love all the people involved. I do recommend volunteering here, it is just such an open and caring place that is just a wonderful place to be." We thank you for your devotion Sara-Jane! Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Zombie House October 28 - 31, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. nightly Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 28th, 29th 30th and 31st, 2016. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org or on Facebook. Tickets are now available online! . {•70MBIE} APOCAI~VPSE I \VILL SURVIVE THE ZOMBIE APOCALYPSE Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 914-9746 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (832)-405-2534 . DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 2017 Call for Exhibition Proposals Entry Deadline October 15, 2016 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2017 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is hung on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artist will also provide "museum cards" for each piece, stating the title, and price, with other information being optional. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. 4/23/26, 6:19 PM �OkEq eNews October 6th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-6th--2016.... Deadline for submissions is October 15, 2016. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2016. Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" SAGE Events In September at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center: PRYOR RE Dl~RI C SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd. SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu A read-around of Pryor Rendering will start at the August 31st meeting of the book club and be completed by the premier of the musical October 13. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. Equality Center Pride Store New love tote bags in the Pride Shop $22 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group VE Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Either Way: Story of a Gay Kid" Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather By: Sandra Levins Illustrated by: Euan Cook Cael sets out to find who he is - something he wants to know more than anything. With the help of a trusted teacher, a new friend, and his favorite book, he discovers what he knew all along. Inside you'll find three stories braided into one: a coming-of-age coming out story, a lesson on civil rights and marriage equality, and historical fiction about how Cael comes out as gay, comfortable with who he is and confident that it's okay. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. 4/23/26, 6:19 PM �OkEq eNews October 6th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-6th--2016.... SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous 4/23/26, 6:19 PM �OkEq eNews October 6th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-6th--2016.... Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm 4/23/26, 6:19 PM �OkEq eNews October 6th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-6th--2016.... Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 6:19 PM �OkEq eNews October 6th, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-6th--2016.... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r- -- ---- --- ------- ------- ------- ------- -- ----- -- ----- -- ----- -- ----- -- ----- -- ----- -- ----- -- ----- -- ----- -- -, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 6:19 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c58cc98075d2c1c948d316699a8b7cb2.pdf 417e6119793c2db121e740a77ad16b97 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 12th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2016.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews July 12th, 2016 e okl.ihom.ins for equality news Rose Potts Sponsors the Day in honor of Parker Simon's birthday July 11, 2016 Rose Potts is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on July 11th in honor of Parker Simon ' s birthday. Happy Birthday Parker! In This Issue July 11th Sponsor July 12th Sponsor Territory Days Video eNews July Volunteer of the Month Noodles & Co. Fundraiser Brought to You Bi the Letter B Brunch Close the Gap 5K EBA Mixer SAGE Summer Pool Parties Coming Out of the Shadows Pride Store Jolt Drag Queen Pancake Brunch Rainbow Library If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, coming out date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because George McCauslan & Rusty Clyma Sponsor the Day July 12, 2016 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. George and Rusty are sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the day in honor of their 19th wedding anniversary. OkEq Art Exhibition Happy Anniversary George & Rusty! The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of Philllip Butler Gamily If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, coming out date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because Territory Days: An Okla-Hoe-Down Saturday July 30, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:54 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2016.htm... Lawyer in the Library We need to add on to the school house! Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting a barbecue dinner and barn dance to raise the funds. The territory folks need to get together and raise the roof. July 13, August 10, and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. The garage, kenosha suite and special events room on the eastside of the center are slated for remodel and renovations. In 2015 over 50,000 individuals participated in programs and utilized our services creating an urgency for Oklahomans for Equality to: Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. • expand medical services addressing LGBT health disparities • convert food service areas into commercial grade kitchen space • develop nutrition and wellness programs for LGBT older adults • broaden substance abuse counseling and support services • serve the growing numbers of LGBTQ youth in foster care • widen our programs for unemployed young adults and those homeless • increase services and programming for LGBTQ families with children • create more social programming space for fine arts and education events Keep Coming Back Meditation Group $500-Table for 8 with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 $75-Individual seat with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance. $50-Individual seat with cash bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance $30-Barn dance admission with open bar SATURDAY JULY 30, 6:30 PM $20-Barn dance admission and 1 drink ticket DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 621 E. 4TH ST .. TULSA, OK 74120 Tickets are available now. To purchase, click on the corresponding link above. AT OICEQ.ORG TICKm AVAllAILE ONU ORIY PtlONE AT ('918) 743.4297 A FUNDRAISER FOR EQUAUTY CENTER RENOVATIONS OkEq Video eNews - July 2016 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. Volunteer of the Month July 2016 For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Shannon Fincher I started in October of 2015 (I think) seems like longer. I wanted to help make a difference, a positive change, and show my support. I love getting to meet so many people with different backgrounds with different stories. When not there, I am at work, studying, or hanging out with my kids. I like everything that I have participated in, this is the first time in my life I have found something I love doing! We thank you for your dedication Shannon! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Noodles & Co. Hosting Fundraiser for OkEq Friday July 15, 5:00 - 8:00 p.m. Noodles & Co. - New Cherry Street Location 1551 E. 15th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Noodles and Company is hosting a fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality on Friday July 15 OkEq BenefitNight $10 donation Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. 4/23/26, 5:54 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2016.htm... Entrée with your choice of protein and a drink You get a meal and OkEq gets the whole $10 I i❖JMHM,;J.U To go orders are included Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Brunch with Brought to You Bi the Letter B Saturday July 16, 12:30 p.m. Dilly Diner 402 E. 2nd ST., Tulsa, OK, 74120 Please join us for the first social event hosted by Brought to You Bi the Letter B! We will be meeting at Dilly Diner on July 16th at 12:30PM. This brunch is for bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies, so all are welcome. Please RSVP via e-mail to biprogramsokeq@gmail.com . We look forward to see everyone and joining to build our community!" Brought to You Bi the Letter B, the bisexual programming group for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We are happy to be able to serve the bi/pan/queer/fluid+ community. Ladies Social Club Special Events - YWCA Close the Gap 5K Fundraisers • OkEq's Ladies Social Club is forming a team for the YWCA Close the Gap 5k, and while our team needs to raise money to help their cause, we really just wanted an excuse to do some fun stuff! So here are a few events happening in July to help us meet our fundraising goal! Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu Saturday, July 16, Dolly Parton. Jane Fonda. Lily Tomlin. Riotous '80s shenanigans. We can't tell you the name of the movie due to copyright laws, but I bet you can google it! Come join us for a movie and bake sale to support the OkEq Ladies Social Club's YWCA Close the Gap 5k team's fundraising efforts! $5 gets you a movie ticket, popcorn, and soda. We'll also have a bake sale going on (with delicious treats donated by awesome local bakers!), so bring some cash if you'd like some other things to snack on. Sunday, July 24, at 2:00, we're hosting a paint n' sip event! This was wildly popular when we offered this as our LSC Friday night event in March. The lovely Monica Connors is creating a custom subject just for us! Our class size is limited to 30, so we must ask that you pay in advance to reserve your spot. This class filled up (and then some!) so I expect this to fill up - so don't wait to register! The cost is $30 , which includes all of your materials, and proceeds will go towards our team's fundraising efforts. Interested in the "sip" part of paint and sip? Feel free to BYOB to get those creative juices going! Please keep Kelley's rules in mind: nobody under 21 gets to drink alcohol, and any alcohol brought by anyone under 21 will be confiscated and considered a generous and delicious donation to Oklahomans for Equality. Also, please drink responsibly. Wednesday, July 28 , Tired of looking at the same clothes in your closet? Hate spending too much money to get new pieces for your wardrobe? Feeling frustrated about limited plus size friendly options? Join us for a clothing swap hosted at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center on July 28th from 4-9pm. To participate, all you need is $5 and at least 10 items of clothing, shoes or accessories that you are willing to trade or donate. Once inside, participants are free to trade, barter or give their articles with others. Though this event is open to everyone, we would like to highlight this as an option for curvy/plus size feminine presenting folks! At the end of the event, all left over clothing and accessories will be donated. The entrance fee will go towards the "Close the Gap 5K" team representing the Equality Center. Please contact Amanda Lowe @ nehiqueen@gmail.com for more info. If you're interested in actually joining our team for the 5k on August 6, please email team captain Kelley Parker at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Not a runner? Not even sure what a 5k is, but you want to get involved? That's okay! We'll slap some shoes on your feet and point you in the right direction. It'll be fine! Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday July 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Angel's Pet Funeral Home and Crematory 6598 E BA Frontage Rd., Tulsa, OK 74145 No one wants to think about losing their beloved pet. At Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory, we are here to make a difference in a very difficult time of you life. Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory is the only pet funeral home in the state of Oklahoma that is dedicated solely to you and your four-legged family member. We are not affiliated with any human funeral home or crematory. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Keep up with this event on Facebook Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, 4/23/26, 5:54 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2016.htm... UALITY Business Alliance bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesdays this Summer July 26, August 30, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their second pool party on Tuesday, July 26th at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Coming Out of the Shadows - LGBT History of Tulsa Tuesday July 26, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Free and open to the public Join us for a lecture by Dr. Brenton R. Wimmer who recently completed his PhD dissertation entitled "Coming Out of the Shadows: A social and educative history of male same-sex sexualities in Tulsa Oklahoma, 1836-2006" Published by the University of Oklahoma. Pictured with Geoffrey Brewster Vice President of the OkEq board of directors. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will house this definitive study on LGBTQ life and history in Tulsa. Toby Jenkins executive director calls it "Ground breaking, inspiring, scandalous, and the first time we have had the centuries long view of our oppression and the unsealing of our ability to create community against all odds." The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Equality Center Pride Store Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $15.00. Tie-dye is also available for $20.00 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items ■ . . 4/23/26, 5:54 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2016.htm... Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Wind and Bones" Kristin Marra By $5.00 per Session Women, funerals, guns, and rattlesnakes. What could go wrong? Jill O'Hara, award-winning journalist and inveterate egotist, is about to find out. When Jill is summoned to her hometown Prairie View, Montana, to bury her father and clean up his messes, she assumes a few tedious days of signing papers and delegating responsibilities will complete her obligations. But Jill's duties as Dean O'Hara's daughter soon become less mundane and more menacing. To complicate matters, Jill's first love, Annie Doyle, lives in Prairie View and despite Annie's blistering past betrayal, Jill still desires her. Fortunately, Sheriff Rae Terabian, a woman with a uniform, power, and shady associates, deliciously distracts Jill from her obsession with Annie. Amidst her customary confusion over women, Jill is forced to confront her father's treacherous legacy, battle the extremes of the northern Montana wilds, and face down survivalists bent on silencing her. Despite the remote location and severe peril, she discovers the possibility for one more chance at love. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Calling all rural transgender and gender nonconforming individuals to participate in a research study SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. 4/23/26, 5:54 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2016.htm... As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/23/26, 5:54 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2016.htm... Credit Report Event Improve your credit! Two opportunities! Tuesday, July 26th from 4:00 to 7:00 PM OR Thursday, July 28th from 2:00 to 5:00 PM At Goodwill Industries ofTulsa 2800 Southwest Boulevard Tulsa, Oklahoma 74107 This is a community event open to ev ryon ! Free Credit Reports can be pulled on site* Free One-On-One Review of Your Credit Report with a Credit Professional! * IMPORTANT! To get a credit report. you mus • . Know your ocia sec ri numb r J.....W.J..ll!:...~.M.>C....,.__-=--- Driver's License, Matricula or State ID Card. NOTE: Con um r Equit.ur & E H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. r dit report each y u from TransUnion, a charg for addition I r port A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support 4/23/26, 5:54 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2016.htm... systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:54 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/17f9b198c3e19183a9f3e17db7f834b9.pdf f978d425b467f36361f3c8fe393d1cf4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 20th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-20th--2016.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews July 20th, 2016 e Territory Days: An Okla-Hoe-Down okl.ihom.ins for equality In This Issue news Territory Days Video eNews July Volunteer of the Month Close the Gap 5K EBA Mixer SAGE Summer Pool Parties Saturday July 30, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Coming Out of the Shadows Inclusive Workplace Culture Survey We need to add on to the school house! Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting a barbecue dinner and barn dance to raise the funds. The territory folks need to get together and raise the roof. Pride Store Rainbow Library Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. The garage, kenosha suite and special events room on the eastside of the center are slated for remodel and renovations. In 2015 over 50,000 individuals participated in programs and utilized our services creating an urgency for Oklahomans for Equality to: • expand medical services addressing LGBT health disparities • convert food service areas into commercial grade kitchen space • develop nutrition and wellness programs for LGBT older adults • broaden substance abuse counseling and support services • serve the growing numbers of LGBTQ youth in foster care • widen our programs for unemployed young adults and those homeless • increase services and programming for LGBTQ families with children • create more social programming space for fine arts and education events OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $500-Table for 8 with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. $75-Individual seat with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance. $50-Individual seat with cash bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance $30-Barn dance admission with open bar $20-Barn dance admission and 1 drink ticket SATURDAY JULY 30, 6:30 PM DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 621 E. 4TH ST., TULSA, OK 74120 TICKETSAVAILAILEONU Tickets are available now. To purchase, click on the corresponding link above. OkEq Video eNews - July 2016 ATOICEQ.OllG OkEq Art Exhibition OR IY PHONE AT (9111 743-4297 A FUNORA.ISER FOR EQUALITY CENTER RENOVATIONS The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of Philllip Butler Gamily Volunteer of the Month July 2016 Shannon Fincher I started in October of 2015 (I think) seems like longer. I wanted to help make a difference, a positive change, and show my support. I love getting to meet so many people with different backgrounds with different stories. When not there, I am at work, studying, or hanging out with my kids. I like everything that I have participated in, this is the first time in my life I have found something I love doing! We thank you for your dedication Shannon! Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library July 13, August 10, and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. 4/23/26, 6:06 PM �OkEq eNews July 20th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-20th--2016.htm... If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Ladies Social Club Special Events - YWCA Close the Gap 5K Fundraisers OkEq's Ladies Social Club is forming a team for the YWCA Close the Gap 5k, and while our team needs to raise money to help their cause, we really just wanted an excuse to do some fun stuff! So here are a few events happening in July to help us meet our fundraising goal! Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Sunday, July 24, at 2:00, we're hosting a paint n' sip event! This was wildly popular when we offered this as our LSC Friday night event in March. The lovely Monica Connors is creating a custom subject just for us! Our class size is limited to 30, so we must ask that you pay in advance to reserve your spot. This class filled up (and then some!) so I expect this to fill up - so don't wait to register! The cost is $30 , which includes all of your materials, and proceeds will go towards our team's fundraising efforts. Interested in the "sip" part of paint and sip? Feel free to BYOB to get those creative juices going! Please keep Kelley's rules in mind: nobody under 21 gets to drink alcohol, and any alcohol brought by anyone under 21 will be confiscated and considered a generous and delicious donation to Oklahomans for Equality. Also, please drink responsibly. Wednesday, July 28 , Tired of looking at the same clothes in your closet? Hate spending too much money to get new pieces for your wardrobe? Feeling frustrated about limited plus size friendly options? Join us for a clothing swap hosted at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center on July 28th from 4-9pm. To participate, all you need is $5 and at least 10 items of clothing, shoes or accessories that you are willing to trade or donate. Once inside, participants are free to trade, barter or give their articles with others. Though this event is open to everyone, we would like to highlight this as an option for curvy/plus size feminine presenting folks! At the end of the event, all left over clothing and accessories will be donated. The entrance fee will go towards the "Close the Gap 5K" team representing the Equality Center. Please contact Amanda Lowe @ nehiqueen@gmail.com for more info. If you're interested in actually joining our team for the 5k on August 6, please email team captain Kelley Parker at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Not a runner? Not even sure what a 5k is, but you want to get involved? That's okay! We'll slap some shoes on your feet and point you in the right direction. It'll be fine! This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday July 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Angel's Pet Funeral Home and Crematory 6598 E BA Frontage Rd., Tulsa, OK 74145 No one wants to think about losing their beloved pet. At Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory, we are here to make a difference in a very difficult time of you life. Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory is the only pet funeral home in the state of Oklahoma that is dedicated solely to you and your four-legged family member. We are not affiliated with any human funeral home or crematory. Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or -mary.jones@ppheartland.org --- - - The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Counseling Services Keep up with this event on Facebook E ALITY usiness Alliance Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:06 PM �OkEq eNews July 20th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-20th--2016.htm... SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesdays this Summer July 26, August 30, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their second pool party on Tuesday, July 26th at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 Coming Out of the Shadows - LGBT History of Tulsa Tuesday July 26, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free and open to the public Join us for a lecture by Dr. Brenton R. Wimmer who recently completed his PhD dissertation entitled "Coming Out of the Shadows: A social and educative history of male same-sex sexualities in Tulsa Oklahoma, 1836-2006" Published by the University of Oklahoma. Pictured with Geoffrey Brewster Vice President of the OkEq board of directors. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will house this definitive study on LGBTQ life and history in Tulsa. Toby Jenkins executive director calls it "Ground breaking, inspiring, scandalous, and the first time we have had the centuries long view of our oppression and the unsealing of our ability to create community against all odds." Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 2016 Mosaic Inclusive Workplace Culture Survey Click here to participate in the survey. Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. SURVEY ENDS MON'OAY AUGUST 8 Equality Center Pride Store Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $15.00. Tie-dye is also available for $20.00 A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Non-Binary Support Group Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "A Prince's Ransom" By Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong 4/23/26, 6:06 PM �OkEq eNews July 20th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-20th--2016.htm... Mary Newman non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Prince Itu Graus thought coming out in front of the entire royal court was bad. Being exiled by his father to the frozen wastelands where he struggled just to survive was harsh. But, running for his life is so much worse. His planet invaded and the royal family assassinated, Itu leaves his world one step ahead of a death squad. Hiding from those who want him dead and just trying to survive are now his only goals. Loka Chalce is known as a trader who travels the galaxy to buy and sell goods, but he has a secret life known only to a few as a licensed enforcer for the Interplanetary Council. When a contract comes across the com for a deposed prince who is running directly towards those Loka loves, he only stops long enough to be certain it is genuine before accepting the job. But what happens when the man you have been hired to keep from ever returning to his world turns out to be someone you would much rather protect? Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Hot Dark Matter Friday July 22 & Saturday July 23, 8:00 p.m. TCC VanTrease PACE 10300 E. 81st St., Tulsa, OK 74133 SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Oklahomans for Equality has a limited number of FREE tickets available for both nights. To reserve your free tickets please email Jacob at jwp364@utulsa.edu, please include your name, how many seats you would like to reserve and what night you plan to attend. Combining live performance and pivotal music in dichotomy, Hot Dark Matter is a wicked black comedy that examines the lives of the cast and crew of an independent film; documenting how personalities, desires, and the quest to hold on to one's own sanity, can cause the very fabric of the world to curve and whorl in ways you could only imagine. Directed and produced by a team of Los Angeles theatre artists, and locals, lauded and praised up-and-coming, Hot Dark Matter is sure to engage, challenge, and excite audiences from all over by cultivating a theatrical experience the likes of which Tulsa has never seen before. For Mature Audiences Only. Anyone under the age of 15 will not be admitted into the theatre without explicit parental guidance and consent. General Admission Tickets will be sold for $10 at the door only. Seating is very limited, and does not utilize the traditional VanTrease seating. For directions and parking information, visit http://www.tulsacc.edu/campus-locations/vantrease-pace. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ . . 4/23/26, 6:06 PM �OkEq eNews July 20th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-20th--2016.htm... Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 6:06 PM �OkEq eNews July 20th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-20th--2016.htm... Game Night Credit Report Event Improve your credit! Two opportunities! Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Tuesday, July 26th from 4:00 to 7:00 PM OR Thursday, July 28th from 2:00 to 5:00 PM At Goodwill Industries ofTulsa 2800 Southwest Boulevard Tulsa, Oklahoma 74107 This is a community event open to everyon Free Credit Reports can be pulled on site* Free One-On-One Review of Your Credit Report with a Credit Professional! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. *IMPORTANT! To get a credit report. you mus • . • • r , Matricula or State ID Card. NOTE: Con um r Equit.ur & E edit report each year from Tr;;ansUnion, charg for addition I report EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/23/26, 6:06 PM �OkEq eNews July 20th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-20th--2016.htm... H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support 4/23/26, 6:06 PM �OkEq eNews July 20th, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-20th--2016.htm... systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 4/23/26, 6:06 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/26b2168dc25144382387b8b8ae99bb39.pdf bc7229741a833b8e0f62339944eb6674 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-28th--2016.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 okl.ihom.ins for equality news In This Issue Territory Days Inclusive Workplace Culture Survey Kaiser Foundation July Volunteer of the Month Close the Gap 5K Territory Days: An Okla-Hoe-Down First Thursday Art Opening Saturday July 30, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 My Big Gay Italian Funeral JOLT We need to add on to the school house! Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting a barbecue dinner and barn dance to raise the funds. The territory folks need to get together and raise the roof. HOPE - Divas Las Vegas A Friend for A Friend SAGE Summer Pool Parties Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. The garage, kenosha suite and special events room on the eastside of the center are slated for remodel and renovations. In 2015 over 50,000 individuals participated in programs and utilized our services creating an urgency for Oklahomans for Equality to: EBA Mixer Pride Store Rainbow Library • expand medical services addressing LGBT health disparities • convert food service areas into commercial grade kitchen space • develop nutrition and wellness programs for LGBT older adults • broaden substance abuse counseling and support services • serve the growing numbers of LGBTQ youth in foster care • widen our programs for unemployed young adults and those homeless • increase services and programming for LGBTQ families with children • create more social programming space for fine arts and education events $500-Table for 8 with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance $75-Individual seat with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance. OkEq Board Meeting $50-Individual seat with cash bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance $30-Barn dance admission with open bar 7 p.m. Thursday, August 18th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SATURDAY JULY 30, 6:30 PM DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 621 E. 4TH ST., TULSA, OK 74120 $20-Barn dance admission and 1 drink ticket TICKETSAVAllAILEONU Tickets are available now. To purchase, click on the corresponding link above. ATOICEQ.OllG OR IY PHONE AT (9111 743-4297 All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. A FUNCRA.ISER FOR EQUALITY CENTf.R RENOVATIONS 2016 Mosaic Inclusive Workplace Culture Survey OkEq Art Exhibition Click here to participate in the survey. The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of Philllip Butler S RVEY SURVEY oms MONO-AV AUGUST 8 Gamily George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAl'-11LY FOUNDATION Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and learn how to make your donation today. Volunteer of the Month July 2016 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-28th--2016.htm... Shannon Fincher I started in October of 2015 (I think) seems like longer. I wanted to help make a difference, a positive change, and show my support. I love getting to meet so many people with different backgrounds with different stories. When not there, I am at work, studying, or hanging out with my kids. I like everything that I have participated in, this is the first time in my life I have found something I love doing! We thank you for your dedication Shannon! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library July 13, August 10, and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Ladies Social Club Special Events - YWCA Close the Gap 5K Fundraisers Thursday, July 28 , Tired of looking at the same clothes in your closet? Hate spending too much money to get new pieces for your wardrobe? Feeling frustrated about limited plus size friendly options? Join us for a clothing swap hosted at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center on July 28th from 4-9pm. To participate, all you need is $5 and at least 10 items of clothing, shoes or accessories that you are willing to trade or donate. Once inside, participants are free to trade, barter or give their articles with others. Though this event is open to everyone, we would like to highlight this as an option for curvy/plus size feminine presenting folks! At the end of the event, all left over clothing and accessories will be donated. The entrance fee will go towards the "Close the Gap 5K" team representing the Equality Center. Please contact Amanda Lowe @ nehiqueen@gmail.com for more info. Firday, July 29, Lots of people have mentioned wanting to attend various sporting events this summer, so here's a random Driller's game! There will be fireworks after this game, and tickets range from $6 to $16, depending on how fancy we want to be. Friday, August 12, Game Night at the Equality Center. Bring your favorite games and some snacks to share. Follow the Ladies Social Club on Facebook to stay informed of all the latest events and updates This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com First Thursday Art Opening - "Experiments From the Lab: Layers & Texture" Thursday August 4th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The work curated from the Urban Art Lab Studios resident artist represents many approaches and thoughts on layers and texture. Dean Wyatt's work uses textures formed by layers of paint and screen in rhythms of precise form. The texture work is sculptural - another layer. Loyal Roach is showing paintings in the drip style that shows masterful choices through its layering and layering of lines and color. Taylor Painter-Wolfes' fiber art shows layers of delicate "webs" over hand dye backgrounds. Stitching layers add movement and emphasis. Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Rebecca Joskey plays with layers of tissue, paint, ripped canvas, collages of mixed media and duct tape. Urban Art Lab Studios August 2016 Counseling Services The show begins with a reception on Thursday, August 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information on the event and artists visit our Facebook event page or our website www.okeq.org American Theatre Comoanv Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-28th--2016.htm... - ---- - -- - --- -s·- ,- u- d-- 1-;o -s - Ea••'viiiiige"' aoe I<>. lanaln Join Us for a Silly Wacky Evening in the Theatre and see the Sequel to My Big Gay Italian Wedding Friday, July 29 through FUIEBAL Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu -----(918) 594-8568 S turday August 6 American Theatre Company Studios 308 S. Lan ng Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. S off Receive 5 Off Each Ticket When You Call the American Theatre Company TICKET LINE @ 918-7 4 7-9494 Use the CODE WORD WILKINSON When Ordering LIVE Enterta i nment In the East VIiiage Dow ntown Tulsa v GRAB YOUR BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Come join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday August 19 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-28th--2016.htm... .LLCCU lV AilVVV .LLVVV lV J.JVVVJ. lV .LLC1VC C1 l:::jJ.CC1l UJ.UC. J.VJ. ,p~v, yvu l:::jCl V games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com H.O.P.E. Presents Divas Las Vegas Friday, August 26, 6:30 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E. 3rd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 SOS Group For 17 years, Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc.'s DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. has been considered the premiere HIV, Hepatitis C (HCV), STD Prevention Event of the Tulsa community. We hope you will help us continue this long-standing tradition of being not only the most fun and entertaining party of the year, but one of the most generous. DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. features live music from Tulsa's diverse local artists along with heavy Hors d'oeuvres, beverages, and one of a kind live and silent auction items. We rely on this event for 20% of H.O.P.E.'s annual budget. All sponsorship dollars stay within H.O.P.E., benefiting our city and region. For more information, tickets or sponsorship information click here. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather A Friend for a Friend - Third Annnual Fundraiser Saturday August 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 You are invited to join us in celebrating 25 years, 1991 - 2016. Dinner is $20.00 - Ribs, chicken and vegetarian main dishes. Baked beans, coleslaw, potato salad, and Al's carrot cupcakes! Live Entertainment and Silent Auction - All proceeds to benefit the program which supports hundreds of pet owners living with HIV to be able to keep their best friend at a crucial time in their life Seating is limited so make your reservation before August 10th! RSVP with Jason Eddingfield 918-361-8839 Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. SAGE Events SAGE Tulsa will have their third pool party on Tuesday, August 30th at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Starting in August at the R. Neill Equality Center - - --Dennis ---- SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday August 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Aila's Catering and Events Go West Event Center 6205 New Sapulpa Rd., Tulsa, OK 74131 At AILA'S Catering, We Provide Superior Quality Ingredients and Stunning Displays with Each and Every Menu Created for Weddings, Corporate Events, Family Gatherings, or Intimate Private Home Dinners. 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-28th--2016.htm... Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ . . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Keep up with this event on Facebook E ALITY Business Alliance $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Equality Center Pride Store Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $15.00. Tie-dye is also available for $20.00 Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-28th--2016.htm... abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Last Deployment: How a Gay, Hammer-Swinging Twentysomething Survived a Year in Iraq" By: Bronson Lemer In 2003, after serving five and a half years as a carpenter in a North Dakota National Guard engineer unit, Bronson Lemer was ready to leave the military behind. But six months short of completing his commitment to the army, Lemer was deployed on a yearlong tour of duty to Iraq. Leaving college life behind in the Midwest, he yearns for a lost love and quietly dreams of a future as an openly gay man outside the military. He discovers that his father's lifelong example of silent strength has taught him much about being a man, and these lessons help him survive in a war zone and to conceal his sexuality, as he is required to do by the U.S. military. The Last Deployment is a moving, provocative chronicle of one soldier's struggle to reconcile military brotherhood with self-acceptance. Lemer captures the absurd nuances of a soldier's daily life: growing a mustache to disguise his fear, wearing pantyhose to battle sand fleas, and exchanging barbs with Iraqis while driving through Baghdad. But most strikingly, he describes the poignant reality faced by gay servicemen and servicewomen, who must mask their identities while serving a country that disowns them. Often funny, sometimes anguished, The Last Deployment paints a deeply personal portrait of war in the twenty-first century. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory Credit Report Event The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Improve your credit! Two opportunities! Tuesday, July 26th from 4:00 to 7:00 PM OR Thursday, July 28th from 2:00 to S:00 PM At Goodwill Industries ofTulsa 2800 Southwest Boulevard Tulsa, Oklahoma 74107 This is a community event open to everyon ! Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-28th--2016.htm... HIV Testing Schedule Free Credit Reports can be pulled on site* Free One-On-One Review of Your Credit Report with a Credit Professional! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. * IMPORTANT! To get a credit report. you mus· . Know your ocial sec ri numb r .......,.,,u.or......._.,,...,,._ic.=::....w::...· Driver's License, Matricula or State ID Card. •NOTE: Con um N can pull oner.-. credit report e~ch y ar from Tr.msUnion, Equif.ur EYp rian. Ther i a chart for ddition I r pom. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-28th--2016.htm.. support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org B Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org - - - - --Alex Wade 8 of 9 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-28th--2016.htm... Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r-- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- --------- -, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I 4/23/26, 6:07 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/44357433db69bc72233525db6f66f4ef.pdf 781ef635ea18f1306855364665d8e017 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 3rd, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-3rd--2016.h... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews August 3rd, 2016 e okl.ihom.ins for equality news First Thursday Art Opening - "Experiments From the Lab: Layers & Texture" Thursday August 4th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In This Issue First Thursday Art Opening Inclusive Workplace Culture Survey Kaiser Foundation July Volunteer of the Month My Big Gay Italian Funeral Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer JOLT The work curated from the Urban Art Lab Studios resident artist represents many approaches and thoughts on layers and texture. A Friend for A Friend HOPE - Divas Las Vegas Dean Wyatt's work uses textures formed by layers of paint and screen in rhythms of precise form. The texture work is sculptural - another layer. Territory Days SAGE Summer Pool Parties Loyal Roach is showing paintings in the drip style that shows masterful choices through its layering and layering of lines and color. OkEq Annual Board Meeting Taylor Painter-Wolfes' fiber art shows layers of delicate "webs" over hand dye backgrounds. Stitching layers add movement and emphasis. Rainbow Library Pride Store Rebecca Joskey plays with layers of tissue, paint, ripped canvas, collages of mixed media and duct tape. Urban Art Lab Studios August 2016 The show begins with a reception on Thursday, August 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information on the event and artists visit our Facebook event page or our website www.okeq.org OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 18th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 2016 Mosaic Inclusive Workplace Culture Survey All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Click here to participate in the survey. OkEq Art Exhibition The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Loyal Roach, Dean Wyatt, Rebecca Joskey andTaylor Painter-Wolfe. It is entitled Expirements from the Lab SlJR't'[Y ENOS MONOAY AUGUST 8 George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and learn how to make your donation today. Gamily Volunteer of the Month August 2016 Cait O'Darling Cait has been a volunteer at OkEq since 2011. She wanted to volunteer to honor her brother Frank who died from complications due to AIDS in February of 1993. When she is not volunteering at OkEq she is a licensed private investigator and 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews August 3rd, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-3rd--2016.h... practices and teaches a method of deep relaxation and rejuvenation called Reiki. Her favorite part of volunteering here is her coworkers. "They make it fun!" Cait is also involved in the Tulsa Two-Spirit Society. She recommends that others volunteer because " Our programs help ease an individual's journey out from the ostracization, alienation, isolation that heterocentric cultural hegemony seeks to impose and into a place of empowered belonging to a community focused on the pursuit of social justice and equality for all members of our chosen family. In short, working at The Dennis R Neill Equality Center is a blast because we celebrate diversity." Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library August 10 and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. We thank you for your dedication Cait! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group American Theatre Company Eul V Iiiage Studl•os lot h. Lansing Join Us for a Silly Wacky Evening in the Theatre and see the Sequel to My Big Gay Italian Wedding Friday, July 29 through S urday August 6 FUIEBAL Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com American Theatre Company Studios 308 S. Lan ng Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or -mary.jones@ppheartland.org -·-- - - Counseling Services Receive 5 0 Each Ticke When You Call the American Theatre Company TICKET LINE @ 918-7 4 7 -9494 Use the CODE WORD WILKINSON When Ordering 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews August 3rd, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-3rd--2016.h... LIVE Enterta i nment In the East VIiiage Dow ntown Tulsa v Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu -----(918) 594-8568 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Ladies Social Club Friday August 12, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Game Night at the Equality Center. Bring your favorite games and some snacks to share. We may have some surprises up our sleeve as well. . If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews August 3rd, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-3rd--2016.h... Equality Business Alliance Mixer SOS Group Wednesday August 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Aila's Catering and Events Go West Event Center 6205 New Sapulpa Rd., Tulsa, OK 74131 At AILA'S Catering, We Provide Superior Quality Ingredients and Stunning Displays with Each and Every Menu Created for Weddings, Corporate Events, Family Gatherings, or Intimate Private Home Dinners. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Keep up with this event on Facebook E ALITY Business Alliance SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan GRAB --~---- Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews August 3rd, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-3rd--2016.h... • .,u~ BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Come join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday August 19 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7 :30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm A Friend for a Friend - Third Annnual Fundraiser Saturday August 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 You are invited to join us in celebrating 25 years, 1991 - 2016. $5.00 per Session Dinner is $20.00 - Ribs, chicken and vegetarian main dishes. Baked beans, coleslaw, potato salad, and Al's carrot cupcakes! Live Entertainment and Silent Auction - All proceeds to benefit the program which supports hundreds of pet owners living with HIV to be able to keep their best friend at a crucial time in their life Seating is limited so make your reservation before August 10th! RSVP with Jason Eddingfield 918-361-8839 H.O.P.E. Presents Divas Las Vegas Friday, August 26, 6:30 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E. 3rd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 For 17 years, Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc.'s DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. has been considered the premiere HIV, Hepatitis C (HCV), STD Prevention Event of the Tulsa community. We hope you will help us continue this long-standing tradition of being not only the most fun and entertaining party of the year, but one of the most generous. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. features live music from Tulsa's diverse local artists along with heavy Hors d'oeuvres, beverages, and one of a kind live and silent auction items. We rely on this event for 20% of H.O.P.E.'s annual budget. All sponsorship dollars stay within H.O.P.E., benefiting our city and region. For more information, tickets or sponsorship information click here. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Territory Days Saturday August 27, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We need to renovate the Equality Center and Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting another barn dance to raise the funds. And just like the musical "Oklahoma!" territory folks need to get together and have some fun and raise lots of money. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org If you like to lip sync to your favorite song you could walk away with prize money if you win the Oklahoma Lip Sync Contest. DJ Crystal will be playing the best country and western music in our make shift barn on a wooden dance floor (aka our garage space) for the best boot skootin, two steppin, and line dancing in Tulsa. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. Help us reach our goal. We have some of your favorite country queens and the "Okla-Homo's Fancy Dancers" performing that night. You can purchase barbecue sandwiches, side dishes and delicious desserts from the Chuck Wagon. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews August 3rd, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-3rd--2016.h... $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $50-Individual seat with open bar. Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno $25-Individual seat with cash bar. Tickets are available now. To purchase, contact Olivia at 918-743-4297 or olivia.cotter@okeq.org. SAGE Events SAGE Tulsa will have their third pool party on Tuesday, August 30th at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Starting in-August Dennis -- - - -at -the -- - -R. -Neill - -Equality - - - -Center --- SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. OkEq Annual Board Meeting Thursday September 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Board of Directors currently has 10 open positions. OkEq members who have donated over $50 since July 31st, 2015 are eligible to vote in this year's election. Candidates have been nominated through two processes as described by the By-laws: Nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee and Nominated by a petition signed by at least 15 OkEq members. The Board of Directors for Oklahomans for Equality is a working board that oversees fundraising and financial stability, optimizing organizational competencies and resources. They are to expand our outreach, collaborations and communications. They are to address the unique needs of our community in programming and services. Directors are tasked with influencing change in our region to foster an inclusive environment for LGBT Oklahomans. Our success is contingent on their commitment to attract, engage and retain membership. We will all benefit from a dedicated Board, so please consider your vote carefully and thoughtfully. To view candidate bios click here. Equality Center Pride Store Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $15.00. Tie-dye is also available for $20.00 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews August 3rd, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-3rd--2016.h... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library dates. "Taking Woodstock" By: Elliot Tiber with Tom Monte Taking Woodstock is the funny, touching, and true story of Elliot Tiber, the man who was instrumental in arranging the site for the original Woodstock Concert. Elliot, whose parents owned an upstate New York motel, was working in Greenwich Village in the summer of 1969. He socialized with the likes of Truman Capote, Tennessee Williams, and photographer Robert Mapplethorpe, and yet somehow managed to keep his gay life a secret from his family. Then on Friday, June 28, Elliot walked into the Stonewall Inn and witnessed the riot that would galvanize the American gay movement and enable him to take stock of his own lifestyle. And on July 15, when Elliot learned that the Woodstock Concert promoters were unable to stage the show in Wallkill, he offered to find them a new venue. Soon he was swept up in a vortex that would change his life forever. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . HA, If " " ' " SLIC In olvtu nmong,t l11cro11,lng ,,,n,1011 and division k• a dellbor11tivo look nt our 1111th. " vard Avenue C/Jrlstlnn Church Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 TUlSA JUSTICE tor Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews August 3rd, 2016 8 of 8 :,pon10,e<1 bw T https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-3rd--2016.h... ,l lt!IO lpo•1'om•11 Com Church ffllow•h• ch O lllee..f'l)Ullpo H,-.oloq•c•I S->1n,11y Ooolon AVf'nu• U1111Pd M<tlhodtol ~nu. Chf••h•n Chorcl, St Stephen1 Umtlfd M.thodt•t Church ~ advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- J 4/23/26, 6:07 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/61cd03868eaa611a16a91c7915d9c1d9.pdf 7ffe51694ba0e95a88182016d1530bd5 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 10th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2016.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews August 10th, 2016 e okl.ihom.ins for equality news George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. In This Issue Kaiser Foundation Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer Territory Days OkEq Annual Board Meeting JOLT A Friend for A Friend GEORGE KAISER FAl'-11LY FOUNDATION Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and learn how to make your donation today. HOPE - Divas Las Vegas SAGE Summer Pool Parties July Volunteer of the Month First Thursday Art Opening Gay Men's Dinner Group Ladies Social Club Friday August 12, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Game Night at the Equality Center. Bring your favorite games and some snacks to share. We may have some surprises up our sleeve as well. . If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Victory Institute Leadership Summit Pryor Rendering Rooftop Rally. Pride Store Rainbow Library Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 18th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Equality Business Alliance Mixer All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Wednesday August 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Aila's Catering and Events Go West Event Center 6205 New Sapulpa Rd., Tulsa, OK 74131 OkEq Art Exhibition At AILA'S Catering, We Provide Superior Quality Ingredients and Stunning Displays with Each and Every Menu Created for Weddings, Corporate Events, Family Gatherings, or Intimate Private Home Dinners. The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Loyal Roach, Dean Wyatt, Rebecca Joskey andTaylor Painter-Wolfe. It is entitled Expirements from the Lab Gamily 4/23/26, 6:08 PM �OkEq eNews August 10th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2016.... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Keep up with this event on Facebook E ALITY Business Alliance August 10 and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Territory Days Barn Dance Saturday August 27, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st We need to renovate the Equality Center and Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting another barn dance to raise the funds. And just like the musical "Oklahoma!" territory folks need to get together and have some fun and raise lots of money. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org -- · - - 4/23/26, 6:08 PM �OkEq eNews August 10th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2016.... If you like to lip sync to your favorite song you could walk away with prize money if you win the Oklahoma Lip Sync Contest. Counseling Services DJ Crystal will be playing the best country and western music in our make shift barn on a wooden dance floor (aka our garage space) for the best boot skootin, two steppin, and line dancing in Tulsa. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. Help us reach our goal. We have some of your favorite country queens and the "Okla-Homo's Fancy Dancers" performing that night. You can purchase barbecue sandwiches, side dishes and delicious desserts from the Chuck Wagon. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $50-Individual seat with open bar. $25-Individual seat with cash bar. Donate to the Capital Fund Tickets are available now. To purchase click the corresponding link above. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OkEq Annual Board Meeting Thursday September 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Board of Directors currently has 10 open positions. OkEq members who have donated over $50 since July 31st, 2015 are eligible to vote in this year's election. Candidates have been nominated through two processes as described by the By-laws: Nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee and Nominated by a petition signed by at least 15 OkEq members. The Board of Directors for Oklahomans for Equality is a working board that oversees fundraising and financial stability, optimizing organizational competencies and resources. They are to expand our outreach, collaborations and communications. They are to address the unique needs of our community in programming and services. Directors are tasked with influencing change in our region to foster an inclusive environment for LGBT Oklahomans. Our success is contingent on their commitment to attract, engage and retain membership. We will all benefit from a dedicated Board, so please consider your vote carefully and thoughtfully. To view candidate bios click here. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu ----(918) 594-8568 GRAB YOUR BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Corne join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday August 19 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20 , you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7 :30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. A Friend for a Friend - Third Annnual Fundraiser Saturday August 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 You are invited to join us in celebrating 25 years, 1991 - 2016. Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Dinner is $20.00 - Ribs, chicken and vegetarian main dishes. Baked beans, coleslaw, potato salad, and Al's carrot cupcakes! 4/23/26, 6:08 PM �OkEq eNews August 10th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2016.... Live Entertainment and Silent Auction - All proceeds to benefit the program which supports hundreds of pet owners living with HIV to be able to keep their best friend at a crucial time in their life Seating is limited so make your reservation before August 10th! RSVP with Jason Eddingfield 918-361-8839 H.O.P.E. Presents Divas Las Vegas Friday, August 26, 6:30 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E. 3rd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 For 17 years, Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc.'s DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. has been considered the premiere HIV, Hepatitis C (HCV), STD Prevention Event of the Tulsa community. We hope you will help us continue this long-standing tradition of being not only the most fun and entertaining party of the year, but one of the most generous. DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. features live music from Tulsa's diverse local artists along with heavy Hors d'oeuvres, beverages, and one of a kind live and silent auction items. We rely on this event for 20% of H.O.P.E.'s annual budget. All sponsorship dollars stay within H.O.P.E., benefiting our city and region. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather For more information, tickets or sponsorship information click here. SAGE Events SAGE Tulsa will have their third pool party on Tuesday, August 30th at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Starting in August at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. Volunteer of the Month August 2016 Cait O'Darling Cait has been a volunteer at OkEq since 2011. She wanted to volunteer to honor her brother Frank who died from complications due to AIDS in February of 1993. When she is not volunteering at OkEq she is a licensed private investigator and practices and teaches a method of deep relaxation and rejuvenation called Reiki. Her favorite part of volunteering here is her coworkers. "They make it fun!" Cait is also involved in the Tulsa Two-Spirit Society. She recommends that others volunteer because " Our programs help ease an individual's journey out from the ostracization, alienation, isolation that heterocentric cultural hegemony seeks to impose and into a place of empowered belonging to a community focused on the pursuit of social justice and equality for all members of our chosen family. In short, working at The Dennis R Neill Equality Center is a blast because we celebrate diversity." SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ . We thank you for your dedication Cait! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 6:08 PM �OkEq eNews August 10th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2016.... 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 First Thursday Art Opening - "Naturally Speaking" Thursday September 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Two fiber artists, Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas, use naturally occurring materials and processes to create distinctive and out-of-the-ordinary works of art through very different approaches. Both artists appreciate, observe and listen to Nature; though their work is dissimilar, the creations from the two artists often stir the same reactions: "unusual", "unexpected", "interesting". Both artists are award winners and members of Fiber Artists of Oklahoma. For Jeanie Weber's basketry, pine needles are both the inspiration and basis. The mighty Longleaf Pine's discards, gathered one by one into slowly growing coils, wind around and around to create vessels of varied shapes and sizes. She typically uses something else from Nature's storehouse as a starting point--often a piece of wood or stone while incorporating beads, wire, feathers or a quill. Her baskets are not intended to be functional, although some people have found them to be useful as well as artistic. "I usually don't start with a finished shape in mind, but watch and feel how the coils grow, adding adornments when it seems to make sense artistically," Weber explains. "I have an organic reaction when picking up those Pine Needles. Often when I'm weaving, it feels like Mother Nature's hands are around my own." Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY Lyn Lucas creates a serendipitous exploration of patterns and textures using images of rusted artifacts, transferred to natural fabrics. "My fascination with the organic process of melding the oxidized iron surfaces from found and common objects onto textiles is rooted in experimentation as well as discovery," says Lucas. "Bedsprings become templates. Discarded metal transcends its form to embellish cloth. Predictability is a goal scarcely realized." Using the power of the sun, oxygen and liquids, the decay and decomposition of the iron combines with fiber to transform blight into brilliance. The iron shimmers in the sun, bound to the fabric by chemistry and memories of its former glory. The accidental plan becomes an adventure in freeing the iron ore, while controlling the process to create a visual rhythm which dances atop the fabric revealing texture, tone and tenacious imagery. "Some may see objects; others envision shapes; but, it is the iron that controls the outcome, flowing freely, while fusing its image to the fabric." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, September from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session For more information on the event and artists visit our website www.okeq.org Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Gay Men's Dinner Group We are doing 2 events again in September. Friday September 2nd - Grilling hot dogs and swimming at my home.(weather permitting) 6:00pm till 12:00am'ish. I will provide hot dogs, chips, dessert and I will make tea. If you want anything else to drink you are welcome to bring it. NO Glass Containers allowed outside. This is my home so everyone must drink responsibly and be respectful of my home and my neighbors. Please RSVP is you are coming so I know how much food to buy. Tuesday September 6th at 6:30pm . We are eating at Mimi's Cafe It is located at 8215 E. 71st street, (In front of Woodland Hills Mall). I f you are coming please RSVP. I need a headcount for the reservation. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Gay Men's Dinner Group Richard haley GuysDineToo@gmail.com Victory Institute Leadership Summit Saturday September 24, 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Victory Leadership Summits offer a day-long, intensive training for LGBT leaders. These summits help trainees develop the skills needed to take next steps in public service. Hear from local elected and appointed officials, Victory's experts on appointed positions and running for office, and organizations working for LGBT equality locally and statewide on how to become more involved in public service. Attendees join a strong cohort of established and emerging leaders and connect with valuable tools and resources to take the next step in their work. The trainings are open to LGBT community members 18 and older, and are free to attend. For more information click here Survivors of Incest Anonymous ~t~ - VICTORY Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Pryor Rendering October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the 4/23/26, 6:08 PM �OkEq eNews August 10th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2016.... at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Rooftop Rally Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. For more information or to RSPV email Jose.vega@okeq.org Equality Center Pride Store Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $15.00. Tie-dye is also available for $20.00 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Five Lesbian Brothers' Guide to Life" By: Donna Evans Congratulations, fellow lesbo! You have just been invited to join the award-winning nationally acclaimed theater troupe as they move from the stage to the page. With all their wit intact, they declare, "you can use this book to make you laugh, to make your friends cry, to upset your parents, to educate the uninformed, or as a coming-out tool." Exploring every aspect of lesbian life, they cover: • Early indications that the straight life is not your style -- from unusual encounters with Barbie to the proclivity to participate in every high school sport • Helpful do's and don'ts for coming out at family dinners, at weddings, and at board meetings • The language of lesbianism -- in an uninhibited "dyketionary" • How to achieve "lesbian style," the ultimate standard in American lifestyles today • Seduction, sex, and other tips on finding and keeping the perfect partner Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Definitely proving that "laughing well is the best revenge" (Los Angeles Times), here is the most refreshing, most revealing, and raunchiest reference book ever to come out of the closet. Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Burn Co. Barbecue Mncl!c Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing 4/23/26, 6:08 PM �OkEq eNews August 10th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2016.... dates. August 24th 6:30-9:00pm 1738 S~Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119 6:30 pm: 7:00 pm: 8-9:00 pm: "Meaf' & Greet BBQ~starts Dinner is served Tickets - $100.00/person Tickets must be purchased before~ 19th. All proceeds go directly to the 2016 HIV Wellness Retreat, hosted by the Grateful Day Foundation. For more information contact: Chud~ Courtney • 918-500-5421 gratefuldayfoundation@gmail.com Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 http://www.gratefulday.org Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Sisters in Song Cliristmas 2016 Rehearsals begin Tuesday Sept 6th Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through 4/23/26, 6:08 PM �OkEq eNews August 10th, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2016.... 7:00 PM advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Rehearsals are every Tuesda night through Dec. 1 th Fellowship Congregational Church 2700 South Harvard Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org We welcome all singers to come to our rehearsals in September! Music and recordings available when you contact us. No auditions, but choir is set by October 4th! Contact Linda Barton Paul, Artistic Director 918-629-7259 Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org harplindal@gmail.com Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 6:08 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/089211fabeba6b445f82da68ce359da3.pdf b75ea64d248fb3eb9eb491061fa3b544 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-17th--2016.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 e okl.ihom.ins for equality news Henry Roberson Sponsoring the Day Wednesday August 17 Henry is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the day and today is his birthday. Happy Birthday Henry! In This Issue Henry Roberson Sponsor Territory Days Kaiser Foundation EBA Mixer Oklahoma! Council Oak Men's Chorale Rise Up Singing OkEq Annual Board Meeting JOLT A Friend for A Friend HOPE - Divas Las Vegas SAGE Summer Pool Parties July Volunteer of the Month First Thursday Art Opening Gay Men's Dinner Group Victory Institute Leadership Summit Pryor Rendering If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, coming out date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because Call for Exhibition Proposals Rooftop Rally. Pride Store Rainbow Library Territory Days Barn Dance Saturday August 27, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 18th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Loyal Roach, Dean Wyatt, Rebecca Joskey andTaylor Painter-Wolfe. It is entitled Expirements from the Lab We need to renovate the Equality Center and Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting another barn dance to raise the funds. And just like the musical "Oklahoma!" territory folks need to get together and have some fun and raise lots of money. Gamily 4/23/26, 6:11 PM �OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-17th--2016.... If you like to lip sync to your favorite song you could walk away with prize money if you win the Oklahoma Lip Sync Contest. DJ Crystal will be playing the best country and western music in our make shift barn on a wooden dance floor (aka our garage space) for the best boot skootin, two steppin, and line dancing in Tulsa. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. Help us reach our goal. We have some of your favorite country queens and the "Okla-Homo's Fancy Dancers" performing that night. You can purchase barbecue sandwiches, side dishes and delicious desserts from the Chuck Wagon. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org $50-Individual seat with open bar. $25-Individual seat with cash bar. Donate to the Capital Fund Tickets are available now. To purchase click the corresponding link above. George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Lawyer in the Library September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. GEORGE KAISER FAt--11LY FOUNDATION Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and learn how to make your donation today. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Wednesday August 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Aila's Catering and Events Go West Event Center 6205 New Sapulpa Rd., Tulsa, OK 74131 At AILA'S Catering, We Provide Superior Quality Ingredients and Stunning Displays with Each and Every Menu Created for Weddings, Corporate Events, Family Gatherings, or Intimate Private Home Dinners. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - -- - - The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your 4/23/26, 6:11 PM �OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-17th--2016.... business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Counseling Services Keep up with this event on Facebook UALITY Business Alliance Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Oklahoma! August 12- September 4 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 Set in Indian Territory just after the turn of the 20th century, "Oklahoma!" features a high-spirited rivalry between local farmers and cowboys that provides a colorful background against which Curly, a handsome cowboy, tries to win the heart of Laurey, a winsome farm girl. "Oklahoma!" is the first collaboration between composer Richard Rodgers and librettist Oscar Hammerstein II, and it remains their most innovative. It was one of the first Broadway musicals to fully integrate song-and-dance numbers - including "Oh, What a Beautiful Mornin'" "People Will Say We're In Love" and the rip-roaring "Oklahoma!"- into the story. The link to purchase tickets to Oklahoma! is: http://purchase.tickets.com/buy/TicketPurchase?organ_val=37848&group_id=655230&schedule=list Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu -----(918) 594-8568 Just six shows are left, and tickets are selling fast! Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday August 23, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa, OK 74114 Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for a few good men...to SING!! If you love to sing, perform and enjoy being around a great group of guys, come join us! COMC is looking for new members and past members to join the chorus and perform our December holiday concert at Trinity Episcopal Church. Rehearsals start on Tuesday August 23 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. All you have to do to join is come to a rehearsal. Then a simple audition for our Artistic Director Kent Dennis after one of the first few rehearsals. Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Contact us at counciloak.org if you have any questions. Rise Up Singing - 100 Years at the Synagogue Sunday, August 28, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. The Synagogue - Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Ave., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 In honor of the Synagogue's Centennial year, the theme will be "Ten Decades of Show Music." The event is free and open to the public, with treats, gourmet coffee, and other beverages during and after the program. An optional dinner catered by the Seventeenth Street Deli will be served at 6:00 p.m. for $20. Call the Synagogue Office at (918) 935-3373 to make your reservation and plan to come early to make sure that you have a comfortable seat. Guests are welcome to tour the Synagogue at 5:00 p.m. before the event begins. OkEq Annual Board Meeting Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Thursday September 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 6:11 PM �OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-17th--2016.... 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Board of Directors currently has 10 open positions. OkEq members who have donated over $50 since July 31st, 2015 are eligible to vote in this year's election. Candidates have been nominated through two processes as described by the By-laws: Nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee and Nominated by a petition signed by at least 15 OkEq members. The Board of Directors for Oklahomans for Equality is a working board that oversees fundraising and financial stability, optimizing organizational competencies and resources. They are to expand our outreach, collaborations and communications. They are to address the unique needs of our community in programming and services. Directors are tasked with influencing change in our region to foster an inclusive environment for LGBT Oklahomans. Our success is contingent on their commitment to attract, engage and retain membership. We will all benefit from a dedicated Board, so please consider your vote carefully and thoughtfully. All voting must be completed by 7:00 p.m. September 1st To view candidate bios click here. The meeting will include a reception with drinks, a year in review presentation, greetings from public elected officials and election results. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather GRAB YOUR BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Come join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday August 19 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20 , you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends ! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7 :30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. A Friend for a Friend - Third Annnual Fundraiser Saturday August 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 You are invited to join us in celebrating 25 years, 1991 - 2016. Dinner is $20.00 - Ribs, chicken and vegetarian main dishes. Baked beans, coleslaw, potato salad, and Al's carrot cupcakes! Live Entertainment and Silent Auction - All proceeds to benefit the program which supports hundreds of pet owners living with HIV to be able to keep their best friend at a crucial time in their life Seating is limited so make your reservation before August 10th! RSVP with Jason Eddingfield 918-361-8839 H.O.P.E. Presents Divas Las Vegas Friday, August 26, 6:30 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E. 3rd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ • . For 17 years, Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc.'s DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. has been considered the premiere HIV, Hepatitis C (HCV), STD Prevention Event of the Tulsa community. We hope you will help us continue this long-standing tradition of being not only the most fun and entertaining party of the year, but one of the most generous. DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. features live music from Tulsa's diverse local artists along with heavy Hors d'oeuvres, beverages, and one of a kind live and silent auction items. We rely on this event for 20% of H.O.P.E.'s annual budget. All sponsorship dollars stay within H.O.P.E., benefiting our city and region. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 6:11 PM �OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-17th--2016.... For more information, tickets or sponsorship information click here. SAGE Events SAGE Tulsa will have their third pool party on Tuesday, August 30th at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Starting in August atthe R.Neill Equality Center - - --Dennis ---- 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. $5.00 per Session Volunteer of the Month August 2016 Gender Outreach Cait O'Darling Cait has been a volunteer at OkEq since 2011. She wanted to volunteer to honor her brother Frank who died from complications due to AIDS in February of 1993. When she is not volunteering at OkEq she is a licensed private investigator and practices and teaches a method of deep relaxation and rejuvenation called Reiki. Her favorite part of volunteering here is her coworkers. "They make it fun!" Cait is also involved in the Tulsa Two-Spirit Society. She recommends that others volunteer because " Our programs help ease an individual's journey out from the ostracization, alienation, isolation that heterocentric cultural hegemony seeks to impose and into a place of empowered belonging to a community focused on the pursuit of social justice and equality for all members of our chosen family. In short, working at The Dennis R Neill Equality Center is a blast because we celebrate diversity." Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. We thank you for your dedication Cait! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org First Thursday Art Opening - "Naturally Speaking" Thursday September 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Two fiber artists, Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas, use naturally occurring materials and processes to create distinctive and out-of-the-ordinary works of art through very different approaches. Both artists appreciate, observe and listen to Nature; though their work is dissimilar, the creations from the two artists often stir the same reactions: "unusual", "unexpected", "interesting". Both artists are award winners and members of Fiber Artists of Oklahoma. For Jeanie Weber's basketry, pine needles are both the inspiration and basis. The mighty Longleaf Pine's discards, gathered one by one into slowly growing coils, wind around and around to create vessels of varied shapes and sizes. She typically uses something else from Nature's storehouse as a starting point--often a piece of wood or stone while incorporating beads, wire, feathers or a quill. Her baskets are not intended to be functional, although some people have found them to be useful as well as artistic. "I usually don't start with a finished shape in mind, but watch and feel how the coils grow, adding adornments when it seems to make sense artistically," Weber explains. "I have an organic reaction when picking up those Pine Needles. Often when I'm weaving, it feels like Mother Nature's hands are around my own." Lyn Lucas creates a serendipitous exploration of patterns and textures using images of rusted artifacts, transferred to natural fabrics. "My fascination with the organic process of melding the oxidized iron surfaces from found and common objects onto textiles is rooted in experimentation as well as discovery," says Lucas. "Bedsprings become Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the 4/23/26, 6:11 PM �OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-17th--2016.... templates. Discarded metal transcends its form to embellish cloth. Predictability is a goal scarcely realized." Using the power of the sun, oxygen and liquids, the decay and decomposition of the iron combines with fiber to transform blight into brilliance. The iron shimmers in the sun, bound to the fabric by chemistry and memories of its former glory. The accidental plan becomes an adventure in freeing the iron ore, while controlling the process to create a visual rhythm which dances atop the fabric revealing texture, tone and tenacious imagery. "Some may see objects; others envision shapes; but, it is the iron that controls the outcome, flowing freely, while fusing its image to the fabric." Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The show begins with a reception on Thursday, September from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information on the event and artists visit our website www.okeq.org Gay Men's Dinner Group We are doing 2 events again in September. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Friday September 2nd - Grilling hot dogs and swimming at my home.(weather permitting) 6:00pm till 12:00am'ish. I will provide hot dogs, chips, dessert and I will make tea. If you want anything else to drink you are welcome to bring it. NO Glass Containers allowed outside. This is my home so everyone must drink responsibly and be respectful of my home and my neighbors. Please RSVP is you are coming so I know how much food to buy. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Tuesday September 6th at 6:30pm . We are eating at Mimi's Cafe It is located at 8215 E. 71st street, (In front of Woodland Hills Mall). I f you are coming please RSVP. I need a headcount for the reservation. Gay Men's Dinner Group Richard haley GuysDineToo@gmail.com Victory Institute Leadership Summit Saturday September 24, 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 EBA Directory Victory Leadership Summits offer a day-long, intensive training for LGBT leaders. These summits help trainees develop the skills needed to take next steps in public service. Hear from local elected and appointed officials, Victory's experts on appointed positions and running for office, and organizations working for LGBT equality locally and statewide on how to become more involved in public service. Attendees join a strong cohort of established and emerging leaders and connect with valuable tools and resources to take the next step in their work. The trainings are open to LGBT community members 18 and older, and are free to attend. For more information click here - VICTORY The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Pryor Rendering October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. The LGBT $10 youth/ student tickets (live theatre at movie prices) are now available. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing 2017 Call for Exhibition Proposals Entry Deadline October 15, 2016 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2017 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing 4/23/26, 6:11 PM �OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-17th--2016.... dates. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is hung on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artist will also provide "museum cards" for each piece, stating the title, and price, with other information being optional. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. Deadline for submissions is October 15, 2016. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2016. Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Rooftop Rally Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. For more information or to RSPV email Jose.vega@okeq.org Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Equality Center Pride Store Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $15.00. Tie-dye is also available for $20.00 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Ma Vie En Rose" By: Alain Berliner The story of this sensitively-handled film concerns a young MtF transsexual. It is by turns comic and heartbreaking. Seven-year old Ludovic lives in an upper-middle class Belgian suburban neighborhood. He behaves in a way that is quite natural to him, dresses in a dress or skirt whenever possible, and is quite convinced he will be marrying a neighborhood boy, the son of his father's boss. His favorite television program is a kitchy girls program about a Barbie-like doll called Pam who lives in a flowery girly pink cartoon fantasy world and has magic powers. Young Ludovic dances Pam's dance to the haunting song "Rose", and like some other girls of his age fantasizes about marriage to a handsome romantic man who will sweep his female love off her feet. The film depicts the difficulties facing a child with gender identity issues and the way the Ludovic himself, the confused parents and family, society, school, other children, and the neighborhood (hostile, hypocritical, and ignorant) handle the situation. Ludovic is seven years old. At first thinks he is a girl, then becomes confused as everyone attempts to disabuse him of this, then tries to find an acceptable common ground (I am a girlboy, or I am a boy but I will grow up to be a girl, or something went wrong and and I should have been born a girl). When he was born, the extra X chromosome accidentally landed in the trash and he got a Y instead! Even an identity as a girlboy is not allowed him by those around him. The only ones who have any understanding of what he is going through are his psychologist and his grandmother who thinks it might be a phase he is going through, but also confronts the situation with some understanding. His sister also sees Ludovich more as he is than as others believe or want him to be. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through 4/23/26, 6:11 PM �OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-17th--2016.... advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Burn Co. Barbecue Hosts Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org August 24th 6:30-9:00pm 1738S lk&onAve, Tu~OK 74119 6:30 pm: 7:00 pm: 8-9:00 pm: "Meaf' & Greet BBQ Clem starts Dinner is served Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Tickets - $100.00/person Tickets must be purchased before AuglN 19th. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org All proceeds go directly to the 2016 HIV Wellness Retreat, hosted by the Grateful Day Foundation. For more information contact: Chud? Courtney • 918-500-5421 gratefuldayfoundation@gmail.com http://www.gratefulday.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Sisters in Song Cliristmas 2016 4/23/26, 6:11 PM �OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-17th--2016.... Rehearsals begin Tuesday Sept 6th 7:00 PM Rehearsals are every Tuesda night through Dec. 1 th Fellowship Congregational Church 2700 South Harvard We welcome all singers to come to our rehearsals in September! Music and recordings available when you contact us. No auditions, but choir is set by October 4th! Contact Linda Barton Paul, Artistic Director 918-629-7259 harplindal@gmail.com r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, :C·):t4~• I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 1 I ~-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 6:11 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/69af24f1be6de7dbe99fd8794314254e.pdf 214fdf2f839b6a7f28bae412048d7306 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 e news okl.ihom.ins for equality Territory Days Barn Dance Saturday August 27, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In This Issue Territory Days OkEq Annual Board Meeting Call for Exhibition Proposals Oklahoma! Rise Up Singing SAGE Summer Pool Parties July Volunteer of the Month First Thursday Art Opening Gay Men's Dinner Group EBA Mixer Victory Institute Leadership Summit Pryor Rendering Rooftop Rally. Congratualtions Smoke Pride Store Rainbow Library Council Oak Men's Chorale OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 22nd Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. We need to renovate the Equality Center and Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting another barn dance to raise the funds. And just like the musical "Oklahoma!" territory folks need to get together and have some fun and raise lots of money. If you like to lip sync to your favorite song you could walk away with prize money if you win the Oklahoma Lip Sync Contest. DJ Crystal will be playing the best country and western music in our make shift barn on a wooden dance floor (aka our garage space) for the best boot skootin, two steppin, and line dancing in Tulsa. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. Help us reach our goal. We have some of your favorite country queens and the "Okla-Homo's Fancy Dancers" performing that night. OkEq Art Exhibition The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Loyal Roach, Dean Wyatt, Rebecca Joskey andTaylor Painter-Wolfe. It is entitled Expirements from the Lab You can purchase barbecue sandwiches, side dishes and delicious desserts from the Chuck Wagon. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $50-Individual seat with open bar. $25-Individual seat with cash bar. Donate to the Capital Fund Tickets are available now. To purchase click the corresponding link above. Gamily 4/23/26, 6:13 PM �OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org OkEq Annual Board Meeting Thursday September 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Reception - 6:00 p.m. Meeting - 6:30 p.m. All Voting Ends - 7:00 p.m. Election Results - 7:30 p.m. The Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Board of Directors currently has 10 open positions. OkEq members who have donated over $50 since July 31st, 2015 are eligible to vote in this year's election. Candidates have been nominated through two processes as described by the By-laws: Nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee and Nominated by a petition signed by at least 15 OkEq members. The Board of Directors for Oklahomans for Equality is a working board that oversees fundraising and financial stability, optimizing organizational competencies and resources. They are to expand our outreach, collaborations and communications. They are to address the unique needs of our community in programming and services. Directors are tasked with influencing change in our region to foster an inclusive environment for LGBT Oklahomans. Our success is contingent on their commitment to attract, engage and retain membership. We will all benefit from a dedicated Board, so please consider your vote carefully and thoughtfully. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 All voting must be completed by 7:00 p.m. September 1st To view candidate bios click here. The meeting will include a reception with drinks, a year in review presentation, greetings from public elected officials and election results. 2017 Call for Exhibition Proposals Entry Deadline October 15, 2016 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2017 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is hung on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artist will also provide "museum cards" for each piece, stating the title, and price, with other information being optional. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Deadline for submissions is October 15, 2016. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2016. Healthcare Navigator Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st Oklahoma! August 12- September 4 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 Set in Indian Territory just after the turn of the 20th century, "Oklahoma!" features a high-spirited rivalry between local farmers and cowboys that provides a colorful background against which Curly, a handsome cowboy, tries to win the heart of Laurey, a winsome farm girl. "Oklahoma!" is the first collaboration between composer Richard Rodgers and librettist Oscar Hammerstein II, and it remains their most innovative. It was one of the first Broadway musicals to fully integrate song-and-dance numbers - including "Oh, What a Beautiful Mornin'" "People Will Say We're In Love" and the rip-roaring "Oklahoma!"- into the story. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org 4/23/26, 6:13 PM �OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... Counseling Services The link to purchase tickets to Oklahoma! is: http://purchase.tickets.com/buy/TicketPurchase?organ_val=37848&group_id=655230&schedule=list Just six shows are left, and tickets are selling fast! Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Rise Up Singing - 100 Years at the Synagogue Sunday, August 28, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. The Synagogue - Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Ave., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 In honor of the Synagogue's Centennial year, the theme will be "Ten Decades of Show Music." The event is free and open to the public, with treats, gourmet coffee, and other beverages during and after the program. An optional dinner catered by the Seventeenth Street Deli will be served at 6:00 p.m. for $20. Call the Synagogue Office at (918) 935-3373 to make your reservation and plan to come early to make sure that you have a comfortable seat. Guests are welcome to tour the Synagogue at 5:00 p.m. before the event begins. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SAGE Events SAGE Tulsa will have their third pool party on Tuesday, August 30th at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Starting in-August R.-Neill Center -- - - -at - the - -Dennis ---- -Equality - SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd. Due to the pool party on August 30th, the movie club will not meet. SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. PRYO R REN DERI NG Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 A read-around of Pryor Rendering will start at the August 31st meeting of the book club and be completed by the premier of the musical October 13. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. Volunteer of the Month August 2016 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Cait O'Darling Cait has been a volunteer at OkEq since 2011. She wanted to volunteer to honor her brother Frank who died from complications due to AIDS in February of 1993. When she is not volunteering at OkEq she is a licensed private investigator and practices and teaches a method of deep relaxation and rejuvenation called Reiki. Her favorite part of volunteering here is her coworkers. "They make it fun!" Cait is also involved in the Tulsa Two-Spirit Society. She recommends that others volunteer because " Our programs help ease an individual's journey out from the ostracization, alienation, isolation that heterocentric cultural hegemony seeks to impose and into a place of empowered belonging to a community focused on the pursuit of social justice and equality for all members of our chosen family. In short, working at The Dennis R Neill Equality Center is a blast because we celebrate diversity." Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu 4/23/26, 6:13 PM �OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... (918) 914-9746 We thank you for your dedication Cait! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org First Thursday Art Opening - "Naturally Speaking" Thursday September 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Two fiber artists, Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas, use naturally occurring materials and processes to create distinctive and out-of-the-ordinary works of art through very different approaches. Both artists appreciate, observe and listen to Nature; though their work is dissimilar, the creations from the two artists often stir the same reactions: "unusual", "unexpected", "interesting". Both artists are award winners and members of Fiber Artists of Oklahoma. For Jeanie Weber's basketry, pine needles are both the inspiration and basis. The mighty Longleaf Pine's discards, gathered one by one into slowly growing coils, wind around and around to create vessels of varied shapes and sizes. She typically uses something else from Nature's storehouse as a starting point--often a piece of wood or stone while incorporating beads, wire, feathers or a quill. Her baskets are not intended to be functional, although some people have found them to be useful as well as artistic. "I usually don't start with a finished shape in mind, but watch and feel how the coils grow, adding adornments when it seems to make sense artistically," Weber explains. "I have an organic reaction when picking up those Pine Needles. Often when I'm weaving, it feels like Mother Nature's hands are around my own." Lyn Lucas creates a serendipitous exploration of patterns and textures using images of rusted artifacts, transferred to natural fabrics. "My fascination with the organic process of melding the oxidized iron surfaces from found and common objects onto textiles is rooted in experimentation as well as discovery," says Lucas. "Bedsprings become templates. Discarded metal transcends its form to embellish cloth. Predictability is a goal scarcely realized." Using the power of the sun, oxygen and liquids, the decay and decomposition of the iron combines with fiber to transform blight into brilliance. The iron shimmers in the sun, bound to the fabric by chemistry and memories of its former glory. The accidental plan becomes an adventure in freeing the iron ore, while controlling the process to create a visual rhythm which dances atop the fabric revealing texture, tone and tenacious imagery. "Some may see objects; others envision shapes; but, it is the iron that controls the outcome, flowing freely, while fusing its image to the fabric." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, September from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information on the event and artists visit our website www.okeq.org Gay Men's Dinner Group Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (832)-405-2534 . Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 We are doing 2 events again in September. Friday September 2nd - Grilling hot dogs and swimming at my home.(weather permitting) 6:00pm till 12:00am'ish. I will provide hot dogs, chips, dessert and I will make tea. If you want anything else to drink you are welcome to bring it. NO Glass Containers allowed outside. This is my home so everyone must drink responsibly and be respectful of my home and my neighbors. Please RSVP is you are coming so I know how much food to buy. Tuesday September 6th at 6:30pm . We are eating at Mimi's Cafe It is located at 8215 E. 71st street, (In front of Woodland Hills Mall). I f you are coming please RSVP. I need a headcount for the reservation. Gay Men's Dinner Group Richard haley GuysDineToo@gmail.com Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday September 21, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Ehrle's Party and Carnival Supply 5150 S Sheridan Rd, Tulsa, OK 74145 Northeast Oklahoma's best place for all your party needs since 1955. Costumes and accessories year round, birthdays, weddings, rentals, seasonal and more. Costumes, Party & Events is the web's most unique store for Halloween costumes, accessories, make-up, wigs and masks as well as party supplies, wedding supplies, party and seasonal decorations and event rentals. Costumes, Party & Events is a division of the Ehrle's Party & Carnival Supply, Inc. Costumes, Party & Events offers Halloween Costumes, Halloween Accessories, and Halloween Decorations seller. Beyond our Halloween products, we also offer Party Supplies, Birthday Party Patterns, Wedding Decorations, Wedding Supplies, Holiday Decorations, Holiday Costumes, Anniversary Decorations, Helium Tanks, and Party Event Rentals. The Ehrle's company is one of the best party supply businesses in the country, selling Party Supplies including Halloween Costumes for more than 55 years. Beginning with our brick and mortar store in Tulsa, Oklahoma we have expanded to offer our products all across the United States with our newest division, Costumes, Party and Events. This website Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu 4/23/26, 6:13 PM �OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... is the premier website for shopping for all of your Halloween needs. Non-Binary Support Group The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Keep up with this event on Facebook E UALITY Business Alliance SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Victory Institute Leadership Summit Saturday September 24, 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Victory Leadership Summits offer a day-long, intensive training for LGBT leaders. These summits help trainees develop the skills needed to take next steps in public service. Hear from local elected and appointed officials, Victory's experts on appointed positions and running for office, and organizations working for LGBT equality locally and statewide on how to become more involved in public service. Attendees join a strong cohort of established and emerging leaders and connect with valuable tools and resources to take the next step in their work. The trainings are open to LGBT community members 18 and older, and are free to attend. For more information click here Pryor Rendering October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 . ._t~ 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather ... VICTORY Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. The LGBT $10 youth/ student tickets (live theatre at movie prices) are now available. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Rooftop Rally Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. For more information or to RSPV email Jose.vega@okeq.org SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" 4/23/26, 6:13 PM �OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Congratualtions Smoke B and Smoke C Teams! ■ . . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Tal{e A Cl.ass EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Tulsa Smoke B finished 17th out of 35 teams. $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Tulsa Smoke C finished 9th out of 63 teams Equality Center Pride Store Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 6:13 PM �OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... Visit the OKEQ Pride store for all your end of summer necessities!!! OKEQ frisbees $3 Vote buttons $3 Sunglasses $10 Cold beverage drinkware $12 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Nobody Knew What To Do: A Story About Bullying" By: Becky Ray McCain Straightforward and simple, this story tells how one child found the courage to tell a teacher about Ray, who was being picked on and bullied by other kids in school. Faced with the fact that "nobody knows what to do" while Ray is bullied, the children sympathetic to him feel fear and confusion and can only hope that Ray will "fit in some day." Finally, after Ray misses a day of school and the bullies plot mean acts for his return, our narrator goes to a teacher. The children then invite Ray to play with them, and, with adult help, together they stand up to the bullies. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday August 23, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa, OK 74114 Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for a few good men...to SING!! If you love to sing, perform and enjoy being around a great group of guys, come join us! COMC is looking for new members and past members to join the chorus and perform our December holiday concert at Trinity Episcopal Church. Rehearsals began Tuesday August 23 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. All you have to do to join is come to a rehearsal. Then a simple audition for our Artistic Director Kent Dennis after one of the first few rehearsals. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Contact us at counciloak.org if you have any questions. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Sisters in Song Christmas 2016 Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Rehearsals be2:in 4/23/26, 6:13 PM �OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... - - - - - - -- - ·- -- - - - _ CJ __ _ Tuesday Sept 6th 7:00 PM Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Rehearsa ls are every Tuesda night Dennis R. Neill Equality Center through Dec. 13th Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Fellowship Congregational Church 2700 South Harvard We welcome all singers to come to our rehearsals in September! Music and recordings available when you contact us. No auditions, but choir is set by October 4th! Contact Linda Barton Paul, Artistic Director 918-629-7259 harplinda1@gmail.com Purple Glaze Studio - LGBT Night Tuesday September 13, 7:00 p.m. Purple Glaze Studio South 6528 E. 91st St., Tulsa, OK. 74133 Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Purple Glaze Studio will be hosting a LGBT night. All ages are welcome. There will be a $3.00 studio fee plus the cost of the piece you choose to paint. For more information call Jim Stunkard at 918-636-9311 or email at jimstunkard@gmail.com. I f you have questions about the studio and what they offer please call 918-941-6900. Cyndi Lauper - Detour Tour Tuesday September 13, 8:00 p.m Civic Center Music Hall 201 N. Walker Ave., Oklahoma City, OK 73102 You can purchase tickets for the show here Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help 4/23/26, 6:13 PM �OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----------ONf NGHT OlY ---------Visit Okc(ivic(enter.com or coll 405.297.2264 Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:13 PM �OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... r-- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- --------- -, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I 4/23/26, 6:13 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/147b4aa647deea9aa0a7591bf0299746.pdf ee01310584d05eef9a554a8b4cfed064 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 31st, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--2016.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e OkEq Annual Board Meeting August 31st, 2016 okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility news In This Issue OkEq Annual Board Meeting First Thursday Art Opening September Volunteer of the Month Call for Exhibition Proposals Oklahoma! SAGE Summer Pool Parties Thursday September 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sisters in Song Council Oak Men's Chorale Reception - 6:00 p.m. Meeting - 6:30 p.m. All Voting Ends - 7:00 p.m. Election Results - 7:30 p.m. Gay Men's Dinner Group HOMO The Documentary EBA Mixer The Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Board of Directors currently has 10 open positions. OkEq members who have donated over $50 since July 31st, 2015 are eligible to vote in this year's election. Candidates have been nominated through two processes as described by the By-laws: Nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee and Nominated by a petition signed by at least 15 OkEq members. The Board of Directors for Oklahomans for Equality is a working board that oversees fundraising and financial stability, optimizing organizational competencies and resources. They are to expand our outreach, collaborations and communications. They are to address the unique needs of our community in programming and services. Directors are tasked with influencing change in our region to foster an inclusive environment for LGBT Oklahomans. Our success is contingent on their commitment to attract, engage and retain membership. We will all benefit from a dedicated Board, so please consider your vote carefully and thoughtfully. Stand Bi+ Me Rooftop Celebration Victory Institute Leadership Summit Territory Days Pryor Rendering Rooftop Rally. Congratualtions Smoke Pride Store Rainbow Library All voting must be completed by 7:00 p.m. September 1st To view candidate bios click here. The meeting will include a reception with drinks, a year in review presentation, greetings from public elected officials and election results. First Thursday Art Opening - "Naturally Speaking" Thursday September 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Board Meeting Two fiber artists, Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas, use naturally occurring materials and processes to create distinctive and out-of-the-ordinary works of art through very different approaches. Both artists appreciate, observe and listen to Nature; though their work is dissimilar, the creations from the two artists often stir the same reactions: "unusual", "unexpected", "interesting". Both artists are award winners and members of Fiber Artists of Oklahoma. For Jeanie Weber's basketry, pine needles are both the inspiration and basis. The mighty Longleaf Pine's discards, gathered one by one into slowly growing coils, wind around and around to create vessels of varied shapes and sizes. She typically uses something else from Nature's storehouse as a starting point--often a piece of wood or stone while incorporating beads, wire, feathers or a quill. Her baskets are not intended to be functional, although some people have found them to be useful as well as artistic. "I usually don't start with a finished shape in mind, but watch and feel how the coils grow, adding adornments when it seems to make sense artistically," Weber explains. "I have an organic reaction when picking up those Pine Needles. Often when I'm weaving, it feels like Mother Nature's hands are around my own." Lyn Lucas creates a serendipitous exploration of patterns and textures using images of rusted artifacts, transferred to natural fabrics. "My fascination with the organic process of melding the oxidized iron surfaces from found and common objects onto textiles is rooted in experimentation as well as discovery," says Lucas. "Bedsprings become templates. Discarded metal transcends its form to embellish cloth. Predictability is a goal scarcely realized." Using the power of the sun, oxygen and liquids, the decay and decomposition of the iron combines with fiber to transform blight into brilliance. The iron shimmers in the sun, bound to the fabric by chemistry and memories of its former glory. The accidental plan becomes an adventure in freeing the iron ore, while controlling the process to create a visual rhythm which dances atop the fabric revealing texture, tone and tenacious imagery. "Some may see objects; others envision shapes; but, it is the iron that controls the outcome, flowing freely, while fusing its image to the fabric." 7 p.m. Thursday, September 22nd Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Loyal Roach, Dean Wyatt, Rebecca Joskey andTaylor Painter-Wolfe. It is entitled Expirements from the Lab The show begins with a reception on Thursday, September from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information on the event and artists visit our website www.okeq.org Volunteer of the Month September 2016 Gamily Chad Hollinghead Chad has volunteered at OkEq since April 2015. He loves the positive impact he makes at the center and says " It meant so much that I was not judged. I decided to stay and serve the LGBTQ community... I'm so grateful for the Dennis R Neil Equality Center for giving people an opportunity to serve." He loves "meeting and talking with all people of every background and ages. It's extremely therapeutic. Then add in the staff, they make you feel you are truly making a difference in Tulsa." When he is not serving our community he 4/23/26, 6:14 PM �OkEq eNews August 31st, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--2016.... works as nurse tech and unit security at a hospital. Chad has participated in several programs throughout the years, "My first Pride was at Veterans Park. My first program was the youth group (OYP) when OkEq was on 21st and Memorial behind TNT's. I would absolutely encourage everyone to volunteer! It's extremely rewarding. Knowing you're making a difference and helping a great organization transform Tulsa for the better together! When collecting food for an area church, opening the doors to the less fortunate during dangerous summer heat or simply having free holiday dinners with loved ones when some may have been turned away by their own, plus so much more, We are family!" Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org We thank you for your devotion Chad! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library 2017 Call for Exhibition Proposals Entry Deadline October 15, 2016 September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2017 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is hung on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artist will also provide "museum cards" for each piece, stating the title, and price, with other information being optional. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. Deadline for submissions is October 15, 2016. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2016. Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Oklahoma! This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. August 12- September 4 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 Set in Indian Territory just after the turn of the 20th century, "Oklahoma!" features a high-spirited rivalry between local farmers and cowboys that provides a colorful background against which Curly, a handsome cowboy, tries to win the heart of Laurey, a winsome farm girl. "Oklahoma!" is the first collaboration between composer Richard Rodgers and librettist Oscar Hammerstein II, and it remains their most innovative. It was one of the first Broadway musicals to fully integrate song-and-dance numbers - including "Oh, What a Beautiful Mornin'" "People Will Say We're In Love" and the rip-roaring "Oklahoma!"- into the story. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com The link to purchase tickets to Oklahoma! is: http://purchase.tickets.com/buy/TicketPurchase?organ_val=37848&group_id=655230&schedule=list Just six shows are left, and tickets are selling fast! Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st SAGE Events In September at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center: SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd. SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. A read-around of Pryor Rendering will start at the August 31st meeting of the book club and be completed by the premier of the musical October 13. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and PRYO R RE DERI NG Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment 4/23/26, 6:14 PM �OkEq eNews August 31st, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--2016.... advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. -:'f,' 4,."g,,,; Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. , ,, ~ times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. C \R) l~~\ I - Dr. Kurt Choate Sisters in Song Christmas 2016 Rehearsals begin Tuesday Sept 6th 7:00 PM Rehearsals are every Tuesday night through Dec. 13th Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu ---(918) 594-8568 Fellowship Congregational Church 2700 South Harvard We welcome all singers to come to our rehearsals in September! Music and recordings available when you contact us. Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 No auditions, but choir is set by October 4th! Contact Linda Barton Paul, Artistic Director 918-629-7259 harplindal@gmail.com Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday August 23, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa, OK 74114 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ----(918) 914-9746 Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for a few good men...to SING!! If you love to sing, perform and enjoy being around a great group of guys, come join us! COMC is looking for new members and past members to join the chorus and perform our December holiday concert at Trinity Episcopal Church. Rehearsals began Tuesday August 23 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. All you have to do to join is come to a rehearsal. Then a simple audition for our Artistic Director Kent Dennis after one of the first few rehearsals. Contact us at counciloak.org if you have any questions. Jess White I am available for appointments 4/23/26, 6:14 PM �OkEq eNews August 31st, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--2016.... Gay Men's Dinner Group We are doing 2 events again in September. Friday September 2nd - Grilling hot dogs and swimming at my home.(weather permitting) 6:00pm till 12:00am'ish. I will provide hot dogs, chips, dessert and I will make tea. If you want anything else to drink you are welcome to bring it. NO Glass Containers allowed outside. This is my home so everyone must drink responsibly and be respectful of my home and my neighbors. Please RSVP is you are coming so I know how much food to buy. on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (832)-405-2534 . Tuesday September 6th at 6:30pm . We are eating at Mimi's Cafe It is located at 8215 E. 71st street, (In front of Woodland Hills Mall). I f you are coming please RSVP. I need a headcount for the reservation. Gay Men's Dinner Group Richard haley GuysDineToo@gmail.com HOMO The Documentary Screening Sunday September 18, 6:00 p.m. Perkins Auditorium - OU Tulsa Campus 4502 E 41st St, Tulsa, OK 74135 Come join Oklahomans for Equality and the crew of HOMO The Documentary while we host a screening of the film Sunday September 18th at the Perkins Auditorium located on the campus of the University of Oklahoma-Tulsa. Tickets can be purchased at the door prior to the start of the show for $15. See you all there!!! Equality Business Alliance Mixer Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Wednesday September 21, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Ehrle's Party and Carnival Supply 5150 S Sheridan Rd, Tulsa, OK 74145 Northeast Oklahoma's best place for all your party needs since 1955. Costumes and accessories year round, birthdays, weddings, rentals, seasonal and more. Costumes, Party & Events is the web's most unique store for Halloween costumes, accessories, make-up, wigs and masks as well as party supplies, wedding supplies, party and seasonal decorations and event rentals. Costumes, Party & Events is a division of the Ehrle's Party & Carnival Supply, Inc. Costumes, Party & Events offers Halloween Costumes, Halloween Accessories, and Halloween Decorations seller. Beyond our Halloween products, we also offer Party Supplies, Birthday Party Patterns, Wedding Decorations, Wedding Supplies, Holiday Decorations, Holiday Costumes, Anniversary Decorations, Helium Tanks, and Party Event Rentals. The Ehrle's company is one of the best party supply businesses in the country, selling Party Supplies including Halloween Costumes for more than 55 years. Beginning with our brick and mortar store in Tulsa, Oklahoma we have expanded to offer our products all across the United States with our newest division, Costumes, Party and Events. This website is the premier website for shopping for all of your Halloween needs. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu Keep up with this event on Facebook E UALITY Business Alliance Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Stand Bi+ Me Rooftop Celebration 4/23/26, 6:14 PM �OkEq eNews August 31st, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--2016.... Friday September 23, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Come celebrate Bi+ Visibility Day with "Brought to You Bi the Letter B"! We will be hosting a rooftop party at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, Friday, September 23 at 7:00PM! Come for music, dancing, socializing and drinks! Bring all your friends to celebrate our community! More details available on Facebook! Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Victory Institute Leadership Summit Saturday September 24, 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Victory Leadership Summits offer a day-long, intensive training for LGBT leaders. These summits help trainees develop the skills needed to take next steps in public service. Hear from local elected and appointed officials, Victory's experts on appointed positions and running for office, and organizations working for LGBT equality locally and statewide on how to become more involved in public service. Attendees join a strong cohort of established and emerging leaders and connect with valuable tools and resources to take the next step in their work. The trainings are open to LGBT community members 18 and older, and are free to attend. For more information click here - VICTORY Territory Days Barn Dance Brought to You Bi the Letter B Saturday September 24, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) We need to renovate the Equality Center and Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting another barn dance to raise the funds. And just like the musical "Oklahoma!" territory folks need to get together and have some fun and raise lots of money. If you like to lip sync to your favorite song you could walk away with prize money if you win the Oklahoma Lip Sync Contest. DJ Crystal will be playing the best country and western music in our make shift barn on a wooden dance floor (aka our garage space) for the best boot skootin, two steppin, and line dancing in Tulsa. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R . Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. Help us reach our goal. Nicole Carrington (Dale Hogan) our drag entertainers from Vegas will be paying tribute to some of our favorite country queens. You can purchase barbecue sandwiches from Burn Co., side dishes and delicious desserts from the Chuck Wagon. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $50-Individual seat with open bar. $5.00 -Individual seat with cash bar. Tickets are available now by clicking on the ticket link or purchase tickets by contacting Olivia Cotter at 918-743-4297 or email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship 4/23/26, 6:14 PM �OkEq eNews August 31st, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--2016.... Tickets are available now. To purchase click the corresponding link above. and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Pryor Rendering October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. $5.00 per Session Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. The LGBT $10 youth/ student tickets (live theatre at movie prices) are now available. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rooftop Rally Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. Tickets now available online For more information or to RSPV email Jose.vega@okeq.org Congratualtions Smoke B and Smoke C Teams! Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 6:14 PM �OkEq eNews August 31st, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--2016.... Tulsa Smoke B finished 17th out of 35 teams. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Tulsa Smoke C finished 9th out of 63 teams Equality Center Pride Store Visit the OKEQ Pride store for all your end of summer necessities!!! OKEQ frisbees $3 Vote buttons $3 Sunglasses $10 Cold beverage drinkware $12 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Spirit and The Flesh: Sexual Diversity in American Indian Culture" By: Walter L. Williams Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and 4/23/26, 6:14 PM �OkEq eNews August 31st, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--2016.... educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Winner of the: Gay Book of the Year Award, American Library Association; Ruth Benedict Award, Society of Lesbian and Gay Anthropologists; Award for Outstanding Scholarship, World Congress for Sexology Author's note: Shortly after the second revised edition this book was published in 1992, the term "Two-Spirit Person" became more popular among native people than the older anthropological term "berdache." When I learned of this new term, I began strongly supporting the use of this newer term. I believe that people should be able to call themselves whatever they wish, and scholars should respect and acknowledge their change of terminology. I went on record early on in convincing other anthropologists to shift away from use of the word berdache and in favor of using Two-Spirit. Nevertheless, because this book continues to be sold with the use of berdache, many people have assumed that I am resisting the newer term. Nothing could be further from the truth. Unless continued sales of this book will justify the publication of a third revised edition in the future, it is not possible to rewrite what is already printed, Therefore, I urge readers of this book, as well as activists who are working to gain more respect for gender variance, mentally to substitute the term "Two-Spirit" in the place of "berdache" when reading this text. -- Walter L. Williams, Los Angeles, 2006 --· -- A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 -- Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Purple Glaze Studio - LGBT Night Tuesday September 13, 7:00 p.m. Purple Glaze Studio South 6528 E. 91st St., Tulsa, OK. 74133 Purple Glaze Studio will be hosting a LGBT night. All ages are welcome. There will be a $3.00 studio fee plus the cost of the piece you choose to paint. For more information call Jim Stunkard at 918-636-9311 or email at jimstunkard@gmail.com. I f you have questions about the studio and what they offer please call 918-941-6900. Cyndi Lauper - Detour Tour Tuesday September 13, 8:00 p.m Civic Center Music Hall 201 N. Walker Ave., Oklahoma City, OK 73102 You can purchase tickets for the show here Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:14 PM �OkEq eNews August 31st, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--2016.... 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SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e September 7th, 2016 okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility news In This Issue Call for Exhibition Proposals September Video eNews Victory Institute Leadership Summit September Volunteer of the Month SAGE Activities 2017 Call for Exhibition Proposals Sisters in Song Entry Deadline October 15, 2016 Council Oak Men's Chorale The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2017 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. HOMO The Documentary EBA Mixer Stand Bi+ Me Rooftop Celebration Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Territory Days Pryor Rendering Rooftop Rally. Pride Store Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Rainbow Library Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is hung on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artist will also provide "museum cards" for each piece, stating the title, and price, with other information being optional. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. Deadline for submissions is October 15, 2016. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2016. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 22nd Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. September Video eNews OkEq Art Exhibition The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas. It is entitled "Naturally Speaking" Victory Institute Leadership Summit Saturday September 24, 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Victory Institute's Tulsa Leadership Summit will be a gathering of openly lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) leaders in the Tulsa and Oklahoma City Metros. In collaboration with Oklahomans for Equality, the Gay & Lesbian Victory Institute presents a day-long intensive training that will help trainees develop the skills necessary to take the next steps in public service. The Tulsa Leadership Summit is open to both emerging and established leaders in the Tulsa community and in the larger Oklahoma area. Trainees will hear from and engage with local leaders in the community and around the area who are making a difference for LGBT people and for the community at large. They will have the opportuni ty to speak with openly LGBT elected officials in Oklahoma who are leading the fight for equality, learn from their expertise, and apply their new skills to their own leadership. . _t~ ... VICTORY Gamily The Gay & Lesbian Victory Institute works to achieve full equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people by building, supporting, and advancing a diverse network of LGBT public leaders. Through its training and professional development programs, the Victory Institute assists hundreds of individuals who go on to influential careers in politics, government, business and advocacy each year. Many of the Victory Institute's trainees join the more than 1,000 openly LGBT elected and appointed officials now serving around the world. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents 4/23/26, 6:15 PM �OkEq eNews September 7th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-7th--201... Breakfast and lunch will be provided! and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org No cost to attend! Full schedule and speakers will be announced soon! Lawyer in the Library Register to attend here: https://victoryinstitute.wufoo.com/forms/q1wbqgv201ok4ie/ ---More information available on Facebook September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Volunteer of the Month September 2016 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Chad Hollinghead Chad has volunteered at OkEq since April 2015. He loves the positive impact he makes at the center and says " It meant so much that I was not judged. I decided to stay and serve the LGBTQ community... I'm so grateful for the Dennis R Neil Equality Center for giving people an opportunity to serve." He loves "meeting and talking with all people of every background and ages. It's extremely therapeutic. Then add in the staff, they make you feel you are truly making a difference in Tulsa." When he is not serving our community he works as nurse tech and unit security at a hospital. Chad has participated in several programs throughout the years, "My first Pride was at Veterans Park. My first program was the youth group (OYP) when OkEq was on 21st and Memorial behind TNT's. I would absolutely encourage everyone to volunteer! It's extremely rewarding. Knowing you're making a difference and helping a great organization transform Tulsa for the better together! When collecting food for an area church, opening the doors to the less fortunate during dangerous summer heat or simply having free holiday dinners with loved ones when some may have been turned away by their own, plus so much more, We are family!" Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 We thank you for your devotion Chad! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org SAGE Events In September at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center: PRYO R RE DERI NG SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd. SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. A read-around of Pryor Rendering will start at the August 31st meeting of the book club and be completed by the premier of the musical October 13. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st Sisters in Song Cliristmas 2016 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Rehearsals begin Tuesday Sept 6th 4/23/26, 6:15 PM �OkEq eNews September 7th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-7th--201... 7:00 PM Rehearsals are every Tuesday night th rough Dec. 13th Dr. Kurt Choate Fellowship Congregational Church 2700 South Harvard Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org We welcome all singers to come to our rehearsals in September! Music and recordings available when you contact us. No auditions, but choir is set by October 4th! Contact Linda Barton Paul, Artistic Director 918-629-7259 harplinda l@gmail.com Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu ---(918) 594-8568 Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday August 23, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa, OK 74114 Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for a few good men...to SING!! If you love to sing, perform and enjoy being around a great group of guys, come join us! COMC is looking for new members and past members to join the chorus and perform our December holiday concert at Trinity Episcopal Church. Rehearsals began Tuesday August 23 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. All you have to do to join is come to a rehearsal. Then a simple audition for our Artistic Director Kent Dennis after one of the first few rehearsals. Contact us at counciloak.org if you have any questions. HOMO The Documentary Screening Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Sunday September 18, 6:00 p.m. Perkins Auditorium - OU Tulsa Campus 4502 E 41st St, Tulsa, OK 74135 Come join Oklahomans for Equality and the crew of HOMO The Documentary while we host a screening of the film Sunday September 18th at the Perkins Auditorium located on the campus of the University of Oklahoma-Tulsa. Tickets can be purchased at the door prior to the start of the show for $15. See you all there!!! Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ----(918) 914-9746 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I 4/23/26, 6:15 PM �OkEq eNews September 7th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-7th--201... have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (832)-405-2534 . Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday September 21, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Ehrle's Party and Carnival Supply 5150 S Sheridan Rd, Tulsa, OK 74145 Northeast Oklahoma's best place for all your party needs since 1955. Costumes and accessories year round, birthdays, weddings, rentals, seasonal and more. Costumes, Party & Events is the web's most unique store for Halloween costumes, accessories, make-up, wigs and masks as well as party supplies, wedding supplies, party and seasonal decorations and event rentals. Costumes, Party & Events is a division of the Ehrle's Party & Carnival Supply, Inc. Costumes, Party & Events offers Halloween Costumes, Halloween Accessories, and Halloween Decorations seller. Beyond our Halloween products, we also offer Party Supplies, Birthday Party Patterns, Wedding Decorations, Wedding Supplies, Holiday Decorations, Holiday Costumes, Anniversary Decorations, Helium Tanks, and Party Event Rentals. The Ehrle's company is one of the best party supply businesses in the country, selling Party Supplies including Halloween Costumes for more than 55 years. Beginning with our brick and mortar store in Tulsa, Oklahoma we have expanded to offer our products all across the United States with our newest division, Costumes, Party and Events. This website is the premier website for shopping for all of your Halloween needs. Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group 4/23/26, 6:15 PM �OkEq eNews September 7th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-7th--201... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Keep up with this event on Facebook E UALITY Business Alliance Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Stand Bi+ Me Rooftop Celebration Friday September 23, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come celebrate Bi+ Visibility Day with "Brought to You Bi the Letter B"! We will be hosting a rooftop party at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, Friday, September 23 at 7:00PM! Come for music, dancing, socializing and drinks! Bring all your friends to celebrate our community! More details available on Facebook! Territory Days Barn Dance Saturday September 24, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit 4/23/26, 6:15 PM �OkEq eNews September 7th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-7th--201... the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session We need to renovate the Equality Center and Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting another barn dance to raise the funds. And just like the musical "Oklahoma!" territory folks need to get together and have some fun and raise lots of money. If you like to lip sync to your favorite song you could walk away with prize money if you win the Oklahoma Lip Sync Contest. DJ Crystal will be playing the best country and western music in our make shift barn on a wooden dance floor (aka our garage space) for the best boot skootin, two steppin, and line dancing in Tulsa. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R . Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. Help us reach our goal. Nicole Carrington (Dale Hogan) our drag entertainers from Vegas will be paying tribute to some of our favorite country queens. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. You can purchase barbecue sandwiches from Burn Co., side dishes and delicious desserts from the Chuck Wagon. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $50-Individual seat with open bar. $5 -Individual seat with cash bar. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Tickets are available now by clicking on the ticket link or purchase tickets by contacting Olivia Cotter at 918-743-4297 or email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Tickets are available now. To purchase click the corresponding link above. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Pryor Rendering October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. The LGBT $10 youth/ student tickets (live theatre at movie prices) are now available. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Rooftop Rally Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/23/26, 6:15 PM �OkEq eNews September 7th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-7th--201... Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. Tickets now available online For more information or to RSPV email Jose.vega@okeq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Equality Center Pride Store Visit the OKEQ Pride store for all your end of summer necessities!!! OKEQ frisbees $3 Vote buttons $3 Sunglasses $10 Cold beverage drinkware $12 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "How I Paid for College: A Novel of Sex, Theft, Friendship & Musical Theater" By: Marc Acito A deliciously funny romp of a novel about one overly theatrical and sexually confused New Jersey teenager's larcenous quest for his acting school tuition. It's 1983 in Wallingford, New Jersey, a sleepy bedroom community outside of Manhattan. Seventeen-year-old Edward Zanni, a feckless Ferris Bueller-type, is Peter Panning his way through a carefree summer of magic and mischief. The fun comes to a halt, however, when Edward's father remarries and refuses to pay for Edward to study acting at Juilliard. Edward's truly in a bind. He's ineligible for scholarships because his father earns too much. He's unable to contact his mother because she's somewhere in Peru trying to commune with Incan spirits. And, as a sure sign he's destined for a life in the arts, Edward's incapable of holding down a job. So he turns to his loyal (but immoral) misfit friends to help him steal the tuition money from his father, all the while practicing for his high school performance of Grease . Disguising themselves as nuns and priests, they merrily scheme their way through embezzlement, money laundering, identity theft, forgery, and blackmail. But, along the way, Edward also learns the value of friendship, hard work, and how you're not really a man until you can beat up your father-metaphorically, that is. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. How I Paid for College is a farcical coming-of-age story that combines the first-person tone of David Sedaris with the byzantine plot twists of Armistead Maupin. It is a novel for anyone who has ever had a dream or a scheme, and it marks the introduction to an original and audacious talent. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Purple Glaze Studio - LGBT Night Tuesday September 13, 7:00 p.m. Purple Glaze Studio South 6528 E. 91st St., Tulsa, OK. 74133 Purple Glaze Studio will be hosting a LGBT night. All ages are welcome. There will be a $3.00 studio fee plus the cost of the piece you choose to paint. For more information call Jim Stunkard at 918-636-9311 or email at jimstunkard@gmail.com. I f you have questions about the studio and what they offer please call 918-941-6900. Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future 4/23/26, 6:15 PM �OkEq eNews September 7th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-7th--201... Cyndi Lauper - Detour Tour Tuesday September 13, 8:00 p.m Civic Center Music Hall 201 N. Walker Ave., Oklahoma City, OK 73102 You can purchase tickets for the show here violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Visit OkcCivicCenter.com or call 405.297.2264 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:15 PM �OkEq eNews September 7th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-7th--201... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 6:15 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ff0f7f37b6bdcc629ca7250909f1fe58.pdf c846f8d2a9a832537ff51c824736d4c0 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 14th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-14th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e Territory Days Barn Dance September 14th, 2016 okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility In This Issue news Territory Days EBA Mixer Victory Institute Leadership Summit Stand Bi+ Me Rooftop Celebration Becka's 50th Birthday Bingo Bash First Thursday Art Opening. Saturday September 24, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 September Volunteer of the Month September Video eNews. Call for Exhibition Proposals SAGE Activities Sisters in Song Council Oak Men's Chorale HOMO The Documentary Pryor Rendering Rooftop Rally. Pride Store Rainbow Library OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 22nd Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. We need to renovate the Equality Center and Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting another barn dance to raise the funds. And just like the musical "Oklahoma!" territory folks need to get together and have some fun and raise lots of money. If you like to lip sync to your favorite song you could walk away with prize money if you win the Oklahoma Lip Sync Contest. DJ Crystal will be playing the best country and western music in our make shift barn on a wooden dance floor (aka our garage space) for the best boot skootin, two steppin, and line dancing in Tulsa. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R . Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. Help us reach our goal. OkEq Art Exhibition The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas. It is entitled "Naturally Speaking" Nicole Carrington (Dale Hogan) our drag entertainers from Vegas will be paying tribute to some of our favorite country queens. You can purchase barbecue sandwiches from Burn Co., side dishes and delicious desserts from the Chuck Wagon. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $50-Individual seat with open bar. $5.00 -Individual seat with cash bar. Tickets are available now by clicking on the ticket link or purchase tickets by contacting Olivia Cotter at 918-743-4297 or email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Tickets are available now. To purchase click the corresponding link above. Gamily 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 14th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-14th--20... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library October 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday September 21, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Ehrle's Party and Carnival Supply 5150 S Sheridan Rd, Tulsa, OK 74145 Northeast Oklahoma's best place for all your party needs since 1955. Costumes and accessories year round, birthdays, weddings, rentals, seasonal and more. Costumes, Party & Events is the web's most unique store for Halloween costumes, accessories, make-up, wigs and masks as well as party supplies, wedding supplies, party and seasonal decorations and event rentals. Costumes, Party & Events is a division of the Ehrle's Party & Carnival Supply, Inc. Costumes, Party & Events offers Halloween Costumes, Halloween Accessories, and Halloween Decorations seller. Beyond our Halloween products, we also offer Party Supplies, Birthday Party Patterns, Wedding Decorations, Wedding Supplies, Holiday Decorations, Holiday Costumes, Anniversary Decorations, Helium Tanks, and Party Event Rentals. The Ehrle's company is one of the best party supply businesses in the country, selling Party Supplies including Halloween Costumes for more than 55 years. Beginning with our brick and mortar store in Tulsa, Oklahoma we have expanded to offer our products all across the United States with our newest division, Costumes, Party and Events. This website is the premier website for shopping for all of your Halloween needs. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Keep up with this event on Facebook Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com E UALITY Business Alliance Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - Victory Institute Leadership Summit Counseling Services Saturday September 24, 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Victory Institute's Tulsa Leadership Summit will be a gathering of openly lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) leaders in the Tulsa and Oklahoma City Metros. In collaboration with Oklahomans for Equality, the Gay & Lesbian Victory Institute presents a day-long intensive training that will help trainees develop the skills necessary to take the next steps in public service. The Tulsa Leadership Summit is open to both emerging and established leaders in the Tulsa community and in the larger Oklahoma area. . _t~ Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. VICTORY IB1l!l!!!I 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 14th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-14th--20... - Trainees will hear from and engage with local leaders in the community and around the area who are making a difference for LGBT people and for the community at large. They will have the opportuni ty to speak with openly LGBT elected officials in Oklahoma who are leading the fight for equality, learn from their expertise, and apply their new skills to their own leadership. The Gay & Lesbian Victory Institute works to achieve full equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people by building, supporting, and advancing a diverse network of LGBT public leaders. Through its training and professional development programs, the Victory Institute assists hundreds of individuals who go on to influential careers in politics, government, business and advocacy each year. Many of the Victory Institute's trainees join the more than 1,000 openly LGBT elected and appointed officials now serving around the world. Breakfast and lunch will be provided! No cost to attend! Full schedule and speakers will be announced soon! Register to attend here: https://victoryinstitute.wufoo.com/forms/q1wbqgv201ok4ie/ -More information available on Facebook Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Stand Bi+ Me Rooftop Celebration Friday September 23, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come celebrate Bi+ Visibility Day with "Brought to You Bi the Letter B"! We will be hosting a rooftop party at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, Friday, September 23 at 7:00PM! Come for music, dancing, socializing and drinks! Bring all your friends to celebrate our community! More details available on Facebook! Becka's 50th Birthday Bingo Bash Friday September 30, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Rebecca Ungerman wanted to do something nice on her 50th birthday. So she is having a fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality. She loves bingo and drag queens so guess what??? We are having a Bingo Night. Only $20 to get in. That gets you a bingo banger and bingo cards. Concession stand and cash bar will be open and fully stocked. Check the event on Facebook ! Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 914-9746 First Thursday Art Opening Thursday October 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 14th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-14th--20... The October Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Joy Frangiosa beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Joy was born in New Jersey during the "good old days" era. She spent her early childhood in a Catholic Institution. Her life experiences are manifested in her art - the use of shrine like boxes has become her signature. have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 . She is a visual artist using collage/assemblage as her medium. Found objects and her personal photography are placed in settings to tell a story and expose a truth. Thousands of hours have been spent perfecting her techniques - each creation frees a part of her inner self, lessening her imposing sensitivity towards life. She is a chronicler of time, places and people. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, October 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Volunteer of the Month September 2016 Chad Hollinghead Chad has volunteered at OkEq since April 2015. He loves the positive impact he makes at the center and says " It meant so much that I was not judged. I decided to stay and serve the LGBTQ community... I'm so grateful for the Dennis R Neil Equality Center for giving people an opportunity to serve." He loves "meeting and talking with all people of every background and ages. It's extremely therapeutic. Then add in the staff, they make you feel you are truly making a difference in Tulsa." When he is not serving our community he works as nurse tech and unit security at a hospital. Chad has participated in several programs throughout the years, "My first Pride was at Veterans Park. My first program was the youth group (OYP) when OkEq was on 21st and Memorial behind TNT's. I would absolutely encourage everyone to volunteer! It's extremely rewarding. Knowing you're making a difference and helping a great organization transform Tulsa for the better together! When collecting food for an area church, opening the doors to the less fortunate during dangerous summer heat or simply having free holiday dinners with loved ones when some may have been turned away by their own, plus so much more, We are family!" Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 We thank you for your devotion Chad! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org September Video eNews Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu 2017 Call for Exhibition Proposals Entry Deadline October 15, 2016 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2017 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is hung on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 14th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-14th--20... commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artist will also provide "museum cards" for each piece, stating the title, and price, with other information being optional. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. Deadline for submissions is October 15, 2016. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2016. Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org SAGE Events In September at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center: PRYO R RE DERING SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm . SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather A read-around of Pryor Rendering will start at the August 31st meeting of the book club and be completed by the premier of the musical October 13. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Sisters in Song Christmas 2016 Rehearsals begin Tuesday Sept 6th 7:00 PM Rehearsals are every Tuesday night through Dec. 1 th Fellowship Congregational Church 2700 South Harvard We welcome all singers to come to our rehearsals in September! Music and recordings available when you contact us. No auditions, but choir is set by October 4th! Contact Linda Barton Paul_ Artir.tic Director The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 14th, 2016 6 of 9 918-629-7259 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-14th--20... harplinda 1@gmail.com the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday August 23, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa, OK 74114 EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for a few good men...to SING!! If you love to sing, perform and enjoy being around a great group of guys, come join us! COMC is looking for new members and past members to join the chorus and perform our December holiday concert at Trinity Episcopal Church. Rehearsals began Tuesday August 23 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. All you have to do to join is come to a rehearsal. Then a simple audition for our Artistic Director Kent Dennis after one of the first few rehearsals. $5.00 per Session Contact us at counciloak.org if you have any questions. HOMO The Documentary Screening Sunday September 18, 6:00 p.m. Perkins Auditorium - OU Tulsa Campus 4502 E 41st St, Tulsa, OK 74135 Come join Oklahomans for Equality and the crew of HOMO The Documentary while we host a screening of the film Sunday September 18th at the Perkins Auditorium located on the campus of the University of Oklahoma-Tulsa. Tickets can be purchased at the door prior to the start of the show for $15. See you all there!!! Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 14th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-14th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Pryor Rendering October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. The LGBT $10 youth/student tickets (live theatre at movie prices) are now available by using the code "LGBT", when ordering by phone or online. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com Rooftop Rally Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 14th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-14th--20... Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. Tickets now available online For more information or to RSPV email Jose.vega@okeq.org Equality Center Pride Store Visit the OKEQ Pride store for all your end of summer necessities!!! OKEQ frisbees $3 Vote buttons $3 Sunglasses $10 Cold beverage drinkware $12 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Late Bloomers" By: Gretchen and Julia Dyer Who would've thought a little one-on-one could get a girl in so much trouble? When high school basketball coach Dinah Groshardt falls for school secretary Carly Lumpkin, the uproar reverberates from classroom to locker room, from the principals office to the PTA. A film about true love tolerance and naked basketball, Late Bloomers redefines family values. A movie for everyone who believes it's never to late to fall in love. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 14th, 2016 9 of 9 I Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-14th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 4/23/26, 6:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/103b32bef2f76868834860ef6fa008ca.pdf acd7bfe5e3254c3a4c6c097daed48e5a PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 22nd, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-22nd--2... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news okl:ihom:ins tor equ:ility Territory Days Barn Dance September 22nd, 2016 In This Issue Territory Days Victory Institute Leadership Summit Stand Bi+ Me Rooftop Celebration Becka's 50th Birthday Bingo Bash First Thursday Art Opening September Volunteer of the Month Saturday September 24, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 September Video eNews Call for Exhibition Proposals SAGE Activities Sisters in Song Council Oak Men's Chorale Pryor Rendering Rooftop Rally. Pride Store Rainbow Library OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 22nd Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. We need to renovate the Equality Center and Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting another barn dance to raise the funds. And just like the musical "Oklahoma!" territory folks need to get together and have some fun and raise lots of money. If you like to lip sync to your favorite song you could walk away with prize money if you win the Oklahoma Lip Sync Contest. DJ Crystal will be playing the best country and western music in our make shift barn on a wooden dance floor (aka our garage space) for the best boot skootin, two steppin, and line dancing in Tulsa. OkEq Art Exhibition The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas. It is entitled "Naturally Speaking" Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R . Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. Help us reach our goal. Nicole Carrington (Dale Hogan) our drag entertainers from Vegas will be paying tribute to some of our favorite country queens. You can purchase barbecue sandwiches from Burn Co., side dishes and delicious desserts from the Chuck Wagon. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $50-Individual seat with open bar. $5.00 -Individual seat with cash bar. Tickets are available now by clicking on the ticket link or purchase tickets by contacting Olivia Cotter at 918-743-4297 or email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Tickets are available now. To purchase click the corresponding link above. Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 22nd, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-22nd--2... and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Victory Institute Leadership Summit Saturday September 24, 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Keep Coming Back Meditation Group The Victory Institute's Tulsa Leadership Summit will be a gathering of openly lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) leaders in the Tulsa and Oklahoma City Metros. In collaboration with Oklahomans for Equality, the Gay & Lesbian Victory Institute presents a day-long intensive training that will help trainees develop the skills necessary to take the next steps in public service. The Tulsa Leadership Summit is open to both emerging and established leaders in the Tulsa community and in the larger Oklahoma area. Trainees will hear from and engage with local leaders in the community and around the area who are making a difference for LGBT people and for the community at large. They will have the opportuni ty to speak with openly LGBT elected officials in Oklahoma who are leading the fight for equality, learn from their expertise, and apply their new skills to their own leadership. - VICTORY Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 The Gay & Lesbian Victory Institute works to achieve full equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people by building, supporting, and advancing a diverse network of LGBT public leaders. Through its training and professional development programs, the Victory Institute assists hundreds of individuals who go on to influential careers in politics, government, business and advocacy each year. Many of the Victory Institute's trainees join the more than 1,000 openly LGBT elected and appointed officials now serving around the world. Breakfast and lunch will be provided! No cost to attend! Full schedule and speakers will be announced soon! Register to attend here: https://victoryinstitute.wufoo.com/forms/q1wbqgv201ok4ie/ More information available on Facebook Stand Bi+ Me Rooftop Celebration Friday September 23, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come celebrate Bi+ Visibility Day with "Brought to You Bi the Letter B"! We will be hosting a rooftop party at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, Friday, September 23 at 7:00PM! Come for music, dancing, socializing and drinks! Bring all your friends to celebrate our community! This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com More details available on Facebook! Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st Becka's 50th Birthday Bingo Bash Friday September 30, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Rebecca Ungerman wanted to do something nice on her 50th birthday. So she is having a fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality. She loves bingo and drag queens so guess what??? We are having a Bingo Night. Only $20 to get in. That gets you a bingo banger and bingo cards. Concession stand and cash bar will be open and fully stocked. Check the event on Facebook ! Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 22nd, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-22nd--2... Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org First Thursday Art Opening Thursday October 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The October Oklahomans for Equality will feature the works of Joy Frangiosa beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Joy was born in New Jersey during the "good old days" era. She spent her early childhood in a Catholic Institution. Her life experiences are manifested in her art - the use of shrine like boxes has become her signature. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 She is a visual artist using collage/assemblage as her medium. Found objects and her personal photography are placed in settings to tell a story and expose a truth. Thousands of hours have been spent perfecting her techniques - each creation frees a part of her inner self, lessening her imposing sensitivity towards life. She is a chronicler of time, places and people. Her goal is to honor, through her art, the nameless and dispossessed.... the castaways of society - and reverse the neglect; replacing it with hope and recognition. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, October 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Volunteer of the Month September 2016 Chad Hollinghead Chad has volunteered at OkEq since April 2015. He loves the positive impact he makes at the center and says " It meant so much that I was not judged. I decided to stay and serve the LGBTQ community... I'm so grateful for the Dennis R Neil Equality Center for giving people an opportunity to serve." He loves "meeting and talking with all people of every background and ages. It's extremely therapeutic. Then add in the staff, they make you feel you are truly making a difference in Tulsa." When he is not serving our community he works as nurse tech and unit security at a hospital. Chad has participated in several programs throughout the years, "My first Pride was at Veterans Park. My first program was the youth group (OYP) when OkEq was on 21st and Memorial behind TNT's. I would absolutely encourage everyone to volunteer! It's extremely rewarding. Knowing you're making a difference and helping a great organization transform Tulsa for the better together! When collecting food for an area church, opening the doors to the less fortunate during dangerous summer heat or simply having free holiday dinners with loved ones when some may have been turned away by their own, plus so much more, We are family!" We thank you for your devotion Chad! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org September Video eNews Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 914-9746 /.' . "'' ', .•-;,.',.,:-~J;· V , . . \ ~ · , ~ · Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 22nd, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-22nd--2... have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (832)-405-2534 . 2017 Call for Exhibition Proposals Entry Deadline October 15, 2016 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2017 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is hung on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artist will also provide "museum cards" for each piece, stating the title, and price, with other information being optional. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. Deadline for submissions is October 15, 2016. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2016. Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" SAGE Events In September at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center: PRYOR RENDER ING SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd. SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. A read-around of Pryor Rendering will start at the August 31st meeting of the book club and be completed by the premier of the musical October 13. Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. Non-Binary Support Group Sisters in Song Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Cfiristmas 2016 SOS Group 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 22nd, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-22nd--2... Rehearsals begin Tuesday Sept 6th 7:00 PM Rehearsals are every Tuesday night through Dec. 13th Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Fellowship Congregational Church 2700 South Harvard We welcome al l singers to come to our rehearsals in September! Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Music and recordings available when you contact us. No auditions, but choir is set by October 4th! Contact Linda Barton Paul, Artistic Director 918-629-7259 harplinda1@gmail.com The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday August 23, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa, OK 74114 Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for a few good men...to SING!! If you love to sing, perform and enjoy being around a great group of guys, come join us! COMC is looking for new members and past members to join the chorus and perform our December holiday concert at Trinity Episcopal Church. Rehearsals began Tuesday August 23 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. All you have to do to join is come to a rehearsal. Then a simple audition for our Artistic Director Kent Dennis after one of the first few rehearsals. Contact us at counciloak.org if you have any questions. Pryor Rendering October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. The LGBT $10 youth/student tickets (live theatre at movie prices) are now available. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 22nd, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-22nd--2... the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Rooftop Rally Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! $5.00 per Session We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. Gender Outreach Tickets now available online For more information or to RSPV email Jose.vega@okeq.org Equality Center Pride Store Visit the OKEQ Pride store for all your end of summer necessities!!! OKEQ frisbees $3 Vote buttons $3 Sunglasses $10 Cold beverage drinkware $12 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Wit & Wisdom of Oscar Wilde Diary" By: Oscar Wilde Oscar Wilde was a sparkling and beguiling conversationalist. The words spoken by the characters he created in his writings are, like his own, gloriously whimsical and witty. Glowing within them are truths - everlasting, often paradoxical truths - that sprang from his understanding of the humor and contrariness of life. The pages of the diary are spiced with memorable examples of his wit and wisdom. The epigrams and excerpts from his plays, essays and single novel, from The Importance of Being Earnest, De Pofundis and The Picture of Dorian Gray, are amusingly paired with period illustrations. They reflect the brilliance of the man who said - and believed - "There is only one thing in the world worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about". Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 22nd, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-22nd--2... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 22nd, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-22nd--2... Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 22nd, 2016 9 of 9 I Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-22nd--2... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 4/23/26, 6:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a01bfe1f2083a091d25afafce70c8c86.pdf 1b20ad4450f0487fc24977734bd5eab8 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 28th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-28th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news oklahomans for equality Becka's 50th Birthday Bingo Bash September 28th, 2016 In This Issue Becka's 50th Birthday Bingo Bash October Volunteer of the Month First Thursday Art Opening Rooftop Rally Equality Business Alliance Mixer Pryor Rendering Friday September 30, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Territory Days Zombie House Rebecca Ungerman wanted to do something nice on her 50th birthday. So she is having a fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality. She loves bingo and drag queens so guess what??? We are having a Bingo Night. Only $20 to get in. That gets you a bingo banger and bingo cards. Concession stand and cash bar will be open and fully stocked. Check the event on Facebook ! Purchase tickets here. Call for Exhibition Proposals SAGE Activities Pride Store Rainbow Library OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 22nd Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas. It is entitled "Naturally Speaking" Volunteer of the Month October 2016 Sara-Jane Gray Sara-Jane has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since May 5. 2016. "I became a volunteer to help with my Tulsa Community College Tulsa Achieves hours and to support my newly discovered LGBT family. I love all of the people who we meet working here. They come in all shapes sizes and orientations and I love meeting everyone!" When Sara-Jane is not manning the front desk she is a student at Tulsa Community College and enjoys video games. Sara-Jane includes "The program I like the most is most definitely the transgender support program, it is the one I am most involved in and love all the people involved. I do recommend volunteering here, it is just such an open and caring place that is just a wonderful place to be." Gamily We thank you for your devotion Sara-Jane! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org First Thursday Art Opening Thursday October 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The October Oklahomans for Equality will feature the works of Joy Frangiosa beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. : Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. 4/23/26, 6:18 PM �OkEq eNews September 28th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-28th--20... Joy was born in New Jersey during the "good old days" era. She spent her early childhood in a Catholic Institution. Her life experiences are manifested in her art the use of shrine like boxes has become her signature. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. She is a visual artist using collage/assemblage as her medium. Found objects and her personal photography are placed in settings to tell a story and expose a truth. Thousands of hours have been spent perfecting her techniques - each creation frees a part of her inner self, lessening her imposing sensitivity towards life. She is a chronicler of time, places and people. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Her goal is to honor, through her art, the nameless and dispossessed.... the castaways of society - and reverse the neglect; replacing it with hope and recognition. Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 The show begins with a reception on Thursday, October 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Rooftop Rally Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. This event is is free to attend. For more information or to RSVP email Jose.vega@okeq.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer October 19, 6:00 p.m. Look Eyecare & Eyewear 3746 S Peoria Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Not only is LOOK Eyecare & Eyewear your onestop shop for eye care and trendy eyewear in Tulsa, but it also offers a level of service that you would expect from a family-run business.... because it is! Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st If you have any questions about insurance benefits or eyewear, Jennifer is here to help you! Call 918-992-5337 to schedule your visit today! The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. E UALITY Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Business Alliance Dr. Kurt Choate Pryor Rendering Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 4/23/26, 6:18 PM �OkEq eNews September 28th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-28th--20... In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. The LGBT $10 youth/student tickets (live theatre at movie prices) are now available. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 1980: The Year It All Began Saturday October 22, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In 1980, Jimmy Carter was still in the White House and everybody wanted to know who shot JR on the #1 TV show Dallas. The Empire Strikes Back, The Blue Lagoon and Private Benjamin were the top movies. "Another One Bites The Dust" by Queen was the #1 Song. And a group of Gay men and Lesbians and straight allies came together to found Oklahomans for Human Rights which we know today as Oklahomans for Equality today. Committed to advocating for the rights of LGBTQ Oklahomans for 37 years we enter a new phase of expanded outreach. Get your 70s and 80s vintage clothing and join us for a trip back in time as we raise money for our Equality Center renovations project. DJ Crystal will be spinning your favorite hits from the 70s and 80s. Disco Drag Queen Nicole Carrington aka Dale Hogan will be in the house. We have prizes for the best 1980s costumes. Enter the lip syncing 80's contest and walk away with some big cash. $300 for a table for 8 with an open bar. Or $5.00 for a single admission with a cash bar. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 $5.00 Individual seat with cash bar. Tickets are available now by clicking on the ticket link or purchase tickets by contacting Olivia Cotter at Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 914-9746 918-743-4297 or email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Zombie House October 28 - 31, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. nightly Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 28th, 29th 30th and 31st, 2016. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org or on Facebook. Tickets are now available online! Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (832)-405-2534 . Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma 4/23/26, 6:18 PM �OkEq eNews September 28th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-28th--20... DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 2017 Call for Exhibition Proposals Entry Deadline October 15, 2016 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2017 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is hung on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artist will also provide "museum cards" for each piece, stating the title, and price, with other information being optional. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu Deadline for submissions is October 15, 2016. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2016. Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" SAGE Events In September at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center: Non-Binary Support Group PRYOR RE D lm l NC SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd. SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. A read-around of Pryor Rendering will start at the August 31st meeting of the book club and be completed by the premier of the musical October 13. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. Equality Center Pride Store Visit the OKEQ Pride store for all your end of summer necessities!!! OKEQ frisbees $3 Vote buttons $3 Sunglasses $10 Cold beverage drinkware $12 Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. 4/23/26, 6:18 PM �OkEq eNews September 28th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-28th--20... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "She's Not the Man I Married: My Life with a Transgender Husband" By: Helen Boyd Helen Boyd's husband, who had long been open about being a cross-dresser, was considering living as a woman full time. Suddenly, Boyd was confronted with the reality of what it would mean if her husband were actually to become a woman - socially, legally, and medically. Would Boyd love and desire her partner the same way? Boyd's first book, My Husband Betty, explored the relationships of cross-dressing men and their partners. Now, She's Not the Man I Married is both a sequel and a more expansive examination of gender in relationships. It's for couples who are homosexual or heterosexual, and for readers who fall anywhere along the gender continuum. As Boyd struggles to understand the nature of marriage, passion, and love, she shares her confusion and anger, providing a fascinating observation of the ways in which relationships are gendered, and how we cope, or don't, with the emotional and sexual pressures that gender roles can bring to our marriages and relationships. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan II . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 6:18 PM �OkEq eNews September 28th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-28th--20... Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with 4/23/26, 6:18 PM �OkEq eNews September 28th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-28th--20... Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. ---- Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing every other Thursday 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is 4/23/26, 6:18 PM �OkEq eNews September 28th, 2016 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-28th--20.. paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I Hft: t·1l r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, I I 8 of 8 4/23/26, 6:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/43271c43878d1865e3af4982268b1cc1.pdf 90867ef11724f925bd256af43bf28b7e PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 5th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-5th--2016.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews July 5th, 2016 okl.ihom.ins for equality news In This Issue David Privett Sponsors the Day Volunteer of the Month Selisse Berry First Thursday Art Opening David Privett Sponsors the Day July 1, 2016 David Privett is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the day in honor of his husband's, Mark Owen, birthday . Ladies Social Club Noodles & Co. Fundraiser Brought to You Bi the Letter B Brunch EBA Mixer SAGE Summer Pool Parties Coming Out of the Shadows Happy Birthday Mark! Territory Days Pride Store Jolt Drag Queen Pancake Brunch Rainbow Library If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, coming out date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Volunteer of the Month July 2016 All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Shannon Fincher I started in October of 2015 (I think) seems like longer. I wanted to help make a difference, a positive change, and show my support. I love getting to meet so many people with different backgrounds with different stories. When not there, I am at work, studying, or hanging out with my kids. I like everything that I have participated in, this is the first time in my life I have found something I love doing! We thank you for your dedication Shannon! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library July 13, August 10, and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Level 3's LGBT ERG Presents: Keep Coming Back Meditation Group 4/23/26, 5:53 PM �OkEq eNews July 5th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-5th--2016.html... Selisse Berry and Workplace Inclusion Event Info Date: Time: Place: Speaker Info Friday, July 8 1O a.m. Central Time Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. OK 74120 Selisse Berry Out & Equal Workplace Advocates Founder and Chief Executive Officer Bridges: 800 763 6049 North America 08004960828 United Kingdom Outside of those areas (long distance): +1 6477229118 +44 2081962881 Out & Equal is the world 's largest non-profit organization specifically dedicated to creating safe and equitable workplaces for lesbian, gay, bisexu al and transgender (LGBT) people . This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Information Shane.Wil liams@level3.com 1-91 8-54 7-0654 _,.,_ Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Connechng and Protect.ng the Network d World Counseling Services First Thursday Art Opening - Philip Butler Thursday July 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Phillip Butler beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Phillip's education in photography began when he was 17, as a volunteer photographer for his high school newspaper. During those years, he learned the rudiments of composition, exposure control, darkroom processing, and printing. Photography has been a part of his sense of self since that time. Connecting with his passion for exploration and adventure, he was soon traveling for photography. This exhibit contains images from many sources but was inspired by a recent trip to Africa. The wildlife there typically receives center stage, and some is represented in this show; however, the vast Namibian desert (on the evening of, and the morning after a modest rain) provides the kind of light that transforms the landscape into something other worldly. In these images, transcendence is found. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, 4/23/26, 5:53 PM �OkEq eNews July 5th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-5th--2016.html... sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu Ladies Social Club Friday July 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 I'm not ENTIRELY certain what form this will take yet. It may be that we pin down a few different options for crafts that can been made in a few hours and require no previous skill, or we all work on one similar craft that requires no experience but will involve some instruction (like when we painted). We'll figure it out! You will want a little more information, we promise, so join our Group on Facebook: OkEq Ladies Social Club. Don't have Facebook? You can also email Kelley, the LSC Facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com and she will fill you in. Hope to see you there! It's going to be *somuchfun*! If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Ladies Social Club Special Events - YWCA Close the Gap 5K Fundraisers OkEq's Ladies Social Club is forming a team for the YWCA Close the Gap 5k, and while our team needs to raise money to help their cause, we really just wanted an excuse to do some fun stuff! So here are a few events happening in July to help us meet our fundraising goal! Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Sunday, July 24, at 2:00, we're hosting a paint n' sip event! This was wildly popular when we offered this as our LSC Friday night event in March. The lovely Monica Connors is creating a custom subject just for us! Our class size is limited to 30, so we must ask that you pay in advance to reserve your spot. This class filled up (and then some!) so I expect this to fill up - so don't wait to register! The cost is $30 , which includes all of your materials, and proceeds will go towards our team's fundraising efforts. Interested in the "sip" part of paint and sip? Feel free to BYOB to get those creative juices going! Please keep Kelley's rules in mind: nobody under 21 gets to drink alcohol, and any alcohol brought by anyone under 21 will be confiscated and considered a generous and delicious donation to Oklahomans for Equality. Also, please drink responsibly. Wednesday, July 28 , Tired of looking at the same clothes in your closet? Hate spending too much money to get new pieces for your wardrobe? Feeling frustrated about limited plus size friendly options? Join us for a clothing swap hosted at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center on July 28th from 4-9pm. To participate, all you need is $5 and at least 10 items of clothing, shoes or accessories that you are willing to trade or donate. Once inside, participants are free to trade, barter or give their articles with others. Though this event is open to everyone, we would like to highlight this as an option for curvy/plus size feminine presenting folks! At the end of the event, all left over clothing and accessories will be donated. The entrance fee will go towards the "Close the Gap 5K" team representing the Equality Center. Please contact Amanda Lowe @ nehiqueen@gmail.com for more info. If you're interested in actually joining our team for the 5k on August 6, please email team captain Kelley Parker at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Not a runner? Not even su re what a 5k is, but you want to get involved? That's okay! We'll slap some shoes on your feet and point you in the right direction. It'll be fine! Noodles & Co. Hosting Fundraiser for OkEq Friday July 15, 5:00 - 8:00 p.m. Noodles & Co. - New Cherry Street Location 1551 E. 15th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Noodles and Company is hosting a fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality on Friday July 15 OkEq BenefitNight $10 donation Entrée with your choice of protein and a drink You get a meal and OkEq gets the whole $10 To go orders are included SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, 4/23/26, 5:53 PM �OkEq eNews July 5th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-5th--2016.html... visit www.SOSTulsa.org Brunch with Brought to You Bi the Letter B Saturday July 16, 12:30 p.m. Dilly Diner 402 E. 2nd ST., Tulsa, OK, 74120 Please join us for the first social event hosted by Brought to You Bi the Letter B! We will be meeting at Dilly Diner on July 16th at 12:30PM. This brunch is for bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies, so all are welcome. Please RSVP via e-mail to biprogramsokeq@gmail.com . We look forward to see everyone and joining to build our community!" Brought to You Bi the Letter B, the bisexual programming group for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We are happy to be able to serve the bi/pan/queer/fluid+ community. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday July 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Angel's Pet Funeral Home and Crematory 6598 E BA Frontage Rd., Tulsa, OK 74145 No one wants to think about losing their beloved pet. At Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory, we are here to make a difference in a very difficult time of you life. Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory is the only pet funeral home in the state of Oklahoma that is dedicated solely to you and your four-legged family member. We are not affiliated with any human funeral home or crematory. • Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Keep up with this event on Facebook E ALITY The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Business Alliance SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesdays this Summer July 26, August 30, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan SAGE Tulsa will have their second pool party on Tuesday, July 26th at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Coming Out of the Shadows - LGBT History of Tulsa Tuesday July 26, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free and open to the public Join us for a lecture by Dr. Brenton R. Wimmer who recently completed his PhD dissertation entitled "Coming Out of the Shadows: A social and educative history of male same-sex sexualities in Tulsa Oklahoma, 1836-2006" Published by the University of Oklahoma. Pictured with Geoffrey Brewster Vice President of the OkEq board of Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:53 PM �OkEq eNews July 5th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-5th--2016.html... directors. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will house this definitive study on LGBTQ life and history in Tulsa. Toby Jenkins executive director calls it "Ground breaking, inspiring, scandalous, and the first time we have had the centuries long view of our oppression and the unsealing of our ability to create community against all odds." Yoga by Zach Territory Days: An Okla-Hoe-Down EVERY SUNDAY Saturday July 30, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 @4:30 pm We need to add on to the school house! Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting a barbecue dinner and barn dance to raise the funds. The territory folks need to get together and raise the roof. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. The garage, kenosha suite and special events room on the eastside of the center are slated for remodel and renovations. In 2015 over 50,000 individuals participated in programs and utilized our services creating an urgency for Oklahomans for Equality to: $5.00 per Session • expand medical services addressing LGBT health disparities • convert food service areas into commercial grade kitchen space • develop nutrition and wellness programs for LGBT older adults • broaden substance abuse counseling and support services • serve the growing numbers of LGBTQ youth in foster care • widen our programs for unemployed young adults and those homeless • increase services and programming for LGBTQ families with children • create more social programming space for fine arts and education events Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. $500-Table for 8 with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance $75-Individual seat with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance. $50-Individual seat with cash bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance SATURDAY JULY 30, 6:30 PM $30-Barn dance admission with open bar DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 621 E. 4TH ST., TULSA, OK 74120 TICKETS AVAIL.AILE ONU $20-Barn dance admission and 1 drink ticket AT Q«EQ.OIIG 0RIYPHONE Al(911)70-4297 A Fllf,IORAISEI FOR EQUALITY CENTER IIENOVATIONS Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Tickets are available now. To purchase, click on the corresponding link above. Equality Center Pride Store Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $15.00. Tie-dye is also available for $20.00 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Jolt Drag Queen Pancake Brunch Sunday July 17, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Game Night $8.00 pre-sale, $10.00 at the door Pancake brunch with live entertainment. Mimosa's available for purchase. Funds help the Jolt Bowling Tournament Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Apples & Oranges" Clausen By Jan 4/23/26, 5:53 PM �OkEq eNews July 5th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-5th--2016.html... After more than a decade of "marriage" to a woman with whom she was raising a daughter, Jan Clausen fell in love with a man, stunning herself and the lesbian community to which she had been intimately connected. The experience was, she writes, "like deliberately embarking on a sea cruise off the edge of a flat Earth." In her luminous and affecting memoir, Clausen charts the trajectory of her sexual life -- from her first kiss to her later loves -- and offers a stunning critique of society's insistence on yoking identity to desire. In the 1950s Pacific Northwest, Clausen grew up in a family in which extramarital sex, swearing, and spicy foods were verboten. In the sixties, she embraced the (hetero)sexual revolution, consorting with various adolescent Lotharios and failing miserably in her effort to become a topless dancer during her summer break from Reed College. After leaving school, she joined an experimental community, where she met her first woman lover. But it was amid New York's dynamic feminist milieu in the 1970s that she "crossed the pass of love" and fell for Leslie Kaplow, also a writer and activist. As a couple, they immersed themselves in the city's vibrant literary sisterhood and eventually launched their own literary magazine. In time, however, Clausen grew restless in her personal relationship and uneasy with what she calls People in Groups, those enforcers of ideological purity. Through her travels, she discovered sweet escape from her familiar world, especially through her activism in Nicaragua, whose war-ravaged streets would provide the backdrop for her unpardonable act: falling in love with a West Indian male lawyer. Deeply felt, gorgeously written, Apples and Oranges is a testament to the powers and perils of desire. It is also the story of one woman's mourning for the community that cast her out and a dazzling examination of the ways in which we all search for identity. Rejecting all efforts at sexual sorting, including the label "bisexual," for her own journey, Clausen arrives at an understanding of sexual attraction in which both likeness and difference emerge as deeply erotic. Whatever our passions, this groundbreaking work will never again let us consider the received categories of sexuality in the same light. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Calling all rural transgender and gender nonconforming individuals to participate in a research study You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm 4/23/26, 5:53 PM �OkEq eNews July 5th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-5th--2016.html... Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group 7204 . Pine Tulsa, OK 918-836-8700 21 and Above bar and lounge Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. 4/23/26, 5:53 PM �OkEq eNews July 5th, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-5th--2016.html... MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 5:53 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/53d77949226dbe0457613af09d8bdcf5.pdf 4a03e34ec9a1082736eb84e8ee8a56c1 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 13th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-13th--2016... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news oklahomans for equality Rooftop Rally Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. This event is is free to attend. For more information or to RSVP email Jose.vega@okeq.org October 13th, 2016 In This Issue Rooftop Rally Pryor Rendering Equality Business Alliance Mixer Article Headline 1980: The Year It All Began Center Awareness Day Pop-up Shop Fundraiser Zombie House Stonewall National Education Project Display October Volunteer of the Month Call for Exhibition Proposals First Thursday Art Opening Thanksgiving Dinner Pride Store Rainbow Library After the rally there will be a screening of the movie Julio of Jackson Heights. The movie will be projected on the side of the building with seating in the parking lot, just like a drive-in movie. There will be a concession stand and free popcorn. Click here to watch the trailer " Julio of Jackson Heights" is the story of how all this changed. It is the story of how a handful of people - Julio's friends and family - decided that they would not accept the official police report, and learned how to organize, ultimately bringing their case to the attention of then Mayor Dinkins. And it is the story of how their actions sparked a movement that founded the Queens Pride Parade, supported the creation of over a dozen LGBT organizations and ultimately served as the platform that elected two openly gay candidates to the New York City Council. Twenty years later, the Rivera family, Julio's friends, community leaders and the police speak of the decisions they made and reflect upon the changes they set in motion. Pryor Rendering October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. The LGBT $10 youth/student tickets (live theatre at movie prices) are now available. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, October 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas. It is entitled "Naturally Speaking" Family Ties Equality Business Alliance Mixer October 19, 6:00 p.m. Look Eyecare & Eyewear 3746 S Peoria Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 Not only is LOOK Eyecare & Eyewear your onestop shop for eye care and trendy eyewear in Tulsa, but it also offers a level of service that you would expect from a family-run business.... because it is! Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org If you have any questions about insurance benefits or eyewear, Jennifer is here to help you! Call 918-992-5337 to schedule your visit today! The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. 4/23/26, 6:20 PM �OkEq eNews October 13th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-13th--2016... Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. E UALITY Business Alliance Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 October Video eNews 1980: The Year It All Began Saturday October 22, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In 1980, Jimmy Carter was still in the White House and everybody wanted to know who shot JR on the #1 TV show Dallas. The Empire Strikes Back, The Blue Lagoon and Private Benjamin were the top movies. "Another One Bites The Dust" by Queen was the #1 Song. And a group of Gay men and Lesbians and straight allies came together to found Oklahomans for Human Rights which we know today as Oklahomans for Equality today. Committed to advocating for the rights of LGBTQ Oklahomans for 37 years we enter a new phase of expanded outreach. Get your 70s and 80s vintage clothing and join us for a trip back in time as we raise money for our Equality Center renovations project. DJ Crystal will be spinning your favorite hits from the 70s and 80s. Disco Drag Queen Nicole Carrington aka Dale Hogan will be in the house. We have prizes for the best 1980s costumes. Enter the lip syncing 80's contest and walk away with some big cash. $300 for a table for 8 with an open bar. Or $5.00 for a single admission with a cash bar. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $5.00 Individual seat with cash bar. Tickets are available now by clicking on the ticket link or purchase tickets by contacting Olivia Cotter at 918-743-4297 or email olivia.cotter@okeq.org This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Center Awareness Day Saturday October 22, 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Have you ever wanted to know what your LGBT center had to offer? Now is your chance, Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an open house and a program expo event on October 22nd, 2016 from Noon to 4pm! This is your chance to learn more about what Oklahomans for Equality at the Dennis R. Neill Equality center offers and what programs are available. A chance to meet and greet the facilitators of the programs you may be interested and answer any question you may have. For more information please contact Jose.vega@okeq.org Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 4/23/26, 6:20 PM �OkEq eNews October 13th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-13th--2016... DrKurt@OkEq.org Pop-up Shop Fundraiser Sunday October 23, 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and SHOP some some AMAZING items and SUPPORT the EXPANSION of the OkEq EQUALITY CENTER at the same time! All vendors have generously agreed to donate a portion of their sales to this cause! Also, have your photo taken for the 918 Project while you're there (details below)! There's something for everyone! Pop-up shop benefiting Oklahomans for Equality! Featuring LulaRoe, Stitchwitch OK, Steve Cluck, and more! oklahomans fot equality POP UP SHOP VENDORS: LULAROE AMBER LITWACK is a mobile Pop Up Fashion Boutique specializing in comfortable, adorable and affordable clothing of all ages and sizes! (XXS-3XL). [i]j ~~I~@@ CL«.fc.t<; STEVE CLUCK is a Tulsa-based pop artist, designer, and photographer. In 2005, he created the "I Heart Tulsa" and "Don't Hate the 918" campaigns, which have become unofficial slogans and a locally popular product line. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 918 PROJECT Steve Cluck is photographing nine-hundred and eighteen awesome people who live, work, and play in the 918 area code. STITCHWITCH OK is a small hand embroidery business by Amanda Lowe. She focuses her material around progressive, political and other culturally relevant subjects DARCI MCFARLAND is currently working on a book that she is editing and fundraising for entitled Post-Traumatically Stressed Feminist that features the work of over 40 feminist artists with PTSD about their lives and the daily realities of being a trauma survivor. Zombie House October 28 - 31, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. nightly Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 28th, 29th 30th and 31st, 2016. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org or on Facebook. Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Tickets are now available online! {•70MBIE} APOCAl~YPSE ' I \VILL SURVIVE THE ZOMBIE APOCALYPSE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Remembering Seneca Falls, Selma And Stonewall Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 914-9746 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (832)-405-2534 . In his second inaugural address in January, 2013, President Obama surprised many listeners by mentioning Stonewall in the same breath as Seneca Falls and Selma - giving the struggle for gay rights the historical weight of the fights for gender and racial equality. "We, the people, declare today that the most evident of truths - that all of us are created equal - is the star that guides us still; just as it guided our forebears through Seneca Falls, and Selma, and Stonewall; just as it guided all those men and women, sung and unsung, who left footprints along this great Mall, to hear a preacher say that we cannot walk alone; to hear a King proclaim that our individual freedom is inextricably bound to the freedom of every soul on Earth." In honor of LGBTQ history month Stonewall Museum has created a 4 -panel Diversity Exhibition that contextualizes the LGBT civil rights movement within the larger historical context of civil rights struggles throughout United States history. We have the Obama Remembers Seneca Falls, Selma, Stonewall exhibit on display at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including 4/23/26, 6:20 PM �OkEq eNews October 13th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-13th--2016... The celebration of diversity is part of the American Promise and dream. It is a reason for our much-admired position in the world. In fact, the United States is one of the few peaceful, multi-ethnic and multi-racial societies in the world today. Individuals who have been members of the groups featured in the Stonewall National Museum and Archives Diversity Panels -- Women, African-Americans and Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender (LGBT) individuals -- were largely silent and invisible in public life. It took almost a hundred years after the founding of America for the voices of these marginalized and discriminated groups to begin to be heard in public forums and in the courts. Public attitudes and laws conspired to keep these groups "in their place". Their struggles to achieve genuine equality are central to the on-going efforts to make the American dream into the American reality for all. sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Stonewall National Education Project is uniquely poised through its vast national network of professionals, to help eliminate barriers, stand up for and empower our young people in a time when it has never been more vital. Stonewall National Education Project is an advocate for the safety, inclusion, and value of LGBTQ students, with a focus on improvising student achievement, attendance and graduation rates. Now in its fifth year, the Stonewall National Education Project positively impacts the lives of countless LGBT youth, and their classmates, from a spectrum of major cities and small towns across the nation. At its annual national symposium, district administrators and educators, federal and state policy makers, funders, advocacy organizations and thought leaders gather to increase their knowledge of strategies for successfully supporting LGBTQ youth and increase awareness of federal and state laws supporting and protecting LGBTQ youth through what federal programs and federal funds are currently available. Volunteer of the Month October 2016 Sara-Jane Gray Sara-Jane has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since May 5. 2016. "I became a volunteer to help with my Tulsa Community College Tulsa Achieves hours and to support my newly discovered LGBT family. I love all of the people who we meet working here. They come in all shapes sizes and orientations and I love meeting everyone!" When Sara-Jane is not working the front desk she is a student at Tulsa Community College and enjoys video games. Sara-Jane includes "The program I like the most is most definitely the transgender support program, it is the one I am most involved in and love all the people involved. I do recommend volunteering here, it is just such an open and caring place that is just a wonderful place to be." Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu We thank you for your devotion Sara-Jane! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Non-Binary Support Group 2017 Call for Exhibition Proposals Entry Deadline October 15, 2016 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2017 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is hung on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artist will also provide "museum cards" for each piece, stating the title, and price, with other information being optional. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Deadline for submissions is October 15, 2016. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2016. Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" First Thursday Art Opening Thursday November 3, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The November showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Oklahoma Youth who are active in local Gay Straight Alliances, Diversity Clubs, and Social Justice Clubs and the Youth/Elder Storytelling Group beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 3rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Oklahoma has a myriad of LGBTQ Youth Support Groups ranging from centers, safe houses, projects and school centered organizations. This show will feature art created by those youth who are active in the groups. They were given a broad prompt of "Liberation" to inspire their art, and asked to interpret it in any way that made sense to them; the exciting works are palpable. The art will be a variety of photography, painting, drawing, and other visual arts. For an added perk to draw you to the opening night reception, there will be a performance of The Youth/Elder Storytelling Group. This performanceart and dialogue will combine youth and elders telling their stories of life, coming out, and growing up LGBTQ. This hour long piece will take you on a journey from 1945 to the future, with autobiographical tales of joy, fear, denial, and self-acceptance. Come prepared to be inspired and touched. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 3rd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 4/23/26, 6:20 PM �OkEq eNews October 13th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-13th--2016... of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 7:00 p.m. Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner Thursday November 24, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Equality Center Pride Store New love tote bags in the Pride Shop $22 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan II VE Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 "Pryor Rendering" By: Gary Reed Based on the acclaimed novel by Gary Reed, Pryor Rendering is the coming of age story of Charlie Hope, born on a pool table in Pryor, Oklahoma, in the 1960s. We meet Charlie at age 12, as he's trying to connect with Chick, his alcoholic grandfather and sole adult father figure. He also longs for a relationship with his mother Ida, who inexplicably nurtures an ardent devotion to Jesus, which isolates and excludes her only child. By the age of 17, Charlie is resigned to his alienation when he begins a complex relationship with Dewar, a tough kid who lives in the local home for orphaned boys. Charlie must learn to free himself from the demons of his Pryor past, take off for a better life, and find his emotional and spiritual home in the most unlikely and ironic of places. Yoga by Zach Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 6:20 PM �OkEq eNews October 13th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-13th--2016... Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax 4/23/26, 6:20 PM �OkEq eNews October 13th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-13th--2016... machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All 4/23/26, 6:20 PM �OkEq eNews October 13th, 2016 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-13th--2016.. services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I •~fi:t·1l , . .. . . . . • r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, 8 of 8 4/23/26, 6:20 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d9bca25878bf1e72071241b872a0d8e3.pdf 6f5a61de9836c3f5efc708951d209e3f PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 19th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-19th--2016... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news oklahomans for equality Equality Business Alliance Mixer October 19th, 2016 In This Issue Equality Business Alliance Mixer 1980: The Year It All Began Center Awareness Day Pop-up Shop Fundraiser Zombie Call Zombie House October 19, 6:00 p.m. Look Eyecare & Eyewear 3746 S Peoria Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 Family Ties Trick-or-Treat Stonewall National Education Project Display Not only is LOOK Eyecare & Eyewear your onestop shop for eye care and trendy eyewear in Tulsa, but it also offers a level of service that you would expect from a family-run business.... because it is! Free Flu Shots Ladies Social Club Gay Men's Dinner Group First Thursday Art Opening Transgender Day of Remebrance Two-Spirit Documentary Thanksgiving Dinner Compassionate Tulsa October Volunteer of the Month Article Headline Pride Store Rainbow Library If you have any questions about insurance benefits or eyewear, Jennifer is here to help you! Call 918-992-5337 to schedule your visit today! The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. E UALITY Business Alliance OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, October 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas. It is entitled "Naturally Speaking" 1980: The Year It All Began Saturday October 22, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In 1980, Jimmy Carter was still in the White House and everybody wanted to know who shot JR on the #1 TV show Dallas. The Empire Strikes Back, The Blue Lagoon and Private Benjamin were the top movies. "Another One Bites The Dust" by Queen was the #1 Song. And a group of Gay men and Lesbians and straight allies came together to found Oklahomans for Human Rights which we know today as Oklahomans for Equality today. Committed to advocating for the rights of LGBTQ Oklahomans for 37 years we enter a new phase of expanded outreach. Get your 70s and 80s vintage clothing and join us for a trip back in time as we raise money for our Equality Center renovations project. DJ Crystal will be spinning your favorite hits from the 70s and 80s. Disco Drag Queen Nicole Carrington aka Dale Hogan will be in the house. We have prizes for the best 1980s costumes. Enter the lip syncing 80's contest and walk away with some big cash. $300 for a table for 8 with an open bar. Or $5.00 for a single admission with a cash bar. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $5.00 Individual seat with cash bar. Tickets are available now by clicking on the ticket link or purchase tickets by contacting Olivia Cotter Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 4/23/26, 6:21 PM �OkEq eNews October 19th, 2016 2 of 8 at ,......- - https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-19th--2016... . -- . 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. 918-743-4297 or email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Center Awareness Day Saturday October 22, 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Have you ever wanted to know what your LGBT center had to offer? Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Now is your chance, Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an open house and a program expo event on October 22nd, 2016 from Noon to 4pm! Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This is your chance to learn more about what Oklahomans for Equality at the Dennis R. Neill Equality center offers and what programs are available. A chance to meet and greet the facilitators of the programs you may be interested and answer any question you may have. For more information please contact Jose.vega@okeq.org Pop-up Shop Fundraiser Sunday October 23, 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and SHOP some some AMAZING items and SUPPORT the EXPANSION of the OkEq EQUALITY CENTER at the same time! All vendors have generously agreed to donate a portion of their sales to this cause! Also, have your photo taken for the 918 Project while you're there (details below)! There's something for everyone! Pop-up shop benefiting Oklahomans for Equality! Featuring LulaRoe, Stitchwitch OK, Steve Cluck, and more! Oklahomans for equality POP UP SHOP VENDORS: LULAROE AMBER LITWACK is a mobile Pop Up Fashion Boutique specializing in comfortable, adorable and affordable clothing of all ages and sizes! (XXS-3XL). Ill]] ~~I~ @@ CL'fC::~ STEVE CLUCK is a Tulsa-based pop artist, designer, and photographer. In 2005, he created the "I Heart Tulsa" and "Don't Hate the 918" campaigns, which have become unofficial slogans and a locally popular product line. 918 PROJECT Steve Cluck is photographing nine-hundred and eighteen awesome people who live, work, and play in the 918 area code. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com STITCHWITCH OK is a small hand embroidery business by Amanda Lowe. She focuses her material around progressive, political and other culturally relevant subjects DARCI MCFARLAND is currently working on a book that she is editing and fundraising for entitled Post-Traumatically Stressed Feminist that features the work of over 40 feminist artists with PTSD about their lives and the daily realities of being a trauma survivor. Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Zombie Call Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - - -- - - - - Oct 28-31, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you want to be part of the best Zombie House in Tulsa? OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! OKEQ needs Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. volunteers who like to scare, chase, and eat rainbow brains. If you want to volunteer and be part of this scary fun please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. "There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 28th, 29th 30th and 31st, 2016. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse." If you want to volunteer and be part of this scary fun please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Zombie House October 28 - 31, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. nightly Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 28th, 29th 30th and 31st, 2016. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org or on Facebook. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:21 PM �OkEq eNews October 19th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-19th--2016... Tickets are now available online! Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Family Ties Trick-or-Treat Monday October 31, 4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 The Bring your trick-or-treaters in to the Equality Center on Halloween for a family photo. Each child will receive a plush rainbow bear and a bag of treats . Family Ties is a group of, and for, gay families in the Tulsa area, and those who support them. Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 914-9746 Remembering Seneca Falls, Selma And Stonewall Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In his second inaugural address in January, 2013, President Obama surprised many listeners by mentioning Stonewall in the same breath as Seneca Falls and Selma - giving the struggle for gay rights the historical weight of the fights for gender and racial equality. "We, the people, declare today that the most evident of truths - that all of us are created equal - is the star that guides us still; just as it guided our forebears through Seneca Falls, and Selma, and Stonewall; just as it guided all those men and women, sung and unsung, who left footprints along this great Mall, to hear a preacher say that we cannot walk alone; to hear a King proclaim that our individual freedom is inextricably bound to the freedom of every soul on Earth." In honor of LGBTQ history month Stonewall Museum has created a 4 -panel Diversity Exhibition that contextualizes the LGBT civil rights movement within the larger historical context of civil rights struggles throughout United States history. We have the Obama Remembers Seneca Falls, Selma, Stonewall exhibit on display at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (832)-405-2534 . The celebration of diversity is part of the American Promise and dream. It is a reason for our much-admired position in the world. In fact, the United States is one of the few peaceful, multi-ethnic and multi-racial societies in the world today. Individuals who have been members of the groups featured in the Stonewall National Museum and Archives Diversity Panels -- Women, African-Americans and Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender (LGBT) individuals -- were largely silent and invisible in public life. It took almost a hundred years after the founding of America for the voices of these marginalized and discriminated groups to begin to be heard in public forums and in the courts. Public attitudes and laws conspired to keep these groups "in their place". Their struggles to achieve genuine equality are central to the on-going efforts to make the American dream into the American reality for all. Stonewall National Education Project is uniquely poised through its vast national network of professionals, to help eliminate barriers, stand up for and empower our young people in a time when it has never been more vital. Stonewall National Education Project is an advocate for the safety, inclusion, and value of LGBTQ students, with a focus on improvising student achievement, attendance and graduation rates. Now in its fifth year, the Stonewall National Education Project positively impacts the lives of countless LGBT youth, and their classmates, from a spectrum of major cities and small towns across the nation. At its annual national symposium, district administrators and educators, federal and state policy makers, funders, advocacy Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma 4/23/26, 6:21 PM �OkEq eNews October 19th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-19th--2016... organizations and thought leaders gather to increase their knowledge of strategies for successfully supporting LGBTQ youth and increase awareness of federal and state laws supporting and protecting LGBTQ youth through what federal programs and federal funds are currently available. Free Flu Shots Provided by Walgreens Tuesday November 1, 11:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 No appointment necessary FIGHT -GETTHE FLU Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu Ladies Social Club - Road Trip Saturday October 22 Talimena Scenic Byway Ladies Social Club is a group for women. Monthly events take place the second Friday of each month and for other special events. Let's caravan and look at fall foliage! This will be a day trip. We'll figure out the details as a group. Who's in? This is during the peak window for fall colors. For more information check out the Facebook event Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday November 1, 6:30 p.m. Bangkok Thai Buffet 3313 E. 32nd Pl., Tulsa, OK 74135 Gay Men's Dinner Group is a social support group of gay and bisexual men who meet monthly for dinner and for other special occasions. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com SOS Group First Thursday Art Opening Thursday November 3, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The November showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Oklahoma Youth who are active in local Gay Straight Alliances, Diversity Clubs, and Social Justice Clubs and the Youth/Elder Storytelling Group beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 3rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Oklahoma has a myriad of LGBTQ Youth Support Groups ranging from centers, safe houses, projects and school centered organizations. This show will feature art created by those youth who are active in the groups. They were given a broad prompt of "Liberation" to inspire their art, and asked to interpret it in any way that made sense to them; the exciting works are palpable. The art will be a variety of photography, painting, drawing, and other visual arts. For an added perk to draw you to the opening night reception, there will be a performance of The Youth/Elder Storytelling Group. This performanceart and dialogue will combine youth and elders telling their stories of life, coming out, and growing up LGBTQ. This hour long piece will take you on a journey from 1945 to the future, with autobiographical tales of joy, fear, denial, and self-acceptance. Come prepared to be inspired and touched. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 3rd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Transgender Awareness Week November 15-20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance is when we remember our Transgender brothers and sisters who have lost their lives due to hate, discrimination, and violence. We also remember those who were compelled to complete suicide, succumbing to hate, bullying and discrimination. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Please join the Gender Support Program throughout the week of Nov14 - Nov20 as we honor 4/23/26, 6:21 PM �OkEq eNews October 19th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-19th--2016... Transgender Awareness Week. Nov 15th - Transgender Awareness Week Movie night Nov 16th - Gender Support Program talent night Nov 20th - Transgender Day of Remembrance Memorial Service All events start at 7:00pm and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Additional information can be found on our website www.okeq.org, or by contacting Sharon Queen at 918-743-4297 G William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Thursday November 17, 6:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 As a part of the G. William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion, NALSA and OutLaws are co-hosting a special screening of "Two Spirits" on November 17 at 6:00pm at the historic Circle Cinema. Afterward, there will be a Q&A panel discussion about Two Spirit culture, civil rights issues facing LGBT and Native American groups, and unique jurisdictional problems facing justice in Indian Country. The Native American Law Student Association and Outlaws proodly present Two Spirits: Sexuality, Gender, and the Murder of Fred Martinez A FILM SCREENING Wmt A PANEL. DISCUSStON, AND RECEPTION TO FOUOW Light refreshments provided. The event is free to the public. However, there is limited space available, so please follow this link "Tickets Available" to reserve your space on Google Form. Speakers include: *John Hawk Co-Cke', leader of the Tulsa Two- Spirit Society * Sharon Queen, facilitator for the Gender Support Program at Equality * Geri Wisner, attorney specializing in Indian Law SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Oklahomans for "Two Spirits, a 2009 documentary, interweaves the tragic story of a mother's loss of her son with a revealing look at a time when the world wasn't simply divided into male and female, and many Native American cultures held places of honor for people of integrated genders." Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan II Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner Thursday November 24, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 . OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Lunch will be provided by: 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Yoga by Zach MAKE u&i Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org Volunteer of the Month October 2016 • GOLDEN EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session Sara-Jane Gray Sara-Jane has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since May 5. 2016. "I became a volunteer to help with my Tulsa Community College Tulsa Achieves hours and to support my newly discovered LGBT family. I love all of the people who we meet working here. They come in all shapes sizes and orientations and I love meeting everyone!" When Sara-Jane is not working the front desk she is a student at Tulsa Community College and enjoys video games. Sara-Jane includes "The program I like the most is most definitely the transgender support program, it is the one I am most involved in and love all the people involved. I do recommend volunteering here, it is just such an open and caring place that is just a wonderful place to be." We thank you for your devotion Sara-Jane! v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org 4/23/26, 6:21 PM �OkEq eNews October 19th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-19th--2016... October Video eNews Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Equality Center Pride Store New love tote bags in the Pride Shop $22 SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Martian Child: A Novel About a Single Father Adopting a Son " By: David Gerrold When David Gerrold decided he wanted to adopt a son, he thought he had prepared himself for fatherhood. But eight-year-old Dennis turned out to be more than he expected-a lot more. Dennis suffered from fetal alcohol syndrome, the son of a substance abuser and alcoholic who abandoned him in a seedy motel at the age of one-and-a-half. His father died of an overdose. Seized by the state, Dennis was shuffled between eight different foster homes in less than eight years. He was abused and beaten severely in at least two of his placements. Dennis was diagnosed with attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder, and put on Ritalin and then Disipramine. He was prone to violent emotional outbursts. His case history identified him as "hard to place" -a euphemism for "unadoptable." But for David Gerrold it was love at first sight... Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with 4/23/26, 6:21 PM �OkEq eNews October 19th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-19th--2016... OU-TULSA DIVERSITY COALITION PRESENTS: Discussions on Diversity: Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Homonegativity &Transnegativity in the Current Cultural & Political Climate Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Featuring a five -person panel representing multiple LGBTQ perspectives. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Tuesday, October 25 I 11:4Sam - 1:00pm Leaming Center. Room 231 Lunch provided. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. RSVP to tulsasa@ou.edu % 0ffiUl Uf ''IVE.RSnY O)IM ' nv U 'l, D [N"t AffAl &:S .,. L-Xrn:urn•t( OU..UIO.\lA Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is 4/23/26, 6:21 PM �OkEq eNews October 19th, 2016 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-19th--2016.. paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I Hft: t·1l r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, I I 8 of 8 4/23/26, 6:21 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/21868297aa594e330ce950a107aa9434.pdf 9e22bea6417a1c7f215cb8c8b99fedef PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 26th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-26th--2016... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news okl.ihom.ins for equality Zombie Call October 26th, 2016 In This Issue Zombie Call Zombie House Family Ties Trick-or-Treat Stonewall National Education Project Display Free Flu Shots Gay Men's Dinner Group Oct 28-31, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Ladies Social Club First Thursday Art Opening Transgender Day of Remebrance Two-Spirit Documentary Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thanksgiving Dinner Compassionate Tulsa October Volunteer of the Month Article Headline Pride Store Rainbow Library Do you want to be part of the best Zombie House in Tulsa? OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! OKEQ needs volunteers who like to scare, chase, and eat rainbow brains. If you want to volunteer and be part of this scary fun please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. "There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 28th, 29th 30th and 31st, 2016. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse." If you want to volunteer and be part of this scary fun please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Zombie House October 28 - 31, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. nightly Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Art Exhibition The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas. It is entitled "Naturally Speaking" OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 28th, 29th 30th and 31st, 2016. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org or on Facebook. Tickets are now available online! . t 70MBIE}. Family Ties j\pQCAl~YPSE I \YILL SURVIVE THE ZOMBIE ,~\POCALYPSE Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. 4/23/26, 6:23 PM �OkEq eNews October 26th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-26th--2016... Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Family Ties Trick-or-Treat Monday October 31, 4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Bring your trick-or-treaters into the Equality Center on Halloween for a family photo. Each child will receive a plush rainbow bear and a bag of treats . Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Family Ties is a network and support system for LGBTQ families in the Tulsa area, and those who support them. Join Family Ties on Facebook Remembering Seneca Falls, Selma And Stonewall Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In his second inaugural address in January, 2013, President Obama surprised many listeners by mentioning Stonewall in the same breath as Seneca Falls and Selma - giving the struggle for gay rights the historical weight of the fights for gender and racial equality. "We, the people, declare today that the most evident of truths - that all of us are created equal is the star that guides us still; just as it guided our forebears through Seneca Falls, and Selma, and Stonewall; just as it guided all those men and women, sung and unsung, who left footprints along this great Mall, to hear a preacher say that we cannot walk alone; to hear a King proclaim that our individual freedom is inextricably bound to the freedom of every soul on Earth." This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com In honor of LGBTQ history month Stonewall Museum has created a 4 -panel Diversity Exhibition that contextualizes the LGBT civil rights movement within the larger historical context of civil rights struggles throughout United States history. We have the Obama Remembers Seneca Falls, Selma, Stonewall exhibit on display at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning The celebration of diversity is part of the American Promise and dream. It is a reason for our much-admired position in the world. In fact, the United States is one of the few peaceful, multi-ethnic and multi-racial societies in the world today. Individuals who have been members of the groups featured in the Stonewall National Museum and Archives Diversity Panels -- Women, AfricanAmericans and Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender (LGBT) individuals -- were largely silent and invisible in public life. It took almost a hundred years after the founding of America for the voices of these marginalized and discriminated groups to begin to be heard in public forums and in the courts. Public attitudes and laws conspired to keep these groups "in their place". Their struggles to achieve genuine equality are central to the on-going efforts to make the American dream into the American reality for all. Stonewall National Education Project is uniquely poised through its vast national network of professionals, to help eliminate barriers, stand up for and empower our young people in a time when it has never been more vital. Stonewall National Education Project is an advocate for the safety, inclusion, and value of LGBTQ students, with a focus on improvising student achievement, attendance and graduation rates. Now in its fifth year, the Stonewall National Education Project positively impacts the lives of countless LGBT youth, and their classmates, from a spectrum of major cities and small towns across the nation. At its annual national symposium, district administrators and educators, federal and state policy makers, funders, advocacy organizations and thought leaders gather to increase their knowledge of strategies for successfully supporting LGBTQ youth and increase awareness of federal and state laws supporting and protecting LGBTQ youth through what federal programs and federal funds are currently available. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - -- - - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Free Flu Shots Provided by Walgreens Tuesday November 1, 11:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 No appointment necessary Dr. Kurt Choate FIGHT Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org .... GET THE 4/23/26, 6:23 PM �OkEq eNews October 26th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-26th--2016... FLU Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday November 1, 6:30 p.m. Bangkok Thai Buffet 3313 E. 32nd Pl., Tulsa, OK 74135 Gay Men's Dinner Group is a social support group of gay and bisexual men who meet monthly for dinner and for other special occasions. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com r , ! _: '. \,,_ 4 - - ,_ :>-- :: ,fl :: Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu -----(918) 594-8568 ~ Ladies Social Club: Game Night Friday November 11, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Potluck snacks, soda/coffee/water provided. You've got to be a woman to join us, but you certainly don't have to be a lady! Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at Oklahomans for Equality! LSC provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! Each month features different activities, like game night, craft night, and movie night, and we usually do potluck snacks. Our calendar of events is largely driven by your own input, ladies! You're also welcome to just come and hang out with the other women if that's more your style. LSC meets on the second Friday of each month from 6-9 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. 4th St. Our Friday night events are designed to be low-cost so more folks can join us on a regular basis. We may plan events out & about in the city, so keep an eye on our calendar! Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Single, married, LGBT, ally, young in body, young at heart -- all women are welcome! More information available on Facebook First Thursday Art Opening Thursday November 3, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The November showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Oklahoma Youth who are active in local Gay Straight Alliances, Diversity Clubs, and Social Justice Clubs and the Youth/Elder Storytelling Group beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 3rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Oklahoma has a myriad of LGBTQ Youth Support Groups ranging from centers, safe houses, projects and school centered organizations. This show will feature art created by those youth who are active in the groups. They were given a broad prompt of "Liberation" to inspire their art, and asked to interpret it in any way that made sense to them; the exciting works are palpable. The art will be a variety of photography, painting, drawing, and other visual arts. For an added perk to draw you to the opening night reception, there will be a performance of The Youth/Elder Storytelling Group. This performance-art and dialogue will combine youth and elders telling their stories of life, coming out, and growing up LGBTQ. This hour long piece will take you on a journey from 1945 to the future, with autobiographical tales of joy, fear, denial, and self-acceptance. Come prepared to be inspired and touched. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 3rd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Transgender Awareness Week November 15-20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance is when we remember our Transgender brothers and sisters who have lost their lives due to hate, discrimination, and violence. We also remember those who were compelled to complete suicide, succumbing to hate, bullying and discrimination. Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ------(918) 914-9746 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (832)-405-2534 . Please join the Gender Support Program throughout the week of Nov14 - Nov20 as we honor Transgender Awareness Week. Nov 15th - Transgender Awareness Week Movie night Nov 16th - Gender Support Program talent night Nov 20th - Transgender Day of Remembrance Memorial Service All events start at 7:00pm and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Additional information can be found on our website www.okeq.org, or by contacting Sharon Queen at 918-743-4297 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on 4/23/26, 6:23 PM �OkEq eNews October 26th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-26th--2016... G William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion Thursday November 17, 6:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 As a part of the G. William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion, NALSA and OutLaws are co-hosting a special screening of "Two Spirits" on November 17 at 6:00pm at the historic Circle Cinema. Afterward, there will be a Q&A panel discussion about Two Spirit culture, civil rights issues facing LGBT and Native American groups, and unique jurisdictional problems facing justice in Indian Country. The Native American Law Student Association and Outlaws proudly present Two Spirits: Sexuality, Gender, and the Murder of Fred Martinez A FILM SCREENING WITH A PANEL, DISCUSSK>N, AND RECEPTION TO FOLLOW Light refreshments provided. The event is free to the public. However, there is limited space available, so please follow this link "Tickets Available" to reserve your space on Google Form. Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Speakers include: *John Hawk Co-Cke', leader of the Tulsa Two- Spirit Society * Sharon Queen, facilitator for the Gender Support Program at Oklahomans for Equality * Geri Wisner, attorney specializing in Indian Law "Two Spirits, a 2009 documentary, interweaves the tragic story of a mother's loss of her son with a revealing look at a time when the world wasn't simply divided into male and female, and many Native American cultures held places of honor for people of integrated genders." Equality Business Alliance Mixer Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu Wednesday November 16, 6:00 p.m. Decopolis 502 S Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 Non-Binary Support Group DECOPOLIS bringing back the fun, romance, and magic to shopping in beautiful downtown Tulsa! DECOPOLIS has several distinct areas to explore. Find a good book in our "DECOPOLIS Books" section. Have fun rediscovering vintage games and toys in the DISCOVITORIUM". Tiki's, Aliens, Volcanoes and Coconut Monkeys overlook a room filled with quirky retro gifts and toys in the Atomic Tiki Room. Upstairs is our "Stag Shop" men's department and "Gazelle's Ladies Accouterments". Decopolis Online - www.decopolis.net - Facebook Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. SOS Group E ALITY usiness Alliance Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner 4/23/26, 6:23 PM �OkEq eNews October 26th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-26th--2016... Thursday November 24, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. MAKE~ Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. --- OLDEN For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org Volunteer of the Month October 2016 Sara-Jane Gray Sara-Jane has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since May 5. 2016. "I became a volunteer to help with my Tulsa Community College Tulsa Achieves hours and to support my newly discovered LGBT family. I love all of the people who we meet working here. They come in all shapes sizes and orientations and I love meeting everyone!" When Sara-Jane is not working the front desk she is a student at Tulsa Community College and enjoys video games. Sara-Jane includes "The program I like the most is most definitely the transgender support program, it is the one I am most involved in and love all the people involved. I do recommend volunteering here, it is just such an open and caring place that is just a wonderful place to be." SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan We thank you for your devotion Sara-Jane! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org October Video eNews Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Equality Center Pride Store New love tote bags in the Pride Shop $22 4/23/26, 6:23 PM �OkEq eNews October 26th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-26th--2016... SUNDAY @4: VE $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "k.d.lang: Carrying the Torch" By: William Robertson Since the release of her first album, a truly western experience in 1984, k.d. lang has galvanized listeners with her amazing voice, while battling for a place in the music industry and fighting off prejudice against her appearance and attitude. William Robertson's k.d. lang: Carrying the Torch was the first biography of lang, taking us from her tomboy girlhood in Consort, Alberta, through her entry into show business and the making of her first five albums and her first film, to her move away from country music to easy listening jazz and adult-oriented pop. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 6:23 PM �OkEq eNews October 26th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-26th--2016... event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 6:23 PM �OkEq eNews October 26th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-26th--2016... Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:23 PM �OkEq eNews October 26th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-26th--2016... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 6:23 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/581a916aa9f106c547dc3ab7a4df09aa.pdf f422c4d41cc8995cd7ca911cf2e9c8ea PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 2nd, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-2nd--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e November 2nd, 2016 okl.ihom.ins for equality news Volunteer of the Month November 2016 Gordon George Gordon, aslo known as GG, starting volunteering shortly after the purchase of the center on Kenosha. He helped with the remodel and renovation of the building. He had volunteered with other LGBTQ organizations before joing the OkEq team. His favorite part of volunteering at the center is being able to watch people enjoy the events he has put time and effort into creating, such as Thanksgiving Dinner, Falalala ball, and the Wild Hearts Ball. When GG is not working hard at the center he enjoys doing home repairs, gardening and seeing shows and movies. His favorite event of the year is Thanksgiving dinner. He recomends volunteering because "It's your time to help others even when you don't have the finances." In This Issue November Volunteer of the Month First Thursday Art Opening Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree 2017 Award Recipients Ladies Social Club Transgender Day of Remebrance Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thanksgiving Dinner Two-Spirit Documentary OUT for TCC Compassionate Tulsa Stonewall National Education Project Display November Video eNews Pride Store We thank you for your devotion GG! Rainbow Library If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Family Ties First Thursday Art Opening Thursday November 3, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The November showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Oklahoma Youth who are active in local Gay Straight Alliances, Diversity Clubs, and Social Justice Clubs and the Youth/Elder Storytelling Group beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 3rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Oklahoma has a myriad of LGBTQ Youth Support Groups ranging from centers, safe houses, projects and school centered organizations. This show will feature art created by those youth who are active in the groups. They were given a broad prompt of "Liberation" to inspire their art, and asked to interpret it in any way that made sense to them; the exciting works are palpable. The art will be a variety of photography, painting, drawing, and other visual arts. For an added perk to draw you to the opening night reception, there will be a performance of The Youth/Elder Storytelling Group. This performance-art and dialogue will combine youth and elders telling their stories of life, coming out, and growing up LGBTQ. This hour long piece will take you on a journey from 1945 to the future, with autobiographical tales of joy, fear, denial, and self-acceptance. Come prepared to be inspired and touched. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 3rd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Purchased gifts must be returned by December 9, 2016 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community so that they can have a happy holiday. Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 For more information, please contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org . 2017 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations 4/23/26, 6:24 PM �OkEq eNews November 2nd, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-2nd--201... Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org with your nominations. Ladies Social Club: Game Night Friday November 11, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Potluck snacks, soda/coffee/water provided. You've got to be a woman to join us, but you certainly don't have to be a lady! Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at Oklahomans for Equality! LSC provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! Each month features different activities, like game night, craft night, and movie night, and we usually do potluck snacks. Our calendar of events is largely driven by your own input, ladies! You're also welcome to just come and hang out with the other women if that's more your style. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com LSC meets on the second Friday of each month from 6-9 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. 4th St. Our Friday night events are designed to be low-cost so more folks can join us on a regular basis. We may plan events out & about in the city, so keep an eye on our calendar! Single, married, LGBT, trans women, allies, young in body, young at heart -- all women are welcome! More information available on Facebook Transgender Awareness Week November 15-20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance is when we remember our Transgender brothers and sisters who have lost their lives due to hate, discrimination, and violence. We also remember those who were compelled to complete suicide, succumbing to hate, bullying and discrimination. Please join the Gender Support Program throughout the week of Nov14 - Nov20 as we honor Transgender Awareness Week. Nov 15th - Transgender Awareness Week Movie night Nov 16th - Gender Support Program talent night Nov 20th - Transgender Day of Remembrance Memorial Service All events start at 7:00pm and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Additional information can be found on our website www.okeq.org, or by contacting Sharon Queen at 918-743-4297 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday November 16, 6:00 p.m. Decopolis 502 S Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org DECOPOLIS bringing back the fun, romance, and magic to shopping in beautiful downtown Tulsa! DECOPOLIS has several distinct areas to explore. Find a good book in our "DECOPOLIS Books" section. Have fun rediscovering vintage games and toys in the DISCOVITORIUM". Tiki's, Aliens, Volcanoes and Coconut Monkeys overlook a room filled with quirky retro gifts and toys in the Atomic Tiki Room. Upstairs is our "Stag Shop" men's department and "Gazelle's Ladies Accouterments". Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 6:24 PM �OkEq eNews November 2nd, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-2nd--201... Decopolis Online - www.decopolis.net - Facebook The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu -----(918) 594-8568 E UALITY Business Alliance Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner Thursday November 24, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ------(918) 594-8568 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church ----Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Thank you to Umicore and the Gordon George family for sponsoring this meal. - - - -- - - - - - - - - - - - - - G William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion Thursday November 17, 6:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 As a part of the G. William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion, NALSA and OutLaws are co-hosting a special screening of "Two Spirits" on November 17 at 6:00pm at the historic Circle Cinema. Afterward, there will be a Q&A panel discussion about Two Spirit culture, civil rights issues facing LGBT and Native American groups, and unique jurisdictional problems facing justice in Indian Country. Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 The Native American Law Student Association and Outl aws proudly present Two Spirits: Sexuality, Gender, and the Murder of Fred Martinez A FILM SCREENING WITH A PANEL. DISCUSSK>N, AND RECEPTION TO FOLLOW Light refreshments provided. The event is free to the public. However, there is limited space available, so please follow this link "Tickets Available" to reserve your space on Google Form. Speakers include: *John Hawk Co-Cke', leader of the Tulsa Two- Spirit Society * Sharon Queen, facilitator for the Gender Support Program at Oklahomans for Equality * Geri Wisner, attorney specializing in Indian Law "Two Spirits, a 2009 documentary, interweaves the tragic story of a mother's loss of her son with a revealing look at a time when the world wasn't simply divided into male and female, and many Native American cultures held places of honor for people of integrated genders." OUT for TCC Thursday December 1, Tulsa Community College - Metro Campus 909 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 This year Tulsa Community College is pairing with Oklahomans for Equality and is planning to become the first institution of higher education to actively recruit LGBTQ students. We are calling this program OUT for TCC and plan to host it on the morning of Dec. 1st at the Metro Campus. 4/23/26, 6:24 PM �OkEq eNews November 2nd, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-2nd--201... ■ lf . Oklahomans for Equality will co-sponsor this event and will provide lunch. Isaac Rocha, a TCC Alum, will be the guest speaker for the event. High school Gay-Straight Alliances are encouraged to participate. \..VMMU J'U I I ....:;J COLLEGE Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org Remembering Seneca Falls, Selma And Stonewall Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In his second inaugural address in January, 2013, President Obama surprised many listeners by mentioning Stonewall in the same breath as Seneca Falls and Selma - giving the struggle for gay rights the historical weight of the fights for gender and racial equality. Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 "We, the people, declare today that the most evident of truths - that all of us are created equal is the star that guides us still; just as it guided our forebears through Seneca Falls, and Selma, and Stonewall; just as it guided all those men and women, sung and unsung, who left footprints along this great Mall, to hear a preacher say that we cannot walk alone; to hear a King proclaim that our individual freedom is inextricably bound to the freedom of every soul on Earth." In honor of LGBTQ history month Stonewall Museum has created a 4 -panel Diversity Exhibition that contextualizes the LGBT civil rights movement within the larger historical context of civil rights struggles throughout United States history. We have the Obama Remembers Seneca Falls, Selma, Stonewall exhibit on display at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The celebration of diversity is part of the American Promise and dream. It is a reason for our much-admired position in the world. In fact, the United States is one of the few peaceful, multi-ethnic and multi-racial societies in the world today. Individuals who have been members of the groups featured in the Stonewall National Museum and Archives Diversity Panels -- Women, AfricanAmericans and Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender (LGBT) individuals -- were largely silent and invisible in public life. It took almost a hundred years after the founding of America for the voices of these marginalized and discriminated groups to begin to be heard in public forums and in the courts. Public attitudes and laws conspired to keep these groups "in their place". Their struggles to achieve genuine equality are central to the on-going efforts to make the American dream into the American reality for all. Stonewall National Education Project is uniquely poised through its vast national network of professionals, to help eliminate barriers, stand up for and empower our young people in a time when it has never been more vital. Stonewall National Education Project is an advocate for the safety, inclusion, and value of LGBTQ students, with a focus on improvising student achievement, attendance and graduation rates. Now in its fifth year, the Stonewall National Education Project positively impacts the lives of countless LGBT youth, and their classmates, from a spectrum of major cities and small towns across the nation. At its annual national symposium, district administrators and educators, federal and state policy makers, funders, advocacy organizations and thought leaders gather to increase their knowledge of strategies for successfully supporting LGBTQ youth and increase awareness of federal and state laws supporting and protecting LGBTQ youth through what federal programs and federal funds are currently available. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org November Video eNews Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Center Pride Store New love tote bags in the Pride Shop $22 Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. 4/23/26, 6:24 PM �OkEq eNews November 2nd, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-2nd--201... The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "From This Moment On" By: PJ Trebelhorn When faced with the loss of everything you hold dear, you run. After a drunk driver took the lives of her lover and unborn child, that's exactly what Devon Conway did. Three years later when offered a business opportunity she can't pass by, she decides it's finally time to return home-even though she's far from sure of her welcome. Katherine Hunter took a different path in the face of loss, throwing herself into her work to fill the emptiness in her heart. She doesn't have the time to date, even if she wanted to. But then fate drops Devon on her doorstep-literallyand Kat begins to question if the life she has painstakingly rebuilt is really enough. Despite Devon and Kat's powerful attraction, the past stands between them-preventing them from taking a chance on the future. Will what is growing between them be enough to convince them that from this moment on, anything is possible, even love? Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Cl.ass EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for 4/23/26, 6:24 PM �OkEq eNews November 2nd, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-2nd--201... transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. 4/23/26, 6:24 PM �OkEq eNews November 2nd, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-2nd--201... Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. 4/23/26, 6:24 PM �OkEq eNews November 2nd, 2016 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-2nd--201.. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org --- ---Alex Wade Special Projects 8 of 9 4/23/26, 6:24 PM �OkEq eNews November 2nd, 2016 9 of 9 I Alex.Wade@OkEq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-2nd--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 4/23/26, 6:24 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/bf4fcfe73503a645ee9a2acd267c24c0.pdf 456e10cdf485d97bb8051d5187b2078b PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 9th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-9th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e November 9th, 2016 okl.ihorn,ms for equ.ility news After waiting all night for election results, I was one of those disappointed voters who was not happy with the outcome. It seems my neighbors and family ignored the anti-LGBTQ actions and past legislative record of political candidates. They voted them into office and are sending them to the US capitol and our own statehouse. I do feel betrayed. I also feel threatened. Our future is going to be filled with homo-negative and trans-negative legislation. A decade of victories for equality are now in jeopardy. So here is what we will be doing at Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center: Expand our services and programs for LGBTQ people and their families. In This Issue Message from Toby Jenkins Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree 2017 Award Recipients Ladies Social Club Transgender Day of Remebrance Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thanksgiving Dinner November Volunteer of the Month First Thursday Art Opening OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. FaLaLaLa Ball November Video eNews Train our community how to advocate for themselves and their families. Engage elected officials and legislators and demand our rights. Serve our neighbors and care for the most vulnerable among us. Stand with other marginalized communities with mutual encouragement. Join us at Oklahomans for Equality as we continue the revolution and fight for full equality. Toby Jenkins Pride Store Rainbow Library Danny Day's Retirement Bash Council Oak Mens Chorale Two-Spirit Documentary OUT for TCC Compassionate Tulsa Executive Director Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Purchased gifts must be returned by December 9, 2016 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community so that they can have a happy holiday. For more information, please contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org . 2017 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. OkEq Art Exhibition The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Oklahoma youth who are active in local Gay Straigh Alliances, Diversity Clubs, and Social Justice Clubs and the Youth/Elder Storytelling Group. Oklahoma has a myriad of LGBTQ Youth Support Groups ranging from centers, safe houses, projects and school centered organizations. This show will feature art created by those youth who are active in the groups. They were given a broad prompt of "Liberation" to inspire their art, and asked to interpret it in any way that made sense to them; the exciting works are palpable. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org with your nominations. Ladies Social Club: Game Night Friday November 11, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Potluck snacks, soda/coffee/water provided. Family Ties You've got to be a woman to join us, but you certainly don't have to be a lady! Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at Oklahomans for Equality! LSC provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! Each month features different activities, like game night, craft night, and movie night, and we usually do potluck snacks. Our calendar of events is largely driven by your own input, ladies! You're also welcome to just come and hang out with the other women if that's more your style. LSC meets on the second Friday of each month from 6-9 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. 4/23/26, 6:26 PM �OkEq eNews November 9th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-9th--201... 4th St. Our Friday night events are designed to be low-cost so more folks can join us on a regular basis. We may plan events out & about in the city, so keep an eye on our calendar! Single, married, LGBT, trans women, allies, young in body, young at heart -- all women are welcome! More information available on Facebook Transgender Awareness Week Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library November 15-20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance is when we remember our Transgender brothers and sisters who have lost their lives due to hate, discrimination, and violence. We also remember those who were compelled to complete suicide, succumbing to hate, bullying and discrimination. Please join the Gender Support Program throughout the week of Nov14 - Nov20 as we honor Transgender Awareness Week. Nov 15th - Transgender Awareness Week Movie night Nov 16th - Gender Support Program talent night Nov 20th - Transgender Day of Remembrance Memorial Service All events start at 7:00pm and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Additional information can be found on our website www.okeq.org, or by contacting Sharon Queen at 918-743-4297 October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday November 16, 6:00 p.m. Decopolis 502 S Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. DECOPOLIS bringing back the fun, romance, and magic to shopping in beautiful downtown Tulsa! DECOPOLIS has several distinct areas to explore. Find a good book in our "DECOPOLIS Books" section. Have fun rediscovering vintage games and toys in the DISCOVITORIUM". Tiki's, Aliens, Volcanoes and Coconut Monkeys overlook a room filled with quirky retro gifts and toys in the Atomic Tiki Room. Upstairs is our "Stag Shop" men's department and "Gazelle's Ladies Accouterments". For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Decopolis Online - www.decopolis.net - Facebook Healthcare Navigator The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning E UALITY Business Alliance Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org ---- Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/23/26, 6:26 PM �OkEq eNews November 9th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-9th--201... Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner Thursday November 24, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Thank you to Umicore and the Gordon George family for sponsoring this meal. Volunteer of the Month November 2016 Gordon George Gordon, aslo known as GG, starting volunteering shortly after the purchase of the center on Kenosha. He helped with the remodel and renovation of the building. He had volunteered with other LGBTQ organizations before joing the OkEq team. His favorite part of volunteering at the center is being able to watch people enjoy the events he has put time and effort into creating, such as Thanksgiving Dinner, Falalala ball, and the Wild Hearts Ball. When GG is not working hard at the center he enjoys doing home repairs, gardening and seeing shows and movies. His favorite event of the year is Thanksgiving dinner. He recomends volunteering because "It's your time to help others even when you don't have the finances." Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 We thank you for your devotion GG! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 First Thursday Art Opening Thursday December 1, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Dr. Adrian Sturdevant beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 1st and continuing throughout the month. Dr. Adrian Sturdevant lives and practices in Fayetteville, Arkansas. He began painting approximately 6 years ago and although mostly self-taught, his art has developed and flourished through mentoring by several established studio artists. Adrian's work is primarily in oil on canvas and board; he has exhibited his paintings in solo and group exhibitions throughout the region. Adrian's inspiration for the content in his paintings finds its seed in the early photographs of classic southern Americana that he has gleaned from the Library of Congress. These photographs (all in black and white) inspired an initial kind of curiosity & nostalgia for a simpler time - a simpler era in the rural south. That admiration for simplicity in life has since segued - his works invoke a myriad of gender, racial, social, economic and cultural vulnerability and tension. Adrian explores those tensions in his paintings through the high saturation use of color. He simplifies content and alters the composition, to reinforce that narrative and ethereal tension endemic in that era of American history. Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 1st from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 10, 12:00 - 6:00 p.m. Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with 4/23/26, 6:26 PM �OkEq eNews November 9th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-9th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to joins us for our first annual OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Denis R Neill Equality Center. The Market will feature several local artists and crafters such as Scissortail Provisions, Steve Cluck, Petswell Pantry, Okie Crow, Nest and more!!! Come shop with us and support OKEQ! anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Peaturing many foca[ vencfors ancf crafters Part of tlie proceeds from tlie event wi[[ Gene.fit tlie (J)ennis <R._,:Nei[[(£quality Center. Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! H eld at th D n ni. R. ill q uality Cen t r okbhoman• for equality Gil I E ·H h t. Tul sa, OK 7'1• I 20 FaLaLaLa Ball Presents: OUTrageous Holiday Party December 17, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Time to don your gay apparel for the annual Falalala Ball OUTrageous holiday party Admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Cash Bar 4/23/26, 6:26 PM �OkEq eNews November 9th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-9th--201... Naughty & Nice Kink Room Live Entertainment Ugly Holiday Sweater Contest Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes "You think you are a drag queen" lip sync contest Child Care is available in our Kids Holiday Party on the second level. Please rsvp to olivia.cotter@okeq.org if your children will be attending. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop PaLaLa <Ba{{ Presents 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B November Video eNews Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Equality Center Pride Store SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan --,-.;:~ II . 'Featuring many foca[ vendors anti crafters Part of tfze proceetfs from tfze event wi« 6ene.fit tfze IJ)ennis IJ(:Nei[('Equafity Center. Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! l-l t:ld ;it the Denni~ B. N!!ill Equalit)' Ce nter 0~1 E•Hh Sc. Tul sa. OK 7 ~1~ Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "A Place at the Table: The Gay Individual in American Society" By: Bruce Bawer Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for 4/23/26, 6:26 PM �OkEq eNews November 9th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-9th--201... Among the most talked about books ever written on homosexuality, Bruce Bawer's A Place at the Table strips away the stereotypes fostered by ideologues at both political extremes to compellingly examine gay identity and the barriers that have blocked gays from full membership in American society. A PLACE AT.". . .".:"IrH E more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 1ocun Not only does Bawer powerfully refute the arguments used by antigay activists to stir groundless fears and hostility, he also offers a stunningly frank critique of an unrepresentative but highly visible gay subculture that falsely equates homosexuality with promiscuity, hedonism, and political correctness. Incisively scrutinizing such topics as gay marriage, gays and religion, and the annual Gay Pride March, Bawer explores the complex moral predicament of the gay individual as he debunks the myth of monolithic "gay lifestyle," showing that homosexuals' politics, tastes, beliefs and sexual tendencies are as diverse - and their values as mainstream - as those of heterosexuals. TAPI i:: Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm A Place at the Table carries a vital message for gays struggling to come to terms with their sexuality, and for anyone concerned about the place of the homosexual in America today. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . $5.00 per Session Danny Day's Retirement Bash November 18-19, 8:00 p.m. November 20, 2:00 p.m. American Theater Company 308 S Lansing Ave, Tulsa, OK 74120 v Just like Waiting for Guffman but in Tulsa! Gender Support Program Full of actual theatre stories culled from the elite of the Tulsa theatre scene and starring Tulsa Theatre Treasure, Pat Hobbs. This one man cabaret spans the 50 year career of Danny Day, bon vivant and community theatre icon extraordinaire. Featuring a song list of the best of Broadway, this hour and fifteen minute gem is sure to please all ages as Danny sings and acts his way through his 50 year career in theatre. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Tickets are available at the door - $20 general, $15 senior and students. Council Oak Mens Chorale Presents: Holly, Jolly & Gay Lambda Al-Anon Group December 6th, 8th, 9th, 8:00 p.m. East Side Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74112 Every Friday 7 p.m. This 2016 Holiday concert will be a break from our traditional concert style and will be presented in 3 transitioning segments. Our Title, Holly, Jolly & Gay speaks to these 3 different segments as we sing our way from the serious to the silly to some caroling! We will be presenting our holiday concerts : December 6th, 8th & 9 th 8:00-PM East Side Christian Church 1438 S. Indianapolis (just east of Harvard & 15 th ) For more information on Council Oak Men's Chorale please visit our website at www.counciloak.org or find us on Facebook. Council Oak Men's Chorale Presents ~ -·: ,. . _::M; Holly, Jolly & Gay Every Saturday 12:30 pm G William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion Thursday November 17, 6:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 As a part of the G. William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion, NALSA and OutLaws are co-hosting a special screening of "Two Spirits" on November 17 at 6:00pm at the historic Circle Cinema. Afterward, there will be a Q&A panel discussion about Two Spirit culture, civil rights issues facing LGBT and Native American groups, and unique jurisdictional problems facing justice in Indian Country. Survivors of Incest Anonymous The Native American Law Student Assoclatioo and Outlaws proudly present Two Spirits: Sexuality, Gender, and the Murder of Fred Martinez SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org A FILM SCREENING WITH A PANEL, DISCUSSION, AND RECEPTION TO FOLLOW Light refreshments provided. The event is free to the public. However, there is limited space available, so please follow this link "Tickets Available" to reserve your space on Google Form. Speakers include: *John Hawk Co-Cke', leader of the Tulsa Two- Spirit Society * Sharon Queen, facilitator for the Gender Support Program at Oklahomans for Equality * Geri Wisner, attorney specializing in Indian Law Game Night "Two Spirits, a 2009 documentary, interweaves the tragic story of a mother's loss of her son with a revealing look at a time when the world wasn't simply divided into male and female, and many Native American cultures held places of honor for people of integrated genders." OUT for TCC Thursday December 1, Tulsa Community College - Metro Campus 909 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119 This year Tulsa Community College is pairing with Oklahomans for Equality and is planning to become the first institution of higher education to actively recruit LGBTQ students. We are calling this program OUT for TCC and plan to host it on the morning of Dec. 1st at the Metro Campus. Oklahomans for Equality will co-sponsor this event and will provide lunch. Isaac Rocha, a TCC Alum, will be the guest speaker for the event. High school Gay-Straight Alliances are encouraged to participate. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno m TULSA COMMUNITY COLLEGE 4/23/26, 6:26 PM �OkEq eNews November 9th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-9th--201... Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE~ Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org -- .foOLDEN Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future 4/23/26, 6:26 PM �OkEq eNews November 9th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-9th--201... violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:26 PM �OkEq eNews November 9th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-9th--201... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r------ ----- ---------------------------- ----- ---------------------------- --------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 6:26 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/153de4a11b41de8aebb7c9036fc9bb4c.pdf 5ed69cda907c0e01825ea22d59cfda14 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-16th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility news In This Issue Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree 2017 Award Recipients Transgender Day of Remebrance Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thanksgiving Dinner World AIDS Day First Thursday Art Opening OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. FaLaLaLa Ball November Volunteer of the Month November Video eNews Pride Store .. Rainbow Library Council Oak Mens Chorale Sisters in Song Two-Spirit Documentary Danny Day's Retirement Bash MOONLIGHT Voices in my Head OUT for TCC Compassionate Tulsa l:aft: HOWARD DOAK I918.851.295O Cityscape Home Mortgage I 5801 E.4 1st Street, Suite 350 Tulsa, OK Company NMLS: 644578 I NMLS: 213229 Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Purchased gifts must be returned by December 9, 2016 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community so that they can have a happy holiday. For more information, please contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org . 2017 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations OkEq Art Exhibition The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Oklahoma youth who are active in local Gay Straigh Alliances, Diversity Clubs, and Social Justice Clubs and the Youth/Elder Storytelling Group. Oklahoma has a myriad of LGBTQ Youth Support Groups ranging from centers, safe houses, projects and school centered organizations. This show will feature art created by those youth who are active in the groups. They were given a broad prompt of "Liberation" to inspire their art, and asked to interpret it in any way that made sense to them; the exciting works are palpable. Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org with your nominations. Transgender Awareness Week November 15-20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 Family Ties Transgender Day of Remembrance is when we remember our Transgender brothers and sisters who have lost their lives due to hate, discrimination, and violence. We also remember those who were compelled to complete suicide, succumbing to hate, bullying and discrimination. 4/23/26, 6:27 PM �OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-16th--20... Please join the Gender Support Program throughout the week of Nov14 - Nov20 as we honor Transgender Awareness Week. Nov 15th - Transgender Awareness Week Movie night Nov 16th - Gender Support Program talent night Nov 20th - Transgender Day of Remembrance Memorial Service All events start at 7:00pm and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Additional information can be found on our website www.okeq.org, or by contacting Sharon Queen at 918-743-4297 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday November 16, 6:00 p.m. Decopolis 502 S Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 DECOPOLIS bringing back the fun, romance, and magic to shopping in beautiful downtown Tulsa! DECOPOLIS has several distinct areas to explore. Find a good book in our "DECOPOLIS Books" section. Have fun rediscovering vintage games and toys in the DISCOVITORIUM". Tiki's, Aliens, Volcanoes and Coconut Monkeys overlook a room filled with quirky retro gifts and toys in the Atomic Tiki Room. Upstairs is our "Stag Shop" men's department and "Gazelle's Ladies Accouterments". Decopolis Online - www.decopolis.net - Facebook The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. E ALITY Business Alliance This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner Thursday November 24, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - - ·- - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them 4/23/26, 6:27 PM �OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-16th--20... Joy Lutheran Church ELCA to find an available time to see you. Fellowship Congregational Church ---- UCC Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church ----Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Thank you theGordon forsponsoring this meal. - to- Umicore - - and-George - -family --- - World AIDS Day Turn Tulsa Red Thursday December 1, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In honor of World AIDS Day we are turning Tulsa red. Wear Red and Remember. Wear your red ribbon, wear your fire engine red outfit, die your hair red, and remember. Remember those who died, those we lost, and those who are still fighting for their lives. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Presentations, Candlighting ceremony, performances, testimonies and honoring those living with HIV/AIDS. More information available on Facebook First Thursday Art Opening Thursday December 1, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Dr. Adrian Sturdevant beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 1st and continuing throughout the month. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu -----(918) 594-8568 Dr. Adrian Sturdevant lives and practices in Fayetteville, Arkansas. He began painting approximately 6 years ago and although mostly self-taught, his art has developed and flourished through mentoring by several established studio artists. Adrian's work is primarily in oil on canvas and board; he has exhibited his paintings in solo and group exhibitions throughout the region. Adrian's inspiration for the content in his paintings finds its seed in the early photographs of classic southern Americana that he has gleaned from the Library of Congress. These photographs (all in black and white) inspired an initial kind of curiosity & nostalgia for a simpler time - a simpler era in the rural south. That admiration for simplicity in life has since segued - his works invoke a myriad of gender, racial, social, economic and cultural vulnerability and tension. Adrian explores those tensions in his paintings through the high saturation use of color. He simplifies content and alters the composition, to reinforce that narrative and ethereal tension endemic in that era of American history. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 1st from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 10, 12:00 - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to joins us for our first annual OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Denis R Neill Equality Center. The Market will feature several local artists and crafters such as Scissortail Provisions, Steve Cluck, Petswell Pantry, Okie Crow, Nest and more!!! Come shop with us and support OKEQ! Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu -----(918) 594-8568 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I 4/23/26, 6:27 PM �OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-16th--20... have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Peaturing many foca[ venaors ana crafters Part of tfie proceec£s from tlie event wi[[ 6enefit tlie (J)ennis <R._,:Nei[[ r.Equafity Center. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! oklahomana for equality H Id at th e D nnis R. ill • quality C nt r 6'2 1 E 4th t. Tul sa, OK , '1, 120 FaLaLaLa Ball Presents: OUTrageous Holiday Party December 17, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Time to don your gay apparel for the annual Falalala Ball OUTrageous holiday party Admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Cash Bar Naughty & Nice Kink Room Live Entertainment Ugly Holiday Sweater Contest Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes "You think you are a drag queen" lip sync contest Child Care is available in our Kids Holiday Party on the second level. Please rsvp to olivia.cotter@okeq.org if your children will be attending. PaLaLa {Ba[[ <Presents Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group 4/23/26, 6:27 PM �OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-16th--20... Volunteer of the Month November 2016 Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Gordon George Gordon, aslo known as GG, starting volunteering shortly after the purchase of the center on Kenosha. He helped with the remodel and renovation of the building. He had volunteered with other LGBTQ organizations before joing the OkEq team. His favorite part of volunteering at the center is being able to watch people enjoy the events he has put time and effort into creating, such as Thanksgiving Dinner, Falalala ball, and the Wild Hearts Ball. When GG is not working hard at the center he enjoys doing home repairs, gardening and seeing shows and movies. His favorite event of the year is Thanksgiving dinner. He recomends volunteering because "It's your time to help others even when you don't have the finances." Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather We thank you for your devotion GG! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. November Video eNews The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Q ,. .. Equality Center Pride Store SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan · · , --~ ~ ~ -- 'Featur ing II many Coca[ vemfors ana crafters !Part of tfie proceeas from tfie e-vent wi(( 6enefit tfie ![)ronis '1?..,Jfei(('Equafity Center. Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! l-l e ld at the D ennis H . Neill E tpial ity C enll'r Tulsa Area Prime Timers (i~l EHh St. Tul s;t. OK ; ~1~0 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items ~ Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "How I Learned to Snap" 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for 4/23/26, 6:27 PM �OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-16th--20... By: Kirk Read more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 With bold Southern humor, journalist and performer Kirk Read takes readers on a guided tour of his precocious and courageous adolescence. Recalling his years as an openly gay high school student, Read describes how he navigated the hallways with his sense of humor and dignity intact. He fondly recalls his initiations into sex, drugs, and rock 'n' roll, as well as his "shy as neon" acts of rabble rousing during high school. How I Learned to Snap is a refreshingly victim-free story in which queer teenagers are creative, resilient, and ultimately heroic. Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . @4:30 pm Council Oak Mens Chorale Presents: Holly, Jolly & Gay December 6th, 8th, 9th, 8:00 p.m. East Side Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74112 $5.00 per Session This 2016 Holiday concert will be a break from our traditional concert style and will be presented in 3 transitioning segments. Our Title, Holly, Jolly & Gay speaks to these 3 different segments as we sing our way from the serious to the silly to some caroling! Council Oak Me,,•s Chorale Pres s :a:,,. ·.. ::41!:. ~ Tickets are buy 1 get 1 free till the November 23rd For more information on Council Oak Men's Chorale please visit our website at www.counciloak.org or find us on Facebook. Holly, Jolly & Gay Sisters in Song Presents: Hope, Peace, Joy Concert 2016 Saturday December 10, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Sisters in Song Survivors of Incest Anonymous Hope, Peace, Joy Concert Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 2016 7PM Saturday th December 10 Fellowship Congregational Church United Church of Christ 2900 South Harvard Ave Tulsa Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Admission $15 Children under 12 Free www.Sistersinsong.us 4/23/26, 6:27 PM �OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-16th--20... a comrnumry mvcr ' Il)' women s choir in Tul a, OK Like us 011 Facehook! info@daao.us Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. G William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion Thursday November 17, 6:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 As a part of the G. William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion, NALSA and OutLaws are co-hosting a special screening of "Two Spirits" on November 17 at 6:00pm at the historic Circle Cinema. Afterward, there will be a Q&A panel discussion about Two Spirit culture, civil rights issues facing LGBT and Native American groups, and unique jurisdictional problems facing justice in Indian Country. The Native American Law Student Association and Outlaws proudly present Two Spirits: Sexuality, Gender, and the Murder of Fred Martinez A FILM SCREENING WrTH A PANEL. DISCUSSION, ANO RECEPTIOfrll TO FOLLOW Light refreshments provided. The event is free to the public. However, there is limited space available, so please follow this link "Tickets Available" to reserve your space on Google Form. Speakers include: *John Hawk Co-Cke', leader of the Tulsa Two- Spirit Society * Sharon Queen, facilitator for the Gender Support Program at Oklahomans for Equality * Geri Wisner, attorney specializing in Indian Law "Two Spirits, a 2009 documentary, interweaves the tragic story of a mother's loss of her son with a revealing look at a time when the world wasn't simply divided into male and female, and many Native American cultures held places of honor for people of integrated genders." Danny Day's Retirement Bash November 18-19, 8:00 p.m. November 20, 2:00 p.m. American Theater Company 308 S Lansing Ave, Tulsa, OK 74120 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Just like Waiting for Guffman but in Tulsa! Full of actual theatre stories culled from the elite of the Tulsa theatre scene and starring Tulsa Theatre Treasure, Pat Hobbs. This one man cabaret spans the 50 year career of Danny Day, bon vivant and community theatre icon extraordinaire. Featuring a song list of the best of Broadway, this hour and fifteen minute gem is sure to please all ages as Danny sings and acts his way through his 50 year career in theatre. Tickets are available at the door - $20 general, $15 senior and students. MOONLIGHT Opens Friday, November 18 Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis, Tulsa, OK 74104 A timeless story of human connection and self-discovery, Moonlight chronicles the life of a young black man from childhood to adulthood as he struggles to find his place in the world while growing up in a rough neighborhood of Miami. "As beautiful a movie as you are ever likely to see." - New York Times "A game changer and a flat-out masterpiece." - Rolling Stone Purchase tickets online here Voices in my Head Wednesday November 23, 9:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. 4/23/26, 6:27 PM �OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-16th--20... A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: OUT for TCC Thursday December 1, 9:00 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. Tulsa Community College - Metro Campus - Student Union 909 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119 This year Tulsa Community College is pairing with Oklahomans for Equality and is planning to become the first institution of higher education to actively recruit LGBTQ students. We are calling this program OUT for TCC and plan to host it on the morning of Dec. 1st at the Metro Campus. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Oklahomans for Equality will co-sponsor this event and will provide lunch. Isaac Rocha, a TCC Alum, will be the guest speaker for the event. High school Gay-Straight Alliances are encouraged to participate. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:27 PM �OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-16th--20... THUR DAY, DECEMBE 1, 01 cc oc S UD :00 U 10 1 ·30P s Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Co-sponsor d with Oklahoman's For Equality Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org TUUA CO UNITY COLLEGE Tuls CC.edu Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. ~ J;OLDEN -- For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, :,., an~, I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org ! I ~--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 6:27 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3cd05b9696277caca986e6556b7c902f.pdf 1b3bc1a151481955ab24c3fcb7933581 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility news In This Issue Gordon George Sponsors the Day. Thanksgiving Dinner World AIDS Day First Thursday Art Opening 2017 Award Recipients Long-term Care Insurance Gay Mens Dinner. Ladies Social Club OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. FaLaLaLa Ball Equality Business Alliance Mixer November Volunteer of the Month .. November Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library PFLAG Holiday Dinner Council Oak Mens Chorale Sisters in Song Voices in my Head OUT for TCC Compassionate Tulsa l:aft: HOWARD DOAK I918.851.295O Cityscape Home Mortgage I 5801 E.4 1st Street, Suite 350 Tulsa, OK Company NMLS: 644578 I NMLS: 213229 Gordon George Sponsors the Day Thursday November 24, 2016 Gordon is sponsoring the day in honor of his brother Freddy Jr. Gordon and his family have been coordinating and volunteering for our Thanksgiving community meal for 10 years. Thank You George! If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because OkEq Art Exhibition The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Oklahoma youth who are active in local Gay Straigh Alliances, Diversity Clubs, and Social Justice Clubs and the Youth/Elder Storytelling Group. Oklahoma has a myriad of LGBTQ Youth Support Groups ranging from centers, safe houses, projects and school centered organizations. This show will feature art created by those youth who are active in the groups. They were given a broad prompt of "Liberation" to inspire their art, and asked to interpret it in any way that made sense to them; the exciting works are palpable. Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner Thursday November 24, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Joy Lutheran Church ELCA Fellowship Congregational - -Church - UCC Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian - - -Church Christ Church Episcopal Family Ties 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church PFLAG Tulsa Thank you and theGordon family forsponsoring this meal. - to- Umicore - George - --- - World AIDS Day Turn Tulsa Red Thursday December 1, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In honor of World AIDS Day we are turning Tulsa red. Wear Red and Remember. Wear your red ribbon, wear your fire engine red outfit, die your hair red, and remember. Remember those who died, those we lost, and those who are still fighting for their lives. Presentations, Candlighting ceremony, performances, testimonies and honoring those living with HIV/AIDS. More information available on Facebook Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. First Thursday Art Opening Thursday December 1, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Dr. Adrian Sturdevant beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 1st and continuing throughout the month. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Dr. Adrian Sturdevant lives and practices in Fayetteville, Arkansas. He began painting approximately 6 years ago and although mostly self-taught, his art has developed and flourished through mentoring by several established studio artists. Adrian's work is primarily in oil on canvas and board; he has exhibited his paintings in solo and group exhibitions throughout the region. Adrian's inspiration for the content in his paintings finds its seed in the early photographs of classic southern Americana that he has gleaned from the Library of Congress. These photographs (all in black and white) inspired an initial kind of curiosity & nostalgia for a simpler time - a simpler era in the rural south. That admiration for simplicity in life has since segued - his works invoke a myriad of gender, racial, social, economic and cultural vulnerability and tension. Adrian explores those tensions in his paintings through the high saturation use of color. He simplifies content and alters the composition, to reinforce that narrative and ethereal tension endemic in that era of American history. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 1st from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 2017 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org with your nominations. Healthcare Navigator Long-term Care Insurance for the LGBT Community Tuesday December 6 & Thursday December 8, 6:30 p.m. Dennnis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 Are you a candidate for long-term care insurance? • Are you 35 years of age or older? • Do you want to avoid being a burden to your loved ones in the event of a disease, disability, or aging? • Are you single? • Are you without children? • Have you been disowned by your family? • Is the thought of saving for retirement and an additional $5,000 or more per month for at-home health care, an assisted living, or a nursing home overwhelming? Answering "Yes" to one or more of the questions above, indicates you may be a prime candidate for long-term care insurance. Please attend a free Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - - ·- - - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... informational session in the Event Center at Oklahomans for Equality on Tuesday, December 6, 2016 at 6:30 pm to learn more. to find an available time to see you. Presented By: ~ Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SECURIAN ® Advisors MidAmerica , Inc. Gay Mens Dinner Tuesday December 6, 6:30 p.m. India Palace 6963 S. Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74136 India Palace is a venerable family-style restaurant offering classic Indian fare & a lunch buffet since 1974. I Friday December 9th, 7:00 p.m.-11:00 p.m. 2601 S. 96th E. Ct., Tulsa, OK 74129 (27th and Mingo) Christmas gathering with dessert. I will have desserts and tea/coffee. You are welcome to bring your own beverages, just drink in moderation please. Please R.S.V.P. I f -· . ,ri :; • : ! :~ '..~• •,4 ' -- ,_ ~ :!__ l Gay Men's Dinner Group is a social support group of gay and bisexual men who meet monthly for dinner and for other special occasions. If you are coming please RSVP GuysDineToo@gmail.com Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Ladies Social Club: Dirty Santa & Ugly Sweater Party Friday December 9, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Bring a wrapped gift for the Dirty Santa gift exchange ($10 or less) We're not a sensitive bunch, so get creative and have fun picking something out! Wear your ugliest sweater - bonus points for DIY! This'll be a potluck, as per usual. Some hot chocolate or mulled cider might be fun! Ladies Social Club is a group for women. Monthly events take place the second Friday of each month and for other special events. For more information check out the Facebook event Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 10, 12:00 - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to joins us for our first annual OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Denis R Neill Equality Center. The Market will feature several local artists and crafters such as Scissortail Provisions, Steve Cluck, Petswell Pantry, Okie Crow, Nest and more!!! Come shop with us and support OKEQ! Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Peaturing many [oca[ venaors ana crafters Part of tlie proceeds from tlie event wi[[ 6enefit tlie (J)ennis CR._,:Nei[[ f'£quafity Center. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! ok:lahomana fM equality H kl at th e G2 I nnis R. ill quality •H h t. Tul sa, OK i 'l•I 20 FaLaLaLa Ball Presents: OUTrageous Holiday Party December 17, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Time to don your gay apparel for the annual Falalala Ball OUTrageous holiday party Admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Cash Bar Naughty & Nice Kink Room Live Entertainment Ugly Holiday Sweater Contest Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes "You think you are a drag queen" lip sync contest Child Care is available in our Kids Holiday Party on the second level. Please rsvp to olivia.cotter@okeq.org if your children will be attending. PaLaLa <Ba[[<Presents nt r Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... .,. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday December 21, 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Physiques by Monique 3403 S Peoria Ave., Suite 100, Tulsa, OK 74105 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Physiques by Monique is Tulsa's FIRST premier Indoor Cycling & Personal Training Studio. We have 15 Schwinn ICPro bikes, classes offered 7 days a week, Tulsa's best instructors, impeccable sound system, and a view of Brookside that can't be beat! We have easy online bike reservations & no monthly membership fees, simply a beautiful facility to get your fitness on! 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Our boutique studio is located upstairs in the historical Brook Theatre, perfect for those tired of the "big gym, meat market feel" & prefer a more intimate/personalized setting. Let your personal trainer take you through a quality, dedicated training session. No fuss, only business, dedicated all to you. Physiques by Monique Online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. PhysiquesbyMonique Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. E UALITY Business Alliance The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Volunteer of the Month November 2016 Gordon George Gordon, aslo known as GG, starting volunteering shortly after the purchase of the center on Kenosha. He helped with the remodel and renovation of the building. He had volunteered with other LGBTQ organizations before joing the OkEq team. His favorite part of volunteering at the center is being able to watch people enjoy the events he has put time and effort into creating, such as Thanksgiving Dinner, Falalala ball, and the Wild Hearts Ball. When GG is not working hard at the center he enjoys doing home repairs, gardening and seeing shows and movies. His favorite event of the year is Thanksgiving dinner. He recomends volunteering because "It's your time to help others even when you don't have the finances." We thank you for your devotion GG! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan II Tulsa Area Prime Timers November Video eNews 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class IQ " .. EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Equality Center Pride Store $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. -·'featur ing many Coca[ venaors ana crafters Part of tfze proceeas from tfze event wiff 6enefit tfze ll)ennis '1\,:Neiff'Equaftty Center. Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 1ld J at the De1111is H. Neill E<1u.il ity Center fi~ l E ~th St. T ul.sa. OK 7 ~I ~O Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Survivors of Incest Anonymous "Sour Puss: A Mrs. Murphy Mystery" By: Rita Mae Brown & Sneaky Pie Brown Every Saturday 12:30 pm Rita Mae Brown and her feline partner-in-crime-detection, Sneaky Pie Brown, return to the scene of their bestselling crimes-picturesque Crozet, Virginia. Love is in the air as spring comes to the small town, but no sooner has Mary Minor "Harry" Haristeen remarried than she is rudely interrupted-by murder. And no sooner does the trouble start than curious cats Mrs. Murphy and Pewter, along with corgi Tee Tucker, sink their claws into the case.... SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org After an unexpected rekindling of their romance, Harry and her veterinarian ex-husband, Fair Haristeen, have happily remarried. But the excitement of their nuptials is quickly overshadowed by the murder of Professor Vincent Forland, a world-famous grape and fungal expert who was in town visiting the local vineyards. Within days of giving a lecture on how distilled fungus and cattle diseases are the current basis of chemical warfare, Forland's decapitated body is discovered. After their initial fright, the residents of Crozet believe that this was a political murder and settle back into their routines-until a local is also found dead, killed in the same gruesome manner as Professor Forland. Now residents can't help wondering, is this really the work of an outsider-or one of their own? No longer working in the post office, Harry had just planted a quarter acre of grapes, which fuels her natural curiosity over just what the two murder victims knew and had in common. Once the warmth of spring arrives, the grapevines blossom and Harry's furry entourage discovers the first critical clue. But how can they show the humans what they've learned? And how can they-or anyone-stop the killing? Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. There Is Always A Place For You At PFLAG's Table. Pl ase Join Pf LAG Tulsa For Our Annual Holiday Dinner Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Friday, December 2, 2016 6:00pm Reception 6:30pm Dinner All Soul Unitarian Church, Emerson Hall 2952 South Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK * * Please Bring A Side Dish or Dessert To Share ,,.,,. Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Council Oak Mens Chorale Presents: Holly, Jolly & Gay December 6th, 8th, 9th, 8:00 p.m. East Side Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74112 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This 2016 Holiday concert will be a break from our traditional concert style and will be presented in 3 transitioning segments. Our Title, Holly, Jolly & Gay speaks to these 3 different segments as we sing our way from the serious to the silly to some caroling! Tickets are buy 1 get 1 free till the November 23rd Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm ,. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. :-: For more information on Council Oak Men's Chorale please visit our website at www.counciloak.org or find us on Facebook. -- . . Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing : . ::· .•, Holly, Jolly & Gay Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Sisters in Song Presents: Hope, Peace, Joy Concert 2016 Saturday December 10, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Sisters in Song op , Peac , J y Con erf Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... 2Ulb A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 7PM Saturday th December 10 Fellowship Congregational Church United Church of Christ 2900 South Harvard Ave Tulsa Admission $15 Children under 12 Free www. istersin ong.us a commun ity di ver ity women s choir in Tul a, OK Like us 011 Facebook! info@daao.us Voices in my Head Wednesday November 23, 9:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org OUT for TCC Thursday December 1, 9:00 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. Tulsa Community College - Metro Campus - Student Union 909 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119 This year Tulsa Community College is pairing with Oklahomans for Equality and is planning to become the first institution of higher education to actively recruit LGBTQ students. We are calling this program OUT for TCC and plan to host it on the morning of Dec. 1st at the Metro Campus. Oklahomans for Equality will co-sponsor this event and will provide lunch. Isaac Rocha, a TCC Alum, will be the guest speaker for the event. High school Gay-Straight Alliances are encouraged to participate. HUR DA , D CEM E 1, 20 CC C S S D U -12! 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... Co-sponsored with Oklahoman's For Equality TUUA CO UNITY COLL£G£ Tuls CC. du Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE ~ Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. -- fo OLDEN For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 11 of 11 :1..1r,••·· :l•l :t4~ i https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... -------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org • --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------1 4/23/26, 6:29 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b5e81e6ebe379c0c87d946846500a90c.pdf 69db660339c48d64e24c55b38cb83a31 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 e news okl.ihorn,ms for equ.ility PINK CHALLENGE In This Issue PINK CHALLENGE. Grateful Day Sponsors the Day. World AIDS Day First Thursday Art Opening 2017 Award Recipients Long-term Care Insurance Tuesday November 29, 2016 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought to You Bi the Letter B Gay Mens Dinner. Ladies Social Club PINK CHALLENGE!!!! Please make a donation to Oklahomans for Equality before midnight Tuesday, November 29, 2016. OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. FaLaLaLa Ball Equality Business Alliance Mixer Pride Store Rainbow Library PFLAG Holiday Dinner www.okeq.org/donate Council Oak Mens Chorale Sisters in Song OUT for TCC Compassionate Tulsa Grateful Day Sponsors the Day Thursday December 1, 2016 The Grateful Day Foundation will be sponsoring the day in honor World Aids Day. Thank You Grateful Day Foundation! If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because World AIDS Day Turn Tulsa Red Thursday December 1, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In honor of World AIDS Day we are turning Tulsa red. Wear Red and Remember. Wear your red ribbon, wear your fire engine red outfit, die your hair red, and remember. Remember those who died, those we lost, and those who are still fighting for their lives. Q,~~'!!!!!C>~!'J~ Taking a leap offaith foT those living with HIV/A IDS OkEq Art Exhibition The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Oklahoma youth who are active in local Gay Straigh Alliances, Diversity Clubs, and Social Justice Clubs and the Youth/Elder Storytelling Group. Oklahoma has a myriad of LGBTQ Youth Support Groups ranging from centers, safe houses, projects and school centered organizations. This show will feature art created by those youth who are active in the groups. They were given a broad prompt of "Liberation" to inspire their art, and asked to interpret it in any way that made sense to them; the exciting works are palpable. Presentations, Candlighting ceremony, performances, testimonies and honoring those living with HIV/AIDS. More information available on Facebook First Thursday Art Opening Thursday December 1, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Family Ties The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Dr. Adrian Sturdevant beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 1st and continuing throughout the month. Dr. Adrian Sturdevant lives and practices in Fayetteville, Arkansas. He began painting approximately 6 years ago and although mostly self-taught, his art has developed and flourished through mentoring by several established studio artists. Adrian's work is primarily in oil on canvas and board; he has exhibited his 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... paintings in solo and group exhibitions throughout the region. Adrian's inspiration for the content in his paintings finds its seed in the early photographs of classic southern Americana that he has gleaned from the Library of Congress. These photographs (all in black and white) inspired an initial kind of curiosity & nostalgia for a simpler time - a simpler era in the rural south. That admiration for simplicity in life has since segued - his works invoke a myriad of gender, racial, social, economic and cultural vulnerability and tension. Adrian explores those tensions in his paintings through the high saturation use of color. He simplifies content and alters the composition, to reinforce that narrative and ethereal tension endemic in that era of American history. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 1st from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 2017 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org with your nominations. Long-term Care Insurance for the LGBT Community Tuesday December 6 & Thursday December 8, 6:30 p.m. Dennnis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 Are you a candidate for long-term care insurance? • Are you 35 years of age or older? • Do you want to avoid being a burden to your loved ones in the event of a disease, disability, or aging? • Are you single? • Are you without children? • Have you been disowned by your family? • Is the thought of saving for retirement and an additional $5,000 or more per month for at-home health care, an assisted living, or a nursing home overwhelming? Answering "Yes" to one or more of the questions above, indicates you may be a prime candidate for long-term care insurance. Please attend a free informational session in the Event Center at Oklahomans for Equality on Tuesday, December 6, 2016 at 6:30 pm to learn more. Presented By: - ~ SECURIAN ® Advisors MidAmerica , Inc. Ii".,,, "-f'"'•-,.,., ~,,~ • ~~\ ~:)t:~·· FAMILY LEGACY ANO -WEAI--T-H COUN EL Brought to You Bi the Letter B - Ugly Sweater Holiday Party Tuesday December 6, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought to You Bi the Letter B's final social of the year will be an Ugly Sweater Holiday Party on Tuesday, December 6th at 7:00PM. This will be a potluck for those who want to bring food and drinks. For those who can't bring something, do not feel pressured. What food and drinks that are there will be for everyone! Feel free to bring board games, cards, etc. We look forward to seeing everyone! Friends and family are welcome! This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Keep up with this group on Facebook 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... Gay Mens Dinner Tuesday December 6, 6:30 p.m. India Palace 6963 S. Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74136 India Palace is a venerable family-style restaurant offering classic Indian fare & a lunch buffet since 1974. Friday December 9th, 7:00 p.m.-11:00 p.m. 2601 S. 96th E. Ct., Tulsa, OK 74129 (27th and Mingo) Christmas gathering with dessert. I will have desserts and tea/coffee. You are welcome to bring your own beverages, just drink in moderation please. Please R.S.V.P. Gay Men's Dinner Group is a social support group of gay and bisexual men who meet monthly for dinner and for other special occasions. If you are coming please RSVP GuysDineToo@gmail.com Ladies Social Club: Dirty Santa & Ugly Sweater Party Friday December 9, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Bring a wrapped gift for the Dirty Santa gift exchange ($10 or less) We're not a sensitive bunch, so get creative and have fun picking something out! Wear your ugliest sweater - bonus points for DIY! This'll be a potluck, as per usual. Some hot chocolate or mulled cider might be fun! Ladies Social Club is a group for women. Monthly events take place the second Friday of each month and for other special events. For more information check out the Facebook event OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 10, 12:00 - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 We invite you to joins us for our first annual OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Denis R Neill Equality Center. The Market will feature several local artists and crafters such as Scissortail Provisions, Steve Cluck, Petswell Pantry, Okie Crow, Nest and more!!! Come shop with us and support OKEQ! Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Peaturing -------- r ___ r _____ _r__ __ Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... many tocat venaors ana crapers Part of tlie proceeds from tfie event wi[[ Gene.fit tlie (J)ennis <J(:Nei[[ P.quafity Center. anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! H Id at th D nni . R. ok.Lwhonwlna. few ttqu.lity G'2 I E'l,th ilJ quality Cent r t. Tulsa, OK 71• I 20 FaLaLaLa Ball Presents: OUTrageous Holiday Party December 17, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Time to don your gay apparel for the annual Falalala Ball OUTrageous holiday party Admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Cash Bar Naughty & Nice Kink Room Live Entertainment Ugly Holiday Sweater Contest Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes "You think you are a drag queen" lip sync contest Child Care is available in our Kids Holiday Party on the second level. Please rsvp to olivia.cotter@okeq.org if your children will be attending. PaLaLa <Ba{{<Presents Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday December 21, 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Physiques by Monique 3403 S Peoria Ave., Suite 100, Tulsa, OK 74105 Physiques by Monique is Tulsa's FIRST premier Indoor Cycling & Personal Training Studio. We have 15 Schwinn ICPro bikes, classes offered 7 days a week, Tulsa's best instructors, impeccable sound system, and a view of Brookside that can't be beat! We have easy online bike reservations & no monthly membership fees, simply a beautiful facility to get your fitness on! Our boutique studio is located upstairs in the historical Brook Theatre, perfect for those tired of the "big gym, meat market feel" & prefer a more intimate/personalized setting. Let your personal trainer take you through a quality, dedicated training session. No fuss, only business, dedicated all to you. Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Physiques by Monique Online SOS Group The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. PhysiquesbyMonique E UALITY Business Alliance Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B Equality Center Pride Store Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. " . ·· ··-~·~ 'Featuring many foca[ venaors ana crafters Part of tfze proceeas from tfze event wi{{ 6e111ifit tfze (/Jen,us <J{,:Nei{{'Equality Center. Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! Helli at !lw Dt>r111is R. Neill Equality Center (;'.! 1 Euh St. Tul,-a, OK ;~1'.!0 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items ~ Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Everything Relative" A Sharon Pollack Film The provocative and sexy romantic comedy about a group of women who went to college together and reunite when two of them have a Bris for their newborn baby. The smart sassy ensemble exchange quick-witted repartee which reveals with irony, humor and a touch of nostalgia for the 70's, how their lives, their politics and their loves have changed. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan II . Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program There Is Always A Place For You At PFLAG's Table. Pl ase Join PFLAG Tulsa For Our Annual Holiday Dinn r Friday, December 2, 201 G G:00pm Reception 6:30pm Dinner All Soul Unitarian Church, Emerson Hall 2952 South Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK • Please Bring A Side Dish or Dessert To Share * Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Council Oak Mens Chorale Presents: Holly, Jolly & Gay December 6th, 8th, 9th, 8:00 p.m. East Side Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74112 Survivors of Incest Anonymous This 2016 Holiday concert will be a break from our traditional concert style and will be presented in 3 transitioning segments. Our Title, Holly, Jolly & Gay speaks to these 3 different segments as we sing our way from the serious to the silly to some caroling! Council Oak Men's C'1orale Pres s Tickets are buy 1 get 1 free till the November 23rd ;;a .. ._ :. ..... •. For more information on Council Oak Men's Chorale please visit our website at www.counciloak.org or find us on Facebook. Holly, Jolly & Gay Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Sisters in Song Presents: Hope, Peace, Joy Concert 2016 Saturday December 10, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 Game Night Sisters in Song Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Hope, Peace, Joy Concert 'll\1C:.. 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... oLUIU 7PM Saturday th December 10 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Fellowship Congregational Church United Church of Christ 2900 South Harvard Ave Tulsa Admission $15 hildren under 12 Free www. istersinsong.us a community diver ity women s choir in Tul a, OK Like us 011 Facebook! info@ daao .u EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OUT for TCC Thursday December 1, 9:00 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. Tulsa Community College - Metro Campus - Student Union 909 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119 This year Tulsa Community College is pairing with Oklahomans for Equality and is planning to become the first institution of higher education to actively recruit LGBTQ students. We are calling this program OUT for TCC and plan to host it on the morning of Dec. 1st at the Metro Campus. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will co-sponsor this event and will provide lunch. Isaac Rocha, a TCC Alum, will be the guest speaker for the event. High school Gay-Straight Alliances are encouraged to participate. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group T RSDA TCC E S UDE E 1, 01 s Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... :00 violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. 1230 A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Co-sponsor d with Oklahoman's For Eouahty TUUA CO UNITY COLI.EGE Tuls CC. du Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org -- MAKEOJ.ti .,GOLDEN Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org :C·1 \Hi! Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org -----------------= -=~-----~ I I ------------------------------------ -------------------------------------------------------------1 4/23/26, 6:29 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8d2b5deb30ab12d82b4361d3005b5989.pdf 0e77f405731bfa0fadfaa4a4bbfd4d34 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 okl.ihorn,ms for equ.ility news In This Issue Long-term Care Insurance Remembering Them Volunteer of the Month Brought to You Bi the Letter B Tulsa Two-Spirit Holiday Party Long-term Care Insurance for the LGBT Community 2017 Award Recipients Tuesday December 6 & Thursday December 8, 6:30 p.m. Dennnis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 Gay Mens Dinner. Ladies Social Club Are you a candidate for long-term care insurance? OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. • Are you 35 years of age or older? FaLaLaLa Ball Equality Business Alliance Mixer • Do you want to avoid being a burden to your loved ones in the event of a disease, disability, or aging? Oklahoma Wedding Show • Are you single? Pride Store • Are you without children? Rainbow Library • Have you been disowned by your family? Council Oak Mens Chorale • Is the thought of saving for retirement and an additional $5,000 or more per month for at-home health care, an assisted living, or a nursing home overwhelming? Sisters in Song Compassionate Tulsa Answering "Yes" to one or more of the questions above, indicates you may be a prime candidate for long-term care insurance. Please attend a free informational session in the Event Center at Oklahomans for Equality on Tuesday, December 6, 2016 at 6:30 pm to learn more. Presented By: - ~ SECURIAN ® Advisors MidAmerica , Inc. ( , .,,, 1.1,•11,· ~.- ' +:,~ ..,!; ~ ·:) r-,.. J~ \ OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, December 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. FAMILY LEGACY - - - ANO - - - W£ALTH COUN EL OkEq Art Exhibition The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Dr. Adrian Sturdevant beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 1st from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Remembering Them Sunday December 11, 1:00 - 2:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 There will be a service of remembrance in honor of those who have died recently. Family and friends have made donations to Oklahomans for Equality in memory of their loved ones. Individuals and attendees are encouraged to share brief stories about their loved ones. There will be a ceremony adding the name plate to the Memory Wall.The Rainbow Flag will be lowered to half staff. The following individuals are to be added to the memory wall. Jeromy Ingram Mickey Rosmarin Dr. Adrian Sturdevant lives and practices in Fayetteville, Arkansas. He began painting approximately 6 years ago and although mostly self-taught, his art has developed and flourished through mentoring by several established studio artists. Adrian's work is primarily in oil on canvas and board; he has exhibited his paintings in solo and group exhibitions throughout the region. Kimberlyn Jo Coffey Rick Snyder Shelley Sinclair James Revard Stephanie York Tim Snapp Aaron Wilson Family Ties Donald Fields 4/23/26, 6:31 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... Melissa Cole Volunteer of the Month December 2016 Amanda Lowe Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Amanda started volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in October of 2015. Amanda says she started volunteering here because "I wanted to get more involved in the LGBTQ community. As a queer person myself, I think it is important to cultivate relationships. I also wanted to be purposeful in choosing locations that deal with inter-sectional issues, which is why I am an active volunteer at OKEQ, Planned Parenthood and Together OK." Her favorite part of volunteering is the relationships with staff, volunteers and individuals that frequent the center that she has become friends with. "Helping people feel empowered to be who they are is a calling of mine and the center is a great outlet to accomplish that." When she is not volunteering at OKEQ she is a full time student at OSU-Tulsa working on a Bachelor's degree in American Studies and a minor in Women and Gender Studies. She volunteers at other social justice organizations around town and has a small hand embroidery business called Stitch Witch OK. She is also a birth doula that specializes in placenta encapsulation. Some of the things Amanda loves about the Equality Center are the special events. "My partner Molly and I love bar tending them. I also love the art gallery. One of my favorite events is More Color." She says she would absolutely recommend everyone to volunteer at the center ! "Some of my favorite people are here! The 3 hours I work at the desk are some of my favorite times. Betty and I are always getting into trouble! Also, your time is truly impactful here. It doesn't matter if you are an LGBTQ or an ally; you are a valuable part of this organization." Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. We thank you for your enthusiasm Amanda! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Brought to You Bi the Letter B - Ugly Sweater Holiday Party Tuesday December 6, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Brought to You Bi the Letter B's final social of the year will be an Ugly Sweater Holiday Party on Tuesday, December 6th at 7:00PM. This will be a potluck for those who want to bring food and drinks. For those who can't bring something, do not feel pressured. What food and drinks that are there will be for everyone! Feel free to bring board games, cards, etc. We look forward to seeing everyone! Friends and family are welcome! Keep up with this group on Facebook Tulsa Two-Spirit Holiday Party Tuesday December 6, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. Tulsa Two Spirits Society is a non-profit Native American GLBTQQ collective. We are the living descendents of the original people of what is now the USA. We meet once a month at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Please check the OKEQ Event Calendar for more information: Contact hawknesw@yahoo.com For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com 2017 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Healthcare Navigator Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org with your nominations. Gay Mens Dinner Tuesday December 9, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. 2601 S. 96th E. Ct., Tulsa, OK 74129 Christmas gathering with dessert. I will have desserts and tea/coffee. You are welcome to bring your own beverages, just drink in moderation please. Please R.S.V.P. Gay Men's Dinner Group is a social support group of gay and bisexual men who meet monthly for dinner and for other special occasions. I .; • 1: t--~ - ---- ' ,_ ,,,. ~ ,. ~ ' ~i~." ~~ . 1,• - . ,r i :: ;~.. :~ Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them 4/23/26, 6:31 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... to find an available time to see you. If you are coming please RSVP GuysDineToo@gmail.com Ladies Social Club: Dirty Santa & Ugly Sweater Party Friday December 9, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Bring a wrapped gift for the Dirty Santa gift exchange ($10 or less) We're not a sensitive bunch, so get creative and have fun picking something out! Dr. Kurt Choate Wear your ugliest sweater - bonus points for DIY! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org This'll be a potluck, as per usual. Some hot chocolate or mulled cider might be fun! Ladies Social Club is a group for women. Monthly events take place the second Friday of each month and for other special events. For more information check out the Facebook event OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 10, 12:00 - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to joins us for our first annual OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Denis R Neill Equality Center. The Market will feature several local artists and crafters such as Scissortail Provisions, Steve Cluck, Petswell Pantry, Okie Crow, Nest and more!!! Come shop with us and support OKEQ! Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu ---(918) 594-8568 .. .. ... Peaturing many Coca[ vendors and crafiers n Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ---(918) 594-8568 <Part of tlie proceecfs from tlie event wi[[ Gene.fit tlie (J)ennis <R..,:Nei[[ P.quafity Center. Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and 4/23/26, 6:31 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... H Id at the D nnis R. ill quality G2 I E'l,th t. Tulsa, OK 7'1• 120 oklahotnan& for equality nt r FaLaLaLa Ball Presents: OUTrageous Holiday Party Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 December 17, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Time to don your gay apparel for the annual Falalala Ball OUTrageous holiday party Admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Cash Bar Naughty & Nice Kink Room Live Entertainment Ugly Holiday Sweater Contest Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes "You think you are a drag queen" lip sync contest Child Care is available in our Kids Holiday Party on the second level. Please rsvp to olivia.cotter@okeq.org if your children will be attending. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Pa£a£a <Ba{{(Presents Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday December 21, 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Physiques by Monique 3403 S Peoria Ave., Suite 100, Tulsa, OK 74105 Physiques by Monique is Tulsa's FIRST premier Indoor Cycling & Personal Training Studio. We have 15 Schwinn ICPro bikes, classes offered 7 days a week, Tulsa's best instructors, impeccable sound system, and a view of Brookside that can't be beat! We have easy online bike reservations & no monthly membership fees, simply a beautiful facility to get your fitness on! Our boutique studio is located upstairs in the historical Brook Theatre, perfect for those tired of the "big gym, meat market feel" & prefer a more intimate/personalized setting. Let your personal trainer take you through a quality, dedicated training session. No fuss, only business, dedicated all to you. Non-Binary Support Group Physiques by Monique Online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. PhysiquesbyMonique Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group 4/23/26, 6:31 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... E Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org ALITY Business Alliance Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Oklahoma Wedding Show Saturday, January 14, 2017, 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Expo Square Central Park Hall 1701 S. Sandusky Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 LOVE IN BLOOM Each couple shares a distinctive story. At the Oklahoma Wedding Show, couples can find the vendors and wedding experts that can help make the big day a truly unique experience. Make sure to stop by the Oklahomans for Equality booth during the show. For more details check out Oklahoma Magazine online. Your Day /ff~~ Let kla/ioma Maga zi,ie help ou plan our p cial da ! The Oklahoma edding how,; ill return aturda January 14' h . The Oklahoma Wedding Show and issue are returning January 2017. Booth Spaces ore now available. For more information, call 918.744.6205 or email advertising@okmag.com Equality Center Pride Store Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan II . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for 4/23/26, 6:31 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm ..... :;;~ 'Featuring many foca[ vendors and crafters Part of tfie proceetfs from tfie event wi[( 6enefit $5.00 per Session tfze (/Jennis <J(:Nei«'E.quaftty Center. Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! v Helli Ht !lw Dt>n11i s R. Neill Equality Center (;~1 Euh St. Tuk1, OK ;~1 ~><) Gender Support Program Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items fi Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Visions of Sugar Plums" An Edward Fasulo Film Joey and Bruce, a young happy New York gay couple, donned their gay apparel and are anticipating the Christmas holidays until Bruce's right wing off the wall religious parents announce an unexpected holiday visit. Shhhh!! They don't know about Bruce loving Joey. Will Bruce "de-gay" their apartment and "de-Joey" his life?? Will Joey be forced to spend Christmas with a neighborly but overprotective drag queen, or will he seek solace in the arms of a hunky one-night stand? What follows is an emotional roller-coaster ride of love, acceptance, "coming out" and real family values as they seek to balance their lives and create a future TOGETHER! Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Council Oak Mens Chorale Presents: Holly, Jolly & Gay Survivors of Incest Anonymous December 6th, 8th, 9th, 8:00 p.m. East Side Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74112 This 2016 Holiday concert will be a break from our traditional concert style and will be presented in 3 transitioning segments. Our Title, Holly, Jolly & Gay speaks to these 3 different segments as we sing our way from the serious to the silly to some caroling! Tickets are buy 1 get 1 free till the November 23rd Council Oak Men's Chorale Presents ~ For more information on Council Oak Men's Chorale please visit our website at www.counciloak.org or find us on Facebook. -·: ,. . _::M; Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Holly, Jolly & Gay Sisters in Song Presents: Hope, Peace, Joy Concert 2016 Saturday December 10, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 Game Night Sisters in Song Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Hope, Peace, Joy Concert 4/23/26, 6:31 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... 2Ulb Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 7PM The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Saturday th December 10 Fellowship Congregational Church United Church of Christ 2900 South Harvard Ave Tulsa Admission $15 Children under 12 Free EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. www. ister insong.u a community di ver ity women's choir in Tul a OK Like us 011 Facehook! in fo@ daao. us Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org -- fo OLDEN H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future 4/23/26, 6:31 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:31 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r------ ----- ---------------------------- ----- ---------------------------- --------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 6:31 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/23b5949663853e6eb66527841de0aa8e.pdf b8327480a21caa258d9f2afc3ab695f5 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-14th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 oklahom:ms for equality news In This Issue FaLaLaLa Ball Equality Business Alliance Mixer Holiday Services First Thursday Art Opening Tulsa Pride Bingo Oklahoma Wedding Show Amazon Smile 2017 Award Recipients Volunteer of the Month December Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library .. .. I, t:alt: HOWARD DOAK I918.8S1.29SO Cityscape Home Mortgage I 5801 E. 41 st Street, Suite 350 Tulsa, OK Company NMLS: 644578 I NMLS: 213229 Compassionate Tulsa WE ARE HIRING! OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, December 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. FaLaLaLa Ball Presents: OUTrageous Holiday Party December 17, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Art Exhibition Time to don your gay apparel for the annual Falalala Ball OUTrageous holiday party Admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Cash Bar Naughty & Nice Kink Room Live Entertainment Ugly Holiday Sweater Contest Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes "You think you are a drag queen" lip sync contest The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Dr. Adrian Sturdevant beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 1st from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Dr. Adrian Sturdevant lives and practices in Fayetteville, Arkansas. He began painting approximately 6 years ago and although mostly self-taught, his art has developed and flourished through mentoring by several established studio artists. Adrian's work is primarily in oil on canvas and board; he has exhibited his paintings in solo and group exhibitions throughout the region. Child Care is available in our Kids Holiday Party on the second level. Please rsvp to olivia.cotter@okeq.org if your children will be attending. PaLaLa <Ba[[<Presents Family Ties 4/23/26, 6:32 PM �OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-14th--20... Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday December 21, 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Physiques by Monique 3403 S Peoria Ave., Suite 100, Tulsa, OK 74105 Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Physiques by Monique is Tulsa's FIRST premier Indoor Cycling & Personal Training Studio. We have 15 Schwinn ICPro bikes, classes offered 7 days a week, Tulsa's best instructors, impeccable sound system, and a view of Brookside that can't be beat! We have easy online bike reservations & no monthly membership fees, simply a beautiful facility to get your fitness on! Our boutique studio is located upstairs in the historical Brook Theatre, perfect for those tired of the "big gym, meat market feel" & prefer a more intimate/personalized setting. Let your personal trainer take you through a quality, dedicated training session. No fuss, only business, dedicated all to you. Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Physiques by Monique Online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. PhysiquesbyMonique Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group E ALITY Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 usiness Alliance ` Oklahomans For Equality This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. Happy Holidays For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com 2016 Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Hanukkah Services December 26 - January 1 Temple Israel 2004 East 22nd Place Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Dec 30, 6:00 pm Jammin' with Judah followed by Hanukkah dinner The Synagogue Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 December 16, 6:15 pm Shabbat for Everyone: Chanukah Edition Counseling Services 4/23/26, 6:32 PM �OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-14th--20... Kwanzaa - Habari Gani December 26 - January 1 Kwanzaa is a week-long celebration held in the United States and in other nations of the Western African diaspora in the Americas. The celebration honors African heritage in African-American culture , and is observed from December 26 to January 1, culminating in a feast and gift-giving. Kwanzaa has seven core principles (Nguzo Saba ). It was created by Maulana Karenga and was first celebrated in 1966-67. Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Winter Solstice - Blessed Solstice December 21 Although winter is the season of dormancy, darkness and cold, the December Solstice marks the shortest day of the year/longest night and the days slowly get longer. Celebrations of the lighter days to come and nature's continuing cycle have been common throughout cultures and history with feasts, festivals and holidays around the December Solstice. Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7:00 pm Family Christmas Pageant, 10:00 pm Candlelight Service of Lessons and Carols Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 5:00 pm Candlelight Communion Service Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 2:00 pm Service of the Bells 4:00 pm & 6:00 pm Candlelight Worship Services 11:00 pm Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24, 5:30 pm & 9:00 pm Christmas Eve Candlelight Communion Dec 25, 10:00 am Christmas Worship College Hill Presbyterian Church 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Christmas Eve Worship Service Dec 25, 6:00 pm Christmas Service of Worship Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Christmas Eve Service Eastside Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Christmas Eve at Eastside Dec 25, 10:45 am Christmas Day in PJ's! The Episcopal Church of the Redeemer 213 N. Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74446 December 24, 7:00 pm The Christ Mass Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7:00 pm Christmas Eve Service Dec 25, 10:30 am Christmas Day Service Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 4:00 pm, 6:00 pm & 8:00 pm Christmas Eve Services Dec 25, 10:00 am Christmas Day Service First Christian Church 913 S Boulder Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 11:00 pm Christmas Eve Service Dec 25, 10:45 am Christmas Day Service Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Good Shepherd Episcopal Church 1420 E Dewey 4/23/26, 6:32 PM �OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-14th--20... Sapulpa, OK 74066 Dec 24, 5:30 pm Holy Eucharist, 10:30 pm Festival of Lights Dec 25, 10:30 am Holy Eucharist Hope Unitarian 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candlelight Service Joy Lutheran Church 9940 S. Yale Avenue Tulsa , OK 74137 Dec 25, 9:30 am Christmas Day Service Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, 10:00 pm Festive Hot Chocolate Bar, 11:00 pm Candlelight Midnight Mass /. '.,,, .--;,'., ~·v_1',. ;· . · ,- .· \ ~ . . ~ - Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24, 7 pm Holy Eucharist Rite II, 10:30 pm Carol Singing, 11:00 pm Holy Eucharist Rite II Dec 25, 11:00 am Holy Eucharist Rite II St Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candlelight Worship & Communion Dec 25, 10:45 am Christmas Day Service Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24, 5 pm Christmas Pageant and Eucharist Rite II 5:00 pm Communion Service with Children's Pageant 8:30 pm Choral Prelude 9:00 pm Traditional Christmas Eve Service 10:30 pm Choral Prelude 11:00 pm Traditional Christmas Eve Service Dec 25, 10:00 am Christmas Day Service with Carols Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Unity Center of Tulsa 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Christmas Eve Service Dec 25, 11:00 am Christmas Day Service Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 25, 10:30 am Candlelight Service University United Methodist Church 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 25, 10:00 am Sunday School, 11:00 am Worship First Thursday Art Opening Thursday December 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neil Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Behnaz Sohrabian beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 5th and continuing throughout the month. Born and educated in Tehran, Iran, Behnaz Sohrabian started painting as a small child of 10 and continued her passion professionally from then on. She received a BS in Applied Chemistry, a BA in Painting and a Master of Arts in Art Studies. After receiving her master's degree, she immigrated to Oklahoma to be near family. Speaking about her work, Behnaz comments, "My work is about me, my life, being a woman and the struggles that women still face in this era. I paint women as people- strong people with depth and power. I paint them as delicate and sensitive-- but not weak." With her love for art, Behnaz hopes her work can inspire the array of objectified women around the globe. Behnaz has been a recognizable presence at several art exhibitions around the globe. Her works has been displayed locally, nationally and internationally; she has been lauded with awards. In closing, she says, "My aim is just to paint simply, apply easy brush stokes, emphasize on light and shadow, and the dynamics between the subject and background". The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, 4/23/26, 6:32 PM �OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-14th--20... receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo January 14, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Online ticket purchase available soon. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Oklahoma Wedding Show Saturday, January 14, 2017, 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Expo Square Central Park Hall 1701 S. Sandusky Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 Brought to You Bi the Letter B LOVE IN BLOOM Each couple shares a distinctive story. At the Oklahoma Wedding Show, couples can find the vendors and wedding experts that can help make the big day a truly unique experience. Make sure to stop by the Oklahomans for Equality booth during the show. For more details check out Oklahoma Magazine online. Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Your Day ~ Let The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. kla/ioma Maga zine help ou plan our pc ial da l The Oklahoma cddi ng aturda , Januar 14th . The Oklahoma Wedding Show and issue are returning January 2017. Booth Spaces are now available. For more information, call 918.744.6205 or email advertising@okmog.com Amazon Smile SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ Holiday shopping is easy with Amazon's Holiday Gift Guides. #StartWithaSmile at smile.amazon.com for your holiday gifts and Amazon donates to Oklahomans for Equality Inc.. Gift Guide Link: http://smile.amazon.com/gp/charity/homepage.html?orig=%2Fgp%2Fbrowse.html%3Fnode%3D12745394011&ein=73-1300864 ------ -- --- --- -- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - • I 4/23/26, 6:32 PM �OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-14th--20... amazons '~-~n You shop. Amazon gives. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 2017 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Yoga by Zach Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org with your nominations. Volunteer of the Month December 2016 Amanda Lowe Amanda started volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in October of 2015. Amanda says she started volunteering here because "I wanted to get more involved in the LGBTQ community. As a queer person myself, I think it is important to cultivate relationships. I also wanted to be purposeful in choosing locations that deal with inter-sectional issues, which is why I am an active volunteer at OKEQ, Planned Parenthood and Together OK." Her favorite part of volunteering is the relationships with staff, volunteers and individuals that frequent the center that she has become friends with. "Helping people feel empowered to be who they are is a calling of mine and the center is a great outlet to accomplish that." When she is not volunteering at OKEQ she is a full time student at OSU-Tulsa working on a Bachelor's degree in American Studies and a minor in Women and Gender Studies. She volunteers at other social justice organizations around town and has a small hand embroidery business called Stitch Witch OK. She is also a birth doula that specializes in placenta encapsulation. Some of the things Amanda loves about the Equality Center are the special events. "My partner Molly and I love bar tending them. I also love the art gallery. One of my favorite events is More Color." She says she would absolutely recommend everyone to volunteer at the center ! "Some of my favorite people are here! The 3 hours I work at the desk are some of my favorite times. Betty and I are always getting into trouble! Also, your time is truly impactful here. It doesn't matter if you are an LGBTQ or an ally; you are a valuable part of this organization." $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. We thank you for your enthusiasm Amanda! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org December Video eNews Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Equality Center Pride Store Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by 4/23/26, 6:32 PM �OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-14th--20... Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Truth Comes Out" By: Nancy Heche This is the beginning of a beautiful love story, Nancy wrote in her diary after meeting Don Heche, the man she was to marry. Five children and 25 years of marriage later, it seemed as if they were the perfect family. Then Don was diagnosed with AIDS-the shocking discovery of his homosexual secret. This was only the beginning of loss and heartache. Shortly after Don's death, their 18-year-old son, Nathan, died in a car crash and Nancy fell into years of personal darkness. Eventually, as she was drawn into a long journey of growth and healing, her youngest daughter, Anne, began a very public lesbian love affair. Despite Nancy's life circumstances, she held on to what she knew of God's promises from Scripture and is discovering how to look at people and the world with God's perspective through eyes full of love and blessing. Her inspiring story of faith and courage will offer hope to anyone who has ever been on the brink of despair, or wondered how to respond with love to someone in a same-sex relationship. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." Open every day The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center • • JOIV\ -'-OlAVLeaitvt ~- Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. WE ARE HIRING! The Roseborough Insurance Agency 4918 S. Union Ave. Tulsa, OK 74107 Qualifications: • Experience in insurance sales Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an 4/23/26, 6:32 PM �OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-14th--20... • Great customer service • State insurance license or in process of obtaining • Speak Spanish • Familiar with Microsoft Office programs • Professional and friendly disposition • Manage time wisely • Multi-task • Pass background check • Work M-F 9-5 (occasional Sat.) Please send resumes to Kay Roseborough at: LROSEBOROUGH@allstate.com intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:32 PM �OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 9 of 9 m Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-14th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 4/23/26, 6:32 PM Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org ,I � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a0d6b92fddc87c79e189c1858b5f95f9.pdf bf0ad38da23cf445c389a574980880dc PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 oklahom:ms for equality news In This Issue Equality Business Alliance Mixer First Thursday Art Opening Tulsa Pride Bingo Holiday Services Oklahoma Wedding Show Women's March on Oklahoma Amazon Smile 2017 Award Recipients Volunteer of the Month December Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library .. .. I, t:alt: HOWARD DOAK I918.8S1.29SO Cityscape Home Mortgage I 5801 E. 41 st Street, Suite 350 Tul sa, OK Company NMLS: 644578 I NMLS: 213229 Compassionate Tulsa WE ARE HIRING! OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, December 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday December 21, 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Physiques by Monique 3403 S Peoria Ave., Suite 100, Tulsa, OK 74105 OkEq Art Exhibition The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Dr. Adrian Sturdevant beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 1st from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Physiques by Monique is Tulsa's FIRST premier Indoor Cycling & Personal Training Studio. We have 15 Schwinn ICPro bikes, classes offered 7 days a week, Tulsa's best instructors, impeccable sound system, and a view of Brookside that can't be beat! We have easy online bike reservations & no monthly membership fees, simply a beautiful facility to get your fitness on! Our boutique studio is located upstairs in the historical Brook Theatre, perfect for those tired of the "big gym, meat market feel" & prefer a more intimate/personalized setting. Let your personal trainer take you through a quality, dedicated training session. No fuss, only business, dedicated all to you. Physiques by Monique Online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. PhysiquesbyMonique Dr. Adrian Sturdevant lives and practices in Fayetteville, Arkansas. He began painting approximately 6 years ago and although mostly self-taught, his art has developed and flourished through mentoring by several established studio artists. Adrian's work is primarily in oil on canvas and board; he has exhibited his paintings in solo and group exhibitions throughout the region. Family Ties 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... E ALITY usiness Alliance Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. First Thursday Art Opening Thursday January 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neil Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Behnaz Sohrabian beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 5th and continuing throughout the month. Born and educated in Tehran, Iran, Behnaz Sohrabian started painting as a small child of 10 and continued her passion professionally from then on. She received a BS in Applied Chemistry, a BA in Painting and a Master of Arts in Art Studies. After receiving her master's degree, she immigrated to Oklahoma to be near family. Speaking about her work, Behnaz comments, "My work is about me, my life, being a woman and the struggles that women still face in this era. I paint women as people- strong people with depth and power. I paint them as delicate and sensitive-- but not weak." With her love for art, Behnaz hopes her work can inspire the array of objectified women around the globe. Behnaz has been a recognizable presence at several art exhibitions around the globe. Her works has been displayed locally, nationally and internationally; she has been lauded with awards. In closing, she says, "My aim is just to paint simply, apply easy brush stokes, emphasize on light and shadow, and the dynamics between the subject and background". Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo January 14, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 T able for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Santa Shops with Marcy & Sue at The Garden Trug. We are Tulsa's most unique gift shop, florist, garden center and landscape design group. www.TheGardenTrug.com 918-528-3828 3009 E 101st St, Tulsa, OK 74137 Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... Come in and tell us who the Santa is and get 25% off your regularly priced purchases this week only! Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 ` Oklahomans For Equality Happy Holidays Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 2016 Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Hanukkah Services December 26 - January 1 Temple Israel 2004 East 22nd Place Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Dec 30, 6:00 pm Jammin' with Judah followed by Hanukkah dinner The Synagogue Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 December 16, 6:15 pm Shabbat for Everyone: Chanukah Edition Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 Kwanzaa - Habari Gani December 26 - January 1 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... Kwanzaa is a week-long celebration held in the United States and in other nations of the Western African diaspora in the Americas. The celebration honors African heritage in African-American culture , and is observed from December 26 to January 1, culminating in a feast and gift-giving. Kwanzaa has seven core principles (Nguzo Saba ). It was created by Maulana Karenga and was first celebrated in 1966-67. Winter Solstice - Blessed Solstice December 21 Although winter is the season of dormancy, darkness and cold, the December Solstice marks the shortest day of the year/longest night and the days slowly get longer. Celebrations of the lighter days to come and nature's continuing cycle have been common throughout cultures and history with feasts, festivals and holidays around the December Solstice. Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7:00 pm Family Christmas Pageant, 10:00 pm Candlelight Service of Lessons and Carols /. '.,,, .--;,'., ~·v_1',. ;· . · ,- .· \ ~ . . ~ - Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 5:00 pm Candlelight Communion Service Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 2:00 pm Service of the Bells 4:00 pm & 6:00 pm Candlelight Worship Services 11:00 pm Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24, 5:30 pm & 9:00 pm Christmas Eve Candlelight Communion Dec 25, 10:00 am Christmas Worship College Hill Presbyterian Church 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Christmas Eve Worship Service Dec 25, 6:00 pm Christmas Service of Worship Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Christmas Eve Service Eastside Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Christmas Eve at Eastside Dec 25, 10:45 am Christmas Day in PJ's! The Episcopal Church of the Redeemer 213 N. Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74446 December 24, 7:00 pm The Christ Mass Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7:00 pm Christmas Eve Service Dec 25, 10:30 am Christmas Day Service Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 4:00 pm, 6:00 pm & 8:00 pm Christmas Eve Services Dec 25, 10:00 am Christmas Day Service First Christian Church 913 S Boulder Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 11:00 pm Christmas Eve Service Dec 25, 10:45 am Christmas Day Service Good Shepherd Episcopal Church 1420 E Dewey Sapulpa, OK 74066 Dec 24, 5:30 pm Holy Eucharist, 10:30 pm Festival of Lights Dec 25, 10:30 am Holy Eucharist Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... Hope Unitarian 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candlelight Service receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Joy Lutheran Church 9940 S. Yale Avenue Tulsa , OK 74137 Dec 25, 9:30 am Christmas Day Service SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, 10:00 pm Festive Hot Chocolate Bar, 11:00 pm Candlelight Midnight Mass St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24, 7 pm Holy Eucharist Rite II, 10:30 pm Carol Singing, 11:00 pm Holy Eucharist Rite II Dec 25, 11:00 am Holy Eucharist Rite II Live Free! Coming Out Workshop St Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candlelight Worship & Communion Dec 25, 10:45 am Christmas Day Service 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24, 5 pm Christmas Pageant and Eucharist Rite II 5:00 pm Communion Service with Children's Pageant 8:30 pm Choral Prelude 9:00 pm Traditional Christmas Eve Service 10:30 pm Choral Prelude 11:00 pm Traditional Christmas Eve Service Dec 25, 10:00 am Christmas Day Service with Carols Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Unity Center of Tulsa 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Christmas Eve Service Dec 25, 11:00 am Christmas Day Service Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 25, 10:30 am Candlelight Service The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. University United Methodist Church 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 25, 10:00 am Sunday School, 11:00 am Worship Oklahoma Wedding Show Saturday, January 14, 2017, 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Expo Square Central Park Hall 1701 S. Sandusky Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 LOVE IN BLOOM Each couple shares a distinctive story. At the Oklahoma Wedding Show, couples can find the vendors and wedding experts that can help make the big day a truly unique experience. Make sure to stop by the Oklahomans for Equality booth during the show. For more details check out Oklahoma Magazine online. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan The OKLAHOMA EDDING ■ SHOW Saturday JANUARY 14 1n AM Tn d PM 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... ■ vr, ■ w ■ ,...,..,.. ••• Expo Square • Central Park Hall • Tulsa Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY Women's March on Oklahoma @ 4:30 pm Saturday, January 21, 10:00 a.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73105 The Women's March is a national movement to unify and empower everyone who stands for human rights, civil liberties, and social justice for all. We gather in community to find healing and strength through tolerance, civility, and compassion. We welcome all people to join us as we unite locally and nationally. Join us on January 21st as we march in solidarity with our sister marches around the globe. $5.00 per Session To register and/or donate to the event, please visit either Eventbrite or Meetup at the links below. Eventbrite v Meetup Gender Support Program Please let us know how you can help by filling out the volunteer intake form. Thank you for your support! Amazon Smile Holiday shopping is easy with Amazon's Holiday Gift Guides. #StartWithaSmile at smile.amazon.com for your holiday gifts and Amazon donates to Oklahomans for Equality Inc.. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Gift Guide Link: http://smile.amazon.com/gp/charity/homepage.html?orig=%2Fgp%2Fbrowse.html%3Fnode%3D12745394011&ein=73-1300864 - - - - - - - - - --- ----- amazons n ,""111111111_ _.... • e You shop. Amazon gives. 2017 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org with your nominations. Game Night Volunteer of the Month December 2016 Amanda Lowe Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... Amanda started volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in October of 2015. Amanda says she started volunteering here because "I wanted to get more involved in the LGBTQ community. As a queer person myself, I think it is important to cultivate relationships. I also wanted to be purposeful in choosing locations that deal with inter-sectional issues, which is why I am an active volunteer at OKEQ, Planned Parenthood and Together OK." Her favorite part of volunteering is the relationships with staff, volunteers and individuals that frequent the center that she has become friends with. "Helping people feel empowered to be who they are is a calling of mine and the center is a great outlet to accomplish that." When she is not volunteering at OKEQ she is a full time student at OSU-Tulsa working on a Bachelor's degree in American Studies and a minor in Women and Gender Studies. She volunteers at other social justice organizations around town and has a small hand embroidery business called Stitch Witch OK. She is also a birth doula that specializes in placenta encapsulation. Some of the things Amanda loves about the Equality Center are the special events. "My partner Molly and I love bar tending them. I also love the art gallery. One of my favorite events is More Color." She says she would absolutely recommend everyone to volunteer at the center ! "Some of my favorite people are here! The 3 hours I work at the desk are some of my favorite times. Betty and I are always getting into trouble! Also, your time is truly impactful here. It doesn't matter if you are an LGBTQ or an ally; you are a valuable part of this organization." Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno We thank you for your enthusiasm Amanda! The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org December Video eNews Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Equality Center Pride Store Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. VE H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Self-Made Man" By: Norah Vincent A journalist's provocative and spellbinding account of her eighteen months spent disguised as a man. Norah Vincent became an instant media sensation with the publication of Self-Made Man, her take on just how hard it is to be a man, even in a man's world. Following in the tradition of John Howard Griffin (Black Like Me), Vincent spent a year and a half disguised as her male alter ego, Ned, exploring what men are like when women aren't around. As Ned, she joined a bowling team, took a high-octane sales job, went on dates with women (and men), visited strip clubs, and even managed to infiltrate a monastery and a men's therapy group. At once thought-provoking and pure fun to read, Self-Made Man is a sympathetic and thrilling tour de force of immersion journalism. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 WE ARE HIRING! The Roseborough Insurance Agency 4918 S. Union Ave. Tulsa, OK 74107 Qualifications: • Experience in insurance sales • Great customer service • State insurance license or in process of obtaining • Speak Spanish • Familiar with Microsoft Office programs • Professional and friendly disposition • Manage time wisely • Multi-task • Pass background check • Work M-F 9-5 (occasional Sat.) Please send resumes to Kay Roseborough at: LROSEBOROUGH@allstate.com Santa Shops with Marcy & Sue at The Garden Trug. We are Tulsa's most unique gift shop, florist, garden center and landscape design group. www.TheGardenTrug.com 918-528-3828 3009 E 101st St, Tulsa, OK 74137 Come in and tell us who the Santa is and get 25% off your regularly priced purchases this week only! Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 6:33 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/cfada52f4f79c5e007ff49a3a2324ae9.pdf 1727dced3aab7a0397e9d276433e4bf7 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 28th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-28th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e First Thursday Art Opening December 28th, 2016 oklahom:ms for equality news In This Issue First Thursday Art Opening Tulsa Pride Bingo Oklahoma Wedding Show Equality Business Alliance Mixer Women's March on Oklahoma Amazon Smile Thursday January 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neil Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 2017 Award Recipients Volunteer of the Month The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Behnaz Sohrabian beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 5th and continuing throughout the month. Born and educated in Tehran, Iran, Behnaz Sohrabian started painting as a small child of 10 and continued her passion professionally from then on. She received a BS in Applied Chemistry, a BA in Painting and a Master of Arts in Art Studies. After receiving her master's degree, she immigrated to Oklahoma to be near family. Speaking about her work, Behnaz comments, "My work is about me, my life, being a woman and the struggles that women still face in this era. I paint women as people- strong people with depth and power. I paint them as delicate and sensitive-- but not weak." With her love for art, Behnaz hopes her work can inspire the array of objectified women around the globe. Behnaz has been a recognizable presence at several art exhibitions around the globe. Her works has been displayed locally, nationally and internationally; she has been lauded with awards. In closing, she says, "My aim is just to paint simply, apply easy brush stokes, emphasize on light and shadow, and the dynamics between the subject and background". December Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library Compassionate Tulsa WE ARE HIRING! The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 12 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Dr. Adrian Sturdevant beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 1st from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo January 14, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Dr. Adrian Sturdevant lives and practices in Fayetteville, Arkansas. He began painting approximately 6 years ago and although mostly self-taught, his art has developed and flourished through mentoring by several established studio artists. Adrian's work is primarily in oil on canvas and board; he has exhibited his paintings in solo and group exhibitions throughout the region. $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 T able for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Oklahoma Wedding Show Saturday, January 14, 2017, 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Expo Square Central Park Hall 1701 S. Sandusky Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 LOVE IN BLOOM Each couple shares a distinctive story. At the Oklahoma Wedding Show, couples can find the vendors and wedding experts that can help make the big day a truly unique experience. Make sure to stop by the Oklahomans for Equality booth during the show. For more details check out Oklahoma Magazine online. Family Ties (Jo-mb S£b a& at; -.- 1i 7 1-..T~e__ 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 28th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-28th--20... OKLAHOMA EDDING Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org SHOW Lawyer in the Library Saturday JANUARY 14 10AMTO4PM Expo Square • Central Park Hall • Tulsa December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday January 18, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Hosted by Hyatt regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 E ALITY Business Alliance This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of Oklahoma's vibrant business, entertainment and cultural districts. The downtown Tulsa hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, the luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and over 51 restaurants and bars. Please be advised we will only validate self-parking in the attached garage. HYATT For more information on rooms, rates and amenities click here or follow the event on Facebook. REGENCY" For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Women's March on Oklahoma Saturday, January 21, 10:00 a.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73105 Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. The Women's March is a national movement to unify and empower everyone who stands for human rights, civil liberties, and social justice for all. We gather in community to find healing and strength through tolerance, civility, and compassion. We welcome all people to join us as we unite locally and nationally. Join us on January 21st as we march in solidarity with 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 28th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-28th--20... our sister marches around the globe. To register and/or donate to the event, please visit either Eventbrite or Meetup at the links below. Eventbrite Meetup Please let us know how you can help by filling out the volunteer intake form. Thank you for your support! Amazon Smile Dr. Kurt Choate Holiday shopping is easy with Amazon's Holiday Gift Guides. #StartWithaSmile at smile.amazon.com for your holiday gifts and Amazon donates to Oklahomans for Equality Inc.. Gift Guide Link: http://smile.amazon.com/gp/charity/homepage.html?orig=%2Fgp%2Fbrowse.html%3Fnode%3D12745394011&ein=73-1300864 - - - - - - - - - amazons '~"""'~ • e You shop. Amazon gives. 2017 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org with your nominations. Volunteer of the Month December 2016 Amanda Lowe Amanda started volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in October of 2015. Amanda says she started volunteering here because "I wanted to get more involved in the LGBTQ community. As a queer person myself, I think it is important to cultivate relationships. I also wanted to be purposeful in choosing locations that deal with inter-sectional issues, which is why I am an active volunteer at OKEQ, Planned Parenthood and Together OK." Her favorite part of volunteering is the relationships with staff, volunteers and individuals that frequent the center that she has become friends with. "Helping people feel empowered to be who they are is a calling of mine and the center is a great outlet to accomplish that." When she is not volunteering at OKEQ she is a full time student at OSU-Tulsa working on a Bachelor's degree in American Studies and a minor in Women and Gender Studies. She volunteers at other social justice organizations around town and has a small hand embroidery business called Stitch Witch OK. She is also a birth doula that specializes in placenta encapsulation. Some of the things Amanda loves about the Equality Center are the special events. "My partner Molly and I love bar tending them. I also love the art gallery. One of my favorite events is More Color." She says she would absolutely recommend everyone to volunteer at the center ! "Some of my favorite people are here! The 3 hours I work at the desk are some of my favorite times. Betty and I are always getting into trouble! Also, your time is truly impactful here. It doesn't matter if you are an LGBTQ or an ally; you are a valuable part of this organization." We thank you for your enthusiasm Amanda! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 December Video eNews Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 28th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-28th--20... anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Equality Center Pride Store Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Marked" By: P.C. Cast & Kristin Cast The House of Night series is set in a world very much like our own, except in 16-year-old Zoey Redbird's world, vampyres have always existed. In this first book in the series, Zoey enters the House of Night, a school where, after having undergone the Change, she will train to become an adult vampire--that is, if she makes it through the Change. Not all of those who are chosen do. It's tough to begin a new life, away from her parents and friends, and on top of that, Zoey finds she is no average fledgling. She has been Marked as special by the vampyre Goddess, Nyx. But she is not the only fledgling at the House of Night with special powers. When she discovers that the leader of the Dark Daughters, the school's most elite club, is misusing her Goddess-given gifts, Zoey must look deep within herself for the courage to embrace her destiny--with a little help from her new vampyre friends. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." Non-Binary Support Group The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org • Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com • JOIV\ .our SOS Group 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 28th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-28th--20... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org WE ARE HIRING! The Roseborough Insurance Agency 4918 S. Union Ave. Tulsa, OK 74107 Qualifications: • Experience in insurance sales • Great customer service • State insurance license or in process of obtaining • Speak Spanish • Familiar with Microsoft Office programs • Professional and friendly disposition • Manage time wisely • Multi-task • Pass background check • Work M-F 9-5 (occasional Sat.) Please send resumes to Kay Roseborough at: LROSEBOROUGH@allstate.com Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 28th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-28th--20... more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 28th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-28th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 28th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-28th--20... A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 28th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-28th--20... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 6:33 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3080df9dd48d433f91717ea5ca66a19f.pdf 9e89bd3f66751e09029080e80e5ae43c PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor "First Thursday" Art Exhibit April Volunteer of the Month Video eNews Ladies Social Club "'I 0 4 t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - KeepComing BackMeditation -- -Group - oeo"" MOREcolor e year Jan r f irst na Lawyer in the Library . EBA Mixer Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! EBA Sponsor Tulsa Metro Softball League Pride Store Rainbow Library P.S. Gordon Exhibit Kelly Kirby CPA Faith, Trust and Pixie Dus Certified Public Accountant Oklahoma Board Association Law Day a professional corporation Grab Your Balls! Ms. Jolt Pageant (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of Kris Fairchild Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: Kris Fairchild April 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4 th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Kris Fairchild beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. A lifelong Oklahoman, Kris was exposed to art and creativity at an early age. Her art began to be influenced many years ago, while as a young girl, she watched her father create beautiful stained glass windows and spent her summers enjoying nature . She graduated from University of Central 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... Oklahoma with a degree in formation art. For many years she worked in other fields ranging from managing retail to advertising, her passion has always been for art and nature. Over the years, Kris has taught art classes ranging from ceramics, to sculpture and painting; she spends her summers volunteering with children's camps. Today Kris transforms those experiences into the swirls, curls and mandalas found in her acrylic paintings. The paintings each explore symbolism thru images of nature, fantasy and geometric shapes. Mandalas and trees both are often showcased in Fairchild's paintings. To her, the mandalas represent balance, harmony and unity; they are symbolic of the universe. Trees represent life and growth; they are a symbolic of wisdom, strength, beauty, and protection. Many other images also find symbolism in her paintings. Fairchild's paintings combine a variety of techniques and bright colors giving the paintings an energetic and vivid look, as if the light is glowing through them. The structured geometric patterns next to the more free forms of nature and a bit of whimsy, invite the viewer to experience the joy she finds in life. For over a decade Kris has enjoyed sharing her work at a variety of art festivals, fairs, galleries, and restaurants. Her work is in private collections across the US and in Europe. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library Volunteer of the Month April 2016 Samantha Free Samantha found out about the organization after reading an article in the local paper,the idea of being involved with an organization that at its core is about showing people it really is okay to just be themselves is something that appeals to her. Samantha challenges you to volunteer, Whether you are an LGBTQ individual or an ally like she is, you are always made to feel welcome when you walk through okeq's door. February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Ladies Social Club April 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 April is a busy month for LSC! We have TWO events! April 8, 6-9 p.m. - Trivia Night at OkEq Who was the only president to be unanimously elected? Which planet is closest to the sun? If you love trivia (and shenanigans!), you're in luck because LSC's April Friday night event is Trivia Night! We'll play in teams and the questions will cover a wide variety of subjects. If you've played live bar or pub trivia before, this is very similar, but without the bar. Prizes will be awarded to top teams, and of course you'll get smarty pants bragging rights! Mark it on your calendars and bring your thinking caps! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org April 9, 2-3:30 p.m. - Ladies Self Defense Class IMPORTANT: You must pre-register for this class, and it is NOT being held at OkEq! Learn how to defend yourself! This is a private (just for us!), ladies-only, hands-on class that will teach you the basics of self defense, taught by a renowned taekwondo Master and instructor at his studio in south Tulsa. The class is $25, and you'll receive 90 minutes of potentially life-saving training! Join LSC's private Facebook group OR email Kelley for all the information and to register (contact info is below). If you are an LGBT woman or an ally and you haven't attended an LSC meeting before, please consider stopping by and checking us out! Not only are we bringing women together from all over our beautiful city to develop a sense of community at our monthly events at OkEq (which average around 15-20 people, and of course there are always snacks!), but our Facebook group has become incredibly active! A lot of people in the Facebook group have been organizing group activities around Tulsa and surrounding areas that are completely independent of our Friday night events! Right now there are discussions in the works about hiking, floating the river this summer and attending various sporting events. Connect with us via the contact information listed below, and we hope to see your smiling faces soon! Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... Keep Coming Back Meditation Group April 12, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This new group will be meeting every Tuesday from 6:30 to 7:30 in the wellness room beginning April 12. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Call for Entries MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2016 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award, and a People's choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. KEY INFORMATION ( please review full submission requirements and enter online ) May 8th: Submission deadline Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 2 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Entry Fee: A single entry fee (per artist, NOT per piece) of $10 for up to five works May 25th: Artist notification of acceptance into the exhibition June 9th: Delivery of Art Work, 3 to 6pm All work must be appropriately ready to display (see the submission requirements) June 9th: MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public, cash prizes awarded, surprises and live performances, catered cuisine and bar, sale of fine art. Artists are encouraged to bring as many guests as they like. June 9th-12th: Run of the Show June 13th: Pick up unsold work, 3 to 6pm To Enter: Go to https://morecolor2016.artcall.org/ for online submission of entries. All entries must be made online. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Thank you for being part of MOREcolor 2016! Lawyer in the Library April 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center - Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... Brought to You Bi the Letter B Equality Business Alliance Mixer First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. April 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. 108 Contemporary 108 E. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74103 E UALITY Business Alliance The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Steven Michael Hall Photography will be hosting our April EBA networking event. Our event will be at the 108 Contemporary studio located at 108 East Brady Street. Steven took the leap into photography in 1993 when he jumped from the writing and editing side of newspapers. He has always been intrigued by photography's ability to show potentials and personal revealings. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ if •. . . Tulsa Area Prime Timers The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo April 22, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. We will also be raffling off a seat for the 2016 Equality Gala held April 30th. Huge thanks to Jamie Catlett for the donation! You don't want to miss the fun, put this on your calendar now! To purchase tickets click on one of the links below: $10 for general admission through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $20 Adult Beverage admission Buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited ------- -- ----------drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org ----- $5.00 per Session Master Class with Will & Anthony Nunziata April 30, 11:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Norman Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The Schusterman Foundation will be sponsoring a master class for Tulsa Public Schools' vocal music students. The New York singing duo, Will and Anthony Nunziata, will be performing and leading the master class on April 30,2016, in the Norman Theatre of the Performing Arts Center in Tulsa. The class will be from 11 a.m. - noon. Students from Nathan Hale, Washington, Rogers and Memorial High Schools will be performing. Admission is free. For more information contact Ann Tomlins at tomlian@tulsaschools.org Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm At SpiritBank Mortgage, we make homeownership dreams come true. We offer awide variety of loan options and work as your trusted advisor to tailor o loon program to fit your individual needs. As we work together to get you into your dream home, here ore some of the items that might be requested during the lending process: A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. g E UALITY ~ Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Business Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Thank you, TMSL Board Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Side by Side: On Having a Gay or Lesbian Sibling" By Andrew R. Gottlieb, PhD - Editor In their own words, 18 men and women share their thoughts and feelings about their gay brothers and sisters. What they have to say is revealingabout themselves, about the nature of sibling relationships, and about their role as peacemakers. Gay men and lesbian women often disclose their sexuality to their siblings before anyone else in their families. Side by Side examines the impact of a brother or sister coming out and of the way that a gay person's siblings are sometimes placed in the position of being a social/ Side ~-Side Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... moral bridge between the generations. "Clearly Tina has been a major force in my life, and it doesn't just end with me. My three children and husband have all learned by Tina's example; we all do what we can to bring fairness and equality to everyone. With a smile on my face, I occasionally say to Tina, 'Look what you've done to me!' Without her, I would never be where I am or who I am." Andrew R Gottlieb, PhD • Editor The contributors to Side by Side come from varying religious and economic backgrounds. In plain language that is easily accessible to most adolescents and adults, they candidly relate the experience of what it was like to find out about their sibling's homosexuality and how that knowledge affected them over time. Some of their perspectives may surprise you. Many will move you. You'll also find a list of suggested readings and a list of organizations offering support and information for siblings of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . P.S. Gordon Exhibit April 1 - April 28 Living Arts Tulsa 307 E Mathew B. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org As part of our mission, Living Arts is establishing the Living Arts Living Legend Artist Award honoring those artists responsible for pushing the art world forward, establishing the reputation of Tulsa as an artistic city, and contributing to the encouragement and inspiration of other artists in our community. AND THE GIFT OF FALLING SNOW P.S. GORDON During April 2016, Living Arts will be exhibiting works by Patrick (P.S.) Gordon never before seen in a public exhibition. Many of these works are held in private collections and all of them will demonstrate Pat's exquisite skill and never-before-seen subject matter. For more information visit http://livingarts.org/ps-gordon-mrs-lennox-gift-falling-snow ---------------- Ms. Jolt Pageant April 8, 8:00 p.m. New Age Renegades 1649 S. Main St., Tulsa, OK 74119 Ms. JOLT PAGEANT WHEN: APRIL 8th, 2016 {8:00 pm Start!) WHERE: New Age Renegades SUPPORT THE JOLT TOURNAMENT AND PAGEANT CONTESTANTS, AS WELL AS SAY FAREWELL TO THE CURRENT MS JOLT! 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust April 8-10 Renaissance Tulsa Hotel & Convention Center 6808 S 107th E Ave Tulsa, OK 74133 Please join Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Star for Coronation IX Weekend April 8-10, 2016 at the Renaissance Tulsa Hotel and Convention Center Visit our Coronation IX website pages - www.impcourtok.org for t ickets (early bird rate ends March 31, 2016 ) and Program Ad Information (Ads needed by March 4, 2016 ) Voting for ICAO's Reign IX Monarchs (this is a public vote) Must be 18 with Valid Oklahoma ID Tulsa Locations: April 1st 9 pm - 11 pm at the Tulsa Eagle April 2nd 1 pm - 3 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center OKC Location: April 2nd 8 pm - 11 pm at the Habana Inn Hallway between Copa & Finishline Oklahoma Bar Association Law Day April 28, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. The OBA will provide free legal advice on Thursday, April 28 from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m., as part of its annual Law Day celebration and the Ask A Lawyer TV show, broadcasting on OETA. Viewers, statewide can call toll-free 1-800-456-8525 and Tulsa area residents can call 918-838-8770 to have their legal questions answered and get legal advice, at NO CHARGE, by the volunteer attorneys. Viewers can also choose to email their questions to askalawyer@okbar.org The OBA has been providing this community service for more than 35 years. Grab Your Balls! May 6, 8:00 p.m. AMF Sheridan Lanes 3121 S. Sheridan Rd. Tulsa, OK 74145 GRAB YOUR BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Come join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday May 6 th for some bowling L - - _ _ ...Ji _ _ _ _ _ _ _ ..._ .,.:L . - T,,....,,_Tm L _ , ,! _ _ .... _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ ..._ ' - '- - - _i _ _ , .._ - - - ....l ..._ _ 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... run ana suppon me JVJ.ff nownng murnamenr. 1ou aon I neea IO know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. r---------------------------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:39 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8d60ce6b1d1b4daf8d82b28bdec8db09.pdf c9a10f82b9bb2f0b220ed004d1f6aae1 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 1 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor MLK Parade Video eNews January Volunteer of the Month Austin Stumpff Life Remeberance EBA Mixer Tulsa Pride Meeting ror tne year Jan. r f irst narn Tulsa Pride Bingo Gay Men's Dinner Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Before the I Do Ladies Social Club Wild Hearts Ball Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Gamily Hearts Day -Happy --Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group. Non-Binary Support Group Celebrating the Body Erotic (918) 747-5466 Blood Drive The Empress' Ball 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Tulsa's Roughneck Roller Derby OSU Research Project Pride Store Rainbow Library 2016 Equality Gala Workforce Tulsa Gala Award Recipients Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. MLK Jr. Day Parade "One Race: The Human Race" OkEq Board Meeting 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 2 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... January 18, 10:00 a.m. - Meet at the Center, 11:00 a.m. Parade Begins Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 7 p.m. Thursday, January 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Dave Muller. " A Sense of Wonder..." Tulsa, Oklahoma holds one of the largest MLK parades in the United States to commemorate the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Oklahomans for Equality will be marching with the rainbow flag and we invite you come join us. Please dress comfortably and weather appropriate. We will meet at the center at 10 a.m. and carpool to the starting line. Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our introductory video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. http://youtu.be/g2MBeHbgGYs Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Volunteer of the Month January 2016 Kevin Reiswig 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 3 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Kevin Reiswig has been volunteering at OKEQ since April of 2014. His involvement with OKEQ started when he volunteered at the Tulsa Zoo for 17 years and loved it but due to health problems, He was unable to continue. Visiting and talking with the people at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center developed into a passion to help and become active in the LGBT community. Kevin remembers walking through OKEQ's doors with his partner Steve Breeden (of 32 years). He states, "Everyone was so nice and helpful; I thought I would try it just to see if I could help out and here it is almost 2 years later!" Kevin's favorite part of volunteering with OKEQ is working with a diverse group of people who are making a wonderful contribution to our community. Kevin states, "I help answer the "Help Line" where questions can be as simple as "what are your hours? to as complex as a distress call. We do as much as possible to help. Anything a volunteer does helps the center run day to day operations." When Kevin is not volunteering his time at OKEQ, He is enjoying cooking and making wonderful desserts, as well as feeding his main hobby, which is Fused and Stained Glass Art. A challenge from January's Volunteer of the month - Kevin Reiswig, "I would highly recommend anyone who is able to, to do some type of volunteering. OKEQ is always looking for good volunteers. If it's not a fit for you, there are hundreds of other places in the Tulsa area that can use your expertise and or your experiences! Plus it's a wonderful feeling to give back and help others." If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Life Remembrance Service for Austin Stumpff January 16, 3:00 p.m. Club Majestic 124 N. Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74103 There will be a Life Remembrance service at Club Majestic this Saturday, January the 16th , at 3:00 p.m. Located at 124 N. Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74103 The family has invited his friends to come and share their fond memories of Austin in this celebration. Light food and light beverages will be served. To view his full obituary click here. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator Every Tuesday in February from 12:00 p.m.-5:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Equality Business Alliance Mixer January 20, 6:00 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East Second Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 Counseling Services 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 4 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... E UALITY Business Alliance Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of Oklahoma's vibrant business, entertainment and cultural districts. The downtown Tulsa hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, the luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and over 50 restaurants and bars. Please be advised we will only validate self-parking in the attached garage. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - - for more information. Counseling Services Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting January 28, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 T U L S A A WEEKE Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org ---- D OF PRIDE 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 5 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Counseling Services Our monthly meeting to discuss the Tulsa Pride Festival will be held in the Event Center at the Equality Center. If you have any questions or require more information, please contact Sarah Miller at sarah.miller@okeq.org or simply call the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 918-743-4297. Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org January 29, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for a $150 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Gay Men's Dinner Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org February 2, 6:30 p.m. Michael V's Restaurant and Bar 8222 E. 103rd Street, Tulsa, OK 74133 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 6 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop MICHAEL V's RESTAURANT & BAR Our next dinner is this coming up on Tuesday February 2nd. We are eating at Michael V's Restaurant and Bar. It is located at 8222 E. 103rd Street. This is just east of Memorial on 103rd. street. Their web site is michaelvsrestaurant.com If you are coming please RSVP so we have and accurate headcount for the reservation. For more information please contact Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group February 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. Intake Mia Pearl The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Facilitator Jim Scholl "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: featuring the works of Bruce Docker Thursday, February 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Bruce Docker beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Bruce comes from a long line of artists; his formal training includes years of 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 7 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Tuesday afternoon meetings and study with the Canadian artist, John Nagy (developer of the famous "Learn-to-Draw" kit). His father drew the original series of cigarette smoking woodpeckers that are used in all traditional tattoo shops today and his maternal grandmother was a professional artist who painted vase highlights with devastating accuracy. Additionally his grandfather was the infamous paint-by-numbers artist and rum runner of Kansas City in the 1940's. His style is a combination of his family's talent and history in a cohesively rambling style. A true Renaissance man, Bruce states: "I believe in total respect for my materials. I once used an entire box of Crayola 64's without breaking a single crayon, I covered my driveway in Scotch tape to protect my sidewalk chalk drawings from the rain, and the cloth of my canvas is made only from the wool of free range sheep. While I am always learning and trying new approaches, I paint for the joy of creating art that I feel is beautiful. My hope is that when you view my paintings, you will feel, see, and agree that I have accomplished what I set out to do." Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders The show begins with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Before the I Do February 6, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 8 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... "Before The I Do" is a workshop that gives couples practical tools to use now or later on when you need them. The workshop covers: 3 keys to a great relationship, how to work as a team to solve conflict, how to keep the romance alive and much more. Carrie Little The Speaker-Listener technique helps each of you to be heard in times of stress and is a crowd favorite. Whether you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you WILL benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfying relationships! THIS WORKSHOP IS OPEN FOR ANYONE TO ATTEND AND IS FREE! Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) on February 6th from noon to 4pm. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carrie@protectioncoalition.org - ·- - - - - - for more information or to reserve your space today! Ladies Social Club February 12, 6:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session Yoga by Zach >:ji ake A Cla~~t:<: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! This brand new women's programming provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! A tremendous thank you goes out to all the ladies who turned out for our inaugural event in January. Game night was a lot of fun with plenty of hilarity and good times for all! If you missed it, we look forward to seeing you next time! Our next event is an Ice Breaker Ice Cream Social on Feb. 12! We'll start by playing a few Every 4th Sunday of the 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 9 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... games to get to know one another better, followed by tasty ice cream sundaes as we mix and mingle. We'll also have coffee and hot chocolate (and maybe some of that addictive popcorn!) in case the idea of ice cream in February gives you the chills. Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com . The 15th Annual Wild Hearts Ball Presents, 2nd Chance Prom at Equality High February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Admission: Donations to the Equality Center renovations fund. Cash Bar, Raffle prizes and cookies baked by the PTA. Oklahomans for Equality is having a prom. Remember your prom? Many of us were denied the right to go with the person we really wanted to go with to our high school prom. Some of us could not wear the outfit we wanted to wear to the prom. This is your chance to do the Prom your way. Dust off those old prom dresses and tuxedos, or come with a totally new and funky creation of your own. Attend the prom you dreamed of. NO DATE NECESSARY. Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Gender Outreach You might be chosen Prom Royalty. So get your crew to vote for you. You could be our Prom Queen or Prom King and at Equality High you can have two queens or two kings. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Principal Jenkins and Coach Sivadon along with Home Ec teacher Ms. Brewster will be chaperoning and judging the Dirty Dancing Contest. So work on your moves and gyrations. Lambda Al-Anon Group Dance the night away as you enjoy decades of top hits by DJ Crystal. Cheesy blue ... ruffled tuxedos, poofy taffeta dresses, clichéd themes, color coordinated corsages, sweaty palms, plenty of dad's Aqua Velva, awkward slow dancing, plush ride for the big night, the obligatory staged photo... All of it adds up to one word: PROM! Prizes will be given for the most outrageous corsage. Every Friday 7 p.m. And yes the punch is spiked. Entertainment and childcare will be available upstairs in the wellness room. Gamily Presents "Happy Hearts Day" February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 10 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Gamily will be throwing a Happy Hearts Day party upstairs during the Wild Hearts Ball. There will be crafts, snacks, music, and lots of glitter! Parents and guardians can drop the children off and enjoy the prom while the kids play, create and dance to their happy hearts content in the wellness room. make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. BE MINE Survivors of Incest Anonymous To RSVP please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Every Saturday 12:30 pm Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group February 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Intake Mia Pearl Non-Binary Support Group February 17, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitator Jim Scholl Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno A new transgender support group is starting for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Celebrating the Body Erotic (CBE) February 20-21, 9:00 a.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 612 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 A CBE is a first step with Body Electric. Come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 11 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. They begin to realize the satisfaction that comes from learning how to both give and receive pleasure through erotic touch. The workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: • The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. • He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. • He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Celebrating the Body Erotic is a full two-day workshop (9am-7pm) for those who are ready to vigorously explore new levels of feeling, both within themselves and within a community of men. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most intensives, advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric School. sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. ***Pre-Registration is required for this workshop!*** Early registration discounts and scholarships are still available. For more information visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschool.com, or contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com. Give Blood for Some Buddy You Love February 24, 3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 3 to 7 p.m. Feb. 24 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St. in Tulsa. All women and heterosexual men are encouraged to donate, and new rules from the FDA will now allow the Oklahoma Blood Institute to accept donations from gay and bisexual men who have been celibate for a year or longer. Still, we know that leaves out a lot of you, so OkEq is encouraging all gay and bi men to find a buddy who is willing to donate on their behalf and accompany that buddy to the blood drive! Gay and bi men who attend will get the same post-donation snacks and goodies as their buddies, and OkEq will have a photo booth set up where you can commemorate the occasion! We'll also have a letter to the FDA that you can sign stating that you support blood donation standards that maintain the safety of the nation's blood supply while still allowing more gay and bi men to donate. For more information about the blood drive, contact Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org. For information about blood donation, including whether you're eligible, call the Oklahoma Blood Institute at (918) 477-0400 or go online to www.obi.org . Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 12 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... The Empress' Ball - An Imperial Masquerade Januaray 30, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa , Oklahoma 74120 Benefiting the ICAO Operational Fund Dress Code - Formal or Theme $20.00 Donation at the door includes Open Bar Lesser Value Donations at the door can purchase Drink Tickets for $5.00 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- Live entertainment provided by the Empresses. Music by DJ Scandal (Absolute Emperor II Adrian) Awards will be presented to Best Dressed / Best in Theme For more information contact impcourtok@gmail.com Tulsa's Roughneck Roller Derby is looking for a home! Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org ---- Who are we? Roughneck Roller Derby was established in 2012 by a group of ladies looking for a new way to get in shape, make friends and play some roller derby! We train hard 3 days a week to be the best skaters we can be, because we want to represent Tulsa to the best of our abilities. Roughneck Roller Derby is a non-for-profit currently seeking 501(c)(3) status with the IRS. The league is run by unpaid league members who contribute their talents to make the league successful. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ---- We need your help! We want to bring this action-packed hard-hitting sport called roller derby to you, and your friends and family. In order to do that we need a venue to host our bouts (that's derby for games). We need roughly 9,000 square feet. The track dimensions are 75 ft wide by 108 ft long. Ideally there would be some additional space for seating. Wood, concrete floor, basketball court all are viable options. Do you know of a place in Tulsa that might work for us? It could be a gym, or a warehouse. Let's put our heads together and get creative! Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 13 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org If you have any leads please contact: Cat Cox - 432-295-2500 interleague_roughneckrd@yahoo.com or catherinejcox@gmail.com www.roughneckrollerderby.com Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 14 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/ or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 15 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Kevin" a novel by Paul Kupperberg Kevin Keller is the first openly gay character in the history of Archie Comics and currently stars in his own best-selling series of comic books. In this special paper-over-board novel, we focus on Kevin's early, awkward years and the struggles and joys of his inspirational road to self-discovery. This sweet and funny coming-of-age story features a strong anti-bullying message and is a perfect gift for Archie fans, parents, and anyone who has-or is-struggling to find their place. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Equality Gala 2016: The Revolution Continues Saturday, April 30, 2016 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 16 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Co-Chairs Mary & Sharon Bishop-Baldwin invite you to the 2016 Equality Gala. For sponsorship and ticket information click here. Oklahomans for Equality 2016 Award Recipients Lifetime Achievement Award 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 17 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Kirk Holt: With more than a decade of leadership in the organization and more than 30 years of support and involvement, Kirk has served the LGBTQ community of northeastern Oklahoma well. The Lobby of the Equality Center is dedicated to the memory of his life partner of 21 years, Robert S. Cisar, Jr. Kirk and Robert were among the early champions who were dedicated to securing a permanent home for the Tulsa LGBTQ community. Kirk was the lead designer on the renovations and remodel of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. He has served on the Board and Executive Committee as Advisor, Vice President, Treasurer and 4 years as Gala chair and co-chair. Because of Kirk's tireless work, a record setting amount of money was raised during the time in which he was a Gala Co-Chair, helping to assure that the building note was paid off and the Center is free from debt. Bishop-Baldwin, Barton and Phillips Civil Rights Advocacy Award. 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 18 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Rachel Tudor: The U.S. Justice Department is suing Southeastern Oklahoma State University, charging that school officials discriminated against Professor Rachel Tudor when she changed gender during her time working there. She was hired in 2004 as a tenure-track assistant professor in the English Department. In 2007, Tudor told school officials that she planned to transition from male to female during the academic year, took the name Rachel, and began wearing women's clothes and a traditionally female hairstyle. U.S. Attorney General Eric H. Holder Jr. announced in December 2014 that federal prohibitions against sex discrimination include protections based on gender identity. Corporate Inclusion Award 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 19 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Paula Marshall and Bama Companies: In 2015, Bama Companies added gender identity and gender expression to their nondiscrimination policy and begin to provide transgender health benefits in their employee compensation package. Founded in 1937, Bama Companies is the leading innovator of bakery products that cater to the needs of the largest and most well-known restaurant chains on the planet. The company's core product lines are hand-held pies, biscuits, buns, pie shells and pizza crusts. Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 20 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... The Rev. Todd Freeman: The Eastern Oklahoma Presbytery of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) voted against a proposed change in the denomination's constitution that would recognize same-sex marriage. The presbytery voted 46 to 33, against the change, defining marriage not as the union of a man and a woman but as a "unique commitment between two people." During the debate before the vote, Todd Freeman of College Hill Presbyterian Church in Tulsa said for the first time publicly that he is gay. He read a statement telling of his struggle with being gay. "This isn't about me but rather about God calling people, regardless of their sexual orientation, into a loving and committed relationship. And with all my heart, soul, mind and strength, I am among those that no longer believe that homosexuality, nor its expression in relationship, is in and of itself a sin." Community Hero Award. 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 21 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Chris Shoaf: Chris has advocated for new educational standards for Oklahoma's comprehensive HIV/AIDS education policy, which has not been updated since 1987. He was instrumental in creating a pathway with local Walgreens pharmacies to provide postexposure prophylaxis (PEP) prescriptions for victims of sexual assault. Chris also went to the state Capitol multiple times last legislative session and met with lawmakers to find support to defeat more than a dozen anti-LGBTQ bills that were offered. He also collaborated on reorganizing the Tulsa AIDS coalition, which had almost ceased to exist after several community leaders retired. It is now called TIDAL, the Tulsa Infectious Disease AIDS League. Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 22 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Marley Groves: Marley started the Gay Straight Alliance at McAlester High School with very little support from the administration, but she had attended Camp Out and Camp Anytown and was equipped to advocate for her rights as a student in a public school setting. After 11 weeks of pressing the high school principal and McAlester superindent, they finally agreed to allow Marley to hold her first GSA meeting. It was attended by more than 25 students. Marley then led her newly formed GSA group to participate in community projects for food banks and senior centers. In October, she rallied these fledgling activists to march with a 50-foot rainbow flag in the McAlester High School homecoming parade. More than 50 had signed up to march in the parade, but a large thunderstorm led to the parade's cancellation 15 minutes before it was to begin. 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 23 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Megan Sayler: The Booker T. Washington High School senior serves as co-president of BTW's Gay Straight Alliance, called SOFA, or Sexual Orientation, Friendship, Acceptance. Megan has gone above and beyond to secure her school as a safe place for all students. Toward the end of the 2014-15 school year, she learned that some freshmen girls were being bullied by older students. Not long afterward, SOFA was 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 24 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... preparing for the Day of Silence and had posters torn down by the same bullies. A video of the incident, which included a homophobic slur, was posted on social media. And Megan went to the administration. The school quickly addressed the situation in a response that attracted national attention. In a Tulsa World article, Megan was quoted as saying: "These people are people, too. They may have made a bad decision, but that doesn't make them bad people. That's something that Booker T. instills in us. We know how to treat each other with kindness and respect, and we know how to move forward." On Nov. 20, Megan and the other students from SOFA hosted an LGBTQ history assembly open to the entire school. The assembly focused on educating the student body about LGBTQ history and featured local heroes such as Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin and Steven Williams. WORKFORCE TULSA announces a 3-Day * Customer Service Certification Program* January 26-28th, 2016 Tues, Wed, & Thurs 9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. 'Norkfo ceTI Isa growing ml. nt {I> growin opportunity Participants learn skills in customer orientation, thoroughness, communication, problemsolving, stress management and team participation. Workforce Tulsa's Customer Service Training is guaranteed to make a dramatic difference in your customer service effectiveness - and in your success! Enrollment is limited! Participants must be enrolled with Workforce Tulsa. Enrollment instructions are outlined below. If already enrolled with Workforce Tulsa: Contact Jaurice Clay at 918-796-1290 *This is a comprehensive training and certification program endorsed by the International Customer Service Association (ICSA). Only participants who pass the course will receive a Certification of completion. How to Enroll with Workforce Tulsa - Your One Stop Career Service Center 1) Go online and create a www.okjobmatch.com job seeker account. Keep your confirmation email or Job Seeker Account Number! 2) Attend an Introduction to Services Orientation at any of the following days or times: Mon, Wed, or Friday at 10:00 a.m. Tues or Thurs at 1:30 p.m. WORKFORCE TULSA Eastgate Metroplex 14002 E. 21st Street #1030 Tulsa, OK 74135 918-796-1200 3) Bring the following documents with you: o Resume, if you have one o Two forms of ID (i.e., Driver's License, State ID, Social Security card, CDIB card) or Passport. o Veterans brings DD214 form. Following your Introduction to Services you will meet with a Career Advisor! Career Advisors will review your resume and help you start your job search or career training. (If you are interested in enrolling in the Customer Service Certification Program, please tell your Career Advisor at this time!) 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 25 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Workforce Tulsa's services are Always Free!!! r----------------------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L----------------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:23 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1f968b9434fdd2a0ce0afc1307c85761.pdf eb07dacb1b4cce9648ea8921216262c8 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 1 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor EBA Mixer SAGE -Laughing Yoga -Tulsa Pride Meeting Tulsa Pride Bingo OkEq...Road Trip Gay Men's Dinner For the year jaf\- Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group f 1rst narn "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! Before the I Do MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting Ladies Social Club Wild Hearts Ball Gamily Hearts Day -Happy --- Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group. Non-Binary Support Group Celebrating the Body --Erotic LGBT Family Law Seminar {918) 747-5466 Blood Drive The Empress' Ball 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Tulsa's Roughneck Roller Derby OSU Research Project Pride Store Rainbow Library 2016 Equality Gala January Volunteer of the Month Video eNews Workforce Tulsa Gala Award Recipients Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Equality Business Alliance Mixer January 20, 6:00 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East Second Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 OkEq Board Meeting 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 2 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... 7 p.m. Thursday, January 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center E UALITY Business Alliance All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Dave Muller. " A Sense of Wonder..." The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of Oklahoma's vibrant business, entertainment and cultural districts. The downtown Tulsa hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, the luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and over 50 restaurants and bars. Please be advised we will only validate self-parking in the attached garage. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. SAGE - Laughing Yoga January 26, 10:30 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 3 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Join SAGE on Jan. 26th a s they laugh the morning away with laughing yoga! What is laughing yoga you ask? Laughter yoga is a practice involving prolonged voluntary laughter. It is based on the belief that voluntary laughter provides the same physiological and psychological benefits as spontaneous laughter. Laughter yoga is done in groups, with eye contact and playfulness between participants. Forced laughter soon turns into real and contagious laughter. Join our SAGE members Jan. 26th at 10:30am to laugh the morning away! Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting January 28, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. T U L S A Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Our monthly meeting to discuss the Tulsa Pride Festival will be held in the Event Center at the Equality Center. If you have any questions or require more information, please contact Sarah Miller at sarah.miller@okeq.org or simply call the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 918-743-4297. Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 January 29, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Healthcare Navigator Every Tuesday in February from 12:00 p.m.-5:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. t Counseling Services Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 4 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for a $150 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. OkEq Road Trip - NSU Talequah February 1, 6:00 p.m. Northeastern State University - Talequah Campus Counseling Services Shane Bitney Crone surviving partner of the groundbreaking documentary wi II be speaking at Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Northeastern State University Tahlequah, Oklahoma . l 02-01-2016 6:00pm 0 Counseling Services NORTHEASTER STATE U IVERSITY BRIDEGROOM Sponsored by: The Diversity & Inclusion Department at NSU In Coordination with: The Psychology & Counseling at NSU Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Surviving spouse Shane Bitney Crone from the groundbreaking documentary Bridegroom will be speaking at NSU Campus Webb Auditorium. Bridegroom tells the emotional journey of Shane and Tom, two young men in a loving and committed relationship - a relationship that was cut tragically short by a misstep off the side of a roof. The story of what happened after this accidental death - of how people without the legal protections of marriage can find themselves completely shut out and ostracized. This Event is Sponsored by The Diversity and Inclusion Department at NSU in Coordination with The Psychology and Counseling Department at NSU Gay Men's Dinner February 2, 6:30 p.m. Michael V's Restaurant and Bar 8222 E. 103rd Street, Tulsa, OK 74133 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 5 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org MICHAEL V's RESTAURANT & BAR Our next dinner is this coming up on Tuesday February 2nd. We are eating at Michael V's Restaurant and Bar. It is located at 8222 E. 103rd Street. This is just east of Memorial on 103rd. street. Their web site is michaelvsrestaurant.com If you are coming please RSVP so we have and accurate headcount for the reservation. For more information please contact Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Counseling Services February 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Intake Mia Pearl Facilitator Jim Scholl "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: featuring the works of Bruce Docker Thursday, February 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Bruce Docker beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Bruce comes from a long line of artists; his formal training includes years of Tuesday afternoon meetings and study with the Canadian artist, John Nagy (developer of the famous "Learn-to-Draw" kit). His father drew the original series of cigarette smoking woodpeckers that are used in all traditional tattoo shops today and his maternal grandmother was a professional artist who painted vase highlights with devastating accuracy. Additionally his grandfather was the infamous paint-bynumbers artist and rum runner of Kansas City in the 1940's. His style is a combination of his family's talent and history in a cohesively rambling style. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 6 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... A true Renaissance man, Bruce states: "I believe in total respect for my materials. I once used an entire box of Crayola 64's without breaking a single crayon, I covered my driveway in Scotch tape to protect my sidewalk chalk drawings from the rain, and the cloth of my canvas is made only from the wool of free range sheep. While I am always learning and trying new approaches, I paint for the joy of creating art that I feel is beautiful. My hope is that when you view my paintings, you will feel, see, and agree that I have accomplished what I set out to do." Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Before the I Do February 6, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 1 sage Serv1Ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, 81sc>xu.1I &. Tramgendrr Elders "Before The I Do" is a workshop that gives couples practical tools to use now or later on when you need them. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation The workshop covers: 3 keys to a great relationship, how to work as a team to solve conflict, how to keep the romance alive and much more. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Carrie Little The Speaker-Listener technique helps each of you to be heard in times of stress and is a crowd favorite. Whether you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you WILL benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfying relationships! THIS WORKSHOP IS OPEN FOR ANYONE TO ATTEND AND IS FREE! Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 7 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) on February 6th from noon to 4pm. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carrie@protectioncoalition.org for more information or to reserve your space today! tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting February 7th, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Recent bills put forth by Oklahoma legislators have been a direct attack on the LGBT community. Now is the time for us to respond. Join Oklahomans for Equality for our continuing series MY OKLAHOMA Town Hall meetings to discuss the bills and their possible outcome on your life as an Oklahoman. We can provide talking points and training when discussing these bills with your legislators. Sign up for and discuss coordinated strategic visits to the Oklahoma State Capitol. We will also provide updates on the previous week's visit to the Capitol. Oklahomans for Equality can provide volunteer child care during the meeting for those who need it. Also interpretive services for the deaf and hard of hearing or English as your second language are available upon request. Please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to arrange these services. Remember personal letters and notes, phone calls and a face to face visit with your legislator are the most effective method to engage your elected official. OkEq Legislative Alerts: Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representatives and senators and ask them not to support the following: SB 0973 Introduced by Sen. Josh Brecheen, would outlaw same-sex marriage in Oklahoma. SB 1014 Introduced by Sen. Joseph Silk is an anti-transgender bathroom bill. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislator.aspx Ladies Social Club February 12, 6:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 8 of 24 0 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Oklahemans ,.r E"luatUJ "rn~ncs all LGBT&ally women welcome lADltS SO(IAl (lUD tnd fridav of the month 6-0pm meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center connect with us on Facebook OkEq Ladies Social Club Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! This brand new women's programming provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! A tremendous thank you goes out to all the ladies who turned out for our inaugural event in January. Game night was a lot of fun with plenty of hilarity and good times for all! If you missed it, we look forward to seeing you next time! Our next event is an Ice Breaker Ice Cream Social on Feb. 12! We'll start by playing a few games to get to know one another better, followed by tasty ice cream sundaes as we mix and mingle. We'll also have coffee and hot chocolate (and maybe some of that addictive popcorn!) in case the idea of ice cream in February gives you the chills. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com . The 15th Annual Wild Hearts Ball Presents, 2nd Chance Prom at Equality High February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Admission: Donations to the Equality Center renovations fund. For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Cash Bar, Raffle prizes and cookies baked by the PTA. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 9 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Oklahomans for Equality is having a prom. Remember your prom? Many of us were denied the right to go with the person we really wanted to go with to our high school prom. Some of us could not wear the outfit we wanted to wear to the prom. This is your chance to do the Prom your way. Dust off those old prom dresses and tuxedos, or come with a totally new and funky creation of your own. Attend the prom you dreamed of. NO DATE NECESSARY. Dance the night away as you enjoy decades of top hits by DJ Crystal. Cheesy blue ... ruffled tuxedos, poofy taffeta dresses, clichéd themes, color coordinated corsages, sweaty palms, plenty of dad's Aqua Velva, awkward slow dancing, plush ride for the big night, the obligatory staged photo... All of it adds up to one word: PROM! You might be chosen Prom Royalty. So get your crew to vote for you. You could be our Prom Queen or Prom King and at Equality High you can have two queens or two kings. Principal Jenkins and Coach Sivadon along with Home Ec teacher Ms. Brewster will be chaperoning and judging the Dirty Dancing Contest. So work on your moves and gyrations. Prizes will be given for the most outrageous corsage. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. And yes the punch is spiked. Entertainment and childcare will be available upstairs in the wellness room. Gamily Presents "Happy Hearts Day" Survivors of Incest Anonymous February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Gamily will be throwing a Happy Hearts Day party upstairs during the Wild Hearts Ball. There will be crafts, snacks, music, and lots of glitter! Parents and guardians can drop the children off and enjoy the prom while the kids play, create and dance to their happy hearts content in the wellness room. Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org ' xoxo ... ' 1 To RSVP please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org. ~ . I0 Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group February 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Game Night Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. t Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 10 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Facilitator Jim Scholl Intake Mia Pearl Non-Binary Support Group February 17, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A new transgender support group is starting for folks who identify with nonbinary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Celebrating the Body Erotic (CBE) February 20-21, 9:00 a.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 612 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 A CBE is a first step with Body Electric. Come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. They begin to realize the satisfaction that comes from learning how to both give and receive pleasure through erotic touch. The workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: • The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. • He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. • He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Celebrating the Body Erotic is a full two-day workshop (9am-7pm) for those who are ready to vigorously explore new levels of feeling, both within themselves and within a community of men. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most intensives, advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric School. ***Pre-Registration is required for this workshop!*** Early registration discounts and scholarships are still available. For more information visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschool.com, or contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. LGBT Family Law Seminar February 23, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Chris Brecht, who represented Crystal and Julie Loveland-Davis in becoming the first same sex couple to be granted a second parent adoption in Tulsa, by District Court Judge Kurt Glassco. Now Oklahoma officially recognizes the 3 yr old Kyler has two Mommies. Chris will be HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 11 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... speaking on adoption and other child custody issues. He will be able to answers questions you may have regarding family law in Oklahoma. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Give Blood for Some Buddy You Love February 24, 3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 3 to 7 p.m. Feb. 24 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St. in Tulsa. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All women and heterosexual men are encouraged to donate, and new rules from the FDA will now allow the Oklahoma Blood Institute to accept donations from gay and bisexual men who have been celibate for a year or longer. Still, we know that leaves out a lot of you, so OkEq is encouraging all gay and bi men to find a buddy who is willing to donate on their behalf and accompany that buddy to the blood drive! Gay and bi men who attend will get the same post-donation snacks and goodies as their buddies, and OkEq will have a photo booth set up where you can commemorate the occasion! We'll also have a letter to the FDA that you can sign stating that you support blood donation standards that maintain the safety of the nation's blood supply while still allowing more gay and bi men to donate. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org For more information about the blood drive, contact Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org. For information about blood donation, including whether you're eligible, call the Oklahoma Blood Institute at (918) 477-0400 or go online to www.obi.org . Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org The Empress' Ball - An Imperial Masquerade Januaray 30, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa , Oklahoma 74120 Benefiting the ICAO Operational Fund Dress Code - Formal or Theme $20.00 Donation at the door includes Open Bar Lesser Value Donations at the door can purchase Drink Tickets for $5.00 Live entertainment provided by the Empresses. Music by DJ Scandal (Absolute Emperor II Adrian) Awards will be presented to Best Dressed / Best in Theme Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org For more information contact impcourtok@gmail.com Tulsa's Roughneck Roller Derby Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 12 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... is looking for a home! Who are we? Roughneck Roller Derby was established in 2012 by a group of ladies looking for a new way to get in shape, make friends and play some roller derby! We train hard 3 days a week to be the best skaters we can be, because we want to represent Tulsa to the best of our abilities. Roughneck Roller Derby is a non-for-profit currently seeking 501(c)(3) status with the IRS. The league is run by unpaid league members who contribute their talents to make the league successful. We need your help! We want to bring this action-packed hard-hitting sport called roller derby to you, and your friends and family. In order to do that we need a venue to host our bouts (that's derby for games). We need roughly 9,000 square feet. The track dimensions are 75 ft wide by 108 ft long. Ideally there would be some additional space for seating. Wood, concrete floor, basketball court all are viable options. Do you know of a place in Tulsa that might work for us? It could be a gym, or a warehouse. Let's put our heads together and get creative! Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org If you have any leads please contact: Cat Cox - 432-295-2500 interleague_roughneckrd@yahoo.com or catherinejcox@gmail.com www.roughneckrollerderby.com Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 13 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 14 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Transgender Explained" by Joanne Herman Although Joanne Herman affirmed her true gender in her late 40's, before increased transgender acceptance and understanding led to gender affirmations at much younger ages, her non-complicated explanations remain useful in gaining understanding of a complicated subject. Organized by topic into short, easy-to-read chapters, Joanne's book Transgender Explained serves as a way to quickly get up to speed on what it means to be transgender. TRANSGENDER EXPLAINED For Those Who Are Not Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Joanne Herman Equality Gala 2016: The Revolution Continues Saturday, April 30, 2016 CoChairs Mary & Sharon Bishop- 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 15 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Baldwin invite you to the 2016 Equality Gala. For sponsorship and ticket information click here. Oklahomans for Equality 2016 Award Recipients Lifetime Achievement Award Kirk Holt: With more than a decade of leadership in the organization and more than 30 years of support and involvement, Kirk has served the LGBTQ community of northeastern Oklahoma well. The Lobby of the Equality Center is dedicated to the memory of his life partner of 21 years, Robert S. Cisar, Jr. Kirk and Robert were among the early champions who were dedicated to securing a permanent home for the Tulsa LGBTQ community. Kirk was the lead 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 16 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... designer on the renovations and remodel of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. He has served on the Board and Executive Committee as Advisor, Vice President, Treasurer and 4 years as Gala chair and co-chair. Because of Kirk's tireless work, a record setting amount of money was raised during the time in which he was a Gala Co-Chair, helping to assure that the building note was paid off and the Center is free from debt. Bishop-Baldwin, Barton and Phillips Civil Rights Advocacy Award. Rachel Tudor: The U.S. Justice Department is suing Southeastern Oklahoma State University, charging that school officials discriminated against Professor Rachel Tudor when she changed gender during her time working there. She was hired in 2004 as a tenure-track assistant professor in the English Department. In 2007, Tudor told school officials that she planned to transition from male to female during the academic year, took the name Rachel, and began wearing women's clothes and a traditionally female hairstyle. U.S. Attorney General Eric H. Holder Jr. announced in December 2014 that federal prohibitions against sex discrimination include protections based on gender identity. Corporate Inclusion Award 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 17 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Paula Marshall and Bama Companies: In 2015, Bama Companies added gender identity and gender expression to their nondiscrimination policy and begin to provide transgender health benefits in their employee compensation package. Founded in 1937, Bama Companies is the leading innovator of bakery products that cater to the needs of the largest and most well-known restaurant chains on the planet. The company's core product lines are hand-held pies, biscuits, buns, pie shells and pizza crusts. Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 18 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... The Rev. Todd Freeman: The Eastern Oklahoma Presbytery of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) voted against a proposed change in the denomination's constitution that would recognize same-sex marriage. The presbytery voted 46 to 33, against the change, defining marriage not as the union of a man and a woman but as a "unique commitment between two people." During the debate before the vote, Todd Freeman of College Hill Presbyterian Church in Tulsa said for the first time publicly that he is gay. He read a statement telling of his struggle with being gay. "This isn't about me but rather about God calling people, regardless of their sexual orientation, into a loving and committed relationship. And with all my heart, soul, mind and strength, I am among those that no longer believe that homosexuality, nor its expression in relationship, is in and of itself a sin." Community Hero Award. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 19 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Chris Shoaf: Chris has advocated for new educational standards for Oklahoma's comprehensive HIV/AIDS education policy, which has not been updated since 1987. He was instrumental in creating a pathway with local Walgreens pharmacies to provide post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) prescriptions for victims of sexual assault. Chris also went to the state Capitol multiple times last legislative session and met with lawmakers to find support to defeat more than a dozen antiLGBTQ bills that were offered. He also collaborated on reorganizing the Tulsa AIDS coalition, which had almost ceased to exist after several community leaders retired. It is now called TIDAL, the Tulsa Infectious Disease AIDS League. Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 20 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Marley Groves: Marley started the Gay Straight Alliance at McAlester High School with very little support from the administration, but she had attended Camp Out and Camp Anytown and was equipped to advocate for her rights as a student in a public school setting. After 11 weeks of pressing the high school principal and McAlester superindent, they finally agreed to allow Marley to hold her first GSA meeting. It was attended by more than 25 students. Marley then led her newly formed GSA group to participate in community projects for food banks and senior centers. In October, she rallied these fledgling activists to march with a 50-foot rainbow flag in the McAlester High School homecoming parade. More than 50 had signed up to march in the parade, but a large thunderstorm led to the parade's cancellation 15 minutes before it was to begin. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 21 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Megan Sayler: The Booker T. Washington High School senior serves as co-president of BTW's Gay Straight Alliance, called SOFA, or Sexual Orientation, Friendship, Acceptance. Megan has gone above and beyond to secure her school as a safe place for all students. Toward the end of the 2014-15 school year, she learned that some freshmen girls were being bullied by older students. Not long afterward, SOFA was preparing for the Day of Silence and had posters torn down by the same bullies. A video of the incident, which included a homophobic slur, was posted on social media. And Megan went to the administration. The school quickly addressed the situation in a response that attracted national attention. In a Tulsa World article, Megan was 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 22 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... quoted as saying: "These people are people, too. They may have made a bad decision, but that doesn't make them bad people. That's something that Booker T. instills in us. We know how to treat each other with kindness and respect, and we know how to move forward." On Nov. 20, Megan and the other students from SOFA hosted an LGBTQ history assembly open to the entire school. The assembly focused on educating the student body about LGBTQ history and featured local heroes such as Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin and Steven Williams. Volunteer of the Month January 2016 Kevin Reiswig Kevin Reiswig has been volunteering at OKEQ since April of 2014. His involvement with OKEQ started when he volunteered at the Tulsa Zoo for 17 years and loved it but due to health problems, He was unable to continue. Visiting and talking with the people at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center developed into a passion to help and become active in the LGBT community. Kevin remembers walking through OKEQ's doors with his partner Steve Breeden (of 32 years). He states, "Everyone was so nice and helpful; I thought I would try it just to see if I could help out and here it is almost 2 years later!" Kevin's favorite part of volunteering with OKEQ is working with a diverse group of people who are making a wonderful contribution to our community. Kevin states, "I help answer the "Help Line" where questions can be as simple as "what are your hours? to as complex as a distress call. We do as much as possible to help. Anything a volunteer does helps the center run day to day operations." When Kevin is not volunteering his time at OKEQ, He is enjoying cooking and making wonderful desserts, as well as feeding his main hobby, which is Fused and Stained Glass Art. A challenge from January's Volunteer of the month - Kevin Reiswig, "I would highly recommend anyone who is able to, to do some type of volunteering. OKEQ is always looking for good volunteers. If it's not a fit for you, there are hundreds of other places in the Tulsa area that can use your expertise and or your experiences! Plus it's a wonderful feeling to give back and help others." If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our introductory video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. http://youtu.be/g2MBeHbgGYs 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 23 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... WORKFORCE TULSA announces a 3-Day * Customer Service Certification Program* January 26-28th, 2016 Tues, Wed, & Thurs 9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Wo. I, Participants learn skills in customer orientation, thoroughness, communication, problem-solving, stress management and team participation. Workforce Tulsa's Customer Service Training is guaranteed to make a dramatic difference in your customer service effectiveness - and in your success! Enrollment is limited! Participants must be enrolled with Workforce Tulsa. Enrollment instructions are outlined below. If already enrolled with Workforce Tulsa: Contact Jaurice Clay at 918-796-1290 *This is a comprehensive training and certification program endorsed by the International Customer Service Association (ICSA). Only participants who pass the course will receive a Certification of completion. How to Enroll with Workforce Tulsa - Your One Stop Career Service Center 1) Go online and create a www.okjobmatch.com job seeker account. Keep your confirmation email or Job Seeker Account Number! 2) Attend an Introduction to Services Orientation at any of the following days or times: Mon, Wed, or Friday at 10:00 a.m. Tues or Thurs at 1:30 p.m. WORKFORCE TULSA Eastgate Metroplex 14002 E. 21st Street #1030 Tulsa, OK 74135 918-796-1200 3) Bring the following documents with you: o Resume, if you have one o Two forms of ID (i.e., Driver's License, State ID, Social Security card, CDIB card) or Passport. o Veterans brings DD214 form. Following your Introduction to Services you will meet with a Career Advisor! Career Advisors will review your resume and help you start your job search or career training. (If you are interested in enrolling in the Customer Service Certification Program, please tell your Career Advisor at this time!) Workforce Tulsa's services are Always Free!!! 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 24 of 24 I' - I okeq https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... --, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 5:24 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5517e0d54c86a243e9a56bc569a313e1.pdf 6719362e9daed0dbe1eedb788ace7196 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 1 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Tulsa Pride Bingo Tulsa Pride Meeting OkEq...Road Trip Gay Men's Dinner Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group "First Thursday" Art Exhibit For the year jaf\- Before the I Do f 1rst narn MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Ladies Social Club Wild Hearts Ball Gamily Hearts Day -Happy --EBA Mixer Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group. Non-Binary Support Group Celebrating the Body --Erotic LGBT Family Law Seminar Blood Drive {918) 747-5466 The Empress' Ball Tulsa's Roughneck Roller Derby 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com OSU Research Project Pride Store Rainbow Library 2016 Equality Gala January Volunteer of the Month Video eNews Workforce Tulsa Gala Award Recipients Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 January 29, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Board Meeting 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 2 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... 7 p.m. Thursday, February 18th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Dave Muller. " A Sense of Wonder..." Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for a $150 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting January 28, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq T U L S A Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Our monthly meeting to discuss the Tulsa Pride Festival will be held in the Event Center at the Equality Center. If you have any questions or require more information, please contact Sarah Miller at sarah.miller@okeq.org or simply call the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 918-743-4297. OkEq Road Trip - NSU Talequah February 1, 6:00 p.m. Northeastern State University - Talequah Campus 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 3 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Shane Bitney Crone surviving partner of the groundbreaking documentary will be speaking at Northeastern State University Tahlequah, Oklahoma · • 02-01-2016 6:00pm 0 NORTHEASTER STATE U IVERSITY BRIDEGROOM Sponsored by: The Diversity & Inclusion Department at NSU In Coordination with: The Psychology & Counseling at NSU Surviving spouse Shane Bitney Crone from the groundbreaking documentary Bridegroom will be speaking at NSU Campus Webb Auditorium. Bridegroom tells the emotional journey of Shane and Tom, two young men in a loving and committed relationship - a relationship that was cut tragically short by a misstep off the side of a roof. The story of what happened after this accidental death - of how people without the legal protections of marriage can find themselves completely shut out and ostracized. This Event is Sponsored by The Diversity and Inclusion Department at NSU in Coordination with The Psychology and Counseling Department at NSU Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator Every Tuesday in February from 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Gay Men's Dinner February 2, 6:30 p.m. Michael V's Restaurant and Bar 8222 E. 103rd Street, Tulsa, OK 74133 MICHAEL V's RESTAURANT & BAR Our next dinner is this coming up on Tuesday February 2nd. We are eating at Michael V's Restaurant and Bar. It is located at 8222 E. 103rd Street. This is just east of Memorial on 103rd. street. Their web site is michaelvsrestaurant.com If you are coming please RSVP so we have and accurate headcount for the reservation. For more information please contact Richard Haley at t Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 4 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... GuysDineToo@gmail.com Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group February 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Intake Mia Pearl Facilitator Jim Scholl Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: featuring the works of Bruce Docker Thursday, February 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Bruce Docker beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Bruce comes from a long line of artists; his formal training includes years of Tuesday afternoon meetings and study with the Canadian artist, John Nagy (developer of the famous "Learn-to-Draw" kit). His father drew the original series of cigarette smoking woodpeckers that are used in all traditional tattoo shops today and his maternal grandmother was a professional artist who painted vase highlights with devastating accuracy. Additionally his grandfather was the infamous paint-bynumbers artist and rum runner of Kansas City in the 1940's. His style is a combination of his family's talent and history in a cohesively rambling style. Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org A true Renaissance man, Bruce states: "I believe in total respect for my materials. I once used an entire box of Crayola 64's without breaking a single crayon, I covered my driveway in Scotch tape to protect my sidewalk chalk drawings from the rain, and the cloth of my canvas is made only from the wool of free range sheep. While I am always learning and trying new approaches, I paint for the joy of creating art that I feel is beautiful. My hope is that when you view my paintings, you will feel, see, and agree that I have accomplished what I set out to do." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 5 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Counseling Services Before the I Do February 6, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group "Before The I Do" is a workshop that gives couples practical tools to use now or later on when you need them. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The workshop covers: 3 keys to a great relationship, how to work as a team to solve conflict, how to keep the romance alive and much more. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Carrie Little The Speaker-Listener technique helps each of you to be heard in times of stress and is a crowd favorite. Whether you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you WILL benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfying relationships! 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather THIS WORKSHOP IS OPEN FOR ANYONE TO ATTEND AND IS FREE! Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) on February 6th from noon to 4pm. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carrie@protectioncoalition.org for more information or to reserve your space today! MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting February 7th, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 6 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Recent bills put forth by Oklahoma legislators have been a direct attack on the LGBT community. Now is the time for us to respond. Join Oklahomans for Equality for our continuing series MY OKLAHOMA Town Hall meetings to discuss the bills and their possible outcome on your life as an Oklahoman. We can provide talking points and training when discussing these bills with your legislators. Sign up for and discuss coordinated strategic visits to the Oklahoma State Capitol. We will also provide updates on the previous week's visit to the Capitol. Oklahomans for Equality can provide volunteer child care during the meeting for those who need it. Also interpretive services for the deaf and hard of hearing or English as your second language are available upon request. Please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to arrange these services. Remember personal letters and notes, phone calls and a face to face visit with your legislator are the most effective method to engage your elected official. OkEq Legislative Alerts: Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representatives and senators and ask them not to support these harmful bills. For a complete list click here. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage d Advocacy ServJCes anb n Bisexual for Cay, L('S 1~ ' &. Tramgen N Elders Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislator.aspx Ladies Social Club February 12, 6:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 7 of 23 0 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Oklahemans fer E41ualicy l'r•nncs all LGBT&ally women welcome lADltS SO(IAl (lUD tnd fridav of the month 6-0pm meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center connect with us on Facebook OkEq Ladies Social Club Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! This brand new women's programming provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! A tremendous thank you goes out to all the ladies who turned out for our inaugural event in January. Game night was a lot of fun with plenty of hilarity and good times for all! If you missed it, we look forward to seeing you next time! Our next event is an Ice Breaker Ice Cream Social on Feb. 12! We'll start by playing a few games to get to know one another better, followed by tasty ice cream sundaes as we mix and mingle. We'll also have coffee and hot chocolate (and maybe some of that addictive popcorn!) in case the idea of ice cream in February gives you the chills. Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com . The 15th Annual Wild Hearts Ball Presents, 2nd Chance Prom at Equality High February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Admission: Donations to the Equality Center renovations fund. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Cash Bar, Raffle prizes and cookies baked by the PTA. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 8 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Oklahomans for Equality is having a prom. Remember your prom? Many of us were denied the right to go with the person we really wanted to go with to our high school prom. Some of us could not wear the outfit we wanted to wear to the prom. This is your chance to do the Prom your way. Dust off those old prom dresses and tuxedos, or come with a totally new and funky creation of your own. Attend the prom you dreamed of. NO DATE NECESSARY. Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Dance the night away as you enjoy decades of top hits by DJ Crystal. Cheesy blue ... ruffled tuxedos, poofy taffeta dresses, clichéd themes, color coordinated corsages, sweaty palms, plenty of dad's Aqua Velva, awkward slow dancing, plush ride for the big night, the obligatory staged photo... All of it adds up to one word: PROM! You might be chosen Prom Royalty. So get your crew to vote for you. You could be our Prom Queen or Prom King and at Equality High you can have two queens or two kings. Principal Jenkins and Coach Sivadon along with Home Ec teacher Ms. Brewster will be chaperoning and judging the Dirty Dancing Contest. So work on your moves and gyrations. Prizes will be given for the most outrageous corsage. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session And yes the punch is spiked. Entertainment and childcare will be available upstairs in the wellness room. Gamily Presents "Happy Hearts Day" Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Gamily will be throwing a Happy Hearts Day party upstairs during the Wild Hearts Ball. There will be crafts, snacks, music, and lots of glitter! Parents and guardians can drop the children off and enjoy the prom while the kids play, create and dance to their happy hearts content in the wellness room. ' xoxo ' 1 To RSVP please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Equality Business Alliance Mixer February 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Baker Bryant, PLLC 5407 S Lewis Ave, Ste 100, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 E UALITY Business Alliance ~ . 10 ·-For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 9 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm Our host for February will be Baker Bryant Attorneys at Law PLLC. Baker Bryant is a boutique law firm specializing in you ... your life and your legacy. Please take a tour of their services and contact them to schedule an appointment. They look forward to offering you superior customer service, high attention to detail, and a welcoming environment that celebrates the diversity of our community. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group February 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. t Intake Mia Pearl Facilitator Jim Scholl Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 10 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Non-Binary Support Group February 17, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A new transgender support group is starting for folks who identify with nonbinary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Celebrating the Body Erotic (CBE) February 20-21, 9:00 a.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 612 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 A CBE is a first step with Body Electric. Come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. They begin to realize the satisfaction that comes from learning how to both give and receive pleasure through erotic touch. The workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: • The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. • He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. • He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Celebrating the Body Erotic is a full two-day workshop (9am-7pm) for those who are ready to vigorously explore new levels of feeling, both within themselves and within a community of men. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most intensives, advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric School. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. ***Pre-Registration is required for this workshop!*** Early registration discounts and scholarships are still available. For more information visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschool.com, or contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com. LGBT Family Law Seminar February 23, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 LGBT families have existed for years, but only recently has Oklahoma law begun recognizing us. With the recent development in the law, comes new responsibilities for our community to ensure that our children are protected. Please join us for an informational seminar on a variety of family law topics, including, but not limited to, marriage, adoption, divorce, child custody issues, military service as it relates to family law, etc. Facilitated by Chris Brecht, who represented Crystal and Julie Loveland-Davis in becoming the first same sex couple to be granted a second parent adoption in Tulsa, by District Court Judge Kurt Glassco. Now Oklahoma officially recognizes the 3 yr old Kyler has two Mommies. Chris will be speaking on adoption and other child custody issues. He will be able to answers questions you may have regarding family law in Oklahoma. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 11 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Give Blood for Some Buddy You Love February 24, 3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 3 to 7 p.m. Feb. 24 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St. in Tulsa. All women and heterosexual men are encouraged to donate, and new rules from the FDA will now allow the Oklahoma Blood Institute to accept donations from gay and bisexual men who have been celibate for a year or longer. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Still, we know that leaves out a lot of you, so OkEq is encouraging all gay and bi men to find a buddy who is willing to donate on their behalf and accompany that buddy to the blood drive! Gay and bi men who attend will get the same post-donation snacks and goodies as their buddies, and OkEq will have a photo booth set up where you can commemorate the occasion! We'll also have a letter to the FDA that you can sign stating that you support blood donation standards that maintain the safety of the nation's blood supply while still allowing more gay and bi men to donate. For more information about the blood drive, contact Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org For information about blood donation, including whether you're eligible, call the Oklahoma Blood Institute at (918) 477-0400 or go online to www.obi.org . The Empress' Ball - An Imperial Masquerade Januaray 30, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa , Oklahoma 74120 Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Benefiting the ICAO Operational Fund Dress Code - Formal or Theme $20.00 Donation at the door includes Open Bar Lesser Value Donations at the door can purchase Drink Tickets for $5.00 Live entertainment provided by the Empresses. Music by DJ Scandal (Absolute Emperor II Adrian) Awards will be presented to Best Dressed / Best in Theme For more information contact impcourtok@gmail.com Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Tulsa's Roughneck Roller Derby is looking for a home! Who are we? Roughneck Roller Derby was established in 2012 by a group of ladies looking for a new way to get in shape, make friends and play some roller derby! We train hard 3 days a week to be the best Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 12 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... skaters we can be, because we want to represent Tulsa to the best of our abilities. Roughneck Roller Derby is a non-for-profit currently seeking 501(c)(3) status with the IRS. The league is run by unpaid league members who contribute their talents to make the league successful. We need your help! We want to bring this action-packed hard-hitting sport called roller derby to you, and your friends and family. In order to do that we need a venue to host our bouts (that's derby for games). We need roughly 9,000 square feet. The track dimensions are 75 ft wide by 108 ft long. Ideally there would be some additional space for seating. Wood, concrete floor, basketball court all are viable options. Do you know of a place in Tulsa that might work for us? It could be a gym, or a warehouse. Let's put our heads together and get creative! Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org If you have any leads please contact: Cat Cox - 432-295-2500 interleague_roughneckrd@yahoo.com or catherinejcox@gmail.com www.roughneckrollerderby.com Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 13 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 14 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Harvey Fierstein's Safe Sex" by Harvey Fierstein Fierstein, author of such groundbreaking theatrical works about gays as Torch Song Trilogy and the book for La Cage aux Folles , turns his attention to the AIDS crisis. These three one-act plays are unconnected except in their exploration of the psychological ravages of the disease. Although none of the characters is actually ill, all have suffered radical changes in their relationships and view of the world; all find that the very concept of "safe sex" inhibits their ability to connect, not just sexually but also emotionally, with others. In dealing with a topical subject, Fierstein movingly depicts the age-old difficulties and joys of loving. Highly recommended. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Equality Gala 2016: The Revolution Continues Saturday, April 30, 2016 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 15 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Co-Chairs Mary & Sharon Bishop-Baldwin invite you to the 2016 Equality Gala. For sponsorship and ticket information click here. Oklahomans for Equality 2016 Award Recipients Lifetime Achievement Award 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 16 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Kirk Holt: With more than a decade of leadership in the organization and more than 30 years of support and involvement, Kirk has served the LGBTQ community of northeastern Oklahoma well. The Lobby of the Equality Center is dedicated to the memory of his life partner of 21 years, Robert S. Cisar, Jr. Kirk and Robert were among the early champions who were dedicated to securing a permanent home for the Tulsa LGBTQ community. Kirk was the lead designer on the renovations and remodel of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. He has served on the Board and Executive Committee as Advisor, Vice President, Treasurer and 4 years as Gala chair and co-chair. Because of Kirk's tireless work, a record setting amount of money was raised during the time in which he was a Gala Co-Chair, helping to assure that the building note was paid off and the Center is free from debt. Bishop-Baldwin, Barton and Phillips Civil Rights Advocacy Award. Rachel Tudor: The U.S. Justice Department is suing Southeastern Oklahoma State University, charging that school officials discriminated against Professor Rachel Tudor when she changed gender during her time working there. She was hired in 2004 as a tenure-track assistant professor in the English Department. In 2007, Tudor told school officials that she planned to transition from male to female during the academic year, took the name Rachel, and began wearing women's clothes and a traditionally female hairstyle. U.S. Attorney General Eric H. Holder Jr. announced in December 2014 that federal prohibitions against sex discrimination include protections based on gender identity. Corporate Inclusion Award 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 17 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Paula Marshall and Bama Companies: In 2015, Bama Companies added gender identity and gender expression to their nondiscrimination policy and begin to provide transgender health benefits in their employee compensation package. Founded in 1937, Bama Companies is the leading innovator of bakery products that cater to the needs of the largest and most well-known restaurant chains on the planet. The company's core product lines are hand-held pies, biscuits, buns, pie shells and pizza crusts. Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 18 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... The Rev. Todd Freeman: The Eastern Oklahoma Presbytery of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) voted against a proposed change in the denomination's constitution that would recognize same-sex marriage. The presbytery voted 46 to 33, against the change, defining marriage not as the union of a man and a woman but as a "unique commitment between two people." During the debate before the vote, Todd Freeman of College Hill Presbyterian Church in Tulsa said for the first time publicly that he is gay. He read a statement telling of his struggle with being gay. "This isn't about me but rather about God calling people, regardless of their sexual orientation, into a loving and committed relationship. And with all my heart, soul, mind and strength, I am among those that no longer believe that homosexuality, nor its expression in relationship, is in and of itself a sin." Community Hero Award. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 19 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Chris Shoaf: Chris has advocated for new educational standards for Oklahoma's comprehensive HIV/AIDS education policy, which has not been updated since 1987. He was instrumental in creating a pathway with local Walgreens pharmacies to provide post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) prescriptions for victims of sexual assault. Chris also went to the state Capitol multiple times last legislative session and met with lawmakers to find support to defeat more than a dozen antiLGBTQ bills that were offered. He also collaborated on reorganizing the Tulsa AIDS coalition, which had almost ceased to exist after several community leaders retired. It is now called TIDAL, the Tulsa Infectious Disease AIDS League. Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 20 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Marley Groves: Marley started the Gay Straight Alliance at McAlester High School with very little support from the administration, but she had attended Camp Out and Camp Anytown and was equipped to advocate for her rights as a student in a public school setting. After 11 weeks of pressing the high school principal and McAlester superindent, they finally agreed to allow Marley to hold her first GSA meeting. It was attended by more than 25 students. Marley then led her newly formed GSA group to participate in community projects for food banks and senior centers. In October, she rallied these fledgling activists to march with a 50-foot rainbow flag in the McAlester High School homecoming parade. More than 50 had signed up to march in the parade, but a large thunderstorm led to the parade's cancellation 15 minutes before it was to begin. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 21 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Megan Sayler: The Booker T. Washington High School senior serves as co-president of BTW's Gay Straight Alliance, called SOFA, or Sexual Orientation, Friendship, Acceptance. Megan has gone above and beyond to secure her school as a safe place for all students. Toward the end of the 2014-15 school year, she learned that some freshmen girls were being bullied by older students. Not long afterward, SOFA was preparing for the Day of Silence and had posters torn down by the same bullies. A video of the incident, which included a homophobic slur, was posted on social media. And Megan went to the administration. The school quickly addressed the situation in a response that attracted national attention. In a Tulsa World article, Megan was 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 22 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... quoted as saying: "These people are people, too. They may have made a bad decision, but that doesn't make them bad people. That's something that Booker T. instills in us. We know how to treat each other with kindness and respect, and we know how to move forward." On Nov. 20, Megan and the other students from SOFA hosted an LGBTQ history assembly open to the entire school. The assembly focused on educating the student body about LGBTQ history and featured local heroes such as Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin and Steven Williams. Volunteer of the Month January 2016 Kevin Reiswig Kevin Reiswig has been volunteering at OKEQ since April of 2014. His involvement with OKEQ started when he volunteered at the Tulsa Zoo for 17 years and loved it but due to health problems, He was unable to continue. Visiting and talking with the people at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center developed into a passion to help and become active in the LGBT community. Kevin remembers walking through OKEQ's doors with his partner Steve Breeden (of 32 years). He states, "Everyone was so nice and helpful; I thought I would try it just to see if I could help out and here it is almost 2 years later!" Kevin's favorite part of volunteering with OKEQ is working with a diverse group of people who are making a wonderful contribution to our community. Kevin states, "I help answer the "Help Line" where questions can be as simple as "what are your hours? to as complex as a distress call. We do as much as possible to help. Anything a volunteer does helps the center run day to day operations." When Kevin is not volunteering his time at OKEQ, He is enjoying cooking and making wonderful desserts, as well as feeding his main hobby, which is Fused and Stained Glass Art. A challenge from January's Volunteer of the month - Kevin Reiswig, "I would highly recommend anyone who is able to, to do some type of volunteering. OKEQ is always looking for good volunteers. If it's not a fit for you, there are hundreds of other places in the Tulsa area that can use your expertise and or your experiences! Plus it's a wonderful feeling to give back and help others." If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our introductory video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. http://youtu.be/g2MBeHbgGYs 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 23 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... WORKFORCE TULSA Job Openings Wo. I, Customer Service Representatives $8& up • No experience required • Promotions available • Background: case by case basis Security Officer $10-$12 DOE No experience or certification required • Clean background required Graphic Designer Assistant $12-$15/hour • Experience in Photoshop and Illustrator • Good customer service r--------------------------------------------------------------------, I I I I I I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org - - I I I I I I L--------------------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:24 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/cc94c47cb0f194a98bd47ab0f7d3d333.pdf aff0997c952cb98e5896a0a5ffbfe767 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 1 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group ---OU Tulsa Before the I Do "'I 0 4 t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting oeo"" Ladies Social Club e year Jan r f irst na Wild Hearts Ball . Gamily Hearts Day -Happy --- Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Tulsa Metro Softball League Council Oak Men's Chorale One Billion Rising EBA Mixer Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group. Non-Binary Support Group Pryor Rendering Celebrating the Body --Erotic LGBT Family Law Seminar (918) 747-5466 Blood Drive The Empress' Ball 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Girl Scout Cookie Sale Tulsa's Roughneck Roller Derby OSU Research Project Pride Store Rainbow Library 2016 Equality Gala January Volunteer of the Month Video eNews Workforce Tulsa Gala Award Recipients Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: featuring the works of Bruce Docker Thursday, February 4, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Bruce Docker beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. OkEq Board Meeting Bruce comes from a long line of artists; his formal training 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 2 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... includes years of Tuesday afternoon meetings and study with the Canadian artist, John Nagy (developer of the famous "Learn-to-Draw" kit). His father drew the original series of cigarette smoking woodpeckers that are used in all traditional tattoo shops today and his maternal grandmother was a professional artist who painted vase highlights with devastating accuracy. Additionally his grandfather was the infamous paintby-numbers artist and rum runner of Kansas City in the 1940's. His style is a combination of his family's talent and history in a cohesively rambling style. A true Renaissance man, Bruce states: "I believe in total respect for my materials. I once used an entire box of Crayola 64's without breaking a single crayon, I covered my driveway in Scotch tape to protect my sidewalk chalk drawings from the rain, and the cloth of my canvas is made only from the wool of free range sheep. While I am always learning and trying new approaches, I paint for the joy of creating art that I feel is beautiful. My hope is that when you view my paintings, you will feel, see, and agree that I have accomplished what I set out to do." 7 p.m. Thursday, February 18th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Dave Muller. " A Sense of Wonder..." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group February 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Intake Mia Pearl Unqueering Oklahoma: Seeking Social Justice for Bruce Goff February 3, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. OU Tulsa 4502 E 41st St Tulsa, OK 74135 Facilitator Jim Scholl Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 3 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Before the I Do Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 February 6, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 4 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org "Before The I Do" is a workshop that gives couples practical tools to use now or later on when you need them. The workshop covers: 3 keys to a great relationship, how to work as a team to solve conflict, how to keep the romance alive and much more. Carrie Little The Speaker-Listener technique helps each of you to be heard in times of stress and is a crowd favorite. Whether you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you WILL benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfying relationships! THIS WORKSHOP IS OPEN FOR ANYONE TO ATTEND AND IS FREE! Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) on February 6th from noon to 4pm. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carrie@protectioncoalition.org for more information or to reserve your space today! MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting February 7th, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Counseling Services Recent bills put forth by Oklahoma legislators have been a direct attack on the LGBT community. Now is the time for us to respond. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Join Oklahomans for Equality for our continuing series MY OKLAHOMA Town Hall meetings to discuss the bills and their possible outcome on your life as an Oklahoman. We can provide talking points and training when discussing these bills with your legislators. Sign up for and discuss coordinated strategic visits to the Oklahoma State Capitol. We will also provide updates on the previous week's visit to the Capitol. Oklahomans for Equality can provide volunteer child care during the meeting for those who need it. Also interpretive services for the deaf and hard of hearing or English as your second language are available upon request. Please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to arrange these services. Remember personal letters and notes, phone calls and a face to face visit with your legislator are the most effective method to engage your elected official. OkEq Legislative Alerts: Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representatives and senators and ask them not to support these harmful bills. For a complete list click here. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 5 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislator.aspx Ladies Social Club February 12, 6:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! This brand new women's programming provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! A tremendous thank you goes out to all the ladies who turned out for our inaugural event in January. Game night was a lot of fun with plenty of hilarity and good times for all! If you missed it, we look forward to seeing you next time! Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Our next event is an Ice Breaker Ice Cream Social on Feb. 12! We'll start by playing a few games to get to know one another better, followed by tasty ice cream sundaes as we mix and mingle. We'll also have coffee and hot chocolate (and maybe some of that addictive popcorn!) in case the idea of ice cream in February gives you the chills. Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com . The 15th Annual Wild Hearts Ball Presents, 2nd Chance Prom at Equality High The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Admission: Donations to the Equality Center renovations fund. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 6 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Cash Bar, Raffle prizes and cookies baked by the PTA. Facilitated by John Madigan Oklahomans for Equality is having a prom. Remember your prom? Many of us were denied the right to go with the person we really wanted to go with to our high school prom. Some of us could not wear the outfit we wanted to wear to the prom. This is your chance to do the Prom your way. Dust off those old prom dresses and tuxedos, or come with a totally new and funky creation of your own. Attend the prom you dreamed of. NO DATE NECESSARY. ■ ' Dance the night away as you enjoy decades of top hits by DJ Crystal. Cheesy blue ... ruffled tuxedos, poofy taffeta dresses, clichéd themes, color coordinated corsages, sweaty palms, plenty of dad's Aqua Velva, awkward slow dancing, plush ride for the big night, the obligatory staged photo... All of it adds up to one word: PROM! You might be chosen Prom Royalty. So get your crew to vote for you. You could be our Prom Queen or Prom King and at Equality High you can have two queens or two kings. Principal Jenkins and Coach Sivadon along with Home Ec teacher Ms. Brewster will be chaperoning and judging the Dirty Dancing Contest. So work on your moves and gyrations. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Prizes will be given for the most outrageous corsage. And yes the punch is spiked. Entertainment and childcare will be available upstairs in the wellness room. Gamily Presents "Happy Hearts Day" Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Gamily will be throwing a Happy Hearts Day party upstairs during the Wild Hearts Ball. There will be crafts, snacks, music, and lots of glitter! Parents and guardians can drop the children off and enjoy the prom while the kids play, create and dance to their happy hearts content in the wellness room. xoxo To RSVP please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation f1 .... I . I 'I Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 7 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com $5 per session Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Council Oak Men's Chorale Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for a few good men...to SING!! If you love to sing, perform and enjoy being around a great group of guys, come join us! COMC is looking for new members and past members to join the chorus for the Spring/Summer season. Joining now means that you will be signing in the concerts this Spring/Summer and also eligible to go with the chorale at GALA Festival in Denver over July 4th weekend. GALA Festival is a held every four years for LGBT choruses from all over the country to perform. There will be 6,000 attendees this year. Rehearsals start February 23 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. All you have to do to join is come to a rehearsal. Then a simple audition for our Artistic Director Kent Dennis after one of the rehearsals. $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Don't miss the opportunity to join our group. You'll have a great summer singing and performing for family, friends and our community. Along with a trip to Denver that you will never forget. For more information you can contact us at our website at www.counciloak.org or contact COMC's Artistic Director Kent Dennis. One Billion Rising February 14, 2016 Oklahomans for Equality is happy to support the One Billion Rising movement on 2.14.16. This community ritual invites all people to join in dance, to release their story, and to speak out for justice, celebrating our power reshape our world. Proceeds will benefit Women In Recovery! Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. For more information, contact Mia 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 8 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Join the Facebook event page and attend the event! https://www.facebook.com/events/767495546688876/ Learn the Break the Chain theme dance and perform with us! https://www.facebook.com/events/1698475917102908/ Equality Business Alliance Mixer February 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Baker Bryant, PLLC 5407 S Lewis Ave, Ste 100, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 Game Night E UALITY n _. ____ Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the AJJ · ___ _ 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 9 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... ~ f:jLJsmess A111ance Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Our host for February will be Baker Bryant Attorneys at Law PLLC. Baker Bryant is a boutique law firm specializing in you ... your life and your legacy. Please take a tour of their services and contact them to schedule an appointment. They look forward to offering you superior customer service, high attention to detail, and a welcoming environment that celebrates the diversity of our community. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group February 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. g E UALITY QJBusiness Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Intake Mia Pearl Non-Binary Support Group February 17, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group is starting for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a Facilitator Jim Scholl Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 10 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Pryor Rendering Friday, February 19, 7:00 p.m. Cedar Ridge Country Club 10302 South Garnett Road Broken Arrow, OK 74011 Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Pryor Rendering a new musical about coming of age and coming out in 1960s rural Oklahoma by Librettist Shawn Churchman and Composer/ Lyricist Frank Schiro An original musical based on the acclaimed novel Pryor Rendering by Oklahoma native Gary Reed. Pryor Rendering is heartfelt, romantic & full of love and hope. Born on a pool table in his grandfather's beer joint, Charlie Hope is a stranger to his eccentric mother, idolizes his absent father, and is coddled by his Grandpa Chick's stable of floozies. The silence and secrecy of small town life in 1960s Oklahoma forces Charlie to keep his thoughts and feelings hidden. Still, he finds the courage to fall deeply and passionately in love. Against all odds he discovers his destiny in the most unlikely of places. Tulsa is an important part of Pryor Rendering. Experience the music and selections from the show. Talk with the creative team following the performance. Tickets $75 Cocktails ~ Hors d'oeurvres ~ Show ~ Auction ~ Semi Formal Pryor Rendering - WORLD PREMIERE: Fall 2016 at City Rep, OKC, and American Theatre Company, Tulsa. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Your contributions are tax-deductible. Please make check payable to: CityRep for Pryor Rendering c/o Bill Hodge Info: Sue Marinello, Associate Producer, Pryor Rendering suemarinello@optonline.net or visit www. PryorRendering.com listen to music samples under Media Evening hosted by Denis & Julie Schoenhofer, Tulsa EBA & The Gayly Celebrating the Body Erotic (CBE) Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org February 20-21, 9:00 a.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 612 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 A CBE is a first step with Body Electric. Come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. They begin to realize the satisfaction that comes from learning how to both give and receive pleasure through erotic touch. The workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org • The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. • He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 11 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... relationship with others. • He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Celebrating the Body Erotic is a full two-day workshop (9am-7pm) for those who are ready to vigorously explore new levels of feeling, both within themselves and within a community of men. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most intensives, advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric School. ***Pre-Registration is required for this workshop!*** Early registration discounts and scholarships are still available. For more information visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschool.com, or contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org LGBT Family Law Seminar February 23, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 LGBT families have existed for years, but only recently has Oklahoma law begun recognizing us. With the recent development in the law, comes new responsibilities for our community to ensure that our children are protected. Please join us for an informational seminar on a variety of family law topics, including, but not limited to, marriage, adoption, divorce, child custody issues, military service as it relates to family law, etc. Facilitated by Chris Brecht, who represented Crystal and Julie Loveland-Davis in becoming the first same sex couple to be granted a second parent adoption in Tulsa, by District Court Judge Kurt Glassco. Now Oklahoma officially recognizes the 3 yr old Kyler has two Mommies. Chris will be speaking on adoption and other child custody issues. He will be able to answers questions you may have regarding family law in Oklahoma. Give Blood for Some Buddy You Love February 24, 3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 3 to 7 p.m. Feb. 24 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St. in Tulsa. All women and heterosexual men are encouraged to donate, and new rules from the FDA will now allow the Oklahoma Blood Institute to accept donations from gay and bisexual men who have been celibate for a year or longer. Still, we know that leaves out a lot of you, so OkEq is encouraging all gay and bi men to find a buddy who is willing to donate on their behalf and accompany that buddy to the blood drive! Gay and bi men who attend will get the same post-donation snacks and goodies as their buddies, and OkEq will have a photo booth set up where you can commemorate the occasion! We'll also have a letter to the FDA that you can sign stating that you support blood donation standards that maintain the safety of the nation's blood supply while still allowing more gay and bi men to donate. Appointments for donation are encouraged and will ensure that you don't have a long wait. To make an appointment, go online https://www.yourbloodinstitute.org/donor/schedules/ drive_schedule/184689 For more information about the blood drive, contact Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at(918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org For information about blood donation, including whether you're eligible, call the Oklahoma Blood Institute at(918) 477-0400 or go online to www.obi.org . 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 12 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 February 26, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa , Oklahoma 74120 Join us for our second Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Girl Scout Cookie Sale March 3, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusive organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma cookie sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 3rd, 2016 starting at 5:30p.m.. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Somerset (chocolate, caramel & coconut cookie), Dosi-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie), Rah Rah Raisin (oatmeal raisin), Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie), and a Toffee Tastic gluten free cookie (gluten free is $5.00 a box). Tulsa's Roughneck Roller Derby is looking for a home! Who are we? Roughneck Roller Derby was established in 2012 by a group of ladies looking for a new way to get in shape, make friends and play some roller derby! We train hard 3 days a week to be the best skaters we can be, because we want to represent Tulsa to the best of our abilities. Roughneck Roller Derby is a non-for-profit currently seeking 501(c)(3) status with the IRS. The league is run by unpaid league members who contribute their talents to make the league successful. We need your help! We want to bring this action-packed hard-hitting sport called roller derby to you, and your friends and family. In order to do that we need a venue to host our bouts (that's derby for games). We need roughly 9,000 square feet. The track dimensions are 75 ft wide by 108 ft long. Ideally there would be some additional space for seating. Wood, concrete floor, basketball court all are viable options. Do you know of a place in Tulsa that might work for us? It could be a gym, or a warehouse. Let's put our heads together and get creative! 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 13 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... If you have any leads please contact: Cat Cox - 432-295-2500 interleague_roughneckrd@yahoo.com or catherinejcox@gmail.com www.roughneckrollerderby.com Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/ or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 14 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Lesbian Love Companion" by Marny Hall Ph. D. In The Lesbian Love Companion , Marny Hall, Ph.D., a psychotherapist with twenty years' experience counseling lesbian couples, explores and celebrates lesbian relationships in all their complexity - and humor. Based on the idea that the key to healthy relationships lies in our ability to keep refining the story of our relationships, it presents the perfect blend of advice and inspiration for every lesbian looking for love. Interspersing real-life examples from Hall's practice, sound advice, and laugh-out-loud observations, The Lesbian Love Companion takes a completely fresh and honest approach to the unique relationship issues near and dear to every lesbian's heart. 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 15 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Equality Gala 2016: The Revolution Continues Saturday, April 30, 2016 Co-Chairs Mary & Sharon Bishop-Baldwin invite you to the 2016 Equality Gala. For sponsorship and ticket information click here. Oklahomans for Equality 2016 Award Recipients Lifetime Achievement Award 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 16 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Kirk Holt: With more than a decade of leadership in the organization and more than 30 years of support and involvement, Kirk has served the LGBTQ community of northeastern Oklahoma well. The Lobby of the Equality Center is dedicated to the memory of his life partner of 21 years, Robert S. Cisar, Jr. Kirk and Robert were among the early champions who were dedicated to securing a permanent home for the Tulsa LGBTQ community. Kirk was the lead designer on the renovations and remodel of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. He has served on the Board and Executive Committee as Advisor, Vice President, Treasurer and 4 years as Gala chair and co-chair. Because of Kirk's tireless work, a record setting amount of money was raised during the time in which he was a Gala Co-Chair, helping to assure that the building note was paid off and the Center is free from debt. Bishop-Baldwin, Barton and Phillips Civil Rights Advocacy Award. 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 17 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Rachel Tudor: The U.S. Justice Department is suing Southeastern Oklahoma State University, charging that school officials discriminated against Professor Rachel Tudor when she changed gender during her time working there. She was hired in 2004 as a tenure-track assistant professor in the English Department. In 2007, Tudor told school officials that she planned to transition from male to female during the academic year, took the name Rachel, and began wearing women's clothes and a traditionally female hairstyle. U.S. Attorney General Eric H. Holder Jr. announced in December 2014 that federal prohibitions against sex discrimination include protections based on gender identity. Corporate Inclusion Award 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 18 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Paula Marshall and Bama Companies: In 2015, Bama Companies added gender identity and gender expression to their nondiscrimination policy and begin to provide transgender health benefits in their employee compensation package. Founded in 1937, Bama Companies is the leading innovator of bakery products that cater to the needs of the largest and most well-known restaurant chains on the planet. The company's core product lines are hand-held pies, biscuits, buns, pie shells and pizza crusts. Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award The Rev. Todd Freeman: The Eastern Oklahoma Presbytery of the Presbyterian 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 19 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Church (U.S.A.) voted against a proposed change in the denomination's constitution that would recognize same-sex marriage. The presbytery voted 46 to 33, against the change, defining marriage not as the union of a man and a woman but as a "unique commitment between two people." During the debate before the vote, Todd Freeman of College Hill Presbyterian Church in Tulsa said for the first time publicly that he is gay. He read a statement telling of his struggle with being gay. "This isn't about me but rather about God calling people, regardless of their sexual orientation, into a loving and committed relationship. And with all my heart, soul, mind and strength, I am among those that no longer believe that homosexuality, nor its expression in relationship, is in and of itself a sin." Community Hero Award. Chris Shoaf: Chris has advocated for new educational standards for Oklahoma's comprehensive HIV/AIDS education policy, which has not been updated since 1987. He was instrumental in creating a pathway with local Walgreens pharmacies to provide post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) prescriptions for victims of sexual assault. Chris also went to the state Capitol multiple times last legislative session and met with lawmakers to find support to defeat more than a dozen anti-LGBTQ bills that were offered. He also collaborated on reorganizing the Tulsa AIDS coalition, which had almost ceased to exist after several community leaders retired. It is now called TIDAL, the Tulsa Infectious Disease AIDS League. Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 20 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Marley Groves: Marley started the Gay Straight Alliance at McAlester High School with very little support from the administration, but she had attended Camp Out and Camp Anytown and was equipped to advocate for her rights as a student in a public school setting. After 11 weeks of pressing the high school principal and McAlester superindent, they finally agreed to allow Marley to hold her first GSA meeting. It was attended by more than 25 students. Marley then led her newly formed GSA group to participate in community projects for food banks and senior centers. In October, she rallied these fledgling activists to march with a 50-foot rainbow flag in the McAlester High School homecoming parade. More than 50 had signed up to march in the parade, but a large thunderstorm led to the parade's cancellation 15 minutes before it was to begin. 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 21 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Megan Sayler: The Booker T. Washington High School senior serves as co-president of BTW's Gay Straight Alliance, called SOFA, or Sexual Orientation, Friendship, Acceptance. Megan has gone above and beyond to secure her school as a safe place for all students. Toward the end of the 2014-15 school year, she learned that some freshmen girls were being bullied by older students. Not long afterward, SOFA was preparing for the Day of Silence and had posters torn down by the same bullies. A video of the incident, which included a homophobic slur, was posted on social media. And Megan went to the administration. The school quickly addressed the situation in a response that attracted national attention. In a Tulsa World article, Megan was quoted as saying: "These people are people, too. They may have made a bad decision, but that doesn't make them bad people. That's something that Booker T. instills in us. We know how to treat each other with kindness and respect, and we know how to move forward." On Nov. 20, Megan and the other students from SOFA hosted an LGBTQ history assembly open to the entire school. The assembly focused on educating the student body about LGBTQ history and featured local heroes such as Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin and Steven Williams. 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 22 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Volunteer of the Month February 2016 Marty Newman Marty started in 1987 when we were just a phone bank at a secret (safe) location. While the center was on Peoria St., the phone rang frequently back then, 2/3 of the calls were "where are the bars?" & 1/3 were " I think I'm gonna kill myself." When not volunteering Marty enjoys solving the residential real estate needs of Tulsans and is a devoted member of the Historic Preservation Community bettering Tulsa's future by respecting it's historic built environment & fostering healthy economic community revitalization via healthy & creative urban re-development. Marty Recommends everyone to volunteer at OKEQ because to him it is sometimes the highlight of his week, the informal & unpredictable conversations that happen with the folks hanging out at the center, make his nights! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. https://youtu.be/bDHkLdrTzgE WORKFORCE TULSA Job Openings 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 23 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Food Service Team Member Starting at $7.50/hour - $9.00/hour Several shifts available; Daytime help will be paid more (Depending on Experience). Several Positions: Cashiers, Custard, Drive-Through, Grill, Fryer Must have an upbeat, positive attitude, and excellent customer service skills [ill Must have Food Handler's C ard needed within the first 30 days Director of Operations RN $50k-$55k/year Depending on Experience Will be in a teaching atmosphere to instruct and direct the operations of a skilled nursing facility. Monday - Friday 8am - 5pm Comprehensive Benefits! [fil Must have 2 years of Registered Nursing experience in a skilled nursing facility ri"il l!.!J Ability to pass a background check and drug screening RNs and LPNs $17.00 - $30.00/hour Assess patient health problems and implements a nursing care plan. Administer nursing care to the ill, injured, convalescent, or disabled patients. Full and Part Time positions available; Shifts range from 7am-11pm $500.00 sign on bonus for a limited time! Comprehensive benefits! Ability to pass background check and drug screening Must have an unrestricted license to practice in the state of Oklahoma and current CPR certification r---------------------------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:25 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/00c1588ffeee062228bbf93fc6674fd7.pdf 04c2c61d1000b3960769dd2fb8396466 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 2015 Donation Tax Letter Wild Hearts Ball Makeover the Coach "'I 0 4 Gamily Hearts Day -Happy --- t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - January Volunteer of the Month oeo"" Video eNews e year Jan r f irst na Ladies Social Club . Tulsa Metro Softball League Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Council Oak Men's Chorale One Billion Rising EBA Mixer Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group. Non-Binary Support Group LGBT Family Law Seminar Blood Drive The Empress' Ball Girl Scout Cookie Sale (918) 747-5466 Pryor Rendering OSU Research Project 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Pride Store Rainbow Library 2016 Equality Gala James Murray Follies Faith, Trust and Pixie Dus Workforce Tulsa Gala Award Recipients Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 2015 Donation Tax Donation Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2015 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Alyssa Bryant, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, February 18th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The 15th Annual Wild Hearts Ball Presents, 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... 2nd Chance Prom at Equality High February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Bruce Docker Admission: Donations to the Equality Center renovations fund. Cash Bar, Raffle prizes and cookies baked by the PTA. Oklahomans for Equality is having a prom. Remember your prom? Many of us were denied the right to go with the person we really wanted to go with to our high school prom. Some of us could not wear the outfit we wanted to wear to the prom. This is your chance to do the Prom your way. Dust off those old prom dresses and tuxedos, or come with a totally new and funky creation of your own. Attend the prom you dreamed of. NO DATE NECESSARY. Dance the night away as you enjoy decades of top hits by DJ Crystal. Cheesy blue ... ruffled tuxedos, poofy taffeta dresses, clichéd themes, color coordinated corsages, sweaty palms, plenty of dad's Aqua Velva, awkward slow dancing, plush ride for the big night, the obligatory staged photo... All of it adds up to one word: PROM! Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. You might be chosen Prom Royalty. So get your crew to vote for you. You could be our Prom Queen or Prom King and at Equality High you can have two queens or two kings. Principal Jenkins and Coach Sivadon along with Home Ec teacher Ms. Brewster will be chaperoning and judging the Dirty Dancing Contest. So work on your moves and gyrations. Prizes will be given for the most outrageous corsage. And yes the punch is spiked. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Entertainment and childcare will be available upstairs in the wellness room. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... Makeover the Coach Coach Sivadon will be a sponsor at Second Chance Prom. If the student body of OKEQ High can raise $2,500, Coach has agreed to a complete makeover--makeup, heels, and a dress! Help us reach our goal! Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - - - ·- - - - - - Click here to to donate now! Counseling Services Gamily Presents "Happy Hearts Day" February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Gamily will be throwing a Happy Hearts Day party upstairs during the Wild Hearts Ball. There will be crafts, snacks, music, and lots of glitter! Parents and guardians can drop the children off and enjoy the prom while the kids play, create and dance to their happy hearts content in the wellness room. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 To RSVP please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Counseling Services Volunteer of the Month February 2016 Marty Newman Marty started in 1987 when we were just a phone bank at a secret (safe) location. While the center was on Peoria St., the phone rang frequently back then, 2/3 of the calls were "where are the bars?" & 1/3 were " I think I'm gonna kill myself." Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org When not volunteering Marty enjoys solving the residential real estate needs of Tulsans and is a devoted member of the Historic Preservation Community bettering Tulsa's future by respecting it's historic built environment & fostering healthy economic community revitalization via healthy & 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... creative urban re-development. Counseling Services Marty Recommends everyone to volunteer at OKEQ because to him it is sometimes the highlight of his week, the informal & unpredictable conversations that happen with the folks hanging out at the center, make his nights! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. https://youtu.be/bDHkLdrTzgE Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Ladies Social Club February 12, 6:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! This brand new women's programming provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! A tremendous thank you goes out to all the ladies who turned out for our inaugural event in January. Game night was a lot of fun with plenty of hilarity and good times for all! If you missed it, we look forward to seeing you next time! Our next event is an Ice Breaker Ice Cream Social on Feb. 12! We'll start by playing a few games to get to know one another better, followed by tasty ice cream sundaes as we mix and mingle. We'll also have coffee and hot chocolate (and maybe some of that addictive popcorn!) in case the idea of ice cream in February gives you the chills. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com . Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Council Oak Men's Chorale Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for a few good men...to SING!! If you love to sing, perform and enjoy being around a great group of guys, come join us! COMC is looking for new members and past members to join the chorus for the Spring/Summer season. Joining now means that you will be signing in the concerts this Spring/Summer and also eligible to go with the chorale at GALA Festival in Denver over July 4th weekend. GALA Festival is a held every four years for LGBT choruses from all over the country to perform. There will be 6,000 attendees this year. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ •. . . Rehearsals start February 23 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. All you have to do to join is come to a rehearsal. Then a simple audition for our Artistic Director Kent Dennis after one of the rehearsals. 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 6 of 14 Don't miss the opportunity to join our group. You'll have a great summer singing and performing for family, friends and our community. Along with a trip to Denver that you will never forget. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... COl~~CIL OAK ~{E';S CHORALE For more information you can contact us at our website at www.counciloak.org or contact COMC's Artistic Director Kent Dennis. One Billion Rising Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. February 14, 2016 Oklahomans for Equality is happy to support the One Billion Rising movement on 2.14.16. This community ritual invites all people to join in dance, to release their story, and to speak out for justice, celebrating our power reshape our world. Proceeds will benefit Women In Recovery! Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Join the Facebook event page and attend the event! https://www.facebook.com/events/767495546688876/ Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... Learn the Break the Chain theme dance and perform with us! https://www.facebook.com/events/1698475917102908/ Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Equality Business Alliance Mixer February 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Baker Bryant, PLLC 5407 S Lewis Ave, Ste 100, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm E UALITY Business Alliance A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Our host for February will be Baker Bryant Attorneys at Law PLLC. Baker Bryant is a boutique law firm specializing in you ... your life and your legacy. Please take a tour of their services and contact them to schedule an appointment. They look forward to offering you superior customer service, high attention to detail, and a welcoming environment that celebrates the diversity of our community. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group February 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Intake Mia Pearl Facilitator Jim Scholl Non-Binary Support Group February 17, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group is starting for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. g EQ.!Business UALITY Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. LGBT Family Law Seminar February 23, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 LGBT families have existed for years, but only recently has Oklahoma law begun recognizing us. With the recent development in the law, comes new responsibilities for our community to ensure that our children are protected. Please join us for an informational seminar on a variety of family law topics, including, but not limited to, marriage, adoption, divorce, child custody issues, military service as it relates to family law, etc. Facilitated by Chris Brecht, who represented Crystal and Julie Loveland-Davis in becoming the first same sex couple to be granted a second parent adoption in Tulsa, by District Court Judge Kurt Glassco. Now Oklahoma officially recognizes the 3 yr old Kyler has two Mommies. Chris will be speaking on adoption and other child custody issues. He will be able to answers questions you may have regarding family law in Oklahoma. Give Blood for Some Buddy You Love February 24, 3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 3 to 7 p.m. Feb. 24 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St. in Tulsa. All women and heterosexual men are encouraged to donate, and new rules from the FDA will now allow the Oklahoma Blood Institute to accept donations from gay and bisexual men who have been celibate for a year or longer. Still, we know that leaves out a lot of you, so OkEq is encouraging all gay and bi men to find a buddy who is willing to donate on their behalf and accompany that buddy to the blood drive! Gay and bi men who attend will get the same post-donation snacks and goodies as their buddies, and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... OkEq will have a photo booth set up where you can commemorate the occasion! We'll also have a letter to the FDA that you can sign stating that you support blood donation standards that maintain the safety of the nation's blood supply while still allowing more gay and bi men to donate. Appointments for donation are encouraged and will ensure that you don't have a long wait. To make an appointment, go online https://www.yourbloodinstitute.org/donor/schedules/ drive_schedule/184689 For more information about the blood drive, contact Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at(918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org For information about blood donation, including whether you're eligible, call the Oklahoma Blood Institute at(918) 477-0400 or go online to www.obi.org . Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 February 26, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa , Oklahoma 74120 Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Join us for our second Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Girl Scout Cookie Sale March 3, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusive organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma cookie sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 3rd, 2016 starting at 5:30p.m.. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Somerset (chocolate, caramel & coconut cookie), Dosi-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie), Rah Rah Raisin (oatmeal raisin), Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie), and a Toffee Tastic gluten free cookie (gluten free is $5.00 a box). Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Pryor Rendering Friday, February 19, 7:00 p.m. Cedar Ridge Country Club 10302 South Garnett Road 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... Broken Arrow, OK 74011 Pryor Rendering a new musical about coming of age and coming out in 1960s rural Oklahoma by Librettist Shawn Churchman and Composer/ Lyricist Frank Schiro An original musical based on the acclaimed novel Pryor Rendering by Oklahoma native Gary Reed. Pryor Rendering is heartfelt, romantic & full of love and hope. Born on a pool table in his grandfather's beer joint, Charlie Hope is a stranger to his eccentric mother, idolizes his absent father, and is coddled by his Grandpa Chick's stable of floozies. The silence and secrecy of small town life in 1960s Oklahoma forces Charlie to keep his thoughts and feelings hidden. Still, he finds the courage to fall deeply and passionately in love. Against all odds he discovers his destiny in the most unlikely of places. Tulsa is an important part of Pryor Rendering. Experience the music and selections from the show. Talk with the creative team following the performance. Tickets $75 Cocktails ~ Hors d'oeurvres ~ Show ~ Auction ~ Semi Formal Pryor Rendering - WORLD PREMIERE: Fall 2016 at City Rep, OKC, and American Theatre Company, Tulsa. Your contributions are tax-deductible. Please make check payable to: CityRep for Pryor Rendering c/o Bill Hodge Info: Sue Marinello, Associate Producer, Pryor Rendering suemarinello@optonline.net or visit www. PryorRendering.com listen to music samples under Media Evening hosted by Denis & Julie Schoenhofer, Tulsa EBA & The Gayly Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/ or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... "Becoming Two-Spirit" by Brian Joseph Gilley The Two-Spirit man occupies a singular place in Native American culture, balancing the male and the female spirit even as he tries to blend gay and Native identity. The accompanying ambiguities of gender and culture come into vivid relief in the powerful and poignant Becoming Two-Spirit, the first book to take an in-depth look at contemporary American Indian gender diversity. Drawing on a wealth of observations from interviews, oral histories, and meetings and ceremonies, Brian Joseph Gilley provides an intimate view of how Two-Spirit men in Colorado and Oklahoma struggle to redefine themselves and their communities. Becoming Two-Syfrft7 BRIA The Two-Spirit men who appear in Gilley's book speak frankly of homophobia within their communities, a persistent prejudice that is largely misunderstood or misrepresented by outsiders. Gilley gives detailed accounts of the ways in which these men modify gay and Native identity as a means of dealing with their alienation from tribal communities and families. With these compromises, he suggests, they construct an identity that challenges their alienation while at the same time situating themselves within contemporary notions of American Indian identity. He also shows how their creativity is reflected in the communities they build with one another, the development of their own social practices, and a national network of individuals linked in their search for self and social acceptance. JOS Pl! ILL Y GLry Identity and Social Acceptance in Indian Country Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Equality Gala 2016: The Revolution Continues Saturday, April 30, 2016 Co-Chairs Mary & Sharon Bishop-Baldwin invite you to the 2016 Equality Gala. For sponsorship and ticket information click here. 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... James Murray Follies March 5, 9:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St Tulsa, OK 74120 Please join the ICAO Board of Directors for our Annual Fundraiser March 5, 2016 at Tulsa Eagle Proceeds benefit the ICAO's Operational Fund We will also be announcing our Reign IX Monarch Candidates. (Public Voting will take place, April 1st and 2nd in Tulsa & OKC - times/locations TBA). 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust April 8-10 Renaissance Tulsa Hotel & Convention Center 6808 S 107th E Ave Tulsa, OK 74133 Please join Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Star for Coronation IX Weekend April 8-10, 2016 at the Renaissance Tulsa Hotel and Convention Center Visit our Coronation IX website pages - www.impcourtok.org for t ickets (early bird rate ends March 31, 2016 ) and Program Ad Information (Ads needed by March 4, 2016 ) WORKFORCE TULSA Job Openings Management Trainee $40,000/year+ Learn all aspects of the company and make an immediate impact on driving results, as a go through rotations in various departments. M-F 8am-5pm. Must have a Bachelor's Degree or will obtain one within 6 months. Must be 21 years or older and willing to relocate, if needed. Must have valid Driver's License and ability to drive a company van/truck. Sales Representative $40,000/year+ If you're a "discovery finder" and can close a deal successfully, this company is looking for you. M-F 8am-5pm Must have a Clean Motor Vehicle Record (MVR), HS Diploma/GED required,1 year of sales experience required, preferably B2B sales Electrical Apprenticeship $12/hour It's an "Earn as you learn" 4 year apprenticeship where you learn all aspects of being an electrician. 80% handson and 20% classroom learning Full Time position Patient Care Assistants / Home Health Aides $8.50 - $10.00/hour Depending on Experience Assist the elderly, convalescents, or persons with disabilities with daily living activities. Monday - Friday 8am-5pm / No Weekends, No experience required. Must have a dependable vehicle, valid DL, and insurance [ill Ability to pass background check and drug screening r---------------------------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:26 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1bc6c57c05a65e7c48e9de67f34551c9.pdf 813f9f68bb742c09ab18c50078fe7ede PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor EBA Mixer Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group. Non-Binary Support Group "'I 0 4 2015 Donation Tax Letter t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - oeo"" Learning Stories with Dr.Shelly Tochluk LGBT Family Law Seminar e year Jan r f irst na . Blood Drive Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! Tulsa Pride Meeting The Empress' Ball Girl Scout Cookie Sale Green Country Bears Donate to Cub Scouts Tulsa Metro Softball League Kelly Kirby CPA Council Oak Men's Chorale Pryor Rendering Certified Public Accountant Gamily a professional corporation OSU Research Project (918) 747-5466 Pride Store Rainbow Library 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 January Volunteer of the Month kelly@kkirby.com James Murray Follies Video eNews 2016 Equality Gala www.kkirby.com Faith, Trust and Pixie Dus Workforce Tulsa Gala Award Recipients Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Equality Business Alliance Mixer February 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Baker Bryant, PLLC 5407 S Lewis Ave, Ste 100, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, February 18th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. E UALITY Business Alliance OkEq Art Exhibit --4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Bruce Docker Our host for February will be Baker Bryant Attorneys at Law PLLC. Baker Bryant is a boutique law firm specializing in you ... your life and your legacy. Please take a tour of their services and contact them to schedule an appointment. They look forward to offering you superior customer service, high attention to detail, and a welcoming environment that celebrates the diversity of our community. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group February 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Intake Mia Pearl Non-Binary Support Group February 17, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group is starting for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. Facilitator Jim Scholl Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com 2015 Donation Tax Donation Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2015 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Alyssa Bryant, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org Learning Stories with Dr.Shelly Tochluk February 19, 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The YWCA presents Learning Stories with Dr. Shelly Tochluk. An educator, with a background in psychology, I spent ten years as a researcher, counselor, and teacher in California's public schools. I now train teachers to work with Los Angeles' diverse school population as Chair of the Education Department at Mount St. Mary's College. My personal dedication to confront issues of race developed first through my participation with UCLA's NCAA Division-1 All-American Track and Field 4X400 meter relay team and later through my inner city teaching experiences. I currently work with AWARE-LA (Alliance of White Anti-Racists Everywhere-Los Angeles). With this group, I co-created a workshop series that leads white people into a deeper understanding of their personal relationship to race, white privilege, and systemic racism. I am committed to speaking at community forums whenever possible to highlight issues of white racial identity. LGBT Family Law Seminar February 23, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 LGBT families have existed for years, but only recently has Oklahoma law begun recognizing us. With the recent development in the law, comes new responsibilities for our community to ensure that our children are protected. Please join us for an informational seminar on a variety of family law topics, including, but not limited to, marriage, adoption, divorce, child custody issues, military service as it relates to family law, etc. Facilitated by Chris Brecht, who represented Crystal and Julie Loveland-Davis in becoming the first same sex couple to be granted a second parent adoption in Tulsa, by District Court Judge Kurt Glassco. Now Oklahoma officially recognizes the 3 yr old Kyler has two Mommies. Chris will be speaking on adoption and other child custody issues. He will be able to answers questions you may have regarding family law in Oklahoma. Give Blood for Some Buddy You Love February 24, 3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 3 to 7 p.m. Feb. 24 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St. in Tulsa. All women and heterosexual men are encouraged to donate, and new rules from the FDA will now allow the Oklahoma Blood Institute to accept donations from gay and bisexual 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... men who have been celibate for a year or longer. Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Still, we know that leaves out a lot of you, so OkEq is encouraging all gay and bi men to find a buddy who is willing to donate on their behalf and accompany that buddy to the blood drive! Gay and bi men who attend will get the same post-donation snacks and goodies as their buddies, and OkEq will have a photo booth set up where you can commemorate the occasion! We'll also have a letter to the FDA that you can sign stating that you support blood donation standards that maintain the safety of the nation's blood supply while still allowing more gay and bi men to donate. Appointments for donation are encouraged and will ensure that you don't have a long wait. To make an appointment, go online https://www.yourbloodinstitute.org/donor/schedules/ drive_schedule/184689 For more information about the blood drive, contact Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at(918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org For information about blood donation, including whether you're eligible, call the Oklahoma Blood Institute at(918) 477-0400 or go online to www.obi.org . Tulsa Pride Meeting February 25, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Thank you so much for attending the January Tulsa Pride meeting. We look forward to seeing you at our February meeting. It will be held Thursday February 25th at 7:00 pm. We will meet at OKEQ in the event center. Thanks! A ide ~~ p TU LS A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 February 26, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa , Oklahoma 74120 Join us for our second Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Girl Scout Cookie Sale March 3, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusive organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma cookie sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 3rd, 2016 starting at 5:30p.m.. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Sonomas (chocolate, caramel & coconut cookie), Dosi-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie), Rah Rah Raisin (oatmeal raisin), Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie), and a Toffee Tastic gluten free cookie (gluten free is $5.00 a box). 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Green Country Bears Donate to Cub Scouts The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Last week the Green Country Bears made a generous donation of $500.00 to the Cub Scout Pack. Lead by Andrew Grimes. This local pack meets here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan '•..••. I •• I • 1 I I I Tulsa Area Prime Timers Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Council Oak Men's Chorale Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for a few good men...to SING!! If you love to sing, perform and enjoy being around a great group of guys, come join us! COMC is looking for new members and past members to join the chorus for the Spring/Summer season. Joining now means that you will be signing in the concerts this Spring/Summer and also eligible to go with the chorale at GALA Festival in Denver over July 4th weekend. GALA Festival is a held every four years for LGBT choruses from all over the country to perform. There will be 6,000 attendees this year. Rehearsals start February 23 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. All you have to do to join is come to a rehearsal. Then a simple audition for our Artistic Director Kent Dennis after one of the rehearsals. Don't miss the opportunity to join our group. You'll have a great summer singing and performing for family, friends and our community. Along with a trip to Denver that you will never forget. For more information you can contact us at our website at www.counciloak.org or contact COMC's Artistic Director Kent Dennis. Pryor Rendering Friday, February 19, 7:00 p.m. Cedar Ridge Country Club 10302 South Garnett Road Broken Arrow, OK 74011 Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Pryor Rendering a new musical about coming of age and coming out in 1960s rural Oklahoma by Librettist Shawn Churchman and Composer/ Lyricist Frank Schiro An original musical based on the acclaimed novel Pryor Rendering by Oklahoma native Gary Reed. Pryor Rendering is heartfelt, romantic & full of love and hope. Born on a pool table in his grandfather's beer joint, Charlie Hope is a stranger to his eccentric mother, idolizes his absent father, and is coddled by his Grandpa Chick's stable of floozies. The silence and secrecy of small town life in 1960s Oklahoma forces Charlie to keep his thoughts and feelings hidden. Still, he finds the courage to fall deeply and passionately in love. Against all odds he discovers his destiny in the most unlikely of places. Tulsa is an important part of Pryor Rendering. Experience the music and selections from the show. Talk with the creative team following the performance. Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Tickets $75 Cocktails ~ Hors d'oeurvres ~ Show ~ Auction ~ Semi Formal 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... Pryor Rendering - WORLD PREMIERE: Fall 2016 at City Rep, OKC, and American Theatre Company, Tulsa. Your contributions are tax-deductible. Please make check payable to: CityRep for Pryor Rendering c/o Bill Hodge Info: Sue Marinello, Associate Producer, Pryor Rendering suemarinello@optonline.net or visit www. PryorRendering.com listen to music samples under Media Evening hosted by Denis & Julie Schoenhofer, Tulsa EBA & The Gayly Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Gamily Wants Your Input OkEq's Gamily (gay-family) program is looking for ideas to improve and grow our program. What kinds of things would you and your family be interested in learning, doing, or seeing? We are looking to get families of all kinds engaged in our program. Ideas for future events include a family dance, science experiments with the Tulsa Children's Museum Discovery Lab, and a tie-dye party. But we want your input! What favorite activities does your family do together? Do you have a skill you would like to teach? Are there any workshops that you've been hoping for? We want to serve our diverse families. Please contact Olivia Cotter with any ideas or suggestions at 918.724.3232 or olivia.cotter@okeq.org Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/ or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. expands our businesses, careers and community. Equality Center Pride Store Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Pryor Rendering" by Gary Reed "" `I'm gay now,' Rae finally blurted.... `Yea,' I nodded, `me too, I guess.' "" With this confession and self-revelation, Charlie Hope, the 18-year-old protagonist of Reed's bittersweet debut novel, experiences an emancipating epiphany. Born in the beer joint owned by his alcoholic grandfather, Chick, in the bleak town of Pryor, Okla., Charlie spends his boyhood accompanying Chick on a marathon bender through the bars and whorehouses of Tulsa. When Chick dies, 13year-old Charlie is left to fend mostly for himself. Brought up in the confusing isolation of his pious, man-hating mother's home, the p Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ,·71 ·.,·:,. ~ .. ,,.:-:,... -- - -, --~i,·. .. ' .. ~ --~ , ' ,, " ' !'lo • .. - Olivia Cotter 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... boy finds nothing to admire in the town's loutish male role models, most of whom work at Pryor Rendering, where the local slaughterhouse's discarded animal parts are melted down into lubricants and fertilizer. A friendship with Dewar, an opportunistic older inmate of the state-run correctional institution for incorrigible boys, initiates the acting-out of Charlie's disturbing secret sexual fantasies. After an alcoholic escapade at an Indian reservation, he is abandoned by Dewar to find his own way. This lyrical and hauntingly forthright novel avoids psychosocial analysis, offering instead poignant insights into the soul of a youth desperate for acceptance in a world filled with rejection. Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Volunteer of the Month February 2016 Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Marty Newman Marty started in 1987 when we were just a phone bank at a secret (safe) location. While the center was on Peoria St., the phone rang frequently back then, 2/3 of the calls were "where are the bars?" & 1/3 were " I think I'm gonna kill myself." When not volunteering Marty enjoys solving the residential real estate needs of Tulsans and is a devoted member of the Historic Preservation Community bettering Tulsa's future by respecting it's historic built environment & fostering healthy economic community revitalization via healthy & creative urban re-development. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Marty Recommends everyone to volunteer at OKEQ because to him it is sometimes the highlight of his week, the informal & unpredictable conversations that happen with the folks hanging out at the center, make his nights! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. https://youtu.be/bDHkLdrTzgE 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... Equality Gala 2016: The Revolution Continues Saturday, April 30, 2016 Co-Chairs Mary & Sharon Bishop-Baldwin invite you to the 2016 Equality Gala. For sponsorship and ticket information click here. James Murray Follies March 5, 9:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St Tulsa, OK 74120 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... Please join the ICAO Board of Directors for our Annual Fundraiser March 5, 2016 at Tulsa Eagle Proceeds benefit the ICAO's Operational Fund We will also be announcing our Reign IX Monarch Candidates. (Public Voting will take place, April 1st and 2nd in Tulsa & OKC - times/locations TBA). Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust April 8-10 Renaissance Tulsa Hotel & Convention Center 6808 S 107th E Ave Tulsa, OK 74133 Please join Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Star for Coronation IX Weekend April 8-10, 2016 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... at the Renaissance Tulsa Hotel and Convention Center Visit our Coronation IX website pages - www.impcourtok.org for t ickets (early bird rate ends March 31, 2016 ) and Program Ad Information (Ads needed by March 4, 2016 ) WORKFORCE TULSA Job Openings \No. Property Manager and Associate Property Manager $11.00-$13.00/hour Operate the facility within budget. Manage account receivables. Deliver superb customer service. Supervise & help associate property managers. 1st & 2nd Shift @] Must have a High School Diploma/GED and be proficient in Microsoft Excel llil Must have 1 year of sales and/or customer service experience @] Must have reliable transportation Dump Truck Driver $12 & up (Depending on Experience) Properly & safely transport heavy material to & from the job site 7am-6pm; 10 hour-shift, no including lunch r-.7 L!cJ CDL-B and 3-5 years of experience required []] Must be willing to pick up dump truck in Skiatook Lead Sales Associate $12.50/hour As a Lead Support Associate, you support the retail, service, and commercial teams under the direction of the General Manager. 1st & 2nd shift Must have a high school diploma/GED and a valid driver's license Management Trainee $40,000/year+ Learn all aspects of the company and make an immediate impact on driving results, as a go through rotations in various departments. M-F 8am-5pm llil Must have a Bachelor's Degree or be willing to obtain one within 6 months. @] Must be 21 years or older and willing to relocate, if needed [BJ Must have valid d river's license and ability to drive a company van/truck. Sales Representative $40,000/year+ If you're a "discovery finder" and can close a deal successfully, this company is looking for you. M-F 8am-5pm @] Must have a clean Motor Vehicle Record (MVR) llil HS Diploma/GED required []] 1 year of sales experience required, preferably B2B sales Electrical Apprenticeship $12/hour It's an "Earn as you learn" 4 year apprenticeship where you learn all aspects of being an electrician. 80% hands-on and 20% classroom learning Full Time position Collectors $11.56/hour plus commission Making outbound telephone calls to customers who are overdue on their payments; negotiate payments and collect payment transactions. No collections experience required Must have intermediate computer skills Clean background required Must have open availability Patient Care Assistants / Home Health Aides $8.50 - $10.00/hour Depending on Experience Assist the elderly, convalescents, or persons with disabilities with daily living activities. Monday - Friday 8am-5pm / No Weekends, No experience required 00 Must have a dependable vehicle, valid DL, and insurance []] Ability to pass background check and drug screening Food Service Team Member Starting at $7.50/hour - $9.00/hour Several shifts available; Daytime help will be paid more (Depending on Experience). Several Positions: Cashiers, Custard, Drive-Through, Grill, Fryer Must have an upbeat, positive attitude, and excellent customer service skills 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... @] Must have Food Handler's Card within the first 30 days of employment Director of Operations RN $50k-$55k/year Depending on Experience Will be in a teaching atmosphere to instruct and direct the operations of a skilled nursing facility. Monday - Friday 8am - 5pm Comprehensive Benefits! r::7 L!l.l Must have 2 years of Registered Nursing experience in a skilled nursing facility @] Ability to pass a background check and drug screening RNs and LPNs $17.00 - $30.00/hour Assess patient health problems and implements a nursing care plan. Administer nursing care to the ill, injured, convalescent, or disabled patients. Full and Part Time positions available; Shifts range from 7am-11pm $500.00 sign on bonus for a limited time! Comprehensive benefits! r::7 L!l.l Ability to pass a background check and drug screening r::7 L!l.l Must have an unrestricted license to practice in the state of Oklahoma and current CPR Custodians/Janitorial $8.50/hour- $10.00/hour (FT) Monday-Sunday 7:30am-3:30pm/3:30pm-12:00am (PT) Monday-Sunday 9:00am-12:00pm r::7 L!l.l Ability to safely lift bags weighing up to 60lbs. r-7 L!l.l Ability to pass a background check and drug screening (FT Position) Must have a valid Driver's license and Birth Certificate/Passport 1) Go online and create a www.okjobmatch.com job seeker account. Provide your Job Seeker Account Number when you come into our office. 2) Attend an Introduction to Services Orientation at any of the following days or times: 3) Bring the following documents with you: Resume, if you have one 2 forms of ID (i.e., Driver's License, Social Security card, CDIB, Passport). []] Veterans brings DD214 certification How to Enroll: Mon, Wed, or Fri at 10:00 a.m. / Tues or Thurs at 1:30 p.m. Workforce Tulsa 14002 E. 21st Street, Ste. 1030 Tulsa, OK 74134 918-796-1200 ~ Workforce Tulsa Conducts Pre-Screen Interviews with Enrolled Participants Only ~ Please contact our Business Services Coordinator for more information Dominique Clarke: dclarke@grantassociatesinc.com Equal Opportunity Employer/Program and Auxiliary aids and services are available upon request to individuals with disabilities. Voice: 1-800-522-8506 and TDD/TTY: 1-800-722-0353 r---------------------------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:27 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/383a9fac33e3a95815b2397eb2dee82e.pdf 7e00be73ce1ab654dbd8aa77a23e7e94 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Havah Gordon Sponsoring the Week Blood Drive The Empress' Ball 2015 Donation Tax Letter "'I 0 4 t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - Tulsa Pride Meeting oeo"" Passage e year Jan r f irst na "First Thursday" Art Exhibit . Girl Scout Cookie Sale Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! My Oklahoma Town Hall Meeting Ladies Social Club Tulsa Metro Softball League Gamily EBA Mixer Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Worforce Recruitment Event "An Act of Love" Film Screenin Green Country Bears Donate to Cub Scouts Invitation to Participate in Research (918) 747-5466 OSU Research Project Pride Store 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Rainbow Library January Volunteer of the Month Video eNews 2016 Equality Gala James Murray Follies Faith, Trust and Pixie Dus Featured Article Featured Article Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Havah Gordon Sponsoring the Week February 21 - 27 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 24th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Havah Gordon is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... whole week in honor of her birthday on February 21st. She has been a member of OkEq for 18 years. Happy Birthday Havah! The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Bruce Docker Click here to sponsor a day to honor your special occasion. Give Blood for Some Buddy You Love February 24, 3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 3 to 7 p.m. Feb. 24 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St. in Tulsa. All women and heterosexual men are encouraged to donate, and new rules from the FDA will now allow the Oklahoma Blood Institute to accept donations from gay and bisexual men who have been celibate for a year or longer. Still, we know that leaves out a lot of you, so OkEq is encouraging all gay and bi men to find a buddy who is willing to donate on their behalf and accompany that buddy to the blood drive! Gay and bi men who attend will get the same post-donation snacks and goodies as their buddies, and OkEq will have a photo booth set up where you can commemorate the occasion! We'll also have a letter to the FDA that you can sign stating that you support blood donation standards that maintain the safety of the nation's blood supply while still allowing more gay and bi men to donate. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Appointments for donation are encouraged and will ensure that you don't have a long wait. To make an appointment, go online https://www.yourbloodinstitute.org/donor/schedules/ drive_schedule/184689 For more information about the blood drive, contact Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at(918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org For information about blood donation, including whether you're eligible, call the Oklahoma Blood Institute at(918) 477-0400 or go online to www.obi.org . Gamily Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 February 26, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa , Oklahoma 74120 Join us for our second Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org 2015 Donation Tax Donation Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2015 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Alyssa Bryant, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride Meeting February 25, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Thank you so much for attending the January Tulsa Pride meeting. We look forward to seeing you at our February meeting. It will be held Thursday February 25th at 7:00 pm. We will meet at OKEQ in the event center. Thanks! ~~ p TU LSA! d e about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - ~ -- - - - Counseling Services A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Passage March 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because life-changing events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: featuring the combined works of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and Di Klepac March 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The March Oklahomans for Equ ality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4 th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the combined works of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and myself beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 3 rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org This exhibit will be an exciting group showing of new works. The amazing talents of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and Di Klepac will include urban and rural perspectives. Christina Rhodes is mostly self-taught. She has many passions, including jewelry design and creation - incorporating people's 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... sentimental older pieces of jewelry into the center piece of her new interpretation; her current consuming passion is using acrylics as her painting medium while exploring different subject matter. Her creativity comes from deep within herself and she finds inspiration in everyday life. For more than thirty years, Janet Fadler Davie has created her art in the form of murals, decorative painting on furniture and faux finishes in homes and businesses throughout Tulsa and across the United States and Mexico. Beginning with formal oil lessons at the age of nine, and continuing with an Associate Degree in Fine Art and Faux Effects training in high-end furniture finishes, Janet has developed a wide array of decorative painting skills. She is the owner of The Artist's Loft - a working studio specializing in high craft and furniture repurposing. Janet's artwork has been published in Better Homes and Gardens, Southern Living, Oklahoma Magazine and Tulsa People. Nels Sterling Bentson has shown her art throughout the United States - from Oregon to Southern Florida. She creates her art in a variety of mediums but her favorite is painted canvas with works varying in size from miniatures to wall murals, along with commissioned pieces. She speaks of her art: "I like all art and I love water based paint most. I believe water is a spiritual element and transfers a magical effect when the artist and the color moves on the surface of the work. I hope the combination of water and paint will make magic for you also. I feel that Spirit moves the water which moves the paint as I let it work". She was born in the sandy town of Cactus, Texas - then moved to the Ozarks. She has traveled extensively throughout her life and has a B.F.A. in Fine Arts and Art Education from the University of Oklahoma. With heritage from her father (a Norwegian) and her mother (a full Western Cherokee), she speaks of a connection: "I believe this Indian heritage connects me to a special love of nature. I paint as a way to feel that connection. To close the gap with the Great Spirit". Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Di Klepac, originally from the Austin area, has lived in Tulsa for over two decades. Di paints what she sees in her subjects, bringing unique meaning to her art. Di's early development was colored at age 7 by watching her sister paint in the family studio. Di's use of color and forceful strokes in textured tempura reach deep into the soul of the subject matter and pull out the artist's visions that live on that canvas. She says of her work: "The foremost concern in my work has always been a search for subject matter. My paintings usually reflect an unconscious dream in which the creations are part of the waking world of the dreamer. Diversity and quality are always what I hope for in my works - and that hope is a work in progress". The show begins with a reception on Thursday, March 3rd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Girl Scout Cookie Sale March 3, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusive organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma cookie sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 3rd, 2016 starting at 5:30p.m.. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Sonomas (chocolate, caramel & coconut cookie), Dosi-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie), Rah Rah Raisin (oatmeal raisin), Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie), and a Toffee Tastic gluten free cookie (gluten free is $5.00 a box). My Oklahoma Town Hall Meeting March 6, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Town Hall meeting and advocacy training in response to anti-LGBT bills presently before the Oklahoma Legislative session. Participants will be trained and make phone calls to legislator's offices and leave voice mail messages. Participants will write personal notes and letters to legislators. Stationary and stamps will be provided. Will also coordinate scheduled trips to the Oklahoma State Capitol to visit with legislators. Child care available upon request. To arrange child care please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Ladies Social Club March 11, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the Ladies Social Club March 11 for Paintin' & Drinkin'! Social painting is all the rage, and if you haven't done it before, here's your chance! No artistic experience necessary! You'll be led through the painting step-by-step by the very talented Monica Connors, and at the end of the night you'll go home with a beautiful piece of art that YOU created! The class costs $20, which covers all your supplies. You won't need to bring anything. To make sure that everyone gets the best instruction possible, we have a maximum capacity of 20 people. To register, join our private Facebook group (information and link below), and registration instructions are in the event description. This will fill up, so don't wait! Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Gamily Wants Your Input OkEq's Gamily (gay-family) program is looking for ideas to improve and grow our program. What kinds of things would you and your family be interested in learning, doing, or seeing? We are looking to get families of all kinds engaged in our program. Ideas for future events include a family dance, science experiments with the Tulsa Children's Museum Discovery Lab, and a tie-dye party. But we want your input! What favorite activities does your family do together? Do you have a skill you would like to teach? Are there any workshops that you've been hoping for? We want to serve our diverse families. Please contact Olivia Cotter with any ideas or suggestions at 918.724.3232 or olivia.cotter@okeq.org 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Equality Business Alliance Mixer March 16, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. The Campbell Hotel 2636 E 11th St, Tulsa, OK 74104 E UALITY Business Alliance The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ if •. . Our host for March will be The Campbell Hotel, Lounge, Event Center & Spa Maxx. Located right on Historic Route 66, this elegant boutique hotel is the perfect destination for a relaxing weekend getaway or a professional business meeting. Let The Campbell Event Center host your conference, wedding or special event. . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Worforce Recruitment Event March 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Need a new job? Need help with your resume? Or want to have better interviewing skills? $5.00 per Session Oklahomans for Equality and Workforce ••••• Recruitment Event Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Wednesday, March 16th 6 p.m. - 8 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality w '.IW .okeq.org Workf or ce Tu lsa Join Oklahomas for Equality and Workforce on Wednesday, March 16 from 6 PM to 8 PM here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the recruitment event of the year! SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org "An Act of Love" Film Screening March 18, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 "An Act of Love"is an award-winning documentary that highlights the struggle for LGBTQ equality in the nation's second largest Christian denomination, United Methodist Church. It is told through the story of a Methodist minister, Reverend Frank Schaefer, who "risked it all" to perform a same-sex wedding for his son. He was subsequently brought up on charges by the United Methodist Church, defrocked and eventually reinstated. This film is presented by the Tulsa area members of Reconciling Ministries Network (rmnetwork.org), a national group of over 32,000 United Methodist members advocating for full inclusion in the United Methodist Church. We welcome all. Read more at anactoflovefilm.com. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Green Country Bears Donate to Cub Scouts 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. g EQ!Busmess UALITY A/1,ance EBA Directory The Green Country Bears made a generous donation of $500.00 to the Cub Scout Pack. Lead by Andrew Grimes. This local pack meets here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Invitation to Participate in Research The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Looking for people who identify as a member of the lesbian community and are 21 years old or older This study is about the sexuality of both lesbian survivors of breast cancer and lesbian women who have not been diagnosed with breast cancer. Every participant who completes the study will receive a $20 coupon voucher for use at HankyPanky.com. If you have any questions please contact Rosara Torrisi at 516-690-6779 or RRTorrisi@mail.widener.edu Follow this link to complete the survey: https://cumc.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe6/preview/SV_5chCGgUo1595nNz Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: LESBIANS Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... .RrtLI DKCA" I CA CER SURVIVORS ni you t , r· i n 20 upon 11 l' ity W l yours· u· tit -, study t ill r u al IIaukyPrutky. om! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/ or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. --- Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Ex-Gay No Way: Survival and Recovery from Religious Abuse" by Jallen Rix, EdD. Bringing to light an extreme fundamentalist Christian view, this insider's perspective offers hope to people grappling with the aftereffects of a cult-like movement often known as "Reparative Therapy." The movement assumes that going from gay to straight is easily changeable and change-worthy, despite decades of psycho/sexual research to the contrary. Although it did not succeed in making the author-a Southern Baptist who attended an ex-gay ministry at a young agestraight, it did undermine his self-esteem and confuse him significantly, thus leading him to pursue an advanced degree in sexology in order to help others in similar positions. Offering a detailed comparison of the ex-gay world and the phenomenon known as Religious Abuse, this manual shares a personal journey through the hopeless mistreatment and manipulative system of ex-gay ministries and the recovery SURVIVAL ANO RECOVERY ~DOM RHtGOUS ABUSE 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... process involved in regaining strength, acceptance, and selfworth. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Volunteer of the Month February 2016 Marty Newman Marty started in 1987 when we were just a phone bank at a secret (safe) location. While the center was on Peoria St., the phone rang frequently back then, 2/3 of the calls were "where are the bars?" & 1/3 were " I think I'm gonna kill myself." When not volunteering Marty enjoys solving the residential real estate needs of Tulsans and is a devoted member of the Historic Preservation Community bettering Tulsa's future by respecting it's historic built environment & fostering healthy economic community revitalization via healthy & creative urban re-development. Marty Recommends everyone to volunteer at OKEQ because to him it is sometimes the highlight of his week, the informal & unpredictable conversations that happen with the folks hanging out at the center, make his nights! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. https://youtu.be/bDHkLdrTzgE Equality Gala 2016: The Revolution Continues Saturday, April 30, 2016 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... Co-Chairs Mary & Sharon Bishop-Baldwin invite you to the 2016 Equality Gala. For sponsorship and ticket information click here. James Murray Follies March 5, 9:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St Tulsa, OK 74120 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... Please join the ICAO Board of Directors for our Annual Fundraiser March 5, 2016 at Tulsa Eagle Proceeds benefit the ICAO's Operational Fund We will also be announcing our Reign IX Monarch Candidates. (Public Voting will take place, April 1st and 2nd in Tulsa & OKC - times/locations TBA). Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust April 8-10 Renaissance Tulsa Hotel & Convention Center 6808 S 107th E Ave Tulsa, OK 74133 Please join Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Star for Coronation IX Weekend April 8-10, 2016 at the Renaissance Tulsa Hotel and Convention Center Visit our Coronation IX website pages - www.impcourtok.org for t ickets (early bird rate ends March 31, 2016 ) and Program Ad Information (Ads needed by March 4, 2016 ) : -----------------------------------------------------------------~ Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I okeq ___________________________________________________________________________ j L 4/23/26, 5:28 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b72e76a36ba2b9e622b56e9574f0f569.pdf 0469d2425ee4fff070e669ecb281a596 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 3rd 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Girl Scout Cookie Sale January Volunteer of the Month Video eNews "'I 0 4 t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - My Oklahoma Town Hall Meeting oeo"" Ladies Social Club e year Jan r f irst na EBA Mixer . Worforce Recruitment Event Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! Tulsa Metro Softball League "An Act of Love" Film Screenin Awakening Joy Providing Safety and Support Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs Kelly Kirby CPA Passage Lawyer in the Library Certified Public Accountant Pride Store a professional corporation Rainbow Library (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 Invitation to Participate in Research OSU Research Project James Murray Follies Faith, Trust and Pixie Dus Featured Article kelly@kkirby.com Featured Article www.kkirby.com Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 24th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: featuring the combined works of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and Di Klepac March 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The March Oklahomans for Equ ality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4 th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the combined works of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and myself beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 3 rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Bruce Docker 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... This exhibit will be an exciting group showing of new works. The amazing talents of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and Di Klepac will include urban and rural perspectives. Christina Rhodes is mostly self-taught. She has many passions, including jewelry design and creation - incorporating people's sentimental older pieces of jewelry into the center piece of her new interpretation; her current consuming passion is using acrylics as her painting medium while exploring different subject matter. Her creativity comes from deep within herself and she finds inspiration in everyday life. For more than thirty years, Janet Fadler Davie has created her art in the form of murals, decorative painting on furniture and faux finishes in homes and businesses throughout Tulsa and across the United States and Mexico. Beginning with formal oil lessons at the age of nine, and continuing with an Associate Degree in Fine Art and Faux Effects training in high-end furniture finishes, Janet has developed a wide array of decorative painting skills. She is the owner of The Artist's Loft - a working studio specializing in high craft and furniture repurposing. Janet's artwork has been published in Better Homes and Gardens, Southern Living, Oklahoma Magazine and Tulsa People. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Nels Sterling Bentson has shown her art throughout the United States - from Oregon to Southern Florida. She creates her art in a variety of mediums but her favorite is painted canvas with works varying in size from miniatures to wall murals, along with commissioned pieces. She speaks of her art: "I like all art and I love water based paint most. I believe water is a spiritual element and transfers a magical effect when the artist and the color moves on the surface of the work. I hope the combination of water and paint will make magic for you also. I feel that Spirit moves the water which moves the paint as I let it work". She was born in the sandy town of Cactus, Texas - then moved to the Ozarks. She has traveled extensively throughout her life and has a B.F.A. in Fine Arts and Art Education from the University of Oklahoma. With heritage from her father (a Norwegian) and her mother (a full Western Cherokee), she speaks of a connection: "I believe this Indian heritage connects me to a special love of nature. I paint as a way to feel that connection. To close the gap with the Great Spirit". Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gamily Di Klepac, originally from the Austin area, has lived in Tulsa for over two decades. Di paints what she sees in her subjects, bringing unique meaning to her art. Di's early development was colored at age 7 by watching her sister paint in the family studio. Di's use of color and forceful strokes in textured tempura reach deep into the soul of the subject matter and pull out the artist's visions that live on that canvas. She says of her work: "The foremost concern in my work has always been a search for subject matter. My paintings usually reflect an unconscious dream in which the creations are part of the waking world of the dreamer. Diversity and quality are always what I hope for in my works - and that hope is a work in progress". The show begins with a reception on Thursday, March 3rd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Girl Scout Cookie Sale March 3, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusive organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma cookie sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 3rd, 2016 starting at 5:30p.m.. Healthcare Navigator The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Sonomas (chocolate, caramel & coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie), Rah Rah Raisin (oatmeal raisin), Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie), and a Toffee Tastic gluten free cookie (gluten free is $5.00 a box). Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Volunteer of the Month March 2016 Counseling Services David Brooks Parson About three years ago, David decided to volunteer at OKEQ because he wanted to get more involved in the LGBT community. He enjoys being at the front desk of the center, answering the phone and greeting people and being a part of it all. A message from our volunteer of the month: "I would recommend volunteering at OKEQ to anyone who has some free time, and wants to get involved in this amazing organization. I don't think people realize what we have here, in Tulsa, OK, the Buckle of the Bible Belt. We have one of the largest LGBT resource centers in the country, and the world for that matter, and I'm proud to be a part of it!" Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org https://youtu.be/PexsZ2aSKW0 Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org My Oklahoma Town Hall Meeting March 6, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Town Hall meeting and advocacy training in response to anti-LGBT bills presently before the Oklahoma Legislative session. Participants will be trained and make phone calls to legislator's offices and leave voice mail messages. Participants will write personal notes and letters to legislators. Stationary and stamps will be provided. Will also coordinate scheduled trips to the Oklahoma State Capitol to visit with legislators. Child care available upon request. To arrange child care please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Ladies Social Club March 11, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The Ladies Social Club has definitely hit the ground running! This tremendous group of women has had a blast at our first two monthly events, and we expect our March event to be just as successful. Join us on March 11 for Paintin' & Drinkin'! We will be led step-by-step through a custom painting (made specifically for us!) by the talented Monica Conners, and at the end of the night you'll go home with a beautiful piece of art that YOU created! This painting class has only THREE seats left so act now if you'd like to paint! The class is $20 (a steal!), which will cover all your supplies. To register, join LSC's closed Facebook group (information and link below) and all the instructions you need are in the event description. You must pay via paypal in advance to reserve your seat; an RSVP on the facebook event does not count! This will fill up, so don't wait! Don't want to paint? Class is full? Come anyway! There will be music, light refreshments, games, and plenty of places to sit and hang out with other really cool women. Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Equality Business Alliance Mixer March 16, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. The Campbell Hotel 2636 E 11th St, Tulsa, OK 74104 Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... E UALITY Business Alliance Our host for March will be The Campbell Hotel, Lounge, Event Center & Spa Maxx. Located right on Historic Route 66, this elegant boutique hotel is the perfect destination for a relaxing weekend getaway or a professional business meeting. Let The Campbell Event Center host your conference, wedding or special event. may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. Worforce Recruitment Event March 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Need a new job? Need help with your resume? Or want to have better interviewing skills? Oklahomans for Equality and Workforce •••••• Recruitment Event Third Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 SOS Group 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Wednesday, March 16th 6 p.m. - 8 p.m. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality w vw .okeq.org Workfor ce Tulsa tn f t,i. ,~ ·rw. 1 o/1 1 ,o., J Join Oklahomas for Equality and Workforce on Wednesday, March 16 from 6 PM to 8 PM here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the recruitment event of the year! Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com ■ • .. . "An Act of Love" Film Screening March 18, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 "An Act of Love"is an award-winning documentary that highlights the struggle for LGBTQ equality in the nation's second largest Christian denomination, United Methodist Church. It is told through the story of a Methodist minister, Reverend Frank Schaefer, who "risked it all" to perform a same-sex wedding for his son. He was subsequently brought up on charges by the United Methodist Church, defrocked and eventually reinstated. This film is presented by the Tulsa area members of Reconciling Ministries Network (rmnetwork.org), a national group of over 32,000 United Methodist members advocating for full inclusion in the United Methodist Church. We welcome all. Read more at anactoflovefilm.com. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class Awakening Joy Mar 19 - 20, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for three progressive weekends (3rd weekend in March, April & May) to awaken to the joy that is already inside of us through the healing power of breath. Breathwork is a simple, powerful, clear process of self-discovery. The mechanics are simple and easy to learn and can bring you powerful information, integration and understanding. Whether you are living your dream life or experiencing struggle, confusion or dissatisfaction with your results, Breathwork can lead you to powerful understanding of how to heal your life expression or how to expand more fully into your life experience. Weekend 1: Discovering Self Weekend 2: Forgiveness Weekend 3: Holiness & Service "Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day." ~Henri Nouwen **Early bird pricing available until the end of day on March 11th! Each weekend can be taken individually, however, we encourage you to attend all 3 weekends to receive maximum benefit. Please contact Arthur Curtis at 305-758-7588 or Shela Tarwater Crump at 918-576-1430 for details or to register. Providing Safety and Support for LGBTQ Survivors of Violence and Sexual Assault Training March 24, 5:30 p.m. - Reception March 25, 9:00 a.m. - 3:00 p.m. - Training This training is for personnel who have direct contact with clients or survivors who might be LGBT and for managers, supervisors or trainers who oversee policy and influence system culture. The training will include how to assess coercive control in LGBTQ abusive relationships, looking at sexual and intimate partner violence through a trans lens and legal issues for the LGBTQ victim. Special guest Technical Assistance Trainer Kristin Tucker will join us from Seattle, WA. EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... Kristin is the Senior Program Manager and Coordinator of the National Training and Technical Assistance Program at the Northwest Network in Seattle. In her current role she provides support, training and technical assistance to mainstream, domestic and sexual violence service providers across the US. This seminar is produced in partnership with the Family Safety Center and Oklahomans for Equality and serves to fulfill the work under the Legal Assistance to Victims grant with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. To RSVP please contact mleighty@fsctulsa.org Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs April 2, 2016 Eureka Springs, AR The first city in Arkansas to officially endorse same-sex marriage and the first and only one of two cities in AR with a Domestic Partnership Registry, and now the only city in Arkansas with an LGBT specific antidiscrimination ordinance, Eureka Springs also the number one vacation destination in the Mid-South for out and proud LGBT travelers. Survivors of Incest Anonymous The antithesis of the redneck stereotype, our micro mecca has been a beyond-gay-friendly getaway for decades-- long before out was in. Here, one Gay Pride weekend won't do. So, Spring, Summer and Fall we also celebrate a trifecta of Diversity Weekends that attract thousands of gay and lesbian gaycationers. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Every Saturday 12:30 pm A microcosm of San Francisco, we boast a disproportionately large gay population, dozens of gay-owned and gay-friendly B&Bs, hotels, restaurants, bars, nightclubs, art galleries, shops, turn-of-the-century Victorian homes and vintage trolleys plying steep and narrow village streets. For a weekend or a week, find out for yourself how easy it is to be Out In Eureka. Passage April 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because life-changing events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Lawyer in the Library April 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center - Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Click here to purchase your pendant today! Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "How Would You Feel If Your Dad Was Gay?" by Ann Heron & Meredith Maran Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Jasmine, Michael and Noah are all regular kids except for one thing: Jasmine and Michael have two gay fathers. Noah has a gay mother. They have some unique concerns that they've never seen discussed by anyone else. This book, written by two lesbian mothers with help from their sons, will be a lifeline for other young people who face the same issues. It will also help their classmates, teachers, and parents to better understand just how varied today's families can be. 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... / Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . "1 A11t1 t-1 &fott 1. .t'tr~iff,~ ,llw!lr.tffll lot ICfi> ~ Invitation to Participate in Research Looking for people who identify as a member of the lesbian community and are 21 years old or older This study is about the sexuality of both lesbian survivors of breast cancer and lesbian women who have not been diagnosed with breast cancer. Every participant who completes the study will receive a $20 coupon voucher for use at HankyPanky.com. If you have any questions please contact Rosara Torrisi at 516-690-6779 or RRTorrisi@mail.widener.edu Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Follow this link to complete the survey: https://cumc.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe6/preview/SV_5chCGgUo1595nNz Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org LESBIANS AND BREAST CA CER SURVIVORS Phl> stud you to om • r C i Wid 1 u1 arti ipa11t wl a 20 Oll1}011 r ni nbou r ity w our s • ·u 1 th • stu II r U Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org at IIaukyPanky. om! 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/ or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. James Murray Follies March 5, 9:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St Tulsa, OK 74120 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... Please join the ICAO Board of Directors for our Annual Fundraiser March 5, 2016 at Tulsa Eagle Proceeds benefit the ICAO's Operational Fund We will also be announcing our Reign IX Monarch Candidates. (Public Voting will take place, April 1st and 2nd in Tulsa & OKC - times/locations TBA). 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust April 8-10 Renaissance Tulsa Hotel & Convention Center 6808 S 107th E Ave Tulsa, OK 74133 Please join Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Star for Coronation IX Weekend April 8-10, 2016 at the Renaissance Tulsa Hotel and Convention Center Visit our Coronation IX website pages - www.impcourtok.org for t ickets (early bird rate ends March 31, 2016 ) and Program Ad Information (Ads needed by March 4, 2016 ) ~---------------------------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:30 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b453f09f1292c664a1313b368fedec30.pdf b833da6fc6925ed9d48211610fc47d23 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer Worforce Recruitment Event January Volunteer of the Month "'I 0 4 t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - Girl Scout Cookie Sale oeo"" Tulsa Metro Softball League e year Jan r f irst na "An Act of Love" Film Screenin . Awakening Joy Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo Providing Safety and Support P.S. Gordon Exhibit Passage "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Kelly Kirby CPA Lawyer in the Library Certified Public Accountant Rainbow Library a professional corporation Video eNews (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 Pride Store Invitation to Participate in Research OSU Research Project Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs Faith, Trust and Pixie Dus Featured Article kelly@kkirby.com Featured Article www.kkirby.com Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 24th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Ladies Social Club March 11, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The Ladies Social Club has definitely hit the ground running! This tremendous group of women has had a blast at our first two monthly events, and we expect our March event to be just as successful. Join us on March 11 for Paintin' & Drinkin'! We will be led step-by-step through a custom painting (made specifically for us!) by the talented Monica Conners, and at the end of the All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and Di Klepac. This exhibit is entitled 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... corrnng January 8 2016 night you'll go home with a beautiful piece of art that YOU to the Dennis R Nedi Equality Center created! This painting class has only THREE seats left so act now if you'd like to paint! The class is $20 (a steal!), which will cover all your supplies. To register, join LSC's closed Facebook group (information and link below) and all the instructions you need are in the event description. You must pay via paypal in advance to reserve your seat; an RSVP on the facebook event does not count! This will fill up, so don't wait! "Bohemian Daydreams" Don't want to paint? Class is full? Come anyway! There will be music, light refreshments, games, and plenty of places to sit and hang out with other really cool women. Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Equality Business Alliance Mixer March 16, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. The Campbell Hotel 2636 E 11th St, Tulsa, OK 74104 E UALITY Business Alliance Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Our host for March will be The Campbell Hotel, Lounge, Event Center & Spa Maxx. Located right on Historic Route 66, this elegant boutique hotel is the perfect destination for a relaxing weekend getaway or a professional business meeting. Let The Campbell Event Center host your conference, wedding or special event. Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. Worforce Recruitment Event March 16, 6:00 p.m. Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Need a new job? Need help with your resume? Or want to have better interviewing skills? Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Recruitment Event Counseling Services Wednesday, March 16th 6 p.m. - 8 p.m. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality w w .okeq.org Workf or ce Tulsa tii.' (()j I .. I ~ "()/i', "(}fl' / {/(},; . Join Oklahomas for Equality and Workforce on Wednesday, March 16 from 6 PM to 8 PM here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the recruitment event of the year! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Volunteer of the Month March 2016 David Brooks Parson 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... About three years ago, David decided to volunteer at OKEQ because he wanted to get more involved in the LGBT community. He enjoys being at the front desk of the center, answering the phone and greeting people and being a part of it all. A message from our volunteer of the month: "I would recommend volunteering at OKEQ to anyone who has some free time, and wants to get involved in this amazing organization. I don't think people realize what we have here, in Tulsa, OK, the Buckle of the Bible Belt. We have one of the largest LGBT resource centers in the country, and the world for that matter, and I'm proud to be a part of it!" Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Girl Scout Cookie Sale March 16, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusive organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma cookie sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 16th, 2016 starting at 5:30p.m.. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Sonomas (chocolate, caramel & coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie), Rah Rah Raisin (oatmeal raisin), Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie), and a Toffee Tastic gluten free cookie (gluten free is $5.00 a box). Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com "An Act of Love" Film Screening highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. March 18, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 "An Act of Love"is an award-winning documentary that highlights the struggle for LGBTQ equality in the nation's second largest Christian denomination, United Methodist Church. It is told through the story of a Methodist minister, Reverend Frank Schaefer, who "risked it all" to perform a same-sex wedding for his son. He was subsequently brought up on charges by the United Methodist Church, defrocked and eventually reinstated. This film is presented by the Tulsa area members of Reconciling Ministries Network (rmnetwork.org), a national group of over 32,000 United Methodist members advocating for full inclusion in the United Methodist Church. We welcome all. Read more at anactoflovefilm.com. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Awakening Joy Mar 19, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for the afternoon to awaken to the joy that is already inside of us through the healing power of breath. Breathwork is a simple, powerful, clear process of self-discovery. The mechanics are simple and easy to learn and can bring you powerful information, integration and understanding. Whether you are living your dream life or experiencing struggle, confusion or dissatisfaction with your results, Breathwork can lead you to powerful understanding of how to heal your life expression or how to expand more fully into your life experience. "Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day." ~Henri Nouwen **Early bird pricing available until the end of day on March 11th!** Please contact Arthur Curtis at 305-758-7588 or Shela Tarwater Crump at 918-576-1430 for details or to register. 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo March 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our third Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Providing Safety and Support for LGBTQ Survivors of Violence and Sexual Assault Training March 24, 5:30 p.m. - Reception March 25, 8:30 a.m. - 3:00 p.m. - Training This training is for personnel who have direct contact with clients or survivors who might be LGBT and for managers, supervisors or trainers who oversee policy and influence system culture. The training will include how to assess coercive control in LGBTQ abusive relationships, looking at sexual and intimate partner violence through a trans lens and legal issues for the LGBTQ victim. Special guest Technical Assistance Trainer Kristin Tucker will join us from Seattle, WA. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Kristin is the Senior Program Manager and Coordinator of the National Training and Technical Assistance Program at the Northwest Network in Seattle. In her current role she provides support, training and technical assistance to mainstream, domestic and sexual violence service providers across the US. This seminar is produced in partnership with the Family Safety Center and Oklahomans for Equality and serves to fulfill the work under the Legal Assistance to Victims grant with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. To RSVP please contact mleighty@fsctulsa.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... Providing Safety and Support for LGBTQ Survivors of Violence and Sexual Assault ■ • .. . BEST PRACTICES TRAINING MARCH 24-25 TULSA, OK March 24 th Reception Kristin Tucker from NW Network at 5pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers March 25 th A Day of Learning 8 :30am - 3pm * $5 box lunch with RSVP This NO COST training is for direct support service personnel, their supervisors, HR staff, funders and is open to t he public. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 62 1 E 4th St , Tulsa, OK I 9 18-7 43-423 7 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm RSVP and Questions mleighty@fsctulsa.org I 918 - 74--2931 $5.00 per Session okl•homDn• for equ llty Gender Outreach P.S. Gordon Exhibit April 1 - April 28 Living Arts Tulsa 307 E Mathew B. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74120 As part of our mission, Living Arts is establishing the Living Arts Living Legend Artist Award honoring those artists responsible for pushing the art world forward, establishing the reputation of Tulsa as an artistic city, and contributing to the encouragement and inspiration of other artists in our community. AND THE GIFT OF Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. FALLING SNOW P.S. GORDON During April 2016, Living Arts will be exhibiting works by Patrick (P.S.) Gordon never before seen in a public exhibition. Many of these works are held in private collections and all of them will demonstrate Pat's exquisite skill and never-before-seen subject matter. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... For more information visit http://livingarts.org/ps-gordon-mrs-lennox-gift-falling-snow Passage April 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because life-changing events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: Kris Fairchild Aprill 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4 th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Kris Fairchild beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. A lifelong Oklahoman, Kris was exposed to art and creativity at an early age. Her art began to be influenced many years ago, while as a young girl, she watched her father create beautiful stained glass windows and spent her summers enjoying nature . She graduated from University of Central Oklahoma with a degree in formation art. For many years she worked in other fields ranging from managing retail to advertising, her passion has always been for art and nature. Over the years, Kris has taught art classes ranging from ceramics, to sculpture and painting; she spends her summers volunteering with children's camps. Today Kris transforms those experiences into the swirls, curls and mandalas found in her acrylic paintings. The paintings each explore symbolism thru images of nature, fantasy and geometric shapes. Mandalas and trees both are often showcased in Fairchild's paintings. To her, the mandalas represent balance, harmony and unity; they are symbolic of the universe. Trees represent life and growth; they are a symbolic of wisdom, strength, beauty, and protection. Many other images also find symbolism in her paintings. Fairchild's paintings combine a variety of techniques and bright colors giving the paintings an energetic and vivid look, as if the light is glowing through them. The structured geometric patterns next to the more free forms of nature and a bit of whimsy, invite the viewer to experience the joy she finds in life. For over a decade Kris has enjoyed sharing her work at a variety of art festivals, fairs, galleries, and restaurants. Her work is in private collections across the US and in Europe. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. g E UALITY QJBusmess Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Lawyer in the Library April 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center - Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org , - ~· ,,7;:,1:-... ,. ,:~ ·. •'-" ... ' - ·~ ·, . Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items • . ' ...... • • ;, • • ., 1" - ' Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "How Would You Feel If Your Dad Was Gay?" by Ann Heron & Meredith Maran Sexy earthy Val MacGregor has what most women want - a cozy New York City apartment, a thriving career as a stewardess, and the constant attention of admiring men. Val enjoys it all, even if it does feel like something's missing, something she can't quite put her finger on. And then Val meets passionate, lovely Toni Molina, and when their friendship leads to a smoldering kiss, she feels complete as she never has before. Moving on with Toni to California, Val struggles to understand the depth of her feelings for her new lover. While she worries about how her extended family will feel about her lifestyle, she never suspects that the greatest threat to her love will come from within. Now, to love and live freely, Val will have to liberate not just her mind, but her very heart and soul. PAU L A CHRIST AN "" Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... https://youtu.be/PexsZ2aSKW0 Invitation to Participate in Research Looking for people who identify as a member of the lesbian community and are 21 years old or older This study is about the sexuality of both lesbian survivors of breast cancer and lesbian women who have not been diagnosed with breast cancer. Every participant who completes the study will receive a $20 coupon voucher for use at HankyPanky.com. If you have any questions please contact Rosara Torrisi at 516-690-6779 or RRTorrisi@mail.widener.edu Follow this link to complete the survey: https://cumc.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe6/preview/SV_5chCGgUo1595nNz LESBIANS AND BREAST CA CER SURVIVORS 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 12 of 13 y uu ,u -u111p1 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... 1. n u cv D UUUl y uu,- :!CA ll ll llL • Eu ry p<u-Li ipa11t wlto ompl t > tit > study l m 1 n 2 0 OUJJ011 ou It rfor u ot IIaukyPanky. om! J' Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/ or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs April 2, 2016 Eureka Springs, AR The first city in Arkansas to officially endorse same-sex marriage and the first and only one of two cities in AR with a Domestic Partnership Registry, and now the only city in Arkansas with an LGBT specific antidiscrimination ordinance, Eureka Springs also the number one vacation destination in the Mid-South for out and proud LGBT travelers. The antithesis of the redneck stereotype, our micro mecca has been a beyond-gay-friendly getaway for decades-- long before out was in. Here, one Gay Pride weekend won't do. So, Spring, Summer and Fall we also celebrate a trifecta of Diversity Weekends that attract thousands of gay and lesbian gaycationers. A microcosm of San Francisco, we boast a disproportionately large gay population, dozens of gay-owned and gay-friendly B&Bs, hotels, restaurants, bars, nightclubs, art galleries, shops, turn-of-the-century Victorian homes and vintage trolleys plying steep and narrow village streets. For a weekend or a week, find out for yourself how easy it is to be Out In Eureka. Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust April 8-10 Renaissance Tulsa Hotel & Convention Center 6808 S 107th E Ave Tulsa, OK 74133 Please join Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Star for Coronation IX Weekend April 8-10, 2016 at the Renaissance Tulsa Hotel and Convention Center Visit our Coronation IX website pages - www.impcourtok.org for t ickets (early bird rate ends March 31, 2016 ) and Program Ad Information (Ads needed by March 4, 2016 ) r---------------------------------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L---------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:34 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/bd5fb4a4129724a259d0bea952e2bb64.pdf 99acbe6b9414c27b64f65da2635a3f4a PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 1 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor EBA Mixer Worforce Recruitment Event Girl Scout Cookie Sale "An Act of Love" Film Screenin "'I 0 4 t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - Tulsa Metro Softball League oeo"" January Volunteer of the Month e year Jan Awakening Joy r f irst na . 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! MOREcolor Providing Safety and Support Passage Gay Men's Dinner Group "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Kelly Kirby CPA Lawyer in the Library Certified Public Accountant Oklahoma Board Association Law Day a professional corporation Pride Store (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 Ladies Social Club Rainbow Library Video eNews Sondheim on Sondheim P.S. Gordon Exhibit Jackpot Golf Classic kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Grab Your Balls! Invitation to Participate in Research OSU Research Project Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs Faith, Trust and Pixie Dus Featured Article Featured Article Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Equality Business Alliance Mixer March 16, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. The Campbell Hotel 2636 E 11th St, Tulsa, OK 74104 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 24th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center E UALITY Business Alliance All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. --4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 2 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and Di Klepac. This exhibit is entitled "Bohemian Daydreams" Our host for March will be The Campbell Hotel, Lounge, Event Center & Spa Maxx. Located right on Historic Route 66, this elegant boutique hotel is the perfect destination for a relaxing weekend getaway or a professional business meeting. Let The Campbell Event Center host your conference, wedding or special event. Andrew Grimes The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. Worforce Recruitment Event Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. March 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Need a new job? Need help with your resume? Or want to have better interviewing skills? Oklahomans for Equality and Workforce Gamily •••••• Recruitment Event Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 3 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... weanesaay, Maren 10,n Lawyer in the Library 6 p.m. - 8 p.m. February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Healthcare Navigator Oklahomans for Equality w 'JW .okeq.org Workforce Tu lsa Join Oklahomas for Equality and Workforce on Wednesday, March 16 from 6 PM to 8 PM here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the recruitment event of the year! Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - Counseling Services Girl Scout Cookie Sale March 16, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusive organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma cookie sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 16th, 2016 starting at 5:30p.m.. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Somoas (chocolate, caramel & coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie), Rah Rah Raisin (oatmeal raisin), Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie), and a Toffee Tastic gluten free cookie (gluten free is $5.00 a box). Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 "An Act of Love" Film Screening March 18, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 "An Act of Love"is an award-winning documentary that highlights the struggle for LGBTQ equality in the nation's second largest Christian denomination, United Methodist Church. It is told through the story of a Methodist minister, Reverend Frank Schaefer, who "risked it all" to perform a same-sex wedding for his son. He was subsequently brought up on charges by the United Methodist Church, defrocked and eventually reinstated. This film is presented by Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 4 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... the Tulsa area members of Reconciling Ministries ~ DENve· ~~ VALLEr; · " St Louis " ~ FILM FE STIVA L tIt MILL ~ILM FESTIVA \ 11rns~101Ull~n,!'N, 1 / Network (rmnetwork.org), a national group of over ::!~ "" ,_~ ' ~'l + C.' 32,000 United Methodist members advocating for full inclusion in the United Methodist Church. We welcome all. Read more at anactoflovefilm.com. e Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Congratulations to the Tulsa Metro Softbal League on their wins at the Lone Star Classic in Houston Texas last weekend! Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 5 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... First Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. We are so proud of the Tulsa Smoke B team who won 1st place. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group We are so proud of the Tulsa Smoke C team who won 5th place. Volunteer of the Month March 2016 David Brooks Parson Third Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 6 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... About three years ago, David decided to volunteer at OKEQ because he wanted to get more involved in the LGBT community. He enjoys being at the front desk of the center, answering the phone and greeting people and being a part of it all. A message from our volunteer of the month: "I would recommend volunteering at OKEQ to anyone who has some free time, and wants to get involved in this amazing organization. I don't think people realize what we have here, in Tulsa, OK, the Buckle of the Bible Belt. We have one of the largest LGBT resource centers in the country, and the world for that matter, and I'm proud to be a part of it!" creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 SOS Group If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Awakening Joy Mar 19, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for the afternoon to awaken to the joy that is already inside of us through the healing power of breath. Breathwork is a simple, powerful, clear process of self-discovery. The mechanics are simple and easy to learn and can bring you powerful information, integration and understanding. Whether you are living your dream life or experiencing struggle, confusion or dissatisfaction with your results, Breathwork can lead you to powerful understanding of how to heal your life expression or how to expand more fully into your life experience. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather "Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day." ~Henri Nouwen **Early bird pricing available until the end of day on March 11th!** Please contact Arthur Curtis at 305-758-7588 or Shela Tarwater Crump at 918-576-1430 for details or to register. 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo March 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our third Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org -- --- Call for Entries MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 7 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2016 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award, and a People's choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. KEY INFORMATION ( please review full submission requirements and enter online ) May 8th: Submission deadline Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 2 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event Entry Fee: A single entry fee (per artist, NOT per piece) of $10 for up to five works SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ if •. . . May 25th: Artist notification of acceptance into the exhibition June 9th: Delivery of Art Work, 3 to 6pm All work must be appropriately ready to display (see the submission requirements) June 9th: MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public, cash prizes awarded, surprises and live performances, catered cuisine and bar, sale of fine art. Artists are encouraged to bring as many guests as they like. June 9th-12th: Run of the Show June 13th: Pick up unsold work, 3 to 6pm To Enter: Go to https://morecolor2016.artcall.org/ for online submission of entries. All entries must be made online. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Thank you for being part of MOREcolor 2016! Providing Safety and Support for LGBTQ Survivors of Violence and Sexual Assault Training March 24, 5:00 p.m. - Reception March 25, 8:30 a.m. - 3:00 p.m. - Training This training is for personnel who have direct contact with clients or survivors who might be LGBT and for managers, supervisors or trainers who oversee policy and influence system culture. The training will include how to assess coercive control in LGBTQ abusive relationships, looking at sexual and intimate partner violence through a trans lens and legal issues for the LGBTQ victim. Special guest Technical Assistance Trainer Kristin Tucker will join us from Seattle, WA. Kristin is the Senior Program Manager and Coordinator of the National Training and Technical Assistance Program at the Northwest Network in Seattle. In her current role she provides support, training and technical assistance to mainstream, domestic and sexual violence service providers across the US. Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session This seminar is produced in partnership with the Family Safety Center and Oklahomans for Equality and serves to fulfill the work under the Legal Assistance to Victims grant with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. To RSVP please contact mleighty@fsctulsa.org Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 8 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... Lambda Al-Anon Group Providing Safety and Support for LGBTQ Survivors of Violence and Sexual Assault Every Friday 7 p.m. BEST PRACTICES TRAINING MARCH 24-25 TULSA, OK March 25 th A Day of Learning March 24 th Reception Kristin Tucker from NW Network at 5pm 8:30am - 3pm * $5 box lunch with RSVP This NO COST training is for direct support service personnel , their supervisors, HR staff, funders and is open to t he public. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 62 1 E 4t h St, Tulsa , OK I 9 18-7 43-423 7 RSVP and Questions mleighty@fsctulsa.org I 918- 74-2931 oklahom n.s for equality Game Night Passage April 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because life-changing events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 9 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... Gay Men's Dinner Group April 5, 6:30 p.m. Burn Co. BBQ 1738 S. Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Cost is $25 per person. This includes meal with soda/tea. The bar will be open also, but not included in the $25. Please drink responsibly. This is probably our favorite dinner location. Adam at BurnCo is opening the restaurant just for our group. So please lets treat them right. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. If you are coming please rsvp. I need a headcount for the reservation. To RSVP please contact Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com Also Dine Out For Life is Thursday April 30th. This is an annual dining fundraising event raising money for AIDS service organizations (H.O.P.E.). Participating restaurants are donating a percentage of their sales. You can go to diningoutforlife.com for a list of participating restaurants. BurnCo is a participating restaurant for lunch. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: Kris Fairchild Aprill 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4 th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Kris Fairchild beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. A lifelong Oklahoman, Kris was exposed to art and creativity at an early age. Her art began to be influenced many years ago, while as a young girl, she watched her father create beautiful stained glass windows and spent her summers enjoying nature . She graduated from University of Central Oklahoma with a degree in formation art. For many years she worked in other fields ranging from managing retail to advertising, her passion has always been for art and nature. Over the years, Kris has taught art classes ranging from ceramics, to sculpture and painting; she spends her summers volunteering with children's camps. Today Kris transforms those experiences into the swirls, curls and mandalas found in her acrylic paintings. The paintings each explore symbolism thru images of nature, fantasy and geometric shapes. Mandalas and trees both are often showcased in Fairchild's paintings. To her, the mandalas represent balance, harmony and unity; they are symbolic of the universe. Trees represent life and growth; they are a symbolic of wisdom, strength, beauty, and protection. Many other images also find symbolism in her paintings. Fairchild's paintings combine a variety of techniques and bright colors giving the paintings an energetic and vivid look, as if the light is glowing through them. The structured geometric patterns next to the more free forms of nature and a bit of whimsy, invite the viewer to experience the joy she finds in life. For over a decade Kris has enjoyed sharing her work at a variety of art festivals, fairs, galleries, and restaurants. Her work is in private collections across the US and in Europe. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 10 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Ladies Social Club April 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The Ladies Social Club has definitely hit the ground running! This tremendous group of women has had a blast at our first two monthly events, and we expect our March event to be just as successful. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Join us on March 11 for Paintin' & Drinkin'! We will be led step-by-step through a custom painting (made specifically for us!) by the talented Monica Conners, and at the end of the night you'll go home with a beautiful piece of art that YOU created! This painting class has only THREE seats left so act now if you'd like to paint! The class is $20 (a steal!), which will cover all your supplies. To register, join LSC's closed Facebook group (information and link below) and all the instructions you need are in the event description. You must pay via paypal in advance to reserve your seat; an RSVP on the facebook event does not count! This will fill up, so don't wait! Don't want to paint? Class is full? Come anyway! There will be music, light refreshments, games, and plenty of places to sit and hang out with other really cool women. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Lawyer in the Library April 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center - Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 ~ LAWYER IN THE LIBRARY is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, C custody, child support) , landlord/tenant, estate planning, < and bankruptcy. . ~ .... 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 11 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... Oklahoma Bar Association Law Day April 28, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. The OBA will provide free legal advice on Thursday, April 28 from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m., as part of its annual Law Day celebration and the Ask A Lawyer TV show, broadcasting on OETA. Viewers, statewide can call toll-free 1-800-456-8525 and Tulsa area residents can call 918-838-8770 to have their legal questions answered and get legal advice, at NO CHARGE, by the volunteer attorneys. Viewers can also choose to email their questions to askalawyer@okbar.org The OBA has been providing this community service for more than 35 years. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 12 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "My Trip Down the Pink Carpet" Leslie Jordan A hilarious romp from small-town USA to the pink carpet of Hollywood with the beloved Emmy-winning actor, playwright, and gay icon. Leslie Jordan is a small man with a giant propensity for scene stealing. Best known for his bravura recurring role as Karen's nemesis, Beverley Leslie, on Will & Grace (for which he won a Best Guest Actor in a Comedy Series Emmy in 2006), he has also made memorable appearances on Ally McBeal, Boston Public, Monk, and Murphy Brown. MY TRIP DOW THE PINK CARPET Raised in a conservative family in Chattanooga, Tennessee, Leslie-who describes himself as "the gayest man I know"boarded a Greyhound bus bound for LA with $1,200 sewn into his underpants and never looked back. His pocket-sized physique and inescapable talent for high camp paved the way to a lucrative and varied career in commercials and on television. Along the way he immersed himself in writing for the stage, and his one-man testimonials have become cult off-Broadway hits. But with success came dangerous temptations: a self-proclaimed former substance abuser and sexaholic, Leslie has spent time in jail and struggled to overcome his addictions and self-loathing. My Trip Down the Pink Carpet is a rollicking, fast-paced collection of stories, served up with wit, panache, and plenty of biting asides. Filled with comically overwrought childhood agonies, offbeat observations, and revealing celebrity encounters-from Boy George to George Clooney-it delivers a fresh, laugh-out-loud take on Hollywood, fame, addiction, gay culture, and learning to love oneself. lLESLIE JORDAN Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 13 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. https://youtu.be/PexsZ2aSKW0 Sondheim on Sondheim March 31, 8:00 p.m. Lorton Performance Center 550 South Gary Place, Tulsa, OK 74104 Music and lyrics by Stephen Sondheim Conceived [and directed on Broadway] by James Lapine SO DHEI Sondheim On Sondheim is a tour de force through the life and work of theatre's greatest living artist and father of the modern musical, Stephen Sondheim. Through live performance, archival footage and interactive video, the audience will feel as if they are having an intimate conversation and a greatest-hits concert with the legend himself. Variety magazine calls Sondheim on Sondheim "an enchanting, warm and provocative opportunity to hear not only Sondheim's songs, but, literally, the master's voice." A high school matinee will be held at 10 a.m. April 1. (Call 918-631-2566 for information regarding this special performance.) "Sondheim On Sondheim" is presented through special arrangement with Music Theatre International. All authorized performance materials are also supplied by: MTI, 421 W. 54th St., New York, NY 10019. Tel.: (212)541-4684; Fax: (212)397-4684. www.MTIShows.com Cost: $20 for adults; $10 for senior citizens 55+ and area students; $6 for TU students, staff and faculty Contact Phone: 918-631-2566 P.S. Gordon Exhibit April 1 - April 28 Living Arts Tulsa 307 E Mathew B. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74120 As part of our mission, Living Arts is establishing the Living Arts Living Legend Artist Award honoring those artists responsible for pushing the art world forward, establishing the reputation of Tulsa as an artistic city, and contributing to the encouragement and inspiration of other artists in our community. AND THE GIFT OF FALLING SNOW P.S. GORDON 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 14 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... During April 2016, Living Arts will be exhibiting works by Patrick (P.S.) Gordon never before seen in a public exhibition. Many of these works are held in private collections and all of them will demonstrate Pat's exquisite skill and never-before-seen subject matter. For more information visit http://livingarts.org/ps-gordon-mrs-lennox-gift-falling-snow --------------- Jackpot Golf Classic April 2, 7:30 a.m. The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave. Sand Springs, OK 74063 THE CANYONS AT BLACKJACK RIDGE 1801N. MCKINLEY AVE SAND SPRINGS, OK 74063 SATURDAY, APRIL 2ND REGISTRATION IS OPEN I 7:30 . SHOTGU SOR A FRIEND FOR A FRIEND 2713 E 49"' ST. TULSA, OK 74105 918-747-6827 $75 PER PLAYER / $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT A pet unrl~ which pro"kln d•Uy needs lnclud lna food, veurln•f'V ca,- and 1roomin1 for p.ta whoM owners h•v• HIV/AIDS. 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Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. Invitation to Participate in Research Looking for people who identify as a member of the lesbian community and are 21 years old or older This study is about the sexuality of both lesbian survivors of breast cancer and lesbian women who have not been diagnosed with breast cancer. Every participant who completes the study will receive a $20 coupon voucher for use at HankyPanky.com. If you have any questions please contact Rosara Torrisi at 516-690-6779 or RRTorrisi@mail.widener.edu Follow this link to complete the survey: https://cumc.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe6/preview/SV_5chCGgUo1595nNz LESBIANS AND BREAST ,. ...■ ,.r!'n 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 16 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... SURVIVORS PhD st Jd nt at Wi you to ompl l a m • m·ti i t wl 1' a 20 UJJO IlaukyPcmky. 11! r a 1 II a ity would Ii rs • mality. It , study t ill U at GOT A QUESTION? Rosara Torrisi 516-690-6779 RJlTorrlsl@mail.wideoer .cdu Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/ or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 17 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs April 2, 2016 Eureka Springs, AR The first city in Arkansas to officially endorse same-sex marriage and the first and only one of two cities in AR with a Domestic Partnership Registry, and now the only city in Arkansas with an LGBT specific antidiscrimination ordinance, Eureka Springs also the number one vacation destination in the Mid-South for out and proud LGBT travelers. The antithesis of the redneck stereotype, our micro mecca has been a beyond-gay-friendly getaway for decades-- long before out was in. Here, one Gay Pride weekend won't do. So, Spring, Summer and Fall we also celebrate a trifecta of Diversity Weekends that attract thousands of gay and lesbian gaycationers. A microcosm of San Francisco, we boast a disproportionately large gay population, dozens of gay-owned and gay-friendly B&Bs, hotels, restaurants, bars, nightclubs, art galleries, shops, turn-of-the-century Victorian homes and vintage trolleys plying steep and narrow village streets. For a weekend or a week, find out for yourself how easy it is to be Out In Eureka. Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust April 8-10 Renaissance Tulsa Hotel & Convention Center 6808 S 107th E Ave Tulsa, OK 74133 Please join Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Star for Coronation IX Weekend April 8-10, 2016 at the Renaissance Tulsa Hotel and Convention Center Visit our Coronation IX website pages - www.impcourtok.org for t ickets (early bird rate ends March 31, 2016 ) and Program Ad Information (Ads needed by March 4, 2016 ) Voting for ICAO's Reign IX Monarchs (this is a public vote) Must be 18 with Valid Oklahoma ID Tulsa Locations: April 1st 9 pm - 11 pm at the Tulsa Eagle April 2nd 1 pm - 3 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center OKC Location: April 2nd 8 pm - 11 pm at the Habana Inn Hallway between Copa & Finishline 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 18 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... r---------------------------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:34 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5685242edeed6880366198ece7e5d863.pdf 7ac1907d73931d3160110fd63cb18d7c PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Click here to sponsor a day to honor your special occasion. 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo Providing Safety and Support "'I 0 4 Club Majestic Turnabout Show. t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - oeo"" MOREcolor Passage e year Jan r f irst na . Gay Men's Dinner Group Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Lawyer in the Library EBA Mixer Tulsa Metro Softball League January Volunteer of the Month Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Pride Store Rainbow Library Video eNews Credo Sondheim on Sondheim (918) 747-5466 Openarms Youth Project Fundraiser P.S. Gordon Exhibit 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs Jackpot Golf Classic Ms. Jolt Pageant Faith, Trust and Pixie Dus Oklahoma Board Association Law Day Grab Your Balls! Invitation to Participate in Research Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Michael Farr is Sponsoring the Day March 25th, 2016 Michael Farr will be sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the day on March OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 24th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... 25th. Thank you Michael! The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and Di Klepac. This exhibit is entitled "Bohemian Daydreams" If you would like to sponsor a day to honor your birthday, anniversary, or any other special occasion click here. 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo March 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our third Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, put this on your calendar now! $10 for general admission $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Providing Safety and Support for LGBTQ Survivors of Violence and Sexual Assault Training Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. March 24, 5:00 p.m. - Reception March 25, 8:30 a.m. - 3:00 p.m. - Training This training is for personnel who have direct contact with clients or survivors who might be LGBT and for managers, supervisors or trainers who oversee policy and influence system culture. The training will include how to assess coercive control in LGBTQ abusive relationships, looking at sexual and intimate partner violence through a trans lens and legal issues for the LGBTQ victim. Special guest Technical Assistance Trainer Kristin Tucker will join us from Seattle, WA. Kristin is the Senior Program Manager and Coordinator of the National Training and Technical Assistance Program at the Northwest Network in Seattle. In her current role she provides support, training and technical assistance to mainstream, domestic and sexual violence service providers across the US. Gamily This seminar is produced in partnership with the Family Safety Center and Oklahomans for Equality and serves to fulfill the work under the Legal Assistance to Victims grant with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. To RSVP please contact mleighty@fsctulsa.org Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Providing Safety and Support for LGBTQ Survivors of Violence and Sexual Assault BEST PRACTICES TRAINING MARCH 24-25 TULSA, OK Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator March 25 th A Day of Learning March 24 th Reception Kristin Tucker from NW Network at 5pm Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org --·--- Counseling Services 8:30am - 3pm * $5 box lunch with RSVP This NO COST training is for direct support service personnel , their supervisors, HR staff, funders and is open to t he public. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 62 1 E 4t h St, Tulsa , OK I 9 18-7 43-423 7 Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 RSVP and Questions mleighty@fsctulsa.org I 918- 74-2931 oklahom n.s for equality Club Majestic Turnabout Show April 1, 8:30 p.m. Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Join us Friday April 1st 2016 for our annual Turnabout Show benefiting Tulsa Pride/ OKEQ. ~~ See the Majestic staff rock the stage in drag, showcasing their favorite Pop/ Cultural icon. Doors open at 8:30PM | Show Starts at 9pm 18 to Enter | 21 to Drink p TU LSA A d e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Call for Entries 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2016 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award, and a People's choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org KEY INFORMATION ( please review full submission requirements and enter online ) May 8th: Submission deadline Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 2 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event Entry Fee: A single entry fee (per artist, NOT per piece) of $10 for up to five works May 25th: Artist notification of acceptance into the exhibition June 9th: Delivery of Art Work, 3 to 6pm All work must be appropriately ready to display (see the submission requirements) June 9th: MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public, cash prizes awarded, surprises and live performances, catered cuisine and bar, sale of fine art. Artists are encouraged to bring as many guests as they like. June 9th-12th: Run of the Show June 13th: Pick up unsold work, 3 to 6pm Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org To Enter: Go to https://morecolor2016.artcall.org/ for online submission of entries. All entries must be made online. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Thank you for being part of MOREcolor 2016! Passage April 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because life-changing events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... Gay Men's Dinner Group April 5, 6:30 p.m. Burn Co. BBQ 1738 S. Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Cost is $25 per person. This includes meal with soda/tea. The bar will be open also, but not included in the $25. Please drink responsibly. This is probably our favorite dinner location. Adam at BurnCo is opening the restaurant just for our group. So please lets treat them right. If you are coming please rsvp. I need a headcount for the reservation. To RSVP please contact Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com Also Dine Out For Life is Thursday April 30th. This is an annual dining fundraising event raising money for AIDS service organizations (H.O.P.E.). Participating restaurants are donating a percentage of their sales. You can go to diningoutforlife.com for a list of participating restaurants. BurnCo is a participating restaurant for lunch. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: Kris Fairchild Aprill 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4 th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Kris Fairchild beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. A lifelong Oklahoman, Kris was exposed to art and creativity at an early age. Her art began to be influenced many years ago, while as a young girl, she watched her father create beautiful stained glass windows and spent her summers enjoying nature . She graduated from University of Central Oklahoma with a degree in formation art. For many years she worked in other fields ranging from managing retail to advertising, her passion has always been for art and nature. Over the years, Kris has taught art classes ranging from ceramics, to sculpture and painting; she spends her summers volunteering with children's camps. Today Kris transforms those experiences into the swirls, curls and mandalas found in her acrylic paintings. The paintings each explore symbolism thru images of nature, fantasy and geometric shapes. Mandalas and trees both are often showcased in Fairchild's paintings. To her, the mandalas represent balance, harmony and unity; they are symbolic of the universe. Trees represent life and growth; they are a symbolic of wisdom, strength, beauty, and protection. Many other images also find symbolism in her paintings. Fairchild's paintings combine a variety of techniques and bright colors giving the paintings an energetic and vivid look, as if the light is glowing through them. The structured geometric patterns next to the more free forms of nature and a bit of whimsy, invite the viewer to experience the joy she finds in life. For over a decade Kris has enjoyed sharing her work at a variety of art festivals, fairs, galleries, and restaurants. Her work is in private collections across the US and in Europe. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Lawyer in the Library April 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center - Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Equality Business Alliance Mixer April 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. 108 Contemporary 108 E. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74103 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... E UALITY Business Alliance SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ if •. . . Steven Michael Hall Photography will be hosting our April EBA networking event. Our event will be at the 108 Contemporary studio located at 108 East Brady Street. Steven took the leap into photography in 1993 when he jumped from the writing and editing side of newspapers. He has always been intrigued by photography's ability to show potentials and personal revealings. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. @4:30 pm Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! $5.00 per Session As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Ladies Social Club Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Congratulations to the Tulsa Metro Softbal League on their wins at the Lone Star Classic in Houston Texas! Second Friday of each month 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Make friends and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! Single, married, LGBT, ally, young in body, young at heart -- all women are welcome! Follow us on Facebook Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. We are so proud of the Tulsa Smoke B team who won 1st place! Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno And the Tulsa Smoke C team who won 5th place! Volunteer of the Month March 2016 David Brooks Parson About three years ago, David decided to volunteer at OKEQ because he wanted to get more involved in the LGBT community. He enjoys being at the front desk of the center, answering the phone and greeting people and being a part of it all. A message from our volunteer of the month: "I would recommend volunteering at OKEQ to anyone who has some free time, and wants to get involved in this amazing organization. I don't think people realize what we have here, in Tulsa, OK, the Buckle of the Bible Belt. We have one of the largest LGBT resource centers in the country, and the world for that matter, and I'm proud to be a part of it!" Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org EBA Directory Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Slient Lives: How High A Price" Sara L. Boesser This book is a valuable resource that combines autobiographical sources, personal interviews, and questions for reflection to explore issues relevant to everyone's sexual orientation and gender status, be they heterosexual, gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, or intersexual. Its readily accessible format assists individuals, study groups, civic groups, spiritual groups, or congregations create an open forum for the discussion of sexuality. It is helpful for personal journaling and sharing with relatives and friends, and is also very useful as a college text, therapy supplement, and as a catalyst for group discussions regarding gay, lesbian, and bisexual issues; gay rights; the coming-out process; and gay marriage.8! Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org , - ~· ,·1 ··.•·:,.~i ·., ,,.:·:,.._ ·.· SARA L. BOESSER I ·,••.. . "" ,'C. ·, Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. • i, .. .. ., I !'II • .. - Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org https://youtu.be/PexsZ2aSKW0 Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Credo - Live. Love. Connect. March 26, 12:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Saturday Spirituality Discussion Group Credo is a progressive, open-minded, open-hearted, inclusive spiritual community focused on supporting people in their spiritual journey. The word Credo means "I believe" and the primary intention of Credo is to support people in exploring their beliefs and living a life which is aligned with those beliefs. We come Live. Love. Connect. together for inspiration and transformation through discussion, meditation, music, and connection with each other and Spirit! At the heart of the Credo philosophy is the application of spiritual principles that Spirit/Love is expressing through all things and that this expression comes through each of us individually. (0) credo "The wick of your individual life runs deep into the oil of pure Being. There is but Life and that Life is your life now." ~ Ernest Holmes For Information please contact Jeff Staton at 918-928-6049 or email revjeffstaton@gmail.com We meet every Saturday from 12:30pm - 2:00pm / Love offerings gratefully accepted Credo is an affiliate of Centers for Spiritual Living www.csl.org Sondheim on Sondheim March 31, 8:00 p.m. Lorton Performance Center 550 South Gary Place, Tulsa, OK 74104 Music and lyrics by Stephen Sondheim Conceived [and directed on Broadway] by James Lapine SO DHEI Sondheim On Sondheim is a tour de force through the life and work of theatre's greatest living artist and father of the modern musical, Stephen Sondheim. Through live performance, archival footage and interactive video, the audience will feel as if they are having an intimate conversation and a greatest-hits concert with the legend himself. Variety magazine calls Sondheim on Sondheim "an enchanting, warm and provocative opportunity to hear not only Sondheim's songs, but, literally, the master's voice." A high school matinee will be held at 10 a.m. April 1. (Call 918-631-2566 for information regarding this special performance.) "Sondheim On Sondheim" is presented through special arrangement with Music Theatre International. All authorized performance materials are also supplied by: MTI, 421 W. 54th St., New York, NY 10019. Tel.: (212)541-4684; Fax: (212)397-4684. 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 12 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... www.MTIShows.com Cost: $20 for adults; $10 for senior citizens 55+ and area students; $6 for TU students, staff and faculty Contact Phone: 918-631-2566 Openarms Youth Project Fundraiser April 1, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Open arms Youth Project 2015-B S. Lakewood Ave. Tulsa, OK 74112 Openarms Youth Project LIV E & SIL E N T AUCTION FUNORAISER Our mission is to bring Lesbian, Gay Bisexual, Transgender and Questioning youth and their friends together to build a peer based community that empowers them to end isolation, create a progressive youth voice; increase well being and self-esteem; and change the communities in which they live. Open arms Youth Project accomplishes this by offering peer based education, advocacy, recreation, information and leadership opportunities . We will be hosting a fundraising event on April 1st holding both live and silent auctions with many wonderful items donated by generous local business owners. The event will provide live entertainment, h'dourveres, food and beverages as well as a 50/50 ticket raffle drawing! Come out and support Open arms Youth Project! To purchase tickets visit WWW.OPENARMSPROJECT.ORG Ticket price prior to event is $25.00 - door price night of event - $30.00 Your ticket will get you access to wine, beer, and FREE COVER to the after party at AREA 18! All attendees and ticket holders must be over the age of 21. P.S. Gordon Exhibit April 1 - April 28 Living Arts Tulsa 307 E Mathew B. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74120 As part of our mission, Living Arts is establishing the Living Arts Living Legend Artist Award honoring those artists responsible for pushing the art world forward, establishing the reputation of Tulsa as an artistic city, and contributing to the encouragement and inspiration of other artists in our community. MRS. LENNOX AND THE GIFT OF FALLING SNOW P.S. GORDON During April 2016, Living Arts will be exhibiting works by Patrick (P.S.) Gordon never before seen in a public exhibition. Many of these works are held in private collections and all of them will demonstrate Pat's exquisite skill and never-before-seen subject matter. For more information visit http://livingarts.org/ps-gordon-mrs-lennox-gift-falling-snow - - -- - - - - - - Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs April 2, 2016 Eureka Springs, AR The first city in Arkansas to officially endorse same-sex marriage and the first and only one of two cities in AR 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 13 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... with a Domestic Partnership Registry, and now the only city in Arkansas with an LGBT specific antidiscrimination ordinance, Eureka Springs also the number one vacation destination in the Mid-South for out and proud LGBT travelers. The antithesis of the redneck stereotype, our micro mecca has been a beyond-gay-friendly getaway for decades-- long before out was in. Here, one Gay Pride weekend won't do. So, Spring, Summer and Fall we also celebrate a trifecta of Diversity Weekends that attract thousands of gay and lesbian gaycationers. A microcosm of San Francisco, we boast a disproportionately large gay population, dozens of gay-owned and gay-friendly B&Bs, hotels, restaurants, bars, nightclubs, art galleries, shops, turn-of-the-century Victorian homes and vintage trolleys plying steep and narrow village streets. For a weekend or a week, find out for yourself how easy it is to be Out In Eureka. Jackpot Golf Classic April 2, 7:30 a.m. The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave. Sand Springs, OK 74063 THE CANYONS AT BLACKJACK RIDGE 1801N. MCKINLEY AVE SAND SPRINGS, OK 74063 SATURDAY, APRIL 2ND REGISTRATION IS OPEN I 7:30 A. . S OTGU E SOR A FRIEND FOR A FRIEND 2713 E 49"' ST. TULSA, OK 74105 918-747-6827 A pet Hntlce which prollkln daily needs lnclud ln&food, veterinuy care and 1roomln1 for pets whoM ownen have HIV/AIDS. SeNlc• r4lle1 complet•lv on voluntHn and private donatJon1. TM ••rvfc• 11 aval11bl1 for all pets, lnducUnc dop, uu, birds, Rsh, even ,nakH. CHents are e•pected to pay a much of veterinary cha,.. as possible. $75 PER PLAYER / $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT CURTIS AUSTIN t, CURTISAUST1N33f1HOTMAILCOM CONTACT: Food le pr-ovlded at no cJaar11. OR Al WARRE N @I 918-361-8739 YOU CAN ALSO AND US ON FACE8OOK @I TULSAJOLT Ms. Jolt Pageant April 8, 8:00 p.m. New Age Renegades 1649 S. Main St., Tulsa, OK 74119 llA- l ' ° ' I 'T' n A r ~ I\ II.IT 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 14 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... IYl:5. JUL I l"'lo\UClo\l" I WHEN: APRIL 8th, 2016 {8 :00 pm Start!) WHERE: New Age Renegades SUPPORTTHEJOLTTOURNAMENT AND PAGEANT CONTESTANTS, AS WELL AS SAY FAREWELL TO THE CURRENT MS JOLTI Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust April 8-10 Renaissance Tulsa Hotel & Convention Center 6808 S 107th E Ave Tulsa, OK 74133 Please join Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Star for Coronation IX Weekend April 8-10, 2016 at the Renaissance Tulsa Hotel and Convention Center Visit our Coronation IX website pages - www.impcourtok.org for t ickets (early bird rate ends March 31, 2016 ) and Program Ad Information (Ads needed by March 4, 2016 ) Voting for ICAO's Reign IX Monarchs (this is a public vote) Must be 18 with Valid Oklahoma ID Tulsa Locations: April 1st 9 pm - 11 pm at the Tulsa Eagle April 2nd 1 pm - 3 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center OKC Location: April 2nd 8 pm - 11 pm at the Habana Inn Hallway between Copa & Finishline Oklahoma Bar Association Law Day April 28, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. The OBA will provide free legal advice on Thursday, April 28 from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m., as part of its annual Law Day celebration and the Ask A Lawyer TV show, broadcasting on OETA. Viewers, statewide can call toll-free 1-800-456-8525 and Tulsa area residents can call 918-838-8770 to have their legal questions answered and get legal advice, at NO CHARGE, by the volunteer attorneys. Viewers can also choose to email their questions to askalawyer@okbar.org The OBA has been providing this community service for more than 35 years. Grab Your Balls! May 6, 8:00 p.m. AMF Sheridan Lanes 3121 S. Sheridan Rd. Tulsa, OK 74145 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... GRAB YOUR BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Come join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday May 6 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. Invitation to Participate in Research Looking for people who identify as a member of the lesbian community and are 21 years old or older This study is about the sexuality of both lesbian survivors of breast cancer and lesbian women who have not been diagnosed with breast cancer. Every participant who completes the study will receive a $20 coupon voucher for use at HankyPanky.com. If you have any questions please contact Rosara Torrisi at 516-690-6779 or RRTorrisi@mail.widener.edu Follow this link to complete the survey: https://cumc.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe6/preview/SV_5chCGgUo1595nNz LESBIANS AND BREAST ,. ...■ ,.r!'n 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 16 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... SURVIVORS PhD st Jd nt at Wi you to ompl l a m • m·ti i t wl 1' a 20 UJJO IlaukyPcmky. 11! r a 1 II a ity would Ii rs • mality. It , study t ill U at GOT A QUESTION? Rosara Torrisi 516-690-6779 RJlTorrlsl@mail.wideoer .cdu Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/ or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. r---------------------------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:36 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/db9331cf2cc703577788f4f8b4978505.pdf fb5e571535d3603c4c2be655c23a8ba8 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Club Majestic Turnabout Show. MOREcolor Gay Men's Dinner Group "First Thursday" Art Exhibit "'I 0 4 t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - Ladies Social Club oeo"" Lawyer in the Library e year Jan r f irst na EBA Mixer . 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! EBA Sponsor Tulsa Metro Softball League January Volunteer of the Month Pride Store Rainbow Library Kelly Kirby CPA Sondheim on Sondheim Certified Public Accountant Openarms Youth Project Fundraiser a professional corporation P.S. Gordon Exhibit (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 Video eNews Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs Jackpot Golf Classic Ms. Jolt Pageant Faith, Trust and Pixie Dus Oklahoma Board Association Law Day kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Grab Your Balls! Invitation to Participate in Research Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. OkEq Board Meeting Club Majestic Turnabout Show April 1, 8:30 p.m. Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Join us Friday April 1st 2016 for our annual Turnabout Show benefiting Tulsa Pride/ OKEQ. See the Majestic staff rock the stage in drag, showcasing their favorite Pop/ Cultural icon. Click here for more information 7 p.m. Thursday, March 24th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 2 of 17 Doors open at 8:30PM | Show Starts at 9pm 18 to Enter | 21 to Drink https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... I A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Di Klepac. This exhibit is entitled "Bohemian Daydreams" Call for Entries MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2016 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award, and a People's choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. KEY INFORMATION ( please review full submission requirements and enter online ) May 8th: Submission deadline Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 2 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Entry Fee: A single entry fee (per artist, NOT per piece) of $10 for up to five works May 25th: Artist notification of acceptance into the exhibition June 9th: Delivery of Art Work, 3 to 6pm All work must be appropriately ready to display (see the submission requirements) June 9th: MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public, cash prizes awarded, surprises and live performances, catered cuisine and bar, sale of fine art. Artists are encouraged to bring as many guests as they like. Gamily June 9th-12th: Run of the Show June 13th: Pick up unsold work, 3 to 6pm To Enter: Go to https://morecolor2016.artcall.org/ for online submission of entries. All entries must be made online. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Thank you for being part of MOREcolor 2016! Gay Men's Dinner Group April 5, 6:30 p.m. Burn Co. BBQ 1738 S. Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Cost is $25 per person. This includes meal with soda/tea. The bar will be open also, but not included in the $25. Please drink responsibly. This is probably our favorite dinner location. Adam at BurnCo is Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 3 of 17 opening the restaurant just for our group. So please lets treat them right. If you are coming please rsvp. I need a headcount for the reservation. To RSVP please contact Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... I I about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. BARBEQUE Also Dine Out For Life is Thursday April 30th. This is an annual dining fundraising event raising money for AIDS service organizations (H.O.P.E.). Participating restaurants are donating a percentage of their sales. You can go to diningoutforlife.com for a list of participating restaurants. BurnCo is a participating restaurant for lunch. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: Kris Fairchild April 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4 th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Kris Fairchild beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. A lifelong Oklahoman, Kris was exposed to art and creativity at an early age. Her art began to be influenced many years ago, while as a young girl, she watched her father create beautiful stained glass windows and spent her summers enjoying nature . She graduated from University of Central Oklahoma with a degree in formation art. For many years she worked in other fields ranging from managing retail to advertising, her passion has always been for art and nature. Over the years, Kris has taught art classes ranging from ceramics, to sculpture and painting; she spends her summers volunteering with children's camps. Today Kris transforms those experiences into the swirls, curls and mandalas found in her acrylic paintings. The paintings each explore symbolism thru images of nature, fantasy and geometric shapes. Mandalas and trees both are often showcased in Fairchild's paintings. To her, the mandalas represent balance, harmony and unity; they are symbolic of the universe. Trees represent life and growth; they are a symbolic of wisdom, strength, beauty, and protection. Many other images also find symbolism in her paintings. Fairchild's paintings combine a variety of techniques and bright colors giving the paintings an energetic and vivid look, as if the light is glowing through them. The structured geometric patterns next to the more free forms of nature and a bit of whimsy, invite the viewer to experience the joy she finds in life. For over a decade Kris has enjoyed sharing her work at a variety of art festivals, fairs, galleries, and restaurants. Her work is in private collections across the US and in Europe. Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org -- · ---- Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Ladies Social Club April 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 April is a busy month for LSC! We have TWO events! April 8, 6-9 p.m. - Trivia Night at OkEq Who was the only president to be unanimously elected? Which planet is closest to the sun? If you love trivia (and shenanigans!), you're in luck because LSC's April Friday night event is Trivia Night! We'll play in teams and the questions will cover a wide variety of subjects. If you've played live bar or pub trivia before, this is very similar, but without the bar. Prizes will be awarded to top teams, and of course you'll get smarty pants bragging rights! Mark it on your calendars and bring your thinking caps! 0 Ok,.h•mon• ••• • • • • " " ••••••" ~DltS all LGBT&ally women welcome SO(IAl UUD 2nd fridavs of the month 6-0pm coming january 8, 2016 to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center April 9, 2-3:30 p.m. - Ladies Self Defense Class IMPORTANT: You must pre-register for this class, and it is NOT being held at OkEq! Learn how to defend yourself! This is a private (just for us!), ladies-only, hands-on class that will teach you the basics of self defense, taught by a renowned taekwondo Master and instructor at his studio in south Tulsa. The class is $25, and you'll receive 90 minutes of potentially life-saving training! Join LSC's private Facebook group OR email Kelley for all the information and to register (contact info is below). If you are an LGBT woman or an ally and you haven't attended an LSC meeting before, please consider stopping by and checking us out! Not only are we bringing women together from all over our beautiful city to develop a sense of community at our monthly events at OkEq (which average around 15-20 people, and of course there are always snacks!), but our Facebook group has become incredibly active! A lot of people in the Facebook group have been organizing group activities around Tulsa and surrounding areas that are completely independent of our Friday night events! Right now there are discussions in the works about hiking, floating the river this summer and attending various sporting events. Connect with us via the contact information listed below, and we hope to see your smiling faces soon! Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... Lawyer in the Library April 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center - Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Equality Business Alliance Mixer April 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. 108 Contemporary 108 E. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74103 E UALITY Business Alliance Steven Michael Hall Photography will be hosting our April EBA networking event. Our event will be at the 108 Contemporary studio located at 108 East Brady Street. Steven took the leap into photography in 1993 when he jumped from the writing and editing side of newspapers. He has always been intrigued by photography's ability to show potentials and personal revealings. First Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo April 22, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, put this on your calendar now! To purchase tickets click on one of the links below: $10 for general admission $20 Adult Beverage admission Buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Third Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather At SpiritBank Mortgage, we make homeownership 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan . '• , .. . I •• ' I • • t I I Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... Take A Class Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Thank you, TMSL Board Every Friday 7 p.m. TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Congratulations to the Tulsa Metro Softbal League on their wins at the Lone Star Classic in Houston Texas! Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... We are so proud of the Tulsa Smoke B team who won 1st place! Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno And the Tulsa Smoke C team who won 5th place! Volunteer of the Month March 2016 David Brooks Parson About three years ago, David decided to volunteer at OKEQ because he wanted to get more involved in the LGBT community. He enjoys being at the front desk of the center, answering the phone and greeting people and being a part of it all. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. A message from our volunteer of the month: "I would recommend volunteering at OKEQ to anyone who has some free time, and wants to get involved in this amazing organization. I don't think people realize what we have here, in Tulsa, OK, the Buckle of the Bible Belt. We have one of the largest LGBT resource centers in the country, and the world for that matter, and I'm proud to be a part of it!" EBA Directory If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Ma Vie En Rose (My Life In Pink)" A Film By Alain Berliner One of the sweetest films to emerge from Europe in the 1990s, Alain Berliner's Ma Vie en Rose is the story of an innocent little boy, Ludovic (played with noncloying directness by Georges Du Fresne), who wants to be a girl. Convinced that he's the product of misplaced chromosomes (he imagines the mix-up in one of many delightful daydream sequences), he sets about righting the mistake by wearing dresses and high heels and experimenting with lipstick and makeup. The otherwise friendly suburban neighborhood becomes horrified by the gender confusion, though tellingly the cruelest blows come not from the teasing classmates but intolerant adults: one scene recalls the torch-and-pitchfork angry villagers from a Frankenstein movie. Ludo tries hard to be butch, but he can't deny his nature, especially when he meets a kindred spirit: a little girl who gladly trades her dress for his pants and shirt. This bittersweet mix of innocent fantasy and childhood cruelty has its moments of sadness and crushing misunderstandings, but the overall tone is loving, filled with tenderness and culminating in acceptance and togetherness. As the family stumbles and struggles to come to terms with Ludo, they find something special within him, an innocent conviction so powerful and pure that it's infectious. Ludo may not grow up to become a girl as he hopes, but his belief is so strong it's hard to deny him the possibility. This films reminds us that, to a child, anything is possible. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. https://youtu.be/PexsZ2aSKW0 Sharon Queen 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Sondheim on Sondheim March 31, 8:00 p.m. Lorton Performance Center 550 South Gary Place, Tulsa, OK 74104 Music and lyrics by Stephen Sondheim Conceived [and directed on Broadway] by James Lapine SO DHEI ll Sondheim On Sondheim is a tour de force through the life and work of theatre's greatest living artist and father of the modern musical, Stephen Sondheim. Through live performance, archival footage and interactive video, the audience will feel as if they are having an intimate conversation and a greatest-hits concert with the legend himself. Variety magazine calls Sondheim on Sondheim "an enchanting, warm and provocative opportunity to hear not only Sondheim's songs, but, literally, the master's voice." A high school matinee will be held at 10 a.m. April 1. (Call 918-631-2566 for information regarding this special performance.) "Sondheim On Sondheim" is presented through special arrangement with Music Theatre International. All authorized performance materials are also supplied by: MTI, 421 W. 54th St., New York, NY 10019. Tel.: (212)541-4684; Fax: (212)397-4684. www.MTIShows.com Cost: $20 for adults; $10 for senior citizens 55+ and area students; $6 for TU students, staff and faculty Contact Phone: 918-631-2566 Openarms Youth Project Fundraiser April 1, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Open arms Youth Project 2015-B S. Lakewood Ave. Tulsa, OK 74112 , , 1 \• Openarms Youth Project 1,, AUCTION .I . LI VE & SI LENT FUNORA ISER 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 12 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... Our mission is to bring Lesbian, Gay Bisexual, Transgender and Questioning youth and their friends together to build a peer based community that empowers them to end isolation, create a progressive youth voice; increase well being and self-esteem; and change the communities in which they live. Open arms Youth Project accomplishes this by offering peer based education, advocacy, recreation, information and leadership opportunities . We will be hosting a fundraising event on April 1st holding both live and silent auctions with many wonderful items donated by generous local business owners. The event will provide live entertainment, h'dourveres, food and beverages as well as a 50/50 ticket raffle drawing! Come out and support Open arms Youth Project! To purchase tickets visit WWW.OPENARMSPROJECT.ORG Ticket price prior to event is $25.00 - door price night of event - $30.00 Your ticket will get you access to wine, beer, and FREE COVER to the after party at AREA 18! All attendees and ticket holders must be over the age of 21. P.S. Gordon Exhibit April 1 - April 28 Living Arts Tulsa 307 E Mathew B. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74120 As part of our mission, Living Arts is establishing the Living Arts Living Legend Artist Award honoring those artists responsible for pushing the art world forward, establishing the reputation of Tulsa as an artistic city, and contributing to the encouragement and inspiration of other artists in our community. AND THE GIFT OF FALLING SNOW P.S. GORDON During April 2016, Living Arts will be exhibiting works by Patrick (P.S.) Gordon never before seen in a public exhibition. Many of these works are held in private collections and all of them will demonstrate Pat's exquisite skill and never-before-seen subject matter. For more information visit http://livingarts.org/ps-gordon-mrs-lennox-gift-falling-snow - -- - - - - - - - - Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs April 2, 2016 Eureka Springs, AR The first city in Arkansas to officially endorse same-sex marriage and the first and only one of two cities in AR with a Domestic Partnership Registry, and now the only city in Arkansas with an LGBT specific antidiscrimination ordinance, Eureka Springs also the number one vacation destination in the Mid-South for out and proud LGBT travelers. The antithesis of the redneck stereotype, our micro mecca has been a beyond-gay-friendly getaway for decades-- long before out was in. Here, one Gay Pride weekend won't do. So, Spring, Summer and Fall we also celebrate a trifecta of Diversity Weekends that attract thousands of gay and lesbian gaycationers. 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 13 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... A microcosm of San Francisco, we boast a disproportionately large gay population, dozens of gay-owned and gay-friendly B&Bs, hotels, restaurants, bars, nightclubs, art galleries, shops, turn-of-the-century Victorian homes and vintage trolleys plying steep and narrow village streets. For a weekend or a week, find out for yourself how easy it is to be Out In Eureka. Jackpot Golf Classic April 2, 7:30 a.m. The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave. Sand Springs, OK 74063 THE CANYONS AT BLACKJACK RIDGE 1801N. MCKINLEY AVE SAND SPRINGS, OK 74063 SATURDAY, APRIL 2ND REGISTRATION IS OPEN I 7:30 A FRIEND FOR A FRIEND 2713 E 49"' ST, TULSA, OK 74105 918-747-6827 A pet urvlca which pro11klet dally needs lnclud ln& food, veterinary can ■ nd 1roomln1 for p.-ta whoM owners h ■ v• HIV/AIDS. s.tvic■ r.lles completely on voluntfff't ind prtvat• donatJont. The Mrvfc• 11 a11111ll ■ ble for all pets, lnducUnc dop, c.ts, birds, fish, ~n 1nakff. dients are Hpected to pay aa much of veterinary cha,ae., poss.Ible. . HOTGUN E $75 PER PLAYER / $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT CURTIS AUSTIN f9 CURTISAUSTIN33«PHOTMAILCOM OR Al WARREN 1!P 918·361-8739 YOU CAN ALSO FIND US ON FACEBOOK f9 TULSAJOLT ___ ______________ .._ CONTACT: Ms. Jolt Pageant April 8, 8:00 p.m. New Age Renegades 1649 S. Main St., Tulsa, OK 74119 Ms. JOLT PAGEANT WHEN: APRIL 8th, 2016 {8:00 pm Start!) WHERE: New Age Renegades SUPPORTTHEJOLTTOURNAMENT AND PAGEANT CONTESTANTS, AS WELL AS SAY FAREWELL TO THE CURRENT MS JOLT! 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 14 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust April 8-10 Renaissance Tulsa Hotel & Convention Center 6808 S 107th E Ave Tulsa, OK 74133 Please join Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Star for Coronation IX Weekend April 8-10, 2016 at the Renaissance Tulsa Hotel and Convention Center Visit our Coronation IX website pages - www.impcourtok.org for t ickets (early bird rate ends March 31, 2016 ) and Program Ad Information (Ads needed by March 4, 2016 ) Voting for ICAO's Reign IX Monarchs (this is a public vote) Must be 18 with Valid Oklahoma ID Tulsa Locations: April 1st 9 pm - 11 pm at the Tulsa Eagle April 2nd 1 pm - 3 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center OKC Location: April 2nd 8 pm - 11 pm at the Habana Inn Hallway between Copa & Finishline Oklahoma Bar Association Law Day April 28, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. The OBA will provide free legal advice on Thursday, April 28 from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m., as part of its annual Law Day celebration and the Ask A Lawyer TV show, broadcasting on OETA. Viewers, statewide can call toll-free 1-800-456-8525 and Tulsa area residents can call 918-838-8770 to have their legal questions answered and get legal advice, at NO CHARGE, by the volunteer attorneys. Viewers can also choose to email their questions to askalawyer@okbar.org The OBA has been providing this community service for more than 35 years. Grab Your Balls! May 6, 8:00 p.m. AMF Sheridan Lanes 3121 S. Sheridan Rd. Tulsa, OK 74145 GRAB YOUR BALLS! 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... And you could win some money doing it! Come join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday May 6 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. Invitation to Participate in Research Looking for people who identify as a member of the lesbian community and are 21 years old or older This study is about the sexuality of both lesbian survivors of breast cancer and lesbian women who have not been diagnosed with breast cancer. Every participant who completes the study will receive a $20 coupon voucher for use at HankyPanky.com. If you have any questions please contact Rosara Torrisi at 516-690-6779 or RRTorrisi@mail.widener.edu Follow this link to complete the survey: https://cumc.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe6/preview/SV_5chCGgUo1595nNz LESBIANS AND BREAST CA CER SURVIVORS PhD stud you to m • <n-ti i 1' a 20 IlaukyPanky. i m t wl r a UJJO II 1 ity w 1· s • mal It, study t ill u at 11! 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 16 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/ or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... r---------------------------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:38 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b8620544cf9e9ffa77420fd5ecbe4801.pdf 8f00b1714712e10156ce48fd28de67f6 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Get in Shape "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Ladies Social Club OkEq night at Sisserou's MLK Parade EBA Mixer for tne y ear Ja r f irs t n a Tulsa Pride Bingo "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! Before the I Do Wild Hearts Ball Gamily Hearts Day -Happy --Celebrating the Body Erotic The Empress' Ball Kelly Kirby CPA OSU Research Project Certified Public Accountant Rainbow Library a professional corporation 2016 Equality Gala Pride Store (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit Make Your New Years Resolution To Get Fit 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several fitness programs available to help you work off those extra holiday pounds. Classes include Get F.I.T. every Monday and Wednesday 6:00-7:00 p.m., Yoga by Zach every Sunday at 4:30 p.m., and Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance every 4th Sunday of the month at 1:00 p.m. Classes are only $5.00 per session so you can work out without breaking the bank. The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Dave Muller. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: "A Sense of Wonder..." featuring the works of Dave Muller Thursday, January 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Dave Muller in a show titled "A Sense of Wonder..." beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Dave Muller is a (recently retired) geologist and photographer with a passion for wildlife and landscape photography. Dave's photographs have been honored in local, state, and regional competitions. Dave has been an invited artist for the last two Tulsa MayFest Invitational Gallery exhibitions. He lived in and attended school in Iceland long ago, and remains reasonably fluent in Icelandic several decades later - he has led photographic trips to Iceland, the desert southwest, and around Oklahoma's Green Country, and he has lectured on a variety of photography-related topics at local and regional photographer gatherings. Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dave's exhibit primarily focuses on the beauty in the natural world. Images in "A Sense of Wonder..." include canvas, metal, and traditional framed prints of landscapes and wildlife from Iceland, the desert southwest, and Northeastern Oklahoma. The goal of Dave's imagery is to encourage a sense of delight and awe in the beauty that surrounds us and to foster a sense of wonder at the magnificence in our world. Dave's images capture details we tend to miss - things that we are not aware of or overlook. Dave Says of his work: "I hope that viewers of these images will have their spirits buoyed and their senses sharpened as they anticipate and prepare for their future encounters with the natural world". 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Healthcare Navigator Every Tuesday in January from 12:00 p.m.-5:00 p.m. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net Ladies Social Club January 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! This brand new women's programming provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! Each month will feature different activities that will largely be driven by your own input, ladies! You're also welcome to just come and hang out with the other women if that's more your style. The LSC will meet on the second Friday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Our first meeting is Jan. 8, and we will be playing Cards Against Humanity! If you're not familiar with this game, bring your sense of humor and remember that we can't take ourselves too seriously... but we can have some serious fun! It's BYOB, so feel free to bring your favorite bottle of wine or beer! Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. OkEq night at Sisserou's January 11, 6:00 p.m.-9:30 p.m. 107 North Boulder, Tulsa, OK 74103 It is OkEq night at Sisserou's, 107 North Boulder, with the entrance on North Main. A Counseling Services 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... portion of the proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality. Located in Tulsa's Brady Arts District, Sisserou's Restaurant concept is inspired by the colorful cuisine of the island of Dominica, the Nature Isle of the Caribbean. MLK Jr. Day Parade "One Race: The Human Race" January 18, 10:00 a.m. - Meet at the Center, 11:00 a.m. Parade Begins Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Tulsa, Oklahoma holds one of the largest MLK parades in the United States to commemorate the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Oklahomans for Equality will be marching with the rainbow flag and we invite you come join us. Please dress comfortably and weather appropriate. We will meet at the center at 10 a.m. and carpool to the starting line. Equality Business Alliance Mixer January 20, 6:00 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East Second Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 Counseling Services E UALITY Business Alliance Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of Oklahoma's vibrant business, entertainment and cultural districts. The downtown Tulsa hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, the luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and over 50 restaurants and bars. Please be advised we will only validate self-parking in the attached garage. Counseling Services The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 January 29, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for a $150 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: featuring the works of Bruce Docker Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... Thursday, February 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Bruce Docker beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Bruce comes from a long line of artists; his formal training includes years of Tuesday afternoon meetings and study with the Canadian artist, John Nagy (developer of the famous "Learn-toDraw" kit). His father drew the original series of cigarette smoking woodpeckers that are used in all traditional tattoo shops today and his maternal grandmother was a professional artist who painted vase highlights with devastating accuracy. Additionally his grandfather was the infamous paint-by-numbers artist and rum runner of Kansas City in the 1940's. His style is a combination of his family's talent and history in a cohesively rambling style. A true Renaissance man, Bruce states: "I believe in total respect for my materials. I once used an entire box of Crayola 64's without breaking a single crayon, I covered my driveway in Scotch tape to protect my sidewalk chalk drawings from the rain, and the cloth of my canvas is made only from the wool of free range sheep. While I am always learning and trying new approaches, I paint for the joy of creating art that I feel is beautiful. My hope is that when you view my paintings, you will feel, see, and agree that I have accomplished what I set out to do." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage ServlC(''i and Advocacy for G,1y, LC'sb1an, Bisexual N Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Before the I Do February 6, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers "Before The I Do" is a workshop that gives couples practical tools to use now or later on when you need them. The workshop covers: 3 keys to a great relationship, how to work as a team to solve conflict, how to keep the romance alive and much more. Carrie Little The Speaker-Listener technique helps each of you to be heard in times of stress and is a crowd favorite. Whether you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you WILL benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfying relationships! 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 THIS WORKSHOP IS OPEN FOR ANYONE TO ATTEND AND IS FREE! Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) on February 6th from noon to 4pm. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carrie@protectioncoalition.org for more information or to reserve your space today! The 15th Annual Wild Hearts Ball Presents, 2nd Chance Prom at Equality High February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Admission: Donations to the Equality Center renovations fund. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session Yoga by Zach Cash Bar, Raffle prizes and cookies baked by the PTA. Oklahomans for Equality is having a prom. Remember your prom? Many of us were denied the right to go with the person we really wanted to go with to our high school prom. Some of us could not wear the outfit we wanted to wear to the prom. This is your chance to do the Prom your way. Dust off those old prom dresses and tuxedos, or come 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... with a totally new and funky creation of your own. Attend the prom you dreamed of. NO DATE NECESSARY. Dance the night away as you enjoy decades of top hits by DJ Crystal. Cheesy blue ... ruffled tuxedos, poofy taffeta dresses, clichéd themes, color coordinated corsages, sweaty palms, plenty of dad's Aqua Velva, awkward slow dancing, plush ride for the big night, the obligatory staged photo... All of it adds up to one word: PROM! You might be chosen Prom Royalty. So get your crew to vote for you. You could be our Prom Queen or Prom King and at Equality High you can have two queens or two kings. Principal Jenkins and Coach Sivadon along with Home Ec teacher Ms. Brewster will be chaperoning and judging the Dirty Dancing Contest. So work on your moves and gyrations. ::>j! ake A Cla~~t:<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Prizes will be given for the most outrageous corsage. And yes the punch is spiked. Entertainment and childcare will be available upstairs in the wellness room. Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Gamily Presents "Happy Hearts Day" February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Gamily will be throwing a Happy Hearts Day party upstairs during the Wild Hearts Ball. There will be crafts, snacks, music, and lots of glitter! Parents and guardians can drop the children off and enjoy the prom while the kids play, create and dance to their happy hearts content in the wellness room. xoxo , \ I To RSVP please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Celebrating the Body Erotic (CBE) February 20-21, 9:00 a.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 612 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 A CBE is a first step with Body Electric. Come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. They begin to realize the satisfaction that comes from learning how to both give and receive pleasure through erotic touch. The ~ I '; -.11 Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: • The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. • He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. • He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Celebrating the Body Erotic is a full two-day workshop (9am-7pm) for those who are ready to vigorously explore new levels of feeling, both within themselves and within a community of men. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most intensives, advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric School. For more information visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschool.com, or contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com. The Empress' Ball - An Imperial Masquerade Januaray 30, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa , Oklahoma 74120 Benefiting the ICAO Operational Fund Dress Code - Formal or Theme $20.00 Donation at the door includes Open Bar Lesser Value Donations at the door can purchase Drink Tickets for $5.00 Live entertainment provided by the Empresses. Music by DJ Scandal (Absolute Emperor II Adrian) Awards will be presented to Best Dressed / Best in Theme For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. For more information contact impcourtok@gmail.com Nevermore Edits Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Producers" Nathan Lane and Matthew Broderick return to their award-winning roles in the hilariously funny film of the record-breaking Broadway smashhit. Scheming producer Max Bialystock (Lane) and his mousy accountant, Leo Bloom (Broderick), discover that under the right circumstances they could make more money by producing a Broadway flop than they can with a hit. But what will they do when their sure-to-offend musical becomes a surprise sensation? Co-starring sexy Uma Thurman and comedy genius Will Ferrell, The Producers is a fun-filled, side-splitting comedy. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Equality Gala 2016: The Revolution Continues Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Saturday, April 30, 2016 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Co-Chairs Mary & Sharon Bishop-Baldwin invite you to the 2016 Equality Gala. For sponsorship and ticket information click here. Oklahomans for Equality 2016 Award Recipients Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Lifetime Achievement Award Kirk Holt: With more than a decade of leadership in the organization and more than 30 years of support and involvement, Kirk has served the LGBTQ community of northeastern Oklahoma well. He was the lead designer on the renovations and remodel of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. The Cisar-Holt memorial lobby is i n remem bra nce of his partner Bob Cisar. Bob and Kirk were among the early champions for a permanent home for the LGBTQ community in Tulsa. Bob died of cancer before the project could be completed, but Kirk was able to rally support from many of Bob's clients to finish the design work on the Equality Center. Kirk also served as the Gala chair during a time when the most money in the history of Oklahomans for Equality was raised and the indebtedness on the building was paid off. l I• ,_ Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ~ - - ,- Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org ~ Bishop-Baldwin, Barton and Phillips Civil Rights Award. Rachel Tudor: The U.S. Justice Department is suing Southeastern Oklahoma State University, charging that school officials discriminated against Professor Rachel Tudor when she changed gender during her time working there. She was hired in 2004 as a tenure-track assistant professor in the English Department. In 2007, Tudor told school officials that she planned to transition from male to female during the academic year, took the name Rachel, and began wearing women's clothes and a traditionally female 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award The Rev. Todd Freeman: The Eastern Oklahoma Presbytery of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) voted against a proposed change in the denomination's constitution that would recognize same-sex marriage. The presbytery voted 46 to 33, against the change, defining marriage not as the union of a man and a woman but as a "unique commitment between two people." During the debate before the vote, Todd Freeman of College Hill Presbyterian Church in Tulsa said for the first time publicly that he is gay. He read a statement telling of his struggle with being gay. "This isn't about me but rather about God calling people, regardless of their sexual orientation, into a loving and committed relationship. And with all my heart, soul, mind and strength, I am among those that no longer believe that homosexuality, nor its expression in relationship, is in and of itself a sin." Community Hero Award. Chris Shoaf: Chris has advocated for new educational standards for Oklahoma's comprehensive HIV/AIDS education policy, which has not been updated since 1987. He was instrumental in creating a pathway with local Walgreens pharmacies to provide post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) prescriptions for victims of sexual assault. Chris also went to the state Capitol multiple times last legislative session and met with lawmakers to find support to defeat more than a dozen anti-LGBTQ bills that were offered. He also reorganized the Tulsa AIDS coalition, which had ceased to exist when several community leaders retired. It is now called TIDAL, or the Tulsa Infectious Disease AIDS League. Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:22 PM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... Corporate Inclusion Award Paula Marshall and BAMA Companies: In 2015, BAMA Companies added gender identity and gender expression to their nondiscrimination policy and begin to provide transgender health benefits in their employee compensation package. Founded in 1937, BAMA Companies is the leading innovator of bakery products that cater to the needs of the largest and most well-known restaurant chains on the planet. The company's core product lines are hand-held pies, biscuits, buns, pie shells and pizza crusts. hairstyle. U.S. Attorney General Eric H. Holder Jr. announced in December 2014 that federal prohibitions against sex discrimination include protections based on gender identity. OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 13 of 14 __ ,. • ' ,, ~~=:. ••••. .• • ./_ t·" ..... .r ~ "' • Ii..' :.. 418 J __ ,. ..... ~ r~ 4~· • ·- �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... Marley Groves: Marley started the Gay Straight Alliance at McAlester High School with very little support from the administration, but she had attended Camp Out and Camp Anytown and was equipped to advocate for her rights as a student in a public school setting. After 11 weeks of pressing the high school principal and McAlester superindent, they finally agreed to allow Marley to hold her first GSA meeting. It was attended by more than 25 students. Marley then led her newly formed GSA group to participate in community projects for food banks and senior centers. In October, she rallied these fledgling activists to march with a 50-foot rainbow flag in the McAlester High School homecoming parade. More than 50 had signed up to march in the parade, but a large thunderstorm led to the parade's cancellation 15 minutes before it was to begin. Megan Sayler: The Booker T. Washington High School senior serves as co-president of BTW's Gay Straight Alliance, called SOFA, or Sexual Orientation, Friendship, Acceptance. Megan has gone above and beyond to secure her school as a safe place for all students. Toward the end of the 2014-15 school year, she learned that some freshmen girls were being bullied by older students. Not long afterward, SOFA was preparing for the Day of Silence and had posters torn down by the same bullies. A video of the incident, which included a homophobic slur, was posted on social media. And Megan went to the administration. The school quickly addressed the situation in a response that attracted national attention. In a Tulsa World article, Megan was quoted as saying: "These people are people, too. They may have made a bad decision, but that doesn't make them bad people. That's something that Booker T. instills in us. We know how to treat each other with kindness and respect, and we know how to move forward." On Nov. 20, Megan and the other students from SOFA hosted an LGBTQ history assembly open to the entire school. The assembly focused on educating the student body about LGBTQ history and featured local heroes such as Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin and Steven Williams. r---------------------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~---------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:22 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1d16e71bc08cc0a68814642c05971c0e.pdf b2847a01833903a344cfa506cf5ace8e PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 oklahomans for equality news In This Issue EBA Sponsor Lawyer in the Library Assessing Our Health Needs Keep Coming Back Meditation Group 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo EBA Mixer Master Class April Volunteer of the Month Video eNews MOREcolor EBA Sponsor "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? A/fordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Tulsa Metro Softball League Pride Store Rainbow Library P.S. Gordon Exhibit OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of Kris Fairchild (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Lawyer in the Library April 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center - Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Assessing Our Health Needs and Health Disparities April 18, 20, 21, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 There will be three focus groups to discuss health needs and disparities within our community. We would like hear your thoughts and experiences within our health care system. This will take place in a group setting of about 8-10 people. Individuals must be 19 years old or older to participate. Gay and Bisexual Men - Monday April 18, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Transgender/Gender Non-Conforming - Wednesday April 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Lesbian and Bisexual Women Thursday April 21, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services If you would like to participate please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Keep Coming Back Meditation Group April 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This new group will be meeting every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 in the wellness room beginning April 18. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturdays By appointment 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... April 22, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. We will also be raffling off a seat for the 2016 Equality Gala held April 30th. Huge thanks to Jamie Catlett for the donation! Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org You don't want to miss the fun, put this on your calendar now! To purchase tickets click on one of the links below: $10 for general admission $20 Adult Beverage admission Buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer April 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. 108 Contemporary 108 E. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74103 E Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org ALITY usiness Alliance Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Steven Michael Hall Photography will be hosting our April EBA networking event. Our event will be at the 108 Contemporary studio located at 108 East Brady Street. Steven took the leap into photography in 1993 when he jumped from the writing and editing side of newspapers. He has always been intrigued by photography's ability to show potentials and personal revealings. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... more information. Master Class with Will & Anthony Nunziata April 30, 11:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Norman Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Dennis Neill & John Southard will be sponsoring a master class for Tulsa Public Schools' vocal music students. The New York singing duo, Will and Anthony Nunziata, will be performing and leading the master class on April 30,2016, in the Norman Theatre of the Performing Arts Center in Tulsa. The class will be from 11 a.m. - noon. Students from Nathan Hale, Washington, Rogers and Memorial High Schools will be performing. Admission is free. beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. For more information contact Ann Tomlins at tomlian@tulsaschools.org Volunteer of the Month April 2016 Samantha Free Samantha found out about the organization after reading an article in the local paper,the idea of being involved with an organization that at its core is about showing people it really is okay to just be themselves is something that appeals to her. Samantha challenges you to volunteer, Whether you are an LGBTQ individual or an ally like she is, you are always made to feel welcome when you walk through okeq's door. If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Call for Entries MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2016 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award, and a People's choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. KEY INFORMATION ( please review full submission requirements and enter online ) May 8th: Submission deadline Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 2 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Entry Fee: A single entry fee (per artist, NOT per piece) of $10 for up to five works May 25th: Artist notification of acceptance into the exhibition 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... June 9th: Delivery of Art Work, 3 to 6pm All work must be appropriately ready to display (see the submission requirements) June 9th: MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public, cash prizes awarded, surprises and live performances, catered cuisine and bar, sale of fine art. Artists are encouraged to bring as many guests as they like. June 9th-12th: Run of the Show June 13th: Pick up unsold work, 3 to 6pm To Enter: Go to https://morecolor2016.artcall.org/ for online submission of entries. All entries must be made online. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Thank you for being part of MOREcolor 2016! SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ . . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: Kris Fairchild May 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. The May Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of JCE Parker beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. JCE Parker, was born August 3, 1978, in Norman, Oklahoma. He attending Northlake Junior College in Dallas and received an Associates of Science Degree in 2000. After graduating in 2003 with a BA in Business Administration from Austin College in Sherman, Texas, he spent a few seasons playing professional baseball before settling down starting a family and running his company. He currently resides in South Tulsa with his wife and three small children. At an early age it was apparent that he observed the complexity of life and tried to represent what he saw and how he felt through his artwork. In the beginning, much of his work was technical and exact, it wasn't until college that his connection with the abstract made itself known. The freedoms of painting in abstract led him to blend the form of brushless strokes to the exactness of drawing. This technique is prevalent in much of the works he creates today. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. JCE Parker says "This series is about connectedness. - knowing that we all experience turmoil and we all try to make sense of it. This series is dedicated to the idea that I can make an attempt at reconciling the disarray and to be empathetic to those who go through the same battles." Each piece is created by applying multiple layers of paint, some layers erratic while others controlled and intentional. The next step is the "inking" process, where some or all of the individual colors or lines are outlined. The layers of paint represent chaos, either unintended or deliberate. The outlining is an effort to control the chaos and bring some semblance of balance. This process can take a considerable amount of time, much like reconciliation in life. The Artist's Muse speaks to him in this way: "Life can be erratic and full of mistakes. When we make the effort to rectify those mistakes and bring order to the chaos, that is what makes us resolute. Recognizing those same efforts and struggles in each other, makes us connected and empathetic. " The show begins with a reception on Thursday, May 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Queer as Folk" Series about the lives of a group of gay men and lesbians living in Pittsburgh. Michael and Brian, both on the verge of turning 30, have been friends since they were 16. Michael, romantic and still an adolescent at heart, collects comic books and is an assistant manager at the Big Q Mart. Brian is a successful advertising executive who revels in promiscuity and drugs and is completely unapologetic about his lifestyle. He believes in sex, not love. Michael has always been in love with Brian, but will never admit it. Ted is a nice-looking, but average fellow. An accountant with a taste for porn, Ted's fatal flaw is his lust for twenty-somethings who don't return his interest. Emmett is probably the most flamboyant of the four friends and wears it with pride. Brian donated his sperm to his dear friend Lindsay, an art teacher at the university. Along with her lesbian lover, Melanie, a lawyer who detests Brian, they are raising their infant son. Justin Taylor is a 17-year-old boy whose life is changed one night when he experiences sex and what he thinks is love, for the first time. Debbie Novotny is Michael's eccentric mother -- vehemently proud of her gay son. Dr. David Cameron is the dreamboat chiropractor who makes Michael forget about Brian, for a while. In the beginning of the second season, it is several months after a horrific gay-bashing incident; Justin struggles to remember while Brian struggles to forget. Michael, fresh from his breakup with Dr. David, moves home and buys a comic book store. Back in the dating game, his new love interest creates conflict with his mother, Debbie. Ted pursues his passion for porn and enlists Emmett to help launch his new endeavor. Will Lindsay and Melanie decide to marry or will an unexpected visit from Melanie's ex shake things up? Lindsay and Melanie try to get Gus admitted into preschool. Famous Pittsburgh drag queen Divina Devore returns to town and Debbie reveals the two of them dated years ago. To earn money for art school, Justin turns to go-go dancing at Babylon. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . LGBT National Day of Silence April 15, 2016 is LGBT National Day of Silence. The Day of Silence is a student effort to protest harassment, discrimination, and hate. Participating students, led by GLSEN, will hand out cards that read the following: "Please understand my reasons for not speaking today. I am participating in the Day of Silence, a national youth movement protesting the silence faced by lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people and their allies in schools. My deliberate silence echoes that silence, which is caused by harassment, prejudice, and discrimination. I believe that ending the silence is the first 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... step toward fighting these injustices. Think about the voices you are not hearing today. What are you going to do to end the silence?" On April 16, start the discussion with Gay Youth . Gay Youth 30 Minutes / DVD Closed Captioned / 16-Page Study Guide Colleges $150 High Schools - Community Groups - Public Libraries $65 www.pamwaltonproductions.com Six out of 10 lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) teens say they feel unsafe at school. Eighty-two percent of that same group say they've been verbally harassed because of their sexual orientation, while 71 percent say they've heard homophobic remarks like "dyke" or "faggot" used with some frequency at school. These are just three of the more disturbing statistics revealed by the Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network's (GLSEN) 2011 National School Climate Survey. According to GLSEN researchers, the annual poll -- which comprised 8,584 student respondents from all 50 states as well as the District of Columbia -- aims to "consistently examine the experiences of LGBT students in America's schools." However, it wasn't all gloom and doom. As GLSEN officials are quick to point out, the 2011 survey found a continued overall decline in anti-LGBT language, as in previous years. This year, they add, the survey shows a significant decrease in victimization based on sexual orientation for the very first time. "If instructors have time and resources for just one videotape, it should be Gay Youth for its insightful treatment of coming out, parental support, peer harassment, and suicide among gay and lesbian teens." -- Robert-Jay Green California School of Professional Psychology Gay Youth Awards & Screenings CINE Golden Eagle Silver Apple National Educational Media Network Young Adult Library Association Nominated, 2006 Select DVD List Blue Ribbon American Film Festival Museum of Modern Art New York City Find out more, watch a preview clip, and purchase the DVD at www.pamwaltonproductions.com P.S. Gordon Exhibit April 1 - April 28 Living Arts Tulsa 307 E Mathew B. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74120 As part of our mission, Living Arts is establishing the Living Arts Living Legend Artist Award honoring those artists responsible for pushing the art world forward, establishing the reputation of Tulsa as an artistic city, and contributing to the encouragement and inspiration of other artists in our community. AND THE GIFT OF FALLING SNOW During April 2016, Living Arts will be exhibiting works by Patrick (P.S.) Gordon never before seen in a public exhibition. Many of these works are held in private collections and all of them will demonstrate Pat's exquisite skill and never-beforeseen subject matter. For more information visit http://livingarts.org/ps-gordon-mrs-lennox-gift-falling------snow The Grateful Day Foundations Annual Spaghetti Dinner & Awards Ceremony 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... Please join us for our awards ceremony and spaghetti dinner. Proceeds from this event go directly to help finance the 2016 HIV Wellness Retreat. Thank you for your continued support, without you, we could not do, what we do for others. WHERE: Fellowship Congregational UCC 2900 south Harvard ave WHEN: April 16th 5pm-7pm Cost: $10.00/AYCE Gluten free and Vegan options available 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... CC 2900 S. Harvard A\ e. Tulsa Doors OJlen 6p - Music begin ickel. :30() - Dinn ' I' 7p 30. Tab s 2 o. , 300 01 $ '3 50 (T Ill e sec t , pl'lting for Re 11 ,·, H r d r Pr r lu,n I ilnited o 112 . e, ts. Advanced Purchase Advis d I accbook.co1n/ SistcrslnSongl ul a Oklahoma Bar Association Law Day April 28, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. The OBA will provide free legal advice on Thursday, April 28 from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m., as part of its annual Law Day celebration and the Ask A Lawyer TV show, broadcasting on OETA. Viewers, statewide can call toll-free 1-800-456-8525 and Tulsa area residents can call 918-838-8770 to have their legal questions answered and get legal advice, at NO CHARGE, by the volunteer attorneys. Viewers can also choose to email their questions to askalawyer@okbar.org The OBA has been providing this community service for more than 35 years. Grab Your Balls! May 6, 8:00 p.m. AMF Sheridan Lanes 3121 S. Sheridan Rd. Tulsa, OK 74145 GRAB YOUR BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Come join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday May 6 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org :~-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------~ C·):t4~• I 4/23/26, 5:39 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/cc0ba95bf4b4caa7f4b45ab9781601c6.pdf e96669539a9946fe5f64e9239ce78fd0 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 19th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews April 20th, 2016 e news okl.ihom.ins for equality In This Issue EBA Sponsor Assessing Our Health Needs EBA Mixer 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo Master Class April Volunteer of the Month Video eNews MOREcolor "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Tulsa Metro Softball League Pride Store Rainbow Library OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of Kris Fairchild Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:40 PM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2016.ht... Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Assessing Our Health Needs and Health Disparities April 20, 21, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 There will be three focus groups to discuss health needs and disparities within our community. We would like hear your thoughts and experiences within our health care system. This will take place in a group setting of about 8-10 people. Individuals must be 19 years old or older to participate. Transgender/Gender Non-Conforming - Wednesday April 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Lesbian and Bisexual Women Thursday April 21, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services If you would like to participate please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:40 PM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2016.ht... Equality Business Alliance Mixer April 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. 108 Contemporary 108 E. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74103 E ALITY Business Alliance Steven Michael Hall Photography will be hosting our April EBA networking event. Our event will be at the 108 Contemporary studio located at 108 East Brady Street. Steven took the leap into photography in 1993 when he jumped from the writing and editing side of newspapers. He has always been intrigued by photography's ability to show potentials and personal revealings. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo April 22, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. We will also be raffling off a seat for the 2016 Equality Gala held April 30th. Huge thanks to Jamie Catlett for the donation! Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org You don't want to miss the fun, put this on your calendar now! To purchase tickets click on one of the links below: $10 for general admission $20 Adult Beverage admission Buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. 4/23/26, 5:40 PM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2016.ht... Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Master Class with Will & Anthony Nunziata April 30, 11:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Norman Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Dennis Neill & John Southard will be sponsoring a master class for Tulsa Public Schools' vocal music students. The New York singing duo, Will and Anthony Nunziata, will be performing and leading the master class on April 30,2016, in the Norman Theatre of the Performing Arts Center in Tulsa. The class will be from 11 a.m. - noon. Students from Nathan Hale, Washington, Rogers and Memorial High Schools will be performing. Admission is free. For more information contact Ann Tomlins at tomlian@tulsaschools.org Volunteer of the Month April 2016 Samantha Free Samantha found out about the organization after reading an article in the local paper,the idea of being involved with an organization that at its core is about showing people it really is okay to just be themselves is something that appeals to her. Samantha challenges you to volunteer, Whether you are an LGBTQ individual or an ally like she is, you are always made to feel welcome when you walk through okeq's door. If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Non-Binary Support Group Call for Entries MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2016 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award, and a People's choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org KEY INFORMATION ( please review full submission requirements and enter online ) May 8th: Submission deadline Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 2 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 4/23/26, 5:40 PM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2016.ht... Entry Fee: A single entry fee (per artist, NOT per piece) of $10 for up to five works May 25th: Artist notification of acceptance into the exhibition June 9th: Delivery of Art Work, 3 to 6pm All work must be appropriately ready to display (see the submission requirements) 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather June 9th: MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public, cash prizes awarded, surprises and live performances, catered cuisine and bar, sale of fine art. Artists are encouraged to bring as many guests as they like. June 9th-12th: Run of the Show June 13th: Pick up unsold work, 3 to 6pm To Enter: Go to https://morecolor2016.artcall.org/ for online submission of entries. All entries must be made online. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Thank you for being part of MOREcolor 2016! "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: JCE Parker May 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The May Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of JCE Parker beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan JCE Parker, was born August 3, 1978, in Norman, Oklahoma. He attending Northlake Junior College in Dallas and received an Associates of Science Degree in 2000. After graduating in 2003 with a BA in Business Administration from Austin College in Sherman, Texas, he spent a few seasons playing professional baseball before settling down starting a family and running his company. He currently resides in South Tulsa with his wife and three small children. At an early age it was apparent that he observed the complexity of life and tried to represent what he saw and how he felt through his artwork. In the beginning, much of his work was technical and exact, it wasn't until college that his connection with the abstract made itself known. The freedoms of painting in abstract led him to blend the form of brushless strokes to the exactness of drawing. This technique is prevalent in much of the works he creates today. JCE Parker says "This series is about connectedness. - knowing that we all experience turmoil and we all try to make sense of it. This series is dedicated to the idea that I can make an attempt at reconciling the disarray and to be empathetic to those who go through the same battles." Each piece is created by applying multiple layers of paint, some layers erratic while others controlled and intentional. The next step is the "inking" process, where some or all of the individual colors or lines are outlined. The layers of paint represent chaos, either unintended or deliberate. The outlining is an effort to control the chaos and bring some semblance of balance. This process can take a considerable amount of time, much like reconciliation in life. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach The Artist's Muse speaks to him in this way: "Life can be erratic and full of mistakes. When we make the effort to rectify those mistakes and bring order to the chaos, that is what makes us resolute. Recognizing those same efforts and struggles in each other, makes us connected and empathetic. " 4/23/26, 5:40 PM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2016.ht... The show begins with a reception on Thursday, May 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! $5.00 per Session Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Gender Outreach Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm Click here to purchase your pendant today! A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Times Have Been Better" Jeremy excels at everything. He's only 30 but has just been promoted to an executive position at the bank. In his parents' eyes, he's the golden child, much to the chagrin of his younger brother, Robin who has been the only one in the staid family privy to Jeremy's sexual predilections. But when Jeremy unexpectedly stops by one day for Sunday brunch and announces that he's just moved in with, well, his boyfriend, things begin to percolate: Jeremy's parents always fancied themselves as progressive and liberal. After this little piece of news: not so much. Game Night Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . P.S. Gordon Exhibit April 1 - April 28 Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and 4/23/26, 5:40 PM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2016.ht... Living Arts Tulsa 307 E Mathew B. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74120 As part of our mission, Living Arts is establishing the Living Arts Living Legend Artist Award honoring those artists responsible for pushing the art world forward, establishing the reputation of Tulsa as an artistic city, and contributing to the encouragement and inspiration of other artists in our community. Teresa Reno MRS. LENNOX AND THE GIFT OF FALLING SNOW During April 2016, Living Arts will be exhibiting works by Patrick (P.S.) Gordon never before seen in a public exhibition. Many of these works are held in private collections and all of them will demonstrate Pat's exquisite skill and never-beforeseen subject matter. For more information visit http://livingarts.org/ps-gordon-mrs-lennox-gift-falling------snow Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. F ,C 2900 S. ti, 1 1ard \e. Tulsa Doors open 6p - Musi • begin, 6:30p - Dinn 'r 7p 4/23/26, 5:40 PM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2016.ht... I ilnitcd o 112 e t , Ad 1anced Purcha. dvis d f accbook.corn/ istcrslnSon~ ul a Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Oklahoma Bar Association Law Day ,·7< .·. .·i• .. ,. .~.-. . .. , . .. II April 28, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. • ·• The OBA will provide free legal advice on Thursday, April 28 from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m., as part of its annual Law Day celebration and the Ask A Lawyer TV show, broadcasting on OETA. Viewers, statewide can call toll-free 1-800-456-8525 and Tulsa area residents can call 918-838-8770 to have their legal questions answered and get legal advice, at NO CHARGE, by the volunteer attorneys. Viewers can also choose to email their questions to askalawyer@okbar.org The OBA has been providing this community service for more than 35 years. Grab Your Balls! ... • ' -·~ · . . .... a, ··• ·, - Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org May 6, 8:00 p.m. AMF Sheridan Lanes 3121 S. Sheridan Rd. Tulsa, OK 74145 CRAB YOUR Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Come join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday May 6 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L-- ----- ---- ----- --------- ----- ---- ----- --------- ----- ---- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- -J 4/23/26, 5:40 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/cfea4f83b4b65970d57cfacae041a093.pdf 20199fcd90a22e5bb1ab0f3d5712ac2d PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-27th--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 e news okl.ihom.ins for equality In This Issue EBA Sponsor The Hunting Ground. Dining Out for Life Tulsa Threat April Volunteer of the Month MOREcolor "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo Hyatt Regency Tulsa Metro Softball League Pride Store Rainbow Library OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of Kris Fairchild Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:41 PM �OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-27th--2016.ht... Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 The Hunting Ground April 27, 6:30 p.m. Tulsa CARES 3712 E 11th St, Tulsa, OK 74112 WHY WILL YOU WEAR DENIM? ON APRIL 27th WEAR DENIM IN SUPPORT OF SURVIVORS OF SEXUAL ASSAULT At 6:30 PM Tulsa CARES will be showing "The Hunting Ground" A documentary following college students who have been raped on campus and face retaliation and harassment as they fight for justice. For the past 17 years, Peace Over Violence has run its Denim Day campaign on a Wednesday in April This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be 4/23/26, 5:41 PM �OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-27th--2016.ht... in honor of Sexual Violence Awareness Month. The campaign was originally triggered by a ruling by the Italian Supreme Court where a rape conviction was overturned because the justices felt that since the victim was wearing tight jeans she must have helped her rapist remove her jeans, thereby implying consent. In this rape prevention education campaign we ask community members, elected officials, businesses and students to make a social statement with their fashion by wearing jeans on this day as a visible means of protest against the misconceptions that surround sexual assault. more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Hosted by the Advocacy Alliance, Tulsa CARES and The Department of Women's and Gender Studies For more information contact: jim-scholl@utulsa.edu Dining Out for Life Thursday April 28, 2016 Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Making a difference is as easy as going out to eat! Our amazing restaurants will donate 25% or more of your bill to pay for local HIV services provided by H.O.P.E. Their generosity coupled with your generous donation will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. Please browse www.diningoutforlife.com, and use our restaurant locator to find your perfect Dining Out for Life restaurant. It could not be easier to search for the perfect meal for you, your family, and friends. Please help us make sure that no one faces HIV alone. It is the most satisfying meal you will ever eat! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football The Tulsa Threat are a professional women's American football team based in Tulsa, OK. The Threat plays 11 on 11, NCAA-rules tackle football against teams nationwide in the Independent Women's Football League (IWFL). The team was established in 2011 and completed their first season in the spring of that year. April 30 - Second Home Game of the Season! Come on out and see Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football face off against San Antonio! Tickets are $8 at the gate, children 12 and under are free! Pre-game you can get tickets through any player for $5! Kick-off is at 7pm! May 7 - Third Home Game of the Season! Come on out and see Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football face off against the Woodland Wildcats! Tickets are $8 at the gate, children 12 and under are free! Pre-game you can get tickets through any player for $5! Kick-off is at 7pm! Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org May 21 - Final Home Game of the Season! Come on out and see Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football face off against the Austin Yellow Jackets! Tickets are $8 at the gate, children 12 and under are free! Pregame you can get tickets through any player for $5! Kick-off is at 7pm! Stay connected with Tulsa Threat on Facebook Volunteer of the Month April 2016 Samantha Free Samantha found out about the organization after reading an article in the local paper,the idea of being involved with an organization that at its core is about showing people it really is okay to just be themselves is something that appeals to her. Samantha challenges you to volunteer, Whether you are an LGBTQ individual or an ally like she is, you are always made to feel welcome when you walk through okeq's door. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:41 PM �OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-27th--2016.ht... If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Call for Entries MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2016 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award, and a People's choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. KEY INFORMATION ( please review full submission requirements and enter online ) May 8th: Submission deadline Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 2 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event Entry Fee: A single entry fee (per artist, NOT per piece) of $10 for up to five works May 25th: Artist notification of acceptance into the exhibition June 9th: Delivery of Art Work, 3 to 6pm All work must be appropriately ready to display (see the submission requirements) June 9th: MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public, cash prizes awarded, surprises and live performances, catered cuisine and bar, sale of fine art. Artists are encouraged to bring as many guests as they like. June 9th-12th: Run of the Show June 13th: Pick up unsold work, 3 to 6pm To Enter: Go to https://morecolor2016.artcall.org/ for online submission of entries. All entries must be made online. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Thank you for being part of MOREcolor 2016! "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: JCE Parker May 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The May Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of JCE Parker beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out 4/23/26, 5:41 PM �OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-27th--2016.ht... Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. JCE Parker, was born August 3, 1978, in Norman, Oklahoma. He attending Northlake Junior College in Dallas and received an Associates of Science Degree in 2000. After graduating in 2003 with a BA in Business Administration from Austin College in Sherman, Texas, he spent a few seasons playing professional baseball before settling down starting a family and running his company. He currently resides in South Tulsa with his wife and three small children. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. At an early age it was apparent that he observed the complexity of life and tried to represent what he saw and how he felt through his artwork. In the beginning, much of his work was technical and exact, it wasn't until college that his connection with the abstract made itself known. The freedoms of painting in abstract led him to blend the form of brushless strokes to the exactness of drawing. This technique is prevalent in much of the works he creates today. JCE Parker says "This series is about connectedness. - knowing that we all experience turmoil and we all try to make sense of it. This series is dedicated to the idea that I can make an attempt at reconciling the disarray and to be empathetic to those who go through the same battles." Each piece is created by applying multiple layers of paint, some layers erratic while others controlled and intentional. The next step is the "inking" process, where some or all of the individual colors or lines are outlined. The layers of paint represent chaos, either unintended or deliberate. The outlining is an effort to control the chaos and bring some semblance of balance. This process can take a considerable amount of time, much like reconciliation in life. The Artist's Muse speaks to him in this way: "Life can be erratic and full of mistakes. When we make the effort to rectify those mistakes and bring order to the chaos, that is what makes us resolute. Recognizing those same efforts and struggles in each other, makes us connected and empathetic. " The show begins with a reception on Thursday, May 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ . . Ladies Social Club May 13, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is important to them and address their needs in your newsletter each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.Do you dance in the grocery store? Dance in your living room? Dance with your kiddo? Do you like to feel FREE and JOYFUL? Do you feel the need to dance your sad and move your mad? This "non-class" is for YOU! Any BODY can do it. It's an opportunity to move your body any way you want. There are no steps to learn, and no previous dance experience is required. Just ecstatic beats and free flow rhythms that entice your inner spirit to float and fly across the room like a ballerina-athlete-kid-punk rocker-silly person! You'll find during this meditative experience that you connect to yourself in new ways, and feelings like stress, grief, and confusion will transform into health, joy, and clarity. Please dress comfortably - tennis shoes are recommended - and try to arrive as close to 6:00 as you can. You'll want water; either stop at the Pride Store on your way in for a free bottle of water (thanks, OkEq!) or bring your own. If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach 4/23/26, 5:41 PM �OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-27th--2016.ht... sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Equality Business Alliance Mixer May 18, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Council Oak Mens Chorale 2300 Riverside Dr., Tulsa, OK 74114 $5.00 per Session E ALITY Business Alliance Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Council Oak Men's Chorale will be hosting the May EBA network mixer in the dining room of 2300 Riverside. Council Oak Men's Chorale is Tulsa's premiere Men's chorus. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo May 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and 4/23/26, 5:41 PM �OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-27th--2016.ht... Teresa Reno Join us for our final Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. To purchase tickets click on one of the links below: $10 for general admission Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals $20 Adult Beverage admission Buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org 2016 Tulsa Pride Special Rates June 3-5, 2016 Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East 2nd Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is our host hotel for Tulsa Pride 2016! Take advantage of special room rates that include shuttle service to and from the festival. You won't find a better place to sleep off the fun of Tulsa Pride!!! Click here more information and to book your room now. Availability is limited. HYATT ,p"" 'ld e REGENCY" EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Thank you, TMSL Board Dennis R. Neill Equality Center TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Equality Gala: The Revolution Continues are available in our Pride Store for $25.00. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide 4/23/26, 5:41 PM �OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-27th--2016.ht... This delightful and woofy documentary will introduce you to three amazing and lovable bears - Mikhael, Louie and Mike. Their personal stories of coming out, dealing with body image and searching for community will surprise and move you. They offer a new way to look at the bear community. emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Bear Run tracks the colorful rituals, playful language and evolving aesthetic of bear culture, by following the guys as they romp through the 2006-2008 event circuit to Lazy Bear, P-town, NYC, Albany, Chicago and Montreal. Along the way, the film challenges stereotypes about gay life and creates an entertaining and intimate portrait of what it means to be a mature, gay man in the new millennium. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Bear Run: Celebrating the Bear Community" Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group P.S. Gordon Exhibit April 1 - April 28 Living Arts Tulsa 307 E Mathew B. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74120 As part of our mission, Living Arts is establishing the Living Arts Living Legend Artist Award honoring those artists responsible for pushing the art world forward, establishing the reputation of Tulsa as an artistic city, and contributing to the encouragement and inspiration of other artists in our community. MRS. LENNOX AND THE GIFT OF FALLING SNOW During April 2016, Living Arts will be exhibiting works by Patrick (P.S.) Gordon never before seen in a public exhibition. Many of these works are held in private collections and all of them will demonstrate Pat's exquisite skill and never-beforeseen subject matter. For more information visit http://livingarts.org/ps-gordon-mrs-lennox-gift-falling-------snow Oklahoma Bar Association Law Day April 28, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. The OBA will provide free legal advice on Thursday, April 28 from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m., as part of its annual Law Day celebration and the Ask A Lawyer TV show, broadcasting on OETA. Viewers, statewide can call toll-free 1-800-456-8525 and Tulsa area residents can call 918-838-8770 to have their legal questions answered and get legal advice, at NO CHARGE, by the volunteer attorneys. Viewers can also choose to email their questions to askalawyer@okbar.org The OBA has been providing this community service for more than 35 years. Grab Your Balls! May 6, 8:00 p.m. AMF Sheridan Lanes 3121 S. Sheridan Rd. Tulsa, OK 74145 Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. GRAB YOUR BALLS! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org And you could win some money doing it! :,1'<,' Corne join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday May 6 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. , .• • :- -·; ' •.., ,,,",•_ ' ,. , . ... . \. ., , ' - Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:41 PM �OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-27th--2016.ht... The GRATEFUL DAY FOUNDATION is hosting a Hamburger Cookout at The Tulsa Eagle MAY 7TH 6-8 PM $7.00/plate Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Proceeds from this event go directly to help finance the 2016 HIV Wellness Retreat This will be our 4th Retreat and we couldn't do it without your support. Thank you www.gratefulday.org oklahomans for equallty Camp Anytown July 31 - August 6 For more information click here r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I I ~-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:41 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ce3ddd1999f003dd07e6616053abf752.pdf 809020d304dace280724b5e3b667a6c6 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 e news okl.ihom.ins for equality In This Issue EBA Sponsor April Volunteer of the Month May OkEq Video eNew MOREcolor "First Thursday" Tulsa Threat Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo VOLUNTEER MEET AND GREET RainGlow Run 2016 Tulsa Pride Hyatt Regency Tulsa Metro Softball League Pride Store Rainbow Library OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 24th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of JCE Parker Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library May 11, from 4/23/26, 5:42 PM �OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Volunteer of the Month April 2016 Betty Peskey Betty has been a volunteer at OkEq for two years. She has two gay sons and a lesbian daughter. She volunteers twice a week because she wants to give back to the community. She works at the front desk greeting visitors and answering the helpline. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Happy Mothers day Betty! 4/23/26, 5:42 PM �OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... We thank you for your dedication. r::mr ,.-rzm If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org May OkEq Video eNews YouTube Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. Call for Entries MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2016 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award, and a People's choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. KEY INFORMATION ( please review full submission requirements and enter online ) A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. May 8th: Submission deadline Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 2 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event Entry Fee: A single entry fee (per artist, NOT per piece) of $10 for up to five works May 25th: Artist notification of acceptance into the exhibition June 9th: Delivery of Art Work, 3 to 6pm All work must be appropriately ready to display (see the submission requirements) June 9th: MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public, cash prizes awarded, surprises and live performances, catered cuisine and bar, sale of fine art. Artists are encouraged to bring as many guests as they like. June 9th-12th: Run of the Show June 13th: Pick up unsold work, 3 to 6pm To Enter: Go to https://morecolor2016.artcall.org/ for online submission of entries. All entries must be made online. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Thank you for being part of MOREcolor 2016! "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: JCE Parker May 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 JCE Parker, was born August 3, 1978, in Norman, Oklahoma. He attending Northlake Junior College in Dallas and received an Associates of Science Degree in 2000. After graduating in 2003 with a BA in Business Administration from Austin College in Sherman, Texas, he spent a few seasons playing professional baseball before settling down starting a family and running his company. He currently resides in South Tulsa with his wife and three small children. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out 4/23/26, 5:42 PM �OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... At an early age it was apparent that he observed the complexity of life and tried to represent what he saw and how he felt through his artwork. In the beginning, much of his work was technical and exact, it wasn't until college that his connection with the abstract made itself known. The freedoms of painting in abstract led him to blend the form of brushless strokes to the exactness of drawing. This technique is prevalent in much of the works he creates today. Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather JCE Parker says "This series is about connectedness. - knowing that we all experience turmoil and we all try to make sense of it. This series is dedicated to the idea that I can make an attempt at reconciling the disarray and to be empathetic to those who go through the same battles." Each piece is created by applying multiple layers of paint, some layers erratic while others controlled and intentional. The next step is the "inking" process, where some or all of the individual colors or lines are outlined. The layers of paint represent chaos, either unintended or deliberate. The outlining is an effort to control the chaos and bring some semblance of balance. This process can take a considerable amount of time, much like reconciliation in life. The Artist's Muse speaks to him in this way: "Life can be erratic and full of mistakes. When we make the effort to rectify those mistakes and bring order to the chaos, that is what makes us resolute. Recognizing those same efforts and struggles in each other, makes us connected and empathetic. " Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, May 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football The Tulsa Threat are a professional women's American football team based in Tulsa, OK. The Threat plays 11 on 11, NCAA-rules tackle football against teams nationwide in the Independent Women's Football League (IWFL). The team was established in 2011 and completed their first season in the spring of that year. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. May 7 - Third Home Game of the Season! Come on out and see Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football face off against the Woodland Wildcats! Tickets are $8 at the gate, children 12 and under are free! Pre-game you can get tickets through any player for $5! Kick-off is at 7pm! May 21 - Final Home Game of the Season! Come on out and see Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football face off against the Austin Yellow Jackets! Tickets are $8 at the gate, children 12 and under are free! Pregame you can get tickets through any player for $5! Kick-off is at 7pm! Stay connected with Tulsa Threat on Facebook Ladies Social Club May 13, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Do you dance in the grocery store? Dance in your living room? Dance with your kiddo? Do you like to feel FREE and JOYFUL? Do you feel the need to dance your sad and move your mad? This "non-class" is for YOU! Any BODY can do it. It's an opportunity to move your body any way you want. There are no steps to learn, and no previous dance experience is required. Just ecstatic beats and free flow rhythms that entice your inner spirit to float and fly across the room like a ballerina-athlete-kid-punk rocker-silly person! You'll find during this meditative experience that you connect to yourself in new ways, and feelings like stress, grief, and confusion will transform into health, joy, and clarity. Please dress comfortably - tennis shoes are recommended - and try to arrive as close to 6:00 as you can. You'll want water; either stop at the Pride Store on your way in for a free bottle of water (thanks, OkEq!) or bring your own. If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Yoga by Zach Equality Business Alliance Mixer May 18, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Council Oak Mens Chorale 4/23/26, 5:42 PM �OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... 2300 Riverside Dr., Tulsa, OK 74114 Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY E ALITY @4:30 pm Business Alliance $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Council Oak Men's Chorale will be hosting the May EBA network mixer in the dining room of 2300 Riverside. Council Oak Men's Chorale is Tulsa's premiere Men's chorus. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo May 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our final Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. To purchase tickets click on one of the links below: $10 for general admission $20 Adult Beverage admission Buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno VOLUNTEER MEET AND GREET FOR TULSA PRIDE! May 21, 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Volunteer for Tulsa Pride, and Join us May 21st for the meet and greet cook out! Food, Games, Oriention, prizes, and lots for fun before the MAIN EVENT! For more information connect with us on Facebook or Jose Vega @ jose.vega@okeq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 5:42 PM �OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point RainGlow Run Open every day June 3, 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Celebrate Tulsa Pride Weekend by running in the RainGLOW Run on Friday, June 3. The one mile Fun Run for kids and families will start at 8:00 p.m. The 5K at 8:30 p.m. The RainGLOW Run will benefit Tulsa Pride and the Oklahomans for Equality whose mission is to seek equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals, and families through advocacy, education, programs and alliances. The RainGLOW Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, Mad Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. .. UJ~OJJatlJ Join us Tulsa Pride Weekend for the third annual RainbowGlow Run. For details visit us at http://www.rainbowruntulsa.com/ or contact joann@madchicks.co Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 5:42 PM �OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group okl omons for equallty SATURDAY, JUN[ 4TH I NOON- 9:00 PM [rESTIVAl ANO BlOCK PARTY) PARAU[ STARTS AT 6:00 PM DENNIS R. NElll EQUALITY CENTER I 621 E4TH ST, TULSl OK 74120 2016 Tulsa Pride Special Hotel Rates June 3-5, 2016 Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East 2nd Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 MISSION: The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is our host hotel for Tulsa Pride 2016! Take advantage of special room rates that include shuttle service to and from the festival. You won't find a better place to sleep off the fun of Tulsa Pride!!! Click here more information and to book your room now. Availability is limited. HYATT '"'"l p de Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. REGENCY' Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ,,. ' ~.;,., .·~.,- ,< • .-.. :.. . -~ . ... . I ,_ ., Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Thank you, 4/23/26, 5:42 PM �OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Equality Gala: The Revolution Continues are available in our Pride Store for $25.00. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Crimson Vengeance" By Sheri Lewis Wohl Love, desire, and secrets trail littered with murder and the choice one vampire will have to make that will seal her fate or set her free... Spokane County Medical Examiner Riah Preston has a job to do and a secret to keep. Riah is a vampire and she's on a mission to discover a cure for the very thing that has kept her a prisoner of darkness for over five hundred years. With the help of Moses Lake Coroner Ivy Hernandez and genetic scientist Adriana James, they are on the verge of a breakthrough. When victims of a rogue vampire begin to show up along the I-90 corridor, things get complicated. The appearance of vampire hunter Colin Jamison complicates the situation even further. Will they be strong enough to stop this vampire killer cutting a wide path of death and destruction? Or will the secrets Riah holds in her heart destroy them all? Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Grab Your Balls! May 6, 8:00 p.m. AMF Sheridan Lanes 3121 S. Sheridan Rd. Tulsa, OK 74145 GRAB YOUR BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Corne join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday May 6 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of 4/23/26, 5:42 PM �OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... - - - bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends ! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. The GRATEFUL DAY FOUNDATION is hosting a Hamburger Cookout at The Tulsa Eagle MAY 7TH 6-8 PM $7.00/plate Proceeds from this event go directly to help finance the 2016 HIV Wellness Retreat This will be our 4th Retreat and we couldn't do it without your support. Thank you www.gratefulday.org okl11homans for eq11:11lty Camp Anytown July 31 - August 6 For more information click here r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 5:42 PM �OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... ~-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:42 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/502ba9ffc31f98105f26f2b7b96c7521.pdf 98413101b19a14955e70cb09ee8d0de4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-11th--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 e okl.ihom.ins for equality news Mark Owen & David Privett Sponsor the Day Monday May 16, 2016 In This Issue Mark Owen & David Privett EBA Sponsor April Volunteer of the Month May OkEq Video eNew MOREcolor Tulsa Threat Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer Mark Owen and David Privett are sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on May 16th in honor of their legal wedding anniversary. Congratulations Mark and David! If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo VOLUNTEER MEET AND GREET RainGlow Run My So Called Band. 2016 Tulsa Pride Hyatt Regency Pride Store Rainbow Library • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, May 19th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of JCE Parker Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library May 11, from 4/23/26, 5:43 PM �OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-11th--2016.ht... 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Volunteer of the Month May 2016 Betty Peskey Betty has been a volunteer at OkEq for two years. She has two gay sons and a lesbian daughter. She volunteers twice a week because she wants to give back to the community. She works at the front desk greeting visitors and answering the helpline. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 5:43 PM �OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-11th--2016.ht.. We thank you for your dedication Betty! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org May OkEq Video eNews Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org YouTube Passage ,c ► ◄ The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. .. ., i'jJ A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition - Opening June 9, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 June 9th; MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm • Free and open to the public • Live performance art • Catered cuisine • Cash bar • Fine art purchases available • People's Choice Award The show runs June 9th - 12th For more information contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Thank you for being a part of MOREcolor 2016! Non-Binary Support Group Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com The Tulsa Threat are a professional women's American football team based in Tulsa, OK. The Threat plays 11 on 11, NCAA-rules tackle football against teams nationwide in the Independent Women's Football League (IWFL). The team was established in 2011 and completed their first season in the spring of that year. May 21 - Final Home Game of the Season! Come on out and see Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football face off against the Austin Yellow Jackets! Tickets are $8 at the gate, children 12 and under are free! Pregame you can get tickets through any player for $5! Kick-off is at 7pm! Stay connected with Tulsa Threat on Facebook SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Ladies Social Club May 13, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Live Free! Coming Out Do you dance in the grocery store? Dance in your living room? Dance with your kiddo? Do you like to feel FREE and JOYFUL? Do you feel the need \JUH~J ULLll J JO# ~UUUOt,&q>IO '\,J 3 of 9 4/23/26, 5:43 PM �OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-11th--2016.ht... to dance your sad and move your mad? This "non-class" is for YOU! Any BODY can do it. It's an opportunity to move your body any way you want. There are no steps to learn, and no previous dance experience is required. Just ecstatic beats and free flow rhythms that entice your inner spirit to float and fly across the room like a ballerina-athlete-kid-punk rocker-silly person! You'll find during this meditative experience that you connect to yourself in new ways, and feelings like stress, grief, and confusion will transform into health, joy, and clarity. Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Please dress comfortably - tennis shoes are recommended - and try to arrive as close to 6:00 as you can. You'll want water; either stop at the Pride Store on your way in for a free bottle of water (thanks, OkEq!) or bring your own. If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Equality Business Alliance Mixer May 18, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Council Oak Mens Chorale 2300 Riverside Dr., Tulsa, OK 74114 The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. E ALITY Business Alliance SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Council Oak Men's Chorale will be hosting the May EBA network mixer in the dining room of 2300 Riverside. Council Oak Men's Chorale is Tulsa's premiere Men's chorus. ■ • . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Yoga by Zach 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo May 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 5:43 PM �OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-11th--2016.ht... 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Take A Class Join us for our final Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm To purchase tickets click on one of the links below: $10 for general admission $20 Adult Beverage admission $5.00 per Session Buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org VOLUNTEER MEET AND GREET FOR TULSA PRIDE! May 21, 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Volunteer for Tulsa Pride, and Join us May 21st for the meet and greet cook out! Food, Games, Oriention, prizes, and lots for fun before the MAIN EVENT! For more information connect with us on Facebook or Jose Vega @ jose.vega@okeq.org 1, Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. r Pr Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night RainGlow Run June 3, 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Celebrate Tulsa Pride Weekend by running in the RainGLOW Run on Friday, June 3. The one mile Fun Run for kids and families will start at 8:00 p.m. The 5K at 8:30 p.m. The RainGLOW Run will benefit Tulsa Pride and the Oklahomans for Equality whose mission is to seek equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals, and families through advocacy, education, programs and alliances. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The RainGLOW Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, Mad Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. Join us Tulsa Pride Weekend for the third annual RainbowGlow Run. For details visit us at http://www.rainbowruntulsa.com/ or contact joann@madchicks.co My So Called Band June 3, 9:00 p.m. - 12:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 5:43 PM �OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 6 of 9 What better way to kick off Tulsa Pride weekend than an outdoor glow in the dark concert and block party with everyone's favorite 90s cover band My So Called Band?! Rave and party the night away listening to all the hits from the 90s and early 2000s! Glowsticks and glow in the dark body paint will be provided. Cash bar available. Adult tickets are only $15! Student tickets are $10 with valid student ID Children 12 years of age and younger are FREE The AfterGLOW Party will immediately follow the RainGLOW Run 5K. All runners of the RainGLOW Run get FREE admission to the AfterGLOW concert. For more information about the RainGLOW Run, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com All ages can attend; 21+ with a valid photo ID required to drink. Presented by Oklahomans for Equality, RainGLOW Run, and Yelp Tulsa. Click here to purchase tickets. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-11th--2016.ht... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 5:43 PM �OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-11th--2016.ht... okt ho ns for equality SATURDAY, JUN[ 4TH I NOON- 9:00 PM (rESTIVAl ANO BlOCK PARTY) PARADE STARTS Al 6:00 PM DENNIS R. NElll EQUALITY CENTER I 621 E4TH Sl TUlSA OK 74120 2016 Tulsa Pride Special Hotel Rates June 3-5, 2016 Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East 2nd Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is our host hotel for Tulsa Pride 2016! Take advantage of special room rates that include shuttle service to and from the festival. You won't find a better place to sleep off the fun of Tulsa Pride!!! Click here more information and to book your room now. Availability is limited. HYATT REGENCY" '"'"l p de A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Equality Gala: The Revolution Continues are available in our Pride Store for $25.00. Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Husband Hunting Made Easy: And Other Miracles for the Modern Gay Man" By Patrick Price The modern gay man is his own best friend, has healed his inner child, is in touch with the warrior within, has memorized the Kama Sutra , and owns a little black book that would make Casanova jealous. Why, then, do so few of them have the house, dog, Range Rover, and "husband" that so many yearn for? Husband Hunting Made Easy finally reveals the secrets to finding, getting, and keeping the husband of your dreams. From the basics ("What is a husband and why do I want one?") to the advanced course ("In-laws-how not to kill them"), this is the everything-you-need-to-know guide. From blind dates ("Hint: Never let Mom set you up") to dress ("A thong is always wrong!") to avoiding pathetic opening lines ("Care to lambada?"), Patrick Price leads you past the pitfalls and pratfalls of landing the (nearly) perfect man. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org :·ia" .;•.·. •.. ,.. , \. ,.:·-, : .· 1 . .. . . . . ~ ' ·, +·· · ' . - Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . 4/23/26, 5:43 PM �OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-11th--2016.ht... You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Calling all rural transgender and gender nonconforming individuals to participate in a research study Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: douglas.knutson@okstate.edu LIVING~ ARTS Don't miss these other eventa or 1.he Living Arts Homelsss Project Tulsa Area Fair Housing Partnership OPENING FIRST FRIDAY, MAY 6, 20 16. 6-9PM 5th annual film screening at Living Arts 1-Seel<N>!J Shetler e,c:nrr,nes Iha s1aI0 ot home ilf"I Tulsa Md •s made up D1 wori( by artJsls Yoho are etlNr presen vor formallyw• lhout a home orby artists who are a,t ested in givmg YOeCe to those- 1nd1viduals. It explores the ••nouo ••peels ol homele-•, not pnply one v - 111 thv hop ol changing ••oroolypos Living Ar1• Ar11s1ic Oiroctor Sle Uggou curalod this o•hllil w,lh muc:11 holp from Emerging Curo1or. Acostll Also oponing ., I be UnHomod on tKhibi cu,ated by Morianno Pegno, wtoch 1oa1uros rtwor!<S by Rogers Stal Unl\>ors.-iy SIUl'.1801S from 111011 An ,or Soaal Chango curncutim 1augh1 by Aoh· 1huy Nguyen and Oovod Bia ly Anh-T huy Nguyen's lnstn la.hon Food al M MORY wilt be m the lront corner space lmbedded pertormances of homeless stones entitled For Your &am;naUon by David Bl ely and Anna Hudson w,11 also bo taking pla<:e dutlng thv oP<>ning Tulsa Pubbc Schools Exht'bd Whal is Homo? curalod by JuHanna Cloi1t will be on di:,play al the Guthrie Green or, Firsl Fr,day In May. Join us: Thurs, May 26, 2016 (6:30 - 8:30 p.m) Living ArtSpace (307 E MB Brady St) An open discus1lon with a panel of profess onals In thi s Neid as weU as an lnvl1atlon to aJI to d11cu11 to r hous ng In Tu lsa. Films: •Hum•n by Rethink Homelessnes s Orlando • Kyle•• Story by Rethink Homeles.,neu for our Veterons 2·Pvmn9 on lhe Glriz r ,nlon Talen1 howcose. May 6 6 30pm al 1s1 MethOdlsl a..-d, Coor<llnaled ~y lhe Momal He h Assocl loon Oklahoma 3•Fragmented Uvea - a caba1et dealing with Mental Heafth and Horneta tnoss at LMna ArtSoaoe. Satt#daY. Mav 14. Born OJ tad tw 4/23/26, 5:43 PM �OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-11th--2016.ht... •UnspoUed by Moke Tt1em Vl tlble FoundotJon Oeboroh Hun1cr •Four Myth• about HomG!uanoH by Rethink Homeleuneu Vlog •-Tulsa Ar1Cor Wee end RecepllOn -May 19, 7·00pm at N,ghtUght Tulsa Uroor the bndgo at Mayoone and Brady)-202 N Maybello •SIN,/rorby All Am•b •Zero : 20Uf by Ending tiomaleHne&a, Providi ng Homes For more Into, cont.act; C. Lyn Lara.on. U.S. HUO, 918..292.8915 307 £ l<I BRAOY ST I TUI.SA 01C I 918.!>85.123~ I LNI GAATSOAG Microsoft Business Breakfast for the LGBTQ Business Community June 24, 8:30 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. Microsoft at Woodland Hills Mall 7021 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74133 In honor of LGBT Pride Month, join Microsoft for a free event for the LGBTQ business community and other small business owners at the Microsoft Store. You will enjoy: * A keynote speaker who will discuss being an LGBTQ business owner. * An opportunity to network with other local LGBTQ and other small business owners in the area. * Insider knowledge about all of the free resources available for businesses in the Microsoft. * The opportunity to enter and win a raffle prize. 11Microsoft Space is limited. Sign up today at microsoftstore.com/woodlandhillsmall. Camp Anytown July 31 - August 6 For more information click here r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, :C·):t4~• Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:43 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0a2f46f5d8acf49c95fb416e8ca298a6.pdf baf60a1d8aa0f3fd461c723fb25514b0 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 e Sol Smith Sponsors the Day Wednesday May 18, 2016 okl.ihom.ins for equality news In This Issue Mark Owen & David Privett EBA Sponsor EBA Mixer Tulsa Pride Bingo Tulsa ArtCar Weekend Volunteer Meet and Greet Pancake Breakfast Tulsa Threat Sol Smith is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on May 18th in honor of his 90th birthday. Interfaith Service Hyatt Regency RainGlow Run Happy Birthday Sol! My So Called Band. 2016 Tulsa Pride MOREcolor Ladies Social Club April Volunteer of the Month If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, coming out date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because May OkEq Video eNew Pride Store Rainbow Library OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, May 19th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of JCE Parker Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... Lawyer in the Library June 8, from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... Equality Business Alliance Mixer May 18, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Council Oak Mens Chorale 2300 Riverside Dr., Tulsa, OK 74114 E ALITY Business Alliance Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. Council Oak Men's Chorale will be hosting the May EBA network mixer in the dining room of 2300 Riverside. Council Oak Men's Chorale is Tulsa's premiere Men's chorus. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. FINAL Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016 May 20, 6:60 p.m. Dennis R. Neil Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our final Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. To purchase tickets click on one of the links below: $10 for general admission A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com $20 Adult Beverage admission Buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Tulsa ArtCar Weekend May 20, 1:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Living Arts, Tulsa's arts organization dedicated to presenting contemporary non-traditional art to the public, is proud to announce Tulsa ArtCar Weekend SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... XII. The dates for the event are May 19-21, 2016, with many different venues for the public to enjoy these unique vehicles that function both as roadworthy cars and as exciting artistic creations. For those unfamiliar, ArtCars typically involve transforming any type of vehicle, motorcycle, scooter or bicycle into a personalized creation of art. Many artists have committed to participate, with ArtCars coming from many parts of the United States to join Tulsa area ArtCar and ArtBike artists. The cars will be onsite at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for viewing Friday May 20 at 1:30 p.m. Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. VOLUNTEER MEET AND GREET FOR TULSA PRIDE! May 21, 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Volunteer for Tulsa Pride, and Join us May 21st for the meet and greet cook out! Food, games, orientation, prizes, and lots for fun before the MAIN EVENT! For more information connect with us on Facebook or Jose Vega @ jose.vega@okeq.org vol 1, rfor SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ • . Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa Threat Pancake Breakfast Fundraiser May 21, 8:00 a.m. - 10:30 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Come have breakfast with the Threat!! Pancakes and sausage links!! $5 per plate! Yoga by Zach Tickets will be available for our last home game which will be at 7pm that evening! We will also have posters to get autographs from your favorite Threat players!! 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... Mmmmm PANCAKES!!!! Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY C lick here for more details @4:30 pm Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football The Tulsa Threat are a professional women's American football team based in Tulsa, OK. The Threat plays 11 on 11, NCAA-rules tackle football against teams nationwide in the Independent Women's Football League (IWFL). The team was established in 2011 and completed their first season in the spring of that year. $5.00 per Session May 21 - Final Home Game of the Season! Come on out and see Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football face off against the Austin Yellow Jackets! Tickets are $8 at the gate, children 12 and under are free! Pregame you can get tickets through any player for $5! Kick-off is at 7pm! Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Stay connected with Tulsa Threat on Facebook Annual Pride Interfaith Service Lambda Al-Anon Group May 31, 7:00 p.m. Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N. Mingo Rd., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74116 Every Friday 7 p.m. Each year the Interfaith community gathers for our Pride service. We remember those LGBTQ individuals who died between June 1st, 2015 and May 31, 2016. We recognize the faith communities who stand with and care for the spiritual needs of the LGBTQ community. One of the highlights of the evening is when the welcoming and inclusive faith community place their hands on the rainbow flag and bless it as a symbol of Justice and Equality and a standard of safety and protection as it flies over the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center during pride week. Please join us for an inspiriational evening. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Connect on Facebook for all the details and updates. Every Saturday 12:30 pm 2016 Tulsa Pride Special Hotel Rates SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org June 3-5, 2016 Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East 2nd Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is our host hotel for Tulsa Pride 2016! Take advantage of special room rates that include shuttle service to and from the festival. You won't find a better place to sleep off the fun of Tulsa Pride!!! Click here more information and to book your room now. Availability is limited. HYATT REGENCY' '"'"A p de A WEEKEND OF PRIDE RainGlow Run Game Night June 3, 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Celebrate Tulsa Pride Weekend by running in the RainGLOW Run on Friday, June 3. The one mile Fun Run for kids and families will start at 8:00 p.m. The 5K at 8:30 p.m. The RainGLOW Run will benefit Tulsa Pride and the Oklahomans for Equality whose mission is to seek equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals, and families through advocacy, education, programs and alliances. The RainGLOW Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, Mad Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. W~OJJ311J Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Join us Tulsa Pride Weekend for the third annual RainbowGlow Run. For details visit us at http://www.rainbowruntulsa.com/ or contact joann@madchicks.co My So Called Band June 3, 9:00 p.m. - 12:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 6 of 11 What better way to kick off Tulsa Pride weekend than an outdoor glow in the dark concert and block party with everyone's favorite 90s cover band My So Called Band?! Rave and party the night away listening to all the hits from the 90s and early 2000s! Glowsticks and glow in the dark body paint will be provided. Cash bar available. Adult tickets are only $15! Student tickets are $10 with valid student ID Children 12 years of age and younger are FREE The AfterGLOW Party will immediately follow the RainGLOW Run 5K. All runners of the RainGLOW Run get FREE admission to the AfterGLOW concert. For more information about the RainGLOW Run, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com All ages can attend; 21+ with a valid photo ID required to drink. Presented by Oklahomans for Equality, RainGLOW Run, and Yelp Tulsa. Click here to purchase tickets. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... okl Ju,mons for equality SATURDAY, JUN[ 4TH I NOON- 9:00 PM (rESTIVAl AND BlOCK PARTY) PARADE STARTS Al 6:00 PM DENNIS R. NElll EQUALITY CENTER I 621 E4TH Sl TUlSA OK 74120 MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition - Opening June 9, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group June 9th; MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public Live performance art Catered cuisine Cash bar Fine art purchases available People's Choice Award The show runs June 9th - 12th For more information contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Thank you for being a part of MOREcolor 2016! Ladies Social Club June 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you fancy yourself a good problem solver? Are you competitive? Do you like to have fun? If the answer to any of those questions is yes, then definitely come out for our LSC scavenger hunt! We will meet in the event center, and split into teams. You'll receive all the instructions and be sent off into the East End and Blue Dome areas of downtown to check off as many of the items as you can. When time's up, everyone will head back to OkEq to find out how everyone did and hang out for the rest of the evening!n. If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Volunteer of the Month May 2016 Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ,,. ' ~.; ,., .·~.,- ,< • .-. :.. . -~ . ... . I .- Betty Peskey Betty has been a volunteer at OkEq for two years. She has two gay sons and a lesbian daughter. She volunteers twice a week because she wants to give back to the community. She works at the front desk greeting visitors and ., Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... answering the helpline. We thank you for your dedication Betty! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org May OkEq Video eNews YouTube Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Equality Gala: The Revolution Continues are available in our Pride Store for $25.00. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Antigay Agenda: Orthodox Vision and the Christian Right" By Didi Herman In The Antigay Agenda , Didi Herman probes the values, beliefs, and rhetoric of the organizations of the Christian Right. Tracing the emergence of their antigay agenda, Herman explores how and why these groups made antigay activity a top priority, and how it relates to their political history. "A penetrating analysis of the Christian Right's antigay agenda and of how that agenda is derived from the Christian Right's peculiar vision of American history and the Christian faith."-Rev. Peter J. Gomes, Boston Book Review "Public intellectualism at its best. . . . A comprehensive summary of the conservative Protestant worldview."Michael Joseph Gross, Boston Phoenix Literary Section THE '""'" AGENDA Orthodo• ... VWOa ~, Chrutian RiJht "Presents considerable information not previously part of the nation's political discourse. . . . [Herman] dissects the Christian Right's antigay stance dispassionately giving, as it were, the devil his due. For anyone 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... on either side of this passionate and important conflict, that is an impressive accomplishment."-Hastings Wyman, Jr., Washington Post Book World U ID I 111 , H \ I \ ' Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Openarms Youth Project - Lowbrow Comedy Show May 20, 7:00 p.m. Openarms Youth Project 2015-B S. Lakewood Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 Looking for a way to escape from life's stresses and worries? Please join me in supporting Tulsa's very own Openarms Youth Project and attending a Comedy Show benefit featuring some of Oklahoma's funniest comedians. Tickets are just $20. Every dollar raised will go back to support a great cause and help pave the way for success for hundreds of youth in the greater Tulsa area. Plus, there is complimentary wine and beer! For event details, please visit http://www.oypcomedyshow.eventbrite.com. I hope to see you there! ------------ fHOW FUNORAISER 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Calling all rural transgender and gender nonconforming individuals to participate in a research study You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: douglas.knutson@okstate.edu LIVING~ ARTS Don't miss these ocher events of the l iving Ar1 s Home/es:, Project Tulsa Area Fair Housing Partnership OPENING FIRST FRIDAY. MAY 6, 2016, 6-9PM 5th annual film screening at Living Arts 1•Seek,ng Shetter 1< nes Iha s1aI0 Of ho a an Tulsa and iS made up of woric by artists v.ho are eutier presen vor formally without a home or by artists who are Wlt ested 1n givmg WMC& to those mcllvidua.15. It explores the vanouo aspects ol homoleseness, not ..,,p1y one v""' ., the hol)86 of changing st roc,typos Living Ans Arl15Iic Oiroctor Sieve Uggon curalod !his ••hilil -.,th mucl> holp from Emerging Curotor, Joe Acosto Also oponing 11,<I be UnHomod an oKhibl curated by Marlnmo Pogno. which lcaturos rtW011<S t>y Rogers Stal UnhlorMy su1<1en1s rrom thelt An 10, Soaal Chango curnclAlm t01Jgh1 by Anh• I huy Nguyan and vo<J Bia ely Anh-Thuy Nguyen's tnsta \al.Jon Food ol MDAORY wIU be ..., front corner space lmbedded performances of homeless stones entitled For Your ~mination by D vid Bia ely and An,.. Hoooon will a &0 be ta g place dUJlng the Ol)Gning Tulsa POOie Schools xt• wriar ill Homo ? curatod by JuHanno Cloll< v.ill be oncll31>lay at the Guthrie Gr non Firsl Friduy In May Join us: Thurs. May 26, 2016 (6:30 - 8:30 p.m) Living Art$pa ce (307 E MB Brady St) An open discussion with a panel of protestlonafs In this ti Id as well as an Invitation to on to di1eu11 fa r hou.a ng n Tu lsa. Films: •Human by Rethink Homeleunea, Orlando • Kylee' Story by Rethink Homeles.sneu for our Veterans •Unspolfed by rAoke Them Visibl e F011ndotlon 2-P111rfn9 on Iha G/11z I ohlon & T, lont Showc,,se, May 0. 6 JOpm • • ISi MelhodtSI Coorctl COOf'dinated by lhe f111on al Hoa h Assoclat.on Oklahoma 3•Fragmented Uves - a cabaret dealing w,th Mental Health and Hornel8661lOSS at LMng Arl$paoe, SalLWday \lay 14, Spm (lJT lod by Deborah Hunter •Four Myth• abour Homolo. .no. . by Rethink Homelounou Vlog •SIN,/torby An Amab •Zero : 201'1 by Ending Homelenne&a. Providing H ome ■ For Mou1 Into, cont.act: •-Tulsa Ar1Car Wee end RocepllOn -May 19, 7·00pm aI NoghtUght Tulsa Undor the bridge at Mayo&lle and Brody)-202 N Maybelle 5, 7S1Dries/7 Doon,,ays: eMe,ge a 111te-,paclfic perlormanc:e - Saturday June 4. 7.00pm at 11\e K ,r Warllhouse. 12 N Cheyenne. Coordinated by 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... .. - -. ., .__ ............. .......... , ....... . . . -, .. Ste Uggen 307 E 1116 BRAOY ST I TULSA OI( I 918.S8S.123 ◄ I LIVI GARTS.ORG Microsoft Business Breakfast for the LGBTQ Business Community June 24, 8:30 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. Microsoft at Woodland Hills Mall 7021 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74133 In honor of LGBT Pride Month, join Microsoft for a free event for the LGBTQ business community and other small business owners at the Microsoft Store. You will enjoy: * A keynote speaker who will discuss being an LGBTQ business owner. * An opportunity to network with other local LGBTQ and other small business owners in the area. * Insider knowledge about all of the free resources available for businesses in the Microsoft. * The opportunity to enter and win a raffle prize. 11Microsoft Space is limited. Sign up today at microsoftstore.com/woodlandhillsmall. Camp Anytown July 31 - August 6 For more information click here r-- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- --------- -, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I 4/23/26, 5:46 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0301c3f9f7bd1fba154a570f1efb6727.pdf b75773ac32b96404f27569beccfd1856 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 e news okl.ihom.ins for equality Thank You! Dear straight and cisgender allies, inclusive companies and corporations, welcoming and affirming faith communities, supportive non-profit agencies, courageous and progressive legislators, social justice and LGBTQ advocacy organizations, and our LGBTQ community and family, Thank you for going the distance, staying in it to win it, giving a 110%, this whole Oklahoma 55th legislative session and especially these last 10 days. Your visits to the capitol, phone calls, emails, hand written letters, protest rallies, engaging your legislators, standing together and ignoring our differences, forgiving our past wounds and meaningless divisions made sure we were heard on a number of legislative issues and bills. We have watched every kind of legislative attack on: women's reproductive rights employment equity policies undocumented immigrants religious minorities the working poor those in assited living the elderly those requiring food assistance healthcare mental health facilities the incarcerated school administrators school teachers school counselors and social workers higher education small businesses LGBTQ and gender non-conforming youth Same Sex marriages Same Sex parents wishing to adopt and foster parent those living with HIV/AIDs access to bathrooms for transgender individuals transgender student access to school bathrooms and locker rooms and even daylight savings time In This Issue EBA Sponsor Interfaith Service Hyatt Regency RainGlow Run My So Called Band. 2016 Tulsa Pride MOREcolor May OkEq Video eNew Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer SAGE Summer Pool Parties April Volunteer of the Month Pride Store Rainbow Library OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, May 19th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of JCE Parker Justice and equality did not always prevail, and we experienced a lot of defeat, and we won some, not enough, but some. Through it all you stood together and said "this is my Oklahoma" and our unity may possibly have been our greatest win. Thank you for your efforts, your sacrifices and your service to your neighbors. Gamily Toby Jenkins Executive Director Oklahomans for Equality The Revolution continues............ Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library June 8, from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an 4/23/26, 5:48 PM �OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 5:48 PM �OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... ., ., ' 918-970-4814 th uIl@sp iritba nk. com NMLS# 1300904 Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Annual Pride Interfaith Service May 31, 7:00 p.m. Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N. Mingo Rd., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74116 Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. Each year the Interfaith community gathers for our Pride service. We remember those LGBTQ individuals who died between June 1st, 2015 and May 31, 2016. We recognize the faith communities who stand with and care for the spiritual needs of the LGBTQ community. One of the highlights of the evening is when the welcoming and inclusive faith community place their hands on the rainbow flag and bless it as a symbol of Justice and Equality and a standard of safety and protection as it flies over the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center during pride week. Please join us for an inspiriational evening. Connect on Facebook for all the details and updates. 2016 Tulsa Pride Special Hotel Rates June 3-5, 2016 Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East 2nd Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is our host hotel for Tulsa Pride 2016! Take advantage of special room rates that include shuttle service to and from the festival. You won't find a better place to sleep off the fun of Tulsa Pride!!! Click here more information and to book your room now. Availability is limited. ,p""·Ade HYATT REGENCY" A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. A WEEKEND OF PRIDE RainGlow Run June 3, 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Celebrate Tulsa Pride Weekend by running in the RainGLOW Run on Friday, June 3. The one mile Fun Run for kids and families will start at 8:00 p.m. The 5K at 8:30 p.m. The RainGLOW Run will benefit Tulsa Pride and the Oklahomans for Equality whose mission is to seek equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals, and families through advocacy, education, programs and alliances. The RainGLOW Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, Mad Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. Join us Tulsa Pride Weekend for the third annual RainbowGlow Run. For details visit us at http://www.rainbowruntulsa.com/ or contact joann@madchicks.co My So Called Band June 3, 9:00 p.m. - 12:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 What better way to kick off Tulsa Pride weekend than an outdoor glow in the dark concert and block party with everyone's favorite 90s cover band My So Called Band?! Rave and party the night away listening to all the hits from the 90s and early 2000s! Glowsticks and glow in the dark body paint will be provided. Cash bar available. Adult tickets are only $15! Student tickets are $10 with valid student ID Children 12 years of age and younger are FREE Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out 4/23/26, 5:48 PM �OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... Workshop The AfterGLOW Party will immediately follow the RainGLOW Run 5K. All runners of the RainGLOW Run get FREE admission to the AfterGLOW concert. For more information about the RainGLOW Run, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather All ages can attend; 21+ with a valid photo ID required to drink. Presented by Oklahomans for Equality, RainGLOW Run, and Yelp Tulsa. Click here to purchase tickets. Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ • . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 okl homans for equality SATURDAY, JUN[ 4TH I NOON-9:00 PM [rESTIVAL ANO BLOCK PARTY) PARAU[ STARTS AT 6:00 PM ......L..aa.aal Yoga by Zach ll[JJ I rntUI ITV f'fllT[D I (!')1 r JTU ('J tlJI l' m, 1~ 4/23/26, 5:48 PM �OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... 1ua .11llll [~UALII I lillll[I\ I Ol.l [ 'fin ill, IOLilA, UI\ f 'ff( Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition - Opening June 9, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session June 9th; MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public Live performance art Catered cuisine Cash bar Fine art purchases available People's Choice Award The show runs June 9th - 12th For more information contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Thank you for being a part of MOREcolor 2016! Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Tulsa Pride Weekend 2016 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Ladies Social Club June 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you fancy yourself a good problem solver? Are you competitive? Do you like to have fun? If the answer to any of those questions is yes, then definitely come out for our LSC scavenger hunt! We will meet in the event center, and split into teams. You'll receive all the instructions and be sent off into the East End and Blue Dome areas of downtown to check off as many of the items as you can. When time's up, everyone will head back to OkEq to find out how everyone did and hang out for the rest of the evening!n. If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 5:48 PM �OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... Equality Business Alliance Mixer The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. June 15, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Howard Doak with Cityscape Mortgage Fifteenth and Home 1512 East 15th Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 E UALITY Business Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. At Cityscape Home Mortgage, we focus on providing you with affordable mortgages in Tulsa, OK. Our goal is to turn your dream of home ownership into your new reality, and we pride ourselves on being dedicated to your satisfaction. When you visit our local business, you'll be able to choose from our array of mortgage services, including: Adjustable Rate Mortgage (ARM), FHA Loans, Fixed Rate Mortgage (FRM), Jumbo Mortgage Loans, Refinancing, USDA Rural Development Loans, Veterans Administration Loans, and Native American 184 Loans. With our friendly staff being available all week long to assist you, our goal is to provide you with an intimidation-free loan process by explaining all the steps beforehand. We even review current credit scores with you and discuss any financial concerns you may be struggling with. No matter your financial constraints or price point, we'll do everything in our power to obtain a lower mortgage rate by taking into consideration the local market rates. Leap into home ownership while maintaining financial stability. Take advantage of our free credit analysis for available mortgages in Tulsa by contacting Cityscape Home Mortgage today. Contact Howard Doak at 918-901-9494 or howard@cityscapehome.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. SAGE Summer Pool Parties June 28, July 26, August 30, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their first pool party on Tuesday, June 28th at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Volunteer of the Month May 2016 Betty Peskey Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Betty has been a volunteer at OkEq for two years. She has two gay sons and 4/23/26, 5:48 PM �OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... a lesbian daughter. She volunteers twice a week because she wants to give back to the community. She works at the front desk greeting visitors and answering the helpline. We thank you for your dedication Betty! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $25.00. Tie-dye is also available for $30.00 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The L Word" The L Word is an American/Canadian co-production television drama series portraying the lives of a group of lesbian , bisexual , straight and transgender people and their friends, connections, family and lovers in the trendy Greater Los Angeles , California city of West Hollywood . The show originally ran on Showtime from 2004 to 2009. The show has received a lot of praise for its brilliant storylines and its portrayal of the lesbian community. SEASON TWO the L word· The L Word is created and executive produced by Ilene Chaiken (Barb Wire, The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air), who also serves as a writer on the show. Other executive producers include Steve Golin (Being John Malkovich, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind) and Larry Kennar (Barbershop). Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org :·i·.·:•.·. •.. ,.:··.1:1 .· Calling all rural transgender and gender nonconforming individuals to participate in a research study • _I l' . I I ,...' . .. . \ . ' ·, +-· · . ..~ ' - Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org • 4/23/26, 5:48 PM �OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... re IITVlu=ULO-pclTIIClpcl e-1n .-e ectrcn SllUJTOrTTt:cnur CctT related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org LIVING~ ARTS Don't mis, these other events or 1he Living Arts Homeless Project Tulsa Area Fair Housing Partnership OPENING FIRST FRIDAY, MAY 6, 2016. 6-9PM 5th annual film screening at Living Arts 1·&!sJoog Sheller @Kl nes Iha s1ato ot home n in Tulsa Md •s made up ot wori( by artJsts v.ho are eut,,er pre58fl vor formallyw•lhout a home orby artists who are lfll nted in givmg WMCe lo those- IndIviduals. It explores the vanouo aspects ol homele""""'• not 5lfT1Ply one v""' 111 the h e p ol changing sloroolypos Living Arts Ar11a~c Oiroctor $ 10 LiggoU curalod this o•hllil w,lh muc:11 holp from Emorging Curator. AcoslO Also oponing ., I be UnHomed on t K t l b l cu,ated by Marianna P e g n o, which leaturos rtworl<S by Rogors Slat Unlw>rs.-,Y SIUl'.IOOIS from 111 11 An IOI Soalll Chango cumcutim 1au9hI by Anh•lhuy Nguyen and Oovod Blak ly Anh-Thuy Nguyen's lnsta lahon Food ol Ml:MORY will be W1 lront corner space lmbedded pertOfmancH of horn .&55 stonH ant, ad For Your &.m;nation by David Bl ely •nd Anna Hudson w,11 also be ta g plaoe during the oPUning Tulsa Pubic Schools Ex!> I Whal is Homo? curatod by JuHanno Clar1< will be on display al the Guthrie Green on Firsl Fr,oay In May. Join us: Thurs, May 26, 2016 (6:30 - 8:30 p.m) Living ArtSpace {307 E MB Brady St) An open dl 1cus1lon wtth a pan I of protes1lonal1 In this field as well as an Invitation to all to d11cus1 to r hou.sing In Tulsa, Films: •Hum•n by Rethink Homeleuneas Orlando • Kyle•• Story by Rethink Homele!llneH tor our Veterans •Unspolled by Moke Them Vl1lble F011nd0Uon 2-Purr n9 on Iha Glrrz I ,t,ton Talont howcase. May 6. 6 30pm • • tst MothodlsI Ci.irdl coo,o,nated by the Mental Mea, h Assoctat,on Oklahoma 3•Fragmented Live• - a cabatat dealing with Mental Health and ~lomelo nosa t l.Mng M$paoe. Salcwday M y 14, Sprn cu led by Oeboruh Hunicr •Four Myths .aboul Hom•l•Hnou by Rolhlnk Homel<acsnocs Vlog •Sholtor by All Amab •Zero : 2011 by Ending Homelas:sne&a. Providing Homes ~or mo,e lnlo, cont:ac.t: C. Lyn Larson, U.S. HUO, 911.292.8915 •-Tulsa AnCar We end f1ecepl10n -May t 9, 7·00pm at N,gh Undor tho bndge at Mayl)OII and Btady)-202 N Maybelo ght Tulsa ~- 7SrtJrieJ/1 Dootwa)'!: el.lo<qe a llle-•peclfic perlormance - SalLWday Juoo 4 7.00pm al !he K ir w onou.., 12 Cheyenne. CooidinaIed by S1e Uggon 307 f 1116 8AAOY ST I TUI.SA 04< I 9l 8.!>8S .1 Z3~ I LIVI GARTS.ORG Wine and Cheese Performance, A Time to Sing, Bridging Diversity and Building Unity With Song June 18, 7:30 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 4/23/26, 5:48 PM �OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... Come join COMC for our complete Summer Concert while enjoying delicious wine and horderves. Tickets are available for $40.00 each or a table for $240.00 and can be purchased through our website. Purchase tickets here Microsoft Business Breakfast for the LGBTQ Business Community June 24, 8:30 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. Microsoft at Woodland Hills Mall 7021 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74133 In honor of LGBT Pride Month, join Microsoft for a free event for the LGBTQ business community and other small business owners at the Microsoft Store. You will enjoy: * A keynote speaker who will discuss being an LGBTQ business owner. * An opportunity to network with other local LGBTQ and other small business owners in the area. * Insider knowledge about all of the free resources available for businesses in the Microsoft. * The opportunity to enter and win a raffle prize. 11 Microsoft Space is limited. Sign up today at microsoftstore.com/woodlandhillsmall. A Time to Sing, Bridging Diversity and Building Unity With Song June 25 & 26, 8:00 p.m. Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S. Cincinnati Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 The Spring Concert contains music that is both powerful and moving. Songs that speak of the path we each walk, the struggles we have faced and the promise of the future. There is A Time to Laugh, A Time to Dance and there is.......A TIME TO SING! Council Oak Men's Chorale is celebrating our 18th year and we are preparing to travel to Denver for GALA Festival 2016, the quadrennial convention of LGBT ensembles and choruses. The music performed at GALA will include songs selected from this concert. Tickets are available for $20.00 each and can be purchased through this website. Please look for Council Oak Men's Chorale on Facebook. 4/23/26, 5:48 PM �OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... Camp Anytown July 31 - August 6 For more information click here Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org ~---- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- - - - - - - - - - - JI 4/23/26, 5:48 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/42e7bb133f3bff9669e052c8a16878c8.pdf cfd9134c432ebef2f43ac12085836585 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 okl.ihom.ins for equality In This Issue news 2016 Tulsa Pride RainGlow Run My So Called Band. Pride Parking Pride Parade Pride Picnic in the Park Hyatt Regency MOREcolor Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer Dr. Tony Campolo SAGE Summer Pool Parties OkEq Board Elections April Volunteer of the Month Pride Store Rainbow Library OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 16th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of JCE Parker Gamily okl homans for equallty SATURDAY, JUN[ 4TH I NOON- 9:00 PM (r[STIVAL ANO BlOCK PARTY) - - - ~ADAnrtTADTtATR.nnPU - - - - Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library June 8, from 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... I KI\HUL u IKI\ I u HI u;uu I IJI 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. O[NNIS R. NElll EQUAlllY CENTER I 621 E4TH ST, TUlSA OK 74120 July 13, August 10, and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. RainGlow Run Friday June 3, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Celebrate Tulsa Pride Weekend by running in the RainGLOW Run on Friday, June 3. The one mile Fun Run for kids and families will start at 8:00 p.m. The 5K at 8:30 p.m. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group The RainGLOW Run will benefit Tulsa Pride and the Oklahomans for Equality whose mission is to seek equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals, and families through advocacy, education, programs and alliances. Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 The RainGLOW Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, Mad Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. Join us Tulsa Pride Weekend for the third annual RainbowGlow Run. For details visit us at http://www.rainbowruntulsa.com/ or contact joann@madchicks.co My So Called Band Friday June 3, 9:30 p.m. - 12:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. What better way to kick off Tulsa Pride weekend than an outdoor glow in the dark concert and block party with everyone's favorite 90s cover band My So Called Band?! Rave and party the night away listening to all the hits from the 90s and early 2000s! Glowsticks and glow in the dark body paint will be provided. Cash bar available. Adult tickets are only $15! Student tickets are $10 with valid student ID Children 12 years of age and younger are FREE The AfterGLOW Party will immediately follow the RainGLOW Run 5K. All runners of the RainGLOW Run get FREE admission to the AfterGLOW concert. For more information about the RainGLOW Run, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com All ages can attend; 21+ with a valid photo ID required to drink. Presented by Oklahomans for Equality, RainGLOW Run, and Yelp Tulsa. Click here to purchase tickets. Healthcare Navigator Tulsa Pride Parking Due to the tremendous growth in downtown Tulsa in the past year there will be no free parking available. OkEq does not control parking lots or fees. They are private contracted parking companies. Be prepared to pay to park. Tulsa Pride makes every effort to ensure that our LGBT older adults and those with disabilities can enjoy Tulsa Pride. Festival-goers who utilize a Handicapped Parking Permit or have special parking needs will have a designated parking lot at the festival with easy access to the festival and the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. Approach the east festival gate at Fourth Street and Lansing Ave., the security at the gate will direct you to the specified parking area. Tulsa Pride is also offering an air-conditioned Tulsa Pride Parade viewing area inside the Dennis R Neill Equality Center's Charles Faudree Board Room for LGBT older adults, veterans and those with disabilities. This room overlooks the front of the Center from the second floor. There is easy access to this room utilizing the elevator. Refreshments will be provided. r-;:;:;::-i ~ Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 3 of 11 I f'ublic P~f'kln1 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org I [ Tulsa Pride Parade Saturday, June 3, 6:00 p.m. This year's parade begins at 6:00 p.m. at the intersection of 13th St. and Boston Ave. It will head north to 4th St. and turn east. The Parade will end at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 4th St. and Kenosha Ave. 1W MARTIN LUTHEI E 151 Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Non-Binary Support Group '"',,,.~~o iz 0 t;; ~ "' ISl'ERSAt LOOP ~W 13TH ST w .!.,,,., i :, ~ .., 1 W14THST~ w 0 .,,~W14THPL "' w §~ ...a:_, 0 ::i t;; Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Tulsa Pride Picnic in the Park Sunday, June 5, 11:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Centennial Park 1028 E. 6th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Bring your family and friends, your own food and a blanket or chairs and join us for a family-friendly Picnic in the Park! SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. 2016 Tulsa Pride Special Hotel Rates June 3-5, 2016 Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East 2nd Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is our host hotel for Tulsa Pride 2016! Take advantage of special room rates that include shuttle service to and from the festival. You won't find a better place to sleep off the fun of Tulsa Pride!!! Click here more information and to book your room now. Availability is limited. HYATT P"lde REGENCY" A WEEKEND OF PRIDE MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition - Opening Night Thursday June 9, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) June 9th; MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Free and open to the public Live performance art Catered cuisine Cash bar Fine art purchases available People's Choice Award ■ The show runs June 9th - 12th For more information contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Thank you for being a part of MOREcolor 2016! Ladies Social Club Friday June 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 It's that time of the month! Take a few days to recover from Pride and then join us on Fri, June 10 at 6pm for a scavenger hunt in downtown Tulsa! We'll meet in the event center, divide into teams, and head out into the surrounding area for riotous shenanigans. When we all get back, we'll compare everyone's booty - As in treasure, of course - and have snacks and drinks (BYOB if you want alcohol). This promises to go down in the LSC history books so you don't want to miss this! You will want a little more information, we promise, so join our Group on Facebook: OkEq Ladies Social Club. Don't have Facebook? You can also email Kelley, the LSC Facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com and she will fill you in. Hope to see you there! It's going to be *somuchfun*! Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! coming January , to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Equality Business Alliance Mixer $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesday June 15, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Howard Doak with Cityscape Mortgage Fifteenth and Home 1512 East 15th Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. E ALITY usiness Alliance Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm At Cityscape Home Mortgage, we focus on providing you with affordable mortgages in Tulsa, OK. Our goal is to turn your dream of home ownership into your new reality, and we pride ourselves on being dedicated to your satisfaction. When you visit our local business, you'll be able to choose from our array of mortgage services, including: Adjustable Rate Mortgage (ARM), FHA Loans, Fixed Rate Mortgage (FRM), Jumbo Mortgage Loans, Refinancing, USDA Rural Development Loans, Veterans Administration Loans, and Native American 184 Loans. With our friendly staff being available all week long to assist you, our goal is to provide you with an intimidation-free loan process by explaining all the steps beforehand. We even review current credit scores with you and discuss any financial concerns you may be struggling with. No matter your financial constraints or price point, we'll do everything in our power to obtain a lower mortgage rate by taking into consideration the local market rates. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Leap into home ownership while maintaining financial stability. Take advantage of our free credit analysis for available mortgages in Tulsa by contacting Cityscape Home Mortgage today. Contact Howard Doak at 918-622-0900 or howard@cityscapehome.com ------ Game Night The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. • ·:east side ----CHRISTIAN C U~CH Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... Welcomes Dr. Tony Campolo SIEDLETTER CHRISTIANS.± ❖~ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. A professor emeritus of sociology at Eastern University, Founder and president of t e Evangelical Associatio for the Promotion of E ucat1on. Written more than 35 books. e is one of he founders of the Red _ette Christian movemen Recently has come o t in support of gay marriage Workforce Oklahoma Access Point All Events are open to the public. More info at www.escc.org Sun. June 19 Sun. June 19 Sat. June 18 Fri. June 17 7pm 10:45am 2pm 7pm Oklahomans Sermon Dessert Social East Side for Equality East Side East Side Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule East Side Christian Church 1438 South Indianapolis Tulsa, OK 74112 918 744.1377 Oklahomans for Equality 621 East 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120 918 743.4297 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesdays this Summer June 28, July 26, August 30, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their first pool party on Tuesday, June 28th at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2016 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2016 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, nine Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... OkEq by June 24th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 12th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Nine directors will be elected. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member and membership fees current 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term oklahomans for equality Volunteer of the Month June 2016 Teresa Reno Teresa says "It's important to help out in some way to try and make the world the better place - obviously, but I didn't know where. At several events around town I ran into Toby and talked about volunteering. Many of my friends are members of the LGBT community and equal rights for everyone is one thing that is really important to me, so it was a perfect fit. Also, being raised in a very conservative family and not really sharing their philosophies on many things, it almost feels like making up for the negativity of some of both my own family and others in the community. I'm just an old mother hen - not ashamed of it, but can't help it! Whenever I hear about people being hurtful to others I just want to take everyone in my arms and make it better. Stupid, I know, but it's just how I feel! And since starting there it's made a big difference in my life - especially my Sat. night buddies! Love them all to pieces!" We thank you for your dedication Teresa! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $25.00. Tie-dye is also available for $30.00 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Gay Warrior: Transforming Betrayal into Wisdom" By F. Jim Fickey Ph.D. & Gary S. Grimm MA Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org :·i·.·:•.·. •.. ,.:··.1:1 .· What makes a gay boy a gay man? This important book provides us with a map and valuable raodside assistance as we seek to make our journeys into male maturity. It helps us better identify and articu.late the dead end detours many of us are taking, and challenges us to take responsibility for who and what we are. - Brian McNaught, author of Now That I'm Out, What Do I Do? Gay Warrior is a cogent sythesis of many decades of work and expirience, a hugely compassionate work, and a practical one, too. More than a dozen times, while reading it, I thought "Damn, I wish someone had told me that or introduced that concept when I was 20 (or 30 or 40)!" it is a valuable primer for clinicians and a mustread for anyone who loves a gay man. - Rodger McFarlane, author of The Complete Bedside Companion: No-Nonsense Advice for the Seriously Ill ,...' . .. . . ' . ..~ \ ·, +·· · ' - Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Calling all rural transgender and gender nonconforming individuals to participate in a research study You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Wine and Cheese Performance, A Time to Sing, Bridging Diversity and Building Unity With Song Saturday June 18, 7:30 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Come join COMC for our complete Summer Concert while enjoying delicious wine and horderves. Tickets are available for $40.00 each or a table for $240.00 and can be purchased through our website. Purchase tickets here Microsoft Business Breakfast for the LGBTQ Business Community Thursday June 23rd, 8:30 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... Microsoft at Woodland Hills Mall 7021 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74133 In honor of LGBT Pride Month, join Microsoft for a free event for the LGBTQ business community and other small business owners at the Microsoft Store. You will enjoy: * A keynote speaker who will discuss being an LGBTQ business owner. * An opportunity to network with other local LGBTQ and other small business owners in the area. * Insider knowledge about all of the free resources available for businesses in the Microsoft. * The opportunity to enter and win a raffle prize. 11 Microsoft Space is limited. Sign up today at microsoftstore.com/woodlandhillsmall. A Time to Sing, Bridging Diversity and Building Unity With Song Fiday June 24 & Saturday June 25, 8:00 p.m. Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S. Cincinnati Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 The Spring Concert contains music that is both powerful and moving. Songs that speak of the path we each walk, the struggles we have faced and the promise of the future. There is A Time to Laugh, A Time to Dance and there is.......A TIME TO SING! Council Oak Men's Chorale is celebrating our 18th year and we are preparing to travel to Denver for GALA Festival 2016, the quadrennial convention of LGBT ensembles and choruses. The music performed at GALA will include songs selected from this concert. Tickets are available for $20.00 each and can be purchased through this website. Please look for Council Oak Men's Chorale on Facebook. 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... Camp Anytown July 31 - August 6 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... For more information click here r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I 4/23/26, 5:49 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0a1d813aafd442d7aff4ad468545872e.pdf 85edf9c589601b14790d6e1d016879d3 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 8th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-8th--2016.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews June 8th, 2016 e news okl.ihom.ins for equality Dawn Sitler is Sponsoring June 10, 2016 In This Issue MOREcolor April Volunteer of the Month OkEq Board Elections Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer Dr. Tony Campolo Dawn Sitler is sponsoring June 10th in honor of Dustin Lance Black's birthday. Academy Award Winner Dustin Lance Black is a screenwriter, filmmaker and social activist, best known for writing the screenplay of Harvey Milk's biopic MILK and for aiding in overturning California's discriminatory Proposition 8 SAGE Summer Pool Parties Brought to You Bi the Letter B Brunch Pride Store Rainbow Library Thank you Dawn! MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition - Opening Night Thursday June 9, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 16th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. June 9th; MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public Live performance art Catered cuisine Cash bar Fine art purchases available People's Choice Award OkEq Art Exhibit The 2016 MOREcolor exhibit will be at at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 9th-12th - featuring the works of over 60 artists The show runs June 9th - 12th For more information contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Thank you for being a part of MOREcolor 2016! Volunteer of the Month June 2016 Gamily Teresa Reno Teresa says "It's important to help out in some way to try and make the world the better place - obviously, but I didn't know where. At several events around town I ran into Toby and talked about volunteering. Many of my friends are members of the LGBT community and equal rights for everyone is one thing that is really important to me, so it was a perfect fit. Also, being raised in a very conservative family and not really sharing their philosophies on many things, it almost feels like making up for the negativity of some of both my own family and others in the community. I'm just an old mother hen - not ashamed of it, but can't help it! Whenever I hear about people being hurtful to others I just want to take everyone in my arms and make it better. Stupid, I know, but it's just how I feel! And since starting there it's made a big difference in my life - especially my Sat. night buddies! Love them all to pieces!" We thank you for your dedication Teresa! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library June 8, from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. July 13, August 10, and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:50 PM �OkEq eNews June 8th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-8th--2016.html... 2016 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2016 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, nine Board of Director spaces are up for election. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 24th) OR Keep Coming Back Meditation Group 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 12th) Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Nine directors will be elected. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member and membership fees current 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term oklahomans for equality Ladies Social Club Friday June 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 It's that time of the month! Take a few days to recover from Pride and then join us on Fri, June 10 at 6pm for a scavenger hunt in downtown Tulsa! We'll meet in the event center, divide into teams, and head out into the surrounding area for riotous shenanigans. When we all get back, we'll compare everyone's booty - As in treasure, of course - and have snacks and drinks (BYOB if you want alcohol). This promises to go down in the LSC history books so you don't want to miss this! You will want a little more information, we promise, so join our Group on Facebook: OkEq Ladies Social Club. Don't have Facebook? You can also email Kelley, the LSC Facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com and she will fill you in. Hope to see you there! It's going to be *somuchfun*! If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - -- - - - Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 5:50 PM �OkEq eNews June 8th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-8th--2016.html... Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday June 15, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Howard Doak with Cityscape Mortgage Fifteenth and Home 1512 East 15th Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 E Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org ALITY Business Alliance Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. At Cityscape Home Mortgage, we focus on providing you with affordable mortgages in Tulsa, OK. Our goal is to turn your dream of home ownership into your new reality, and we pride ourselves on being dedicated to your satisfaction. When you visit our local business, you'll be able to choose from our array of mortgage services, including: Adjustable Rate Mortgage (ARM), FHA Loans, Fixed Rate Mortgage (FRM), Jumbo Mortgage Loans, Refinancing, USDA Rural Development Loans, Veterans Administration Loans, and Native American 184 Loans. With our friendly staff being available all week long to assist you, our goal is to provide you with an intimidation-free loan process by explaining all the steps beforehand. We even review current credit scores with you and discuss any financial concerns you may be struggling with. No matter your financial constraints or price point, we'll do everything in our power to obtain a lower mortgage rate by taking into consideration the local market rates. Leap into home ownership while maintaining financial stability. Take advantage of our free credit analysis for available mortgages in Tulsa by contacting Cityscape Home Mortgage today. Contact Howard Doak at 918-622-0900 or howard@cityscapehome.com - - - The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com ·:east side --CHRISTIAN C URCH Welcomes SOS Group Dr. Tony Campolo SIEDLETTER c'l---tl:::>l~TI~ t\.l~ 2_ A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org ~ 4/23/26, 5:50 PM �OkEq eNews June 8th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-8th--2016.html... -- ,- . Live Free! Coming Out Workshop A professor emeritus of sociology at Eastern University, Founder and president of the Evangelical Association for the Promotion of Written more tha 35 ooks. e is one of he founders of the Red ette Christian movemen Recently has come o t in support of gay marriage ucat1on. All Events are open to the public. More info at www.escc.org Sat. June 18 Sun. June 19 Sun. June 19 Fri. June 17 7pm 10:45am 2pm 7pm Oklahomans Sermon Dessert Social East Side for Equality East Side East Side East Side Christian Church 1438 South Indianapolis Tulsa, OK 74112 918 744.1377 Oklahomans for Equality 621 East 4th Street Tulsa, OK 7 4 120 918 743.4297 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesdays this Summer June 28, July 26, August 30, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their first pool party on Tuesday, June 28th at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ • Brought to You Bi the Letter B Brunch Saturday July 16, 12:30 p.m. Dilly Diner 402 E. 2nd ST., Tulsa, OK, 74120 Please join us for the first social event hosted by Brought to You Bi the Letter B! We will be meeting at Dilly Diner on July 16th at 12:30PM. This brunch is for bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies, so all are welcome. Please RSVP via e-mail to briprogramsokeq@gmail.com. We look forward to see everyone and joining to build our community!" Brought to You Bi the Letter B, the bisexual programming group for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We are happy to be able to serve the bi/pan/queer/fluid+ community. Equality Center Pride Store • Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $20.00. Tie-dye is also available for $25.00 . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:50 PM �OkEq eNews June 8th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-8th--2016.html... Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Ghost Guitars" By Tom Canford Fronting a country and western band called Bar-X Boys, Jack Linden wants out. The road is a bitch. Bed bugs and Gideon Bibles. Honky-tonks and tricks.He asks a talented kid thirteen years his junior to fill in on guitar for what he hopes will be the band's last hurrah, last tour. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Pecos Farley welcomes the opportunity to hear his songs played live and to stretch his songwriting abilities with Jack. He puts his first year of college and girlfriend Ruth on hold. Can Ruth find solace elsewhere? Pecos does have a twin brother, Gila. Sharing lives, beds, and bodies and collaborating on songs, Pecos and Jack find themselves popular on the podunk circuit. Unexpectedly a single song catapults them to the heights of the politically-oriented rock music scene, and they become heroes of the anti-Vietnam war movement as well as rock stars. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Pecos, influenced by zealous Students for a Democratic Society, begins thinking like them, spouting their rhetoric. Jack begins to feel he's just along for the ride, a hypnotic with guitar. The relationship is floundering on a more personal level as well, each knowing an inevitable split is coming, neither guessing how final and traumatic it will be. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Calling all rural transgender and gender nonconforming individuals to participate in a research study You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card 4/23/26, 5:50 PM �OkEq eNews June 8th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-8th--2016.html... For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory Wine and Cheese Performance, A Time to Sing, Bridging Diversity and Building Unity With Song Saturday June 18, 7:30 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Come join COMC for our complete Summer Concert while enjoying delicious wine and horderves. Tickets are available for $40.00 each or a table for $240.00 and can be purchased through our website. Purchase tickets here Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Microsoft Business Breakfast for the LGBTQ Business Community Thursday June 23rd, 8:30 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. Microsoft at Woodland Hills Mall 7021 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74133 In honor of LGBT Pride Month, join Microsoft for a free event for the LGBTQ business community and other small business owners at the Microsoft Store. You will enjoy: * A keynote speaker who will discuss being an LGBTQ business owner. * An opportunity to network with other local LGBTQ and other small business owners in the area. * Insider knowledge about all of the free resources available for businesses in the Microsoft. * The opportunity to enter and win a raffle prize. 11 Microsoft Space is limited. Sign up today at microsoftstore.com/woodlandhillsmall. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing A Time to Sing, Bridging Diversity and Building Unity With Song Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Fiday June 24 & Saturday June 25, 8:00 p.m. Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S. Cincinnati Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 The Spring Concert contains music that is both powerful and moving. Songs that speak of the path we each walk, the struggles we have faced and the promise of the future. There is A Time to Laugh, A Time to Dance and there is.......A TIME TO SING! Council Oak Men's Chorale is celebrating our 18th year and we are preparing to travel to Denver for GALA Festival 2016, the quadrennial convention of LGBT ensembles and choruses. The music performed at GALA will include songs selected from this concert. Tickets are available for $20.00 each and can be purchased through this website. Please look for Council Oak Men's Chorale on Facebook. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing 4/23/26, 5:50 PM �OkEq eNews June 8th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-8th--2016.html... the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Camp Anytown July 31 - August 6 Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:50 PM �OkEq eNews June 8th, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-8th--2016.html... Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org For more information click here Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org &. - - - - --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ------ ---- .. I 4/23/26, 5:50 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5f16de0d32b3daf12c023e843fba928d.pdf 1e511f87d255148e31458eeedd962f89 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 16th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-16th--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews June 16th, 2016 okl.ihom.ins for equality In This Issue news Dr. Tony Campolo Grief Counseling Pinot's Palette April Volunteer of the Month 6-12 Must be Remembered OkEq Board Elections SAGE Summer Pool Parties Sunday, June 12th changed everything. A mass shooting in an Orlando LGBT bar has now overshadowed any pride celebration, anywhere in the world. In our work for equality we will now use 612 as a historical point of reference. It will remind us that for every legislative victory and favorable court decision we still have factual evidence that there are those who hate us so much that they will kill us. Some have already started using this week's event to aggressively push for stronger protection and I applaud that. For me, 612 will forever be framed in my mind as the event that let me know beyond a shadow of a doubt that the people of Tulsa Oklahoma are good. If you missed the loud, and visible displays of solidarity and the tender loving efforts by Tulsans to express their support and concern for our LGBTQ community, then for you, 612 will only be "the worst mass shooting in US history." Selisse Berry Ladies Social Club Brought to You Bi the Letter B Brunch Pride Store Rainbow Library Not for me. I now know Tulsa is wonderful. I drove down Cherry Street, Brookside and through the Brady and I saw the rainbow flags waiving on straight owned businesses. I wept in the Guthrie Green when I looked up and saw the ONEGAS tower lit up with rainbow lights on Sunday night and now even the Woody Guthrie Museum is bathed in rainbow. I found Churches posting their support on message boards, and I have tried to attend candlelight vigils in more than a dozen houses of worship. Our Mosque is hosting the LGBT community for dinner during their most sacred season, Ramadan. Tulsans know we are all God's children. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 16th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Our elected officials and governmental leaders have spoken up and made sure we knew they would protect us and that we were valued and loved. I wished you could have heard our dear Nancy McDonald, president of PFLAG, weep and sob as she told me about Tulsa Public Schools flying the rainbow flag at the school service center on 31st street. Superintendent Deborah Gist told Nancy that "TPS is committed to fostering safe and supportive climates for everybody." OkEq Art Exhibit The 2016 MOREcolor exhibit will be at at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 9th-12th - featuring the works of over 60 artists It was our dear chief of police Chuck Jordan who made me aware of the Orlando shootings on Sunday morning at 8:00 am. He had already ordered additional patrols around the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and wanted to make sure all of our gay bars were covered. We discussed our LGBTQ youth spaces like Open Arms Youth Project and Youth Services of Tulsa. County Commissioner Karen Keith spoke at our vigil. City Councilors Karen Gilbert and GT Bynum were passing out hugs and comforting words in Club Majestic. Our Mayor Dewey Bartlett wanted to comfort our staff at the Equality Center because he said he knew we were stressed out and even offered to bring us some whisky to loosen us up. Those who died on 612 must not be forgotten and the love that has been unleashed and expressed is a fitting tribute. They would not want us to return evil for evil. They would want us to seize the tenderness of heart that now exists and allow their deaths to create a better world. Gamily I believe that in Tulsa we are doing that. • ·:east side Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - CHRISTIAN C U~CH Lawyer in the Library Welcomes July 13, August 10, and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. 4/23/26, 6:04 PM �OkEq eNews June 16th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-16th--2016.ht... Ur. I ony Campolo SIEDLETTER CH RISTIANSi ~- Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 A professor emeritus of sociology at Eastern Universi y, ,oun er and president of l e Evangelical Association for the Promotion of Written more than 35 books. e is one of the founders of the Red Leite Christian movement Recen tly has come o t in sup ort of gay marriage cation. All Events are open to the public. More info at www.escc.org Sat. June 18 Sun. June 19 Sun. June 19 Fri. June 17 7pm 10:45am 2pm 7pm Oklahomans Sermon Dessert Social East Side for Equality East Side East Side East Side Christian Church 1438 South Indianapolis Tulsa, OK 74112 918 744.1377 Oklahomans for Equality 621 East 4th Street Tulsa, OK 7 4120 918 743.4297 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator OSU Tulsa - Grief Counseling Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OSU Tulsa counseling department is now providing counselors on site at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for those experiencing emotional distress from the event in Orlando. No appointment necessary. Ritual of Remeberance for Orlando Victims Sunday June 29, 10:30 a.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org · - ·- - - Counseling Services This Sunday morning Fellowship Congregational Church will include a Ritual of Remembrance for the victims of the Orlando shooting during the 10:30 service. Council Oak Mens Chorale will be singing throughout the service. Julie Summers will be preaching. Pinot's Palette - Rainbow Daybreak Saturday June 25, 2:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Pinot's Palette 1621 East 15th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Storm clouds break up and roll away as a rainbow sun paints the day in colorful light. Paint this beautiful beachscape and help us advocate for a day when the sun rises on a nation of equals regardless of orientation, race, or gender! Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 In the wake of the tragic and horrific act of violence early Sunday morning our "Rainbow Daybreak" class will be set at $50 with $20 from every seat sold being donated to the victims of the Pulse Shooting. Please see link below to which Pinot's Palette Tulsa Studios will be donating. https://www....seVictimsFund 4/23/26, 6:04 PM �OkEq eNews June 16th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-16th--2016.ht... Online reservations are encouraged so guests are guaranteed a seat as our seating is limited to the first 48 people. Click here to make your reservation. Volunteer of the Month June 2016 Teresa Reno Teresa says "It's important to help out in some way to try and make the world the better place - obviously, but I didn't know where. At several events around town I ran into Toby and talked about volunteering. Many of my friends are members of the LGBT community and equal rights for everyone is one thing that is really important to me, so it was a perfect fit. Also, being raised in a very conservative family and not really sharing their philosophies on many things, it almost feels like making up for the negativity of some of both my own family and others in the community. I'm just an old mother hen - not ashamed of it, but can't help it! Whenever I hear about people being hurtful to others I just want to take everyone in my arms and make it better. Stupid, I know, but it's just how I feel! And since starting there it's made a big difference in my life - especially my Sat. night buddies! Love them all to pieces!" We thank you for your dedication Teresa! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org 2016 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 1st, 2016 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, nine Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 24th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 12th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Nine directors will be elected. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member and membership fees current 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. oklahomans for equality SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesdays this Summer June 28, July 26, August 30, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their first pool party on Tuesday, June 28th at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Level 3's LGBT ERG Presents: 4/23/26, 6:04 PM �OkEq eNews June 16th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-16th--2016.ht... Selisse Berry and Workplace Inclusion Event Info Date: Time: Place: Speaker Info Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Friday, July 8 10 a.m. Central Time Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Selisse Berry Out & Equal Workplace Advocates Founder and Chief Executive Officer Bridges: 1-800-747-1915 (U.S.) 0-800-528-0688 (U.K.) Access Code: 54 70654 Out & Equal is the world's largest non-profit organization specifically dedicated to creating safe and equitable workplaces for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people. Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Information Shane.Will iams @level3.com 1-918-547-0654 Level (3) LGBT --- SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ • Ladies Social Club Friday July 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 I'm not ENTIRELY certain what form this will take yet. It may be that we pin down a few different options for crafts that can been made in a few hours and require no previous skill, or we all work on one similar craft that requires no experience but will involve some instruction (like when we painted). We'll figure it out! You will want a little more information, we promise, so join our Group on Facebook: OkEq Ladies Social Club. Don't have Facebook? You can also email Kelley, the LSC Facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com and she will fill you in. Hope to see you there! It's going to be *somuchfun*! If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). 4/23/26, 6:04 PM �OkEq eNews June 16th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-16th--2016.ht... Yoga by Zach Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. EVERY SUNDAY Brunch with Brought to You Bi the Letter B @4:30 pm Saturday July 16, 12:30 p.m. Dilly Diner 402 E. 2nd ST., Tulsa, OK, 74120 Please join us for the first social event hosted by Brought to You Bi the Letter B! We will be meeting at Dilly Diner on July 16th at 12:30PM. This brunch is for bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies, so all are welcome. Please RSVP via e-mail to biprogramsokeq@gmail.com . We look forward to see everyone and joining to build our community!" Brought to You Bi the Letter B, the bisexual programming group for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We are happy to be able to serve the bi/pan/queer/fluid+ community. Equality Center Pride Store • Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $20.00. Tie-dye is also available for $25.00 $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Get Your Stuff" Writer/Director Max Mitchell They're the "perfect" hot, handsome couple. Phil is a respected Psychotherapist and couples counselor. Eric is a successful attorney. They have lots of friends, tons of money, and host pool parties complete with appropriately flamboyant friends. Phil and Eric are anxiously waiting to adopt a baby. In the interim, their friend, Gloria, a resourceful child services case worker, talks them into taking two juvenile delinquent brothers who turn out to be foul mouthed, liquor cabinet raiding terrors! Originally she assures them them all that "it's just for one night." As one night stretches into many, the "father-son" conflicts escalate. Things become more complicated when the alcoholic, prostitute, junkie mama arrives on the scene to retrieve her babies---until she sees the mansion and the open bar! What results is a lively and touching comedy that explores what we think love looks like, and the unlikely places we find family! Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Game Night You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Calling all rural transgender and gender 4/23/26, 6:04 PM �OkEq eNews June 16th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-16th--2016.ht... noncon orm1ng 1n a research study e 1n You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card EBA Directory For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Wine and Cheese Performance, A Time to Sing, Bridging Diversity and Building Unity With Song Saturday June 18, 7:30 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Come join COMC for our complete Summer Concert while enjoying delicious wine and horderves. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Tickets are available for $40.00 each or a table for $240.00 and can be purchased through our website. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Purchase tickets here Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Microsoft Business Breakfast for the LGBTQ Business Community Thursday June 23rd, 8:30 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. Microsoft at Woodland Hills Mall 7021 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74133 In honor of LGBT Pride Month, join Microsoft for a free event for the LGBTQ business community and other small business owners at the Microsoft Store. You will enjoy: * A keynote speaker who will discuss being an LGBTQ business owner. * An opportunity to network with other local LGBTQ and other small business owners in the area. * Insider knowledge about all of the free resources available for businesses in the Microsoft. * The opportunity to enter and win a raffle prize. 11 Microsoft Space is limited. Sign up today at microsoftstore.com/woodlandhillsmall. A Time to Sing, Bridging Diversity and Building Unity With Song Fiday June 24 & Saturday June 25, 8:00 p.m. Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S. Cincinnati Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing 4/23/26, 6:04 PM �OkEq eNews June 16th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-16th--2016.ht... The Spring Concert contains music that is both powerful and moving. Songs that speak of the path we each walk, the struggles we have faced and the promise of the future. There is A Time to Laugh, A Time to Dance and there is.......A TIME TO SING! Council Oak Men's Chorale is celebrating our 18th year and we are preparing to travel to Denver for GALA Festival 2016, the quadrennial convention of LGBT ensembles and choruses. The music performed at GALA will include songs selected from this concert. the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Tickets are available for $20.00 each and can be purchased through this website. Please look for Council Oak Men's Chorale on Facebook. Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Camp Anytown Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org July 31 - August 6 4/23/26, 6:04 PM �OkEq eNews June 16th, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-16th--2016.ht... Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org For more information click here Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org &. - - - - --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ------ ---- .. I 4/23/26, 6:04 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/51ef9b022feccda54d4a98af009bd480.pdf 19aa72c9f16d061cee68470e8ec63d1b PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 22nd, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-22nd--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews June 22nd, 2016 okl.ihom.ins for equality news In This Issue OkEq Board Elections SAGE Summer Pool Parties McNellie's Fundraiser Pinot's Palette 2016 OkEq Board Elections April Volunteer of the Month Selisse Berry First Thursday Art Opening The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 1st, 2016 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, nine Board of Director spaces are up for election. Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer Territory Days Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: Brought to You Bi the Letter B Brunch 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 24th) OR Pride Store Rainbow Library 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 12th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Nine directors will be elected. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member and membership fees current 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term oklahomans for equality OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesdays this Summer June 28, July 26, August 30, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their first pool party on Tuesday, June 28th at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library TH MDine with us on June 23rd as we partner with the Dennis R. Neill Equ Ii y Center of Tuls for a great cause! July 13, August 10, and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group 4/23/26, 5:51 PM �OkEq eNews June 22nd, 2016 2 of 8 • - ,_ https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-22nd--2016.ht... - · .... ,......,, · - · ·· - - ........ . --r-' , ___ - - · - - •• '' ' __,_ _, ' """"-- to On Orlando to assist the families and members of the LGBT commun ity affected by th e Orlando traged y. Learn more about the Orl andoOne Fund at www.oneorlando.org , and make plans to di ne wi h us on June 23rd . #Orl andoU nited (JAME ] Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com fasslerlryall v~e Pinot's Palette - Rainbow Daybreak Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or -mary.jones@ppheartland.org -·-- - Counseling Services Saturday June 25, 2:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Pinot's Palette 1621 East 15th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Storm clouds break up and roll away as a rainbow sun paints the day in colorful light. Paint this beautiful beachscape and help us advocate for a day when the sun rises on a nation of equals regardless of orientation, race, or gender! In the wake of the tragic and horrific act of violence early Sunday morning our "Rainbow Daybreak" class will be set at $50 with $20 from every seat sold being donated to the victims of the Pulse Shooting. Please see link below to which Pinot's Palette Tulsa Studios will be donating. https://www....seVictimsFund Online reservations are encouraged so guests are guaranteed a seat as our seating is limited to the first 48 people. Click here to make your reservation. Volunteer of the Month June 2016 Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Teresa Reno Teresa says "It's important to help out in some way to try and make the world the better place - obviously, but I didn't know where. At several events around town I ran into Toby and talked about volunteering. Many of my friends are members of the LGBT community and equal rights for everyone is one thing that is really important to me, so it was a perfect fit. Also, being raised in a very conservative family and not really sharing their philosophies on many things, it almost feels like making up for the negativity of some of both my own family and others in the community. I'm just an old mother hen - not ashamed of it, but can't help it! Whenever I hear about people being hurtful to others I just want to take everyone in my arms and make it better. Stupid, I know, but it's just how I feel! And since starting there it's made a big difference in my life - especially my Sat. night buddies! Love them all to pieces!" We thank you for your dedication Teresa! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 4/23/26, 5:51 PM �OkEq eNews June 22nd, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-22nd--2016.ht... If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Level 3's LGBT ERG Presents: Selisse Berry and Workplace Inclusion Event Info Date: Time: Place: Speaker Info Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Friday, July 8 10 a.m. Central Time Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Selisse Berry Out & Equal Workplace Advocates Founder and Chief Executive Officer Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Passage Bridges: 800 763 6049 North America 08004960828 United Kingdom Outside of those areas (long distance): +1 6477229118 +44 2081962881 Out & Equal is the world's largest non-profit organization specifically dedicated to creating safe and equitable workplaces for lesbian, gay, bisexu al and transgender (LGBT) people . Information Shane .Will iams@level3.com 1-9 18-54 7-0654 Level(3) LGBT _,.,_ Connechng and Protecting the Network d World First Thursday Art Opening - Philip Butler Thursday July 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Phillip Butler beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Phillip's education in photography began when he was 17, as a volunteer photographer for his high school newspaper. During those years, he learned the rudiments of composition, exposure control, darkroom processing, and printing. Photography has been a part of his sense of self since that time. Connecting with his passion for exploration and adventure, he was soon traveling for photography. This exhibit contains images from many sources but was inspired by a recent trip to Africa. The wildlife there typically receives center stage, and some is represented in this show; however, the vast Namibian desert (on the evening of, and the morning after a modest rain) provides the kind of light that The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com 4/23/26, 5:51 PM �OkEq eNews June 22nd, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-22nd--2016.ht... transforms the landscape into something other worldly. In these images, transcendence is found. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Ladies Social Club Friday July 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 I'm not ENTIRELY certain what form this will take yet. It may be that we pin down a few different options for crafts that can been made in a few hours and require no previous skill, or we all work on one similar craft that requires no experience but will involve some instruction (like when we painted). We'll figure it out! You will want a little more information, we promise, so join our Group on Facebook: OkEq Ladies Social Club. Don't have Facebook? You can also email Kelley, the LSC Facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com and she will fill you in. Hope to see you there! It's going to be *somuchfun*! If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday July 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Angel's Pet Funeral Home and Crematory 6598 E BA Frontage Rd., Tulsa, OK 74145 The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. No one wants to think about losing their beloved pet. At Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory, we are here to make a difference in a very difficult time of you life. Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory is the only pet funeral home in the state of Oklahoma that is dedicated solely to you and your four-legged family member. We are not affiliated with any human funeral home or crematory. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Keep up with this event on Facebook SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ . . 4/23/26, 5:51 PM �OkEq eNews June 22nd, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-22nd--2016.ht... Tulsa Area Prime Timers UALITY 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Business Alliance Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY Territory Days @4:30 pm Saturday July 30, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We need to add on to the school house! Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting a barbecue dinner and barn dance to raise the funds. The territory folks need to get together and raise the roof. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. The garage, kenosha suite and special events room on the eastside of the center are slated for remodel and renovations. In 2015 over 50,000 individuals participated in programs and utilized our services creating an urgency for Oklahomans for Equality to: $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach • expand medical services addressing LGBT health disparities • convert food service areas into commercial grade kitchen space • develop nutrition and wellness programs for LGBT older adults • broaden substance abuse counseling and support services • serve the growing numbers of LGBTQ youth in foster care • widen our programs for unemployed young adults and those homeless • increase services and programming for LGBTQ families with children • create more social programming space for fine arts and education events Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. $500-Table for 8 with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance $75-Individual seat with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance. Lambda Al-Anon Group $50-Individual seat with cash bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance Every Friday 7 p.m. $30-Barn dance admission with open bar $20-Barn dance admission and 1 drink ticket Tickets are available now. To purchase, click on the corresponding link above. Brunch with Brought to You Bi the Letter B Saturday July 16, 12:30 p.m. Dilly Diner 402 E. 2nd ST., Tulsa, OK, 74120 Please join us for the first social event hosted by Brought to You Bi the Letter B! We will be meeting at Dilly Diner on July 16th at 12:30PM. This brunch is for bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies, so all are welcome. Please RSVP via e-mail to biprogramsokeq@gmail.com . We look forward to see everyone and joining to build our community!" Brought to You Bi the Letter B, the bisexual programming group for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We are happy to be able to serve the bi/pan/queer/fluid+ community. Equality Center Pride Store Survivors of Incest Anonymous • Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $15.00. Tie-dye is also available for $20.00 Game Night 4/23/26, 5:51 PM �OkEq eNews June 22nd, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-22nd--2016.ht... Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Some Assembly Required: The Not-So-Secret Life of a Transgender Teen" By Arin Andrews Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir. We've all felt uncomfortable in our own skin at some point, and we've all been told that "it's just a part of growing up." But for Arin Andrews, it wasn't a phase that would pass. He had been born in the body of a girl and there seemed to be no relief in sight... In this revolutionary memoir, Arin details the journey that led him to make the life-transforming decision to undergo gender reassignment as a high school junior. In his captivatingly witty, honest voice, Arin reveals the challenges he faced as a girl, the humiliation and anger he felt after getting kicked out of his private school, and all the changes-both mental and physical-he experienced once his transition began. Arin also writes about the thrill of meeting and dating a young transgender woman named Katie Hill...and the heartache that followed after they broke up. & iSS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. ( - Some Assembly Required is a true coming-of-age story about knocking down obstacles and embracing family, friendship, and first love. But more than that, it is a reminder that self-acceptance does not come readymade with a manual and spare parts. Rather, some assembly is always required. TheNot-So-Se<:,etUf, <1>f1Tr1n1gand1rTHn ARIN ANDREWS Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Calling all rural transgender and gender nonconforming individuals to participate in a research study You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors 4/23/26, 5:51 PM �OkEq eNews June 22nd, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-22nd--2016.ht... Support Group For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Microsoft Business Breakfast for the LGBTQ Business Community Thursday June 23rd, 8:30 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. Microsoft at Woodland Hills Mall 7021 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74133 In honor of LGBT Pride Month, join Microsoft for a free event for the LGBTQ business community and other small business owners at the Microsoft Store. You will enjoy: * A keynote speaker who will discuss being an LGBTQ business owner. * An opportunity to network with other local LGBTQ and other small business owners in the area. * Insider knowledge about all of the free resources available for businesses in the Microsoft. * The opportunity to enter and win a raffle prize. Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 11 Microsoft Space is limited. Sign up today at microsoftstore.com/woodlandhillsmall. A Time to Sing, Bridging Diversity and Building Unity With Song Fiday June 24 & Saturday June 25, 8:00 p.m. Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S. Cincinnati Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 The Spring Concert contains music that is both powerful and moving. Songs that speak of the path we each walk, the struggles we have faced and the promise of the future. There is A Time to Laugh, A Time to Dance and there is.......A TIME TO SING! Council Oak Men's Chorale is celebrating our 18th year and we are preparing to travel to Denver for GALA Festival 2016, the quadrennial convention of LGBT ensembles and choruses. The music performed at GALA will include songs selected from this concert. Tickets are available for $20.00 each and can be purchased through this website. Please look for Council Oak Men's Chorale on Facebook. Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:51 PM �OkEq eNews June 22nd, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-22nd--2016.ht... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Camp Anytown July 31 - August 6 Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org For more information click here Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:51 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0f49d06c583aa6f4374c0a391fe98866.pdf dc870a06d660e8141344d1191b9d675b PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 28th, 2016 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2016.ht.. SHARE: Join Our Email List a OkEq eNews ~!lcnba JO! sucwo4cp10 SMaU June 28th, 2016 In This Issue Chris Shoaf SAGE Summer Pool Parties April Volunteer of the Month Selisse Berry Chris Shoaf is Sponsoring the Day Tuesday June 28, 2016 First Thursday Art Opening Ladies Social Club Chris is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the day in honor of our right to vote. Exercise your right to vote today! EBA Mixer Territory Days Brought to You Bi the Letter B Brunch Thank you Chris! Pride Store Rainbow Library If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, coming out date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesdays this Summer June 28, July 26, August 30, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. SAGE Tulsa will have their first pool party on Tuesday, June 28th at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. Gamily The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Volunteer of the Month June 2016 Teresa Reno Teresa says "It's important to help out in some way to try and make the world the better place - obviously, but I didn't know where. At several events around town I ran into Toby and talked about volunteering. Many of my friends are members of the LGBT community and equal rights for everyone is one thing that is really important to me, so it was a perfect fit. Also, being raised in a very conservative family and not really sharing their philosophies on many things, it almost feels like making up for the negativity of some of both my own family and others in the community. I'm just an old mother hen - not ashamed of it, but can't help it! Whenever I hear about people being hurtful to others I just want to take everyone in my arms and make it better. Stupid, I know, but it's just how I feel! And since starting there it's made a big difference in my life - especially my Sat. night buddies! Love them all to pieces!" We thank you for your dedication Teresa! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library July 13, August 10, and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 1 of 8 4/23/26, 5:52 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2016.ht... Level 3's LGBT ERG Presents: Selisse Berry and Workplace Inclusion Event Info Date: Time: Place: Speaker Info Friday, July 8 1O a.m. Central Time Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. OK 74120 Selisse Berry Out & Equal Workplace Advocates Founder and Chief Executive Officer This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Bridges: 800 763 6049 North America 08004960828 United Kingdom Outside of those areas (long distance): +1 6477229 118 +44 2081962881 Out & Equal is the world's largest non-profit organization specifically dedicated to creating safe and equitable workplaces for lesbian, gay, bisexu al and transgender (LGBT) people . Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Information Shane.Wil liams@level3.com 1-91 8-54 7-0654 _,.,_ Connechng and Protecting the Networked World Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 First Thursday Art Opening - Philip Butler Thursday July 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Phillip Butler beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Phillip's education in photography began when he was 17, as a volunteer photographer for his high school newspaper. During those years, he learned the rudiments of composition, exposure control, darkroom processing, and printing. Photography has been a part of his sense of self since that time. Connecting with his passion for exploration and adventure, he was soon traveling for photography. This exhibit contains images from many sources but was inspired by a recent trip to Africa. The wildlife there typically receives center stage, and some is represented in this show; however, the vast Namibian desert (on the evening of, and the morning after a modest rain) provides the kind of light that transforms the landscape into something other worldly. In these images, transcendence is found. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:52 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2016.ht... Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Ladies Social Club Friday July 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 I'm not ENTIRELY certain what form this will take yet. It may be that we pin down a few different options for crafts that can been made in a few hours and require no previous skill, or we all work on one similar craft that requires no experience but will involve some instruction (like when we painted). We'll figure it out! You will want a little more information, we promise, so join our Group on Facebook: OkEq Ladies Social Club. Don't have Facebook? You can also email Kelley, the LSC Facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com and she will fill you in. Hope to see you there! It's going to be *somuchfun*! If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday July 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Angel's Pet Funeral Home and Crematory 6598 E BA Frontage Rd., Tulsa, OK 74145 No one wants to think about losing their beloved pet. At Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory, we are here to make a difference in a very difficult time of you life. Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory is the only pet funeral home in the state of Oklahoma that is dedicated solely to you and your four-legged family member. We are not affiliated with any human funeral home or crematory. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Keep up with this event on Facebook Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com 4/23/26, 5:52 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2016.ht... SOS Group E ALITY Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Business Alliance Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Territory Days Saturday July 30, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We need to add on to the school house! Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting a barbecue dinner and barn dance to raise the funds. The territory folks need to get together and raise the roof. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. The garage, kenosha suite and special events room on the eastside of the center are slated for remodel and renovations. In 2015 over 50,000 individuals participated in programs and utilized our services creating an urgency for Oklahomans for Equality to: Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. • expand medical services addressing LGBT health disparities • convert food service areas into commercial grade kitchen space • develop nutrition and wellness programs for LGBT older adults • broaden substance abuse counseling and support services • serve the growing numbers of LGBTQ youth in foster care • widen our programs for unemployed young adults and those homeless • increase services and programming for LGBTQ families with children • create more social programming space for fine arts and education events $500-Table for 8 with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. $75-Individual seat with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance. $50-Individual seat with cash bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance $30-Barn dance admission with open bar $20-Barn dance admission and 1 drink ticket Tickets are available now. To purchase, click on the corresponding link above. Brunch with Brought to You Bi the Letter B SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Saturday July 16, 12:30 p.m. Dilly Diner 402 E. 2nd ST., Tulsa, OK, 74120 Please join us for the first social event hosted by Brought to You Bi the Letter B! We will be meeting at Dilly Diner on July 16th at 12:30PM. This brunch is for bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies, so all are welcome. Please RSVP via e-mail to biprogramsokeq@gmail.com . We look forward to see everyone and joining to build our community!" Brought to You Bi the Letter B, the bisexual programming group for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We are happy to be able to serve the bi/pan/queer/fluid+ community. Equality Center Pride Store • Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $15.00. Tie-dye is also available for $20.00 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ . . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 5:52 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2016.ht... 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Some Assembly Required: The Not-So-Secret Life of a Transgender Teen" By Arin Andrews Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir. We've all felt uncomfortable in our own skin at some point, and we've all been told that "it's just a part of growing up." But for Arin Andrews, it wasn't a phase that would pass. He had been born in the body of a girl and there seemed to be no relief in sight... In this revolutionary memoir, Arin details the journey that led him to make the life-transforming decision to undergo gender reassignment as a high school junior. In his captivatingly witty, honest voice, Arin reveals the challenges he faced as a girl, the humiliation and anger he felt after getting kicked out of his private school, and all the changes-both mental and physical-he experienced once his transition began. Arin also writes about the thrill of meeting and dating a young transgender woman named Katie Hill...and the heartache that followed after they broke up. & $5.00 per Session iSS ( - Some Assembly Required is a true coming-of-age story about knocking down obstacles and embracing family, friendship, and first love. But more than that, it is a reminder that self-acceptance does not come readymade with a manual and spare parts. Rather, some assembly is always required. Gender Outreach TheNot-So-Se<:,etUf, <1>f1Tr1n1gand1rTHn AR IN ANDREWS Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Calling all rural transgender and gender nonconforming individuals to participate in a research study SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the 4/23/26, 5:52 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2016.ht... For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing 4/23/26, 5:52 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2016.ht... dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through 4/23/26, 5:52 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2016.ht... advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:52 PM � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Sub-Series] OKEQ > Publications > OKEQ eNews Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2016] OKEQ eNews https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/612023d029fa1d58dea29388e3fd6bdc.pdf ffd7a8042865c5210bb8ef68f34aaf3e PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews October 7th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor OK Marriage Equality ---Lawyer in the Library #SpiritDay @OkEq The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Singles, Sips & Splatter Center Awareness Day EBA Mixer Gamily Halloween Karaoke SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. It's Your Center - It's Your Day Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Oklahoma Changing World Prize Making the Invisible, Visible OkEq Zombie House "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --~~I>,,. _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR Oklahoma Marriage Equality - First Year Anniversary Exhibition Proposals LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... Lawyer in the Library October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. t~ = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. #SpiritDay @OkEq October 15, 5:00 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq Board Meeting Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the center's roof off! Let us show LGBT youth they are not alone. Join us on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. For more information or to RSPV, email jose.vega@okeq.org. Singles, Sips & Splatter Art Class Saturday, October 17, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 7 p.m. Thursday, October 15th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by A.K. Westerman. 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... LGBT Singles of Tulsa! Fill your glasses and load your brushes for a fun night of painting at OkEq. Art instruction will be provided by Janet Fadler Davie. Our theme will be "Autumn". You'll leave at the end of the night with your very own original work of art, some new friends and maybe a date! Class size is limited, so please email jose.vega@okeq.org or call 918-813-8993 to reserve your seat. Cost is $20, which will cover all your supplies and and refreshments. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Center Awareness Day October 18, 12:00 p.m.-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Have you ever wanted to know what your LGBT center has to offer? Now is your chance! Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an open house and a program expo event. This is your chance to learn more about what Oklahomans for Equality at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center offers and what programs are available. This is also a chance to meet and greet the facilitators of the programs you may be interested in and answer any question you may have. For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... EBA Mixer October 21, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Dr. Blane Snodgrass, 7171 S. Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74136 E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org The October EBA mixer will be hosted by Optometrist Dr. Blane Snodgrass, OD. Counseling Services Gamily Halloween Karaoke Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Saturday, October 24, 5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Second Floor, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Come join the Halloween fun! Our upstairs area will be taken over by family fun for all ages and karaoke. Be sure to come dressed in your Halloween costumes and be prepared to Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... sing your heart out! For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tuesday, October 27, 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) is a day time programming for those who are retired or free during the day. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Their annual Halloween party will be hosted at the home of Sol Smith. The group will meet at the Center at 10:00 a.m., then commute to Sol Smith's home. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... Domestic Violence: Making the Invisible, Visible October 22, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on October 22 5:30•7:30 f .· SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders ~,, .. '! DOMESTIC VIOL.ENCE Presentation by Missy lski, MA, LPC, MAFT Presented v t e Faml v Sa ety Center Director of Programs and Counseling at DVIS Help us make the Invisible Visible 10/22/15 Dennis R. Neal Equality Center 5:30 Mix and Mingle (drinks and snacks provided) 6pm Presentation 7pm Q&A g___ This event will focus on issues related to domestic violence and sexual assault. Topics will include the cycle of violence, types of abuse, consequences, safety and recovery, among others. Join us to learn more and take a stand against violence! Mia Leighty, from the Family Safety Center, will introduce guest speaker Missy Iski, Director of Programs & Counseling at DVIS/Call Rape since 1999. 5:30 p.m. - Mix and Mingle (light hors d'oeuvres and wine provided) 6:00 p.m. - Presentation by Missy Iski, Director of Programs and Counselling at DVIS 7:00 p.m. - Q&A Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. OkEq Zombie House October 29-31 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 29th, 30th and 31st, 2015. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Tickets are now available here. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. It's Your Center - It's Your Day Yoga by Zach ::>jJ,ake A Cla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. $5.00 per Session Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Find out more information here. Gender Outreach Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Tickets can be purchased here. Use the promotional code OKEQHEDWIG to get 25% off opening weekend performances (Oct 23-25). 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org g E UALITY Q!Busmess Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, - - - - with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hea lthca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing BILLOF RIGHTS oklahomans for equality Open every day Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Some Assembly Required: The Not-So-Secret Life of a Transgender Teen" By Arin Andrews Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning first-of-its-kind memoir. Now with a reading group guide and an all-new afterword from the author! In this revolutionary first-of-itskind memoir, Arin Andrews details the journey that led him to make the lifetransforming decision to undergo gender reassignment as a high school junior. In his captivatingly witty, honest voice, Arin reveals the challenges he faced as a boy in a girl's body, the humiliation and anger he felt after getting kicked out of his private school, and all the changesboth mental and physical-he experienced once his transition began. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org J Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator The Not-So-Secret life of a Tran,gender THn Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ARIN ANDREWS Ao-.c;,.,,.G.c1. .... 1 Some Assembly Required is a true coming-of-age story about knocking down obstacles and embracing family, friendship, and first love. But more than that, it is a reminder that self-acceptance does not come ready-made with a manual and spare parts. Rather, some assembly is always required. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------~ I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:11 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d4499890f29f74ca7b003771f938579c.pdf d87b12a5e8d59d7bf90bae4c74e837a4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 15th, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor EBA Mixer Our Tomorrow MyBigGay Italian Wedding ---- The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors LT R Pride Under the Lights Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant McGraw R • SAGE Pool Party ' EBA Sponsor Looking to buy or sell your dream home? Christmas in July I can help! "Documented" First & -Thursday - - -Art -Opening --Exhibit Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 Gamily Back to School Carnival khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] LJ3, @ f' ._ LlADINC lllAl,..lSTAT[ CO~PANI[ Pf THE WORLD LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store OkEq Annual Meeting Rainbow Library EBA Mixer Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St Suite A July 15, 6:00-7:30 p.m. Find Us on Facebook E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. 7 p.m. Thursday, July 16th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our next mixer will be held at Inner Circle Vodka Bar, located at 410 N. Main All Oklahomans for OkEq Board Meeting 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... St Suite A. Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Share your voice. Shape our future. Our Tomorrow, www.shareourtomorrow.org Happy Hour, July 16, 5:30 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Conversations on the future of the LGBT Movement Our Tomorrow is a campaign to engage LGBTQ people across the country in a conversation to shape the future of a bigger, bolder movement that leaves no one behind. It is a place for LGBTQ people across the country to share our hopes, fears and ideas for the future - and help make tomorrow better for all of us. OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics.' R ORRO Share your voice here; your submissions will help the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and the LGBTQ community throughout the nation. My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy!" - The Wall Street Journal "As insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and the profane, the ultra-serious and ultrasilly makes this the perfect play." - Edge New York Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. For tickets: 918-596-7111 or click here. Tickets are also available the day of the show at ATC Studios. Click here for more information and promotions. Counseling Services 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... SAGE Pool Party Saturdays By appointment July 21, 2015 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Thursday, June 26th, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SC'rvices and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, 81~xual & TramgendC'r Elders Counseling Services The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Pride Under the Lights Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. Drillers game If you purchased and still have your Pride in the Ballpark ticket, hang on to it! ONEOK Stadium will be hosting Pride Under the Lights on Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. game against the Arkansas Travelers. New tickets for the event have be issued; tickets can also be purchased at the same price of $12 each at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918-954-8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Come join us for an evening of fun and excitement! More information can be 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... found here! If you are interested in getting married at ONEOK Stadium, Toby Jenkins will be officiating a mass wedding ceremony. You must provide two witnesses, a marriage application from an Oklahoma county courthouse, and be prepared to exchange vows during the 7th inning stretch. To RSVP, please contact Amy Howe at 918-743-7297 or amy.howe@okeq.org George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org ---- --- GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION SOS Group Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and ------------------- -learn how to make your donation today. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log -- -----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa C)HelpTulsa .com Christmas in July - A Benefit for H.O.P.E. Testing Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St July 25, 7:00 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma is holding a comunity wide fundraiser to raise money for H.O.P.E. Testing on July 25, 2015 at the Tulsa Eagle. 21+ Only, No Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... Cover. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop We are currently looking for Silent / Live Auction Items. If you have anything to donate please contact us at impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on our website donation page www.impcourtok.org 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather From the Heart, Through the Court, For the Community! "Documented" - Promoted by Tulsa Area Fair Housing Partnership July 23, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is DOCUMENTED important to them and address their needs in your newsletter each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.In 2011, Pulitzer Prizewinning journalist Jose Antonio Vargas outed himself as an undocumented immigrant in an essay published in the New York Times Magazine. Documented chronicles his journey to America from the Philippines as a child; his CJIUI journey through America as an immigration reform activist; and his journey inward as he re-connects with his mother, whom he hasn't seen in person in over 20 years. • fll•lJ o o 0000 .,.uo•••nU&• o.. ......... " . ......... J.....,. Tickets are $11.00 (general admission) and can be purchased here. First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit "Machination" August 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... The August Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature a combined exhibit of technologybased performance works titled "Machination". "Machination" is a choice collection of works by Tulsa artists including Michael Christopher, Nick Kountoupis, Michael Benton, Lisa Regan, Paul Timshel and R.C. Morrison - artists whose work would not be remotely feasible without advanced technologies. Employing a broad range of contemporary tech, including plasma metal cutting, laser cutting and engraving, threedimensional printing, digital painting, electronic lighting and embedded microprocessors, these works present a sampler across a broad section of the new materials and techniques of fine art and will feature technologybased performance works. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. 3rd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival Saturday, August 8th, 2015; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Gamily will present the 3rd Annual Back to School Carnival on Saturday, August 8th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, Disney characters, face painting, water gun fights so wear your swim suit and bring a towel, bouncy houses, Fun with Nuns and terrific prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/guardians' names and student's names, ages & grades. Bring your nieces, nephews, cousins, god-kids, neighbors and grandkids For more info or to RSVP, email olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 GAMILY (Gay+Family) is a program of OkEq that provides family style support to LGBTQ parents and straight allies and their children by creating a networking community with other similar and unique families. Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---·---- You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Gender Outreach Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors can now be made in one way: By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Lesbian Etiquette: Humorous Essays" By Gail Sausser Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... In this delightful collection of short essays, Northwest writer, Gail Sausser, talks about everything from her fantasies as a "baby dyke" ("It was not long before I had graduated from art to real live, full-fledged teacher lust") to making dates through classified ads ("Avoid the topic of how insanely jealous and violent your ex-lover still is, or how deeply depressed and lonely you are") to dealing with a visit from the parents of your not-yet-out-to-them lover ("Compress, borrow a bed and at least hang pictures on the wall"). This is a book in which we will all recognize ourselves, the situations, we've been in a million times, and, even more easily, our ex-lover. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org r-------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:26 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b154bd401614519d14295bb529d1f07f.pdf be6a8660d6d8d73963326ae0113cfb3e PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 21st, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Pride Under the Lights Gamily Back to School Carnival Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log ----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa Sweep the Hate Away Our Tomorrow EBA Sponsor My Big Wedding -Gay -Italian -ADA Awareness Day Christmas in July 'The Lesbian Exhibit" FirstThursday Art Opening & --Exhibit EBA Mixer "Rise Up Singing" Walk to End Alzheimer's Pride Under the Lights Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. Drillers game If you purchased and still have your Pride in the Ballpark ticket, hang on to it! ONEOK Stadium will be hosting Pride Under the Lights on Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. game against the Arkansas Travelers. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store OkEq Annual Meeting Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook New tickets for the event have be issued; tickets can also be purchased at the same price of $12 each at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Come join us for an evening of fun and excitement! More information can be found here! OkEq Board Meeting 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. If you are interested in getting married at ONEOK Stadium, Toby Jenkins will be officiating a mass wedding ceremony. You must provide two witnesses, a marriage application from an Oklahoma county courthouse, and be prepared to exchange vows during the 7th inning stretch. To RSVP, please contact Amy Howe at 918-743-7297 or amy.howe@okeq.org 3rd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics.' Saturday, August 8th, 2015; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Gamily will present the 3rd Annual Back to School Carnival on Saturday, August 8th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, Disney characters, face painting, water gun fights so wear your swim suit and bring a towel, bouncy houses, Fun with Nuns and terrific prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/guardians' names and student's names, ages & grades. Bring your nieces, nephews, cousins, god-kids, neighbors and grandkids For more info or to RSVP, email olivia.cotter@okeq.org. GAMILY (Gay+Family) is a program of OkEq that provides family style support to LGBTQ parents and straight allies and their children by creating a networking community with other similar and unique families. Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Counseling Services Find about membership with Oklahomans for and -out -more ----- -----Equality -- learn how to make your donation today. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on Sweep the Hate Away income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa City Hall, 175 E. 2nd St July 25th, after the Confederate Flag Rally Come help sweep the hate away at City Hall this Saturday after the Confederate Flag rally, which is scheduled from 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. Bring your brooms, buckets of soapy water and your signs saying "SWEEP THE HATE AWAY". Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org --- --- Share your voice. Shape our future. Our Tomorrow, www.shareourtomorrow.org Our Tomorrow is a campaign to engage LGBTQ people across the country in a conversation to shape the future of a bigger, bolder movement that leaves no one behind. It is a place for LGBTQ people across the country to share our hopes, fears and ideas for the future - and help make tomorrow better for all of us. R ORRO Share your voice here; Your submissions will help the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and the LGBTQ community throughout the nation. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Counseling Services 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918-954-8568 emily.howell@okeq.org McGraw Rh L.TORS Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com ra ~ _,# ~ ~ L=.J LLADING RlAl,.LSTATl CO\,tPANIES1y' THt WORLD My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave Now-July 26th American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy!" - The Wall Street Journal "As insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and the profane, the ultra-serious and ultrasilly makes this the perfect play." - Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. For tickets: 918-596-7111 or click here. Tickets are also available the day of the show at ATC Studios. Click here for more information and promotions. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org ADA Awareness Day Press Conference July 24, 11:00 a.m. ONEOK Field, Accessible Seating Section, 201 N. Elgin Ave Tulsa Mayor Dewey Bartlett has proclaimed July 26, 2015 "ADA Awareness Day". Representatives from the Mayor's office, Tulsa City Grieving Well 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 5 of 11 Council, Oklahoma House of Representatives, Tulsa Human Rights Commission, TARC, The Center, Mosaic, Tulsa Transit, and Tulsa People First will speak. All are invited to attend. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... nun(.IJc:::=:, AMERICANS WITH c:, DISABILITIES ACT ~ Christmas in July - A Benefit for H.O.P.E. Testing 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St July 25, 7:00 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma is holding a comunity wide fundraiser to raise money for H.O.P.E. Testing on July 25, 2015 at the Tulsa Eagle. 21+ Only, No Cover. We are currently looking for Silent / Live Auction Items. If you have anything to donate please contact us at impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on our website donation page www.impcourtok.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather From the Heart, Through the Court, For the Community! "The Lesbian Exhibit", by William Hedgecock Friday, July 31-Saturday, August 1, 8:00 p.m. & Friday, August 7 - Saturday August 7, 2015, 8:00 p.m. The Nightingale Theater, 1416 E. 4th St "What ARE lesbians?" A simple enough question, wouldn't you think? What a lot of people might not know is that the Modern Lesbian has a rich history and culture that is fascinating, terrifying, and easily covered in a thorough PowerPoint. Opening this month, The Lesbian Exhibit gives museum patrons a glimpse into the exotic life of the homosexual female. Our friendly guides will teach you how they got here, what they're doing now, and even some preventative measures you can take to keep healthy straight women from turning! SEE the Butch Lesbian shotgun an entire beer from the back of her U-Haul! SEE the Lipstick Lesbian as she camouflages herself in your local PTA meeting! SEE the Party Lesbian as her boyfriend watches her make out with his friend Stacey! We encourage you to take advantage of this unique window into another, stranger world, and to join us next month for the latest exhibit in the series: Black People with British Accents: Fact or Fiction? Inman Theatre Company's most recent original production, "The Lesbian Exhibit", finds the audience as casual museum-goers, observing five women from outside their individual display cases. As the voice of the museum's curator fades off, the women take control. Stepping out from behind their pristine prisons, rebellious Denise, practical Heidi, self-assured Elaine, acerbic Lisa, and somber Christine each tell their own story, defying the SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... confines of the exhibit and trying to make sense of the world and themselves. The utterly heartfelt, thoroughly funny, and relentlessly honest new script by well-known local playwright, Will Inman (Estate Sale, Mir[and]a) is brought to life by a truly outstanding cast featuring (in no particular order) Haley Clarke, Abigail Boegh, Emile Adams, Caitlin Cash, and Liz Masters. Show dates are July 31st and August 1st, 7th, and 8th at 8:00 p.m. at the Nightingale Theatre. For more information, call 918-633-8666 or click here. Mature themes. Tickets are $10 at the door. First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit "Machination" August 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St The August Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature a combined exhibit of technologybased performance works titled "Machination". "Machination" is a choice collection of works by Tulsa artists including Michael Christopher, Nick Kountoupis, Michael Benton, Lisa Regan, Paul Timshel and R.C. Morrison - artists whose work would not be remotely feasible without advanced technologies. Employing a broad range of contemporary tech, including plasma metal cutting, laser cutting and engraving, threedimensional printing, digital painting, electronic lighting and embedded microprocessors, these works present a sampler across a broad section of the new materials and techniques of fine art and will feature technologybased performance works. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers EBA Mixer August 19, 6:00-8:00 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave E UALITY Business Alliance 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... The August mixer will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church and hosted by Morton Investigations and Security. "Rise Up Singing at the Synagogue: How the West was Sung" Congregation B'nai Emunah, 1719 S. Owasso Ave Thursday, August 20, 2015 "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival. This year's concert embraces the pioneering spirit of the American West. These are the voices of cowboys and pioneers, bold explorers of a new frontier. Admission is free and open to the public. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in sing-able arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. Call 918.935.3373 for Summer Supper reservations ($15 per person), beginning at 5:45 p.m. The Synagogue Café will serve treats, gourmet coffee, and other beverages during and after the program. Please plan to come early to make sure that you have a comfortable seat. Guests are welcome to tour the Synagogue at 6:00 p.m. before the event begins. The concert will begin at 7:00 p.m. Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's Guthrie Green, 111 E. Brady St Saturday, August 22 8:00 a.m. Registration, 9:00 a.m. Ceremony Join us for the Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's - the world's largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer's care, support and research. Together, we walk on behalf of our friends, our families and our future. Though we all have our own motivation to step up to the start line, our eyes are set on the ultimate finish line - the end of Alzheimer's. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ----- ·------ Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Start our join a team today at tulsawalk.org. Lambda Al-Anon Group LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Every Friday 7 p.m. 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... Board of Directors Elections Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors can now be made in one way: By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Is It a Date or Just Coffee?: The Gay Girl's Guide to Dating, Sex, and Romance" By Mo Brownsey The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. What are the ten telltale signs that date #2 will take place in hell? Is it better to bounce than to break? How do you navigate the squiggly line between exlover and now friends? Is it a date or just 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... coffee? For women struggling to understand the nongirlfriend-girlfriend's refusal to bear any semblance to sanity, logic, or good manners, this nuts-andbolts guide is the answer. Understanding that love involves equal parts romance, lust, and neuroses, Mo Brownsey will guide you through the mysteries of amour, whether by helping you figure out what is wrong with the people you have been dating, helping you find people you should be dating, showing you how to craft a personal ad designed to entice babes but repel psyche-sucking wackos, or describing ten surefire ways to avoid Lesbian Bed Death. Equally wise and witty, Is It a Date or Just Coffee? will have you navigating the minefield of romance (including the horrors of Internet dating) as if you were soldier of passion. Whether you are single, dating, married, or not sure which, this is the book for you! JUST COFFEE? SY Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org r-------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:27 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8d690c1ca98c914f9d0dc4d67639d2b3.pdf 3d6544e2c5706280aa7e9ee0c2e917e3 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 29th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Gamily Back to School Carnival SAGE Pool Party Girl's Night Out The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R • LT Eating Out for Equality Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Lawyer in the Library RS EBA Mixer Looking to buy or sell your dream home? EBA Sponsor I can help! 2015 U.S. Trans Survey Contact Keith Hunt Today 'The Lesbian Exhibit" (918) 513-13-94 First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit khunt@mcgrawok.com "Rise Up Singing" r1] ~ @ fl~ UADINC ll[Al,_UTATC ' COM PANIC ,,Y THC WOllLO Walk to End Alzheimer's LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store 3rd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival OkEq Annual Meeting Rainbow Library Saturday, August 8, 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Gamily will present the 3rd Annual Back to School Carnival on Saturday, August 8th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, Disney characters, face painting, water gun fights so wear your swim suit and bring a towel, bouncy houses, Fun with Nuns and terrific prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/guardians' names and student's names, ages & grades. Bring your nieces, nephews, cousins, god-kids, neighbors and grandkids For more info or to RSVP, email olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... GAMILY (Gay+Family) is a program of OkEq that provides family style support to LGBTQ parents and straight allies and their children by creating a networking community with other similar and unique families. Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper SAGE Pool Party August 11, 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, August 11st, 2015 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Girl's Night Out Retail Therapy All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics.' 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... Oklahomans for Equality and it's Gender Outreach Program will be hosting a Girl's Night Out Retail Therapy on Saturday, August 8th at 7:00 p.m. For more information, contact Sharon Queen at 918-743-4297 or sharon.queen@okeq,org or Julie Vargas at 918-622-5667. Eating Out for Equality August 11, 5:00 p.m.-10:00 p.m. The Hen Wine & Bistro, 3509 S. Peoria Ave This fundraiser will be hosted by Equality Business Alliance member Kathy Bondy with The Hen Wine & Bistro. 10% of the sales that evening will be donated to the EBA! Reservations appreciated by calling 918-935-3420 or by clicking here. Counseling Services vVI N Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Counseling Services Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and ---------------- learn how to make your donation today. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Lawyer in the Library August 12, September 9 & October 14, 5;30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. EBA Mixer August 19, 6:00-8:00 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org --- --- E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The August mixer will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church and hosted by Morton Investigations and Security. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com - - - - - - - - , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa - Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918-954-8568 emily.howell@okeq.org @HelpTulsa.com 2015 U.S. Trans Survey Awareness Week www.ustranssurvey.org As the follow-up to the National Transgender Discrimination Survey (NTDS), the 2015 U.S. Trans Survey will become our community's go-to source for information about the lives and experiences of trans people. Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... More than 6,400 people took the NTDS, and over 7,000 people have already pledged to take the 2015 U.S. Trans Survey when it becomes available on August 19th. But we're far short of the 20,000 pledges we need to ensure we double the number of people who complete the U.S. Trans Survey from the NTDS. By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org That's why we have designated July 28th - 30th as the U.S. Trans Survey Awareness Week--to help find as many trans, genderqueer, and nonbinary people as possible to complete the 2015 U.S. Trans Survey. SOS Group "The Lesbian Exhibit", by William Hedgecock Friday, July 31-Saturday, August 1, 8:00 p.m. & Friday, August 7 - Saturday August 7, 8:00 p.m. The Nightingale Theater, 1416 E. 4th St "What ARE lesbians?" A simple enough question, wouldn't you think? What a lot of people might not know is that the Modern Lesbian has a rich history and culture that is fascinating, terrifying, and easily covered in a thorough PowerPoint. Opening this month, The Lesbian Exhibit gives museum patrons a glimpse into the exotic life of the homosexual female. Our friendly guides will teach you how they got here, what they're doing now, and even some preventative measures you can take to keep healthy straight women from turning! SEE the Butch Lesbian shotgun an entire beer from the back of her U-Haul! SEE the Lipstick Lesbian as she camouflages herself in your local PTA meeting! SEE the Party Lesbian as her boyfriend watches her make out with his friend Stacey! We encourage you to take advantage of this unique window into another, stranger world, and to join us next month for the latest exhibit in the series: Black People with British Accents: Fact or Fiction? Inman Theatre Company's most recent original production, "The Lesbian Exhibit", finds the audience as casual museum-goers, observing five women from outside their individual display cases. As the voice of the museum's curator fades off, the women take control. Stepping out from behind their pristine prisons, rebellious Denise, practical Heidi, self-assured Elaine, acerbic Lisa, and somber Christine each tell their own story, defying the confines of the exhibit and trying to make sense of the world and themselves. The utterly heartfelt, thoroughly funny, and relentlessly honest new script by well-known local playwright, Will Inman (Estate Sale, Mir[and]a) is brought to life by a truly outstanding cast featuring (in no particular order) Haley Clarke, Abigail Boegh, Emile Adams, Caitlin Cash, and Liz Masters. Show dates are July 31st and August 1st, 7th, and 8th at 8:00 p.m. at the Nightingale Theatre. For more information, call 918-633-8666 or click here. Mature themes. Tickets are $10 at the door. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit "Machination" August 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... The August Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature a combined exhibit of technologybased performance works titled "Machination". "Machination" is a choice collection of works by Tulsa artists including Michael Christopher, Nick Kountoupis, Michael Benton, Lisa Regan, Paul Timshel and R.C. Morrison - artists whose work would not be remotely feasible without advanced technologies. Employing a broad range of contemporary tech, including plasma metal cutting, laser cutting and engraving, threedimensional printing, digital painting, electronic lighting and embedded microprocessors, these works present a sampler across a broad section of the new materials and techniques of fine art and will feature technologybased performance works. "Rise Up Singing at the Synagogue: How the West was Sung" Thursday, August 20, 7:00 p.m. Congregation B'nai Emunah, 1719 S. Owasso Ave "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival. This year's concert embraces the pioneering spirit of the American West. These are the voices of cowboys and pioneers, bold explorers of a new frontier. Admission is free and open to the public. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in sing-able arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. Call 918.935.3373 for Summer Supper reservations ($15 per person), beginning at 5:45 p.m. The Synagogue Café will serve treats, gourmet coffee, and other beverages during and after the program. Please plan to come early to make sure that you have a comfortable seat. Guests are welcome to tour the Synagogue at 6:00 p.m. before the event begins. The concert will begin at 7:00 p.m. Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's Guthrie Green, 111 E. Brady St Saturday, August 22 8:00 a.m. Registration, 9:00 a.m. Ceremony SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Join us for the Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's - the world's largest 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... tiil:rft1'13-;-J.t 11/ event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer's care, support and research. Together, alzheimer's association• we walk on behalf of our friends, our families and our future. Though we all have our own motivation to step up to the start line, our eyes are set on the ultimate finish line - the end of Alzheimer's. ~ r Start our join a team today at tulsawalk.org. Divas 4 H.O.P.E. - Motown Down Friday, August 28 Hyatt Regency Hotel, 100 E. 3rd St Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Divas 4 H.O.P.E. is an event to sponsor and promote Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) and their ongoing mission to support and inform our community of their work to test and prevent HIV/AIDS. Click here to purchase a sponsorship of this event. Get F.I.T. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. healthcare oklahomans for equality BILLOF RIGHTS ACA Assistance Healthca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---- ·---- You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep voices in genre fiction that are often up with the new items and new sale items ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors can now be made in one way: 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Starwick Episodes" By Thomas Wolfe In Wolfe's autobiographical novel Of Time and the River (1935), protagonist Eugene Gant, a struggling writer, physically assaults his Harvard chum, pretentious aesthete Francis Starwick, calling him a "dirty little fairy"-yet the theme of Starwick's homosexuality is treated obliquely. Temple University English professor emeritus Kennedy, who chronicled Wolfe's literary career in The Window of Memory, now gives us the unexpurgated version of the Gant/ Starwick relationship by publishing sections of the novel that Maxwell Perkins, Wolfe's editor, excised primarily because the manuscript was too long. In one key scene, the two friends visit a Parisian brothel where Gant makes macho, homophobic taunts as Starwick reveals his lack of sexual interest in women. Gant's ravings, Kennedy observes, mirror Wolfe's "own paranoid tendencies" and fear of homosexuality. Yet through Starwick's soul-baring conversations, we gain sympathetic insight into a gay individual who yearns to escape the torment of the closet. In his introduction to this fascinating volume, Kennedy details the promising career and shocking strangulationmurder of playwright Kenneth Raisbeck, Wolfe's gay friend at Harvard and the man on whom he modeled Starwick. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org -- 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:30 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/bd1aaff50f6bb1e6487fc7ec66bbd8bb.pdf e7fe9a115a16dc47aed23520b76ff137 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 5th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Gamily Back to School Carnival SAGE Pool Party Girl's Night Out The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log ----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa Eating Out for Equality Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Lawyer in the Library EBA Mixer EBA Sponsor TYPros Perspectives First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit 'The Lesbian Exhibit" @HelpTulsa .corn "Tangerine" "Rise Up Singing" Walk to End Alzheimer's 3rd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival Saturday, August 8, 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Gamily will present the 3rd Annual Back to School Carnival on Saturday, August 8th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, Disney characters, face painting, water gun fights so wear your swim suit and bring a towel, bouncy houses, Fun with Nuns and terrific prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/guardians' names and student's names, ages & grades. Bring your nieces, nephews, cousins, god-kids, neighbors and grandkids For more info or to RSVP, email olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Divas 4 H.O.P.E. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store OkEq Annual Meeting Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook GAMILY (Gay+Family) is a program of OkEq that provides family style 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... support to LGBTQ parents and straight allies and their children by creating a networking community with other similar and unique families. Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper SAGE Pool Party August 11, 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, August 11st, 2015 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Girl's Night Out Retail Therapy 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Machination.' August 8, 7:00 p.m. 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... Oklahomans for Equality and it's Gender Outreach Program will be hosting a Girl's Night Out Retail Therapy on Saturday, August 8th at 7:00 p.m. For more information, contact Sharon Queen at 918-743-4297 or sharon.queen@okeq,org or Julie Vargas at 918-622-5667. Eating Out for Equality August 11, 5:00 p.m.-10:00 p.m. The Hen Wine & Bistro, 3509 S. Peoria Ave This fundraiser will be hosted by Equality Business Alliance member Kathy Bondy with The Hen Wine & Bistro. 10% of the sales that evening will be donated to the EBA! Reservations appreciated by calling 918-935-3420 or by clicking here. Counseling Services vVI N Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Counseling Services Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and ---------------- learn how to make your donation today. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Lawyer in the Library August 12, September 9 & October 14, 5;30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. EBA Mixer August 19, 6:00-8:00 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The August mixer will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church and hosted by Morton Investigations and Security. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org McGraw R • Counseling Services L T ORS Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com r1] ~ •'1 llADING IUAl,..CSTATL ~ L:.J ' COMPAN ICS ~ TH( WORLD Perspectives: Transgender Voices August 6, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. The Perspectives Series, organized by the Diversity Crew, includes informative sessions on a specific area of diversity. The ultimate goal of the series is to inform members, stimulate dialogue and build understanding. Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... I I Tulsa's YoungProfessionals This event will focus on issues related to our transgender community. Topics will include gender identity, expression, sexual orientation and transition, among others. Join us to learn the tools to be a better ally for transgender individuals! Vic Wiener, local LGBTQ advocate and Gay Straight Alliance Coordinator at Youth Services of Tulsa, will moderate a panel of transgender individual and family members. This event is free to attend. RSVP here. First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit "Machination" August 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org ------ SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The August Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature a combined exhibit of technologybased performance works titled "Machination". "Machination" is a choice collection of works by Tulsa artists including Michael Christopher, Nick Kountoupis, Michael Benton, Lisa Regan, Paul Timshel and R.C. Morrison - artists whose work would not be remotely feasible without advanced technologies. Employing a broad range of contemporary tech, including plasma metal cutting, laser cutting and engraving, threedimensional printing, digital painting, electronic lighting and embedded microprocessors, these works present a sampler across a broad section of the new materials and techniques of fine art and will feature technologybased performance works. "The Lesbian Exhibit", by William Hedgecock Friday, August 7 - Saturday August 8, 8:00 p.m. The Nightingale Theater, 1416 E. 4th St "What ARE lesbians?" A simple enough question, wouldn't you think? What a lot of people might not know is that the Modern Lesbian has a rich history and culture that is fascinating, terrifying, and easily covered in a thorough PowerPoint. Opening this month, The Lesbian Exhibit gives museum patrons a glimpse into the exotic life of the homosexual female. Our friendly guides will teach you how they got here, what they're doing now, and even some preventative measures you can take to keep healthy straight women from turning! SEE the Butch Lesbian shotgun an entire beer from the back of her U-Haul! SEE the Lipstick Lesbian as she camouflages herself in your local PTA meeting! SEE the Party Lesbian as her boyfriend watches her make out with his friend Stacey! We encourage you to take advantage of this unique window into another, stranger world, and to join us next month for the latest exhibit in the series: Black People with British Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... Accents: Fact or Fiction? Inman Theatre Company's most recent original production, "The Lesbian Exhibit", finds the audience as casual museum-goers, observing five women from outside their individual display cases. As the voice of the museum's curator fades off, the women take control. Stepping out from behind their pristine prisons, rebellious Denise, practical Heidi, self-assured Elaine, acerbic Lisa, and somber Christine each tell their own story, defying the confines of the exhibit and trying to make sense of the world and themselves. The utterly heartfelt, thoroughly funny, and relentlessly honest new script by well-known local playwright, Will Inman (Estate Sale, Mir[and]a) is brought to life by a truly outstanding cast featuring (in no particular order) Haley Clarke, Abigail Boegh, Emile Adams, Caitlin Cash, and Liz Masters. Show dates are July 31st and August 1st, 7th, and 8th at 8:00 p.m. at the Nightingale Theatre. For more information, call 918-633-8666 or click here. Mature themes. Tickets are $10 at the door. "Tangerine" - a film by Sean Baker OkEq Night, Friday, August 14, 2015, 7:30 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave It's Christmas Eve in Tinseltown and Sin-Dee is back on the block. Upon hearing that her pimp boyfriend hasn't been faithful during the 28 days she was locked up, the working girl and her best friend, Alexandra, embark on a mission to get to the bottom of the scandalous rumor. Their rip-roaring odyssey leads them through various subcultures of Los Angeles, including an Armenian family dealing with their own repercussions of infidelity. Director Sean Baker's prior films brought rich texture and intimate detail to worlds seldom seen on film. Tangerine follows suit, bursting off the screen with energy and style. Exhibiting fierce chemistry with his actors to fashion a dazzlingly distinctive film filled with humor and heart, Baker's talent is on full display. A decidedly modern Christmas tale told on the real streets of L.A.,Tangerine defies expectation-a veritable cinematic jolt. Tickets will be available the Wednesday before the showing, August 12, at circlecinema.com or at the box office. "Rise Up Singing at the Synagogue: How the West was Sung" SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Thursday, August 20, 7:00 p.m. Congregation B'nai Emunah, 1719 S. Owasso Ave "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival. This year's concert embraces the pioneering spirit of the American West. These are the voices of cowboys and pioneers, bold 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... explorers of a new frontier. Admission is free and open to the public. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in sing-able arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Call 918.935.3373 for Summer Supper reservations ($15 per person), beginning at 5:45 p.m. The Synagogue Café will serve treats, gourmet coffee, and other beverages during and after the program. Please plan to come early to make sure that you have a comfortable seat. Guests are welcome to tour the Synagogue at 6:00 p.m. before the event begins. The concert will begin at 7:00 p.m. Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's Guthrie Green, 111 E. Brady St Saturday, August 22 8:00 a.m. Registration, 9:00 a.m. Ceremony Join us for the Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's - the world's largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer's care, support and research. Together, we walk on behalf of our friends, our families and our future. Though we all have our own motivation to step up to the start line, our eyes are set on the ultimate finish line - the end of Alzheimer's. Start our join a team today at tulsawalk.org. Divas 4 H.O.P.E. - Motown Down Friday, August 28 Hyatt Regency Hotel, 100 E. 3rd St Divas 4 H.O.P.E. is an event to sponsor and promote Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) and their ongoing mission to support and inform our community of their work to test and prevent HIV/AIDS. Click here to purchase a sponsorship of this event. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ----- ------ Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Health ca re Bi I!Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors can now be made in one way: By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Queerest Places: A Guide to Gay and Lesbian Historic Sites" By Paula Martinac It has long been a slogan of gay liberation that "We are everywhere." But exactly where is everywhere? Paula Martinac gives names, places, street addresses, and even A GUIDE TO Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org ' GAY A!',,l) LESBIAN HISTORIC ,IILS .. . ' ._._ 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... apartment numbers in The Queerest Places: A Guide to Gay and Lesbian Historic Sites. Covering every U.S. state and most major cities, Martinac lists the homes of the queer and famous, notable historic sites, cemeteries in which notable deviants are interred, and even contemporary resources such as gay community centers and gay and lesbian research libraries. Martinac has a chatty style, an eye for amusing details, and a wealth of historical knowledge. If you have a hankering to see where Rock Hudson was born, where African American arts patron A'Lelia Walker gave her famous parties, or the rooming house where W. H. Auden, Gypsy Rose Lee, and Carson McCullers all lived together, this is the address book you need. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h.. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ----- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:30 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/92113cfcf4efe95bb967eaf588de5420.pdf a5df660523eaf3149243d9cee7ed59c7 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 12th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Lawyer in the Library First Cub Scout Meeting The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday EBA Mixer "First Thursday" Art Exhibit "Tangerine" EBA Sponsor Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Walk to End Alzheimer's Divas 4 H.O.P.E. ~~~ _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 BOOT - "Rise Up Singing" Drag Queen Bingo Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. SHOE - Grateful Day Foundation LEATHER REPAIR Council Oak Men's Chorale Oklahoma Changing World Prize EBA Sponsor LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. OkEq Annual Meeting Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Find Oklahomans and -out -more - -about - -membership - - - -with -- - - -for -Equality -- learn how to make your donation today. Lawyer in the Library August 12, September 9 & October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. First Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, August 16, 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. An organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held this Sunday, August 16th, 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. EBA Mixer Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. August 19, 6:00-8:00 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave E UALITY Business Alliance OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Machination.' The August mixer will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church and hosted by Morton Investigations and Security. 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Reception - Thursday, September 3. 2015, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. This September, Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Terri Higgs in a show titled "Meditations in Silk", beginning with a reception and continuing throughout the month. "Tangerine" - a film by Sean Baker OkEq Night, Friday, August 14, 2015, 7:30 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave It's Christmas Eve in Tinseltown and Sin-Dee is back on the block. Upon hearing that her pimp boyfriend hasn't been faithful during the 28 days she was locked up, the working girl and her best friend, Alexandra, embark on a mission to get to the bottom of the scandalous rumor. Their rip-roaring odyssey leads them through various subcultures of Los Angeles, including an Armenian family dealing with their own repercussions of infidelity. Director Sean Baker's prior films brought rich texture and intimate detail to worlds seldom seen on film. Tangerine follows suit, bursting off the screen with energy and style. Exhibiting fierce chemistry with his actors to fashion a dazzlingly distinctive film filled with humor and heart, Baker's talent is on full display. A decidedly modern Christmas tale told on the real streets of L.A.,Tangerine defies expectation-a veritable cinematic jolt. Tickets are available here. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... McGraw R ·A TO R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today Counseling Services (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rn "'2'- .,~ ~ L:.J '- LLADING lllAl,..lSTATL COMPAN l lS ,'t' THE WOlllD Grateful Day - Flapjack Fundraiser Saturday, August 15, 8:00 a.m. Applebee's, 9409 E. 71st St Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Please join us for breakfast at our annual Flapjack Fundraiser. Proceeds from this event help to finance our annual Wellness Retreat, for people in the Tulsa metro area, living with HIV and F <0>11..llltll.da.1t.:ii.<0> ltll. Jrltll.ce . AIDS. Tickets available at the door, and online at the OKEQ Pride Store here. Credit cards are accepted. Qrnteful .,2)Af1 Individual Tickets: $7.00 Mimosa's will be available, for an additional $3.00 Counseling Services "Rise Up Singing at the Synagogue: How the West was Sung" Thursday, August 20, 7:00 p.m. Congregation B'nai Emunah, 1719 S. Owasso Ave "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival. This year's concert embraces the pioneering spirit of the American West. These are the voices of cowboys and pioneers, bold explorers of a new frontier. Admission is free and open to the public. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in sing-able arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. Call 918.935.3373 for Summer Supper reservations ($15 per person), beginning at 5:45 p.m. The Synagogue Café will serve treats, gourmet coffee, and other beverages during and after the program. Please plan to come early to make Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... sure that you have a comfortable seat. Guests are welcome to tour the Synagogue at 6:00 p.m. before the event begins. The concert will begin at 7:00 p.m. Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's Guthrie Green, 111 E. Brady St Saturday, August 22 8:00 a.m. Registration, 9:00 a.m. Ceremony Join us for the Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's - the world's largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer's care, support and research. Together, we walk on behalf of our friends, our families and our future. Though we all have our own motivation to step up to the start line, our eyes are set on the ultimate finish line - the end of Alzheimer's. By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Start our join a team today at tulsawalk.org. Tulsa's Original Drag Queen Bingo Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E. 2nd St Saturday, August 22, 2015, 6:00 p.m. Bingo, drag show, raffles, a silent auction, and prizes all night long, w ith entertainment by Shaleeta Buffet, Miss Gay Tulsa America: Roby DeFierce, Kris Kohl, Veronica LaCroix, Fanny McCracken, Carla Renee, Imperial Court of All Oklahoma's: Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Starr, Secdackeiry TaylorAlexander and a special appearance by Dame Edna. This event is benefiting A Friend for A Friend, H.O.P.E. and St. Jerome's Our House Too Toiletry Pantry. Tickets are $500 for a Runway Table, $400 for a Premium Table, $300 for a Standard Table, and $35 for individual tickets. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Please Contact Kris Kohl at www.facebook.com/kriskohl.9 or Tim Watchous at twatchous@gmail.com for ticket information. Cocktails & Buffet @ 6 - 7 pm Bingo Begins @ 7:30 pm We are also accepting donations at this time for anyone unable to attend but still wanting to help. 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... Divas 4 H.O.P.E. - Motown Down Friday, August 28 Hyatt Regency Hotel, 100 E. 3rd St Divas 4 H.O.P.E. is an event to sponsor and promote Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) and their ongoing mission to support and inform our community of their work to test and prevent HIV/AIDS. Click here to purchase a sponsorship of this event. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Council Oak Men's Chorale Rehearsals begin September 1, 7:00 p.m. 2900 S. Harvard Ave "Tis the Season" for one and all to come out and SING!!! If you love to sing and would love to be around a great group of guys, then I have the place for you! Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new members and past members to come join us for the 2015 Holiday Concert Season. Rehearsals will begin September 1, at 7:00 pm at Congregational Fellowship Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa Ok 74114, in the fellowship hall behind the main auditorium and will run for fourteen weeks ending with concerts at Trinity Episcopal Church on December 4,5, and 8th several other opportunities to sing on different run outs as well as World Aids Day on December 1. Don't miss this opportunity to join a great group of guys that love to sing and perform for family, friends and our LGBT Community! We are Family, United, and together we can become One Voice! For more information you can contact us at our website at www.counciloak.org or call Dale Wells, Secretary for Vocal Pride Foundation at (918) 381-9598. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 2015 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com - - - - - , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa C,Hel Tulsa .com LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---·---- Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Equality Center Pride Store Lambda Al-Anon Group These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. A Murder of Storytellers Click here to purchase your pendant today! Every Friday 7 p.m. Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... Game Night OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Nominations to the Board of Directors can now be made in one way: By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Heather Has Two Mommies" By Leslea Newman Heather's favorite number is two. She has two arms, two legs, and two pets. And she also has two mommies. When Heather goes to school for the first time, someone asks her about her daddy, but Heather doesn't have a daddy. Then something interesting happens. When Heather and her classmates CQt:111"~1!dUaterlal Heather Has 'Two Mommies Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... all draw pictures of their families, not one drawing is the same. It doesn't matter who makes up a family, the teacher says, because "the most important thing about a Leslea Newmart"""''/111""'""'""' laura Cornell family is that all the people in it love one another." This delightful edition for a new generation of young readers features fresh illustrations by Laura Cornell and an updated story by Lesléa Newman. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ----- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:33 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7aca7b0a3042438493388200c6bc5851.pdf 6da812b28c51b86d8ca0cbc2cb685ca2 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 19th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant EBA Mixer Cub Scout Meeting The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Article Headline Lawyer in the Library "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Centerlink Leadership Summit Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Walk to End Alzheimer's Divas 4 H.O.P.E. ~~~ _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 BOOT - "Rise Up Singing" Drag Queen Bingo Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. SHOE - EBA Sponsor LEATHER REPAIR Council Oak Men's Chorale Yoga by Zach Oklahoma Changing World Prize EBA Sponsor Volunteers Needed George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store OkEq Annual Meeting Two Spirit Books Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook Find Oklahomans and -out -more - -about - -membership - - - -with -- - - -for -Equality -- learn how to make your donation today. EBA Mixer August 19, 6:00-8:00 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The August mixer will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church and hosted by Morton Investigations and Security. Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, August 30, 4:00 p.m. Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. A second organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held this Sunday, August 30th, 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gamily Karaoke Saturday, August 29, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Unleash your inner rock star at Gamily Karaoke Night. DJ Ron will keep us rocking and rolling with family-friendly tunes! There is no place in Tulsa for familystyle karaoke so come let the little ones sing their hearts out (we'll let moms and dads sing too)! All ages are welcome. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Machination.' 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... For more information, contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. ---- Lawyer in the Library September 9 & October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t S7;) OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Counseling Services "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Reception - Thursday, September 3. 2015, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. This September, Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Terri Higgs in a show titled "Meditations in Silk", beginning with a reception and continuing throughout the month. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Centerlink 9th Annual Leadership Summit September 17-19, 2015 Hyatt Regency Tulsa As a leader in the LGBT community center movement, with proven leadership skills, expertise and experience, you are invited to be a part of CenterLink's 9th Annual Executive Director and Board Leadership Summit in Tulsa, Oklahoma. CenterLink, along with our allies and partners, shares your passion for developing and implementing strategies to help strengthen our LGBT center leadership. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org In addition to presentations from experts in their fields, there will be workshops and keynote addresses, as well as resource materials to help you 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... increase your skills and knowledge as an LGBT community center leader. There will also be the chance to network with other LGBT center leaders from across the country and build your support network. Registration is open through September 11th here. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com - - - - - , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa C)HelpTulsa.corn Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org ---- "Rise Up Singing at the Synagogue: How the West was Sung" Thursday, August 20, 7:00 p.m. Congregation B'nai Emunah, 1719 S. Owasso Ave "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival. This year's concert embraces the pioneering spirit of the American West. These are the voices of cowboys and pioneers, bold explorers of a new frontier. Admission is free and open to the public. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in sing-able arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org - - --- Call 918.935.3373 for Summer Supper reservations ($15 per person), beginning at 5:45 p.m. The Synagogue Café will serve treats, gourmet coffee, and other beverages during and after the program. Please plan to come early to make sure that you have a comfortable seat. Guests are welcome to tour the Synagogue at 6:00 p.m. before the event begins. The concert will begin at 7:00 p.m. Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's Guthrie Green, 111 E. Brady St Saturday, August 22 Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... 8:00 a.m. Registration, 9:00 a.m. Ceremony Join us for the Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's - the world's largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer's care, support and research. Together, we walk on behalf of our friends, our families and our future. Though we all have our own motivation to step up to the start line, our eyes are set on the ultimate finish line - the end of Alzheimer's. Start our join a team today at tulsawalk.org. Tulsa's Original Drag Queen Bingo Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E. 2nd St Saturday, August 22, 2015, 6:00 p.m. Bingo, drag show, raffles, a silent auction, and prizes all night long, w ith entertainment by Shaleeta Buffet, Miss Gay Tulsa America: Roby DeFierce, Kris Kohl, Veronica LaCroix, Fanny McCracken, Carla Renee, Imperial Court of All Oklahoma's: Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Starr, Secdackeiry TaylorAlexander and a special appearance by Dame Edna. This event is benefiting A Friend for A Friend, H.O.P.E. and St. Jerome's Our House Too Toiletry Pantry. Tickets are $500 for a Runway Table, $400 for a Premium Table, $300 for a Standard Table, and $35 for individual tickets. Please Contact Kris Kohl at www.facebook.com/kriskohl.9 or Tim Watchous at twatchous@gmail.com for ticket information. Cocktails & Buffet @ 6 - 7 pm Bingo Begins @ 7:30 pm We are also accepting donations at this time for anyone unable to attend but still wanting to help. By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Divas 4 H.O.P.E. - Motown Down Friday, August 28 Hyatt Regency Hotel, 100 E. 3rd St Divas 4 H.O.P.E. is an event to sponsor and promote Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) and their ongoing mission to support and inform our community of their work to test and prevent HIV/AIDS. Click here to purchase a sponsorship of this event. 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Council Oak Men's Chorale Rehearsals begin September 1, 7:00 p.m. 2900 S. Harvard Ave Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders "Tis the Season" for one and all to come out and SING!!! If you love to sing and would love to be around a great group of guys, then I have the place for you! Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new members and past members to come join us for the 2015 Holiday Concert Season. Rehearsals will begin September 1, at 7:00 pm at Congregational Fellowship Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa Ok 74114, in the fellowship hall behind the main auditorium and will run for fourteen weeks ending with concerts at Trinity Episcopal Church on December 4,5, and 8th several other opportunities to sing on different run outs as well as World Aids Day on December 1. Don't miss this opportunity to join a great group of guys that love to sing and perform for family, friends and our LGBT Community! We are Family, United, and together we can become One Voice! For more information you can contact us at our website at www.counciloak.org or call Dale Wells, Secretary for Vocal Pride Foundation at (918) 381-9598. Yoga by Zach 4:30 p.m., Starting September 20, 2015 Join us for a new yoga class in our Wellness Room, Yoga by Zach. > l;Eake A c1a~2,I < Yoga by Zach combines stretching, breathing, chanting, and meditation. This is a mindful, slow-paced class that focuses heavily on relaxation and stress reduction and is ideal for beginner and advanced practitioners alike. You will leave feeling EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. $5.00 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... T refreshed, renewed, and restored in body, mind, and soul. As Baba Hari Dass said, "The idea is to attain peace." Class will be held every Sunday at 4:30 p.m. beginning September 20th. Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 If you have any questions, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 2015 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---- ·----- Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. McGraw Re TO R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ ~ L:.J r,~ LLADINC lllAl,..l TAT[ t.: COMPAN l lS ,,,,- THE WORLD Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Garden Grocery Volunteers Needed Wednesdays & Thursdays The Parish Church of St. Jerome has been supporting the GLBT community for 20 years. St. Jerome's food and toiletry pantry serves those who are affected by HIV/AIDS. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. We are currently seeking volunteers for our pantry. Volunteers' duties include helping clients with shopping and carrying out groceries, completing a bit of paper work, and stocking pantry shelves as needed. Pantry hours are Wednesdays 5:30 - 7:00 p.m. and Thursday 1:30 - 3:00 p.m. If you are interested in assisting with this vital service, please contact the church office: 918-582-3088. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org BILLOF RIGHTS Health ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items OkEq Board of Directors Elections - Voting has begun! The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... ! !\ OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. To vote for your seven candidates, you may come to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to pick up a ballot and vote. You may also contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org for a PDF copy of the ballot. The ballot is also available online here. All voting must be completed by 7:00 p.m., September 3rd, 2015. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Voting Members are OkEq members who have made an annual contribution to Oklahomans for Equality whether financial or in-kind, in the amount of $50.00 since July 31st, 2014. You may verify your voting status by contacting Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality at: toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Current voting members must cast their ballots before the OkEq annual meeting on Thursday, September 3rd, 2015. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Two Spirit Books in the Library Open every day Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Jerry Custer, librarian for the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library, announces 20 new books are now available on Native American and First Nation individuals who identify as "Two Spirit". "Two Spirit" is the term used to identify LGBT individuals within historical indigenous Indian culture. These new books were funded by Sol Smith, who is Osage. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Left to right: Jerry Custer, Toby Jenkins, Sol Smith. For more information, contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "It Gets Better: Coming Out, Overcoming Bullying, and Creating a Life Worth Living" Edited by Dan Savage and Terry Miller Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 11 of 12 Growing up isn't easy. Many young people face daily tormenting and bullying, and this is especially true for LGBT kids and teens. In response to a number of tragic suicides by LGBT students, syndicated columnist and author Dan Savage uploaded a video to YouTube with his partner, Terry Miller. Speaking openly about the bullying they suffered, and how they both went on to lead rewarding adult lives, their video launched the It Gets Better Project YouTube channel and initiated a worldwide phenomenon. It Gets Better is a collection of original essays and expanded testimonials written to teens from celebrities, political leaders, and everyday people, because while many LGBT teens can't see a positive future for themselves, we can. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... NEW Y ORK TIMES BES T SE L LER Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. IT G ETS BETTER COMING OUT, OVERCOMING BULLYING, AND CREATING A LIFE WORTH LIVING hdudrg concnoot'()nl from Elen OeGoneres, David Sed,, it, Twn GUftft. MichMI Cunningham. and many mor-. Edt tedby DAN SAVAGE and TERRY MILLER Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:35 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/26f9fbfa044047336b774e3a86f73356.pdf 99a210beee2f36e1a2b7f6c828adf184 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 27th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Gamily Karaoke Cub Scout Meeting The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday A Friend for a Friend Guys Dine Too "First Thursday" Art Exhibit EBA Mixer Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. EBA Sponsor Council Oak Men's Chorale TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 BOOT - Centerlink Leadership Summit Divas 4 H.O.P.E. Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. SHOE - Lawyer in the Library LEATHER REPAIR Sarah Miller Workshop Yoga by Zach "Unlikely - -Family" -Oklahoma Changing World Prize EBA Sponsor George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Volunteers Needed LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store OkEq Annual Meeting Two Spirit Books Rainbow Library GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Find Oklahomans and -out -more - -about - -membership - - - -with -- - - -for -Equality -- learn how to make your donation today. 11 Find Us on Facebook Gamily Karaoke Saturday, August 29, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... Unleash your inner rock star at Gamily Karaoke Night. DJ Ron will keep us rocking and rolling with family-friendly tunes! There is no place in Tulsa for familystyle karaoke so come let the little ones sing their hearts out (we'll let moms and dads sing too)! All ages are welcome. For more information, contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. --- Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, August 30, 4:00 p.m. Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. A second organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held this Sunday, August 30th, 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. A Friend for a Friend Fundraising Event August 29, 6:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is important to them and address their needs in your newsletter each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.A Friend for a Friend charitable organization will hold a fundraising barbecue dinner this Saturday. The dinner will include ribs, smoked chicken, a vegetarian dish, baked beans, coleslaw, potato salad, tea, lemonade and water plus carrot cake for dessert. The group is asking for a $20 donation for each meal. The event also includes a silent auction and entertainment. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... AUGUST 29, 2016 // 6,00 P.M. // OK EQUALITY CENTER 621 East 4t h Stree t, Tulsa fulkcat,Jiltd auclioa andnw!w 6f ~c!f{inuul. All proceeds from the event will go to the $20 per person II RSV/> (918/361 -8839 by August 22 organization, which has helped hundreds of pet owners meet "the challenges of living with HIV and being able to afford proper care for their pet with dignity and hope." A Friend for a Friend has been providing its pet services, including food, veterinary care and grooming for pets whose owners have HIV/AIDS in Tulsa for the past 23 years. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Machination.' The services, which rely on volunteers and private donations, are available for all pets, including dogs, cats, fish and snakes. Clients are expected to pay as much of the veterinary charge as possible. Food is provided at no charge. Those who would like to attend the dinner should RSVP leaving a message at 918-361-8839. Guys Dine Too September 1, 6:30 p.m. Red Rock Canyon Grill, 9916 Riverside Pkwy Our next "Guys Dine Too" dinner is Tuesday September 1st at Red Rock Canyon Grill. If you plan to attend, please RSVP with Richard Haley at guysdinetoo@gmail.com Counseling Services "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Reception - Thursday, September 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St This September, Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Terri Higgs in a show titled "Meditations in Silk", beginning with a reception and continuing throughout the month. EBA Mixer September 16, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Decopolis Studios, 607 S. Boston Ave Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The September EBA mixer will be held at Decopolis Studios. Lawyer in the Library September 16 & October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org --- --- Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Counseling Services Centerlink 9th Annual Leadership Summit September 17-19, 2015 Hyatt Regency Tulsa As a leader in the LGBT community center movement, with proven leadership skills, expertise and experience, you are invited to be a part of CenterLink's 9th Annual Executive Director and Board Leadership Summit in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org CenterLink, along with our allies and partners, shares your passion for developing and implementing strategies to help strengthen our LGBT center leadership. In addition to presentations from experts in their fields, there will be 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... workshops and keynote addresses, as well as resource materials to help you increase your skills and knowledge as an LGBT community center leader. There will also be the chance to network with other LGBT center leaders from across the country and build your support network. Registration is open through September 11th here. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log -- -----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa - @HelpTulsa .com Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Divas 4 H.O.P.E. - Motown Down Friday, August 28 Hyatt Regency Hotel, 100 E. 3rd St Divas 4 H.O.P.E. is an event to sponsor and promote Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) and their ongoing mission to support and inform our community of their work to test and prevent HIV/AIDS. Click here to purchase a sponsorship of this event. I • . . • - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Council Oak Men's Chorale Rehearsals begin September 1, 7:00 p.m. 2900 S. Harvard Ave Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... "Tis the Season" for one and all to come out and SING!!! If you love to sing and would love to be around a great group of guys, then I have the place for you! Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new members and past members to come join us for the 2015 Holiday Concert Season. Rehearsals will begin September 1, at 7:00 pm at Congregational Fellowship Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa Ok 74114, in the fellowship hall behind the main auditorium and will run for fourteen weeks ending with concerts at Trinity Episcopal Church on December 4,5, and 8th several other opportunities to sing on different run outs as well as World Aids Day on December 1. Don't miss this opportunity to join a great group of guys that love to sing and perform for family, friends and our LGBT Community! We are Family, United, and together we can become One Voice! For more information you can contact us at our website at www.counciloak.org or call Dale Wells, Secretary for Vocal Pride Foundation at (918) 381-9598. Living Arts/New Genre Festival - Sarah Miller Workshop September 13, 12:00 p.m. and 2:00 p.m. Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St The first workshop will be for adults and will be entitled "Assess Risk." Sarah will discuss performance art and have the participants do some exercises and discussions. The second workshop will be for youth - she says all ages - and will be a visual arts workshop where the participants will make an art project. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage More information about Sarah Miller can be found here. Serv1Ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Yoga by Zach 4:30 p.m., Starting September 20, 2015 Join us for a new yoga class in our Wellness Room, Yoga by Zach. > IJ,ake A c1a~2,I < EVERY SUNDAY Yoga by Zach combines stretching, breathing, chanting, and meditation. This is a mindful, slow-paced class that focuses heavily on relaxation and stress reduction and is ideal for beginner and advanced practitioners alike. You will leave feeling refreshed, renewed, and restored in body, mind, and soul. As Baba Hari Dass said, "The idea is to attain peace." Class will be held every Sunday at 4:30 p.m. beginning September 20th. @ 4:30 pm $5.00 If you have any questions, please contact Jose Vega at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... jose.vega@okeq.org. Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. "Unlikely Family" September 28, 7:00 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave The documentary follows a group of resilient people in one of the most unlikely places in the world as they combat hate to create a safe place to worship. The Circle Cinema is offering three different ticket options: General Admission: $15 "Donor" Admission: $50 (includes admission, a seat at a table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour - beginning at 5:30, one free drink and a select seat in the theater) "Patron" Admission: $250 (includes admission for 4, a reserved table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour, 4 free drinks and 4 select seats in the theater). Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tickets can be purchased here. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 2015 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R • L T O R Looking to buy or sell your dream home? reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---- ·----- Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today Lambda Al-Anon Group (918) 513-13-94 Every Friday 7 p.m. khunt@mcgrawok.com rt] ~ ,,, ~ L:.J ' LLAOING RlAl,.lSTATC C0'4PAN I £ 'J" THl WOii.LO Garden Grocery Volunteers Needed Wednesdays & Thursdays The Parish Church of St. Jerome has been supporting the GLBT community for 20 years. St. Jerome's food and toiletry pantry serves those who are affected by HIV/AIDS. We are currently seeking volunteers for our pantry. Volunteers' duties include helping clients with shopping and carrying out groceries, completing a bit of paper work, and stocking pantry shelves as needed. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Pantry hours are Wednesdays 5:30 - 7:00 p.m. and Thursday 1:30 - 3:00 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous If you are interested in assisting with this vital service, please contact the church office: 918-582-3088. Every Saturday 12:30 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Click here to purchase your pendant today! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items OkEq Board of Directors Elections - Voting has begun! Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. To vote for your seven candidates, you may come to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to pick up a ballot and vote. You may also contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org for a PDF copy of the ballot. The ballot is also available online here. All voting must be completed by 7:00 p.m., September 3rd, 2015. Voting Members are OkEq members who have made an annual contribution to Oklahomans for Equality whether financial or in-kind, in the amount of $50.00 since July 31st, 2014. You may verify your voting status by contacting Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality at: toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Current voting members must cast their ballots before the OkEq annual meeting on Thursday, September 3rd, 2015. Two Spirit Books in the Library Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Jerry Custer, librarian for the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library, announces 20 new books are now available on Native American and First Nation individuals who identify as "Two Spirit". "Two Spirit" is the term used to identify LGBT individuals within historical indigenous Indian culture. These new books were funded by Sol Smith, who is Osage. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Left to right: Jerry Custer, Toby Jenkins, Sol Smith. For more information, contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org "Pit Stop" Directed by Yen Tan In this compelling drama, openly gay Ernesto and closeted Gabe grapple with the sad tribulations of being gay in a small, working-class Texas town. Reminiscent of such classic rural gay love stories as "Big Eden" and "Brokeback Mountain," this festival hit is an uplifting love story about male intimacy, the heartache of unsuccessful relationships, and the transformative power of love.. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org -- Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:35 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d6d6f8e3574b43873b7026f351d25447.pdf fcf78aa9b76b73493b5742aadc24e2c0 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 2nd, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor OkEq Annual Meeting "First Thursday" Art Exhibit SAGE Pool Party The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Cub Scout Meeting EBA Mixer Lawyer in the Library EBA Sponsor Sarah Miller Workshop Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Yoga by Zach "Unlikely - -Family" -Oklahoma Changing World Prize "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --- Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. EBA Sponsor ~~~ _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR OkEq Board of Directors Elections - Voting has begun! Tulsa Smoke LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. To vote for your seven candidates, you may come to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to pick up a ballot and vote. You may also contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org for a PDF copy of the ballot. The ballot is also available online here. All voting must be completed by 7:00 p.m., September 3rd, 2015. Voting Members are OkEq members who have made an annual contribution to Oklahomans for Equality whether financial or in-kind, in the amount of $50.00 since July 31st, 2014. You may verify your voting status by contacting Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality at: toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Current voting members must cast their ballots before the OkEq annual meeting on Thursday, September 3rd, 2015. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Reception - Thursday, September 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St This September, Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Terri Higgs in a show titled "Meditations in Silk", beginning with a reception and continuing throughout the month. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting SAGE Pool Party September 8, 2015, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 8th, 2015 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org or amy.howe@okeq.org to RSVP. sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Machination.' The mission of SAGE Tulsa is 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org or amy.howe@okeq.org. Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, September 13, 4:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. The next organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held on Sunday, September 13th at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 EBA Mixer September 16, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Decopolis Studios, 607 S. Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119 E UALITY Business Alliance Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The September EBA mixer will be held at Decopolis Studios. D~COPOLIS tm3 Counseling Services ENJOY BROWSING THE SHOPS OF THE D~COPOLIS THE DECO CITY! 918-382-7388 607 S. Boston Ave. Tulso Ok. 74119 Lawyer in the Library Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org September 16 & October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R t, LTO R !. Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rt] ~ ® .., COMPAN UADING lllAL CSTATL l (S ~ THE WORLD t.: Living Arts/New Genre Festival - Sarah Miller Workshop Counseling Services September 13, 12:00 p.m. and 2:00 p.m. Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org ------ The first workshop will be for adults and will be entitled "Assess Risk." Sarah will discuss performance art and have the participants do some exercises and discussions. The second workshop will be for youth - she says all ages - and will be a visual arts workshop where the participants will make an art project. More information about Sarah Miller can be found here. SOS Group Yoga by Zach 4:30 p.m., Starting September 20, 2015 Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Join us for a new yoga class in our Wellness Room, Yoga by Zach. > I ,ake A c1a~2-I < Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org EVERY SUNDAY Yoga by Zach combines stretching, breathing, chanting, and meditation. This is a mindful, slow-paced class that focuses heavily on relaxation and stress reduction and is ideal for beginner and advanced practitioners alike. You will leave feeling refreshed, renewed, and restored in body, mind, and soul. As Baba Hari Dass said, "The idea is to attain peace." Class will be held every Sunday at 4:30 p.m. beginning September 20th. @ 4:30 pm $5.00 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 If you have any questions, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. "Unlikely Family" September 28, 7:00 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 The documentary follows a group of resilient people in one of the most unlikely places in the world as they combat hate to create a safe place to worship. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The Circle Cinema is offering three different ticket options: General Admission: $15 "Donor" Admission: $50 (includes admission, a seat at a table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour - beginning at 5:30, one free drink and a select seat in the theater) 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... "Patron" Admission: $250 (includes admission for 4, a reserved table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour, 4 free drinks and 4 select seats in the theater). Tickets can be purchased here. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 2015 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is important to them and address their needs in your newsletter each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy and all fabulous! Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Tickets can be purchased here. Get F.I.T. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com - - - - - , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa C,Hel Tulsa .com Tulsa Smoke Softball Team Two teams from the Tulsa Metro Softball League have been in Columbus, Ohio participating in the Gay Softball World Series. The Tulsa Smoke Cdivision team finished 13th out of 60 teams. The Tulsa Smoke B-division finished 17th out of 40 teams. 183 teams competed over 5 divisions making this the largest Gay World Series to date. Since Tulsa doesn't have an A division, Carl Powell plays in the Houston Softball League and his team, the Houston Force, won the A division. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---·---- Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Healthca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "On Dangerous Ground" By D. L. Line What happens when the right thing to do is the wrong choice for your heart? FBI Agent Terri McKinnon always knows the right thing to do. She is a decorated officer who knows procedure like the back of her hand. She is, in a word, unflappable-until she meets Dr. Jennifer Rosenberg, a college professor with a questionable past, who may also be a key witness in a series of violent crimes. The last thing Jen wants is a by-the-book cop in her life, but fate has other plans. Terri is drawn to the unconventional Dr. Rosenberg and the attraction appears mutual, but the rules are clear-this Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... woman is off-limits. Can Terri's wellordered life stand the whirlwind that is Jen Rosenberg? More importantly, can Terri protect her when Jen's past comes back to haunt her? Or will Agent McKinnon find herself On Dangerous Ground? Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201.. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ----- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:36 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f4d6c964b9d2e566654f936d7264d717.pdf e7e7557432541e3f42664ac6d1343084 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 9th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor It's Your Center - It's Your Day Cub Scout Meeting EBA Mixer The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Lawyer in the Library EBA Sponsor Sarah Miller Workshop Yoga by Zach "Unlikely - - -Family" --Oklahoma Changing World Prize "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --Exhibition Proposals EBA Sponsor Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Tulsa Smoke ~~~ _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR It's Your Center - It's Your Day LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, September 13, 4:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. The next organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held on Sunday, September 13th at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center EBA Mixer September 16, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Decopolis Studios, 607 S. Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119 All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. E UALITY Business Alliance OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Meditations in Silk' by Terri Higgs. 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The September EBA mixer will be held at Decopolis Studios. - DECOPOLIS ENJOY BROWSING THE SHOPS OF THE DECOPOLIS THE DECO CITY! 918-382-7388 607 S. Boston Ave. Tulso Ok. 74119 Counseling Services Lawyer in the Library September 16 & October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 LEGAL AID SERVICES t in. OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com - - - - - - - - , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org C,Hel Tulsa.com 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... Living Arts/New Genre Festival - Sarah Hill Workshop September 13, 12:00 p.m. and 2:00 p.m. Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St The first workshop will be for adults and will be entitled "Assess Risk." Sarah will discuss performance art and have the participants do some exercises and discussions. The second workshop will be for youth - she says all ages - and will be a visual arts workshop where the participants will make an art project. Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org ---- More information about Sarah Hill can be found here. Yoga by Zach 4:30 p.m., Starting September 20, 2015 Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Join us for a new yoga class in our Wellness Room, Yoga by Zach. > l;Eake A Cla~~I < EVERY SUNDAY Yoga by Zach combines stretching, breathing, chanting, and meditation. This is a mindful, slow-paced class that focuses heavily on relaxation and stress reduction and is ideal for beginner and advanced practitioners alike. You will leave feeling refreshed, renewed, and restored in body, mind, and soul. As Baba Hari Dass said, "The idea is to attain peace." Class will be held every Sunday at 4:30 p.m. beginning September 20th. @ 4:30 pm $5.00 If you have any questions, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Counseling Services Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org - - --- "Unlikely Family" September 28, 7:00 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 The documentary follows a group of resilient people in one of the most unlikely places in the world as they combat hate to create a safe place to worship. The Circle Cinema is offering three different ticket options: Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... General Admission: $15 "Donor" Admission: $50 (includes admission, a seat at a table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour - beginning at 5:30, one free drink and a select seat in the theater) "Patron" Admission: $250 (includes admission for 4, a reserved table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour, 4 free drinks and 4 select seats in the theater). Tickets can be purchased here. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 2015 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org - - - - SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Tickets can be purchased here. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R l. LT R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today Get F.I.T. (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com m ':' ' ti UAOING RLAl,..lSTATl LJ:! L:J ' COMPAN l £S .o/ TH( WORLD Tulsa Smoke Softball Team Two teams from the Tulsa Metro Softball League have been in Columbus, Ohio participating in the Gay Softball World Series. The Tulsa Smoke Cdivision team finished 13th out of 60 teams. The Tulsa Smoke B-division finished 17th out of 40 teams. 183 teams competed over 5 divisions making this the largest Gay World Series to date. Since Tulsa doesn't have an A division, Carl Powell plays in the Houston Softball League and his team, the Houston Force, won the A division. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ----- ------ Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Healthca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Blessed Bi Spirit: Bisexual People of Faith" Edited by Debra R. Kolodny Foreword by Mary E. Hunt Reflecting a wide spectrum of religious tradition and spiritual paths--including Buddhist, Hindu, Pagan, 12-step, Christian and Jewish--over 30 contributors speak about the intersections of their faith practice and their bisexuality. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201.. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ----- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:37 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e001ec780df7263aa8baec665bbfd8e3.pdf 990d26cfea43f6348f3a010bc4894093 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 17th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor It's Your Center - It's Your Day Centerlink Leadership Summit 2015 U.S. Trans Survey The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Cub Scout Meeting EBA Mixer Lawyer in the Library Yoga by Zach St. Jerome's 20th Anniversary Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Article Headline Oklahoma Changing World Prize "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --Exhibition Proposals Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. EBA Sponsor ~~~ _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR It's Your Center - It's Your Day LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Centerlink 9th Annual Leadership Summit September 17-19, 2015 Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E. 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is proud to welcome the 9th Annual CenterLink Leadership Summit. OkEq is honored to host this event and promote the importance of LGBT community centers around the world. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 2015 U.S. Trans Survey Deadline is September 21, 2015 More than 6,400 people took the NTDS, and over 13,000 people have already pledged to take the 2015 U.S. Trans Survey. But we need to make sure everyone Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. CenterLink helps develop strong, sustainable LGBT community centers all over the globe and builds a thriving center network that creates healthy, vibrant communities. As the follow-up to the National Transgender Discrimination Survey (NTDS), the 2015 U.S. Trans Survey will become our community's go-to source for information about the lives and experiences of trans people. The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Complete The US Trans Survey Last Day Is September 21! Available in English & Spanish OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Meditations in Silk' by Terri Higgs. www.USTransSurvey.org 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... /Jt who pledged completes the survey. ationo!Centl'rfot TRANSGENDER EQUALITY Complete the survey here. Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, September 20, 4:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. The next organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held on Sunday, September 13th at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 EBA Mixer October 21, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Dr. Blane Snodgrass, 7171 S. Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74136 E UALITY Business Alliance Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... The October EBA mixer will be held and hosted by Optometrist Dr. Blane Snodgrass, OD. Counseling Services Lawyer in the Library October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org ---- Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Yoga by Zach 4:30 p.m., Starting September 20, 2015 Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Join us for a new yoga class in our Wellness Room, Yoga by Zach. > l;[,ake A c1a~2,I < EVERY SUNDAY Yoga by Zach combines stretching, breathing, chanting, and meditation. This is a mindful, slow-paced class that focuses heavily on relaxation and stress reduction and is ideal for beginner and advanced practitioners alike. You will leave feeling refreshed, renewed, and restored in body, mind, and soul. As Baba Hari Dass said, "The idea is to attain peace." Class will be held every Sunday at 4:30 p.m. beginning September 20th. @ 4:30 pm Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org - - --- $5.00 If you have any questions, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... The Parish of St. Jerome's 20th Anniversary September 26-27 205 W. King St, Tulsa, OK 74106 By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org ---- --- SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The St. Jerome Gala will be a dressy, sumptuous, seated buffet dinner. Guests will gather at 6 p.m. for cocktails. During the meal, live entertainment will be provided by the renowned singer Rebecca Ungerman, and a special preview of the movie "UNLIKELY FAMILY" will conclude the evening. Tickets to this event are $50 each, or $500 for a table of 8. Tickets are on sale through the church's website: www.stjerometulsa.org On Sunday, the parish will celebrate its patron, St. Jerome and will host a special Homecoming worship service. The choir will be singing a specially written anthem based on the quotation from St. Jerome, "It is not the judgments of men which open and shut the gates of heaven." Ecumenical friends and community leaders are invited to join us. Clergy are invited to vest (the color is white). The joyful service will give special thanks and praise for the wonderful thing God has done. The worship service begins at 11:00 a.m. "Unlikely Family" September 28, 7:00 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 The documentary follows a group of resilient people in one of the most unlikely places in the world as they combat hate to create a safe place to worship. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The Circle Cinema is offering three different ticket options: General Admission: $15 "Donor" Admission: $50 (includes admission, a seat at a table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour - beginning at 5:30, one free drink and a select 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... seat in the theater) "Patron" Admission: $250 (includes admission for 4, a reserved table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour, 4 free drinks and 4 select seats in the theater). Tickets can be purchased here. SAGE Tulsa "Cowboys & Kilt's" ICP Ball: A Night of CountryWestern Dance (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) October 3, 2015 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Please join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma for the Annual ICP Ball "Cowboys and Kilts", A Night of Country Western Dance. Age is limited to 21 and over. Tickets will be $25 at the door. The proceeds from event will benefit the ICAO Clogger Bill Francisco Youth Scholarship Fund. sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders For more information email impcourtok@gmail.com or visit impcourtok.org Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 2015 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---·--- Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Tickets can be purchased here. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... McGraw Re TO R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today Game Night (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ ~ L:.J r,~ LLADINC lllAl,..l TAT[ t.: COMPAN l lS ,,,,- THE WORLD LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rights .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim" By David Sedaris David Sedaris plays in the snow with his sisters. He goes on vacation with his family. He gets a job selling drinks. He attends his brother's wedding. He mops his sister's floor. He gives directions to a lost traveler. He eats a hamburger. He has his blood sugar tested. It all sounds so normal, doesn't it? In his newest collection of essays, David Sedaris lifts the corner of ordinary life, revealing the absurdity teeming below its surface. His world is alive with obscure desires and hidden motives -a world where forgiveness is automatic and an argument can be the highest form of love. Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim is another unforgettable collection from one of the wittiest and most original writers at work today. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. , I · ational Be lsellcr Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20.. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ----- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:37 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fa894c23212df3ee777b554aa919eaca.pdf 3994976e976001b73f9ac9feabf75631 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 25th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Marriage Equality's Year --- - -First -It's Your Center - It's Your Day Cub Scout Meeting The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Lawyer in the Library #SpiritDay @OkEq Center Awareness Day EBA Mixer SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. OkEq Zombie House Yoga by Zach St. Jerome's 20th Anniversary "Unlikely - -Family" -- Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. "Cowboys & Kilts" ~~~ _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR 'Stand Up Against Bullying" Oklahoma Changing World Prize "Hedwigandthe Angry Inch" -Exhibition Proposals EBA Sponsor First Year Anniversary for Marriage Equality in Oklahoma October 6, 6:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This year's celebration is extra special because it marks the one year anniversary of marriage equality in Oklahoma! One year ago, marriage equality arrived and our lives were forever changed! Love Won! LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Let's Cefe6rate Ok.(ahoma Sty(e Find Us on Facebook Save the 'Date Okfafiomn's 'First Year Celebrate the one-year anniversary Oklahoma-style at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on October 6th, 2015 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... at 6 p.m. Everyone is welcome to be a part of this celebration. ..........., 'Marria8e !Eq'Ua fity 9\nniversar We are creating a slide show Octo6er 6th, 2015 featuring all the weddings 6:ooym - 8:3oym throughout the entire year. Please send us your wedding photos so we can relive those wonderful moments. Email them to jose.vega@okeq.org. Let OkEq help you celebrate your anniversary! Donate to our Donate a Day campaign and let Oklahomans for Equality let everybody know it is your anniversary. It's Your Center - It's Your Day Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. l ► ◄ 1. OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Find out more information here. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, September 27, 4:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Meditations in Silk' by Terri Higgs. 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. The next organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held on Sunday, September 13th at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. Lawyer in the Library October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. t~ = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Counseling Services #SpiritDay @OkEq October 15, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the center's roof off! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. On top of the Dennis R. 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... . . A s we stand • Neill Equality against BULLYING i Center! We ' ~ invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. For more information or to RSPV, email jose.vega@okeq.org. Counseling Services Center Awareness Day October 18, 12:00 p.m.-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Have you ever wanted to know what your LGBT center has to offer? Now is your chance! Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an open house and a program expo event. This is your chance to learn more about what Oklahomans for Equality at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center offers and what programs are available. This is also a chance to meet and greet the facilitators of the programs you may be interested and answer any question you may have. For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Counseling Services EBA Mixer October 21, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Dr. Blane Snodgrass, 7171 S. Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74136 E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The October EBA mixer will be hosted by Optometrist Dr. Blane Snodgrass, OD. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tuesday, October 27, 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) is a day time programming for those who are retired or free during the day. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Their annual Halloween party will be hosted at the home of Sol Smith. The group will meet at the Center at 10:00 a.m., then commute to Sol Smith's home. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... OkEq Zombie House October 29-31 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 29th, 30th and 31st, 2015. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Yoga by Zach September 27, 4:30 p.m. Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Join us for a new yoga class in our Wellness Room, Yoga by Zach. > I ,ake A c1a~2-I < EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm Yoga by Zach combines stretching, breathing, chanting, and meditation. This is a mindful, slow-paced class that focuses heavily on relaxation and stress reduction and is ideal for beginner and advanced practitioners alike. You will leave feeling refreshed, renewed, and restored in body, mind, and soul. As Baba Hari Dass said, "The idea is to attain peace." Class will be held every Sunday at 4:30 p.m. beginning September 20th. $5.00 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. If you have any questions, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... The Parish of St. Jerome's 20th Anniversary September 27, 11:00 a.m. 205 W. King St, Tulsa, OK 74106 On Sunday, the parish will celebrate its patron, St. Jerome and will host a special Homecoming worship service. The choir will be singing a specially written anthem based on the quotation from St. Jerome, "It is not the judgments of men which open and shut the gates of heaven." Ecumenical friends and community leaders are invited to join us. Clergy are invited to vest (the color is white). The joyful service will give special thanks and praise for the wonderful thing God has done. "Unlikely Family" September 28, 7:00 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The documentary follows a group of resilient people in one of the most unlikely places in the world as they combat hate to create a safe place to worship. The Circle Cinema is offering three different ticket options: General Admission: $15 "Donor" Admission: $50 (includes admission, a seat at a table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour - beginning at 5:30, one free drink and a select seat in the theater) "Patron" Admission: $250 (includes admission for 4, a reserved table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour, 4 free drinks and 4 select seats in the theater). Tickets can be purchased here. "Cowboys & Kilt's" ICP Ball: A Night of CountryWestern Dance October 3, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Please join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma for the Annual ICP Ball "Cowboys and Kilts", A Night of Country Western Dance. Age is limited to 21 and over. Tickets will be $25 at the door. The proceeds from event will benefit the ICAO Clogger Bill Francisco Youth Scholarship Fund. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... For more information email impcourtok@gmail.com or visit impcourtok.org "Stand Up Against Bullying" October 6, 10:00 a.m. Guthrie Green, 111 E Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 OCCJ is teaming up with PreventBullyingTulsa.org for the 2015 Bullying Prevention Rally to highlight the issues of bullying in our community and society. Come and help local middle and high school students stand up against bullying. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Stand Up Against Bullying Lambda Al-Anon Group Bullying Prevention Rally A Murder of Storytellers PreventBullyingTulsa.org is a collaboration of • , . . JU). - ~ Tulsa area mental health and advocacy agencies that have come together to provide the community with educational, counseling and advocacy services regarding children and ~~~~~=~ 6th bullying. According to the National Association 10AM to 11AM • Guthrie Green of School Psychologists, bullying is the most OCCJ Tulsa, Oklahoma common form of violence in our society; =:-:::.:f¢ ~II- k\11\ili~~ •7c],-.,,. between 15 percent and 30 percent of students are bullies or victims. Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a booth at the Bullying Prevention Rally. Every Friday 7 p.m. Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. More information can be found here. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Tickets can be purchased here. Use the promotional code OKEQHEDWIG to get 25% off opening weekend performances (Oct 23-25). 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. McGraw Re TO R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ ~ L:.J r,~ LLADINC lllAl,..l TAT[ t.: COMPAN l lS ,,,,- THE WORLD LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rights .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... ._ ~11 ._-_,, :/ ~--- ~. . - I ·-- ~ _.;;-- Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Jose Vega Program Coordinator Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Poker Face: The Rise and Rise of Lady Gaga" By Maureen Callahan Jose.Vega@OkEq.org In little over a year, Stefani Germanotta, a struggling performer in New York's Lower East Side burlesque scene, has become the global demographic-smashing pop icon known as Lady Gaga. She is a once-in-adecade artist, a gifted singer, composer, designer, and performance artist who mixes high and low culture, the avant-garde with the accessible, authenticity with artifice. Who is Lady Gaga? She is a twenty-fouryear-old woman whose stage mantra--"I'm a free bitch!"--is the polar opposite of who she is offstage: isolated, insecure, and unable to be alone. She is an outré artist who wanted to be a sensitive singersongwriter, whose musical heroes include Britney Spears, Billy Joel, and Bruce Springsteen. She is a woman who says no man can ever compete with her career, but who still isn't over the exboyfriend who said she was too ambitious. She claims not to care what people think, but spends her downtime online, reading what people have to say about her. She claims to be a con artist and utterly authentic. She is never less than compelling. 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Based on over fifty original interviews with friends, employees, rivals, and music industry veterans, Poker Face is the first in-depth biography of the extraordinary cultural phenomenon that is Lady Gaga. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org ~---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:46 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f8bd12595a4dc9de60a5ee1fdc451e80.pdf ee6138c973872beb2c5996d247c6db53 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 30th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor "First Thursday" It's Your Center - It's Your Day Cub Scout Meeting The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Marriage Equality's Year --- - -First -Lawyer in the Library #SpiritDay @OkEq Singles, Sips & Splatter Center Awareness Day Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. EBA Mixer Gamily Halloween Karaoke SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party OkEq Zombie House Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. "Unlikely - -Family" -~~I>,,. _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR "Cowboys & Kilts" 'Stand Up Against Bullying" Oklahoma Changing World Prize "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --Exhibition Proposals "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Thursday, October 1, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The October Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of A.K. Westerman in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 1 and continuing throughout the month. EBA Sponsor LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook A.K. segued to a full-time professional artist after spending over a decade in the graphic design and marketing industry. She is quickly gaining worldwide recognition for her unique work, featuring fantasy and surrealistic elements and compositions, vivid color and intricate details. She applies her 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... craft to a variety of mediums, including canvas, wood panels, 3D wooden objects and skate decks. In addition to several local solo exhibitions, her work has been showcased in a number of regional and national juried exhibitions in Oklahoma, Texas, Ohio and California. A.K. is an active member of several Oklahoma art organizations, including Oklahoma Visual Arts Coalition, Paseo Arts Association, and Oklahoma's only women's art organization - Fringe. She was also a 2014 ArtistINC Live Fellowship and Oklahoma Visual Arts Coalition 2014 Artist Grant recipient. She lives and works in Edmond, OK. A.K. explains: "I work primarily within the surrealism and fantasy genres. I enjoy integrating natural and technological elements in vivid and intricately detailed compositions. While every piece is derived from my own personal narrative, I always attempt to include some ambiguity, allowing the viewer to fill in pieces of the story according to their own unique perspective. I enjoy working on a large scale, as I believe it creates an almost 'epic' feel for the viewer, allowing them to lose themselves in the minute details. The term 'organic' is an apt description for both my creative process and my choice of subject matter, as I prefer to let the work take on a life of its own and my subconscious express itself freely and fluidly without preconceptions." Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. It's Your Center - It's Your Day If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. IQ r ::] OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit Find out more information here. The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by A.K. Westerman. 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, October 4, 4:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. The next organizational meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information or to find out how you can help the Cub Scouts, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. On September 26th, the OkEq Cub Scout pack served as a watering station for the Tulsa Bike Club's Mohawk Ride. We were proud to display our pack and show the wonderful change that is occurring in the organization. OkEq's Cub Scouts are needing several clean, empty two liter soda bottles for an upcoming Water Bottle Rocket Launch. If you have one or more you would like to share, just drop them off at the front desk at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a First Year Anniversary for Marriage Equality in Oklahoma October 6, 6:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This year's celebration is extra special because it marks the one year anniversary of marriage equality in sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Let's Cefe6rate Of.fahoma Styfe 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... Oklahoma! One year ago, marriage equality arrived and our lives were forever changed! Love Won! Okfahoma's 'First Year Celebrate the one-year anniversary Oklahoma-style at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on October 6th, 2015 at 6 p.m. Everyone is welcome to be a part of this celebration. Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org --- --- We are creating a slide show October 6th, 2015 featuring all the weddings throughout the entire year. 6:ooym - 8:3oym Please send us your wedding photos so we can relive those wonderful moments. Email them to jose.vega@okeq.org. Let OkEq help you celebrate your anniversary! Donate to our Donate a Day campaign and let Oklahomans for Equality let everybody know it is your anniversary. Lawyer in the Library October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org #SpiritDay @OkEq October 15, 5:00 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the center's roof off! Let us show LGBT youth they are not alone. Join us on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. For more information or to RSPV, email jose.vega@okeq.org. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Singles, Sips & Splatter Art Class Saturday, October 17, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 6 of 15 . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... UJB1 ll#IIJl61, 111'1, I,, lplallM ,..... 1111141/lay, Od. 111A 6pllf,9p11f · lpau 11 UlltllMI ':' - . ._.•• ;: .r ,;;·; :'· .: IUl/1' ly' SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) LGBT Singles of Tulsa! Fill your glasses and load your brushes for a fun night of painting at OkEq. Art instruction will be provided by Janet Fadler Davie. Our theme will be "Autumn". You'll leave at the end of the night with your very own original work of art, some new friends and maybe a date! Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Class size is limited, so please email jose.vega@okeq.org or call 918-813-8993 to reserve your seat. Cost is $20, which will cover all your supplies and and refreshments. Center Awareness Day October 18, 12:00 p.m.-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Have you ever wanted to know what your LGBT center has to offer? Now is your chance! Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an open house and a program expo event. This is your chance to learn more about what Oklahomans for Equality at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center offers and what programs are available. This is also a chance to meet and greet the facilitators of the programs you may be interested in and answer any question you may have. For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... Tulsa Area Prime Timers EBA Mixer October 21, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Dr. Blane Snodgrass, 7171 S. Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74136 E UALITY Business Alliance 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The October EBA mixer will be hosted by Optometrist Dr. Blane Snodgrass, OD. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gamily Halloween Karaoke Saturday, October 24, 5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Second Floor, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Come join the Halloween fun! Our upstairs area will be taken over by family fun for all ages and karaoke. Be sure to come dressed in your Halloween costumes and be prepared to sing your heart out! Yoga by Zach ~ I,ake A Cla~~t:<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 For more information, 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tuesday, October 27, 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Storytellers SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) is a day time programming for those who are retired or free during the day. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Their annual Halloween party will be hosted at the home of Sol Smith. The group will meet at the Center at 10:00 a.m., then commute to Sol Smith's home. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org OkEq Zombie House October 29-31 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 29th, 30th and 31st, 2015. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno "Unlikely Family" Currently Playing, Circle Cinema, 12 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa OK 74104 Set in Tulsa, Oklahoma-home of legendary televangelist Oral Roberts--Unlikely Family depicts a progressive church family coming together in the most unlikely of places. The film follows a group of people rejected by mainstream churches, society, their families, and their jobs because of divorce, sexuality, and ignorance of religion. The movie demonstrates what people faced in 1995 and still face today when they don't fit the mold prescribed by biblical "clobber scriptures." The film challenges traditional "my way or the highway" views of salvation that straitjacket lives with narrow values and ideals. An official trailer of the film can be viewed here. Tickets can be purchased here. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org "Cowboys & Kilt's" ICP Ball: A Night of CountryWestern Dance 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... October 3, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Please join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma for the Annual ICP Ball "Cowboys and Kilts", A Night of Country Western Dance. Age is limited to 21 and over. Tickets will be $25 at the door. The proceeds from event will benefit the ICAO Clogger Bill Francisco Youth Scholarship Fund. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. For more information email impcourtok@gmail.com or visit impcourtok.org Workforce Oklahoma Access Point "Stand Up Against Bullying" October 6, 10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m. Guthrie Green, 111 E Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 OCCJ is teaming up with PreventBullyingTulsa.org for the 2015 Bullying Prevention Rally to highlight the issues of bullying in our community and society. Come and help local middle and high school students stand up against bullying. PreventBullyingTulsa.org is a collaboration of Tulsa area mental health and advocacy agencies that have come together to provide the community with educational, counseling and advocacy services regarding children and bullying. According to the National Association of School Psychologists, bullying is the most common form of violence in our society; between 15 percent and 30 percent of students are bullies or victims. Open every day Stand Up Against Bullying , ,, ,.. .,_,,.. . .... . . Bullying Prevention Ral 1y 6~~:~=~ • OCCJ 6th 10AM to 11AM Guthrie Green Tulsa, Oklahoma ~-=-=f¢' ;;tl- -,7c1 ~ ..-.. Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a booth at the Bullying Prevention Rally. More information can be found here. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org --- Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... Tickets can be purchased here. Use the promotional code OKEQHEDWIG to get 25% off opening weekend performances (Oct 23-25). Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... McGraw Rt, T RS Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ ,,,~ LLADING lLAl,.C TATL ~ L.:.J -.: COMPAN IC S.'J' TH( WORLD LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Healthca re Bi IIOf Ri ghts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Woof! A Gay Man's Guide To Dogs" By Andrew DePrisco The book Joan Rivers called "my dog bible," Woof! is the quintessential queer guide for dog lovers, offering a hilarious A G AY l'lAN'S GUIDE TO DOGS take on gay dog ownership unlike any other book out there! Author Andrew DePrisco and illustrator Jason O'Malley have created a LGBTQ classic that defines the 28 "breeds" of gay men and recommends which breeds are best for each. From Drag Queen and AllAmerican Boy to Twink, Leatherman, and Log Cabin Queer, every gay man will find BY ANDREW D 1 PRISCO • lll111lr•llon1 tt, J•••• O'M ■ ll•r advice and hilarity on every page of this award-winning gift book. (For gay men who are not sure of their breed, there is a temperament sorter to help determine their homo DNA.) In addition to being a breed-selection guide for the dogloving Q-set, Woof! provides no-nonsense information about how to purchase a dog from a breeder, bringing the puppy home, training, caring, and feeding for the dog. It also offers tongue-in-cheek pointers along the lines of choosing Cawngtltl!l'.I Ulllenal WOOF! 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... the best gay name for the puppy, shopping for extravagant accessories, throwing a gay puppy shower (for the gifts!), hiring the right staff to take care of the puppy, and using the well-cared-for dog as a man magnet. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org ~---------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:07 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6e3292d913bbc3e72325f48e4736b9b4.pdf 89f80f685ac008b555de9d2191e23c45 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 8th, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Marriage Equality Victory Party EBA Mixer SAGE Pool Party The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log ----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Pride Under the Lights My Big Wedding -Gay -Italian -Our Tomorrow EBA Sponsor "Documented" Christmas in July HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa OkEq Annual Meeting Pride Store Rainbow Library Be a part of this Marriage Equality Victory Party: Find Us on Facebook Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 16th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Marriage Equality Celebration at624 & Catering -- -----Kitchen ------ EBA Mixer Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St Suite A July 15, 6:00-7:30 p.m. E UALITY Business Alliance OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics.' SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. Our next mixer will be held at Inner Circle Vodka Bar, located at 410 N. Main St Suite A. SAGE Pool Party July 21, 2015 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, July 21st, 2015 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage Servtees and Advocacy for Cay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tram.gendC"r Elders SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Pride Under the Lights Saturday, July 25, after the Drillers game If you purchased and still have your Pride in the Ballpark ticket, hang on to it! ONEOK Stadium will be hosting Pride Under the Lights on Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... --------- game against the • ' I Arkansas Travelers. New tickets for the event will be issued; tickets can also be purchased at the same price of $12 each. Just come by the Equality Center or come to the ONEOK Stadium gate to pick up your tickets. Come join us for an evening of fun and excitement! meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th Tulsa Area Prime Timers American Theatre Company Presents 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 "Feel-good hysterical comedy!" - The Wall Street Journal "As insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and the profane, the ultra-serious and ultrasilly makes this the perfect play." - Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. For tickets: 918-596-7111 or click here. Tickets are also available the day of the show at ATC Studios. Get F.I.T. Click here for more information and promotions. Share your voice. Shape our future. Our Tomorrow, www.shareourtomorrow.org Our Tomorrow is a campaign to engage LGBTQ people across the country in a conversation to shape the future of a bigger, bolder movement that leaves no one behind. It is a place for LGBTQ people across the country to share our hopes, fears and ideas for the future - and help make tomorrow better for all of us. R Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ORRO ACA Assistance Share your voice here; your submissions 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... will help the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and the LGBTQ community throughout the nation. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R1"A TORS Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ----- ·------ Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Gender Outreach Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] LJ3, @ .,~ LlADINC RlAl,.1 TAH ._ CO~PANll ')" TH( WOllLD "Documented" - Promoted by Tulsa Area Fair Housing Partnership July 23, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave Lambda Al-Anon Group Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is DOCUMENTED important to them and address their needs in your newsletter each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.In 2011, Pulitzer Prizewinning journalist Jose Antonio Vargas outed himself as ___. ....,.. an undocumented immigrant in an essay published in the New York Times Magazine. Documented chronicles his journey to America from the Philippines as a child; his journey through America as an immigration reform activist; and his journey inward as he re-connects with his mother, whom he hasn't seen in person in over 20 years. . .. ...... J...,,.,. Tickets are $11.00 (general admission) and can be purchased here. Christmas in July - A Benefit for H.O.P.E. Testing Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St July 25, 7:00 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma is holding a comunity wide fundraiser to raise money for H.O.P.E. Testing on July 25, 2015 at the Tulsa Eagle. 21+ Only, No Cover. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous We are currently looking for Silent / Live Auction Items. If you have 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... anything to donate please contact us at impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on our website donation page www.impcourtok.org From the Heart, Through the Court, For the Community! HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org tjrAteful .,2)Af1 JF 0>il.lL:ir.n.dl.a.ti0> :ir.n. JI:ir.n.c. We are looking forward to Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/ AIDS another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St September 3, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Board Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are available in the Pride Store. These short-sleeve tee's for only $10 each. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "How I Paid for College: A Novel of Sex, Theft, Friendship & Musical Theater" By Marc Alito Edward's truly in a bind. He's ineligible for scholarships because his father earns too much. He's unable to contact his mother because she's somewhere in Peru trying to commune with Incan spirits. And, as a sure sign he's destined for a life in the arts, Edward's incapable of holding down a job. So he turns to his loyal (but immoral) misfit friends to help him steal the tuition money from his father, all the while practicing for his high school performance of Grease. Disguising themselves as nuns and priests, they merrily scheme their way through embezzlement, money laundering, identity theft, forgery, and blackmail. But, along the way, Edward also learns the value of friendship, hard work, and how you're not really a man until you can beat up your fathermetaphorically, that is. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org r-------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:25 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5a2c0acd9034c7278313e677d522c5d8.pdf 826658a95465241e73b2a12a36aaa2e9 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews October 14th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Rose & Michael are Sponsoring a Day #SpiritDay @OkEq Lawyer in the Library The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Singles, Sips & Splatter Center Awareness Day EBA Mixer Gamily Halloween Karaoke SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Making the Invisible, Visible OkEq Zombie House "First Thursday" Art Exhibit OK Marriage Equality ---- Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. It's Your Center - It's Your Day ~~I>,,. _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Veteran's Day Luncheon D2: Diversity and Dialogue "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --Exhibition Proposals Rose & Michael are sponsoring a day! Friday, October 16, 2015 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... Rose Padgett and Michael Potts are sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Friday, October 16th to honor their wedding day. Congratulations, Rose and Michael! If you are interested in making a donation to sponsor the Equality Center for your special day, click here. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq #SpiritDay @OkEq October 15, 5:00 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq Board Meeting Oklahomans for Equality is asking you to Wear Purple on October 15, 2015 and join us on #SpiritDay! Lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and gender non-conforming (LGBTQ) youth are bullied at much higher rates than other students. More than 55.5% of lesbian and gay youth surveyed say they have been harassed and bullied because of their sexual orientation. Transgender and gender non-conforming youth experience physical assault at a 37% higher rate than other students. In the wake of an unprecedented number of reported LGBTQ youth suicides in 2010 Spirit Day was founded to show youth they were not alone and community leaders were taking aggressive steps to address bullying in our schools and reducing youth suicides. Wearing the color purple is tied to the purple fabric in the rainbow flag that is the symbol of diversity in the global LGBTQ community. Purple stands for spirit. 7 p.m. Thursday, October 15th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by A.K. Westerman. Let us show LGBTQ youth they are not alone. Join us on the roof of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join us for an ultimate roof top rally! Wearing purple is your ticket in and shows 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... your support for LGBTQ youth as we speak out against bullying. Lawyer in the Library October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. t~ = Maki11g Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Singles, Sips & Splatter Art Class Saturday, October 17, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services LGBT Singles of Tulsa! Fill your glasses and load your brushes for a fun night of painting at OkEq. Art instruction will be provided by Janet Fadler Davie. Our theme will be "Autumn". You'll leave at the end of the night with your very own original work of art, some new friends and maybe a date! Class size is limited, so please email jose.vega@okeq.org or call 918-813-8993 to reserve your seat. Cost is $20, which will cover all your supplies and and refreshments. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... Center Awareness Day October 18, 12:00 p.m.-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services Have you ever wanted to know what your LGBT center has to offer? Now is your chance! Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an open house and a program expo event. This is your chance to learn more about what Oklahomans for Equality at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center offers and what programs are available. This is also a chance to meet and greet the facilitators of the programs you may be interested in and answer any question you may have. For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org EBA Mixer October 21, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Dr. Blane Snodgrass, 7171 S. Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74136 Counseling Services E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org The October EBA mixer will be hosted by Optometrist Dr. Blane Snodgrass, OD. Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Gamily Halloween Karaoke Saturday, October 24, 5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Second Floor, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Come join the Halloween fun! Our upstairs area will be taken over by family fun for all ages and karaoke. Be sure to come dressed in your Halloween costumes and be prepared to sing your heart out! Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tuesday, October 27, 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) is a day time programming for those who are retired or free during the day. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Their annual Halloween party will be hosted at the home of Sol Smith. The group will meet at the Center at 10:00 a.m., then commute to Sol Smith's home. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Domestic Violence: Making the Invisible, Visible October 22, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Join us on October 22 5:30•7:30 ""' ~,, .. '! DOMESTIC VIOL. ENCE Presentation by Missy lski, MA, LPC, MAFT Director of Programs and Counseling at DVIS Help us make the Invisible Visible 10/22/15 Dennis R. Neal Equality Center 5:30 M ix and Mingle (drinks and snacks provided) 6pm Presentation 7pm Q&A This event will focus on issues related to domestic violence and sexual assault. Topics will include the cycle of violence, types of abuse, consequences, safety and recovery, among others. Join us to learn more and take a stand against violence! Mia Leighty, from the Family Safety Center, will Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... introduce guest speaker Missy Iski, Director of Programs & Counseling at DVIS/Call Rape since 1999. 5:30 p.m. - Mix and Mingle (light hors d'oeuvres and wine provided) 6:00 p.m. - Presentation by Missy Iski, Director of Programs and Counselling at DVIS 7:00 p.m. - Q&A OkEq Zombie House October 29-31 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 29th, 30th and 31st, 2015. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Tickets are now available here. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach ::>jJ,ake A Cla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Thursday, November 5, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of May Yang and Jason Lockhart in a combined show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 5th from 6:00 p.m. -9:00 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. May Yang is a Tulsa based artist, printer and designer. She works with printmaking and mixed media techniques to produce work that processes the information overload common in our digital age. Jason Lockhart's work is eclectic; he says: "Inspiration finds me from no specific source. Things just seem to pop out of the background noise of everyday life, so I take those things and arrange them in interesting compositions. Primarily I've been working with acrylics and generally am finding my 'worlds' consisting of fonts, buildings, and strange pushes-andpulls." Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Oklahoma Marriage Equality - First Year Anniversary Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals It's Your Center - It's Your Day OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Saturday, November 7, 2015, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org g E UALITY Q!Busmess Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma along with ICP's Keri Jo Allan, Aaron Deal & George McCauslan for the Annual Military Ball and USO Show. No cover, 21+ only. All active military and veterans are welcome. Dontations made with benefit a local military organization (TBA) & The I.C.A.O. Operational Fund. Donations can also be made on the I.C.A.O. website donation page www.impcourtok.org. Veteran's Day Luncheon Thursday, November 11, 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Our Equality Business Alliance will be hosting a free Veteran's Day Luncheon. Food and entertainment will be provided. If you know any veterans, please invite them to attend this special event. Space is limited. Please RSVP for the Veteran's Day Luncheon to Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org D2: Diversity and Dialogue: Immigration in America: Making Sense of the System Monday, October 19, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... Lorton Performance Center, 550 S. Gary Pl, Tulsa, OK 74104 diversity & dialogue D2: Diversity & Dialogue is an annual event hosted by the Diversity Crew which focuses on current diversity-issues. The event always includes an expert on the chosen subject followed by attendee discussion. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org For the 2015 Diversity & Dialogue, we're joined by TU law professor Elizabeth McCormick for a discussion on the humanity of immigrants -- often overlooked in national debate on immigration policy -- and effective advocacy for policy reform. Dinner will be provided to attendees. To RSVP for this event, click here. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ---- Tickets can be purchased here. Use the promotional code OKEQHEDWIG to get 25% off opening weekend performances (Oct 23-25). Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org ---- OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, - - - - with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthca re Bi IIOf Ri ghts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Man I Might Become: Gay Men Write About Their Fathers" Edited by Bruce Shenitz Foreword by Andrew Holleran Few men, straight or gay, find the father-son relationship easy, which explains why men's groups overflow with stories of fathers who ignored, brutalized, or otherwise wounded their sons. But gay men find the subject particularly problematic: When they come out to their families, they enter emotional territory their straight counterparts often avoid their entire lives. For many fathers and sons, the deepest feelings often remain unexpressed; if a son is gay, the very act of coming out virtually ensures that silence will be broken. Now, the 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... pieces in The Man I Might Become-by some of our finest writers, as well as notable newcomers-depict worlds of experience that are sometimes painful, sometimes funny, and always engaging. Including contributions by Andrew Solomon, Jesse Green, Dan Savage, Stephen McCauley, Joseph Hansen, Bernard Cooper, Mark Doty, James Saslow, Jaimé Manrique, and many others, this anthology will take its place as essential reading for every gay man coming to terms with his past, his family, and his own future as a man. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r---------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:11 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6c98d1695c238de607a623a4d56c718a.pdf 6a93f75689d4d5936629c71112d5bf94 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews October 21st, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor George & Rusty are Sponsoring a Day EBA Mixer Making the Invisible, Visible The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Gamily Halloween Karaoke SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party OkEq Zombie House Guy's Dine Too "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Lawyer in the Library Veteran's Day Luncheon Herland Fall Retreat I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Once Upon A Time Book Fair ~~I>,,. _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR OK Marriage - -Equality -It's Your Center - It's Your Day "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --Exhibition Proposals LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights George & Rusty are sponsoring a day! Monday, October 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma have made a generous donation to sponsor the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Monday, October 26. George and Rusty are sponsoring the day in honor of the seventh anniversary of their legal marriage. Their marriage was performed in 2008 in California. Congratulations George and Rusty! Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you are interested in making a donation to sponsor the Equality Center for your special day, click here. EBA Mixer October 21, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Dr. Blane Snodgrass, 7171 S. Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74136 E UALITY Business Alliance OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, October 15th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The October EBA mixer will be hosted by Optometrist Dr. Blane Snodgrass, OD. OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by A.K. Westerman. 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... Domestic Violence: Making the Invisible, Visible October 22, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on October 22 5:30-7:30 -- ..f . '! ,, ' ~,,. .. DOME~TIC VIOL.ENCE Presentation by Missy lski, MA, LPC, MAFT Present• Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 y t e Faml y Sa ety Center Director of Programs and Counseling at DVIS Help us make the Invisible Visible 10/22/15 Dennis R. Neal Equality Center 5:30 Mix and Mingle (drinks and snacks provided) 6pm Presentation 7pm Q&A g___ This event will focus on issues related to domestic violence and sexual assault. Topics will include the cycle of violence, types of abuse, consequences, safety and recovery, among others. Join us to learn more and take a stand against violence! Mia Leighty, from the Family Safety Center, will introduce guest speaker Missy Iski, Director of Programs & Counseling at DVIS/Call Rape since 1999. 5:30 p.m. - Mix and Mingle (light hors d'oeuvres and wine provided) 6:00 p.m. - Presentation by Missy Iski, Director of Programs and Counselling at DVIS 7:00 p.m. - Q&A Gamily Halloween Karaoke Saturday, October 24, 5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Second Floor, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... Come join the Halloween fun! Our upstairs area will be taken over by family fun for all ages and karaoke. Be sure to come dressed in your Halloween costumes and be prepared to sing your heart out! For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tuesday, October 27, 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) is a day time programming for those who are retired or free during the day. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Their annual Halloween party will be hosted at the home of Sol Smith. The group will meet at the Center at 10:00 a.m., then commute to Sol Smith's home. Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group OkEq Zombie House October 29-31, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 29th, 30th and 31st, 2015. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. FREE TICKETS: Send your contact information to Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org to be entered for a chance to win two free tickets to the Zombie Apocalypse. The winner will be announced Monday, October 26th. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tickets can be purchased here . SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Guy's Dine Too November 3, 6:30 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... Jamil's, 3823 E. 51st St, Tulsa OK 74135 SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders The next dinner for Guy's Dine Too will be held at Jamil's. To RSVP, please contact Richard Haley at guysdinetoo@gmail.com. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Thursday, November 5, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 • 4• Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of May Yang and Jason Lockhart in a combined show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 5th from 6:00 p.m. -9:00 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. May Yang is a Tulsa based artist, printer and designer. She works with printmaking and mixed media techniques to produce work that processes the information overload common in our digital age. Jason Lockhart's work is eclectic; he says: "Inspiration finds me from no specific source. Things just seem to pop out of the background noise of everyday life, so I take those things and arrange them in interesting compositions. Primarily I've been working with acrylics and generally am finding my 'worlds' consisting of fonts, buildings, and strange pushes-andpulls." Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... Get F.I.T. Lawyer in the Library November 11, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t h. OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach ::>jJ,ake A Cla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Veteran's Day Luncheon Thursday, November 11, 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Our Equality Business Alliance will be hosting a free Veteran's Day Luncheon. Food and entertainment will be provided. If you know any veterans, please invite them to attend this special event. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... Space is limited. Please RSVP for the Veteran's Day Luncheon to Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. Herland Fall Retreat 2015 Friday-Sunday, November 6-8 Lake Eufaula State Park, Hwy 69 & Hwy 150, Checotah, OK 74426 Herland Sister Resources is sponsoring an all women's retreat at the beautiful Lake Eufaula State Park. 3 Shades of Gray will provide entertainment on Saturday evening. Meals will be provided. There will also be a spoken word poetry workshop, arts and crafts, as well as a drumming circle. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm For more information or to register, click here. I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Saturday, November 7, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma along with ICP's Keri Jo Allan, Aaron Deal & George McCauslan for the Annual Military Ball and USO Show. No cover, 21+ only. All active military and veterans are welcome. Dontations made with benefit a local military organization (TBA) & The I.C.A.O. Operational Fund. Donations can also be made on the I.C.A.O. website donation page www.impcourtok.org. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... I.C.A.O. Once Upon A Time Book Fair Saturday, November 14, 12:00 p.m. - 4 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be holding the Once Upon A Time Book Fair for the children of Tulsa. The Court would like this event to spark a desire in our children to read more. With the companion of a Stuffed Best Friend to Cuddle Up with all while they let their imaginations get lost in a book. During the fair there will be one or more local authors to read to the children, then allow them to enjoy a craft that goes along with the book, followed by a healthy snack and a trip to the Tulsa Library Bus to sign up for their own library card and end the day by receiving a book and reading buddy to take home to help encourage them to read more. .,,. Plctll'8$ Read11g Buddies To All Chillten WithYDII" Favorite Characters ~IL, Nov. 14th Noon~to 4 Pm ,pl t. Location: Oklahomans For Equality 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, Ok The Court would like to reach out to our local organizations, establishments, community leaders, and non-profit groups and ask them to come together as one and help make this event a successful one. If you are interested in helping the Court achieve its goals or have any questions, please feel free to contact Jinnie Horta at drunkenbaker77@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Oklahoma Marriage Equality - First Year Anniversary Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org g E UALITY Q!Busmess Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... It's Your Center - It's Your Day Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Tickets can be purchased here. Use the promotional code OKEQHEDWIG to get 25% off opening weekend performances (Oct 23-25). Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Healthca re Bi IIOf Ri ghts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org ---- Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Dare...ToTry Bisexuality" By Pierre Des Esseintes 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 13 of 13 Encompassing clinical studies and social perspectives, this book is a comprehensive resource for the bi-curious as well as highly experienced bisexuals. It explores various beliefs about bisexuality - it's a temporary condition, all bisexuals are homosexuals in denial, and others - and breaks down the orientation into eight specific categories. Self-tests, advice for couples, and places to meet bisexuals are also included in this supportive, nonjudgmental guide. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... PIERRE DES ESSEI TES are... o r) Bi e Ji Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r---------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:12 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/efc7ea6947f76b6644c8e307f2b4dab5.pdf 57e61e4e33f0d059476e95922a68a8fc PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews October 28th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor OkEq Zombie House Guy's Dine Too "First Thursday" Art Exhibit The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Healthcare Utilization Study Veteran's Day Luncheon DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa House Warming Potluck Heath & Wellness Fair EBA Mixer Come Home for Thanksgiving HIV/AIDS: Where are we now? Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. ~~I>,,. _ Lawyer in the Library Herland Fall Retreat TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 Once Upon A Time Book Fair SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing Exhibition Proposals It's Your Center - It's Your Day OkEq Zombie House October 29-31, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... OkEq Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 29th, 30th and 31st, 2015. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. Tickets can be purchased here for $10.00 online. Tickets are $12.00 at the door. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, October 15th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Guy's Dine Too November 3, 6:30 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Jamil's, 3823 E. 51st St, Tulsa OK 74135 OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by A.K. Westerman. 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... The next dinner for Guy's Dine Too will be held at Jamil's. To RSVP, please contact Richard Haley at guysdinetoo@gmail.com. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Thursday, November 5, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of May Yang and Jason Lockhart in a combined show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 5th from 6:00 p.m. -9:00 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. May Yang is a Tulsa based artist, printer and designer. She works with printmaking and mixed media techniques to produce work that processes the information overload common in our digital age. Jason Lockhart's work is eclectic; he says: "Inspiration finds me from no specific source. Things just seem to pop out of the background noise of everyday life, so I take those things and arrange them in interesting compositions. Primarily I've been working with acrylics and generally am finding my 'worlds' consisting of fonts, buildings, and strange pushes-andpulls." Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... Counseling Services Lawyer in the Library November 11, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org ---- Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/ tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t ~ OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Healthcare Utilization Study HEALTHCARE UTILIZATION ST Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org ----- Those of us at the Sexual Health Research Lab at Oklahoma State University are conducting a study on LGBT Healthcare Utilization and we are needing to recruit LGBT individuals living in Oklahoma to participate. If you visit the following link here, you can take a brief pre-screening measure to see if you qualify for the study. If you do, upon completion of the study you will receive a $10 e-card from Amazon. All information collected is confidential and anonymous. All study measures have been approved by the IRB for Oklahoma State University. Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... Veteran's Day Luncheon Thursday, November 11, 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org - - - SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Our Equality Business Alliance will be hosting a free Veteran's Day Luncheon. Food and entertainment will be provided. Please join us and bring your favorite veteran to this special event. Space is limited. Please RSVP for the Veteran's Day Luncheon to Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa House Warming Potluck Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Friday, November 13, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa wants to invite you to our house-warming party. Oklahomans for Equality have been kind enough to open the doors for us and let us hold our meetings there. We will meet every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month (except when it's on a holiday weekend). DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa is a community based organization that aims to support the local immigrant community to create social change through SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... advocacy and education. We will have a few snacks and have a chance to introduce ourselves to everyone in attendance. We will also be discussing future plans, both short and long term. SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Health & Wellness Fair November 15, 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The Equality Center will be hosting a health and wellness fair for the LGBT community. Free screenings will be provided to all and goodies will be available. Join us! FREE FLU SHOTS WILL BE AVAILABLE! HEALTHL WELLNESS FAIR For more information, contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. EBA Mixer November 18, 6:00-8:00 p.m. The Garden Trug, 3009 E. 101st St., Tulsa, OK 74137 E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... The October EBA mixer will be hosted by The Garden Trug. Get F.I.T. Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 26, 12:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach :>j;Eake ACla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... Gordon George will be providing turkeys for the community meal. HIV/AIDS: Where are we now? Thursday, October 29, 6:00 p.m. Chapman Lecture Hall, 2830 E. 5th St, Tulsa, OK 74104 EEi ,:: lfJ ,_ OCTOBER 29: FILM NIGHT-LGBT HEALTH & THE AIDS CRISIS With Guest Speaker Shannon Hall and Jim Scholl from Tulsa CARES A film night will be hosted by the TU Women's and Gender Studies Department. FREE HIV testing will begin at 6:00 p.m. in Chapman Hall. Starting at 7:00 p.m., clips from the award winning films "How to Survive a Plague" and "Unwrapping Truvada" will be shown followed by a discussion on HIV/AIDS with guest speakers Shannon Hall and Jim Scholl from Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Pizza and snacks will be provided. Chapman Lecture Hall 6:oo P.M. film clip• and diHuulon to follow at , P.M. Herland Fall Retreat 2015 Friday-Sunday, November 6-8 Lake Eufaula State Park, Hwy 69 & Hwy 150, Checotah, OK 74426 Herland Sister Resources is sponsoring an all women's retreat at the beautiful Lake Eufaula State Park. 3 Shades of Gray will provide entertainment on Saturday evening. Meals will be provided. There will also be a spoken word poetry workshop, arts and crafts, as well as a drumming circle. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. For more information or to register, click here. 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Saturday, November 7, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma along with ICP's Keri Jo Allan, Aaron Deal & George McCauslan for the Annual Military Ball and USO Show. Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. No cover, 21+ only. All active military and veterans are welcome. Dontations made with benefit a local military organization (TBA) & The I.C.A.O. Operational Fund. Donations can also be made on the I.C.A.O. website donation page - www.impcourtok.org. I.C.A.O. Once Upon A Time Book Fair Saturday, November 14, 12:00 p.m. - 4 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be holding the Once Upon A Time Book Fair for the children of Tulsa. The Court would like this event to spark a desire in our children to read more. With the companion of a Stuffed Best Friend to Cuddle Up with all while they let their imaginations get lost in a book. During the fair there will be one or more local authors to read to the children, then allow them to enjoy a craft that goes along with the book, followed by a healthy snack and a trip to the Tulsa Library Bus to sign up for their own library card and end the day by receiving a book and reading buddy to take home to help encourage them to read more. Lambda Al-Anon Group Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Location: Oklahomans For Equality 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, Ok The Court would like to reach out to our local organizations, Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... establishments, community leaders, and non-profit groups and ask them to come together as one and help make this event a successful one. Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno If you are interested in helping the Court achieve its goals or have any questions, please feel free to contact Jinnie Horta at drunkenbaker77@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing Saturday, November 21, 2:00 p.m. - 3:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Ms. Robbie Dee's new book "At Last! Free to be Me" has just been published. Courtesy of Oklahomans for Equality, they are kindly hosting a performance, reading and signing event. Awarded the Hero of Oklahoma and the Silver Medal from the United States Coast Guard, concert violinist Robbie Dee Ewens will be performing a few select pieces as a preclude to introducing her new book. This is an exciting time for transgender awareness throughout the country and Robbie's book is yet another true testimony and a new resource for the community. Do you know anyone who is transgender? Are you gender indifferent? What about being a Christian and wondering what God has to say about it? Or are you having issues with Christian folk who need educating? Then this is the book to read. Come along, enjoy the music, meet Robbie Dee and ask as many questions as you want. 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". It's Your Center - It's Your Day Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Find out more information here. 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" Through November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Tickets can be purchased here. Use the promotional code OKEQHEDWIG to get 25% off opening weekend performances (Oct 23-25). Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org - - - --- LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women, and the Rest of Us" By Kate Bornstein Part coming-of-age story, part mind-altering manifesto on gender and sexuality, coming directly to you from the life experiences of a transsexual woman, Gender Outlaw breaks all the rules and leaves the reader forever changed.26 black-and-white illustrations. " t" "" - - - - ·u i: • "••nt.•t.• ••••••••• •c:•-•-=• "'•t.n·•c•. •a.TC ··•-T"C •-" -· , . ·--- " · alNCClltl' . t.VC I . . . . . . ·••cT1••· Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... l"ATE ICUltlSTEII r--------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:13 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/63c18a2bdcbadd2dd89953dae4e3d63e.pdf 6b22bff3baa6b0d7aa16e0b83856d56d PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 1 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews November 4th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Exhibition Proposals Lawyer in the Library The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Healthcare Utilization Study Veteran's Day Luncheon DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa House Warming Potluck Heath & Wellness Fair Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. EBA Mixer Come Home for Thanksgiving Council Oak Men's Chorale Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. ~~I>,,. _ Transgender Awareness Week Fairy Tree TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 2015 Falalala Ball 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 ACA Open Enrollment Assistance SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR Herland Fall Retreat I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Once Upon A Time Book Fair "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Thursday, November 5, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing It's Your Center - It's Your Day LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 2 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of May Yang and Jason Lockhart in a combined show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 5th from 6:00 p.m. -9:00 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. May Yang is a Tulsa based artist, printer and designer. She works with printmaking and mixed media techniques to produce work that processes the information overload common in our digital age. Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Jason Lockhart's work is eclectic; he says: "Inspiration finds me from no specific source. Things just seem to pop out of the background noise of everyday life, so I take those things and arrange them in interesting compositions. Primarily I've been working with acrylics and generally am finding my 'worlds' consisting of fonts, buildings, and strange pushes-andpulls." OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, November 19th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals OkEq Art Exhibit Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by May Fang & Jason Lochhart. 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 3 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, - - - - with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". Lawyer in the Library November 11, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/ tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t ~ OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Counseling Services Healthcare Utilization Study HEALTHCARE UTILIZATION ST Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 4 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Those of us at the Sexual Health Research Lab at Oklahoma State University are conducting a study on LGBT Healthcare Utilization and we are needing to recruit LGBT individuals living in Oklahoma to participate. If you visit the following link here, you can take a brief pre-screening measure to see if you qualify for the study. If you do, upon completion of the study you will receive a $10 e-card from Amazon. All information collected is confidential and anonymous. All study measures have been approved by the IRB for Oklahoma State University. Veteran's Day Luncheon Thursday, November 11, 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org - - - Counseling Services Our Equality Business Alliance will be hosting a free Veteran's Day Luncheon. Food and entertainment will be provided. Please join us and bring your favorite veteran to this special event. Space is limited. Please RSVP for the Veteran's Day Luncheon to Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa House Warming Potluck Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org - - - Friday, November 13, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 5 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org - - - SOS Group DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa wants to invite you to our house-warming party and potluck. Oklahomans for Equality have been kind enough to open the doors for us and let us hold our meetings there. We will meet every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month (except when it's on a holiday weekend). Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa is a community based organization that aims to support the local immigrant community to create social change through advocacy and education. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop We will have a few snacks and have a chance to introduce ourselves to everyone in attendance. We will also be discussing future plans, both short and long term. 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Health & Wellness Fair November 15, 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The Equality Center will be hosting a health and wellness fair for the community. Free screenings will be provided to all and health classes will start at 12:00 p.m. Join us! FREE FLU SHOTS WILL BE AVAILABLE! HEALTHL WELLNESS FAIR HIV, Syphilis, and Hep C tests will be provided. SAGE Tulsa • Medical screenings • Eye exams • ACA Information For more information, contact Jose Vega at (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 6 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... jose.vega@okeq.org. Transgender Awareness Week November 15-20, 2015 Join us for Transgender Awareness Week at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with the following events: SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Celebrate Transgender Awareness Week at OkEq's Talent Night on November 18th, featuring members of our Gender Outreach Program. We will be serving cocktails and snacks at 6:30 p.m. Event begins at 7:00 p.m. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. If you would like to participate in the Talent Night, please email Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org to register. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 7 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Gather at Oklahomans for Equality on November 20th to remember these transgender individuals who have lost their lives to senseless hate, violence and suicide. Event will begin at 7:00 p.m. Yoga by Zach :>j;Eake ACla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session For this week, we will be remembering and celebrating our transgender brothers and sisters through their transitions, as well as supporting them through their journey to their true selves. Please join us. Please contact Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org for more information. Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance EBA Mixer November 18, 6:00-8:00 p.m. The Garden Trug, 3009 E. 101st St., Tulsa, OK 74137 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 8 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The October EBA mixer will be hosted by The Garden Trug. Come Home for Thanksgiving Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. Thursday, November 26, 12:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 9 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Please confirm your attendance by contacting Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Gordon George will be providing turkeys for the community meal. Council Oak Men's Chorale Thurday, December 3 Friday, December 4 Tuesday, December 8 501 S. Cincinnati Ave, 8:00 p.m. attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm (J)ecem6er 3'~ ~Ii &stli <Trinity P.piscopaCCnurcn - 8:00pm 501 S. Cincinnati.ft:ve - <TuCsa, Ok, The Council Oak Men's Chorale will be presenting their annual holiday concert in three upcoming performances . The concert, entitled "Echoes of December", will feature a number of traditional holiday numbers, such as "I Wonder as I Wander" , "Masters in this Hall" , and "God Rest You Merry Gentlemen" , along with more contemporary fare, including "It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year" , "Little Saint Nick" , and more. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Tickets are $20 and may be purchased through www.counciloak.org , or at the door. Early Special Ticket price before November 15 is "Buy 2 tickets for the price of 1". So hurry and get your tickets! For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org Game Night 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 10 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Purchased gifts must be returned by December 14, 2015 The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 ttolla-T. H. E.Y. Thri '{'1ndrogynous Gostumri Sall Don your androgynous apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! This year's theme is An Androgynous Costume Ball. Please pull out your androgynous holiday dress and business casual. Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Cash Bar Live Bands Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes Child Care Provided For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Ends January 31, 2016 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 11 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? and community. Contact The Insurance Crew! Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Dirk Hunter and Shane Allbee are insurance experts and they are more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the ACA. Dirk and Shane will be hosting informational meetings on: November 16, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. November 17, 3:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. November 18 , 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. December 9, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. OR i the HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Call them today at 918-794-0777. Dirk Hunter: dirk@theinsurancecrew.com Shane Allbee: shane@theinsurancecrew.com crew Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. crew 420 S. Main St, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 Herland Fall Retreat 2015 Friday-Sunday, November 6-8 Lake Eufaula State Park, Hwy 69 & Hwy 150, Checotah, OK 74426 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Herland Sister Resources is sponsoring an all women's retreat at the beautiful Lake Eufaula State Park. 3 Shades of Gray will provide 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 12 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... entertainment on Saturday evening. Meals will be provided. There will also be a spoken word poetry workshop, arts and crafts, as well as a drumming circle. For more information or to register, click here. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Saturday, November 7, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma along with ICP's Keri Jo Allan, Aaron Deal & George McCauslan for the Annual Military Ball and USO Show. No cover, 21+ only. All active military and veterans are welcome. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Dontations made with benefit a local military organization (TBA) & The I.C.A.O. Operational Fund. Donations can also be made on the I.C.A.O. website donation page - www.impcourtok.org. I.C.A.O. Once Upon A Time Book Fair Saturday, November 14, 12:00 p.m. - 4 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be holding the Once Upon A Time Book Fair for the children of Tulsa. The Court would like this event to spark a desire in our children to read more. With the companion of a Stuffed Best Friend to Cuddle Up with all while they let their imaginations get lost in a book. Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org I - r''i,!.f·.C;_ ~ ~ J <J Nov. 14th Noon to 4 Pm r , Location: Oklahomans For Equality - -- ~,~ 'l~ C .+h C.+ l'.111- nt,_ _ __ 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 13 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... During the fair there will be one or more local authors to read to the children, then allow them to enjoy a craft that goes along with the book, followed by a healthy snack and a trip to the Tulsa Library Bus to sign up for their own library card and end the day by receiving a book and reading buddy to take home to help encourage them to read more. The Court would like to reach out to our local organizations, establishments, community leaders, and non-profit groups and ask them to come together as one and help make this event a successful one. Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org If you are interested in helping the Court achieve its goals or have any questions, please feel free to contact Jinnie Horta at drunkenbaker77@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing Saturday, November 21, 2:00 p.m. - 3:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Ms. Robbie Dee's new book "At Last! Free to be Me" has just been published. Courtesy of Oklahomans for Equality, they are kindly hosting a performance, reading and signing event. Awarded the Hero of Oklahoma and the Silver Medal from the United States Coast Guard, concert violinist Robbie Dee Ewens will be performing a few select pieces as a preclude to introducing her new book. This is an exciting time for transgender awareness throughout the country and Robbie's book is yet another true testimony and a new resource for the community. Do you know anyone who is transgender? Are you gender indifferent? What about being a Christian and wondering what God has to say about it? Or are you having issues with Christian folk who need educating? Then this is the book to read. Come along, enjoy the music, meet Robbie Dee and ask as many questions as you want. 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 14 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... It's Your Center - It's Your Day OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 15 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Serving Proudly: A History of Women in the U.S. Navy" By Susan H. Godson As women go to sea and take to the skies in ever-increasing numbers in the modern U. S. Navy, the contributions of those pioneers who led the way loom larger than ever. This is the first scholarly history to cover comprehensively the full spectrum of women in the Navy, including the Navy Nurse Corps, the early Yeoman (F) program, the Waves, and the ultimate integration of women into the operational Navy. 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 16 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r--------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:15 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/df51c2bfaa877078ca29d6518477b762.pdf a8212a8c7f107944189d970b17748122 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews November 11th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor In Honor of John Raviell Veteran's Day Luncheon "Second" Thursday Art Exhibit The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Exhibition Proposals DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa House Warming Potluck Heath & Wellness Fair EBA Mixer Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Fairy Tree Come Home for Thanksgiving Council Oak Men's Chorale Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. ~~I>,,. _ Transgender Awareness Week World AIDS Day 2015 TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 2015 Falalala Ball 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 ACA Open Enrollment Assistance SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR Once Upon A Time Book Fair Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing It's Your Center - It's Your Day In Honor of John Raviell Friday, November 6, 2015 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Healthcare Utilization Study Nimrod International Journal LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq We are honored to have had the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center sponsored in honor of John Raviell for November 6th, 2015. Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you are interested in sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to honor a loved one, please contact Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org or click here. Veteran's Day Luncheon Wednesday, November 11, 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, November 19th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit Our Equality Business Alliance will be hosting a free Veteran's Day Luncheon. Food and entertainment will be provided. Please join us and bring your favorite veteran to this special event. Space is limited. Please RSVP for the Veteran's Day Luncheon to Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by May Fang & Jason Lochhart. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... RESCHEDULED: "Second" Thursday Art Exhibit Thursday, November 12, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Due to unforeseen circumstances, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center had to postpone and reschedule our usual First Thursday Art Show. The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of May Yang and Jason Lochhart in a combined show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 12th from 6:00 p.m. -9:00 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. May Yang is a Tulsa based artist, printer and designer. She works with printmaking and mixed media techniques to produce work that processes the information overload common in our digital age. Jason Lochhart's work is eclectic; he says: "Inspiration finds me from no specific source. Things just seem to pop out of the background noise of everyday life, so I take those things and arrange them in interesting compositions. Primarily I've been working with acrylics and generally am finding my 'worlds' consisting of fonts, buildings, and strange pushes-andpulls." Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Counseling Services - Weekdays Counseling Services ' 4 of 17 Friday, November 13, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa House Warming Potluck Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Counseling Services https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20.. The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 1J, :~lJJ .... �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org - - - SOS Group DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa wants to invite you to our house-warming party and potluck. Oklahomans for Equality have been kind enough to open the doors for us and let us hold our meetings there. We will meet every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month (except when it's on a holiday weekend). Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa is a community based organization that aims to support the local immigrant community to create social change through advocacy and education. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop We will have a few snacks and have a chance to introduce ourselves to everyone in attendance. We will also be discussing future plans, both short and long term. 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Health & Wellness Fair November 15, 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The Equality Center will be hosting a health and wellness fair for the community. Free screenings will be provided to all and health classes will start at 12:00 p.m. Join us! Free Flu Shots: 12:00 p.m. 4:00 p.m. Medical Exams by Dr. Darci Hazelwood, D.O. 12:00 p.m. - 2:00 p.m. Prostate Exams Breast Exams Testicular Exams Blood Pressure Exams Diabetes Exams BMI Exams ...and much more! Free Testing from 12:00 HEALTHL WELLNESS FAIR SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... p.m. - 5:00 p.m. for: HIV Syphilis Hepatitis C SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Free Health Classes: HIV and Prep Education 1:30 p.m. - 2:30 p.m. Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Nutrition Class: 3:00 p.m. - 3:30 p.m. CPR and First Aid Basic Training Class: 3:30 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. Cancer Classes: Prostate Cancer Testicular Cancer Breast Cancer Cervical Cancer 4:30 p.m. - 5:30 p.m. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation For more information, contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. EBA Mixer Wednesday, November 18, 6:00-8:00 p.m. The Garden Trug, 3009 E. 101st St., Tulsa, OK 74137 E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The October EBA mixer will be hosted by The Garden Trug. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Get F.I.T. Transgender Awareness Week November 15-20, 2015 Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Join us for Transgender Awareness Week at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with the following events: Yoga by Zach :>j;Eake ACla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Celebrate Transgender Awareness Week at OkEq's Talent Night on November 18th, featuring members of our Gender Outreach Program. We will be serving cocktails and snacks at 6:30 p.m. Event begins at 7:00 p.m. Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance If you would like to participate in the Talent Night, please email Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org to register. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Gather at Oklahomans for Equality on November 20th to remember these transgender individuals who have lost their lives to senseless hate, violence and suicide. Event will begin at 7:00 p.m. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. For this week, we will be remembering and celebrating our transgender brothers and sisters through their transitions, as well as supporting them through their journey to their true selves. Please join us. Please contact Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Purchased gifts must be returned by December 14, 2015 The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... our community that are struggling to survive. For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Come Home for Thanksgiving Every Friday 7 p.m. Thursday, November 26, 12:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Gordon George will be providing turkeys for the community meal. Council Oak Men's Chorale Thurday, December 3 Game Night 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Friday, December 4 Tuesday, December 8 501 S. Cincinnati Ave, 8:00 p.m. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno ~ (J)ecem6er 3'~ ~Ii &stli <Trinity P.piscopaCCliurcli- 8:00pm 501 S. Cincinna.ti}l:ve - <TuCsa, Ok, The Council Oak Men's Chorale will be presenting their annual holiday concert in three upcoming performances . The concert, entitled "Echoes of December", will feature a number of traditional holiday numbers, such as "I Wonder as I Wander" , "Masters in this Hall" , and "God Rest You Merry Gentlemen" , along with more contemporary fare, including "It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year" , "Little Saint Nick" , and more. Tickets are $20 and may be purchased through www.counciloak.org , or at the door. Early Special Ticket price before November 15 is "Buy 2 tickets for the price of 1". So hurry and get your tickets! For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. World AIDS Day 2015 December 1, 2015 World AIDS Day is held on the 1st of December each year and is an opportunity for people worldwide to unite in the fight against HIV and AIDS, show their support for people living with HIV and to commemorate those who we have lost to the virus. Globally, an estimated 34 million people have HIV. More than 35 million people have died from the virus, making it one of the most destructive pandemics in history. Today, many scientific advances have been made in HIV/AIDS treatment, there are laws to protect people living with the virus and we now understand so much more about the condition. However, despite this, many do not know the facts about how to protect themselves and others Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... from HIV, and stigma and discrimination remain a reality for many people living with HIV. World AIDS Day is important as it reminds the public that HIV has not gone away - there is still a vital need to raise money, increase awareness, fight prejudice and improve education. and community. 2016 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Contact Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org with your nominations. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 ttolla-T. H. E.Y. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Thfl. ,rqndrogynom; C'o£tumfl, Sall MISSION: Don your androgynous apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! This year's theme is An Androgynous Costume Ball. Please pull out your androgynous holiday dress and business casual. Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Cash Bar Live Bands Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes Child Care Provided Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 12 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Ends January 31, 2016 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Contact The Insurance Crew! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Dirk Hunter and Shane Allbee are insurance experts and they are more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the ACA. Dirk and Shane will be hosting informational meetings on: November 16, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. November 17, 3:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. November 18, 1:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. December 9, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. OR Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Call them today at 918-794-0777. Dirk Hunter: dirk@theinsurancecrew.com Shane Allbee: shane@theinsurancecrew.com i the crew crew 420 S. Main St, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 I.C.A.O. Once Upon A Time Book Fair Saturday, November 14, 12:00 p.m. - 4 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be holding the Once Upon A Time Book Fair for the children of Tulsa. The Court would like this event to spark a desire in our children to read 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 13 of 17 more. With the companion of a Stuffed Best Friend to Cuddle Up with all while they let their imaginations get lost in a book. During the fair there will be one or more local authors to read to the children, then allow them to enjoy a craft that goes along with the book, followed by a healthy snack and a trip to the Tulsa Library Bus to sign up for their own library card and end the day by receiving a book and reading buddy to take home to help encourage them to read more. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Location: Oklahomans For Equality 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, Ok Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org The Court would like to reach out to our local organizations, establishments, community leaders, and non-profit groups and ask them to come together as one and help make this event a successful one. If you are interested in helping the Court achieve its goals or have any questions, please feel free to contact Jinnie Horta at drunkenbaker77@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing Jose Vega Program Coordinator Saturday, November 21, 2:00 p.m. - 3:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Ms. Robbie Dee's new book "At Last! Free to be Me" has just been published. Courtesy of Oklahomans for Equality, they are kindly hosting a performance, reading and signing event. Awarded the Hero of Oklahoma and the Silver Medal from the United States Coast Guard, concert violinist Robbie Dee Ewens will be performing a few select pieces as a preclude to introducing her new book. This is an exciting time for transgender awareness throughout the country and Robbie's book is yet another true testimony and a new resource for the community. Do you know anyone who is transgender? Are you gender indifferent? What about being a Christian and wondering what God has to say about it? Or are you having issues with Christian folk who need educating? Then this is the book to read. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 14 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Come along, enjoy the music, meet Robbie Dee and ask as many questions as you want. It's Your Center - It's Your Day OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Healthcare Utilization Study HEALTHCARE UTILIZATION ST Those of us at the Sexual Health Research Lab at Oklahoma State University are conducting a study on LGBT Healthcare Utilization and we 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... are needing to recruit LGBT individuals living in Oklahoma to participate. If you visit the following link here, you can take a brief pre-screening measure to see if you qualify for the study. If you do, upon completion of the study you will receive a $10 e-card from Amazon. All information collected is confidential and anonymous. All study measures have been approved by the IRB for Oklahoma State University. Nimrod International Journal: Call for Submissions Deadline is November 30, 2015 This year has seen a remarkable shift within the United States in relation to the gay rights movement. Nimrod International Journal has historically celebrated and championed writing by people from marginalized populations, whether those be nation, ethnicity, or age. This year, we're thrilled to announce an issue devoted to writing from LGBTQIA community. For our Spring/Summer 2016 issue, Mirrors and Prisms: Writers of Marginalized Orientations and Gender Identities, Nimrod International Journal is seeking poems, short stories, and creative nonfiction pieces from writers who identify along the LGBTQIA spectrum. For more information on this year's submissions requirements, click here. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 16 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Special Forces: Gay Military Erotica" Edited By Phillip Mackensie, Jr. Wherever a man slides into his BDU's and shoulders an M16, there's another man looking to take both off him - and people who want to read about it. These sexually charged stories show military men in every branch of the service getting down. Special Forces is set in the heat of battle, public or private, where fear, urgency, and uncertainty lead to unexpected intimacy and release, where anger and terror fuel desire and 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... attraction. The seasoned authors here, some of whom served in the military themselves, do not shy away from the hard realities of the fight, but allow it to heighten the eroticism. The collection includes Jack Fritscher ("Wild Blue Yonder"), T. Hitman ("To the Victors Go the Spoiled"), Simon Sheppard ("Stockholm Syndrome"), Jay Starre ("Between Shots Fire"), and many more. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r--------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/aa5a5a9e79edd7183703369bce158888.pdf beb4b11aef12d3eb4fec2ed63d341de5 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 1 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews November 18th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor EBA Mixer Transgender Awareness Week Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Come Home for Thanksgiving Fairy Tree Council Oak Men's Chorale PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner World AIDS Day 2015 Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. 2016 Award Nominations 2015 Falalala Ball Sisters in Song Nimrod International Journal Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. ACA Open Enrollment Assistance ~~I>,,. _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR Grateful Day Foundation It's Your Center - It's Your Day Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting OSU Research Project LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights EBA Mixer Pride Store November 18, 6:00-8:00 p.m. The Garden Trug, 3009 E. 101st St., Tulsa, OK 74137 Healthcare Utilization Study Rainbow Library E UALITY Business Alliance Find Us on Facebook The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 2 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The October EBA mixer will be hosted by The Garden Trug. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Garden Trug will have tons of holiday shopping potential for the EBA. Any member can use their 10% EBA discount plus receive a free gift with their purchases. Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Transgender Awareness Week Through November 20, 2015 Join us for Transgender Awareness Week at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with the following events: OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, November 19th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit Celebrate Transgender Awareness Week at OkEq's Talent Night on November 18th, featuring members of our Gender Outreach Program. We will be serving cocktails and snacks at 6:30 p.m. Event begins at 7:00 p.m. If you would like to participate in the Talent Night, please email Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org to register. The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by May Fang & Jason Lochhart. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 3 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Gather at Oklahomans for Equality on November 20th to remember these transgender individuals who have lost their lives to senseless hate, violence and suicide. Event will begin at 7:00 p.m. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 For this week, we will be remembering and celebrating our transgender brothers and sisters through their transitions, as well as supporting them through their journey to their true selves. Please join us. Please contact Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org for more information. Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing November 21, 2:00 p.m. - 3:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 4 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Counseling Services Ms. Robbie Dee's new book "At Last! Free to be Me" has just been published. Courtesy of Oklahomans for Equality, they are kindly hosting a performance, reading and signing event. Awarded the Hero of Oklahoma and the Silver Medal from the United States Coast Guard, concert violinist Robbie Dee Ewens will be performing a few select pieces as a preclude to introducing her new book. This is an exciting time for transgender awareness throughout the country and Robbie's book is yet another true testimony and a new resource for the community. Do you know anyone who is transgender? Are you gender indifferent? What about being a Christian and wondering what God has to say about it? Or are you having issues with Christian folk who need educating? Then this is the book to read. Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Come along, enjoy the music, meet Robbie Dee and ask as many questions as you want. Counseling Services Come Home for Thanksgiving November 26, 12:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 5 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Gordon George will be providing turkeys for the community meal. David Dees and Club Majestic will be providing hams. By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Purchased gifts must be returned by December 14, 2015 The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. Council Oak Men's Chorale Thurday, December 3 Friday, December 4 Tuesday, December 8 501 S. Cincinnati Ave, 8:00 p.m. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 6 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders ©ecem6er 3r~ ,fli &stli 'Trinity <EpiscopalC/i,urcli - 8:00pm 501 S. Cincinnati)f:ve - 'Tulsa, Ol The Council Oak Men's Chorale will be presenting their annual holiday concert in three upcoming performances . The concert, entitled "Echoes of December", will feature a number of traditional holiday numbers, such as "I Wonder as I Wander" , "Masters in this Hall" , and "God Rest You Merry Gentlemen" , along with more contemporary fare, including "It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year" , "Little Saint Nick" , and more. Tickets are $20 and may be purchased through www.counciloak.org , or at the door. Early Special Ticket price before November 15 is "Buy 2 tickets for the price of 1". So hurry and get your tickets! Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner December 11, 5:30 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. SAVE THE DATE! Please join PFLAG Tulsa for their annual holiday dinner. Bring friends, family and a dish to share for their potluck dinner. Tulsa Area Prime Timers PFl!rAG World AIDS Day 2015 December 1, 2015, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 7 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... World AIDS Day is held on the 1st of December each year and is an opportunity for people worldwide to unite in the fight against HIV and AIDS, show their support for people living with HIV and to commemorate those who we have lost to the virus. Globally, an estimated 34 million people have HIV. More than 35 million people have died from the virus, making it one of the most destructive pandemics in history. Today, many scientific advances have been made in HIV/AIDS treatment, there are laws to protect people living with the virus and we now understand so much more about the condition. However, despite this, many do not know the facts about how to protect themselves and others from HIV, and stigma and discrimination remain a reality for many people living with HIV. World AIDS Day is important as it reminds the public that HIV has not gone away - there is still a vital need to raise money, increase awareness, fight prejudice and improve education. At the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, we will be hosting the Council Oak Men's Chorale and Eric Himan on World AIDS Day. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach :>j;Eake ACla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance 2016 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 8 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Contact Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org with your nominations. 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 ttolla-T. H. E.Y. Thri '(lndrogynom; Goa;tumri :Ball Don your androgynous apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! This year's theme is An Androgynous Costume Ball. Please pull out your androgynous holiday dress and business casual. Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Cash Bar Live Bands Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes Child Care Provided For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Sisters in Song Present: Hope, Peace & Joy December 19, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 9 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Sisters ltt Sott5 britt5s t1oi. Hope. Peace &Jo\1 attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 2015 Lambda Al-Anon Group PM fURDAY Every Friday 7 p.m. FEU.OW&UIP CoNGREGATIONAL C#URCU LJNrrED C#URC# OF C#RIST 2900 Souru 1./ARVARO AIE TULSA ADMISSION $15 Nevermore Edits Clm.DREN FREE Every Friday 7:00 pm Sisters in Song will be performing their Christmas concert entitled "Hope, Peace and Joy". They will be presenting several new works you've not heard before like "The Christmas Shopping Blues" and "Cold and Fugue" along with your favorites like "Sleigh Ride" and "Santa Baby". Soloists include Linda Paul on the harp, a Miriam Childers and Sue Bennett vocal duo, Jane Duenner and friend with a vocal duo, and our SIS Quartet Ensemble performing two acapella songs. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. This is a wonderful evening to get into the spirit of Christmas by slowing down and enjoying the sounds of Christmas. Refreshments will be served following the concert! For more information, contact Linda Barton Paul at 918-629-7259 or at harplinda1@gmail.com. Booking info: www.harplinda.com Booking is also available at gigmasters.com. Admission is $15; student tickets are free. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Nimrod International Journal: Call for Submissions Deadline is November 30, 2015 This year has seen a remarkable shift within the United States in relation to the gay rights movement. Nimrod International Journal has historically celebrated and championed Game Night 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 10 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... writing by people from marginalized populations, whether those be nation, ethnicity, or age. This year, we're thrilled to announce an issue devoted to writing from LGBTQIA community. For our Spring/Summer 2016 issue, Mirrors and Prisms: Writers of Marginalized Orientations and Gender Identities, Nimrod International Journal is seeking poems, short stories, and creative nonfiction pieces from writers who identify along the LGBTQIA spectrum. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information on this year's submissions requirements, click here. ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Ends January 31, 2016 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Contact The Insurance Crew! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Dirk Hunter and Shane Allbee are insurance experts and they are more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the ACA. Dirk and Shane will be hosting informational meetings on: December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. December 9, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org OR Call them today at 918-794-0777. Dirk Hunter: dirk@theinsurancecrew.com Shane Allbee: shane@theinsurancecrew.com i the crew 420 S. Main St, Suite 205 crew EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 11 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Tulsa, OK 74103 and community. The Grateful Day Foundation: New Transportation Program Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Qrnteful .Z,A!J F 0>,ui.:r.n.da.it::ii.0>Xll. X:r.n.c _ The Grateful Day Foundation (GDF) is a local, non-profit and grassroots organization. We seek to help fill gaps in care for folks in the Tulsa area living with HIV/AIDS. We host an annual retreat for those folks as well. We are currently working on a new transportation program to help these individuals to get to and from the following care facilities: OSU Specialty Clinic Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. St. Jerome's Food Pantry The GDF is seeking volunteers for our transportation project. The requirements are simple: you just need a car, a current driver's license and auto insurance. This project is all volunteer based and only requires a few hours a month. We will plan all rides/appointments on a monthly basis to help avoid any last minute confusions. We will offer "Hot Shot" rides in special circumstances. As we grow, we will be able to encompass more ride destinations, such as physical therapy, other mental health locations, etc. Please feel free to contact Chuck Courtney with the Grateful Day Foundation at 539-664-7206 or visit their website at www.gratefulday.org if you have any questions. It's Your Center - It's Your Day Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 12 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting December 10, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 T U L S A Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Our annual meeting to discuss the Tulsa Pride Festival will be held in the Event Center at the Equality Center. If you have any questions or require more information, please contact 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 13 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Sarah Miller at sarah.miller@okeq.org or simply call the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 918-743-4297. Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and wellbeing of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 14 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu - - - - - - or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy-to-read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 15 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Healthcare Utilization Study HEALTHCARE UTILIZATION ST Those of us at the Sexual Health Research Lab at Oklahoma State University are conducting a study on LGBT Healthcare Utilization and we are needing to recruit LGBT individuals living in Oklahoma to participate. If you visit the following link here, you can take a brief pre-screening measure to see if you qualify for the study. If you do, upon completion of the study you will receive a $10 e-card from Amazon. All information collected is confidential and anonymous. All study measures have been approved by the IRB for Oklahoma State University. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "A Place at the Table: The Gay Individual in American Society" By Bruce Bawer 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 16 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Conservative cultural critic Bruce Bawer's canny appraisal of the gay rights movement calls for a more equitable place in American society for lesbians and gays. He exposes the heated controversy over gay rights and presents a passionate plea for the recognition of common values, "a place at the table" for everyone. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. A PLACE M • TH• GAY • INDIVIDUAL IN AMERICAN SOCIETY "An intelligent and eyeopening book ... smashes the common stereotypes of • IO • " r--------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6223d6e761d32f008b68ac78ad944be6.pdf 70d67220d7525c3665659c2e239c4b6d PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews November 24th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Come Home for Thanksgiving Sol Smith is sponsoring a day! World AIDS Day 2015 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Council Oak Men's Chorale PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner 2016 Award Nominations OkEq: New Trustees 2015 Falalala Ball Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. ~~I>,,. _ Sisters in Song Nimrod International Journal I.C.A.O. Presents: "The Voices in My Head" ACA Open Enrollment Assistance TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 Grateful Day Foundation 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 It's Your Center - It's Your Day SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting OSU Research Project "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Come Home for Thanksgiving November 26, 12:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Pride Store Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Gordon George will be providing turkeys for the community meal. David Dees and Club Majestic will be providing hams. Sol Smith is sponsoring a day! Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, December 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Thursday, November 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sol Smith has made a generous donation to sponsor the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, November 26. Sol is sponsoring the day in honor of the Thanksgiving holiday. Thank you, Sol! OkEq Art Exhibit The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by May Fang & Jason Lochhart. If you are interested in making a donation to sponsor the Equality Center for your special day, click here. 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... World AIDS Day 2015 December 1, 2015, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 World AIDS Day is held on the 1st of December each year and is an opportunity for people worldwide to unite in the fight against HIV and AIDS, show their support for people living with HIV and to commemorate those who we have lost to the virus. Globally, an estimated 34 million people have HIV. More than 35 million people have died from the virus, making it one of the most destructive pandemics in history. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Today, many scientific advances have been made in HIV/AIDS treatment, there are laws to protect people living with the virus and we now understand so much more about the condition. However, despite this, many do not know the facts about how to protect themselves and others from HIV, and stigma and discrimination remain a reality for many people living with HIV. World AIDS Day is important as it reminds the public that HIV has not gone away - there is still a vital need to raise money, increase awareness, fight prejudice and improve education. At the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, we will be hosting the Council Oak Men's Chorale and Eric Himan on World AIDS Day. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Council Oak Men's Chorale Thurday, December 3 Friday, December 4 Tuesday, December 8 501 S. Cincinnati Ave, 8:00 p.m. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org ©ecem6er 3r~ 4tli &stli <Trinity 'Episcopaf Cliurcli - 8:00pm 501 S. Cincinnati}f:ve - 'I'uCsa, ot The Council Oak Men's Chorale will be presenting their annual holiday concert in three upcoming performances . The concert, entitled "Echoes of December", will feature a number of traditional holiday numbers, such as "I Wonder as I Wander" , "Masters in this Hall" , and "God Rest You Merry Gentlemen" , along with more contemporary fare, including "It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year" , "Little Saint Nick" , and more. Tickets are $20 and may be purchased through www.counciloak.org , or at the door. Early Special Ticket price before November 15 is "Buy 2 tickets for the price of 1". So hurry and get your tickets! Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner December 11, 5:30 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org - - - SAVE THE DATE! Please join PFLAG Tulsa for their annual holiday dinner. Bring friends, family and a dish to share for their potluck dinner. SOS Group PFl!AG 2016 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Contact Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org with your nominations. OkEq: New Trustees Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to announce the appointment of three new trustees for the Board of Trustees. They will be serving a three year term along with the currently serving trustees. New Trustees: SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Shawna Baker Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. David Nelson Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Kris Wilmes Present Trustees: 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Get F.I.T. Paul Allen Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach :>j;Eake ACla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dan Burnstein We wish to thank Sue Welch and Mark Frost for having completed six years of service on the Board of Trustees. Thank you, Sue and Mark, for your sacrifice and service to Oklahomans for Equality. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Sue Welch 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Mark Frost 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 ttolla-T. H. E.Y. Yhrz '(fodrogynous Gostumrz :Ball Don your androgynous apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! This year's theme is An Androgynous Costume Ball. Please pull out your androgynous holiday dress and business casual. Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Cash Bar Live Bands Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes Child Care Provided For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Sisters in Song Present: Hope, Peace & Joy December 19, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Sisters ltt Sott5 britt5s t1oi. Hope. Peace &Jo\1 attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 2015 Lambda Al-Anon Group PM fURDAY Every Friday 7 p.m. FEU.OW&UIP CoNGREGATIONAL C#URCU LJNrrED C#URC# OF C#RIST 2900 Souru 1./ARVARO AIE TULSA ADMISSION $15 Nevermore Edits Clm.DREN FREE Every Friday 7:00 pm Sisters in Song will be performing their Christmas concert entitled "Hope, Peace and Joy". They will be presenting several new works you've not heard before like "The Christmas Shopping Blues" and "Cold and Fugue" along with your favorites like "Sleigh Ride" and "Santa Baby". Soloists include Linda Paul on the harp, a Miriam Childers and Sue Bennett vocal duo, Jane Duenner and friend with a vocal duo, and our SIS Quartet Ensemble performing two acapella songs. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. This is a wonderful evening to get into the spirit of Christmas by slowing down and enjoying the sounds of Christmas. Refreshments will be served following the concert! For more information, contact Linda Barton Paul at 918-629-7259 or at harplinda1@gmail.com. Booking info: www.harplinda.com Booking is also available at gigmasters.com. Admission is $15; student tickets are free. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Nimrod International Journal: Call for Submissions Deadline is November 30, 2015 This year has seen a remarkable shift within the United States in relation to the gay rights movement. Nimrod International Journal has historically celebrated and championed Game Night 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... writing by people from marginalized populations, whether those be nation, ethnicity, or age. This year, we're thrilled to announce an issue devoted to writing from LGBTQIA community. For our Spring/Summer 2016 issue, Mirrors and Prisms: Writers of Marginalized Orientations and Gender Identities, Nimrod International Journal is seeking poems, short stories, and creative nonfiction pieces from writers who identify along the LGBTQIA spectrum. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information on this year's submissions requirements, click here. I.C.A.O. Presents: "The Voices in My Head" Wednesday, November 25, 10:00 p.m. - ? Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Come join Absolute Empress VIII Cheslea Ray Star and the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma for our annual "The Voices in My Head" benefit. Help us ring in the start of the holiday season as we raise money for H.O.P.E and their continuing services for our community. 21+ over only. No cover. Identification will be checked at the door. For more information, click here. ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Ends January 31, 2016 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Contact The Insurance Crew! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org g BoO,~A/1- EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Dirk Hunter and Shane Allbee are insurance experts and they are more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the ACA. Dirk and Shane will be hosting informational meetings on: December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. December 9, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OR Call them today at 918-794-0777. Dirk Hunter: dirk@theinsurancecrew.com Shane Allbee: shane@theinsurancecrew.com i the crew HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center crew 420 S. Main St, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 The Grateful Day Foundation: New Transportation Program Qrnteful .Z,A!j JP 0>1l.ll.r.n.da..tic»:r.n. ][:r.n.c. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation (GDF) is a local, non-profit and grassroots organization. We seek to help fill gaps in care for folks in the Tulsa area living with HIV/AIDS. We host an annual retreat for those folks as well. We are currently working on a new transportation program to help these individuals to get to and from the following care facilities: OSU Specialty Clinic 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 12 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. St. Jerome's Food Pantry The GDF is seeking volunteers for our transportation project. The requirements are simple: you just need a car, a current driver's license and auto insurance. This project is all volunteer based and only requires a few hours a month. We will plan all rides/appointments on a monthly basis to help avoid any last minute confusions. We will offer "Hot Shot" rides in special circumstances. As we grow, we will be able to encompass more ride destinations, such as physical therapy, other mental health locations, etc. Please feel free to contact Chuck Courtney with the Grateful Day Foundation at 539-664-7206 or visit their website at www.gratefulday.org if you have any questions. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org It's Your Center - It's Your Day Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 13 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting December 10, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 T U L S A Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Our annual meeting to discuss the Tulsa Pride Festival will be held in the Event Center at the Equality Center. If you have any questions or require more information, please contact Sarah Miller at sarah.miller@okeq.org - - - - - or simply call the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 918-743-4297. Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org ---- If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and wellbeing of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 14 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: The Work of Sonia Sniderman Thursday, December 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The December OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Sonia Sniderman. 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... She says of her work: "In the paintings in this exhibit, I try to portray the somewhat off-kilter universe of my inner vision. This is a world where the mystery, wonder, menace, and absurdity of existence is represented by animal and bird images juxtaposed with serene young men or women lost in their private thoughts." For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 16 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Long Shot" By D. Jackson Leigh Equine veterinarian Tony Greyson has always played the safe bet. That is, until she runs into a very cute, opinionated, jobless journalist. The small town of Cherokee Falls is just a pit stop for Leah Montgomery while she figures out how to put her career back on track and deal with her grandmother's slide into dementia. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... r--------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:17 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0f72df6775144b67ee77d5c35a1c54fe.pdf 7a37f92e75557cda57a94519a4f6e0b3 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews #GIVINGTUESDAY December 1st, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor World AIDS Day 2015 Gay Men's Dinner Club 2016 Award Nominations Giving Tuesday "First Thursday" Art Exhibit You have heard of Black Friday and Cyber Monday when you shop for those you love. Welcome to #GivingTuesday where you can show your love for Oklahomans for Equality by making a donation. In 2015 over 48,000 people have participated in the programs and services of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We are a vital lifeline to the heartland, please help us do more for our community. Click here to donate now. Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting Council Oak Men's Chorale PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner #Gl ~ I GTUESDAY™ The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday OkEq: New Trustees 2015 Falalala Ball Sisters in Song ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Grateful Day Foundation It's Your Center - It's Your Day OSU Research Project Pride Store Rainbow Library Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. -~""- ~ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD - TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR World AIDS Day 2015 December 1, 2015, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... World AIDS Day is held on the 1st of December each year and is an opportunity for people worldwide to unite in the fight against HIV and AIDS, show their support for people living with HIV and to commemorate those who we have lost to the virus. Globally, an estimated 34 million people have HIV. More than 35 million people have died from the virus, making it one of the most destructive pandemics in history. Today, many scientific advances have been made in HIV/AIDS treatment, there are laws to protect people living with the virus and we now understand so much more about the condition. However, despite this, many do not know the facts about how to protect themselves and others from HIV, and stigma and discrimination remain a reality for many people living with HIV. World AIDS Day is important as it reminds the public that HIV has not gone away - there is still a vital need to raise money, increase awareness, fight prejudice and improve education. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. At the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, we will be hosting the Council Oak Men's Chorale and Eric Himan on World AIDS Day. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, December 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The Decemberexhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Sonia Sniderman. Gay Men's Dinner Group December 1st, 6:30pm Marleys Chicago Style Pizza 6104 E. 71st St. Tulsa, OK 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Gay Men's Dinner Club is a . -· -· -· >:-~:-_:-------:-·'" -·-· social group for Men who identify as Gay and Bisexual and or Transgender Male. This months event will ., ., -· P I Z Z ERI R be held at Marley's Chicago Style Pizza, 6104 E. 71st St. Tulsa, OK. It is located on the southwest corner of 71st and Sheridan on the upper level. Please RSVP to Richard Haley by emailing: GuysDineToo@gmail.com )MARifY~~ir .J .I .... _.. _.. ... _.. _ .. -::---· # -.,., --.......::: • _ , . . , .. - • - " - "' - "' - .. •-· '" - · - · - _ .. _ .. 2016 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Contact Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org with your nominations. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: The Work of Sonia Sniderman Thursday, December 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The December OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Sonia Sniderman. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Counseling Services She says of her work: "In the paintings in this exhibit, I try to portray the somewhat off-kilter universe of my inner vision. This is a world where the mystery, wonder, menace, and absurdity of existence is represented by animal and bird images juxtaposed with serene young men or women lost in their private thoughts." Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Counseling Services For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Council Oak Men's Chorale Thurday, December 3 Friday, December 4 Tuesday, December 8 501 S. Cincinnati Ave, 8:00 p.m. Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group (J)ecem6er 3r~ 4tli &stli 'Trinity <EpiscopafCli.urcli - 8:00pm 501 S. Cincinnati)f:ve - 'I'uCsa, Ol The Council Oak Men's Chorale will be presenting their annual holiday concert in three upcoming performances . The concert, entitled "Echoes of December", will feature a number of traditional holiday numbers, such as "I Wonder as I Wander" , "Masters in this Hall" , and "God Rest You Merry Gentlemen" , along with more contemporary fare, including "It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year" , "Little Saint Nick" , and more. Tickets are $20 and may be purchased through www.counciloak.org , or at the door. Early Special Ticket price before November 15 is "Buy 2 tickets for the price of 1". So hurry and get your tickets! For more information, please contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting December 10, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 T U L S A A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Our annual meeting to discuss the Tulsa Pride Festival will be held in the Event Center at the Equality Center. If you have any questions or require more information, please contact Sarah Miller at sarah.miller@okeq.org or simply call the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 918-743-4297. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner December 11, 5:30 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 SAVE THE DATE! SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Please join PFLAG Tulsa for their annual holiday dinner. Bring friends, family and a dish to share for their potluck dinner. PFLAG OkEq: New Trustees Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to announce the appointment of three new trustees for the Board of Trustees. They will be serving a three year term along with the currently serving trustees. New Trustees: Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Shawna Baker Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Get F.I.T. David Nelson Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach :>j;Eake ACla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Kris Wilmes Present Trustees: Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Paul Allen 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Dan Burnstein We wish to thank Sue Welch and Mark Frost for having completed six years of service on the Board of Trustees. Thank you, Sue and Mark, for your sacrifice and service to Oklahomans for Equality. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. Sue Welch For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach Mark Frost Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 ttolla-T. H. E.Y. attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Party with a PurpO$lZ Every Friday 7 p.m. Don your holiday apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Nevermore Edits Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Cash Bar Live Bands Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes Child Care Provided Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Sisters in Song Present: Hope, Peace & Joy Survivors of Incest Anonymous December 19, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Sisters ltt Sott5 britt5s \10lf Hope. Peace &Jo\1 2015 Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org PM fURDAY l=EU.OW$II/P CoNGREGATIONAL C#URCU UNffEO DIUR°' OF DIRIST 2900 Souru 14ARVARD /4/E TUI.SA ADMISSION $15 CJ.ilLDREN FREE www..dWeu!Jn,do"fJ. lil ;_,,fa @bw.lU Sisters in Song will be performing their Christmas concert entitled "Hope, Game Night 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Peace and Joy". They will be presenting several new works you've not heard before like "The Christmas Shopping Blues" and "Cold and Fugue" along with your favorites like "Sleigh Ride" and "Santa Baby". Soloists include Linda Paul on the harp, a Miriam Childers and Sue Bennett vocal duo, Jane Duenner and friend with a vocal duo, and our SIS Quartet Ensemble performing two acapella songs. This is a wonderful evening to get into the spirit of Christmas by slowing down and enjoying the sounds of Christmas. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Refreshments will be served following the concert! For more information, contact Linda Barton Paul at 918-629-7259 or at harplinda1@gmail.com. Booking info: www.harplinda.com Booking is also available at gigmasters.com. Admission is $15; student tickets are free. ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Ends January 31, 2016 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Contact The Insurance Crew! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Dirk Hunter and Shane Allbee are insurance experts and they are more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the ACA. Dirk and Shane will be hosting informational meetings on: December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. December 9, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. OR Call them today at 918-794-0777. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Dirk Hunter: dirk@theinsurancecrew.com Shane Allbee: shane@theinsurancecrew.com and community. i the crew crew 420 S. Main St, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point The Grateful Day Foundation: New Transportation Program Qrnteful .Z,A!J F c0>1ULltllda.it::ii.CJ>:irn. X:irn.c:. The Grateful Day Foundation (GDF) is a local, non-profit and grassroots organization. We seek to help fill gaps in care for folks in the Tulsa area living with HIV/AIDS. We host an annual retreat for those folks as well. Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm We are currently working on a new transportation program to help these individuals to get to and from the following care facilities: Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing OSU Specialty Clinic Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. St. Jerome's Food Pantry Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. The GDF is seeking volunteers for our transportation project. The requirements are simple: you just need a car, a current driver's license and auto insurance. This project is all volunteer based and only requires a few hours a month. We will plan all rides/appointments on a monthly basis to help avoid any last minute confusions. We will offer "Hot Shot" rides in special circumstances. As we grow, we will be able to encompass more ride destinations, such as physical therapy, other mental health locations, etc. Please feel free to contact Chuck Courtney with the Grateful Day Foundation at 539-664-7206 or visit their website at www.gratefulday.org if you have any questions. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. It's Your Center - It's Your Day 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Olivia Cotter Office Manager olivia.cotter@OkEq.org Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and wellbeing of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org We are a research team 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Construction of Homosexuality" By David F. Greenberg "At various times, homosexuality has been considered the noblest of loves, a horrible sin, a psychological condition or grounds for torture and execution. David F. Greenberg's careful, encyclopedic and important new book argues that homosexuality is only deviant because society has constructed, or defined, it as deviant. The book takes us over vast terrains of example and detail in the history of homosexuality."-Nicholas B. Dirks, New York Times Book Review 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r--------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:17 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4823513b24e011131b64fca2d68e6d4d.pdf e6a3b02719daa51d225e146f5b282d3b PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner EBA Mixer 2015 Falalala Ball Gamily Holiday Party The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday 2016 Award Nominations Sisters in Song ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Grateful Day Foundation Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. It's Your Center - It's Your Day OSU Research Project "First Thursday" Art Exhibit OkEq night at Sisserou's Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Karaoke for a Kause .4.J~llll,,,. . TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 Pride Store 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD - TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - Rainbow Library LEATHER REPAIR PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner December 11, 5:30 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 SAVE THE DATE! Join PFLAG Tulsa for their annual holiday dinner. Reception will be at 5:30 pm, Dinner at 6:00pm. Everyone is invited. Please bring a dish to share, PFLAG Tulsa will provide the turkey, paper goods and utensils. Joyous holiday entertainment will be performed by Sisters in Song and Council Oak Men's Chorale. V PFLAG TULSA CHAPTER EBA Mixer Wednesday, December 16, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC, 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 7411 4 Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... E UALITY Business Alliance Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. The December EBA mixer will be hosted by Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC. At Fellowship, we're attracted to an inclusive faith that takes the Christian tradition seriously without needing it to be superior to something else. We strive for compassionate community, honest questions and meaningful dialogue about the mysteries of living life. We don't think that we have to believe alike in order to be together, but we do believe in a few of the same things - inclusion, compassion, justice and grace. 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, December 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The Decemberexhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Sonia Sniderman. t1o11a-T. H. E.Y. Party with e Purpossz Don your holiday apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Cash Bar Live Bands Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes Child Care Provided 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gamily Holiday Party December 19, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 While the big kids party downstairs Gamily will be rocking upstairs. We will have music, crafts, snacks, games, dancing and a visit from Santa Claus. Parents can attend the Falalala Ball while children enjoy family friendly holiday fun. For more information or to RSVP please contact Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 olivia.cotter@okeq.org The Gamily is a group of, and for, gay families in the Tulsa area, and those who support them. 2016 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Contact Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org with your nominations. Sisters in Song Present: Hope, Peace & Joy December 19, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... Sisters ltt Sotts brittgs \10U Hore, Pc~cc &Jo'1 2015 PM SATURDAY FELJ.OW&HIP CoNGREGATTONAL C#URCH UNrrEO C#URC# OF C#RIST 2900 SOI.JTU I-IARVARO AvE TULSA ADMISSION $15 CHIWREN FREE Sisters in Song will be performing their Christmas concert entitled "Hope, Peace and Joy". Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org They will be presenting several new works you've not heard before like "The Christmas Shopping Blues" and "Cold and Fugue" along with your favorites like "Sleigh Ride" and "Santa Baby". Soloists include Linda Paul on the harp, a Miriam Childers and Sue Bennett vocal duo, Jane Duenner and friend with a vocal duo, and our SIS Quartet Ensemble performing two acapella songs. This is a wonderful evening to get into the spirit of Christmas by slowing down and enjoying the sounds of Christmas. Refreshments will be served following the concert! Counseling Services For more information, contact Linda Barton Paul at 918-629-7259 or at harplinda1@gmail.com. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org ----- Booking info: www.harplinda.com Booking is also available at gigmasters.com. Admission is $15; student tickets are free. ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Ends January 31, 2016 SOS Group Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Contact The Insurance Crew! Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Dirk Hunter and Shane Allbee are insurance experts and they are more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the ACA. 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Dirk and Shane will be hosting informational meetings on: December 9, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. OR Call them today at 918-794-0777. Dirk Hunter: dirk@theinsurancecrew.com Shane Allbee: shane@theinsurancecrew.com i the crew crew 420 S. Main St, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 The Grateful Day Foundation: New Transportation Program SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Qrnteful .,2.')A!J JF <011.JL:Dl.d&.ti0>:irn. :fi:.:Dl.c. The Grateful Day Foundation (GDF) is a local, non-profit and grassroots organization. We seek to help fill gaps in care for folks in the Tulsa area living with HIV/AIDS. We host an annual retreat for those folks as well. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage ServJCes and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders We are currently working on a new transportation program to help these individuals to get to and from the following care facilities: OSU Specialty Clinic Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. St. Jerome's Food Pantry The GDF is seeking volunteers for our transportation project. The requirements are simple: you just need a car, a current driver's license and auto insurance. This project is all volunteer based and only requires a few hours a month. We will plan all rides/appointments on a monthly basis to help avoid any last minute confusions. We will offer "Hot Shot" rides in special circumstances. As we grow, we will be able to encompass more ride destinations, such as physical therapy, other mental health locations, etc. Please feel free to contact Chuck Courtney with the Grateful Day Foundation at Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... 539-664-7206 or visit their website at www.gratefulday.org if you have any questions. It's Your Center - It's Your Day every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. i!:l r ::j OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: "A Sense of Wonder..." featuring the works of Dave Muller Thursday, January 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Dave Muller in a show titled "A Sense of Wonder..." beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Dave Muller is a (recently retired) geologist and photographer with a passion for wildlife and landscape photography. Dave's photographs have been honored in local, state, and regional competitions. Dave has been an invited artist for the last two Tulsa MayFest Invitational Gallery exhibitions. He lived in and attended school in Iceland long ago, and remains reasonably fluent in Icelandic several decades later - he has led photographic trips to Iceland, the desert southwest, and around Oklahoma's Green Country, and he has lectured on a variety of photography-related topics at local and regional photographer gatherings. Dave's exhibit primarily focuses on the beauty in the natural world. Images in "A Sense of Wonder..." include canvas, metal, and traditional framed prints of landscapes and wildlife from Iceland, the desert southwest, and Northeastern Oklahoma. The goal of Dave's imagery is to encourage a sense of delight and awe in the beauty that surrounds us and to foster a sense of wonder at the magnificence in our world. Dave's images capture details we tend to miss - things that we are not aware of or overlook. For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Dave Says of his work: "I hope that viewers of these images will have their spirits buoyed and their senses sharpened as they anticipate and prepare for their future encounters with the natural world". Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. OkEq night at Sisserou's January 11, 11:00 a.m.-11:00 p.m. 107 North Boulder, Tulsa, OK 74103 It is OkEq night at Sisserou's 107 North Boulder with the entrance on North Main. 10% of the proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality. Located in Tulsa's Brady Arts District, Survivors of Incest Anonymous 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 9 of 12 Sisserou's Restaurant concept is inspired by the colorful cuisine of the island of Dominica, the Nature Isle of the Caribbean. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... A TASTE OF THE CAJtI••EAN Karaoke for a Kause December 20, 10:00 p.m.- 2:00 a.m. New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St, Tulsa, OK 74119 Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be hosting New Age Renegade's December's "Karaoke for a Kause". Benefiting - Youth Services of Tulsa. Sunday, December 20, 2015 - 10 pm at New Age Renegade. 21+, No Cover EmCee - Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Starr 100% of all tips collected during each performance will go to the Kause. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno ICAO is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization www.impcourtok.org Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "A Secret Edge" By Robin Reardon The one place Jason feels comfortable is on the track where he can run fast and hard. He loves the feel of the wind at his back, of his legs propelling him furiously around, the roar of the crowd in his ears. But now, even his sanctuary feels threatening. It isn't just the jerks who call him "faggot" in the locker room. A new guy has joined the team, and everything about him will challenge the way Jason sees life. From latenight showings of "La Cage Aux Folles" to reading Gandhi, he's running a new race on an uncertain course, and only one thing's for sure-his senior year is going to be unforgettable. With A Secret Edge, Robin Reardon delivers a sexy, sensitive coming-of-age novel about identity and courage, love and honor, anger and hope, and the many ways the truth can really set you free. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201.. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager olivia.cotter@OkEq.org ---- Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ---- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~---------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6721668e6fc9da4a4fbd6f5a8620e0de.pdf add7bba1332095928d226882af27abd6 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 2015 Falalala Ball Gamily Holiday Party EBA Mixer The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Sisters in Song Article Headline GLSEN Donation It's Your Center - It's Your Day OSU Research Project Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit OkEq night at Sisserou's Karaoke for a Kause Pride Store Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Rainbow Library .41-~1>,,. . TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD - TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 tlolla-T. H. E.Y. Party with a Purpo~!Z Don your holiday apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Live Performances by: Robbie Dee Ewens - Renowned Violinist Ben Matthews - Acoustic Guitarist Emiliano Bonilla - Beefcake Bodybuilder Grant Massey - Acoustic Guitarist Mr. and Mrs. Claus Cash Bar Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes: Weekend Stay at The Hyatt Regency Pizza Oven Janet Jackson Tickets Restaurant Tour Gift Package And More Holiday Wreath Auction Child Care Provided For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gamily Holiday Pajama Party on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, December 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. December 19, 6:30 p.m.- 10:30p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Art Exhibit While the big kids party downstairs Gamily will be rocking upstairs in our jammies. So put your PJ's on and get ready for fun! We will have holiday music and karaoke, crafts, snacks, games, dancing and a visit from Santa Claus. The best part is, every child gets a puppy to take home! The Decemberexhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Sonia Sniderman. Parents can attend the Falalala Ball while children enjoy family friendly holiday fun. For more information or to RSVP please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org The Gamily is a group of, and for, gay families in the Tulsa area, and those who support them. EBA Mixer Wednesday, December 16, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC, 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 7411 4 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... E UALITY no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Business Alliance The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - - for more information. The December EBA mixer will be hosted by Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC. At Fellowship, we're attracted to an inclusive faith that takes the Christian tradition seriously without needing it to be superior to something else. We strive for compassionate community, honest questions and meaningful dialogue about the mysteries of living life. We don't think that we have to believe alike in order to be together, but we do believe in a few of the same things - inclusion, compassion, justice and grace. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Sisters in Song Present: Hope, Peace & Joy December 19, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Counseling Services Sisters ltt Sotts britt5s \10U Hope, Peace &Joli 2015 PM Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org ---- SATURDAY FEU..OWSUIP CiJNGllEGATIONAL C#URCSI UNffEO UIURC# OF UIRl&r 2900 Sol/rU 1-/ARVARO /JVE TULSA ADMISSION $15 °'/LOREN FREE Sisters in Song will be performing their Christmas concert entitled "Hope, Peace and Joy". They will be presenting several new works you've not heard before like "The Christmas Shopping Blues" and "Cold and Fugue" along with your favorites like "Sleigh Ride" and Counseling Services 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... "Santa Baby". Soloists include Linda Paul on the harp, a Miriam Childers and Sue Bennett vocal duo, Jane Duenner and friend with a vocal duo, and our SIS Quartet Ensemble performing two acapella songs. This is a wonderful evening to get into the spirit of Christmas by slowing down and enjoying the sounds of Christmas. Refreshments will be served following the concert! Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org For more information, contact Linda Barton Paul at 918-629-7259 or at harplinda1@gmail.com. Booking info: www.harplinda.com Booking is also available at gigmasters.com. Admission is $15; student tickets are free. The Danish Girl Viewing Event January 1, 6:00 p.m. Reception and Discussion, 7:00p.m. Viewing Circle Cinema 12 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104 Join Oklahomans for Equality along with Circle Cinema at the viewing event of THE DANISH GIRL. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org As well as our amazing guests for an astonishing discussion on the film and today's transgender issues. Medical Expert, Dr. Laura Arrowsmith Mental Health Expert, Taylor Burns and Transgender Legal Expert, Alyssa Bryant Academy Award winner Eddie Redmayne stars as the Danish artist who was one of the first recipients of sexual reassignment surgery in the1920s. The remarkable love story inspired by the lives of Lili Elbe and Gerda Wegender, is expertly adapted for the screen by Oscar winning director Tom Hooper. Lili and Gerda's marriage and painting evolve as they navigate Lili's groundbreaking journey as a transgender pioneer. Click here to purchase tickets. GLSEN Book Donation SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library received it's largest single donation to date, this month. Jerry Custer, our volunteer librarian, is thrilled to add over 100 new titles to our library catalog. 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... We would like to extend a huge THANK YOU to Gay, Lesbian, Straight Education Network (GLSEN) and to all the book donors this month! Your generous donations provide resources to educate, advocate and entertain our LGBT community. It's Your Center - It's Your Day SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Service!i and Advoc,,cy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Find out more information here. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: "A Sense of Wonder..." featuring the works of Dave Muller Thursday, January 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... Yoga by Zach ::>jJ,ake A Cla~~t::<: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Dave Muller in a show titled "A Sense of Wonder..." beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Dave Muller is a (recently retired) geologist and photographer with a passion for wildlife and landscape photography. Dave's photographs have been honored in local, state, and regional competitions. Dave has been an invited artist for the last two Tulsa MayFest Invitational Gallery exhibitions. He lived in and attended school in Iceland long ago, and remains reasonably fluent in Icelandic several decades later - he has led photographic trips to Iceland, the desert southwest, and around Oklahoma's Green Country, and he has lectured on a variety of photography-related topics at local and regional photographer gatherings. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Dave's exhibit primarily focuses on the beauty in the natural world. Images in "A Sense of Wonder..." include canvas, metal, and traditional framed prints of landscapes and wildlife from Iceland, the desert southwest, and Northeastern Oklahoma. The goal of Dave's imagery is to encourage a sense of delight and awe in the beauty that surrounds us and to foster a sense of wonder at the magnificence in our world. Dave's images capture details we tend to miss - things that we are not aware of or overlook. Dave Says of his work: "I hope that viewers of these images will have their spirits buoyed and their senses sharpened as they anticipate and prepare for their future encounters with the natural world". Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net OkEq night at Sisserou's January 11, 11:00 a.m.-11:00 p.m. 107 North Boulder, Tulsa, OK 74103 Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 8 of 12 It is OkEq night at Sisserou's, 107 North Boulder, with the entrance on North Main. 10% of the proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality. Located in Tulsa's Brady Arts District, Sisserou's Restaurant concept is inspired by the colorful cuisine of the island of Dominica, the Nature Isle of the Caribbean. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... - /' ,55~,,,,-c:7P<_.• c 5 A TASTE OF THE CA• I •JJEAN . Karaoke for a Kause December 20, 10:00 p.m.- 2:00 a.m. New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St, Tulsa, OK 74119 The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be hosting New Age Renegade's December's "Karaoke for a Kause". Benefiting - Youth Services of Tulsa. Sunday, December 20, 2015 - 10 pm at New Age Renegade. 21+, No Cover EmCee - Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Starr 100% of all tips collected during each performance will go to the Kause. For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. ICAO is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization www.impcourtok.org Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Survivors of Incest Anonymous 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Almost a Woman" By Esmeralda Santiago Following the enchanting story recounted in When I Was Puerto Rican of the author's emergence from the barrios of Brooklyn to the prestigious Performing Arts High School in Manhattan, Esmeralda Santiago delivers the tale of her young adulthood, where she continually strives to find a balance between becoming American and staying Puerto Rican. While translating for her mother Mami at the welfare office in the morning, starring as Cleopatra at New York's prestigious Performing Arts High School in the afternoons, and dancing salsa all night, she begins to defy her mother's protective rules, only to find that independence brings new dangers and dilemmas. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. ALM Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno T Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20.. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager olivia.cotter@OkEq.org ---- Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ---- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~---------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:19 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/13b29f82ac5c1fdba922d1aa94f56a2f.pdf 087694c24a0aef7cb148129528d90ebd PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Special Holiday Services The Danish Girl Roughneck Roller Derby The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Ladies Social Club OkEq night at Sisserou's EBA Mixer Tulsa Pride Bingo Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Before the I Do Wild Hearts Ball It's Your Center - It's Your Day OSU Research Project Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Karaoke for a Kause .411-E!!lill1>,,. . TU LSA SHOE REBUI LDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD - TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER Pride Store Rainbow Library REPAIR ~Oklahomans For Equality Happy Holidays 2015 Holiday Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 4:30 pm, 6:00 pm & 7:30 pm Candlelight service Healthcare Navigator Every Tuesday in January from 12:00 p.m.-5:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator in the Rainbow Library She will more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 7:00 pm Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 2:00 pm Children's Service of the Bells 4:00 pm & 6:00 pm Candlelight Worship Services 11:00 pm Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24, 5:30 pm & 9:00 pm Candlelight Service Dec 25, 10:00 am Holy Communion Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. College Hill Presbyterian Church 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Christmas Eve and Candlelight Service Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candlelight Service Eastside Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 Dec 24, 6:00 pm The Episcopal Church of The Redeemer 213 North Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74447 Dec 24, 7:00 pm Christ Mass with reception to follow Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7:00 pm Christmas Eve Service OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The Decemberexhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Sonia Sniderman. Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... Dec 24, 4:00 pm, 6:00 pm & 8:00 pm First Christian Church 913 S Boulder Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24th, 10:30 pm Pre Service Music 11:00 pm Christmas Eve Service Good Shepherd Episcopal Church 1420 E Dewey Sapulpa, OK 74066 Dec 24, 5:30 Holy Eucharist, 10:30 Christmas Eve Worship Hope Unitarian 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candlelight Service Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, Celebration of Midnight Mass 10:00 pm Reception 11:00 pm Holy Eucharist Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24, 7 pm Choral Holy Eucharist 10:30 pm Carols for the Christ Child 11:00 pm Festival Choral Holy Eucharist St Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candlelight Worship & Communion Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24, 5 pm Christmas Pageant and Eucharist Rite II 5:00 pm Communion Service with Children's Pageant 8:30 pm Choral Prelude 9:00 pm Traditional Christmas Eve Service 10:30 pm Choral Prelude Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... 11:00 pm Traditional Christmas Eve Service Dec 25, 10:00 am Christmas Day Service with Carols Unity Center of Tulsa 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candle lighting service Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service Special Guest Music by Ashlee Elmore University United Methodist Church 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service of Lessons and Carols Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Kwanzaa Services (Begins Friday, December 26th) Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 27, 11:00 am, Kwanzaa Service The Danish Girl Viewing Event January 1, 6:00 p.m. Reception and Discussion, 7:00p.m. Viewing Circle Cinema 12 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Join Oklahomans for Equality along with Circle Cinema at the viewing event of THE DANISH GIRL. As well as our amazing guests for an astonishing discussion on the film and today's transgender issues. Medical Expert, Dr. Laura Arrowsmith Mental Health Expert, Taylor Burns and Transgender Legal Expert, Alyssa Bryant Academy Award winner Eddie Redmayne stars as the Danish artist who was one of the first recipients of sexual reassignment surgery in the1920s. The remarkable love story inspired by Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... the lives of Lili Elbe and Gerda Wegender, is expertly adapted for the screen by Oscar winning director Tom Hooper. Lili and Gerda's marriage and painting evolve as they navigate Lili's groundbreaking journey as a transgender pioneer. Click here to purchase tickets. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Roughneck Roller Derby December 29, 8:00 p.m.- 10:00 p.m. Route 66 Roller Dome 9661 New Sapulpa Rd, Sapulpa, OK CALLING ALL LADIES INTERESTED IN TRYING ROLLER DERBY!! Roughneck Roller Derby is hosting an open recruitment night!! The event is open to all women 18+ who would like to learn more about the sport and the league, and get all the info they need to get started in our Fresh Meat training program! The event is also for anyone interested in volunteering or reffing! Next Fresh Meat Training Program will start on Monday, January 11th, 2016. ~ ~ ROUGHNECK I Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I ROLLER DERBY I ~ TULSAOKLAHOMA'SELITE, All WOMEN, ~ ~ FLAT-TRACK ROLLER DERBY LEAGUE! ~ ~ DD YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES TD ~ ~ BE YOUR OWNHERO? ~ ~ He1e·sgou1 chance to fig out ~ ~ ~ ~ DEC ROUTE 66 mo\ ~ ~ 29 ROLLER OOME \!'.!V ~ ~ 9661 NEW SAPULPA RO, SAPULPA, OK ~ ~ NO EXPERIENCE NECESSARY,WOMEN 18• ~ ~ ~ ~ Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather No experience necessary! Seriously! We will teach you everything you need to know! "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: "A Sense of Wonder..." featuring the works of Dave Muller Thursday, January 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of every month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Dave Muller in a show titled "A Sense of Wonder..." beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Dave Muller is a (recently retired) geologist and photographer with a passion for wildlife and landscape photography. Dave's photographs have been honored in local, state, and regional competitions. Dave has been an invited artist for the last two Tulsa 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... MayFest Invitational Gallery exhibitions. He lived in and attended school in Iceland long ago, and remains reasonably fluent in Icelandic several decades later - he has led photographic trips to Iceland, the desert southwest, and around Oklahoma's Green Country, and he has lectured on a variety of photography-related topics at local and regional photographer gatherings. Dave's exhibit primarily focuses on the beauty in the natural world. Images in "A Sense of Wonder..." include canvas, metal, and traditional framed prints of landscapes and wildlife from Iceland, the desert southwest, and Northeastern Oklahoma. The goal of Dave's imagery is to encourage a sense of delight and awe in the beauty that surrounds us and to foster a sense of wonder at the magnificence in our world. Dave's images capture details we tend to miss - things that we are not aware of or overlook. Dave Says of his work: "I hope that viewers of these images will have their spirits buoyed and their senses sharpened as they anticipate and prepare for their future encounters with the natural world". SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage ServJCes and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgendor Elders The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net Ladies Social Club January 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! This brand new women's programming provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! Each month will feature different activities that will largely be driven by your own input, ladies! You're also welcome to just come and hang out with the other women if that's more your style. The LSC will meet on the second Friday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... Our first meeting is Jan. 8, and we will be playing Cards Against Humanity! If you're not familiar with this game, bring your sense of humor and remember that we can't take ourselves too seriously... but we can have some serious fun! It's BYOB, so feel free to bring your favorite bottle of wine or beer! Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. OkEq night at Sisserou's January 11, 11:00 a.m.-11:00 p.m. 107 North Boulder, Tulsa, OK 74103 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 It is OkEq night at Sisserou's, 107 North Boulder, with the entrance on North Main. 10% of the proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality. Located in Tulsa's Brady Arts District, Sisserou's Restaurant concept is inspired by the colorful cuisine of the island of Dominica, the Nature Isle of the Caribbean. Equality Business Alliance Mixer January 20, 6:00 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East Second Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 E UALITY Business Alliance Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach Take A Class The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - - for more information. EVERY SUNDAY The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. Please be advised we will validate self-parking in the attached garage. We will not be validating valet parking, only self-parking. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center @4:30 pm 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 January 29, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for a $150 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Before the I Do February 6, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 "Before The I Do" gives couples practical tools to use now or later on when you need them. The workshop covers 3 keys to a great relationship, how to work as a team to solve conflict, how to keep the romance alive and much more. The SpeakerListener technique helps each of you to be heard in times of stress and is a crowd favorite. Whether For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you WILL benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfying relationships! Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality on February 6th from noon to 4pm. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carrie@protectioncoalition.org to reserve your space today. education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm Wild Hearts Ball Presents: Second Chance Prom February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Oklahomans for Equality is throwing a party, and you are invited. If you remember your prom and/or if you want a chance to do it again, this is it! Dust off those old prom dresses and tuxedos, or come with a totally new and funky creation of your own. Finally attend the prom you dreamed of. Dance the night away as you enjoy 2 decks of MAX music. Cheesy blue ruffled tuxedos, poofy taffeta dresses, clichéd themes, color coordinated corsages, sweaty palms, plenty of dad's AquaVelva, awkward slow dancing, plush ride for the big night, the obligatory staged photo... All of it adds up to one word: PROM! Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org T he Second Chance Prom is your opportunity to experience a prom and take the person we really want to go with and come dressed as we're most comfortable. Many of us were unable to go with the person we really wanted to go with to our high school prom. At this event, everyone can feel free to bring who they wish and dress how they want. It's Your Center - It's Your Day Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... of health and well-being. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Karaoke for a Kause December 20, 10:00 p.m.- 2:00 a.m. New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St, Tulsa, OK 74119 HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be hosting New Age Renegade's December's "Karaoke for a Kause". Benefiting - Youth Services of Tulsa. Sunday, December 20, 2015 - 10 pm at New Age Renegade. 21+, No Cover EmCee - Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Starr 100% of all tips collected during each performance will go to the Kause. 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ICAO is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization www.impcourtok.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager olivia.cotter@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ._ ~Ii ~-!!iFl -.. - , :'.·.:. - ! ' :1 ·. ,.._ ~ Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Coming Out Spiritually: The Next Step" By Christian de la Huerta In these times of dramatic social change, when the highly charged issue of homosexuality is undeniably causing controversy in many arenas--religion, marriage, politics, education, the military-Christian de la Huerta, founder and director of Q-Spirit, offers a fresh outlook on gay spirituality and how to assert it. A spiritual awakening is occurring in the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered community, as PIRITU\LL\ C O t-.1 I . C O ll 'I in much of the world. In this encompassing guidebook, de la Huerta looks at Buddhism, Christianity, Judaism, Hinduism, Taoism, Sufism, New Thought, New Age, and Earthbased religions, including Native American. Cogently investigating these traditions' attitudes, teachings, and policies toward homosexuality, the author gives the queer reader a foundation from which to begin building a spiritual connection. Coming Out (" h r , , t , u II d , I " II r t <1 Spiritually also synthesizes ten spiritual fort'fli·nr<l 1,.,. tilltbcw l x roles or archetypes people we now call gay or queer have often assumed and continue to enact today: creators of beauty, consciousness scouts, mediators, shamans, and healers, among others. Drawing on these models while acting as a guide to the queer community, the author shows how to look deeper inside; to reach higher than ever before; to step forth more fully into a rightful self. An impassioned call to action, Coming Out Spiritually alternatively touches, challenges, encourages, and supports the queer community to fully reclaim its spiritual heritage. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. ,. - - okeq L- --, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org --. 4/23/26, 5:20 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b10bec36560445e26366bc1fbeb6235c.pdf 041dc32f17c6e08cdebac4a45ad5745e PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Dr. and Mrs. Kastl The Danish Girl "First Thursday" Art Exhibit The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Ladies Social Club OkEq night at Sisserou's MLK Parade EBA Mixer Tulsa Pride Bingo Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. The Empress' Ball Before the I Do Wild Hearts Ball Gamily Valentines Party Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Get in Shape dfP.!!lllll~ . TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD - TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR OSU Research Project Pride Store Rainbow Library Dr. and Mrs. Kastl are sponsoring the day! Thursday, December 31 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Lorie and Judy Kastl have made a generous donation to sponsor the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, December 31st . They are sponsoring the day in honor of the New Years Eve holiday. Thank you ladies! OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... If you are interested in making a donation to sponsor the Equality Center for your special day, click here. The Decemberexhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Sonia Sniderman. The Danish Girl Viewing Event January 1, 6:00 p.m. Reception and Discussion Prior to the Film 7:00p.m. Viewing of The Danish Girl Circle Cinema 12 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104 Join Oklahomans for Equality along with Circle Cinema at the viewing event of THE DANISH GIRL. As well as our amazing guests for an astonishing discussion on the film and today's transgender issues prior to the veiwing. Mental Health Expert, Taylor Burns and Transgender Legal Expert, Alyssa Bryant Academy Award winner Eddie Redmayne stars as the Danish artist who was one of the first recipients of sexual reassignment surgery in the1920s. The remarkable love story inspired by the lives of Lili Elbe and Gerda Wegender, is expertly adapted for the screen by Oscar winning director Tom Hooper. Lili and Gerda's marriage and painting evolve as they navigate Lili's groundbreaking journey as a transgender pioneer. Click here to purchase tickets. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: "A Sense of Wonder..." featuring the works of Dave Muller Thursday, January 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Dave Muller in a show titled "A Sense of Wonder..." beginning with a 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Dave Muller is a (recently retired) geologist and photographer with a passion for wildlife and landscape photography. Dave's photographs have been honored in local, state, and regional competitions. Dave has been an invited artist for the last two Tulsa MayFest Invitational Gallery exhibitions. He lived in and attended school in Iceland long ago, and remains reasonably fluent in Icelandic several decades later - he has led photographic trips to Iceland, the desert southwest, and around Oklahoma's Green Country, and he has lectured on a variety of photography-related topics at local and regional photographer gatherings. Dave's exhibit primarily focuses on the beauty in the natural world. Images in "A Sense of Wonder..." include canvas, metal, and traditional framed prints of landscapes and wildlife from Iceland, the desert southwest, and Northeastern Oklahoma. The goal of Dave's imagery is to encourage a sense of delight and awe in the beauty that surrounds us and to foster a sense of wonder at the magnificence in our world. Dave's images capture details we tend to miss - things that we are not aware of or overlook. Dave Says of his work: "I hope that viewers of these images will have their spirits buoyed and their senses sharpened as they anticipate and prepare for their future encounters with the natural world". Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Healthcare Navigator Every Tuesday in January from 12:00 p.m.-5:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Ladies Social Club January 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! This brand new women's programming provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! 0 •~•••m••• ••• """"" om••" ~Dl[S all LGBT&ally women welcome SO(IAl (lUD 2nd fridavs of the momh 6-0pm coming january 8, 2016 Each month will feature different activities that will largely be driven by your own input, ladies! You're also welcome to just come and hang out to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... with the other women if that's more your style. The LSC will meet on the second Friday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Saturdays By appointment Our first meeting is Jan. 8, and we will be playing Cards Against Humanity! If you're not familiar with this game, bring your sense of humor and remember that we can't take ourselves too seriously... but we can have some serious fun! It's BYOB, so feel free to bring your favorite bottle of wine or beer! Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OkEq night at Sisserou's January 11, 11:00 a.m.-11:00 p.m. 107 North Boulder, Tulsa, OK 74103 It is OkEq night at Sisserou's, 107 North Boulder, with the entrance on North Main. 10% of the proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality. Located in Tulsa's Brady Arts District, Sisserou's Restaurant concept is inspired by the colorful cuisine of the island of Dominica, the Nature Isle of the Caribbean. Counseling Services - , ,:s.5 ~,,r-c;::,P<,,. .• c:5 A TASTE OF TH E CAR J ••EAN . MLK Jr. Day Parade "One Race: The Human Race" January 18, 10:00 a.m. - Meet at the Center, 11:00 a.m. Parade Begins Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Counseling Services Tulsa, Oklahoma holds one of the largest MLK parades in the United States to commemorate the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Oklahomans for Equality will be marching with the rainbow flag and we invite you come join us. We will meet at the center at 10 a.m. and carpool to the starting line. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer January 20, 6:00 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East Second Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... E UALITY Business Alliance Counseling Services The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. Please be advised we will only validate self-parking in the attached garage. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 January 29, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for a $150 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. The Empress' Ball - An Imperial Masquerade Januaray 30, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa , Oklahoma 74120 The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Benefiting the ICAO Operational Fund Dress Code - Formal or Theme $20.00 Donation at the door includes Open Bar Lesser Value Donations at the door can purchase Drink Tickets for $5.00 Live entertainment provided by the Empresses. Music by DJ Scandal (Absolute Emperor II Adrian) Awards will be presented to Best Dressed / Best in Theme For more information contact impcourtok@gmail.com Before the I Do February 6, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 "Before The I Do" gives couples practical tools to use now or later on when you need them. The workshop covers 3 keys to a great relationship, how to work as a team to solve conflict, how to keep the romance alive and much more. The SpeakerListener technique helps each of you to be heard in times of stress and is a crowd favorite. Whether you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you WILL benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfying relationships! Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality on February 6th from noon to 4pm. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carrie@protectioncoalition.org to reserve your space today. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage ScrvJCcs and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Trans.gender Eldcrs Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Wild Hearts Ball Presents: Second Chance Prom February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Admission is a donation to the capital fund for renovations to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Oklahomans for Equality is throwing a party, and you are invited. If you remember your prom and/or if you want a chance to do it again, this is it! Dust off those old prom dresses and tuxedos, or come with a totally new and funky creation of your own. Finally you can attend the prom you dreamed of. Dance the night away to mix of music from the 70's, 80's, 90's and 00's. Cheesy blue ruffled tuxedos, poofy taffeta dresses, clichéd themes, color coordinated corsages, sweaty palms, plenty of dad's AquaVelva, awkward slow dancing, plush ride for the big night, the obligatory staged photo... All of it adds up to one word: PROM! T he Second Chance Prom is your opportunity to experience a prom and take the person we really want to go with and come dressed as we're most comfortable. Many of us were unable to go with the person we really wanted to go with to our high school prom. At this event, everyone can feel free to bring who they wish and dress how they want. Admission is a donation to the capital fund for renovations to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The event will also include: Cash Bar Light Hors d'oeuvres Amazing Raffle Prizes Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session Yoga by Zach Entertainment and childcare will be available upstairs in the wellness room. Gamily Presents "Happy Hearts Day" February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Gamily will be throwing a Happy Hearts Day party upstairs during the Wild Hearts Ball. There will be crafts, snacks, music, and lots of glitter! Parents and guardians can drop the children off and enjoy the prom while the kids play, create and dance to their happy hearts content in the wellness room. To RSVP please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org. ::>j;Eake A Cla~~t::<: EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Make Your New Years Resolution To Get Fit Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several fitness programs available to help you work off those extra holiday pounds. Classes include Get F.I.T. every Monday and Wednesday 6:00-7:00 p.m., Yoga by Zach every Sunday at 4:30 p.m., and Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance every 4th Sunday of the month at 1:00 p.m. Classes are only $5.00 per session so you can work out without breaking the bank. Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Gender Outreach You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Out, Loud, & Laughing" By Charles Flowers Gays in the military. Lesbian parents taking their kids to school. Gay and lesbian couples getting married. Everywhere you turn gay and lesbian Americans are in the news and more often than not, at the center of some controversy, some debate about tolerance and civil rights, where anger and hatred rule the day. What's amazing is how gays and lesbians continue to survive without losing their self-respect, their courage, or most surprisingly, their sense of humor. Out, Loud, & Laughing features fifteen of today's funniest gay and lesbian humorists, from stand up comics like Kate Clinton and Frank Maya, to the performance work of the Pomo Afro Homos (Postmodern African-American Homosexuals) and Marga Gomez, to the queer Addison and Steele of the 1990s, Frank DeCaro and David Sedaris. In many ways, gay and lesbian humor is no different from heterosexual comedy, but the material does raise a few eyebrows: the insufferable Jesse Helms, the military ban ("be all you can be ...but in private"), living up to the Lesbian Chic, the trauma of gay male dating rituals, body piercing ("sometimes a fashion statement is a cry for help"), coming out to parents ("Mom, would you please pass the potatoes to a homosexual"), and so much more. By rejecting stereotypes and playing with differences, gay and lesbian humor not only entertains, but educates by disarming ignorance and fear and the homophobia they Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... engender. To that end, a portion of all proceeds from this book will be donated to Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS, the organization that, among other projects, initiated and promoted the "red ribbon" campaign for AIDS awareness. Hilarious and socially minded, Out, Loud, & Laughing will leave you laughing out loud and wanting more. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20.. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org - ---- Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ---- 12 of 13 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:21 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/330fb5f6baca42227cf68a222bc32f8d.pdf 1b31f286026a3814a3e9b71d123be811 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 8, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Gay Pride Bingo Gamily Gathering Equality Gala Welcome to the eNews. Join us for Gay Pride Bingo with Nicole Carrington and DJ Crystal from 7 p.m. to 9:30 p.m. Friday, April 10, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Rainbow Run MOREcolor PFLAG Tulsa Barney Frank Documentary Equality Business Alliance Sleep Soundly Workshop EBA Sponsor McGraw "The Hill" Documentary R l,ALTO R S TU Lecture on Inequality Looking to buy or sell your dream home? Imperial Court of All Oklahoma I can help! Body Electric Workshop Contact Keith Hunt Today Russell Bennett Award (918) 513-13-94 Dining Out for Life khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ @ t'~ -.: LlADINC lllAI,..[ TATC CO~PANIES ,o/ TH[ WOltLO Article Headline HIV Wellness Retreat JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic Gay Pride Bingo with Nicole Carrington and DJ Crystal Friday, April 10, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Camp Anytown Research opportunity LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage - - Equality - - -Photos -- Where does the Easter Bunny go after Easter? To Gay Pride Bingo, of course! He heard how much fun our March event was and said he must be here for a repeat! Join Dale Hogan's "Nicole Carrington" and DJ Crystal for a night of bingo with "characters." Full concessions with food and drink will be available for purchase. Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Admission is $10, and proceeds support Tulsa Pride 2015. Make it a fun night out at the Equality 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... Center! OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features works by Karin Susan Cermak. ________ Gamily Gathering Sunday, April 12, 2-4 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center We'll have a hands-on building project -something such as a birdhouse or a model racecar -- for Gamily kids with items donated by Home Depot. Gay families, come join us for the fun and socialization! Equality Gala, The Road to Equality Cox Business Center Ballroom Saturday, April 25, 6:30 p.m. cocktail reception, 8 p.m. dinner and program This year's Equality Gala, Oklahomans for Equality's premier fundraiser and Tulsa's most swankified, fabulous event, celebrates OkEq's 35th anniversary. The money raised through the Gala each year helps provide support and programming for LGBT Oklahomans and allies in the sixth-largest gay community center in the world -- right here in Tulsa, Oklahoma. In 2014, more than 48,000 individuals participated in programming and services at the Equality Center. Your support through the Gala helps make those services possible. ~·"~ )AT\JRDAY. APRIL Q5. Q015 COX BUSlNH) CENTER BALLROOM 6.30PM COCl(TAIL RE:CE:PTI0N &00PM DINNO AND PROGRAM COIO fOr.. A111 'Of 1100 MfO<r' 11()• Ou 916-7•H'./Ql' a f-11) u~ - ST ....,..O'.,OOI~ Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... Individual tickets and sponsorships are available. Please click here for more information. Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Registration is coming soon, but sponsorships are now available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. Counseling Services RAINBOW RUN For sponsorship information, please click Saturdays By appointment here. To register, click here. - please -- MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color . .. 1 . Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --- •t Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artistfriendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Click here for more information. f New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting April 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, April 20. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918-749-4901 --- Live from NY's 92nd Street Y with Barney Frank April 20, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center . I • , I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... Tulsa's Congregation B'nai Emunah will broadcast "Barney Frank: In His Own Words" as part of the Smart Conversations 2015 speaker series. Broadcast in partnership with the 92nd Street Y in New York City, former Rep. Barney Frank will be joined in conversation by noted television journalist Jeff Greenfield. Smart Conversations 2015 features dynamic and visionary thinkers, newsmakers, and entertainers in conversation via satellite from Manhattan. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tickets for this single lecture cost $10. Students are admitted free. Coffee, treats and conversation precede and follow each performance. To purchase tickets or for more information, call the Synagogue at 918-9353373 or email reservations@bnaiemunah.com. Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, April 22, 6 p.m. Boss Fitness Tulsa, 3509 S. Peoria Ave., Suite 300 The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, April 22, at Boss Fitness Tulsa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org Sleep Soundly Workshop Thursday, April 23, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Sleep Soundly workshop, sponsored by the University of Tulsa Institute of Trauma, Adversity & Injustice, is designed to help you better understand the importance of sleep. The workshop will provide you with tools and strategies to foster high-quality sleep and address common sleep problems. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders For more information, call 918-631-3976. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. "The Hill" documentary Thursday, April 9, 6:30-9 p.m., free Living Arts, 307 E. M.B. Brady St. Set upon building a new school, the city of New Haven, Conn., claims eminent domain over the UJpper Hill neighborhood. While the city argues that building the new school corresponds to a need for better school facilities, the residents of the area, mostly struggling low-income African-American families, say the decision corresponds to the city's determination to "sanitize" the neighborhood, which is near the Yale-New Haven Hospital. With the help of community leaders and a civil rights lawyer, the unlikely group of neighbors decides to contest the city's claim and take the case to federal court. "The Hill" is a fascinating look at the complex issues surrounding urban planning, gentrification and economic renewal. View the trailer at thehillfilm.com/#trialer. "Inequality in American Society" Lecture Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. University of Tulsa Lectureship in Politics and Law Chapman Hall Lecture Hall, 2830 E. Fifth St. Thursday, April 9, 7 p.m. Dean Baker, co-director of the Center for Economic and Policy Research in Washington, D.C., will present this year's TU Lectureship in Politics and Law. The lecture, is free and open to the public. Lectureshipin Politicsandlaw2015 t81 Inequality in American Society - Should We Blame the Market?181 ~:~~;:~:~!;~~: The topic of Baker's talk is "Inequality in American Society: Should We Blame the Market?" Thursday, April 9 7:00 p.m. 2.8lJ E. 5th Street Dean Baker Baker is frequently cited in economics reporting in major media outlets, including the New York Times, Washington Post, CNN, CNBC and National Public Radio. He writes a weekly column for the Guardian Unlimited (UK), the Huffington Post and TruthOut. His blog, Beat the Press, features commentary on economic reporting. His analyses have appeared in many major publications, including the Atlantic Monthly, the Washington Post, the London Financial Times and the New York Daily News. He received his Ph.D. in economics from the University of Michigan. He previously worked as a senior economist at the Economic Policy Institute and as an assistant professor at Bucknell University. He has also worked as a consultant for the World Bank, the Joint Economic Committee of the U.S. Congress and the OECD's Trade Union Advisory Council. He has written numerous books and was the author of the weekly online commentary on economic reporting for the Economic Reporting Review from 1996 - 2006. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Coronation of Empress VIII Motel 6, 1010 N. Garnett Road Saturday, April 11, 6 p.m.-midnight ACA Assistance ~::pus Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invites you to participate in the coronation of Empress VIII. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... C RO A TIO VIII Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Complete information can be found on the Coronation VIII pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Body Electric Workshop April 18 & 19 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals For more information please contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award Raindrop Turkish House 4444 W. Houston St. (East 81st Street), Broken Arrow Thursday, April 30, 6 p.m. Join us for the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance's annual Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award celebration at the Raindrop Turkish House in Broken Arrow. This year's recipient of the award is the Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar, senior minister at All Souls Unitarian Church, who will give a keynote address. Rabbi Jack Moline, executive director of the National Interfaith Alliance, will be a special guest. Tickets are $30 and include a buffet dinner with meat and vegetarian options. They can be purchased at this link. For questions, or to register via phone or mail, please email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. The Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is a nonpartisan advocacy group that monitors the line separating church and state. For more information, visit its website at this link. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Dining~ ...l.~~J_ EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Dine Out, Fight AIDS Find participating restaurants --- -here. For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. Grateful Day Foundation Spaghetti Dinner Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Saturday, April 18, 5-7 p.m. Please join the Grateful Day Foundation for our annual Spaghetti Dinner. Dinner includes salad, bread sticks and your choice of vegan or meaty spaghetti with or without meatballs. Meals are $10 for adults and $5 for children. We will have a door prize, too! All proceeds from this Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 9 of 12 telOW~ i;ong:egaoonal slllfCn LU; 2900 S,Harvard Tusa,OK April 18 5pm~7pm ..... - .-.·ltOOAtt!~ijU~@ https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... night will go directly to help finance our annual HIV Wellness Retreat. For more information about the Grateful Day Foundation, visit our website at gratefulday.org. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF <0>11.Jl.l!'Jl.dl.SLti<O> l!'Jl. Jil!'Jl.CAIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful .,z')Afl We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave., Sand Springs Saturday, May 16, 10 a.m. Let your golf game pay off for OkEq's JOLT bowling league. This fundraiser will feature cash prizes for first-, second- and third-place teams. Fourperson teams will compete in a scramble format. Registration is now open and costs $75 per person or $300 per team. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Contact Curtis Austin at curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918-361-8739. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Research opportunity Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve T's can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'It Gets Better: Coming Out, Overcoming Bulllying, and Creating a Life Worth Living' edited by Dan Savage and Terry Miller You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Growing up isn't easy. Many young people face daily tormenting and bullying, and this is especially true for LGBT kids and teens. In response to a number of tragic suicides by LGBT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSE L LER students, syndicated columnist and author Dan Savage uploaded a video to YouTube with his partner, Terry Miller. Speaking openly about the bullying they suffered and how they both went on to lead rewarding adult lives, their video launched the It Gets Better Project YouTube channel and initiated a worldwide phenomenon. COMING OUT, IT G ETS BETTER n\/t:0rf"'\Ulf\lr:: QI II IVlf\lr:: Al\ln 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... It Gets Better is a collection of original essays and expanded testimonials written to teens from celebrities, political leaders and everyday people, because while many LGBT teens can't see a positive future for themselves, we can. CR EATING A LIFE WORTH LI VING ndudrig concnbutJOOS f,o,n: EUen o.Generes, O.,f(f Sed•,is. Tim Gunn, Michael Cunningh•m, •nd many mc>f•. Ed,tedby DAN SAVAGE and TERRY MILLER fo11nd•" of tho It Gou B.iu, Proj,o Dan Savage is the editorial director of Seattle's weekly newspaper The Stranger. Terry Miller is an event promoter, musician and DJ. They were married in Canada and live in Seattle with their son, DJ. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ruLSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:05 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f506e88d49c23c3baf2273e61d3f57c0.pdf 4b5303f26958f923b992fd5b647de926 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... eNews January 14th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 2015 MLK Parade Tax Preparation Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Tax time will be here before you know it and marriage equality may have changed the way you file your taxes. Join us for a Tax Preparation Workshop on Tuesday, January 20th at 7:00 pm. For more info, email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality EBA Fundraiser New Year, New You Basketball League Tulsa Pride 2015 PFLAG Tulsa Survivors of Incest Anonymous The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim February First Thursday Art Anti-Valentine's Day Party Ask me for FREE sample!!! EBA Sponsor ACA Assistance •sli All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights u www.ploxusslim.com/robinlabutti Beyond 50 Shades T: (918) 361-4188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.not Lose wa,ght • Get flt • lmp1ove performance • Increase 1nuuv Pearl District Makers' Market LGBT Shirt Quilt Marriage Equality -- - - -Photos --- 2015 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, January 19th, 2015; 11:00 am John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... January 15th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit Tax Preparation Workshop The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group exhibit titled; Transforming Hate ________ Tuesday, January 20th, 2015; 7:00 pm On Tuesday, January 20th at 7:00 pm, OkEq will host a tax preparation workshop for newly married couples or for anyone thinking about getting married. Presented by Equality Business Alliance Member, Kelly Kirby, CPA, this workshop is a must for anyone who has any questions on how marriage equality can change the way you file your taxes. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Counseling Services Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 The January Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, January 21st, 2015 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. HYJ\TT REGENCY llllllllrllllCT Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 EBA Fundraiser at Dalesandro's Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... Wednesday, January 28th, 2015; 6:00 - 10:00 pm ale andro , Y/a;:;;_n, ~ ; n I s Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine 1742 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 On Wednesday, January 28th, join the Equality Business Alliance for a fundraiser dinner at Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine from 6:00 - 10:00 pm. Located at 18th and Boston, Dalesandro's will donate a portion of the dinner sales from the night back to the EBA. Reservations are appreciated by calling Dalesandro's at 918.582.1551 Counseling Services New Year, New You Fitness Programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center GET F.I.T. - Wednesday and Thursday at 6:00 pm (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. On Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. ChiWalking - Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm; Continues January 24th ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Faciliated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • . I ~ ' - I Grieving Well There will be no meeting on January 26th. Continues on February 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... 9th 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Signuponthe -OkEq Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, January 22nd, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, January 22nd at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) .... ,.. T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of Every Month, Starting January 19th; 6:30 pm Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoces and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... The PFLAG Tulsa chapter will begin a satellite group meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on the 3rd Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will meet for the first time on Monday, January 19th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the PFLAG TULSA CH health and well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - or call 918.749.4901 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday, Noon - 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. Using the group experience, strength and hope, the hope is to do this by: * offering referrals to SIA, self-help, support groups * providing information to start SIA groups, intergroups, and national service offices * creating and distributing SIA information tools(literature, newsletter, electronic media) * offering a speakers' bureau * guiding SIA's public information efforts worldwide Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. For more information about SIA, visit www.siawso.org February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ashley Farrier in an exhibit titled "Royalty Not Lost" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 5th, 2015 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015 7:00 pm Dump your ex's stuff drive. Turn your ill will into good will By donating your ex's stuff to The Equality Center Clothing Closet. Eat. Drink. Be Bitter. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA e a!\O \!\i\\a\ Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Affordable Care Act Assistance Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm In person assistance available 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: January 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare oklahomans for equality BILLOF RIGHTS Game Night Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Beyond 50 Shades: A Lifestyle Orientation Saturday, January 17th, 2015; 12:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Curious about kink? Just a Fantasy or is there more? Meet real life people involved in kink, power exchange relationships, master/ slave dynamics, rope bondage, S&M. Open to all persons 21 and older interested in the BDSM/kink lifestyle. Panel discussion, Q&A and discussion based information will be provided. Saturday, January 17th from Noon - 2:30 pm presented by the Tulsa Dungeon Society. Oklahoma's Oldest Pansexual BDSM Group. For more information visit www.tulsadungeonsociety.org or email tdsevents@hotmail.com Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111W:l~_1}.1[11 POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. i-./j~~ TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma Open Everyday The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendar for only $10.00. Proceeds benefits the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Organization. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 'My Red Blood: A Memoir of Growing Up Communist, Coming Onto the Greenwich Village Folk Scene, and Coming Out in the Feminist Movement' by Alix Dobkin You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Women's music legend Alix Dobkin for the first time chronicles her rise to fame as the first artist to record an openly lesbian album in 1973. Her Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... story, however, opens much earlier in postwar New York City, where, growing up in a Communist family, she watches Jackie Robinson steal home, rubs elbows with radical Left celebrities like Paul Robeson, and comes of age under the watchful eye of the FBI. Dobkin herself joins the party at the height of the McCarthy witch hunts and offers readers a firsthand glimpse of daily life as a young person living under government surveillance. During this time she also matures as a devotee of folk music, having fallen under the spell of renowned performers such as Lead Belly and Pete Seeger. Yet it's after she arrives on the burgeoning folk music scene of Greenwich Village, where she meets the up-and-coming Bob Dylan, Bill Cosby, John Sebastian, Buffy Ste. Marie, and Flip Wilson, among many other rising luminaries, that she achieves her first acclaim as a singer-songwriter. Her music takes on overt feminist dimensions when she joins a women's consciousness-raising group and comes out as a lesbian. Rich in period detail, storytelling, and outspoken politics, My Red Blood is essential reading for lovers of music and history. Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:38 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/79d9c6b1791008cd3bb0449de63859e1.pdf 36439926ef04f74500e48d15e688ca41 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... eNews January 22nd, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Legislation Alert EBA Fundraiser New Year, New You Welcome to the eNews. Oklahoma marriage, children and families and LGBT Youth are under attack at the State Capital. Read below on how you can help defend them. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Basketball League Tulsa Pride 2015 February First Thursday Art Financial and Estate Planning Anti-Valentine's Day Party PFLAG Tulsa Equality Business Alliance II I ·LPTUL Home / Small Business IT Expertise Tulsa Metro Softball League EBA Sponsor V E ,lLE Survivors of Incest Anonymous Owner - ihelptulsa.com ACA Assistance J Ii LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Tel : (9 18) 605-8777 Web: www.ihelptulso.com Email: johnv@ihelptvlso.com Pearl District Makers' Market Marriage Equality Photos -----LGBTI Health Research Pride Store "Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact www.ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777!" Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa Legislation Alerts from Oklahomans for Equality Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representative and ask them not to support the following House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598 and 1599. HB 1125 would strip county court clerks of their duty of issuing marriage licenses. Rep. Todd Russ of District 55 has introduced the bill under the guise of protecting elected officials religious freedoms. If passed, this bill will • Sets precident where public servants can choose who they serve. • De-fund court clerks already strained budgets • Do away with the marriage license process which conforms to every other state • Create chaos in a system that has worked for more than century OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 19th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... Rep. David Brumbaugh of District 76, representing Broken Arrow and Tulsa, has put forth HB 1007 targets same sex couples wishing to be married, and seeks to protect clergy persons who do not wish to, or can not perform weddings for same-sex couples. Under present Oklahoma law, only clergy persons willing and able to perform same sex weddings are allowed to. No one is forced to perform same-sex weddings. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit Rep. Sally Kern has put forth two bills, HB 1598 and HB 1599. HB 1598 Freedom to Obtain Conversion Therapy Act; will provide the right to obtain certain counseling or conversion therapy; prevent certain infringement by the state; permit mental health provider to engage in sexual orientation change efforts with a child. The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group exhibit titled; Transforming Hate ________ HB 1599 Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act will prohibit public funds for any activity licensing or supporting same-sex marriage; prohibit public employees from recognizing same-sex marriage licenses. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx Counseling Services EBA Fundraiser at Dalesandro's Wednesday, January 28th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm ale andro I s Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 ._.Y'/aC-n- C:,.,~m Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine 1742 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 On Wednesday, January 28th, join the Equality Business Alliance for a fundraiser dinner at Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine from 6:00 - 9:00 pm. Located at 18th and Boston, Dalesandro's will donate a portion of the dinner sales from the night back to the EBA. Reservations are appreciated by calling Dalesandro's at 918.582.1551 New Year, New You Fitness Programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center GET F.I.T. - Wednesday and Thursday at 6:00 pm (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. On Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 ChiWalking - Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm; Continues January 24th ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Faciliated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for • ~ . I ; I Grieving Well There will be no meeting on January 26th. Continues on February 9th 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, January 29th, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, January 29th at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. T U L S A --,. e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ashley Farrier in an exhibit titled "Royalty Not Lost" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 5th, 2015 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Financial and Estate Planning Workshop Tuesday, February 10th, 2015; 6:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center No matter your net worth, it's important to have a basic estate plan in place. Oklahomans for Equality will host a Financial and Estate Planning Workshop presented by RTY Law. Equality Business Alliance members will present information to the community to address the unique financial and estate planning issues that the LGBT community faces. The presentation will be held on Tuesday, February 10th, 2015 at 6:00 pm. To RSVP for this FREE workshop, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015 7:00 pm Dump your ex's stuff drive. Turn your ill will into good will By donating your ex's stuff to The Equality Center Clothing Closet. Eat. Drink. Be Bitter. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of Every Month, Next meeting February 16th; 6:30 pm The PFLAG Tulsa chapter will begin a satellite group meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on the 3rd Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will next meet on Monday, February 16th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and PFLAG TULSA CH well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918.749.4901 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 18th, 2015 at 6:00 pm. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Tulsa Metro Softball League - Spring Season Begins in April Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 2015 Spring Season is almost here, and the Tulsa Metro Softball League Board Members are gearing up for another fun season! As of right now, the season will begin in April. As usual, games will be played on Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. So grab your friends and come on out this season! 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... IMPORTANT: TMSL will hold an open league meeting for all players and coaches to attend on Friday, February 6th at Area 18, beginning at 6:30 pm. This meeting will cover new/old details regarding the league and the current ratings system. It is highly encouraged for members and coaches who are planning on forming their own team, have questions regarding ratings, or questions on how to get on a team, to attend this meeting. TMSL looks forward to seeing everyone out again this season, and making it another great one! If you have any questions/concerns, visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Ask me for FREE sample!!! Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 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Using the group experience, strength and hope, the hope is to do this by: * offering referrals to SIA, self-help, support groups * providing information to start SIA groups, intergroups, and national service offices * creating and distributing SIA information tools(literature, newsletter, electronic media) * offering a speakers' bureau * guiding SIA's public information efforts worldwide For more information about SIA, visit www.siawso.org Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. A Murder of Storytellers Onsite assistance will be available on: January 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm Every Friday 7:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ARTtCRAFTS 1111m=1~JJ.1[11 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include - - --any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. EventCenter@OkEq.org ---Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 ---- Equality Center Pride Store EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Available in the Pride Store, the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendar for only $10.00. Proceeds benefits the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Organization. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'A Body to Die For' by Shannon Iwanski You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Max has returned from a trip that was supposed to help him get his head and heart together following a break up. Unfortunately, it didn't work, and now Max has to face his ex, Bobby, who also happens to be his business partner. It was bad enough to find out Bobby had already moved on, but it gets worse when the new boyfriend, Skylar, is murdered. Now, Bobby is the primary suspect, and Max takes it upon himself to find the real killer. That will be easier said than done since Skylar was involved in illegal activity right under Bobby's nose, and Skylar's accomplice-and potential murderer-may be closer than Max realizes. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:39 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2fd731cf981596374ffc4d1a162d7a12.pdf dcdbcec57df29dc6d7b428ba13c083f2 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... eNews January 28th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 2014 Donation Tax Letters EBA Fundraiser You Are an Oklahoman Too Welcome to the eNews. Oklahoma marriage, children and families and LGBT Youth are under attack at the State Capital. Read below on how you can help defend them. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA HB 1345 Legislation Alert New Year, New You Basketball League Tulsa Pride 2015 February First Thursday Art Financial and Estate Planning Guys Dine Too Anti-Valentine's Day Party Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! PFLAG Tulsa Equality Business Alliance EBA Sponsor Tulsa Metro Softball League Kelly Kirby CPA Romance and Chocolates Certified Public Accountant HIV Wellness Retreat a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Alice Bates' Birthday Survivors of Incest Anonymous ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pearl District Makers' Market Marriage Equality Photos -----LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Find Us on Facebook 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... EBA Fundraiser at Dalesandro's Wednesday, January 28th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm ~ ., ....... ~ , c:t::;;J._Y/a£,,., Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine 1742 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 On Wednesday, January 28th, join the Equality Business Alliance for a fundraiser dinner at Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine from 6:00 - 9:00 pm. Located at 18th and Boston, Dalesandro's will donate a portion of the dinner sales from the night back to the EBA. Reservations are appreciated by calling Dalesandro's at 918.582.1551 MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 19th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Sunday, February 1st, 2015; 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Recent bills put forth by Oklahoma legislators have been a direct attack on the LGBT community. Now is the time for us to respond. Join Oklahomans for Equality on Sunday, February 1st at 2:00 pm for the first in a weekly series of MY OKLAHOMA Town Hall meetings to discuss the bills and their possible outcome on your life as an Oklahoman. We can provide some talking points when discussing these bills with your legislators. Discuss coordinated strategic visits to the Oklahoma State Capitol. Oklahomans for Equality applauds HB 1345 Oklahomans for Equality applauds House Bill 1345 filed by Representative Jason Dunnington. The bill would amend provisions regarding workplace and employment discrimination by adding sexual orientation and gender identity and expression. Please contact Representative Dunnington and thank him for his efforts to end work place discrimination against LGBT employees. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group exhibit titled; Transforming Hate ________ Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... http://www.okhouse.gov/District.aspx? District=88 Then contact your legislator and tell them you support House Bill 1345.http://www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature. Remember personal letters and notes, phone calls and a face to face visit with your legislator are the most effective method to engage your elected official. Legislation Alerts from Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representative and ask them not to support the following House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599, 1663 1820 and 2215. Senate Bills 440, 478, 669, 724, 788 and 805 HB 1125 would strip county court clerks of their duty of issuing marriage licenses. Rep. Todd Russ of District 55 has introduced the bill under the guise of protecting elected officials religious freedoms. If passed, this bill will Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 • Sets precedent where public servants can choose who they serve. • De-fund court clerks already strained budgets • Do away with the marriage license process which conforms to every other state • Create chaos in a system that has worked for more than century Rep. David Brumbaugh of District 76, representing Broken Arrow and Tulsa, has put forth HB 1007 targets same sex couples wishing to be married, and seeks to protect clergy persons who do not wish to, or can not perform weddings for same-sex couples. Under present Oklahoma law, only clergy persons willing and able to perform same sex weddings are allowed to. No one is forced to perform same-sex weddings. House Bill 2215 filed by Representative Mike Ritze. If the bill became law it would require marriage applicants to provide medical histories and treatments as a part of the marriage licensing process. This would be a violation of privacy and is nothing more than an attempt to single out transgender individuals and is intrusive and violates all acceptable social standards. ."' f, • ..,, Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group -, Rep. Sally Kern has put forth several bills HB 1597, I 1598, 1599 and 1663. HB 1597 will protect business entities in refusing services to the LGBT community. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... HB 1598 Freedom to Obtain Conversion Therapy Act; will provide the right to obtain certain counseling or conversion therapy; prevent certain infringement by the state; permit mental health provider to engage in sexual orientation change efforts with a child. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org HB 1599 Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act will prohibit public funds for any activity licensing or supporting same-sex marriage; prohibit public employees from recognizing same-sex marriage licenses. HB 1663: Marriage Act of Oklahoma -- A shell bill with the wording to be added later. Introduced by Sen. Joseph Silk, Senate Bill 440: Oklahoma Religious Freedom Restoration Act of 2015 -- No individual or religious entity shall be required by any governmental entity to do any of the following, if it would be contrary to the sincerely held religious beliefs of the individual or religious entity regarding sex, gender or sexual orientation: 1. provide any services, accommodations, advantages, facilities, goods or privileges; 2. provide counseling, adoption, foster care, and other social services; 3. provide employment or employment benefits, related to, or related to the celebration of, any marriage, domestic partnership, civil union or similar arrangement; 4. solemnize any marriage, domestic partnership, civil union or similar arrangement; or 5. treat any marriage, domestic partnership, civil union or similar arrangement as valid. SB 724 by Sen. Joseph Silk, changes the process for a legally recognized marriage in Oklahoma by calling them covenants and not marriages and restricting it to male and female couples. SB 478, by Sen. Corey Brooks, Marriage; Protection of Religious Freedom in the Sanctity of Marriage Act of 2015, Establishing a religious exemption for any elected official or government employee or private business who does not want to issue a marriage license, officiate or solemnize a marriage, or provide business services to a individuals they do not agree with because of individual religious views and exempts them from lawsuits or disciplinary action. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SB 669 by Sen. Nathan Dahm, would limit marriage to male and female couples and require a minister or an attorney to give you a declaration of marriage. SB 788 by Sen. Dan Newberry. No judge or religious officiant shall have to perform a marriage that violates their religious beliefs. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... SB 805 by Sen. Josh Breecheen. No state official shall issue a marriage license to a same sex couple or any public funds be used to issue a marriage license. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders New Year, New You Fitness Programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center GET F.I.T. - Wednesday and Thursday at 6:00 pm (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. On Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. ChiWalking - Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm; Continues February 7th ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Faciliated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq -----Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, January 29th, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, January 29th at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance T U L S A ~,. e Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Gender Outreach February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ashley Farrier in an exhibit titled "Royalty Not Lost" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 5th, 2015 from 6:00 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the ~ ~month. \ ~ . ~~. ~ - Financial and Estate Planning Workshop Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Tuesday, February 10th, 2015; 6:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center No matter your net worth, it's important to have a basic estate plan in place. Oklahomans for Equality will host a Financial and Estate Planning Workshop presented by RTYLaw. Equality Business Alliance members will present information to the community to address the unique financial and estate planning issues that the LGBT community faces. The presentation will be held on Tuesday, February 10th, 2015 at 6:00 pm. For more information or to RSVP for this FREE workshop, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org RTY AW A Professional Corporation A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, February 3rd, 2015; 6:30 pm The February meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Tokyo Garden Restaurant on Tuesday, February 3rd, 2015 at 6:30 pm. Tokyo Garden Restaurant is located at 4020 S Memorial Dr www.tokyogarden.net Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... 7:00 pm Dump your ex's stuff drive. Turn your ill will into good will By donating your ex's stuff to The Equality Center Clothing Closet. Eat. Drink. Be Bitter. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of Every Month, Next meeting February 16th; 6:30 pm The PFLAG Tulsa chapter will begin a satellite group meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on the 3rd Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will next meet on Monday, February 16th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and PFLAG TULSA CHA. well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918.749.4901 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events g Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org E UALITY QJBusmess Alliance The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 18th, 2015 at 6:00 pm. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com I I I · LI TUL Home / Small Business IT Exper1ise J Ii V £ ,LLE EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Owner • ihelptulso.com Tel : (9 18) 605-8777 Web: www.ihelptulsa.com Email: johnv@ihelptulsa.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point "Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact www.ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777!" Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa Tulsa Metro Softball League - Spring Season Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... Begins in April 2015 Spring Season is almost here, and the Tulsa Metro Softball League Board Members are gearing up for another fun season! As of right now, the season will begin in April. As usual, games will be played on Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. So grab your friends and come on out this season! IMPORTANT: TMSL will hold an open league meeting for all players and coaches to attend on Friday, February 6th at Area 18, beginning at 6:30 pm. This meeting will cover new/old details regarding the league and the current ratings system. It is highly encouraged for members and coaches who are planning on forming their own team, have questions regarding ratings, or questions on how to get on a team, to attend this meeting. TMSL looks forward to seeing everyone out again this season, and making it another great one! If you have any questions/concerns, visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com Romance and Chocolates 2015 Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 6:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Romance & Chocolates 2015 Lovin' That Doo Wop Doors open at 6:00 pm, Music & Entertainment begins at 6:30 pm Wine with dinner begins at 7:00 pm At Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tickets $30, Reserved tables available. Limited to 96 Seats, advance purchase is advised Sisters In Song (Jq)mance e1, Cfioco{ates ~ Pe6. 21, 2015 instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Lovin' CJ'liat (}Joo Wop Facebook.com/SisterslnSongTulsa Like on Facebook at www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Alice Bates' 90th Birthday Party Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 1:00 - 4:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... Alice Wilder Bates is the president of A Friend for A Friend and she is turning 90! Her children are inviting the community to the birthday party. Come by for some cake and punch and share your happy memories of Alice. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Saturday, February 21st, 2015 1:00 - 4:00 pm At the Tulsa Elks Lodge 5335 South Harvard Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org If you are unable to attend, Alice would still love to get a note from you about a fond memory you have of her. (2713 E 49th, Tulsa, OK 74105) For more information, call Jane Clark 918.857.2882 HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Deadline is July 17th The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF <0>11.11.ltll.di.Sl.ti<O> ltll. ][ltll.CAIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held August 21st - 23rd, at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw Ok. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful .Z,A!j We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as in hard copy form at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE testing, OSU Specialty Clinic, and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OKEQ). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday, Noon - 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. Using the group experience, strength and hope, the hope is to do this by: * offering referrals to SIA, self-help, support groups * providing information to start SIA groups, intergroups, and national service offices * creating and distributing SIA information tools(literature, newsletter, electronic media) * offering a speakers' bureau * guiding SIA's public information efforts worldwide For more information about SIA, visit www.siawso.org Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: January 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111 lfj :I~_ 11-1 [II POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include ---any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu --Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 ------ Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendar for only $10.00. Proceeds benefits the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Organization. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Father of Frankenstein' by Christopher Bram You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A unique mixture of fact and fiction recreates 1950s Hollywood in a tale of homoeroticism, mental disintegration, social commentary, and compassionate human insight surrounding the mysterious death of James Whale, director of Frankenstein. FATHER 0F FRANKENSTEIN ------ c H R I S T O P H E R1 f BRAM ....-r' Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... •• •• • Vol int er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fUL A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:40 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3d6a49880dcaece229f74febf223b426.pdf dc78d0b378c0b12ea979def57d39d152 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... eNews February 4th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor HB 1345 2014 Donation Tax Letters February First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the Anti-Valentine's Day Party on Saturday, February 14th at 7:00 pm. If you have any of your ex's stuff around, bring it by and donate it to the Equality Center Closet. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Book Study You Are an Oklahoman Too Financial and Estate Planning Anti-Valentine's Day Party New Year, New You The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug Basketball League Tulsa Pride 2015 SAGE Tulsa Mardi Gras PFLAG Tulsa EBA Sponsor A Conversation with SAGE Tulsa Have you ordered your flowers & chocolates? Equality Business Alliance Order Today: 918.528.3828 NOH8 GcirrL~nitui Cl ck this d or v st: lhegardentrug.com Tulsa Metro Softball League Romance and Chocolates Alice Bates' Birthday HIV Wellness Retreat Survivors of Incest Anonymous Oklahomans for Equality applauds HB 1345 Oklahomans for Equality applauds House Bill 1345 filed by Representative Jason Dunnington. The bill would amend provisions regarding workplace and employment discrimination by adding sexual orientation and gender identity and expression. Please contact Representative Dunnington and thank him for his efforts to end work place discrimination against LGBT employees. http://www.okhouse.gov/District.aspx? District=88 House Bill 1345 has been assigned to a committee for review. The Economic Development, Commerce and Real Estate committee. The following representatives are on this committee and are reviewing the bill. Please take the time to contact them and let them know you want them to support the bill. You can find their contact information on this page. ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pearl District Makers' Market Marriage Equality Photos --LGBTI Health Research Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Chair: Rep. Dan Kirby (R), District 75 Vice Chair: Rep. Marian Cooksey (R), District 39 Rep. Travis Dunlap (R), District 10 Rep. Charles McCall (R), District 22 Rep. Brian Renegar (D), District 17 Rep. Elise Hall (R), District 100 Rep. Randy McDaniel (R), District 83 Rep. Dustin Roberts (R), District 21 Rep. Kevin Matthews (D), District 73 Rep. Richard Morrissette (D), District 92 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 19th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ashley Farrier in an exhibit titled "Royalty Not Lost" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 5th, 2015 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ When Christians Get It Wrong - Book Study 6 Week course, starting on Thursday, February 5th at 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "When Christians Get it Wrong" a new six-week book study group led by Rev. Twila Gibbens from St. Paul's United Methodist Church starts Thursday February 5th at 6:30pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. • When Christians are Unchristian • In Dealing With Homosexuality • Christians, Science, and Politics • When Speaking of Other Religions • When Bad Things Happen • When Christians Get It Right Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 WHEN CHRISTIANS 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... You may order the book by Rev. Adam Hamilton and read before discussions. Shop from Amazon and support Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting Sunday, February 8th, 2015; 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Recent bills put forth by Oklahoma legislators have been a direct attack on the LGBT community. Now is the time for us to respond. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Join Oklahomans for Equality on Sunday, February 8th at 2:00 pm for our continuing weekly series of MY OKLAHOMA Town Hall meetings to discuss the bills and their possible outcome on your life as an Oklahoman. We can provide some talking points when discussing these bills with your legislators. Discuss coordinated strategic visits to the Oklahoma State Capitol. Get an update on the first visit to the Capitol. Oklahomans for Equality can provide volunteer child care during the meeting for those who need it. Also interpretive services for the deaf and hard of hearing are available upon request. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to arrange these services. Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representative and ask them not to support the following House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599, 1663 and 2215. Senate Bills 440, 478, 669, 724, 788 and 805. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx Remember personal letters and notes, phone calls and a face to face visit with your legislator are the most effective method to engage your elected official. Financial and Estate Planning Workshop Tuesday, February 10th, 2015; 6:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center No matter your net worth, it's important to have a Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... basic estate plan in place. Oklahomans for Equality will host a Financial and Estate Planning Workshop presented by RTYLaw. Equality Business Alliance members will present information to the community to address the unique financial and estate planning issues that the LGBT community faces. The presentation will be held on Tuesday, February 10th, 2015 at 6:00 pm. For more information or to RSVP for this FREE workshop, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- RTY LAW A Professional Corporation Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015; 7:00 pm Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org .& , '·'fg Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015 7:00 pm Dump your ex's stuff drive. Turn your ill will into good will By donating your ex's stuff to The Equality Center Clothing Closet. Eat. Drink. Be Bitter. 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Entertainment for the evening will include a live performance by Read about Siamese Spots on Huffington Post and see their first video Find more info on the Siamese Spots bandcamp page SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... New Year, New You Fitness Programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center GET F.I.T. - Wednesday and Thursday at 6:00 pm (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. On Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders ChiWalking - Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm; Continues February 7th ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Faciliated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign-up theOkEq - on -Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, February 26th, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, February 29th at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. Get F.I.T. T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. SAGE Tulsa Mardi Gras Lunch Tuesday, February 17th, 2015; 10:30 am Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SAGE Tulsa will host a Mardi Gras lunch on Tuesday, February 17th. Stew, cornbread, seasoned bread pudding and individual punch will be available. For more information or to RSVP, please email SAGE@OkEq.org New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of Every Month, Next meeting February 16th; 6:30 pm The PFLAG Tulsa chapter will begin a satellite group meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on the 3rd Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will next meet on Monday, February 16th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and PFLAG TULSA CHA well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - or call 918.749.4901 ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The eNews for the week is brought to you by 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm . \a ,4,Qtt<Jlit#"""~ o Lambda Al-Anon e a.no \ni\\a.\ Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. www.kkirby.com Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Game Night A Conversation with SAGE Tulsa participants Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno SAGE Tulsa members Ray Mahoney and Eduardo Saurez were recently profiled on the national SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) website. Ray and Ed were married in Tulsa on October 12, 2014 in Tulsa, OK. Read their story here. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 18th, 2015 at 6:00 pm hosted by Saks Fifth Avenue at 1780 S Utica Avenue. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Saks Fifth Avenue 1780 S Utica Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 NOH8 Open Photo Shoot Friday, March 13th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Friday, March 13th, 2015, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2015 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on March 13th at 5:00 pm and will end at 8:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. - - - - - - - - - Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. ------- The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. --- Tulsa Metro Softball League - Spring Season Begins in April 2015 Spring Season is almost here, and the Tulsa Metro Softball League Board Members are gearing up for another fun season! As of right now, the season will begin in April. As usual, games will be played on Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. So grab your friends and come on out this season! IMPORTANT: TMSL will hold an open league meeting for all players and coaches to attend on Friday, February 6th at Area 18, beginning at 6:30 pm. This meeting will cover new/old details regarding the league and the current Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... ratings system. It is highly encouraged for members and coaches who are planning on forming their own team, have questions regarding ratings, or questions on how to get on a team, to attend this meeting. TMSL looks forward to seeing everyone out again this season, and making it another great one! If you have any questions/concerns, visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com Romance and Chocolates 2015 Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 6:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Romance & Chocolates 2015 Lovin' That Doo Wop Doors open at 6:00 pm, Music & Entertainment begins at 6:30 pm Wine with dinner begins at 7:00 pm At Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tickets $30, Reserved tables available. Limited to 96 Seats, advance purchase is advised Sisters In Song <R.gmance <tl, Cfioco{ates ~ Pe6. 21, 2015 instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Lovin' CJ'liat <Doo Wop Facebook.com/SisterslnSongTulsa Like on Facebook at www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Alice Bates' 90th Birthday Party Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Alice Wilder Bates is the president of A Friend for A Friend and she is turning 90! Her children are inviting the community to the birthday party. Come by for some cake and punch and share your happy memories of Alice. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Saturday, February 21st, 2015 1:00 - 4:00 pm At the Tulsa Elks Lodge 5335 South Harvard If you are unable to attend, Alice would still love to get a note from you about a fond memory you have of her. (2713 E 49th, Tulsa, OK 74105) For more information, call Jane Clark 918.857.2882 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Deadline is July 17th The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF <0>11.Jl.lt'Jl.dl.Sl.ti<O> ltJl. ][lt'Jl.CAIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held August 21st - 23rd, at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw Ok. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful .,2)Af1 We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as in hard copy form at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE testing, OSU Specialty Clinic, and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OKEQ). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday, Noon - 2:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. Using the group experience, strength and hope, the hope is to do this by: * offering referrals to SIA, self-help, support groups * providing information to start SIA groups, intergroups, and national service offices * creating and distributing SIA information tools(literature, newsletter, electronic media) * offering a speakers' bureau * guiding SIA's public information efforts worldwide For more information about SIA, visit www.siawso.org Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111W:l~_1}.1[11 POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include ---any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu --Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 --- 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to CORO ATIO VIII The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendar for only $10.00. Proceeds benefits the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Organization. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Father of Frankenstein' by Christopher Bram You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A unique mixture of fact and fiction recreates 1950s Hollywood in a tale of homoeroticism, mental disintegration, social commentary, and compassionate human insight surrounding the mysterious death of James Whale, director of Frankenstein. FATHER 0F FRANKENSTEIN ~ C H R I S T O P H E R1 f BRAM ~ Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library •• • • •• • r ol int TU A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~-----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 3:41 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/380727dadf85f7ff3cf6be01989de92d.pdf bb29266adb0daa91f8ad32071ba2162c PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... eNews February 11th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor SB 435 2014 Donation Tax Letters Book Study Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the Anti-Valentine's Day Party on Saturday, February 14th at 7:00 pm. If you have any of your ex's stuff around, bring it by and donate it to the Equality Center Closet. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Anti-Valentine's Day Party You Are an Oklahoman Too Equality Business Alliance New Year, New You Basketball League The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug Tulsa Pride 2015 SAGE Tulsa Mardi Gras PFLAG Tulsa March First Thursday Art Girl Scout Cookie Sale EBA Sponsor Have you ordered your flowers & chocolates? Order Today: 918.528.3828 GcirrL~nitui Cl ck this d or v st: lhegardentrug.com A Conversation with SAGE Tulsa NOH8 Tulsa Metro Softball League Romance and Chocolates Alice Bates' Birthday HIV Wellness Retreat Survivors of Incest Anonymous OkEq condemns Senate Bill 435 Oklahomans for Equality condemns Senator Cruz's attempt to strip LGBTQ citizens of their hard earned and fought for rights by introducing Senate Bill 435, the State Marriage Defense Act. The bill would strip legally married same-sex couples of their federal benefits. Recent advances in equal rights came after decades of judicial fights and legislative battles. Senator Cruz forgets those hard won victories came after the light was turned on exposing evil discrimination masking itself as state rights. We are deeply disappointed that Senators Inhofe and Lankford have chosen to co-sponsor a bill that is destined to lose at the statehouse and the courthouse. ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pearl District Makers' Market Body Electric Workshop Marriage Equality Photos --LGBTI Health Research Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact US Senators Inhofe and Lankford and express your disappointment with their co-sponsorship of the bill. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 19th, 7:00 pm Senator James Mountain Inhofe United States Senate 205 Russell Senate Office Building Washington, DC 20510-3603 Phone: (202) 224-4721 Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Senator James Lankford United State Senate B40-C Dirksen Senate Office Building Washington, DC 20510 Phone: (202) 224-5754 OkEq Art Exhibit 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ When Christians Get It Wrong - Book Study 6 Week course, continues on Thursday, February 12th at 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "When Christians Get it Wrong" a new six-week book study group led by Rev. Twila Gibbens from St. Paul's United Methodist Church starts Thursday February 5th at 6:30pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 • In Dealing With Homosexuality • Christians, Science, and Politics • When Speaking of Other Religions • When Bad Things Happen • When Christians Get It Right WHEN You may order the book by Rev. Adam Hamilton and read before discussions. Shop from Amazon and support Oklahomans for CHRISTIANS GET IT WRJONG ~;;"" . _ _ Trag1cc, Scieaee 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Equality the same -at- time. - Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015 7:00 pm Dump your ex's stuff drive. Turn your ill will into good will By donating your ex's stuff to The Equality Center Clothing Closet. Eat. Drink. Be Bitter. Entertainment for the evening will include a live performance by Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Read about Siamese Spots on Huffington Post and see their first video Find more info on the Siamese Spots bandcamp page MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting Sunday, February 15th, 2015; 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Recent bills put forth by Oklahoma legislators have been a direct attack on the LGBT community. Now is the time for us to respond. sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Join Oklahomans for Equality on Sunday, February 15th at 2:00 pm for our continuing weekly series of MY OKLAHOMA Town Hall meetings to discuss the bills and their possible outcome on your life as an Oklahoman. We can provide some talking points when discussing these bills with your legislators. Discuss coordinated strategic visits to the Oklahoma State Capitol. Get an update on the weekly visits to the Capitol. Oklahomans for Equality can provide volunteer child care during the meeting for those who need it. Also interpretive services for the deaf and hard of hearing are available upon request. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to arrange these services. Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representative and ask them not to support the following House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599, 1663 and 2215. Senate Bills 440, 478, 669, 724, 788 and 805. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Remember personal letters and notes, phone calls and a face to face visit with your legislator are the most effective method to engage your elected official. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 18th, 2015 at 6:00 pm hosted by Saks Fifth Avenue at 1780 S Utica Avenue. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. SAGE Tulsa Saks Fifth Avenue 1780 S Utica Avenue (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Tulsa, OK 74114 New Year, New You Fitness Programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center GET F.I.T. - Wednesday and Thursday at 6:00 pm (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. On Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. ChiWalking - Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm; Continues February 21st ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Faciliated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq ------Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, February 26th, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, February 29th at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. T U L S A ... ,,. e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 SAGE Tulsa Mardi Gras Lunch Tuesday, February 17th, 2015; 10:30 am Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SAGE Tulsa will host a Mardi Gras lunch on Tuesday, February 17th. Stew, cornbread, seasoned bread pudding and individual punch will be available. For more information or to RSVP, please email SAGE@OkEq.org Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of Every Month, Next meeting February 16th; 6:30 pm The PFLAG Tulsa chapter will begin a satellite group meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on the 3rd Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will next meet on Monday, February 16th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and PFLAG TULSA CHA. well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - or call 918.749.4901 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... March First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Nanda Thompson in an exhibit titled "Whispers" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 5th, 2015 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 5th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill girl scout~ Equality Center on Thursday, March 5th, 2015 starting at 5:00 pm. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Game Night The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Robin LaButti, Plexus Slim Ask me for FREE sample!!! Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno T: (918) 361-4188 All natural products for diabetics, weight loss, pain , GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robinl•butti@Cox.net Lose we1ghl • Get ht • Improve performance • Increase 1nugy A Conversation with SAGE Tulsa participants Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... SAGE Tulsa members Ray Mahoney and Eduardo Saurez were recently profiled on the national SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) website. Ray and Ed were married in Tulsa on October 21, 2014 in Tulsa, OK. Read their story here. NOH8 Open Photo Shoot Friday, March 13th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Friday, March 13th, 2015, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2015 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on March 13th at 5:00 pm and will end at 8:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at -www.noh8campaign.com. - - - - - - - RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. ----- The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Tulsa Metro Softball League - Spring Season Begins in April 2015 Spring Season is almost here, and the Tulsa Metro Softball League Board Members are gearing up for another fun season! As of right now, the season will begin in April. As usual, games will be played on Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. So grab your friends and come on out this season! IMPORTANT: TMSL will hold an open league meeting for all players and coaches to attend on Friday, February 6th at Area 18, beginning at 6:30 pm. This meeting will cover new/old details regarding the league and the current ratings system. It is highly encouraged for members and coaches who are planning on forming their own team, have questions regarding ratings, or Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... questions on how to get on a team, to attend this meeting. TMSL looks forward to seeing everyone out again this season, and making it another great one! If you have any questions/concerns, visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com Romance and Chocolates 2015 Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 6:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Romance & Chocolates 2015 Lovin' That Doo Wop Doors open at 6:00 pm, Music & Entertainment begins at 6:30 pm Wine with dinner begins at 7:00 pm At Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tickets $30, Reserved tables available. Limited to 96 Seats, advance purchase is advised Sisters In Song (Jwmance rt{, CfiocoCates ~ Pe6. 21, 2015 instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Lovin' CJ'liat <Doo Wop Facebook.com/SisterslnSongTulsa Like on Facebook at www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Alice Bates' 90th Birthday Party Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Alice Wilder Bates is the president of A Friend for A Friend and she is turning 90! Her children are inviting the community to the birthday party. Come by for some cake and punch and share your happy memories of Alice. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Saturday, February 21st, 2015 1:00 - 4:00 pm At the Tulsa Elks Lodge 5335 South Harvard If you are unable to attend, Alice would still love to get a note from you about a fond memory you have of her. (2713 E 49th, Tulsa, OK 74105) For more information, call Jane Clark 918.857.2882 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Deadline is July 17th The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF <0>11.Jl.lt'Jl.dl.Sl.ti<O> ltJl. ][lt'Jl.CAIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held August 21st - 23rd, at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw Ok. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful .,2)Af1 We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as in hard copy form at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE testing, OSU Specialty Clinic, and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OKEQ). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday, 12:30 pm - 2:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. Using the group experience, strength and hope, the hope is to do this by: * offering referrals to SIA, self-help, support groups * providing information to start SIA groups, intergroups, and national service offices * creating and distributing SIA information tools(literature, newsletter, electronic media) * offering a speakers' bureau * guiding SIA's public information efforts worldwide For more information about SIA, visit www.siawso.org Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: February 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111W:l~_1}.1[11 POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS Body Electric Workshop April 18th & 19th, 2015 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most intensives, advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact Andr� at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - - with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 ---- Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to COI\O ATIO VIII The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Insignificant Others' by Stephen McCauley You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Richard Rossi works in HR at a touchy-feely software company and prides himself on his understanding of the foibles and fictions we all use to get through the day. Too bad he's not as good at spotting such behavior in himself. What else could explain his passionate affair with Benjamin, a very unavailable married man? Richard suggests birthday presents for Benjamin's wife and vacation plans for his kids, meets him for "lunch" at a sublet apartment, and would never think about calling him after business hours. Since Richard is not entirely available himselfthere's Conrad, his adorable if maddening partner to contend with-it all seems perfect. But when cosmopolitan Conrad starts spending a suspicious amount of time in Ohio, and economic uncertainty challenges Richard's chances for promotion, he realizes his priorities might be a little skewed. 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volunt U r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:42 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ebd6a327292d19110b4ea31da7977658.pdf 7576e38d4dfab84edf91793095674dbb PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... eNews February 19th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Legislative Alerts MY OKLAHOMA Youth Day at the Capitol Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the NOH8 photo shoot on Friday, March 13th at 5:00 - 8:00 pm. Cost is $40 for solo photos and $25 per person in couples or groups. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA 2014 Donation Tax Letters Book Study NOH8 New Year, New You Tulsa Pride 2015 March First Thursday Art Girl Scout Cookie Sale Pearl District Makers' Market Tulsa Metro Softball League e and \ni\\a\ Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Retirement 101 PFLAG Tulsa Book Signing Sharing the Trans Experience Kelly Kirby CPA Equality Business Alliance Certified Public Accountant Don't Tell Me I'm Sick a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com EBA Sponsor Lindsey McKee in concert Romance and Chocolates Alice Bates' Birthday HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Body Electric Workshop Marriage Equality Photos -----LGBTI Health Research Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Rainbow Library Volunteer OkEq Legislative Alerts Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representative and ask them not to support the following: House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599 and 2215. Senate Bills 440, 478, 669, 724, 733, 788 and 805 Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... HB 1125 would strip county court clerks of their duty of issuing marriage licenses. It would allow clergy to issue marriage "certificates," but any couple not married during a religious ceremony could have only a "common-law" marriage. Rep. Todd Russ of District 55 introduced the bill under the guise of protecting elected officials' religious freedoms. The bill has passed out of committee and now goes to the full House for consideration. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 19th, 7:00 pm Rep. David Brumbaugh has put forth HB 1007, which targets same-sex couples wishing to be married and seeks to protect clergy persons who do not wish to or cannot perform weddings for same-sex couples. Under present Oklahoma law, only clergy persons willing and able to perform same-sex weddings are allowed to. Under existing law, no one is forced to perform same-sex weddings. The bill has passed the House and now goes to the Senate. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ House Bill 2215 was filed by Rep. Mike Ritze. If the bill became law, it would require marriage-license applicants to provide medical histories regarding whether they have had gender-reassignment surgery. This would be a violation of privacy and is nothing more than an attempt to single out transgender individuals. It is intrusive and violates all acceptable social standards. It is in the House Judiciary and Civil Procedure Committee. Rep. Sally Kern has put forth several bills, including HB 1598 and 1599. HB 1598, the Freedom to Obtain Conversion Therapy Act, would codify the right to obtain certain counseling or conversion therapy; prevent certain infringement by the state; and protect mental health providers who engage in sexual-orientation change efforts with a child. It is in the House Children, Youth and Family Services Committee. HB 1599, the Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act, would prohibit the use of public funds for any activity licensing or supporting same-sex marriage and would prohibit public employees from recognizing same-sex marriage licenses. It has passed out of committee and goes to the full House. It has passed a Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... committee and goes to the full House. Introduced by Sen. Joseph Silk, Senate Bill 440, the Oklahoma Religious Freedom Restoration Act of 2015, says that no individual or religious entity shall be required by any governmental entity to do any of the following, if it would be contrary to the sincerely held religious beliefs of the individual or religious entity regarding sex, gender or sexual orientation: 1. provide any services, accommodations, advantages, facilities, goods or privileges; 2. provide counseling, adoption, foster care, and other social services; 3. provide employment or employment benefits, related to, or related to the celebration of, any marriage, domestic partnership, civil union or similar arrangement; 4. solemnize any marriage, domestic partnership, civil union or similar arrangement; or 5. treat any marriage, domestic partnership, civil union or similar arrangement as valid. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 SB 724 by Sen. Joseph Silk would change the nature of legally recognized marriages in Oklahoma by calling them covenants and not marriages and restricting them to male and female couples. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. SB 478, by Sen. Corey Brooks, the Protection of Religious Freedom in the Sanctity of Marriage Act of 2015, would establish a religious exemption for any elected official or government employee or private business that does not want to issue a marriage license, officiate or solemnize a marriage, or provide business services to a individuals they do not agree with because of individual religious views and would exempt them from lawsuits or disciplinary action. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. SB 669 by Sen. Nathan Dahm, would limit marriage to male and female couples and would establish a "civil declaration of marriage" that would have the same effect as a marriage license. Only the parties to the marriage or an attorney could draft the declaration. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... visit www.SOSTulsa.org Under SB 788 by Sen. Dan Newberry, no judge or religious officiant would be required to perform a marriage that violates his or her religious beliefs. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. Grieving Well SB 805, the Preservation and Sovereignty of Marriage Act, by Sen. Josh Breecheen, would make it illegal for a state official to issue or recognize a marriage license to a same-sex couple or for any public funds be used to issue a marriage license. The bill also would declare that no one could challenge it in court. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. SB 733, by Sen. Anthony Sykes, would require a blood test from a physician to be presented to the court clerk at the time of application for a license showing that neither applicant has a communicable or infectious disease or, if infected, the disease is not in a communicable stage at the time. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting Sunday, February 22nd, 2015; 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Recent bills put forth by Oklahoma legislators have been a direct attack on the LGBT community. Now is the time for us to respond. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Join Oklahomans for Equality on Sunday, February 22nd at 2:00 pm for our continuing weekly series of MY OKLAHOMA Town Hall meetings to discuss the bills and their possible outcome on your life as an Oklahoman. We can provide some talking points when discussing these bills with your legislators. Discuss coordinated strategic visits to the Oklahoma State Capitol. Get an update on the weekly visits to the Capitol. Oklahomans for Equality can provide volunteer child care during the meeting for those who need it. Also interpretive services for the deaf and hard of hearing are available upon request. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to arrange these services. throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representative and ask them not to support the following House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599, and 2215. Senate Bills 440, 478, 669, 724, 733, 788 and 805. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx Remember personal letters and notes, phone calls and a face to face visit with your legislator are the most effective method to engage your elected official. LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol Thursday, March 5, leave the Equality Center at 7:00 am Oklahomans for Equality invites high school youth, counselors and teachers to join us for OkEq's LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol to address concerns about Rep. Sally Kern's HB 1598. This bill would give state sanction to so-called "conversion therapy," which medical and psychological organizations have labeled child abuse. Students must have consent from a parent or guardian and have proof that their schools have approved their absence from classes. Transportation on a chartered bus from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, plus breakfast and lunch, will be provided. Must RSVP in advance. Contact Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Put "High School Day at the Capitol" in the subject line. 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org When Christians Get It Wrong - Book Study 6-week course continues Thursday, February 19th, at 6:30 pm Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 "When Christians Get it Wrong," a new six-week book study group led by the Rev. Twila Gibbens of St. Paul's United Methodist Church, started Thursday, February 5th, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Remaining topics: • Christians, Science and Politics • When Speaking of Other Religions • When Bad Things Happen • When Christians Get It Right Get F.I.T. You may order the book by Rev. Adam Hamilton and read before discussions. Shop from Amazon and support Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. NOH8 Open Photo Shoot Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Friday, March 13th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Friday, March 13th, 2015, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2015 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on March 13th at 5:00 pm and will end at 8:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. ChiWalking Every other Saturday at 1:30 p.m., continues February 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Facilitated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, February 26th, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, February 26th at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. T U L S A e Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Guys Dine Too Tuesday, March 3rd, 6:30 pm Dalesandro's, 1742 S. Boston Ave. The October meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Dalesandro's on Tuesday, March 3rd, at 6:30 pm. Dalesandro's is located at 1742 S. Boston Ave. Guys Dine Too is a social program for gay men and their male allies/friends. It meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org March First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Nanda Thompson in an exhibit titled "Whispers" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 5th, 2015 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 5th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill girl scout~ Equality Center on Thursday, March 5th, 2015 starting at 5:00 pm. All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111,j;l~_l}.1[11 POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Gay Softball Sunday Funday Sunday, February 22, 1-4 p.m. New Age Renegades, 1649 S. Main St. Sunday, March 8, 1-4 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. Third St. Join Tulsa Metro Softball League at New Age Renegades on Sunday, February 22, 2015, for the first ever Sunday Funday Beer Bust! You'll get to meet the players, learn about the league, find out how to join, and you get to enjoy FREE BEER! TMSL will host another Sunday Funday Beer Bust on Sunday, March 8, at the Tulsa Eagle if you can't make this one. Want more info on the softball www.TulsaMetroSoftball.com league? Visit EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Retirement 101: Plan Today to Enjoy Tomorrow Tuesday, March 10th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Nancy Haase, a partner with New York Life, will lead a free seminar on the basics of retirement planning for the LGBT community. Topics include: Workforce Oklahoma Access Point • What is an IRA • What is a Roth IRA • Should I do a rollover? • What about mutual funds or annuities? Open Everyday RSVP to programs@okeq.org. Call 918-743-4297 for more information. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of every month, next meeting March 16th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will next meet on Monday, March 16th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being of gay, lesbian, .PFLAG TULSA CH bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918.749.4901 ---- A Murder of Storytellers book signing Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Tuesday, March 24th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Local authors Jack Burgos, Shannon Iwanski, Kaz Kirkpatrick, Adream Messmer, and CJ Miles IV -- collectively known as A Murder of Storytellers -- invite you to join them for a reading and book signing session. Covering genres from horror, fairy tales, contemporary, fantasy, and many more, the authors will share short stories and answer questions about their works, writing, being an Indie author/publisher, and anything else that may come to mind. The authors will have books to sell and sign for the audience. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. A Murder of Storytellers is a writers group that meets every Friday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4th, 10:00 am - 5 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... • Youth awareness and education Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 18th, 2015, at 6:00 pm. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org l Home / Small Business IT Expertise J II V Owner• ihelptulso.com Tel: (918) 605-8777 Web: www.ihelptulso.com Email: johnv@ihelptulso.com Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa Don't Tell Me I'm Sick A panel on trans identities and mental health University of Tulsa Chapman Lecture Hall Thursday, February 26th, 7:00 pm. Join HeadStrong, Pride at TU, and Women's and Gender Studies on Thursday, February 26th, at 7:00 pm in Chapman Lecture Hall for a panel to discuss mental health, transgender identities, and the way in which our society "pathologizes" transgender people. There will also be an introduction to gender and a history of gender dysphoria. Panelists include representatives of academia as well as activists and members of the transgender community. 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... The panel is free and open to the public. There will be refreshments. Come be a part of this important discussion. Don't Tell Me I'm Sick A Panel on Trans Id entiti es and Mental Health Feb. 26 th , 7pm in the Chapman Lecture Hall Wi th Panelists: Katie Hill: TU student and author of Rethm~mg 1om1ol a Memo,rin Transmon Jim Scholl: PhD . tudem ,n Clinic.ii r ychology Vic Wiener: GSA Coo rdm.i1or at Youth Services of Tulsa Steven Leigh Williams: tudent min, ter a1 UU Church of Banle ville and M D,v candida1e a1 Ph,11,p Theo log,cal Seminary Dr. Jan Wi lson: A sociate Profes or of History and Women and Ge nder Stud ies · pon-mred by He.id tron~. the Ot>p.inment of Women'li.ind Gender nid1es .ind Pndc at TU Lindsey McKee, Indulgences: Songs I Love to Sing Sunday, February 22, 7:30 pm. Trinity Episcopal Church, 501 S. Cincinnati Ave. Music at 501's concert series presents Lindsey McKee in Indulgences: Songs I Love to Sing on Feb. 22 at 7:30 pm. Originally from Great Britain, Lindsey has a diverse career that has spanned three continents. She has performed not only in opera, but in recital, oratorio and musical theatre. She studied voice at The Guildhall School of Music in London. While a student she sang with the London Bach choir at Prince Charles and Lady Diana Spencer's wedding. She also made her professional debut in London singing "Mary" in Elgar's "The Kingdom." Lindsey has sung with many orchestras across the United States. Lindsey divides her time between Tulsa, where she makes a home with her incredibly supportive husband, Steve, and Kansas City, where she teaches voice at The Conservatory of Music UMKC. For more information, visit musicat501.com or call 918.582.4128. General admission tickets at the door at $20. Student and senior admission is $10. Get tickets in advance at eventbrite.com. Romance and Chocolates 2015 Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 6:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Romance & Chocolates 2015 Lovin' That Doo Wop Doors open at 6:00 pm, Music & Entertainment begins at 6:30 pm Wine with dinner begins at 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 12 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... At Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tickets $30, Reserved tables available. Limited to 96 Seats, advance purchase is advised Sisters In Song <Rs>mance el, Cfiocorates - Pe6. 21, 2015 Lovin' rfliat <Doo Wop Facebook.com/SisterslnSongTulsa Like on Facebook at www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Council Oak Mens Chorale begin rehearsals First rehearsal on Tuesday, March 3rd, 2015; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church The Council Oak Men's Chorale will begin rehearsal for it's Spring/Summer Concert on Tuesday, March 3 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 27th and Harvard. The Spring/Summer concerts will be held on June 25th and 26th at the Cascia Hall Performing Arts Center under the direction of new Artistic Director Kent Dennis. Joining the Chorale is easy by coming to the council oak rehearsal, then there is a simple audition afterwards. councll oolr mens cholOle COMC would love to have any new members join or previous members rejoin for a wonderful time of singing and brotherhood through music. If you have any questions, contact us through our website at counciloak.org. Alice Bates' 90th Birthday Party Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Alice Wilder Bates is the president of A Friend for A Friend and she is turning 90! Her children are inviting the community to the birthday party. Come by for some cake and punch and share your happy memories of Alice. 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 13 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Saturday, February 21st, 2015 1:00 - 4:00 pm At the Tulsa Elks Lodge 5335 South Harvard If you are unable to attend, Alice would still love to get a note from you about a fond memory you have of her. (2713 E 49th, Tulsa, OK 74105) For more information, call Jane Clark 918.857.2882 HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Deadline is July 17th The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF 0>11.JLl!'Jl.dl.Sl.tiO>l!'Jl. ][lnl.C AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held August 21st - 23rd, at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw Ok. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful ~Afl We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as in hard copy form at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE testing, OSU Specialty Clinic, and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OKEQ). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 14 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Body Electric Workshop April 18th & 19th, 2015 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact Andr� at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 16 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... C RO A TIO VIII The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Do Not Disturb' by Carsen Taite You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Love doesn't wait to be invited in... Ainsley Faraday specializes in the management of sleek, urban hotels, and is reluctant to accept her employer's latest challenge to take over a mom-and-pop property in Santa Fe. Even though she has no desire to be surrounded with lonely mountain ranges and coyote skulls, she can't resist a challenge that might put her within reach of a corner office at headquarters. Rock star Greer Davis's protective bubble of stardom bursts after a night of wanton partying results in a public disaster of epic proportions. Unprepared for the scathing turn of events, Greer heads for the hills-literally. She assumes a new identity and returns to her roots in Northern New Mexico just as her latest album debuts at number one on the charts. When Ainsley and Greer meet on a flight to New Mexico, love is the last thing on either of their minds, but tall mountain vistas, big blue skies, and hot, hot green chili all combine to create a rush of endorphins begging for release. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:00 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/92f685f18d6a1c1b17cebf19a5887661.pdf 5298d4788f6be03acd75e906a8743b5d PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews February 26th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Legislative Alerts Youth Day at the Capitol 2014 Donation Tax Letters Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the NOH8 photo shoot on Friday, March 13th at 5:00 - 8:00 pm. Cost is $40 for solo photos and $25 per person in couples or groups. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Robin LaButti, Plexus Slim Book Study NOH8 New Year, New You Breaking Bad to Be Good Tulsa Pride 2015 Guys Dine Too March First Thursday Art Ask me for FREE sample!!! Girl Scout Cookie Sale Pearl District Makers' Market Tulsa Metro Softball League Retirement 101 T:(918)361--4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robinl•butti@Cox.net Lose weight • Get flt • Improve performance • Increase ,nugy PFLAG Tulsa I AM ENOUGH Book Signing OkEq Legislative Alerts Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representatives and senators and ask them not to support the following: House Bill 1125 would strip county court clerks of their duty of issuing marriage licenses. It would allow clergy to issue marriage "certificates," but any couple not married during a religious ceremony could have only a "common-law" marriage. Rep. Todd Russ of District 55 introduced the bill under the guise of protecting elected officials' religious freedoms. The bill has passed out of committee and now goes to the full House for consideration. Sharing the Trans Experience Equality Business Alliance EBA Sponsor Don't Tell Me I'm Sick Tulsa Gridiron Tracy Spears book signing Does Race Matter? Islam, Christianity, Oklahoma Council Oak Mens Chorale New business start-up guide Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Body Electric Workshop HIV Wellness Retreat Rep. David Brumbaugh has put forth House Bill 1007, which targets same-sex couples wishing to LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... be married and seeks to protect clergy persons who do not wish to or cannot perform weddings for same-sex couples. Under present Oklahoma law, only clergy persons willing and able to perform same-sex weddings are allowed to. Under existing law, no one is forced to perform same-sex weddings. The bill has passed the House and now goes to the Senate. House Bill 159 8, which Rep. Sally Kern filed as the Freedom to Obtain Conversion Therapy Act but passed through committee as the Parental and Family Rights in Counseling Protection Act, would codify the right to obtain certain counseling or conversion therapy; prevent certain infringement by the state; and protect mental health providers who engage in sexual-orientation or genderidentity change efforts with a child. It now goes to the full House. House Bill 1599, the Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act by Rep. Sally Kern, would prohibit the use of public funds for any activity licensing or supporting same-sex marriage and would prohibit public employees from recognizing same-sex marriage licenses. It has passed out of committee and goes to the full House. It has passed a committee and goes to the full House. Rep. Chuck Strohm, R-Jenks, inserted language into House Bill 1371, the Oklahoma Religious Freedom Act, on Monday, and it passed a commi t tee on Tuesday. Strohm says it is intended to protect small businesses that do not want to provide services for marriages to which the business owner objects on religious grounds. The measure also says no state or local government could intervene if such services were denied. This bill passed out of committee on Tuesday and now is before the full House. Marriage Equality -Photos Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 26th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ Senate Bill 788 by Sen. Dan Newberry, no judge or religious officiant would be required to perform a marriage that violates his or her religious beliefs. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. Take Action: Oklahomans for Equality urges you to contact House Floor Counseling Services Leader Jason Nelson, 405-557-7335, and House Majority Floor Leader 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Charles Ortega, 405-557-7369, to urge them not to bring House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599 or 1371 to the House floor for a vote. Contact Senate Sen. Brian Bingman, President Pro Tempore (405) 521-5565 and Sen. Mike Schulz, Majority Floor Leader (405) 521-5612 and ask that Senate Bill 788 and 21 not be allowed a vote on the Senate floor. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol Thursday, March 5, leave the Equality Center at 7:00 am Oklahomans for Equality invites high school youth, counselors and teachers to join us for OkEq's LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol to address concerns about Rep. Sally Kern's HB 1598. This bill would give state sanction to so-called "conversion therapy," which medical and psychological organizations have labeled child abuse. Students must have consent from a parent or guardian and have proof that their schools have approved their absence from classes. Transportation on a chartered bus from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, plus breakfast and lunch, will be provided. Must RSVP in advance. Contact Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Put "High School Day at the Capitol" in the subject line. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org When Christians Get It Wrong - Book Study 6-week course continues Thursday, February 26th, at 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "When Christians Get it Wrong," a new six-week book study group led by the Rev. Twila Gibbens of St. Paul's United Methodist Church, started Thursday, February 5th, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Remaining topics: • When Speaking of Other Religions • When Bad Things Happen • When Christians Get It Right Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... You may order the book by Rev. Adam Hamilton and read before discussions. Shop from Amazon and support Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. NOH8 Open Photo Shoot Friday, March 13th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Friday, March 13th, 2015, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2015 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on March 13th at 5:00 pm and will end at 8:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. - - - - - - - - Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. - - - - - - - - - - RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. ChiWalking Every other Saturday at 1:30 p.m., continues March 7th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Facilitated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I • . ~ , - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Breaking Bad to Be Good Free workshop series starting March 8th, 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Breaking Bad workshop will be an ongoing monthly workshop highlighting those bad habits so you can take better care of your health and wellness. Speakers and 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... presentations will help you live to be a better you. Sabrina Aston, a certified hypnotherapist, will present the March 8 workshop, which will explore ways in which the therapeutic procedures of hypnosis may be used to transform self-harming thoughts, attitudes and behaviors into self-tending ones grounded in a sense of genuine self worth and well being. Through the mental rehearsal of successful outcomes and positive suggestion, hypnotherapy helps break subconscious associations with negative thought patterns, allowing us to solve problems from new perspectives and embrace positive changes at the conscious level. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, March 5th, 2015, 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, March 5th, at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy , ,. T U L S A for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Guys Dine Too Tuesday, March 3rd, 6:30 pm Dalesandro's, 1742 S. Boston Ave. The March meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Dalesandro's on Tuesday, March 3rd, at 6:30 pm., at Dalesandro's, 1742 S. Boston Ave. Guys Dine Too is a social program for gay men and their male allies/friends. It meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. March First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Nanda Thompson Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... in an exhibit titled "Whispers" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 5th, 2015 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 5th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of ·1 Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill 91r scouts Equality Center on Thursday, March 5th, 2015 starting at 5:00 pm. ~ 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111 lfJ :I~_ 1}.1[II POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS Gay Softball Sunday Funday Sunday, March 8, 1-4 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. Third St. Join Tulsa Metro Softball League at the Tulsa Eagle on Sunday, March 8, 2015, for a Sunday Funday Beer Bust! You'll get to meet the players, learn about the league, find out how to join, and you get to enjoy FREE BEER! Want more info on the softball www.TulsaMetroSoftball.com league? Visit Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Retirement 101: Plan Today to Enjoy Tomorrow jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - Tuesday, March 10th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gender Outreach Nancy Haase, a partner with New York Life, will lead a free seminar on the basics of retirement planning for the LGBT community. Topics include: • What is an IRA • What is a Roth IRA • Should I do a rollover? • What about mutual funds or annuities? RSVP to programs@okeq.org. Call 918-743-4297 for more information. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of every month, next meeting March 16th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will next meet on Monday, March 16th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being of gay, lesbian, PFLAG TULSACHAPTE bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918.749.4901 ----- 'I AM ENOUGH' Pandora Scooter Tuesday, March 17, 5 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pandora Scooter's show "I AM ENOUGH" is about suicide prevention and self-confidence-building for LGBTQ youth. The show follows the story of Pan, who struggles with rejection from her parents and friends for being gay and for being different. After attempting suicide, Pan finds herself in a hospital where, with the help of a fantastic counselor and her inner strength, she realizes she wants to live and thrive and that she is enough. Tulsa is one of approximately 45 cities in 17 states where the show will be produced. The Tulsa production is free and is sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality and Youth Services of Tulsa. A Murder of Storytellers book signing Tuesday, March 24th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Local authors Jack Burgos, Shannon Iwanski, Kaz Kirkpatrick, Adream Messmer, and CJ Miles IV -- collectively known as A Murder of Storytellers -- invite you to join Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... them for a reading and book signing session. Covering genres from horror, fairy tales, contemporary, fantasy, and many more, the authors will share short stories and answer questions about their works, writing, being an Indie author/publisher, and anything else that may come to mind. The authors will have books to sell and sign for the audience. A Murder of Storytellers is a writers group that meets every Friday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4th, 10:00 am - 5 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety • Youth awareness and education Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 18th, at 6:00 pm at Rum Runnerz, 822 S. Sheridan Road. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Don't Tell Me I'm Sick A panel on trans identities and mental health University of Tulsa Chapman Lecture Hall Thursday, February 26th, 7:00 pm. Join HeadStrong, Pride at TU, and Women's and Gender Studies on Thursday, February 26th, at 7:00 pm in Chapman Lecture Hall for a panel to discuss mental health, transgender identities, and the way in which our society "pathologizes" transgender people. There will also be an introduction to gender and a history of gender dysphoria. Panelists include representatives of academia as well as activists and members of the transgender community. The panel is free and open to the public. There will be refreshments. Come be a part of this important discussion. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Don't Tell Me I'm Sick A Pan el on Trans Identiti es and Mental Health Feb. 26 th , 7pm in the Chapman Lecture Hall With Panelists: Katie Hill: TU tudent and author of Rethm~mg NormaL1 Memo,rin Tra11st11or, Jim Scholl: PhD . tudent m Cl,nocal P ychology Vic Wiener: GSA Coo rdinator at Youth Services ofTulsa Steven Leigh Williams: tudent m,no ter at UU Church of Banle vill e and M.D,v candidate at rh,11,p Theo logical Seminary Dr. Jan Wi l on: Associate Profes or of Hi<tory and Women and Ge nder Stud ies pon~red by Hc.id..,trong. thr 0t"partmrm of Women 's and Gender tud1e~ and Pride at TU every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. "Free Fallin" or "They Shoot Pigeons Don't They?" Tulsa Gridiron Oklahoma Jazz Hall of Fame, 5 S. Boston Ave. Friday, Feb. 27, and Saturday, Feb. 28, 8-11 pm "Free Fallin" or "They Shoot Pigeons Don't They?" For nearly eight decades, the Tulsa Gridiron has entertained audiences with its irreverent wit and whimsy. Blending musical parody with sharp dialogue, the Gridiron skewers newsmakers of all sorts, from local politicians to international pop stars. From march-in to march-out, the Gridiron is non-stop fun. FREE FALLIN! OR THEY Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org SHOOT j PIGEONS DON'T THEY? ~ ~~~fXARY 2015 Through its 501(c)3, the Tulsa Gridiron provides scholarships for aspiring young practitioners of the First Amendment. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Admission starts at $30. Tickets are available at tickets.tulsagridiron.org. "What Exceptional Leaders Know" book signing Saturday, Feb. 28th, 1:00-3:00 pm Barnes and Noble at Southroads, 5231 E. 41st St. Tracy Spears will sign and discuss her book "What WHAT EXCEPTIONAL Exceptional Leaders Know." Spears has been a LEADERS KNOW national business consultant for more than 25 years High Impact Skills, Stntegiu &Ideu for Ltadm Traq Spears & \\'all} S(hmadc r and specializes in developing leaders, inspiring teamwork and enhancing inter-office communications. She earned her college degree from the University of Oklahoma on an athletic scholarship and was on the U.S. National Softball Team. She is on the Oklahomans for Equality Board of Advisers. For more information, click here. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Does Race Matter? 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Tulsa Community College Metro Campus Thomas K. McKeon Center for Creativity, 910 S. Boston Ave. Saturday, Feb. 28th, 2:00-4:30 pm The Tulsa and state NAACPs are helping to bring together more than two dozen community leaders, including Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins, to take on inequality and justice in a public conversation dubbed "Does Race Matter?" The conversation is free and open to the public. See a Tulsa World article on the event here. Islam, Christianity, Oklahoma ... Tuesday, March 3rd, 6:30-8:00 pm Boston Avenue United Methodist Church, 1301 S. Boston Ave. Boston Avenue's Interfaith Concerns Committee presents Islam, Christianity, Oklahoma ... From Violence and Rhetoric to Healing and Hope. This panel discussion will feature: • Dr. Imad Enchassi, senior imam and president, Islamic Society of Oklahoma BOSTON AV[NU[ u, TED MET~ODI ( HURCH City, Chair of Islamic Studies, Oklahoma City University • Dr. Charles Kimball, presidential professor and director, Religious Studies Program, University of Oklahoma • Dr. William Tabbernee, executive director, Oklahoma Council of Churches Questions and answers following the panel discussion. Council Oak Mens Chorale begin rehearsals First rehearsal on Tuesday, March 3rd, 2015; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church The Council Oak Men's Chorale will begin rehearsal for it's Spring/Summer Concert on Tuesday, March 3 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 27th and Harvard. The Spring/Summer concerts will be held on June 25th and 26th at the Cascia Hall Performing Arts Center under the direction of new Artistic Director Kent Dennis. Joining the Chorale is easy by coming to the council oak rehearsal, then there is a simple audition afterwards. council oo/r /1lfJIS chorole COMC would love to have any new members join or previous members rejoin for a wonderful time of singing and brotherhood through music. If you have any questions, contact us through our website at counciloak.org. 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Open for Business: A Start-Up Guide Sun Building Conference Facilities 907 S. Detroit Ave., 10th Floor Wednesday, March 4, 8:30 am-noon Launch Your Business: A Workshop for Entrepreneurs, is a free workshop for entrepreneurs in the Tulsa Metro area who want to start or grow a small business. Attendees will receive tips about idea formation and feasibility of a business idea, developing a business plan, marketing strategies, financing a business, and information from the Oklahoma Tax Commission. Presenters will include Dewey Brandon, director of taxpayer services and education at the Oklahoma Tax Commission; and experts from SCORE, the Oklahoma Small Business Development Centers, and REI Women's Business Center. ,T, REI 'lf SCORE~ ___ .., . S BDC"" A ~ WOMEN'S BUSINESS CENTER" "'f s FOR THE LIFE OF YOUR BUSINESS OKLAHOMA Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to COR. ATI L VIII H E>E> y The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Body Electric Workshop April 18th & 19th, 2015 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the ~ heart using conscious breath, r the Magic of 118 V • 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact Andr� at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Deadline is July 17th The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF 0>1U1.ltll.da.ti0>Jtll. ][Jtll.ce. AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/ AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held August 21st - 23rd, at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw Ok. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful ..Z,A!J We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as in hard copy form at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE testing, OSU Specialty Clinic, and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OKEQ). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - - with " OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'And Tango Makes Three' by Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell, illustrated by Henry Cole You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "And Tango Makes Three" is the bestselling, heartwarming true story of two penguins who create a nontraditional family. At the penguin house at the Central Park Zoo, two penguins named Roy and Silo were a little bit different from the others. But their desire for a family was the same. And with the help of a kindly zookeeper, Roy and Silo get the chance to welcome a baby penguin of their very own. Selected as an ALA Notable Children's Book Nominee and a Lambda Literary Award Finalist, "this joyful story about the meaning of family is a must for any library." (School Library Journal, starred review) Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ~ Volu t r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fUL A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:01 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d64c2375da55ae500ebb6e620dbe5a1f.pdf 58511c1c7e5b25350610b54a11f16c47 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews March 4, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Youth Day at the Capitol Girl Scout Cookie Sale March First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the NOH8 photo shoot on Friday, March 13th at 5:00 - 8:00 pm. Cost is $40 for solo photos and $25 per person in couples or groups. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Robin LaButti, Plexus Slim Legislative Alerts 2014 Donation Tax Letters Book Study Tulsa Pride 2015 Pearl District Makers' Market Tulsa Metro Softball League Breaking Bad to Be Good Ask me for FREE sample!!! Retirement 101 NOH8 PFLAG Tulsa I AM ENOUGH T:(918)361--4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robinl•butti@Cox.net Lose weight • Get flt • Improve performance • Increase ,nugy Equality Business Alliance Gay Pride Bingo Night Book Signing LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol Sharing the Trans Experience Thursday, March 5, leave the Equality Center at 7 a.m. EBA Sponsor Oklahomans for Equality invites high school youths, counselors and teachers to join us for OkEq's LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol to address concerns about House Bill 1598, the Parental and Family Rights in Counseling Protection Act regarding so-called "conversion therapy," and Senate Bill 21, the Religious Viewpoints Antidiscrimination Act. Tulsa Gridiron Students must have consent from a parent or guardian and have proof that their schools have approved their absence from classes. Transportation on a chartered bus from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, plus breakfast and lunch, will be provided. Must RSVP in advance. Contact Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Put "High School Day at the Capitol" in the subject line. New business start-up guide Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Body Electric Workshop Dining Out for Life HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage - - - Equality - - - -Photos --Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 5, 5-8 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Find Us on Facebook Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill girl scout~ Equality Center on the evening of Thursday, March 5. Show your support for Girl Scouts' inclusiveness by buying your Girl Scouts cookies here! OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 26th, 7:00 pm March First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 5, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Nanda Thompson in an exhibit titled "Whispers." An opening reception will be held from 6-9 p.m. Thursday, March 5. The exhibit continues throughout the month. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ OkEq Legislative Alerts These are what remains of the more than 13 bills Oklahoma legislators filed this legislative session targeting LGBT Oklahomans. More than half of those bills were killed in committee, thanks in large part to your efforts in contacting legislators. Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair-minded Oklahomans to continue to contact your state representatives and senators and ask them not to support those that remain: House Bill 1125 would do away with the issuance of marriage licenses by county court clerks. It would allow clergy and judges to issue marriage "certificates," which would then be filed at the court clerk's office. Any couple not married during a ceremony could file an affidavit with the court clerk declaring that they have a "common-law" marriage. Rep. Todd Russ of District 55 introduced the bill under the guise of protecting elected officials' religious freedoms. It initially allowed only clergy -not judges -- to issue marriage certificates and Counseling Services 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... would have restricted marriage to opposite-gender couples. The bill has passed out of committee, where it was modified, and now goes to the full House for consideration. Rep. David Brumbaugh has put forth House Bill 1007, which targets same-sex couples wishing to be married and seeks to protect clergy who do not wish to or cannot perform weddings for same-sex couples. Under present Oklahoma law, only clergy who are willing and able to perform same-sex weddings are allowed to do so. Under existing law, no one is forced to perform same-sex weddings. The bill has passed the House and now goes to the Senate. House Bill 1598, which Rep. Sally Kern filed as the Freedom to Obtain Conversion Therapy Act but passed through committee as the Paren tal and Family Rights in Counseling Protection Act, would codify the right to obtain conversion therapy and would protect parents and mental health providers who engage in sexual-orientation or gender-identity change efforts with a child. It now goes to the full House . House Bill 1599, the Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act by Rep. Sally Kern, would prohibit the use of public funds for any activity licensing or supporting same-sex marriage and would prohibit public employees from recognizing same-sex marriage licenses. It has passed out of committee and goes to the full House. It has passed a committee and goes to the full House. Rep. Chuck Strohm, R-Jenks, has proposed House Bill 1371, the Oklahoma Religious Freedom Act . Strohm says it is intended to protect small businesses that do not want to provide services for marriages to which the business owner objects on religious grounds. The measure also says no state or local government could intervene if such services were denied. This bill passed out of committee and now is before the full House. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Senate Bill 788 by Sen. Dan Newberry, says no judge or religious officiant would be required to perform a marriage that violates his or her religious beliefs. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... Take Action: Oklahomans for Equality urges you to contact House Floor Leader Jason Nelson, 405-557-7335, and House Majority Floor Leader Charles Ortega, 405-557-7369, to urge them not to bring House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599 or 1371 to the House floor for a vote. Contact Senate Sen. Brian Bingman, President Pro Tempore (405) 521-5565 and Sen. Mike Schulz, Majority Floor Leader (405) 521-5612 and ask that Senate Bill 788 and 21 not be allowed a vote on the Senate floor. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq treasurer, at Treasurer@OkEq.org When Christians Get It Wrong - Book Study Six-week course continues Thursday, March 5, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "When Christians Get it Wrong," a six-week book study led by the Rev. Twila Gibbens of St. Paul's United Methodist Church, started Thursday, Feb. 5. Two sessions are left. Remaining topics: • When Bad Things Happen • When Christians Get It Right You may order the book by the Rev. Adam Hamilton and read before discussions. Shop from Amazon and support Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, March 5, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Everyone is invited to come and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever. 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7, noon-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market this Saturday afternoon and evening. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods and services as well as live music, poetry and performances. For more information on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket. LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111W:l~_Q.1[11 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS Gay Softball Sunday Funday Sunday, March 8, 1-4 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. Third St. Join Tulsa Metro Softball League at the Tulsa Eagle this Sunday afternoon for a Sunday Funday Beer Bust! You'll get to meet the players, learn about the league, find out how to join and enjoy FREE BEER! Want more info on the softball www.TulsaMetroSoftball.com league? Visit Breaking Bad to Be Good Free workshop series starting Sunday, March 8, 2 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Breaking Bad workshop will be an ongoing monthly workshop highlighting those bad habits so you can take better care of your health and wellness. Speakers and presentations will help you become a better you. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Sabrina Aston, a certified hypnotherapist, will present the March 8 workshop, which will explore ways in which the therapeutic procedures of hypnosis may be used to transform self-harming thoughts, attitudes and behaviors 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... into self-tending ones grounded in a sense of genuine self worth and well being. Through the mental rehearsal of successful outcomes and positive suggestion, hypnotherapy can help break subconscious associations with negative thought patterns, allowing us to solve problems from new perspectives and embrace positive changes at the conscious level. Retirement 101: Plan Today to Enjoy Tomorrow Tuesday, March 10, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Nancy Haase, a partner with New York Life, will lead a free seminar on the basics of retirement planning for the LGBT community. Topics include: • What is an IRA • What is a Roth IRA • Should I do a rollover? • What about mutual funds or annuities? Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 RSVP to programs@okeq.org. Call 918-743-4297 for more information. NOH8 Open Photo Shoot Friday, March 13, 5-8 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2015 Committee will host a NOH8 photo shoot at the Equality Center. Prices for the NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot are $40 for individual portraits and $25 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at ----- -www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting March 16, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, March 16. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being PFLAG TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - or call 918-749-4901 'I AM ENOUGH' Pandora Scooter Tuesday, March 17, 5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pandora Scooter's show "I AM ENOUGH" is about suicide prevention and self-confidence-building for LGBTQ youth. The show follows the story of Pan, who struggles with rejection from her parents and friends for being gay and for being different. After attempting suicide, Pan finds herself in a hospital where, with the help of a fantastic counselor and her inner strength, she realizes she wants to live and thrive and that she is enough. Tulsa is one of approximately 45 cities in 17 states where the show will be produced. The Tulsa production is free and is sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality and Youth Services of Tulsa. Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, March 18, 6 p.m. Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, March 18, at Rum Runnerz, 822 S. Sheridan Road. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Gay Pride Bingo Night with Nicole Carrington Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday, March 20, 7-9:30 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... Join Dale Hogan's "Nicole Carrington" for a night of bingo with "characters" and a lip-syncing contest. Full concessions with food and drink will be available for purchase. Admission is $10, and proceeds support Tulsa Pride 2015. Make it a fun night out at the Equality Center! Game Night A Murder of Storytellers book signing Tuesday, March 24, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Local authors Jack Burgos, Shannon Iwanski, Kaz Kirkpatrick, Adream Messmer, and CJ Miles IV -- collectively known as A Murder of Storytellers -- invite you to join them for a reading and book signing session. Covering genres from horror, fairy tales, contemporary, fantasy, and many more, the authors will share short stories and answer questions about their works, writing, being an Indie author/publisher, and anything else that may come to mind. The authors will have books to sell and sign for the audience. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno A Murder of Storytellers is a writers group that meets every Friday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety • Youth awareness and education Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. "Free Fallin" or "They Shoot Pigeons Don't They?" Tulsa Gridiron Oklahoma Jazz Hall of Fame, 5 S. Boston Ave. Thursday, March 5, 8-11 p.m. "Free Fallin" or "They Shoot Pigeons Don't They?" For nearly eight decades, the Tulsa Gridiron has entertained audiences with its irreverent wit and whimsy. Blending musical parody with sharp dialogue, the Gridiron skewers newsmakers of all sorts, from local politicians to international pop stars. From march-in to march-out, the Gridiron is non-stop fun. FREE FALLIN! OR THEY SHOOT j PIGEONS DON'T THEY? ,~~nm iiiiiiiiaiiiiii 2015 Through its 501(c)3, the Tulsa Gridiron provides scholarships for aspiring young practitioners of the First Amendment. Admission starts at $30. Tickets are available at tickets.tulsagridiron.org. Open for Business: A Start-Up Guide Sun Building Conference Facilities Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... 907 S. Detroit Ave., 10th Floor Wednesday, March 4, 8:30 a.m.-noon every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm Launch Your Business: A Workshop for Entrepreneurs, is a free workshop for entrepreneurs in the Tulsa Metro area who want to start or grow a small business. Attendees will receive tips about idea formation and feasibility of a business idea, developing a business plan, marketing strategies, financing a business, and information from the Oklahoma Tax Commission. Presenters will include Dewey Brandon, director of taxpayer services and education at the Oklahoma Tax Commission; and experts from SCORE, the Oklahoma Small Business Development Centers, and REI Women's Business Center. , T , REI WOMEN'S BUSINESS CENTER °lf A ~ i' s S-~a_=·DC... SCORE /A - ~ MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 7,M FOR THE LIFE OF YOUR BUSINESS OKLAHOMA Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to C RO A TIO VIII L H E:>E:> y Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Body Electric Workshop Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org April 18 & 19 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact Andr� at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. Dining out for Life Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Din Out. Fight ID For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF 0>1l.ll.:irnda.i1::ii.0>:irn ][mi.cc::. AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful ..Z,A!J 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'And Tango Makes Three' by Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell, illustrated by Henry Cole You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "And Tango Makes Three" is the bestselling, heartwarming true story of two penguins who create a nontraditional family. At the penguin house at the Central Park Zoo, two penguins named Roy and Silo were a little bit different from the others. But their desire for a family was the same. And with the help of a kindly zookeeper, Roy and Silo get the chance to welcome a baby penguin of their very own. Selected as an ALA Notable Children's Book Nominee and a Lambda Literary Award Finalist, "this joyful story about the meaning of family is a must for any library." (School Library Journal, starred review) Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... • :JI. •. Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ruLSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:02 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f528b5827d30120c14ce203195c13f51.pdf f4dbf61d8ca287e1d640443cb38ddbe1 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews March 11, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Unity Walk OkEq -Applauds - - - OU Girl Scout Cookie Sale Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the NOH8 photo shoot on Friday, March 13th at 5:00 - 8:00 pm. Cost is $40 for solo photos and $25 per person in couples or groups. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA March First Thursday Art NOH8 I AM ENOUGH Legislative Alerts SAGE St. Patrick's Day Lunch Equality Business Alliance Gay Pride Bingo Night Youth Day at the Capitol Book Study Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tulsa Pride 2015 Breaking Bad to Be Good PFLAG Tulsa Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Book Signing Sharing the Trans Experience Barney Frank Documentary EBA Sponsor "The Hill" Documentary Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Body Electric Workshop Dining Out for Life HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Equality Photos -----Pride Store Rainbow Library Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Volunteer 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... Unity Walk Rally and march against racism Thursday, March 12, 5:15 p.m. Williams Green to John Hope Franklin Reconciliation Park Find Us on Facebook Meet at the Williams Green, Third Street and Boston Avenue, and march to the John Hope Franklin Reconciliation Park, 309 N. Detroit Ave. March begins at 5:15 p.m. The Oklahoma portrayed by a few is not the Oklahoma known or desired by the vast majority of its residents. While we still have a long way to go in valuing people of all walks of life, this walk can demonstrate the progress made while also emphasizing our hope for creating a more united city and state. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 26th, 7:00 pm OkEq applauds swift action at OU Oklahomans for Equality applauds University of Oklahoma President David Boren for his quick and unequivocal response to the racist actions of members of the Sigma Alpha Epsilon fraternity. OkEq knows that all equality-minded Oklahomans agree that this behavior is intolerable and unacceptable. As the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. wrote, injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. As such, these students have proven themselves not only unworthy of calling themselves Sooners, as President Boren said, but indeed, of calling themselves Oklahomans. At OkEq, we stand with anyone who stands against injustice and inequality anywhere and everywhere. NOTON OUR CAMPUS Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 12, 5-8 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill ·1 Equality Center on the evening of Thursday, March 12. g1r scouts Show your support for Girl Scouts' inclusiveness by buying your Girl Scouts cookies here! ~ Counseling Services 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 March First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 12, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of Nanda Thompson in an exhibit titled "Whispers." An opening reception will be held from 6-9 p.m. Thursday, March 12. The exhibit continues throughout the month. NOH8 Open Photo Shoot Friday, March 13, 5-8 p.m. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2015 Committee will host a NOH8 photo shoot at the Equality Center. Prices for the NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot are $40 for individual portraits and $25 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at ----- -www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. 'I AM ENOUGH' Pandora Scooter Tuesday, March 17, 5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... Pandora Scooter's show "I AM ENOUGH" is about suicide prevention and self-confidence-building for LGBTQ youth. The show follows the story of Pan, who struggles with rejection from her parents and friends for being gay and for being different. After attempting suicide, Pan finds herself in a hospital where, with the help of a fantastic counselor and her inner strength, she realizes she wants to live and thrive and that she is enough. Tulsa is one of approximately 45 cities in 17 states where the show will be produced. The Tulsa production is free and is sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality and Youth Services of Tulsa. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org OkEq Legislative Alerts These are what remains of the more than 13 bills Oklahoma legislators filed this legislative session targeting LGBT Oklahomans. More than half of those bills were killed in committee, thanks in large part to your efforts in contacting legislators. Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair-minded Oklahomans to continue to contact your state representatives and senators and ask them not to support those that remain: House Bill 1125 would do away with the issuance of marriage licenses by county court clerks. It would allow clergy and judges to issue marriage "certificates," which would then be filed at the court clerk's office. Any couple not married during a ceremony could file an affidavit with the court clerk declaring that they have a "common-law" marriage. Rep. Todd Russ of District 55 introduced the bill under the guise of protecting elected officials' religious freedoms. It initially allowed only clergy -not judges -- to issue marriage certificates and would have restricted marriage to opposite-gender couples. The bill has been passed by the House and now goes to a Senate committee for consideration. Rep. David Brumbaugh has put forth House Bill 1007, which targets same-sex couples wishing to be married and seeks to protect clergy who do not wish to or cannot perform weddings for same-sex couples. Under present Oklahoma law, only clergy who are willing and able to perform same-sex weddings are allowed to do so. Under existing law, no one is forced to perform same-sex weddings. The bill has passed the House and now is before the Senate. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather House Bill 1598, which Rep. Sally Kern filed as the Freedom to Obtain Conversion Therapy Act but passed through committee as the Paren tal and Family Rights in Counseling Protection Act, would codify the right to obtain conversion therapy and would protect parents and mental health 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... providers who engage in sexual-orientation or gender-identity change efforts with a child. It now goes to the full House. House Bill 1599, the Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act by Rep. Sally Kern, would prohibit the use of public funds for any activity licensing or supporting same-sex marriage and would prohibit public employees from recognizing same-sex marriage licenses. It has passed out of committee and goes to the full House. Rep. Chuck Strohm, R-Jenks, has proposed House Bill 1371, the Oklahoma Religious Freedom Act . Strohm says it is intended to protect small businesses that do not want to provide services for marriages to which the business owner objects on religious grounds. The measure also says no state or local government could intervene if such services were denied. This bill passed out of committee and now is before the full House. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Senate Bill 788 by Sen. Dan Newberry, says no judge or religious officiant would be required to perform a marriage that violates his or her religious beliefs. Has passed the Senate Judiciary Committee and is now before the full Senate. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Take Action: Oklahomans for Equality urges you to contact House Floor Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday Leader Jason Nelson, 405-557-7335, and House Majority Floor Leader Charles Ortega, 405-557-7369, to urge them not to bring House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599 or 1371 to the House floor for a vote. Contact Senate Sen. Brian Bingman, President Pro Tempore (405) 521-5565 and Sen. Mike Schulz, Majority Floor Leader (405) 521-5612 and ask that Senate Bill 788 and 21 not be allowed a vote on the Senate floor. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx SAGE St. Patrick's Day Lunch each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tuesday, March 17, 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... Join SAGE for a St. Patrick's Day lunch at the Equality Center. Prizes will be given for the best hobo costume. Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders (SAGE) is the country's largest and oldest organization dedicated to improving the lives of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) older adults. Our mission is to lead in addressing issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) aging. - See more at: http://sageusa.org/ about/what.cfm#sthash.zKa4fZH4.dpuf Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders (SAGE) is the country's largest and oldest organization dedicated to improving the lives of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) older adults. Our mission is to lead in addressing issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) aging. See more at: http://sageusa.org/about/what.cfm#sthash.zKa4fZH4.dpuf SAGE -- Services and Advocacy for GLBT Elders -- is a nationwide organization that is dedicated to improving the lives of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender older adults, and Oklahomans for Equality has an active chapter. Come and be a part of it! . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, March 18, 6 p.m. Rum Runnerz, 822 S. Sheridan Road Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, March 18, at Rum Runnerz, 822 S. Sheridan Road. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Gay Pride Bingo Night with Nicole Carrington Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday, March 20, 7-9:30 p.m. Join Dale Hogan's "Nicole Carrington" for a night of bingo with "characters" and a lip-syncing contest. Full concessions with food and drink will be available for purchase. Admission is $10, and proceeds support Tulsa Pride 2015. Make it a fun night out at the Equality Center! LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol Tuesday, March 24, leave the Equality Center at 7 a.m. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... Oklahomans for Equality invites high school youths, counselors and teachers to join us for the rescheduled OkEq's LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol to address concerns about House Bill 1598, the Parental and Family Rights in Counseling Protection Act regarding so-called "conversion therapy," and Senate Bill 21, the Religious Viewpoints Antidiscrimination Act. Students must have consent from a parent or guardian and have proof that their schools have approved their absence from classes. Transportation on a chartered bus from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, plus breakfast and lunch, will be provided. Must RSVP in advance. Contact Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Put "High School Day at the Capitol" in the subject line. jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group When Christians Get It Wrong - Book Study Six-week course continues Thursday, March 12, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "When Christians Get it Wrong," a six-week book study led by the Rev. Twila Gibbens of St. Paul's United Methodist Church, started Thursday, Feb. 5 and wraps up this Thursday. Remaining topic: • When Christians Get It Right You may order the book by the Rev. Adam Hamilton and read before the discussion. Shop from Amazon and support Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. 2014 Donation Tax Letters Every Friday* 7 p.m. *No meeting Friday, March 27, 2015 A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq treasurer, at Treasurer@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, April 2, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Everyone is invited to come and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Game Night Breaking Bad to Be Good Free workshop series starting Sunday, April 12, 2 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Breaking Bad workshop will be an ongoing monthly workshop highlighting those bad habits so you can take better care of your health and wellness. Speakers and presentations will help you become a better you. Sabrina Aston, a certified hypnotherapist, will present the March 8 workshop, which will explore ways in which the therapeutic procedures of hypnosis may be used to transform self-harming thoughts, attitudes and behaviors into self-tending ones grounded in a sense of genuine self worth and well being. Through the mental rehearsal of successful outcomes and positive suggestion, hypnotherapy can help break subconscious associations with negative thought patterns, allowing us to solve problems from new perspectives and embrace positive changes at the conscious level. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting March 16, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, March 16. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being PFLAG TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - or call 918-749-4901 A Murder of Storytellers book signing Tuesday, March 24, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Local authors Jack Burgos, Shannon Iwanski, Kaz Kirkpatrick, Adream Messmer, and CJ Miles IV -- collectively known as A Murder of Storytellers -- invite you to join them for a reading and book signing session. Covering genres from horror, fairy tales, contemporary, fantasy, and many more, the authors will share Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... short stories and answer questions about their works, writing, being an Indie author/publisher, and anything else that may come to mind. The authors will have books to sell and sign for the audience. A Murder of Storytellers is a writers group that meets every Friday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety • Youth awareness and education Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend. Live from NY's 92nd Street Y with Barney Frank April 20, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa's Congregation B'nai Emunah will broadcast "Barney Frank: In His Own Words" as part of the Smart Conversations 2015 speaker series. Broadcast in partnership with the 92nd Street Y in New York City, former Rep. Barney Frank will be joined in conversation by noted television journalist Jeff Greenfield. Smart Conversations 2015 features dynamic and visionary thinkers, newsmakers, and entertainers in conversation via satellite from Manhattan. Tickets for this single lecture cost $10. Students are admitted free. Coffee, treats and conversation precede and follow each performance. To purchase tickets or for more information, call the Synagogue at 918-9353373 or email reservations@bnaiemunah.com. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Robin LaButti, Plexus Slim Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm Ask me for FREE sample!!! MISSION: ·rim All natural products fo r diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti T: (918) 361-4 188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose weight • Git 111 • Improve parfonnanca • lncrnse 1nugy "The Hill" documentary Thursday, April 9, 6:30-9 p.m., free Living Arts, 307 E. M.B. Brady St. Set upon building a new school, the city of New Haven, Conn., claims eminent domain over the UJpper Hill neighborhood. While the city argues that building the new school corresponds to a need for better school facilities, the residents of the area, mostly struggling low-income African-American families, say the decision corresponds to the city's determination to "sanitize" the neighborhood, which is near the Yale-New Haven Hospital. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org With the help of community leaders and a civil rights lawyer, the unlikely group of neighbors decides to contest the city's claim and take the case to federal court. "The Hill" is a fascinating look at the complex issues surrounding urban planning, gentrification and economic renewal. View the trailer at thehillfilm.com/#trialer. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to C RO A TIO VIII 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Body Electric Workshop April 18 & 19 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact Andr� at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. Dining out for Life Thursday, April 30 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Din Out. f'ight ID, For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF 0>1U1.ltll.dl.a.il::ii.0>ltll. ][ltll.ce . AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/ AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful ..Z,A!J We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Out with Consequences' by Debbie L. McDaniel You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In her memoir "Out with Consequences," Debbie L. McDaniel, a disfellowshipped Jehovah's Witness from McAlester, Okla., 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... details a childhood of sexual abuse suffered at the hands of an elder whom the church refuses to punish. As a child, McDaniel learned how deep cultures of shame, denial and hypocrisy can be when she is made to suffer a years-long cycle of sexual abuse at the hands of the church elder. When simultaneously speaking out and admitting her homosexuality gets her disfellowshipped, McDaniel is shunned by not only the congregation, but also by her family -- all while her abuser remains in good standing with the church. The church warns her and other victims to keep quiet. And going to the authorities does little to help; although her abuser is arrested for his crimes, he is just as quickly released. Despite it all, she survives the fallout to tell her story. In a time when churches' stances on sexual abuse and homosexuality are constantly making headlines, "Out with Consequences" offers a must-read perspective. Written with the strength of voice of someone who has seen it all, McDaniel's story is sure to teach other survivors that if she can survive, they can too. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library olu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:03 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/aec5fb9c616a514b2dfc0cb1f9ccd684.pdf 6a92ff770c426d6b26879c332af97f5a PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews March 18, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Gay Pride Bingo Night Equality Business Alliance MOREcolor Welcome to the eNews. Join us for Gay Pride Bingo Night on Friday, March 20, from 7-9:30 pm. Admission is $10, and proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA March First Thursday Art Legislative Alerts Youth Day at the Capitol Book Signing Adoption and Foster Care 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tulsa Pride 2015 Breaking Bad to Be Good Sharing the Trans Experience Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! PFLAG Tulsa Barney Frank Documentary EBA Sponsor Tulsa Mr. Leather sessions Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant Tulsa Mr. Leather contest Celebration of Reconciliation a professional corporation JOLT Drag Queen Pancake Breakfast (918) 747-5466 Citywide Selma Commemoration Goddess Festival 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 TahlEquality 5K-Run/Walk ---"The Hill" Documentary kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com TU Lecture on Inequality Imperial Court of All Oklahoma CampOUT Body Electric Workshop Dining Out for Life HIV Wellness Retreat Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Equality Photos ------ 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Gay Pride Bingo Night with Nicole Carrington and DJ Crystal Friday, March 20, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Join Dale Hogan's "Nicole Carrington" and DJ Crystal for a night of bingo with "characters" and a lip-syncing contest. Full concessions with food and drink will be available for purchase. Find Us on Facebook Admission is $10, and proceeds support Tulsa Pride 2015. Make it a fun night out at the Equality Center! OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 26th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Equality Business Alliance OkEq Art Exhibit Wednesday, March 18, 6 p.m. Rum Runnerz, 822 S. Sheridan Road The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, March 18, at Rum Runnerz, 822 S. Sheridan Road. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color . i • Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist- Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. Click here for more information. March Art Gallery Display Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists features the works of Nanda Thompson in an exhibit titled "Whispers." The exhibit continues throughout the month. OkEq Legislative Alerts Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 UPDATE: A lot of misinformation about House Bill 1125 is appearing in the media. Please know the facts and help correct them when you see them presented erroneously. House Bill 1125 by Rep. Todd Russ would NOT limit marriage in Oklahoma to only people of faith or only to heterosexual couples. HB1125 would modify the procedure for legally validating marital status. If the bill becomes law, beginning Nov. 1, marriage certificates, not licenses, would be issued by a member of the clergy or a current or retired judge who agrees to solemnize a marriage. The couple would then take that certificate to a county court clerk's office to have it recorded and pay the fee, which would be the same as current fees ($50, or $5 if the couple has undergone premarital counseling). Alternatively, if the parties wishing to be married do not wish to hold a formal ceremony, they could file an affidavit of common law marriage with the court clerk's office instead. The original intent of the bill was to prevent state officials from being required to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples. The bill, as amended, fails to achieve the goal of relieving court clerk's office employees from having anything to do with same-sex marriages because even marriage certificates would need to be recorded with the state, and both opposite-sex and same-sex couples could still be married. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I House Bill 1125 will soon be assigned to a Senate committee, which will recommend whether the bill continues to advance. This bill is pointless and should be tossed. Please contact your state senator and ask him or her to work to defeat this measure. Find your senator here: openstates.org/find_your_legislator ---- ---- LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol Tuesday, March 24, leave the Equality Center at 7 a.m. Oklahomans for Equality invites high school youths, counselors and teachers to join us for the rescheduled OkEq's LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol. Students must have consent from a parent or guardian and have proof that their schools have approved their absence from classes. Transportation on a chartered bus from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, plus breakfast and lunch, will be provided. Must RSVP in advance. Contact Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Put "High School Day at the --Capitol" in the subject line. • ~ , - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather A Murder of Storytellers book signing Tuesday, March 24, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Local authors Jack Burgos, Shannon Iwanski, Kaz Kirkpatrick, Adream Messmer, and CJ Miles IV -- collectively known as A Murder of Storytellers -- invite you to join them for a reading and book signing session. Covering genres from horror, fairy tales, contemporary, fantasy, and many more, the authors will share short stories and answer questions about their works, writing, being an Indie author/publisher, and anything else that may come to mind. The authors will have books to sell and sign for the audience. A Murder of Storytellers is a writers group that meets every Friday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Adoption and Foster Care Open House Saturday, March 28, 2-5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join us to learn about how you can become a foster or adoptive parent during a come-and-go event March 28. Representatives of the Oklahoma Department of Human Services; Eckerd, one of the nation's largest privately funded nonprofit child and family service organizations; and TFI Family Connections, a private not-for-profit 501(c)(3) organization that contracts with the Oklahoma Department of Human Services to place children in foster care, will make presentations. 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq treasurer, at Treasurer@OkEq.org SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, April 2, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Everyone is invited to come and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation .._,,, T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Breaking Bad to Be Good Free workshop series starting Sunday, April 12, 2 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Breaking Bad workshop will be an ongoing monthly workshop highlighting those bad habits so you can take better care of your health and wellness. Speakers and presentations will help you become a better you. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Sabrina Aston, a certified hypnotherapist, will present the March 8 workshop, which will explore ways in which the 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... therapeutic procedures of hypnosis may be used to transform self-harming thoughts, attitudes and behaviors into self-tending ones grounded in a sense of genuine self worth and well being. Through the mental rehearsal of successful outcomes and positive suggestion, hypnotherapy can help break subconscious associations with negative thought patterns, allowing us to solve problems from new perspectives and embrace positive changes at the conscious level. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety • Youth awareness and education Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting April 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, April 20. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being PFLAG TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - - - or call 918-749-4901 Live from NY's 92nd Street Y with Barney Frank April 20, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa's Congregation B'nai Emunah will broadcast "Barney Frank: In His Own Words" as part of the Smart Conversations 2015 speaker series. Broadcast in partnership with the 92nd Street Y in New York City, former Rep. Barney Frank will be joined in conversation by noted television journalist Jeff Greenfield. Smart Conversations 2015 features dynamic and visionary thinkers, newsmakers, and entertainers in conversation via satellite from Manhattan. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Tickets for this single lecture cost $10. Students are admitted free. Coffee, treats and conversation precede and follow each performance. To purchase tickets or for more information, call the Synagogue at 918-9353373 or email reservations@bnaiemunah.com. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Robin LaButti, Plexus Slim Ask me fo r FREE sample !!! ·rim jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. T: (918)361-4188 All natural products for diabetics, weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlobutti E: robin1abut1i@cox.net Lose weight • Get 111 • Improve parfonnanca • Increase 1n1rgy Tulsa Mr. Leather PrEP Information Session and Bettie Crocker Safe-Sex Workshop Bettie Crocker Safe-Sex Workshop Saturday, March 21, 2 p.m. With Eric Paul Leue, Mr. L.A. Leather Saturday, March 21, 3:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join us for a safe-sex workshop with Bettie Crocker and a PrEP information session presented by Eric Paul Leue, Mr. L.A. Leather. Leue, 27, a native of Berlin, is a Los Angeles account executive at a San Francisco firm that produces online applications for the beverage industry. PrEP stands for Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis. The word "prophylaxis" means "to prevent or control the spread of an infection or disease." PrEP is a way for people who don't have HIV to prevent HIV infection by taking a pill every day. The pill contains two medicines that are also used to treat HIV. If you take PrEP and are exposed to HIV through sex or injection drug use, these medicines can work to keep the virus from taking hold in your body. Along with other prevention methods such as condoms, PrEP can offer good protection against HIV if taken every day. Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. Third St. Friday, March 20, and Saturday, March 21, Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday* 7 p.m. *No meeting Friday, March 27, 2015 A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Tulsa Mr. Leather 2015 is this weekend. Organizers invite you to come play with the puppies, indulge in some delicious bites and watch the Exotica fashion show, where you can purchase the gear right off the models. Among the judges will be Richard Ziese, Tulsa Mr. Leather 2014 and Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2015, who is an Oklahomans for Equality board member. Celebration of Reconciliation Sunday, March 22, 10:45 a.m. St. Paul's United Methodist Church, 1442 S. Quaker Ave. Oklahomans for Equality applauds Tulsa's St. Paul's St Paul's United Methodist Church United Methodist Church on "The Heart of Cherry Street" its decision to become part of ; the denomination's It --~ Reconciling Ministries ~ Network. This means it has taken the steps to affirm that the congregation welcomes .,,f L· and extends its love to all people, regardless of age, race, income, nationality, life experiences, gender identity or sexual orientation. You are invited to join the congregation in worship, a meal and fellowship as it celebrates with a Celebration of Reconciliation on March 22. JOLT Drag Queen Pancake Breakfast Saturday, March 28, 8-10 a.m. Applebee's Neighborhood Grill & Bar 4733 S. Yale Ave. Come get your fill of pancakes during this breakfast fundraiser for JOLT, OkEq's bowling league. The cost is $8 per person, and mimosas will be available for $3. Citywide Selma Commemoration Service Sunday, March 29, 6:30 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Clergy and people from many congregations and faith traditions across Tulsa will gather to participate in a citywide commemoration service honoring the religious leaders from across many traditions who gathered in the wake of the marches in Selma, Alabama, 50 years ago to lift their voices in unity for civil rights here in Tulsa. You are invited to participate. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Goddess Festival Omni Center for Peace, Justice & Ecology, Fayetteville, Ark. March 20-29 Ten days of workshops, classes, performances and rituals honoring the Divine Feminine. The event starts with the Spring Equinox ritual at 7 p.m. March 20 at the Fayetteville Senior Center. Most other events are at the Omni Center for Peace, Justice & Ecology in Fayetteville. Like us on Facebook (/goddessfestival) for full schedule. . .. ~ ft~~ tt1ftvti1l Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday TahlEquality 5K Fun Run/Walk and Easter Egg Hunt Northeastern State University, Centennial Plaza Drive, Tahlequah Saturday, April 4, 8 a.m. Participate in the TahlEquality 5K Run/Walk and Easter egg hunt to raise money for TahlEquality Pride. Everyone has a chance to win prizes. TahlEquality is a nonprofit LGBTQ2/straight alliance promoting equal rights for the residents of Tahlequah and the rest of Oklahoma. ·•,•. t!,,',,'i,~~-{~;t %l-~.- ·~ - -~ « / 5K. i,'~:~ •• • Fun Run/ Wolk & Easter Egg Hunt -,~;t April 4th, 8:00am ,.... NSU Centennial Plaza Drive t~· • ,.. -Pegistration i, costs: ~ $25: SK run with t-shirt $20: 1 mile fun run/walk with t-shirt $15: Children 12 & under with t-shirt, 1 mile fun run $10: Children 12 & under Easter egg hunt with t-shirt Registration day of: Add $5 Click here for prices and to register. ., Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Everyone wi ll have the chance to win prizes! Pre-register here: tahlequality.eventbrite.com I "The Hill" documentary Thursday, April 9, 6:30-9 p.m., free Living Arts, 307 E. M.B. Brady St. Set upon building a new school, the city of New Haven, Conn., claims eminent domain over the UJpper Hill neighborhood. While the city argues that building the new school corresponds to a need for better school facilities, the residents of the area, mostly struggling low-income African-American families, say the HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... decision corresponds to the city's determination to "sanitize" the neighborhood, which is near the Yale-New Haven Hospital. every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm With the help of community leaders and a civil rights lawyer, the unlikely group of neighbors decides to contest the city's claim and take the case to federal court. "The Hill" is a fascinating look at the complex issues surrounding urban planning, gentrification and economic renewal. View the trailer at thehillfilm.com/#trialer. "Inequality in American Society" TU Lecture University of Tulsa Lectureship in Politics and Law Chapman Hall Lecture Hall, 2830 E. Fifth St. Thursday, April 9, 7 p.m. Dean Baker, co-director of the Center for Economic and Policy Research in Washington, D.C., will present this year's TU Lectureship in Politics and Law. The lecture, is free and open to the public. The topic of Baker's talk is "Inequality in American Society: Should We Blame the Market?" Click MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. to edit Double-click to insert an image Right-cli~k to format image 100 x 100 pixels Baker is frequently cited in economics reporting in major media outlets, including the New York Times, Washington Post, CNN, CNBC and National Public Radio. He writes a weekly column for the Guardian Unlimited (UK), the Huffington Post and TruthOut. His blog, Beat the Press, features commentary on economic reporting. His analyses have appeared in many major publications, including the Atlantic Monthly, the Washington Post, the London Financial Times and the New York Daily News. He received his Ph.D. in economics from the University of Michigan. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org He previously worked as a senior economist at the Economic Policy Institute and as an assistant professor at Bucknell University. He has also worked as a consultant for the World Bank, the Joint Economic Committee of the U.S. Congress and the OECD's Trade Union Advisory Council. He has written numerous books and was the author of the weekly online commentary on economic reporting for the Economic Reporting Review from 1996 - 2006. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... C RO A TIO VIII The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization CampOUT Spring 2015 Camp Fire Green Country's Camp Waluhili Lake Fort Gibson, April 17-19 CampOUT Spring 2015 for LGBT youth development will be held at Camp Fire Green Country's Camp Waluhili on Lake Fort Gibson. The camp is sponsored by Camp Fire and Youth Services of Tulsa. C<lliff)()(lT Spriltg 2015 APRIL t7™-t9™. 2015 CmttpWalulwi FOR MORE INFORMATION V'Ul WllHRf (918)261-3835 • vwiene,@yst.org Safalt&udt (918)592-2267 • ssmilh@tu!Reamplir•.ors If you're interested, contact Vic Wiener at 918-261-3835 or Sarah Smith at 918-592-2267. . Body Electric Workshop April 18 & 19 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact Andr� at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. Dining out for Life Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Din Out. fight ID For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF<01lJl.Jt'Jl.da.il::ii.<0Jt'Jl. JIJl:'Jl.c. AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful ..Z,A!J We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'At Last! Free to Be Me' by Robbie Dee Ewens You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Transgender people are not new, having been in populations across the centuries in every country of the world. Different cultures and beliefs address such people in different ways, from exaulting them as gifted to debasing them as being possessed by the devil. At La5t! Free to be Me In her book "At Last! Free to Be Me," Tulsa's own Robbie Dee Ewens addresses the reality of transgender people as viewed and By Ms Rollie treated by the Christian church in all its DeeEv.ero forms. She openly testifies about her own life with amazing transparency and humility, with many riveting true stories. Her discovery as being transgender rocked not only her own life but her Christian doctrines, too. She is fully persuaded that churches that judge and condemn being transgender are misusing Scripture in order to follow manmade traditional beliefs, and she exposes these in detail, challenging the church to change. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library olu A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local ac ion center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:03 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d755d33b2b83ace09eb1ffef7e27fe4f.pdf 1f3f7d989b5e5db3ff4f009a369fd2e5 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews March 25, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor MOREcolor March First Thursday Art Sharing the Trans Experience Welcome to the eNews. Join us for "Sharing the Transgender Experience" from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Saturday, April 4, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors LT 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tulsa Pride 2015 Gay Pride Bingo Breaking Bad to Be Good PFLAG Tulsa Barney Frank Documentary McGraw R L, Legislative Alerts Equality Business Alliance R S' Equality Gala Looking to buy or sell your dream home? EBA Sponsor I can help! JOLT Drag Queen Pancake Breakfast Contact Keith Hunt Today Citywide Selma Commemoration (918) 513-13-94 Goddess Festival khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ ® I'~ LLADING lllAl,_lSTAT[ • co ... rAN l [S/'Y'TH[ wouo Guys Dine Too TahlEquality 5K-Run/Walk ---"The Hill" Documentary MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color TU Lecture on Inequality Imperial Court of All Oklahoma CampOUT . , .· Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artistfriendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. Body Electric Workshop Dining Out for Life HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Equality Photos -----Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Click here for more information. 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... April Art Gallery Opening Reception Karin Susan Carmek Thursday, April 2, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Find Us on Facebook The April Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karin Susan Carmek, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 2, and continuing throughout the month. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 26, 7 p.m. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a free day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features works by Nanda Thompson ________ • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety • Youth awareness and education Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend this free event. Lunch and refreshments will be provided, but you must RSVP to Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org. ---- OkEq Legislative Alerts NEW: U.S. Senate Budget Resolution amendment Oklahomans for Equality decries U.S. Sen. Jim Inhofe's actions Wednesday to target the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community once again. His Amendment 381 to the Senate Budget Resolution for 2016 is a federal version of a bill that is cropping up in state Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... legislatures across the nation, the socalled Religious Freedom Restoration Act. cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Collectively, the measures essentially would allow any business person or organization to discriminate against any LGBT person based on "sincerely held religious beliefs." Proponents say these measures are needed to "protect" florists and bakers from having to make bouquets and cakes for same-sex weddings, but some bills would go so far as to "protect" emergency medical technicians from having to save the life of an LGBT person if doing so would violate their religious beliefs. Similarly, Sen. Inhofe's Amendment 381 "would seek to prevent the federal government from discriminating against individuals, businesses, or organizations based on their sincerely held religious beliefs regarding abortion or marriage." This is ludicrous. Such discrimination is no different from a business deciding not to serve people who are left-handed or brown-eyed. Many lawmakers are advocating for the deaths of these bills in their states, and Oklahomans for Equality calls on fair-minded U.S. senators to recognize the inherent bigotry and hate in Sen. Inhofe's amendment and reject it as being on the wrong side of history. Please contact Sen. Inhofe and let him know how you feel about his amendment: (202) 224-4721 or 205 Russell Senate Office Building Washington, D.C. 20510-3603 UPDATE: Oklahoma House Bill 1125 by Rep. Todd Russ would modify the procedure for legally validating marital status. If the bill becomes law, beginning Nov. 1, marriage certificates, not licenses, would be issued by a member of the clergy or a current or retired judge. The couple would then take that certificate to a county court clerk's office to have it recorded and pay the fee, which would be the same as current fees ($50, or $5 if the couple has undergone premarital counseling). Alternatively, if the parties wishing to be married do not wish to hold a formal ceremony, they could file an affidavit of common law marriage with the court clerk's office instead. The original intent of the bill was to prevent state officials from being required to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples. The bill, as amended, fails to achieve the goal of relieving court clerk's office employees from having anything to do with same-sex marriages because even marriage certificates would need to be recorded with the state, and both opposite-sex and same-sex couples could still be married. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • . I ~ , . I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather House Bill 1125 has been assigned to the Senate Rules Committee, where the prospects for its advancement are not certain. This bill is pointless and should be tossed. Please contact your state senator and ask him or her to work to defeat this measure. Find your senator here: openstates.org/find_your_legislator - - - - - - --- - 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq treasurer, at Treasurer@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, April 2, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Everyone is invited to come, provide your input and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever. ~r T U L S A e SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy fo r Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Gay Pride Bingo with Nicole Carrington Friday, April 10, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Where does the Easter Bunny go after Easter? To Gay Pride Bingo, of course! He heard how much fun our March event was and said he must be here for a repeat! Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... Join Dale Hogan's "Nicole Carrington" for a night of bingo with "characters." Full concessions with food and drink will be available for purchase. Admission is $10, and proceeds support Tulsa Pride 2015. Make it a fun night out at the Equality Center! Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Breaking Bad to Be Good Free workshop series starting Sunday, April 12, 2 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Breaking Bad workshop will be an ongoing monthly workshop highlighting those bad habits so you can take better care of your health and wellness. Speakers and presentations will help you become a better you. Sabrina Aston, a certified hypnotherapist, will present the March 8 workshop, which will explore ways in which the therapeutic procedures of hypnosis may be used to transform self-harming thoughts, attitudes and behaviors into self-tending ones grounded in a sense of genuine self worth and well being. Through the mental rehearsal of successful outcomes and positive suggestion, hypnotherapy can help break subconscious associations with negative thought patterns, allowing us to solve problems from new perspectives and embrace positive changes at the conscious level. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting April 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, April 20. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being PFLAG TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918-749-4901 Instructor Brad Sullivan. Live from NY's 92nd Street Y with Barney Frank April 20, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Tulsa's Congregation B'nai Emunah will broadcast "Barney Frank: In His Own Words" as part of the Smart Conversations 2015 speaker series. Broadcast in partnership with the 92nd Street Y in New York City, former Rep. Barney Frank will be joined in conversation by noted television journalist Jeff Greenfield. Smart Conversations 2015 features dynamic and visionary thinkers, newsmakers, and entertainers in conversation via satellite from Manhattan. Tickets for this single lecture cost $10. Students are admitted free. Coffee, treats and conversation precede and follow each performance. To purchase tickets or for more information, call the Synagogue at 918-9353373 or email reservations@bnaiemunah.com. Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, April 22, 6 p.m. Boss Fitness Tulsa, 3509 S. Peoria Ave., Suite 300 Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, April 22, at Boss Fitness Tulsa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Every Friday* 7 p.m. *No meeting Friday, March 27, 2015 Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm Equality Gala, The Road to Equality Cox Business Center Ballroom Saturday, April 25, 6:30 p.m. cocktail reception, 8 p.m. dinner and program This year's Equality Gala, Oklahomans for Equality's premier fundraiser and Tulsa's most swankified, fabulous event, celebrates OkEq's 35th anniversary. The money raised through the Gala each year helps provide support and programming for LGBT Oklahomans and allies in the sixth-largest gay community center in the world -- right here in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Oi<L'I-IOl'llV1 Kl<! EOIWJTV .) • A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. ;,_~ 25 2015 COi\\ATIJR~~ BU~NE:, ~:~TE:R BALLROOM 6-JOPM CCX: ~All RE:CE:PTION AND PROGRAM 8.()()JIM DINN~ ",TTll( CO.OIH.l <Al ~1~,?W F()t.... ~~'~.......... ~ , _ , 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... In 2014, more than 48,000 individuals participated in programming and services at the Equality Center. Your support through the Gala helps make those services possible. Individual tickets and sponsorships are available. Please click here for more information. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA ,.,.,,,...,~6ua, ..,,_.... ;;~-;.~~,~~~~o~~~=e~-~---~""'_:;_:~~:'.'.::2~1 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org ~ ~ = - ~~4,• u:,..-ie"' \_a!,\~ yo Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Game Night Certified Public Accountant Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. JOLT Drag Queen Pancake Breakfast Saturday, March 28, 8-10 a.m. Applebee's Neighborhood Grill & Bar 4733 S. Yale Ave. Come get your fill of pancakes during this breakfast fundraiser for JOLT, OkEq's bowling league. The cost is $8 per person, and mimosas will be available for $3. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... Citywide Selma Commemoration Service Sunday, March 29, 6:30 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Clergy and people from many congregations and faith traditions across Tulsa will gather to participate in a citywide commemoration service honoring the religious leaders from across many traditions who gathered in the wake of the marches in Selma, Alabama, 50 years ago to lift their voices in unity for civil rights here in Tulsa. You are invited to participate. Goddess Festival Omni Center for Peace, Justice & Ecology, Fayetteville, Ark. March 20-29 Ten days of workshops, classes, performances and rituals honoring the Divine Feminine. The event starts with the Spring Equinox ritual at 7 p.m. March 20 at the Fayetteville Senior Center. Most other events are at the Omni Center for Peace, Justice & Ecology in Fayetteville. Like us on Facebook (/goddessfestival) for full schedule. . t .. ~~; @ r~1l QJF" ~ EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. -- ~~~ i§r~1w1 Guys Dine Too Tuesday, April 7, 6:30 p.m. BurnCo BBQ, 1738 S. Boston Ave. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Guys Dine Too is a social program for gay men and the i r m a le allies/ friends. It meets at a different restaurant every month. Spread the word, and please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan to attend. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as stepby-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center TahlEquality 5K Fun Run/Walk and Easter Egg Hunt Northeastern State University, Centennial Plaza Drive, Tahlequah Saturday, April 4, 8 a.m. Participate in the TahlEquality 5K Run/Walk and Easter egg hunt to raise money for TahlEquality Pride. Everyone Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... V has a chance to win prizes. TahlEquality is a nonprofit LGBTQ2/straight alliance promoting equal rights for the residents of Tahlequah and the rest of Oklahoma. & Easter Egg Hunt ,-:.•,~ April 4th, 8:00am ,,.,. NSU Centennial Plaza Drive ~' -~-'f9te-registration costs: $25: 5K run with t-shirt $20: 1 mile fun run/walk with t-shirt $15: Children 12 & under with t-sh irt, 1 mile fun run $10: Children 12 & under Easter egg hunt with t-shirt Registration day of: Add $5 Everyone will have the chance to win prizes! Pre-register here: tahlequality.eventbrite.com I Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Click here for prices and to register. "The Hill" documentary Thursday, April 9, 6:30-9 p.m., free Living Arts, 307 E. M.B. Brady St. Set upon building a new school, the city of New Haven, Conn., claims eminent domain over the UJpper Hill neighborhood. While the city argues that building the new school corresponds to a need for better school facilities, the residents of the area, mostly struggling low-income African-American families, say the decision corresponds to the city's determination to "sanitize" the neighborhood, which is near the Yale-New Haven Hospital. With the help of community leaders and a civil rights lawyer, the unlikely group of neighbors decides to contest the city's claim and take the case to federal court. "The Hill" is a fascinating look at the complex issues surrounding urban planning, gentrification and economic renewal. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org View the trailer at thehillfilm.com/#trialer. "Inequality in American Society" TU Lecture University of Tulsa Lectureship in Politics and Law Chapman Hall Lecture Hall, 2830 E. Fifth St. Thursday, April 9, 7 p.m. Dean Baker, co-director of the Center for Economic and Policy Research in Washington, D.C., will present this year's TU Lectureship in Politics and Law. The lecture, is free and open to the public. LectureshipinPoliticsandlaw2015 ll<llnequality in American Society - Should We Blame the Market?ll<l ~:~~=:~:~!:~~~=~: The topic of Baker's talk is "Inequality in American Society: Should We Blame the Market?" Thursday, April 9 7:00 p.m. 2D!E.5thStreet 1~pus Dean Ba ker Baker is frequently cited in economics reporting in major media outlets, including the New York Times, Washington Post, CNN, CNBC and National Public Radio. He writes a weekly column for the Guardian Unlimited (UK), the Huffington Post and TruthOut. His blog, Beat the Press, features commentary on economic reporting. His analyses have appeared in many major publications, 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... including the Atlantic Monthly, the Washington Post, the London Financial Times and the New York Daily News. He received his Ph.D. in economics from the University of Michigan. He previously worked as a senior economist at the Economic Policy Institute and as an assistant professor at Bucknell University. He has also worked as a consultant for the World Bank, the Joint Economic Committee of the U.S. Congress and the OECD's Trade Union Advisory Council. He has written numerous books and was the author of the weekly online commentary on economic reporting for the Economic Reporting Review from 1996 - 2006. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invites you to participate in the election and coronation of Empress VIII. Cast your vote Friday, April 3, 9-11 p.m., at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. Third St. or Saturday, April 4, 1-3 p.m., at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Then join us for CORO ATI VIII The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales. Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization CampOUT Spring 2015 Camp Fire Green Country's Camp Waluhili Lake Fort Gibson, April 17-19 CampOUT Spring 2015 for LGBT youth development will be held at Camp Fire Green Camp()(lT Spl'fug 2015 APRll. 17TH_l9ra, 2015 /> _ ___ 1,/_L L ! I~ 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 11 of 14 Country's Camp Waluhili on Lake Fort Gibson. The camp is sponsored by Camp Fire and Youth Services of Tulsa. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... vamp WUJWU/l FOR MORE lffl'ORMATION V"te W'1£1W' (918)261-3835 * vwien«@yst.org /ilJ1alt, Sfflitk (918)592 •2267 - $$mllb@t"1sa<:ampire.org If you're interested, contact Vic Wiener at 918-261-3835 or Sarah Smith at 918-592-2267. . Body Electric Workshop April 18 & 19 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. Dining out for Life Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Din Ou . fight ID 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ ]F," ~1l.ll.Jr.Il.Q&.ti~:ir.n. ][:ir.n.c: . AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful .,z)Afl We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Healthca re Bi I IOf Ri ghts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Straight Talk About Gays in the Workplace, 2nd Edition' by Liz Winfeld and Susan Spielman You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Until recently, the topic of diversity in the workplace had been limited to race and gender issues. In the past decade, however, there has been a growing awareness that sexual orientation is also a valid component of diversity. The first edition of "Straight Talk About Gays in the Workplace" was the only book available to address sexual orientation for employers concerned about this aspect of diversity. This new edition is fully updated with state-of-the-art information on domestic partner benefits, effective education regarding sexual orientation in the workplace, marketing opportunities generated by full inclusion, and why full inclusion makes good business sense. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... - Volun r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org ~---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:04 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9db7aa8677601d5aaca62a49532f831c.pdf 37e5033b80862470b506b1f177cb4eab PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 2, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor MOREcolor March First Thursday Art Sharing the Trans Experience Welcome to the eNews. Join us for "Sharing the Transgender Experience" from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Saturday, April 4, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA Tulsa Pride 2015 Gay Pride Bingo Breaking Bad to Be Good Gamily Gathering PFLAG Tulsa Barney Frank Documentary Equality Business Alliance Sleep Soundly Workshop Equality Gala Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Rainbow Run EBA Sponsor TahlEquality 5K-Run/Walk ---Article Headline Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Guys Dine Too "The Hill" Documentary TU Lecture on Inequality Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Body Electric Workshop Russell Bennett Award Dining Out for Life Article Headline HIV Wellness Retreat Research opportunity LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Equality Photos -----Pride Store Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Rainbow Library Volunteer 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color Find Us on Facebook . i • Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artistfriendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. Click here for more information. April Art Gallery Opening Reception Karin Susan Cermak Thursday, April 2, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features works by Karin Susan Cermak. ________ The April Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karin Susan Cermak, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 2, and continuing throughout the month. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a free day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... • Youth awareness and education Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend this free event. Lunch and refreshments will be provided, but you must RSVP to Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org. ---- Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, April 2, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services Everyone is invited to come, provide your input and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on T U L S A -~ e income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 SOS Group Gay Pride Bingo with Nicole Carrington and DJ Crystal Friday, April 10, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Where does the Easter Bunny go after Easter? To Gay Pride Bingo, of course! He heard how much fun our March event was and said he must be here for a repeat! Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org f Join Dale Hogan's "Nicole Carrington" and DJ Crystal for a night of bingo with "characters." Full concessions with food and drink will be available for purchase. Admission is $10, and proceeds support Tulsa Pride 2015. Make it a fun night out at the Equality Center! . I • , I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Breaking Bad to Be Good Free workshop series starting Sunday, April 12, 2 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Breaking Bad workshop will be an ongoing monthly workshop highlighting those bad habits so you can take better care of your health and wellness. Speakers and presentations will help you become a better you. Sabrina Aston, a certified hypnotherapist, will present the March 8 workshop, which will explore ways in which the therapeutic procedures of hypnosis may be used to transform self-harming thoughts, attitudes and behaviors into self-tending ones grounded in a sense of genuine self worth and well being. Through the mental rehearsal of successful outcomes and positive suggestion, hypnotherapy can help break subconscious associations with negative thought patterns, allowing us to solve problems from new perspectives and embrace positive changes at the conscious level. Gamily Gathering Sunday, April 12, 2-4 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center We'll have a hands-on building project -something such as a birdhouse or a model racecar -- for Gamily kids with items donated by Home Depot. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servtces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgendcr Elders Gay families, come join us for the fun and socialization! New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting April 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, April 20. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - - - or call 918-749-4901 Live from NY's 92nd Street Y with Barney Frank April 20, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa's Congregation B'nai Emunah will broadcast "Barney Frank: In His Own Words" as part of the Smart Conversations 2015 speaker series. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Broadcast in partnership with the 92nd Street Y in New York City, former Rep. Barney Frank will be joined in conversation by noted television journalist Jeff Greenfield. Smart Conversations 2015 features dynamic and visionary thinkers, newsmakers, and entertainers in conversation via satellite from Manhattan. Tickets for this single lecture cost $10. Students are admitted free. Coffee, treats and conversation precede and follow each performance. To purchase tickets or for more information, call the Synagogue at 918-9353373 or email reservations@bnaiemunah.com. Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, April 22, 6 p.m. Boss Fitness Tulsa, 3509 S. Peoria Ave., Suite 300 The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, April 22, at Boss Fitness Tulsa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org Sleep Soundly Workshop Thursday, April 23, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Sleep Soundly workshop, sponsored by the University of Tulsa Institute of Trauma, Adversity & Injustice, is designed to help you better understand the importance of sleep. The workshop will provide Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... you with tools and strategies to foster high-quality sleep and address common sleep problems. For more information, call 918-631-3976. advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Equality Gala, The Road to Equality Cox Business Center Ballroom Saturday, April 25, 6:30 p.m. cocktail reception, 8 p.m. dinner and program This year's Equality Gala, Oklahomans for Equality's premier fundraiser and Tulsa's most swankified, fabulous event, celebrates OkEq's 35th anniversary. The money raised through the Gala each year helps provide support and programming for LGBT Oklahomans and allies in the sixth-largest gay community center in the world -- right here in Tulsa, Oklahoma. In 2014, more than 48,000 individuals participated in programming and services at the Equality Center. Your support through the Gala helps make those services possible. ~ATURDAV. APRIL 25, 2015 COX BU~NE~~ CENTER BALLROOM 6-JOPM COCICTAIL RE:CE:PTI0N &00PM DINNO AND PROGRAM <Ot r '-r r,f()Cl",,110, Ou ~7~•m Cl! 1-Nl 01 >OE: ,r ...,_,O:E"OCl!C Individual tickets and sponsorships are available. Please click here for more information. Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Registration is coming soon, but sponsorships are now available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. RAINBOW RUN For sponsorship information, please click here. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - - ·- - - - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... McGraw R1'AL T ORS Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Survivors of Incest Anonymous Contact Keith Hunt Today Every Saturday 12:30 pm (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org TahlEquality 5K Fun Run/Walk and Easter Egg Hunt Northeastern State University, Centennial Plaza Drive, Tahlequah Saturday, April 4, 8 a.m. Participate in the TahlEquality 5K Run/Walk and Easter egg hunt to raise money for TahlEquality Pride. Everyone has a chance to win prizes. TahlEquality is a nonprofit LGBTQ2/straight alliance promoting equal rights for the residents of Tahlequah and the rest of Oklahoma. ~,i~ ..~ "1Pt,~ 5 K. /• ~ Fun Run; ~alk & Easter Egg Hunt .~ ~~~ April 4th, 8:00am ,,;., NSU Centennial Plaza Drive ,P~ ., f' '1'te-Pegistration costs: $25: SK run with t-shirt $20: 1 mile fun run/walk with t-shirt $15: Children 12 & under with t-shirt, 1 mile fun run $10: Children 12 & under Easter egg hunt with t-shirt Registration day of: Add $5 Click here for prices and to register. Everyone wi ll have the chance to win prizes! Pre-register here: tahlequality.eventbrite.com I Easter Services at the Parish Church of St. Jerome Thursday, April 2, through Sunday, April 5 205 W. King St. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The Parish Church of St. Jerome invites you to join its members in Holy Week services: Maundy Thursday service: Thursday, April 2, 6:30 p.m. Stations of the Cross: Friday, April 3, noon Good Friday Service: Friday, April 3, 6:30 p.m. Easter Vigil: Saturday, April 4, 7:30 p.m. Easter Sunday Feast of the Resurrection with Strings and Brass: 11 a.m. Guys Dine Too Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Tuesday, April 7, 6:30 p.m. BurnCo BBQ, 1738 S. Boston Ave. 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... Guys Dine Too is a social program for gay men and the i r m a le allies/ friends. It meets at a different restaurant every month. Spread the word, and please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan to attend. "The Hill" documentary Thursday, April 9, 6:30-9 p.m., free Living Arts, 307 E. M.B. Brady St. Set upon building a new school, the city of New Haven, Conn., claims eminent domain over the UJpper Hill neighborhood. While the city argues that building the new school corresponds to a need for better school facilities, the residents of the area, mostly struggling low-income African-American families, say the decision corresponds to the city's determination to "sanitize" the neighborhood, which is near the Yale-New Haven Hospital. With the help of community leaders and a civil rights lawyer, the unlikely group of neighbors decides to contest the city's claim and take the case to federal court. "The Hill" is a fascinating look at the complex issues surrounding urban planning, gentrification and economic renewal. View the trailer at thehillfilm.com/#trialer. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. "Inequality in American Society" Lecture University of Tulsa Lectureship in Politics and Law Chapman Hall Lecture Hall, 2830 E. Fifth St. Thursday, April 9, 7 p.m. Dean Baker, co-director of the Center for Economic and Policy Research in Washington, D.C., will present this year's TU Lectureship in Politics and Law. The lecture, is free and open to the public. lectureshipin Politicsandlaw2015 ~ Inequality in American Society - Should We Blame the Market~ Thursday, April 9 The topic of Baker's talk is "Inequality in American Society: Should We Blame the Market?" Baker is frequently cited in economics reporting in major media outlets, including the New York Times, Washington Post, CNN, CNBC and National Public Radio. He writes a weekly column for the Guardian Unlimited (UK), the Huffington Post and ~:~~;:~!~!:~~= 7:00 p.m. 28:11 E. 5th Street Dean Baker i:~pus Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... TruthOut. His blog, Beat the Press, features commentary on economic reporting. His analyses have appeared in many major publications, including the Atlantic Monthly, the Washington Post, the London Financial Times and the New York Daily News. He received his Ph.D. in economics from the University of Michigan. He previously worked as a senior economist at the Economic Policy Institute and as an assistant professor at Bucknell University. He has also worked as a consultant for the World Bank, the Joint Economic Committee of the U.S. Congress and the OECD's Trade Union Advisory Council. He has written numerous books and was the author of the weekly online commentary on economic reporting for the Economic Reporting Review from 1996 - 2006. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invites you to participate in the election and coronation of Empress VIII. Cast your vote Friday, April 3, 9-11 p.m., at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. Third St. or Saturday, April 4, 1-3 p.m., at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Then join us for C RO A TIO VIII HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales. Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Body Electric Workshop April 18 & 19 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award Raindrop Turkish House 4444 W. Houston St. (East 81st Street), Broken Arrow Thursday, April 30, 6 p.m. Join us for the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance's annual Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award celebration at the Raindrop Turkish House in Broken Arrow. This year's recipient of the award is the Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar, senior minister at All Souls Unitarian Church, who will give a keynote address. Rabbi Jack Moline, executive director of the National Interfaith Alliance, will be a special guest. Tickets are $30 and include a buffet dinner with meat and vegetarian options. They can be purchased at this link. For questions, or to register via phone or mail, please email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. The Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is a nonpartisan advocacy group that monitors the line separating church and state. For more information, visit its website at this link. Dining Out for Life 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Dining~ .,.l .~U~ Dine Out, Fight AIDS Find participating restaurants here. ---- -----For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. Grateful Day Foundation Spaghetti Dinner Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Saturday, April 18, 5-7 p.m. Please join the Grateful Day Foundation for our annual Spaghetti Dinner. Dinner includes salad, bread sticks and your choice of vegan or meaty spaghetti with or without meatballs. Felow~ Coo,egaooral Cluchtx:C 2900 S.Harvard Tusa, OK April 18 5pm~7pm ~ IIOOA ~~i~JJm@ Meals are $10 for adults and $5 for children. We will have a door prize, too! All proceeds from this night will go directly to help finance our annual HIV Wellness Retreat. For more information about the Grateful Day Foundation, visit our website at gratefulday.org. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JP <01L.JL:in.dl.a.ti<0:in. JI:in.c. AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/ AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org tjrAteful .,z)Afl We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org Research opportunity Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... congratulations! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve T's can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Surpassing the Love of Men' by Lillian Faderman You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First published in 1981, this feminist classic began modestly as an academic essay on Emily Dickinson's love poems and letters to her future sister-in-law, Sue Gilbert. In her original introduction, Faderman recalled her surprise at finding these records of an erotic attachment between women that showed no evidence of guilt, anxiety, or the need for secrecy. Yet 60 or 70 years after they were written, the original letters had been bowdlerized by a niece of Dickinson's, who clearly found them too shocking for publication. Why, Faderman wondered, was passionate love between women, once almost universally applauded in the Western world, now almost universally condemned? She learned that the love between Dickinson and Gilbert had many precedents, and that it was only in the late 19th century that medical literature and anti-feminism combined to rank women who loved women "somewhere," as she puts it bluntly, "between necrophiliacs and those who had sex with chickens." 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... For this edition, Faderman explains that she has resisted the urge to update her text, hoping that her exploration of romantic friendship, from French libertine literature through the dawn of feminism through the lesbian panic of the 1920s, will still serve as "solace and ammunition" for those hoping to find "a usable past." Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ruLSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:05 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/958c7ee7b24ab083f67e9fead99de592.pdf 078b836e85611669ad257dc9daded3d8 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... eNews January 8th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 2015 MLK Parade Tax Preparation Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Tax time will be here before you know it and marriage equality may have changed the way you file your taxes. Join us for a Tax Preparation Workshop on Tuesday, January 20th at 7:00 pm. For more info, email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA EBA Fundraiser New Year, New You Basketball League Tulsa Pride 2015 PFLAG Tulsa ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights EBA Sponsor Pearl District Makers' Market LGBT Shirt Quilt Marriage Equality Photos ------ Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Reiki Sessions Imperial Court of All Oklahoma LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Kelly Kirby CPA Rainbow Library Certified Public Accountant Volunteer a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 Find Us on Facebook kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 2015 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, January 19th, 2015; 11:00 am OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, January 15th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group exhibit titled; Transforming Hate ________ Counseling Services Tax Preparation Workshop Tuesday, January 20th, 2015; 7:00 pm On Tuesday, January 20th at 7:00 pm, OkEq will host a tax preparation workshop for newly married couples or for anyone thinking about getting married. Presented by Equality Business Alliance Member, Kelly Kirby, CPA, this workshop is a must for anyone who has any questions on how marriage equality can change the way you file your taxes. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The January Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, January 21st, 2015 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 HYJ\TT REGENCY llllllllrllllul Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 EBA Fundraiser at Dalesandro's Wednesday, January 28th, 2015; 6:00 - 10:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine 1742 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 On Wednesday, January 28th, join the Equality Business Alliance for a fundraiser dinner at Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine from 6:00 - 10:00 pm. Located at 18th and Boston, Dalesandro's will donate a portion of the dinner sales from the night back to the EBA. Reservations are appreciated by calling Dalesandro's at 918.582.1551 New Year, New You Fitness Programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center GET F.I.T. - Wednesday and Thursday at 6:00 pm (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. On Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org ChiWalking - Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm; Begins January 10th ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Faciliated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members. to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month; 6:30 pm 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, January 22nd, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, January 22nd at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of Every Month, Starting January 19th; 6:30 pm The PFLAG Tulsa chapter will begin a satellite group meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on the 3rd Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will meet for the first time on Monday, January 19th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the PFLAG TULSA CHAPJ'E; health and well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918.749.4901 ----- Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: January 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare oklahomans for equality BILLOF RIGHTS Get F.I.T. Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelpTulsa.com II · I UL Home / Small Business IT Expertise J 11 ACA Assistance V Owner - ihelptulso.com (9 18) 605-8777 Tel: Web: www.ihelptulso.com Email: johnv@ihelptvlso.com "Are you getting a new computer or smart device from Santa? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact www.ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777!" Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111W:l~_1}.10il POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. . ~. ~~ ../1,, ~ A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. ~ TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Reiki Sessions Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Princes/Princess for Reign VII John & Dakota as they host "Turnabout 2015" to benefit The Trevor Project. Saturday January 10th, 2015 at Area 18 (39 E 18th St) 8:00 -10:00 pm 21+ Only EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Donations can be made online at www.impcourtok.webs.com or by contacting us at impcourtok@gmail.com Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu --Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 ---- Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendar for only $10.00. Proceeds benefits the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Organization. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'What Exceptional Leaders Know' by Tracy Spears and Wally Schmader You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center WHAT EXCEPTIONAL Co-written by OkEq Board of Advisor, Tracy LEADERS KNOW Spears, 'What Exceptional Leaders Know' delivers high-impact skills, strategies and ideas in a practical and user-friendly way. Readers will find information they can begin using right away to become a much more effective and influential leader. The recommendations are organized into six sections, each focused on a key set of highlevel leadership skills. These ideas and Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- High Impac t Skills, Strategies &Ideas for Leaders Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... strategies have worked for hundreds of topperforming leaders. Spend some time with this book and you will know What Exceptional Leaders Know. Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Tracy Spears & Wally Schmader Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:38 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/437e8de492a27cf9641ab7541788953b.pdf 446fce45d1e588e3911d17d8eb839a82 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 15, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Legislative Alert Barney Frank documentary David Dymond service Welcome to the eNews. Contact your Tulsa city councilor to urge him or her to vote for an amendment to the city's Fair Housing Ordinance that would include sexual orientation and gender identity among the protected classes. See below for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com, log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. - Want to receive computer tips? Like @HelpTulsa.com us on Facebook: facebook.com/ihelptulsa Equality Business Alliance Equality Gala SCOTUS Town Hall First Thursday Opening - -Art Tulsa Pride planning meeting Gay Pride Bingo Rainbow Run MOREcolor PFLAG Tulsa Sleep Soundly Workshop EBA Sponsor 40 Under 40 Day of Silence Body Electric Workshop Russell Bennett Award Dining Out for Life Grateful Day Spaghetti Dinner Herland Retreat Legislative Alert Tulsa City Council City Hall, One Technology Center 175 E. Second St. 918-596-1990 An amendment that would include sexual orientation and gender identity to the protected classes in the city of Tulsa's Fair Housing Ordinance is on the agenda for the City Council's 6 p.m. Thursday meeting. Contact your city councilor in advance of the meeting to urge him or her to vote for this amendment. Show up for the meeting if you can to lend your support. HIV Wellness Retreat JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic Camp Anytown Research opportunity LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Equality Photos --Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... Click here to find your councilor and contact information. Find Us on Facebook Live from NY's 92nd Street Y with Barney Frank April 20, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa's Congregation B'nai Emunah will broadcast "Barney Frank: In His Own Words" as part of the Smart Conversations 2015 speaker series. Broadcast in partnership with the 92nd Street Y in New York City, former Rep. Barney Frank will be joined in conversation by noted television journalist Jeff Greenfield. Smart Conversations 2015 features dynamic and visionary thinkers, newsmakers, and entertainers in conversation via satellite from Manhattan. Tickets for this single lecture cost $10. Students are admitted free. Coffee, treats and conversation precede and follow each performance. To purchase tickets or for more information, call the Synagogue at 918-9353373 or email reservations@bnaiemunah.com. OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features works by Karin Susan Cermak. ________ David Dymond service During SAGE Tuesday, April 21, 10:30 a.m. The Rainbow Flag at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has been lowered to half staff in memory of David Dymond. Actively involved in SAGE Tulsa since its inception more than five years ago, David was a strong supporter of Oklahomans for Equality. He retired from Greyhound Lines Inc. after 38 years of service. He was an avid pet lover and showed compassion to every stray animal he came across. He was engaged in civic duties and served the Tulsa County Election Board as a volunteer. On Tuesday, April 7, he died on the steps of the polling station where he had arrived before sunrise to work the Senate District 11 Election. May he rest in peace, and may his family and friends find comfort in their memories of David. He will be remembered at a memorial service during the SAGE meeting at 10:30 a.m. Tuesday, April 21, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Counseling Services Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, April 22, 6 p.m. Boss Fitness Tulsa, 3509 S. Peoria Ave., Suite 300 Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, April 22, at Boss Fitness Tulsa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org Equality Gala, The Road to Equality Cox Business Center Ballroom Saturday, April 25, 6:30 p.m. cocktail reception, 8 p.m. dinner and program Counseling Services This year's Equality Gala, Oklahomans for Equality's premier fundraiser and Tulsa's most swankified, fabulous event, celebrates OkEq's 35th anniversary. The money raised through the Gala each year helps provide support and programming for LGBT Oklahomans and allies in the sixth-largest gay community center in the world -- right here in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on ~ATURDAV. APRIL 25, 2015 income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org COX BU~NE~~ CENTER BALLROOM In 2014, more than 48,000 individuals participated in programming and services at the Equality Center. Your support through the Gala helps make those services possible. 6-30PM COCICTAIL RECEPTION 8,00PM DINNO AND PROGRAM COC F01"'1'1. Alli <Ot 110'€1 NfOI"' r,o, o.. ~7<J.,'lQ7 SOS Group Ct H1l U( '10( OT ...,_,0:("00IG Individual tickets and sponsorships are available. Please click here for more information. SCOTUS Town Hall Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday, April 28, 7:30-9 p.m. Grieving Well The Supreme Court of the United States will hear oral arguments in four 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... marriage equality cases on the morning of April 28 in Washington, D.C. On that night, gather with us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to hear OkEq Director of Advocacy Mike Redman discuss the arguments presented and recap the day's hearing. Then the Oklahoma marriage equality lawsuit plaintiffs will discuss a historic gathering of marriage equality plaintiffs from across the nation, held the night before the oral arguments, and a rally on the Supreme Court steps that day. The Oklahoma plaintiffs will attend both events in Washington and fly back Tuesday afternoon in time to meet with us. Don't miss this exciting and informative event! Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles' Thursday, May 7, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the "Paths of Reconciliation" and the "Shower of Stoles," beginning with a reception from 6-9 p.m. Thursday, May 7, and continuing throughout the month. The Shower of Stoles display began as a plea by Martha Juillerat who, upon coming out, chose to set aside her ordination in the Presbyterian Church. She, along with her partner, Tammy Lindahl, pressed upon their presbytery that they were only two of hundreds of LGBTQ people of faith who are active participants in the church. After asking LGBT friends and clergy to send a stole to display on the day she was to set aside her ordination, Martha received 80 stoles almost overnight and over 200 by the following spring. The stoles became a symbol of the church's loss of faithful LGBTQ leaders and clergy. In 2006, Martha Juillerat retired and gave the collection of well over 1,000 items to the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force's Institute for Welcoming Resources. The items in the display will include 100 stoles and similar items from the Shower of Stoles project. Each item is accompanied by a personal story of the person behind the item and their reason for donating the item. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Paths of Reconciliation is an Oklahomans for Equality program that attempts to address issues of belief or faith and how they relate to sexuality. Paths of Reconciliation's display includes items from many different people and organizations of belief or faith. These items will be displayed adjacent to the art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... Tulsa Pride planning meeting Thursday, April 30, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Get involved and help us make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Join us for a planning meeting at the Equality Center on Thursday, April 30. See you there! Ade ~~ Tu Ls A F?wEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Gay Pride Bingo with Chelsea Starr and DJ Crystal Friday, May 8, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center We've had so much fun with our previous Tulsa Pride Gay Pride Bingo nights that we've decided to do it again! This time Chelsea Starr, the newly crowned Absolute Sovereign Empress VIII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, will be our host, and Crystal will again be our DJ. If you've been with us before, you know what a blast this is. If you haven't, you've been missing out! Either way, you don't want to miss the fun this time, so put this on your calendar! Admission is $10, and proceeds go toward making Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. DJ Crystal Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Chelsea Star, Absolute Sovereign Empress VII 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Registration is coming soon, but sponsorships are now available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. RAINBOW RUN For sponsorship information, please click here. To register, click here. - please -- MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color . i . Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. • Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artistfriendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. Click here for more information. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ------- New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting April 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, April 20. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918-749-4901 --- Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Sleep Soundly Workshop Thursday, April 23, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Sleep Soundly workshop, sponsored by the University of Tulsa Institute of Trauma, Adversity & Injustice, is designed to help you better understand the importance of sleep. The workshop will provide you with tools and strategies to foster high-quality Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... sleep and address common sleep problems. For more information, call 918-631-3976. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. McGraw R LA LT A Murder of Storytellers R Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com r1] ~ (al .,,, LLADINC lllA~lSTATl o,; C0MPANl£S ,-," TH( WOK.LO Oklahoma Magazine's '40 Under 40' April issue Four members of Oklahomans for Equality are among the community leaders in Oklahoma magazine's "40 Under 40" feature this year. That's 10 percent! Included are Stuart Ashworth, Moises Echeverria, Jeromee Scot and Dr. John Rogers. We are proud to call them our own! Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org See their stories here. Day of Silence A school near you Friday, April 17 GLSEN's Day of Silence is a national day of action in which students across the country vow to take a form of silence to call attention to the silencing effect of anti-LGBT bullying and harassment in schools. Founded in 1996, the Day of Silence has become the largest single student-led action toward creating safer schools for all, regardless of sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. From the first Day of Silence at the University of Virginia in 1996, to the organizing efforts in over 8,000 middle schools, high schools, colleges and universities across the country in 2008, its textured history reflects its diversity in both numbers and reach. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... GLSEN is the Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network. Teresa Reno Body Electric Workshop April 18 & 19 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award Raindrop Foundation Turkish Cultural House 4444 W. Houston St. (81st Street east of Garnett Road), Broken Arrow Thursday, April 30, 6 p.m. Join us for the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance's annual Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award celebration at the Raindrop Turkish House in Broken Arrow. This year's recipient of the award is the Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar, senior minister at All Souls Unitarian Church, who will give a keynote address. Rabbi Jack Moline, executive director of the National Interfaith Alliance, will be a special guest. Tickets are $30 and include a buffet dinner with meat and vegetarian options. They can be purchased at this link. For questions, or to register via phone or mail, please email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. The Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is a nonpartisan advocacy group that monitors the line separating church and state. For more information, visit its 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... website at this link. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Dining Out for Life Open every day Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Dining~ ul~~~~ Dine Out, Fight AIDS Find restaurants here. -participating --- ---For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. Grateful Day Foundation Spaghetti Dinner Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Saturday, April 18, 5-7 p.m. Please join the Grateful Day Foundation for our annual Spaghetti Dinner. Dinner includes salad, bread sticks and your choice of vegan or meaty spaghetti with or without meatballs. Felows/J;) Colvegaooral Cluch I.CC 2900 S.Harvard Tusa,OK April 18 5pm~7pm "-J'-1!1,-.·ltOOA ~~ijUJJm@ Meals are $10 for adults and $5 for children. We will have a door prize, too! All proceeds from this night will go directly to help finance our annual HIV Wellness Retreat. For more information about the Grateful Day Foundation, visit our website at gratefulday.org. Herland Retreat Roman Nose State Park, Watonga May 1-3 The Herland Spring Retreat is set for May 1-3 at Roman Nose State Park, just outside Watonga. From Friday Night dinner through Sunday Brunch, the annual Herland Retreats are a great way to get to know your sisters from around the state (and all over). Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mark your calendars and schedule some Sister time! Questions or concens? Email herland@herlandsisters.org. 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... Click here for more information. i=.==-=-~ ~ - '7'-11\ll"J-- HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ ]F <011.JLl!'ll.dl.SJ..ti<O l!'lL ][l!'ll.<C AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful ~A!J Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave., Sand Springs Saturday, May 16, 10 a.m. Let your golf game pay off for OkEq's JOLT bowling league. This fundraiser will feature cash prizes for first-, second- and third-place teams. Fourperson teams will compete in a scramble format. Registration is now open and costs $75 per person or $300 per team. Contact Curtis Austin at curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918-361-8739. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. p~ ARINC cmzENs 1<.011e For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Research opportunity Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! --- Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve T's can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Living with the Diagnosis: Youth with HIV/AIDS' by Kenneth McIntosh and Ida Walker You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... Ethan Castillo had it all. He was popular; he surfed; and he had good friends at Shore View High. Then one night of unprotected sex changed everything. Now he has to learn to live with a positive diagnosis for HIV -- but help comes from a most unexpected source. HIV/AIDS is a scary and dangerous disease. But it can't be spread by: • shaking hands with someone who has HIV/AIDS • hugging someone who has HIV/AIDS • sharing eating utensils with someone who has HIV/AIDS • being in the same room with someone who has HIV/AIDS • touching something that someone with HIV/AIDS has touched • breathing the same air as someone with HIV/AIDS The only way to become infected with HIV is through the transfer of certain body fluids. This book will tell you more. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:06 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/25988450878392de400347d0d5a51216.pdf f09067efef1fb34ec5dfec64c9e29dcc PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 22, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Equality Gala SCOTUS Town Hall Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Contact your Tulsa city councilor to urge him or her to vote for an amendment to the city's Fair Housing Ordinance that would include sexual orientation and gender identity among the protected classes. See below for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Thank the City Council Sleep Soundly Workshop First -Thursday - - -Art -Opening -Tulsa Pride planning meeting MOREcolor Gay Pride Bingo Rainbow Run PFLAG Tulsa McGraw EBA Sponsor R hALTO R . 40 Under 40 Looking to buy or sell your dream home? Laverne Cox trip I can help! Russell Bennett Award Contact Keith Hunt Today Dining Out for Life (918) 513-13-94 Herland Retreat khunt@mcgrawok.com ra @ "#, ~ ~ llADINC R.lAl,..lSTATl Guys Dine Too COMPANICS ,,y' THl WOUO HIV Wellness Retreat JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic Equality Gala, The Road to Equality Cox Business Center Ballroom Saturday, April 25, 6:30 p.m. cocktail reception, 8 p.m. dinner and program This year's Equality Gala, Oklahomans for Equality's premier fundraiser and Tulsa's most swankified, fabulous event, celebrates OkEq's 35th anniversary. O~lAHOl'W'i{ ~R E:OUoil!Y Camp Anytown Survey Research opportunity LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage - - Equality - - -Photos -Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer The money raised through the Gala each year helps provide support and programming for LGBT Oklahomans and allies in the sixth-largest gay community center in the world -- right here in Tulsa, Oklahoma. ~ATURDAY. APRIL 25. 2015 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... LUfl IIU\INt.\\ Lt.Nlt.R IIRLLRUUl'l In 2014, more than 48,000 individuals participated in programming and services at the Equality Center. Your support through the Gala helps make those services possible. Find Us on Facebook 6.30PM COCICTAIL RE:CE:PTI0N 8.00PM DINNO AND PROGRAM COCO fO rl'< Alli <Ot 110,::1 n'°"""ro• CA&.. 91&7.0-•~ Cl! H1l 0{ MO€ <1 .,.,_,Oc,OOIG Individual tickets and sponsorships are available. Please click here for more information. SCOTUS Town Hall Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday, April 28, 7:30-9 p.m. OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features works by Karin Susan Cermak. ________ The Supreme Court of the United States will hear oral arguments in four marriage equality cases on the morning of April 28 in Washington, D.C. On that night, gather with us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to hear OkEq Director of Advocacy Mike Redman discuss the arguments presented and recap the day's hearing. Then the Oklahoma marriage equality lawsuit plaintiffs will discuss a historic gathering of marriage equality plaintiffs from across the nation, held the night before the oral arguments, and a rally on the Supreme Court steps that day. The Oklahoma plaintiffs will attend both events in Washington and fly back Tuesday afternoon in time to meet with us. Don't miss this exciting and informative event! Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, April 22, 6 p.m. Boss Fitness Tulsa, 3509 S. Peoria Ave., Suite 300 The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, April 22, at Boss Fitness Tulsa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... Time to thank the Tulsa City Council Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 On Thursday, April 16, the Tulsa City Council unanimously approved the addition of sexual orientation and gender identity to the protected classes in the city's fair housing policy. Several Oklahomans for Equality members spoke to the council in favor of the ordinance amendment. The measure was introduced by City Councilor Blake Ewing. Please call or send a note to him and other members of the City Council to thank them for making Tulsa a city that is more supportive of diversity and fairness. Find councilors' contact information here. Sleep Soundly Workshop Thursday, April 23, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Sleep Soundly workshop, sponsored by the University of Tulsa Institute of Trauma, Adversity & Injustice, is designed to help you better understand the importance of sleep. The workshop will provide you with tools and strategies to foster high-quality sleep and address common sleep problems. For more information, call 918-631-3976. First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles' Thursday, May 7, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the "Paths of Reconciliation" and the "Shower of Stoles," beginning with a reception from 6-9 p.m. Thursday, May 7, and continuing throughout the month. The items in the display will include 100 stoles and similar items from the national Shower of Stoles project. Each item is accompanied by a personal story of the person behind the item and their reason for donating the item. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... Yolanda Arnold Paths of Reconciliation is an Oklahomans for Equality program that attempts to address issues of belief or faith and how they relate to sexuality. Paths of Reconciliation's display includes items from many different people and organizations of belief or faith. These items will be displayed adjacent to the art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tulsa Pride planning meeting Thursday, April 30, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Get involved and help us make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Join us for a planning meeting at the Equality Center on Thursday, April 30. See you there! Ade Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather ~/> f Tu Ls A ?wEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color . I" .' 1 Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artistfriendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. Click here for more information. Gay Pride Bingo with Chelsea Starr and DJ Crystal Friday, May 8, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders We've had so much fun with our previous Tulsa Pride Gay Pride Bingo nights that we've decided to do it again! This time Chelsea Starr, the newly crowned Absolute Sovereign Empress VIII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, will be our host, and Crystal will again be our DJ. If you've been with us before, you know what a blast this is. If you haven't, you've been missing out! Either way, you don't want to miss the fun this 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... time, so put this on your calendar! General admission is $10, and adult-beverage admission is $20. Proceeds go toward making Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. DJ Crystal Tulsa Area Prime Timers Chelsea Star, Absolute Sovereign Empress VII Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Sponsorships are available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 RAINBOW RUN For sponsorship information, please click here. To register, please click here. - -- - - - New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting May 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, May 18. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918-749-4901 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com, log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. - Want to receive computer tips? Like @HelpT Isa.com us on Facebook: facebook.com/ihelptulsa Oklahoma Magazine's '40 Under 40' April issue Five members of Oklahomans for Equality are among the community leaders in Oklahoma magazine's "40 Under 40" feature this year. Included are Stuart Ashworth, Moises Echeverria, Jeromee Scot, Sgt. Thomas Cooper and Dr. John Rogers. We are proud to call them our own! and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - - ·- - - - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. See their stories here. Laverne Cox at Wichita State University A Murder of Storytellers Witchita, Kansas Wednesday, April 29 Every Friday 7:00 pm .;e;f!!!= \ WICH ITA STATE "'c)U l UNIVERSITY 6:30 p.m. Wednesday, April 29 WICHITA STATE UNIVERSITY EUGENE M. HUGHES METROPOLITAN COMPLEX FA.Ot-4 nu;: N,TFLlX HIT s,R.IES · oA.AHG, 15 ™' NEW ILQCI(" A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... Alnlr l IA YV UMAN t• MT JUUKNC T IU YV UMA NMUUU K,YHOTlii: sP,aKlii:R FOR GaYPRIL PO Ill 1:t " _,,..., ea$11 writers of all backgrounds. GLS N - - · Oklahomans for Equality and its Gender Outreach Program are sponsoring a trip to Wichita State University to see Laverne Cox speak in association with the school's Gaypril event. We will leave from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St., on a chartered bus at 2:30 p.m. The price to travel and attend with OkEq is $20. That includes event ticket price and bus transportation to and from the event. To sign up, contact Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org or 918-743-4297. Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award Raindrop Foundation Turkish Cultural Center 4444 W. Houston St. (81st Street east of Garnett Road), Broken Arrow Thursday, April 30, 6 p.m. Join us for the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance's annual Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award celebration at the Raindrop Turkish House in Broken Arrow. This year's recipient of the award is the Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar, senior minister at All Souls Unitarian Church, who will give a keynote address. Rabbi Jack Moline, executive director of the National Interfaith Alliance, will be a special guest. Tickets are $30 and include a buffet dinner with meat and vegetarian options. They can be purchased at this link. For questions, or to register via phone or mail, please email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. The Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is a nonpartisan advocacy group that monitors the line separating church and state. For more information, visit its website at this link. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Dining~ Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno ...{~~0~1. Dine Out, Fight AIDS Find participating restaurants here. --------For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... Herland Retreat Roman Nose State Park, Watonga May 1-3 The Herland Spring Retreat is set for May 1-3 at Roman Nose State Park, just outside Watonga. From Friday Night dinner through Sunday Brunch, the annual Herland Retreats are a great way to get to know your sisters from around the state (and all over). Mark your calendars and schedule some Sister time! Questions or concens? Email herland@herlandsisters.org. Click here for more information. Guys Dine Too The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Tuesday, May 5, 6:30 p.m. Bangkok Restaurant, 3313 E. 32nd Place Guys Dine Too is a social program for gay men and the i r m a le allies/ friends. It meets at a different restaurant every month. Spread the word, and please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan to attend. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful .,2)Af1 JF <0>1l.ll.Jt'll.d~ti<0> Jt'll. JIJl:'ll.ce. We are looking forward to Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave., Sand Springs Saturday, May 16, 10 a.m. Let your golf game pay off for OkEq's JOLT bowling league. This fundraiser will feature cash prizes for first-, second- and third-place teams. Fourperson teams will compete in a scramble format. Registration is now open and costs $75 per person or $300 per team. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Contact Curtis Austin at curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918-361-8739. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Click here to apply. Survey for trans or gender-nonconforming people Documenting stressors encountered and how they impact lives Jae Puckett, a researcher at the ■■■■■■■ IMPACT LGBT Health and ■■■ ■ ■ Development Program (impactprogram.org), is looking for participants who identify as trans or The LGBT Health and Development Program gender nonconforming and are at @Northwestern Urwersity least 16 years old for a research study about experiences of stigma, the ways this can impact one's life across a variety of areas, and how people cope with those experiences. : • IMPACT Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org You will be asked to complete a brief set of questions, from which researchers will determine whether you qualify to complete a brief, one-time survey that takes about 15 minutes or to participate in a longer survey. In the longer survey, you'd be sent a short questionnaire (takes about 5 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... minutes to answer) every day for two months, asking about your experiences. Because the two-month version requires more time, we are paying participants up to $50, depending on how many surveys you complete. To take the initial questionnaire to see whether you qualify, please go to http://goo.gl/je48mC. - - - - - Researchers will look at your responses and then contact you within the next 48 hours. Please email Jae at jpuckett@northwestern.edu if you have any questions. Research opportunity for nonheterosexual men Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve T's can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Hate Crime' by William Bernhardt You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Bestselling Tulsa-area author William Bernhardt is an unsurpassed master at blending psychological suspense with gripping, surprise-filled legal action. In this work of fiction set in Tulsa and Chicago, Ben Kincaid has built a national reputation as a stalwart Tulsa defense attorney who will fight tirelessly for his clients. In Evanston, Illinois, Johnny Christensen has built a national reputation as a sadistic bigot who beat and stabbed a gay man and left him to die. When Johnny's mother comes to Ben and begs him to defend her son, he has one secret reason for saying no. But when unforeseen circumstances force Ben to enter the trial, the defense attorney sees only one way to prove Johnny's innocence. But Ben's plan means luring a killer out of the 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... woodwork -- even though he might kill again. A novel of gut-wrenching twists and surprises, this thriller brilliantly explores the passions between lovers -- and the passions behind society's most heinous crimes. Once again, the remarkable William Bernhardt makes us challenge every assumption, second-guess every judgment, and feel the terror of the truth. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:08 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/935567f6655bc4588946b8410fb64a4a.pdf 294b85b59fe65301ea01a32252c63daa PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 28, 2015 In This Issue SCOTUS Town Hall Equality Gala Laverne Cox trip Tulsa Pride planning meeting Welcome to the eNews. Join us Tuesday evening for a SCOTUS Town Hall about today's U.S. Supreme Court oral arguments. See below for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. - - ------ MOREcolor FirstThursday - - Art - Opening -Gay Pride Bingo Rainbow Run EBA Sponsor Dining Out for Life Russell Bennett Award PFLAG Tulsa 40 Under 40 Herland Retreat Guys Dine Too Imperial Court Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa HIV Wellness Retreat @HelpTulsa .com JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic Camp Anytown Survey SCOTUS Town Hall Research opportunity Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday, April 28, 7:30-9 p.m. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Equality Photos -----Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer The Supreme Court of the United States will hear oral arguments in four marriage equality cases on Tuesday morning, April 28, in Washington, D.C. On that night, gather with us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to hear OkEq Director of Advocacy Mike Redman discuss the arguments presented and recap the day's hearing. Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... Then the Oklahoma marriage equality lawsuit plaintiffs will discuss a historic gathering of marriage equality plaintiffs from across the nation, held the night before the oral arguments, and a rally on the Supreme Court steps that day. The Oklahoma plaintiffs will attend both events in Washington and fly back Tuesday afternoon in time to meet with us. Don't miss this exciting and informative event! Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. OkEq Art Exhibit Equality Gala, The Road to Equality A success! Thank you members of Oklahomans for Equality for the largest and most successful Equality Gala in our 35year history! The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OW\HOl'l'\N{ FDR E:OlWJTV ~ Ho.ad6;:- features works by Karin Susan Cermak. ________ ,G~ Special thanks to our sponsors, donors, guests, live auction donors, silent auction donors and Gala Committee members. Your generosity and support will make possible another year of service to the LGBT community of the heartland. ~ATURDAY. APRIL 25. 2015 COX BU~NH~ CENTER BALLROOM 6.30PM COCKTAIL RE:CE:PTI0N &00PM DINNO AND PROGRAM COIO FOl"l'f. A111 'Of IIO(l MIO!" 110n Ou 916-7-<J•m OIi fNl 0~ le€ sT """-'Oc,OOI~ Laverne Cox at Wichita State University Witchita, Kansas Wednesday, April 29 ~ ! WICH ITA STATE "'c)U l UNIVERSITY 6:30 p.m. Wednesday, April 29 WICHITA STATE UNIVERSITY EUGENE M . HUGHES METROPOLITAN COMPLEX FROhit TH, H(TFLIX HIT S(AU:S "ORQHG, IS TH, H(W IUICK• AIN'T I A WOMAN'?· MY JOURNEY TO WOMANHOOD K(YHOTlii: SPI.QKIER FOR GaYPRIL Counseling Services Oklahomans for Equality and its Gender Outreach Program are sponsoring a trip to Wichita State University to see Laverne Cox speak in association with the school's Gaypril event. We will leave from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St., on a chartered bus at 2:30 p.m. The price to travel and attend with OkEq is $20. That includes event ticket price and bus transportation to and from the event. To sign up, contact Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org or 918-743-4297. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... Tulsa Pride planning meeting Thursday, April 30, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Get involved and help us make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Join us for a planning meeting at the Equality Center on Thursday, April 30. See you there! Ade ~~ Tu Ls A F?wEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color . ' I " Counseling Services .-r Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artistfriendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. Click here for more information. income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles' Thursday, May 7, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center f . I • , I Grieving Well The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the "Paths of Reconciliation" and the "Shower of Stoles," beginning with a reception from 6-9 p.m. Thursday, May 7, and continuing throughout the month. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... The items in the display will include 100 stoles and similar items from the national Shower of Stoles project. Each item is accompanied by a personal story of the person behind the item and their reason for donating the item. Paths of Reconciliation is an Oklahomans for Equality program that attempts to address issues of belief or faith and how they relate to sexuality. Paths of Reconciliation's display includes items from many different people and organizations of belief or faith. These items will be displayed adjacent to the art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Gay Pride Bingo with Chelsea Starr and DJ Crystal Friday, May 8, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center We've had so much fun with our previous Tulsa Pride Gay Pride Bingo nights that we've decided to do it again! This time Chelsea Starr, the newly crowned Absolute Sovereign Empress VIII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, will be our host, and Crystal will again be our DJ. If you've been with us before, you know what a blast this is. If you haven't, you've been missing out! Either way, you don't want to miss the fun this time, so put this on your calendar! General admission is $10, and adult-beverage admission is $20. Proceeds go toward making Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! DJ Crystal Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servtces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgendcr Elders Chelsea Star, Absolute Sovereign Empress VII Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Sponsorships are available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. RAINBOW RUN For sponsorship information, please click here. To register, please click here. --------- The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. McGraw R · ALT R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Tulsa Area Prime Timers Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ @ ~~ LlADINC R.lAl,...CSTATl .. COMPANI[ .4y' TH[ wo•LD Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Dining~ . .l~~~~._ 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Dine Out, Fight AIDS Find restaurants here. -participating --- ---For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award Raindrop Foundation Turkish Cultural Center 4444 W. Houston St. (81st Street east of Garnett Road), Broken Arrow Thursday, April 30, 6 p.m. Join us for the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance's annual Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award celebration at the Raindrop Turkish House in Broken Arrow. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. This year's recipient of the award is the Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar, senior minister at All Souls Unitarian Church, who will give a keynote address. Rabbi Jack Moline, executive director of the National Interfaith Alliance, will be a special guest. Tickets are $30 and include a buffet dinner with meat and vegetarian options. They can be purchased at this link. For questions, or to register via phone or mail, please email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is a nonpartisan advocacy group that monitors the line separating church and state. For more information, visit its website at this link. ACA Assistance The Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting May 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, May 18. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CHA of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - - - or call 918-749-4901 Oklahoma Magazine's '40 Under 40' Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. April issue Five members of Oklahomans for Equality are among the community leaders in Oklahoma magazine's "40 Under 40" feature this year. Included are Stuart Ashworth, Moises Echeverria, Jeromee Scot, Sgt. Thomas Cooper and Dr. John Rogers. We are proud to call them our own! See their stories here. Herland Retreat Roman Nose State Park, Watonga May 1-3 The Herland Spring Retreat is set for May 1-3 at Roman Nose State Park, just outside Watonga. From Friday Night dinner through Sunday Brunch, the annual Herland Retreats are a great way to get to know your sisters from around the state Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... (and all over). Mark your calendars and schedule some Sister time! Questions or concens? Email herland@herlandsisters.org. Click here for more information. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, May 5, 6:30 p.m. Bangkok Restaurant, 3313 E. 32nd Place Guys Dine Too is a social program for gay men and the i r m a le allies/ friends. It meets at a different restaurant every month. Spread the word, and please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan to attend. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Investitures VII Area 18 Saturday, May 9, 5 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invites you to join its members for its first Reign VIII event -- Investitures VIII. Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Starr will be naming her royal family and giving line titles to membership. The theme for the event is Fire and Ice. Suggested dress is formal or theme. (This is a state event for the court.) Female: red or orange. Male: black, white or silver. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Investitures Ceremony: Area 18 @ 5 p.m. After Show: Tommys Bar @ 7:30 p.m. No cover. Must be 21+ to attend. Find membership forms and sponsorship forms for Reign VIII here. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Registration deadline is July 17 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful .,2)A!J JF<01lJl.Jt'Jl.da.ti<elt'Jl. JIJl:'Jl.c. We are looking forward to Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave., Sand Springs Saturday, May 16, 10 a.m. Let your golf game pay off for OkEq's JOLT bowling league. This fundraiser will feature cash prizes for first-, second- and third-place teams. Fourperson teams will compete in a scramble format. Registration is now open and costs $75 per person or $300 per team. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Contact Curtis Austin at curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918-361-8739. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. - . Workforce Oklahoma Access Point . El,fp .f, PREPARINC \llORiocn,lfNs • IOIC.ORc Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... Survey for trans or gender-nonconforming people Documenting stressors encountered and how they impact lives Jae Puckett, a researcher at the ■■■■■■■ IMPACT LGBT Health and ■■■ ■ ■ Development Program (impactprogram.org), is looking for participants who identify as trans or The LGBT Health and Development Program gender nonconforming and are at @Northwestern Urwersity least 16 years old for a research study about experiences of stigma, the ways this can impact one's life across a variety of areas, and how people cope with those experiences. : : IMF>ACT You will be asked to complete a brief set of questions, from which researchers will determine whether you qualify to complete a brief, one-time survey that takes about 15 minutes or to participate in a longer survey. In the longer survey, you'd be sent a short questionnaire (takes about 5 minutes to answer) every day for two months, asking about your experiences. Because the two-month version requires more time, we are paying participants up to $50, depending on how many surveys you complete. To take the initial questionnaire to see whether you qualify, please go to http://goo.gl/je48mC. - - - - Researchers will look at your responses and then contact you within the next 48 hours. Please email Jae at jpuckett@northwestern.edu if you have any questions. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm - Research opportunity for nonheterosexual men Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve T's can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Speak Now: Marriage Equality on Trial' by Kenji Yoshino You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... "Speak Now" tells the story of the watershed trial that unfolded over twelve tense days in California in 2010 in the Prop 8 case, Hollingsworth v. Perry. As it interrogated the nature of marriage, the political status of gays and lesbians, the ideal circumstances for raising children, and the ability of direct democracy to protect fundamental rights, the trial that stands as the most potent argument for marriage equality this nation has ever seen. In telling the story of Hollingsworth v. Perry, the groundbreaking federal lawsuit against Proposition 8, Kenji Yoshino has also written a paean to the vanishing civil trial -- an oasis of rationality in what is often a decidedly uncivil debate. Above all, this book is a work of deep humanity, in which Yoshino brings abstract legal arguments to life by sharing his own story of finding love, marrying, and having children as a gay man. Intellectually rigorous and profoundly compassionate, " Speak Now" will stand as the definitive account of a landmark civil-rights trial.. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Vol r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:11 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/074a4cae45c8083713273667f5df6439.pdf 3f5ddf0e9dc4f1ce6f0b2f82f0f48cb9 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 7, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Gay Pride Bingo Equality Gala 624 Dinner Welcome to the eNews. Join us this Friday evening for Gay Pride Bingo at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! See below for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors First Opening - Thursday - - - -Art --Reconciliation Dinner PFLAG Tulsa Equality Business Alliance Pride Idol Pool-less Pool Party Tulsa Pride Volunteers McGraw R LALT Tulsa Pride Festival & Parade R Rainbow Run Looking to buy or sell your dream home? Tulsa Pride Picnic I can help! Pride in the Ballpark Contact Keith Hunt Today EBA Sponsor (918) 513-13-94 The Color Purple khunt@mcgrawok.com m ts) "" COMPANHS LLADINC lllA~. lSTATl ,-," TH( WOUO ~ o.; Playing Cards Imperial Court HIV Wellness Retreat Gay Pride Bingo with Chelsea Starr and DJ Crystal Friday, May 8, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article We've had so much fun with our previous Tulsa Pride Gay Pride Bingo nights that we've decided to do it again! This time Chelsea Starr, the newly crowned Absolute Sovereign Empress VIII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, will be our host, and Crystal will again be our DJ. If you've been with us before, you know what a blast this is. If you haven't, you've been missing out! Either way, you don't want to miss the fun this time, so put this on your calendar! General admission is $10, and adult-beverage admission is $20. Proceeds go toward making Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Find Us on Facebook OkEq Art Exhibit DJ Crystal The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' -I DJ I Sl10,vcr I I" 01• Stoles PRO,IECT ••••• ....... Chelsea Star, Absolute Sovereign Empress VII Equality Gala, The Road to Equality A success! Special thanks to Oklahomans for Equality members, our sponsors, donors, guests and Gala Committee members for making the 2015 Equality Gala the largest and most successful in our 35-year history! Your generosity and support will make possible another year of service to the LGBT community of the heartland. Find more photos from the event at these photographers' links: Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on Find Williams Photography photos here. income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Find Stephen Michaels Photography photos here. Grieving Well Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles' Thursday, May 7, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the "Paths of Reconciliation" and the "Shower of Stoles," beginning with a reception from 6-9 p.m. Thursday, May 7, and continuing throughout the month. The items in the display will include 100 stoles and similar items from the national Shower of Stoles project. Each item is accompanied by a personal story of the person behind the item and their reason for donating the item. Paths of Reconciliation is an Oklahomans for Equality program that attempts to address issues of belief or faith and how they relate to sexuality. Paths of Reconciliation's display includes items from many different people and organizations of belief or faith. These items will be displayed adjacent to the art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Reconciliation Dinner Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, May 16, 6 p.m. East Side Christian Church (Disciples of Christ), a welcoming and safe congregation, will host a Reconciliation Dinner at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Church members invite you to join them as they meet LGBTQ friends, family and neighbors. All are invited to this free event. Let us break bread together! For more info, email etaylor@escc.org or see the event page on Facebook. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting May 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, May 18. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - or call 918-749-4901 ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - - Equality Business Alliance Look Optical, 3746 S. Peoria Ave. Wednesday, May 20, 6 p.m. The May Monthly Mixer will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, May 20, at Look Optical. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. IEV~CAR~ & EV~W~AR I Join our event on Facebook and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Pride Idol Area 18, 39 E. 18th St. Sunday, May 17, 9:30 p.m. Do you have what it takes to be Pride Idol 2015? Miss Stormy De Janero is ready to pass on her title! Bring your best and compete for a spot on the main stage at Tulsa Pride 2015. Keep thelatest and -up -with ---"join" us on Facebook here. Pool-less Pool Party Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St. Wednesday, May 20, 7 p.m. Join Tulsa Pride for a Pool-less Pool Party at the amazing Inner Circle Vodka Bar. With a special "Pride" Infusion and music by Mindy Bartlett, you won't want to miss this fundraiser! Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... "Join" us at our event page on Facebook. Volunteer to help with Tulsa Pride 2015 Article Subheading Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org We need you! One shift can make all the difference in making this the #bestprideever! The first 100 volunteers to register will receive a FREE Tulsa Pride T-shirt when you check in for your shift! Click here to register to be a volunteer. Click here to "Join" on Facebook. Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, June 6, noon-10 p.m. This will be the #bestprideever! Entertainment on the stage begins at noon. The Tulsa Pride Parade 2015 steps off at 6 p.m., and we will keep it rocking until 10 p.m. Don't miss the Battle of the Bands and '80s icon Tiffany on the main stage, brought to you by Area 18! We'll have cold drinks, delicious food, amazing vendors and a great time to be had by all! Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Stay up to date on the happenings and details for the #bestprideever, and click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Sponsorships are available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. RAINBOW RUN Click here for sponsorship information. --Click here to register. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Tulsa Pride Picnic in the Park Centennial Park, 1028 E. Sixth St. Sunday, May 7, 11 a.m. Bring your family and friends, your own food and a blanket or chairs and join us for a family-friendly Picnic in the Park! This event is brought to you by the Tulsa Shock. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Pride in the Ballpark ONEOK Field Sunday, June 14, following the Tulsa Drillers 2:05 p.m. game Oklahomans for Equality, the Tulsa Drillers and Tulsa Metro Firefighters Softball hosts Pride in the Ballpark, a charity game that benefits the Equality Sports Alliance and the Oklahoma Firefighters Burn Camp. Camp Dry Gulch in Adair runs the week-long camp for children who have suffered major burns or injuries. The program shows that scars and disabilities don't limit success in life. I:n The Ballpark SUNDAY . JUNE 1 4. 2015 FOLLOWING T H E DRILLERS 2 : 05 GA~ I E Tickets : $12 AYalh bl e ilt the Dennl1 R. Neill Equ 1dlty Center 621 E. 4 '" St . Tulsa, OK Call: 911-143-4297 or emall anaiefiUPi!Jcick20llfi!Rma1tcom For more Info find u s on htebook The Equality Sports Alliance is an Oklahomans for Equality program that builds community through the promotion of amateur sports for all people regardless of age, race, creed, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tickets are $12 and are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by emailing center@okeq.org. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com - - - - - , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa @HelpT Isa.com The Color Purple in Concert Tulsa Little Theatre, 1511 S. Delaware Ave. Continuing Thursday, May 7, through Sunday, May 10 Rebecca Ungerman's Spinning Plates Productions presents the first show in its Little Big Musicals series, "The Color Purple in Concert." The Little Big Musicals are performed in concert style, with the full book and score of a Broadway show but with no sets and minimal staging, costumes and props. Performances continue May 7-9 at 8 p.m. and May 10 at 2 p.m. at the Tulsa Little Theatre. Tickets are available in advance at thecolorpurpleinconcert.eventbrite.com or at the door. General Admission: $20 Groups of 10 or more: $18 Students (with ID) and Seniors (65+): $15 'Playing Cards' CD release party Foolish Things Coffee, 1001 S. Main St. 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... Saturday, May 9, 8 p.m. Broken Arrow's own Eric Himan launches his latest CD, "Playing Cards," with a release party this Saturday. Admission is $15, and each person attending will receive a "Playing Cards" CD. Space at Foolish Things is limited, so click here to sign up now on Facebook. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Investitures VII Area 18 Saturday, May 9, 5 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invites you to join its members for its first Reign VIII event -- Investitures VIII. Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Starr will be naming her royal family and giving line titles to membership. The theme for the event is Fire and Ice. Suggested dress is formal or theme. (This is a state event for the court.) Female: red or orange. Male: black, white or silver. Investitures Ceremony: Area 18 @ 5 p.m. After Show: Tommys Bar @ 7:30 p.m. No cover. Must be 21+ to attend. Find membership forms and sponsorship forms for Reign VIII here. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful .,2)A!J JF <01lJl.Jt'Jl.da.il::ii.<0Jt'Jl. JIJl:'Jl.c. We are looking forward to Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave., Sand Springs Saturday, May 16, 10 a.m. Let your golf game pay off for OkEq's JOLT bowling league. This fundraiser will feature cash prizes for first-, second- and third-place teams. Fourperson teams will compete in a scramble format. Registration is now open and costs $75 per person or $300 per team. Contact Curtis Austin at curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918-361-8739. Council Oak Men's Chorale preview Hardesty Regional Library, 8316 E. 93rd St. Wednesday, June 3, 7 p.m. It's an annual tradition! Join us for a special preview of the Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Concert. The Chorale will present No. 1 songs from decades past to present. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with COMC. Hear songs from "The Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii," from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive." You won't want to miss this time of singing and fun with the Council Oak Men's Chorale. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at occ:i ,, (cf Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an El,f atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human P~ ARIN CITilfNs c OIIQ 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Survey for trans or gender-nonconforming people Documenting stressors encountered and how they impact lives Jae Puckett, a researcher at the IMPACT LGBT Health and Development Program (impactprogram.org), is looking for participants who identify as trans or The LGBT Health and Development Program gender nonconforming and are at @NortrnvesternUn,ver~~ least 16 years old for a research study about experiences of stigma, the ways this can impact one's life across a variety of areas, and how people cope with those experiences. You will be asked to complete a brief set of questions, from which researchers will determine whether you qualify to complete a brief, one-time survey that takes about 15 minutes or to participate in a longer survey. In the longer survey, you'd be sent a short questionnaire (takes about 5 minutes to answer) every day for two months, asking about your experiences. Because the two-month version requires more time, we are paying participants up to $50, depending on how many surveys you complete. To take the initial questionnaire to see whether you qualify, please go to http://goo.gl/je48mC. Researchers will look at your responses and then ------contact you within the next 48 hours. Please email Jae at jpuckett@northwestern.edu if you have any questions. Research opportunity for nonheterosexual men Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve T's can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Boy Meets Girl' DVD a film by Eric Schaeffer You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "Boy Meets Girl" is a poignant, sexy, romantic coming of age comedy about three 20-yearolds living in Kentucky. Robby (Michael Welch, Twilight) and his best friend since childhood, Ricky, a gorgeous transgender girl, have never dated. Lamenting the lack of eligible bachelors, Ricky considers dating a girl. In walks Francesca, a beautiful young debutante waiting for her Marine fiancé to return from the war. Ricky and Francesca strike up a friendship, and maybe a little more, which forces Robby to face his true feelings for Ricky. \I ICIlAEL \VE:LCI I \1 ICI IELLE IIE\'l JI.EY B O ~ '"''" LH IC SCll,U' l'FEI< MEErsGIRL LOVE TRANSCEN DS CENDER d. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library olu A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local ac ion center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:12 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/bb30f4a49d23a4a103dbc2e45e1391f8.pdf 42297bcb0c2cd93f195e44dcc457e926 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 13, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Thank Mayor Bartlett Reconciliation Dinner Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Join us this Saturday evening for East Side Christian Church's Reconciliation Dinner at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and tour the Shower of Stoles exhibit in the Art Gallery. See below for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Equality Gala 624 Dinner PFLAG Tulsa Pride Idol Pool-less Pool Party The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log ----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa Tulsa Pride Volunteers Tulsa Pride Festival & Parade Rainbow Run Tulsa Pride Picnic Pride in the Ballpark EBA Sponsor JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic 'Limited Partnership' Movie @HelpTulsa .com Council Oak Camp Anytown Camp Fire Camp Fair Housing Ordinance Amendment signed Thank you, Mayor Dewey Bartlett Oklahomans for Equality applauds Tulsa Mayor Dewey Bartlett for signing the Fair Housing Ordinance Amendment that was passed unanimously by the City Council on April 16. The amendment adds sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression to the protected classes in the local law's nondiscrimination policy. Mayor Bartlett told Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins after signing the ordinance amendment last week: "If you want to deny somebody housing, which is the most basic need, you deserve to be taken to the woodshed." HIV Wellness Retreat Survey Research opportunity LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Photos -Equality -Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook At a time when state officials are introducing bills to 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... sanction discrimination against LGBT Oklahomans, we applaud our local officials for taking a stand for fairness and equality under the law. Please contact Mayor Bartlett and let him know you appreciate his action. Click here to find an online contact form. . Reconciliation Dinner OkEq Board Meeting Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, May 16, 6 p.m. 7 p.m. Thursday, May 21 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center East Side Christian Church (Disciples of Christ), a welcoming and safe congregation, will host a Reconciliation Dinner at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Church members invite you to join them as they meet LGBTQ friends, family and neighbors. All are invited to this free event. Let us break bread together! For more info, email etaylor@escc.org or ---see the event page on Facebook. The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' -I DJ I Sho,vcr Equality Business Alliance Look Optical, 3746 S. Peoria Ave. Wednesday, May 20, 6 p.m. I·••11 I" 01• Stoles ~ The May Monthly Mixer will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, May 20, at Look Optical. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. OkEq Art Exhibit PRO,IECT IEVECARE & EVEWEAR I Join our event on Facebook and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org ---- Equality Gala, The Road to Equality A success! Special thanks to Oklahomans for Equality members, our sponsors, donors, Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... guests and Gala Committee members for making the 2015 Equality Gala the largest and most successful in our 35-year history! Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Your generosity and support will make possible another year of service to the LGBT community of the heartland. Find more photos from the event at these photographers' links: Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Find Williams Photography photos here. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well Find Stephen Michaels Photography photos here. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage ' Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting May 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, May 18. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918-749-4901 Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Pride Idol Area 18, 39 E. 18th St. Sunday, May 17, 9:30 p.m. Do you have what it takes to be Pride Idol 2015? Miss Stormy De Janero is ready to pass on her title! Bring your best and compete for a spot on the main stage at Tulsa Pride 2015. Keep-up-with latest -- -the -- -and - -"join" us on Facebook here. Pool-less Pool Party Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St. Wednesday, May 20, 7 p.m. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Join Tulsa Pride for a Pool-less Pool Party at the amazing Inner Circle Vodka Bar. With a special "Pride" Infusion and music by Mindy Bartlett, you won't want to miss this pool-less pool party on the patio of this awesome downtown bar! There is no cover charge, but a portion of sales goes to Tulsa Pride. Raffles, live entertainment and special drinks will make this a fun Pride fundraiser! "Join" us at our event page on Facebook. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... Volunteer to help with Tulsa Pride 2015 Article Subheading and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. We need you! One shift can make all the difference in making this the #bestprideever! The first 100 volunteers to register will receive a FREE Tulsa Pride T-shirt when you check in for your shift! Click here to register to be a volunteer. Click here to "Join" on Facebook. Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, June 6, noon-10 p.m. This will be the #bestprideever! Entertainment on the stage begins at noon. The Tulsa Pride Parade 2015 steps off at 6 p.m., and we will keep it rocking until 10 p.m. Don't miss the Battle of the Bands and '80s icon Tiffany on the main stage, brought to you by Area 18! We'll have cold drinks, delicious food, amazing vendors and a great time to be had by all! Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Stay up to date on the happenings and details for the #bestprideever, and click "Join" on our Facebook event page. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Sponsorships are available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. RAINBOW RUN Click here for sponsorship information. -Click here to register. Tulsa Pride Picnic in the Park Centennial Park, 1028 E. Sixth St. Sunday, June 7, 11 a.m. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Bring your family and friends, your own food and a blanket or chairs and join us for a family-friendly Picnic in the Park! This event is brought to you by the Tulsa Shock. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Pride in the Ballpark ONEOK Field Sunday, June 14, following the Tulsa Drillers 2:05 p.m. game Oklahomans for Equality, the Tulsa Drillers and Tulsa Metro Firefighters Softball hosts Pride in the Ballpark, a charity game that benefits the Equality Sports Alliance and the Oklahoma Firefighters Burn Camp. Camp Dry Gulch in Adair runs the week-long camp for children who have suffered major burns or injuries. The program shows that scars and disabilities don't limit success in life. The Equality Sports Alliance is an Oklahomans for Equality program that builds community through the promotion of amateur sports for all people regardless of age, race, creed, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Tickets are $12 and are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by emailing center@okeq.org. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... McGraw R bALTO R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com ra ,;,,.. ,,~ llADING RlAl,.. L TATl ~ L:J ~ COMPANllS ,o/ TH( WOR.LO JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave., Sand Springs Saturday, May 16, 10 a.m. Let your golf game pay off for OkEq's JOLT bowling league. This fundraiser will feature cash prizes for first-, second- and third-place teams. Fourperson teams will compete in a scramble format. Registration is now open and costs $75 per person or $300 per team. Contact Curtis Austin at curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918-361-8739. 'Limited Partnership' Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tuesday, May 26, 6:30 p.m., free Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. LI "!TED II Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Decades before the Defense of Marriage Act, Prop 8 and Oklahoma's State Question 711, one gay couple fell in love and took on the United States government to fight for marriage and immigration equality. Filipino American Richard Adams and Australian Tony Sullivan met in Los Angeles in 1971 and quickly fell in love. In April 1975, thanks to a courageous county clerk in Boulder, Colo., they became one of the first same-sex couples in the world to be legally married. Richard immediately filed for a green card for Tony based on their marriage. But unlike most 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... heterosexual married couples who easily file petitions and obtain green cards, Richard received a denial letter from the Immigration and Naturalization Service stating, "You have failed to establish that a bona fide marital relationship can exist between two faggots." Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with Circle Cinema to present "Limited Partnership," a film about Adams and Sullivan and the lawsuit they brought seeking marriage and immigration equality. The screening is part of the Circle Cinema's Community Cinema program and is being presented free of charge at 6:30 p.m. May 26. A panel discussion will follow the screening. CIRCLECINEMA. -- IiE--I Council Oak Mens Chorale preview Hardesty Regional Library, 8316 E. 93rd St. Wednesday, June 3, 7 p.m. It's an annual tradition! Join us for a special preview of the Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert. The Chorale will present No. 1 songs from decades past to present. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with COMC. Hear songs from "The Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii," from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive." You won't want to miss this time of singing and fun with the Council Oak Mens Chorale. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Camp Fire camp staff needed Camp Waluhili 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... Camp Walluhili Resident Camp sessions are one week, overnight sessions. Campers register in a specialty program ranging from traditional camp activities to sciencebased experiments to leadership development. They participate in this program in the morning then enjoy other camp activities with their cabin group in the afternoon and evening. Resident Camp is for youth currently 8-17 years old. At Camp Fire, inclusiveness is a core value, and Camp Fire Green Country serves all kinds of youths and families. Click here for more information about working at the camp. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful ..Z,A!J JF <01ULmi.da.ti<emi. Jimi.c. We are looking forward to Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org Survey for trans or gender-nonconforming people Documenting stressors encountered and how they impact lives Jae Puckett, a researcher at the IMPACT LGBT Health and Development Program (impactprogram.org), is looking for participants who identify as trans or The LGBT Health and Development Program gender nonconforming and are at @Northwestern Urwersity least 16 years old for a research study about experiences of stigma, the ways this can impact one's life across a variety of areas, and how people cope with those experiences. You will be asked to complete a brief set of questions, from which 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... researchers will determine whether you qualify to complete a brief, one-time survey that takes about 15 minutes or to participate in a longer survey. In the longer survey, you'd be sent a short questionnaire (takes about 5 minutes to answer) every day for two months, asking about your experiences. Because the two-month version requires more time, we are paying participants up to $50, depending on how many surveys you complete. To take the initial questionnaire to see whether you qualify, please go to http://goo.gl/je48mC. - - - - - Researchers will look at your responses and then contact you within the next 48 hours. Please email Jae at jpuckett@northwestern.edu if you have any questions. Research opportunity for nonheterosexual men Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org - - - with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve T's can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Circle' DVD a film by Stefan Haupt You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A gorgeous dramatization of gay lovers Ernst and Robi, who meet in Zurich in 1958 against the backdrop of The Circle (the pioneering gay organization and internationally renowned underground club), this award-winning drama also showcases the true story of Ernst and Robi, featuring interviews with the men (now in their 80s) along with stunning archival images and fascinating 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... research into this incredible era in gay history. Starring Matthias Hungerbuhler and Sven Schelker as Ernst and Robi. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Vol r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:14 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/736629a50fd3e6f03be8128a4372850e.pdf 7bb6fca5a9e665cd01a07502f9b9a5ee PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 20, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Give Out Day Equality Business Alliance Pool-less Pool Party Welcome to the eNews. Oklahomans for Equality encourages you to give to OkEq on Thursday May 21st through National Give Out Day. Please see below for details. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Council Oak Tulsa Pride Volunteers Pride Interfaith Service Tulsa Pride Festival & Parade Tiffany Rainbow Run McGraw R 1, Gay Pride Bingo Tulsa Pride Picnic L TO R S ' Pride in the Ballpark Looking to buy or sell your dream home? 624 Dinner I can help! EBA Sponsor Contact Keith Hunt Today 'Limited Partnership' Movie (918) 513-13-94 MyBigGay Italian Wedding ---- khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] LJ3, @ "# LlADING lllAl,..lSTATC -.: C0'4PANICS o/ THl WORLD Equality Gala Thank Mayor Bartlett Camp Anytown Camp Fire Camp Give Out Day 2015 HIV Wellness Retreat Thursday, May 21st, 2015 LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Please join us for the 3rd annual Give OUT Day, the national day of giving for the LGBTQ community! For 24-hours, the LGBTQ community and our allies from across the country will come together to raise critically needed funds to support the diverse array of LGBTQ nonprofits including community centers, arts groups, organizers, clinics, student clubs, sports leagues and more. Plan to join in on May 21st with thousands of others in showing your support Marriage Photos - -Equality --Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook 7 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... for equality. Click here to donate to Oklahomans for Equality through Give Out Day. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, May 21 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Equality Business Alliance OkEq Art Exhibit Look Optical, 3746 S. Peoria Ave. Wednesday, May 20, 6 p.m. The May Monthly Mixer will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, May 20, at Look Optical. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center [L©@[\ IEV~CAR~ & EV~W~AR I Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' 11111 Ill I ■ Sho,vcr , Stoles I·••11 Ill""' ►i 01· PRO.IE ,T Pool-less Pool Party Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St. Wednesday, May 20, 7 p.m. Join Tulsa Pride for a Pool-less Pool Party at the amazing Inner Circle Vodka Bar. With a special "Pride" Infusion and music by Mindy Bartlett, you won't want to miss this pool-less pool party on the patio of this awesome downtown bar! There is no cover charge, but a portion of sales goes to Tulsa Pride. Raffles, live entertainment and special drinks will make this a fun Pride fundraiser! Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... "Join" us at our event page on Facebook. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Gay Pride Bingo Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday, May 29, 7 p.m. Join us for our final Gay Pride Bingo for Tulsa Pride 2015. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, so click "Join" on our Facebook event page and put this on your calendar! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $150, which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward making Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Council Oak Mens Chorale preview Hardesty Regional Library, 8316 E. 93rd St. Wednesday, June 3, 7 p.m. It's an annual tradition! Join us for a special preview of the Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert. The Chorale will present No. 1 songs from decades past to present. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with COMC. Hear songs from "The Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii," from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive." You won't want to miss this time of singing and fun with the Council Oak Mens Chorale. Volunteer to help with Tulsa Pride 2015 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I • • • . I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Tulsa Pride •-□~~ ~- We need you! One shift can make all the difference in making this the #bestprideever! The first 100 volunteers to register will receive a FREE Tulsa Pride T-shirt when you check in for your shift! Click here to register to be a volunteer. Click here to "Join" on Facebook. Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Pride Interfaith Prayer Service Phillips Theological Seminary, 901 N Mingo Rd Thursday, June 4, 7:30 p.m. Please join the LGBT community and allies as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. Clergy and spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. The Rev. Bob Lawrence and the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, along with the Rev Geoffrey Brewster and Phillips Theological Seminary, are hosting this year's Interfaith Service. There will be an In Memoriam tribute for members of our community who have passed during the past year. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of the Pride Flag. Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, June 6, noon-10 p.m. This will be the #bestprideever! Entertainment on the stage begins at noon. The Tulsa Pride Parade 2015 steps off at 6 p.m., and we will keep it rocking until 10 p.m. Don't miss the Battle of the Bands and '80s icon Tiffany on the main stage, brought to you by Area 18! We'll have cold drinks, delicious food, amazing vendors and a great time to be had by all! SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Stay up to date on the happenings and details for the #bestprideever, and click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Tiffany Tulsa Pride Main Stage Saturday, June 6 Area 18 is proud to bring Tiffany to the Tulsa Pride stage! Catch Tiffany on the Area 18 float in the Pride parade and then follow her to the stage, where she'll perform a 30 minute '80s themed set! Later that evening Tiffany will be at Area 18 for VIP meet and greets! Meet and greets can be purchased by calling 918-510-7340! Limited supply of meet and greets available so act fast! Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Sponsorships are available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. RAINBOW RUN -Click here for sponsorship information. ---- and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Click here to register. ACA Assistance Tulsa Pride Picnic in the Park Centennial Park, 1028 E. Sixth St. Sunday, June 7, 11 a.m. Bring your family and friends, your own food and a blanket or chairs and join us for a family-friendly Picnic in the Park! This event is brought to you by the Tulsa Shock. Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---- ·----- Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Pride in the Ballpark Every Friday 7 p.m. ONEOK Field Sunday, June 14, following the Tulsa Drillers 2:05 p.m. game Oklahomans for Equality, the Tulsa Drillers and Tulsa Metro Firefighters Softball hosts Pride in the Ballpark, a charity game that benefits the Equality Sports Alliance and the Oklahoma Firefighters Burn Camp. Camp Dry Gulch in Adair runs the week-long camp for children who have suffered major burns or injuries. The program shows that scars and disabilities don't limit success in life. The Equality Sports Alliance is an Oklahomans for Equality program that builds community through the promotion of amateur sports for all people regardless of age, race, creed, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... writers of all backgrounds. Tickets are $12 and are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by emailing center@okeq.org. Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log ----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa @HelpTulsa .com 'Limited Partnership' Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tuesday, May 26, 6:30 p.m., free The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. LI "!TED II Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Decades before the Defense of Marriage Act, Prop 8 and Oklahoma's State Question 711, one gay couple fell in love and took on the United States government to fight for marriage and immigration equality. Filipino American Richard Adams and Australian Tony Sullivan met in Los Angeles in 1971 and quickly fell in love. In April 1975, thanks to a courageous county clerk in Boulder, Colo., they became one of the first same-sex couples in the world to be legally married. Richard immediately filed for a green card for Tony based on their marriage. But unlike most heterosexual married couples who easily file petitions and obtain green cards, Richard received a denial letter from the Immigration and Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Naturalization Service stating, "You have failed to establish that a bona fide marital relationship can exist between two faggots." Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with Circle Cinema to present "Limited Partnership," a film about Adams and Sullivan and the lawsuit they brought seeking marriage and immigration equality. The screening is part of the Circle Cinema's Community Cinema program and is being presented free of charge at 6:30 p.m. May CIRCLECINEMA. 26. A panel discussion will follow the screening. -- IiE-I My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave June 19th-June 28th http://www.okeq.org/my-big-gay-italian-wedding.html ------ -------- - - - - American Theatre Company HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy/" -The Wall Street Journal • An insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and profane, the ultra-serious and ultra•sif/y makes this the perfec t play.• -Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"I My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. JUNE 19 - 28 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For Tickets: 918-596-7111 or MyTicketOffice.com Tickets Afso Available the Day o/ the Show @ ATC Studios J{"V":"merican Theatre Company ~ STUD I OS ~!~ Equality Gala, The Road to Equality A success! Special thanks to Oklahomans for Equality members, our sponsors, donors, guests and Gala Committee members for making the 2015 Equality Gala the largest and most successful in our 35-year history! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Your generosity and support will make possible another year of service to the LGBT community of the heartland. Find more photos from the event at these photographers' links: 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Find Williams Photography photos here. Find Stephen Michaels Photography photos here. Fair Housing Ordinance Amendment signed Thank you, Mayor Dewey Bartlett Oklahomans for Equality applauds Tulsa Mayor Dewey Bartlett for signing the Fair Housing Ordinance Amendment that was passed unanimously by the City Council on April 16. The amendment adds sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression to the protected classes in the local law's nondiscrimination policy. 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Mayor Bartlett told Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins after signing the ordinance amendment last week: "If you want to deny somebody housing, which is the most basic need, you deserve to be taken to the woodshed." At a time when state officials are introducing bills to sanction discrimination against LGBT Oklahomans, we applaud our local officials for taking a stand for fairness and equality under the law. Please contact Mayor Bartlett and let him know you appreciate his action. Click here to find an online contact form. . Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Camp Fire camp staff needed Camp Waluhili ) 1ttp Camp Walluhili Resident Camp sessions are one week, overnight sessions. Campers register in a specialty program ranging from traditional camp activities to science-based experiments to leadership development. They participate in this program in the morning then enjoy other camp activities with their cabin group in the afternoon and evening. Resident Camp is for youth currently 8-17 years old. At Camp Fire, inclusiveness is a core value, and Camp Fire Green Country serves all kinds of youths and families. Click here for more information about working at the camp. 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful .,2}Af1 JP <0>1L.ll.ltll.da.ti<0> JtlL JI:Itll.ce. We are looking forward to Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve T's can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Out in the Country' by Mary L. Gray You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center From Wal-Mart drag parties to renegade Homemaker's Clubs, Out in the Country offers an unprecedented contemporary account of the lives of today's rural queer youth. Mary L. Gray maps out the experiences of young people living in small towns across rural Kentucky and along its desolate Appalachian borders, providing a fascinating and often surprising look at the contours of gay life beyond the big city. Gray illustrates that, against a backdrop of an increasingly impoverished and privatized rural America, LGBT youth and their allies visibly -- and often vibrantly -- work the boundaries of the public spaces available to them, whether in their high schools, public libraries, town hall meetings, churches, or through websites. This important book shows that, in addition to the spaces of Main Street, rural LGBT youth explore and carve 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... out online spaces to fashion their emerging queer identities. Their triumphs and travails defy clear distinctions often drawn between online and offline experiences of identity, fundamentally redefining our understanding of the term 'queer visibility' and its political stakes. Gray combines ethnographic insight with incisive cultural critique, engaging with some of the biggest issues facing both queer studies and media scholarship. Out in the Country is a timely and groundbreaking study of sexuality and gender, new media, youth culture, and the meaning of identity and social movements in a digital age. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library r-------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:15 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/826ede9a25e08718f0af629fe69d74c6.pdf 540f44d693d233dbd959669f02a5b0aa PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 27, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Gay Pride Bingo Council Oak Tulsa Pride Festival & Parade The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Grand Marshals Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log ----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Tulsa Pride Volunteers Hyatt Regency Sisiters in Song Pride in the Ballpark MOREcolor OkEq Annual Meeting 624 Dinner Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa EBA Sponsor My Big Wedding -Gay -Italian -Camp Anytown Camp Fire Camp Gay Pride Bingo Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday, May 29, 7 p.m. Join us for our final Gay Pride Bingo for Tulsa Pride 2015. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook You don't want to miss the fun, so click "Join" on our Facebook event page and put this on your calendar! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $150, which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward making Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Council Oak Mens Chorale preview Hardesty Regional Library, 8316 E. 93rd St. Wednesday, June 3, 7 p.m., Free OkEq Board Meeting 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... It's an annual tradition! Join us for a special preview of the Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert. The Chorale will present No. 1 songs from decades past to present. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with COMC. Hear songs from "The Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii," from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive." You won't want to miss this time of singing and fun with the Council Oak Mens Chorale. Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, June 6, noon-10 p.m. This will be the #bestprideever! Entertainment on the stage begins at noon. The Tulsa Pride Parade 2015 steps off at 6 p.m., and we will keep it rocking until 10 p.m. Don't miss the Battle of the Bands and '80s icon Tiffany on the main stage, brought to you by Area 18! We'll have cold drinks, delicious food, amazing vendors and a great time to be had by all! 7 p.m. Thursday, June 25th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' 11111 Ill I I Sho,vcr ~ 01• Stoles I·••11 Iii PRO.IE ,T 1111""" Counseling Services Stay up to date on the happenings and details for the #bestprideever, and click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Tulsa Pride Parade Grand Marshals Oklahomans for Equality are proud to announce Don Holladay, James Warner III, and 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... Joseph Thai as Grand Marshals for the 2015 Tulsa Pride Parade. These men are the Legal Counsel for the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit. Hyatt Regency Counseling Services 100 E. 2nd St. Tulsa, OK Need a place to stay after a fun day of Tulsa Pride? Contact the Hyatt Regency Tulsa for your room! We have a special Tulsa Pride room block with discounted rates on the finest rooms in Tulsa. Enjoy Pride and have a relaxing night at the Hyatt! Saturdays By appointment HYATT REGENCY • Volunteer to help with Tulsa Pride 2015 Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I • . We need you! One shift can make all the difference in making this the #bestprideever! The first 100 volunteers to register will receive a FREE Tulsa Pride T-shirt when you check in for your shift! Click here to register to be a volunteer. Click here to "Join" on Facebook. Sisters in Song Present: The 50's Lets Do It Again Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Sunday, June 14, 3:00 p.m. • • - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... Come join us and sing along as we re-visit some of the great songs from the 50's. We promise you a toe-tapping good time. Tickets $15.00, Children under 12 admitted free. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Pride in the Ballpark ONEOK Field Sunday, June 14, following the Tulsa Drillers 2:05 p.m. game Oklahomans for Equality, the Tulsa Drillers and Tulsa Metro Firefighters Softball hosts Pride in the Ballpark, a charity game that benefits the Equality Sports Alliance and the Oklahoma Firefighters Burn Camp. Camp Dry Gulch in Adair runs the weeklong camp for children who have suffered major burns or injuries. The program shows that scars and disabilities don't limit success in life. The Equality Sports Alliance is an Oklahomans for Equality program that builds community through the promotion of amateur sports for all people regardless of age, race, creed, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. Tickets are $12 and are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by email at center@okeq.org. --- MOREcolor Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 18-21 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders MOREcolor 2015, the regional juried exhibition of fine art sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, will show 169 works by 56 artists, and is the largest MOREcolor show since its inception in the 1980s. The three-day exhibition is part of the Tulsa Pride celebration, with support from the Hyatt Regency Hotel and TW's A-Fab Catering. The opening on June 18, 6:00pm to 9:00pm, is free and open to the public. Cash awards include the Juror's Prize and Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... People's Choice Award. The opening event includes unique entertainment, catered cuisine and cash bar, and is held in the event center at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma. MOREcolor is Oklahoma's oldest and largest juried art exhibition, and all works are for sale. Seventy percent of sale price belongs to the artist, and a portion of the sale benefits Oklahomans for Equality. The show runs June 18 through 21, 2015. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. All Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 7:00 pm. Beginning June 1st classes will be held Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. ----- • and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ----- 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." ~-,~ ~ -.i. writers of all backgrounds. ' Pt AYING CARDS ,- You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R t; LTO R ~ Looking to buy or sell your dream home? Game Night I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rn ~ "# LJ.:3, L=.J o.: llADING RlAl,..lSTATL CO~PANll o/ TH[ WOR.LO My Big Gay Italian Wedding Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave June 19th-June 28th http://www.okeq.org/my-big-gay-italian-wedding.html -------------- Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy/" -The Wall Street Journal • An insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and profane, the ultra-serious and ultn1-sil/y makes this the perfect play... - Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. JUNE 19 - 28 For Tickets: 918-596-7111 or MyTicketOffice.com Tickets Afso Available the Day ol lhtt Show O ATC Studios ~ merican Theatre Company STUDIOS ~'::'~ ~ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Click here to apply. Camp Fire camp staff needed Camp Waluhili Camp Walluhili Resident Camp sessions are one week, overnight sessions. Campers register in a specialty program ranging from traditional camp activities to science-based experiments to leadership development. They participate in this program in the morning then enjoy other camp activities with their cabin group in the afternoon and evening. Resident Camp is for youth currently 8-17 years old. At Camp Fire, inclusiveness is a core value, and Camp Fire Green Country serves all kinds of Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... youths and families. Click here for more information about working at the camp. Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing tjrAteful .,z)A!J We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. JF O>il.ll.Jt'.11..dl.Sl.tiO> Jt'.11.. liJt'.11..C . Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/ AIDS The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve tee's or tank tops can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Tie dye short sleeve tee's are $25 each! 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Two Spirit People" By Lester B. Brown, PhD Two Spirit People is the first-ever look at social science research exploration into the lives of American Indian lesbian women and gay men. Editor Lester B. Brown posits six gender styles in traditional American Indian culture: men and women, not-men and notwomen (persons of one biological sex assuming the identity of the opposite sex in some form), and gays and lesbians. He brings together chapters that emphasize American Indian spirituality, present new perspectives, and provide readers with a beginning understanding of the place of lesbian, gay, and bisexual Indians within American Indian culture and within American society. This beginning will help you understand these unique people and the special challenges and multiple prejudices they face. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... r-------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1a46b81911aebf21cfeb0868b29b1afb.pdf 994d591704ad9ff29dfb33fc92374dc4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 2nd, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Council Oak Interfaith Service Tulsa Pride Festival & Parade The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log onto ----ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa Grand Marshals Hyatt Regency Tulsa Pride Volunteers SCOTUS Decision Day 624 Dinner Sisiters in Song Pride in the Ballpark MOREcolor OkEq Annual Meeting C,HelpTulsa .com Disability Workshop EBA Sponsor My Big Wedding -Gay -Italian -- Council Oak Mens Chorale preview Hardesty Regional Library, 8316 E. 93rd St. Wednesday, June 3, 7 p.m., Free It's an annual tradition! Join us for a special preview of the Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert. The Chorale will present No. 1 songs from decades past to present. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with COMC. Hear songs from "The Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii," from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive." You won't want to miss this time of singing and fun with the Council Oak Mens Chorale. Blood Drive Camp Anytown Camp Fire Camp HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook Tulsa Pride Interfaith Prayer Service Phillips Theological Seminary, 901 N Mingo Rd Thursday, June 4, 7:30 p.m. 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Please join the LGBT community and allies as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. Clergy and spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. The Rev. Bob Lawrence and the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, along with the Rev Geoffrey Brewster and Phillips Theological Seminary, are hosting this year's Interfaith Service. There will be an In Memoriam tribute for members of our community who have passed during the past year. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of the Pride Flag. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 25th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' 11111 IPJ I I Sho,vcr " OF Stoles I ...... I .,.,, PRO.IE ..T PHI LIPS ~ SEMINARY Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, June 6, noon-10 p.m. This will be the #bestprideever! Entertainment on the stage begins at noon. The Tulsa Pride Parade 2015 steps off at 6 p.m., and we will keep it rocking until 10 p.m. Don't miss the Battle of the Bands and '80s icon Tiffany on the main stage, brought to you by Area 18! We'll have cold drinks, delicious food, amazing vendors and a great time to be had by all! Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on Stay up to date on the happenings and details for the #bestprideever, and click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Tulsa Pride Parade Grand Marshals SOS Group Oklahomans for Equality is proud to announce Don Holladay, James Warner III, and Joseph Thai as Grand Marshals for the 2015 Tulsa Pride Parade. These men are the Legal Counsel for the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit. Holladay, who will be representing the legal team in the parade, has worked tirelessly to change the legal landscape in this state and paint a portrait of an inclusive and equal Oklahoma. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well Hyatt Regency 100 E. 2nd St. Tulsa, OK Need a place to stay after a fun day of Tulsa Pride? Contact the Hyatt Regency Tulsa for your room! We have a special Tulsa Pride room block with discounted rates on the finest rooms in Tulsa. Enjoy Pride and have a relaxing night at the Hyatt! income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org HYATT REGENCY' 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Volunteer to help with Tulsa Pride 2015 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather We need you! One shift can make all the difference in making this the #bestprideever! The first 100 volunteers to register will receive a FREE Tulsa Pride T-shirt when you check in for your shift! Click here to register to be a volunteer. Click here to "Join" on Facebook. SCOTUS DECISION DAY 2015 June, 2015 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... In this month of June The U.S. Supreme Court will issue its decision on marriage equality. Date to be determined. No matter the outcome, join us on that day to commemorate this historic event! The rally of all rallies at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Join us on Facebook for all the latest updates. Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live - while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. •- - 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Sisters in Song Present: The 50's Lets Do It Again Every Friday 7 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Sunday, June 14, 3:00 p.m. Come join us and sing along as we re-visit some of the great songs from the 50's. We promise you a toe-tapping good time. Tickets $15.00, Children under 12 admitted free. Pride in the Ballpark ONEOK Field Sunday, June 14, following the Tulsa Drillers 2:05 p.m. game A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Oklahomans for Equality, the Tulsa Drillers and Tulsa Metro Firefighters Softball hosts Pride in the Ballpark, a charity game that benefits the Equality Sports Alliance and the Oklahoma Firefighters Burn Camp. Camp Dry Gulch in Adair runs the week-long camp for children who have suffered major burns or injuries. The program shows that scars and disabilities don't limit success in life. The Equality Sports Alliance is an Oklahomans for Equality program that builds community through the promotion of amateur sports for all people regardless of age, race, creed, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. Tickets are $12 and are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by email at center@okeq.org. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org MOREcolor Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 18-21 Game Night MOREcolor 2015, the regional juried exhibition of fine art sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, will show 169 works by 56 artists, and is the largest MOREcolor show since its inception in the 1980s. The three-day exhibition is part of the Tulsa Pride celebration, with support from the Hyatt Regency Hotel and TW's A-Fab Catering. The opening on June 18, 6:00pm to 9:00pm, is free and open to the public. Cash awards include the Juror's Prize and People's Choice Award. The opening event includes unique entertainment, catered cuisine and cash bar, and is held in the event center at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma. MOREcolor is Oklahoma's oldest and largest juried art exhibition, and all works are for sale. Seventy percent of sale price belongs to the artist, and a portion of the sale benefits Oklahomans for Equality. The show runs June 18 through 21, 2015. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term What's Disability Got To Do With It? Youth Services of Tulsa, 311 S. Madison Ave. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Wednesday, June 17, 12:00-4:00 p.m. This Strength-based, interactive workshop will serve as an introduction to disability justice work. It will look at the history and continuing implications of ableism and what service providers and social justice advocates can do to integrate disability justice into their current work and practices. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing The presenter, Sebastian Margaret is a co-founder and co-coordinator of the Disability Justice Collective, a national seed collective out of New Mexico centering leadership of disabled, people of color, Trans, and poverty class folks that strives to break isolation and end the marginalization of disabled people and our communities. Cost: $25.00 per participant, seating is limited. Sebastian will also provide a free workshop for youth on June 16th. Click here for more details or contact Vic Wiener at 918.385.4429, vwiener@yst.org. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R I! TO R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] 1.13, (El ,,~ LLADING R.LAL .CSTATL • C0'4rAN I C ~ THC WOllLD My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy/" -The Wall Street Journal • An insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and profane, the ultra•serious and ultra•silfy makes this the perfect play. • -Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. JULY 16 - 26 For Tickets: 918-596-7111 or MyTicketOffice.com Ti ckets Also Avaifsb/e the Day of the Show O ATC Studios ~ merican Theatre Company STUDIOS ~~ ,-v,,::::;. Click here more information and promotions. Give with Pride Blood Drive Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Sunday, June 28, 12:30-4:30 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive on June 28th from 12:30-4:30 p.m. at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and will be entered in a drawing to win a free cruise! The goal is 40 donations, and the Oklahoma Blood Institute says donations across the board are down, so it's really important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood June 28th! Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Click here to make your appointment 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Oklahoma Blood Institute online. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this award-winning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Camp Fire camp staff needed Camp Waluhili Camp Walluhili Resident Camp sessions are one week, overnight sessions. Campers register in a specialty program ranging from traditional camp activities to science-based experiments to leadership development. They participate in this program in the morning then enjoy other camp activities with their cabin group in the afternoon and evening. Resident Camp is for youth currently 8-17 years old. At Camp Fire, inclusiveness is a core value, and Camp Fire Green Country serves all kinds of youths and families. Click here for more information about working at the camp. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 12 of 13 www.skyranch.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... L]rnteful ~A!J JP' 0>1Lll.lI.'ll.dl.Sl.tiO>lI.'ll. ][lI.'ll.CWe are looking forward to another Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOFRIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve tee's or tank tops can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Tie dye short sleeve tee's are $25 each! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Stonewall" By Martin Duberman A police raid on the Stonewall, an unlicensed Greenwich Village gay bar, set off a series of riots in the summer of 1969 that mark the birth of the modern gay and lesbian political movement. Duberman ( Paul Robeson ) re-examines this event through the vibrant, intertwined portraits of six people--two lesbians, three gay men, one transvestite-whose lives converged at the Stonewall Rebellion and in the militant movement it spawned. Politically, his six subjects run the gamut from ex-priest Jim Fouratt--a leftist and Yippie cohort of Abbie Hoffman--to Foster Gunnison, who devoted his energies to moderate gay causes and later became a STONEWALL conservative. Yvonne Flowers, a 1\\ A R f I N D U B E R M A N black feminist, overcame her suspicion that the gay movement was not open to people of color, while transvestite Sylvia Rivers faced hostility from lesbians. Duberman, himself gay, exposes schisms in gay liberation that pitted gay men against lesbians, male chauvinists against feminists, whites against blacks. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library r--------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7bb64f8d9ed082eefbcab97aa909e293.pdf 4221ef848d08c1a2ce3734dfd5e51f15 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 9th, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Shock Pride Night Pride in the Ballpark MOREcolor The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors L T SCOTUS Decision Day 624 Dinner McGraw R • Sisiters in Song OkEq Annual Meeting R S' Disability Workshop Looking to buy or sell your dream home? EBA Sponsor I can help! My BigGay -Italian - -Wedding -- Contact Keith Hunt Today Blood Drive (918) 513-13-94 Camp Anytown khunt@mcgrawok.com ~ ~ L=.J rl] ,, • llADINC lllA~.lSTATl C0\4PAN I C fY THE WOllLO Camp Fire Camp HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Time to Show your Pride with the Shock Pride Store Rainbow Library BOK Center, 200 S. Denver Ave. Tuesday, June 9th, 7:00PM Tulsa Shock Pride Night is tonight, June 9th! This year, the Shock is making an effort to involve LGBT youth and expose them to the game. After the game, one of the Shock's assistant coaches will speak to the youth and relate her life experiences as an LGBT individual. Free tickets are available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St. Find Us on Facebook Pride in the Ballpark ONEOK Field Sunday, June 14, following the Tulsa Drillers 2:05 p.m. game Oklahomans for Equality, the Tulsa Drillers and Tulsa Metro Firefighters Softball hosts Pride in the Ballpark, a charity game that benefits the Equality Sports Alliance and the OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 25th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... Oklahoma Firefighters Burn Camp. Camp Dry Gulch in Adair runs the week-long camp for children who have suffered major burns or injuries. The program shows that scars and disabilities don't limit success in life. The Equality Sports Alliance is an Oklahomans for Equality program that builds community through the promotion of amateur sports for all people regardless of age, race, creed, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. Tickets are $12 and are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by email at center@okeq.org. MOREcolor Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 18-21 All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' 11111 bl I Sho,ver I I" OF Stoles PRO.IECT I ...,. ...... MOREcolor 2015, the regional juried exhibition of fine art sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, will show 169 works by 56 artists, and is the largest MOREcolor show since its inception in the 1980s. The three-day exhibition is part of the Tulsa Pride celebration, with support from the Hyatt Regency Hotel and TW's A-Fab Catering. The opening on June 18, 6:00pm to 9:00pm, is free and open to the public. Cash awards include the Juror's Prize and People's Choice Award. The opening event includes unique entertainment, catered cuisine and cash bar, and is held in the event center at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma. MOREcolor is Oklahoma's oldest and largest juried art exhibition, and all works are for sale. Seventy percent of sale price belongs to the artist, and a portion of the sale benefits Oklahomans for Equality. The show runs June 18 through 21, 2015. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Sisters in Song Present: The 50's Lets Do It 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... Again Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Sunday, June 14, 3:00 p.m. Come join us and sing along as we re-visit some of the great songs from the 50's. We promise you a toe-tapping good time. Tickets $15.00, Children under 12 admitted free. SCOTUS DECISION DAY 2015 June, 2015 In this month of June The U.S. Supreme Court will issue its decision on marriage equality. Date to be determined. No matter the outcome, join us on that day to commemorate this historic event! The rally of all rallies at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Join us on Facebook for all the latest updates. Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - - - for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term What's Disability Got To Do With It? Youth Services of Tulsa, 311 S. Madison Ave. Wednesday, June 17, 12:00-4:00 p.m. This Strength-based, interactive workshop will serve as an introduction to disability justice work. It will look at the history Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... and continuing implications of ableism and what service providers and social justice advocates can do to integrate disability justice into their current work and practices. The presenter, Sebastian Margaret is a co-founder and co-coordinator of the Disability Justice Collective, a national seed collective out of New Mexico centering leadership of disabled, people of color, Trans, and poverty class folks that strives to break isolation and end the marginalization of disabled people and our communities. Cost: $25.00 per participant, seating is limited. Sebastian will also provide a free workshop for youth on June 16th. Click here for more details or contact Vic Wiener at 918.385.4429, vwiener@yst.org. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa C,HelpTulsa .com advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy/" -The Wall Street Journal • An insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and profane, the ultra•serious and ultra•silfy makes this the perfect play. • -Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. JULY 16 - 26 For Tickets: 918-596-7111 or MyTicketOffice.com Ti ckets Also Avaifsb/e the Day of the Show O ATC Studios ~ Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org merican Theatre Company STUDIOS ~~ ,-v,,::::;. Click here more information and promotions. Give with Pride Blood Drive Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Sunday, June 28, 12:30-4:30 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive on June 28th from 12:30-4:30 p.m. at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and two passes to the Tulsa Zoo. It's important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood June 28th! Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Click here to make your appointment online. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... Oklahoma Blood Institute The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this award-winning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Camp Fire camp staff needed Camp Waluhili ) JKp Camp Walluhili Resident Camp sessions are one week, overnight sessions. Campers register in a specialty program ranging from traditional camp activities to science-based experiments to leadership development. They participate in this program in the morning then enjoy other camp activities with their cabin group in the afternoon and evening. Resident Camp is for youth currently 8-17 years old. At Camp Fire, inclusiveness is a core value, and Camp Fire Green Country serves all kinds of youths and families. Click here for more information about working at the camp. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 9 of 10 www.skyranch.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... ~rnteful ..Z,Afl JP <011.1L:irndl.a.ti<0:irn ][:irncWe are looking forward to another Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: healthcare BILLOFRIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve tee's or tank tops can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Tie dye short sleeve tee's are $25 each! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... up with the new items and new sale items Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Insignificant Others: A Novel" By Stephen McCauley Richard Rossi works in HR at a Bostonbased software company and prides himself on his understanding of the foibles and fictions we all use to get through the day. Too bad he's not as good at spotting such behavior in himself. What else could explain his passionate affair with Benjamin, a very unavailable married man? Richard is also not entirely available himself-there's Conrad, his adorable if maddening partner to contend with. But when Conrad starts spending a suspicious amount of time in Ohio, and economic uncertainty challenges Richard's chances for promotion, he realizes his priorities might be a little skewed. ~l-.na1:wo! ,, . ttwftG~CA;flt..... -utA ' " ""'" Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r--------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:17 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4ccbcdb79c62f50bd3a87b074c1c21a2.pdf 9e8478cc2225c9aa4d5656ab44c4ef52 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 17th, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor MOREcolor SCOTUS Decision Day Council Oak Men's Chorale The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa 624 Dinner Openarms Youth Project OkEq Annual Meeting EBA Sponsor Blood Drive Pride Under the Lights Camp Anytown HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights C,HelpTulsa .com Pride Store Rainbow Library MOREcolor Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 18-21 MOREcolor 2015, the regional juried exhibition of fine art sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, will show 169 works by 56 artists, and is the largest MOREcolor show since its inception in the 1980s. The three-day exhibition is part of the Tulsa Pride celebration, with support from the Hyatt Regency Hotel and TW's A-Fab Catering. The opening on June 18, 6:00pm to 9:00pm, is free and open to the public. Cash awards include the Juror's Prize and People's Choice Award. The opening event includes unique entertainment, catered cuisine and cash bar, and is held in the event center at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma. Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 25th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... MOREcolor is Oklahoma's oldest and largest juried art exhibition, and all works are for sale. Seventy percent of sale price belongs to the artist, and a portion of the sale benefits Oklahomans for Equality. The show runs June 18 through 21, 2015. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' 11111 bl I Sho,vcr OF Stoles I ~ I I ••• ,. 1111""' PRO.IECT No Actors Allowed - A One Man Show by Tim Bagley Comedy Parlor, 328 E. 1st St Friday, June 19, 8:00 p.m. Whether it's wearing a Speedo on national television, getting a bird caught in his wig during a network run through, or getting cast as an international terrorist serial killer who only kills super models, Tim Bagley tells true tales about navigating his way through the humiliations of being a working actor in Hollywood with his new one person show NO ACTORS ALLOWED. NO ACTORS . ALLOWED Tickets can be purchased at www.bluewhalecomedyfestival.com. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 SCOTUS DECISION DAY 2015 June, 2015 In this month of June The U.S. Supreme Court will issue its decision on marriage equality. Date to be determined. No matter the outcome, join us on that day to commemorate this historic event! The rally of all rallies at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Join us on Facebook for all the latest updates. Council Oak Men's Chorale Presents #1 HITZ Thru The Decades June 20 at 7:30 p.m., June 26 and 27 at 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Ave Council Oak Men's Chorale will present #1 C@~nd l Oak Men 's Chorale HITZ Thru The Decades at three #1 HlnThru The Decades performances in June. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with the guys from COMC. Hear songs from "Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii" and from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive" and lots of other songs from the decades in between. The Wine and Cheese Performance will be on June 20th at 7:30 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall. Tickets are $40 and can be purchased on the COMC website (counciloak.org). Two concert performances will be on Friday, June 26th, and Saturday, June 27th, at 8:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall. Tickets are $20 and can be purchased on the COMC website or at the door the night of the performance. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org U) i i'',f' ll t'> Enjoy an evening of great singing and fun with Council Oak Men's Chorale. Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... I {/ Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. * 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual I:< Transgender Elders Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Openarms Youth Project Is Premiering Misfits June 30, 6:30 p.m. Reception, 7:30 p.m. Screening Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave The Openarms Youth Project will be hosting the USA premiere of the internationally produced film Misfits. This movie is about three Tulsa teenagers grappling with the hardships of being openly lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT) in the middle of the Bible Belt. The event will be held at the Circle Cinema on June 30th Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... starting at 6:30 p.m. Tickets will be $10 and can be purchased here; there is limited seating available. Director Jannik Splidsboel will be in attendance to address any post-film questions or comments. meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. This unique event provides a glimpse into the lives of local LGBTQ youth and offers a brief insight to some of our charitable services. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... 5. Serve a two year term Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---- ·----- Share your voice. Shape our future. Our Tomorrow, www.shareourtomorrow.org Our Tomorrow is a campaign to engage LGBTQ people across the country in a conversation to shape the future of a bigger, bolder movement that leaves no one behind. Gender Outreach It is a place for LGBTQ people across the country to share our hopes, fears and ideas for the future - and help make tomorrow better for all of us. Share your voice here; your submissions will help the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and the LGBTQ community throughout the nation. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Lambda Al-Anon Group McGraw R I! A T Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Every Friday 7 p.m. R S" Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today A Murder of Storytellers (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rt] LJ3, My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th American Theatre Company Presents ® "# LLADING llLAL .lSTATL • CO\4rAN l lS ~ THl WOllLD Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. "Feel-good hysterical comedy!" - The Wall Street Journal "As insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and the profane, the ultraserious and ultra-silly Survivors of Incest Anonymous 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... makes this the perfect play." - Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. For tickets: 918-596-7111 or click here. Tickets are also available the day of the show at ATC Studios. Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Click here for more information and promotions. Give with Pride Blood Drive Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Sunday, June 28, 12:30-4:30 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive on June 28th from 12:30-4:30 p.m. at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and two passes to the Tulsa Zoo. It's important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood June 28th! Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Click here to make your appointment online. Oklahoma Blood Institute Pride Under the Lights Saturday, July 25, after the Drillers game If you purchased and still have your Pride in the Ballpark ticket, hang on to Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... it! ONEOK Stadium will be hosting Pride Under the Lights on Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. game against the Arkansas Travelers. New tickets for the event will be issued; tickets can also be purchased at the same price of $12 each. Just come by the Equality Center or come to the ONEOK Stadium gate to pick up your tickets. Come join us for an evening of fun and excitement! Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this award-winning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful ..Z,Afl JE=' ~1U1.x:n.dla.ti~x:n. lix:n.c:. We are looking forward to another Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOFRIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve tee's or tank tops can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $15 each. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Sixth Form: A Novel" By Tom Dolby Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org When seventeen-year-old Ethan Whitley leaves his home in California for Berkley Academy, a prestigious Massachusetts prep school, he's a blank slate, a shy follower of rules in search of himself. Ethan is given the chance to start over when he is hand-picked by his wealthy, disaffected classmate, Todd Eldon, and a 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... seductive, enigmatic teacher, Hannah McClellan, a free spirit for whom rules were meant to be broken. Life with Todd and Hannah is a revelation, an invitation to a world of privilege and desire. But looming over these heady evenings is the disturbing mystery of Hannah's fragmented past, one that Ethan longs desperately to understand. As secrets are revealed, Ethan is pulled deep into the undertow of Hannah's history and Todd's longings. Soon, he learns that every deceit has a price, every lie is an ugly truth, and that those he has come to trust are people he doesn't know at all. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r--------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L--------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5be46f84f298b3775b5853fdd02b9c3e.pdf 4606b0569abe670aa54cf8a53114bf51 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 24th, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor SCOTUS Decision Day Blood Drive Council Oak Men's Chorale The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors L T OkEq Annual Meeting Openarms Youth Project McGraw R • 624 Dinner Our Tomorrow R S' "Solo Club" Looking to buy or sell your dream home? EBA Sponsor I can help! EBA Mixer Contact Keith Hunt Today My BigGay -Italian - -Wedding -- (918) 513-13-94 SAGE Pool Party khunt@mcgrawok.com ~ ~ L=.J rl] ,, • llADINC lllA~.lSTATl C0\4PAN I C fY THE WOllLO Christmas in July Pride Under the Lights Camp Anytown SCOTUS DECISION DAY 2015 ANY DAY NOW! Rally will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St The U.S. Supreme Court's decision on marriage equality is IMMINENT. No matter the outcome, join us on that day to commemorate this historic event! The rally of all rallies at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. HIV Wellness Retreat Pat Hobbs: FIRSTS! "Documented" LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 25th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Join us on Facebook for all the latest updates. OkEq Art Exhibit Give with Pride Blood Drive Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Sunday, June 28, 12:30-4:30 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive on June 28th from 12:30-4:30 p.m. at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and two passes to the Tulsa Zoo. It's important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood June 28th! The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' 11111 IPJ I I oFStolcs Sho,vcr I.,.,, l......'°' PRO.IE ..T Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Click here to make your appointment online. Oklahoma Blood Institute Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Council Oak Men's Chorale Presents #1 HITZ Thru The Decades June 26 and 27 at 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Ave 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... Council Oak Men's Chorale will present #1 t~1 1.mdl Oa k Men 's Chorale HITZ Thru The Decades at three ff l Hin Th ru The Decades performances in June. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with the guys from COMC. Hear songs from "Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii" and from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive" and lots of other songs (.1s,cla Hall 2520 S. Yorktown Ave Tuls.:i, 01< from the decades in between. The Wine and Cheese Performance will be on June 20th at 7:30 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall. Tickets are $40 and can be purchased on the COMC website (counciloak.org). Two concert performances will be on Friday, June 26th, and Saturday, June 27th, at 8:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall. Tickets are $20 and can be purchased on the COMC website or at the door the night of the performance. RJ fCS<' i1 l_i Enjoy an evening of great singing and fun with Council Oak Men's Chorale. Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 SOS Group 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." .a,, "~,v . ~ "' ' Pt AYING CARDS ,-. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. SAGE Tulsa Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Openarms Youth Project Is Premiering Misfits June 30, 6:30 p.m. Reception, 7:30 p.m. Screening Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave The Openarms Youth Project will be hosting the USA premiere of the internationally produced film Misfits. This movie is about three Tulsa teenagers grappling with the hardships of being openly lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT) in the middle of the Bible Belt. The event will be held at the Circle Cinema on June 30th starting at 6:30 p.m. Tickets will be $10 and can be purchased here; there is limited seating available. Director Jannik Splidsboel will be in attendance to address any post-film questions or comments. This unique event provides a glimpse into the lives of local LGBTQ youth and offers a brief insight to some of our charitable services. Share your voice. Shape our future. Our Tomorrow, www.shareourtomorrow.org Our Tomorrow is a campaign to engage LGBTQ people across the country in a conversation to shape the future of a bigger, bolder movement that leaves no one behind. It is a place for LGBTQ people across the country to share our hopes, fears and ideas for the future - and help make tomorrow better for all of us. (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Share your voice here; your submissions will 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... help the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and the LGBTQ community throughout the nation. "Solo Club" - A New Play by Dan Gordon June 25-27, 7:00 p.m., June 28, 2:00 p.m. Theater Bartlesville, 312 S. Dewey Ave Tulsa Area Prime Timers "Solo Club", a new play by Dan Gordon, will be an exclusive Oklahoma premiere - there will be only four performances! Tallgrass Theatre Festival will featuring the new drama. TICKETS NOW ON SALE online at www.theaterbartlesville.com. Performances will be on June 25th, 26th, 27th, and 28th at Theater Bartlesville, located at 312 S. Dewey in the heart of downtown Bartlesville. This play has the serious theme of teen homelessness and the family struggles surrounding gay youth and domestic violence. Get your tickets now! 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 For more information, contact Theater Bartlesville at 918-336-1900 or query@theaterbartlesville.com. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa @HelpTulsa .corn EBA Mixer Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St Suite A July 15, 6:00-7:30 p.m. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - - E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. Our next mixer will be held at Inner Circle Vodka Bar, located at 410 N. Main St Suite A. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy!" - The Wall Street Journal "As insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and the profane, the ultraserious and ultra-silly makes this the perfect play." - Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous For tickets: 918-596-7111 or click here. Tickets are also available the day of the show at ATC Studios. Click here for more information and promotions. SAGE Pool Party July 21, 2015 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Thursday, June 26th, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage Services and Advocacy for Cay, lesbian, 81sexu.i l Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org &. Tramgender EldC'r-5 Game Night The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Christmas in July - A Benefit for H.O.P.E. Testing Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St July 25, 7:00 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma is holding a comunity wide fundraiser to raise money for H.O.P.E. Testing on July 25, 2015 at the Tulsa Eagle. 21+ Only, No Cover. We are currently looking for Silent / Live Auction Items. If you have anything to donate please contact us at impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on our website donation page www.impcourtok.org From the Heart, Through the Court, For the Community! Pride Under the Lights Saturday, July 25, after the Drillers game Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... If you purchased and still have your Pride in the Ballpark ticket, hang on to it! ONEOK Stadium will be hosting Pride Under the Lights on Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. game against the Arkansas Travelers. New tickets for the event will be issued; tickets can also be purchased at the same price of $12 each. Just come by the Equality Center or come to the ONEOK Stadium gate to pick up your tickets. Come join us for an evening of fun and excitement! Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this award-winning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful .,z)Afl JF <011.1Lltll.dl.si.tico Jal. ][ltll.c. We are looking forward to another Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... www.gratefulday.org Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. "Pat Hobbs: FIRSTS!" - One Night Only June 26, 8:00 p.m. LaFortune Caberet Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm In his first SummerStage cabaret show, Pat Hobbs takes the audience on a multimedia trip through his theatrical and personal firsts. He's been singing and acting around town - and a great supporter of Tulsa's performing arts - for decades. Hobbs has many a tale to tell, and he tells them here most tunefully. You may have seen Hobbs recently in Theatre Tulsa's production of "9 to 5" or as Albin in Tulsa Project Theatre's "La Cage aux Folles." MISSION: "Pat Hobbs: FIRSTS!" is presented by Spinning Plates Productions, and is directed by Machele Miller Dill, with musical direction by Carl and Elizabeth Curtis. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. "Pat Hobbs: FIRSTS!" Will be presented ONE NIGHT ONLY in the LaFortune Cabaret Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati on Friday, June 26 at 8 p.m. For tickets, call the PAC box office at 918-586-7111, or visit myticketoffice.com. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org "Documented" - Promoted by Tulsa Area Fair Housing Partnership July 23, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is important to them and address their needs in your newsletter DOCUMENTED each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.In 2011, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist Jose Antonio Vargas outed himself as an undocumented immigrant in an essay published in the New York Times Magazine. Documented chronicles his journey to America from the Philippines as a child; his journey through America as an immigration reform activist; and his journey inward as he re-connects with his mother, whom he hasn't seen in person in over 20 years. 0.. .... -• ••• ,.,. • •• U " ' o j H n o, . Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Tickets are $11.00 (general admission) and can be purchased here. 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOFRIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve tee's for only $15 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Self-Made Man: One Woman's Journey into Manhood and Back Again" By Norah Vincent When seventeen-year-old Ethan Whitley leaves his home in California for Berkley Academy, a prestigious Massachusetts prep school, he's a blank slate, a shy follower of rules in search of himself. Ethan is given the chance to start over when he is hand-picked by his wealthy, disaffected classmate, Todd Eldon, and a seductive, enigmatic teacher, Hannah 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... McClellan, a free spirit for whom rules were meant to be broken. Life with Todd and Hannah is a revelation, an invitation to a world of privilege and desire. But looming over these heady evenings is the disturbing mystery of Hannah's fragmented past, one that Ethan longs desperately to understand. As secrets are revealed, Ethan is pulled deep into the undertow of Hannah's history and Todd's longings. Soon, he learns that every deceit has a price, every lie is an ugly truth, and that those he has come to trust are people he doesn't know at all. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r--------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:19 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ca1d57c188be59c3db67c4a541b735b3.pdf 0823f4355e0760cfcf6f04ac3a053c18 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 30th, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor SCOTUS Decision Day "Ankle Deep..." Marriage Equality Victory Party The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log onto ----ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa OkEq Annual Meeting The 4th of July Our Tomorrow EBA Sponsor EBA Mixer My Big Wedding -Gay -Italian -SAGE Pool Party Christmas in July Pride Under the Lights C,HelpTulsa .com HIV Wellness Retreat "Documented" LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights WE WON! SCOTUS Decision Day, June 26, 2015 Pride Store Rainbow Library Congratulations to all the LGBT couples and families throughout our nation! At long last, there is no such thing as "gay marriage" - now it's just MARRIAGE! Even though we now have the right to marry in all 50 states, we still have a long way to go with regards to equal rights. It is still legal to discriminate against gays, lesbians and transgendered persons with respect to employment, housing and public accommodation. Until we have full equality, our work is not done. Find Us on Facebook Thank you for your continuing support of Oklahomans for Equality. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 16th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 2 of 10 - .... ,. /, https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... . •~ . I ~ ; .. _, ' - - All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The crowd at the Marriage Equality Celebration Rally June 26, 2015. OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics.' SOS Group Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, speaking at the Marriage Equality Celebration Rally, June 26, 2015. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org « ' • '. , Grieving Well Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Plaintiffs in the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit, speaking at the Marriage Equality Celebration Rally, June 26, 2015. Join us on Facebook for all the latest updates. "Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics" by Kevin Thompson Opening Reception July 2, 2015, 6:00 p.m.-9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit will feature the works of Kevin Thompson in a show titled "Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics"As an artist, Kevin has learned that he reaches the most satisfactory aesthetic when he takes guidance from a client and then meshes his years of experience to reach the final outcome. Envisioning the outcome and then backing up step-by-step to reach the end result is part of his creative process. Using this method in painting, Kevin approaches the canvas with a strong idea of how it will look and then plans the steps necessary for the final product. Be a part of this Marriage Equality Victory Party: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders * 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... contemporary palette. Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Marriage at-624 Kitchen &-Catering -Equality - - - -Celebration ----------------- Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Happy Independence Day! July 4th, 2015 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center WILL BE OPEN this Saturday for the 4th of July. Come in, cool off, and celebrate with us! ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Share your voice. Shape our future. Our Tomorrow, www.shareourtomorrow.org Our Tomorrow is a campaign to engage LGBTQ people across the country in a conversation to shape the future of a bigger, bolder movement that leaves no one behind. It is a place for LGBTQ people across the country to share our hopes, fears and ideas for the future - and help make tomorrow better for all of us. Share your voice here; your submissions will help the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and the LGBTQ community throughout the nation. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... Survivors of Incest Anonymous McGraw R I, LT RS Every Saturday 12:30 pm Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ ~ ,,~ LLAOING llLAL,.l TAT[ o.: COMrAN I ( .tY TH[ WOllLD SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org EBA Mixer Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St Suite A July 15, 6:00-7:30 p.m. E UALITY Business Alliance Game Night The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Our next mixer will be held at Inner Circle Vodka Bar, located at 410 N. Main St Suite A. My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy!" - The Wall Street Journal "As insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and the profane, the ultra- Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... serious and ultra-silly makes this the perfect play." - Edge New York by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. For tickets: 918-596-7111 or click here. Tickets are also available the day of the show at ATC Studios. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Click here for more information and promotions. SAGE Pool Party July 21, 2015 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, July 21st, 2015 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage Serv1Ces and Advocacy for Cay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elder-5 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Christmas in July - A Benefit for H.O.P.E. Testing Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St July 25, 7:00 p.m. Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma is holding a comunity wide fundraiser 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... to raise money for H.O.P.E. Testing on July 25, 2015 at the Tulsa Eagle. 21+ Only, No Cover. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm We are currently looking for Silent / Live Auction Items. If you have anything to donate please contact us at impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on our website donation page www.impcourtok.org From the Heart, Through the Court, For the Community! Pride Under the Lights Saturday, July 25, after the Drillers game If you purchased and still have your Pride in the Ballpark ticket, hang on to it! ONEOK Stadium will be hosting Pride Under the Lights on Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. game against the Arkansas Travelers. New tickets for the event will be issued; tickets can also be purchased at the same price of $12 each. Just come by the Equality Center or come to the ONEOK Stadium gate to pick up your tickets. Come join us for an evening of fun and excitement! Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Qrnteful .,2}Af1 JE=' <01UL:n::n.dla.ti<0 :n::n. li:n::n.c:. We are looking forward to another Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... "Documented" - Promoted by Tulsa Area Fair Housing Partnership July 23, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is important to them and address their needs in your newsletter DOCUMENTED each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.In 2011, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist Jose Antonio Vargas outed himself as an undocumented .........., immigrant in an essay published in the New York Times Magazine. Documented chronicles his journey to America from the Philippines as a child; his journey through America as an immigration reform activist; and his journey inward as he re-connects with his mother, whom he hasn't seen in person in over 20 years. - i.oOU H'o JHroo~. CRIii - ..;:..-::;:;:•-::.:::::.. - Tickets are $11.00 (general admission) and can be purchased here. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOFRIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rights . org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are available in the Pride Store. These short-sleeve tee's for only $15 each. 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Conduct Unbecoming - Gays & Lesbians in the U.S. Military" By Randy Shilts Written by the author of the highly acclaimed And The Band Played On, this extraordinary and unique exploration of gays in the military and gay persecution in the miliatary is nothing short of a masterpiece of investigative reporting. Shilts spoke with hundreds of lesbian and gays in all levels of the military and tells their stories of pain and pride with an attention to detail and depth of feeling that will leave readers moved and educated and with better understanding. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. 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Title A name given to the resource [2015] OKEQ eNews https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7e4c5b69be39a70b1cf91199a1b21bc7.pdf 9d3c4f4bd5c536a0d87411d6dd92f9f4 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... eNews October 8th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Wedding Announcement Marriage Equality Photos --Wedding Resources Welcome to the eNews. For an entire week, from Saturday October 25th through Saturday November 1st, the Equality Center will be overrun with zombies! Test your courage and come by for a zombified tour! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug OUTlaw Legal Series Equality Business Alliance TMSL SAGE Tulsa Halloween Halloween 2014 LGBT Shirt Quilt A Murder of Storytellers http://www.theGardenTrug.com Our Bodies, Ourselves Computer Boot Camp Fair Housing Survey --- Garden Tru Broken Heart Land Transforming Hate nursery, flor ist & gifts EBA Sponsor OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver [~311 Love our Strore? Like us on Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101st & Delaware 918.528.3828 Reiki Sessions OK Mister Leather 2015 Spirit Day Bullying Conference 2015 Call for Art LGBT History Month Wedding Announcement Congratulations from Oklahomans for Equality OUT OK Film Festival Circle Cinema Miss Brookside Tulsa Interfaith Alliance OSU Survey Mary Bishop and Sharon Baldwin were wed on Monday, October 6th, 2014 at 5:00 pm on the steps of the Tulsa County Courthouse by Judge Jane Wiseman. The couple then had a wedding reception at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with a few hundred close family and friends. Thus completing an almost 10 year journey together that began when the couple, along with Gay Phillips and Sue Barton, filed a lawsuit in November 2004, the day after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved State Question 711, which codified a ban on same-sex marriage into the state constitution. U.S. District Judge Terence Kern of the Tulsa-based Northern District of Oklahoma ruled January 14th of this year that the ban was unconstitutional. Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 16th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Photo Courtesy of LeAnne Williams Photography Marriage Equality in Oklahoma OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins. ________ In news you may have heard: On Monday, October 6th, the Supreme Court rejected to review the appeal of the unconstitutional ruling on the same-sex marriage ban in Oklahoma. Making Marriage Equality the law of the land in Oklahoma. The stay on the ban was lifted that afternoon and couples quickly began obtaining their marriage licenses. Included in this decision is Oklahoma now having to recognize out-of-state same-sex marriages. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include - - --any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Wedding Resources Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Business Alliance directory where you can find all kinds of -Equality - - -------------LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, October 9th, 2014; 7:00 pm Counseling Services The Supreme Court has made their decision about same-sex marriage in Oklahoma. Please join us if you have any questions about the state of now legal samesex marriage in Oklahoma. The OUTlaw Legal Series will discuss all the latest relating to Oklahoma marriage Equality on Thursday, October 9th at 7:00 pm. Please bring your questions and thoughts for our legal expert Conor Cleary, Esq. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to RSVP Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 15th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Garden Trug, 3009 E 101st St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... Counseling Services everyone on your friends list. the ar Tru nursery and gift shop The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st St Tulsa, OK 74137 Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball SAGE Tulsa Hobo Halloween Party Tuesday, October 28th, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have their Halloween party and a Hobo costume contest on Tuesday, October 28th. Prizes will be given for the best hobo costume. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head to the party location. For more information, email SAGE@OkEq.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Zombie House 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to volunteer. Next planning meeting will be Sunday, October 11th at 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. f I • . , - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ti~ 4~ TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be October 15th. I MY BODY Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Next class on October 12th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. /.J Tulsa Area Prime Timers The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, T 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. 918.592.0088 Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. For information on how to submit your work, visit okeq.org/art-gallery The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Ask me for FREE sample!!! Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon T:(918)361-<1188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.ploxusslim.com/robinlob utti E: robinlabutti@Cox.not Lose weIghl • Get hi • Improve performance • lncrean 1nargy Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Oklahoma Mister Leather 2015 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno October 17th - 19th, 2014 For more information, visit TulsaLeather.com Spirit Day - October 16th Millions go purple on Spirit Day in a stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. Observed annually since 2010, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, and public figures wear purple, which symbolizes 'spirit' on the rainbow flag. Pledge to go purple here --- --- - -- ----- Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 3:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy 2710 E 11th Street Tulsa, OK 74104 Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th 2014 - 9:00 am to 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy Free Admission for All - Educators, Parents, & Secondary Students Students, parent and educators will learn about: • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. For more information or to register, visit preventbullyingtulsa.org 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline is November 15th, 2014 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2014, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 8th - Lord Byron October 9th - Michael Callen October 10th - Tseng Kwong Chi October 11th - Margaret Cho October 12th - Jean Cocteau October 13th - Orlando Cruz October 14th - Lee Daniels testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org OUT OK RETURNS Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Transformative. Engrossing. And totally Entertaining... There's an exciting and diverse world waiting to be explored during the latest edition of OUT OK, 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... the Oklahoma GLBT International Film Festival. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality . Upcoming Screenings at Circle Cinema ~ -·•,oc1~,.,.,u1S."'9• Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave "PRIDE" opens at Circle Cinema on Friday, October 17th. PRIDE is inspired by an extraordinary true story. It's the summer of 1984, Margaret Thatcher is in power and the National Union of Mineworkers is on strike, prompting a Londonbased group of gay and lesbian activists to raise money to support the strikers' families. Initially rebuffed by the Union, the group identifies a tiny mining village in Wales and sets off to make their donation in person. As the strike drags on, the two groups discover that standing together makes for the strongest union of all. For more information about PRIDE, visit www.cbsfilms.com/pride Miss Brookside 2015 Pageant Saturday, October 18th, 2014; 6:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave The Miss Brookside Scholarship Pageant will select the new Miss Brookside 2015 and Miss Brookside's Outstanding Teen 2015 on October 18th, 2014, at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave. The pageant will be held at 6:30 p.m. and will include Interview, Talent, Evening Wear, On-Stage Question, and Lifestyle and Fitness in Swimsuit. New this year is the Brookside Stars Program. This program allows girls between the ages of 5 and 11 the chance to interact with the Brookside Queens, create a special craft, and appear on stage in a tiara with a Miss contestant. General Admission tickets are $15.00 and will be available at the door, early arrival is recommended. For more information visit www.MissBrooksidePageant.com facebook/MissBrooksidePageant and 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... The Role of Faith in Health Care Decisions: Individuals, Groups and Government Thursday, October 9th, 2014; 7:00 pm The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, in partnership with Phillips INTERFAITH ALLIANCE OF TULSA Theological Seminary and the PROTECTING FAITH AND FREEDOM Women's & Gender Studies Dept at the University of Tulsa, is hosting a community forum on the topic, "The Role of Faith in Health Care Decisions: Individuals, Groups and Government" on Thursday, October 9 at 7:00 pm in the Allen Chapman Student Union at the University of Tulsa. The Women's and Gender Studies Department is hosting a prereception starting at 6:30pm. The forum will consist of a moderated panel discussion by local, regional, and national experts in the field of health care ethics. Our moderator is Dr John Schumann. guest host of "Studio Tulsa" on radio station KWGS. Panelists include Marguerite Chapman (Professor Emeritus, TU School of Law), Ryan Kiesel (ED of ACLU-OK), Dr Mark Fox (Assoc Dean, Community Health & Research Development, OU School of Community Medicine), and Monica Harrington (board member, Center for Reproductive Rights). For more information, or to submit questions to be considered by the panel, visit our Facebook event here or email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to . provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. - For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Melting Point' by Pat Califia You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A stunning collection of lesbian tales from the most widely known and successful author in the field of lesbian and S/M erotica. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... r-----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:30 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ab6c5951ab2b3e8e69b5ec2218abf134.pdf b6e2278300672625aaad176fb81b6457 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... eNews July 15th, 2014 In This Issue Be Our Voice, Give a Day EBA Sponsor Equality Business Alliance Gamily Ice Cream Social Welcome to the eNews. OkEq will host Mara Keisling from the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their 17th anniversary, George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring the Equality Center and OkEq programming for the week. Thank You and Happy Anniversary, George and Rusty! Mara Keisling GET F.I.T. Oklahoma Leather History Board of Directors National Gay Blood Drive New Counseling Services Grateful Day Foundation Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Friend for a Friend Dinner First Thursday Art Show BARE: A Pop Opera Back to School Carnival DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma LGBTI Youth Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Find Us on Facebook OkEq Art Exhibit 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Susan Foust. ________ The door prize winner for July was Dale W. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The July Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 16th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by the Tulsa Shock, the meeting will take place at the BOK Center, 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa OK 74103. Enter the building from the entrance on 3rd and Denver and gather in the grand lobby. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave Tulsa, OK 74103 2nd Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 20th, 2014; 1:00 - 3:00 pm It's that time again! Gamily's 2nd Annual Ice Cream Social! Come have fun and eat free ICE CREAM. This is an opportunity to meet other families and make new friends. Join us on Sunday, July 20th, 2014 from 1:00 to 3:00 pm. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page or email Gamily@OkEq.org Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... 918-594-8586 Counseling Services Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Mara Keisling is the founding Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast media. GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Ribbon Cutting ceremony and unveiling of The Oklahoma Leather History Archives Display Monday, July 21st, 2014; 7:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality will have an unveiling ceremony for a new revolving history exhibit on permanent display at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The purpose of the exhibit is to educate and inform the public about the vibrant leather community in Oklahoma. Tulsa Mr. Leather 2014 Richard Ziese spearheaded the project to raise funds and collect archives and memorabilia preserving Oklahoma's leather history. Richard Ziese said "It has been an honor to do this for our people to remember those in the kink, fetish and leather community who touched so many with their lives and their heroic efforts for full acceptance. Many of them are no longer with us but with this display we will celebrate their lives". The display will be unveiled on Monday, July 21st at 7:00 pm. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) OkEq Board 2013-2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 24th) OR Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term National Gay Blood Drive The National Gay Blood Drive was on July 11th, 2014. 55 individuals came by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to donate and 39 units of blood were collected.This was a nationwide effort to bring attention to the FDA's ban against Gay & Bisexual men donating blood & increase pressure on them to change it. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Oklahomans for Equality and the Oklahoma Blood Institute would like to thank everyone who participated in bringing awareness to the ban against Gay and Bisexual Male donors. Even if you were not able to participate, you 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... can sign the White House petition to end the ban here. Get F.I.T. New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSUTulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. Contact 918-594-8586 to schedule an appointment with Chelsey. Grateful Day Pool Party Fundraiser Saturday, July 19th, 2014; 3:00 - 7:00 pm 3811 E 67th St, Tulsa, OK 74136 Join The Grateful Day Foundation on Saturday July 19th for a Pool Party Cookout Fundraiser. The Grateful Day Foundation is raising funds to support our annual Summer Retreat for people living with HIV/AIDS. Hamburgers, Hot Dogs, Beer, and Swimming will be available at the home of Grateful Day Foundation Treasurer Paul Dorman. Please RSVP on Facebook so we will know how many meals to plan. Donations for meals are appreciated and will be accepted at the door... Please make Checks payable to OKEQ with Grateful Day in the Memo line...Credit Card and cash donations also accepted. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... Yoga A - Z *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Lambda Al-Anon Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Beginning in August. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, July 22nd, 10:00 am sage~ SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will and Advocacy not be served on this day. Please bring your favorite dish forServices Gay, lesbian, Bisexual for lunch. SAGE Tulsa will be celebrating the birthday of & Tramgender Elders Pool Party host, Roger Morris The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org A Friend for a Friend Fundraiser Dinner Saturday, July 26th, 2014; 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Friend for a Friend will have a fundraiser dinner on Saturday, July 26th, 2014. On the menu will be, smoked chicken, ribs, baked beans and cole slaw/potato salad. 100% of the admission price will go towards A Friend for a Friend. Admission is a suggested donation of $10.00 "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918.747.6827 or 918.361.8839 August First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, August 7th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood, in a combination show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, August 7th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday BARE: A Pop Opera July 18th - 20th Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 In partnership with SummerStage and the Tulsa Fringe Festival, a new theatre company, consisting of entirely students, Fruugensteinery Productions, will be producing the contemporary Off-Broadway musical, BARE: A Pop Opera. Set in a Catholic Boarding school, BARE centers around a group of seniors in their last semester of high school and their struggles to navigate adolescence. BARE follows two roommates, Peter & Jason, in their attempt to keep their relationship a secret from their friends, family, and church leaders. Directed by Liz Hunt and dedicated to her brother, Mikal, a large portion of ticket sales will be donated to the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... Performance Dates: Friday, July 18 at 8pm Saturday, July 19 at 2pm (a talk-back with the cast immediately after!) Saturday, July 19 at 8pm Sunday, July 20 at 2pm BARE will be performed in the Liddy Doenges Theatre at the Tulsa PAC. Like Fruug's Facebook page at www.facebook.com/fruugtulsa to see how LGBT couples can enter our photo contest to win 2 FREE TICKETS to the show! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Fruugensteinery Productions believes that BARE: A Pop Opera contains a message that Tulsa desperately needs to hear. Whether you struggles with their identity, self worth, body image, spirituality, or sexuality, there is a character in BARE you'll be able to relate to. We want our production to inform and challenge Tulsans, not just entertain them. Buy your tickets online at myticketoffice.com or by calling the PAC box office at (918) 596-7111 2nd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Sunday, August 10th, 2014; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Because of the great success and turn out from the families last year, Gamily will present the 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, characters, activities, and prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/ guardians' names and students' names, ages & grades by Sunday July 27th. And the kiddos don't have to be yours, they can nieces, nephews, cousins, godkids, neighbors. But if you don't presently have any kiddos to bring, please come help out and volunteer. For more info or to RSVP, email Gamily@OkEq.org. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Spirits of Christmas Past A Christmas in July Event for the Diversity Christian Fellowship Food Bank 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... July 26, 2014 @ Tulsa Eagle (21+ and over, No Cover) Cookout @ 7:00 pm (Donations accepted) Show @ 10:30 pm (Tipping accepted) Silent Auction, Jello Shots and 50/50 Raffle all night. Sponsored by the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, Green Country Bears, The Tulsa Sisters and T.U.L.S.A. Please RSVP on the Facebook "Christmas in July" invite page -https:// www.facebook.com/events/1504567406424604/ LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Broken Fever: Reflections of Gay Boyhood' by James Morrison You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center What are the roots of personal identity? In this collection of essays, James Morrison searches for answers within the experiences and emotional reality of his own childhood in an attempt to pinpoint the beginnings of his own gay self-identity. BROKEN F' EVER REFLECT I ONS 0 F GA y BOYHOOD "Although from the vantage point of my present self, I do not remember a time in my life when I was not 'gay,' I know that the arrival at any avowed identity is always a complex process of 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... affirmation and negation, refusal and identification." It is this process, and specifically the ways gay identity circulates before it is even spoken, that Morrison seeks to distill in specific experiences. From the beginnings of questioning his religion to exploring his first boyhood attraction, Morrison's experiences are chronicled honestly and compellingly. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ol nt TU r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:11 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1bb95cbe527f9083dc03ae3adefdb387.pdf 6635097ad00c39e432fed621b27e0951 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... eNews July 23rd, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Mara Keisling Friend for a Friend Dinner George Kaiser Grant Welcome to the eNews. OkEq will host Mara Keisling from the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Board of Directors Obama Executive Order 10th Circuit Ruling 100 Years of Women with Moxie GET F.I.T. New Counseling Services First Thursday Art Show Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Back to School Carnival SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Equality Business Alliance DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma LGBTI Youth Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Find Us on Facebook Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Mara Keisling is the founding Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... media. the work of Susan Foust. ________ A Friend for a Friend Fundraiser Dinner The door prize winner for July was Dale W. Saturday, July 26th, 2014; 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Friend for a Friend will have a fundraiser dinner on Saturday, July 26th, 2014. On the menu will be, smoked chicken, ribs, baked beans and cole slaw/potato salad. 100% of the admission price will go towards A Friend for a Friend. Admission is a suggested donation of $10.00 "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918.747.6827 or 918.361.8839 George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Findoutmore with for Equality - about - -membership ----Oklahomans ---- - -and learn how to make your donation today. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Counseling Services OkEq Board 2013-2014 Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 24th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org President Obama signs anti-discrimination order protecting LGBT federal employees Oklahomans for Equality applauds President Barack Obama this week as he signs long-awaited executive order banning LGBT discrimination in federal contracting and protecting federal employees from discrimination based on gender identity. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Please thank President Obama personally by writing him at: The White House 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue NW Washington, DC 20500 PHONE NUMBERS Comments: 202-456-1111 scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Deaf or Hard of Hearing Comments: 202-456-6213 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... Or submit your comments online here 10th Circuit Court of Appeals Opinion On Friday, July 18th, the 10th Circuit Court of Appeals published the opinion affirming the unconstitutionality of Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriages. The plaintiffs and their legal team were in Denver for the oral arguments at the 10th Circuit Court after U.S. District Court Judge, Terence Kern ruled the Oklahoma ban as unconstitutional. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well (Back Row L - R) Attorneys James E. Warner III, Don G. Holladay and Joseph Thai (Front Row L - R) Plaintiffs Sue Barton & Gay Phillips and Sharon Baldwin & Mary Bishop Don Holladay and James Warner III, attorneys with Holladay Chilton, have worked pro bono during the 10 year history of the case. Please be sure to visit their website at www.holladaychilton.com and leave a message of gratitude. Plaintiffs for the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit run a Facebook page to keep the community up to date on the progress of the case. Be sure to visit them here and thank them for their courage to stand up for our equal rights. And help them in this cause by donating to the Marriage Equality Legal Fund and help defer the cost of this long-running lawsuit. Donations may be made on their Facebook page, the OkEq website or by mail to: 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Oklahomans for Equality PO Box 2687 Tulsa, OK 74101 Please mark you donation with "Marriage Equality Legal Fund" YWCA celebrates 100 Years of Women with Moxie Reception is on Monday, December 2nd, 2014 The YWCA has released their list celebrating "100 Years of Women with Moxie". YWCA notes that the women on the list exemplify the mission 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... of the YWCA and share the YWCA's core values. They must have had a connection to Tulsa through residence, work, or volunteerism. Oklahomans for Equality is proud to recognize several women who have worked with our organization through the years, including, but not limited to: Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, Risha Grant, Nancy McDonald, Dr. Dannette McIntosh, Mona Pittenger and Lynn Schusterman To see the complete list and for more information on the 100 Years of Women with Moxie reception, visit www.100womenoftulsa.org GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSUTulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. Contact 918-594-8586 to schedule an appointment with Chelsey. August First Thursday Art Reception Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Thursday, August 7th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood, in a combination show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, August 7th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... Get F.I.T. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Beginning in August. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. 2nd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival Gender Outreach Sunday, August 10th, 2014; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Because of the great success and turn out from the families last year, Gamily will present the 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, characters, activities, and prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/ guardians' names and students' names, ages & grades by Sunday July 27th. And the kiddos don't have to be yours, they can nieces, nephews, cousins, godkids, neighbors. But if you don't presently have any kiddos to bring, please come help out and volunteer. For more info or to RSVP, email Gamily@OkEq.org. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper Yoga A - Z SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will be potluck. Please bring your favorite dish for lunch. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 20th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Ballroom Blitz, 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave, Tulsa, OK 74145. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Ballroom Blitz 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm H~()J?JE,. C' '1 t.Cr. - t.i .... : f ' Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... visit hopetesting.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Spirits of Christmas Past A Christmas in July Event for the Diversity Christian Fellowship Food Bank Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm July 26, 2014 @ Tulsa Eagle (21+ and over, No Cover) Cookout @ 7:00 pm (Donations accepted) Show @ 10:30 pm (Tipping accepted) Silent Auction, Jello Shots and 50/50 Raffle all night. Sponsored by the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, Green Country Bears, The Tulsa Sisters and T.U.L.S.A. Please RSVP on the Facebook "Christmas in July" invite page -https:// www.facebook.com/events/1504567406424604/ LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Fair Catch' by Del Darcy You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center When Blake Thompson meets Alex Ayers, his 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... rival on the football field, the attraction is instant. For one tumultuous high school season, their teams clash as they fall in love. Playing for the Mustangs, Blake works to carve out a place for himself in the always-frustrating role of backup quarterback. He tries to put out of his mind how unlikely it is that someone like him -- a little too short, from a backwater town -could make it in college football. Alex is now with the rival Patriots, poised to add to his string of records in placekicking. His family has bounced from town to town across the Midwest, spending barely a year in any one place because of his dad's construction jobs. The college scouts are starting to notice Alex, and a bright future in football beckons. Blake is able to put aside his feeling that he's just trailing in Alex's wake, overshadowed by Alex's star quality, until Alex gets a scholarship to a prestigious Texas school. Will jealousy destroy Blake's regard for his boyfriend? Can Alex learn to settle down and trust someone, despite his vagabond life? If he leaves, what becomes of their love affair? Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ol nt TU r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------~ I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:13 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/728f228a73b9cae9afe68a15be5bca5e.pdf c769bfdced60d529377916d91b92961f PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... eNews July 30th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor George Kaiser Grant First Thursday Art Show Back to School Carnival Welcome to the eNews. GAMILY will present their 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th at 1:00 pm. RSVP to Gamily@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Board of Directors Equality Business Alliance Mosaic Diversity and Inclusion Survey Obama Executive Order 10th Circuit Ruling White House Briefing on ACA GET F.I.T. New Counseling Services Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group SAGE Tulsa Pool Party DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Rise Up Singing 100 Years of Women with Moxie LGBTI Youth Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Find Us on Facebook GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Findoutmore with Oklahomans for Equality and - about - -membership -------- learn how to make your donation today. August First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, August 7th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood, in a combination show, beginning with a OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... reception on Thursday, August 7th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. August 21st, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit 2nd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 10th, 2014; 1:00 - 5:00 pm The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood. ________ Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Because of the great success and turn out from the families last year, Gamily will present the 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, characters, activities, and prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/ guardians' names and students' names, ages & grades by Thursdayday August 7th. Bring your nieces, nephews, cousins, godkids, neighbors. You are encouraged to come help out and volunteer. For more info or to RSVP, email Gamily@OkEq.org. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: -Folders-Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Counseling Services OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee OR Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is reviewing applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Eight directors will be elected. Please contact Clint.Robison@OkEq.org to submit a 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... completed petition nominating someone for the Board of Directors. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Counseling Services Equality Business Alliance Saturdays By appointment Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 20th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Ballroom Blitz, 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave, Tulsa, OK 74145. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --SOS Group Ballroom Blitz 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 Mosaic Diversity Business Survey Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. . Last year, Mosaic launched a survey to identify businesses that have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. rrax:c Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org powered by the tulsa regional chamber Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey President Obama signs anti-discrimination order protecting LGBT federal employees Oklahomans for Equality applauds President Barack Obama this week as he signs long-awaited executive order banning LGBT discrimination in federal contracting and protecting federal employees from discrimination based on gender identity. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Please thank President Obama personally by writing him at: The White House 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue NW Washington, DC 20500 PHONE NUMBERS Comments: 202-456-1111 Deaf or Hard of Hearing Comments: 202-456-6213 Or submit your comments online here 10th Circuit Court of Appeals Opinion On Friday, July 18th, the 10th Circuit Court of Appeals published the opinion affirming the unconstitutionality of Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriages. The plaintiffs and their legal team were in Denver for the oral arguments at the 10th Circuit Court after U.S. District Court Judge, Terence Kern ruled the Oklahoma ban as unconstitutional. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders (Back Row L - R) Attorneys James E. Warner III, Don G. Holladay and Joseph Thai (Front Row L - R) Plaintiffs Sue Barton & Gay Phillips and Sharon Baldwin & Mary Bishop Don Holladay and James Warner III, attorneys with Holladay Chilton, have Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... worked pro bono during the 10 year history of the case. Please be sure to visit their website at www.holladaychilton.com and leave a message of gratitude. Plaintiffs for the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit run a Facebook page to keep the community up to date on the progress of the case. Be sure to visit them here and thank them for their courage to stand up for our equal rights. And help them in this cause by donating to the Marriage Equality Legal Fund and help defer the cost of this long-running lawsuit. Donations may be made on their Facebook page, the OkEq website or by mail to: Oklahomans for Equality PO Box 2687 Tulsa, OK 74101 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Please mark you donation with "Marriage Equality Legal Fund" White House Briefing on the ACA Get F.I.T. OkEq Executive Director Toby Jenkins was on a panel at the White House Briefing on the Affordable Care Act and the LGBT Community on July 24th, 2014. Toby presented on best practices for outreach and enrollment accompanied by Paul Allen OkEq board Trustee. Terry Stone executive director for Centerlink the international network of LGBT community centers praised the work of the Equality Center and was thrilled that Tulsa represented the network. The Whitehouse Office of Public Engagement worked with Oklahomans for Equality and held a town hall meeting on the ACA in March 2014 at the Equality Center. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSUTulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. Contact 918-594-8586 to schedule an appointment with Chelsey. Yoga A - Z *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Beginning in August. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014; 10:00 am Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will be potluck. Please bring your favorite dish for lunch. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm C' \ ' ~OJ5)~E,. I r. ;:, '("'+ L • .... : i ' The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Concert 7:45 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Rise Up Singing Sunday, August 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival scheduled for the evening of Sunday, August 24, at 7:00 pm. This year's concert honors the memory of Pete Seeger, first among equals, whose music continues to call out a message of justice and freedom. Admission is free and open to the public. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm.. city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in singable arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. For more information call 918.583.7121 or visit www.tulsagogue.com YWCA celebrates 100 Years of Women with Moxie Reception is on Monday, December 2nd, 2014 The YWCA has released their list celebrating "100 Years of Women with Moxie". YWCA notes that the women on the list exemplify the mission of the YWCA and share the YWCA's core values. They must have had a connection to Tulsa through residence, work, or volunteerism. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Oklahomans for Equality is proud to recognize several women who have worked with our organization through the years, including, but not limited to: Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, Risha Grant, Nancy McDonald, Dr. Dannette McIntosh, Mona Pittenger and Lynn Schusterman To see the complete list and for more information on the 100 Years of Women with Moxie reception, visit www.100womenoftulsa.org Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org ------ _ ,d . . I ~ 'f .... _ • • • , , .... 4 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ~ ~ • ·~ J ♦ ----- \ -- i Equality Center Pride Store 10 of 12 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'And Tango Makes Three' by Justin Richardson & Peter Parnell You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This tale based on a true story about a charming penguin family living in New York City's Central Park Zoo will capture the hearts of penguin lovers everywhere. Roy and Silo, two male penguins, are "a little bit different." They cuddle and share a nest like the other penguin couples, and when all the others start hatching eggs, they want to be parents, too. Determined and hopeful, they bring an egg-shaped rock back to their nest and proceed to start caring for it. They have little luck, until a watchful zookeeper decides they deserve a chance at having their own family and gives them an egg in need of nurturing. The dedicated and enthusiastic fathers do a great job of hatching their funny and adorable daughter, and the three can still be seen at the zoo today. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------~ I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:14 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d59dfe8706f7ae0353dd23ea0f6eded8.pdf cb5a0c8046c415c9f43d8bd83194a846 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... eNews August 6th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor George Kaiser Grant First Thursday Art Show Back to School Carnival Welcome to the eNews. GAMILY will present their 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th at 1:00 pm. RSVP to Gamily@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Board of Directors Equality Business Alliance Mosaic Diversity and Inclusion Survey Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Transforming Hate DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rise Up Singing Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit 100 Years of Women with Moxie LGBTI Youth Survey OSU Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Find Us on Facebook GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Findoutmore with Oklahomans for Equality and - about - -membership -------- learn how to make your donation today. August First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, August 7th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood, in a combination show, beginning with a OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 21st, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... reception on Thursday, August 7th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit 2nd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood. ________ Sunday, August 10th, 2014; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Because of the great success and turn out from the families last year, Gamily will present the 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, characters, activities, and prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/ guardians' names and students' names, ages & grades by Thursday August 7th. Bring your nieces, nephews, cousins, godkids, neighbors. You are encouraged to come help out and volunteer. For more info or to RSVP, email Gamily@OkEq.org. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: -Folders-Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers Counseling Services 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is reviewing applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Eight directors will be elected. Please contact Clint.Robison@OkEq.org to submit a Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... completed petition nominating someone for the Board of Directors. No nominations will be accepted from the floor during the annual board meeting. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g EQJBusmess UALITY Alliance The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 20th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Ballroom Blitz, 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave, Tulsa, OK 74145. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Ballroom Blitz 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --- SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well Mosaic Diversity Business Survey Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. Last year, Mosaic launched a survey to identify businesses that have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold ■ rn::EcC po""ered by the tulsa regional chamber Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com SAGE Tulsa SAGE Tulsa Pool Party (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will be potluck. Please bring your favorite dish for lunch. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual N Tramgendcr Elders Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexu,11 & Transgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Transforming Hate: A Creative Process 918.592.0088 Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. Please think of this as your opportunity to transform hate through your own creative process. The gallery is WIDE open! Some guidelines for submission: 1) All media will be considered 2) Work must in some way illuminate the theme of transforming hate 3) You may submit up to 3 works, online submissions ONLY 4) there is no entry fee to submit work 5) all work for sale will be subject to the usual 30% gallery commission to OkEq 6) older work will be considered IF it fulfills the theme 7)) Deadline for Submissions : October 15, midnight Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance HOW to submit work: Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Send up to 3 jpgs of your work to alliejensen@cox.net. Include size, title, medium and price. Performance artists should send a written proposal Notification will be November 1st, Delivery details at that time. Gender Outreach DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:45 pm Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... 7:00 pm Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:45 pm Concert 8:00 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Starting August 19th; Tuesdays at 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale 2014 Holiday Concert will start on Tuesday August 19th and each Tuesday night after from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. The concert will feature holiday music both traditional and popular along with solos from chorale members. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals council oak oounc/1 oak mens c11o1o1e New singers are welcome to attend rehearsals and audition to become a part of the chorale! COMC is excited to announce that Kent Dennis has been named Interim Artistic Director and will lead the chorale for this fall/winter season. Kent is an accomplished director and has an extensive background in both vocal and instrumental music. Kent has also been a member of COMC for two years. COMC is looking forward to Kent lending his artistic abilities and leadership to the chorale. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Rise Up Singing Sunday, August 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival scheduled for the evening of Sunday, August 24, at 7:00 pm. This year's concert honors the memory of Pete Seeger, first among equals, whose music continues to call out a message of justice and freedom. Admission is free and open to the public. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in singable arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. For more information call 918.583.7121 or visit www.tulsagogue.com Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd Open Everyday •••• rulsacare~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. Exhibit runs September 15 - October 3, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... As part of the exhibit, Tulsa CATES and the Center for Creativity will also present the following events. All free and open to the public and held at TCC's Center for Creativity. "HIV in the 21st Century" September 18 @ 12:00 pm - 1:00 pm Lunch and Learn With advances in HIV prevention and treatment, what does "safe sex" mean today? Learn about HIV prevention and H.O.P.E.'s free HIV testing and counseling services over a free brown bag lunch provided by TCC's Student Activities Office. Tulsa CARES Session #1 September 23 @ 6:00 pm - 7:30 pm The Impact of HIV on Individuals This is the first of a two part series. View the PhotoVoice exhibition and watch a short documentary produced by the Center for Creativity about how HIV has affected the life of a Tulsa CARES client. Participate in a discussion and Q&A with a Tulsa CARES client, a social worker who is also living with HIV, and a Tulsa CARES care coordinator. "Art as a Community Service" September 25 @ 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm with Samantha Franklin Learn about the PhotoVoice method of participatory photography that can be used by community organizers to empower marginalized or disadvantaged groups. Samantha Franklin, the artist and Tulsa CARES staff member who organized the exhibit on display in the Center for Creativity, discusses the PhotoVoice concept and how it can be applied to a variety of projects. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tulsa CARES Session #2 October 1 @ 1:30 pm - 3:00 pm Impact and Empowerment This is the second of a two part series. This session focuses on the PhotoVoice project and how it impacted and empowered Tulsa CARES clients. View the PhotoVoice exhibition and participate in a discussion and Q&A session with a Tulsa CARES client and care coordinator. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org YWCA celebrates 100 Years of Women with Moxie Reception is on Monday, December 2nd, 2014 The YWCA has released their list celebrating "100 Years of Women with Moxie". YWCA notes that the women on the list exemplify the mission of the YWCA and share the YWCA's core values. They must have had a connection to Tulsa through residence, work, or volunteerism. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Oklahomans for Equality is proud to recognize several women who have worked with our 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... organization through the years, including, but not limited to: Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, Risha Grant, Nancy McDonald, Dr. Dannette McIntosh, Mona Pittenger and Lynn Schusterman To see the complete list and for more information on the 100 Years of Women with Moxie reception, visit www.100womenoftulsa.org LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ~ LGB Well-being and Parental Relationships Survey An OSU research study survey is currently being conducted on the influence parental relationships have on LGB individual well-being. You may participate if you are at least 18 years of age and identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual and reside in the United States. The survey takes, on average, 20 minutes. Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store is having a Bearstravaganza sale now through August 11th. Select Bear items are priced at $5.00! 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'After the Dawn' by Stephanie Motes You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For Lieutenant Samantha 'Sammy' Yates, leaving the Marines wasn't an option she ever wanted. Forced out of the service because of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, she tries to move on with her life-- putting up a good facade to those who don't know her very well. Alone, however; she is plagued with battle scars she can't shake even two years after her tour. When successful psychiatrist, Sara Lawson, decided to move back to the only place she ever felt safe, the last thing she had on her mind was falling in love. Deciding to renovate the home she inherited from her grandmother, she crosses paths with Sammy, who is now working as a contractor. Sara spots something kindred in the woman's hardened, but kind blue eyes. Each hiding their own secrets in the small Florida town, they both realize that the walls they had spent years perfecting have started to crack around one another. As they slowly build a friendship, can they keep each other safe from the danger that is speeding towards them? 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library •••~ .. Volunt er ru SA A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fb97dc65389def20eb37f6012330a47f.pdf 791c9aee6067d461096e6bba946d3d72 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... eNews August 15th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor George Kaiser Grant Equality Business Alliance Board of Directors Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will Thursday, September 25th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Gender Bender Comedy Show Transforming Hate Gay Softball World Series The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim EBA Sponsor Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Ask me for FREE sample!!! Council Oak Mens Chorale Flapjack Fundraiser ·rim Parish Church of St. Jerome DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. T: (918)361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs, weight loss , pain, GI iss ues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robi n la butti E: robin labutti@Cox.net Lose weight • Gtt lit • Improve performanc1 • lncr11s1 tnugy George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Broken Heart Land Rise Up Singing Halloween 2014 LGBTI Youth Survey OSU Survey Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit Pride Store GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Rainbow Library Volunteer Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and - - - - - - - - - - - - - - ------------ - - -learn how to make your donation today. Equality Business Alliance Find Us on Facebook Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 20th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Ballroom Blitz, 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave, Tulsa, OK 74145. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... 1111 nnnM UNLLRUUI Ballroom Blitz 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 21st, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood. ________ OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is reviewing applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Eight directors will be elected. Please contact Clint.Robison@OkEq.org to submit a ---completed petition nominating someone for the Board of Directors. No nominations will be accepted from the floor during the annual board meeting. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term SAGE Tulsa Pool Party 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will be potluck. Please bring your favorite dish for lunch. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sagew Service, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgendc,r EldNs Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Gender Bender Comedy Show Thursday, August 28th, 2014; 9:45 pm Bamboo Lounge 7204 E Pine Gender Bender Comedy Night August 28th at the 8am boo Lounge Some of Tulsa's favorite comedians will be taking the stage as various states of drag in support of transgender and genderqueer rights. 10% of bar profits go to Oklahomans for Equality's Gender Outreach program. No No Cover 9pm Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Featuring performances from some of Tulsa's funniest local comedians. 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... lJ onne Dar protntHat n gilt tHat WIii go towards supporting transgender rights. cover. Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. Please think of this as your opportunity to transform hate through your own creative process. The gallery is WIDE open! Some guidelines for submission: 1) All media will be considered 2) Work must in some way illuminate the theme of transforming hate 3) You may submit up to 3 works, online submissions ONLY 4) there is no entry fee to submit work 5) all work for sale will be subject to the usual 30% gallery commission to OkEq 6) older work will be considered IF it fulfills the theme 7)) Deadline for Submissions : October 15, midnight Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org HOW to submit work: Send up to 3 jpgs of your work to alliejensen@cox.net. Include size, title, medium and price. Performance artists should send a written proposal Notification will be November 1st, Delivery details at that time. Tulsa Metro Softball Teams head to the Gay Softball World Series in Dallas, TX Three Tulsa Metro Softball League will represent at the Gay Softball World Series 2014 in Dallas TX. This is the 4th World Series TMSL has participated in. The teams will travel to Dallas September 21st - 27th. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Representing D Division is the Renegades Tulsa Twisters (in green) and the T-Town Zealers (in red) 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa Representing C Division is the Oklahoma Rampage The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Starting August 19th; Tuesdays at 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale 2014 Holiday Concert will start on Tuesday August 19th and each Tuesday night after from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. council oak Harvard Ave. The concert will feature holiday music both counc/1 oak mens choroll traditional and popular along with solos from chorale members. New singers are welcome to attend rehearsals and audition to become a part of the chorale! COMC is excited to announce that Kent Dennis has been named Interim Artistic Director and will lead the chorale for this fall/winter season. Kent is an accomplished director and has an extensive background in both vocal and instrumental music. Kent has also been a member of COMC for two years. COMC is looking forward to Kent lending his artistic abilities and leadership to the chorale. Applebee's - Tulsa JOLT Flapjack Fundraiser Saturday, August 23rd, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's Flapjack Fundraiser 9409 E 71st St Tulsa Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... Tulsa JOLT When: Saturday, August 23rd, 2014 8:00 - 10:00 am Where: 9409 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK Cost: $8.00 per person, also serving $3.00 Mimosas All proceeds benefit Tulsa JOLT Bowling www.jolttulsa.com Parish Church of St. Jerome installs new Pastor Sunday, August 17th, 2014; 11:00 am Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Bishop Rick Hollingsworth will install The Rev. Dewayne James Messenger as Pastor of The Parish Church of St. Jerome, ECC 205 West King Street Tulsa Oklahoma On Sunday, August 17th, 2014 11:00 clock in the Morning Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:45 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:45 pm Concert 8:00 pm event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. AN Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Rise Up Singing Sunday, August 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival scheduled for the evening of Sunday, August 24, at 7:00 pm. This year's concert honors the memory of Pete Seeger, first among equals, whose music continues to 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... call out a message of justice and freedom. Admission is free and open to the public. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in singable arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org For more information call 918.583.7121 or visit www.tulsagogue.com Halloween 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a spook house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org with your contact info and we will let you know when planning meetings begin in September. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu . ~ p<>',Vef9(tby!/w1vl . . ,99, 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... LGB Well-being and Parental Relationships Survey An OSU research study survey is currently being conducted on the influence parental relationships have on LGB individual well-being. You may participate if you are at least 18 years of age and identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual and reside in the United States. The survey takes, on average, 20 minutes. Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd •••• tulsacar~~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. Exhibit runs September 15 - October 3, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue As part of the exhibit, Tulsa CATES and the Center for Creativity will also present the following events. All free and open to the public and held at TCC's Center for Creativity. "HIV in the 21st Century" September 18 @ 12:00 pm - 1:00 pm Lunch and Learn With advances in HIV prevention and treatment, what does "safe sex" mean today? Learn about HIV prevention and H.O.P.E.'s free HIV testing and counseling services over a free brown bag lunch provided by TCC's Student Activities Office. Tulsa CARES Session #1 September 23 @ 6:00 pm - 7:30 pm The Impact of HIV on Individuals This is the first of a two part series. View the PhotoVoice exhibition and watch a short documentary produced by the Center for Creativity about how HIV has affected the life of a Tulsa CARES client. Participate in a discussion and Q&A with a Tulsa CARES client, a social worker who is also living with HIV, and a Tulsa CARES care coordinator. 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... "Art as a Community Service" September 25 @ 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm with Samantha Franklin Learn about the PhotoVoice method of participatory photography that can be used by community organizers to empower marginalized or disadvantaged groups. Samantha Franklin, the artist and Tulsa CARES staff member who organized the exhibit on display in the Center for Creativity, discusses the PhotoVoice concept and how it can be applied to a variety of projects. Tulsa CARES Session #2 October 1 @ 1:30 pm - 3:00 pm Impact and Empowerment This is the second of a two part series. This session focuses on the PhotoVoice project and how it impacted and empowered Tulsa CARES clients. View the PhotoVoice exhibition and participate in a discussion and Q&A session with a Tulsa CARES client and care coordinator. Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Leather Folk' by Mark Thompson You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Since its publication a decade ago, this Lambda Literary Award-nominated book has become a classic must-read on the shelf of books ' , . , ..., t"' f :- ... ~ ...... 1.... • I 1_1 . . f\ 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... adressing human sexuality and identity. Widely cited as among the most useful books of its kind, Leatherfolk is both historical witness and provocative treatise regarding a distinct subculture that has withstood decades of political harassment and other challenges to its health. Spanning the decades from the 1940s onward, this collection of vibrant writing documents the many eras and shifts of attitude that have informed the gay and lesbian leather underground and its influence on the society beyond. A new preface by editor Mark Thompson, and a new annotated bibliography provide an up-to-date look at this community and provide valuable resources for researchers and interested parties. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:19 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9a6680248ffb7c15a760ad9e559fa52e.pdf 69b321d5d9728233afad6bb458f65e87 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... eNews August 21st, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor George Kaiser Grant Board of Directors SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will be Thursday, September 25th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Gender Bender Comedy Show Transforming Hate Gay Softball World Series Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Council Oak Mens Chorale Flapjack Fundraiser Fair Housing Survey -DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Broken Heart Land Tulsa Unites Against Bullying Rise Up Singing Enid Pride 2014 TahlEQUALITY Halloween 2014 LGBTI Youth Survey OSU Survey Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Findoutmore with Oklahomans for Equality and - about - -membership -------- learn how to make your donation today. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 21st, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 OkEq Art Exhibit The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee OR The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood. ________ 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is reviewing applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Eight directors will be elected. Please contact Clint.Robison@OkEq.org to submit a completed petition nominating someone for the Board of Directors. No nominations will be accepted from the floor during the annual board meeting. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will be potluck. Please bring your favorite dish for lunch. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage~ Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org ServJCes and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgendcr Elders 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... Counseling Services The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Gender Bender Comedy Show Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Thursday, August 28th, 2014; 9:45 pm Bamboo Lounge 7204 E Pine Gender Bender Comedy Night August 28th at the Bamboo Lounge Some of Tulsa's favorite comedians will be taking the stage as various states of drag in support of transgender and genderqueer rights. No Cover 9pm Counseling Services 10% of bar profits go to Featuring performances from some Oklahomans for Equality's of Tulsa's funniest local comedians. Gender Outreach program. No cover. 10% of the bar profit that night that will go towards supporting transgender rights. Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. Please think of this as your opportunity to transform hate through your own creative process. The gallery is WIDE open! Some guidelines for submission: 1) All media will be considered 2) Work must in some way illuminate the theme of transforming hate 3) You may submit up to 3 works, online submissions ONLY 4) there is no entry fee to submit work 5) all work for sale will be subject to the usual 30% gallery commission to OkEq 6) older work will be considered IF it fulfills the theme 7)) Deadline for Submissions : October 15, midnight HOW to submit work: Send up to 3 jpgs of your work to alliejensen@cox.net. Include size, title, medium and price. Performance artists should send a written proposal Notification will be November 1st, Delivery details at that time. Tulsa athlete wins at the Gay Games Tulsan, Youssef Mhemedi, helped organize the gay games in Ohio and won medals representing Tulsa. He won Bronze in men's division A table tennis and Gold in men's doubles table tennis division A. The Bronze men's table tennis was a team event. He was eliminated in 2nd round of men's open tennis. He competed as a Tulsa athlete. For more information, visit www.gg9cle.com Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... Yolanda Arnold Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Tuesdays at 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale 2014 Holiday Concert will are each Tuesday night after from 7:00 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. The concert will feature council oak holiday music both traditional and popular along with ccuncil oak mens choroll solos from chorale members. New singers are welcome to attend rehearsals and audition to become a part of the chorale! COMC is excited to announce that Kent Dennis has been named Interim Artistic Director and will lead the chorale for this fall/winter season. Kent is an accomplished director and has an extensive background in both vocal and instrumental music. Kent has also been a member of COMC for two years. COMC is looking forward to Kent lending his artistic abilities and leadership to the chorale. Applebee's - Tulsa JOLT Flapjack Fundraiser Saturday, August 23rd, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's Flapjack Fundraiser 9409 E 71st St Tulsa SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Appiebees Tulsa JOLT When: Saturday, August 23rd, 2014 8:00 - 10:00 am Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... Where: 9409 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK Cost: $8.00 per person, also serving $3.00 Mimosas All proceeds benefit Tulsa JOLT Bowling www.jolttulsa.com Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:45 pm Get F.I.T. Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:45 pm Concert 8:00 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Lambda Al-Anon AN Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Tulsa Unites Against Bullying Sunday, August 24th, 2014; 3:00 - 6:00 pm The Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice (OCCJ) is proud to announce, in partnership with the AntiBullying Collaboration of Tulsa, "Tulsa Unites Against Bullying," a back-to-school celebration of community members dedicated to ending bullying. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Bacl<-ID-GOhool celel,ralion br cornrn,.-y menmers-111 3-6 fl·• · • S IMUUUf. ?f119. 24. 20ltl • 'f'. guthrie f green : " The concert is a back-to-school celebration for the community that advocates for anti-bullying efforts in the Tulsa community. This event also celebrates the tireless work on behalf of legislators and advocates to pass HB 1661, the School Bullying Prevention Act. This bill adds training for school employees and protection for ALL students in Oklahoma. This free community event will take place at Guthrie Green, downtown Tulsa's premiere community space. Throughout the day, students, advocates and musicians will be taking the stage to celebrate the new Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... school year, and committing to making Oklahoma schools a safer and more inclusive environment for all. An information fair will allow attendees to visit with various nonprofits about their services and learn how they can become advocates for students and educators in the Tulsa area. Performers include Riverfield Rocks, La Lune, and The Capital Why's. event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Rise Up Singing Sunday, August 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival scheduled for the evening of Sunday, August 24, at 7:00 pm. This year's concert honors the memory of Pete Seeger, first among equals, whose music continues to call out a message of justice and freedom. Admission is free and open to the public. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in singable arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. For more information call 918.583.7121 or visit www.tulsagogue.com EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... V trl rP ~1.~ 1 ·r. Dr__. Contact Us: E-mail: enidpride@yohoo.com Coll: 1-800-878-5298 Like us on Focebook J r - m= E."nidLGBT ~ Coalition Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Government Springs Park 600 E Garriotte, Enid, OK 73702 For more info, visit Facebook, email enidpride@yahoo.com or call 1.800.878.5298 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival Friday, September 26 - Sunday, September 28th Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: September 26 - 28 Sparrow Hawk Camp & TahlEQUALITY will host their first annual Gay Pride River Festival. Our family is proud to be apart of an event that welcomes the diversity of our LGBTQ2 community Contact the Sparrow Hawk Camp office to reserve your camp site. For $35/per person, you can reserve the entire weekend of tent camping & a 6 mile pride float anytime for 8:00 am till noon (last bus out is noon) on Saturday the 27th. This includes live music, karaoke, and a world class theatrical drag show on Saturday evening at 8:00 pm. Please call and reserve your tickets today! Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. $35 @ Camp $37.50 Phone Orders $30 (additional) RV sites- please make reservations. For reservation call: 918.456.8371 Halloween 2014 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a spook house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org with your contact info and we will let you know when planning meetings begin in September. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org LGB Well-being and Parental Relationships Survey An OSU research study survey is currently being conducted on the influence parental relationships have on LGB individual well-being. You may participate if you are at least 18 years of age and identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual and reside in the United States. The survey takes, on average, 20 minutes. Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd •••• tulsacar~~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. Exhibit runs September 15 - October 3, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue As part of the exhibit, Tulsa CATES and the Center for Creativity will also present the following events. All free and open to the public and held at TCC's Center for Creativity. "HIV in the 21st Century" September 18 @ 12:00 pm - 1:00 pm Lunch and Learn With advances in HIV prevention and treatment, what does "safe sex" mean today? Learn about HIV prevention and H.O.P.E.'s free HIV testing and counseling services over a free brown bag lunch provided by TCC's Student Activities Office. Tulsa CARES Session #1 September 23 @ 6:00 pm - 7:30 pm The Impact of HIV on Individuals This is the first of a two part series. View the PhotoVoice exhibition and watch a short documentary produced by the Center for Creativity about how HIV has affected the life of a Tulsa CARES client. Participate in a discussion and Q&A with a Tulsa CARES client, a social worker who is also living with HIV, and a Tulsa CARES care coordinator. "Art as a Community Service" September 25 @ 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm with Samantha Franklin Learn about the PhotoVoice method of participatory photography that can be used by community organizers to empower marginalized or disadvantaged groups. Samantha Franklin, the artist and Tulsa CARES staff member who organized the exhibit on display in the Center for Creativity, discusses the PhotoVoice concept and how it can be applied to a variety of projects. Tulsa CARES Session #2 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... October 1 @ 1:30 pm - 3:00 pm Impact and Empowerment This is the second of a two part series. This session focuses on the PhotoVoice project and how it impacted and empowered Tulsa CARES clients. View the PhotoVoice exhibition and participate in a discussion and Q&A session with a Tulsa CARES client and care coordinator. Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Letter Q: Queer Writers' Letters to their Younger Selves' edited by Sarah Moon & James Lecesne You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Life-saving letters from a glittering wishlist of top authors. If you received a letter from your older self, what do you think it would say? What do you wish it would say? That the boy you were crushing on in History turns out to be gay too, and that you become boyfriends in college? That the bully who is making your life miserable will one day become so insignificant that you won't remember his name until he shows up at your book signing? In this anthology, sixty-three award-winning authors such as Michael Cunningham, Amy Bloom, Jacqueline Woodson, Gregory Maguire, David Levithan, and Armistead Maupin make AMY BLOOM JULUNNEPET!RS ..,.: ~.~,~-~-~~ 6IWiOfl'I IWillRE PAUL JACQUELINE RUDNICK WOODSON NtCUUtllJ .. ,........... 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... imaginative journeys into their pasts, telling their younger selves what they would have liked to know then about their lives as Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, or Transgender people. Through stories, in pictures, with bracing honesty, these are words of love and understanding, reasons to hold on for the better future ahead. They will tell you things about your favorite authors that you never knew before. And they will tell you about yourself. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library • .... • ••• •• • • Volunt r TU A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:19 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e352abae1fc6023220a57e5a9a591b02.pdf 996196abd3c2625597454045e61d3f2d PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... eNews August 28th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Board of Directors SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Transforming Hate Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will be Thursday, September 25th, 2014 with Board election voting ending at the 7:00 pm start time. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Gay Softball World Series TMSL First Thursday Art Show Equality Business Alliance EBA Sponsor Ballroom Pride Series Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Ask me for FREE sample!!! Candlelight Vigil ·rim Hedwig and the Angry Inch T: (918)361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs, weight loss , pain, GI iss ues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robi n la butti Council Oak Mens Chorale E: robin labutti@Cox.net Lose weight • Gtt lit • Improve performanc1 • lncr11s1 tnugy Fair - Housing - - - -Survey --Twists and Turns Broken Heart Land Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Enid Pride 2014 TahlEQUALITY Halloween 2014 OSU Survey Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 Find Us on Facebook The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is reviewing applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Eight directors will be elected. Please contact Clint.Robison@OkEq.org to submit a completed petition nominating someone for the Board of Directors. No nominations will be accepted from the floor during the annual board meeting. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will be potluck. Please bring your favorite dish for lunch. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sagew OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 11th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood. ________ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Counseling Services The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. Please think of this as your opportunity to transform hate through your own creative process. The gallery is WIDE open! Some guidelines for submission: 1) All media will be considered 2) Work must in some way illuminate the theme of transforming hate 3) You may submit up to 3 works, online submissions ONLY 4) there is no entry fee to submit work 5) all work for sale will be subject to the usual 30% gallery commission to OkEq 6) older work will be considered IF it fulfills the theme 7)) Deadline for Submissions : October 15, midnight Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 HOW to submit work: Send up to 3 jpgs of your work to alliejensen@cox.net. Include size, title, medium and price. Performance artists should send a written proposal Notification will be November 1st, Delivery details at that time. Tulsa Metro Softball Teams head to the Gay Softball World Series in Dallas, TX Three Tulsa Metro Softball League will represent at the Gay Softball World Series 2014 in Dallas TX. This is the 4th World Series TMSL has participated in. The teams will travel to Dallas September 21st - 27th. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Representing D Division is the Renegades Tulsa Twisters (in green) and the T-Town Zealers (in red) 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Representing C Division is the Oklahoma Rampage Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball First Thursday Art Show scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Thursday, September 4th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The September Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Steve Tomlin, in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 4th from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Tulsa Plastic Surgery, 6585 S. Yale, Suite 315, Tulsa, OK 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. ~!,, c Surgery Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Plastic Surgery 6585 S Yale, Suite 315 Tulsa, OK 74136 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Ballroom Pride Series - Beginning Cha Cha 4 week class starting on Friday September 12th; 7:00 pm Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Ballroom Blitz 4960D S 83rd E Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 DAI I nnnM UMLLRUUI DI IT7 ULII'- Equality Business Alliance member, Ballroom Blitz will present a progressive 4 week series of classes especially for the LGBT community and allies with a Beginning Cha Cha class. Diana Easter will teach the 4 week series starting on Friday, September 12th at 7:00 pm. The cost for the 4 week series will be $32 and must have 8 students to hold the class. Students must join before or at the first class. For more information, visit www.ballroomblitzok.com or click here to sign up. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Tuesdays at 7:00 pm Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale 2014 Holiday Concert will are each Tuesday night after from 7:00 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. The concert will feature council oak holiday music both traditional and popular along with council oak ll1fJflS cholole solos from chorale members. New singers are welcome to attend rehearsals and audition to become a part of the chorale! COMC is excited to announce that Kent Dennis has been named Interim Artistic Director and will lead the chorale for this fall/winter season. Kent is an accomplished director and has an extensive background in both vocal and instrumental music. Kent has also been a member of ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... COMC for two years. COMC is looking forward to Kent lending his artistic abilities and leadership to the chorale. Community Candlelight Vigil for Justice Sunday, August 31st, 2014; 6:00 pm Several Tulsa area churches have partnered to hold a Candlelight Vigil for Justice in response to the tragic death of Michael Brown in Ferguson, Missouri. Faith leaders will call those gathered into greater awareness of the issues at stake for communities wrestling with questions of systemic injustice that arise after news of yet another deadly shooting of an unarmed black man. The public is encouraged to attend the vigil and come together in solidarity through prayer and reflection for the hope of justice in the midst of difficult conversations. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Where: Metropolitan Baptist Church, 1228 West Apache | Tulsa, OK 74127 When: Sunday, August 31st at 6:00 pm For more information contact: Metropolitan Baptist Church at 918.991.6815 or visit the Facebook Event Page Hedwig and the Angry Inch Friday, Sept 26th at 10:30 pm & Saturday, Sept 27th at 11:55 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Graveyard Shift proudly presents a 35mm print of the 2001 post-punk, neoglam rock musical HEDWIG AND THE ANGRY INCH! Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, HEDWIG tells the story of a transgender rock songstress through award-winning songs composed by Stephen Trask. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Purchase tickets here. Don't miss this rare opportunity to see it in 35mm! Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Twists and Turns Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Opening reception on Friday, September 5th, 2014; 6:00 pm 108 Contemporary 108 E M.B. Brady St Tulsa, OK 74103 Twists and Turns, features works by two Israeli artists whose passion for nature and the beauty of their homeland comes through in their diverse collection of tapestries and ceramics. Twists and Turns will be on display September 5th - October 26th and is open for free to the public. The opening reception will be on the evening of Friday, September 5th, from 6:00 - 9:00 pm. The following day, September 6th, one of the artists, Zemer Peled, will present a behind-the-scenes discussion of the inspiration for her work. event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet TWISTS AND TURNS SEPTEMBER 5 - OCTOBER 26, 2014 ---------------- IS RA EU ARTISTS ALEKSANORA ~AN(Jol & ZEMER P61.ED' Opening Reception: Fnday, September 5, 2014 I ~9 PM Artist Talk : September 6, 2014 I 11-1 PM Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... V trl rP ~1.~ 1 ·r. Dr__. Contact Us: E-mail: enidpride@yohoo.com Coll: 1-800-878-5298 Like us on Focebook J r - m= E."nidLGBT ~ Coalition Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Government Springs Park 600 E Garriotte, Enid, OK 73702 For more info, visit Facebook, email enidpride@yahoo.com enidlgbtcoalition.org or call 1.800.878.5298 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Friday, September 26 - Sunday, September 28th Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: September 26 - 28 Sparrow Hawk Camp & TahlEQUALITY will host their first annual Gay Pride River Festival. Our family is proud to be apart of an event that welcomes the diversity of our LGBTQ2 community Contact the Sparrow Hawk Camp office to reserve your camp site. For $35/per person, you can reserve the entire weekend of tent camping & a 6 mile pride float anytime for 8:00 am till noon (last bus out is noon) on Saturday the 27th. This includes live music, karaoke, and a world class theatrical drag show on Saturday evening at 8:00 pm. Please call and reserve your tickets today! Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. $35 @ Camp $37.50 Phone Orders $30 (additional) RV sites- please make reservations. For reservation call: 918.456.8371 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Halloween 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org with your contact info and we will let you know when planning meetings begin in September. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org LGB Well-being and Parental Relationships Survey An OSU research study survey is currently being conducted on the influence parental relationships have on LGB individual well-being. You may participate if you are at least 18 years of age and identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual and reside in the United States. The survey takes, on average, 20 minutes. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd tulsacar:~ ~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. Exhibit runs September 15th - October 3rd, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue For more information, visit www.tulsacc.edu/centerforcreativity 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Long Road to Freedom: The Advocate History of the Gay and Lesbian Movement' edited by Mark Thompson You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center News stories, essays, cartoons, interviews, and more than one thousand photographs, all culled from the pages of the leading homosexual publication, chronicle the gay rights movement over the past twenty-five years. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------~ I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:20 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9f98a5b2e3fcccd7fd56293a46324854.pdf 43ff30e9d075615349899db144de209e PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... eNews September 3rd, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Board of Directors First Thursday Art Show Transforming Hate Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will be Thursday, September 25th, 2014 with Board election voting ending at the 7:00 pm start time. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Equality Business Alliance Gay Softball World Series TMSL Ballroom Pride Series Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Council Oak Mens Chorale Hedwig and the Angry Inch Fair Housing Survey Twists and Turns Broken Heart Land Enid Pride 2014 TahlEQUALITY Halloween 2014 OSU Survey Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit Pride Store Rainbow Library Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is reviewing applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Eight directors will be elected. Please contact Clint.Robison@OkEq.org to submit a completed petition nominating someone for the Board of Directors. No nominations will be accepted from the floor during the annual board meeting. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 11th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Steve Tomlin. ________ First Thursday Art Show Thursday, September 4th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The September Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Steve Tomlin, in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 4th from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. Please think of this as your opportunity to transform hate through your own creative process. The gallery is WIDE open! Some guidelines for submission: 1) All media will be considered 2) Work must in some way illuminate the theme of transforming hate 3) You may submit up to 3 works, online submissions ONLY 4) there is no entry fee to submit work 5) all work for sale will be subject to the usual 30% gallery commission to OkEq 6) older work will be considered IF it fulfills the theme 7)) Deadline for Submissions : October 15, midnight HOW to submit work: Send up to 3 jpgs of your work to alliejensen@cox.net. Include size, title, medium and price. Performance artists should send a written proposal Notification will be November 1st, Delivery details at that time. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g ' The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Tulsa Plastic Surgery, 6585 S. Yale, Suite 315, Tulsa, OK 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. "'!,.., c Surgery Tulsa Plastic Surgery 6585 S Yale, Suite 315 Tulsa, OK 74136 Tulsa Metro Softball Teams head to the Gay Softball World Series in Dallas, TX Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Three Tulsa Metro Softball League will represent at the Gay Softball World Series 2014 in Dallas TX. This is the 4th World Series TMSL has participated in. The teams will travel to Dallas September 21st - 27th. www.tulsametrosoftball.com 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Counseling Services Representing D Division is the Renegades Tulsa Twisters (in green) and the T-Town Zealers (in red) Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Representing C Division is the Oklahoma Rampage Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball Ballroom Pride Series - Beginning Cha Cha 4 week class starting on Friday September 12th; 7:00 pm Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Ballroom Blitz 4960D S 83rd E Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 D111 nnnM UIILLRUUI DI IT7 ULI I&. Equality Business Alliance member, Ballroom Blitz will present a progressive 4 week series of classes especially for the LGBT community and allies with a Beginning Cha Cha class. Diana Easter will teach the 4 week series starting on Friday, September 12th at 7:00 pm. The cost for the 4 week series will be $32 and must have 8 students to hold the class. Students must join before or at the first class. For more information, visit www.ballroomblitzok.com or click here to sign up. Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Tuesdays at 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale 2014 Holiday Concert will are each Tuesday night after from 7:00 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. The concert will feature council oak holiday music both traditional and popular along with counc/1 ()(I/( ll1fJflS choiole solos from chorale members. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders New singers are welcome to attend rehearsals and audition to become a part of the chorale! COMC is excited to announce that Kent Dennis has been named Interim Artistic Director and will lead the chorale for this fall/winter season. Kent is an accomplished director and has an extensive background in both vocal and instrumental music. Kent has also been a member of Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... COMC for two years. COMC is looking forward to Kent lending his artistic abilities and leadership to the chorale. Hedwig and the Angry Inch Friday, Sept 26th at 10:30 pm & Saturday, Sept 27th at 11:55 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Graveyard Shift proudly presents a 35mm print of the 2001 post-punk, neoglam rock musical HEDWIG AND THE ANGRY INCH! Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, HEDWIG tells the story of a transgender rock songstress through award-winning songs composed by Stephen Trask. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Purchase tickets here. Don't miss this rare opportunity to see it in 35mm! Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. /.J The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Twists and Turns Opening reception on Friday, September 5th, 2014; 6:00 pm 108 Contemporary 108 E M.B. Brady St Tulsa, OK 74103 Twists and Turns, features works by two Israeli artists whose passion for nature and the beauty of their homeland comes through in their diverse collection of tapestries and ceramics. Twists and Turns will be on display September 5th - October 26th and is open for free to the public. The opening reception will be on the evening of Friday, September 5th, from 6:00 - 9:00 pm. The following day, September 6th, one of the artists, Zemer Peled, will present a behind-the-scenes discussion of the inspiration for her work. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... TWISTS AND TUIRNS SEPTEMBER 5 - OCTOBER 26, 2014: ---------------IS RAEU ARTIST'S ALEKSANDRA STQ'i'ANO/ & ZEMER f'SLEO ' Opening Reception : Fnday, September 5, 2014 I 6-9 PM Artist Talk : September 6. 2014111-1 PM Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... V trl rP ~1.~ 1 ·r. Dr__. Contact Us: E-mail: enidpride@yohoo.com Coll: 1-800-878-5298 Like us on Focebook J event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet r - m= E."nidLGBT ~ Coalition Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Government Springs Park 600 E Garriotte, Enid, OK 73702 For more info, visit Facebook, email enidpride@yahoo.com enidlgbtcoalition.org or call 1.800.878.5298 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival Friday, September 26 - Sunday, September 28th September 26 - 28 Sparrow Hawk Camp & TahlEQUALITY will host their first annual Gay Pride River Festival. Our family is proud to be apart of an event that welcomes the diversity of our LGBTQ2 community Contact the Sparrow Hawk Camp office to reserve your camp site. For $35/per person, you can reserve the entire weekend of tent camping & a 6 mile pride float anytime for 8:00 am till noon (last bus out is noon) on Saturday the 27th. This includes live music, karaoke, and a world class theatrical drag show on Saturday evening at 8:00 pm. Please call and reserve your tickets today! $35 @ Camp $37.50 Phone Orders $30 (additional) RV sites- please make reservations. For reservation call: 918.456.8371 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Halloween 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org with your --contact info and we will let you know when planning meetings begin in September. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm LGB Well-being and Parental Relationships Survey An OSU research study survey is currently being conducted on the influence parental relationships have on LGB individual well-being. You may participate if you are at least 18 years of age and identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual and reside in the United States. The survey takes, on average, 20 minutes. Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd •••• tulsacar~~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Exhibit runs September 15 - October 3, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue For more information, visit www.tulsacc.edu/centerforcreativity 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Adam' by Ariel Schrag You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center When Adam Freedman - a skinny, awkward, inexperienced teenager from Piedmont, California - goes to stay with his older sister Casey in New York City, he is hopeful that his life is about to change. And it sure does. It is the summer of 2006. Gay marriage and transgender rights are in the air, and Casey has thrust herself into a wild lesbian subculture. Soon Adam is tagging along to underground clubs, where there are hot older women everywhere he turns. It takes some time for him to realize that many in this new crowd assume he is trans-a boy who was born a girl. Why else would this baby-faced guy always be around? Then Adam meets Gillian, the girl of his dreams - but she couldn't possibly be interested in him. Unless passing as a trans guy might actually work in his favor . . . Ariel Schrag's scathingly funny and poignant debut novel puts a fresh spin on questions of love, attraction, self-definition, and what it takes to be at home in your own skin. 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:21 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ccccc278e70f762469b009750945496d.pdf 2932c0415467ae2d9449ce1dbfbf14a7 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... eNews September 10th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Board of Directors Transforming Hate Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will be Thursday, September 25th, 2014 with Board election voting ending at the 7:00 pm start time. Revisions to the OkEq Bylaws will also be voted on by the membership at this meeting. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Gay Softball World Series TMSL Ballroom Pride Series Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Hedwig and the Angry Inch The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim DVIS Presentation Fair - Housing - - - -Survey --Broken Heart Land Ask me for FREE sample!!! EBA Sponsor Enid Pride 2014 TahlEQUALITY All natural products for diabetics, weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti T: (918) 361-4188 E: robin labutti@Cox.net lose weight • Get Ill • Improve performance • Increase energy Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit Acting Class for Kids SAGE Tulsa Halloween Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections OK Mister Leather 2015 Euphoria Bullying Conference Computer Boot Camp Spirit Day Halloween 2014 OSU Survey Drag Bingo Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Revisions to the OkEq Bylaws will also be voted on by the membership at this meeting. Find Us on Facebook To review the candidates up for nomination, you may view their bios on the OkEq website here. 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Current members may cast their ballots in the following ways: • Current members may cast their written ballots in-person before the OkEq annual meeting on Thursday, September 25th, 2014. All voting must occur before 7:00 pm • Beginning at 12:00 pm Thursday, September 18th, 2014 through Thursday, September 25th, 2014 before 7:00 pm, current members may come to the Equality Center during regular operating hours (Opening at 12:00 pm) to cast an absentee ballot • Current members may also request that a ballot be mailed to them by calling Lucas Green at 918.743.4297 Monday through Friday between 10 am and 6 pm or by requesting an electronic ballot by contacting Lucas.Green@OkEq.org (Requested ballots will be sent out after the Petition Nomination deadline of September 10th, 2014). Ballots may be returned by fax to 918.295.6885. All requested ballots must be received no later than September 24th, 2014 OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 11th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. • Online voting will be made available after September 10th, 2014. Oklahomans for Equality P.O. Box 2687 Tulsa, OK 74101 Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Steve Tomlin. ________ The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. For information on how to submit your work, visit okeq.org/art-gallery Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Tulsa Plastic Surgery, 6585 S. Yale, Suite 315, Tulsa, OK 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. ~!,, c S rgery Tulsa Plastic Surgery 6585 S Yale, Suite 315 Tulsa, OK 74136 Tulsa Metro Softball Teams head to the Gay Softball World Series in Dallas, TX Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Three Tulsa Metro Softball League will represent at the Gay Softball World Series 2014 in Dallas TX. This is the 4th World Series TMSL has participated in. The teams will travel to Dallas September 21st - 27th. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Counseling Services Representing D Division is the Renegades Tulsa Twisters (in green) and the T-Town Zealers (in red) Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Representing C Division is the Oklahoma Rampage Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open - - --- This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. SOS Group TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball Ballroom Pride Series - Beginning Cha Cha Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 4 week class starting on Friday September 12th; 7:00 pm Ballroom Blitz 4960D S 83rd E Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 D111 nnnM UMLLRUUI DI IT7 ULI 1'- Equality Business Alliance member, Ballroom Blitz will present a progressive 4 week series of classes especially for the LGBT community and allies with a Beginning Cha Cha class. Diana Easter will teach the 4 week series starting on Friday, September 12th at 7:00 pm. The cost for the 4 week series will be $32 and must have 8 students to hold the class. Students must join before or at the first class. For more information, visit www.ballroomblitzok.com or click here to sign up. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Yolanda Arnold Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Hedwig and the Angry Inch Friday, Sept 26th at 10:30 pm & Saturday, Sept 27th at 11:55 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Graveyard Shift proudly presents a 35mm print of the 2001 post-punk, neoglam rock musical HEDWIG AND THE ANGRY INCH! Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, HEDWIG tells the story of a transgender rock songstress through award-winning songs composed by Stephen Trask. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Purchase tickets here. Don't miss this rare opportunity to see it in 35mm! Sexual Assault: Handle with Care Tuesday, September 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, September 23rd, DVIS (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) will host a presentation called: Sexual Assualt: Handle With Care. The presentation will teach the attendees how to handle the first outcry of sexual assault. The presentation will be free and open to the public. DVIS Ca11RAPE - .... Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm [J1ltl 5 ) ;',&,4,~ Game Night Qr__,( Contact Us: E-mail: enidpride@yohoo.com Coll: 1-800-878-5298 Like us on Focebook //?£ nid LGBT ~ Coalition Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Government Springs Park 600 E Garriotte, Enid, OK 73702 For more info, visit Facebook, email enidpride@yahoo.com enidlgbtcoalition.org or call 1.800.878.5298 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival Friday, September 26th - Sunday, September 28th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet September 26th - 28th Sparrow Hawk Camp & TahlEQUALITY will host their first annual Gay Pride River Festival. Our family is proud to be apart of an event that welcomes the diversity of our LGBTQ2 community Contact the Sparrow Hawk Camp office to reserve your camp site. For $35/per person, you can reserve the entire weekend of tent camping & a 6 mile pride float anytime for 8:00 am till noon (last bus out is noon) on Saturday the 27th. This includes live music, karaoke, and a world class theatrical drag show on Saturday evening at 8:00 pm. Please call and reserve your tickets today! $35 @ Camp $37.50 Phone Orders $30 (additional) RV sites- please make reservations. For reservation call: 918.456.8371 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd tulsacari~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Exhibit runs September 15 - October 3, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue For more information, visit www.tulsacc.edu/centerforcreativity Acting Class for Kids Free Preview class on Thursday, September 18th; 5:00 - 6:00 pm Regular class starts Thursday, September 25th: 5:00 - 6:00 pm Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join Professional Actor Chris Middlebrook to learn all about Acting on Stage, for TV and Commercials. Chris Middlebrook got his start in the Andrew Lloyd Webber Musical "Whistle Down the Wind" and now runs his own entertainment company here in Tulsa. He has performed all over the world as a Singer and Actor and works for Tulsa's only professional Equity company Tulsa Project Theatre. Presented by BAM Entertainment. Come to the Free Preview class on Thursday, September 18th, at the Equality Center. For more information, call Chris at 918.899.8819 or email Info@BamTulsa.com or visit www.bamtulsa.com. SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Tuesday, October 28th, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have their Halloween party and costume contest on Tuesday, October 28th. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head to the party location. FOr more information, email SAGE@OkEq.org Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahoma Mister Leather 2015 October 17th - 19th, 2014 Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit TulsaLeather.com Euphoria: Benefit Fashion Show Saturday, October 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... A team of local fashion entities and restaurants that share a dream of helping a good cause as well as keeping Tulsa looking sharp have joined forces to create the fashion event "Euphoria." The event will be held on Saturday, October 4th, 2014 at Mixed Company Bar located in Downtown Tulsa. The fashion show will be raising funds for H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach Prevention Education) and paying a special tribute to the late Mikal Hunt. Hll&JordanStudlo "' p, I & a & MT I - :;•: . . . . . . . . . Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- • 111 1 1111!1 11111 111111111111111 1 7 Tickets in advance are $25 and $30 at the door which opens at 5:00 pm. The event starts at 6:30 pm. Attendees are urged to come early. Tickets can be purchased at here. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Participants include On A Whim Tulsa, Hill&Jordan Studios LLC. Dilly Deli, Mixed Company, and Zanmai. Mixed Company is located at 3rd and Denver near the BOK Center in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit www.hillandjordanstudios.com Bullying Prevention Conference Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- Saturday, October 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy 2710 E 11th Street Tulsa, OK 74104 Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th 2014 - 9:00 am to 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy Free Admission for All - Educators, Parents, & Secondary Students Students, parent and educators will learn about: • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying For more information or to register, visit preventbullyingtulsa.org Computer Boot Camp Saturdays, Class starts soon The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Spirit Day - October 16th Millions go purple on Spirit Day in a stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. Observed annually since 2010, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, and public figures wear purple, which symbolizes 'spirit' on the rainbow flag. Pledge to go purple here --- --- - -- ----- Halloween 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to volunteer. First planning meeting will be Sunday, September 28th at 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL 10th Annual Drag Bingo Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 6:30 pm Don't forget the 10th Anniversary of Drag Queen Bingo is September 20th. You can get tickets at helpinghandsfoundation14.org Select web store and make your selection. This year we are having cocktail party starting at 6:30 pm for everyone. And a VIP dinner starting at 6:00 pm for those who have purchased a 600.00 table. Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Hancock Park' by Katherine V. Forrest You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center When Detective Kate Delafield and her partner, Detective Joe Cameron, get the call to investigate a homicide in the secluded, oldmoney neighborhood of Hancock Park, Kate has the feeling it s not going to be murder as usual. Her hunch is correct. A cultured, refined mother of three, Victoria Talbot is the last person you'd expect to die by gunshot, execution-style. At first the finger of guilt seems to point at the victim s ex-husband Douglas, and everyone involved from the authorities to his own children are more than willing to suspect him. But for Kate, the easy way has rarely been proven the right way, and there are too many unanswered questions that suggest not all is at it seems with this dysfunctional family. Now, Douglas Talbot is on trial for his life, Kate s lover Aimee has disappeared to God-knows-where, and Kate must piece together a deadly puzzle of secrets and lies... Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ~ ol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:22 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/cef9f166e80f9b56b58eacee1e696761.pdf 4f763fa6b0ad3caa0bc4a3c788a621ff PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... eNews September 17th, 2014 In This Issue Give A Day EBA Sponsor Board of Directors Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will be Thursday, September 25th, 2014 with Board election voting ending at the 7:00 pm start time. Revisions to the OkEq Bylaws will also be voted on by the membership at this meeting. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Gay Softball World Series TMSL Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Hedwig and the Angry Inch DVIS Presentation Be Our Voice, Give a Day Fair Survey -Housing ----- - In honor of Nancy Eggen for all the outstanding work she has done for the LGBT community, and for officiating their wedding, Rebekah Herrick and Lori Franklin have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring Oklahomans for Equality for the day of September 23rd, 2014. Thank You Nancy and Congratulations Rebekah and Lori! Broken Heart Land LGBT Shirt Quilt Enid Pride 2014 TahlEQUALITY Computer Boot Camp Acting Class for Kids October First Thursday OUTlaw Legal Series Transforming Hate SAGE Tulsa Halloween Halloween 2014 Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Our - -Be -- -Voice, - - - -Give - - -a-Day - -campaign -- - - OK Mister Leather 2015 Euphoria Bullying Conference Spirit Day OSU Survey The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Drag Bingo Pride Store Ask me fo r FREE sample!!! Rainbow Library Volunteer T: (918)361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs, weight loss , pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robin labutti@Cox.net Find Us on Facebook lose weight • Get Ill • Improve performance • Increase 1n1Jgy 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections - September 25th OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 16th, 7:00 pm OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Revisions to the OkEq Bylaws will also be voted on by the membership at this meeting. To review the candidates up for nomination, you may view their bios on the OkEq website here. Current members may cast their ballots in the following ways: • Current members may cast their written ballots in-person before the OkEq annual meeting on Thursday, September 25th, 2014. All voting must occur before 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Steve Tomlin. ________ • Current members may come to the Equality Center during regular operating hours (12:00 - 9:00 pm) to cast an absentee ballot • Current members may also request that a ballot be mailed to them by calling Lucas Green at 918.743.4297 Monday through Friday between 10 am and 6 pm or by requesting an electronic ballot by contacting Lucas.Green@OkEq.org. Ballots may be returned by fax to 918.295.6885. All requested ballots must be received no later than September 24th, 2014 • An online ballot has been made available on the OkEq website here. Your membership will be validated before the ballot is accepted. Online voting will end at 6:30 pm on Thursday, September 25th. Oklahomans for Equality P.O. Box 2687 Tulsa, OK 74101 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Tulsa Plastic Surgery, 6585 S. Yale, Suite 315, Tulsa, OK 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. ~!,, c S rgery Tulsa Plastic Surgery 6585 S Yale, Suite 315 Tulsa, OK 74136 Tulsa Metro Softball Teams head to the Gay Softball World Series in Dallas, TX Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Three Tulsa Metro Softball League will represent at the Gay Softball World Series 2014 in Dallas TX. This is the 4th World Series TMSL has participated in. The teams will travel to Dallas September 21st - 27th. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Counseling Services Representing D Division is the Renegades Tulsa Twisters (in green) and the T-Town Zealers (in red) Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Representing C Division is the Oklahoma Rampage Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... the world genuinely. For more information visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com please Hedwig and the Angry Inch Friday, Sept 26th at 10:30 pm & Saturday, Sept 27th at 11:55 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Graveyard Shift proudly presents a 35mm print of the 2001 post-punk, neoglam rock musical HEDWIG AND THE ANGRY INCH! Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, HEDWIG tells the story of a transgender rock songstress through award-winning songs composed by Stephen Trask. Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Purchase tickets here. Don't miss this rare opportunity to see it in 35mm! Sexual Assault: Handle with Care Tuesday, September 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center DVIS Ca11RAPE On Tuesday, September 23rd, DVIS (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) will host a presentation called: Sexual Assualt: Handle With Care. The presentation will teach the attendees ..._ how to handle the first outcry of sexual assault. D o _ v , . . _ _ The presentation will be free and open to the public. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. --- Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Broken Heart Land SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. Get F.I.T. ~k 4~ TULSA PRIDE 2010 >OYEN<SOFC<U:UAATl"OP<OO< Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm ACA Assistance {111tZ 9)1~' ......, .C r ..,, ( Contact Us: E-mail: enidpride@yohoo.com Coll: 1-800-878-5298 Like us on Focebook - lff-e nid ~(,BT ~ Coaht1on Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. r Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Government Springs Park 600 E Garriotte, Enid, OK 73702 For more info, visit Facebook, email enidpride@yahoo.com enidlgbtcoalition.org or call 1.800.878.5298 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Friday, September 26th - Sunday, September 28th Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm September 26th - 28th Sparrow Hawk Camp & TahlEQUALITY will host their first annual Gay Pride River Festival. Our family is proud to be apart of an event that welcomes the diversity of our LGBTQ2 community Contact the Sparrow Hawk Camp office to reserve your camp site. For $35/per person, you can reserve the entire weekend of tent camping & a 6 mile pride float anytime for 8:00 am till noon (last bus out is noon) on Saturday the 27th. This includes live music, karaoke, and a world class theatrical drag show on Saturday evening at 8:00 pm. Please call and reserve your tickets today! $35 @ Camp $37.50 Phone Orders $30 (additional) RV sites- please make reservations. For reservation call: 918.456.8371 Computer Boot Camp Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Sundays, Starting September 28th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Acting Class for Kids Free Preview class on Thursday, September 18th; 5:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Regular class starts Thursday, September 25th: 5:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join Professional Actor Chris Middlebrook to learn all about Acting on Stage, for TV and Commercials. Chris Middlebrook got his start in the Andrew Lloyd Webber Musical "Whistle Down the Wind" and now runs his own entertainment company here in Tulsa. He has performed all over the world as a Singer and Actor and works for Tulsa's only professional Equity company Tulsa Project Theatre. Presented by BAM Entertainment. event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Come to the Free Preview class on Thursday, September 18th, at the Equality Center. For more information, call Chris at 918.899.8819 or email Info@BamTulsa.com or visit www.bamtulsa.com. October First Thursday Art Show Thursday, October 2nd, 2014; 6:00 pm The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins, in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 2nd from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org OUTlaw Legal Series Wednesday, October 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm The time has now come for "Marriage Equality" to go to the Supreme Court. The OUTlaw Legal Series will discuss the latest news on the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit. On Wednesday, October 8th at 7:00 pm. Please bring your questions and thoughts for our legal expert Conor Cleary, Esq. Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. For information on how to submit your work, visit okeq.org/art-gallery Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Tuesday, October 28th, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have their Halloween party and costume contest on Tuesday, October 28th. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head to the party location. FOr more information, email SAGE@OkEq.org HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Halloween 2014 Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to volunteer. First planning meeting will be Sunday, September 28th at 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd •••• tulsacare~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. Exhibit runs September 15 - October 3, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue For more information, visit www.tulsacc.edu/centerforcreativity Oklahoma Mister Leather 2015 October 17th - 19th, 2014 For more information, visit TulsaLeather.com Euphoria: Benefit Fashion Show Saturday, October 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... A team of local fashion entities and restaurants that share a dream of helping a good cause as well as keeping Tulsa looking sharp have joined forces to create the fashion event "Euphoria." The event will be held on Saturday, October 4th, 2014 at Mixed Company Bar located in Downtown Tulsa. The fashion show will be raising funds for H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach Prevention Education) and paying a special tribute to the late Mikal Hunt. Tickets in advance are $25 and $30 at the door which opens at 5:00 pm. The event starts at 6:30 pm. Attendees are urged to come early. Tickets can be purchased at here. Participants include On A Whim Tulsa, Hill&Jordan Studios LLC. Dilly Deli, Mixed Company, and Zanmai. Mixed Company is located at 3rd and Denver near the BOK Center in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit www.hillandjordanstudios.com Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy 2710 E 11th Street Tulsa, OK 74104 Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th 2014 - 9:00 am to 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy Free Admission for All - Educators, Parents, & Secondary Students Students, parent and educators will learn about: • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying For more information or to register, visit preventbullyingtulsa.org Spirit Day - October 16th 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Millions go purple on Spirit Day in a stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. Observed annually since 2010, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, and public figures wear purple, which symbolizes 'spirit' on the rainbow flag. Pledge to go purple here -- -- ----- Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL 10th Annual Drag Bingo Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 6:30 pm Hyatt Regency Tulsa The 10th Anniversary of Drag Queen Bingo is September 20th. You can get tickets at helpinghandsfoundation14.org Select web store and make your selection. This year's cocktail party starts at 6:30 pm. And a VIP dinner starting at 6:00 pm for those who have purchased a 600.00 table. Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Shade: An Anthology of Fiction by Gay Men of African Descent' edited by Bruce Morrow and Charles Rowell You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A gay African-American fiction anthology features works by award-winning authors and promising newcomers including A. Cinque+a6 Hick, Bil Wright, Larry Duplechan, and Jaime Manrique, and pays tribute to a range of cultural events. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------~ I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:23 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4714bacddb4b9112b53540bca6722b16.pdf 6929e861140addd908079dcef24b09bf PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... eNews September 24th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Board of Directors Equality Business Alliance Hedwig and the Angry Inch Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will be Thursday, September 25th, 2014 with Board election voting ending at the 7:00 pm start time. Revisions to the OkEq Bylaws will also be voted on by the membership at this meeting. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Gay Softball World Series TMSL A Murder of Storytellers Computer Boot Camp Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Guys Dine Too Fair - Housing - - - -Survey --Broken Heart Land Ask me for FREE sample!!! LGBT Shirt Quilt TahlEQUALITY October First Thursday OUTlaw Legal Series T: (918) 361-4188 All natural prod ucts for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.pl•xusslim.com/robi nlabutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.n•t Lose we,ghl • Get flt • Improve performance • Increase 1nuuy Transforming Hate Acting Class for Kids Reiki Sessions Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections - September 25th SAGE Tulsa Halloween Halloween 2014 OK Mister Leather 2015 Spirit Day Bullying Conference 2015 Call for Art OUT OK Film Festival Euphoria Parish Church of St Jerome Miss Brookside OSU Survey OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 Pride Store Rainbow Library The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Revisions to the OkEq Bylaws will also be voted on by the membership at this meeting. Volunteer To review the candidates up for nomination, you may view their bios on the OkEq website here. 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Current members may their the following ----cast --ballots - -in- - -ways: -- Find Us on Facebook • Current members may cast their written ballots in-person before the OkEq annual meeting on Thursday, September 25th, 2014. All voting must occur before 7:00 pm • Current members may come to the Equality Center during regular operating hours (12:00 - 9:00 pm) to cast an absentee ballot • Current members may also request that a ballot be mailed to them by calling Lucas Green at 918.743.4297 Monday through Friday between 10 am and 6 pm or by requesting an electronic ballot by contacting Lucas.Green@OkEq.org. Ballots may be returned by fax to 918.295.6885. All requested ballots must be received no later than September 24th, 2014 • An online ballot has been made available on the OkEq website here. Your membership will be validated before the ballot is accepted. Online voting will end at 6:30 pm on Thursday, September 25th. Oklahomans for Equality P.O. Box 2687 Tulsa, OK 74101 OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 16th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit Equality Business Alliance The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Steve Tomlin. ________ Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 15th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Garden Trug, 3009 E 101st St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. the ar Tru nursery and gift shop The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st St Tulsa, OK 74137 Hedwig and the Angry Inch Friday, Sept 26th at 10:30 pm & Saturday, Sept 27th at 11:55 pm Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Three Tulsa Metro Softball League will represent at the Gay Softball World Series 2014 in Dallas TX. This is the 4th World Series TMSL has participated in. The teams will travel to Dallas September 21st - 27th. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Tulsa Metro Softball Teams head to the Gay Softball World Series in Dallas, TX Purchase tickets here. Don't miss this rare opportunity to see it in 35mm! Graveyard Shift proudly presents a 35mm print of the 2001 post-punk, neoglam rock musical HEDWIG AND THE ANGRY INCH! Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, HEDWIG tells the story of a transgender rock songstress through award-winning songs composed by Stephen Trask. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave l . , ' • -··• . ·""'-- .... •·~ , ... - • j •.I I .~. • ~ ., !!!!P'i' ~ ., ' ~ l • l\,A"' .t ....... ... ,. ~:\~~- ~ I ' ·J·~ ' ~ -· • - .. • ,:.. ' f\ \ , ' ...... ,I ' I -.:' -.,, ., 1 I -- ., . - ~ - I i I 6 ~ ,, .t . . ~iii >1.·· \.... ' # 'i ► ' Representing D Division is the Renegades Tulsa Twisters (in green) and the T-Town Zealers (in red) 4/23/26, 12:24 PM Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Counseling Services Maybello@OkEq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20.. .. I - --.• 3 of 14 Firefox • . �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Counseling Services Representing C Division is the Oklahoma Rampage Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Beginning September 26th, Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning on Friday, September 26th, A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Starting September 28th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Guys Dine Too Tuesday, October 7th, 2014; 6:30 pm The October meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at India Palace on Tuesday, October 7th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. India Palace is located at 6963 S. Lewis Ave Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org --- LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 31<: ,. ?": ~ ~d';, 4,.~~ TULSA PRIDE ,,. ,...... 2010 Ol' CILEB""T"'O " '""" Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival Friday, September 26th - Sunday, September 28th Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance September 26th - 28th Sparrow Hawk Camp & TahlEQUALITY will host their first annual Gay Pride River Festival. Our family is proud to be apart of an event that welcomes the diversity of our LGBTQ2 community Contact the Sparrow Hawk Camp office to reserve your camp site. For $35/per person, you can reserve the entire weekend of tent camping & a 6 mile pride float anytime for 8:00 am till noon (last bus out is noon) on Saturday the 27th. This includes live music, karaoke, and a world class theatrical drag show on Saturday evening at 8:00 pm. Please call and reserve your tickets today! $35 @ Camp $37.50 Phone Orders $30 (additional) RV sites- please make reservations. For reservation call: 918.456.8371 October First Thursday Art Show Thursday, October 2nd, 2014; 6:00 pm The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins, in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 2nd from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm OUTlaw Legal Series Wednesday, October 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm The time has now come for "Marriage Equality" to go to the Supreme Court. The OUTlaw Legal Series will discuss the latest news on the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit. On Wednesday, October 8th at 7:00 pm. Please bring your questions and thoughts for our legal expert Conor Cleary, Esq. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to RSVP Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. For information on how to submit your work, visit okeq.org/art-gallery Acting Class for Kids Free Preview class on Thursday, September 25th; 5:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join Professional Actor Chris Middlebrook to learn all about Acting on Stage, for TV and Commercials. Chris Middlebrook got his start in the Andrew Lloyd Webber Musical "Whistle Down the Wind" and now runs his own entertainment company here in Tulsa. He has performed all over the world as a Singer and Actor and works for Tulsa's only professional Equity company Tulsa Project Theatre. Presented by BAM Entertainment. Come to the Free Preview class on Thursday, September 25th, at the Equality Center. For more information, call Chris at 918.899.8819 or email Info@BamTulsa.com or visit www.bamtulsa.com. Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 SAGE Tulsa Hobo Halloween Party Tuesday, October 28th, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have their Halloween party and a Hobo costume contest on Tuesday, October 28th. Prizes will be given for the best hobo costume. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head to the party location. For more information, email SAGE@OkEq.org Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Zombie House 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to volunteer. First planning meeting will be Sunday, September 28th at 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Oklahoma Mister Leather 2015 October 17th - 19th, 2014 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- For more information, visit TulsaLeather.com Spirit Day - October 16th Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Millions go purple on Spirit Day in a stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. Observed annually since 2010, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, and public figures wear purple, which symbolizes 'spirit' on the rainbow flag. Pledge to go purple here ------ Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 3:00 pm Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy 2710 E 11th Street Tulsa, OK 74104 Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th 2014 - 9:00 am to 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy Free Admission for All - Educators, Parents, & Secondary Students . ~ _.,,..,...,,.,_,,..,,.,"'9,°""lch&m.,... Students, parent and educators will learn about: • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying For more information or to register, visit preventbullyingtulsa.org 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Deadline is November 15th, 2014 The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, - - - - with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 SAVE THE DATE Transformative. Engrossing. And totally Entertaining... There's an exciting and diverse world waiting to be explored during the latest edition of OUT OK, the Oklahoma GLBT International Film Festival. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Euphoria: Benefit Fashion Show Saturday, October 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm A team of local fashion entities and restaurants that share a dream of helping a good cause as well as keeping Tulsa looking sharp have joined forces to create the fashion event "Euphoria." The event will be held on Saturday, October 4th, 2014 at Mixed Company Bar located in Downtown Tulsa. The fashion show will be raising funds for H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach Prevention Education) and paying a special tribute to the late Mikal Hunt. Tickets in advance are $25 and $30 at the door which opens at 5:00 pm. The event starts at 6:30 pm. Attendees are urged to come early. Tickets can be purchased at here. Participants include On A Whim Tulsa, Hill&Jordan Studios LLC. Dilly Deli, Mixed Company, and Zanmai. Mixed Company is located at 3rd and Denver near the BOK Center in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit www.hillandjordanstudios.com Parish Church of St Jerome Upcoming Events Parish Church of St Jerome 205 W. King St. Tulsa, OK • Friday, September 26th, 6:30 pm - End of Summer Fun Celebration. A fundraiser for the church. Homemade chili and hotdogs will be served alongwith door prizes. Tickets are $25 • Sunday, September 28th, 11:00 am - "Feast of Title" celebrating our Patron Saint, Jerome. • Sunday, October 5th, 11:00 am - The honoring St. Francis and All of Creation with the Annual Blessing of the Animals. You are invited to bring pets to worship. For more information, visit www.stjerometulsa.org Miss Brookside 2015 Pageant Saturday, October 18th, 2014; 6:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave The Miss Brookside Scholarship Pageant will select the new Miss Brookside 2015 and Miss Brookside's Outstanding Teen 2015 on October 18th, 2014, at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave. The 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... pageant will be held at 6:30 p.m. and will include Interview, Talent, Evening Wear, On-Stage Question, and Lifestyle and Fitness in Swimsuit. New this year is the Brookside Stars Program. This program allows girls between the ages of 5 and 11 the chance to interact with the Brookside Queens, create a special craft, and appear on stage in a tiara with a Miss contestant. General Admission tickets are $15.00 and will be available at the door, early arrival is recommended. For more information visit www.MissBrooksidePageant.com facebook/MissBrooksidePageant and Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Ride the Train' by Shannon Bozarth You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you want to ride the train?" Those words haunt Carla, whose son Jacob has just been diagnosed with the disease. The Party is coming to take him away to be cured, but long-standing rumors say there is no cure. There is only torment and torture before death at the hands of an uncaring government. The train offers hope, but will they survive long enough to escape the city? And what does the future hold in a country that is afraid of everyone that has the disease? Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:24 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8cf74d87b1205bdbef8598f9591135a7.pdf 76f0d32701780079e2bb9baa3c90f6e5 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... eNews October 1st, 2014 In This Issue Be Our Voice, Give a Day EBA Sponsor October First Thursday OUTlaw Legal Series Welcome to the eNews. For an entire week, from Saturday October 25th through Saturday November 1st, the Equality Center will be overrun with zombies! Test your courage and come by for a zombified tour! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality My2024 Equality Business Alliance TMSL SAGE Tulsa Halloween Halloween 2014 Be Our Voice, Give a Day LGBT Shirt Quilt A Murder of Storytellers Computer Boot Camp Guys Dine Too Fair Housing SurveyBroken Heart Land Transforming Hate Reiki Sessions OK Mister Leather 2015 Spirit Day Bullying Conference 2015 Call for Art LGBT History Month OUT OK Film Festival Circle Cinema Euphoria Parish Church of St Jerome Miss Brookside Tulsa Interfaith Alliance OSU Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... In memory of her parents' 50th Wedding Anniversary, Kelley Parker has made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and is sponsoring Oklahomans for Equality for the day of October 2nd, 2014. Kelley's father Bob died on September 9th, 2013, and her mother Jody died on July 15th, 2014. Bob and Jody Parker were married on October 2nd 1964. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 16th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins. ________ Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Counseling Services Ask me for FREE sample!!! T: (918) 361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robi nlab utti E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose we,ghl • Git lit • Improve performance • lncrnsa 1naruy October First Thursday Art Show Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... Thursday, October 2nd, 2014; 6:00 pm The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins, in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 2nd from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. OUTlaw Legal Series Wednesday, October 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm The time has now come for "Marriage Equality" to go to the Supreme Court. The OUTlaw Legal Series will discuss the latest news on the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit. On Wednesday, October 8th at 7:00 pm. Please bring your questions and thoughts for our legal expert Conor Cleary, Esq. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to RSVP Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 My2024 Town Hall Event Wednesday, October 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center What do you think is the future for the LGBT movement? Your future as a transgender, gay, lesbian, or bisexual person is the future of our movement. What do you think our lives might be like in 10 years in the year 2024? On Wednesday, October 8th, come by the Equality Center, join in a nationwide online game and share your hopes, your worries, and your wild predictions. Together, we'll create the My2024 Declaration for the Futures of the LGBT Movement. For more information on the nationwide My2024 event, visit www.my2024.us Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 15th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Garden Trug, 3009 E 101st St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... Counseling Services everyone on your friends list. the ar Tru nursery and gift shop The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st St Tulsa, OK 74137 Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball SAGE Tulsa Hobo Halloween Party Tuesday, October 28th, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have their Halloween party and a Hobo costume contest on Tuesday, October 28th. Prizes will be given for the best hobo costume. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head to the party location. For more information, email SAGE@OkEq.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Zombie House 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to volunteer. Next planning meeting will be Sunday, October 11th at 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. f I • . , - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ti~ 4~ TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Beginning September 26th, Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning on Friday, September 26th, A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Next class on October 12th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Guys Dine Too Tuesday, October 7th, 2014; 6:30 pm The October meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at India Palace on Tuesday, October 7th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. India Palace is located at 6963 S. Lewis Ave Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. For information on how to submit your work, visit okeq.org/art-gallery Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Oklahoma Mister Leather 2015 October 17th - 19th, 2014 For more information, visit TulsaLeather.com Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Spirit Day - October 16th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Millions go purple on Spirit Day in a stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. Observed annually since 2010, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, and public figures wear purple, which symbolizes 'spirit' on the rainbow flag. Pledge to go purple here ----- Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy 2710 E 11th Street Tulsa, OK 74104 Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th 2014 - 9:00 am to 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy Free Admission for All - Educators, Parents, & Secondary Students Students, parent and educators will learn about: • School climate issues The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying Deadline is November 15th, 2014 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point For more information or to register, visit preventbullyingtulsa.org 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2014, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 1st - Richard Adams October 2nd - Faisal Alam October 3rd - Tallulah Bankhead Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing IIISIORY .\IO~TH Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... October 4th - Natalie Barney October 5th - Allan B�rub� October 6th - Bernice Bing October 7th - Ivy Bottini To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. SAVE THE DATE Transformative. Engrossing. And totally Entertaining... There's an exciting and diverse world waiting to be explored during the latest edition of OUT OK, the Oklahoma GLBT International Film Festival. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. www.out-ok.com Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality Upcoming Screenings at Circle Cinema Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave As part of the 10th Anniversary of Circle Cinema, the deadCENTER Film Festival will host a mini festival on Friday, October 3rd and Saturday October 4th. On the schedule is a screening of George Takei's "To Be Takei" on Friday, October 3rd at 9:00 pm. Over seven decades, actor and activist George Takei boldly journeyed from a WWII internment camp, to the helm of the Starship Enterprise, to the Howard Stern Show, to the daily news feeds of five million Facebook fans. For more information or to purchase your ticket now, visit here. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... "PRIDE" opens at Circle Cinema on Friday, October 17th. PRIDE is inspired by an extraordinary true story. It's the summer of 1984, Margaret Thatcher is in power and the National Union of Mineworkers is on strike, prompting a London-based group of gay and lesbian activists to raise money to support the strikers' families. Initially rebuffed by the Union, the group identifies a tiny mining village in Wales and sets off to make their donation in person. As the strike drags on, the two groups discover that standing together makes for the strongest union of all. For more information about PRIDE, visit www.cbsfilms.com/pride Euphoria: Benefit Fashion Show Saturday, October 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm A team of local fashion entities and restaurants that share a dream of helping a good cause as well as keeping Tulsa looking sharp have joined forces to create the fashion event "Euphoria." The event will be held on Saturday, October 4th, 2014 at Mixed Company Bar located in Downtown Tulsa. The fashion show will be raising funds for H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach Prevention Education) and paying a special tribute to the late Mikal Hunt. Tickets in advance are $25 and $30 at the door which opens at 5:00 pm. The event starts at 6:30 pm. Attendees are urged to come early. Tickets can be purchased at here. Participants include On A Whim Tulsa, Hill&Jordan Studios LLC. Dilly Deli, Mixed Company, and Zanmai. Mixed Company is located at 3rd and Denver near the BOK Center in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit www.hillandjordanstudios.com Parish Church of St Jerome Upcoming Events Parish Church of St Jerome 205 W. King St. Tulsa, OK • Sunday, October 5th, 11:00 am - The honoring St. Francis and All of Creation with the Annual Blessing of the Animals. You are invited to bring pets to worship. 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... ~t. f'ranei<D ~unday: 33 l ru;sing of th!Z '(ln imals Bring your pets to churchT Th!l Pari<Dh Chureh of ~a int J!Z,rom!Z, Sunday, October 5th at 11 am 205 W. King Street Tulsa, OK 74 106 www.stjerometulsa.org For more information, visit www.stjerometulsa.org Miss Brookside 2015 Pageant Saturday, October 18th, 2014; 6:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave The Miss Brookside Scholarship Pageant will select the new Miss Brookside 2015 and Miss Brookside's Outstanding Teen 2015 on October 18th, 2014, at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave. The pageant will be held at 6:30 p.m. and will include Interview, Talent, Evening Wear, On-Stage Question, and Lifestyle and Fitness in Swimsuit. New this year is the Brookside Stars Program. This program allows girls between the ages of 5 and 11 the chance to interact with the Brookside Queens, create a special craft, and appear on stage in a tiara with a Miss contestant. General Admission tickets are $15.00 and will be available at the door, early arrival is recommended. For more information visit www.MissBrooksidePageant.com facebook/MissBrooksidePageant and The Role of Faith in Health Care Decisions: Individuals, Groups and Government Thursday, October 9th, 2014; 7:00 pm The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, in partnership with Phillips INTERFAITH ALLIANCE OF TULSA Theological Seminary and the PROTECTING FAITH AND FREEDOM Women's & Gender Studies Dept at the University of Tulsa, is hosting a community forum on the topic, "The Role of Faith in Health Care Decisions: Individuals, Groups and Government" on Thursday, October 9 at 7:00 pm in the Allen Chapman Student Union at the University of Tulsa. The Women's and Gender Studies Department is hosting a prereception starting at 6:30pm. The forum will consist of a moderated panel discussion by local, regional, and national experts in the field of health care ethics. Our moderator is Dr John Schumann. guest host of "Studio Tulsa" on radio station KWGS. Panelists include Marguerite Chapman (Professor Emeritus, TU School of Law), Ryan Kiesel (ED of ACLU-OK), Dr Mark Fox (Assoc Dean, 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... Community Health & Research Development, OU School of Community Medicine), and Monica Harrington (board member, Center for Reproductive Rights). For more information, or to submit questions to be considered by the panel, visit our Facebook event here or email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store Now in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Role Models' by John Waters You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Role Models is, in fact, a self-portrait told through intimate profiles of favorite personalitiessome famous, some unknown, some criminal, some surprisingly middle of the road. From Esther Martin, owner of the scariest bar in Baltimore, to the playwright Tennessee Williams; from the atheist leader Madalyn Murray O'Hair to the insane martyr Saint Catherine of Siena; from the English novelist Denton Welch to the timelessly appealing singer Johnny Mathis-these are the extreme figures who helped the author form his own brand of neurotic happiness. a-"'f-',....,!" ..., ,,..,J..,,,....q,J.J_~- Role Models is a personal invitation into one of the most unique, perverse, and hilarious artistic minds of our time. -J-'#,1,Jr-ft- Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ,, ol int ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~-----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:25 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/95b60d79cb469cd4f0536f498713ef2c.pdf 88b6f10dda1f4fdc2434e02741141085 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... eNews July 9th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Volunteer of the Year National Gay Blood Drive Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Make plans to attend the National Gay Blood Drive on Friday, July 11th. OkEq will hold the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality GET F.I.T. Board of Directors Mara Keisling Article Headline New Counseling Services The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Grateful Day Foundation Gamily Ice Cream Social SAGE Tulsa Pool Party BARE: A Pop Opera Friend for a Friend Dinner First Thursday Art Show Back to School Carnival DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma LGBTI Youth Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Oklahomans for Equality Volunteer of the Year Award dinner on Sunday, July 13th, 2014; 6:00 pm Find Us on Facebook OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... the work of Susan Foust. ________ The door prize winner for July was Dale W. Counseling Services Andrew attending the Equality Gala 2014, is pictured with fellow volunteer Cait O'Darling and special guest Prince Manvendra Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be presenting our Volunteer of the Year Award to Andrew Gordon at our first ever Volunteer Appreciation Dinner on Sunday, July 13th at 6:30 pm. The event will be called "Proud on the Prairie" and will be western themed. Hot dogs, hamburgers and tofu burgers will be grilled for dinner. Chasing Nadean will perform country classics for the event. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Attendees must have volunteered for OkEq. Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Andrew Gordon has been a volunteer at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since June of 2009. Andrew has dedicated himself to volunteer service for OkEq from the smallest tasks of stocking the soda machine to working all day at the Tulsa Pride events. Unknown to him, Andrew has even given tours of the Equality Center to Tulsa's top philanthropists. Andrew and his family have attended the annual Equality Gala since 2010. Along with Cait O'Darling, Andrew has been faithfully volunteering at the Front Desk, answering the Helpline and assisting the staff in everyday duties. Oklahomans for Equality could not function without the assistance of our volunteers, so we happily recognize Andrew with the 2014 Volunteer of the Year Award. National Gay Blood Drive Friday, July 11th, 2014; 2:00 - 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The National Gay Blood Drive is on July 11th, 2014. This is a nationwide effort to bring attention to the FDA's ban against Gay & Bisexual men donating blood & increase pressure on them to change it. Oklahomans for Equality and the Oklahoma Blood Institute will be hosting the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. Walk-ins are Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... welcome but you may also schedule your appointment here. Gay & Bisexual men cannot donate at this event but are encouraged to show their willingness to contribute by bringing in allies to donate in their place. For more information about the National Gay Blood Drive, visit www.gayblooddrive.com ------------ Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Counseling Services Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The July Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 16th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by the Tulsa Shock, the meeting will take place at the BOK Center, 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa OK 74103. Enter the building the the entrance on 3rd and Boulder and gather in the grand lobby. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave Tulsa, OK 74103 GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org OkEq Board 2013-2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 24th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Grieving Well *Returns July 14th* 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... the public. Mara Keisling is the founding Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast media. COLORAMA presented by Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Friday, July 11th, 2014; 8:00 pm Andy B's 8711 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK The Tulsa Lambda League bowlers present COLORAMA at Andy B's. Friday, July 11th, 2014 at 8:00 pm. Everyone is invited to come out and join in for a fun night of bowling. COLORAMA is a fundraiser for the Jackpot Oklahoma Lambda Tournament (JOLT), Tulsa's only annual Gay bowling tournament which brings in Gay & Lesbian bowlers throughout the nation to Tulsa. You don't need to be a league bowler to participate, so any skill level is welcomed. Be prepared to have a ball. New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSUTulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. Contact 918-594-8586 to schedule an appointment with Chelsey. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Grateful Day Pool Party Fundraiser Saturday, July 19th, 2014; 3:00 - 7:00 pm 3811 E 67th St, Tulsa, OK 74136 Join The Grateful Day Foundation on Saturday July 19th for a Pool Party Cookout Fundraiser. The Grateful Day Foundation is raising funds to support our annual Summer Retreat for people living with HIV/AIDS. 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... Hamburgers, Hot Dogs, Beer, and Swimming will be available at the home of Grateful Day Foundation Treasurer Paul Dorman. Please RSVP on Facebook so we will know how many meals to plan. Donations for meals are appreciated and will be accepted at the door... Please make Checks payable to OKEQ with Grateful Day in the Memo line...Credit Card and cash donations also accepted. Get F.I.T. At'eful .,2) 2nd Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 20th, 2014; 1:00 - 3:00 pm It's that time again! Gamily's 2nd Annual Ice Cream Social! Come have fun and eat free ICE CREAM. This is an opportunity to meet other families and make new friends. Join us on Sunday, July 20th, 2014 from 1:00 to 3:00 pm. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page or email Gamily@OkEq.org Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, July 22nd, 10:00 am sage~ SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will and Advocacy not be served on this day. Please bring your favorite dish forServices Gay, lesbian, Bisexual for lunch. SAGE Tulsa will be celebrating the birthday of & Tramgendcr Eldc>rs Pool Party host, Roger Morris The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. Yoga A - Z *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org BARE: A Pop Opera July 18th - 20th Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 In partnership with SummerStage and the Tulsa Fringe Festival, a new theatre company, consisting of entirely students, Fruugensteinery Productions, will be producing the contemporary Off-Broadway musical, BARE: A Pop Opera. Set in a Catholic Boarding school, BARE centers around a group of seniors in their last semester of high school and their struggles to navigate adolescence. BARE follows two roommates, Peter & Jason, in their attempt to keep their relationship a secret from their friends, family, and church leaders. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Directed by Liz Hunt and dedicated to her brother, Mikal, a large portion of ticket sales will be donated to the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. Performance Dates: Friday, July 18 at 8pm Saturday, July 19 at 2pm (a talk-back with the cast immediately after!) Saturday, July 19 at 8pm Sunday, July 20 at 2pm BARE will be performed in the Liddy Doenges Theatre at the Tulsa PAC. Like Fruug's Facebook page at www.facebook.com/fruugtulsa to see how LGBT couples can enter our photo contest to win 2 FREE TICKETS to the show! Fruugensteinery Productions believes that BARE: A Pop Opera contains a message that Tulsa desperately needs to hear. Whether you struggles with their identity, self worth, body image, spirituality, or sexuality, there is a character in BARE you'll be able to relate to. We want our production to EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... inform and challenge Tulsans, not just entertain them. Buy your tickets online at myticketoffice.com or by calling the PAC box office at (918) 596-7111 A Friend for a Friend Fundraiser Dinner Saturday, July 26th, 2014; 6:00 pm Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Open Everyday A Friend for a Friend will have a fundraiser dinner on Saturday, July 26th, 2014. On the menu will be, smoked chicken, ribs, baked beans and cole slaw/potato salad. 100% of the admission price will go towards A Friend for a Friend. Admission is a suggested donation of $10.00 "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918.747.6827 or 918.361.8839 August First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, August 7th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood, in a combination show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, August 7th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 2nd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 10th, 2014; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Because of the great success and turn out from the families last year, Gamily will present the 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, characters, activities, and prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/ guardians' names and students' names, ages & grades by Sunday July MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... 27th. And the kiddos don't have to be yours, they can nieces, nephews, cousins, godkids, neighbors. But if you don't presently have any kiddos to bring, please come help out and volunteer. For more info or to RSVP, email Gamily@OkEq.org. Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper ---- DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm yr\ \ Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org H~·O~P~E,. r. t. .... ! ' Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Spirits of Christmas Past A Christmas in July Event for the Diversity Christian Fellowship Food Bank July 26, 2014 @ Tulsa Eagle (21+ and over, No Cover) Cookout @ 7:00 pm (Donations accepted) Show @ 10:30 pm (Tipping accepted) Silent Auction, Jello Shots and 50/50 Raffle all night. Sponsored by the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, Green 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... Country Bears, The Tulsa Sisters and T.U.L.S.A. Please RSVP on the Facebook "Christmas in July" invite page -https:// _ _ _ _ _ -www.facebook.com/events/1504567406424604/ LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'And a Child...' by J Kelly Poorman You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Knowing that the time has come to take a stand against bullying in school, two brave and compassionate high school students form a gay/ straight alliance to protect their friends. At what point do you stop turning a blind eye when you see someone being bullied? For Hank, someone who had endured more than his fair share of bullying, that moment was clear. When he sees Edwin, the new kid in town, being confronted on the way home from school, he knows he has to intervene. Putting his own safety aside, he steps up to save Edwin-and in doing so, learns that he has more in common with the other boy than he could have imagined. Edwin, he learns, is being raised by lesbian parents. Hank has two gay men as fathers, so he understands just what Edwin is going through. In each other, the two new friends find more than just common ground; they find the strength to make a stand, not only against the bullies, but against the belief that harassment, intimidation, and assault is acceptable. Hank and Edwin work tirelessly and creatively to create bridges of understanding and tolerance in their community. Their goal is to not only create a gay/straight alliance at their school, but to get the community behind their ideals as well. And just as they expect, they encounter resistance, intolerance, and ignorance. The strength of their friendship gives them the courage they need to see their plans realized, so that every student-gay, straight, bisexual, transgendered, and those disenfranchised in any way-can enjoy a safe, caring environment. That is what every student, every person deserves. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:10 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c68351da0d5d19aa14e7ab974478bee4.pdf 0b1d9929ad517c8a26ee7580b51fb8d0 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... eNews October 15th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Spirit Day Broken Heart Land Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. For an entire week, from Saturday October 25th through Saturday November 1st, the Equality Center will be overrun with zombies! Test your courage and come by for a zombified tour! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Spirit Day Vigil Marriage - - - Equality - - - -Photos --Wedding Resources TMSL Halloween 2014 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves A Murder of Storytellers Ask me for FREE sample!!! Computer Boot Camp Guys Dine Too p All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. s"itn www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti EBA Sponsor Straight No Chaser T: (918) 361-<1188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose weight • Get ht • Improve perfomiance • Increase 1nergy Spirit Day - October 16th Fair - Housing - - - -Survey --Reiki Sessions Tantra 1 for Men OK Mister Leather 2015 2015 Call for Art LGBT History Month OUT OK Film Festival Circle Cinema Miss Brookside OSU Survey Pride Store Millions go purple on Spirit Day in a stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. Observed annually since 2010, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, and public figures wear purple, which symbolizes 'spirit' on the rainbow flag. Pledge to go purple here Rainbow Library Volunteer -- -- ------ Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm Find Us on Facebook OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 16th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events g Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook EQJBusmess UALITY Al/Janee The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 15th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Garden Trug, 3009 E 101st St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. the OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins. ________ r Tru nursery and gift shop The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st St Tulsa, OK 74137 Spirit Day Vigil at Phillips Theological Seminary Thursday, October 16th, 2014 Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N. Mingo Rd Phillips Theological Seminary, will have a prayer vigil set up in Meinder's Chapel on, Thursday, October 16th, from 8:00 am - Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... 5:00 pm. All are welcome to stop by anytime during the day. For those who cannot make it to campus this day, please join in prayer or reflection, at some point during day, by lighting a candle and pausing to remember all those teens who suffer from bullying resulting from their sexual orientation or gender identity. To learn other ways to be involved in Spirit Day, visit the Spirit Day website: www.glaad.org/ spiritday/about We want your Marriage Equality photos! Counseling Services If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality Business Alliance directory where you can find all kinds of -------LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... Tulsa Metro Softball League Counseling Services 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball Zombie House 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 6:00 pm and 11:00 pm during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to volunteer. Next planning meeting will be Saturday, October 18th at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... f . ~. ~~ 4,, ~ ~ I • . TULSA PRIDE 2010 '°"'-"'SMCf LEB""T"'CPfUOI! Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be October 15th. I MY BODY A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. , - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Next class on October 26th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... Facilitated by John Madigan Guys Dine Too Tuesday, November 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at the Cheesecake Factory on Tuesday, November 4th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. The Cheesecake Factory is located at 8711 E 71st St sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders www.thecheesecakefactory.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug http://www.theGardenTrug.com Garden Tru nursery, flor ist & gifts OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver [~ 1Love our Strore? Like us on Facebook! lRJ) facebook.com/gardentrug 101st & Delaware 918.528.3828 Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Straight No Chaser - Happy Hour Tour Friday, October 24th, 2014; 7:30 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers Straight No Chaser will make their Tulsa stop on the Happy Hour Tour at 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... Brady Theater on Friday, October 24th, 2014 at 7:30 pm. OkEq has tickets to give away for the show. Check out Oklahomans for Equality on Facebook to find out how you can win. 918.592.0088 Brady Theater 105 W Brady St Tickets are available at Protixonline.com or by phone at 866.977.6849 If the phrase "male a cappella group" conjures up an image of students in blue blazers, ties, and khakis singing traditional college songs on ivied campuses... think again. Straight No Chaser (SNC) are not strait-laced, but neither are they vaudeville-style kitsch. They have emerged as a phenomenon with a massive fanbase, numerous national TV appearances and proven success with CD releases. The HAPPY HOUR TOUR comes on the heels of the release of Under The Influence, their fourth album release through Atlantic Records. The album features contributions from superstars Jason Mraz, Rob Thomas, Phil Collins, Dolly Parton and more! Straight No Chaser is the real deal, the captivating sound of ten unadulterated human voices coming together to make extraordinary music that is moving people in a fundamental sense... and with a sense of humor. On the road, Straight No Chaser has built a reputation as an unforgettable live act. For more information, please visit www.sncmusic.com Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Tantra 1 for Men Friday, November 7th through Sunday, November 9th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Presented by the Body Electric, this workshop is an introduction to the teachings of Tantra. In a safe and facilitated space, the group will explore the principles and tools for living life with greater freedom, creativity, and passion. To do this, they create experiments to practice erotic touch, conscious breath, movement, and meditation, supplemented with lecture and discussion. If this sounds of interest and/or you would like to know more, please visit the Body Electric website at: http://www.thebodyelectricschool.com/ mens-introductory/tantra-1-for-men/ or contact Andr� directly at 918.406.4659. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Oklahoma Mister Leather 2015 October 17th - 19th, 2014 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals For more information, visit TulsaLeather.com 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline is November 15th, 2014 The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... or a small group are also acceptable.. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2014, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 15th - Storm� DeLaverie October 16th - Rudy Galindo October 17th - Darlene Garner October 18th - Glenn Greenwald October 19th - Angelina Weld Grimk� October 20th - Marc Jacobs October 21st - Lee Daniels October 22nd - June Jordan To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... The Oklahoma GLBT nternationa Fi m Festive 14.15.16 NOV 2014 OUT OK RETURNS testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Transformative. Engrossing. And totally Entertaining... There's an exciting and diverse world waiting to be explored during the latest edition of OUT OK, the Oklahoma GLBT International Film Festival. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Upcoming Screenings at Circle Cinema Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... "PRIDE" opens at Circle Cinema on Friday, October 17th. PRIDE is inspired by an extraordinary true story. It's the summer of 1984, Margaret Thatcher is in power and the National Union of Mineworkers is on strike, prompting a Londonbased group of gay and lesbian activists to raise money to support the strikers' families. Initially rebuffed by the Union, the group identifies a tiny mining village in Wales and sets off to make their donation in person. As the strike drags on, the two groups discover that standing together makes for the strongest union of all. For more information about PRIDE, visit www.cbsfilms.com/pride Miss Brookside 2015 Pageant Saturday, October 18th, 2014; 6:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave The Miss Brookside Scholarship Pageant will select the new Miss Brookside 2015 and Miss Brookside's Outstanding Teen 2015 on October 18th, 2014, at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave. The pageant will be held at 6:30 p.m. and will include Interview, Talent, Evening Wear, On-Stage Question, and Lifestyle and Fitness in Swimsuit. New this year is the Brookside Stars Program. This program allows girls between the ages of 5 and 11 the chance to interact with the Brookside Queens, create a special craft, and appear on stage in a tiara with a Miss contestant. General Admission tickets are $15.00 and will be available at the door, early arrival is recommended. For more information visit www.MissBrooksidePageant.com facebook/MissBrooksidePageant and Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Franny; The Queen of Provincetown' by John Preston You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In Franny, the Queen of Provincetown, John Preston created one of his most memorable characters from among the more than 30 books he authored or edited over his storied career. Franny is a proud, protective friend to the gay men of Provincetown, Massachusetts, as they fight their battles against self-hatred and ostracism. Haunted by the loss of his first love, Franny vows never to let fear and anger consume those who are treated differently for who they are. It's Franny's goal to ensure that there is a place in the world for everyone who feels they do not belong. JOHN PRESTON FRANNY the ~ueen of PROVINCETOWN First published to wide acclaim in 1983, Franny was a book of gay heroism and camaraderie in the shadow of the burgeoning AIDS crisis. Today, one can read Franny with a sense of nostalgia and with the knowledge that Franny's dreams of a society that accepts gays and lesbians without question is closer to fruition, but far from complete. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:32 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d7b42ec157e05fc1aaa05756eb1d831a.pdf c0b004480b0865649a39541432f050f5 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... eNews October 22nd, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Halloween 2014 SAGENet Marriage Equality Photos --- Welcome to the eNews. For an entire week, from Saturday October 25th through Saturday November 1st, the Equality Center will be overrun with zombies! Test your courage and come by for a zombified tour! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug Wedding Resources TMSL LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves A Murder of Storytellers Computer Boot Camp Equality Business Alliance http://www.theGardenTrug.com Book Signing First Thursday Art Show Guys Dine Too Garden Tru Veterans Day Lunch Trans Day of Remembrance nursery, flor ist & gifts EBA Sponsor OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver [~311 Love our Strore? Like us on Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101st & Delaware 918.528.3828 Straight No Chaser FairHousing - -Survey -Reiki Sessions Tantra 1 for Men 2015 Call for Art LGBT History Month Zombie House 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For one week only, you can come see them at the Zombie House October 25th through November 1st 6:00 pm - 11:00 pm. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa but caution: if and when they bite you... you will become one of them. Get your tickets at the door, $10 for adults and $5 for students. OUT OK Screening OUT OK Film Festival OSU Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 20th, 7:00 pm OkEq hosts SAGENet Annual Meeting Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins. ________ Oklahomans for Equality is hosting the SAGENet Annual Meeting this week, October 22nd through 24th. During this conference, 27 cities across the nation, who participate in the SAGE program, will be in Tulsa, OK. The mission of SAGE is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. Thanks to our sponsors for this year's conference: Ameriprise Wood-Stone Home Design Studio The Insurance Crew BOK Center / SMG Red Sky Liquor & Wine The Garden Trug Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... Counseling Services Tulsa, OK for the conference 2014 Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality Business Alliance directory where you can find all kinds of LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. Tulsa Metro Softball League Counseling Services 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ,i."\;~ ~ ~ .1£ ~ Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org TULSA PRIDE ,.,,..... 00 2010 _ Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org f ---- I • . Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm , - I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be November 5th. Grieving Well MY BODY A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Next class on October 26th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Host location is TBA. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Facilitated by John Madigan sage Book Signing with Arin Andrews and Katie Hill Services and Advocacy Wednesday, November 5th, 2014; 6:30 pm for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders On Wednesday, November 5th, 2014, Oklahomans for Equality will host a book signing with Arin Andrews and Katie Hill. Katie and Arin have both recently published books and will share some short chapters of their books and then answer questions for the audience. The book signing will follow. Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender reassignment." 8om. l SSEf .1.M(ltlOIR INTUhSITIOII • KATIE RAIN HILL Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecret Life of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." ~ f I/, ~ TheNot•So-S.Cr•tL..f• of,T,,nog•'l<krlnn ARIN ANDREWS First Thursday Art Gallery Reception November 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Hamilton in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Guys Dine Too Tuesday, November 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at the Cheesecake Factory on Tuesday, November 4th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. The Cheesecake Factory is located at 8711 E 71st St www.thecheesecakefactory.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... if you plan on attending. 918.592.0088 Veterans Day Lunch with SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, November 11th, 2014; 12:0 pm - 1:30 pm Today After you attend the Veterans Day Parade, come by and join SAGE Tulsa for lunch when we honor our LGBT veterans. Olrlahoman• for Equ111lity i• spon sored by The Veterans Day Parade will start at 11:00 am on Tuesday, November 11th. SAGE Tulsa will host a Veterans Day Lunch at 12:00 pm and is inviting everyone to come by afterwards and join us for lunch and honor our LGBT veterans. Trans Day of Remembrance Wednesday, November 19th, 2014; 6:30 pm Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center To pay homage, as well as raise awareness, of those whose lives were lost due to acts of anti-transgender violence, Oklahomans for Equality will observe Transgender Day of Remembrance on Wednesday, October 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. This is a free event where we will honor the memory of the lives of our brothers and sisters so they will not be forgotten. https://www.facebook.com/events/463586317114769/ The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... Ask me for FREE sample!!! All natural products fo r diabeti cs , weight loss, pai n, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti T: (918) 361-<1188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.net lose wa1ght • Git h1 • Improve performance • lncrnse 1nugy Straight No Chaser - Happy Hour Tour Friday, October 24th, 2014; 7:30 pm Brady Theater 105 W Brady St Tickets are available at Protixonline.com or by phone at 866.977.6849 If the phrase "male a cappella group" conjures up an image of students in blue blazers, ties, and khakis singing traditional college songs on ivied campuses... think again. Straight No Chaser (SNC) are not strait-laced, but neither are they vaudeville-style kitsch. They have emerged as a phenomenon with a massive fanbase, numerous national TV appearances and proven success with CD releases. The HAPPY HOUR TOUR comes on the heels of the release of Under The Influence, their fourth album release through Atlantic Records. The album features contributions from superstars Jason Mraz, Rob Thomas, Phil Collins, Dolly Parton and more! Straight No Chaser is the real deal, the captivating sound of ten unadulterated human voices coming together to make extraordinary music that is moving people in a fundamental sense... and with a sense of humor. On the road, Straight No Chaser has built a reputation as an unforgettable live act. For more information, please visit www.sncmusic.com Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Tantra 1 for Men Friday, November 7th through Sunday, November 9th Presented by the Body Electric, this workshop is an introduction to the teachings of Tantra. In a safe and facilitated space, the group will explore the principles and tools for living life with greater freedom, creativity, and passion. To do this, they create experiments to practice erotic touch, conscious breath, movement, and meditation, supplemented with lecture and discussion. If this sounds of interest and/or you would like to know more, please visit the Body Electric website at: http://www.thebodyelectricschool.com/ mens-introductory/tantra-1-for-men/ or contact Andr� directly at 918.406.4659. 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline is November 15th, 2014 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, - - - - with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Beginning October 1st, 2014, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 22nd - June Jordan October 23rd - Kathy Kozachenko October 24th - Armistead Maupin October 25th - CeCe McDonald October 26th - Freddie Mercury October 27th - John Cameron Mitchell October 28th - Frank Ocean October 29th - Megan Rapinoe Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com OUT OK Pre-Film Festival Screening November 2nd, 2014; 2:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... TOM AT THE FARM (Canada/France) French with English Subtitles Following the untimely death of his boyfriend, a young hip copywriter meets his lover's strange and dark family. Hitchcock would be proud. Venue: The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Cost: $10 or free with the purchase of a 2014 OUT OK VIP PASS Popcorn and refreshments will be served Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality For OUT OK Passes, visit www.out-ok.com OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 OUT OK RETURNS Transformative. Engrossing. And totally Entertaining... 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... There's an exciting and diverse world waiting to be explored during the latest edition of OUT OK, the Oklahoma GLBT International Film Festival. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Tasting Life Twice: Literary Lesbian Fiction by New American Writers' edited by EJ Levy 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Versed in sexual politics and fluent in the language of alienation, these 25 short works chart new territories without the maps or compasses of social convention. This bravura collection showcases the fierce power and startling diversity of contemporary lesbian writing. Includes early work by acclaimed emerging talents such as Cheryl Strayed, Stephanie Grant, and Mei Ng, as well as stunning pieces by Carole Maso, Mary Gaitskill, Ana Castillo, Rebecca Brown, and others. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library .• •••~ • • •• •• :. Vol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:33 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c900fd28bfc413b21965bdb992938062.pdf bc035dcdcf44c3d663bb9bc8aabdf4d3 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... eNews October 30th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice Halloween 2014 Marriage - - - Equality - - - -Photos --- Welcome to the eNews. Now through Saturday November 1st, the Equality Center will be overrun with zombies! Test your courage and come by for a zombified tour! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Tulsa World Out-of-States Marriages Wedding Resources Early Voting LGBT Shirt Quilt Computer Boot Camp Book Signing Ask me for FREE sample!!! First Thursday Art Show Equality Business Alliance Our Bodies, Ourselves A Murder of Storytellers All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.pexusslim.com/robinlabutti T: (918) 361-4188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose W8tghl • Git lI1 • Improve performanc1 • lncrnn 1n1rgy Be Our Voice, Give A Day To celebrate their wedding on October 21st, 2014, Ray Mahoney & Eduardo Suarez have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring the LGBT Hotline for the day of November 4th, 2014. Congratulations Ray and Ed! Guys Dine Too Veterans Day Lunch Tulsa Pride 2015 Trans Day of Remembrance EBA Sponsor OUT OK Screening OUT OK Film Festival Sam Harris Fair Housing Survey Reiki Sessions Tantra 1 for Men 2015 Call for Art World AIDS Day LGBT History Month OSU Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign ------------------ - 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Zombie House 2014 Find Us on Facebook Now through Saturday, November 1st There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For one week only, you can come see them at the Zombie House now through November 1st 6:00 pm - 11:00 pm. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa but caution: if and when they bite you... you will become one of them. Get your tickets at the door, $10 for adults and $5 for students. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit We want your Marriage Equality photos! The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins. ________ If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - - with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Engagement, Wedding and Anniversary Announcements in the Tulsa World Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... The Tulsa World now accepts engagement, wedding and anniversary announcements for brides and brides and grooms and grooms. 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org TULS.ttWORLD You can fill out the announcement forms at www.tulsaworld.com/celebrations Registering your out-of-state marriage license with the state of Oklahoma Counseling Services Couples who have obtained marriage licenses in other states or other countries are encouraged to register their out-of-state marriage license with the Tulsa County Clerk. Couples must provide the original marriage license and pay a $13 fee for the first page and $2 for additional page to register the license. The Tulsa County Clerk takes cash or personal check but no debit or credit cards for payment. Please remember the County Clerk records out-of-state marriage licenses. The Court Clerk issues in-state marriage licenses. Go to the County Clerk not the Court Clerk to register your out-of-state marriage license. Tulsa County Clerk Tulsa County Administration Bldg. 500 South Denver Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103-3832 County Clerk Switchboard: (918) 596-5801 Office hours are Monday through Friday from 8:30 am until 5:00 pm Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality Business Alliance directory where you can find all kinds of --------LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Counseling Services The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Early Voting now available for Nov 4 Election Ends Saturday November 1st Voters can cast their votes early now at their County Election Board. Early voting is available from 8:00 am to 6:00 pm Thursday and Friday and from 9:00 am to 2:00 pm on Saturday. There will be no voting on Sunday or Monday. The general election is Tuesday, November 4th. In Tulsa County, voters can cast their early ballot at the Election Board at 555 N Denver Ave, or Hardesty Library at 8316 E. 93rd St. Counseling Services LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ~ ~ ~ :7~ J:- -,1£ ~~ Saturdays By appointment sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org TULSA PRIDE ,,.,...,.so.c2010 0 "'""" Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Next class on November 9th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Book Signing with Katie Hill and Arin Andrews Wednesday, November 5th, 2014; 6:30 pm On Wednesday, November 5th, 2014, Oklahomans for Equality will host a book signing with Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews. Katie and Arin have both recently published books and will share some favorite passages from their books and then answer questions for the audience. The book signing will follow. Books will be available for purchase at this event. (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender reassignment." .1.MOt~IR IN TROSITIO: KATIE RAIN HILL 8 :' u;,_, 1SSEf Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecret Life of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." ~ f I/, ,P TheNot•So-S«r•tL..f• of,Tr,nogen<krlHn ARIN ANDREWS First Thursday Art Gallery Reception November 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The November Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Hamilton in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Mixed Company located at 302 S Cheyenne Ave, Tulsa OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. MIXe:C COMPANY Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be November 5th. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. The Mixed Company 302 S Cheyenne Ave Tulsa OK 74103 Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, November 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at the Cheesecake Factory on Tuesday, November 4th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. The Cheesecake Factory is located at 8711 E 71st St mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 www.thecheesecakefactory.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Veterans Day Lunch with SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, November 11th, 2014; 12:0 pm - 1:30 pm After you attend the Veterans Day Parade, come by and join SAGE Tulsa for lunch when we honor our LGBT veterans. The Veterans Day Parade will start at 11:00 am on Tuesday, November 11th. SAGE Tulsa will host a Veterans Day Lunch at 12:00 pm and is inviting everyone to come by afterwards and join us for lunch and honor our LGBT veterans. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Tulsa Pride 2015 Community Meeting Tuesday, November 12th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join us on Tuesday, November 12th, 2014 at 7:00 pm for the first community meeting for Tulsa Pride 2015 at the Equality Center. The meeting will be open to the public and anybody who's interested in helping out is encouraged to attend. Trans Day of Remembrance Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Wednesday, November 19th, 2014; 6:30 pm individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center To pay homage, as well as raise awareness, of those whose lives were lost due to acts of anti-transgender violence, Oklahomans for Equality will observe Transgender Day of Remembrance on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. This is a free event where we will honor the memory of the lives of our brothers and sisters so they will not be forgotten. https://www.facebook.com/events/463586317114769/ The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug http://www.theGardenTrug.com Garden Tru Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno nursery, florist & gifts OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver f~ 1Love our Strore? Like Us On Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101 st & Delaware 918.528.3828 OUT OK Pre-Film Festival Screening November 2nd, 2014; 2:00 pm TOM AT THE FARM (Canada/France) French with English Subtitles Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org ---Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Following the untimely death of his boyfriend, a young hip copywriter meets his lover's strange and dark family. Hitchcock would be proud. Venue: The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Cost: $10 or free with the purchase of a 2014 OUT OK VIP PASS Popcorn and refreshments will be served Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality For OUT OK Passes, visit www.out-ok.com Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 The Oklahoma GLBT nternationa Fi m Festiva 14.15.16 NOV 2014 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday PROGRAM AND TICKETS AVAILABLE ONLINE NOW! Transformative. Engrossing. And totally Entertaining... There's an exciting and diverse world waiting to be explored during the latest edition of OUT OK, the Oklahoma GLBT International Film Festival. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality Sam Harris on the Oprah Winfrey Network Sunday, November 2nd; 8:00 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... H.O.P.E. Testing Oklahoma's own, Sam Harris, is set to appear on the OWN show "Oprah: Where Are They Now?". The program will run on Sunday, November 2nd at 8:00 pm and 11:00 pm. Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- Tantra 1 for Men Friday, November 7th through Sunday, November 9th Presented by the Body Electric, this workshop is an introduction to the teachings of Tantra. In a safe and facilitated space, the group will explore the principles and tools for living life with greater freedom, creativity, and passion. To do this, they create experiments to practice erotic touch, conscious breath, movement, and meditation, supplemented with lecture and discussion. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- If this sounds of interest and/or you would like to know more, please visit the Body Electric website at: http://www.thebodyelectricschool.com/ mens-introductory/tantra-1-for-men/ or contact Andr� directly at 918.406.4659. 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline is November 15th, 2014 The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" World AIDS Day Monday, December 1st, 2014; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host Dr. Perry Halkitis on World AIDS Day on Monday, December 1st. OkEq will host a cocktail reception at 6:30 pm and follow with a lecture featuring Dr. Halkitis at 7:00 pm. Dr. Halkitis recently published "The AIDS Generation" which documents the lived experiences of HIV-positive gay men who are presently middle-aged, long-term survivors of HIV/AIDS. Council Oak Mens Chorale will also perform at the event. WORLD AIDS ~ 1.DECEMBER 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2014, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 30th - Lou Sullivan October 31st - Sylvester To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Haunted By Home: The Life and Letters of Lynn Riggs' by Phyllis Cole Braunlich You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Phyllis Cole Braunlich sketches the life story of Lynn Riggs (18991954), the playwright best known as the author of Green Grow the Lilacs, the play that formed the basis for the Rodgers THE LIFE and Hammerstein musical Oklahoma! Today AND Riggs is recognized as one of the twentieth LETTERS OF century's most innovative playwrights. HAUNTED BY HOME LYNN RIGGS Santa Fe, Hollywood, New York, and Chapel BY Hill: these were the cities that Lynn Riggs, PHYLm COLE "father of the folk play," called home, along with BRAUNLICH eastern Oklahoma, the scene of his memorable re-creations of Oklahoma Territory before statehood. Riggs traveled widely to make his living and his fame, and along the way he earned the friendship of many avant-garde writers and successful theatre people of his time. This biography is also a chronicle of literary and caf� society on both coasts and in New Mexico during the 1920s, '30s, and '40s. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:37 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/78d28070d992e57783fc005cda3e5e44.pdf 18cb928d488811afa20b648fdf604ab2 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... eNews November 6th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor First Thursday Art Show Veterans Day Lunch Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Join SAGE Tulsa on Tuesday November 11th as they host a lunch honoring LGBT Veterans. Lunch will be served at 12:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Marriage Equality Photos --- The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug Volunteer http://www.theGardenTrug.com Tulsa Pride 2015 LGBT Shirt Quilt Computer Boot Camp Our Bodies, Ourselves A Murder of Storytellers Trans Day of Remembrance Come Home for Thanksgiving Garden Tru Books Now Available ACA Assistance nursery, flor ist & gifts EBA Sponsor Tulsa World OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver ['-1'3.1Love our Strore? Like Us On Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101 st & Delaware 918.528.3828 Out-of-States Marriages Wedding Resources Fairy Tree OUT OK Film Festival Reiki Sessions First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Tantra 1 for Men November 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm 2015 Call for Art World AIDS Day The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Hamilton in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. OSU Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Veterans Day Lunch with SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, November 11th, 2014; 12:00 - 1:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... After you attend the Veterans Day Parade, come by and join SAGE Tulsa for lunch when we honor our LGBT veterans. The Veterans Day Parade will start at 11:00 am on Tuesday, November 11th. SAGE Tulsa will host a Veterans Day Lunch at 12:00 pm and is inviting everyone to come by afterwards and join us for lunch and honor our LGBT veterans. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g EQJBusmess UALITY Alliance The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Mixed Company located at 302 S Cheyenne Ave, Tulsa OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. OkEq Art Exhibit The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Susan Hamilton. ________ MIXe:C COM P A N Y The Mixed Company 302 S Cheyenne Ave Tulsa OK 74103 Tulsa Pride 2015 Community Meeting Tuesday, November 11th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join us on Tuesday, November 11th, 2014 at 7:00 pm for the first community meeting for Tulsa Pride 2015 at the Equality Center. The meeting will be open to the public and anybody who's interested in helping out is encouraged to attend. We want your Marriage Equality photos! Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ~ ~d';, ,>< .. "" -fl,, ~ Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 TULSA PRIDE .. , 2010 • Of' CfLEfl""T"'O ""!>t Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Next class on November 9th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Volunteer Opportunities November Here are some of our upcoming volunteer opportunities for November. If you would like to volunteer, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. OkEq needs volunteers to assist with the Route 66 Marathon. The Equality Center is a water stop just before the finish line. Shifts from 9:00 am to 4:30 pm Sunday, November 23rd, 2014. This will be a wonderful time to cheer the runners on and to be a part of the race. This will be a block party type of atmosphere and a fun day. Follow this link to 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... register. Select "Water/Gatorade Stops" and the Equality Center is stop #16 on the list. Volunteers are needed for clean up after the Come Home for Thanksgiving meal on Thursday, November 27th. 10:00 am - 2:00 pm Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be November 19th. I Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org MY BODY A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Trans Day of Remembrance Wednesday, November 19th, 2014; 6:30 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --SOS Group Dennis R. Neill Equality Center To pay homage, as well as raise awareness, of those whose lives were lost due to acts of anti-transgender violence, Oklahomans for Equality will observe Transgender Day of Remembrance on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. This is a free event where we will honor the memory of the lives of our brothers and sisters so they will not be forgotten. https://www.facebook.com/events/463586317114769/ Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... Come Home for Thanksgiving f Thursday, November 27th, 2014; 12:00 pm I • . , - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Equality Center. Harpist, Linda Paul, will provide special music to accompany the meal. Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch will be provided by: Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Open Table, UCC University United Methodist Church Trinity Episcopal Church Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews Books now available SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... Now available for purchase on the OkEq website store are books recently published by both Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews. The books are available for pick up at the Equality Center for $20.00 (Includes Tax) or for $25.00 shipped to you. Click here to visit the website store. Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender reassignment." for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders IM(Mlll 1-TIIUITIM .,KArfERAJNHIU 8 0R(e Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecretLife of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." ASSE f Tulsa Shambhala Meditation HII UDREWS Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Ask me for FREE sample!!! T: (918) 361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.ploxusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.not Lose we,ght • Get flt • lmp1ove performance • Increase 1nuuy Engagement, Wedding and Anniversary Announcements in the Tulsa World Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... 918.592.0088 The Tulsa World now accepts engagement, wedding and anniversary announcements for brides and brides and grooms and grooms. TULSitWORLD You can fill out the announcement forms at www.tulsaworld.com/celebrations Registering your out-of-state marriage license with the state of Oklahoma Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Couples who have obtained marriage licenses in other states or other countries are encouraged to register their out-of-state marriage license with the Tulsa County Clerk. Couples must provide the original marriage license and pay a $13 fee for the first page and $2 for additional page to register the license. The Tulsa County Clerk takes cash or personal check but no debit or credit cards for payment. Please remember the County Clerk records out-of-state marriage licenses. The Court Clerk issues in-state marriage licenses. Go to the County Clerk not the Court Clerk to register your out-of-state marriage license. Tulsa County Clerk Tulsa County Administration Bldg. 500 South Denver Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103-3832 County Clerk Switchboard: (918) 596-5801 Office hours are Monday through Friday from 8:30 am until 5:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... Equality Business Alliance directory where you can find all kinds of LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 14th. OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... The Oklahoma GLBT nternationa Fi m Festive 14.15.16 NOV 2014 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday WE'RE COMING! www.out-ok.com Full Schedule Online November 14, 15, 16 Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Don't miss Brazil's award-winning official submission for 2015's Oscar. THE WAY HE LOOKS shines a warm glow on the sexual awakening of a blind teenager. Soon to be a classic coming-out story for all ages. Friday, November 14th, 7:30 pm at Circle Cinema. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality Reiki Sessions By Appointment Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tantra 1 for Men Friday, November 7th through Sunday, November 9th Presented by the Body Electric, this workshop is an introduction to the teachings of Tantra. In a safe and facilitated space, the group will explore the principles and tools for living life with greater freedom, creativity, and passion. To do this, they create experiments to practice erotic touch, conscious breath, movement, and meditation, supplemented with lecture and discussion. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- If this sounds of interest and/or you would like to know more, please visit the Body Electric website at: http://www.thebodyelectricschool.com/ mens-introductory/tantra-1-for-men/ or contact Andr� directly at 918.406.4659. 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline is November 15th, 2014 Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" World AIDS Day Monday, December 1st, 2014; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host Dr. Perry Halkitis on World AIDS Day on Monday, December 1st. OkEq will host a cocktail reception at 6:30 pm and follow with a lecture featuring Dr. Halkitis at 7:00 pm. Dr. Halkitis recently published "The AIDS Generation" which documents the lived experiences of HIV-positive gay men who are presently middle-aged, long-term survivors of HIV/AIDS. Council Oak Mens Chorale will also perform at the event. Books will be available for purchase. WORLD AIDS ~ - 1.DECEMBER Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'This Book This Hill These People: Poems' by Lynn Riggs You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Part-Cherokee like his Claremore, Oklahoma predecessor Will Rogers, Lynn Riggs (1899-1954) is best known as the father of the play Oklahoma!, which in 1943 was adapted from his original Broadway Production called Green Grow the Lilacs. This is his second volume of poems, sonnets and lyrics about loyalty, love, kindness, loneliness, war and wisdom collected from those he published in many popular magazines during his lifetime. They reveal a sensitive, literate man of the world who had a compulsion to tell the Oklahoma story, which is the story of mankind: a man who during his lifetime was understood least by those who affected his life most. Biographical introductions by Phyllis Braunlich, writer and instructor at Oral Roberts University. Two-color Western drawings created for illustrations by the late Oklahoma artist Ray Piercey. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:38 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/61969be92d11e5405fd18cb7866653e7.pdf b8d4dbc76b708cd12ca4d7905a51fe1c PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... eNews November 13th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Trans Day of Remembrance Equality Business Alliance Come Home for Thanksgiving Welcome to the eNews. Join OkEq on Wednesday, November 19th for our Transgender Day of Remembrance Event beginning at 6:30 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim OUT OK Film Festival Fairy Tree Marriage Equality -- - - -Photos --LGBT Shirt Quilt Volunteer Our Bodies, Ourselves A Murder of Storytellers Ask me for FREE sample!!! Books Now Available ACA Assistance First Thursday Art Show EBA Sponsor T: (918) 361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.pexusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose W8tghl • Git lI1 • Improve performanc1 • lncrnn 1n1rgy Marriage Matters... for Everyone Out-of-States Marriages Trans Day of Remembrance Wednesday, November 19th, 2014; 6:30 pm Tulsa World Wedding Resources Tulsa Threat Reiki Sessions 2015 Call for Art World AIDS Day Free Screening World AIDS Day Pride Store Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Rainbow Library Volunteer To pay homage, as well as raise awareness, of those whose lives were lost due to acts of anti-transgender violence, Oklahomans for Equality will observe Transgender Day of Remembrance on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. This is a free event where we will honor the memory of the lives of our brothers and sisters so they will not be forgotten. https://www.facebook.com/events/463586317114769/ Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... Find Us on Facebook The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Mixed Company located at 302 S Cheyenne Ave, Tulsa OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. MIX~C COMPANY The Mixed Company 302 S Cheyenne Ave Tulsa OK 74103 Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 27th, 2014; 12:00 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Susan Hamilton. ________ Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Equality Center. Special music will accompany the meal. Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page ---- Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Open Table, UCC Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... University United Methodist Church Trinity Episcopal Church Boston Avenue United Methodist Church Maybello@OkEq.org ------ OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 MOVIES! MOVIES! MOVIES! www.out-ok.com Full Schedule Online Join us Friday, November 14th for 3 days of Cinematic brilliance with a twist of lavender! See you in the Dark! Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Don't miss Brazil's award-winning official submission for 2015's Oscar. THE WAY HE LOOKS shines a warm glow on the sexual awakening of a blind teenager. Soon to be a classic coming-out story for all ages. Friday, November 14th, 7:30 pm at Circle Cinema. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 14th. We want your Marriage Equality photos! Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. iJi~¼ TULSA PRIDE ...... . .,. 2010 G"'"°"' Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Volunteer Opportunities November Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Here are some of our upcoming volunteer opportunities for November. If you would like to volunteer, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. OkEq needs volunteers to assist with the Route 66 Marathon. The Equality Center is a water stop just before the finish line. Shifts from 9:00 am to 4:30 pm Sunday, November 23rd, 2014. This will be a wonderful time to cheer the SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... runners on and to be a part of the race. This will be a block party type of atmosphere and a fun day. Follow this link to register. Select "Water/ Gatorade Stops" and the Equality Center is stop #16 on the list. Volunteers are needed for clean up after the Come Home for Thanksgiving meal on Thursday, November 27th. 10:00 am - 2:00 pm (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be November 19th. I MY BODY A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews Books now available Now available for purchase on the OkEq website store are books recently published by both Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews. The books are available for pick up at the Equality Center for $20.00 (Includes Tax) or for $25.00 shipped to you. Click here to visit the website store. -- ~ '"lV ~IIOill /" -~ Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... ~ reassignment." SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecretLife of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." g OD'(e , 1SSE ·• Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: November 19th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm December 3rd, 10th & 17th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm First Thursday Art Gallery Opening Reception Thursday, December 4th, 2014; 6:00 pm The December OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa members in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 4th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... http://www.theGardenTrug.com Garden Tru nursery, florist & gifts mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 0KE0 eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver f~ 1Love our Strore? Like us On Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101 st & Delaware 918.528.3828 'Marriage Matters... for Everyone' Conference Saturday, November 15th, 2014; 8:30 am - 3:00 pm College Hill Presbyterian Church, 712 S. Columbia Ave. On November 15th, The Covenant Network of Presbyterians will hold a conference titled "Marriage Matters ... For Everyone" at College Hill Presbyterian Church. The keynote speaker will be Mark Achtemeier, a teaching elder in the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) and a theologian and writer who has been a pastor and professor. Workshops will address several issues related to same-sex marriage, including a session by Achtemeier on what the Bible says and does not say about homosexuality. For more information, visit covnetpres.org/tulsa-ok-regional-conference Registration is $25 and free for students. Registering your out-of-state marriage license with the state of Oklahoma Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Couples who have obtained marriage licenses in other states or other countries are encouraged to register their out-of-state marriage license with the Tulsa County Clerk. Couples must provide the original marriage license and pay a $13 fee for the first page and $2 for additional page to register the license. The Tulsa County Clerk takes cash or personal check but no debit or credit cards for payment. Please remember the County Clerk Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... records out-of-state marriage licenses. The Court Clerk issues in-state marriage licenses. Go to the County Clerk not the Court Clerk to register your out-of-state marriage license. Tulsa County Clerk Tulsa County Administration Bldg. 500 South Denver Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103-3832 County Clerk Switchboard: (918) 596-5801 Office hours are Monday through Friday from 8:30 am until 5:00 pm Engagement, Wedding and Anniversary Announcements in the Tulsa World individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm The Tulsa World now accepts engagement, wedding and anniversary announcements for brides and brides and grooms and grooms. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. TULSitWORLD You can fill out the announcement forms at www.tulsaworld.com/celebrations Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality Alliance - -Business --- -directory - - where you can find all kinds of LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. Tulsa Threat Women's Football Tryouts Saturday, November 15th, 2014; 10:00 am - 2:00 pm OKLAHOMA ' S BEST Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org WOMEN ' S TACKLE FOOTBALL Curious to see if you have what it takes to play? Tulsa Threat Mini-Camps November 15th from 10:00am - 2:00pm December 13th from 10:00am - 2:00pm Sign-up Fee : $25.00/Person Location : Thoreau Midd l e School 7370 E. 71st Street Tulsa , OK 74133 For more information about our team and upcoming •vents visit our website at www .tuls.1thr•3 com EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Thoreau Demonstration Academy 7370 E 71st St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Returning Tulsa Threat players and all interested potential new "Threats" are encouraged to be at Thoreau Demonstration Academy for their first ever "Mini-Camp/Tryout combination. Those trying out for the first time will require a $25 registration fee. This allows you to attend one or both of the Mini-Camps, with a final opportunity to tryout on January 3rd.The fee will also include 1 Threat t-shirt to show our appreciation of your interest in women's football. For more information visit www.tulsathreat.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Reiki Sessions Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline is November 15th, 2014 includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, - - with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" World AIDS Day Free Screening Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... Monday, December 1st, 2014; 11:30 am Free Documentary Screening on World AIDS Day Mondoy. December I. 2014, ol OU-Tulso Open to the Pubic Q~epSOll h Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org The University of Oklahoma Health Sciences Center College of Public Health in collaboration with Tulsa CARES, Oklahomans for Equality, HOPE, the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, OU Sooner Allies, and the OU Sooner Association for Equality (SAFE) present a Free Documentary Screening on World AIDS Day at OU-Tulsa. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Monday, December 1st, 2014 11:30 am - 1:00 pm To RSVP or for more information: Contact Julia-Leighty (918) 660-3670 Julia-Leighty@ouhsc.edu World AIDS Day Monday, December 1st, 2014; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host Dr. Perry Halkitis on World AIDS Day on Monday, December 1st. OkEq will WORLD host a cocktail reception at 6:30 pm and follow with a AIDS lecture featuring Dr. Halkitis at 7:00 pm. Dr. Halkitis recently published "The AIDS Generation" which documents the lived experiences of HIV-positive gay 1 DECEMBER men who are presently middle-aged, long-term survivors of HIV/AIDS. Council Oak Mens Chorale will also perform at the event. Books will be available for purchase. Community sponsors include Planned Parenthood of the Heartland, Tulsa CARES, Sisters in Song,Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, H.O.P.E Health Outreach Prevention Education, and Council Oak Mens Chorale. ::;si. MIIYN HA ll flS Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Lesbians Raising Sons: An Anthology' edited by Jess Wells You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Traditional philosophy maintains that women alone raising sons cannot make them into "true men"--that households without men have no true "role model" for sons. Working from this presumption, this book addresses the many challenges faced by lesbians raising sons. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:39 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f6c314948d513f161dec54fef1950510.pdf 8bdf6cc610e88e6585b4faf0ae54b9a7 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... eNews November 19th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice Trans Day of Remembrance Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Join OkEq on Wednesday, November 19th for our Transgender Day of Remembrance Event beginning at 6:30 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug http://www.theGardenTrug.com Come Home for Thanksgiving Basketball League Fairy Tree First Thursday Art Show World AIDS Day Guys Dine Too 7th Annual Falalala Ball EBA Sponsor ACA Assistance Garden Tru Our Bodies, Ourselves A Murder of Storytellers nursery, flor ist & gifts Volunteer LGBT Shirt Quilt OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver ['-1'3.1Love our Strore? Like Us On Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101 st & Delaware 918.528.3828 COMC Books Now Available Marriage Equality Photos --Tulsa World Wedding Resources Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their 2nd anniversary, Rose Padgett and Michael Potts have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Reiki Sessions World AIDS Day Free Screening Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook and are sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sunday, November 23rd, 2014 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... Thank you and congrats, Rose and Michael! Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign - - - - - - - - - - - - --- -- - Trans Day of Remembrance Wednesday, November 19th, 2014; 6:30 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit Dennis R. Neill Equality Center To pay homage, as well as raise awareness, of those whose lives were lost due to acts of anti-transgender violence, Oklahomans for Equality will observe Transgender Day of Remembrance on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. This is a free event where we will honor the memory of the lives of our brothers and sisters so they will not be forgotten. https://www.facebook.com/events/463586317114769/ The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Susan Hamilton. ________ Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Mixed Company located at 302 S Cheyenne Ave, Tulsa OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. MIX~C COMPANY Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 The Mixed Company 302 S Cheyenne Ave Tulsa OK 74103 Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 27th, 2014; 12:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... Counseling Services Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Equality Center. Special music will accompany the meal. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Open Table, UCC University United Methodist Church Trinity Episcopal Church Boston Avenue United Methodist Church Fellowship Congregational Church Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 14th. First Thursday Art Gallery Opening Reception Thursday, December 4th, 2014; 6:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The December OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa members in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 4th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. World AIDS Day Monday, December 1st, 2014; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center WORLD Oklahomans for Equality will host Dr. Perry Halkitis on AIDS World AIDS Day on Monday, December 1st. OkEq will host a cocktail reception at 6:30 pm and follow with a lecture featuring Dr. Halkitis at 7:00 pm. Dr. Halkitis _1.DECEMBER recently published "The AIDS Generation" which documents the lived experiences of HIV-positive gay men who are presently middle-aged, long-term survivors of HIV/AIDS. Sisters in Song and Council Oak Mens Chorale will perform at the event. Books will be available for purchase. Community sponsors include Planned Parenthood of the Heartland, Tulsa CARES, PFLAG Tulsa, Sisters in Song,Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, H.O.P.E Health Outreach Prevention Education, Council Oak Mens Chorale, Grateful Day Foundation, the Hyatt Regency Tulsa and Phillips Theological Seminary. ~ SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • ~ . I , I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Guys Dine Too Tuesday, December 2nd, 2014; 6:30 pm The December meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Baxter's Interubran Grill on Tuesday, December 2nd, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Baxter's is located at 717 S Houston Ave. www.baxtersgrill.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com ---if you plan on attending. 7th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 20th, 2014; 7:00 pm MAKE SANTA BlUSH GO FOR NAUGHTY _, Dennis R. Neill quality Cente r-- ( Don your gay apparel and join us for the 7th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash bar and light hor d'oeuvres. Firefighters from the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters Calendar will be in attendance. They will be available for photos and to sign copies of their calendar. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries or non-perishable food items for the Parish Church of St Jerome and Diversity Christian Fellowship Church. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servtces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgendcr Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... Ask me for FREE sample!!! ·rim All natural products fo r diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti T: (918) 361-<1188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. lose weight • Get ht • Improve performance • Increase 1n1rgy Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: November 19th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm December 3rd, 10th & 17th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be November 19th. I MY BODY Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Volunteer Opportunities November environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Here are some of our upcoming volunteer opportunities for November. If you would like to volunteer, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. ACA Assistance OkEq needs volunteers to assist with the Route 66 Marathon. The Equality Center is a water stop just before the finish line. Shifts from 9:00 am to 4:30 pm Sunday, November 23rd, 2014. This will be a wonderful time to cheer the runners on and to be a part of the race. This will be a block party type of atmosphere and a fun day. Follow this link to register. Select "Water/Gatorade Stops" and the Equality Center is stop #16 on the list. Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Volunteers are needed for clean up after the Come Home for Thanksgiving meal on Thursday, November 27th. 10:00 am - 2:00 pm Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. Lambda Al-Anon Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Council Oak Mens Chorale Holiday Schedule A Murder of Storytellers Tuesdays at Trinity, November 25th; 12:05 pm Every Friday 7:00 pm Council Oak Mens Chorale will be performing holiday favorites at Trinity Episcopal Church, 5th and Cincinnati, 12:05 pm. 2nd Annual GLOW on the Green, Sunday November 30th; 5:00 pm council oak COU/lCJI oak mens chorolB Council Oak Men's Chorale will be singing at the GLOW on the GREEN at Guthrie Green in the Brady Arts District at 5:00 pm. Come and celebrate the season and see the Green turn on their Christmas lights! Annual World AIDS Day Commemoration, December 1st; 6:30 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... The Chorale will be singing at the Annual World AIDS Day Commemoration at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Monday evening December 1st. The Chorale was organized in 1998 to sing at the World AIDS Day Service and has sung each year after. Christmas Splendor, Tuesday December 2nd, Thursday December 4th and Friday December 5th; 8:00 pm Come start your holiday season with the Council Oak Mens Chorale as they present Christmas Splendor at Trinity Episcopal Church, 5th and Cincinnati. The Council Oak Men's Chorale under the direction of Kent Dennis will be performing many of your holiday favorites of Little Drummer Boy, Silver Bells, White Christmas, Silent Night and Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas. iDecem6er 2"4, 4'' &5'' . 'Trinity <EviscopafCliurcli- 8:00pm You won't want to miss this festive 501 . Cincinnati e - 'Tufs 0 annual tradition of holiday music, choreography and fun! Tickets are $20 and can be purchases through this web site or at the door. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno A portion of the proceeds from each concert will be given to fund audio recordings the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Fellowship Congregational Church, Sunday December 7th; 10:30 am The Chorale will be singing at the 10:30 am service at Fellowship Congregational Church. Come enjoy the holiday season with us as we worship with the wonderful congregation of FCC. The Chorale appreciates the support of the staff and congregation! Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews Books now available Now available for purchase on the OkEq website store are books recently published by both Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews. The books are available for pick up at the Equality Center for $20.00 (Includes Tax) or for $25.00 shipped to you. Click here to visit the website store. Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender reassignment." Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... oM!Mllt I~ 111,$11. . .. KA.nERAJNHILL 8 0 ll(e Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecretLife of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." ASSE , ,teJJ HIIUDREWS We want your Marriage Equality photos! EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Engagement, Wedding and Anniversary Announcements in the Tulsa World Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. The Tulsa World now accepts engagement, wedding and anniversary announcements for brides and brides and grooms and grooms. You can fill out the announcement forms at www.tulsaworld.com/celebrations Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality Business Alliance directory where you can find all kinds of -------LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20.. testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. ----- Reiki Sessions Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org By Appointment ------ Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. ----- Dennis R Neill Equality Center Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 World AIDS Day Free Screening Monday, December 1st, 2014; 11:30 am Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- 10 of 12 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... The University of Oklahoma Health Sciences Center College of Public Health in collaboration with Tulsa CARES, Oklahomans for Equality, HOPE, the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, OU Sooner Allies, and the OU Sooner Association for Equality (SAFE) present a Free Documentary Screening on World AIDS Day at OU-Tulsa. Monday, December 1st, 2014 11:30 am - 1:00 pm To RSVP or for more information: Contact Julia-Leighty (918) 660-3670 Julia-Leighty@ouhsc.edu Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Stone Butch Blues' by Leslie Feinberg You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Published in 1993, this brave, original novel is considered to be the finest account ever written of the complexities of a transgendered existence. STON[ BUTCH B S 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... Woman or man? That's the question that rages like a storm around Jess Goldberg, clouding her life and her identity. Growing up differently gendered in a blue--collar town in the 1950's, coming out as a butch in the bars and factories of the prefeminist '60s, deciding to pass as a man in order to survive when she is left without work or a community in the early '70s. This powerful, provocative and deeply moving novel sees Jess coming full circle, she learns to accept the complexities of being a transgendered person in a world demanding simple explanations: a he-she emerging whole, weathering the turbulence. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:44 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3f77e159dbd302c18c65b68499c664de.pdf 0e39ba0891a48e1bf7f3fef0bdb9e5cc PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... eNews November 25th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice Come Home for Thanksgiving Holiday Pride 2014 Welcome to the eNews. Join OkEq on Thursday, November 27th for our Thanksgiving Day meal served at 12:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Equality Business Alliance Basketball League Fairy Tree First Thursday Art Show World AIDS Day Guys Dine Too 7th Annual Falalala Ball Ask me for FREE sample!!! EBA Sponsor ACA Assistance Our Bodies, Ourselves LGBT Shirt Quilt All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.pexusslim.com/robinlabutti T: (918) 361-4188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose W8tghl • Git lI1 • Improve performanc1 • lncrnn 1n1rgy Be Our Voice, Give a Day "To all those recently married couples, Congratulations and continued happiness! To one & all, may this be a most Happy Holiday Season! To the staff and volunteers, thanks for making everyday a happy day at the Equality Center!" - Sol Smith In honor of the Thanksgiving holiday, Sol Smith made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign COMC PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Brunch Books Now Available Marriage - - - Equality - - - -Photos --Tulsa World Wedding Resources Reiki Sessions World AIDS Day Free Screening LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, December 18th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit and is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, November 27th, 2014 Thank you, Sol! The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Susan Hamilton. ________ Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign - - - - - - - --- - Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 27th, 2014; 12:00 pm Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Equality Center. Special music will accompany the meal. Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Open Table, UCC University United Methodist Church Trinity Episcopal Church ----- -----Boston Avenue United Methodist Church Fellowship Congregational Church - -------- - Holiday Pride 2014 Sunday, November 30th, 2014; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 As part of Downtown Tulsa's "Ready, Set, GLOW!" celebration, the Dennis R.Neill Equality will be lit up with holiday lights in a special ceremony with a laser light show on Sunday, November 30th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. Holiday Pride 2014 will continue throughout the month of December as the Equality Center will be a part of the holiday light tours of Downtown Tulsa. Ready, Set, GLOW! A Progressive Holiday Lighting Event is the official downtown holiday kick-off event, November 30th, 2014. Downtown Tulsa is becoming a traditional destination for Holiday activities. With a full schedule of events throughout the season, downtown districts are coming together for one special night to kick off GLOW: Downtown Tulsa seasonal festivities with "Ready, Set, GLOW!" For more information visit: www.downtowntulsaok.com/event/9956 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, December 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Decopolis, 607 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... E>ECOPOtlS Decopolis 607 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February Counseling Services The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq -----Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org ---- Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree --- The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 14th. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org First Thursday Art Gallery Opening Reception Thursday, December 4th, 2014; 6:00 pm • ~ . I , I Grieving Well The December OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa members in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 4th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. World AIDS Day Monday, December 1st, 2014; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host Dr. Perry Halkitis on f woRLD AIDS ---- - 1 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... World AIDS Day on Monday, December 1st. OkEq will host a cocktail reception at 6:30 pm and follow with a lecture featuring Dr. Halkitis at 7:00 pm. Dr. Halkitis recently published "The AIDS Generation" which documents the lived experiences of HIV-positive gay men who are presently middle-aged, long-term survivors of HIV/AIDS. Sisters in Song and Council Oak Mens Chorale will perform at the event. Books will be available for purchase. Community sponsors include Planned Parenthood of the Heartland, Tulsa CARES, PFLAG Tulsa, Sisters in Song,Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, H.O.P.E Health Outreach Prevention Education, Council Oak Mens Chorale, Grateful Day Foundation, the Hyatt Regency Tulsa and Phillips Theological Seminary. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather GIL' F.R\TIO ' S......t~11 Guys Dine Too Tuesday, December 2nd, 2014; 6:30 pm The December meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Baxter's Interubran Grill on Tuesday, December 2nd, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Baxter's is located at 717 S Houston Ave. www.baxtersgrill.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com ---if you plan on attending. 7th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 20th, 2014; 7:00 pm MAKE SANTA BlUSH GO FOR NAUGHTY " SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servtces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Tramgendcr Elders Dennis R. Neill quality Cente r-. ( Don your gay apparel and join us for the 7th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. The nicely naughty evening will Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... include live entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash bar and light hor d'oeuvres. Firefighters from the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters Calendar will be in attendance. They will be available for photos and to sign copies of their calendar. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries or non-perishable food items for the Parish Church of St Jerome and Diversity Christian Fellowship Church. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug http://www.theGardenTrug.com Garden Tru Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. nursery, flor ist & gifts OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver [~311 Love our Strore? Like us on Facebook! llUJ facebook.com/gardentrug 101st & Delaware 918.528.3828 Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Onsite assistance will be available on: November 19th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm December 3rd, 10th & 17th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Get F.I.T. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the I MY BODY Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be December 3rd. LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. i4~¼ TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Council Oak Mens Chorale Holiday Schedule 2nd Annual GLOW on the Green, Sunday November 30th; 5:00 pm Council Oak Men's Chorale will be singing at the GLOW on the GREEN at Guthrie Green in the Brady Arts District at 5:00 pm. Come and celebrate the season and see the Green turn on their Christmas lights! Annual World AIDS Day Commemoration, December 1st; 6:30 pm council oak Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. council oak mens chorolB The Chorale will be singing at the Annual World AIDS Day Commemoration at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Monday evening December 1st. The Chorale was organized in 1998 to sing at the World AIDS Day Service and has sung each year after. Christmas Splendor, Tuesday December 2nd, Thursday December 4th and Friday December 5th; 8:00 pm Come start your holiday season with the Council Oak Mens Chorale as they present Christmas Splendor at Trinity Episcopal Church, 5th and Cincinnati. The Council Oak Men's Chorale under the direction of Kent Dennis will be performing many of your holiday favorites of Little Drummer Boy, Silver Bells, White Christmas, Silent Night and Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas. <Decem6er , . 'Trinity 'Ernscopaf Cnurcli- 8:00pm You won't want to miss this festive 501 - 'Tuls 0 annual tradition of holiday music, choreography and fun! Tickets are $20 and can be purchases through Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... this web site or at the door. A portion of the proceeds from each concert will be given to fund audio recordings the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Fellowship Congregational Church, Sunday December 7th; 10:30 am The Chorale will be singing at the 10:30 am service at Fellowship Congregational Church. Come enjoy the holiday season with us as we worship with the wonderful congregation of FCC. The Chorale appreciates the support of the staff and congregation! PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Brunch New Year's Day, Thursday, January 1st, 2015; 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please join us for the annual PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Potluck. PFLAG will provide the meat and drinks and we encourage you to bring vegetable side dishes and desserts. Thursday, January 1st at 1:00 pm. PFLAG Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno TULSA CHAPTER Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews Books now available Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Now available for purchase on the OkEq website store are books recently published by both Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews. The books are available for pick up at the Equality Center for $20.00 (Includes Tax) or for $25.00 shipped to you. Click here to visit the website store. Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender reassignment." The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet IM(llll 1,m~u,111 .. KAnERAJNHIU g Oll(e Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecretLife of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." 1SSE •' ~EeJJ H IIUDREWS Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Engagement, Wedding and Anniversary Announcements in the Tulsa World EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday The Tulsa World now accepts engagement, wedding and anniversary announcements for brides and brides and grooms and grooms. You can fill out the announcement forms at www.tulsaworld.com/celebrations Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality Business -- -Alliance - - directory - - where you can find all kinds of LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20.. testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. ----- Reiki Sessions Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org By Appointment ------ Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. ----- Dennis R Neill Equality Center Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 World AIDS Day Free Screening Monday, December 1st, 2014; 11:30 am Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- 10 of 13 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... The University of Oklahoma Health Sciences Center College of Public Health in collaboration with Tulsa CARES, Oklahomans for Equality, HOPE, the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, OU Sooner Allies, and the OU Sooner Association for Equality (SAFE) present a Free Documentary Screening on World AIDS Day at OU-Tulsa. Monday, December 1st, 2014 11:30 am - 1:00 pm To RSVP or for more information: Contact Julia-Leighty (918) 660-3670 Julia-Leighty@ouhsc.edu Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'A Single Man' by Christopher Isherwood You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Welcome to sunny suburban 1960s Southern California. George is a gay middle-aged English professor, adjusting to solitude after the tragic death of his young partner. He is determined to persist in the routines of his former life. A Single Man follows him over the course of an ordinary twenty-four hours. Behind his British reserve, tides of grief, rage, and loneliness surge-but what is revealed is a man who loves being alive despite all the everyday injustices. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:06 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b6afb60dfa35fd1cbc7f30f8b9ae7578.pdf b2f9c9804d7e6d7611aff9dc8bed43b5 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... eNews December 3rd, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor First Thursday Art Show Basketball League Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Join in the holiday festivities on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 as OkEq presents the Falalala Ball 2014 at 7:00 pm. The evening will include live entertainment, cash bar and a raffle. Admission is a donated food or toiletry item. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug http://www.theGardenTrug.com 7th Annual Falalala Ball Big Brothers Big Sisters ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights COMC Fairy Tree New Year's Eve EBA Sponsor LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves Garden Tru Books Now Available Marriage Equality Photos --Tulsa World nursery, flor ist & gifts Wedding Resources OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver ll.C3i1Love our Strore? Like us On Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101 st & Delaware 918.528.3828 Reiki Sessions LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer First Thursday Art Gallery Opening Reception Thursday, December 4th, 2014; 6:00 pm Find Us on Facebook The December OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa members in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 4th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... December 18th, 7:00 pm Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign-up theOkEq - on -Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. OkEq Art Exhibit The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa. ________ Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events g Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook E UALITY ~ Business Al/Janee The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, December 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Decopolis, 607 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. DECOPO~IS Decopolis 607 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Counseling Services 7th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 20th, 2014; 7:00 pm lMIE SMIM ......u._..... r,o Falalala Ball 2014 December 20th Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 7:00 pm -@ Counseling Services Don your gay apparel and join us for the 7th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash bar and light hor d'oeuvres. Firefighters from the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... Firefighters Calendar will be in attendance. They will be available for photos and to sign copies of their calendar. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries or non-perishable food items for the Parish Church of St Jerome and Diversity Christian Fellowship Church. Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Big Brothers Big Sisters of Oklahoma Tuesday, December 9th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host an informational meeting with Big Brother Big Sisters of Oklahoma's volunteer program on Tuesday, December 9th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. Big Brothers Big Sisters of Oklahoma Big Brothers Big sisters of Oklahoma is working hard to reach out to the children that need us the most. Children may be living in single parent homes or facing a life of poverty or parental incarceration. When a child is matched with a positive role model, something transformational starts. As the nation's largest donor and volunteer supported mentoring network, Big Brothers Big Sisters makes meaningful, monitored matches between adult volunteers and children, ages 6 through 16, in communities across the state. The organization develops positive relationships that have a direct and lasting effect on the lives of young people and as a result more than 60 years later Big Brothers Big Sisters of Oklahoma remains the number one youth mentoring program in the state. BBBSOK currently operates out of 8 sites in Oklahoma, serving in 18 counties across the state and matching in 22. Volunteers in the program are matched with a child on a one-to-one basis. Volunteers are asked to commit to a minimum of one year and see their "little" once a week through the school based program or 3-4 times a month through our community based program. Each match is provided with professional, on-going match support as well as one-on-one training. For more information on Big Brothers Big Sisters Oklahoma, please visit www.bbbsok.org Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • . I ~ ' - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: December 3rd, 10th & 17th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Council Oak Mens Chorale Holiday Schedule SAGE Tulsa Christmas Splendor, Tuesday December 2nd, Thursday December 4th and Friday December 5th; 8:00 pm (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) council oak council oak mens chorole Come start your holiday season with the Council Oak Mens Chorale as they present Christmas Splendor at Trinity Episcopal Church, 5th and Cincinnati. The Council Oak Men's Chorale under the direction of Kent Dennis will be performing many of your holiday favorites of Little Drummer Boy, Silver Bells, White Christmas, Silent Night and Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas. You won't want to miss this festive annual tradition of holiday music, choreography and fun! Tickets are $20 and can be purchases Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... through this web site or at the door. A portion of the proceeds from each concert will be given to fund audio recordings the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Fellowship Congregational Church, Sunday December 7th; 10:30 am The Chorale will be singing at the 10:30 am service at Fellowship Congregational Church. Come enjoy the holiday season with us as we worship with the wonderful congregation of FCC. The Chorale appreciates the support of the staff and congregation! Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree has been another success this year. All the names have been claimed and we are very grateful to all the participants. Remember that if you have checked out a name, please bring the wrapped gift back to the center by Dec 14th. Wednesday, December 31st, 2014; 10:00 pm Join OkEq at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for an retro & disco party with a live DJ and warm conversations that you will be able to remember the next day. Snacks will be served along with alcohol free beverages. Ring in the New Year and remember it the next morning. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Ask me for FREE sample!!! •sliffi T: (918) 361-4188 www.pexusslim.com/robin&abutti Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. A New Year's Eve You Can Remember All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose weIghl • Git lI1 • Improve performanc1 • lncr11s11n1rgy Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... ~~ ~ --Ii,, ~ ,>< .. ""= TULSA PRIDE .. , 2010 S O, CfLEB""T"'C PfUOI! Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be December 3rd. I MY BODY Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews Books now available Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Now available for purchase on the OkEq website store are books recently published by both Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews. The books are available for pick up at the Equality Center for $20.00 (Includes Tax) or for $25.00 shipped to you. Click here to visit the website store. Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender reassignment." Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecretLife of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm We want your Marriage Equality photos! 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Engagement, Wedding and Anniversary Announcements in the Tulsa World The Tulsa World now accepts engagement, wedding and anniversary announcements for brides and brides and grooms and grooms. TULSitWORLD You can fill out the announcement forms at www.tulsaworld.com/celebrations Wedding Resources A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality directory -Business - -Alliance -- where you can find all kinds of LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Not Simply Divine' by Bernard Jay You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Divine's former personal manager takes readers through a labyrinth of American subcultures, countercultures, and glimmering nightlife to tell this no-holds- Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... barred story of a man who did anything to become a star. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:13 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3c691569a568e0122b93a2ef5e37ff63.pdf 22ecdb73b6b2b80bbb4d51e1ac196561 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... eNews December 11th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 7th Annual Falalala Ball Equality Business Alliance Basketball League Welcome to the eNews. Join in the holiday festivities on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 as OkEq presents the Falalala Ball 2014 at 7:00 pm. The evening will include live entertainment, cash bar and a raffle. Admission is a donated food or toiletry item. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights OkEq Blood Drive Fairy Tree New Year's Eve EBA Sponsor The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves Ask me for FREE sample!!! Marriage Equality Photos -----Reiki Sessions LGBTI Health Research 2014 Holiday Schedule T: (918) 361-4188 All natural prod ucts for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.pl•xusslim.com/robi nlabutti Pride Store E: robinlabutti@Cox.n•t Lose we,ghl • Get flt • Improve performance • Increase 1nuuy Rainbow Library Volunteer 7th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 20th, 2014; 7:00 pm Find Us on Facebook December 20th Denni R. Neill Equality,,,Cente _ GJ11;; '(?;t11idliuiJ,:/4£ 7:00 pm ,...;; ~ o.CJJ½c_,a('ieh 621 E 4th St Tul a, OK 74120 91&-743-4297 ltlrol" f1re,fi0\t\tex'S ,.,~-@ l1i ~oe,ke<l bor ©~~ 0irls rtJ fJj)fJf) bo~s © ~o.--l\i'IJYv\fO. MUSIC Don your gay apparel and join us for the 7th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live entertainment with Chasing Nadean and Mindy Bartlett, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash bar and light hor d'oeuvres. Firefighters from the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters Calendar will be in attendance. They will be available for photos and to sign copies of their OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, December 18th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... calendar. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries or non-perishable food items for the Parish Church of St Jerome and Diversity Christian Fellowship Church. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook date. OkEq Art Exhibit The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa. ________ The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, December 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Decopolis, 607 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Decopolis 607 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. ------ Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 ---- Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: December 3rd, 10th & 17th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive Sunday, January 4th, 2015; 12:30 - 4:30 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org - - --SOS Group Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 12:30 to 4:30 pm January 4th at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and will be entered in a drawing to win a free cruise! The goal is 40 donations, and the Oklahoma Blood Institute says donations across the board are down, so it's really important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood Jan. 4! Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Make your appointment here. '-!!Ill Oklahoma I I J Blood Institute Fairy Tree Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Yolanda Arnold The Fairy Tree has been another success this year. All the names have been claimed and we are very grateful to all the participants. Remember that if you have checked out a name, please bring the wrapped gift back to the center by Dec 14th. A New Year's Eve You Can Remember Wednesday, December 31st, 2014; 10:00 pm Join OkEq at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for an retro & disco party with a live DJ and warm conversations that you will be able to remember the next day. Snacks will be served along with alcohol free beverages. Ring in the New Year and remember it the next morning. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug http://www.theGardenTrug.com Garden Tru SAGE Tulsa nursery, florist & gifts OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist. .. we deliver r~ 101 st & Delaware 1Love our Strore? Like Us On Facebook! 918.528.3828 -,J facebook.com/gardentrug LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage ' Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders ~~ ~. 4,, ~ ,-c: .. TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be December 17th. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include --any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma Get F.I.T. 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu --Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 --- Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Oklahomans For Equality Happy Holidays 2014 Holiday Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Chanukah (Begins the evening of Tuesday, December 16th) Congregation B'nai Emunah Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 14, 4:30 pm Light Up the Night Chanukah Festival & Concert Temple Israel 2004 East 22nd Place Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 19, 5:30 pm Shabbat Dinner & Chanukah Celebration. RSVP with TulsaTemple.com Pagan & Earth-Based Religions Parrot House 1st & Quincy A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Winter Solstice Drumming Circle Begins Sundown, Sunday December 21st More information, call Minister BC Horton at 918.370.5315 help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 4:30 pm 6 pm & 7:30 pm Candlelight service Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 7 pm Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 2 pm Children's Service of the Bells 4 pm & 6 pm Candlelight Worship Services 11 pm Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24, 5:30 pm & 9:0 pm Candlelight Service Dec 25, 10 am Holy Communion Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 21, 11 am, Pre-Christmas Service College Hill Presbyterian Church 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 6 pm Christmas Eve and Candlelight Service Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Service Eastside Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 Dec 24, 6 pm The Episcopal Church of The Redeemer 213 North Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74447 Dec 24, 7 pm Christ Mass with reception to follow Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7 pm Christmas Eve Service Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 4 pm, 6 pm & 8 pm LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org First Christian Church 913 S Boulder Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24th, 10:30 pm Pre Service Music 11 pm Christmas Eve Service Hope Unitarian 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 6 pm Candlelight Service John Calvin Presbyterian Church 8181 East 31st Street Tulsa, OK 74145 Dec 24, 6: pm Candlelight Communion EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, Celebration of Midnight Mass 10 pm Reception 11 pm Holy Eucharist Prince of Peace Lutheran 2330 North Quaker Avenue Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Chorale service with Holy Communion St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24, 7 pm Choral Holy Eucharist 9 pm Spanish Service 10:30 pm Carols for the Christ Child 11 pm Festival Choral Holy Eucharist Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. St Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Worship & Communion Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24, 5 pm Christmas Pageant and Eucharist Rite II 8:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 9 pm Eucharist Rite II, lighting of candles 10:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 11:00 pm Traditional Midnight Mass Dec 25, 10 am Eucharist Rite II HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Trinity United Methodist Church 3737 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74105 Dec 24, 4 pm Carols & Communion Unity Center of Tulsa 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 6 pm Candle lighting service Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service Special Guest Music by Tavis Miner University United Methodist Church 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 21, 9 pm The Longest Night Service of Worship Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service of Lessons and Carols Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Kwanzaa Services (Begins Friday, December 26th) Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 28, 11 am, Kwanzaa Service Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Bad Life' by Fr�d�ric Mitterrand Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Bearer of an illustrious name and nephew of a President of the Republic, Fr�d�ric Mitterrand is born into the discreet gentility of Paris' haut FREDERIC MITTERRAND bourgeois 16th arrondissement. Raised by an army of surrogates, he spends his summers in Evian and North Africa and his winters on Alpine bac slopes. life But, growing up in a time and environment where such things are not talked about, Fr�d�ric struggles with a difficult secret. Wracked by a fear of abandonment and confused by his sexual urges toward other boys, he reaches out haphazardly for affection - with both comic and catastrophic results. At age 12, in the first of many capricious attempts to find his true identity, he sneaks into an audition for a major motion picture and gets a part. Thus begins a life steeped in celebrity, French cinema, and clandestine romantic liaisons. In later life, Mitterand, a renowned critic, producer, and talk show host, seeks out old friends, servants, and loves, who reveal startlingly unexpected interpretations of his formative years. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library •• ~ ..• • Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:15 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fbc3ded6494f9661c8d5c154651e1fb3.pdf b318a381e4ebf97e12cbb167453dbb87 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... eNews December 17th, 2014 In This Issue Donate a Day EBA Sponsor 7th Annual Falalala Ball Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Join in the holiday festivities on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 as OkEq presents the Falalala Ball 2014 at 7:00 pm. The evening will include live entertainment, cash bar and a raffle. Admission is a donated food, toiletry item or pet food item. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Be Our Voice, Donate a Day Tulsa Pride 2015 Basketball League ACA Assistance First Thursday Art LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights OkEq Blood Drive Guys Dine Too New Year's Eve EBA Sponsor LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves Marriage Equality Photos --Reiki Sessions Imperial Court of All Oklahoma LGBTI Health Research 2014 Holiday Schedule Pride Store Rainbow Library In honor of nine wonderful years together, Lynn Whitley and Deb Starnes have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 Thank you and congrats! Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign - - - - - - - --- - The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelpTulsa.com OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... December 18th, 7:00 pm III• I Home / Small Business IT Expertise J ll V Owner - ihelptulso.com Tel : (9 18) 605-8777 Web: www.ihelptvlso.com Emoil: johnv@ihelptulso.com "Are you getting a new computer or smart device from Santa? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact www.ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777!" Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa. ________ 7th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 20th, 2014; 7:00 pm .a SA#li lUISIL.. Falalala Ball 2014 GOFOI December 20th Counseling Services 7:00 pm Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 ,_ ,_,_._-. .@ .... OWifld pw.c,e, Don your gay apparel and join us for the 7th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live entertainment with Chasing Nadean, Mindy Bartlett and Grant Massey, amazing raffle prizes, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, Oklahoma Mr. Leather Richard Ziese, dancers from Area 18, a burlesque performance, cash bar, light hor d'oeuvres and a performance by Mr. and Mrs. Claus, Bill Francisco and Carolyn Wiley. Firefighters from the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters Calendar will be in attendance. They will be available for photos and to sign copies of their calendar. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries or non-perishable food items for the Parish Church of St Jerome and Diversity Christian Fellowship Church. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • . I ~ ' - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g E UALITY Q!Busmess Affiance The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, December 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Decopolis, 607 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. DECOPOtlS Decopolis 607 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Tulsa Pride 2015 Planning Meeting Wednesday, December 17th, 2014; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Wednesday, December 17th at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... T U L S A r Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq -----Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: December 17th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, January 1st, 2015; 6:00 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The January OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature a special group exhibit titled Transforming Hate - a Creative Process in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 1st from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. BefLL□F RIG HTS Healthcare Bill Of Rights .org oklahomans for equality • in • the healthcare equality You you deserve_ Know your rights. receive. Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Sunday, January 4th, 2015; 12:30 - 4:30 pm ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 12:30 to 4:30 pm January 4th at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and will be entered in a drawing to win a free cruise! The goal is 40 donations, and the Oklahoma Blood Institute says donations across the board are down, so it's really important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood Jan. 4! Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Make your appointment here. '-!Ill Oklahoma IIJ Blood Institute Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Guys Dine Too 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... Tuesday, January 6th, 2015; 6:30 pm The January meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Chop House BBQ on Tuesday, January 6th, 2015 at 6:30 pm. Chop House BBQ is located at 7992 E 41st St on the SW corner of 41st & Memorial www.chophousebbq.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month A New Year's Eve You Can Remember Wednesday, December 31st, 2014; 10:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Join OkEq at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for an retro & disco party with a live DJ and warm conversations that you will be able to remember the next day. Snacks will be served along with alcohol free beverages. Ring in the New Year and remember it the next morning. Game Night The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Ask me for FREE sample!!! T: (918) 361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pai n, GI issues and skin conditions. www.ptexusslim.com/robtnlabutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose wa1ghl • G,t hi • Improve parformanc1 • lncrun 1nugy Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. i4~~ TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be December 17th. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Princes/Princess for Reign VII John & Dakota as they host "Turnabout 2015" to benefit The Trevor Project. Saturday January 10th, 2015 at Area 18 (39 E 18th St) 8:00 -10:00 pm 21+ Only Donations can be made online at www.impcourtok.webs.com or by contacting us at impcourtok@gmail.com Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 Oklahomans For Equality Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org -- Happy Holidays 2014 Holiday Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Hanukkah (Continues to the evening of Wednesday, Dec 24th) Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, OK 74120 Temple Israel 2004 East 22nd Place Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 19, 5:30 pm Shabbat Dinner & Hanukkah Celebration. RSVP with TulsaTemple.com Pagan & Earth-Based Religions Parrot House 1st & Quincy Winter Solstice Drumming Circle Begins Sundown, Sunday December 21st More information, call Minister BC Horton at 918.370.5315 Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 4:30 pm 6 pm & 7:30 pm Candlelight service Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 7 pm 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 2 pm Children's Service of the Bells 4 pm & 6 pm Candlelight Worship Services 11 pm Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24, 5:30 pm & 9:0 pm Candlelight Service Dec 25, 10 am Holy Communion Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 21, 11 am, Pre-Christmas Service College Hill Presbyterian Church 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 6 pm Christmas Eve and Candlelight Service Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Service Eastside Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 Dec 24, 6 pm The Episcopal Church of The Redeemer 213 North Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74447 Dec 24, 7 pm Christ Mass with reception to follow Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7 pm Christmas Eve Service Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 4 pm, 6 pm & 8 pm First Christian Church 913 S Boulder Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24th, 10:30 pm Pre Service Music 11 pm Christmas Eve Service Hope Unitarian 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 6 pm Candlelight Service 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... John Calvin Presbyterian Church 8181 East 31st Street Tulsa, OK 74145 Dec 24, 6: pm Candlelight Communion Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, Celebration of Midnight Mass 10 pm Reception 11 pm Holy Eucharist Prince of Peace Lutheran 2330 North Quaker Avenue Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Chorale service with Holy Communion St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24, 7 pm Choral Holy Eucharist 9 pm Spanish Service 10:30 pm Carols for the Christ Child 11 pm Festival Choral Holy Eucharist St Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Worship & Communion Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24, 5 pm Christmas Pageant and Eucharist Rite II 8:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 9 pm Eucharist Rite II, lighting of candles 10:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 11:00 pm Traditional Midnight Mass Dec 25, 10 am Eucharist Rite II Trinity United Methodist Church 3737 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74105 Dec 24, 4 pm Carols & Communion Unity Center of Tulsa 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 6 pm Candle lighting service Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service Special Guest Music by Tavis Miner 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... University United Methodist Church 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 21, 9 pm The Longest Night Service of Worship Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service of Lessons and Carols Kwanzaa Services (Begins Friday, December 26th) Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 28, 11 am, Kwanzaa Service Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Joining the Tribe: Growing Up Gay & Lesbian in the 90's' by Linnea Due You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In Joining The Tribe, journalist Linnea Due travels America to create a portrait of gay and lesbian teenagers as an endangered and vulnerable community whose diversity, courage, and resiliency will inspire gay and straight readers alike. By vividly documenting the lives of gay and lesbian teenagers, Due shows that homosexuality is not about choice. It's about fights in the schoolyard, whispers in the locker room, cruel classmates, and oblivious or abusive parents. Most gay and lesbian youth endure severe humiliation and isolation for being gay, resulting in depression and low self-esteem for 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... n the 90s most, and suicide for some. Combining in-depth f't" interviews with social analysis, Due reveals the realities gay and lesbian teenagers face, often without the support of family, peer groups, or adult gay and lesbian networks. With stories from across America, Due meets kids from a range of backgrounds and families, with some in the closet, some out, most somewhere-in-between, all struggling to grow into adulthood. By turns heartbreaking and infuriating, Joining The Tribe shows how against overwhelming odds, gay and lesbian teenagers continue to survive and bounce back, ready to join their brothers and sisters in gay America's fight for freedom and respect. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library - •• • • • :. Vol 1nt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/86f94a887829d7c21c27c33a09e8120f.pdf d1dfde55a2946633024d41d7f20ea7af PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... eNews December 23rd, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Equality Center Hours New Year's Eve First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality. Join us for a "New Year's Party You Will Remember" on Dec 31st at 9:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim OkEq Blood Drive Equality Business Alliance Basketball League 2014 Holiday Schedule Guys Dine Too EBA Sponsor ACA Assistance Ask me for FREE sample!!! LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights 2015 MLK Parade LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves T: (918) 361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.pexusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose W8tghl • Git lI1 • Improve performanc1 • lncrnn 1n1rgy Equality Center Holiday Hours For the days of December 24th, 2014 - January 1st, 2015, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be open for modified hours, including Christmas and New Year's Day. Many OkEq programs will be on hiatus that week. Be sure to check the calendar on the OkEq website or call 918.743.4297 to check on programming times. Marriage - - - Equality - - - -Photos --Reiki Sessions Imperial Court of All Oklahoma LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer A New Year's Eve You Can Remember Wednesday, December 31st, 2014; 9:00 pm Find Us on Facebook Join OkEq at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a retro & disco party with a live DJ and warm conversations that you will be able to remember the next day. Snacks will be served along with alcohol free beverages. Ring in the New Year and remember it the next morning. January First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, January 1st, 2015; 6:00 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, January 15th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... The January OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature a special group exhibit titled Transforming Hate - a Creative Process in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 1st from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive OkEq Art Exhibit Sunday, January 4th, 2015; 12:30 - 4:30 pm The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa. ________ Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 12:30 to 4:30 pm January 4th at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and will be entered in a drawing to win a free cruise! The goal is 40 donations, and the Oklahoma Blood Institute says donations across the board are down, so it's really important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood Jan. 4! Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Make your appointment here. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 IIJ ~Oklahoma Blood Institute Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The January Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, January 21st, 2015 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... HYJ\TT REGENCY ~ is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq ----Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. --- ~Oklahomans For Equality Happy Holidays Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --SOS Group 2014 Holiday Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 4:30 pm 6 pm & 7:30 pm Candlelight service Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 7 pm Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 2 pm Children's Service of the Bells 4 pm & 6 pm Candlelight Worship Services Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... 11 pm Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24, 5:30 pm & 9:0 pm Candlelight Service Dec 25, 10 am Holy Communion Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 21, 11 am, Pre-Christmas Service College Hill Presbyterian Church 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 6 pm Christmas Eve and Candlelight Service LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Service Eastside Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 Dec 24, 6 pm The Episcopal Church of The Redeemer 213 North Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74447 Dec 24, 7 pm Christ Mass with reception to follow Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7 pm Christmas Eve Service Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 4 pm, 6 pm & 8 pm First Christian Church 913 S Boulder Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24th, 10:30 pm Pre Service Music 11 pm Christmas Eve Service Good Shepherd Episcopal Church 1420 E Dewey Sapulpa, OK 74066 Dec 24 Christmas Eve service 5:30 and 10:30 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lrsb,an, Bisexual & Transgendrr Elders Hope Unitarian 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 6 pm Candlelight Service 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... John Calvin Presbyterian Church 8181 East 31st Street Tulsa, OK 74145 Dec 24, 6: pm Candlelight Communion Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, Celebration of Midnight Mass 10 pm Reception 11 pm Holy Eucharist Prince of Peace Lutheran 2330 North Quaker Avenue Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Chorale service with Holy Communion St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24, 7 pm Choral Holy Eucharist 9 pm Spanish Service 10:30 pm Carols for the Christ Child 11 pm Festival Choral Holy Eucharist St Paul's United Methodist Church Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Worship & Communion Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24, 5 pm Christmas Pageant and Eucharist Rite II 8:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 9 pm Eucharist Rite II, lighting of candles 10:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 11:00 pm Traditional Midnight Mass Dec 25, 10 am Eucharist Rite II Trinity United Methodist Church 3737 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74105 Dec 24, 4 pm Carols & Communion Unity Center of Tulsa 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 6 pm Candle lighting service Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service Special Guest Music by Tavis Miner 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... University United Methodist Church 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 21, 9 pm The Longest Night Service of Worship Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service of Lessons and Carols Kwanzaa Services (Begins Friday, December 26th) Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 28, 11 am, Kwanzaa Service Guys Dine Too Tuesday, January 6th, 2015; 6:30 pm The January meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Chop House BBQ on Tuesday, January 6th, 2015 at 6:30 pm. Chop House BBQ is located at 7992 E 41st St on the SW corner of 41st & Memorial Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. www.chophousebbq.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelpTulsa.com Home / Small Business IT Expertise V E Owner• ihelptulso.com Tel: Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach III • 1 J II ACA Assistance (9 18) 605-8777 Web: www.ihelptulso.com Emoil: johnv@ihelp1ulso.com "Are you getting a new computer or smart device from Santa? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact www.ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777!" Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Game Night healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. 2015 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Monday, January 19th, 2015; 11:00 am John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be January 7th. We want your Marriage Equality photos! Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... Reiki Sessions HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Princes/Princess for Reign VII John & Dakota as they host "Turnabout 2015" to benefit The Trevor Project. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Saturday January 10th, 2015 at Area 18 (39 E 18th St) 8:00 -10:00 pm 21+ Only Donations can be made online at www.impcourtok.webs.com or by contacting us at impcourtok@gmail.com Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 ----- Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Holidays on Ice' by David Sedaris 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center David Sedaris's beloved holiday collection is new again with six more pieces, including a never before published story. Along with such favorites as the diaries of a Macy's elf and the annals of two very competitive families, are Sedaris's tales of tardy trick-or-treaters ("Us and Them"); the difficulties of explaining the Easter Bunny to the French ("Jesus Shaves"); what to do when you've been locked out in a snowstorm ("Let It Snow"); the puzzling Christmas traditions of other nations ("Six to Eight Black Men"); what Halloween at the medical examiner's looks like ("The Monster Mash"); and a barnyard secret Santa scheme gone awry ("Cow and Turkey"). Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ••• •• • olunt U r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:17 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/94763d43a26d3050937e7fba07695d0b.pdf 6274005807f47fc77373623ccd6ce82c PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... eNews December 30th, 2014 In This Issue Donate a Day EBA Sponsor New Year's Eve First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality. Join us for a "New Year's Party You Will Remember" on Dec 31st at 9:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Be Our Voice, Donate a Day OkEq Blood Drive Tax Preparation Equality Business Alliance Basketball League Guys Dine Too Tulsa Pride 2015 EBA Sponsor ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Blind Pride Tulsa Pearl District Makers' Market 2015 MLK Parade LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves Marriage Equality -Photos Reiki Sessions Imperial Court of All Oklahoma In honor of their recent engagement, Lorie Johnson and Judy Kastl have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Wednesday, December 31st, 2014 Thank you and congratulations! Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign ------- LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelpTulsa.com 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... II• I Home / Small Business IT Expertise J 11 y Owner - ihelptulso.com Tel : (9 18) 605-8777 Web: www.ihelptulso.com Emoil: johnv@ihelp1ulso.com "Are you getting a new computer or smart device from Santa? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact www.ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777!" Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, January 15th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group exhibit titled; Transforming Hate ________ A New Year's Eve You Will Remember Wednesday, December 31st, 2014; 9:00 pm Join OkEq at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a retro & disco party with a live DJ and warm conversations that you will be able to remember the next day. Snacks will be served along with alcohol free beverages. Ring in the New Year and remember it the next morning. January First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, January 1st, 2015; 6:00 pm Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 The January OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature a special group exhibit titled Transforming Hate - a Creative Process in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 1st from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive Sunday, January 4th, 2015; 12:30 - 4:30 pm Counseling Services 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 12:30 to 4:30 pm January 4th at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and will be entered in a drawing to win a free cruise! The goal is 40 donations, and the Oklahoma Blood Institute says donations across the board are down, so it's really important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood Jan. 4! Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Make your appointment here. '-!Ill Oklahoma IIJ Blood Institute Tax Preparation Workshop Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tuesday, January 20th, 2015; 7:00 pm On Tuesday, January 20th at 7:00 pm, OkEq will host a tax preparation workshop for newly married couples or for anyone thinking about getting married. Presented by Equality Business Alliance Member, Kelly Kirby, CPA, this workshop is a must for anyone who has any questions on how marriage equality can change the way you file your taxes. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Grieving Well 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The January Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, January 21st, 2015 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. HYJ\TT REGENCY llllllllrll'ull Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq - --------Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, January 6th, 2015; 6:30 pm The January meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Chop House BBQ on Tuesday, January 6th, 2015 at 6:30 pm. Chop House BBQ is located at 7992 E 41st St on the SW corner of 41st & Memorial www.chophousebbq.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, January 22nd, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, January 22nd at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Ask me for FREE sample!!! T: (918) 361-<1188 All natural products for diabeti cs, weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robi nlobutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose weight • Get hi • lmp1ove performance • Increase 1nugy Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Get F.I.T. Blind Pride Tulsa Lunch Meeting Thursday, January 8th, 2015; 12:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ~ BLIND LGBT PRIDE INTERNATIONAL Blind Pride Tulsa will meet on Thursday, ~ January 8th at 12:00 pm for lunch at the Equality Center. If you would like Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. to attend, please email On Monday of Thanksgiving week, most members of Blind Pride Tulsa met at the home of a member to chow down on pizza and to have good conversation. This was the first formal get-together for the small, but enthusiastic, organization that is a chartered affiliate of Blind LGBT Pride International (BPI.) In turn, that organization is chartered by the American Council of the Blind (ACB.) Blind LGBT Pride International was founded by Tulsan Rob Hill. An exploratory meeting was called to be held at the national convention of ACB in Tulsa in 1996. Over the intervening years, BPI has sponsored social events and educational activities at the national conventions of ACB. It was responsible for ACB's membership's adopting a policy against discrimination based on sexual orientation within that organization. Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, January 17th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday January 17th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ARTtCRAFTS lllll'J#l~JJ.1[11 POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS 2015 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Monday, January 19th, 2015; 11:00 am 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Game Night LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ~~~ ~ Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno J£ ~ TULSA PRIDE ,., , ...... 0, 2010 0...0£ Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be January 7th. I MY BODY Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... We want your Marriage Equality photos! EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Princes/Princess for Reign VII John & Dakota as they host "Turnabout 2015" to benefit The Trevor Project. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday January 10th, 2015 at Area 18 (39 E 18th St) 8:00 -10:00 pm 21+ Only Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Donations can be made online at www.impcourtok.webs.com or by contacting us at impcourtok@gmail.com Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendar for only $10.00. Proceeds benefits the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Organization. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Quiet Fire: Memoirs of Older Gay Men' by Keith Vacha You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This book is filled with dynamic tales of gay men. It speaks of their lives outside of sex, but it also address sex a lot. It mentions bar raids and arrests, but also mentions many who would leave gay men in peace. There are some with long-term lovers and others who are single. Just like many older, straight men, these men brag about their sexual escapades, but then chastise younger men for doing some of the same. The line between pre- and post-Stonewall was blurred here. Some men were active in Mattachine and others in post-1960s activities. This book was written more than 20 years ago. There are some universal concerns that all older men face and this book proves it. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d32a0980c26c7766a9cf22c41a107ed3.pdf 27615ac9bd83ec5c62eae86015ffc445 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... eNews April 10th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 2014 Equality Gala NOH8 Photo Shoot MOREcolor Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday April 26th, 2014. Purchase a seat or sponsor a table now and find more information at www.okeq.org/gala --- - eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Tulsa GSA Scholarship Miss JOLT 2014 EBA Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show Emma's Revolution & Holly Near Article Headline World Book Night Route 66Crystal -- -City -Carnival Linda Barton Paul Tulsa Growl TMSL Volunteers Dining Out for Life Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser International Family Day 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm Paragraph 175 Holocaust Commemoration LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht.. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, April 10th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Nicole Moan. NOH8 Campaign Photo Shoot Sunday, April 13th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Sunday, April 13th, 2014, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -- offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2014 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on April 13th at 1:00 pm and will end at 4:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. ---- - ------ ---- - --------- Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, 2 of 15 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... I> I\ Ii(' I "i KA LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Counseling Services MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Counseling Services Tulsa Gay and Straight Alliance Scholarship Deadline is April 18th, 2014 Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Booker T Washington, Union High School and Central High School participate in a GSA Lock In at the Equality Center The Tulsa Gay and Straight Alliance Scholarship is available for high school seniors in Tulsa County, Oklahoma with overall GPA of at least 2.50, and will demonstrate character, leadership and participation through the school's GSA and in other documented activities. The applicant must get the support from a faculty sponsor of the GSA. Sponsored by the Tulsa Community Foundation. Download the scholarship application here ~ TUL A MMU '- LL' F u DAT! N scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org - - --- !TY K9 Boot Camp Miss JOLT 2014 Friday, April 11th, 2014; 7:45 pm Club Renegade 1649 S Main St The Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is sponsoring the 7th annual Miss JOLT pageant Friday, April 11th, 2014 at 7:45 pm at Club Renegade. The pageant is a fundraiser to help host the annual JOLT bowling tournament to be held in later this year. Bowlers from across the U.S. come to Tulsa to be a part of the JOLT tournament and all it's associated fun and activities. Equality Business Alliance Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g EQJBusmess UALITY Alhance SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at The Office of Dr. Blane Snodgrass, Tulsa Eye Clinic, 7171 S Yale, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Dr. Blane Snodgrass Tulsa Eye Clinic 7171 S Yale Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136 Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers NO H8 Campaign Photoshoot - Sunday, April 13th Pride Night at Area 18 - Saturday, April 19th 209 Karaoke Pride Night - Friday, April 25th Pride Night at TNT's - Saturday, May 10th 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Boot Camp Emma's Revolution & Holly Near Friday, April 11th, 2014; 7:30 pm Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Ave Emma Revolution will be accompanying the fabulous Holly Near, along with pianist, Jan Martinelli in Tulsa on Friday, April 11th, 2014 at 7:30 pm. With special, sing-a-long tribute to Pete Seeger $20 advance / $25 at the door available at www.emmasrevolution.com aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. == Rainbow Writers East Village 2nd Saturday Street Festival Saturday, April 12th, 2014; 11:00 am - 3:00 pm Come downtown to the East Village 2nd Saturday Street Fest and get to know downtown Tulsa's newest District. Proceeds from this event will go towards beautification efforts for this district* in downtown. Enjoy live music on the main stage at 3rd and Lansing Look for street performers, vendors & food on Lansing from 2nd to 4th and on 3rd from Lansing to Kenosha Live mural painting happening at 3rd and Kenosha 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ----to attend Live Music / Food Trucks / Artist Booths / Live Mural Painting / & More/ Sponsored by the GuRuStu Foundation For more information, visit here ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group World Book Night On the Evening of Wednesday, April 23rd, 2014 Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... On one magical evening 25,000 book givers will spread --··-- -----ARMISTEAD the love of reading across the nation. Cindy Hulsey, from the Tulsa City-County Library, will share some love at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by giving away 20 copies of Tales of the City by Armistead Maupin. And if you crave more, TCCL has thousands more you can read, listen to, or download for free. MAUPIN Also available that evening, Code Name Verity by Elizabeth Wein. Donated by Miranda Dawson, this historical fiction novel takes place during WWII. It's part epistolary and focuses on two girls, Maddie and Verity, who are involved in the war and best friends. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members If you haven't read a book for pleasure lately this is your opportunity to pick up a free book! For more information on World Book Night, visit here Route 66 - Crystal City Carnival Wednesday, April 9th - Saturday, April 12th, 2014 4200 Southwest Blvd Tulsa Wed, April 9th from 5:00 - 11:00 pm Thurs, April 10th from 5:00 - 11:00 pm Fri, April 11th from 5:00 - 11:00 pm Sat, April 12th from 4:00 - 11:00 pm Visit the Route 66 Crystal City Carnival in Tulsa this April for tons of family fun. Crystal City, which is located off of Route 66, was the home of the original Crystal City Amusement Park and the original Zingo roller coaster. This four-day carnival will pay tribute to the past with an exhibit of Route 66 and Crystal City Amusement Park photos. Stop by for carnival rides for all ages, tons of games and delicious food. Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Wednesday & Thursday Wrist Bands are $20.00 Friday & Saturday Wrist Bands are $25.00 Linda Barton Paul - Music @ 501 Concert Series Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 7:30 pm Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S Cincinnati Tulsa, OK 74013 As part of the Music@51 Concert Series, Linda Barton Paul will perform BACK TO BRUBECK! On Sunday, April 27th, 2014 at 7:30 pm, Linda will play music you never Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... thought you would hear on the harp. Linda Paul, a native of Tulsa, Oklahoma, has played the harp professionally since 1970. She has toured across the United States and around the world, teaches master classes at Harp Festivals and has recorded 14 CDs. games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno General Admission at the door is $20 Student and Senior admission is $10 For more information or to purchase advance tickets, visit here Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org ----Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 24th, 2014; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 24th, 2014 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give a portion of the proceeds from lunch Dine Out. t'ig_Jit AIDS, and dinner service to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Applebee's - Tulsa Pride Flapjack Raiser Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Join us at the Applebees on 71st for a fun & family-friendly Tulsa Pride Fundraiser. Buy tickets online here. $10 for a great pancake breakfast to help fund Tulsa Pride! International Family Day Sunday, May 4th, 2014 The Family Equality Council has invited the OkEq Gamily Program to participate in the International Family Day on Sunday, May 4th, 2014. Gamily wants to show other communities and the world how beautiful families are. Everyone is welcome to come. Let's get together for a free game of laser tag. Donated by Laser Quest. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... MISSION: LASU< Q VcST There is a limited number of spaces, please RSVP by emailing at Gamily@OkEq.org or call Mary Jones 918.743.4297. 'Paragraph 175' screening at Circle Cinema April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Circle Cinema 12 S Lewis Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Historian Klaus M�ller interviews survivors of the Nazi persecution of homosexuals because of the German Penal Code of 1871. Admission price is $7 and tickets are available at circlecinema.com Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org NOT TO ELEGANT ANBJ ~ci~iRFUL' . 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 7:00 pm Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Temple Israel 2004 E 22nd Pl The Tulsa Council for Holocaust Education invites the public to honor the forgotten victims at the 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 at 7:00 pm. at Temple Israel. Dr. Nadine Blumer is the featured speaker and will address the topic, "Forgotten Holocaust Victims: How Germany Remembers the Roma". Blumer recently finished a fellowship at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum and now is starting a postdoctoral fellowship at the Centre for Ethnographic Research and Exhibition in the Aftermath of Violence at Concordia University in Montreal, Quebec. For more information about this event, please visit jewishtulsa.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... ,nt.:'='::E~"" REME RG I, - VY,:§V L C u T-==-- THE 'V 2014 INTERFAITH HOLOCAUST COMMEMORATION THURSDAY, MAY 1 • 7 P.M. • TEMPLE ISRAEL, 2004 E. 22ND PLACE LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma is pleased to announce it's newly elected monarchs Empress VII - Miranda Powers Ray Lee Love Emperor VII - Rusty Clyma 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... Please join us in congratulating them and wishing them a successful reign. The date and other details for Investitures VII will follow shortly. For more information, please visit www.impcourtok.webs.com Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Saturday, May 3rd, 2014; 8:00 am The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N McKinley Ave Tulsa, OK 74063 8:00 am Shotgun Start $75 per player or $300 per team 4-Man Team Scramble format Registration is open; contact Curtis Austin curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918.361.8739 Cash prizes for 1st, 2nd and 3rd place teams T GOLF CLA AT TH~ CANYQ SAT ~1-ACl9 CK RIPG~ 1101N. MCKINLEV ~VE SANP SPRINGS, QK 749§3 SATURDAY, M~ 3RD 8:00 A.M. SHOTGUN START $75 PER PLAYER/ $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOWII CONTACT: ~-=~~~:.'!'::ii:r:JMH9"NILCOM 'IOU CAHAL50RNDIJS0frol fl11a1100K.T1JLSAK>lT ZES FOR st, 2• 0 ANP 3" 0 PLA!:E TE s RAFFLE PRIZES II I Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... Just in time for Spring weather, the Pride Store now has rainbow fedora hats in stock for $10 each. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Transgender Warriors: Making History from Joan of Arc to Dennis Rodman' by Leslie Feinberg You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In this fascinating, personal journey through history, Leslie Feinberg uncovers persuasive evidence that there have always been people who crossed the cultural boundaries of gender. Transgender Warriors is an eye-opening jaunt through the history of gender expression and a powerful testament to the rebellious spirit. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 11:55 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ccb4df991f8be98da9e6fbde41332612.pdf af3cb1f81f6c03e97df13ea8173671b9 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... eNews January 17th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Give a Day MLK Jr Parade Marriage Equality Ruling Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the OkEq walking entry in the Martin Luther King, Jr. parade on January 20th, 2014 at 10:00 am at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Counseling Services Tulsa Metro Basketball EBA Fundraiser First Thursday Art ACA Assistance Engagement Party EBA Black Hearts Ball Tulsa Pride Meeting K9 Boot Camp National Dine for 2-1-1 Day The Cheril Vendetti Experience Research Study Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of the Martin Luther King, Jr. holiday and the programming at the Equality Center Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, January 23rd, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit Marlena Breedlove has made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Cristiana Prado Marlena is sponsoring OkEq Programming on Monday, January 20th, 2014 Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign 2014 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, January 20th, 2014; 11:00 am John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati Counseling Services 51 years ago, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Oklahomans for Equality applauds historic ruling in Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... On January 14th, 2014, U.S. Senior District Judge Terrance Kern gave hope to thousands of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Oklahomans when he ruled Oklahoma's same-sex marriage ban unconstitutional. Counseling Services Along with the opinion, a stay was issued on any further proceedings in the event the decision is appealed to the 10th Circuit Court of Appeals in Denver. At this time same-sex couples can not obtain a marriage license in Oklahoma and the state will continue to not recognize out of state same-sex marriages. Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Oklahomans for Equality has worked closely with the plaintiffs in the Oklahoma marriage equality lawsuit for the last 6 years and are committed to the work of securing equal rights for LGBT individuals and their families. We encourage you to donate to the marriage equality fund which will assist with the legal fees associated with the appeal process. Donations may be made online here or mailed to: Oklahomans for Equality PO Box 2687 Tulsa, OK 74101 Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Equality Business Alliance Fundraiser Dinner Tuesday, January 21st, 2014; Starting at 6:00 pm Tuesday, January 21st, 2014 Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine 1740 S. Boston Door open at 6:00 pm. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Dalesandro's is hosting a fundraiser for the Equality Business Alliance and will be donating a portion of the sales that night back to the EBA. Make a reservation by calling 918.582.1551. February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 6th, 2014; 6:00 pm Grieving Well The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Eric Humphries in a show titled "Can't Stop! - America's Journey from the Slave House to the White House"", beginning with a reception on 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... Thursday, February 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's Tuesdays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather needs. Marriage Equality - Engagement Party Wednesday, February 12th, 2014; 5:30 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Tulsa, OK 74114 Attention Couples and Allies: Join in for a celebration of Oklahoma's progress on Same-Sex Marriage with a Tulsa Engagement Party. Announce your desire to marry as soon as it is legal in Oklahoma. (Date TBD) Certificates provided to couples announcing. There will be food, drink and music. Let's celebrate your relationship with all LGBTQ friendly congregations in Tulsa at All Souls Unitarian Church Wednesday February 12th, 2014 at 5:30 pm. For more information contact: Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Rev. Tamara Lebak Associate Minister All Souls Unitarian Church phone: 918.743.2363 ext. 324 Tulsa Area Prime Timers Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory I EQUALITY 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Wood Stone Design, 1303 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Wood Stone Design 1303 E 15th St Tulsa, Oklahoma A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Black Hearts Ball Friday, February 14th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:30 pm Self Defense Class oklahomans for equality www.okeq.org Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Friday, February 14th, 2014 Been dumped? Stood up? Hate your Ex? NO Date? Perfect!! Take Back Valentine's Day at the Black Hearts Ball 2014 7:30 pm til 10:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center DJ, Cash Bar, finger foods, No cupids! Tulsa Pride 2014 Planning Meeting Thursday, January 23rd, 2014; 7:30 pm Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ... = Rainbow Writers Thursday, January 23rd, 2014; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Starting Sundays, February 2nd, 2014; 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Yoga A - Z National Dine for 2-1-1 Day Tuesday, February 11th, 2014 Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... . ■ ~ Ef.,.aM nat 1ona 2-1-1 uay o min~ february 11, 2014 Support A Great Non -Profit Service and Eat Well Too! Dine at one of these fabulous restaurants on Tuesday, February 11, 2014 And they'll donate to the 2-1-1 Hotline! Just say 2-1-1 when you order at: BRADY DISTRICT Hey Mambo mam □ o 114 North Boston Ave. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet DECO DISTRICT DOWNTOWN The Vault 7/v 620 South Cincinnati Ave Mod's Coffee and Crepes 507 South Boston Ave. 31\ Elote Cafe nd Catering ~ f A-1-~. 14 South Boston Ave. ''i ii ~ 5 '1t HP - - , BLUE DOME DISTRICT Dilly Deli 402 East 2nd Street Yokozuna 309 East 2nd Street 'IJ~c>-VV'e The Dust Bowl , , ., ~ ~ • • 211 South Elgin ( JAMEs I_,~.y.11 EWE's] Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org James E. McNellie's Pub 409 East 1st Street-Blue Dome p BROOKSIDE Hibiscus 3316 South Peoria R Bar 3421 South Peoria [-~AM - ES_§_,q_tl_s_.E_W_E '_ sJ SOUTHTULSA James E. McNellie's Pub-South Citv EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... 7031 South Zurich Avenue Learn more here: www.211tulsa.org 2-6~6. * The Cheril Vendetti Experience Saturday, February 15th, 2014; 9:00 pm & 10:30 pm services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday c.s~ t 10 @~rrl~~ 328 E. lST ST, TULSA BETWEEN EL GUAPO'S & S&J' S Research Study Interested in helping Counselors better serve our community? Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Once you've been determined to be eligible, you'll complete a phone interview with the researcher that'll last about an hour. After the interview is transcribed, the researcher will send it back to you so you can make sure it's accurate. That's it! Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. What's the interview for? Research is currently being conducted by the University of South Carolina in order to help counselors better understand how their LGBT clients develop their identities. Given that our community has needs that are different and require a specialized set of skills; Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... this research will help to equip Counselors with the tools they need to better help us. Ok, who's eligible? We're looking for interviewees who are: 18 years of age or older Women Men and women who identify as a racial minority (African America, Latino/ a, etc.) From the Southeastern United States and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. What's in it for me? By participating, you'll have the opportunity to potentially shift the way in which our community receives mental health care. You'll also be helping to establish the foundation for creating more informed and effective ways for mental health care professionals to treat our community. To volunteer or for more information, just contact: Omar Troutman (troutman@mailbox.sc.edu) or call 803.240.8310 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org OkEqon Facebook. - - or -- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendars for 2014 are back in stock! They are $10, and the proceeds go to the Tulsa Firefighters Educational Clowns Fund. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Unofficial Guide to Adopting a Child' by Andrea Della Vecchio, MA, M.Ed. You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The process of adoption - be it an open or a closed adoption, domestic or international - is seldom simple, short, or standardized. It can often take many years of frustrating and expensive searching before parents can bring an infant or child home, and once they do, they face a whole new set of challenges as they learn together to be a family. Unofficial Guide-lo Adopting a Child The Unofficial Guide to Adopting a Child gives prospective adoptive parents the inside scoop on: * How long it will really take to adopt, and how much it will cost * What the challelnges are for single people, older couples, and gay lesbian couples seeking to adopt * What the all-important home study entails -- from writing the autobiographical statement to creating a child-friendly atmosphere * What questions to ask agency personnel and birth parents -- and what questions to refuse to answer Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ru SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:42 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ec2bf478c47899b39c36fbd7035dbeed.pdf 648355eb46ab46513b10d2cdc40c1870 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... eNews January 24th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Programming Note 2013 Tax Letters Black Hearts Ball Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the Black Hearts Ball on Friday, February 14th, 2014 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Counseling Services First Thursday Art Syphilis Testing ACA Assistance Guys Dine Too Engagement Party EBA Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Camp Fire Green Country K9 Boot Camp EBA Sponsor National Dine for 2-1-1 Day The Cheril Vendetti Experience OK LGBT College Summit Programming Note There will be no Tai Chi or Self Defense classes during the month of February. 2013 Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2013 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org Sam Harris Parenting Workshop Art Show Equality Day atthe ----Capitol Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Black Hearts Ball Friday, February 14th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:30 pm Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. oklahomans for equality www.okeq.org Friday, February 14th, 2014 Been dumped? Stood up? Hate your Ex? NO Date? Perfect!! Take Back Valentine's Day at the Black Hearts Ball 2014 OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Cristiana Prado Free admission 7:30 pm til 10:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center DJ, Cash Bar, finger foods, No cupids! Fantastic Raffle Items! New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 6th, 2014; 6:00 pm The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Eric Humphries in a show titled "Can't Stop! - America's Journey from the Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... Slave House to the White House"", beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Syphilis testing from H.O.P.E. Tuesday, January 28th, 2014; 3:00 - 6:00 pm Syphilis is on the rise for Gay and Bisexual Men in Tulsa. Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) will have walk in Syphilis testing on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014 from 3:00 pm to 6:00 pm. Men who come in and get tested also get a $10 Quik Trip card. Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org needs. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, February 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The February meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Desi Wok on Tuesday, February 4th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Desi Wok is located at 3966 South Hudson Avenue, on the north side of 41st St on Hudson Ave. www.desiwok.net Counseling Services Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Saturdays By appointment Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Marriage Equality - Engagement Party Wednesday, February 12th, 2014; 5:30 pm scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Tulsa, OK 74114 Attention Couples and Allies: Join in for a celebration of Oklahoma's progress on Same-Sex Marriage with a Tulsa Engagement Party. Announce your desire to marry as soon as it is legal in Oklahoma. (Date TBD) Certificates provided to couples announcing. There will be food, drink and music. Let's celebrate your relationship with all LGBTQ friendly congregations in Tulsa at All Souls Unitarian Church Wednesday February 12th, 2014 at 5:30 pm. For more information contact: Rev. Tamara Lebak Associate Minister All Souls Unitarian Church phone: 918.743.2363 ext. 324 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Wood Stone Design, 1303 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Wood Stone Design 1303 E 15th St Tulsa, Oklahoma Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale Monday, February 3rd, 2014; 3:45 - 5:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host a youth group from Tulsa Camp Fire's Teens in Action program selling candy at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Monday, February 3rd, 2014 from 3:45 pm to 5:30 pm. Camp Fire is youth-centered, engages families in fun activities, welcoming and inclusive, Light the fire within builds youth and adult partnerships, and provides service to others. Come support our young people and stop by their candy stand. ~ ¥ Al\ Camp Fire K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Starting Sundays, February 2nd, 2014; 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Tai Chi Class No Tai Chi class in February Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • . ' • ' I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tuesdays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders National Dine for 2-1-1 Day Tuesday, February 11th, 2014 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... . ■ ~ Ef.,.aM nat 1ona 2-1-1 uay o min~ february 11, 2014 Support A Great Non -Profit Service and Eat Well Too! Dine at one of these fabulous restaurants on 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tuesday, February 11, 2014 And they'll donate to the 2-1-1 Hotline! Just say 2-1-1 when you order at: BRADY DISTRICT Hey Mambo mam □ o 114 North Boston Ave. Self Defense Class DECO DISTRICT DOWNTOWN The Vault 7/v 620 South Cincinnati Ave Mod's Coffee and Crepes 507 South Boston Ave. 31\ Elote Cafe nd Catering ~ f A-1-~. 14 South Boston Ave. ''i ii ~ 5 '1t HP - - , BLUE DOME DISTRICT Dilly Deli 402 East 2nd Street Yokozuna 309 East 2nd Street 'IJ~c>-VV'e The Dust Bowl , , ., ~ ~ • • 211 South Elgin ( JAMEs I_,~.y.11 EWE's] James E. McNellie's Pub 409 East 1st Street-Blue Dome p No Self Defense class in February Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members BROOKSIDE Hibiscus 3316 South Peoria R Bar 3421 South Peoria [-~AM - ES_§_,q_tl_s_.E_W_E '_ sJ SOUTHTULSA Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members James E. McNellie's Pub-South Citv 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... 7031 South Zurich Avenue Learn more here: www.211tulsa.org 2-6~6. * Instructor Brad Sullivan. The Cheril Vendetti Experience Saturday, February 15th, 2014; 9:00 pm & 10:30 pm Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. JC_ = Rainbow Writers c.s~ t 10 @~rrl~~ 328 E. lST ST, TULSA BETWEEN EL GUAPO'S & S&J' S 2014 Oklahoma LGBT College Summit Saturday, March 1st, 2014; 10:00 am - 5:30 pm TEN Institute is proud to announce the 2014 Oklahoma LGBTQQIA College Summit to be held on Saturday, March 1st, 2014 from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm in the Main Building at Oklahoma City Community College. This exciting one-day meeting will give lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, and allied college students the knowledge and skills to start and sustain a gay-straight alliance (GSA), advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) issues, and much more. Panelists will include Professor Toby Beauchamp, representatives from The Equality Network, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, and ■TEN lll1nstitute 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org -----to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... students, faculty, and staff from universities and colleges around the state. This year's host organization is L.I.F.E. (Leading Individuals for Equality) at Oklahoma City Community College. For more information or to register for the Summit, go to http:// tinyurl.com/2014CollegeSummit. Registration is free and includes lunch and a t-shirt. Exhibitors and organizations are welcome to set up informational displays at the Summit. To reserve a table, contact Tennent Emmons at temmons@occc.edu. Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Sam Harris "HAM: Slices of Life" Saturday, February 1st, 2014; 8:00 pm Tulsa Community College Vantrease PACE 10300 E 81st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Purchase tickets by phone (918) 595-7777 or visit myticketoffice.com SAM HARRIS in "HAM: Slices of a Life" is a show based on his new book of the same title (a collection of stories and essays published by Simon & Schuster). Harris calls the show a "liter-usical," as it incorporates humorous and poignant stories from the book artfully interspersed with songs to create an original and cutting-edge stage piece. Harris's successful career has spanned 30 years, and now he adds "author" to his long list of accomplishments, unveiled in this innovative and exciting hybrid theatrical concept. Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Parenting Workshop Pt 2; Foster Care & Adoption Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm The first part of the Gamily parenting workshop, Maybe Baby, was a wonderful success! Now onto our second part, Foster care & Adoption. There are children within our community in need of a Game Night 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... loving home with loving people. Is that you? We will be having representatives from local agencies to provide you with information to prepare your nest and answer all your wildest questions. This informative event will take place on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014 from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or at Collaborative Art Show at The Outlet Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Saturday, February 8th, 2014; 8:00 pm The Outlet 1317 E 6th St Tulsa, OK THE l~~UTLET Want art? Want music? Want entertainment that helps the community? Come to the show at the Outlet on February 8th, 2014! Starts at 8:00 pm and only costs $5, or $2 if you're a student! Come check out some young, local talent and help Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. The Outlet will be selling a variety of soda and water for $1 for the cause, and artists will be selling their work as well. COLLABORATION. CONNECTION.CREATION, ANGELINE JOT MCBRIDE JONATHAN HECKMAN KARI MICHELLE CLAIRE COLLINS ECHO BONES JAKE JONES BLESSING IFEOMA VALERIE GRANT BLAKE SHELTON SMIDGE ISGRIG HETIDOLLFACE TEMPEST CARTWRIGHT COATIE POP FEB8Tl-l Come listen to music, enjoy dancers, admire fashion, watch films, gaze at paintings and drawings, and have a night filled with expression. 8PM-llf't1 A.TTHE CI\EATIVE ROOM 1317 E 6TH ST TUI.SA.OK IADMISSON: SS.$lWJTH STU ID. PflOCEEOS FkOM TICKET SAL.ES GO TO OKLAHOMANS FOil EQUALITY https://www.facebook.com/theoutlettulsa Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org ----Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol Wednesday, February 26th, 2014; 8:00 am I The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBTQ and allied people from across Oklahoma to the 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol on Wednesday, February 26th from 8:00 am to Noon. Let's show the collective strength of TEN, An Oklahoma Wm'rl' Ewryon~ ls Equal Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, PFLAG chapters, Mothers of Many, GSAs, OKC Pride, Tulsa Pride, other Pride festivals, Marriage Equality Rights for Oklahoma, and the many other voices and organizations working for equality for LGBTQ Oklahomans. With the marriage equality case on its way to appeal, this year it is critically important that our legislators meet you, your partners, your families, your supportive clergy, your friends, and your allies. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. . The Equality Network Click here to register (it's free and includes breakfast) Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendars for 2014 are back in stock! They are $10, and the proceeds go to the Tulsa Firefighters Educational Clowns Fund. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Queer in Russia; A Story of Sex, Self and the Other' by Laurie Essig You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In Queer in Russia Laurie Essig examines the formation of gay identity and community in the former Soviet Union. As a sociological fieldworker, she began her research during the late 1980s, HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... before any kind of a public queer identity existed in that country. After a decade of conducting interviews, as well as observing and analyzing plays, books, pop music, and graffiti, Essig presents the first sustained study of how and why there was no Soviet gay community or even gay identity before perestroika and the degree to which this situation has-or has not-changed. While male homosexual acts were criminalized in Russia before 1993, women attracted to women were policed by the medical community, who saw them less as criminals than as diseased persons potentially cured by drug therapy or transsexual surgery. After describing accounts of preperestroika persecution, Essig examines the more recent state of sexual identities in Russia. Although the fall of communism brought new freedom to Russian queers, there are still no signs of a mass movement forming around the issue, and few identify themselves as lesbians or gay men, even when they are involved in same-sex relations. Essig does reveal, however, vibrant manifestations of gay life found at the local level-in restaurants, discos, clubs, and cruising strips, in newspapers, journals, literature, and the theater. Concluding with a powerful exploration of the surprising affinities between some of Russia's most prominent nationalists and its queers, Queer in Russia fills a gap in both Russian and cultural studies. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ol nt TU r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:44 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/45e0362639b0f8224f2954e611cecc9b.pdf ec645808f4f046358ea3a4513f6dba22 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... eNews January 29th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Sam Harris Programming Note 2013 Tax Letters Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the Black Hearts Ball on Friday, February 14th, 2014 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Black Hearts Ball First Thursday Art ACA Assistance Guys Dine Too Hate Crimes in the Heartland K9 Boot Camp OUTlaw Legal Series EBA Sponsor Engagement Party EBA Camp Fire Green Country Flapjack Fundraiser National Dine for 2-1-1 Day The Cheril Vendetti Experience OK LGBT College Summit Parenting Workshop Art Show Equality Day attheCapitol -- Sam Harris "HAM: Slices of Life" Saturday, February 1st, 2014; 8:00 pm Tulsa Community College Vantrease PACE 10300 E 81st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Purchase tickets by phone 918.595.7777 or visit myticketoffice.com. OkEq members may call or visit the ticket office between the hours of 10:00 am to 6:00 pm to purchase tickets. A 50% discount will be applied by using the password "Equality Sam" Limit will be 2 tickets per patron. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer SAM HARRIS in "HAM: Slices of a Life" is a show based on his new book of the same title (a collection of stories and essays published by Simon & Schuster). Harris calls the show a "liter-usical," as it incorporates humorous and poignant stories from the book artfully interspersed with 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... songs to create an original and cutting-edge stage piece. Harris's successful career has spanned 30 years, and now he adds "author" to his long list of accomplishments, unveiled in this innovative and exciting hybrid theatrical concept. Find Us on Facebook Programming Note There will be no Tai Chi or Self Defense classes during the month of February. 2013 Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2013 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 20th, 7:00 pm Black Hearts Ball Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Friday, February 14th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:30 pm OkEq Art Exhibit oklahomans for equality www.okeq.org The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Cristiana Prado Friday, February 14th, 2014 Been dumped? Stood up? Hate your Ex? NO Date? Perfect!! Take Back Valentine's Day at the Black Hearts Ball 2014 Free admission 7:30 pm til 10:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center DJ, Cash Bar, finger foods, No cupids! Fantastic Raffle Items! February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 6th, 2014; 6:00 pm Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Eric Humphries in a show titled "Can't Stop! - America's Journey from the Slave House to the White House", beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, February 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The February meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Desi Wok on Tuesday, February 4th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Desi Wok is located at 3966 South Hudson Avenue, on the north side of 41st St on Hudson Ave. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org www.desiwok.net Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. 'Hate Crimes in the Heartland' Monday, February 3rd, 2014; 6:00 pm - 8:30 pm Counseling Services Greenwood Cultural Center 322 North Greenwood Ave Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC Film to foster dialogue on race relations in Tulsa and the United States Hate Crimes in the Heartland, a new documentary explores the 250,000 hate crimes committed in the United States each year through the lens of two hate crimes in Tulsa, Oklahoma. On February 3rd, 2014, the Greenwood Cultural Center presents the world premiere of Hate Crimes in the Heartland during Black History Month. 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... The Greenwood Cultural Center, a natural partner to the film, has been a part of the education and rebuilding process of the black community in the aftermath of the 1921 Race Riot. The Center is dedicated to rebuilding the thriving center of commerce of Greenwood that was once considered America's "Black Wall Street". The Greenwood Cultural Center and the George Kaiser Family Foundation seek to engage minority, student and interfaith community members at Hate Crimes in the Heartland. The film allows audiences to focus on solutions, local heroes and distinguished speakers. Like no other documentary exploring this topic, Hate Crimes in the Heartland tells powerful stories of survivors, activists, leaders, and community members. The film explores current and past hate crimes in our nation, asking important questions related to social justice, our individual and collective responsibility along with a true examination of the media's influence on the justice system. For more information about the film and screening, contact the Greenwood Cultural Center at 918.596.1020. 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Starting Sundays, February 2nd, 2014; 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Tai Chi Class No Tai Chi class in February Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, February 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. February's Topic: What's going on in Utah and why you should care. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: TW's AFAB Catering nv-11-AfAB ca•ering w, Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold .IW afabcatering com Tul a Kitchen : TW'S•Af'AU Catenna 918-582-8608 Oklahoma City Kitchen : Se" ~ng all of Oklahoma from Ki tchens in Tulsa and Oklahoma Wt-1lsoti• hn r to 405-236-2500 ~1ruas, .1is,:u-11n1 KSl$..U Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tuesdays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Plan Your Wedding Reception Now eb Click on the EVENT PLA1 1 ER button on our website to get stru1cd on our event www.twsafabcatering.com Marriage Equality - Engagement Party Wednesday, February 12th, 2014; 5:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... SAGE Tulsa All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Tulsa, OK 74114 Attention Couples and Allies: Join in for a celebration of Oklahoma's progress on Same-Sex Marriage with a Tulsa Engagement Party. Announce your desire to marry as soon as it is legal in Oklahoma. (Date TBD) Certificates provided to couples announcing. There will be food, drink and music. Let's celebrate your relationship with all LGBTQ friendly congregations in Tulsa at All Souls Unitarian Church Wednesday February 12th, 2014 at 5:30 pm. For more information contact: (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Rev. Tamara Lebak Associate Minister All Souls Unitarian Church phone: 918.743.2363 ext. 324 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Wood Stone Design, 1303 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Wood Stone Design 1303 E 15th St Tulsa, Oklahoma Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale Monday, February 3rd, 2014; 3:45 - 5:30 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... Oklahomans for Equality will host a youth group from Tulsa Camp Fire's Teens in Action program selling candy at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Monday, February 3rd, 2014 from 3:45 pm to 5:30 pm. Camp Fire is youth-centered, engages families in fun activities, welcoming and inclusive, builds Light the fire within youth and adult partnerships, and provides service to others. Come support our young people and stop by their candy stand. ~ ¥ Ai\ Camp Fire Flapjack Fundraiser Saturday, February 8th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:00 am Applebee's Flapjack Fundraiser 9409 E 71st St Tulsa No Self Defense class in February Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members • Applebees· n/j\~(B~ - ~ dralser Tulsa JOLT When: Saturday, February 8th, 2014 7:30 am - 10:00 am Where: 9409 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK Cost: $7.00 per person, also serving $3.00 Mimosas All proceeds benefit Tulsa JOLT Bowling www.jolttulsa.com National Dine for 2-1-1 Day Tuesday, February 11th, 2014 Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. s:r::cc.. ma ~ c:a 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... Rainbow Writers . ■ ~ Ef.,.aM nat 1ona 2-1-1 uay o min~ february 11, 2014 Support A Great Non -Profit Service and Eat Well Too! Dine at one of these fabulous restaurants on 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ------to attend Tuesday, February 11, 2014 And they'll donate to the 2-1-1 Hotline! ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Just say 2-1-1 when you order at: BRADY DISTRICT Hey Mambo mam □ o 114 North Boston Ave. Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. DECO DISTRICT DOWNTOWN The Vault 7/v 620 South Cincinnati Ave Mod's Coffee and Crepes 507 South Boston Ave. 31\ Elote Cafe nd Catering ~ f A-1-~. 14 South Boston Ave. ''i ii ~ 5 '1t HP - - , BLUE DOME DISTRICT Dilly Deli 402 East 2nd Street Yokozuna 309 East 2nd Street 'IJ~c>-VV'e The Dust Bowl , , ., ~ ~ • • 211 South Elgin ( JAMEs I_,~.y.11 EWE's] Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members James E. McNellie's Pub 409 East 1st Street-Blue Dome p BROOKSIDE Hibiscus 3316 South Peoria R Bar 3421 South Peoria [-~AM - ES_§_,q_tl_s_.E_W_E '_ sJ SOUTHTULSA Yoga A - Z James E. McNellie's Pub-South Citv 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... 7031 South Zurich Avenue Learn more here: www.211tulsa.org 2-6~6. * The Cheril Vendetti Experience Saturday, February 15th, 2014; 9:00 pm & 10:30 pm Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm c.s~ t 10 @~rrl~~ 328 E. lST ST, TULSA BETWEEN EL GUAPO'S & S&J' S 2014 Oklahoma LGBT College Summit Saturday, March 1st, 2014; 10:00 am - 5:30 pm TEN Institute is proud to announce the 2014 Oklahoma LGBTQQIA College Summit to be held on Saturday, March 1st, 2014 from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm in the Main Building at Oklahoma City Community College. This exciting one-day meeting will give lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, and allied college students the knowledge and skills to start and sustain a gay-straight alliance (GSA), advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) issues, and much more. Panelists will include Professor Toby Beauchamp, representatives from The Equality Network, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, and ■TEN Ill institute Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... students, faculty, and staff from universities and colleges around the state. This year's host organization is L.I.F.E. (Leading Individuals for Equality) at Oklahoma City Community College. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals For more information or to register for the Summit, go to http:// tinyurl.com/2014CollegeSummit. Registration is free and includes lunch and a t-shirt. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Exhibitors and organizations are welcome to set up informational displays at the Summit. To reserve a table, contact Tennent Emmons at temmons@occc.edu. Parenting Workshop Pt 2; Foster Care & Adoption Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm The first part of the Gamily parenting workshop, Maybe Baby, was a wonderful success! Now onto our second part, Foster care & Adoption. There are children within our community in need of a loving home with loving people. Is that you? We will be having representatives from local agencies to provide you with information to prepare your nest and answer all your wildest questions. This informative event will take place on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014 from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or Collaborative Art Show at The Outlet Saturday, February 8th, 2014; 8:00 pm The Outlet 1317 E 6th St Tulsa, OK Want art? Want music? Want entertainment that helps the community? Come to the show at the Outlet on February 8th, 2014! Starts at 8:00 pm and only costs $5, or $2 if you're a student! Come check out some young, THE l~~UTLET COLLABORATION . CONNEC TION . CREATION , ANGELINE JOT MCBRIDE JONATHAN HECKMAN KARI MICHELLE CLAIRE COLLINS ECHO BONES JAKE JONES Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org at EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... local talent and help Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. The Outlet will be selling a variety of soda and water for $1 for the cause, and artists will be selling their work as well. Come listen to music, enjoy dancers, admire fashion, watch films, gaze at paintings and drawings, and have a night filled with expression. VALERIE CRANT BLAKE SHELTON SMIDCE ISCRIC HEYIDOLLFACE TEMPEST CARTWRICHT COATIE POP FE88TH SPH- 11PM A.T™E CREATIVE ltOOH 1317 E 6Tli ST TULSA.OK /AOMISSON,$S,$1WITH ST\J 10. PROCEEDS FI\OM TICKET SA.LES GO TO OKlAHOHANS FOR EQUALITY Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday https://www.facebook.com/theoutlettulsa 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol Wednesday, February 26th, 2014; 8:00 am The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBTQ and allied people from across Oklahoma to the 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol on Wednesday, February 26th from 8:00 am to Noon. Let's show the collective strength of TEN, An Otdahom11 W1Jl'r-t EvtrJ'Ont I, Equal Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, PFLAG chapters, Mothers of Many, GSAs, OKC Pride, Tulsa Pride, other Pride festivals, Marriage Equality Rights for Oklahoma, and the many other voices and organizations working for equality for LGBTQ Oklahomans. With the marriage equality case on its way to appeal, this year it is critically important that our legislators meet you, your partners, your families, your supportive clergy, your friends, and your allies. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. 1 The 1::quality : Network Click here to register (it's free and includes breakfast) Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Imperial Court of All Oklahoma presents Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: A Mardi Gras Celebration "A Sweet Time in Old New Orleans" Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... Saturday, February 28th, 2014 Bamboo Lounge 8:00 pm - Drinks & Desserts 9:00 pm - Show $3 Suggested Door Cover (21+) Silent Auction, 50/50 Raffle Dress: Formal or Theme Featuring: Chasing Nadean and other Oklahoma Performers For more information, visit impcourtok.webs.com Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendars for 2014 are back in stock! They are $10, and the proceeds go to the Tulsa Firefighters Educational Clowns Fund. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org . ~ Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Transparent: Love, Family and Living the T with Transgender Teenagers' by Cris Beam You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center When Cris Beam moved to Los Angeles, she thought she might volunteer just a few hours at a school for gay and transgender kids. Instead, she found herself drawn deeply into the pained and powerful group of transgirls she discovered. Transparent introduces four: Christina, Dominique, Foxxjazell, and Ariel. As they accept Cris into their world, she shows it to us-a dizzying mix of familiar teenage cliques and crushes and far less familiar challenges, such as how to morph your body on a few dollars a day. Funny, heartbreaking, defiant, and sometimes defeated, the girls form a singular community. But they struggle valiantly to resolve the gap between the way they feel inside and the way the world sees them-and who among us can't identify with that? Beam's astute reporting, sensitive writing, and passionate engagement with her characters place this book in the ranks of the very best narrative nonfiction. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:45 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d7d2f0b0b3989c4b0b14a207aac62f53.pdf e065045fac2404f537f89b4943e8aea4 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... eNews February 5th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Heartland Pride Summit Programming Note 2013 Tax Letters Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the Black Hearts Ball on Friday, February 14th, 2014 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Creating Change Black Hearts Ball First Thursday Art ACA Assistance K9 Boot Camp OUTlaw Legal Series Engagement Party Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale , Suite 200, Tulsa OK EBA Flapjack Fundraiser Parenting Workshop Tennis Championship EBA Sponsor Tax Preparation Workshop Heartland Pride Summit - InterPride Region 3 Friday, February 7th - Sunday, February 9th, 2014 National Dine for 2-1-1 Day OK LGBT College Summit Art Show Second Sunday Series HEARTLAND Equality Day at theCapitol -Mardi Gras Masquerade The Cheril Vendetti Experience Imperial Court of All Oklahoma SUMMIT -- INTERPRIDE REGION 3 Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Oklahomans for Equality will welcome Pride delegates from across the Heartland region this weekend and host the Heartland Pride Summit InterPride Region 3. Conference participants will come from 24 different Pride organizations and 11 different states. InterPride is the international organization that ties LGBT Pride together globally. Members of the organization are dedicated volunteers who organize and work to put on Pride events all over the world. InterPride's Mission is to increase the capacity of the network of LGBTI Pride organizations around the world to raise awareness of cultural, social and legal inequality, and to effect positive change through education, collaboration, advocacy and outreach. Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 2 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... Oklahomans for Equality applauds our very own Patrick French, OkEq Board of Director, Tulsa Pride Director and the Region 3 Director for InterPride, for his incredible organizing and networking skills in bringing this first ever international conference to Tulsa. Programming Note There will be no Tai Chi or Self Defense classes during the month of February. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. 2013 Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2013 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org Creating Change - Houston, TX OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Eric Humphries Oklahomans for Equality sent 10 delegates to the Creating Change Conference in Houston Texas. Creating Change is the largest LGBT Movement gathering in the world presented by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. www.creatingchange.org Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 3 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Toby visits with openly lesbian Mayor of Houston, Annise Parker OkEq delegates participated in workshop sessions on Suicide prevention, Domestic violence, transgender employment, LGBT public policy advocacy, elder advocacy, LGBT health, anti-bullying, youth leadership development, parenting, adoption and foster care studies, immigration and women's reproductive rights. Attendees were Mary Jones, Samantha Checotah, Jami Willow, Chris Allen, Emma Todd, Ben Crittenden, Gordon George, John Madigan, Andrew Gordon, and Toby Jenkins. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Counseling Services OkEq crew outside Houston City Hall with rainbow light display Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 4 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... E.Jett@OkEq.org Black Hearts Ball Friday, February 14th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:30 pm Counseling Services oklahomans for equality www.okeq.org Friday, February 14th, 2014 Been dumped? Stood up? Hate your Ex? NO Date? Perfect!! Take Back Valentine's Day at the Black Hearts Ball 2014 Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Free admission 7:30 pm til 10:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center DJ, Cash Bar, finger foods, No cupids! Fantastic Raffle Items! February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 6th, 2014; 6:00 pm The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Eric Humphries in a show titled "Can't Stop! - America's Journey from the Slave House to the White House", beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tai Chi Class No Tai Chi class in February Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Affordable Care Act Assistance 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 5 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Starting Sundays, February 9th, 2014; 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, February 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 6 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... February's Topic: What's going on in Utah and why you should care. Marriage Equality - Engagement Party Wednesday, February 12th, 2014; 5:30 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Tulsa, OK 74114 Attention Couples and Allies: Join in for a celebration of Oklahoma's progress on Same-Sex Marriage with a Tulsa Engagement Party. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy Announce your desire to marry as soon as it is legal in Oklahoma. (Date TBD) Certificates provided to couples announcing. There will be food, drink and music. for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Let's celebrate your relationship with all LGBTQ friendly congregations in Tulsa at All Souls Unitarian Church Wednesday February 12th, 2014 at 5:30 pm. For more information contact: Rev. Tamara Lebak Associate Minister All Souls Unitarian Church phone: 918.743.2363 ext. 324 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Wood Stone Design, 1303 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Wood Stone Design 1303 E 15th St Tulsa, Oklahoma Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Flapjack Fundraiser Saturday, February 8th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:00 am Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 7 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... Applebee's Flapjack Fundraiser 9409 E 71st St Tulsa No Self Defense class in February Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members • Applebees· n111~(B[TI - ~ llralser Tulsa JOLT When: Saturday, February 8th, 2014 7:30 am - 10:00 am Where: 9409 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK Cost: $7.00 per person, also serving $3.00 Mimosas All proceeds benefit Tulsa JOLT Bowling www.jolttulsa.com Parenting Workshop Pt 2; Foster Care & Adoption Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm The first part of the Gamily parenting workshop, Maybe Baby, was a wonderful success! Now onto our second part, Foster care & Adoption. There are children within our community in need of a loving home with loving people. Is that you? We will be having representatives from local agencies to provide you with information to prepare your nest and answer all your wildest questions. This informative event will take place on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014 from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or at Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gay & Lesbian World Tennis Championship Tulsan, Carlos Salazar, wins top prize in Doubles Division Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. s:r::cc.. ma ~ c:a 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 8 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org -----to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Making Tulsa proud, Carlos Salazar (pictured on the left) takes the grand prize in the Gay & Lesbian World Tennis Championship in the Doubles division. Congratulations Carlos! If you would be interested in joining a tennis team in the Equality Sport Alliance, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tax Preparation Workshop for Couples Tuesday, February 25th, 2014; 7:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, February 25th, 2014 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm, Equality Business Alliance member and CPA, Kelly Kirby, will lead a free tax preparation workshop focused for couples who have been married out of state. Kelly Yoga A - Z 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 9 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... will help you through the process of filing jointly for your federal taxes and as individual for your state taxes. If you would like more information or to sign up for the class, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org National Dine for 2-1-1 Day Tuesday, February 11th, 2014 Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 10 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... . ■ ~ Ef.,.aM nat 1ona 2-1-1 uay o min~ information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet february 11, 2014 Support A Great Non -Profit Service and Eat Well Too! Dine at one of these fabulous restaurants on Tuesday, February 11, 2014 And they'll donate to the 2-1-1 Hotline! Just say 2-1-1 when you order at: BRADY DISTRICT Hey Mambo mam □ o 114 North Boston Ave. DECO DISTRICT DOWNTOWN The Vault 7/v Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 620 South Cincinnati Ave Mod's Coffee and Crepes 507 South Boston Ave. 31\ Elote Cafe nd Catering ~ f A-1-~. 14 South Boston Ave. ''i ii ~ 5 '1t HP - - , BLUE DOME DISTRICT Dilly Deli 402 East 2nd Street Yokozuna 309 East 2nd Street 'IJ~c>-VV'e The Dust Bowl , , ., ~ ~ • • 211 South Elgin ( JAMEs I_,~.y.11 EWE's] EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. James E. McNellie's Pub 409 East 1st Street-Blue Dome p BROOKSIDE Hibiscus 3316 South Peoria R Bar 3421 South Peoria [-~AM - ES_§_,q_tl_s_.E_W_E '_ sJ SOUTHTULSA Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday James E. McNellie's Pub-South Citv 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 11 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... 7031 South Zurich Avenue Learn more here: www.211tulsa.org 2-6~6. * 2014 Oklahoma LGBT College Summit Saturday, March 1st, 2014; 10:00 am - 5:30 pm TEN Institute is proud to announce the 2014 Oklahoma LGBTQQIA College Summit to be held on Saturday, March 1st, 2014 from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm in the Main Building at Oklahoma City Community College. This exciting one-day meeting will give lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, and allied college students the knowledge and skills to start and sustain a gay-straight alliance (GSA), advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) issues, and much more. Panelists will include Professor Toby Beauchamp, representatives from The Equality Network, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, and students, faculty, and staff from universities and colleges around the state. This year's host organization is L.I.F.E. (Leading Individuals for Equality) at Oklahoma City Community College. ■TEN IN institute For more information or to register for the Summit, go to http:// tinyurl.com/2014CollegeSummit. Registration is free and includes lunch and a t-shirt. Exhibitors and organizations are welcome to set up informational displays at the Summit. To reserve a table, contact Tennent Emmons at temmons@occc.edu. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Collaborative Art Show at The Outlet Saturday, February 8th, 2014; 8:00 pm The Outlet 1317 E 6th St Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 12 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... Want art? Want music? Want entertainment that helps the community? Come to the show at the Outlet on February 8th, 2014! Starts at 8:00 pm and only costs $5, or $2 if you're a student! Come check out some young, local talent and help Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. The Outlet will be selling a variety of soda and water for $1 for the cause, and artists will be selling their work as well. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Come listen to music, enjoy dancers, admire fashion, watch films, gaze at paintings and drawings, and have a night filled with expression. https://www.facebook.com/theoutlettulsa OpenTable UCC Second Sunday Series w/ Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit Plaintiffs Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Sunday, February 9th, 2014; 6:00 pm OpenTable UCC 6540 N 131st E Ave Owasso, OK 74055 OpenTable UCC in Owasso will be hosting all four plaintiffs in the OK Marriage Equality Lawsuit on Sunday, February 9 at 6:00pm. (This event is part of our Second Sunday Surprise series that is designed to highlight progressive religious thought.) Mary Bishop, Sharon Baldwin, Sue Barton, and Gay Phillips will talk about the reasons behind their lawsuit, their thoughts on the delayed decision, next steps, and more. There will be time for questions and discussion following their presentation. We will close out our evening with a potluck supper (feel free to bring a dish to share). For more information, visit the Facebook page Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - --- . ~ 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol Wednesday, February 26th, 2014; 8:00 am The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBTQ and allied people from across Oklahoma to the 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol on Wednesday, February 26th from 8:00 am to Noon. I The Equality Network 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 13 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... Let's show the collective strength of TEN, An Oklahoma Whtrt Evtr)'Ont I, Equal Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, PFLAG chapters, Mothers of Many, GSAs, OKC Pride, Tulsa Pride, other Pride festivals, Marriage Equality Rights for Oklahoma, and the many other voices and organizations working for equality for LGBTQ Oklahomans. With the marriage equality case on its way to appeal, this year it is critically important that our legislators meet you, your partners, your families, your supportive clergy, your friends, and your allies. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. Click here to register (it's free and includes breakfast) Mardi Gras Masquerade Friday, February 28th, 2014; 6:00 pm Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St For more information or tickets, call 918.582.3088 The Cheril Vendetti Experience Saturday, February 15th, 2014; 9:00 pm & 10:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 14 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... cs~ s10 (i)~rrl~~ 328 E. lST ST, TULSA BETWEEN EL GUAPO'S & S&J' S Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Imperial Court of All Oklahoma presents A Mardi Gras Celebration "A Sweet Time in Old New Orleans" Friday, February 28th, 2014 Bamboo Lounge 8:00 pm - Drinks & Desserts 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 15 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... 9:00 pm - Show $3 Suggested Door Cover (21+) Silent Auction, 50/50 Raffle Dress: Formal or Theme Featuring: Chasing Nadean and other Oklahoma Performers For more information, visit impcourtok.webs.com Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendars for 2014 are back in stock! They are $10, and the proceeds go to the Tulsa Firefighters Educational Clowns Fund. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 16 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... 'Witness to AIDS' by Edwin Cameron You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center When Edwin Cameron announced to a stunned local and international media that he - one of South Africa's most prominent citizens - was himself living with the virus cutting swathes through the population of the continent, the impact was immediate. In Witness to AIDS, Edwin Cameron's compelling memoir, he grapples with the meaning of HIV/AIDS: for him as he confronts the possibility of his own lingering death, and for all of us in facing up to one of the most desperate challenges of our time. In his intensely personal account of survival, Cameron blends elements of his destitute childhood with his daily duties as a senior judge and international human rights lawyer, while focusing always on the epidemic's central issues : stigma, unjust discrimination, and, most vitally, the life-and-death question of access to treatment. Cameron's remarkable story of his own survival in an epidemic that has cost millions of lives is at once moving and uplifting, sobering and ultimately hopeful. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:46 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3eae83a9e34587e9091903b78f94ac51.pdf ed6daada164c9f4a6580a2571960c01f PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... eNews February 13th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Programming Note Black Hearts Ball OUTlaw Legal Series Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the Black Hearts Ball on Friday, February 14th, 2014 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time First Thursday Art Show K9 Boot Camp EBA Parenting Workshop Tax Preparation Workshop Sisters In Song EBA Sponsor ACA Assistance OK LGBT College Summit Equality theCapitol - Day -at Reconciliation Dinner Mardi Gras Masquerade The Cheril Vendetti Experience Doug Shadell Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library Programming Note Volunteer There will be no Tai Chi or Self Defense classes during the month of February. Black Hearts Ball Find Us on Facebook Friday, February 14th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:30 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... February 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. oklahomans for equality www.okeq.org OkEq Art Exhibit Friday, February 14th, 2014 Been dumped? Stood up? Hate your Ex? NO Date? Perfect!! Take Back Valentine's Day at the Black Hearts Ball 2014 The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Eric Humphries Free admission 7:30 pm til 10:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center DJ, Cash Bar, finger foods, No cupids! Fantastic Raffle Items! OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, February 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. February's Topic: What's going on in Utah and why you should care. First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... Counseling Services The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Joe Staskal in a show titled "Escape from FatCityClay (Am I still here?)", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Sundays at 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Wood Stone Design, 1303 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Wood Stone Design 1303 E 15th St Tulsa, Oklahoma Parenting Workshop Pt 2; Foster Care & Adoption Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm The first part of the Gamily parenting workshop, Maybe Baby, was a wonderful success! Now onto our second part, Foster care & Adoption. There are children within our community in need of a loving home with loving people. Is that you? We will be having representatives from local agencies to provide you with information to prepare your nest and answer all your wildest questions. This informative event will take place on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014 from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! Counseling Services or scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org at Tax Preparation Workshop for Couples Tuesday, February 25th, 2014; 7:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, February 25th, 2014 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm, Equality Business Alliance member and CPA, Kelly Kirby, will lead a free tax preparation workshop focused for couples who have been married out of state. Kelly will help you through the process of filing jointly for your federal taxes and as individual for your state taxes. If you would like more information or to sign up for the class, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Sisters in Song present 'Romance & Chocolate' Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 7:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Romance & Chocolates Wine with dinner begins at 6:30 pm, Music & Entertainment begins at 7:00 pm Featuring Tareal Phillips and special guest Jim Craven Silent auctions throughout the evening. At Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tickets $25, Reserved tables available. Tai Chi Class No Tai Chi class in February Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... Limited to 96 Seats, advance purchase is advised. Like us on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I • • ' . Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: TW's AFAB Catering w, Serving all of Oklahoma from Ki tche ns in T ulsa and Oklahoma W~•luaD•h'rttto .tw afabcatering.com Tulsa Kitchen: 9 18- 82-8608 Oklahoma ity Kitchen : 405-236-2500 1,ns:1S,l•°kSOW11ndJ<inu3 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Plan Your Wedding Reception Now eb Click on the EVE T PLA~E R button on our website to get ·tarted on yo ur event www.tw safabcater.ing.com Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. 2014 Oklahoma LGBT College Summit Saturday, March 1st, 2014; 10:00 am - 5:30 pm TEN Institute is proud to announce the 2014 Oklahoma LGBTQQIA College Summit to be held on Saturday, March 1st, 2014 from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm in the Main Building at Oklahoma City Community College. This exciting one-day meeting will give lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, and allied college students the knowledge and skills to start and sustain a gay-straight alliance (GSA), advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) issues, and much more. Panelists will include Professor Toby Beauchamp, representatives from The Equality Network, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, and students, faculty, and staff from universities and colleges around the state. This year's host organization is L.I.F.E. (Leading Individuals for Equality) at Oklahoma City Community College. ■TEN IN institute For more information or to register for the Summit, go to http:// tinyurl.com/2014CollegeSummit. Registration is free and includes lunch and a t-shirt. Exhibitors and organizations are welcome to set up informational displays at the Summit. To reserve a table, contact Tennent Emmons at temmons@occc.edu. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol Wednesday, February 26th, 2014; 8:00 am The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBTQ and allied people from across Oklahoma to the 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol on Wednesday, February 26th from 8:00 am to Noon. Let's show the collective strength of TEN, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, I . The Equality Network An Oldahomu Whtr-t Evtr)'Ont l1 Equal No Self Defense class in February Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 4/23/26, 11:47 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... PFLAG chapters, Mothers of Many, GSAs, OKC Pride, Tulsa Pride, other Pride festivals, Marriage Equality Rights for Oklahoma, and the many other voices and organizations working for equality for LGBTQ Oklahomans. With the marriage equality case on its way to appeal, this year it is critically important that our legislators meet you, your partners, your families, your supportive clergy, your friends, and your allies. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. Click here to register (it's free and includes breakfast) Reconciliation Dinner with East Side Christian Church Sunday, March 2nd, 2014; 5:00 pm Join East Side Christian Church at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a "Fat Sunday" Mardi Gras dinner of reconciliation on Sunday, March 2nd, 2014 at 5:00 pm. East Side Christian Church is offering this free meal to the LGBTQ community as a show of good faith. Steve Ham and fellow musicians from the Steve Ham's Jambalaya Jazz Band will be performing during the dinner. This is a free Cajun dinner but space will be limited. Please RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Mardi Gras Masquerade Friday, February 28th, 2014; 6:00 pm Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and Rainbow Writers !111!1!11t1 Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St For more information or tickets, call 918.582.3088 ~·~~.,. .... .~-~ �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members The Cheril Vendetti Experience Saturday, February 15th, 2014; 9:00 pm & 10:30 pm Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night cs~ s10 (i)~rrl~~ 328 E. lST ST, TULSA BETWEEN EL GUAPO'S & S&J' S Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Doug Shadell Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 9:00 & 10:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org ~~ J10 (i)~i'tt~i COMEDYPARLOR.COM ......&...... 328E.1S1 ST, TULSA 111111 Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Imperial Court of All Oklahoma presents g E Business Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday A Mardi Gras Celebration "A Sweet Time in Old New Orleans" Friday, February 28th, 2014 Bamboo Lounge 8:00 pm - Drinks & Desserts 9:00 pm - Show Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... Oklahoma JobLink. $3 Suggested Door Cover (21+) Silent Auction, 50/50 Raffle Dress: Formal or Theme Featuring: Chasing Nadean and other Oklahoma Performers For more information, visit impcourtok.webs.com Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Put a little 'ooh-la-la' in Valentine's Day with one of these rainbow garter sets ($20) HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 'Paws and Reflect: Exploring the Bond Between Gay Men and Their Dogs' by Neil S. Plakcy & Sharon Sakson 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For most dog owners, our dogs are not possessions, they are family. Gay men in particular have found joy in bringing dogs into their nuclear circles. Their dogs love them unconditionally, without judgment or regard to sexual orientation; comfort them when they are in pain; and because most men outlive their dogs, teach them extraordinary lessons in how to cope with loss. . . Paws and Reflect is a celebration of all the dogs we have loved in the past, the dogs we love now, and the dogs of our future, who are only waiting for the right moment for us to invite them to join in our lives." -- From the Introduction Through interviews and with original contributions, Paws and Reflect explores and celebrates the special and powerful bond between twentyfive gay men and their dogs. Interviewees included Pulitzer Prize-winning playwright Edward Albee, Cannes award-winning director Jonathon Caouette, Academy Award-nominated writer Ron Nyswaner, actor and playwright Charles Busch and Animal Planet's David Mizejewski, with contributions from authors Jay Quinn, Alistair McCartney and seventeen others. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library .• •••~ Vol nt TU r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:47 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e69cbbc0359a1cd668d10966044234bc.pdf 7788a520db6aa17f7a6ef153fff3b422 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... eNews February 21st, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Parenting Workshop Tax Preparation Workshop Equality Day atthe ----Capitol - Welcome to the eNews. On Tuesday, February 25th, 2014 at 7:00 pm, OkEq is hosting a Tax Preparation Workshop for couples who have been married out of state. For more information or to RSVP for the workshop, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Reconciliation Dinner Girl Scout Cookie Sale First Thursday Art Show Guys Dine Too Programming Note Out2Enroll ACA Event The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Sisters In Song K9 Boot Camp Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. OUTlaw Legal Series Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com EBA Sponsor 2014 Equality Gala ACA Assistance Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK OK LGBT College Summit Parenting Workshop Pt 2; Foster Care & Adoption CampOUT City of Tulsa BRIDGE Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Tulsa Unity String Orchestra The first part of the Gamily parenting workshop, Maybe Baby, was a wonderful success! Now onto our second part, Foster care & Adoption. There are children within our community in need of a loving home with loving people. Is that you? We will be having representatives from local agencies to provide you with information to prepare your nest and answer all your wildest questions. This informative event will take place on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014 from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or at EBA Mardi Gras Masquerade Doug Shadell Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Tax Preparation Workshop for Couples Tuesday, February 25th, 2014; 7:00 - 9:00 pm Find Us on Facebook Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, February 25th, 2014 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm, Equality Business Alliance member and CPA, Kelly Kirby, will lead a free tax preparation workshop focused 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... for couples who have been married out of state. Kelly will help you through the process of filing jointly for your federal taxes and as individual for your state taxes. If you would like more information or to sign up for the class, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol Wednesday, February 26th, 2014; 8:00 am I The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBTQ and allied people from across Oklahoma to the 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol on Wednesday, February 26th from 8:00 am to Noon. Let's show the collective strength of TEN, An Oklahoma Wht>rl' £1-tr,.ont' ls Equal Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, PFLAG chapters, Mothers of Many, GSAs, OKC Pride, Tulsa Pride, other Pride festivals, Marriage Equality Rights for Oklahoma, and the many other voices and organizations working for equality for LGBTQ Oklahomans. With the marriage equality case on its way to appeal, this year it is critically important that our legislators meet you, your partners, your families, your supportive clergy, your friends, and your allies. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. . The Equality Network OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Click here to register (it's free and includes breakfast) Reconciliation Dinner with East Side Christian Church Sunday, March 2nd, 2014; 5:00 pm Join East Side Christian Church at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a "Fat Sunday" Mardi Gras dinner of reconciliation on Sunday, March 2nd, 2014 at 5:00 pm. East Side Christian Church is offering this free meal to the LGBTQ community as a show of good faith. Steve Ham and fellow musicians from the Steve Ham's Jambalaya Jazz Band will be performing during the dinner. This is a free Cajun dinner but space will be limited. Please RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Eric Humphries - - --- Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 5:00 - 8:00 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 starting at 5:00 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). • I scouts~ g1r First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Joe Staskal in a show titled "Escape from FatCityClay (Am I still here?)", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Guys Dine Too Counseling Services Tuesday, March 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The March meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at P.F. Changs on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014 at around 6:30 pm. P.F. Changs is located at 1978 E. 21st St in Utica Square www.pfchangs.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com ---if you plan on attending. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Programming Note There will be no Tai Chi or Self Defense classes during the month of February. Oklahomans for Equality and Out2Enroll Raise Awareness of ACA to LGBT community in Tulsa Wednesday, March 19th, 2014; 1:30 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1:30 - 3:30 pm Training for ACA navigators, counselors and social workers 6:30 - 8:00 pm Public Town Hall Forum about the Affordable Care Act Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... E.Jett@OkEq.org White House guests for the event will include Gautam Raghavan, LGBT Liasion to the White House. Gautam last visited the Equality Center in September of 2012. Out2Enroll, the coordinated effort to educate the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community about the Affordable Care Act and direct the community to enrollment resources, is pleased to announce a new event in Tulsa, Oklahoma on March 19th, 2014 to help the LGBT community in the Tulsa area understand their new coverage options. The regional event, cosponsored by Out2Enroll and the US Department of Health and Human Services, will feature remarks and presentations from officials from the White House, national experts on efforts to engage the LGBT community in enrollment activities, and local community stakeholders and partners. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are the host for the event. On Wednesday, March 19th at the Equality Center, the event will consist of an afternoon and evening program. From 1:30 pm to 3:30 pm, there will be an informational session on effective outreach and enrollment of the LGBT community designed for navigators, certified application counselors, social workers, and other consumer assistance personnel. Following this training, there will be a public town hall on the Affordable Care Act from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm, which will feature remarks and presentations from federal officials, national experts, and local community stakeholders. This portion of the event is open to the community and LGBT individuals and families are encouraged to join to learn more about their options and ways then can enroll in coverage. Sisters in Song present 'Romance & Chocolate' Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 7:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Romance & Chocolates Wine with dinner begins at 6:30 pm, Music & Entertainment begins at 7:00 pm Featuring Tareal Phillips and special guest Jim Craven Silent auctions throughout the evening. At Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tickets $25, Reserved tables available. Limited to 96 Seats, advance purchase is advised. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tai Chi Class No Tai Chi class in February Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Like us on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Sundays at 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, March 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. March's Topic: Will drafting Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... No Self Defense class in February Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Tulsa Pride Leather Fetish Fashion Show Friday, March 21st, 2014; 10:00 pm Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ~ =- EEJ..::: ca Tulsa Eagle 1338 East Third Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 In Partnership with the Tulsa Mister Leather events, Tulsa Pride 2014 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Presents the annual Tulsa Pride Fetish Show. Join in for a night of fun. Demonstrations. Door Prizes. Raffles. Wear your gear, leather, suit, whatever your fetish. For more information about this event and all upcoing Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org - - - to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group 2014 Oklahoma LGBT College Summit Saturday, March 1st, 2014; 10:00 am - 5:30 pm TEN Institute is proud to announce the 2014 Oklahoma LGBTQQIA College Summit to be held on Saturday, March 1st, 2014 from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm in the Main Building at Oklahoma City Community College. This exciting one-day meeting will give lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, and allied college students the knowledge and skills to start and sustain a gay-straight alliance (GSA), advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) issues, and much more. Panelists will include Professor Toby Beauchamp, representatives from The Equality Network, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, and students, faculty, and staff from universities and colleges around the state. This year's host organization is L.I.F.E. (Leading Individuals for Equality) at Oklahoma City Community College. ■TEN Ill institute For more information or to register for the Summit, go to http:// tinyurl.com/2014CollegeSummit. Registration is free and includes lunch and a t-shirt. Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Exhibitors and organizations are welcome to set up informational displays at the Summit. To reserve a table, contact Tennent Emmons at temmons@occc.edu. Yoga A - Z 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Spring 2014 Retreat Youth Services of Tulsa and Campfire are working together again on creating a LGBTQ youth leadership retreat for this spring. It will be open to 8th grade through 12th grade and limited to 24 students. YST and Campfire's CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat is a chance for LGBTQ youth and allies to spend a weekend focusing on social justice issues that they are passionate about. Interested youth must complete the application by March 14th. If accepted, a parent or guardian will have to sign a permission slip. The fee for the retreat it $10, however, no one will be denied for an inability to pay. Food will be provided and youth will sleep in a cabin, though they must bring their own bedding. For registration information or for any questions, contact Victoria Wiener at vwiener@yst.org or 918.625.1570 City of Tulsa Human Rights Department BRIDGE Training and Workshop Tuesday, March 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 4:00 pm Tulsa Convention Center 100 Civic Center - North Ballroom Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Free and open to the public. Building Resources in Developing and Growing Enterprises (BRIDGE) promotes connections between small, developing and growing businesses and opportunities available through larger companies in the area. Promoting the Growth, Expansion, Innovation and and increased Productivity of minority and female and BRIDGE disadvantaged business enterprises, the 7th Annual BRIDGE Training and Workshop will provide you receive valuable business, an opportunity to network and promote your business or organization. For more information, contact 918.596.7818 or viist www.cityoftulsa.org/ bridge.aspx B ·1ding Bridges to Success Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Concert Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm The Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Presents "Classical Music VS. The Pops" information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Director: Mr. Adrian Rogers Guest Conductor: Mrs. Juliet Henson Host: Mr. Michael Johnson Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center *Refreshments will be provided * Admission is free* Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g EQJBusmess UALITY Al/Janee The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Hyatt Regency Dowtown Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, Oklahoma Mardi Gras Masquerade Friday, February 28th, 2014; 6:00 pm Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St For more information or tickets, call 918.582.3088 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm Doug Shadell Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 9:00 & 10:30 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- ~~ J 10 (i)~i'tt~i COMEDYPARLOR.COM ......&...... 328E.1S1 ST, TULSA 111111 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Imperial Court of All Oklahoma presents A Mardi Gras Celebration "A Sweet Time in Old New Orleans" Friday, February 28th, 2014 Bamboo Lounge 8:00 pm - Drinks & Desserts 9:00 pm - Show 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... $3 Suggested Door Cover (21+) Silent Auction, 50/50 Raffle Dress: Formal or Theme Featuring: Chasing Nadean and other Oklahoma Performers For more information, visit impcourtok.webs.com Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. -- --- Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Check out the Pride Store. Our rainbow knee socks come in 4 patterns and are only $6 a pair. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library '...And Then I Became Gay' by Ritch Savin-Williams You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... "...And Then I Became Gay" is about the lives of young men who express the complications, adversities, and satisfactions of being a sexual outsider in North America during the 1980s and 1990s. Consisting of narratives which chronicle developmental progression from first memories of being attracted to other males to a subsequent integration of their sexual identity with a personal identity, this book is also unique in its cross-section of men from different ethnic backgrounds. Although each story in this volume has a personal meaning to the individual youth disclosing it, aspects of these narratives can express a normative experience growing up gay or bisexual during the past two decades. For many of the contributors and readers, these stories may prove to be not only ones of coming out, but coming of age. " ... AND THEN I BECAME GAY" HI I I II ( . . _ , , I ' , • \ \ 11 I I \\I-.. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ol nt ru 1 A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:47 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/80c295bcd43e833e5497790f237650f2.pdf 0b9e0d33e66b7fed307e1d2f4bf6da09 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... eNews February 28th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Reconciliation Dinner Parenting Workshop Pt 3 Girl Scout Cookie Sale Welcome to the eNews. Gamily will continue their Parenting Workshop on Saturday, March 8th at 1:00 pm with a panel discussion with LGBTQ Parents. RSVP to Gamily@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality First Thursday Art Show Guys Dine Too Out2Enroll ACA Event K9 Boot Camp OUTlaw Legal Series The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Parenting Workshop Pt 4 2014 Equality Gala ACA Assistance Circle Cinema EBA Sponsor Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show OK LGBT College Summit CampOUT Tulsa Unity String Orchestra EBA MOREcolor Council Oak Mens Chorale Reconciliation Dinner with East Side Christian Church Sunday, March 2nd, 2014; 5:00 pm Join East Side Christian Church at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a "Fat Sunday" Mardi Gras dinner of reconciliation on Sunday, March 2nd, 2014 at 5:00 pm. TMSL Volunteers TMSL Spring Clinic Sam Harris Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering City of Tulsa BRIDGE Fl East Side Christian Church is offering this free meal to the LGBTQ community as a show of good faith. Steve Ham and fellow musicians from the Steve Ham's Jambalaya Jazz Band will be performing during the dinner. This is a free Cajun dinner but space will be limited. Please RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Mardi Gras Masquerade [title of show] Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Parenting Workshop Pt 3; Parents' Panel Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Find Us on Facebook Kids don't come with a manual, so why not get some advice from some people who know. We have organized a panel of parents from the community willing to share their stories and answer questions to better inform our "future" and "current" parents. Come join in on the family fun. All are welcomed, LGBTQIA, striped, poke-a-dotted, and every color of the rainbow. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or at Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 5:00 - 8:00 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the girl Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 starting at 5:00 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). v.outf); OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Eric Humphries The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Joe Staskal in a show titled "Escape from FatCityClay (Am I still here?)", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, March 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The March meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at P.F. Changs on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014 at around 6:30 pm. P.F. Changs is located at 1978 E. 21st St in Utica Square www.pfchangs.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. ---- Oklahomans for Equality and Out2Enroll Raise Awareness of ACA to LGBT community in Tulsa Wednesday, March 19th, 2014; 1:30 - 8:00 pm based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1:30 - 3:30 pm Training for ACA navigators, counselors and social workers 6:30 - 8:00 pm Public Town Hall Forum about the Affordable Care Act Counseling Services Guests for the event will include Gautam Raghavan, LGBT Liasion to the White House. Gautam last visited the Equality Center in September of 2012. And Dr. Matt Hienz, Director of Provider & LGBT Outreach Office of the Secretary US Department of Health & Human Services; Physician at Tucson Medical Center Out2Enroll, the coordinated effort to educate the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community about the Affordable Care Act and direct the community to enrollment resources, is pleased to announce a new event in Tulsa, Oklahoma on March 19th, 2014 to help the LGBT community in the Tulsa area understand their new coverage options. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The regional event, cosponsored by Out2Enroll and the US Department of Health and Human Services, will feature remarks and presentations from officials from the White House, national experts on efforts to engage the LGBT community in enrollment activities, and local community stakeholders and partners. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are the host for the event. On Wednesday, March 19th at the Equality Center, the event will consist of an afternoon and evening program. From 1:30 pm to 3:30 pm, there will be an informational session on effective outreach and enrollment of the LGBT community designed for navigators, certified application counselors, social workers, and other consumer assistance personnel. Following this training, there will be a public town hall on the Affordable Care Act from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm, which will feature remarks and presentations from federal officials, national experts, and local community stakeholders. This portion of the event is open to the community and LGBT individuals and families are encouraged to join to learn more about their options and ways then can enroll in coverage. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Sundays at 1:00 pm Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, March 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. March's Topic: Will drafting Parenting Workshop Pt 4; Legally Smart Sunday, March 22nd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members After you've thought about adding to your family, you need to think about the future. Did you ever discuss with your partner about the benefits of a 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... living will? Who can take your child to get medical attention in an emergency when you're not available? What rights does the non-biological parent have to the child? All LGBTQIA singles, couples, and "future" parents can benefit from free legal advice. Karen Keith Wilkins, EBA member and local Attorney at Law, will be present to go over the laws of Oklahoma concerning the legal aspects of having a growing family. Come ready to receive helpful information and ask plenty of questions. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm or at SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. 'Going for the Gold' Oscar Watch Party at Circle Cinema Sunday, March 2nd, 2014; 7:00 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Circle Cinema invites you to walk the red carpet and join in for a great party experience watching the 86th Academy Awards. This free event will include an Academy Awards ballot, prizes, food and drink, and all the fashion triumphs and disasters in the new theatre shown in HD. sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual For more information, visit Circle Cinema at www.circlecinema.com & Tramgender Elders The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: TW's AFAB Catering 'n\1'8-- AfAR ca,erlng www.twafabcatering.com TW's-.At=.AU catenna Serving all of Oklahoma from Ki lchens in Tulsa and Oklahoma w~ at:o O"hvttto Tul a Kitchen: 9 18-582-8608 Oklahoma City Kitchen: 405-236-2500 ·1n:as, Mts,sw-1 and K.a,sas Plan Your Wedding Reception Now eh Click on the EVENT PL NNER button on our website to get stru1ed on our evenl www.tw afabcater.ing.com Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Pride Leather Fetish Fashion Show Friday, March 21st, 2014; 10:00 pm Tulsa Eagle 1338 East Third Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 In Partnership with the Tulsa Mister Leather events, Tulsa Pride 2014 Presents the annual Tulsa Pride Fetish Show. Join in for a night of fun. Demonstrations. Door Prizes. Raffles. Wear your gear, leather, suit, Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... whatever your fetish. For more information about this event and all upcoing Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 2014 Oklahoma LGBT College Summit Saturday, March 1st, 2014; 10:00 am - 5:30 pm TEN Institute is proud to announce the 2014 Oklahoma LGBTQQIA College Summit to be held on Saturday, March 1st, 2014 from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm in the Main Building at Oklahoma City Community College. This exciting one-day meeting will give lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, and allied college students the knowledge and skills to start and sustain a gay-straight alliance (GSA), advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) issues, and much more. Panelists will include Professor Toby Beauchamp, representatives from The Equality Network, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, and students, faculty, and staff from universities and colleges around the state. This year's host organization is L.I.F.E. (Leading Individuals for Equality) at Oklahoma City Community College. ■TEN Ill institute For more information or to register for the Summit, go to http:// tinyurl.com/2014CollegeSummit. Registration is free and includes lunch and a t-shirt. Exhibitors and organizations are welcome to set up informational displays at the Summit. To reserve a table, contact Tennent Emmons at temmons@occc.edu. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat Spring 2014 Retreat Youth Services of Tulsa and Campfire are working together again on creating a LGBTQ youth leadership retreat for this spring. It will be open to 8th grade through 12th grade and limited to 24 students. YST and Campfire's CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat is a chance for LGBTQ youth and allies to spend a weekend focusing on social justice issues that they are passionate about. Interested youth must complete the application by March 14th. If accepted, a parent or guardian will have to sign a permission slip. The fee for the retreat it $10, however, no one will be denied for an inability to pay. Food will be provided and youth will sleep in a cabin, though they must bring their own bedding. For registration information or for any questions, contact Victoria Wiener at vwiener@yst.org or 918.625.1570 Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Concert Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm The Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Presents "Classical Music VS. The Pops" Director: Mr. Adrian Rogers Guest Conductor: Mrs. Juliet Henson Host: Mr. Michael Johnson ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center *Refreshments will be provided * Admission is free* Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Hyatt Regency Dowtown Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, Oklahoma No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 Lambda Al-Anon MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Game Night Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season Rehearsals Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Begin Tuesday, March 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, OK Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season will begin on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. Located at COMC rehearsal home Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, OK. COMC is looking for new members that enjoy singing and performing for family and friends. council oak counc/1 OCJlc mens choro/e Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season 2014 - "BE OUR GUEST! - A DISNEY EXTRAVAGANZA" with soloist - Eric Himan Performances will be Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 at Lorton Performance Center - University of Tulsa Campus. For more information on Council Oak Mens Chorale, visit www.counciloak.org TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org ----Stop by for a quick view of 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org www.tulsametrosoftball.com TMSL 2014 Spring Clinics Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 10:00 am Lantz Park 4902 E. Independence Ave Tulsa, Oklahoma 74106 Tulsa Metro Softball League spring clinics will be at Lantz Park (North of 244 on Yale) on Saturday, March 8th, 2014 from 10:00 am until 2:00 pm. Anyone from the league who wants to attend, whether they have a team or no, is invitedt. TMSL will identify those who are not on a roster once we get there. Coaches looking to fill their rosters are encouraged to attend. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Also, if you have players who are new to TMSL and need an initial rating, there will be several of league members there to help. Just let them know who the players are and they will help with an initial rating. Sam Harris to be featured on OETA's Writing Out Loud Monday, March 17th, 2014; 10:30 pm Sam Harris will be featured on the Monday, March 17th, 2014 episode of OETA's Writing Out Loud at 10:30 pm. Writing Out Loud features in-depth interviews with writers, every Monday, 10:30 p.m. on OETA. Hosted by Teresa Miller and sponsored by OSU. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. City of Tulsa Human Rights Department BRIDGE Training and Workshop Tuesday, March 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 4:00 pm Tulsa Convention Center 100 Civic Center - North Ballroom Free and open to the public. Building Resources in Developing and Growing Enterprises (BRIDGE) promotes connections between small, developing and growing businesses and opportunities available through larger companies in the area. Promoting the Growth, Expansion, Innovation and and increased Productivity of minority and female and BRIDGE disadvantaged business enterprises, the 7th Annual BRIDGE Training and Workshop will provide you receive valuable business, an opportunity to network and promote your business or organization. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, contact 918.596.7818 or viist www.cityoftulsa.org/ bridge.aspx Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Building Bridges to Success TulSa A Kind d fnt!tgy. Mardi Gras Masquerade Friday, February 28th, 2014; 6:00 pm Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St For more information or tickets, call 918.582.3088 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ~ [title of show] March 7th - 8th, 13th - 15th at 8:00 pm and March 9th, 2014 at 2:00 pm American Theatre Company continues it's season with the uproarious post-modern homage to 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... musical theater and the little creative person inside all of us with the Tony nominated musical [title of show]. Struggling writers Hunter and Jeff race against a deadline to enter an original musical into a theatre festival. [title of show] depicts their journey as artists and friends as they write a musical about writing a musical. Performances will be held March 7th - 8th, 13th - 15th at 8:00 pm and March 9th at 2:00 pm at the John H. Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. Tickets are $20 for adults and $14 for students. This show is recommended for mature audiences due to language and subject matter. For reservations call the Tulsa Performing Arts Center ticket office at 596-7111 or log on to www.myticketoffice.com Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Imperial Court of All Oklahoma presents A Mardi Gras Celebration "A Sweet Time in Old New Orleans" Friday, February 28th, 2014 Bamboo Lounge 8:00 pm - Drinks & Desserts 9:00 pm - Show $3 Suggested Door Cover (21+) Silent Auction, 50/50 Raffle Dress: Formal or Theme Featuring: Chasing Nadean and other Oklahoma Performers For more information, visit impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Check out the Pride Store. Our rainbow knee socks come in 4 patterns and are only $6 a pair. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Woman Bone' by Amy Gioletti You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Woman Bone is Amy Gioletti's first full-length poetry collection. It spans themes of love, sexuality, death, war, and peace. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Woman Bone A Poetry Collect,on A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:48 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b3d37683d15402ad4490ce6b2d039d2a.pdf e031b592357acd8297196cea798a43da PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... eNews March 5th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Girl Scout Cookie Sale First Thursday Art Show Parenting Workshop Pt 3 Welcome to the eNews. Gamily will continue their Parenting Workshop on Saturday, March 8th at 1:00 pm with a panel discussion with LGBTQ Parents. RSVP to Gamily@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Out2Enroll ACA Event K9 Boot Camp OUTlaw Legal Series Parenting Workshop Pt 4 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO 2014 Equality Gala EBA Sponsor Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale , Suite 200, Tulsa OK Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show CampOUT EBA MOREcolor Council Oak Mens Chorale TMSL Volunteers Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 5:00 - 8:00 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 starting at 5:00 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). girl scout!}; TMSL Spring Clinic Sam Harris Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering City of Tulsa BRIDGE [title of show] Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Joe Staskal in a show titled "Escape from FatCityClay (Am I still here?)", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 20th, 7:00 pm Parenting Workshop Pt 3; Parents' Panel Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids don't come with a manual, so why not get some advice from some people who know. We have organized a panel of parents from the community willing to share their stories and answer questions to better inform our "future" and "current" parents. Come join in on the family fun. All are welcomed, LGBTQIA, striped, poke-a-dotted, and every color of the rainbow. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Concert Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm The Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Presents at OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Joe Staskal. "Classical Music VS. The Pops" Director: Mr. Adrian Rogers Guest Conductor: Mrs. Juliet Henson Host: Mr. Michael Johnson Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center *Refreshments will be provided * Admission is free* Oklahomans for Equality and Out2Enroll Raise Awareness of ACA to LGBT community in Tulsa Wednesday, March 19th, 2014; 1:30 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1:30 - 3:30 pm Training for ACA navigators, counselors and social workers 6:30 - 8:00 pm Public Town Hall Forum about the Affordable Care Act Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... Guests for the event will include Gautam Raghavan, LGBT Liasion to the White House. Gautam last visited the Equality Center in September of 2012. And Dr. Matt Hienz, Director of Provider & LGBT Outreach Office of the Secretary US Department of Health & Human Services; Physician at Tucson Medical Center Out2Enroll, the coordinated effort to educate the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community about the Affordable Care Act and direct the community to enrollment resources, is pleased to announce a new event in Tulsa, Oklahoma on March 19th, 2014 to help the LGBT community in the Tulsa area understand their new coverage options. The regional event, cosponsored by Out2Enroll and the US Department of Health and Human Services, will feature remarks and presentations from officials from the White House, national experts on efforts to engage the LGBT community in enrollment activities, and local community stakeholders and partners. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are the host for the event. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org On Wednesday, March 19th at the Equality Center, the event will consist of an afternoon and evening program. From 1:30 pm to 3:30 pm, there will be an informational session on effective outreach and enrollment of the LGBT community designed for navigators, certified application counselors, social workers, and other consumer assistance personnel. Following this training, there will be a public town hall on the Affordable Care Act from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm, which will feature remarks and presentations from federal officials, national experts, and local community stakeholders. This portion of the event is open to the community and LGBT individuals and families are encouraged to join to learn more about their options and ways then can enroll in coverage. K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Sundays at 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, March 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. March's Topic: Will drafting SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Parenting Workshop Pt 4; Legally Smart Sunday, March 23rd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center After you've thought about adding to your family, you need to think about the future. Did you ever discuss with your partner about the benefits of a living will? Who can take your child to get medical attention in an emergency when you're not available? What rights does the non-biological parent have to the child? All LGBTQIA singles, couples, and "future" parents can benefit from free legal advice. Karen Keith Wilkins, EBA member and local Attorney at Law, will be present to go over the laws of Oklahoma concerning the legal aspects of having a growing family. Come ready to receive helpful information and ask plenty of questions. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm or at •. • • ' . / Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... Tulsa Pride Leather Fetish Fashion Show Friday, March 21st, 2014; 10:00 pm Tulsa Eagle 1338 East Third Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 In Partnership with the Tulsa Mister Leather events, Tulsa Pride 2014 Presents the annual Tulsa Pride Fetish Show. Join in for a night of fun. Demonstrations. Door Prizes. Raffles. Wear your gear, leather, suit, whatever your fetish. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 For more information about this event and all upcoing Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org ACA Assistance CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat Every Wednesday 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Spring 2014 Retreat Youth Services of Tulsa and Campfire are working together again on creating a LGBTQ youth leadership retreat for this spring. It will be open to 8th grade through 12th grade and limited to 24 students. YST and Campfire's CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat is a chance for LGBTQ youth and allies to spend a weekend focusing on social justice issues that they are passionate about. Interested youth must complete the application by March 14th. If accepted, a parent or guardian will have to sign a permission slip. The fee for the retreat it $10, however, no one will be denied for an inability to pay. Food will be provided and youth will sleep in a cabin, though they must bring their own bedding. For registration information or for any questions, contact Victoria Wiener at vwiener@yst.org or 918.625.1570 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Hyatt Regency Dowtown Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... on your friends list. Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, Oklahoma MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season Rehearsals Continues Tuesdays; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, OK Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season will continue on Tuesdays at 7:00 pm. Located at COMC rehearsal home - Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, OK. COMC is looking for new members that enjoy singing and performing for family and friends. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend council oak coonc// cal< m«IS choro/6 Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season 2014 - "BE OUR GUEST! - A DISNEY EXTRAVAGANZA" with soloist - Eric Himan Performances will be Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 at Lorton Performance Center - University of Tulsa Campus. For more information on Council Oak Mens Chorale, visit www.counciloak.org TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Yoga A - Z www.tulsametrosoftball.com TMSL 2014 Spring Clinics Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 10:00 am Lantz Park 4902 E. Independence Ave Tulsa, Oklahoma 74106 Tulsa Metro Softball League spring clinics will be at Lantz Park (North of 244 on Yale) on Saturday, March 8th, 2014 from 10:00 am until 2:00 pm. Anyone from the league who wants to attend, whether they have a team or no, is invitedt. TMSL will identify those who are not on a roster once we get there. Coaches looking to fill their rosters are encouraged to attend. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Also, if you have players who are new to TMSL and need an initial rating, there will be several of league members there to help. Just let them know who the players are and they will help with an initial rating. Sam Harris to be featured on OETA's Writing Out Loud Monday, March 17th, 2014; 10:30 pm Sam Harris will be featured on the Monday, March 17th, 2014 episode of OETA's Writing Out Loud at 10:30 pm. Writing Out Loud features in-depth interviews with writers, every Monday, 10:30 p.m. on OETA. Hosted by Teresa Miller and sponsored by OSU. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. City of Tulsa Human Rights Department BRIDGE Training and Workshop Tuesday, March 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 4:00 pm Tulsa Convention Center 100 Civic Center - North Ballroom Free and open to the public. Building Resources in Developing and Growing Enterprises (BRIDGE) promotes connections between small, developing and growing businesses and opportunities available through larger companies in the area. Promoting the Growth, Expansion, Innovation and and increased Productivity of minority and female and BRIDGE disadvantaged business enterprises, the 7th Annual BRIDGE Training and Workshop will provide you receive valuable business, an opportunity to network and promote your business or organization. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org For more information, contact 918.596.7818 or viist www.cityoftulsa.org/ bridge.aspx Building Bridges to Success Tulsa A Klrdoffnt!tgY.. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... [title of show] March 7th - 8th, 13th - 15th at 8:00 pm and March 9th, 2014 at 2:00 pm American Theatre Company continues it's season with the uproarious post-modern homage to musical theater and the little creative person inside all of us with the Tony nominated musical [title of show]. Struggling writers Hunter and Jeff race against a deadline to enter an original musical into a theatre festival. [title of show] depicts their journey as artists and friends as they write a musical about writing a musical. Performances will be held March 7th - 8th, 13th - 15th at 8:00 pm and March 9th at 2:00 pm at the John H. Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. Tickets are $20 for adults and $14 for students. This show is recommended for mature audiences due to language and subject matter. For reservations call the Tulsa Performing Arts Center ticket office at 596-7111 or log on to www.myticketoffice.com Equality Center Pride Store Check out the Pride Store. Our rainbow knee socks come in 4 patterns and are only $6 a pair. services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Pit Stop' Directed by Yen Tan You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Openly gay Ernesto (Marcus DeAnda) and closeted Gabe (Bill Heck) grapple with the sad tribulations of - Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... being gay in a small, working-class Texas town. I need to get on with my life, Ernesto pronounces as he kicks out live-in ex-boyfriend Luis. Macho yet sensitive, Ernesto still carries a hopeless torch for his other ex-lover, Martin. Meanwhile, down-to-earth building contractor Gabe seeks solace with his exwife and six year-old daughter while pining over the loss of his relationship with Chuck. Trying to find connection amidst formidable loneliness this is the story of Ernesto and Gabe. Reminiscent of such classic rural gay love stories as Big Eden and Brokeback Mountain and showcasing equally accomplished performances from its handsome leads Pit Stop achieves an understated tone of authenticity rarely seen on screen. through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... r----------------------------------------------------~ I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 11:49 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e66416e193f8b79cd1bc34973389824d.pdf 0dcf2c40d8ecb28ee99262b7d26dcfa6 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... eNews March 12th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor OUTlaw Legal Series Out2Enroll ACA Event EBA Welcome to the eNews. OUT2Enroll will present a town hall meeting about the Affordable Care Act on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. The community is invited to join and learn about their options and get help enrolling. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Dine Out for the EBA Parenting Workshop Pt 4 2014 Equality Gala Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show CampOUT MOREcolor K9 Boot Camp Council Oak Mens Chorale TMSL Volunteers Tulsa Growl Sam Harris Dining Out for Life Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering [title of show] Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library OUTlaw Legal Series Volunteer Thursday, March 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. March's Topic: Will drafting Find Us on Facebook Oklahomans for Equality and Out2Enroll Raise Awareness of ACA to LGBT community in Tulsa Wednesday, March 19th, 2014; 1:30 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1:30 - 3:30 pm Training for ACA navigators, counselors and social workers 6:30 - 8:00 pm Public Town Hall Forum about the Affordable Care Act OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 20th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Guests for the event will include Gautam Raghavan, LGBT Liasion to the White House. Gautam last visited the Equality Center in September of 2012. And Dr. Matt Hienz, Director of Provider & LGBT Outreach Office of the Secretary US Department of Health & Human Services; Physician at Tucson Medical Center Out2Enroll, the coordinated effort to educate the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community about the Affordable Care Act and direct the community to enrollment resources, is pleased to announce a new event in Tulsa, Oklahoma on March 19th, 2014 to help the LGBT community in the Tulsa area understand their new coverage options. OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Joe Staskal. The regional event, cosponsored by Out2Enroll and the US Department of Health and Human Services, will feature remarks and presentations from officials from the White House, national experts on efforts to engage the LGBT community in enrollment activities, and local community stakeholders and partners. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are the host for the event. On Wednesday, March 19th at the Equality Center, the event will consist of an afternoon and evening program. From 1:30 pm to 3:30 pm, there will be an informational session on effective outreach and enrollment of the LGBT community designed for navigators, certified application counselors, social workers, and other consumer assistance personnel. Following this training, there will be a public town hall on the Affordable Care Act from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm, which will feature remarks and presentations from federal officials, national experts, and local community stakeholders. This portion of the event is open to the community and LGBT individuals and families are encouraged to join to learn more about their options and ways then can enroll in coverage. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Hyatt Regency Dowtown Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, Oklahoma Dine Out for the Equality Business Alliance Tuesday, March 25th, 2014; 5:30 - 9:00 pm Counseling Services Help support the Equality Business Alliance by eating out at Albert G's Bar & Q Downtown (421 E 1st St) on Tuesday, March 25th, 2014 from 5:30 9:00 pm. Albert G's will donate a portion of the sales back to the EBA. www.downtown.albertgs.com Parenting Workshop Pt 4; Legally Smart Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Sunday, March 23rd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center After you've thought about adding to your family, you need to think about the future. Did you ever discuss with your partner about the benefits of a living will? Who can take your child to get medical attention in an emergency when you're not available? What rights does the non-biological parent have to the child? All LGBTQIA singles, couples, and "future" parents can benefit from free legal advice. Karen Keith Wilkins, EBA member and local Attorney at Law, will be present to go over the laws of Oklahoma concerning the legal aspects of having a growing family. Come ready to receive helpful information and ask plenty of questions. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm or at Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org ----- SOS Group Tulsa Pride 2014 Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org ' Upcoming Events for March .' , : Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4 of 12 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Fetish Fashion Show Pride Idol Competition 7th Annual Turn About Show For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat Spring 2014 Retreat Youth Services of Tulsa and Campfire are working together again on creating a LGBTQ youth leadership retreat for this spring. It will be open to 8th grade through 12th grade and limited to 24 students. YST and Campfire's CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat is a chance for LGBTQ youth and allies to spend a weekend focusing on social justice issues that they are passionate about. Interested youth must complete the application by March 14th. If accepted, a parent or guardian will have to sign a permission slip. The fee for the retreat it $10, however, no one will be denied for an inability to pay. Food will be provided and youth will sleep in a cabin, though they must bring their own bedding. For registration information or for any questions, contact Victoria Wiener at vwiener@yst.org or 918.625.1570 MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 ACA Assistance Every Wednesday 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Sundays at 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season Rehearsals Continues Tuesdays; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, OK Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season will continue on Tuesdays at 7:00 pm. Located at COMC rehearsal home - Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, OK. COMC is looking for new members that enjoy singing and performing for family and friends. council oak council oak moos choro/e Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season 2014 - "BE OUR GUEST! - A DISNEY EXTRAVAGANZA" with soloist - Eric Himan Performances will be Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 at Lorton Performance Center - University of Tulsa Campus. For more information on Council Oak Mens Chorale, visit www.counciloak.org TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Yoga A - Z www.tulsametrosoftball.com Tulsa Growl 2014 Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. May 8th - 11th, 2014 Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Sam Harris to be featured on OETA's Writing Out Loud Monday, March 17th, 2014; 10:30 pm Sam Harris will be featured on the Monday, March 17th, 2014 episode of OETA's Writing Out Loud at 10:30 pm. Writing Out Loud features in-depth interviews with writers, every Monday, 10:30 p.m. on OETA. Hosted by Teresa Miller and sponsored by OSU. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 24th, 2014; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 24th, 2014 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give a portion of the proceeds from lunch Din e, Oul, t'igJ1l AIDS; and dinner service to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. [title of show] March 13th - 15th at 8:00 pm American Theatre Company continues it's season with the uproarious post-modern homage to musical theater and the little creative person inside all of us with the Tony nominated musical [title of show]. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... Struggling writers Hunter and Jeff race against a deadline to enter an original musical into a theatre festival. [title of show] depicts their journey as artists and friends as they write a musical about writing a musical. services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Performances will be held March 13th - 15th at 8:00 pm at the John H. Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. Tickets are $20 for adults and $14 for students. This show is recommended for mature audiences due to language and subject matter. For reservations call the Tulsa Performing Arts Center ticket office at 596-7111 or log on to www.myticketoffice.com Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events It's time to Vote for the New Monarch(s) for Reign VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma! Must be 18 with Oklahoma ID to Vote Tulsa Friday, March 28th, 2014 Club Majestic 9:00 - 11:30 pm Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm - 12:00 am Saturday, March 29th, 2014 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq) 2:00 - 4:00 pm Bamboo Lounge 8:00 - 11:00 pm Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Oklahoma City HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, March 29th, 2014 Cimarron Alliance 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Boom 10:00 - 11:15 pm Partners 11:30 pm - 12:30 am Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Coronation VII Weekend - April 3-6, 2014 "A Scenic Tour Throughout Time, A Romantic Comedy of Fashions!" Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa All Ages Welcome For more information on each days events and to purchase Individual or Full Weekend Ticket Packages, please visit our Coronation VII website page - www.impcourtok.webs.com Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... Equality Center Pride Store Just in time for Spring weather, the Pride Store now has rainbow fedora hats in stock for $10 each. through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Unnatural: An Archangel Academy Novel' by Michael Griffo You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org In the town of Eden in northwestern England stands the exclusive boarding school known as Archangel Academy. Ancient and imposing, it's a place filled with secrets. Just like its students. For Michael Howard, being plucked from his Nebraska hometown and sent thousands of miles away is as close as he's ever come to a miracle. In Weeping Water, he felt trapped, alone. At Archangel Academy, Michael belongs. And in Ciaran, Penry, and especially Ciaran's enigmatic half-brother Ronan, Michael finds friendship deeper than he's ever known. But Michael's only beginning to understand what makes the Academy so special. Ronan is a vampire--part of a hybrid clan who are outcasts even among other vampires. Within the Academy's confines exists a ruthless world of deadly rivalries and shifting alliances, of clandestine love and forbidden temptations. And soon Michael will confront the destiny that brought him here--and a danger more powerful than he can imagine. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org . Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library _,.,... .,.,, ... ,...... ~ ,-,:, 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:50 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/399a2f086841a5b81a7e6483f58d459a.pdf 25e93e591c42252b3a9ea62165d9abce PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... eNews March 18th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Out2Enroll ACA Event EBA Parenting Workshop Pt 4 Welcome to the eNews. Out2Enroll will present a town hall meeting about the Affordable Care Act on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. The community is invited to join and learn about their options and get help enrolling. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Dine Out for the EBA 2014 Equality Gala Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering NOH8 Photo Shoot Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show EBA Sponsor MOREcolor Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale , Suite 200, Tulsa OK SAFE Ally Week K9 Boot Camp First Thursday Art Show Tulsa Growl TMSL Volunteers Choir from St Thomas Church Oklahomans for Equality and Out2Enroll Raise Awareness of ACA to LGBT community in Tulsa Wednesday, March 19th, 2014; 1:30 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1:30 - 3:30 pm Training for ACA navigators, counselors and social workers 6:30 - 8:00 pm Public Town Hall Forum about the Affordable Care Act Dining Out for Life LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Guests for the event will include Gautam Raghavan, LGBT Liasion to the White House. Gautam last visited the Equality Center in September of 2012. And Dr. Matt Hienz, Director of Provider & LGBT Outreach Office of the Secretary US Department of Health & Human Services; Physician at Tucson Medical Center 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... Out2Enroll, the coordinated effort to educate the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community about the Affordable Care Act and direct the community to enrollment resources, is pleased to announce a new event in Tulsa, Oklahoma on March 19th, 2014 to help the LGBT community in the Tulsa area understand their new coverage options. The regional event, cosponsored by Out2Enroll and the US Department of Health and Human Services, will feature remarks and presentations from officials from the White House, national experts on efforts to engage the LGBT community in enrollment activities, and local community stakeholders and partners. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are the host for the event. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. On Wednesday, March 19th at the Equality Center, the event will consist of an afternoon and evening program. From 1:30 pm to 3:30 pm, there will be an informational session on effective outreach and enrollment of the LGBT community designed for navigators, certified application counselors, social workers, and other consumer assistance personnel. Following this training, there will be a public town hall on the Affordable Care Act from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm, which will feature remarks and presentations from federal officials, national experts, and local community stakeholders. This portion of the event is open to the community and LGBT individuals and families are encouraged to join to learn more about their options and ways then can enroll in coverage. Equality Business Alliance OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Joe Staskal. Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g E UALITY QJBusmess Alliance The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Hyatt Regency Dowtown Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, Oklahoma Parenting Workshop Pt 4; Legally Smart Sunday, March 23rd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center After you've thought about adding to your family, you need to think about the future. Did you ever discuss with your partner about the benefits of a living will? Who can take your child to get medical attention in an emergency when you're not available? What rights does the non-biological parent have to the child? All LGBTQIA singles, couples, and "future" parents can benefit from free legal advice. Karen Keith Wilkins, EBA member and local Attorney at Law, will be Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... present to go over the laws of Oklahoma concerning the legal aspects of having a growing family. Come ready to receive helpful information and ask plenty of questions. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or at Dine Out for the Equality Business Alliance Tuesday, March 25th, 2014; 5:30 - 9:00 pm Counseling Services Help support the Equality Business Alliance by eating out at Albert G's Bar & Q Downtown (421 E 1st St) on Tuesday, March 25th, 2014 from 5:30 9:00 pm. Albert G's will donate a portion of the sales back to the EBA. www.downtown.albertgs.com Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org ----- SOS Group Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org ' : Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 .' , Grieving Well The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4 of 14 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. Yolanda Arnold The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". Live Free! Coming Out Workshop For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. NOH8 Campaign Photo Shoot 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Sunday, April 13th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Sunday, April 13th, 2014, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -- offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2014 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on April 13th at 1:00 pm and will end at 4:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events for March Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 ACA Assistance Every Wednesday 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Fetish Fashion Show Pride Idol Competition Boot Camp 7th Annual Turn About Show Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. - - sr::ra=_ Rainbow Writers MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org - - - - --to attend MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com University of Central Oklahoma Student Alliance for Equality Ally Week ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Keynote Speech, Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 6:00 pm University of Central Oklahoma Nigh University Center Ballroom 100 North University Drive Edmond, OK 73034 On Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 pm to 7:00 pm, Student Alliance For Equality (SAFE) will be hosting Brendon Ayanbadejo, three time pro bowler and super bowl champion, as a keynote speaker on why being an ally of the LGBTQ community is important and the importance of diversity and Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... inclusion in life, including in sports. As part of Ally Week, SAFE is honored to have Brendon as he is very vocal straight ally of the LGBTQ community, and was instrumental in passing Marriage Equality in Maryland. To continue the theme of inclusion in sports, Dr. Pope, University of Central Oklahoma's own Crimson Tide National Champion, will be introducing him. old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members This event is free and open to the public and the keynote address will occur in the Nigh University Center Ballrooms at the University of Central Oklahoma. If Britney Spears can party it up in Vegas w ith one of her boys and go get married on a whim and annul her marriage the next day, why can't a loving same sex coup le tie the knot? How cou ld o ur society g rant more rights to a heterosexual one night stand wedd ing in Vegas than a gay coupl e that has been together for 3, 5, 10 years of true love? - Brendon Ayanbadejo Keynote Address UCO Nigh University Center Ballrooms B&C 6:00 PM Thursday, April 3rd Free and open to the public ~ VE N S 0SAFE ALLY WEEK K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Sundays at 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals First Thursday Art Show Reception Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature the works of Nicole Moan, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org -- EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... and check out the entire schedule and to register. TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm www.tulsametrosoftball.com Choir of St. Thomas Church, NYC Tuesday, March 25th, 2014; 7:30 pm Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S Cincinnati On Tuesday, March 25th, 2014 at 7:30 pm, Trinity Episcopal Church will present the Choir of St. Thomas Church, New York City in concert. The St. Thomas Choir is considered to be the premier choral ensemble singing in the Anglican tradition in the US today. Directed by John Scott, formerly Organist and Choir Director of St. Paul's Cathedral in London, the men of the choir are professional singers and the youth attend the St. Thomas Choir School, the only church-related residential choir school in the U.S. The program will include music by Taverner, Gibbons, Byrd, Purcell, Howells, Britten, and Elgar, among others. This concert is free and open to the public - a reception will follow. Admission is FREE but donations will be Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... accepted. The church is located at 501 S Cincinnati in downtown Tulsa. 918.582.4128 or trinitytulsa.org Dining Out for Life through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Thursday, April 24th, 2014; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 24th, 2014 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give a portion of the proceeds from lunch • O11 l • fight D111c, ~ AIDS, and dinner service to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events It's time to Vote for the New Monarch(s) for Reign VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma! Must be 18 with Oklahoma ID to Vote Tulsa Friday, March 28th, 2014 Club Majestic 9:00 - 11:30 pm Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm - 12:00 am Saturday, March 29th, 2014 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq) 2:00 - 4:00 pm Bamboo Lounge 8:00 - 11:00 pm Oklahoma City Saturday, March 29th, 2014 Cimarron Alliance 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Boom 10:00 - 11:15 pm Partners 11:30 pm - 12:30 am Coronation VII Weekend - April 3-6, 2014 "A Scenic Tour Throughout Time, A Romantic Comedy of Fashions!" Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa All Ages Welcome For more information on each days events and to purchase Individual or Full Weekend Ticket Packages, please visit our Coronation VII website page - www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Just in time for Spring weather, the Pride Store now has rainbow fedora hats in stock for $10 each. 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items y Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Holy Hell' by Elizabeth Sims You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Lillian Byrd is a small-time reporter with a flair for making big-time mistakes--like getting fired for fending off the boss's son with an X-Acto knife and breaking up with her girlfriend for no good reason--so her investigation into the disappearances of women in the Detroit area might not be the best idea. But when one of the missing women turns up dead and Lillian recognizes the bizarrely mutilated corpse, she's in too deep to get out. Of course, it doesn't help that she's still fighting off the boss's son and ducking the aggressively amorous overtures of the roughest dyke in town. Now, after simultaneously blowing the case for the police and revealing herself to the off-kilter killers, she's completely on her own. Can she catch the murderers before they catch up with her? Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 13 of 14 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:50 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/72c1a9a071fa7f44fb61da9d8b9f06ba.pdf 92b94eadb693e84b99d432d8acaeefdd PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... eNews March 27th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor 2014 Equality Gala ACA Assistance Uniform Night Welcome to the eNews. The deadline to enroll in the Affordable Care Act for 2014 is March 31st! OkEq will be offering enrollment assistance on Thursday, March 27th from 5:00 - 9:00 pm, Friday, March 28th from 3:00 - 7:00 pm, Saturday, March 29th from 1:00 - 4:00 pm, Sunday, March 30th from 1:00 - 4:00 pm and Monday, March 31st from 3:00 - 6:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Guys Dine Too Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show La Cage Aux Folles NOH8 Photo Shoot Emma's Revolution & Holly Near EBA MOREcolor April 1st Election Workforce Oklahoma SAFE Ally Week First Thursday Art Show Tulsa Growl 2014 Mr. Leather TMSL Volunteers Dining Out for Life LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, April 10th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Joe Staskal. Affordable Care Act Assistance Open Enrollment deadline for 2014 is March 31st Counseling Services If you need insurance coverage for 2014, the deadline to enroll with the Affordable Care Act is March 31st. Oklahomans for Equality will have assistance available for the ACA marketplace on: Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Thursday, March 27th from 5 - 9 pm with Shane Askal Friday, March 28th from 3 - 7 pm with Dirk Hunter Saturday, March 29th from 1 - 4 pm with Shane Askal Sunday, March 30th from 1 - 4 pm with Dirk Hunter Monday, March 31st from 3 - 6 pm with Dirk Hunter Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Metro Softball League Uniform Night Friday, March 28th, 2014; 7:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Tulsa Metro Softball League wants you to show off your team pride for 2014 Spring Season Uniform Night. TMSL will introduce the teams, play some games and have a great time. Friday, March 28th, 2014 at 7:30 pm at New Age Renegade. Uniform Night on Facebook www.tulsametrosoftball.com Guys Dine Too Tuesday, April 1st, 2014; 6:30 pm The April meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at BurnCo BBQ on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014 around 6:30 pm. BurnCo BBQ is located at 1738 S Boston Ave Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP by Friday, March 28th to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 Counseling Services The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. Tulsa Pride 2014 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... Upcoming Events Pride Idol Competition - Saturday, March 29th 7th Annual Turn About Show - Tuesday, April 1st Pride Night at Mojo's - Saturday, April 5th Pride Night at Area 18 - Saturday, April 19th Oklahomo! - -Big -Gay -Sing -Along - - Friday, April 25th Pride Night at TNT's - Saturday, May 10th For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org La Cage Aux Folles Cox Business Center Assembly Hall, Cox Business Center March 28, April 3, 4, 5 - 7:30 pm March 29, 30, April 5, 6 - 2:00 pm K9 Boot Camp - tul aprojecttheatre After twenty years of un-wedded bliss Georges and Albin, two men partnered for better-or-worse get a bit of both when Georges' son announces his impending marriage to the daughter of a bigoted, right-wing politician. Further complicating the situation is the 'family business': Albin and Georges run a drag nightclub in St. Tropez, where Albin is the "star" performer 'Zaza'. Georges reluctantly agrees to masquerade as "normal" Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... when he meets the family of the bride-to-be. But Albin has other plans, with hilarious results. Purchase Tickets NOH8 Campaign Photo Shoot Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Sunday, April 13th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center I On Sunday, April 13th, 2014, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -- offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2014 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on April 13th at 1:00 pm and will end at 4:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. I) M B (J l SK A . • • Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Emma's Revolution & Holly Near Friday, April 11th, 2014; 7:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Ave Emma Revolution will be accompanying the fabulous Holly Near, along 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... with pianist, Jan Martinelli in Tulsa on Friday, April 11th, 2014 at 7:30 pm. SAGE Tulsa With special, sing-a-long tribute to Pete Seeger (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) $20 advance / $25 at the door available at www.emmasrevolution.com Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Se1Vice, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at The Office of Dr. Blane Snodgrass, Tulsa Eye Clinic, 7171 S Yale, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Dr. Blane Snodgrass Tulsa Eye Clinic 7171 S Yale Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... Proposal to expand David L. Moss Criminal Justice Center and new Juvenile Justice Courts and Detention Center aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Election on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014 On the ballot for Tuesday, April 1st is a proposal to expand the David L. Moss Criminal Justice Center and create a new Juvenile Justice Courts and Detention Center. Vote Apri11st Read more about the proposal in the Tulsa World and find locate your voting precinct or see a sample ballot, visit the Tulsa County Election Board Workforce Oklahoma Employment Services Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 1:00 - 4:00 pm, Carlos with Workforce Oklahoma will be on hand at the Equality Center to offer help to those looking for employment. Carlos will help with career planning, resume building, interview skills and accessing job opportunities. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ... Rainbow Writers University of Central Oklahoma Student Alliance for Equality Ally Week Keynote Speech, Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 6:00 pm University of Central Oklahoma Nigh University Center Ballroom 100 North University Drive Edmond, OK 73034 On Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 pm to 7:00 pm, Student Alliance For Equality (SAFE) will be hosting Brendon Ayanbadejo, three time pro bowler and super bowl champion, as a keynote speaker on why being an ally of the LGBTQ community is important and the importance of diversity and inclusion in life, including in sports. As part of Ally Week, SAFE is honored to have Brendon as he is very vocal straight ally of the LGBTQ community, and was instrumental in passing Marriage Equality in Maryland. To continue the theme of inclusion in sports, Dr. Pope, University of Central Oklahoma's own Crimson Tide National Champion, will be introducing him. This event is free and open to the public and the keynote address will occur in the Nigh University Center Ballrooms at the University of Central Oklahoma. 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... If Britney Spears can party it up in Vegas w ith one of he r boys and go get married on a wh im and annul her marriage the next day, why can 't a loving same sex coup le tie t he knot? How cou ld our society gra nt more rights to a heterosexual one n ight stand wedd ing in Vegas than a gay coup le that has been together for 3, 5, 10 yea rs of t r ue love? - Brendon Aya nbadejo Keynote Address UCO Nigh University Center Ballrooms B&C 6:00 PM Thursday, April 3rd Free and open to the public Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members SAFE ALLY WEEK First Thursday Art Show Reception Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature the works of Nicole Moan, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 Game Night The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. 2014 Tulsa Mr. Leather games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Congratulations from Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality would like to congratulate Richard Ziese on being named 2014 Tulsa Mr. Leather. Richard volunteers weekly at Open Arms Project and has raised enough money for 2 youth tables at the 2014 Equality Gala. Photo courtesy of Capture It Photography. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 24th, 2014; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 24th, 2014 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give a portion of the proceeds from lunch Dine Oul. Fig_Jil AIDS, and dinner service to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events It's time to Vote for the New Monarch(s) for Reign VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma! Must be 18 with Oklahoma ID to Vote Tulsa Friday, March 28th, 2014 Club Majestic 9:00 - 11:30 pm Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm - 12:00 am MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Saturday, March 29th, 2014 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq) 2:00 - 4:00 pm Bamboo Lounge 8:00 - 11:00 pm Oklahoma City Saturday, March 29th, 2014 Cimarron Alliance 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Boom 10:00 - 11:15 pm Partners 11:30 pm - 12:30 am Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Coronation VII Weekend - April 3-6, 2014 "A Scenic Tour Throughout Time, A Romantic Comedy of Fashions!" Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa All Ages Welcome For more information on each days events and to purchase Individual or Full Weekend Ticket Packages, please visit our Coronation VII website page - www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Just in time for Spring weather, the Pride Store now has rainbow fedora hats in stock for $10 each. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Silencing the Self' by Dana Crowley Jack You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Dana Crowley Jack offers startling new insights into the roots of female depression as she illuminates why women are far more likely than men to suffer major depression in adulthood. Silencing the Self is the first sweeping overview of depression in women that draws on new understandings of the importance of relationships in women's lives. Attending closely to what depressed women have to say about their lives, Jack reframes major concepts of depression, freeing them from traditional models that have restricted our ability to listen to women's perspectives on depression. -.;..><•--•o~• - ..... MU,,.-~t,C;I cr•W'7<91'; ,o ,,.,~_..... _ _ , .ocw10..._..: _ , _ .. .~ , _ _a IM'.J.X:.lnCW Jack weaves these voices of depressed women directly into her discussion, providing new meanings to familiar themes: dependence, pleasing, anger, goodness, low self-esteem. These women clearly articulate a no-win, either/ or tension in their lives, a tension between sacrificing their own needs in order to preserve a relationship and acting on their needs and feelings at the risk of losing the relationship. Their stories bring to light the "activity required to be passive"--the way women actively silence themselves in order to cultivate and maintain intimate relationships. To accommodate, they learn to censor themselves, to devalue their experience, to repress anger, to be silent. Examining moral themes in depressed women's narratives, Jack demonstrates how internalized cultural expectations of feminine goodness affect women's behavior in relationships and precipitate the plunge into depression. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... • • ••• •• Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:53 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ca8a2f2beec24c290d3c62d4004dfb1c.pdf 8b9aee587fd3e4975a8ea41375e939a2 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... eNews April 2nd, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor 2014 Equality Gala First Thursday Art Show MOREcolor Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday April 26th, 2014. Purchase a seat or sponsor a table now and find more information at www.okeq.org/gala ---- eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality - The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com Workforce Oklahoma Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show NOH8 Photo Shoot EBA La Cage Aux Folles Emma's Revolution & Holly Near SAFE Ally Week Tulsa Growl TMSL Volunteers Dining Out for Life 6585 S. Yale , Suite 200, Tulsa OK Paragraph 175 Holocaust Commemoration 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... Thursday, April 10th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Nicole Moan. Counseling Services First Thursday Art Show Reception Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature the works of Nicole Moan, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... Counseling Services MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Workforce Oklahoma Employment Services Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 1:00 - 4:00 pm, Carlos with Workforce Oklahoma will be on hand at the Equality Center to offer help to those looking for employment. Carlos will help with career planning, resume building, interview skills and accessing job opportunities. Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... Counseling Services The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events Pride Night at Mojo's - Saturday, April 5th Pride Night at Area 18 - Saturday, April 19th 209 Karaoke Pride Night - Friday, April 25th Pride Night at TNT's - Saturday, May 10th For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org NOH8 Campaign Photo Shoot Sunday, April 13th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Sunday, April 13th, 2014, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -- offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. K9 Boot Camp Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2014 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on April 13th at 1:00 pm and will end at 4:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. ll M ti() I s .. /\ Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I . • • Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at The Office of Dr. Blane Snodgrass, Tulsa Eye Clinic, 7171 S Yale, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Dr. Blane Snodgrass Tulsa Eye Clinic 7171 S Yale Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136 The eNews for the week is brought to you by 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... EBA Member Business: Massage Time SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Se1Vice, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders La Cage Aux Folles Cox Business Center Assembly Hall, Cox Business Center April 3, 4, 5 - 7:30 pm April 5, 6 - 2:00 pm - tul aprojecttheatre Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 After twenty years of un-wedded bliss Georges and Albin, two men partnered for better-or-worse get a bit of both when Georges' son announces his impending marriage to the daughter of a bigoted, right-wing politician. Further complicating the situation is the 'family business': Albin and Georges run a drag nightclub in St. Tropez, where Albin is the "star" performer 'Zaza'. Georges reluctantly agrees to masquerade as "normal" when he meets the family of the bride-to-be. But Albin has other plans, with hilarious results. Purchase Tickets Emma's Revolution & Holly Near Friday, April 11th, 2014; 7:30 pm Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Ave Emma Revolution will be accompanying the fabulous Holly Near, along with pianist, Jan Martinelli in Tulsa on Friday, April 11th, 2014 at 7:30 pm. With special, sing-a-long tribute to Pete Seeger $20 advance / $25 at the door available at www.emmasrevolution.com aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. == Phoco by Donn;1 A. koronef University of Central Oklahoma Student Alliance for Equality Ally Week Keynote Speech, Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 6:00 pm University of Central Oklahoma Nigh University Center Ballroom 100 North University Drive Edmond, OK 73034 On Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 pm to 7:00 pm, Student Alliance For Equality (SAFE) will be hosting Brendon Ayanbadejo, three time pro bowler and super bowl champion, as a keynote speaker on why being an ally of the LGBTQ community is important and the importance of diversity and inclusion in life, including in sports. As part of Ally Week, SAFE is honored to have Brendon as he is very vocal straight ally of the LGBTQ community, and was instrumental in passing Marriage Equality in Maryland. To continue the theme of inclusion in sports, Dr. Pope, University of Central Oklahoma's own Crimson Tide National Champion, will be introducing him. This event is free and open to the public and the keynote address will occur in the Nigh University Center Ballrooms at the University of Central Oklahoma. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... If Britney Spears can party it up in Vegas w ith one of he r boys and go get married on a wh im and annul her marriage the next day, why can 't a loving same sex coup le tie t he knot? How cou ld our society gra nt more rights to a heterosexual one n ight stand wedd ing in Vegas than a gay coup le that has been together for 3, 5, 10 yea rs of t r ue love? - Brendon Aya nbadejo Keynote Address UCO Nigh University Center Ballrooms B&C 6:00 PM Thursday, April 3rd Free and open to the public Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members SAFE ALLY WEEK Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 Yoga A - Z The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno www.tulsametrosoftball.com Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 24th, 2014; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 24th, 2014 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give a portion of the proceeds from lunch Dine Oul. Fig_Jil AIDS, and dinner service to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org 'Paragraph 175' screening at Circle Cinema April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Circle Cinema 12 S Lewis Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Historian Klaus M�ller interviews survivors of the Nazi persecution of homosexuals because of the German Penal Code of 1871. Admission price is $7 and tickets are available at circlecinema.com J>,\l\1-\tjHAPH 176 AIOI (PSTEIN &JlrrMY fltCOMAN ,._.. NMIAlO l 't' IUPERT £VH£TT Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org NOT TO BE MISSED ELEGANT ANO POWERFUL I· 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 7:00 pm Temple Israel 2004 E 22nd Pl The Tulsa Council for Holocaust Education invites the public to honor the forgotten victims at the 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 at 7:00 pm. at Temple Israel. Dr. Nadine Blumer is the featured speaker and will address the topic, "Forgotten Holocaust Victims: How Germany Remembers the Roma". Blumer recently finished a fellowship at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum and now is starting a postdoctoral fellowship at the Centre for Ethnographic Research and Exhibition in the Aftermath of Violence at Concordia University in Montreal, Quebec. For more information about this event, please visit jewishtulsa.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday THURSDAY, MAY 1 • 7 P.M. • TEMPLE ISRAEL, 2004 E. 22ND PLACE LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... MISSION: Coronation VII Weekend - April 3-6, 2014 "A Scenic Tour Throughout Time, A Romantic Comedy of Fashions!" Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa All Ages Welcome Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information on each days events and to purchase Individual or Full Weekend Ticket Packages, please visit our Coronation VII website page - www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Just in time for Spring weather, the Pride Store now has rainbow fedora hats in stock for $10 each. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Earthly Joys' by Philippa Gregory Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Whether he is nurturing a single rare seedling into a blossoming tree or planning acres of exquisitely conceived royal gardens, John Tradescant's fame and skill as a gardener are unsurpassed in seventeenthcentury England. But it is Tradescant's clear-sighted honesty and loyalty that make him an invaluable 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... servant, and in his role as informal confidant during garden strolls with Sir Robert Cecil, adviser to King James I, he witnesses the making of history, from the Gunpowder Plot to the accession of King Charles I and the growing animosity between Parliament and court. Tradescant's talents soon come to the attention of the most powerful man in the country, the irresistible Duke of Buckingham, the lover of King Charles I. Tradescant has always been faithful to his masters, but Buckingham is unlike any he has ever known: flamboyant, outrageously charming, and utterly reckless. Every certainty upon which Tradescant has based his life -- his love of his wife and children, his passion for his work, his loyalty to his country -- is shattered as he follows Buckingham to court, to war, and to the forbidden territories of human love. From the details of garden design and innovation to the politics of a growing revolution which was to kill a king and turn a world upside down, Philippa Gregory once again makes history come alive through the people whose passions shaped that world. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library .,. : . ol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:54 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c05954e834b71fe249aae3f3b355bbd6.pdf 4b90f4dee93ae142c513d46e25294af8 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... eNews January 10th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Maybe Baby East Village Meet Tulsa Metro Basketball Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the OkEq walking entry in the Martin Luther King, Jr. parade on January 20th, 2014 at 10:00 am at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO MLK Jr Parade ACA Assistance Counseling Services EBA King Father for Life, BIll Francisco EBA Sponsor Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Maybe Baby? Saturday, January 11th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Is your biological clock ticking? Spring will soon be here. Are you thinking, maybe baby? What changes will this bring other than diapers? That romantic dinner for two is now a play date for three in the park. Trade in your night cap for a bottle of warm milk and a burp rag. Need a babysitter? Good luck. Family and Children Services will be giving you the 411 on things to think about before having a baby. This is a free workshop, but we do ask that you RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org. EBA Fundraiser National Dine for 2-1-1 Day Black Hearts Ball The Cheril Vendetti Experience Unscripted Play Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Research Study Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook East Village District Meeting Tuesday, January 14th, 2014; 5:30 pm east '!I!J~ge downtown Keep up with the development of the "Sunny Side of Downtown". The East Village District of Tulsa will have a meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Tuesday, January 14th, 2014 at 5:30 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is through February OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, January 23rd, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. 2014 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, January 20th, 2014; 11:00 am John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati 51 years ago, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Cristiana Prado Counseling Services Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org needs. New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g E UALITY Counseling Services Q!Busmess Alliance The January Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Embassy Suites, Embassy Suites, 3332 S. 79th E. Ave. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Embassy Suites 3332 S. 79th E. Ave Tulsa, Oklahoma Bill Francisco announced as King Father for Life 2014 Jos� Honors from the International Court System Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org On behalf of Absolute Empress VI Cougar Anne Savon-Ewing Wiley, the Board of Directors, College of Monarchs and membership of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, I am pleased to announce that King Father for Life (Prince Consort to Reign VI) Bill ("Clogger Bill") Francisco is one of the recipients of the 2014 Jos� Honors from the International Court System. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Ths Jos� Honors are named for Jose Julio Sarria, HMIM Absolute Empress I, the founder of the Imperial Court System. They recognize members of the International Court System for their outstanding accomplishments within their respective Court families and throughout their broader community. Empress Cougar Anne and the Board of Directors were pleased to nominate Bill for this honor, both for his service to the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma since its inception, as a trusted advisor, supporter and friend; and for his work in the wider community for many decades, helping to assist those in need. Serving the country as an Army Veteran, Bill helped rebuild Europe after WWII by teaching orphans scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... of war about music and dance. Bill was also one of the founders of the Tulsa Ballet and Tulsa Opera. Tai Chi Class The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Equality Business Alliance Fundraiser Dinner Tuesday, January 21st, 2014; Starting at 6:00 pm Tuesday, January 21st, 2014 Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine 1740 S. Boston Door open at 6:00 pm. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... Dalesandro's is hosting a fundraiser for the Equality Business Alliance and will be donating a portion of the sales that night back to the EBA. Make a reservation by calling 918.582.1551. National Dine for 2-1-1 Day Tuesday, February 11th, 2014 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tuesdays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... . ■ ~ Ef.,.aM nat 1ona 2-1-1 uay o min~ february 11, 2014 A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Support A Great Non -Profit Service and Eat Well Too! Dine at one of these fabulous restaurants on Tuesday, February 11, 2014 Self Defense Class And they'll donate to the 2-1-1 Hotline! Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Just say 2-1-1 when you order at: BRADY DISTRICT Hey Mambo mam □ o 114 North Boston Ave. DECO DISTRICT DOWNTOWN The Vault 7/v 620 South Cincinnati Ave Mod's Coffee and Crepes 507 South Boston Ave. 31\ Elote Cafe nd Catering ~ f A-1-~. 14 South Boston Ave. ''i ii ~ 5 '1t HP - - , BLUE DOME DISTRICT Dilly Deli 402 East 2nd Street Yokozuna 309 East 2nd Street 'IJ~c>-VV'e The Dust Bowl , , ., ~ ~ • 211 South Elgin ( JAMEs I_,~.y.11 EWE's] James E. McNellie's Pub 409 East 1st Street-Blue Dome p • BROOKSIDE Hibiscus 3316 South Peoria R Bar 3421 South Peoria [-~AM - ES_§_,q_tl_s_.E_W_E '_ sJ SOUTHTULSA Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach James E. McNellie's Pub-South Citv 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... 7031 South Zurich Avenue Learn more here: www.211tulsa.org 2-6~6. * Black Hearts Ball Friday, February 14th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:30 pm This Valentine's Day... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ... -- - Rainbow Writers Cupid can suck it! Friday, February 14th, 2014 at 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Cheril Vendetti Experience 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Saturday, February 15th, 2014; 9:00 pm & 10:30 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members cs~ s10 (i)~rrl~~ 328 E. lST ST, TULSA BETWEEN EL GUAPO'S & S&J' S Unscripted Play January Workshops Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Dutch artist Ieke Trinks from the Netherlands, and Tulsa artist Sarah McKemie will offer collaborative workshops in performance and improvisation. Using play, listening, trust and laughter, we will explore selfawareness and discover ways to be in the here and now. The workshops offer a positive and supportive environment. No previous experience in performance or improvisation is necessary. Participants only need a willingness to experiment. The workshops will be documented and culminate in an exhibit at the new Hardesty Arts Center. Dates and times: Workshop will take place at the Equality Center. Date and time for meetings will be determined by the participants and Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... facilitators. Contact Sarah McKemie to enroll at sarah@sarahmckemie.com or Mary Jones Mary.Jones@OkEq.org To learn more about Ieke and Sarah: ieketrinks.nl some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno sarahmckemie.com Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Empresses of The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invite you to the 6th Annual Black & White Ball "The Redneck Cinderella Ball" Friday, January 10th, 2014 7:00 pm - Light Buffet 8:00 pm - Show The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet at the Bamboo Lounge in Tulsa For more information, contact impcourt@gmail.com Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Research Study Interested in helping Counselors better serve our community? Once you've been determined to be eligible, you'll complete a phone interview with the researcher that'll last about an hour. After the interview is transcribed, the researcher will send it back to you so you can make sure it's accurate. That's it! What's the interview for? Research is currently being conducted by the University of South Carolina in order to help counselors better understand how their LGBT clients develop their identities. Given that our community has needs that are different and require a specialized set of skills; this research will help to equip Counselors with the tools they need to better help us. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... Ok, who's eligible? We're looking for interviewees who are: 18 years of age or older Women Men and women who identify as a racial minority (African America, Latino/ a, etc.) From the Southeastern United States What's in it for me? By participating, you'll have the opportunity to potentially shift the way in which our community receives mental health care. You'll also be helping to establish the foundation for creating more informed and effective ways for mental health care professionals to treat our community. To volunteer or for more information, just contact: EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Omar Troutman (troutman@mailbox.sc.edu) or call 803.240.8310 Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendars for 2014 are back in stock! They are $10, and the proceeds go to the Tulsa Firefighters Educational Clowns Fund. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Growing Up Gay; From Left Out to Coming Out' by Funny Gay Males You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Here are all the special things we loved, strategies we adopted, and situations we avoided in making our way toward being officially and at long last Out. Relive with the Funny Gay Males the joy of discovering Dr. Seuss and his gallery of selfconscious misfits. Remember that perfect gay kid hero, Superman, who like many of us left his small town for the big city and a low-paying job in a creative business. Recall the trouble you got into by gravitating to all the "wrong" toys. Be nostalgic about Prom Night, when you wanted to tell your camera-wielding parents that they were right not to pass up their last opportunity to document their son's date with a girl, and about when you developed your first awkward, embarrassing, delirious crush on the boy next door. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... •••~ .. Vol 111t er ru SA A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:41 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1d54f5b2fc0b8ba7d3c3561a73b0d5a0.pdf d7784483371236b3fcd2c1c8d0ed4b8c PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... eNews April 16th, 2014 In This Issue Oklahoma Marriage --- - -Equality --Lawsuit EBA Sponsor 2014 Equality Gala ---- Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday April 26th, 2014. Purchase a seat or sponsor a table now and find more information at www.okeq.org/gala ---- eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality - 10 Years to the 10th Circuit Send Off Wednesday, April 16th, 2014; 2:00 pm Security Checkpoint, Second Level Tulsa International Airport 7777 E Apache Tulsa, OK 74145 It is a big week in Oklahoma for the LGBT community. Plaintiffs in the Oklahoma Marriage Equality lawsuit head to the 10th Circuit Court of Appeals in Denver. Send off party at the Tulsa International Airport 2:00 pm on Wednesday April 16th. Facebook Event Bring your "proud of you" signs and "best wishes" banners. Assemble at the security checkpoint lobby on the second level at the top of the escalators. Remember...they have been representing all of us for almost 10 years. EBA MOREcolor Tulsa GSA Scholarship Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show World Book Night First Thursday Art Show EBA Sponsor Linda Barton Paul Guys Dine Too Tulsa Growl TMSL Volunteers Dining Out for Life Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser International Family Day Paragraph 175 Holocaust Commemoration LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Howard Doak - Cityscape Home Mortgage 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 15th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Nicole Moan. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... Ticket purchases and sponsorship information Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook I E UALITY QJBusmess Alliance The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at The Office of Dr. Blane Snodgrass, Tulsa Eye Clinic, 7171 S Yale, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Dr. Blane Snodgrass Tulsa Eye Clinic 7171 S Yale Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136 MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Gay and Straight Alliance Scholarship Deadline is April 18th, 2014 Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Booker T Washington, Union High School and Central High School participate in a GSA Lock In at the Equality Center The Tulsa Gay and Straight Alliance Scholarship is available for high school seniors in Tulsa County, Oklahoma with overall GPA of at least 2.50, and will demonstrate character, leadership and participation through the school's GSA and in other documented activities. The applicant must get the support from a faculty sponsor of the GSA. Sponsored by the Tulsa Community Foundation. Download the scholarship application here ~ TUL A MMU '- LL' F u DAT! N !TY Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org - - --- K9 Boot Camp Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. SOS Group The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events I • : I I - Patio Party at Area 18 - Saturday, April 19th 209 Karaoke Pride Night - Friday, April 25th Pride Night at TNT's - Saturday, May 10th Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser - Saturday, May 17th For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold ~/J p TU LSA A d Live Free! Coming Out Workshop e 2014 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather HEFLECTICll\lS STONE' 1 ~ OF I> HI I) I: \l\f ALL ,., World Book Night On the Evening of Wednesday, April 23rd, 2014 On one magical evening 25,000 book givers will spread ARMISTEAD the love of reading across the nation. Cindy Hulsey, from the Tulsa City-County Library, will share some love at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by giving away 20 copies of Tales of the City by Armistead Maupin. And if you crave more, TCCL has thousands more you can read, listen to, or download for free. MAUPIN Also available that evening, Code Name Verity by Elizabeth Wein. Donated by Miranda Dawson, this historical fiction novel takes place during WWII. It's part epistolary and focuses on two girls, Maddie and Verity, who are involved in the war and best friends. 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... ,. ... , ,,, ,,,, ,.,,- If you haven't read a book for pleasure lately this is your ~- opportunity to pick up a free book! I 1 1 / \ l l ! I I \\11, l For more information on World Book Night, visit here First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ted Holland, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Linda Barton Paul - Music @ 501 Concert Series Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 7:30 pm Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S Cincinnati Tulsa, OK 74013 As part of the Music@51 Concert Series, Linda Barton Paul will perform BACH TO BRUBECK! On Sunday, April 27th, 2014 at 7:30 pm, Linda will play music you never Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... thought you would hear on the harp. Linda Paul, a native of Tulsa, Oklahoma, has played the harp professionally since 1970. She has toured across the United States and around the world, teaches master classes at Harp Festivals and has recorded 14 CDs. General Admission at the door is $20 Student and Senior admission is $10 For more information or to purchase advance tickets, visit here Guys Dine Too Tuesday, May 6th, 2014; 6:30 pm The May meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Fuji's on Brookside on Tuesday, May 6th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Fuji's on Brookside is located at 3739 S. Peoria Ave Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. == Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. Two Step & Country Line Dance Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tulsametrosoftball.com Yoga A - Z Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 24th, 2014; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 24th, 2014 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give a portion of the proceeds from lunch Dine Out. t'igJ1t AIDS, and dinner service to H.O.P.E. Dinin ( Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Applebee's - Tulsa Pride Flapjack Raiser Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Applebee$ Join us at the Applebees on 71st for a fun & family-friendly Tulsa Pride Fundraiser. Buy tickets online here. $10 for a great pancake breakfast to help fund Tulsa Pride! International Family Day Sunday, May 4th, 2014 The Family Equality Council has invited the OkEq Gamily Program to participate in the International Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... Family Day on Sunday, May 4th, 2014. Gamily wants to show other communities and the world how beautiful families are. Everyone is welcome to come. Let's get together for a free game of laser tag. Donated by Laser Quest. games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno LASU<'.. Q VcST There is a limited number of spaces, please RSVP by emailing at Gamily@OkEq.org or call Mary Jones 918.743.4297. 'Paragraph 175' screening at Circle Cinema Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Circle Cinema 12 S Lewis Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Historian Klaus M�ller interviews survivors of the Nazi persecution of homosexuals because of the German Penal Code of 1871. Admission price is $7 and tickets are available at circlecinema.com NOT TO BE MISSED ELEGANT AND POWERFUL' · 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 7:00 pm Temple Israel 2004 E 22nd Pl The Tulsa Council for Holocaust Education invites the public to honor the forgotten victims at the 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 at 7:00 pm. at Temple Israel. Dr. Nadine Blumer is the featured speaker and will address the topic, "Forgotten Holocaust Victims: How Germany Remembers the Roma". Blumer recently finished a fellowship at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum and now is starting a postdoctoral fellowship at the Centre for Ethnographic Research and Exhibition in the Aftermath of Violence at Concordia University in Montreal, Quebec. For more information about this event, please visit jewishtulsa.org Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... ,nt.:'='::E~"" REME RG I, - VY,:§V L C u T-==-- THE 'V 2014 INTERFAITH HOLOCAUST COMMEMORATION THURSDAY, MAY 1 • 7 P.M. • TEMPLE ISRAEL, 2004 E. 22ND PLACE EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Saturday, May 3rd, 2014; 8:00 am The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N McKinley Ave Tulsa, OK 74063 8:00 am Shotgun Start $75 per player or $300 per team 4-Man Team Scramble format Registration is open; contact Curtis Austin curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918.361.8739 Cash prizes for 1st, 2nd and 3rd place teams Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... T GOLF CLA AT T ~ CANYONS AT 131.J\CIQ KRIPG~ 1101N, MCl<lNLF! ~VE SANP SPRIN<iS, QK 74P63 SATURDAY, MAY 3RD 8:00 A.M. SHOTGUN START - - - - $75 PER PLAYER/ $300 PER TEAM -·-- 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT RE~ITTIIATlON IS OPEN NOW II CONTACT: :'~~~~::.~ P7YE M¥ 'l'OU CAH.t.UORNDUSON MallOOll:.TIJlSAKM.T ~H fUZES QR 1sr, 2• 0 AND 3°0 PLAC~ nAMS FFLE PRIZESIII MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store is proud to be carrying 'Tulsa is Fabulous' tees ($20) by local artist Zach Raw. At the moment, sizes M, XL and 2X in assorted colors are available, and soon all sizes S through 2X. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Dual Attraction; Understanding Bisexuality' by Martin S. Weinberg, Colin Williams and Douglas Pryor Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... For the past two generations, extensive research has been conducted on the determinants of homosexuality. But, until now, scant attention has been paid to what is perhaps the most mysterious--and potentially illuminating--variation of human sexual expression, bisexuality. Today, as ignorance and fear of AIDS makes greater awareness of all forms of sexual behavior an urgent matter of private and public consequence, leading sex researchers Martin Weinberg, Colin Williams, and Douglas Pryor provide us with the first major study of bisexuality. [!,nrrrr. tS • • u !!!, -· '=il @ "-.: Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:56 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/95138146452b20430cbf8785998657e8.pdf db7ac3009976dba65376d0a877d7044c PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... eNews April 25th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Programming Paragraph 175 First Thursday Art Show Welcome to the eNews. We can't wait to see everyone at the Equality Gala this Saturday! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality MOREcolor Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show EBA The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Linda Barton Paul Guys Dine Too Tulsa Growl Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser Holocaust Commemoration International Family Day LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Programming Note The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will close at 5:00 pm on Saturday, April 26th for the 2014 Equality Gala. We will reopen at 12:00 pm on Sunday, April 27th. Find Us on Facebook 'Paragraph 175' screening at Circle Cinema Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Circle Cinema 12 S Lewis Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Historian Klaus M�ller interviews survivors of the Nazi persecution of homosexuals because of the German Penal Code of 1871. Admission price is $7 and tickets are available at circlecinema.com OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 15th, 7:00 pm J>,\l\J.\tjHAPH 176 A 101 (PS'TUH & Jlff'IIIY flMCDMAN ru IIIMUTD IY IUP£RT Ml!ETT Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... NOT TO BE MISSED ELEGANT AND POWERFUL'. First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ted Holland, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Nicole Moan. Counseling Services MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events Counseling Services 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... p·'Ade EvENTS FOR EvERYBoov 209 Karaoke Pride Night ~ TNT's Pride Night 5/17 Pride Flapjack Fundraise End Up Pride Night Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride Zoo Day Interfaith Service Poolside Pride PFLAG Pride Brun Counseling Services Council Oa TulsaShoc Eric Himan For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org A ide ~/J p TU LS 2014 HEFLECTICl l\lS STONE' oF I> I~ I I) I: \f\f ALL I" "., Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org K9 Boot Camp Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Linda Barton Paul - Music @ 501 Concert Series Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 7:30 pm Grieving Well 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S Cincinnati Tulsa, OK 74013 As part of the Music@51 Concert Series, Linda Barton Paul will perform BACH TO BRUBECK! On Sunday, April 27th, 2014 at 7:30 pm, Linda will play music you never thought you would hear on the harp. Linda Paul, a native of Tulsa, Oklahoma, has played the harp professionally since 1970. She has toured across the United States and around the world, teaches master classes at Harp Festivals and has recorded 14 CDs. General Admission at the door is $20 Student and Senior admission is $10 For more information or to purchase advance tickets, visit here Guys Dine Too 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tuesday, May 6th, 2014; 6:30 pm The May meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Fuji's on Brookside on Tuesday, May 6th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Fuji's on Brookside is located at 3739 S. Peoria Ave Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Applebee's - Tulsa Pride Flapjack Raiser Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Awlebees Join us at the Applebees on 71st for a fun & family-friendly Tulsa Pride Fundraiser. Buy tickets online here. $10 for a great pancake breakfast to help fund Tulsa Pride! 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 7:00 pm Temple Israel 2004 E 22nd Pl The Tulsa Council for Holocaust Education invites the public to honor the forgotten victims at the 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 at 7:00 pm. at Temple Israel. Dr. Nadine Blumer is the featured speaker and will address the topic, "Forgotten Holocaust Victims: How Germany Remembers the Roma". Blumer recently finished a fellowship at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum and now is starting a postdoctoral fellowship at the Centre for Ethnographic Research and Exhibition in the Aftermath of Violence at Concordia University in Montreal, Quebec. For more information about this event, please visit jewishtulsa.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Boot Camp THURSDAY, MAY 1 • 7 P.M. • TEMPLE ISRAEL, 2004 E. 22ND PLACE International Family Day Sunday, May 4th, 2014 The Family Equality Council has invited the OkEq Gamily Program to participate in the International Family Day on Sunday, May 4th, 2014. Gamily wants to show other communities and the world how beautiful families are. Everyone is welcome to come. Let's get together for a free game of laser tag. Donated by Laser Quest. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... There is a limited number of spaces, please RSVP by emailing at Gamily@OkEq.org or call Mary Jones 918.743.4297. transgender and intersex individuals. LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu - - Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Saturday, May 3rd, 2014; 8:00 am Open AA Group The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N McKinley Ave Tulsa, OK 74063 Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 8:00 am Shotgun Start $75 per player or $300 per team 4-Man Team Scramble format Registration is open; contact Curtis Austin curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918.361.8739 Cash prizes for 1st, 2nd and 3rd place teams TGOLFC A AT TH~ CANYON$ J 131.ACIQ 1101N, MCKINLEY f,.VE MNP SPRIN~S, QK 741>63 SATURDAY, M~ 3RD 8:00 A.M. SHOTGUN START - - - - $75 PER PLAYER/ $300 PER TEAM -·-- 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT RE~ISTIIATION IS OPEN NOWII CONTACT: ~':!~~~N•:,11: ' ! J :Rrm¥¥ T¥ YOU CANAUOFIHDUSON fACHOOIC.TVl.SA.IOI.T ~H IZES QR 151, 2• 0 AND 3•0 P CE TEAMS RAFFLE PRIZESIII Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store is proud to be carrying 'Tulsa is Fabulous' tees ($20) by local artist Zach Raw. At the moment, sizes M, XL and 2X in assorted colors are available, and soon all sizes S through 2X. $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'A Family of His Own' by Sean Michael You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Will's a widower with three little girls, including six month old twins, to look after. Most days it's all Will can do just to get home from his advertising job in time for goodnight kisses, but now his mother-in-law is leaving the country with her new boyfriend and Will needs the help of a professional nanny. Benji loves being a nanny; looking after other people's kids is the next best thing to having his own, and as a gay man, he figures it's as close as he's going to get. He's between jobs and is thrilled when he gets the call from Mannies Incorporated to interview with Will's family. He falls in love with the girls right away, but also finds himself attracted to their father. Benji knows he shouldn't moon over his boss, especially when Will desperately really needs his services as a nanny, but he can't help but wonder what it would be like to have a family of his own. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:58 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8c43ffb1d4e931a985221e5b1ce1845e.pdf bbf51dce2d6b95a332d34c7da1198f2e PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... eNews April 30th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor First Thursday Art Show MOREcolor Holocaust Commemoration Welcome to the eNews. Tulsa Pride is Saturday, June 7th and Sunday June 8th. Be sure to check TulsaPride.org for all of the Pride celebration events. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Tulsa Pride 2014 Spoken Word Event Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser Interfaith Service Pride in the Ballpark EBA Guys Dine Too Tulsa Growl SAGE Tulsa Tour International Family Day COMC Pride Performance COuncil Oak Mens Chorale Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ted Holland, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... May 15th, 7:00 pm MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Ted Holland. 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 7:00 pm Temple Israel 2004 E 22nd Pl The Tulsa Council for Holocaust Education invites the public to honor the forgotten victims at the 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 at 7:00 pm. at Temple Israel. Dr. Nadine Blumer is the featured speaker and will address the topic, "Forgotten Holocaust Victims: How Germany Remembers the Roma". Blumer recently finished a fellowship at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum and now is starting a postdoctoral fellowship at the Centre for Ethnographic Research and Exhibition in the Aftermath of Violence at Concordia University in Montreal, Quebec. For more information about this event, please visit jewishtulsa.org ,nt.:'=~~"" REME RG I, r " V~:§V L C u T-=--- THE 'V 2014 INTERFAITH HOLOCAUST COMMEMORATION THURSDAY, MAY 1 • 7 P.M. • TEMPLE ISRAEL, 2004 E. 22ND PLACE Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Perspectives: Words and their Consequences Saturday, May 3rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Saturday, May 3rd Opening acts | 7:00 pm Lauren Zuniga | 9:00 pm Foolish Things Coffee | 1001 S. Main St. Free to attend | RSVP via Eventbrite Refreshments included TYPros Tulsa Young Professional's Diversity Crew is having their Spoken Word : 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Diversity Perspective event this Saturday at Foolish Things Coffee Company. Internationally touring poet Lauren Zuniga is the event headliner with Louder Than a Bomb finalist, Cypher 120 Poets, and Battle of the Bands winner Magic Pageant performing as opening acts. Performances start at 7 and the event is free to the public. Tulsa Pride 2014 Saturday June 7th and Sunday June 8th, 2014 Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Poolside Party Saturday, JUNE 7th - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 8th - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2014 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many different times and areas are available. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org T U L S A e 2014 Counseling Services l~ErLE*.,TICJI IS STCJ, E () F I I 11 1= "'ALL Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Applebee's - Tulsa Pride Flapjack Raiser Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Awlebees Join us at the Applebees on 71st for a fun & family-friendly Tulsa Pride 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Fundraiser. Buy tickets online here. $10 for a great pancake breakfast to help fund Tulsa Pride! Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events • Pride Night at TNT's - May 10th at 9:00 pm • Pride Night at End Up - May 17th at 4:00 pm BBQ Dinner Fundraiser • Tulsa Pride Zoo Day - Saturday, May 24th Details about these events and more are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook 2014 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 29th, 2014; 7:30 pm Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd The 2014 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 29th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. K9 Boot Camp Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 2:05 pm Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. SOS Group PURCHASE TICKETS AT: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER, 621 EAST 4TH STREET, TULSA, OK 74120, 918-743-4297 Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Come attend the Second Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 1st, 2014. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the Midland Rockhounds and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tickets are available for $10.00 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance and the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Program. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Guys Dine Too Tuesday, May 6th, 2014; 6:30 pm The May meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Fuji's on Brookside on Tuesday, May 6th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Fuji's on Brookside is located at 3739 S. Peoria Ave Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... SAGE Tulsa visits KOTV Channel 6 Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 10:00 am On Tuesday, May 27th, 2014, the SAGE Tulsa group will be treated to a tour of the Griffin Communications Media Center at 303 N Boston Ave and home of KOTV Channel 6. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head off for the tour. Please RSVP to SAGE@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders International Family Day Sunday, May 4th, 2014 The Family Equality Council has invited the OkEq Gamily Program to participate in the International Family Day on Sunday, May 4th, 2014. Gamily wants to show other communities and the world how beautiful families are. Everyone is welcome to come. Let's get together for a free game of laser tag. Donated by Laser Quest. There is a limited number of spaces, please RSVP by emailing at Gamily@OkEq.org or call Mary Jones 918.743.4297. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Wednesday, June 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93 St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the Hardesty Regional Library Wednesday, June 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. This will be a FREE event. www.counciloak.org Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert 'Be Our Guest' - A Disney Extravaganza! Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014; 8:00 pm Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 Gussman Concert Hall - Lorton Performance Center, University of Tulsa Campus 550 S Gary Place, Tulsa, OK Council Oak Mens Chorale's 16th summer season, entitled Be Our Guest! (A Disney Extravaganza) council oak features the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale and council oak mens chorole guest artist Eric Himan. The concert includes music from beloved Disney movies, including songs from Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin, Jungle Book, Monster, Inc., Little Mermaid, Tangled, Tarzan, Lion King, Hercules, and others. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Saturday, May 3rd, 2014; 8:00 am The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N McKinley Ave Tulsa, OK 74063 8:00 am Shotgun Start $75 per player or $300 per team 4-Man Team Scramble format Registration is open; contact Curtis Austin curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918.361.8739 Cash prizes for 1st, 2nd and 3rd place teams T GOLF CLA AT TH~ CAN QNS AT ~1-ACl<J CK RIPG~ 1101N. r,,cKINLEY ~Vf. SANP SPRINGS, QIS 74!163 SATURDAY, M~ 3RD 8:00 A.M . SHOTGUN START $75 PER PLAYER/ $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOWII CONTACT: ~r:~~~::.'!'i~ ~lleHOl'.M,-COM aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 'IOU CANALJOflHDIJSOfrol flloalOOK•TlJLSAIOLT ZES FOR st, 2• 0 AND 3•0 PLAl:E TEA 5 RAFFLE PRIZES II I LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Yoga A - Z Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store is proud to be carrying 'Tulsa is Fabulous' tees ($20) by local artist Zach Raw. All sizes S through 2X. Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Last Deployment: How a Gay, Hammer-Swinging Twentysomething Survived a Year in Iraq' by Bronson Lemer You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno In 2003, after serving five and a half years as a carpenter in a North Dakota National Guard engineer unit, Bronson Lemer was ready to leave the military behind. But six months short of completing his commitment to the army, Lemer was deployed on a yearlong tour of duty to Iraq. Leaving college life behind in the Midwest, he yearns for a lost love and quietly dreams of a future as an openly gay man outside the military. He discovers that his father's lifelong example of silent strength has taught him 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... much about being a man, and these lessons help him survive in a war zone and to conceal his sexuality, as he is required to do by the U.S. military. The Last Deployment is a moving, provocative chronicle of one soldier's struggle to reconcile military brotherhood with self-acceptance. Lemer captures the absurd nuances of a soldier's daily life: growing a mustache to disguise his fear, wearing pantyhose to battle sand fleas, and exchanging barbs with Iraqis while driving through Baghdad. But most strikingly, he describes the poignant reality faced by gay servicemen and servicewomen, who must mask their identities while serving a country that disowns them. Often funny, sometimes anguished, The Last Deployment paints a deeply personal portrait of war in the twenty-first century. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org . ~ r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:58 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/085b7765d0ae084b87007e077820dfd6.pdf f73b14b2018660494728fab45b68e918 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... eNews May 8th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser Welcome to the eNews. Tulsa Pride is Saturday, June 7th and Sunday June 8th. Be sure to check TulsaPride.org for all of the Pride celebration events. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time East Village 2nd Saturday Fest MOREcolor Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show Tulsa Pride 2014 Parade Color Guard Interfaith Service Give Out Day The Blue Ball Pride in the Ballpark EBA Tulsa Growl SAGE Tulsa Tour COMC Pride Performance COuncil Oak Mens Chorale Out in the Workplace LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Pride Store Applebee's - Tulsa Pride Flapjack Raiser Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Rainbow Library Volunteer Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Find Us on Facebook Join us at the Applebees on 71st for a fun & family-friendly Tulsa Pride Fundraiser. Buy tickets online here. $10 for a great pancake breakfast to help fund Tulsa Pride! East Village Second Saturday Street Festival Saturday, May 10th, 2014; 11:00 am - 4:00 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 15th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. D SATURDA STREET FESTw Come downtown to the East Village 2nd Saturday Street Fest and get to know downtown Tulsa's newest District. Proceeds from this event will go towards beautification efforts for this district in downtown. Enjoy live music on the main stage at 3rd and Lansing Look for street performers, vendors & food on Lansing from 2nd to 4th and on 3rd from Lansing to Kenosha Live mural painting happening at 3rd and Kenosha OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Ted Holland. Live Music / Food Trucks / Artist Booths / Live Mural Painting / & More/ Sponsored by the GuRuStu Foundation For more information, visit here MOREcolor 2014 Show Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color 1 • . •• The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2014 Saturday June 7th and Sunday June 8th, 2014 Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Poolside Party Saturday, JUNE 7th - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 8th - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2014 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many different times and areas are available. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... Counseling Services T U L S A e 2014 Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events • Pride Night at End Up - May 17th at 4:00 pm BBQ Dinner Fundraiser • Tulsa Pride Zoo Day - Saturday, May 24th Details about these events and more are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook Tulsa Pride Parade Color Guard Participants If you are a former or Active service member and would like to be in the Tulsa Pride Parade color guard, please contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org or call 918.743.4297 --- Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 2014 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 29th, 2014; 7:30 pm Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd The 2014 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 29th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Counseling Services 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Give Out Day Thursday, May 15th, 2014 GIVE T DAY engage. support. give. Give OUT Day is the national day of giving to LGBTQ organizations across the country. In 2013 Give OUT Day raised over $600,000, from 5,474 individuals in support of over 400 nonprofits groups across the country. On May 15th, 2014, thousands more will show their support for their favorite LGBTQ nonprofits. scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org It's 24 hours of LGBTQ and ally giving-and it's your chance make a real difference, right here in OUR community. Join in supporting our community on May 15th, 2014, by donating to Oklahomans for Equality online. The Blue Ball presented by The Tulsa Sisters Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 7:00 pm K9 Boot Camp Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The Tulsa Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence present: The Blue Ball Saturday, May 17th, 2014 Dennis R, Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... 7:00 - 11:00 pm 1 Tickets are $10 in advance and $15 at the door. Get your tickets at www.thetulsasisters.org This is a "themed" event and The Tulsa Sisters encourage everyone who attends to wear your best blue outfit, dress, fetish gear or avant garde design. There will be a "Best Blue Ball Wear" contest. Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 2:05 pm I • . Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather PURCHASE TICKETS AT: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER, 62 1 EAST 4TH STREET, TULSA, OK 74120, 918- 743-4297 Come attend the Second Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 1st, 2014. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the Midland Rockhounds and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Tickets are available for $10.00 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance and the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Program. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g EQJBusmess UALITY Alliance The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... on your friends list. Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. SAGE Tulsa visits KOTV Channel 6 Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 10:00 am On Tuesday, May 27th, 2014, the SAGE Tulsa group will be treated to a tour of the Griffin Communications Media Center at 303 N Boston Ave and home of KOTV Channel 6. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head off for the tour. Please RSVP to SAGE@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Wednesday, June 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Boot Camp Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93 St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the Hardesty Regional Library Wednesday, June 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. This will be a FREE event. www.counciloak.org Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert 'Be Our Guest' - A Disney Extravaganza! Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014; 8:00 pm Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 Gussman Concert Hall - Lorton Performance Center, University of Tulsa Campus 550 S Gary Place, Tulsa, OK Council Oak Mens Chorale's 16th summer season, entitled Be Our Guest! (A Disney Extravaganza) council oak features the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale and council oak mens chorole guest artist Eric Himan. The concert includes music from beloved Disney movies, including songs from Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin, Jungle Book, Monster, Inc., Little Mermaid, Tangled, Tarzan, Lion King, Hercules, and others. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com ---- LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. -- .. r:a:a=-. - Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ----- --to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... The Pride Store is proud to be carrying 'Tulsa is Fabulous' tees ($20) by local artist Zach Raw. All sizes S through 2X. Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Eat the Moon Slow' by Lauren Zuniga You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Lauren Zuniga is an internationally touring poet and teaching artist. A three time national slam finalist and LAUREN ZUNIGA passionate activist, MoveOn. Org called her work, "the most riveting message." Daily Kos called her "a voice that can change the game." Born and raised in Oklahoma, she is the voice of Oklahoma City Community College's Now is Power campaign featured on television and radio. In 2012, she served as the Activist-In-Residence for the University of Oklahoma and was voted Best Local Author by the Oklahoma Gazette. She is the author of two poetry collections, The Nickel Tour (Penmanship Books, 2009) and The Smell of Good Mud (Write Bloody Publishing, 2012). Pank Magazine said, "If imagery and language are the sea on which Zuniga's poems sail, then her ability to reach the shared human experience is the boat in which she rides." She lives with her two kids in an artist collective named Clementine and likes to make art with old magazines and glue. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno EAT THE MOON SLOW Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... ~ ol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:59 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0fa25a18f5ba6e7e1359c32e55ab0700.pdf 56d99eba31f29fe2fa553b2fe87bd583 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... eNews May 14th, 2014 In This Issue • Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser Give Out Day Welcome to the eNews. Tulsa Pride is Saturday, June 7th and Sunday June 8th. Be sure to check TulsaPride.org for all of the Pride celebration events. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show Tulsa Pride 2014 Parade Color Guard Rainbow Run Interfaith Service Applebee's - Tulsa Pride Flapjack Raiser MOREcolor Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am The Blue Ball EBA Sponsor Applebee's Applet>ees 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 PFLAG Pride Brunch Pride in the Ballpark Join us at the Applebees on 71st for a fun & family-friendly Tulsa Pride Fundraiser. Buy tickets online here. $10 for a great pancake breakfast to help fund Tulsa Pride! EBA An Evening with Rev. Schaefer SAGE Tulsa Tour Give Out Day Guys Dine Too Thursday, May 15th, 2014 COMC Pride Performance r GIVE T DAY engage. support. give . Give OUT Day is the national day of giving to LGBTQ organizations across the country. In 2013 Give OUT Day raised over $600,000, from 5,474 individuals in support of over 400 nonprofits groups across the country. On May 15th, 2014, thousands more will show their support for their favorite LGBTQ nonprofits. COuncil Oak Mens Chorale World Elder Abuse Day Out in the Workplace LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Pride Store Featured Article Featured Article It's 24 hours of LGBTQ and ally giving-and it's your chance make a real difference, right here in OUR community. Join in supporting our community on May 15th, 2014, by donating to Oklahomans for Equality online. Find Us on Facebook Tulsa Pride 2014 Saturday June 7th and Sunday June 8th, 2014 Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Poolside Party Saturday, JUNE 7th - Street Festival and Parade 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... Sunday, JUNE 8th - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2014 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many different times and areas are available. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 15th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. T U L S A e 2014 OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Ted Holland. Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events • Pride Night at End Up - May 17th at 4:00 pm BBQ Dinner Fundraiser • Tulsa Pride Zoo Day - Saturday, May 24th Details about these events and more are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook Tulsa Pride Parade Color Guard Participants If you are a former or Active service member and would like to be in the Tulsa Pride Parade color guard, please contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - - or call 918.743.4297 Rainbow Run 2014 Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Sunday, June 8th, 2014; 10:00 am 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... 2014 RAINBOW RUN .. . p e ,v, .. Presented by: ~ - _,. ,d nl 1u 1 ..... ~HJc;:K~ m - 11 The Rainbow Run will be held on June 8th, 2014. The run starts at 10:00 am and will be ran on the Midland Valley Trails. The run will begin and end in Centennial Park. There will be two runs a 5K run and a 1K Fun Run. The Rainbow run will benefit Tulsa Pride. For more information about the Rainbow Run or to sign up, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com The Rainbow Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, MAD Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. 2014 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 29th, 2014; 7:30 pm Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The 2014 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 29th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. MOREcolor 2014 Show Counseling Services Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color - 1 • . • The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com The Blue Ball presented by The Tulsa Sisters Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 7:00 pm Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The Tulsa Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence present: The Blue Ball Saturday, May 17th, 2014 Dennis R, Neill Equality Center 7:00 - 11:00 pm Tickets are $10 in advance and $15 at the door. Get your tickets at www.thetulsasisters.org This is a "themed" event and The Tulsa Sisters encourage everyone who attends to wear your best blue outfit, dress, fetish gear or avant garde design. There will be a "Best Blue Ball Wear" contest. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather PFLAG Pride Brunch Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 12:00 - 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Before heading to the ballpark for the double header game, stop by and join PFLAG Tulsa for a Pride Bunch from 12:00 - 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. On the menu PFLAG will be favorite brunch items like omelettes, waffles and TULSA CHAPTER mimosas. Cost is $10.00 per person. Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 2:05 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ ServJCes and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tram.gender Elders PURCHASE TICKETS AT: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER, 621 EAST 4TH STREET, TULSA, OK 74120, 918-743-4297 Come attend the Second Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 1st, 2014. First game starts at 2:05 pm. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... See the Tulsa Drillers play against the Midland Rockhounds and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Tickets are available for $10.00 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance and the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Program. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g EQJBusmess UALITY Alhance 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. An Evening with Rev. Frank Schaefer Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 5:45 pm Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 5:45 pm Tickets are $25.00 The Exchange 2nd Floor, Historic Film Exchange Building 700 1/2 W Sheridan Ave Oklahoma City, OK 73102 Frank is a UM pastor who officiated at his son's same-sex marriage and, six years later, he was tried by a United Methodist court. That trial stripped Schaefer of his ordination after more than 20 years of ministry in the nation's largest mainline Protestant denomination. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. s:r::cc.. ma ~ c:a 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... The Exchange (View Map) is located on the second floor of the historic Film Exchange building in downtown Oklahoma City. Tickets and more information is available on the Oklahoma United Methodists for Marriage Equality website. SAGE Tulsa visits KOTV Channel 6 Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 10:00 am On Tuesday, May 27th, 2014, the SAGE Tulsa group will be treated to a tour of the Griffin Communications Media Center at 303 N Boston Ave and home of KOTV Channel 6. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head off for the tour. Please RSVP to SAGE@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Guys Dine Too Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014; 6:30 pm The June meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Sisserou's on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014 at around 6:30 pm. Sisserou's is located at 107 N. Boulder Ave. Unit C, (on the corner of W. Archer and N. Main). Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. www.sisserousrestauranttulsa.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Yoga A - Z Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Wednesday, June 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93 St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the Hardesty Regional Library Wednesday, June 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. This will be a FREE event. www.counciloak.org Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert 'Be Our Guest' - A Disney Extravaganza! Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014; 8:00 pm Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 Gussman Concert Hall - Lorton Performance Center, University of Tulsa Campus 550 S Gary Place, Tulsa, OK Council Oak Mens Chorale's 16th summer season, entitled Be Our Guest! (A Disney Extravaganza) council oak features the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale and council oak mens chorole guest artist Eric Himan. The concert includes music from beloved Disney movies, including songs from Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin, Jungle Book, Monster, Inc., Little Mermaid, Tangled, Tarzan, Lion King, Hercules, and others. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. World Elder Abuse Day Monday, June 16th, 2014; 11:00 am Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center The Senior Service Section of the Tulsa Police Departments Financial Crimes Unit is recognizing local seniors for World Elder Abuse Awareness Day on June 16, 2014 at the Cox Business Center located at 100 Civic Center Drive in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma from 11:00 am to 3:00 pm. The event is being held in partnership with the Tulsa City County TRIAD, and with the assistance and support of many community partner agencies. Booths operated by various community outreach partners will be present. For more information, or to register your booth, contact Det. D. R. Crisp, Tulsa Police Department Financial Crimes Unit at 918 596-1317 dcrispcityoftulsa.org ------- Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com ----- Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store is proud to be carrying 'Tulsa is Fabulous' tees ($20) by local artist Zach Raw. All sizes S through 2X. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Workforce Oklahoma Access Point 11 Open Everyday Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Out of the Closet Into Our Hearts: Celebrating Our Gay/Lesbian Family Members' edited by Laura Siegel & Nancy Lamkin Olson You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Out of the Closet Into our Hearts, is a touching collection of articles and essays written by the parents gay men, lesbians, bisexuals and transgender people. The book was edited by Laura Siegel and Nancy Lamkin Olson, both PFLAG moms. It includes personal stories by famous parents such television personality and movie critic Gene Shalit, who wrote a tribute to his gay son Pete, and a Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... poignant piece by Dennis Shepard, father of Matthew Shepard who was murdered in Wyoming. And it includes many articles and stories by parents and friends who are not so famous, but whose stories are just as vital and important. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:00 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7e6770abed87725c21d96eab04d3d09a.pdf 3616fc1d249725ef17f06f23897c1bc0 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... eNews May 21st, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor EBA Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show Welcome to the eNews. Join us Saturday, May 24th for Tulsa Pride Day at the Tulsa Zoo. Tulsa Pride is Saturday, June 7th and Sunday June 8th. Be sure to check TulsaPride.org for all of the Pride celebration events. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Tulsa Pride 2014 Parade Color Guard Rainbow Run Interfaith Service MOREcolor PFLAG Pride Brunch Pride in the Ballpark An Evening with Rev. Schaefer Camp Anytown SAGE Tulsa Tour Guys Dine Too COMC Pride Performance COuncil Oak Mens Chorale Summer Theatre Classes World Elder Abuse Day Out in the Workplace LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Equality Business Alliance Pride Store Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Find Us on Facebook The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Tulsa Pride 2014 Saturday June 7th and Sunday June 8th, 2014 Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Poolside Party OkEq Art Exhibit 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... Saturday, JUNE 7th - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 8th - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2014 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many different times and areas are available. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Ted Holland. T U L S A r e 2014 Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events • Tulsa Pride Zoo Day - Saturday, May 24th • Tulsa Shock Pride Night - Friday, June 6th - 7:00 pm • Everybody's Looking for Something - Live from Majestic -------Friday, June 6th - 10:30 pm Details about these events and more are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook Tulsa Pride Parade Color Guard Participants If you are a former or Active service member and would like to be in the Tulsa Pride Parade color guard, please contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org or call 918.743.4297 --- Rainbow Run 2014 Sunday, June 8th, 2014; 10:00 am Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... 2014 RAINBOW RUN ~, Presented by: "i d -Al- ";/;1 r,----, - 11m p ~ e ~HJc;:K~ 'V' The Rainbow Run will be held on June 8th, 2014. The run starts at 10:00 am and will be ran on the Midland Valley Trails. The run will begin and end in Centennial Park. There will be two runs a 5K run and a 1K Fun Run. The Rainbow run will benefit Tulsa Pride. For more information about the Rainbow Run or to sign up, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com The Rainbow Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, MAD Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 2014 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 29th, 2014; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd The 2014 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 29th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. There will be an In Memoriam tribute for those who have passed this last year. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. MOREcolor 2014 Show Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Counseling Services --SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org , . The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com PFLAG Pride Brunch Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 12:00 - 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Before heading to the ballpark for the double header game, stop by and join PFLAG Tulsa for a Pride Bunch • • ' . '. . Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... from 12:00 - 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. On the menu .-~&.l"'lllll.llr TULSA CHAPTER will be favorite brunch items like omelettes, waffles and mimosas. Cost is $10.00 per person. Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 2:05 pm Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather PURCHASE TICKETS AT: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER, 621 EAST 4TH STREET, TULSA, OK 74120, 918-743-4297 Come attend the Second Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 1st, 2014. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the Midland Rockhounds and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Tickets are available for $10.00 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance and the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Program. An Evening with Rev. Frank Schaefer Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 5:45 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 5:45 pm Tickets are $25.00 The Exchange 2nd Floor, Historic Film Exchange Building 700 1/2 W Sheridan Ave Oklahoma City, OK 73102 Frank is a UM pastor who officiated at his son's same-sex marriage and, six years later, he was tried by a United Methodist court. That trial stripped Schaefer of his ordination after more than 20 years of ministry in the nation's largest mainline Protestant denomination. The Exchange (View Map) is located on the second floor of the historic Film Exchange building in downtown Oklahoma City. Tickets and more information is available on the Oklahoma United Methodists for Marriage Equality website. Camp Anytown Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. June 15th - 21st, 2014; Registration deadline is May 23rd ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... Camp Anytown, Oklahoma 2014 will be held June 15th - June 21st at Dwight Mission ~ N Camp in Vian, OK. This program promotes ~([!)~ self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership 0 in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this award-winning, human relations camp. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. Registration deadline is May 23rd. ~ 8 • Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. This year Camp Anytown will celebrate 20 years of training world citizens. It is often characterized as a "life-changing" opportunity by those who attend. This camp experience has made a difference in the lives of more than 800 teens since its inception in 1994. For additional information, contact the OCCJ office at 918.583.1361 or email info@occjok.org. For more information or to register online, visit www.occjok.org SAGE Tulsa visits KOTV Channel 6 Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014; 10:00 am This event has been rescheduled to June 3rd On Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014, the SAGE Tulsa group will be treated to a tour of the Griffin Communications Media Center at 303 N Boston Ave and home of KOTV Channel 6. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head off for the tour. Please RSVP to SAGE@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Guys Dine Too Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014; 6:30 pm The June meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Sisserou's on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014 at around 6:30 pm. Sisserou's is located at 107 N. Boulder Ave. Unit C, (on the corner of W. Archer and N. Main). www.sisserousrestauranttulsa.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Wednesday, June 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93 St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 7:00 pm Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the Hardesty Regional Library Wednesday, June 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. This will be a FREE event. www.counciloak.org Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert 'Be Our Guest' - A Disney Extravaganza! Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014; 8:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 Gussman Concert Hall - Lorton Performance Center, University of Tulsa Campus 550 S Gary Place, Tulsa, OK Council Oak Mens Chorale's 16th summer season, entitled Be Our Guest! (A Disney Extravaganza) features the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale and guest artist Eric Himan. The concert includes music from beloved Disney movies, including songs from Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin, Jungle Book, Monster, Inc., Little Mermaid, Tangled, Tarzan, Lion King, Hercules, and others. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Summer Theatre Classes Classes run June 16th - August 1st 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... ,. Summer Theatre classes Downtown Tulsa Join American Theatre Company's Artist Educators for exciting two week acting classes in Youth Cabaret, Shakespeare, for the Stage and in Improvisation, in the East Village. Each session ends with a live performance. For more information and registration, visit www.americantheatrecompany.org - - - - - - - - - - -- -Classes will be held @ ATC Studios in Downtown Tulsa at 308 South Lansing. Classes run from 9:00 am until 4:00 pm. World Elder Abuse Day Monday, June 16th, 2014; 11:00 am Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center The Senior Service Section of the Tulsa Police Departments Financial Crimes Unit is recognizing local seniors for World Elder Abuse Awareness Day on June 16, 2014 at the Cox Business Center located at 100 Civic Center Drive in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma from 11:00 am to 3:00 pm. The event is being held in partnership with the Tulsa City County TRIAD, and with the assistance and support of many community partner agencies. Booths operated by various community outreach partners will be present. For more information, or to register your booth, contact Det. D. R. Crisp, Tulsa Police Department Financial Crimes Unit at 918 596-1317 dcrisp@cityoftulsa.org -- ----- Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store is proud to be carrying 'Tulsa is Fabulous' tees ($20) by local artist Zach Raw. All sizes S through 2X. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Ghost Guitars' 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... by Tom Canford You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Fronting a country and western band called Bar-X Boys, Jack Linden wants out. The road is a bitch. Bed bugs and Gideon Bibles. Honky-tonks and tricks. He asks a talented singer to fill in on guitar for what he hopes will be the band's last hurrah. Pecos Farley welcomes the opportunity to hear his songs played live and to stretch his songwriting abilities with Jack. He puts his first year of college and girlfriend Ruth on hold. Can Ruth find solace elsewhere? Pecos does have a twin brother, Gila. Sharing lives, beds, and bodies and collaborating on songs, Pecos and Jack find themselves popular on the podunk circuit. Unexpectedly a single song catapults them to the heights of the politically-oriented rock music scene, and they become heroes of the anti-Vietnam war movement as well as rock stars. Pecos, influenced by zealous Students for a Democratic Society, begins thinking like them, spouting their rhetoric. Jack begins to feel he's just along for the ride, a hypnotic with guitar. The relationship is floundering on a more personal level as well, each knowing an inevitable split is coming, neither guessing how final and traumatic it will be. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:04 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5fed55419b4c32d774a328f121d32356.pdf f42249ff043634ef1eba08279e115e36 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... eNews May 28th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Interfaith Service PFLAG Pride Brunch Pride in the Ballpark Welcome to the eNews. Join us Sunday, June 1st for PFLAG Pride Brunch at the Equality Center at 12:00 pm and then at ONEOK Field for the Pride In the Ballpark Double Header game at 2:00 pm. Tulsa Pride is Saturday, June 7th and Sunday June 8th. Be sure to check TulsaPride.org for all of the Pride celebration events. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show Tulsa Pride 2014 Parade Color Guard Rainbow Run MOREcolor EBA SAGE Tulsa Tour Tulsa Interfaith Alliance Guys Dine Too COMC Pride Performance Sisters in Song COuncil Oak Mens Chorale Grateful Day --Flapjack -Fundraiser Shower of Stoles Project Summer Theatre Classes Out in Tulsa 2014 World Elder Abuse Day Out in the Workplace 2014 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 29th, 2014; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer The 2014 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 29th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. There will be an In Memoriam tribute for those who have passed this last year. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. Find Us on Facebook PFLAG Pride Brunch 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 12:00 - 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center V Before heading to the ballpark for the double header game, stop by and join PFLAG Tulsa for a Pride Bunch from 12:00 - 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. On the menu PFLAG will be favorite brunch items like omelettes, waffles and TULSA CHAPTER mimosas. Cost is $10.00 per person. Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Ted Holland. Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 2:05 pm Counseling Services PURCHASE TICKETS AT: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER, 621 EAST 4TH STREET, TULSA, OK 74120, 918-743-4297 Come attend the Second Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 1st, 2014. First game starts at 2:05 pm. Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org See the Tulsa Drillers play against the Midland Rockhounds and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Tickets are available for $10.00 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance and the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Program. Tulsa Pride 2014 Saturday June 7th and Sunday June 8th, 2014 Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Poolside Party Saturday, JUNE 7th - Street Festival and Parade Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Sunday, JUNE 8th - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2014 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many different times and areas are available. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org T U L S A e 2014 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events • Tulsa Shock Pride Night - Friday, June 6th - 7:00 pm • Everybody's Looking for Something - Live from Majestic Friday, June 6th - 10:30 pm -------- Details about these events and more are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook Tulsa Pride Parade Color Guard Participants If you are a former or Active service member and would like to be in the Tulsa Pride Parade color guard, please contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - - or call 918.743.4297 Rainbow Run 2014 scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --- SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Sunday, June 8th, 2014; 10:00 am · ••••- ' . "' ·~' . - I 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Grieving Well 2014 RAINBOW RUN .. . p e ,v, .. Presented by: ~ - _,. ,d nl 1u 1 ..... ~HJc;:K~ m - 11 The Rainbow Run will be held on June 8th, 2014. The run starts at 10:00 am and will be ran on the Midland Valley Trails. The run will begin and end in Centennial Park. There will be two runs a 5K run and a 1K Fun Run. The Rainbow run will benefit Tulsa Pride. For more information about the Rainbow Run or to sign up, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com The Rainbow Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, MAD Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. MOREcolor 2014 Show Opening Night Thursday, June 19th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color 1 • 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather . •• Oklahomans for Equality is proud to host the MOREcolor 2014 Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition for Pride, June 19th - 22nd, 2014, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Open for only four days during regular hours 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm. This year exhibiting more than fifty artists in a broad spectrum of media and styles, the MOREcolor 2014 juried exhibition opens June 19th and runs for just four days through June 22nd. The opening night event on June 19th from 6:00 to 9:00 pm will feature the harp music of Linda Paul and the Jazzical Strings trio, a multi-discipline performance work entitled "Noise Level 1," an installation by Matthew Ruyle, food by TW's-AFAB Catering and cash bar. The opening event and exhibition are free and open to the public. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan This annual event has become a regional juried show, highly anticipated year after year for its cutting edge reputation, showing fine art of the 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... highest quality. The festive opening night is an evening not to be missed, every year featuring performing artists complementing and lifting the exhibition to the level of experience. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 18th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Campfire Green Country, the meeting will take place at the Circle Cinema, 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa OK 74104. Following the meeting will be a free screening of "The New Black". An explosive new documentary that uncovers the complicated and often combative histories of the African-American and LGBT civil rights movements. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK 74104 For more information on "The New Black", visit www.newblackfilm.com SAGE Tulsa visits KOTV Channel 6 Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014; 10:00 am This event has been rescheduled to June 3rd On Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014, the SAGE Tulsa group will be treated to a tour of the Griffin Communications Media Center at 303 N Boston Ave and home of KOTV Channel 6. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head off for the tour. Please RSVP to SAGE@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Interfaith Alliance of Tulsa Awards Thursday, June 5th, 2014; 6:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be presenting Toby Jenkins with this year's Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award for his work honoring the various spiritual traditions of GLBTQ persons, and for ensuring that the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is a safe space for all, regardless of faith. You are invited to join us for the Award Celebration on Thursday, June 5th, 2014 starting at 6:30 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church. The evening will include a buffet catered by TW's AFab Catering, as well as performances by Pam Crosby (President of the Tulsa Jazz Society) and her trio, along with Rebecca Ungerman. Tickets are $30/person and can be purchased by selecting the link on our web site at www.tulsainterfaithalliance.org , Deadline for ticket purchase is Monday, June 2nd. ~~•~ ♦-,: INTERFAITH ALLIANCE !! i' OF TULSA PROTECTING FAITH AND FREEDOM Guys Dine Too Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014; 6:30 pm Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. JC_ = Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org - - - - --to attend The June meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Sisserou's on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014 at around 6:30 pm. Sisserou's is located at 107 N. Boulder Ave. Unit C, (on the corner of W. Archer and N. Main). www.sisserousrestauranttulsa.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Wednesday, June 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93 St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the Hardesty Regional Library Wednesday, June 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. This will be a FREE event. www.counciloak.org Sisters in Song Opening for Chautauqua Tuesday, June 10th, 2014; 6:00 pm Southeast Campus, TCC 10300 East 81st Street Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 r. ' S isters on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm ~ ,:::, in5 ong The Arts and Humanities Council of ~ Tulsa sponsors the Oklahoma Chautauqua event beginning June 10th, 2014 at the Southeast Campus of Tulsa Community College, 81st street near Highway 169. This is the fifth year for Sisters in Song to open the Chautauqua. This year the Chautauqua theme is "A Crisis of Confidence: The War That Changed the World." The actors will be featuring great personalities from the years 1914 to 1918, including Woodrow Wilson, Edith Wharton, Henry James and Teddy Roosevelt. Please join the audience at 6:00 pm on Tuesday evening, June 10th, as Sisters in Song perform George M. Cohen, America The Beautiful, God Bless America, Me and My Shadow, and many more songs from the World War I era. Many of the songs are in sing-along format, so bring your voice to join in. For more information on Sisters in Song, visit their Facebook Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert 'Be Our Guest' - A Disney Extravaganza! Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014; 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 Gussman Concert Hall - Lorton Performance Center, University of Tulsa Campus 550 S Gary Place, Tulsa, OK Council Oak Mens Chorale's 16th summer season, entitled Be Our Guest! (A Disney Extravaganza) features the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale and guest artist Eric Himan. The concert includes music from beloved Disney movies, including songs from Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin, Jungle Book, Monster, Inc., Little Mermaid, Tangled, Tarzan, Lion King, Hercules, and others. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Grateful Day Foundation Flapjack Fundraiser at Applebee's Saturday, June 21st, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Appiebees Please join the Grateful Day Foundation at the Applebee's on 71st for flapjacks and coffee or juice. Tickets for the Flapjack Fundraiser are $7.00 and are available on the OkEq website here. The proceeds from this event will go directly to help fund the 2014 HIV Wellness Retreat, for Clients of Tulsa CARES and OSU Speciality Medicine. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Qrnteful £)nu JF <0>"tl.ll.:irn.dai.ti<0> :irn. JI:irn.c. Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS The Shower of Stoles Project Reception Monday, June 2nd, 2014; 5:00 - 7:00 pm Cimarron Alliance Equality Center 5613 N May Ave, Ste 400 OKC, OK HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing The Shower of Stoles Project is an extraordinary collection of over one thousand liturgical stoles and other sacred items representing the lives of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people of faith. The opening reception will be on Monday June 2nd, 2014 from 5:00 - 7:00 pm at the Cimarron Alliance Equality Center. The project will be on display for the following dates: June 2nd - 5th from 12:00 - 8:00 pm at Cimarron Alliance Equality Center June 6th from 9:00 am - 12:00 pm at Cimarron Alliance Equality Center June 8th 9:00 am and 11:00 am Services at Mayflower UCC June 8th 6:00 pm Service at Cathedral of Hope OKC Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: 11111 Ill I I~ OFShower Stoles I Iii ·~•11 ...... PROJECT 1he stories ofLGBTpeople and their rejection by the church. Reception Ju ne 2 • 5-7prn • C imarron Alli ance Equality Cen ter Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Summer Theatre Classes Classes run June 16th - August 1st Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Summer ·, . h T eatre cl in the East Village asses Downtown Tulsa Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org 1st Join American Theatre Company's Artist Educators for exciting two week acting classes in Youth Cabaret, Shakespeare, for the Stage and in Improvisation, in the East Village. Each session ends with a live performance. For more information and registration, visit www.americantheatrecompany.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Classes will be held @ ATC Studios in Downtown Tulsa at 308 South Lansing. Classes run from 9:00 am until 4:00 pm. Out in Tulsa 2014 Saturday, June 14th, 2014; 6:30 pm rrax:c POW<t,...t,vtl•tulHre,g,onalchamtio.r - - - - - - u06.14.2014 Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center 2021 E 71st Street Openarms Youth Project will be holding their third annual fundraising event, Out in Tulsa, on Saturday, June 14th at 6:30 pm at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center. Join in for this exciting evening and help us raise funds to continue and expand the work at Openarms Youth Project for GLBTQ youth and their allies ages 14-20. This year's entertainment will feature performances by comedian Vickie Shaw and musician Austyn King. The event will be hosted by Randy Roberts Potts. Dinner will be served and a cash bar is available. Attire is business casual. Tickets are $125.00 per person and may be purchased using the link 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... below. Visit OpenArms Youth Project for more information and to purchase tickets World Elder Abuse Day Monday, June 16th, 2014; 11:00 am Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center The Senior Service Section of the Tulsa Police Departments Financial Crimes Unit is recognizing local seniors for World Elder Abuse Awareness Day on June 16, 2014 at the Cox Business Center located at 100 Civic Center Drive in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma from 11:00 am to 3:00 pm. The event is being held in partnership with the Tulsa City County TRIAD, and with the assistance and support of many community partner agencies. Booths operated by various community outreach partners will be present. For more information, or to register your booth, contact Det. D. R. Crisp, Tulsa Police Department Financial Crimes Unit at 918 596-1317 dcrisp@cityoftulsa.org Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $20.00 Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Ghost Guitars' by Tom Canford You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In 1995, journalist Frank Owen began researching a story on "Special K," a new designer drug that fueled the after-midnight club scene. He went to buy and sample the drug at the internationally-notorious Limelight, a decrepit church converted into a Manhattan disco, where pulse-pounding music, gender-bending dancers, and uninhibited sideshows attracted long lines of hopeful onlookers. Clubland is the story of Owen's six year journey behind the velvet ropes, into the cavernous clubs where any transformation was possible, every extreme permissible--even murder. At first, Owen found an unexpected common ground between very different people: stockbrokers danced with transvestites, pacifier-sucking "club kids" with celebrities, thick-necked jocks with misfits. But as money flowed into the clubs, the music darkened, the drugs intensified, and the carnival spiraled out of control. Four men defined the scene, all of them outsiders, who saw in 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... clubland the chance to escape their pasts and reinvent themselves by making their own rules. Peter Gatien rose from a small Canadian milltown to become the most powerful club operator in America; Michael Alig, a gay misfit from the midwest, escaped to Manhattan where he won a legion of fashion-and-drug enamored followers; Lord Michael Caruso left Staten Island's bars for the rave parties of England, returning as clubland's leading drug dealer and techno music pioneer; and Chris Paciello began as a brutal Bensonhurst gang member, then recast himself as the glamorous prince of Miami Beach, partying with Madonna and Jennifer Lopez at the exclusive nightspots he created. Each of them had secrets that led them over the edge, and when when clubland fell, it left behind tragic human consequences: the disillusioned, the strung out, and the dead. A tour de force of investigative and participatory journalism, Clubland offers a dramatic expos� of a world built on illusion, where morality is ambiguous, identity changeable, and money the root of both ecstasy and evil. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:05 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6c73da78ec88e45f4b019a17304fefae.pdf 19affb9f7b57c424733a6bba8fce043a PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... eNews June 4th, 2014 In This Issue • Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show Tulsa Pride 2014 Pride Night with Tulsa Shock Welcome to the eNews. It's Pride Week in Tulsa! Tulsa Pride is Saturday, June 7th and Sunday June 8th. Be sure to check TulsaPride.org for all of the Pride celebration events. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Everybody's - Looking - for Something Rainbow Run MOREcolor Novel Talk GET F.I.T. Tulsa Pride 2014 EBA Saturday June 7th and Sunday June 8th, 2014 Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Saturday, JUNE 7th - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 8th - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2014 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many different times and areas are available. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM PFLAG Billboards Tulsa Interfaith Alliance COMC Pride Performance Sisters in Song COuncil Oak Mens Chorale East Village 2nd Saturday Festival Grateful Day Flapjack Fundraiser Shower of Stoles Project Summer Theatre Classes Out in Tulsa 2014 World Elder Abuse Day T U L S A e Out in the Workplace Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer 2014 Find Us on Facebook Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Tulsa Pride 2014 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Upcoming Events • Tulsa Shock Pride Night - Friday, June 6th - 7:00 pm • Everybody's Looking for Something - Live from Majestic Friday, June 6th - 10:30 pm Details about these events and more are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook OkEq Art Exhibit The MOREcolor exhibit will be on display at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 19th - 22nd Pride Night at Tulsa Shock Friday, June 6th, 2014; 7:00 pm BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave Friday, June 6th, 2014 will be Tulsa Shock Pride Night at the BOK Center. Use promo code "PRIDE" for $3.00 off your ticket price in selected sections. Purchase your tickets here Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 'Everybody's Looking for Something' Friday, June 6th, 2014; 10:30 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Friday, June 6th, 2014 at Club Majestic Tulsa, Eric Himan and company (EH3) will be performing the music of THE EURYTHMICS! One night only with special guests including artist, Coles Whalen on piano/bg vocals and the talents of Daphne Rio, Shanel Sterling, and Kris Kohl. Admission is $8 at the door. For more information visit erichiman.com Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --- Rainbow Run 2014 Sunday, June 8th, 2014; 10:00 am SOS Group 2014 RAINBOW RUN Presented by: p •v "id e .... ~ , ,,. , &lfl1n nl The Rainbow Run will be held on June 8th, 2014. The run starts at 10:00 am and will be ran on the Midland Valley Trails. The run will begin and end in Centennial Park. There will be two runs a 5K run and a 1K Fun Run. The Rainbow run will benefit Tulsa Pride. For more information about the Rainbow Run or to sign up, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The Rainbow Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, MAD Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. MOREcolor 2014 Show Opening Night Thursday, June 19th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop MORE color 1 • .•• 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Oklahomans for Equality is proud to host the MOREcolor 2014 Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition for Pride, June 19th - 22nd, 2014, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Open for only four days during regular hours 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm. This year exhibiting more than fifty artists in a broad spectrum of media and styles, the MOREcolor 2014 juried exhibition opens June 19th and runs for just four days through June 22nd. The opening night event on June 19th from 6:00 to 9:00 pm will feature the harp music of Linda Paul and the Jazzical Strings trio, a multi-discipline performance work entitled "Noise Level 1," an installation by Matthew Ruyle, food by TW's-AFAB Catering and cash bar. The opening event and exhibition are free and open to the public. This annual event has become a regional juried show, highly anticipated year after year for its cutting edge reputation, showing fine art of the highest quality. The festive opening night is an evening not to be missed, every year featuring performing artists complementing and lifting the exhibition to the level of experience. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Novel Talk with author Laura Moriarty Tuesday, June 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1920 UNTIL OD WITH AUTHOR LAURA MORIA WWW. TUL SA P RIDE.ORG WWW . TULSA L IBRARY . ORG Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Novel Talk presents... I Am Human: Individual Empowerment from 1920 until Today What does it mean to be human? Are all people, indeed, created equal? What connects us... and what keeps us apart? In one way or another, most literature explores these elemental questions. In her acclaimed novel, The Chaperone, Laura Moriarty has a strong message of human equality and dignity. Join us for a special Novel Talk program where we will explore issues of women's rights, gay rights, and just plain human rights, and then hear from the author herself about her writing process and research for The Chaperone. Books for sale and book signing to follow. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 For more information on Novel Talk or other library programs, call the AskUs Hotline, 918.549.7323, or visit the library's website, www.tulsalibrary.org GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 18th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Campfire Green Country, the meeting will take place at the Circle Cinema, 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa OK 74104. Following the meeting will be a free screening of "The New Black". An explosive new documentary that uncovers the complicated and often combative histories of the African-American and LGBT civil rights movements. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK 74104 For more information on "The New Black", visit www.newblackfilm.com PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. :a:: = ~ == Rainbow Writers PFLAG l'lnolS. F...les 11111 Friends of lasblam 111116l)S PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) 3015 Yale (East Side 200 ft South of 29th St) 913 W I-44 (North Side 600 ft West of Elwood) 12651 E BA EXPWY (North Side 400 ft West of 129th E Ave) 2801 S HWY 169 (.3 MI North of 61st Exit) 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ----to attend Interfaith Alliance of Tulsa Awards Thursday, June 5th, 2014; 6:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be presenting Toby Jenkins with this year's Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award for his work honoring the various spiritual traditions of GLBTQ persons, and for ensuring that the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is a safe space for all, regardless of faith. You are invited to join us for the Award Celebration on Thursday, June 5th, 2014 starting at 6:30 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church. The evening will include a buffet catered by TW's AFab Catering, as well as performances by Pam Crosby (President of the Tulsa Jazz Society) and her trio, along with Rebecca Ungerman. Tickets are $30/person and can be purchased by selecting the link on our web site at www.tulsainterfaithalliance.org , Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Deadline for ticket purchase is Monday, June 2nd. Lambda Al-Anon INTERFAITH ALLIANCE Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm OF TULSA PROTECTING FAITH AND FREEDOM Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Wednesday, June 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93 St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Game Night Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the Hardesty Regional Library Wednesday, June 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. This will be a FREE event. www.counciloak.org Sisters in Song Opening for Chautauqua Tuesday, June 10th, 2014; 6:00 pm Southeast Campus, TCC 10300 East 81st Street Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 ~ Sisters ~ in5 ong The Arts and Humanities Council of Tulsa sponsors the Oklahoma Chautauqua event beginning June 10th, 2014 at the Southeast Campus of Tulsa Community College, 81st street near Highway 169. This is the fifth year for Sisters in Song to open the Chautauqua. This year the Chautauqua theme is "A Crisis of Confidence: The War That Changed the World." The actors will be featuring great personalities from the years 1914 to 1918, including Woodrow Wilson, Edith Wharton, Henry James and Teddy Roosevelt. Please join the audience at 6:00 pm on Tuesday evening, June 10th, as Sisters in Song perform George M. Cohen, America The Beautiful, God Bless America, Me and My Shadow, and many more songs from the World War I era. Many of the songs are in sing-along format, so bring your voice to join in. For more information on Sisters in Song, visit their Facebook Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert 'Be Our Guest' - A Disney Extravaganza! Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014; 8:00 pm Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - --Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 Gussman Concert Hall - Lorton Performance Center, University of Tulsa Campus 550 S Gary Place, Tulsa, OK Council Oak Mens Chorale's 16th summer season, entitled Be Our Guest! (A Disney Extravaganza) features the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale and guest artist Eric Himan. The concert includes music from beloved Disney movies, including songs from Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin, Jungle Book, Monster, Inc., Little Mermaid, Tangled, Tarzan, Lion King, Hercules, and others. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. East Village 2nd Saturday Festival EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Saturday, June 14th, 2014; 4:00 - 10:00 pm 3rd & Lansing Downtown Tulsa Car Show/ Artist Booths/ Music/ Food Trucks Saturday, June 14, near 3rd & Lansing, Downtown Tulsa. As the sun goes down, enjoy the romantic lights over 3rd. Stay for a view of the Drillers' Fireworks Show that night (depending on how long the game runs). For more info, visit www.eastvillagetulsa.org The chrome will definitely be shining on the Sunny Side of Downtown this Father's Day Weekend. Bring your Dad! We're having an OPEN CAR SHOW! Plus Artist Booths, Live Music, and some of Tulsa's top Food Trucks. Mike Cameron Collective will be playing live on stage. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Grateful Day Foundation Flapjack Fundraiser at Applebee's Saturday, June 21st, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Appiebees Please join the Grateful Day Foundation at the Applebee's on 71st for flapjacks and coffee or juice. Tickets for the Flapjack Fundraiser are $7.00 and are available on the OkEq website here. The proceeds from this event will go directly to help fund the 2014 HIV Wellness Retreat, for Clients of Tulsa CARES and OSU Speciality Medicine. Qrnteful .£,A!J JF<0> 1l.Jl.JI'll.da.ti<0> JI'll. JI JI'll. c . Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS The Shower of Stoles Project On display June 2nd - 8th, 2014 Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Cimarron Alliance Equality Center 5613 N May Ave, Ste 400 OKC, OK The Shower of Stoles Project is an extraordinary collection of over one thousand liturgical stoles and other sacred items representing the lives of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people of faith. The project will be on display for the following dates: June 2nd - 5th from 12:00 - 8:00 pm at Cimarron Alliance Equality Center June 6th from 9:00 am - 12:00 pm at Cimarron Alliance Equality Center June 8th 9:00 am and 11:00 am Services at Mayflower UCC June 8th 6:00 pm Service at Cathedral of Hope OKC Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... la I I Shower I I" Stoles 11111 ·••11 "" OLi ...... PROJECT The stories ofLGBTpeople and their rejection by the church. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Recep tion Ju ne 2 • 5-?prn • C ima rron All iance Equality Center Summer Theatre Classes Classes run June 16th - August 1st ,. ' Summer Theatre classes Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Join American Theatre Company's Artist Educators for exciting two week acting classes in Youth Cabaret, Shakespeare, for the Stage and in Improvisation, in the East Village. Each session ends with a live performance. For more information and registration, visit www.americantheatrecompany.org --------Classes will be held @ ATC Studios in Downtown Tulsa at 308 South Lansing. Classes run from 9:00 am until 4:00 pm. Out in Tulsa 2014 Saturday, June 14th, 2014; 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center 2021 E 71st Street Openarms Youth Project will be holding their third annual fundraising event, Out in Tulsa, on Saturday, June 14th at 6:30 pm at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center. Join in for this exciting evening and help us raise funds to continue and expand the work at Openarms Youth Project for GLBTQ youth and their allies ages 14-20. This year's entertainment will feature performances by comedian Vickie Shaw and musician Austyn King. The event will be hosted by Randy Roberts Potts. Dinner will be served and a cash bar is available. Attire is business casual. Tickets are $125.00 per person and may be purchased using the link below. Visit OpenArms Youth Project for more information and to purchase tickets World Elder Abuse Day Monday, June 16th, 2014; 11:00 am Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center The Senior Service Section of the Tulsa Police Departments Financial Crimes Unit is recognizing local seniors for World Elder Abuse Awareness Day on June 16, 2014 at the Cox Business Center located at 100 Civic Center Drive in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma from 11:00 am to 3:00 pm. The event is being held in partnership with the Tulsa City County TRIAD, and with the assistance and support of many community partner agencies. Booths operated by various community outreach partners will be present. For more information, or to register your booth, contact Det. D. R. Crisp, Tulsa Police Department Financial Crimes Unit at 918 596-1317 dcrisp@cityoftulsa.org Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $20.00 Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'This Day in June' by Gayle L. Pitman & illustrated by Kristyna Litten You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In a wildly whimsical, validating, and exuberant reflection of the LGBT community, This Day In June welcomes readers to experience a pride celebration and share in a day when we are all united. Also included is a Reading Guide chock-full of facts about LGBT history and culture, as well as a Note to Parents and Caregivers with information on how to talk to children about sexual orientation and gender identity in age-appropriate ways. This Day In June is an excellent tool for teaching respect, acceptance, and understanding of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... •••~ . Vol int r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:06 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/61a8da6f6c0627a9062e53e542c63153.pdf 01abb4d09664241a7af480c59db9e84a PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... eNews • Welcome to the eNews. Thank you to everyone who came out and celebrated Tulsa Pride with us! Be sure to join us for the MOREcolor Art Show reception on Thursday, June 19th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality MOREcolor 2014 Show Opening Night Thursday, June 19th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm June 12th, 2014 In This Issue MOREcolor EBA Novel Talk GET F.I.T. PFLAG Billboards East Village 2nd Saturday Festival Out in Tulsa 2014 Tulsa Pride Feedback a night OUT National Gay Blood Drive Grateful Day Flapjack Fundraiser Summer Theatre Classes Mara Keisling First Thursday Art Show World Elder Abuse Day Out in the Workplace In Memorium Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Oklahomans for Equality is proud to host the MOREcolor 2014 Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition for Pride, June 19th - 22nd, 2014, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Open for only four days during regular hours 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm. Find Us on Facebook This year exhibiting more than fifty artists in a broad spectrum of media and styles, the MOREcolor 2014 juried exhibition opens June 19th and runs for just four days through June 22nd. The opening night event on June 19th from 6:00 to 9:00 pm will feature the harp music of Linda Paul and the Jazzical Strings trio, a multi-discipline performance work entitled "Noise Level 1," an installation by Matthew Ruyle, food by TW's-AFAB Catering and cash bar. The opening event and exhibition are free and open to the public. This annual event has become a regional juried show, highly anticipated year after year for its cutting edge reputation, showing fine art of the highest quality. The festive opening night is an evening not to be missed, OkEq Art Exhibit The MOREcolor exhibit will be on display at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 19th - 22nd 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... every year featuring performing artists complementing and lifting the exhibition to the level of experience. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook I E UALITY QJBusmess Alliance The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 18th, 2014 at 5:30 pm. Hosted by Camp Fire of Green Country, the meeting will take place at the Circle Cinema, 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa OK 74104. Following the meeting will be a free screening of "The New Black". An explosive new documentary that uncovers the complicated and often combative histories of the African-American and LGBT civil rights movements. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. il 7 1\ Camp Fire Green Country Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK 74104 For more information on "The New Black", visit www.newblackfilm.com Novel Talk with author Laura Moriarty Tuesday, June 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... 1920 UNTIL TODAY WITH AUTHOR LAURA MORIA WWW . TUL SAPR IDE.ORG WWW . TUL 5A L 18RARY.ORG Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Novel Talk presents... I Am Human: Individual Empowerment from 1920 until Today What does it mean to be human? Are all people, indeed, created equal? What connects us... and what keeps us apart? In one way or another, most literature explores these elemental questions. In her acclaimed novel, The Chaperone, Laura Moriarty has a strong message of human equality and dignity. Join us for a special Novel Talk program where we will explore issues of women's rights, gay rights, and just plain human rights, and then hear from the author herself about her writing process and research for The Chaperone. Books for sale and book signing to follow. For more information on Novel Talk or other library programs, call the AskUs Hotline, 918.549.7323, or visit the library's website, www.tulsalibrary.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards Grieving Well PFLAG Paninis, F. . .les 1111d F riends of usblam lllld Gays PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... Look for them at the following locations: Yolanda Arnold 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) 3015 Yale (East Side 200 ft South of 29th St) 913 W I-44 (North Side 600 ft West of Elwood) 12651 E BA EXPWY (North Side 400 ft West of 129th E Ave) 2801 S HWY 169 (.3 MI North of 61st Exit) Live Free! Coming Out Workshop East Village 2nd Saturday Festival Saturday, June 14th, 2014; 4:00 - 10:00 pm 3rd & Lansing Downtown Tulsa 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Car Show/ Artist Booths/ Music/ Food Trucks Saturday, June 14, near 3rd & Lansing, Downtown Tulsa. As the sun goes down, enjoy the romantic lights over 3rd. Stay for a view of the Drillers' Fireworks Show that night (depending on how long the game runs). For more info, visit www.eastvillagetulsa.org The chrome will definitely be shining on the Sunny Side of Downtown this Father's Day Weekend. Bring your Dad! We're having an OPEN CAR SHOW! Plus Artist Booths, Live Music, and some of Tulsa's top Food Trucks. Mike Cameron Collective will be playing live on stage. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Out in Tulsa 2014 Saturday, June 14th, 2014; 6:30 pm o@1 '" 1'1\S~,..,~ - - - - -~060 ••14.2014 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ ServJCes and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tram.gender Elders Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center 2021 E 71st Street Openarms Youth Project will be holding their third annual fundraising event, Out in Tulsa, on Saturday, June 14th at 6:30 pm at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center. Join in for this exciting evening and help us raise funds to continue and Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... expand the work at Openarms Youth Project for GLBTQ youth and their allies ages 14-20. This year's entertainment will feature performances by comedian Vickie Shaw and musician Austyn King. The event will be hosted by Randy Roberts Potts. Dinner will be served and a cash bar is available. Attire is business casual. Tickets are $125.00 per person and may be purchased using the link below. Visit OpenArms Youth Project for more information and to purchase tickets 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Pride 2014 Community Feedback Meeting Thursday, June 26th, 2014; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center '"'"A p de THANK YOU TULSA! The OkEq Tulsa Pride Committee would like to thank all who attended 2014 Tulsa Pride 2014 Celebrations. The Public Community Feedback meeting is at the Equality Center on Thursday, June 26th at 7:30 HEi=LECTIOIIIS ISTOIIIELI DFl>Hllll: WALL "" pm. All are welcome to attend and share innovative ideas for Tulsa Pride 2015. == a night OUT with Nicole Carrington Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Thursday, June 19th, 2014; 9:30 pm The Comedy Parlor 328 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 Entry Fee 18+ to enter Show at 9:30 pm Dale Hogan as Nicole Carrington is a local girl with tons of funny stories about life and times as a drag queen. Come on OUT for a night of laughs! Featuring: Sophia Starr, Drew Welcher, and Tiffany Elam. For more information purchase visit comedyparlor.com Get F.I.T. or to tickets, National Gay Blood Drive ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Friday, July 11th, 2014; 2:00 - 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center NATIONAL 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... The National Gay Blood Drive is on July 11th, 2014. This is a nationwide effort to bring attention to the FDA's ban against Gay & Bisexual men donating blood & increase pressure on them to change it. Oklahomans for Equality and the Oklahoma Blood Institute will be hosting the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. Gay & Bisexual men are encouraged to show their willingness to contribute by bringing in allies to donate in their place. For more information about the National Gay Blood Drive, visit www.gayblooddrive.com - -------- Grateful Day Foundation Flapjack Fundraiser at Applebee's Saturday, June 21st, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Appiebee.5 Please join the Grateful Day Foundation at the Applebee's on 71st for flapjacks and coffee or juice. Tickets for the Flapjack Fundraiser are $7.00 and are available on the OkEq website here. The proceeds from this event will go directly to help fund the 2014 HIV Wellness Retreat, for Clients of Tulsa CARES and OSU Speciality Medicine. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. -.. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Qrnteful £)nu JF <0> 1l.ll.:n::n.d a i .ti<0> :n::n. JI :n::n.c. Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS Summer Theatre Classes Yoga A - Z Classes run June 16th - August 1st Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... 7:00 pm Summer • Theatre classes Downtown Tulsa Game Night Join American Theatre Company's Artist Educators for exciting two week acting classes in Youth Cabaret, Shakespeare, for the Stage and in Improvisation, in the East Village. Each session ends with a live performance. For more information and registration, visit www.americantheatrecompany.org ----------- - - Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Classes will be held @ ATC Studios in Downtown Tulsa at 308 South Lansing. Classes run from 9:00 am until 4:00 pm. Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Mara Keisling is the founding Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast media. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet July First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, July 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Foust, in a show titled: "Vehicle of Wash", beginning with a reception on 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... Thursday, July 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org World Elder Abuse Awareness Day Monday, June 16th, 2014; 11:00 am Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center The Senior Service Section of the Tulsa Police Departments Financial Crimes Unit is recognizing local seniors for World Elder Abuse Awareness Day on June 16, 2014 at the Cox Business Center located at 100 Civic Center Drive in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma from 11:00 am to 3:00 pm. The event is being held in partnership with the Tulsa City County TRIAD, and with the assistance and support of many community partner agencies. Booths operated by various community outreach partners will be present. For more information, or to register your booth, contact Det. D. R. Crisp, Tulsa Police Department Financial Crimes Unit at 918 596-1317 dcrisp@cityoftulsa.org -- ------ EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com ------- In Memorium Charles Labig Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm Charles Labig (Pictured in the foreground) riding past the Equality Center Dr. Charles E. Labig, of Greenville, passed away June 3, 2014 at his home in Tulsa, Okla. at the age of 65. He was born on Jan. 12, 1949 in Greenville, to the late Chalmer and Martha Labig. Charles was a 1967 graduate of Greenville High School, and received a BA in philosophy and religion from DePauw University in Greencastle, Ind. He went on to attend Boston University School of Theology, a seminary of the United Methodist Church, earning a Master of theology in psychology of religion and pastoral counseling. In 1978, he earned a Ph.D. in religion, culture and psychology from Boston University Graduate School of Arts and Sciences. Dr. Labig worked as a licensed psychologist in the Commonwealth of Massachusetts mental health system, in both clinical and administrative positions, while also seeing patients in his own private practice in the suburban Boston area. Charles valued his education highly, and he returned to Boston University, earning an MBA from the School of Management. From there, he became a corporate psychologist and joined RHR International, a consulting firm located in Los Angeles, Cali. While at RHR, he specialized in executive and organizational effectiveness. In 1995, he authored the book Preventing Violence in the Workplace. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- Dr. Labig had a passion for coaching effective leaders. He went on to work for BP Amoco Corporation at their headquarters in Chicago, Ill. as director of learning and organizational development until 1999. At The Hay Group of Chicago, Ill., he specialized in organizational effectiveness and leadership development. He later served as director of leadership and employee development at Baxter Healthcare Corporation of Deerfield, Ill., until his retirement in 2001. In 2006, he relocated to Tulsa, Okla. Charles is survived by his two sons, Andrew R. Labig of Lafayette, Ind., and Michael Charles Labig of Colorado Springs, Colo.; along with his brother Chalmer E. Labig, Jr. and niece Emily Ann Labig, both of Tulsa, Okla. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $20.00 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items . rn:l::x:C powe..at,,,,thetulH ragoooalchamber Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Love, Christopher Street: Reflections of New York City' edited by Thomas Keith You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Representing some of the most talented writers at work today, the 26 original essays in Love, Christopher Street encompass revealing, intense, profound, funny, personal, and queer reflections that span forty years of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender life in the Bronx, Brooklyn, Manhattan, Queens, and Staten Island. Together these essays create an LGBT love letter to New York City from native New Yorkers, American transplants, and international writers. This book continues the Lambda Awardwinning series of LGBT tributes to great cities. Just a few of the quintessentially queer essays include the Rev. Irene Monroe's account of the hot summer night in 1969 when she witnessed police raiding the Stonewall Inn on Christopher Street and the drag queens who fought back; Bob Smith's memoir of his life as an out stand-up comedian in the 1980s and how he has kept his fierce humor while faced with the diagnosis of ALS; Penny Arcade's saga of being a runaway in NYC and taken in off the streets by gay men who introduced her to Warhol's Factory; Ocean Vuong's chronicle of how he went from being a couch-surfing college student to homeless in Penn Station; and civil rights activist Brendan Fay reveals what took him all the way from Ireland to "Finding Jes�s on Christopher Street." Contributors include Mark Ameen, Penny Arcade, Christopher Bram, Brendan Fay, Thomas Glave, Jewelle Gomez, Aaron Hamburger, Martin Hyatt, Fay Jacobs, G. Winston James, Michele Karlsberg, Shaun Levin, Amos Mac, 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... David McConnell, Val McDermid, Rev. Irene Monroe, Rabbi Andrea Myers, Nicky Paraiso, Felice Picano, Charles Rice-Gonz�lez, Eddie Sarfaty, Justine Saracen, Bob Smith, Shawn Syms, Charlie V�zquez, Ocean Vuong, and Kathleen Warnock. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . • ~ . Vol 1nt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:06 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ad61728b5e58ea2abd522c898643b5d8.pdf d7ab3fc384b32c07c3e745ea46f16308 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... eNews June 19th, 2014 In This Issue MOREcolor Equality Gala Note Volunteer of the Year Novel Talk Welcome to the eNews. Be sure to join us for the MOREcolor Art Show reception on Thursday, June 19th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Pride Feedback MOREcolor 2014 Show SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Opening Night Thursday, June 19th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Grateful Day Flapjack Fundraiser GET F.I.T. a night OUT Board of Directors New Counseling Services PFLAG Billboards National Gay Blood Drive Tulsa Metro Softball League Gamily Ice Cream Social Mara Keisling First Thursday Art Show DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Out in the Workplace Pride Store Oklahomans for Equality is proud to host the MOREcolor 2014 Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition for Pride, June 19th - 22nd, 2014, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Open for only four days during regular hours 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm. This year exhibiting more than fifty artists in a broad spectrum of media and styles, the MOREcolor 2014 juried exhibition opens June 19th and runs for just four days through June 22nd. Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook The opening night event on June 19th from 6:00 to 9:00 pm will feature the harp music of Linda Paul and the Jazzical Strings trio, a multi-discipline performance work entitled "Noise Level 1," an installation by Matthew Ruyle, food by TW's-AFAB Catering and cash bar. The opening event and exhibition are free and open to the public. This annual event has become a regional juried show, highly anticipated year after year for its cutting edge reputation, showing fine art of the highest quality. The festive opening night is an evening not to be missed, every year featuring performing artists complementing and lifting the exhibition to the OkEq Art Exhibit The MOREcolor exhibit will be on display at the Dennis R. Neill 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... level of experience. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Equality Center June 19th - 22nd Counseling Services Note from the Equality Gala Committee To the winners of the White Lion live auction dinner item: please contact the Equality Center at 918.743.4297 for more information about your dinner. Ask for Mary Jones or Lucas Green. Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Counseling Services Oklahomans for Equality Volunteer of the Year Award dinner on Sunday, July 13th, 2014; 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality will be presenting our Volunteer of the Year Award to Andrew Gordon at our first ever Volunteer Appreciation Dinner on Sunday, July 13th at 6:30 pm. The event will be called "Proud on the Prairie" and will be western themed. Hot dogs, hamburgers and tofu burgers will be grilled for dinner. Chasing Nadean will perform country classics for the event. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Attendees must have volunteered for OkEq. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs knighcl@okstate.edu Andrew Gordon has been a volunteer at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since April of 2010. Andrew has dedicated himself to volunteer service for OkEq from the smallest tasks of stocking the soda machine to working all day at the Tulsa Pride events. Unknown to him, Andrew has even given 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... tours of the Equality Center to Tulsa's top philanthropists. Andrew and his family have attended the annual Equality Gala since 2010. Along with Cait O'Darling, Andrew has been faithfully volunteering at the Front Desk, answering the Helpline and assisting the staff in everyday duties. Oklahomans for Equality could not function without the assistance of our volunteers, so we happily recognize Andrew with the 2014 Volunteer of the Year Award. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Andrew attending the Equality Gala 2014, is pictured with fellow volunteer Cait O'Darling and special guest Prince Manvendra Novel Talk with author Laura Moriarty Tuesday, June 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm UNTIL OD WITH AUTHOR LAURA MORIA WWW.TULSA PRIDE.ORG WWW . TULSA L IBRARY . ORG Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Novel Talk presents... I Am Human: Individual Empowerment from 1920 until Today What does it mean to be human? Are all people, indeed, created equal? What connects us... and what keeps us apart? In one way or another, most literature explores these elemental questions. In her acclaimed novel, The Chaperone, Laura Moriarty has a strong message of human equality and dignity. Join us for a special Novel Talk program where we will explore issues of women's rights, gay rights, and just plain human rights, and then hear from the author herself about her writing process and research for The Chaperone. Books for sale and book signing to follow. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group For more information on Novel Talk or other library programs, call the 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... AskUs Hotline, 918.549.7323, www.tulsalibrary.org or visit the library's website, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Tulsa Pride 2014 Community Feedback Meeting Thursday, June 26th, 2014; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ""'"Ide p THANK YOU TULSA! The OkEq Tulsa Pride Committee would like to thank all who attended 2014 Tulsa Pride 2014 Celebrations. The Public Community Feedback meeting is at the Equality ISTOIIIEL I . . Center on Thursday, June 26th at 7:30 pm. All HEFLECTICJIIIS CJF P IU ll I: \.\IALL ;) are welcome to attend and share innovative ideas for Tulsa Pride 2015. a night OUT with Nicole Carrington Thursday, June 19th, 2014; 9:30 pm The Comedy Parlor 328 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 Entry Fee 18+ to enter Show at 9:30 pm Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well *On hiatus for June* 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Dale Hogan as Nicole Carrington is a local girl with tons of funny stories about life and times as a drag queen. Come on OUT for a night of laughs! Featuring: Sophia Starr, Drew Welcher, and Tiffany Elam. For more information or to purchase tickets, visit comedyparlor.com 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan OkEq Board 2013-2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 24th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@okeq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Thursday, June 26th, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Thursday, June 26th, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and Hibiscus Tea, so bring your favorite salad and chips. The pool has a shallow sagew Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & TramgC"ndc-r Eldi:>rs 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Grateful Day Foundation Flapjack Fundraiser at Applebee's ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Saturday, June 21st, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Awlebees Please join the Grateful Day Foundation at the Applebee's on 71st for flapjacks and coffee or juice. Tickets for the Flapjack Fundraiser are $7.00 and are available on the OkEq website here. The proceeds from this event will go directly to help fund the 2014 HIV Wellness Retreat, for Clients of Tulsa CARES and OSU Speciality Medicine. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Qrnteful .£,A!J JF 0>1U1JI"ll.da.ti0> JI"ll. JIJI"ll.ce. Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/ AIDS Rainbow Writers 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSUTulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ----to attend Contact Chelsey at knighcl@okstate.edu to schedule an appointment. ---- PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards Yoga A - Z PFLAG Pareois, Fadles 111d Frieods of lasblam llld Coys PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) 3015 Yale (East Side 200 ft South of 29th St) 913 W I-44 (North Side 600 ft West of Elwood) 12651 E BA EXPWY (North Side 400 ft West of 129th E Ave) 2801 S HWY 169 (.3 MI North of 61st Exit) *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm National Gay Blood Drive Friday, July 11th, 2014; 2:00 - 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center NATIONAL The National Gay Blood Drive is on July 11th, GAY BLOOD DRIVE 2014. This is a nationwide effort to bring attention to the FDA's ban against Gay & Bisexual men donating blood & increase pressure on them to change it. Game Night Oklahomans for Equality and the Oklahoma Blood Institute will be hosting the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. Register yourself and donor buddies on the OkEq website here. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card ~ 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... Gay & Bisexual men are encouraged to show their willingness to contribute by bringing in allies to donate in their place. For more information about the National Gay Blood Drive, visit www.gayblooddrive.com - ------- games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Tulsa Metro Softball League wins in OKC Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Tulsa Twisters and T-Town Zealers Oklahomans for Equality wants to congratulate the Tulsa Metro Softball League teams that played in the Sooner State Classic in OKC this last weekend. Tulsa Rampage The Tulsa Twisters finished 1st place and the T-Town Zealers took 2nd place in the D Division championship game 18-17! Also, the Rampage finished 1st place in the C Division. It was a successful weekend for Tulsa Metro Softball League. 2nd Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 20th, 2014; 1:00 - 3:00 pm It's that time again! Gamily's 2nd Annual Ice Cream Social! Come have fun and eat free ICE CREAM. This is an opportunity to meet other families and make new friends. Join us on Sunday, July 20, 2014 from 1:00 to 3:00 pm. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page or email Gamily@OkEq.org The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Mara Keisling is the founding Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast media. July First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, July 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Foust, in a show titled: "Vehicle of Wash", beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, Saturday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org -- - Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com --- --- Equality Center Pride Store Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org --- Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Full Spectrum: New Generation of Writing About Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender, Questioning, and Other Identities' edited by David Levithan & Billy Merrell You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Teens are more aware of sexuality and identity than ever, and they're looking for answers and insights, as well as a community of others. In order to help create that community, YA authors David Levithan and Billy Merrell have collected original poems, essays, and stories by young adults in their teens and early 20s. The Full Spectrum includes a variety of writers-gay, lesbian, bisexual, straight, transitioning, and questioning-on a variety of subjects: coming out, family, friendship, religion/faith, first kisses, break-ups, and many others. This one of a kind collection will, perhaps, help all readers see themselves and the world around them in ways they might never have imagined. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------~ I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:07 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/54857cadda8e0b96645a1f74ce287718.pdf d0e57507cd664706c9267bf46b7d155d PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... eNews June 26th, 2014 In This Issue Volunteer of the Year National Gay Blood Drive Tulsa Pride Feedback Equality Gala Note Welcome to the eNews. Make plans to attend the National Gay Blood Drive on Friday, July 11th. OkEq will hold the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality Volunteer of the Year Award dinner on Sunday, July 13th, 2014; 6:00 pm GET F.I.T. LGBT Pride Month at the White House Board of Directors New Counseling Services PFLAG Billboards Tulsa Metro Softball League Gamily Ice Cream Social Mara Keisling First Thursday Art Show Friend for a Friend Dinner DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Out in the Workplace Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Andrew attending the Equality Gala 2014, is pictured with fellow volunteer Cait O'Darling and special guest Prince Manvendra Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be presenting our Volunteer of the Year Award to Andrew Gordon at our first ever Volunteer Appreciation Dinner on Sunday, July 13th at 6:30 pm. The event will be called "Proud on the Prairie" and will be western themed. Hot dogs, hamburgers and tofu burgers will be grilled for dinner. Chasing Nadean will perform country classics for the event. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Attendees must have volunteered for OkEq. Andrew Gordon has been a volunteer at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since June of 2009. Andrew has dedicated himself to volunteer service for OkEq from the smallest tasks of stocking the soda machine to working all day at the Tulsa Pride events. Unknown to him, Andrew has even given tours of the Equality Center to Tulsa's top philanthropists. Andrew and his family have attended the annual Equality Gala since 2010. Along with Cait O'Darling, Andrew has been faithfully volunteering at the Front Desk, OkEq Art Exhibit The June exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be the MOREcolor Art Show. 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... answering the Helpline and assisting the staff in everyday duties. Oklahomans for Equality could not function without the assistance of our volunteers, so we happily recognize Andrew with the 2014 Volunteer of the Year Award. National Gay Blood Drive Friday, July 11th, 2014; 2:00 - 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services NATIONAL The National Gay Blood Drive is on July 11th, 2014. This is a nationwide effort to bring GAY BLOOD DRIVE attention to the FDA's ban against Gay & Bisexual men donating blood & increase pressure on them to change it. ~ Oklahomans for Equality and the Oklahoma Blood Institute will be hosting the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. Register yourself and donor buddies on the OkEq website here. Gay & Bisexual men are encouraged to show their willingness to contribute by bringing in allies to donate in their place. Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org For more information about the National Gay Blood Drive, visit www.gayblooddrive.com - ------- Tulsa Pride 2014 Community Feedback Meeting Thursday, June 26th, 2014; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ""'"Ide p THANK YOU TULSA! The OkEq Tulsa Pride Committee would like to thank all who attended 2014 Tulsa Pride 2014 Celebrations. The Public Community Feedback meeting is at the Equality srnMELI .. Center on Thursday, June 26th at 7:30 pm. All H1:1=u::cT1m,1s1 OF p If 11) I: \,\/ALL ;, are welcome to attend and share innovative ideas for Tulsa Pride 2015. Note from the Equality Gala Committee To the winners of the White Lion live auction dinner item: please contact the Equality Center at 918.743.4297 for more information about your dinner. Ask for Mary Jones or Lucas Green. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs knighcl@okstate.edu 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... Counseling Services GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org LGBT Pride Month at the White House Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Oklahomans for Equality has been invited to the White House on June 30th to attend a reception to celebrate LGBT Pride Month. In attendance will be OkEq Executive Director Toby Jenkins and OkEq Board President Michael F. Smith. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Grieving Well *On hiatus for June* 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold OkEq Board 2013-2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 24th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - - - for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSUTulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. Contact Chelsey at knighcl@okstate.edu - - - - to schedule an appointment. PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders PFLAG Pareots. F...lesond Frtendsof l.asbiamond&ays Tulsa Area Prime Timers PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) 3015 Yale (East Side 200 ft South of 29th St) 913 W I-44 (North Side 600 ft West of Elwood) 12651 E BA EXPWY (North Side 400 ft West of 129th E Ave) 2801 S HWY 169 (.3 MI North of 61st Exit) Tulsa Metro Softball League wins in OKC 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 Tulsa Twisters and T-Town Zealers Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Gender Outreach Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. ACA Assistance Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Get F.I.T. .. Rainbow Writers 4/23/26, 12:08 PM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... Oklahomans for Equality wants to congratulate the Tulsa Metro Softball League teams that played in the Sooner State Classic in OKC this last weekend. Tulsa Rampage The Tulsa Twisters finished 1st place and the T-Town Zealers took 2nd place in the D Division championship game 18-17! Also, the Rampage finished 1st place in the C Division. It was a successful weekend for Tulsa Metro Softball League. 2nd Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender ~-~) ''':~~ m~mr:t1 Sunday, July 20th, 2014; 1:00 - 3:00 pm It's that time again! Gamily's 2nd Annual Ice Cream Social! Come have fun and eat free ICE CREAM. This is an opportunity to meet other families and make new friends. Join us on Sunday, July 20, 2014 from 1:00 to 3:00 pm. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page or email Gamily@OkEq.org !I Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling I �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Mara Keisling is the founding Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast media. 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend July First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, July 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Foust, in a show titled: "Vehicle of Wash", beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Yoga A - Z *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. A Friend for a Friend Fundraiser Dinner Saturday, July 26th, 2014; Time TBA Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Friend for a Friend will have a fundraiser dinner on Saturday, July 26th, 2014. On the menu will be, smoked chicken, ribs, baked beans and cole slaw/potato salad. 100% of the admission price will go towards A Friend for a Friend. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918.747.6827 or 918.361.8839 DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com ---- Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Mama's Boy, Preacher's Son' by Kevin Jennings Workforce Oklahoma Access Point You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Open Everyday Long before Kevin Jennings began advocating to end anti-LGBT bias in schools, he was a victim of it. In Mama's Boy, Preacher's Son, Jennings traces the roots of his activism to his elementary school days in the conservative South, where "faggot" became more familiar to him than his own name. Mama's Boy, Preacher's Son is that rare memoir that is both a riveting personal story and an inside account of a critical chapter in our recent history. Creating safe schools for all youth is now a central part of the progressive agenda in American education-and Kevin Jennings is at the forefront of that fight. Mama's BoJ~ Preacher· Son 111,,.,,. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... MISSION: nt A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:08 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a1e0fb0e9f57a8bf52c9ed4f99f04e2d.pdf d14e8df38eb9399df3893acf3d29d93a PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... eNews July 2nd, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor First Thursday Art Show Volunteer of the Year National Gay Blood Drive Welcome to the eNews. Make plans to attend the National Gay Blood Drive on Friday, July 11th. OkEq will hold the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Equality Gala Note GET F.I.T. Board of Directors New Counseling Services Gamily Ice Cream Social The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Mara Keisling Friend for a Friend Dinner DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook July First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, July 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Foust, in a show titled: "Vehicle of Wash", beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Susan Foust. 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... Oklahomans for Equality Volunteer of the Year Award dinner on Sunday, July 13th, 2014; 6:00 pm Counseling Services Andrew attending the Equality Gala 2014, is pictured with fellow volunteer Cait O'Darling and special guest Prince Manvendra Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be presenting our Volunteer of the Year Award to Andrew Gordon at our first ever Volunteer Appreciation Dinner on Sunday, July 13th at 6:30 pm. The event will be called "Proud on the Prairie" and will be western themed. Hot dogs, hamburgers and tofu burgers will be grilled for dinner. Chasing Nadean will perform country classics for the event. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Attendees must have volunteered for OkEq. Andrew Gordon has been a volunteer at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since June of 2009. Andrew has dedicated himself to volunteer service for OkEq from the smallest tasks of stocking the soda machine to working all day at the Tulsa Pride events. Unknown to him, Andrew has even given tours of the Equality Center to Tulsa's top philanthropists. Andrew and his family have attended the annual Equality Gala since 2010. Along with Cait O'Darling, Andrew has been faithfully volunteering at the Front Desk, answering the Helpline and assisting the staff in everyday duties. Oklahomans for Equality could not function without the assistance of our volunteers, so we happily recognize Andrew with the 2014 Volunteer of the Year Award. National Gay Blood Drive Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Friday, July 11th, 2014; 2:00 - 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The National Gay Blood Drive is on July 11th, 2014. This is a nationwide effort to bring attention to the FDA's ban against Gay & Bisexual men donating blood & increase pressure on them to change it. 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... Oklahomans for Equality and the Oklahoma Blood Institute will be hosting the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. Walk-ins are welcome but you may also schedule your appointment here. Gay & Bisexual men are encouraged to show their willingness to contribute by bringing in allies to donate in their place. For more information about the National Gay Blood Drive, visit www.gayblooddrive.com Note from the Equality Gala Committee To the winners of the White Lion live auction dinner item: please contact the Equality Center at 918.743.4297 for more information about your dinner. Ask for Mary Jones or Lucas Green. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org OkEq Board 2013-2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 24th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Grieving Well *On hiatus for June* 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. Contact 918-594-8586 to schedule an appointment with Chelsey. 2nd Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 20th, 2014; 1:00 - 3:00 pm It's that time again! Gamily's 2nd Annual Ice Cream Social! Come have fun and eat free ICE CREAM. This is an opportunity to meet other families and make new friends. Join us on Sunday, July 20, 2014 from 1:00 to 3:00 pm. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page or email Gamily@OkEq.org SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm sage Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders ,••• .;- • Mara Keisling is the founding Executive " .,:: I Director of the National Center for ' • Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast media. . A Friend for a Friend Fundraiser Dinner Saturday, July 26th, 2014; 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Friend for a Friend will have a fundraiser dinner on Saturday, July 26th, 2014. On the menu will be, smoked chicken, ribs, baked beans and cole slaw/potato salad. 100% of the admission price will go towards A Friend for a Friend. Admission is a suggested donation of $10.00 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918.747.6827 or 918.361.8839 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm Get F.I.T. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 ACA Assistance Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Spirits of Christmas Past A Christmas in July Event for the Diversity Christian Fellowship Food Bank Rainbow Writers 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org - - - --to attend Yoga A - Z *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. July 26, 2014 @ Tulsa Eagle (21+ and over, No Cover) Cookout @ 7:00 pm (Donations accepted) Show @ 10:30 pm (Tipping accepted) Silent Auction, Jello Shots and 50/50 Raffle all night. Sponsored by the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, Green Country Bears, The Tulsa Sisters and T.U.L.S.A. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Please RSVP on the Facebook "Christmas in July" invite page -https:// www.facebook.com/events/1504567406424604/ Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Kevin' by Paul Kupperberg You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kevin Keller is the first openly gay character in the history of Archie Comics and currently stars in his own best-selling series of comic books. In this special paper-over-board novel, we focus on Kevin's early, awkward years and the struggles and joys of his inspirational road to selfdiscovery. This sweet and funny coming-of-age story features a strong anti-bullying message and is a perfect gift for Archie fans, parents, and anyone who has-or is-struggling to find their place. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library nt A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org -- - Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org --- 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:10 PM � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Sub-Series] OKEQ > Publications > OKEQ eNews Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. 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Title A name given to the resource [2014] OKEQ eNews 100 Years of Women with Moxie 108 Contemporary 10th Annual Drag Bingo 10th Circuit Court 10th Circuit Court of Appeals 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival 2014 2nd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival 2nd Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social A Friend for a Friend A Friend for a Friend Fundraiser Dinner A Murder of Storytellers A Murder of Storytellers Writing Group ACA ACA Assistance ACLU ACLU of Oklahoma ACLU-OK Acting Class for Kids Adam Affordable Care Act Affordable Care Act (ACA) Affordable Care Act Assistance After the Dawn ALL SOULS UNITARIAN CHURCH Allen Chapman Student Union American Civil Liberties Union And Tango Makes Three Ann Tomlins Applebee's Flapjack Fundraiser Ariel Schrag Art Gallery Art Gallery Submissions Ballroom Blitz Ballroom Pride Series Ballroom Pride Series Beginning Cha Cha BAM Entertainment Bamboo Lounge Barack Obama BARE BARE: A Pop Opera Be Our Voice Give a Day Beginning Cha Cha class Bishop Rick Hollingsworth Brad Sullivan Broken Fever Broken Fever: Reflections of Gay Boyhood Broken Heart Land bullying Bullying Prevention Conference candelight vigil Center for Reproductive Rights Chelsey Dobbs Chris Middlebrook Christmas in July Christy Hanewinkel Chuck Tomlins Cindy Cain Circle Cinema City of Tulsa Clint Robison COMC coming out Coming Out Workshop Community Candlelight Vigil for Justice Computer Boot Camp Congregation B'nai Emunah Council Oak Men's Chorale Council Oak Men's Chorle (COMC) Council Oak Men's Chorle Holiday Performance Council Oak Mens counseling counseling services Dannette McIntosh Daryl Christopher Del Darcy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Dewayne James Messenger Dilly Deli discrimination discrimination ban discrimination bans District Judge Terence Kern Divas 4 HOPE Diversity Christian Fellowship Food Bank Diversity Christian Fellowship International Domestic Violence Intervention Services Domestic Violence Intervention Services (DVIS) don g. holladay don holladay Douglas Knutson Dr. Dannette McIntosh Dr. John Schumann Dr. Julie Nagoshi Dr. Kurt Choate Dr. Kurt T. Choate Dr. Laura Arrowsmith Dr. Mark Fox Drag Bingo Drag Queen Bingo DVIS EBA EBA Directory EBA member business EBA Monthly Meeting EBA Sponsor Enid Pride Enid Pride 2014 Equality Business Alliance Equality Business Alliance (EBA) Equality Business Alliance Directory Equality Business Alliance Monthly Meeting Equality Business Alliance Networking Mixer Equality Center Equality Center Pride Store Equality Center room rentals Euphoria Benefit Fashion Show Executive Director Toby Jenkins Fair Catch fair housing Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey First Thursday First Thursday Art Exhibit First Thursday Art Reception Fringe Festival Fruugensteinery Productions game night GAMILY Gamily Back to School Carnival Gamily Ice Cream Social Garden Trug GardenTrug Gay Games Gay Games 2014 Gay marriage Gay Phillips Gay Pride River Festival Gay Softball Gay Softball World Series Gender Bender Gender Bender Comedy Show Gender Outreach Gender Outreach Support Group George Kaiser Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant George McCauslan Get F.I.T. Get F.I.T. (Fun Intense Training) Get FIT Grateful Day Foundation Grateful Day Foundation Treasurer Paul Dorman Grateful Day fundraiser Grateful Day Summer Treat Grieving Well Guthrie Green H.O.P.E. Hancock Park HB 1661 Health Outreach Prevention and Education (H.O.P.E.) Heather Richetto Rumley Hedwig and the Angry Inch Hill and Jordan Studios Hill&Jordan Studios LLC HIV testing HOPE HOPE Testing ICAO Imperial Court of all Oklahoma Imperial Court of All Oklahoma (ICAO) James E. Warner James E. Warner III James Lecesne James Morrison James Prather James Warner III Jean Cocteau Jeff Cherblanc Jim Scholl Jimmy Jordan John Madigan John Sawyer John Schumann John Serrot joseph thai Julie Nagoshi Justin Richardson Kaiser Family Foundation Kaiser Foundation Karen McCauley Katherine V. Forrest KC Lupp Kent Dennis Kurt Choate Kurt T. Choate La Lune Lambda Al Anon Lambda Al-Anon Laura Arrowsmith Leather Folk Lee Daniels LGB Well-Being and Parental Relationships Survey LGBT history LGBT History Month LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey Live Free Live Free! Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Liz Hunt Long Road to Freedom Long Road to Freedom: The Advocate History of the Gay and Lesbian Movement Lord Byron Lucas Green Lynn Schusterman Mara Keisling Margaret Cho Marguerite Chapman Mark Fox Mark Gibson Mark Thompson marriage equality marriage equality lawsuit marriage equality photos mary bishop Mary Bishop-Baldwin Mary Jones Massage Time Melting Point Metropolitan Baptist Church Michael Brown Michael Callen Michal Maybello Miss Brookside 2015 Pageant Miss Brookside Pageant Mixed Company Mona Pittenger Monica Haney Monica Harrington Mosaic Diversity Business Survey Mosiac Diversity Business Award Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Nancy McDonald National Center for Transgender Equality National Gay Blood Drive Newsletter Obama OCCJ OkEq OKEQ Annual Board Meeting OKEQ art gallery OKEQ BDG OKEQ Board OKEQ Board Annual Meeting OKEQ Board Development and Governance Committee OKEQ Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) OKEQ Board Election OKEQ Board of Advisors OKEQ eNews OKEQ Equality Business Alliance OkEq Equality Center OKEQ Equality Center room rentals OKEQ Gender Outreach OKEQ Weekly eNews OKEQ weekly news Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice (OCCJ) Oklahoma Leather History Oklahoma Leather History Archives Display Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit Oklahoma Mr. Leather Oklahoma Mr. Leather (OML) Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2015 Oklahoma Rampage Oklahoma State University Oklahoma State University - Tulsa Oklahoma State University (OSU) Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Oklahomans for Equality 35th anniversary Oklahomans for Equality Board Oklahomans for Equality Board Development and Governance Committee Oklahomans for Equality Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) OML OML 2015 On A Whim Tulsa Orlando Cruz OSU OSU research OSU Tulsa OU OU School of Community Medicine Our Bodies Ourselves Out OK Film Festival OUTlaw OUTlaw Legal Workshop Pam Van Dyke Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) Parents Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays Parents Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) Parish Church of Saint Jerome Parish Church of St. Jerome Pat Califia Paul Allen Paul Dorman Pete Seeger Peter Parnell PFLAG PFLAG Tulsa Chapter Phillips Theological Seminary Plexus Slim President Barack Obama Pride Store Prime Timers Primetimers Rainbow Library Reframing Positive Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Reiki Reiki sessions Renee Streetwood Renegades Tulsa Twisters research Rev. Dewayne James Messenger Reverend Dewayne James Messenger Richard Haley Richard Ziese Rick Hollingsworth Rise Up Singing Risha Grant Riverfield Rocks room rentals Rusty Clyma Ryan Kiesel SAGE SAGE Halloween Party SAGE Pool Party SAGE Tulsa SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Samantha Checotah Sarah Moon School Bullying Prevention Act Secular Organizations for Sobriety Recovery Secular Organizations for Sobriety Recovery (SOS) Service and Advocacy for Gay Elders Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders (SAGE) Services and Advocacy for Gay Lesbian Bisexual and Transgender Elders sexual assault Sexual Assault: Handle with Care Shambhala Meditation sharon baldwin Sharon Bishop-Baldwin SOS SOS Group SOS Tulsa Sparrow Hawk Camp Spirit Day Spirits of Christmas Past Spirits of Christmas Past A Christmas in July Event State Question 711 Stephanie Motes Steve Tomlin Steven Dubois Studio Tulsa Sue Barton Summer Stage SummerStage Supreme Court surveys Susan Foust T-Town Zealers TahlEQUALITY TAPT Tavis Minner Terence Kern Teresa Reno The Capital Why's The Letter Q The Letter Q: Queer Writers' Letters to their Younger Selves The Role of Faith in Health Care Decisions: Individuals Groups and Government The Role of Faith in Healthcare Decisions TMSL Toby Jenkins Transfoming Hate Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Transgender transgender research Transition Research Study transitioning Tseng Kwong Chi TU TU Law School TU Women's and Gender Studies Department Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) Tulsa Area Primetimers Tulsa CARES Tulsa Community College Tulsa Community College (TCC) Tulsa Community College Center for Creativity Tulsa Eagle Tulsa Fringe Festival Tulsa Interfaith Alliance Tulsa JOLT Tulsa JOLT Flapjack Fundraiser Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa Metro Softball League (TMSL) Tulsa Mr. Leather 2014 Richard Ziese Tulsa Performing Arts Center Tulsa PFLAG Tulsa Plastic Surgery Tulsa Project Theatre Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Tulsa Shock Tulsa Twisters Tulsa Unites Against Bullying Twists and Turns U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development University of Oklahoma University of Oklahoma (OU) University of Oklahoma School of Community Medicine University of Texas University of Texas Arlington University of Texas School of Social Work University of Tulsa University of Tulsa Law University of Tulsa Women's and Gender Studies Department Volunteer Tulsa wedding weddings White House Briefing on ACA White House Briefing on Affordable Care Act White House Office of Public Engagement Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy Workforce Oklahoma Access Point writing group Yoga A - Z Yolanda Arnold Youssef Mhemedi YWCA Zanmai Zombie House Zombie House 2014 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/80463c3140bfdaead8a0346427dbcfef.pdf 46de7620240677e598bcaa8c2bd2990d PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... eNews October 15th, 2013 In This Issue • Programming Note EBA Sponsor Spirit Day Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Syphilis Testing Spirit Day is Thursday, October 17th, 2013. Pledge to wear purple on that day in support of LGBT youth and take a stand against bullying. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Bullying Conference SAGE Tulsa Halloween Gamily Halloween OUT in Eureka OkEq Programming Note • Country Two Step Class will be canceled for Thursday, October 17th, 2013 and will resume on Thursday, October 24th, 2013 at 7:30 pm. Tulsa Threat Guys Dine Too Immigration and DOMA Computer Boot Camp Building Bridges The eNews for the week of October 15th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Sue Welch, McGraw Realtor Mindful Meditation Tulsa Pride 2014 OUTlaw Legal Series First Thursday Art Sue Ellen Welch Transgender Day of Remembrance (918) 810-8156 Within Our Reach OK Mr. Leather 2014 SWelch@McGrawOK.com Tony Kushner Herland Retreat LGBT Literature OYP Re-Sale Shop OUT OK Festival LGBT History Month Spirit Day | Taking a stand against bullying Thursday, October 17th, 2013 ttspiritday 10.17.2013 Ji ,,•• , ~ glood org/spiritdoy Millions of Americans wear purple on Spirit Day as a sign of support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth and to speak out against bullying. Spirit Day was started in 2010 as a response to the young people who had taken their own lives. Observed annually, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, media professionals and celebrities wear purple, which symbolizes spirit on the rainbow flag. Getting involved is easy -- participants are asked to simply "go purple" on October 17th, 2013 as Hiking in the Ozarks Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... work continues to create a world in which LGBT teens are celebrated and accepted for who they are. Learn more & go purple at www.glaad.org/ spiritday. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by A Lil' Bit Retro. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 17th, 7:00 pm A Lil' Bit Retro 5586 S Garnett Syphilis Testing by H.O.P.E. Testing Wednesday, October 16th, 2013; 11:00 am - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Men who get tested on Wednesday, October 16th will get a $10 QuikTrip card! OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of P.C. Cast health outreach prevention education, inc. Syphilis is on the rise for Gay and Bisexual Men in Tulsa. Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) will have walk in Syphilis testing on TWednesday, October 16th from 11:00 am til 8:00 pm. So come by and get tested at the Equality Center. For more information on Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education (H.O.P.E.) and their regular testing schedule, please visit www.hopetesting.org Annual Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 26th, 2013; 9:00 am Rudisill Regional Library 1520 N Hartford Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Saturday, October 26th, 2013 from 9:00 am to 1:30 pm Students, parents and educators will learn about: BlllYIN& PRE ENTION CONFERENCE Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... _,,11211 .. jjiiltoill • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Lunch provided by QuikTrip Kitchens. For questions or to register, please visit PreventBullyingTulsa.org. SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a Halloween party on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the party. The group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. Lunch will be provided. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Gamily Halloween Spooktacular Thursday, October 31st, 2013; 6:00 pm Pumpkins, goodies and creepy crawlies. Come join Gamily on Thursday, October 31st from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm for a spooktacular Halloween celebration. There will be arts & crafts, candy galore and a costume contest. Feel free to invite your friends and family. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org or OkEq's Gamily Facebook page. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... Tai Chi Class Keith and Andrew with family Trick or Treat at OkEq Halloween 2012 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org. OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 SOS Group Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your onthe-party bus. - -seat --- --- It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather BASIN PARK A MA,G NUSON GRAND IU)TEI. For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ lbm1kl For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat OkEq Party -on -the --- -Bus! - SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following day: November 9th, 2013 All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook Guys Dine Too Tuesday, November 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Maxxwell's Restaurant Tuesday, November 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Maxxwell's Restaurant is located inside the Campbell Hotel at 2636 E 11th Street, on the west end of the hotel. Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending so that the restaurant may have an accurate head count. Immigration and DOMA: Where do we go from here? Monday, November 11th, 2013 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Chris Bell, YWCA Immigration Attorney, speaks on the implications of the Supreme Court's repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act for immigrants, especially those who have a same-sex partner who is a U.S. citizen. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First Tuesday (November 5th) of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday (November 9th) of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics .4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org BUILDING BRIDGES Gay and Straight 6-Week Course Sponsored by Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry to build awareness, education and bridges of respectful relationship within a context of faith. Join TMM for a 6-week course with video and discussion using the Marin Foundation curriculum, "Love is an Orientation" (MarinFoundation.org). Pick your choice of date and location. There is no fee to attend. • Wednesdays, at 7:00 pm, Kendall-Whittier Library 21 S. Lewis Ave. • Thursdays at 2:00 pm; Herman Kaiser Library 5202 S. Hudson St. • Fridays at 10:30 am; Brookside Library 1207 E. 45th Pl. • Saturdays at 1:00 pm Schusterman Library 3333 E. 32nd St. Each location will have six meetings at the same time each week. Come to the first meeting and learn positive ways to address this sensitive subject, while maintaining your faith and being respectful to your neighbors. For information contact: Ray Hickman, (918.261.2500) Executive Director, Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry. For more information and/or to register (not necessary to attend): Go to the TMM website www.tumm.org Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: ... Mindful Meditation Every Wednesday at 6:00 pm Science has proven the efficacy of Mindfulness Meditation in reducing blood pressure, improving the quality of sleep, improving memory and reducing other effects of aging, as well as helping us deal with the level of stress in our lives. In this class we will learn various techniques that lead to mindfulness. The class will start with short sessions and gradually increase them. Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful techniques and practice them with us. Please bring your own cushion (zafu). You may also find it helpful to bring something to pad your ankles as well. Tulsa Pride 2014 Planning Meeting Thursday, October 24th, 2013; 7:30 pm Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays October 16th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join Tulsa Pride on Thursday, October 24th, 2013 at 7:30 pm for the first public planning meeting for Tulsa Pride 2014. The meetings are open to the public and anybody who's interested in helping out is encouraged to attend. Future planning meetings will continue on the 4th Thursdays of the month. For more information on Tulsa Pride 2014, please visit tulsapride.org OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays (Resumes Oct. 24th) 6:30 - 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, November 7th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Yoga A - Z Fridays (Resumes Oct. 18th) 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 7th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:30 pm 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK JUST GENDER On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:30 pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local Game Night 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... transgender activists. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. Contact mary.jones@okeq.org for more information. Everyone is invited to come and participate. Within Our Reach - Relationship Workshop Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Family & Children's Services will provide a FREE relationship workshop on Saturday, November 16th, 2013 at 1:00 pm. Build on existing relationship strengths and learn skills to create safe and stable partner relationships. In addition, you'll learn how to: • Communicate effectively • Work as a team to solve problems • Manage conflicts without damaging closeness • Preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship For more information or to pre-register, contact Mary at 918.743.4297 or mary.jones@okeq.org Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. Presidential Lecture Series - Tony Kushner Tuesday, November 12th, 2013; 7:30 pm Donald W. Reynolds Center 3208 E. 8th St University of Tulsa Campus The University of Tulsa Presidential Lecture Series presents Pultizer-Prize winning playwright Tony Kushner. His critically acclaimed plays tackle some of today's most sensitive social issues such as HIV/AIDS, racism and Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... capitalism. His most well known works include Angels in America, A Bright Room Called Day and Caroline, or Change. An Emmy Award winner and two-time Tony Award winner, Kushner is the recipient of a Pulitzer Prize for Drama. He has received an Oscar nomination and in 2008, became the first recipient of the Steinberg Distinguished Playwright Award, the largest theater award in the United States. Presentations will begin at 7:30 p.m. Lectures are free and open to the public; no tickets or registrations are required. Herland Retreat November 1st, 2nd & 3rd, 2013 Pickens Lake Eufeaula, OK EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Her/and The Retreats are Herland's only "womyn only" event held throughout the year. It is a place for women to sister resources feel safe and comfortable being in a womyn's space. Plan on having a fun and relaxing time at the Herland Retreat. You will meet lots of wonderful womyn and are sure to make a new friend or two while you are here. Call 405.550.2312 for more information or visit herlandsisters.org to register. A Selective, Opinionated, and Not Especially Academic Survey of Gay and Lesbian Literature Since the 1800s Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 3:00 pm Room MC 617 TCC Metro Campus 909 S Boston Ave A Selective, Opinionated, and Not Especially Academic Survey of Gay and Lesbian Literature Since the 1800s." Presented by Dr. Allen Culpepper, Assistant Professor of English,Tulsa Community College. Tuesday, October 29, 3:00 pm, Metro Campus Board Room, (Room MC 617). In connection with GLBT History Month. No cost. (Room capacity is limited, though.) RSVP to allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu by Oct. 27th, ----- --2013. Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... someone will meet you there. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! Visit www.out-ok.com for movie titles and schedule. October is LGBT History Month Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2012, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. - - --- HISIOR\ • .\IO. ~lH October 16th - Elio Di Rupo October 17th - Martin Duberman October 18th - Tom of Finland October 19th - Brenda Howard October 20th - Nathan Lane October 21st - Queen Latifah* October 22nd - Simon Nkoli October 23rd - Bruce Nugent Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com *The LGBT History Month list was finalized when the Equality Forum had sources who said Queen Latifah would come out on her talk show. She has since said that she would not speak about her private life on her show. Hiking in the Ozarks 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... Saturday, October 19th and 26th, 2013 Fall color hike in Arkansas lead by Doyle Wilson and Sherlene Bunnell. The group will hike on Saturday October 19th, 2013 and again on Saturday October 26th, 2013. Come join as we head to Ponca, Arkansas in search of Fall. We will be hiking The Whitaker Point Trail to The Hawksbill Crag. The Hawksbill Crag, also known as Whitaker Point, is located along the northern edge of the Upper Buffalo Wilderness in the Ozark National Forest, just south of the Buffalo National River. Please dress weather/ hiking appropriate. Bring water and snacks/lunch for hike, and don't forget your camera. For more information or to RSVP, please call Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or visit the Facebook Event page. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events "Mr & Miss Harvest 2013 Pageant" Friday, November 1st, 2013 -10:00 pm @ TNT's (NO COVER) Open to anyone 21+ Mr. (Male Impersonation - Any male or female willing to perform as a male) and Miss (Female Impersonation - Any male or female willing to perform as a female). Any Legal Talent - Singers, Dancers, Musicians, Drag, Comedians. Both winners receive a fun crown, nice prize (valued at $25) along with a Crowning Number (where you get to keep the your tips). Partial proceeds for this pageant benefit - OkEq's SAGE Program Host / MC's - Marquises to Reign VI George McCauslan & Rusty Clyma For more information contact George or Rusty or email impcourtok@gmail.com "Military Ball" Saturday, November 9, 2013 Club Majestic Tulsa 9 - Close Doors open at 9 pm (21+ Only, NO Cover before 10:30 pm) NO Cover 21+ only Proceeds to Benefit - Disabled American Veteran Come dressed in your Military Uniforms or something to support your 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... favorite branch of the Military. Bring plenty of money to purchase items from the silent auction or a 50/50 raffle ticket. A March of the Military Flags / Candle Lighting for lost Military and a Tribute to Empress Jose I - the Widow Norton (founder of the International Court System and a Veteran) at Midnight There is no show this is a Ball. So please come out and show your support for our Veterans. 50/50 Raffle Silent Auction with items from the following The Gayly Tulsa Leather (T.U.L.S.A.) Tulsa Jolt A Li'l Bit Retro Aunt B's Sweets and Treats Embassy Suites Tulsa Garden Trug Aloft Tulsa Downtown Club Majestic Tulsa and others The International Court System Military Quilt will be at this event to help raise even more money as it is taken around to patrons. For more information or to donate In-Kind Items for the Silent Auction contact King Father Scotty on the Court Facebook Page or email ICAO @ impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Brand new in the Pride Store, "Oklahomo" Long Sleeve Shirts. From sizes Small to 5 XL, Only $18 Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'A Woman Like That: Lesbian and Bisexual Writers Tell Their Coming Out Stories ' Edited By Joan Larkin You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The act of "coming out" has the power to transform every aspect of a woman's life: family, friendships, career, sexuality, spirituality. An essential element of self-realization, it is the unabashed acceptance of one's "outlaw" standing in a predominantly heterosexual world. These accounts -- sometimes heart-wrenching, often exhilarating -- encompass a wide breadth of backgrounds and experiences. From a teenager institutionalized for her passion for women to the mother who must come out to her young sons at the risk of losing them -- from the cautious academic to the raucous liberated femme -- each woman represented here tells of forging a unique path toward the difficult but emancipating recognition of herself. Extending from the 1940s to the present day, these intensely personal stories in turn reflect a unique history of the changing social mores that affected each woman's ability to determine the shape of her own life. Together they form an ornate tapestry of lesbian and bisexual experience in the United States over the past half-century. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:22 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/51152cf275e8185bdd97a47441c032c9.pdf e20f6c8f6b20eaa9f9a3e2eae3a74390 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 8th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day EBA Matching Grant Welcome to the eNews. OkEq would like to thank everyone who participated in the Gamily Back to School Carnival. It was an amazing success. Speical thanks to Gamily Intern Samantha Checotah! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality SAGE Pool Party The Clobber Verses Back to School Carnival Fall Ball 2013 Intro to LGBTQ Lit The eNews for the week of August 8th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Council Oak Mens Chorale Cooling Station Mosaic Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK DIVAS Drag Queen Bingo Tulsa Threat Coach Russell Bennett Award Board of Directors Volunteer Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their 25 years together, Angela Sivadon and Mary Robinson made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the Equality Center and OkEq programming for the day of Thursday, August 1st, 2013. Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 15th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... OkEq Art Exhibit Thank You and Congratulations, Angela and Mary! Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Voice, a Day campaign -Be -Our -- -Give ---- - The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Enhance Skin & Body Medical Spa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Enhance Skin & Body Medical Spa 6616 S. Memorial Drive, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Findoutmore with for Equality - about - -membership ----Oklahomans ---- - -and learn how to make your donation today. 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have an encore pool party on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be Potluck, so bring your favorite summer dish. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & TramgcndC'r Elders ~ poo/party The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Mondays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Spectrum Knits The Clobber Verses - Religion Workshop 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Monday, August 26th and Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading two sessions of a religion workshop called "The Clobber Verses". These sessions will entail various faith leaders in Tulsa providing historical, social, pastoral and theological background on the Bible passages that Grieving Well 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... are used to justify homophobia. The first session will be on Monday, August 26th, 2013 at 7:00 pm when the workshop will look at the passages in the Old Testament. The workshop will look at New Testament passages during the second session, which will be the following night, Tuesday, August 27th at 7:00 pm. Both sessions will begin with a 30 - 45 minute presentation by a Biblical scholar from Phillips Theological Seminary. Each presentation will by followed by a brief Q&A, and then small group discussions of personal experiences with the texts. After the small group discussions, a panel of local pastors will answer additional questions. If you've ever been clobbered by someone using the Bible as a weapon, you won't want to miss this unique opportunity to learn what the Bible actually says, and ways you can be confident that you have a special place in Creation. These forums are open to all, regardless of belief system. For more information, please contact Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com. Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 4th, 2013 OkEq's Gamily Program would like to thank all the participants, volunteers and school supply donors at the 1st Annual back to School Carnival. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Over 100 kids and families were given supplies for the new school year and were able to meet and mingle with other gay parents or parents with LGBT children. The families enjoyed carnival games, story time, face painting and pony rides. Photos by Steven Michaels Photography SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbia n, Bisexual E< Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 NERDception Every other Tuesday Resumes Sept 3rd 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 7 of 14 4/23/26, 11:08 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Counseling Services Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Lambda Al-Anon Every other Wednesday August 14th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Rainbow Writers 1m1mrn �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! Teams will be selected at random from a "hat" at the Fall Draft Event; all players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: TBD, but will be Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning in mid-September and ending late October. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Business Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Intro to LGBTQ Literature Tulsa Community College Fall 2013 Schedule Are your literary tastes a little more colorful than some? Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Maybe you need a taste of LGBTQ Literature! Introduction to LGBTQ Literature Coming to TCC for Fall 2013 ENGL 2993, Section 390, CRN 17124 Online, 16 week course taught by Dr. Allen Culpeper Tentative reading list: Maurice by E. M. Forster, Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jenette Winterson, Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin, Eighty-Sixed by David Feinberg, Cloud 9 by Caryl Churchhill, The Laramie Project by Moises Kaufman, Pages for You by Sylvia Brownrigg, Love Speaks Its Name: Gay and Lesbian Love Poems edited by J.D. McClatchy For more information contact: Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu ---918.595.7647 Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Mondays; 7:00 pm Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season 2013 Performance will continue on Mondays, from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! The concert will feature holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria(Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly councJI oal< moos chorale Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. council oak Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. Mosaic Diversity Business Awards Survey Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. • rrax:c Mosaic is launching a survey to identify businesses that powered by the tulsa regional chamber have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. We hope to identify ten for profits and ten nonprofits for our region's Top 20 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... Inclusive Cultures. � Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey The survey will close at end of business August 9th, 2013. The results of the survey will be shared at Mosaic's inaugural Economic Inclusion Forum October 21st, 2013. H.O.P.E.'s 15th Anniversary Celebration "DIVAS" Event Friday, August 23rd, 2013; 6:30 pm Doubletree Warren Place 6110 South Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 75136 H.O.P.E.'s 15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION "DIVAS" EVENT Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm FEATURING: Cindy Cain Pam - Van Dyke Christy Hanewinkel - Tavis Minner Heather Richetto-Rumley - John Sawyer Jeff Cherblanc - Phena Hackett - Mark Gibson Celebrating H.O.P.E.'s 15 years of providing HIV and Hepatitis prevention, education, testing, and linkage to medical care and social services in the Tulsa Community and 25 surrounding counties. For more information, visit hopetesting.org or click here for ticket purchases and sponsorships. Drag Queen Bingo benefiting Our House Too Saturday, August 24th, 2013; Doors open at 7:00 pm Hyatt Regency Hotel 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... Drag Queen Bingo 2013 August 24th, 2013 Hyatt Regency Hotel 7:30 - 10:00 pm $30 Bingo like your mother never played... This annual event and fundraiser for Our House Too will be held August 24th, 2013 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. Female impersonators will bring dazzling entertainment and fabulous bingo prizes for this, the eighth year, beginning at 7:30 and ending at 10:00 pm with doors opening at 7:00 pm. A silent auction and a 50/50 raffle will be held and, of course, several rousing games of bingo will be played! Some of your favorite artists will perform glittering numbers to wow the crowd. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2013 are $30 per person and advanced tickets are available online through PayPal. Purchase an indivdual ticket Reserve a Table Reserve a Premium Table Reserve a Runway Table For more information on table packages please contact Our House Too at 918.688.2144 or DQB@ourhousetoo.com Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV/ AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weekly lunches. ourhousetoo.com Women's Tackle Football Coaching Position Available Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is looking for a qualified head coach for the 2014 season. The Threat is a non-profit, semi-pro, fullcontact women's tackle football team based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. A member of the Women's Football Alliance since 2011, the Threat is a combination of beginner and intermediate adult athletes with a love for competitive football. The Threat off-season training begins in December, with games starting in April. The regular season consists of 8 games. All games are on Saturday nights, 4 home, and 4 away to surrounding states. Additional postseason games are to be determined on team performance. This is a paid position and all traveling accommodations will be covered by the team. For more information send an email to tulsaWTF@yahoo.com or visit www.tulsathreat.com 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUUTSl"fAKt:IIAT ANNUAL RUSHU ■ ENNOT AWARD The 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation will occur on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). PRESENTATION ::.r~,.~~r3 BEGINS 2:00pm ALL SOULS UNITAfllAN CMUltCM 2952 S, PEORIA TULSA,OK A Dire Natio n al Security '11trcat : The Destruction ofthe Wall Separating Church and Sla te in the U.S. Armed forces ~ 1 • -,-._lUMCE The Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is presented annually to an individual or group who embodies Rev Russell Bennett's commitment to the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance. Rev Bennett was one of the principal founders of the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, and he was one of those happy warriors who was always willing to stand in the breach or to lead the charge on a long list of issues. The Board is still taking nominations for the recipient of this year's award, and the recipient will be announced soon. Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Forces." To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Voting members must be current in their $50 OkEq membership fee by September 11th, 2013. olu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:08 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5f5c5e1193d4b846f22f57218d1e4153.pdf 405463d27da029ba210309b9a7cfc011 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 14th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor EBA Matching Grant Board of Directors Welcome to the eNews. OkEq is planning a group trip to Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend on November 1st - 3rd, 2013. Space will be limited. Look for the details next week! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality SAGE Pool Party OUT in Eureka The Clobber Verses Tulsa Unites Against Bullying Fall Ball 2013 The eNews for the week of August 14th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Counseling Services End of Life Presentation Choregus Productions Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Cooling Station DIVAS Drag Queen Bingo Tulsa Threat Coach Russell Bennett Award Pride Store Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Rainbow Library Volunteer Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Find Us on Facebook The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Enhance Skin & Body Medical Spa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Enhance Skin & Body Medical Spa 6616 S. Memorial Drive, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 George Kaiser Family Foundation 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 15th, 7:00 pm GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Findout more about with Oklahomans forEquality and --membership -----learn how to make your donation today. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Voting members must be current in their $50 OkEq membership fee by September 11th, 2013. SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have an encore pool party on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be Potluck, so bring your favorite summer dish. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos - - - --- sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, le5b1an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders ~ poo/party The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... Counseling Services OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka? We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka to celebrate Diversity Weekend. Premium packages will include a two night stay at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and transportation on the party bus to and from Eureka. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Mondays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Package prices and details on how to book your spot will be announced soon. Space will be limited so make your plans now to celebrate Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs with OkEq. If interested, please get your name on the list by emailing Lucas.Green@OkEq.org. The Clobber Verses - Religion Workshop Grieving Well 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... Monday, August 26th and Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading two sessions of a religion workshop called "The Clobber Verses". These sessions will entail various faith leaders in Tulsa providing historical, social, pastoral and theological background on the Bible passages that are used to justify homophobia. The first session will be on Monday, August 26th, 2013 at 7:00 pm when the forum will look at the passages in the Old Testament. The forum will look at New Testament passages during the second session, which will be the following night, Tuesday, August 27th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. We will begin each session with a 30-45 minute presentation by a biblical scholar from Phillips Theological Seminary. On Monday, August 26, we will hear from Lisa Davison, PhD, Johnnie Eargle Cadieux Professor of Hebrew Bible, and Tuesday we will hear from Dennis T Smith, ThD, LaDonna Kramer Meinders Professor of New Testament. Each presentation will by followed by a brief Q&A, and then small group discussions of personal experiences with the texts. After the small group discussions, a panel of local pastors will answer additional questions. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather If you've ever been clobbered by someone using the Bible as a weapon, you won't want to miss this unique opportunity to learn what the Bible actually says, what current scholarship says about how we might understand those verses in the 21st century, and ways you can be confident that you have a special place in Creation. These forums are open to all, regardless of belief system. For more information, please contact Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com. "Tulsa Unites Against Bullying" Rally Sunday, August 25th, 2013; 3:00 - 6:00 pm Guthrie Green 111 E Brady St OCCJ and the Anti-Bullying Colleboralion of Tulsa present: SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Back-to-school celebration of community members dedicated lo ending bullying. $UJU/JJg, Alig,. 25, 2013 • 3-6 pm • {)u1Jll'ie (}rem Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan The Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice and the Anti-Bullying 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... Collaboration of Tulsa will present Tulsa Unites Against Bullying on Sunday, August 25th, 2013 from 3:00 - 6:00 pm. Please contact OCCJ at 918.583.1361 for more information on the rally or having an information booth at the event. sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbia n, Bisexual E< Tramgender Elders Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! Teams will be selected at random from a "hat" at the Fall Draft Event; all players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: TBD, but will be Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning in mid-September and ending late October. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com New Counseling Services Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment Eric Jett is joining OkEq's counseling services and will see people on Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment. Fees are on a sliding scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric by phone at 918.850.0987 or email him at E.Jett@OkEq.org NERDception End of Life Arrangements Presentation Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013; 10:30 am Thursday, September 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm Taking the time to design your service is a loving act, and not a difficult one. Floral Haven invites you to explore the seemingly infinite number of ways to celebrate and honor a life. Equality Business Alliance member, Floral Haven Funeral Home, will have two End of Life Arrangement presentations on Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013 at 10:30 am and Thursday, September 5th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. The September 3rd presentation will be for the SAGE Tulsa group and will include a pancake breakfast. On September 5th there will be an evening presentation for the community. For more information on Floral Haven and their services, Every other Tuesday Resumes Sept 3rd 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... please visit www.floralhaven.com FLORAL HAVEN Funerul li omc c1n<.1 Ccmetcr~- Choregus Productions "EQUALITY" Discount 5 Shows for $100 Choregus Productions is offering new subscribers the opportunity to purchase season tickets for FIVE contemporary dance performances for the low price of $100 - that is half off the single ticket price of $40 for each performance. To receive the discount, call 918.688.6112 and give the code word "EQUALITY." Check www.choregus.org for more information on the performances included in the 2013 - 2014 season. Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. H.O.P.E.'s 15th Anniversary Celebration "DIVAS" Event Friday, August 23rd, 2013; 6:30 pm Doubletree Warren Place 6110 South Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 75136 H.O.P.E.'s 15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION "DIVAS" EVENT Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �~ For more information, visit hopetesting.org or click here for ticket purchases and sponsorships. Drag Queen Bingo benefiting Our House Too Saturday, August 24th, 2013; Doors open at 7:00 pm Hyatt Regency Hotel 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 Drag Queen Bingo 2013 August 24th, 2013 Hyatt Regency Hotel 7:30 - 10:00 pm $30 Bingo like your mother never played... This annual event and fundraiser for Our House Too will be held August 24th, 2013 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. Female impersonators will bring dazzling entertainment and fabulous bingo prizes for this, the eighth year, beginning at 7:30 and ending at 10:00 pm with doors opening at 7:00 pm. A silent auction and a 50/50 raffle will be held and, of course, several rousing games of bingo will be played! Some of your favorite artists will Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday August 14th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services 4/23/26, 11:08 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... Cindy Cain Pam - Van Dyke Christy Hanewinkel - Tavis Minner Heather Richetto-Rumley - John Sawyer Jeff Cherblanc - Phena Hackett - Mark Gibson FEATURING: Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm f' o ~~ :A~ Celebrating H.O.P.E.'s 15 years of providing HIV and Hepatitis prevention, education, testing, and linkage to medical care and social services in the Tulsa Community and 25 surrounding counties. OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 7 of 10 rn ~ �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... perform glittering numbers to wow the crowd. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2013 are $30 per person and advanced tickets are available online through PayPal. Purchase an indivdual ticket Reserve a Table Reserve a Premium Table Reserve a Runway Table For more information on table packages please contact Our House Too at 918.688.2144 or DQB@ourhousetoo.com Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV/ AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weekly lunches. ourhousetoo.com Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Women's Tackle Football Coaching Position Available Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is looking for a qualified head coach for the 2014 season. The Threat is a non-profit, semi-pro, fullcontact women's tackle football team based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. A member of the Women's Football Alliance since 2011, the Threat is a combination of beginner and intermediate adult athletes with a love for competitive football. The Threat off-season training begins in December, with games starting in April. The regular season consists of 8 games. All games are on Saturday nights, 4 home, and 4 away to surrounding states. Additional postseason games are to be determined on team performance. This is a paid position and all traveling accommodations will be covered by the team. For more information send an email to tulsaWTF@yahoo.com or visit www.tulsathreat.com Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave The 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation will occur on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUDl IP,EAK.ut AT ANNUAL RUSU:LL IENNffl AWARD PRESENTATION :~~~.~!~ BEGlttS 2:00pm ALL SOULS UNITARlAN CHURCM 2952 $ . PEORIA TULSA,OK A Dire Natio n a l Security TI1rcat: The Destruction oflhe Wall Separating Church and Static in lhe U.S. Armed Forres Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 1NTUfAITH ALUANCf The Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is presented annually to an individual or group who embodies Rev Russell Bennett's commitment to the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance. Rev Bennett was one of the principal founders of the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, and he was one of those happy warriors who was always willing to stand in the breach or to lead the charge on a long list of issues. The Board is still taking nominations for the recipient of this year's award, and the recipient will be announced soon. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Forces." the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store at the Equality Center has been undergoing some reorganizing and restocking. Be sure to come by and check out the new items and the newly discounted items. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Out of Sync' by Lance Bass You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center At sixteen, Lance Bass received a phone call from Justin Timberlake that would change his life forever. Soon after, he left his small-town home in Clinton, Mississippi, to join an emerging musical group called *NSYNC. Two years later *NSYNC was inspiring Beatles-esque mania around the world, becoming the face of the new MTV generation, and earning the all-time record for most album sales in a single day (more Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... than one million) and in a single week for No Strings Attached. He's remained in the spotlight ever since, and here he talks in depth for the first time about his childhood, his astonishing experiences as a young man and Christian growing up in one of the biggest bands in the world, his shock and frustration at the band's eventual dissolution, and his subsequent career, including his four months in Russia, training to become a cosmonaut. He also frankly discusses life as a gay man -- his first same-sex relationship at twenty-one, his struggle to keep his sexuality hidden from *NSYNC's fans in case it jeopardized the band's success, and the true circumstances that led to his decision to publicly come out at the age of twenty-seven. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Full of fascinating behind-the-scenes lore and revealing insights from a pop star who, until now, has been notoriously private. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:08 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d59761cb2c8224eedbc28a4507bddbc3.pdf d39c0a49ac8376eaa52a6718f40f2479 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 22nd, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Give a Day Matching Grant Board of Directors Welcome to the eNews. There are two greats events for the community this weekend! H.O.P.E DIVAS and Drag Queen Bingo! Be sure to purchase your tickets and show your support. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Unites Against Bullying SAGE Pool Party OUT in Eureka The Clobber Verses Gamily Family The eNews for the week of August 22nd, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa International Airport First Thursday Art Gallery Submissions Tulsa to Orlando Non-Stop Starts October 25 AllegiantAir.com allegiant" Tulsa Travel Is our deal: International Airport Fall Ball 2013 Counseling Services End of Life Presentation Choregus Productions DIVAS Drag Queen Bingo Tulsa Threat Coach Russell Bennett Award Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their engagement, Summer and Hannah Knox made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring OkEq programming for the day of Sunday, August 25th, 2013. OK Mr. Leather 2014 St Jerome Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 19th, 7:00 pm Thank You and Congratulations, Summer and Hannah! Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign -------- --- - George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. OkEq Art Exhibit GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and --------------------- -learn how to make your donation today. The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Voting members must be current in their $50 OkEq membership fee by September 11th, 2013. Click here to view nominated candidates. "Tulsa Unites Against Bullying" Rally Sunday, August 25th, 2013; 3:00 - 6:00 pm Guthrie Green 111 E Brady St OCCJ and the Anti-Bullying Collaboration of Tulsa present: Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Back-to-school celebration of community members dedicated lo ending bullying. jlllldag,, Alig,. 25, 2013 • J-6 pm, • guuu,ie green The Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice and the Anti-Bullying Collaboration of Tulsa will present Tulsa Unites Against Bullying on Sunday, August 25th, 2013 from 3:00 - 6:00 pm. Please contact OCCJ at 918.583.1361 for more information on the rally or having an information booth at the event. SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have an encore pool party on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be Potluck, so bring your favorite summer dish. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesb ian, Bisexual & TramgC'ndC'r EldC'rs Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Mondays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org ~ poo/party The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Grieving Well OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka? We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend. We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus and that is only $75 per passenger. For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. The bus will leave at 12:00 pm and drop off passengers at their hotel. Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Se1V1ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! BASIN PARK A MA,B NUSONI ·GRAND ll •O TEL For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ l{imm'lb For the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The Clobber Verses - Religion Workshop Monday, August 26th and Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Rev. Bob Lawrence is organizing two sessions of a religion workshop called "The Clobber Verses". These sessions will entail various faith leaders in Tulsa providing historical, social, pastoral and theological background on the Bible passages that are used to justify homophobia. The first session will be on Monday, August 26th, 2013 at 7:00 pm when the forum will look at the passages in the Old Testament. The forum will look at New Testament passages during the second session, which will be the following night, Tuesday, August 27th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. We will begin each session with a 30-45 minute presentation by a biblical scholar from Phillips Theological Seminary. On Monday, August 26, we will hear from Lisa Davison, PhD, Johnnie Eargle Cadieux Professor of Hebrew Bible, and Tuesday we will hear from Dennis T Smith, ThD, LaDonna Kramer Meinders Professor of New Testament. NERDception Every other Tuesday Resumes Sept 3rd 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Each presentation will by followed by a brief Q&A, and then small group discussions of personal experiences with the texts. After the small group discussions, a panel of local pastors will answer additional questions. niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com If you've ever been clobbered by someone using the Bible as a weapon, you won't want to miss this unique opportunity to learn what the Bible actually says, what current scholarship says about how we might understand those verses in the 21st century, and ways you can be confident that you have a special place in Creation. These forums are open to all, regardless of belief system. For more information, please contact Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com. Gamily featured family for the week of August 22nd This week's featured Gamily Family is Heather Threadgill and Angel Adams and their 2 year-old daughter Hadley Adams-Threadgill. Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org. "First Thursday" Art Show Reception September 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The September OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the extensive works of Tulsa Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday September 4th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:09 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 2014 Art Gallery Submissions artist Artie Smoote in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 5th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 7 of 14 111mm11 �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! On Sunday, September 8th, 2013 at 5:00 pm, TMSL will host the Fall Ball Draft party at New Age Renegade. Teams will be selected at random from a "hat". All players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning September 15th, 2013 through October 27th, 2013. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com New Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Eric Jett is joining OkEq's counseling services and will see people on Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment. Fees are on a sliding scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric by phone at 918.850.0987 or email him at E.Jett@OkEq.org End of Life Arrangements Presentation Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013; 10:30 am Thursday, September 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm Taking the time to design your service is a loving act, and not a difficult one. Floral Haven invites you to explore the seemingly infinite number of ways to celebrate and honor a life. Equality Business Alliance member, Floral Haven Funeral Home, will have two End of Life Arrangement presentations on Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013 at 10:30 am and Thursday, September 5th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. The September 3rd presentation will be for the SAGE Tulsa group and will include a pancake breakfast. On September 5th there will be an evening presentation for the community. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information on Floral Haven and their services, please visit www.floralhaven.com It; '\ FLORAL HAVEN tii'j;· ~ •.- Funernl I-tome and Ccmetcr~_/ 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Choregus Productions "EQUALITY" Discount 5 Shows for $100 Choregus Productions is offering new subscribers the opportunity to purchase season tickets for FIVE contemporary dance performances for the low price of $100 - that is half off the single ticket price of $40 for each performance. To receive the discount, call 918.688.6112 and give the code word "EQUALITY." Check www.choregus.org for more information on the performances included in the 2013 - 2014 season. H.O.P.E.'s 15th Anniversary Celebration "DIVAS" Event Friday, August 23rd, 2013; 6:30 pm Doubletree Warren Place 6110 South Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 75136 H.O.P.E.'s 15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION "DIVAS" EVENT Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm FEATURING: Cindy Cain Pam - Van Dyke Christy Hanewinkel - Tavis Minner Heather Richetto-Rumley - John Sawyer Jeff Cherblanc - Phena Hackett - Mark Gibson Celebrating H.O.P.E.'s 15 years of providing HIV and Hepatitis prevention, education, testing, and linkage to medical care and social services in the Tulsa Community and 25 surrounding counties. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. For more information, visit hopetesting.org or click here for ticket 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... purchases and sponsorships. Drag Queen Bingo benefiting Our House Too Saturday, August 24th, 2013; Doors open at 7:00 pm Hyatt Regency Hotel 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Drag Queen Bingo 2013 August 24th, 2013 Hyatt Regency Hotel 7:30 - 10:00 pm $30 Bingo like your mother never played... This annual event and fundraiser for Our House Too will be held August 24th, 2013 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. Female impersonators will bring dazzling entertainment and fabulous bingo prizes for this, the eighth year, beginning at 7:30 and ending at 10:00 pm with doors opening at 7:00 pm. A silent auction and a 50/50 raffle will be held and, of course, several rousing games of bingo will be played! Some of your favorite artists will perform glittering numbers to wow the crowd. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2013 are $30 per person and advanced tickets are available online through PayPal. Purchase an indivdual ticket Reserve a Table Reserve a Premium Table Reserve a Runway Table For more information on table packages please contact Our House Too at 918.688.2144 or DQB@ourhousetoo.com MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV/ AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weekly lunches. ourhousetoo.com Women's Tackle Football Coaching Position Available Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is looking for a qualified head coach for the 2014 season. The Threat is a non-profit, semi-pro, full-contact women's tackle football team based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. A member of the Women's Football Alliance since 2011, the Threat is a combination of beginner and Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... intermediate adult athletes with a love for competitive football. The Threat off-season training begins in December, with games starting in April. The regular season consists of 8 games. All games are on Saturday nights, 4 home, and 4 away to surrounding states. Additional postseason games are to be determined on team performance. This is a paid position and all traveling accommodations will be covered by the team. For more information send an email to tulsaWTF@yahoo.com or visit www.tulsathreat.com Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUEST ll'UKut AT ANNUAL RUSSEU BENNETI AWARD The 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation will occur on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). PRESENTATION :~~2~.~ ! i i IEGJNS 2:00pm ALL SOULS UNITARIAN CHURCH 2952 S. PEORIA TULSA,OK A Dire Natio n al Security ·n 1reat : The Destruction of the Wall Separati ng Church and Stat:c ___ ---- in the U.S. Armed f"orces ~ _., t • INTU~AfTH AlllAHCf .,_ The Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is presented annually to an individual or group who embodies Rev Russell Bennett's commitment to the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance. Rev Bennett was one of the principal founders of the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, and he was one of those happy warriors who was always willing to stand in the breach or to lead the charge on a long list of issues. The Board is still taking nominations for the recipient of this year's award, and the recipient will be announced soon. Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Forces." To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. September is a special month for St. Jerome Parish of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion (ECC) September 19 marks the 10th Anniversary of the Formation of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion (ECC) Although St. Jerome was founded in 1995, the parish has been a part of the ECC for four years. St. Jerome is celebrating the formation of the ECC with events throughout the month, giving people opportunity to discover the ECC. The first of these events is: An Evening at the Movies! On Tues. Sept.10th, 2013 at 7:00 pm we will show the documentary film, Saint of 9/11 which presents the turbulent, restless, spiritual and remarkable journey of Father Mychal Judge, OFM. Compassionate champion of the needy and forgotten, a beloved Fire Department Chaplain (he lost his life at the Twin Towers ministering to his men of the NYFD on 9/11), recovering alcoholic, and gay man who loved his priestly work. Inspired by his life, the documentary embraces Fr. Mychal's full humanity. St. Jerome would like to invite all first responders to come, receive a token of our appreciation for their Civil Service Popcorn and soft drinks will be served! Please see this space for other exciting events happening throughout the month of September. St. Jerome Parish, Event Center 205 West King Street Tulsa 918 582 3088 Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... The Pride Store at the Equality Center has been undergoing some reorganizing and restocking. Be sure to come by and check out the new items and the newly discounted items. And be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Since My Last Confession' by Scott Pomfret You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center hl'artbrcaking cry or p~in and a ddicrolls howl or laughter ... a complcrc delight.- \IKhad 8ronsk1. au1hor or P11lp ,..1<1_, MA Scott Pomfret serves as a lector at St. Anthony Shrine in Boston. He also writes gay porn. His boyfriend is a flaming atheist, and his boyfriend's Protestant grandmother considers Catholicism a sin worse than sodomy. From Pentecost to Pride, from the books of the Bible to the articles of the Advocate, Pomfret's wry, hysterically funny memoir maps with matchless humor the full spectrum of the gay Catholic experience. a gay catholic memoir t,cott ·)Pomfret 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library •••~ .. Volunt er ru SA A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 11:09 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0731b0b81ad3fd464c2291b36c6403fd.pdf e412394e7932b6f2dbe7d966696bc1e5 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 29th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Matching Grant Historic Rulings Board of Directors Welcome to the eNews. Today, the US Department of Treasurary and the IRS and the US Department of Health and Human Services Departments have made historic rulings in favor of LGBT inclusion. See below for all the details. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality End of Life Presentation First Thursday Art OUT in Eureka Guys Dine Too Equality Business Alliance The eNews for the week of August 29th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa International Airport OUTlaw Legal Series Gallery Submissions Tulsa to Orlando Non-Stop Fall Ball 2013 Lambda Bowling -League Choregus Productions Starts October 25 Russell Bennett Award AllegiantAir.com OK Mr. Leather 2014 Tulsa International Airport allegiant· Travel Is our deal: St Jerome Sisters in Song OYP Re-Sale Shop George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant OUT OK Festival Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Rainbow Library Pride Store Volunteer GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Find Us on Facebook Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and -----------learn how to make your donation today. Two Historic Rulings for LGBT Inclusion 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... Oklahomans for Equality applauds the wonderful news from the U.S. Department of Treasury and the Internal Revenue Service and the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services regarding the federal recognition of same sex married couples for federal tax purposes, and Medicare coverage now applies equally to legally married same sex couples, regardless of where they reside. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 19th, 7:00 pm The U.S. Department of the Treasury and the Internal Revenue Service (IRS) today ruled that same-sex couples, legally married in jurisdictions that recognize their marriages, will be treated as married for federal tax purposes. The ruling applies regardless of whether the couple lives in a jurisdiction that recognizes same-sex marriage or a jurisdiction that does not recognize same-sex marriage. Click here for more information about the ruling. The Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) issued a memo clarifying that all beneficiaries in private Medicare plans have access to equal coverage when it comes to care in a nursing home where their spouse lives. This is the first guidance issued by HHS in response to the recent Supreme Court ruling, which held section 3 of the Defense of Marriage Act unconstitutional. Click here for more information about the ruling. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Voting members must be current in their $50 OkEq membership fee by September 11th, 2013. Click here to view nominated candidates. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos End of Life Arrangements Presentation Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013; 10:30 am Thursday, September 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Taking the time to design your service is a loving act, and not a difficult one. Floral Haven invites you to explore the seemingly infinite number of ways to celebrate and honor a life. Equality Business Alliance member, Floral Haven Funeral Home, will have two End of Life Arrangement presentations sage· Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders On Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013 at 10:30 am, there will be a presentation for the SAGE Tulsa group. The morning presentation will include a pancake breakfast. Please RSVP to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... On Thursday, September 5th, 2013 at 6:30 pm, there will be an evening presentation for the community. For more information on Floral Haven and their services, please visit www.floralhaven.com ' ltJ FLORAL HAVEN C.i!'I ._..-, Funerul I-Jome und Ccmctcr~- Counseling Services "First Thursday" Art Show Reception September 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The September OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the extensive work of Tulsa artist Artie Smoote in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 5th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Spectrum Knits Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. --------- It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather BASIN PARK A MA,G NUSON * ·GRAND ll •OTEL For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ l{ilml'DI For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat Party - on - -the -OkEq -- - -Bus! - Guys Dine Too Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013; 6:30 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Serv1Ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders The September meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at The Royal Dragon on Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013 around 6:30 pm. 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... The Royal Dragon is located at 7837 E. 51st St. in the Fontana Shopping Center www.royaldragonbuffet.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Saks Fifth Avenue. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Saks Fifth Avenue 1780 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114 OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, September 12th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. September's topic: Breaking Up is Hard to Do: Gay Divorce in Oklahoma 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LCP 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! On Sunday, September 8th, 2013 at 5:00 pm, TMSL will host the Fall Ball Draft party at New Age Renegade. Teams will be selected at random from a "hat". All players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning September 15th, 2013 through October 27th, 2013. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Fall League Starts September 9th, 2013; 7:00 pm Andy B's 8711 South Lewis Tulsa Lambda Bowling League announces their fall teams are forming. Bowling teams will be selected Monday September 9th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. You may join an existing team or arrive with a team of 4. For more information, see the Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Facebook page. Lambda League meets at Andy B's Bowling Center. Handicapped league, all levels of bowling welcome, be prepared to have fun! Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... Choregus Productions "EQUALITY" Discount 5 Shows for $100 Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. a::ra=c:: Choregus Productions is offering new subscribers the opportunity to purchase season tickets for FIVE contemporary dance performances for the low price of $100 - that is half off the single ticket price of $40 for each performance. To receive the discount, call 918.688.6112 and give the code word "EQUALITY." Check www.choregus.org for more information on the performances included in the 2013 - 2014 season. 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUQT lf"lAKUt AT ANNUAL RUUIU BENNE'TI AWARD The 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation will occur on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). PRESENTATION - Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday September 4th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ::.r~2~.~!I! BEG.I NS 2 :00pm ALL SOULS UNITARIAN CMURCH 2952 5 , PEORIA TULSA, OK A Dire National Security 'l11reat : The Destruction of the Wall Separating Ch u.r ch and S ta te in the U.S. Armed forces , --____ _ ----.~--~·--~ f Tl AIU AlUANCt: _.., The Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is presented annually to an individual or group who embodies Rev Russell Bennett's commitment to the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance. Rev Bennett was one of the principal founders of the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, and he was one of those happy warriors who was always willing to stand in the breach or to lead the charge on a long list of issues. The Board is still taking nominations for the recipient of this year's award, and the recipient will be announced soon. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Forces." Counseling Services To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. Saturdays By appointment Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno September is a special month for St. Jerome Parish of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion (ECC) September 19 marks the 10th Anniversary of the Formation of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion (ECC) Although St. Jerome was founded in 1995, the parish has been a part of the ECC for four years. St. Jerome is celebrating the formation of the ECC with events throughout the month, giving people opportunity to discover the ECC. The first of these events is: An Evening at the Movies! On Tues. Sept.10th, 2013 at 7:00 pm we will show the documentary film, Saint of 9/11 which presents the turbulent, restless, spiritual and remarkable journey of Father Mychal Judge, OFM. Compassionate champion of the needy and forgotten, a beloved Fire Department Chaplain (he lost his life at the Twin Towers ministering to his men of the NYFD on 9/11), recovering alcoholic, and gay man who loved his priestly work. Inspired by his life, the documentary embraces Fr. Mychal's full humanity. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... St. Jerome would like to invite all first responders to come, receive a token of our appreciation for their Civil Service Popcorn and soft drinks will be served! Please see this space for other exciting events happening throughout the month of September. St. Jerome Parish, Event Center 205 West King Street Tulsa 918.582.3088 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Sisters in Song Choir Rehearsals Tuesdays, Beginning September 10th, 2013; 7:00 pm Rehearsals for Sisters In Song Hope Peace & Joy 2013 will begin on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Rehearsals will continue on every Tuesday. Like us on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Stay tuned! Movie titles and schedule to follow. Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store at the Equality Center has been undergoing some reorganizing and restocking. Be sure to come by and check out the new items and the newly discounted items. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org • And be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items j Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'When You Were Me' by Robert Rodi You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All work and no play have made Jack Ackerly a dull boy. It's also made him very rich. Now, at age 53, he regrets devoting his youth to capitalism over hedonism. Alas he can't turn back time; but according to a self-styled "fusion witch" named Francesca, he can trade places with a willing participant. He just has to 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... find a hot young stud ready to make the switch. Enter Corey Szaslo, 26, a jaded party boy whose life of sex, drugs, and barhopping has left him with no education, no career, no assets, and no prospects. ROBERT RODI Jumping into the skin of a retired millionaire seems a fair way out of this predicament, even if it means doubling his age and adding five inches to his waistline. Faster than you can say, "Be careful what you wish for", Jack and Corey are living each other's lives to the fullest. But their successfully swapped lives soon begin to come apart at the seams. And when Jack's former lover comes back, begging "Jack" for another chance, all bets are off, driving both Jack and Corey into unsuspecting competition-and resulting in a climax that takes each of them farther beyond their essential selves than they ever dreamed they'd go. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:12 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/737e6b7a2493a9cde0d7e50d25cef1ec.pdf b8d10d813d3167008b159ee289be4bee PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 4th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Matching Grant Board of Directors End of Life Presentation Welcome to the eNews. Absentee voting for the 2013 - 2014 Board of Directors election will begin on September 19th, 2013. You may cast your vote in person at the Equality Center beginning on September 11th. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality First Thursday Art OUTlaw Legal Series Equality Business Alliance Fall Programming Gallery Submissions The eNews for the week of September 4th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Sue Welch, McGraw Realtors Fall Ball 2013 Gay Softball World Series Lambda League -Bowling -- Sue Ellen Welch Choregus Productions {918) 810-8156 Russell Bennett Award Dinner for Friends OUT in Eureka SWelch@ cGrawOK.com OK Mr. Leather 2014 St Jerome Sisters in Song OYP Re-Sale Shop OUT OK Festival Pride Store George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Rainbow Library Volunteer Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Find Us on Facebook GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and -------------learn how to make your donation today. 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Voting members must be current in their $50 OkEq membership fee by September 11th, 2013. Click here to view nominated candidates. End of Life Arrangements Presentation Thursday, September 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 19th, 7:00 pm Taking the time to design your service is a loving act, and not a difficult one. Floral Haven invites you to explore the seemingly infinite number of ways to celebrate and honor a life. Equality Business Alliance member, Floral Haven Funeral Home, will have an End of Life Arrangement presentation on Thursday, September 5th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. For more information on Floral Haven and their services, please visit www.floralhaven.com OkEq Art Exhibit ' ltJ FLORAL HAVEN ·~ C ·~ Funcrul 1-lomc and Ccmctcrr ,I The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Artie Smoote "First Thursday" Art Show Reception September 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The September OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the extensive work of Tulsa artist Artie Smoote in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 5th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, September 12th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. September's Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... topic: Breaking Up is Hard to Do: Gay Divorce in Oklahoma Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Saks Fifth Avenue. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Saks Fifth Avenue 1780 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114 Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Fall Programming 2013 New Programs in September SOS Group (Begins September 9th, 2013) 7:00 pm Every Monday This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org T.O.S.S. Swing Dance Class (Begins September 10th, 2013) 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Every Tuesday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Each class features a 30 minute lesson followed by extended practice time with TOSS members. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Two Step and Country Line Dance (Begins September 19th, 2013) 7:30 pm Every Thursday Free for Members $5 for Non Members Are you the wall flower in the room because you don't know the latest dance steps? Well, kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Yoga A-Z (Begins September 6th, 2013 5:30 pm Every Friday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Yoga class for beginners to the expert all levels, all ages. Does your Lotus droop? Is your Downward Dog not standing up? Does your inner child Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... need a time out? Then this is the class for you. Facilitated by Margot Be sure to keep up with all the new and existing programs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by visiting the Programming page of the OkEq website. 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! On Sunday, September 8th, 2013 at 5:00 pm, TMSL will host the Fall Ball Draft party at New Age Renegade. Teams will be selected at random from a "hat". All players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. New for this year, you can have up to three friends on the same draft ticket and you are guaranteed to be on the same team! Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning September 15th, 2013 through October 27th, 2013. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Gay Softball World Series Results Congrats to TMSL's Tulsa Twisters for taking 9th place in the D division of the Gay Softball World Series. The Oklahoma Rampage represented TMSL well finishing in the top half of C division. Congrats to everyone who represented the Tulsa Metro Softball League in the Gay World Series! Also, congrats to Dirk Hunter for playing in the over 50s New England Cranky Yankees and taking 1st Place in the Masters Division. Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Fall League Starts September 9th, 2013; 7:00 pm Andy B's 8711 South Lewis Tulsa Lambda Bowling League announces their fall teams are forming. Bowling teams will be selected Monday September 9th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. You may join an existing team or arrive with a team of 4. For more information, see the Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Facebook page. Lambda League meets at Andy B's Bowling Center. Handicapped league, all levels of bowling welcome, be prepared to have fun! Dinner for Friends Thursday, September 12th, 2013; 5:00 - 9:00 pm Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LCP 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org A Friend for a Friend Presents: Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 5th Annual Dinner for Friends Panera Bread 5601 E 41st St (41st & Hudson) Thursday, September 12th, 2013 5:00 - 9:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS When you order, mention "A Friend for a Friend" and 10% of your total purchase will be donated to the organizatioon, courtesy of Panera Bread There will be special entertainment, free Panera Bread pastry samples and more! "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918-747-6827 or 918-361-8839. Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Choregus Productions "EQUALITY" Discount 5 Shows for $100 Boot Camp Choregus Productions is offering new subscribers the opportunity to purchase season tickets for FIVE contemporary dance performances for the low price of $100 - that is half off the single ticket price of $40 for each performance. To receive the discount, call 918.688.6112 and give the code word "EQUALITY." Check www.choregus.org for more information on the performances included in the 2013 - 2014 season. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUEST s.-EA.Kut AT ANNUAL RUIIEU BENNE'TI AWARD The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance invites you to attend the 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation on PRESENTATION ::.r~2~.~!I! BEG.I NS 2 :00pm ALL SOULS UNITARIAN CHURCH Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) 2952 S, PEORIA 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... TU Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All ~ A Dire Nat" LSA, OK 11le O:~~iSccurity 'M1rea • Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in SeparaHng Ch on of the Wall I, in the us ;:;:.h and Slate Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be 12,, ·;t • edForces Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). NT s AITH AlllANC ..... , - · - f Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is happy to announce the recipient of this year's Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is Don A. Pittman, PhD, Director of the Interreligious Understanding Program at Phillips Theological Seminary. The Board selected Dr. Pittman because of his efforts in bringing high quality scholarship into the experience of religious pluralism that was so important to the late Rev Dr. Russell Bennett. Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Forces." To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday September 4th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. Counseling Services We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. ------- Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. Game Night BASIN PARK A MA,G NUSON GRAND IU)TEI. For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ lbm1kl For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat OkEq Party -on -the --- -Bus! - Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. September is a special month for St. Jerome Parish of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion (ECC) September 19 marks the 10th Anniversary of the Formation of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion (ECC) Although St. Jerome was founded in 1995, the parish has been a part of the ECC for four years. St. Jerome is celebrating the formation of the ECC with events throughout the month, giving people opportunity to discover the ECC. The first of these events is: An Evening at the Movies! On Tues. Sept.10th, 2013 at 7:00 pm we will show the documentary film, Saint of 9/11 which presents the turbulent, restless, spiritual and remarkable journey of Father Mychal Judge, OFM. Compassionate champion of the needy and forgotten, a beloved Fire Department Chaplain (he lost his life at the Twin Towers ministering to his men of the NYFD on 9/11), recovering alcoholic, and gay man who loved his priestly work. Inspired by his life, the documentary embraces Fr. Mychal's full humanity. St. Jerome would like to invite all first responders to come, receive a token of our appreciation for their Civil Service Popcorn and soft drinks will be served! Please see this space for other exciting events happening throughout the month of September. St. Jerome Parish, Event Center Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... 205 West King Street Tulsa 918.582.3088 Sisters in Song Choir Rehearsals Tuesdays, Beginning September 10th, 2013; 7:00 pm through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Rehearsals for Sisters In Song Hope Peace & Joy 2013 will begin on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Rehearsals will continue on every Tuesday. Like us on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! Stay tuned! Movie titles and schedule to follow. 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store at the Equality Center has been undergoing some reorganizing and restocking. Be sure to come by and check out the new items and the newly discounted items. And be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'While England Sleeps' by David Leavitt You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Set against the rise of fascism in 1930s Europe, While England Sleeps tells the story of a love affair between Brian Botsford, an upperclass young writer, and Edward Phelan, an idealistic, self-educated employee of the London Underground and a Communist Party member. Though by far the better educated of the two, Brian is also more callow, convinced that his homosexuality is something he will outgrow. Edward, on the other hand, possesses "an unproblematic capacity to accept" both Brian and the unorthodox nature of their love for each other - until one day, at the urging of his wealthy aunt 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... Constance, Brian agrees to be set 11 DAVID LEAVITT up with a "suitable" young woman named Philippa Archibald... and soon enough Edward is pushed to the point of crisis. Fleeing, he volunteers to fight Franco in Spain, where he ends up in prison. And Brian, responsible for Edward's plight, must pursue him across Europe, and into the violent chaos of war. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library • •••~ .. Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 11:13 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/65b47d489169fbacc1ee6b1cf83ca139.pdf db2acec0fa07a1bf4fa5d92aa1bfbf07 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 12th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day Board of Directors OUTlaw Legal Series Welcome to the eNews. Absentee voting for the 2013 - 2014 Board of Directors election will begin on September 19th, 2013. You may cast your vote in person at the Equality Center or request a ballot by emailing Lucas.Green@OkEq.org. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Dinner for Friends Equality Business Alliance Fall Programming First Thursday Art Gallery Submissions The eNews for the week of September 12th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ron LaButti Tulsa Women's Rugby Fall Ball 2013 Tulsa Threat Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK GAMILY Event Russell Bennett Award Enid Pride 2013 Tulsa CARES OUT in Eureka OK Mr. Leather 2014 Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of LGBT Community Center Awareness Day Dennis Neill and John Southard have donated to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Sisters in Song OYP Re-Sale Shop OUT OK Festival Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook and are sponsoring the Equality Center and OkEq programming for the day of 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... SEPTEMBER 15 LGBTCOMMUNITYCENTERAWARENESSOAY Because Great LGBTCommunities Begin With Great LGBT Community Centers Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign -------- OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 19th, 7:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Click here to view nominated candidates. OkEq Art Exhibit OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, September 12th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. September's topic: Breaking Up is Hard to Do: Gay Divorce in Oklahoma The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Artie Smoote Dinner for Friends Thursday, September 12th, 2013; 5:00 - 9:00 pm A Friend for a Friend Presents: 5th Annual Dinner for Friends Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Panera Bread 5601 E 41st St (41st & Hudson) 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... Thursday, September 12th, 2013 5:00 - 9:00 pm When you order, mention "A Friend for a Friend" and 10% of your total purchase will be donated to the organizatioon, courtesy of Panera Bread There will be special entertainment, free Panera Bread pastry samples and more! "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918-747-6827 or 918-361-8839. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Saks Fifth Avenue. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Saks Fifth Avenue 1780 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114 Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Spectrum Knits SOS Group 7:00 pm Every Monday This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. T.O.S.S. Swing Dance Class 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Every Tuesday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Each class features a 30 minute lesson followed by extended practice time with TOSS members. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Grieving Well Fall Programming 2013 New Programs in September Two Step and Country Line Dance (Begins September 19th, 2013) 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... 7:30 pm Every Thursday Free for Members $5 for Non Members Are you the wall flower in the room because you don't know the latest dance steps? Well, kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Yoga A-Z 5:30 pm Every Friday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Yoga class for beginners to the expert all levels, all ages. Does your Lotus droop? Is your Downward Dog not standing up? Does your inner child need a time out? Then this is the class for you. Facilitated by Margot Be sure to keep up with all the new and existing programs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by visiting the Programming page of the OkEq website. "First Thursday" Art Show Reception October 3rd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the multi-media works of Tulsa's bestselling author, P.C. Cast, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 3rd from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Tulsa Women's Rugby Club Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) Opening Home Game, Saturday, September 14th, 2013; 12:00 pm Tulsa Women's Rugby Football Club has a jam-packed weekend, Home Opener against Little Rock is Saturday September 14th with kickoff at 12:00 pm. For the first time, these matches will be played in conjunction with SCOTFEST, Oklahoma's premiere Scottish Festival at River West Festival Park. Be sure to wear your TWRFC gear - -to-get - your - -admission - - - - -discount - - - -of-$5! For more information on visit tulsawomensrugby.com the Tulsa Women's Rugby Club, Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball 2013 Fall Ball 2013 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Game Dates & Times: Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning September 15th, 2013 through October 27th, 2013. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Counseling Services Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following days: September 21st, 2013 October 5th, 2013 November 9th, 2013 All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LCP 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... September GAMILY event Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 11:00 am - 5:30 pm Gamily will be attending the Turn Tulsa Pink! Event at Guthrie Green on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 and everyone is invited to stop by for a good time and for a good cause. Stop by anytime between 11:00 am and 5:30 pm and visit with your Gamily friends. For more information on the event visit Turn Tulsa Pink! at Guthrie Green ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUUT lf"EAKUt AT ANNUAL RUSSEU BENNETI AWARD The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance invites you to attend the 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). PRESENTATION :~~2,.~!I! BEGJNS 2:00pm ALL SOULS UNITARIAN CHURCH 2952 S. PEORIA TULSA,OK A Dire Natio n al Security ·n1reat: The Ocstn1ction of the Wall Separating Church and S ta t.e in the U.S. Armed Forces ~ _.., ____ _ It • IN- .RfAITH AlUAHCf -------- The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is happy to announce the recipient of this year's Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is Don A. Pittman, PhD, Director of the Interreligious Understanding Program at Phillips Theological Seminary. The Board selected Dr. Pittman because of his efforts in bringing high quality scholarship into the experience of religious pluralism that was so important to the late Rev Dr. Russell Bennett. Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Forces." To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Enid Pride 2013 Saturday, September 21st, 2013; Noon - 6:00 pm a::ra=c:: - Rainbow Writers Karaoke by Tulsa CARES Friday, October 11th, 2013; 7:00 - 11: pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa CARES is hosting a Karaoke Party on Friday, October 11th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. 100% of the proceeds will go to the Tulsa CARES fundraising campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way. $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song) This Is a 21 & Up Event YOU ,mom !IOU urnnrm ... Friday, October 11 th 7 pm - 11 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa , OK 100% proceeds go to the Tulsa CARES Fundralslng Campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way Free appetizers, $1 Jell-O Shots, $3 Beer and Wine, $1 per song This is a 21 and over event - ~ ro1.,MCAR,sQ. !:.,.~N,!.!I,t} - ·- $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song) Free Appetizers $1 Jell-O Shots $3 Beer and Wine S1 to Sing For more information call 918.834.4194 or visit Karaoke by Tulsa CARES on Facebook 1st and 3rd Wednesdays September 18th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Call 918-834-4194 for more info Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm or check us out on Facebook: Karaoke by Tulsa CARES OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... Weekend. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org -- We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals B:A.SIN -PARK - N USONI ·GR AND 11,0 TEL A MA·G For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet liRm'lb For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seatontheOkEq Party --Bus! - Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. Sisters in Song Choir Rehearsals Tuesdays; 7:00 pm Rehearsals for Sisters In Song Hope Peace & Joy 2013 will continue on Tuesdays from 7:00 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Like us on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 JIii https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20.. sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org The Show Must Go On.... ----- OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org -- ---- Stay tuned! Movie titles and schedule to follow. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Prince - Philip & Imperial Crown Princess - Misty present WANTED A Night in Maverick Country Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- Saturday, October 5th, 2013 8:00 pm to Midnight 10 of 12 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Ages Welcome $25 a person / $45 a couple (include open bar, 21+ Only) This is a State Event - Dress is Formal or Theme (Western Wear) Proceeds to benfit - The Clogger Bill Youth Scholarship Fund For more information please contact ICP's Philip or Misty impcourtok@gmail.com or visit www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Spinnin' on DVD You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Set against the whimsical backdrop of Madrid in 1995 reimagined here as a city where cynicism doesn't exist. The film presents a tapestry of stories with a diverse array of characters. At the heart of it all is G�rate and Omar, a gay couple looking for a woman to mother their child. The obstacles they face are 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... often achingly realistic, yet their story also presents a utopian vision of a world in which all couples no matter what their sexual orientation can reside happily within the full spectrum of modern families. Starting with the ploy of capturing 101 different kinds of kisses, the film sets off on a cinematic flight of fancy that proceeds with a childlike sense of joy. Featuring a handsome cast of characters, a loving portrayal of the Spanish capital, and a playful soundtrack, 'Spinnin' will undoubtedly win viewers over one way or another. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:17 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/64035426fcb57ecd6a87203212b68b01.pdf 6fb134538a5cbf1e287297b7d58b46d2 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 17th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Board of Directors Equality Business Alliance Fall Programming Welcome to the eNews. Absentee voting for the 2013 - 2014 Board of Directors election will begin on September 19th, 2013. You may cast your vote in person at the Equality Center or request a ballot by emailing Lucas.Green@OkEq.org. ---eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Computer Boot Camp First Thursday Art Gallery Submissions GAMILY Event Tulsa Women's Rugby The eNews for the week of September 17th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Sue Welch, McGraw Realtor Fall Ball 2013 Tulsa Threat Russell Bennett Award Sue Ellen Welch {918) 8 0-8156 Enid Pride 2013 Tulsa CARES OUT in Eureka OK Mr. Leather 2014 SWelch@ cGrawOK.com Herland Retreat Imperial Court OYP Re-Sale Shop OUT OK Festival Pride Store Rainbow Library Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 19th, 7:00 pm The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Click here to view nominated candidates. OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Artie Smoote Tai Chi Class OkEq Board 2012 - 2013 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Saks Fifth Avenue. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Saks Fifth Avenue 1780 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114 Fall Programming 2013 New Programs in September SOS Group 7:00 pm Every Monday This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org T.O.S.S. Swing Dance Class 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Every Tuesday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Each class features a 30 minute lesson followed by extended practice time with TOSS members. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Two Step and Country Line Dance (Begins September 19th, 2013) 7:30 pm Every Thursday Free for Members $5 for Non Members Are you the wall flower in the room because you don't know the latest dance steps? Well, kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Yoga A-Z 5:30 pm Every Friday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Yoga class for beginners to the expert all levels, all ages. Does your Lotus droop? Is your Downward Dog not standing up? Does your inner child need a time out? Then this is the class for you. Facilitated by Margot Be sure to keep up with all the new and existing programs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by visiting the Programming page of the OkEq website. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Grieving Well 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org "First Thursday" Art Show Reception October 3rd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the multi-media works of Tulsa's bestselling author, P.C. Cast, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 3rd from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Serv1Ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" ----- September GAMILY event Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 11:00 am - 3:30 pm Gamily will be attending the Turn Tulsa Pink! Event at Guthrie Green on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 and everyone is invited to stop by for a good time and for a good cause. Stop by anytime between 11:00 am and 5:30 pm and visit with your Gamily friends. For more information on the event visit Turn Tulsa Pink! at ---Guthrie Green Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 - Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Counseling Services Tulsa Women's Rugby Club Next Home Game, Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 11:00 am Tulsa Rugby Pitch E 37th St Tulsa Women's Rugby Football Club has started their new season. The team practices every Monday and Wednesday, 6:30 pm - 8:30 pm at E 37th St and Riverside Dr in Tulsa. Visit a practice or contact them today about becoming part of the team - all ages and experience levels are welcome! For more information on visit tulsawomensrugby.com the Tulsa Women's Rugby Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LCP 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Club, ----- Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Game Dates & Times: Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning September 15th, 2013 through October 27th, 2013. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following days: September 21st, 2013 October 5th, 2013 November 9th, 2013 All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUUT IPU.llut AT ANNUAL RUSSEU IENNffl AWARD The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance invites you to attend the 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). PRESENTATION :~~2~,D foil BEGINS 2:00pm ALL SOULS UfillffARlAN CHURCH 2952 $ , PEORIA TULSA,OK A Dire Natio nal Security 'M1reat: 11le Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and Slate in the U.S. Armed Forces t • lt-.TUsAITH AlllANCf ' ._. , ---- The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is happy to announce the recipient of this year's Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is Don A. Pittman, PhD, Director of the Interreligious Understanding Program at Phillips Theological Seminary. The Board selected Dr. Pittman because of his efforts in bringing high quality scholarship into the experience of religious pluralism that was so important to the late Rev Dr. Russell Bennett. Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Forces." To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. Enid Pride 2013 Saturday, September 21st, 2013; Noon - 6:00 pm Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. a::ra=c:: - Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays September 18th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Karaoke by Tulsa CARES Friday, October 11th, 2013; 7:00 - 11: pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa CARES is hosting a Karaoke Party on Friday, October 11th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. 100% of the proceeds will go to the Tulsa CARES fundraising campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way. $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song) This Is a 21 & Up Event YOU Hnow YOU mnnrm ... Friday, October 11 th 7 pm - 11 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 100% proceeds go to the Tulsa CARES Fundralslng Campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way Free appetizers, $1 Jell-O Shots, $3 Beer and Wine, $1 per song This is a 21 and over event For more information call 918.834.4194 or visit Karaoke by Tulsa CARES on Facebook OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 _ : Tobo ilfCARESQ . l ~.~!I.9 --- $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song} Free Appetizers Sl Jell-0 Shots S3 Beer and Wine $1 to Sing Call 918-834-4194 for more info or check us out on Facebook: Karaoke by Tulsa CARES Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat party -on - the -- -bus. It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno BASIN PARK A MA,G NUSONI GRAND IHITEL For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet mmmru For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat on the OkEq Party Bus! ----- Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. Herland Retreat November 1st, 2nd & 3rd, 2013 Pickens Lake Eufeaula, OK The Retreats are Herland's only Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 1-loJAlrrnrl 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... "womyn only" event held throughout sister resources the year. It is a place for women to feel safe and comfortable being in a womyn's space. Plan on having a fun and relaxing time at the Herland Retreat. You will meet lots of wonderful womyn and are sure to make a new friend or two while you are here. Call 405.550.2312 for more information or visit herlandsisters.org to register. ' ·~· ,u, ,u Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Prince - Philip & Imperial Crown Princess - Misty present WANTED A Night in Maverick Country Saturday, October 5th, 2013 8:00 pm to Midnight Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Ages Welcome $25 a person / $45 a couple (include open bar, 21+ Only) This is a State Event - Dress is Formal or Theme (Western Wear) Proceeds to benfit - The Clogger Bill Youth Scholarship Fund For more information please contact ICP's Philip or Misty impcourtok@gmail.com or visit www.impcourtok.webs.com Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Stay tuned! Movie titles and schedule to follow. Equality Center Pride Store Love is sweeping the Pride Store, with our new selection of wedding cake toppers, $39, $59 and $99. 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'A Donor Insemination Guide: Written by and for Lesbian Women' By Marie Mohler, MA & Lacy Frazer, PsyD You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Proven Techniques For Lesbians Who Want To Encourage A Safe And Loving Conception; Conceiving a child together is an act of love. But when doctors, medical staff, sperm banks, donors and a deep-freeze get in on the act, it can become somewhat stressful. Now, written especially for lesbians, A Donor Insemination Guide explores the way by sharing the experiences of other lesbian women who have successfully conceived using donor insemination, Revealing what many n doctors don't tell you about the practical details and emotional aspects of this intimate process, A Donor Insemination Guide offers readers the information they need to make wise choices, including: The pros and cons of known and unknown donors. Essential legal considerations. Choosing donor methods. The possible emotional effects on the relationship. Tips for dealing with the medical establishment. And more! DONO I E I TIO GUIDE Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... •••~ . Vol int r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:18 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/cc1046ba4975ff11a5dc962ff9f4426f.pdf b22dcc63ac16414d1595a3f88cb0d6f1 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 25th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Donate a Day Board of Directors First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. Absentee voting for the 2013 - 2014 Board of Directors election will begin on September 19th, 2013. You may cast your vote in person at the Equality Center or request a ballot by emailing Lucas.Green@OkEq.org. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Fall Programming Computer Boot Camp Tulsa CARES Retirement Ain't For Sissies OUTlaw Legal Series The eNews for the week of September 25th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald Labutti Equality Business Alliance Gallery Submissions Fall Ball 2013 Tulsa Threat Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK SAGE Tulsa Halloween OUT in Eureka OK Mr. Leather 2014 Herland Retreat $erious $tanley Imperial Court A Time To Kill Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of OkEq's Annual Membership Meeting, Dennis Neill and John Southard have donated to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign OYP Re-Sale Shop OUT OK Festival LGBT History Month Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 17th, 7:00 pm and are sponsoring the Equality Center and OkEq programming for the day of Thursday, September 26th, 2013 Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Artie Smoote The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Click here to view nominated candidates. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Counseling Services OkEq Board 2012 - 2013 "First Thursday" Art Show Reception October 3rd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the multi-media works of Tulsa's bestselling author, P.C. Cast, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 3rd from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Spectrum Knits Fall Programming 2013 New Programs in September SOS Group 7:00 pm Every Monday This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org T.O.S.S. Swing Dance Class 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Every Tuesday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Each class features a 30 minute lesson followed by extended practice time with TOSS members. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Two Step and Country Line Dance 7:30 pm Every Thursday Free for Members $5 for Non Members 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. • • '·'f:g . Grieving Well 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Are you the wall flower in the room because you don't know the latest dance steps? Well, kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Yoga A-Z 5:30 pm Every Friday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Yoga class for beginners to the expert all levels, all ages. Does your Lotus droop? Is your Downward Dog not standing up? Does your inner child need a time out? Then this is the class for you. Facilitated by Margot Be sure to keep up with all the new and existing programs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by visiting the Programming page of the OkEq website. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather First Tuesday of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm. The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones SAGE Tulsa Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Karaoke by Tulsa CARES Friday, October 11th, 2013; 7:00 - 11: pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa CARES is hosting a Karaoke Party on Friday, October 11th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. 100% of the proceeds will go to the Tulsa CARES fundraising campaign for the Tulsa Area Thlslsa21 &Up Event YOU Hnom YOU urnnrm ... sage~ Service, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Friday, October 11 th 7pm - 11 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... b.l I t . 4"' ~tree t , 1u1sa, UI\. United Way. $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song) Free appetizers, $1 Jell-O Shots, $3 Beer and Wine, $1 per song 100% proceeds go to the Tulsa CARES Fundralslng Campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way _ :..: 1wotifCAR,s k.lV.!..YJil~'? Q. - - ·- $20 per person or $3S per couple (includes2drinksand 1 song) Free Appetizers S1 Jell-O Shots Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) $3 Beer and Wine $1 to Sing This is a 21 and over event Call 918-834-4194 for more Info or check us out on Facebook: Karaoke by Tu lsa CARES For more information call 918.834.4194 or visit Karaoke by Tulsa CARES on Facebook Retirement Ain't for Sissies Tuesday, October 8th, 2013; 7:00 pm Jane Mudgett (Financial Advisor) and Dr. Chandini Sharma MD (Gerontologist) will present a Workshop on planning your retirement before you retire. Retirement Ain't for Sissies. Baby Boomers, have you thought about your retirement plans lately? Planning for retirement is not just for the financially secure future, it's about staying active mentally, physically and spiritually. Find out what you can do with your skills, your passions and your bucket list. Start planning now while you have the time. It's time to think about the long term. We are living longer more active lives than ever before. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, October 10th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by A Lil' Bit Retro. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LCP 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. A Lil' Bit Retro 5586 S Garnett 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Game Dates & Times: Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm through October 27th, 2013. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street. For more information,please visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following days: October 5th, 2013 November 9th, 2013 Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ===All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a Halloween party on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the party. The group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. Lunch will be provided. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend CZ.: .... - Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays October 2nd 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Book your hotel rooms before September 27th! Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org -- We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals BASIN PARK A MA,GNUSONI ·GlilAND IH)TEL For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet liDtm1kl For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat on the OkEq Party Bus! ---------- Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Herland Retreat November 1st, 2nd & 3rd, 2013 Pickens Lake Eufeaula, OK Her/and The Retreats are Herland's only "womyn only" event held throughout the year. It is a place for women to sister resources feel safe and comfortable being in a womyn's space. Plan on having a fun and relaxing time at the Herland Retreat. You will meet lots of wonderful womyn and are sure to make a new friend or two while you are here. Call 405.550.2312 for more information or visit herlandsisters.org to register. $erious $tanley at RAW Artist Showcase Friday, September 27th, 2013; 8:00 pm $erious $tanley, Tulsa's very own LGBTQ Rapper, Singer-Songwriter, will be taking place in ANOTHER RAW Artist Showcase! $erious $tanley has performed for Tulsa Pride and is the DJ for many OkEq events. The last RAW Artist showcase in July went over so well! RAW Artists presents: TRANSLATIONS will take place at The Vanguard in Tulsa on Friday, September 27th, 2013. You can purchase tickets at http://www.rawartists.org/tulsa/translations Tickets are $10 a piece if you purchase them through the RAW Artist website and $15 the at the door. Make sure either way you purchase that you are selecting $erious $tanley as the artist you are coming to support! You can view the $erious $tanley RAW Artist profile at http:// www.rawartists.org/seriousstanley Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Prince - Philip & Imperial Crown Princess - Misty present WANTED A Night in Maverick Country Saturday, October 5th, 2013 8:00 pm to Midnight Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Ages Welcome $25 a person / $45 a couple (include open bar, 21+ Only) This is a State Event - Dress is Formal or Theme (Western Wear) Proceeds to benfit - The Clogger Bill Youth Scholarship Fund For more information please contact ICP's Philip or Misty impcourtok@gmail.com or visit www.impcourtok.webs.com Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Friends and Family pricing for "A Time To Kill" Previews start September 28th on Broadway 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... SAVE UP TO 40% $45 $60 sso Rear Mezz. G-H Rear Mezz. A-F Select Orch . & Mezz. Reg. $69.50 Reg. $87 Reg. $132 CLICK HERE AND USE CODE TKFNSFMY2 VISIT BroadwayOffers.com OR CALL 212-947-8844 Purchase by Oct. 25 for performances through Nov. 24 Box office now open. ® Golden Theatre, 252 W. 45th St. 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! Stay tuned! Movie titles and schedule to follow. October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2012, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 1st - Zackie Achmat October 2nd - Edward Albee October 3rd - Gwen Araujo To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Equality Center Pride Store Love is sweeping the Pride Store, with our new selection of wedding cake toppers, $39, $59 and $99. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Heather Has Two Mommies' By Leslea Newman You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Originally self-published in 1989, Heather Has Two Mommies became the first title in Alyson's newly formed Alyson Wonderland imprint in 1990. The simple and straightforward story of a little girl named Heather and her two lesbian mothers was created by Newman and illustrator Diana Souza because children's books that reflected a nontraditional family did not exist, but a firestorm of controversy soon ensued. Attacked by the religious right, lambasted by Jesse Helms from the floor of the U.S Senate, and stolen from library \\R t ,H\ Jl ll'~ I K-\J l f) tn shelves, it was an uphill battle for LESLEA ~EWMAt\ DIA \ A SOLZ \ Heather. Thanks to the overwhelming support of booksellers, librarians, parents, and children, however, Heather Has Two Mommies has sold over 35,000 copies, launched a minor industry in providing books for the children of gay and lesbian parents and, as attested to by a recent New Yorker cartoon, become part of the cultural lexicon. HEATHER HAS TWO MOMMIES 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library •••~ .. Volunt er ru SA A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:19 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/80c7676ed224cde50680415d2933718d.pdf 3d447a62ef57ae82767a8965b2c52991 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews October 1st, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Donate a Day OUT OK Film Screening First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. OkEq will host a special screening for the OUT OK Film Festival on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. And join us on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013 for our October Art Reception featuring the work of P.C. Cast at 6:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of October 1st, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Sue Welch, McGraw Realtor Computer Boot Camp Retirement Ain't For Sissies OUTlaw Legal Series Tulsa CARES Equality Business Alliance Gallery Submissions Tulsa Threat SAGE Tulsa Halloween Gamily Halloween Sue Ellen Welch (918) 810-8156 Building Bridges OUT in Eureka Bullying Conference Family Center -Safety -- SWelch@McGrawOK.com OK Mr. Leather 2014 Herland Retreat Imperial Court OYP Re-Sale Shop OUT OK Festival Spirit Day Be Our Voice, Give a Day During Fire Prevention Week and in honor of our LGBT firefighters and EMS, a donation has been made to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign St. Francis Sunday LGBT History Month Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 17th, 7:00 pm www.mynefpa Ofg and the Equality Center and OkEq programming will be sponsored for the week of October 6th - 12th, 2013 Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Voice, Give a Day -Be -Our ---- campaign --- - OUT OK Film Festival Screening Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013; 7:00 pm In anticipation of OUT OK, you are cordially invited to a pre-film festival screening of Ferzan Ozpetek's ghostly comedy, MAGNIFICENT PRESENCE. Pietro moves into a too-good-to-be-true retro apartment. Before you can say, homo sweet home, the haunting begins. For more details, go to www.out-ok.com or 918.682.4654. Date: Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013 Time: 7:00 pm Venue: Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Cost: Free (with the purchase of an OUT OK VIP PASS) Popcorn will be provided Save the dates: November 15th, 16th & 17th, 2013 Movie Tickets: $10 VIP PASS: $80 (Admission to all 2013 films, Priority Seating, OUT OK Survival Kit) Stay Tuned...Film Schedule to be released soon. www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit OkEq and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "First Thursday" Art Show Reception October 3rd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of P.C. Cast Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... the multi-media works of Tulsa's bestselling author, P.C. Cast, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 3rd from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First Tuesday (November 5th) of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday (October 12th) of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm. The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Retirement Ain't for Sissies Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tuesday, October 8th, 2013; 7:00 pm Jane Mudgett (Financial Advisor) and Dr. Chandini Sharma MD (Gerontologist) will present a Workshop on planning your retirement before you retire. Retirement Ain't for Sissies. Through a participative approach, they will provide suggestions to help you • Stay upright and keep moving • Importance of body and brain health • Health screening and managing disease risk factors • Manage expenses and keep saving • Focus on bigger dollar issues rather than smaller cents • Learn how American marketing lures you to buy more now I • •' - Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... Dr. Chandini Sharma, with 20 years of experiences, has a private practice in Tulsa and specializes in Internal and Geriatric Medicine. Jane Mudgett is a Financial Planning Specialist and Financial Advisor with Morgan Stanley. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, October 10th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Karaoke by Tulsa CARES Friday, October 11th, 2013; 7:00 - 11: pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa CARES is hosting a Karaoke Party on Friday, October 11th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. 100% of the proceeds will go to the Tulsa CARES fundraising campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way. $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song) This Is a 21 & Up Event YOU ,mum YOU mnnrra ... Friday, October 11 th 7pm - 11 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th Street , Tulsa, OK 100% proceeds go to the Tulsa CARES Fundralslng Campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way _ : Two. CARES 1=..~~!tt! Free appetizers, $1 Jell-O Shots, $3 Beer and Wine, $1 per song Q. ··--- $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song) Free Appetizers $1 Jell-O Shots S3 Beer and Wine S1 to Sing This is a 21 and over event Call 918-834-4194 for more info or check us out on Facebook: Karaoke by Tulsa CARES For more information call 918.834.4194 or visit Karaoke by Tulsa CARES on Facebook Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by A Lil' Bit Retro. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... commercial about your business. A Lil' Bit Retro 5586 S Garnett 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following days: October 5th, 2013 November 9th, 2013 All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 10:00 am Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LCP 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... SAGE Tulsa will have a Halloween party on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the party. The group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. Lunch will be provided. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Gamily Halloween Spooktacular Thursday, October 31st, 2013; 6:00 pm Pumpkins, goodies and creepy crawlies. Come join Gamily on Thursday, October 31st from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm for a spooktacular Halloween celebration. There will be arts & crafts, candy galore and a costume contest. Feel free to invite your friends and family. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org or OkEq's Gamily Facebook page. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Keith and Andrew with family Trick or Treat at OkEq Halloween 2012 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org. BUILDING BRIDGES Gay and Straight 6-Week Course, Starting this week Sponsored by Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry to build awareness, education and bridges of respectful relationship within a context of faith. At work, home, school and in our faith communities, we have neighbors who are gay or straight. For some it is a "no brainer" and for others it is a challenge. Join us for a 6-week course with video and discussion using the Marin Foundation curriculum, "Love is an Orientation" (MarinFoundation.org). Pick your choice of date and location. There is no fee to attend. • Wednesday, Oct. 2nd, at 7:00 pm, Kendall-Whittier Library 21 S. Lewis Ave. • Thursday, Oct. 3rd, at 2:00 pm; Herman Kaiser Library 5202 S. Hudson St. • Friday, Oct. 4th, at 10:30 am; Brookside Library 1207 E. 45th Pl. • Saturday, Oct. 5th, 1:00 pm Schusterman Library 3333 E. 32nd St. Each location will have six meetings at the same time each week. Come to the first meeting and learn positive ways to address this sensitive subject, while maintaining your faith and being respectful to your neighbors. You will not need a book for the class. But if you are interested and cannot attend, Steve's Bookstore has "Love is an Orientation". For information contact: Ray Hickman, (918.261.2500) Executive Director, Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry. For more information and/or to register (not necessary to attend): Go to the TMM website www.tumm.org .... Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays October 2nd 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Yoga A - Z Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. --------- It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org BASIN PARK A MA,GNUSONI ·GRAND IH>TEL For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ limm'DI For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat on the OkEq Party Bus! Annual Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 26th, 2013; 9:00 am Rudisill Regional Library 1520 N Hartford Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Saturday, October 26th, 2013 from 9:00 am to 1:30 pm Students, parents and educators will learn about: BlllflNI PRE 1ENTION CONFERENCE • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Lunch provided by QuikTrip Kitchens. For questions or to register, please visit PreventBullyingTulsa.org. Family Safety Center Open House and Dedication Wednesday, October 9th, 2013; 6:00 pm Family Safety Center 600 Civic Center Police/Municipal Courts Building, Main Level Please join Family Safety Center's partners and Casey Gwinn, President of the National Family Justice Center Alliance, for a "Home Warming," as they dedicate the brand new 11,000 square foot facility in downtown Tulsa. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org FSC exists because of the hard work of these collaborative partners: 14th District Court, DVIS/Call Rape, Office of the District Attorney RSVP of Tulsa, Tulsa County Sheriff's Office, Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry (TMM), Tulsa Police Department, Family Violence and Forensic Nursing Units, YWCA Tour the FSC's new home and let them thank you for providing protection, hope and healing to those affected by domestic and intimate partner violence in Tulsa County. Traditional "Home Warming" gifts are encouraged to help us provide the best services in our new home. Click here to find our wish list. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... And since we offer comfort to those who need it, we'll be serving comfort food for appetizers. Come hungry! Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. Herland Retreat November 1st, 2nd & 3rd, 2013 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Pickens Lake Eufeaula, OK Her/and The Retreats are Herland's only "womyn only" event held throughout the year. It is a place for women to sister resources feel safe and comfortable being in a womyn's space. Plan on having a fun and relaxing time at the Herland Retreat. You will meet lots of wonderful womyn and are sure to make a new friend or two while you are here. Call 405.550.2312 for more information or visit herlandsisters.org to register. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Prince - Philip & Imperial Crown Princess - Misty present WANTED A Night in Maverick Country Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... Saturday, October 5th, 2013 8:00 pm to Midnight Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Ages Welcome $25 a person / $45 a couple (include open bar, 21+ Only) This is a State Event - Dress is Formal or Theme (Western Wear) Proceeds to benfit - The Clogger Bill Youth Scholarship Fund For more information please contact ICP's Philip or Misty impcourtok@gmail.com or visit www.impcourtok.webs.com Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! www.out-ok.com Stay tuned! Movie titles and schedule to follow. Spirit Day | Taking a stand against bullying Thursday, October 17th, 2013 Millions of Americans wear purple on Spirit Day as a sign of support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth and to speak out against bullying. Spirit Day was started in 2010 as a response to the young people who had ttspiritday taken their own lives. Observed annually, 10.17.2013 individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, ,...,,.. media professionals and celebrities wear purple, which symbolizes spirit on the rainbow flag. Getting involved is easy -- participants are asked ,,••, ~ glaad org/spiritday to simply "go purple" on October 17th, 2013 as work continues to create a world in which LGBT teens are celebrated and accepted for who they are. Learn more & go purple at www.glaad.org/spiritday. St. Francis Sunday - Blessing of the Animals Sunday, October 6th, 2013; 11:00 am Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King Tulsa, OK 74106 St Jerome will be celebrating the Feast of St. Francis, which will include a "Blessing of the Animals." Everyone is invited to bring their pets to church to be blessed. Come, bring your furry and feathered, or scaly friends. We ask that they be properly kenneled, leashed, caged or held. And if you are not able to bring your pet, bring a picture which you can carry up front as a symbol of their presence to be 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... blessed. Celebration will start with an 11:00 am Mass (no sermon that day). Depending on the weather, blessings will take place either outdoors or in the Events Center. For more information, please call 918.582.3088 October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2012, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 2nd - Edward Albee October 3rd - Gwen Araujo October 4th - Reinaldo Arenas October 5th - Axel Axgil October 6th - Djuna Barnes October 7th - Joseph Beam October 8th - Gad Beck October 9th - Joan Biren To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com Equality Center Pride Store Love is sweeping the Pride Store, with our new selection of wedding cake toppers, $39, $59 and $99. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Commitment: Love, Sex, Marriage and My Family' By Dan Savage 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Dan Savage's mother wants him to get married. His boyfriend, Terry, says "no thanks" because he doesn't want to act like a straight person. Their sixyear-old son DJ says his two dads aren't "allowed" to get married, but that he'd like to come to the reception and eat cake. Throw into the mix Dan's straight siblings, whose varied choices form a microcosm of how Americans are approaching marriage these days, and you get a rollicking family memoir that will have everyone-gay or straight, right or left, single or married-howling with laughter and rethinking their notions of marriage and all it entails. lo,,.. rnffrriQgt" i;;cM and. Ill) ra,nily - DAN SAVAGE ........ ,.........., -.. ··-••... _.,~ ..... , ,~-- ,... ,... ~ Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library • :JI : • Vol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:20 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2855b02ce046cb73bf797248912135fe.pdf 743f8e576b2f75ed4d1a6be624737bfd PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews October 10th, 2013 In This Issue • Programming Note EBA Sponsor Donate a Day OUTlaw Legal Series Welcome to the eNews. Tulsa CARES Equality Business Alliance SAGE Tulsa Halloween Gamily Halloween Bullying Conference National Coming Out Day is Friday, October 11th, 2013. OkEq offers a FREE Coming Out Workshop every Monday evening and provides counseling services onsite from licensed mental health professionals. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality OUT in Eureka Tulsa Threat Computer Boot Camp Building Bridges Spirit Day OkEq Programming Note Guys Dine Too • Yoga A - Z will be canceled on Friday, October 11th, 2013 and will resume on Friday, October 18th, 2013 at 5:30 pm. First Thursday Art Gallery Submissions • Country Two Step Class will be canceled for the next two weeks, Thursday, October 10th and 17th, 2013 and will resume on Thursday, October 24th, 2013 at 7:30 pm. Transgender Day of Remembrance • Tulsa Metro Softball League games will not be played this Sunday, October 13th, 2013. These games will be made up on Sunday, October 27th, 2013. OK Mr. Leather 2014 Within Our Reach Herland Retreat OYP Re-Sale Shop The eNews for the week of October 10th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO OUT OK Festival LGBT History Month Hiking in the Ozarks Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... Be Our Voice, Give a Day Find Us on Facebook During Fire Prevention Week and in honor of our LGBT firefighters and EMS, a donation has been made to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 17th, 7:00 pm www,mynefpa Q.rg and the Equality Center and OkEq programming will be sponsored for the week of October 6th - 12th, 2013 Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign ------------ ---- - OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, October 10th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. October Topic: Mumbo Jumbo: What is up with Gay Marriage in New Mexico, New Jersey, and Pennsylvania. OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of P.C. Cast Karaoke by Tulsa CARES Friday, October 11th, 2013; 7:00 - 11:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa CARES is hosting a Karaoke Party on Friday, October 11th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. 100% of the proceeds will go to the Tulsa CARES fundraising campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way. $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 This Is a 21 & Up Event YOU ,mum YOU urnnrm . . . Friday, October 11 th 7pm - 11 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4t h Street, Tulsa, OK 100% proceeds go to the Tulsa CARES Fundralslng Campaign for the Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... 1- - --d llASOffll.AKI:!) song) !,,."'.I.Y,'il!L'? $20 per person or $35 per couple Free appetizers, $1 Jell-O Shots, $3 Beer and Wine, $1 per song Free Appetizers S1 Jell-O Shots $3 Beer and Wine $1 to Sing This is a 21 and over event Call 918-834-4194 for more info or check us out on Facebook: Karaoke by Tulsa CARES (includes2drinksand 1 song) LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org For more information call 918.834.4194 or visit Karaoke by Tulsa CARES on Facebook Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by A Lil' Bit Retro. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. A Lil' Bit Retro 5586 S Garnett SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a Halloween party on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the party. The group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. Lunch will be provided. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Gamily Halloween Spooktacular Thursday, October 31st, 2013; 6:00 pm Pumpkins, goodies and creepy crawlies. Come join Gamily on Thursday, October 31st from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm for a spooktacular Halloween celebration. There will be arts & crafts, candy galore and a costume contest. Feel free to invite your friends and family. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org or OkEq's Gamily Facebook page. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Keith and Andrew with family Trick or Treat at OkEq Halloween 2012 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org. Annual Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 26th, 2013; 9:00 am Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Rudisill Regional Library 1520 N Hartford Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Saturday, October 26th, 2013 from 9:00 am to 1:30 pm Students, parents and educators will learn about: BlllYINI PRE 1ENTION CONFERENCE • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... Lunch provided by QuikTrip Kitchens. For questions or to register, please visit PreventBullyingTulsa.org. OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. SAGE Tulsa We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... BASIN PARK A MA,GNUSONI ·GlilAND IH)TEL For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ liDtm1kl For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat on the OkEq Party Bus! ---------- Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following day: November 9th, 2013 All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First Tuesday (November 5th) of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday (October 12th) of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm. The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org BUILDING BRIDGES Gay and Straight 6-Week Course Sponsored by Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry to build awareness, education and bridges of respectful relationship within a context of faith. At work, home, school and in our faith communities, we have neighbors who are gay or straight. For some it is a "no brainer" and for others it is a challenge. Join us for a 6-week course with video and discussion using the Marin Foundation curriculum, "Love is an Orientation" (MarinFoundation.org). Pick your choice of date and location. There is no fee to attend. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: ... • Wednesdays, at 7:00 pm, Kendall-Whittier Library 21 S. Lewis Ave. • Thursdays at 2:00 pm; Herman Kaiser Library 5202 S. Hudson St. • Fridays at 10:30 am; Brookside Library 1207 E. 45th Pl. • Saturdays at 1:00 pm Schusterman Library 3333 E. 32nd St. Each location will have six meetings at the same time each week. Come to the first meeting and learn positive ways to address this sensitive subject, while maintaining your faith and being respectful to your neighbors. You will not need a book for the class. But if you are interested and cannot attend, Steve's Bookstore has "Love is an Orientation". For information contact: Ray Hickman, (918.261.2500) Executive Director, Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry. For more information and/or to register (not necessary to attend): Go to the TMM website www.tumm.org Spirit Day | Taking a stand against bullying Thursday, October 17th, 2013 Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays October 16th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org -----to attend 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... Millions of Americans wear purple on Spirit Day as a sign of support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth and to speak out against bullying. Spirit Day was started in 2010 as a response to the young people who had taken their own lives. Observed annually, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, media professionals and celebrities wear purple, which symbolizes spirit on the rainbow flag. Getting involved is easy -- participants are asked to simply "go purple" on October 17th, 2013 as work continues to create a world in which LGBT teens are celebrated and accepted for who they are. Learn more & go purple at www.glaad.org/spiritday. ----- · Guys Dine Too Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays (Resumes Oct. 24th) 6:30 - 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tuesday, November 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Maxxwell's Restaurant Tuesday, November 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Maxxwell's Restaurant is located inside the Campbell Hotel at 2636 E 11th Street, on the west end of the hotel. Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending so that the restaurant may have an accurate head count. First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, November 7th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Yoga A - Z Fridays (Resumes Oct. 18th) 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 7th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 Game Night 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading ----"OkEq gallery proposal" 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:30 pm 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK JUST GENDER On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:30 pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local transgender activists. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. Contact mary.jones@okeq.org for more information. Everyone is invited to come and participate. Within Our Reach - Relationship Workshop Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Family & Children's Services will provide a FREE relationship workshop on Saturday, November 16th, 2013 at 1:00 pm. Build on existing relationship strengths and learn skills to create safe and stable partner relationships. In addition, you'll learn how to: Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - --Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... • Communicate effectively • Work as a team to solve problems • Manage conflicts without damaging closeness • Preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship For more information or to pre-register, contact Mary at 918.743.4297 or mary.jones@okeq.org Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. Herland Retreat November 1st, 2nd & 3rd, 2013 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Pickens Lake Eufeaula, OK Her/and The Retreats are Herland's only "womyn only" event held throughout the year. It is a place for women to sister resources feel safe and comfortable being in a womyn's space. Plan on having a fun and relaxing time at the Herland Retreat. You will meet lots of wonderful womyn and are sure to make a new friend or two while you are here. Call 405.550.2312 for more information or visit herlandsisters.org to register. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! Visit www.out-ok.com for movie titles and schedule. October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2012, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. ---IIISIORY .\IO. ~lH October 10th - Patrick Califia October 11th - Mandy Carter October 12th - Willa Cather October 13th - Tracy Chapman October 14th - Tim Cook October 15th - Anderson Cooper October 16th - Elio Di Rupo 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com Hiking in the Ozarks Saturday, October 19th and 26th, 2013 Fall color hike in Arkansas lead by Doyle Wilson and Sherlene Bunnell. will do this hike Saturday October 19th, 2013 and again on Saturday October 26th, 2013. Come join as we head to Ponca, Arkansas in search of Fall. We will be hiking The Whitaker Point Trail to The Hawksbill Crag. The Hawksbill Crag, also known as Whitaker Point, is located along the northern edge of the Upper Buffalo Wilderness in the Ozark National Forest, just south of the Buffalo National River. It is easily one of the most photographed and recognizable features in Arkansas. The hike to it is an easy 3.0 mile round trip, and offers scenic vistas, huge boulders, beautiful waterfalls, (if there is water) and we hope to be graced with the bright oranges and reds of turning maple leaves this fall. The hike to the Crag is rated easy, but we must keep in mind this trail runs along a bluffline for half the distance. Because of this, extreme caution is necessary when hiking this area. It is also not a hike for small children or unleashed pets. The drive to Ponca, Arkansas is roughly 3 hours. We will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 8:00 am and leave for Ponca at exactly 8:30 am. We will carpool and ask all passengers to pitch in to help pay for gas. Please dress weather/hiking appropriate. Bring water and snacks/lunch for hike, and don't forget your camera. Please RSVP with Mary Jones by calling 918.743.4297 or RVSP on the Facebook Event page. Equality Center Pride Store Brand new in the Pride Store, "Oklahomo" Long Sleeve Shirts. From sizes Small to 5 XL, Only $18 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Now That You're Out of the Closet, What About the Rest of Your House?' By Linda Handel You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Opening the door to a consistent, mature lifestyle is challenging for anyone, but it is especially stressful for gay men and lesbians living in a heterosexual world. In Now That You're Out of the Closet, What About the Rest of the House?, Linda Handel speaks from her own personal experiences as a former spouse in a heterosexual marriage, a mother of two, an out lesbian and a licensed therapist to explore the full spectrum of life concerns-from lingering childhood issues, dating and sex to intolerance, abuse and self-hatred-in a voice that is always direct, open and refreshingly honest. Now That You 're What Abou t the Rest of the House? A witty, creative guidebook filled with solid advice, Now That You're Out of the Closet, What About the Rest of the House? offers encouraging direction to those who have discovered that coming out is only the first step in the journey toward a fulfilling life. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:21 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8dab9e08e0b9756c76ff2fb82d5c6603.pdf 2aa198c4a8a78adc7d67fc891f5f9f59 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 31st, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Back to School Carnival Gamily Family Fever Dream Welcome to the eNews. Gamily will have a Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 4th, 2013 2:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org to RSVP or for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of July 31st, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: First Thursday Art EBA Counseling Services Guys Dine Too SAGE Pool Party Fall Ball 2013 The Clobber Verses Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Intro to LGBTQ Lit Council Oak Mens Chorale Cooling Station Mosaic DIVAS Drag Queen Bingo Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 4th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Threat Coach Imperial Court of All OK Board of Directors Pride Store Hurry, hurry, hurry! Step right up and join the fun. There will be food, games, characters, activities and prizes. Bring the family and have some fun before school starts. For more info email Gamily@OkEq.org. Please RSVP with parents' names and students' names, ages. Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Gamily is taking donations for the back to school carnival. Here is a list of the basic school supplies needed by students: • Folders • Pens • Pencils • Spiral notebooks • Box of crayons • Washable markers 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... • Erasers • Kleenex tissues • 3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, or 2 in) • Wide ruled notebook paper If you would like to volunteer for the back to School Carnival, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 15th, 7:00 pm Gamily featured family for the week of July 31st This week's featured Gamily Family is Liz and Stephanie Ingersoll and their daughter Bella. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos Liz and Stephanie have been together for almost 10 years, married for 9. Their daughter Bella is 5 going on 30. Liz is a local photographer who owns Mia Bella Art and has work displayed at the Tulsa International Airport and Liz is a stay at home mother and homeschools Bella. The family loves to camp and go on small road trips when Liz has photoshoots. Bella loves ballet and will appear in Sleeping Beauty and The Nutcracker for the 2nd time this year. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Fever Dream Performances on Friday and Saturday, August 2nd and 3rd, 2013 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday and Saturday, August 2nd and 3rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center, Emily Hedgecock's full-length play, Fever Dream, features Wilson and Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... !!AHIIUUICRUC iliLOOKSf n mf RIGHT l\~:i Kinnier in a thoughtful, emotional, and surprisingly funny philosophical journey through an absurdist work by a character th TELLK al Ill DIE •q~~, : • known only as "The Author". In this ltYI UIS c....t..- modernist take on life and death, Wilson meets a variety of 621 • •,h characters from the hyperactive i.WANT•c;; TU aup~t 2 ..3 Hat Guy to drab and pedantic 7pm Webster (the living 1 HAPPENS 5 S7 at door Merriam embodiment of a dictionary), led $5 wlt b throughout it all by her IHI UII GUY •tu... "l ID magnanimous guide Ad .. Kinnier. Certain characters use I!,rnMAKESM EANLIGHT .....,_cu. . adult language and a parental mn onty advisory is suggested. Performances are open to the public and tickets are $7, $5 with student ID. Proceeds will go to NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness. EVE em H -INNIlRrr i~D ATOR EA M GOIN&Y/1~.. • M SON"=" ~MERRIAMDKAY J(MSYMRJOMSeEET First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Thursday, August 1st, 2013; 6:00 pm The August OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos from the private collection of Kevin Roden. Co-curated by Kevin and Andre Chenault, the show begins with a reception on Thursday, August 1st, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. A commemorative poster for the art show will be available for $20 Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Enhance Skin & Body Medical Spa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Enhance Skin & Body Medical Spa 6616 S. Memorial Drive, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 New Counseling Services Monday evenings by appointment John Serrot, LCSW is joining OkEq's counseling services and will see people on Mondays by appointment. Fees are on a sliding scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John by phone at 918.724.3388 or email him at therapyjohn@OkEq.org John is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 40 years of varied social service experience in settings including medical, psychiatric, advocacy, aging, family planning and disabilities. John appreciates the diversity in the human condition and works with his clients to help maximize inherent skills and strengths in order to overcome barriers and accomplish the goals his clients have set for themselves. John specializes in working with adults in the areas of self esteem, mood disorders, anxiety, trauma, communication/relationships, gender identification, aging and disabilities. SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Guys Dine Too Tuesday, August 6th, 2013; 6:30 pm The August meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Mexicali Border Cafe on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013 at around 6:30 pm. Mexicali Border Cafe is located at 14 West Brady www.mexicalibordercafe.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have an encore pool party on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be Potluck, so bring your favorite summer dish. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - to RSVP. interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, B1iexual & Transgender Elders ~ poo/party The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. NERDception Every other Tuesday AUGUST 6th 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com Self Defense Class Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! Teams will be selected at random from a "hat" at the Fall Draft Event; all players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: TBD, but will be Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning in mid-September and ending late October. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com The Clobber Verses - Religion Workshop Mondays, August 19th and 26th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Rev. Bob Lawerence will be leading two sessions of a religion workshop called "The Clobber Verses". These sessions will entail various faith leaders in Tulsa providing historical, social and theological background on one of the Bible verses that is used to justify homophobia (each person taking a different passage). The two sessions are planned on Mondays, August 19th and 26th at 7:00 pm: One session will look at the Old Testament and the other at the New Testament. Scholars from Phillips Theological Seminary will lead the primary lecture about context and interpretation, followed by smaller group conversations about the verses, followed by a panel of local ministers to answer any final questions. Intro to LGBTQ Literature Tulsa Community College Fall 2013 Schedule Are your literary tastes a little more colorful than some? Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Maybe you need a taste of LGBTQ Literature! Introduction to LGBTQ Literature Coming to TCC for Fall 2013 ENGL 2993, Section 390, CRN 17124 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Online, 16 week course taught by Dr. Allen Culpeper Tentative reading list: Maurice by E. M. Forster, Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jenette Winterson, Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin, Eighty-Sixed by David Feinberg, Cloud 9 by Caryl Churchhill, The Laramie 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... Project by Moises Kaufman, Pages for You by Sylvia Brownrigg, Love Speaks Its Name: Gay and Lesbian Love Poems edited by J.D. McClatchy ,.._ ===- -= For more information contact: allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu --------918.595.7647 Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Mondays, Beginning August 5th, 2013; 7:00 pm Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season 2013 Performance will begin on Monday, August 5th, 2013 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Rehearsals will continue on every Monday. The concert will feature holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria(Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry council oak moos chorole Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. council oak Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday JULY 31st 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information Lambda Al-Anon Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. Mosaic Diversity Business Awards Survey Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. Mosaic is launching a survey to identify businesses that powered by the tulsa regional chamber have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. We hope to identify ten for profits and ten nonprofits for our region's Top 20 Inclusive Cultures. � Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey Game Night The survey will close at end of business August 9th, 2013. The results of the survey will be shared at Mosaic's inaugural Economic Inclusion Forum October 21st, 2013. H.O.P.E.'s 15th Anniversary Celebration "DIVAS" Event Friday, August 23rd, 2013; 6:30 pm Doubletree Warren Place 6110 South Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 75136 H.O.P.E.'s 15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION "DIVAS" EVENT Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm FEATURING: Cindy Cain Pam - Van Dyke Christy Hanewinkel - Tavis Minner Heather Richetto-Rumley - John Sawyer Jeff Cherblanc - Phena Hackett - Mark Gibson Celebrating H.O.P.E.'s 15 years of providing HIV and Hepatitis prevention, education, testing, and linkage to medical care and social services in the Tulsa Community and 25 surrounding counties. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet For more information, visit hopetesting.org or click here for ticket purchases and sponsorships. Drag Queen Bingo benefiting Our House Too Saturday, August 24th, 2013; Doors open at 7:00 pm Hyatt Regency Hotel 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Drag Queen Bingo 2013 August 24th, 2013 Hyatt Regency Hotel 7:30 - 10:00 pm $30 Bingo like your mother never played... This annual event and fundraiser for Our House Too will be held August 24th, 2013 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. Female impersonators will bring dazzling entertainment and fabulous bingo prizes for this, the eighth year, beginning at 7:30 and ending at 10:00 pm with doors opening at 7:00 pm. A silent auction and a 50/50 raffle will be held and, of course, several rousing games of bingo will be played! Some of your favorite artists will perform glittering numbers to wow the crowd. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2013 are $30 per person and advanced tickets are available online through PayPal. Purchase an indivdual ticket Reserve a Table Reserve a Premium Table Reserve a Runway Table For more information on table packages please contact Our House Too at 918.688.2144 or DQB@ourhousetoo.com Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV/ AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weekly lunches. ourhousetoo.com Women's Tackle Football Coaching Position Available Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is looking for a qualified head coach for the 2014 season. The Threat is a non-profit, semi-pro, fullcontact women's tackle football team based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. A member of the Women's Football Alliance since 2011, the Threat is a combination of beginner and intermediate adult athletes with a love for competitive football. The Threat off-season training begins in December, with games starting in April. The regular season consists of 8 games. All games are on Saturday nights, 4 home, and 4 away to surrounding states. Additional postseason games are to be determined on team performance. This is a paid position and all traveling accommodations will be covered by the team. For more information send an email to tulsaWTF@yahoo.com or visit www.tulsathreat.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Please join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Prince & Princess Royale Keith and Joanna for the next round of the Holigay pageants operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org with the 'Mr & Miss Hot and Humid 2013 Pageant' Friday, August 2nd, 2013 @ 10:00 pm - TNT's (NO COVER 21+ Only) Partial proceeds will benefit - OkEq's Gamily Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org We will also be holding a 50/50 raffle and collecting schools supplies for OkEq's Gamily 1st Annual Back to School Carnival For more information please contact the I.C.A.O. at impcourtok@gmail.com Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Voting members must be current in their $50 OkEq membership fee by September 11th, 2013. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $10.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Transgender Rights' edited by Paisely Currah, Richard M. Juang and Shannon Price Minter You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Over the past three decades, the transgender movement has gained visibility and achieved significant victories. Discrimination has been prohibited in several states, dozens of municipalities, and more than two hundred private companies, while hate crime laws in eight states have been amended to include gender identity. Yet prejudice and violence against transgender people remain all too common. ~ LU 0 z (!:> ~ RIGHTS With analysis from legal and policy experts, activists and advocates, Transgender Rights assesses the movement's achievements, challenges, ~ and opportunities for future action. ~ Examining crucial topics like family law, employment policies, public health, economics, and grassroots organizing, this groundbreaking book is an indispensable resource in the fight for the freedom and equality of those who cross gender boundaries. Moving beyond media representations to grapple with the real lives and issues of transgender people, Transgender Rights will launch a new moment for human rights activism in America. <t: Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... Volu1 r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:06 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3fde59b09f0fce1af90d2b873012207e.pdf 7c79b0bc1318ac7cbae33d56bd6b2118 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... eNews October 24th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor SAGE Tulsa Halloween Gamily Halloween OUT in Eureka Welcome to the eNews. Make plans to Trick or Treat at the Equality Center with Gamily's Halloween celebration. Come by on Thursday, October 31st from 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm for candy, games and prizes! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Threat Guys Dine Too Immigration and DOMA Computer Boot Camp Mindful Meditation The eNews for the week of October 24th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO OUTlaw Legal Series First Thursday Art Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Transgender Day of Remembrance Homebuyer Workshop Within Our Reach Birds of Prey Mosaic Margaritas & Burgers SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a Halloween party on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the party. The group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. Lunch will be provided. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. Tony Kushner Wedding Announcement Herland Retreat Tulsa Metro Basketball LGBT Literature OUT OK Festival LGBT History Month Hiking in the Ozarks Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Gamily Halloween Spooktacular Thursday, October 31st, 2013; 6:00 pm Pumpkins, goodies and creepy crawlies. Come join Gamily on Thursday, October 31st from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm for a spooktacular Halloween celebration. There will be arts & crafts, candy galore and a costume contest. Feel free to invite your friends and family. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org or OkEq's Gamily Facebook page. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 21st, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit Keith and Andrew with family Trick or Treat at OkEq Halloween 2012 The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of P.C. Cast Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org. OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Counseling Services Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... TherapyJohn@OkEq.org We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following day: November 9th, 2013 Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook Guys Dine Too Tuesday, November 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Maxxwell's Restaurant Tuesday, November 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Maxxwell's Restaurant is located inside the Campbell Hotel at 2636 E 11th Street, on the west end of the hotel. Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending so that the restaurant may have an accurate head count. Immigration and DOMA: Where do we go from here? Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org - Monday, November 11th, 2013 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Chris Bell, YWCA Immigration Attorney, speaks on the implications of the Supreme Court's repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act for immigrants, especially those who have a same-sex partner who is a U.S. citizen. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First Tuesday (November 5th) of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday (November 9th) of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Mindful Meditation Every Wednesday at 6:00 pm Science has proven the efficacy of Mindfulness Meditation in reducing blood pressure, improving the quality of sleep, improving memory and reducing other effects of aging, as well as helping us deal with the level of stress in our lives. In this class we will learn various techniques that lead to mindfulness. The class will start with short sessions and gradually increase them. Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful techniques and practice them with us. Please bring your own cushion (zafu). You may also find it helpful to bring something to pad your ankles as well. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, November 7th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 7th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:30 pm 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK JUST GENDER On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:30 pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local transgender activists. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. Contact mary.jones@okeq.org for more information. Everyone is invited to come and participate. Homebuyer Education Workshop SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (EverBank Home Lending). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Within Our Reach - Relationship Workshop Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Family & Children's Services will provide a FREE relationship workshop on Saturday, November 16th, 2013 at 1:00 pm. Build on existing relationship strengths and learn skills to create safe and stable partner relationships. In addition, you'll learn how to: • Communicate effectively • Work as a team to solve problems • Manage conflicts without damaging closeness • Preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship For more information or to pre-register, contact Mary at 918.743.4297 or mary.jones@okeq.org Bird of Paradise Book Signing w/ author G.J. Paterson Tuesday, November 19th, 2013; 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Author G.J. Paterson will be at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a book signing of the newly published novel, "Bird of Paradise". The signing will be on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Available on October 31st, "Birds of Prey" may be purchased from www.gjpaterson.com or Amazon.com for $23.95. Copies of the book will be available for sale on the night of the signing for 10% off. 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... OkEq honored by Mosaic in Top 20 Inclusive Workplace Cultures Mosaic, Tulsa Business Chamber's Diversity and Inclusion Council, honored Oklahomans for Equality for leadership in creating a diverse and inclusive workplace culture in the Tulsa area. In attendance to receive the award were Toby Jenkins, OkEq Executive Director and Mike Redman, OkEq Board of Director. Boot Camp Margaritas & Cheeseburgers in Paradise Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Saturday, October 26th, 2013; 11:00 am - 1:00 pm Red Sky Liquor & Wine 4711 E 51st Street BOB FM will be at Equality Business Alliance member Red Sky Liquor & Wine this Saturday October 26th, 2013 with a live remote from 11:00 am to 1:00 pm. You can sign up for a chance to win a 5 day trip to Hawaii and 2 tickets to the Jimmy Buffet concert. BOB FM will also have a money machine and people will have a chance to grab as much money as they want every 30 minutes. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: == All sales from Red Sky Liquor & Wine from 11:00 am to 1:00 pm will be 10% off marked price. Presidential Lecture Series - Tony Kushner Tuesday, November 12th, 2013; 7:30 pm Donald W. Reynolds Center 3208 E. 8th St University of Tulsa Campus The University of Tulsa Presidential Lecture Series presents Pultizer-Prize winning playwright Tony Kushner. His critically acclaimed plays tackle some of today's most sensitive social issues such as HIV/AIDS, racism and capitalism. His most well known works include Angels in America, A Bright Room Called Day and Caroline, or Change. An Emmy Award winner and two-time Tony Award winner, Kushner is the recipient of a Pulitzer Prize for Drama. He has received an Oscar nomination and in 2008, became the first recipient of the Steinberg Distinguished Playwright Award, the largest theater award in the United Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays November 6th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... States. Presentations will begin at 7:30 p.m. Lectures are free and open to the public; no tickets or registrations are required. Two Step & Country Line Dance Wedding Announcement Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Congratulations from Oklahomans for Equality Jennifer Davenport and Dorothy Davenport were married at First Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in Des Moines, Iowa on Thursday October 17th, 2013. Associate Pastor Suzanne Stout officiated and several members of the congregation were in attendance. 'Tfii..f '»•y Jennifer and Dorothy's three youngest children attended, witnessed, gave their blessing and were also a part of the ceremony. l'W,ff'Morry 'J,fy :f,frnl, '/Tu. On~ I £o1191t'H 11tli l.itJ~ :for, 'Dr~am 'JV1tli, !,ov, Herland Retreat November 1st, 2nd & 3rd, 2013 Yoga A - Z Pickens Lake Eufeaula, OK Her/and The Retreats are Herland's only "womyn only" event held throughout the year. It is a place for women to sister resources feel safe and comfortable being in a womyn's space. Plan on having a fun and relaxing time at the Herland Retreat. You will meet lots of wonderful womyn and are sure to make a new friend or two while you are here. Call 405.550.2312 for more information or visit herlandsisters.org to register. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. A Selective, Opinionated, and Not Especially Academic Survey of Gay and Lesbian Literature Since the 1800s Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 3:00 pm Room MC 617 TCC Metro Campus 909 S Boston Ave A Selective, Opinionated, and Not Especially Academic Survey of Gay and Lesbian Literature Since the 1800s." Presented by Dr. Allen Culpepper, Assistant Professor of English,Tulsa Community College. Tuesday, October 29, 3:00 pm, Metro Campus Board Room, (Room MC 617). In connection with GLBT History Month. No cost. (Room capacity is limited, though.) RSVP to --------allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu by Oct. 27th, 2013. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis The OUT OK Film Festival opens in less than 4 weeks. Tune into www.out-ok.com for movie and ticket information and get your film-freak on! Catch FREE FALL on Saturday, Nov. 16th at 4:00 pm. Sex, lies, and deception: the life of a testosterone-fuelled police cadet. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. November 15th - 17th, 2013. Get ready for your close-up! Visit www.out-ok.com for movie titles and schedule. some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2012, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. }IISIORY .\Kl ~lH October 24th - Ma Rainey October 25th - Sally Ride October 26th - Marlon Riggs October 27th - Vito Russo October 28th - Jos� Sarria October 29th - George Takei October 30th - Jason Wu October 31st - John Lawrence & Tyron Garner To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Hiking in the Ozarks Saturday, October 26th, 2013; 8:00 am Fall color hike in Arkansas lead by Doyle Wilson and Sherlene Bunnell. The group will hike on Saturday October 26th, 2013. Come join as we head to Ponca, Arkansas in search of Fall. We will be hiking The Whitaker Point Trail to The Hawksbill Crag. The Hawksbill Crag, also known as Whitaker Point, is located along the northern edge of the Upper Buffalo Wilderness in the Ozark National Forest, just south of the Buffalo National River. Please dress weather/hiking appropriate. Bring water and snacks/ lunch for hike, and don't forget your camera. For more information or to RSVP, please call Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or visit the Facebook Event page. Next trip will be an Overnight Backpacking Adventure on the Buffalo River November 8th - 10th, 2013 For any questions about the Overnight Backpacking Adventure on the Buffalo River or for a list of thing you will need to bring you can email Sherlenne Bunnell at sherandkids@cox.net. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... Upcoming Events "Mr & Miss Harvest 2013 Pageant" Friday, November 1st, 2013 -10:00 pm @ TNT's (NO COVER) Open to anyone 21+ Mr. (Male Impersonation - Any male or female willing to perform as a male) and Miss (Female Impersonation - Any male or female willing to perform as a female). Any Legal Talent - Singers, Dancers, Musicians, Drag, Comedians. Partial proceeds for this pageant benefit - OkEq's SAGE Program For more information contact George or Rusty or email impcourtok@gmail.com "Military Ball" Saturday, November 9, 2013 Club Majestic Tulsa 9 - Close Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Doors open at 9 pm (21+ Only, NO Cover before 10:30 pm) NO Cover 21+ only Proceeds to Benefit - Disabled American Veteran Come dressed in your Military Uniforms or something to support your favorite branch of the Military. Bring plenty of money to purchase items from the silent auction or a 50/50 raffle ticket. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org For more information or to donate In-Kind Items for the Silent Auction contact King Father Scotty on the Court Facebook Page or email ICAO @ impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Brand new in the Pride Store, "Oklahomo" Long Sleeve Shirts. From sizes Small to 5 XL, Only $18 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013.. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items y Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Different Daughters: A Book by Mothers of Lesbians' By Louise Rafkin You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Coming out to mom is a lesbian rite of passage. In Different Daughters, thirty mothers of lesbians come together to trace their journeys towards acceptance of their daughters. Facing their fears and confusion, prejudice and misunderstandings, they speak honesty and bravely about the difficulties and joys of life with their "different daughters." Writing about families, community, religion, grandchildren, bisexuality, transgender issues, and coming out, the authors of Different Daughters raise questions shared by all mothers: How can we accept our children for who they are? How can we love our children even when they are different from us? Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 12 of 13 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:24 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/14e2f7efc53776423a7c05b413a9139a.pdf fad9281fe91e4c8b98d2e4864aa261ac PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... eNews October 31st, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Gamily Halloween Early Voting Medicare & ACA Welcome to the eNews. Happy Halloween! Make plans to Trick or Treat at the Equality Center with Gamily's Halloween celebration. Come by on tonight, October 31st from 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm for candy, games and prizes! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Threat Guys Dine Too First Thursday Art Immigration and DOMA Computer Boot Camp The eNews for the week of October 31st, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Sue Welch, McGraw Realtor Mindful Meditation Tulsa Metro Basketball OUTlaw Legal Series Sue Ellen Welch (918) 810-8156 Transgender Day of Remembrance Hiking in the Ozarks Homebuyer Workshop Within Our Reach SWelch@McGrawOK.com OUT OK Festival Bird of Paradise Tony Kushner Living Arts Imperial Court Gamily Halloween Spooktacular Thursday, October 31st, 2013; 6:00 pm Pumpkins, goodies and creepy crawlies. Come join Gamily on Thursday, October 31st from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm for a spooktacular Halloween celebration. There will be arts & crafts, candy galore and a costume contest. Feel free to invite your friends and family. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org or OkEq's Gamily Facebook page. Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 21st, 7:00 pm Keith and Andrew with family Trick or Treat at OkEq Halloween 2012 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org. November 12th Special Election Early Voting Thursday, November 7th & Friday, November 8th; 8:00 am - 6:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper Yes! You can vote early at the County Election Board office in Tulsa county if you are registered to vote. Early Voting at the Tulsa County Election Board 555 N Denver Ave November 12th Special Elections Important dates: • Last time to request absentee ballot - November 6th, 5:00 pm • Early voting - Thursday, November 7th, 8:00 am - 6:00 pm & Friday, November 8th, 8:00 am - 6:00 pm Counseling Services Medicare Supplements Made Easy & the Affordable Care Act Wednesday, November 6th, 2013; 6:30 pm Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) and former OKEQ Board member will be presenting information on Medicare Supplements and valuable information on where you can get the most value for your MONEY. Do you find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you feel you are paying too much money? Are your medications too expensive? Are you on a fixed income? You cannot afford to miss this event. Also on hand will be Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following day: Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org November 9th, 2013 All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook Guys Dine Too Tuesday, November 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Maxxwell's Restaurant Tuesday, November 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Maxxwell's Restaurant is located inside the Campbell Hotel at 2636 E 11th Street, on the west end of the hotel. Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending so that the restaurant may have an accurate head count. First Thursday Art Reception Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org - Thursday, November 7th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Tai Chi Class The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 7th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Immigration and DOMA: Where do we go from here? Monday, November 11th, 2013 7:00 pm Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Chris Bell, YWCA Immigration Attorney, speaks on the implications of the Supreme Court's repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act for immigrants, especially those who have a same-sex partner who is a U.S. citizen. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org First Tuesday (November 5th) of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday (November 9th) of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm I The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones • • ' . Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Mindful Meditation Every Wednesday at 6:00 pm Science has proven the efficacy of Mindfulness Meditation in reducing blood pressure, improving the quality of sleep, improving memory and reducing other effects of aging, as well as helping us deal with the level of stress in our lives. In this class we will learn various techniques that lead to mindfulness. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The class will start with short sessions and gradually increase them. Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful techniques and practice them with us. Please bring your own cushion (zafu). You may also find it helpful to bring something to pad your ankles as well. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:00 pm 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:00 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... JUST GENDER pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The screening will cost $6.00 and the film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local transgender activists. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Contact mary.jones@okeq.org for more information. Everyone is invited to come and participate. Overnight Backpacking Adventure on the Buffalo River November 8th - 10th, 2013 For any questions about the Overnight Backpacking Adventure on the Buffalo River or for a list of thing you will need to bring you can email Sherlenne Bunnell at sherandkids@cox.net. Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28th, 2013; 12:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Special music and entertainment will accompany the meal. Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. Lunch provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Whole Foods Tulsa Open Table, UCC . --- Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays November 6th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:25 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Homebuyer Education Workshop Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (EverBank Home Lending). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Within Our Reach - Relationship Workshop Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Family & Children's Services will provide a FREE relationship workshop on Saturday, November 16th, 2013 at 1:00 pm. Build on existing relationship strengths and learn skills to create safe and stable partner relationships. In addition, you'll learn how to: • Communicate effectively • Work as a team to solve problems • Manage conflicts without damaging closeness • Preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship For more information or to pre-register, contact Mary at 918.743.4297 or mary.jones@okeq.org OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 ( t(•t.~':._.iJI' rn Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 6:30 pm ,.. Boot Camp ~I �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis The OUT OK Film Festival opens in less than 3 weeks. Tune into www.out-ok.com for movie and ticket information and get your film-freak on! Your OUT OK VIP PASS will send you over the moon on November 15, 16, 17. OUT OK, The Oklahoma GLBT Film Festival returns with a collection of first-run, award-winning films. Don't miss REACHING FOR THE MOON. 2 iconic women, 1 unforgettable story. Go to www.outok.com for movie times and ticket info or philip_au@att.net Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Yoga A - Z Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. November 15th - 17th, 2013. Get ready for your close-up! Visit www.out-ok.com for movie titles and schedule. Bird of Paradise Book Signing w/ author G.J. Paterson Tuesday, November 19th, 2013; 7:00 pm Author G.J. Paterson will be at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a book signing of the newly published novel, "Bird of Paradise". The signing will be on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Available on October 31st, "Birds of Prey" may be purchased from www.gjpaterson.com or Amazon.com for $23.95. Copies of the book will be available for sale on the night of the signing for 10% off. G.J. Paterson is a pen name for Gloria Galasso and her partner Patricia Paterson. Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Presidential Lecture Series - Tony Kushner Tuesday, November 12th, 2013; 7:30 pm Donald W. Reynolds Center 3208 E. 8th St University of Tulsa Campus The University of Tulsa Presidential Lecture Series presents Pultizer-Prize winning playwright Tony Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Kushner. His critically acclaimed plays tackle some of today's most sensitive social issues such as HIV/AIDS, racism and capitalism. His most well known works include Angels in America, A Bright Room Called Day and Caroline, or Change. An Emmy Award winner and two-time Tony Award winner, Kushner is the recipient of a Pulitzer Prize for Drama. He has received an Oscar nomination and in 2008, became the first recipient of the Steinberg Distinguished Playwright Award, the largest theater award in the United States. some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Presentations will begin at 7:30 p.m. Lectures are free and open to the public; no tickets or registrations are required. Champagne and Chocolate Gala presented by Living Arts Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 7:00 pm Living Art Space 307 East Brady LIVING~ARTS Living Arts of Tulsa presents the "19th Annual Champagne and Chocolate Fundraising Gala" at the Living Art Space, 307 East Brady, in downtown Tulsa, featuring the works of 100 of the best artists from Oklahoma and beyond. $35 advance or $40 at the door. Saturday, November 16th, 2013 7:00 - 10:00 PM ~ -±........ CHAMPAGNE ANO CHOCOLATE Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet For more information call 918.585.1234 or visit livingarts.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events "Mr & Miss Harvest 2013 Pageant" Friday, November 1st, 2013 -10:00 pm @ TNT's (NO COVER) Open to anyone 21+ Mr. (Male Impersonation - Any male or female willing to perform as a male) and Miss (Female Impersonation - Any male or female willing to perform as a female). Any Legal Talent - Singers, Dancers, Musicians, Drag, Comedians. Partial proceeds for this pageant benefit - OkEq's SAGE Program For more information contact George or Rusty or email impcourtok@gmail.com Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... "Military Ball" Saturday, November 9, 2013 Club Majestic Tulsa 9 - Close Doors open at 9 pm (21+ Only, NO Cover before 10:30 pm) NO Cover 21+ only Proceeds to Benefit - Disabled American Veteran Come dressed in your Military Uniforms or something to support your favorite branch of the Military. Bring plenty of money to purchase items from the silent auction or a 50/50 raffle ticket. For more information or to donate In-Kind Items for the Silent Auction contact King Father Scotty on the Court Facebook Page or email ICAO @ impcourtok@gmail.com EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Dissertation Research on Transgender Microaggressions This study is being done with an online survey that takes about 10-20 minutes. This research has been approved by the University of the Rockies Internal Review Board, approval number 13-020-C. The study intends to be trans-affirmative, and will refrain from asking personal questions regarding your health. In respect of your privacy, no questions will be asked about your health history regarding your surgical, hormonal or other gender realignment procedures you may have had. http://fluidsurveys.com/s/Therapy-experiences-trans/ Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, "Oklahomo" Long Sleeve Shirts. From sizes Small to 5 XL, Only $18 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Is It a Date or Just Coffee?: The Gay Girl's Guide to Dating, Sex and Romance' By Mo Brownsey You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center What are the ten telltale signs that date #2 will take place in hell? Is it better to bounce than to break? How do you navigate the squiggly line between exlover and now friends? Is it a date or just coffee? For women struggling to understand the nongirlfriend-girlfriend's refusal to bear any semblance to sanity, logic, or good manners, this nuts-and-bolts guide is the answer. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- // JUST COFFEE? Understanding that love involves equal parts romance, lust, and neuroses, Mo Brownsey will guide you through the mysteries of amour, whether by helping you figure out what is wrong with the people you have been dating, helping you find people you should be dating, showing you how to craft a personal ad designed to entice babes but repel psyche-sucking wackos, or describing ten surefire ways to avoid Lesbian Bed Death. Equally wise and witty, Is It a Date or Just Coffee? will have you navigating the minefield of romance (including the horrors of Internet dating) as if you were soldier of passion. Whether you are single, dating, married, or not sure which, this is the book for you! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... • ~ . Vo1unt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:25 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/87dbbdaad65e96cdadf61714789c02ba.pdf a40b97081038c202f6a351251680d634 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... eNews November 5th, 2013 In This Issue • OkEq Programming -- - - - Note EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice Early Voting Welcome to the eNews. Do you have questions about Medicare or the Affordable Care Act? Come by on Wednesday, November 6th at 6:30 pm for an informative presentation. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Medicare & ACA First Thursday Art Immigration and DOMA Equality Business Alliance Tulsa Metro Basketball OkEq Programming Note Tulsa Threat Self Defense Class on Tuesday, November 5th and Tai Chi Class on Sunday, November 10th, have been canceled. The eNews for the week of November 5th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO OUTlaw Legal Series Transgender Day of Remembrance Come Home for Thanksgiving Say No to Hate Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com OUT OK Festival Mindful Meditation Hiking in the Ozarks Homebuyer Workshop Within Our Reach 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Computer Boot Camp Bird of Paradise Be Our Voice, Give a Day For Veteran's Day on Monday, November 11th, in honor of LGBT service members and veterans, a donation has been made to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Tony Kushner The Bible, Homosexuality and Catholicism Living Arts Imperial Court Trans Microaggressions Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer and the Equality Center LGBT Hotline will be sponsored for the week of November 10th - 16th, 2013 Find Us on Facebook Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign ------------ --- - 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... November 12th Special Election Early Voting Thursday, November 7th & Friday, November 8th; 8:00 am - 6:00 pm Yes! You can vote early at the County Election Board office in Tulsa county if you are registered to vote. Early Voting at the Tulsa County Election Board 555 N Denver Ave ~ November 12th Special Elections Important dates: • Last time to request absentee ballot - November 6th, 5:00 pm • Early voting - Thursday, November 7th, 8:00 am - 6:00 pm & Friday, November 8th, 8:00 am - 6:00 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 21st, 7:00 pm Medicare Supplements Made Easy & the Affordable Care Act Wednesday, November 6th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) and former OkEq Board member will be presenting information on Medicare Supplements and valuable information on where you can get the most value for your MONEY. Do you find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you feel you are paying too much money? Are your medications too expensive? Are you on a fixed income? You cannot afford to miss this event. Also on hand will be Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. OkEq Art Exhibit The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, November 7th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Counseling Services The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper, in a show Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 7th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Immigration and DOMA: Where do we go from here? Monday, November 11th, 2013 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Chris Bell, YWCA Immigration Attorney, speaks on the implications of the Supreme Court's repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act for immigrants, especially those who have a same-sex partner who is a U.S. citizen. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Drillers at ONEOK Field, 201 N Elgin Ave. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org ONEOK Field 201 N Elgin Ave Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following day: Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org November 9th, 2013 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:00 pm 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:00 pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The JUST GENDER screening will cost $6.00 and the film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local transgender activists. Click here for online ticket purchase. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. Tai Chi Class Resumes November 17th Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org < ' Contact mary.jones@okeq.org for more information. Everyone is invited to come and participate. Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28th, 2013; 12:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Special music and entertainment will accompany the meal. Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - - - or visit our Facebook Event Page I • . Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. Lunch provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Whole Foods Tulsa Open Table, UCC Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Say No to Hate Coalition 25th Anniversary Wednesday, November 13th, 2013; 11:30 pm Tulsa Press Club 415 S Boston Ave Atlas Life Building Join in for the 25th Anniversary Celebration of the SAY NO TO HATE COALITION. Help continue to protect Tulsa from bigotry, racism and oppression by joining in for this celebration of unity and courage. Join in for a Dutch treat lunch for $12.00 and help affirm the value of SAY NO TO HATE to the community. Seating is limited. For more information or to RSVP, visit here. Lunch will be at the Tulsa Press Club, 415 S Boston Ave, from 11:30 am to 1:15 pm. A Press Conference will follow at 1:30 pm. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis The OUT OK Film Festival opens in less than 3 weeks. Tune into www.out-ok.com for movie and ticket information and get your film-freak on! Your OUT OK VIP PASS will send you over the moon on November 15, 16, 17. OUT OK, The Oklahoma GLBT Film Festival returns with a collection of first-run, award-winning films. Invite your GBFs, BFFs, BFs, GFs, FBs. You don't want to miss any of the award-winning films like GBF because "Being out has never been so in". Go to www.out-ok.com for movie times and ticket info or philip_au@att.net Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. November 15th - 17th, 2013. Get ready for your close-up! 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Visit www.out-ok.com for movie titles and schedule. Mindful Meditation Every Wednesday at 6:00 pm Science has proven the efficacy of Mindfulness Meditation in reducing blood pressure, improving the quality of sleep, improving memory and reducing other effects of aging, as well as helping us deal with the level of stress in our lives. In this class we will learn various techniques that lead to mindfulness. The class will start with short sessions and gradually increase them. Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful techniques and practice them with us. Please bring your own cushion (zafu). You may also find it helpful to bring something to pad your ankles as well. Self Defense Class Resumes November 12th Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Overnight Backpacking Adventure on the Buffalo River November 8th - 10th, 2013 Lead by Sherlenne Bunnell and Doyle Wilson, join an overnight backpacking adventure along the Buffalo River in Arkansas. for any questions about the Overnight Backpacking Adventure on the Buffalo River or for a list of things you will need to bring, please email Sherlenne Bunnell at sherandkids@cox.net. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Homebuyer Education Workshop Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays November 6th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:27 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, November 14th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (EverBank Home Lending). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Within Our Reach - Relationship Workshop Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Family & Children's Services will provide a FREE relationship workshop on Saturday, November 16th, 2013 at 1:00 pm. Build on existing relationship strengths and learn skills to create safe and stable partner relationships. In addition, you'll learn how to: ( t(•t.~':._.iJI' rn • Communicate effectively • Work as a team to solve problems • Manage conflicts without damaging closeness • Preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship For more information or to pre-register, contact Mary at 918.743.4297 or mary.jones@okeq.org New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First Tuesday (November 5th) of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday (November 9th) of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: . --- ,.. ~I �Firefox 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201.. Two Step & Country Line Dance Bird of Paradise Book Signing w/ author G.J. Paterson Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tuesday, November 19th, 2013; 7:00 pm ~ Author G.J. Paterson will be at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a book signing of the newly published novel, "Bird of Paradise". The signing will be on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Available on October 31st, "Birds of Prey" may be purchased from www.gjpaterson.com or Amazon.com for $23.95. Copies of the book will be available for sale on the night of the signing for 10% off. G.J. Paterson is a pen name for Gloria Galasso and her partner Patricia Paterson. PJ.Ifl JO :J~IPPJPd Yoga A - Z UOSJ:IJ.Dd ·rr, Presidential Lecture Series - Tony Kushner Tuesday, November 12th, 2013; 7:30 pm Donald W. Reynolds Center 3208 E. 8th St University of Tulsa Campus The University of Tulsa Presidential Lecture Series presents Pultizer-Prize winning playwright Tony Kushner. His critically acclaimed plays tackle some of today's most sensitive social issues such as HIV/AIDS, racism and capitalism. His most well known works include Angels in America, A Bright Room Called Day and Caroline, or Change. Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm An Emmy Award winner and two-time Tony Award winner, Kushner is the recipient of a Pulitzer Prize for Drama. He has received an Oscar nomination and in 2008, became the first recipient of the Steinberg Distinguished Playwright Award, the largest theater award in the United States. Presentations will begin at 7:30 p.m. Lectures are free and open to the public; no tickets or registrations are required. The Bible, Homosexuality and Catholicism Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 10:00 am - 2:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play St Jerome Parish of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion 8 of 12 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... 205 West King St. Tulsa, OK 74106 Experience real stories from people who have wrestled with family, faith, ministry and relationships complicated by issues of sexual orientation stories of doubt, pain, healing and acceptance told in a forum that is respectful and open to all. Roman Catholic teaching will be reviewed, with a compassionate alternative perspective presented. The documentary film "For the Bible Tells Me So" will also be shown. some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Does much of the Church's homophobia come from a misreading of scripture, a denial of science and an embrace of quack psychology? The film calls for love, acceptance, and inclusion... All are welcome. Doors will open at 9:15 am. Admission is Free. Lunch will be provided. Call 918-582-3088 to RSVP or for more information. Champagne and Chocolate Gala presented by Living Arts Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 7:00 pm Living Art Space 307 East Brady LIVING~ARTS Living Arts of Tulsa presents the "19th Annual Champagne and Chocolate Fundraising Gala" at the Living Art Space, 307 East Brady, in downtown Tulsa, featuring the works of 100 of the best artists from Oklahoma and beyond. $35 advance or $40 at the door. Saturday, November 16th, 2013 7:00 - 10:00 PM -Y - "'}.v CHAMPAGNE Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet AND CH OCOLATE For more information call 918.585.1234 or visit livingarts.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events "Military Ball" Saturday, November 9, 2013 Club Majestic Tulsa 9 pm - Close Doors open at 9 pm (21+ Only, NO Cover before 10:30 pm) Proceeds to Benefit - Disabled American Veteran Come dressed in your Military Uniforms or something to support your favorite branch of the Military. Bring plenty of money to purchase items from the silent auction or a 50/50 raffle ticket. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org For more information or to donate In-Kind Items for the Silent Auction contact King Father Scotty on the Court Facebook Page or email ICAO @ impcourtok@gmail.com 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... 6th Annual "Hearing Voices" Show Saturday, November 27th, 2013 Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm (21+ No Cover) Come hear some of the best local vocalist and help start off the Thanksgiving/Chanukah Holiday Season. Partial Proceeds benefit - H.O.P.E. Testing EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Dissertation Research on Transgender Microaggressions This study is being done with an online survey that takes about 10-20 minutes. This research has been approved by the University of the Rockies Internal Review Board, approval number 13-020-C. The study intends to be trans-affirmative, and will refrain from asking personal questions regarding your health. In respect of your privacy, no questions will be asked about your health history regarding your surgical, hormonal or other gender realignment procedures you may have had. http://fluidsurveys.com/s/Therapy-experiences-trans/ Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, "Oklahomo" Long Sleeve Shirts. From sizes Small to 5 XL, Only $18 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Endangered Species By Louis Baynard You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Broome family is facing an uncertain future; however no one but youngest son Nick seems to notice. Driven by an inexplicable but driving certainty that they are on the brink of extinction, Nick vows to bring a child into the world by whatever means necessary. The problem? Nick is gay. The brave new world of parenting is explored as never before in Louis Bayard's new novel, which is full of the dry wit, snaking plot turns, and vivid, well-rounded characters that earned raves and fans for his first novel, Fool's Errand. Nick's quest for a surrogate mother will draw him to schizophrenics, Hispanic immigrants, body-pierced teenagers, female escorts, a God-fearing phlebotomist, an itinerant matchmaker, and an unbalanced but irrepressible young woman named Nattie, who ultimately may provide what he is seeking in the way he least expected. Alternately moving and very, very funny, Nick Broome's quest to leave a mark on the world drives straight to the heart of the evolving nature of love and family. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... ...... •• ••• • ... •••~ .. Volunt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:27 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5dfbee23fb185e3b970c699d2aa5f40b.pdf b5999e99cf6bf009187a4ab455bc50d8 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... eNews November 14th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice OUTlaw Legal Series Homebuyer Workshop Welcome to the eNews. The OUT OK Film Festival returns this weekend for 3 days full of acclaimed films at Circle Cinema, 10 S Lewis. For the full schedule of films and to purchase your weekend pass, visit www.out-ok.com. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of November 14th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Within Our Reach OUT OK Festival Transgender Day of Remembrance Tulsa Metro Basketball Equality Business Alliance Come Home for Thanksgiving First Thursday Art Show SAGE Tulsa Holiday Party Fairy Tree RENT Bird of Paradise SAGE Tulsa Holiday Tour Gamily Christmas Council Oak Mens Chorale Sisters in Song PFLAG Holiday DInner Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article Be Our Voice, Give a Day For Veteran's Day on Monday, November 11th, in honor of LGBT service members and veterans, a donation has been made to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article Find Us on Facebook and the Equality Center LGBT Hotline will be sponsored for the week of November 10th - 16th, 2013 Click here to commemorate a special day with 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. November's Topic: The effect of the Supreme Court's DOMA decision on employers and employee benefits. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 21st, 7:00 pm Homebuyer Education Workshop Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, November 14th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (EverBank Home Lending). OkEq Art Exhibit The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Within Our Reach - Relationship Workshop Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 1:00 pm Counseling Services Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Family & Children's Services will provide a FREE relationship workshop on Saturday, November 16th, 2013 at 1:00 pm. Build on existing relationship strengths and learn skills to create safe and stable partner relationships. In addition, you'll learn how to: • Communicate effectively • Work as a team to solve problems • Manage conflicts without damaging closeness • Preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship For more information or to pre-register, contact Mary at 918.743.4297 or mary.jones@okeq.org 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Counseling Services Circle Cinema 10 South Lewis Ave OUT OK opens this Friday, November 15th at 7:00 pm at the Circle Cinema with GETTING GO. A not so classic classic love story of boy meets go-go boy. See some great movies and meet some old and new friends. Net proceeds benefit OkEq and The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Go to www.out-ok.com for movie times and ticket info or philip_au@att.net Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. November 15th - 17th, 2013. Get ready for your close-up! Visit www.out-ok.com for movie titles and schedule. 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:00 pm Circle Cinema 10 South Lewis Ave JUST GENDER On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:00 pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The screening will cost $6.00 and the film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local transgender activists. Click here for online ticket purchase. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Contact mary.jones@okeq.org for more information. Everyone is invited to come and participate. 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Drillers at ONEOK Field, 201 N Elgin Ave. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. ONEOK Field 201 N Elgin Ave Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28th, 2013; 12:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Special music and entertainment will accompany the meal. Tai Chi Class Resumes November 17th Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Eastside Christian Church Whole Foods Tulsa Open Table, UCC University United Methodist Church First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, December 5th, 2013; 6:00 pm The December Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb and Ann Shannon, in a show titled "Wild by Nature" beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 5th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa Holiday Party Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013; 10:00 am sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders SAGE Tulsa will host a Holiday party at on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013 at 10:00 am. Brunch will be served. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org is you would like to attend. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree will be set up on Friday November 15th for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a needy recipient. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 15th. Computer Boot Camp First Tuesday (Dec 3rd) 3:00 - 5:00 pm (Dec 14th) Second Saturday 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. BTW presents: RENT School Edition! November 22nd - 24th, 2013; 7:00 pm SAGE Tulsa 1514 E Zion Street Tulsa, OK 74106 (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) The Booker T. Washington Foundation for Excellence and BTW Hornet Musical Theatre is proud to present a first for high school musical theatre in Oklahoma, RENT School Edition! The Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Pulitzer prize winning musical will open in the Ellis Walker Woods Auditorium the week before Thanksgiving. Preview: Tuesday 11-19-13 @ 6:30pm Wednesday 11-20-13 @ 7:00 pm Thursday 11-21-13 @ 7:00 pm Friday 11-22-13 @ 7:00 pm Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Bird of Paradise Book Signing w/ author G.J. Paterson Tuesday, November 19th, 2013; 7:00 pm Author G.J. Paterson will be at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a book signing of the newly published novel, "Bird of Paradise". The signing will be on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Available on October 31st, "Birds of Prey" may be purchased from www.gjpaterson.com or Amazon.com for $23.95. Copies of the book will be available for sale on the night of the signing for 10% off. G.J. Paterson is a pen name for Gloria Galasso and her partner Patricia Paterson. SAGE Tulsa Holiday Light Tour Tuesday, December 17th, 2013; 5:30 pm Please join the SAGE Tulsa group for the 1st Annual trolley Holiday Light tour of Tulsa. SAGE Tulsa will head out on the town to tour the sights and the lights of the Holiday season. A 2 hour tour of sightseeing from The Old Urban Trolley with hot chocolate and Christmas carols in abundance. The group will meet at The Garden Trug at 3009 E. 101st Street between 4:30 and 5:30 pm for a Holiday party before the trolley tour at 6:00 pm. Peole who wish to carpool to the Garden Trug may meet at the Equality Center by 4:00 pm. A small charge of $10 person for the tour. Don your "GAY" apparel and sing a carol or two with friends and "FAMILY". RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. sage , Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexua l & Transgender Elders 3009 E. 101st Street Tulsa, OK 74137 Swing Dance Class Tuesdays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 GAMILY Christmas Party Sunday, December 15th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center What are the best gifts around any Christmas tree? The presence of a happy family all wrapped up in each other. Gamily invites you to come eat, play and be merry at Gamily's Christmas Party at the Equality Center on Sunday, December 15th, 2013 from 2:00 - 6:00 pm. The main dish will be provided by Oklahomans for Equality and Gamily is asking each family to bring a side dish or salad. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook or at Gamily@OkEq.org. Resumes November 12th Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season Tuesday, December 3rd and Friday, December 6th, 2013; 8:00 pm 15th Annual Winter Season GABRIEL, BLOW YOUR HORN! ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Tuesday, December 3rd and Friday, December 6th, 2013 Lorton Performance Center - Gussman Concert Hall council oak Council Oak Mens Chorale's 15th winter season, councll oak mens chorols entitled Gabriel, Blow Your Horn! presented by the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale, with guest artist Kyle Maxwell, trombone. The concert features holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria (Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. Returning as guests to conduct this concert will be former artistic directors Rick Fortner, Andre Martin and Elizabeth Curtis. Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information. Sisters in Song 'Hope Peace Joy' Saturday, December 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Hope Peace Joy 2013, Featuring Artistic Team: Director and Harpist Linda Barton Paul and Accompanist Kathryn Cox, with special guest Pianist Teresa Petray. 7:00 pm Saturday December 14th, 2013 at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Admission is $10, Children under 12 are free. Mindful Meditation Wednesdays 6:00 pm Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful meditation techniques and practice them with us. Facilitated by Gloria Galasso Find Sisters in Song on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Sisters in Song begin preparation for their Gala Concert in February 2014. Music and practice CD's will be provided. All rehearsals are at Fellowship Congregational Church at 27th and Harvard, on the west side, and all rehearsals begin at 6:30 PM. Call Linda Paul at 918.629.7259 to reserve your seat and music for your first rehearsal! 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Join the first rehearsals on the following dates: Soprano Section - November 12th Full choir - November 19th Hiatus until January 7th - then every Tuesday night through the February 22nd Performance PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Dinner Friday, December 13th, 2013; 6:30 pm Boot Camp Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please join us for the annual PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Potluck Dinner. PFLAG will provide the meat and drinks and we encourage you to bring vegetable side dishes and desserts. Friday, December 13th at 6:30 pm. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. PFLAG TULSACHA: Gift Wrappers for PFLAG Needed Book wrapping for billboards! Every year between Thanksgiving and Christmas, volunteers participate in wrapping books for tips in Barnes & Noble at Southroads Shopping Center in Tulsa, OK. Proceeds go toward renting billboard space throughout metro Tulsa during LGBT Pride month in June. To volunteer, send your name and phone number pflagtulsa@yahoo.com Gender Outreach to: The Bible, Homosexuality and Catholicism Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 10:00 am - 2:00 pm St Jerome Parish of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion 205 West King St. Tulsa, OK 74106 Experience real stories from people who have wrestled with family, faith, ministry and relationships complicated by issues of sexual orientation - stories of doubt, pain, healing and acceptance told in a forum that is respectful and open to all. Roman Catholic teaching will be reviewed, with a compassionate alternative perspective presented. The documentary film "For the Bible Tells Me So" will also be shown. Does much of the Church's homophobia come from a misreading of scripture, a denial of science and an embrace of quack psychology? The film calls for love, acceptance, and inclusion... All are welcome. Doors will open at 9:15 am. Admission is Free. Lunch will be provided. Call 918-582-3088 to RSVP or for more information. Champagne and Chocolate Gala presented by Living Arts Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 7:00 pm Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: == Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays November 20th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Living Art Space 307 East Brady LIVING~ARTS Two Step & Country Line Dance Living Arts of Tulsa presents the "19th Annual Champagne and Chocolate Fundraising Gala" at the Living Art Space, 307 East Brady, in downtown Tulsa, featuring the works of 100 of the best artists from Oklahoma and beyond. $35 advance or $40 at the door. Saturday, November 16th, 2013 7:00 - 10:00 PM - ..,. "} .v CHAMPAGNE AND CHOCOLATE For more information call 918.585.1234 or visit livingarts.org Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Yoga A - Z 6th Annual "Hearing Voices" Show Saturday, November 27th, 2013 Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm (21+ No Cover) Come hear some of the best local vocalist and help start off the Thanksgiving/Chanukah Holiday Season. Partial Proceeds benefit - H.O.P.E. Testing Resumes Nov. 22nd Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Don We Now Our "GAY" Apparel The Pride Store is fully stocked with fabulous items for your holiday decorations. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Things My Mother Should Have Told Me Before I Had My Manhood Removed' by Rachel Love You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Experiences and perspectives on equality from a first hand account. This book answers the question "Are women really treated that much different than men at work, home and in the bedroom"? This account of my life as a transsexual will take the sheets of this question. RACHEL LOVE Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet M Journe1' from Richard to Rachel Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:28 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4575afb737d6230281207782dc7162f0.pdf fe3a898c01bfbf36531a6673ba2b135b PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... eNews November 20th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice Transgender Day of Remembrance Welcome to the eNews. OkEq will serve a Thanksgiving meal on Thursday, November 28th, 2013 at Noon. RSVP today to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or sign up on the Facebook Event Page. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of November 20th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Tulsa Metro Basketball Equality Business Alliance Come Home for Thanksgiving First Thursday Art Show SAGE Tulsa Holiday Party Fairy Tree ACA Assistance OUTlaw Legal Series Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK EBA Sponsor RENT SAGE Tulsa Holiday Tour Gamily Christmas Flapjack Fundraiser Council Oak Mens Chorale Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their one year anniversary, Rose Padgett and Michael Potts have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign FALALALA Ball Sisters in Song Sexuality Spectrum PFLAG Holiday DInner Gift Wrappers Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook and are sponsoring the Equality Center on the day of Saturday, November 23rd, 2013 Thank you and congrats, Rose and Michael! Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:00 pm Circle Cinema 10 South Lewis Ave JUST GENDER OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 21st, 7:00 pm On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:00 pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The screening will cost $6.00 and the film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local transgender activists. Click here for online ticket purchase. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. OkEq Art Exhibit Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Drillers at ONEOK Field, 201 N Elgin Ave. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. ONEOK Field 201 N Elgin Ave Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28th, 2013; 12:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Special music and entertainment will accompany the meal. 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Whole Foods Tulsa Open Table, UCC University United Methodist Church First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, December 5th, 2013; 6:00 pm Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org The December Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb and Ann Shannon, in a show titled "Wild by Nature" beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 5th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. SAGE Tulsa Holiday Party Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013; 10:00 am sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, lcsb1tln, Bisexual &. Tramgcndrr Eldrrs SAGE Tulsa will host a Holiday party at on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013 at 10:00 am. Brunch will be served. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org is you would like to attend. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org World AIDS Day Commemoration Sunday, December 1st, 2013; 6:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Facebook Event Page Please join in for Tulsa's World AIDS Day commemoration. Please note that this is an interfaith service of prayers, reflections, songs, and ritual. The service will have a brief time to remember those who have died as a result of HIV/AIDS infection, as well as reflections from those living with HIV/AIDS and/or helping to prevent further infection. There will be a reception following the service. Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a needy recipient. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 15th. Affordable Health Care Act Assistance Tai Chi Class Resumes November 17th Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, December 12th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well The eNews for the week of November 20th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather BTW presents: RENT School Edition! November 22nd - 24th, 2013; 7:00 pm 1514 E Zion Street Tulsa, OK 74106 The Booker T. Washington Foundation for Excellence and BTW Hornet Musical Theatre is proud to present a first for high school musical theatre in Oklahoma, RENT School Edition! The Pulitzer prize winning musical will open in the Ellis Walker Woods Auditorium the week before Thanksgiving. Preview: Tuesday 11-19-13 @ 6:30pm Wednesday 11-20-13 @ 7:00 pm Thursday 11-21-13 @ 7:00 pm Friday 11-22-13 @ 7:00 pm SAGE Tulsa Holiday Light Tour Computer Boot Camp First Tuesday (Dec 3rd) 3:00 - 5:00 pm (Dec 14th) Second Saturday 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Tuesday, December 17th, 2013; 5:30 pm Please join the SAGE Tulsa group for the 1st Annual trolley Holiday Light tour of Tulsa. SAGE Tulsa will head out on the town to tour the sights and the lights of the Holiday season. A 2 hour tour of sightseeing from The Old Urban Trolley with hot chocolate and Christmas carols in abundance. The group will meet at The Garden Trug at 3009 E. 101st Street between 4:30 and 5:30 pm for a Holiday party before the trolley tour at 6:00 pm. Peole who wish to carpool to the Garden Trug may meet at the Equality Center by 4:00 pm. A small charge of $10 person for the tour. Don your "GAY" apparel and sing a carol or two with friends and "FAMILY". RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. sage , Service, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexua l & Tran,gender Elder, SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Facilitated by John Madigan sagew 3009 E. 101st Street Tulsa, OK 74137 Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders GAMILY Holiday Party Sunday, December 15th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gamily invites you to come eat, play and be merry at Gamily's Holiday Party at the Equality Center on Sunday, December 15th, 2013 from 2:00 - 6:00 pm. The main dish will be provided by Oklahomans for Equality and Gamily is asking each family to bring a side dish or salad. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook or at Gamily@OkEq.org. Applebee's Flapjack Fundraiser for Council Oak Mens Chorale Saturday, November 23rd, 2013; 7:30 am Swing Dance Class Tuesdays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Applebee's Neighborhood Grill When: Saturday, November 23, 7:30 am - 10:00 am Where: 9409 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK Cost: $7.00 per person, also serving $3.00 Mimosas All proceeds benefit Council Oak Men's Chorale Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season Tuesday, December 3rd and Friday, December 6th, 2013; 8:00 pm CUN ll OAK MN S ~l:RA f PlfSf~IS Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 CHEBIATIIG flFTHI HAR~ ~f ~~H[Rl~ 15th Annual Winter Season GABRIEL, COME BLOW YOUR HORN! Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Tuesday, December 3rd and Friday, December 6th, 2013 Lorton Performance Center - Gussman Concert Hall Council Oak Mens Chorale's 15th winter season, entitled Gabriel, Blow Your Horn! presented by the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale, with guest artist Kyle Maxwell, trombone. The concert features holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria (Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. Returning as guests to conduct this concert will be former artistic directors Rick Fortner, Andre Martin and Elizabeth Curtis. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information. 6th Annual Falalala Ball Resumes November 12th Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Saturday, December 21st, 2013; 7:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Don your gay apparel and join us for the 6th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 21st, 2013 at 7:00 PLEASE pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live DEFINE entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash NAUGHTY bar and light hor d'oeuvres. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries for Our House Too, or non perishable food items for St Jerome Church Food Pantry. Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Sisters in Song 'Hope Peace Joy' Saturday, December 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Hope Peace Joy 2013, Featuring Artistic Team: Director and Harpist Linda Barton Paul and Accompanist Kathryn Cox, with special guest Pianist Teresa Petray. 7:00 pm Saturday December 14th, 2013 at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Admission is $10, Children under 12 are free. Find Sisters in Song on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us The Sexuality Spectrum Opening Reception Thursday, December 19th, 2013; 5:00 - 7:00 pm Mindful Meditation Wednesdays 6:00 pm Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful meditation techniques and practice them with us. Facilitated by Gloria Galasso The Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Arts 2021 East 71st St Tulsa, OK 74136 The Sexuality Spectrum offers a groundbreaking exploration of sexual orientation through the creativity of over fifty international contemporary artists. Artists including Judy Chicago, Joan Snyder, Arthur Tress, Archie Rand, Albert Winn, Trix Rosen, Joan Roth and Mark Podwal explore a broad range of subjects: the evolving social and religious attitudes toward 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... sexuality; issues of alienation, marginalization, and inclusion; the impact on the family, child-rearing, and life stages; violence and persecution; AIDS/HIV; and the influence of the LGBTQI community on the Jewish and larger world. jewishmuseum.net Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Dinner Friday, December 13th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please join us for the annual PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Potluck Dinner. PFLAG will provide the meat and drinks and we encourage you to bring vegetable side dishes and desserts. Friday, December 13th at 6:30 pm. PFLAG Gender Outreach TULSA CHA Gift Wrappers for PFLAG Needed Book wrapping for billboards! Every year between Thanksgiving and Christmas, volunteers participate in wrapping books for tips in Barnes & Noble at Southroads Shopping Center in Tulsa, OK. Proceeds go toward renting billboard space throughout metro Tulsa during LGBT Pride month in June. To volunteer, send your name and phone number pflagtulsa@yahoo.com to: Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: == Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Rainbow Writers 6th Annual "Hearing Voices" Show Saturday, November 27th, 2013 Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm (21+ No Cover) Come hear some of the best local vocalist and help start off the Thanksgiving/Chanukah Holiday Season. Partial Proceeds benefit - H.O.P.E. Testing 1st and 3rd Wednesdays December 4th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Two Step & Country Line Dance Equality Center Pride Store Don We Now Our "GAY" Apparel The Pride Store is fully stocked with fabulous items for your holiday decorations. Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Yoga A - Z Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Note to Adam; One Mother's Struggle to Cope with Suicide and Her Personal Journey to Find the Light' by Becky Kruse You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "To be sure, I appear at times merry and in good heart; talk, too, before others quite reasonably, and it looks as if I felt, too, God knows how well within my skin. Yet the soul maintains its deathly sleep and the heart bleeds from a thousand wounds." Hugo Wolf I could not improve upon these sentiments from Mr. Wolf. Please help us spread the word about suicide awareness, intervention and prevention. Please, if you know someone who is thinking of suicide, talk with them, seek help with them. If you know someone who has been affected by suicide, perhaps Adam's story will gently guide them from despair to hope, from grief to grace. Take the time to learn the warning signals. Every 15 minutes in the U.S someone dies by suicide. Over 36,000 Americans takes their own lives each year. The number is growing; let's reverse these statistics. Help us break the silence about suicide, and end the stigma associated with it; we must stop the bleeding, and mend some hearts. - Most sincere thanks, Adam's Mom Resumes Nov. 22nd Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm mmia,ll!ll!IM Saturday November 23rd is International Survivors of Suicide Day National Suicide Prevention Lifeline Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:29 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4f5a333177694b54ea911894fafa8978.pdf 74fac9296a39ae4c38ad41d6c697bc06 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... eNews November 27th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice Come Home for Thanksgiving World AIDS Day Welcome to the eNews. Please join us for a Thanksgiving meal on Thursday, November 28th, 2013 at Noon. RSVP today to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - or sign up on the Facebook Event Page. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality SAGE Tulsa Holiday Party Tulsa Metro Basketball First Thursday Art Show Counseling Services Fairy Tree The eNews for the week of November 27th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Guys Dine Too ACA Assistance OUTlaw Legal Series Gamily Christmas SAGE Tulsa Holiday Tour Equality Business Alliance Council Oak Mens Chorale Sisters in Song FALALALA Ball PFLAG Holiday DInner Sexuality Spectrum Gift Wrappers Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library Be Our Voice, Give a Day "In memory of Floyd and all our partners and friends who have left us too soon" 11 Find Us on Facebook Sol Smith has made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... December 19th, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit Floyd and Sol and is sponsoring OkEq Programming and the Equality Center on Thanksgiving day, Thursday, November 28th, 2013 The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28th, 2013; 12:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Special music and entertainment will accompany the meal. Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Open Table, UCC University United Methodist Church & Whole Foods Tulsa Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... World AIDS Day Commemoration Sunday, December 1st, 2013; 6:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Facebook Event Page Please join in for Tulsa's World AIDS Day commemoration. Please note that this is an interfaith service of prayers, reflections, songs, and ritual. The service will have a brief time to remember those who have died as a result of HIV/AIDS infection, as well as reflections from those living with HIV/AIDS and/or helping to prevent further infection. There will be a reception following the service. SAGE Tulsa Holiday Party Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013; 10:00 am sage SC'rvices and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual &. TramgcndC'r Eldc>rs SAGE Tulsa will host a Holiday party at on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013 at 10:00 am. Brunch will be served. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org is you would like to attend. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. First Thursday Art Reception Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Thursday, December 5th, 2013; 6:00 pm The December Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb and Ann Shannon, in a show titled "Wild by Nature" beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 5th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a needy recipient. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 15th. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013; 6:30 pm The December meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Mondo's Italian Restaurant on Tuesday, December 3rd around 6:30 pm. Mondo's Italian Restaurant is located at 3410 S Peoria Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org www.mondositalian.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm; Starts December 4th, 2013 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, December 12th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather GAMILY Holiday Party Sunday, December 15th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gamily invites you to come eat, play and be merry at Gamily's Holiday Party at the Equality Center on Sunday, December 15th, 2013 from 2:00 - 6:00 pm. The main dish will be provided by Oklahomans for Equality and Gamily is asking each family to bring a side dish or salad. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook or at Gamily@OkEq.org. SAGE Tulsa Holiday Light Tour Tuesday, December 17th, 2013; 5:30 pm Please join the SAGE Tulsa group for the 1st Annual trolley Holiday Light tour of Tulsa. SAGE Tulsa will head out on the town to tour the sights and the lights of the Holiday season. A 2 hour tour of sightseeing from The Old Urban Trolley with hot chocolate and Christmas carols in abundance. The group will meet at The Garden Trug at 3009 E. 101st Street between 4:30 and 5:30 pm for a Holiday party before the trolley tour at 6:00 pm. People who wish to carpool to the Garden Trug may meet at the Equality Center by 4:00 pm. A small charge of $10 person for the tour. Don your "GAY" apparel and sing a carol or two with friends and "FAMILY". RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. Computer Boot Camp First Tuesday (Dec 3rd) 3:00 - 5:00 pm (Dec 14th) Second Saturday 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. SAGE Tulsa Tr nursery, florist & g1 3009 E. 101st Street Tulsa, OK 74137 (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be a Holiday party on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, at Harwelden Mansion, 2210 S Main St. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Harwelden Mansion 2210 S Main St Swing Dance Class Tuesdays 7:00 pm CUN ll OAK MN S ~l:RA f Pl[Sf IS Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members CHEBIATIIG flFTHI HAR~ ~f ~~HlRl~ Tulsa Area Prime Timers Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season Tuesday, December 3rd and Friday, December 6th, 2013; 8:00 pm 15th Annual Winter Season GABRIEL, COME BLOW YOUR HORN! Tuesday, December 3rd and Friday, December 6th, 2013 Lorton Performance Center - Gussman Concert Hall Council Oak Mens Chorale's 15th winter season, entitled Gabriel, Blow Your Horn! presented by the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale, with guest artist Kyle Maxwell, trombone. The concert features holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria (Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. Returning as guests to conduct this concert will be former artistic directors Rick Fortner, Andre Martin and Elizabeth Curtis. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information. Sisters in Song 'Hope Peace Joy' Saturday, December 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Please join Sisters In Song for Hope Peace Joy 2013, featuring Artistic Team: Director and Harpist Linda Barton Paul and Accompanist Kathryn Cox, with special guest Pianist Teresa Petray. 7:00 pm Saturday December 14th, 2013 at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Admission is $10, Children under 12 are free. Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Mindful Meditation Find Sisters in Song on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us 6th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 21st, 2013; 7:00 pm Don your gay apparel and join us for the 6th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 21st, 2013 at 7:00 PLEASE pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live DEFINE entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash NAUGHTY. bar and lite hor d'oeuvres. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and gay apparel. Live Entertainment by Austyn King, Chasing Nadean, Parker Simon, Serious Stanley and Mindy Bartlett. Wednesdays 6:00 pm Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful meditation techniques and practice them with us. Facilitated by Gloria Galasso Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries for Our House Too, or non perishable food items for St Jerome Church Food Pantry. 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Dinner Friday, December 13th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please join us for the annual PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Potluck Dinner. PFLAG will provide the meat and drinks and we encourage you to bring vegetable side dishes and desserts. Friday, December 13th at 6:30 pm. PFLAG TULSA CH ... The Sexuality Spectrum Opening Reception Thursday, December 19th, 2013; 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Arts 2021 East 71st St Tulsa, OK 74136 The Sexuality Spectrum offers a groundbreaking exploration of sexual orientation through the creativity of over fifty international contemporary artists. Artists including Judy Chicago, Joan Snyder, Arthur Tress, Archie Rand, Albert Winn, Trix Rosen, Joan Roth and Mark Podwal explore a broad range of subjects: the evolving social and religious attitudes toward sexuality; issues of alienation, marginalization, and inclusion; the impact on the family, child-rearing, and life stages; violence and persecution; AIDS/HIV; and the influence of the LGBTQI community on the Jewish and larger world. jewishmuseum.net Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays December 4th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org -----to attend Two Step & Country Line Dance Gift Wrappers for PFLAG Needed Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... Book wrapping for billboards! Every year between Thanksgiving and Christmas, volunteers participate in wrapping books for tips in Barnes & Noble at Southroads Shopping Center in Tulsa, OK. Proceeds go toward renting billboard space throughout metro Tulsa during LGBT Pride month in June. To volunteer, send your name and phone number pflagtulsa@yahoo.com old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members to: Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Yoga A - Z 6th Annual "Hearing Voices" Show Wednesday, November 27th, 2013 Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm (21+ No Cover) Come hear some of the best local vocalist and help start off the Thanksgiving/Chanukah Holiday Season. Partial Proceeds benefit - H.O.P.E. Testing Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Resumes Nov. 22nd Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Equality Center Pride Store Don We Now Our "GAY" Apparel The Pride Store is fully stocked with fabulous items for your holiday decorations. Game Night Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Bird of Paradise' by G.J. Paterson You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "Our lives are lived between madness and secrets." The year is 1978. Arena rock is at its peak, and British rock band Leviathon is at the top of the charts. Carys Sterling, the daughter of Leviathon's lead singer, Allyn Sterling, is kidnapped. LAPD Missing Persons' partners for seven years, Sergeant Paul Taglia and Lieutenant Jeff Kincaid must struggle with an unexpected change in their own relationship while searching for clues to the whereabouts of the missing girl. They soon discover Sterling and his guitarist are men with secrets. Was the girl kidnapped for the ransom she can command, or is Allyn's past coming back to haunt him? Together in the quest for Carys Sterling, the four men must confront ten years of sex, drugs and lies in order to discover the reality of love, trust and mortality. "Our secrets make us who we are." Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - --- . ~ r---------------------------------------------------, I I I I I I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org - I I I I I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:30 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/71c9f4499daa7df446f8a0776d357ad5.pdf b5751d33219558b486b1ea9d72d10b0e PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... eNews December 4th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor FALALALA Ball Fairy Tree First Thursday Art Show Welcome to the eNews. Please join us for a Thanksgiving meal on Thursday, November 28th, 2013 at Noon. RSVP today to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or sign up on the Facebook Event Page. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Metro Basketball Inclement Weather Policy ACA Assistance Counseling Services OUTlaw Legal Series The eNews for the week of December 4th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Gamily Christmas SAGE Tulsa Holiday Tour EBA Sponsor Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Equality Business Alliance Council Oak Mens Chorale Sisters in Song Clean and Sober Party PFLAG Holiday DInner Sexuality Spectrum 6th Annual Falalala Ball Gift Wrappers Saturday, December 21st, 2013; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride 2014 Don your gay apparel and join us for the 6th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 21st, 2013 at 7:00 PLEASE pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live DEFINE entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash NAUGHTY. bar and lite hor d'oeuvres. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and gay apparel. Live Entertainment by Austyn King, Chasing Nadean, Parker Simon, Serious Stanley and Mindy Bartlett. Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries for Our House Too, or non perishable food items for St Jerome Church Food Pantry. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, December 19th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... OkEq Art Exhibit The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb & Ann Shannon Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a needy recipient. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 15th. First Thursday Art Reception Counseling Services Thursday, December 5th, 2013; 6:00 pm Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The December Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb and Ann Shannon, in a show titled "Wild by Nature" beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 5th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, December 12th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... GAMILY Holiday Party Sunday, December 15th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gamily invites you to come eat, play and be merry at Gamily's Holiday Party at the Equality Center on Sunday, December 15th, 2013 from 2:00 - 6:00 pm. The main dish will be provided by Oklahomans for Equality and Gamily is asking each family to bring a side dish or salad. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook or at Gamily@OkEq.org. SAGE Tulsa Holiday Light Tour Tuesday, December 17th, 2013; 5:30 pm Please join the SAGE Tulsa group for the 1st Annual trolley Holiday Light tour of Tulsa. SAGE Tulsa will head out on the town to tour the sights and the lights of the Holiday season. A 2 hour tour of sightseeing from The Old Urban Trolley with hot chocolate and Christmas carols in abundance. The group will meet at The Garden Trug at 3009 E. 101st Street between 4:30 and 5:30 pm for a Holiday party before the trolley tour at 6:00 pm. People who wish to carpool to the Garden Trug may meet at the Equality Center by 4:00 pm. A small charge of $10 person for the tour. Don your "GAY" apparel and sing a carol or two with friends and "FAMILY". RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. sage Services and Advocilcy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexua l & Transgendcr Elders Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 3009 E. 101st Street Tulsa, OK 74137 The eNews for the week of December 4th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be a Holiday party on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, at Harwelden Mansion, 2210 S Main St. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Harwelden Mansion 2210 S Main St Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season Computer Boot Camp First Tuesday (Jan 7th) 3:00 - 5:00 pm (Dec 14th) Second Saturday 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Friday, December 6th, 2013; 8:00 pm CUN ll OAK MN S ~l:RA f Pl[Sf IS SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) CHEBIATIH flFHEI HAR~ ~f ~~HlRl~ 15th Annual Winter Season GABRIEL, COME BLOW YOUR HORN! Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... John Madigan sage~ Friday, December 6th, 2013 - 8:00 pm Lorton Performance Center - Gussman Concert Hall Council Oak Mens Chorale's 15th winter season, entitled Gabriel, Blow Your Horn! presented by the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale, with guest artist Kyle Maxwell, trombone. The concert features holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria (Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. Returning as guests to conduct this concert will be former artistic directors Rick Fortner, Andre Martin and Elizabeth Curtis. Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Sisters in Song 'Hope Peace Joy' Saturday, December 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave ~ Tulsa Area Prime Timers r "-' / I ~Yrc Please join Sisters In Song for Hope Peace Joy 2013, featuring Artistic Team: Director and Harpist Linda Barton Paul and Accompanist Kathryn Cox, with special guest Pianist Teresa Petray. 7:00 pm Saturday December 14th, 2013 at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Admission is $10, Children under 12 are free. ..• . r: ,· ··• .. 1 . f • I ' ' & Tramgender Elders Swing Dance Class Tuesdays 7:00 pm Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information. I Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual ._ • . .. "? ., ... ,. I . • '. \ ~ ~ '. .'~ ~ I I I ' I - . ,,, .t. .... • :) i ' 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 t Find Sisters in Song on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... Clean and Sober NEW YEAR'S EVE Party Tuesday, December 31st, 2013; 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This is an Alcohol & Drug Free Event 18 and over Free Admission but cash donations accepted Join us at the Equality Center for a clean and sober journey into a high energy dance party with DJ, live entertainment and warm conversations. Light hors d'ouveres will be served along with non-alcohol punch. Ring in the New Year and join us to watch the Blue Dome District fireworks and New Year's Countdown. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Dinner Open AA Group Friday, December 13th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please join us for the annual PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Potluck Dinner. PFLAG will provide the meat and drinks and we encourage you to bring vegetable side dishes and desserts. Friday, December 13th at 6:30 pm. Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members PFLAG TUUACHA Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. The Sexuality Spectrum Opening Reception Thursday, December 19th, 2013; 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Arts 2021 East 71st St Tulsa, OK 74136 The Sexuality Spectrum offers a groundbreaking exploration of sexual orientation through the creativity of over fifty international contemporary artists. Artists including Judy Chicago, Joan Snyder, Arthur Tress, Archie Rand, Albert Winn, Trix Rosen, Joan Roth and Mark Podwal explore a broad range of subjects: the evolving social and religious attitudes toward sexuality; issues of alienation, marginalization, and inclusion; the impact on the family, child-rearing, and life stages; violence and persecution; AIDS/HIV; and the influence of the LGBTQI community on the Jewish and larger world. jewishmuseum.net Mindful Meditation Wednesdays 6:00 pm Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful meditation techniques and practice them with us. Facilitated by Gloria Galasso Gift Wrappers for PFLAG Needed 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... Book wrapping for billboards! Every year between Thanksgiving and Christmas, volunteers participate in wrapping books for tips in Barnes & Noble at Southroads Shopping Center in Tulsa, OK. Proceeds go toward renting billboard space throughout metro Tulsa during LGBT Pride month in June. To volunteer, send your name and phone number pflagtulsa@yahoo.com Boot Camp to: Tulsa Pride 2014 Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Main Stage Entertainer Submissions The Tulsa Pride committee is now accepting applications for Live Musical Acts and Drag Kings and Queens Entertainers for the Main Stage at Tulsa Pride 2014. Get your applications in by January 1st, 2014! Click here to submit! CAWNGDRAG KINGS AND QUEENS! Do You Want To Petform @Tulsa Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Pride 2014? Sign up at www.tuIsapride.org to be considered! ~ Accepting~ p~ ations 12/1/13 to 1/1/14 Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays December 4th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Two Step & Country Line Dance Empress VI Cougar Anne Savon-Ewing Wiley and the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma cordially invites you to join Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201.. for the finals of the 2013 Holigay pageants with the "Mr & Miss Holigay 2013 Pageant" old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Friday, December 6, 2013 -10:00 pm @ TNT's (NO COVER 21+ only) For more information, contact impcourt@gmail.com Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Don We Now Our "GAY" Apparel The Pride Store is fully stocked with fabulous items for your holiday decorations. Yoga A - Z Resumes Nov. 22nd Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm y Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Different Rainbows' edited by Peter Drucker You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno A pioneering collection of essays which give a sample of some of the most interesting work being done on the lesbian and gay movements in various third world countries including Brazil, Mexico, Kenya, India and China. The eleven essays are edited by Peter Drucker, a well-respected academic in the field of gay and lesbian studies. Contributors include Dennis Altman, Margaret Randall and Mark Gevisser. 9 of 12 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - --- . ~ r---------------------------------------------------, I I I I I I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org - I I I I I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:34 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/39a83550d8e023c7996980bcaf6de0e7.pdf 4ce7063dab3cd6a66fde747e3c48aea6 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... eNews • Welcome to the eNews. Join us this Friday, December 13th, 2013 at 6:30 pm for the PFLAG Holiday Potluck dinner. PFLAG Holiday Potluck on Facebook eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of December 11th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time December 11th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor First Thursday Art Show PFLAG Holiday DInner Gamily Christmas SAGE Tulsa Holiday Tour Sisters in Song FALALALA Ball Tulsa Metro Basketball ACA Assistance Counseling Services Wedding Announcement Equality Business Alliance Clean and Sober Party Sexuality Spectrum Gift Wrappers Maybe Baby East Village Meet MLK Jr Parade Tulsa Pride 2014 Imperial Court Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, December 12th, 2013; 6:00 pm The December Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb and Ann Shannon, in a show titled "Wild by Nature" beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 12th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Dinner Friday, December 13th, 2013; 6:30 pm 11 Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, December 19th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please join us for the annual PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Potluck Dinner. PFLAG will provide the meat and drinks and we encourage you to bring vegetable side dishes and desserts. Friday, December 13th at 6:30 pm. ~ PFLAG TUUA CHAiTEJI GAMILY Holiday Party Sunday, December 15th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gamily invites you to come eat, play and be merry at Gamily's Holiday Party at the Equality Center on Sunday, December 15th, 2013 from 2:00 - 6:00 pm. The main dish will be provided by Oklahomans for Equality and Gamily is asking each family to bring a side dish or salad. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook or at Gamily@OkEq.org. OkEq Art Exhibit The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb & Ann Shannon SAGE Tulsa Holiday Light Tour Tuesday, December 17th, 2013; 5:30 pm Please join the SAGE Tulsa group for the 1st Annual trolley Holiday Light tour of Tulsa. SAGE Tulsa will head out on the town to tour the sights and the lights of the Holiday season. A 2 hour tour of sightseeing from The Old Urban Trolley with hot chocolate and Christmas carols in abundance. The group will meet at The Garden Trug at 3009 E. 101st Street between 4:30 and 5:30 pm for a Holiday party before the trolley tour at 6:00 pm. People who wish to carpool to the Garden Trug may meet at the Equality Center by 4:00 pm. A small charge of $10 person for the tour. Don your "GAY" apparel and sing a carol or two with friends and "FAMILY". RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tr nursery, orist & g1fl Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 3009 E. 101st Street Tulsa, OK 74137 Sisters in Song 'Hope Peace Joy' Saturday, December 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Counseling Services Please join Sisters In Song for Hope Peace Joy 2013, featuring Artistic Team: Director and Harpist Linda Barton Paul and Accompanist Kathryn Cox, with special guest Pianist Teresa Petray. 7:00 pm Saturday December 14th, 2013 at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Admission is $10, Children under 12 are free. Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Find Sisters in Song on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Counseling Services 6th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 21st, 2013; 7:00 pm Don your gay apparel and join us for the 6th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 21st, 2013 at 7:00 PLEASE pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live DEFINE entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash NAUGHTY. bar and lite hor d'oeuvres. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and gay apparel. Live Entertainment by Austyn King, Chasing Nadean, Parker Simon, Serious Stanley and Mindy Bartlett. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries for Our House Too, or non perishable food items for St Jerome Church Food Pantry. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org - 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Tai Chi Class Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org needs. New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Wedding Announcement Congratulations from Oklahomans for Equality Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Breck Muller and Kristina Giustozzi were married on October 1st, 2013 in Waterbury, Vermont on the beautiful grounds of Moose Meadow Lodge. Justice of the Peace, Greg Trulson officiated the ceremony. Computer Boot Camp First Tuesday (Jan 7th) 3:00 - 5:00 pm (Dec 14th) Second Saturday 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be a Holiday party on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, at Harwelden Mansion, 2210 S Main St. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Harwelden Mansion 2210 S Main St Clean and Sober NEW YEAR'S EVE Party SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Tuesday, December 31st, 2013; 8:00 pm John Madigan sage~ Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This is an Alcohol & Drug Free Event Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders 18 and over Free Admission but cash donations accepted Join us at the Equality Center for a clean and sober journey into a high energy dance party with DJ, live entertainment and warm conversations. Light hors d'ouveres will be served along with non-alcohol punch. Ring in the New Year and join us to watch the Blue Dome District fireworks and New Year's Countdown. The Sexuality Spectrum Opening Reception Thursday, December 19th, 2013; 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Arts 2021 East 71st St Tulsa, OK 74136 The Sexuality Spectrum offers a groundbreaking exploration of sexual orientation through the creativity of over fifty international contemporary artists. Artists including Judy Chicago, Joan Snyder, Arthur Tress, Archie Rand, Albert Winn, Trix Rosen, Joan Roth and Mark Podwal explore a broad range of subjects: the evolving social and religious attitudes toward sexuality; issues of alienation, marginalization, and inclusion; the impact on the family, child-rearing, and life stages; violence and persecution; AIDS/HIV; and the influence of the LGBTQI community on the Jewish and larger world. jewishmuseum.net Swing Dance Class Tuesdays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Gift Wrappers for PFLAG Needed Book wrapping for billboards! Every year between Thanksgiving and Christmas, volunteers participate in wrapping books for tips in Barnes & Noble at Southroads Shopping Center in Tulsa, OK. Proceeds go toward renting billboard space throughout metro Tulsa during LGBT Pride month in June. To volunteer, send your name and phone number pflagtulsa@yahoo.com Maybe Baby? Saturday, January 11th, 2013; 1:00 - 4:00 pm to: Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Is your biological clock ticking? Spring will soon be here. Are you thinking, maybe baby? What changes will this bring other than diapers? That romantic dinner for two is now a play date for three in the park. Trade in your night cap for a bottle of warm milk and a burp rag. Need a babysitter? Good luck. Family and Children Services will be giving you the 411 on things to think about before having a baby. This is a free workshop, but we do ask that you RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org. East Village District Meeting Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tuesday, January 14th, 2013; 5:30 pm Vill:asJ g thesunnv.sideof downtown Keep up with the development of the "Sunny Side of Downtown". The East Village District of Tulsa will have a meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Tuesday, January 14th at 5:30 pm. 2014 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, january 20th, 2013; 11:00 am ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati 51 years ago, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. Mindful Meditation Wednesdays 6:00 pm Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful meditation techniques and practice them with us. Facilitated by Gloria Galasso Tulsa Pride 2014 Main Stage Entertainer Submissions The Tulsa Pride committee is now accepting applications for Live Musical Acts and Drag Kings and Queens Entertainers for the Main Stage at Tulsa Pride 2014. Get your applications in by January 1st, 2014! Click here to submit! 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... CAWNGDRAG KINGS AND QUEENS! DoYouWantTo Petform @Tulsa Pride 2014? Sign up at www.tuIsapride.org to be considered! ~ Accepting~R ·cations 12/1/13 to 1/1/14 Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Upcoming Events Rainbow Writers Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma for the Fire and Ice Ball 9:30 pm December 13th, 2013 @ Club Majestic 18 to Enter / 21+ to Drink Cover Charge Spot Light Performances, 50/50 Raffle For more information, contact impcourt@gmail.com www.impcourtok.webs.com Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or 1st and 3rd Wednesdays December 18th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. -- --- old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Don We Now Our "GAY" Apparel The Pride Store is fully stocked with fabulous items for your holiday decorations. Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Immaculate Connection' by Michelle Sawyer You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Readers asked for it, and now Macy Delongchamp, our favorite Manhattan lipstick lesbian, returns for another wild, wicked adventure, only to discover that commitment to your one true love isn't a walk off into the sunset. Mayhem ensues as highstrung Macy is faced with parenthood, sobriety, and life as a California girl! IMMACULAT CONNECTIO Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library a Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - --- . ~ r---------------------------------------------------, I I I I I I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org - I I I I I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:34 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7e79bed6fc2f2d71daaa44ea86bd2b0f.pdf 9852577ead1bfe23f6d3d56601c16fca PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... eNews December 19th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor FALALALA Ball Holiday Hours Sexuality Spectrum Welcome to the eNews. Join us this Saturday, December 21st, 2013 at 7:0 pm for the Annual Falalala Ball. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of December 18th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Tulsa Metro Basketball Clean and Sober Party Article Headline ACA Assistance Counseling Services EBA Sponsor Year End Request Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Gift Wrappers Maybe Baby Tulsa Pride 2014 East Village Meet MLK Jr Parade 2013 Holiday Schedule 6th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 21st, 2013; 7:00 pm Don your gay apparel and join us for the 6th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 21st, 2013 at 7:00 PLEASE pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live DEFINE entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash NAUGHTY. bar and lite hor d'oeuvres. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and gay apparel. Live Entertainment by Austyn King, Chasing Nadean, Parker Simon, Serious Stanley and Mindy Bartlett. Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Featured Article Find Us on Facebook Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries for Our House Too, or non perishable food items for St Jerome Church Food Pantry. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, December 19th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... OkEq Art Exhibit The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb & Ann Shannon ~Oklahomans For Equality Happy Holidays Counseling Services Equality Center Holiday Hours For the days of December 25th, 2013 - January 1st, 2014, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be open from 3 - 9 pm, including Christmas and New Year's Day. Many OkEq programs will be on hiatus that week. Be sure to check the calendar on the OkEq website or call 918.743.4297 to check on programming times. The Sexuality Spectrum Opening Reception Thursday, December 19th, 2013; 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Arts 2021 East 71st St Tulsa, OK 74136 Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The Sexuality Spectrum offers a groundbreaking exploration of sexual orientation through the creativity of over fifty international contemporary artists. Artists including Judy Chicago, Joan Snyder, Arthur Tress, Archie Rand, Albert Winn, Trix Rosen, Joan Roth and Mark Podwal explore a broad range of subjects: the evolving social and religious attitudes toward sexuality; issues of alienation, marginalization, and inclusion; the impact on the family, child-rearing, and life stages; violence and persecution; AIDS/HIV; and the influence of the LGBTQI community on the Jewish and larger world. jewishmuseum.net Counseling Services 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February There will be no basketball for the next two weeks due to Christmas and New Years. Tulsa Metro Basketball is still looking to get more teams, so if anyone would still like to play, please sign up as soon as you can. The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Clean and Sober NEW YEAR'S EVE Party Tuesday, December 31st, 2013; 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This is an Alcohol & Drug Free Event 18 and over Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org -- Free Admission but cash donations accepted Join us at the Equality Center for a clean and sober journey into a high energy dance party with DJ, live entertainment and warm conversations. Light hors d'ouveres will be served along with non-alcohol punch. Ring in the New Year and join us to watch the Blue Dome District fireworks and New Year's Countdown. First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, January 2nd, 2014; 6:00 pm The January Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Christiana Prado in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 2nd, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • • •. I New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. The eNews for the week of December 18th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tuesdays Starting in January 2014! 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... Computer Boot Camp 2013 Year End Request From OkEq Executive Director, Toby Jenkins I want to thank you for your help in 2013. And as we close out the year, would you please consider making one more gift to Oklahomans for Equality. You may donate online here or mail your check to: OkEq P.O. Box 2687 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74101 Please, will you help us again? First Tuesday (Jan 7th) 3:00 - 5:00 pm (Dec 14th) Second Saturday 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --to attend. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders You may also click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign - - - - - - - --- - 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... Gift Wrappers for PFLAG Needed Book wrapping for billboards! Every year between Thanksgiving and Christmas, volunteers participate in wrapping books for tips in Barnes & Noble at Southroads Shopping Center in Tulsa, OK. Proceeds go toward renting billboard space throughout metro Tulsa during LGBT Pride month in June. To volunteer, send your name and phone number pflagtulsa@yahoo.com Tulsa Area Prime Timers to: Maybe Baby? Saturday, January 11th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Is your biological clock ticking? Spring will soon be here. Are you thinking, maybe baby? What changes will this bring other than diapers? That romantic dinner for two is now a play date for three in the park. Trade in your night cap for a bottle of warm milk and a burp rag. Need a babysitter? Good luck. Family and Children Services will be giving you the 411 on things to think about before having a baby. This is a free workshop, but we do ask that you RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Pride 2014 Main Stage Entertainer Submissions Self Defense Class The Tulsa Pride committee is now accepting applications for Live Musical Acts and Drag Kings and Queens Entertainers for the Main Stage at Tulsa Pride 2014. Get your applications in by January 1st, 2014! Click here to submit! Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Boot Camp 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... East Village District Meeting Tuesday, January 14th, 2014; 5:30 pm east '!!!J~ge downtown Keep up with the development of the "Sunny Side of Downtown". The East Village District of Tulsa will have a meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Tuesday, January 14th at 5:30 pm. 2014 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, january 20th, 2014; 11:00 am John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati 51 years ago, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. --=-- ... Rainbow Writers 2013 Holiday Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, OK 74120 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Temple Israel 2004 East 22nd Place Tulsa, OK 74114 Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 4:30 pm 6 pm & 7:30 pm Candlelight service ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays starting in January 2014 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 7 pm Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 2 pm Children's Service of the Bells 4 pm & 6 pm Candlelight Worship Services 11 pm Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24, 5:30 pm & 10:30 pm Candlelight Service Dec 25, 10 am Holy Communion College Hill Presbyterian Church Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 7:30 pm Family and Candlelight Service Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 22, 11 am Children's Christmas Program Dec 24, 3 pm at Dennis R Neill Equality Center; Service and Meal to the homeless. Gifts of gloves and clothes will be distributed. The Episcopal Church of The Redeemer 213 North Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74447 Dec 24, 7 pm Christ Mass with reception to follow Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7 pm Christmas Eve Service Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 4 pm, 6 pm & 8 pm Hope Unitarian Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 6 pm Candlelight Service John Calvin Presbyterian Church 8181 East 31st Street Tulsa, OK 74145 Dec 24, 5:30 pm Candlelight Communion Open Table UCC 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... 6540 N 131st E Ave Owasso, OK 74055 Dec 24, 5:30 pm Candlelight Communion Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, Celebration of Midnight Mass 10 pm Reception 11 pm Holy Eucharist Prince of Peace Lutheran 2330 North Quaker Avenue Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Chorale service with Holy Communion St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24, 7 pm Choral Holy Eucharist 10:30 pm Carols for the Christ Child 11 pm Festival Choral Holy Eucharist Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno St Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Worship & Communion Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24, 5 pm Christmas Pageant and Eucharist Rite II 8:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 9 pm Eucharist Rite II, lighting of candles 10:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 11:00 pm Traditional Midnight Mass Dec 25, 10 am Eucharist Rite II Trinity United Methodist Church 3737 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74105 Dec 24, 4 pm Carols & Communion Unity Center of Tulsa Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 6 pm Candle lighting service Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service Andre Martin, Guest Soloist University United Methodist Church Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Communion Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Don We Now Our "GAY" Apparel The Pride Store is fully stocked with fabulous items for your holiday decorations. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Getting Bi: Voices of Bisexuals Around the World' edited by Robyn Ochs & Sarah Rowley You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Getting Bi: Voices of Bisexuals Around the World is the broadest single collection of bisexual literature available today. Getting Bi collects 220 essays from around the world that explore bisexual identity. Topics include coming out, relationships, politics, community, and more. The book also addresses the intersection of bisexuality with race, class, ethnicity, Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... gender identity, disability and national identity. Authors from 42 countries discuss bisexuality from personal perspectives and their own cultural contexts, providing insight into societal views on bisexuality from countries ranging from Colombia to China. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library .• •••~ Vol nt TU r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:35 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b865f14f69896921aba8d6dfeb167b1d.pdf 5f36765aa186e81943f691f8e7a1c5f4 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... eNews December 30th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Holiday Hours Year End Request Clean and Sober Party Welcome to the eNews. Join us on New Year's Eve Tuesday, December 31st, 2013 at 8:00 pm for our Alcohol Free Party. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of December 30th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Tulsa Metro Basketball First Thursday Art Reception ACA Assistance Counseling Services Guys Dine Too Maybe Baby Tulsa Pride 2014 EBA East Village Meet MLK Jr Parade Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Year in Review Featured Article Find Us on Facebook ~Oklahomans For Equality Happy Holidays Equality Center Holiday Hours The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be open on New Year's Day, January 1st, 2014. Many OkEq programs will be on hiatus this week. Be sure to check the calendar on the OkEq website or call 918.743.4297 to check on programming times. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, January 16th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... 2013 Year End Request after meeting date. From OkEq Executive Director, Toby Jenkins OkEq Art Exhibit I want to thank you for your help in 2013. And as we close out the year, would you please consider making one more gift to Oklahomans for Equality. You may donate online here or mail your check to: The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb & Ann Shannon OkEq P.O. Box 2687 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74101 Please, will you help us again? Counseling Services You may also click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Alcohol Free NEW YEAR'S EVE Party Tuesday, December 31st, 2013; 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This is an Alcohol & Drug Free Event 18 and over Free Admission but cash donations accepted Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Join us at the Equality Center for an alcohol free journey into a high energy dance party with DJ, live entertainment and warm conversations. Light hors d'ouveres will be served along with non-alcohol punch. Ring in the New Year and join us to watch the Blue Dome District fireworks and New Year's Countdown. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Winter Season is December through February There will be no basketball this week due to New Years. Tulsa Metro Basketball is still looking to get more teams, so if anyone would still like to play, please sign up as soon as you can. The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. - - --- First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, January 2nd, 2014; 6:00 pm The January Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Christiana Prado in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 2nd, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Counseling Services Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org needs. New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, January 7th, 2013; 6:30 pm The January meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Marley's Pizzeria. The restaurant is located at 6104 E. 71st, just west of Sheridan, on the upper level at around 6:30 pm. Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Maybe Baby? Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Saturday, January 11th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Is your biological clock ticking? Spring will soon be here. Are you thinking, maybe baby? What changes will this bring other than diapers? That romantic dinner for two is now a play date for three in the park. Trade in your night cap for a bottle of warm milk and a burp rag. Need a babysitter? Good luck. Family and Children Services will be giving you the 411 on things to think about before having a baby. This is a free workshop, but we do ask that you RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org. Tulsa Pride 2014 Main Stage Entertainer Submissions SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Deadline Extended! The Tulsa Pride committee is now accepting applications for Live Musical Acts and Drag Kings and Queens Entertainers for the Main Stage at Tulsa Pride 2014. Get your applications in by January 6th, 2014! Click here to submit! Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tuesdays Starting in January 2014! 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The January Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, January 15th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, at Embassy Suites, Embassy Suites, 3332 S. 79th E. Ave. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Embassy Suites 3332 S. 79th E. Ave Tulsa, Oklahoma Computer Boot Camp First Tuesday (Jan 7th) 3:00 - 5:00 pm Second Saturday (Jan 11th) 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. East Village District Meeting Tuesday, January 14th, 2014; 5:30 pm east '!tU~ge downtown Keep up with the development of the "Sunny Side of Downtown". The East Village District of Tulsa will have a meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Tuesday, January 14th at 5:30 pm. SAGE Tulsa 2014 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, January 20th, 2014; 11:00 am John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... 51 years ago, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Empresses of The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invite you to the 6th Annual Black & White Ball "The Redneck Cinderella Ball" Friday, January 10th, 2014 7:00 pm - Light Buffet 8:00 pm - Show at the Bamboo Lounge in Tulsa For more information, contact impcourt@gmail.com Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Boot Camp Equality Center Pride Store Flamingo Frames now $8.00 in the Pride Store. Perfect for your New Year's party! Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: ... 'Amy and Isabelle' by Elizabeth Strout You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In Amy and Isabelle, Elizabeth Strout evokes a teenager's alienation from her distant mother-and a parent's rage at the discovery of her daughter's sexual secrets. In most ways, Isabelle and Amy are like any mother and her 16-year-old daughter, a fierce mix of love and loathing exchanged in their every glance. And eating, sleeping, and working side by side in the gossip-ridden mill town of Shirley Falls doesn't help matters. But when Amy is discovered behind the steamed-up windows of a car with her math teacher, the vast and icy distance between mother and daughter becomes unbridgeable. Rainbow Writers AMY ISABELLE 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend As news of the scandal reaches every ear, it is Isabelle who suffers from the harsh judgment of Shirley Falls, intensifying her shame about her own 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... secret past. And as Amy seeks comfort elsewhere, she discovers the fragility of human happiness through other dramas, from the horror of a missing child to the trials of Fat Bev, the community peacemaker. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality 2013 Year in Review The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center was the place to celebrate on June 26th, 2013 when the US Supreme Court handed down the decision on DOMA. Open AA Group Thursdays starting in January 2014 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Yoga A - Z History tells us that "society is judged by how well it treats those who are the most vulnerable". Because of your financial support and volunteer services to Oklahomans for Equality we have expanded our programs to serve the most vulnerable in our LGBT community . Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... We strengthened our services for Gay Families (Gay+Family = Gamily). The Back To School Carnival provided OkEq backpacks stuffed with school supplies to many of our families. 7:00 pm Game Night Through Gamily activities, families with gay and transgender children found support with families just like their own. Parenting classes and couples counseling make sure gay, lesbian and transgender parents have the resources to develop strong families and relationships. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno We are reaching out to more Oklahoma high schools and middle schools and assisting GSAs (Student led Gay Straight Alliance Clubs). Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Booker T Washington and Union GSAs The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Broken Arrow GSA Movie nights and service projects connect LGBTQ youth with other students. 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Tahlequah GSA Youth Lock-Ins at the Equality Center take students through 12 hours of training, addressing peer aggression, bullying, discrimination, advocacy, dating violence and assault. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. OK Rep. Lee Denney, author of the AntiBullying Bill Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Gov. Fallin signs the Anti Bullying bill into law. OkEq Executive Director, Toby Jenkins was in attendance Oklahomans for Equality was a vital collaborative partner in getting the most comprehensive anti-bullying bill passed in both houses and signed by the Governor in August. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: More than 200 students from 19 high schools attended the Equality Gala because of your generous sponsorships. Our SAGE Tulsa program (Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Elders) was recognized by the National Resource Center on LGBT aging and SAGE National because of our Vintage Series where we document on video the stories of LGBT older adults. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- SAGE Tulsa hosted LGBT activists from Japan and participants from both countries were able to compare our two cultures' views on aging. Our transgender program was recently featured in the full length documentary JUST GENDER which premiered at 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Circle Cinema to a packed house. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Youth and parents from our transgender youth and family support group continue to receive international attention. Taylor Burns, our family therapist, and physician Laura Arrowsmith have presented at more than a dozen conferences, universities and medical societies nationwide. Both Taylor and Laura have worked with several Oklahoma school districts to provide services for families with transgender children. usiness Alliance Our Equality Business Alliance now has over 160 businesses serving the LGBT community. You can spend your money with confidence knowing these businesses are on our side. In October, Oklahomans for Equality was recognized by the Tulsa Regional Chamber for our advocacy for workplace diversity and inclusion. Your support is 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... making Tulsa a welcoming place for employers who value diversity and inclusion. The 2013 Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade saw record crowds, more vendors and more corporate parade entries than any other time in our 32 year pride festival history. 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... r---------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:39 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6c20c882ce33bcdead825cda5f265c45.pdf a4803b7f0a6a9377de23691677cb6cfa PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 15th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day Programming Note Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Get ready for Tulsa Pride! It will be here before you know it. Get the info on all the Pride events www.tulsapride.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of May 15th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service OUTlaw Legal Workshop Open AA Group NERDception Singles Night OUT NAGAAA Cup MOREcolor Art Show EBA Sponsor Tulsa Interfaith Alliance Council Oak Mens Chorale Love Free or Die JOURNEY )~ -~ I Tulsa Lambda Bowling Cheril Vendetti NOW Tulsa No Walls Entertainment LGBT Smoking Survey ------ Be Our Voice, Give a Day As part of OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign, Tuesday May 14th, 2013 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center was sponsored in honor of Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 7:00 pm Morgan Elizabeth Allen Bixby High School Class of 2013 Morgan is the Salutatorian of her Senior Class, 6 year All State Choir Member, Choir President and Outstanding Vocal Music Student. Morgan will be working with LOOK (Light Opera Oklahoma) Musical Theatre this summer and attending William Jewell College in the fall. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic work of Lanette Clark Morgan first attended the Equality Gala in 2011, the event inspired her to help reorganize the GSA at Bixby. Since then, she has worked with the counselors on many GSA issues. Click here to Give a Day OkEq Programming Note Monday, May 27th, 2013 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be open for Memorial Day on Monday, May 27th, 2013 but all evening programming has been canceled. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Shock. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Shock BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Tulsa Pride 2013 Saturday, June 1st and Sunday, June 2nd, 2013 T U L S A Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Pool Party Saturday, JUNE 1st - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 2nd - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2013 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many areas are available such as beverage attendant, entrance attendant and setup and tear down assistant, parking attendant and much more. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Tulsa Pride 2013 Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride 2013 will have a planning meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Tulsa Pride Events Live Free! Coming Out • Friday, May 17th, 2013 - Pride Night @ TNT's 9:00 pm - 2:00 am 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... • Saturday, May 18th, 2013 Pride Night @ Bamboo Lounge 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Sunday, May 26th, 2013 - Oklahomo! a Sing-Along @ 209 the Arts Bar 9:00 pm - 2:00 am Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. 2013 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Workshop Will resume June 3rd Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Thursday, May 30th, 2013; 7:00 pm Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd The 2013 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 30th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursday, May 23rd, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on Thursday May 23rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., will lead the topic discussions which will change each meeting. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm Gl Swing Class Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 NERDception Every other Tuesday; 7:00 pm. Next date is May 28th, 2013 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. if/; ~ For example, who would win: Superman or the • Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, ' Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. J Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Service, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Youth Program Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Flying Solo will take off Friday, May 24th for Memorial Day Weekend. Next meet is Friday, June 7th, 2013. Kick off Pride Week with a Big Gay Softball Party at the Guthrie Green Friday, May 24th, 2013; 7:30 pm Guthrie Green N Boston Ave Tulsa, OK Join Tulsa Metro Softball League, Tulsa Sports Commission, and Oklahomans for TULSA, OK Equality Friday, May 24th, 2013 to welcome LGBT softball players from around the US to Tulsa for the 2013 NAGAAA Cup! TMSL is hosting a big gay 2013 NAGAAA Cup Opening Party from 7:30 - 9:30 pm at the Guthrie Green in the Brady Arts District and they want to invite you to join them! Drinks will be flowing, food trucks will be serving, local officials will be welcoming, and DJ $erious $tanley will be spinning! Friday, May 24th, 2013 7:30 - 9:30 pm - Be at the Guthrie Green! Visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com for more information and to sign up as a volunteer! MOREcolor Art Show Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color · Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. The eNews for the week of May 15th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ... Tulsa Interfaith Alliance Annual Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013; dinner at 5:30 pm Join the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance on Thursday, May 16, 2013 for their Annual Meeting Dinner and Speaker Event, featuring Jay Bakker. Jay will speak about his latest book, "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I've Crossed: Walking With the Unknown God." The dinner begins at 5:30 pm and costs $25/person. Sponsorships are available. The annual business meeting will occur at the end of the dinner, and is free. Jay's keynote address will begin at 7:00 pm and is free and open to the public. All events will happen at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. To register for this event, please click here. tulsainterfaithalliance.org Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Tuesday, May 28th, 2013; 7:00 pm Central Library Downtown Tulsa 400 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 council oak council oo/c ll1IJllS choro/9 Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the downtown Tulsa library on Tuesday, May 28th, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Central Library in downtown Tulsa. This FREE event will be held in the Aaronson Auditorium. www.counciloak.org 'Love Free or Die' Screening Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his Counseling Services 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Andy B's Bowling Center Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is organizing teams Summer League. It is $20 to join plus $14 per week every Monday evening at 6:45 pm. They bowl at Andy B's, 8711 South Lewis, You can contact lamdaleague@cox.net for further questions or just show up at the bowling alley. The Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is an officially sanctioned league with the IGBO (International Gay Bowling Organization). The Cheril Vendetti Experience Friday, June 14th, 2013; 8:00 pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St The Cheril Vendetti Experience is a fastpaced explosion of irreverent entertainment that will leave you either heading for the door or to the nearest bail bondsman! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Direct from television's HBO, OWN and SPIKE networks and the famous Los Angeles Comedy Store, comes the outrageous Cheril Vendetti! The Boston-Italian comedienne, TV personality and comical cookbook author, and her band, The Pasta Fazools, generate more laughs than Tony Soprano could put a hit on. So grab your funny bone, leave your political correctness at the door, and join the fun! National Organization for Women Tulsa Chapter Fundraising Event, Thursday, May 16th, 2013; 9:00 pm The NOW - Tulsa Chapter would love for each and everyone of you to come out to their fundraising event at Joe Mama's pizza, Thursday May 16th, 2013 at 9:00 pm. Joe Mama's has welcomed NOW by inviting them to be the nonprofit organization to highlight on Thursday for trivia night. The NOW l'OAWOMKN Tulsa Chapter will receive 5% of ALL SALES. The money will help pay for the NOW Tulsa Pride booth and supplies. For more information you can visit the Facebook page at: www.facebook.com/now918 or email at: tulsanow918@gmail.com. We Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... look forward to seeing you there and don't forget to invite a friend, have some fun, and work for a more equal Oklahoma! No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! Get them now before Pride for $20.00! EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'My Life as a Boy: A Woman's Story' by Kim Chernin You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In this elliptical memoir, feminist author Chernin describes the breakup of her long-term marriage and her infatuation with another woman. In order to cast off her old life, she finds that she needs to call on parts of herself never before tested, such as "the capacity to act, the freedom to take, the license to choose desire," in short, "the life of a boy." Dubbing this process the "transformational imperative," she proceeds to remake herself by cutting off her hair, becoming lithe and muscular, and falling passionately in love with a cultured, sophisticated woman named Hadamar. In describing their rocky courtship, she also conveys the fact that she is well aware of what she is risking: "my home, security, a devoted man's passionate love," all for a woman "who might throw me over and break my heart." Possessed of a deep awareness of the mystery at the heart of all relationships, Chernin has written a delicate and thoughtful meditation on finding the courage to transform your life despite the risks such a process entails.. Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 10:55 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fe979aa2a59ecebb6ef4733035e83771.pdf c25a81dc6ff0554fd3cd68c3593168fb PDF Text Text eNews February 28th, 2013 In This Issue Be Our Voice, Give a Day Red State Brief Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is entirely supported by donations from the community. Be Our Voice, Give a Day allows us to spotlight our generous donors. Be Our Voice, Give a Day eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Be Our Voice, Give a Day To honor the 1st anniversary of their wedding in Washington D.C., Laura Belmonte and Susan Arrington have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring Oklahomans for Equality on Sunday March 3rd, 2013. Congratulations Laura and Susan and Thank You for the support! Guys Dine Too Camp Fire Green Country Camp Fire Candy Sale First Thursday Gamily Swing Dance Class OUTlaw Legal Workshop Tulsa Pride 2013 SAGE hosts TCC TMSL LGBT Equality Day Native HIV/AIDS Days Tulsa Mister Leather Singles Night OUT COLORAMA Suzanne Westenhoefer Expatriate Council Oak Mens Chorale Tulsa Two Spirit Imperial Court Pride Store Be Our Voice, Give a Day "Red State Brief" Filed in Marriage Cases at US Supreme Court Oklahomans for Equality today joined the Utah Pride Center, Campaign for Southern Equality and twenty-five other organizations in filing an amicus brief with the United States Supreme Court. The brief urges the justices to strike down a wide range of anti-gay laws. The brief calls on the Court to uphold appellate court rulings in both the Defense of Marriage and Proposition 8 cases currently pending. Oklahomans for Equality joined Utah Pride in this "Red State Brief" to detail the long history of anti-gay legislation in many states around the nation that denigrates the LGBT community. "This brief is about arguing on behalf of the millions of Americans who feel Rainbow Library Volunteer Inclement Weather Policy Find Us on Facebook �hopeless that legislation on a state level will ever advance their cause," said Utah Pride Attorney and former Bush Administration United States Attorney Brett Tolman. The brief contends that many local state laws are designed to routinely deny gay citizens basic civil rights, and many state codes are woven in a tangle that can only be unraveled by the courts. Read the brief here Equality Business Alliance OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 21st, 7:00 pm Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Tuesday, March 12th, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it sent to eba@okeq.org by Monday March 11th. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, March 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The March meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Brothers Houligan on Tuesday, March 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Brothers Houligan is located at 9701 E 61st OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone www.broshouligan.com Guys Dine Too is a social program by OkEq for Gay Men, and their male Allies/friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale Wednesday, March 6th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm Tai Chi Class Oklahomans for Equality will host a Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Wednesday, March 6th, 2013 starting at 5:30 - 7:30 pm. Camp Fire will be selling their world famous Chocolate Bars for $1 each. Camp Fire is an inclusive organization welcoming children, Light the fire within youth and adults regardless of race, religion, socioeconomic status, disability, sexual orientation or other aspect of diversity. ~~ Al\ Camp Fire Girl Scouts Cookie Sale Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). t'J, • 1scou s g1r Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 6:00 pm The March OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center, will feature the Photographic Art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well GAMILY Meeting Saturday, March 9th, 2013; 3:00 pm 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens OkEq welcomes our new intern, Samantha Checotah, who will be working with our GAMILY program which advocates and serves LGBT parents and their children. Gamily will have a Meet n Greet get together on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. Swing Dance Class Every Monday; 7:00 pm Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. TOSS is teaching an 8-week series of classes running until February 25th, 2013 at the Equality Center. Don't know your left foot from your right? That's okay! Start with the basic step and work through beginner and intermediate �lessons in Swing Dance-era dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to www.tosstulsa.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. OUTlaw Legal Workshop 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month; 7:00 pm Topic for February 28th : Where There's a Will, There's a Way - Have you drafted a will? How will you protect your property and belongings? Make sure your property goes to the right person. Free and open to the public. OkEq will host the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. Upcoming topics include wills, rights of survivorship, medical issues, power of attorney (durable) and inheritances, transgender name changes and trans rights. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Tulsa Pride 2013 SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Tulsa Pride is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org for Tulsa Pride 2013. Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, February 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday February 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride's Drag Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook . 6th Annual Turn About Show Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8 PM, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, 21 to Drink! SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, March 26th, 2013; 10:30 am Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. m Tulsa Community College Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day Wednesday March 6th, 2013; 9:00 am - 2:00 pm The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBT and allied people from across the state for the 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm �constituents. Wednesday, March 6th will begin with a brief lobbying training session at 9:00 am in Room 25. TEN will provide information on how to effectively interact with your representatives as well as talking points for target legislation. ,_._._ I-....,_.,._....,..,.__,_ _._..._._r._-,.a..,.~~ .....,.,__.,. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . ~ 'N' ~..., --,C..,IMJ"llil . . . . . . ........,.............- ... :11 .. --=• ... ,..... __ -- • .--.--- - ,.. W.IDptMo'III. ~ ra,.._11t;.,.• www lln:,wtcomla...,.a,l)•D•~ ,, . TEN encourages you to set up an appointment with your state representative and state senator in advance to ensure that you will be able to meet with them on Equality Day. To find your representatives, click here. (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T Native American Coalition of Green country Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Friday and Saturday, March 8th & 9th, 2013 Tulsa's Premier Gay Leather Event - the Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest and Event will take place March 8th & 9th, 2013 at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St, just east of Downtown Tulsa. The Event begins on Friday, March 8th at 10:00 pm with a Meet n Greet Mixer at the Tulsa Eagle and follows up with the Contest at 10:00 pm on Saturday the 9th of March. The event is open and welcoming to all interested fans and friends. Part of the $5 cover charge will start the charity fund that will be raised throughout the year. For more information email: tmlproducers@gmail.com Counseling Services ULSAEAGLE 133813ll■ ST lllffl 1pe1 @8PM $5 c1ver CHIISI starts 11PM Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org �Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 8th, 2013 COLORAMA presented by Tulsa Lambda Bowling Friday, March 8th, 2013; 8:00 pm Sheridan Lanes 3121 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK The Tulsa Lambda League bowlers present COLORAMA at Sheridan lanes. Friday, March 8th, 2013 at 8:00 pm. Everyone is invited to come out and join in for a fun night of bowling, and to win some cash. COLORAMA is a fundraiser for the Jackpot Oklahoma Lambda Tournament (JOLT), Tulsa's only annual Gay bowling tournament which brings in Gay & Lesbian bowlers throughout the nation to Tulsa. You don't need to be a league bowler to participate, so any skill level is welcomed. The cost for COLORAMA is $20. Be prepared to have a ball. Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Expatriate Friday, March 1st and Saturday March 2nd, 2013; 8:00 pm Nightingale Theater 1416 E 4th St "EXPATRIATE" a two-act play with all vocal music. Poet, playwright, and performer Lenelle Moise has written, composed and stars in a compelling Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. �two woman production. ~ ~· ~ ,r. '· -! ~ ; ,~v ~- , ,' e. , - -·~ Workforce Oklahoma Access Point \ ...___ - Friday, March 1st & Saturday, March 2nd at the Nightingale Theater at 8:00 pm. Achingly platonic soulmates Claudie and Alphine are unsung musicians and longtime best-friends. Both wrestle with the addiction, abandonment and sexual trauma that run in their respective family histories. Diligent, dutiful, Julliard-trained composer Claudie may or may not be celibate while sparkly, indulgent Alphine has more natural star-potential and sex appeal than she knows what to do with. Supported by playwright/ composer Lenelle Moise's funk-infused all-vocal score. For more info visit Living Arts Tulsa lenellemoise.com Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm The Vocal Pride Foundation is excited to announce Council Oak Mens Chorale will soon begin rehearsal for the summer 2013 season. Our performance ensemble had great success last season with the Divo/Diva summer concert, a stellar performance in Denver, Colorado at the GALA 2012 Festival, and our fall Zinga! performances with clarinetist Stacy C. Smith. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: councn oak OOiJllCi.l OOff ~ MOMle Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Season 2013 "DONNA SUMMER/WHITNEY HOUSTON - A TRIBUTE" with celebrated soloist Phena Hackett, Soprano Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013 Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Fellowship Hall 7:00 to 9:00 pm. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Performances are Tuesday, June 4th and Friday June 7th, 2013 at Lorton Performance Center - TU Campus www.counciloak.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org �The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events ~RIA. OK\. I.C.A.O. - Coronation VI March 7th - 10th, 2013 Regent Emperor V Philip "Papa Scrappy" Saint Johns & Regent Empress V Kris Kohl & The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invite you to Coronation VI "A Night at the USO with Designing Women and a Cast of Stars" Thursday, March 7th Meet and Greet at Tulsa Eagle @ 10 PM, No Cover Friday, March 8th Hospitality Noon to 3 at Host Hotel Out of Town Show - Host Hotel - Doors at 6, Show at 7 $15 - includes bus tour Bus leaves hotel at 9 - drag welcome but not required Hospitality Midnight to 3 Must have wrist band for bus tour and hospitality Friday night. Saturday, March 9th Hospitality - 8 am to 3 pm Woman's Conference 1 pm - Host Hotel (Open to the Public, Free) Coronation VI - Host Hotel - $45 (Dress is Theme or Formal) Doors / Meet and Greet at 5 pm, Dinner at 6 pm and Ceremony at 7 pm Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �Hospitality - 1 hour after Coronation to 3 am Sunday, March 10th Victory Brunch - Host Hotel - $25 Doors at 10:30, Brunch at 11 Shot Party - 3 pm - 5 pm Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Victory Show - 7 pm - ? Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Hotel, Tickets and Program Advertising Information are available on theImperial Court of All Oklahoma website I.C.A.O. is a 501(c)3 Non Profit Organization for more information contact ICAO on Facebook or impcourtok@gmail.com Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Landing' by Emma Donoghue You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A delightful, old-fashioned love story with a uniquely twenty-first-century twist, Landing is a romantic comedy that explores the pleasures and sorrows of long-distance relationshipsthe kind millions of us now maintain mostly by plane, phone, and Internet. Síle is a stylish citizen of the new Dublin, a veteran flight attendant who's traveled the world. Jude is a twenty-five-year-old archivist, stubbornly attached to the tiny town of Ireland, Ontario, in which she was born and raised. On her first plane trip, Jude's and Síle's worlds touch and snag at Heathrow Airport. In the course of the next year, their lives, and those of their friends and families, will be drawn into a new, shaky orbit. This sparkling, lively story explores EM . D0 DGHU 1 �age-old questions: Does where you live matter more than who you live with? What would you give up for love, and would you be a fool to do so? Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Vo lunteer Tulsa, you r local action center! 1 VolUI e1 TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been cancelled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/144e900c6be587d44544213bcb48da8c.pdf 1920e066930b3c5d9bcf07400c1d92d2 PDF Text Text eNews March 5th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day First Thursday Welcome to the eNews. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is entirely supported by donations from the community. Be Our Voice, Give a Day allows us to spotlight our generous donors. Be Our Voice, Give a Day eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of March 5th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: TheGardenTrug.com I 918.528.3828 Camp Fire Green Country Camp Fire Candy Sale Gamily Medicare Supplements Legal Clinic Equality Business Alliance LGBT Equality Day Tulsa Pride 2013 GardenTru . nursery, florist & gifts Equality Gala SAGE hosts TCC DREAM Act Oklahoma TMSL Spring Into Color Mon -Sat9am-6pm I Sun I la Native HIV/AIDS Days Homebuyer Class Tulsa Mister Leather EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day Denise Polonchak donated to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the LGBT Helpline for yesterday Monday, March 4th, 2013 to celebrate her son's 31st Birthday. Happy Birthday Dusty and Thank You Denise for your support! Singles Night OUT COLORAMA Tulsa Growl Marriage Equality Week Within Our Reach Suzanne Westenhoefer Tulsa Two Spirit Council Oak Mens Chorale MOREcolor Art Show Red State Brief Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library �Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 21st, 7:00 pm Be Our Voice, Give a Day First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 6:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The March OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center, will feature the Photographic Art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone Tai Chi Class Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale Wednesday, March 6th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host a Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Wednesday, March 6th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. Camp Fire will be selling their world famous Chocolate Bars for $1 each. Camp Fire is an inclusive organization welcoming children, youth Light the fire within and adults regardless of race, religion, socioeconomic status, disability, sexual orientation or other aspect of diversity. Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �Girl Scouts Cookie Sale Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). . 'JI girl scouts GAMILY Meeting Saturday, March 9th, 2013; 3:00 pm OkEq welcomes our new intern, Samantha Checotah, who will be working with our GAMILY program which advocates and serves LGBT parents and their children. Gamily will have a Meet n Greet get together on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. SAGE hosts Medicare Supplements Made Easy Tuesday, March 12th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will host Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) for an informational presentation on Medicare Supplements and information on where you can get the most value for your money. Do you find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you fee you are paying too much money? Are your medications too expensive? Lunch will be provided. Please RVSP to mary.jones@okeq.org. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Tuesday, March 12th, 2013; 6:00 pm LEGAL AID SERVICES t ti. OF OKLAHOMA, INC . = Making Equal Justict for All a R,ality Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Equality Center is on Tuesday, March 12th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. This free to the public legal clinic will address Oklahoma's Juvenile Code & Juvenile Law Issues. The clinic's guest speaker will be Ivan Orndorff, Esq. and Craig Reffner, Esq. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & �James Prather Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 13th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it sent to eba@okeq.org by Monday March 11th. The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Street Law Firm. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. The Street Law Firm 400 S. Boston Ave. Suite 1100W, Tulsa, OK 74103 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day Wednesday March 6th, 2013; 9:00 am - 2:00 pm : • ' -fllJ J,11' 'f o ,.-• , _ ,( nn, ............. . . ._ , ~c •.... . . '9',, · · • fl. .... 1• , ,,,, t l I I L I, r--,-- ...,...,..._,..... .... _,_ a., .... ..:...il. . . . , . . . . _ -IF~~ 'Hf' J.ur.w111.oHr-.. ....__ .... ..__,....... , ··~ ,- N.IH.ptK.W•---.....- rofWllt11rw1 Iii The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBT and allied people from across the state for the 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. Wednesday, March 6th will begin with a brief lobbying training session at 9:00 am in Room 25. TEN will provide information on how to effectively interact with your representatives as well as talking points for target legislation. SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocilcy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders ti•~ TEN encourages you to set up an appointment with your state representative and state senator in advance to ensure that you will be able to meet with them on Equality Day. To find your representatives, click here. Youth Program Tulsa Pride 2013 Diversity & Dignity Group Tulsa Pride is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org for Tulsa Pride 2013. Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride's Drag Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook . 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, 21 to Drink! Self Defense Class Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013 The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook like us o:n Facebook ] Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. �Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers J JD r~J-\ F~ ( C HA~J _ MIRANDA & PHILIP KAISE r• I JrJ\'i. J r,;_ rJ ._,r KIRK HOLT Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, March 26th, 2013; 10:30 am SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are �m Tulsa Community College required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org DREAM ACT Oklahoma Saturday and Sunday, March 16th and 17th, 2013 Oklahomans for Equality will host a training session for DREAM Act Oklahoma at the Equality Center on Saturday March 16th from 6:00 - 10:00 pm and Sunday March 17th from 9:00 am - 6:00 pm. DAOK is excited to bring together potential leaders from all around Oklahoma to decide the next phase of the immigration youth movement. The retreat will set the direction and focus on what Oklahoma needs. DAOK wants to outline a strategic process and listen to you. DREAM Act Oklahoma is a youth-lead organization with an emphasis on civil rights for the undocumented community, trying to eradicate fear, help educate and advocate for a better life and a brighter future. For more information on DREAM Act OK or to sign up for the training, contact Ivan Godinez at Ivan@dreamactok.org or visit dreamactok.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also �from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T. Native American Coalition of Green country strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday and Saturday, March 8th & 9th, 2013 Tulsa's Premier Gay Leather Event - the Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest and Event will take place March 8th & 9th, 2013 at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St, just east of Downtown Tulsa. The Event begins on Friday, March 8th at 10:00 pm with a Meet n Greet Mixer at the Tulsa Eagle and follows up with the Contest at 10:00 pm on Saturday the 9th of March. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing UlSAEAGlE 133813ll■ ST Dtffl 1pe1 @11PM S5 c,ver l:Htesl starts 11PM The event is open and welcoming to all interested fans and friends. Part of the $5 cover charge will start the charity fund that will be raised throughout the year. For more information email: tmlproducers@gmail.com The eNews for the week of March 5th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. �Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 8th, 2013 COLORAMA presented by Tulsa Lambda Bowling Friday, March 8th, 2013; 8:00 pm Sheridan Lanes 3121 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK The Tulsa Lambda League bowlers present COLORAMA at Sheridan lanes. Friday, March 8th, 2013 at 8:00 pm. Everyone is invited to come out and join in for a fun night of bowling, and to win some cash. COLORAMA is a fundraiser for the Jackpot Oklahoma Lambda Tournament (JOLT), Tulsa's only annual Gay bowling tournament which brings in Gay & Lesbian bowlers throughout the nation to Tulsa. You don't need to be a league bowler to participate, so any skill level is welcomed. The cost for COLORAMA is $20. Be prepared to have a ball. Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 Within Our Reach Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality in FAMILY~ collaboration with Family & CHILDREN'S Children's Services will be offering "Within Our Reach" a SERVICES free, fun, educational couples Life Chang ing . relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship. Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clitttle@fcsok.org Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and �contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals continue on Mondays; 7:00 pm The Vocal Pride Foundation is excited to announce that Council Oak Mens Chorale rehearsals for the summer 2013 season have begun. Our performance ensemble had great success last season with the Divo/Diva summer concert, a stellar performance in Denver, Colorado at the GALA 2012 Festival, and our fall Zinga! performances with clarinetist Stacy C. Smith. councU oak oouncJJ 00/i" tn'!r?$ Mt:Jm/8 Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Season 2013 "DONNA SUMMER/WHITNEY HOUSTON - A TRIBUTE" with celebrated soloist Phena Hackett, Soprano Rehearsals continue on Mondays Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Fellowship Hall 7:00 to 9:00 pm. Performances are Tuesday, June 4th and Friday June 7th, 2013 at Lorton Performance Center - TU Campus www.counciloak.org MOREcolor Artist Submissions Opening Night June 13th, 2013 MORE color .. 1 1 :·· Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the �public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com "Red State Brief" Filed in Marriage Cases at US Supreme Court Oklahomans for Equality today joined the Utah Pride Center, Campaign for Southern Equality and twenty-five other organizations in filing an amicus brief with the United States Supreme Court. The brief urges the justices to strike down a wide range of anti-gay laws. The brief calls on the Court to uphold appellate court rulings in both the Defense of Marriage and Proposition 8 cases currently pending. Oklahomans for Equality joined Utah Pride in this "Red State Brief" to detail the long history of anti-gay legislation in many states around the nation that denigrates the LGBT community. "This brief is about arguing on behalf of the millions of Americans who feel hopeless that legislation on a state level will ever advance their cause," said Utah Pride Attorney and former Bush Administration United States Attorney Brett Tolman. The brief contends that many local state laws are designed to routinely deny gay citizens basic civil rights, and many state codes are woven in a tangle that can only be unraveled by the courts. Read the brief here Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events I.C.A.O. - Coronation VI March 7th - 10th, 2013 Regent Emperor V Philip "Papa Scrappy" Saint Johns & Regent Empress V Kris Kohl & The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invite you to Coronation VI "A Night at the USO with Designing Women and a Cast of Stars" Thursday, March 7th Meet and Greet at Tulsa Eagle @ 10 PM, No Cover Friday, March 8th Hospitality Noon to 3 at Host Hotel Out of Town Show - Host Hotel - Doors at 6, Show at 7 $15 - includes bus tour Bus leaves hotel at 9 - drag welcome but not required Hospitality Midnight to 3 Must have wrist band for bus tour and hospitality Friday night. �Saturday, March 9th Hospitality - 8 am to 3 pm Woman's Conference 1 pm - Host Hotel (Open to the Public, Free) Coronation VI - Host Hotel - $45 (Dress is Theme or Formal) Doors / Meet and Greet at 5 pm, Dinner at 6 pm and Ceremony at 7 pm Hospitality - 1 hour after Coronation to 3 am Sunday, March 10th Victory Brunch - Host Hotel - $25 Doors at 10:30, Brunch at 11 Shot Party - 3 pm - 5 pm Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Victory Show - 7 pm - ? Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Hotel, Tickets and Program Advertising Information are available on theImperial Court of All Oklahoma website I.C.A.O. is a 501(c)3 Non Profit Organization for more information contact ICAO on Facebook or impcourtok@gmail.com Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Anything but Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth' by Wayne Besen You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center �Nationally known activist Wayne Besen spent four years examining the phenomenon of "ex-gay" ministries and reparative therapies-interviewing leaders, attending conferences, and visiting ministries undercover as he accumulated hundreds of hours of research. The result is Anything but Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth, a groundbreaking exposé of the controversial movement that's revered by independent religious groups and reviled by gay and lesbian organizations. The book presents a historical perspective on the dispute, examining "ex-gay" groups such as Love In Action, Exodus International, Homosexuals Anonymous, and profiling a cast of characters that includes Pat Robertson, the Rev. Jerry Falwell, "ex-gay" poster boy John Paulk, National Association of Research and Therapy of Homosexuality activist Richard Cohen, and psychiatrist Dr. Robert Spitzer. An in-depth, well-researched, and historically significant account, Anything but Straight is full of startling facts and alarming surprises. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Org anization of vo:lunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9383ac7d32d04e36a9d4ddb595dd22ae.pdf 6ecd30719219a7e8951c28d168e6315a PDF Text Text eNews March 13th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day SAGE hosts TCC Welcome to the eNews. OkEq will be hosting Marriage Equality Week on March 25th - 30th. Be sure to check out all the events we have on schedule for the week. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Equality Business Alliance OUTlaw Legal Workshop Homebuyer Class MOREcolor Art Show The eNews for the week of March 13th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Pride 2013 DREAM Act Oklahoma For quality photography : web, weddings, lbusi ness, events, portraits (couples, f ami ly, senior,. kids... ) STEVEN MICHAELS photography 918 494 8886 www.StevenMichaels.net Equality Gala Native HIV/AIDS Days TMSL EBA Sponsor Singles Night OUT Tulsa Growl Marriage Equality Week Know Your Rights Within Our Reach Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their 14th anniversary, Kelly Kirby and Charles Johnston made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the Equality Center on the day of Sunday, March 10th, 2013. Thank You and Happy Anniversary, Kelly and Charles! Suzanne Westenhoefer Tulsa Two Spirit Dining Out for Life Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Be Our Voice, Give a Day �SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, March 26th, 2013; 10:30 am OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 21st, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone ~ Tulsa Community College Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 13th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Street Law Firm. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The Street Law Firm 400 S. Boston Ave. Suite 1100W, Tulsa, OK 74103 OUTlaw Legal Workshop 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month; 7:00 pm OkEq will host the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. Upcoming topics include wills, rights of survivorship, medical issues, power of attorney (durable) and inheritances, transgender name changes and trans rights. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Topic for March 14th: Where There's a Will, There's a Way - Have you drafted a will? How will you protect your property and belongings? Make sure your property goes to the right person. Free and open to the public. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for �beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator, Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. MOREcolor Artist Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 13th, 2013 MORE color . .. 1 ·I : • Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2013 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Swing Dance Class �Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocilcy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders Youth Program New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride's Drag Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook . 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �21 to Drink! DREAM ACT Oklahoma Saturday and Sunday, March 16th and 17th, 2013 Oklahomans for Equality will host a training session for DREAM Act Oklahoma at the Equality Center on Saturday March 16th from 6:00 - 10:00 pm and Sunday March 17th from 9:00 am - 6:00 pm. DAOK is excited to bring together potential leaders from all around Oklahoma to decide the next phase of the immigration youth movement. The retreat will set the direction and focus on what Oklahoma needs. DAOK wants to outline a strategic process and listen to you. DREAM Act Oklahoma is a youth-lead organization with an emphasis on civil rights for the undocumented community, trying to eradicate fear, help educate and advocate for a better life and a brighter future. For more information on DREAM Act OK or to sign up for the training, contact Ivan Godinez at Ivan@dreamactok.org or visit dreamactok.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013 The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook like us o:n Facebook ] Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members CHJ-\ Jf:~ KIRK HOLT And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. �Gender Outreach March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T. Native American Coalition of Green country Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ~ .. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm The eNews for the week of March 13th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are �Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 22nd, 2013 required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 Game Night The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For all the week's events, click here TU Law School's SODA Presents LGBT Law Monday, March 25th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Know Your Rights On Monday, March 25th, 2013 TU Law School's SODA (Sexual Orientation Diversity Alliance) will continue their monthly presentations on the state of LGBT Law in Oklahoma and the nation. As part of Marriage Equality Week, the presentation will be entitled "Preview to the Supreme Court Hearings on Marriage Equality" and will be at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. Within Our Reach Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality in FAMILY~ collaboration with Family & Children's Services will be CHILDREN,S SERVICES offering "Within Our Reach" a free, fun, educational couples Life Changing . relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also �enhance love, commitment and friendship. Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clitttle@fcsok.org strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to H.O.P.E. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. �Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Equality Center Pride Store Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The History of Lesbian Hair' by Mary Dugger You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In The History of Lesbian Hair, Mary Dugger delivers an unrelentingly hilarious view of the modern world. The redoubtable Ms. D. offers an uproarious array of illustrated essays, diagrams, and short takes, subdivided into Life ("The Downside to Lesbian Chic", how to "Build Your Own Lesbian", "So You Want to Be a Straight Girl", and the ultimate definition of children "pets with thumbs"), Liberty ("Far Right Trading Cards", the ethics of outing, and an irrefutable argument proving that if homosexuals really do make up only 1.5 percent of the population, then every gay person in Chicago spends an average of $13.11 on liquor every single day), and The Pursuit of Happiness (the birth of the indomitable alter ego Marie DuGuerre, and her ongoing search for love, romance, and a decent vacation). Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �~ Volw er A proud Partner Organization of vo:lunteer Tulsa., your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4ab99c4a9b3ab1002fa47be308ba0ba6.pdf 605284cfc9a9851f90029ebf82b1a68e PDF Text Text eNews March 19th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. OkEq is hosting Marriage Equality Week on March 25th - 30th. Be sure to check out all the events we have on schedule for the week. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Homebuyer Class MOREcolor Art Show Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Gala The eNews for the week of March 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: TheGardenTrug.com I 918.528.3828 TMSL EBA Sponsor Singles Night OUT GardenTru nursery, florist & gifts Tulsa Growl Marriage Equality Week Know Your Rights Within Our Reach Spring Into Color Mon-Sat9am-6pm I Sun I la Suzanne Westenhoefer LifeLine First Thursday Dining Out for Life Be Our Voice, Give a Day Tim Dickmann made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign in memory of his mother, Barbara Dickmann's birthday and sponsored OkEq and the Equality Center on Sunday, March 17th, 2013. Tulsa Two Spirit CODE Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Be Our Voice, Give a Day �OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 21st, 7:00 pm Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Insurance Crew, 420 S. Main Street, Suite 205, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. The Insurance Crew 420 S. Main Street, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Monday, April 8th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Steven Michael's Photography and held at Living Arts of Tulsa. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Living Arts of Tulsa 307 E. Brady, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 The April Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Tuesday, April 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and nonmembers, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday April 8th. Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. MOREcolor Artist Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 13th, 2013 MORE color - .. 1-1 :·· Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. �We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Grieving Well Tulsa Pride 2013 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Swing Dance Class Mondays �Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook. 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, 21 to Drink! 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013 The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook like us o:n Facebook ] SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Se,vices and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program CH J-\ lF:~ KIRK HOLT And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Opening Day on Sunday April 7th, 2013 Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �The eNews for the week of March 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 22nd, 2013 Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 Boot Camp For all the week's events, click here TU Law School's SODA Presents LGBT Law Monday, March 25th, 2013; 7:00 pm Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. �,, . Dennis R. Neill Equality Center r :::::· Gender Outreach Know Your Rights r On Monday, March 25th, 2013 TU Law School's SODA '~ (Sexual Orientation Diversity Alliance) will continue their monthly presentations on the state of LGBT Law in Oklahoma and the nation. As part of Marriage Equality Week, the presentation will be entitled "Preview to the Supreme Court Hearings on Marriage Equality" and will be at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. • I - Within Our Reach Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ~ Oklahomans for Equality in FAMILY~ collaboration with Family & CHILDREN,S Children's Services will be SERVICES offering "Within Our Reach" a free, fun, educational couples Life Chang i ng . relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship. Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clitttle@fcsok.org Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 .. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. LifeLine Screening at Circle Cinema Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Circle CInema 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Circle Cinema and the OpenArms Youth Project want to invite you to a screening Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment 17Ill CIRCLECINEMA. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are �of LifeLine, a 25 minute documentary about The Trevor Project and LGBTQ youth suicide prevention. The film will screen at Circle Cinema on Thursday, March 28th, 2013. Doors open at 7:30 and the screening will begin shortly after. The concession stand will be open and a $5 suggested donation will be asked for at the door with all proceeds going to Tulsa's Openarms Youth Project. required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, April 4th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the work of three different artists: Corazon Watkins, Carolyn Faseler and Don Holladay in a combined show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 4th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to H.O.P.E. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. CODE: An OML 2013 Fundraiser Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 pm On April 6th, 2013 the Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also �(T.U.L.S.A.) will sponsor a fundraiser at the Tulsa Eagle for the current Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2013, Nate Benner. Nate will be the representative from Oklahoma at the International Mr. Leather 2013 competition to be held in Chicago over the Memorial Day weekend. All proceeds from this evening will go directly to his travel fund. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. T.U.L.S.A. would love everyone to come and help support Nate, OML 2013, on his journey to Chicago for IML. Adherence to dress code is not mandatory, but HIGHLY encouraged. The event starts at 10:00 pm. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Scarlet Professor: Newton Arvin: A Literary Life Shattered by Scandal' by Barry Werth You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. �During his thirty-seven years at Smith College, Newton Arvin published groundbreaking studies of Hawthorne, Whitman, Melville, and Longfellow that stand today as models of scholarship and psychological acuity. He cultivated friendships with the likes of Edmund Wilson and Lillian Hellman and became mentor to Truman Capote. A social radical and closeted homosexual, the circumspect Arvin nevertheless survived McCarthyism. But in September 1960 his apartment was raided, and his cache of beefcake erotica was confiscated, plunging him into confusion and despair and provoking his panicked betrayal of several friends. BAR.RY \\ 'FRTll An utterly absorbing chronicle, The Scarlet Professor deftly captures the essence of a conflicted man and offers a provocative and unsettling look at American moral fanaticism.. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Vo:lunteer Tulsa,, your local action center! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/09cdf7c0ce544ec0b4ba456206a5dde7.pdf 90e13a3ae296cda47ed048dee36923db PDF Text Text eNews March 28th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day Birth Announcement Welcome to the eNews. It's Marriage Equality Week at OkEq. Be sure to check out all the events we have on schedule for the week. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Marriage Equality Week Homebuyer Class OUTlaw Legal Workshop Within Our Reach The eNews for the week of March 28th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: TheGardenTrug.com I 918.528.3828 First Thursday Equality Business Alliance Guys Dine Too GardenTru MOREcolor Art Show Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Gala TMSL Spring Into Color Mon -Sat9a m-6pm I Sun I l a EBA Sponsor Singles Night OUT Tulsa Growl Suzanne Westenhoefer Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of 15 years together and their marriage in NYC on 3-19-12, Kenneth Joslin and Mark Linholm have donated to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the Equality Center for the day of Tuesday, March 19th, 2013. Kenneth and Mark are pictured below in Times Square with Mark's daughter Audrey. LifeLine Book Study 8 Pride at TU Gamily Picnic at the Zoo Tulsa NOW Dining Out for Life Tulsa Two Spirit No Walls Entertainment CODE Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer �Find Us on Facebook Be Our Voice, Give a Day OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, April 11th, 7:00 pm Birth Announcement Congratulations from Oklahomans for Equality OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone Rebeka Radcliff & Kim McDonald welcomed their first child last month. Jordan Everett McRad was born a bouncing 8lbs 6oz on February 20th, 2013 at 11:00 am. Jordan's mommies stay busy admiring him and working in social services in the Tulsa area. The couple were married in September 2010 in Montreal, Canada and held their reception at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 For all the week's events, click here Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. As part of Marriage Equality Week, the OUTlaw Workshop will recap the hearings on the Defense of Marriage Act and Prop 8. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Within Our Reach Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality in FAMILY~ collaboration with Family & Children's Services will be CHILDREN,S SERVICES offering "Within Our Reach" a free, fun, educational couples Life Chang i ng . relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clittle@fcsok.org First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, April 4th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the work of three different artists: Corazon Watkins, Carolyn Faseler and Don Holladay in a combined show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 4th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & �James Prather Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Monday, April 8th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Steven Michael's Photography and held at Living Arts of Tulsa. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Living Arts of Tulsa 307 E. Brady, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 The April Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Tuesday, April 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and nonmembers, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday April 8th. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, April 2nd, 2013; 6:30 pm The April meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Sonoma Bistro and Wine Bar Tuesday, April 2nd around 6:30 pm. Sonoma Bistro is located at 3523 S Peoria Ave www.sonomatulsa.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org MOREcolor Artist Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 13th, 2013 MORE color - .. 1- 1 :·· Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2013 SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program �Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook. 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �21 to Drink! Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook Uke us on Facebook ] Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach PJ-\ P f C,}A & PHILIP CH J-\ l F:~ KIRK HOLT And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: .... Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Opening Day on Sunday April 7th, 2013 Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com The eNews for the week of March 28th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm �Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, April 12th, 2013 Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 Game Night The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013; 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next �providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. LifeLine Screening at Circle Cinema Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Circle CInema 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 ~, ' /l:J. meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet CIRCLECINEMA. Circle Cinema and the OpenArms Youth Project want to invite you to a screening of LifeLine, a 25 minute documentary about The Trevor Project and LGBTQ youth suicide prevention. The film will screen at Circle Cinema on Thursday, March 28th, 2013. Doors open at 7:30 and the screening will begin shortly after. The concession stand will be open and a $5 suggested donation will be asked for at the door with all proceeds going to Tulsa's Openarms Youth Project. Rev. Bob Lawrence Book Study Every Thursday starting April 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Tulsa Theatres present "8" Thursday, Friday and Saturday, April 25th - 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Theatre Tulsa's New Stage, with license from the American Foundation for Equal Rights (AFER) and Broadway Impact, is proud to announce a oneweekend-only reading of "8," a play chronicling the historic trial in the federal constitutional challenge to California's Proposition 8. The script was written by Academy Award-winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, who penned the Academy Award-winning feature film "Milk" and the film "J. Edgar". Black's "8" is based on the actual words of the trial transcripts, first-hand observations of the courtroom drama and interviews with the plaintiffs and their families. The production and casts will combine the talents of three local theatres, Theatre Tulsa's New Stage company, Odeum Theatre Company and Theatre Pops. The production will run one weekend, April 25th - 27th, 2013 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's Liddy Doenges Theatre. All performances are at 7:30 pm. To purchase tickets, visit myticketoffice.com TU High School GSA Visit Day Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 am Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. �MISSION: Prid~ w otyu\Y/ Pride at TU is presenting a day for queer students, allies and their parents to come see the University of Tulsa campus through queer eyes. Saturday, April 6th, 2013 10:00 am - 11:00 am: An official Campus tour led by student University Ambassadors that will highlight the Little Blue House, the Office of Multicultural Student Affairs and other LGBTQ relevant spaces. 11:00 am - 12:00 pm: Being Queer on Campus Panel - TU students, faculty and staff present an honest discussion of the campus climate and what it's like to be out on campus. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please RSVP and/or direct questions to Zachary Harvat, president of Pride at TU, at zachary-harvat@utulsa.edu Gamily Picnic Day at the Tulsa Zoo Saturday, April 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm Gamily is planning a picnic day at the Tulsa Zoo be held on Sunday, April 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm. It will be a BYOL: Bring Your Our Lunch event. The Mohawk Park picnic area is free to the public and Gamily will have area to eat lunch and play before enjoying the Zoo. Discount tickets for Zoo entry are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for $4.00 and will not be sold on the day of the event. So pick up your tickets today. For more information email Gamily@okeq.org Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Tulsa National Organization for Women Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Sunday, April 7th, 2013; 2:00 pm Tulsa's National Organization for Women is a new local chapter of the National Organization for Women. NOW has six priority issues that include: reproductive justice, LGBT rights, racial rights, constitutional equality and violence against women. Tulsa NOW is recruiting new members and officers to perform outreach and education in the eastern Oklahoma area. NATICINI P,.', ~l:Z:::A'f'lQiN f!:ORWOMliliN On April 2nd, Tulsa NOW will be joining Planned Parenthood of the Heartland Tulsa office at the Oklahoma Capitol for a statewide lobby day. If you are interested please visit Facebook. For registration, please visit here. You can also e-mail Annie Norman for more information at: annie.norman@ppheartland.org. Tulsa NOW will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on April 7th, 2013 at 2:00 pm. Feel free to bring a friend and a snack. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to Di'ne, Qnl!, FigJi ti Al!}S, H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Performances May 31st, June 1st-2nd, 7th-9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. CODE: An OML 2013 Fundraiser Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 pm On April 6th, 2013 the Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association (T.U.L.S.A.) will sponsor a fundraiser at the Tulsa Eagle for the current Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2013, Nate Benner. Nate will be the representative from Oklahoma at the International Mr. Leather 2013 competition to be held in Chicago over the Memorial Day weekend. All proceeds from this evening will go directly to his travel fund. T.U.L.S.A. would love everyone to come and help support Nate, OML 2013, on his journey to Chicago for IML. Adherence to dress code is not mandatory, but HIGHLY encouraged. The event starts at 10:00 pm. �Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Prairie Storm' by Lynn E Lisarelli You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the spring of 1890, Ann Johnson, injured and on the run from a group of men who claim that she murdered a child in the town of Sutter's Ford, finds shelter and healing at the cabin of Devorah Lee, a widow living alone on the Kansas Prairie with her child, Melissa. Ann begins to develop strong feelings for Devorah, and although Devorah returns those feelings, she is hesitant and unsure about this new awakening in her heart. Ann faces two obstacles in her journey toward wholeness: competing with the local doctor for Devorah's affection, and struggling with the repressed memory of the real killer's identity. Will Ann Remember in time to save Devorah's child from being the next victim? Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library �• VolUI er A proud Partner Organization of vo:lunteer Tulsa., your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b4f516e849db50a0b291bd653b184a07.pdf 5f97444e3c739c5e742a448464f929d4 PDF Text Text eNews April 4th, 2013 In This Issue First Thursday Equality Business Alliance MOREcolor Art Show Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday May 4th, 2013. Tickets are now on sale and more information can be found at www.okeq.org/gala eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Gala TMSL Singles Night OUT EBA Sponsor First Thursday Art Reception Green Country Bears Thursday, April 4th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the work of three different artists: Corazon Watkins, Carolyn Faseler and Don Holladay in a combined show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 4th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Growl Suzanne Westenhoefer Book Study Swing Dance Class 8 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Pride at TU Gamily Picnic at the Zoo Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Tulsa NOW The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Monday, April 8th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Steven Michael's Photography and held at Living Arts of Tulsa. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Baby Boomers and Medicare Miss Jolt 2013 Dining Out for Life Tulsa Two Spirit Living Arts of Tulsa 307 E. Brady, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 No Walls Entertainment The April Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Tuesday, April 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and nonmembers, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday April 8th. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma CODE Pride Store MOREcolor Artist Submissions Rainbow Library Call for entries; Opening Night June 13th, 2013 Volunteer MORE color I I :rt Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and Find Us on Facebook �installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2013 OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, April 11th, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, April 25th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook Uke us on Facebook ] Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. OPJ.\ F? ( Cr IRANDA & PHILIP CHJ..\ JF~ Grieving Well KIRK HOLT 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Tulsa Metro Softball League Opening Day on Sunday April 7th, 2013 Come out and help Tulsa Metro Softball League celebrate the start of their 5th Spring Season on Saturday April 7th, 2013. All events are open to the public and TMSL has invited everyone to attend! Below is a list of the events TMSL has planned for Opening Weekend 2013. Uniform Night 2013 Date: Friday, April 5th, 2013 Time: 7:30 pm - ??? Location: Tulsa Eagle - 1338 E. 3rd Street in Tulsa What: Come out to meet the teams and players at TMSL's first social event of the season. Opening Day 2013 Date: Sunday, April 7th, 2013 "First Pitch" : 12:45 pm on Field 1 Games: 1:00 - 4:00 pm Location: Carl Smith Sports Complex - 17120 E. 21st Street - Tulsa Fields: 1:00 - 4:00 pm Opening Day Extra Innings Date: Sunday, April 7th, 2013 Time: 4:30 pm - ?? Location: 209 The Arts Bar - 209 N. Boulder Ave in Tulsa What: A fun social event held after the games to drink and mingle To learn more and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather �Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, April 12th, 2013 The next event will be Singles Bingo. Not your Grandma's bingo night. You will be glad you stopped by. Please call 918.743.4297 or email mary.jones@okeq.org to reserve a seat. Seating will be limited. The eNews for the week of April 4th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org Green Country Bears - Spring Fling Saturday, April 13th, 2013; 7:00 pm Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St Come 'Fool Around' with the Green Country Bears for Spring Fling, April 13th, 2013 7:00 pm, at the Tulsa Eagle. Lots of Food, Fun, and Entertainment! Hamburgers and Hot Dogs off the grill. Come party with the Bears! For more information about the Green Country Bears, please visit greencountrybears.net SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage w Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 �The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013; 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Rev. Bob Lawrence Book Study Every Thursday starting April 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". A copy of the book will be available for purchase at the book study. Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org Swing Dance Class - Learn the Shim Sham Every Monday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Have you been curious about swing dancing but think you can't do it? Don't know who Tacky Annie or Shortie George are? Now's the perfect time to get into the swing of things! If tap dancing and swing music had a love child, the Shim Sham would be it! This jazz line dance is a lot of fun and the instructors from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will lead you through it, one step at a Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �time. No partner or experience needed! No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to www.tosstulsa.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. Tulsa Theatres present "8" Thursday, Friday and Saturday, April 25th - 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Theatre Tulsa's New Stage, with license from the American Foundation for Equal Rights (AFER) and Broadway Impact, is proud to announce a oneweekend-only reading of "8," a play chronicling the historic trial in the federal constitutional challenge to California's Proposition 8. The script was written by Academy Award-winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, who penned the Academy Award-winning feature film "Milk" and the film "J. Edgar". Black's "8" is based on the actual words of the trial transcripts, first-hand observations of the courtroom drama and interviews with the plaintiffs and their families. The production and casts will combine the talents of three local theatres, Theatre Tulsa's New Stage company, Odeum Theatre Company and Theatre Pops. The production will run one weekend, April 25th - 27th, 2013 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's Liddy Doenges Theatre. All performances are at 7:30 pm. To purchase tickets, visit myticketoffice.com TU High School GSA Visit Day Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 am Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Prid~ w atyu\Y/ Pride at TU is presenting a day for queer students, allies and their parents to come see the University of Tulsa campus through queer eyes. Saturday, April 6th, 2013 10:00 am - 11:00 am: An official Campus tour led by student University Ambassadors that will highlight the Little Blue House, the Office of Multicultural Student Affairs and other LGBTQ relevant spaces. 11:00 am - 12:00 pm: Being Queer on Campus Panel - TU students, faculty and staff present an honest discussion of the campus climate and what it's like to be out on campus. Please RSVP and/or direct questions to Zachary Harvat, president of Pride at TU, at zachary-harvat@utulsa.edu Gamily Picnic Day at the Tulsa Zoo Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Saturday, April 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm Gamily is planning a picnic day at the Tulsa Zoo be held on Sunday, April 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm. It will be a BYOL: Bring Your Our Lunch event. The Mohawk Park picnic area is free to the public and Gamily will have area to eat lunch and play before enjoying the Zoo. Discount tickets for Zoo entry are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for $4.00 and will not be sold on the day of the event. So pick up your tickets today. For more information email Gamily@okeq.org Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm �Counseling Services Tulsa National Organization for Women Saturdays By appointment Sunday, April 7th, 2013; 2:00 pm Tulsa's National Organization for Women is a new local chapter of the National Organization for Women. NOW has six priority issues that include: reproductive justice, LGBT rights, racial rights, constitutional equality and violence against women. Tulsa NOW is recruiting new members and officers to perform outreach and education in the eastern Oklahoma area. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays N,Q,Tl, QN1At, ~IA"l'lON !EU WOM- NI On April 2nd, Tulsa NOW will be joining Planned Parenthood of the Heartland Tulsa office at the Oklahoma Capitol for a statewide lobby day. If you are interested please visit Facebook. For registration, please visit here. You can also e-mail Annie Norman for more information at: annie.norman@ppheartland.org. on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa NOW will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on April 7th, 2013 at 2:00 pm. Feel free to bring a friend and a snack. Baby Boomers and Medicare Tuesday, April 30th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, April 30th, 2013 at 6:30 pm, Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) and former OkEq Board Member will present Baby Boomers and Meicare. Al will present information on Medicare Supplements and information on where you can get the most for your Parents' MONEY. Do your Parents find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you feel they are paying too much money? Are their medications too expensive? Are you or your partner or even your parents on a fixed income? You and your parents cannot afford to miss this event. Miss JOLT 2013 Friday, April 12th, 2013; 8:15 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Club Renegade 1649 S Main St The Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is sponsoring it's annual Miss JOLT pageant Saturday, April 12th, 2013 at 8:15 pm at Club Renegade. The pageant is a fundraiser to help host the annual JOLT bowling tournament to be held in October this year. Bowlers from across the U.S. come to Tulsa to be a part of this weekend tournament and all it's associated fun and activities. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next �support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Performances May 31st, June 1st-2nd, 7th-9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. �MISSION: Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Investitures for Reign VI "The Old Lady who lives in a Shoe - A night of Nursery Rhyme Fantasy) Saturday, April 13th, 2013 Meet/Greet & Ceremony 5:00 - 7:00 pm @ The Tulsa Eagle (No Cover, Donations will be accepted) Show 8:30 pm - ? @ The Bamboo Lounge (No Cover) Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Host: Empress VI - Cougar Anne Savon-Ewing Suggested Dress is Formal or Theme Attire CODE: An OML 2013 Fundraiser Proceeds benefit the I.C.A.O. Reign VI Charity Fund Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 pm more or message us on OnFor April 6th,information 2013 the email Tulsa impcourtok@gmail.com Uniform and Facebook Leather Seekers Association (T.U.L.S.A.) will sponsor a fundraiser at the Tulsa Eagle for the current Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2013, Nate Benner. Nate will be the representative from Oklahoma at the International Mr. Leather 2013 competition to be held in Chicago over the Memorial Day weekend. All proceeds from this evening will go directly to his travel fund. T.U.L.S.A. would love everyone to come and help support Nate, OML 2013, on his journey to Chicago for IML. Adherence to dress code is not mandatory, but HIGHLY encouraged. The event starts at 10:00 pm. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Time of the Kingfishers' by David Watmough You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center TH A rich, elegiac novel about family, friendship, and loyalty featuring Watmough's protagonist Davey Bryant. As the compassionate and witty narrator, Davey leads the reader through various upheavals in the life he shares with Ken, his companion, and their friends. Ii\\E -'f ofthe ~ KINGFI HER At the heart of their journeys is Davey's own plaintive recollections of a past we all hope to recapture. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volun er A proud Partner Organization of Vo:lunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ecdaf41082824909690133c519d33ae9.pdf 39113b24984cdb5bea37e5b9006dbff9 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 19th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Equality Gala Gamily Picnic at the Zoo 8 Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday May 4th, 2013. Purchase a seat now and find more information at www.okeq.org/gala. Deadline for purchase is Sunday, April 27th. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality ---- - - OUTlaw Legal Workshop Zumba Fitness Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Business Alliance MOREcolor Art Show The eNews for the week of April 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Singles Night OUT EBA Sponsor For quality photography: web, weddings, business, events, portraits (couples, family, senior, kids ... ) STEVEN MICHAELS photograpliy 918 494 8886 www.StevenMichaels.net Tulsa Growl First Thursday Art Book Study Swing Dance Class TOSS Baby Boomers and Medicare Homebuyer Class Legal Clinic Dining Out for Life Mother's Day Service No Walls Entertainment OkEq Equality Gala 2013 Saturday, May 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer [ ~ Like us on Facebook ] Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala ------- - -- Day at the Tulsa Zoo Sunday, April 21st, 2013; 9:00 am - 5:00 pm; Gamily picnic at 2:00 pm Tulsa Pride and OkEq's Gamily (Gay Family Program) are teaming up to have a day at the Tulsa Zoo be held on Sunday, April 21st, 2013 from 9:00 am - 5:00 pm. Gamily will host a BYOL: Bring Your Own Lunch picnic at 2:00 pm. Gamily will have area (look for the rainbow umbrellas!) to eat lunch and play before enjoying the Zoo. Discount tickets for Zoo entry are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for $4.00 and there is a $2.00 charge at the Mohawk Park entrance. So pick up your tickets today. For more information email Gamily@okeq.org Tulsa Theatres present "8" Thursday, Friday and Saturday, April 25th - 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Theatre Tulsa's New Stage, with license from the American Foundation for Equal Rights (AFER) and Broadway Impact, is proud to announce a oneweekend-only reading of "8," a play chronicling the historic trial in the federal constitutional challenge to California's Proposition 8. The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Corazon Watkins, Carolyn Faseler and Don Holladay in a combined show Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... The script was written by Academy Award-winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, who penned the Academy Award-winning feature film "Milk" and the film "J. Edgar". Black's "8" is based on the actual words of the trial transcripts, first-hand observations of the courtroom drama and interviews with the plaintiffs and their families. The production and casts will combine the talents of three local theatres, Theatre Tulsa's New Stage company, Odeum Theatre Company and Theatre Pops. The production will run one weekend, April 25th - 27th, 2013 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's Liddy Doenges Theatre. All performances are at 7:30 pm. To purchase tickets, visit myticketoffice.com OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. Upcoming topics include wills, rights of survivorship, medical issues, power of attorney (durable) and inheritances, transgender name changes and trans rights. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Zumba Fitness Sundays starting May 5th, 2013; 2:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Carlos A. Bejarano is a Tulsa native & Zumba Fitness� Instructor since October 2012, Carlos creates a party atmosphere by combining Latin, hip-hop and international rhythms with a huge smile for a unique workout class experience. Zumba Fitness Sundays 2:30 pm Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Facilitated by Carlos Bejarano Free for Members $5 for Non Members Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Free for OkEq Members, $5 for Non Members Tulsa Pride 2013 Grieving Well 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 7:30 pm Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, April 25th, 2013 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Tulsa Pride Events • Friday, May 10th, 2013 - Leather and Lace Fetish Fashion Show @ Tulsa Eagle 9:00 p - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 11th, 2013 - Pants off for Pride @ Mojo's 9:00 pm 2:00 am • Friday, May 17th, 2013 - Pride Night @ TNT's 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 18th, 2013 Pride Night @ Bamboo Lounge 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Sunday, May 26th, 2013 - Okahomo! a Sing-Along @ 209 the Arts Bar 9:00 pm - 2:00 am Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. Equality Business Alliance Gl Swing Class Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The May Monthly EBA Business Meeting will be on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday May 6th. The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Shock. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Shock BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 MOREcolor Artist Submissions Submission deadline is April 30th, 2013 MORE color , · Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Youth Program The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, April 26th, 2013. The eNews for the week of April 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd - 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, May 2nd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Boot Camp 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... The May OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center will feature the photographic works of Lanette Buchanan in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 2nd, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Book Study "Faith, Doubt & Other Lines I've Crossed" Every Thursday; 7:00 pm Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". A copy of the book will be available for purchase at the book study. Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org Swing Dance Class - Learn the Shim Sham Every Monday at 7:00 pm Swing Class Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Have you been curious about swing dancing but think you can't do it? Don't know who Tacky Annie or Shortie George are? Now's the perfect time to get into the swing of things! If tap dancing and swing music had a love child, the Shim Sham would be it! This jazz line dance is a lot of fun and the instructors from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will lead you through it, one step at a time. No partner or experience needed! No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to theoklahomaswingsyndicate.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. Johnny Boyd and Indigo Swing Saturday April 27th, 2013; Classes start at 6:30 pm, Show at 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Coming up on April 27th, 2013, for one very special night only, The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will be meeting at another location. So pack up your dancin' shoes and meet us at Equality Center at, in beautiful downtown Tulsa. Change is never easy, so to sweeten the pot TOSS is bringing not one but TWO BANDS! The award-winning Little Joe Blues band will open the show, and Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ===CZ.. ""' - Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend SINGER , SONGWRITER , swntG LOVER! LIVE ON STAGE/ JOt1NNY BOYD Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... then singer, songwriter and swing lover MUIIC ""1■,o • JOB■■l'IOl'D.COM Johnny Boyd and his band will perform LIVE your favorite Indigo Swing songs and dance tunes from Johnny's brand new album, Never Been Blue. As always, the intermediate lesson will start at 6:30, and beginner lesson will start at 7:00. The festivities will begin at 7:30 and we'll dance until 11:00! C Tickets are $10 in advance, or $12 at the door. Advance tickets may be purchased at johnnyboyd.com/tour. TOSS members will get a special --- -- ------benefit - including the possibility of winning one of two upcoming Lindy Hop workshop passes. For more information, visit www.theoklahomaswingsyndicate.org or find TOSS on Facebook Baby Boomers and Medicare Tuesday, April 30th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, April 30th, 2013 at 6:30 pm, Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) and former OkEq Board Member will present Baby Boomers and Medicare. Al will present information on Medicare Supplements and information on where you can get the most for your parents' MONEY. Do your parents find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you feel they are paying too much money? Are their medications too expensive? Are you or your partner or even your parents on a fixed income? You and your parents cannot afford to miss this event. For more information, contact mary.jones@okeq. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Equality Business Alliance members Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Tuesday, May 14th, 2013; 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... LEGAL AID SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC . il= Making Equal Justict for All a Reality Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the Dine Out. t'igJ!_t AI05J evening to H.O.P.E. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org or the Dining Out for Life Facebook Event Mother's Day Service Sunday, May 12th, 2013; 11:00 am Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St The Parish Church of St. Jerome extends a warm invitation to all mothers for service on Mother's Day, Sunday, May 12th, 2013 at 11:00 am. We invite all mothers, single or partnered, Lesbian or straight. If you are not a Mom, bring yours, especially if she has been a supportive force in your life as an LGBTQ person. We want to show our gratitude and love to those who have nurtured and supported us with a special gift. St. Jerome is located at 205 W. King St. (Denver & King), Tulsa. No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... or just show up at rehearsal. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Why Marriage Matters: America, Equality, and Gay People's Right to Marry' by Evan Wolfson You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Why Marriage Matters offers a compelling, intelligently reasoned discussion of a question at the forefront of our national consciousness. It is the work of one of the most influential attorneys in America, who has dedicated his life to the protection of individuals' rights and our Constitution's commitment to equal justice under the law. Above all, it is a clear, straightforward book that brings into sharp focus the very human significance of the right to marry in America -- not just for some couples, but for all. AMERICA , EQUALITY , AND Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org GAY PEOPLE ' S RIGHT TO MARRY Why is the word marriage so important? Will marriage for same-sex couples hurt the "sanctity" of the institution? How can people of different faiths reconcile their beliefs with the idea of marriage for same-sex couples? How will allowing gay couples to marry affect children? Thlslsonouselulbook A,medvv,thWolfsonsMguments you coulds.,llanyonow,thanlOovo,rnomtomporntu•oontho ....,sdom and humomty of mn,rlogo equahly -Tho Omgoman In this quietly powerful volume, the most authoritative and fairly articulated book on the subject, Wolfson demonstrates why the right to marry is important -- indeed necessary -- for all couples and for America's promise of equality. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 10:51 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d19a34d423787c1be910f4e4d1b414dc.pdf ab61ed32ebbc4b5d38527a58aa328ab4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 24th, 2013 In This Issue Equality Gala 8 Dining Out for Life Homebuyer Class Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday May 4th, 2013. Purchase a seat now and find more information at www.okeq.org/gala. Deadline for purchase is Friday, April 26th. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality ---- - - TOSS Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Business Alliance MOREcolor Art Show Singles Night OUT OkEq Equality Gala 2013 Saturday, May 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook EBA Sponsor Zumba Fitness Tulsa Growl Guys Dine Too First Thursday Art Book Study Swing Dance Class Baby Boomers and Medicare Legal Clinic NERDception Mother's Day Service No Walls Entertainment Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala ----- - - 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... Tulsa Theatres present "8" Thursday, Friday and Saturday, April 25th - 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Theatre Tulsa's New Stage, with license from the American Foundation for Equal Rights (AFER) and Broadway Impact, is proud to announce a oneweekend-only reading of "8," a play chronicling the historic trial in the federal constitutional challenge to California's Proposition 8. The script was written by Academy Award-winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, who penned the Academy Award-winning feature film "Milk" and the film "J. Edgar". Black's "8" is based on the actual words of the trial transcripts, first-hand observations of the courtroom drama and interviews with the plaintiffs and their families. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 7:00 pm The production and casts will combine the talents of three local theatres, Theatre Tulsa's New Stage company, Odeum Theatre Company and Theatre Pops. The production will run one weekend, April 25th - 27th, 2013 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's Liddy Doenges Theatre. All performances are at 7:30 pm. To purchase tickets, visit myticketoffice.com Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the • 0 u t . t'ight Done ~ AIDS, evening to H.O.P.E. OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Corazon Watkins, Carolyn Faseler and Don Holladay in a combined show Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org or the Dining Out for Life Facebook Event Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Equality Business Alliance members Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Johnny Boyd and Indigo Swing Saturday April 27th, 2013; Classes start at 6:30 pm, Show at 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SINGER , SONGWRITER , SWING LOVER! LIVE ON STAGE/ Coming up on April 27th, 2013, for one very special night only, The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will be meeting at another location. So pack up your dancin' shoes and meet us at Equality Center at, in beautiful downtown Tulsa. . . IIJallllfc:.&a Change is never easy, so to sweeten •n.ASJaUU a Jt'MlarlOff,I• .. the pot TOSS is bringing not one but TWO BANDS! The award-winning Little Joe Blues band will open the show, and then singer, songwriter and swing lover Johnny Boyd and his band will perform LIVE your favorite Indigo Swing songs and dance tunes from Johnny's brand new album, Never Been Blue. As always, the intermediate lesson will start at 6:30, and beginner lesson will start at 7:00. The festivities will begin at 7:30 and we'll dance until 11:00! JOt1NNY BOYD MDAIOffDaa. Zumba Fitness Sundays 2:30 pm Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Facilitated by Carlos Bejarano Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tickets are $10 in advance, or $12 at the door. Advance tickets may be purchased at johnnyboyd.com/tour. - - - - - - - - TOSS members will get a special benefit - including the possibility of winning one of two upcoming Lindy Hop workshop passes. For more information, visit www.theoklahomaswingsyndicate.org or find TOSS on Facebook Tulsa Pride 2013 Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 7:30 pm Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, April 25th, 2013 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Tulsa Pride Events • Friday, May 10th, 2013 - Leather and Lace Fetish Fashion Show @ Tulsa Eagle 9:00 p - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 11th, 2013 - Pants off for Pride @ Mojo's 9:00 pm 2:00 am • Friday, May 17th, 2013 - Pride Night @ TNT's 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 18th, 2013 Pride Night @ Bamboo Lounge 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Sunday, May 26th, 2013 - Okahomo! a Sing-Along @ 209 the Arts Bar 9:00 pm - 2:00 am Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. Equality Business Alliance Gl Swing Class Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The May Monthly EBA Business Meeting will be on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday May 6th. The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Shock. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Shock BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 MOREcolor Artist Submissions Submission deadline is April 30th, 2013 MORE color , · Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Youth Program The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, April 26th, 2013. The eNews for the week of April 24th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Zumba Fitness Sundays starting May 5th, 2013; 2:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Carlos A. Bejarano is a Tulsa native & Zumba Fitness� Instructor since October 2012, Carlos creates a party atmosphere by combining Latin, hip-hop and international rhythms with a huge smile for a unique workout class experience. Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Free for OkEq Members, $5 for Non Members Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 Boot Camp The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... - 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, May 7th, 2013; 6:30 pm The May meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Bangkok Restaurant & Buffet on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Bangkok Rstaurant & Buffet is located at 3313 E 32nd Pl Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, May 2nd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ===The May OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center will feature the photographic works of Lanette Buchanan in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 2nd, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Book Study "Faith, Doubt & Other Lines I've Crossed" Every Thursday; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". A copy of the book will be available for purchase at the book study. Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org , : :. T um,·11 t cmm --. Swing Dance Class - Learn the Shim Sham Every Monday at 7:00 pm Swing Class .. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Have you been curious about 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... swing dancing but think you can't do it? Don't know who Tacky Annie or Shortie George are? Now's the perfect time to get into the swing of things! If tap dancing and swing music had a love child, the Shim Sham would be it! This jazz line dance is a lot of fun and the instructors from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will lead you through it, one step at a time. No partner or experience needed! No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to theoklahomaswingsyndicate.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. Swing Class Baby Boomers and Medicare Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Tuesday, April 30th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, April 30th, 2013 at 6:30 pm, Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) and former OkEq Board Member will present Baby Boomers and Medicare. Al will present information on Medicare Supplements and information on where you can get the most for your parents' MONEY. Do your parents find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you feel they are paying too much money? Are their medications too expensive? Are you or your partner or even your parents on a fixed income? You and your parents cannot afford to miss this event. For more information, contact mary.jones@okeq. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Tuesday, May 14th, 2013; 6:00 pm LEGAL AID SERVICES t b. OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equa/JustictforAII 11 Reality Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. NERDception Every other Tuesday starting May 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. For example, who would win: Superman or the Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... Mother's Day Service Sunday, May 12th, 2013; 11:00 am Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St The Parish Church of St. Jerome extends a warm invitation to all mothers for service on Mother's Day, Sunday, May 12th, 2013 at 11:00 am. We invite all mothers, single or partnered, Lesbian or straight. If you are not a Mom, bring yours, especially if she has been a supportive force in your life as an LGBTQ person. We want to show our gratitude and love to those who have nurtured and supported us with a special gift. St. Jerome is located at 205 W. King St. (Denver & King), Tulsa. No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! Get them now before Pride for $20.00! Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'What the L?' by Kate Clinton Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center As in "Liberal" "Left" and "Lesbian." A columnist for the Progressive and the Advocate, Clinton offers deft takes on politics and culture, believing in laughter's ability to "subvert authority and promote democracy." If not laugh-out-loud funny, Clinton lands lots of one-liners. Our attorney general was "J. Edgar Ashcroft"; our author is no "America Frister." Noting that only Dick Cheney had acknowledged that his daughter, Mary, is gay, Clinton observes, "His lovely wife, Lon Cheney, demurs on the dyke thing." She's savage toward those would retool gays into straights, and passionate about the gay Catholics in the group Dignity willing to take on the church. The book mixes new material with previously published columns, and a few pieces are explicitly personal, such as one on Clinton's 11 years of coming out, and one in which she stands amazed that a movie like Boys Don't Cry got made. Her calling is clear from the mail-order minister's license she got to perform gay weddings: "Call me the Irreverend Kate Clinton." Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 10:50 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3c39a22867ff506d5b92722a80b8ab3b.pdf 10d77d2a13a2a65c3fa7618961f7caae PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 1st, 2013 In This Issue • Equality Gala First Thursday Art Zumba Fitness Legal Clinic Welcome to the eNews. Final preparations are being made and we are looking forward to seeing everyone at the Equality Gala this Saturday, May 4th at 6:30 pm. www.okeq.org/gala ----- eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Book Study Open AA Group OUTlaw Legal Workshop NERDception Tulsa Interfaith Alliance OkEq Equality Gala 2013 Saturday, May 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook [ ~ Like us on Facebook ] Equality Business Alliance Tulsa Growl Swing Dance Class Guys Dine Too Singles Night OUT MOREcolor Art Show Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Threat Tulsa Lambda Bowling Mother's Day Service No Walls Entertainment Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic work of Lanette Clark Tai Chi Class www.okeq.org/gala ---- - - First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, May 2nd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The May OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center will feature the photographic works of Lanette Clark in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 2nd, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Zumba Fitness Zumba Fitness Sundays starting May 5th, 2013; 2:30 pm 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Vi SA Carlos A. Bejarano is a Tulsa native & Zumba Fitness� Instructor since October 2012, Carlos creates a party atmosphere by combining Latin, hip-hop and international rhythms with a huge smile for a unique workout class experience. Free for OkEq Members, $5 for Non Members Sundays 2:30 pm Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Facilitated by Carlos Bejarano Free for Members $5 for Non Members Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Tuesday, May 14th, 2013; 6:00 pm LEGAL AID SERVICES t tz. OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justiu for All a Reality Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Spectrum Knits Book Study "Faith, Doubt & Other Lines I've Crossed" Thursday, May 2nd and 9th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". A copy of the book will be available for purchase at the book study. Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org I, ,:::, ' " "" "'"'' ,.;.I"' T r I 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm Grieving Well ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursdays, May 9th & 23rd, 2013; 7:00 pm 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Floral Haven Memorial Gardens OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on Thursdays May 9th and May 23rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., will lead the topic discussions which will change each meeting. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. NERDception Every other Tuesday starting May 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. For example, who would win: Superman or the Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Will resume June 3rd Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Tulsa Interfaith Alliance Annual Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013; dinner at 5:30 pm Join the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance on Thursday, May 16, 2013 for their Annual Meeting Dinner and Speaker Event, featuring Jay Bakker. Jay will speak about his latest book, "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I've Crossed: Walking With the Unknown God." The dinner begins at 5:30 pm and costs $25/person. Sponsorships are available. The annual business meeting will occur at the end of the dinner, and is free. Jay's keynote address will begin at 7:00 pm and is free and open to the public. All events will happen at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. To register for this event, please click here. tulsainterfaithalliance.org Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The May Monthly EBA Business Meeting will be on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item Gl Swing Class Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday May 6th. The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Shock. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Shock BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Tulsa Growl 2013 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan May 3rd - 5th, 2013 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd - 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Swing Dance Class - Learn the Shim Sham Every Monday at 7:00 pm Swing Class SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Have you been curious about swing dancing but think you can't do it? Don't know who Tacky Annie or Shortie George are? Now's the perfect time to get into the swing of things! If tap dancing and swing music had a love child, the Shim Sham would be it! This jazz line dance is a lot of fun and the instructors from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will lead you through it, one step at a time. No partner or experience needed! No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to theoklahomaswingsyndicate.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Guys Dine Too Tuesday, May 7th, 2013; 6:30 pm The May meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Bangkok Restaurant & Buffet on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Bangkok Rstaurant & Buffet is located at 3313 E 32nd Pl Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... if you plan on attending. Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm .,.-----=--- Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, May 10th, 2013. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 MOREcolor Art Show Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color , · MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2013 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at EL: - www.tulsapride.org Tulsa Pride 2013 Meeting Thursday, May 30th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride 2013 will have a planning meeting Thursday, May 30th, 2013 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Tulsa Pride Events • Friday, May 10th, 2013 - Leather and Lace Fetish Fashion Show @ Tulsa Eagle 9:00 p - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 11th, 2013 - Pants off for Pride @ Mojo's 9:00 pm 2:00 am • Friday, May 17th, 2013 - Pride Night @ TNT's 9:00 pm - 2:00 am Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... • Saturday, May 18th, 2013 Pride Night @ Bamboo Lounge 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Sunday, May 26th, 2013 - Okahomo! a Sing-Along @ 209 the Arts Bar 9:00 pm - 2:00 am Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. Tulsa Threat Saturday, May 4th and Saturday May 11th, 2013; 7:00 pm Bixby Spartan Stadium 601 S Riverview Bixby, OK The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team won their last game against the Little Rock Wildcats 28 - 8. With that win, the Tulsa Threat remains undefeated in their division. The Threat invites you to join them at their next games, this Saturday May 4th and Saturday May 11th, 2013. Gates open at 5:30 pm and kick off is at 7:00 pm. Adult admission is $8 and kids are $5. Military and Student admission is $5. Games are played at Bixby Spartan Stadium, 601 S. Riverview. For more information on the Tulsa Threat, visit www.tulsathreat.com Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Andy B's Bowling Center Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is organizing teams Summer League. It is $20 to join plus $14 per week every Monday evening at 6:45 pm. They bowl at Andy B's, 8711 South Lewis, You can contact lamdaleague@cox.net for further questions or just show up at the bowling alley. The Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is an officially sanctioned league with the IGBO (International Gay Bowling Organization). Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Mother's Day Service Sunday, May 12th, 2013; 11:00 am Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St The Parish Church of St. Jerome extends a warm invitation to all mothers for service on Mother's Day, Sunday, May 12th, 2013 at 11:00 am. We invite all mothers, single or partnered, Lesbian or straight. If you are not a Mom, bring yours, especially if she has been a supportive force in your life as an LGBTQ person. We want to show our gratitude and love to those who have nurtured and supported us with a special gift. St. Jerome is located at 205 W. King St. (Denver & King), Tulsa. No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! Get them now before Pride for $20.00! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Man About Town' by Mark Merlis You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Joel Lingeman has been set adrift. Until recently, life was 'relative contentedness'; working for Congress, frequenting the Hill club a little too frequently, cooking dinner for two every night and routine sex on Sundays. Now Sam, his lover of fifteen years, has left him for a stunning twenty-three year old and he cannot score a trick in the sleaziest pick-up joint in town. Joel's revulsion for the politics around him has dissipated into mild amusement at the 'social Darwinists' ready to snatch the last cents from the hands of the old and ailing. And he is increasingly obsessed by the different Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. A Ji O V l l Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... lives he could have led. When a teenage fantasy reasserts itself, the blond haired demi-god his eye once fell upon modelling swimsuits in the back of an old magazine, Joel is overcome by a pervasive sense of loss and embarks on a quest to hunt down 'the Santa Fe boy'. Astutely observed and resonant with dark, sardonic undertones, Man About Town is an unforgettable novel about losing your way, your self-esteem and your security. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 10:53 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/64007db7a6589ed117ce14fb88e611b9.pdf 8bc5284d6350f69d40338389fae8f123 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 9th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Programming Note Tulsa Pride 2013 Zumba Fitness Welcome to the eNews. Get ready for Tulsa Pride! It will be here before you know it. Get the info on all the Pride events www.tulsapride.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of May 9th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Legal Clinic OUTlaw Legal Workshop Book Study Open AA Group NERDception Singles Night OUT Equality Business Alliance EBA Sponsor Tulsa Interfaith Alliance MOREcolor Art Show Council Oak Mens Chorale Tulsa Threat Love Free or Die Tulsa Lambda Bowling NAGAAA Cup Mother's Day Service JO UR N E Y ~ TRAVB.1:-.C. OkEq Programming Note Monday, May 27th, 2013 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be open for Memorial Day on Monday, May 27th, 2013 but all evening programming has been canceled. No Walls Entertainment LGBT -Smoking - - -Survey -Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Tulsa Pride 2013 Saturday, June 1st and Sunday, June 2nd, 2013 Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... T U L S A OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 7:00 pm Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Pool Party Saturday, JUNE 1st - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 2nd - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2013 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many areas are available such as beverage attendant, entrance attendant and setup and tear down assistant, parking attendant and much more. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic work of Lanette Clark Tulsa Pride 2013 Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride 2013 will have a planning meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Tulsa Pride Events • Friday, May 10th, 2013 - Leather and Lace Fetish Fashion Show @ Tulsa Eagle 9:00 p - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 11th, 2013 - Pants off for Pride @ Mojo's 9:00 pm 2:00 am • Friday, May 17th, 2013 - Pride Night @ TNT's 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 18th, 2013 Pride Night @ Bamboo Lounge 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Sunday, May 26th, 2013 - Oklahomo! a Sing-Along @ 209 the Arts Bar 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Sunday, May 30th, 2013 - Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service @ Phillips Theological Seminary, 901 N Mingo Rd, 7:00 PM Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. Zumba Fitness Every Sunday; 2:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Special for Mother's Day, Sunday May 12th, bring your mom to Zumba Class for FREE! Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Carlos A. Bejarano is a Tulsa native & Zumba Fitness� Instructor since October 2012, Carlos creates a party atmosphere by combining Latin, hiphop and international rhythms with a huge smile for a unique workout class experience. Free for OkEq Members, $5 for Non Members Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Tuesday, May 14th, 2013; 6:00 pm Zumba Fitness Sundays 2:30 pm Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Facilitated by Carlos Bejarano Free for Members $5 for Non Members LEGAL AID SERVICES t .n. OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justict for All a R,ality Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. The clinic will address unemployment benefits, including the process for obtaining those benefits from the Oklahoma Employment Security Commission. This event is free and open to the public. OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursdays, May 16th & 23rd, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on Thursdays May 16th and May 23rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., will lead the topic discussions which will change each meeting. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Book Study "Faith, Doubt & Other Lines I've Crossed" Thursday, May 9th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Grieving Well 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". A copy of the book will be available for purchase at the book study. Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 NERDception Every other Tuesday starting May 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. For example, who would win: Superman or the Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Will resume June 3rd Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, May 10th, 2013. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, Gl Swing Class Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... May 15th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Shock. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Shock BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org The eNews for the week of May 9th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Mention this ad for priority schedu ling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com SAGE l] W' Tulsa Interfaith Alliance Annual Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013; dinner at 5:30 pm Join the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance on Thursday, May 16, 2013 for their Annual Meeting Dinner and Speaker Event, featuring Jay Bakker. Jay will speak about his latest book, "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I've Crossed: Walking With the Unknown God." The dinner begins at 5:30 pm and costs $25/person. Sponsorships are available. The annual business meeting will occur at the end of the dinner, and is free. Jay's keynote address will begin at 7:00 pm and is free and open to the public. (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program All events will happen at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. To register for this event, please click here. tulsainterfaithalliance.org MOREcolor Art Show Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color :. - MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Tuesday, May 28th, 2013; 7:00 pm Central Library Downtown Tulsa 400 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 council oak council oak mens choro/11 Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the downtown Tulsa library on Tuesday, May 28th, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Central Library in downtown Tulsa. This FREE event will be held in the Aaronson Auditorium. www.counciloak.org Tulsa Threat Saturday, May 11th, 2013; 7:00 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Bixby Spartan Stadium 601 S Riverview Bixby, OK The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team won their last game against the New Orleans Mojo 37 - 0. With that win, the Tulsa Threat remains undefeated in their division. The Threat invites you to join them at their next game, this Saturday May 11th, 2013. Gates open at 5:30 pm and kick off is at 7:00 pm. Adult admission is $8 and kids are $5. Military and Student admission is $5. Games are played at Bixby Spartan Stadium, 601 S. Riverview. For more information on the Tulsa Threat, visit www.tulsathreat.com 'Love Free or Die' Screening Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Andy B's Bowling Center Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is organizing teams Summer League. It is $20 to join plus $14 per week every Monday evening at 6:45 pm. They bowl at Andy B's, 8711 South Lewis, You can contact lamdaleague@cox.net for further questions or just show up at the bowling alley. The Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is an officially sanctioned league with the IGBO (International Gay Bowling Organization). Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Kick off Pride Week with a Big Gay Softball Party at the Guthrie Green Friday, May 24th, 2013; 7:30 pm Guthrie Green N Boston Ave Tulsa, OK Join Tulsa Metro Softball League, Tulsa Sports Commission, and Oklahomans for Equality Friday, May 24th, 2013 to welcome LGBT softball players from around the US to Tulsa for the 2013 NAGAAA Cup! TMSL is hosting a big gay 2013 NAGAAA Cup Opening Party from 7:30 - 9:30 pm at the Guthrie Green in the Brady Arts District and they want to invite you to join them! Drinks will be flowing, food trucks will be serving, local officials will be welcoming, and DJ $erious $tanley will be spinning! Friday, May 24th, 2013 7:30 - 9:30 pm - Be at the Guthrie Green! Visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com for more information and to sign up as a volunteer! Mother's Day Service Sunday, May 12th, 2013; 11:00 am Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St The Parish Church of St. Jerome extends a warm invitation to all mothers for service on Mother's Day, Sunday, May 12th, 2013 at 11:00 am. We invite all mothers, single or partnered, Lesbian or straight. If you are not a Mom, bring yours, especially if she has been a supportive force in your life as an LGBTQ person. We want to show our gratitude and love to those who have nurtured and supported us with a special gift. St. Jerome is located at 205 W. King St. (Denver & King), Tulsa. No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! Get them now before Pride for $20.00! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Game Night 'Gay Rights, Military Wrongs: Political Perspectives on Lesbians and Gays in the Military' edited by Craig Rimmerman 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "Gay Rights, Military Wrongs: Political Preface by Perspectives on Lesbians and Gays in Margarethe Cammermeyer the Military" is edited by Craig Author of Serving in Silence Rimmerman and features a preface by Margarethe Cammermeyer. This is a collection of articles that explore various facets of the issue of gay people serving in the armed forces. Ten original essays place the debate over homosexual military service in its historical, theoretical, political, and policy context: "Race-ing and Gendering the Military Closet," by Francine D'Amico; "Echoes of Prejudice: The Debates Over Race and Sexuality in the Armed Forces," by David Ari Bianco; "Military Women: Casualties of the Armed Forces' War on Lesbians and Gay Men," by Michelle M. Benecke and Kirstin S. Dodge; "Promise Unfulfilled: Clinton's Failure to Overturn the Military Ban on Lesbians and Gays," by Craig A. Rimmerman; "President Clinton, Public Opinion, and Gays in the Military," by Clyde Wilcox and Robin M. Wolpert; "The Perils of Congressional Politics," by David M. Rayside; "Seeking Another Forum: The Courts and Lesbian and Gay Rights," by Richard Pacelle; "The Spectacle of Life and Death: Feminist and Lesbian/Gay Politics in the Military," by Mary Fainsod Katzenstein; "Conduct Unbecoming Continues: The First Year Under 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell, Don't Pursue,'" by C. Dixon Osburn and Michelle M. Benecke; and finally "Constructing the 'Other' Soldier: Gay Identity's Military Threat," by Gary L. Lehring. Gay Rig Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - --- r---------------------------------------------------, I I I I I I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org -- I I I I I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 10:54 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1a2e04373709a184ab70af3fdb51e07a.pdf fb5ff92dd7adb2d5c11ab3eaa5ed6d4c PDF Text Text eNews February 20th, 2013 In This Issue Be Our Voice, Give a Day Eating Out for Equality Know Your Rights Welcome to the eNews. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is entirely supported by donations from the community. Be Our Voice, Give a Day allows us to spotlight our generous donors. Be Our Voice, Give a Day eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Be Our Voice, Give a Day To honor the courage and bravery of the transgender community, Havah Gordon has made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and is sponsoring the Equality Center for the week of Sun, February 17th, 2013 through Sat, February 23rd, 2013. Thank You for your support, Havah! Equality Business Alliance Swing Dance Class Community Hero Awards SAGE hosts TCC Camp Fire Candy Sale OUTlaw Legal Workshop Gamily Tulsa Pride 2013 TMSL Native HIV/AIDS Days Guys Dine Too First Thursday Tulsa Mister Leather Singles Night OUT Council Oak Mens Chorale Tulsa Spirit Imperial Court LGBT Equality Day Night of 1001 Divinations Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Inclement Weather Policy Be Our Voice, Give a Day Eating Out for Equality Tuesday, February 26th, 2013; 6:00 - 10:00 pm The Rusty Crane 109 N Detroit Ave, Tulsa, OK 74103 Oklahomans for Equality wants you and your family and friends to eat dinner with us at The Rusty Crane on Tuesday, February 26th from 6 - 10 Find Us on Facebook �pm. OkEq will receive 10% of the proceeds for the night. www.therustycranetulsa.com TU Law School's SODA Presents LGBT Law Monday, February 25th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Know Your Rights On Monday, February 25th, 2013 TU Law School's SODA (Sexual Orientation Diversity Alliance) will continue their monthly presentations on the state of LGBT Law in Oklahoma and the nation. The presentation will be at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. ,, .. I' #" OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 21st, 7 pm ...r Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook February's EBA Monthly Mixer will be will be hosted by Courtyard Atlas Life Downtown on Wednesday February 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. Plan on giving us a 2 minute commercial about your Business. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to take orders and get your phone ringing. EBA mixers are open to members and non-members alike. OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group work "Girlfriends" Courtyard by Marriott - ATLAS LIFE BUILDING TULSA 415 S. Boston Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Swing Dance Class Every Monday; 7:00 pm Tai Chi Class Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. TOSS is teaching an 8-week series of classes running until February 25th, 2013 at the Equality Center. Don't know your left foot from your right? That's okay! Start with the basic step and work through beginner and intermediate lessons in Swing Dance-era dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to www.tosstulsa.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. OkEq now taking nominations for Community Hero Awards Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �Oklahomans for Equality is now taking nominations to recognize individuals or groups who have made an impact on the work for equality for the LGBT community. These awards are presented at the annual Equality Gala on May 4th, 2013, Tulsa Convention Center Ballroom. Deadline for submissions is Thursday, February, 28th . The following awards are presented: • Lifetime Achievement Award - Recognizes a lifetime of dedication to the cause of equality for the LGBT community in Oklahoma. • Community Hero Award - Recognize those individuals and groups who have represented or served our community in the previous year. • The Rev. Russell Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion - Presented to a faith leader who leads and supports affirming the faith of the LGBT community in our local congregations. • Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award - Presented to a local area youth who demonstrates extraordinary character and makes a positive difference in their school, youth group and community. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. • Grand Marshal for the Tulsa Gay Pride Parade June 1st Recognizes an individual who has supported the LGBT community in a courageous and visible manner. You can download a form here. Please return completed form to lucas.green@okeq.org SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, February 26th, 2013; 10:30 am Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, February 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. m Tulsa Community College Girl Scouts Cookie Sale Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm . 'JI g1rl scouts In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & �The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). James Prather OUTlaw Legal Workshop 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month; 7:00 pm OkEq will host the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. Upcoming topics include wills, rights of survivorship, medical issues, power of attorney (durable) and inheritances, transgender name changes and trans rights. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. GAMILY Meeting Saturday, March 9th, 2013; 3:00 pm SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ OkEq welcomes our new intern, Samantha Checotah, who will be working with our GAMILY program which advocates and serves LGBT parents and their children. Gamily will have a Meet n Greet get together on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. Services and Advocilcy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org for Tulsa Pride 2013. Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T Native American Coalition of Green country Guys Dine Too Tuesday, March 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The March meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Brothers Houligan on Tuesday, March 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Brothers Houligan is located at 9701 E 61st www.broshouligan.com Guys Dine Too is a social program by OkEq for Gay Men, and their male Allies/friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 6:00 pm 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The March OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center, will feature the Photographic Art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Boot Camp Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. �Friday and Saturday, March 8th & 9th, 2013 Tulsa's Premier Gay Leather Event - the Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest and Events will take place March 8th & 9th, 2013 at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St, just east of Downtown Tulsa. The Event begins on Friday, March 8th at 10:00 pm with a Meet n Greet Mixer at the Tulsa Eagle and follows up with the Contest at 10:00 pm on Saturday the 9th of March. Gender Outreach ULSAEAGLE 133813ll■ ST lllffl 1pe1 @8PM $5 CMr CHIISI starts 11PM The event is open and welcoming to all interested fans and friends. Part of the $5 cover charge will start the charity fund that will be raised throughout the year. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ~ .. For more information email: tmlproducers@gmail.com Rainbow Writers Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm A new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Council Oak Mens Chorale Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm The Vocal Pride Foundation is excited to announce Council Oak Mens Chorale will soon begin rehearsal for the summer 2013 season. Our performance ensemble had great success last season with the Divo/Diva summer concert, a stellar performance in Denver, Colorado at the GALA 2012 Festival, and our fall Zinga! performances with clarinetist Stacy C. Smith. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm councU oak OOUIJcJj 00/i" mM$ mota/e Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Season 2013 "DONNA SUMMER/WHITNEY HOUSTON - A TRIBUTE" with celebrated soloist Phena Hackett, Soprano Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013 Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Fellowship Hall 7:00 to 9:00 pm. Performances are Tuesday, June 4th and Friday June 7th, 2013 at Lorton Performance Center - TU Campus Sunday, February 24th, 2013 - 7:00 pm - Oscar Night Watch Party - Meet and Greet at Liberty Tower Club Room, 1502 S. Boulder Ave. To attend please RSVP to Mark Weathers at mark_w@netscape.com or Rusty Kidd at russell.kidd@att.net. Food and drink will be provided. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are �www.counciloak.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals I.C.A.O. - Coronation VI March 7th - 10th, 2013 Regent Emperor V Philip "Papa Scrappy" Saint Johns & Regent Empress V Kris Kohl & The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invite you to The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Coronation VI "A Night at the USO with Designing Women and a Cast of Stars" Thursday, March 7th Meet and Greet at Tulsa Eagle @ 10 PM, No Cover Friday, March 8th Hospitality Noon to 3 at Host Hotel Out of Town Show - Host Hotel - Doors at 6, Show at 7 $15 - includes bus tour EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also �Bus leaves hotel at 9 - drag welcome but not required Hospitality Midnight to 3 Must have wrist band for bus tour and hospitality Friday night. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Saturday, March 9th Hospitality - 8 am to 3 pm Woman's Conference 1 pm - Host Hotel (Open to the Public, Free) Coronation VI - Host Hotel - $45 (Dress is Theme or Formal) Doors / Meet and Greet at 5 pm, Dinner at 6 pm and Ceremony at 7 pm Hospitality - 1 hour after Coronation to 3 am Sunday, March 10th Victory Brunch - Host Hotel - $25 Doors at 10:30, Brunch at 11 Shot Party - 3 pm - 5 pm Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Victory Show - 7 pm - ? Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Hotel, Tickets and Program Advertising Information are available on theImperial Court of All Oklahoma website I.C.A.O. is a 501(c)3 Non Profit Organization for more information contact ICAO on Facebook or impcourtok@gmail.com 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day Wednesday March 6th, 2013; 9:00 am - 2:00 pm Mi!Qiil LGBTEqual aims Dav -.--.--,-, MM•'1r'i'M~ ra,... ....,..,., wwwlln The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBT and allied people from across the state for the 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. Wednesday, March 6th will begin with a brief lobbying training session at 9:00 am in Room 25. TEN will provide information on how to effectively interact with your representatives as well as talking points for target legislation. ,.......... Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing TEN encourages you to set up an appointment with your state representative and state senator in advance to ensure that you will be able to meet with them on Equality Day. To find your representatives, click here. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Open Circle presents 'Night of 1001 Divinations' MISSION: Saturday, February 23rd, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equlity Center 621 E. 4th, Tulsa, OK Just in time to banish the mid-winter blahs! A relaxed evening that will be filled with music, dancing, story-telling, henna artists, readers and more fun stuff to be announced. Food will be pot-luck style, so this is a good time to show off your favorite Middle-Eastern specialty if you want, or that fabulous dessert your Great Aunt Ida swore she'd never give anyone the recipe to! Please, NO PORK. We would like to honor the local cultural traditions. Middle eastern/Arabian themed dress is encouraged, but not required. All we need is you! BYOB as usual; mixers will be available for purchase from Open Circle. There will also be a raffle...and we're hearing about lots of good items just waiting to go home with you. Ages 16 and older. As usual, you must be 21 to drink alcohol. Tickets are available at Earth and Soul...and will be available at other venues soon. Tickets are $15.00 per person, and if you want to reserve a Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. �table for you and 7 of your very best buds, just contact us. Visit us on Facebook! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'As Nature Made Him: The Boy Who Was Raised as a Girl ' by Paul Colapinto You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In 1967, after a twin baby boy suffered a botched circumcision, his family agreed to a radical treatment that would alter his gender. The case would become one of the most famous in modern medicine-and a total failure. As Nature Made Him tells the extraordinary story of David Reimer, who, when finally informed of his medical history, made the decision to live as a male. A macabre tale of medical arrogance, it is first and THE BOY WHO WAS WSED AS A CIRL foremost a human drama of one man's-and one family's-amazing survival in the face of terrible odds. AS NATURE MADE HIM Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �~ Volw er A proud Partner Organization of vo:lunteer Tulsa., your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been cancelled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a695a830f3a3054d08b2b8dba53e57a5.pdf f11f88b435fbda97959268d690d324af PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 23rd, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Programming Note Be Our Voice, Give a Day NAGAAA Cup Welcome to the eNews. This weekend, Tulsa welcomes LGBT softball players from around the US for the North American Gay Amateur Athletic Alliance 2013 Cup! And Tulsa Pride 2013 will be here before you know it. Visit www.tulsapride.org for all the events leading up to the festival on June 1st and Picnic in the Park on June 2nd. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Pride 2013 OUTlaw Legal Workshop Council Oak Mens Chorale Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service The Best Gamily Equality Business Alliance Open AA Group The eNews for the week of May 23rd, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: NERDception EBA Sponsor HB 1661 Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com IJ W MOREcolor Art Show Tulsa SAGE Pride in the Ballpark Singles Night OUT Love Free or Die Cheril Vendetti OkEq Programming Note No Walls Entertainment Monday, May 27th, 2013 LGBT Smoking Survey ------ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be open for Memorial Day weekend and Monday, May 27th, 2013 but all evening programming has been canceled. Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Be Our Voice, Give a Day As part of OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign, Saturday May 18th, 2013 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center was sponsored in honor of Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, June 20th, 7:00 pm Terry Copley on his birthday Rachel Hutchinson donated the day in honor of her best friend and straight ally on his birthday. Click here to Give a Day Kick off Pride Week with a Big Gay Softball Party at the Guthrie Green OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic work of Lanette Clark Friday, May 24th, 2013; 7:30 pm Guthrie Green N Boston Ave Tulsa, OK Join Tulsa Metro Softball League, Tulsa Sports Commission, and Oklahomans for Equality Friday, May 24th, 2013 to welcome LGBT softball players from around the US to Tulsa for the 2013 NAGAAA Cup! TMSL is hosting a big gay 2013 NAGAAA Cup Opening Party from 7:30 - 9:30 pm at the Guthrie Green in the Brady Arts District and they want to invite you to join them! Drinks will be flowing, food trucks will be serving, local officials will be welcoming, and DJ $erious $tanley will be spinning! Friday, May 24th, 2013 7:30 - 9:30 pm - Be at the Guthrie Green! Visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com for more information and to sign up as a volunteer! Friday - NAGAAA Cup Opening Party at the Guthrie Green Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Join us from 7:30-9:30pm to welcome players from Seattle to Atlanta to Tulsa at the Guthrie Green! Drinks will be flowing, locals welcoming, food trucks will be serving, and DJ $erious $tanley will be spinning all in the 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... Brady District! Saturday - Games Come out to Carl Smith and watch the A and B teams compete for the Championship! Games are being played on Fields 5 - 9 starting 8:00 am 5:00 pm. Saturday Night NAGAAA Cup Parties at our Sponsor Bars! Check out the Tulsa Eagle, New Age Renegade, Club Majestic and Club 209! Sunday - Games Games will again play on Fields 5-8 starting at 9AM and wrapping up with the Championship Game at 4:30P on Field 5. Sunday - NAGAAA Cup Closing Party Join us at Club Majestic to say thank you to all the teams coming to Tulsa for the weekend. Doors will open around 8:00 pm. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Tulsa Pride 2013 Saturday, June 1st and Sunday, June 2nd, 2013 Grieving Well T U L S A Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Pool Party Saturday, JUNE 1st - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 2nd - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2013 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many areas are available such as beverage attendant, entrance attendant and setup and tear down assistant, parking attendant and much more. Live Free! Coming Out 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM Tulsa Pride Events • Sunday, May 26th, 2013 - Oklahomo! a Sing-Along @ 209 the Arts Bar 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Friday, May 31st, 2013 - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Pool Party @ Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center, 17 W 7th St, 3:00 - 9:00 pm Workshop Will resume June 3rd Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursday, May 23rd, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on Thursday May 23rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Facilitator Jason McVicker, an associate with Atkinson, Haskins, Nellis, Brittingham, Gladd & Fiasco, will lead the topic discussions which will change each meeting. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Gl Swing Class Swing Dance Class Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Tuesday, May 28th, 2013; 7:00 pm Central Library Downtown Tulsa 400 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 council oak COUIICJI oak nms choro/9 Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the downtown Tulsa library on Tuesday, May 28th, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Central Library in downtown Tulsa. This FREE event will be held in the Aaronson Auditorium. www.counciloak.org 2013 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 30th, 2013; 7:00 pm Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd The 2013 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 30th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... The Best Gamily Contest Entries due by Sunday, May 26th, 2013 Do you have the best gamily? Well, if you think so or you know so, tell us why in 500 words or more and attach a family picture. Send entries to: Gamily@okeq.org by Sunday, May 26, 2013. Entries that are selected will win free tickets to the June 4th production of Disney's The Lion King. Winners will be notified by phone/email. Tickets can be picked up from Gamily Intern, Samantha Checotah at Tulsa Pride 2013 on June 1st. All entered entries will then be used in recognizing our wonderful families on Gamily's Facebook page's "Family of the Week." Good luck and have fun. throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Service, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the garden Trug. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137 Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 NERDception Every other Tuesday; 7:00 pm. Next date is May 28th, 2013 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. For example, who would win: Superman or the Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. The eNews for the week of May 23rd, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS HB 1661 School Safety & Bullying Prevention Act signed by Governor Fallin HB 1661 "School Safety & Bullying Prevention Act" was signed by Governor Fallin yesterday afternoon. HB 1661 requires new procedures and policies for reporting bullying and harassment and incidents. It's time to thank the Governor and legislators passing HB 1661. Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Support Letter by FAX: OKC (405) 521-3353 Tulsa (918) 581-2835 The Honorable Mary Fallin Governor of the State of Oklahoma Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 212 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 Dear Governor Fallin Thank you for signing HB 1661 Oklahoma's School Safety and Bullying Prevention Act. Your message: Respectfully Yours, Your name, address, and email address Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... Email Thank You: Go to Governor Fallin's website: https://www.ok.gov/governor/ Click tab "Contact the Governor Select "E-mail Governor Fallin" Complete the form Click tab "Submit" MOREcolor Art Show Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color :. · MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org - - - to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa SAGE Group Outing Tuesday, June 11th, 2013; Meet at 10:30 am sage~ The Tulsa SAGE group will meet for an outing on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013 at 10:30 am. After meeting up, the group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Services and Advocacy Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. The group will for Gay, lesbian, Bisexua l & Tramgender Elders have lunch and a tour of his beautiful home complete with hand carved totem pole and his 2 acre Chinese garden. His home has a breathtaking view of the Arkansas River Valley. To RSVP for the outing, please email lucas.green@okeq.org Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 23rd, 2013; Game 1 - 2:05 pm; Game 2 - 5:35 pm Come attend the First Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the NWA Naturals and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Seating is available in the Orange Sections (116 - 119) for $15 per ticket and the Terrace Seating for $25 per ticket. Tickets will be available for Pick Up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) and at ONEOK Field Will Call on the day of the event. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance. Purchase your tickets on the OkEq Website Store Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Flying Solo will take off Friday, May 24th for Memorial Day Weekend. Next meet is Friday, June 7th, 2013. 'Love Free or Die' Screening Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. The Cheril Vendetti Experience is a fastpaced explosion of irreverent entertainment that will leave you either heading for the door or to the nearest bail bondsman! HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Cheril Vendetti Experience Friday, June 14th, 2013; 8:00 pm Direct from television's HBO, OWN and SPIKE networks and the famous Los Angeles Comedy Store, comes the outrageous Cheril Vendetti! The Boston-Italian comedienne, TV personality and comical cookbook author, and her band, The Pasta Fazools, generate more laughs than Tony Soprano could put a hit on. So grab your funny bone, leave your political correctness at the door, and join the fun! Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... An Adult Fairytale Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 Nightingale Theater 1416 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Show Dates: May 31st & June 1st - 7:00 pm June 7th & 8th - 7:00 pm June 2nd and 9th are matinee shows at 2:00 pm. Tickets are $15.00 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! Get them now before Pride for $20.00! Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'In the Name of Hate: Understanding Hate Crimes' by Barbara Perry 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 'In The Name of Hate' offers a comprehensive theory of hate crimes, arguing for an expansion of the legal definitions that most states in the U.S. hold. Barbara Perry provides an historical understanding of hate crimes and provocatively argues that hate crimes are not an aberration of current society, but rather a by-product of a society still grappling with inequality, difference, fear, and hate. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Vol n r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! UL A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 10:56 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3e364d645e619c8c21097da3bcb3df06.pdf ab3268ce4736e8cd98647cb584567380 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 30th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service SAGE Viewing Room Welcome to the eNews. It is Pride Week in Tulsa! Be sure to join us on June 1st and 2nd! Keep informed about all of the events lined up and help us celebrate Tulsa Pride. www.tulsapride.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality PFLAG Billboards Guys Dine Too OUTlaw Legal Workshop Equality Business Alliance Open AA Group The eNews for the week of May 30th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: NERDception Council Oak Concert Gamily Family EBA Sponsor MOREcolor Art Show Tulsa SAGE Pride in the Ballpark Singles Night OUT Love Free or Die Cheril Vendetti St. Jerome Fun Night No Walls Entertainment Tulsa Pride 2013 Saturday, June 1st and Sunday, June 2nd, 2013 LGBT Smoking --- - - -Survey --- Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... T U L S A OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, June 20th, 7:00 pm Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Pool Party Saturday, JUNE 1st - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 2nd - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2013 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many areas are available such as beverage attendant, entrance attendant and setup and tear down assistant, parking attendant and much more. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic work of Lanette Clark Tulsa Pride Events • Friday, May 31st, 2013 - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Pool Party @ Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center, 17 W 7th St, 3:00 - 9:00 pm Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. 2013 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 30th, 2013; 7:00 pm Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd The 2013 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 30th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... Tulsa SAGE Viewing Room Tulsa Pride Parade Tulsa Pride is also offering an air-conditioned Tulsa Pride Parade viewing area inside the Dennis R Neill Equality Center's Charles Faudree Board Room for LGBT older adults, veterans and those with disabilities. This room overlooks the front of the Center from the second floor. There is easy access to this room utilizing the Elevator. Refreshments will be provided. PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards V Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town starting in June. Look for them at the following locations: 4140 S Peoria 5200 S Mingo 3612 S Sheridan 399 S 129th E Ave 8515 E I-44 (.5 Miles E of Memorial) 2510 E BA Expressway (West Side) 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) Grieving Well Guys Dine Too Tuesday, June 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The June meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Leon's Restaurant on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Leon's Restaurant is located at 3301 S Peoria Ave 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Legal Services of Oklahoma Legal Clinic Tuesday, June 14th, 2013; 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Equality LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. Making Equal Justict fo r All a Reality = Live Free! Coming Out 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... Center is on Tuesday, June 14th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. The clinic guest speaker will be Charlie Plumb. He will be speaking on FMLA (Family and Medical Leave Act) and ADA (American with Disabilities Act) accommodations in the work place. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Workshop Will resume June 3rd Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the garden Trug. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137 Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm SAGE ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 NERDception Every other Tuesday; 7:00 pm. Next date is June 11th, 2013 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. For example, who would win: Superman or the Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program Donna Summer / Whitney Houston Tribute Council Oak Mens Chorale Performances Tuesday, June 4th and Friday, June 7th, 2013; 8:00 pm Diversity & Dignity Group 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Lorton Performance Center at The University of Tulsa 550 S. Gary Place, Tulsa, OK 74104 Join Council Oak Men's Chorale (COMC) for a Tribute Concert featuring the Queens of Pop we lost too soon... with all the hits that will take you back and get you moving! Disco era clothing is welcomed and encouraged! Performances will include featured soloists from within the Chorale and special guest soprano Phena Hackett. Selections include some of the greatest hits of Donna Summer and Whitney Houston MacArthur Park, Last Dance, Greatest Love of All, I Will Always Love You and more. The Chorale began in 1997 as a group of twelve men formed for a World AIDS Day memorial service. Comprising dedicated volunteer singers, COMC has achieved an outstanding reputation for vocal excellence across the nation. The Chorale performs annual holiday and summer concerts, outreach recitals and special events. COMC has performed at OKMozart, Philbrook's Festival of Trees, and GALA Festivals in San Jose, CA, Miami, FL and Denver, CO. Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Order tickets in advance at counciloak.org or at the door the night of performances. Tickets are $15. The Vocal Pride Foundation, Inc., of which Council Oak Men's Chorale is a registered trade name, is a fully qualified 501(c)3 not-for-profit corporation under IRS code. Gamily featured family for June This month's featured Gamily Family is Regina and Stacey Leblanc. Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Regina & Stacey LeBlanc together for 14 years have 4 children. Sean, Krista, Amber and Olivia Paige. The oldest child, Sean will be 24 next month and is a United States Marine. Krista is 21. Amber will be a senior at Jenks next year, she and little sister Olivia age 10, both dance for Jenks Dance Academy. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@okeq.org The eNews for the week of May 30th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK MOREcolor Art Show Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. == ... Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color : . MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans Rainbow Writers 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays Tulsa SAGE Group Outing Tuesday, June 11th, 2013; Meet at 10:30 am sage~ The Tulsa SAGE group will meet for an outing on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013 at 10:30 am. After meeting up, the group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Services ond Advocacy Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. The group will for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders have lunch and a tour of his beautiful home complete with hand carved totem pole and his 2 acre Chinese garden. His home has a breathtaking view of the Arkansas River Valley. To RSVP for the outing, please email lucas.green@okeq.org on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Double Header 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 23rd, 2013; Game 1 - 2:05 pm; Game 2 - 5:35 pm Game 1 - Tulsa Drillers vs NWA Naturals Game 2 - OkEq Hit Crew vs Tulsa Firefighters Game Night Come attend the First Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the NWA Naturals and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Seating is available in the Orange Sections (116 - 119) for $15 per ticket and the Terrace Seating for $25 per ticket. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Tickets will be available for Pick Up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) and at ONEOK Field Will Call on the day of the event. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance. Purchase your tickets on the OkEq Website Store Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Flying Solo will take off Friday, May 24th for Memorial Day Weekend. Next meet is Friday, June 7th, 2013. 'Love Free or Die' Screening Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. The Cheril Vendetti Experience Friday, June 14th, 2013; 8:00 pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St Workforce Oklahoma Access Point The Cheril Vendetti Experience is a fastpaced explosion of irreverent entertainment that will leave you either heading for the door or to the nearest bail bondsman! Direct from television's HBO, OWN and SPIKE networks and the famous Los Angeles Comedy Store, comes the outrageous Cheril Vendetti! The Boston-Italian comedienne, TV personality and comical cookbook author, and her band, The Pasta Fazools, generate more laughs than Tony Soprano could put a hit on. So grab your funny bone, leave your political correctness at the door, and join the fun! Purchase tickets here St. Jerome Fun Night Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday, June 7th, 2013; 7:00 pm St. Jerome Events Center 205 W. King Street Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm St. Jerome Fun Night Featuring Fun, Friendship, Dancing And Yes, Karaoke! Friday, June 7th, 2013 7:00 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing All are welcome! Please spread the word and bring all of your friends. As always bring your favorite munchies to share if you would like. Soda and water will be provided. All are welcome to bring anything else you wish to drink. Please call 918-582-3008 for more information. An Adult Fairytale Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 Nightingale Theater 1416 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Show Dates: May 31st & June 1st - 7:00 pm June 7th & 8th - 7:00 pm June 2nd and 9th are matinee shows at 2:00 pm. Tickets are $15.00 Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Equality Center Pride Store Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! Get them now before Pride for $20.00! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Mayor of Castro Street' by Randy Shilts You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Known as "The Mayor of Castro Street" even before he was elected to the San Francisco Board of Supervisors, Harvey Milk's personal life, public career, and final assassination reflect the dramatic emergence of the gay community as a political power in America. It is a story full of personal tragedies and political intrigues, 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... assassinations at City Hall, massive riots in the streets, the miscarriage of justice, and the consolidation of gay power and gay hope. The definitive story of the man whose personal life, public career, and tragic assassination mirrored the dramatic and unprecedented emergence of the gay community in America during the 70s. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library -- Volun r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 10:57 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/82901373f59907fe68e65610107200dc.pdf 5f51d61913424c7fc6cf2c30922ff853 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 6th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor MOREcolor Art Show Pride in the Ballpark PFLAG Billboards Welcome to the eNews. Thank you to everyone who helped us celebrate Tulsa Pride weekend. Be sure to join us for the MOREcolor Art Show reception on Thursday, June 13th, 2013 from 6 - 9 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality OUTlaw Legal Workshop Tulsa SAGE Equality Business Alliance Moving On Support Group Open AA Group The eNews for the week of June 6th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: NERDception Gamily Family EBA Sponsor Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com Council Oak Concert Singles Night OUT Love Free or Die Cheril Vendetti 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK PFLAG Conference No Walls Entertainment LGBT Smoking Survey ----- MOREcolor Art Show Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color . MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, June 20th, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The June exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature a Pride Celebration Exhibit Tai Chi Class Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 23rd, 2013; Game 1 - 2:05 pm; Game 2 - 5:35 pm Game 1 - Tulsa Drillers vs NWA Naturals Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Game 2 - OkEq Hit Crew vs Tulsa Firefighters Come attend the First Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the NWA Naturals and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Seating is available in the Orange Sections (116 - 119) for $15 per ticket and the Terrace Seating for $25 per ticket. Tickets will be available for Pick Up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and at the OkEq table outside ONEOK Field on the day of the event. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance. for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Purchase your tickets on the OkEq Website Store PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards V Grieving Well PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 4140 S Peoria 5200 S Mingo 3612 S Sheridan 399 S 129th E Ave 8515 E I-44 (.5 Miles E of Memorial) 2510 E BA Expressway (West Side) 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Legal Services of Oklahoma Legal Clinic Tuesday, June 11th, 2013; 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's Making Equal Justict for All a Reality next Legal Clinic at the Equality Center is on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. The clinic guest speaker will be Charlie Plumb. He will be speaking on FMLA (Family and Medical Leave Act) and ADA (American with Disabilities Act) accommodations in the work place. Tulsa SAGE Group Outing Tuesday, June 11th, 2013; Meet at 10:30 am sage~ The Tulsa SAGE group will meet for an outing on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013 at 10:30 am. After meeting up, the group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Services and Advocacy Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. The group will for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexua l & Transgender Elders have lunch and a tour of his beautiful home complete with hand carved totem pole and his 2 acre Chinese garden. His home has a breathtaking view of the Arkansas River Valley. To RSVP for the outing, please email lucas.green@okeq.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Garden Trug. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137 Moving On... I Did It All for Love 8 week program begins Sunday, July 7th, 2013, 2:00 pm Dr. Kurt T. Choate will be leading a support group for persons newly-separated or divorced confronting the emotional aspects of the ending of a relationship. This 8 week program is designed to help those who have recently separated from a spouse come to terms with their loss. By attending this relationship recovery support group individuals can start to take charge of their lives again. Instead of identifying as part of a couple, participants will develop skills to help them think of themselves as being a single person again. SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program Dr Kurt is licensed professional counselor and assistant professor of counseling and psychology at Northeastern State University and a native of Oklahoma with his PhD from OSU. Beginning July 7th through August 25th, on Sundays from 2:00 pm to 3:30 pm meeting at the Equality Center. Program fee is $50 for the 8 weeks. Interested participants will need to contact Dr Kurt for a pre-screening interview. Contact: DrKurt@okeq.org 918.449.6574 Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 NERDception Every other Tuesday; 7:00 pm. Next date is June 11th, 2013 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what - ' ' . ·. ... ~ .......... ;. . , .~ - •. i ,.« :t Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. For example, who would win: Superman or the Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. Gamily featured family for June 6th, 2013 This week's featured Gamily Family is Crystal and Julie Loveland-Davis. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Congratulations Crystal and Julie Loveland-Davis on the birth of their daughter Kyler Janine Loveland-Davis born at 5:35 am Saturday June 1st, 2013. She weighs 5 lbs & 12 ounces and is 19 inches long. And as you can see she is beautiful. HAPPY PRIDE Kyler, we threw you a big party at 4th and Kenosha. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@okeq.org The eNews for the week of June 6th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: == Rainbow Writers Donna Summer / Whitney Houston Tribute Council Oak Mens Chorale Performances Friday, June 7th, 2013; 8:00 pm Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Friday, June 7th, 2013; 8:00 pm Lorton Performance Center at The University of Tulsa 550 S. Gary Place, Tulsa, OK 74104 Join Council Oak Men's Chorale (COMC) for a Tribute Concert featuring the Queens of Pop we lost too soon... with all the hits that will take you back and get you moving! Disco era clothing is welcomed and encouraged! Performances will include featured soloists from within the Chorale and special guest soprano Phena Hackett. Selections include some of the greatest hits of Donna Summer and Whitney Houston MacArthur Park, Last Dance, Greatest Love of All, I Will Always Love You and more. The Chorale began in 1997 as a group of twelve men formed for a World AIDS Day memorial service. Comprising dedicated volunteer singers, COMC has achieved an outstanding reputation for vocal excellence across the nation. The Chorale performs annual holiday and summer concerts, outreach recitals and special events. COMC has performed at OKMozart, Philbrook's Festival of Trees, and GALA Festivals in San Jose, CA, Miami, FL and Denver, CO. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Order tickets in advance at counciloak.org or at the door the night of performances. Tickets are $15. The Vocal Pride Foundation, Inc., of which Council Oak Men's Chorale is a registered trade name, is a fully qualified 501(c)3 not-for-profit corporation under IRS code. Game Night Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Flying Solo will take off Friday, May 24th for Memorial Day Weekend. Next meet is Friday, June 14th, 2013. 'Love Free or Die' Screening Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema The Cheril Vendetti Experience Friday, June 14th, 2013; 8:00 pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St The Cheril Vendetti Experience is a fastpaced explosion of irreverent entertainment that will leave you either heading for the door or to the nearest bail bondsman! Direct from television's HBO, OWN and SPIKE networks and the famous Los Angeles Comedy Store, comes the outrageous Cheril Vendetti! The Boston-Italian comedienne, TV personality and comical cookbook author, and her band, The Pasta Fazools, generate more laughs than Tony Soprano could put a hit on. So grab your funny bone, leave your political correctness at the door, and join the fun! Purchase tickets here PFLAG Regional Conference Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Saturday, June 29th, 2013; 8:30 am - 4:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Anne & Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, University of Oklahoma 700 Elm Ave Norman, OK 73069 PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), Norman is hosting a day of learning and training for anyone who wants to know more about lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) issues. On Saturday, June 29th, 2013, an all-day regional conference will feature a keynote address by Brittany Novotny, an attorney who ran for the Oklahoma State House in 2010 and was the first known transgender candidate in an Oklahoma election. Ms. Novotny's keynote address will be followed by breakout sessions on a wide range of topics, an address by Toby Jenkins, Executive Director for Oklahomans for Equality during the lunch break, and an author's panel at the end of the day of learning. The conference will be held on the University of Oklahoma Campus in Norman at the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work. Sign in is at 8:30 am and the conference concludes at 4:30 pm. Conference fee is $25 per person or $15 for students. This includes a light breakfast, lunch and materials. Pre-register at www.plfagnorman.org. For more information ----call 405.360.4497 or email help@pflagnorman.org Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. -- - - - - MISSION: An Adult Fairytale Performances June 7th - 9th; 2013 Nightingale Theater 1416 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Show Dates: June 7th & 8th - 7:00 pm June 9th is a matinee show at 2:00 pm. Tickets are $15.00 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $20.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'She's Not the Man I Married: My Life with a Transgender Husband' by Helen Boyd You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Helen Boyd's husband, who had long been open about being a crossdresser, was considering living as a woman full time. Suddenly, Boyd was confronted with the reality of what it would mean if her husband were actually to become a woman - socially, legally, and medically. Would Boyd love and desire her partner the same way? Boyd's first book, My Husband Betty, explored the relationships of crossdressing men and their partners. Now, She's Not the Man I Married is both a sequel and a more expansive examination of gender in relationships. It's for couples who are homosexual or heterosexual, and for readers who fall anywhere along the gender continuum. As Boyd struggles to understand the nature of marriage, passion, and love, she shares her confusion and anger, providing a fascinating observation of the ways in which relationships are gendered, and how we cope, or don't, with the emotional and sexual pressures that gender roles can bring to our marriages and relationships. 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volun r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:00 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fa9f22a0d2a8c62eec359c8fac9ce011.pdf 44895eb6f8f635d2af9b9fa42aaf03b4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 12th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor MOREcolor Art Show Pride in the Ballpark PFLAG Billboards Welcome to the eNews. Be sure to join us for the MOREcolor Art Show reception on Thursday, June 13th, 2013 from 6 - 9 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of June 12th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Pride Month Display Love Free or Die Moving On Support Group Equality Business Alliance Square1 Theatrics Ice Cream Social Gamily Family Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com EBA Sponsor Singles Night OUT Open AA Group First Thursday Cheril Vendetti 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK PFLAG Conference Article Headline MOREcolor Art Show Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm LGBT Smoking Survey ----Pride Store MORE color . MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 23rd, 2013; Game 1 - 2:05 pm; Game 2 - 5:35 pm Game 1 - Tulsa Drillers vs NWA Naturals Game 2 - OkEq Hit Crew vs Tulsa Firefighters Come attend the First Annual Charity Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the NWA Naturals and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Seating is available in the Orange Sections (116 - 119) for $15 per ticket and the Terrace Seating for $25 per ticket. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Tickets are available at the the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) and tickets sold online will be available for Pick Up at the Equality Center and at the OkEq table at ONEOK Field on the day of the 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... event. Tickets will not be mailed. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance. Purchase your tickets on the OkEq Website Store PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards V PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 4140 S Peoria 5200 S Mingo 3612 S Sheridan 399 S 129th E Ave 8515 E I-44 (.5 Miles E of Memorial) 2510 E BA Expressway (West Side) 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Pride Month Display All month long at Tulsa City-County Central Library Downtown 400 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Coordinated by Nancy McDonald of the Tulsa Chapter of PFLAG, a LGBT Pride Month Display will be available for viewing during the month of June on the 2nd Floor of the Tulsa City-County Central Library Downtown. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather 'Love Free or Die' Screening Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema Moving On... I Did It All for Love 8 week program begins Sunday, July 7th, 2013, 2:00 pm Dr. Kurt T. Choate will be leading a support group for persons newly-separated or divorced confronting the emotional aspects of the ending of a relationship. This 8 week program is designed to help those who have recently separated from a spouse come to terms with their loss. By attending this relationship recovery support group individuals can start to take charge of their lives again. Instead of identifying as part of a couple, participants will develop skills to help them think of themselves as being a single person again. SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program Dr Kurt is licensed professional counselor and assistant professor of counseling and psychology at Northeastern State University and a native of Oklahoma with his PhD from OSU. Beginning July 7th through August 25th, on Sundays from 2:00 pm to 3:30 pm meeting at the Equality Center. Program fee is $50 for the 8 weeks. Interested participants will need to contact Dr Kurt for a pre-screening interview. Contact: DrKurt@okeq.org 918.449.6574 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Garden Trug. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137 Congratulations to OkEq Tony Award Winners! Oklahomans for Equality congratulates OkEq members Jay Krottinger and Ryan Jude Tanner of Square 1 Theatrics on their Tony Award. Square 1 Theatrics, an Equality Business Alliance member, are producers of Pippin! which won 4 Tony Awards including Best Musical Revival. www.square1theatrics.com 1st Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 21st, 2013 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids scream, parents scream, we all scream for ice cream! Come out meet other LGBT families, have fun, and eat ICE CREAM! This is also an opportunity to give your ideas for future activities, events, meetings, etc. Join us on Sunday, July 21st, 2013. Email Gamily@OkEq.org for more information. Gamily featured family for June 12th, 2013 This week's featured Gamily Family is Trevor Wood and Aaron Petty. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 NERDception Every other Tuesday JUNE 25th 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Trevor and Aaron welcomed their twin boys, Caden Neal Wood and Carter Nicholas Wood on October 2nd, 2012. The boys are now 8 months old and they both love swimming a lot, and giving facial expressions to each other. Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@okeq.org Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. The eNews for the week of June 12th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... individuals. -- ~ ~ --.. a, = Rainbow Writers Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Flying Solo will take off Friday, May 24th for Memorial Day Weekend. Next meet is Friday, June 14th, 2013. Every other Wednesday JUNE 19th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ------to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 Counseling Services "First Thursday" Art Show Reception Friday, July 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the works of Thomas Tabor in a show, beginning with a reception on FRIDAY, July 5th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The usual "First Thursday" Opening Show is being postponed to Friday because of the Independence Day Holiday. 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... The Cheril Vendetti Experience Friday, June 14th, 2013; 8:00 pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St The Cheril Vendetti Experience is a fastpaced explosion of irreverent entertainment that will leave you either heading for the door or to the nearest bail bondsman! Direct from television's HBO, OWN and SPIKE networks and the famous Los Angeles Comedy Store, comes the outrageous Cheril Vendetti! The Boston-Italian comedienne, TV personality and comical cookbook author, and her band, The Pasta Fazools, generate more laughs than Tony Soprano could put a hit on. So grab your funny bone, leave your political correctness at the door, and join the fun! Purchase tickets here Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org PFLAG Regional Conference Saturday, June 29th, 2013; 8:30 am - 4:30 pm Anne & Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, University of Oklahoma 700 Elm Ave Norman, OK 73069 PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), Norman is hosting a day of learning and training for anyone who wants to know more about lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) issues. On Saturday, June 29th, 2013, an all-day regional conference will feature a keynote address by Brittany Novotny, an attorney who ran for the Oklahoma State House in 2010 and was the first known transgender candidate in an Oklahoma election. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Ms. Novotny's keynote address will be followed by breakout sessions on a wide range of topics, an address by Toby Jenkins, Executive Director for Oklahomans for Equality during the lunch break, and an author's panel at the end of the day of learning. The conference will be held on the University of Oklahoma Campus in Norman at the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work. Sign in is at 8:30 am and the conference concludes at 4:30 pm. Conference fee is $25 per person or $15 for students. This includes a light breakfast, lunch and materials. Pre-register at www.plfagnorman.org. For more information call 405.360.4497 or email help@pflagnorman.org HIV Wellness Retreat July 19th - 21st, 2013 Upcoming fundraisers for the HIV Wellness Retreat: June 16th, 2013 - 6:00 pm Fathers day cookout at Tulsa Eagle - $5 a plate hamburgers hot dogs $1 jello shots Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... June 20th, 2013 - Elote Cafe Donating 10% of meal check from 4:00 pm - Close Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 50/50 raffles at area bars: June 21st, 2013 - Yellow Brick Road Pub, 2630 E 15th St June 22th, 2013 - Bamboo Lounge, 77204 E Pine June 27th, 2013 - Club Majestic, 124 N Boston LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $20.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Three' by Annemarie Monahan You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center One yellow April morning, a 17 year old girl asks herself, "Do I dare to eat a peach?" Three different answers will HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... send her down three very different paths. That morning is long past. Now she is 41. Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Kitty Trevelyan has been happily married 23 years. Happily enough. Until her professor asks her for coffee and kisses her. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dr. Katherine North's memory of two lovers chafes her like a hair shirt. After reading one has died, she contacts the other-only to discover that she has been renounced for God. MISSION: �ntonia searches the sea-horizon every evening. In the last light, she can glimpse it: a feminist Utopia built on an abandoned oil rig, led by her charismatic and bipolar lover. Her lost Eden made by Eves. Who are we? Who haven't we been? Have we dared? Three of one woman's possible lives are about to collide. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:00 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3a4a44bf70c78ee6831f66ffdb52a032.pdf 59619cce20782628fd0149ba23f4a067 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 19th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Pride in the Ballpark Equality Business Alliance PFLAG Billboards Welcome to the eNews. Be sure to buy your tickets for the Pride in the Ballpark Charity Softball game for Sunday, June 23rd, 2013 at Drillers Stadium. Find the details below. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Pride Month Display Love Free or Die Tulsa Pride Feedback Moving On Support Group Ice Cream Social The eNews for the week of June 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Gamily Family EBA Sponsor Tulsa SAGE Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or on line at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Singles Night OUT Open AA Group Rainbow Writers HB 1661 First Thursday Guys Dine Too Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game PFLAG Conference Sunday, June 23rd, 2013; Game 1 - 2:05 pm; Game 2 - 5:35 pm LGBT Smoking Survey ------ Article Headline Game 1 - Tulsa Drillers vs NWA Naturals Board of Directors Game 2 - OkEq Hit Crew vs Tulsa Firefighters Calendar Team Rainbow Library Come attend the First Annual Charity Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013. First game starts at 2:05 pm. Pride Store Volunteer Find Us on Facebook See the Tulsa Drillers play against the NWA Naturals and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Calendar Team. 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... Seating is available in the Orange Sections (116 - 119) for $15 per ticket and the Terrace Seating for $25 per ticket. Tickets are available at the the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) and tickets sold online will be available for Pick Up at the Equality Center and at the OkEq table at ONEOK Field on the day of the event. Tickets will not be mailed. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance. Purchase your tickets on the OkEq Website Store Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Garden Trug. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tai Chi Class The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137 PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 4140 S Peoria 5200 S Mingo 3612 S Sheridan 399 S 129th E Ave 8515 E I-44 (.5 Miles E of Memorial) 2510 E BA Expressway (West Side) Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) Pride Month Display All month long at Tulsa City-County Central Library advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Downtown 400 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Coordinated by Nancy McDonald of the Tulsa Chapter of PFLAG, a LGBT Pride Month Display will be available for viewing during the month of June on the 2nd Floor of the Tulsa City-County Central Library Downtown. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens 'Love Free or Die' Screening Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Tulsa Pride Community Feedback Public Feedback Meeting Thursday, June 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center THANK YOU TULSA! The OkEq Tulsa Pride Committee would like to thank all who attended Tulsa Pride 2013 Celebrations. Please complete this short 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... survey by clicking on the link below and help us plan for Tulsa Pride 2014. Please remember that the Community Feedback meeting is at the Equality Center on Thursday, June 27th at 7:30 pm. All are welcome to attend and share innovative ideas for Tulsa Pride 2014. Tulsa Pride 2013 Survey Moving On... I Did It All for Love 8 week program begins Sunday, July 7th, 2013, 2:00 pm Dr. Kurt T. Choate will be leading a support group for persons newly-separated or divorced confronting the emotional aspects of the ending of a relationship. This 8 week program is designed to help those who have recently separated from a spouse come to terms with their loss. By attending this relationship recovery support group individuals can start to take charge of their lives again. Instead of identifying as part of a couple, participants will develop skills to help them think of themselves as being a single person again. Dr Kurt is licensed professional counselor and assistant professor of counseling and psychology at Northeastern State University and a native of Oklahoma with his PhD from OSU. Beginning July 7th through August 25th, on Sundays from 2:00 pm to 3:30 pm meeting at the Equality Center. Program fee is $50 for the 8 weeks. Interested participants will need to contact Dr Kurt for a pre-screening interview. Contact: DrKurt@okeq.org 918.449.6574 SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program 1st Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 21st, 2013; 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids scream, parents scream, we all scream for ice cream! Come out meet other LGBT families, have fun, and eat ICE CREAM! This is also an opportunity to give your ideas for future activities, events, meetings, etc. Join us on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 at 4:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org for more information. Gamily featured family for June 19th, 2013 This week's featured Gamily Family is Rebeka Radcliff & Kim McDonald. Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Rebeka Radcliff & Kim McDonald welcomed their first child, Jordan Everett McRad on February 20th, 2013. Now 4 months old, Jordan's mommies stay busy admiring him and working in social services in the Tulsa area. The couple were married in September 2010 in Montreal, Canada and held their reception at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. NERDception Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@okeq.org Every other Tuesday JUNE 25th 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com The eNews for the week of June 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Tulsa SAGE Outing June 6th, 2013 Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp The Tulsa SAGE met for an outing last Tuesday, June 11th, 2013 The group visited a Native American Retreat, north of Sand Springs on Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. The group had lunch and toured his beautiful home complete with hand carved totem pole and his 2 acre Chinese garden. Tulsa SAGE meets every Tuesday at 10:00 am at the Equality Center. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... individuals. -- -~ = ~ a, = Rainbow Writers Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, June 28th, 2013. Every other Wednesday JUNE 19th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 Counseling Services Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday; 7:00 pm Next meeting is on Wednesday JUNE 19th, 2013 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org for more information 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... Governor signs School Safety and Bullying Prevention Act Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org HB 1661 "School Safety & Bullying Prevention Act" was recently signed by Governor Fallin. HB 1661 requires annual training for administrators and staff as developed by the State Department of Educator for preventing, identifying, responding to and reporting incidents of bullying. OkEq would like to send Thanks to Nancy McDonald and PFLAG chapters all over the state, the Children's Consortium, the Tulsa Stop Bullying Coalition, The Equality Network and Cimarron Alliance. "First Thursday" Art Show Reception Friday, July 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the works of Thomas Tabor in a show, beginning with a reception on FRIDAY, July 5th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The usual "First Thursday" Opening Show is being postponed to Friday because of the Independence Day Holiday. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Guys Dine Too Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013; 6:30 pm The July meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Johnny Carino's on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Johnny Carino's is located at 6364 E 41st St (On 41st and Sheirdan) Johnny Carino's Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... PFLAG Regional Conference Saturday, June 29th, 2013; 8:30 am - 4:30 pm Anne & Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, University of Oklahoma 700 Elm Ave Norman, OK 73069 PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), Norman is hosting a day of learning and training for anyone who wants to know more about lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) issues. On Saturday, June 29th, 2013, an all-day regional conference will feature a keynote address by Brittany Novotny, an attorney who ran for the Oklahoma State House in 2010 and was the first known transgender candidate in an Oklahoma election. Ms. Novotny's keynote address will be followed by breakout sessions on a wide range of topics, an address by Toby Jenkins, Executive Director for Oklahomans for Equality during the lunch break, and an author's panel at the end of the day of learning. The conference will be held on the University of Oklahoma Campus in Norman at the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work. Sign in is at 8:30 am and the conference concludes at 4:30 pm. Conference fee is $25 per person or $15 for students. This includes a light breakfast, lunch and materials. Pre-register at www.plfagnorman.org. For more information call 405.360.4497 or email help@pflagnorman.org ---- - HIV Wellness Retreat July 19th - 21st, 2013 Upcoming fundraisers for the HIV Wellness Retreat: June 20th, 2013 - Elote Cafe Donating 10% of meal check from 4:00 pm - Close 50/50 raffles at area bars: June 21st, 2013 - Yellow Brick Road Pub, 2630 E 15th St June 22th, 2013 - Bamboo Lounge, 77204 E Pine June 27th, 2013 - Club Majestic, 124 N Boston LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 21st) OR Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 11th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@okeq.org for an application ---and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Equality Center Pride Store Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $20.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Lesbian Love Companion: How to Survive Everything From Heartthrob to Heartbreak' by Marny Hall, Ph.D. You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In The Lesbian Love Companion, Marny Hall, Ph.D., a psychotherapist with twenty years' experience counseling lesbian couples, explores and celebrates lesbian relationships in all their complexity - and humor. Based on the idea that the key to healthy relationships lies in our ability to keep refining the story of our relationships, it presents the perfect blend of advice and inspiration for every lesbian looking for love. Interspersing real-life examples from Hall's practice, sound advice, and laugh-out-loud observations, The Lesbian Love Companion takes a completely fresh and honest approach to the unique relationship issues near and dear to every lesbian's heart. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... Volu1 r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:01 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/eb7e8cafd4ec27a8869b0a933765030b.pdf 9f116e06eee8da215a8217ec353765d4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 26th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Decision Day Equality Business Alliance PFLAG Billboards Welcome to the eNews. Join us for a Supreme Court Decision Day Rally tonight at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of June 26th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Pride Month Display Tulsa Pride Feedback Guys Dine Too First Thursday Moving OnSupport - Group Ice Cream Social Singles Night OUT Sue Ellen Welch (918) 810-8156 EBA Sponsor Rainbow Writers PFLAG Conference HIV Wellness Retreat SWelch@)McGrawOk.com LGBT Smoking Survey - www.SueWelch.com Board of Directors Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Decision Day Rally Wednesday, June 26th, 2013; 6:00 pm Find Us on Facebook Join us for the Decision Day Rally as we gather as a community to celebrate the Supreme Court rulings on both the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) and Proposition 8 making same sex marriage legal in California once again. We will gather at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 6:00 pm and hear from our legal experts and the plaintiffs in the Oklahoma 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... Marriage Equality Lawsuit to find out how the ruling will impact Oklahoma. We have plenty of champagne chilled for a big gay toast and a fabulous wedding cake OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, July 18th, 7:00 pm Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The July Monthly EBA Business Meeting will be on Tuesday, July 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday July 7th. The July Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Greendog Spa & Resort. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Greendog Spa & Resort 3801 South Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74135 PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards V OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 4140 S Peoria 5200 S Mingo 3612 S Sheridan 399 S 129th E Ave 8515 E I-44 (.5 Miles E of Memorial) 2510 E BA Expressway (West Side) 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) Spectrum Knits Pride Month Display All month long at Tulsa City-County Central Library Downtown 400 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... Coordinated by Nancy McDonald of the Tulsa Chapter of PFLAG, a LGBT Pride Month Display will be available for viewing during the month of June on the 2nd Floor of the Tulsa City-County Central Library Downtown. to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well Tulsa Pride Community Feedback Public Feedback Meeting Thursday, June 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center THANK YOU TULSA! The OkEq Tulsa Pride Committee would like to thank all who attended Tulsa Pride 2013 Celebrations. Please complete this short survey by clicking on the link below and help us plan for Tulsa Pride 2014. Please remember that the Community Feedback meeting is at the Equality Center on Thursday, June 27th at 7:30 pm. All are welcome to attend and share innovative ideas for Tulsa Pride 2014. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Tulsa Pride 2013 Survey Guys Dine Too Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013; 6:30 pm The July meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Johnny Carino's on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Johnny Carino's is located at 6364 E 41st St (On 41st and Sheirdan) Johnny Carino's Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. "First Thursday" Art Show Reception Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Friday, July 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the works of Thomas Tabor in a show, beginning with a reception on FRIDAY, July 5th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The usual "First Thursday" Opening Show is being postponed to Friday because of the Independence Day 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... Holiday. Moving On... I Did It All for Love 8 week program begins Sunday, July 7th, 2013, 2:00 pm Dr. Kurt T. Choate will be leading a support group for persons newly-separated or divorced confronting the emotional aspects of the ending of a relationship. This 8 week program is designed to help those who have recently separated from a spouse come to terms with their loss. By attending this relationship recovery support group individuals can start to take charge of their lives again. Instead of identifying as part of a couple, participants will develop skills to help them think of themselves as being a single person again. Dr Kurt is licensed professional counselor and assistant professor of counseling and psychology at Northeastern State University and a native of Oklahoma with his PhD from OSU. Beginning July 7th through August 25th, on Sundays from 2:00 pm to 3:30 pm meeting at the Equality Center. Program fee is $50 for the 8 weeks. Interested participants will need to contact Dr Kurt for a pre-screening interview. Contact: DrKurt@okeq.org 918.449.6574 1st Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 21st, 2013; 4:00 pm SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids scream, parents scream, we all scream for ice cream! Come out meet other LGBT families, have fun, and eat ICE CREAM! This is also an opportunity to give your ideas for future activities, events, meetings, etc. Join us on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 at 4:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org for more information. Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, June 28th, 2013. The eNews for the week of June 26th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday; 7:00 pm Next meeting is on Wednesday JULY 3rd, 2013 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org for more information PFLAG Regional Conference Saturday, June 29th, 2013; 8:30 am - 4:30 pm Anne & Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, University of Oklahoma 700 Elm Ave Norman, OK 73069 PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), Norman is hosting a day of learning and training for anyone who wants to know more about lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) issues. On Saturday, June 29th, 2013, an all-day regional conference will feature a keynote address by Brittany Novotny, an attorney who ran for the Oklahoma State House in 2010 and was the first known transgender candidate in an Oklahoma election. Ms. Novotny's keynote address will be followed by breakout sessions on a wide range of topics, an address by Toby Jenkins, Executive Director for Oklahomans for Equality during the lunch break, and an author's panel at the end of the day of learning. The conference will be held on the University of Oklahoma Campus in Norman at the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work. Sign in is at 8:30 am and the conference concludes at 4:30 pm. Conference fee is $25 per person or $15 for students. This includes a light breakfast, lunch and materials. Pre-register at www.plfagnorman.org. For more information NERDception Every other Tuesday JULY 9th 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... call 405.360.4497 or email help@pflagnorman.org - ---- HIV Wellness Retreat July 19th - 21st, 2013 Upcoming fundraisers for the HIV Wellness Retreat: through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members June 27th, 2013 - Club Majestic, 124 N Boston LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 21st) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 11th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@okeq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �Rainbow Writers Lambda Al-Anon 4/23/26, 11:02 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... individuals. Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $20.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! Every other Wednesday JULY 3rd 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 'Bi: Notes for a Bisexual Revolution' by Shiri Eisner Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Depicted as duplicitous, traitorous, and promiscuous, bisexuality has long been suspected, marginalized, and rejected by both straight and gay communities alike. Bi takes a long overdue, comprehensive look at bisexual politics-from the issues surrounding biphobia/monosexism, feminism, and transgenderism to the practice of labeling those who identify as bi as either "too bisexual" (promiscuous and incapable of fidelity) or "not bisexual enough" (not actively engaging romantically or sexually with people of at least two different genders). In this forward-thinking and eye-opening book, feminist bisexual and genderqueer activist Shiri Eisner takes readers on a journey through the many aspects of the meanings and politics of bisexuality, specifically highlighting how bisexuality can open up new and exciting ways of challenging social convention. Informed by feminist, transgender, and queer theory, as well as politics and activism, Bi is a radical manifesto for a group that has been too frequently silenced, erased, and denied-and a starting point from which to Counseling Services You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Pink Style Also Available Equality Center Pride Store made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 7 of 11 11!1!!!11t1 �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... launch a bisexual revolution. Saturdays By appointment Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ~ olu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:02 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/58abebd7e6a56d706bfe40b15abd1699.pdf 207f998c5f88bb4e4dd601694c19e0b6 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 3rd, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Programming Note First Thursday July Legal Clinic Welcome to the eNews. The regular First Thursday Art Show will be on Friday, July 5th at 6 pm. The Tulsa Metro Softball League is holding the 2nd Annual Tulsa Crude Classic Softball Tournament on July 5th - 7th at the Carl Smith Softball Complex. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of July 3rd, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Equality Business Alliance Ice Cream Social Gamily Rainbow Writers Cooling Station EBA Sponsor Decision Day Rally Board of Directors Tulsa Crude Classic Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or on line at www.hipandkneedoc.com Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Find Us on Facebook Programming Note All regular programs at the Equality Center will not be held on Thursday, July 4th, 2013. The Center will be open at 12 pm. Happy Fourth of July! OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, July 18th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor -- ------.. ~ "First Thursday" Art Show Reception Friday, July 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the works of Thomas Tabor in a show, beginning with a reception on FRIDAY, July 5th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The usual "First Thursday" Opening Show is being postponed to Friday because of the Independence Day Holiday. July Legal Clinic Tuesday, July 9th, 2013; 6:00 pm ABA Young Lawyers Division Project Salute: Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Young Lawyers Serving Veterans Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will present a legal clinic at the Equality Center on Tuesday, July 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm. The topic will be Veteran's benefits. Angela Mauch, Esq., will be the guest speaker for the clinic. Fighting for increased federal benefits? Applying for federal benefits? Entitled to federal benefits? Free legal presentation and consultations about your benefits will be held Please bring your DD Form 214, recent VA ratings decisions, and other documents that will help us understand and evaluate your federal veteran benefit matter. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The July Monthly EBA Business Meeting will be on Tuesday, July 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday July 7th. The July Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Greendog Spa & Resort. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Greendog Spa & Resort 3801 South Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74135 1st Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 21st, 2013; 4:00 pm Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids scream, parents scream, we all scream for ice cream! Come out meet other LGBT families, have fun, and eat ICE CREAM! This is also an opportunity to give your ideas for future activities, events, meetings, etc. Join us on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 at 4:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org to RSVP or for more information. Gamily featured family for the week of July 3rd This week's featured Gamily Family is Sam Harris & Danny Jacobsen and their son, Cooper Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Sam and Danny have been together for 18 years. They married in California in 2008, which was the same year they adopted their son, Cooper Atticus Harris-Jacobsen. Sam will be releasing a new book called "HAM: Slices of a Life" in January of 2014 from publisher Gallery/Simon & Schuster. He will be playing Tulsa at the beginning of February in a show of the same title, which will feature stories from the book and songs from his life and career. More information can be found at samhambook.com sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday; 7:00 pm Next meeting is on Wednesday JULY 3rd, 2013 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org for more information Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. The eNews for the week of July 3rd, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 NERDception OkEq celebrates Supreme Court Rulings on DOMA and Prop 8 Wednesday, June 26th, 2013 On Wednesday, June 26th, 2013, over 400 celebrants gathered at a Decision Day Rally as a community to celebrate the Supreme Court rulings on both the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) and Proposition 8 making same sex marriage legal in California once again. The group heard from attorney and OkEq Board Member Mike Redman and the plaintiffs in the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit. There was a champagne toast and a fabulous wedding cake from Merritt's Bakery. Every other Tuesday JULY 9th 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday JULY 3rd 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services 4/23/26, 11:03 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 11th) 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 21st) OR Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 7 of 11 1111!!!!1t1 �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@okeq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa Crude Classic Softball Tournament July 5th - 7th, 2013 Carl Smith Softball Complex 17120 E. 21st Street Tulsa, OK 74134 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno July 5-7, 2013 - Tulsa, Oklahoma Visit TulsaCrudeClassic.com for more information and a full schedule of the weekend's events! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $15.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Front Runner' by Patricia Nell Warren You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First published in 1974, The Front Runner raced to international acclaim the first novel about gay love to become popular with mainstream. In 1975, coach Harlan Brown is hiding from his past at an obscure New York college, after he was fired from Penn State University on suspicion of being gay. A tough, lonely ex-Marine of 39, Harlan has never allowed himself to love another man. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. PATRICIA ELL the F r o - ' i a l l'611 Runner A NOVEL Then Billy Sive, a brilliant young runner, shows up on his doorstep. He and his two comrades, Vince Matti and Jacques GAY LOVE LaFont, were just thrown off a major team for admitting they are gay. Harlan knows that, with proper training, Billy could go to the '76 Olympics in Montreal. He agrees to coach the three boys under strict conditions that thwart Billy's growing attraction for his mature but compelling mentor. The lean, graceful frontrunner with gold-rim glasses sees directly into Harlan's heart. Billy's gentle and open acceptance of his sexuality makes Harlan afraid to confront either the pain of his past, or the challenges which lay in wait if their intimacy is exposed. But when Coach Brown finds himself falling in love with his most gifted athlete, he must combat his true feelings for Billy or risk the outrage of the entire sports world - and their only chance at Olympic gold. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:03 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6efa9a1051e4418450b1217353c879db.pdf bd1b79e4a3d2ad790febd2610e75d29b PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 11th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day SAGE Tulsa Ice Cream Social Welcome to the eNews. SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013. Read on for all the details. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of July 11th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Gamily Back to School Carnival Equality Business Alliance EBA Sponsor Board of Directors Rainbow Writers Intro to LGBTQ Lit Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Cooling Station Council Oak Mens Chorale Mosaic Imperial Court of All OK Pride Store Rainbow Library Be Our Voice, Give a Day As part of OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign, Friday July 12th, 2013, Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are sponsored by Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, July 18th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma George and Rusty will celebrate their 16th wedding anniversary on Friday, July 12th, 2013 Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign ----- SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, July 16th, 2013; 10:30 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and carpool to the pool party. Hamburgers, hot dogs and salads will be provided. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@okeq.org to RSVP. -- sage · Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders ~ poo/party The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:30 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. 1st Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 21st, 2013; 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids scream, parents scream, we all scream for ice cream! Come out meet other LGBT families, have fun, and eat ICE CREAM! This is also an opportunity to give your ideas for future activities, events, meetings, etc. Join us on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 at 4:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org to RSVP or for more information. Gamily featured family for the week of July 11th This week's featured Gamily Family is Brooke Calhoun, Dacie Reutlinger and their daughter Mylee Calhoun Brooke and Dacie have been together since March 13, 2010. Dacie works at Cintas, while Brooke works at Custom Dental. They will have their wedding on July 13th, 2013 and will then honeymoon in Cabo. The couple are residents of Broken Arrow with their daughter, Mylee. Mylee just turned 4 on July 9th and will start pre K this year. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 4th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hurry, hurry, hurry! Step right up and join the fun. There will be food, games, characters, activities and prizes. Bring the family and have some fun before school starts. For more info email Gamily@okeq.org. Please RSVP with parents' names and students' names, ages & grades by Sunday July 28th, 2013. Gamily is taking donations for the back to school carnival. Here is a list of the basic school supplies needed by students: • Folders • Pens • Pencils • Spiral notebooks • Box of crayons • Washable markers • Erasers • Kleenex tissues • 3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, or 2 in) • Wide ruled notebook paper Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... The July Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Morgan Stanley - Smith-Barney. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Morgan Stanley - Smith-Barney 2200 S Utica Place Suite 300, Tulsa OK 74114 The eNews for the week of July 11th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 21st) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 11th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@okeq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: NERDception Every other Tuesday JULY 23rd 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday; 7:00 pm Next meeting is on Wednesday JULY 17th, 2013 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org for more information Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Intro to LGBTQ Literature Tulsa Community College Fall 2013 Schedule Are your literary tastes a little more colorful than some? ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Maybe you need a taste of LGBTQ Literature! Introduction to LGBTQ Literature Coming to TCC for Fall 2013 ENGL 2993, Section 390, CRN 17124 Online, 16 week course taught by Dr. Allen Culpeper Tentative reading list: Maurice by E. M. Forster, Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jenette Winterson, Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin, Eighty-Sixed by David Feinberg, Cloud 9 by Caryl Churchhill, The Laramie Project by Moises Kaufman, Pages for You by Sylvia Brownrigg, Love Speaks Its Name: Gay and Lesbian Love Poems edited by J.D. McClatchy For more information contact: allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu -----918.595.7647 Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Mondays, Beginning August 5th, 2013; 7:00 pm Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season 2013 Performance will begin on Monday, August 5th, 2013 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Rehearsals will continue on every Monday. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. -= Rainbow Writers The concert will feature holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria(Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry oouncll oak nms chorale Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. council oak Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information Mosaic Diversity Business Awards Survey Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. • Mosaic is launching a survey to identify businesses that powered by the tulsa regional chamber have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. We hope to identify ten for profits and ten nonprofits for our region's Top 20 Inclusive Cultures. Every other Wednesday JULY 3rd 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm rrOxC � Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey Counseling Services The survey will close at end of business August 9th, 2013. The results of the survey will be shared at Mosaic's inaugural Economic Inclusion Forum October 21st, 2013. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Annual "Christmas in July" Cookout and Show couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma would like to invite everyone to another community wide event - the Annual "Christmas In July" Cookout and Show. Saturday, July 27th, 2013 @ Tulsa Eagle (No Cover, 21+ Only) Cookout starts @ 7:00 pm (Donations will be accepted) Show starts @ 10:00 pm (Tipping is encouraged) A Benefit for "Our House Too" to help a local family living with HIV/AIDS. Cookout - sponsored by the Green Country Bears Silent Auction - sponsored by T.U.L.S.A. Raffle - sponsored by the Tulsa Sisters Jello Shots / Entertainment - sponsored by the I.C.A.O. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information please contact the I.C.A.O. at impcourtok@gmail.com or see Joshua at the Tulsa Eagle Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $15.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... 'Be Who You Are' by Jennifer Carr You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Nick is a young child assigned a male gender at birth who sees himself as a girl. His parents tell him they love him anyway he feels. At school he wants to play with the girls, and creates a self-portrait that shows him as a girl. When he tells his parents that the teacher didn't understand, his parents made a point to go to his school and explain. They also work with a gender counselor to help their whole family deal with Nick's need to be a girl. Be Who You Are exemplifies how a family and a school should work with a transgender - or potentially transgender - child. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - --- r---------------------------------------------------, I I I I I I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org -- I I I I I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:04 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1e26f48b81665d238d6563022fdda25a.pdf 3afee06018604d2e033aa8b60ee168cf PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 17th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Equality Business Alliance Ice Cream Social Back to School Carnival Welcome to the eNews. Gamily will have an Ice Cream Social on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 4:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org to RSVP or for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of July 17th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Counseling Services Board of Directors First Thursday Art SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Twisters Theater Guys Dine Too EBA Sponsor Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Fever Dream Rainbow Writers Intro to LGBTQ Lit Cooling Station Council Oak Mens Chorale Mosaic Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events DIVAS Drag Queen Bingo Imperial Court of All OK Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The July Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Morgan Stanley - Smith-Barney. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Morgan Stanley - Smith-Barney 2200 S Utica Place Suite 300, Tulsa OK 74114 1st Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 21st, 2013; 4:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids scream, parents scream, we all scream for ice cream! Come out meet other LGBT families, have fun, and eat ICE CREAM! This is also an opportunity to give your ideas for future activities, events, meetings, etc. Join us on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 at 4:00 pm. For more information or to RSVP, Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, July 18th, 7:00 pm Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 4th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hurry, hurry, hurry! Step right up and join the fun. There will be food, games, characters, activities and prizes. Bring the family and have some fun before school starts. For more info email Gamily@okeq.org. Please RSVP with parents' names and students' names, ages & grades by Sunday July 28th, OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor 2013. Gamily is taking donations for the back to school carnival. Here is a list of the basic school supplies needed by students: • Folders • Pens • Pencils • Spiral notebooks • Box of crayons • Washable markers • Erasers • Kleenex tissues • 3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, or 2 in) • Wide ruled notebook paper New Counseling Services Monday evenings by appointment John Serrot, LCSW is joining OkEq's counseling services and will see people on Mondays by appointment. Fees are on a sliding scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John by phone at 918.724.3388 or email him at therapyjohn@OkEq.org Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members John is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 40 years of varied social service experience in settings including medical, psychiatric, advocacy, aging, family planning and disabilities. John appreciates the diversity in the human condition and works with his clients to help maximize 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... inherent skills and strengths in order to overcome barriers and accomplish the goals his clients have set for themselves. John specializes in working with adults in the areas of self esteem, mood disorders, anxiety, trauma, communication/relationships, gender identification, aging and disabilities. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 21st) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 11th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@okeq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, August 1st, 2013; 6:00 pm The August OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos from the private collection of Kevin Roden and Andre Chenault in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, August 1st, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... SAGE Tulsa Pool Party SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy OkEq members Roger and Edward hosted a SAGE Tulsa pool party on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013. The SAGE Tulsa members enjoyed hamburgers, hot dogs and salad for lunch. Then relaxed in the saltwater pool which featured a shallow end and also railing with steps ensuring everyone could enjoy the pool. OkEq volunteer, Bryan Delgadillo offered his lifeguard skills to keep everyone safe during the party. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:30 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) "Twisters Theater" Sunday, June 28th, 2013; 5:00 & 7:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St The Tulsa Twisters softball team will be performing a "Twisters Theater" version of A League of Their Own on Sunday July 28th, 2013. Performances will be at New Age Renegade and showtimes will be at 5:00 pm and 7:00 pm. At the end of the last show, there will be a raffle with a wine basket prize. Raffle tickets will be sold at the show. The Twisters are raising money for their trip to Washington D.C. in August 2013 to play in NAGAAA World Series. For more information on the Tulsa Twisters or the Tulsa Metro Softball League, please visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, August 6th, 2013; 6:30 pm The August meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Mexicali Border Cafe on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013 at around 6:30 pm. Mexicali Border Cafe is located at 14 West Brady Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 NERDception Every other Tuesday JULY 23rd 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com The eNews for the week of July 17th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Fever Dream Performances on Friday and Saturday, August 2nd and 3rd, 2013 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Open AA Group Friday and Saturday, August 2nd and 3rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the anewpl•J Equality Center, Emily NEED HANDS Hedgecock Hedgecock's full-length play, Fever by E.A. TINE STD~ Dream, features Wilson and Kinnier in a thoughtful, emotional, and surprisingly funny philosophical journey through an absurdist work by a character known only as "The Author". In this TELLK at the modernist take on life and death, llt eq~~I~ LIYI 1111 c:ent...Wilson meets a variety of characters from the hyperactive 6:21 l:4th f:'.WANf•'m Tlf auvu•t 2 ..3 Hat Guy to drab and pedantic Merriam Webster (the living •~ : 7 pm GOIN&llt HAPPENS ..... § n at door embodiment of a dictionary), led throughout it all by her $5 with guide -.. SHIUII GUY t,tud•l'llt ID magnanimous Kinnier. Certain characters use Ad .. adult language and a parental EANLIGHT a udl_conty : . advisory is suggested. mn Performances are open to the public and tickets are $7, $5 with student ID. Proceeds will go to NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness. .~ - - - - ~- - TAlKIN&PLAY frrrWEBSTERTHINK lM""'AUTHOR-~'"'"" JE~siiAU DIEN OE ~1Lo.0Ksf RIGHT EVE nllw!mf Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. H INNIr1··~· em • RE AM 1~1 ATD SON"" IMERRIAMDKAY JTMSYMRJOMSeEET I!,rntAKHM Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday; 7:00 pm Next meeting is on Wednesday JULY 17th, 2013 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org for more ----information 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... Intro to LGBTQ Literature Tulsa Community College Fall 2013 Schedule Are your literary tastes a little more colorful than some? Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. -= - Maybe you need a taste of LGBTQ Literature! Introduction to LGBTQ Literature Coming to TCC for Fall 2013 ENGL 2993, Section 390, CRN 17124 Online, 16 week course taught by Dr. Allen Culpeper Tentative reading list: Maurice by E. M. Forster, Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jenette Winterson, Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin, Eighty-Sixed by David Feinberg, Cloud 9 by Caryl Churchhill, The Laramie Project by Moises Kaufman, Pages for You by Sylvia Brownrigg, Love Speaks Its Name: Gay and Lesbian Love Poems edited by J.D. McClatchy For more information contact: allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu --------918.595.7647 Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Mondays, Beginning August 5th, 2013; 7:00 pm Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday JULY 3rd 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season 2013 Performance will begin on Monday, August 5th, 2013 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Rehearsals will continue on every Monday. The concert will feature holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria(Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry council oak mms chorale Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. council oak on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information Mosaic Diversity Business Awards Survey Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. ■ Mosaic is launching a survey to identify businesses that povvered by the tulsa regional chamber have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. We hope to identify ten for profits and ten nonprofits for our region's Top 20 Inclusive Cultures. rrrEcC Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno � Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey The survey will close at end of business August 9th, 2013. The results of the survey will be shared at Mosaic's inaugural Economic Inclusion Forum October 21st, 2013. H.O.P.E.'s 15th Anniversary Celebration "DIVAS" Event Friday, August 23rd, 2013; 6:30 pm Doubletree Warren Place 6110 South Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 75136 H.O.P.E.'s 15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION "DIVAS" EVENT Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... rental sheet Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm FEATURING: Cindy Cain Pam - Van Dyke Christy Hanewinkel - Tavis Minner Heather Richetto-Rumley - John Sawyer Jeff Cherblanc - Phena Hackett - Mark Gibson EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Celebrating H.O.P.E.'s 15 years of providing HIV and Hepatitis prevention, education, testing, and linkage to medical care and social services in the Tulsa Community and 25 surrounding counties. For more information, visit hopetesting.org or click here for ticket purchases and sponsorships. Drag Queen Bingo benefiting Our House Too Saturday, August 24th, 2013; Doors open at 7:00 pm Hyatt Regency Hotel 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 Drag Queen Bingo 2013 August 24th, 2013 Hyatt Regency Hotel 7:30 - 10:00 pm $30 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Bingo like your mother never played... This annual event and fundraiser for Our House Too will be held August 24th, 2013 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. Female impersonators will bring dazzling entertainment and fabulous bingo prizes for this, the eighth year, beginning at 7:30 and ending at 10:00 pm with doors opening at 7:00 pm. A silent auction and a 50/50 raffle will be held and, of course, several rousing games of bingo will be played! Some of your favorite artists will 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 perform glittering numbers to wow the crowd. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm.. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2013 are $30 per person and advanced tickets are available online through PayPal. Purchase an indivdual ticket Reserve a Table Reserve a Premium Table Reserve a Runway Table For more information on table packages please contact Our House Too at 918.688.2144 or DQB@ourhousetoo.com Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV/ AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weekly lunches. ourhousetoo.com Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Annual "Christmas in July" Cookout and Show ~l-Jwl~l~HJ Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. A11}1 NI .. oo f .)~[)01--1 ~mo.. ~o j JJJ.}t,J_)g I-.) (\IU I-Ul1\\ 1)..,1,\1.J .~111,IJA llJJol LJ ,JUU oJ. ' ., ~- ► :'" __ · ' - ~ > \._:_:_~ - -,_:-' u ~~-J., ,. ·1• ,,,_ .' C-"i! ~ _.....;;., HllV 1nr ~ ·Avmm1_vs - ,J Qf..)t.~ _i:r ~:,,~ IfkJ~UU J \~Yl '- l 11 l!J~I 1"-.IJ • .__,1I I llll! I, l II,· ,\\,ill"- I) The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma would like to invite everyone to another community wide event - the Annual "Christmas In July" Cookout and Show. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Saturday, July 27th, 2013 @ Tulsa Eagle (No Cover, 21+ Only) Cookout starts @ 7:00 pm (Donations will be accepted) Show starts @ 10:00 pm (Tipping is encouraged) A Benefit for "Our House Too" to help a local family living with HIV/AIDS. Cookout - sponsored by the Green Country Bears Silent Auction - sponsored by T.U.L.S.A. Raffle - sponsored by the Tulsa Sisters Jello Shots / Entertainment - sponsored by the I.C.A.O. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org For more information please contact the I.C.A.O. at impcourtok@gmail.com or see Joshua at the Tulsa Eagle 10 of 12 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... Please join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Prince & Princess Royale Keith and Joanna for the next round of the Holigay pageants Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with the 'Mr & Miss Hot and Humid 2013 Pageant' Friday, August 2nd, 2013 @ 10:00 pm - TNT's (NO COVER 21+ Only) Partial proceeds will benefit - OkEq's Gamily We will also be holding a 50/50 raffle and collecting schools supplies for OkEq's Gamily 1st Annual Back to School Carnival For more information please contact the I.C.A.O. at impcourtok@gmail.com Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $15.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'A Scarecrow's Bible' by Martin Hyatt You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In a house trailer in rural Mississippi, 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... Gary, a married Vietnam veteran, addicted to drugs, haunted by memories of the past, is on the brink of collapse. Just when he thinks the dream of another life is over, the unspeakable happens. He falls in love with a frail, ghostly younger man who reminds him of youth, beauty, and the possibility of a life beyond the prison he has created for himself. A Scarecrow's Bible is about what happens when love occurs at the most unexpected moment. It is the story of how working-class men and women in a small town adapt to changes that somehow seem impossible. It is a novel of hope and transformation that challenges our ideas about diversity and social change, breaking your heart all the way. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 11:05 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f02ed64efabefce2c37bf58088fc086f.pdf 734341eb2457f5433fecada4c157ebdf PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 24th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Back to School Carnival Counseling Services First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. Gamily will have a Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 4th, 2013 2:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org to RSVP or for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of July 24th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Twisters Theater Guys Dine Too Arin and Katie Fever Dream Gamily Family Ice Cream Social Fall Ball 2013 Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Intro to LGBTQ Lit Cooling Station Council Oak Mens Chorale Mosaic DIVAS Drag Queen Bingo Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 4th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Imperial Court of All OK Board of Directors Pride Store Rainbow Library Hurry, hurry, hurry! Step right up and join the fun. There will be food, games, characters, activities and prizes. Bring the family and have some fun before school starts. For more info email Gamily@okeq.org. Please RSVP with parents' names and students' names, ages & grades by Sunday July 28th, Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 2013. Gamily is taking donations for the back to school carnival. Here is a list of the basic school supplies needed by students: • Folders • Pens • Pencils • Spiral notebooks • Box of crayons 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... • Washable markers • Erasers • Kleenex tissues • 3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, or 2 in) • Wide ruled notebook paper OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 15th, 7:00 pm New Counseling Services Monday evenings by appointment John Serrot, LCSW is joining OkEq's counseling services and will see people on Mondays by appointment. Fees are on a sliding scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John by phone at 918.724.3388 or email him at therapyjohn@OkEq.org John is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 40 years of varied social service experience in settings including medical, psychiatric, advocacy, aging, family planning and disabilities. John appreciates the diversity in the human condition and works with his clients to help maximize inherent skills and strengths in order to overcome barriers and accomplish the goals his clients have set for themselves. John specializes in working with adults in the areas of self esteem, mood disorders, anxiety, trauma, communication/relationships, gender identification, aging and disabilities. OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, August 1st, 2013; 6:00 pm The August OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos from the private collection of Kevin Roden. Co-curated by Kevin and Andre Chenault, the show begins with a reception on Thursday, August 1st, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. A commemorative poster for the art show will be available for $20 Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Spectrum Knits 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well "Twisters Theater" Sunday, July 28th, 2013; 5:00 & 7:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St The Tulsa Twisters softball team will be performing a "Twisters Theater" version of A League of Their Own on Sunday July 28th, 2013. Performances will be at New Age Renegade and showtimes will be at 5:00 pm and 7:00 pm. At the end of the last show, there will be a raffle with a wine basket prize. Raffle tickets will be sold at the show. The Twisters are raising money for their trip to Washington D.C. in August 2013 to play in NAGAAA World Series. For more information on the Tulsa Twisters or the Tulsa Metro Softball League, please visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, August 6th, 2013; 6:30 pm The August meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Mexicali Border Cafe on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013 at around 6:30 pm. Mexicali Border Cafe is located at 14 West Brady 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. National and International publications feature local Oklahoma transgender youth Arin Andrews and Katie Hill Oklahomans for Equality would like to applaud the courage of Arin Andrews and Katie Hill, who have shared their stories in the press and have raised the visibility of transgender youth. Their story has been featured in both national and international stories. To read more, see their story on the Huffington Post and in London's Sun Magazine. Fever Dream Performances on Friday and Saturday, August 2nd and 3rd, 2013 SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday and Saturday, August 2nd and 3rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the an•wpl•J Equality Center, Emily N EED HANDS H•dgacock Hedgecock's full-length play, Fever lM TIME STD~ by E.A.. Dream, features Wilson and Kinnier in a thoughtful, emotional, and surprisingly funny philosophical journey through an iliLOOKSf absurdist work by a character known only as "The Author". In this th JELLK ERL al • modernist take on life and death, 11, DIEi" eq~~I~ lll'I 1111 c:ent..Wilson meets a variety of 1 11 4th characters from the hyperactive 82 f:'.WANf•';; Tlf aup•t 2-3 Hat Guy to drab and pedantic Merriam Webster (the living embodiment of a dictionary), led HAPPENSII throughout it all by her H w ith guide -... SHIUIS GUY , tud• nt ID magnanimous Kinnier. Certain characters use Ad .. adult language and a parental EANLIGHT audlenc: . advisory is suggested. nm o n~ Performances are open to the public and tickets are $7, $5 with student ID. Proceeds will go to NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness. ,,;;-- -- 918.592.0088 ~-- TALKIN&PLIY tWEBSTERTHINK ""'AUTHOR""'"~'"""' ii~JAUDIENOE mf RIGHT EVE nl\q fi I N N I eiii • H RE AM it1 ATD 1.!~·sON§" n.::. GOIN&,., I: IMERRIAMDKAY JTMSYMRJOMSeEET I!,rnl!AKESM Gamily featured family for the week of July 24th This week's featured Gamily Family is Sean Conner and his son Jacob and Sean's partner Jared Alexander. NERDception Every other Tuesday AUGUST 6th 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Jacob is 8 years old and will be 9 next month. Jared has been in Sean and Jacob's lives since Jacob was 3. The family likes to camp, swim, go to the lake and just be with their friends. They love baseball games and going to local festivals. Every other Saturday they spend time with their longtime ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:06 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... friends who also have 2 boys and they all cook and play games. It's something the family looks forward. Jacob plays football for Jenks and is a phenomenal soccer player. Jacob has another brother that is 2 that he shares his time with when at his mom's. Sean says, "Each day with him, I learn a little more what the meaning of life is really about". Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Gamily Ice Cream Social The Gamily group met on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 for the 1st Annual Ice Cream Social. The parents and kids had a scream with ice cream and games. New families came by and were able to meet other families in the LGBT community. For more information on Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Every other Wednesday JULY 31st 7:00 pm Rainbow Writers rn OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 6 of 14 la -- �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ---to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! Game Night 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Teams will be selected at random from a "hat" at the Fall Draft Event; all players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: TBD, but will be Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning in mid-September and ending late October. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Intro to LGBTQ Literature Tulsa Community College Fall 2013 Schedule Are your literary tastes a little more colorful than some? Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Maybe you need a taste of LGBTQ Literature! Introduction to LGBTQ Literature Coming to TCC for Fall 2013 ENGL 2993, Section 390, CRN 17124 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Online, 16 week course taught by Dr. Allen Culpeper Tentative reading list: Maurice by E. M. Forster, Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jenette Winterson, Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin, Eighty-Sixed by David Feinberg, Cloud 9 by Caryl Churchhill, The Laramie Project by Moises Kaufman, Pages for You by Sylvia Brownrigg, Love Speaks Its Name: Gay and Lesbian Love Poems edited by J.D. McClatchy For more information contact: allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu ------918.595.7647 Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Mondays, Beginning August 5th, 2013; 7:00 pm Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season 2013 Performance will begin on Monday, August 5th, 2013 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Rehearsals will continue on every Monday. The concert will feature holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria(Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry oouncll oak nms chorale Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. council oak Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information Mosaic Diversity Business Awards Survey Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. • Mosaic is launching a survey to identify businesses that powered by the tulsa regional chamber have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. We hope to identify ten for profits and ten nonprofits for our region's Top 20 Inclusive Cultures. rrOxC � Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The survey will close at end of business August 9th, 2013. The results of the survey will be shared at Mosaic's inaugural Economic Inclusion Forum October 21st, 2013. 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... H.O.P.E.'s 15th Anniversary Celebration "DIVAS" Event Friday, August 23rd, 2013; 6:30 pm Doubletree Warren Place 6110 South Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 75136 H.O.P.E.'s 15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION "DIVAS" EVENT Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org FEATURING: Cindy Cain Pam - Van Dyke Christy Hanewinkel - Tavis Minner Heather Richetto-Rumley - John Sawyer Jeff Cherblanc - Phena Hackett - Mark Gibson Celebrating H.O.P.E.'s 15 years of providing HIV and Hepatitis prevention, education, testing, and linkage to medical care and social services in the Tulsa Community and 25 surrounding counties. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org For more information, visit hopetesting.org or click here for ticket purchases and sponsorships. Drag Queen Bingo benefiting Our House Too Saturday, August 24th, 2013; Doors open at 7:00 pm Hyatt Regency Hotel 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 Drag Queen Bingo 2013 August 24th, 2013 Hyatt Regency Hotel 7:30 - 10:00 pm $30 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Bingo like your mother never played... This annual event and fundraiser for Our House Too will be held August 24th, 2013 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. Female impersonators will bring dazzling entertainment and fabulous bingo prizes for this, the eighth year, beginning at 7:30 and ending at 10:00 pm with doors opening at 7:00 pm. A silent auction and a 50/50 raffle will be held and, of course, several rousing games of bingo will be played! Some of your favorite artists will perform glittering numbers to wow the crowd. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2013 are $30 per person and advanced tickets are available online through PayPal. Purchase an indivdual ticket Reserve a Table Reserve a Premium Table Reserve a Runway Table For more information on table packages please contact Our House Too at 918.688.2144 or DQB@ourhousetoo.com Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV/ AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weekly lunches. ourhousetoo.com Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Annual "Christmas in July" Cookout and Show The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma would like to invite everyone to another community wide event - the Annual "Christmas In July" Cookout and Show. Saturday, July 27th, 2013 @ Tulsa Eagle (No Cover, 21+ Only) Cookout starts @ 7:00 pm (Donations will be accepted) Show starts @ 10:00 pm (Tipping is encouraged) A Benefit for "Our House Too" to help a local family living with HIV/AIDS. Cookout - sponsored by the Green Country Bears Silent Auction - sponsored by T.U.L.S.A. Raffle - sponsored by the Tulsa Sisters 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Jello Shots / Entertainment - sponsored by the I.C.A.O. For more information please contact the I.C.A.O. at impcourtok@gmail.com or see Joshua at the Tulsa Eagle Please join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Prince & Princess Royale Keith and Joanna for the next round of the Holigay pageants with the 'Mr & Miss Hot and Humid 2013 Pageant' Friday, August 2nd, 2013 @ 10:00 pm - TNT's (NO COVER 21+ Only) Partial proceeds will benefit - OkEq's Gamily We will also be holding a 50/50 raffle and collecting schools supplies for OkEq's Gamily 1st Annual Back to School Carnival For more information please contact the I.C.A.O. at impcourtok@gmail.com Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $15.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Velveteen Father: An Unexpected Journey to Parenthood' by Jesse Green You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Being a parent was not a high priority-or even much of a likelihood--for acclaimed journalist and novelist Jesse Green. Yet when Green, at the age of thirty-seven, fell in love with a man who had recently adopted a baby boy, fatherhood suddenly fell into his lap. Now in this warm, humorous, deeply personal book, Green recounts the unexpected journey he and his partner traveled together on the road to parenthood. 1I11 ·Vl 1vrn1 N·F~\THtR In becoming the father--or rather one of the fathers--of Erez, Green faced challenges familiar to all parents, from J E E GREEN the first bath to the first tooth, along with Author ol O B••uttful a host of dilemmas unique to his situation. As Green discovered, even in blas� New York City, reactions to his unconventional family ranged from the funny to the frightening, the unaccepting to the all-embracing. The Velveteen Father is a moving record of the transformative effects parenthood can have on people who least expect to become parents-- and of how we are repeatedly made anew by the love of children who need us. 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Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association (TULSA) Tulsa Uniform Leather Seekers Association Tulsa Unites Against Bullying Tulsa Women's Rugby Club Turn About Show Turn-about drag show Twisters Theater Two Step and Country Line Dance Tyron Garner Unity Center Unity Center of Tulsa Unity Church of Christianity University of Oklahoma University of Oklahoma (OU) University of Tulsa University of Tulsa Law University United Methodist Church Utah Pride Center veterans Veterans Day veterans welfare Vintage Series Vito Russo Volunteer Tulsa voting Wade Blevins WANTED: A Night in Maverick Country Wayne Besen wedding weddings What About the Rest of Your House? What the L? When You Were Me While England Sleeps Whole Foods Why Marriage Matters Why Marriage Matters: America Equality and Gay People's Right to Marry Wild By Nature Willa Cather Within Our Reach Within Our Reach relationship workshop Workforce Oklahoma Access Point World AIDS day Yoga A - Z Yolanda Arnold Youth Lock-In YWCA Zachary Harvat Zackie Achmat Zumba Fitness https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2193e3569351ea3010b2f1db940345a8.pdf 61990c5d66826db5bcea65c3e248a9e2 PDF Text Text Oklahomans for Equality History Project The Oklahomans for Equality History Project remembers former U.S. Rep. Barney Frank, D-Mass., who died on Wednesday, May 20, after a political career that included fights for gay rights and tribal citizenship for the descendants of former tribal slaves. Frank was the first member of the U.S. House of Representatives to publicly acknowledge that he was gay. “His public declaration of his sexual orientation in 1987 — spurred by a fear of being outed, by the death of a closeted colleague and by his own determination to show that homosexuality was nothing to be ashamed of — helped normalize being openly gay in public life,” The New York Times wrote in his obituary. His advocacy for gay rights and freedmen descendants brought Frank to Tulsa at different times. He arrived at Tulsa International Airport on the morning of Saturday, June 12, 1999, just in time to kick off an event-filled Pride weekend. He was the grand marshal of Tulsa’s first ever Pride parade, which closed the streets from Brookside to Veterans Park (now Dream Keepers Park) at 21st Street and Boulder Avenue that morning. And that evening he was the keynote speaker at “An Evening with Barney Frank,” a gala hosted by Tulsa Oklahomans for Equality and the Cimarron Alliance at the Greenwood Cultural Center. He flew out early Sunday morning – after a very early prayer breakfast – to attend to unexpected House business and was quite apologetic for his early departure, former TOHR President Greg Gatewood remembers. Frank told the Tulsa World for a June 13, 1999, story that “U.S. Sen. Jim Inhofe – the Oklahoma Republican who recently tried to block �the nomination of a gay ambassador to Luxembourg – helped inspire him to join Tulsa's parade. "‘In a major urban area where there has been a well-organized gay and lesbian movement for years, they don't need my help so much,’" Frank said. "But here, where the political climate isn't so good – where the U.S. senator has basically said that gay and lesbian people don't have the right to be American citizens – I want to help out all that I can." Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, which later became Oklahomans for Equality, had sponsored an annual Pride picnic for 18 years, and marches on sidewalks were included in 1997 and ’98, but the 1999 event was the first parade that involved street closings and police escorts. Frank returned to Tulsa in 2017 to lend his support and speak at an event at John Hope Franklin Reconciliation Park in celebration of an Aug. 30 ruling by a federal judge that the descendants of former slaves of the Cherokee Nation are entitled to Cherokee citizenship. Frank had worked in Congress to force the Cherokee Nation to acknowledge freedmen descendants as tribal citizens, having asked the Bureau of Indian Affairs and the Department of Housing and Urban Development in September 2011 to cut off housing funding to the Cherokee Nation if it did not restore tribal citizenship to Black Cherokees. Frank told the Bay State Banner, a Boston newspaper, that month that he became involved with the issue because “from my earliest days in politics, I’ve considered race one of the single most important problems. I think fighting racism is important.” �The Oklahomans for Equality History Project encourages you to learn more about OkEq’s history by visiting our online archives at history.okeq.org. � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2eee107f234bb2bbb6ce8b020512c514.png 0a5d39392b559d5868396cb18589c819 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Series] Oklahoma LGBT+ History > In Memoriam Description An account of the resource <strong>Physical Media:</strong> <br /><br /><br /><strong>Digital Media:</strong> Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2026] Barney Frank Remembrance Subject The topic of the resource Barney Frank Remembrance Article Description An account of the resource Two pages of an article written by Mary Bishop-Baldwin about Barney Frank, who passed away on May 20th, 2026. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Mary Bishop-Baldwin Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource May 20, 2026 1999 Pride 2026 Barney Frank biography House of Representatives in memoriam Pride 1999 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b95930bb43b6204cc0b535ce32caa168.mp4 469e654a90e50910f02a606edc370ad8 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/de83922a814abfccb89b44324379c8b2.pdf 24694ed11bcd4bf4f24f336d45fea72a PDF Text Text Oklahomans for Equality Oral History Interview with Tom Neal Interview Conducted by Dennis Neill Date: April 30, 2026 Transcribed and Edited By: Dennis Neill using Reduct.Video AI, May 23, 2026 Restrictions: Interviewee requested: N/A Oklahomans for Equality History Project 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK. 74120 918.743.4297 historyproject@okeq.org 1 �About Tom Neal Summary In this in-depth interview, Tom Neal shares his life journey, from growing up in Oklahoma to becoming a community activist and publisher. He discusses his experiences with LGBTQ+ advocacy, the evolution of Tulsa's community spaces, and his reflections on social progress and challenges. Keywords LGBTQ+ history, Tulsa community, activism, journalism, HIV/AIDS, LGBTQ+ rights, community building, personal story Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 00:29 Tom Neal's Early Life and Family Background 01:15 Education and Early Influences 02:11 School Experiences and French Class Antics 03:11 College Years and Architectural Studies 04:21 Moving Back to Tulsa and Community Involvement 07:16 Growing Up LGBTQ+ in Tulsa 08:38 Realization of Sexual Identity and Puberty 09:46 Early Role Models and Family Support 11:20 First Awareness of Being Different 12:28 Family Reactions and Relationships 13:54 Exploring Sexuality and Personal Growth 15:16 Involvement in LGBTQ+ Organizations and Activism 16:42 Community Engagement in Dallas and Tulsa 18:40 Founding Tulsa Family News 2 �20:05 Courage to Be Open and Advocate 22:12 Memories of Bruce Goff and Architectural Roots 24:08 First Encounters with HIV/AIDS in Los Angeles 27:24 Activism and Civil Rights Work 35:19 Journalism and Publishing Journey 42:54 Proudest Achievements and Challenges 44:17 Memorable Moments and Mistakes in Publishing 45:24 Reflections on Community and Progress 50:22 Involvement with Oklahoma LGBTQ+ Organizations 58:51 Early Days of the LGBTQ+ Center in Tulsa 01:06:49 Community Challenges and Progress 01:11:49 The Impact of Media and Community Scattering 01:16:46 Reflections on Activism and Community Building 01:23:18 Future Plans and Personal Reflections Tom Neal Oral History Interview April 30, 2026 Dennis Neill: Good morning. It is April the 30th, 2026. I am Dennis Neill, and I am in the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Oklahoma Equality Center, and I'm here with Tom Neal. We have the pleasure of interviewing him, and with me is Mary Bishop-Baldwin, an archivist that is working with us here at the Center. So Tom, would you introduce yourself by mentioning your name and your age and where you grew up? Tom Neal: I'm Tom Neal. I'm 68. I was born in Oklahoma City, but we moved here when I was three, so I pretty much consider myself being from Tulsa. Dennis Neill: And tell me a little bit about your early life, your family life, your education as an adolescent. Tom Neal: Sure, so my father is a retired anesthesiologist, and he moved here to start the anesthesia department at St. Francis, and of course at that time, St. Francis was the edge of the city, and our little housing development, Holiday Hills, was about the only only place to live that was near the hospital. I think that was even before the LaFortunes donated their farm to become LaFortune Park. I don't remember this, but that's what I remember my mom saying. I have four brothers, two older, two younger. I'm biologically related to my three younger, two younger brothers, excuse me, and my two older brothers were adopted by my family, though they're biologically related to each other. Went through TPS, Carnegie, which I'm proud to say is still considered one of the best schools in the city, elementary schools, Nimitz, and then Memorial, and most people usually get thrown out of private schools and wind up going to a public school. I managed to get thrown out of a public school and wound up finishing up at Holland Hall my last couple of years, so I'm not sure it's a distinction to be proud of, but it's part of my history. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: What did you do to get kicked out? 3 �Tom Neal: I think I smarted off to one of the disciplinarians who was a coach, and they had sent me home for something, and I was feeling oppositional, so instead of going home, which most kids probably want to go home, I went to my French class, and he came and threatened to drag me bodily out of the French class, and so I spoke to him only in French at that point, which of course, and he later told my parents that I had cussed him out in French. I don't know, I didn't know when he cussed words in French, so that wasn't actually true, but anyway….wound up being one of the best things for me academically. I spent a couple semesters, well, I spent one semester at the American College in Paris. I was a little too young as a freshman to be that far away from home. There's a reason you do it in junior year, but I came back and went to the University of Tulsa for a couple semesters, and then I transferred to Rice in Houston and finished up there, class of 1980, with a degree in art and architectural history. Not very employable, but very interesting, and also a degree that involved a lot of writing, which may be relevant to other things. I also wound up having pretty intensive writing instruction when I was at Holland Hall, so that was a benefit there, too, as well as a couple of really good French teachers at Holland Hall. Then I moved from Houston to Dallas, started going to architecture school at the University of Texas at Arlington, and then left to go to an architecture program in Los Angeles, lived there for about four years, and then decided that the day that they had, well, this is just circumstantial, but the day that they had both an earthquake and a tornado in Los Angeles is the day that I moved back to Tulsa. So, and then worked here in Tulsa for a couple years, particularly for two architects, Kathleen Page and Rachel Williams-Zabrowski. Wonderful, wonderful people, who, after I worked with them maybe two years, Kathleen took me aside and said, we're firing you, not because we don't like your work, but because you need to go back to school and finish your architecture degree, because I had begun it, but not finished it. And I said, well, gee, thanks, maybe, but, so I wound up shopping my credits to Oklahoma State and then to OU, and Oklahoma State, they're like, well, you didn't do it here, you need to start from the beginning, and OU said, we're going to give you credit for almost everything, so I'm a Sooner, that was a no-brainer. So Rice, 1980, University of Oklahoma, 1989. Lived in Dallas again and then came back to Tulsa after my mother had an aneurysm, which she survived, thanks be to God, and have been in Tulsa. And that was probably, well, you [Dennis] and I knew each other before. I had met you when TOHR was almost new, and you and Doug [Hartson] and all that crew were doing stuff at the Aaronson Auditorium. But I think that might have been when I was working for Kathleen. And then I came back in 93 and got involved in, went to Pride, at that point still kind of in the wilds of Mohawk Park, and kind of got involved in the community. Kelly was leading things, Kelly Kirby was leading things then, and kind of went from there. Before I had a little, I'd been involved in a retail, a lesbian owned retail store in Dallas on Cedar Springs, in the heart of a kind of gay village. And so I tried to recreate that in Tulsa, even though it's a very different dynamic. Dallas had that concentrated 4 �little bit of community, whereas now and then, Tulsa's community is kind of scattered. And I had a store at the Silver Star Retail Store for about a year. Dennis Neill: Do you remember what year that would have been? Tom Neal: That would have been about probably 94-ish, 1994-ish. Dennis Neill: And was that Tomfoolery? Tom Neal: Yes, it was called Tomfoolery. Yeah, and it was a, kind of like Tulsa Family News, it was a, compared to some LGBT retail establishments, it was a pretty vanilla, clean, I didn't have things that you wouldn't, that you'd be ashamed to show your mother, for example. So, same with the paper, did not, tried to be a legitimate news outlet within my skill set. Anyway, so how am I doing? Dennis Neill: Great, so let's talk a little bit more about your early years, growing up in school, kind of your peers and your activities both within the school and any out of school activities that were of particular interest to you during that growing up phase. Tom Neal: Golly, well, I was like a lot of gay kids, I was probably pretty obviously gay, from elementary school, and I do remember getting harassed, at that time, it was just bullying, it was kind of the ethos of the time. A little bit at Carnegie, more so at Nimitz, junior high seems to bring out the worst, particularly in boys, but there's some mean girls too, you know. And actually, I remember also getting harassed at Memorial, there was one young man who used to, I didn't, I don't think I even knew his name, I don't think I'd ever met him, but whenever we would encounter each other in the hallways, he would scream faggot at me, which was, well, that's lovely. And I'm like, you know. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: How did you react to that? Tom Neal: Well, it made me angry, but there wasn't, I mean, there were no, there were no very few, to my knowledge, no support resources. I, like a lot of gay men of that era, tried to, was kind of in denial. I think, I do remember at age 16, I decided, being gay is not very easy and I'm not going to be gay, because I'm just a pig-headed gay and I figured I could just kind of will myself not to be gay. And that lasted until 24. And I was in a relationship with a young lady and she broke up with me and I thought, probably this is the time I need to just acknowledge, but we lived together and, to some degree had a fairly successful relationship. Dennis Neill: Any children? Tom Neal: No, no, no, no. We were not married and we did not have children. We worked really hard not to have children, trust me. Dennis Neill: So, going back a little bit to when you were first feeling your identity, can you talk a little bit about your evolution of realizing what your identity is and how you experienced that early on? Tom Neal: I think the thing that's important to remember, I’m a little bit of a history nerd, so, I was born in 1957, so 1977, I was 20. Back five years, 1972, I was 15, right? If I'm doing the math right. And 1972 Stonewall had only happened three years before. 5 �There was no, there was not, I mean, if you wanted to like look at images of a male figure, I think, like, you got to check out the football players' tight pants and look at the underwear section in the Sears and Roebuck, which is all airbrushed by the way, so. So, I mean, there was no, there was no, there was no, I mean, there was actually no role models. There was nothing out there and particularly, maybe in New York or, California, but not, I don't think so even there particularly, but even less so in Tulsa, Oklahoma. My parents, who wound up over the years being tremendously supportive of TOHR and the things I did with the community, loaning me, donating at times, loaning me their truck if we needed to set up things for Pride when we did the first Pride in Owen Park. Even though they were old school conservative Republicans, not the new ones, faithful Presbyterians and in hindsight, given that I could have been born into a Baptist or some kind of evangelical kind of tradition, I'm really grateful because the Presbyterians didn't say anything homophobic. We didn't exist. They didn't acknowledge our existence, but that was more benign than certainly other options. I met a young man at Trinity recently who identified himself as a refugee from a Southern Baptist upbringing. Dennis Neill: When did you first kind of distinguish between being gay and being heterosexual or being homosexual? When did that first kind of come into your mind? Tom Neal: Puberty. I mean, puberty hit and I knew that, I'm like, okay. One of these things is not like the other and I'm like, the other dudes are like, hey, there's this girl who will meet you behind New Haven Methodist Church and you can have some fun. This is in junior high, mind you, and I'm like, I couldn't get out of the, I'll pass. I mean, I knew that I didn't want to do that, and I think that's pretty. Dennis Neill: Did you date at all in junior high? Tom Neal: Just the standard, ask a girl to go to a dance because your best buddy was going to a dance and, so you wanted to go with them and, you know. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Realizing this about yourself, that you were different, did that scare you? Tom Neal: No, but I think I was really lucky. Our mother was a woman of very, very strong character. She had endured, survived some really serious health challenges as a young woman and I think she just, I don't know, I think somehow we got imbued with that strength of character, , that I'm not the problem, y'all may have a problem, but I'm not the problem, who I am. And that's a gift from my parents that I cannot underestimate. So no, I basically… like I know that young LGBT plus people sometimes have suicidal thoughts, that kind of stuff, and I'm like, F that. I am fine. The problem is with you guys. Dennis Neill: So how did you explore your sexuality with your family, both your parents and your siblings? How did that evolve and have there been issues that have brought discomfort to either you or the family? 6 �Tom Neal: I don't think my older brothers talked about it. We didn't talk, but they're enough older. My oldest brother was born in 1949 and my next brother in 51, so they were off into the world while I was growing up. So we have a good relationship now, but we weren't, they were awake. They were off at college, one brother was in Korea. So less of an issue. My youngest brother is seven years younger, so he was a baby during some of this time. Tom Neal: Really my next younger brother, to whom I'm probably, I hate to pick favorites, closest, but we talk every day now that you can talk for free, and he somehow fell into more evangelical traditions, faith traditions. And so at times it was very difficult. I mean, for a while he worked for American Airlines and I think they still do, but particularly then they had non-revenue benefits where family members could fly for next to nothing. And at one point he was like, you're using these benefits to go do gay things and I, you can't, I forbid that you should do that because you're doing gay things. And I don't approve. And I'm like, I said, you don't tell your mother-in-law what she can go do with her non-revenue benefits, you know? So, I mean, because I was living in Dallas and I went to ILGA, which is the International Lesbian and Gay Association Conference in Stockholm. And the only reason I could do it was because I had basically an almost free ticket, though I did have some application fees and DGA, Dallas Gay Alliance, it was called then. I asked them to give me some funds to help with the trip and, so, and I... Dennis Neill: So, that is after you finished which level of education you were... Tom Neal: That was, that was after I finished up at Rice. No, that was probably after finishing both degrees, because I lived in Dallas in between the degrees, and then I lived in Dallas after the degrees, because I graduated from OU, had enough to go to work with Stan Grala, who's the G in GH2, and probably should have worked for Stan. We had a great working relationship. The H's, Mike and Kara Hall, went to work for him. Stan designed horse barns. He was an equestrian architect. Very different practice, right? But I wound up working for a firm here in Tulsa, and then I got an opportunity to work for RTKL, which is a very prestigious firm in Dallas, and I moved back to Dallas and worked for them. What was the question? Circle back. Dennis Neill: Kind of your activities in Dallas. Tom Neal: I just was involved in community stuff. Obviously kind of had the bug in. I had gotten involved in LGBT plus activism at OU, because we were trying to get a nondiscrimination policy for OU, which the university did not have, and they were not particularly willing. They were actually quite unwilling to add that on, and so we lobbied the Board of Trustees, Board of Regents. I went to a black alumni dinner once to talk to the one black regent, just to see, because it was the only opportunity to get face-to-face with her. Since this happened, OU's gotten there. I wish it got there a lot faster, much to my chagrin. I think Laura [Belmonte] was a big part of that, to be honest. I kind of found my voice there. I never really wanted, thought I would be an activist. So I'd gone there because I already had an undergraduate degree. My course load was lighter. My first year was, so I didn't have to do all the distributions. All I had to do was the architecture 7 �program. Well, the first year I got most of that out of the way, so my second year I'm like, and I ran for the Student Congress, and got elected, and again was just really agitating to try to get all this, and then when I came, after I finished up, I kind of continued that in the community, and that was in Dallas. I was involved with GLAAD, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, which at that time, it was not a single office national organization. It was a bunch of chapters around the country. There was a chapter in San Francisco, Los Angeles, New York, obviously D.C., maybe Atlanta, I don't know for sure, but one in Dallas, and got involved with that. And my dear friend of mine, CeCe Cox, who's from Bartlesville, who's been the head of the gay, the equivalent of OkEq in Dallas, was kind of my comrade-in-arms in that, and we kind of built GLAAD and went to organizing meetings. In the process of trying to create a national GLAAD organization, we had meetings all over the country to do that. Dennis Neill: How were you finding the fight at OU? Tom Neal: At OU? I am class of 89, and I went there in 87, so it would have been between 87 and 89. Dennis Neill: And did you have an organized gay or lesbian group on campus that was helping you? Tom Neal: Yeah, yeah, we did. Dennis Neill: Were you very involved in that? Tom Neal: I was one of the leaders of that at one point. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Let me ask you about that. Tom Neal: Yeah. Dennis Neill: You were working on a graduate degree in architecture at that time or another undergraduate… Tom Neal: So I actually took a second undergraduate degree, but in architecture, you can do a four-year degree, but then you have to have a two-year master's in order to have a qualifying degree to be professionally licensed. Or you can do a five-year degree, which qualifies you for professional licensing. So I went and spent two more years, combined with my other undergraduates, to get a B-Arch, which is a five-year degree. In hindsight, I wish I had gotten a master's, because later, I wound up teaching at TCC, and if I had had a master's, I could have continued teaching. But anyway, that's... Maty Bishop-Baldwin: So while you were there, you said there were no protections for LGBT people. Tom Neal: Correct. 8 �Mary Bishop-Baldwin: But yet, you were willing to put your face and your name out there and say, hey, I'm gay, and we need these protections. What gave you the strength and courage to do that when you knew that you could be expelled just for being gay? Tom Neal: Well, I don't think they were actually doing… I don't know that they would have done that. I guess they could have technically, but I don't think they would have because they'd have to, they'd lose way too much of the university. But two, I would go back to my blessed mother whose, courage in life, kind of informed, my, I don't know, maybe it's the Zodiac is somewhat esoteric, but, Leo, I mean, I'm like I'm right and they're wrong. Dennis Neill: Could you post posters about your meetings? Were you undercover… Tom Neal: No, we were not undercover and in fact I think we had student funding like any other student organization. Somebody else had won that battle before I got there and because they started, I was not there then. But every student organization needs a faculty sponsor, and our faculty sponsor was a groundbreaking African-American professor, Dr. Henderson- I can't remember his first name, not gay, not even remotely gay, but committed to the notion that people, all people, should be treated fairly, and as a black man understanding some of that struggle. Dr. Henderson agreed to be the faculty sponsor and, like I say he'd been that for some time. He didn't really do anything day to day. You know we had to have a signature, I think once a year and yeah, so you know there was another advantage. My blessed father paid for my tuition, so I wasn't dependent on scholarships. I had a certain amount of economic invulnerability. I went back to OU when I was 29, and at 29, hopefully you've got your act together a little bit better and you know I'm like… Dennis Neill: what was the name of the organization? Tom Neal: That's a good question, Dennis. I can't remember. I could probably Google it, it's probably out there with like everything else. Dennis Neill: So, being in an architectural program at OU, did you have any background on Bruce Goff and his role at OU? Do you want... about what you encountered at OU and then the subsequent history, if you know about how OU kind of redeemed Bruce Goff? Tom Neal: Well, it's really interesting because I wound up again my last year- I had a little extra time, so I was involved as a student representative of different things, like we had a lecture committee, and I was the student rep and this kind of stuff. And I remember having lunch. We had an Englishman who was one of our professors there and they brought a speaker- in no idea who that speaker was. I was invited to lunch at the faculty club or whatever, and we were having lunch with him and they were talking about Bruce Goff. But at that point he was like we don't talk about the fact that Bruce Goff was a gay man and that the university was hostile to him during some of that time, and I of course brought that up and I thought the English guy was going to kind of have a little fainting spell perhaps. But yeah, no, certainly, even then Bruce Goff has certainly been radically embraced by the university. Now wasn't as much then. They weren't, but 9 �they were proud of his work. They just didn't want to talk about the- you know the not so pretty history of how the university treated him. Dennis Neill: If you go into the architectural school at OU now, do you see evidence of Bruce Goff? Tom Neal: I would imagine, though I have not been back in some years. I haven't been in that building since I served on the Tulsa Preservation Commission for three years and we had a training session at OU and that's the last time I was there, but that was when Dewey Bartlett was mayor. So that gives you- I can't remember the date on that, but that's been seven or eight years at least, if not maybe longer. Dennis Neill: Where were you when you first learned about HIV-AIDS? Tom Neal: Oh, absolutely, I lived in Los Angeles, which is one of the epicenters. LA, New York, San Francisco were all hit hard and I had a couple of kind of best older, best friend, gay guys who had been my neighbors and they kind of adopted me. They were like my gay uncles, and they started. My friend Kerry got sick first and then wound up... it was the classic early, what are we talking? Nineteen, eighty-three, probably about eighty-three, because I graduated from Rice in eighty and lived a couple years in Dallas, went to California and Kerry and Phillip were partners. We lived in the same loft building in downtown Los Angeles before it was stylish to do so, by the way, it was right in between Little Tokyo, which was nice, and Skid Row, which was not so nice, and we were closer to Skid Row. But they were my neighbors there and then we also wound up living in an apartment building in mid-Wilshire, much nicer part of town. Kerry got sick, wound up in part of the big hospital, public hospital. It was east of downtown and in those days people got pneumonia, they died. It's that fast and nobody knew what the hell was going on. You know Kerry… digressing slightly, well, he was from Indiana, so he went home, Philip went with him, I flew back. In those days it was prior to 9-11, so you could like, I actually took a thing of sushi because he wanted sushi. So I carried sushi halfway across the country and then he couldn't eat it because he just wasn't feeling well. Those were kind of dire days. And I remember going to get my first HIV test, which at that time nobody in Los Angeles was doing it. The only place was the center in Long Beach. You drove 30 miles to Long Beach and then you waited for two weeks because it was not an instant test, and thanks be to God. You know I'm- the term had not been invented yet- but I realized that I'm probably demisexual, which means I kind of like to know people before I have sex with them. I'm not going to go into too much sex here, but so I think that probably might have…maybe didn't get infected because of that, because I'm like I just am not comfortable with this and so, but that was not the ethos at the time. Dennis Neill: I'd like to spend a little bit more time about your personal knowledge of HIV/AIDS, since it's shaped generations, yeah, yeah, yeah. So you first encountered it in LA and you've been in Dallas and Tulsa. Just talk a little bit more about your path in activism particularly related to HIV/AIDS. 10 �Tom Neal: I think to be honest, I focused more on civil rights issues because there were already a lot of people working on HIV issues, particularly when I wound up back in Tulsa after 93. TOHR had the testing program that later became HOPE. So those kind of were covered when I was involved in TOHR leadership. Of course we were, they were us and we were they and you know being supportive of the two programs. it's just, I don't know, it's just, I mean I'm a regular visitor here for the testing program. So I even brought my… I had a foster kid for a while and I brought my foster kid because he's like I need to get tested. And I said, and my foster kid was straight, very straight, extremely straight, and I said, Nathan, your risk factors are really, really low. I mean, I'm sure we can do this, but I don't see…What I didn't know, the other tests they do, along with the HIV test, is syphilis. Yeah, my foster kid tested positive for that. So we had a little conversation about safer sex as well as the concept of statutory rape, because I think the young lady with whom he'd been involved, who apparently was the initiator, I said it doesn't matter if she initiates it, if she's 14, you're going to prison. He was 17. So yeah, sorry, I have a little ADD, and so we, my conversations, are almost always meandering, so I don't know really how to add to that. It's always been kind of part of, I mean, I feel, on some level, I think any of us, you know gay men, but lesbians too, not necessarily for the same reason. We've all kind of been informed and scarred by that experience, because… Dennis Neill: Have you lost many acquaintances or friends to AIDS. Tom Neal: Some, probably would have been more if I'd spent more time in more exclusively gay circles. But, like I say, in Los Angeles I was going to architecture school. And the majority of the people I was around were heterosexual. So at least in that time their exposure and their risk factors were a lot lower. So enough, particularly Kerry and Philip. I mean I remember I kept up with Philip after Kerry died and Philip was from, he was from Massachusetts and went back there and I remember thinking I need to call, I need to call, I need to call see how he's doing. But I kept putting it off because I was really I was afraid that I would hear that he had died. And I finally called and I got his mother and he was, he was very, very Italian Catholic family, you know. So I mean, that was his Boston identity and we had a sad conversation, because she was like she- not her exact words, but it was like honey, you know. Now he's gone, you know. So anyway, yeah, I don't know. Dennis Neill: I should have asked you this earlier: design has been kind of your life. What was your stimulus that got you so interested in design work and was there any other career path that you considered other than architectural? Tom Neal: Well, I published a newspaper for eight years, so without any formal journalistic training other than the writing that I alluded to at Holland Hall, and then if you're in an art history program, basically art history is dealt with by writing about it, right? So I think I developed those but, and that I kind of more fell into might also have been kind of an outgrowth from the work with GLAAD, an awareness of how critical media is to our community towards representation. 11 �But the architecture stuff, I think it was always an interest. So my mother is from a little tiny town called Wewoka in east central Oklahoma and my grandfather had a barber shop in downtown Wewoka next to the movie theater. He'd always wanted to be a physician, but his father had what we now call Alzheimer's or dementia and wound up in the state. My great-grandfather would have been in the state hospital in Norman, because that's all they had, that's all they could do. Tom Neal: So he wound up being a barber because he had, like I don't know, half a dozen siblings and somebody had to help take care of them. So and my grandmother learned to be a beautician. They had the barber shop in front and the beautician shop in the back and in those days, you had magazines galore, right, because pre-Internet we didn't all look at our phones, so you had like the hunting magazines and the sports magazines in the barber shop in the back they had like House Beautiful, House and Garden and whatever those kind of things, and some of them would show one of the magazines would have plans, would have the floor plans of the houses, and I remember being you know little kid, I was fascinated. I would sit in the barber shop or in the beauty shop, depending, and look at the magazines and study the plans. The interest was there. I also think that if you think about left brain, right brain and wiring the way, I think I have a memory which also fits with an art history degree. I have a strong visual memory, much more so than other things, so like for love or for money, I can probably not remember the name of a song or song lyrics. That kind of information is like gone as soon as it's in my head it's gone, but visual stuff stays with me and, by way of example, years ago I was, I had worked for 10 years doing kitchen bath design for Home Depot while I kind of did my practice on the side. So I met a lot of people. It's a downtown store, very diverse, you know north side, south side, midtown, wherever- and I'd gone into Petty's- and God rest its soul right. So for something I didn't usually shop there- and there was an older, very distinguished couple and I said, oh, Tom, how nice to see you and I'm going… Usually I can remember faces but I'm like I have no idea who these people are, not a clue. You helped us with our kitchen, this, that and the other, and we still love it three or four years later. And they said: and that island. And I said, oh, the island. Oh, wait, a minute now did we do this, this? And this wasn't the island, kind of like this. I remembered the island. I could not remember who they were, but I could remember the visual, the design that we did for that. I think for better, for worse, that's where my brain wiring is. And I'm at the risk of being immodest, I'm pretty good at what I do because I think I'm working with my natural tendencies or skillset. Right. Dennis Neill: So you bring up your interest in writing and, excuse me, journalism. Let's talk a little bit more about your early introduction into publication and writing. And I do recall, right, Tom, that you were a writer for the Parachute. And I believe that was Chuck Breckridge. Tom Neal: Who's still in town. Yes. Reverend Chuck. Good. That'll be wonderful. Dennis Neill: So just talk us through, kind of chronologically, your interest in journalism, how you got involved and how the new world has impacted journalism and why you decided to stop publishing. 12 �Tom Neal: So I came back to Tulsa, I, at that point was, I mean, I had my little retail store that I wanted to do, but I also needed something else to make a little bit more money. And so Chuck was doing a newspaper, he was based in Wichita, but he was distributing the paper here. And he, I think, offered a job to sell advertising for him. So I took that with the understanding I would also write, I would write to him, I'd be the local writer. And I did that for him for a few months before I realized that I could do it myself and cut out the boss, which maybe is not very nice, but, and so that's when I started Tulsa Family News, title, definitely deliberately ironic. And but with, we were, I had an AP subscription, it was, the intention was to be within the boundaries of my skills, as good and as serious of a newspaper as we could do. And I did that, I think it was eight years. I later, the store closed because the lease ended. And I was also, I don't smoke. And being in a smoky bar till two o'clock in the morning, most of the nights of the week was just a little much. And I wound up taking a job at Home Depot and fell into the design position then. And I was just burning myself the candle at both ends, it was just too much to work full time, do the newspaper. And I finally, after eight years, just said, I’ve, I just, I can't do this. It was right on the edge of the transformation because of the Internet and that kind of thing. If you think about Dennis and Mary, when I came back to Tulsa, we were just beginning to have cell phones, because I remember the number I still had today is one that I got through the LGBT business group that, there was somebody offering cell phones at a discount to the group, and that was my first cell phone. And then personal computers were just coming in, well, had just started coming in when I was at OU in 1989, because they had the first very rudimentary CAD programs, Computer Aided Drafting. At the time I was doing this it met a need in the community, in my opinion, continue to fight battles, like trying to get Tulsa City County Public Library to let us be in the library, free distribution, which they offered without question or restriction to everybody until we ask, God bless Pat Woodrum. And then they changed the rules so that they didn't have to let us in. And I think that went on until I, let's see if I can remember his name, he was a County Commissioner at the time, and he's since, I think he lives mostly in Buena Vista, Colorado these days, but I got a hold of him and said, this would probably be a really good First Amendment lawsuit, and really embarrassing for the City County Library system that they are not allowing a publication in when their whole purpose is to promote publications and reading, and shortly after that the policy changed. Dennis Neill: To allow you back in? Tom Neal: Yeah. To allow us, yeah. Dennis Neill: Do you recall what time frame we're talking about, and how long it took to resolve? 13 �Tom Neal: I think I was doing the publication between about 94, 93, 94, and eight years later, so around 2000, so it was sometime in that period. Maybe his name is Bob, I could look it up, but yeah, yeah. You would recognize the name, yeah. Dennis Neill: And was it every two months, is that when… Tom Neal: Every month. Every month. Dennis Neill: And then who actually printed the publication? Tom Neal: Well, so that was another thing. I got turned down left and right by printers, by other people, and I finally happened to talk to Dave, I can't remember Dave's last name, more of those escaping names, but he was the publisher of the Claremore Daily News, and I drove up to Claremore, and they published it for me, and then I went back to Claremore, got it, and then I dragged my backside all over town distributing it, you know. So it was pretty much a one-person show, me, me, and me. Dennis Neill: But now, how was John Christjohn… Tom Neal: At the time, he and I were living together… Dennis Neill: As partners? Tom Neal: Yeah and we had met in Dallas and then he moved up here and we're still friends. Full disclosure, he is a tenant in one of my garage apartments. It's kind of hard to find a place to live when you have three or four dogs and no money. So not trying to throw him under the bus too much. But anyway, so he wrote for me because he was kind of part of it and sometimes, he helped with parts of it. I had a number of writers. My friend Merry Schepers, I think wrote, something about the handy lesbian or something. She did home improvement stuff. There was Mark Wright who's an attorney, Native American attorney who I think lives in DC now and he would do food reviews and honest God, the ladies who started Wild Fork, he wrote a horrible, horrible, mean review of them. And I'm like, I'm gonna publish it. Try not to censor my writers. And they were furious at me for years and did not believe me that I, they thought I'd written it. And I'm like, I'm not that much of a foodie and no, there is a person, I'm not gonna tell you his name because that's part of the deal, but I did not write it. And I think they may have forgiven me, but for about 10 years I'm pretty sure they didn't forgive me, so. Dennis Neill: How about Dyke Devine? Was she a column in your paper? You recall that? Tom Neal: Maybe. I don't remember. Dennis Neill: I think that might have been Anna Dodwell that wrote it. Tom Neal: Yeah, it might have been. Yeah, yeah, because Anna and I are still, I don't think she lives here now. Tom Neal: Yes, she does. 14 �Tom Neal: I know we, I think we're Facebook connected, but you know. Yeah, yeah. Dennis Neill: So looking over your eight years of publications, what do you consider your greatest achievement, like a storyline or investigative report? What is one of your proudest moments of being a publisher? Tom Neal: Two things. I think I did, early on, did an interview with Susan Savage, which, I mean, getting a major, to our city, public official to interview with an LGBT publication, I think that was kind of a nice little coup. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: She was mayor at the time. Tom Neal: She was mayor at the time. I kind of had to shame her into it, so, but we got there. And, and then I did an interview with Steve Largent, who was either running for Congress, no, I think he was running for Congress, but later was our congressman, first district congressman, with whom I had tremendous political, theological and philosophical differences, but he was always very, very civil. He was a very decent man, at least interacting with him as a person. I like those, those two things. I think just surviving for eight years is maybe an accomplishment. Speaker 3: What was the rest of the question? Tom Neal: There was something. Dennis Neill: That was really it. How about a low, where you really feel like... Tom Neal: The lowest low, and you might appreciate this, is when I misspelled Tahlequah in the headline above the fold. That chapped my backside. You needed a copy editor, didn't you? But it was me, me, me, me, and me. I was, I was, and it was like, it was in print. I had however many copies I had printed every month before I even realized. I'm like, oh, something about some community organizing in Tahlequah or something with Northeastern State. I don't remember that. All I remember is that I screwed it up with the spelling. That, that really, I mean, I'm sure there are other things. I think there may have been a story that they jumped and then disappeared. But, considering that that has happened in major, in like the Tulsa World and other publications, and they had a lot more people to help them than I did, maybe I'll cut myself some slack. Dennis Neill: So, Mary, you have some other questions around journalism. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Let's see, when you were writing for Chuck Breckenridge for his publication, and you thought, I can do this myself, how did it feel to go out on your own in competition with him, the man who had been your boss? Tom Neal: Well, we had not worked together for very long. I mean, it was probably only maybe three or four months. And again, I have tried over the years to make a point to be civil with people, even with whom I've had an argument in the past, or with whom I have lots of disagreements. I mean, God rest her and Joe's soul, but Nancy MacDonald and I did not see eye to eye on a whole lot of stuff, and I was very vocal about it, and I wrote about it at times, and pissed off…I think there are still gay men in this community for 15 �whom Nancy was a saint, and they're angry at me about it. But she was like another mother, or at least an aunt, and Joe and my father are the same generation, and he practiced at St. John's, he was an anesthesiologist as well. So, I mean, I guess my point is, I kind of strayed away from your original question, but my point is, we've got to be nice to each other. Even if we, I mean, I'm sure I pissed you [Dennis] off about something somewhere along the way, though you've always been so kind and gracious to me, you know. So, I'm sure there have been other people. Well, Tim and I have struggled, you know. God bless him, but even we, these days at least, I think are civil. Yes, sir? Dennis Neill: So, what was your competition during that period of time? Of course, the Gayly has continued to publish over this period of time, and just knowledge about other publications would be very helpful during your era, or really any of the time that you weren't even publishing, your interest in the other journalistic world reaching out to our community. Tom Neal: Really, other than the Parachute, there have been things before. Oklahoma City, I mean, the Gayly has always been kind of OKC-centric, you know. I mean, and it was, maybe they're doing better now, but at that time they really, they were distributed in Tulsa, but they didn't really cover Tulsa to a meaningful degree. I think Chuck got busy with other, I don't know that he continued, I don't remember how long he continued the Parachute after that. Next thing I know, he's here and he's working in a religious capacity rather than this. To be honest, Dennis, I don't think there was much. But again, about the time I was shutting down was about the time that everything, the Internet exploded, you didn't need a local news. When I started, you couldn't get this news any place else to any significant degree. I was going through AP specifically, Associated Press, specifically looking for stories of interest to the community. The Tulsa World was not covering LGBT plus stuff, and the local broadcast media, and of course I'm a print snob anyway, so, I think TV broadcast is kind of stupid news, but it has reach. Dennis Neill: So do you have any background on the Star or the Metro Star? I think they may have come after you. Tom Neal: I don't remember them much, to be honest. Dennis Neill: I guess there was some perspective, but also a publication around it. Tom Neal: Yeah, I just, again, since I don't really go out, I mean, and that was true even when I wasn't 68 years old. Dennis Neill: And, as a sign of the times, this is the month that the Gayly had to go all digital, they no longer do hard print. Tom Neal: I did not know that, wow. Dennis Neill: Yeah, Robin's been so loyal, continue that publication, but just financially realized that she could not continue to sustain a hard copy. 16 �Tom Neal: You don't do journalism for the money. It's like teaching a TCC, you don't do it for the money. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: I can verify that. Tom Neal: Yes, ma'am. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Adjunct? No, I meant about journalism. Tom Neal: Oh, yeah, about journalism, yeah, yeah, yeah. Dennis Neill: So, Tom, let's talk a little bit more about your role and knowledge and involvement with OHR, then TOHR, and then Oklahomans for Equality. So we first formed the organization in 1980. When was your first exposure to what was then OHR? Tom Neal: 1980? Probably about three years after that, and I think it had become TOHR at that point. Dennis Neill: 1985. Tom Neal: Okay. Maybe it was, yeah, maybe, yeah. I don't know. I do remember going down and going to the Aaronson Auditorium, and there was Doug Hartson, greeter par excellence, and, it was, there was always kind of a program, I've told the kids running this place they need to go back and do that some, they need to have periodic meetings and a program of some kind, but we'll see. And then, like I say, and then I was back at OU, so I was out of the picture, and I was in Dallas, and then I was back from Dallas, so... Dennis Neill: And you said in 84 was when you came back to Tulsa, is that right? Tom Neal: Yeah, I think, I think, yeah, that's why I wasn't around for OHR. I spent, maybe, I'm fuzzy with numbers, it's kind of like song lyrics and titles, I get, I have to have something to tie a memory to, but class of 80, Rice, two years in Dallas, I thought it was four years, but maybe three or four years in Los Angeles, and then back, and then working in Tulsa, probably for two or three years before I went to OU in 87. Somehow that math doesn't add up, so, maybe I was in one of those places less long than I remember, so. Dennis Neill: So you would have been dating my roommate, Mike Williams, and that would have been around 87 and 88. Tom Neal: Yeah, right before I went to OU, and that's when you and John first met, if memory serves me, and you were in that house over on Cincinnati or Boston, one of those places. Dennis Neill: Yeah, Boston Court. Tom Neal: Yeah, and I think I just signed a carport for you guys. Dennis Neill: Uh-huh, that's correct. Tom Neal: I forgot about that. 17 �Dennis Neill: So tell me a little bit about that time frame, so you were here for, I guess, a short period of time. Tom Neal: A couple years. Dennis Neill: Were you dating Mike while you were in Tulsa, or were you also... Tom Neal: No, I, we petered out, I don't know, I don't remember what happened, but yeah, I was dating him when I was in Tulsa. There's another guy with red hair, whose name I can't remember. That was when Kathleen, when I first went to work for her, she worked out of her house over by, well, kind of not far from your house, that same neighborhood. And then she went into this old red brick building over here off of, over on 3rd Street, it's kind of isolated by itself, Detroit, right, 4th and Detroit, right there, and she worked there, and then I went to OU. I'll be blunt, I don't think I've had great luck with relationships. Mr. Christjohn being one of the last ones, and it is flawed and toxic in many respects, but it's of many years' acquaintanceship. Dennis Neill: Then, 83, 84, you're back, I mean, sorry, 93, 94, you're back in Tulsa. Tom Neal: Right. Dennis Neill: You've got the store going on Silver Star, you've got your publication going, and then how did the TOHR come on your radar when you came back and your involvement, including being on the board and president? Tom Neal: Yeah, well, I got involved because I got involved in Pride, because I went to that first, I just was barely back in town and went to Pride, and it was in Mohawk Park, much to my chagrin. It was like hidden, and it was swampy, we'd had rains, not surprising, early summer in Tulsa, it was rainy, that's flood land, and it was just a big stinkin' mess. Dennis Neill: And do you recall, was TOHR actually the sponsor, or was that when the bars were still doing Pride? Tom Neal: I think it was the bars, it was the bars, because, and I had kind of an in with it, because I was, I had just started renting space from John and, was it John and Steve, who owned the Silver Star, and so I got involved in organizing it, and pushed to move it, and we moved it to Owen Park. Dennis Neill: So the next year? Tom Neal: The next year. Dennis Neill: So would that be, do you think, 94 or 95, or can you kind of? Tom Neal: Probably 94, probably 94. And that was one of the years that Mom and Dad lent me the truck, and that was, and we think, I think it was in Owen Park for a couple of years, maybe, and then other people took it over and it went different places, I mean, at one point, the parade went on Brookside, right? Dennis Neill: Yes. 18 �Tom Neal: On Riverside. Dennis Neill: The information we have, and you'll probably have a little more since you're the board president doing this, you might recall that Greg Gatewood got very involved and helped organize the 1998 Pride, which was down the sidewalks, because we didn't have a permit. Tom Neal: Right, I remember that, I covered that. Dennis Neill: And so I think Nancy and Greg worked together, and then in 99, Greg pursued the permit. So that was the first time we had it at what is now Dream Keepers, which was the Veterans Park, and we're not exactly sure when TOHR stepped back in to run Pride, but you probably were present at about around that time, I think. Tom Neal: So I think probably it's very possible that I might have kind of made that happen, that the bartenders, the bar crew kind of they were still there but kind of stepped back and I think they were only doing it because nobody else was. We also had a lot of pushback from people who were very uncomfortable moving out of the far reaches of Mohawk Park because Mohawk felt safe, and I had Owen Park, particularly at that time, a fairly neglected part of the city. it's a long way from Edison Street. It's the only major street through there. Y'all are still gonna be pretty safe and isolated in there, but it's got shade and it doesn't flood, you know. So I mean it was pretty prosaic in some place in this time, because it was definitely before Greg, Deborah Starnes and IDeborah was president at TOHR and we signed the lease for the building on Brookside that now that had a sushi place recently in the bottom, over at near Weber's Root Beer. You know it's kind of a 1940s building and owned by a local slumlord. We got lucky that we wrote into the contract that we had to make sure that the elevator was working, which apparently hadn't worked for ten years, and he had to drop some change to get it working. But we got the working elevator. I think we poured a tiny bit of concrete at the front step to make a semi-ramp to get people in and that was where you know there was, and Peterson- Claudette Peterson, was up there and one of my memories is when we were trying to get it ready to use, there was no big room in there. It had been a dental practice, is my memory, and so there are all these little rooms and we got in there and it was the bunch of guys from FUSO, which was an AfricanAmerican men's HIV outreach organization, and there's nothing like having four or five black queens with sledgehammers and me taking out the solid plaster and metal lath walls between these like five or six rooms to create the bigger room so we'd actually have a meeting space up there and fortunately they were not structural. I did check, I did check, but yeah, so we, got that all out and created that room and, I wound up putting a flagpole made out of just a galvanized metal pipe from Home Depot and clamps- because, again, we had no money, we had no budget- up on the top of the elevator shaft and we had this enormous five-by-eight flag that I bought through my store, and it kept getting stolen. People would come and take it, take it, but, yeah, but it was remarkable because suddenly, Tulsa, Oklahoma, with relatively little LGBT plus visibility, there's this big-ass gay pride flag flying over Brookside. It was really kind of lovely. Deborah Starnes and I actually personally put whatever limited funds we had at risk by signing that lease because we were personally on the hook for it. 19 �Dennis Neill: So what was the stimulus of moving from where we are at 39th and Harvard? And who actually did the research to find the space? Tom Neal: That space? I think of Deborah and I… Dennis Neill: On Brookside, did you look at several different locations? Tom Neal: I think so at one point. Now, Tim Gillian would be a good person to talk to about that, because I know he was involved in some of the researching, because I remember- and Nancy was involved as well, because at one point, we went and looked at the freaking Ambassador Hotel as a gay pride center. It was a ruin at the time before he had been renovated into this. obviously, top-flight hotel. It had been empty for at least 10 years, maybe 20 years. We, I remember looking at that. We looked at what is now the Circle Cinema. This is obscure, lost, almost lost, facts, isn't it? Dennis Neill: Yeah, we actually looked at it again in 2022. I mean 2002. Tom Neal: Yeah, Circle Cinema, part of the back roof or something was coming down on it. Somehow, and I don't know if Nancy got like Nancy was pushing, she was, she was a suburbanist at heart, so she was always pushing…Oh, we can find this shopping center out here, and I'm like we need to be more urban. Gay people use that term broadly and generically. 41st and Hudson is not an ideal location, though they made it work there, you know so. So, yeah, so that we, yeah, we did that and it was there for a while. And then there was Steve H, I don't remember. Took over Horn, yeah, came after me, and then Greg and Kerry. Then at that point I'd step back. Dennis Neill: And was it your store that was in the center? Because there's that store… Tom Neal: At a certain point I think I just gave or sold. I don't think I mostly gave the leftover merchandise I did to the center to use to sell for their benefit. Tom Neal: I don't think, because once I once- you know Steve and John, God bless himhad some dude out of Oklahoma City who thought he could- he also had a newspaper, very short-lived, and thought he could have a newspaper and have a store and still live in Oklahoma City, and so they basically said: eh, we're doubling your rent and I'm like this is not a viable project at double rent, it's barely viable at the current rent. Thanks, guys, no hard feelings. That's when I kind of shut it down, I think at one point I tried to do some sales out of one of the MCC churches, but it wasn't really…Tulsa's a challenge because there is no really gay community, physical, geographical gay community. Dennis Neill: During your period as president on the board we still have the testing clinic. I interviewed Jeremy Simmons a couple of months ago and he recalls that we did create the name Hope while it was at TOHR and all he can remember is it was kind of like a committee decision to come up with Hope. He couldn't really remember the individual that came up with that name, any recollection. 20 �Tom Neal: I don't know that. I was not part of those conversations. My recollection is they had decided and there were problems with some of the state funding- the state was being kind of homophobic is my recollection, but I don't put money on that oneand they- Jeremy in particular and others- really felt like they needed to separate from TOHR in order to continue to get the funding that they were getting from the state. And some of us were really opposed to that, just probably more because we were being cantankerous and like no, no change is scary, you know. They came in and did a really good reading of the bylaws and came in and did an emergency ambush meeting and basically just overrode the vote and separated themselves out, which probably in hindsight I guess that was the right thing to have done. Dennis Neill: Were you president at that point in time? Tom Neal: I think I might have been. Dennis Neill: And so, maybe is that when you left maybe Dee Beasley became president, or who was your vice president. Do you recall? Tom Neal: Um, no, I do not recall, but Steve Horn succeeded me. Directly after me was Steve Horn, and then, directly after him, he got a job in Dallas or someplace out of town, and then it was Greg. The only person I can think… Dennis Neill: I think maybe Dee after… Tom Neal: I don’t remember, I don’t… Dennis Neill: Dee was only president for about three months Tom Neal: I don't know when that was. The only person I would mention because he was a stalwart. John Stanley was on my board. He wasn't vice president; he was just a great trooper who would do whatever he could to help and he passed. Dennis Neill: Fortunately, we do have an interview with him. Morgan [Allen], I think around 2002. So we have his transcript on our website. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: In 2002?? Dennis Neill: No, I’m sorry, in 22. Yeah, yeah, 2022. Tom Neal: I knew what you meant. No, well, and Morgan sang a really plaintive appellation, a cappella song, at his memorial service here. Yeah, it's just achingly beautiful, and I know her from Trinity Choir. She's in the choir, I'm not, and I asked her if she would do it and it was really kind. Dennis Neill: So, Tom, coming back to the period in the 1990s when you were acting with the TOHR, do you remember when you first got involved with the organization and what kind of caused you to be so interested in taking action and a leadership role in the organization? 21 �Tom Neal: I think I more fell into it than anything else. There was maybe a vacuum. You know somebody needed to do it and nobody else seemed to be stepping up again, coming back and doing Pride literally within a week, a couple of weeks, of having returned to the city, like end of May and coming in June, and pride was in June still then. And then the next year, and you know just the realization this could be done better. And so next year, I kind of did that, I think, a couple years, and then, like I say, Debra Starnes and I got along pretty well and she ran for president and then I think she had something that she had to step down and I was vice president and so became president. I don't remember if I got reelected in my own right or not, if I just finished out her term, I just don't remember at this point. But proud of the fact that though we did not own it, but for the first time in Tulsa's history there was a physical LGBT plus center for the community Dennis Neill: Speaking of that, Greg recalls, Greg Gatewood recalls when you first put the signage up and Greg mentioned that, he said: if we put that sign up, I know there's going to be a car wreck on Brookside by people eyeing that sign and he said that day we put it up, sure enough there was a fender bender right in front of the building because somebody was looking at the sign and not paying attention. So do you recall some of those early days of the center, some of the vandalism? Tom Neal: I know we had a little bit of vandalism. I don't remember a lot of details, I think maybe somebody broke the front door one time, Dennis Neill: The glass twice. Tom Neal: Was it twice? Maybe I'm a little bit of a Pollyanna. I try to see the positive. So I maybe, I just don't remember. I mainly remember the flag being stolen because I personally was up there on the roof putting it back up and buying another one and so forth. But just in general, the only other thing I can really remember distinctly is when there was an event for Chaz Bono. You know Cher's son these days. At the time I think she still identified as a woman and I remember taking pictures of Chaz and Nancy McDonald talking in that hallway, in that great hall or small great hall that we created. Dennis Neill: I think she was here, wasn't she for a fundraiser? I believe we had it at the downtown Doubletree. I can't remember if it was for TOHR or if it was for PFLAG. Tom Neal: Could have been either, could have been either. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Dennis Neill: And were you involved with PFLAG through these years? Tom Neal: Certainly, when I was doing the newspaper, I was very supportive of PFLAG and I think I would assume that I probably donated advertising to them, certainly covered events that they had them. I seem to recall that they were often meeting at Fellowship Congregational there on Harvard and somewhere along the way became friends with the late Reverend Russell Bennett, great, great hero of mine, again kind of taking the stand back in the day when very few people were. I mean in those days, if you remember, again, before we started interviewing, we were talking about NCCJ [National Conference for Christians and Jews] and sometimes not always having support from parts of the community from whom you might have expected to get it, and I remember 22 �that Russell was out there very, very supportive, even at times when, for example, All Souls was not. They were just kind of ducking the issue, which is ironic because they were very welcoming of LGBT people as individuals, but they were not putting any of their credibility as a congregation on the line at the time, or at least that was my perception of things. Obviously not where they are today. You know so, but at that time, you know also, you know my parish Trinity was supportive of individuals, but not as out there. That whole denomination has made progress. Likewise, you know the Methodists and the Presbyterians. Dennis Neill: And was this about the time the Say No to Hate Coalition formed, or was that after your time? Do you think? Tom Neal: I think after. Again, I'm not the best person with dates. Dennis Neill: Yeah, I think it might have been after, because I know at one time I was fairly involved with it. But then Laura was very, very involved. I think she chaired it for a while. That was probably when she was president in 2004 - 2007, time frame. So talk a little bit about some of your highs and lows while you were so involved with TOHR in those early 90s. Tom Neal: I think I kind of feel like I've covered those. I mean, really. Dennis Neill: Were you having monthly meetings then? Y Tom Neal: Yeah, I think so. I think so. Dennis Neill: At that center? Tom Neal: I think so, I think so at the center, yeah. Not enormously attended, but I haven't seen enormous attendance of anything in the community since maybe the really early days at Aaronson, when it was literally almost the only game in town. So, other than I guess the bars that were all over the place. Certainly with the Internet, with people meeting each other electronically these days, I mean, there's what, maybe three bars left now, and I don't go to bars anyway. It was already a somewhat scattered community compared to maybe Dallas or Houston, where you had, a physical center to the places. And I think with the changes in media, it's even more scattered. Dennis Neill: So are you comfortable being called an activist? Tom Neal: Yeah, sure. I think it's a worthy title. I don't think these days I would make that claim anymore. I've stepped back, I’ve really focused on my, my work, my design practice. I don't remember if I mentioned to you, but I'm taking a class at TU, which I love being on campus. It's, they call it lifelong learning. It's not for credit. I call it classes for old people. It's really good because since I work out of my home and my work companions are a dog and three cats, it's nice to interact with like… Dennis Neill: What are you taking at TU? 23 �Tom Neal: I am taking Spanish. I'm just finishing my fourth semester there, motivated, prompted by a trip to Spain with one of my nephews. And I had been using Duolingo to try to learn some Spanish. And I came back from that trip feeling like I needed more formal instruction. And originally thought I'd try to take something at TCC. I had taught adjunct there for nine semesters, but they didn't have anything that wasn't online. And I wanted an in-person class. And then I live literally seven minutes by bicycle from TU. I'm like, I live across from a major university. Let me see what they have to offer. And I wound up, and it was very interesting as this long-haired senior citizen walking into a classroom full of mostly freshmen, 18- and 19-year-olds, whose eyes are getting big. It's like, who is this old guy in the class? And I'm looking like, God, they look like they're 14. It's been a really good experience. And my Spanish is progressing. Dennis Neill: Cool. So at TCC, what were you teaching? Tom Neal: I taught both art appreciation and humanities one. Dennis Neill: Did you feel welcome as an adjunct professor at TCC? Tom Neal: Yes, certainly. No issues because I was gay. Well, adjuncts are overworked and underappreciated, generally speaking. Every, probably every place in the nation, but it was a good experience. I stumbled into it. It was actually a random conversation I was having with another person, closer to my age, in the men's locker room, because I used to work for 10 years, maybe, well, maybe it's 20 years. Many years I worked out at the TCC Fitness Center because it was so close to Home Depot where I was working. And I had a conversation with a guy named Ralph saying, my undergrads in art history. I'd love to teach someday. And he said, hmm, my wife's in charge of making those assignments. I said, oh, well, tell her I would be interested. And a couple months later, I get a call at 4.45 PM on a Friday saying, we really, somebody's dropped out. And could you teach this class starting on Tuesday at 10 a.m.? Indeed, I can, but I had never seen the textbook. I hadn't seen a syllabus. I was cramming on Monday to start teaching on Tuesday, but I had a good time. The pay is crap, but I very much, and I wound up teaching initially, mostly an art appreciation class for a program they called Accelerate, where TCC took its concurrent enrollment classes out to public high schools. Students in Tulsa can take a class at TCC. Concurrent enrollment sometimes means they take it on campus. But in this case, particularly because not every student is mobile, we wound up…I wound up teaching at Tulsa Central, Hale, East Central, and then Webster and Edison. Those last two more than any other, repeated times. And it was great. I loved, I had the best and the brightest. For example, East Central is a pretty rough school. It looks like a prison, and it had high security when you walk in. But the kids I was working with were brilliant. And it was such a good experience. And then, again, Humanities I on campus was not bad. I liked that as well. That was at Metro Campus. It hasn't happened lately, but for a few years I would be randomly going around Tulsa, and somebody would say, hey, did you teach Humanities at TCC? I said, yeah. And mostly people said, I took your class. I loved your class. It made you feel really good. 24 �Dennis Neill: So, as an activist, what do you consider kind of your crown achievement? Would you say whether it's through the newspaper or your active involvement in organizations? What really gives you comfort about the view you took about being an activist in the community? Tom Neal: I think it's not any single thing, Dennis. I think it is a general pushing, expanding the envelope, pushing things forward, making it a little better than it was before. The process at OU that I worked on towards getting a nondiscrimination policy, we didn't get it, but somebody did after us. But I think the work that we did helped move us in that direction. Clearly, I think that the fact that we're sitting in this wonderful building today has its origins in the thinking that people like Nancy and Greg and... Dennis Neill: Okay. And you were talking a little bit about your activism and you feeling like it's not just one event, but you want to expand it a little bit more? Tom Neal: So, I think, I don't know whether we chopped this off or not, but I was saying that, here we are in this beautiful, wonderful building. And I think, again, back to the notion that maybe it's not any single thing that I accomplished, but being part of the process of moving us forward as a community, that, the origins of this building, to some degree, are in the building that Deborah and I signed the lease for over on Brookside. In the thinking, Nancy McDonald was very involved, Greg Gatewood…each of us working to the recognition that we need a physical place to anchor the community, particularly in a community that is kind of scattered, to all parts of the city. And I think I helped advance that. I think, maybe like before we started the interview, we were talking about our interaction with the Jewish community and maybe, helping people there to be more aware of, sometimes the intersection between LGBT issues and Jewish issues, particularly in terms of our shared history around, living through the Nazi regime. not identical experiences, obviously, but some overlap there. Part of that process…I know you can relate to this, one step forward and two steps back, or maybe it's two steps forward and one step back. When you and I first met, there were really hopes that the city of Tulsa was then, in 1980-something, going to add a non-discrimination policy. And I think you guys are really close. There was a little bit of a backlash, you know? Dennis Neill: But do you feel like there's been some backsliding over these recent years? And what would you attribute that to? And what would you tell the current generations? How can we move forward? But I'm assuming you might feel like we're backsliding in progress. What are your thoughts? Tom Neal: Well, yeah, I don't think we can take anything for granted. And I think again, as a student of history, if you look at Weimar, Germany, it was a good place for queer people in the 1920s, and then only to be followed by... I think, again, part of that shared experience or similar experience of the Jewish communities around the world and of LGBT communities is this kind of, we're always looking over our shoulders because, particularly with the current administration, could things turn south, could things go bad really quickly. I think I live with that as a little bit of a fear. I just read that the Texas 25 �Tech University system has now basically banned- it's destroyed- the women's studies, the LGBT studies, sexuality studies. You can't even write or talk about these issues. I have family who are alums, and so I put on my Facebook like, hmm, reposted, shared the story but then said: maybe we should call this fascist Tech, not Texas Tech, though Texas and fascism may be pretty good overlap these days. So, yes, are we backsliding? I think our fears are worse than the actuality. But could we backslide? I think that's real. What would I say to young people? Don't blow off your seniors completely. Some of us have some experience. You don't have to freaking, reinvent everything every time or assume that everybody who's you know older than you is an idiot and doesn't know anything, because sometimes that's how it feels. I was a little perturbed because recently this organization had a weekend seminar for rural organizing, I think, and I looked over it and it was kind of almost pro forma, by the book inclusive. We had one of these and one of these and one of these I mean in terms of racial and ethnic diversity and so forth, except for there was not a single old person in the mix. They were all Morgan's age and younger and I'm kind of like some of us might have something to contribute. Some of us have done some of this before, and I think you know again, maybe kind of one of my pet peeves- and we see it a fair amount in the, in the gay part of the LGBT community, is ageism. You know just, and- and I've been a little outspoken, calling people I say, that's kind of, that's kind of …So I think that would be kind of my, maybe the message, the answer to the question is: you know that inclusiveness is not just about, race and ethnicity or gender. You know that that many people have something to contribute. I don't know, probably if I keep talking, I'm going to say the same thing over in three different ways. Dennis Neill: Anything we haven't covered over your life to date and your reflections on what's been accomplished and what needs to be accomplished or any other comments you want to make. Tom Neal: Oh well, thank you for doing this, it's fun. It's kind of makes me remember some things that I hadn't really thought about for a while. You know I'm usually focused on work deadlines and Spanish exams and walking my dog. I'm planning my next trip because I really enjoy traveling. Dennis Neill: Where's that? Tom Neal: Next trips? This summer's trips, I think I'm going to go to Little Rock just for a long weekend, just because I've never really spent any time there. And there's the Clinton Library. Their art museum has been recently revamped, and I like to visit Episcopal Parishes when I travel, and this is going to sound so church nerdy, but they have Christ Church and the Cathedral, two different congregations within blocks of each other, and I can actually go to one service at 8 or 8:30, and the other one at 10:30, which is a lot of church. Dennis Neill: Both Episcopalian? 26 �Tom Neal: One's the Cathedral, one's just, I guess, the local church, but they're both historic because Little Rock, Arkansas is older than we are as a state. I'll probably go see my brother and go to the beach with my nephew that I traveled with in North Carolina. I'm kind of avoiding overseas travel because of you know all the unrest right now. But my nephew, with whom I travel a fair amount, he said, I want to get one last trip in August before, hopefully, I take a class at TU in the fall. And he said: well, what about Mexico City? I'm like I've been really wanting to go to Mexico City because I've never been, fits in with studying Spanish, amazing art and museums and history, and I like to mountain bike, and I even think there's mountain biking close to the city. So hopefully that'll be, that'll be that, and then next winter go skiing because that's my other thing. Dennis Neill: Tom, I really appreciate your time, your dedication to the community and everything that you've done for this organization and for the great history you've left us with the Tulsa Family News. Thank you very much. Tom Neal: Thank you, Dennis. 27 � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Series] Oral Histories Project > Interviews Description An account of the resource <strong>Physical Media:</strong> <br />Box 7, Folder 7 - Dr. Leisa Meyer Program<br />Box 7, Folder 8 - Interviewees Materials, Original Series 2003-2007<br /><br /><strong>Digital Media:</strong> Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2026] Tom Neal Interview Subject The topic of the resource Tom Neal Oral History Project Interview from April 30, 2026 Description An account of the resource In this in-depth interview, Tom Neal shares his life journey, from growing up in Oklahoma to becoming a community activist and publisher. He discusses his experiences with LGBTQ+ advocacy, the evolution of Tulsa's community spaces, and his reflections on social progress and challenges. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tom Neal, Dennis Neill Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource April 30, 2026 activism AIDS/HIV Dennis Neill Dennis R. Neill Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Equality Center Gay Rights HIV/AIDs interview journalism Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library OkEq Equality Center OKEQ Oral History Project oral history oral history interview Oral History Project oral history transcript Rainbow Library Tom Neal transcript Tulsa Family News video